never forget 9-11
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never forget 9-11
NO FAMILY HISTORY Combatting Breast Cancer SURVIVING A PLANE CRASH SKY SOLDIERS The Story of Joan (Berry) Hale M September - October 2013 Re-enacting Combat Rescues A G A Z I N E NEVER FORGET 9-11 M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 1 During a stroke, every minute matters. 2,000,000 brain cells die every minute when you have a stroke. That’s why getting medical attention fast is critical. Now, you can count on Piedmont Henry Hospital as a certified Primary Stroke Center — offering complete stroke and post-stroke care, close to home. Know the signs and act F.A.S.T. F A S T Face – Look for an uneven smile Arm – Check if one arm is weak Speech – Listen for slurred speech Time – Call 911 at the first sign Learn more about our stroke services at piedmonthenry.org © 2013 Piedmont Healthcare 03378-0713 2 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 3 AT OUR URGENT CARE CENTERS, PEDIATRICIANS M September - October 2013 A G A Z I N ARE STANDING BY. E Our Urgent Care Centers are staffed by pediatricians, equipped with X-rays and labs, and ready to help seven days a week. To find a location near you, visit choa.org/urgentcare. F E AT U R E S D E PA R T M E N T S 50 Never Forget 9-11 profiles 46 Sky Soldiers 9 From Small Beginnings to the Big Apple 48 On Surviving a Plane Crash The Story of Joan (Berry) Hale 10 Chosen for a Better Path 11 Food Depot - Henry is Success 12 No Family History 14 Young Impressionist: Dalton Bates education 16 The Purpose of Education community 24 Your story : Julie Espinosa 27 Lawnmower Racing 28 The Wheels on the Bus 32 SPIRITUAL Storm Proof Your Life 36 NON-PROFIT Building Dreams One Home at a Time 40 HISTORY A Real Class Act - McDonough Class of 48 Celebrates 65 Years! 42 FICTION STORY Train Wrecked 55 OUTDOORS 4 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M Elder Family Westward Ho! ©2013 Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta, Inc. All rights reserved. columns Dedicated to All Better CHILDREN’S AT HUDSON BRIDGE - 1510 HUDSON BRIDGE ROAD, STOCKBRIDGE 5 M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 M September - October 2013 Publisher/Photographer Production Manager/Editorial Director Editor Layout/Design A G A Z I N E Michie Turpin Jodi Hitt J.M. Wright Oliver Imprints Graphic Design Studio Visit wearehenry.com to: DOWNLOAD THIS ISSUE Contributing Writers Bo Bannon Fernando Del Valle Misty Echols Julie Espinosa Chris Evans Brittany Glynn JD Hardin Justin Harley Diane Ide Dusty McDaniels Dondra Tolerson Laura Turner Jeff Wells SURVIVING A PLANE CRASH NO FAMILY HISTORY Combatting Breast Cancer M A Get Featured or Be a Subject Matter Expert Do you have a positive and unique story to share with the people of Henry County? Write to [email protected]. We’ll contact you for more information if your story fits with one of our editorial themes. SKY SOLDIERS The Story of Joan (Berry) Hale September - October 2013 CONTRIBUTE Re-enacting Combat Rescues G A Z I N E NEVER FORGET 9-11 Advertise in We Are Henry Give your business the power to reach over 30,000 potential customers and promote its strengths. Email Michie Turpin at [email protected] . Festival Kickoff Concert! All Day Festival Fun! Friday, October 4th 6:00pm-9:00pm Saturday, October 5th 9:00am-5:00pm A Tribute to Motown with Unisoghn! Art & Unique Craft vendors Food trucks, beverage vendors & a Food trucks preview of festival vendors! Beverage vendors Interactive children’s area Live music & entertainment We Are Henry Magazine looks forward to hearing from you! Please send all correspondence to [email protected]. We Are Henry Magazine is published bi-monthly. All contents are copyrighted by We Are Henry, LLC. Reproduction, in whole or part, without permission is prohibited. We Are Henry, LLC. reserves liability in error to a printed correction. Socialize with We Are Henry Follow us on: Cover Credit The Stars and Stripes proudly flying over the City of Hampton, GA. Wheels on th Bus Story We are sad to report that one of the drivers honored in the article but unable to appear for the picture passed away from an illness shortly after the article was completed. Ms. Pat Johnson, 70, of Stockbridge, passed away on August 1, 2013. She was set to begin her 36th year transporting students in Henry County. She will be greatly missed by her family at home, at work, and the thousands of kids she interacted with over her career. facebook.com/wearehenry We Want To Hear From You, Call or Click Today ! Register for the first ever Stockbridge 1/2 Marathon Saturday, October 5th 20% discount with Coupon Code: BRIDGE2013 For more information & to register: raceforthiscity.com 770.634.9213 [email protected] 6 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M For More Information: CityofStockbridge.com | A 770.389.5982 M O V E R S N D S H A Ext P E 1R S 2 0 1 3 7 Profiling PROFILE we are From Small Beginnings to the Big Apple By Dondra ‘Dot’ Tolerson T THE DANCE THEATRE OF HARLEM WAS FOUNDED “ Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us”. 8 W E A — Unknown R E H E N R Y . C O M in 1969 by Arthur Mitchell and Karel Shook. It has been held in high esteem all these years with the New York Times calling it “one of ballet’s most exciting undertakings.” The multifaceted organization encompasses: a performing ensemble, a leading arts education center and Dancing Through Barriers (a national/international educational community outreach program). Dance Theatre of Harlem is known for setting new standards in the performing arts and is a globally acclaimed dance institute. Only the best of the best are accepted into their school and programs. According to Dance Theatre of Harlem…. Henry County’s own Chaise Jones, is one of the best! This past spring Chaise, 13, was notified she had been selected to participate in the Theatre of Harlem’s 2013 Summer Intensive program. “When I heard the news, I was so excited and shocked because the audition was very difficult.” Chaise recalled, “there were a lot of other girls that I thought were really good and I was proud of myself for making it.” For Chaise, preparation for her audition required both mental focus as well as being physically prepared. “I told myself to do my best and stay confident.” The Summer Intensive consisted of a diverse curriculum with a focus on classical ballet and allied disciplines designed to teach students dance theory and how to become technically stronger dancers. Chaise enjoyed the experience of learning new techniques, meeting other young dancers, and the overall atmosphere of New York. The four week program began in July and consisted of a rigorous five day a week schedule. The participants also had time for educational field trips to see some of New York City’s landmarks and sites. Chaise’s journey leading up to this prestigious invitation began eight years ago when her parents enrolled her in ballet class. She still remembers her first experience at the ballet barre. As Chaise continued to show interest in dance, her parents continued to enrolled her for further lessons year after year. She became serious M O V E R about dance around the age of 9. As her skills began to sharpen, she realized she had true talent. Her mother, Myla Jones, shared a humorous story of how Chaise would announce time limits each year of how long she intended to dance. “When she was 7 years old, she announced she was going to dance until she was 9. When she was 8, she announced she would dance until she was 10. Finally at the age of 9, the announcements stopped and it became apparent that dancing had become a longterm interest.” Myla shared another touching story about Chaise that embodies a bit of irony regarding her feet. Chaise arrived unexpectedly two months before her due date. As a preemie, she was monitored in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) where she underwent a multitude of tests. “The medical staff had to continually draw blood from her feet to run the tests,” said Myla. “Her feet were bruised and sensitive. Even after her discharge, she didn’t want anyone to touch her feet and would pull away at the slightest touch.” Myla recalls how distressing it was when she wanted to try and comfort Chaise. “It really bothered me at the time,” she said, “but now she dances on the same feet that she didn’t want anyone to touch.” Since the age of 6, Chaise has been a student at Gift of Dance Studio in McDonough, Georgia, owned and directed by Keila Harvey. Presently Chaise dedicates around 10 hours per week to practicing her craft. In addition to her classes in ballet/pointe, jazz, tap, lyrical and hip hop….she is part of the competition team. The invitation to the Big Apple has been one of many rewards Chaise has received for her hard work. But Chaise’s passion for dance does not overshadow her ability to focus on her studies. She has received many academic kudos, too, including: the All ‘A’ Honor Roll, President’s Education Award for Academic Excellence….and a perfect score in Reading on the CRCT for the second year in a row! Chaise plans to pursue a degree in the medical field after high school - and, of course, continue to pursue her passion for dance. S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 9 PROFILE PROFILE Chosen for a Better Path I by Fernando Del Valle “I knew immediately that I was paralyzed.” In one ominous moment, Bill Renje’s life was changed. “The difference is what you do after a traumatic event,” says Bill. His story begins in an unremarkable way. Good kid from a supportive, average middle class family - with two younger brothers. Bill gets involved with the wrong crowd and makes poor choices. “When I was in Junior High just outside Chicago, IL, I was not a leader. I was a follower and gradually became involved with marijuana when I was an eighth grader. And from there, I was 10 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M experimenting with cocaine, crack and LSD by the time I was a senior in High School.” The bad decisions, poor choices and compromises came to a head in 1989. At the age of 17, in the early morning hours of June 17, Bill and a friend went to a house to make a drug deal. But when they drove up to the drug house, to their surprise, they showed up in the middle of a police raid. Fearful and shocked, his friend stopped the car; but an armed police officer ran up to the passenger side of the car screaming at Bill to open the door and get out of the car. Bill’s friend, scared and already intoxicated, decided to flee the area. As he drove away, he bumped into the officer’s handgun. The officer’s handgun discharged as it was bumped by the car. The bullet went through the window and into Bill’s spinal cord. In a flash of light, Bill was paralyzed and everything in his life changed. Bill was not charged with a crime, but he received a life sentence of a different kind. As a result of his gunshot accident, he was diagnosed as a quadriplegic. He had paralysis of his entire body below the neck. Now Bill had the choice of moving forward through the tough road ahead or giving up. “I went through all the emotions and sensations of feeling sorry for myself, but it did not last long because of the love of my family and friends. Their support helped me pull through and I did not want to disappoint them. They gave me strength and I felt obligated to do right for them,” says Bill. “In therapy I learned to take care of myself; to bathe, put on my clothes, even to drive. I did not want to be dependent on others.” Bill decided early on that he would live, really live... and do everything he could to have a normal life. He went on to college and while there began playing Rugby for his college team. That was not all. He earned a B.A. in Sociology and a Master’s degree in Journalism. After graduating from college, he moved to Florida because he could continue playing Rugby, since the weather was milder than in Chicago. He proved to have the skills and passion for the sport and in 1996 he was selected for the US National Team in the Paralympics. Competing with his team in Atlanta, GA, they won the gold medal for their efforts. He was also part of the Team USA that won gold in the Rugby World Championships in 1998. Finally, a third gold medal was earned in Sidney, Australia in the 2000 games while playing for Team USA. Bill returned to Florida where he found a treasure greater than any gold medal when he met and married his wife Amy. Their life together blossomed and extended to include three precious children: Nico, Noah and Dani Rae. Bill shines when he talks about his family. “I want to have an impact with my family, with people in general and share with them what God has done with me and for me.” Since joining the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, Bill speaks at schools and camps almost every day, inspiring and impacting the lives of young people with his story. He has written a book about his story titled A Chosen Bullet, to help others overcome traumatic events and make better choices in life. Bill has never looked back wishing for a different turn of events. “After I was paralyzed, the Lord put me on a better path; I have no regrets or wished for a different life.” On that fateful night, Bill was chosen by a bullet, and then God chose him for a mission. Food Depot Henry is Success on their homes and a small loan from a local bank. Their business philosophy of recycling and repurposing is a natural by-product of their upbringing. Mr. Taylor reflects, “I grew up in Locust Grove where my parents struggled to make a meager living providing for us kids. I learned the value of hard work from