The Saraswath Vani Editorial Committee and GS Sabha (UK) do
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The Saraswath Vani Editorial Committee and GS Sabha (UK) do
1 SECRETARY’S REPORT 3 EDITORIAL 4 MEMBERS NEWS Sabha Address G.S. Sabha (UK) Secretary 36 Woodstock Road East Begbroke Oxford OX5 1RG Vani Address Saraswath Vani Editor Flat 2,Gable Lodge Torrington Park Road London N12 9Tb [email protected] PERGRINES—THE BIRTH OF A NEW ROCK BAND 5 CONGRATULATIONS AMCHI EMIRATES 5 SABHA EVENTS LONDON WALK 6 GSS WOMEN’S DAY 7 AMCHI MEMBERS MOTHER’S DAY 9 HOME AWAY FROM HOME 9 WRITING AND ME 10 PEARLS OF WISDOM MANAGEMENT MYTHOS SARASWATH VANI Front Cover Design Competition 10 AMCHI GELE VARDIKA 11 DO WE KNOW My dearest GSS Stars , This summer can be more exciting as we have a fun project for all of you . Yes ! An opportunity for our youngsters to design a front cover for the forthcoming issue of Saraswath Vani .Amongst all the applications the most suitable design cover will be chosen for the front cover and the rest will also be presented in the inside pages of the same issue . There will be prize for the winners ! Yes , Winners , because every applicant will be a winner as he or she who would have put in so much time ,effort and creativity in making the design. Age limit : 8 years to 14 years Deadline : 1st September 2012 Theme : Nature …...our best friend ! Details : Size A4 . Use paints ,crafts ,photographs, computer graphics etc. Let loose your creative instinct and simply enjoy doing it . Great thanks to our dear friend Mrs Sangeeta Anand Shenoy who came up with this brilliant idea .So if you need any help please contact her and send your final designs to [email protected]. Editor THE WORDS ENGLISH OWE TO INDIA 14 BHAKTI SAMSKARA AN INVALUABLE GIFT 15 SHRAVAN MAAS 16 WORD PUZZLE AND HOW TO MAKE RAKHI 17 YOUR QUESTIONS AND MY ANSWERS 18 RANDAP –SHRAVAN SPECIAL MADHGANE 20 PATHOLI 20 HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE MIGRANE 21 BICEPS 23 QUIZZ TIME LOGOS 24 Disclaimer The Saraswath Vani Editorial Committee and G.S. Sabha (UK) do not accept any responsibility for any views expressed by individuals and/or parties in the Saraswath Vani. The Editorial Committee reserves the right to exclude, edit and correct all material received for publication. The Editorial Committee reserves the right to acknowledge or not, all correspondence received. Unless specifically requested, articles will not be returned. 2 Secretary’s Report t is with great pleasure that I write my first ‘secretary’s report’. I am a little new to this job, so please bear with me if the report does not appear to be perfect. The new executive committee was elected at AGM meeting on 12th May 2012 in London. Chairperson Mr Sadananda Nayak Vice Chairperson Dr Geeta Pai Secretary Treasurer Dr Jayavanth Kini Joint Secretary Dr Vinod Gadiyar Mr Dipak Rao Joint Treasurer Mrs Seema Kamath Vani Editor Mrs Gauri Shanbhag Joint Vani Editor Mrs Sangeeta Shenoy Auditor Mr Subhash Kamath Youth Co-ordinator Miss Anjali Rao Web Co-Master Mr Sudeep Shenoy, Mrs Shwetha Nayak Committee Members Dr Vasudeva Kamath, Mr Ananth Pai, Mr Kiran Pai The new executive committee met on 10th June 2012 and various responsibilities were allocated. It was a good opportunity to meet up with all the continuing and new members of the executive committee. I am delighted to be a part of the committee as every member wanted to contribute by innovative ideas for the betterment of our Sabha’s activities and wanted to move on with the time.The committee met at our Chairperson, Mr Sadananda Nayak’s residence in North London. A very good amchigale lunch, desserts and snacks were organised by Mrs Chitra Nayak and the committee is extremely thankful for all her efforts. The executive committee approved various events for the coming year 2012/13. The Annual Fruit picking day which was very popular last year, was held on 7thJuly 2012 at Garsons Farm, Esher, Surrey led by EC member, Mr Ananth Pai. The Vishwa Konkani Cricket match was held on 21st July 2012 and was a fun filled day outing for GSS families . The invite for Bank Holiday weekend outing on 25/ 26th August at Conwy in North Wales has been sent already to our GSS members. The organisation of this event will be led by Dr VinodGadiyar. Please book your places early to avoid disappointment. It is a week-end filled with fun activities for children and adults and a fantastic opportunity to meet and mingle with your amchigale friends. A new sub-committee has been formed for the Diwali function on 10th November and we are hoping to have a fabulous entertainment programme and an enjoyable evening in partnership with Sararwath Samaj, UK . 3 Please pen down these dates and try to keep yourselves free to participate and support the events by attending with your families. This year, the Committee has resolved to give more emphasis to improving contacts with the Konkani’s living in UK and increasing the membership drive. Taking part in the Sabha’s activities would provide you an ideal opportunity to meet new members, make new friendships, consolidate old ones, show off your talents on stage and have lots of fun. In true Konkani style, there will be an educational/cultural element to our activities as well. To my mind, it is a win-win situation! Also, if you would like to publish some interesting articles in the Sabha’s journal, please contact Mrs Gauri Shanbhag, Editor of Vani. She has, in particular, requested parents to provide information about their children’s achievements either within or outside the school or University. The Sabha takes great pride in showcasing the talent within our community. Please do visit our website http://www.konkanieu.com/ and give us your feedback (positive or otherwise). Our helpful webmasters will take these on board. Last, but not the least, it is Olympic year in the United Kingdom and for those lucky ones who have managed to get tickets, the Sabha wishes you a safe and enjoyable outing and for those of us who get to enjoy the events on TV in the luxury of our own homes, ‘happy watching’! With very best wishes, Dr Jayavanth Kini Secretary, G.S. Sabha(UK) Editorial reading on unknown territories can be very daunting . What is ours is known to us , but that which is not in our possession is beyond our comprehension . But still we flip through every page of the book of life with a never ending zeal and passion , always eagerly looking forward to uncover the secret of the time ahead . When there is a willingness to learn , the force of the divine energy emanates such profound power that it guides us through every twist and bend and makes the learning process an extraordinary experience . My tryst with the editorial of the Saraswath Vani has been a similar experience . Our GSSabha UK has been constantly endeavouring to bring together amchigale families and connect the lives of all the amchigale individuals in UK with the vision of creating oneness and giving us a sense of communal identity . It has not been an easy path but as the saying goes “where there is a will there is a way” . This Shravan edition of Sararwath Vani is my humble offering towards that Vision of oneness. For me the Saraswath Vani is not just a community magazine but is one of the vital fragments of that thread of oneness that unifies the amchi diaspora . It gives me immense pleasure to dedicate this issue to WOMANHOOD …...the universal embodiment of love and strength , with a special tribute to one of the greatest role played by a woman ….a MOTHER . The article on GSS Women’s International day outing and the articles in the amchi members section is a collection of inspirational words poured out from the hearts of our very own GSS women who have shared their experiences of playing different roles of a woman. This issue also has a special coverage on the significance of Shravan maas , with some recipes, stories and games based on Shravan maas. When it comes to spirituality and our Hindu philosophy of Vedanta , we are very often plagued with innumerable questions . Hoping to help us in our efforts to bridge the gap between the unknown and the known , I have introduced a unique question and answer column where our queries would be answered by Brahmachari Paritosh Chaitanya ,resident acharya of Chinmaya Mission ( UK). I am grateful for his invaluable time in answering our questions and his willingness to continuously support our actions to quench the spiritual thirst . I have tried to present a collection of different articles ranging from sabha activities to Hinduism , health to language , cookery to brain teaser games , so that I could cater to the varying interests of the readers . However I could’nt have done this without your help and support .So please continue emailing me articles on any topics that may have come into your attention and which you would like to share with the GSS community . Please also email me with your answers for the bhakti puzzle and the logo quiz . Also a special request to all the parents to encourage and support their children in participating in the Sarwaswath Vani front cover design competition . Only an artist can breath in life into the inert tools of colour and paper . The front cover of our Saraswath Vani is a beautiful piece of art and is designed by Sangeeta and Anand , courtesy Anand Designers (www.anandshenoydesigners.co.uk). Anand’s and Sangeeta’s enthusiasm in making a contribution to our community is applaud able and it is a privilege to have them on board. Also I am grateful to all our members for their articles and feedback , their hard work and support in making it possible to bring out this Issue. A special thanks to Bob , who helped me with the research and encouraged me to pen down few words on the English words of Indian origin . I hope to extend this topic in the forthcoming issues and welcome any suggestions and ideas. Studying an unfamiliar subject can be very daunting , but yet be very revelatory . Especially when that subject is no other than one’s own individual life . A subject that is most intriguing and challenging but yet very interesting . The Saraswath Vani has been one significant topic of my life that has inspired me to grow and evolve and I pray for all to succeed in unfolding every new page of their lives. May every day bring in a flavour of happiness and peace to all our fellow members. 