March 21 - The Catholic Commentator
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March 21 - The Catholic Commentator
Commentator T H E March 21, 2014 Vol. 52, No. 3 C A T H O L I C S E R V I N G T H E D I O C E S E O F B AT O N R O U G E S I N C E 19 6 3 FROM GUN TO NUN PAGE 3 thecatholiccommentator.org FEASTING ON TRADITION Altar pays homage to St. Joseph By Barbara Chenevert The Catholic Commentator “St. Joseph has taken care of me for 30 years. I wouldn’t want to abandon him now,” said Nickie Dimaio, one of the founding members of the Grandsons of Italy, who for 36 years has put up a St. Joseph Altar in the Baton Rouge area. The 40 members of the Grandsons of Italy, a ladies auxiliary of 35 and a host of volunteers spend about six weeks preparing the traditional altar that can feed 600 to 700 people. There were casseroles to be made, rock, anise, sesame and fig cookies to be baked, pignolattis to be fried and sugared, spaghetti sauce to be prepared, fish to be fried and eggs to be boiled, all in honor of St. Joseph who long ago helped their Italian ancestors through a drought. The Grandsons of Italy’s St. Joseph Altar was displayed Lena Marie Lastrapes, Charlie Beary and Sabrina Salpietra roll and cut pignolattis, a traditional fried cookie that will be shaped into a pine cone or haystack for display on the Grandsons of Italy’s St. Joseph Altar. Photo by Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator March 15 and 16 at Sacred Heart of Jesus Church in Baton Rouge. It was one of many such altars built by parishioners of different churches throughout the diocese in connection with the March 19 feast of St. Joseph. Legend has it that in the 1500s the Italian people were faced with a drought that threatened them with starvation. The people asked St. Joseph to intercede on their behalf and pray for rain. The rains came, and in gratitude, the people erected a table with an assortment of foods they harvested, and distributed the food to the less fortunate. From there, the custom grew, and now many Italians today build elaborate altars, with pastries baked in the shape of crosses, wreaths and bishops hats; cookies; and fruits and vegetables of all sorts. The organization is working to keep the tradition alive in the Diocese of Baton Rouge. Anthony Musso said his grandfather immigrated from SEE ALTAR PAGE 21 Fasting nourishes the spirit Second in a series By Debbie Shelley The Catholic Commentator ST. PATRICK’S PARADE – Bishop Robert W. Muench throws beads to parade attendees during the annual Baton Rouge St. Patrick’s Day Parade on March 15. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator Catholics can become lethargic in their spiritual lives, running on autopilot in their relationship with God. Lent is a time to wake up the spirit, and an effective way to do that is through fasting, according to religious from the Diocese of Baton Rouge. Father Bob Stine, pastor of Christ the King Church and Catholic Center at LSU, said fasting includes any source of self denial. He referred to Plato’s comparison of the soul to a chariot being driven by two fiery young horses. Father Stine said the driver, through sin, falls asleep and the horses feel the slack of the reigns and begin to run wild. Father Stine identified God as the bystander who shouts at the driver to wake up and reign in the horses before he goes off a perilous cliff. “He is calling us by acts of self-denial to gain control of our passions and desires so that we can be free to be our truest and best selves. Eating less food, abstaining from alcohol, getting SEE LENT PAGE 7 LENT 2 The Catholic Commentator | IN THIS ISSUE | DID YOU KNOW A SEARCH OF THE SACRISTY AT SACRED HEART CHAPEL in Carville offered snapshots of the past from the historic site. PAGE 9 ST. JUDE CHURCH PARISHIONERS in Baton Rouge have become active in helping curb crime in their neighborhood, especially in the Gardere Lane area. PAGE 11 BECKY PETITE’S ANIMAL MINISTRY helps brighten the lives of many senior citizens throughout the area. PAGES 12-13 POPE FRANCIS’ FIRST YEAR as pontiff has been nothing short of extraordinary. PAGE 4 The RACIAL AND OTHER TYPES OF SLURS should no longer be an accepted part of the language in a society that respects the life and dignity of all of its members. Page 18 | IN THE NEXT ISSUE Caring for those in need and social justice are integral elements of our baptismal call. The third part of The Catholic Commentator’s series on Lent explores almsgiving, the third pillar of our Lenten sacrifices. LENT | INDEX CLASSIFIED ADS 20 COMING EVENTS 20 ENTERTAINMENT 16 FAMILY LIFE 5 INTERNATIONAL/NATIONAL NEWS 4 LETTER TO THE EDITOR 18 SPIRITUALITY 7 VIEWPOINT 18 YOUTH 14 Look for CaThoLiC CommenTaTor aT your LoCaL ouTLeTs inCLuding: ✔ Albertsons on Government St., Bluebonnet Blvd. and College Dr. in Baton Rouge and in Denham Springs ✔ Alexander’s Highland Market in Baton Rouge ✔ Ascension Books & Gifts in Gonzales ✔ Benedetto’s Market in Addis ✔ Bohning Supermarket in Ponchatoula ✔ Calandro’s Supermarkets in Baton Rouge ✔ Catholic Art and Gifts in Baton Rouge ✔ Daigle’s Supermarket in White Castle ✔ Hi Nabor Supermarkets, Drusilla and Jones Creek Rd. in Baton Rouge ✔ Hubben’s Grocery in Port Allen ✔ LeBlanc’s Food Stores in Donaldsonville, Gonzales, Hammond, Plaquemine, Plattenville, Prairieville and Zachary ✔ Matherne’s Supermarkets in Baton Rouge ✔ Magnuson Hotel in St. Francisville ✔ Oak Point Supermarket in Central ✔ Our Lady of the Lake College in Baton Rouge ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Regional Medical Center in Baton Rouge ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Physicians Group offices with locations throughout the Diocese ✔ Reeve’s Supermarket in Baton Rouge ✔ St. Elizabeth Hospital in Gonzales ✔ St. Mary’s Books & Gifts in Baton Rouge ✔ St. Vincent de Paul Stores throughout the diocese ✔ Schexnayder Supermarket in Vacherie ✔ Whole Foods Market in Baton Rouge ✔ Winn Dixie on Coursey Blvd. and Siegen Ln. in Baton Rouge, Hammond, New Roads and Ponchatoula as well as your local church parish C T H E C A T H O L I C S E R V I N G T H E D I O C E S E O F B AT O N R O U G E S I N C E 19 6 2 March 21, 2014 The ‘Good Thief’ He is known as the patron saint of second chances, of prisoners, criminals, reformed thieves, death row inmates and those who seek forgiveness. There are churches named in his honor and several pro-life and prison ministry groups bear his name. He has been called the Good Thief or the Repentent Thief, although the Bible merely refers to him as a criminal or revolutionary. He has even been given a name – St. Dismas. Saint Dismas is said to be the repentent criminal who was crucified with Jesus and asked for his forgiveness before they both died on the cross. “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom,” the criminal is quoted as saying. Only St. Luke in his Gospel passage tells the now widely known story of the Good Thief. The other Gospels merely say Jesus was crucified with two others, referring to them as revolutionaries or criminals. Even St. Luke dedicates only seven sen- tences to the exchange between Jesus and the criminals crucified with him, yet St. Dismas has been remembered throughout the ages. There is even a myth that Dismas was one of two thieves who robbed the Holy Family as it fled to Egypt to escape Herod’s orders to slay all male children under the age of 2. According to the myth, Dismas bribed the other thief, named Gestas, with 40 coins in order to protect the family from harm. Jesus then predicted the two thieves would be crucified with him, and Dismas would accompany him to paradise. St. Dismas was named a saint before there was a Congregation for Causes of Saints and a formal investigation prior to sainthood. His sainthood is based on popular devotion of the time. His feast is March 25, but it is often overshadowed by the celebration the same day of the Feast of the Annunciation, when Catholics celebrate the angel Gabriel’s appearance to the Blessed Mother to tell her she would carry Jesus in her womb. | PRAY FOR THOSE WHO PRAY FOR US Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. Mar. 24 Rev. Jon C. Koehler Dcn. Patrick J. Broussard Jr. Sr. Micha DeHart MHS Mar. 25 Rev. Sanjay Kunnasseril IMS Dcn. Barry G. Campeaux Sr. Therese Dinh ICM Mar. 26 Rev. J. Joel LaBauve Dcn. Michael T. Chiappetta Br. Alan Drain SC Mar. 27 Rev. Kenneth W. Laird Dcn. Randall A. Clement Sr. Dehra Elliot CSJ Mar. 28 Rev. Charles R. Landry Dcn. Samuel C. Collura Sr. June Engelbrecht OP Mar. 29 Rev. Keun-Soo Lee Dcn. David L. Dawson III Sr. Rosalina Tesoro Evangelista DM Mar. 30 Msgr. Gerald M. Lefebvre Dcn. Guy E. Decker Sr. Dianne Fanguy CSJ Mar. 31 Rev. C. Todd Lloyd Dcn. Benjamin J. Dunbar Jr. Sr. Ileana Fernandez CSJ Apr. 1 Rev. Matthew P. Lorrain Dcn. W. Brent Duplessis Sr. Dulce Maria Flores HMSS Apr. 2 Rev. P. Brent Maher Dcn. Jeff R. Easley Sr. Janet Franklin CSJ Apr. 3 Rev. Cayet N. Mangiaracina OP Dcn. Albert R. Ellis Jr. Br. Clement Furno CSsR Apr. 4 Rev. Samuel C. Maranto CSsR Dcn. H. John Ferguson III Br. Henry Gaither SC Apr. 5 Rev. Robert G. Marcell Dcn. Natale (Nat) J. Garofalo Sr. Carol Gonsoulin CSJ Apr. 6 Rev. Gerard R. Martin Dcn. Edward J. Gauthreaux Sr. Mary Joel Gubler OP thecatholiccommentator.org | Facebook.com/TheCatholicCommentator Bishop Robert W. Muench Publisher Father Than Vu Associate Publisher Richard Meek Editor Debbie Shelley Assistant Editor Wanda L. Koch Advertising Manager Penny G. Saia Advertising Sales Lisa Disney Secretary/Circulation Barbara Chenevert Staff Writer The Catholic Commentator (ISSN 07460511; USPS 093-680) Published bi-weekly (every other week) by the Catholic Diocese of Baton Rouge,1800 South Acadian Thruway, Baton Rouge, LA 70808; 225-387-0983 or 225-387-0561. Periodical Postage Paid at Baton Rouge, LA. Copy must reach the above address by Wednesday for use in the next week’s paper. Subscription rate: $12.00 per year. POSTMASTER, send address changes to The Catholic Commentator, P.O. Box 14746, Baton Rouge, LA 70898-4746. March 21, 2014 The Catholic Commentator FROM GUN TO NUN Sister Mary Michael trades in fatigues for habit By Debbie Shelley The Catholic Commentator Sister Mary Michael Mackey OP adored her father as she grew up. They went for walks, visited the park, went fishing or worked on the car or other projects in the garage on Saturday afternoons. A Navy veteran and devout Catholic, Sister Mary Michael’s father made sure the family arrived for Sunday Mass on time. The family later enjoyed a nice Sunday dinner. She learned after her father died when she was 9- years-old that he had served in the Navy. She remembers God speaking to her at that time, “There is no greater honor than to serve your country.” “I wanted to make him (her dad) proud. I wanted to follow in his footsteps,” said Sister Mary Michael. She, indeed, followed in the Sissteps of her earthly father Before joining the Daughters of St. Dominic, Sister Mary Michael Mackey served in the U.S. Army. Photo provided by Sister Mary Michael Mackey Sister Mary Michael Mackey spent time working for the publishing business, the FBI and the U.S. Military before entering the Daughters of St. Dominic. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator before walking the path set for her by her heavenly father as a religious sister. But she did some running before she got instep with God’s plan for her. Her faith journey is described as “from gun to nun.” She shared the story with people attending a Feb. 15 Magnificat breakfast as well as parishioners of St. Alphonsus Church and students of St. Alphonsus School. Sister Mary Michael said she first received the call to become a religious sister while in high school. She said externally, she believed she was having a “touched by an angel moment.” She said the call was like a whisper to her heart. Because she didn’t know any religious sisters, she thought, “no way,” and reasoned that she was meant to serve people through the military. Her brother, likewise, joined the military and enlisted in the U.S. Coast Guard. Sister Mary Michael spent 20 years working for a publishing company; the FBI, as a support personnel; the U. S. Air Force, gathering intelligence from satellites; and the U.S. Army, as a helicopter mechanic. After being medically discharged from the army, she went back to school and received a degree in criminology, with the thought that she would pursue a career in law enforcement. She said there she was looking at two different pathways for her life – law enforcement or religious life. But as she took her “geographic journey,” Sister Mary Michael said she was restless. “It wasn’t as if something went wrong,” Sister Mary Michael said. As thoughts about a religious vocation became stronger, a priest asked her if she had thought about being a nun. She prayed about it and decided to discern whether she was meant to become a religious sister. As she sent out applications to different religious communities and didn’t hear back from them, or said, “God if you want me to be a nun, make this happen,” and it didn’t, she thought, “I’m off the hook.” As God pulled her closer, she searched the Internet looking at religious communities but couldn’t seem to find one that was a good fit. God directed her to stop her computer search. She complied, and that’s when someone suggested she contact the Daughters of St. Dominic. She emphasized that it had the four main elements the Lord told her to look for: devotion, habit, community life and Eucharistic adoration. She also liked their joyful spirit. She is now a part of the community in Steubenvile, Ohio. Sister Mary Michael conceded that she was never comfortable with the thought of wearing a gun and possibly having to take someone’s life, even though she knew that it would have been done in duty to her country. She also worried that if she ever forgot to check or overlooked anything in the helicopters she worked on, it could result in soldiers dying if they went down. “That was heavy on my heart,” said Sister Mary Michael. Yet she salutes the military for helping to bring her back to the church. A wayward child who “got into everything,” Sister Mary Michael said even though her parents made sure she grew up in the faith, after graduating from high school and leaving home, she thought of going to church as “something old people did,” and that her relationship with God was a personal thing and stopped attending Mass. But after joining the service she started going to church. “During basic training, you went to Mass because you weren’t bothered during that time,” she explained. Sister Mary Michael, who has always enjoyed being in uniform, said she is now in God’s army. “This is my armor,” said Sister Mary Michael about her dark veil, white habit, cross and tennis shoes that help her keep up with her energetic lifestyle. Sister Mary Michael was asked by one of the students at St. Alphonsus School about her meandering journey in life, if the restlessness went away after she became a nun. She responded that she has profound peace 3 and joy. She also tells people that what God did for her, he can do for them. And Sister Mary Michael can say that during her life, which she said is like a bowl of spaghetti because it has a lot of twists and turns, she has walked in the steps of her earthly and heavenly fathers. “Now I work for the big daddy,” Sister Mary Michael said. SINCE 1979 FAST • AFFORDABLE • GUARANTEED FOR LIFE (228-4882) Call 1-800-BAThTUB or 225-753-6810 for a free in-home consultation. Walk-in Showers Ask about our $1000 discount. 