Oct. 5, 2012 - Gay San Diego
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Oct. 5, 2012 - Gay San Diego
Volume 3 Issue 20 Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 gay-sd.com Follow us on Facebook and Twitter. GAY SAN DIEGO SERVING OUR LGBT COMMUNITY 9 calendar insert pg.11 Pride @ the beach: five years and counting Max Disposti | North County Update Telly takes to Diversionary y dining (l to r) Andre Soriano and Kenneth Barlis, photographed here at the W Hotel San Diego, are two of 12 designers participating in this year’s Fashion Week San Diego. (Photo by Gail Bowman) T he return of Fashion Week Veteran and up-and-coming designers present their best spring 2013 collections By Anthony King | GSD Editor Bunz’s rescue and third place as well. Organizers of Fashion Week, which include founder Allison Andrews, said the event’s goal is to introduce the designers to the greater fashion community, as well as “help give them momentum to grow.” The first preview is Friday, Oct. 5, where the individual designers select their favorite piece from their spring 2013 collection to showcase. It starts at 6 p.m. at the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising, Downtown. The 12 designers – consisting of individuals and companies – come from all over San Diego County, including Erin Fader from Encinitas and the Love Is Alanis hits all the right notes Following a three-year absence, Fashion Week San Diego has returned, showcasing 12 local designers in a week of events, shows and parties. The final weekend is the culmination of all the hard work and, for some, the next step in launching a design career. The runway show, trunk show and sale, and announcement of the winning designs take place Friday through Sunday, Oct. 5, 6 and 7. The winning designer will be voted on by attendees and scored on creativity, wear-ability and overall production. They will receive a business package to help launch their line, with awards for second d sports Mayoral debates touch on LGBT issues s music The Bolts take first INDEX opinion…………………6 briefs…………………..7 community voices…………8 interview….……………17 classifieds……………18 Theater………………..20 CONTACT US Editorial/Letters 619-961-1952 [email protected] Advertising 619-961-1958 [email protected] Both claim other controlled by ‘special interests’ (l to r) Mayoral candidates Bob Filner and Carl DeMaio at the Politifest debate (Photo by GSD) By Anthony King | GSD Editor As the election season enters its final month, mayoral candidates Rep. Bob Filner and Councilmember Carl DeMaio are participating in several debates throughout San Diego, with approximately 20 scheduled from early A Devil team, Alana Crain and Sharie Ellis, from Oceanside. Kenneth Barlis is from San Carlos, and Andre Soriano is from La Mesa. The Dos Caras team of Syncletica Muniz and Aida Soria, and individual designer Paul Rico are from Chula Vista. Other designers include A’Doreus, with plus-sized women’s wear by Sharlene Borromeo; Creative-Fashionista owner Whitney Francis; Jessica Faulkner, who worked the first FWSD in 2008; nOia Collection, with designs from Evelyne Aguilar; Stacie May; and SYC Collection, by owner Sameerah Yasmeen Corporal. see Fashion, pg 23 September up to the Nov. 6 election. On Saturday, Sept. 29, the pair sparred at Politifest 2012 in Liberty Station. The debate was one of several programs at the political event, which was organized by the non-profit news organization Voice of San Diego. CEO Scott Lewis moderated the debate, with questions from Peggy Pico of KPBS, LaDona Harvey of KOGO-AM and Gene Cubbison of NBC San Diego. During the answer to a question regarding cuts to the federal defense budget and how that would affect San Diego, DeMaio reprimanded Filner for a 2005 congressional vote in support of banning military recruiters from college campuses. Calling San Diego a “Navy town at our core,” DeMaio said Filner used “extremism” to “undermine our military.” In response, Lewis interjected by saying to DeMaio: “Let me ask you real quickly about that issue about college recruiters. That was because the colleges were taking a stand about the military’s prohibition against being an out gay person. “Is that not a principle worth standing for?” Lewis asked. see Debates, pg 7 It was not long ago when, in a small Oceanside coffee shop, a few dedicated North County activists decided to revive what was once known as North County Pride. Tina Leight-Roades, Raphael Rubalcaba, Curtis Fitzgerald, Cliff Crawford and I gave life to an idea that sought to deliver more LGBT visibility for our North County families. After several years of North County Pride being celebrated in parks and hidden venues, it was now time for more visibility. During the spring of 2008 – and the social polarization that Proposition Eight and the anti-marriage troops brought to our doorsteps – Pride @ the beach was born. We needed something to be proud of and make a statement in the community that our presence in North County was just at its beginning. “Taking it to the beach” was the perfect answer. That ver y first year of Pride @ the beach was a true revelation, with participation that confirmed the need for a North County Pride experience. In fact, almost 800 people showed up at the Oceanside beach gymnasium, despite the lack of support from our North County councilmembers. But five years have passed, and Pride @ the beach has proved to be a growing occurrence that is slowly changing the North County social-political landscape. Much is changed from our first year, when local business owners and politicians tried their best to avoid our invitations, politely declining to attend. Progressive and conser vative forces alike struggled to recognize the existence of our LGBT families in North County by avoiding meeting with us. However, just a few years later and the same business owners are now competing to attend our event and more progressive candidates are making sure to recognize our constituents and political presence. How has this happened? Pride @ the beach is one of the most important programs that the North see Beach, pg 5 Pride @ the beach overlooks the Oceanside Pier (Courtesy NC LGBTQ Resource Center) 2 GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 gay-sd.com news gay-sd.com A (somewhat) true story of addiction GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 (l to r) Thure Lindhardt and Zachary Booth star in ‘Keep the Lights On.” (Photo by Jean-Christophe Husson/Music Box Films) Ira Sachs’ ‘Keep the Lights On’ plays for one week only at the Ken By Anthony King | GSD Editor The latest film from Ira Sachs, “Keep the Lights On,” depicts two topics familiar to gay men: love and addiction. They intertwine, however, as the real story emerges while watching. It’s the story of one character’s addiction to another. Co-written and directed by Sachs, the film follows the relationship of documentary filmmaker Erik (played by Danish-film star Thure Lindhardt) and closeted lawyer Paul (Zachary Booth). Paul has an addiction to drugs. Erik, the film’s hero, has an addiction to love and, ultimately, Paul. The two meet as a casual hookup – from a phone dating line, similar to the Grindr and Scruff applications of today – where, after having sex, Paul immediately pushes back Erik’s interest because of an existing girlfriend. It will not be the relationship’s last red flag. Produced by Music Box Films, “Keep the Lights On” chronicles the pair for over a decade, beginning in 1998. Sex, drug use, monogamy, HIV and the past are all topics; Erik’s grasp for love is the uniting force. Sachs based the story in part on the ending of his own longterm relationship, which also spanned several years in New York City. Retold through Paul and Erik’s relationship, Sachs was particularly fascinated by the uni- versal story of two people staying together against multiple odds. “I was aware so succinctly that there had been a first day and a last day, and there was such an incredible story between the two ends,” Sachs said in a press release, regarding his own relationship. “The course of that experience was so clear in my mind in terms of its narrative power.” For “Keep the Lights On,” he chronicled his own relationship by going through emails, journals, notes and other items collected through the years. Not simply a gay story, Sachs said it is ultimately a film about relationships. “I didn’t necessarily approach it as a film about gay life per se,” he said. “I approached it as a film about a relationship in New York at this specific time that happens to be between two men.” The director’s previous work includes “Married Life,” “The Delta” and “Forty Shades of Blue.” His most previous film, “Last Address,” is a short work honoring a group of New York City artists who died of AIDS complications. It played at the 2011 Venice Biennale and is part of the permanent collections of the Whitney Museum of American Art. Sachs is also the founder and co-curator of Queer/Art/Film, a monthly series held at the IFC Center in New York City, and the Queer/Art/Mentorship program that supports work between queer artists, also in the city. The subject of gay artists permeates “Keep the Lights On,” from Erik’s documentary work on a forgotten gay artist to cellist Arthur Russell’s influence in the score. Lindhardt said his role as Erik is about loving himself. The Danish actor’s United States work includes “Into the Wild” and “Angels & Demons.” For Paul, Sachs chose Booth, who is perhaps best known for his role in the television series “Damages.” His film work includes “The Beaver,” “Taking Woodstock” and “Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist.” “He blew us all away when he auditioned,” Sachs said. “Zachary [Booth] possesses a very human quality that audiences can feel when they watch him.” It’s hard to say who has the more difficult role, as Booth has to work through Paul’s addiction to drugs while Lindhardt portrays his character’s addiction to Paul – infatuation, desperation, rejection – with equal sincerity. Outside of the film, and to keep in line with Sachs’ storytelling desire, producers of the film created keepthelightsonfilm.com where visitors can submit personal stories about their own day-to-day struggles of being in a relationship. “Keep the Lights On” opens for a special one-week engagement Friday, Oct. 12 at the Landmark Ken Cinema, located at 4061 Adams Ave. For more information, including show times, visit landmarktheatres.com.t (l to r) Lindhardt and Booth (Photo by Jean-Christophe Husson/Music Box Films) 3 4 NEWS GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 Everything’s coming up Streisand Joey Landwehr and the J*Company Youth Theatre stage ‘Streisand Season’ beginning Oct. 19 By Donnie Matsuda | GSD Reporter Joey Landwehr has been the Artistic Director of J*Company Youth Theatre for the past six years, putting his innovative artistic stamp on the company’s award winning musicals. Prior to his tenure as head of “J*Co,” as it is referred to by many, Landwehr spent several years as a professional actor and director in New York City, working on and off Broadway, performing on national tours and even soloing at Carnegie Hall. He has trained with some of the biggest names in the business, including Betty Buckley, Marcel Marceau, Twyla Tharpe and Patti LuPone, as well as working with Phyllis Diller, Sam Harris, Kristin Chenoweth, Joel Grey, Michael Feinstein and the late Howard Keel. As Landwehr gets ready to lead his youth company into its 20th season – a tribute to the legendary Barbra Streisand – he took time to chat about his childhood, his reasons for moving to San Diego, his process for putting together the company’s “Streisand Season” and his hopes for the future of J*Company. Donnie Matsuda: How does a young boy growing up in rural Missouri get involved in musical theatre? Joey Landwehr: Well, growing up in a rural town in Missouri, I was planning to be a minister. … I think most of it was because that’s what my mother wanted, and I wanted to please her. I went to Johnson Bible College in Knoxville, Tenn. in between my junior and senior year of high school and it was an experience I’ll never forget. I was there and I was thinking, ‘this is beautiful, but I don’t really know why I’m here.’ Then I realized half way through that I didn’t really want to preach the word, I just wanted to be on stage and tell people what to do [laughs]. It wasn’t until I was a junior in high school that I went, ‘oh there’s a whole genre and there’s something you can do onstage.’ And that’s when I discovered theater and realized that I had this love for it. DM: What’s the most important lesson or piece of advice you took away from your time in the Big Apple? gay-sd.com Betty Buckley. … I discovered that Betty was giving acting classes and I said, ‘I want to try this out and see if I’m missing something that I didn’t learn in college.’ She was such an incredible teacher that I took classes from her for three years. She taught me so much about the process of theatre much more than the product. … DM: How did you end up in San Diego? JL: My partner and I met in 2000, just before the 9/11 attacks, and we were living in Brooklyn. When the towers fell – we could see the towers from our apartment window – the whole scheme of New York changed. And having been there for so many years, I felt it was time for me to find something different, something that gave me some fulfillment instead of living from paycheck to paycheck, and going from show to show and waiting tables in between. My partner was getting a little disenchanted with New York as well. He said if he ever moved away, San Francisco and San Diego were the only places he would ever go. So, we flew out here the summer after the 9/11 attacks and I got off the plane and said, ‘I’m home.’ (l to r) Artistic Director Joey Landwehr and Rebecca Myers rehearse for “Funny Girl.” DM: How did you come up with the idea of a “Streisand Season” for J*Company? JL: I was in New York from 1997 to 2003. On Broadway, I did a little stint in “The Secret Garden,” and then did the national tour, which was a lot of fun. I also did the national tour of “The Wizard of Oz” with Phyllis Diller and the national tour of “George M” with Joel Grey. I also took classes from JL: When I first walked in the door in February 2006, I knew that I wanted to do this season. To me, there wasn’t a question. This must happen. As Artistic Director, I was the first to bring themes to our seasons. … Last season was our tribute to the La Jolla Playhouse and this season we walk into Ms. Streisand. I knew this year was Barbara’s (Courtesy J*Company Youth Theatre) 70th birthday and all the stars just aligned. Also, this year is J*Company’s 20th anniversary, my 40th birthday, and it is my executive producer’s 50th birthday. Clearly, something was telling me this is the right time to do it, and everything just sort of came about as it should have. DM: Which show do you think will be the most fun? Which will be the most challenging? JL: Well, the most fun is going to be “Hello, Dolly!” It just lends itself to it. … As far as the most challenging, I think the other three shows have their own challenges. “Funny Girl” is just massive. There is nothing small about it and there’s no way to do it small. “Yentl” has its own challenges, in that the subject matter is on the heavy side and it’s a little adult. So, we have to really watch how we handle this with our 10 to 18 year olds. And then “Gypsy” has its own challenges as well because, in my eyes, I see it as this beautiful story about a mother and her daughters and how everything changes around them. But, I think in many ways, parents see “Gypsy” as just a show about strippers. And that’s not what it is about. So my goal is to present it in a way that people will come to see it. DM: Where would you like to see J*Company in five to 10 years from now? JL: I hope that we continue to grow. More than ever, I would love to have a black-box theatre where we could do more intimate plays that really aren’t these huge mongo musicals. We could do plays like “The Laramie Project.” And we could do some darker, more intimate things. I would also love to put together a conservatory training program for our kids. I think many times, youth theaters are created for the wrong reasons: either as easy pocket money or as easy ways to promote a director’s artistic vision and feed their ego. Those are not reasons to create a children’s theater. In my opinion, the reason for children’s theater is to help young people grow and to educate them in what they’re doing. So, to have a conservatory here to train these young people and help them grow in theater and in other arts would truly be amazing. The La Jolla-based J*Company’s “Streisand Season” begins Oct. 19 with “Funny Girl,” followed by “Yentl” in December, “Gypsy” in March and ending with “Hello, Dolly!” in May. For more information and tickets visit sdchc.org or call 858-362-1348.t COMMUNITY VOICES/NEWS gay-sd.com From page 1 beach County LGBTQ Resource Center organizes throughout the year. In fact, along with other signature events like the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) Awards, the Gala Fundraiser event and the many other monthly programs and activities, Pride @ the beach is the oldest and most participated event, with almost 4,000 people attending last year. For this reason, last year the board of the Resource Center decided to put the direction of Pride under the leadership of one member, Tina Leight-Roades. She has been a volunteer for years as marketing director and graphic designer, and stepped up to the role of Pride director to ensure growth, success and the continuation of our LGBTQ culture of inclusiveness in North County. And the results are already in: this year Pride is bigger than ever, with more entertainment, fun and booth participation, and with an official “sold out” sign for our vendors several weeks before the event. Thank you, Tina. What Pride @ the beach does for North County Besides funding our youth programs, in particular our GSA Award event, Pride @ the beach is making sure North County is a place for ever yone: LGBTQ and straight allies from Escondido to Oceanside, Fallbrook to Solana Beach and Del Mar, as well as Temecula and Hemet. For those in San Diego, Pride @ the beach is also a great opportunity to spend a day in the sun while supporting our grassroots effort to be always present in one of the most difficult regions for LGBT people in the County, giving hope of a better tomorrow to all our North County youth. From San Diego you can ride the Coaster and stop two blocks away at the Oceanside Downtown Station. Pride @ the beach is Oct. 13 from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. near the Oceanside Pier. General admission tickets are $5, students and seniors tickets are $2.50, and children under eight and active militar y are free. For more information visit northcountypride.com.t Pride @ the beach entertainment line up 11 a.m. Opening host, Laura Jane 11:15 a.m. SD Women’s Chorus 12 p.m. Speakers 12:30 p.m. Diversity Arts 1 p.m. Social Animal 1:30 p.m. Full Strength Funk Band 2:15 p.m. San Diego Kings Club 2:45 p.m. Full Strength Funk Band 3:30 p.m. Traci Dinwiddie 4:15 p.m. SD Gay Men’s Chorus 5:15 p.m. No Angel Ex-Playgirl model guilty in death of Jason ‘Cowboy’ Huggins GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 5 fled from the tent, climbed up the canyon off Washington Street at state Highway 163, and sought treatment at a nearby hospital. He was admitted into the hospital at 5:48 p.m., records show. Meanwhile, Huggins crawled out of the canyon and was seen on a security video at about 6:02 p.m. He called 911 at Joshua Larson faces 20 years to life behind bars 6:12 p.m. and was taken to a nearby hospital. Suffering from severe brain injuries, Huggins lingered in a coma for two weeks, while members of the LGBT community, friends and By Ken Williams | SDGLN Editor in Chief relatives held vigils in public parks and at the hospital. Huggins died of his injuries on July 6, 2011. A former Playgirl model has been convicted of Peter Will, the defense attorney, tried to convince the second-degree murder in connection with the beating jury that Huggins was the victim of a gay love triangle that death of Jason “Cowboy” Huggins, a beloved figure in ended tragically with domestic violence. He said Chad Luthe local LGBT community. cas and Nathan Meza were both in love with Huggins, and A jury comprised of six men and six women returned that Lucas had been rejected by Huggins on the afternoon the verdict on Sept. 21, the day after the prosecutor and of the vicious beating and had admitted during testimony the defense attorney presented their that he had laid his hands on Huggins closing statements in the courtroom that day. The defense attorney blamed of Judge Theodore M. Weathers. Lucas for the death of Huggins. Joshua James Larson, 38, of San DiLarson, however, did not have an alibi ego will learn how much prison time he for his whereabouts during the attack. will face at a future sentencing hearing. The jury apparently did not agree that He faces up to 20 years to life in prison, GPS data supported the defense’s claim according to the state’s sentencing that Larson was walking east on Washguidelines. ington Street toward El Cajon Boulevard, During the trial, which began Sept. and was about 5 minutes away from the 5, prosecutor Makenzie R. Harvey crime scene at the time of the attack. painted a picture of an angry, revengeful Also damaging were jailhouse Larson who was determined to get even recordings between Larson and his with Huggins, whose testimony during mother. Authorities automatically make a criminal trial helped convict Larson. such recordings. She noted that Larson served 88 days In the recordings, Larson never Jason “Cowboy” Huggins in jail for that conviction, then another denies attacking Huggins, and Larson’s (Courtesy SDGLN) 79 days at another time after Larson mother expressed disappointment that violated his probation. her son “hadn’t let it go yet” after Larson Harvey used witnesses, security video and GPS data to admitted that he knew the man who was in the hospital after prove her case. She said to the jury that her case against Larbeing badly beaten. son was not full of forensic evidence, but that her star witness During her closing statement, Harvey said: and other evidence would be enough to convict Larson. “Revenge, retaliation, and payback is why this man She presented evidence that Larson crossed paths with [referring to an on-screen photo of Cowboy] is dead. He Huggins and his boyfriend, Nathan Meza, at the McDonald’s held the defendant accountable for his actions and now he is restaurant in Hillcrest between 4:16 and 4:48 p.m. on June 22, dead. Can a single witness’s testimony be sufficient? Nathan 2011, which was not disputed by defense attorney Peter Will. Meza’s [testimony] could be sufficient. Rarely do you have She used GPS data, security video and witnesses to prove one person who witnessed most of the events, who also has that Larson followed Huggins and Meza to the “Camelot” lots of pieces of evidence that corroborate his testimony.” canyon where the two men were living in a tent compound. Meza, the star witness, testified that Larson threatened —Ken Williams is Editor in Chief of San Diego Gay and to burn them to death in the tent and then attacked him Lesbian News. He can be reached at [email protected], @Kenand Huggins with a large, smooth rock. Meza said he SanDiego on Twitter or by calling 877-727-5446, ext. 713.t 6 opinion GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 gay-sd.com Editorial Are we really ready to be ‘America’s most bike-friendly city’? By Morgan M. Hurley | GSD Assistant Editor Letters Health care rights This is awesome information Brian. Thank you for sharing and to put this information in layman’s terms [see “Healthcare for the uninsured,” Vol. 3, Issue 19]. It’s tough for people to understand health care information and know what they have rights to and where to receive care. I think that … we [need] more physicians that cared for the community more, rather than only caring