4 Best Wishes Mrs Gauri Shanbhag Saraswath Vani Editor G.S.Sabha(UK) CONGRATULATIONS ,AMCHI YOUTH MEASTRO I have known Amol Prabhu since those days when he was half as tall as me . As a child he was always bubbling with enthusiasm to discover the world of music . I have watched many different performances of Amol right from yoga to rock music to mythological skits. And now this same boy has crossed over my height and at such a young age has with a group of artists launched his own rock band called THE PEREGRINES We are all very proud of you Amol and our best wishes are always with you . The Peregrines are playing on the 21st of August at Nambucca, 596 Holloway Road, London, Greater London N7 6LB.Tickets can be bought on the day or online at http://nambuccalondon.com/events-2?eme_offset=1 It was my good fortune to be in Dubai while on a business trip when my brother in law, Sri Gopalakrishnan Pai suggested that I went along to the Amchi Emirates Tenth Anniversary celebration in Sharjah, UAE on Friday 13th of January 2012. I tagged along with him and my sister, Smt Nalini Pai and we three attended their Maha – Special function. The hall (with the specially decorated stage at one end and the aromatic hot Konkani food table at the other end) was packed with Samaj Bandhus, all beautifully dressed in many bright colours to mark the occasion and attentively followed by all the performances on the stage with a few boys silently engrossed with their PSP game consoles. They had a variety of performances from adults to children and even in groups, where their talent was all too evident. There was a very popular performance in Malayalam (native language of Kerala) which made the audience burst into many laughter and tears but I enjoyed the “Kolaveri” Konkani performance best. And to make the day particularly special, they presented all members and guests present with either a specially made T shirt and/or a mug to go home with and cherish the day. The Amchi Emirates group is mainly of some 100 family members coming from Kerala, South India and spread across the whole of the United Arab Emirates and Oman. They join together for various occasions including Bhajans in different towns of the UAE. Last year for example they met in Abu Dhabi for their 100th Bhajan Sandhya. I admired the effort put in to publish their magazine to mark their special occasion on achieving their two digit anniversary. They had published a beautiful 60 page colourful magazine in high quality gloss paper and distributed to all their members. The articles were on a wide selection of subjects, from children’s drawings, food recipes, individual life experiences, travel log, explanation of the Kochi TD temple and so on. I particularly liked the idea of seeing the picture of the person who wrote the article and perhaps our Sabha Vani could move in that direction. Here are some links you may wish to watch the videos taken by Pai mama(SmartPai) http://tubethe.com/watch/vj3SK7HsNNE/amchi-emirates-2012suvenir-released– on-13-january-2012-by-gsb-sabha-uae-10thanniversary.html http://www.youtube.com/watch? JSXHpGUGL68 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8IeAuK3C1o&feature=related Written by Mr Bob Prabhu 5 The Great Written By Master Tejas Kamath Walk ondon is a great place to visit, especially by walk. The ancient historical London Bridge and the museums are great places to see. Its like a warm welcome by the tall buildings greeting us with pleasure. One a sunny day in mid-may, the G S Sabha members met near Monument to do the ‘London City Walk’ . I was a part of this group. Going to London was very exciting to me, either by car or train. However, seeing London by walk... this was going to be a very special day! Choo !Choooo.... the train rushed out of the Feltham station towards London. It took us nearly 45 minutes to reach Monument station. When we reached there we met our friends from the Sabha. It was nice to meet my friends too!. The London walk started from Monument. Jaymam and Jayant mam were our tour guides. They gave a glimpse of London history , story about the great fire of London and Monument itself. From there , we started the awesome London walk tour by being welcomed first to Pudding lane, where the great fire of London began. The fire that burnt most of the buildings in London. Next we walked through narrow roads towards London bridge. We climbed up the stairs of a building to enter an open balcony that gave us one of the best views of the River Thames and London Bridge. London Bridge stood pompous among all buildings around. I also heard stories about Robert McCulloh the American man who bought London bridge by mistake. He mistook the London bridge to Tower bridge. We also saw the old Billingsgate market. Did you know how some of the buildings got the name ' Wharf'? Well, now I know ! Wharf actually is an abbreviation of " Warehouse at riverfront." We then continued our walk from there by the bank of the river and then through very narrow roads. We saw many old churches. One that I specifically remember is St Olave's church. Very close to it was a building that looked like Batman's house. We also saw churches which had a big clock outside. Some churches were remains from the Great fire of London. Next, we walked towards the heart of the financial world. We saw the streets where the world's biggest banks stood. It was overwhelming to see some of the very old streets and buildings of London, now becoming the epicentre of the world's finance industry. One peculiar building that I found amusing was the "inside out building " , which is home to an insurance company. Apart from the wonderful buildings and history of London we saw a Jamaican pub. I was surprised when we were told a story about how the word 'Tips' began in that pub. Walking through the lovely streets, the amazing architecture of buildings in the company of GSS friends on such a lovely day ... I wished that the day would never come to an end. However ,the walk finally ended at Guild hall. All children who completed the walk received a certificate, which I am proud of. My sister received her first certificate too! I had a great time seeing London by walk. London is at its best when seen on foot and I am delighted to have had the opportunity to do so. London seemed even more beautiful after exploring the City by walk and understanding the history. I love London even more now and am proud to be a part of it. 6 GSS Women’s Day GOD made a wonderful mother, A mother who never grows old; He made her smile of the sunshine, and He molded her heart of pure gold; In her eyes He placed bright shining stars, In her cheeks, fair roses you see; God made a wonderful mother, and He gave that dear mother to me. -- Unknown author A woman takes up various roles in her life. A woman’s natural instinct is to give and serve in the various role she plays , may it be a daughter ,mother , sister, wife , mother-in-law, aunt ,grandmother , niece , etc . She remains so engrossed performing the different roles that she forgets about her own individual identity . Of all the rights of a woman , the greatest is to be a mother. The mother has the strongest yet subtlest influence on the family . When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child. In today's busy lives, between career, grocery lists, chores, bills and schedules, mothers especially working moms struggle to find the right balance between advancing in their career and spending quality time nurturing their relationship with their child. In the hustle and bustle of busy lives, she tries really hard not to let cute little moments of her growing child slip through her fingers. Today she plays a more dominant role in the upbringing of children. The working moms have sought their own ways to strike a balance to make up for the time lost with their children. And while times have changed, the family has gone nuclear. But has mom changed? The 'motherhood' epitomizing love, affection and care has always remained the same. Mother’s day is a special Sunday and is celebrated all over the world when families across the globe gear up to salute all moms .It’s a day that is based on the emotions shared between mother and a child. Markets are flooded with cards and gift items for Mother's Day. From specially designed mama's cups to flower baskets for mummy, from attractive apparels to fancy footwear, from musical cards to colorful jewelry, the shops are selling different items to express a child’s love and emotion to one’s mother. The pressure is high on the father to help the children orchestrate a blissfully wonderful day for their mother. I am a mother of two lovely children. Although I have no ‘big’ expectations for Mother's Day. I do have one special wish: a simple card that my kids make on their own. Though my kids are really generous with their hugs, kisses and words of thanks every day. On Mother's Day, I really feel that I should be celebrating my kids because even in their messiest, tantrum-y, emotional moments, they are awesome and make me smile every single day. I am sure most mothers would be feeling the same. This year, some of us GSS ladies had a very special Mother’s day gift. Its not just the children who made it special, but the whole family. They wanted to make their mom feel that they acknowledge the importance of all she does to run the house so smoothly. How did they do this? Well, this is how the story goes...The countdown had begun ! One of the most valuable member of the G S Sabha and a very special friend , Gauri Shanbhag came up with an idea to celebrate the first ever GSS International day to glorify the spirit of woman hood . The icing of the cake was, that it was on Mother’s day ! The date was Sunday the 18th March 2012 and it was going to be unique, fun filled and unforgettable 7 ‘Strictly’ experience to mark special GSS Women's International Day Celebration . Salsa…. a fantastic ice-breaker and an ideal way to not only bring people together , but also a stimulating dance form to awaken the passion of life . We were going to have an exclusive one and a half hour workshop where the participant would learn basic Salsa steps and also learn how to dance with a partner, giving them confidence to step out on the dance floor and flaunt their gracious dance moves . The teacher was Leila Stewart, who is under 21 British Latin Dance champion. Dilchad , a local restaurant was chosen to be an ideal spot to celebrate our first GSS Women's event (post the salsa workshop ) . It was a few minutes walk from the dance studio. A section of the restaurant was reserved exclusively for us . We had a wonderful and very memorable day . Ladies from a range of age groups danced to the music with all their heart. We giggled and laughed and had lots of fun. I am a left foot dancer and thought I would make a fool of myself dancing. However, I was wrong. Many of us were thinking just like me. Leila was an absolutely lovely dance instructor, who made the session exciting and fun .She made us feel special and encouraged us in every dance step . Some of us were thinking that it’s easier to do a lot of other things but dance… “Left foot front, right foot back , then to the