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Like a good neighbor, State Farm is there. ® ® CALL FOR A QUOTE 24/7. 1001142.1 State Farm Mutual Automobile Insurance Company State Farm Indemnity Company Bloomington, IL 4 The Catholic Commentator POPE FRANCIS’ FIRST ANNIVERSARY March 21, 2014 For Pope Francis, a year of reform and evangelization VATICAN CITY (CNS) – As leader of the universal church, a pope must direct his ministry in both of the ways traditionally described by the Latin terms “ad intra” and “ad extra:” inwardly to the church itself, and outwardly to the rest of the world. Pope Francis has accordingly spent the first year of his pontificate pursuing two ambitious projects: revitalizing the church’s efforts at evangelization and reforming the church’s central administration. As he wrote in his first apostolic exhortation in November, “Evangelii Gaudium” (“The Joy of the Gospel”), Catholics must go out into the world to share their faith with “enthusiasm and vitality” – not “like someone who has just come back from a funeral.” He wrote that the church’s message “has to concentrate on the essentials, on what is most beautiful, most grand, most appealing and at the same time most necessary,” namely, the “saving love of God made manifest in Jesus Christ who died and rose from the dead.” With his affable, informal manner and simple language, Pope Francis has focused on a message of mercy, forgiveness and concern for the poor. He has taken largely for granted those elements of church teaching, including sexual and medical ethics, that contemporary culture tends to reject as censorious and intolerant. He has thus elicited extraordinary levels of curiosity and good will far beyond the ranks of practicing Catholics around the world. At the same time, the pope has carried out an all-but-explicit electoral mandate to reform the Vatican bureaucracy. A major topic of discussion at the cardinals’ meetings before the March 2013 papal conclave was the previous year’s controversy over published revelations of corruption and incompetence in the Roman Curia and Vatican City State. FREE Phone Support 7 days a week 8 a.m.–8. p.m. 1•800•CHILDREN 225-244-5373 Parenting is hard. We can help. Kidline is looking for dedicated volunteers like you. Visit us online for more information at pcal.org 270 S. Sharp Road Baton Rouge, LA 70815 (225) 924-7597 JAMES R. 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One might have predicted some tension, if not conflict, between these two goals: preaching the Gospel with renewed zeal and energy to the world’s 1.2 billion Catholics (and 5.9 billion others), while transforming the highly traditional bureaucratic culture of an enclave with fewer than 3,000 employees in Rome. The demands of governing the Vatican have presumably played a role in Pope Francis’ choice to spend little time away. For a pope who stresses the need to evangelize and serve those on society’s “peripheries,” he has spent far more time than either of his predecessors within the Vatican’s walls. Blessed John Paul visited 129 countries outside of Italy during his 26-year papacy, pioneering the role of the pope as globetrotting evangelist. Even the less peripatetic Pope Benedict XVI took as many as five international trips in a single year. Pope Francis has taken one international trip so far – to Brazil in July – and his planned pastoral trips for 2014 – to the Holy Land and South Korea – will be relatively short, only three and five days long, respectively. Yet, he has hardly cut himself off from his global flock. With the highly quotable expressions and spontaneous gestures that have made him an instant television and social media star, Pope Francis has proved he can grab the world’s attention without leaving St. Peter’s Square. The pope’s ad intra and ad extra commitments are not merely compatible; they actively reinforce each other. It is not hard to see how reforming the Vatican’s handling of money should bolster the cause of evangelization, especially the ministry to the poor on which the pope has placed such emphasis. By the same token, much of Pope Francis’ preaching – particularly his warnings against clericalism, careerism and materialism among priests – obviously applies all the more urgently to his closest collaborators in the Vatican. Most effectively, with his simplicity of life and extraordinary accessibility, the pope himself serves as the foremost model of both the evangelical poverty and the ecclesiastical service he preaches. Pope Francis’ top 10 most quotable quotes VATICAN CITY (CNS) – In his formal documents, many speeches and unscripted morning homilies the past year, Pope Francis has given the church a bounty of memorable sound bites. Here’s a look at what could be the top 10 most quotable quotes. – “Brothers and sisters, good evening. You all know that the duty of the conclave was to give a bishop to Rome. It seems that my brother cardinals have gone almost to the ends of the Earth to get him ... but here we are.” (First words as pope: March 13, 2013) – “The Lord never tires of forgiving. It is we who tire of asking for forgiveness.” (First Angelus as pope, March 17, 2013) – “This is precisely the reason for the dissatisfaction of some, who end up sad – sad priests – in some sense becoming collectors of antiques or novelties, instead of being shepherds living with ‘the odor of the sheep.’ This I ask you: Be shepherds, with the ‘odor of the sheep,’ make it real, as shepherds among your flock, fishers of men.” (Chrism Mass, March 28) – “Ask yourselves this question: How often is Jesus inside and knocking at the door to be let out, to come out? And we do not let him out because of our own need for security, because so often we are locked into ephemeral structures that serve solely to make us slaves and not free children of God.” (Pentecost vigil, May 18) – “Men and women are sacrificed to the idols of profit and consumption: it is the ‘culture of waste.’ If a computer breaks it is a tragedy, but poverty, the needs and dramas of so many people end up being considered normal. ... When the stock market drops 10 points in some cities, it constitutes a tragedy. Someone who dies is not news, but lowering income by 10 points is a tragedy! In this way people are thrown aside as if they were trash.” (General audience, June 5) – “Faith is not a light which scatters all our darkness, but a lamp which guides our steps in the night and suffices for the journey. To those who suffer, God does not provide arguments which explain everything; rather, his response is that of an accompanying presence, a history of goodness which touches every story of suffering and opens up a ray of light.” (“Lumen Fidei,” June 29) – “If someone is gay and is searching for the Lord and has good will, then who am I to judge him? ... The problem is not having this tendency, no, we must be brothers and sisters to one another. The problem is in making a lobby of this tendency: a lobby of misers, a lobby of politicians, a lobby of masons, so many lobbies.” (News conference during flight from Brazil to Rome, July 28) – “An evangelizer must never look like someone who has just come back from a funeral.” (“Evangelii Gaudium,” Nov. 24) – “Gossip can also kill, because it kills the reputation of the person! It is so terrible to gossip! At first it may seem like a nice thing, even amusing, like enjoying a candy. But in the end, it fills the heart with bitterness, and even poisons us.” (Angelus, Feb. 16) – “The perfect family doesn’t exist, nor is there a perfect husband or a perfect wife, and let’s not talk about the perfect mother-inlaw! It’s just us sinners.” A healthy family life requires frequent use of three phrases: “May I? Thank you, and I’m sorry” and “never, never, never end the day without making peace.” (Meeting with engaged couples, Feb. 14) March 21, 2014 FAMILY LIFE The Catholic Commentator 5 Parents can help children enter into Christ’s passion By Debbie Shelley The Catholic Commentator “Jesus Loves Me, This I know,” is one of many songs children sing as they receive their first glowing lessons about how much God cares for them. Lent is a time when parents can teach their children the realities of Christ’s suffering and death on a cross that he underwent out of his deep love for them. A good way to introduce children to Christ’s passion is to pray the Stations of the Cross with them, either at church or by using a children’s Stations of the Cross. Some children’s stations urge the child to draw the station, said Cherry Riggs, director of children’s faith formation at St. George Church in Baton Rouge. While reflecting on the stations, families can connect Jesus’ passion with their lives by asking questions such as, “What do I do when someone is being wrongly blamed for something?” or “Am I sorry for the pain that I have caused others?” Furthermore, parents can explain that though people are made in God’s image, they sometimes turn away from him, which is why Jesus came into the world and suffered and died for their sins. “You can help them understand that Jesus loves them so much that he was willing to do anything to follow God’s I “You can help them understand that Jesus loves them so much that he was willing to do anything to follow God’s will.” Cherry Riggs Director of Children’s Faith Formation St. George Church, Baton Rouge will,” Riggs emphasized. Parents can emphasize that Jesus’ passion models to them how they can sacrifice out of love for him. Children might donate to charity by giving a portion of their allowance or the proceeds from a lemonade stand that they set up. They might also forgo some of their favorite activities to pray more. Parents can also give their sons and daughters children’s Bibles. There are many excellent family Lenten activity suggestions on websites such as loyolapress.com and catholicmom.com, stated Riggs. Parents can also tap into resources and activities, including family nights, provid- ed by their parish’s school of religion and Catholic schools. Riggs said St. George family night projects have explored Lenten topics including Stations of the Cross; activities that help support Catholic Relief Service’s Operation Rice Bowl, which invites Catholics to support the hungry throughout the world through praying, fasting and almsgiving; the making of resurrection eggs; discussions on the blind man healed by Jesus and where they have failed to see the goodness of Christ; and how they can bring the light of Christ to th world. This year, the St. George fourth- and fifth-grade PSR students and their parents learned about the Sedar meal, the Jewish ceremonial meal that marks the beginning of Passover. The meal recounts the story of the Israelites’ exodus from Egypt. Riggs said children played an active part in the meal, because the ceremonial script has parts where children ask questions about Passover. Riggs highlighted the relevance of the Sedar meal to Christians in that Christ celebrated a Passover meal before his passion. At St. Aloysius Church in Baton Rouge, catechists and first- through sixth-grade students discussed the meaning of Lent, said Tricia Greely, director of family ministries at St. Aloysius. Students then took home resources including a Lenten calendar, Stations of the Cross and Lenten stories and materials for discussion about the meaning of Easter. Their families received materials to participate in Operation Rice Bowl. Parents were encouraged to have their child receive the sacrament of reconciliation and to pray the Stations of the Cross. “The parish goals and prayers are that our parish families walk the Lenten journey with their child and share their own experience of Lent with them,” Greely said. At St. Aloysius School, students received an Operation Rice Bowl bank, said Edie Boudreaux, coordinator of religious education at the school. Inside each rice bowl is a calendar with information and ideas for families to celebrate Lent. The calendar features a different country that benefits from Operation Rice Bowl and meatless meal recipes for Friday dinners. Boudreaux said many parents have joined the students in the school’s daily prayer services. “During Lent, the prayer will focus on one aspect of Lent, prayer, fasting and thanksgiving. The daily prayer services reflect on one of the readings of the day and explains how the reading is related to these Lenten practices,” Boudreaux said. The government and matrimony in America n January, The Chronicle of Higher Education ran a special issue about a federal program to promote healthy marriages, run by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. The “HHS family of agencies,” as it calls itself, comprises 11 operating divisions and 10 regional offices. One is the Office of Family Assistance, which runs the Healthy Marriage Initiative. It’s hard to say how much the initiative costs, but it has about $60 million in grants outstanding. Here’s how it works. Recruiters seek out poor parents, in places like hospitals and foodstamp offices, and offer them money and other inducements to attend 13 weeks of relationship education. A mere $60 million is small potatoes for an agency like HHS, but it comes to about $11,000 per couple for the program participants. The results are disappointing. A three-year study of eight grantees found couples who took part were no more likely Guest Opinion John Garvey to stay together or get married than the control group. Fathers did not spend more time with children. Children were not more secure. Some programs showed negative outcomes, which is to say, the control group did better. The Chronicle article asks, “Why aren’t we pulling the plug?” It doesn’t seem unreasonable to spend money to encourage young parents to marry and stay married. However ineffec- tive this program has been, it does focus on a principal cause of the ills that afflict children and families. Consider the much-discussed problem of growing economic inequality. A new study by Harvard economist Raj Chetty indicates that the best predictor of economic mobility is the percentage of children who live in intact families. The program’s failure is more disappointing because it is that rare solution that claims bipartisan support. Presidents Bush and Obama have both been fans. Isn’t it odd that we have engaged the federal government to teach young people about healthy marriage and relationship skills? I don’t just mean “odd” in a constitutional or political sense. I mean “odd” because HHS, as an institution, knows so little about love and marriage. In the past we learned about those things from our families, our churches, parochial schools and other private associations. Today we look to Washington. I am reminded of the passage in “Democracy in America” where Alexis de Tocqueville speaks about the progress of the temperance movement: “I came to understand,” he says, “that these hundred thousand Americans, frightened by the progress of drunkenness around them, wanted to support sobriety by their patronage. ... One may fancy that if they had lived in France each of these hundred thousand would have made individual representations to the government asking it to supervise all the public houses throughout the realm.” These