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Adopt
A Pet
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Green
at the
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store
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Michelle
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herlife | contents
Michelle MARIE
For the reigning Ms. Colorado State America, philanthropy and service to
others are the true stuff of beauty. In our Inspirations pages, Michelle Marie
reveals some truths about the path to her title and how she loves to inspire
children and adults to be authentic and to make a difference in the world.
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As with all good things,
gardens come to an end this
time of year, and with that
transition comes the need to
consider what we can do now
to help our gardens bloom
next spring and summer.
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The culinary trail that follows
along a north woods trail –
specifically northern Minnesota up to the border of Canada
– consists of fish, wild rice,
wild berries, and any o’natural
food fare that you can catch.
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If you’re thinking of adding
to your “furry family” with a
dog or cat, there are many
reasons to consider adopting
from a local animal shelter.
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contents
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Welcome
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Hine Things
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Wine
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Spotlight
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Real Estate
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Mother's Perspective
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Inspirations
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Green Living
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Beauty
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Working Women
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Finance
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Home
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Trendsetter
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Travel
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Pets
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Home & Design
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Tie the Knot
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Tie the Knot
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Scene and Be Seen
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herlife | welcome
trick or treat!
Have an inspirational
woman in your life?
Growing up, I was never a huge fan of Halloween. It was probably because I disliked costumes
and playing dress-up. However, my view of celebrating Halloween changed when I had my son, Kevin. I will confess that Halloween is still not top on my list of favorite dates on my calendar; I still don't
If you or someone you know
enjoy going through the trouble of putting on costumes or dressing up as someone or "something"
has a great story that you think
else, but I remember how excited I was during Kevin's early years when the time came when we had
should be told, please email us
to figure out and decide what he was going to be for Halloween.
at [email protected]!
I fondly remember the pumpkin costume when he turned one and the Barney and Superman
costumes (yes, he had both!) when he turned two. There were the red Power Ranger getup (remember them?), the tight-fitting Spiderman and the very muscular Wolverine outfits, to name a few. As
Kevin grew older, gone were the cute getups and superheroes. The scary, ugly and grotesque character looks came
into play. The scarier, uglier and bloodier the better!
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treat. My husband would usually accompany Kevin as
he scoured the neighborhood for treats while I chose to
stay home to hand out the goodies to costumed kids and
teens that came to our door. I loved this role! Not only
did I get to be the good guy handing out the treats but
I
also could see and admire the different costumes that the
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creativity and the excitement on the little ones' faces as
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they yelled "Trick or Treat" when you opened the door.
Now that Kevin is turning 23, way past the trick or treating age, I can't help but reminisce and
miss this mother-and-son bonding activity of deciding and buying what to wear for Halloween. I still
look forward to handing out the treats, but it seems that all the kids in our neighborhood grew up as
Kevin did, so we don’t have as much doorbell ringing as we used to get in past years.
Whatever you do to welcome the month of October–whether that’s getting your kids ready
for Halloween, planning your annual visit to the corn maze, changing your summer home décor to
showcase more fall accessories and items or plotting your visits to haunted houses to provide you
the scare of your life–make October a wonderful and fun month!
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herlife | fine things
vintage jewelry
what to buy and what to avoid
by b re ro a c h
T
here’s something about the word “vintage” that makes every-
ize yourself with some household vintage designers. If the piece of
thing sound more authentic. For example, if your jacket is vin-
jewelry is older, more elaborate or in excellent condition, then you’re
tage leather, then it’s probably going to be more sought-after
probably going to be paying a higher price for it than something that’s
than an everyday leather, jacket. Vintage furniture is another
simple and only 30 years old. Be wary of chips or cracks, corrosion or
trending item, but perhaps the most desired vintage item is
jewelry. Not only does it have a history, but it has already stood the test
of time, reassuring you that it will only get better with each passing day.
For most vintage jewelry, however, it can quite literally be like finding the
diamond in the rough—you might have to kiss a few toads before you
find your Peruzzi-cut prince.
A good eye and sharp mind are required when searching for vintage jewelry. One great site to find vintage jewelry is eBay, where they
have numerous products from which to choose. It’s important to note
before getting started shopping online that vintage and antique are
two different things, so if you’re looking for the real thing, then you
have to learn how to spot it. Antique jewelry is typically 100 years old
or older. If you see a ring online that is only 20 years old, that’s not
necessarily “antique.” Vintage jewelry, on the other hand, was made
during the retro-Modern period, the 1940s and 1950s.There may be a
Vintage jewelry is quickly becoming
a lifelong gift from one person to
the other (think engagement ring)
because it shows that they put
research and effort into obtaining
the piece. Vintage is trendy and
unique, so don’t be afraid to get
creative and think outside
of the box.
vintage reproduction (see also: “knock off”) that is made to look like
the authentic jewelry piece but isn’t, which is why it’s important to
know the difference.
EBay has an entire vintage jewelry buying guide that details how
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discoloration because those flaws cannot be repaired. Study the photographs they post online intensely. The next step is to get friendly
with the names of vintage jewelry. If you prefer big costume jewelry,
then keep Weiss, Juliana, Coro and Haskell in mind when shopping
online.
Brush up on your history of the designs of the jewelry as well. It
After finding your perfect piece of jewelry, follow these helpful tips
on maintaining its quality. First, wear it with care because vintage
jewelry is extremely difficult to repair. Second, store it in pouches that
may sound a little extensive, but think of it this way: would you date
are soft and preferably have zippers. Finally, use a jewelry polishing
a guy without doing a little background research on him? Probably
cloth and never place it directly under running water. These few steps
not, so don’t treat your jewelry like some guy you’re grabbing coffee
will definitely keep your jewelry in mint condition, and when you’re
with. Treat it like a guy who’s taking you out to a four course meal.
ready to sell the piece it will be in good enough shape to get some
Chanel jewelry, for example, has changed its design since the 1960s,
money in return.
so if you know exactly what you want, what era you want it from and
When it comes to finding vintage jewelry, it can be a little intimi-
which designer, you will make your search much less complicated.
dating. Just make sure you know what you want before diving in
Don’t be fooled by misspelled logos or manufacturing location either.
head first, because the waters of vintage jewelry buying are murky
Look extremely close because you don’t want to find out you got
and endless. Be determined that you won’t get scammed and then
scammed by a Versace that was “Made in France” and not “Made in
make an effort to be critical of the details regarding the piece. Vintage
Italy.”
jewelry is quickly becoming a lifelong gift from one person to another
Two of the top vintage jewelry websites are The Vintage Frames
(think engagement ring) because it shows that they put research and
Company and Dope Couture. If you’ve got your search narrowed,
effort into obtaining the piece. Vintage is trendy and rare, so don’t be
then you’ll have an easy time navigating around the jewelry on both
afraid to get creative and think outside of the box, especially since
of these websites. However, if you want to physically see and feel
you know you’ll be one of very few people with the piece. Your ward-
the jewelry, then head to a consignment that is known for its jewelry
robe will thank you later.
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display. Ask the retailers and staff members as many questions as
you can because it’s worth it and that’s their job.
Sources: ebay.com, complex.com and weddings.com.
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herlife | wine
The
heartland
of Wine
by s her r y l . gr anade r
D
reaming about the Heartland may bring images of rolling
west of the state, the region of glacial lakes and rolling river valleys.
hills, scenic settings and friendly people. It is also a re-
The wine industry is expanding in Minnesota, where the grapes are
gion that offers some of the most unexpected wineries in
grown locally and have been developed to be cold-hardy, disease-
the United States. Seemingly endless wine tours geared
resistant and early-ripening, qualities essential for the area’s climate.
for couples and small groups make discovering award-
Each winery has its own way of tending to and processing its grapes.
winning wines a memorable experience, and it will take just a little bit
A few varieties developed through the University of Minnesota’s grape
of investigation to find the ones that suit you best.
breeding program are Frontenac, Frontenac gris, LaCrescent and
Wineries situated in the beautiful foothills of Ohio produce Zanon
Marquette. The heartland of Minnesota is a beautiful place to explore
red wine, a blend of French-hybrid reds that will please any palate.
and offers some of the most flavorful wines that are as rich as the
The Zanon white wines are tangy without sweetness and complement
region is in scenery.
any shrimp or pasta dish. The Catawba, Niagara and Concord grapes
Traveling through southwestern Illinois will lead you to some ex-
grown in this region and their various blends produce fruity and tart
traordinary flavors in wine, from sophisticated dry reds to some sweet
wines as well. Many wineries offer facilities for family reunions, private
wines that are quite popular. The Heartland Rivers Wine Trail offers an
parties and picnics. Of course, you will want to check out their selec-
endless adventure that features the traditions of the early settlers who
tions of homemade breads, arts and crafts from bakers and artists in
brought winemaking skills and expertise from Europe. Each winery
the local communities.
offers unique handcrafted wines that range from a very dry red to a
The Amish countryside is home to numerous award-winning
wines made from fresh fruits, grapes and berries. Beginning in May,
white wine that is as sweet as dessert.
