Baby Guide 2010
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Baby Guide 2010
The Award-Winning Publication for New & Expectant Parents babyguide TM Vol. 14, No. 1 • March 2010 • Weighing in on Weight Gain • How Much Work is Labor? • Choosing Your Baby’s Health Partner • The ABCs of RSV • Your Growing Baby Includes a Local & National Directory for New and Expectant Parents A Publication of Growing for Tulsa The Peggy V. Helmerich Women’s Health Center at Hillcrest Medical Center is growing! To better meet the increasing number of deliveries, we’ve expanded the hospital and opened the Sandra L. Jackson Birth Care Unit. With the largest high risk program in Northeastern Oklahoma, and a nationally recognized Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, our expert physicians are able to provide the latest in specialized care. The new Birth Care Unit, which adds 36 additional all-private rooms to the hospital, is dedicated in memory of Hillcrest Medical Center Executive Vice President, Sandra L. Jackson. 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JOHN BROKEN ARROW PULSELINE PULSELIN NE (918) 744-0123 | STJOHNHEALTHSYSTEM.COM STJOHNHEALT THSYSTEM.COM babyguide TM CONTENTS A TulsaKids Publication Vol. 14, No. 1 • March 2010 WHAT’S INSIDE DIRECTORY The BabyGuide to Almost Everything A Resource Directory for New and Expectant Parents M I S S I O N S TAT E M E N T 8 – 13 PREGNANCY Weighing in on Weight Gain 14 – 15 DIET Your Healthy Diet During Pregnancy 16 – 17 BABY’S HEALTH Pediatricians: Finding the one that is right for you by Denise Yearian Questions to Ask 18 – 19 22 TRENDS Baby Names:Trendy Up-And-Coming Names for 2010 by Bruce Larsky 23 LABOR Six Moves to Make Labor Easier by Sandra Gordon 24 – 25 MASSAGE The Magic of Touch by Cindy Webb 28-29 HEALTH When to Call the Doctor 26 – 27 SAFETY Car Seats: OSU physicians provide car seats for infant safety 30 INFANT HEALTH babyguide 2010 TM THE COMPREHENSIVE NEW PARENT RESOURCE DIRECTORY Publisher . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Charles Foshee Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Betty Casey The ABCs of RSV 32-33 Assistant Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Cindy Webb 34 – 35 Advertising Representatives: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Caroline Shaw . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Kathy Thompson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Abby Rodgers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Hannah Middlebrook BABY’S DEVELOPMENTAL NEEDS Your Growing Baby BABY GEAR Products to Coo About by Nancy Moore 36 – 37 COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT Share the Gift of Reading We designed The TulsaKids Baby Guide to be a one-stop, comprehensive resource for expectant and new parents. The Baby Guide will provide information for couples planning to become pregnant, for pregnant women, and for new parents who are looking for answers to questions during that important first year with baby. We have worked hard to bring together information about medical care and options, pregnancy, safety, childcare, support and educational groups, and developmental information for the first year of life. With TulsaKids’ 12th Annual Baby Guide, we have found that the Tulsa community has a wealth of support, services and information for new and expectant parents. We hope it will help you throughout the year as you enter the exciting (and often confusing) world of being a parent. by John Fancher 39 – 40 TulsaKids Baby Guide is published once a year by TK Publishing, Inc., 1820 S. Boulder, Suite 400, Tulsa, OK 74119. Phone: 918.582.8504 Fax: 918.583.1366. Email: [email protected]. Website: www.tulsakids.com. TulsaKids Baby Guide is distributed free of charge, one copy per reader. Only TulsaKids Baby Guide authorized distributors may deliver or pick up the magazines. Reader correspondence and editorial submissions welcome. We reserve the right to edit, reject or comment editorially on all material contributed. Enclose a selfaddressed, stamped envelope for any material to be returned. We cannot be responsible for the return of any unsolicited material. Reproduction in whole or part without express written permission prohibited. Production . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Desktop Design, Inc. Cover Photography . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Nicole Kelley Contributing Writers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Denise Yearian . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Bruce Larsky . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Sandra Gordon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Cindy Webb . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Nancy Moore . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . John Fancher Baby Guide is a special annual publication of Tulsa Kids, the national award-winning magazine for parents of Tulsa and surrounding communities. TK PUBLISHING INC. TulsaKids is published monthly by TK Publishing, Inc., 1820 South Boulder Avenue, Suite 400 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119-5025, (918) 582-8504, FAX: (918) 583-1366 www.tulsakids.com ©2010. All Rights Reserved. Volume 14, Number 1 MEMBERS OF On the Cover: Oliver Sack, winner of Emergency Infant Services Baby Love photo contest. Photograph by: Nicole kelley of Backstreet Studios BabyGuide 2010 5 Call to enroll your child today! (918) 258-0594 s .URTURING RESPONSIVE TEACHERS s !CADEMIC CURRICULUM MATH SCIENCE PHONICS ART AND 3PANISH s !GEAPPROPRIATE LEARNING CENTERS IN EACH CLASSROOM s %XTRACURRICULAR CLASSES IN COMPUTERS BALLET AND PHYSICAL EDUCATION s /PENINGS FOR CHILDREN AGES WEEKS TO YEARS s ,EAP 0AD LEARNING LAB 6 2(%-! "IBLE #HURCH 7 +ENOSHA "ROKEN !RROW /+ WWWRHEMACHILDCARECOM DIRECTORS #ANDACE &RANKLIN!LISHA $AMRON !SSISTANT $IRECTOR 'ALIENA 3WAGERTY TulsaKids BabyGuide 2010 7 The BabyGuide to Everything A DIRECTORY FOR NEW NUMBERS TO KNOW FOR EMERGENCIES POLICE, FIRE & AMBULANCE. Dial 911 TULSA POLICE DEPARTMENT. 596-9222 TULSA FIRE DEPARTMENT. 596-9977 TULSA AMBULANCE. 596-3010 TULSA’S 24-HOUR HELPLINE Dial 211 YOUR PEDIATRICIAN: YOUR FAMILY PHYSICIAN: GRANDPARENTS BREASTFEEDING La Leche League of Tulsa The League offers mother-to-mother help at its monthly meetings based on the book “The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding.” The meeting discussions include the latest medical research as well as personal experience. Other services include a lending library of books on childbirth, childcare, breastfeeding, and nutrition. Meetings are a continuing series of informal discussions and are open to all women interested in breastfeeding. Children of all ages are welcome. 8 A N D E X P E C TA N T Meetings are held the second Monday of the month at 10 a.m. at Metro Library, 81st and Sheridan. La Leche League Leaders are experienced mothers who are accredited by La Leche League International to help mothers and mothers-to-be with all aspects of breastfeeding. La Leche League Leaders are available for phone calls regarding meeting information and whenever you have breastfeeding questions that cannot wait until the next meeting. www.lllusa.org/AROK/tulsa Breastfeeding.com An online magazine aimed at women who are breastfeeding and those who might like to try it. Offers such helpful advice as “What to do with one hand.” Extensive online community of experienced lactation consultants. Motherwear.com An online lactation consultant answers breastfeeding questions by e-mail. Emergency phone numbers are listed for those needing immediate lactation assistance. PLAYGROUPS, PROGRAMS, SUPPORT, CLASSES AND INFORMATION Renaissance Maternity Center, Tulsa Birth Center A free-standing birth center offering home or birth center delivery, massage therapy, doula services for either in or out of hospital birth, and a variety of classes and support groups. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. Renaissance Maternity Center,1217 E. 33rd St.; (918) 895-8222; tulsabirthcenter.com. Natural Lullabies Offers variety of birth preparation, breastfeeding, parenting and “Mama and Me” classes. 8210-A S. Harvard; (918) 488-9969; naturallulla- PA R E N T S bies.com. Tulsababies.com A free online resource for families and providers of health and human services developed by the Tulsa Fetal Infant Mortality Review Community Action Team. The goal is to support Tulsa babies and their families from A to Z. The resource directory and information site focus on: health information on preconception, pregnancy, health and care of infants, grief information on loss and support when a baby dies, and local information about infant death in Tulsa County and what is being done to address identified problems. All information is in English and in Spanish. Moms' Clubs and Family Clubs in the Tulsa area For information about Moms' Clubs (providing information, socialization, fieldtrips and support), check TulsaKids Magazine's monthly calendar listings or visit tulsakids.com for calendar information. Family & Children's Services Family & Children's Services offers a variety of parenting and family life education classes and workshops such as Positive Parenting; Developing Capable People; Pre-School Parenting; Parenting Your Special Needs Child; Just for Dads and more. Educare and Early Head Start for children birth - age 4 are offered through F&CS. New Baby Care, a six-week parent skills development class, helps parents, grandparents, caregivers and parents-to-be develop their understanding of positive parenting and learn effective parenting skills and techniques to help with the daily challenges of raising children. Meets from 6-7:30 p.m. on Tuesdays at TulsaKids BABY GUIDE 2010 DIRECTORY the Central Office of Family & Children's Services, 650 S. Peoria Ave. The class fee is $20 per session and additional adult family members may attend for a $5 fee.Scholarship funding is available. For more information, call (918) 560-1114 or visit fcsok.org. Tulsa Mothers of Multiples A non-profit organization for mothers of twins, triplets and higher-order multiples, in addition to grandmothers, expectant mothers, and fathers._Meets first Tuesday of each month 7:30 - 9 p.m., Asbury United Methodist Church, 6767 S. Mingo. MOM has two special interest groups: STORK for mothers from pregnancy through the first birthday, and TOTS helps parents through toddler years. For more information on the organization, visit tulsamoms.org. Many Mothers A national volunteer organization that sends a skilled volunteer to the aid of any new mom who feels exhausted, overwhelmed or simply needs additional help. The volunteer assists with simple tasks like grocery shopping, washing dishes or tending the baby while the mom takes a quick bath or nap. To foster this type of service in communities, Many Mothers has developed a how-to manual which is available free of charge to anyone wanting to help families with newborns. The Many Mothers guide offers a step-by-step explanation on how to get started; how to become non-profit; how to recruit and supervise volunteers; how to locate families, etc. In addition, on-going help is available through the Many Mothers Web site: manymothers.org. Tulsa City-County Health Department, Child Guidance Child Guidance is a statewide program that promotes and supports healthy family relationships and child development. It provides prevention, education, screenings, diagnostics and short term treatment to children and families, in addition to classes and workshops for parents and professionals. Services are provided in group settings or on an individual family basis. Child Guidance's staff of masters and doctoral degree-level professionals include: audiologists, child development specialists, speech/language pathologists and behav- BabyGuide 2010 ioral health specialists. Many of the services and classes are free. For more information, call (918) 582-9355. tulsahealth.org. Emergency Infant Services Immediate help for parents of infants in need of diapers, formulas or other services. (918) 582-2469; emergencyinfantservices.org International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN) Provides a forum where women and men can express their thoughts and concerns about birth. ICAN gives support and information to mothers who have experienced cesarean births. For newsletter or information call (310) 542-6400 or write 1304 Kingsdale Ave., Redondo Beach, CA 90278. ICANonline.org. Postpartum Support International Support for new mothers suffering from postpartum depression or those who may have questions about it. Includes a moms “warm line” for support. (800) 9444PPD (4773); postpartum.net. Postpartum Depression Support Group Meets 3rd Tues. of month, 7- 8:30 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 1301 S. Boston. Newborns welcome. Free childcare for siblings. Info: Anita 865-7824 or EvaMarie at 699-0120. Congenital Heart Information Network Provides reliable information, support services and resources to families of children with congenital and acquired heart disease, adults with congenital heart defects and the professionals who work with them. http://tchin.org. SoonerCare Oklahoma's health care system designed to make sure that children and pregnant women get the health care services they need. Call or visit your local Department of Human Services. DHS: (918) 596-7200. SoonerCare Helpline: (800) 987-7767; ohca.state.ok.us. WIC Women, Infant and Children's nutrition program. 