days, we’re more like France. Private institutions and individuals will always understand love, marriage, child rearing and families better than the government does. Remitting to them the task of restoring marriage asks each of us to contribute a lot of arduous and unpaid work. That may explain the appeal of asking the government to manage our relationships. But – no surprise – the evidence indicates that that doesn’t work. GARVEY is president of The Catholic University of America in Washington. Honor Those We Love. G ARDENS OF M EMORY & F UNERAL H OME - C REMATORY - M AUSOLEUMS 11817 Jefferson Highway 225-753-1440 w w w. R e s t h av e n B a t o n R o u g e . c o m 2x2” Rest.small.honor.those’13 6 The Catholic Commentator March 21, 2014 Sign of cross passing church; CatholicMatch and divorced Q I have some questions regarding a practice I observed as a child (in the 1970s). While they were passing in front of a church (either walking or in a car), I used to notice some people making the sign of the cross. I’m not sure whether this was just a personal custom or one endorsed by the church. Are you familiar with this practice and, if so, how did it originate? Is it an appropriate sign of reverence? (Des Moines, Iowa) not aware of any official “endorsement” of this practice by the church, but such a gesture of faith is a long-standing custom – particularly in Ireland but also in Italy and the Philippines. I know that some people when passing a church make the complete sign of the cross, employing the entire hand on the forehead, breast and both shoulders, but more often, it seems, just the thumb is used. Interestingly, that simple cross on the forehead seems to have been the original sign used to indicate a Christian’s belief in the redemptive death and resurrection of Jesus, before it developed into the wider gesture. The theologian Tertullian, in the year 211 A.D., in a work called “The Chaplet,” wrote: “In all our actions, when we come in or go out, when we dress, when we wash, at our meals, before resting to sleep, we make on our forehead Question Corner Father Kenneth Doyle A Yes, I am familiar with this practice. I’m not sure whether it was taught to me by my mother or by the nuns in school. Ever since I was a child, whenever I pass a Catholic church I make the sign of the cross with my thumb on my forehead, as a priest does to a child at baptism. I do this as a sign of reverence for Jesus, present in the tabernacle. I’m the sign of the cross. These practices are not commended to us by a formal law of Scripture, but tradition teaches them, custom confirms them and faith observes them.” I also am aware of gentlemen tipping their hats when passing a church and of people making the sign of the cross when passing a cemetery (as a “quick prayer” for those buried there) or when an ambulance or fire engine goes by (asking God for a favorable outcome to that emergency). Q If a widow cannot marry a divorced man, why are local churches advertising Catholic Match.com, which lists numerous divorced Catholic men looking for a wife? (Monmouth County, N.J.) A You’re right: A widow cannot marry a divorced man in a Catholic marriage – unless that man has had his earlier marriage annulled by the church. CatholicMatch.com is an online dating service that says its purpose is to “help single Catholics be in a better position to find their spouses and have successful marriages.” Your question prompted me to contact CatholicMatch.com to ask whether, in fact, they were helping to find partners for those ineligible to marry with the church’s blessing. Their response quoted their published caution: “Please be aware that divorced members who are not free to marry in the Catholic Church are permitted to use CatholicMatch but not for romantic purposes. If this is your situation, we encourage you to contact your parish priest or diocesan marriage tribunal to determine if you are a candidate for the annulment process.” To clarify even further, I emailed them back, asking what would be a “nonromantic” purpose for using a dating service, and they explained, “Divorced members who aren’t eligible to use the site for romantic purposes generally use the site as a ‘support system’ as they go through the annulment process.” FATHER DOYLE is chancellor for public information in the Diocese of Albany, N.Y. Send questions to askfatherdoyle@ gmail.com and 40 Hopewell St., Albany, NY 12208. 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The soul, like the body, can become flabby if not exercised, said Father Stine. Fasting and sacrifice are part of the exercises that keep the spirit alive and in shape. Sacrificing is necessary if people are to achieve the greatest good in their lives, said Father Stine. He advises students if they want to make good grades, they may have to fast from watching TV or spending time on the computer. If they want to stay awake during an afternoon class, they will want to eat a light lunch. People can also fast for the greater good of the world. They can fast from some of their favorite activities to pray for those in need. They can donate the money they save from fasting to Catholic Relief Services to feed the malnourished. Fasting is more mature than dieting, Father Stine said. He stated people on a diet who are told they look good have their reward. “Fasting is different. It’s simply not to look better, but to do better for someone else,” Father Stine said. Fasting also helps people identify with the less fortunate of the world, noted Father Stine. F Fasting brings people closer to God through reliance on him. File photo “People who have a comfortable life may not have compassion for the poor,” he said. Father Richard Andrus SVD, pastor of St. Paul the Apostle Church in Baton Rouge, urged people to fast throughout the year in order to pray for all humanity. He said for the more fortunate, fasting is a voluntary form of prayer for those who have nothing to eat. He noted that 16 per- cent of U.S. citizens go hungry. A good way to approach fasting is to fast from negative things in order to gain something positive, according to Father Andrus. He urged people to fast from negativity, criticism, anger, self-hatred and other sinful activities. He said people should go further than refraining from negative habits by replacing it with positive ones. For example, if one talks negatively about another person, they should find goodness in the person and tell others about it. Fasting, far from being self-punishment, is also an acknowledgment that everything is a gift from God, said Deacon Steve Gonzales, deacon assistant at Holy Rosary Church in St. Amant. While people may experience discomfort or irritability while fasting, it should drive them to deeper prayer as they seek God’s help in order to endure during the sacrifices that they are making. Fasting reminds people that they do not get through trials on their own. “Fasting is a reliance on our Lord,” Deacon Gonzales said. When fasting from food, Deacon Gonzales said, people should not go overboard. “It’s sacrifice, not mortification,” said Deacon Gonzales. Done properly, fasting should be beneficial for people’s health, he said Father Stine, Father Andrus and Deacon Gonzales each emphasized that prayer, fasting and almsgiving are interrelated and work together. In the case of fasting, it is both a form of prayer and a catalyst to be more generous in their almsgiving. Next: Almsgiving. Joy, even in darkness, is the hallmark of a Christian or many parts of the Northern Hemisphere, this has been the winter of our discontent. Snowstorm upon snowstorm blanketed great swaths of the United States. Ice brought cities in the Southern U.S. to a virtual standstill, while Canada and Alaska experienced disconcerting periods of warmth. The British Isles were hit by massive flooding. During one particular harsh week of subzero wind chills, I realized why they call it “the dead of winter.” I must admit my spirits lagged and I dreaded getting out to the grocery store. Some people suffer from what’s called seasonal affective disorder and struggle to maintain their good humor in the long winter months. When the Christmas lights all dimmed, I experienced a bit of that struggle. I think we all yearn for change this year. And so, here we are, with the season of change upon us, into the heart of Lent. It’s no wonder we look ahead to Lent with something resembling giddiness. Spring and resurrection cannot be far behind. We sense there is change in the air, there’s an indication of this We know what one misguided robin knows in his heart, that the season of change is here. It is exactly the way the Christian should approach this solemn penitential season: with joy and expectation. For The Journey Effie Caldarola ancient Earth rotating on its axis, and there is a feeling that newness is upon us. As I write this, another round of below normal temperatures is hitting my city. Yet, to my unbelieving eyes, I spotted a robin in the backyard yesterday. I don’t know where the poor little guy is today, but somehow I took hope from his courage. All of this readiness for spring coincides with Lent. We know what one misguided robin knows in his heart, that the season of change is here. It is exactly the way the Christian should approach this solemn penitential season: with joy and expectation. Sometimes we don’t think of joy and Lent at the same time. It is a period of sacrifice, of meditating on the great sacrifice and suffering of Christ, done for our benefit. We know how the story ends. This hope is the foundation of our faith. St. Paul wrote that “if Christ has not been raised, your faith is vain.” Even when our spirits lag, and darkness is all around us, we remember the joy of the saving presence of Christ, the God of rebirth, the God of second chances, the God of forgiveness, the God who brings early morning light back into the winters of our lives. Lent presents us with the gifts of fasting, prayer and almsgiving. They help us focus on needed change in our lives, and on the change for which we yearn. They help us focus on the neediness, the sinfulness, the emptiness in us, but they do so always in the spirit of joy. When Pope Francis was asked by an interviewer to express who Pope Francis was, he replied, “I am a sinner.” But Pope Francis said this with a smile, because he believes that, like us, he is a beloved sinner. It’s no accident that Pope Mr. D’s Francis named his first letter to us, “The Joy of the Gospel.” A newly ordained priest told my husband that when he met Pope Francis in Rome, the pope told him that in his vocation, he must “always be joyful.” Joy is the hallmark of the Christian. Even in a time of penitence, the Christian lives with a sense of joy. Even in the darkness of winter, the Christian has faith in the rebirth of spring. Focus on change this Lent, but experience change through the lens of joy. CALDAROLA, writes a general-interest column, and can be reached at Catholic News Service, 3211 Fourth St. N.E., Washington, DC 20017. 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Visit our website at www.diobr.org/vocations for a complete list of Seminary Scholarship Funds. Contributions November 2013 through February 2014 Archbishop Antoine Blanc In Memory of: Deceased Members of KC #8878 By: Knights of Columbus #8878 149.00 In Memory of: Lottie Daigle By: Louis/Belinda Daigle 20.00 Joseph/Linda Daigle 20.00 In Memory of: Landry and Lottie Daigle By: Vivian Morrant 20.00 In Memory of: Humpfrey Olinde 50.00 In Memory of: Joe Mallett 50.00 By: Archbishop Antoine Blanc Assembly #2047 In Memory of: Ms. Hazel Casadaban 50.00 In Memory of: Joe Mallett 50.00 By: Knights of Columbus #7856 In Memory of: Norma Le Duff 20.00 In Memory of: John Henry Cline 20.00 By: M/M James Robert Sr. In Memory of: Norma LeDuff By: Mark/Brenda Hurst 15.00 $17,601.31 Brian Blanchard In Memory of: His Anniversary 100.00 By: Marian L. Blanchard $21,945.00 Louis and Nita Bonfanti By: Louis/Lisa Bonfanti Jr. 200.00 $1,050.00 Father Matthew Faschan By: M/M L. F. Aguillard 250.00 $3,307.89 Father Maynard “Tippy” Hurst In Memory of: Curtis Charrier Bill Bailey Josie Peeples Gloria Parrino Nick Bravata Diomedesa Son Johnny Marx Rickt Bosarge Charlotte Kelleher Judy Decateau Thomas Vaughn Earline Chatelain Yvonne Litton James Willis Lawrence Nguyen By: Court St. Francis of Assisi # 1915, Roberta Farrell, Renee Caruso, Lisa Gueho, Dot Devillier, Barbara Schmitt, Rita Valentine, Charlene Wilson, Ida Mae Alonzo, Margaret Blackwell, Pat Pavlovich, Lyn Deville, Patricia Ryan, Betty Baughman 413.00 $7,776.00 NEW: Alvy Dee and Rezette Alleman Jenkins Family Living and Deceased By: Rezette A. Jenkins 3,000.00 $3,000.00 Father Aubry Osborn By: Constance Butler Chapter #9 50.00 $10,904.35 Serra Clubs of Baton Rouge By: Robert Bogan 200.00 $10,175.00 Tomorrows Priest In Honor of: Father Frank Bass By: Patricia Vidrine 200.00 In Memory of: Mary Pivonka By: Stephen/Marilynn Lacy & John/Kathy Bona 50.00 By: John/Kathryn Graham 100.00 Albert J. Waguespack By: Jacqueline Waguespack 200.00 Carl/Ellie Sandlin and Children 250.00 Deacon Francis A. Waguespack In Memory of: Beck Hymel By: M/M Percy J. Legendre Jr. 25.00 Msgr. John A Weber By: Joyce Weber 500.00 $14,850.75 $17,094.41 $4,125.00 $59,021.22 Additional Scholarship Funds Monsignor James J. Finnegan ...........................................$5,275.41 Monsignor Andrew Frey ..................................................$77,800.00 Monsignor Leo Gassler.....................................................$20,100.00 Monsignor Paul J. Gauci ..................................................$20,000.00 Edward C. Gauthier ..........................................................$20,940.16 Monsignor Patrick Gillespie ............................................$20,000.00 Monsignor Cage Gordon ..................................................$20,000.00 Mr. & Mrs. A. X. Guillot ................................................$20,000.00 Kathlyn Elise Heroman ....................................................$20,000.00 Father Salvador Impastato...............................................$20,000.00 Alene Kaylor .......................................................................$18,518.68 Rev. Vincent Kleinpeter ....................................................$20,000.00 Father Wilfred Knobloch .................................................$20,000.00 Mr. & Mrs. Albert J. Koppel ...........................................$20,000.00 Father John Koppel ...........................................................$20,115.00 Monsignor Paul Landsman ............................................$20,000.00 Gerald T. Leblanc ..............................................................$20,475.00 Edith Louise Leonard .......................................................$10,000.00 Monsignor Louis E. Marionneau ...................................$20,000.00 Monsignor Louis E. Marionneaux #2 ............................$20,000.00 Fathers Martens & Perino ...............................................$24,045.00 Thomas Beatty Mary ........................................................$18,483.63 Dr. McCaa and Monsignor Marionneaux .....................$20,000.00 Father Charles McConville ..............................................$20,000.00 John McGinnis .....................................................................