them.” With a smile, Mr. Taylor unashamedly reports that he began working in a local grocery store at age 13. He says, “I continued working throughout my high school years. After graduating from Henry County High School, I attended Georgia State College where I earned a degree in Business Administration.” After college, he continued gaining experience in the grocery industry by working for a chain named Big Apple. Mr. Johnson has a similar story. In the early ‘70s, the two became more acquainted and learned they shared a similar dream of owning their own store. Both men believed they could put their skills to better use working for themselves. That’s when they started looking for their first store and found the Stockbridge location. The partners have implemented a business plan focused on two key components: customer satisfaction and employee development. Mr. Taylor reveals that “from the beginning, we have focused on providing quality products for budget-conscious consumers. By focusing on staple items, including fresh produce and meats, Food Depot strives to keep prices lower than our competition.” By avoiding the costly additions of an in-store bakery, pharmacy, and other non-essentials, Mr. Taylor says that Food Depot is able to remain very competitive. Mr. Taylor is equally proud of the employees at Food Depot. He brags that many of his employees have worked at Food Depot for years and “their commitment to the company and serving its customers is crucial to Food Depot’s growth and success.” After learning about Employee Stock Option Plans (ESOPs) in the early ‘90’s, the two partners decided to implement the program at Food Depot. Now, the company is completely owned by the employees, who are rewarded with additional stock ownership with each year of continued service with the company. Mr. Taylor and Mr. Johnson have remained friends for 38 years and continue to work together. They each have family members who work for Food Depot. O By Misti Echols ONE OF MY FAVORITE WEEKEND ACTIVITIES these days is to dine at locally owned restaurants in quaint, refurbished buildings with unique characteristics. These establishments usually have a story to tell and an owner with an appreciation for history and a love for people. These eateries frequently showcase rescued vintage items giving them a second chance as up-cycled art. Up-cylcing is transforming abandoned items into something useful rather than throwing them away or tearing them down. Lately, the idea of up-cycling older buildings for restaurants and boutiques has gained in popularity -- even outside the perimeter. However, for two thriving Stockbridge businessmen, the idea of finding older buildings and giving them new life has proven to be a model for success for decades. Gerald Taylor and Raymond Johnson are the founding partners of a growing, independent grocery chain known as Food Depot. Despite having 38 locations and 2,200 employees, Food Depot has never opened a store in a newly constructed building. The company always seeks out a building abandoned by another grocery store and vigorously negotiates to lease the space for their next location. As you might expect, they also buy used equipment whenever possible. The two Henry County natives made a bold move in 1975 when they decided to leave their jobs, pool all of their money, and risk everything to acquire a grocery store adjacent to the railroad tracks in Stockbridge. As young entrepreneurs with plenty of desire but limited resources, they purchased this struggling country market from the bankruptcy trustee, using proceeds from second mortgages M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 11 PROFILE PROFILE Even with the facts right in front of me, it was unbelievable that I could actually have cancer in my breast. I was never sick and hardly ever missed a day of work. Yet, now strangers were telling me that I had cancer and needed two separate rounds of chemotherapy, radiation, and surgery to remove the cancer. They also warned me that these treatments come with serious side effects; and without the medication I’d die. I was stunned. No choice remained. My daughter was getting married in just 3 months and I desperately wanted to wait until her special day was over. That was not an option. The tumor was large and my doctor wanted to begin treatment right away. “Get a wig,” he said. “We need to get going.” Six months later, the dust seemed to have settled and I was beginning to get a little (albeit gray) hair back -- I was so proud. I had returned to work fulltime when my shortness of breath began. I had been forewarned of the possibility of severe heart problems following chemotherapy, but never dreamed it would happen to me. “Your heart is failing,” my cardiologist Dr. Amin told me after an echocardiogram and stress test. Several medications and a defibrillator put me back on track…or so I thought. Eight years had passed since my diagnosis of breast cancer, when I felt the strange nickel-sized pain in my sternum. It felt like a bruise, and didn’t hurt unless I pressed on it. A bone scan revealed my worst fear. The cancer had returned in my bones. It seemed impossible that I could be going through radiation again. Xometa, a form of chemotherapy used to strengthen my bones, is now given through IV on a quarterly basis. Anastrazole, a pill I take every night, prevents the cancer from growing. The tumor growing in my spine proved to be benign. Of the four things I have learned from my 13-yearbattle with breast cancer, the most promising is that the most effective treatment for breast cancer is available now. Still, there is no better outcome than that of early detection. October is breast cancer awareness month. If you are between 35 and 40, make it a priority to get a screening mammogram today. If you are over 40, mammograms should be part of your yearly routine. Self breast exams are important, so start a buddy system and remind your partner at the beginning of every month to do a self breast exam. I thank God for allowing me to attend my daughter’s wedding, even in a wig. More than that, I am thankful to still be spending time with my two daughters and two grandchildren, Ansley (8) and Bo (7). Eight years had passed since my diagnosis of breast cancer, when I felt the strange nickel-sized pain in my sternum. Y “YOU CERTAINLY LOOK BETTER ON THE OUTSIDE than you do on the inside,” I can still hear the No Family History neurosurgeon’s words today. As he studied the MRI and PET scan results, I watched and waited. “You’ll need surgery,” he said. “The tumor in your spine is pressing on your spinal cord -- that’s what’s causing your pain.” As he spoke, my thoughts wandered back to a day 13 years earlier. That was the day I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was August of 2000. Some weeks earlier, I had felt a thickened area on the side of my right breast. It can’t be anything, I rationalized -- no family history here. As a nurse practitioner at Eagle’s Landing Family Practice, I had told countless patients that almost 80 percent of breast cancer’s diagnoses had no family history. Yet now I wanted to use this same idea as a safety net for myself. A few days and many tests later, it was confirmed. I had lobular breast cancer, a fairly rare cancer that affects the milk-making lobules in the breast. Most breast cancers are ductal and present with a lump or mass. I had been fooled by the lack of a lump. Not to mention that I had missed my last 3 mammograms. No family history. No lump. Still, I knew better. by Dusty McDaniel 12 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 13 PROFILE 130 HERS Young Impressionist: Dalton Bates One simple bird was all he had to give his mother, and so it started at a very young age. T by JD Hardin This delicate masterpiece with life and color beyond the tool used to draw it, was the first ripple in what has become an ever flowing body of artwork supplied by one talented rising 6th grade youth in Henry County. Lori Bates proudly produces a binder holding a sampling of her son’s artwork from over the years. She can quickly tell you when and where each piece was produced and what they signify. Some were gifts and some were projects. Some won contests at school, while each one of them won the hearts of proud parents. Each work is visible proof of a gift that was inherited by Dalton, according to Lori, from two previous generations – his dad and his grandfather. To young Dalton, the items being collected and catalogued were examples of his growing talent as an illustrator, painter, and sculptor. His skills are on display at home and also on display in homes of Timber Ridge Elementary families. Dalton just completed the 5th grade at the school, and one of his works of art was selected as the cover of the school’s yearbook. Glenn Bates, Dalton’s father and an accomplished artist himself, will tell you that his son has a great deal more talent than he did at such a young age. Glenn says the artistic abilities started with his dad, and Dalton is the latest recipient of those abilities. 14 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M 77 HERS With each sketch he produces, Dalton strengthens his abilities and produces work better than the ones before. Remarkably, his studio is mobile. That is to say that Dalton takes his work anywhere there is flat surface to support his paper and tool of choice. Tablets upon tablets of sketches can be found tucked strategically within reach for a quick idea that needs to be illustrated. Even while receiving numerous awards and recognition for his work, Dalton remains extremely humble and focused on developing his skills, including production of a cartoon character series about a spunky dog named Zookie and his evil nemesis Dr. Nuttyburgh, an evil squirrel. Animators will have competition from Henry County, Georgia, if Dalton remains committed to honing his craft. Hallmark should also be concerned; Dalton makes all of the cards he gives to his family. Needless to say, they are quite exceptional. Part of his continued growth in art is expanding his interest across different mediums. Sculpting is the latest example of just how deep the art gene is rooted in this young artist. One of his latest pieces is an elephant he recently sculpted unbeknownst to his parents. For a family so keenly aware of their son’s abilities and work displayed, and often produced, throughout their house, this was a nice surprise. His most intricate sculpture is that of a Viking, complete with familiar helmet and horns and features so defined and detailed that one would easily assume that the artwork was bought in a gallery or store. Dalton’s talents will take him where he wants to go, and his dedication will take him further. He remains a normal kid playing sports, studying hard, and hanging out with family and friends, but his advanced talents give him more to complete what can aptly be described as a well-rounded individual. M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 15 Education we are “ The foundation of every state is the education of its youth.” 16 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M — Diogenes M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 17 EDUCATION EDUCATION Here is a list of students starting college this fall with impressive scholarships! The Purpose of Education? Martin Luther King answered that question some 67 years ago. I couldn’t really find a better answer. “To my mind, education has a two-fold function in society. On the one hand it should discipline the mind for sustained and persistent speculation. On the other hand it should integrate human life around central, focusing ideals. It is a tragedy that the latter is often neglected in our educational system. Education should equip us with the power to think effectively and objectively. To think is one of the hardest things in the world, and to think objectively is still harder. Yet this is the job of education. Education should cause us to rise beyond the horizon of legions of half truth, prejudices and propaganda. Education should enable us to “weigh and consider,” to discern the true from the false, the relevant from the irrelevant, and the real from the unreal. The first function of education, therefore, is to teach man to think intensively. But this is not the whole of education. If education stops here it can be the most dangerous force in society. Some of the greatest criminals in society have been men {who} possessed the power of concentration and reason, but they had no morals. Perhaps the most dangerous periods in civilization have been those periods when there was no moral foundation in society. Education without morals is like a ship without a compass, merely wandering nowhere. It is not enough to have the power of concentration, but we must have worthy objectives upon which to concentrate. It is not enough to know truth, but we must love truth and sacrifice for it.” — Martin Luther King, Jr. 18 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M Courtney Allen Lasha Anderson Jake Baker Ashley Barber Zach Barron Haley Austin Charles Avery Megan Betsa Michala Bibbins Hanah Billups Patrick Bischoff Kennedy Brewer Kennedy Cullen Caleb Cyprian Morgan Dallas Travis Dauro Chris Davenport Josie Deason Isaiah Dennis Issac Dennis Cayla Doolittle Taesha Duboise Chandler Brown Dieonte Bryant Tim Butterfield Ashlyn Butts James Carman James Chastain Ashley Childree Anthony Ciccarello Domonique Clune Jovan Corbitt Derrick Craine Kennedi Crosby ACADEMIC ART Tia Patrick dreams of opening her own studio one day and with her experience and schooling at Savannah College of Art and Design, she should be well on her way! Graduating from Henry County High School, Tia is off and learning the tricks of the trade in video and photography. M O V E Zach Moss is UGA bound and couldn’t be more excited. He is majoring in Exercise and Sport Science with hopes of a career in physical therapy but just might be looking forward to game days between the hedges a little more! Sick‘em! R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 19 EDUCATION EDUCATION We understand that there may be a few star students that aren’t listed and to them we say ‘Well Done!’ Most of the students listed received full scholarships and in some cases to more than one college. There were a couple of overachievers I noticed that had six or seven schools rewarding them with paid tuition and books. Amazing kids come from Henry County. Congratulations to all of you! Elizabeth Hall Daley Halter Simeon Hambrick Peter Hansen Jordan Harris Katie Henderson Nathan Hensley Tori Higginbotham Tylia Higgins Devonna Hill Savannah Holcomb Joel Holland Uriah Horne Emily Hunt Lyle Hunt Morgan Hutcheson Jason Huynh Daenique Jengelley Osagie Jesuorobo Joseph Johnson Woodward Johnson Donovahn Jones Morgan Jones Tevin Jones Payton Jonson Trevin Joseph James Edwards V Grayson Evans Elizabeth Fincher Nicole Findura McDonald Fingall Austin Garvey Xavier Gates Molly Gaynier Katie Goodwin Candler Gregory Marquis Griffin ATHLETIC Marquis Griffin - Air Force - Football. Isaac Rochell - Notre Dame - Football Both star graduates from Eagles Landing Christian Academy will enjoy their ride at these impressive institutions. Keep your eyes on college football and look out for our boys! 20 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M Richard Kim Jonathan Kitchens Pamela Konken Sandy Lance Alex Landers Carleigh Lawless Titana Layssard Austin Lee Elina Lee McCay Leslie Matthew Loudermilk Robert Maddox Tyler Mangrum Leonard Mason Shawayne McDaniel-Lawrence Nathan Meade Jailyn Mercadel Mary Susan Milam Kat Milby Bailey Miller Patrick Miller Kayla Millikan Sean Moore Taelor Moran Zach Moss Ricardo Murphy, Jr Victoria Nelson Mitchell Nola Rachel Paul Tia Patrick Jakeline Paz-Serna Anthony Peppers Soloman Thomas Sydnee Thompson Tyler Tilton Mark Tran Taylor Vaughn Tyler Vaughn Ahkia Walker Fontayne Washington Terrance Waugh Rebekah Welborn Jesse Welch Tyler Petty Mollie Rogula Heidi Ross Kala Ross Lauren Sarver Gray Simpson Jung SoLah Andrew Spann Joseph Spann Joshuah Speights Amber Sundeen Bill Teknipp Richard Thach Just a few stats on Sports Scholarships Keyante Green - Purdue - Football Jevius Terry - Troy University - Football DJ Curl - Charleston Southern - Football Tyler Petty - Berry - Football Jacob Heyward - University of Miami - Baseball Cameron Ragsdale - Gulf Coast State College - Baseball Josh Smith - North Greenville University - Baseball Natalie Brown - Point University - Soccer Tal Covington - Lipscomb University - Track & Field Aaron Powell Dany Ramirez Jasmine Rangel Adrienne Reeves Jenna Reinhardt Tyler Rice Abigail Rigsby Desmond Ringer Andrew Roberts Sydney Wilson Keenan Wise Eric Wortham, Jr. M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 21 A D V E R T O R I A L Community we are story and photography by Peto Fallas My plan was to take a picture of my dad at the airport as he held my son for the first time. As I arrived and began getting my camera ready, I heard a swell of applause. When I looked up I saw this image. A young Latino man in his military uniform hugging his mother who was overwhelmed with emotion. He had just arrived home from his tour of service...alive ! The way in which his mother embraced him said it all. The price of life, the love of a mother and the daily worries while her son was away seemed to resolve in his arms at that very moment. Could there be a better present for a mother? While I was waiting for a defining moment in my life, I was able to witness one in somebody else’s. The following quote is from the movie LOVE ACTUALLY. “Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion’s starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don’t see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it’s always there - fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know, none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I’ve got a sneaking suspicion... love actually is all around.” With a camera lens you see a piece of the world But with your eyes you see the whole world. Fallas Family Vision Helping you... see the world Fallas Family Vision 1415 Hwy 20 West McDonough, GA 30253 Phone | (770) 954-9898 Fax | (770) 954-9147 Email | [email protected] www.fallasvision.com 22 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M “ It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up”. — Babe Ruth M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 23 COMMUNITY YOUR STORY Now Open In Locust Grove Women's Health Specialists is the sole all-female ob/gyn practice in Henry County. We are a four physician and two midwife full service obstetrics and gynecology practice. We provide state of the art, in office procedures including: ultrasonography, permanent sterilization, urinary incontinence evaluations and procedures to correct abnormal uterine bleeding. 5040 Bill Gardner Parkway Locust Grove, Georgia 30248 115 Eagle Spring Drive Stockbridge, Georgia 30281 www.girldocs.com Phone: 770-474-0064 | Fax: 770-474-2998 | After Hours: (770) 474-0064 Julie Espinosa tells us about her Grandfather and how he changed her quality of life. Southern Crescent Nephrology, P.C. We are committed to providing the highest quality of comprehensive kidney care in the following areas: Kidney Failure Kidney Stone Dialysis Therapy Hypertension Pre and Post Transplant Care Various Other Kidney Diseases In November of 1991, my Grandfather awoke with a severe headache, that wouldn’t go away. When my mother was able to convince him to go the hospital, a CT showed he had a very small intracranial bleed. At the time, I was away at college, at the University of Miami. Four convenient locations: Stockbridge Locust Grove Riverdale Griffin This occurred on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, and it was my first holiday away from home. I spent that weekend with my roommate and her family unable to contact anyone at home, which was very unusual. My family didn’t want to worry me, so everyone in the house had strict instructions to wait on telling me. I didn’t find out until that Saturday when I spoke to my youngest brother (who was at my father’s house). He told me that our grandfather was in the hospital. It was my dad that finally told me what had happened. When my Granddad was discharged he was instructed against driving or being left alone. He was ambulatory and just like normal but his doctor was concerned that he would have another Stroke. So, I made up my mind to go home. I transferred to the University of the Virgin Islands at the end of the Fall semester. (continued on page 26) 24 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M 678.289.0508 SCNKIDNEY.COM 250 Village Center Parkway, Ste 100 • Stockbridge, GA 30281 Serving our community with pride for the last 18 years M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 25 (continued from page 24) benton village He had his second stroke in February 1992. He was at home, eating breakfast with my grandmother, when he suddenly lost consciousness. I had taken my brother to school, and had gone to campus for my classes ( I had arranged my schedule so that I was in class at the same time as my brother, so I would drop him and pick him up from school, without any schedule conflicts). We didn’t have any cell phones, and 9-1-1 was not a service that was available in St. Croix at that time. My grandmother called my mother, who was on-duty as a paramedic at the time. He was transported by EMS. His second stoke was life-threatening. When me and my brother got home we found the front porch unlocked, our dining room was a wreck and there was trash on the floor. My grandparents were very tidy people. We honestly thought we had been robbed, but our grandfather’s car was parked outside, and no valuables were missing. Then I noticed that all the garbage was medical stuff; gauze, angiocaths, the stylet for intubation. I had grown up with a mother who was a paramedic, and was always interested in what she did. I knew what it was, and what it was used for, but I didn’t want to panic my little brother. So, I called my mom’s station, and they told me to come to the hospital, and if I couldn’t handle it they would send the supervisor for us. All I could think about is how we needed to take the car so my grandparents could drive home. It really didn’t register with me yet I was totally prepared for what I saw when I got there. My Grandfather was intubated. He was also on the ventilator for about 24 hours. This stroke was definitely not from bleeding, it was ischemic. There was nothing they could do but wait and see what deficits he had. We were lucky that my grandmother was there with him when it happened and EMS arrived so quickly. They removed him from the vent and he was fully alert within 2 hours. He had severe speech and motor deficits, complete loss of motor function on his left side. He would remain bedridden until he died in August of 1994. He had always been so active, not even the flu could keep him in bed all day. He always told us he never wanted to be dependent on everyone else to do things for him. All those who came to visit kept saying how lucky he was to be You want the best for your loved one. Let Benton Village help. Choosing the best option for a senior loved one can be a confusing and overwhelming process. At Benton Village we stand ready to serve you, even if we’re not your ultimate choice. 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I lived with a mother who worked shifts, and I didn’t want to do that. My dad and grandmother were teachers, and I couldn’t imagine teaching kids. While I wanted to be financially stable (rich), I couldn’t see myself in a business office pushing papers. My parents wanted me to start classes at UVI until I figured it out. I wanted to go to school in the states and explore different options. The only person who supported my decision was my grandfather, “she needs to figure it out for herself... let her explore the world the way she wants to explore it.” It was ironic that he was also the reason why I returned, went to UVI and settled on a business degree… until I figured it out. However, it was that experience of his illness… taking care of him and learning more than I had ever known about healthcare, illness prevention, and quality versus quantity of life that made me realize that I wanted a career in healthcare. My grandfather was a healthy man. His first career was as an apothecary pharmacist. He counseled many family members and friends on the need to live a healthy lifestyle, make a regular visit to your doctor, and to follow a plan of care. He had been a smoker, but had quit about 10 years before his stroke. My parents had divorced and we moved in with them. He believed “children should not have to live in smoke” and so he quit. He always maintained a walking regimen with my grandmother. Every afternoon they would get out and “get some air.” He and my grandmother got regular check-ups, and he never had a problem, until the day he had a stroke. He was the last person you would expect to have a stroke. There are some risk factors we can control, and some we cannot. The most important thing is to act quickly to better improve your recovery chances and quality of life. COMMUNITY Lawnmower Racing S By Bo Bannon So why did the chicken cross the road? This has been a question of intrigue, jokes, and deep philosophical discussion for decades. I think I have the answer. You see, since the beginning of time, men (and animals) have been racing. I bet you dollars to donuts that the chicken crossed the road on a dare from one of his buddies to see who could make it across the fastest. To the winner - the spoils. To the looser - well, Truett had to get his start somewhere. So why not free chicken? The Romans raced chariots (a pretty brutal sport if you’ve ever watched Ben Hur). And the fact that men foot raced before the birth of Christ, is scriptural truth. Horse races have been around for millennia, and technology created the race for space. The more advanced we become, the higher the need for speed. Organizations such as NASCAR, BMX, USATF, and USLMRA, provide rules and regulations to govern like-minded people who enjoy racing in their respective sports. Most of these acronyms I’m sure you recognized as race organizations for cars, motocross bikes, and track and field. So what in the world is the ULSMRA? I must admit, like many of you, I was not very familiar with this racing association. However, the Saturday morning ritual for many American men that produces the sweet smell of freshly cut grass on a crisp spring or summer morning, has now created something else for us to race. The USLMRA, or United States Lawn Mower Racing Association was chartered on April 1, 1992 to turn a weekend chore into a competitive sport. Lawn mower racing has actually been around since the 1960’s, and has grown to be a very popular past time in Henry County. On any given weekend during the season, which begins in April, you can meet up with 1,000+ like-minded race fans and watch 17 HP of single cylinder over-head valve Briggs & Stratton, Honda and a number of other small engine manufacturers duke it out around the oval track at speeds of up to 60 mph. Henry County has also hosted major lawn mower races such as the Southern Shootout, which is M O V E R part of the STA-BIL Lawn & Garden Mower