3515 S. Peoria. (918) 5944820; www.ok.gov. National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) Nation's largest organization of early childhood professionals with a wide range of resources for adults who work for and with children. (800) 424-2460; naeyc.org. WorkOptions.com Max Maternity Leave Proposal Template, a new planning tool for pregnant women who are employed in the United States. The free document offers working mothers-to-be a framework for negotiating more time off beyond the confines of “allowed” leave. Parents as Teachers An early childhood parent education and family support program serving families throughout pregnancy until their child enters kindergarten. (918) 925-1403; parentsasteachers.org. American Academy of Pediatrics www.aap.org. Parent Child Center of Tulsa Information, education and treatment aimed at preventing child abuse. Includes crisis/respite services, prevention program, resource library and parenting classes. 1421 S. Boston. 24-hour crisis line: (918) 599-7999; parentchildcenter.org. Oklahoma Institute for Child Advocacy Find out about current legislation and issues affecting Oklahoma's children: www.oica.org. JumpStart Tulsa JumpStart is Tulsa's early childhood engagement campaign. Information about early childhood brain development, school readiness, child development, parent events and activities, services and volunteer information. Coordinated through the Community Service Counsel of Tulsa. www.jumpstarttulsa.com. 2-1-1 Dial 2-1-1 to find services for food, clothing, health care, shelter, housing, support groups, legal aid, employment and many more human services in your area. They can help you access services from over 2,500 programs that exist to help people in need. 2-1-1 is a free and easy-to-remember phone number that 9 BABY GUIDE 2010 DIRECTORY streamlines the process of matching critical health and human services with the clients who need them. The 2-1-1 call center based in Tulsa, Oklahoma serves an 18-county area, operates 24 hours a day, and receives approximately 12,000 calls per month. Babyline WIC Program Free pregnancy testing, healthcare during pregnancy, childbirth classes, post-partum care, child health care, family planning appointments and transportation. (918) 838-0694. American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists www.acog.org. National Association of Childbirth Education Information on choosing a childbirth assistant or on being one. (800) 868-NACA (6222); www.birthinternational.com. American College of Nurse-Midwives Names and numbers of area nurse-midwives: www.midwife.org. Women's Sports Foundation Fitness Kidsline Medical appointments for children ages 0-18, SoonerCare, insurance enrollment referrals, schedule immunizations for children under age 2. (918) 5835437. Planline Family planning. (918) 8380697. information during pregnancy. (800) 227-3988; womenssportsfoundation.org Tristesse Grief Center Six-week classes and support for bereaved parents who have suffered the loss of an infant. 1709 S. Baltimore. (918) 587-1200; www.thegriefcenter.org. Compassionate Friends Offers support to bereaved parents who have experienced the death of a child. (877) 9690010; (918) 481-2181. National SIDS Foundation Assistance in dealing with a loss from crib death. (800) 221-SIDS; firstcandle.org. CHILDBIRTH INFORMATION (See hospital information to contact them for childbirth classes) New Joy Christian Childbirth Education Childbirth education, breastfeeding and infant care classes from a Christian perspective. Classes Monday evening 7-9:30 p.m. at Family Medical Care of Tulsa, 7600 S. Lewis. Refresher & home study available. Chris Maricle, certified instructor. (918) 496-3284; newjoybirth.com. 10 Auto Safety Hotline Information on infant car seats and recalls. (800) 4249393. Consumer Product Safety Commission Information on safety standards for cribs, toys and other children's accessories. (800) 638-2772; www.cpsc.gov. Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association Dedicated to promoting and informing consumers, the industry and membership about the safe use of juvenile products. (856) 638-0420; www.jpma.org. Emergency Nurses Association (800) 243-8362; www.ena.org Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth Information on natural, unmedicated husband-coached childbirth. (800) 4-ABIRTH; www.bradleybirth.com. SAFETY & HEALTH INFANT LOSS www.millerswimschool.com. American Association of Poison Control Centers The American Association of Poison Control Centers works to support the nation's 60 poison centers in the valuable work they do. America's poison centers are open 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Go to the website for information about poisons. If you have an emergency involving poison, call your Poison Center at 1-800222-1222. www.aapcc.org Tulsa Area SAFE KIDS Sponsored by Saint Francis Children's Hospital. SAFE KIDS is a national organization working to prevent unintentional injuries in all ages with education, bike rodeos, car seat programs, school activities and much more. For safety information call (918) 494-SAFE (7233); www.safekids.org American Red Cross CPR, babysitting courses, swimming instruction, safety information first aid and more. Health and Safety Course enrollment: (918) 8311126. Enroll online: www.tulsaredcross.org. Miller Swim School Offers “Diaper Dolphins” classes for babies six months to age three, with parent present. For more information, call (918) 254-1988; American Trauma Society (800) 556-7890; www.amtrauma.org SPECIAL KIDS CHADD Organization for children and adults with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder. (800) 233-4050; www.CHADD.org Down Syndrome Society (800) 221-4602; www.ndss.org. Tulsa Autism Foundation Information, support and education. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 410, Tulsa, OK 74135. 502.4823. [email protected]. www.autismtulsa.org. Autism Society of America Information on Autism, ADD and ADHD. (800) 3-AUTISM (328-8476); www.autismtulsa.org. National Health Information Center Information and referral services for all health concerns. (800) 533-2873; www.health.gov/nhic. Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation Information on juvenile diabetes. (800) 223-1138; jdrf.org. JDRF of Green Country (918) 481-5807; www.jdrf.org/tulsa-green. TulsaKids BABY GUIDE 2010 DIRECTORY Total Source for Hearing-loss and Access (TSHA) Information, referrals, support and help for individuals or families dealing with hearing loss. (918) 832-8742; www.tsha.cc. United Cerebral Palsy of Oklahoma (918) 794-4655; www.ucpok.org. Little Light House, Inc. Christian child development center for children with special needs, birth-six years. 5120 E. 36 St. (918) 664-6746; www.littlelighthouse.org. March of Dimes Information about pregnancy, breastfeeding, birth defects, nutrition and more. (918) 465-9680; www.marchofdimes.com. National Organization Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (800) 66-NOFAS; www.nofas.org. SoonerStart An early intervention program designed to meet the needs of infants and toddlers with developmental disabilities. (918) 835-8691 or (800) 42OASIS (426-2747). CESAREAN INFORMATION International Cesarean Awareness Network Monthly support and educational meetings; VBAC (vaginal birth after Cesarean) information. (918) 348-1711; ican-online.org. ADOPTION & SUPPORT Dillon International, Inc. Specializes in adoptions of children from other countries. Offers parenting and adoption workshops, heritage events, adoption awareness programs and other postadoptive support. (918) 749-4600; www.dillonadopt.com. Catholic Charities Domestic and international adoptions. Mary Lee Ingram, (918) 949-4673, ext. 142 or Christa Van Tassell (918) 949-4673, ext. 116; www.catholiccharitiestulsa.org. Heritage Family Services, Inc. A nonprofit social service agency to help your family work through all adoption proce- BabyGuide 2010 dures. 5110 S. Yale, Ste. 525; (918) 4916767; www.heritagefamilyservices.org. YWCA of Tulsa 1910 S. Lewis; (918) 5872100; www.ywcaoftulsa.org Crisis Pregnancy Outreach An outreach ministry of Christian Chapel in Tulsa. CPO aims to meet the needs of all women experiencing unplanned pregnancies and provide hope to those wishing to adopt. For more information, call (918) 296-3377 or visit www.crisispregnancyoutreach.org. BABYSITTING CLASSES Glad Hearts for Adoption Support, socialization, and information for adoptive parents and their children. For more information, call (405) 848-8435 or visit www.adoptionsbygladney.com. AdoptUsKids The mission of AdoptUsKids is to recruit and connect foster and adoptive families with waiting children throughout the United States. www.adoptuskids.org. CHILDCARE HELP American Red Cross Babysitting Class Basics of child care for young people age 11 and up. (918) 831-1100; www.tulsaredcross.org. Babysitting Class Sponsored by Saint Francis Health System. For beginning babysitters and children responsible for occasional self-care (ages 10-14). For more information, call (918) 494-1190. Basics for Kidsitters Sponsored by St. John Medical Center. Prepares young people ages 11-16 for babysitting responsibilities. Includes book and CPR certification. For more information, call (918) 744-0123. HAVING A BABY AT HOME American College of Nurse-Midwives (240) 485-1800; www.midwife.org Child Care Resource Center Resources and referrals for parents seeking licensed child care options in the Tulsa area. Resource center for early childhood educators and home care providers. (918) 834-2273; www.ccrctulsa.org International Childbirth Education Association www.icea.org National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies. (800) 570-4543; www.naccrra.org. HOSPITAL CLASSES National Association of Early Childhood Programs www.naeyc.org. Seeking Sitters Offers professional, prescreened babysitters for part time help as an alternative to a full-time daycare or nanny service. www.seekingsitters.com. Department of Human Services, Day Care Licensing Unit (918) 581-2563. YMCA of Greater Tulsa 515 S. Denver; (918) 583-9622; www.ymcatulsa.net YMCA Thornton Branch 5002 S. Fulton; (918) 280-9622. Midwives Alliance of North America (888) 923-6262; www.mana.org Saint Francis Health System 6161 South Yale Ave. (918) 494-BABY (2229) www.saintfrancis.com Classes take place at Saint Francis at 61st & Yale and Saint Francis South. Call (918) 494-2229 for day, time and location of classes. Childbirth Orientation and Tour Free Childbirth Orientation held the second Monday of each month from 7 - 9 p.m. This session will provide you with a brief overview and registration information about all the Expectant Family Program classes. At the orientation, you