$6,238.46 Father Joseph E. McLaughlin .........................................$19,424.06 Deceased Members of KC Council #3298 ...................... $6,721.39 Deceased Members St. Alphonsus KC Council #3331 $20,000.00 Deceased Members of KC Council #4030 ....................$20,000.00 Deceased Members of Pierre Part KC Council #5352 ..$1500.00 Deceased Members of St. Gabriel Ladies Altar Society $2,200.00 Father Patrick Mille ..........................................................$20,000.00 Mary Catherine Muench .................................................... $1,675.00 Murphy and Wallace Families...........................................$1,656.42 Monsignor Charles J. T. Murphy ....................................$20,000.00 Mr. & Mrs. C. J. T. Murphy.............................................$20,000.00 Fred Nacol ...........................................................................$15,862.30 Monsignor John Naughton .............................................$20,000.00 Father Aubry Osborn........................................................$10,854.35 Bishop Stanley J. Ott .........................................................$26,539.50 The Ott and Berthelot Families .......................................$20,000.00 Pioneering Fathers of Grosse Tete Ridge....................... $19,499.44 George R. Reymond ..........................................................$20,000.00 Monsignor Leonard Robin...............................................$21,124.16 March 21, 2014 Adoption agency accredited By Barbara Chenevert The Catholic Commentator Catholic Charities’ Maternity and Adoption Services for the Diocese of Baton Rouge has been reaccredited by the Hague Convention’s Council on Accreditation, a destination that means the agency ensures the best interest of children in handling international adoptions. “We are pleased that we were reaccredited. This allows us to continue to provide international adoptions for families in this diocese and all of Louisiana,” said Paula Davis, clinical director and international adoption social worker for the diocese. Maternity and Adoption Services is one of three local agencies that have been accredited. Hague accreditation means the agency is committed to best standards of adoption and operates under the principle of what is in the best interest of the child, Davis said. Some of the standards required for accreditation include: not offering incentives for birth parents to give their children up for adoption; no preferential treatment in home studies or placements; a properly trained staff with continuing education every two years; and at least 10 hours of training for adoptive parents. Maternity and Adoption Services was first accredited by Hague in 2010. The accreditation is good for four years. The accreditation gives the agency more flexibility in placing children because some countries and agencies will only work with Hague approved agencies, Davis said. In July the Universal Accreditation Act will take effect that will set standards for agencies dealing with international adoptions to ensure ongoing monitoring and oversight of adoption service providers. Those standards are the same as Hague requires, Davis said, so the diocesan agency will already be in compliance. The Universal Accreditation Act will help minimize bad practices in adoption, Davis said, adding often times there are no repercussions for agencies that do a poor job of protecting children and adoptive parents. March 21, 2014 The Catholic Commentator 9 Search of sacristy provides snapshot of Carville history By Richard Meek The Catholic Commentator Myra Tircuit eagerly opened the door of an aging cabinet and out popped history. Tircuit, along with diocesan archivists Ann Boltin and Katie Oubre, recently spent a day perusing old closets and cabinets at Sacred Heart Chapel in Carville. Each creaking of the hinges yielded another chapter from a remarkable past. The hunt surfaced vestments of numerous hues dating to well before Vatican II, engraved chalices, patens and even relics, which surprised Tircuit. “Those relics, I didn’t think anything for those being relics,” she said. “Whenever they started getting into it, and there’s four of them, I realized this is something.” There were also blankets from Guatemala. Included in the findings were a number of tabernacle veils, which Boltin did not recognize. They have not been in use since Vatican II. “The veils were interesting because I had never seen one before,” she said. “I did not know what it was.” “(The items) are special because it’s not just the stuff that was provided,” Boltin added. “I think pretty much everything (at the chapel) was donated. There were items there that the patients created. That was their special place.” Creating the most buzz however, was a piece of paper stained with age which is believed to be a proclamation from the Vatican directed to Sister Katherine Sullivan DC, who, according to Boltin, played a significant role in having the chapel built in 1934. Old chalices and other liturgical items were found at Sacred Heart Chapel when Tircuit searched them. Many of the items were pre-Vatican II. “The (Daughters of Charity) were instrumental in getting absolutely everything,” Bolton said. “There is nothing over there that they did not have their hand in getting. And they started from nothing.” Boltin recalled how the nuns helped establish what would become the country’s only leprosy hospital in Carville, when the disease remained a mystery to medical experts. The patients were transported from Hotel Dieu Hospital in New Orleans to Carville, the site of an old plantation, on a barge in the darkness of the night in the late 1890s. At that time, patients were quarantined and remained so until approximately 50 years ago when it was discovered the disease was a virus and not contagious. The Daughters of Charity were able to get the chapel constructed and they remained on site until 1996. Bolton said her staff will attempt to identify and catalog what was found. She said she hopes some of it can be re-purposed at either local parishes or perhaps in other parts of the world. Previously, the diocese has sent vestments that were not able to be used locally to a mission. “We’re trying to identify the art work and what’s out there,” Bolton said. “We found a lot of vestments, a lot of those tabernacle veils. “We do a full catalog of everything, then we have to make some hard decisions.” Boltin said some of the articles, including a couple of ciborium, are in disrepair. She added her office will consult with diocesan officials to develop an appropriate method of disposal. “You have to dispose of things in a respectful manner,” she said. “We try to put it to good use but if it’s something that can no longer be used then we have to make a decision.” Tircuit came across many of the items several years ago after Sacred Heart became a mission chapel for St. Gabriel Church Parish in St. Gabriel, where she serves as DRE and administrative assistant. She was not sure what was there or what to do with the items, so she contacted Boltin. “It’s interesting to me just to go back,” Tircuit said. “An advantage of being a lifelong member of the community is that when I was growing up it was always the Hansen’s disease center, then later it was the federal bureau for prisons and it changed. Now it’s the National Guard.” “Even though time has changed and things have changed the constant down there is the faith community,” she added. “The church and the role that it played in the lives of the people. The patients, the prisoners when the prison was there. Now the young men and women at Youth Challenge Program. St. Gabriel Church Parish administrative assistant Myra Tircuit holds up an old tabernacle veil found in the sacristy at Sacred Heart Chapel in Carville. Tircuit and diocesan archivists Ann Boltin and Katie Oubre recently spent a day going through cabinets and closets in the sacristy. Photos by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator “We don’t use the veils over the tabernacle anymore but the tabernacle is still there and it’s part of history.” Boltin said some of the items likely will be loaned to the National Hansen’s Disease Museum, which sits near the chapel, for an exhibit dedicated to the chapel. “I think it’s wonderful,” Boltin said. “Carville is one of those places that is so special. “It would be a nice tribute to the people who served there.” • Cruises • Tours • All-Inclusive Vacations • • Groups & Incentive Travel • We Love Groups! We Specialize in Fundraising & Church Groups! You bring the group, we do the work! Call for details. 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Photo by Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator St. Jude parishioners curb crime in neighborhood By Barbara Chenevert The Catholic Commentator “We pray on the street corner, hold hands and then knock on doors. We’re out of our Catholic comfort zone.” That’s how Carol Goldsmith describes the efforts of St. Jude Church parishioners who have joined with other churches, businesses and civic leaders in trying to reach out to residents of the Gardere Lane area in Baton Rouge. St. Jude is a stockholder in the Gardere Initiative, an organization that strives to address drug abuse and other issues in the once crime ridden area, which lies just south of the church. The latest effort of that group is to open a free library, office and education center, where Gardere residents can come for tutoring, have access to computers, nutrition programs, parenting classes, prayer and Bible study. The office, a converted apartment located on Ned Avenue, was formally dedicated Jan. 25 after the group received a grant from the South Burbank Crime District to help pay rent and make improvements to the building. Some of the rent was diverted with sweat equity after volunteers made repairs to the apartment. Goldsmith and volunteer Reggie Brown, both parishioners of St. Jude, said they want the people of the area to know that they are “part of our parish.” The Gardere Lane area, particularly the west side south of Burbank, has been notorious as a high crime area and a haven for drug dealers. “The drug dealers feel like they can come out here and they do,” Goldsmith said. But she added the sheriff’s office has been active in the community and quickly solves many crimes there. And, Brown added, “No matter what happens, we are here to stay.” Both Brown and Goldsmith said the area has been steadily improving. In its first week of operation, the center already was helping residents of the area prepare for the HiSet, a high school equivalency test, and holding cooking demonstrations, using the vegetables grown in a community garden in the nearby HartleyVey BREC park. A free library set up in front of the apartment offers residents from elementary school age to adult an opportunity to read. Part of a nationwide program known as “Little Free Libraries,” the local program makes books available free of charge. Basically you take a book and put one back in, Brown said, of the homemade structure which houses the donated books. On Jan. 21, Martin Luther King Day, more than 500 books were distributed. The apartment is equipped with computers to give Internet access to nearby residents. Tutors from St. Jude and other churches will be available to help students after school and intercessory prayer will be held on Thursdays. Goldsmith credited Gardere Initiative member Murelle Harrison and its president Caulette Jackson with being instrumental in getting the new office set up and in being creative in bringing services to the area. In the meantime, parishion ers of St. Jude plan to roll up their sleeves, knock on doors and let the people know what services are available. The interaction is important, Goldsmith said. “We want them to know that we are concerned about you. You are not forgotten and you are not bad. You are valued.” May 19 – July 25, 2014 BUILD A BASKET When families are struggling to exist on low incomes, just paying the rent and putting food on the table is difficult. Needy children learn at an early age that there’s nothing in the budget for extras. Things like Easter baskets are luxuries their families simply cannot afford. 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Drop your gift off at our St. Vincent de Paul Main Charitable Campus, located at 220 St. Vincent de Paul Place, Baton Rouge, LA 70802. 12 FARM MINISTRY The Catholic Commentator | March 21, 2014 March 21, 2014 | The Catholic Commentator 13 Animal ministry brings delight to senior citizens Earl Lewis, a member of the youth group, said he was there because he is “good with animals and wants to help other people,” but showed he everly Hebert remembers when she had was a typical teenager when he quickly added he her own horse as a child. “It stepped on carried a bunny instead of a chicken “because he my foot,” she said with a laugh, recalling didn’t want to deal with the poop.” days gone by. Sarah Aldridge, a student at Dutchtown High, Now the smile on her face is provided by likes to help people and loves animals, so bringBecky Petite and a group of young high school ing the animals to the nursing home is a perfect students and com- ministry for her. munity volunteers Inside the nursing home, resident Pearl Poche who bring animals held a dog and talked about how she looks forto the nursing home ward to the group coming each year. “I love Hebert calls home. them,” she says, “Oh, look at this one,” she adds “This has brought with excitement as a pony approaches her chair. joy and excitement Resident Dodie Melancon talked about how to my life,” Hebert much she loved the animals and thanked the said, as she pets a young people for coming. pony. “We had old Volunteer Velda Smiley sees God’s love at work. MacDonald’s farm, “Some of these residents have no one to talk to. I we had so many know it’s for the residents, but we get a lot out of animals when I was it. It’s so good to see happy faces.” young,” she recalled. She said the residents will tell the teens stories Petite, a former of their youth, as they share a moment with the special education classroom para-professional, animals: like Annabelle Bourque who recalled now has what she lovingly calls a “farm minis- that she used to “go to bed with the animals evtry,” in which she brings her ponies, chickens, ery night.” rabbits, goats, guinea pigs and dogs to area nursIan Pererira, who belongs to the church youth ing homes. On Feb. 15, she visited the Gonzales group, commented that some of the residents Healthcare Center with the assistance of the have no one to talk to as he carried a rabbit youth group from St. John the Evangelist Church around with him, talking to residents and letting in Prairieville and other them pet the animal. volunteers. Petite, who has raised “Miracles can take place” animals all her life, shares with interaction between her ministry not only with people and animals,” said nursing home residents, Petite who annually visbut with special needs chilits Gonzales Healthcare. dren. She also provides “Some of the (nursing home) animals for a living nativregulars can’t wait. When ity. “I’m just the vessel,” they see us, they starting she said. “God sends everywheeling their chairs down one who is needed” for this the hall.” ministry. Becky Petite The interaction with the After the nursing home Farm Ministry Founder animals can bring out the visit, Petite thanked the best in the residents. “I see a glow in them,” Petite teens, telling them they have answered God’s said. “We put a rabbit in the lap of one lady who call. “At your age I was not at a nursing home was blind and you could see her mellow. There is on Saturday, I can assure you of that. You have something special between people and animals.” made the day of these residents.” She then invitSt. John youth group coordinator Ashley ed the youth to share their experiences. AmanBourgeois said the animals also break the ice for da Guedry said she talked to one lady who was the youth to start a conversation with the older thrilled because she had not petted an animal in people. “Sometimes it is hard to break the barrier a long time. Another teen said a resident told her with people you don’t know. Animals tend to be she now has a new best friend. able to do that,” she said. But volunteer Linda Lamy’s story topped them Volunteer Payton Granier, who likes to show all when she said one resident told her the brown off the bunnies, said she has been coming for rabbit she was holding “would be good in a jammany years “just to bring smiles to everyone.” balaya.” B Beverly Hebert pets a pony held by volunteer Sylvia Durio. By Barbara Chenevert The Catholic Commentator “Some of the (nursing home) regulars can’t wait. When they see us, they starting wheeling their chairs down the hall.” Skittles, the pony, with Sam Guidry and Sylvia Durio. Senior citizen Dodie Melancon is delighted by the rabbit that visited her nursing home. Velda Smiley, left, who volunteers with this farm ministry, said she sees God’s love at work in the faces of the nursing home residents. Photos by Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator FARMING OUT SMILES Becky Petite, in plaid shirt, leads a prayer before the St. John youth group and other volunteers who bring chickens, rabbits, guinea pigs and ponies into the Gonzales Healthcare Center. Earl Lewis shares a special moment between the chicken he is holding and Betty Smith. Annabelle Bourque is amazed by the furry rabbit being held by Amanda Guedry. 