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Temple e-Talk The Samueli Center for Progressive Judaism S e p te mber • O ct ob er • N ov e m b e r • De c e mb e r 2 0 1 6 • J an u a ry 2017 CLERGY CORNER “Building Sacred Relationships: Acknowledging the One in All Creation” by Rabbi K’vod Wieder One Voice… by Cantor Natalie Young It seems like it was just yesterday that This year our I decided to go leadership and “We Are All to seminary congregation has Responsible for Each to become a decided that one of Other. We Are All cantor. This our primary areas of focus at Temple Beth Responsible for our wasn’t a decision that came out of El is building sacred relationships. From Community” nowhere, but was really the result of my perspective, this focus is fundamental by Rabbi Rachel Kort years of connection to Am Yisrael, the because it speaks to the deep reality of Jewish people, and my love of music. creation. All of us and all of life are in We have a value in I had grown up in a Reconstructionist relationship. When we say Adonai Echad our tradition that congregation with a close relationship – God is One in the Shema prayer, it is “All of Israel are to my cantor. I watched as he built much more profound than a statement responsible for each relationships within the community, of not worshipping multiple gods. It is a other-- Kol yisrael arevim zeh bazeh.” We officiating at lifecycle events, renewing recognition that God is a unified Presence see this value reflected in our High Holy Day and creating traditions, and inspiring that fills all of creation. You, me, the natural prayers. You may people with music. have noticed that That was the kind of our two central Our Sages taught: cantor that I wanted confessional prayers, For transgressions between a person and God, Yom Kippur atones; to be. Yet when I Ashamnu and Al Transgressions between a person and their fellow, Yom Kippur doesn’t atone until they told my mom about Chet are written in my decision, and my make their fellow accept their teshuvah, their repentance. the plural: “We have husband’s decision --Mishnah Toma 8:8-9 sinned, we have to take off for Israel transgressed.” that fall for cantorial We often think of the High Holy Day period as a time of inward reflection and focus and rabbinical school, on the self, but equally important in our process of teshuvah (repentance) is reflecting As we read the she panicked. All upon and working on our relationships with friends, family, and community. words “for the sins she could imagine In this issue of “Temple Talk” our clergy shares insight on the connection between the was us returning we have committed,” we are probed High Holy Days, teshuvah, and our relationships with others. after our first year of to focus on our school and becoming shortcomings as a orthodox, and community. We are asked to take collective therefore feeling like there would be a world, everything, may express itself in responsibility. By reciting our confessionals world between us. Then we talked. different forms and voices, but is all part of in the plural, we recognize that the failure What was important for her to hear the One that binds us all together in sacred of the individual is often the result of the was that becoming clergy didn’t mean relationship. inadequacy of the community in which one that I would be coming back a different resides. Even if you have not committed one person. I could no more shut out Much of the suffering and stress of our lives of the many sins listed in our confessional comes from the day-to-day belief that we are the parts of me that I was blessed to prayers, we are asked to think about how separate from each other and we attempt receive from my family that had gotten we could have better supported the person to actualize our needs, either in isolation me to this point in time, than I could sitting next to us to help them achieve their from others on one side of the spectrum, or change where I had come from. Each full potential. control and manipulation of others on the of us in on our own respective journey Clergy corner articles continue on page 50 2A Liberty ● Aliso Viejo, CA 92656 ● 949.362.3999 ●www.tbesoc.org Index PAGE 1, 43 & 49 3 SECTION CLERGY CORNER DATE Rabbi Rachel Kort, Rabbi K’vod Wieder & Cantor Young A NOTE FROM THE PRESIDENT 4-6 SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES 7-9 HOLIDAYS/SPECIAL PROGRAMS 10-19 ADULT PROGRAMMING 20-26 ADULT EDUCATION 27-30 KIDS CORNER May-August Services Jerusalem Shabbat Experience Tot Shabbat Playspace KISS High Holy Days Offerings Apples, Honey, Challah & Schmooze High Holy Days Service Schedule Sukkot Simchat Torah Celebration Small Groups at Temple Beth El Hinenu Caring Gala Women’s Retreat Havurat Tzedek B’Tzalel Art Festival Cooking for Connections Want to go to Israel? Chicken Soup for the Silver Soul Challah Bake Meditation & Spirituality Events Make Music at Temple Beth El Men’s Club Breakfast Hearing Men’s Voices TBE Connections Luncheons Paint Night at a Local Pub BE Sisters Paid-Up Membership Tea & Fashionshow Comedy Night World of Judaism with Rabbis Becoming a Compassionate Presence Amsterdam and its Converso Community The Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar -in- Residence Exploring Jewish Prayer Maps of Reality Spiritual Preparation for the High Holy Days Be Your Best Self Mini Mussar Workshop Daytime Book Club People of the Book Early Childhood Center Here Comes Shabbat! Tot Shabbat Playspace Tot Services for High Holy Days Shabbat Dinner in the Sukkah Shabbat Chai-Lights Shabbat Chai See pages 4-6 Sept. 10, Oct. 22, Nov. 5 Dec. 3, Jan. 7 Sept. 10, Oct. 22, Nov. 5 Dec. 3, Jan. 7 Feb. 11 Sept. 15 deadline Oct. 3 See page 8 Oct. 17, Oct. 18, Oct. 21, Oct. 22 Oct. 24, Oct. 25 Oct. 20 Oct. 9 Mar. 4 May 10, May 19-22, May 25 Nov. 11, Nov. 20 Jun. 4 Sept. 8, Oct. 6, Nov. 10, Dec. 8, Jan 12 Oct. 25-26 Sept. 11 Nov. 10 Feb. 3-5 Sept. 8, Oct. 13, Nov. 10, Dec. 8 Sept. 13, Nov. 8, Dec. 13, Jan. 10 Sept. 26, Nov. 1, Dec. 13 Nov. 3 Dec. 11 Jan. 21 See page 20 Nov. 8, Nov. 15, Nov. 30, Dec.6 Jan. 17 Dec. 2, Dec. 3, Dec. 4 Sept. 10, Oct. 22, Nov. 5, Dec. 4, Jan. 7 Nov. 1, Dec.13, Jan. 3 Sept. 6 Oct. 12 Dec. 14 Sept. 20, Oct. 18, Nov. 15, Dec. 19 Sept. 14, Oct. 19, Nov. 9, Dec. 14, Jan. 11 Sept. 2, Sept. 16, Oct. 21, Nov 4, Dec. 2, Dec. 16 Sept. 10 Nov. 5, Dec. 3, Jan. 7 Oct. 3, Oct. 12 Oct. 21 Sept. 2, Sept. 16, Oct. 3, Oct. 12, Oct. 21, Oct. 24, Nov. 4, Dec. 2, Dec. 16, Jan. 6, Jan.20 Hebew School Sept. 12, Sept. 19, Sept. 26, Oct. 17, Oct. 24, Nov. 7, Nov. 14, Dec. 5, Dec. 12, Jan. 9, Jan. 23, Jan. 30 Announcing our new Program Director 6th Grade Retreat Dec. 16 & Dec. 17 Message from Wendy BEMSY Sept. 16, Feb. 3, May 5 Parent & Me Kochavim Sept. 19 31-34 BESTY TEEN PROGRAMMING 35-40 SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY 41 The Sunday Prgram Sept. 11, Nov. 6, Nov. 20, Dec. 4, Jan. 8, Feb. 12, Mar. 12, Mar. 26, Apr. 23, May 7, Jun. 4 Tzedakah Board See Page 32 Other Programs & Events See page 33 BESTY Teen Calendar See page 34 Life & Legacy Ralph’s Registration Sept. 1 TBE Mall Tribute Funds A Note from the Exceutive Director Get Involved Temple Gift Shop Tzedakah Opportunities ANNIVERSARIES 42-43 DONORS 44-45 MEET THE STAFF 46-49 IN MEMORIUM/CONDOLENCES/GET WELL 51-55 TEMPLE CALENDAR 56 CONTACTS Chicken Soup Condolences A Note from the President As I begin my first few months of serving as your President, I want to make an effort to continue to regularly keep you informed about the Board’s work for the congregation. At our annual congregational meeting in June, the congregation voted to approve the proposed budget for the 2016-2017 fiscal year and elected the nominees for the Board of Trustees. We also wrapped up the year by identifying, as a Board, what we thought the focus areas of our work should be, and then we asked for the congregation’s feedback. We received your input through surveys and meetings, and then adjusted our areas of focus to reflect that feedback. As a result of those discussions, the Board of Trustees has resolved to focus on the following areas: (1) relationships, (2) leadership development; (3) finances; and (4) Jewish engagement. Over the summer, the Executive Board met to develop a 2-year action plan to enable us to achieve our goals in each focus area. We are working out the final details of that action plan, but wanted to share some highlights of what our plans for the upcoming years include. * Strengthening Relationships. We’ve created a Small Group Initiative which is a space to study and schmooze for a 6 week period and get to know your fellow congregants. We will share more about Small Groups during the High Holy Days but you can learn more by checking out our website. We will also encourage congregant involvement in committees, and ensure that the Board of Trustees and Professional Team make personal connections with our members. In addition, we will improve our outreach to prospective members, starting with our new member reception that took place on Sunday. * Developing Leaders. We began this work with a Board retreat led by a Union for Reform Judaism Consultant. We will work to strengthen our pipeline of congregational leaders by developing feedback mechanisms, creating procedural manuals for board positions, and partnering Trustees with Executive Committee members to develop and demonstrate their leadership skills. * Financial Stability. We have run deficit budgets for 5 years now and no longer have savings to cover them. We need to increase revenue, through our new membership structure and a fund raising campaign, as well as more facility rentals (we welcomed a new long term tenant, Discovery Preparatory School, this month). We will also continue to decrease expenses by renegotiating vendor contracts and analyzing and adjusting our utility use. * Jewish Engagement. While we have a resolute focus on the structural and financial health of our congregation, we have not lost sight of our strength as a community. We are committed to maintaining our existing programming for children, teens, and adults. In addition, we will provide more opportunities for all congregants to participate in a social action or tikkun olam projects during this year and are participating in a URJ Initiative that will help us move justice to the center of our congregation. More information about it is on page 44. We are excited to share more about our engagement opportunities for the year in this newsletter - please mark your calendar for the variety of upcoming events. I look forward to seeing you at the Rosh Hashanah Apples & Honey shmooze immediately following services on October 3! As always, please feel free to contact me or any member of the Board with any questions or concerns (our list of contacts is on page 56.) Wishing you and yours a happy and healthy 5777, Firuzeh Claar Page 3 SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES Following are many opportunities we provide at Temple Beth El for spiritual connection and worship services. On Shabbat Friday Evening Shabbat Services in the Sanctuary 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat: A multi-generational joyous and participatory musical service, welcoming Shabbat with dancing, community, opportunities for reflection and inspiration. 5:30pm pre-service Oneg (light appetizers) 7:30pm Traditional Reform Shabbat Service: A beautiful worship service in the mainstream Reform model using a variety of musical styles to create a warm and inviting worship experience. Typically, the last Shabbat of each month the choir sings. Our rabbis offer inspirational learning with their sermons. Includes opportunities for reflection and inspiration. This service is followed by an Oneg Shabbat of desserts and socializing! Every Saturday at 9am: Torah Study in room 214/215 Exploration of the weekly portion in a warm and welcoming atmosphere where each participant has the opportunity to learn, listen and share. A brief lay-led service follows the study. Every Saturday at 9:15am*: Shabbat morning Conservative prayer in the Sidney Eisenberg Chapel. Ivdu Et Hashem B’simcha (Serve the Holy One with Joy) blends high energy, joyous, participatory service with opportunities for meditation and contemplation in a warm and intimate community. Return to that moment at Mt. Sinai through traditional Torah reading while exploring its personal relevance to each one of us. Led by our rabbis and lay leadership followed by community Kiddush lunch. * Except Jerusalem Shabbat begins at 9:30am. (See details on page 6) During the Week Refuat HaNefesh: Healing of the Soul Minyan Tuesdays at 6:30 pm A prayer gathering held each and every Tuesday evening in the Sidney Eisenberg Chapel. This service enables those of us who are in mourning or observing a Yahrzeit to join with our Temple Beth El family for a 30-minute service filled with prayer, song and quiet moments of reflection to recite the Mourner’s Kaddish. The service is a fusion of prayers both in Hebrew and English, using the weekday prayer book, Siddur Eit Ratzon. All the Hebrew is transliterated and has beautiful, relevant explanations of the intentions behind the prayers. September Friday, September 2 5pm Shabbat Showcase 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey Saturday, September 3 Parashat Re’eh, Deuteronomy 11:26 - 16:17, Numbers 28:9 - 28:15 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Chloe Berg Bat Mitzvah Friday, September 9 7:30pm Shabbat Service Saturday, September 10 Parashat Shoftim, Deuteronomy 16:18 - 21:9 9am Torah Study 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace October Saturday, October 1 Parashat Nitzavim, Deuteronomy 29:9 - 30:20 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Sunday, October 2 Erev Rosh Hashanah 5pm Erev Rosh Hashanah Multigenerational Service 7:30pm Conservative Erev Rosh Hashanah Service 7:30pm Reform Erev Rosh Hashanah Service Monday, October 3 Rosh Hashanah Day I 8am Conservative Rosh Hashanah Service 10am Reform Rosh Hashanah Service 12:30pm Apples & Honey Event 2pm Tot Service 4pm Tashlich at Dana Point Harbor Friday, September 16 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Tuesday, October 4 Rosh Hashanah Day II 8am Rosh Hashanah Conservative Services Saturday, September 17 Parashat Ki Teitzei, Deuteronomy 21:10 - 25:19 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Friday, October 7 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey Friday, September 23 7:30pm Shabbat Saturday, September 24 Parashat Ki Tavo, Deuteronomy 26:1 - 29:8 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 7:30pm Dessert Reception 8pm Havdalah & S’lichot Service Saturday, October 8 Parashat Vayeilech, Deuteronomy 31:1 - 31:30 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Tuesday, October 11 Erev Yom Kippur 5pm Kol Nidre Multigenerational Services 6:15pm Conservative Service Mincha 6:30pm Conservative Kol Nidre Service 7:30pm Reform Kol Nidre Reform Service Friday, September 30 7:30pm Shabbat Service Page 4 Friday, October 14 7:30pm Shabbat Services December Friday, October 21 5:45pm Special Sukkot Shabbat (w/ECC & Shabbat Chai) & Band of Milk & Honey 7pm Shabbat Dinner (Sukkah) Friday, October 28 7:30pm Shabbat Service Saturday, October 29 Parashat Bereshit, Genesis 1:1 - 6:8 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Raphaela Levi Bat Mitzvah November Friday, November 4 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey Saturday, November 5 Parashat Noach Genesis 6:9 - 11:32 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace Saturday, November 19 Parashat Vayera, Genesis 18:1 - 22:24 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Saturday, November 26 Parashat Chayei Sara, Genesis 23:1 - 25:18 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Tuesday, October 18 9:30am Sukkot Day II Service at Heritage Pointe Followed by lunch in the sukkah with advance reservations through Myra Rubin ([email protected] or 949-364-9685) Tuesday, October 25 9:30am Simchat Torah Services at Congregation B’nai Israel in Tustin Friday, November 18 6pm Shabbat Service Friday, November 25 7:30pm Shabbat Service Monday, October 17 9:30am Sukkot Day I Service Monday, October 24 Shmini Atzeret/Simchat Torah 9:30am Shemini Atzeret Services w/Yizkor 4:30pm Simchat Torah Play Space (details on page 9) 4:30pm Simchat Torah Celebration (includes Hebrew School) 7pm Simchat Torah Service & Celebration Saturday, November 12 Parashat Lech-Lecha, Genesis 12:1 - 17:27 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Sunday, November 20 10am Kochavim (Time TBD) Interfaith Thanksgiving Program Saturday, October 15 Parashat Ha’Azinu, Deuteronomy 32:1 - 32:52 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Danielle Bloom Bat Mitzvah Saturday, October 22 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat & Chol Hamoed Sukkot 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace Friday, November 11 7:30pm Special Program Honoring Veterans with Havurat Tzedek, the Choir and Special guests Friday, December 2 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in-Residence 7:30pm Private Dinner (Legacy & Sustainer Societies) Saturday, December 3 Parashat Toldot, Genesis 25:19 - 28:9 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in-Residence 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace 7:30pm Dessert Reception, 8pm Havdalah & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in-Residence Friday, December 9 6pm Shabbat Service with Kochavim & Adult Choir 7pm Shabbat Dinner w/advance reservations Saturday, December 10 Parashat Vayetzei, Genesis 28:10 - 32:3 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Friday, December 16, 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday, December 17 Parashat Vayishlach, Genesis 32:4 - 36:43 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Friday, December 23 7:30pm Shabbat Service Saturday, December 24 Parashat Vayeshev, Genesis 37:1 - 40:23 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service Friday, December 30 7:30pm Hanukkah Shabbat Service Page 5 SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES Wednesday, October 12 Yom Kippur 8:30am Conservative Yom Kippur Services 10am Reform Yom Kippur Service 1:45pm Conservative Yizkor Service 2pm Tot Service 2:30pm Study Session with Steve Birch “Accounting of the Soul – Assessing Our Spiritual Development” 4pm Avodah Meditation with Rabbi K’vod 4pm Reform Afternoon, Yizkor & Neilah Services 4:30pm Conservative Mincha Service 5:45pm Conservative Neilah Service 6:30pm Reform Break Fast 7pm Conservative Shofar Blowing SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES Saturday, December 31 Parashat Miketz, Genesis 41:1 - 44:17, Numbers 7:48 - 7:53 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service January Friday, January 6 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey Saturday, January 7 Parashat Vayigash, Genesis 44:18 - 47:27 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace Friday, January 20 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday, January 21 Parshast Shemot, Exodus 1:1 - 6:1 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service & Amy Sorsher Bat Mitzvah Friday, January 27 6pm Shabbat Service honoring Volunteers & Shining Lights 7pm Shabbat Dinner w/advance reservations Saturday, January 28 Parashat Vaera, Exodus 6:2-9:35, Number 28:9 - 15 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Shabbat Service & Alex & Danielle Bussell B’nai Mitzvah Friday, January 13 7:30pm Sabbat Service Saturday, January 14 Parashat Vayechi, Genesis 47:28-50:26 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service & Sophia Roye Bat Mitzvah Jerusalem Shabbat Experience with the Band of Milk and Honey (& a little schnapps) At 9:30am on these Saturdays : September 10, October 22, November 5, December 3, January 7 In the Sidney Eisenberg Chapel On the