Every week of the year the wineries of central Pennsylvania
and continuing throughout the summer, visitors can enjoy a win-
offer tours and tastings of their excellent wines. You can visit with
ery tour that features handcrafted wines that are sure to please. Is
the winemakers, take photos in the vineyards or enjoy a picnic in
anyone up for tasting some dandelion wine? There is something for
this picturesque part of the world. Spend a weekend or enjoy a day
everyone in Ohio, including locally-made Swiss cheese, gourmet
of relaxation on your own route and take home memories and some
mustards, hickory-smoked meats, jams, sauces and salad dressings.
delicious wine that will remind you of your visit. Each winery offers
Minnesota offers a diverse group of wineries situated in the far
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special events and wine tastings that are sure to please your palate.
The Heartland Rivers Wine Trail
offers an endless adventure that
features the traditions of the early
settlers who brought winemaking
skills and expertise from Europe.
Each winery offers unique
handcrafted wines that range from a
very dry red to a white wine that is as
sweet as dessert.
the nation. Wineries are popping up all over the state, and the Heart
of Iowa Wine Trail is the perfect way to spend time learning about
the state’s rich heritage while sampling some of their delicious wines.
From north to south, you will find wineries owned by local Iowans
working together to spread the word about their wine industry. Iowa
is a beautiful state with friendly folks who are eager to serve quality
wine. Most of the wineries offer unique gifts, entertainment and other
events that take wine tasting to an entirely new level.
Spend a day or plan a weekend to take advantage of all the
wineries these various wine trails have to offer. Whichever state you
choose, the locally-grown grapes in the Heartland are hand-harvested, carefully fermented and bottled to capture the taste of the area.
There are riding vineyard tours, winery tours, wine tastings with or
without food, gift shops, indoor and outdoor events, and wine for sale
by the glass or the bottle. Combine all of that with some of the best
scenery in the country and you will create an unforgettable weekend
Several wineries in Pennsylvania offer wine tastings paired with
food, entertainment and grand prize drawings for fine dining or nights
or day trip.
Some of the best handcrafted wines can be found in the Heart-
at a local bed and breakfast. The Susquehanna Heartland Wine Trail
land. Explore the distinct, high-quality wines found in these areas and
makes their wine tastings a true adventure with a scavenger hunt for
enjoy learning about the expanding wine industry of this wonderful
information about the wine and wineries. The best part is the tasting
and friendly section of the U.S.
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of the wine as you experience the beautiful scenery of the area.
When you think of wine, you probably do not think of Iowa.
However, at one time Iowa was the sixth-largest grape producer in
Sources: ohiowines.org, heartofiowawinetrail.com,
illinoiswine.com, pennsylvaniawine.com and northernvineyards.com.
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herlife | spotlight
Invision Sally Jobe
b y kat h l een m . k ru e g e r | p h o t o g r a p h y b y j m p ho t o a rt
I
t was the reputation of Invision Sally Jobe as one of the most inno-
first imaging centers to move outside hospital walls and become an
vative and forward-thinking breast imaging centers worldwide that
outpatient facility for breast care. The vacuum-assisted needle breast
brought Dr. Lora Barke to Denver, Colorado. “Invision Sally Jobe is
biopsy was also developed here by Dr. Steven Parker, who worked
well-known and highly regarded both nationally and internationally,”
with Dr. William Jobe in developing the specialized diagnostic breast
Dr. Barke explained.
program for which the organization is known.
Dr. Barke is the medical director who oversees all clinical servic-
Dr. Jobe’s commitment to improving diagnostics and care for
es related to breast care that are offered throughout the Invision Sally
women with breast disease took on a very personal nature when his
Jobe Breast Network. She is a part of the multidisciplinary team of
wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. The name Sally Jobe honors
professionals who work together to provide exceptional diagnostics
her and her battle with the disease, to which she succumbed in 1996.
and care for the women referred to them for breast-related screening
and care.
The name has evolved over the years, but Invision Sally Jobe
Invision Sally Jobe continues its commitment to staying on the
cutting edge of new technology and techniques. It was one of the
first imaging centers in the area to offer digital breast tomosynthesis
has been on the cutting edge of imaging diagnostics since it was
(DBT), which is sometimes referred to as 3D mammography. They
founded in 1968. It lays claim to a lot of “firsts.” It was one of the
also are one of the first imaging centers to offer the services of certi-
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fied genetic counselors to their patients.
Each patient who is seen at Invision Sally Jobe goes through a
personalized assessment before receiving breast imaging services.
Family medical history is just one of the components examined during
that assessment. Ancestral origins, hormonal life changes, previous
biopsies or cancer history, and density of breast tissue can all play a
role in an individual’s level of risk related to breast cancer. If the assessment shows an elevated level of risk, genetic counseling may be
recommended.
Mary Freivogel is one of two genetic counselors currently on
staff with Invision Sally Jobe. “Knowledge is empowering,” Mary stated. “Learning whether her risk levels are higher or lower than average
gives a woman a sense of control.” One of the important benefits of
these personalized assessments is the opportunity for the counselor to educate women on the many options they have available to
minimize their risks. Additional screenings beyond the annual mammogram can be done. There are also medications that are available
in certain situations to prevent cancer before it starts. In most cases,
According to the American Cancer
Society, the survival rate for breast
cancer patients with early detection
is 98 percent, as compared with
only 26 percent for those who are
diagnosed in later stages. “We can’t
help you if you don’t come in. Take
care of yourself, so you will be there
to continue taking care of everyone
else,” Dr. Barke encourages women.
insurance covers costs for everything from the genetic counseling to
the additional screening and genetic testing.
“Women who are coming in for our breast imaging services
appreciate an aesthetic that goes beyond an antiseptic, clinical set-
ter of Bright Pink, a unique nonprofit focused on the prevention and
ting,” Dr. Barke observed. “We do our best to keep them at ease and
early detection of breast and ovarian cancer in young women. Since
comfortable in a pleasant and relaxing spa-like environment.”
the majority of breast cancer patients are over 40, young women too
Educating and encouraging women to be proactive in regard
often ignore warning signs, allowing the disease to progress, accord-
to their breast health is a big priority for Invision Sally Jobe as an
ing to Mary. Bright Pink is all about raising awareness and improving
organization, and that carries over to the staff as individuals as well.
survival rates among young women who are diagnosed with breast
Mary and Dr. Barke were instrumental in creating the Denver Chap-
cancer or ovarian cancer. Early detection is a critical component in
fighting any kind of cancer.
Dr. Barke additionally volunteers her time with the Susan G.
Komen® Denver affiliate. Through these and other cause-worthy vehicles, she echoes these sentiments for women of all ages. “Women
tend to take care of everyone else and leave their own needs for last.
If you’re over 40, you should have a mammogram once a year. Breast
cancer is one of the few cancers that can be detected at screening
and found at a very early stage,” she emphasized.
According to the American Cancer Society, the survival rate
for breast cancer patients with early detection is 98 percent, as
compared with only 26 percent for those who are diagnosed in later
stages. “We can’t help you if you don’t come in. Take care of yourself,
so you will be there to continue taking care of everyone else,” Dr.
Barke encourages women.
If you’ve been putting off making the phone call to schedule your
mammogram or you have any symptoms you are uncertain about,
don’t hesitate any longer; make the appointment.
Invision Sally Jobe has several locations in the Denver area. Call
720-493-3700 to schedule a screening mammogram appointment or
visit their website for more information at InvisionSallyJobe.com.
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herlife | real estate
Downsizing 101: The art of moving
to a smaller living space
b y g a il s ilve rs t e in
“A
house is just a place for our stuff,” exclaimed
ing one more plastic container or stained measuring cup. If you
comedian George Carlin in his classic 1986 standup
experience success downsizing in this unsentimental area you will be
routine. No statement could ring more true, espe-
more motivated to move on to the rest of the house.
cially when you’re trying to downsize your home in
preparation for a move. Whether due to loss of a
Separate your stuff into three categories: Keep, Throw Away, and
Donate/Sell. Yes, it’s that easy. And you can actually make a profit
loved one, kids moving out of the family home, remarriage or financial
holding a garage sale, consigning high end items or trying your hand
reasons, downsizing can be downright daunting and outright emo-
at eBay. Also, some moving companies offer clients waste disposal
tional. But instead of feeling overwhelmed, just take a deep breath
services and will take care of discarding hazardous chemicals and old
and move…forward!
paint. Consider giving away books, video tapes and other useful stuff
For all you soon-to-be empty-nesters or those who are renting and need to relocate, here are the top ten tips to total trimming
transformation.
Make a list of all the items you absolutely can’t live without, then
to a neighbor, a charity or a library.
De-clutter areas at least three months before the big move. If
you’re like the rest of us, that means paper clutter in particular. Do
you really need to hold onto tax returns from 18 years ago? “Paper is
stick firmly to that list. Enlist the advice of a trusted friend or family
the real killer,” says Jennie Davidson, a Toronto-based moving plan-
member if you absolutely can’t make up your mind. They’ll be sure to
ner and co-owner of Wren Designs. She adds photographs to her list.
remind you that you don’t fit into those bell-bottom jeans from high
Scanning your photos and saving them to your computer or to disk is
school any more.
a space-saving solution.