14 The Catholic Commentator YOUTH March 21, 2014 Students tackle poverty on mission trip While on their Mardi Gras vacation, a group of eight students from St. Michael High School took a week-long trip to Managua, Nicaragua as part of the International Samaritan’s volunteer program. The missionary work the students did was in the garbage dump community of Ciudad Sandino, outside of Managua. “Ciudad Sandino has hundreds of square miles of garbage that locals dig through to find anything they can refurbish or resell just to make a living,” said Jim Baldridge, mission leader. He and his wife, Lisa, also a St. Michael faculty member, made their second mission trip to Nicaragua with students from St. Michael. The students taught English in the community’s school for one hour a day. They also painted classrooms and broke up concrete to make way for the construction of new school buildings. But their main task was the renovation of the school bathroom. The school has about 2,000 students, creating unsanitary conditions, the Baldridges said. The trip made the students appreciate what they have, and not take anything for granted. St. Michael High School students bonded with children they served during a mission trip to Managua, Nicaragua. Photo provided by Sean Beauvais | St. Michael High School They also bonded with the children. “Recess started simply. I threw the Frisbee with one kid. Then more kids started to join in. I gave one a hug and lifted him, which created a line of children waiting to be hoisted into the air,” said Richard Tuminello, a senior at St. Michael. “I gave one kid my bandana and another rode on my back, and as the line for name writing lengthened, so did the line of kids wanting a piggy-back ride. It is the simple things here that make the children so happy. Simplicity sometimes is all you need,” he said. Upon the missionaries arrival home, Camille Savoie felt she had been called to something more in her life. “Teaching the children opened my eyes to so much,” Savoie said. “At first it was so overwhelming, all the chaos, but then after soaking it all in, I truly felt God’s presence. The kids are so much fun. They taught me that I really want to do mission work a lot in my life. I think with anywhere I go in life I always want to change hearts. I truly want to help those in need, and the children today taught me this.” The Brighton School Bridges to Success Summer Program – Grades K - 6 A summer program designed for students with Dyslexia and related learning differences Monday – Thursday June 2 – June 26, 2014 8 a.m. – 12 Noon REGISTRATION: $100; TUITION: $850; Space is limited LOCATION: The Brighton School Elementary Campus 9150 Bereford Dr., Baton Rouge, LA 70809 WHAT WE OFFER: Hands-on instruction in small group settings Curriculum designed for students with language-based learning differences •Reading Comprehension: Building the capacity to understand •SLA: Building stronger phonemic skills •Math: Designed for students weak in math •Computer/Writing Enrichment Activities For more information and enrollment, please contact: The Brighton School, 225-923-2068; or email: [email protected] RICE BABIES – Kindergarten students at St. John Primary School in Plaquemine created rice babies to represent their birth weight as an interesting way to learn about matter measurement and estimation in science and math classes. With the display of rice babies are, from left, Preston Berthelot, Natalie Heintze and Jack Sheets. Photo provided by Janis Ament | St. John Primary LENTEN BLESSING – On, March 10 Father Cayet Mangiaracino, parochial vicar at Holy Ghost Church in Hammond, blessed students and classrooms to begin Lent. The school’s Lenten theme is “Walking in the Footsteps of Jesus.” Father Mangiaracino blesses the students in the BQuest classroom including Sadie Mitchell, Kamryn Hecker, Rickie Matheu and Olivia Brouilette. Photo provided by Cindy Wagner | Holy Ghost School March 21, 2014 YOUTH The Catholic Commentator 15 Cooper looks to make road safer through no texting campaign By Debbie Shelley The Catholic Commentator Research shows many people who text while driving know they are engaging in risky behavior and can harm others and themselves, but they are addicted to texting and cannot stop. People who text while driving are six times more likely to be involved in an accident than those who drink while driving. Five seconds is the minimal time drivers’ eyes are taken off the road if they text while driving. Many texters become part of crash statistics. In 2011, 23 percent of car accidents, or 1.3 million, were caused by texting while driving in the United States. Nydia Cooper, 12, a seventhgrade student at Ascension Catholic Middle School, is looking to change such statistics through her 4-H project, “No Texting – No Problem Campaign.” Cooper is asking people to pledge they will not text while driving and/or ask someone else not to do so. Students at West Thibodaux Middle School, Ascension Catholic Middle School and St. James Civil Parish 4-H Club members were given a log to record each time they or someone they knew wanted to text while driving but didn’t or asked someone not to. The public can also participate by accessing her website nydia-tips.com. Everyone who participates will receive a reward, according to Cooper. She said, “I love people, and this a way to express this by helping.” She described texting while driving as “a huge problem,” and encourages people to think about the consequences. “No parent wants their son or daughter killed,” Cooper said. The youth said she hopes that someone will continue the project after the she finishes, to keep ongoing education about the problem of distracted driving. “I think that my project will help teenagers and adults think, ‘Would you rather text and take Nydia Cooper, 12 Hometown: St. James School: Ascension Catholic Middle School Parish: St. James Church a chance on having a wreck or be safe and have a good future ahead of you?’ ” she said. Although she was diagnosed with a 40 percent hearing loss in both ears when she was 5 years old, Cooper has had many accomplishments, which were recently recognized by the Jasmine Civic and Social Club. Cooper maintained a 4.0 GPA at Ascension Catholic Elementary School. She is on the school’s basketball and volley ball teams and plays soccer. She plays saxophone in the band, and has excelled in the St. James Parish 4-H program, competing in the Ambassador’s Program at LSU and receiving a blue ribbon for her speech on “Seafood Marketing,” placing first in safety, and first overall individual. On her website, she challenges people to be safety conscious in several areas. She participated in a summer drama camp at Nicholls State University, performed in the Ascension Catholic Middle School play “Seussical.” She also attended the Exxon/Mobil Bernard Harris Science and Math Camp at Southern University. Cooper has earned a second degree-level 3 black belt in Taekwondo and is receiving instructor training at Active Martial Arts School in Gonzales. She has had nine years of dance instructions and is a member of the Pelican Point swimming team. She learned photography from her mother, a professional photographer. For community service, she took individual and group photographs at the St. James Parish Senior Citizens’ Social and made the prints. She has served as queen for the National Association of University Women, page and princess twice for the Krewe of Agape and was first runner-up of Phi Sigma Omega, Alpha Kappa Alpha Parade of Pearls pageant. She is an altar server/candle bearer, youth choir member and a member of the liturgical dance team at St. James Church in St. James. At Ascension Catholic Middle School she is also conducting a recycling campaign for telephone books and construction paper. One day Cooper hopes to build a center where people of all ages can come for recreational activities and education. 16 The Catholic Commentator MOVIE REVIEWS USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting classifications: A-I – General patronage A-II – Adults and adolescents A-III – Adults A-IV – Adults, with reservations L – Limited adult audience O – Morally offensive 300: Rise of an Empire Warner Bros Directed by Noam Murro, this 3-D war drama, both a prequel and a sequel to 2007’s “300,” is short on dialogue but long on relentless and increasingly repellent action. As ancient Persians and Greeks once again battle for supremacy of the Aegean peninsula, the film serves up a second helping of the choreographed violence and warrior beefcake that characterized its predecessor. Following their nation’s victory over the Spartans at Thermopolyae, the Persian king (Rodrigo Santoro) and his sexy naval commander (Eva Green) plan an invasion of Greece, setting their sights on Athens. The stage is set for an epic naval battle, as the Athenian fleet admiral (Sullivan Stapleton) leads a crusade for freedom and democracy over tyranny. Tasteless carnage, needless to ENTERTAINMENT Motion Picture Association of America ratings: G – General audiences; all ages admitted PG – Parental guidance suggested; some material may not be suitable for children PG-13 – Parents are strongly cautioned to give special guidance for attendance of children under 13; some material may be inappropriate for young children R – Restricted; under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult guardian NC-17 – No one under 17 admitted say, is the real name of the game, with innumerable gross-out moments. Relentless gory and sometimes gruesome fighting, a graphic nonmarital sex scene, upper female and rear nudity, skimpy costumes, some rough language. L; R Non-Stop Universal A troubled air marshal (Liam Neeson) with a drinking problem finds himself bewildered when an anonymous murderer aboard the transatlantic flight he’s been assigned to protect succeeds in making it appear as though he is the one felling his fellow passengers. He enlists the help of a newfound acquaintance (Julianne Moore), the traveler in the seat next to his, as well as that of a veteran stewardess (Michelle Dockery) who is a longtime friend. But mutual March 21, 2014 mistrust hampers the trio’s efforts to identify and stop the perpetrator. The rapid pace and frequent plot twists of director Jaume Collet-Serra’s thriller divert attention from its improbabilities. Though the protagonist’s habit of severely smacking down all who get in his way – together with a bit of risque humor – sets this popcorn movie off limits for kids, most grownups will likely handle such turbulence without much difficulty. Considerable harsh but mostly bloodless violence, brief nongraphic sexual activity between incidental characters, some adult references, numerous uses of profanity, at least one instance of the F-word, several crude and crass terms. A-III; PG-13 Pompeii TriStar The cataclysmic eruption of Mount Vesuvius in 79 A.D. is the backdrop for this swords-and-sandals tale of forbidden love, revenge and a whole lotta lava, directed by Paul W.S. Anderson. In the fabled Italian town on the Bay of Naples, a slave-turnedgladiator (Kit Harington) falls for the daughter (Emily Browning) of a wealthy merchant (Jared Harris). As he fights for love and his freedom, he befriends a veteran of the arena (Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje) and seeks vengeance on the Roman senator (Kiefer Sutherland) who killed his parents and cast him into slavery. A climactic swordfight in the arena is interrupted when the volcano roars to live and all heck breaks loose. Much gory violence and a few brief sexual images. A-III; PG-13 Son of God Fox The life of Jesus (Diogo Morgado) is recounted by the aged, exiled St. John the Evangelist (Sebastian Knapp) in this reverent but uneven screen version of the Gospel story. While director Christopher Spencer’s portrayal of the Passion, and the events leading up to it – with Judas (Joe Wredden), Caiaphas the high priest (Adrian Schiller) and Pontius Pilate (Greg Hicks) all assigned believable motives – is compelling, other aspects of his film range from moving to awkward. Catholic viewers will appreciate the unqualified acknowledgement of St. Peter (Darwin Shaw) as the leader of the apostles as well as scenes highlighting Mary’s (Roma Downey) closeness to her son. The first wide-release movie in nearly 50 years to focus on the Savior’s biography as a whole, this outgrowth of the popular History cable channel miniseries “The Bible” offers some solid catechesis and an easy, though sometimes oddly truncated, introduction to the Lord’s ministry, teaching, death and resurrection. As such, it’s probably acceptable for older teens, despite an unflinching treatment of the Redeemer’s sufferings. Strong gory violence. A-III; PG-13 3 Days to Kill Relativity Director McG offsets a great deal of action mayhem with pro-marriage, familyfriendly values in this story of a terminally ill CIA agent (Kevin Costner) whose efforts to reconcile with his estranged wife (Connie Nielsen) and teen daughter (Hailee Steinfeld) are complicated when another operative (Amber Heard) lures him back into the spy racket by offering him a potentially life-saving experimental medicine as his reward. Scenes of domestic life and the protagonist’s compassionate interaction