streets of Jerusalem on Shabbat morning, the dew on the trees reflect sunlight sparkling diamonds, the air is crisp and still, and the peace is palatable. Joyous prayer pours out houses and little shteibls - the human song and the song of creation intertwined. Friends and family come together to eat, to share, and to immerse in words of life-giving Torah. One can’t imagine a Torah more relevant and real. • Be absorbed in a meditative and meaningful musical journey through the morning service • Enjoy transliterated and fully-accessible Hebrew prayer • Rejoice around the Torah with schnapps and sparkling cider • Eat and engage in guided community study over lunch Tot Shabbat Playspace At 10:30am on September 10, October 22, November 5, December 3, January 7 Children ages 2-5 years will enjoy the Shabbat Playspace with one of our rabbis, our ECC Director Carolyn, and Miss Beth in the Early Childhood Center. SIGN UP R PART FOR YOU NOW! Page 6 RSVP for EVERYTHING in one place!! Deadline: September 15 Order tickets - Childcare - Nametags - Prayer books High Holy Days Guest Tickets Entrance to Services / Tickets Any member who has ordered High Holy Day tickets will receive them by mail in the last week of September. If you have not received them, call our office & we will arrange to leave your tickets at “will call”, just outside of the building entrance. Community members, as well as parents, grandparents, and siblings of our member families are welcome at our services. High Holy Days Tickets are now available for purchase, and prices are as follows: Book of Remembrance Guest tickets: for immediate family of our members are $200/adult, $50/child 12 and under (and must be purchased by the Temple Beth El member.) As part of the observance of Yom Kippur, we publish a Yizkor Book of Remembrance in which we inscribe our dear ones. To include your loved ones in the Yizkor book, please include the addition of or changes to your existing listing when you RSVP online. It is customary to make a donation in memory of those who have departed. Non-members: $360/adult, $150/child 12 and under. Order forms are available online: http://tbesoc.org/holidays.htm. Volunteer Ushers Needed Machzorim - High Holy Days Prayer Books Your assistance would be greatly appreciated at all of our High Holy Day services! Please indicate your availability to usher when you RSVP online before September 15th. Our thanks to the lead ushers: Reform Services Lisa Lockerman [email protected] Conservative Services: Richard Penkava ([email protected]) In order to participate fully in the Reform and Conservative High Holy Days services you will need to bring your own machzor. We use the two book set (silver and gold) of Mishkan Hanefesh prayer books for Reform Services, or the tan Mahzor Lev Shalem for Conservative Services. Please plan to bring your book to each service. Order yours when you RSVP online for $50 by September 15th. High Holy Days Tot Kids Club High Holy Day Service Descriptions We are pleased to offer child care during Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services for children ages 2 through Pre-K who are not participating in the K-5 program. Tot Kids Club will take place in the Early Childhood Center (ECC) classrooms and does not include diapering (during drop-off you will provide a cell phone number to the staff who will contact you if the child needs to be changed.) Space in the program is limited, so please RSVP online by September 15th. Renewal & Recommitment S’lichot: A Gateway to High Holy Days Saturday, September 24th 7:30pm Dessert Reception 8pm Havdalah & S’lichot Service (Rotunda) “But teshuvah [repentance], tefillah [prayer] and tzedakah [charity] temper judgment’s severe decree.” - Unetaneh Tokef, High Holy Days liturgy Reform Service Reform High Holy Day Services with soulful music and spiritually relevant sermons in our breathtaking sanctuary. Conservative Service Conservative High Holy Day Services that create a personal and communal journey to living our lives more fully and authentically. Intimate and participatory in our beautiful chapel. Multi-Generational Service A High Holy Day experience for all ages, filled with music, reflection, and inspired teaching in our sanctuary. All within one hour. Personalized Name Tag Want a personalized name tag? Help create a more welcoming community by making yourself more approachable at Temple Beth El services and events. Show that you belong. Proceeds from these name tag sales benefit our Saturday morning Kiddush Fund. Support our community in coming together for Shabbat lunch every week. You can order personalized name tags for $30 each when you RSVP online before September 15. Everything you need is on our website: www.tbesoc.org click on High Holy Days Page 7 HOLIDAYS/ SPECIAL PROGRAMS HIGH HOLY DAYS HOLIDAYS/ SPECIAL PROGRAMS Renewal and Recommitment: A S’lichot Experience-September 24th at 7:30pm As we prepare ourselves for the holy work of renewing ourselves and recommitting to our priorities, we invite you to connect with community in this soul-enriching experience, filled with inspiring music and prayer. It all begins here! First Day Rosh Hashanah: Monday, October 3rd at 12:30pm Apples, Honey, Challah & Shmoozing Immediately following first day Rosh Hashanah services, meet up outside for shmoozing, getting to see old friends, and making new ones! High Holy Days 2016/5777 Service Schedule We have wonderful opportunities for worship on these upcoming High Holy Days. In addition to our beautiful evening services for both Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur/Kol Nidre, there will be a Multi-Generational Service appropriate for elementary school children, parents, and grandparents. And, while adults are in the Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur morning worship services, there will be age-appropriate programs and services for children in kindergarten through fifth grades so your family can come to Temple together. Babysitting (Kids Club for potty-trained younger children age 2-Pre-K) will also be available, and afternoon Tot Services will wrap up the day. MultiGenerational (Sanctuary) 5pm 7:30pm Monday, October 3rd Tashlich Wednesday, October 12 Yom Kippur 10am 10am Service & Program (K-5th grades) 2pm Tot Service (age 2-Kindergarten) 4pm (Dana Point Pier) 8am Tuesday, October 4th Rosh Hashanah Day 2 th Children 7:30pm 8am Monday, October 3rd Rosh Hashanah Day 1 Tuesday, October 11th Kol Nidre Reform (Sanctuary) 7:30pm Dessert Reception, 8pm Havdalah and S’lichot Service Saturday, September 24th S’lichot Sunday, October 2nd Erev Rosh Hashanah Conservative (Chapel) 5pm 6:15pm Mincha, 6:30pm 7:30pm 8:30am 1:45pm Yizkor 2:30pm Study Session 4pm Avodah Meditation 4:30pm Mincha 5:45pm Neilah 7pm Sounding of Shofar 10am Page 8 4pm Afternoon Yizkor, & Neilah Services 6:30pm Break Fast 10am Service & Program (K-5th grades) 2pm Tot Service (age 2-Kindergarten) Jerusalem Shabbat Experience Saturday, October 22nd Order Lulav/Etrogs Don’t miss out on the essential and fun mitzvah of lulav and etrog during the week of Sukkot. You can order a set for $45 by Friday, Temple Beth El by October 7th and they will be available for pickup by Friday, October 14th. 9:30am Service followed by lunch in the Sukkah We need your help to set up Sukkah City! Saturday, October 22nd To get involved, please contact Myka at [email protected] or call 949-362-3999 ext 316. Services Conservative Morning Sukkot Services 9:30am on Monday, October 17th in the Chapel 9:30am on Tuesday, October 18th at Heritage Pointe Followed by lunch in the sukkah with advance reservations through Myra Rubin (mrubin@ heritagepointe.org or 949-364-9685) Tot Shabbat Playspace 10:30am Playspace followed by lunch in the Sukkah Shmini Atzeret Services with Yizkor Monday, October 24th 9:30am Conservative Service Shabbat Dinner in the Sukkah Friday, October 21st 5:45pm Families with young kids dinner* (babies-2nd grade) after “Here Comes Shabbat Service” 7pm Community Dinner* (after Kabbalat Shabbat Services) *RSVP on the temple website for pizza/salad dinner - $10/adult, $5/child Join us for...... Simchat Torah Celebration! Torah is singing, dancing, celebrating Torah Monday, October 24th Simchat Torah Family Celebration For families with Young Children (Birth-2nd Grade) 4:30-5pm Simchat Torah Play Space 5-5:30pm Singing & Dancing with the Torahs 5:30pm Dinner in the Sukkah For 3rd Grade and Up 4:30-5:30pm Simchat Torah Activities: Learn How a Torah is Made & Dance with the Torah 5:30-6pm Simchat Torah Service & Torah Unrolling Page 9 Simchat Torah Conservative Service and Celebration 7pm Service & celebration in the Sidney Eisenberg Chapel. Join us for a traditional, joyous, song-filled, dance filled, Torah filled evening as we conclude the book of Deuteronomy and begin a new cycle again with Genesis. Simchat Torah Morning Service Tuesday, October 25th, 9:30am at Congregation B’nai Israel in Tustin (2111 Bryan Avenue) HOLIDAYS/ SPECIAL PROGRAMS Sukkot ADULT PROGRAMMING SMALL GROUPS Our congregation has identified that building meaningful relationships among congregants is a top priority for our community. This year, we will create opportunities through “small groups” for congregants to connect with others in an intentional and structured way. Initially, a small group meets for 6 weeks around a compelling topic. Our inaugural six week program that begins in the fall is entitled: How Our Relationships Can Help Us Live More Fully. Each group will pick its own weekly time to meet in a congregant’s home during the period of October 20 – December 1, 2017 Each weekly session will have a topic with a teaching from one of the rabbis accompanied by discussion questions. Session 1: Introduction to Covenant: The Jewish View of Sacred Relationship Session 2: “If I Am Not for Myself...” Self Respect and a Personal Relationship with God Session 3: Shema: Sacred Listening Session 4: “Let There Be Light” The Power of Our Words AT How Do I Participate? During the High Holy Days, every member of the congregation will be invited to be a HOST. A HOST picks up the 6 Week Program kit (distributed right outside the sanctuary and chapel on Yom Kippur) which includes: A DVD, HOST instructions, Discussion materials, and other resources. The HOST can invite 1 or more people of their choice to form a “small group.” The people can be Temple members or not. The minimum size of the group is 2 and the recommended maximum is 8. The HOST finds a weekly time during the six week period to host the group at their home. The role of the HOST is to: H- Have a heart for people O – Open your home S – Serve a snack T – Turn on a DVD or YouTube video Session 5: Am Yisrael: Being a Part of a People Session 6: Widening Our Circle: Expanding Our Connections and Embracing Diversity Each session will include a 10-15 minute DVD segment or YouTube video followed by discussion questions that engage people in exploring the material and sharing personal experiences. If you want to participate but do not want to= be a HOST, you can go online to our Temple website and fill out a brief form and you will be placed in a small group geographically close to where you live. After the six week period has ended, the members of each small group will decide if they want to continue meeting. They can pick study materials and topics from a recommended list, or plan to attend synagogue services together, or engage in a social action project. Group members can also decide to form or join another group or take a break from meeting with the group. At the end of the six week period, groups will be invited to share their experiences at a Shabbat dinner with the congregation as a whole on Friday, December 9 2016. Questions? For more information contact our office at 949-362-3999. Visit our temple website RSVP page to sign up today! Page 10 Presents Our Annual Kick Off Event: Opening Breakfast For Returning and Prospective Members Sunday, October 9th 10:30-12:30am Special Presentation: “Dealing With Grief During The Holidays” With Rabbi K’vod Wieder and Cantor Fran Chalin Double Classroom Upstairs 10:30-12:30am • Light breakfast (with gourmet coffee)! • Presentation: “Dealing with Grief During the Holidays”. • Team-building workshop: “The Ten Commandments of Volunteers” facilitated by Rabbi K’vod. • Preview our committee’s new resource display! New to Hinenu? Come at 10am for an orientation to our committee and find out how you can participate Our Hinenu committee enhances our congregation’s caring for one another by participating in any or all of the following: • Help prepare and deliver meals to congregants who are recovering from illness or surgery. • Visit and “schmooze” with our members who are homebound. • Attend Shiva Minyans when more members are needed. • Help set up the “Meal of Consolation” after a funeral. To RSVP or for more information: please contact Wendy Levin at [email protected] or phone 949-380-0236 or Ellen Prince at [email protected] or phone 949-322-4573 Page 11 ADULT PROGRAMMING Hinenu Caring Committee Page 12 ADULT PROGRAMMING Join us for this unique and exciting diamond experience The top of the Diamond Experience begins together Wednesday, May 10th at 7pm Session 1 will be held at the Temple and led by Rabbi Kort and will include all women participating in the retreat Land May 19-21/22 As the Diamond separates in the middle, there are two options Sessions 2-6 of the retreat will run concurrently on sea & land, Each participant may choose between a weekend on the sea led by Cantor Young or on land with Cantor Shula Sea Wednesday, May 24th at 7pm the bottom of the Diamond Experience ends together: Session 7 will be held again at the Temple and lead by Rabbi Kort and will include all women participating in the retreat For more information please contact Merritt Weiss by email at [email protected] or by phone at 714-457-5768 Havurat Tzedek Havurat Tzedek is a group inspired by Jewish commitment to social justice and dedicated to raising awareness, advocacy and action for Temple Beth El. Havurat Tzedek participates in: • interfaith activities [like our annual interfaith prayer breakfast] • social action projects [like our tri-faith Thanksgiving project] • advocacy [lobbying our elected representatives and getting out the vote on issues important to our Jewish community] • awareness and education [like gun safety & veterans’ affairs] • stimulating and engaging discussion If you are interested, join us at next meeting (usually the 4th Monday of the month at 7pm) or contact the Havurat Tzedek chair Jodi Halbreich at [email protected] This fall, we invite you to join us in the following projects: Tikkun Tikvah We remember the words of the Torah’s holiness code: “You shall commit no injustice in judgment; you shall not favor a poor person or respect a great man; you shall judge your fellow with righteousness” (Leviticus 19:15) Havurah Tzedek, is working with the Union for Reform Judaism’s Religious Action Center supporting legislation that ensures our criminal justice system acts from righteousness. Informaiton will be provided about Proposition 57, the Public Safety and Rehabilitation Act, a sentencing reform measure that will be on the California ballot November 8, 2016. Contact us if you would like to learn more and/or get involved. Veteran’s Shabbat Friday, November 11th, 7:30pm Havurat Tzedek invites you to a special Shabbat experience honoring our community veterans and raising awareness about veterans’ issues. The evening will include a brief service and presentation. Interfaith Thanksgiving Service & Project Sunday, November 20th Join Temple Beth El, Orange County Islamic Foundation, and Shepherd of the Hills Church for an event of building relationships, serving people in need, and coming together in prayer and song. Event details are being planned...look in weekly emails for details! Page 13 ADULT PROGRAMMING Women’s Retreat 2017 ADULT PROGRAMMING B’tzalel Cooking for Connection Art Festival 2017 Workshop dates: the month of May 2017 Festival Celebration: Sunday June 4, 2017 Gesher Shir: Bridge of Peace Connect! Create! Collaborate! Temple Beth El will be hosting our first ever ARTs FESTIVAL! During the month of May, we will have the opportunity to learn from some of the AMAZING ARTISTS in our community. From photography, dance, and music, to painting, woodworking, and culinary arts, here is your chance to learn and create something new and BUILD COMMUNITY with other amazing members of our TBE family. The workshops will culminate with a big arts festival where students and teachers will get to display their work. The festival will include ENTERTAINMENT, HANDS-ON ART PROJECTS, and AWESOME FOOD!!! All ages welcome. Contact Cantor Young at [email protected] to participate in planning or to provide a workshop. READY TO GO TO At 2pm on these Thursdays: September 8, October 6, November 10, December 8, January 12 Want to shmooze a bit with other congregants while preparing a favorite vegetarian or dairy recipe for our Saturday morning kiddush lunch? Join Sandy Rothberg and Rabbi K’vod to give to our community. We are looking for dishes that can be frozen, kept in our freezer and taken out when needed for the coming month. To participate, RSVP to Sandy at sandy@ rothberg.org and let her know what you’d like to prepare. You bring the ingredients. FIRE, WATER, AIR AND EARTH – TOUCHING THE SOUL OF ISRAEL ? October 15-26, 2017 A Joint Israel Experience with Temple Beth El, Congregation B’nai Israel, and the Community Scholars Program If you dig beneath the surface of Israeli life you will find a new spirit alive in the country. It is the spirit of young and old, drawing on ancient roots and a very Israeli willingness to improvise, daring to reinvent what it means to be Jewish in the land of Israel. Join us as we set off on a Fall 2017 adventure of all five senses that will take us back to the time of Abraham and catapult us forward into the 21st Century. As we explore Tsefat, Tiberias, Jerusalem and Hebron – the four holiest cities in Israel – we will meet poets and politicians, artists and musicians, archeologists and writers, kabbalists and theologians, thought leaders and community activists, who are creating a new reality in our ancient homeland. We will experience the four elements of “fire”, “water”, “air” and “earth” as we dare to “touch the soul of Israel”. This unique overseas adventure is brought to you by Community Scholar Program, Congregation B’nai Israel of Tustin and Temple Beth El of South Orange County in co-sponsorship with Jewish Foundation of Orange County. Group Leaders: Arie Katz, Rabbi Elie Spitz and Rabbi Kvod Wieder. To hear more about the details of the trip and to reserve your spot, please join Rabbi K’vod on Sunday, November 6th at 9:30 am for Bagels, Lox, Coffee. This trip will sell out. For more questions and to put yourself on the list, please contact Rabbi K’vod at [email protected] Page 14 ADULT PROGRAMMING Page 15 ADULT PROGRAMMING Baking challah is a timehonored mitzvah dating back to our matriarchs. The OC Mega Challah Bake will feature a hands-on workshop, including instruction in braiding techniques, as well as the experience of preparing an oven-ready loaf from scratch. There will be music and kosher light refreshments for all to enjoy while learning a wonderful skill, creating unity in our community and being inspired by the poignancy of our joint prayers and blessings. The OC Mega Challah Bake is open to women of all Jewish affiliations and no affiliation. Thursday, November 10 Meditation and Spirituality Events at Temple Beth El Jerusalem Shabbat – September 10, October 22, November 5, December 3, January 7 (page 6 for more details) Maps of Reality – November 1, December 13, January 3 (page 24 for more details) Temple Beth El 2nd Annual Jewish Meditation Retreat When: February 3-5, 2017 Who: All temple members, age 18 and older What: To celebrate