Racing Series. Last year, the races brought as many as 100 racers from all over the country, and hosted international racers from as far away as Canada. Locally, names such as Bobby “Mr. Mow It All” Cleveland, “Insane” Shane Shellnut and Jamie “J-mow” Maurice….cover the news in the Georgia chapter of the USLMRA (GLMRA). Just how big is this sport in Henry County? An example is Bobby Cleveland of BC Racing in Locust Grove, who currently holds the world record for the fastest land speed at 96.529 mph, which he reclaimed in 2010. He set his first world record in 2006 at 81.792 mph. Bobby is also the most decorated racer in the USLMRA. From my humble estimation, that’s pretty big. Now the machines these guys are racing aren’t your everyday, ordinary riding lawn mowers you see in your neighbor’s front yard. These machines are kind of like stock cars, with a very organized set of rules that provide the governance on how the mowers can be modified to meet the legal standards of the USLMRA. Some are quite extraordinary. While they aren’t quite as high tech or outfitted to the level of NASCAR or Indy 500, there is no less passion or effort that goes into creating one of these mower masterpieces. Investments to create one of these machines can range in the thousands, which is more than the investment in my first car (and my second and third combined). So if you’re one of the many Henry County residents who enjoy a good weekend of racing at the Atlanta Motor Speedway, you can hear the roar of high precision machinery and smell the fuel laced night air at any of the local races here in the metro Atlanta area for a fraction of the cost and without the traffic nightmare of a race weekend. For local race information, look on the web at www.letsmow.com. You can also follow the USLMA and the GLMRA on Facebook. S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 27 The Wheels On The Bus Go Round and Round COMMUNITY by JD Hardin Oh, the wheels on the buses in Henry County Schools go round and round every morning and every afternoon as the buses crisscross the expansive district. Henry County Schools exploded from just a few schools to 50 schools. Approximately 310 bus drivers safely deliver their extended family members each year. These new family members are student riders, of course. For eight matriarchs of the student transportation realm, the past 30 plus years have introduced them to generations of families and extended their own by several thousand members. Elaine Battle, Darlene Campbell, Charlotte Elston, Pam Evans, Pat Johnston, Ann Moyers, Patsy Newell, and Laraine Tinsley each deserve a gold medal to wear while driving their golden yellow buses. Each has seen her fair share of students over the years, and they all have enough stories to fill four or five issues of this magazine. In a recent meeting with the drivers it was easy to see the passion for their craft in the words used to recall the highs and lows of their days ensuring students arrive at school safe and sound. However, craft seems to fall short of qualifying what years of doing what you love can evolve into. While there were lows each driver could remember, the number of highs dwarfs the rough spots and keeps them going in a profession that does not receive much fanfare. Hopefully the lack of notoriety will be reversed, because these skilled professionals are the starting point for many students and their education and ultimately the future of our country. A Georgian by the name of Jimmy Carter was in the White House when the most tenured of the eight drivers opened her first bus door to students eagerly awaiting a ride on the first day of school. Since a few of these ladies started driving a bus in the late 70’s, Henry County Schools have gone from around a dozen schools and approximately 6,100 students, to 50 schools and 40,000 students. Of those 40,000 students -- 24,000 students utilize one of the safest modes of transportation around. If you count the number of people sitting on their buses, regardless of if the passenger rode twice in one day or if they ride every day of the week, each lady has probably transported a half of a million riders during their career. Let that sink in for a moment. Combined, the ladies have over 260 years of experience behind the wheel! And let’s not forget that drivers, especially those featured here, are much more than bus drivers. When they are on the bus -- they are parents, psychologists, nurses, counselors, investigators, mediators, and guardians. They may not hold degrees for these other professions, but their riders respect them enough to engage them in these roles. The bond between students and school bus drivers is one that lasts a lifetime for a great number of those rolling through communities on the oh so recognizable yellow buses. From a stick-shift manual bus with no air and minimal safety regulations...to now having some of the common features you would find in a car, there have been many transformations in the school bus industry. These ladies have experienced it all as they conscientiously delivered their precious cargo that would become doctors, lawyers, politicians, small business owners, professional athletes, police and firemen, clergy, scientists, engineers, welders, teachers, artists, chefs, mechanics, and many other occupations. Without these dedicated ladies and their love for their profession, the student riders would not have made it to the schools that started them toward their current careers. And by looking at their smiles and hearing them talk, you know each one of these ladies takes pride in their job and enjoys being a part of it all. I 28 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 29 Spiritual we are Friends. Family. Community. We’re all in this together. State Farm® has a long tradition of being there. That’s one reason why I’m proud to support We Are Henry. Get to a better State®. Brian M Andrews, Agent 1748 Highway 81 E McDonough, GA 30252 Bus: 770-288-4900 [email protected] 1211009 30 “ The Bible is His word and its study gives at once the foundation for our faith and an inspiration to battle onward in the fight against the Tempter.” — John D Rockefeller State Farm, Bloomington, IL W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 31 SPIRITUAL GROWTH W WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER, I LIVED IN SOUTH FLORIDA FOR A FEW YEARS. Storms are frequent there. Many storms were powerful, and some were even a bit scary. To withstand these powerful forces of nature, builders constructed homes carefully, hoping to minimize any damage to the home and the people inside. During one of these powerful storms I remember the sky turning black, the rain pounding on our slate roof, and high winds nearly snapping the palm trees outside. Although the home was modest in size, it was constructed with this storm in mind. You see the builder knew a fierce storm would eventually come to south Florida, and prepared accordingly. This house was virtually stormproof. Storms are not only inevitable in nature, but in life as well. Over the past few years, the economic downturn has impacted the financial wellbeing of many, but also affected people emotionally, relationally, and even spiritually. However, just as my home in south Florida was constructed to endure a powerful storm, there are principles you can implement to stormproof your life. In Matthew chapter 7, Jesus told a story of two builders, one wise, and the other foolish. The wise builder built his house on solid rock, and when the storm came, his house stood strong. The foolish builder built his house on sand, and when the storm came, it collapsed and was completely destroyed. Jesus taught, very simply, that the way to build your house on rock is to listen to His teachings and follow them. This decision, He explained, will prepare and protect you from the storms of life. I have endured some painful storms in my life. These difficulties have given me the opportunity to examine my values and ask myself what was really most important to me. I decided to rearrange my life to better reflect my values. I started focusing less on my own personal success, comfort, and ambition, and focusing more on loving others, serving others, and being generous towards those in need. I can’t prevent a storm from coming in my life, but I can build on solid rock by following Christ’s principles of loving God, loving others, and not just living for my own personal gain. You may have been the victim of a devastating storm in your life and feel like life has collapsed around you. If so, I encourage you to have hope. You can rebuild your life around the principles I have mentioned. When the next storm comes, you will have peace, knowing that your life is not built upon circumstances, but on God’s grace. STORM PROOF YOUR LIFE By Justin Harley To contact Pastor Justin Harley or for more information on The Landing Church, please visit us at www.thelanding.org. 32 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 33 NonProfit we are KAREN C. DRESCHER, CPA Professional accounting services covering the state of Georgia. Financial security is having the money you need at all stages of life. With Modern Woodmen of America, I can provide financial solutions to help you achieve it. Call me – let’s talk about your plan for life. We Are Committed to You! A Full Service Accounting Firm Accounting/bookkeeping Service Payroll Service KEVIN CALLISON Tax Prep for Individual, 110 Loan Oak Dr. McDonough, GA 30252 678-371-6396 [email protected] Corp and Partnership returns for Multi-States. IRS/State Representation Other services are also available! 1945 Highway 42, McDonough, GA (770) 474-0464 www.karencdreshercpa.com [email protected] 34 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M “ Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.” — Dalai Lama M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 35 NON-PROFIT Building Dreams One Home at a Time By Laura Turner W THERE’S NO PLACE LIKE HOME. JUST ASK DESIREE CRAWFORD AND HER SON JORDAN. As a single mother of a five year old, a home meant: not having to share walls with neighbors, her son could finally get a puppy, and she could decorate and make the space her own. But most importantly, it meant a stable environment for her son that only owning a home could bring. This past year, those dreams came true as she became the proud new owner of one of Habitat for Humanity’s newest homes in Henry County. While working full time for Georgia Power, Desiree was required to complete 250 hours of sweat equity with Habitat as well as complete 50 hours of financial literacy and home owner education. Habitat has provided over 2,700 hours of training to future homeowners like Desiree in Henry and Clayton counties. “A family’s life can change forever when they own their own home,” explains Melissa Chapman, CEO of Southern Crescent Habitat for Humanity. “It’s a launch pad for what’s to come... parents become more connected in their community and jobs; children perform better in school.” Statistics show that children who grow up in home ownership are less likely to become pregnant as a teenager or become juvenile offenders. They are also more likely to graduate high school. Adult home owners are more likely to be voters and engaged in their community. 36 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M “Desiree’s home build really shows the strength of what Habitat can pull together,” describes Chapman. As part of the Southern Crescent Habitat for Humanity’s Faith Build, her home was built by an army of volunteers that included churches, corporations such as Delta Air Lines and Wells Fargo, as well as individuals. The Faith Build was a coalition of 13 area churches that spent ten consecutive Saturdays building homes for Habitat families. Regardless of ability, volunteers can engage in hands-on-building of Habitat homes and work alongside the beneficiaries of the homes. Volunteers participate in new construction as well as rehabilitation of existing homes. “Our investment into families continues over many years but when it comes to building a house, we utilize our staff and a lot of volunteers and we build an attractive, affordable house in as little as three weeks. We get in, get out, and change a family forever,” says Bob Johnson, Southern Crescent Habitat’s Director of Development. “It’s a cool dynamic, and we get to repeat that 35 times a year. This next year, we’ll see more activity in Henry County than ever before.” One of Southern Crescent Habitat’s newest initiatives is its ReStore, coming this fall to McDonough. Habitat ReStore is a resale outlet that accepts new and gently used donated goods from individuals, corporations and organizations, which are then sold to the public at a fraction of their retail price. The focus is on home improvement goods such as furniture, home accessories, building materials and appliances. “There is real power in our ReStores,” explains Senior Director of Habitat International’s ReStore Operating Group. “Our ability over the next decade to keep funding homeowners like Desiree will depend greatly on our ReStores.” Proceeds from the ReStore will fund Habitat’s mission to serve low income families in the local community through home ownership, home repair and education. “ReStores depend on the generosity of our donors,” explains Meyer. “Currently, our greatest need is donations of furniture, building materials and appliances.” Scheduled to open in October, the Henry County ReStore will be located at 1465 Highway 20 West in McDonough, near Avalon Church and Chick-fil-A. Pick-up service is available, and donations can be dropped at the ReStore beginning in October. To learn