with the African immigrants who have occupied his Paris apartment as squatters are interspersed with car chases, explosions, thirddegree interrogation sessions and assassinations in an odd mix of genres suitable only for thick-skinned grownups. Considerable harsh violence with some gore, torture, brief rear nudity, images of decadent sensuality, several instances of profanity, occasional rough and crude language. L; PG-13 Mr. Peabody & Sherman Fox The chronology-defying adventures of a hyper-intellectual dog (voice of Ty Burrell) – whose many accomplishments include the invention of a time machine – and the perky human son (voice of Max Charles) he adopted as an infant turn perilous when the lad takes an unauthorized trip to the past in the company of a classmate (voice of Ariel Winter) he’s anxious to impress. Director Rob Minkoff’s 3-D updating of a popular TV cartoon of the 1950s and ‘60s adds a tiresome amount of potty humor to the elaborate, sometimes groan-inducing puns characteristic of the original material. But basic history lessons for the youngest moviegoers, together with a worthy message about respecting people of different backgrounds – even if they do happen to be canines – endow this more than usually literate children’s film with some countervailing virtues. Scenes of mild peril, several scatological jokes and sight gags, a single double entendre. A-I; PG The Wind Rises Touchstone Master Japanese director Hayao Miyazaki takes to the skies in what has been announced as his final animated film, a fictionalized biography of the aeronautical engineer Jiro Horikoshi (voice of Joseph Gordon-Levitt) set against the turbulent events of the years leading up to World War II. In his dreams, Horikoshi visits his hero, Italian airplane designer Giovanni Caproni (voice of Stanley Tucci), who becomes the inspiration for his life’s work. He’s also influenced by his bond with chance acquaintance-turned-love-interest Nahoko (voice of Emily Blunt). Horikoshi isn’t torn between pacifism and militarism; he just wants to design the best and fastest aircraft in the world, which he does. The film’s attempt to put a human face on the rise of militarism in 1930s Japan may offend some viewers. Miyazaki prefers to honor creativity and technological achievements such as Horikoshi’s “Zero” fighter airplane, rather than dwell on the consequences: hundreds of thousands of lives lost, including those of the victims at Pearl Harbor. Historical themes requiring mature interpretation, action sequences, a few disturbing images. A-III; PG-13 March 21, 2014 ENTERTAINMENT 1 Unconditionally Oh no, did I get too close? Oh, did I almost see what’s really on the inside? All your insecurities All the dirty laundry Never made me blink one time Know that you are unworthy I’ll take your bad days with your good Walk through this storm I would I’d do it all because I love you, I love you Refrain: Unconditional, unconditionally I will love you unconditionally There is no fear now Let go and just be free I will love you unconditionally So open up your heart and just let it begin Open up your heart and just let it begin Open up your heart and just let it begin Open up your heart Acceptance is the key to be To be truly, truly free Will you do the same for me? Come just as you are to me Don’t need apologies Repeat refrain. Repeat refrain. Is it possible to love unconditionally? Yes, but ... K On The Record Charlie Martin out – one day at a time. Sometimes, loving another person is easy, like the flow of a breeze through a warm summer day. Then there are times when love meets the chilly winds of hurt, disappointment, even uncertainty. That’s when she’ll discover more about what it means to keep such a promise. She will bump into times when she is selfish, lacks compassion or has run out of patience with her partner’s behaviors. Then what? If she is wise, she will look beyond the urge to blame her partner for what has happened and examine her actions. Her ability to love unconditionally starts with honesty. She may not be able to keep her lofty promises, but it doesn’t need to defeat her intent. She can challenge herself to grow, even if at times it’s hard to manifest unconditional love. She also has no idea whether her romantic partner is open to receiving her love. What if he’s disrespectful and devalues her dignity? She might still be able to love him, but if he is not willing to acknowledge his mistakes, the relationship will not last. Loving someone does not mean accepting bad behavior. Love asks us to set clear boundaries about what is and is not respectful. If her partner’s behaviors violate these boundaries, then her love, even unconditional love, will not be enough to keep the relationship going. Her goal, even if naively set, is admirable. Her most important step would be to ask the one who truly does love her unconditionally to help. God accepts each one of us as we are and never removes his love because of our actions. We can only love because of God’s love. When our foundation is based on our belief that we are loved by God, then we might be surprised just how much we can love others. Is it really possible to love unconditionally? Yes, but only by immersing oneself in the unconditional love of God. MARTIN is an Indiana pastoral counselor who reviews current music for Catholic News Service. Write chmartin@ hughes.net or 7125 West CR 200 South, Rockport, IN 47635, or like this column on Facebook at “Charlie Martin’s Today’s Music Columns” and leave a comment or suggestion. 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 22 21 24 35 36 45 39 53 62 13 31 32 33 57 58 59 44 48 51 54 63 12 40 43 50 61 30 47 46 49 60 29 42 41 11 23 28 38 37 17 26 25 27 34 Sung by Katy Perry | Copyright © 2013 by Capitol Records aty Perry’s latest single, “Unconditionally,” is off her recent “Prism” album. Perry says the song was inspired by her 2013 work for UNICEF in the nation of Madagascar. Perry talks about her travels deep into the mountains of the country to meet with school children. She was taken with “all these children and the love that they had toward each other.” She notes that “it was unconditional love between all of them ... that kind of pure love that is unaffected by the trends of the world.” In the song, the character speaks to her romantic interest and asks, “did I get too close ... did I almost see what’s really on the inside?” Even if she did see more than he wanted, she affirms that recognizing who he really is “never made me blink one time.” She welcomes him into a relationship where “I’ll take your bad days with your good.” She tells him, “I will love you unconditionally.” This is quite a promise. Most of us enter into a relationship with needs, problems, hopes and expectations that may or may not be met. However, she believes that if he will “open up your heart, and just let it begin,” with “acceptance,” then true, unconditional love will flow. This goal is demanding. Can she follow through? Can she keep this promise after the initial emotions of new love have faded and doubt has crept in? There is only one way to find The Catholic Commentator 52 55 56 65 64 66 67 70 71 72 73 74 75 ACROSS 1 Catholics Ted Kennedy and Alec Guinness 5 Sister of Judah 10 Lenten foliage 14 Second woman mentioned by name in the Bible (Gen 4:19) 15 Terse bridge bid 16Scent 17 The soldiers put a scarlet one on Jesus (Mt 27:28) 18 Currency units 19 Leaf of a book 20 “Great” teacher of Aquinas 22Prestigious 24 Patron saint of farmers 26 Yang’s compliment 27 Word bk. 29 “___ Fideles” 34 “It was ___ joke.” 38 Launch grp. 40 The Lord, in Madrid (with”El”) 41 Agape ___ 42 Take off the board 44Infatuated 45 Vatican news service 47 Cart for heavy loads 48 Vacation sites 49Rash 51 Jolly Roger hand 53 Science rm. 55 Pertaining to fire 60Strangle 65 Moses, for one 66 Genesis weather 67 One of the prophets 69Landed 70 “___ Kleine Nacht Musik” 71 Abraham was probably glad to see this in the desert 72 Sandwich shop 73 Part of BPOE 74 British guns 75 The Garden DOWN 1 Wife of Abram 2 Paul was upset because 68 69 www.wordgamesforcatholics.com of the number of these in Athens (Acts 17:16) 3 Title for Jesus 4 One of two names in a Catholic book publishing company 5Tenet 6 Serpent’s tail? 7 Hawaiian goose 8Restless 9 “O Salutaris ___” 10 Leader of the Church 11 He was an original 12Booth 13 TV horse, of course 21 “…thy ___ and thy staff, they comfort me.” (Ps 23:4) 23 “…to the ___ of the earth.” (Acts 1:8) 25americangreetings.com product 28 Former Russian rulers 30 Head shots, briefly? 31Crack 32 Garment of ancient Rome 33 Gaslight and Good Feeling 34 Radio bands (abbr.) 35 Princess from Alderaan 36 1949 Gatsby portrayer 37 Knighted Catholic actor 39 “Same here” 43Monocle 46 “You are the ___ of the earth” (Mt 5:13) 50Pity 52 Vane reading 54 Puff up 56Elude 57Greased 58 Beneficial 59 Start to have an effect 60 Plant in the story of the fall 61 “___ Mary” 62 Skating arena 63Singles 64 Being (Lt.) 68 Aachen article Solution on page 18 18 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT The human struggle with sexual energy | EDITORIAL T All demeaning slurs should be eliminated from society’s language he demeaning effect of the apparent widespread use of racial slurs has long been ignored in a society that tolerates such vile language with a collective shrug, or worse yet, a coy smile. Oddly, it has taken an incident inside the hallowed halls of a professional football locker room, long considered an incubator of political incorrectness, to expose the toll inflicted on the victim. Former Miami Dolphins offensive lineman Jonathan Martin left the team during this past season because of what he claims was a constant barrage of racial slurs and other demeaning language from fellow lineman Richie Incognito. As details emerged, many were justifiably enraged, although, amazingly, some were supportive of the abhorrent behavior of Incognito, chalking it up to the testosterone-driven atmosphere of an NFL locker room. Because of the incident, league officials are now considering a policy where players would be penalized for using a racial slur on the field of play. While the NFL, and others who have spoken out against such racial bigotry are to be applauded, the unanswered question is why stop there. To be sure, racial slurs are dehumanizing, but are they any more degrading than gay slurs, or mean-spirited remarks targeted at one’s religion or heritage? Unfortunately some of these types of comments have seemingly become an accepted component of the colloquialism of our language, such as using a nationality as a verb to describe an event or transaction. This is detestable. Words are the tools by which we communicate, their beauty evident when used for praise, unsightly when launched as verbal sorties aimed at a race, gender, religion or special interest group. Slurs of any type are harmful and display a lack of dignity that every human being deserves. This type of language should never be tolerated, not in a society where acceptance and respect for our cultural differences should be one of its pillars. | LETTER TO THE EDITOR Death penalty defended It was interesting to read in the Feb. 21 issue of The Catholic Commentator the report on surveys noting that the teaching of the church is not fully taught. How ironic then that the editorial from the same issue calls the death penalty “society’s scourge” for “vengeance minded individuals” that is “equally nefarious as abortion.” But is this so? The Catechism of the Catholic Church notes “From the first century the church has affirmed the moral evil of every procured abortion.” This is because abortion is in all circumstances an intrinsic evil – something that can never be done for any reason. Is this so with the death penalty? Again, from the Catechism: “… the traditional teaching of the church does not exclude recourse to the death penalty, if this is the only possible way of effectively defending human lives against the unjust aggressor.” (2306) If, however, non-lethal means are sufficient to defend and protect people’s safety from the aggressor, authority will limit itself to such means …” So, while the church teaches that non-lethal means should be pursued, nonetheless, if the defense of the common good calls for it, a person may be put to death. Thus, the death penalty is not an intrinsic evil as is abortion. In no way is it “equally nefarious.” Also, as a prudential judgment, one called to order the public good may decide to permit the execution of an individual not out of vengeance, but to defend the common good. I quote Cardinal Ratzinger who wrote: “Not all moral issues have the same moral weight as abortion and euthanasia … While the church exhorts civil authorities to seek peace, not war, and to exercise discretion and mercy in imposing punishment on criminals, it may still be permissible to take up arms to repel an aggressor or to have recourse to capital punishment. There may be a legitimate diversity of opinion even among Catholics about waging war and applying the death penalty, but not however with regard to abortion and euthanasia.” It is unfortunate that The Catholic Commentator does not present this nuanced teaching of the church in its fullest. Steven Felix MD Prairieville March 21, 2014 T he church has always struggled with sex but so has everyone else. There aren’t any cultures, religious or secular, pre-modern or modern, post-modern or post-religious, that exhibit a truly healthy sexual ethos. Every church and every culture struggles with integrating sexual energy, if not in its creed about sex, at least in the living out of that creed. Secular culture looks at the church and accuses it of being uptight and antierotic. Partly this is true, but the church might well protest that much of its sexual reticence is rooted in the fact that it is one of the few voices still remaining who are challenging anyone towards sexual responsibility. As well, the church might also challenge any culture that claims to have found the key to healthy sexuality to step forward and show the evidence. No culture will take up that claim. Everyone is struggling. Part of that struggle is the seeming innate incompatibility between what Charles Taylor calls “sexual fulfillment and piety,” between “squaring our highest aspirations with an integral respect for the full range of human fulfillments.” Commenting on this in his book, “A Secular Age,” Taylor suggests that there is a real tension in trying to combine sexual fulfillment with piety and that this reflects a more general tension between human flourishing in general and dedication to God. He adds: “That this tension should be particularly evident in the sexual domain is readily understandable. Intense and profound sexual fulfillment focuses us powerfully on the exchange within the couple; it strongly attaches us possessively to what is privately shared. ... It is not for nothing that the early monks and hermits saw sexual renunciation as opening the way to the wider love of God. ... Now that there is a tension between fulfillment and piety should not surprise us in a world distorted by sin ... but we have to avoid turning this into a constitutive incompatibility.” How can we avoid doing that? How can we avoid somehow pitting sexual fulfillment against holiness? How can we be robustly sexual and fully spiritual at one and the same time? In a soon-to-be-released