will receive a packet of information on upcoming classes and will learn what to expect when having your baby at Saint Francis Hospital. Tours of labor and delivery area, postpartum (rooms or area) and 11 BABY GUIDE 2010 DIRECTORY nursery are available following the orientation class. Orientation class should be taken before your fifth month of pregnancy to ensure availability of the childbirth classes you wish to attend. No pre-registration is required and the orientation is free. Childbirth Series Consists of three classes and is designed to accompany you throughout your pregnancy. Class One will discuss prenatal care, exercise, nutrition and your baby's growth and development before birth. During the class tour, you'll also get to see where you'll be before, during and after your baby's birth. As your baby grows, so will some of your concerns. Class Two will discuss the labor and delivery process, medications and anesthesia options. As you near the end of your pregnancy, Class Three will provide information about your baby's hospital stay and how to care for your newborn. Mom's hospital stay and mom's first few weeks after the delivery will be discussed. Classes are offered Tuesdays and Thursdays from 7-9 p.m. Fee: $30 Weekend Childbirth Series This class covers vaginal and Cesarean deliveries, pain control techniques and a tour. This is a one-day class offered Saturdays from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Bring your support person and two pillows, and dress in comfortable clothes. Fee: $75 Pain Control Refresher The one-night Pain Control Refresher course is designed for those who have already attended Pain Control, or another prepared childbirth program, with a previous pregnancy. You will practice relaxing, focusing and breathing. Register for the Pain Control Refresher course offered during the last four to eight weeks of your pregnancy. Fee: $20. Breastfeeding Basics Expectant mothers have many questions about the breastfeeding process and the Breastfeeding Basics class is designed to answer them. You will learn to recognize baby's hunger cues for nursing, the process of breastfeeding and breast care so both mom and baby can enjoy feedings. 12 This series of two classes is taught by an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant who is a registered nurse. ience of the medical staff, new mothers and their babies. Sibling Class When the new addition arrives, your older child is intrigued with the new sounds, smells and activity. In the Sibling Class, your child will learn how to hold a baby, what it means to share with the baby and how to help keep the baby safe. Your child will even get to visit the nursery to see what a new baby will look like. Many children have misconceptions about how a newborn will look and act. Helping an older sibling understand a newborn's appearance and capabilities will prepare them for the baby's arrival. Sharing mom and dad's time is often a new experience for a child. Therefore, this class is specially designed to help your child understand the role a new sibling will have in your family. Orientation & Tour of Helmerich Women's Center This free one-hour session is the perfect introduction to BirthCare Services offered by the Peggy V. Helmerich Women's Health Center. Orientation will acquaint you with the process for preregistration and admitting, as well as the variety of helpful educational classes. Hospital tours include the beautiful Helmerich Women's Center all-private suites, the well-baby nursery and, upon request, the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit or NICU. Grandparenting This class will help you learn about changes in baby care, and expose you to some of today's baby equipment. Also, we will address how you, your children and your grandchildren can strengthen communication skills. Some child care techniques and parenting styles may have changed, but having the love and attention of grandparents is timeless. Oklahoma State University Medical Center 744 West 9th,Tulsa, OK 74127 (918) 599-5134; www.osu-medcenter.com Peggy V. Helmerich Women's Health Center A Service of Hillcrest HealthCare System 1120 South Utica Avenue Main telephone number (918) 579-8000 www.helmerichwomenscenter.com Hillcrest Medical Center recently opened a new floor named the “Sandra L. Jackson Birth Care Unit.” The expansion was initiated due to the increased volume of deliveries at the Women's Health Center; the increased number of High Risk Antepartum patients; and as a way to provide expanded, comprehensive birth care services all in one unit for the conven- Prepared Childbirth Series Series includes five classes for first-time parents. The classes cover all aspects of labor and birth, including vaginal birth, variations in labor, Cesarean birth, pain medication options, newborn appearance, postpartum, breathing & relaxation exercises, and comfort measures for many of the situations that can occur during labor. Saturday Prepared Childbirth Series The Saturday Prepared Childbirth series includes 2 classes from 9:30am-4pm, that are perfect for first-time parents. The classes cover all aspects of labor and birth, pain medication options, variations in labor, Cesarean birth, Newborn appearance, Postpartum, breathing & relaxation exercises, and comfort measures for many of the situations that can occur during labor. Marvelous Multiples® This education program is designed for women pregnant with multiples. The program helps prepare expectant parents for the birth of two or more babies. Learn about your unique prenatal needs, the potential for increased risks, variations in the birth process and how to care for multiple newborns. Call (918) 579-TWIN (8946). Mini Childbirth Series Three classes provide valuable information on labor and delivery, pain medication options, Cesarean birth, and TulsaKids BABY GUIDE 2010 DIRECTORY includes basic breathing & relaxation exercises. Refresher Prepared Childbirth If you have previously delivered, this three-class course provides a valuable update of information and breathing techniques for labor and delivery. The fee is $40. Big Kids & Babies A one-time session created especially for big brothers or sisters. This class promotes positive feelings about the new baby, while helping to prepare siblings for what the new baby will look like, what things they can do and how to hold the baby. Breastfeeding Basics: An introductory course Breastfeeding Basics is a single class that provides information on positioning, frequency of feeding, common breastfeeding problems and solutions, as well as how to pump and store breast milk. Baby Care Basics A one-time class, Baby Care Basics is designed to prepare you for the handson care of your newborn. The instruction centers on bathing, feeding, clothing, diapering and safety. Emphasis is also placed on the adjustment to parenting. Infant & Child CPR A single class that covers the safety issues for infants and children, from newborn to the age of 12 years. Techniques for clearing airway obstructions and administering CPR (cardio-pulmonary resuscitation) are presented. Baby Touch Infant Massage One time class filled with valuable information to console a fussy baby, massage techniques provided, and much more. Dr. Harvey Karp's “Happiest Baby on the Block” Teaches how to use 5 easy steps to calm a fussy baby, recognize signs of colic and more. FREE. Option to purchase class materials. BabyGuide 2010 St. John Health System 1923 South Utica Ave. To register for classes or for more information, please call the St. John PulseLine at (918) 744-0123. www.sjmc.org (for St. John Medical Center - Tulsa & Owasso) Childbirth Education Classes Learn various techniques for childbirth and comfort techniques for labor. Fast-track Childbirth Two-hour course gives basic overview of labor and delivery process for expecting mothers. Newborn 101 Learn how to care for your new baby, from diapering to bathing to car seat safety and more. For infant to six weeks old. Safe Start Learn how to care for your new baby during the first year of live. Two-hour course includes car seat safety training and infant CPR. Breastfeeding Basics A one-time class to teach expectant mothers the mechanics of breastfeeding. The LifeStart Club Free helpful information for you and your baby. Sibling Family Tour Free for new big brothers and sisters. This tour familiarizes siblings with the hospital during mom's stay. All ages welcome. Grandparenting Class A refresher course designed to reacquaint grandparents with infant care, safety, health hazards and more. Moms in Motion Pre-natal aerobic classes, yoga classes, and aquatic classes. Post-partum Mom and Baby Yoga, Mom & Baby fitness and Stroller shape. Doctor release required. Sign up for orientation at 744-2484 or 744-0123. Developmental Baby Massage and Stimulation Help your baby sleep better, stimulate growth and soothe crying through massage and stimulation. SouthCrest Hospital 8801 S. 101st East Ave. General Information (918) 294-4870. Web site: www.southcresthospital.com. For information or to register for classes, please call (918) 855-6565._ Prepared Childbirth For first-time parents to help prepare you for what to expect during childbirth. Topics include: pain control, breathing and relaxation techniques, labor partner training, hospital policies and procedures, and the complete childbirth process. You'll also learn how to register for your epidural and pre-admission. Take a tour of the Women's Pavilion. Offered as three-week evening classes or one-time Saturday class. Prepared Childbirth Refresher For experienced parents. The Refresher consists of two classes that present current information and a review of techniques learned at previous prepared childbirth classes. Breastfeeding Workshop Whether you have decided to breastfeed or are considering the option and want more information, this workshop will answer your questions. Information will be provided on benefits, getting started, preventing problems and breast care. This class may be attended anytime during pregnancy. Fathers are encouraged to accompany you. Parenting Lab The focus of this one-time class is caring for your newborn. We will provide helpful ideas for basic newborn care, growth and development guidelines, infant communication and what to expect in those first days at home. Plan to attend this class during the latter part of your pregnancy. 13 PREGNANCY weighing in ON WEIGHT GAIN determine the weight gain that is right for you. • If you are already pregnant and are overweight, do not try to diet. • If you need help planning a healthy diet that will help you gain the proper amount of weight, ask about seeing a dietitian or nutritionist. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW: Here are the recommended weight gain guidelines for pregnant women: • If you are normal weight prior to pregnancy: Gain 25 to 35 pounds during pregnancy. • If you are overweight prior to pregnancy: Gain 15 to 25 pounds during pregnancy. • If you are underweight prior to pregnancy: Gain 28 to 40 pounds during pregnancy (depending on your pre-pregnancy weight). • If you have a multiple pregnancy (twins, triplets or more): See your health care provider.You will need to gain more weight during pregnancy depending on the number of babies you are carrying. Gaining the right amount of weight will make it easier to shed pounds after delivery and will prepare your body for breastfeeding. WHAT YOU CAN DO: • See your health care provider if you are concerned about your weight. She or he can help you WEIGH TO GROW You’re pregnant, right? So you get to eat as many french fries as you want, right? Wrong! You need to be careful about how much weight you gain during your pregnancy. Gaining too much or too little can be harmful to you and your baby. How many pounds you need to add depends on how much you weigh when you become pregnant. Women who gain the proper amount of weight are less likely to have a low-birthweight baby (less than 5 1/2 pounds). But try not to gain more than what’s recommended. Too many pounds can lead to discomforts—such as backaches and varicose veins and, possibly, health complications such as high blood pressure. If you began pregnancy at a normal weight, you should gain 25–35 pounds over the nine months. Adding about 300 extra calories a day to your diet will help you reach this goal. (One extra healthy snack, such as four fig bars and a glass of skim milk, will provide these calories.) Most women gain four to six pounds in the first trimester, and then average a pound a week in the second and third trimesters. If you began pregnancy underweight, you should probably gain a little more.That’s because underweight women are more likely to have small babies. A 28- to 40-pound gain is usually recommended, so you should try to gain slightly over a pound a week in the second and third trimesters. If you began pregnancy overweight, you should gain only 15–25 pounds.This means you should put on one pound every two weeks in the second and third trimesters.While you don’t want to gain too much weight, you should never try to lose weight during pregnancy because that could harm your baby. continued 14 TulsaKids WHERE DOES IT ALL GO? Approximate breakdown of a weight gain of 29 pounds: • Blood 3 pounds • Breasts 2 pounds • Womb 2 pounds • Baby 7.5 pounds • Placenta 1.5 pounds • Amniotic fluid 2 pounds • Fat 7 pounds • Retained water 4 pounds • If you’re expecting twins, you should probably gain a total of 35–45 pounds.That translates into about 1 1/2 pounds a week in the last two trimesters. Putting on weight slowly and steadily is best. But don’t worry if you gain less than four pounds in the first trimester, and make up for it later, or vice versa.Also, many women have one or two “growth spurts” during which they gain several pounds in a short time period, then level off.Again, this is not worrisome unless it becomes a pattern.The important thing is to keep an eye on your overall gain. Source: March of Dimes Birth Defects Foundation web site: www.marchofdimes.com. BabyGuide 2010 15 NUTRITION diet YOUR HEALTHY DIET DURING PREGNANCY M ost pregnant women need 300 extra calories per day to support a baby's growth. So eat smart and make healthy food choices.Try to eat foods from each of the five food groups every day.They provide important nutrients that you and your baby need. Be sure to watch your serving sizes; you may be eating more than you need to. Remember: Fatty foods (like doughnuts and chips) and sweets (like sodas, cookies and candy) don't give your baby enough of what he needs to grow. Follow These Guidelines GRAINS: 6 OUNCES PER DAY 1 ounce of grains is equal to: • 1 slice bread • 1 cup ready-to-eat cereal • 1/2 cup cooked rice, pasta or cereal • 1 small pancake (4 1/2" in diameter) • 1 small tortilla (6" in diameter) VEGETABLES: 2 1/2 CUPS PER DAY 1 cup of vegetables is equal to: • 1 cup raw or cooked vegetables • 1 cup vegetable juice • 2 cups raw, leafy greens • 1 medium baked potato (2 1/2" to 3" in diameter; go easy on the butter, bacon bits and sour cream) FRUITS: 1 1/2 TO 2 CUPS PER DAY 1/2 cup of fruit is equal to: • 1/2 cup 100% fruit juice • 1/2 cup fresh, frozen or canned fruit • 1/2 a fruit (small orange, apple or banana) 16 • 1/4 cup dried fruit • 6 grapes Milk Products: 3 Cups per Day 1 cup of milk products is equal to: • 1 cup milk • 1 cup yogurt • 1 1/2 ounces natural cheese (examples: cheddar, parmesan) • 2 ounces processed cheese (example:American) PROTEINS: 5 TO 5 1/2 OUNCES PER DAY 1 ounce of protein is equal to: • 1 tablespoon peanut butter • 1/4 cup cooked dried beans • 1 ounce lean meat, poultry or fish • 1 egg • 1/2 cup nuts (12 almonds, 24 pistachios) TAKE FOLIC ACID Folic acid is a B vitamin that helps prevent birth defects of the brain and spinal cord (called neural tube defects). All women of childbearing age should take a multivitamin with 400 micrograms of folic acid every day before pregnancy and during early pregnancy, as part of a healthy diet. Your healthy diet should include foods that are good sources of folic acid and folate (the form of folic acid that occurs naturally in food). Examples are: • Fortified breakfast cereals • Enriched grain products • Beans • Leafy green vegetables • Orange juice continued TulsaKids HEALTHY EATING HINTS Meals: Eat four to six smaller meals a day instead of three bigger ones to help relieve the heartburn and discomfort you feel as your baby grows bigger. Snacks: Cheese, yogurt, fruit and vegetables are good, healthy snacks. Peanut butter and nuts are also good, if you aren't allergic to them. Liquids: Drink at least six to eight glasses of water, juice or milk every day. Vitamins: Take a multivitamin or prenatal vitamin every day. Ask your health care provider if you need to take an iron or calcium supplement, too. Caffeine: Limit the caffeine you get each day to 200 milligrams.That's about the amount in one 12-ounce cup of coffee. Caffeine amounts in coffee depend on the brand you drink and how it's made. So check the label on the package, or ask at your coffee shop. Instead of drinking regular coffee, try coffee that's decaffeinated (has a smaller amount of caffeine). Caffeine is also found in tea, chocolate, soda and some over-the-counter medicine. Read labels on food, drinks and medicine to know how much caffeine you're getting. FOODS TO AVOID Some foods can make you and your baby sick. Avoid these foods that can cause food poisoning or contain harmful chemicals. • Raw fish, especially shellfish. • Soft-scrambled eggs and foods made with raw or lightly cooked eggs. • Unpasteurized juices. • Raw sprouts, especially alfalfa sprouts. • Unpasteurized soft cheeses, such as brie, feta, Camembert, Roquefort, queso blanco, queso fresco and Panela. • Unpasteurized milk and any foods made from it. • Herbal supplements and teas. • Fish that can be high in mercury, like shark, swordfish, king mackerel and tilefish. It's OK for pregnant women to eat a limited amount of fish that have small amounts of mercury. You can eat up to 12 ounces of these fish a week. The 12 ounces can include: • Shrimp, salmon, pollock, catfish and canned light tuna • Albacore (white tuna): Don't eat more than 6 ounces of this tuna in one week. Always check with your local health department before you eat any fish you catch yourself. Raw or undercooked meat, poultry, seafood and hot dogs. Deli meats (such as ham and bologna) can cause food poisoning. Avoid them or reheat them before eating. Refrigerated pates, meat spreads or smoked seafood. Canned and shelf-stable versions are safe. Apply Now for CAP's 2010 SchoolYear! In Tulsa County, Community Action Project's Early Childhood Education Programs bring together the best early education and family services available at little or no cost helping parents prepare their children for success in school and beyond. • Our program is currently accepting applications for children birth through four-years-old for the 2010 – 2011 school year. • All new applications must be submitted by April 1, 2010. • APPLY EARLY! Applications will be accepted at CAP's Enrollment Office at 4606 S.Garnett Road, in the Exchange Center East, First Floor. For more information on qualifications and to complete an application, call CAP’s Enrollment Office at 585.3227. BabyGuide 2010 17 BABY’S HEALTH FINDING THE ONE THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU pediatrician P arents are often clouded with confusion when it comes to finding the right pediatrician. But by researching the options and defining their priorities, families can find a practice they feel both confident in and comfortable with. When Deanna Michalski's son was born, this new mother wasn't certain what she wanted in a pediatrician, so she chose a large, nearby practice.Within months, however, she grew dissatisfied with the staff's disposition and the office's policies and procedures. “I liked the pediatrician so I stuck it out, but then Gavin began having reflux issues,” she says of her then 4month-old son.“At that point I felt like we were one in a number, and our needs weren't being met.” Birthed from her frustrations, Michalski now realized she wanted a small practice with one doctor who knew her family and could meet their needs. So she began asking local moms for recommendations. “Good starting point,” says Maryanne Bourque, RN, community nurse educator for the DuPont Hospital for Children.“Get referrals from other parents and your obstetrician. Or go online to the American Academy of Pediatrics [AAP] to access a listing of area doctors,” she says.“Once you have several names, log onto your health care provider's website to confirm these pediatricians are covered under your plan.” continued 18 TulsaKids Likewise, identify your priorities. That's what Sari Daisey did during the latter part of her first pregnancy. “Location and office hours were important, but I also wanted a pediatrician who was affiliated with the children's hospital,” says the mother of two, now ages 7 and 3.“Equally important was ethnicity; I wanted to find someone the same color as my children so they would have a role model who looked like them.” Several of Daisey's neighbors took their children to a facility that partnered with the hospital. Since they had numerous branches, she called around until she located one that had an African American doctor. Before contacting prospective pediatricians, prepare a list of questions, leaving space to jot down answers given by the staff. Better yet, create a chart or spreadsheet with columns that address specific questions and rows of recommended doctors so you can compare practices. For some parents, group versus solo practice may be a determining factor. “With a solo practice there is one doctor and a small staff who knows your family well, but he will have limited hours and call upon other practices to help when he's out,” says Dr. Jay Ludwicki,AAP representative and practicing pediatrician.“Group practices offer more availability in hours and a doctor is always present, though your child may not see his own pediatrician during sick visits. Larger practices may also have sub-specialists, and they can consult with one another if needed.” Another consideration may be how questions are addressed during and after office hours. “In some larger practices there is a phone nurse who takes care of over-the-counter questions,” Bourque says. “This handles everyone's time better. Parents can get their questions answered quickly, and it gives doctors time to do what they need to do.” Parents may also be concerned with procedures regarding illnesses and after-hours emergencies. Daisey was interested in all of these.“I wanted to know when the pediatricians were available by phone BabyGuide 2010 and find out if they had a call-in period each day to take questions,” she said.“I also asked how quickly sick visits could be scheduled and what would happen if there were an after-hours emergency.” After you have called prospective practices, narrow your list and set up face-to-face consultations.Watch how the staff interacts with patients and people on the phone. Check out the reception area for cleanliness and safety. Also look at patient flow: Are families moving in and out of the office in a timely manner? “When I called Dr. Epstein's office I liked what they had to say, so I scheduled an appointment to meet the doctor,” Michalski said.“The office was clean and child-friendly; we didn't have to wait long either. The doctor was actually running behind and came out to say he'd be with us soon.Within minutes we were taken back to an examining room.” “When you meet the physician, find out if his philosophies line up with yours,” Ludwicki said.“Also notice if he listens attentively to your concerns, is patient with explanations and interacts well with your child.” “I was a little nervous about some health care topics, so I asked the doctor about her philosophies on breastfeeding and immunizations,” Daisey said.“I liked her approach and, despite the fact we'd have to drive a little farther, I felt like we had a good match.” Most important, follow your instinct. If you feel comfortable with the doctor and the staff and confident in their ability to care for your child, chances are you've found the right fit. Michalski did. It's been five months since her first visit with Dr. Epstein.