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Brave Hearts FAMILY HISTORY Knowing the possibilities FINDING STRENGTH Having a partner in the fight COPING WITH CANCER ‘I had no control. I had to trust God.’ IN A HURRY Getting back to normal hope pain fear courage disbelief BRAVE HEARTS C2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. From the editor N o one faces down breast cancer alone. Tanya Hawkins knows that. So does Kelly Burton. And Jean Bowe. And Jennifer Ebeyer. And so do all of the women who so graciously and courageously opened up their lives for our breast cancer awareness initiative. Each and every one of them has come to understand that walking by their side through the dark and the light, through the fear and the hope, through the setbacks and triumphs, through the tears and the laughter, is an army of Brave Hearts. There’s Danny Hawkins, who didn’t blink when his wife Tanya Hawkins decided to have her breasts removed. “The breast part, that didn’t matter to me,” he said. “Some guys might handle it different.” There’s Travis Burton, who would not stand for his mom being bald alone. In solidarity, off went his hair. “I was trying to do what I could for her,” he said. Heeding a warning Banking on a cure D1 D8 Fighting together Keeping it real F3 G1 There’s Dr. Anna Maria Storniolo, who is caring for and drawing strength from Bowe. “If and when the time comes, she (Jean) will leave with no regrets. It’s patients like Jean who, on a daily basis, teach me how to live my life.” There’s Kristen Schwark, who climbed into bed with Ebeyer. “I got to be her big sister again,” Schwark said. “I just let her cry on me.” This year, we made an extra effort to tell the stories of not just the women with breast cancer but of the people who trudged through the slog of the disease with them. Husbands. Sons. Daughters. Moms. Dads. Sisters. Brothers. Doctors. Nurses. Caregivers. Co-workers. Friends. Neighbors. Strangers. You. Yes, you. You, too, are no doubt one of them. Anymore, there’s hardly anyone who has not been touched by a cancer that kills one person every 14 minutes. In our stories, you’ll find the language of breast cancer — invasive ductal carcinoma, estrogen receptor positive, HER-2 positive. But these stories are about much more than a disease. They are about the resiliency of the human spirit. Once again, they let you in on their darkest hours. The moment in the still of the night when a woman wondered if her children would grow up without a mom. The moment when a woman took a deep breath, looked in the mirror and saw only scars where her breasts had been. The moment when a woman learned the cancer had spread beyond her breasts. But they also show you how light overtakes darkness. The moment when a woman knew God and her faith were stronger than any disease. The moment when a woman dressed in pink got up and marched around her neighborhood with Grubby the dog, a cancer whisperer. The moment when a woman heard her husband tell her she was the most beautiful woman in the world even if she was bald and sick. The moment when a woman thought cancer just might be a blessing that taught her the most important of life’s lessons. Norma Newton learned “to trust God, how many friends I have and how much love there is out there.” Cancer humbled Nicole Kent. “It’s made me appreciate people a lot more. It definitely has changed my life for the better,” she said. And Virginia Petro has come out the other side “stronger, more aware of religion and what is truly important. I lost my hair: that’s not important. Being here with my friends and family and kids is important. If it’s a beautiful day outside, I’m not going to worry about whether it’s too hot. I’m just glad I have that day.” We are grateful to everyone who opened up and so honestly shared their stories. We were inspired by their Brave Hearts. You will be, too. — Scarlett Syse, editor Finding guidance through faith ...................................................C4 “I did what I had to do”................................................................C7 A family tragedy ..........................................................................D2 Getting back to normal ................................................................D3 Mother, daughter win battle with disease.....................................D5 Dealing with loss.........................................................................D6 A group effort ..............................................................................D7 “I had no control” ........................................................................ E1 Determined to make it ................................................................. E3 Path to treatment ......................................................................... E4 Beating the odds ......................................................................... F1 “The fight of your life” ................................................................. F2 “Make every day count” .............................................................. F4 Who gets breast cancer? .............................................................G2 Finding inspiration ......................................................................H1 On the cover: Photo illustration by Scott Roberson QQSe On behalf of Suncatcher Tanning, our staff, family & clients proudly support 0 Breast Cancer Awareness! 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She visited Hunter-Smith during kinds of talks, mainly about their boys’ high school the treatments and occasionally drove her home. Wathen also football games. stocked Hunter-Smith’s refrigerator to make But on July 28, 2009, the pair met because sure she and the kids had food they could throw they needed to know how they were going to in the oven or crock pot. survive. Hunter-Smith tried to make life as normal as Earlier that day, Hunter-Smith and she could for her children, who helped around Wathen, both now 48, had been diagnosed the house with laundry and cooking. But life with breast cancer. became strained between her and Tracy, and They tried to get past the shock of the the two now are separated. diagnoses. They talked about which doctors Hunter-Smith’s marital problems had no they might use and what treatments they impact on her bond with Wathen. were considering. “I told her that she and I are sisters. No The pair also made a pledge. Neither one matter what happens between her and my knew why they were sick, but they decided brother, she and I are sisters,” Wathen said. there was a reason they were diagnosed In March, as Hunter-Smith was ending chesimultaneously, possibly eventually to share motherapy and preparing for 37 rounds of raditheir stories or to talk to women about the ation, Wathen received two silicone gel importance of breast health. They also decidimplants as part of her reconstruction. A month ed that whatever happened they would be after the reconstruction Wathen was in the there for each other and because of that shower when the right incision opened up, everything would be OK. completely exposing the implant. “I told her if she needed me, no matter the Wathen went to the emergency room and was hour, that she was to call me,” Wathen said. rushed into surgery. Her plastic surgeon sterilHunter-Smith told Wathen the same. ized and replaced the implant, and she was As the shock of the diagnosis wore off, Kim Hunter-Smith kept in the hospital for two days and given Wathen, whose tumor was discovered during antibiotics to avoid an infection. Edinburgh a routine mammogram, began to question Wathen had two revision surgeries in August the timing. In her mid-40s with two older and November 2010 to create internal slings for children, Stephanie and Aaron Knue, now 24 her new breasts and to create new nipples, but and 19, she was supposed to be enjoying time they didn’t go well. Only one of the slings was with Phillip, her husband of 15 years. put in and it has since failed, and the surgery to She also felt guilty that her diagnosis wasn’t as serious as use ties and stitches to create nipples out of Wathen’s skin Hunter-Smith’s. Wathen’s cancer was less aggressive and didn’t work. required only surgery, while Hunter-Smith would have to underNow, when Wathen looks down, what she sees is lopsided and go a lumpectomy to remove the tumor followed by chemotheramisshapen. She needs additional surgery to complete the reconpy and radiation. struction, but she decided to take a break this year. Hunter-Smith, who found her tumor during a self-exam, The surgeries were exhausting physically and emotionally. received second opinions after the diagnosis. Her biggest worry Every time she prepared to go under anesthesia, it was as though was for her children, Patrick, now 17, and Mallory, now 14, as the cancer had returned, she said. And while she has insurance, well as her husband of 20 years, Howard Tracy. Tracy is Lottie her current out-of-pocket expenses are around $30,000. Wathen’s brother. “My concern was for my kids. I just wanted to know that I was going to be able to beat this,” Hunter-Smith said. “There Wathen’s husband has told her not to worry about her appearwas just no other option. I had to beat this.” ance, but men don’t understand what she’s going through, not Wathen was given three treatment options: A lumpectomy, even her plastic surgeon, she said. He told her that the imporfollowed by radiation and five years of hormone therapy; a tant thing is that the cancer is gone, and that no one can tell complete mastectomy on the cancerous breast followed by five anything different with her clothes on. years of hormone therapy; or a double mastectomy without “I’m the only one who knows how it feels when I look in the radiation or hormone therapy. mirror or when I look down in the shower and I see a constant She also underwent genetic testing before surgery to assess reminder of what, one, what used to be, and two, everything her risk of the cancer reoccurring. The test showed there was that I’ve been through,” she said. an 85 percent chance that the cancer could return, and she The ongoing battle to look normal now has Wathen fighting chose the double mastectomy. depression. She didn’t notice it at first in part because when she As their surgeries approached, the women shared their fears was going through treatment and looking out for Hunter-Smith she with each other. simply didn’t have time to feel down. But now she feels apathetic, doesn’t feel motivated for activities like exercise or taking walks, Hunter-Smith was worried about chemotherapy, whether her hair would fall out and how she would react to treatment. and she doesn’t spend as much time with friends. Wathen tried to be pragmatic about her situation. She was But Hunter-Smith understands. When Wathen begins to fall, done having children and was beyond breast-feeding. By remov- when the reconstruction issues begin to wear her down, when ing both breasts, she was taking a preventive measure to help she worries about passing cancer-causing genes on to her kids ensure the cancer wouldn’t return. But she was concerned or when she worries about whether people will see her as ugly about how she would look and feel after surgery. or beautiful, Hunter-Smith talks her through it. The women each got haircuts before surgery. Wathen Hunter-Smith completed her radiation treatment in June. She wouldn’t be able to lift her arms after the mastectomy and sees her oncologist every six months but has been cancer free would need a style that was manageable, and Hunter-Smith since then. knew her hair would fall out from the chemotherapy that would Wathen knows she has more surgery ahead of her next year, follow. but the procedure and date haven’t been set. What she does know is Hunter-Smith will be there for her when it’s time. Both women had surgery in September 2009. Hunter-Smith “We were sisters-in-law before. And we were close. But I had a lumpectomy Sept. 4, and Wathen’s double mastectomy would say we are sisters now,” Hunter-Smith said. was Sept. 30. ‘She and I are sisters’ “ My concern was for my kids. I just wanted to know that I was going to be able to beat this. There was just no other option. I had to beat this. ‘A constant reminder’ Kim Hunter-Smith Age 48 Residence Edinburgh Diagnosed July 28, 2009, with Stage 2 invasive ductal carcinoma Treatment Lumpectomy, six months of chemotherapy, 37 radiation treatments What cancer taught me People survive. Cancer is not always a death sentence, and you can have quality of life while you’re going through your treatments and afterward, and your life is going to change. But in my experience it’s been a better life. How cancer changed me It’s made things a lot clearer. I’ve been able to get rid of things that weren’t important. I know what’s important now. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer There’s a lot of help out there. Get hooked up, align yourself with people that have been through it. You can have quality of life and go through this. Lottie Wathen Age 48 Residence Edinburgh Diagnosed July 28, 2009, with intraductal carcinoma Treatment Double mastectomy What cancer taught me Cancer doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t care who you are or where you are in your life. Everybody is susceptible. How cancer changed me I think it’s still changing me. I don’t think that I’m completely changed yet. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Keep a positive attitude. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, deal with each battle as it comes and don’t worry about the battle that’s down the road. Talk to someone who has been through it. No matter what you’ve read, it doesn’t have the personal touch of speaking with someone who’s dealt with it. Pictured: Breast cancer survivors Kim Hunter-Smith, left, and Lottie Wathen were diagnosed on the same day. STORY BY TOM LANGE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BRAVE HEARTS C4 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. Stunned silent Retired teacher listened to little voice inside A little voice told Center Grove area resident Norma Newton every night for a few months that she needed to go in for a mammogram. Newton felt healthy. She felt for lumps but found nothing. But she believed the Holy Spirit was talking to her, the way it had when telling her to slow down years earlier while driving her sisters on a rainslickened highway in Tennessee. They narrowly avoided an accident that day. Eight years ago, Newton knew she needed to again listen to that persistent voice in her head. She arranged to have a mammogram as soon as she got back from Florida, where she and her husband were staying at their winter home. She didn’t want to see a doctor she didn’t know in Florida and called to set up an appointment with her family doctor days after she got back to Indiana. Newton, a retired Indian Creek High School health teacher, had gotten her annual mammogram every July since she turned 40. But she decided to go in April that year. The office called back a few days later to tell her that her mammogram had detected something and she needed to come in right away. Newton underwent a biopsy. She had a fast-growing type of estrogen-fed breast cancer. The test caught the cancer before it spread. Newton already knew the treatment option she wanted: a double mastectomy. She could have gotten a lumpectomy or a single mastectomy. But she wanted to have both breasts removed because she didn’t want to worry about the cancer coming back. Newton knew from her teaching days there was no better way to ensure that the cancer would be gone for good. Her doctor cemented her opinion. Newton asked her doctor what she would do and was told a double mastectomy was the best option. The cancer was in an early stage. Newton needed just the surgery and not radiation or chemotherapy. “I feel very fortunate that it was caught when it was,” she said. “I could get the surgery and be over and done with it.” Her husband, Gene Newton, wasn’t so sure. “I didn’t know if she’d need more treatment or what would happen,” he said. “It was scary.” He still gets nervous every time she goes in for a checkup. He fears the cancer could come back or spread to another part of her body. “I might be a worrywart,” he said. “But I get concerned.” Doctors have assured Norma Newton that there’s little chance of the cancer recurring, since it was caught before it spread to the lymph nodes. They told her the surgery worked. She believed all along that she would beat it. Inside her favorite pair of sneakers, she wrote that cancer wouldn’t tread on her. She also looked to Scripture for guidance. Her faith kept her from getting worried when she went in for her surgery I I Norma Newton Age 69 Residence Center Grove area Diagnosed April 2003 Treatment Double mastectomy What cancer taught me To trust God, how many friends I have and how much love there is out there. How cancer changed me It brought me closer to my family and my husband, who was wonderful. I know many times the husband will just walk away, but he was there every step of the way. He was great, a godsend. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer I would tell them to find the best doctor they could, to pray to God because he was my strength through all of this. He works in mysterious ways to makes things happen that are right for you. at Community Hospital South in Indianapolis. She believed she was bound for a better place if the procedure went wrong or failed to excise the cancer. “I know where I’m going,” she said. “I’ve read the book many times, and I know how it ends.” But she was concerned with how her family would miss her if she were gone. Her family had taken the news of her cancer hard. Her husband and two daughters were stunned silent when they accompanied her to her first doctor’s appointment after the diagnosis. “I don’t think that anyone said anything,” she said. Her husband went with her to every doctor’s appointment. Her daughters prayed with her. Newton spent more time praying herself, often an hour or an hour and a half a night. “You spend more time talking to the Lord,” she said. “You know that he’s there for you during something like that, that he’s your friend.” She felt her relationship with God deepen. She trusted that God would take care of her, regardless of what happened. “I put myself in the Lord’s hands,” she said. “I felt a sense of peace.” Newton also felt confident because of the treatment she chose to pursue. She knew there would be little chance of recurrence if she had both breasts removed. She decided to have them reconstructed immediately after the double Celebrating Breast Cancer Awareness S S : y. momi Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Norma Newton with the tennis shoes in which she wrote a message to herself: Cancer wouldn’t tread on her. STORY BY JOSEPH PETE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON Each day comes bearing its own gifts. - . f Untie the ribbons. - Ruth Ann Schabacker 'li 'a If you’re age 40 or older, join the millions of women who get mammograms on a regular basis. FRANKLIN mastectomy, something she was reluctant to do at first. Newton figured she was too old for it to make a difference. But her daughters talked her into it. She felt the reconstruction helped her adjust to losing both her breasts. Getting used to it still wasn’t easy. Newton went through countless bras until she finally found a brand that worked. She ended up buying 15 of them. Newton feared the manufacturer would stop making the bra. Her new implants felt odd for about six months. She hasn’t suffered any long-term health effects, and her treatment didn’t take any toll on the family finances. Newton had bought a cancer insurance policy about three years before she was diagnosed. She believes God guided her to buy the policy and to renew it when she had considered dropping it. She thinks God wanted her to have cancer for a reason: to provide comfort to others who suffer from the disease. Newton has since offered guidance to women in her church who have been diagnosed with breast cancer. She’s told them what they can expect and reassured them that they can survive. “I believe things happen for a reason,” she said. “I feel like God used me to help other people and support them. When I was diagnosed, I wanted to talk to survivors to find out everything I could because there’s just so much uncertainty.” PUmte Assisted Living & Alzheimer Memory Care 75 S. Milford Drive • Franklin, IN 46131 • (317) 736-4665 M N& 259 S. Meridian zr odo an St. St. •° Greenwood G reenwood oP: 881-9300 mz • F: 488-2528 www.CateringByArchers.com wA Aw T, e also We also specialize specialize in in meat meat processing processing and and sell se00 meat meat by by the the pound. pound . L BRAVE HEARTS DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 C5 ‘I was just in shock’ Community rallied around young mother D octors prescribed Franklin resident Robin Swigert had inflammatory cancer. She was convinced she would die and antibiotics after she found a large lump while leave her young children alone. breast-feeding. Her doctor had a different opinion. She told Swigert that she They believed it was inflammation from an infec- needed to focus on her treatment and that it would make her tion that would go away. better. But the swelling never went down. Swigert took She advised Swigert not to go on the Internet again, because it antibiotics for weeks, went in for tests and then went back on would just discourage her and make her nervous. antibiotics. The Stage 3 cancer was so advanced and so aggressive that A second round of tests found that Swigert had a tumor that Swigert had to immediately start chemotherapy. She could not was cancerous, and aggressively so. get a lumpectomy on the infected breast, because it wouldn’t be Neither Swigert nor her doctors thought it was possible. She enough. was a 33-year-old woman who still was nursing her son. First, doctors needed to shrink the tumor and get the cancer The mother of two young sons worried about how she would under control. explain her illness to them. She fretted over who would take care A surgeon cut a hole in her side to create a port through which of Ezekiel and Caleb while she got treatment. She feared they the cocktail of drugs would flow. But her lung suffered a tiny would grow up without a mother. puncture in the process. She’s since undergone chemotherapy, a Swigert wheezed and was short of breath for double mastectomy and radiation treatments the next week, and she called her doctor when that caused her skin to redden and flay. Docshe started getting a sharp pain every time she tors have advised her that there’s little chance drew breath. The area near her shoulder blade of the cancer coming back after the treatment throbbed, and she felt a knifing pain when she she received. inhaled. Follow-up tests haven’t shown any signs of She described those symptoms to her doctor the disease. Swigert hopes to dance at her over the phone. Her doctor told her to immedisons’ weddings. ately go to the emergency room. She decided to get a double mastectomy Her right lung had collapsed. because she wanted to eliminate any chance of “I thought I was going to die,” she said. “I the cancer flaring up again. Her decision was didn’t know what to expect, but I thought I was cemented after an MRI showed that her other going to die. I didn’t know you could survive a breast could be infected and that a biopsy collapsed lung.” would be needed to confirm. Her parents were home at the time, and they Robin Swigert “I said I wasn’t doing any more biopsies,” drove her to the Community Hospital South in Franklin she said. “I was 90 percent sure at that point Indianapolis. Her mother called Michael that I was going to get a bilateral mastectomy Swigert, who was teaching school in Shelby anyway. The more people I talked to, the more County. people recommended it. My feeling was why wouldn’t I do that, She told him his wife was in the hospital, and that he needed to because it takes away a huge percentage of it ever coming back.” get there as soon as he could. Michael Swigert sped off on the icy She was nursing her then-1-year-old son Caleb when she first back-country roads toward Johnson County and slid into a ditch. found the 8-centimeter-wide lump. The crash left him with a flat tire, but he had a pump in his “Cancer never even crossed my mind,” she said. “I was a trunk. young mother breast-feeding, so I thought it had to be related to He made it back home with the patched tire and took her car that.” to the hospital. Her OB/GYN agreed. She prescribed her an antibiotic but “I was getting more and more panicked,” he said. “I didn’t know what happened, and if she’d be OK.” became concerned when it didn’t work. Doctors had inserted a tube into her chest cavity and sucked Swigert’s doctor told her she needed a mammogram. She was out all the air, relieving the pressure on her lung. She had to stunned. spend four days in the hospital. “It was devastating,” she said. “I was just in shock.” Anxiety seized her. She was in constant pain and couldn’t She was so frazzled that she locked her keys in her vehicle sleep. when she stopped by a pharmacy on her way home. She called “I had tubes coming out everywhere, for the port and the lung,” her mother, Sally Craig, to pick her up and blurted out that she she said. “I couldn’t turn on my side at all.” had to get a mammogram. Before she was released, doctors told her the ruptured lung Her mother wanted to know the whole story then, but she just meant she couldn’t lift anything heavy. She couldn’t hold her wanted to go home. 1-year-old son. “I was freaking out,” she said. “Locking my keys in the car just Quality time with her children got even harder after chemomade me more freaked out because everything was going wrong. therapy started. For days at a time, she slumped on a couch or It was such a terrible day.” lied on the floor in the living room. Michael Swigert, her husband, tried to take an analytical At first, her sons thought she was playing like their father, who approach when he learned of the mammogram that evening. He often wrestled with them on the living room floor. But the wanted to make sure that they found out everything they could Swigerts explained that she was sick and couldn’t play the way from the doctor and did what was needed to fix the problem. she used to. Doctors did not determine that Swigert had breast cancer until “On days where I looked really ill, they knew to give me she had a second mammogram and biopsy. She found out she space,” she said. “But some days, I’d have to remind them.” had the disease on a Friday but wasn’t able to see her doctor Caleb was too young to know what was going on, but Ezekiel until Monday to discuss what the treatment options would be. was old enough to understand his mother was sick. He asked Swigert spent the weekend doing research online about breast Michael Swigert one day if she was going to die. cancer. She knew little about it and wanted to be better “That took me completely off-guard,” he said. “I wasn’t ready informed. for that.” “At my age, it wasn’t even on my radar,” she said. “They don’t They explained that she had cancer and would get better. even recommend you get mammograms at my age, so it wasn’t Swigert was afraid that her struggle with cancer would inflict something I considered.” psychological damage on her children, but they handled it well. What she read on the Internet scared her. A majority of the A pressing problem was how to take care of them when Swigert posts she came across on forums were negative. lacked the energy to get up. They arranged to have family She learned that inflammatory breast cancer was the worst type to get. That type of cancer has a 40 percent survival rate. Fear came over her when her doctor told her Monday that she (SEE SHOCK, PAGE H3) “ It had been such a whirlwind, but it made us appreciate our time together more. Robin Swigert Age 34 Residence Franklin Diagnosed January 2010 Treatment Chemotherapy, double mastectomy, radiation What cancer taught me It taught me to always rely on myself. How cancer changed me I appreciate small things. Small things are what make me happiest, like being with my boys and husband. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer It will get easier. The first few weeks are the worst. Once you have your treatment plan, it gets a little easier to handle. Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Robin Swigert with husband, Michael, and sons Ezekiel, 6, and Caleb, 2, in their Franklin home. STORY BY JOSEPH PETE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BRAVE HEARTS C6 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. ‘I’m not going out like that’ Family works together to help mom recover F or more than two years, a Greenwood woman convinced herself that the lump in her breast was something other than cancer. She told herself that her glands were swollen from drinking too much soda. Or the lump was a cyst, just like one her mother had. Even though her grandmother had breast cancer and her mother-in-law died of cancer, Kelly Burton told herself she didn’t have it. She was busy taking care of her ailing father-in-law. And she hated going to the doctor and being in hospitals. When she finally had a mammogram, the doctor was honest with her. The doctor showed her a picture of a black shadow in her breast that appeared to be cancer. Burton broke down in tears. She was convinced she would die. She had seen her mother-in-law die years earlier after her cancer spread to other parts of her body because it wasn’t caught early enough. Now, after seven years of clear mammograms, Burton has advice for others: If you feel a lump or something that isn’t right, don’t ignore it. That’s the same advice Burton, 47, gives her 23-year-old daughter, Velia Burton, since doctors have said her family history puts her at a higher risk to get breast cancer. “I tell her to do self-exams, and if you feel it, don’t let it go,” Kelly Burton said. “I played mine off that it was something else, but it wasn’t. I was in denial that it could be cancer.” Kelly Burton Age 47 Residence Greenwood Diagnosed October 2003 Treatment Lumpectomy, four rounds of chemotherapy and radiation What cancer taught me Cancer has no age limit. And it affects women and men, which I hadn’t thought about before. How cancer changed me I live life to the fullest and don’t waste a day. I see my grandkids every day I can. I have a new goal to go to Las Vegas. I also want to lose weight so I can play with my grandkids. I see the big picture now, not a small window. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Pray. Ask God to help. Take support and help that is offered. If your family wants to be there to help, let them. ‘Mom was right there’ Kelly Burton vaguely remembers the months after her diagnosis — a lumpectomy, four rounds of chemotherapy and more than six weeks of radiation treatments. The chemotherapy treatments made her weak and sick for days, and her immune system was so fragile that her room had to be sterile and people had to wear masks and gloves around her. She couldn’t do anything except lie in bed and feel guilty for all the work her husband and children had to do around the house, she said. Her daughter, who was a sophomore in high school at the time, remembers cleaning, cooking and helping take care of the household, duties her mother had handled with ease. She struggled to focus in school. But she never let on to her mother because she didn’t want her to feel worse, she said. “I felt like I needed to hold it together so she would too,” Velia Burton said. Her son, Travis Burton, was taking classes but spent much of his time at home with his mother. Travis Burton helped around the house because his dad was working, and he took care of her when she felt sick. That was a difficult change, he said. Pictured: Kelly Burton stands with her son, Travis Burton, at her Greenwood home that displays a “Strive For A Cure” flag. “When I was young, if you were sick, Mom was right there. So for her to be sick was difficult,” Travis Burton said. Seeing her lose her hair was the most difficult because she was so upset about it. For years, his mother had curly hair, a vision that stuck in his brain. But then her hair began thinning and falling out in chunks. So Travis Burton decided to shave his mother’s head and then his own so that she didn’t have to be bald alone, he said. “She was so upset. I was trying to do what I could for her,” Travis Burton said. Each morning, he knew from the look on her face what the day would bring. “I could definitely tell in the morning what the day was going to be — whether she was going to take on the world or just hang out at home,” Travis Burton said. But there definitely were more days where she was taking on the world than not, Travis and Velia Burton said. American Legion 334 US 31 S | Greenwood 317-881-1752 ti 0 MFF post 252 ‘Not sentenced to it’ STORY BY ANNIE GOELLER Kelly Burton credits her strength to her family, especially her husband, Roy, who kept a positive attitude through it all. He learned how to help her, replacing her drainage tubes when one fell out after surgery. He was convinced she would recover. After her final chemotherapy treatment, he took her on a spur-of-themoment trip to Florida to visit friends. “If he had felt like I did, we probably never would have made it through it. I needed that uplifting,” Kelly Burton said. She still dreads her yearly mammogram, each time worrying something will show up. Two years ago, a spot showed up on her scan, but a biopsy showed it wasn’t cancer. Seven years removed from her battle with breast cancer, she worries about her daughter. Because of their family history, Velia Burton has to start mammograms at age PHOTO BY JOSHUA MARSHALL 29, 10 years before the age her mother was diagnosed. Kelly Burton had considered doing genetic testing to see if she carries the gene marker that shows a higher risk of cancer but decided against it. She already had been poked and prodded enough, she said. 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FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 C7 ‘I did what I had to do’ Woman finds support in husband T he puffiness in her arm, soreness in her bones and the underarm hair that’s never grown back are daily reminders of her battle with breast cancer four years ago. But Janis Poynter Kittle, 53, wants others to have a reminder of the disease that affects women every day. That’s why she drives a pink tractor. The antique tractor was a gift from her husband, Bruce Kittle, which he painted “breast cancer pink.” She now drives the tractor in local parades, often while sitting under a pink umbrella. But she doesn’t stop there. Kittle also sends a card or e-mail to strangers who have been recently diagnosed and offers her support. She buys anything that gives proceeds to breast cancer research. And she encourages friends, co-workers, even acquaintances she meets to get mammograms. Early detection saves lives, including hers, she said. “Something happened within that year. Something came up. It was Stage 2 by the time I went,” Kittle said. Kittle was diagnosed in 2007 after her yearly mammogram, which she started at age 40, detected something odd. It wasn’t a lump, and Kittle had “odd things” come up in previous tests. But her doctor wanted another test. So Kittle went for an ultrasound, an uncomfortable experience where she started to wonder if the technician was going to rub her breast off, she said. The test showed a 3-centimeter mass, and her doctor ordered a biopsy. Then came the waiting for the results, which seemed like years, Kittle said. She had hoped the mass would be nothing. A friend of hers previously had a biopsy, and it turned out to be nothing. But then she got the news. It was cancer. “Now what do I do? What’s the quickest way to get rid of this?” she said. Over the next year, Kittle focused on getting better. First was the surgery to remove the lump. The surgeon also removed 25 lymph nodes and found five with cancer. She got a staph infection and had to wait longer to start chemotherapy but then got eight treatments over 16 weeks. Then, she had to wait again to recover before she did 33 radiation treatments. Her doctor had told her that with chemotherapy and radiation she had a 96 percent chance of living, she said. The chemotherapy treatments were hard on her body. She lost her hair, a disturbing sight to her daughter, Hannah, now 28, who cried when she saw Kittle pulling out hair and throwing it in a trash can while watching television. “She cried and then I did, too. I wasn’t even thinking about it,” she said. And she got burns from the radiation treatments, similar to a sunburn, she said. SkkSSSSStt c Doctors told her the chemotherapy drugs she was on were aggressive and could cause damage to her organs and bones. So far, tests have shown she is OK, but she worries about the aches and pains she feels, she said. But through it all, Kittle never took the time to wallow in grief and feel sorry for herself. She focused on getting better, she said. Kittle is a planner, and she used that skill to make sure she got all of her treatments and tests. “You think back on it, and you think I did what I had to do. But then you think, gosh, I could have died,” she said. Kittle was reminded of that when a co-worker’s cancer returned and, after months of treatment, she died. Luckily, more people survive. Before her diagnosis, Kittle didn’t notice all the people in her life who had fought breast cancer. Co-workers, acquaintances, friends of friends and members of her church came out en masse after her diagnosis, offering their support. And now Kittle does the same. One of her focuses is on education and awareness. Both of her daughters, Hannah and Hope, 24, will begin mammograms at age 30, since they are more at risk because of her diagnosis. And when Kittle hears women talking about the discomfort of a mammogram, she pushes them to deal with the few seconds of pain because of the benefits of early detection. “People think it hurts too much, but the pain is worth it. It’s like pressing on a bruise; it hurts for a few seconds, but it’s not a big deal,” Kittle said. Pink already was her favorite color, but now ribbons and other mementos plaster her walls and furniture. And then there’s the pink tractor. Kittle’s husband painted the tractor for her after seeing the idea in a tractor magazine. The two weren’t together when she was diagnosed or undergoing treatment, but once he met her, he started realizing just how many people were affected by breast cancer, including some men, too, Bruce Kittle said. And, since prostate cancer runs in his family, she could someday have to be there for him in a cancer battle, he said. Breast cancer was a life-changing event for her, but he is also proud of her work to raise awareness after her battle, Bruce Kittle said. “How you deal with it is as important and maybe more important as the disease itself,” Bruce Kittle said. Bruce Kittle thought the tractor would bring more awareness to the issue. He already brings home pretty much anything he sees breast cancer related when he is out, including toilet paper, he said. Bruce Kittle got a kick out of seeing her drive the tractor in the Johnson County fair parade this year. “I’ve ran tractors in parades for years, and I’ve never heard people holler like that,” he said. Janis Poynter Kittle Age 53 Residence Franklin Diagnosed May 2007 with infiltrating ductal carcinoma, Stage 2 Treatment Lumpectomy, eight chemotherapy treatments over 16 weeks, and 33 radiation treatments What cancer taught me It made me more aware of cancer. It taught me life is short. Take it one day at a time. And don’t take life too seriously. 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FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 D1 ‘I was going to make it’ Woman’s dog credited with finding tumor D ressed entirely in pink, the Whiteland resident prepared to walk a mile around the family’s neighborhood. Kathryn Turner wasn’t ready for April’s Susan G. Komen walk in Indianapolis. She had been battling breast cancer for less than a year and wanted to at least make it beyond the 12-month mark before participating in the Komen event. So she went for her own walk. Grubby, the family’s 6-year-old dog, a boxer-cocker spaniel mix, went with her. As she walked around the neighborhood, she thought about everything she had been through in the past year: a cancer diagnosis, a mastectomy and four months of chemotherapy. Turner thanked God during the walk for the blessings of the year’s high points, for getting her through the low ones, and for Grubby, the dog she believes found her cancer. Turner had her right breast removed Oct. 3, 2010, after eight rounds of chemo. She discovered the lump in her breast at the end of May, and no one will ever convince her that Grubby didn’t help her find it. Turner and her husband, Gerald, bought Grubby six years ago as a gift for their youngest daughter, Skye, then 10 years old. A co-worker of Turner’s sold her the dog and a sandwich bag filled with dog food for $50. In May 2010, Turner was sitting on the living room love seat when Grubby began jumping up next to her, pushing her head underneath Turner’s armpit. She tried to keep the dog off the furniture, but as Grubby sat on the floor the dog kept staring at Turner and shaking. That night, Turner was getting ready for bed when she scratched an itch near where Grubby’s head had been. “When I scratched, that’s when I found the monster,” she said. ‘I found a lump’ Her pulse quickened as terror began to set in. Turner, a nurse, did a self-exam, comparing the sides of each breast, and she wondered whether the lump could be a cyst or at least something benign. Then she ran to tell her husband who was working with the couple’s son, 24-year-old Nicolas, in a shed in the backyard. Gerald Turner and Nicolas were coming up the driveway as Kathryn raced to meet them. “Honey, honey, honey, I found a lump,” she told Gerald before collapsing into his arms. Grubby stood behind her, running in circles. Turner immediately had a mammogram followed by a biopsy. The room was quiet during the procedure, and Turner tried to find the how and why behind the lump. She knew of no genetic connection through her family. She didn’t smoke, do drugs or drink. Still, she knew she was in trouble. The biopsy results took four days to arrive, and they were the longest days of Turner’s life. During the day she would keep busy with work and with meetings. But between 10:30 p.m. and 5 a.m., when the family slept, all of her fears about the lump ambushed her. She tried to sleep but would jerk awake, crying “Please God, help us.” Gerald Turner rubbed her back, her head and sometimes put his arms around his wife, trying to comfort her. Other nights Nicolas and Skye would come into their parents’ room and pray for their mother to be able to sleep. Each night, Turner pondered questions no wife or mother wants to think about. Who would finish raising Skye? Who would be there for Nicolas? What about her oldest daughter, the newly married Ashley? She was desperate to find a way to fix the situation in case her prognosis was terminal. Focusing on positives After four days, Turner received the phone call: She had cancer. Her surgeon initially thought it was Stage 3 breast cancer, but after a more extensive biopsy confirmed there was no cancer in Turner’s lymph nodes it was classified as Stage 2. Turner’s doctor wanted to shrink the tumor before removing it. She was scheduled to undergo eight rounds of chemotherapy over 16 weeks, followed by surgery to remove her breast and then radiation. Chemo began in June and ended Oct. 3, 2010. Today, Turner’s hair reaches her neck, but before chemo it went as far as her waist. She was determined as she started treatment that she wasn’t going to lose her hair — God wasn’t going to let it happen. Fifteen days into chemo, Turner was brushing her hair when the brush kept going and going and she realized her hair was coming out. Turner was prescribed medication to prevent her from becoming nauseous because of the chemo, but she lost her appetite, and her sense of taste was destroyed. People brought her lamb chops and other meals, but everything tasted like metal, and she felt like she was chewing on rubber. But Turner chose to focus on the positive: She was a step closer to killing the monster. ‘I need help’ Turner had a mastectomy Oct. 28, 2010. She knows some women would have opted to have both breasts removed, which she would have done had the cancer spread. “That wasn’t an option for me. I wanted to be as close to normal as I could be,” she said. For reconstruction, Turner will have her right breast reconstructed with tissue from her back and abdominal area. “So that it’s me,” she said. After surgery she discussed the planned radiation with her doctors. She didn’t understand what was left to radiate. Her doctors conducted additional tests to confirm the cancer hadn’t spread and eventually agreed the radiation wasn’t necessary. During treatment and afterward, Gerald Turner had to relearn what it meant to be a spouse. “It made being a husband a tough job. When you say ‘I do’ it means you do a lot of things. Things you didn’t ever think you’d do,” he said. He didn’t expect to have to hold his wife as she cried over whether she would die from cancer or to have conversations about whether the cancer would return later. The couple had insurance but still were responsible for some of the costs, which came just months after they’d dipped into their savings to pay for Ashley’s wedding. Gerald Turner eventually had to set up a payment plan through the hospital. “I’ve learned that you swallow your pride, you go in there and you say ‘I need help,’” he said. ‘I knew that I was going to live’ While Turner has been cancer-free for almost a year, she said the disease continues to affect her marriage. The couple are more deliberate about planning for trips that they had long saved for, such as an Alaskan cruise. But her reconstruction is not yet complete, and Turner worries about how she looks to her husband, who has never said a negative word about her appearance. “Next to Christ, he’s my rock,” Turner said. In December, with chemo behind her, Turner had begun to regrow her hair and eyebrows. One day while visiting her friend Donna Ghent, Ghent’s grandson, Benjamin Slaughter, came up and sat next to Turner as he often did when she would visit. He looked at her sprouting hair and told her that it looked like she had a head again. Turner fights back tears when she thinks of her friend Benjamin’s comments. “This is how I knew that I was going to live, I was going to make it,” she said. Since last year’s surgery, Turner has been preparing for reconstruction surgery by receiving injections to stimulate skin and muscle growth. She has a physical exam every three months, has blood work done regularly and receives a mammogram every six months. There is a 75 percent chance that the cancer won’t return, and that is the number she and her family focus on. Turner thanked Grubby for finding the cancer during her walk in April. When she tells people how the tumor was discovered some people appear amazed while others laugh, branding Grubby the cancer-finding dog. Whether they believe it or not is irrelevant for her. “I know what I know. And I’ll never believe otherwise,” Turner said. Kathryn Turner Age 50 Residence Whiteland Diagnosed June 2010, with Stage 2, ductal, right breast Treatment Underwent chemotherapy, a mastectomy and is undergoing reconstructive surgery What cancer taught me I have learned that cancer is not a respecter of persons. It’s anybody’s monster. I’ve learned that there is life during and after treatment and surgeries. How cancer changed me I was not a person to cry easily. But I find myself more tender hearted now than I once was. It’s made me passionate, so much more passionate. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Fight. Write down all of the questions you have for your doctors, no matter how small or silly they could be. Take them to the appointments, and if they don’t have the answers then find someone who does. In finding your “new you,” there will be changes. Your body will go through changes, there’s no way around it. But have fun with the changes. Pictured: Cancer survivor Kathryn Turner credited her dog Grubby with finding the tumor in Turner’s right breast. STORY BY TOM LANGE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BRAVE HEARTS D2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. Learning from others Family tragedy prompts woman to acknowledge risk C heryle Anderson didn’t know that her mother was dying when she saw her in July 1980, but she and her siblings knew something was wrong. The family was gathered for the funeral of Anderson’s sister Sandie Willey, who had died of complications from bronchitis at age 31. At the funeral her mother, Margaret Willey, wore a long-sleeve turtleneck despite the July heat. Four months later, on Nov. 6, 58-year-old Willey died from breast cancer. She was the first relative Anderson would see killed by the disease, but she wouldn’t be the last. Anderson, now 65, is the third oldest of 13 children that included 10 girls. Between 1980 and 2003, she saw breast cancer kill her mother and two of her sisters. Another of Anderson’s sisters is a breast cancer survivor. Three cancer-related deaths in 23 years scared the Columbus resident into making sure she was taking care of herself. Since her mother’s death, she’s regularly done self-exams, receives annual mammograms and is considering having testing for the breast cancer gene done. “I worry. How can you not when you’ve got that many in your family that’s had it,” she said. Anderson was born and raised in Franklin. Margaret and Kenneth Willey worked hard to provide for their large family. Margaret Willey also came from a large family, so she knew what was needed to keep everyone happy and healthy. Kenneth Willey worked as a painter, and Margaret Willey kept the house clean and made meals. Lots of dinners were made of bologna, potatoes and beans, but every two weeks when Kenneth Willey got paid the family would have a special dinner of hamburgers. “We were poor, but we didn’t know we were poor, know what I mean?” Anderson said. Anderson’s older sister, Diana Keller, was the first of her immediate family to be diagnosed with breast cancer, but Anderson doesn’t remember much about what happened. All she knows for sure is that she beat it, and Keller is still alive at 72. Nearly a decade later at Sandie Willey’s funeral, Anderson and her sisters suspected their mom was sick. The only explanation the family could think of for Willey’s long sleeves in the summer was to cover up cancerous sores. But she wouldn’t go to see a doctor. Willey was taken to the hospital in November after the pain became too much to bear, and she died Nov. 6, 1980. “I guess it’s just because she was scared. I … she just didn’t. She didn’t seek help of any kind,” Anderson said. Cheryle Anderson Age 65 Residence Columbus Experience Lost her mother and two sisters to breast cancer. A third sister was diagnosed with breast cancer but survived. What cancer taught me To be more aware of all cancers and take better care of yourself. … When you see family go through that, you try to find out about other things also. You learn from what other people go through. How cancer changed me To be more aware of my own body. You can’t quite explain it until you see somebody go through it. It just changes you, your outlook on that disease is just totally different. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer You’ve got to be optimistic. You can’t bury your head. ‘It was horrifying’ No one is sure when Anderson’s sister Brenda Burton discovered her tumor. Anderson doesn’t think she waited as long as their mother to seek treatment, but Burton’s daughter, Grace Norton, 49, remembers her mother waiting years for treatment before dying as well. Some of Norton’s favorite memories of her mother came after her son Michael was born in 1981. Every time the seasons changed, Burton bought her new grandson a new wardrobe. Four times a year Norton received new shirts and pants along with jerseys and jackets for her son. Michael doesn’t remember much about his grandmother. What he remembers is seeing his mom cry, Norton said. Burton avoided seeing a doctor about the lump in her breast until the cancer spread and tumors began appearing around her neck. Norton remembers her father, Wayne Durbin, telling her that Burton didn’t want doctors experimenting on her. “It was horrifying because she had let it go,” Norton said. Burton was beyond surgery by the time she was diagnosed. Her doctors put her on chemotherapy and eventually radiation, but she died Oct. 22, 1984. People told Norton she would be angry at her mother for waiting for treatment, but she wasn’t. Instead she cried every time the seasons changed for 10 years. She also learned to expect the worst. Her father later was diagnosed and died of cancer, and during that time Norton didn’t let herself believe there was hope. The cancer-related deaths scared Anderson, Norton and the other women of the family into action, getting annual mammograms after 40 and performing self-exams. Mammograms are nerve-wracking experiences — with every appointment comes the fear that the doctor will find something suspicious, Norton said. Anderson’s sister, Prudence Blessing, also was vigilant about mammograms and self-exams, and in 2001 she found a lump in her right breast. Early detection stressed Blessing was living in Virginia with her husband, Craig, and their two kids when she was diagnosed. She underwent chemotherapy followed by a double mastectomy and then more chemo. The family was hopeful the cancer had been caught in time, but it reappeared a year later. Blessing underwent additional chemotherapy but continued to get worse and eventually was diagnosed with leukemia. To survive she would need a bone marrow transplant. Anderson was tested and matched the bone marrow her sister would need for a transplant; but two weeks before she was to go to Virginia for the procedure, Blessing died of a stroke. Anderson doesn’t know how other families would deal with the deaths of numerous siblings, but the tragedies brought hers together. She and her siblings would get together or make phone calls to talk about what had happened. “Thank goodness for Facebook, e-mail and stuff like that,” she said. Anderson was diagnosed last year with cervical cancer which was detected early, and after surgery she required no radiation or chemotherapy. She’s continuing her self-exams and mammograms. Anderson doesn’t like to make speeches, but she tries to share her family’s history with people. If breast cancer comes up as a topic of conversation she talks with women about the importance of early detection. Her hope is that at least one woman who isn’t thinking about the disease or is afraid to will start thinking proactively. “So many women die a year of breast cancer. But also, so many women survive breast cancer by early detection,” she said. - Msgr. Sheridan - -; - Knights of Columbus #6138 695 E Pushville Rd. Greenwood 535-5632 I 6:30pm earlybirds | 7:00pm regular games Ist Sunday every month 2:00pm Delicious food & drink served Payouts dependent on number of people in attendance I STORY BY TOM LANGE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON Proud supporters of I License #124159 Every Thursday Evening We support the fight ag ainst breast canc er Pictured: Cheryle Anderson lost her mother Margaret Willey, lower left, and sister Brenda Burton to cancer. Another sister, Prudence Blessing, also developed cancer and later died of a stroke. 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Her paternal Maurice Scales, sitting at the head of the table, prepared to give grandmother had died of breast cancer, and her thanks, but before he did he lifted a special prayer up to God for mother and her husband Ed Tichenor’s mother both his daughter. It was the first of several times Tichenor would had battled breast cancer and survived. When she was 26, hear him pray for her in the next two months. Tichenor found a lump in her breast, but it turned out to be “That’s probably one of the best gifts he ever gave me,” she benign. said. Tichenor began getting annual mammograms Tichenor was working ahead in the weeks after turning 30. She and her husband didn’t leading up to surgery to prepare for the time dwell on the possibility, but they knew there she would miss while recovering. She was interwas a very real chance Tichenor would one day viewing substitute teaching candidates two face breast cancer. During each mammogram, weeks before her medical leave when she Tichenor wondered if this test would be the one received the news that her father had died. that revealed she was sick. “I know he knows everything’s OK, but not About 10 years ago, around the time Lavana where I can see that,” she said. Tichenor’s mother was diagnosed, Tichenor Tichenor’s double mastectomy operation began considering a double mastectomy. If she happened at the end of January 2010. Cancer was ever diagnosed, she was prepared to get cells were found in two of the lymph nodes drastic to ensure the disease didn’t return. Lavana Tichenor taken during the procedure, and she had surIn November 2009, when Tichenor, now 57 and gery again two weeks later to remove 10 more an art teacher at Whiteland Community High Whiteland lymph nodes; all of those were clear. School, was diagnosed with Stage 2 breast Tichenor began her 16 rounds of chemo cancer, her first question to her doctor was March 1, 2010. Ed Tichenor hated knowing the treatment was whether she could have both breasts removed. poisoning her as well as curing her. His lowest point came after Two months after being diagnosed, on Jan. 30, 2010, Tichenor had seeing his wife with both breasts removed. her breasts removed in the first of two surgeries to treat the cancer. “You wonder, ‘Wow, how are they ever going to put this back to The surgeries were followed by 16 weeks of chemotherapy. normal?’” he said. Tichenor could have opted for a less extreme procedure, but Tichenor became weak from treatments, lost her hair and her she wanted to do everything she could to stop the disease from sense of taste and dropped weight. coming back. Ed Tichenor, who is Clark-Pleasant’s transportation director, “I wanted to put it behind me and move on,” she said. came home to be with his wife when buses weren’t on the road. Tichenor’s first real glimpse of the disease came in 2000 when Many times they would sit together, holding hands and watching her mother, Thelma Scales, was diagnosed. The tumor was small TV. but aggressive, and Scales required surgery followed by eight Tichenor said she just wanted him close. weeks of chemotherapy. Sons Seth Tichenor, 24, and Chase Tichenor, 21, who were Scales was a beautician, and after her first chemo treatment attending the University of Pittsburgh and Wabash College, Tichenor sat her mother down in a chair in her beauty shop and respectively, came home when they could. shaved her head. Daughter Jordan Tichenor, 22, was studying pre-med at Frank“It’s kind of ironic that 10 years later I sat in the same chair lin College during Tichenor’s treatment and moved home to help and she shaved my head,” Tichenor said. Tichenor tried to be brave, but after shaving her mother’s head take care of her. She’s now in medical school in Tennessee and is considering specializing in oncology. she had a hard time dealing with the fact that her mother was When Ed Tichenor and the kids were away, Lavana Tichenor’s fighting for her life. mother stayed with her. Tichenor and Thelma Scales also used Tichenor’s father, Maurice Scales, was just as concerned their time to grieve over the death of Maurice. because he had watched his mother die of breast cancer when he was just 11 years old. Tichenor’s father maintained a positive attitude that his wife would recover, but Tichenor is sure there was concern that he might have to relive watching cancer take Six weeks after surgery, while still undergoing chemotherapy, someone close to him. Tichenor prepared to go back to school. She had spent only two weeks with her students and would have to relearn who they were, but she wanted to finish the year with her students. The most difficult part for her was getting dressed, putting her Tichenor was diagnosed after a mammogram screening came wig on and stepping into the high school. She felt safe and secure back questionable. Tichenor was called in for a biopsy, and two while spending time at home; but going out into the world, where days before Thanksgiving her doctor called and told her the diagnosis. She had two, small malignant tumors in her left (SEE MOVE, PAGE H3) breast. “ You wonder, ‘Wow, how are they ever going to put this back to normal?’ ‘Never be the same’ Lavana Tichenor Age 57 Residence Whiteland Diagnosed November 2009 with Stage 2, left breast Treatment Double mastectomy, 16 weeks of chemotherapy What cancer taught me Cancer has taught me that I have more faith than I thought I did. How cancer changed me I think my stamina is not as great as what it was, but my courage far exceeds what I thought my courage was. 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She didn’t let him accompany her to doctor’s appointShe saw the situation as simple: Meet with ments, and she told him everything he needed to doctors to determine the best, most effective know but tried not to overwhelm him with infortreatment, and then do it. The cancer eventumation. ally would be behind her and she could get “She handled the entire situation better than I back to water skiing and reading by the water did,” Dave Meiser said. with Dave and their grown children, Heather Meiser’s surgery was May 16, 2004, and she and James. had expanders for reconstruction put in immeMeiser, 57, of Greenwood, typically received diately following the mastectomy. People had annual mammograms in February; but in 2004 told her how bad the procedure was, but she she pushed back her appointment to take a simply saw it as what was needed to get vacation to Florida. She now thinks of the trip healthy. to Florida and the appointment’s two-month “It was just something you had to work into delay as a gift from God. The test revealed your schedule and just do,” she said. cancer, but it was very small, Stage 0. An Meiser wasn’t able to lift her arms above her earlier mammogram might not have detected shoulders after surgery, and her daughter put it, letting the cancer grow for a year. hair extensions and braided her mother’s hair Mary Sue Meiser “Timing is just everything,” she said. for six months. Meiser also did physical therapy Greenwood Meiser met with her doctors and decided on to regain use of her arms. a double mastectomy. She didn’t want to take Meiser’s doctors told her it would take time to the chance the cancer could come back, and seven years later recovery from surgery, but she was back at work within three she stands by her decision. weeks. In 37 years in business it’s been her longest absence. “To me it was very black and white. It was a no-brainier to me. “There’s just so many things that I’m responsible for; and Do everything now,” she said. when I’m absent, it causes a lot of issues,” she said. Meiser relied heavily on her faith in God. She believes God had Meiser spent an uncomfortable year using the expanders to a hand in the mammogram delay that led to cancer being detectstimulate skin growth. In 2005 the expanders came out and she ed, and she felt a peace about the situation that came from outreceived implants. side herself. Meiser was amazed at the reconstruction process, namely how “God just put calmness on my heart that I just really didn’t the doctors used her own skin to create nipples and how tattooing think another thing about it,” she said. made the result look natural. Meiser also believes that if she hadn’t battled cancer in 2004 “Just the whole process was so educational,” she said. she would have been facing something else. Meiser has been cancer free since her surgery seven years “Something’s going to happen to all of us at some point in time. ago, but it’s not something she thinks about. Her daughter is What those somethings are we don’t have control over, for the more vigilant about the importance of early detection and mammost part,” she said. mograms, but Meiser doesn’t want her to dwell, either. Dave Meiser said he couldn’t imagine what his wife was What she went through was a trial and no different from the going through, and he tried to make the time between his kinds of challenges people around the world face on a daily basis, wife’s diagnosis and surgery as easy as possible for her. He she said. listened to her and looked for ways to make her comfortable. And Meiser said she doesn’t believe the outcome of the trial He helped take care of their two dogs, helped with grocery was entirely up to her. shopping and found people to help with yard work, but he also “I don’t consider myself a survivor. God wasn’t done with what felt helpless. I have to do here,” she said. “ I don’t consider myself a survivor. God wasn’t done with what I have to do here. Residence Greenwood Diagnosed Stage 0, hormone-driven cancer in her right breast Treatment Double mastectomy What cancer taught me You don’t take anything for granted, ever. You just stop stressing and sweating and worrying over small stuff. How cancer changed me “It’s made me a better person.” Anytime she sees an opportunity to say something encouraging to someone, she takes it. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Don’t let your imagination run away with you. Talk with your doctors, have faith in them that they know what they’re doing. If you’re comfortable talking with people about the diagnosis, do that. If you need time by yourself to regroup, do that. Everyone goes through the process differently. Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Mary Sue Meiser was back to work at her family business three weeks after having surgery. STORY BY TOM LANGE PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON 4VQQPSUJOHUIFàHIU BHBJOTUCSFBTUDBODFS 0 Call Ahead Seating! (317) 859-8800 2704.BSMJO%Sr(SFFOXPPE 0âPG4UBUF3PBE135OFYUUP.FOBSETBOE.FJKFS p Installing awareness in the community one customer order at a time. _ _ _ _ A _ Support Breast Cancer Research SUBURBAN GLASS SERVICE, INC. Since 1982 535-5747 VISIT OUR “SHOWROOM OF DESIGNS” Hours: Mon-Fri: 8-5 • Thurs 8-7 GREENWOOD DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. BRAVE HEARTS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 D5 ‘Surprised by my strength’ Mother, daughter beat breast cancer A Franklin resident feared the worst after her annual mammogram when her doctor’s office called to schedule an appointment for another test. Both her mother and grandmother had breast cancer. Given her family history, Karyn Hakes was sure she did too. A biopsy confirmed her fear. Hakes had a cancerous lump a few centimeters in width. Her breast cancer was in an early stage, but it was an aggressive type that could withstand hormone treatment. Hakes underwent a lumpectomy that was followed by chemotherapy and radiation. She relied on God, her church and her family for support during her treatment. She said she felt that she wouldn’t have been able to make it through the fear, fatigue or the loneliness inside the radiation machine without their help. Her mother, Veda Wade, helped Hakes maintain her spirit and her faith. Wade guided her daughter through the procession of appointments and treatment sessions, while recounting how she survived the disease herself. “She told me I would get through it, that it wouldn’t last forever,” Hakes said. “She was very encouraging.” Like her mother, Wade survived breast cancer. Wade was diagnosed with the disease in 1995 and got chemotherapy and a mastectomy. She never felt as bad during her own struggle with breast cancer as she did when her daughter told her she had been diagnosed with the disease, she said. “It was harder to learn that my daughter had it,” Wade said. “As a parent, you don’t want to see your child suffer. I was crestfallen.” Her daughter’s recovery soon became the focus of her daily prayer. Wade believed that God would take care of her daughter. But she didn’t want her daughter to endure her treatment alone. She accompanied Hakes to most of her doctor’s appointments and chemotherapy sessions. “Breast cancer is a lonely disease,” she said. “It helps to have somebody there with you, someone to support you.” While they sat in waiting rooms, Wade told her daughter to have faith and to trust in God’s will. She also told Hakes it was a no-brainer, she just had to follow her doctors’ advice. Hakes did, even agreeing to three additional radiation treatments to make certain that cancerous cells were expunged. She underwent a lumpectomy, chemotherapy and radiation before being given an 80 percent chance of survival. Wade told Hakes exactly what she could expect — the nausea, the trouble eating and the hair loss. She warned her daughter that she’d lose “ Karyn Hakes Age 49 Residence Franklin Diagnosed June 2009 Treatment Lumpectomy, followed by chemotherapy and radiation treatments What cancer taught me It’s taught me that God can help me get through anything, and that’s how I had the strength to get through having breast cancer. How cancer changed me hair all over her body, including in places where she’d least expect it. Her hearing hasn’t been the same since her own bout with chemotherapy, when she lost the hair in her ears. Over time, Hakes lost most of her hair, including in her nostrils. She found that out when she started having nosebleeds. She feared the bleeding was something more serious. But a nurse told her that it sometimes happens as a result of hair loss. Her long blond hair came out in clumps until only a few patches were left. She wore a crocheted cap to bed because her head got cold. Her mother helped her pick out wigs when she started going in for chemotherapy. She did her daughter’s makeup while she tried new looks, such as a strawberry blond color and curly red hair. “It was a chance for me to try new things, like red hair or curly hair or longer hair,” she said. “I told them I might even try purple hair.” She ended up rotating through four wigs until her hair grew out long enough for a scarf. The new looks excited her, but she couldn’t bear to look in the mirror if she wasn’t wearing a wig. Her husband, Marion Hakes, was shocked by how much her appearance had changed but kept it to himself. He shaved his head in solidarity. But he didn’t stay bald for long. He cut his own hair with a razor and a hand mirror, leaving behind nicks and a large gash. He arranged to have an ankle surgery he had been putting off around the time she had her chemotherapy. That way, he got time off from work to help take care of her. Her chemotherapy left her weak, and he didn’t want her to have to cook or clean. He also made sure he was around the house in case she needed him to fetch a It made me want to enjoy life more and have more of a positive attitude toward things, toward life, and be around people who are more positive. I don’t want to hear negative things, and I think it made me more positive mostly. drink or make her more comfortable. “It was worrisome,” he said. “Some days, she’d sleep until two or three in the afternoon.” He tried to persuade her to eat, but she didn’t have much of an appetite. She tried to eat spicy foods because she couldn’t taste anything otherwise. Her mother sometimes came over and took her out to lunch to make sure she was eating. She brought Hakes desserts and salads after their Wednesday night Bible study. “She wouldn’t eat much of anything,” Wade said. Her appetite and energy returned about a month after they stopped pumping the chemical cocktail through her veins, and her nausea also faded. But then she started radiation. Those treatments were worse than the chemotherapy that drained her of the will to get out of bed, she said. The chemotherapy took a toll on her body, while the radiation made her feel isolated. Her husband had kept her company and held her hand during her three-and-a-halfhour long chemotherapy sessions, but she was all alone in the radiation room. No one else was allowed inside. Marion Hakes paced in the waiting room, nervously sipping soda. Hakes felt lonely at first, just staring at the ceiling. But she began to pray. “I knew God was with me, and that made me feel better and made it go faster,” she said. “It was like Jesus was standing with me and holding my hand.” Hakes credits her belief in God for getting her through her struggle with cancer. “I just let go and let God take care of me,” she said. “I was surprised at the strength I had when God was at my side.” What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer I’d tell them to pray a lot and that God would see them through the situation they’re in. Pictured: Cancer survivor Karyn Hakes, left, wears her pink cancer survivor shirt with her mom, Veda Wade, who’s wearing her cancer survivor scarf, in the sanctuary at Edinburgh First Church of the Nazarene. Wade and Hakes are second- and third-generation cancer survivors, respectively. STORY BY JOSEPH PETE PHOTO BY JOSHUA MARSHALL It was harder to learn that my daughter had it. As a parent, you don’t want to see your child suffer. I was crestfallen. 