more, visit www.schabitat.org. M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 37 History we are 38 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M “ The worth of life is not determined by a single failure or a solitary success.” — The Emperor’s Club M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 39 HISTORY HISTORY Class Reunion 1988 a real class act MCDONOUGH CLASS OF ’48 CELEBRATES 65 YEARS! T by Diane Ide The McDonough High School Class of 1948 recently had their 65th reunion at the school house in McDonough (now serving as the administration building for Henry County Schools). It was a time of celebrating and remembering good times and also remembering with great fondness those classmates who are no longer living. (Clifford Gunter became a helicopter instructor in the Army. He was the first person this class lost, dying from a swimming accident in 1955.) In 1948 there was no 12th grade. For them high school meant only 10th and 11th grades. They remember when the school bus likely covered more dirt ground than paved...and playing basketball on a dirt court, because there was no gymnasium. There were 87 graduates in the McDonough Class of 1948. Many of them bear names that are well known in Henry County or are related to prominent families deeply rooted in our county’s history. Some names are recognizable for the streets that we travel, like Elliott and Upchurch. It is remarkable how many of the graduates from that year remained in or near Henry County. These graduates became successful in a variety of areas. Bobby Russell went on to own a sizable amount of Henry County real estate. Billy Carter owned a trucking company. Dr. Joe Blissit practiced family medicine and was instrumental in the early days of Henry Medical Center’s history. And Silas (Si) Elliott became a self-proclaimed (yet very successful) “hunter/gatherer.” Others included Richard Upchurch, the Mayo’s (Jamie and May), T.P. Stewart, Edsel Walden, Hal Keller, Clifford Gunter, Francis White -- and the list could go on. It is a close-knit group of friends who enjoy keeping in touch. The following is a sampling of people and recollections from the class. 40 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M Silas (Si) Elliott: I grew up on Elliott Road, which is named for my father, Joe. While I enjoyed country life, I had a bit of wanderlust. I knew I wanted to travel and see the world. After high school I joined the Air Force and especially enjoyed the years I was stationed in Korea and Japan. After returning to civilian life, I graduated from Georgia State University and worked for the Department of the Army in Seoul, South Korea for over eight and a half years. I was the original “40-year-old virgin.” I married at 40 and brought my bride, Kim, from Korea to Henry County, to live on 35 acres that joins the 160-acre family farm and home place where I once plowed the ground with a mule. I walked to Union Grove Elementary School from first through sixth grade, where three grades shared one classroom and teacher. In the spring we shucked our shoes and I was usually the first one to do so on the first of April. Beginning with the seventh grade, we transferred to McDonough and no longer had to walk to school. My high school days were good times – hanging out with friends on the McDonough Square and going to the movies at Clay Plaza. World War II was over and the economy was growing. Life seemed easy. What I would say to the graduates of today is to study hard; respect your elders; and buy land – it’s always a good investment. Have some fun; see different places; but most importantly, remember that old friends are the best friends. Gardening, traveling, reading and enjoying old scotch are my hobbies. I grow vegetables of all kinds, including oriental varieties which I share with family and friends. Never too old to learn, Kim and I are currently learning to speak Spanish. One of the things I’m most proud of is that I won a tight race against Clifford Gunner and Francis White to be named Valedictorian of our class – the three of us were really competitive. But I got to deliver the speech at graduation. I also enjoyed playing first string on the basketball team and being on the track team -- I even set a school record for the 100-yard dash in the 11th grade! I didn’t decide to become a physician until my second or third year of college, but I was always very pleased when many of my classmates and even some of my teachers became my patients. It means a great deal to me that so many of our classmates continue to live in this area – it’s a real pleasure to continue to associate with them. My advice to graduates of today is to “do the work – study hard – and be respectful.” You’re never too old to learn new things. I am on Facebook where I keep up with my grandchildren, and Jan and I enjoy collecting paintings by southern artists. Sara Ann Ausband Hightower: I moved to Kelleytown, where my Owen family roots go deep, when I was six years old. I attended Pleasant Grove Elementary School where my mother taught second grade. I attended McDonough Elementary School 7th-9th grades, when my mother transferred to that school. She eventually retired from teaching second grade at McDonough Elementary not once, but two times. She taught me so much at home that when it came time for me to start school, I was advanced to second grade -- causing me to graduate from high school at only 16. My first year of college was at Georgia State College for Women (currently Georgia College) in Milledgeville, followed by a year at West Georgia. I finished my final two years at Georgia State University, preparing me for a 36year career with Southern Bell/Bellsouth/AT&T. I had the time of my life in high school and made life-long friends like Catherine Firebaugh, Frances Owen, Helen Whaylor, Kitty Reeves and George Ann Crumbley. As a “country girl” living in Kelleytown, I loved visiting these “city girls.” I remember sitting in the drugstore watching the cute guys who worked there, and sitting in the square and watching people. I thought the city was fabulous! I enjoyed being a cheerleader for the boys basketball team (there was no football team back then), and playing girls basketball in high school. We rode the bus from Kelleytown into McDonough over dirt roads. In those days I recall picking cotton to earn money to go to the Southeastern World’s Fair at Lakewood Fairgrounds. I love living in Henry County and though my job kept me here, there’s no place else I’d rather be. My wonderful parents and this great county helped to shape me. My advice to today’s students is to study hard and apply yourself -- which I wish I had done more. And to keep your friends close. The sad part about getting old is losing your friends. I maintained friendships throughout the years with so many of my high school classmates. It’s important to those of us who are left to get together on an annual basis now. These fine people from the Class of 1948 have certainly seen more than a few changes in McDonough, Henry County, schools, students, technology and more -- and they not only keep pace, they set the standard for those of us who follow! Dr. Joe Blissit: I was born and raised in Locust Grove where we plowed with a mule and grew over 40-50 acres of cotton on the family’s 150-acre farm. Farming was how my dad made his living. In those days everyone in Henry County, with the exception of Hampton, went to McDonough High School (Hampton had its own high school). I attended 1st – 9th grades of elementary school in Locust Grove in what is now the municipal building, before heading into McDonough for my two years of high school. We rode the bus there along Highway 42, which was a paved road. Cotton was important to our living and I recall those afternoons when school let out at noon so we could return home to help pick cotton. I vividly recall times when my dad sent for German prisoners of war being held at Fort McPherson to come to our farm to help with picking cotton. My parents instilled in my siblings and me a desire to make good grades. My mother also believed that “we may not have the newest or nicest clothes on the block, but they would always be nicely patched and clean.” M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 41 FICTION TRAIN WRECKED by Brittany Glynn 42 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M As Lucille got closer to Camp Creek, the steady glow she’d seen through the trees from the road now was apparent angry blazes. Rain fell heavily again and lightening streaked across the dark night sky. The earth trembled beneath her feet, seemingly as outraged as the fire below. She froze at the top of the hill. Black and gray metal burned with growing flames. The creek had risen and the bridge had collapsed under the locomotive. The raging torrent seemed to have devoured as much of the train as it could swallow, and the furious flames were determined to consume what was left. Charles. Her chest squeezed. She had to search for him. If by some miracle he’d made it… A new surge of adrenaline ran through her legs and she pushed the heavy brush away from her face, her mind unable to process the possibility of losing him. Her feet slipped out from underneath her and she slid down the muddy slope heading right toward the turbulent waters below. There was nothing to grasp onto to stop her downward slide. Her body collided with a heap that halted her before she entered the swift-flowing waters. Heart pounding, she tried to stand - but the thick mud made it difficult. The rushing waters were sucking her toward the angry torrent below. The heat from the fire, blazing only a hundred feet away, burned her face. The light from the fire revealed hair floating in the muck in front of her. It was a body that had delayed her from entering the surging water. A voice sounded behind her. “Miss Kent!” It was Matthew, Albert’s driver. When he reached her he grasped her arms and pulled her from the mud and back up the embankment. “Are you okay?” She nodded, unable to speak. “It isn’t safe here; the creek is rising and the fire’s spreading.” She couldn’t respond but let him lead her back up the hill and under the safety of the trees. “Miss Kent?” He was trying to talk to her but she couldn’t hear what he was saying. She told herself to focus, to get a grip, but the dead body she’d just come in contact with imprinted itself in her mind. He mentioned something about needing to search for survivors. When she didn’t answer, he gripped her shoulders and met her at eye level. His eyes were a warm hazel and the fire brought out soft amber. “I promise you will be safe.” How could he keep that promise? But she nodded then watched as he trekked back through the mud toward the wreckage. Time passed and others who must’ve gotten word came to search for survivors. The storm continued to rage, but the flames didn’t care. They engulfed the wreckage, determined to destroy whatever the waters hadn’t. An hour must have passed and Lucille sat with her arms wrapped around her body and watched it all. When Matthew returned, his clothes were torn or maybe singed. “Miss Kent, it’s time to go.” He sounded exhausted. She tried to stand but couldn’t. He draped an arm around her and she leaned against him as they walked. They reached a car that was parked on the road. One of Albert’s Negro servants stepped outside from the back seat then held the passenger door open for her. Lucille had never ridden in the front of a car but got in without questioning. The Negro man climbed back inside the back and Matthew jumped in behind the wheel. Someone moaned from the back seat and she gasped in surprise at seeing Albert banged up and bleeding. He held his ribs and arm tucked to his side. Memories from earlier that evening washed over her like a wave. She’d caused a car accident trying to free herself to go back to Charles, who was waiting for her at the train depot. Albert had tried to stop her from leaving on the train for Atlanta. He’d been in the car that she’d caused to crash and he must’ve been injured. And now Charles was dead on the train. She could have died also had she been on the train like she’d planned. It was all too much for her to process. They rode in silence until they pulled up in front of Albert’s plantation. The Negro man ran for help and other servants hurried to their master’s aid. Within moments they’d helped Albert inside the house. Lucille remained inside the car until Matthew opened her door. She pulled away from him leaning against the vehicle and vomited until her guts ached. He stood by sympathetically then led her into the house. “I want to go home,” she whimpered. “No one is going anywhere until the morning,” he stated simply; and in the dim light of the foyer she saw how grim his face was. He’d witnessed many horrors that night. She swallowed hard feeling nausea wash over her again. “My stars! Take Ms. Lucille to the guest quarters this instant!” insisted Granny’s voice. The old Negro woman’s tenderness had always welcomed Lucille as part of the family and now she found herself rushing into Granny’s warm arms. “Now, now chile yo gonna be fine, just fine.” But she wasn’t fine. Granny led her to a room up the winding staircase where a warm bath was already being drawn. “Well I never!” Granny grunted after peeling Lucille’s muddy dress over her head. “What would them high society folks say bout you now?” She clicked her tongue in disapproval as she helped Lucille finish undressing and bathe. Granny washed her hair and brought her a clean white cotton gown and silk robe. Lucille didn’t question where the clean clothes had come from but knew they must’ve belonged to Albert’s late wife who