Shabbat like the mystics of our tradition by exploring the pathways of silence, song and prayer, contemplative study, and creative expression. This retreat will also be an opportunity to connect with other members of our Temple community who are interested in exploring and sharing in a more introspective way. While this retreat is geared toward seekers who are new to meditative practice, it will also be meaningful for experienced meditators who are looking for authentic ways to express these pathways through Jewish tradition. Where: La Casa de La Maria, Santa Barbara. Optional to take the train up to Santa Barbara and a group shuttle from the train station to the retreat center In the Psalms it says, “For You, Silence is Praise.” Some of us are aware that the deepest truths about ourselves and our lives can only be found when our consciousness can expand beyond the distractions and the chatter of the mind. In the silence, we can open to a Loving Presence, simplify complicated situations in our lives, and discover ourselves in new and empowering ways. Questions? Contact Rabbi K’vod at [email protected] or 949-362-3999 ext 106. Or go to our website and register online Page 16 Kol HaNeshama Kol HaNeshama, our adult choir, led by Cantor Young, is made up of dedicated volunteers from our Temple Beth El family. Come fill your soul with song and learn about our traditions and liturgy through our rich musical heritage. The choir rehearses from 6:30-8pm twice a month and usually sings on the last Friday of the month during our 7:30pm Shabbat service. The choir sings throughout our High Holy Day season as well, with a more intensive rehearsal schedule leading up to it. Please contact Cantor Young at [email protected] to join. Men’s Club Upcoming Events Breakfast We hope to see the ‘regular’ Temple Beth El Men’s “Breakfast Club’ers” and welcome any new Men’s Club members who have not yet come by to our monthly breakfast at Mimi’s Café - 27430 LaPaz Road, Laguna Niguel! Join us on any or all of the upcoming dates (the 2nd Thursday of each month) September 8, October 13, November 10, and December 8 at 9:30am. Planning a Special Event? Join us at the Please email Mel Zimmerman at [email protected] if you plan on attending so that he can reserve enough tables. Mitzvahs & More Expo Sunday, October 9, 1-4 p.m. at the Merage JCC Experience everything you need to make your party a success! Hearing Men’s Voices A new program providing the opportunity to having meaningful connection with other men on topics like “Work and Worth,” and “Fathers and Sons.” Monthly sessions take place on the second Tuesday of the month at 7 pm in the library Dates: September 13, November 8, December 13, and January 10 Free Admission Sample food & drinks Door prize drawings Interactive experiences Event Co-Sponsor: Hope to see you there!! Register on-line today… http://www.jccoc.org/specialevents/guestinformation/ MEDIA SPONSOR 1 Federation Way, Irvine CA • 949.435.3400 Page 17 ADULT PROGRAMMING Make Music at Temple Beth El ADULT PROGRAMMING TBE Connections Congregants age 55+ get together every other month to enjoy lunch ($10 with advance reservations) together and a featured speaker or presentation. Upcoming programs will be both entertaining and thought-provoking, so please mark your calendar to start the New Year off and renew friendships! Save the D Join us at 11:30am for lunch & a speaker: ates Monday, September 26 Tuesday, November 1 Tuesday, December 13 RSVP on the temple website! Hello Seniors and all Temple members over 55, The New Year is upon us. Your Connections Committee is already planning programs that will educate and entertain us for the ensuing year. So please post the following on your fridge or in your computer/Smart phone. Our first event will be Monday, September 26th. Our speaker will be Bill Sinclair, one of the most popular lecturers on the Saddleback Emeritus programs. Bill leads discussions on current issues. He will probably focus on the election. Bill “calls them as he sees them”. He is provocative with more than a touch of humor. On Tuesday, November 1st Muriel Engleman (Suzie Engleman’s mom) will take us back to WWII and the Battle of the Bulge. Muriel was a young nurse on the front line caring for young GI’s. She was in the midst of the horrror of the war. Her story will enthrall us all. On Tuesday, December 13th we will welcome Daniel Cohen, well known author. His latest book is Single Handed. It is the story of the life of Tebor Rubin, who survived the concentration camp as a young boy. He came to this country and volunteered to serve in the Korean War. Not only did he survive that War, but he was a hero and was awarded this nation’s highest honor. The Congressional Medal of Honor. You will want to hear his story that will make you proud to be a Jew and an American. Looking forward to an exciting year. Please contact us with any new ideas or questions. Lew 949-443-5435 or [email protected] Joni 949-388-9464 or [email protected] Page 18 Thursday, November 3rd, 7-9pm ADULT PROGRAMMING Paint Night at a Local Pub Congregation E at High Park Tap House (23641 Via Linda, Mission Viejo, CA 92691) Come join us for fun with paint, food and cocktails! A professional Artist will lead our group to recreate this painting while we enjoy music, socialize and order from the food and drink menu. Party Basics: - Easy to Follow Instruction - All Supplies Included - Take Home Finished Painting - No Experience Necessary D T LOCAT P Price per seat is $35, when you use the Promo Code We will be painting this! “SAVE10” ! EVENT DETAILS: Bring your friends! A professional Artist will lead our group to recreate the eve order from the food and beverage menu. So come join us RSVP on temple website PARTY BASICS * EASY TO FOLLOW BE SISTERS PAID-UP MEMBERSHIP TEA & FASHION SHOW * TAKE HOME YOUR FINISHE O EXPERIENCE NECESSAR SAVE THE* * FNDATE UN! SOCIAL! INTERACTIV * PROFESSIONAL INSTRUCTION * ALL SUPPLIES INCLUDED with Boutique BE Sisters and Men’s Club presents Our VISION: To establish and maintain a loving Jewish commun come together to celebrate and observe divers SUNDAY, DECEMBER 11TH AT 2PM Join BE SISTERS for our annual Paid-Up Membership event. You’ll enjoy an afternoon tea along with a Fashion Show and Shopping Boutique! This event is free to BE SISTERS members. Non-members of BE Sisters are welcome to join the tea and fashion show for a nominal $10 donation. SUNDAY DECEMBER 11TH AT 3PM FASHION BOUTIQUE! Our Boutique opens free to the public for everyone to enjoy beginning at 3pm. Come get styled from head to toe and find fabulous gifts for the upcoming holiday season! Page 19 Saturday night, January 21st Thirsty for Torah? Thirsty for Knowledge? Our Sages taught that “Water actually stands for Torah, as it is said (Isaiah, 55:1), ‘all who are thirsty, come for water.’ This is why it is a custom to read Torah on the 2nd and 5th days of the week as well as on Shabbat so that we should not let three days pass without Torah” (Babylonian Talmud, BavaKama 82a). Temple Beth El is committed to providing ongoing opportunities for engaging with Torah and our sea of Jewish knowledge. Join your rabbis, cantor, and guest scholars and presenters most Tuesday evenings for rich Jewish learning opportunities. DATE Sept. 6 7pm Sept. 13 7:30pm Sept. 20 7:30pm Sept. 27 7:30pm Nov. 1 7:30pm Nov. 8 7pm Nov. 15 7pm **Wednesday Nov. 30 7pm Dec. 6 7pm Dec. 13 7:30pm Dec. 20 7:30pm Jan. 3 7:30pm Jan. 10 7:30pm Jan. 17 7pm Feb. 7 7:30pm Feb. 21 7pm Feb. 28 7pm Mar 7 7pm Mar 14 7pm Mar 21 April 25 May 23 TOPIC Spiritual Preparation for the High Holy Days PRESENTER Rabbi K’vod and Cantor Sue Duetsch The Extraordinary Nature of Ordinary Things Innovations in Prayer: Exploring our High Holy Day Prayers Innovations in Prayer: Exploring our New Prayer Book, Mishkan T’filah Maps of Reality Bikkur Holim – Visiting the Sick with Rabbi K’vod Finding Peace and Connection With Your Terminally Ill Loved One with Cantor Fran Chalin Understanding Grief And Its Process Demystifying Shiva with Rabbi K’vod Maps of Reality Cantor Young Rabbi Kort Rabbi K’vod *Caring for Others in the Jewish Tradition 4 Week Series ADULT EDUCATION f J o u d a d i l s r o W Tuesday evenings m Reinventing Hanukkah Rabbi K’vod Cantor Fran Chalin Dr. Bill Hoy Rabbi K’vod Rabbi K’vod Maps of Reality Hidden Judaism: A History of Crypto Communities Amsterdam and its Converso Community: The Saga of the First Modern Jews Rabbi Kort With special guest scholar Prof. David B. Ruderman Tu Bishvat Seder: An evening of wine & fruit (and cheese) paired with blessings Presentation by Hope in Sight (A non-profit providing Vision Care in the Holy Land) Beneath the Helmut, movie screening and discussion - Window into Israel Sacred Aging Rabbi Kort Israel Matters Committee Senior Transition Series with Shiffy Crane and Bram Klein Maps of Reality (7:30pm) RabbiON K’vod CALENDAR CONTINUED NEXT PAGE Page 20 Jewish Wisdom and Practical Guidance on Caring For Others *A Four Session Series on Tuesday Nights at 7pm November 8 – Bikkur Holim – Visiting the Sick Our Jewish tradition is filled with wisdom about how to be a compassionate presence with those who are ill. In this session, we explore some of our sacred texts to better understand the spiritual implications and depth behind our caring visits. November 15 - Finding Peace and Connection With Your Terminally Ill Loved One – with Cantor Fran Chalin Loving a person with terminal illness is daunting, not only because of the impending loss, but because we lack clarity about how to best support them in the dying process. The process becomes more difficult when family members have different beliefs about what is the best course of treatment for their loved one. As well, the person confronting the illness may need help finding what is available to them and defining their desires for their plan of care. It is easier for a family to make decisions together if they have the correct information about the choices that exist and if people with illness are able to share what they would like for themselves should they be faced navigating a life limiting illness. Temple Beth El and Vitas Healthcare invite you to attend a presentation that will provide you with information about; Palliative Care, Hospice Care, and Medicare Benefits. We will also give you a worksheet called, “Five Wishes.” This document will help you and your loved ones identify your desires for care. And more important, It will provide you and your loved ones the ability to clarify your goals so that your wishes are carried out. November 30 (Wednesday) - Understanding Grief And Its Process with Dr. Bill Hoy Dr. William G. (Bill) Hoy, nationally acclaimed bereavement and end-of-life educational consultant leading an interactive workshop - Family Grief: When Death Brings out the Best and Worst in Families Through this workshop, learn how family members grieve in different ways, how relationships can be strengthened or how conflict can arise, and practical steps on how to support the family unit along their journey of bereavement. December 6th –Demystifying Shiva Jewish wisdom and practical guidance on how to support others when they’ve lost a loved one. In this session, we’ll explore Jewish traditions around death and dying and acquire the knowledge and understanding needed to be a compassionate presence in a Shiva house. Amsterdam and its Converso Community: The Saga of the First Modern Jews With special guest scholar Prof. David B. Ruderman Join us on Tuesday January 17th, 2017 at 7pm Prof. David Ruderman, the Joseph Meyerhoff Professor of Modern Jewish History and the Ella Darivoff Director of the Herbert D. Katz Center for Advanced Judaic Studies at the University of Pennsylvania. Prior to coming to Penn, he held the Frederick P. Rose Chair of Jewish History at Yale University (1983-94) and the Louis L. Kaplan Chair of Jewish Historical Studies at the University of Maryland, College Park (1974-83). Prof. Ruderman is a very accomplished historian who has been recognized with awards for his scholarship and accolades for his teaching. Prof. David Ruderman will join our community as a part of the 16th Annual CSP One Month Scholar January 3, 2017 – January 26, 2017 JEWISH HISTORY, JEWISH THOUGHT: A JOURNEY THROUGH SPACE AND TIME Page 21 ADULT EDUCATION Becoming A Compassionate Presence: ADULT EDUCATION The 2016 Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar -in- Residence Program Tzedek Tzedek Tirdof Justice, Justice, We Shall Pursue A celebration of the legacy of Rabbi Allen Krause, and his pursuit of justice through scholarship and action, with Scholar-in-Residence Professor Marc Dollinger When we lose a loved one in our Jewish tradition we say, “may their memory be for a blessing.” As our late rabbi emeritus, Rabbi Allen Krause’s (z”tl) memory lives for a blessing each and every day in our Temple Beth El community. Over his 25 years of leadership, Rabbi Krause worked to establish Temple Beth El as a Jewish community where we wrestle with important issues inside the walls of our synagogue, and bring our Jewish values to bear in the world outside our Temple’s walls. The pursuit of justice is at the core of Rabbi Krause’s legacy. He pursued justice through teaching, through action, and through scholarship. This December, Rabbi Krause’s book – “To Stand Aside, or Stand Alone” - Southern Reform Rabbis and the Civil Rights Movement will be published by the University of Alabama press. We invite you to join our community and the Krause family in celebrating this milestone at the 2016 Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar Shabbat. Temple Beth El welcomes Professor Marc Dollinger, Richard and Rhoda Goldman Chair in Jewish Studies and Social Responsibility at San Francisco State University, as our 2016 Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar. His areas of focus and expertise include American Jewish history, Jewish social responsibility, Modern Jewish identity, and the 1960s. Processor Dollinger, a dynamic and engaging lecturer, teaches history in a manner that inspires action, engagement and the pursuit of justice in our world. Professor Dollinger has utilized Rabbi Allen Krause’s research in his own scholarship, and feels privileged to help our Beth El community celebrate our Rabbi and introduce us to some of Rabbi Krause’s ideas and scholarship. (For more about Professor Dollinger, please see page 23) Friday, December 2nd 4pm Study Session “Tikkun Olam” A Journey Through the Sources 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service L’Dor V’Dor—Celebrating Rabbi Allen Krause’s Legacy with special guest Stephen Krause Saturday, December 3rd 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat Service followed by Kiddush Lunch and learning with our scholar Tikun Olam in Action: Are you ready for Dr. King? 7:30pm Havdalah, dessert, and evening with our scholar Hamans and Torquemadas: Southern Rabbis and the Civil Rights Movement: A Tribute to the Scholarly Work of Rabbi Allen Krause Sunday, December 4th 10am Special session with our BESTY teen community Judaism and Justice: Our Tradition’s Legacy to Creating a World of Fairness Page 22 Scholar -in- Residence Saturday, December 3rd at 7:30pm Havdalah, dessert, and discussion Southern Rabbis and the Civil Rights Movement Marc Dollinger, our Rabbi Krause Scholar -in- Residence Dr. Marc Dollinger holds the Richard and Rhoda Goldman Endowed Chair in Jewish Studies and Social Responsibility at San Francisco State University. He has served as research fellow at Princeton University’s Center for the Study of Religion as well as the Andrew W. Mellon Post-doctoral Fellow and Lecturer in the Humanities at Bryn Mawr College, where he coordinated the program in Jewish Studies. He is author of “Quest For Inclusion: Jews and Liberalism In Modern America” published by Princeton University Press, California Jews, co-edited with Ava Kahn, and American Jewish History: A Primary Source Reader, both published by Brandeis University Press. He is currently at work on: Is It Good For The Jews? Black Power and the 1960s. He is a past president of both the Jewish Community High School of the Bay and Brandeis Hillel Day School. Marc serves as academic vice president of Lehrhaus Judaica as well as trustee of URJ Camp Newman and the Bay Area Jewish Healing Center. Marc sits on the California advisory committee to the United States Commission on Civil Rights, was named 2008 Volunteer of the Year by the SF Jewish Community Federation, and was awarded the San Francisco JCRC’s 2015 Courageous Leader award for his work against the BDS movement. Just for fun, Professor Dollinger helped actress Helen Hunt learn about her Jewish roots on the NBC program, “Who Do You Think You Are?” About Rabbi Allen Krause’s Book To Stand Aside or Stand Alone: Southern Reform Rabbis and the Civil Rights Movement In 1966, a young rabbinical student named P. Allen Krause conducted interviews with twelve Reform rabbis from southern congregations concerning their thoughts, principles, and activities as they related to the Civil Rights Movement. Perhaps because he was a young seminary student or more likely because the interviewees were promised an embargo of twenty-five years before the interviews would be released to the public, the rabbis were extremely candid about their opinions on and their own involvement with what was still an incendiary subject. Now, in “To Stand Aside or Stand Alone: Southern Reform Rabbis and the Civil Rights Movement”, their stories help elucidate a pivotal moment in time. After a distinguished rabbinical career, Krause wrote introductions to and annotated the interviews. When Krause succumbed to cancer in 2012, Mark K. Bauman edited the manuscripts further and wrote additional introductions with the assistance of Stephen Krause, the rabbi’s son. The result is a unique volume offering insights into these rabbis’ perceptions and roles in their own words and with more depth and nuance than hitherto available. This exploration into the lives of these teachers and civic leaders is supported by important contextual information on the local communities and other rabbis, with such background information forming the basis of a demographic profile of the Reform rabbis working in the South. Page 23 ADULT EDUCATION About The 2016 Rabbi Allen Krause ADULT EDUCATION Exploring Jewish Prayer Maps of Reality: with Rabbi K’vod Wieder Tuesdays, 7:30-9pm with Rabbi K’vod Wieder in the Classroom 214/215 Saturday mornings November 1, December 13, January 3 September 10, October 22, November 5, December 4, January 7 at 8:45am in the Adult Library Maps of Reality seeks to integrate modern psychology and philosophy with the wisdom of the Jewish mystics. Through these reflections, we hope to more deeply recognize God’s living presence in our lives and discover how our Jewish communal practice enhances our experience. To deepen our conversations, we will assign some preparatory reading between classes. The rabbis envisioned prayer as an opportunity to connect with the deepest part of us. In this short class, we’ll explore how prayer can be a vehicle for this kind of spiritual connection. Spiritual Preparation for High Holy Days With Rabbi K’vod Wieder, Cantor Natalie Young and Cantor Sue Deutsch Tuesday, September 6th at 7pm The High Holy Day period is most effective at impacting us in a transformative way when we prepare our hearts and minds. On Rosh Hodesh Elul, exactly one month before Rosh Hashanah, we can begin the process of understanding how to engage our prayers in a way that is personal and relevant for each one of us. Join us for an evening of rabbinic teachings on inner transformation as well as an introduction to some of the High Holy Day melodies and prayers in both our Reform and Conservative services. Page 24 One need not be Jewish or religious to be a good person. Being a better human being