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Dealing with a loss A decade later, daughter still coping with emotions A ndrea Bible talks to her mom every few weeks. She chats about what’s going on in her life, new nieces and nephews, marriage and her job. Once in a while she’ll talk about the past — when Bible was a headstrong teenager and argued with her mother. “I have a regret,” Bible said. “We fought. I never came right out and said, ‘Hey, I’m sorry for the fights.’” Bible speaks to her mother, Anita Cisco, at Greenlawn Cemetery in Franklin, where she is buried. Ten years ago, Cisco died of breast cancer. For Bible, the sting of her mother’s death remains. She has trouble understanding the emotions she felt and continues to experience, and it has taken her a decade to begin opening up and sharing her feelings. One Saturday before Christmas in 1996, Bible drove from her home in Mooresville to her parents’ house in Franklin. Cisco had been to the doctor recently and asked her daughter to come to her house. Bible sat on the floor and faced her mother. “She looked a little worried. She definitely was not her cheerful, jovial self,” Bible said. Cisco finally said that she was sick. The lump her family doctor had said a few months back was a cyst turned out to be breast cancer. Cisco’s eyes filled with tears, but Bible held her own tears back for the sake of her mom. “I was dumbfounded, shell-shocked,” Bible said. Bible suggested they call a friend who was a nurse that specialized in oncology. She was able to calm the pair and make the situation less bewildering. Bible remembers driving to her husband’s workplace and crying on his shoulder, releasing the tears she had hidden. More than a decade later, Bible remembers the thought that raced through her mind. “Is Mom going to die? I’m sure I thought it,” Bible said. “I also knew they had made so many advancements in treatments.” ‘A real serious shock’ Her paternal grandmother, Florence Cisco, had a mastectomy when Bible was young and was cancer free. To Bible, that meant the disease could be beaten. Bible’s father, Richard Cisco, took charge during his wife’s treatments. He attended every doctor’s appointment after his wife discovered the lump in her breast. Sitting in Dr. S. Chace Lottich’s office in 1996, Richard Cisco said he figured it would be another routine visit. “It’s a real serious shock,” Richard Cisco said after hearing the diagnosis. Lottich had asked when they wanted to schedule a lumpectomy. “We looked at each other and said, ‘Tomorrow,’” Richard Cisco said. After the surgery, life was normal for Anita Cicso Age 52 when she died Aug. 6, 1999 City Franklin Diagnosed December 1996 with breast cancer that metastasized to her lung and liver Treatment Surgery to take out the lump and lymph nodes in January 1997, chemotherapy and eight weeks of radiation for five days a week Andrea Bible talked about her experiences as her mother battled cancer. her colleagues, “Oh, I just decided to change my hair.” Back to the hospital a little more than a year until the cancer came back. Then came chemotherapy and radiation treatments. After each doctor’s visit, Bible called her mother. If Anita Cisco was scared, she never let her daughter know. While Anita Cisco hid her emotions, her family did the same. Richard Cisco said he worried that if he admitted his fearful feelings it would bring his wife down. Keeping the situation lighthearted was tough, however, after Anita Cisco’s hair fell out during chemotherapy treatments. Richard Cisco remembers his wife’s embarrassment when her wig blew off in a parking lot. When her hair finally started growing back, it came in salt and pepper and curly, a big difference from her previous straight brown hair. Anita Cisco never let the treatments get in the way of her work at a bank. She worked every day during her radiation treatments. Richard Cisco said it was her way of not dwelling on the situation, and she didn’t want to worry her friends. Her co-workers weren’t aware of her disease. The first day she came in displaying her regrown hair, she told What my mother’s cancer taught me When she finished her treatments in 1998, she went back to enjoying volleyball, hiking and selling Longaberger baskets. “I thought we were in the clear,” Richard Cisco said. Then in May 1999, Anita Cisco started coughing, a cough that antibiotics couldn’t stop. Richard Cisco remembers coming home after a trip with his wife and listening to a message on the answering machine that said, “You need to contact the oncologist immediately.” As fate would have it, the cancer had spread to her liver and lungs. Anita Cisco spent most of that summer in the hospital — except for the Fourth of July because she wanted to see the fireworks in Edinburgh. The woman whom family members had jokingly called “skinny-mini” now was bloated from a blood infection. She was allowed to come home in late July, but a few nights later she told her husband she needed to go back to the hospital. She was hooked up to a ventilator and often slipped in and out of consciousness. On Aug. 5, 1999, Anita Cisco’s 52nd birthday, Bible showed up in the hospital parking lot with balloons. Anita Cisco’s sister, Susie Townsend, stopped Bible before she entered the hospital. Townsend told her that her mom wasn’t responding. The pair called the rest of the family. Bible sat by the hospital bed talking and held her mother’s hand. Every once in a while she would feel a squeeze. Anita Cisco wasn’t responding to the antibiotics used to kill the infections that had formed and doctors gave the family the option to shut off the ventilator. To be more observant of different things and changes in my body. How cancer changed me I treasure every day and make memories, because you never know when your whole world will be turned upside down. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer To please talk to anybody and everybody (like family and the American Cancer Society) for support. The American Cancer Society gives all kinds of support, like rides to appointments and help with caregivers. Pictured top: Richard Cisco and Andrea Bible at the gravesite of wife and mother Anita Cisco, who lost her fight to breast cancer in 1999. Pictured bottom: Andrea Bible, right, on a trip with her mother Anita Cisco in 1997 after Cisco was diagnosed with cancer. It’s been 10 years since Bible lost her mother to the illness. STORY BY KATIE BECK TOP PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BOTTOM PHOTO SUBMITTED ‘A great testament’ Richard Cisco decided to shut the (SEE LOSS, PAGE H3) Supporting Breast Cancer Awareness Month Supporting 1 , lot Breast Cancer Awareness Month - f ,.i' '' . ' . ' 690 State Street t Franklin ,Indiana 46131 317-736-6141 1888-464-6077 7 www.indianamasonichome.org Greenfield • Greensburg Rushville • Richmond Bloomington • Franklin DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. BRAVE HEARTS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 D7 A group effort Multi-doctor approach best for some patients STORY BY RYAN TRARES PHOTOS BY SCOTT ROBERSON W ithin minutes of being diagnosed with breast cancer, Heidi Anderson felt overwhelmed by the decisions she faced. The southside resident would need to make an appointment with an oncologist to discuss how much radiation would work best. At a separate time, she would be need to have a port surgically implanted so the chemotherapy drugs could be administered. Over the coming weeks, Anderson would have to meet with surgeons, nurses, social workers and financial advocates. “The process started going so quick. Shockingly so,” she said. Being diagnosed with breast cancer already is a devastating development in a woman’s life. But on top of the disease itself, patients often find themselves overwhelmed by the amount of information and scheduling they need to process. To ease patients through, doctors at Franciscan St. Francis Health’s breast care clinic have altered the way they work with patients. Instead of asking women to come to three or four physicians individually, health officials have arranged their schedules to meet as one with the patient, explaining everything from diagnosis to surgery to post-treatment recovery. The multi-doctor approach started in 2010 at the breast care center, but St. Francis has been doing a similar program with its lung and colorectal cancer patients for more than four years. The surgeon, radiologist and oncologist meet with patients in a conference room together with family members, nurse navigators and others to ease the process. Each doctor presents information on the breast cancer. The radiologist shows the scans and X-rays that first identified the tumor. The surgeon explains whether a lumpectomy is the best course or if a mastectomy would be safer. Appointments for starting chemotherapy, or the amount of radiation that will be needed, are all reviewed by the oncologist. “I like that they’re all right here. It makes it a lot easier and less stressful. It’s easy to get answers. You don’t get the runaround; they’ll give you the straight answer,” Anderson said. Anderson was diagnosed with ductal carcinoma in July. Her physician had noticed a small indentation on her breast and sent her to see a radiologist for a mammogram and biopsy. For Dr. Denise Johnson Miller, director of breast surgery at St. Francis, the sessions help patients navigate their treatment process without feeling overwhelmed or confused. “Having to juggle everything to try to get to each different appointments, to every different doctor and make sure they’re there on time, it’s very, very challenging,” she said. “Coordinating this care is the biggest factor in a cancer program.” A clear timeline for treatment can be established during that meeting, radiologist Dr. Michael Fisher said. Instead of waiting nearly a month to get all of the necessary tests and appointments, the process can start in a week. “There’s something to be said for just getting it over with. Once they find out, they want us to hurry up, get it taken care of and be done with it. The waiting part stresses patients out,” said Fisher, a radiologist with Radiology Associates of Indianapolis. Before each meeting with the patient, the breast cancer i ( j of lye Grr rww oa4 * Top: Breast cancer patient Heidi Anderson, left, talks with surgeon Dr. Denise Johnson Miller at Franciscan St. Francis Health-Indianapolis. Above: A group of physicians meet to discuss patients’ treatments during a tumor board meeting at St. Francis in Indianapolis. physicians gather for a pre-meeting, which they call the tumor board. Each specialist can explain what they saw in the particular diagnosis and course of treatment. The multi-doctor meetings typically take place before the patient starts treatment and usually only happens once. Women can choose if they want to meet as one with their doctors or see them individually. Even if they decide not to meet with all of their physicians together, the doctors still gather to discuss treatment. The opportunity to have all of the main doctors in the same room, looking at the same data, helps to mark a clear treatment path for the patient, Johnson Miller said. “Patient care is not stagnant. People change, situations change, you get lab results back where you thought the patient would be fine and it turned out that they’re not,” she said. “We try to collaborate all of the time, but it helps to be at one place at one time.” During a recent session, Johnson Miller explained why she thought that a lumpectomy was the best option, allow- ing her to save the breast. She noted on the scan how she could cut around the cancerous tumor, removing it without having to perform a full mastectomy. Other doctors raised concerns that the margins were too close. After discussing the problem, and Johnson Miller stating her case, it was determined that saving the breast was the preferred option. When the doctors disagree, they discuss their own opinions. The specialist makes the final decision, so a surgeon would have final say over surgery. But seeing it from different perspectives helps to make sure one doctor isn’t missing anything. “That’s an important discourse to have, whether you like it or not,” she said. “You need to have a place where people are looking at things with different eyeballs and different perspective, so that you can make the best decision possible.” Family members are asked to come in, as the amount of information can be overwhelming for a patient by themselves. Getting the entire family in the room at one time helps everyone hear the information at the same time, eliminating confusion. “Sometimes, these things can be like a game of ‘Telephone.’ One sibling hears it and passes it on to another, then another, and it gets all jumbled. This way, it’s a little more understandable and unified overall,” Johnson Miller said. The multi-doctor clinic is offered as a choice for patients. If they find it simpler to meet separately, to process each doctor’s information on its own, they can do that. But most find the panels to be the simplest options, Johnson Miller said. Anderson has appreciated the fact that all of her doctors are located in one place. Doing so not only makes it easier for her and her husband, Ron, but eliminates any doubts that she may be getting counterproductive advice from two different doctors. “We can see that the doctors are all in here working together. That they’re communicating and not having one say something while another says something different,” she said. Show your support with a brighter smile TEETH TEETH FREE FREEWHITENING WHITENING MENTION THIS AD FOR A … WITH DENTAL EXAM FOR EXISTING PATIENTS AND NEW PATIENTS www.ChoiceDentalCentre.com Contact us for details (317) 881-5200 8936 Southpointe Dr., Ste B-6, Indianapolis, IN 46227 BRAVE HEARTS D8 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. Banking on a cure Healthy tissue aids breast cancer research HOW TO DONATE STORY BY RYAN TRARES PHOTOS BY SCOTT ROBERSON The Susan G. Komen for the Cure Tissue Bank is accepting donations from all women. To sign up to be a potential donor, go to komentissuebank.iu.edu. Click the “Donor” tab at the top of the Web site, and follow instructions to join the interested donor list. Donations are taken only during special events at the tissue bank, and currently no events are scheduled. But by submitting their contact information, potential donors will be informed of the next donation event and allowed to register. For more information, contact the bank at (866) 763-0047. T heresa Mathieson slowly opened the cold storage tank and removed a stack of glass slides. Inside the tank were hundreds of tissue samples donated by women and frozen in liquid nitrogen. Somewhere in that stack, Mathieson and others at the Indiana University Simon Cancer Center hope to find the cure for breast cancer. The Susan G. Komen for the Cure Tissue Bank is the only U.S. facility to collect, catalog and analyze healthy breast tissue for research. By comparing these samples to those from women with breast cancer, scientists hope to find out exactly what goes wrong in the cells to cause tumors. “You can finally have an idea of exactly what is going wrong in a cell,” Dr. Susan Clare said. “Before, we were kind of guessing. But now we have enough normals that we can figure out what the range of normal is. If we find something outside that range, we know it’s somehow related to cancer.” Clare is one of the tissue bank’s main investigators, helping lead the research that comes from the donated tissue samples. Over the course of four years, they have helped provide base samples for cancer researchers all over the world to analyze against cancer cells. The bank started in 2005 with a mass blood donation at the annual Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure. More than 1,200 samples from healthy women were brought in and stored in the cancer center’s bank of freezers. Researchers wanted to expand the collection to tissue taken directly from the breast. But hospital administrators required convincing before they allowed taking samples from healthy women. Donation requires women to have a small slice of tissue cut from within their bodies. Though the procedure was simple and took only about 30 minutes, administrators were concerned that women wouldn’t volunteer to go through that. But the response has been overwhelming. So far, more than 1,500 women have donated to the bank. The samples came from women of all races, body types and ages. But all of them have one thing in common — they’ve never exhibited signs of breast cancer. Since opening in 2007, the bank has scheduled special donation days to bring in as many women as possible to donate. Every donor must fill out a thorough health evaluation beforehand. The questionnaires ask about each woman’s health history, menstrual cycle, how many children they have and their diet. “The sample becomes exponentially more valuable as we know more about the lady,” Clare said. “That way, we can deduce what might be causing potential differences between cancerous and healthy tissue.” Women then are taken to a clinic room, where their breast is sterilized, numbed with local anesthesia and slightly nicked with a scalpel. Using a needle, the surgeon removes a small specimen from within the breast. The tissue is placed on dry ice immediately and taken to Mathieson, who then adds it to the bank’s freezers. Tissue stored in the bank’s liquid-nitrogen tanks is kept around minus 292 degrees. Flash freezing it and preventing it from thawing keeps the tissue from reacting to the outside conditions and changing in any way, Clare said. Above: Bio-specimen manager Theresa Mathieson removes a tower of breast tissue samples from a cold storage tank at the Susan G. Komen for the Cure Tissue Bank at the Indiana University Simon Cancer Center in Indianapolis. Left: Employees put a sign on a refrigerator at the IU Simon Cancer Center in Indianapolis. “We want these samples to be as close to what they were in the breast as possible,” she said. “We don’t want to introduce anything abnormal.” ‘It’s what I had to do’ Traci Runge, 43, a Carmel resident, volunteered to donate at one of the bank’s first collection events in 2007. She was motivated to give after watching the mother of one of her cheerleading students struggle with the disease. Runge and this mom had young children. “I was very bothered. Here she was with an infant, and she was sick. And here I was with an infant, and I was fine,” Runge said. She went through the blood draw and the needle biopsy. The procedure stung but wasn’t painful for long, Runge said. “Up to this point, they’ve done all kinds of research on the tumors themselves but never really looked at the normal tissue to find out what changes are made,” she said. “If I can help save just one life, then it’s worth it.” From a research standpoint, Runge might be the most important donor of all, Clare said. In early 2010, she was diagnosed with breast cancer herself. She donated the cancerous tissue, as well as additional healthy tissue from her other breast. Along with the first healthy sample taken in 2007, Runge presents researchers a preserved before-and-after picture of the molecular changes breast cancer can cause. “The possibilities of what they can learn is amazing,” Runge said. “If I can do this as a way to save someone’s life, especially my three little girls, it’s what I had to do.” Protecting and preserving every donation that is made falls to Mathieson, the specimen manager for the bank. She is in charge of monitoring the conditions of all the samples, preparing them for shipping and logging all of the information in the database. Most of the tissue is sent to researchers around the world, so it’s vital to record everything from the time of day it was sampled to the temperature at which it was frozen. “When a researcher requests samples, they know exactly that what they’re getting has been collected in a very standardized way,” she said. “We know the history, the circumstances in which it was collected, and that can affect the research.” ‘Gifts of science’ The tissue bank receives about 15 requests for tissue each year. Research teams specify what they’re looking for, depending on the types of women or the circumstances in which the tissue was collected. Researchers can access a database of the bank’s samples online and determine if the Indiana University Simon Cancer Center has any tissue that meet their requirements. After submitting a proposal, each research project is debated by a threeperson panel on the validity of the work. “These are so precious. They’re gifts of science, so it’s important that we’re great stewards with this tissue,” Clare said. So far, the bank has provided samples for close to 60 research projects. Scientists at Harvard University, the National Institutes of Health and the Queensland Institute of Medical Research in Australia have used the bank’s tissue to study on the molecular level. The Mayo Clinic is on the verge of publishing results that compare the typical cells in benign tumors to healthy tissue. IU Simon Cancer Center researchers have compared healthy samples against those from women with triple negative breast cancer. Triple negative breast cancer doesn’t exhibit the three main indicators found in cancer genes. Doctors have been clueless about what sets these women apart from others who have breast cancer. They found hundreds of genes that differed between normal tissue and the triple negative tissue. One by one, scientists can examine the genes and possibly determine a new indicator for these cancers, Clare said. None of the work has been published yet, so Clare was hesitant to release any information about the projects. But she expects the first round of papers to hit medical journals this year. Clare and the bank’s other lead investigator, Dr. Anna Maria Storniola, also are making records of the DNA of each woman who has donated to the tissue bank to see how the genetics of a healthy woman differ from a woman with breast cancer. ‘Cancer takes no prisoners’ A tiny section of every sample is taken to the tissue bank’s laboratory for examination. Researchers stain the breast tissue purple, which lets them identify the milk duct cells underneath a high-powered microscope. A computerized laser cuts the duct cells out of the sample, dropping each in a test tube and sealing it off. “Cancer starts in the milk duct, so we want to get it away from everything else,” Clare said. “When we have it isolated, we can take it to our sequencing center and identify its individual DNA.” Inside the bank’s research lab, Diane Doxey worked the microscope, culling a large bank of duct tissue. By using the computerized laser, Doxey and other researchers can catalog dozens of samples each day. Doxey’s experience with breast cancer motivates her to find a cure. She finished treatment for the disease this year. She points to a sign taped on a medical refrigerator behind her. The handmade paper reads, “Today could be the day that you cure cancer!” “Breast cancer takes no prisoners. You don’t know who or when it’s going to hit. At some point, we need to take the money that comes in, do the right research and find the practical applications,” Doxey said. “We think we’re on our way here.” To do so, the tissue bank needs even more samples from women, Clare said. Currently, the bank is struggling to find minority donors. Only about 3 percent of the collected samples have come from black women. Hispanic women make up only 1 percent. The solution hopefully will come later this year. The tissue bank has partnered with Indianapolis’ Super Bowl Host Committee to organize “Indy’s Super Cure.” The hope is that the worldwide attention that will come with the Super Bowl in 2012 will inspire thousands more women to donate. Several tissue donation events are being planned the week before the game, and organizers plan fundraisers in advance. “We want to make the bank look like America, and it doesn’t yet,” Clare said. “The Super Bowl committee helps us reach out into those communities.” CMOIOF17 HAHLEY-UNIDSO N MILE s: ry a i loom I- October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Share the journey of those affected by breast cancer with Harley-Davidson® Pink Label gear and apparel. A portion of the proceeds go to breast cancer support groups. fC3 c SouthsideHarley.coms )3OUTHPORT2OAD%XIT Pink for a Purpose i IV-lt701 E. County Line Road, Suite 302 Greenwood, IN 46143 317.885.0114 | 800.382.9487 Raymond James & Associates, Inc. - member New York Stock Exchange/SIPC DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. BRAVE HEARTS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 E1 ‘I had no control’ Woman uses humor to help her cope with disease J ennifer Ebeyer knelt on her bedroom floor praying to call. But she decided to see her baby sister anyway and just St. Peregrine, the patron saint of cancer victims. drove to her place on that Wednesday afternoon. She clutched her rosary tightly. After a long prayer, When Schwark, then 36, pulled up in Ebeyer’s driveway, there she blessed her forehead, lips and heart with holy were more cars there than usual. She knew right away something water. She also drew a cross on her right breast with was wrong. holy water. Schwark came in the house. She saw their mother sitting on She was scared. Within six hours, both her breasts would be the couch with a worried look. She walked down the hallway. She removed after three months of chemotherapy at the age of 33. turned a corner and saw Ebeyer standing. “I want to live to be 88. God, heal me,” she said. “I have breast cancer,” Ebeyer told her. Yet she felt peace behind her fear. The older sister fell to her knees when she heard those words. “Everything is God’s will, but we don’t know his will.” Ebeyer To Schwark, breast cancer meant a death sentence because said. “If this is how I’m supposed to die, I wanted to get my soul she still was grieving over a good friend who lost her battle with ready.” the disease at 37. But then she felt selfish. She was scared to lose someone to breast cancer again. “I knew heaven is blissful, but I didn’t want to leave my four “My whole body was overwhelmed with fear,” she said. “I felt a young kids behind.” wrenching pain when I cried.” Her daughters were 9 and 7, and her sons Brother-in-law Tony Ebeyer sympathized with were 4 and 2. Ebeyer. “Before you face death, you think you’re in “At least it wasn’t one of your kids,” he said. control,” Ebeyer said. “People go to work and Ebeyer was relieved for a split-second. make this amount of money, and you can But she looked at her mother’s eyes as she held control how to spend that money. her hand. Ebeyer started crying and hyperventi“I had no control of this disease. I had to lating. trust God and the doctors that I had just “I looked at my