about receiving a check and/or capitation payment. If they did then more terminal diagnoses can be detected beforehand and treated. Keep up the excellent work you do! —Renee Trujillo Szafirowski, via gay-sd.com How much will this replacement cost and who will pay? … I certainly support the concept of the Pride flag as a center piece for our community, but this outcome is far from deserving an Orchid award in it’s current flawed state, especially since as [San Diego Pride Executive Director Dwayne] Crenshaw stated, “A replacement is in the works.” Our community should expect excellence from its community leaders and benefactors, and unfortunately this outcome falls far short of that reasonable expectation. I am more than willing to involve myself with the replacement process to make sure our community is “doing it right” and gets what it intended, and deserves. Thank you for your attention to this issue, which affects our entire community’s Pride. —John Thurston, via email Doing better by Being Alive Is non-HIV AIDS being covered up? Being Alive got no money from two major San Diego AIDS fundraisers, AIDS Walk and Dining Out for Life, last year [see “Being Alive strives to keep doors open,” Vol. 3, Issue 19]. Let’s hope this year we can do better. Allied NATO government is hiding HIV-negative AIDS cases (like mine) under the “Chronic Fatigue Syndrome” (CFS) [International Classification of Diseases] code. Why isn’t [chronic fatigue and immune dysfunction syndrome] CFIDS a reportable illness overseen by our public health department? Why are CFS and [myalgic encephalomyelitis] ME (the same exact disorder) suspiciously categorized as two separate illnesses on a worldwide level? Doesn’t anyone else but me very clearly see the catastrophic cover-up going on here? Why are we not reading about non-HIV AIDS cases (and/or the AIDS-like nature of CFIDS) on the front pages of every newspaper in the world? And if CFS and ME are non-HIV AIDS then, depending on who you believe, there are anywhere between 500,000 to 28 million Americans out there with a transmissible illness. If that is what it truly is, our new form of AIDS dwarfs the ‘original’ AIDS epidemic tenfold. I am not afraid to say that I have AIDS (without HIV). I am equally as unafraid of saying the most obvious thing about CFS/ME: It sure does look like HIV to me. If it takes courage to think and to say the things that I do, I hope that there will be a miraculous outbreak of bravery from coast-to-coast. … —John Keasler, via gay-sd.com Quality issues surrounding Hillcrest Pride Flag affects community We are all proud that the Pride flag was raised at the opening of our Pride festival and Block Party. Upon closer inspection though there seems to have been some serious flaws in the decision-making process that has lead to a seriously flawed flag being designed and purchased for the flagpole. Shortly after the raising I noticed a distinct muting of the colors in the flag, and also a very shiny quality to the fabric used. I am not simply a petty whiner, but a professional photographer who knows colors when I see them, and know when they are off. … Am I correct in assuming that a hastily made decision to raise the Flag by Pride weekend has wasted community time, effort and money on an inferior and mediocre flag that is now in need of replacement? How did this happen? PUBLISHER David Mannis (619) 961-1951 [email protected] DIRECTOR OF SALES & MARKETING EDITOR Anthony King (619) 961-1952 [email protected] Account ExecutiveS Katherine Harkenrider (619) 961-1955 [email protected] ASSISTANT EDITOR Morgan M. 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Letters should be no longer than 350 words in length unless approved by staff editors. Letters and guest editorials do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher or staff. In the last four months, three bike corrals have been installed in Uptown locations; Fifth & University avenues, Mississippi Street near El Cajon Boulevard and, on Sept. 5, the largest corral yet was installed at the corner of North Park Way and 30th Street, in front of The Linkery restaurant. The same day this latest bike corral was unveiled, the San Diego BID Council announced that seven area business districts were being given a bicycle of their own to use as they see fit, not only to allow them easier travel within their district to conduct business, but also to help encourage more bicycle riding. By the end of the year, 10 more districts will be added to the program. On the heels of these latest initiatives comes “bike sharing” – a program District Three Councilmember Todd Gloria recently saw in Washington, D.C. while there as part of a San Diego contingent advocating for the Balboa Park centennial. No sooner was the councilmember back in his office, he and Mayor Jerry Sanders were hosting a “bike sharing demonstration” at Petco Park, on Sept. 17. Is San Diego ready for an influx of bicycle commuters – or more importantly – are large numbers of bicycle commuters ready for San Diego? After four months of strictly public transportation as an inner-city commuter, I decided to get my trusty 17-year-old Trek out of storage and incorporate it into my commute, which takes me from South Park, up through North Park and over to Hillcrest, daily. Despite some of the harrowing moments I’ve experienced, I am enjoying it; but believe me, I have a lot of feedback when it comes to addressing the point at which my rubber hits the road. I attended – on my own bicycle – that North Park press conference on Sept. 5th, and despite North Park and Hillcrest stepping up with these new initiatives, I can attest their streets have a ways to go. The route along University Avenue between 30th Street and Park Boulevard is one of the most dangerous stretches of city streets for a bicyclist in the county. Likewise, Robinson Avenue from 10th to Fourth avenues, which includes the Robinson bridge, is a span that is pedestrian-friendly but far from biker-friendly. The edge pavement on Robinson Avenue between Sixth and Fifth avenues in Hillcrest is extremely dangerous; you either ride in the gutter or encroach on the limited space allotted for a vehicle. My issues or concerns are not isolated. That is obvious when reading the comments printed here. Plain and simple, readers are concerned about bike safety. Even the comments on Councilmember Gloria’s Facebook page, with regards to the bike sharing idea and demonstration, were predominately concerned with bike safety. One follower even referenced a 2011 article on shareable. net: “Top 10 things every mayor should know before starting a bike sharing program.” The specific item the poster referenced was #1, “Be a bike-friendly community first.” Again, safety, safety, safety. For bike riders as well as motorists. When I first added my bike to my commute, a good friend – who used to ride from Hillcrest to SDSU daily – told me to “avoid University Ave between 30th and Park Boulevard at all costs.” For the most part, I’ve taken his sage advice with a couple exceptions. I can see why he holds this belief. Another biking friend of mine just told me yesterday she was sideswiped by a MTS bus on that same strip of road. A coworker just recently saw a bicyclist hit by a car at the corner of Robinson and Fifth avenues. Some say bike riders need to take a DMV-like test to become bicycle commuters. I’m not sure I agree, although I do think we should have to register bikes and attend a class. But much more importantly, the roads in our region need to become bike-friendly. We need wider streets, bike lanes, bike routes, resurfacing of busy streets and more.t GAY SAN DIEGO SUBMISSIONS/NEWS TIPS Press releases and story ideas are welcome. Send press releases, tips, photos or story ideas to [email protected]. For breaking news and investigative story ideas contact the editor by phone or email. DISTRIBUTION GAY San Diego is distributed free, biweekly, every other Friday. COPYRIGHT 2012. All rights are reserved. Business Improvement Association 3737 Fifth Ave. Suite 201 San Diego, CA 92103 (619) 519-7775 www.gay-sd.com news gay-sd.com GAY NEWS BRIEFS Being Alive seeks volunteers Local nonprofit Being Alive has announced a call for volunteers in a press release on Sept. 29. The HIV/AIDS service organization is looking for specialized volunteers in three program areas: Helping Hands Moving Services, Peer Advocacy and their Holistic AIDS Response Program (HARP). The Helping Hands services provide free moving services to Being Alive clients facing eviction, including assistance in finding affordable housing as well as aiding with medical supplies due to disrupted care. The Peer Advocacy program is the heart of the agency, and Being Alive is seeking volunteers who will be able to provide resources and counseling services to clients. For HARP, the organization is looking for licensed massage, chiropractic care, reiki, reflexology, acupuncture and other therapies. They are also accepting applications for licensed barbers or hair stylists. Those interested can visit the Being Alive center at 4070 Centre St. to fill out an application. Laugh Out Proud ends, may return at later date The Sept. 13 Laugh Out Proud comedy show at Martinis Above Fourth was the last official monthly event for the company. Co-producer Sean Wherley said they were looking to re-launch the show, which was designed to showcase the region’s top LGBT and allied comedians in a safe environment for the LGBT community, at a different venue. He said they would announce the return of Laugh Out Proud at a later date. In its 18-month history, Wherley, along with co-producer Sarah Burford, hosted a large selection of comedians, including Renee Santos, Scott Silverman and transgender comedian Ian Harvie, among others. Teddy Margas headlined the Sept. 13 final show. FilmOut looking for additional board members for anniversary season In preparation for their 15th anniversary season, FilmOut San Diego is seeking additional board members to join the non-profit organization, which produces the annual LGBT Film Festival as well as regular monthly film screenings. The 15th annual festival is scheduled for May 2013. “Now is a perfect time to join the FilmOut board, just in time for our 15th anniversary,” said Festival Programmer Michael McQuiggan. He said next year’s GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 said in the release. While an appointment is preferred, walk-in clients are welcome. To make an appointment call 619-291-1400. festival will feature “films from all over the world celebrating LGBT diversity, with filmmaker and talent Q&As, parties, panels, a filmmaker LGBT short-film contest and much more.” Requirements for membership include, among other duties, participation in monthly board meetings, outreach at the monthly screenings and festival, and securing funds for the 2013 season. There are currently nine members on the board, headed by President Rick Goldenstein. Those interested should contact Festival Director Kaleb James at [email protected]. Community leader Sean Sala steps down from Servicemembers United Announced Sept. 23, community leader and former political activist Sean Sala resigned from Servicemembers United (SU), one of the largest organizations for LGBT troops and veterans of the United States armed forces. Based in Washington, D.C., SU is a non-partisan and non-profit organization that was organized in 2005 to participate in the debate over “don’t ask, don’t tell.” Citing “no bitterness nor bad reason” in his email announcing his resignation, Sala said his intention was to focus on other issues and to transition “out of politics permanently.” Stephen L. Peters, president of The American Military Partner Association (AMPA), said as SU transitions from the successful “don’t ask, don’t tell” repeal to supporting the AMPA, Sala’s departure is one of many. “The national leadership in Washington [D.C.] has transitioned out of the movement already and the leaders of local networks have been helping transition SU’s local work towards AMPA’s goals and mission,” he said. The AMPA is now the