side, and turn around…” Dancing to the beats was difficult initially , but once we got the basic steps all inhibitions were gone. We danced from our heart ! The steps may not have been perfect, we may have also missed some moves, but we all tried and most importantly we had a wonderful time . All of us danced and moved to the music so much that at the end of the session we were all tired and hungry. Dilchad….. we are ready for lunch! The walk to the restaurant gave us ladies time to start the gossip and catching up. On the way to the restaurant, some of us sneaked to the famous petticoat market ……..as you already know, its difficult for girls to stay away from clothes and bargains. The hot moves of the salsa was followed by some very yummy food at Dilchad. The whole restaurant came alive with gossip , giggles, laughter . Some of us were meeting each other for the first time, some of us were meeting after a very long time. Gauri aptly came up with a wonderful idea to make the afternoon more interesting and to get to know each other better. We had to introduce ourselves not simply as a wife , a mother , a sister , but as an individual , as a women who is always eager to learn and grow with every inspirational moment of life .Eventually, not only had we known each other, but also got to know ourselves better. Each one of us was thinking about the special people in our life , trying to rummage through our memories for an inspirational incident, thinking about the person who motivates us or a nostalgic event which influenced us. We all had so many things to talk about . We all were on the same page i.e we all were grateful for what we had. We were thankful to our parents…especially Mom’s cooking was missed by most of us. This was a very good exercise as it gave us an opportunity to reflect and be grateful to those inspirational pillars of our lives. Our happiness lies in our children’s wellbeing and happiness. Most of us would agree that our kids have inspired us in many little ways of life. While returning back home, a dear friend told me that I would be giggling at work every now and then with flashbacks from the afternoon. And truly, I was. My colleagues saw me giggling which then became a discussion and before you know, happiness was spreading. Mother’s day this year was a very special day for all of us. It was a day we paused our busy lives to remember the most special person in our life.... the person who gave us life, to become what we are today. The G S Sabha provided us with a perfect stage for this celebration. We hope that , this event will roll on year to year getting better and bigger. Last but most importantly, the dad’s, the husbands and the children played the most important role on this day. They made time for us, to give us a break to remember ourselves; to laugh and relax, to break free. We all went home with big smiles. Truly happiness IS contagious!!!!!!! It spread to many families on this day. Written by Mrs Seema Kamath 8 “How do you like your eggs in the morning?” “I like mine with a kiss.” hat is how my Mother’s Day celebration began .My favourite songs being sung by two superb vocalists accompanied by the Bethnal Green Big Band, lovely food and nice surroundings. Whilst some of you ladies were enjoying airing your dancing shoes, I was listening to my younger son and the rest of the band taking us from Dean Martin to Ava Gardener, “Come fly with me” to “New York, New York”. Two and a half hours of glorious music! Now add to that a text from up the Austrian Alps from my older son and a husband who did not mind me half swaying (and making a fool of myself). It was perfect! We did not celebrate Mother’s Day when I was growing up in India, though at our school, which was a convent, we did have a special celebratory day in honour of the Mother Superior. These days I know that in a lot of cities in India people celebrate Mother’s Day, albeit on the second Sunday in May like the Americans. So my mum and my sister get a day of pampering from my nieces. Mother’s day, in the UK, is celebrated on the fourth Sunday in Lent. This has been so since at least the 16 th century. About 400 years ago people used to make a point of going to the church in which they were baptized, the ‘mother church’. This was also the one day when young girls and boys who used to work as maids and servants were allowed to go home. They were sometimes allowed to take small gifts of eggs or flowers from the garden or greenhouse. This is what has, perhaps, been translated to the gift and card giving of today. Leaving the commercialism aside, I think that it is lovely to have an excuse to have a special day for our mums. Samudra Vasine Devi ,Parvatha Sthana Mandithe Vishnu Patni Namahsthubham ,Paadshparsham Kshamasmave O! Mother Earth, who has the ocean as clothes and mountains and forests on her body, who is the wife of Lord Vishnu, I bow to you. Please forgive me for touching you with my feet Written by Mrs Hema Kamath HOME AWAY FROM HOME t a temple close to our house a few months back, amidst the throng of worshippers, I happened to spot the iconic symbol of the amchigele sumangali – the dhaaremani. I gravitated towards this very pleasant looking lady (soon to be introduced to me as Lata Prabhu who affectionately turned into Lata akka to us) and from there, we were introduced to and drawn into a network of amchigele connections. And sooner than I can say it, I was one of the amchigele wives tracing with accuracy and vigour, our family tree - much like my mother and grandmother, who I had poked fun at a few years back for doing the very same thing (and also much to the amazement of my mind-boggled husband!) But it brought on an inexplicable gratification that made UK closer to home than little else could. Which brings me to the point I am trying to make – we amchigele are a small tightly-knit community, all intertwined somewhere at the roots. And the role of the Sabha in reinforcing this sense of oneness and sense of belonging is unparalleled. Years of social, religious and cultural interactions in India have cemented in us, the need to be a part of this intertwined community. The sight of our ladies doing the Tulsi puja, the sound of bhat mams chanting with the sound of conches in the background, the smell of fresh biscoot ambado, the taste of doodpak on the banana leaf, the feel of joy mixed with sadness at the visarjan of our Ganapati Bappa after chavati have put in place a value system for life that we young people would strive to live by and bring up our children in future. Far away from home and family, each one of us is acutely aware of the things we used to take for granted in a simpler time and age– growing up under the shade of grandparents, uncles and aunts, running around the streets with cousins, listening to folklore and stories, soaking in summer vacations with not a care in the world. We are also conscious that we are the sole torch bearers of our traditions to our future generations here, unlike in India where these customs naturally seep in by virtue of routine social interactions. We harbour a deep sense of pride at being a GSB that has been inculcated in us by societal living and we hope to keep it alive over the years. Anand and I are still in our toddler steps at the Sabha and our association with it is a very small fragment of its commendable twenty five years. Nevertheless, we see in the Sabha a window into our communal life back home in India and I am sure almost everyone would echo these sentiments. We all feel an instant connection and a sense of familiarity because at the end of the day, we all share a common endeavour: to create a home away from home.We tip our hats to a warm and welcoming institution. And hope that we may radiate the spirit of community that we have been welcomed with, thousands of miles away from home. Written by Mrs Sangeeta Shenoy 9 Writing and me used to write articles and short stories for my school magazine. But this writing passion faded away during my college days. Writing had always been a passion of mine. During a school reunion I met an old friend who works with rediff . This friend requested me to write an article for their site. I grabbed that opportunity as a stepping stone to unleash my hobby for writing . Initially I was quite nervous and apprehensive about the feedback .However to my surprise my article was liked by online readers and I was paid RS.250. It was my first writing amount. My friend discussed with me the various online opportunities which existed for writers. I had not, up until this time, considered writing as a means to make money, since I had always just written for leisure. However, the idea of earning something from your spare time and from the comfort of your own home really excited me. Then I thought ,I should take writing as my part-time profession. So, I gave it a go and I started looking for online writing jobs. During my online hunt for jobs I came across various article directories, and I found that before bidding for online writing projects I can first submit my articles here. As these articles would help my future buyers to review my work before they would hire me. I decided to begin advertising my services through these freelance article directories and writer-for-hire sites. This worked out very well for me and I soon had a flow of steady income doing something which I enjoyed immensely. Written by Mrs Yuvika Pai ANAGEMENT MYTHOS hen Rishi Gotama returned to his house, he found his wife Ahalya, in the arms of Indra, king of the Devas. Furious, he cursed his wife Ahalya to turn into stone and Indra to be covered with sores. This story is found in the first chapter of the Ramayana, the Balkanda, which deals with the childhood and education of Ram, prince of Ayodhya. The sage Vishwamitra takes Ram to the hermitage of Gotama and shows him the stone that was once Ahalya. She has been condemned to be trodden upon by bird, beast and stranger. Vishwamitra asks Ram to touch the stone with his feet and liberate Ahalya so that she can re join her husband. In the different versions of the Ramayana, the story of Ahalya is told differently. In some versions, she is the guilty adulteress, who gets caught in the act. In another, she is innocent and duped by the wily Indra who takes the form of her husband. Yet another version depicts her as a bored and tortured wife who finds solace in the arms of Indra. The narrators struggle to explain why Ram forgives Ahalya. It makes sense for Ram to forgive someone wrongfully accused, rather than someone who is truly guilty. Often in business, we have to deal with people who have not kept their commitment; who have broken their word or have demonstrated questionable integrity. There are attempts to justify their actions and plead their