mom, and it hurt me because it met.” was her kid,” Ebeyer said. Back up six months. Ebeyer, a Greenwood resident, knew something was wrong when she felt a tingling Two days after Ebeyer was diagnosed with soreness in her right breast. She had a breast breast cancer, she went grocery shopping, trying exam a month before. At 33, she was too to be normal. young for an annual mammogram, and her She fought to stop her tears. She didn’t want to doctor didn’t feel any lumps. start crying in public. “It’s nothing,” she thought of the feeling. “I wanted to scream at everyone at the store Jennifer Ebeyer She pressed her right breast down with her that I had cancer,” she said. “They were so busy Greenwood left hand, trying to relieve some pressure. with their lives. I was normal two days ago with “I’m OK,” she thought. “My breast is just my busy life. sore because it’s that time of the month.” “Any mother who has four children who are two years apart Weeks passed, and the pain remained. would say they are busy.” It was May 2002. Ebeyer just had her annual breast exam in Before Ebeyer had cancer she always was on the go and made April with her gynecologist, Dr. Joseph Beardsley. So the doctor sure her plans were precise. She made lists and outlined what was surprised when Ebeyer came back in June for another she needed to do for the day. checkup. She had lists for grocery shopping, people she needed to call “I knew something was wrong when he felt it,” Ebeyer said. for work, what house chores to do and where she needed to drop “He didn’t say a word, and I could tell by his reaction.” off her kids — from school or day care to gymnastics, karate The next morning, she went by herself to Franciscan St. Franpractices or piano lessons. cis Health-Indianapolis for a mammogram. She organized her kids’ activities with a folder, and each child With a checklist in hand, the nurse routinely asked Ebeyer had a tab. She even alphabetized her kitchen pantry. questions about her medical past. Ebeyer was the mom who always was with her daughters at “Does your family have any cancer history?” their gymnastics classes, so it only made sense to work there. “No.” She became a receptionist at Wright Gymnastics Academy, and “Are you on birth control pills?” she still works there but as a manager. “No.” “I made sure I had no time to sit down and watch TV,” she “Did you breast-feed?” said. “Yes, all four of my babies.” But with cancer, for the first time, she had no control of her The nurse’s fast pace and steady tone changed when she felt life. the 3.2-centimeter tumor on the bottom half of Ebeyer’s right breast. The radiologist came in the room with the X-ray. He suspected Ebeyer was diagnosed with hormone receptor positive Stage 2 it was cancer, so he sent her to get a biopsy right away. breast cancer. That means estrogen hormones are causing the The thought of cancer terrified Ebeyer; she was in so much cancer tumor to grow. If she had not listened to her body and shock that she didn’t feel the needle, the swabbing and the scrapignored the tingling sore pain for a few more months, the cancer ing during the biopsy. would have been Stage 3. But her senses sharpened on her drive back from the hospital. Dr. Mary Lou Mayer, her oncologist, suggested four rounds of Ebeyer noticed the grass along the road, the trees, the lines on chemotherapy before having Ebeyer’s right breast removed. the road and the sunshine. She had driven on the same roads and Maddox, Ebeyer’s mom, took notes during doctor visits. She had seen the same road signs, but her surroundings had gotten a kept a notebook. lot more beautiful. Maddox wanted to make sure she understood everything. She “All of us think we’ll die when we’re old,” she said. “We don’t wrote down appointment times, which doctor they talked to, and always think of mortality.” what they the doctors said. After learning she had breast cancer, she realized she could die She had to understand everything. Her youngest daughter, at a young age. Ebeyer, was overwhelmed, scared and usually crying during Donna Maddox, Ebeyer’s mom, left her work in downtown Indiadoctor visits. napolis in the middle of the day when she heard the news. She drove “My role was to be her mom,” Maddox said. “I was trying not with both hands on the steering wheel; she was tense and anxious. to panic. I wanted to be the calming person no matter how terri“I wanted to put my arms around her and cry with her,” Madfied I was inside.” dox said. (SEE CONTROL, PAGE H3) Kristen Schwark, Ebeyer’s oldest sister, missed Ebeyer’s phone “ I knew something was wrong when he felt it. He didn’t say a A busy life word, and I could tell by his reaction. ‘You’re going to be OK’ Jennifer Ebeyer Age 42 Residence Greenwood Diagnosed July 2002 with hormone receptor positive Stage 2 Treatment Chemotherapy, and underwent a double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery in one day. What cancer taught me To appreciate everything and become closer to God How cancer changed me I’m a lot nicer and much more relaxed, and I realized I can’t control everything. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer You can do it. Pictured: Cancer survivor Jennifer Ebeyer with her mother, Donna Maddox, and sisters Kristen Schwark and Melissa Burton in Indianapolis. STORY BY MARY CRISTOBAL PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BRAVE HEARTS E2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. ‘Live life to the fullest’ Woman demanded normalcy through battle Jane Cruzan Age 61 S Residence he couldn’t bear the looks. Jane Cruzan didn’t want her co-workers, her friends or strangers to pity her. She didn’t want their faces to drop and to hear “poor you.” So she devised a method for dealing with the tumor, the surgery and the chemotherapy that would follow in the eight months after her 1996 diagnosis. She told as few people as possible in the beginning, she didn’t discuss it often, and when it had to be talked about outside her support group, she’d share the news and walk away, not giving anyone a chance to ask questions or give her what she called “bad attention.” “I just couldn’t take it, so I was protecting myself by keeping it to myself,” said Cruzan, now the catering director at Franklin College. She didn’t want to be emotional in front of other people, so first she had to process and accept the challenge ahead of her. She looks back on the time she battled cancer and wonders how her now-grown children felt while their mom was sick. She’d make dinner every night and go to bed, but the cancer rarely was discussed. Cruzan, who worked in catering sales at Indiana University in Bloomington, was 46 at the time and wanted to maintain a certain composure in front of her kids, who were high-school aged. She didn’t want them to see her in a bad light. “I wanted them to be proud of me,” she said. She relied on a support group to assure her that how she felt emotionally, how her feet felt numb and the questions she had were all normal. Inside the support group, she could let out her fears and worries and not burden her family with them. Because at home, the cancer wasn’t discussed. “I still don’t know how they feel about it,” Cruzan said. She could fight the terror of how she’d look and feel with only one breast by talking to women who only had one breast. Her breast cancer story shows how much the treatment of breast cancer and the right of the patient to have immediate, insurancefunded reconstruction has changed in 15 years. Breast cancer also changed Cruzan, by deepening her faith in God and helping her build more inner strength. Fighting the tumor redefined who she is. Cancer made her stronger and more assertive, she said. She would not feel sorry for herself. “Those experiences either build character or not,” Cruzan said. Still now, she is overwhelmed at the kindness that was shown her. Friends and people from church wouldn’t quit bringing food. The cards with special notes came continually. She realizes how much it helps people to be able to do good for others in their time of need, and she should never deprive them of that. When she had cancer, she worried about inconveniencing others. She’d go to her doctor’s office for a blood draw, receive her chemotherapy, flush her port and go to work, apologizing for being late. She looks back on that time in her life and remembers feeling like she had to be superwoman, that she had to be strong for her Franklin Diagnosed November 1996 with 3-centimeter tumor in left breast Treatment Mastectomy and chemotherapy What cancer taught me To have compassion for other people. I think I had compassion before, but it has given me more. How cancer changed me family. Jason Cruzan was in college, and her three daughters were in high school. ‘What do I do now?’ Jane Cruzan always had had fatty cysts and expected the lump she felt to be the same. The mammogram showed something different. Doctors ordered an ultrasound then had her come back within a day for a biopsy. She didn’t tell her husband or her children. She didn’t want to alarm them. She was still sure it was nothing. The call came 48 hours later, and the radiologist wanted her to come in to the office. She refused. She wanted to know right then. You have cancer, the doctor said. “What do I do now?” she asked. Find a surgeon, he said. She asked a friend for recommendations, and when the top surgeon wasn’t available, she went to the next-best. She had a tumor of almost 3 centimeters, and it likely had been growing inside her for three to five years. Cruzan was given options: have a mastectomy and chemotherapy for the best chances of killing the cancer, or a lumpectomy and radiation. She wanted to be practical and simplify the process. She said to take her breast off. Still, she hadn’t told her husband. Two weeks passed, and she finally sent him an e-mail at work. He was livid. When she told her children she had cancer, it was matter-of-fact, and her surgery already was scheduled, her youngest daughter, Leslie Hinman said. Hinman was a freshman in high school and was scared the day her mother told them and the day of her surgery. But otherwise, the family wasn’t preoccupied with their mother’s cancer, likely because of how she tried to protect them. “She wasn’t going to let this dictate how she lived her life,” Hinman said. Doctors wanted to remove her breast on a Friday in December. But Cruzan had scheduled a women’s holiday function and had a friend coming from out of town. She moved the surgery to the following Monday, after the event was over. Her friend stayed with her at the hospital. She was released with only one breast. Fifteen years ago, insurance didn’t pay for reconstruction. Cruzan could run her hand over her flat chest and feel her rib cage. Today, she still struggles with nagging self-esteem and body image. After Christmas, she started chemotherapy. A port was installed, and she would carry it inside her for the next 13 years because it made blood tests easier since she had hardened veins. The port was removed after a fall in 2010 caused it to be twisted. Every day, she had blood drawn for testing. For two weeks, she’d take chemotherapy by pills. Then for two weeks, she’d receive the drugs through an IV. Staying busy at work Every day for six months, she went to work. She went by herself because that was what she wanted to do. “Being who I was, thinking I was superwoman, I had him (her husband at the time) take me back to work. I should have gone home and rested,” she said. She would arrive at work by 9 a.m., take a lunch break and go back to work. On particularly hard days, she’d clock out and rest in the ladies’ room. Her boss was astounded at her behavior. For Cruzan, she wanted to keep life as normal as possible. She never acted sick. She never complained about chemotherapy, her daughter, Hinman, said. Her anti-nausea medicine cost $200 for a two-week supply, and she couldn’t afford it. She decided to take the medicine in the morning, and that she could sleep through the night-time nausea. Two glasses of wine before bed would help. That’s turned into a tradition, she said. Her fellow church members raised money to help pay for the medicine, and Cruzan was taken aback by their generosity. They (SEE FULLEST, PAGE G4) I don’t worry about things as much. I do what I have to do and say what I have to say and don’t worry. I take care of what needs to be taken care of. I try to be who I am and be realistic. When things need to be addressed, I try to address them in a good way. I try to take the right side of an issue, and if it isn’t received well by others, I know I’ve done my best. I am not afraid to venture out and do what needs to be done, or say what needs to be said, for the right reasons. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Don’t go through it alone. Get involved with other cancer patients or reach out to me. No one should ever have to go through this without support. My experience wasn’t good, but it wasn’t bad either. So many good things happened along the way. My cancer girlfriends are like sisters. We are forever connected. Terror will creep into your heart and mind, so get involved in a support group. You can learn from others what you won’t get from doctors, and they can make you feel normal. We learned to laugh, we learned to cry together, we learned we were all going through the same thing. Sometimes your husband and your children won’t understand, but you can be genuine with your support group. Your spirits can be lifted for when you go home because they have helped ease your pain and made you feel normal. Look for something good to come out of breast cancer, even though you are going through a lot of trauma. You can meet new people, make new close friends, and have a change in attitude. Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Jane Cruzan had a mastectomy and chemotherapy. STORY BY RYAN TRARES PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON We have a passion for PINK! We support the fight000000 against Breast Cancer! 00 Pink is the new blue. 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She had assumed that someday she’d be diagnosed. Her mother also was 43 when she learned she had ductal carcinoma and died within a year. “It always sat in the back of my mind. But to know what happened to my mom, and to be the same age as her, I was terrified,” she said. While her mother lost her battle with breast cancer, Skillman has beaten it twice. The southside resident has lived through two cases of ductal carcinoma diagnosed 14 years apart and has used her experiences to help raise awareness and money to find a cure. “I never thought that I wasn’t going to survive. You have to keep that in your mind, that you’re going to beat it, it’ll go away, and hopefully it’ll never come back again,” she said. Skillman started getting mammograms when she was 34 because of her family history with the disease. At the time, doctors recommended waiting until a woman was 40 to start the yearly scans. Without that vigilance, doctors might not have caught her cancer until it had become much worse, Skillman said. Nine years of mammograms provided doctors a picture of the developing tumor, which could be seen as a dark mark. “I truly believed that’s what saved me,” she said. A needle biopsy would determine for sure, but from the mammogram, it looked to be malignant, said oncologist, Dr. Keith Logie of the Central Indiana Cancer Center. But the mass was so small that nurses couldn’t find it during the biopsy. For 30 painful minutes, they searched around with an 8-inch needle. When nurses still couldn’t find it, they suggested that Skillman go home and come back in a few weeks. “I remember saying, ‘I’m not leaving. I know it’s there. It was on the ultrasound; it didn’t just disappear,’” she said. “I insisted, and it was a good thing, because they ultimately found it.” ‘Got me through’ The tumor had been caught early. Though it was malignant, it had not spread to her lymph nodes and was contained within her breast. Logie recommended a lumpectomy to remove the cancerous tissue and 40 doses of radiation. Logie explained that treating breast cancer had progressed exponentially since her mother’s death. Her chances of survival were much improved. “We felt confident in the care. The medical treatment for cancer is so much better these days than back then. The combination of chemotherapy, surgery and radiation made it a much more curable disease,” said Don Skillman, Fran’s husband. Don Skillman attended every doctor’s appointment. He handled buying the groceries, cooking and cleaning the house while she recovered. On days when her body ached and she barely had the energy to get up off of the couch, she’d feel frustration welling up. So she would find someone to talk to. Think Pink Fran Skillman Age 62 Residence Southside Diagnosed 1992 and 2006 with ductal carcinoma Treatment The first time, she had a lumpectomy and received 40 radiation treatments. The second time she had 5½ months of chemotherapy and a mastectomy one month after treatment. What cancer taught me Cancer taught me there are no guarantees, life is a gift. “If something was bothering me, I talked about it. That’s what got me through,” she said. Often, the couple would sit together while Fran Skillman talked about her doubts that the treatment was working or annoyances that she had gone through at the doctor’s office. Don Skillman simply would sit back and listen. “We shared the experience together. Whatever she was going through, I tried to put myself right there,” Don Skillman said. Skillman finished her treatment, and scans revealed that all the cancer cells had been killed. Skillman found that on the days when she felt the worst, her solace could be found on the golf course. She tried to play three or four times a week in the morning or after work. Out on the course’s first tee box, sizing up the hole located 345 yards away, the complications of chemotherapy seemed to fade to the background. “You’re not thinking about anything else of what’s going on outside of that moment,” she said. “When you have an interest in something else, you can put all of your focus in that and forget about cancer for a few hours.” ‘I survived’ Speaker and fundraiser For 14 years, Skillman didn’t have as much as a scare. Doctors exams, first coming every three months, then six months and finally every year, passed without incident. So when Logie told her the cancer had returned in the same breast, it was devastating. “Being clean for so long, you allow yourself to relax and think that it’s gone. I survived,” she said. “But it comes back.” This tumor was even smaller than the first, only about 3 millimeters across. But because it was a second occurrence, the treatment would be more intense and stringent, Logie said. Skillman would need to have her right breast removed, and she’d need five months of chemotherapy. Logie gave her the option to get the chemotherapy before having surgery, to see if it would have any effect on the tumor. She chose to do so. “I wanted to get the treatment started, no waiting. By the time we had finished the chemotherapy and had the mastectomy, all of the cancer had been killed,” she said. Every Thursday, she took a day off work as an assistant in the pro shop at Martinsville Golf Club to receive treatments. The chemotherapy chemicals didn’t make her lose her hair or cause the nausea that is common in other patients. For Skillman, the worst aspect was mouth sores. Her mouth would become so dry, that the insides of her cheeks and her gums would become brittle and crack. Eating was so painful that she only could drink liquids. Skillman was declared cancer-free in May 2007 after chemotherapy and surgery. She still visits Logie for regular appointments to ensure the cancer hasn’t returned in her left breast. After the second round of treatments, Skillman funneled her energy into helping other women survive their battles with the disease. For the past five years, she has combined her love of golf with her desire to help other women affected by breast cancer. She organized the Tee It Up for Breast Cancer golf outing, an annual event conducted at The Legends Golf Club in Franklin. The event brought in more than $12,000 last year, 99 percent of which will go to breast cancer research at the Indiana University Simon Cancer Center. Skillman also has volunteered to speak to friends and family about breast cancer. She’s been asked by women who have been diagnosed, as well as spouses and children, about how they can best help their loved ones get through the ordeal. Her primary point is to make sure whoever is going through treatment feels confident in their doctors. Without faith in their physicians, the process can wear on your already battered nerves, she said. While her insights can be helpful, the most important thing is just being available to talk, like her husband and other family members were during her treatment. “When you have to talk to someone, to voice your opinions or feelings, it’s kind of nice to talk to someone who’s been there,” she said. Remember those who have lost the battle Support those who are still fighting Celebrate with those who have won their battle Lets never stop fighting. How cancer changed me For me, I have become more tolerant, patient and respectful to my colleagues, family and friends. I’m thankful, proud of those who helped me and confident toward my future. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer You need faith, love and a positive attitude. You gain strength from your family, friends and most of all from trust in your doctors and their cancer treatment center staff. Pictured: Two-time breast cancer survivor Fran Skillman at her Indianapolis home. STORY BY RYAN TRARES PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON We Support The Fight Against Breast Cancer! r 'Rol Ym I See Us For Your Recreational Therapy WE CARE! 'r T 14 ,' P HYSICIAN 'S .. i lo w .j:Q3W P RACTICE Street , ill. . V, IN 1 1 1 ` + r 595 E. Tracy Rd., Whiteland, IN 46184 (317) 535-3700 www.dreyerhondasouth.com BRAVE HEARTS E4 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. A new movement Tumor gene tests discover pathways to treatment STORY BY ANNIE GOELLER B reast cancer patients treated at two southside hospitals could be helping to find treatments for women across the country with the same type of cancer. Tumors removed during a mastectomy or lumpectomy can be shipped to a center in Arizona, where they are studied for how they respond to certain drugs and treatments. With enough testing, researchers could find that a specific treatment can be extremely beneficial for a certain type of cancer, said Dr. Jeffrey Mossler, pathologist at Community Health Network. Community Health Network, which includes Community Hospital South on County Line Road, and Franciscan St. Francis Health-Indianapolis have been sending tissue samples to be studied for years. The International Genomics Consortium in Arizona recently received a grant to expand and extend that research, and both Community Hospitals and St. Francis agreed to continue sending samples there, he said. The research project helps doctors and hospitals move toward the goal of individualized treatments for patients, Mossler said. “For about the last eight to 10 years, we’ve been moving into an era of personalized medicine. Prior to that time, patients would all be treated the same,” Mossler said. Drugs and treatment plans are part of that new movement, he said. In recent years, doctors and research- “ I think we’re in the early steps of the next phase of oncology and tumor treatment. It’s not quite ready for prime time, but we’re approaching that. Dr. Steven Clark Franciscan St. Francis pathologist ers have found that hundreds of cancer medications are effective in only 5 to 10 percent of patients. So they often don’t get used, he said. But with more testing, researchers could figure out what cancers are best treated by certain drugs and then use that information to best treat cancer patients, Mossler said. “If you actually knew the group who would respond, you might see significant responses,” Mossler said. The research isn’t only for breast cancer patients. Other samples have included lung, colon and pancreatic cancers, Mossler said. The tissue is collected by surgeons. Research coordinators look at the hospitals’ surgery schedules daily, seeing if any of the surgeries they have scheduled are cancer-related. A pathologist then will examine the tissue once it is removed to make sure it is not damaged and is a large enough sample that it can be used for research, Mossler said. If the piece is large enough, it is immediately frozen and will be sent to the lab in Arizona, marked with general information about the patient, such as sex and age, for research. The sample has to be flash frozen within 30 minutes of being removed in order to prevent some of the genetic material from breaking down, said Dr. Steven Clark, a pathologist for Franciscan St. Francis. Before any tissue is sent, the research coordinator will get the patient’s consent, which commonly is given, Mossler said. At the lab in Arizona, the tissue samples go through a full genetic sequencing, breaking down the specific information about the genetic code of that specific type of cancer. The cancerous tissue also can be compared to normal tissue to look for mutations, he said. That information all goes into a database, which is used by researchers across the country. “The whole project is trying to develop a dictionary of genetic abnormalities of tumors, and make that available to customize a treatment,” Clark said. Between St. Francis and Community, the hospitals have sent close to 1,000 tissue samples to Arizona for study. But how that information is used varies based on what a researcher is studying, Mossler said. “It is there for people to access that information, to ask and answer any questions. What they want to know depends on the research interest of that person,” he said. For example, a drug company might have a medication that treats a certain mutation. So the company might want to see how often that mutation occurs in a certain type of cancer to see how many patients could benefit from that drug, Mossler said. Doctors already have seen certain drugs be beneficial in breast cancer patients. For example, about 15 years ago, doctors identified the gene called HER-2 and found that when those women were given Herceptin they had a dramatically better response to treatment, he said. Now, doctors regularly test for that information, but only since that gene was identified. With further research, more genes and mutations like that can be found, he said. “Every six months or so, there is something new we learn about the genetic makeup,” he said. Clark has seen the progress in mapping the genetic makeup of tumors. When researchers understand how different cancers are formed at the molecular level, they can begin to develop ways to treat them. That process is years away. “I think we’re in the early steps of the next phase of oncology and tumor treatment. It’s not quite ready for prime time, but we’re approaching that,” Clark said. Staff writer Ryan Trares contributed to this story. 