“The staff is friendly and helpful, the doctor is patient and understanding and when I call or come in, they remember us and do everything they can to take care of our needs,” she says. Denise Morrison Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children continued on page 22 19 Baby Bump W hen Tulsa-native Lisa White returned to T-town from Manhattan with her husband Brad, they didn’t plan to launch the city’s hippest destination for moms-to-be. But when their own family began to grow, the White’s saw the need for a little more love for pregnant women in the Tulsa area. The ULTIMATE DESTINATION for Mommy to Be, featuring an upscale maternity boutique, exclusive maternity spa and the very latest top-of-the line technology to deliver stunning real-time 4D video ultrasounds. Designed to be the ultimate destination for Mommy-to-Be, Baby Bump features an upscale maternity boutique that carries clothing from around the globe. Some designer lines include Maternal America, Olian, Japanese Weekend, More of Me Maternity, F.E.M. by tbags, Avishag Arbel and Ripe. The boutique also carries Swank Mommy necklaces. Style is always important and pregnancy is no exception. With fresh lines and clothing rare to the scene, Baby Bump offers a unique array of chic clothing that accentuates the one accessory a pregnant woman always has – the glow! Each pregnant body is different, so Baby Bump caters to the individual and recommends clothing to fit each unique body type. Pregnancy presents an interesting challenge to the body, which requires special attention. To relieve the aching and tension created from the extra strain, caring and experienced massage therapists offer a soothing and relaxing prenatal massage on a custom designed and fabricated maternity massage table. The Spa at Baby Bump features Mama Mio – Designer Denim from: • Citizens • Rock & Republic • James Jeans • J Brand Maternity Boutique Spa Infant Massage & Yoga Classes 4D Ultrasound located in center 1 • 3524 S. Peoria @ 35th Place • 918.742.6400 • BabyBumpTulsa.com the absolute premier line of spa products, skin care and body care. Pregnant women, postnatal mommies and their partners are all invited for some stress-relieving fun with massages like “Mellow Mama,” “Yummy Tummy” and “The Smoothie.” Prenatal yoga is a soothing activity that leaves a weary body and mind refreshed. Courtney Woodard, previous owner of Body, Mind and Baby Prenatal/Postpartum Fitness Center instructs prenatal yoga classes inside Baby Bump’s Brookside storefront. "It's our goal to be a part of this incredible experience, from the clothes to the classes," said Brad. "We'll keep bringing ideas and fun events for moms-to-be." Growing in popularity, infant massage offers a skin-to-skin connection that helps parents and baby understand each other better without saying a word. The joy of pregnancy coupled with the anticipation of childbirth leave many wondering about their unborn child. Baby Bump is pleased to offer the latest and most advanced in GE Ultrasound Technology. Recognized worldwide for its real-time 4D-imaging capabilities, GE offers an unprecedented look at an unborn child. The Ultrasound Suite at Baby Bump can accommodate the entire family during the ultrasound session and a DVD can be sent to those who missed the experience. 4D Term Experience, which allows mommy-to-be to spend time with her baby, is a course of six different sessions beginning with the initial gender check and ending with the dimple that pops up in week 34. For more information, and to get the iPhone app for a personalized countdown for your little one, go to www.babybumptulsa.com. Find Baby Bump in Center 1 on Brookside, 35th and Peoria or call (918) 742-6400. Baby Bump is excited to announce launch of unique, specialized classes for mom and baby inside their sophisticated Brookside boutique. Monthly instructional infant massage classes, taught by certified massage therapist Anitra Lavanhar, foster that critical skin-toskin contact between parent and baby. Prenatal and postpartum yoga classes for mom and baby are taught by Courtney Woodard, previous owner of Body, Mind and Baby Prenatal/Postpartum fitness center and certified trainer from the Yoga institute of Houston. Plus, Baby Bump offers monthly infant CPR classes. Please call or visit us online for dates and times. Other classes include: • Infant Massage • Prenatal Yoga • Postpartum, Mom & Baby Yoga BABY’S HEALTH Gather names. Get recommendations from local parents and/or your obstetrician. Log onto the American Academy of Pediatrics [AAP] for a listing of local referrals. Once you have a list of names, log onto your managed health care website to confirm these doctors are covered under your plan. STEP 1 Check position and status. Many pediatric practices have websites that list where the doctor got his undergraduate degree, did residency and pediatric training and if he or she is board certified. Certification through the American Board of Pediatrics (ABP) isn't required in some states but it shows the doctor has obtained the ABP Maintenance of Certification standard and is following established guidelines. An FAAP (Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics) title means the doctor has passed ABP boards at least once and practices according to AAP standards. Likewise, log onto the state board of medical practice website to see if there are any complaints lodged or disciplinary action taken against any of the doctors on your list. Identify priorities. Create a question checklist based on concerns that are important to you. Leave space to write down answers. Or create a chart or spreadsheet with columns that address specific topics and rows of recommended doctors so you can compare practices. Follow up with phone calls to potential pediatricians. Close encounters. After you have called prospective practices, narrow the list of potential candidates and set up face-to-face consultations.Watch how the staff interacts with patients and people on the phone. Check out the reception area for cleanliness and safety. Look for good flow: Are families moving in and out of the office in a timely manner?When you meet the physician, find out his or her philosophies regarding circumcision, breastfeeding, use of medications, alternative treatments and preventive care. Do they line up with your views? Also note if he or she listens attentively to your concerns, is patient with explanations and interacts with your child on his or her level. eco +H` :JOVVSZ PZ UV^ VMMLYPUN \UPX\L VWWVY[\UP[PLZ MVY `V\ HUK `V\Y IHI` Pure Purre )HIPLZ KVU»[ JVTL ^P[O PUZ[Y\J[PVUZ I\[ [OL` JHU [LSS `V\ ^OH[ [OL` ULLK Org Love www.ecobabyandkids. www.ecobab byandkids.com C Center 1 918.398.8575 5 Gift Registry Available newbo orn - 5y 22 STEP 2 • What are the office hours? • How do you handle telephone questions during and after hours? How quickly will I get a call back from the doctor or nurse during office hours? How quickly after hours? • Can I get a same day appointment for my sick child? 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Here's a quick look at the hottest trends. Because trendy names often move in pairs or clusters, in this report we'll look at the names that are movin' on up and the themes that explain them. Each name is followed by its current ranking (as determined by the Social Security Administration) as well as its rank change from the previous year. Trendy Boys' Names for 2010 1. Certain Spellings of Sound-alike Names Jayden (#11; + 7) almost made the top-10 boys' list, as soundalikes Aiden (#16; + 11),Ayden (#91; +11), and Brayden (#51; + 13) kept pace. However, variant spellings Jaden (#88; -13) and Aidan (#59; -5) and sound-alikes Hayden (#76; -4), Caden (#95; -3), and Kaden (#99; -1) have lost ground. 2. Old Testament Names Elijah (#22; +8) and nickname Eli (#100; +30) along with Nathan (#21; +3), Gabriel (#24; +4), Issac (#37; +4),Aaron (#50; +2), and Josiah (#96; +10) are movin' on up. However, Old Testament names like Daniel, Samuel, and David are holding steady or slipping. 3. Irish Names Brody (#70; +35) and Liam (#75; +14) have moved onto the top-100 boys' list to join #16 Aiden. However, other classic Irish names like Sean, Kevin, Connor, and Brody sound-alike Brady have not kept pace. 4.Western "C" Names Carter (#65; +15), Cooper (#92; +4), Colton (#98; +19), and Chase (#67; +12) could be the name of a law-firm in Buffalo, Wyoming--or a list of western style boys' names that are increasing in popularity. Trendy Girls' Names for 2010 1. Rising Sound-alike Names Chloe (#10; +6) has moved onto the girls' top-10 list, while sound-alike Zoey (#98; +14) is now a top-100 name. However, Zoey's root name, Zoe (#58; -2), hasn't gone along BabyGuide 2010 for the ride. Riley (#39; + 13) and Kylie (#51; +12) are on the rise as variant spellings Kylee (#143; +14) and Rylee (#116; +16) tag along.Aubrey (#42; + 27) has leapfrogged soundalike Audrey (#44; +7), as they both climb the list. Makayla (#37; +10) and Layla (#55; +30) have moved up, joined by variant spelling Mikayla (#170; +12). Peyton (#60; + 61) and Payton (#90; + 63) have both climbed onto the top-100 list and are likely to keep rising. Curiously, pro-football star Peyton Manning's first name fell a few notches on the boys' list--perhaps because of the growing use of the name for girls. 2. Up-and-Coming Faith-Based Names Genesis (#95; +43), has ascended to the top-100 list as Nevaeh (#34; -3) (Heaven spelled backward) and Faith (#91; 17) have cooled off considerably. People of faith may take comfort in knowing that Destiny (#48; -7) has also cooled off.The fastest-rising Old Testament name, Leah (#41; + 27), is moving up as other Old Testament names Sarah (#20; -2), variation Sara (#92; -11), and Rachel (#75; -16) have moved down. 3. Place Names Brooklyn (#47; +10) has moved up-seemingly at the expense of Sydney (#49; -12), which was previously the number-one place name on the girls' list, and perhaps at the expense of Brooke (#52; -7). 4. Old-Fashioned Names Madeline (#56; + 5) is becoming popular again along with variation Madelyn (#63; + 41), which is likely to overtake the original spelling in the near future. Bruce LanskyAbout the Author: Bruce Lansky is "The Baby Name Guru." His candid reviews of celebrity baby names and baby-naming articles have been reprinted in thousands of newspapers, magazines, and websites across North America. His name books, which have sold over 11.5 million copies, include 5-Star Baby Name Advisor, 100,000+ Baby Names, 60,000+ Baby Names, The Very Best Baby Name Book, 25,000+ Baby Names, and The New Baby Name Survey 23 LABOR SIX MOVES TO MAKE LABOR labor easier BY SANDRA GORDON B eing active during the most intense part of labor can help ease pain and move your baby down the birth canal. When you think about labor, you may envision lying in bed. But that's not necessarily the best place to be, especially during active labor, the rigorous phase of childbirth in which contractions arrive roughly every three minutes and the cervix fully effaces and dilates between 5 and 8 centimeters. "Unless there's a medical reason for remaining in bed, such as high blood pressure, we encourage women to move around," Anita LaSala, M.D., an obstetrician at Columbia-Presbyterian Medical Center in New York City, said. Besides walking--an age-old labor trick for prodding Mother Nature--striking an upright pose, preferably a different one every 20 minutes, can enlist gravity and 24 pelvic movement to help keep labor moving along, Dr. LaSala explained. It may also increase blood flow to the placenta to enhance baby's oxygen supply, reducing the risk of fetal distress. "And some women just find being out of bed more comfortable," she said. Here are some positions that may ease pain during active labor and help labor progress. Practice these exercises now so you're comfortable with them by the time you're ready to give birth. 