Start in your kitchen. Why? No one sheds a tear over discard14
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Size up your new living space. Get a floor plan, with measure-
ments if possible, to assess if all your furniture will fit. There’s free
alone. Order a pizza and ask everyone to pitch in. If you don’t have
software online available for those of us who need visual help with
family nearby or you’re too emotional to do the deed, hire a profes-
this useful suggestion. This tip is also the perfect dose of reality for
sional organizer. “Many organizers are experienced with downsizing
and are sensitive to the emotional impact of the process,” says Karen
De-clutter areas at least three
months before the big move. If
you’re like the rest of us, that means
paper clutter in particular. Do you
really need to hold onto tax returns
from 18 years ago?
Kingston, author of Clear Your Clutter with FengShui.
Get organized. Once you have sorted, stored and sold your
“stuff,” make sure to label all of your boxes by room or area; you may
also use a numbering system for identification. That way unpacking in
your smaller living space will be a cinch. Move and unpack items that
you’ll need right away, like bathroom toiletries.
Furniture first. Once you have the big, bulky items in the proper
place you’ll be able to unpack the small stuff without delay. Be sure
to arrange furniture on a floor plan first; there’s nothing more draining than rearranging furniture when you’re already tired from the big
move. Refer to tip number five and know ahead of time where each
those of us (yes, me) who can’t part with sentimental items, like my
piece of furniture will be going. Then you can enjoy your pizza and
son’s preschool papers and my daughter’s baby clothes. Check out
even sit down in the furniture you just settled.
the storage in your new digs, and, believe me, there’s never enough
storage. Which brings me to the next tip…
Storage. To quote comedian George Carlin again, “There’s a
whole industry based on where to put your stuff!” So if you have to
Relax and enjoy your new living space! Don’t forget to send out
new address cards or email and inform the post office. Host a housewarming party or invite a few friends over to celebrate your new digs.
Life is a journey, so share it with those you love.
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move in a hurry, consider storing some of your larger or pricey items
in a storage facility until you can decide what to do with these valuable pieces.
Sources: styleathome.com, freshome.com and wikihow.com.
Get help. Whether it’s family or good friends, don’t downsize
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herlife | mother’s perspective
How to know when you’re
ready to start a family
b y lis a t a ra n t o b u t le r
F
irst comes love, then comes marriage, then comes so-and-so
with a baby carriage!
At least that’s how the old playground song goes, but
Assess Your Finances
From toddlers to teens, kids cost cash. Carrying a baby for nine
are those sentiments true for you? Do you daydream about
months is different than carrying all the expenses that come with hav-
family life or think you need a little more time on your own?
ing a child. Decide if your finances can handle the added demands
Does the sound of a crying infant make you want to rock-a-bye baby
and take a thorough look at your budget. Will you need a bigger
or buy a pair of ear plugs? Deciding to start a family is exciting but
home? Will you have two incomes or one? Have you considered the
requires much thought and consideration. Before you take the plunge
costs of daycare or babysitting? Do you have baby equipment and
into parenthood, tread the shallow waters to see if the baby pool is
clothing? If not, where will you get it? Are you breastfeeding or feed-
for you.
ing with formula? These are all factors in family finances.
Partner Harmony
Career Conclusion?
Unless you are starting a family on your own, when it comes to
Children and jobs each require time. How will raising a child
having children no one plays a bigger part than your significant other.
affect your career or your partner’s career? Make sure to realistically
Although you may have agreed that children would someday be in the
consider how having a child will change your livelihood. Will one or
picture, your partner may be on a different timeline than you. Make
both of you continue to work? Is working part time an option? Do you
sure to have an open, honest conversation about your family visions.
need to keep the income at or above what you are currently making?
Deciding to have a baby is a major life decision and if someone isn’t
What about maternity or paternity leaves?
quite ready for parenthood, things can go awry. Keep the lines of
Is your workplace supportive of families’ and children’s needs?
communication open, be honest and address any concerns that one
Having a child means sick children, doctor’s appointments, school
or both of you may have.
functions and daycare pick-up at specific times. If your job doesn’t
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show regular exercise is better than a nap for boosting energy levels.
offer a flexible schedule, the ability to work from home or daycare
Once a baby is born, it is easy to tend to his or her needs and forget
benefits, you may want to reconsider your options. However, if the
your own, but that isn’t good for any family.
pay is substantial, then you may be able to reconsider the lack of
family emphasis.
The Daily Grind
The day-to-day life of a parent is ever-changing. What happens
Time
Whether it is time alone with your honey or just time for yourself,
one day may not be anything close to what happens the next, but
following a schedule is important to keeping things on track. Think of
kids take up a bunch of it. Babies require diapering, feeding, bathing
your life right now. Are you a Sally Scheduler or Willy Nilly? If being
and soothing in 24-hour increments. Housework, organization and
able to go out a lot and sleeping late are important to you, then hav-
free time take a back seat to babies, but making time for you and
ing a family now may not be the answer. Babies and toddlers need
your partner is important, so including this in your parenting plans is
a schedule to make sure they are eating and sleeping enough and
crucial to family success.
getting adequate stimulation. Parents need a schedule to maintain
cohesiveness and to keep our sanity.
Energy
Children are full of energy and can zap you of yours, so consider
how much get-up-and-go you have now and multiply that by a hun-
Surprise!
You can plan and prepare for having a child, but when it comes
dred. That’s about how much energy you will need when kids come
right down to it, everything from pregnancy and labor to life after
into the picture. Nurturing a child takes quite a bit of effort, not to
baby is unpredictable and erratic. No one truly knows how they will
mention endurance. Consider your current health status. Do you eat
feel after taking a look at that brand new face, but gut instincts are
right, exercise and generally feel good? If not, maybe holding off on
usually right on the money.
kids and tending to your own needs may be the better option for now.
Try recharging your battery by exercising daily. Studies continually
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Sources: hitchedmag.com, parentsconnect.com.
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herlife | inspirations
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Michelle Marie:
Beauty and Reality
by kathl een kr u eger | pho t o s by l i gh tbox im a g e s p ho t o g ra p hy | s t y l i s t m a ris s a k re b s o f ‘ a b o u t ique ’
"I
“
’ve lived my dream.”
That is the testimony of Michelle Marie, Ms. Colo-
rado State America 2013.
Raised in Brookfield, Wisconsin, this gorgeous
blonde won the runner-up title in her state beauty
others moved from anorexia to bulimia, eating what they wanted with
their friends and then purging their stomachs of the forbidden foods
afterward by forcing themselves to vomit it out.
It was a vicious cycle that spiraled downward. It took the death
of another model due to a cocaine overdose to make her stop and
pageant during her junior year in high school. Two years later she was
really look at herself in the mirror. The change that had transpired dur-
able to transition directly from her senior year in high school to a full-
ing her first year in the modeling industry was shocking.
time modeling career, living on her own in sunny Arizona.
The dream of being a runway model was filled with glamour and
She had entered at 18 years old with a healthy weight for her
5’10” height: 140 pounds. A year later, at 19, she weighed only 110
financial reward, just what she had expected. But there was another
pounds. Although she was predominantly a hair model, her hair was
side of the modeling world that she was not prepared for. It started
dull and stringy; her eyes were sunken into a skeletal face.
with her agent’s request for her to lose ten pounds before her first
“It was like this outgoing, assertive, powerful, fun-loving, ener-
show and then two inches off her hips for the show that followed six
getic teenager was inside of this body. She was screaming to come
weeks later.
out, but all I saw in the mirror was this stranger who looked like a
Initially the demands for physical perfection seemed harmless
and easy to accommodate, but as the requirements to trim inches
corpse.”
The despair of that moment led to a suicide attempt that, thank-
and pounds continued, it turned into an anorexic trap. She lacked the
fully, failed. But it did serve to turn Michelle in a different direction.
energy to enjoy her time off and found that most of her friends’ social
Although she continued to do some modeling, she began supple-
activities involved the consumption of calories, the very thing she
menting her income with bartending jobs. Between the two she was
needed to avoid.
making a good income and spent her money freely—a little too freely,
Michelle was not alone in this quandary. The other models with
whom she worked were dealing with the same demands and dilemmas. Some turned to drugs to restore their energy. Michelle and
actually.
“I never learned financial responsibility,” Michelle explained.
She didn’t balance her checkbook or pay any attention to her bank
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Michelle has the opportunity to talk about her passion for
volunteering and philanthropy in many venues. She encourages
children and adults to give of their time in service to their
community. She also encourages them to discover their own
passions and use those passions for the good of others. “Find
what you’re passionate about and change the world with it!”
statements. If a check bounced, she just wrote a new one. It wasn’t
homecoming. They didn’t coddle her or permit her to continue her
long before the denial of her financial situation became a stark reality.
habitual self-destruction. Skipping meals was not tolerated. She was
During her last days in Arizona, Michelle had her cell phone shut off
allowed no privacy to hide her behaviors. Doors were removed from
for nonpayment, was evicted from her apartment and had her car
her bedroom and the household bathroom. Michelle is thankful that
repossessed. She had absolutely no money and no one to turn to.
her disease was not as severe as some. Most girls suffering from
Even though she and her mother had had very little contact since
she had moved away from home, out of desperation, Michelle called
bulimia require counseling and even hospitalization at times.