case. There are attempts to show that the conclusions drawn are based on false data or spread by 10 mischievous forces. We have to decide if we have to let Ahalya stay a stone or liberate her from misery. We have to decide when the punishment - justified or not - is enough. It was clear to Paritosh that the caretaker of the company guesthouse was siphoning funds. But there was no proof. It was a combination of hearsay and gut feeling. Murlidhar, the caretaker, was told to go on long leave. In his absence, Jotiraj took over as caretaker and the services in the guest house showed a marked improvement at a much lower cost. The old-timers said maybe Murlidhar was simply inefficient. The auditors said Murlidhar was a cheat. Murlidhar insisted he was innocent. After six months of deliberation, Paritosh reinstated Murlidhar. Everyone wondered if Murlidhar was innocent or if had been forgiven. When asked, Paritosh said, "I really do not know. But the six months have been harrowing enough for Murlidhar. If he was guilty, he has been punished. If he was innocent, he will learn to be more efficient. No one is perfect and people do make mistakes in life. If we do not forgive and move on, we will end up creating a smug self-righteous organisation where there is no compassion. That is not the kind of company I wish to create." Perhaps compassion is also the lesson Vishwamitra was also trying to teach Ram. (The author is the Chief Belief Officer of the Future Group .He can be reached at [email protected]) Contributed by Mr Jayanarayan Bhat Vardika uring Konkani marriages following are some of the important rituals followed. On wedding day Pandit will come to the houses of Bride and Bridegroom respectively and conduct prayer. Generally the bride and bride grooms get blessings from the elders. In the house of Bridegroom brother of the bride will visit and invite the groom and his family to the marriage venue. He will carry with him sweets, flowers ,some cash for any small children of the groom's family. EdurKansani (Receiving the Groom’s party) At the venue, bride's party prepares to receive the groom. The Bride’s party will wait outside the hall with the flowers and other paraphernalia as described. The Bride’s sister or paternal cousin sister will hold a circular steel plate (poleru in konkani) it will generally have the following Plate 1 Mirror supported by a Kalash (tambioin konkani) filled with water and a coconut on it, decorated with flower garland and golden chain, Kumkum and Haldi in separate bowls and bowl of Raw Rice Plate 2 carried by another sister, will have flowers and a rose water dispenser (Gulab-dani, usually made of Silver) Plate 3 with yet another sister (if no sister left, it can be someone else’s sister) will have 4 coconuts on it. Plate 4 with folded Paan and supari (Veedo). When the Groom's party arrives, the women of the family will precede the men to the entrance. The Groom's sisters will hold Plate 1 (just as in the brides side) and Plate 3. Plate 2 and Plate 4 can be shared.The women will now walk towards each other and apply kumkum and haldi to each other’s foreheads and wear a flower from Plate 2. They will sprinkle rose water on each other. Entering the Hall Before entering the hall, an aarti of kumkum water is given to the Groom. After this is done the father 11 of the bride will give the Groom a coconut in his hand and put a garland around his neck in greeting and lead him by the hand (lest he runaway) into the hall and seat him in a chair in the hall. Rest of the party will follow. PhoolMuddi (The Flower and the Ring ) Along with the Groom sits an un-married brother of the Groom who is called "Dheddo" (previously the dheddo would be a young kid, nowadays young eligible bachelors are seated instead as a way to get noticed). Once the Groom is captive in the chair, his feet are washed by the father of the bride. A Gold Ring is placed on his finger. A new sacred thread is put on him (over this clothing), he will already have one of his own under it. Aarti is done to him by the Bride's mother (with cloth wicks not cotton) and rice is sprinkled on him. He is fed 5 different types of sweets and a sip of sweetened milk. The Dheddo gets a gift of clothing. Now, it’s the Bride’s turn. Bride makes her first entrance to the gathering (still in Sari 1) and is seated in the chair. Along with her sits the Dheddi" (female version of the dheddo) She is gifted a Sari and any other gifts (usually ornaments) from the Groom's mother. Flowers (white managloremogra) are pinned to her hair. Aarti is done to her by the Groom's mother (with cloth wicks not cotton) and rice is sprinkled on her. She is fed 5 different types of sweets and a sip of sweetened milk. Like the Dheddo, the Dheddi gets a gift of clothing also. Breakfast I The first breakfast is served and the whole party tucks in. Bride changes clothes. Bride’s mother can also change her attire. (So can anyone else, there is no hard and fast rule) GhadeUdhak ( Water clock) Originally intended to help the gathering keep track of the time, now it is done only for symbolic purposes. 5 thambios (copper pots) are held, one each by five women namely bride, bride's mom, groom's mom and 2 others.They are filled with water and Ganga Pooja is performed as instructed by Pandit. These pots are then kept aside to be revisited later. UdidaMoorth (Grinding of Gram) A mix of Green Gram, Black Gram (Udid in konkani), tumeric, oil is prepared and the bride (now in Sari 2) and her mother jointly grind it in a manual stone grinder. Once the bride is done grinding, her party proceeds to Breakfast II, thus vacating the seats to allow the groom and his sister(s) to do the grinding. The sisters also get to apply kajal to the groom. Grinding can also be done simultaneously if there is an availability of spare equipment and space. KaashiYatra Tired of all the rituals, the groom decides to renounce worldly life and meditate in Kaashi. He sets out with an umbrella, and a Potli( cloth tied into a bag on a stick containing his worldly belongings ). He is stopped by the Father of the bride, who tells him of the virtues of married life. (Mostly he tells him, there is no escape now, you're doomed) Once again captive, the groom is pacified with a gift either of money or a gift of clothing and an aarti and proceeds to Breakfast II. He can change his clothing also. The Water clocks/ GhadeUdhak are revisited by the 5 ladies to check if the water pots are hale and hearty. Breakfast II The second breakfast is served and all tuck in (again!) Entering the Mantap The bride now well fed and covered in mounds of silk, flowers (mogginaja-day - jasmine flower headress) and a ton of gold is led into the Mantap by her mother. Meanwhile, the Pandit does a pooja of the Mantap. She enters the mantap with her right foot first. The Dhaare Mani ( black bead and gold chain with 2 large coral beads ) is Mangalsutra 1. It is given by the bride's family. The chain is taken around the hall to be blessed and inspected by the elders. After remembering the family diety, it is put around the brides neck by her Mother. An aarti is 12 done to her and rice is liberally sprinkled over her. This done, the bride is dispatched away again, possibly to be decked with more gold. VarPooja The Bride's married sisters and their husbands are called into the mantap in sequence and given a gift of clothing, aarti and rice sprinkling. Groom Bashing ( tying the "bashing" on the tur- ban ) "Bashing" is an ornament made of thermocol and glitter held together by glue. It has lot of dangling beads and shiny papers stuck to it. Hideous though it is, it is tied to the Turban of the Groom. Traditionally it was tied over the Gandhi cap which was worn by the groom. It is a good idea to tie it out of sight behind the fan of the peta so that it is not seen. Preparing the "Talee" ( Thali or Plate ) 1 Plate (VothuGhadi - means "at the time of pouring" ) is prepared and held by the mother of the bride. It contains the following: 1. 2 simple non zari saris (meant for daily wear by the bride in her new house) 2. PaanVeedo 3. Flowers and Raw Rice 4. 1 Coconut, sari blouse piece, kunkum( collectively called Vonti ) Plate 2 ( LagnaTalee - wedding plate ) is prepared and held by Groom's mother. It contains the following: 1. Post Wedding Sari ( a grand sari nowadays worn at the reception) with Pallu visible (pallu has to be visible for aunties present to estimate the cost of the sari :D ) 2. Mangalsutra 2 - Chunky Gold and coral bead chain. 3. PaanVeedo 4. Mogra Flowers and Raw rice 5. Silver Kunkum Box 6. A small box of Kajal 7. Ivory comb ( now replaced by a plastic imitation) 8. "Bashing" ( for the bride this time ) The Pandit now does a pooja of the Plates as above. The father of the bride brings the groom into the Mantap along with the Dhedo. The Plates mentioned above are carefully placed under his chair. Once he is seated, the parents of the bride will perform an aarti, arghyapadya (feet washing) and then put a sacred thread for him. He is given a gift. The gift is usually a Sandook( if not available, cash is used). A Silver Sandook set ( consists of a plate, a small glass, spoon, box to hold religious stamps, the stamps and a thambio (silver pot) these items are to be used for daily pooja ) AntharPaat (Curtain) A cloth is now held by two pandits to obscure the view of the Groom , because the bride will be brought into the hall now and he should not be able to see her. Here comes the Bride The maternal uncle of the Bride will bring in the decorated Bride leading her by the thumb and will walk her down the aisle from the front entrance of the hall. If there are two they can bring her together (she has only 2 thumbs) . If there are several uncles, a sort of relay is done. Traditional music is played by the musicians and the pandits will commence chanting the mantras. If the weight of the Bride allows she may be carried in by the maternal uncle. Kankana (Tumeric pieces) are tied to the wrists of the Bride and Groom. The coals are fetched by the Bride's mother to start the fire in the Homa( sacred fire ). She is gifted by the Groom’s family for her efforts. Lye Virkachain (Pouring puffed rice ) While the fire is being started, the uncles and brothers of the Bride will pour puffed rice through their hands until it falls onto a plate held below. The youngest among them will receive a gift called a Lye Shawl ( now a shirt piece). The Maternal Uncle will place 2 pairs of toe rings to the Bride's toes. 7 Pheras The Bride and Groom take 7 circles around the fire as per instructions by the pandit. VarUbharchain (Lifting) The uncle and aunt will then attempt to physically lift the Bride and Groom. (a daunting task!) In case this is not feasible, Bride and groom are walked 4 steps forward and 4 steps backwards by the maternal uncle and aunt or just gently nudged. The 2 pairs are now given an aarti by the other elders present. SharageGhalchain ( Putting the Pallu ) The mother of the Bride will now place the pallu for the Bride as a symbol of marriage and replace her half moonbindi with a full moon. The Groom will tie a five rupee coin (symbolizing this savings) to the pallu of the Bride. Going Bananas She enters the mantap again with her right foot and her uncle will sprinkle rice on her head and leave her inside. Now as per instructions by the pandit the garland exchange between Bride and Groom takes place. DhaarVotuchai (Pouring the stream of milk) also called KanyaDaan ( Giving away the Bride ) A silver pot with a gold pendant of Laxmi with a coconut placed over it and milk is poured from it on the hands on the Bride and the Groom as per the instructions of the pandit. The laxmi pendant signifies that they are giving away the girl only and not the goddess of wealth. Tying the knot The Mangalsutra from Plate 2 is retrieved and tied around the brides neck. The "bashing" for the Bride is now tied on her head. Plate 2 (LagnaTalee) is given to her. Aarti is done and rice is sprinkled over her as a blessing. 