1. LUNGE: Place one foot on a sturdy chair, bed, or stairway, lean into a lunge position, and rock your hips during contractions. Switch legs every now and then. "When you put your foot on a higher level, your pelvis opens up.The baby has more room to rock down and negotiate the pelvis," Karen Pestlin, director of teacher continued TulsaKids training at the Association of Labor Assistants and Childbirth Educators in Boston, explained. 2. DEEP SQUAT: With your feet spread apart, hold onto the bed or a chair for support, then bend your knees and squat, either halfway or fully to the floor. "Just don't bear down," Dr. LaSala cautioned.Your cervix isn't dilated enough at this stage of labor to push the baby out. During a contraction, round your back. (Doing this can help redistribute pressure.) To build leg power, practice squatting several months to weeks before your due date. 3. CAT STRETCH: On the floor or in your bed, get on your hands and knees and alternate rounding your back and flattening it, rocking your hips with each contraction. "This is one of the least stressful positions for your baby because she's suspended.There's no pressure from the bed on your arteries or on baby's umbilical cord like there is when you're in bed," Dr. LaSala said. 4. SUPPORTED LEAN: Place a pillow on top of a bureau, a table, or a hospital bed that has been raised to its highest level.Then, simply lean forward, drape yourself onto the pillow, and sway your hips during a contraction. Since you're standing, you're working with gravity. "And leaning into something soft feels really good," Pestlin said. 5. BED BEND: Raise the back of the hospital bed so that it's in an upright position. Kneel on the bed, facing the pillow, and lean forward carefully, draping yourself over the raised portion. "This position is especially helpful if you have to remain in your bed and be on the monitor for some reason," Pestlin said. 6. LYING LOW: At some point during active labor, you may want to rest. Lie in bed on your left side with pillows stuffed between your legs. Unlike lying on your back, your weight won't be on your aorta (a major artery), which can affect your circulation and your baby's oxygen supply, says June Egee, a nurse and coordinator of the Alternative Birthing Center at Women and Infant's Hospital in Cumberland, Rhode Island. MASSAGE MOVES FOR ACTIVE LABOR If there was ever a time for a massage, it's active labor. As you try different positions, ask your partner or birth coach to apply relieving counter pressure with these three moves. TAILBONE PRESS: With each contraction, your partner presses on your tailbone with the heel of his hand or a tennis ball. BACK CARESS: Your partner lightly runs his fingertips over your shoulders and down your back. "It's almost a tickle," says Suzanne Fremon, a New York City doula in private practice. PELVIS PRESS: While standing behind you, your partner puts his hands on your hips and pulls back on them firmly as each contraction hits (you tell him when). This maneuver can also help open the pelvis slightly to make more room for baby. THE THREE STAGES OF LABOR To give you an idea of how active labor fits into the entire childbirth process, here's a play by play of what happens, when. 1. FIRST STAGE: CONTRACTIONS Duration: An average of 12 hours What happens: During this stage, your cervix dilates between 0 to 10 centimeters. Early on, contractions may be mild, but they may become more intense and closer together during active labor, when the baby descends the birth canal and you dilate between 5 to 8 centimeters. During early or active labor, your water may break and you may have vaginal bleeding. When your cervix is 8 to 10 centimeters dilated, birth is imminent and contractions, which can be particularly intense, are about two minutes apart, lasting a minute or so. 2. SECOND STAGE: BIRTH Duration: Two hours or longer. When the cervix is 10 centimeters dilated and fully effaced, you're ready to push your baby out. For more efficient pushing, take advantage of gravity. Raise the bed into a chair position so you're semisquatting. Or try squatting on the bed or floor while holding onto your partner and labor coach for support. 3. THIRD STAGE: DELIVERING THE PLACENTA Duration: Up to 30 minutes You're not done yet. During this stage, contractions will continue until the placenta is delivered, but they'll be much less painful than those you experienced during the first and second stages. BabyGuide 2010 25 HEALTH WHEN TO CALL THE DOCTOR doctor WHEN TO CALL YOUR DOCTOR You should schedule regular well-baby visits to your baby's doctor to discuss development and growth, and changes in care and feeding.These visits will reassure you about your baby's progress, and your questions and concerns can be discussed. Consult your child's doctor if your baby has any of the following signs: • is unusually inactive or quiet • has no interest in eating • has a rash • has a fever • repeatedly vomits (not just spits up) • has diarrhea or is constipated • cries excessively for no apparent reason CALLING THE DOCTOR Use this checklist when you prepare to call your child's doctor: • Write down the behavior of your baby. • Take a temperature reading. • Have the name and phone number of the pharmacy handy. • Have a pencil and paper in hand to note the doctor's nstructions. SOME COMMON HEALTH CONCERNS Bowel Movements & Diarrhea Babies' bowel movements or stools vary considerably in color, consistency, and frequency.What is normal for your baby may not be normal for someone else's. Breastfed babies' stools are typically loose and seedy. Formula-fed babies have firmer, formed stools. Unless your baby has very loose, watery stools, blood in the stools, or very hard, pellet-like stools for longer than 2 days, you don't need to be concerned about changes in bowel habits. Ask your baby's doctor for advice if you're worried. Jaundice Jaundice is a common and usually harmless condition in newborns. It is a yellowish appearance of the whites of the eyes and the skin of many newborn babies which usually appears on the second or third day of life in healthy babies born after a full-term pregnancy. It often disappears within a week without treatment. Ear Infections Ear infection (otitis media) is common in babies and children. Fluid collects in the middle ear space and pushes against the eardrum, causing pain. Symptoms of ear infections may include fever, pulling or rubbing the ear, irritability, weakness, loss of appetite, loss of hearing, or nausea and vomiting. Since ear infections can be caused by bacteria, continued 26 TulsaKids they are treated with antibiotics. It is important to give the antibiotic for as many days as specified by your doctor, even if your child appears to be well. Spitting Up Small amounts of spit up are normal in babies. If a baby throws up all or most of a feeding occasionally, the mother's breast milk may be coming faster or be more than the baby needs. Or a bottle's nipple holes may be too large. Repeated vomiting is a serious concern. Call your baby's doctor if she frequently vomits large amounts, or if there is any blood in any of the vomit. Source:“Caring for Your Baby,” Ross Pediatrics SKIN CANCER FACTS • The first 18-20 years of life are the most crucial for the future good health of a person's skin. • 80 percent of a person's lifetime sun exposure occurs by the age of 20. • Regular use of a sunscreen can reduce a person's lifetime risk of developing the two most common types of skin cancer by 78 percent. PROTECTING YOUR CHILD 1.The first year of life is sacred. Keep babies out of the sun as much as possible during this time. Should a bad burn occur, inform your child's doctor immediately. 2. Be a clock-watcher.Avoid outings, lessons, classes and outdoor play as much as possible during the hours of 10 a.m. and 3 p.m. when the sun's rays are most intense. 3. Use sunscreen regularly year-round.Apply sunscreen every day your child is exposed to the sun. Remember that sunscreen does not prevent over-exposure to the sun. 4. Choose sunscreen with broad-spectrum protection.The most effective sunscreens clearly indicate that they offer protection against both UVA and UVB rays. 5. Choose your SPF with care. Sunscreen with a sun protection factor in the range of 15 is the standard recommendation in the U.S. Reapply frequently. 6. Think“patch-test.”Test the sunscreen on the underside of your child's forearm, then wait 24 hours before applying all over. 7. Avoid the eye area. 8. Choose a water-resistant or waterproof product. 9. Apply early.Apply 15-20 minutes prior to sunning. 10. Cover up with clothes. Choose lightweight but tightly woven fabrics, long sleeves and long pants, and a bonnet or cap.Apply sunscreen underneath sheer clothes. EMERGENCY FIRST AID What to do if baby may have been poisoned: 1. Immediately call a Poison Control Center: (800)522-4611 2. Follow the directions given.You may be asked to give the baby ipecac syrup to make him vomit. But never make a child vomit unless instructed to by the Poison Control Center, or a health care professional.Vomiting strong substances such as acid or lye can cause more harm. BabyGuide 2010 WHAT TO DO FOR SCALDS OR BURNS: 1. If the injury is to an arm or leg, place it in cool water - or, if the injury is to another part of the body, immediately apply a clean cloth dipped in cool water. • Call the doctor. • Leave any blister alone. • Keep the area free of ointments, greases, or powders. • Cover the area loosely with a sterile gauze pad or clean material that won't stick to the burn until the doctor sees the baby. FOR A BABY WHO HAS A HEAD INJURY: Warning signs: • Any loss of consciousness after an injury. • Inability to move arms or legs. • Drainage of blood or other fluid from the nose, mouth, or ears. • Vomiting that won't stop. • Pupils of the eyes uneven in size. • Cannot be awakened. What to do: Try to have the baby rest quietly, then call the doctor immediately. NEWBORN CARE • Place infants on their back or side for sleep. • Don't worry about spoiling newborns by holding them or picking them up when they cry. Babies are learning trust and security. • If your newborn seems fussy, try swaddling the baby. • Breastfeeding is considered the preferred method of infant feeding. • If you bottle feed, hold the infant close to your body so she can look at you while feeding. Be sure to change the side that you hold your baby so that her vision develops uniformly. • If you are using formula, be careful to prepare the formula as instructed. • Infants respond best to the human face and voice. Be sure to put yourself in the infant's direct line of vision and smile, sing, talk, coo, or make faces. • Do not smoke or allow anyone else to smoke around the baby. • Do not overdress a newborn. Infants cannot control their body temperature as well as adults and can easily overheat. • Purchase stretchy clothes with lots of snaps - especially clothing that can grow with the baby. • For optimal safety on the road, be sure to place your infant in a car seat that is appropriate for his or her age and weight. For greater safety, infant car seats should be placed in the center back seat and in the rear facing position. Never place an infant or child in the front seat of a car with passenger side air bags. • Babies really don't care if their diapers or clothing are put on the right way. The most important aspect of parenting is that everything you do (even if it is done incorrectly) is done with love. 27 MASSAGE THE MAGIC OF TOUCH massage BY CINDY WEBB O don't get enough skin-to-skin contact. “America as a society tends to be touch deprived,” she said.“Especially babies born in colder climates where their skin may not be as available.” TOUCH DEPRIVED AMERICANS According to Anitra Lavanhar, LCMT, a massage therapist who specializes in baby massage, infants from birth on benefit from the magic of touch. “When babies are in utero they are constantly being massaged,” Lavanhar said. She is mother of Elias, 9, and Lyla, 14 months.