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A first test was inconclusive, but she knew what it was — the same cancer a friend had died from years earlier. Bowe was diagnosed in 2003 with inflammatory breast cancer, which also was HER-2 positive, making it a rare, aggressive form of cancer that often returns and can spread to the brain. Since then, the cancer spread to her liver, pancreas and brain. She has been through two rounds of chemotherapy, radiation, Herceptin and a drug not yet approved by the Food and Drug Administration, for which she is part of a clinical trial. But instead of focusing on having Stage 4 cancer, Bowe lives her life. She takes trips with her family. She exercises and does yoga. She doesn’t act like a sick person. Her attitude has impressed her doctor and amazed her companion of 22 years, Stephany Jenkins. “She really is the inspiration. She is what people need to know is possible. It doesn’t have to be gloom and doom,” Jenkins said. Bowe shrugs off the compliments, saying she isn’t the type of person to get depressed. She is too optimistic. “I’ve never been a depressed person. I don’t like to think negatively,” Bowe said. And it doesn’t hurt that she feels healthy, she said. Over the past eight years, that hasn’t always been the case. Her condition can change quickly. In 2006, she went to the hospital with stomach pains and 16 days later was sent home in a hospital bed on hospice care. Jenkins remembers specialists taking her onto the porch of her home and telling her that Bowe would be in a coma within two weeks and be gone within six weeks. Mason, their 13-year-old son, said that if she died, he just wanted a place where he could take her flowers. The weekend was filled with people coming to visit. Through it all, Bowe stayed strong, Jenkins said. “She stayed really strong. I think she was stronger than most people around,” Jenkins said. Her liver function started to improve. By the start of the following week, doctors said she had improved enough to have another round of chemotherapy to treat the cancer that had attacked her liver. Everyone still was uncertain, but Bowe knew she would make it. “I knew I wasn’t going to die, but no one else thought that,” Bowe said. ‘Don’t ever want to give up’ Earlier this year, she spent more than a week in the hospital when a clogged bile duct led to an infection. “It’s been crazy like that, where I get really sick, then I’m fine,” Bowe said. The uncertainty and ups and downs can be hard on the family, Jenkins said. “In those moments, it’s pretty hard, but it gets better,” Jenkins said. “You have to get yourself to a point where you know you could survive it, but you don’t ever want to give up.” Through it all, Bowe has stayed strong, making it easier on all of them, she said. “If Jean wasn’t so good, if she fell into being sickly, it would be a lot harder, and I’m not sure she would be here,” Jenkins said. Bowe’s cancer is controlled well with drugs, and although doctors typically don’t use the word remission, testing has shown no active cancer in her body, said Dr. Anna Maria Storniolo, Bowe’s doctor. “The drug has literally managed to put a lid on it,” she said. Bowe’s treatment is with a drug that is part of a clinical trial. The drug, called TDM-1, attaches a chemotherapy drug to Herceptin, which commonly is used in patients who are HER-2 positive. By attaching the drug to Herceptin, that allows the treatment to target her cancer and have little impact on her other organs, meaning she can stay on the treatment longer, Storniolo said. Bowe wanted to do the clinical trial after her body responded well to Herceptin in 2003, which at the time also was not approved for use in all cancer patients. She researched Herceptin and asked Storniolo about it at every visit. She knew the drug could help her, even though it was recommended only for certain patients at that time, Bowe said. “I’m just trying to stay alive, so I’ve got to research all that,” Bowe said. Jean Bowe ‘Leave with no regrets’ Chemotherapy, double mastectomy, removal of ovaries, radiation, Herceptin and now a trial drug called TDM-1 Storniolo was concerned because of the risk of side effects but finally agreed. Since then, Herceptin has been approved for use in all HER2-positive breast cancer patients. Bowe believes once this new drug makes it through the clinical trial, it also could be helpful to many other people. Bowe researches her condition and speaks up about her treatments, the type of patient Storniolo said she likes to have. She wants patients to be involved in their care, because sometimes they bring up ideas she hadn’t thought of, she said. “I’m much more comfortable with a doctor-patient relationship that is truly a relationship, not just they agree with me,” Storniolo said. She also appreciates Bowe’s outlook, that even with cancer, she will continue to live her life, however long that might be. Storniolo expects Bowe to be around for years but can’t predict how long she will live. But she already has beaten the odds after having her cancer travel to her brain, which usually means a patient will live a few months. Even with that uncertainty, Bowe doesn’t let cancer rule her life, part of the reason she is a joy to have as a patient, Storniolo said. “If and when the time comes, she will leave with no regrets. It’s patients like Jean who on a daily basis teach me how to live my life,” Storniolo said. Bowe is confident that though her cancer is aggressive and doctors have told her she will die fighting this disease, it also is easily controlled. ‘It’s not always the end’ She still struggles some days. She has been near death and lost friends who couldn’t handle a long battle with cancer. Bowe doesn’t make plans more than six months out. She has gone from feeling fine to lying in a hospital bed more than once, and she just doesn’t know how much time she has, she said. But for her family, she tries to keep life normal. She quit her job with AT&T when her appointments became difficult to keep while working. That extra time has allowed the family to take trips like they always wanted, to Italy, Ireland, Hawaii and Mexico. They live their lives daily. If her cancer returns, they move ahead with a treatment plan. “I try not to act any different. I try to act the same as always so they don’t see that I am fearful. It helps them,” Bowe said. But there are many days when she doesn’t think about her cancer at all. After two rounds of radiation treatments in the past three years, tests have shown Bowe’s brain tumor is shrinking. And the trial drug she is taking, which isn’t able to get to the brain, is controlling cancer in the rest of her body, she said. Her battle with cancer hasn’t been what she expected, especially in her first days of chemotherapy treatment when she saw patients huddled under blankets and wondered if that would be her. She shares her story so that other patients, even those who are Stage 4 like her, won’t give up. “It’s not always the end, even if you have a terrible diagnosis. You’re still going to die when you’re supposed to. I don’t think I’m going for a while,” Bowe said. Age 48 Residence Greenwood Diagnosed December 2003 with inflammatory breast cancer, HER-2 positive, Stage 4 Treatment What cancer taught me You can’t take life for granted. Pay attention to the things that are really important, and don’t get upset about the little things. Separate what is real from what is causing chaos. Family and friends are what is really important. How cancer changed me I feel things deeper than I did before. Life seems more precious than it did before. It has opened up my eyes to what we are really here for. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Pick a doctor you really like. Do research. Don’t get depressed, and try to stay positive. Don’t go through it alone. Pictured: Cancer patient Jean Bowe and companion Stephany Jenkins talk with Dr. Anna Maria Storniolo at the Indiana University Medical Center in Indianapolis. STORY BY ANNIE GOELLER PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON BRAVE HEARTS F2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. ‘The fight of your life’ Woman finds inspiration in terminally ill children D uring Nicole Kent’s worst moments, when every part of her body ached, when yet another attempt to reconstruct her breast failed, she thought of them. The children, all 250 of them, who were going to die or suffer for years. At this point, some of them were probably already gone. She had given them glamorous hairstyles, adding curls and putting rhinestones on their faces. With each stroke of the brush, Kent, now 31, had thought about how they’d never go to prom, they’d never have that first kiss. They taught her to be thankful for her healthy son and the fact that she likely would survive. They taught her to be happy and have a great attitude, even when life has been unfair. If they can continue to eke happiness out of a life ending too soon, she can get through breast cancer, she thought. “If it wasn’t for them coping with their situation so well, I don’t think I could have dealt with mine as well as I did,” she said. Kent, who lives in the Center Grove area, had felt a lump. But she let the days tick by. Surely she didn’t have breast cancer, she thought. She was 30 years old and had a son. Cancer kills, and she couldn’t die. The days started to add up. She had her mother feel the lump, which was about the size of her pinky fingernail. Three weeks, then four, went by. She put off seeing a doctor and used an upcoming trip to California as an excuse. She’d been one of 10 stylists selected in the spring of 2010 to go to Los Angeles for the Lollipop Theater Network Game Day at Nickelodeon Animation Studio. For one day that May, she helped style the hair of 250 terminally ill children. Then they walked the purple carpet, met stars and played games. One girl was in a wheelchair. She told Kent she planned to become an actress. A bald 3-year-old let Kent put rhinestones on her. She came home inspired by what she’d seen. The lump was still there and growing. Six months had passed, and her mother started making threats. If Kent didn’t do something about the lump, she’d start figuring out what she could do as her mother to get her care. “She didn’t want to say, ‘I have cancer,’” her mother, Debbie Browning, said. “She relates cancer to death, and who wants to die? Especially when you have a son. She didn’t want someone else to raise him.” She made three or four doctor appointments but panicked and canceled each one. Finally she went, and doctors acted quickly. In hindsight, Kent is grateful that she had received breast implants six years prior. The implants had pushed the lump forward and made her be able to feel it, she said. Without that, she’d have been a decade away from a mammogram. And without that, she might be dead. She had a whirlwind mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy. Then came the diagnosis while she was styling a client’s hair: She had a very aggressive form of breast cancer. Come in tomorrow to plan the attack, she was told. ‘It’s painful’ She had to tell her son, Jackson, who was preparing to enter second grade at West Grove Elementary School. He was convinced she’d be fine. She wasn’t so sure. But she remembered the children from the UCLA Medical Center and felt lucky to have a healthy child. She knew she had to fight and want to live for him. He wanted a handheld recorder for his birthday that summer. The gift was perfect. At the end of the party, she recorded a message for her son about how much she loved him. Her mind was riddled with fear that it would be the last birthday she’d share with him. He watched her struggle through chemo- Nicole Kent Age 31 Residence Center Grove area Diagnosed July 22, 2010, with Stage 2 triple negative lump in right breast. Treatment Chemotherapy, double mastectomy What cancer taught me I don’t take things for granted, and I don’t count on tomorrow. I appreciate people regardless of their faults, and I don’t take advantage of them. How cancer changed me Cancer has humbled me. It’s made me appreciate people a lot more. It definitely has changed my life for the better. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer therapy. He always repeated that the doctors and medicine would make his mom better. He believed it with all his heart. The plan was for four months of chemotherapy and a lumpectomy. Doctors found cancer in one lymph node and took out 20 of them. “The wind could blow, and it’s painful,” she said. She sobbed. When her pink-and-white Mohawk started falling out, her husband shaved her head. She snapped at her son and felt guilty over what he was going though. She continued working her normal Thursday through Saturday shift at a salon and rested for four days each week. Halfway through, doctors no longer could see the cancer. A lumpectomy was scheduled. Then, the first setback. Kent had received a vaccination and had a bad reaction. Her body was wracked in pain. In the emergency room, a doctor ordered a CAT scan of her tailbone to make sure the cancer hadn’t spread. Kent froze. “That sealed it,” she said. “I never want to hear that come out of another doctor’s mouth again,” she said. She opted for a double mastectomy and implants in January. Kent thought her ordeal was over. In the spring, she used a heating pad on a stomach ache but fell asleep. The heating pad shifted, and since she had no feeling in her new breasts, she was burned. A blister formed, and she popped it. An infection raged and spread to the other breast. She ignored it too long and didn’t take all of her antibiotics for it, and eventually the only option was to take one implant out. A tissue expander was put in, but that became infected as well and was removed two weeks later. She wonders if she is prone to infection because most of her lymph nodes were removed or if the expander was put in before all the previous infection was cleared. Now, a tissue expander surgery is scheduled again this month. ‘It just takes time’ Her husband, T.J. Kent, tries to make her feel special, even though she feels self con- scious about having one breast, being bald and gaining weight. Sometimes, he acts as though everything should be fine, since the cancer is gone, Kent said of her husband. While she was ill, he cared for her, their home and their son. “But it just takes time,” Kent said. She struggles with taking control of her health care. Chemotherapy often causes weight gain, and the medicine causes side effects. As her medication is reduced, she is getting stronger and stronger, her mom said. She is learning to repair her body and rejuvenate herself. She depends on her family more than she ever has before but is taking her own place again, Browning said. Because, Browning said, “for a whole year, she has slept.” She lost the months before her diagnosis when the growing lump was ruling her every day but being ignored. She slept for days each week, nearly comalike, during chemotherapy and would awaken and feel out of touch with everything. “It has taken a few years of her life,” Browning said. “She is just now starting to get strong again where she wants to be around people and do things.” And with that comes new goals. She would like to help bring a program for ill children to central Indiana and thinks her son could help other children who have ill family members. During treatment, she remembers watching a video of what appeared to be a 101-year-old woman talk about breast cancer. She wants to find a way to help women of all ages know what to expect. The videos and literature need to be designed for women who are in college, who are having babies, who still want to have babies, who are still intimate with their partners, Kent said. She wants to help present the raw truth about chemotherapy, and she doesn’t want anyone to sugarcoat it. “I want the God’s awful truth,” she said. “I want people to know you’re up for the fight of your life.” Don’t give up. Build a huge support system and use it. Be honest with your kids. You don’t have to hide cancer; you might be able to help someone. Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Nicole Kent had a double mastectomy to treat the lump in her right breast. STORY BY MICHELE HOLTKAMP PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON t Breast Cancer Awaren r o p p u ess We S rH Traditional Shoe Repair with an Italian feel. tr: r rrH os J $10 off s extra comfort shoes Pictured above: Nick & Dominic Mina Hakky Instant Shoe Repair is run by father and son team Nick and Dominic Mina, keeping the family tradition. Dave & Debbie Brown DAVE’S FARM SERVICE 50 N. 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She always had thought that if she survived her bout with breast cancer, it would be like starting a new life. The birth of Myla in September 2010 is proof of that. “You never know what blessings can come out of tragedies,” she said. Hawkins was 34 years old when she was diagnosed. She found the lump herself in her right breast. She said it felt like a pea under the skin. Concerned but not overly frightened, she went to her gynecologist to have the lump examined. The doctor assured her that because she was so young, it most likely wasn’t cancer. Just to be safe, though, he sent her to see Dr. S. Chace Lottich, a breast surgeon based in Greenwood. Hawkins drove to the appointment by herself, still assured that the lump was nothing to worry about. She went into the examining room and got a mammogram. Her concern began to mount as doctors asked her to stay at the clinic for more mammograms. Nurses kept bringing her back in for additional mammograms and tests and then had her wait while they examined the results. Finally, Lottich told her she would need to biopsy the lump that afternoon. “The doctor told me, ‘I don’t like what I see. We need to do this today. I already contacted your insurance; let’s go ahead and get this done,’” she said. The diagnosis came four days later. The 6-millimeter tumor was invasive ductal carcinoma. The growth had broken the boundaries of the cell, so there was a Tanya Hawkins Age 38 Residence Franklin Diagnosed August 2007 with Stage 3 invasive ductal carcinoma Treatment Chemotherapy, double mastectomy, radiation What cancer taught me chance it had spread to her lymph nodes. “It was an out-of-body experience. It was so hard to concentrate while they were talking, and the doctor kept giving me brochures for this and for that,” she said. “Everything had that pink ribbon on it, and I remember being disgusted. I didn’t want that.” From the start, Hawkins refused to serve as an advertisement for breast cancer. She didn’t wear pink or become a crusader for the cause. Her purpose was to act as normally as possible, to keep her life balanced like it had been before her diagnosis. “It’s not that I don’t support the breast cancer cause, but I don’t want to be a banner for it. I had cancer. It’s in my past, let’s move forward. I don’t want to wear it on my chest,” she said. Hawkins turned to family to help her through the ordeal. She called her younger sister, Veronica Flagle, and told her the diagnosis. Flagle in turn called their older (SEE DISEASE, PAGE H2) Daughter copes with anger, fear T he noise outside her room made Haley Schofield jump out of her bed and run to the door in excitement. The 9-year-old had been waiting for her mother, Tanya Hawkins, to feel better since she had come home from her first chemotherapy treatment that day. She wanted to hug her, even for a second. She had been so scared. But she couldn’t process what she found. Her mother was crawling, dragging herself to the bathroom to be sick. Her eyes were sunken and redrimmed, and her skin was waxy. “I heard her door open, and I was so excited because I hadn’t seen her. Then I saw her face, as she was crawling, and we locked eyes. It was so hard,” she said. Haley hasn’t forgotten that night, even four years after it happened. Now 13 years old and able to understand more clearly what her mom was going through, she can reflect more clearly on the disease and her mother’s experience. But it doesn’t diminish the feeling of helplessness that came with it. “I was angry. Why did it have to be my mom?” she said. Even before her mother was diagnosed in 2007, Haley had been exposed to breast cancer and the damage it can do. Her third-grade teacher at Creekside Elementary School in Franklin, Nicole Ankney, had been diagnosed while she was in her class. Ankney died the following year. Tanya Hawkins had sat her daughter down and tried to explain what cancer was and what Ankney had been going through but struggled to explain it to her. “She was my favorite teacher, and I didn’t know why she would be leaving,” Haley said. When she came home from school one day the next year, and her mother, grandparents and aunts were gathered together, she had the feeling that the disease that had struck her favorite teacher had affected someone in her family. “They didn’t even have to tell me. I ran straight to my room crying,” she said. At first, Haley was mad. She acted out around her mother and was moody and sullen. She didn’t want to see Hawkins. Eventually, she began to grasp that this wasn’t her mom’s fault. But she still struggled to process what was happening. After the initial shock of the chemotherapy treatments, as Hawkins’ hair was falling out, Haley avoided her mother. She would come home from school and go straight to her room. She started struggling with her schoolwork, and her teachers said she was distracted. “I’ve always been a very nervous kid; and when I’m nervous, my stomach hurts. My stomach hurt most of that year,” she said. By then, both she and her mom were living with Hawkins’ parents, Bennie and Bernice Reed. Haley felt like her entire existence had been shaken. “I think I blocked a lot of it out. I don’t remember a lot,” she said. Haley had a classmate at Creekside whose mother had been treated for breast cancer. Whenever Haley would try to talk about it to the girl, her concerns were brushed aside. “Every time we tried to talk about it, it was like she didn’t understand what I was going through,” she said. “I didn’t have anyone to talk about it with.” Now that she’s older and her mom has completed the treatment, Haley has a better understanding of the disease. She has been active in the Race for the Cure every year since her mother was diagnosed and participated in Relay for Life, an American Cancer Society fundraiser. The eighth-grader at Franklin Community Middle School also understands that her chances of being diagnosed are significant. Besides her mother, Haley’s paternal grandmother also was diagnosed with breast cancer. “It’s scary,” she said quietly. Cancer taught me that my breasts didn’t and don’t define who I am. To take nothing for granted and value each and every moment of my life. That housework can wait, spend time with your kids, enjoy them and hug them every chance you get. It taught me that people are good. I saw kindness from so many people; it was beyond anything I could’ve imagined. Finally, rely on your faith. It never fails. I think cancer teaches you what’s important in life. You learn that every day you have is a gift from God. I have learned to try and see the good in every situation life deals you because no matter how bad I thought things were, something would happen that was a blessing to me. How cancer changed me My priorities have changed. I value people in my life more than the things. I love them differently, maybe a deeper love because I am aware of how quickly your life can change. My faith definitely has been strengthened through cancer. It is what got me through each day and still does. What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Stay positive. It’s a long journey, but keep your head up and stay positive. People will want to help you; let them. It’s OK to need help, and remember there is hope. I look at my daughter, Myla, and think “What a blessing” after all I go through. I would also encourage them to hold on to their faith. It never fails you. Pictured: Breast cancer survivor Tanya Hawkins with daughters Myla, 1, and Haley Schofield, 13, in their Franklin home. 