13 Bananas are cut up into small pieces and the Bride serves them to the Groom's family and her own (symbolizing that she has cooked for them). She is given a gift of cash for her troubles. Keeping the Name Traditionally the Bride would have a new first name after marriage. The name is still kept, but not used. The mother of the Groom will whisper a name 5 times into the Bride's ear. Vontiborchain The mother of the Bride will give her a blouse piece, coconut, kumkum and sprinkle rice for the first time as a married lady. BaagilDhorchain The sisters of the groom, unhappy that their brother will forget them once he is married; will stop him from leaving the mantap. They are pacified with a gift of cash from the Groom. The wedding party proceeds for Lunch. Contributed by Mr.Sadananda Nayak THE WORDS ENGLISH OWE TO INDIA Once a foreigner visited India . While roaming through one of the busy streets of a city , he came upon a vegetable and fruit market . As he stood in the market watching , he noticed that many people were buying chilies .In India people are very fond of chilies , but they use them in small quantities . The foreigner thought they must be a delicacy , so he bought two kilos of them and sat down under a tree to eat them .As he munched the first chili his mouth began to water .He moaned and fanned his mouth and then began munching another chili ,thinking that this one would taste better .He went on his way eating chili after chili ,suffering and hoping that each one would taste better .When a local who was watching him , asked him why is he munching chilies , the foreigner replied , that he was a visitor from Chile and as he was pointing out to the chilies he told the vegetable vendor that he had travelled from Chile and that he wanted to buy two kilo’s of the most exotic Indian vegetable . The local immediately understood the cause of misunderstanding created by the play of a word “Chili “. It is strange how communication is established with the use of Language . A language is made of different words. But how often do we wonder where those words originate from ? Some of these world travel for centuries until it makes a permanent place in a language .Chili is a popular Anglo Indian name given to the pod of red pepper because when this exotic plant was carried from Chile in South America the traders decided to call it Chile . English language has many such interesting words which have witnessed its birth in the Indian soil . The Oxford English Dictionary currently has about 700 words of Indian origin. Words like yoga, swastika, khaki, sari, and sati denote those actions or objects that never existed in the English culture and hence they were imported into English . On the other hand there are some words that were taken and given a different meaning ,for instance nirvana, kedgeree and Jodhpur. The pronunciation too, took a different tone, in these Indian borrowings. The important modifications were mainly seen in the sounds of 't' and 'd'. In the North Indian languages 't' is mostly pronounced as 'the', as in thing; while the 'd' is pronounced as 'the' in this. When a word from this region came to English, the sound came with a hard 't' and 'd' as in dungaree (Hindi) and swastika (Sanskrit). To the contrary words from south India , were pronounced softly or not at all as in cheroot (Tamil churuttu /shuruttu ) The word Cheroot (sheroot) - A cigar with square cut ends came from the French word cheroute. The Tamil word churuttu/shuruttu - roll of tobacco was absorbed into the French language during the early 16th century, when French were trying to get a foot hold in South India (Hyderabad), and from French this word finally came into English as the word Cheroot . Of the words that came into English, there are certain traits that can help one connect the link between two different countries . The word bandhunu in Hindi (tie dyeing) and bandhana (to tie): from Sanskrit was probably absorbed to Portuguese, when the Portuguese ruled over Goa during the early part of the 17th century, and from Portuguese was absorbed to English language as Bandana a head scarf . 14 There are many such words in English language where you can trace its origin to our ancient Indian languages . Bangle - A rigid bracelet or anklet, especially one with no clasp. An ornament that hangs from a bracelet or necklace came from the Hindi word bungri –glass. Cashmere - Fine downy wool growing in the outer hair of the cashmere goat. A soft fabric made out of this wool or similar fibers. Named after the state of Kashmir in India, where these goats were found in abundance, and famous for woolen clothing during the British rule. Dungaree - A sturdy, often blue, denim fabric. Trousers or overalls made of sturdy denim fabric. In Hindi the word dumgri meant hard/coarse. Gunny - A coarse, heavy fabric made of jute or hemp, used especially for bags or sacks . This word has its roots in Hindi ghoni - sack and in Sanskrit gharati-sack Jute - Either of two plants yielding a fiber used for sacking and cordage. In Bengali jhuto and Sanskrit jutah meant twisted hair . Jodhpurs - Long riding breeches, tight from the knee to ankle, named after the ancient city, Jodhpur in the state of Rajasthan in North India. Men in this state wear trousers akin to riding breeches, hence the name 'jodhpurs'. Khaki - This word is a marriage of different meanings .In hindi it is a light olive brown to moderate or light yellowish brown. Khakis which in English means trousers made of a cloth with this colour. Urdu khaki - dusty or dust colored, from Persian khak - dust Musk- A strong smelling reddish brown substance which is secreted by the male musk-deer for scent making, which is also an important ingredient in perfumery. This word is born from Persian musk, from Sanskrit muska (scrotum) Pajamas/pyjama - A lose fitting garment consisting of trousers and a jacket, worn for sleeping or lounging, often used in plural. Hindi paijama - loose fitting trousers, from Persian pai- leg and jamah - garment Shampoo - A liquid preparation containing soap for washing hair. In Hindi campoo - press. Curry - A heavily spiced sauce or relish made with curry powder and eaten with rice, meat, fish or other food. A dish seasoned with curry powder - a mixture of various spices came from the Tamil –word kari which meant sauce . Mongoose - Any of various old world carnivorous mammals having agile body and a long tail and noted for the ability to seize has its link to the Marathi word mangus which means of Dravidian origin. Bungalow - A small house or cottage usually having a single story. In Hindi bangala ,in Bengali bungalow and in Gujarati bungalow meant a house . Coir - Fiber from the outer husk of the coconut, used in potting compost and for making ropes and matting came from the Malayalam word kayaru - cord. Wiritten by Mrs Gauri Shanbhag Samskara an invaluable gift s a child I never wondered or questioned my mom about why we celebrated a particular festival ? Why we performed various pooja’s or special rituals ?Why we cooked special dishes on religious occasions ? Maybe I was not curious enough to bombard my parents and elders with innumerable questions or probably I simply accepted every act of worship and celebrations as a norm of living as it seemed to happen everywhere around us. In contrast my children are distant from the land of festivals where rituals are as normal as the untimely rainfall in this country . For my kids it is out of the ordinary to see me drawing a rangoli on my front porch , where as when I saw my mother do it I also saw a dozen or more ladies doing the same in our neighbourhood. That might be the reason why my children find it amusing when they see me perform different rituals . Perhaps they are so intrigued by the ensemble of vibrant colours and festive activities ,that their curiosity explodes with vigour and I have no choice but to be ready with an answer to every possible question my children ask .I am grateful to my children ,because had it not been for their curious questions I wouldn't have revisited the memory lanes of my childhood when I enjoyed being engulfed in our rich traditions and cultural activities . We lived in Mumbai and my mum always cooked all the exotic and traditional dishes . She made sure we ate the special foods that were made for special occasions in our grandparents home in the town of Ankola . For instance during Ganesh Chaturthi we ate Hiitto with chutney and roass (Idli in Jackfruit leaves with chutney and Sweet Jaggery and coconut milk syrup ). For Nag Panchami we ate Pattoli (Sweet Rice Cakes filled with Jaggery & coconut mixture wrapped in Haldi Leaves and steamed ). Although we lived in a cosmopolitan city our parents used to celebrate every ritual and festival the same way as it was celebrated in my native town. My memories of Diwali celebrations are as fresh as if it happened just day before yesterday . Rituals like applying oil ,having a abhyanga snan early in morning for Diwali , then lining up for aarti and then breaking bitter kariit with the right toe . My mother would first make us put a drop of the sour fruit on our tongue and then give us a prasad of dahi phoa and goda phoa . We would then take the blessings of all the elders and wish everyone a Happy Diwali . My parents in spite of their hectic schedule and work commitments endeavoured to not only introduce us to our age old traditions and rich cultural values but also participated and made every festive occasion a fun filled experience . Being caught up in the hustle and bustle of city