book, “The Road is How, A Prairie Pilgrimage through Nature, Desire and Soul,” Trevor Herriot suggests that human fulfillment and dedication to God, sex and holiness, can be brought together in a way that properly respects both of them. How? Without using the word that is at once so-honored and so maligned, he presents us with an image of what chastity means at its true root. Much like Annie Dillard in her book, “Holy the Firm,” Herriot draws a certain concept of chastity out of the rhythms of nature and then presents those rhythms as the paradigm of how we should be relating to nature and to each other. And, for Herriot, those rhythms cast a particularly enlightening beam on how we should be relating sexually. His words: “These days, we watch truckloads of grain pass by and sense that something in us and in the Earth is harmed when food is grown and consumed with little intimacy, care and respect. The local and slow food movements are showing us that the way we grow, distribute, prepare and eat food is important for the health of our body-to-Earth exchanges. The next step may be to realize that the energy that brings pollen to ovary and grows the grain, once it enters our bodies, also needs to be husbanded. The way we respond to our desire to merge, connect and be fruitful – stirrings felt so deeply, but often so shallowly expressed – determines the quality of our body-to-body exchanges. ...” In a world bathed in industrial and impersonal sex, where real connection and tenderness are rare, will we sense also that something in us and in the Earth is being harmed from the same absence of intimacy, care and respect? Will we learn that any given expression of our erotic energies either connects us to or divides us from the world around our souls and us? We are discovering that we must steward the energies captured by nature in the hydrocarbons or in living plants and animals, and thereby improve the ways we receive the fruits of the Earth, but we struggle to see the primary responsibility we bear for the small but cumulatively significant explosions of energy we access and transmit as we respond to our own longings to connect, merge and be fruitful. Learning how to steward the way we bear fruit ourselves as spiritual/sexual beings with a full set of animal desires and angelic ambitions may be more important to the human journey than we fully understand.” Chastity, as imagined by Charles Taylor, Annie Dillard and Trevor Herriot, has always been the one thing that properly protects sex, the white dress adorning the bride, the means of squaring our highest aspirations with an integral respect for the full range of human fulfillments, and, not least, the trusted guideline for how we can access and transmit our sexual energy with intimacy, care and respect. In Exile Father Ron Rolheiser FATHER ROLHEISER, theologian, teacher and award-winning author, is president of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, Texas. He can be contacted through his website ronrolheiser.com. Now on Facebook facebook.com/ronrolheiser. March 21, 2014 I VIEWPOINT I 19 Spirit-filled evangelizers n the final chapter of his papal exhortation, “The Joy of the Gospel,” Pope Francis returns to a theme he stressed in one of his first public interviews. Asked if the Catholic Church needed to change, he answered yes, in some ways it did, and the first and most important change was a change in “attitude.” This is particularly true, he claims, with regard to the call made in this exhortation for all Catholics to become evangelizers. He says that “Jesus wants evangelizers who proclaim the good news not only with words, but above all by a life transfigured by God’s presence ... How I long to find the right words to stir up enthusiasm for a new chapter of evangelization full of fervor, joy, generosity, courage, boundless love and attraction! Yet I realize that no words of encouragement will be enough unless the fire of the Holy Spirit burns in our hearts.” Pope Francis wants “spirit-filled evangelizers,” and defines these as persons who “pray and work.” He is pleased by an increase of faithful who are devoted to prayer, the reading of Scripture and adoration of the Eucharist, but prayer cannot become an excuse for not offering one’s life to others in mission. It was always a challenge to proclaim the Gospel in a world of self-absorption, complacency and selfishness. “Let us not say, then, that things are harder today; they are simply different.” According to Pope Francis, the primary reason for evangelizing is the love that we have received from Jesus, the love that has made a difference in our lives, healed us, and impelled us to share it. This is what he calls salvation. It makes sense when we think of the love we received from our parents and want to pass on to our children. Or what girl, having received an engagement ring, doesn’t want to show it to everyone and tell them about the wonderful guy who asked her to be his wife? Pope Francis asks us, concerning Jesus, “What kind of love would not feel the need to speak of the beloved, to point him out, to make him known?” That is what evangelization is. It is a case of being given “a treasure that makes us more human and helps us to lead a new life. There is nothing more precious which we can give to others.” However, living in a pluralistic society like we do, and s it any wonder Monday is the most detested day of the week? After two days of blissful slumber, relaxation and perhaps even libation, the alarm screams in the wee hours of Monday, announcing a full week of work ahead. Ever notice the alarm always sounds more piercing on Mondays, than say, perhaps Fridays? And why is it that some of the week’s most troublesome work-related problems usually occur on Monday morning? Shouldn’t there be some type of grace period on a Monday, with any crisis automatically deferred until after lunch, or better yet, Tuesday? Not long ago as I was struggling with one of those challenging mornings a co-worker bounced into my office, her cheery disposition intruding on grumpiness, and asked if I would like to go pray the rosary, which happens every Monday for employees of the Catholic Life Center. I’m sure I shot her a look that made her believe she had three heads. The Catholic Commentator knowing the complexity of our 2,000-year-old faith which every century seems to add to its rules, regulations and customs, we see how non-Catholics have a hard time understanding us and can have some fairly weird ideas about Catholicism. This can make us hesitate to share our faith. So Pope Francis urges us to think like a missionary and give people just what they really need. Keep it simple. “The missionary is convinced that, through the Father John Carville working of the spirit, there already exists in individuals and peoples and expectation, even if an unconscious one, of knowing the truth about God, about man, and about how we are to be set free from sin and death. The missionary’s enthusiasm in proclaiming Christ comes from the conviction that he is responding to that expectation … It is not the same thing to try to build the world with his Gospel as to try to do so by our own lights. We know well that with Jesus, life becomes richer, and that with him it is easier to find meaning in everything. That is why we evangelize.” Evangelization must be joyous. Pope Francis is a great inspirational speaker. “If I can help at least one person to have a better life, that already justifies the offering of my life ... We achieve fulfillment when we break down walls and our heart is filled with faces and names!” He notes that all around us are nurses, teachers, even politicians, who have “soul.” They are people who “have chosen deep down to be with others and for others.” Such an attitude draws us to union with God. “Whenever we encounter another person in love, we learn something new about God.” Indeed, only the person who feels happiness in seeking Another Perspective the good of others, in desiring their happiness, can be a missionary.” Unfortunately, some people will not commit themselves to the mission that Jesus has given to all of us. They think that nothing will change; there is too much evil in the world. They say, “Why should I deny myself my comforts and pleasures if I won’t see any significant result?” Pope Francis calls this thinking “only a malicious excuse for remaining caught up in comfort, laziness, vague dissatisfaction and empty selfishness. It is a self-destructive attitude.” And such people have lost their greatest hope and source of strength – faith in the resurrection of Jesus. “However dark things are, goodness always re-emerges and spreads ... beauty is born anew, it rises transformed through the storms of history ... Such is the power of the resurrection, and all who evangelize are instruments of that power.” I found the most powerful part of Pope Francis’ exhortation to be toward the end where he describes how God uses our weak human efforts to spread Jesus’ Gospel. “Because we do not always see these seeds growing, we need an interior certainty, a conviction that God is able to act in every situation, even amid apparent setbacks: “We have this treasure in earthen vessels” (2 Cor 4:7) … We can know quite well that our lives will be fruitful, without claiming to know how, or where, or when. No single act of love for God will be lost, no generous effort is meaningless, no painful endurance is wasted. All of these encircle our world like a vital force ... The Holy Spirit works as he wills, when he wills and where he wills ... let us give him everything, allowing him to make our efforts bear fruit in his good time. Pope Francis closes by describing Mary the “mother of evangelization,” and the perfect example of what God can do through one lowly person who accepts completely the mission he gives her. FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest of the Diocese of Baton Rouge. He writes on current topics for The Catholic Commentator and can be reached at johnnycarville@gmail. com. Gaining an appreciation of the rosary For many, myself included, the rosary remains one of the great mysteries of our faith. During my formative years at St. Leo the Great School in New Orleans we prayed the rosary everyday after luncheon recess. This was long before schools were airconditioned so praying the rosary in the heat of a classroom after an hour of playtime ... well let’s say it had the trappings for a much-needed nap. So, when my co-worker asked about praying the rosary, I made a few lame excuses about being too busy, having to catch up after the weekend, it was too cold to walk outside, etc. But she was undeterred, and continued to press her point about how the rosary would help me get through what was shaping up to be a stressful day. With apprehension, laced with anticipation, I agreed. As we began to pray my mind wandered, eventually returning to what needed to be done at the paper. But as we progressed, something remarkable happened. My focus began to shift from my desk to the Blessed Virgin Mother. Each Hail Mary seemed to be directed at Mary, each Our Father God’s way of saying pay attention, much the same way the nuns did so many years ago in a steamy classroom. With each decade my heart seemed to lighten, my stress level slowly dissipat- Wandering Catholic Richard Meek ing. Only later did I realize it was God’s way of relieving me of my own burden so that the stress could be replaced with love, work with faith. Surprisingly, the rosary ended much quicker than I anticipated. As we were walking back to the office I told my coworker how amazed I was at the sense of peace and calmness I felt. She smiled knowingly, aware of the source of that peace. Since then I have made a concerted effort to pray the rosary each Monday and have even on occasion done so while exercising (for one as Jurassic as I exercise means walking through the neighborhood while receiving stares of sympathy, or is it pity, from the younger generation.) Little did I realize that one of God’s greatest gifts was contained in such a simple setting. MEEK is the editor and general manager of The Catholic Commentator. He can be reached at [email protected]. 20 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS Jazz Brunch – The Baton Rouge Chapter of the Xavier University Alumni Association will hold its annual scholarship jazz brunch and silent auction on Sunday, March 30, 11 a.m. – 2 p.m., at Le Bon Temps Bar and Grill, 8342 Perkins Road, Baton Rouge. Tickets are $50 each and can be purchased by calling 225-939-7346 or by emailing [email protected]. Retrouvaille Weekend – Retrouvaille is designed to help couples with troubled marriages. It is a specialized couple peer ministry with six follow-up sessions. The next weekend is Friday, April 11 – Sunday, April 13. Registration is March 21, 2014 $150. No couple is denied because of financial difficulties. For information, call 225-261-1901 or visit retrouvaille. org. Last Supper Dramatization – Our Lady of Pompeii Church, 14450 La. Hwy. 442, Tickfaw, will present a dramatization based on the painting of Leonardo da Vinci’s the Last Supper on Palm Sunday, April 13, 7 p.m. For information, call 985-345-8957. Charismatic Renewal Day – The Catholic Charismatic Renewal Office of the Diocese of Baton Rouge will sponsor a Charismatic Renewal Day, “As By A New Pentecost,” Saturday, April 5, 9 a.m.– 3 p.m., at the Our Lady of Mercy Parish Activity Center, 444 Marquette Ave., Baton Rouge. Bring a bag lunch. For information, call 226-766-3873 or 225-346-8873. Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites – Meetings of the Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites are held monthly at the Our Lady of Mercy Parish Activity Center, St. Gabriel Room, 444 Marquette Ave., Baton Rouge, at 1:30 p.m. The next meeting will be Sunday, April 13. For information, call 225-926-6962 or email [email protected]. The Catholic Commentator PO Box 3316 Baton Rouge LA 70821-3316 For help placing your classified ad, call 225-387-0983. 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Diocese of Alexandria • Catholic Schools Office Principal Opening 2014-2015 School Year • St. Mary’s Catholic School, Natchitoches, Louisiana St. Mary’s Catholic School seeks an enthusiastic, dedicated and qualified principal to minister in leadership for a school community of more than 400 students in Grades Pre-K – 12. The successful candidate must be committed to balancing the strong traditions of the 124 year history as a parish school with embracing new and creative opportunities to lead the faculty, students, and parent community to deeper spiritual, academic and social excellence. Ability to collaborate with pastor, parish staff, assistant principal, faculty, and parent body is essential. Applicants must meet the following criteria: • Practicing Catholic • Masters Degree, Preference of Degree in Education • Minimum of 5 years experience in Education • Preference of Catholic Education • Credentials meeting Non-Public School • Certification for State of Louisiana • Demonstrated Leadership Ability in Education • Availability on or before July 1, 2014 Interested applicants may call Vanessa Pichon at (318) 445-6424, ext. 227 for an application packet. Catholic Schools Office, P.O. Box 7417, Alexandria, LA 71306 Deadline for Application Packet: March 28, 2014 The schools of the Diocese of Alexandria admit students of any race, color, national and ethnic origin to all rights, privileges, programs, and activities generally accorded or made available to students at its schools. 