“Touch is one of the first senses to develop and is essential for survival.” Lavanhar is concerned that, once born, babies INDIA: A CULTURE OF MASSAGE Lavanhar, who received her training and taught massage therapy at the Muscular Therapy Institute in Cambridge, Massachusetts, says that she first observed the benefits of infant massage when she was living in India as a college student. “Life takes place outdoors in India and in my neighborhood I remember seeing young mothers with their legs outstretched, babies on them, shiny with oil, yellow from the turmeric they often added to the oil. The massage was like a daily ritual, like baths here. The babies always looked like limp rag dolls–totally relaxed.” ne of my favorite childhood memories is lying across my mother’s lap as she gently scratched, tickled and stroked my back. She often used those gentle massages to help me relax and transition to sleep. I loved those blissful moments of closeness with my mom, as she did for me what mothers through the centuries have done, used touch as a way to calm and soothe a child. continued 28 TulsaKids WHY MASSAGE “The research on infant massage and how it helps growth is phenomenal,” Lavanhar explained.“It helps with digestion, weight gain, and circulation. Studies show that premature babies who are massaged gain weight faster, have lower cortisol [stress hormone] levels and leave the hospital earlier than babies who are not massaged.” Lavanhar said that not only can massage calm a fussy baby, relieve colic, and create a strong bond between infant and parent, it also soothes the parent. “It has actually been shown to lower the blood pressure of the parent giving the massage,” she said. “And that, in turn, can have a rebound effect on the baby. Babies are very sensitive and pick up on parent's stress.” SETTING THE STAGE In preparation for massaging your baby, remove your jewelry, wash your hands and make sure your nails are short and filed smooth. To set the stage, begin with a warm room, low light and maybe some soft music. Have on hand a single ingredient fruit or vegetable massage oil, such as cold pressed apricot, almond or grapeseed oil. “I use oils that just have one ingredient,” Lavanhar said.“That way if the baby has an allergic reaction, you know exactly what caused it.” Once the room and materials are ready, Lavanhar tells moms to get into a comfortable position with their babies, let go of tension and relax. Lavanhar added.“And don't work on a baby's belly until half an hour after your baby has eaten.” If your baby has a particular time of day when he becomes fussy, Lavanhar suggests using massage right before that time. THE OLDER BABY AND BEYOND While establishing a daily ritual of massage can be a wonderful addition to your life with baby, you can also work brief massages into many activities of the day, such as bathing, nursing and diaper changes, especially as your baby grows. “With an older, more active baby, massage becomes more of a dance in which you let the baby lead,” Lavanhar said. As your child grows, you may also find new reasons to bring the magic of massage into your family. By beginning a massage ritual with your baby, you can establish massage as part of the “culture of your family.”Touch then becomes an easily accessible tool to bring comfort, security and deep relaxation to every member of the family. Anitra Lavanhar, LCMT, is currently giving classes in Infant Massage at Baby Bump, 3524 S. Peoria. For more information call Anitra at 688-8534 or Baby Bump at 742-6400 or visit www.babybumptulsa.com. ASKING PERMISSION When you are ready to begin, Lavanhar suggests you ask your baby for permission, by saying something like,“Would you like Mommy to massage you?” “The idea behind this is to teach your baby that she has a say in whether she is touched or not,” Lavanar said.“It also helps raise parents' awareness that they need to be alert to the cues their baby gives.” As a baby gets older she may respond to the question with smiles and giggles as she anticipates what is to come. However, if she responds by crying or rolling away, you know the answer is no. HOW TO BEGIN Begin massaging your baby's arms and legs using long, slow, strokes. “Your touch should be firm, but not too hard; gentle, but not tickly and light,” Lavanhar said.“Sometimes your baby may cry a little. That is a normal release of tension. But if the cry changes or your baby arches his back–those are signs that he isn't liking what's going on. “Start with relatively brief sessions of five to 10 minutes with newborns and work up from there,” BabyGuide 2010 29 SAFETY their care goes home without an acceptable infant car seat. New parents also receive education about the proper positioning to make sure their new addition arrives safely at their destination. William Po, M.D., associate residency director, said about the cost,“It's important for us to teach the next generation of doctors that regardless of cost, giving to our community is more than just writing a prescription, but putting our beliefs into actions.” Johnson said,“Millions of dollars are spent each year in parent education but when you can't afford a car seat, education does little to curb the situation. Our OSU doctors are making a difference.As physicians we find regulations to healthcare access, and the strains on our economy are no excuse to forget what we love about medicine and that's caring for people.At OSU we know that our gift comes from a servant's heart and a love for the communities we serve.” Lance Frye, M.D., notes that infants from birth to one year of age should ride in a rear-facing seat with harness straps below the shoulder level.After age one, or greater than 20 pounds, a toddler should be positioned forward facing with harness straps again located at or above the shoulder level. “Proper positioning is essential to maximal protection,” he added. Information about infant safety and the proper use of infant car seats is available at the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration at www.nhtsa.dot.gov or from the physicians at OSU Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, (918) 586-4500. OSU Physicians Obstetrics and Gynecology is at 717 S. Houston Ave., Suite 200. car seats OSU PHYSICIANS PROVIDE CAR SEATS FOR INFANT SAFETY A group of Oklahoma State University College of Osteopathic Medicine physicians are providing car seats for their patients after finding that those without the means to purchase an infant car seat often simply borrow one to get the infant home, then do without. “Fatalities among children can be reduced by 71 percent through the use of infant car restraints yet 20-25 percent of children still ride unrestrained and 80 percent of infants under the age of one are improperly restrained,” says Joseph R. Johnson, D.O., chair of the OSU Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Believing that a good way to ensure a positive impact in communities is to provide what they are lacking, the physicians started the program. Each patient that delivers through the obstetrical department at OSU Medical Center receives a free infant car seat and no infant under 30 With Dr. Johnson are Christy Shamblin and her daughter, Jamison Sue Shamblin. Dr. Johnson and other OSU physicians emphasize the importance of proper car seat use to their patients TulsaKids BabyGuide 2010 31 I N FA N T H E A LT H the abc’s of rsv arents gearing up for fall and winter need to know that, sometimes, seasonal sniffles mean more than just a cold. Respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) is a common virus that usually causes cold-like symptoms in adults and children. But for some babies, especially those born premature or susceptible to other risk factors, RSV can be very serious. All about RSV RSV is very common, with virtually all babies contract- P ing it at least once by the age of two. RSV infects the upper respiratory system with symptoms similar to a common cold or influenza. It is the leading cause of hospitalization of children under the age of one, accounting for more than 125,000 hospitalizations in the United States annually. RSV recurs yearly throughout the world and can be contracted more than once over a person’s lifetime. In most of North America, the typical “RSV season” begins continued 32 TulsaKids in October/November and lasts four to five months. Babies who are most at-risk All babies are at risk for contracting RSV, particularly within the first six months of life. Babies born premature (earlier than 37 weeks) are particularly vulnerable to contracting RSV because they generally have underdeveloped lungs and lack important antibodies they need to fight off infections. Additional factors, such as low birth weight (less than 5 pounds), contact with other children, family history of asthma, and exposure to tobacco smoke, also put babies at high risk for contracting RSV. Preemies and babies suffering from lung disease, heart disease or immune deficiency should be watched more closely for a longer period of time because RSV can lead to life-threatening lower respiratory tract infections, including bronchiolitis or pneumonia. What to look for Common symptoms of RSV include a severe cough, persistent wheezing or difficulty breathing. Possible signs of a more serious infection that may require a trip to the emergency room, include apnea (if the baby stops breathing for more than 10 seconds), turning blue or breathing so fast that you can’t feed the baby. Caring for your baby Prevention is the key to helping your baby stay healthy. RSV lives on surfaces like countertops and in tissues for up to several hours and is easily transferred through direct contact, especially from the hands to the baby. Keep other children and adults who have coughs, colds or are sneezing away from your baby.Additionally, frequently clean your baby’s bedding, toys and personal items and anyone handling your baby should wash his/her hands or use antibacterial gels.Also, keep your baby’s nose clear of secretions and make sure he/she is receiving enough fluids. TIPS FOR PROTECTING YOUR BABY Parents should remember the following during RSV season and beyond: • Check with your pediatrician to see if your baby is at a higher risk for RSV and understand your options. • Ask visitors to wash their hands before touching your baby (and keep hand sanitizer nearby). • Limit your baby’s exposure to small children who attend daycare or school. • Monitor your baby for persistent coughing, wheezing or difficulty breathing, and seek a pediatrician’s care if symptoms develop. • Remember that you know your baby best. If you are at all concerned, call your pediatrician. BabyGuide 2010 33 BABY’S DEVELOPMENT NEEDS Your Growing Baby MOVING AND EXPLORING 0-3 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • develops head and neck control • tracks objects with eyes • turns to source of sound How you can help: • provide support as neck muscles develop • offer rattles and hang mobiles • play daily with baby 3-6 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • supports own weight on forearms while on tummy; rolls over • swipes at objects; reaches out, grasps How you can help: • watch as baby plays on tummy to strengthen shoulder & neck muscles • encourage reaching out for toys 6-9 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • sits without support • moves around on belly, gets onto hands and knees • picks up/manipulates objects; puts things in mouth How you can help: • play with baby in sitting position • offer toys with texture, sound and movement • stack and knock over toys as a game 9-12 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • crawls • pulls up to a standing position; “cruises” around the furniture • develops pincer grasp, more precise use of hands How you can help: • baby-proof the house for continued 34 TulsaKids baby’s safety • clear surfaces of small or breakable objects; cover pointed corners • hand baby toys to explore and manipulate INTERACTING & FEEDING 0-3 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • smile responses, first nonspecific and then social • communicates needs by crying How you can help: • cuddle/hold baby; infants cannot be spoiled by attention • respond to cries, meet baby’s needs 3-6 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • spontaneous