During this time of restoration and healing, Michelle began at-
her mom collect from a pay phone down the street, crying and asking
tending college and also rediscovered what had been her biggest
for help. Michelle spent the next eight hours distraught and alone in
passions growing up—volunteerism and philanthropy. In high school
the McDonald’s across the street from the pay phone until her rescuer
she had always enjoyed giving of her time and talents to help others.
arrived. Her mother had managed to get a last-minute flight from
For four years she volunteered with the Association for the Rights
Milwaukee to Phoenix, rented a car and walked into the McDonald’s
of Citizens with handicaps, which gifted her with a great awareness
to embrace her daughter—a daughter who looked nothing like the
of the power of volunteers to make a significant difference in social
feisty teenager who had defiantly set out on her own shortly after her
issues. Participating in the Shaken Baby Syndrome Vigil in Wash-
18th birthday.
ington, D.C., during that time furthered her passion for philanthropic
Michelle praises her parents’ wisdom in how they handled her
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involvement. Her engagement with these organizations widened her
perspective and helped her see beyond the daily dramas found in the
typical teenage social life. It was a natural for Michelle to begin volunteering in the Wisconsin Management Marketing Association. Her
involvement with WMMA allowed her to see the impact that college
students could make in their communities.
After graduating with honors and earning degrees in marketing and marketing management, Michelle continued to be active
by volunteering in the community. It was during this time that she
became the volunteer coordinator for YP Impact, an organization that
pairs young professionals with nonprofit organizations. This brought
her into contact with various charitable organizations seeking ways to
raise awareness and financial support.
Michelle was also frequently asked to do local modeling gigs,
which kept her in touch with the fashion industry. Knowing from
experience what a big draw fashion shows could be, Michelle began
putting together large events for nonprofits which included fashion shows as the primary draw. Now, with her life back in balance,
Michelle found all the pieces coming together—her experience as a
model, her marketing degree and her passion for philanthropy.
Michelle was becoming very well known in several different circles in the Wisconsin community. To bring all her networks together,
Michelle founded FemCity Milwaukee, a chapter of Femfessionals,
an international professional women’s organization. With Michelle’s
leadership and influence, the Milwaukee chapter quickly grew into the
third-largest chapter in the world.
It was with this solid personal and professional foundation that
Michelle and her boyfriend decided to start their life together in a new
location and took up residence in Colorado. No longer an inexperienced teenager, Michelle began her life in Colorado with confidence
and planted her feet firmly in her community.
Having lost the name recognition she had developed in Milwaukee, Michelle knew it might take some time to rebuild the success
she had left behind, but it didn’t hold her back. She began developing
and use those passions for the good of others.
One of Michelle’s favorite speaking opportunities is being able
the local Femfessionals chapter, FemCity Denver. Just as she was
to speak to high school assemblies about her experience in the
beginning to move forward, she heard about the Ms. Colorado State
fashion industry. Her presentation often begins with her highly-edited
America pageant. It might be a long shot, but she knew that a title
modeling pictures up on a screen. She then comes onto the stage,
like that could help her achieve the recognition she needed to gain
looking as gorgeous as those pictures have promised. This sets the
the respect and trust of the people in Colorado.
stage for her to begin telling her story and revealing the not-so-pretty
Even though she was a newcomer, Michelle was able to raise
side of the modeling and fashion industry. As she talks, she begins
the $5,000 in sponsorships she needed to qualify and competed in
to remove all the “stuff” that she has added to glamorize herself. She
the Ms. America pageant shortly after; the rest is history. She is the
takes off the false eyelashes and fake nails and removes her makeup.
reigning Ms. Colorado State America. In addition to landing her in
She slips out of her designer clothes and into her relaxed sweats. She
the midst of Colorado philanthropic society, it has also launched her
gets down to her true reality, because it was there that she rediscov-
M
public speaking career.
ered her passion, not when she following her dreams as a model. As
ichelle has the opportunity to talk about her pas-
kids come up to give her a hug following the presentation, she also
sion for volunteering and philanthropy in many ven-
reminds them that you don’t need a title to follow your passion. Her
ues. She encourages children and adults to give of
title has just been an extra bonus, one that simply helps facilitate the
their time in service to their community. She also
pursuit of her passion.
encourages them to discover their own passions
“Find what you’re passionate about,” Michelle tells the teenagers, “and change the world with it!”
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herlife | green living
going green
at your
grocery
store
by lindsay whelchel
W
e’ve all been there, at the grocery store faced with
spinach and strawberries, and are the items one should switch to or-
the task of gathering the weekly essentials. With a
ganic with first to avoid consumption of potentially harmful chemicals,
multitude of inner battles that range from conquering
Terri notes.
your sweet tooth to making your purchases fit into
a budget, the idea that we should “go green” might
seem daunting to some.
But in a grocery store, we quite literally have the world at our
fingertips. And if we make a few smart decisions where we can, that
world will thank us in a very tangible way.
“We really want women to understand that the importance of
The organization also has a “Clean 15,” which is a list of produce
not as impacted by chemicals and therefore not as imperative in the
organic debate. These are goodies like avocados and mangoes. This
list can help you save to pay higher prices for the “Dirty Dozen.”
And speaking of the organic debate, the term goes beyond what
ingredients are going into your body, though Terri stresses to make a
habit of reading the labels to make smarter decisions. Organic items
the green conversation is about creating a healthy home and healthy
have benefits deep-rooted to the farmers and communities where
families, rather than singularly trying to solve the climate change de-
the food was grown. “I’m not bringing those chemicals into my body,
bate,” said Terri Bennett, founder of Do Your Part, a green information
but, more importantly, the farmers who have grown those crops have
initiative aimed at empowering women with tools to make their homes
not been exposed to the chemicals. The people who live around the
and lives healthier by going green.
farms have not been exposed, and when it rains the chemicals used
For Terri, a former meteorologist, the environment is directly affected by the purchases we as consumers make. “The greenest thing
you can do is become an educated consumer, so when you’re buying
on the crops are not washing into our waterways. So organic has
multiple levels of importance,” Terri said.
Another area to consider being green, with an added benefit to your
things you’re buying products that are not only safer for the environ-
budget, is with household items such as cleaning supplies. “What most
ment, but are made by companies that are walking the walk and
people who go to the grocery store fail to recognize is that there are so
talking the talk,” Terri said.
many chemicals used in the products that are made today. There’s a
Labels like fair trade and organic might mean slightly higher
prices, but there are benefits and ways to save. Start small and work
more organic items into your budget as you go along, Terri explains.
The Environmental Working Group, a nonprofit organization,
great misconception that if you can buy a product in the United States, it
must be safe, and that is simply not true.” Terri asserted.
She advises to check for the ominous skull and crossbones
graphic on an item and, if present, steer clear. “My green cleaning kit
has outlined the “Dirty Dozen,” a list of produce most susceptible to
consists of six ingredients, which are vinegar, baking soda, hydrogen
pesticide absorption. These are foodie favorites such as blueberries,
peroxide, olive oil, oxygenated bleach and borax. I can clean my en-
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tire house on those inexpensive products safely and without bringing
toxic chemicals into my home,” Terri said.
So now that you’ve made a few purchasing decisions, how are
you going to get the basket full of stuff from the store to your home?
Beyond the easy answer of reusable cloth or canvas shopping
bags, the big question is paper or plastic? According to a report from
the Washington Post, plastic bags take less energy to produce than
paper ones, and, given that the production of paper bags takes an
annual total of 14 million trees, one might proclaim plastic the prime
option. But when we learn that chemicals commonly used to produce
plastic bags are classified as generating hazardous waste, and the
process to recycle plastic is expensive and complicated, we might be
at a loss as to what to choose.
According to a report from the
Washington Post, plastic bags take
less energy to produce than paper
ones, and, given that the production
of paper bags takes an annual
total of 14 million trees, one might
proclaim plastic the prime option.
But when we learn that chemicals
commonly used to produce plastic
bags are classified as generating
hazardous waste, and the process
to recycle plastic is expensive and
complicated, we might be at a loss
as to what to choose.
In this case, whatever you decide, re-use. Go with sustainable
bags or no bags at all when you can. When you can’t, put those
plastics and paper to use around your home as trash can liners and
packing materials, the report advises.
Ultimately, it’s about making small changes that add up. “We
never say throw everything out and start over. There’s no way you
could possibly do everything to be green, but we can all start doing
our part creating healthier lives, which in turn can lead to a healthier
planet,” Terri affirmed.
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Sources: TerriBennett.com,
DoYourPart.com, ewg.org, washingtonpost.com.
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herlife | beauty
Choosing a
Handbag for
Your Body
Type and
Career
by hallie sawyer
P
etite, curvy, pear-shaped, tall, inverted triangle, hourglass and
angular or hourglass figures, and especially good for pear-shaped
apple-shaped are all body types you have heard of, but did
women. A bag like this will fall between hip and natural waist, mak-
you know they also dictate what type of handbag you should
ing the shoulders look broader, therefore balancing out these figure
carry? Turns out not everyone can rock the hobo bag. It’s all
types. This bag also works for many different professional paths,
about balance, proportion, distraction and attraction.
from publishing and marketing to photography.
Along those same lines, fashion experts say there are handbags
to match your career, as well. Your handbag can reveal your level of
professionalism as well as your attention to detail. Here are some tips
for choosing the right handbag for your body type as well as your
vocation.
