January 2010 - Diocese of Bridgeport
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January 2010 - Diocese of Bridgeport
Cadets Win State Title Walking for Peace Catholic Schools Week is coming Character is as important as wining: page 20 Through cities, mountains and cornfields: page 12 Special supplement starts on page 13 Gerrie and Jean-Paul Musicco, chairs of 2010 Appeal “Its about reaching out” By PAT HENNESSY Gerri and Jean-Paul Musicco, members of Saint Aloysius Parish in New Canaan, have graciously accepted Bishop Lori’s offer to represent the diocese as the chair couple for the 2010 Living Our Faith Annual Bishop’s Appeal. “As a young couple with children in middle school and high school, Gerrie and Jean-Paul have first-hand experience with many of the ministries supported through the Appeal,” says Bishop Lori. He mentions in particular the couple’s energy in teaching in the religious education program at Saint Aloysius, and the entire family’s dedication to helping at New Covenant House Soup Kitchen in Stamford. The bishop also emphasized the need for every Catholic in the Diocese of Bridgeport to recognize the importance of the Appeal, especially in difficult economic times. “Some of our neighbors are struggling,” he says. “If God has blessed you with stability, it’s more important than ever that you are generous in sharing that blessing. Every single gift counts.” The Musiccos were drawn to their leadership role in the Appeal by their knowledge that the diocese, through Catholic Charities, is the second largest provider of charity in the area behind the government. “While the stock market is significantly off of its lows, the real economy has not “How can I not help?” says Jean-Paul. “I’m honored that the bishop asked us.” ➤ see ABA on p. 4 EXPANDING THE CAMPUS – Kolbe Cathedral Principal Jo-Anne Jakab stands in front of the newly-acquired building at 299 Washington Ave. in Bridgeport, with the high school building and Saint Augustine Cathedral in the background. The new site will help with a growth in enrollment and academic programs. For a photo of the new location turn to page 18. (Photo by Brian Wallace) Kolbe Cathedral High School announces expansion By BRIAN WALLACE Kolbe Cathedral High School has announced plans for expansion with the acquisition of a nearby 11,130 sq. foot property that is now vacant in the Hollow section of Bridgeport, according to Principal Jo-Anne Jakab. The school plans to convert the one-story, former Fletcher-Thompson Architects building at 299 Washington Avenue into an annex with four ➤ see Kolbe on p. 18 2010 APPEAL CHAIR COUPLE – Jean-Paul and Gerrie Musicco have been named Chair Couple of the 2010 “Living Our Faith” Annual Bishop’s Appeal. The New Canaan couple, members of St. Aloysius Parish, bring a deep and renewed faith along with their commitment to building a more compassionate community. They believe the Bishop’s Appeal offers a unique opportunity to reach out to those in need throughout the region. 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In so doing I also wish to offer my support to leaders of governments and international agencies who soon will meet at the United Nations ity” (no. 49) not only between countries but also between individuals, since the natural environment is given by God to everyone, and so our use of it entails a personal responsibility towards humanity as a whole, particularly towards the poor and towards future generations (cf. no. 48). of global development be transformed through a greater, and shared, acceptance of responsibility for creation This is demanded not only by environmental factors, but also by the scandal of hunger and misery. Indeed, we are all called to exercise responsible stewardship of creation, to use resources in such a way that every individual and community can live with dignity, and to develop “that covenant between human beings and the environment, which should mirror the creative love of God” (Message for the 2008 v World Day of Peace, 7)! Future Generations How important it is then, that the international community and individual governments send the right signals to their citizens and succeed in countering harmful ways of treating the environment! The economic and social costs of using up shared resources must be recognized with transparency and borne by those who incur them, and not by other peoples or future generations. The protection of the environment, and the safeguarding of resources and of the climate, oblige all leaders to act jointly, respecting the law and promoting solidarity with the weakest regions of the world (cf. no. 50). “The protection of the environment, and the safeguarding of resources and of the climate, oblige all leaders to act jointly.” to discuss the urgent issue of climate change. Personal Responsibility SAVE THESE DATES! The earth is indeed a precious gift of the Creator who, in designing its intrinsic order, has given us guidelines that assist us as stewards of his creation. Precisely from within this framework, the Church considers that matters concerning the environment and its protection are intimately linked with integral human development. In my recent encyclical, Caritas in Veritate, I referred to such questions recalling the “pressing moral need for renewed solidar- Benefit all People Together we can build an integral human development beneficial for all peoples, present and future, a development inspired by the values of charity in truth. For this to happen it is essential that the current model Day of Recollection for College & Young Adult Men February 13, 2010 – “The Joy of Priesthood” 10am - 4pm A Day of Recollection with Bishop William Lori At Saint John Fisher Seminary Stamford, Connecticut RSVP to Fr. Robert Kinnally at 203-416-1512 or [email protected] High School Discernment Group for Boys Thursday, February 25, 2010 Meetings will be held at St. John Fisher Seminary Residence in Stamford beginning at 5:30pm and concluding by 8pm. (Evening Prayer, Dinner, Discussion). RSVP to Fr. Robert Kinnally at 203-416-1512 or [email protected] College Visits for High School Junior & Senior Boys: Consider adding St. John Fisher Seminary to your list of college visits. It seems to be such a mystery what life is like in a house of discernment. We are offering the opportunity to live the schedule and life of the house for 24 hours. For more information and to schedule your visit, please contact Father Robert Kinnally: 203-416-1512 or e-mail [email protected]. MEETING THE POPE – Bishop Lori introduces Father Joseph Marcello, priest secretary to the Bishop, to Pope Benedict XI on a recent trip to the Vatican as part of a delegation from the Knights of Columbus. Bishop Lori serves as Supereme Chaplain of the fraternal organization headquartered in New Haven. The Bishop accompanied Supreme Knight Carl Anderson on the visit. Lives of “Heroic Virtue” Sainthood causes advance for John Paul II, Pius XII VATICAN CITY – Pope Benedict XVI advanced the sainthood causes of Pope John Paul II and Pope Pius XII, declaring that both had lived lives of “heroic virtues.” In signing the decrees Dec. 19, the pope confirmed the recommendations of Vatican officials who have studied the causes for several years. Both popes can be beatified once a miracle is attributed to their intercession. ers should stop pressing the issue. In the end, Pope Benedict paired the announcement of Pope Pius’ “heroic virtues” with that of Pope John Paul, who is remembered for his acts of friendship and bridge-building with the Jewish community. That does not mean, however, that both popes would be beatified together. There is no Vatican timetable for verification of a miracle, and in some The decree on Pope John Paul was expected, and it fueled hopes for a beatification ceremony sometime next year. Church experts are already studying a possible miracle, the cure of a French nun from Parkinson’s disease, the same disease from which Pope John Paul suffered. The decree on Pope Pius came as a surprise. His sainthood cause has been a point of contention with some Jewish groups and others who say he failed to do enough to protect Jews during World War II -- an accusation strongly rejected by Vatican historians. After the Congregation for Saints’ Causes unanimously recommended the heroic virtues decree for Pope Pius in 2007, Pope Benedict put the cause on hold and put out the word that both critics and support- “That does not mean, however, that both popes would be beatified together.” Possible Miracle cases sainthood causes have waited many years for that step. In 2005, Pope Benedict set Pope John Paul on the fast track to beatification by waiving the normal five-year waiting period for the introduction of his sainthood cause. That seemed to respond to the “Santo subito!” (“Sainthood now!”) banners that were held aloft at Pope John Paul’s funeral. In April, the Church marks the fifth anniversary of Pope John Paul’s death. The initial diocesan phase of his sainthood cause was completed in April 2007. In November 2008, a team of theological consultors to the Congregation for Saints’ Causes began studying the 2,000-page “positio,” the document that made the case for Pope John Paul’s beatification. After their favorable judgment, the cardinal and bishop members of the sainthood congregation met last month and gave their go-ahead for the decree of heroic virtues. The presumed miracle for the Polish-born pontiff, meanwhile, is being studied in a five-step process that involves medical experts, a medical board, theological consultors, the members of the congregation and, finally, Pope Benedict. Criticism The advancement of Pope Pius XII’s cause prompted immediate criticism from Jewish representatives in the United States, Israel, and Europe. In Italy, Jewish leaders suggested the decision was premature, since the Vatican’s archives on the World War II period remain sealed. An Israeli Foreign Ministry official also said it was difficult for historians to reach a judgment about Pope Pius until archives were opened, but he added that beatification of the wartime pope was an internal issue of the ➤ see Sainthood on p. 8 3 January 2010 Loving the Church I t’s not too late to add one more New Year’s resolution to the list. In addition to the usual pledge to lose weight and exercise, we might also resolve to grow in our love and appreciation for the Church. No doubt, the most important way to do this is to thank the Lord for giving us the Church and to ask Him to guide and protect her in these challenging times. Please pray daily for the Church – for your parish, for the Diocese, and for the Church throughout the world. Another way for us to grow in love for the Church is focus on how the Church has contributed to Western civilization. Many of these contributions are either omitted or glossed over in most secular history books. In fact, in talking with high school students in public schools I am astonished to learn how much misinformation about the Church is being taught in the name of history. In more than a few Western civilization courses the Church is portrayed as a “bad actor” when, in fact, as the author, Thomas E. Woods, Jr., notes, the Catholic Church built Western civilization (see, How the Catholic Church Built Western Civilization, Regnery Publishing, 2005) Two caveats follow in swift succession. First, in a brief space of this column, all I can do is to cite highlights of how the Church has contributed to the growth of civilization. (Woods’ book offers an excellent overview). Second, no one claims that there aren’t bad episodes in the history of the Church. A decade ago, Pope John Paul II called the whole Church to prayer and penance for such episodes, a humble “purification of memory.” Similarly, the Second Vatican Council taught that while the Church herself is holy, she is sinful in her members (see, Lumen Gentium, 8). This is not surprising. After all, the Lord came to call sinners and He died to save us. Furthermore, the Church is the extension of the Lord’s mission. She continues His work “right in the heart of the earthly reality,” as Cardinal Henri de Lubac wrote, “right at the core of all the confusion and all the mischances which are inevitably involved in its mission…. (Splendor of the Church, ix) Even in the midst of so much “confusion and mischance,” the Catholic Church has served as the greatest transmitter of knowledge and civilization in human history. In 1993, The Library of Congress the vernacular. Think of the debt of gratitude we owe to monks who copied and preserved ancient manuscripts. The Catholic Church started the university system and, not surprisingly, the Church continues to educate more people today than any other religious group or academic organization. The Church’s contributions to modern science are immense, including the development of the scientific method. More familiar to most people are the architectural, musical, literary, and artistic works inspired by the Church’s proclamation of the Gospel. Less familiar is the fact that the Church developed the foundations of wider law and economics. Early on the Church organized hospitals; last year in the United States, more than 600 Catholic hospitals served over 85 million patients. In addition, the Church pioneered charity as a work of faith and remains one of the largest sources of charitable and social services. In Fairfield County, Catholic Charities is certainly the largest non-governmental source of those services. The Church’s contributions to modern science are immense, including the development of the scientific method. More familiar to most people are the architectural, musical, literary, and artistic works inspired by the Church’s proclamation of the Gospel. co-sponsored an exhibit with The Vatican Museum entitled, “Rome Reborn: The Vatican Library and the Renaissance Culture.” It showed the Church’s contributions to archaeology, humanism, mathematics, music, medicine, and biology. The exhibits demonstrated how the Church had gathered and preserved fragments of ancient civilizations – not only Athens and Rome – also the Middle East, Africa, and the Orient. W e hear much about the role of the Church in the so-called “Dark Ages” and about the the Galileo case. For some, those two phrases, combined with tendentious references to the Crusades, the Knights Templar, and the Inquisition, constitute the Church’s role in Western civilization. What’s missing here? The plain fact that, in saving ancient civilizations and in its own consistent attention to and respect for reason, the Church was indispensible in the development of Western civilization. It was the Church that assembled the books of the Bible and translated them into Friday, January 22 • March for Life Rally, Washington DC Editor’s note: These are the highlights of Bishop Lori’s public calendar of activities for the next month. Subject to change. Please contact each location for details. Tuesday, January 26 • Cathedral Education Cluster Board Meeting, Catholic Center, 7:30 a.m. • Saint Mark School, Stratford, 9 a.m. • Saint Rose of Lima School, Newtown 11:45 a.m. Saturday, January 16 • Father Richard Murphy Installation, Our Lady of Peace, Lordship 5 p.m. Sunday, January 17 • Knights of Columbus Pro Life Mass, Saint Mary Church, New Haven, 10 a.m. Monday, January 18 • Haitian Mass, 6 p.m. Saint Charles Borremeo Parish, Bridgeport January 18-25 • Week of Prayer for Christian Unity Tuesday, January 19 • 2010 Bishop’s Annual Appeal Launch Dinner, Saint Mark School, Stratford, 7 p.m. Wednesday, January 20 • Catholic Charities Board Meeting, Catholic Center, 8 a.m. A dd to this the parish priests who effec- tively serve our parishes daily, the deacons who, with their wives, give of themselves so generously, the many religious, our seminarians, a growing lay leadership, and so many families committed to faith throughout the Diocese – we have reason for hope, confidence, joy, and renewed vigor in fulfilling the Church’s mission in our place and time. Are their problems to be solved, challenges to be faced, and sins to be expiated? Yes, to be sure! Yet the Lord remains with His Church! So let our New Year’s resolution be to love the Church, endowed with truth and holiness and struggling valiantly as a pilgrim in history to proclaim the Gospel and to continue the Lord’s saving work until He comes again in glory. v Highlights from Bishop William E. Lori’s Public Calendar • 2010 Bishop’s Annual Appeal Launch Dinner, Saint Rose of Lima School, Newtown, 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21 • Annual March for Life Mass, Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, Washington DC, 7 p.m. Wednesday, January 27 • Breakfast of Champions, Catholic Center, 8 a.m. • Saint Catherine of Siena School, Trumbull 11:30 a.m. • Our Lady of Fatima School, Wilton 1:30 p.m. Thursday, January 28 • Saint Cecilia School, Stamford, 8:30 a.m. • Holy Spirit School, Stamford, 9:45 a.m. • Greenwich Catholic, Greenwich 11:30 a.m. January 29-February 4 • Bishop’s Annual Appeal “Snowbird” Trip to Florida February 5-7 • Knights of Columbus Board Meeting, Marriott New York Marquis, New York 4 January 2010 Ordination to the Order of Deacon Last step on road to the priesthood CONGRATULATIONS! Bishop William Lori congratulates (above) Jaime D. Marin-Cardona 41, after his ordination to the Order of Deacon at a Mass held on January 3 at Saint Charles Borromeo Parish in Bridgeport. The ordination as deacon is the last step on his journey to the priesthood. As a transitional deacon, he will assist and preach at Masses and perform baptisms and other duties as he completes theological studies and anticipates his ordination to the priesthood this spring. A native of Colombia, Deacon Cardona came to the U.S. in 2004 and entered Saint John Fisher Seminary Residence in Stamford in 2006. He is currently serving at Saint Charles Borromeo Parish. At right, Jeffrey Couture, 38, was ordained to the Order of Deacon by Bishop Lori during a mass on December 12 at Holy Family Parish in Fairfield, where he grew up and his parents are parishioners. The Sacred Heart University graduate expects to complete his theological studies at Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary in Emmitsburg, MD, in June. The day following his ordination he assisted at his first Mass with Father Guido Montanaro, pastor of Holy Family. Prior to coming to Saint John Fisher Seminary Residence in Stamford, Deacon Couture served as a manager in the food industry and the Marriott Hotel chain. ABA continued from p. 1 ➤ yet fully healed,” says JeanPaul, a managing director of a Connecticut based money manager, acknowledging both the challenge and the necessity of the Appeal. The Appeal provides essential services and ministries of the Church in Fairfield County, including Catholic schools and parish religious education programs, Catholic Charities, soup kitchens, food pantries, vocations to the priesthood and religious life, and parish finance services. The 2010 Appeal will be launched in all 87 parishes of the diocese the weekend of February 20 and ends on June 30. In recognition of the difficult economy, this year’s goal has been set at $12 million. The Musiccos’ faith journey mirrors that of many of their contemporaries. Jean-Paul was born in Toronto, Canada. Gerrie was born in Northern Ireland, but grew up in Canada. Both came from Catholic families – Gerrie attended Catholic school through high school – but they drifted from the practice of the faith in adulthood. Faith Journey “None of my friends were going to Church, and I just Attention “Snowbirds”! Will you or your family members be in Florida this winter? Bishop William E. Lori will attend receptions in Naples on January 31, Palm Beach on February 2, and Vero Beach on February 3. More dates and details to follow. Please e-mail Pat Hansen: [email protected] to join the invitation list. See you in the Sunshine State! thought, ‘Oh, it’s my mother’s faith,’” says Gerrie. The couple had married in the Church, and had all their children baptized. Though they were widely traveled and had lived in London, England, a while, it was not until they moved to Connecticut in 1994 that they saw the value of a life of faith firsthand. “There’s much more of a religious community among people our age down here than in Canada,” says Jean-Paul. “Our friends were fully engaged and active at Saint Aloysius. They were wonderful examples for us.” They saw Fairfield County as an ideal place to set down roots and raise their children. They became U.S. citizens and, as the children grew older, enrolled them in religious education classes at Saint Aloysius. When their children came home from classes with questions and comments, JeanPaul, in particular, began to see what he was missing. He had no formal religious education in his childhood, and enrolled in the Rite of Christian Initiation (RCIA) program at Saint Aloysius as a way to begin to understand the Catholic faith. “The RCIA program in Saint Aloysius is so fantastic,” he says. With the encouragement of RCIA leaders Bernie and Joan Rafferty, Jean-Paul was confirmed at the Easter Vigil of 2006 – by Bishop Lori. “I began to see what the Catholic Church was doing,” he says. The couple had already been involved in philanthropic work in their community, particularly at Kids in Crisis, where Jean-Paul served on the board, and various local charities. Now they’ve become active in parish projects as well. Giving Back “When we went down to New Covenant House as part of able,” says Jean-Paul. “I had no idea how much the diocese was doing. I had no idea about the vocations program at Saint John Fisher Seminary, or the quality of our Blue Ribbon Schools.” This year, when Bishop Lori invited them to become lay chair couple for the Living Our Gerrie and Jean-Paul Musicco our son’s Confirmation service hours, we took all the kids,” remembers Gerrie. “We didn’t want them living in the bubble of New Canaan. The visit was eye-opening for all of us. When we came home, their first question was, ‘When can we go back again?’” As the Musiccos became more involved in Church activities, they met Bishop Lori again. At a Malta House dinner they bid on, and won, the opportunity for a private dinner with the bishop. “Bishop Lori is so eloquent and knowledge- Faith 2010 Bishop’s Appeal, they were eager to assist him. “How can I not help?” says Jean-Paul. “I’m honored that he asked us.” He expects that the Living Our Faith Appeal will meet its projected goal, even in this economic climate. “You’d be amazed at how readily people respond,” he says. “They think, ‘Things are tough, but when I look into my situation, I’m not all that bad off. I know other people have it worse.’ The Appeal is just about reaching out to them.” v January 2010 5 Mass for Life “If you can’t go to the March, please pray” By KAREN KOVACS DYDZUHN Life is sacred and a gift from God and, as followers of Christ Jesus, we are called upon to protect the dignity of every human being, from their conception to a natural death. This was the message delivered by Bishop William E. Lori during a recent Mass for Life held January 10 in Fairfield. Parishioners and honored guests, including members of the religious order Sisters for Life, the Knights of Columbus, and pro-life advocates, joined parishioners at Saint Pius X Church. It was fitting that this Sunday’s Gospel reading celebrated the Feast of our Lord’s Baptism, Lori noted, because “Baptism enables us to share in God’s own divine life through sanctifying grace.” Moreover, if God loved us so much that He gave us the Sacrament of Baptism, He must truly value our humanity. We, in turn, are commissioned with protecting this precious gift of life, Bishop Lori explained during his homily. The commitment of the Fairfield parish to its youth was evident through this special liturgical service. Several young people handed out prayers in celebration of new life in the church vestibule before Mass. Among the concelebrants with Bishop Lori were Msgr. Ernest T. Esposito, director of the diocese’s Respect for Life ministry; and Msgr. Lawrence J. Carroll, pastor of Saint Pius X. Many young people joined the clergy at the altar. Two high school cantors, Eric Regan and Tom Huerta, led the congregation in the responsorial psalm. Scripture readers Michael O’Neill and Katie Tangney are also part of the parish’s youth group. Offering praise and thanksgiving to our Lord through song, Saint Pius X’s Schola Choir, comprised of students in grades four to eight, joined the church’s adult choir for Sunday’s liturgy. Michele Modugno, a member of the youth ministry team, said the parish is blessed to have so many young people involved in the church. “Older people who have been at this parish a long time love to see so many young people getting active,” she noted. “It keeps the parish flourishing. They also realize that the young people’s faith is flourishing, too.” At the end of the Mass, Msgr. Esposito introduced Katie Landry, a college student and graduate of Saint Joseph’s High School in Trumbull, and Anne Marie Romano, a parent and nurse. They both talked about the importance of par- ticipating in the annual March for Life, held on January 22 in Washington, D.C. Joining the group from Fairfield County for the first time last year, Landry explained how amazed she was to see so many gathered at the country’s capitol to support the pro-life movement. She was especially moved by the sight of women wearing black tee-shirts displaying the message, “I regret my abortion.” “I couldn’t believe the courage these women had,” Landry noted. She ended her testimony by imploring people to support life by praying. “If you can’t go to the March, please pray,” Landry said. “Pro-life isn’t just an opinion; it’s a lifestyle.” Sister Dorothy Guadalupe, a member of the Sisters of Life religious order, agrees. “Our order is dedicated to protecting the sanctity of human life at every stage of life,” she said. “The Mass is the best way to promote this.” The Sisters of Life, based in Stamford, attend Masses for New Life throughout the diocese. They also support Our Sacred Heart Convent’s program for pregnant women and the Villa Maria Retreat House, which she describes as “a place of healing and mercy.” “We serve those who are ➤ see Mass for Life on p. 7 DELIGHT IN HER GRANDCHILD suffused the face of a woman attending the Mass for Life, celebrated by Bishop Lori at Saint Pius X Parish in Fairfield on January 10. “We must protect this precious gift of life,” Bishop Lori told the congregation. (Photo by Karen Leffler) Make an investment that will last a lifetime. A commitment to Shepherds will change the direction of a young person’s life. Shepherds’ unique Sponsor/ Mentor relationship has an eleven-year proven track record of helping “at-risk” inner city youths reach their highest academic and personal potential. Sponsors provide tuition support at non-public partnership high schools. 