life it was not possible for them to take us to Ankola where rituals and festivals were celebrated in much grander scale . But still they made every possible attempt to celebrate every festival the same way as it was celebrated by their parents . Growing up with the abundant wealth of heritage and value has been such an integral part of me that may be that is the reason today even though I am hundreds of miles away from my native land , I have been trying to create an experience for my children, the same experience which my parents gave to me as a child . I still remember our annual visit to Wadala Math to attend the ananth chathurdashi function or our visits to Ankola during Ganesh 15 chathruthuhti when we had Ganpati at our ancestral home . Another implicit memory I have is that of Chudi Pooja . During Shravan maas my mother always did the Chudi Pooja , inviting few ladies and distributing them prasad after a small pooja at home. Since my wedding I have been wanting to do the Chudi pooja . But I kept on dilly dallying because of not finding the right materials or not having enough ladies to participate in this ritual . However there came a point where I felt that I could no longer keep myself distant from my traditions for which I have such deep love and reverance . Last year on the first Shravan Aiitaar , I made the preparation of chudi pooja . I invited few of my friends to my house and performed the Chudi pooja . I had cooked our typical amchi gali dishes ,which all my friends relished . Most of my friends although not from our community enjoyed every part of the ritual . But the two people who found this ritual most amazing were my two children . They watched their mother prepare the chudi , offer it to the alter, then do the aarti and then distribute the chudi with a flower ………….and in their eyes I saw my self sitting as a small child by my mothers side watching her do the pooja . I could have done a chudi pooja long time ago but before I had my kids it never occurred to me to do so. I could have easily done something for the GSS bank holidays that I have attended or I could have invited some friends to come over and given them the chudi , but it never happened . Last year when I decided to start doing the chudi pooja I asked my mom about the materials and the procedure of the chudi pooja ritual . After getting the list of material , I realised that it would be hard for me to find dhruva or bilva patra except maybe in Asian areas . That’s when my mother said something that I will always remember . She said ‘that anything offered or done for GOD or to help your children learn requires only the Will and devotion and it will work ‘. These few words that my mother said , reignited my enthusiasm and my passion towards our tradition and rituals . Armoured with Bhakti I bought a bunch of roses from my local Sainsbury , collected 4 different kinds of leaves from my own garden and put together 11 chudis and did the chudi pooja . My children participated fully by helping me collect the leaves and put together the chudis . For them doing that small piece of action was very fulfilling .Now I know that it will be part of their childhood memory just as many of such humble actions of helping my mom in my childhood has been woven into my memory . Serendipitously I also found the English version of bel parti . The plant next to my front porch happens to have 3 leaves which I started using as bel patri for Shiv Ratri . I might have substituted the materials of a ritual , or the ingredients of a dish , but one thing I can affirm is that nothing can substitute our traditions, our religious practices , our festive celebrations . Just as our parents introduced us and imbibed in us our deeply rooted Samskaras , similarly these Samskaras can be our invaluable gifts to our dearest children ……..the harbingers of progress and development . Written by Mrs Sonia Kamat SHRAVAN MAAS 16 The month of Shravan is the fifth month of the Hindu calender and is the holiest month of the year. On Purnima the full moon day, or during the course of the month the star 'Shravan' rules the sky, hence the month is called Shravan. This month is spread out with innumerable religious festivals and ceremonies and almost all the days of this month are auspicious. The legend says that when the churning of oceans - Samudra Manthan - took place in the month of Shravan, fourteen different types of rubies came out. Thirteen of these were distributed amongst the demons, except Halahal (poison). Lord Shiva drank the Halahal and stored it in his throat. To reduce the strong effect of poison, Lord Shiva wore the crescent moon on his head. All the Gods, thereafter started offering the Ganges water to Lord Shiva to make lessen the effect of poison. Since, this happened in the month of Shravan, devotees observe Monday fasts and practice various rituals to offer prayers to lord Shiva . Every day in this month is considered special and auspicious. Shravan is the month when GSB families celebrate many festivals and offer various poojas . One such ritual perfomed by GSB married women is called Chudi pooja .Tulsi plant and lord Surya are worshipped during Chudi Pooja, which is observed on Sundays in Shravan Maasa (month). The main ritual involves exchange of a small bouquet of flowers by married women. Chudi is derived from the Kannada word ‘Soodi,’ which means a tied bundle. The main ritual involves arrangements of flowers and herbs in a small bundle. Usually a bundle will contain four to five flowers, Darba grass and two or three herbs. Legend has it, that demon Jalandhara's wife Vrinda was very beautiful and chaste. She was also an ardent devotee of lord Vishnu. To save the world from the grip of the demons, lord Vishnu was awaiting an opportunity to demolish the wicked Jalandhara that would be possible only if Vrinda loses her chastity. When Jalandhara is away one day at the war front, Lord Vishnu is believed to appear before Vrinda in the form of her husband and has connection with her. Vrinda loses her chastity and as a result, Jalandhara loses his life in the battle field. Later, Vrinda realises that it was not her husband Jalandhara but lord Vishnu who had connection with her, thereby snatching away her chastity along with her husband's life. Being devotee of lord Vishnu, she has faith that Vishnu's act was aimed at the welfare of the world. Lord Vishnu suggests her to offer Chudi Pooja to the Tulsi plant during Shraavan month, which ascertains chastity and fortune for women. She offers the pooja before noon and thus, Chudi Pooja came into existence! Another popular festival is Nag (snake)Panchami ,which is celebrated on the 5th day of the bright fortnight in the month of Shravan. Milk is offered to naga idols with aarti and prayers to nagas. People visit Naga temples to worship them. Shiva temples are also favored places for veneration as snakes are considered dear to him. In some villag- es , people craft images of snakes using cow dung on either side of the entrance to the house to welcome the snake god. The practice of worshipping the snake on this day is related to many legends. Nag Panchami is believed as the victory day of Krishna over the Kaliya snake. As most rivers in India are in spate during the month of Shravan, snakes come out of their subterranean abodes and creep about in plenty all over the place. Because of this fear, Nagas might have been elevated to a divine status by the Hindus. This day is also considered as the thanks giving occasion. Since in early days in the agrarian life, snakes used to help the crops by killing rats etc. the people wanted to protect and thank them. A very delicious sweet dish called Patholi is prepared during Nag Panchami as an offering to God . Another very popular family pooja is Janamashtami , a festival dedicated to Lord Krishna. This festival is also known as Gokula ashtami or Krishnashtami. This day marks the birth of the eighth incarnation of lord Vishnu, the eternal and lovable lord Krishna. Janamashtami falls on the twenty third day of Shravan month or the 8th day of the second fortnight of Shravan maas . It is celebrated almost in every part of India with devoution and excitement. The festival is celebrated over two days . Many people observe a fast on the ashtami . The alter is decorated and a Krishna idol is placed in the centre of the alter .Krishna birth is celebrated at midnight , hence the pooja is done towards the final hours of the day . The pooja begins with an offering of tulasi dal(buds) by a male member as the ‘Ashtottarans and Vishnu Saharanaman’is chanted . Another very significant ritual which is observed by most of the amchigale families is Upakarma or Sutta Punnav as is more polularly known. This day falls on the Poornima or fifteenth day of the Shravan month . Upa means before and Karma means action . Upakarma means an action performed before beginning of Vedic studies . It also refers to as being drawn closer to the Vedas . On this day men replace the worn out sacred thread, janawa or yagnopavitha with a fresh and newer janawa . This custom of replacing the janawa indicates that things that is already learnt and yet to learn to be taken to heart consciously. Some families organise a Gayatri homa ,some organise the chanting of Gayatri Mantra 1008 times . Special dishes such as khotto ,pathrado, chane ghashi, anvas-ambe saasama are prepared and is a special occasion for family get together . This day is also celebrated as Raksha Bandhan ,when a sister ties a sacred thread of protection around the wrist of her brother .This delicate thread of Rakhi is considered stronger than an iron chain as it binds the most beautiful relationship in an inseparable bond of love and trust. The beauty of the Shravan month is that every household in some way or another is buzzing with festive activities that brings all the family together as they collectively celebrate every occasion with love and harmony . Written by Mrs Gauri Shanbhag HOW TO MAKE YOUR OWN RAKHIS Materials Required 1. Satin ribbon 2. Character Gel stickers 3.Glue 4. Coloured pens 5.Gold Sequence Method for making Rakhi: Method for making Rakhi: Method for making Rakhi: Put between 5 to 8 beads Cut each thread 20 cm Cut 20 cm satin ribbon . (depending on size of bead long . Make 3 pairs each of With the felt pens draw and length of the name )in a colour strand and then border on the sides of the the nylon string .Then arweave all the six strings to ribbon. In the middle of range the alphabets to make make a woollen plate . the ribbon stick the gel the brothers name . Now put With the needle sew a pearl sticker of your brother’s the same number of beads bead in the shape of a favourite character. Now as earlier . Tie a knot on eiflower ,throughout the stick a sequence in the ther edge of the thread . string. distance of every cm . BHAKTI PUZZLE Materials Required 1. Nylon string 2. Coloured beads 3. Alphabet beads Materials Required 1. Three different coloured wool 2. Small pearls 3.Needle and thread A S B O I R U A G A L A G N A M D A D M R S T K N F E P T W A R S I T M N I R I M A T H S A L U K O G P A P K S T K O N P C K F S Z W X U B R O R R H Y S T U L A S I B U Y O Y V U P A K R A T U H W A Z C A B T J I C G K M C A P A O R L G P O E M R T O W H F B X V U R B F I Q O U A C A I A I Q V E F A J V I E K T R V Z P Y V P P I C F G N A R L B M S W K A V W T A S U B M P A J A V F G X Q N F T E U H S O N S B K N W A I F C A D R G S P C Q Y J N O F P M P G V G F S A Q Z A X A K A U A T E O A S A A L A K A L A P O G C L H V M S T V X I O L B J K M O U M R K Y P B O R F U A M I N R O O P B J D G R N T U A K B Q J I K M N B U R X A X B O D X C F R S I M A H N A P A G A N A 1.This is the first month of chaturmasa . 