social smiles • cries to get parents’ attention when in need • responsive to words and sounds How you can help: • show delight in baby while cuddling, feeding and changing • let baby touch your face and look into your eyes • talk and sing to your baby; play music 6-9 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • interested in people and many objects; more playful • will touch mirror when seeing own image • may begin to show fear toward strangers How you can help: • smile and laugh together; enjoy baby’s wonder at the world • talk to baby while pointing to image in the mirror • take baby places with you to increase comfort with others 9-12 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • enjoys social interaction with others • may show normal anxiety toward strangers, or when separated from caregivers How you can help: • play and have fun together • try not to be away for BabyGuide 2010 extended periods • let baby cuddle a blankie for security COMMUNICATING & TALKING 0-3 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • communicates needs through crying • hears, sees, feels, coos, burps and gurgles • associates parents’ voices with comfort How you can help: • respond promptly to baby’s cries • imitate baby’s sounds and say them back • talk and sing to your baby 3-6 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • experiments with new sounds, such as coos, gurgles, and “baba” • chews, sucks and bites on rattles How you can help: • imitate baby’s sounds; take turns making sounds • offer rattles with variety of textures 6-9 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • responds to own name • makes more sounds and imitates gestures • listens more selectively How you can help: • call baby by name • “talk” with baby by repeating sounds • sing nursery rhymes; sing along with children’s music 12-18 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • copies sound combinations • recognizes and begins to point at common objects • repeats animal sounds; says “dada” and “mama” How you can help: • play gesture games such as “pat-a-cake” and “so-big!” • point to and label simple objects at home and in books • identify animals, mommy and daddy THINKING & LEARNING 0-3 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • inborn motor and sensory reflexes (sucking, grasping, seeing, hearing) • moving to regularity in eating, sleeping, urinating and bowel movements How you can help: • stimulate baby’s senses with varied textures, objects and soft sounds • adapt to your baby’s patterns of eating, sleeping and wakefulness 3-6 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • mouths and touches everything • more interest in things beyond self • looks at place from which a moving object has disappeared How you can help: • introduce soft, colorful toys with different textures and feels • give baby a rattle, show how to shake it • play peek-a-boo; drop a noisy toy and let baby look for it 6-9 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • transfers toys from hand to hand • pulls, bangs and shakes, play actively • explores and investigates How you can help: • play on the floor with toys • let baby imitate what you do with toys • praise baby for accomplishments 9-12 Months Most important tasks for your baby: • begins to show intentional behavior; manipulates objects for different effects • looks for toys he sees being covered How you can help: • demonstrate use of toys and encourage imitation • play pointing/hiding games with toys 35 BABY GEAR We have sorted through numerous products for baby only to feature our favorites. The following are new and clever products that will allow both you and your new baby enhanced opportunities to be smart and stylish. BY NANCY A. MOORE HAPPY BABY, HAPPY YOU by Karyn Siegel-Maier (Storey, 2009) Price: $10.95 www.storey.com A book for parents full of tips, ideas and techniques on how to make you and your baby's first year wonderful together.The layout devotes one tip per page making it is easy to read and reference. One terrific tip includes,“Show your baby that she is important to you. Set aside time each day to give her your undivided attention.”A vast range of topics is included in this book - from an easy recipe for healing baby powder to informative and important hints about estate planning. WIGGLE! MARCH! By Kaaren Pixton (Workman, 2009) Price: $4.95 www.workman.com This flexible book is “indestructible,” so babies can bend, pull, and chew to their hearts content without hurting the book. The book serves a dual purpose of entertaining pictures as well as something to play with.While the book doesn't have any words, each page displays pictures of various farm animals. Several “indestructible” book titles are available to choose from. One-hunderd percent washable! 36 TulsaKids PRODUCTS TO COO ABOUT THE BOBO GLOVE AND BOOK by Raquel Jaramillo (Workman Publishing, 2009) Price: $18.95 www.workman.com The glove, made for an adult hand, is full of activities for baby. Each finger has something to pull, tug or chew on.There is a soft teething ring, a rattle, a honker,Velcro, mirror, and a tiny bobo baby book for you to read to your baby. Great item to tuck in a diaper bag pull out for easy entertainment. Glove is washable. WOW BABY BIB Price: $29.95 www.awowbaby.com This unique design was developed to keep baby dry.The bib's design includes an attachable plastic flap that fastens underneath the bib with snaps that are strategically placed to keep babies dry when they spit-up. Cotton fabric, in five stylish designs, is on the top of the bib and an organic blend of cotton and bamboo is on the bottom, with the plastic part under that. Bamboo fabric is 10-times more absorbent than regular cotton and contains natural antibacterial properties.The layering helps keep baby dry. Matching burp cloth with an attachable plastic flap is also available. BabyGuide 2010 STAY WITH ME SOCKS Price: $5.99 / pair www.StayWithMeSocks.com These socks are adjustable. Small Velcro straps on the back of each sock enable them to have a snug fit either around the back or around the front of baby's ankle. Made of cotton, nylon, spandex and rubber, they are soft and machine washable. Socks come with skid-proof grips on the bottom. Best of all, the straps can be looped together for easy washing. Different colors and sizes available. SMART TRIKE www.smart-trike.com Is it a stroller, a tricycle, a push toy? This is a product that evolves with children as they grow! It starts out as more of a stroller for baby and becomes more interactive as the child gets older. Eventually, the final evolution is a real trike for your toddler. It comes in bright colors and has cool features like a sun screen and a handle for parents to maintain a little control of the vehicle when needed. Smart Trike has several products for infants and toddlers and kids, all with the same multipurpose, grow-with-thechild technology. 37 COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT Share the Gift of Reading Even Babies Benefit from Storytime with Parents. BY JOHN FANCHER t 6 months old, Isabel Rosenblum has a voracious reading appetite. She devours board books with the skill of a university scholar. Her love of books is directly attributed to an increased awareness of the benefits of developing early literacy skills. “I have brought Isabel and my 2-year-old son, Ruben, to storytimes at the library since they were infants,” said Celia Rosenblum. “It is the perfect opportunity to give them a group experience in a learning atmosphere. Plus, they love picking out their own books to take home and read.” Tulsa City-County Library features My First Storytimes for newborns to 2-year-olds and their caregivers.These interactive programs are approximately 20 minutes and feature songs, bright picture books and musical instruments. “Infants build their early literacy skills by hearing a variety and repetition of words,” said Cathie Sue Andersen, TCCL’s children’s services librarian.“You can help your child develop early literacy skills by reading and talking about books and telling stories to your child starting at birth. Reading aloud also helps your baby create a positive bond with you. “Read a book, sing a song, recite a rhyme, share a story – these are the keys to teaching your baby to love reading,” said Andersen.“Our First Readers packets are full of helpful informa- A Kadry Dale, Broken Arrow Library children’s associate, reads a story to Isabel Rosenblum during My First Storytime. continued next page 38 TulsaKids tion that prepares you and your child for the first steps to reading.” First Readers packets are available at your local library with information to help raise a lifetime reader.You will find easy tips to use every day with babies and children through age 5. Packets include: a growth chart; a “Finger, Hand & Action Rhymes” booklet;“Infant & Toddler Songs” booklet; and a free board book, Everywhere Babies, written by Susan Meyers and illustrated by Marla Frazee. First Readers taps into research on reading and children’s brain development and gives age-appropriate reading experiences for the pre-talker, the talker and the preschooler. It offers parents the information and encouragement to succeed, including tools and techniques for sharing books and building language skills. To see a current schedule of storytimes at any of TCCL’s 25 locations, visit the library’s Web site, www.tulsalibrary.org, or call the AskUs Hotline, 596-7977. • These books are easier to pick up and can be washed. Don’t be surprised if they are tossed on the floor or are explored by mouth! • Simple, bright pictures against a contrasting background are still the most appealing illustrations. Suggestions: – Let your baby manipulate the books any way he wants. – Sit baby in your lap to spend a very few minutes looking at the pictures and listening to brief rhymes. – Read and sing with expression.Your baby is learning that reading is fun! 7 to 9 Months Types of Books: • Chunky board, block or chubby books.These are small and constructed so that the next page springs up when the previous page is turned. Suggestions: – Let babies explore the hinged nature of their books. First Readers taps into research on reading and children’s brain development and gives age-appropriate reading experiences for the pre-talker, the talker and the preschooler. TIPS TO GUIDE YOU THROUGH THE FIRST YEAR Birth to 4 Months Types of Books: • Stiff cardboard books • Soft but firm vinyl books • Simple large pictures set against a contrasting background Suggestions: – Open books flat and stand them at the side of the crib when the baby is resting on her back. – Place open books at the head of the crib or on the floor when baby is on his stomach. – Recite rhymes or sing songs; babies often settle down to the steady rhythm. – Using books in these early months is one way to introduce language to your child. – Read, talk and sing with expression. 4 to 6 Months Types of Books: • Cloth and soft vinyl books.These are lightweight and compress in babies’ hands as they are grasped. BabyGuide 2010 – When holding the baby in your lap to read, name pictures and colors, count items and begin to read what are by now those familiar nursery rhymes. 9 to 13 Months Types of Books: • Standard cardboard books may be used. • Pictures of familiar things and activities may be the books babies will like best. • Novelty books with which children can interact become fun at this age. Suggestions: – Continue to label or name the pictures; babies may begin to attempt to repeat some words. – Make a big game out of sounds; particularly animal sounds, but also trains, cars, etc. Babies love to hear and imitate these sounds. – Books with thick paper pages may be introduced. 39 BABY GUIDE RESOURCES CRIB CITY All Things Maternity Quality Nursery Furniture at Affordable Prices! Tulsa owned and operated since 1993! Top Quality Resale And We BEAT INTERNET PRICES! Pregnant? Look Great for Less! Save Money on Name-Brand Maternity Clothes. Sizes: xs–4x [Cash for Your Clothes] 1525 S. 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