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Call Shepherds at: (203)367-4273 or email: [email protected] today. 6 January 2010 WW II Hero Remembered St. Vincent’s ER named for Michael Daly By BRIAN WALLACE “With his name on the building we are honor bound to make Mike Daly proud, and we will,” said St. Vincent’s President/CEO Susan Davis at the dedication of the new Michael J. Daly Center for Emergency and Trauma Care of St. Vincent’s Medical Center. More than 150 invited guests turned out for the dedication ceremony and tours of the new 40,000 square foot facility with a full acre of space. The gathering brought together friends and family, including Daly’s wife Margaret “Maggie” Daly and his two grown children, Deirdre and Mickey. The pride in the room was unmistakable when the new signage was unveiled naming the ER for Daly. The World War II Congressional Medal of Honor winner who could have had bridges, roads and public buildings named for him decided in the end to have his name associated with St. Vincent’s, where he had served as a board member for 30 years. The ceremony began with a Color Guard from Fairfield American Legion Post 143 and 74 and Disabled Veterans of American Chapter 19. Father Samuel Scott, a friend of Daly’s who officiated at his funeral in August 2008 at Saint Pius X Parish in Fairfield, delivered the invocation. named after him and “acceeded only in the last few months of his life” to have the new ER named in his memory. Daly grew up on farm in Southport and became a fixture of town life from his office in the old Tide Mill Building on Southport Harbor, where he ran business in the oil industry. Medal of Honor He entered the U. S. Military Academy in 1942 and enlisted a year later. He took part in the D-Day invasion and later entered Nuremberg with the Army’s Third Infantry Division on August 23, 1945. The 20-year old captain was presented the Congressional Medal DALY FRIENDS AND FAMILY – Margaret “Maggie” Daly (seated), widow of the late war hero and philanthropist Michael J. Daly, is surrounded by family member and friends at the recent dedication ceremony for the new St. Vincent’ ER named in Mr. Daly’s memory. Her daughter Deirdre Daly (seated next to Mrs. Daly) and son, Mickey (standing second from left) toured the new facility and thanked those in attendance. Daly was fondly and tearfully remembered as a war hero, father, friend and philanthro- Man of Faith Father Scott, who now serves as rector of Saint John Fisher Seminary in Stamford, said that Michael Daly understood that faith rescued people from slavery and sin, and chose to support the Emergency Room where patients “may be rescued from the grip of death.” Michael J. Daly pist, who cared deeply about people and tried to serve them through his efforts as the longest-standing board member of St. Vincent’s Medical Center. Daly was a man of deep faith and was generous to many parishes. He was also one of the first to make a leadership gift toward the restoration of Saint Augustine Cathedral in Bridgeport. “The arc of his life went from the ravages of the Normandy battlefields to the solace of others” through his work as a board member and his commitment to emergency medicine, said his daughter Deirdre Daly. Describing her father as a man “of great courage and tender compassion,” Deirdre Daly said “he had the most uncanny ability to comfort unlike anyone else I’ve ever known.” She said he had the highest regard for physicians and was committed to the emergency department “as a place of great caring and a safety net for the community. He loved the hospital more than anything else he did.” Susan Davis, who thanked the many family members and friends who attended the dedication said that as a board member Daly’s support for the Medical Center was based on “his commitment to quality”. of Honor at the White House by President Harry Truman for his bravery in saving his company under sniper fire. Ron Bianchi, President of the St. Vincent’s Medical Center Foundation and longtime friend of Daly, described him as “a board member like no other. His loyalty had no boundaries.” Bianchi said the dedication was a great moment because it represented the wonderful legacy of Michael Daly “with a new chapter in the history of St. Vincent’s.” Now that the new Emergency Room is open, renovations will begin on the old ER. When completed in the fall of 2010, the Michael J. Daly Center for Trauma & Emergency Care will provide 60 beds, an increase of 32 over the current number The 40,000 square foot structure will include specialized trauma and critical care suites, a “Fast Track” area for minor case needs, dedicated OB/GYN rooms, a pediatric area, and an expanded behavioral health and psychiatric area with focus on privacy and safety. For more information visit the St. Vincent’s website at www.stvincents.org. v “‘The arc of his life went from the ravages of the Normandy battlefields to the solace of others’ through his work as a board member.” Conscience of the Board Describing him as a war hero, a gentle giant, and man of great humility, she said that Michael Daly was “the conscience of the board and an advocate of always doing what’s right for the patient.” She said that putting Daly’s name to the emergency room was “a way of remembering Mike forever.” New signage was unveiled at the end of the ceremony to applause from the group. Jonathan Dawson of Norwalk, a long time friend of Daly, said that the reticent hero refused all offers to have things 7 January 2010 Haitian earthquake Health Reform Update: Pope prays for Haiti victims Urgent: USCCB Bulletin Stop Abortion Funding in Health Care Reform! Protect Conscience Ensure Affordable Health Coverage Allow Immigrants to Purchase Private Health Insurance As long-time advocates of health care reform, the U.S. Catholic bishops continue to make the moral case that genuine health care reform must protect the life, dignity, consciences and health of all, especially the poor and vulnerable. Health care reform should not advance a pro-abortion agenda in our country. • On November 7, the U.S. House of Representatives passed major health care reform that reaffirms the essential, longstanding, and widely supported policy against using federal funds for elective abortions and includes positive measures on affordability and immigrants. • On December 24, the U.S. Senate rejected this policy and passed health care reform that requires federal funds to help subsidize and promote health plans that cover elective abortions. All purchasers of such plans will be required to pay for other people’s abortions through a separate payment solely to pay for abortion. • Outside the abortion context, neither bill has adequate conscience protection for health care providers, plans or employers. • These two bills must now be combined into one bill that both the House and Senate will vote on in final form. Provisions against abortion funding and in favor of conscience protection, affordability, and immigrants’ access to health care must be part of a fair and just health care reform bill, or the final bill must be opposed. ACTION: Contact your Representative and Senators today by e-mail, phone or FAX: • To send a pre-written, instant e-mail to Congress go to www.usccb.org/action. • Call the U.S. Capitol switchboard at: (202) 224-3121, or call your members’ local offices. Contact info can be found on members’ web sites at www.house.gov & www.senate.gov. By JOHN THAVIS VATICAN CITY (CNS) -Pope Benedict XVI prayed for victims of a massive earthquake in Haiti and urged the international community to provide generous assistance to the stricken population of the Caribbean nation. Catastrophe The pope made his appeal at the end of his general audience on January 13, some 12 hours after a magnitude 7 earthquake struck Haiti, toppling buildings and causing widespread destruction. The number of casualties was not immediately known, but local officials called it a major catastrophe. The pope said he wanted to highlight the dramatic situation in Haiti following the devastating earthquake. “I appeal to the generosity of everyone, so that our brothers and sisters receive our concrete solidarity and the effective support of the international community in this moment of need and suffering,” he said. He said the Catholic Church’s charity organizations would immediately move into action to assist those in need. “I invite everyone to join in my prayer to the Lord for the victims of this catastrophe and for those who are mourning their loss. I assure my spiritual closeness to people who have lost their homes, imploring from God consolation and relief of their suffering,” he said. Caritas Internationalis, the Vatican-based umbrella organization for Catholic Charities, said it was mobilizing to provide immediate assistance to Haiti. Caritas Internationalis Humanitarian Director Alistair Dutton was leading the emergency relief team, Caritas said in a statement. Over 200 Hospitals “A priority for Caritas will be to assess the damage and our local capacity to provide aid to survivors of the quake. Caritas runs over 200 hospitals and medical centers in Haiti. It is experienced and prepared to respond to humanitarian disasters there as a result of the frequent hurricanes,” he said. “Communication with our staff on the ground is difficult, but we are piecing together a picture of desperate need. Haiti is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. Conflict, recent natural disasters, and poverty have left Haitians with weak infrastructure. Working in that environment will be difficult,” he said. Caritas also said the U.S.based Catholic Relief Services had been in communication with its staff in Haiti. Local Response In Connecticut, the Diocese of Norwich reported that two of the staff members from its Haitian Ministries were trapped in their mission house in Haiti. In the Diocese of Bridgeport, two parishes serve large Haitian communities, Saint Charles Borromeo in Bridgeport and Saint John the Evangelist in Stamford, along with the Haitian American Catholic Center in Stamford. Bishop Lori said he “was deeply concerned” given the many family and personal ties that many people throughout the diocese have with Haiti and that the diocese would response “with prayer and support.” Al Barber, CEO of Catholic Charities, said he and his team will be assessing the situation and looking for ways to provide relief. (For more information on the diocesan response to the disaster, visit the website at v www.bridgeportdiocese.com.) MESSAGE – HOUSE: “I am pleased that the House health care bill maintains the longstanding policy against federal funding of abortion. I urge you to work to uphold essential provisions against abortion funding, to include full conscience protection and to assure that health care is accessible and affordable for all. Until and unless these criteria are met, I urge you to oppose the final bill.” MESSAGE – SENATE: “I am deeply disappointed that the Senate health care bill fails to maintain the longstanding policy against federal funding of abortion and does not include adequate protection for conscience. I urge you to support essential provisions against abortion funding, similar to those in the House bill. Include full conscience protection and assure that health care is accessible and affordable for all. Until and unless these criteria are met, I urge you to oppose the final bill.” WHEN: Votes in the House and Senate on the final bill are expected in January. Act today! Thank You! Mass for Life ➤ active in promoting the culture of life and those who are wounded by the culture of death,” Sister Dorothy explained. Knights The Knights of Columbus were also on hand at Sunday’s Mass to lend their support for life. Gary Thomas, of Monroe, and the Knights’ district deputy in New Haven, noted that the fraternal organization has contributed millions of dollars to pro-life causes. “One of the principles of the Knights of v continued from p. 5 Columbus is, in fact, being prolife,” he added. During a procession, a local family, escorted by the Knights, bestowed a beautiful array of roses to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Sister Dorothy also read a prayer to Saint Mary asking for continual grace and protection. (Space is still available on busses leaving for the March for Life on January 22. For prices and availability, call the Respect Life Office: 416-1444, or e-mail v [email protected]). Starts Friday, January 22 19723 EXTRAORDINARY MEASURES FAITH BASED AD 6" X 8" BW RUN DATE: JAN 2010 AD DUE: 12/23/09 TERRY HINES: 1/4/10 mech02 8 January 2010 Former pastor of Saint Mark, Stratford Msgr. Lawrence J. McMahon dies at 82 By BRIAN WALLACE Msgr. Lawrence J. McMahon, retired pastor of Saint Mark Parish in Stratford, died on December 15 at St. Vincent’s Medical Center. He was 82 years old. Remembered as an affable, devout priest with a gifted singing voice and an easy manner with people, Msgr. McMahon was recalled fondly by many parishioners as a real version of Father O’Malley in the noted film “Going my Way.” He was known for his singing in many parish productions and fund raisers. Born in Bridgeport on May 19, 1927, Msgr. McMahon was a member of Saint Charles Borromeo Parish, where he attended school and served as an altar boy. His interest in music began early on; during his grammar school days he was a soloist in the Saint Charles Boy’s Choir. He later attended Harding High School and graduated from Fairfield Prep in 1945. He served in the U.S. Army Quartermaster Corps at the end of World War II, and entered Saint Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield in 1947. Army Vet “I met him my freshman year in the seminary, when he had just come out of the army,” recalls Msgr. John Gilmartin, retired pastor of Our Lady of Peace Parish in Stratford, who remained a good friend of Msgr. Sainthood ➤ Catholic Church. The Vatican’s sainthood congregation had assembled the necessary documents for Pope Pius’s beatification cause in 2004. Subsequent evaluations by historians, theologians, and was appointed spiritual director of Saint Joseph High School with residence at Saint Joseph Parish in Shelton, and in 1967 added an assignment as diocesan director of the Family Life Bureau. Msgr. McMahon was a Fourth Degree member of the Saint Theresa Knights of Columbus. During his priesthood, he also served as an advisor at the Bridgeport Juvenile Court, an advocate on the Msgr. Lawrence J. McMahon Diocesan Tribunal, and chaplain at St. McMahon’s throughout the fol- Vincent’s Medical Center. He lowing 62 years. was chaplain of the Stratford The two would travel togeth- Police Department, a member er, and met frequently for dinof the diocesan Presbyterial ner when they were both pastors Council, and a former member in Stratford. “He had a touch of of the board of admissions for class,” Msgr. Gilmartin remem- the St. John Fisher Seminary. bered. “He’d needle me, but it Pastor of Saint Mark’s was with a quiet, understated In 1969, Msgr. McMahon humor.” became pastor of Saint Mark Msgr. McMahon completed Parish, a position he would his seminary studies at Saint hold for 34 years. On August 3, Mary Seminary in Baltimore in 1991, he was elevated to Prelate 1949. He was ordained in Saint of Honor by His Holiness Pope Augustine Cathedral in 1955 John Paul II. by Bishop Lawrence J. Shehan, “He knew everybody in his first bishop of Bridgeport. parish by name,” says Msgr. Msgr. McMahon’s first Gilmartin. “Because all his assignment was as parochial assignments were in the same vicar of Saint Theresa Parish area, he baptized most of them, in Trumbull, where he served saw them in CYO and gramfor eight years. In 1963, he mar school, was their chaplain continued from p. 2 a panel of cardinals and bishops resulted in the recommendation in 2007 to proceed with the advancement of the beatification process. But later that year, in a highly unusual step, Pope Benedict appointed a commis- Total Office Solutions CBS provides total office solutions for more than 12,000 tri- state customers. Increase productivity and efficiency while improving your bottom line. 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Other experts have published evidence to show that the late pope worked quietly but effectively to save the lives of thousands of Jews during World War II. Late in 2008, marking the 50th anniversary of Pope Pius’ death, Pope Benedict praised the pope for his extraordinary intelligence, excellent memory, great fluency in foreign languages, “remarkable sensitivity,” an unwavering dedication to God and a deep love for Christ, the church and humanity. Pope Benedict said at the time that the church was “praying that (his) beatification cause may proceed happily.” (Supplied by Catholic News Service) at Saint Joseph’s, and probably married half of them. He remembered every one. His good deeds live after him.” In return, Msgr. McMahon is fondly remembered by Saint Mark’s parishioners for his participation in the 25 musicals and 20 cabarets the parish started over the years, including the popular St. Patrick Corned Beef Cabarets. Msgr. McMahon was featured in various roles, playing everything from the Wizard of Oz to an Episcopal clergyman in parish productions. “People get to know you in a Clergy Residence in Stamford, where he continued to help out in parishes throughout the diocese. On December 20, Msgr. McMahon’s body was received at Saint Mark Church at 2 p.m. A parish Vigil Mass was celebrated at 7 p.m. Msgr. Laurence Carroll, pastor of Saint Pius X Parish in Fairfield, was the principal celebrant; Father Michael Lyons, parochial vicar at Notre Dame Parish in Easton, gave the homily. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated at Saint Mark’s on December 21 at 11 a.m. Bishop William E. Lori was the celebrant; Msgr. Carroll delivered the homily. Interment followed in Saint Michael Cemetery, Stratford, with full military honors. A memorial Mass for Msgr. McMahon was celebrated at Saint Bridget of Ireland Parish, Stamford, on January 6 at 7 p.m. for his fellow priests at the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Clergy retired priests residence. v “He had a touch of class,” Msgr. Gilmartin remembered. “He’d needle me, but it was with a quiet, understated humor.” different light. It makes them less hesitant to come to you with their problems,” he said of his roles. Msgr. McMahon retired as pastor of Saint Mark’s in 2003 and moved to the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Mass Confusion BY FATHER F. JOHN RINGLEY, JR. Music As I greeted parishioners after Mass one Sunday, a woman stopped to say how much she loves the music in our parish. Two minutes later a man stopped to say how much he dislikes the music in our parish. There are also those who tell me they prefer Mass with no music at all. To some extent, this cacophony can be explained by the ancient proverb de gustibus non disputandum: “There is no disputing about tastes”. At the same time, the choice of music for the Mass has never been left to the individual taste of the music director, the pastor, or anyone else. The Second Vatican Council’s teaching on music is rather broad, but we can extract a few points that give us a starting place for discussion. First, “for the celebration … of the Eucharist on Sundays and feast days, a form of sung Mass is to be preferred as much as possible…” (MS 27). That is, the Church prefers singing over not singing. So, what sort of music should be sung? “The Church recognizes Gregorian chant as being especially suited to the Roman liturgy. Therefore, other things being equal, it should be given pride of place in liturgical services” (SC 116). Not only has Gregorian chant not been given pride of place in the average liturgical service, but it holds almost no place at all. This is certainly not what the Council intended. Furthermore, “although a suitable place may be allotted to the vernacular [e.g. English, Spanish, etc.] in Masses… care must be taken to ensure that the faithful may also be able to say or sing together in Latin the parts of the Mass which pertain to them” (SC 54). This has certainly not been done. While the Council did teach that other types of suitable music COULD be used in the Mass, if we are honest with ourselves, we must admit that we have ignored the Council’s teaching about what kind of music SHOULD be used. Sources: Musicam Sacram (1967) [post-Vat. II]; Sacrosanctum Concilium (1962) [Vat. II]; General Instruction of the Roman Missal (2002) no. 48. (Father Ringley is spiritual director at Kolbe-Cathedral High School in Bridgeport.) v 9 January 2010 Chaplain of Saint Joseph’s Manor Father Alfred E. Russo, 80 By PAT HENNESSY Father Alfred E. Russo died in Stamford Hospital on December 13 after a long illness. He was 80 years old. A social, gregarious man, Father Russo made friends wherever he was assigned, and kept those friends throughout his life. In his last assignment as resident chaplain at Saint Joseph’s Manor in Trumbull, he was beloved not only for his warm smile and kindness, but for Father Alfred E. Russo his readiness to kid around with patients after Mass or during pastoral visits. “He had a great way with patients,” says Stephen Roche, a neighbor of Father Russo’s in Saint Joseph’s Theresian Towers and a good friend. “He kept in contact with people from past parishes, and he was always ready to help people.” Military Service Father Russo was born and raised in New Britain, and received his sacraments at Saint Ann Parish there. He began his studies for the priesthood at the School of Saint Philip Neri in Boston, MA., but interrupted them to serve in the United States Army as a corporal from 1951-53. Because of his background, he served as chaplain’s assistant in the military. Returning home, he entered Our Lady of Mercy Seminary in Lenox, MA, and completed his theological studies at our Lady of Angels Seminary in Albany, NY. He was ordained by Bishop Walter W. Curtis in Saint Augustine Cathedral in Bridgeport on May 26, 1962. His first appointment was as parochial vicar of Saint Joseph Parish in Danbury. Father Russo held that appointment while teaching religion on the faculty of Immaculate High School in Danbury from 1962-63. He later served at Saint Philip Parish in Norwalk, Sacred Heart Parish in Greenwich, and Saint Gregory the Great Parish in Danbury. “He had a great way with patients. He was always ready to help people.” Highlight In 1989, Father Russo was named temporary administrator of Saint Roch Parish in Greenwich. Following that appointment, he served at Saint Rose of Lima Parish in Newtown, Sacred Heart Parish in Stamford, and Saint Mary Parish in Ridgefield. A highlight of Father Russo’s life was meeting Pope John Paul II in 1981. Throughout his priesthood Father Russo continued his studies, receiving a master’s degree in pastoral counseling from Iona College in New Rochelle, NY, and pursuing a doctoral degree at Saint Mary Seminary University in Baltimore, MD. In 1995, Father Russo came to Saint Joseph’s Manor. “He made the effort to make people comfortable,” says Joan Boesch, director of pastoral care at the Manor, who has known him for over a dozen years. “If they were Italian he’d use the few words that he knew, or he’d learn some words in their language.” The pastoral care staff treasures a note from a woman whose mother had been a resident of the Manor. “He endeared himself to her and us as he exchanged Polish words and phrases,” she wrote. “That was part of his personality – how he got to know people and how they knew him,” says Boesch. “He would come over to anoint people and be with families at any hour. Because he lived here, they were his family.” Father Russo retired to the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of Clergy Residence in 2007. He was received into Saint Bridget of Ireland Parish in Stamford, next door to the Queen of Clergy Residence, at 5 p.m. on December 18. A parish Mass was celebrated for Father Russo at Saint Bridget by Bishop William E. Lori that evening at 7 p.m. Bishop Lori also delivered the homily. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Father Russo at Saint Ann’s in New Britain, his home parish, the following morning at 11:30 a.m. Msgr. Kevin Royal, vicar of clergy personnel, was the principal celebrant and homilist. Interment with full Military Honors followed in the Garden Mausoleum at Saint Mary Cemetery, New Britain. v Pastor of Saint John, Darien; Saint Luke, Westport Msgr. Pierre A. Botton, 80 By PAT HENNESSY Msgr. Pierre A. Botton, former pastor of both Saint John Parish in Darien and Saint Luke Parish in Westport, died on January 3 at Rosenthal Hospice in Stamford. He was 80 years old. Born in 1929 in Lyon, France, he attended the Grand Seminary of Saint Sulpice, Issy-les-Moulineaux, France, and completed his seminary education at Saint Joseph’s Seminary in Yonkers, NY, and Mount Saint Mary Seminary, Emmitsburg, MD. He was ordained on June 2, 1956, at Saint Mary Parish by Bishop (later Cardinal) Lawrence Shehan. Musically Gifted Father Botton’s first assignment was a parochial vicar of Saint Cecilia Parish in Stamford. Musically gifted, he directed the parish’s adult and boys’ choirs. In addition to parish duties, he taught religion at Stamford Catholic High School (now Trinity Catholic). In 1965, he was appointed to the faculty of the former Saint Mary’s Boys High School in Greenwich, becoming head of the French department and director of the glee club. While there he was resident priest first at Saint Roch Parish in Greenwich, then at Sacred Heart Parish in Byram. He was named pastor of Saint John Parish in Darien in 1972 and was pastor of Saint Luke Parish in Westport from 1990-97. He served as chair of the Darien Clergy Association and the Board of Commissioners of Social Service, and became chaplain of the Darien and Noroton Msgr. Botton was senior priest at Saint Matthew’s until 2006, when he entered the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Clergy Residence in Stamford. “He created a Bible study that still continues, and shared in the RCIA process,” says Msgr. Orlowski. “He loved preaching, and he loved being with people. He turned his love of music into a hymn of praise in all that he did.” Msgr. Botton is survived by his sister and brother-inlaw, Madeleine and Loretto Buzzeo of Stamford, as well as a niece and nephew. He was received Msgr. Pierre A. Botton into Saint John’s on January 6 at 5 p.m. Msgr. McGrath celebrated the parish vigil Mass at 7 p.m. and delivered the homily. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for in 1979,” says Msgr. Walter Msgr. Botton the following Orlowski, pastor of Saint morning by Bishop William Matthew Parish in Norwalk. E. Lori. Msgr. Walter He was named a Prelate of Orlowski, was the homilist. Honor to His Holiness, Pope Interment followed at Saint John Paul II, with the title of Mary Cemetery in Ridgefield. Monsignor, in 1996. He will be received into Enthusiasm Saint John’s on January 6 “In his assignment as pastor at 5 p.m., followed by the of Saint Luke’s, I was his neigh- parish vigil Mass at 7 p.m. bor at Assumption,” says Frank A Mass of Christian Burial McGrath, the current pastor of will be celebrated for Msgr. Saint John’s. “He inspired me Botton at Saint John’s the with his enthusiasm, love for following morning at 10:30 the priesthood, and dedication a.m. Interment will follow to his people.” at Saint Mary Cemetery in Ridgefield. v Following his retirement, Fire Departments. Deeply interested in liturgical music, he led choirs in the parish in which he served, and was a member of the diocesan Music Board. “He coordinated the music for our ordination “He turned his love of music into a hymn of praise in all that he did.” For whatever is important to you. If you are a homeowner age 62 or older, a Reverse Mortgage can give you peace of mind. You’ll have tax-free* cash for whatever you want or need, without depending on others or burdening your heirs. - Stay in your home and retain the title - Pay no monthly mortgage payments - Use the cash any way you want Contact our specialists today to learn more! 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A large part of their work is spent assisting in family reunification, aiding a working adult with legal papers in the convoluted process needed to bring a spouse or children into the country. Immorality Mis-information “I think there’s so much mis-information out there about immigrants,” says Alex Arévalo, immigration counselor for Catholic Charities. “The best way to help immigrants may be simply to keep your eyes open, keep your mind open. Immigrants are proud people. They’re not looking for a handout. They want to work in peace and provide for their families.” Statistics show that, over time, immigrants adjust to the culture, learn English, hold down jobs, pay taxes, buy houses, and contribute to the economic well-being of the country. Frequently, the current legal system interferes with this process. “I answered a call this morning from the father of a child who’s only a year and a half old,” Arévelo says. “His wife “Look at the ships also; though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So the tongue is a little member and boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire! And the tongue is a fire” (James 3:4-6). I once heard a story about a penitent who confessed the sin of gossip. For his penance, the priest asked him to take his morning newspaper and cut it up into tiny little pieces. Then he was to walk up to the top of Windy Hill and throw the pieces of the newspaper up in the air and watch them blow away. The man did as he was instructed. Impossible to Remedy Afterward, the man returned to the priest, who then told him to go back up the hill and collect all of the pieces of the newspaper and reassemble it. The man’s face sunk into his hands as is being deported. He and his child are citizens, but the couple is going to be separated and it will be ten years before his wife can return. This is a fact. There is nothing that can be done about it; the family will be torn apart. Our role is to help them deal with it for the best interest of the child.” Legal Advice In this particular case, the wife has been here for over 20 years – since she was a child herself. She is terrified of being sent to a country she doesn’t know, where she has little chance of finding work. Sister Nancy Charlsworth, director of Immigration Services, says that people often misunderstand the role of the immigration office, believing that they try to get around the law. “We have never done simply counsel families. A great percentage of our work is just sitting with people, listening to “I answered a call this morning from the father of a child who’s only a year and a half old,” Arévelo says. “His wife is being deported. He and his child are citizens, but the couple is going to be separated and it will be ten years before his wife can return.” that,” she emphasizes. “We assist them in searching for all legal possibilities, and help them get in touch with a lawyer. In a situation like this, we them.” The main focus of the Immigration Office is working with migrants who are here legally. They encourage them to Soul Food BY FATHER TERRY WALSH The Rudder he began to realize with great remorse the effect of his sin. And when the word of gossip proves to be false, so much greater is the sin. Words matter. Jesus said, “On the day of judgment men will render an account for every careless word they utter; for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned”(Mt 12:36). Words reveal character, “For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks”(Mt 12:34). Thank God for the gift of Confession. So often in the Gospels, Jesus draws attention to the heart of man. The Sermon on the Mount reveals, “Blessed are the pure of heart, for they shall see God.” He “No human being can tame the tongue – a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse men.” calls us to turn our hearts away from selfish intentions and instead allow Him to fill our hearts with the graces we need to grow in holiness, to seek purity in word and deed. Indeed, Saint James insists Very often, legislation makes it more difficult to obtain legal status, reunify families, and lead hardworking, productive lives. Sometimes proposed laws mask a bias against newcomers. “Under one proposal for the health care bill, even legal immigrants wouldn’t be able to buy into the system – even with their own money,” says Sister Nancy. “The immorality of that position is incredible!” Arévalo hopes that comprehensive immigration reform, one of the items before Congress in this legislative session, will take a different approach. He wishes legislators would follow the model suggested by Pope Benedict and the USCCB, and offer migrants a chance to have settled, productive lives. “Give people the tools and the freedom to get a job. Let them work in peace and provide for their families, whether the families are here or in their own country,” he says. Perhaps the way to become part of the Church’s initiative, he and Sister Nancy believe, is simply to welcome newcomers to your neighborhood. “It helps if we don’t think of them as immigrants,” Sister Nancy says. “Think of them as families: a father, a mother, their children. Help them as neighbors. That’s our responsibility as individuals and as Christians.” v give us the wisdom and the strength to love. Through prayer, these graces will have greater efficacy in us and so purify us in word and deed and render peace. Vices Bubble Up that without God’s help, our ship is sunk: “No human being can tame the tongue – a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who are made in the likeness of God” (James 3:8). In order to tame the tongue, we need grace. If we humbly ask for a pure heart, our Lord will pilot our ship through all the turbulent seas, and we will never have an unkind word to utter about anyone, especially a word that is false. Prayer is the key. It opens the heart, inviting God to enter our souls. Prayer prepares us to receive a greater measure of the Living Waters, that is, the abundant graces of the Eucharist, Confession, and so on, which If we lack peace in our heart, we run the risk of filling that void with various vices that bubble to the surface of our hearts and spill out of our mouths causing all sorts of fires in the form of slander, rash judgment, even calumny. Our Lord Himself suffered these horrible attacks – even from the very people he did so much to help. Our words carry great weight. We need to guard them. Our Lord stands ready to help us – if we ask. For your next assignment, read Joel Chapter 2 and Isaiah Chapter 58 and consider what is pleasing to God. (Father Terry Walsh is parochial vicar of Saint John the Evangelist Basilica, v Stamford.) 11 January 2010 Catholic Charities Executive Mercy Learning Center William Hoey Hosts Holiday Tea Party named Mission VP at St. Vincent’s BRIDGEPORT, CT, Jan. 5, 2010 – William Hoey, LCSW, has been appointed vice president of mission services for St. Vincent’s Health Services. The announcement was made by President/CEO Susan L. Davis, RN, EdD. Merton campus; a reorganization of mental health services resulting in a productive working relationship with HallBrooke Behavioral Health; an early childhood consultation project providing clinical assessment for at-risk children in Head Start and school readiness programs; a community outreach and prison ministry program; a program providing formal representation to immigrants; and a program of clergy and victim assistance counseling for victims of sexual abuse. Social Service William Hoey, LCSW Hoey, a licensed clinical social worker, comes to St. Vincent’s from Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Bridgeport where he most recently served as vice president, overseeing all aspects of the multi-program Catholic Family Services agency. Energy and Creativity “St. Vincent’s is fortunate to have Bill Hoey joining us in this important role, as he possesses a strong mission focus, excellent interpersonal skills and a track record that demonstrates his leadership and his ability to collaborate and bring diverse groups together to work effectively,” said Dr. Davis. “We welcome his energy and creativity in supporting our mission and its outreach to the community.” While at Catholic Charities, Hoey was instrumental in developing a seven million dollar housing project currently under construction at the Thomas Prior to the last seven years at Catholic Charities, Hoey served as director of employee assistance programs at Family Services Woodfield, and earlier held administrative positions in employee assistance, community relations and a number of social service areas with organizations including Bridge House Inc, Guenster Rehabilitation Center, and The Children’s Center. After graduating with a bachelor of arts degree in soci- “Bill Hoey possesses a strong mission focus, excellent interpersonal skills and a track record that demonstrates his leadership.” T T T ology from Saint Anselm’s College, Hoey earned his master’s in social work with a dual concentration in clinical and administration from Fordham University. A past president, he currently serves on the board of Bridge House and is a past board co-chair at the Greater Bridgeport HUD Continuum of Care. Hoey resides with his wife and son in Northford. v &2%%"//+ ABOUT h4HE0ASSIONv T TT You what now read Youhave have seen seen the the movie, movie, now read what 9OUHAVESEENTHEMOVIENOWREADWHAT Jesus says about the meaning of His Passion Jesus says about meaning of Passion *ESUSSAYSABOUTTHEMEANINGOF(IS0ASSION as dictated to Catalina Rivas. ASDICTATEDTOSTIGMATIST#ATALINA2IVAS as dictated to stigmatist, Catalina Rivas. 4HISPAGEBOOKHASTHEh)MPRIMATURvANDIS RECOMMENDEDFORMEDITATION-RS2IVASWAS FEATUREDINTHERECENT&/846SPECIALh3IGNS FROM'ODvTHATWASBROADCASTWORLDWIDE 4ORECEIVETHISBOOKSENDYOURNAMEANDADDRESS WITHFORSHIPPINGHANDLINGTO ,OVE-ERCY0UBLICATIONS 0/"OX (AMPSTEAD.# BRIDGEPORT – Volunteer literacy tutors and their adult education students at Mercy Learning Center were treated to festive Holiday Tea Parties to celebrate their first semester accomplishments and to thank the dedicated tutors for their gift of time. More than 200 ESL, math, and/ or reading tutors, volunteers, and students attended parties that were held on December 8, 9, and 10. An array of tea sandwiches and desserts were donated by the Westport Chapter of the National Charity League and coordinated by Tammy Barry of Westport. The tea party hosts included Mercy Learning Center’s Tutor Coordinator Diane Holmes, Student Enrichment Coordinator Sharon Sanford, Learning Specialist Evan Levinson, and President and CEO Jane Ferreira. 40 Countries Women enrolled in the Center’s literacy and life skills programs hail from more than 40 countries, many of whom shared stories of their special time each year when we take time to celebrate the holidays with our passionate holiday traditions. Mercy Learning Center President and CEO Jane Ferreira congratulated students, thanked volunteers, and led a sharing of holiday customs, while Tutor Coordinator Diane Holmes orchestrated a gift raffle and sing-a-long. Holmes remarked, “This is a volunteers and their hardworking students. It gives us the opportunity to affirm their efforts to increase their language and math skills.” (To learn more about Mercy Learning Center or explore volunteer opportunities, visit its website www.mercylearningcenter.org or call 203-334-6699.) v P erhaps the greatest joy in retiring is knowing you can live life to its fullest. Maintaining your independence and helping you enjoy life is our only goal at Carmel Ridge and Teresian Towers. Located on the grounds of St. Joseph’s Manor, our unique retirement community provides the support and security you may need to live life to its fullest, including 24-hour medical and security services, nursing staff, shopping transportation, and optional meal plan. Day-to-day living is enhanced by an on-site chapel, library, recreation hall, crafts room, swimming pool, and nearby golfing. We would like to help you make the next years the finest of your life. 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The mental image of another family from the same corner of the world inspired Al Forte, a member of Saint Matthew Parish in Norwalk, on his own walk to promote peace in the world. Inspiration Forte had his inspiration one day at Mass. “I was early, and while I was sitting there, an image came into my mind of a Muslim mother and father, grieving over their dead children,” he recalls. He has no idea where this image came from, but being a parent he could imagine the pain of that tragedy, which plays out daily in our newspapers and televisions. The sadness of the image stayed with him during the Mass. “When I came back after Communion, I heard a voice say, ‘Al, you can do something,’” he recalls. He pauses, flashes a knowing grin, and affirms, “A voice. It was that clear.” What, exactly, Forte could do was not so clear. While he pondered the possibilities, he noticed the number of walks for cancer and walks to fight hunger. “Nobody would have believed me if I said I was going to walk halfway across the country for peace,” he says. “In fact, I wouldn’t have believed me. So it was pretty clear to me that I would have to do this alone.” “YOU CAN HEAR THE WIND RUSTLING through the cornfields,” says Al Forte, who walked from New York to Chicago to promote Prayer for Peace, handing out prayer cards along the way. He says that sometimes he had the feeling of the Holy Spirit behind him, like a cool breeze on a hot day, gently helping him along. (Photo by Kelli Cardinal/The Lima News, OH) The Holy Spirit, as Forte would be the first to tell you, works in surprising ways. A gung-ho baseball fan, he imagined a route that would take him to Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Cleveland, and Detroit, winding up at the corner of Michigan and Ohio Avenues in the center of Chicago. “There was no point in getting to a stadium when the team was away,” he thought. “I want to hit each team when they’re in town.” He estimated that he could average about 15 miles a day, and checked the baseball schedule. “It worked out – there would be a home game in every city when I got there. That’s God’s way of roping us into stuff,” he adds with a laugh. Final Route When he set the final route, Forte’s walk covered a good chunk of the U.S., and took 79 days. “That’s 950 miles,” he says. “I’d like to say it was a thousand, but I really can’t.” At the time of his Walk for Peace, he was 65 years old. During his trek, he handed out 3,700 cards asking people to pray for peace. The card shows soldiers gathered in prayer, with the inscription “They Pray for Peace. Will You.” As he handed out his Pray for Peace cards, the most frequent response he heard was, “I do that every day.” To prepare for the long haul, Forte began walking from his home in Norwalk to Saint www.drdictation.com 800.207.1897 Trumbull, Connecticut Holy Spirit “When you walk, you can hear the wind rustling through the cornfields. If you’re coming down a mountain, you have a lot of time to observe the valley.” Sometimes he had the “Nobody would have believed me if I said I was going to walk halfway across the country for peace,” he says. “In fact, I wouldn’t have believed me.” Aloysius Parish in New Canaan for daily Mass, a distance of 6.2 miles round trip. By July 18, he was packed and ready to go. A high school friend from Queens, Joe Roth, drove backup, carrying Forte’s luggage from point to point and checking out the next day’s route. “The walk wouldn’t have lasted a week without Joe,” Forte says. “He was more concerned for my safety than I was.” Forte chose to begin his Walk for Peace after a game at Yankee Stadium. The game ran 11 innings. “By that time I didn’t care who won, I just wanted to get on the road,” he recalls. The Yankees won. Plenty of Time Accurate Medical Transcription Services Fast Turnaround No Equipment Needed One Week Free Trial mountains in Pennsylvania and the cornfields of Ohio, Forte had plenty of time to pray, and time to enjoy the beauty of the country and the friendliness of its people. Seventy-nine days on the road gave him plenty of time for prayer, for talking to people along the route, for observing the land around him. “I walked down from the Bronx through Harlem, and I was surprised at what a lovely section of the city it was,” he says. “People in Spanish Harlem kept calling me ‘Padre.’ They thought I was a priest.” From congested cities to the feeling of the Holy Spirit behind him, like a cool breeze on a hot day, gently helping him along. The walk gave him a chance to experience the variety of America’s people. “I met an Amish fireman in Pennsylvania and talked to an Amish girl in a coffee shop,” he says. Both astonished him with their contemporary life styles. “If I know so little about the Amish, who live 300 miles away, how much can I know about the lives of Iraqis and Afghanis, halfway across the world?” he muses. His most significant encounter came in York, PA, about a third of the way through his journey. “I met a man who looked down, like he was facing a hard time. I asked him how things were going,” Forte recalls. “Tough,” the man replied. “But thanks for wearing the Pray for Peace shirt. I can’t do anything about my situation, but I forgot I could still pray!” Still Walking Now that he’s home, Forte has, in a sense, kept walking. He made contact with Deacon Steve Pond and the youth group at Saint Aloysius Parish in New Canaan, and held a 12-mile Walk for Peace with them this spring. In the coming year he is expanding the outreach to other youth groups in the area. A second annual Pray for Peace Walk is planned for next May. Two thousand years ago, the Prince of Peace was born into a world already sick of war. In a New Year yearning for an end to conflicts, He offers the gift of peace through the healing of hearts. “My goal is to spread the ❖ message,” Forte says. 13 January 2010 S P E C I A L C A T H O L I C S C H O O L S S U P P L E M E N T “Portals into an exciting world,” STEM innovations generate enthusiasm for science By PAT HENNESSY “Our country doesn’t have enough engineers,” says John Cook, assistant superintendent of schools for the Diocese of Bridgeport. “The U.S. has more people going into massage therapy than engineering. But we’re going to solve the career problem; we’re going to solve the indifference problem.” Diocesan schools have introduced programs that introduce students not only to the scope and discipline that engineering studies require, but to a sense of the wonderful worlds that scientific exploration leads to. At the same time, they offer hands-on experience and combine science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM). “The STEM solution is going to revolutionize the way we teach,” says Cook. “Once you get kids seeing what engineering is, they are unbelievably interested.” the opportunity. “Ever since I was young, I was always taking things apart and putting them together,” says R. J. Cremin, a freshman at Notre Dame. Enthusiasm sparks through his voice when he talks about working with pulleys, wheels, and gears in Fairfield University’s lab. In his latest when you add weight to the vehicle. We’ve been learning a lot of physics lately.” A lot of teens are discovering that using physics, math, and mousetraps is the best possible way to spend a Saturday. “The courses are portals into an exciting world,” says Carl Philipp, assistant principal at IT’S NOT A BETTER MOUSETRAP; it’s designing an innovative use for one that captures the attention of R.J. Cremin and his classmates, participants in the High School Engineering Academy, a collaboration between diocesan high schools and Fairfield University. WHAT MAKES A ROCKET GO? Could you make one yourself? Visiting scientist Chris Kopley shows middle-school students how in the “Gateway to Engineering” summer program. Fueling Love of Science To encourage that process, the High School Engineering Academy (HSEA), an innovative Saturday morning program at Fairfield University’s School of Engineering, is fueling a love of science in students from the five Catholic high schools of the Diocese of Bridgeport. That program is now in its second year. This past summer, working in conjunction with Western Connecticut State University in Danbury, a summer program reached a younger age group – middle-school students in the Danbury area Catholic schools. The HSEA program gained overwhelming popularity among area high school students and their parents during the 2008-09 school year. This year, approximately 40 students are participating in the academy. They come from Notre Dame High School in Fairfield, St. Joseph High School in Trumbull, Kolbe-Cathedral in Bridgeport, Immaculate High School in Danbury, and Trinity Catholic in Stamford. Members of the School of Engineering faculty teach in the academy. The academy emphasizes innovation, creativity, and problem solving using the nationally recognized Project Lead the Way, based on the STEM curriculum. Each Saturday, students begin classes at 10 a.m. After a lunch break, they continue until 2:30 p.m. During their studies, they utilize facilities in Fairfield’s manufacturing, electrical, and computer engineering laboratories. This sounds like a demanding schedule for kids as young as 14, but students involved in the High School Engineering Academy seem to be hungry for project, he was challenged to create a vehicle powered by the snapping of a mousetrap – using no electricity. “You had to figure out how much energy the mousetrap has, and how much the wheels need, and how to transfer the energy from on to the other,” he explains. “Then it changes Notre Dame and coordinator of the HSEA program for the school. “It’s a dynamic program that provides students with realworld learning.” NASA Training Even while the High School Engineering Academy was getting underway, the Office for Education was preparing for an initiative for younger students. Starting in 2008, two diocesan teachers in the STEM program traveled to NASA and trained with NASA Engineers and National Science Teachers Association (NSTA) trainers in force and motion activities. Another two teachers attended in 2009. The dynamic “Gateway to Engineering” summer programs hosted in June and July at Immaculate High School in Danbury displayed the effect of their training. The two, oneweek, pre-engineering classes explored force and motion, particularly Newton’s first three laws and rocketry, with students in grades 5-8 from all six local parochial elementary schools: Saint Mary, Bethel; Saint Rose of Lima, Newtown; Saint ➤ see Stem on p. 14 where learning lives 2009 BLUE RIBBON SCHOOL NOMINEE Greenwich Catholic School is a co-educational Roman Catholic day school for Pre-K through Grade 8 students located on 38 acres in the heart of Greenwich. Our students experience an enriching spiritual environment, a diverse and challenging curriculum and a full range of after school and sports programs. To schedule a tour or receive an admissions packet, please call 203-869-4000 or email us at [email protected]. Greenwich Catholic School 471 North Street, Greenwich, Connecticut 06830 www.greenwichcatholicschool.org email: [email protected] OPEN HOUSE TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2010 PRE-KINDERGARTEN - GRADE 8 9:00AM 14 January 2010 Six in the last seven years Team continues championship tradition DANBURY – Immaculate High School’s Girls Soccer team recently became Class S State Championship/ Co-champions with Old Lyme, following a 1-1 tie in the championship game at Willowbrook Park in New Britain on November 21. Immaculate (15-3-6) continued its championship tradition, having won two consecutive state titles and six in the last seven years. The winning team is shown here with (l-r) coaches Ben Weiss and Jeff Custodio, and head Coach Nelson Mingachos, who was recently named New England High School Girls Coach of the Year by the National Soccer Coaches Association of America. Stem Science ➤ Joseph, Danbury; Saint Joseph, Josephine Ferry, science teacher Brookfield; and Saint Gregory at Saint Gregory the Great the Great and Saint PeterSchool in Danbury; and Madi Sacred Heart, Danbury. Demon, science teacher at Three diocesan teachers who Saint Rose of Lima School in had taken the NASA training Newtown. Under their guidwere involved in the program: ance, students learned Newton’s Katherin Sniffin, assistant laws, rocket design features, and principal of Sacred Heart/ fuel LH_CTad_3.91x6_12-11-07:Layout 1 possibilities. 