Crossbody/Messenger: This handbag works for those who
have wider shoulders than hips (called Inverted Triangle), giving the
illusion of balance. This type of handbag also works for the curvy or
hourglass-shaped ladies as long as the bag is proportionate. When it
comes to the career, since the crossbody bag has such a casual feel,
this one isn’t a fit for the executive professional wardrobe. This works
best in the occupation the name describes, as a messenger.
Hobo: This bag is versatile, fitting inverted triangles, hourglass,
petites or those with a leaner, rectangular shape. It works because it
adds curve where it’s needed most. Not all hobos are created equal,
and they can look slouchy if not chosen wisely. For a work setting,
look for one that has more structure (more rare but they exist!) and
The hobo is versatile, fitting inverted
triangles, hourglass, petites or those
with a leaner, rectangular shape. It
works because it adds curve where
it’s needed most. Not all hobos are
created equal, and they can look
slouchy if not chosen wisely. For a
work setting, look for one that has
more structure (more rare but they
exist!) and without a lot of detail.
without a lot of detail. One that is simple and sleek with supporting
structure will also function for carrying documents in style.
Satchel: This handbag has been around since the 17th century
Tote: This bag works well for those who are apple-shaped,
distracting the eye from the top-heaviness of this body type. It’s
and for good reason. It’s a flat-bottomed bag with a short strap or
practical as well as functional for the workplace, and is great for car-
handle, giving shape where it’s needed most. This is great for rect-
rying big items such as a laptop, camera and notebooks. However,
it’s best to invest in a nice leather tote for the office, keeping the more
casual one for the pool.
body type
•
Shoulder bag: These can come in a variety of sizes but they all
Short women look taller carrying a long rectangular handbag.
come with a long strap for looping over the shoulder. This is one of
•
Slim and tall women benefit from a round handbag.
the most popular styles of handbags, for good reason. They usually
•
The length of a handbag – where the bottom hits the body
have multiple compartments and hit at the natural waist, just above
the hip. Inverted triangles, rectangular/athletic and hourglass are
– emphasizes that area.
•
great shapes for this type of bag. Smaller in shape, it’s an everyday
style that gives you the chance to make a great first impression at a
job interview.
Briefcase: While this one isn’t really able to mask any body type
Short handbags make busts appear larger, so choose
styles with longer straps to divert attention.
•
Most women look good wearing handbags that hang to the
mid-torso.
Size and comfort are just as important when it comes to pur-
flaws or distract the eye from any less-than-desirable body parts, it
chasing the right handbag. It’s important to make sure it has enough
does say a lot about a person’s level of professionalism. It’s a clas-
compartments for your items and is comfortable to carry. Also, a
sic handbag that lawyers have used for years to carry documents.
handbag is a great way to accessorize an outfit. Consider seasonal
A briefcase offers the utmost functionality, and nothing says “has it
colors to spice up your wardrobe and neutral tones to avoid clashing
together” better than this type of high-quality leather handbag.
with a busier outfit. Make sure the bag is durable for its intended use
When shopping for the best bag for your shape keep these tips
from HSN.com in mind.
•
•
•
The size of a handbag should be proportional to the per-
or airport travel.
Finding the right handbag for your body shape and your career
son’s body type.
is not as hard as you may think. After all, it may be the hardest work-
Short and petite women appear taller with small handbags
ing part of your wardrobe, as you use it every day. Why not take the
and shorter with large handbags.
time to pick one that is functional yet flattering?
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Tall and slim women appear larger with small handbags and
look best with midsize, large and oversized styles.
•
and has proper closures for your security needs, such as commuting
The shape of a handbag should be opposite of the person’s
Sources: HSN.com, sheknows.com, kohls.com
herlife | working women
How to handle lousy leaders
W
by m a rily n is a m ing e r
hat is effective leadership? Each of us, whether work-
road; don’t bully back, become loud or angry. Take the emotion out
ing woman, mom, spouse or volunteer, instinctively has
of it. Calmly stand up for yourself and explain your position. Be the
several responses to this question. An effective leader
voice of reason, tactfully, firmly, and repetitively if necessary. Stress
influences and enlists the help and support of others
that you are part of the team and will work to achieve the goals of the
to accomplish a common goal; she motivates, inspires
organization.
and encourages; she respects and listens to others; she is proactive in
planning, setting goals and exploring new ways to do business.
But what occurs when these skills are lacking in a person with
The Micromanager Doing the job yourself ensures that it’s done correctly, but the
whom–or for whom–you work? According to Dr. Laurence J. Peter,
micromanager can be a helicopter, keeping a tight leash and con-
author of The Peter Principle, “People tend to be promoted up to their
stantly looking over shoulders to manage every detail. This leader has
level of incompetence…The cream rises until it sours.” During the
a lack of trust in coworkers and their abilities. Create and build trust
path of promotion, the potential leader missed acquiring basic skills
by doing your job more than well; achieve or exceed deadlines, pay
that promote teamwork and the achievement of the organization’s
attention to details, communicate with your leader, continue to act
goals.
proactively.
Nevertheless, when we face dealing with a lousy leader, we must
develop strategies to keep our own work and behavior on track. Here
are some of the most common ineffective styles and suggestions for
turning them to your advantage.
The Poor Communicator When tasks and responsibilities are assigned, it’s important for
the leader to provide enough direction to allow the coworker to get
the job done. If he does not provide adequate information or direc-
The Bully An executive needs to be assertive and occasionally just plain
tion, the task may need to be completed or redone at the last minute.
Head off the poor communicator by gathering as much information as
pushy, but the bully takes it to a toxic level, publicly or privately
you can at the outset. Ask specific questions in a neutral manner; be
threatening and humiliating coworkers. Your response? Take the high
diplomatic and not aggressive. Remain flexible to the ideas or tasks
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you are asked to work on and continue to respectfully communicate
your concerns or questions. If you stay focused on the quality of the
tasks at hand, even a poor communicator will eventually divulge more
information or rationale for the assigned responsibility.
The Saboteur
This leadership style destroys organizations and businesses.
He undermines the work and professionalism of others. He doesn’t
give credit when due, or may take credit himself for the ideas or
work of another. But wait until something goes wrong and see who
he blames. To overcome the saboteur, make him look good; provide
outstanding ideas and work product. Nevertheless, keep your own
career advancement in mind. Document every idea you provide and
its sources. Keep copies of reports; maintain a paper trail of memos
and emails. If at some point your job is on the line, you will have the
evidence to demonstrate your performance and worth.
The Fickle Boss
This leader may be pleasant, but may lack clarity and decisiveness. His changeable directions and mood swings can create confusion within the organization. If you don’t know who he will be on any
given day, productivity goes into the shredder. Don’t take this behavior personally; there may be forces at work you know nothing about.
Limit contact or communication to urgent matters; keep your nose in
your own work, stay out of office politics and keep your comments
and opinions about the behavior to yourself. This will encourage your
coworkers to see you as a leader.
The Unprepared Pilot
This executive flies by the seat of her pants. She makes decisions based on personal whim, not statistics or research. She often
operates in crisis mode. Frequently you will see this leader when
you have been with the organization for a short time, and it may
have already reached the tipping point. Counter with doing your own
research and, if possible, delve into company history and statistics
to see trends so that you can assist her with developing plans for the
company’s future. Anticipate crises and have strategies in mind to
overcome the worst outcomes. If your proactive nature can’t turn the
tide, the company itself may be history.
Practicing these responses to less-than-effective leadership
will develop your own skills. In the end, though, you can’t change or
improve another person; you can only change yourself. It may be time
to brush up on your other skills–networking, communication, technological, interpersonal–update that resume, and leave these lousy
leaders behind.
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Sources: conniepodesta.com,
money.howstuffworks.com, theleadershiphub.com,
usatoday30.usatoday.com, womenmakingconnections.com
and the experience of the writer.
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herlife | finance
how to
develop a
business
plan
b y j odi cros s
W
riting a business plan can be a daunting task. Just
Business Plan Framework:
like anything else in life, a plan is an essential tool for
Executive Summary
success. We have all witnessed an under-capitalized
This section provides a concise overview and tells the reader/inves-
business shutter up soon after opening. A business
tor where your business is today and where it is heading in the future.
plan should tell a compelling story about what you do
Use your vision to grab the interest of the reader immediately. Include
and why consumers would want to buy your service or product. A good
key facts about your business, mission, vision, founders and functions,
plan is a living document that shows viability and growth and should be
products or services, growth projections and future plans. Why do you
updated on a regular basis. There are multiple websites and templates
think your business will succeed?
on the internet that help organize the process. In addition, the Small
Business Association offers some good resources to guide you through
your journey.
There are various types of business plans used for different stages
Market Analysis
Identify who you are targeting as customers. List any industry
trends, existing customers and current customer needs. Describe the
of growth. Stages include: start-ups, post launch, line of credit needs
purchasing cycle. Why would someone buy your product? Do you
and expansion and growth. Determine what stage of your business
have multiple customers? Outline what need you are trying to meet or
lifecycle you are facing and tailor your plan accordingly. Consider the
problem you are solving. Describe potential changes in your market size.
audience; are you looking for investors, partners, stakeholders or a line
How do you compare to your competitive set?
of credit? Regardless of your lifecycle, a business plan sets you up for
success.
Business plans should answer a litany of what, who, why and how
questions:
• What is the problem that your business is solving?