involves developing our basic virtues: more gratitude, more patience, more kindness, more being at peace, better disciplined…. Recent psychology studies have found that personality traits are not fixed but more like skills that can leaned and improved. There is a little known tradition within Judaism of texts and practices to help develop these human traits in which we all strive to be better. It is called Mussar (the Ethical way). Together we will explore how our tradition can enhance our daily lives in a very meaningful and practical way such that we become the person we know we can be. Steve Birch, a committed practitioner and trained facilitator, will lead our Mussar program. New, novice, and experienced Mussar practitioners are invited to attend this fall and winter: Accounting of the Soul – Assessing Our Spiritual Development Yom Kippur Afternoon Wednesday, October 12th, 2:30pm In the month leading up to the High Holy Days it a common Jewish practice to spend time contemplating what progress we’ve made over the year. In this session we’ll look at this practice and the various measures used to take stock of our progress. While this practice is very common leading up to the High Holy Days it is also part of an ongoing Mussar practice. December 14, 7pm Mini Mussar Workshop Perfect for first-time practitioners who want to become familiar with the basic virtues, middot, of Mussar, or for people who need a “booster” to get back into an ongoing practice. This past year, Temple Beth El had two dozen members practicing Mussar together throughout the year! Here’s what some of our practitioners gained from the experience: “I look at Yom Kippur and Mussar as time I can set aside to truthfully examine myself and all that’s important to me.” Mussar was “a space to talk about more important things, not just talking about the day-to-day.” I liked learning about things like gratitude and affirmation from the Jewish perspective.” “It helped me be more patient and not rush in life.” Page 25 ADULT EDUCATION Be Your Best Self ADULT EDUCATION BookClubs Daytime Book Club Our Daytime Book Club provides the opportunity to discuss previously selected Jewish-themed books on the 3rd Tuesday of each month. When: Tuesdays from 11:30am -1pm in the Adult Library Coordinators: Sharon Wolfson [email protected] & Claire Stein [email protected] Upcoming dates and book selections include: September 20 - “The UnAmericans: Stories” by Molly Antopol NEW MEMBERS October 18 - “All the Light We Cannot See” by Anthony Doerr People of the Book TBE’s People of the Book group meets on the second Wednesday of the month at 7pm in the adult library to discuss books we’ve previously selected. We look forward to another year of interesting reading, sharing thoughts, learning, and having a great time. We welcome adult members to join us in lively discussions about the book selections. Past choices have included popular, topical, and classic fiction and non-fiction books. September 14 The Chaperone by Laura Moriarty presented by Shiffy October 19 – NOTE CHANGE OF REGULAR DATE All Who Go Do Not Return by Shulem Deen presented by Helen November 9 He, She, It by Marge Piercy presented by Mollie November 15 - “The Secret Chord” by Geraldine Brooks December 14 Love Wins: The Lovers and Lawyers Who Fought the Landmark Case for Marriage Equality by Debbie Cenziper & Jim Obergefell presented by Sherri December 20 - “Safekeeping” by Jessamyn Hope January 11 A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman presented by June To be placed on our email list or if you want information regarding the book choices for 2016 – 2017, please contact: Helen Rasner, [email protected] Hope to see you in September! Wishing a Warm Welcome to our Newest Members! Mark Adler and Crystal Williams of Corona Mikhail and Svetlana Boukhny of Laguna Niguel Noel and Cecilia Ezekiel of Dana Point David and Gloria Friedman of Laguna Woods Michael and Sharon Gerstein of Irvine Brett and Kimberly Goering of Aliso Viejo Charles and Shelly Gorenstein of Laguna Niguel Marcie Howard of Rancho Santa Margarita Craig and Justine Moraes of Lake Forest Brandon and Hilary Rosen of Laguna Niguel Melvin and Adrianne Selbst of Ladera Ranch Josh and Jane Selin of Aliso Viejo Wendy Selin of Laguna Woods Elise Sugarman of Mission Viejo Mark and Leslie Wegener of Rancho Santa Margarita Page 26 Gordon & Sklar Temple Beth El...Where Jewish learning is fun. Join us! Get your registration materials and information online at www.tbesoc.org/childhoodcenter.htm Fall Enrollment is Still Open! Parent/Toddler classes 7 months – 24 months Preschool Program 2 years – Pre K Before School Breakfast Club Dynamic After School Enrichment Classes including: Mini Art Masters, Mix and Stir, STEM Superstars, Yoga for Kids and Amazing Athletics! After School Snack Buddies Available Call Us for a tour! 949-362-3999 ext 317 For families with young children... Here Comes Shabbat! Tot Services for High Holy Days 5:25-5:45pm on the these Fridays: August 19, Join us at 3pm on Monday, October 3 (Rosh Hashanah) and Wednesday, October 12 (Yom Kippur) A Special Shabbat Experience for PreK-2nd Graders September 2, September 16, October 21, November 4, December 2, December 16 Join us in the Sanctuary on the above Fridays for a special service tailored for PreK-2nd graders. This is a special Shabbat ritual the 1st & 3rd Fridays of the month from 5:25-5:45pm and includes singing, stories, tzedakah collection, and time to say goodbye to the week and welcome in Shabbat. All families with young kids are welcome to participate. Join us for a community-wide nosh (snack) after this service. For more information contact Rabbi Rachel Kort, [email protected]; 949362-3999, ext. 102 Tot Shabbat Playspace Families with young children are invited to attend the Tot Shabbat Playspace with one of our rabbis, ECC Director, Carolyn, and Miss Beth beginning at 10:30 am in ECC room 103. We start with Shabbat stories, crafts, and playtime. We enjoy challah and juice and move on to a Torah parade followed by a lunch with the congregation. Join us on the following Saturdays at 10:30 am. September 10, November 5, December 3, January 7 Shabbat Dinner in the Sukkah Friday, October 21, 5:25pm Join us after Here Comes Shabbat Services at 5:25pm followed by a special Shabbat Dinner in the Sukkah for families with young kids. Meet new friends and spend time with old friends. We’ll enjoy a pizza and salad dinner and make crafts to hang in our beautiful Sukkah. Feel free to bring your own dessert and your favorite bottle of wine. (RSVP online at tbesoc.org) For more information contact Carolyn Kappes, Early Childhood Center Director, [email protected]; (949) 362-3999, ext.317. PJ Library: Sign up today! It’s never too early to create treasured Jewish memories with your family. Sign up your family and tell your friends about the PJ Library. Introduce a new generation to the richness and depth of our Jewish heritage. For more information, see the brochure that was mailed out over the summer or go to www.facebook.com/ JFFSPJ. Page 27 KIDS CORNER Early Childhood Center KIDS CORNER Shabbat Chai-lights Community, Torah, Shabbat Our ancient Rabbis taught that the world stands on three things: Torah, Worship, Acts of Loving-kindness (Pirkei Avot 1:2). Our Shabbat Chai Fridays stand on three things: Community Building, Torah, and Shabbat. Each component of our Friday program works to uphold, strengthen, and nourish our children’s Jewish identities in unique but equally important ways. By building community with each other and creating bonds of friendship, our kids develop a sense of belonging to our Temple community and the Jewish People. By engaging in Torah with our faculty, our children learn about our tradition and how it can make their lives more meaningful. By celebrating Shabbat with parents, our kids have an opportunity to sing, pray, and dance and feel the joy of Shabbat as a family. Shabbat Chai Fridays meet from 4-7pm on the 1st & 3rd Fridays of the month. This time includes community Shabbat services at 6pm. Services are an integral part of the Shabbat Chai curriculum. As a part of our Friday program, each grade level will come together for a special Grade Level Shabbat Experience. This special Shabbat Chai Friday will bring together children and parents for learning, Shabbat dinner, and Shabbat Services. In addition, each grade will come together with our “grand-friends” at Heritage Pointe, our local Jewish senior residence, for a special Mitzvah Day. Each family will receive their special “grade level” calendar through our Shabbat Chai distribution list. Please mark your calendars for these community building event. If you have any questions about Shabbat Chai, Hebrew School, or your family’s Jewish journey, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. Google Calendars All of our events are on a Google Calendar ready for your mobile device, etc! Shabbat Chai dates, Hebrew School Dates, Parent Events... sync everything today! tbesoc.org/calendar.html Calendar of Spring Dates Shabbat Chai Shabbat Sept. 2 Friday 4 – 7 pm Shabbat Sept. 16 Friday 4 – 7 pm Rosh Hashanah Oct. 3 Monday 10 am – 12:30 pm No Shabbat Chai Oct. 7 High Holy Day Recess Yom Kippur Oct. 12 Wednesday 10 am – 12:30 pm Shabbat Sukkot Oct. 21 Friday 4 – 7 pm Simchat Torah Oct. 24 Monday 4:30-6:00 pm Shabbat Nov. 4 Friday 4 – 7 pm No Shabbat Chai Nov. 18 Thanksgiving Recess Shabbat Dec. 2 4 – 7 pm Shabbat Dec. 16 4 – 7 pm Shabbat Jan. 6 4 – 7 pm Shabbat Jan. 20 4 – 7 pm Hebrew School Mondays, 4:30-6:30pm 1 Sept. 12 2 Sept. 19 3 Sept. 26 (No Hebrew School) Oct. 3 (No Hebrew School) Oct. 10 4 Oct. 17 5 Oct. 24 (No Hebrew School) Oct. 31 6 Nov. 7 7 Nov. 14 (No Hebrew School) Nov. 21 L’Shana HaBa’ah B’Yachad— To the Coming Year Together, Rabbi Rachel Kort [email protected] 949-362-3999, ext. 102 Wendy Yesharim Program Director [email protected] 949-362-3999, ext. 214 8 Dec. 5 9 Dec. 12 (No Hebrew School) Dec. 19 (No Hebrew School) Dec. 26 (No Hebrew School) Jan. 2 10 Jan. 9 (No Hebrew School) Jan. 16 11 Jan. 23 12 Jan. 30 Page 28 We are excited to announce that Wendy Yesharim is joining our Beth El team as our new Program Director. Wendy will work as a part-time leader at the Temple, engaging our community in educational programming and managing the daily operations of our Shabbat Chai and Hebrew School programs. Wendy, as Program Director will: • Serve as the Principal of our Shabbat Chai and Hebrew School programming, providing support to families, students, and faculty • Oversee and execute children’s and family programming for holidays and social action projects • Engage community members as volunteers in programming Wendy has been a part of our Beth El family for many years as a teacher in our Early Childhood Center and Shabbat Chai and Hebrew School. She is a master teacher and mentor, working with children and families from babies through adolescent and has experience with project management as the owner of a small educational consulting business. We are excited to welcome Wendy and her strengths to this new position. Message from Wendy Dedicated to: Strengthening our Community & Making Becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah More Meaningful Friday, December 16th at Temple Beth El and Saturday, December 17, 2016 from 9:30am-7pm at the Irvine Ranch Outdoor Education Center in Orange The 6th Grade Family Retreat is designed to help take relationships among 6th graders and 6th grade families to the next level and to create an intimate space to explore what it means to be a Bar/Bat Mitzvah on a deeper level. It is with great pleasure and hopes for the future that I write this letter of introduction as the new Program Director at Temple Beth El. I am honored to have the opportunity to support a community with such rich tradition. I have been dedicated to the field of Jewish education for more than 20 years. I also take great pride in creating and developing an educational consulting business focusing on the emotional and physical developmental needs of adolescents. Starting out as a young assistant pre-school teacher on the east coast, I quickly learned that I have a love for supporting children and families. Fostering strong connections between parents, children and communities is my greatest passion. Playing an active role in the Orange County Jewish community has allowed me the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of countless families. Temple Beth El has been my home, since the opening of the ECC, as a parent and educator and I will continue my work as an ECC teacher. I have been mentored by key professionals within the Jewish community who have taught me the value of being a responsible and respected leader. I am looking forward to meeting each of you and enhancing the already wonderful programs at Temple Beth El. Please stop by and introduce yourself! Sincerely, Wendy Yesharim Page 29 KIDS CORNER Announcing our new Program Director KIDS CORNER Register for Shabbat Chai & Hebrew School BEMSY—Beth El Middle School Youth Calling All 6th & 7th Grades BEMSY—Beth El Middle School Youth Calling All 6th & 7th Graders BEMSY is our Youth Group for 6th & 7th graders. The group will meet on Shabbat Chai Fridays from 4-4:45pm in our Youth Lounge. Sixth and seventh graders will have an opportunity to schmooze with friends, buy a slice of pizza, play basketball and board games. This time will also include a “camp-like” Shabbat ritual designed especially for BEMSY. In addition to Shabbat Chai Fridays, BEMSY will meet for fun and festive Shabbat dinners and activities from 7pm -8:30pm, in our Youth Lounge on the following dates: September 16, February 3, May 5. In the spring, BEMSY will join our Senior Youth Group, BESTY for a joint event in the spring. For more information our Youth Group Director, Chavva Olander: [email protected] Information about our education program is available on our temple’s website (www.tbesoc.org) under Religious School. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to contact us. Rabbi Rachel Kort [email protected] 949-362-3999, ext. 102 Wendy Yesharim Program Director [email protected] 949-362-3999, ext. 214 Please know that no child will be excluded from Jewish engagement and learning opportunities at Temple Beth El due to financial concern. Please contact our Executive Director, Bonni Pomush, if your family has financial need regarding Religious School tuition or if you would like to help a family in need by making a donation to the Mirsky Scholarship Fund: [email protected]; 949-362-3999, ext. 213 KOCHAVIM Come join Temple Beth El’s new youth choir and learn some of Jewish tradition’s greatest music! Students will be provided with their own folder of music along with a list of performance dates and details. While this is an opportunity to have a fun time with friends and Cantor Young, Kochavim will be fulfilling the mitzvah of bringing joy and healing to our community through song. Rehearsals: 1st and 3rd Mondays when there is Hebrew school, beginning September 19th, 2016 from 4:15-5pm Cost: $50 per student (includes musical supplies) Who: 3rd Grade and up Friday Afternoon Do you have a baby or toddler in your life? Are you looking to connect with other Jewish families? We are excited to offer a Parent & Me option during Shabbat Chai Friday afternoon Religious School program for the 2016-17 year. This special space is designed for babies and toddlers (until your 3 year old is potty-trained) together with their parents, grandparents or caregiver. Shabbat Chai Fridays for our Parent & Me group will include Shabbat and holiday celebration, challah, singing, stories, activities, play and community. Our Parent & Me group will join our ‘Here Comes Shabbat’ service in the Sanctuary from 5:25- 5:45pm. Please contact Wendy Yesharim for more information ([email protected]) To register, please go to our website and fill out the online form which can be found at: www.tbesoc.org Page 30 4 – 6pm Our Sunday once-a-month program is a multi-modal teen experience filled with fun, socializing, learning with our rabbis, leadership development, and community service. Whether you are a part of the 8th Grade Tzedakah Board, or the 9th-12th Grade Teen Leadership Program, you can fulfill community service requirements for your school, while keeping you connected to your friends at Temple Beth El. 9th-12th Teen Leadership Program Sessions September 11, 2016 – Shopping With A Purpose Who doesn’t love a good deal? Sometimes, the availability of our favorite items comes with a price that is far more significant than the money we spend on them. What responsibilities do companies have toward the people who make their products? How are violations of those responsibilities hurting all of us? We’ll discuss these important questions and learn what Judaism can teach us about being morally responsible shoppers. We’ll also make tye-dyes for ourselves and families in need. March 12 – Purim Carnival November 6th – Gratitude + Mindfulness = < Stress Is there an equation for happiness? Maybe not, but Judaism is rich with lessons that help us achieve balance and fulfillment. April 23 – Anti Semitism and Yom Hashoah Observance Dealing with anti-semitism in schools, workplace, or the media is the unfortunate and challenging aspect of being a Jew. With separate parent and teen discussion groups, we will strive for a greater understanding of the dynamics and reasons for anti-semitism and we can address it. After separate discussions, we’ll come together to spend time with a Holocaust survivor and commemorate Yom HaShoah (Holocaust Rememberance Day). March 26 – Addiction: What Are You a Slave To? Many people have a relationship to certain things in our lives that is out of balance. For some of us, it’s food, or video games, or a certain physical appearance, or certain kinds of experiences. What does the Passover story have to do with addiction? We’ll talk about how the Israelites’ journey out of Egypt parallels our daily lives, and how to be more selfaware. November 20 – Interfaith Thanksgiving Community Project We will join together with teens and adults from the Orange County Islamic Foundation and Shepherd of the Hills Methodist Church to help people in our community and abroad who are in poverty. December 4 (10am start time) – Judiasm and Justice: Our Tradition’s Legacy To Creating A World of Fairness A special session for teens with our Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar In Residence Marc Dollinger, PhD. Professor Dollinger is a gifted and dynamic lecturer who is committed to inspire the pursuit of justice through an exploration of Jewish history. January 8, 2017 - Social Media: Promises and Pitfalls (sessions with parents separate and together) Social media has become primary vehicles of communication for teens and adults. How can social media enhance our lives and not detract from it. We’ll have separate parent and teen sessions with experts from the field to help us identify the concrete dangers and promises of social media. May 7 - A Year in Review: Current Events Through a Jewish Lens: How does the world influence Judaism? How does Judaism influence the world? We’ll explore significant social, political, and popular culture happenings that have taken place over the last several months and interpret them from a Jewish perspective. June 4 - B’tzalel Arts Festival $395 for the year Enroll online February 12 – Purim and Politics While the holiday of Purim is wild and crazy with costumes and hamentaschen, did you know that there are deep insights about politics, oppression, and freedom? We will connect these themes and prepare to add an element of social action to our yearly Purim carnival through creating our own social issues Carnival booths. Page 31 BESTY TEEN PROGRAMMING THE SUNDAY PROGRAM BESTY TEEN PROGRAMMING 8th Grade Tzedakah Board The 8th Grade Tzedakah Board is a philanthropic