12/11/07 12:20 PM Page Saint Peter School in Danbury; Each session was filled to continued from p. 13 capacity. Students worked online with the NASA education site and conducted hands-on experiments every day. “We invited community experts and scientists each week,” says Sniffin. Among other experts, geologist Chris Kopley demon1 strated the steps in the operation of a basic automobile engine and discussed the parts of a model rocket, which he later launched. Design a Rocket Connecticut’s oldest Catholic college preparatory school for girls is proud to celebrate Catholic Schools Month! A CADEMY OF O UR L ADY OF M ERCY Lauralton Hall 200 High Street | Milford, CT 06460 | tel: 203.877.2786 www.lauraltonhall.org “My mom wanted me to go, and I thought it would be fun,” says fifth-grader Gabrielle Goldman. Even though she had never shown an interest in science before, the idea of designing her own rocket captivated her. “The teachers knew a lot about rockets, and it was interesting to see what makes them go up,” she says. Launch Day at the end of the week, shooting off rockets the students designed themselves, was the highlight of the program. “I went to the lift-off,” says John Cook. “Each kid demonstrated what they had done, and checked out how well their plans worked.” “I made a water bottle rocket,” Gabrielle says with pride. “It went far. I hope to do it again next year with different scientists.” Her enthusiasm proves Cooks contention that, with programs like these, Catholic schools are going to solve the indifference problem and inspire the next generation of much-needed engineers and scientists. v Catholic Words BY DR. JOAN M. KELLY Doctor Doctor. From the Latin docere, meaning “to teach.” The title Doctor of the Church is bestowed upon spiritually-minded historical figures, all saints in the Christian tradition, who proved to be great Church writers, teachers, and theologians, and who became in their day outstanding witnesses to the Gospel through their commitment to the Christian way of life. Doctors of the Church have had to meet the same criteria as Fathers of the Church (orthodox doctrine, holiness of life, Church approval) with one exception, antiquity. Doctors of the Church need not have close linkage with the Patristic Age, the Age of the Early Church Fathers, extending from the first to around the eighth century. Individuals are named Doctors of the Church through either proclamations by Church councils or by papal decrees. In 1970 Pope Paul VI named the first women Doctors of the Church, Saint Catherine of Siena (13471380) and Saint Teresa of Avila (1515-1582). Saint Theresa of Lisieux (1873-1897) was given the distinction on the 100th anniversary of her death in 1997. Other notable doctors include Saint Ambrose (340-397, also a Church Father), Saint Albert,the Great (1206-1280), Saint Thomas Aquinas (1225-1274), Saint Bonaventure (1221-1274), Saint Robert Bellarmine (1542-1621), and the patron of our diocese, Saint Augustine (354-430, also a Church Father). Some of the Doctors of the Church have been honored with special titles. Two examples are Saint Augustine who is known as the Doctor of Grace because of his writings about the theology of grace, and Saint Albert the Great who is known as the Universal Doctor because of the vast extent of his theological and philosophical work. The total number of Doctors of the Church is thirty three! (Dr. Kelly, who lives in Westport, is a member of the faculty of Holy Apostles College and Seminary, Cromwell, and teaches in the Caritas Christi adult ed program at Sacred Heart Academy, v Hamden). January 2010 15 Inspiring the next generation Lab rats and sheep brains capture enthusiasm BRIDGEPORT – Saint Ann Middle School students have been working with Dr. Shannon Harding, associate professor of Fairfield University’s psychology department. Thanks to a Service Learning grant, the Saint Ann students had the opportunity to work in collaboration with Dr. Harding’s students in Fairfield University’s neuroscience laboratory. Lab Environment During these visits, the students gain extraordinary experiences in a medical lab environment, where they conduct experiments with lab rats, such as timing how long it takes the rat to find the stand in a water tank and look for patterns in how the rats find the stand. They also got to watch a cow’s eye being dissected and work on one themselves. Of course, the students’ favorite part of the visit is handling human and sheep brains and using a micrometer to slice brain tissue to prepare laboratory slides. As a result of this work, Saint Ann’s science lab received sophisticated equipment of its own, enabling the school to increase the science potential of classes at all levels. Appreciation Dr. Harding was recently recognized for her work with the students. An engraved plaque near the Saint Ann Science Lab reads, “In appreciation of Dr. Shannon Harding, whose generosity and dedication has inspired a future generation of scientists.” Upon receipt of this recognition at a recent Saint Ann School awards assembly, Dr. Harding praised science teacher Molly Thimons for her work with the students, saying that it was a teacher like Thimons who inspired her to v become a scientist. CUDDLING HIS RAT, Andrew LaFleur (right) joins Saint Ann students (l-r) Nick Grasso, Joane Delia, Gabbi Torres, and Octavia Cathey as they work with lab rats, assisted by two Fairfield University students. A grant gave Saint Ann Middle School students a wonderful opportunity to dissect a cow’s eye and examine sheep brains. 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All around the gym at Saint Theresa School in Trumbull, “Wax Museum” figures await the clink of a coin into coffee can banks to set them in motion. History Fair “Kids enjoy science fairs, but no one ever has a history fair,” says Kerry Stratton, the social studies/English teacher for Saint Theresa’s middle school classes. “I’ll hear people say ‘Oh, I never liked social studies.’ That kills me.” She hit on the idea of a Wax Museum as a way to bring history to life for her students. In each class, students were charged to pick a character from the time period they were studying, learn about them, and design a booth for their presentation. Their research enriched the first semester of their social studies classes, and came to its fullness when parents and friends came to experience the Wax Museum before semester’s end. “You wouldn’t think you were walking into the gym. You were in a museum,” says Maribeth Goulden, whose seventh-grade daughter Casey was Betsy Ross. It was way beyond what anyone expected.” Goulden’s eighthgrader, Brooke, chose Jacqueline Kennedy. “They couldn’t just go to the Internet and use that for their script,” says Stratton. “They had to research little known facts about their childhood or private lives – something more than facts and figures and battles.” The quality of research was astounding. “Who knew that George Washington read his Bible every day, or why Madame Curie was drawn to science?” The personalities reflected student’s interest and background. “I chose Stepan Bandera, who led the Ukrainian Revolution to free his country at the beginning of HISTORICAL FIGURES Betsy Ross and Stepan Bandera are poised to come to life in the Wax Museum held at Saint Theresa School last semester. Focusing on one chosen person deepened students appreciation of history. the last century,” says sixthgrader Alex Bolgachenko. “His family was sent to Siberia and his father died, but he never stopped fighting for freedom. Nothing stopped him. It only made him stronger.” To complete his research, Alex talked to his grandmother, who is a history teacher in the Ukraine. “It surprised me that he wanted to dig that deep,” says his mother Ulyana. “He put in hours of research.” Other parents were similarly impressed. “My sons were trying to find interesting things, not just reading a report,” says Liz Tamarkin, whose seventh➤ see Wax Museum on p. 21 THE CATHOLIC UNIVERSITY OF AMERICA Washington, D.C. Be Nominated for a $3,000 Parish Scholarship CUA offers competitive academic scholarships and financial aid packages. Visit the Web site to learn more. 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Saint Thomas, Fairfield Outreach puts faith in action By BARBARA A. DUFFIN The eighth-grade students of Saint Thomas Aquinas School in Fairfield are preparing for their March Confirmation by engaging in social outreach both within the local community and far beyond it. After celebrating First Friday Mass each month with the entire school, the twenty-six students are sent on mission by Principal Patricia Brady to serve others. In the beginning, the projects were local. In November, for even into the priests’ garage – space graciously turned over to Project Appalachia by the pastor, Father Victor Martin. Thousands of Pounds The garage was filled with bureaus, beds, major appliances, and other large items, while the church basement was the storage area for warm winter clothing, toys, bicycles, small furniture, and household goods of every description, as well as Christmas presents for the children of the two hundred Then they joined the others in the church basement sorting and packing the thousands of pounds of clothing and household items that had been collected. example, the students raked the lawns of three Fairfield families coping with serious illness. Filled to the Brim As their service projects grew, they extended their outreach to the coal mining community of Saint Charles, VA. Throughout the fall, donations from the Benedictine Grange community, the parishes of Saint James in Stratford, and Saint Thomas Aquinas and from many individuals poured into the basement of Saint Thomas Aquinas Church – and families in the Saint Charles region. On December 4 the eighthgrade students went to work. Along with eighth-grade teachers Joan Driggs and Jackie Greenfield, assistant director of project Appalachia at the Benedictine Grange in West Redding, some students spent the day wrapping Christmas toys and packing clothing and household goods for the people of Saint Charles. Then they joined the others in the church basement sorting and packing the thousands of pounds of clothing and household items that had been collected. The following day, teams of students from Saint Joseph High School in Trumbull and Joel Barlow High School in Fairfield joined a group of adults to load a twenty-eight foot tractor-trailer with all of the goods from the church basement and garage. Toys and Backpacks The truck began its journey to the Saint Charles Community Center the following Monday, where it was unloaded, and the goods on board were distributed to those in need. The Community Center held a Christmas party where Santa Claus distributed gifts to each of the children in the region. Each child received a wrapped Christmas gift, a small stuffed animal, and a candy cane. Older children also got backpacks loaded with paper, pencils, and pens, and other school supplies. Project Appalachia at the Benedictine Grange is tremendously grateful to all those who participated in this undertaking through donations, support, and assistance, and it is particularly grateful to the eighthgrade class of Saint Thomas Aquinas Catholic School for their hard work, their joy, and their generosity. v SHELTON – Music makes the air waves bounce, and studying the energy of sound is a lot fun when get to make music with it. Just ask the students of Saint Joseph School. Working on energy and pitch and vibration, the fifth graders had to design musical instruments using their science and math skills, and then explain how they had made them and what scientific principals they represented. “It’s one thing to read out of DRUMS VIBRATE in a variety of pitches, as fifth graders Mitchel Marcinauskas and Ben DeMarco are eager to demonstrate. The working piano designed by Amity Haluschak and Grace Scully covers a full octave. Preschoolers loved hearing tunes played on their creation. (Photos by Pam Wolfe) the book, but it’s much more meaningful when you design something yourself,” says Saint Joseph’s science teacher Shelley Cavallaro. Saint Joseph’s science begins in the youngest grades and builds over the years, following the diocesan curriculum map. “They might learn something in the third grade on earth and life sciences, and touch on it again and again in later years, getting a more complete understanding each time,” explains Cavallaro. Share Knowledge Science is not an isolated subject, studied by itself, she adds. “We have written and oral reports, and the presentation has to be up to their grade standard in English.” In addition, students in all classes share their knowledge with younger grades, building a strong sense of their faith community. The fifth graders brought their musical instruments to the preschoolers, sharing the excitement with them. When seventh-graders built roller coasters to explore potential energy, they invited the third grade to come over so the younger kids could share the thrill of their achievement. “Sciences is math and literacy and music and art and design and sharing in a faith community,” says Cavallaro. “It all ties in together.” v 18 January 2010 Kolbe continued from p. 1 ➤ additional classrooms and space for other programs. Funding for the project is being provided by the Kolbe Cathedral Board of Advisors under the leadership of Albertus vanden Broek of Darien, who is serving as Chairperson. Expanding the Campus “We’re very grateful to the board of advisors and to Margaret Dames, superintendent of schools, for making this project possible. Not only will it enable us to expand enrollment, but also to offer more programs,” Jakab says. The school is located at 33 Calhoun Place on the parcel of land that also houses Saint Augustine Cathedral and Saint Augustine School. The new building is one block away on the same side of the street. The new site will help to meet projected growth in enrollment, provide additional parking spaces and an overall “greening” of the Kolbe campus,” says Jakab. “If all goes well, we hope to be in the building for the beginning of the next school year in September,”she says. “The students are excited about the extra space and looking forward to moving in.” At Capacity Jakab says that Kolbe had been looking at the property for years and the current housing market made the purchase feasible. The final hurtle was cleared when the Bridgeport Planning and Zoning Commission approved the change of zone from office building to school. “The school has been at close to or maximum capacity of 325 students for the past five years. In order to maintain the highest standard of program offerings and excellence, additional space is required,” says Jakab. “This will give us the room to grow a population of 400 students.” She said that in addition to space for the new classrooms, the building will provide space for conference rooms, support staff offices and 40 additional parking spaces. The new property will also be used by parishioners of the Cathedral parish for meetings and over- FROM ARCHITECTURE TO ACADEMIA – The former Fletcher-Thompson Architects building at 299 Washington Avenue provides a much needed addition to the Kolbe Cathedral High School campus. Located a block from the main building, the new facility will provide classroom and meeting space. Renovations will be made on a priority basis. AT THE SMART BOARD – (l-r) Kolbe Cathedral students Imani Garcia, Luisa Bermudez, and Devante` Medenhall work out a lesson on infection control in the Environmental Services Class taught by Mrs. Bethany Blackhwood. flow parking. Likewise, an area that presently serves as an overflow parking lot behind the Cathedral and the school will be expanded into playing fields for the school and neighborhood children. Renovations to the structure, built in the 1960s, will be made on a “priority basis” with the focus on getting the classroom space ready first and moving ahead with other improvements as funds are available, she says One of the major benefits of the added location will be the KOLBE CATHEDRAL HIGH SCHOOL Home of the Champions CHAMPIONS IN THE CLASSROOM An innovative approach to teaching gives our students an edge in academics. Our small size provides a nurturing, learning environment. room it makes for expansion of the innovative Project Lead the Way Engineering curriculum beginning this spring. The nationally recognized curriculum pulls together science, technology, engineering and math in an integrated course of study to promote math and science careers. Jakab says that the new building enables KolbeCathedral to bring the popular program to its own campus and build it into the curriculum, so that students can take courses in Jakab says the expansion makes the Diocese of Bridgeport a major presence in the Hollow neighborhood, one of Bridgeport’s poorest and most densely populated sections. In addition to the Cathedral parish and Kolbe Cathedral High School, diocesan institutions in the Hollow include Saint Raphael’s Parish and school; the Thomas Merton Center, one of the largest soup kitchens in the state; the Thomas Merton Family Center for pre-school children and their mothers; and the 22-unit Catholic Charities Homes now under construction alongside the Merton Center. v “We’re very grateful to the Board of Advisors and to Margaret Dames, Superintendent of Schools, for making this project possible.” New Programs Originally funded by a GE grant, the project is now offered on weekends at Fairfield University and serves the five Catholic High Schools in the diocese. At present, it is limited to 34 students. each of their four years at the school. “Many of our students want the opportunity to be exposed to the engineering curriculum. Now we’ll be able to offer it and other programs without being pinched for space.” Our Lady of Fatima Lifetime Value – Lifelong Values CHAMPIONS IN ATHLETICS A history of success on the court and on the field has come to the forefront with the Cougars Championships in basketball and soccer. CHAMPIONS FOR JUSTICE Whether volunteering in their community or trekking across the globe to build a school in Mali, KC students know the importance of helping those in need. CHAMPIONS FOR THEIR FAITH In our chapel, our Cathedral, and in our classroom, prayer guides our students through their days and through their lives. Come. . . Be a Champion! ENTRANCE EXAM March 13, 2010 8:00 A.M. Call to Register: 203-335-2554 Visit our website: www.kolbecaths.org We invite you to our open house on Sunday, January 31, from 10:00 am - 1:00 pm Come meet students, teachers and current parents... Explore all that makes us a Blue Ribbon School of Excellence... Join the Our Lady of Fatima School Family Our Lady of Fatima School…an education that you can have faith in 225 Danbury Road, Wilton, Connecticut 06897 • 203-762-8100 • www.olfcatholic.org 19 January 2010 New K of C Chapters on Local Campuses Celebrating the College Council of the Knights By BRIAN WALLACE Prayer, spirituality, and fraternity were the focus of the first gathering of the state’s College Council of the Knight of Columbus, who came together recently for Mass in the new Sacred Heart University Chapel of the Holy Spirit. “This Mass brings together for the first time the leaders of all three college councils,” said Bishop Lori, Supreme Chaplain of the Knights of Columbus, who concelebrated the Mass with Council chaplains. Young Knights More than 50 young Knights and friends attended the special liturgy to celebrate the forming of the new K of C college councils at Sacred Heart University, Fairfield University and Quinnipiac University. Fourth Degree Knights representing various Assemblies from Fairfield County also participated in the Mass of celebration. Bishop Lori urged the young Knights to pray, attend Sunday Mass, and go to Confession frequently in order to develop their spirituality. He said the practice of the sacraments was essential to being “a good Catholic and a good Knight.” for the friendship and the person of Christ in our lives.” The Mass was followed by a reception in which Bishop Lori and other priests met with local college council leaders and Knights members. Enthusiastic Reception Twenty-two year old Kevin Berghorn, a Quinnipiac University Senior from Warwick Rhode Island, says that the new Quinnipiac Council 14277 already numbers over 60 young Knights and has received an enthusiastic reception on the campus. As Grand Knight of the Quinnipiac Council Berghorn, who is working on a masters in physical therapy, he says the the Knights have changed his LEADERS FOR LIFE – The Most Reverend Bishop William Lori was the celebrant at a special Knights of Columbus life and led to “a deep converConnecticut College Council Mass at Sacred Heart University’s Chapel of the Holy Spirit. The event recognized the first sion of faith and my attitudes in time in Knights history that there have been three active college councils in the State of Connecticut. Local Knights lead- life. Since joining the Knights, ers joined Fourth Degree Knights for the celebration: (from left) Kevin Berghorn of Quinnipiac University, Sam Dowd I feel closer to my family. The of Sacred Heart University and Jason Maloney of Fairfield University. All are grand knights in their college councils. Knights have helped me come (Photo by Tracy Deer-Mirek) into my own and develop my leadership skills.” Jason Maloney, a 20-year “The table of Our Lord is set Michael McGivney, who has actively involved in the lives old Marketing major from been designated “Servant of everyday; The feast is here just of his congregation of the poor Fairfield University, is Grand for the asking,” said the bishop, God” as a candidate for saintand working families he served Knight of the new Ignatian hood, Bishop Lori described urging the Knights to practice at Saint Mary’s Church in New Council 4203 at Fairfield Father McGivney as the their faith. Haven. He said that Father University. The Council formed “quintessential parish