passed away during child birth a M O V E R S A N D S couple years back. “Wez worried sick bout you and Master Thompson when wez get the word ya’lls in a car crash.” Granny shook her head. “That poor Matthew must’ve run five miles to Myer’s plantation.” Lucille looked at Granny in surprise but couldn’t respond as shame poured down on her as heavy as the storm had. Granny continued. “He gots Mr. Myers to drive him back to ya’ll and that’s when he got word of that der train wreck. Mr. Myers stayed der to help and told him to use da car to get Master Albert back here.” “How did ya’ll hear about all of this?” Lucille asked with a shaken voice. Granny tucked her into bed. “Mr. Myers had brought two of his Negros w’d him. He sent one of um to run back here to warn us.” Granny’s story started to fade in the distance and Lucille felt her eyes weigh heavy. When she woke sometime later it was dark and her gut twisted. Unable to contain the nausea, she sat up and instantly became sick. Someone was at her side and held her hair back from her face. On instinct she grasped the arm that was supporting her. Surprised, she realized the arm wasn’t Granny’s soft one, it was larger and muscular. Too exhausted to give it anymore thought she sank back to her pillow. The person gently removed the messy quilt and laid another blanket over her. Then a wet cloth bathed her face. She drifted back to a deep sleep and when she woke later with chills, the dim candlelight cast shadows of a man sitting by her bedside. In and out of a dreary conscious state, Lucille finally broke through the foggy barrier that tried to trap her in the dream world. Her mouth as dry as cotton, she sat and instantly her gut ached. She moaned as someone entered the room. When the person came closer, the light of the candle by her bedside was enough to know it was a man. “Matthew,” she whispered, wondering where Granny was and why he’d stayed caring for her. “Drink this.” He cupped a bowl of warm broth in her hands and helped her drink it. The saltiness brought moisture to her mouth and throat and soothed her twisted insides. After she’d drank all she could, she sank back to her pillow. Morning sunlight poured in her room. Someone had drawn her curtains open. Birds sang outside her windows suggesting an ordinary June summer morning. But it was anything but an ordinary day. Flashes of the nightmare she’d lived through the night before tempted her to hide under the covers and away from reality for a little longer. But she rang the bell hanging from the wall beside her bed. It would ring down to the kitchen. H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 43 FICTION After a few moments passed and Granny didn’t come she climbed out of bed to weak legs. She searched for her robe but didn’t see it. The door opened and she turned expecting Granny but it was Matthew. “Oh!” She tried to cover herself in the flimsy white gown and he looked away. “I’m sorry Miss Lucille, but Granny isn’t here.” He crossed the room and retrieved the rose silk robe lying on a chair. When he brought it to her he was still looking away. She snatched it and put it on. “Where is she?” “Her sister’s husband was on the train. She’s with her sister now.” Lucille was trying to fasten her robe but her hands trembled. Matthew reached out and grasped them in his. His concerned eyes met hers, and in the daylight they looked a deep green with a touch of brown. “Are you okay?” She wanted to bask in the warmth his expression offered, but instead she pulled her hands free. “I think I need to sit down.” Matthew pointed to the bench at the foot of the bed refraining from reaching out to help her. Her stiff back spoke volumes of what she thought of his gesture a moment ago. He had been out of place taking her hands. He hadn’t meant to overstep, and if he could take it back he would. She’d just looked so weak and broken. He watched now as she sat in silence her face looking perplexed. Albert had made comments about her inner strength and stubbornness, and Matthew could see the battle within her clinging to it for dear life. He wondered if it would be enough to get her through the tragedy she must face. “Well…what about the other help?” She asked hoarsely. He cleared his throat. “Granny’s daughters went with her. Mr. Thompson told them all to go be with her at this time.” “I see.” Without meeting his eyes she asked, “What about Albert?” “He’ll recover.” She looked pale and he wondered if the reality of it all was just hitting her. “How severe…are his injuries?” This time she looked into his face. He held her eyes for a moment. “He has a few broken ribs and a sprained arm. He had a painful night.” She closed her eyes briefly. When she opened them she asked “were there any…survivors?” “A couple,” Matthew said. He saw the spark of hope flicker across her face at his answer. His chest tightened. Better to come out with it now. “Charles wasn’t among them.” She looked unable to accept that. “How do we know he ever got on the train?” She was daring to hope, desperate to cling onto the possibility. But Matthew knew how slim a possibility that was. He’d seen the burned and drowned bodies. His stomach clenched. “I can’t say for sure.” There it was, a small prospect that she would hold onto. Maybe she needed it to help her survive for now. “Well then, I must get to town to find out.” “Miss Kent, you are in no condition to leave,” he said. “I’m fine,” she insisted. His jaw 44 W E A R E H E N R tightened but he didn’t argue. She lifted her chin determined, “I just need some clothes.” “I can’t help you there. But I think you should see Albert before you leave.” His voice was firm and she took a deep breath. He led her outside the guest quarters into the elegant long hallway. He walked a few feet down the hardwoods that Albert had imported from London, but stopped when he no longer heard her feet padding behind him. He turned to find her hand reaching for the wall. He was at her side in an instant as her legs buckled beneath her. He almost lifted her in his arms but thought better of it at the memory of her reaction to his touch earlier. He took her arm and could tell she wanted to resist but she didn’t. She was too weak to walk. He shouldn’t have allowed her out of bed….and was about to tell her as much, but the stubborn line of her jaw stopped him. Everything within Lucille wanted to insist she could walk alone. But the fatigue washed over her like the angry torrent from the night before. She felt dizzy as memories from the wreck pierced her brain. The feel of the dead body floating on the water…the hair…She clenched her teeth willing her mind back to the present. She had to stay strong if she was going to find Charles. Albert’s room was only three rooms down. Albert sat propped up in bed. He wasn’t wearing a shirt and his waist and left arm were both tightly wrapped with white bandages. She found herself looking away from his tan and muscular chest. She’d never seen a man shirtless other than the Negroes who worked in the fields. And of course Charles. “Is she in a condition to walk?” he questioned Matthew when they entered. The rich dark wood furniture and large four poster bed brought a strong masculine feeling to the room. “I’m fine,” she answered quickly. Matthew glanced at her before saying, “Miss Kent insists on leaving, sir.” Both men exchanged looks before Albert responded. “The doctor said you must stay here in bed until you’ve recovered enough to travel home.” “The doctor saw me?” she asked puzzled. “No, of course not. With the accident there are far more seriously injured for him to care for. Matthew rang the doctor. He will come when he can.” (Mr. Thompson was one of the first in town to have a telephone.) “Does my father know what has happened?” she asked with mixed emotions. She’d run away from home leaving only a note. How could she ever face him again? But now was not the time for such thoughts. She had to get to town to see if Charles could still be alive. “Yes of course.” Albert answered sounding surprised she’d even asked. “I personally rang him yesterday morning.” (Her father and the doctor had been the next to receive telephones. Albert had them installed himself.) “Yesterday Y . C O M morning?” Lucille asked confused. Again the men exchanged glances. This time Matthew responded, “Miss Kent, you slept for thirty-six hours straight.” She swallowed hard. “I see.” Feeling weak she swayed and Matthew tightened his grip on her arm. “Could I sit for a moment?” she asked, realizing she was leaning more and more weight against him. “Get that chair over there for her,” Albert answered in a concerned voice. Matthew seemed hesitant to let go of her but followed his Master’s orders. “I need to go to town to check on…” The room spun and everything turned black. Lucille woke in Matthew’s arms. She felt foggy and sick. “Take her to her bed and ring the doctor at once,” Albert’s worried voice rang in her ear. “Yes sir.” “I’m going to be sick,” she cried. Matthew peered down at her and her eyes pleaded with him. In one swift movement he laid her down on something plush and was at her side with a basin. She leaned over it and vomited, then lay back feeling her world spinning again. She closed her eyes tightly beckoning it to stop. “I’ll just take this out,” she heard Matthew’s hesitant voice say. Albert didn’t respond. A few moments later when her world felt more stable she opened her eyes and turned her head to see where she lay. Her eyes looked up into the Albert’s pale face. At once she realized she lay in his bed next to him. He cleared his throat and asked hesitantly, “Are you alright?” “I don’t know,” she whispered. And honestly, she did not. “Lucy it’s going to be okay,” a man’s voice spoke beside her and her eyes opened to Albert at her side. She tried to control the shaking but could not. “What’s…w r o n g ….” Her teeth chattered and she could say no more. “I think you may be having a miscarriage,” Albert responded hoarsely. “We were afraid to move you,” Matthew spoke from where he stood at the foot of the bed. “I don’t know what done got in da brains. Somein not workin right them bringin ya in here in da first place!” Granny was back at her side with a cool sponge and dotted her forehead. “Now what tis her father gonna say to dis here arrangement?” Granny continued on shaking her head. “No one is going to call him until we are able to move her back to her room,” Albert responded gruffly. “Well da doc could be here anytime.” “Sir, should we try to move her?” Matthew spoke up sounding nervous. “No. We aren’t moving her. I’m not risking it. My wife…” His voice cut off. “Dis here girl is not ur wife, Mr. Thompson,” Granny spoke up in a firm voice. Her world again faded and she closed her eyes giving in to the darkness that beckoned her. “This poor chile is dying, Master Thompson. Give her the dignity...” “She’s not going anywhere!” snapped Albert. Features we are “ We cannot be sure of having something to live for unless we are willing to die for it.” — Ernesto Guevara M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 45 FEATURE FEATURE Sky Soldiers By Jodi Hitt Photos by Troy Hitt Rick Welch received a phone call one morning from a woman wanting to schedule a ride on a Huey helicopter. There was a specific seat she requested - the doorman position. The caller made the trip to Tara Field where she met Mr. Welch. She took her desired seat. Later, she explained her reason for choosing this position. Her son once occupied that same seat in a Huey, only his flight ended abruptly when he was shot and killed. His mom wanted to have some idea of what her son experienced before his life was taken. This story and others like it, are not uncommon to the volunteers with the Army Aviation Heritage Foundation’s (AAHF) Sky Soldiers. Their hanger is home to 4 Huey’s and 3 Cobra helicopters. Being a female with little knowledge of aircraft, except how to serve peanuts and coke, I had some studying to do for this article. When I first got a glimpse of the Huey, I was instantly reminded of M*A*S*H, “Suicide is Painless” played in my mind and I visualized Clinger jumping out in a fancy dress. But then I remembered photos of rescue missions, medevac flights and supply drops from studying history. And here was the same helicopter right in front of me: the Bell UH-1 Iroquois (nicknamed the Huey). The Huey first flew on October 20, 1956 and went into production in 1960. There have been many variations of the UH-1 as signified by the ending letter of A,B,C, etc. The UH-1H was the version most produced. It is a utility helicopter and was frequently used during the Vietnam War. In fact, two of the Huey’s owned and operated by the Sky Soldiers have combat hours logged during Vietnam. The Sky Soldiers travel all over the United States and provide flights for anyone willing and able to buckle up. The organization also does a reenactment of a combat rescue ( Rescue at Dawn) that is remarkable. In order to provide these services, they rely on a dedicated team of volunteers. The volunteer list incorporates many people with impressive rankings and unfaltering grit. Three of the volunteers I met (Mike Holland, Ralph Kahlan, and Jim Brennen) flew the Huey in Vietnam. 