foundation of eighth graders who are willing to commit time outside of school to engage in questions of how to fix our broken world. In this influential and dynamic program, participants will learn about Jewish wisdom on charitable giving and social change, financial literacy, and modern philanthropy, and then award $4,000 - $10,000 to organizations that they deem effective in making the world a better place. our hope that the teen will make some or all of the contribution from their own money to this fund. The group fund will be matched by an anonymous donor and students will have the opportunity to participate in a group fundraising activity to increase the fund amount. COST: $695 for the year Enroll online Being part of the 8th Grade Tzedakah Board will give you the following: • Greater sophistication about money and how it can be leveraged to make positive change in the world. • Deeper knowledge about how the wisdom of Judaism can inform your decisions about money and how to use it for prosperity for all. • Connection to other Temple Beth El teens around the mission of making a difference in the world. • A remarkable extracurricular activity on your resume to help open the door for college and other job positions when you reach that stage. Besides registration, participation will entail a student contribution of $100 to a group fund. While parents may need to help with this amount, it is Page 32 Tzedakah Board Meets SUNDAYS September 11 (4-6 pm) November 6 (4-6 pm) Nov 20 – Interfaith Thanksgiving December 4 (4-6 pm) December 11 (4-6 pm) January 8 (4-6 pm) January 22 (4-6 pm) February 12 (4-6 pm) February 26 (4-6 pm) March 26 (4-6 pm) April 23 (4-6 pm) May 7 (4-6 pm) May 19 (Mitzvah Recognition Evening) Madrikhim PARENT/TEEN Stay connected to our Shabbat community to help out in classrooms and become mentors and build relationships with younger students. Become a part of our Shabbat Chai team on the following dates: LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES Social Media: Promises and Pitfalls (sessions with parents separate and together) January 8, 2017 4 - 6pm Social media has become primary vehicles of communication for teens and adults. How can social media enhance our lives and not detract from it. We’ll have separate parent and teen sessions with experts from the field to help us identify the concrete dangers and promises of social media. BESTY Club Night December 10, 2016 – 7:30 pm Rock out to a professional DJ with laser lights · Have fun with dance floor games · Win big at casino games · Drink mocktails Capture memories with friends in a Photo Booth This is a club scene, the real deal, especially designed for you. Anti Semitism and Yom Hashoah Observance April 23, 2017 4 – 6pm Dealing with anti-semitism in schools, workplace, or the media is the unfortunate and challenging aspect of being a Jew. With separate parent and teen discussion groups, we will strive for a greater understanding of the dynamics and reasons for antisemitism and how we can address it. After separate discussions, we’ll come together to spend time with a Holocaust survivor and commemorate Yom HaShoah (Holocaust Rememberance Day). Graduation and Mitzvah Recognition Evening May 19, 2017 Friday evening dinner and Shabbat service celebrating our teen leaders, the work of the 8th Grade Tzedakah Board, and graduating seniors. Our teens will be recognized for their commitment, creativity, teaching skills, ability to connect with younger students, and contributions to the community. Passport to Regional Youth Events As Temple Beth El is affiliated with both Reform and Conservative National Movements, the BESTY community is both the local NFTY Reform teen chapter and the USY Conservative teen chapter. All BESTY members are able to participate in the Regional Youth Events, allowing them to make friendships with an even wider group of teens. shabbat club September 16, January 20, March 10, April 21 Services 6 pm, Dinner and Discussion 7:15pm in the Youth Lounge Share Shabbat evenings with BESTY and our Rabbis to enjoy a catered Shabbat meal and lively conversations around the topic of relationships. We’ll gain insight from Jewish texts on matters of friendship, dating, and love, and explore important issues related to relationships like communication, consent, and mutual respect. Page 33 BESTY TEEN PROGRAMMING OTHER PROGRAMS AND EVENTS BESTY TEEN PROGRAMMING BESTY TEEN CALENDAR September 3 – Havdalah and Outdoor Movie Night 7 pm 11 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 16 – Shabbat Club (Services 6 pm, Dinner 7:15 pm) October 23 – Sukkot Pool Party November 6 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 12 – Broomball Sleepover – 9 pm 20 – Interfaith Thanksgiving Action Project May 2 – Elections – 6:30-8:30 pm 7 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 19 -20 – BESTY Shabbaton (Mitzvah Recognition, Sleepover, Jerusalem Shabbat) June 4 – B’tzalel Arts Festival 11 – New Board Retreat – 10 am – 4 pm – Irvine Outdoor Education Center 25 – Beach Party 11 am – 2 pm – Aliso Creek Beach December 3 - Movie Night at the Town Center and Sleepover 4 – Sunday Program 10 am – 12 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 10– Club Night – 7:30 pm 11 – Tzedakah Board Only 4-6 pm Registration for our Teen Community is available on our Temple website (www.tbesoc.org) under the tabs Social/ BESTY Teens Funds are never a barrier to participation. Please let us know if we can help your child attend. January 8 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 20 – Shabbat Club (Services 6 pm, Dinner 7:15pm) 22 – Tzedakah Board Only 4-6 pm 28 – Cosmic Bowling Please don’t hesitate to contact Rabbi K’vod Wieder at [email protected] or 949-362-3999 ext 106 with any questions. February 12 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) 26 – Museum of Tolerance/Laser Light Show at Observatory (9-12th Grade) 26 – Tzedakah Board 4-6 pm March 7 – Stand With Us – Defending Israel and Judaism on College Campuses 10 – Shabbat Club/Purim Party 12 – Purim Carnival 26 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) April 21 – Shabbat Club (Services 6 pm, Dinner 7:15 pm) 23 – Sunday Program 4-6 pm (9th-12th Grade and Tzedakah Board) Page 34 join our legacy society & Ensure your legacy for future generations ... Continue the legacy of a Jewish community here in South Orange County by remembering Temple Beth El in your Will or other Estate Plans. Join these fellow Temple Beth El members in supporting a cause that has been important in each of our lives. Our Legacy Society Phyllis & Steve Blanc* Firuzeh & Jeff Claar Shiffy & Avi Crane* Shirley & Lew Einbund* Pamela & Rob Fecher* Robin Brandes-Gibbs & Tim Gibbs Susan & Michael Goldfader Jeff Greer & Keary Gregg* Mimi Harris* Marla and Joe Kaufman* Scott & Bonnie Kehe Joan Kirschenbaum Harvey Kramer* Sherri Hofmann Krause* Shula Kalir-Merton Mollie & Stephen Lazarus* Dr. & Mrs. Stanton Leemon Cindy & David Mirsky* Jane & Pete Moss Amy & Joel Packer Bonni Pomush & Patti Holliday* Patricia Holzman Rosenbaum Cindy & Gil Ross* Sheri & Jack Saladow Alice Schultz Polly Sloan* Kymberly & William Spector Claire & Arnie Stein Rosemary & Howard Stevens* Leslie & Jake Tatel* Lois Weiss* Ina & George Welland *Confirmed For a confidential discussion on how you can establish your legacy plan, please contact Bonni Pomush at [email protected] or call 949-362-3999 ext 213. Make this New Year count for years to come... Make a gift in your will this year to Temple Beth El of South OC. Join our community-wide effort to guarantee a Jewish tomorrow. Page 35 To create your Jewish legacy contact: SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY It is with special pride we want to thank the members of ourLegacy Society. These are special people who have served our Temple for many years and are working to secure our future. SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY Support the Temple while you shop!! Submissions for the next Temple e-Talk are due by November 15th . Email them to [email protected]. Do You Grocery shop at ? The TBE Mall Shop your favorite websites & earn money for the Temple! Really. It’s that easy. With your help and the support of our members, Ralphs is proud to report that they are committed to giving $2 Million during the next 12 months through their Community Contributions Program. .org tbesoc n click o Their new program year begins on September 1, 2016. TBE M Please re-register (or register for the first time now!) at www.ralphs.com . all Shopping? Planning a trip? Support the Temple & do it online! Participants are required to register for the new term online at www.ralphs.com or by calling Ralph’s at 800443-4438 starting September 1, 2016. Even if you registered as recently as June, July or August 2016, you are required to register again beginning September 1st so that a percentage of your shopping goes to the temple. Amazon, HotWire, Beauty/Drugstore.com, Dollar and Thrifty car rentals, Buy.com, World of Watches...and more! Share this info with family & friends! For your convenience, step-by-step website registration instructions can be found at www.ralphs.com, click on Community, click on Community Contributions, click on ‘Enroll Now’. If you don’t have computer access, please call us at 1-800-443-4438 for assistance. The more people using the links, the greater the Temple’s earnings! 1) Register your card to benefit TBESOC 1. Go to http://tbesoc.org/escrip.htm 2. Save it as either: a. A Favorite. On the top of your screen click on “favorites”, then click on “add favorites.” b. A Shortcut on your desktop (recommended). Click on the word “File” on the top of your screen. Click on “Send,” and then click on “Shortcut to desktop”. A shortcut will be placed on your desktop for you to open each time you shop. 2) Grocery shop 3) Know your dollars went further! A portion of every purchase goes to the Temple! Page 36 Temple Beth El Tribute Funds of South Orange County Your donation today supports our efforts to provide a spiritual, educational, and supportive Jewish home for individuals in South Orange County. With your support, our doors remain open to provide services that meet the needs of Orange County’s Jewish population in perpetuity. What difference can your donation make? $18 Provides: • Start-up materials for a child to participate in a youth philanthropy board • Books for children’s library • An earthquake emergency kit • Shabbat dinner with a speaker • Book to Jewish teen receiving a leadership award • One child’s materials ECC Shabbat kit materials __Cantor Natalie Young’s Discretionary Fund __Cedarbaum & Mitchell Adult Library __Children’s Library __Chapel Service Kiddush Fund __Donna Van Slyke Campership Fund __Early Childhood Center (ECC) __Endowment Fund __General Fund __Gloria & Herb Smolinsky Torah Fund __Iris & Marshall Miller Memorial Shiva Fund __Israel Matters Fund __Leadership Development Fund __Mary and Al Leavitt Progamming Fund __Mirsky Temple Beth El Religious School Scholarship Fund __Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in-Residence Fund __Rabbi Kort’s Discretionary Fund __Rabbi K’vod Wieder’s Discretionary Fund __Raymond Plotkin Campership Fund __Religious School Education Fund __Terry Fierle Full Inclusion Fund __Saturday Service Kiddush Fund Donation given by: $50 Provides: • An ECC child with language arts materials • A bar/bat mitzvah with their own bible & tzedakah • Paper goods for an oneg • A child with a Shabbat kit to use at home Name____________________________________________ $200 Provides: • Shabbat lunch for a Saturday morning service • Registration materials for a new ECC student • A member’s set of tefillin • A continuing education opportunity for an ECC teacher Amount of Donation $____________ Address__________________________________________ _________________________________________________ __Attached is check number:_____________ __I authorize payment on my Visa / MC / Discover #:__________________________________________ $400 Provides: • Participation in youth group all year • Attendance at meditation retreat • A teenager a weekend Jewish Youth retreat experience • Women’s retreat participation Expiration _____________ Signature____________________________________ Please send acknowledgement to: $1000 Provides: • A child’s religious school education for 1 year Name_______________________________________ $5000 Provides: • Sponsorship for an ECC child’s participation or for a congregant to go to Israel for the first time • Funding to create Temple Beth El’s music CD • Sponsorship for a family membership • Sponsorship for a guest cantor for High Holy Day Conservative services Address_______________________________________ $20,000 Provides: • 2 students an aide in the ECC inclusion program • A replacement sound system in the sanctuary Please return form with payment to: Temple Beth El of South Orange County 2A Liberty, Aliso Viejo, CA 92656 Please make a minimum donation of $10. Donations made will appear in Temple Talk. _____________________________________________ Please select one: __In honor of... __In memory of... __On occasion of... _____________________________________________ www.tbesoc.org Thank You!!! 2A Liberty ● Aliso Viejo, CA 92656 ● 949.362.3999 Page 37 SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY Support the Community SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY A Note from the Executive Director This summer was filled with the joyful sounds of Early Childhood Center (ECC) campers having a blast while our Facility Services team cleaned, painted, and refreshed the building for a new school year and holiday season. We also experienced major staff transitions: Rabbi K’vod and Rabbi Kort moved into their co-rabbi roles, Cantor Young started working full time, and Carolyn Kappes assumed her role as the new Director of the ECC. There is truly ‘never a dull moment’ around our Temple! Our fantastic, bare-bones support staff team continues to amaze me. Thanks to the commitment and talent of Myka Thompson and a dedicated team of volunteers, we developed a customer service team that helps each of us feel taken care of with temple business needs, as well as welcomed! Karol Tran, our communications coordinator, continues to keep us informed with engaging emails, Shabbat pamphlets, this piece you’re reading!, and anything that comes across our website. Pam Uber, our accounting manager, celebrated 10 years with us this year, and we are always impressed by her ability to be so many departments in one person (accounts receivable, accounts payable, payroll, analyst and more!) Again, we could not function without the generous help of hundreds of volunteer hours! From my heart to yours: thank you for your dedication to our community. If you have availability and the desire to volunteer, please be in touch with me…we welcome your help! We continue to be home to several other organizations who use our facility and thankfully their use fees help offset the financial demands on our membership. In our beautiful home here at 2A Liberty, we currently house VanDamme Academy (a K-8 private school), Discovery Preparatory Academy (a 6-12th grade private school), Aliso Creek Church (a Presbyterian church) and the Catering Factory (a private catering company.) We are always open to short-term rentals for events like weddings, b’nai mitzvah parties, quinceaneras, and conferences/meetings. If you know of individuals looking for space to rent, please refer them to me. Our new neighbors coming to Liberty are getting closer to their move in date. Construction on the lot immediately adjacent to us continues, and USA Properties have been helpful, thoughtful neighbors. We are so grateful to them for letting us use their parking lot over the High Holy Days. This 200-unit affordable senior housing development should be up and running in about 6 months…stay tuned. We are also so grateful to them for letting us use their parking lot over the High Holy Days! Finally, I am beyond excited to announce that this year’s gala will be held on Saturday, March 4, 2017. We are looking forward to this Speakeasy-themed night….be on the lookout for the secret password to get in on the fun and help celebrate all of Susan and Michael Goldfader and Jeff Greer and Keary Gregg’s hard work. Thank you to each and every one of you who makes our Temple Beth El community such a vibrant hub of Jewish connection here in South Orange County. I absolutely love serving this special organization and its remarkable members. -Bonni Pomush Executive Director 949.362.7293 (direct) or [email protected] Share your time or talents! Contact Bonni at [email protected] to start volunteering at the temple. Here are some ideas, but certainly not an exhaustive list of opportunities. We welcome volunteers! Front desk reception Mailing preparation Solicit donations for gala Set up or clean up for special events Deep clean areas of building Organize storage / declutter Sanitize preschool toys Join a committee Page 38 Greet at events Special administrative projects Maintain landscaping Tidy areas Re-shelve books Coordinate onegs Bake for onegs Take a leadership position of South Orange County The Samueli Center for Progressive Judaism 2A Liberty ● Aliso Viejo, CA 92656 ● 949.362.3999 ●www.tbesoc.org C����ra�� Y��� N�x� E��n� �� I� A�is� V��j� Pa�i� B�n��e� H��� R��nd� • Be�u�i��� V��� • C�n�r���� Loca�e� • T���e�/Ch��r� In��u�e� • B���� �� D�n�� Flo�� • A�c�moda�e� 250 G�est� F�� ��� y��� ���n� ��ed� c�ntac�: L�nd� a� 949-362-3��9 �x�. 401 �� ���6351@c��.