Company Description
Outline any high-level accomplishments. What makes your business a success? Why are you in business? List milestones and benchmarks.
• Why do consumers want your product or service? • What are your key features?
• How much capital is required?
Management
Include an organizational overview of your team and structure. Who
• What challenges could impede growth?
does what in your business? Do you need more employees? Who are
• What is your Unique Selling Proposition?
the owners; what is the legal structure? Provide profiles of team members and background information. Why are you hiring and what skill set
These questions should be answered in sections and clearly
is missing? How can funding help you secure key talent?
articulated for the reader to understand and process. Whether looking
for capital or seed money, defining business objectives and goals in a
logical and disciplined way will make the difference between success
Sales & Marketing
This section is about creating and keeping customers. Outline your
and failure. There are several standard sections that must be included;
growth strategy. Do you have partnerships or strategic alliances you
the outline provided illustrates a framework to get started.
can leverage? Sales activities and processes should be included. What
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channels of distribution are you using? How are you raising awareness?
expenses to growth. Is this a viable and scalable business? Provide
Do you have a marketing plan?
income statements, balance sheets and cash flow statements. Illustrate
what the capital would be used for. Use graphs to show visual trends.
Use your vision to grab the interest
of the reader immediately. Include
key facts about your business,
mission, vision, founders and
functions, products or services,
growth projections and future plans.
Funding
Why should a bank or investor help you? How much do you need?
When will you be able to pay it back? What is the investor going to get
out of the deal? How long will the cash or requested funding you receive
last? What will it cover in terms of growth? What type of funding are you
requesting, debt, equity or angel?
Appendix
This is an “as needed” section but you should have it organized in
case a lender asks.
Include legal paperwork, letters of reference, customer testimonials, permits, contracts, leases, attorneys, accountants and your busi-
Services & Products
ness manager.
Include details about your product line; what are you selling?
What is your advantage? Do you have any R & D needs, technology or
Now that the framework is in place, start writing and don’t stop
manufacturing to support? What are the key features of your services or
until the plan is done. When presenting to investors, tell a story that
products? What is their lifecycle? Are there patents or copyright issues?
sells your business idea simply and succinctly. Describe how you make
money and what the best thing about your product or service is. The
Financials
foundation you establish today will be rewarded tomorrow. ■
Show a complete financial snapshot. Include sources both historical and current. Include three to five years of projections. Thread
Source: sba.gov
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herlife | home
Preparing your garden
and landscape for winter
b y ho p e f e rg us o n
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n July, Kerry Ann Mendez’s garden was buzzing with life. There was
gravel or chicken grit in with the bulbs and on top of your flower bed
a golden four-foot Japanese maple; we spotted rose bushes, yarrow,
to protect it.
spiraea and hydrangeas, interspersed with sweet-smelling oriental
lilies and hostas with delicate white bell-shaped blooms.
Mendez is the author of two gardening books, Top Ten Lists
When it’s time to cut back flower beds when the growing season
ends, keep at least two inches of the flower intact.
To protect vegetable gardens, Fillion suggests planting a top
for Beautiful Shade Gardens and The Ultimate Flower Gardener’s Top
crop of winter wheat, which will help keep weeds at bay. In the spring
Ten List. She is particularly fond of her ornamental Japanese forest
when you till the soil, it also makes “nice compost,” she explains. The
grasses and of gardens that display lots of color. She likes the inter-
top crop will also add nutrients for the plants to use during growing
play of shape and texture, using foliage as well as blooms. “Foliage
season.
can be so dramatic in a garden.”
But, as with all good things, gardens come to an end this time
of year, and with that transition comes the need to consider what we
Dividing Plants
Now is also time to divide your flowers. Dig the plant out using a
can do now to help our gardens bloom and bring us pleasure next
spade, sharp knife or a garden fork. Cut the flowers apart, not injur-
spring and summer.
ing the bulbs, and reset in fresh soil and compost or manure to help
Mendez and Stacey Fillion, of Power Equipment Plus, gave us a
few tips to keep those gardens glorious next year.
add nutrients to ensure a healthy bloom. You may find some “baby
bulbs” buried in the dirt. In a few years, these babies should be able
to produce full-fledged flowers, so let them be, says Fillion, who also
Planting Bulbs
Late September through first frost is the time to plant bulbs. It’s
cautions that many tulips, especially the new hybrid tulips, tend to
bloom for only three to five years before they need to be replanted.
still too early to cut the garden back, but you can start planting or
Some may lose their brilliant color as well, as the hybrid reverts to a
replenishing your tulips, lilies, daffodils, hyacinth and crocuses. To
natural color.
prevent “critters” from devouring your hard work (Mendez says tulip
bulbs are like candy to deer) you can throw a handful of crushed
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For ailing beds, the problem could be poor soil, so make sure to
fertilize those plants. “It also could be chipmunks or bolls,” Mendez
noted, so be sure to sprinkle that gravel.
Watering
Proper Tools
“I always remind people to remember to water, especially if we
To put your garden to bed you need to use the right tools. For
have a dry autumn. A lot of people get tired of gardening late in the
that, we consulted Stacy Fillion of Power Equipment Plus again. For
season, so you have plants that are very thirsty.”
weeding, she prefers a small hand tool, although she also will use an
electric cultivator which is four to six inches wide “and makes light
Evergreens
work of it.”
For rhododendron, holly and boxwood, you may want to spray
She will use a saw-tooth shovel, machete or a garden fork to
in November with an anti-transpirant like Wilt-Pruf to protect leaves
divide her flowers. She is especially enamored of the garden fork,
over the long winter, “because evergreens can lose moisture from
which gently separates the flowers. “Once I get the flower up and out,
their leaves and they aren’t able to replace it during the winter,” Men-
I push right into the middle” to separate, she says.To plant bulbs, she
dez explained.
likes the cone-shaped bulb planter.
Ornamental Shrubs
filled either with mulch or plastic to keep the lawn from growing into
®
“All flower beds have a moat to separate them from the lawn,
“Leave them be,” advised Mendez. “Don’t prune them; let them
the flower bed,” she explained. To edge her lawn, “I use an edging
naturally go to sleep. Even your woody flowering shrubs need a
spade. It looks like a hoe, but straight. I put it at a 45-degree angle
natural rest.”
and take out whatever is in there.” Electric edgers on wheels are also
an option, she says.
Weeding
Take time to weed your gardens, especially the annual and
Now that we have a list of tasks and tools, we can get to work,
then greet our beautiful garden next spring.
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perennial beds. The more you weed in the fall the less you will have to
do later. Remember the gardener’s maxim: one year’s seeding equals
Sources: pyours.com and powerequipmentplus.com
seven years weeding. Plus, it’s cooler and there’s less growth. “Continue to mow the lawn,” Mendez said.
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ellabelle
photography by ellabelle hair by posh the salon
makeup by tiffany mccray
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Ribbed white satin gown and
cocktail dress, $350 for cocktail
dress and $650 for the gown.
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herlife | travel
culinary trails
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b y k e lly j o m c d o n n e ll
hen one thinks about the “North Woods,” several
Served on the side? Jam made from a nearby berry farm. The bakery
images may come to mind—pine trees, lakes, and of
had Wild Rice Cheese and Onion bread! The boys didn’t quite like
course, fishing. Naturally, the culinary trail that follows
that you could see the wild rice slivers in the bread (“but it doesn’t
along a north woods trail – specifically northern Minne-
LOOK like rice!”) but its organic, rich, grainy texture more than
sota up to the border of Canada – consists of a similar
passed the adult taste test.
theme: fish, wild rice, wild berries, and any o’natural food fare that you
can catch.
Traveling a northern trail sampling culinary delights sounds easy.
As we passed Sandstone and Moose Lake, the scenery morphed
into a lumberjack’s dream. In Cloquet, located by the Fond Du Lac
Indian Reservation, it was time to test the palate again. Cloquet’s long
Traveling north with three boys in tow, all under the age of ten, is
history begins with the fur trade in the 1700s and the lumber industry
quite another thing. But, an interesting culinary challenge presents
in the 1800s. According to locals, a favorite was Gordy’s Hi Hat, serv-
itself. Exploring northern Minnesota bites that appeal to both adults
ing spectacular burgers and fish sandwiches. However, we were on
and kids—now, that’s an intriguing challenge.
the hunt for a savory wild rice soup, and we found it at The Avenue
The journey’s goals were, for both kid and adult: sample north
Coffee House. They had “cooked down” a creamy chicken wild rice
woods fare all the way up to the Canadian border, with the final
soup for the day – which sounds like it’s the soup for every day, as
destination being Crane Lake in Voyageurs National Park, known for
there’s a Wild Rice Lake seven miles from Cloquet. There’s a Tribal
its fishing and fish cuisine. Charming little towns salt and pepper the
Rice Harvester listed if you need connections for purchasing your
highway, many located in the heart of wild rice country. Even with
own hand-harvested wild rice. While the younger crowd preferred
the first stop, in Hinckley, Minnesota, it was easy to find the goods.
the burgers at Gordy’s (it seems wild rice may be more popular with
Hinckley, population 1,400, is known for its white pine trees, logging
the adult palate overall), the wild rice soup deserved a blue ribbon. It
history, and Grand Casino Hinckley, run by the Mille Lacs Band of
was creamy, yet still rooted in a raw, grainy taste, which seems to be
Ojibwa. Tobie’s was an easy pit stop; on the menu was the “North-
wild rice’s forte in dishes. Wild rice, the “state grain,” is grown all over
woods Walleye Breakfast,” lightly hand-breaded, then deep-fried.
in these marshy areas. The Ojibwa consider wild rice an important
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A state’s culture is closely
connected to its food. Minnesota
culture is a true melting pot, with
influences from Native Americans,
Scandinavians, Irish, Germans
and numerous other immigrant
groups. While many picture
Minnesotans as either Grumpy Old
Men fisherman, or the people with
the funny accents (think Fargo),
it’s actually the state’s “Minnesota
Nice” theme that is most well
known (Oh ya...you bet’cha) .