priest,” Referring to Knights of McGivney urged his parishio➤ see K nights on p. 20 and said he was a tireless priest Columbus founder Father ners to “increase their hunger Congratulations to the Prep Class of 2010 on your early acceptance to: Arizona State University Georgetown University Providence College Stonehill College Auburn University University of Alabama George Mason University Purdue University Queens University SUNY Maritime Syracuse University Ball State University Bowling Green State University Boston College Georgia Institute of Technology Gettysburg College Quinnipiac University University of Rhode Island Roanoke College University of Tampa Tulane University University of Vermont Rutgers University Saint Joseph’s University St. Louis University Villanova University Wake Forest University Western New England College St. Michael’s College Salve Regina University Santa Clara University United States Naval Academy University States Military Academy at West Point University States Merchant Marine Academy University of San Diego University of Scranton Siena College University of South Carolina Spring Hill College Stony Brook University Winthrop University Worcester Polytechnic University Yale University Xavier University Brown University Butler University Case Western Reserve University Catholic University Central Connecticut State University College of Charleston Connecticut College University of Connecticut Creighton University Dartmouth College Drexel University Elmira College Embry Riddle Aeronautical Institute Fairfield University Florida Institute of Technology Fordham University George Washington University Gonzaga University University of Hartford High Point University College of the Holy Cross University of Illinois University of Indiana Lafayette College Le Moyne College Loyola University of Maryland Loyola Marymount University Loyola University New Orleans University of Michigan Middlebury College Monmouth University Northeastern University Ohio Wesleyan University Penn State University University of Pittsburgh Fairfield College Preparatory School A Jesuit, Catholic School of Excellence www.fairfieldprep.org 20 January 2010 First State Title in 19 years Cadets capture Championship TRUMBULL – When the Saint Joseph High School Cadets pounded out a 14-3 win over Montville in the recent final of the Class SS football finals, it was more than a gridiron victory. Not only had the Cadets captured the State Championship for the first time in 19 years, they had also rallied to reach out to a team mate who had lost his mother earlier in the season. After waiting to see if they would get a playoff berth, the Cadets knew what was at stake when they squeaked into the tournament. They quickly took care of business with a 56-7 thumping of top-seed Holy Cross in the semi-finals. “It’s electric,” says Principal Ken Mayo of the victory that continues to inspire the entire student body of 804 students. He was grateful that so many students, parents, and alumni endured a windy, cold and rainy day to cheer on the team at Ken Strong Stadium in West Haven. the rest of the season to Ryan’s mom and wearing her initials on their helmets. Overcoming a Deficit The Cadets won the title game by overcoming a 3-0 first-half deficit with running back Tyler Matakevich scoring two fourth-quarter touchdowns. The victory set off a moment of pure joy and capped a great season for Coach Joe Dellavecchia, a 1981 graduate of Saint Joseph, who played for Coach Ed McCarthy and served as an assistant under Christy Hayes. WE’RE NUMBER ONE – (above) Saint Joseph High School Junior Cadets celebrate after clinching the state Class SS Football finals. WITH A 14-3 win over Montville. (left) Team members brought the state gridiron trophy back to St. Joseph’s for the first time in 19 years. The game was played on a storm day at Ken Strong Stadium in West Haven. Test of Character “If you want to know about the character of the Saint Joseph High School students, wait until something bad happens to someone who is part of our larger family,” he says. Mayo was referring to senior offensive tackle Ryan Taylor who lost his mother, Maria Taylor, suddenly to pneumonia earlier in the season. The team rallied to his side by dedicating The coach’s statewide victory puts him alongside these two legendary coaches. The win was also a thrill Wondering where she’ll be in twenty years? Start by asking where she’ll be next fall. for Dellavecchia as a parent, because his son, Joe, serves as quarterback for the Cadets. Number One Goal “The victory was great for the kids and great for the program,” says Coach Dellavecchia. “Our number one goal of the season was to get the opportunity to play in a game like this. It’s a victory that means a lot to everyone who has ever been a part of the Saint Joseph High School program.” Ken Mayo praised Coach Dellavecchia for his leadership and understanding the mission of the school. Greenwich, CT • 203-532-3534 • www.cshgreenwich.org An independent college preparatory girls’ school for preschool through grade twelve Symbol of Spirit Mayo says the victory is not only a symbol of a football championship but of an entire school pulling together. “The win is great public relations for the school and it really bolsters our spirits, but in some ways the spirit behind is typical. Kind of dedication and support is a wonderful thing, and it’s how our kids react all v the time.” “If you want to know about the character of the Saint Joseph High School students, wait until something bad happens to someone who is part of our larger family” ➤ A Sacred Heart education cultivates a young woman’s faith, character and compassion, giving her the confidence and wisdom to change the world for the better. “Joe played for us from 1978-81. He knows what the program is all about. He did a great job in molding the kids. He understands that winning is important but the character of The Cadets did an encore walk-on during the school’s recent winter pep rally, where students showed their gratitude and enthusiasm. The team walked in with the state championship banner. They will also be feted at a banquet to be held in January. Knights last April and now numbers 15 members. “I felt there was something the school lacked and needed,” says the New Jersey native, “and the Knights have filled that need. They’re a fraternity of fine Catholic gentlemen. “People we ask don’t turn us down,” Maloney says of the reception the new Council has received at Fairfield. “The Council has brought service opportunities and brotherhood to my life. I feel that I can go the kids is important, too.” Overall, the Saint Joseph Cadets lost only two games all year, one to New Canaan, the tough FCIAC division. anywhere in the U.S. now and find brothers through Fairfield University and the larger Knights membership.” Sam Dowd, 21, Grand Knight of Council 9251 at Sacred Heart University, helped to revive the Council that was first formed on campus in 1986. The council now numbers up to 25 members and they hope to recruit additional Knights as the group introduces more activities and opportunities to serve. The junior, a Massachusetts continued from p. 19 resident majoring in communications, earned attention on campus when he led a Cross Walk from Bridgeport to New Haven during Holy Week last year. He says the three Knights campus councils are planning a 40-mile “Rosary Walk” for this year’s Lenten Season. “The fraternity is the best part of the Knights. These are guys I can go to with any problem or question. I know they’ll help me and that they’re praying for me.” v 21 January 2010 Sister Marie Burns, D.C. honored Passing on Gift of Lifetime Learning BRIDGEPORT – Passing on the gift of lifetime learning was the theme at the blessing and dedication of the new St. Vincent’s College Student Learning Center, named for Sister Marie Burns, D.C. More than 75 students, faculty, and board members of the College and St. Vincent’s Medical Center attended the ceremony and reception. Describing Sister Marie Burns as a brilliant leader “with a passion for learning,” Susan L. Davis, St. Vincent’s Health Services CEO, challenged the students in attendance to respond to the gift of her dedication and lifelong service. Legacy of Learning “The legacy Sister Marie Burns leaves is a place to develop the skills you will use throughout your life as lifetime learners,” said Dr. Davis, who noted that Sister Marie Burns had degrees in both education and business and is known for her attention to detail and ability to read a balance sheet. A MOMENT OF HONOR – Sister Marie Burns, D.C., Chairperson of the St. Vincent’s College Board of Trustees, is congratulated by Dr. Martha K. Shouldis, President of St. Vincent’s College, at the blessing and dedication of the new Student Learning Center in her honor. Sister Marie Burns was praised for her concern and commitment to students and to the growth of the college, which provides a wide range of degree and certificate programs leading to healthcare careers. new center in her honor, Sister Marie Burns recalled the advice of her father, who told her, “If you’re going to do something, make sure you do it right.” She said her father’s wisdom “gave her a passion for quality service,” and she takes comfort in knowing that for many years, the students of St. Vincent’s College can learn to “do things right” by using the learning skills in the center named in her honor. St. Vincent’s College President Martha K. Shouldis said that Sister Marie Burns has combined a lifelong interest in education with a ministry of service to the poor and those who lack access to health care. “She has long been an advocate of education and healthcare for the poor and underserved. We’re very grateful for the leadership and guidance she has provided as the College continues to grow,” Dr. Shouldis said. Sister Marie Burns has served as Chairperson of the St. Vincent’s College Board of Trustees since 2004. She will formally step down as board chairperson in the Summer of 2010. “Sister Marie Burns recalled the advice of her father, who told her, “If you’re going to do something, make sure you do it right.” “The Student Learning Center, located on the first floor of the College, is designed to serve as a quiet study space and an area where students can obtain assistance with academic skills including reading and writing, math, and academic management skills. Computers are also available. The new center is open for use by students seven day per week. After helping to hang the plaque that formally names the Wax Museum ➤ grader, Freddie, was Noah Webster. Her sixth-grader, Benjamin, was fascinated by Sir Edmund Hilary. “They were trying to bring them to life.” For the Wax Museum, students not only deepened their knowledge of their historical character, they had to write the scripts, design their booths, and become comfortable speaking in front of strangers. “In the beginning I was a little bit nervous, but after a while I got the hang of it,” says sixth grader Monica Janny, who was Mother Theresa. Stratton had hoped the Wax Museum would give students knowledge that would stay through life. For eighth-grader Sam Rotini that has already come true. “I was always interested in JFK because my uncle would talk to me about how deeply the country was affected 50 Years as a Daughter In her more than 50 years continued from p. 16 by his death,” he says. Opened Eyes He learned about civil rights issues of the time, listened to excerpts of President Kennedy’s inaugural speech, and researched his childhood. The result was a new-born fascination with politics. “This was the first election that I understood,” Sam says. “I was watching everything. It opened my eyes to see how each party works. “Politics is the talk of the world. Now I listen.” The Wax Museum not only deepened an appreciation of the past. The coins clinking into each booth to bring the figures to life were part of the students’ charity fund-raiser. They collected more than $850 to provide Christmas gifts, sports equipment and food for the children of the P.T. Barnum Community in Bridgeport. v as a Daughter of Charity, she has held many posts as a board member and chair of various Catholic hospitals and healthcare systems in western New York. Among her many voluntary commitments were years of service on behalf of children at the Kennedy Child Student Center in New York City and Astor Home in Rhinebeck, New York. St. Vincent’s College is the only two‑year Catholic College in the State of Connecticut offering Associate in Science degrees in nursing, radiography, medical assisting, and general studies. It also offers a wide range of certificate and continuing education programs leading to positions as entry-level health care workers. St. Vincent’s College offers day, evening, and on-line classes. Opportunities are offered for full and part time study with financial aid available to eligible students. For information on enrolling in St. Vincent’s College, call (800) 873-1013 or visit the college website at www.stvincentscollege.edu. v Privilege and Responsibility During Catholic Schools Week we celebrate all our Catholic Elementary partners in education. Your efforts are the cornerstone of our excellence! Our doors are always open. Stop by and experience quality and commitment in Catholic college preparatory education today. Mrs. Marino, Admissions Director 203.378-9378 [email protected] Faith first Knowledge foremost Achievement always Friends forever St. Joseph High School Trumbull, Connecticut 22 January 2010 Knights of Columbus’ website Looking to faith to learn to be a better Dad By BRIAN D. WALLACE “Most of us learn on the job. There are no experts in the field of fatherhood,” says Brian Caulfield, communications specialist for the Knights of Columbus and the editor of the “Fathers for Good” website, www.fathersforgood.org. The Knights launched the website last year to serve as a place where Catholic fathers of all ages could go for information, advice, and discussion of issues of concern to them, between careers and fatherhood, but all of them have one thing in common: they want to be better fathers. “‘Fathers for Good’ has two meanings,” says Caulfield. “Every father wants to be a good father and, at the same time, when you become a father, you are a father for good. Fatherhood is for keeps. You can’t get away from it. We try to help men stay in there for the long run.” A quick visit to the welldesigned and easy to navigate website offers a glimpse of the wide range of material from book reviews and recommended readings to advice on common challenges, reflections on manhood, and thoughts on love and marriage. “Fatherhood is for keeps. We try to help men stay in there for the long run.” including an ongoing reflection on a “Father’s Spirituality.” Catholic Teachings The site has quickly caught on and, in particular, has been effective in attracting younger fathers who wish to explore family, faith, and marriage through the lens of Catholic teachings. Caulfield, a father of two children ages five and nine, says that men have their hands full Videos One of the more popular features on the site is the video section that offers five to seven minute video reflections by well-known Catholic dads. Now playing are videos by EWTN news host Raymond Arroyo, evangelist and theological Scott Hahn, Supreme Knight Carl Anderson, and Princeton University Professor Robert George – all Catholic Fathers reflecting on their own challenges. “These videos are effective because the men put aside their usual professional personas and talk man-to-man about their own experience as fathers,” says Caulfield. Cemetery Offices BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD St. Michael Cemetery 2205 Stratford Avenue Stratford, CT 06615 (203) 378-0404 DANBURY St. Peter Cemetery Lake Ave. Ext. 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Sometime in the distant future you will be thankful you have taken care of this important matter now. For details call your local cemetery! Catholic Cemeteries Diocese of Bridgeport 238 Jewett Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06606 • (203) 372-4301 DARIEN St. John Cemetery 25 Camp Ave. Darien, CT 06820 (203) 322-0455 GREENWICH St. Mary - Putnam Cemetery 35 Parsonage Rd. Greenwich, CT 06830 (203) 869-4828 (203) 869-7026 He says that one of the more popular spin-offs of the website has been the development of a Facebook page, which now numbers over 1,400 members, many of them young dads, who actively make comments and suggestions in a more interactive way. “The Facebook page has become a great test market for the website,” says Caulfield. “I can send out a message to 1,400 members and immediately get a response. They can post their own messages, videos, and materials and all communicate with one another.” “How to get a man to Mass” is one of the more recent subjects where he looked for input both on the website (the “Father’s Forum section) and the Facebook page. “Statistics shows that only 37 percent of Sunday Mass-goers are male,” Caulfield reports. “We wanted to find out what turns men off and what brings them in.” In the process of assembling materials, he learned that men who go to Mass are good at getting other men to attend, and that sometimes men who have stayed away from Mass for years make very strong advocates when they return. Caulfield says that while the site is filled with spiritual and uplifting stories, it is also not afraid to take on the tougher issues. A recent special feature on “Porn Addiction” offered not only a primer on the Church’s teachings but also a comprehensive and perceptive psychological profile of the problem, and its impact on a marriage. As part of its discussion of the issue, the site offered perspectives on improving communication, intimacy, forgiveness, and a guide to “good life virtues.” Caulfield says the site has been successful because it does not preach, but it certainly presents Catholic teaching in a saving light that helps men understand their challenges and overcome their problem by finding the strength and understanding in their faith. Universal Value He adds that fatherhood is a universal value. It doesn’t matter what your background – fathers don’t always get a fair shake in the media, where they are portrayed as abusive or bumbling, ineffectual losers. He hopes the website will even the score a bit and give men something that they can find nowhere else to help center their lives on families and faith. “Most of us are fathers and Knights trying to work out our fatherhood,” says Caulfield. “The ‘Fathers for Good’ website is an opportunity for input, sharing, and affirmation within the framework of faith.” v St. Mark School, Stratford Three Kings Day NEWTOWN Resurrection Cemetery c/o Gate of Heaven Cemetery 1056 Daniels Farm Road Trumbull, CT 06611 (203) 268-5574 NORWALK St. Mary - St. John Cemetery 223 Richards Ave. Norwalk, CT 06850 (203) 838-4271 STAMFORD Queen of Peace Cemetery c/o St. John Cemetery 25 Camp Avenue Darien, CT 06820 (203) 322-0455 TRUMBULL Gate of Heaven Cemetery 1056 Daniels Farm Road Trumbull, CT 06611 (203) 268-5574 WESTPORT Assumption, Greens Farms Assumption, Kings Highway c/o St. John Cemetery 223 Richards Avenue Norwalk, CT 06850 (203) 838-4271 For over 15 years it has been a tradition at Saint Mark School in Stratford to celebrate the Epiphany of our Lord with a bilingual Three Kings Mass. Three Kings Day is one of the most important holidays in the Hispanic culture. Spanish teacher, Senora Ramos, organized the celebration and invited Father Joseph Karcsinski of Saint Jude Church to conduct the Mass. Saint Mark’s eighth grade class led the Mass with bilingual readings, songs and the portrayal of Mary, Joseph and the Magi. All students received gifts from the Three Wise Men. v 23 January 2010 Trinity High School Students Practical projects reflect hands-on faith STAMFORD – The students at Trinity High School provide charity and service to others in many ways throughout the year with school-wide service projects that are a long-standing tradition. For the Thanksgiving Food Drive (right) students collected close to three tons of food (5,600 pounds to be exact) as well as 30 turkeys and $200 in cash. The food was donated to the Food Bank and to La Casa del Imigrante to help those in need throughout the local community. Projects After the Food Drive concluded, the students turned their attention to two other service projects. The Student Council collected toys for Saint Luke’s Lifeworks to benefit children whose lives have been affected by AIDS and AIDSrelated illnesses. Members of the Student Council attended a toy-wrapping party at Saint Collection delivers hope NORWALK – The Holiday Hope Chest collection, organized by parent volunteers, is a yearly event at All Saints School. This year Maria Bazzano and Paulette Corso organized the collection and coordinated with local agencies. All Saints’ families are invited to create a holiday hope chest for a child ranging from infant to age 12, and fill a box with gifts including baby clothes and items, toys, scarves, gloves, games and more. Members of the student council (above) helped load over 370 “Holiday Hope Chests”to bring to charities, including Kids in Crisis, Children’s Connection, Malta House, Norwalk Emergency Shelter, Nathan Hale Middle School, and Norwalk Community Healthcare Center. “When I delivered the boxes to the Children’s Connection, the women volunteers mentioned that they were so looking forward to getting the boxes again this year. The children who receive them love them, and they are a beautiful addition to their Christmas. Each year they continue to be impressed with how beautiful and how thoughtful these boxes are,” says parent-coordinator Maria Bazzano. “We even had one man drive down from New Hampshire to collect boxes for children in need.” v Trumbull, Connecticut The billing solution for doctors and medical providers • Electronic Insurance claim filing and patient billing • Accounts receivable management • Appointment scheduling software and hand held charge capture devices • Electronic Medical Records software 888-924-2112 www.mbsllc.com Luke’s Lifeworks in Stamford right before Christmas to help wrap all toys that members of the community have donated for these children. Winter Clothing In addition, the National Honor Society collected winter clothing throughout December to donate to La Casa del Imigrante and filled the storage room with winter clothing of all kinds and sizes as well as blankets and towels. Members of the National Honor Society surpassed last year’s clothing drive when three truckloads of clothes were donated. v Age-appropriate learning Students experience faith Love is as soft as a lamb DANBURY – Reconciliation prayer service at Saint Gregory the Great School takes place after second-grade students make their first Sacrament of Reconciliation. The children are read the story of the Good Shepherd, and are told that the shepherd loved his lost sheep so much that he goes to find it leaving the others behind. They learn that God loves them so much that he forgives them for the things they do wrong. To help them remember how much God loves them, Sister Mary John O’Rourke, Saint Gregory’s principal, gives each one a tiny lamb to take home. v Heroes are worth imitating FAIRFIELD – In common with many Catholic schools and parish religious programs, the sixth-grade class of Our Lady of the Assumption School used All Saints Day as a way to explore the heroes of their faith. The students chose bishops and laymen, martyrs and teachers, men and women of all walks of life. They studied the lives of their chosen heroes, then presented their witness of faith during a special All Saints Day Mass with their pastor, Father Blase Gintoli. v 24 January 2010 Bringing the Jesuit Community to the heart of the campus Fairfield Jesuit Community Center opens FAIRFIELD – On December 16, Bishop William E. Lori blessed the new Fairfield Jesuit Community Center whose design balances the need for reflection among religious men with their gift for engagement and hospitality has opened on the Fairfield University campus. The eco-friendly building was conceived as an apostolic outreach center for 27 Jesuits engaged in varied apostolates and their colleagues, both at the University, Fairfield College Preparatory School, and elsewhere. It also is home to 12 Jesuits. “It combines a sense of reflection and peace – it is a place rooted in prayer and a sense of the sacred,” remarked Father Walter Conlan, S.J., rector of the Fairfield Jesuit Community, who helped shepherd the building from its early conception to its successful completion. The Center was built to look directly onto the Fairfield campus, as well as toward Bridgeport, a city long served by the Jesuit Community. “Saint Ignatius always wanted us to see the world in different lights, from different perspectives.” The last time the Jesuit The Center features a host of creative earth-friendly innovations, such as a geo-thermal heating and cooling system that will reduce carbon dioxide emissions, a garden roof full of sedum plants designed to cool the building and catch rainwater run-off, sustainable cypress doors, floor-to-ceiling windows to let in natural light, bamboo floors, and recycled content from structural steel to carpets. Several of its most remarkable elements come from a 70-foot tall tree at the site that had suffered decay and needed to be taken down. The tree was milled into a sliding wall in the Great Room and a cross and altar in the chapel. Enhance Contemplation STEWARDS OF EDUCATION AND THE EARTH – Located at the end of the green behind the historic Bellarmine Hall mansion, the new Jesuit Community Center is a residence and meeting place that will host campus activities and serves as the home for an inter-generation Jesuit community. The “green” building features many earth-friendly innovations. Strategically placed windows enhance the correlation between the inside and outside environments, while windows in the chapel are positioned so one can see the sky and treetops in an effort to enhance contemplation. “Every window University President Jeffrey P. von Arx, S.J. spoke of bringing the Jesuit community into the heart of the campus. “Students and Jesuits will literally cross paths,” Father Von Arx said The Center is situated in such a way that from many of its rooms, people may feel as if they are sitting in a ‘treehouse,’ an often-used word to describe the facility. Community gathered at the Center’s site, near Bellarmine Hall, was in the spring of 2008 when a Saint Ignatius medallion was planted to sanctify the ground. The central campus location positions the Jesuit Community so that they are closer to the University and Fairfield Prep. As those instrumental in seeing the Center through from vision to reality looked on, in the Center’s ‘Great Room,’ which overlooks the Quick Center for the Arts and the Dolan School of Business. “I believe this will lead to new learning opportunities, and that new and as yet unforeseen opportunities for creative and collaborative engagement between the University and the Jesuit community will emerge as this new Jesuit Community Center comes to life.” ROOTED IN PRAYER – Rev. Walter “Skip” Conlan, S.J., rector of the Fairfield Jesuit Community, coordinated the building process. “It is a place rooted in prayer and a sense of the sacred,” he said of the earth-friendly structure designed by Gray Organschi Architecture in New Haven. The Center is situated in such a way that from many of its rooms, people may feel as if they are sitting in a ‘tree- house,’ an often-used word to describe the facility. 