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The Oct. 15 edition of The Republic contained a special breast cancer awareness section, and the entire paper was the color that has become synonymous with the cause. But had it not been for a story about Hope resident Larry Shepherd’s ordeal with breast cancer, Boas might have continued to ignore a lump in his sore left breast that had been bugging him for a month. “I didn’t dream I’d get it,” said Boas, a 56-year-old Columbus resident. “If he hadn’t been in the paper, if it was just women, I never would have thought about it.” Instead, Boas became concerned. His older sister contracted breast cancer, and a cousin died from it. Within a month, Boas went to a health clinic for a mammogram. An abnormal result prompted the need for a biopsy. A positive result for breast cancer necessitated a mastectomy on Dec. 22, followed by chemotherapy starting in January and radiation starting in August. 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BRAVE HEARTS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 G1 ‘I don’t know how she does it’ Woman sees struggle as way to help others diagnosed H er bald head broadcasts her cancer to the world, with women approaching her about a lump they found or a mammogram she inspired them to get. Carin Henderson, 39, proudly tells her two sons, her friends and Facebook readers that a woman doesn’t need breasts and hair to be a woman, and she doesn’t need to cover her baldness with a wig or a scarf. But she’ll also admit that she has broken down and cried after a group of children at one of her son’s baseball games stared at her hairless head. The word Henderson’s friends use to describe her is real. She’ll tell you about the aftermath of her chemotherapy, which leaves her curled up in a ball, sweating through her pillows and sometimes unable to make it to the bathroom in time. She has had to choose between paying a medical bill, buying groceries or getting her son a new pair of shoes so he could have what all the other boys were wearing. And she’ll openly talk about her annoyance when people want to bring her food after her chemotherapy treatments. “Until you’ve lived it, you really just have no idea,” Henderson said. Henderson has been an outspoken advocate for breast self-exams for years, posting on her Facebook page a monthly reminder for women to check themselves or get Carin mammogram. Henderson their But she never really Greenwood thought it would happen to her. Then, in December, she felt a mass in her breast. A mammogram didn’t show anything unusual. But then her breast turned slightly purple and her nipple turned down. She just knew. In February, she was diagnosed with Stage 2 cancer. By March, Henderson, who runs her own property management company, was working 70-hour weeks before her double mastectomy to prepare for her time off. She returned to work five days after her surgery. Friends offered to help, but teaching them how to chase after tenants who won’t pay or show someone a house that’s available to rent wasn’t possible. “I don’t have anybody else who can run my company — it’s me,” Henderson said. “You just do what you have to do.” Plus, she needed the money. Henderson makes 8 percent off each property that is rented, which doesn’t add up to much. And when people don’t pay, she loses out on that money. She has picked up a second job at a bank, meaning she often works more than 12 hours a day. Paying her $740 monthly insurance premiums, which recently increased from $540, is a must. She worries if she is even a day late, the company will cancel her policy. She has her regular bills and also is paying about $450 per month in medical bills until she meets her $3,000 deductible. She got excited a few weeks ago when she realized she was about to pay off a few of her bills, and then she got three more in the mail, she said. Then, there are the medications. She has tried to figure out how to control the nausea after chemotherapy. At one point, she was buying anything the doctor would prescribe, but then she looked at how much she was spending trying six or seven medications, and she realized she needed to be more picky. “Cancer drains you emotionally, physically and by far financially,” she said. Dealing with medical bills was one of the few issues Henderson couldn’t handle since her cancer “ Carin Henderson Age 39 Residence Greenwood Diagnosed February with Stage 2 invasive ductal carcinoma, HER-2 positive Treatment Chemotherapy, double mastectomy, Herceptin What cancer taught me How to be humble, and I continue to learn that as I go along. It makes you want to be a better person all the way around. Until you’ve lived it, you really just have no idea. How cancer changed me Physically, I was never unhappy with my breasts, and now I am forced to have a boob job. Otherwise, I’m not sure yet how it will change me. I’m still in the process of transformation. I look at life differently, and sometimes I wonder, is it gone? What I would tell someone just diagnosed with cancer Cancer is a journey, and I’m not finished yet. I have met women who were recently diagnosed, and they look up to me. I try to keep it real, tell her what she needs to know and what she is up against. Pictured: Cancer patient Carin Henderson walks down a hallway as she receives chemotherapy treatment in Indianapolis. STORY BY ANNIE GOELLER PHOTO BY SCOTT ROBERSON diagnosis, her friend Michelle Hadley said. Hadley set up the payment plans as the bills came in because Henderson couldn’t do it. She couldn’t bring herself to call those medical offices and tell them she has breast cancer and she needs help, Hadley said. “She didn’t want to deal with all that other stuff. She thought, ‘Isn’t it bad enough that I have cancer?’” Hadley said. ‘She keeps going’ Henderson’s attitude has changed day-to-day, friend Teresa Rode said. Some days she is ready to fight, and other days she feels down, which is normal for anyone in her situation, Rode said. (SEE KNOW, PAGE G3) BRAVE HEARTS G2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. k' y 3 ti 4 Working for you Franklin Insurance Agency Proudly saluting those who have fought and are fighting the battle against Breast Cancer Home • Auto • Group • Fire • Farm • Health • Commercial • Bonds R N “Our Experience Can Make The Difference For You” A F E D E R A L CREDI T U N I O N John Auld - Steve Brown - Lee Hodgen Julia Dougherty - Jo Turnbloom Kris Davenport - Bev Prior “Experience the Credit Union Difference!” Franklin Branch 2028 N. Morton St., Franklin, IN 46131 317-346-0139 Federally Insured By NCUA. 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She isn’t humble enough to call a friend when she runs out of toilet paper or is lying on the floor in so much pain she can’t move, she said. It took months before Ann Marie Bowling finally persuaded Henderson to let her take her to the grocery store. And that was only after Henderson was so sick from chemotherapy treatments that she couldn’t lift some of the heavier items into a shopping cart. Henderson’s attitude, despite her struggles, has been amazing, friends said. “She keeps going, and I don’t know how she does it,” Hadley said. Bowling believes one thing that keeps her going is focusing on something other than cancer, whether that is mentoring women who were recently diagnosed or her children. ‘I’m their mom’ Henderson’s sons, Conner, 13, and Alex, 11, have gone through cancer with her. They shaved her head before her surgery, a choice they made together since she knew she would start losing her hair when she started chemotherapy. At first, they wouldn’t drink or eat after her, worried they’d get cancer, too, Henderson said. They associated cancer with death. “And until I prove otherwise, I Finding breast cancer early is important. Here is what the American Cancer Society recommends : Have a mammogram and a clinical breast exam every year starting at age 40. Get a breast exam by a doctor or nurse every three years if you are in your 20s and 30s. Know how your breasts look and feel. Tell your doctor or nurse right away if there is any change in your breasts. How to check your breasts: Sometimes, you can feel the underarm area better this way. In front of a mirror While standing in front of a mirror, look at your breasts with your arms by your side, then raise them over your head, then press your hands on your hips and tighten your chest muscles. Look for any changes in your breasts. Look for a change in size, shape, contour, dimpling, rash, redness or scaliness of the nipple or breast skin. While lying down Sitting or standing Lie down on your back, put a pillow under your right shoulder and place your right arm behind your head. While sitting up or standing and with your arm slightly raised, feel the area under your arm. Use the finger pads, not the finger tips of the three middle fingers on your left hand to feel for lumps in the right breast. When you first begin checking your breasts, it is hard to know what you are feeling. With practice, you will become familiar with your breasts. You might ask your nurse or doctor to help you by letting you feel your breasts as they do your breast exam. Use an up and down pattern, starting at your underarm and moving across the breast to the middle of the chest bone. Repeat the exam on the left breast, using the finger pads of the right hand. Source: American Cancer Society think that’s going to be their mentality,” Henderson said. When buying back-to-school supplies, she had to question whether she could buy her son the new shoes he wanted after she had just finished paying her medical bills. This summer, the boys spent much of the time with their father while she recovered from treatments every two weeks. She didn’t want them to see her too sick to get out of bed or go to the grocery store. “I’m not sure I really want my kids to see that kind of a struggle. Someone who was so vibrant and The Republic graphic by Amber Pulley energetic. I’m their mom; I can’t do that,” she said. Henderson missed nearly all of their baseball games because she couldn’t be out in the sun due to her treatment. At one game she did go to, she carried an umbrella. She ended up breaking down in tears when she saw the children staring and talking about her. “It doesn’t matter how high you hold your head. Kids still look at you like you’re a freak,” she said. But Henderson said she hopes that seeing her go through this has educated her sons, that women are more than breasts and hair. They have asked her: Why you, Mom? She had to think on her response for a while. “I said, ‘God knew I have a bigger mouth than most, and he knew I would spread self-detection,’” Henderson said. ‘I am so humbled’ And she has, renewing her calls to women to do their self-exams and get their mammograms. She feels it is her duty to tell her story. She has heard from women who, because of her, finally went and had a lump checked or stopped putting off their mammogram. “Then it was all worth it. I am so humbled that someone would think of me,” she said. Henderson also has counseled multiple women who recently were diagnosed, telling them the truth about what to expect with surgery and chemotherapy treatments. Henderson got her last chemotherapy treatment this week and gets her implants next month. 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Hospital to conduct ‘Mammothon’ Daily Journal staff report CANCER EVENTS Franciscan St. Francis HealthIndianapolis is sponsoring mammograms and consultations from 6 a.m. to 9 p.m. today. “Mammothon” will be at the breast center area near Entrance 5, 8111 S. Emerson Ave., Indianapolis. Those scheduling a mammogram will receive a free Vera Bradley gift. Mammograms are by appointment only. Financial assistance is available through Little Red Door Cancer Agency for those who qualify. Free bone density, blood pressure and cholesterol screenings will be offered. There also will be free chair massages, skin care demonstrations, refreshments and door prizes. Information: Appointments, (855) 837-8830; Little Red Door Cancer Agency, 925-5595; mammothon.com Agency schedules free mammograms Little Red Door Cancer Agency and St. Vincent Mobile Mammography Unit will offer free mammograms from 8:30 a.m. to 2:45 p.m. Oct. 21 at the agency, 1801 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis. Individuals who wish to participate must register two weeks in advance. Screenings are by appointment only. Information: 925-5595; littlereddoor.org Hospital support group meets on Thursdays Women who have been affected by breast cancer can attend a breast cancer support group at Community Hospital South. The group features speakers and other activities at 6 p.m. Thursdays at 535 E. County Line Road, Suite 101, Greenwood. Upcoming dates are Nov. 3 and Dec. 1. Scholarship helps those touched by breast cancer Students who have lost a parent to breast cancer or have been diagnosed themselves may be eligible for a scholarship. Applications are being accepted for the $10,000 Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure Scholarship. The deadline is Nov. 15. Requirements include attending a state university in pursuit of a bachelor’s degree and having financial burden due to a loss of a parent to the disease or the student having a diagnosis. Applicants will be evaluated based on scholastic achievement, community service, financial need and demonstrated leadership potential. Scholarship recipients serve as Komen Collegiate Ambassadors and must volunteer time to breast cancer awareness. To apply, log on to komen.org/ scholarship. McFarland Blvd, Indianapolis. Register by calling 782-7794. Families with cancer have support group Johnson Memorial Hospital has a support group for families facing cancer. Meetings are from 5 to 7 p.m. the third Thursday of each month in the Cancer Care Center, 1159 W. Jefferson St., Franklin. Information: 736-3346 Support group helps patients, caregivers Franciscan St. Francis HealthIndianapolis offers support groups for individuals with breast cancer and their caregivers. The group meets on the second Monday of each month from 6 to 8 p.m. starting Monday at Southport Presbyterian Church, 7525 Clinic offers free breast cancer screens Free breast cancer screenings will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at St. Thomas Clinic, 600 Paul Hand Blvd., Franklin. Pinkbeads, St. Thomas Clinic, The Little Red Door Cancer Agency and several local businesses are sponsoring the screenings. The breast cancer screening is for women with or without health insurance. The Little Red Door will be enrolling qualified patients who are low income and uninsured into their program to receive a free mammogram. Information: St. Thomas Clinic, 535-6057; Terri Petersen, 517-9610 Doctors use meetings to discuss treatment progress BY MAGEN KRITSCH DAILY JOURNAL STAFF WRITER [email protected] Tucked into a hallway at Johnson Memorial Hospital, health care professionals meet to help diagnose and treat cancer and other diseases. • Fullest (CONTINUED FROM PAGE E2) couldn’t give of their time, but they gave how they could. The medicine eventually became cheaper, but it made her jittery and nervous. The chemotherapy caused her to be tired and nauseous. Her hair fell out. Her feet went numb. Her eyes became so sensitive to the sun that she’d tear up and her makeup would be washed away by the time she got to work. She’d pick up her fork to eat and drop it five or six times. To this day, her ears still ring. During the middle of her chemotherapy in 1997, her friends planned a spring break trip to Gulf Shores, Ala. They had their eye on a beach condo, but doctors said no way unless she learned to give herself the injections necessary to bring up her blood count. Specialists meet monthly with health care professionals at the hospital to give them basic information on different types of cancer and diseases. They also discuss treatments. Diagnosing cancer is a team effort and oncologists and primary care physicians should “ work together to diagnose and beat the disease, Dr. Subhash Sharma, an oncologist at Johnson Memorial Hospital, said. Sharma recently led a discussion about breast cancer at the hospital. “Treating cancer is not just an oncologist’s job,” he said. During the information sessions, primary-care physicians were able to learn more about the differences between the types of breast cancer and known treatments, and doctors questioned when to start prescribing hormone therapy as a preventive measure to women Being who I was, thinking I was superwoman, I had him (her husband at the time) take me back to work. I should have gone home and rested. Jane Cruzan Franklin She learned. For the 12-hour drive, Cruzan slept on a back seat. “I was just lifeless,” she said. The rest was much needed. She walked along the beach, shopped or stayed at the condo and read. The trip gave her a great rest, and she didn’t feel any pressure. She gave herself chemotherapy and twice had to give herself injections. By the end of July, chemotherapy was ending. She had kept every card that came. She read them over and over and cried. “I’d always taken the food,” Cruzan said. “I had never been on the receiving end of it, and I was just overwhelmed,” she said. She counted more than 100 people who had done kind acts for her while she was sick. She wondered how to repay them. In August of that year, she went with the same group of friends to Cancun. She couldn’t sit in the sun but wanted to continue their tradition. They’ve been traveling together for 20 years and have been to Italy, France, Germany, the Czech Republic and all over who are at high risk for the disease. Typical treatments including mastectomies, radiation and chemotherapy were discussed. Primary-care doctors were able to ask questions about some of the different types of treatments and find out when they should send a patient to an oncologist. Sharma also used the sessions as an opportunity to talk about how far treatment has progressed and how women diagnosed today have a much better chance of beating the disease than they did 25 years ago. their honor and served them gourmet food while they visited and listened to music. At the end, she thanked them. “I promise to pass it on, what you’ve done for me,” she told them. “It was such a happy day for me.” herself to make the fluid drain. She started wearing a wig during chemotherapy. When her hair grew back, it was thin, and she didn’t like how it looked. While still in treatment, she was at the mall in Bloomington, when the wind caught her wig and sent it tumbleweeding between cars. She took off chasing it. She finally caught up to it, stooped over, shook it out, and started picking out the twigs. And she prayed that no one had seen. She never wanted an audience for her cancer. She went into the bathroom to escape and laughter started deep in her belly. She laughed and laughed. And shopped. Cruzan could have cried and been devastated at the embarrassment. But she made the choice to laugh, she said. Soon, she’ll be donating 15 wigs from her collection to help other women. Choosing to laugh the East Coast of the United States. “When you’re living, you need to live,” Cruzan said. “Live life to the fullest.” Cruzan loves adventures and said cancer was an adventure. She has found the good in it. “It does people a lot of good to serve others,” Cruzan said. “I couldn’t deprive other people of doing good things,” she said. She wanted to repay all of those people who had offered hugs, brought food and sent cards. She threw a huge tea party in In 1998, changes in the law allowed Cruzan to have reconstruction paid for by health insurance. Doctors reduced the size of her right breast and put a tissue expander in her left. Once a week, saline was inserted, and three months later, she received an implant. She felt deformed. The expander was initially positioned too high. Lymph nodes had been removed during her mastectomy two years earlier, and she had lymphedema. Fluid wouldn’t drain properly and her arm sometimes swelled. 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The Center brings together all of the hospital’s breast specialists and gives them the latest in medical technology. The Center features: 'LJLWDOPDPPRJUDSK\ZLWKWKHODWHVWFRPSXWHUDLGHGGHWHFWLRQVRIWZDUH Mo. " . 