nation’s leading organization of the partners and spouses of LGBT troops, Peters said. “Sean has been an incredibly active and high-profile advocate for the LGBT military community, locally in San Diego and also nationwide. His work with SU and other organizations has been very helpful and highly valued,” Peters said. “Sean remains a dear friend to all of us, and his enthusiasm and passion are sure to continue to benefit the community as well on whatever other campaigns, initiatives, and groups with which he involves himself moving forward.” Palm Springs Pride to feature carter-johnson leather exhibit During this year’s Greater Palm Springs Pride festival held Nov. 3 – 4, a portion of the Carter-Johnson Leather Library will be on display. The traveling library contains over 10,000 items, including artwork, books, DVDs, magazines, newsletters, photographs, posters and other materials that “explore the world of alternative sexuality,” a press release stated. Items date from the 1700s to today. “We are thrilled to bring this phenomenal leather history resource to Palm Springs,” said Ron deHarte, Greater Palm Springs Pride president, in the release. “Festival attendees will have a chance to see this priceless exhibit and made a connection to the history of the LGBT and heterosexual leather community.” The Leather Library, which was founded by Viola Johnson, began as a personal collection in early 1970s. Artifacts from the collection began traveling to various events in 2003. The exhibit will be a part of Fetish in the Outfield, the leather-focused area of Palm Springs Pride. Exhibit hours will be 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. each day. The festival is located at Sunrise Park, 1901 Baristo Rd., in Palm Springs. For more information visit pspride.org. TASTE OF NORTH PARK SEEKS VOLUNTEERS North Park Main Street presents the Taste of North Park Saturday, Oct. 6, where attendees can taste bites from over 40 restaurants and a dozen microbrews in North Park. The event last from 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. and organizers are seeking volunteers for morning shifts (10 a.m. – 1:30 p.m.) and afternoon shifts (1 – 4 p.m.). Duties include serving tastes and general assistance, and will get you a ticket to the Taste. For those interested in attending, tickets to the Taste are $30 presale and $35 the day of the event. Valid ID is required for the beer tastings, and there is $5 parking at the North Park parking garage (29th Street and North Park Way) for this event. For more information, including how to volunteer, visit tastenorthpark.com or call 619-294-2501.t Being Alive partners with Babycakes for free HIV-testing incentive Being Alive HIV/AIDS services has begun conducting free HIV testing on Tuesdays from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. at their offices, located at 4070 Centre St. “We are pleased to begin HIV testing here at Being Alive,” said Executive Director Shannon Wagner in a press release. “It is done in a safe and non-clinical setting. If you or someone else has been putting off the test, consider making an appointment today.” As incentive, the nonprofit has teamed up with Babycakes to offer a “Buy One, Get One Free” coupon for a cupcake at either of the restaurant’s locations. “We are pleased to team up with Being Alive and offer an incentive for people to get tested,” Babycakes owner Christopher Stavros 7 From page 1 debates DeMaio did not directly answer Lewis’ question, instead saying he supported the “don’t ask, don’t tell” repeal, which Lewis was referencing, and that he voted on the city council to support the discriminatory policy’s repeal. DeMaio then reiterated Filner’s vote against recruiting on college campuses. “There’s a right and a wrong way to cause social change to happen,” DeMaio said. Vocalized through the entire debate, DeMaio reiterated his “bi-partisan” support after receiving endorsements from Mayor Jerry Sanders, a republican, and Dr. Irwin Jacobs, a democrat. “I’m proud of the fact that … two men stepped forward and reflected the bipartisan energy that we’ve been able to tap,” DeMaio said. “I will work with anyone, even people that I disagree with … if it’s in the best interest of our city.” Another main topic discussed included which candidate had more “special interests” backing him than the other. Each contended the other was controlled by special interests, with Filner bringing up DeMaio’s backing by U-T San Diego and North County Times owner Doug Manchester. Calling Manchester DeMaio’s “biggest supporter” as well as the city’s “biggest developer,” Filner said, “[DeMaio’s] got the biggest special interests, bought and paid for by developers.” DeMaio responded by saying Filner was backed by “the same special interests,” hinting at labor unions that oppose the DeMaio-backed Proposition B. “I respect the rights of the unions to organize and negotiate on behalf of their members,” DeMaio said. “Where I have a problem is when politicians don’t negotiate on behalf of the taxpayers to ensure we get a balanced deal.” DeMaio also said he supported collective bargaining as well performance-based incentives for city employees. The question of Manchester repeatedly came up during the debate. Filner said he would take on Manchester if he were elected, calling out DeMaio for receiving the developer’s support. “You won’t even say his name,” Filner said. Following the Politifest debate, Filner and DeMaio met on Monday, Oct. 1 for a debate sponsored by KPBS. Manchester came up once again, and again in the context of connections to DeMaio. In a story printed by KPBS on Thursday, Oct. 4 as a follow-up to DeMaio’s statement at the Oct. 1 debate, where he said he had met with the U-T San Diego editorial board only, DeMaio’s calendar was revealed to show two meetings scheduled with “Papa Doug,” the moniker Manchester prefers to use. The story reports that DeMaio did meet with Manchester in December 2011 and May 2012, however the councilmember said he did not have to disclose the meetings because they were not campaign related. On Thursday evening, Oct. 4, after this issue went to press, DeMaio and Filner met again in front of the University Heights Community Association. Their appearance was in a forum rather than a debate format, as will be their appearance in front of the Kensington-Talmadge (Ken-Tal) Community Association on Oct. 18. The KenTal meeting begins at 7:15 p.m.t Are you following us on… Search for… Gay San Diego Q PUZZLE The Write stuff Across 1 Drivers get off on it 5 Clothes line 9 Go straight 14 John Goodman’s “Normal, ___ “ 15 Scat legend Fitzgerald 16 It arouses two body openings 17 Hamburger Mary’s list 18 State surely 19 Edna and others 20 19th century poet of a recently discovered photo 23 New Mexico town 24 Check for electronic bugs 25 Hanging one’s head 28 Hit boxers 29 One who chews the scenery 32 Potential mate 33 Sinn ___ (Irish society) 34 Wooden trunk 35 Lover of 20-Across in the photo The Write Stuff solution on page 19 38 Deity on _Xena_ 39 Skating jump 40 He played Superman 41 “___ out!” (cry by Pallone) 42 That’s bull, to Frida 43 Prejudice and then some 44 S&M reminders 46 Woodpecker’s pecker 47 Title for 20-Across 52 Chase behind 53 Company correspondence 54 Corleone patriarch 55 Start something with Mauresmo 56 Isle near Corsica 57 “If ___ I Would Leave You” 58 Made less difficult to bear 59 Musial of baseball 60 Candace Gingrich’s half-brother Down 1 “Julius Caesar” setting 2 “Excuse me!” 3 It reveals a drag queen’s thighs 4 Medical†dressings 5 Pirate 6 “Jailhouse Rock” star 7 Obi-Wan’s portrayer 8 Comment about a swimmer who doesn’t swallow? 9 Comic Gilda 10 Use a rubber 11 What gay guys use to call each other? 12 Sherman Hemsley religious sitcom 13 Coll. degs. 21 Americans, to Auden 22 Spoiled kid’s phrase 25 Sportscaster Jim 26 Its monitors show Windy City times 27 Benjamin Britten’s companion 28 Brief fight 30 Prop for “I have a headache tonight” 31 Mothers, to Sarah Bernhardt 33 Couples coupling with couples 34 Just cover costs 36 Twin made without sex 37 Old Testament cuckold 42 Used hoes 43 Grieve over 45 Kicking partner 46 Ritchie Valens hit, with “La” 47 City near Anaheim 48 Made it to second base 49 Gauche side, for Debussy 50 One way to cook fruit 51 Legal wrong 52 Poet who inspired Cats, initially 8 GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 COMMUNITY VOICES Too much texting, not enough love M I CHAEL K I MMEL LIFE BEYOND THERAPY As a psychotherapist, I’ve been noticing more and more that relationships end by texting. In too many situations, texting is winning out over love. It’s not hard to see the appeal of texting. In an effort not to feel lonely, we text, email or connect with our smartphones. We have access to amazing amounts of information, and this is a good thing. But knowledge is not happiness, and texting is not love; indeed, for some of us it’s a poor substitute for love. How else does texting mess us up? When we send angry or hurtful texts, we’re taking the coward’s way out. We don’t have to be there with the person to deliver our bad news. We can send it and not deal with the consequences, until they text us back. With less face-to-face contact and more texting and emailing, I wonder if we’re losing the ability to cultivate high-quality, loving relationships with others and with ourselves. In the BSE (Before Smartphone Era), we had to learn how to talk with people face to face. We also had to learn skills like how to be alone, how to talk to ourselves when things go wrong and how to comfort ourselves when we are scared. These were valuable skills, albeit difficult to acquire. Now, it’s so easy to whip out our phone and text, call or email someone if we’re bored or alone. Some of us get anxious if we don’t have our phones with us at all times. A client once told me, “Take my phone away and I’d die.” On some level, a lot of us feel that way. We are so used to having both information and people at our fingertips. But what about love? Smartphones are good at helping us hook up, but not very helpful with learning and mastering difficult emotions. Love, you may be shocked to know, has to happen in person. You need to see your lover, touch him, hear her voice, and notice how his eyes look away or how her lips begin to tremble during a heavy conversation. Love is more than words. The less face-to-face communication there is, the more it loses its power. If you want loving relationships, this type of communication is the best. Over the phone is second. An email is a distant third and texting is fourth. I’m not saying that texting doesn’t have its value. For short, quick communications, it’s fine. But, when you have something important to say, say it in person. I know it’s harder to talk about difficult things in person, but this is about being a grown up, not an eighth grader who breaks up with someone in a text message. People continually tell me that they feel lonely, unloved and disconnected from friends and possible lovers. Anxiety and panic attacks are on the rise nationally, if not internationally. There are plenty of studies in psychological journals decrying texting as the end of intimacy. Let’s not get crazy about this. Every time a new technology appears, some PhD candidate in psychology uses it as an excuse to say we’re all becoming more alienated from each other. Technology isn’t the enemy. Technology is neutral; it’s a tool. Our smartphones can be wonderful, but if we’re using them to avoid intimacy and become more isolated, let’s admit it. If we’re using them to let those that we love know that we’re thinking of them throughout the day, let’s be clear on that, too. I encourage you to see what mode of communication works best for you in specific situations. If you want love, the more personally you can communicate, the better. If you’re just up for a quick, “Hey, thinking of U” then a text is fine. We are living in an age of rapidly changing technology. Let’s use texting, emailing, smartphones and whatever else is out there for our benefit. We can use technology to bring more love into