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A-III (PG) Sherlock Holmes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A-III (PG-13) The Lovely Bones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A-III (PG-13) Youth in Revolt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . O (R) “It’s a place to perch, to sit and dream; stare at the stars while being rooted to the site and to reconnect with our Jesuit brothers in different parts of the world,” said Father Gilbert Sunghera, S.J., project advisor and assistant professor of architecture at the University of Detroit Mercy. He added that the architects, New Haven-based Gray Organschi Architecture, were selected because they “carefully place their buildings in the landscape, and are sensitive to the impact the building has on natural resources.” They are, he said, “a team respectful of our sacred mission of education, and our goal to be good stewards of the Earth.” frames something beautiful,” Father Conlan noted. Paintings by Jesuits, faculty, and students adorn the walls, and other art objects represent the countries where Jesuits work. For example, numerous African masks, brought over from the Thomas J. Walsh Gallery in the Quick Center, line a wall near the entrance. Although quite modern and bold in its appearance, the Center also contains links to the past, most notably in its altar stones, which derive from every chapel on campus. The Center also includes spaces for meetings, programs, faculty and staff development, guests, and chamber music concerts. It is designed to accommodate a mixed generational community, with the possibility of an easy reconfiguration at a later date for University and Prep uses, if and when the Jesuit Community no longer requires this space. v 25 January 2010 (El Padre Torres es vicario parroquial en la Parroquia de Santa María en Greenwich). “La vida humana es sagrada e inviolable en cada momento de su existencia, también en el inicial que precede al nacimiento. El hombre, desde el seno materno, pertenece a Dios que lo escruta y conoce todo, que lo forma y lo plasma con sus manos, que lo ve mientras es todavía un pequeño embrión informe y que en él entrevé el adulto de mañana, cuyos días están contados y cuya vocación está ya escrita en el libro de la vida (cf. Sal 139/138, 1.13-16). Incluso cuando está todavía en el seno materno – como testimonian numerosos textos bíblicos – el hombre es término personalísimo de la amorosa y paterna providencia divina”. (Evangelium Vitae; Capítulo 3, # 61, Juan Pablo II, 1995) Marchas pro-vida Hace alrededor de unos 20 años tuve la oportunidad de ser testigo de una de las manifestaciones más grandes en mi país en contra del aborto, fue una de las marchas pro-vida de mayor participación en la historia del movimiento en Puerto Rico. Recuerdo, como si fuera hoy, que una de las razones que motivó la reacción del pueblo puertorriqueño fue la manifestación de varios sacerdotes, junto a laicos comprometidos de varias parroquias frente a clínicas abortistas en varios sectores del área metropolitana, situación que motivó una explosión de emociones y manifestaciones de apoyo a favor de la vida y en contra del aborto. Aprendí a valorar Como niño, en ese entonces, recuerdo claramente que decidí por defender la vida también y luego de crecer en una familia de nueve hijos e hijas, y haber valorado el sacrificio que mis padre hicieron para mi crianza, puedo declarar que aprendí Columnista Invitado vación al mundo entero. Ella es, por supuesto, una defensora de la vida y promotora del amor de Dios hacia la humanidad. POR PADRE ROLANDO TORRES Virgen de Guadalupe VIVIR DEFENDIENDO LA VIDA a valorar el sentido más profundo y trascendental de lo que es el regalo de la vida para todos nosotros como hijos e hijas de Dios. Hoy por hoy estas manifestaciones se siguen realizando alrededor del mundo entero y en especial aquí en los Estados Unidos, en donde cada año miles de católicos y no católicos en el mes de enero van a Washington a la Marcha Pro-Vida, cambiando de esta manera el corazón de jóvenes y adultos como me ocurrió personalmente. Todos los aspectos Con el pasar del tiempo tuve la oportunidad de conocer más y más el sentido importantísimo de defender la vida y con el llamado que recibí de parte de Dios a servirle como sacerdote entendí también la urgencia que tenemos en nuestra sociedad de defender el derecho a la vida en todos los aspectos en los que el mundo atente en contra de ella, no solo con el aborto, sino que también con la eutanasia y todos aquellos crímenes que atentan contra el derecho Sagrado de vivir. El Papa Juan Pablo II, una de las figuras más influyentes de este milenio, defendió la vida intensamente y nos dejó una serie de documentos como legado o podría decir mejor tesoros para que conociéramos y nos educáramos en el tema de la defensa de la vida. Teología del Cuerpo Una de sus más prominentes encíclicas fue el Evangelio de la Vida que permitió la elaboración de una nueva meditación de la vida humana y nos llevó a la Teología del Cuerpo que todavía en muchos lugares del mundo se discute y se estudia, como una visión más adentrada, más profunda de lo que significa el ser como individuo y el valor que tiene la familia en nuestra Iglesia y sociedad de hoy. Experiencia personal Pero siendo más profundo en la meditación sobre el tema de la defensa de la vida tengo que ir mucho más allá de lo escrito y hablar de mi experiencia personal. Una de las satisfacciones más grandes que una obligación defender la vida, al contrario es un requisito, un derecho, una razón y un propósito de vida, es nuestro llamado de entender y ayudar a otros a entender lo importante que es el regalo de vivir y vivir una vida santa, acorde al evangelio y a los mandamientos, para que de esa manera al momento en que Dios nos llame a su lado podamos sentir la satisfacción de que hicimos lo correcto en esta vida, con el prójimo y con Dios. Pero “En nuestro ministerio no es una obligación defender la vida, al contrario es un requisito, un derecho, una razón y un propósito de vida”. tengo como sacerdote es que en muchos casos tengo que lidiar con la vida, pero también dolorosamente con la muerte. La celebración de los Sacramentos, en la mayoría de los casos, nos amplia el horizonte de lo que es la vida en sus más profundos misterios. Celebrar junto a una familia el regalo maravilloso del Sacramento del bautismo de su bebé, o también en esa semana celebrar el Sacramento del matrimonio en donde establecemos una nueva familia, además de escuchar sinnúmero de confesiones y luego en otro momento de esa misma semana oficiar con otra familia la misa funeral de uno de sus miembros, créanme mis hermanos y hermanas que es un encuentro con la vida de primer impacto. En nuestro ministerio no es ¡Felicidades! siendo realista hay que admitir que el aspecto maternal de la vida siempre es algo justo y necesario en la vida del sacerdote y no solo del sacerdote, sino que de la Iglesia en general, por eso tenemos la protección e intercesión de la siempre Bienaventurada Virgen María, madre de la Iglesia y madre del clero. En ella vemos ese ejemplo y modelo de abandono a la Providencia Divina y a la aceptación de una maternidad bendita que nos trajo la sal- Una de las obras de arte que más admiro y que sobretodo venero con gran devoción es el milagro de la pintura de la Virgen de Guadalupe. Uno de los detalles que tiene esa pintura maravillosa es que al momento en que ocurrió el milagro, la imagen de María impregnada en la tilma de San Juan Diego estaba embarazada y con esto nos permitió entender el valor maravilloso de la vida que por medio de la madre de Nuestro Señor Jesucristo vimos y seguimos viendo en este milagro. La Bienaventurada Virgen María nos guía de la mano a que entendamos nuestra misión de ser signos de contradicción en una sociedad que promueve la cultura de la muerte, como bien decía Juan Pablo II. Defensor de la vida Estamos llamados a ser heraldos de paz, y embajadores de la vida, no solo en nuestras parroquias sino a donde quiera que estemos, hay que ser constructores, arquitectos de una civilización del amor, que promueva la verdad, la esperanza, la fe, la harmonía y sobretodo la comprensión, defendiendo nuestros derechos, respetando a nuestro prójimo y profundizando mas en el misterio de la vida que solo encontrara su realización en Dios, autor y creador supremo del universo, y defensor de la vida desde el segundo exacto que comenzó v la creación. One Family In Mission “We can only pay him $3.52 a month but he is like a priceless gift to our people.” So says Bishop Joseph Willigers of Jinja, Uganda, about Mathias, one of his catechists. There are close to 200 full-time and about 600 part-time catechists in Jinja. Each is willing to give of themselves because, as one catechist put it, “We love Jesus Christ and know that but for our work of making Him known many of our people would not be reached at all with the ‘Good News.’” Won’t you help catechists in the Missions as they continue to bring the “Good News” of Jesus Christ to those most in need of Him? The Society for THE PROPAGATION OF THE FAITH …a Pontifical Mission Society Fr. Saviano, Director Diocesan Office for the Propagation of Faith 238 Jewett Avenue Bridgeport, Connecticut 06606 El Obsipo Bishop William Lori felicita al Diácono Jaime D. Marin-Cardona, colombiano, y su familia después de conferir las órdenes de diácono transitorio durante una misa el 3 de enero en la Iglesia de San Carlos Borromeo en Bridgeport. La ordenación de diácono es la etapa final en su pasaje al sacerdocio. Como diácono transitorio, puede ayudar a misas, predicar, y hacer bautismos. El Diácono Jaime D. Marin-Cardona se ordenará al sacerdocio el 5 de junio, junto con los diáconos Jeff Couture, Karol Ksiazek, y Michael Novajosky. v Enclosed is my gift for the Missions of $__________ Name_________________________________________________________________ Address______________________________________________________________ City_______________________________________State_________Zip___________ www.givetothemissions.org www.onefamilyinmission.org 26 January 2010 EDITORIAL Celebrate Schools I n this issue of Fairfield County Catholic, with its focus on education, you will find much to celebrate in the Catholic schools in our diocese. The “Blue Ribbon” status earned by an increasing number of our schools speaks volumes about their academic excellence and the bright prospects of students. Not to mention the many sports victories, the community service projects that reach out to the needy and teach compassion, and the many social, recreational, and educational opportunities that enrich the lives of our young people. Bishop Lori has worked tirelessly to preserve and enhance the mission of Catholic education in the diocese, and he has brought many talented people forward to join in the effort. Under the leadership of Dr. Margaret Dames, superintendent of schools, her administrative team, and hundreds of incredibly dedicated teachers, our diocesan schools have taken huge steps forward. They truly reflect a “Renaissance” in Catholic education, but they need our help to grow and thrive. In Connecticut, it costs $12,000 a year to educate each child. Catholic elementary schools now enroll over 33,600 students. Do the math and you find that Catholic schools save taxpayers over $400 million each year! No one knows better the value of Catholic schools than the generations of alumni who are in every walk of life in Fairfield County and across the country. Many are stepping forward to ensure that the schools are here for future generations by participating in a bright and promising new initiative known as the Catholic Alumni Partnership (CAP). To learn more about the Catholic Alumni Partnership, visit www.catholicalumnipartnership.org and click on Diocese of Bridgeport. March for Life W ho is a person? You are, and I am. Yet a child within a mother’s womb, even one partially born, is not a person until he takes his first breath. Who says so? Why? The “Who” is easy – the U.S. Supreme Court says so. Why is more complicated. Science says that an individual human being is created when a human sperm and egg comes together. He already has his father’s nose. She carries the genes for her grandmother’s quirky smile. But neither is a legal person yet. The upcoming March for Life, January 22, focuses on the rights of unborn children. This is absolutely necessary in a time when most news media applaud experimentation on embryonic stem cells, and abortion advocates block any restrictions. Throughout the year, the Church insists on the rights of all individuals: the embryo has the right to grow into his nose, her smile, without being “disassembled” for research. And let us also pray for the frightened mother pressured to abort her child, the immigrant family, struggling to survive in a hostile environment, the senior citizen who is marginalized and alone, the innocent victims of war, violence, and environmental degradation – all those who are powerless and vulnerable in the face of a society that violates human life across the board. Courts and officials make up their own, sometimes complicated, explanations for who is or isn’t a person. The Church is clearer: every human being is made in the image and likeness of God. So, March for Life. And then, work to make sure that every human being has the chance to know that he or she is a person, and infinitely valuable. New Year’s Light A fter we’ve made our New Year’s resolutions, we sit and wait for the light. We’re past the darkest days of the year, but an afternoon of snow flurries or even gray skies can plunge the day back into early darkness. Yet something else is happening: each day we gain light, almost imperceptibly, until at some point we discover a whole new part of the day has returned. What was once covered by darkness is now light again. And, as is our want, we may find ourselves struggling with that new light – not knowing what to do with it. The light inches forward but we don’t budge; the days are still too cold or snowy for us to go out in them. Such may be our faith; we wrestle with the darkness in ourselves and are often unequal to the light of grace available to us. Perhaps we pause to welcome the day back and then we go on doing what we were doing. In this New Year, let us resolve to be open to the healing gifts of the sacraments and to let the light of faith wash over our lives and reside in our hearts. L E T T E R S to the editor Prayer and gratitude for Sister Alejandra Dear Editor: Thank you so much for the beautiful article and picture of Sister Alejandra Keen in Peru! I was so happy to see her smiling face surrounded by her wonderful community! I was very blessed to know Sister Alejandra during her stay here in the Diocese of Bridgeport and was not at all surprised to learn that she was asked to be the world-wide general coordinator of the Marian Community of Reconciliation. She is a very special person who will no doubt lead and grow her community. The Marian Community embodies the love of Christ and they share in a very unique way their faith and joy with everyone they meet each day. Catholics are praying regularly for vocations to the priesthood, deaconate, and religious life and the Marian Community is truly an answer to that prayer! These wonderful women have a spirit that is so vibrant and real and very in touch with the world in which we live. They pray deeply and with inspiring commitment and they call each of us to deepen our prayer lives and treasure our faith with joy. The Holy Spirit is indeed present and working in our midst. I encourage everyone to pray for Sister Alejandra’s Receiving the “True Presence” Dear Editor: In reading Father John Ringley’s article on how to receive Holy Communion, I was reminded of an incident recently at Mass. I spotted what appeared to be a piece of paper on the floor, but it turned out to be a trampled consecrated Host. I presented it to the priest after Mass and he appeared surprised and scandalized. Shaken myself, I reflected on the very few “True Presence” sermons I have heard since my childhood. The current situation in the Catholic Church concerning the reception of the Holy Eucharist is very confusing to me. For example, I recently attended a wedding in a Protestant church where the congregation knelt at the altar rail to receive Holy Bread, kneeling and on the tongue. If we, as Catholics, really believe in the “True Presence”, why do we not kneel and receive the “True Presence” on the tongue? A few years back The New York Times had an article where Catholics were polled as to whether or not they believed in the “True Presence.” Only a small percentage did. I hope in 2010 that that we hear from the pulpit the Holy Father’s teachings regarding the reception of The Body Of Christ. ❖ success in her new position and also for this special Marian Community. Thanks for the update! ❖ Mary Garbe Fairfield Responding to Vocations Dear Editor: Today, I received with joy a copy of the December FCC issue. It is so good, even though I live thousands of miles away from CT, to continue to be updated with the blessings and challenges of the Diocese of Bridgeport. Firstly, I would like to thank Pat Hennessy for her kindness in writing an article on my new mission, and secondly, I hope that you made a very prophetic mistake, as it states that we are 1000 more Fraternas than we presently are! When I read the typo, I laughed, and hope that through our fidelity, it will not take too long for many more young women to generously respond to their vocation as consecrated laywomen, bringing Christ into the world, and contributing in the building of a culture of life, love, and reconciliation. With my gratitude and daily prayers for all those good friends in the Lord I have in the Bridgeport Diocese. ❖ Susan Goodman New Canaan Sr. Alejandra Keen Lima Submissions Policy Most Rev. William E. Lori...........................Publisher Office of Communications Brian D. 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To add or change an address, call 416-1461, or e-mail: [email protected] 27 January 2010 L E T T E R S to the editor Support priests all over the world Dear Editor: In the Year of the Priest, I wanted to write in support of our priests, not only in our Diocese of Bridgeport but, all over the world. With the shortage of priests through out the years, their responsibilities have become greater, particularly due to the need to convince Catholics and the world that they are not the enemy even though a small minority of their brethren have committed evil actions. Our priests have taking on more and more administrative responsibilities in their parishes and in their dioceses. They are to be applauded for their exemplary work! My recommendations include, but are not limited to the following support for our priests: Read all sixteen documents of Vatican II. If you need assistance in understanding the key elements, please get it. Get to know your parish priests, invite them to your home for lunch, dinner, or even a party. Never be afraid of asking questions about our faith, beliefs and our practices, even if your questions are challenging. Our priests live for helping us to understand. You may not like what you hear, but it will be the truth and it will be explained. The Eucharist is an act of love Dear Editors: In response to Father Ringley’s column headed “Mass Confusion,” I offer the following comments. While profanation of the Blessed Sacrament is a terrible thing, there is no insurance that giving Communion on the tongue changes the possibility of such profanation. There is no assurance that the Host will not be removed from the tongue if one wishes to do so. I think Father Ringley is confused. Adults feed themselves; they do not need to be fed like incompetent infants. As an Extraordinary Minister of the Eucharist, I have seen many styles of receiving Communion and have followed after someone and asked that she consume the Blessed Sacrament or give it back. I have seen people open their mouths a miniscule amount and have had quite a time placing the Host on an invisible tongue. In this season of flu and cold, when our instructions from the diocese are to wave peace and not touch anyone, where is Father Ringley’s reasoning? Communion on the tongue is unsanitary. Is there no swine flu at Kolbe-Cathedral High School? My husband tells me that at Saint Patrick’s in New York, the ushers stand and watch as people receive – certainly a solution for a big city church. The Eucharist is an act of Love of a loving God. As with all love, risk is inherent. I think our God is up to the challenge and can handle the ❖ consequences. Sandy Cambère Mumbach Wilton Remember that priests are human just like you; ask them how they deal effectively with all sorts of temptations, and truly listen because it will help. Human behavior hasn’t changed from the beginning of our presence on earth. GO TO CHURCH! Pray. Listen after praying; you’ll be amazed at the answers you receive. The answer may be not immediate, but it will come. My second child, Amelia was born on 8/8/1988 with Down Syndrome. I cursed God until I learned that the eight stands for eternal life. A priest taught me that. Thank them for their sacrifice. Years of study to assist us! Do reading on your own. I am currently reading, Saint Gregory of Nyssa on his doctrine On the Soul and the Resurrection. And read the Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi. Or the Beatitudes. Go to the website of the USCCB, the United States of Catholic Conference of Bishops to keep yourself up to date. Go to the website of our Diocese of Bridgeport to keep up to date on issue and diocesan activities and events….get involved! Remember, no priests, no Mass! ❖ Marl T. Sanford Greenwich Living wage is a pro-life issue Dear Editor: It seems to me that workers in this country have lost an inalienable right to a living wage – through a job that enables the worker to support a family in simple decency. When business conditions dictate, workers may be immediately let go. But treating the worker as just another cost of doing business is to violate a cardinal teaching of the social doctrine of the Church. Countless encyclicals for over a century have affirmed the fundamental right of workers to their jobs and a living wage that is sufficient to support their families. It seems appropriate that a pro-living wage movement be formed to protect workers and their rights. If the life of the unborn be defended, the life of the family should be defended as well by supporting a living wage. This protection of workers and their jobs is long overdue. ❖ Bob Saverine Stamford Guest Column BY ANTOINETTE BOSCO How peace came to the world in 2010 As the New Year began, Pope Benedict XVI gave a World Day of Peace message to all, as our popes have been doing since 1967, ever since this important annual observance was launched by Pope Paul VI. His theme was especially important in these troubled world times, for his emphasis was on protecting creation. What especially caught my attention was his appeal for “progressive disarmament,” where he emphasized working for “a world free of nuclear weapons.” Certainly, it is long past time for all the nations to want and seek such a world. But the fact that we have now reached the year 2010 rang bells in my head. Why? Because I have been thinking of peace coming to the world in the year 2010 for the past dozen years. And here is the reason: We all have our special attractions, and one of mine is going to used book sales. I always find something special among the piles. In 1998 as I piled used books to buy into plastic bags, I saw one with a title that grabbed me: “How Peace Came to the World,” mentioning, specifically, “in the year 2010.” I started reading this book, published in 1985, then and there. It began with these two statements: “Nothing threatens us more today than the 50,000 nuclear warheads that stand in a state of near readiness around the globe. Yet in the year 2010, the world is at peace and the threat of nuclear devastation has vanished.” Contest A prophesy? A fantasy? I was seduced, and, as they say, here’s the story! The book dates back to a contest by The Christian Science Monitor in 1985, with a specific aim – to get readers to jump ahead 25 years to the year 2010, imagine a world at peace, and then explain how this had come about. The Monitor explained: “Peace is a condition all the world’s statesmen say they yearn for. Every individual would like to live in peace. The Beatitudes call the peacemakers ‘the children of God.’ Instead of only reacting to each new international crisis, let’s think instead about what conditions could prevail that would bring about a substantially altered climate of world opinion.” Some 1,300 people responded to the proposal, many reacting to the past century of war. It was noted that even after World War II, 130 new wars, big and small, erupted around the globe. It impressed me that The Monitor saw each citizen, and not just so-called “leaders,’” as having a responsibility to be involved in peace planning. I was not surprised that many would see terrible consequences coming from deteriorating relations between the rich nations and the poor Third World countries, from the rising conflicts among religious groups, from the increasingly armed nations stockpiling weapons of mass destruction, and the explosive Middle East hatreds. Prophetic Response Remembering this book as I read of Pope Benedict’s strong peace message, I also remembered the horrors of the wars we have suffered through in the past hundred years. I had the privilege of hearing our pope, then Cardinal Ratzinger, speak about peace at a conference in Israel in early 1994. When he chose the name Benedict XVI as he became our leader, I believed this came from his respect for Pope Benedict XV who tried so hard to get the nations killing millions in World War I to stop. That saintly pope was not even given the courtesy of being a part of the talks that produced the infamous Treaty of Versailles, which, in the end, gave all the spoils of war to the “winners,” humiliating Germany by making it take full moral and financial responsibility for the war. Seeing “revenge, greed, and stupidity” in the abominable treaty, Pope Benedict XV said, sounding like Jesus: “Nations do not die; in humiliation and revenge, they pass from generation to generation the sorrowful heritage of hatred and retaliation.” Certainly, that is what we saw happen in the decades that followed, and is still what we see in our world today. Would that leaders of all world nations could read this book, which ends with a truth, that peace does not come easily. “We have work before us,” wrote Dr. Stephen E. Silver, a Connecticut physician. “However, let us be eager to do it, for it is holy work.” To that we must all say, “Amen!” (Antoinette Bosco, a member of Saint Marguerite Bourgeois Church in Brookfield, is the author of “World War I” [Facts on File].) v 28 January 2010 Taught at Assumption, Fairfield Sister Mary Ryan, O.P., 70 By MARIA O’BRIEN Sister Mary Ryan, O.P., died on December 18 at Saint Mary Convent, Gloucester City, NJ. She was 70 years old. Mary Ryan was born in May 1939 in Philadelphia. She was raised in Woodbury, NJ, and graduated from Gloucester Catholic High School, Gloucester City, where she excelled in basketball, field hockey, and softball. Sister Mary remained an avid supporter of the school her entire life. Prior Experience After graduation she worked for Saunder’s Publishing Company, Camden Trust, and a local law firm before entering the novitiate of the Dominican Sisters of Newburgh, NY, in coming to Our Lady of the Assumption School in Fairfield in 1967. Lion’s Club Award Sister Mary Ryan, O.P. 1958. Taking the religious name of Sister George Anne, she made her final profession of vows in 1963. Sister Mary taught at Saint Brendan School in New Haven and in New Jersey before Shortly after leaving Assumption in 1972 she began working in pastoral ministry. In 1997, while working in pastoral ministry in Gloucester City, Sister Mary received the Lion’s Club award for “Senior Citizen of the Year” for her dedication to her work and the citizens of the area. She was also honored in 2002 by the Gloucester Catholic Alumni Association. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sister Mary on December 22 at Saint Mary Parish in Gloucester City. Burial will be in St. Mary’s v Cemetery, Bellmawr, NJ. FUNERAL guide “Quiet Dignity Without Extravagance” Director/Owner Harding FUNERAL HOME Affordable Direct Cremation Title XIX Welcome ZFamily owned for three generations ZHandling every detail ZCall for free informative brochure ZIn home arrangements Z203-254-1414 or 800-542-0218 ZMemorial service facility Collins Funeral Home 92 East Avenue • Norwalk 866-0747 William A. Skidd William R. Kelley 203/227-3458 FAX 203/227-1420 William G. Lahey, Jr. William P. Skidd Family owned for four generations 210 POST ROAD EAST WESTPORT, CT 06881 Pre-need Funeral Planning Eternal rest grant Matthew K. Murphy, Funeral Director unto them, O Lord, 267 Greenwich Avenue Greenwich, CT 06830 and let perpetual light 203-869-0315 shine upon them. Deceased Clergy of the Diocese of Bridgeport: January 17 – February 6 19 20 22 23 27 January Year Rev. Andrew L. Horvat...................1973 Rev. William D. Thompson............2004 Rev. Andrew L. Farkas...................1967 Msgr. Ralph P. Buongervino...........1994 Msgr. Andrew T. Cusack................2004 Rev. Felix P. Werpechowski...........1972 Rev. John Mitchell..........................2006 Rev. James J. McCormick...............1965 Msgr. Francis G. Galla...................1996 28 30 2 3 4 6 Every month in Fairfield County Catholic, Erin Neil, director of the diocesan Office of Safe Environments, provides an update on the implementation of the Safe Environment Initiative of the Diocese of Bridgeport, launched in June 2003. For the past seven years, the Diocese of Bridgeport has been a leader in child safety. Our Catholic schools and parishes are one of the safest places for children to be. In 2002 the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops created a landmark document called Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People, which mandates that all Church environments where children may be present are as safe as possible. U.S. dioceses and archdioceses are audited on these safety requirements annually by an independent firm. We are proud to report that the Diocese of Bridgeport this fall completed our 6th independent audit and we were found to be fully compliant on all articles of the Charter. The auditor visited schools and parishes at various locations across the diocese and spoke to priests, school principals and other staff members to ensure that these programs are fully implemented. In many cases we have been found to exceed the requirements of the Charter. Widespread Training To advertise, please call Ralph: 203-416-1462 NEIL F. HARDING Safe Environment Update Msgr. Joseph R. McCarthy..............1964 Msgr. John F. Cavanaugh...............1990 Rev. James F. Desmond.................1963 February Year Rev. Joseph W. Kupec....................1978 Deacon Bartholomew J. Mauceri....2004 Msgr. Martin F. Doran...................1967 Rev. Robert F. Albert......................1995 Msgr. William F.X. Casey..............1978 Msgr. Martin J. McDermott............1986 30,000 members of the clergy, lay employees, volunteers and independent contractors have gone through a criminal background check. Over 65,000 adults and children received live training and 40,000 parents and other adults received educational materials on the prevention and reporting of child sexual abuse. This represents approximately a quarter of all Catholics in our diocese who we have reached through these efforts. Fingerprints and background checks have been required in public and private schools. However it is rare to find safety and background checks that include all adults who come in contact with children during their school day. Parents, coaches, school employees, nurses, paraprofessionals, and aides are just a few examples. The Safe Environment programs in the Diocese of Bridgeport include all of the above as well as independent contractors such as food service providers, general contractors, painters and after-school clubs. This ensures that no person who may be around children has even one conviction of a sex crime or crime against a child and all adults are educated on safe boundaries when working with minors. The adults in our diocese attend a three-hour training called VIRTUS Protecting God’s children. Participants learn the 10 most common warning signs in offenders and signs in a potential victim. Training includes an overview of the code of conduct and the requirement that two adults must always be present when children are around. The training also provides adults with Connecticut state laws on mandatory reporting and phone numbers. Parents comment regularly that they wish every school, camp and program their child participates in. took safety as seriously as we do. Feedback The most common feedback at just about every VIRTUS class is that the training is not what they expected and they are often surprised to learn that a predator can be a female, a male or even another child. 29 percent of all child sexual abuse is committed by a family member. We hear over and over that the training should be seen by every parent and grandparent. The program for students is called Think First and Stay Safe. It helps children recognize when they are safe or unsafe and to feel comfortable bringing their concerns, fears, and anything they may be confused about to the attention of a trusted adult. Children are taught the most common tricks and lures used by offenders so that they can recognize and report the warnings signs before abuse takes place. Topics include internet and technology safety, sexual abuse prevention, abductions prevention, the risks of social networks, cyber-bullying and texting dangers. A counselor from Catholic Charities, Tara Mingione, delivers this powerful presentation to ensure a consistent message and students get to know her. Students feel comfortable asking her questions that may be critical to their safety, and parents can meet the instructor to preview the program in advance of classroom instruction. Every parent is provided with training information and a parent guide from their school when they enroll their children so that lessons can begin at home. In the Diocese of Bridgeport the Safe Environment initiative is well integrated in our daily routines and activities. Implementing this level of security can take time, energy, resources and advance planning but if it prevents even one child from being harmed, it is all worth it. For more information on these or any other issues relating to the Safe Environment Program, call Erin Neil: 372-4301, ext. 563, or visit www.bridgeportdiocese.com. v 29 January 2010 Potpourri Budget deficit unresolved BY THOMAS H. HICKS MERTON’S VOICE STILL SPEAKS Phenomenon was the only word to describe it. It was a surprising runaway best seller. The book was Thomas Merton’s Seven Story Mountain, published in 1948, after Merton had been in Trappist monastic life for seven years. In 1948, there were many servicemen who had returned from the war. The mixture of their experiences in the war and reading Merton led huge numbers to Merton’s monastery at Gethsemani in Kentucky. When Merton joined the community in 1941, there were 80 monks; it peaked to 250. Seminaries also felt the surge. Cooling Faith I finally caught up with the Seven Story Mountain during my junior year in college. It was a time when I was cooling to the Church. I felt Catholicism filled my life with rules and was a place where I heard a lot about hell and about my apparently more than favorable prospects of arriving there, inasmuch as God hated mortal sin. My faith seemed to simply involve an occupation with saving one’s soul, avoiding hell, and shortening purgatory. Then, I read Seven Story Mountain and I saw the faith with new eyes. The magic of the book is the way Merton tells his story. It reads like a great novel. The narrator is brimming with the excitement of an outsider who has just stumbled upon the greatest thing on earth – the Catholic faith. After the Seven Story Mountain, Merton’s books flowed from Gethsemani; there was: Seeds of Contemplation, The Waters of Siloe, The Ascent of Truth, Bread in the Wilderness, The Sign of Jonas, The Living Bread, No Man Is an Island, The Silent Life, Thoughts in Solitude, Contemplation in a World of Action, Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander, The Wisdom of the Desert, The New Man, etc. I devoured these books, loved their poetic prose and reflections on nature. Deeper Aspirations Because of Merton, I began to read Catholic philosophers such as Etienne Gilson and Jacques Maritain. Together with Merton, these authors helped me find Roman Catholicism fascinating. But it was Merton, above all, who put me in touch with some of the deeper aspirations of my spirit, called me to a deeper and fuller living, taught me to see my life as a divine mystery. He restored the mystical dimension of spirituality. Throughout his writings there are Merton’s reflections on nature. He celebrated the natural world in all its variety and beauty as the body of God. With him we enter into the liturgies of rain and autumn and dawn. Echoing Hopkins, Merton sees the divinity indwelling in all things. Meeting Merton Soon after graduating college, I made two trips to Gethsemani for the precise purpose of seeing Merton. On the first trip I saw him – from a distance. On the second trip, I actually spoke with Merton – together with a pack of four other Merton devotees. We met him on the edge of a field where monks were doing some harvesting. Merton approached “Soon after graduating college, I made two trips to Gethsemani for the precise purpose of seeing Merton. On the first trip, I saw him.” wearing work clothes and a baseball-style cap pushed back on his head. He was all smile: a big, broad, boyish smile. And there was his wonderful hearty laugh. When you said something to him, you had his whole attention. He made you feel important and really worthy of his attention. Romance Students of Merton were surprised when, in 1993, Michael Mott in his authorized biography of Thomas Merton titled The Seven Mountains of Thomas Merton, revealed the romantic relationship Merton had with a young nurse he met during a hospital stay near the end of his life. Some of the righteous were scandalized and referred to Merton as a “failed monk.” For others, the relationship with “Marge” endeared Merton to them even more; it showed further what an intensely human man he was. Basil Pennington, a fellow Cistercian and friend of Merton, wrote, “What one of the great Cistercian Fathers, Bernard of Clairvaux, once wrote, could have been said by Tom. ‘Those who have experienced these things know what I am talking about, and those who haven’t – well, have the experience and then you will.’” (Thomas Merton, My Brother) For many, it seems regrettable that Merton died so soon after his relationship with Marge. They would like to have seen what influence the relationship would have had on his later thinking and writing. In his journal, Merton stated, “I can never again be the person who did not know and love her.” Thomas Merton died suddenly before he completed his fifty-fourth year. He was accidentally killed by a defective floor-fan in Bangkok, Thailand, during a pan-monastic conference of Christians and Buddhists. The Seven Story Mountain will always stand on my horizon, stone-white, eminent, like a lighthouse marking some essential stage of my adventurous, long, long, journey. To that book and the rest of his writings I owe a Catholic faith strong enough, versatile enough to continue to shape my life. They communicated to me the reality, the beauty, the wonder of the mystery of God. I learned something about the passionate search for God. Merton will never fill the bill for canonization, but he brought me in touch with the contemplative dimension of life. Merton’s life seems all too brief. One thinks of how much more he could have taught us. But perhaps he left behind more than enough. Catholic Identity Theologian Karl Rahner pointed out that the Church is passing through a “wintery season”; the trees are bare and a cold wind blows. We’ve all heard the statistics: about one in three baptized Catholics in the United States no longer identify themselves as Catholic. That means that 10 percent of Americans are former Catholics. From my experience of teaching Catholic college students, my impression is that their faith will become more increasingly a marginal and superficial part of their identity. Spirituality is the hook back into the faith for them. They’re not turned off to spirituality. I think Merton can provide that hook. Thomas Merton spoke powerfully, effectively, and profoundly to a very broad spectrum of the American people. American Catholics heard Merton perhaps better than any Catholic voice in their times. Men particularly took to Merton. I think Merton speaks for all seasons. I think we would recoup some of our losses if reading Merton were more encouraged. If the diffuse happiness of my early twenties could be distilled into one moment, it would be that still summer day I met Thomas Merton. I can still recall the late-afternoon sunlight of the bright August day, when I sort of felt that Merton’s smile curved to enclose me. (Dr. Thomas Hicks is a member of Saint Theresa Parish, Trumbull.) ❖ State legislature set to convene HARTFORD – After a tumultuous 2009 session that saw state legislature unable to agree on a budget while taking swipes at the Catholic Church in Connecticut, the 2010 session is set to reconvene in Hartford on February 3. Michael Culhane, president of the Connecticut Catholic Conference, says he expects another bruising session, but he says many legislative issues are likely to be overwhelmed by state’s growing budget deficit and lack of consensus on how to address the problem. “Legislators got a blast at the end of December with an estimate of a $531 million budget deficit, which is likely to grow to $1 billion by June 30,” says Culhane who adds that neither the governor nor the legislature can agree on cuts. He said that the Connecticut Catholic Conference (CCC)will provide action alerts and information bulletins on its website (www.ctcatholic.org) throughout the legislative session. The CCC is the public policy and advocacy office of the Catholic Bishops in Connecticut. He expects issues such as assisted suicide, unfair statutes of limitations targeting Catholic institutions, and abortion, to once again be considered by the legislature, which has often taken stands at odds with Church teachings. Reeling from 1098 Culhane said many Catholics across the state are still reeling from last year’s proposed Bill 1098 that set the tone for a legislative session that many viewed as anti-catholic. “This legislation was viewed as a direct assault on the Catholic Church in Connecticut. The bill would have redefined how Catholic parishes are organized and would have dramatically altered the role of the pastor and bishop in relation to parish. Its enactment would have been a direct violation of First Amendment protections concerning the separation of Church and state.” One thing Catholics can do immediately is register to vote and be sure to participate in local elections. Low voter turnout is a problem across the country and a lost opportunity for those who wish to make their voices heard on issue important to them and the Church, Culhane says. Become Aware “The issues facing the Catholic Church in contemporary times are very significant, and the legislation that comes before the General Assembly can have a great impact on our lives and values,” he says, “The Catholic population in Connecticut has to be made aware of these issues and positions church is taking.” (For further information or to participate call the Connecticut Catholic Conference at 860-524-7882 or email: [email protected].) v Nationwide Conference ParishSOFT A DELEGATION from the Diocese of Bridgeport attended the ParishSOFT Conference in Dearborn, MI, November 1-4. Father Norm Guilbert (center), pastor of Saint Patrick Parish in Bridgeport, celebrated Mass for the attendees, who included (l-r) Barbara Rizzo and Dorian Peckham of Saint Mary Parish in Ridgefield; Pat Krause, ParishSOFT project coordinator for Parish Finance Services; and Erma Moore of Saint Thomas More Parish in Darien. ❖ 30 January 2010 Collection for the Church in Latin America Coming to Christ who is coming to them By FATHER FREDERICK SAVIANO (Father Saviano, a former missionary in Latin America, is diocesan director of the Society for the Propagation of the Faith.) January brings us a New Year and a new opportunity to cooperate with the missions in Latin America. The Church in the United States takes up the Collection for the Church in Latin America the weekend of January 23-24. Many times mission areas need to put in place programs for the education and formation of lay catechists. They are normally members of the “outpost” nated day for the arrival of the priest. On one such visit, I was in the back hills of the Peruvian Andes where the community’s chapel was little more than a mud hut with thatched roofing. The elders and little children were gathered there waiting for my arrival. As soon as they saw the dust cloud which signaled my arrival in my trusty jeep, they sent out a delegation along the road to greet their “pastor”. Greeted With Dancing They had the community band of flutes and drums with dancers meet me on the road about fifty yards from the chapel and led me (dancing and playing their rustic instruments all the while in front of the jeep) to the front of the chapel. I felt like King David being led in procession into Jerusalem. This was their expression of joy at having God’s representative and their shepherd come to them. It was really a humbling experience knowing that I was being given such a warm acceptance into their community because I came in God’s name. I was truly their brother. Well, you should have seen the enthusiasm with which these humble people danced up a “dust storm” offering their joy and their culture to the Lord. Christian Communities who are delegated to bring the Word of God and religious instruction to their people in the absence of a priest. With so many communities to visit for pastoral care, often with long distances or difficult terrain between them, the priests are not able to be present 24/7, so to speak. Each priest must constantly move to be able to reach all of the God’s Children in the extensive territory assigned to him. My last parish territory in Peru was the size of the Diocese of Bridgeport with 87 such outpost communities. So the trained catechist would prepare his or her community for the pastoral visit, sacraments, and the celebration of the Eucharist on the desig- Walk to Mass We prepared the small altar in front of the Chapel for the celebration of Mass. And, then, I became aware that their gaze was fixed on a point about five hundred yards beyond the gathering place to a hill where I could devise a long line of people advancing towards the chapel. It was the primary school children. They had been in classes at their rural school almost a mile away and were on their way walking with their teacher to the chapel for Mass. Benefit Planning Services, LLC Insurance Made Simple… …For you, your family, your business 2 Great Insurance Brokers in 1 convenient location James P. Murphy & Associates Auto & Home, Business, Contractors Professional Liability Insurance 3 Belden Avenue, Norwalk, Connecticut 06852 (203) 840-8877 or 800-378-7526 They walk a long distance to school from their huts and back home again every day except Saturday and Sunday. Since today was a weekday they had walked the distance to school but again were footing it to be present at the Mass which for all was an important celebration. They knew that Jesus was going to be present in their community in a special way. No sacrifice would deter them from being there. We waited for them to arrive and placed them around the altar. I asked the dancers and musicians to take a place “front row center.” Right after the consecration of Eucharist, I held up the host and chalice and explained to them that as they had given me