2.This month is full of different festive celebrations 3.On Sundays people gather to do this pooja ? 4. This symbolises the bond between brother and sister ? 5.This is the night of full moon ? 6.All the Fridays of this month is dedicated to this Goddess ? 7.This is a special fast dedicated to Lord Ganesha ? 8.On this day prayers are offered to an animal ? 9.This three faced leaf is Shiva’s favourite ? 10.On this night we celebrate the birth of a baby born in a prison ? 11. By making a offering of this leaf ? 12.The name of the night of full moon and the night of waxing moon is ? 17 C F Contributed by Mrs Gauri Shanbhag YOUR QUESTIONS MY ANSWERS Ishwararpitam Necchaya kritam ,Chiita Shodhakam , Mukti sadhakam Kaya vaan manah , Karyam Uttamam,Pujanam japas chintanam kramat Jagat Ishadhi yukta sevanam,Ashta murthi bhrud deva poojanam Verses from Upadesha Sara by Bhagavan Ramana Maharishi Actions done with an attitude of dedication to the Lord without attachment to the result purify the mind and are means to attain Liberation . The actions done by the body –puja (ritualistic worship of the Lord ) ,the speech –japa (chanting the name of the Lord ) and the mind –chintanam (contemplation ) are serially superior to each other .Serving the world with the attitude of serving the Lord is the true worship of the Lord who is the wielder of eight fold forms . Translation by Swami Tejomayananda Q1. Scriptures say we should have no desires. Isin’t this impractical ? How can I live without desire ? How can I act without desire ? A1. Desire, contrary to general sentiment, is not a problem! It is selfish desire that is the binding problem ! In fact, no action is possible without a desire - even for the enlightened. However, the quality of desire is very different between the ignorant and wise. The desires of an ignorant person is selfish and with great dependence on a specific outcome. He entertains the notion that “when I get that result, then I will be happy”, gets very attached to the result of action and hence gets stressed out completely because the result of actions are uncertain. The wise person also acts with a desire to achieve, but without the obsessive dependence on any result. He has discovered that his own nature is happiness, and his desires are only to share his fulfilment with the world. In short, the ignorant has desires and acts for happiness, while the enlightened has desires and acts from happiness. The message is, find fulfilment in the Self and then share that happiness with the world. Desires cannot bind such a person, and in fact such desires a pure hearted person entertains is for the blessing of the world. Q2. If GOD is everywhere and every time then why is a month like SHRAVAN more holier than the other . A2. All moments are holy, precious and divine. Every moment is a gift of the Lord and hence we call it the Present. So there is no time which is “more holy” than any other from the highest standpoint. However, time has its significance in every aspect of our life and certain actions conduce to certain times when our mind is in a certain mood and the outer environment suits. Sleep for example is best done at night! Meditation and spiritual practice is best done 18 in early morning or sunset time. Work is best done when the sun is out. So time has a role to play in actions that we do. Seasons also have an effect. In India Shravana Maas marks the end of the hot summer and the first month of the monsoon season, which lasts for four months (Chaatur Maasya). In the ancient days, saints would stop their wanderings during this time and remain in one place since the rains were so heavy. They would spend their time in spiritual practices, study and teaching. People from the cities and towns would come and also take benefit from these Masters and take the opportunity to listen (Shravan means to listen!) to their discourses as well as apply themselves to spiritual vows under their guidance. Hence due to the season, a conducive atmosphere of saints and their devotees led to a wonderful tradition of having Shravan maas as the month for dedicated spiritual activity. The month is dedicated to Lord Shiva because He is the Adi Guru of all and this was a month that he swallowed the poison during the churning of the milk. To mark this occasion too was Shravan Maasa. This is why it is said that Shravan maas is marked as holy. However, any moment we turn to God, the Self within - that is the most holy moment in life - even if that be at a so-called inauspicious time from the astrological perspective. Q3. If God is the self within ,then why should we do the rituals for different forms of God ? A3. Just as from one gold bullion we can produce innumerable gold necklaces, ring, earrings, bangles and anklets, from the One Brahman, all things and beings have appeared. Gold when made into a small loop is called a ring, in a bigger loop is called a bangle, and in a series of small links and a bigger loop is called a necklace. Necklace, bangle and ring are different names we give to the same essential substance, gold, only they have a different name and form. In the same way, the world of multiplicity that we see is nothing but names and forms, whose essential substance is Brahman. Just as gold appears as all the ornaments, Brahman appears as the multifaceted universe of plurality. At the moment, we see the plurality but we do not see the unity and divinity that underlies everything. It is like we see the necklace and ring but don’t appreciate their essential nature as gold. So to bring us to this Higher Awareness of the One Reality, the Scriptures prescribe methods of worship so that our vision is clear and our mind is purified to appreciate the Oneness everywhere. Why different forms? Each person has a different temperament and is attracted to different forms. In order to cater for all beings, the Infinite manifested in several special forms (though He in essence appears as all forms) to attract and inspire various seekers. Some prefer a gold ring over a bangle, while others want a golden anklet instead of earrings. The substance being the same, the choice is merely in name and form. In essence, by the worship even one form of the Lord, the seeker worships all just as by appreciating the gold in the chain we appreciate the gold in all ornaments. The different forms are thus an act of compassion on the part of the Infinite to reach out to us, the seekers. Brahmachari Paritosh Chaitanya is a dynamic up in Australia before travelling to India to study of the science of self-knowledge which UK at our Hendon centre, Paritoshji holds youth to adults. Many of us have read the spiritual scriptures many more Vedantic texts .Sometimes we stumunderstand , but seldom get a chance to clarify section of Q& A with Paritoshji . young Acharya of the Chinmaya Mission, who grew Vedanta and developing a profound understanding he shares with clarity and simplicity. Now based in the weekly classes for all sections of the community from especially the Upanishads, the Bhagwat Gita and ble upon an area , or a topic which we struggle to our doubts. I hope we will be able to benefit from this Please give your feedback and send in your questions to [email protected] by 1st September so that I can get Paritoshji to answer the questions and share those answers in the forth coming issue. For any information relating Chinmaya Mission Uk please visit Chinmayauk.org . 19 Madgane Patholi Ingredients ½ pav channa dal 2 tbsps raw rice 1 ball jaggery (cut into pieces) 2 cups coconut gratings (soyi) 4 cardamom pods- peeled and powdered 25 tender cashews (bibbo) Ingredients For the paste 1 pav raw rice 1 pav popped rice (powa or medium rice flakes) 2 tbsps coconut gratings (soyi) 1 pinch salt A small piece of jaggery Method For the filling (choornu) 1 big ball jaggery 2 cups coconut gratings 5 cardamom pods – peeled and powdered Soak tender cashews in water for an hour. Peel and separate the halves. • Roast channa dal for a while in a frying pan. Heat two and a half cups of water in a vessel and cook the channa dal in it. Bring to boil and lower the flame. • Grind coconut gratings and collect its thick juice in one vessel and the thin juice in another. • When dal is almost cooked, add cashew nut halves. Mix crushed jaggery. • When both are well cooked, grind rice and pour it into the vessel. Keep stirring to ensure that it does not stick to the bottom. Then after 5 minutes, add thick coconut juice and a little thin juice too if desired. • Bring to a boil and remove from flame. • Add powdered cardamom, stir and serve hot or cold. Turmeric leaves – as many as desired number of patholis Method Soak raw rice in water for an hour. Wash and grind with 2 tbsp of coconut gratings till fairly smooth. Add popped rice and grind to a fine paste. • Add a pinch of salt and a small piece of jaggery to this paste and grind for 2 minutes. • Prepare a blend of crushed jaggery, coconut gratings and cardamom powder for the filling. • Wash the turmeric leaves and pat dry. • Spread about 2 tsps of the rice paste on each of the leaves. • Place a desired quantity of the filling on the paste. • Fold the leaves lengthwise and repeat till the desired numbers of leaves are filled. • Place the patholis side by side on the perforated sheet of an idli vessel (pedaavan). • Cover and steam till cooked; it generally takes about 45 minutes. • Remove from flame and allow to cool. • Take the patholis out of the leaves and serve with ghee or honey. Tips & Trivia Pav measure: is an old tool of measurement which equals to approximately 250 grams. Pavs are still in use and are a common measuring device in most amchigele recipes. For modern conveniences, a cup is approximately equal to ¾ of a pav and can be used as a conversion factor. Another traditional Konkani measure is the ‘kudthe’, a