1 1 ,A L DwryeBreast center 6WHUHRWDFWLFELRSV\DQGEUHDVWXOWUDVRXQGVHUYLFHV Mammograms with a MammoPad, a soft foam 400A JO JOHNSON II 11ISO11I cushion designed to give each patient a softer, MEMORIAL MEMOKIAL ZDUPHUPRUHFRPIRUWDEOHPDPPRJUDP a Lnsp 6ssital ir Medical supervision by specially trained breast radiologists and breast surgeons. A HOSPITAL YOU CAN BELIEVE IN DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. BRAVE HEARTS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 H1 ‘Keep fighting for her’ Woman’s struggle gives strength to another S he is the face that represents a Greenwood breast cancer practice, the smile that greets patients and the soothing voice that talks them through the pain. Amanda Wood works at Community Breast Care South and answers patients’ questions, holds their hand during biopsies and stays late to get the test results that show whether they have breast cancer. Fourteen years ago, Wood was a college student with a calling. She was studying radiography, planning to work with children who had cancer. But then she met a woman who changed her life, leading her to breast cancer instead. And she knew where she needed to be: working for the doctor she kept hearing about. Though she typically is not a forceful person, Wood picked up the phone and called the office of Dr. S. Chace Lottich. I have to work for you, she said. “I just knew people who had breast cancer considered her to be an angel,” Wood said. “I needed to work for the best. I knew she was the best.” Wood started as a filing clerk, working nights. After graduating with her associate degree in radiography, she gradually moved her way up to radiology team leader, clinical director and then practice administrator. Now her duties are more focused on working with patients rather than administrative office work. The 33-year-old Wood is an integral part of a team who does a little extra for everyone, from patients to office workers to doctors, Lottich said. “She’s not an employee so much as she is part of the family,” Lottich said. Wood’s career path changed when she met a woman she refers to as an angel. Charlotte McGee was 38 years old when she came from Alabama to Indianapolis for treatment. She had Stage 4 inflammatory breast cancer and was staying at the American Cancer Society Hope Lodge, where Wood worked while in college. The two became instant friends and spent the first night talking. They saw each other as often as they could over the following months, with Wood raising money and traveling to Alabama to build a deck next to McGee’s house. The following year, Wood got married, and McGee was going to be a bridesmaid. But a few months before the wedding, McGee lost her battle with cancer. Before McGee died, Wood made a promise to continue her fight against breast cancer. “My goal was going to be to keep fighting for her. After seeing everything she had gone through, I wouldn’t stop,” Wood said. “There was something about her that made me want to be a better person.” Her work toward that goal takes many forms, from being there for patients, to mastering different radiology practices and being the face of her practice on billboards across the city. Wood didn’t want to be in the advertisement that appeared on billboards along Interstate 465 and in Greenwood Park Mall. She remembers having to stand on phone books to be near the height of the model in the photos. But if that billboard reminds a woman to get a mammogram, then it’s worth it, Wood said. Pictured: Amanda Wood takes patient Toyce Cord’s vitals during an office visit. STORY BY ANNIE GOELLER PHOTOS BY SCOTT ROBERSON Lottich work late, making sure they can get test results for new patients so they don’t have to wait days or weeks to know if they have cancer. The days are long and exhausting, but at the end, when a patient is tearfully thanking her for getting everything done in one day, she knows the hours were worth it, Wood said. She remembers her favorite day when she and Lottich got to tell a young woman, who was pregnant and seeking a second opinion, that she didn’t have to terminate her pregnancy. “That was just such a rewarding day here, to be able to save two lives instead of one,” Wood said. ‘Want to fight harder’ McGee was young when she was diagnosed, and she never thought she would get cancer, Wood said. “It lit a fire in me to let people know that cancer can affect anybody,” she said. ‘The gift of caring’ Recently, Wood decided to change some of her duties, focusing more on working with patients in the practice’s clinic, rather than administrative duties. “I promised Charlotte I could keep fighting breast cancer, and I couldn’t fight it from behind my desk,” Wood said. The change isn’t a surprise to Lottich. Administrative work isn’t Wood’s passion, she said. But she was good at it, bringing more organization to the practice, speaking up for all workers and creating a mission statement for everyone. Lottich wondered why they needed a mission statement at first, but then she realized Wood was trying to make what they do clear to everyone, Lottich said. “She keeps us focused on what we’re about,” Lottich said. “She never loses that vision. She never loses that focus.” But Wood also is a leader in the clinical field, with certifications in mammography and breast sonography. With patients, Wood is seen as approachable and trustworthy, Lottich said. Wood is honest with her patients, just as she is with her friends, said Heather Fields, a clinical assistant at the practice who has worked with Wood for more than five years. She is the one who holds their hand and talks them through procedures. She is the one who tells them that today is bad, but tomorrow will be better and that a cancer diagnosis is not the end, Fields said. “She was born with the gift of caring,” Fields said. Wood said some of her favorite days in her 14 years with the practice are those spent with patients. Every Tuesday and every other Thursday, she and Then there was the patient who tracked her down in a crowd of thousands at the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure in Indianapolis. The woman wanted to tell her that, one year ago, Wood had told her the next year would be tough but she would come out stronger and prouder. She told her that throughout that year she had thought of Wood’s words and they kept her going. That’s what McGee would have wanted, Wood said. “To instill hope in someone is really what I think she would want me to do,” Wood said. But not every day is easy. The hours are long. The work is demanding. And losing patients never gets easier, including a friend she lost this year who was diagnosed at age 28. But Wood left her funeral with more drive and ambition. “I want to fight harder so we don’t have another mother and father up there saying goodbye to their daughter,” Wood said. The advances Wood has seen in her time with the practice have been amazing. Patients are more aware of their bodies, and early detection is saving lives. She knows that by looking at the number of patients they lost when she started compared to now. The switch from analog to digital mammography has helped detect concerns more quickly. Advancements in radiation have allowed patients to get treatment over five days, rather than five weeks. And soon, patients may be able to have radiation during surgery, she said. Wood continues her fight by helping diagnose and treat patients but also by encouraging them to fight the battle. She sees some patients come in with Stage 4 cancer who live years longer than expected, and then she sees others who have great chances of survival but they give up. Wood wants to be their cheerleader, to let them know they can get through cancer. “All things are possible, and you have to have the hope and strength,” Wood said. BRAVE HEARTS H2 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 • Count (CONTINUED FROM PAGE F4) so get it done,” Creech said. Days before Christmas, Dr. David Thompson, a surgeon, removed Boas’ left breast, including a 2.2-centimeter tumor, and 22 lymph nodes — 10 of which tested positive for cancer. A port was inserted in his chest for the chemotherapy drugs. “Once you have cancer in the lymph nodes it means you need some type of chemotherapy because there’s the likelihood that the cancer has spread beyond the lymph nodes to elsewhere in the body, and the chemotherapy treats the whole body,” Thompson said. Patients who undergo surgery, chemotherapy and radiation after cancer is found in the lymph nodes have about a 60 percent chance of avoiding a reoccurrence of cancer over five years, Thompson added. Boas started chemotherapy Jan. 17, receiving a dose of drugs once a week every three weeks, at • Disease (CONTINUED FROM PAGE F3) sister, Melissa, and went to pick up their mother, Bernice Reed. Everyone would meet at Hawkins’ house in Franklin. They were there when Hawkins pulled up. “My dad was in the garage, and he couldn’t even say anything to me. He just stayed in the garage the entire time,” she said. ‘This is not my funeral’ Inside, Hawkins met her mother and sisters, who were sobbing. She tried to be the strong one, laying down a ultimatum for everyone there. “This was my rule: If I don’t cry, nobody cries,” she said. “I’m not dead. This is not my funeral. We’re not here to bury me. We will get through this.” Treatment started moving quickly. Less than a week later, Hawkins sat in the office of oncologist Dr. Mary Lou Mayer, plotting the course — surgical removal of her lymph nodes, 16 rounds of chemotherapy, a mastectomy and 32 radiation sessions. Chemotherapy started right away. Hawkins remembers being the most scared at that moment, driving to the clinic and trying not to think about the process that was about to start. “You’re preparing for a treat- BY THE NUMBERS A CLOSER LOOK Here are some male breast cancer facts: • Common symptoms of male breast 100 to 1 cancer are a lump or hard knot in the chest area, skin dimpling or puckering, redness of the breast, itchy or scaly sore or rash on the nipple, nipple discharge. The ratio of female to male breast cancer in the United States 2,140 • Because the male breast is smaller Men who will be diagnosed with breast cancer this year than the female breast, it is more likely the disease will spread to the chest wall. 450 • Factors that increase the risk of breast Approximate number of men who will die from the disease 1.3 men per 100,000 Overall incidence rate of breast cancer 123 women per 100,000 Over incidence rate of breast cancer 68 Average age a man is diagnosed with breast cancer 1 in 1,000 Lifetime risk of a man getting breast cancer CRH’s Cancer Center. Each treatment lasted about 90 minutes, and he received the last one in late June. The first three or four doses “ “ cancer in men include genetic conditions, family history, chronic liver disorders, alcoholism, obesity, older age, radiation exposure, liver disease, estrogen treatments, testicular conditions. • Men and women with the same stage of breast cancer have similar outlooks for survival. A mastectomy, a surgical procedure to remove the breast, is the main treatment for male breast cancer. SOURCES: American Cancer Society, Susan G. Komen for the Cure weren’t too bad, Boas said, although he had trouble sleeping, lost his appetite because food tasted bland and lost all his body hair. He lost only 5 pounds because he mixed a protein powder with his milk. DAILY JOURNAL, JOHNSON COUNTY, IND. It’s not something we see very often, obviously. Male breast cancer makes up about 1 percent of all breast cancers. Normally, what we’re taught in training is you may see one male breast cancer in your career as a general surgeon. Dr. David Thompson Columbus surgeon Only after the last two chemotherapy treatments did Boas feel sick. Radiation treatments took place on a different schedule. Treatment took about 20 minutes a day Monday through Friday, for a total of 28 sessions. Each used photons to kill cancer cells in his left breast. Those sessions were followed by radiation treatments just for the scar from his mastectomy. It used electrons — which don’t penetrate as deeply as photons — to kill any cancer cells hiding in the scar tissue. The treatments were easy, he This was my rule: If I don’t cry, nobody cries. I’m not dead. This is not my funeral. We’re not here to bury me. We will get through this. Tanya Hawkins Franklin ment of poisons going in your body. You think about what’s going into you, and that’s scary enough,” she said. Hawkins said she was shaking so badly by the time she reached the doctors that she could barely stand. “It makes you so out of it and sick. I thought, ‘I can’t do this. If I have 16 of this, I won’t make it,’” she said. That was the cue for her family to step in. Reed would meet her at the doctor’s office and stay with her until the treatments were over. Hawkins can recall Flagle holding her hand in the waiting room of the Center for Women’s Health before her chemotherapy treatment. Flagle and Reed redid the bedroom that Hawkins would be staying in. They hung portraits of Haley, snapshots from when she was a teenager and old photos of their parents. They wanted to ensure that wherever Hawkins looked, she’d be reminded of all of the good things in her life. One weekend, Flagle threw a hat and scarf party for her. Friends, family and co-workers brought multicolored hats and fancy scarves for her to wear once her hair fell out. When the chemotherapy started and it was clear Hawkins would spend days at a time in bed, she and Flagle went shopping for new sheets. “I bought the softest, most expensive sheets we could find,” Flagle said. “We’d hang out in bed, lay around and watch movies, just to comfort her.” ‘Always be that person’ Quickly, Hawkins adopted a day-to-day mentality to deal with her treatment. Rather than think that she had 16 chemotherapy treatments ahead of her, she broke it down into this Thursday’s appointment or tomorrow’s radiation treatment. Because the tumor had grown out of the boundaries of the initial cell, Hawkins needed to have her entire right breast removed. Her mind-set when she heard that was, if we have to do the right, then let’s do the left as well. “I don’t ever want to go through this again,” she said. “So why would you run that risk. For me, it was a no-brainer. I don’t think breasts are that important.” Danny Hawkins, by then her husband, supported her decision. “The breast part, that didn’t matter to me,” he said. “Some guys might handle it different. When you get to a certain age, it’s not about the appearance.” When Hawkins’ hair started falling out, Danny Hawkins shaved her head. Clumps of brown hair fell to the bathroom floor. But Tanya Hawkins stared straight ahead. She tried to remain stoic as the curly locks brushed past her face on the way to the ground. She didn’t want to see herself until it was completely gone. Out of the corner of her eye, she caught her reflection in a framed picture on the wall. She gasped. Danny Hawkins took her hand said, except that he needed to remain still throughout. Donna Christian, Boas’ boss at Edinburgh Premium Outlets, understands what Boas has endured, because she is a breast cancer survivor. Christian, general manager of the outlet mall, considers Boas an inspiration to his co-workers. “He continues to work while undergoing surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. He has kept a positive attitude through the whole process,” she said. Boas said breast cancer served as a wake-up call. “You make every day count and not take things for granted,” Boas said. Shepherd lived the same philosophy after developing breast cancer. Unfortunately, he never fully defeated the disease and lost his life to it Sept. 24. Boas will have to take Tamoxifen, a drug that interferes with the activity of estrogen, for five years, to help stave off a reoccurrence. That’s fine with him. He’s just doing what needs to be done. That includes sharing his story with men if he thinks they need to know it. Just like a man from Hope did. and led her to a photograph of them together. “He told me, ‘Do you see that picture? That’s always who you are. You’ll always be that person.’ And when he said that, I knew everything was going to be OK,” she said. Hawkins, working as a manager for Indiana Bank and Trust, remained at her job during chemotherapy. Though she bought a wig that re-created the short, curly style she had worn naturally, she rarely wore it. Instead, she rotated through the stack of hats and loudly colored scarves that people had given her as gifts. She tried to keep a professional look, matching them to her outfit for the day, while also showing some creativity with her look. “Working in the field I do without hair was very scary, so I had to make it fun,” she said. ed time to recover,” Hawkins said. Her final radiation treatment was in September 2008. After everything was finished, Hawkins’ 10-year-old daughter, Haley Schofield, was adamant that this was a new start for the family. She, her mom and her new stepfather, Danny Hawkins, could get back to a somewhat normal life after a year of turmoil. She held out hope that maybe she’d get a little brother or sister, even though Hawkins knew that was unlikely. When Myla was born Sept. 11, 2010, Haley got her wish. Haley has relished in the role of big sister. The 13-year-old pushes Myla in her stroller around their Franklin neighborhood or sits on the ground with her, playing with her toys. When the baby cries, often it’s Haley who comes running to help. “I kept telling her to just have a baby, and we’ll start all over,” Haley said. The family realizes that, while the ordeal was over for now, it could return. Hawkins has seen her doctor every three months since finishing treatment. 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Every three weeks on Tuesdays, Ebeyer lay in a recliner and watched the red medicine travel through the IV into her left arm’s vein. Schwark went with her each time. They made lunch dates out of the chemotherapy appointments. Ebeyer always ate a vegetarian sandwich for lunch, just as she had planned for those days. Every Monday and Tuesday, she had a positive outlook and a fighting spirit. “Let’s fight this and be healthy,” she said out loud to her body. By Wednesdays, her optimism started fading. By Thursdays, she slept all day. She took the anti-nausea pills even though she didn’t feel like she was going to vomit. She just wanted to sleep. By Fridays, she stayed in bed with closed window blinds. The chemotherapy drained her physically, and she was mentally exhausted. She had time to think, and they weren’t always good thoughts. “Am I being the best mom?” “Will my husband still love me after I lose my hair and breasts?” Her sisters came into Ebeyer’s room. They had to stop Ebeyer from sulking. They pulled her out of the dark bedroom to sit in the bright living room. They made her laugh by attempting to do cartwheels with the kids. Schwark climbed into bed with Ebeyer as she rested her head on Schwark’s shoulder. “I got to be her big sister again,” Schwark said. “I just let her cry on me.” Her other sister, Melissa Burton, would pack her bags to stay with Ebeyer from Wednesday nights until Sundays. Burton worked from Ebeyer’s home so she could help with the kids. Then 35-year-old Burton picked up the kids from school, helped them with their homework, cleaned the house and did the family’s laundry. The middle sister made sure • Move • Shock (CONTINUED FROM PAGE D3) (CONTINUED FROM PAGE C5) there was a chance someone could see she was sick, took the most courage. But she said it was worth it if it meant she would be back in her classroom with her students. Tichenor completed her chemotherapy treatments on June 7, 2010, her youngest son’s birthday. She thought she would rebound quickly from chemo, but she still has side effects, including aches and pains. She has been cancer-free since her surgeries last year, and her reconstruction is complete. Tichenor said she now has days where she doesn’t think about what’s happened at all. Other times she has flashbacks about battling the disease and worries about recurrences or whether her kids might face it as they grow older. She will never call cancer a blessing, but the experience brought her closer to her family, and Tichenor believes she discovered strength and courage within herself she wouldn’t have known if she weren’t fighting for her life. “I’ll never be the same person. And that’s a positive,” she said. members, friends or church members watch over them whenever Michael Swigert was at work. Church members helped them throughout her treatment, and not just with baby-sitting. They brought over food — often homemade meals — every night so they would have one less thing to worry about. “I felt blessed that so many people were willing to help,” she said. Family members and anonymous friends assisted them with the $1,300 in out-of-pocket medical expenses they had last year. An old friend of Michael Swigert’s even raised money at a Cincinnati-area pizza parlor he owned to help them with their hospital bills. They also got a lot of emotional support, whether prayer services at church or cards that Julie Swigert sent her every day her sister-in-law had chemotherapy. Each arrived the day of her chemo session with a (CONTINUED FROM PAGE E1) After Ebeyer’s first appointment, the oncologist shook her new patient’s hand. “You’re going to be OK,” Mayer said. “It took someone to tell me to believe that I can beat the cancer,” Ebeyer said. ‘Let’s fight this’ the kids’ lives remained “normal” while Ebeyer was going through chemotherapy. And after two rounds of chemotherapy, the tumor shrank. Ebeyer felt empowered. “The medicine was working and attacking the cancer,” she said. ‘Moms don’t get scared’ Jennifer and David Ebeyer always made each other laugh. He was the smooth real estate agent who at 26 asked out the 19-year-old bank teller. He thought it would be funny to take her to a G-rated movie for their first date because she was too young to get into a comedy club. “At least you have a good-looking head,” he’d tell her when she lost her hair from chemotherapy. She placed her pinky finger next to her mouth, mimicking Dr. Evil from the “Austin Powers” movies. The couple beat cancer with the help of doctors, their family and friends’ support, their faith in God and their sense of humor. “Humor was my coping mechanism,” David Ebeyer said. He is the man of the house. His wife needed his support; his four young children needed his strength. They needed his jokes and laughs. “I never saw my parents cry,” handwritten message encouraging her to stay strong. Michael Swigert also tried to boost her morale and has the bald head to prove it. He shaved his head when she shaved hers to prevent her hair from falling all over the house while she got chemo. He printed out inspirational passages of Scripture and posted them around the house. He even taped one on the ceiling above her place in bed. Every day, she read the quote: “All things are possible.” Michael Swigert also quit his position as a high school band director and transferred to an elementary school teaching job so that he’d have more time to spend with her at home. That way, he could go home instead of having to attend band booster meetings and practices on evenings and weekends. The Swigerts grew closer during her struggle with cancer. Before, they were kept busy raising their two children. “It had been such a whirlwind,” she said. “But it made us appreciate our time together more.” said their oldest child, 18-year-old Kimberly Ebeyer. Jennifer Ebeyer wanted to stay calm in front of her four kids, as her mom had done for her. “I never wanted to show my kids I was scared because I’m their mom,” Jennifer Ebeyer said. “Moms don’t get scared.” The four children knew their mommy went to the doctor a lot and was losing her hair, but they were never scared. “I didn’t realize Mom could die,” 16-year-old Sarah Ebeyer said. “I don’t think I could handle dealing with cancer if it had happened now that I’m older.” School would be a lot more stressful, and it would be a lot harder to concentrate, she said. “I dealt with it better as a child,” she said. The kids went to a Chuck E. Cheese with a teacher on the day their mother had a five-hour surgery for her double mastectomy and reconstructive procedure — not knowing the grownups were keeping them occupied. After Jennifer Ebeyer was diagnosed, they had slumber parties every night on their parents’ bedroom floor with sleeping bags. “We didn’t know how serious cancer was,” Sarah Ebeyer said. FRIDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2011 H3 Her choice When the two older kids were in school, it always was the perfect time to vacuum the house. Ebeyer bent over and the vacuum caught her shoulder-length blonde hair. She thought the vacuum suction pulled a clump of her hair, but it was starting to fall out. She started losing her hair from the chemotherapy after the first dose, so she took control of her cancer. “Let’s buzz it all off,” she told her mother. Ebeyer had her last doses of chemotherapy by October 2002. The tumor was gone. Doctors told her that she didn’t need to have both breasts removed. But she wanted to be extra cautious. A double mastectomy was her choice. But her health insurance didn’t agree with that choice. The company refused to pay for her left breast to be removed. They told her it’s like preventive medicine as if she’s taking vitamins. So Ebeyer paid the $2,100 for her left breast to be removed and reconstructed. Plastic surgeon Dr. Christopher Jones presented Ebeyer her options for reconstructive breast implants. Ebeyer is barely 5 feet tall and was a size 4. Her doctor told her she was too tiny for a transflap • Loss Finding support (CONTINUED FROM PAGE D6) ventilator off, but he was hesitant for two reasons. “One, you’re hoping against all doubt that the antibiotics start working. Two,” he paused, then choked with tears, “I don’t think I really wanted her to die on her birthday.” Bible’s brother, Steve Cisco, was driving from Tennessee and made it to the hospital about midnight. By early next morning, Anita Cisco’s organs started shutting down. Dr. David Loesch, the oncologist working with Anita Cisco, was standing at the nurse’s station. Richard Cisco looked over and saw him with tears in his eyes. “I took it as a great testament to your mother,” Richard Cisco said to Bible. The family gathered around the hospital bed, and Bible remembers hearing the steady, fast pumping noise of the ventilator start to slow. procedure, where surgeons use the fat from the back or stomach for new breasts. The doctors opted for the expanders procedure where pockets of expanders are surgically inserted into the breast area. Ebeyer lay on the surgical table for five hours for her double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery in November 2002. For the next four months, the skin on her back stretched out like fabric every time her doctor injected saline. Her new bare flat chest needed to be stretched out so implants could be inserted. By March 2003, Ebeyer’s reconstructive process was complete. “I always joked that I would never get two things in life — breast implants and tattoos.” Now the 42-year-old embraces her surgically restored breasts and tattooed nipples. “I wouldn’t change anything. I’m grateful I’m alive,” she said. “How many times do we look around and appreciate what God has given us?” Ebeyer said. “As simple as a tree. I like to watch the wind move the leaves on a tree.” She was so caught up with her busy life and never slowed down. “I’ve slowed down and appreciate everything in life,” she said. SUBMITTED PHOTO Anita and Richard Cisco visit their first grandchild, Jaylynn Cisco, a few months after she was born in 1998. Anita would meet only one grandchild before she died of cancer in 2001. The family’s minister was in the room, and they all prayed together. Both Richard Cisco and Bible said they would’ve lived life differently if they had known Anita Cisco was going to die so young. “Losing a parent is shocking enough, but to lose a parent in your early 30s is hard when you think they’re going to be around for a while,” Bible said. The first thing Richard Cisco did after his wife died was find all the photo negatives and pictures of family in the house and put them in a fireproof box. When he joined a group of widowers, he was able to express the emotions he had hidden during his wife’s illness, Cisco said. Bible said it took her nearly 10 years to join cancer support organizations because she usually would just break down in tears. She now is in charge of registration and accounting for the Mooresville chapter of Relay for Life and volunteers with the American Cancer Society. She also reaches out in more personal ways. 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