�e� Page 39 SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY Temple Beth El SUPPORT OUR TEMPLE COMMUNITY TZEDAKAH OPPORTUNITIES The Fenning Family Tree of Life Our SIMCHA Tree of Life is blooming at Temple Beth El. Gold leaves are available to celebrate a special simcha in your family’s life. The stones at the roots of the tree are symbolic of the 12 tribes of Israel. The golden leaves and stones may be inscribed to highlight or commemorate such joyous events as births, weddings, anniversaries, graduations or to honor parents, family or friends. Share the joy by inscribing your family’s simchas on our synagogue’s Tree of Life – a permanent dedication to the meaningful happy events that touch our lives. On each Tree of Life leaf you have four lines of 20 characters each to inscribe your message. The fifth line may contain a date. Date of order___________Contributed by___________________________________ Address _______________________________________________________________ City/Zip_______________________________________________________________ Phone_____________________Email________________________________________ I wish to inscribe: _______Leaves at $180 each (10 chai) = $________________________ Amount enclosed $________________ ( ) Cash ( ) Check M/C-VISA__________________________________________________ _______Stones at $720 each (40 chai) = $________________________ Exp________CVV_____Signature Here is my message: __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ Yahrzeit Remembrance Memorial Wall: The Kirschenbaum Family or chapel F or those of our Temple members who want to remember loved ones on the dates of their yahrzeits, a plaque on our Memorial wall is available for purchase. A light will be lit on the Friday preceding the anniversary of your loved one’s death and kept lit for the following week, and on Yom Kippur, Shemini Atzeret, the last day of Passover and on Shavuot Day 2. Please use this order form or come to the Temple office during regular office hours for assistance. If you need any help with Hebrew names or Hebrew dates, Rabbi Kort or Rabbi K’vod will be happy to assist you. YAHRZEIT REMEMBRANCE PLAQUE ORDER FORM Date of order_________________________________________________ Member’s name________________________________________________ English name on plaque__________________________________________ Hebrew name on plaque_________________________________________ Relation to member_____________________________________________ Julian calendar anniversary of death_______________________________ Jewish Calendar anniversary of death______________________________ Preference: Julian ( ) Jewish ( ) calendar Location preference: Upstairs/Rotunda ( ) Ground floor/Chapel ( ) If you do not have this information, we will be happy to help you complete this form. [ ] I need help completing the form. Phone_______________________Email______________________________ Amount enclosed $375 / Members - $550 / Non-members ( ) Cash ( ) Check M/C-VISA________________________________________Exp___________CVV____ Signature������������������������������������������������������������� Page 40 September Jerome and Patricia Bloom (35 yrs.) Daniel and Sandi Brager (27 yrs.) Lloyd and Stella Charton (35 yrs.) Marc and Barbara Chasman (27 yrs.) Art and Melanie Coble (25 yrs.) Paul and Laura DePerry (25 yrs.) Adam and Dawn Elovitz (16 yrs.) David and Gloria Friedman (57 yrs.) Timothy and Robin Gibbs (24 yrs.) Aaron and Wendy Glatman (22 yrs.) Timothy and Ellen Gravitt (29 yrs.) Geoffrey and Karen Gray (30 yrs.) Jeff Greer and Keary Gregg (8 yrs.) Jiri and Heather Herrmann (11 yrs.) Michael and Gail Isen (43 yrs.) Steven and Sarah Jaeger (13 yrs.) Steve and Vanessa Johnson (11 yrs.) Douglas and Christine Karpf (18 yrs.) Marsha and James Kmec (32 yrs.) Jeff and Lori Koff (26 yrs.) Gennady and Lynda Kolodenker (7 yrs.) Stephen and Mollie Lazarus (31 yrs.) Dean and Shannen Lob (9 yrs.) Brad and Lisa Lotterman (15 yrs.) Brian and Michelle McDuffie (9 yrs.) Ken and Kellye Moses (9 yrs.) Dennis and Suzy O’Reilly (30 yrs.) Stephen and Barbara Queen (50 yrs.) Mark and Elise Ranauro (35 yrs.) Daniel and Gail Riekes (27 yrs.) Chris and Soleil Rigney (8 yrs.) James and Melissa Rosen (14 yrs.) Jason and Jamie Rosiak (23 yrs.) Jack and Sheri Saladow (35 yrs.) Marc and Laurel Schkurman (34 yrs.) David and Aileen Shaw (30 yrs.) Daniel and Carla Sisler (17 yrs.) Mark and Jill Skaist (20 yrs.) Stephen and Barbara Toretto (34 yrs.) Mark and Leslie Wegener (5 yrs.) Mark and Debra Whaley (32 yrs.) Ari and Barbara Youderian (12 yrs October Steven and Karen Anapoell (19 yrs.) Allen and Amy Blank (26 yrs.) Edward and Lori Block (37 yrs.) Isaac and Laura Buchanan (9 yrs.) Gilda and Frank Drotman-Bierman (6 yrs.) Howard and Phyllis Duhan (25 yrs.) Noel and Cecilia Ezekiel (43 yrs.) Mark and Terry Fierle (42 yrs.) Judd and Mary Frank (32 yrs.) Matthew and Deborah Goldberg (18 yrs.) Adam and Kimberly Gubner (21 yrs.) Gregory and April Harrison (7 yrs.) Steve and Lynn Kagel (36 yrs.) Chris and Carolyn Kappes (23 yrs.) Sid and Bev Kritzstein (36 yrs.) Jonathan and Tracy Lewengrub (11 yrs.) Charles and Wendy Lupul (17 yrs.) Jerry and Sharon Manko (36 yrs.) Thomas and Susanne McGill (30 yrs.) Laurie and Richard Mills (35 yrs.) Michael and Melissa Pearl (17 yrs.) Jeffrey and Leslie Reisner (25 yrs.) Michael and Susan Riesz (49 yrs.) Melvin and Laura Robbins (25 yrs.) Arthur and Eleanore Rosen (56 yrs.) Gail and Michael Rosiak (49 yrs.) Eric and Natalie Rosin (24 yrs.) David and Karen(Kerry) Rubel (28 yrs.) Donald and Alice Schultz (59 yrs.) Steven and Cynthia Sloan (25 yrs.) Gary and Lana Sorsher (20 yrs.) Martin and Linda Stein (35 yrs.) Arnold and Claire Stein (61 yrs.) Andrew and Allison Straus (18 yrs.) Jonathan and Judith Thorpe (31 yrs.) Benjamin and Yoko Weinberg (12 yrs.) Douglas and Lois Wilson (36 yrs.) Steven and Karen Wolf (27 yrs.) David and Jenny Zimmerman (17 yrs.) Page 41 December Anthony and Sharon Aliberto (26 yrs.) Ernest and Geraldine Binstock (51 yrs.) Mikhail and Svetlana Boukhny (14 yrs.) Dennis and Susan Brown (38 yrs.) Scott and Audrey Danto (34 yrs.) Robert and Judy Dreyer (46 yrs.) Robert and Meg Ervais (20 yrs.) Miles and Esther Friedman (35 yrs.) Jeff and Audrey Grider (38 yrs.) Mark and Anna Gross (43 yrs.) Jeff and Dayna Herz (11 yrs.) Kenneth and Mara James (24 yrs.) Robert and Zenia Kezelman (42 yrs.) Arthur and Linda Kirsch (50 yrs.) Ross and Janine Klein (28 yrs.) Stan and Diane Leemon (46 yrs.) Norman and Jeri Leibson (47 yrs.) Michael and Simcha Manson (44 yrs.) Seth and Pia Penzell (13 yrs.) David and Kristen Pincus (14 yrs.) William and Lisa Pine (53 yrs.) Ken and Carol Roane (18 yrs.) Michael and Sandra Rothberg (29 yrs.) Gary and Rochelle Rotter (26 yrs.) Melvin and Adrianne Selbst (59 yrs.) AJ and Erica Simon (8 yrs.) Sid and Debra Weiss (28 yrs.) ANNIVERSARIES November Guy and Courtney Batterton (23 yrs.) Steven and Anna Berezin (26 yrs.) Irwin and Ellen Bornstein (31 yrs.) Ken and Lisa Cheng (28 yrs.) Chris and Stacy Cussen (21 yrs.) Neal and Lara Engler (20 yrs.) Michael and Lucia Freilich (12 yrs.) Jay and Frances Gale (50 yrs.) Steven and Susan Goldman (34 yrs.) Greg and Tamara Griffin (17 yrs.) Randy and Jill Haveson (14 yrs.) David and Alex Lubowe (26 yrs.) Richard and Mojgan Lustig (28 yrs.) Bernard and Natalie Mangini (46 yrs.) Doug and Susan Pick (15 yrs.) Eli and Shannon Ticatch (4 yrs.) Adam and Debra Traub (25 yrs.) Norman and Sherri Weisinger (15 yrs.) DONORS Many Thanks To Our Donors! Cantor Natalie Young Discretionary Fund Harvey Kramer • In memory of Esther Kramer Kerry & Paul Boulian • In honor of Cantor Young’s visit to Kerry’s mom Jeff, Iris & Lara Ameen • In memory of Debbie Kuhn • In memory of Judy Sacks’ mother Kenny & Lida Gerenraich • In memory of June Lockwood • In memory of Daniel Chodosh • In memory of Edith Gerenraich Avi & Shiffy Crane • In memory of Lillian “Dorthy” Kranz Fran Gale • In memory of Leonard Sandler Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In memory of Herbert Phillips • In memory of Augusta Clara & Benjamin Sidney Lori & Richard Covey • In memory of Jennie Miller Ross & Janine Klein • In memory of Jennie Miller The Gubner Family • In memory of Frances Bloom Cedarbaum and Mitchell Adult Library Fund Arnie & Claire Stein • In honor of Shirley & Lew Einbund’s 60th wedding anniversary Gladys Bushin Chapel Service Kiddush Fund Lin & Howard Goldman • In memory of Melvin Warshaw, Jacob Warshaw & Ida Brownstein Jake & Leslie Tatel • On occasion of the birth of Sharon & Jerry Manko’s granddaughter Sandy Rothberg • In memory of Arthur Freedman Sol Zuckerman • In memory of Hyman Zuckerman Jackie Hyman • In memory of Eleanor Markiewicz Joe & Barbara Lebovitz • On occasion of their birthdays Max & Sue DeLiema • In memory of Emily Neufeld • In memory of Shirley Isen Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In honor of Jeff Greer Susan & Steven Goldman • In honor of Wendy Lupul • In honor of Sandy Rothberg & the Chop & Chat Gals Leslie Tatel & Jake Tatel • In appreciation of Wendy Lupul teachng Torah Trope Class • In honor of Steve Birch’s birthday Children’s Library Ken & Sharon Devor • On occasion of the birth of their first grandchild Reece Jacob Devor Jay Greenberg • In memory of Morris Greenberg The Karpf Family • In memory of Lewis H. Karpf Donna Van Slyke Campership Fund Wendy & Stan Levin • In honor of the Einbunds’ 60th anniversary • In memory of Philip Belzer ECC (Early Childhood Center) Lin & Howard Goldman • In memory of Melvin Warshaw, Jacob Warshaw & Ida Brownstein Endowment Fund Claire & Arnie Stein • In honor of Shirley & Lew Einbund’s 60th wedding anniversary General Fund Stuart & Carole Fels • In memory of Martin Fels, Father of Stuart Fels Jerome Liebesman • In memory of Rowena Liebesman In memory of Emily Neufeld • The Claar Family • Susan Umans • The Newsies c/o Tiffany Fehr • The Cohen Family • Suzy and Sam Novenstern • The Elledge Family The Kirschenbaum Family • In memory of Sam Kirschenbaum Zelda Rabkin • On occasion of an Aliyah Susie & Rob Roof • In memory of Emil Pollak Myron & Ruth Margolis • In memory of Beatrice Alon, Sharon Rimon, Mordechai Sela, Jack Margolis and Rose Margolis Jay Greenberg Joyce Marr • In memory of Irene Resnick Gubner Family • In memory of Samuel Galatz Kenneth Kushner • In memory of Mary Kushner • In memory of Betsy Kushner Edward Neuwirth Glenda Rosen • In honor of the Einbunds’ 60th anniversary Toby Schoolman • In memory of Jeri L. Schoolman & David Ross Schoolman Edward & Lori Block • In memory of Harry Martin Stan Levy Ron & Molly Naglie • In memory of Louis Naglie This list includes donations from May 2, 2016 through August 5, 2016. We apologize for any omissions. Page 42 Bernard & Florence Garwin • In memory of Rose Gurewitz Herb & Gretchen Waltzman • in memory of Arthur Waltzman Susan Treshansky • In honor of Sylvia Treshansky & Esther Gould Gladys Bushin • In memory of Albert Rosman Hal & Barbara Horowitz • In honor of Kellye Moses Larry & Tilly Levine • In memory of Moshe Raditi Jodi & Stuart Cohen • On occasion of Sandy Hutto’s special birthday Kenneth Kushner • In memory of Paul Kushner The Pearl Family • In honor of Emily Neufeld and her extraordinary family Susan Novenstern Gloria & Herb Smolinsky Torah Fund Bruce & Mary Jo Pelton • In memory of Blanche Grothman Iris & Marshall Miller Memorial Shiva Fund In memory of Emily Neufeld • Wendy & Charlie Lupul • The Sorsher Family Israel Matters Fund Gertrude Zoller • In memory of Martha Drexler Elliot Kornhauser • In memory of Susan Kornhauser Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In honor of Steve Birch Susan & Steven Goldman • In honor of Charlene & Kenny Zuckerman Leadership Development Fund The Karpf Family • In memory of Lewis H. Karpf Mirsky TBESOC Religious School Scholarship Cynthia & David Mirsky • In memory of Naomi Mirsky Shirley & Lew Einbund Michael & Joyce Rubel • In memory of Shirley Isen Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In honor of Shirley & Lew Einbund • In honor of Amy Packer’s many years of coordinating Red Cross Blood Drives at TBESOC • In honor of Mollie Lazarus’ many years of coordinating Red Cross Blood Drives at TBESOC Prayer Book Fund Abby Rubenstein • In memory of her father, Theodore Scholnick Laurie & Richard Mills • In memory of Julius Rosen Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in Residence Fund Sherri Krause • In honor of Jeff Greer & Keary Gregg’s 34th wedding anniversary • In honor of Shirley & Lew Einbund’s 60th wedding anniversary • In honor of Shirley Einbund’s 80th birthday Cindy & Gil Ross • In honor of Jeff Greer & Keary Gregg’s 34th wedding anniversary • In honor of Lew and Shirley Einbund’s 60th wedding anniversary and Shirley Einbund’s birthday Ronni Cherney • In memory of Jack Cohen Gil & Cindy Ross • In memory of Emily Neufeld Rabbi Kort’s Discretionary Fund Suzy Berns • In memory of Ben Plocker Mollie Lazarus • In memory of Goldge Rudolph Ross & Janine Klein • In memory of Arnold Klein Nadine Asner • In memory of Irwin Henderstein Cynthia & David Mirsky • In memory of Dr. Saul Gilson Cecelia Lance • In memory of Sid Lance Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In memory of Marvin Steingart Jay Greenberg • In memory of Morris Greenberg Avi & Shiffy Crane • In memory of Florence Nachshen Susan & Steven Goldman Aileen & David Shaw • In memory of Murray Moskowitz Raymond Plotkin Campership Fund Stan & Wendy Levin • In memory of Emily Neufeld Sherri Krause • In memory of Emily Neufeld Rabbi K’vod Wieder’s Discretionary Fund Ross & Janine Klein • In memory of Pearl Kline Cecelia Lance • In memory of Harriet Bonner Ina & George Welland • In memory of Faye Klein Albert & Amy Gazzar • In memory of Yosef Elisha • In memory of Elisha Elisha Rob & Kathy DeLiema • In memory of Rose & Sal DeLiema • In memory of Wiliam Present Ledeen Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • For Barbara’s Torah and holiday service honors Susan & Steven Goldman Albert & Amy Gazzar • In memory of Tobias Eliahou Sheldon Eskow & Family • In memory of Roberta Segal Rabbi Levi’s Discretionary Fund Kerry & Paul Boulian • In honor of Rabbi Levi’s lovely service for Paul’s mom Religious School Education Fund Bonni Pomush & Patti Holliday • In honor of Jonathan Ybarra becoming a Bar Mitzvah Jay Greenberg • In memory of Sarah Haskin Thomas and Joyce Tucker • In honor of Jacey Wolf Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • In memory of Brooks Smith Yael Weinberger-Butler • In memory of Emily Neufeld Mojgan Lustig • In memory of Houri Firouzbakhsh Marlene & Dave Beach • In memory of Lillian Greengus Sandy Hutto • In memory of Rose Slutsky The Karpf Family • In memory of Lewis H. Karpf Terry Fierle Full Inclusion Fund Mark & Terry Fierle • To create the Terry Fierle Full Inclusion Fund In honor of Terry Fierle’s retirement • The Kappes Family • Pam Uber • Myka Thompson & family • Barbara Rheingold-Gerlicki • William & Marissa Armstrong • Jeffrey & Lisa Barman • Dan & Jordana Berzansky • Glenn & Susan Bier • Isaac & Laura Buchanan • Robert & Staci Close • Max & Sue DeLiema • Robert & Judy Dreyer • David & Leah Engelberg • Howard & Linda Goldman • Jeff & Dayna Herzt • Darren & Erin Kaplan • Phil Kruger & Miriam Guadiana • Brian & Cindy Leish • Howard & Lainey Mitzman • Pete & Jane Moss • Joel & Amy Packer • James & Melissa Rosen • David & Meredith Silverman • AJ & Erica Simon • Steve & Nikki Spearman • TBE ECC PTO • Vitaly & Galina Vishnevskiretirement • Gil & Claire Winograd Sherri Krause • In memory of Michael, Connie & Walter Hofmann Tzedakah Fund Pete & Jane Moss • In memory of Bill Cherney’s mother • In memory of Gil Ross’ friend Gerry • In honor of Shirley & Lew Einbund’s 60th wedding anniversary • In memory of Emily Neufeld Women’s Retreat Fund Lee Pomush This list includes donations from May 2, 2016 through August 5, 2016. We apologize for any omissions. Page 43 DONORS Many Thanks To Our Donors! (continued) Meetthe MEET THE STAFF Staff ”Being a rabbi is a great privilege, it means being invited into the lives of individuals and communities to help create and shape sacred moments. For me and my rabbinate, serving God in joy means serving the Jewish people in joy, for the sanctity of Judaism lies within the Jewish people.” Rabbi Kort received her Rabbinic Ordination at the Hebrew Union College in New York. She received her MA in Hebrew Literature in May 2009, after receiving a MA in Religious Education the year prior. While earning a BA from NYU in Jewish History and Civilization, she spent a year studying at Hebrew University in Jerusalem. Since 2007, Rabbi Kort has served as a Mandel Fellow, which has provided her with the opportunity for more intense study in vision-driven institutions and leadership. During this time (since 2008), she served as the Rabbinic Intern and Family Educator at the Reform Temple of Forest Hills in Queens, a Legacy Heritage Innovation Project grant recipient similar to us. “I believe that our greatest resource as a Jewish community is community itself.” Rachel Kort, Rabbi K’vod Wieder, Rabbi A native of Orange County, K’vod received his BA in psychology from UC Santa Cruz in 1993 and his MA in Transpersonal Psychology (counseling) from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology in 1996. He completed his rabbinic studies at the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles, and was ordained as a Conservative Rabbi on May 21, 2012. For the last 15 years, K’vod has been teaching classes, leading retreats, and counseling students in meditation, prayer, and creative forms of Jewish spirituality in the United States. He has served as the assistant director of Chochmat HaLev – a Jewish meditation center in Berkeley, program director for Sonoma County Jewish Federation, director of the B’nai Tzedek Teen Philanthropy Program for the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, program director for Elat Chayyim Center of Jewish Spirituality, and trained and interned with Jewish Funds For Justice and One L.A in the area of congregation-based community organizing. In 2001, K’vod created and implemented the first county-wide post-bnai mitzvah program in Sonoma County, and won the Etz Chayyim award for Informal Jewish education at the National Conference for Informal Jewish Education in 2005. He is husband to Ilana Rogel-Wieder and the father of Levi, Aiden, and Aviv. Natalie Young, Cantor Cantor Natalie Young was ordained in 2006 by Hebrew Union College- Jewish Institute of Religion in New York City and has already emerged as an original voice in Jewish music. In addition to working as an accomplished and talented vocalist, guitarist, and pianist, she has composed more than 60 original liturgical and secular works. Her discography includes Carry Me and Natalie Young: Standing on the Shoulders, both albums of original music. Many of her songs have been recorded and performed by other artists as well, and made their way into the hearts and souls of congregations across the country and beyond. Her talents as a singer and songwriter have brought her to perform nationally from Shreveport, Louisiana, to Fairbanks, Alaska, and internationally to places such as Israel, UK, Canada, and Russia. Born and raised in Los Angeles, she graduated from the University of California, Santa Cruz, where she earned a bachelor’s degree in music with a concentration in conducting. Before becoming a cantor, she was in high demand as a song leader, choir director and educator for Jewish youth throughout Southern California. Cantor Young is the recipient of numerous awards, including the 2004 Dr. Joseph Memorial Prize for excellence in composition and the 2005 Guild of Temple Musicians award. Most recently she was a featured composer in the 2013 Shalshelet Music Festival. Cantor Young is thrilled to be a part of the Temple Beth El family and looks forward to continuing to build community through music one person at a time. She is a proud member of the American Conference of Cantors and lives in Irvine, CA with her husband, Rabbi David Young of Congregation B’nai Tzedek in Fountain Valley, and their three children, Gabriel, Alex, and Isabella. Moving Justice to The Center of Our Congregation Your clergy are proud to share that Temple Beth El of South Orange County will join a select group of North American congregations focused on social justice innovation. Temple Beth El of South Orange County is one of 12 Reform congregations in North America selected to participate in the newly formed Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) Community of Practice dedicated to Moving Justice to The Center of Your Congregation. This URJ Community of Practice (CoP) is a congregational networking group for Reform congregations that are seeking to discover new ways to involve their members in effective and rewarding social and racial justice work. The congregations will have the opportunity to work directly with the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism (RAC). The RAC, based in Washington, DC, is the hub of the Reform Movement’s social justice advocacy work. Page 44 Staff Bonni Pomush, Executive Director In January of 2010, Bonni began working at Temple Beth El after moving to the area from Chandler, Arizona. Her resume includes a masters degree in family studies and over 18 years leadership experience. Before finding the joys of working for “her people”, she enjoyed program administration in government agencies (the Kyrene School District, Arizona State University, and the City of Chandler.) Some of the successes of her leadership in large departments with hundreds of employees and multi-million dollar budgets included national accreditation of childcare centers, turning around budgets with deficits into revenue generators, and creating performance based pay systems with multi-class employees. At Temple Beth El, Bonni has held many positions to support our marketing and communications, b’nai mitzvah program, teen leadership, and religious school. She is delighted to continue to serve the congregation she proudly calls her spiritual home. Bonni and her wife, Patti, celebrated their 10th year together with a Jewish wedding at Temple Beth El in 2015. They adore