utensil for measuring liquids equal to 150ml. Traditionally ghee for making sweets would be measured using a ‘kudthe’. A variation of madgane can be made by substituting chana dal with green gram dal (mooga daali) as well. Turmeric leaves are quite rare to come across in London, you could try the same recipe of patholi with banana leaves instead. This tastes almost as good as the real thing! A twist to the traditional patholi is the ‘ponsa patholi’ – ripe jackfruit or ponosu can be added to the rice paste while grinding for an aromatic variant. Contributed by Mrs Sangeeta Shenoy 20 MIGRAINE lmost everyone experiences headache at some time. While for most it is infrequent and not troublesome, a few suffer more serious attacks that cause a significant impact on their daily life. A headache is a pain anywhere in the region of the head and neck. The brain tissue itself has no pain receptors and headache is usually felt by pain-sensitive structures in the head which includes lining of the skull, muscles, nerves, blood vessels, eyes, ears, sinuses and mucous membranes. This article will aim to give an overview about the different types of headaches and describe features and management of the common types of headache. Headache can be classified as either primary or secondary headaches. The primary headaches are not related to any underlying condition and include migraine, tension-type headache (TTH) and cluster headache. The secondary headaches are caused by underlying conditions like infection, cancer, vascular (related to blood vessels) conditions or drug-induced. The most common types of headaches are the primary headaches such as tension-type headache and migraine. ble but sometimes there can be a pattern where it happens more at weekends (possibly related to sleeping for a longer period, missing breakfast etc) or related to periods in women. Migraine is commonly present on waking from sleep but can occur at any time of day. Migraine headaches typically increase in intensity slowly. Severe headache developing suddenly like a hammer blow is a feature of bleeding around the brain (subarachnoid haemorrhage) and needs urgent review. Some symptoms such as a feeling of tiredness, yawning or craving for foods can happen before the headache starts and around 15% of migraine sufferers have an `aura’ lasting several minutes (up to an hour) before headache starts. Aura symptoms: visual aura (most common)-bright zig-zag lines/ coloured haloes that may gradually spread to leave an area of relative or absolute darkness (blind spot) sensory disturbances (less common) –pins and needles on one side of face or body that spread from a point and/or numbness. Tension-type headache (TTH) This is the most common type of headache. Not many people consult their doctor for this headache as it is not disabling and is mostly helped by simple pain-killers. TTH does not have feelings of sickness/vomiting or light/noise sensitivity and has at least two of the following characteristics: Felt on both sides of the head Pressing/tightening quality (not throbbing) Mild-moderate intensity Not made worse by routine activity such as walking, climbing stairs etc. TTH is also not usually present on waking but develops as the day goes on. There may be infrequent episodes of TTH and can last from half an hour up to several days. If TTH occurs on average for >15 days/month, it is called chronic TTH. speech disturbances (least common)-difficulty finding the right words or getting words mixedup. To diagnose migraine in adults, there should be at least 5 attacks fulfilling the following features. 1. Headache lasting 4-72 hrs (untreated or unsuccessfully treated). Even after the headache subsides, there may be a feeling of fatigue. 2. The headache has at least 2 of the following features as well as nausea/vomiting and light/noise sensitivity. One-sided in location Pulsating/throbbing quality Moderate or severe pain intensity Migraine Migraine affects 6-8% of men and 15-18% of women. It is the commonest severe primary headache and affects approximately 6 million people in UK. It is estimated that 190,000 migraine attacks occur daily causing significant disability with loss of work and school. It can start at any age. Frequency of attacks can be varia- 21 Worsened by movement or patient avoids routine activity like walking or climbing stairs Migraine in children can be felt on both sides of the head in young children. Management: 1. Non-drug management: Migraine sufferers should be encouraged to not miss meals and ensure enough sleep, drink more fluids, reduce caffeine intake etc. Stress management Acupuncture can be considered as a preventative measure 2. Acute treatment Standard first line treatment for migraine is aspirin 900mg or ibuprofen 400mg. If simple painkillers do not help, there is a class of medication called triptans which can help in 80-90% of attacks (egSumatriptan-sold as Imigran and available to buy over the counter from pharmacies. Others include rizatriptan, fravotriptan etc. which GP’s can prescribe). Triptans are available as tablets, nasal sprays and also in injection form. They should be taken at, or soon after, the onset of migraine headache. Adding ibuprofen 600mg to triptan can increase the response of triptan. Codeine containing painkillers (eg co-codamol, codydramoletc) should not be routinely used for treating migraine because of the risk of medication overuse headache (MOH). Some commonly used migraine treatments containing codeine are available to buy directly by the patient from pharmacies and patients are not aware that overuse of these medications can make headache worse. When treating migraine, the risks of medication overuse headache should be discussed with the patient. 3. Preventative treatment People who have more than 2 migraine headaches per week which interfere with their daily routine can try preventative treatment. It is a medium-to-long term strategy and the effects can take up to 2 months before benefit is seen and the total treatment is for around 6 months or longer. Trials show that they reduce the severity and frequency of migraine by 50%. Commonly used treatments include: Propranolol 80-240mg daily Topiramate 50-200mg daily Sodium valproate 800-1500mg daily Amitriptyline 25-150mg daily Venlafaxine 75-150mg daily Pizotifen 500-1500mg at night-has limited vale and not recommended for routine use, but works well for children and adolescents. Medication Overuse Headache (MOH) MOH is the headache that is present for more than 15 days in a month and develops or worsens when the patient is taking regular headache medication. It is caused by overuse of any combination of regular headache medication without needing to be of a single class of medication alone for more than 3 months. Eg. Overuse of triptans->10 doses per month, overuse of codeine containing medication- > 10 doses per month or overuse of simple analgesics- >15 doses per month. Treatment of MOH is by stopping taking the painkillers for 2 months which is likely to worsen the headache. The situation will however improve on persevering. Withdrawal headaches are shorter for triptan overuse than for codeine containing medication which should be gradually withdrawn. Simple painkillers can be stopped abruptly. Preventative medication should be considered when the situation improves. Cluster Headache It is not very common and men are mostly affected. Features: Most severe pain lasting 30-120 minute Felt on one side of head Agitation, pacing with headache whereas migraine sufferers prefer to keep still Occassionally there may be eye symptoms like watering, redness etc and blocked nose See your doctor if the headache has the following features: Sudden severe headache (worst ever headache, like being hit over the head with a bat-sign of subarachnoid haemorrhage) Headache brought on by coughing, sneezing or straining (due to changes in pressure inside brain) Headache episodes for the first time after 50 yrs (temporal arteritis-inflammation of the artery in the temple region of head which can affect the vision) Headache that gets worse and worse (brain tumors) Headache with symptoms like confusion, drowsiness, reduced consciousness. Headache that wakes you up from sleep Headache with sudden red eye (glaucoma) Written by Mrs Shalini Gadiyar 22 BICEPS here are number of mass and power building biceps exercises which are effective and help you to build muscles. Here are few exercises on the planet to be included in your workout regime to build muscles and power and watch your biceps soar. Standing straight-bar curls This is the best biceps exercise you can do to build muscles. Standing straight-bar curls exercise comprise of muscle building program, which are low reps of heavy, intense, basic compound movements. This program allows you to directly hit the biceps with great degree. Stand on your feet while shoulders width apart. Keep your hands width and grip the bar with an underhand grip. Then start, with your arms straight, biceps fully extended and keep your upper body leaned slightly forward. This workout program is designed to give you maximum biceps muscle growth in a minimum of time. While performing this incredible biceps exercise - Use some cheating. This states that with explosive body motion you can curl your weights forward as you contract your biceps. To get most out of this program you should lower the weight as slower than the speed you used to raise it. The reason is most muscles fiber stimulation occurs during the negative, or lowering, portion of the exercise. So, do not drop your weights just like that. Controlling the weights on downward motion so that the bar is touching your legs, this process is must to get maximum benefits. And this downward motion actually works best for the biceps more than the lifting. Standing alternating dumbbell curls This exercise also helps you to build muscles in the biceps. This is a simple standing exercise; here you can hold the dumbbells at your side with your palms facing each other. Rotate your palm forward as you lift the weight and remember curl one dumbbell at a time. Contract your biceps fully and go slower with a dumbbell while rotating your hand back to its original position. You can repeat the same steps with opposite arm. For an effective workout back and forth until you have completed your reps.You can reserve cheating during last few reps. Cheating in biceps exercise allows you to overload your biceps and help to grow your arms. Combination of these biceps exercise aids to increase your strength and build more muscle in your arms than any other type of bicep exercises. Comprise your workout regime with these biceps exercises and in no time you will be able to add inches to your arms. 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