46 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M of my assignment, I had the privilege of taking a ride in this beast. (Mr. Welch and Mr. Worrell did attempt to put me in the Cobra; but let me explain that nose diving toward earth in a enclosed cockpit was not something I was prepared for!) I took my seat in the doorman position, buckled up, and said a quick prayer while waving to the people on the ground. The blade rotations quickened and the Huey lifted up into the sky. It was a surreal moment. I was at the mercy of the pilot and God. I quickly made peace with the fact that I could die and there was nothing to do to change that, so I relaxed. What an unbelievable ride: up in the air with the wind whipping around you, the loud hum of the blades, and the view of the land under you. I tried to imagine what it must have been like behind enemy lines - not having any doors for protection and attackers hiding underneath the trees below. I felt vulnerable. After we landed safely and smoothly (thank you pilots...and maintenance, of course), I was ready to go again! There’s nothing like it. Talk about experiencing history! If you told me I could ride in Amelia Earhart’s plane or the Wright Brothers Flyer? Or perhaps take a ride in the Spirit of St. Louis? Wouldn’t you think I’d be crazy not to seize the opportunity? And…. I only had to drive down the road a short distance and pay no more than the price of a dinner for two? I can’t imagine why anyone would not take advantage of this. Spending the afternoon with the Sky Soldiers at the field and in the air, made me feel like I was a part of it all - that somehow I fit in with this group of patriots. I was proud to have met each of them and anticipate taking a ride with them again some day. After all, we now share a piece of history together. I had the privilege of speaking with Jim Brennen, who retired from the Army as a CW4 after 38 years of service. He received his wings in April of 1968. At the time of his retirement, he was honored with flying the last flight of the Huey before the United States Army retired the helicopter. A bitter sweet goodbye to an era often forgotten. Chief Brennen now spends two days a week volunteering with the Sky Soldiers. He enjoys meeting people and learning about their connection to the Huey. Melody Staley has been a Sky Soldier volunteer for one year. Melody never served in the military but grew up hearing the Huey pass over her home. As a little girl she would drop everything she was doing to run outside and look up and marvel at this giant in the sky. When she discovered the Sky Soldiers and the ‘ride along program’ she knew she had to get on board. Melody made the trip and took the ride. Now she serves as crew chief on some of the flights. She also continues to train for other jobs. This 301c organization does employee three full time personnel. Graham Worrell is responsible for maintenance on all the aircraft. Graham’s father served in Vietnam and though Graham never enlisted, his interest in aviation was sparked. He spent fourteen years working on War Bird restoration. Later, while working on Lear jets at Tara Field, he caught the attention of the Sky Soldiers. Behind the scenes talent at it’s best. He said to me, “enjoy your flight and thank maintenance.” Even though these war relics are a part of our country’s aviation history, without this organization’s dedicated and experienced volunteers and staff, these helicopters would be in a museum. Instead, they are a living, flying museum! Experiencing history in the Huey will never be forgotten. As part Visit www.armyav.org or call 770.897.0444 for more details and to schedule your flight! (Rides will be offered at Tara Field on Sept. 28th). M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 47 From LIFE Magazine, October 17, 1960 FEATURE On Surviving a Plane Crash... The Story of Joan (Berry) Hale by Diane Ide Visiting with Joan Hale in her sitting room gives you a sense of what’s important in her life. Gazing around the room, you see beautiful oil portraits of her three children: Tres, Beth and Joanna. On other walls are photographer’s portraits of her six grandchildren. Joan shares with pride the accomplishments of her children and she beams when talking about her grandchildren. She will gladly tell you of her granddaughter, Emma, who made her grandmother into a class project this school year, sharing about the plane crash that her grandmother, Joan, survived......... 48 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M It was a beautiful, sunny fall day on October 4, 1960 when 22-yearold stewardess, Joan Berry and 71 others took off from Logan Airport in Boston on Eastern flight #375 bound for Philadelphia, Charlotte, Greenville and ultimately for her home city, Atlanta. The plane was a Lockheed Electra, four-engine turboprop. The passengers included 15 newly-sworn Marines headed for Parris Island, SC; a number of shoe salesmen headed back to PA after having attended a shoe convention in Boston; baseball fans headed to the World Series in Pittsburgh and an engineer carrying top-secret plans for a new missile system. As family members watched from Logan Airport’s observation deck, the plane suddenly stalled...rolled... and plunged nearly vertically down into the waters of nearby Winthrop Harbor. On impact the tail broke away, enabling Joan, Pat and another man in the lounge of the tail to survive the crash, along with seven others who were thrown from the fuselage. “I remember” says Joan “that in flight training it took 2-3 of us stewardesses to open the rear door of the plane. But when the crash occurred, I had enough adrenaline that I singlehandedly opened that door! I started helping my fellow stewardess and survivor, Pat Davies and others out.” According to Joan, she and others sensed they were about to crash. She credits having pulled her seatbelt extremely tight and assuming the crash position for helping her to live. It is nothing short of a miracle that she sustained only bruises and minor abrasions -- and a splinter in her foot picked up from the dock at Winthrop Harbor. Others were not so fortunate. It was determined that the crash was caused by striking a flock of thousands of starlings. The birds were sucked into all four engines, rendering first one, then all, powerless. It was the worst aviation disaster caused by bird strike, according to Michael N. Kalafatas, author of Bird Strike - the Crash of the Boston Electra. Those 155 people onboard the plane piloted by Captain “Sully” Sullenberger, had a much better outcome when their plane went down in the Potomac after encountering a bird strike on January 15, 2009. While it was fortunate that the Electra went down in water, especially given that it was fully fueled, it was unfortunate that Winthrop Harbor had experienced a hurricane in the preceding week that caused residents to secure their boats elsewhere. Even though residents along the water heard and saw the crash, they had to scurry to find a few boats to help with rescue efforts. Joan was the last to be put into a boat. As she continued to try to help find people, she became insistent that she could hear the man who had been sitting in the lounge in the tail with the two stewardesses M O V E R - calling out. So much so, that she insistently directed rescue workers to keep searching in a particular area -- to no avail. Once again she motioned where she wanted them to look -- and at last they saw a bloody arm rise above the water line, making him another one of the few who would live. He was in critical condition since his seatbelt had broken and he was tossed about, and eventually out, of the plane. “I know I would never have had a moment’s peace,” says Joan “if they had not found that man. I knew I could hear him and that I would continue to hear him long after that day. I am so glad they found him.” Ever the diligent stewardess, Joan directed a few other survivors still in the water to grab for seat cushions till they could be picked out of the water. “There was so much debris, and fuel covered everything. It burned my scalp. In fact it was years later before I was able to go to a beach without smelling kerosene -- even though I know it was in my mind.” Her friend and fellow stewardess, Pat, suffered a broken pelvis and was hospitalized for a number of weeks. Joan would be taken to the hospital for observation for a couple days before flying home. Her dad encouraged her to quit her job, but Joan insisted that it just “wasn’t my time” and was performing her duties in the air again within one month. Joan gave testimony regarding the crash to the airlines, the Civil Aeronautics Board and other agencies. She has an issue of “LIFE” Magazine dated October 17, 1960 containing photos of the crash and she is quoted and pictured in Mr. Kalafatas’s book. As a result of lessons learned from the crash of the Electra, seats on planes are configured differently today, enhancing their safety. Her 3 1/2 year stint with Eastern ended when she married Les Hale, her husband of 42 years. (In the 1960’s a stewardess had to be a single female.) Not one to see herself as special...one has to ask the question, why do you think you survived when others didn’t? “I asked myself that question for a few years,” Joan replied. “It’s something I may never know and you can make yourself crazy trying to figure out what special thing you are meant to do or be. All I can tell you is that I know that I’m supposed to live life being the best I can be and during those critical moments, I remembered growing up in church in Prentiss, MS and the first Bible verse I learned -- John 3:16.” Looking around her sitting room, one is keenly aware of the productive lives of at least nine people that Joan has influenced and you get a glimpse as to perhaps nine reasons that she survived. S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 49 FEATURE Never Forget 9-11 By Fernando Del Valle Photos by Troy Hitt On September 11, 2013, we will again pause to remember one of America’s biggest tragedies - and for many of us, the biggest tragedy of our lifetime. It was a moment when time stood still and our nation gasped in unison. We dismissed our differences and joined as one in the face of peril. We asked some of our Henry County friends for their thoughts and feelings about the events that took place 12 years ago. These are their stories. 50 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M FEATURE Gritz Family Restaurant has been a staple of the McDonough Square since 1992. On the morning of September 11, 2001, JENNIFER GUNTHER, KIM LEE AND TRAVIS WATSON got on with their day like any other, taking care of those having breakfast and trying to make everyone feel at home. “I remember we had a small TV playing, but I was not paying attention until someone came running into the restaurant and told us what was happening. I could not belief what I was seeing,” related Jennifer. “Everyone in the restaurant was looking at the TV in complete disbelief. We all stayed at work until the restaurant was closed early that afternoon.” Jennifer recalls how generous and caring people were after the attacks. She felt heartbroken for the families of the firefighters. That hit close to home for her because her husband is a firefighter. Kim echoes similar sentiments. It was like nothing she had ever experienced. She remembers how heart wrenching it was to watch everything unfolding on television. “The mood in the restaurant was somber,” shared Kim. She felt anger and sadness, disbelief - like an emotional roller coaster ride that was simply unbearable. However, she also remembers, with a sense of hope, how united everyone was. It was the first time she had seen that in her lifetime. “Time has passed now and that feeling has passed with it,” Kim sadly said. “I wish we had that togetherness always.” Travis was in the kitchen, a very young man at the time, not far removed from high school. At first, he thought it was a prank because it was not something he thought could ever happen. Once he realized it was all true, he experienced a sense of shock, fear and helplessness. He also recollects one great thing that came out of the event...the sense of closeness everyone felt. Their experience on that day bonded them in a way that still shows in how they treat each other - as if they had made a pact to always be in unity. VICK AND BONNIE ROBERSON walked into a local establishment and first heard the news about a plane crashing into one of the Twin Towers in New York City. Everyone was discussing and unsure of what was happening. Suddenly, the second plane hit the other tower and the mood changed from uncertainty to disbelief. We were under attack. The place was filled with sadness like a dark cloud was shrouding the nation. They left there and tried to find comfort in familiar places and went to a nearby restaurant to have breakfast, as they had done so many times before. “We sat there and everyone in the restaurant seemed to be looking down. It was very somber. It was such a terrifying and unnecessary tragedy - it makes one realize the need to live with and for God,” shares Bonnie. In the days after the attacks Bonnie remembers how eerie everything was. She was accustomed to the noise of airplanes overhead, coming and going. But now the silence was unbearable and a reminder of what had transpired. M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 51 FEATURE That fateful morning, PHILIP ZOOK kissed his wife MISSY goodbye, as he headed to the airport to catch a plane to Columbus, OH for a business trip to his company’s headquarters. He landed in Columbus at 9:30 AM. He gathered his bags and picked up his rental car. All the while, the nation was experiencing the devastation of a brutal, senseless attack on our people and our way of life. “When we got off the plane, nothing seemed different from other times when I traveled. No one at the airport acted differently and nothing was being reported,” relates Philip. It wasn’t until he was well on his way to his office in Columbus that he turned on the radio and realized what was happening. In the meantime, Missy was home worrying about Philip