our lives or to become more isolated; the choice is ours. Let’s make it consciously. —Michael Kimmel is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in helping LGBT clients achieve their goals and deal with anxiety, depression, grief, sexually addictive behavior, coming out, relationship challenges and homophobia. Michael is currently accepting new clients and accepts most insurance. Contact him at 619-9553311 or visit lifebeyondtherapy.com.t gay-sd.com LGBTs and workers stand together against Prop 32 a l l a n ac e v e d o Political Spectrum For thousands of voters who vote by mail, Election Day will be heading to a mailbox near you the weekend of Oct. 6. Absentee ballots are expected to arrive the second week in October, just about 30 days before the last day to vote, Nov. 6. For many who believe the actual Election Day is the only day that matters when it comes to our democracy, recognize that in the San Diego June Primary, 66 percent of voters who cast a ballot did so absentee. If you are not already registered, you have until Oct. 22 to register to vote. California has made it even easier by allowing people to register to vote online. Just got to the Secretary of State’s website at sos.ca.gov/ elections and follow the directions. For those already registered to vote, and for those receiving their ballots in the mail shortly, I want to bring your attention to one of the most important propositions we’ll be voting on this election. While the mayor’s race and other high-profile campaigns have possibly diluted your electoral consciousness, please remember that there will be 11 ballot measures on the ballot. Proposition 32 may be one of the most misleading and difficult to understand. Prop. 32 purports to create a more even playing field for voices to be heard by eliminating special-interest money by banning unions and corporations from using automatic payroll deductions to gather funds for political purposes. On its face this sounds like an ideal situation: we limit the influence these institutions have in politics and, in turn, return the power to the individual people. But this is not the case. Corporations rarely rely on this form of fundraising to inject money in to politics. Instead, they rely on money from corporate executives and company treasuries. Unions rely on small individual deductions from its over 2.5 million members. This measure would do little to limit special interests in politics and do much to create a rigged playing field, in which corporations can donate unlimited and unaccountable funds through super PACs and other independent expenditure committees. This is fake campaign finance reform. This is reform to limit the voice of the middle class and working class families. This is a blatant power grab to limit the voice of unions and their members, giving big businesses an unfair advantage. Californians have already twice voted down such phony reform initiatives: in 2005 with Proposition 75 and in 1998 with Proposition 226, we told big businesses and corporations “no.” No to limiting the voice of working families and individuals, and no to see Political, pg 23 calendar gay-sd.com Friday, Oct. 5 GENTLEMEN PREFER MARYLIN: Cinema Under the Stars in Mission Hills presents the gay-man classic “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes.” The fun starts at 8:30 p.m. Don’t fret if you miss it tonight, they’ll be playing it again tomorrow, Oct. 6 as well, same time. Cinema Under the stars is located at 4040 Goldfinch St., tickets start at $14. For more information visit topspresents.com. Saturday, Oct. 6 TASTE OF NORTH PARK: Get your taste buds overworked at this year’s Taste of North Park, where one tickets will get you 40 restaurants and 12 brews all in one afternoon. The event is from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., so there is plenty of chance to hang out in hipster-heaven, North Park. Tickets are $30 presale and $35 day-of. For more information visit tastenorthpark.com. CENTER GALA: The LGBT Community Center is hosting its annual dinner gala fundraiser tonight, starting at 6 p.m. and running up until the goodnight toast at 10 p.m. With dinner and a silent auction, the event is one of the premier LGBT fundraisers for The Center, as proceeds will benefit more than 40 vital programs they oversee. Now in its 39th year, tonight’s event takes place at the Hilton San Diego Bayfront, One Park Blvd. Individual tickets are $200. For more information visit thecentersd.org. WILDFIRE DANCE: A funfilled night of dancing for queer women and their allies, don’t miss the latest Wildfire Dance party at the Brass Rail. From 6 – 10 p.m., DJ dirty KURTY will spin while you have a blast. The Brass Rail is located at 3796 Fifth Ave. Tickets are $10. For more information visit hotflashdances.com. RICH’S ANNIVERSARY PARTY: Alexis Jordan will take the stage tonight when Rich’s celebrates their 21st anniversary party, an amazing feat and welldeserved celebration. There will be hosted champagne from 10 – 11 p.m., with doors opening at 10 p.m. Get set for a long, fun night, for they will be open until 4 a.m. with DJ TAJ, DJ SHANE STIEL, DJ KIKI and DJ dirty KURTY. Rich’s San Diego is located at 1051 University Ave. Pre-sale tickets are $12. For more information visit richssandeigo.com. Sunday, Oct. 7 HILLCREST HOEDOWN: Today is the true day for all you cowboy-lovin’ Hillcrest-ers. Presented by the Hillcrest Business Association, today marks the second year for the Hillcrest Hoedown, with the street festival taking place from 1 – 6:30 p.m. and the all-ages dance party from 6:30 – 9:30 p.m. It’s all happening on University Avenue from Normal Street to Vermont Street, and features arts and crafters, a food court, a mechanical bull, casino tables (starting at 5:30 p.m.) and a Furry Foster humane petting zoo. You can adopt the pets, too! Live music all day, check out our insert for complete information. see Calendar, pg 10 GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 Cutting loose in North Park By Charlene Baldridge | GSD Reporter boyfriend, Chuck, nor to Chuck’s friends. Marra, who staged SDMT’s “A Chorus Line” last season, said he believes that many in the “Footloose” audience will come because they love the film. He expects that others will love the stage production, too. “You get everything from the stage show that you get from the film,” he said. “You’re you’re just doing a dance step.” Marra, who relocated on the West Coast Fourteen years after “Footloose” became around 20 years ago, said that his Ren, actor a sweet 1984 film starring Kevin Bacon and Anton Fero, has it all. “I didn’t know him Lori Singer, it became a sweet 1998 Broadway prior to auditions. He walked in and it was musical. The reviews were mixed, but the one of those moments when all my directomusical hung on for nearly two years and rial flags went up.” Fero, who danced in more than 700 performances. Lambs Players’ “Guys and Dolls” When asked why the critics and recently played five weeks in were so lukewarm, director and “MixTape,” does have the talent. choreographer Robert Marra, who “He’s the whole package,” Marra is currently staging the 1998 musisaid. “It’s a huge role that carries the cal for San Diego Musical Theatre show. … You’ve got to emote angst, (SDMT) now through Oct. 14 at hurt, love, anger and fear with your the Birch North Park Theatre, body. That’s totally what Anton is.” took a deep breath. Emma Degerstedt, who recently “That’s a good question,” Marstarred as Elle Woods in Moonlight’s ra said. “I think critics are always “Legally Blonde” earlier this summer, harsh, and anytime you take a portrays Ariel, opposite Anton Fero’s pre-existing film or book and adapt Ren. Don LeMaster is musical direcit to a new musical or a Broadway tor and conductor. play, the critics automatically are Marra said he thinks “Footloose” more sensitive to the issue of, ‘Are they going to be able to make this Anton Fero (Courtesy SDMT) Director Robert Marra (Courtesy SDMT) is a marvelous adaptation of the 1984 film. “Dean Pitchford, who wrote the work?’ It’s really hard when you original movie – as well as a 2011 remake rooting for Ren, coming to a small town with have an iconic film like “Footloose.”” – approached the film as if he were writing his mother because his father left them. You The musical concerns teenagers trying a musical theater piece. When he adapted invest emotionally in the characters.” to blow off steam in a small town where rock it to the stage, the songs easily fit in place As a director, Marra is invested in his music is shunned and dancing is forbidden. because his dream came true.” characters and his shows. “You have to fall The dancing ban is particularly difficult for “Footloose” plays at 7:30 p.m. Thursin love with the show, and you also have to character Ren McCormick, because he and days; 8 p.m. Fridays through Saturdays; find the truth in it,” he said. “I always tell my his mother just moved to the area from Chiand 2 p.m. Sundays through Oct. 14 and actors this: every single thing that you do cago. Because of the insular nature of small tickets cost $26 to $52. Birch North Park onstage – whether speaking a line, singing a towns, Ren finds it hard to make friends. Theatre is located at 2891 University Ave. note, dancing a step – has to have a purpose He promptly falls in love with the Baptist For more information and tickets visit and you have to believe that your character preacher’s rebellious daughter, Ariel Moore, sdmt.org or call 858-560-5740.t would do it. The moment you don’t believe it, which does not endear him to Ariel’s tough 9 10 calendar GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 From page 9 calendar Monday, Oct. 8 Telly Leung (Courtesy Diversionary) TELLY LEUNG AT DIVERSIONARY: Tonight, Broadway and “Allegiance” star Telly Leung brings his singing voice and stage talent to Diversionary, where he will share his unique journey through music. It’s a chance to see the “Glee” star up close, as he’ll be going through some of his favorite songs from his personal playlist, including hits from his album, “I’ll Cover You.” General admission tickets are $25, and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Diversionary Theater is located at 4545 Park Blvd. For more information visit diversionary.org. Tuesday, Oct. 9 REMEMBERING MATTHEW: San Diego Remembers hosts the Remember Matthew Shepard vigil and walk tonight at 7 p.m. The annual event brings several hundred participants from across the region to Hillcrest for a candle-lit vigil. It’s an amazing community event, and one you don’t want to miss. The group meets at the intersection of University and Fifth avenues, near the Hillcrest sign and moves down University Avenue for a rally at The Center at 8 p.m. For more information visit sandiegoremembers.com. TORI AMOS ALBUM RELEASE: Join the ladies and friends-of-ladies at Gossip Grill for an official Tori Amos album release party from 6 – 11 p.m. The album is called “Gold Dust,” and features re-imagined hits throughout the songwriter’s career. It’s good, but the party will be better. Drink specials too! Gossip Grill is located at 1440 University St. (they just celebrated their third birthday, you should know this one by now). For more information visit thegossipgrill.com. HILLCREST TOWN COUNCIL: Need I remind you that there are many ways to get involved in the community? This is an excellent start. The council meets monthly, and everyone is welcome and encouraged to attend. Tonight, mayoral candidate Carl DeMaio is the featured speaker. They meet at the Joyce Beers Community Center, 1230 Cleveland Ave. in the gay Ralph’s-Trader Joe’s parking area. The meeting runs from 6:30 – 8 p.m. For more information visit hillcresttowncouncil.com. SUSAN DAVIS AT GSDBA: Congressmember Susan Davis is in town and will speak at the Greater San Diego Business Association (GSDBA) professional luncheon today, from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. Davis will speak about plans for the 53rd District, as well answer questions you may have. The GSDBA hosts speakers like Davis to discuss issues