Crane Lake opened up as the road ended at its banks. The fishy
part of the challenge was about to begin. Crane is the closest entry
point to Voyageurs for almost all visitors. To the east, Crane Lake
is a gateway to the lakes of Superior National Forest, including the
Boundary Water Canoe Area Wilderness and Quetico Provincial Park.
From Crane, you can travel by water about 60 miles in several different directions. And if you’re up for a few portages, you can go at least
1,000 miles.
Portages aside, this crew was focused on fish. On our species
list: walleye, northern pike, bass and any pan fish we could catch off
the docks with cane poles. Crane Lake is home to all of them. And
the first night there, the lake didn’t disappoint. The fishing boat sat
tied up to the dock, as grownup and child pulled fish after fish right
off the dock. Perch, walleye, blue gill and bass were the species of
choice, until a monster northern pike was snagged by a ten-year-old
with a cane pole, and immediately went in the “to eat” basket.
Cleaning the fish is part of the culinary experience; with the help
of other experienced fisherman and guides–the northern pike’s “Y”
bone is tricky–we had our catches cleaned and filleted in no time.
The menu included fresh fried walleye and perch and baked northern
pike. The verdict? Entire group couldn’t eat enough. Turns out, there’s
nothing like eating fresh fish that you caught yourself.
ingredient of social and ceremonial life. It became the state’s symbol
in 1977, and it’s actually an aquatic grass unrelated to common rice.
Lessons learned by all ages? Sometimes the best destinations
and food are at the end of the road. Ya, you betcha!
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herlife | pets
adopting
from a
shelter is
the cat’s
meow
b y gai l s i l v er s tei n
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f you’re thinking of adding to your “furry family” with a dog or cat,
sad but true that about 2.7 million cats and dogs are euthanized each
there are many reasons to consider adopting from a local animal
year. Why? Simply put, too many people give up their pets for various
shelter. There are so many feline and canine friends available, mixed
reasons and too few adopt from shelters.
and purebred alike, just waiting for the right companion to come
along and take them home to their forever family.
From personal experience as a canine owner for most of my life, the
2. Pets adopted from a shelter are healthier, having already undergone
medical treatments, examinations, vaccinations and spaying or neuter-
best decision I ever made was to adopt our beloved Foxy, an African
ing. Also, many shelters are screening their animals for temperament in
Basenji/Chihuahua mix, from the local humane society. Fortunately,
an effort to match the right pet up with the right owner.
the friendly, knowledgeable staff there dissuaded us from adopting a
nearly-blind bloodhound because they felt that the older dog wasn’t a
3. Contrary to popular belief, animals that end up at the human society
good fit for our lifestyle. My young children were able to meet and play
or local shelter are not there because of bad behavior or abuse, but
with Foxy, who was seven years old at the time, before the adoption
because their owners had a life-changing event. People move, die and
was finalized. All of Foxy’s shots, spaying and identification tattooing
divorce or can’t afford to keep up with the costs of pet ownership.
was taken care of by the shelter before she came home with us. After
a short adjustment period, we bonded with her. We enjoyed Foxy’s
4. Shelter adoption is better for your budget. Adopting costs less than
company and gentle disposition until recently when she passed away at
buying your puppy or kitten at a pet shop in the mall or from a private
the ripe age of 17.
breeder. Many are already spayed, neutered and vaccinated, making the
But in case you have any lingering doubts, here are some “ruff”
local shelter’s fee a bargain.
reasons why you should adopt from a shelter:
5. Rescuing a pet from a shelter takes business away from cruel puppy
1. Getting your pet from a shelter saves an animal’s life. Actually, you
mills. Unsuspecting dog lovers purchase a puppy through the internet,
would be saving two furry lives because when you get your pet from a
pet shops and other places only to discover later that their pet is often
shelter, you free up space for another animal to come in off the danger-
gravely ill or has serious issues with behavior. Dogs from puppy mills are
ous streets. That’s enough to make you smile. There are many compel-
raised in deplorable conditions which can contribute to poor health and
ling reasons to adopt from a shelter or rescue society. In this country it’s
behavioral problems.
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6. If you have a child, pet adoption can open your child’s eyes to the
reality of animal overpopulation while creating a responsible young
person. Teach your kids to feed, walk and care for your new pet. Your
If you have a child, pet adoption can
open your child’s eyes to the reality
of animal overpopulation while creating a responsible young person.
Teach your kids to feed, walk and
care for your new pet. Your child’s
caring behavior will strengthen the
permanent bond that grows between furry friend and child.
having purchased my purebred Yorkie from a private breeder and finally
giving up on housebreaking after many years and much money.
8. Shelters have a wide selection of canine and feline friends available
for adoption. Even better, employees at rescue societies or shelters
match up each pet with the best companion based on lifestyle factors.
9. Pets are “purrfect” for our health. Petting your pet’s silky fur and
staring into his chocolate brown eyes full of adoration is enough to melt
anyone’s heart. Research has shown that pet ownership helps fight off
depression, lower blood pressure and even contribute to overall better
health. And the good brisk walk that is good for you is also good for
your pet.
10. Rescue a dog or cat that needs a forever home and get a forever
friend for life. October is national Adopt a Shelter Dog Month (June was
Adopt a Shelter Cat Month), according to the ASPCA. This organization
offers an online national database of adoptable furry friends, making it
easy and convenient to find a pooch or kitty in your area.
child’s caring behavior will strengthen the permanent bond that grows
between furry friend and child.
7. Adopting a mature pet cuts down on the frustrating chore of housebreaking or litter-box teaching. I know this from personal experience,
That’s the best reason of all.
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Sources: humanesociety.org, aspca.org,
healthypets.mercola.com and the author’s personal experiences.
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herlife | home and design
decorating questions answered
by linn ore gonzal es
Q: I am moving to my first
home and I want to make
sure I decorate my space
to be warm, comfortable
and cozy. Do you have any
tips on how I can achieve
this?
Laurie – Aurora, CO
sheets. Paint your bedroom and create the mood and sanctuary you
need. If your budget allows, put up coordinating window treatments;
if you want to splurge, purchase the bed you’ve always dreamed
about and wanted.
Tie everything together with color. If you moved to your new
home with old furnishings that now don’t seem to go well in your new
space, don’t worry. The easiest, most economical way to overcome
and solve this seemingly huge problem is to unify with color. For
example, if you have a piece of furniture with nothing in common with
other pieces except a less dominant color than those found on the
rest of the room’s upholstery, use this color as your wall color to tie
everything together. If painting is too much labor for you, consider
finding a fabric with that color to use as draperies or bring in pillows
A: Laurie, this is an excellent question. Here are some suggestions for
your new home.
Clean house at your old space. Moving into a new home is the
and accessories with that common color.
Fight the urge to match. You don’t have to match everything.
When you go shopping you will find that retail stores often have
perfect time to start over. Pare down your accumulated possessions
pieces that match. This is because they want you to spend more and
to the minimal amount. Be strong and make sure to rid yourself of
buy the whole set. Don’t fall for this trap! You don’t want to have the
your old stuff, wobbly furniture and faulty appliances. Have a garage
look of a generic showroom in your home. This is your chance to
sale, auction it off on eBay or donate your old items to charity. You
make your own personal style shine. Create character that isn’t bland,
will be surprised at what you won’t miss!
beige and boring. A few pieces with the same styling are fine and, of
Don’t buy everything all at once. It can be tempting and exciting
course, always keep in mind proportion, scale and balance. Do not
to furnish your home the moment you move in. Now that you have rid
shove five pieces of oversize furniture into a small room. On the other
yourself of things from your old space, you may feel that you need to
hand, using a low buffet and a delicate table in a long, high-ceilinged
replace them. Live in your new home for at least two months before
dining room does not work either.
you make any significant purchases. How you think you are going to
Always try to find ways to solve practical problems inexpen-
use the spaces in your home may actually be different from how you
sively. Replace the lighting fixture in your bathroom to update the
end up living in the home. As you live in the home, you may realize
look. If your kitchen cabinets are drab, consider changing out the
that the budget you were going to spend to upgrade your bathroom
cabinet hardware. You can also freshen up the look of your cabinets
may not seem as important as renovating your kitchen. You may also
with paint. Another inexpensive solution with a big payoff is installing
decide that a piece of furniture is better suited in another room versus
dimmer switches to create the appropriate mood for the space.
where you always had it in your old space.
Start with your bedroom. If you are on a tight budget, we usually
recommend decorating and setting up your bedroom first. This is
where you will spend almost a third of your time when you’re home.