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S A R A I I D O L S R A B B I A M F M L E I A L A D D T R E E H A I L R I N K S D H O C E E R T D O R D I A N L E E S C A P L A O T T H N E O S S I N A H N E N O E N T S E S T E Y I C T A A S A R A S E D R A Y S M E B I G L E L O S E A A S I S T E N S P O P E E N D E S E G S E N E E V A D E A D A M L O G E M R E D S N A P T O G A E R A S O I L E D U T I L E S E T I N www.wordgamesforcatholics.com March 21, 2014 The Catholic Commentator ALTAR: ‘Everything has a meaning’ FROM PAGE 1 Italy to America in 1900 and put up a St. Joseph Altar in his home in Plaquemine Point. “I didn’t know it was in my roots until I started talking to people. They said he put up an altar every year until he passed away in the 1940s.” Dimaio said before the Grand- sons of Italy was founded, St. Joseph Altars were primarily in private homes, estimating there were 15 to 20 set up in area homes. “But as the older generation began to pass away, so did the altars.” “Thirty-six years ago there were no altars in Baton Rouge, so we decided to start the Grand- Classifieds Help Wanted Help Wanted S St. George Catholic School Teaching Positions Available St. George Catholic Elementary School seeks full-time teachers for the 2014-2015 school year 5th Grade Math/Science Lower Elementary Middle School ELA Spanish Part-time E-mail Resume' to: Cheri Gioe, Asst. Principal [email protected] St. Michael the archangel high School CAMPUS MINISTER 21 sons of Italy to continue the tradition. The first altar was set up at St. George (Church in Baton Rouge), and by the second year we fed 5,000 people. I still don’t know how we did it,” he said. Interest in the altars was rekindled and now there are many around the diocese. Every weekend since Feb. 9, the organization members have gathered at the Exchequer Restaurant off Industriplex Boulevard to cook. Restaurant owner Quentin Cappo said he offered his restaurant because he is Ital- Donald Salpietra, left and his twin brother Ronald, right, along with ian and the group has supported Tommy Mackey, center, prepare the pignolattis for frying. Mackey his business. “Plus I like eating said he was an Irishmen who married into an Italian family. Photo by the cookies,” he said. Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator On March 8 and 9, the week before the altar was constructed, “Everything has a meaning Catholic High School. workers rolled, cut, fried and to St. Joseph, the Holy Family or Eddie Dimaio is the “decoracoated with sugar pignolattis that Sicily at the time the tradition be- tor” for the group and arranged were then shaped gan,” she said. the food on the altar “with help in the form of a Anthony Mus- from a lot of people,” she said. pine cone, someso said the altar “St. Joseph is my favorite saint. It thing Jesus would uses at least 200 seems right” to do this, she said, have played with pounds of granu- adding she has learned patience as a child, Carolated sugar, 70 and understanding as she works lyn Musso said. pounds of pow- with other people on the altar. Carolyn Musso ered sugar, $800 Then there is the actual celalso prepared the worth of special- ebration which took place March modica, bread ly baked St. Jo- 15 and 16. On Saturday, the group crumbs that are seph bread, thou- led a procession carrying a statue baked with sugar sands of boiled of St. Joseph to the church for until brown and eggs in addition the 4 p.m Mass. After Mass, the then sprinkled to scores of oth- altar was blessed, and vino and over spaghetti. Carolyn Musso er ingredients, cookies were served to all who atGrandsons of Italy auxiliary member The modica repmany donated by tended. resents saw dust area businesses. On Sunday, the Holy Family, that would have been generated The food is all meatless. played by a member of the grandby St. Joseph the carpenter. She And cooking is only part of the sons and two young people choalso made a rosary for the altar altar preparation. Thursday eve- sen by the group, were served in from sesame seed cookie dough ning the group began setting up the traditional “Holy Family Tabas a sign of her devotion to Mary the aluminum framing for the al- leau.” Afterward, an Italian feast and St. Joseph. tar with the help of students from was served to the public. “Everything has a meaning to St. Joseph, the Holy Family or Sicily at the time the tradition began.” www.smhsbr.org 2014-2015 SCHOOL YEAR The successful candidate should be: • A practicing, passionate Catholic with a Bachelor’s or Master’s Degree in Theology • Experienced in working with high school youth • A strong communicator, a leader, a collaborative worker, and highly organized. This job entails organizing, planning and executing retreats and liturgical events, teaching a Christian leadership class, and organizing and participating in some evening and weekend Campus Ministry events. Previous experience in Catholic education is a plus. The candidate should exemplify the mission of St. Michael and be willing to guide students in seeking the truth, living the faith, and serving like Christ. Please send cover letter and resume to: Aimee Wiles, Assistant Principal [email protected] 17521 Monitor Avenue Baton Rouge, LA 70817 The Grandsons of Italy’s St. Joseph Altar was on display March 15 and 16 at Sacred Heart of Jesus Church in Baton Rouge. The grandsons organization and its auxiliary spend the six weekends prior to St. Joseph’s feast day preparing the altar. 22 The Catholic Commentator March 21, 2014 Chef John Folse, cathedral volunteers to be honored at Bishop’s Day celebration Chef John Folse – local restaurateur, author, television personality and noted ambassador for Louisiana and its culture – and several parishioners of St. Joseph Cathedral will be honored at the 24th Annual Bishop’s Day cel- ebration on Sunday, March 23. The day will begin with a special 10 a.m. Mass celebrated by Bishop Robert W. Muench, followed by a luncheon at Boudreaux’s honoring Bishop Muench, Folse and several St. Joseph Church volunteers. The luncheon is scheduled from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Receiving the St. Joseph’s Apprentice Award are parishioners Mary Furlow; Todd and Hope Gaudin and their children Barn- abas, Bridget, Paige and Ethan; Gabe and Judy Jumonville; and Robert René. These awards recognize the honorees’ invaluable contributions to the worship and service ministries of the church. Folse will receive the St. Jo- ST. MICHAEL HIGH SCHOOL Summer CampS seph Cathedral Community Award in honor of his eager and active involvement in and support of many church activities and events throughout the Diocese of Baton Rouge. Folse was an integral part of the cathedral parish’s bicentennial celebration in September 1992. when he prepared dinner for approximately 2,000 guests at the new Riverside Centroplex (now the Baton Rouge River Center). Folse provided the meal, focusing on cuisine from the church parish’s three centuries of history. Luncheon reservations are $50 per ticket. Reservations are required in advance and tickets must be purchased before March 18. For more information or to purchase tickets, contact the parish office, 225-387-5928 or [email protected]. The Parish Development Group of the Cathedral of St. Joseph is the event producer. Everyone is invited to the festivities. St. Paul sponsoring 5K walk/run BOYS BASKETBALL June 2 - 6 9am - 3pm Grades 7 - 9 $150 June 16 - 20 9am - 3pm Grades 4 - 6 $150 June 23 - June 27 9am - 12pm Grades K - 3 $125 DEVELOPMENTAL SUMMER LEAGUE June 3, 5, 10, 12, 17, 19, 24, 26 Grades 7 - 9 $150 GIRLS BASKETBALL May 27 - May 30 9am – 12pm Grades 5 - 9 $115 CO-ED SOCCER June 9 - 13 9am - 11am Grades 6 - 12 $100 BASEBALL June 30 - July 3 9am - 12pm Grades 3 - 9 $100 BAND CAMP June 9 - 12 9am - 12pm Grades 5 - 8 $90 PERCUSSION CAMP June 9 - 12 12:30pm - 2:30pm Grades 5 - 8 $90 11am - 11:30am Grades 5 - 8 $100 FOOTBALL July 14 - 17 9am - 12pm Grades 4 - 8 $100 VOLLEYBALL June 9 - 13 8am - 11am Grades 4 - 6 $115 June 9 - 13 12pm - 3pm Grades 7 - 8 $115 ATHLETE WEIGHTLIFTING INCOMING FRESHMEN FOOTBALL June 2 M, T, Th 10am - 11:30am INCOMING FRESHMEN BASKETBALL May 27 T, Th 3pm - 4:30pm MIDDLE SCHOOL WEIGHTLIFTING June 2 - July 11 M, T, Th 11am - 11:30am Grades 5 - 8 $125 For more information and to sign up: www.smhsbr.org; [email protected] 17521 Monitor Avenue | Baton Rouge, LA 70817 | 225-753-9782 | www.smhsbr.org St. Paul Catholic Church and the St. Paul Adult Learning Center are sponsoring a 5K walk/ run for literacy awareness Saturday, March 22 on the grounds of the church at 3912 Gus Young Ave., Baton Rouge. Registration opens at 7 a.m., with an 8 a.m. race time scheduled. Awards, refreshments and community awareness activities will follow. Organizers said this is the first 5K walk/run to be held in the Eden Park community, which has the highest rate of illiteracy in Baton Rouge. The learning center is celebrating 30 years of providing education to more than 5,000 students, many of whom have received GEDs and are employed in various industries and leading successful lives through the dedicated mission of its founders, the late Sister Kathleen Bahlinger CSJ and Sister Lory Scaff CSJ. Pre-registration is $35 or $40 the day of the event. Register at www.race4literacy.com March 21, 2014 The Catholic Commentator Test of excellence RITE OF ELECTION – About 650 catechumens and candidates in the Diocese of Baton Rouge attended the Rite of Election at Sacred Heart Church in Baton Rouge on the first Sunday of Lent. The “elect” are received by Bishop Robert W. Muench and now enter their final preparation period for the sacraments of initiation at the Easter Vigil. Photo by Morgan Kelley | The Catholic Commentator The regional level of the non-public school Student of the Year competition was held recently at the Catholic Life Center in Baton Rouge. Each of the seven dioceses in the state of Louisiana sent their winners to compete against other local winners. The competition is open to grades fifth, eighth and 12th. The judges selected a winner for each of the three grade levels, who will then enter the state competition. Students are evaluated based on portfolio, grades, writing sample and an interview. Photos by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator 23 24 The Catholic Commentator March 21, 2014 Knights of Peter Claver play valuable role in the life of the church The Knights of Peter Claver (KPC) and the Ladies Auxiliary of Wilfred B. Ricard Council #116 have historically recognized the need to nurture the youth of the church in the Catholic faith and Christian ideals of righteousness. KPC members are dedicated to planning, promoting, sponsoring, and executing commendable works of Catholic action wherever and whenever possible and pro- viding good example in deportment, word and deed, especially to the youth. Council #116 provides supervision of Junior Knight and Junior Daughter branches, which consist of youth from 7 to 18 years of age. The Junior Knights and Daughters fill positions in the church, commensurate with their age, e.g., altar servers, youth choir and participants in church activities. Friday LENTEN Shrimp Specials! Shrimp Spaghetti and Italian-Style Marinated Shrimp Poboys Plan any special occasion with our delicious sandwich platters: muffolettas; mini muffolettas; roast beef w/provolone; turkey w/Swiss! Anthony’s ItAlIAn DelI 10248 Florida Blvd. Mon. - Sat. 9:30 - 6 Baton Rouge’s only TRUE ITALIAN Deli Since 1978 225-272-6817 Phone orders welcome They are encouraged to attend and participate in the Annual Junior Branch State Conference and the Annual Junior Branch National Convention. During the summer, the KPC Louisiana State Conference conducts a state conference Expansion Picnic for junior branches. The average number of active members in the Junior Knight Branch Council #116 is 19 and the KPC are responsible for guiding them on the Catholic faith journey to full participation in the Catholic Church. During the Christmas holidays in 2013 and again this past January, the junior knight commander and assistant commanders of the chapter took the junior knights out for a bowling night. In April, a team of three junior knights and three junior daughters from the chapter won first place in the Quiz Bowl during the Junior Branch State Conference. Then at the Junior Branch National Convention, in Indianapolis, Ind. the teams won second place at the National Quiz Bowl. Grand Knight Reginald Berry, right, presents a donation to the youth ministry of Immaculate Conception Church in Baton Rouge to pastor Father Thomas Clark SJ. Submitted photo by Knights of Peter Claver The KPC and the Ladies Auxiliary assume responsible roles in all church ministries and activities. Members of the KPC and Ladies Auxiliary serve as religion teachers for the parish religious office, chaperones for youth nights and teachers for Vacation Bible School. The knights are committed to supporting youth programs and will occasionally sponsor a youth night by providing food and refreshment. Council #116 donates funds to purchase back-to-school supplies for the needy, Christmas gifts for children of incarcerated mothers, supports the program of the junior knights, donates funds to support St. Francis Xavier Elementary School, gives two college scholarships annually and supports the youth ministries of the church. 2 Ways You Can Help the Needy this Lenten Season! Bishop Robert Muench and Chef John Folse Want to Serve You and Your Family at the 2014 Count Your Blessings Supper Friday, April 4, 2014 at 7:00 PM - Our Lady of Mercy Parish Activity Center Bishop Robert Muench and Chef John Folse invite you to join us for our 19th annual Count Your Blessings Supper as we break bread and pray together this Lenten season. This year’s supper is scheduled for 7:00 p.m. on Friday, April 4th, at Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church. John Pastorek has prepared a wonderful program that will be informative and entertaining as always, but with a much shorter format. With the need in our community continuing to grow, our Count Your Blessings Supper is more important than ever. Your gift of $10.00 will make a real difference in someone’s life. Please join us for this special Lenten tradition in our Diocese. Please see the order form below for information. We look forward to seeing you there! ---------------------------------------------------------Clip and send in----------------------------------------------------Yes, I want to buy tickets (or make a donation) to the Count Your Blessings Supper. I would like __________ tickets at $10.00 per person. I am enclosing a check for $_______. Name: ____________________________________________ Make checks payable and mail to: Society of St. Vincent de Paul, P.O. Box 127, Address:___________________________________________ Baton Rouge, LA 70821-0127. For more info, call us at (225) 383-7837. City: ____________________State: _________Zip: _________ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ You Can Save a Life Today! Our St. Vincent de Paul Community Pharmacy needs your help! For more details on how you can save someone’s life by filling a prescription, visit our website at www.svdpbr.org.