pertinent to LGBT professionals and their allies. If you have yet to participate, it’s an amazing way to meet our business and political leaders in an intimate setting. Tickets, which include lunch, are $25 advance purchase and $35 at the door. The lunch takes place at Wang’s North Park, located at 3029 University Ave. For more information visit gsdba.org. Wednesday, Oct. 10 BANKERS HILL FEAST: More eating; more awesome restaurants. It’s the Bankers Hill feast, taking place at the Inn at the Park at 6 p.m. Participating restaurants include Avenue 5, Barrio Star, Meekong Street Kitchen, Sanfillipos, Jimmy Carters, Top of the Park, Green Flash and Trummer Pils. With a $10 donation, you can’t afford to miss this. Inn at the Park is located at 525 Spruce St. Thursday, Oct. 11 COMING OUT: Today is National Coming Out Day, celebrating the social, political and loving act of coming out. Already out? Do it again. Tell gay-sd.com your mother. Tell your friend. Tell your boss. It’s important. For more information ask someone who has already come out. Saturday, Oct. 13 Fused glass set by Kathy Ruez (Courtesy Ruez) ART GLASS GUILD SALE: Located in the Spanish Village Art Center in Balboa Park, the Art Glass Guild presents their 2012 fall show and patio sale, today and tomorrow from 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. each day. It is the largest glass art show in Southern California, and features hands-on mosaic projects and glass-cutting demonstrations. There will be over 30 juried glass artists exhibiting in all mediums, including blown, fused, torch-worked, stained, cast, etched and mosaic. The Spanish Village is located at 1770 Village Place. For more information visit artglassguild.org. RED HOT MASQUERADE: It’s a masquerade, women’s nightclub party at The Center, produced by the Women’s Resource Center. The event starts at 6 p.m. with dancing, mingling, snacks and a no-host bar. Women 21 and over are welcome, and tickets are $5 at the door. There will be prizes for “most artistic mask,” so get your glue guns ready. The Center is located at 3909 Centre St. For more information visit thecentersd.org. PRIDE @ THE BEACH: Oceanside is the place for North County Pride, and the fifth year of Pride @ the beach. You’ll love it; I had a blast at last year’s. Come out for community building, entertainment, speakers and fun in the sun at the Oceanside Pier, from 11 a.m. – 6 p.m. Located at 238 N. The Strand, you can take the train up and not worry about traffic. $5 general admission. For more information visit northcountypride.com. ART & WINE IN LA JOLLA: It’s the fourth and largest season yet for the La Jolla Art and Wine Festival, taking place today and tomorrow from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. each day. There are over 30,000 people expected for this fest, which will feature the works of 150 artists and 20 premier wineries from around the world (there will be beer too, don’t worry). Want more? There will be roving entertainment from the San Diego Circus Center as well as live music. Oh, and did I mention this is the first year the event is absolutely free? Yep, but feel free to bring a $5 donation at the door if you can. The festival takes place on Girard Avenue between Prospect and Kline streets. For more information visit ljawf.org. Sunday, Oct. 14 DRAG KINGS ANNIVERSARY: The San Diego Drag Kings celebrate their 12th anniversary – 12 years! Congratulations! – with a special show at Numbers Night Club. Special guests are scheduled all night long. The group was formed in 2000 by Drag King Chest Rockwell, and they are one of the oldest drag king troupes in existence. Regina Styles will host tonight’s anniversary show, featuring Gigi Masters, Wilfred Paloma, Kiki Masters, Cheyenne Masters, Cassidy Richards Masters, the Boylesque Tomcats and Dj t00kansam, among many others. There is a $5 cover, and the evening starts at 8 p.m. Numbers is located at 3811 Park Blvd. For more information visit facebook. com/sandiegokingsclub. Thursday, Oct. 18 MALASHOCK/RAW3: Celebrating 25 years of “innovative, transformative dance,” Malashock Dance kicks off the season with the latest in their Malashock/Raw series. It’s the third year for RAW, featuring all new choreography from John Malashock, Michael Mizerany and guest choreographer Regina Klenjoski. Malashock presents “Uneasy Surrender,” Mizerany premieres “Bully” and Klenjoski, the artistic director of Regina Klenjoski Dance Company, comes at you with “Splinter.” All will be spectacular, there is no doubt. Tickets are $25 and the performances take place at the Malashock Dance Studio, 2650 Truxtun Rd. The show opens tonight at 8 p.m. and plays Thursdays through Sundays until Oct. 28. For show times and tickets visit malashockdance.org.t gay-sd.com hillcrest hoedown GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 11 12 hillcrest GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 SUNDAY OCTOBER 7 1-9:30 PM Join us for the… 6:30pm9:30pm hoedown GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 Along University Ave. from Vermont St. & Normal St. This year stay past dusk and hit the casino tables in our free streetside saloon, cowboys and cowgirls will be dealing up blackjack, craps and roulette from 5:30 – 9:30 PM on the streets of Hillcrest. And DJ’s will be spinning country style dance music from 6:30 – 9:30 PM — not sure what country style dance music is? JOIN DJ Will Z and DJ Marcel to find out! Hillcrest Hoedown 1:00: Square Dance Exhibition and Square Dance Lessons by the Finest City Squares 1:45: 2:00: California Rhythm Project Coronado Playhouse presents “Best Little Whorehouse in Texas” Grand Stage 2:15: San Diego City Councilmember Todd Gloria Line Dance Lesson with Scott E. Grant 2:30: 4:15: Clogging Exhibition and Clogging Lessons by Lelia Hunsaker 3:05: Ezekiel Jay Band 4:00: 4:45: Urban Kickers Line Dance Lesson with Scott E. Grant 5:00: Three Chord Justice 5:45: Twisted Movement 6:00: Open Line Dancing 6:15: Three Chord Justice 7:00: Dance Party 13 14 GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 hillcrest hoedown gay-sd.com dining gay-sd.com I DINING WITH t is just what Hotel Circle needed, a place where resident San Diegans can commingle with tourists over the Circle’s first eatery that focuses on sustainable, market-fresh ingredients. Bunz fills a culinary void along this stretch of hotels, which are better known for their budget accommodations than the banquet-style grub served from some of their coffee shops. Opened last year by Chef Jeff Rossman as a revision to the Pam Pam Grill his family founded Bunz fronts the Days Hotel with an unmistakable orange and yellow façade. The name incites further curiosity, if not a few giggles. Rossman is also the owner of Terra American Bistro in the College Area and author of “From Terra’s Table,” a locavore’s guide to Southern California’s agricultural bounties. His menu at Bunz spotlights burgers, hot dogs and salads constructed with organic flair. The antibiotic-free beef, for instance, comes from Meyer Natural Angus in Montana, where the cattle are fed grass and corn for elevated flavor. Suzie’s Farm in San Diego serves as his main supplier of produce while local artisan bakeries provide the namesake provisions: brioche, ciabatta, sesame and wholewheat buns. Condiments are made from scratch, right down to the hot dog-friendly mustard infused with thyme and pale ale to the creamy cumin-spiked house sauce that resembles Thousand Island, but with a little smokiness. Among the feistier choices are jalapeno Ranch and chipotle aioli, both of which join forces on the “South a d’ Border” burger topped with avocado, pickled jalapeno and Jack cheese. I encountered my favorite turkey burger here, which I normally don’t like unless I make them myself with copious spices. Surprisingly, our waitress revealed that the ground poultry is largely unseasoned, sans for a faint dash of liquid smoke. Though when choosing it with house sauce, yellow onions and Swiss cheese from the “buildyour-own” section, I realized I had been obliterating the natural flavor of the meat at home. Bunz taught me that the fixings should merely augment the patty while a squeezable brioche bun strikes an optimal fit to the soft grain of the meat. My companion’s claim that he was born with fewer taste buds than the average person effused over the “Singin’ D’ Blues” beef burger. Even the deadest of palates will become roused by the burger’s draping of garlic mushrooms, smoked bacon and blue cheese that tasted aged and robust. A side order of “garlic grab” fries appeased his tongue further, but sent mine into overdrive. The spuds are tossed in generous measures of raw and sautéed garlic, along with minced shallots. Approach with caution! Tempted also by the veggie burger made in house with black beans, quinoa, roasted poblanos, cilantro, oats and garlic, we took the bun-less route and sampled it in the Santa Fe salad instead. It’s by far the tastiest salad you’ll find in Hotel Circle, or anywhere for that matter, given that the exceptional veggie patty sits atop baby greens strewn with roasted peppers, grilled GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 15 FRANK SABATINI JR. onions, crushed avocado and jalapeno Ranch dressing. Also, what appeared to be orange fettuccine noodles woven throughout were actually ribbons of cheddar cheese that I have never seen cut that way. Nor have I ever seen the tops BUNZ 475 Hotel Circle South (Hotel Circle) 619-298-6515 Breakfast: $4.95 to $8.95. Lunch-dinner: salads and appetizers, $3.95 to $11.95; burgers and dogs, $4.95 to $9.95 of hamburger buns lopped off and turned into crostini. The menu calls them “cheesy garlic crisps,” which come with melted cheese and dabs of Caesar dressing in their middles. They resembled an airier version of nachos, which we washed down at the start of our lunch with milkshakes so thick and frosty, we could barely yank the spoons from the glasses. Hence the term “concretes,” which describe this 50s-style milkshake made without milk, but with only cream-laden ice cream that you can enrich with brownie pieces, caramel sauce, candy bars, et cetera. While Bunz may feel like a small diner that also serves split and griddled hot dogs and grilled ham and cheese sandwiches, a wholesome quality pervades throughout most of the dishes. The dogs, by the way, are nitrate-free and all-beef. “People are pleasantly surprised by the taste differences,” our waitress told us as customers wandered in from the adjoining hotel parking lot in search of a casual meal. Little could they have suspected beforehand that the food is conceived by a locally acclaimed chef, known for sourcing from local growers and humane cattle farmers. Ditto for San Diegans who whiz through the south side of Hotel Circle and catch the humble-looking Bunz in their mirrors. Good eats await.t (top) A turkey burger and beef burger are tucked into artisan buns; (left) “Cheesy garlic crisps” feature the tops of brioche buns filled with cheddar and Caesar dressing. 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I mean, to be able to hold your dignity and your pride, and to be able to empower yourself and love yourself in high school, is a feat. CA: That scene where you stand up for yourself in the lunchroom was probably something that hit close to home. (l to r) Logan Lerman, Ezra Miller and Emma Watson in “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” (Courtesy Summit Entertainment) By Chris Azzopardi | Q Syndicate Twenty is a young age to have already played two characters that couldn’t be any more different. But Ezra Miller has done it with parts as Tilda Swinton’s evil son in “We Need to Talk About Kevin” and as Patrick, the lovable outsider with swagger and fearlessness in the film adaptation of the coming-of-age novel “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” – the boy every gay person wishes he could be. Even Miller. The young actor talked about not being that kid in high school, breaking label barriers and coming from a “whole queer-ass family” – who dressed him in drag. Chris Azzopardi: What was your high school experience? Were you out then? Ezra Miller: Yeah, definitely. But I wasn’t shouting it out. I was unabashedly me. I was always having to leave high school, though, because I started working, so that was pulling me out of school. When I’d come back, there was a certain resentment: ‘You are no longer one of us. You have betrayed our pack.’ And I dropped out of high school when I was 16 years old because, first of all, the form and function of the schooling system never made any sense to me in the context of education, but also there was some ostracizing at play. At that point in my youth experience, I knew that feeling all too well. I immediately realized that I had just turned 16 and that it was best, and technically legal, for me to flee. CA: How was it playing a character that you wished you could’ve been in school? EM: Yeah. You picture that moment where you effectively fight back, but then of course Patrick does, in that situation, end up getting held and pummeled and sort of relentlessly beaten on, that’s a reality, too. You can cultivate all of the courage and pride and power to stand up for yourself and still get beat to a pulp. I had that experience a few times. That scene was so important to ever yone – to [director] Stephen [Chbosky] but really to [co-star] Johnny [Simmons] and myself. Having experienced things like that in our lives, we were really determined to get some bruises to make that fight brutal, the way that sort of peer-inflicted violence is just horribly brutal. CA: In the movie, Charlie is a troubled loner, but you open your world up to him and affect his life immensely. Who were your queer role models growing up? EM: My sisters, who were really strong and really empowered and who just were constantly making sure that I felt the love and that I was thinking for myself, but at the same time had my back. They were, for me as a younger person, the only role models I ever needed. My flesh and blood consumed almost my whole frame of perception from when I was a younger child. GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 CA: So your sisters are queer too? EM: Yeah. It’s a whole queerass family [laughs]. You know, it’s pretty much the most ridiculously happy and lucky situation a boy like me could ask for. I really thank all sorts of illusive deities for the family that I have ever y day. CA: After seeing you as Frank N. Furter during “The Rocky Horror Picture Show” scene, something tells me this wasn’t your first time doing drag. You were that good. EM: Thanks, darling! I’ve definitely dabbled from a young age. Those older sisters of mine actually started putting me through drag school when I was, like, 3. I remember running a lemonade stand and I was all made-up: My hair got did, I was in a dress and I remember getting it going so hard even then that people would come up to one of my sisters and say, ‘I saw you and your sister selling lemonade today’ [laughs]. Yeah, I’ve definitely ser ved some time in the mighty and honorable school of drag. When I was in middle school – it was combined with a high school, and the theater department was the same and it was the year that high schools were allowed to do “Rent.” I jumped on Angel really fast, so I even got to dance in drag and rock some pumps. So, I’ve definitely had some informative experiences. CA: You develop a small crush on Charlie in “Wallflower.” Have you ever fallen for a straight boy before? EM: I mean, I just never believe anyone when they say they’re straight. 17 CA: The media obviously isn’t sure how to interpret your “queer” identity; I’ve seen you called gay by many news outlets. Why do you prefer queer? And what do you think of just abandoning labels all together? EM: I think queer is that door way into the L, G, B and T. Queer is the door way to where we should all be at. In a per fect Garden of Eden world, we are all pretty damn – I don’t know if you say genderless or omni-gendered – but we’re all omnisexual, we’re all balanced and none of us are par ticipating in a binar y. But until that day comes, these labels and these ways that we can identity ourselves to ourselves are all useful, and it’s really impor tant that people figure out how to be inclusive and suppor tive of each and ever y one of them. That’s my feeling on it. I’m queer because I think the way society splits the human being in half is kind of tragic, and I think we should all be as open a book as possible when it comes to loving another human. —Chris Azzopardi is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service. 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Schwartz has contributed to Broadway shows including “Godspell,” “Rags” and the smash hit “Wicked.” Director and choreographer James Vasquez updated Schwartz’s vintage coming-of-age story with the addition of eight computer screens that allow for a continual stream of reality television during the production. This constant celluloid buzz-feed updates the audience about Pippin’s search for meaning in his life. Pippin (played by Louis Pardo) is guided through his journey by the brash Leading Player (Courtney Corey) with the assistance of her Greek Chorus. He is motivated and assisted along the way by his overly blunt father and emperor Charlemagne (Andy Collins), his grandmother Berthe (Wendy Maples), his scheming stepmother Fastrada (Luke Jacobs) and the subdued love interest Catherine (Megan Carmitchel). Pippin’s quest to discover the extraordinary in his ordinary, royal life allows him to try out soldiering, meandering through some hot sexcapades and dabbling into an eighth century political quagmire. After all is sung – “Corner of the Sky,” “With You” and “Extraordinary” – he comes up empty handed. Roger Hirson’s script, penned during his college years, remains clever, though it was never fully developed. Amazingly, many of the songs have held up through time, and the music remains spirited, lively and enjoyable, thanks in part to Charlie Reuter, Andrew Michael and Charlie Weller, playing piano, guitar and drums respectively. Pardo plays the immature Pippin well enough with a whiney, inexperienced presence throughout, hitting most of the notes. 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Vasquez made the most of the small Diversionary space, allowing for rag-tag movements that had the actors moving like they were attached to strings from the ceiling. His reputation as a directorial wizard remains intact on this show.t Madcap zaniness on the Cygnet stage ‘Mistakes Were Made’ sees Phil Johnson take center stage “Mistakes Were Made” Through Oct. 21 Cygnet Theatre Wed – Thurs 7:30 p.m. Fri 8 p.m. Sat 3 & 8 p.m. Sun 2 & 8 p.m. 619-337-1525 cygnettheatre.com Craig Wright’s quirky comedy “Mistakes Were Made” allows local actor Phil Johnson to strut his stuff for a solid 90 minutes on the Cygnet stage, with barely a pause to catch his breath, let alone feed the fish. Director Shana Wride employs her mostly one-person cast well – Jacque Wilke has a small part as the receptionist that visits the stage for about a half-minute – making the most of a linear script that begins on a high note and stays there throughout the show. Affective pausing, along with Johnson’s sustained facial contortions, go a long way to make this vehicle work. When the lights go up, the audience is immediately invited into a producer’s office, which is a Phil Johnson juggles life in “Mistakes Were Made” (Photo by Daren Scott) wasteland of paper detritus, including a poster of “Man of La Mancha” starring Eric Estrada. After being distracted momentarily by a fish puppeteer (Esther Banks), the focus remains on the character of Felix Artifex and his phone. It’s in this context that the storyline unfolds. Artifex tries to convince an actor, an agent, a producer and a writer to commit to a production about the French Revolution. The script is called “Mistakes Were Made,” and may be Artifex’s only opportunity to end his career with an A-list production. The play is built around a phone line as well as controlled phone etiquette. While holding, banging or massaging the phone, Johnson displays measured begging, maddening exasperation, and sheer and outright meanness in his quest to green-light the production. He struts, he shouts and he communes with a fish. And to top things off, he’s bankrolling this production with a huge investment in sheep that causes an international crisis. Sean Fanning’s set not only displayed the Eric Estrada poster, but effectively included playbills and photos of such B-list celebrities such as Danny Bonaduce, Lucie Arnaz and Robert Goulet. Among the clutter, he makes room for a fish tank that has Denise the fish swimming about like Esther Williams. Costumes are affectively done by Shirley Pierson, while lighting is credited to Ross Glanc. Although Wright has made a few mistakes in writing this piece, there’s enough madcap zaniness to keep an audience entertained.t music gay-sd.com GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 reigns as singer-songwriter queen Alanis Morissette played Humphrys Concerts by the bay Sept. 24. (Courtesy Humphrys Concerts) Sept. 24 concert set list I Remain (Part 1) Woman Down All I Really Want You Learn Guardian Perfect Right Through You Hands Clean So Pure Celebrity Ironic Havoc Head Over Feet I Remain (Part 3) Lens You Oughta Know Numb Encore One: Hand In My Pocket So Unsexy Everything G AY S DI AN EG O 21 S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY gay-sd.com, sduptownnews.com, sandiegodowntownnews.com, or www.sdcnn.com G AY G AY Visit us online at S DI AN EG O October G AY G AY Pick Up our Next Issue S DI AN EG O S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY Encore Two: Uninvited Thank You S DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY G AY G AY S DI AN EG O G AY DI AN EG O G AY S DI AN EG O G AY When you think of Alanis Morissette, you are no doubt automatically transported to the 1990s when the female singer-songwriter movement was thriving. Back then, no one could have predicted that out of nowhere, a 21-year-old Canadian singer would explode onto the music scene with as much originality and intensity as Morissette, a musician unlike any other at the time. Combining a mixture of angst, melancholia and vulnerability, a new generation of musician was born, and from there numerous female singer-songwriters emerged, attempting to replicate Morissette’s success. Not many came close to the musician, who found herself thrown into the depths of global superstardom and who has, over the years, seen her international debut album “Jagged Little Pill” become one of the highestselling records of all time. Though she has not been able to match the same success of that international debut, she has continued to win over both critics and fans in the fickle world of pop music for close to two decades. Her latest album, “Havoc and Bright Lights,” was released in September, showcasing Morissette back in her commercial and radio-friendly form. On Sept. 24, San Diego welcomed the singer as she took to the stage at Humphreys Concerts by the bay to perform a collection of tracks from the new album as well as classics, which span her impressive 17-year career. The setting could not have been more perfect for Morissette. Located in close proximity to the waves of the bay with a view of the city skyline, it’s a stunning venue, ideal for any outdoor music aficionado. Holding a mere 1,400 people, it is a very intimate performance space outlined with palm trees. With the lights dimming at around 8:30 p.m. the show was ushered in with an intro of Morissette’s “I Remain (Part 1)” from the “Prince of Persia – Sands of Time” soundtrack, before the singer was met with rapturous applause as she leapt onstage to perform “Woman Down,” a new track from her latest album. With “Havoc and Bright Lights” so fresh on the shelves, a number of tracks from the record were offered including the album’s opener, “Guardian,” another fine example of where the singer’s sound currently resides. The bass-heavy “Celebrity,” which provided a lyrically and