Purchase new bedding and pay attention to the thread count of the
Linnore Gonzales is also the owner of a full service decorating company, Decor & You. “Decor & You furnishes
and refines residential and commercial interiors. Our designers have the power to simplify how people achieve
comfort, style and value in their homes and businesses. It’s an ambitious goal, and Decor & You delivers it –
right to your door!”
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herlife | tie the knot
Lacey+Eric
Tied the Knot July 26, 2013
L
acey Marie (Johnson) Emeott, 26, earned a bachelor’s degree
in finance from Rider University in New Jersey. Lacey is a fi-
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nancial analyst at Lockheed Martin in Littleton, Colorado. She
loves line dancing, wine tasting and country music.
Eric Edward Emeott, 26, completed a bachelor’s de-
gree in aerospace engineering from University of Michigan. He works
at Lockheed Martin as a systems engineer. Eric loves playing and
watching sports and is obsessed with anything Michigan-related. Eric
enjoys music and playing his guitar when he finds the time. Eric and
Lacey live in the Washington Park/DU area in a home they recently
purchased.
Eric and Lacey both went to Grandview High School in Aurora,
Colorado. They graduated with a very large class so they never really
ran in the same groups, but five years later fate brought them back
together. Right out of college, Eric returned home from Michigan and
started working for Lockheed Martin. Lacey returned to Colorado
from New Jersey and started working for Great-West Life. In a year,
Lacey was ready for a change and applied at Lockheed Martin in July
of 2010; she was conveniently placed as the "finance girl" for Eric's
organization, a welcomed change of scenery for Eric.
Shortly after Lacey's arrival at Lockheed, she recognized Eric's
unique last name on an email list and Facebook messaged him. To
this day, Lacey still asserts that this was her very first and only Facebook friend initiation. Upon receiving this friend request/message,
Eric was happy to be Lacey's "nerd" in shining armor by helping to
show her the ropes of her new job. After this, Eric and Lacey soon
became inseparable and the rest is history!
July of 2012, Eric and Lacey flew to the Midwest to attend
a wedding in Indianapolis, and Eric wanted to share his love of
Michigan with her. They visited Ann Arbor and some of Eric’s favorite
places, and made their way to Arcadia Bluffs, enjoying three days in
northern Michigan, shopping, sightseeing, wine tasting and more. He
wanted Lacey to see his grandparents' house, where he spent every
summer he can remember growing up, so one night he planned a
picnic to see the amazing Lake Michigan sunset. They packed up the
car with wine, cheese and crackers, got dressed up and took off for
his grandparent's beach. After finding the perfect spot and fighting
off the raging Michigan mosquitoes, Eric dropped to one knee and
proposed with the perfect sunset as a backdrop.
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The blissful couple tied the knot on July 26, 2013, at the Park Hyatt Beaver Creek Resort
& Spa in Avon, Colorado. Dave Strunk, associate pastor at Eric and Lacey's church, Cherry
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Creek Presbyterian Church, officiated the ceremony. Lacey and Eric each had seven attendants. Lacey’s Maid of Honor was Katy Bechtold; bridesmaids were Kelly Flanagan, Lindsay
Brant, Carly Romberg, Brooke Vanhavermaat, Emily Emeott and Elyssa Emeott. Eric chose Nick
Schoenberger as Best Man; groomsmen were Steve Bechtold, Josh Johnson, Patrick Veasy,
Russ Morell, Brad Vassau and Nate Burkett. Alexa Grace was the precious flower girl, and Noah
and Bode Shoen served as ring bearers
The groom surprised everyone by singing “Wanted” by Hunter Hayes while playing the
guitar during the ceremony, bringing everyone to happy tears. That was the bride and groom’s
first dance song and the last song heard by both on the radio before Eric’s proposal.
Lacey and Eric honeymooned in Saint Lucia at Sandals Regency La Toc, where they enjoyed the island’s beauty and the resort’s luxury.
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Bridal Gown:
Amanda's Bridal and Tux
Bridesmaid’s Gowns:
David's Bridal
Hair Styling:
Kelly McGowan
Makeup:
Tamara Brinklow
Photography:
Jenny Marvin,
JM Photoart
Florist:
Tracy Gatz, Santa Fe Event Florist
DJ:
Perry Washington
Caterer:
Park Hyatt Beaver Creek
Resort and Spa
Cake:
Park Hyatt Beaver Creek
Resort and Spa
Venue:
Park Hyatt Beaver Creek
Resort and Spa
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herlife | tie the knot
Michelle
Bryan
• and •
Tied the Knot April 20, 2013
b y m a rily n is a m in g e r
W
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e may meet the love of our life at any moment, in a
growing number of ways; Bryan and Michelle met on
eHarmony, and the match was even more successful
than promised!
Michelle Leigh Railsback Thompson, 32, is a
native of Washington State. She moved to Denver 12 years ago and
works at one of the metro hospitals in the maternity unit. She says of
Bryan, “We have so many things in common beyond a shared faith
and sense of humor; I can't imagine a better person with whom to
share my life.
Bryan Davis Thompson, 30, is a native of Colorado. Bryan works
as a staff accountant and is studying to obtain his CPA license. He
and Michelle live in Louisville, Colorado.
Michelle smiles about the day they actually met in person. “Our
first date was April 22, 2011. Bryan met me in downtown Denver at
the Union Station light rail station with a single red rose in hand. We
ended up walking the entire length of the 16th Street Mall, talking and
not even realizing how far we had traveled.”
Bryan proposed while he and Michelle were on a camping trip in
Ridgeway, Colorado.
The blissful couple tied the knot on April 20, 2013, two days shy of
the two-year anniversary of their first date.
Michelle chose her best friend Michelle Janssen as Matron of
Honor. Bridesmaids were her sister-in-law Amy Railsback and Bryan's
sister Lindsey Micks.
Bryan's Best Man was Brian Domokos, and his groomsmen were
Eric Micks, his brother-in-law and Hal Schultz, a long-time friend. The
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flower girl was Allyson Railsback, Michelle’s niece; the ring bearers
were Grayson Railsback and Greyson Micks, nephews from both
sides of the family. Michelle notes, “We found it very amusing how
many names were repeated in the wedding party.”
Michelle’s bridal gown had a wonderful, special history. She relates, “Years ago I laid claim to my grandmother's wedding dress. My
grandmother made the dress herself on a treadle sewing machine just
over 60 years ago. My very talented mom used this dress to create
the skirt and made a new top; finding fabric to match was a bit of a
challenge. Parts of the top of the original dress were used to make
the flower girl dress. I was lucky enough to still have access to the
treadle sewing machine my grandmother used and we displayed it at
the reception.”
The couple honeymooned at Walt Disney World. Michelle smiles,
“Disney went out of their way to celebrate with us; we even managed
to be in Florida for eight days and not see a drop of rain!”
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herlife | scene and be seen
MAKE-A-WISH COLORADO ANNIVERSARY
pho to graphy by karen o' h er n an d j oh an n a s pi l l e
M
ake-A-Wish Colorado celebrated 30 years of granting wishes to children with
life-threatening medical conditions at the Wine & Wishes event on August 16.
The celebration featured an evening of incredible food and wine and both silent
and live auctions. The 4,000th wish recipient, Jenna Spille, whose wish was to
write and publish a workbook to help other children, spoke about the impact
her wish fulfillment has had upon her and the greater community. Make-A-Wish Colorado
was founded in 1983 by Joan Mazak and continues to grant about 250 wishes each year. For
more information, visit colorado.wish.org.
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DENVER MART SPRING 2014 FASHION SHOW
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n August 24, The Denver Mart produced its Spring 2014 fashion show for
attendees of the Gift and Apparel trade show. Playing to a crowd of over 600, the
90+ looks sent down the runway ranged from contemporary to Missy, sportswear
to collections, hip gun holsters to handbags. Featured were show sponsor
Art Wearables, as well as Frank Levy, Pazazz Studio, New Horizons, Marietta
Smit, Landers Spirit, Cindy Smith, Bar-K-Bar, Laura Ingalls Design, Selections, Kimberly
& Dale, Paisley & Park, Laurie Elledge, Bob Armbruster, Kathy Jolly, Off Price Resources,
Style Makers, Rick and Valerie Neff and Eisman & Co. New and noteworthy were the music
selections ranging from Franz Ferdinand to Cut Copy, the ambience and the delicious
complimentary dinner before the show. Ready for more? The next Denver Gift and Apparel
show will run February 20 through 25, 2014, featuring the Fall Fashion Show, Saturday,
February 22.
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OPEN HOUSE WITH STYLE
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O
pen House with Style creates networking trade shows in properties that
want more exposure and provides small business owners an opportunity to network and market their businesses at a reasonable cost. Small
business owners (SBOs) are always seeking cost-effective ways to get
the most bang for their buck, and Open House with Style will provide that
opportunity! At their events, the SBOs will not only have the opportunity to sell their
products or services to those coming to the event, they will also have a four- to fivehour networking opportunity during the Open House with other participating SBOs.
On August 22, Décor & You, an interior design company in Highlands Ranch, hosted a
mini Open House with Style at their showroom. More than 20 small business owners
participated and promoted their products and services. For more information on how
you as a small businesses owner can participate, visit openhousewithstyle.com.
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