children, but do not plan to have any of their own. Each has committed their career to being of service to the community...with much joy! Carolyn Kappes, Director, Early Childhood Center Carolyn’s 20+ years experience in education began as an elementary school teacher in Anaheim City School District, teaching 2nd to 4th grades. In 2002, she joined the Temple Beth El team, and since then has taught religious school grades Pre-K to Madrichim. Carolyn and her husband, Chris, also own and operate a technical staffing company, for which she has been the accounting/payroll supervisor. Carolyn began her work with the ECC in 2013 as a preschool teacher and simultaneously returned to school to pursue a degree in early childhood administration. She now holds a Bachelors of Arts Degree from Arizona State University, CA Multiple Subject Teaching Credential from Chapman University Graduate School of Education, and an Early Childhood Education Administration certification from Saddleback College. Carolyn and Chris and their three children, Elizabeth, Charlie and Ben, have been members of Temple Beth El for over 15 years, and she is so happy to be working with the ECC students and families in this capacity! Pam Uber, Accounting Manager Pam began working at Temple Beth El in February of 2006. She has a BA in Finance with a concentration in Accounting, and has several years of experience working in the field. Originally from the Cleveland area, she moved to California in 1986, and currently resides in Anaheim Hills. Her son and daughter are both married, and Pam enjoys spending time with them as well as her granddaughter, Claire. Juan Rodriguez, Maintenance Lieutenant In 2003, the temple contracted Facility Services Partners, Incorporated to provide the custodial support for our facility. At that time, Juan was working at SOKA University as Facility Services’ Facilities Engineer, and ever since has been leading the custodial team here at the temple. Juan loves that no two days are the same at Temple Beth El! He does everything from fixing/repairing/maintaining equipment to set ups and clean-ups. Juan and his wife have four children they are raising in Mission Viejo. Myka Thompson, Administrative Assistant Myka Thompson is a Southern California native and the proud mother of two sons, Bryson and Preston. In 2011, she found Temple Beth El as a parent looking for an amazing preschool to place her youngest son. Both the Judaic curriculum and full inclusion program were big draws for Myka. In 2013, an opportunity to join the Early Childhood Center staff arose, and Myka became the face of the temple’s pre-school, greeting families, helping teachers, and working closely with the director to support the needs of the ECC program in its entirety. Starting in 2015, Myka moved into a full-time position with the temple and now supports our wide variety of programs, services and members. She is the go-to person at the temple for everything, and meets every challenge with a bright smile and can-do attitude. When Myka isn’t at the temple, she is enjoying her boys’ many baseball practices and games, or is enjoying quality time with friends and family at the beach. Karol Tran, Communications Coordinator After finishing her BS in Product Design at Art Center College of Design in Pasadena, Karol worked as a graphic designer and marketing coordinator for various corporations before joining the Temple team in 2015. She is the person behind the scenes creating most of the temple’s flyers, banners, and various marketing materials. She loves animals, cooking/baking, and anything art related! A self-described “big nerd at heart”, she also loves cartoons, toys/action figures, sci-fi movies and conventions. In her free time she enjoys spending time with her family, friends, fiance, Brett, and their adorable son, Brett Jr. Page 45 MEET THE STAFF Meetthe IN MEMORIAM In Memoriam September 2/3 Bella Blake, mother of Debra Traub Irene Brass, aunt of Julia Ribak Lawrence Cohen, grandfather of Beth Faskowitz Gerry Covey, father of Richard Covey Sylvia Farber, aunt of Sharon Devor Ben Gibbel, father of Helen Gibbel-Painter Marion Goldfader, grandmother of Michael Goldfader Dorothy Korngold, mother of Wendy Rothenberg Selma Locke, mother of Honey Locke Elizabeth Pomush, grandmother of Bonni Pomush Glenn Rosen*, brother of Laurie Mills Raymond Schatz, father of Miriam Harris Esther Steinsapir, mother of Joan Rubel Joe Tawil*, father of Pia Penzell Rebecca Wall, mother of Nancy Blum Pearl Weinstein*, mother of Sandi Weinstein September 9/10 Taylor Bennell, nephew of Mollie Lazarus Simon Byers, father of Sandra Elliott William Disman*, father of Mark Disman Tabea Elgveta, sister of Pamina Barkow Eleanor Evans, aunt of Miriam Harris Harry Gertz, father of Charlene Zuckerman Sidney Goldschmidt, grandfather of Susan Riesz Ernest Greenthal, father of Melissa Stillman Sheila Hartenstein, mother of Gary Rotter Ruth Inslee, mother of Rosemary Stevens Ada Karver*, mother-in-law of Joan Karver Joseph Neufeld, uncle of George Pollak Ed Paskoff, grandfather of Jody Sandberg Miriam Paskoff, grandmother of Jody Sandberg Paula Pizante, aunt of Gary Rothman George Podorson, father of Alice Schultz Estelle Podorson, mother of Alice Schultz Julius Savlov, father of Gary Savlov Rabbi Steven Schatz, brother of Miriam Harris Sidney Sokol, grandfather of Karen Schindler Theodore Tessell*, father of Linda Kirsch Marlene Traub, mother of Adam Traub Jerome Weinberg, father of Mark Weinberg Dennis Weiss, father of Samantha Flores and husband of Lois Weiss September 16/17 David Bloom, grandfather of Kimberly Gubner Martin Brass*, husband of Ruth Brass Joseph Cirel, father of Deidre Greenberger Seymour Danto, father of Scott Danto Leonard Dreyer, father of Robert Dreyer Max Eis, father of Carole Fels Hyman Glazer, father of Jordan Glazer Nettie Gold*, grandmother of Barbara Goodman Ivan Hill, father of Lisa Fenning Jeff Kincaid, father of Heather Davis Ira Leon, grandparent of Wendy Glatman Charles Levine*, father of Phyllis Blanc Lenord Painter, father of Alan Painter Dorothy Pine, mother of William Pine Floryne Randall, mother of Tami Kennedy Sidney Roth, father of Howard Roth Richard Santell, father of Lisa Cheng Irving Schandling, father of Renee Adler Jerry Sherman, father of Steven Sherman Geraldine Wolf, mother of Steven Wolf Eddie Yudell, father of Cynthia Ross September 23/24 Martin Barnett, father of Jonathan Barnett Sidney Eisenberg, father of Susan Samueli Joe Engle, father of Robin Cohen Israel Gerlicki, father in-law of Barbara Gerlicki Doris Gross, mother of Mark Gross Milton Gross, father of Mark Gross Cornelia Hajnal, grandmother of Natalie Young Joseph Harris, grandfather of Lonnie Tee Jack Kipnis, father of Rochelle Pazornik John Klima, grandfather of Catherine Peck Leslie Knell, mother of Meredith Silverman Josephine Leish, mother of Brian Leish Mary Misemer, sister of Steve Birch Catherine Orrison, mother of Alannah Rosenberg Alma Rosen, mother of Nancy Felsenfeld Gerald Scherer, uncle of Arthur Wiederman Robert Silberling, uncle of Terry Fierle Sylvia Tilove*, mother of David Tilove Lillian Weiss, mother of Andrew Weiss September 30/October 1 Barbara Covey, mother of Richard Covey Jessie Firestone, mother of Jeanne Ruhl Isadore Greenberg, father-in-law of Claire Greenberg Marilyn Jacobson, mother of Deborah Jankowski Jacob Kline, uncle of Avery Schlesenberg Rella Kuhn, grandmother of Larry Kuhn Charles Lazarus, father of stephen Lazarus Benny Lorin*, father of Kenneth Lorin Harry Mark, grandfather of Rikki Landoff Anne Platt, great-grandmother of Dayna Herz Stanley Rosen*, husband of Glenda Rosen Doretta Sherman, mother of Mark Tanner Abraham Silverman*, grandfather of Richard Shulman Margalith Taylor, mother of Michelle Lazerson Murray Weiss, father-in-law of Lois Weiss Ruth Weiss*, mother of David Weiss Jean Yudell, mother of Cynthia Ross October 7/8 Molly Alexander, mother of Sandra Greenberg Sylvia Birnberg, grandmother of Meredith Silverman Barney Bloom, father of David Bloom June Briskin*, mother of Dennis Kite Louis Brownstein, grandfather of Linda Goldman William Bryan, husband of Phoebe Bryan Beatrice Dessal, aunt of Sandra Elliott Jakob Frank, father of Deborah Brown Joanne Grumet, grandmother of Jason Grumet Harriet Kuhn*, mother of Larry Kuhn Esther Levy, mother-in-law of Gerene Levy Michael Lubin, Cousin of Susan Dull and Nephew of Audrey Shieldkret Zakhar Moldavsky, grandfather of Gennady Kolodenker Jack Otchis, husband of Ethel Otchis Rita Pearlman*, mother of Michael Pearlman Rosa Redlich, aunt of Nora Keisman Frankie Riccardi, Nephew of Cindy Greenberg Joseph Riesz, father of Michael Riesz Faye Rose, mother of Marsha Bisheff Edna Rosen, mother of Claire Greenberg Izhak Rubinstein, father of Sheila Rubinstein Shaun Sacks, son of Marc and Judith Sacks Leon Samueli, brother of Henry Samueli Madeline Schwartz, mother of Andrew Schwartz Howard Sheldon, grandfather of H Charton Claire Sherman*, mother of Susan Sherman Isadore Silverman*, brother-in-Law of Marilyn Silverman Rose Silverman*, grandmother of Richard Shulman Betty Stahl, grandmother of Marla Silva Alice Warshaw, grandmother of Linda Goldman Tavous Younessi, grandmother of Eli Marcus Esther Zimmerman, mother of Mel Zimmerman October 14/15 Josephine Arenson, grandmother of Saralyn Wolf Francis Atkins*, father of Lisa Blumstein Barbara Bloomberg, sister of Anita Gold Joseph Fish, father of Natalie Mangini Judith Frank, mother of Deborah Brown Mali Frankel, mother of Susan Goldman Abraham Friedman, father of Miles Friedman Irving Goldman, father of Howard Goldman Bertha Greenfield, grandmother of Ruth Blumenfeld Barbara Hahn, Relative of Teena Robinson Michael Horan*, husband of Allyn JaffreyShulman Abraham Keisman, father of Victor Keisman David Knell, grandfather of Meredith Silverman Rabbi Fred Krinsky, father of David Krinsky “May their memories be for a blessing.” Yahrzeits are observed at the Shabbat Service that falls on or before the anniversary dates. * / ** In loving memory, a light will be lit on the Temple’s Memorial Board (* rotunda, ** chapel) Page 46 In Memoriam (continued) Clement Politis, nephew of Fortunee Tawil David Reisch**, father of Tamar Salis Marjorie Rice, mother of Rochelle Zagalsky William Robinson, father of Lois Weiss Morse Rosenblum, father of Patricia Bloom Elaine Rubel**, mother of Michael Rubel Nate Sacks, father of Marc Sacks Stanley Sacks*, husband of Lucille Sacks Norman Segal, father-in-law of Sheldon Eskow Pauline Shapiro*, mother of Flo Barker Sanford Silverman, father of Cari Upchurch Estelle Stern, mother of Paul Stern Judith Trocke, mother of Sharon Schramer Betty Vieux, grandmother of Barry Kriegstein Jerome Waiman, grandfather of Jill Klein and father of Helen Rasner Ruth Warshaw**, mother of Linda Goldman Paul Zimmerman, father of Mel Zimmerman October 21/22 David Allame, father of Eleanor Cohen Enid Berman, mother of Ronald Berman Rosalie Block, cousin of Claire Stein Dorthy Boulian, mother of Paul Boulian Roger Dull, brother of David Dull Henry Glickman, father of Anita Gold Anna Goldschmidt, grandmother of Susan Riesz Jack Goldstein*, father of Rob Goldstein Arthur Greenfield*, husband of Sue Greenfield, father of Carolyn Kappes Arnold Hahn*, husband of Teena Robinson Richard Howard, uncle of Claire Stein Bernardo Keisman, brother of Victor Keisman Lydia Kirsch*, mother of Arthur Kirsch Phillip Leibson, father of Norman Leibson Louis Levy, father-in-law of Gerene Levy Marshall Meyer Ben Yitzhak, father of Robin Ijams Sarah Mintz, mother-in-law of Annie Mintz Fanny Muller de Keisman, mother of Victor Keisman Arnie Press, uncle of Sharon Devor Rhea Rappaport, grandmother of Penny Tee Marcus Ribak, father of Charles Ribak S. Allan Roof*, father of Rob Roof Sidney Schindler, father of Paul Schindler Jeffrey Stern*, father of Kymberly Spector Eytan Talby, father of Nitza Talby Esther Tann Soble, mother of Linda Danto Joseph Tanner, father of Mark Tanner Helen Visnov*, mother of Bev Kritzstein November 4/5 Marvin Banks, father of Caryn Chernin Douglas Bendell, brother of Mollie Lazarus Sol Brown, father of Dennis Brown Louis Dortort, father of Suzanne Glantz Robert Elliott, husband of Sandra Elliott Rose Felsenfeld, grandmother of Robert Felsenfeld Stanley Finkelstein, remembered by Lewis Finkelstein Rita Gecht*, mother of Ellen Bornstein Franklin Gold*, father of Kerry and Kathie Gold Leah Goldberg, mother of Dan Goldberg Morris Goldberg, grandfather of Sharon Devor Leonard Golkin, father of Randie Golkin George Gorvine, father of Sharon Manko Fred Hochberg, father of Leslie Hochberg Bradley Isen**, brother of Bruce Isen Martin Joel, brother of Ruth Blumenfeld Hermina Katz, mother of Mildred Levine Josephine Kessler, sister of Lionel Simons Roger Lee Levi, father of Peter Levi David Malk, father of Kimberly Cherney Jennie Manson, mother of Michael Manson Edith Meyer, mother of Virginia Sotolov Flora Naglie, mother of Ronald Naglie David Reisch**, brother of Sidney Reisch Esther Ripps*, aunt of Glenda Rosen Louis Rosen, father-in-law of Glenda Rosen Russell Schwartzman*, husband of Rita Schwartzman Israel Shadkin, grandfather of Fay Zeramby Arthur Shapiro, uncle of Brad Shapiro Benjamin Sloan, father-in-law of Pauline Sloan Nathan Spiegelman**, father of Charna Cone Bessie Stein*, mother of Arnold Stein Malcolm Warner, father of April Wachtenheim Joseph Weisberg, father of Jacob Weisberg October 28/29 Sherry Berns, daugher of Melford and Suzan Berns Louis Bleeman, father in Law of Ira Manesse Glenn Church II, father of Mary Church Richard Davis, loved one of Henrietta Henderstein Lewis Friend, brother of Sunny Mandel Ann Gibbs, mother of Timothy Gibbs Joseph Gordon*, father of Marvin Gordon Laverne Grant, mother of Linda Stein Violet Olin, mother of Sherry Mencher November 11/12 Michael Brager, father of Daniel Brager Leonore Crane*, mother of Avi and Shiffra Crane Giselle Dortort, mother of Suzanne Glantz Mildred Glass, mother of Mel Glass Herbert Goldman, father of Rochelle Rotter Dorothy Greenberg, mother-in-law of Claire Greenberg Esther Harris, mother of Arlene Holtzman Lionel Hillburn*, father of David Hillburn Sidney Horwitz, brother-in-law of Harvey Kramer Jose Ines, father of Gilberto Ines Mildred Kartzinel**, grandmother of Heather Kartzinel Barbara Kohn, mother of Cindy Greenberg Esther Lertzman, grandmother of Susan Samueli Murray Levine**, father of Joel Levine Miriam Manko, mother of Jerry Manko Ann Miller, mother of Stuart Wolfe Herman Nadel, great-grandfather of Jason Grumet Richard Penkava, father of Richard Penkava Raymond Plotkin*, Nephew of Phyllis Blanc Richard Robechek, father of Lori Covey Hyman Rubin, father of Susan Treshansky Armin Sadoff, father of Laura Gramling Herman Salz, uncle of Paulina Pollak Jean Schatz, mother of Miriam Harris Anna Shapiro, grandmother of Beth Faskowitz Arnold Silva, father of Marla Silva Marian Solomon, mother-in-law of Sherri Krause Harry Spiegel, father of Marc Spiegel Nettie Spiegelman**, mother of Charna Cone Sidney Sternberg, father of Ellen Prince Millie Stewart, mother of Kellye Moses Lillian Swack, remembered by Barbara Lebovitz Frances Tomovich, mother of Nicholas Tomovich Louis Wohl**, husband of Beatrice Wohl, father of Evan Wohl Bert Wollkind, father of Alan Wollkind Ruth Wolotsky, mother of Paul Wolotsky Jack Zoller, father-in-law of Gertrude Zoller November 18/19 Maury Amdur, step-father of Julie Ficke Sarah Axelrod*, grandmother of Shirley Einbund and great grandmother of Karen Gray Leon Bornstein*, father of Irwin Bornstein Marjorie Brager, mother of Daniel Brager Belle Cherney, mother of Steve Cherney Charles Engler, father of Neal Engler Sylvia Freedman**, mother of Bernard Freedman Al Grumet, grandfather of Jason Grumet Hubert Hutson, father of Gerene Levy Sol Joel, father of Ruth Blumenfeld Harvey Konheim, father of Jon Konheim Harry Kritzstein, father of Sid Kritzstein Selma Levine**, mother of Larry Levine Scott Moss, father of Pete Moss Daniel Nash, brother of Evelyn Nash Sarah Neiman, aunt of Nora Keisman Leslie Olin, niece of Sherry Mencher “May their memories be for a blessing.” Yahrzeits are observed at the Shabbat Service that falls on or before the anniversary dates. * / ** In loving memory, a light will be lit on the Temple’s Memorial Board (* rotunda, ** chapel) Page 47 IN MEMORIAM William Kurzman, brother of Stanley Levy Bernard Modelevsky, father of Herbert Modelevsky Morris Osen, father of Claire Greenberg Claire Reisner, mother of Jeffrey Reisner Sandra Roth, mother of Mary Church Herbert Sandler, father of Frances Gale Paul Schur, father of Jody Margolis Charlotte Siegenfeld, grandmother of Adam Neufeld Stan Silverstein, father of Mark Silverstein Esther Steiglitz*, sister-in-law of Marilyn Silverman Juan Tabachnick, brother-in-law of Victor Keisman Ben Wafel, father-in-law of Gale Schlesinger Carl Weinberger, father of Wendy Schwartz Harold Weiss**, father of Allan Weiss Curt Zoller, husband of Gertrude Zoller IN MEMORIAM In Memoriam (continued) Eileen Paris, mother of Jodi Oz Tillie Pollack, mother of Judith Schneyer Ruby Reicher*, grandfather of Jodie Reinharz Ida Rosen, mother of Arthur Rosen Jerry Rudman, father of Alane Dolensky Louis Shane, father of Barbara Shane Jerry Sherwin, father of Gary Sherwin Abram Silverman*, father-in-law of Marilyn Silverman Sol Sloan*, husband of Pauline Sloan Donna Tatel, mother of Jake Tatel Aaron Treshansky, father-in-law of Susan Treshansky Louis Wayne, father of Sharon Naiman Eleanor Weintraub, mother of Anne Weintraub Larry Weintraub, father of Jerry Weintraub November 25/26 Lynne Arkin*, aunt of Susan Dull and sister of Audrey Shieldkret Stella Barr, aunt of Barbara Queen Jack Cohen*, father of Lee Barker Samuel friend, brother of Sunny Mandel Daniel Garbatow, husband of Marion Garbatow Alex Genson, father of Lisa Pine Charles Goldman, grandfather of Jodi Oz Shirley Handman, mother of Sam Hahn Al Hechinger, step-father of Lori Harris Shahnaz Helfer, sister of Mojgan Lustig Eve Hellman, great-grandmother of Debra Kulick Morris Hoffman, grandfather of Beth Faskowitz Solomon Igolnikov, brother of Yury Igolnikov Melvin Jacobson, father of Deborah Jankowski Ada Kirschenbaum*, mother of Allen and Joan Kirschenbaum Lillian Lasher, mother of Christina Freedman Janice Lazerson*, mother of Jeff Lazerson JoAnn Margolis**, 1st wife of Myron Margolis Alice McCallum, grandmother of Alyssa Finkelstein Israel Nachshen*, father of Shiffra Crane, father-in-law of Avi Crane Dorothy Nathanson, mother of Ivan Nathanson Ida Pollack, mother of Muriel Sachs Sarah Rosoff, remembered by Kathy DeLiema Aron Samueli, father of Henry Samueli Natti Schacht, aunt of Ken Moses Ellen Schlesinger, sister of Gale Schlesinger Morris Swirin*, step-father of Linda Kirsch Joseph Weinberg*, brother of Shirley Einbund Lorraine Wyler, aunt of Robin Brandes-Gibbs Margaret Zoller, mother-in-law of Gertrude Zoller Samuel Zuckerman, father of Sol Zuckerman Decemeber 2/3 Theodore Asner*, father of Bart Asner Randy Binder, son of Ann Binder Ellis Bloom, father of Jerome Bloom Lawrence Bonin*, father of Sharon Pratt stephen Coblens, brother of Carrie Chotiner Isabel Cohen, Beloved friend of Jeri Leibson Diane Cramin, mother of Corey Cramin Joseph Dunne, father of Peter Dunne Louis Ershler, grandfather of Miriam Harris Esther Feldman, grandmother of Sharri Coker Raylee Fenning*, mother of Alan Fenning William Horwitz, brother-in-law of Harvey Kramer Julius Korn, father of Lori Koff Sherri Landsman, sister of Lori Lazerson Bennett Leemon, brother of Stan Leemon Harold Levin, father of Alan Levin Abraham Malk, grandfather of Kimberly Cherney Jack Pearlman, father of Sherri Weisinger Dalia Roditi, mother of Tilly Levine Laura Rogovin*, grandmother of Susan Dull & mother of Audrey Shieldkret Sadie Rosen, grandmother of Laurie Mills Florence Salz*, mother of Paulina Pollak Faye Schacht, grandmother of Ken Moses