musically dark addition to the set, and the stunning piano-lead S DI AN EG O REVIEW “Havoc,” a gorgeous ballad, offered the cream filling to the evening’s offering of new material. No Morissette concert would be complete without the hits, and they were out in full force that night with each of Morissette’s records receiving a nod, excluvding 2008’s “Flavors of Entanglement.” Each of the singer’s signature tracks was performed with stunning execution. Somewhat unsurprisingly, “Jagged Little Pill” received the most exposure, with tracks “All I Really Want,” “Head Over Feet,” “You Learn,” “Perfect,” “Right Through You,” “You Outta Know” and “Ironic” met with a deafening applause. A notable moment within the classics came when the singer reworked the lyrics of “Ironic” as a shout-out to her large and very present LGBT following, performing the songs closing metaphor as: “It’s meeting the man of my dreams and then meeting his beautiful husband.” The singer also performed an intimate unpluggedstyle first encore, which included the iconic “Hand In My Pocket” – a clear standout segment of the evening – before a final grandeur second encore of “Uninvited” and “Thank You.” Though the singer’s vocals sounded slightly weaker on tracks “Hands Clean,” due to the intense guitar work and quick delivered lyrics, it was more than made up for with her energetic performance and musicianship throughout the night. Whether Morissette was pacing the stage with her distinctive quirkiness while tearing through hit after hit, showing off her trademark and un-weathered vocal inflections, or showing her playful side with onstage antics alongside her talented five-piece band, the evening showcased Morissette as the reigning queen of singersongwriters. Never an artist to overindulge in the easy way out method of overproduced pop pennings, Morissette provided a fantastic evening of timeless classics.t G AY By Brendon Veevers | GSD Reporter 21 22 sports GAY SAN DIEGO Oct. 5–Oct. 18, 2012 JEFF PRAUGHT DUGOUT CHATTER San Diego Bolts take first at Gay Bowl XII Gay Bowl XII, the annual flag football championship that was held in Denver Sept. 21-23 was an opportunity to complete some unfinished business for a group of San Diego players. The 2011 event ended with an unsatisfying four-way tie due to dangerous weather and unplayable field conditions. The San Diego Bolts and San Diego Toros were two of those teams who left wondering what would have happened had they been able to play out the remainder of the tournament. Led by quarterback Eric Reissner, the Bolts had come close to bringing home their first championship a few times, losing in the title game twice out of the previous four seasons. The top-seeded Bolts headed to Denver with plenty of confidence, feeling like this would be the year the team would put it all together. Sept. 21 was the first day of pool-play action, and the Bolts immediately hammered the New York Xtreme 366. Two hours later, Reissner’s squad squared off against LA Empire, where the Bolts received a wake-up call in dropping a 27-21 game to Los Angeles. The following morning, a regrouped squad took care of the Houston Hurricanes 32-19 to head into the single-elimination bracket gay-sd.com with a 2-1 record. Not to be overlooked, San Diego had two other teams competing. The Toros made the trip, captained by Aaron Frommeyer and boasting some of the best players San Diego American Flag Football League (SDAFFL) has to offer. Expectations were high for the third-seeded Toros, who faced the realization that they may end up playing their friends from the Bolts somewhere in the A Division tournament. The Toros opened pool play with a 35-12 victory over the Cleveland Rockers, but they, too, dropped their second game of the day, an 18-13 de- Toros and Sharks have respectable finishes, making local showing at Denver tournament a success feat at the hands of the DC Admirals. Like the Bolts, the Toros bounced back with a victory in their third and final pool play game, defeating the Boston Hancocks 36-20. For the first time, San Diego sent three teams to the tournament, and Herb Nance’s San Diego Sharks charged into the tournament. The Sharks were formed six weeks before the start of Gay Bowl, and SDAFFL tasked Nance with the difficult chore of building a roster of players who not only had not made the Toros or Bolts, but would still be able to travel on such short notice. His team entered the tournament as the lowest seed among the 30 teams competing and was placed in the B Division. Being seeded last in any tournament can be humbling, but the guys pulled together and took down Denver Summit 2 with a 26-24 victory to open pool play. The Sharks then backed that up with a 25-7 whipping of the Phoenix Hellraisers, and added a 27-20 victory over the Michigan Panthers to ensure an undefeated record in pool play. Already, Nance’s team was opening some eyes. The playoffs began Saturday afternoon, and San Diego’s three teams were feeling confident. Because of their success in pool play, the Sharks were placed into a wild-card game against the same New York Xtreme that the Bolts had handled, and the Sharks were victorious by virtue of a 15-13 triumph that then bumped them up into the A Division playoffs. Playing in their third game in a row on Sept. 22, the Sharks fell 19-0 to the New York Warriors, who would ultimately reach the title game. On Sept. 23, the Sharks lost 46-19 to Denver Summit 1, ending their tournament run. Despite the losses in the playoffs, Nance was proud of the efforts of his team. “We literally didn’t have the full team out on the field at the same time until game one of the tournament in Denver,” he said. “I was so happy to see very early on that this group of guys, some of which had played with each other and others who didn’t even know one another, from day one, came out there and played as a unit. They approached this as an awesome opportunity for all of us. In my opinion, we were the epitome of a team, on and off the field. Quarterback Eric Reissner lead the Bolts to San Diego’s first Gay Bowl title. (Photo by Scott Donald) That is why the results don’t lie. What did we do? Shark the world.” The Toros entered the playoffs as the fourth seed and cranked out victories over the Cleveland Rockers and Washington Generals. This set up a showdown the New York Warriors in one of the semifinal games. Unfortunately, the Toros lost 20-13 and were sent to play in the thirdplace game against the LA Empire, a game the Toros lost 20-19 to finish fourth for the tournament. LA Empire was sent to that third place game because they were defeated in the playoffs by our San Diego Bolts. To get to that point, though, the Bolts had to win twice. First, they survived a high-scoring affair by defeating the Salt Lake City Avalanche 47-32. Next, they toppled the Phoenix Hellraisers 32-21, setting up the rematch with the LA team that had handed them a defeat during round robin. This time, Reissner’s Bolts sent the Empire packing and advanced to play the New York Warriors in the title game. Things were not looking good for San Diego as New York jumped out to a 20-8 lead at halftime. But the Bolts battled back with the aid of an interception and a late touchdown that sent the game to overtime. The Bolts struck first with a touchdown and extra point, but the Warriors answered with a score of their own. Still, New York needed to come away with an extra point to keep the game going. Eric Cervantes raced in on the quarterback, forcing him to throw off his back foot, and Tommy Miles batted the pass away to secure the 33-32 victory. Players rushed the field in joy as San Diego earned its first-ever championship. For Reissner, who had lost in the title game each of the previous four times he had played in Gay Bowl prior to last year, the victory was emotional. “It was almost surreal,” he said. “Guys like Doug [Komlenic] and Julius [Williams], who had been around since the start of Gay Bowl, they deserved it. The drama down to the last play of the game was unreal. It was a testament to how well the guys played as a team. A lot of people doubted us because we didn’t have as much prep time as we would have liked.” Players will enjoy a long break now until the beginning of next SDAFFL season in Februar y. Anyone interested in getting involved in the local flag football league is encouraged to visit SDAFFL’s website at sdffl.org.t news/community voices He also said he is excited to move into the final weekend. “I usually do get nervous when I’ve done fashion shows in the past, but this time I’m not. If anything, I’m really excited to show my collection,” he said. “I’ve work very hard on it, and I’m also showing both men and women clothes on Saturday.” San Diego who are very kind [and] talented,” Rico said. “I’ve got a long way to reach the top, and Fashion Week San Diego is the first of many.” The event’s re-launch incorpoThree – Soriano, Barlis and Rico rates many aspects of the fashion – are from the LGBT community in industry in San Diego, which is San Diego, and represent a widerepresented in the organization’s range of styles. Soriano, a veteran mission statement. This all-encomdesigner in the region passing ideal includes who is inspired by “old a partnership with the Hollywood glamour,” Bellus Academy for hair primarily uses satin, and makeup during the velvet, cashmere and runway show. knits in his work. Barlis Bellus Academy, a has a whimsical approach San Diego- and New to luxury, focusing on an York City-based beauty attention to detail. and wellness licensing Rico, who fell in love school, has been working with design while in with the designers for high school, is debutweeks to prepare for ing his collection at this The complete set of designers from this year’s Fashion Week. Fashion Week. (Photo by Gail Bowman) year’s Fashion Week. “There is so much Offering the only colversatility in the looks,” lection of men’s wear, he said he On Saturday, Oct. 6 at 6 p.m., said Kristina-Monique, Bellus Acadhopes to use this week to launch the designers’ full lines take center emy director of make-up artistry. “I himself into a career in fashion. stage, with the Runway Show and will say Andre Soriano unites beauty “It’s a great opportunity to be a after parties. The show is at the and creativity. Paul Rico was a fun part of Fashion Week San Diego,” Hard Rock Hotel, Downtown. The one, and very creative. Erin Fader, Rico said. “I wouldn’t have known following day at the hotel, Sunday, who is a beautiful designer, wanted about it if I wasn’t talking to a student Oct. 7, is the Trunk Show and shopa strong look for her runway. … It’s when I was a [teacher’s assistant] at ping day, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. This really hard to pinpoint one specific Fashion Careers College.” Rico said is also when the winning designer look this year.” he turned in the application a week will be announced. For a full list of events and to before the deadline, and the work has “I’m having a fantastic time. 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We must recognize the many issues where these two movements converge and advance our common demand for fairness. The labor movement has stood with our community when we were under attack. The California Teachers Union donated over $1.3 million to the “No on Prop 8” campaign in 2008, and the Hotel Workers Union donated $100,000, among many others. Now it is our turn to stand with organized labor and working families and tell corporate interests they cannot deceive Californians into voting into law an uneven playing field. LGBT Californians and workers are in this struggle together. We are in a common struggle to advance fairness and equality for our families and the next generation to come. With that in mind, we must ensure that not only are we voting down Prop. 32, but we are talking to our friends, family and neighbors about this initiative. People will be casting their ballots over the next 30 days, and if we don’t start these conversations now, it might be too late come November. 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