such a warm welcome with their music and dance because I was coming in His name, they should welcome Jesus Himself now present on our altar. Well, you should have seen the enthusiasm with which these humble people danced up INTRICATE WEAVINGS, the fruit of their daily labor, are blessed during the Mass at a small community in the highlands of Peru. Because the priest journeys many difficult miles to celebrate Mass with them, he depends on the work of catechists formed through the collection for the Church in Latin America. a “dust storm” offering their joy and their culture to the Lord. Heaven had come to earth and we were one with the angels and saints. What a thrill for a priest to experience this in the missions. The rich life of faith of a community like this one is sus- tained by dedicated catechists, formed through the support you give to the missions. Last year the family of faith in the Diocese of Bridgeport gave $125,000 to support the Church in Latin America. Please be as generous as possible in this v year’s collection. Guest Column BY FATHER COLIN McKENNA Making Holy Hours at Home! For most people, the new year brings resolutions. Many people – especially adults – resolve to lose weight and “get in shape.” If Christmas is the make-or-break season for retailers, January is the cash-cow for fitness clubs. In January, the register goes “Ka-ching” as the overweight and out-of-shape plunk down cash or credit at health clubs to begin an exercise regimen that rarely lasts beyond the Super Bowl. Other resolutions involve things like cash management or even joining a dating service if Mr. Right or Ms. Right is proving elusive. For Catholics, however, each new year (or new decade!) brings the opportunity to resolve to grow in holiness. Did you make any “spiritual resolutions” for the new year? There is still time if you didn’t. In fact, it is always a good time for a resolution! You may think that I mean spending an hour or so in church praying before the Blessed Sacrament, but there are other ways to make a Holy Hour. Whether you are young, old, married, single, widowed, divorced, you can make an Holy Hour at home whenever you wish. All you need is • At the end of an hour, someone can signal that it is time to gather together again. • When everyone is together, each person describes what they did and how they feel about their experience. When the family gathers again after the Holy Hour, it is important that comments about the experience are received in a non-judgmental atmosphere. For example, “teenager Tommy” might say that the experience was “boring.” Let him say it. It may have been, or maybe it wasn’t and he is putting on a detached front because the experience touched his heart and he doesn’t want anyone to know it – especially his family! “For Catholics, however, each new year (or new decade!) brings the opportunity to resolve to grow in holiness.” Year Round Lent usually brings more people to daily Mass in our parishes. This is a very beneficial practice for parishioners and edifies clergy and religious. But there are other religious practices that can be incorporated into our lives, not only seasonally, but yearround. One such religious practice is the Holy Hour. silence and God’s presence. For parents with children, organizing a Holy Hour at home could go something like this: • Gather the family and explain that you are going to make a Holy Hour at home on such and such day/evening at such and such time. • At the beginning of the Holy Hour, make the Sign of the Cross and listen to the reading of a Scripture passage. • Then, each family member is to go off to a place in the home where he or she can remain alone for an hour. • No electronic devices are allowed to be on during this time, and phones should be unplugged or turned off. Growing in Holiness Making Holy Hours at home is a good Lenten practice, but it can be done at any time throughout the year. If families or individuals are serious about growing in holiness, home-made Holy Hours can be monthly, weekly, or for the truly inspired, daily. Again, the recipe for a homemade Holy Hour is silence and God’s presence. (Father McKenna is parochial vicar of Sacred Heart Parish in Georgetown.) v 31 January 2010 What a glorious cast of saints who come together for this feast of the Presentation of the Child Jesus on February 2: there is Our Lady and Saint Joseph, and the prophets Simeon and Anna, all of whom inspire the faithful to remember how on this day the light of the world was revealed to all the nations. According to the Mosaic Law, a new born boy was to be circumcised on the eighth day and then presented in the Temple on the 40th day. An offering of either a lamb and a turtledove for the rich, or two turtledoves if one was poor, was to be presented for the purification of the mother (Leviticus 12:1-8). The Communion of Saints BY FATHER GREG J. MARKEY PRESENTATION OF THE LORD fication. Nonetheless Our Lady was a faithful daughter of Israel and presented herself with great humility at the Temple. As a family of lesser means, Saint Joseph came to the Temple with the more modest sacrificial offering, two turtledoves (Luke 2:24). “My eyes have seen the salvation which you have prepared in the presence of all people, a light to reveal you to the nations.” In order to fulfill this commandment, Saint Joseph and the Blessed Virgin Mary with the new born babe would have traveled from Bethlehem to Jerusalem, about a six-mile journey. As they approached the City of Zion they would have seen the glorious Temple, “What wonderful stones and what wonderful buildings!” (Mark 13:1). Daughter of Israel It may seem strange that Mary would have submitted to this law because she was free from sin, and therefore was not bound to fulfill the rite of puri- Proclaimation When they arrived, Simeon, a man “righteous and devout, looking for the consolation of Israel” (Luke 2:25), was waiting. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not see death until he had seen the birth of the long awaited Messiah. When the Child arrived Simeon blessed him and said, “Lord, now you let your servant go in peace. My eyes have seen the salvation which you have prepared in the presence of all people, a light to reveal you to the nations” (Luke 2:2932). It was moment of great joy for Our Lady and Saint Joseph, and they marveled at what was said about their Son. Nonetheless there was also a painful prophecy from Simeon: “Behold, this child is set for the fall and rising of many in Israel, and for a sign that shall be contradicted. And your own soul a sword shall pierce, that the thoughts of many may be revealed” (Luke 2:35). A moment of joy had suddenly become a moment of pain. This was to be the first of the Seven Sorrows of Our Lady. Finally Anna, a wise and elderly prophetess who spent her life in “worshipping and fasting and prayer” (Luke 2:37), came and gave thanks for the baby Jesus, telling all in the Temple about Him. Surely for years to come those who frequented the Temple would RECEIVING THE CHRIST CHILD from Our Lady and Saint Joseph, as this stained glass window from Saint Mary Parish in Norwalk pictures, Simeon proclaimed: “and your own soul a sword shall pierce, that the thoughts of many may be revealed” (Luke 2:35). remember that day, and wonder what had happened to the Child who had such marvels spoken about Him. It would only be at the Lord’s baptism in the Jordan, 30 years later, that they would begin to make the connection. From the inception of the Church many beautiful traditions grew up around this feast. For example, the Church’s liturgical calendar traditionally celebrated the Christmas season for 40 days, beginning December 25th and ending 40 days later on February 2nd with the feast of the Purification of the Blessed Virgin Mary, or as it is called today, the Presentation of the Lord. Of all the feasts of Our Lady, the Purification of the Blessed Virgin is the most ancient. Some, such as Pope Benedict XIV, held that it was instituted by the Apostles themselves. Candlemas Furthermore, Simeon’s prophecy about “a light to reveal you to the nations” inspired the Church to have blessed candles lit followed by a procession on this feast. Therefore February 2nd came to be known as Candlemas. Along with the blessing of ashes and palms, it is one of the three principle blessings of the year. This day is a reminder of the humility of Our Lady, who although free from the law, humbly became obedient to the law. The people of God should imitate her humble obedience remembering that Christ is the light of the world. (Father Greg Markey is pastor of Saint Mary Parish, Norwalk.) v S A I N T L Y L I V E S by Ed Waldron 32 State of the art equipment January 2010 Project Adventure challenges gymnasts International Connection Trinity makes contact with Spain STAMFORD – Cindy Solomon, chairman of the foreign language department at Trinity High School, uses the Smart Board to do a television news broadcast in Spanish. Working with the latest technology, her students were able to speak directly to students in Spain, presenting the broadcast in Real-Time to them.v Invest in the future Saint Joseph H.S. receives $1500 RIDGEFIELD – A balancing act by exuberant third grade students Mackenzie Wanicka, Sofia Singer, Claire Middlebrook, and Emma Baughman highlights Saint Mary School’s new Project Adventure equipment. The state-of-the-art equipment was donated to the school by Saint Mary Parish Men’s Ministry, in memory of Dr. Peter Yanity. On October 1, the school welcomed Mrs. Elizabeth Yanity, along with Msgr. Laurence Bronkiewicz, Saint Mary’s pastor, and Men’s Ministry representatives James Carroll and Emmett Brown. The students jumped at the chance to demonstrate the challenges of Project Adventure for their honored guest.v TRUMBULL – Saint Joseph High School in Trumbull was nominated by local Mobil Dealer David DeLuca to receive a grant from ExxonMobil Educational Alliance. The Alliance Program is designed to provide Mobil retailers an opportunity to invest in the future of their communities through educational grants to local schools. DeLuca’s Mobil stations are Fairfield On-the-Run and Stratfield Service Center in Fairfield. This year, DeLuca personally matched the $750 ExxonMobil grant. Pictured (l to r) Libby DeLuca, a junior at Saint Joseph, David DeLuca, Kenneth Mayo, principal, and Nancy DeLuca, presenting checks totaling $1500.00. v WEDDING & DINING guide To advertise in this Guide, please call Ralph: 203-416-1462 Regency Limousine Inc. Your Home Away From Home SUNDAY - THURSDAY 6:00am to Midnight FRIDAY - SATURDAY 6:00am to 3:00am 4241 Main Street Bridgeport Connecticut 372-8398 Now Handicap Accessible We’re just 5 minutes from the Catholic Center Door to Door 24 Hours a day All Airports, Piers, and Theatres New York City Corporate Accounts Wedding & Special Occasions White Limousine, Chauffeured Lincoln Limousines & Regency Town Car Sedans Anytime, Anywhere 1-800-243-5606 www.regencylimousine.com Licensed by CT D.O.T. 33 January 2010 25 Years of Service Photos by Karen Leffler BRIDGEPORT – Bishop William E. Lori presented Twenty-five Years of Service awards during the annual luncheon at the Catholic Center on December 23. Shown here, he congratulates Catholic Center employee Matthew Helfrich, noting that not only has Helfrich donated generously of his time, his father, the late Bernard Helfrich, was the long-time superintendant of schools for the diocese. “This is a family with a tradition of giving to the diocese,” said Bishop Lori as Helfrich received a standing ovation for his award. Other awardees included Kitty Curty, business manager for Stamford Regional Catholic Schools; Steve Coffey, maintenance worker at Saint Catherine of Siena Parish in Riverside; Lorraine Kozlowski, secretary of Saint Peter/Sacred Heart School in Danbury; Deidie Labelle, bookkeeper at Holy Family in Fairfield; Katherin Sniffin, assistant principal at Saint Peter/Sacred Heart School; Mary Stone, language arts teacher at Our Lady of Assumption School, Fairfield; and Sister Frances Smallkowsky, pastoral care coordinator at Pope John Paul Center for Health Care in Danbury (shown with her mother). St. Camillus R &N C ehabilitation ursing enter We provide rehab & nursing services for many needs and conditions. Some of these are: Strokes Total Joint Replacements Orthopedic Disorders Neurological Disorders Cardiopulmonary Conditions Fractures Amputations Muscular Disorders Post Surgical Care Wound Care IV Therapy Short-Term Rehabilitation Physical, Occupational, and Speech Therapies offered six days per week Specialized Wound-Care Nurse Nurse Practitioner Services Cable television and telephone service Private rooms available • Full recreation program In-house Chapel/Daily Mass Medicare • Medicaid • Private/Insurance Manage care accepted • Long term + Hospice Care available. Office: 203.517.1720 • Cell: 203.249.2756 • Fax: 203.325.0456 494 Elm Street • Stamford, Connecticut 06902 34 January 2010 CHILDREN WHO ARE DEAF can attend religious education classes at several locations in the diocese. Interpreted Masses for hearing impaired are celebrated every Sun at 6 p.m. at St. James Parish in Stratford, and the third Sun. of the month (Jan. 17) at 10:45 at Assumption Parish, Fairfield. For more information, call Sr. Nancy O’Neill: 416-1383. WEEK OF PRAYER for Christian Unity begins Mon., Jan. 18 and concludes Mon., Jan. 25. The intention is to invite the participation of the whole Christian community to pray in communion with the prayer of Jesus “What all may SUFFERING AFTER ABORTION? Experience the healing love of Jesus on a Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat weekend, held in Fairfield County on Jan. 22-24. The retreat combines spiritual meditation, discussion, the Sacrament of Reconciliation, a memorial service, and Mass. Participation is strictly confidential. For more information, call Retreat Director Clarissa Cincotta: 218-0291. be one.” For more information, call Fr. Samuel Scott, director of the Office of Ecumenical & Interreligious Affairs: 322-5331. EMMAUS RETREAT FOR TEENS ages 15-19 will be held the weekend of Jan. 29-31 at All Saints School, Norwalk. The retreat, coordinated by volunteers of the St. Matthew Emmaus Community, allows you to focus your life in a more positive and meaningful way. Retreat begins Fri. evening 7:30 p.m. and ends Sunday at 8 p.m. 07105L1a_Triple_FfldCthlcAd A donation of $50 is requested; registration deadline: Mon., Jan 18. For more information or an application, contact Donna Forcier: 853-4292. MASSES OF HEALING AND HOPE sponsored by the Charismatic Renewal Office will be celebrated Mon., Jan. 18, at 7:30 p.m. at St. Lawrence Parish, Shelton with Fr. Charles Allen, SJ. For more information, call 268-8253. CATHOLIC FORUM at St. Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown, will be sponsoring a presentation by Msgr. Chris Walsh on his book, “The Untapped Power of the Sacrament of Penance: A Priest’s View,” on Sun., Jan 17 starting at 5 p.m. He will explain why priests cherish the Sacrament of Penance as a powerful movement of God’s healing love. For more information call 426-1014, or visit www. catholicforum.us. ZITI DINNER will be offered by park City Council 16 at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 2540 Park Ave., Bridgport, on Thurs., Jan. 21, at 6:45 p.m. Cost: $8/person; all welcome. For more information, call Nick: 374-6202; or Herb: 374-7903. CURSILLO ULTREYAS will be held Thurs., Jan. 21, at 7:30 p.m. at St. Mary Parish, Bethel, and Tues., Feb. 2, at 7 p.m. at the Catholic Center, Bridgeport. A Cursillo Day of Reflection will be held at John Paul II Center, Danbury, on Sat., Feb. 6. For more information, please contact Peter Baumgartner: pjbaumgart@ yahoo.com. RACHEL’S VINEYARD RETREAT, being held the weekend of Jan. 22-24, needs help with meals for the weekend. If you or your group are able to donate a meal, baked goods, or items for the snack table, please call Clarissa 1/30/07 9:25 PM Artwork accompanies practical prayers FAIRFIELD – Wrapping paper hand-made – literally – by first graders in the religious education class at Saint Pius X Parish decorated a “Thomas Merton House Toothbrush Collection.” The box, filled to overflowing with new toothbrushes, was wrapped in paper showing students helping people, along with their renderings of turkeys, pumpkins, leaves and flowers. “They learned that prayers don’t have to be in words,” says Jane-Ellen Collins, the first grade teacher. “We pray every time we do a good deed for one another. What a great world this would be if everyone grasped this concept!” close to your heart) will meet Mon., Feb. 1, at 7 p.m. in the parish center (main floor of the convent). For more information, call 261-3676. VISIT DAYS at St. Mary School, Ridgefield, will be held on Tues., Feb. 2, starting at 10 Page 1 Cleaner, Greener and Drier Since 1963 Cincotta, Rachel’s Vineyard director: 218-0291 ANNUAL CAPP RETREAT “Sharing Our Faith in Christ” will be held Sat., Jan. 30, from 12 noon4:30 p.m. at the Chapel of the Holy Spirit, Sacred Heart University, Fairfield, with Fr. Joseph Koterski, S.J., an expert on Catholic Social Teaching. Members and friends of CAPP are invited bring a guest. Agenda: lunch, lecture, private reflection, group discussion, Mass. Fees: $40/person; RSVP by Sun., Jan. 24. For more information or to register, call Jackie Musante: 459-0344, or [email protected], or register online at www.capp-usa.org. PANCAKE BREAKFAST hosted by Knights of Columbus Council #14014, will be held Sun., Jan. 24, from 7:30-11:30 a.m. at the St. Lawrence School Gymnasium, Shelton. $5/person includes pancakes, sausage, bacon, orange juice, and coffee. A portion of the proceeds will benefit the Merton Center in Bridgeport. For more information, call Carlos Perez: 395-8086. OPEN HOUSE & WINTER WEEKEND at St. Mark School, Stratford, will begin with a Winter Carnival on Sat., Jan. 30, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Bring the whole family to a funfilled indoor event including moon bounces, games of skill, face painting, prizes for everyone, food, popcorn, candy, and more. Admission: $1.50. On Sun., Jan. 31, the school will host an Open House. Visit our Blue Ribbon School and take a private tour of grades pre-K through 8. For more information, call 375-4291. BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP at St. Theresa Parish for people who have lost a loved one (spouses, child, parent, sibling, or anyone Home PC & Mac Help Rugs, Carpets Upholstery Oriental && Area Rugs Systems, Network, Internet Training & Tutoring N o r w a l k 847-8000 Stamfor d 327-7471 Stratfor d 375-3737 MENTION THIS AD TO RECEIVE THE FCC DISCOUNT! 203.377.7908 ext:112 www.magtype.com MUNICIPAL • COMMERCIAL • INDUSTRIAL 24 HOUR EMERGENCY SERVICE • LICENSED & INSURED 377-8704 or 1-800-422-3724 Office: 534 Surf Avenue • Stratford • TV PIPE INSPECTION • AIR TESTING • JET RODDING • VACTOR SERVICE a.m. & Thurs., Feb. 4 starting at 1 p.m. Tour the school, learn about programs, and speak with parents of current students. St. Mary’s offers half-day and full-day preschool classes, fullday kindergarten, and world language instruction at all grade levels in a faith-based environment. For more information or to make an appointment, call Paula King, director of admissions: 438-7288, ext. 239. FREE PROSTATE CANCER SCREENINGS will be offered by St. Vincent’s SWIM Prostate Cancer Institute on Wed., Feb. 3, at Park City Primary Care Center, 64 Black Rock Ave., Bridgeport, from 5:30-7:30 p.m. The program is open to all men age 50 and over, and those 40 and over who are at higher risk for prostate cancer due to family history or being of AfricanAmerican decent. For more information or to schedule an The next “Bits & Pieces” calendar will contain items for the period February 8-March 7, 2010. Deadline for submissions: Thursday, February 25, 2010. Fax info to 203-374-2044 or e-mail: [email protected]. RESIDENTIAL EMERGENCY DRAIN CLEANING • CATCH BASIN CLEANING • HIGH VELOCITY WATER JETTING • LARGE DIAMETER POWER RODDING (Photo by Diane Camillo) MENTION THIS AD TO RECEIVE THE FAIRFIELD COUNTY CATHOLIC DISCOUNT! Sorry, we cannot guarantee publication. Priority is given to Catholic activities and events within Fairfield County. 35 January 2010 appointment, call 576-6158. Appointments are limited. HEALING MASS will be held Thurs., Feb. 4, at 7:30 p.m. at St. Philip Parish, Norwalk. Fr. Bill McCarthy, codirector of My Father’s House in Moodus, will be the celebrant. For more information, call 847-4549. MASS IN HONOR OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS will be celebrated in Spanish every first Fri. of the month (Feb. 5) in St. Mary Church, Greenwich, at 7 p.m. In addition, a prayer group will recite the Rosary every Thurs., at 7:30 in the parish chapel. All are invited. For more information, call Fr. Rolando Torres: 869-9393, ext. 123, or e-mail [email protected]. FILL THE VAN WITH CANS is the challenge for “Souper” Bowl Sunday at Assumption Parish, Fairfield, When: Sat.-Sun., Feb. 6-7. Sat. 9 a.m.-12 noon and after the 4 p.m. Mass; and after all Sunday Masses: 7:30 a.m., 9 a.m., 10:30 a.m. and 12 noon. What: Fill the van with non-perishable food items. The youth group is challenging the parish and surrounding community to help meet the needs of local food pantries. For more information, call Lara Linsenmeyer: 3339065 or e-mail olayouthgroup@ yahoo.com. OBERAMMERGAU PASSION PLAY Eastern Europe Pilgrimage by the Sharing Christ Ministry has some spaces left for the 11-day Splendors of Eastern Europe V.I.T.A. TAX ASSISTANCE: Volunteers desperately needed to help for a few hours a week from Feb.-Apr. The site will be in the Catholic Center in Bridgeport: Mon., Wed., & Thurs. 5:30-8:30 p.m., and Sat. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. V.I.T.A. volunteers prepare basic federal and state income tax returns free-of-charge for individuals with low and limited income, those with disabilities, and non-English speaking and elderly taxpayers. Volunteers are asked to offer at least 3 hours each week from Feb.1-Apr. 15. No experience needed – all training provided. To volunteer and for more information on training sessions, call Roxanne ReyesVelez at Casey Family Services: 372-3722 ext. 5705, e-mail [email protected]; or Fr. Seraphim at Catholic Charities: 581-4978, e-mail [email protected] . Pilgrimage, May 14-24, 2010, visiting Prague, Budapest, Vienna, Munich, and most importantly, the worldrenowned Passion Play 2010 in Oberammergau, Germany, which is only presented every 10 years. Join Joe and Fran Karpiej, along with Fr. Larry Carew on this journey of culture and faith. Cost: $3874/pp from JFK/NY; includes tickets to the Passion Play. Tickets are in high demand; an initial deposit of $2,000 per person is due now to hold a space. For more information, call Joe Karpiej: 452-7040, or e-mail: jkarpiej@ aol.com. LEGION OF MARY is looking for Catholic men and women to visit hospitals and nursing homes or volunteer to teach religious education. For more information or to join, call Marion Hinds: 334-7207, or Fran Tenney: 268-4107. RESTORATIVE YOGA CLASSES for cancer patients and cancer survivors (gentle yoga with breathing and mediation) are offered through St. Vincent’s Medical Center SWIM programs at The Club At Watermark, 3030 Park Ave., Bridgeport. Patients in active treatment or post-surgery: Tues. 10-11 a.m.; cancer survivors: Weds. 4:30-5:30 p.m. or 6-7 p.m. Parking lot entrance on Westfield Avenue. The club is on the lower level in the back of the building. For more information or to register, call 576-6158. THOMAS MERTON CENTER in Bridgeport is in need of pasta, sauce, and hot and cold breakfast cereal. Items can be dropped off at the Merton Center. For more information, call Mark Grasso: 367-9036. UNWANTED CELL PHONES are being collected by St. Joseph High School Red Cross Club. They will be converted to 911 emergency-use cell phones by Secure the Call, a national organization, for those in greatest need of contact with the emergency services: battered women, the elderly, etc. Phones can be dropped off (cell phone handsets only - please no chargers or accessories) at St. Joseph High School, 2320 Huntington Turnpike, Trumbull. For more information visit St. Joe’s website: www.sjcadets.org. OPEN DOOR SHELTER, South Norwalk, is experiencing an unprecedented surge in demand for shelter and food. Donations of checks, food, and clothing can be sent to: Open Door Shelter, 4 Merritt St., South Norwalk, CT 06854. Donations can also be made online at: www.norwalkemergencyshelter.org. 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For more information, contact Family Life Ministry: 203-416-1442 or [email protected] St. Vincent’s Medical Center is pleased to invite you to the opening of the ELIZABETH PFRIEM SWIM CENTER FOR CANCER CARE PUBLIC OPEN HOUSE AND TOURS Saturday, January 23, 2010, 10 a.m.- 3 p.m. Sunday, January 24, 2010, 12 p.m. – 4 p.m. Join the staff at St. Vincent’s as they guide you through the new 125,000 square-foot, four-story building, which houses all of St. Vincent’s oncology services, including Ambulatory Infusion, radiation therapy, diagnostics, and the Women’s Imaging Center. Refreshments. Proud Principal Mary Maloney poses with students outside Saint Rose of Lima School in Newtown one of six diocesan Blue Ribbon Schools. (Photo by Dr. Joseph McAleer)