because there were no details about which planes had crashed and she had not heard from Philip for several hours. Their son Zachary, age nine, and daughter Hannah, age eight, were at school and class had been stopped for a moment of prayer, although the children were not told what had occurred. Missy recalls that day Zachary told her, when he arrived home from school, that as they prayed he could tell something was very wrong. Philip was at his office in Columbus, OH. Everyone decided to work through the day, but the mood was somber at best. Nothing was typical. He and his coworkers tried to make sense of the tragedy. Missy tearfully remembers the awful day and relates how horrified she was watching all the tragic events happening right before her eyes. Yet, she found relief in the knowledge that God’s presence was with us. She also shares the sentiment of so many, “I wish we always felt the level of concern for others that we had then.” 52 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M “My wife SALLY received a number of calls from friends to check on me, immediately after the third plane struck the Pentagon as I was supposed to be working there,” recalls JUDGE JIM CHAFIN. I had gone to the Pentagon for a few weeks of training (I was a US Air Force Reserve Colonel at the time). Sally assured everyone that I was okay because she knew the day before I had begun a two week class at the Naval War College in Newport, RI, far from harm’s way. As events developed, soon after class had started, everyone gathered to watch the reports on the television. The class was postponed and Jim decided to go to his room and continue watching the news reports. He was concerned about his coworkers at the Pentagon. After a few hours, he was able to find out they were all fine... and no one in his department had been injured. Judge Chafin remembers his sense of helplessness and disbelief - and how vulnerable it felt for our nation. He completed his class and came back home. Thirty days later he returned to the Pentagon to work for several weeks. “The 82nd Airborne Division had been assigned to guard the Pentagon. It was very surreal, like watching a bad movie. I believe because we are so connected by technology and the media, more than any time during our history; in comparison to when Pearl Harbor was attacked, we were able to come together faster and experience the feeling of despair, as well as our fighting spirit. “I was at my brother’s house working and heard it on the radio. We turned on the TV just in time for the 2nd plane to strike the Towers,” TED UPCHURCH recalls. He was shocked that something like this could ever happen on U.S. soil. Ted, like many other business owners, was affected at once by the financial ripples that followed the attacks... yet he decided to tough it out. “This bonded us all as Americans; it united us,” he fondly remembers. However, he also feels that many “used this tragedy for personal gain that would later divide the country.” He felt the tragedy was also used as an excuse for a misguided and ill planned war. “I wish we didn’t have to live in fear… but I think that was the intent of the terrorists, and it worked.” He wishes that religion was not used to divide cultures. “True religion should not be hateful and personal beliefs should not be imposed on others.” Ted feels that “true spiritual people should just love others as they are and understand their heritage.” He misses the innocence we once had. “We felt so vulnerable! How do you overcome that fear for your children, for your family,” ponders NICK ESBER. At the time, he was living in Salt Lake City, UT and working for a trucking distribution center. That day everything came to a halt as they tried to make sense of something they were not prepared for. Nick relates that no one worked that day. They all huddled around the TV to watch the news and try to comfort each other. He was supposed to fly the next day to Phoenix, AZ, but the flights were cancelled. He stayed home to help put together a company fundraiser for rescue efforts and the families affected. He recalls how proud everyone was to be an American; patriotism was at an all time high. The sense of community was addictive. Unity and support for the military and civil servants was palpable. Years later, Nick still relates how proud he is of our nation and how we came together during that time of tragedy. As I spoke to my fellow county residents, I felt every emotion I had that day, from disbelief and shock to sadness and despair. Then we experienced a sense of resolve in our nation -- an incredible time when we forgot about race, class or status. We came together to stand strong and decisively against anyone that would threaten the people of our country. No one could question our determination. We vowed once again to show one another our strength and zeal for what is good and right. On this anniversary of September 11, we remember that terrible day with sadness. Our hearts are wide open to those who lost loved ones that tragic day and the days that followed. We remember the sacrifice and the heroes that came together to give of themselves when our nation needed them most. We celebrate you. As Bonnie Roberson told me, “there’s no telling what we will see next,” for no one knows the future. Yet one thing is clear, if the time comes, we will again stand together - determined, unwavering, in the strength of a people united - for we are the United States of America! M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 53 Outdoors FEATURE OUTDOORS we are Elder Family Westward Ho! By Jeffery C. Wells W hen Meriwether Lewis and William Rogers Clark left on their trek westward to explore the newly purchased Louisiana Territory, many Americans were still mystified by the great expanse beyond the Mississippi River. Some people were afraid that Lewis and Clark would never be seen again because of the dangers that lurked out there including hostile natives and the Spanish army. (Americans knew the Spanish army had forts in various parts of the West but they were unsure the number and size of these forts.) Even President Jefferson got in on the fray. According to scholars at National Geographic, Jefferson thought that the expedition would encounter things like wooly mammoths, smoldering volcanoes and mountains formed of pure salt. However, as the team made its way through the wilderness starting in 1804, no such discoveries were made, although the expedition ran into many things that captivated their minds and fueled their imaginations. Fast forward over 200 years later, and many Americans, like our ancestors during the days of Jefferson, are still captivated by the American West. In Henry County this past summer, the Elder family made good on their desire to see and explore part of Jefferson’s great purchase. But the story of the Elder family and their odyssey took many twists and turns...like the route they took to get there. What ended up as a 26 day, 6,230 mile trip, really began a few years ago in the classroom. “ May your adventures bring you closer together, even as they take you far away from home.” 54 W E — Trenton Lee Stewart A R E H E N R Y . C O M M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 55 OUTDOORS OUTDOORS Brian and Angela Elder’s daughter, Katy Mae, came home a few years ago excited about things she was learning regarding our nation’s early presidents from her teacher, Stacy Clendenen. Mrs. Clendenen taught both of the Elder’s children, Katy Mae and her brother Noel, for the better part of the last five years. Her teaching about the nation’s chief executives stimulated the children’s interest. Both excited and curious, Katy Mae insisted that one day her family should visit Mount Rushmore so she and her brother could see the depictions of Presidents Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln and Roosevelt (that’s Teddy, not Franklin). Her words did not go unheard. Of course, it helped that Katy Mae’s family tree is full of educators. Angela Elder, her mother, is a first grade teacher at McDonough Methodist Academy. Her aunt, P.J. Carmean, is a teacher in California, as well as her husband Doug. Then there is grandmother, Kathy Elder, a retired educator with over 30 years experience in the classroom. But it was Kathy, and her husband Larry, who responded to the call to action from Katy Mae. Purchasing an R.V., the Elders drove to Georgia to support their grandchildren’s soccer team this past June. After a first place finish in Houston County, the Elders, with Brian at the helm, took their R.V., loaded chock full of supplies, classroom teachers, and young impressionable minds, on the first leg of their journey. Covering a few states on that first day, the family stayed overnight in Lefleur’s Bluff State Park in Jackson, Mississippi. Continuing through the southern corridor of the nation, the Elders drove to Denison, Texas for a family gathering. The next day some of the family got their first glimpse of the desert when they rolled in to New Mexico, staying overnight at Albuquerque. Before leaving the deserts of the Southwest, Noel and Katy Mae got their first junior ranger honors at the Petrified Forest National Park just east of Holbrook, Arizona. This would be the first of five for the kids. Of course, the last stop in Arizona was the Grand Canyon National Park. It was here Brian saw the most impressive sight on his leg of the trip - a California condor circling the Grand Canyon. Arriving in California, the Elders connected with Doug and P.J. Carmean, Brian’s sister and brother-in-law, and their two children, Margo and Alton. After celebrating Larry’s 70th birthday, a few days of visiting family in Long Beach, and Noel trying his hand at surfing, the Elders and Carmeans set off on the next leg of their journey. Even though Brian and Angela had to fly home to Georgia to return to work, Angela said, “It was a great experience sharing this with my children. As a teacher, you talk about these places in the classroom, and your students read about them in textbooks, but actually visiting them with your family and loved ones, is an experience almost indescribable.” After departing from California, Larry and P.J. shared the driving. The next stop was Utah. In Utah the family experienced the thrill of driving through a one-way tunnel at Zion National Park near Springdale….and they went hiking in Bryce Canyon. After this, their journey took them north to Henry’s Lake State Park in Idaho, P.J.’s favorite spot on the whole trip. P.J. remembers it was freezing cold one morning and there was snow on the ground, in June! Next the family went to Yellowstone National Park, not far from Henry’s Lake, but over the border in Wyoming. During this time, Larry and Kathy celebrated their 42nd anniversary surrounded by family and some of the most beautiful natural wonders in the continental United States. Sad to leave behind the beauty of Henry’s Lake and Yellowstone, the family moved on to Larry’s favorite spot for the trip - Deadwood, South Dakota. Larry wanted to see the location where Wild Bill Hickok drew his last breath after being shot in a poker game gone bad by Jack McCall. Legend has it that Hickok’s final poker hand - a pair of black aces and a pair of black eights, is the source for the modern poker players’ dead man’s hand. After a few days at Crazy Horse Campground in South Dakota, the family finally arrived at Mount Rushmore, the true reason for their trip. Everyone was in awe of the majestic sculpture carved into the mountain side. The family took time to reflect on their nation’s history and this fitting tribute to four men who helped found, expand, save and strengthen our country. When asked what stood out the most about the carving, Katy Mae said “Abraham Lincoln, because I really liked the way they carved his beard on the mountain.” After celebrating Larry’s 70th birthday, a few days of visiting family in Long Beach, and Noel trying his hand at surfing, the Elders and Carmeans set off on the next leg of their journey. 56 W E A R E H E N R Y . C O M Noel was equally excited about what he learned at the national monument, but his preference was George Washington. And it wasn’t just the presidential sculptures that captured his attention. He was equally impressed by the fact that no one died building Mt. Rushmore, a fact he was excited to relay during the interview for this article. All in all, the journey was quite historic for the Elder family. Traveling over 6000 miles, (more than most people travel in a lifetime) and visiting 20 states…. the family will never forget the summer of 2013. Kathy Elder’s comments sum up what makes this journey so impressive. With an air of excitement in her voice, she said “It’s almost like the credit card commercial that tells you the price of all these things, but then at the end mentions that something that costs nothing is priceless. That’s how I feel about this trip. All the money you spend is one thing, but the family memories you make and have are priceless. I am 61 and my children are 41 and 42. Having this opportunity with them and their children is something I wouldn’t trade for all the money in the world.” Indeed, the Elders set out on their own version of the Lewis and Clark expedition, but instead of drawings of plants and the pelts of wild animals, they brought home a lifetime of memories and the type of education for their children and grandchildren the price of Harvard tuition could not buy. Over 6,000 Miles Traveled M O V E R S A N D S H A P E R S 2 0 1 3 57 CAN WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY WORK FOR YOU? FIND OUT AT OUR FREE SEMINAR. 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