Ginny Schecter-Weisberg*, mother of Terry Hanna Ginny Schecter-Weisberg*, wife of Jacob Weisberg Mae Schubb*, aunt of Sue Greenfield and great aunt of Carolyn Kappes Stanley Simon*, father of Robert Simon Lucille Tee, mother of Lonnie Tee December 9/10 Howard Bachrach, father of Kenneth Bachrach Tobey Balaban, father of Richard Balaban Bobbi Cherry, mother of Roxanne Cherry Bea Eisman, aunt of Sharon Devor Eleanor Finkel, mother of Marilyn Brody Pesia Igolnikov, mother of Yury Igolnikov Herbert Israel, father of Susan Wollkind Jess Katzberg, grandfather of Michael Rubin Reuben Kershaw, husband of Norma Kershaw Alex Kirsch*, father of Arthur Kirsch Juliet Levin, mother of Stan Levin Janice Lipsitz, aunt of Linda Lander Doris Lyman, mother of Gretchen Waltzman Irving Marshack, father of Richard Marshack Dr. Daniel Nachshen*, brother of Shiffra Crane Elizabeth Neil, grandmother of Kimberly Cherney Edith Podbere, grandmother of Susanna Wolfe Abraham Rogovin*, grandfather of Susan Dull and father of Audrey Shieldkret Sidney Salkin, grandfather of Andrew Greber Celia Shadkin, grandmother of Fay Zeramby Eli Shapiro*, father of Brad Shapiro James Whaley, father of Mark Whaley Milton Wolfson, father of Sharon Wolfson Pauline Zuckerman, mother of Sol Zuckerman Roslyn Zuckerman, wife of Sol Zuckerman Decmeber 16/17 Rose Berkowitz, mother of Marion Garbatow Marcos Bonder, father of Nora Keisman Harry Cherney, father of Steve Cherney Brian Day*, fiance of Mary Church Sanford Feld, father of James Feld Christopher Gibney, Nephew of Kathleen Gibney Barton Glaser**, father of Leslie Tatel Ida Glazer, mother of Jordan Glazer Sara Gordon*, mother of Marvin Gordon Rose Grumet, great-grandmother of Jason Grumet Sigmund Gubner, grandfather of Adam Gubner Joe Isen, father of Michael Isen Lois Jankowski, mother of Raymond Jankowski Rosalind Kirby, mother of Neal Kirby David Mintz, father-in-law of Annie Mintz Reba Mogilkin, great aunt of Howard Landman Miriam Newman, friend of Linda Lander Maxine Plotkin, mother of Suzanne Young Hilda Reichman, grandmother of Debra Traub Pauline Reisch**, sister-in-law of Sidney Reisch and mother of Tamar Salis Charles Rosoff, of Kathy DeLiema Jack Rubenstein, father of Paul Rubenstein Murray Schenker, husband of Mahin Schenker, father of Rebecca Schenker and Sara Marcus and Miriam Ohana Burton Schuster**, remembered by Beatrice Saphra Amy Shapin, daughter of Audrey Shapin Barbara Stein, mother of Martin Stein Esther Stein*, mother of Sue Greenfield, grandmother of Carolyn Kappes Leah Stivelman, grandmother of Marc Spiegel December 23/24 Jack Amber*, father of Jeri Leibson Bella Bassin, mother of Sharon Diskin, mother of Sheldon Eskow Ethel Fischer, grandmother of Howard Landman Louis Freeman, father of Elaine Rosen Max Galatz, father of Pauline Sloan Andy Goldscheid, brother-In-Law of Marcie Howard Molly Hersch*, mother of Barbara Queen Charles Jassen, uncle of Marcie Howard Bernard Karver*, husband of Joan Karver Norman Lesman, husband of Rita Lesman Herbert Lockwood, father of Lida Gerenraich Sam Lustig, grandfather of Mojgan Lustig Martin Moldawsky, father of Rich Moldawsky Tillie Nahan, grandmother of Betty Drader Rodney Petroff, father of Cindy Needleman Joey Rosenbaum*, son of Daniel and Laura Rosenbaum Jane Salcer**, mother of Caryl Stein Saul Schacht, grandfather of Ken Moses Samuel Schultz, father of Donald Schultz Karen Spivack, wife of David Spivack Harold Storch, father of Deborah Hallgarten “May their memories be for a blessing.” Yahrzeits are observed at the Shabbat Service that falls on or before the anniversary dates. * / ** In loving memory, a light will be lit on the Temple’s Memorial Board (* rotunda, ** chapel) Page 48 In Memoriam (continued) Decmeber 30/31 Rebecca Berns, daughter of Melford and Suzan Berns Sarah Cole, mother in law of Robert Morris Raymond Cone**, father of Joel Cone Gloria Freedman, mother of Sandra Rothberg Irving Friedman, father of Nancy Joseph Dave Gelman, loved one of Jerold Lazerson Janet Gelman, loved one of Jerold Lazerson Odette Glueck, grandmother of Stewart Weston Lester Goldman, father of Steven Goldman Brenda Gottlieb, mother of Michael Collins Bertha Greenberg, mother of Allan Greenberg Jay Grossman, friend of Joan Kirschenbaum George Kappes*, father of Chris Kappes Steven Kaufman, brother of Bruce Kaufman Emanuel Kornhauser, father of Elliott Kornhauser Steven Leibovitz, father of Adam Leibovitz Bernice Leon, grandparent of Wendy Glatman William Lewis, husband of Sandi Brager Anita Malk, mother of Kimberly Cherney Harvey Margolis**, brother of Myron Margolis Jerome Mirsky*, father of David Mirsky Joyce Morris, wife of Robert Morris Edward Olitsky*, father of Steven Olitsky Abraham Sachs, father-in-law of Muriel Sachs Samuel Silverman*, brother-in-law of Marilyn Silverman Ethel Sommer, grandmother of Terry Hanna Harold Steingold, father of Ruth Levi Marcia Sterns, mother of Daniel Sterns Joyce Wagner, mother of Steve Wagner Frances Waltzman, mother of Herbert Waltzman Belle Weintraub, mother of Jerry Weintraub Mildred Wexler*, sister-in-law of Marilyn Silverman “May their memories be for a blessing.” Yahrzeits are observed at the Shabbat Service that falls on or before the anniversary dates. * / ** In loving memory, a light will be lit on the Temple’s Memorial Board (* rotunda, ** chapel) Our Condolences to... Dennis Kite and family on the loss of his brother, William Briskin Michael Isen and family on the loss of his mother, Shirley Isen Joe Kaufman and family on the loss of his mother, Ilene Kaufman Lois Wilson and family on the loss of her mother, Susan Pardo John Scher and family on the loss of his father, Barry Scher Larry Kuhn and family on the loss of his wife, Debbi Kuhn Debra & Elliot Sternberg and family on the loss of their son, Brian Sternberg David Young and family on the loss of his grandmother, Jennie Miller Kathy Pearlman and family on the loss of her mother, Mary Williams Izzi and Adam Neufeld on the loss of their daughter & Ally & Rachael Neufeld on the loss of their sister, Emily Neufeld wishing a full & speedy recovery to... n e k c i Ch Soup Jeff Koff Mary Leavitt Sherry Mencher Elaine & Sid Reisch Anita Silver Karen Skirvin Polly Sloan Jake Tatel Sue Treshansky Page 49 IN MEMORIAM Rose Stowe, great-grandmother of Patricia Holliday William Tatel, father of Jake Tatel Albert Wendruck*, father of Julia Ribak Ethel Widisky, aunt of Fay Zeramby Al Yellen, father of Gay Rams MORE FROM THE CLERGY MORE FROM THE CLERGY Rabbi Kort continued from page 1 Rabbi K’vod continued from page 1 Our daily liturgy also highlights the value that “all of Israel are responsible for each other.” The Eilu D’varim prayer that we recite in our morning service describes our “obligations without measure.” “Eilu d’varim…These are things that are limitless, of which a person enjoys the fruits of the world, while the principle remains in the world to come. They are: honoring one’s parents,engaging in deeds of compassion, arriving early for study…dealing graciously with guests, visiting the sick, rejoicing with the wedding couple, accompanying the dead for burial,being devoted in prayer,and making peace among people.” other side. As a result, we aren’t able to fulfill our full potential and engage life most fully, because our lives and choices don’t reflect the deep truth of which we are part. Note that seven of these nine obligations describe our responsibility towards other human beings. The prayer concludes, “The study of Torah encompasses them all.” In other words, the essence of Torah is all about our relationships with other people. While our confessional prayers for the High Holy Days and the daily prayer of Eilu D’varim both highlight our responsibility towards one another, the affirmative language of Eilu D’varim reminds us that relationships and community do not just happen, but we as individuals must work to create a community. The actions described in the Eilu D’varim, honoring older generations, being compassionate, welcoming, celebrating, caring, and supporting, all help build community. Dedication to the study and pursuit of Torah and being a community that expresses our relationship with God through prayer help shape a uniquely Jewish community. This year, as Temple Beth El focuses on strengthening our community, I invite you to not just reflect upon past behavior this High Holy Day season with regard to your participation in community. Let’s take the opportunity of the New Year to think about ways we can help build our community. The obligations described in Eilu D’varim can serve as our inspiration. Consider becoming involved in our Hineinu Caring Committee, attending an adult education class, or attending Shabbat services to help create a prayerful space, a space of celebrating, and a space for mourners in our community to recite Kaddish. “All of Israel are responsible for each other-Kol yisrael arevim zeh bazeh.” In this New Year, let us rejoice in our responsibility for each other. Building sacred relationships is really the process of opening up more fully to the Divine Presence in our existing relationships and exploring how our choices, communication, and activities with each other can make that awareness a • reality. This year at Temple Beth El, we will actualize this primary focus of building sacred relationships through a six week exploration in small groups. You can read more about this congregationwide activity on page 10. Each week will be an exploration of the different set of relationships that we are a part, and how to create a space for the Sacred to enter. Our Jewish tradition uses the language of “Covenant” or Brit to speak about sacred relationship. Whether speaking about God’s relationship with Abraham, Moses, or the people Israel, there is a mutual commitment to each other that reflects the deep reality of the connection. During the six weeks, we’ll explore Jewish wisdom and have authentic conversations about self-respect and a personal relationship with God. We’ll examine what it means to be part of Am Yisrael – the Jewish people, and how we can expand our circles of connection to grow from diverse relationships in the wide world. And we will discover how our listening and speaking can open doors between those that we love and care for, instead of building walls. As your clergy, we want Temple Beth El to be a place where we can grow together in becoming the best people we can be and how we can engage life most fully. We know that because we are inextricably connected. the only way we can take this journey is together. Page 50 CLERGY CORNER Continued.... Cantor Natalie continued from page 1 into Judaism. Some of as are born into it, some chose it later in life, some of us truly wrestle with our connection, some of us may not be Jewish but are connected to someone who is. Each of us is an important voice in our collective story. I had the honor of helping lead the Women’s Retreat this past spring. Over the course of the weekend, many personal journeys were shared which I turned into an original play entitled “One Voice”. What came through the weaving of everyone’s personal narratives is that while each of us brings our own voice to the communities of which we are a part, it is the weaving together of our stories that make us the vibrant community we are. There are many truths in the stories of others that can help us glean wisdom and perspective. Each day when we chant through our Amidah, our standing prayer, we call on God… God of our fathers and mothers; God of Abraham, God of Isaac, and God of Jacob; God of Sarah, God of Rebecca, God of Rachel, and God of Leah. Each of our ancestors had their own unique connection to God and their own story. They were each a distinct link in the chain of our tradition. We are those next links, no less important than those who came before us. While we each journey forward, exploring new parts of ourselves and our community, we must not forget where we have come from. What came before is an important part of our story and our sharing with others is a way for us to build relationships. september 2016 Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday 1 4 5 6 7pm Spiritual Preparation for High Holy Days 11 9am Chicken Soup for the Silver Soul 4pm Tzedakah Board 12 4:30pm Hebrew School 18 25 7 Friday 2 5pm Prospective Member Shabbat 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey Saturday 3 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Chloe Berg Bat Mitzvah 8 9 9:30am Men’s 7:30pm Shabbat Club breakfast Services 2pm Cooking for Connection 10 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace 13 14 11:30am Daytime Book 7pm People of Club the Book 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 15 16 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service 17 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 19 4:30pm Hebrew School 20 11am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 21 22 23 7:30pm Shabbat Services 24 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 26 11:30am TBE Connections 4:30pm Hebrew 7pm Havurat Tzedek 27 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 28 7pm Maps of Reality Page 51 29 30 7:30pm Shabbat Service october 2016 Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 1 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 2 Erev Rosh Hashanah 5pm Erev Rosh Hashanah Multigenerational Service 7:30pm Conservative Erev Rosh Hashanah Service 7:30pm Reform Erev Rosh Hashanah Service 3 Rosh Hashanah Day I 8am Rosh Hashanah Services 10am Rosh Hashanah 12:30pm Apples & Honey Event 2pm Tot Service 4pm Tashlich at Dana Point Harbor 4 Rosh Hashanah Day 2 NO Hebrew School 8am Rosh Hashanah Services 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 5 7pm People of the Book 6 2pm Cooking for Connection 7 No Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey 8 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 9 1pm Mitzvahs & More Expo (at the JCC) 10 11 Erev Yom Kippur 5pm Kol Nidre Multigenerational Services 6:30pm Adult Hebrew Class 7:30pm Kol Nidre Conservative Service 7:30pm Kol Nidre Reform Service 12 Yom Kippur 8:30am Conservative Services 10am Reform Service 2pm Tot Service (See pg. 8 for full schedule) 13 9:30am Men’s Club Breakfast 14 7:30pm Shabbat Services 15 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Danielle Bloom Bat Mitzvah 16 Erev Sukkot 17 Sukkot Day 1 9:30am Sukkot Day I Service 4:30pm Hebrew School 4:30pm Hebrew School with Sukkot celebration 18 Sukkot Day 2 9:30am Sukkot Day 2 Service at Heritage Pointe 1:30am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 19 Sukkot Day 3 20 Sukkot Day 4 21 Sukkot Day 5 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Special Sukkot Shabbat (w/ECC & Shabbat Chai) & Band of Milk & Honey 7pm Shabbat Dinner 22 Sukkot Day 6 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 23 Hoshana Rabbal Erev Shemini Atzeret 2pm Sisterhood in the Sukkah BESTY Pool Party 24 Shemini Atzeret/Erev Simchat Torah All day Temple Offices & Schools Closed (see services schedule pg. 9) 25 Simchat Torah 9:30am Simchat Torah Services (off site) 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 26 27 28 7:30pm Shabbat Service 29 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service and Raphaela Levi Bat Mitzvah 30 31 Page 52 november 2016 Sunday 6 4pm BESTY & Tzedakah Board Monday 7 4:30pm Hebrew School Tuesday Wednesday Saturday 2 3 7pm Paint & Wine Event 4 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey 5 9am Torah Study 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspacce 7pm New Member Dessert Reception & Havdalah 8 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult Education Class: Bikkur Holim 9 7pm People of the Book 10 9:30am Men’s Club Breakfast 2pm Cooking for Connection 11 7pm 2nd Shabbat Special Program Honoring Veterans with the Choir and Special guests 12 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 9pm BESTY Broomball Sleepover 15 11am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 16 7pm People of the Book 17 18 19 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 7pm OC Mega Challah Bake 14 4:30pm Hebrew School 20 10am Kochavim 21 22 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 23 28 4:30pm Hebrew School 7pm Havurat Tzedek 29 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 30 7pm Dr. Hoy Workshop 27 Friday 1 11:30am TBE Connections 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 13 12am BESTY Broomball Sleepover Time TBD Interfaith Thanksgiving Program Thursday NO Shabbat Chai 6pm Shabbat Service 24 Page 53 25 All day Temple Offices & Schools Closed: Thanksgiving 7:30pm Shabbat Service 26 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service december 2016 Sunday Monday 4 4:30pm BESTY & Tzedakah Board 5 11 2pm BE Sisters Tea 3pm BE Sisters Fashion Show 4pm Tzedakah Board Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 1 2 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholarin-Residence 3 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholarin-Residence 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace 7:30pm Havdalah & Dessert Reception 8pm & the Rabbi Allen Krause Scholar-in-Residence 8 9 9:30am Men’s Club Breakfast 2pm Cooking for Connection 6pm Shabbat Service 10 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 7:30pm BESTY Club Night 6 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7 12 8am ECC Boutique 4:30pm Hebrew School 13 11:30am TBE Connections Luncheon 11:30am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 14 7pm Mini-Mussar Workshop 7pm People of the Book 15 16 4pm 6th Grade Retreat 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service 17 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 9:30am 6th Grade B’nai Mitzvah Retreat 18 19 20 11am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 21 22 23 7:30pm Shabbat Service 24 Chanukah 1st candle 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 25 Chanukah 2nd candle 26 Chanukah 3rd candle 27 Chanukah 4th candle 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 28 Chanukah 5th candle 29 Chanukah 6th 30 Chanukah 7th candle candle 7:30pm Hanukkah Shabbat Service Temple Offices & Schools Closed Page 54 7pm Shabbat Dinner with Small Group Initiative 31 Chanukah 8th candle 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service january 2017 Sunday 1 New Year’s Day Monday 2 New Year’s Day Observed Tuesday 3 Wednesday 4 Thursday 5 Friday 6 4pm Shabbat Chai 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services with the Band of Milk & Honey 7 12 13 9:30am Men’s Club Breakfast 2pm Cooking for Connection 7pm 2nd Shabbat Special Program 14 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service & Sophia Roye Bat Mitzvah Temple Offices & Schools Closed 8 4:30pm BESTY & Tzedakah Board 9 4:30pm Hebrew School 10 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 15 16 Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Temple Offices & Schools Closed NO Hebrew School 17 18 11:30am Daytime Book Club 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 19 20 6pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service 22 4pm Tzedakah Board 23 4:30pm Hebrew School 7pm Havurat Tzedek 24 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 25 26 27 29 30 4:30pm Hebrew School 31 6:30pm Refuat HaNefesh Minyan 7:30pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 11 7pm People of the Book Page 55 Saturday 8:45am Exploring Jewish Prayer 9am Torah Study 9:30am Jerusalem Shabbat 10:30am Tot Shabbat Playspace 21 9am Torah Study 9:15am Conservative Service 10am Reform Service & Amy Sorsher Bat Mitzvah 7pm Comedy Night 28 9am Torah Study 6pm Shabbat Service 9:15am Honoring Volunteers & Conservative Service 10am Reform Shining Lights Shabbat Service & Alex & Danielle 7pm Shabbat Dinner Bussell B’nai Mitzvah Temple Beth 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