Go Gay Hawaii
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Go Gay Hawaii
H A W A I ’I ’S L G B T R E S O U R C E G U I D E TM HAWAII Covering Hawai’i from A to Z 2 0 1 2 www.gogayhawaii.com Get On Board! Going on a cruise? Thinking about taking one in the future? MeetMeOnBoard makes it easy to connect with other gay and lesbian travelers before your trip. Sign-up for free and start meeting other sailors today! RF getty- 131993911 The Perfect Escape is Better when Shared. Sheraton Waikiki is where couples gather. Create special memories with your partner at our towering resort on world-famous Waik¯k¯ Beach. Indulge in contemporary comforts, innovative amenities, world-class dining and endless activities. Pamper yourself and truly enjoy a refreshing getaway. For more information, visit sheraton-waikiki.com or call 1-866-716-8140 ©2011 Starwood Hotels & Resorts Worldwide, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Sheraton and its logo are the trademarks of Starwood Hotels & Resorts Worldwide, Inc., or its affiliates. AQUA Beach Boutique Hotels HOTELS AS DIVERSE AS OUR GUESTS ® CONTENTS GOGAYHAWAII.COM WAIKIKI | MAUI | KAUAI | MOLOKAI | LANAI HAWAII TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) 4 5 6 16 20 24 34 38 46 50 52 58 Staff and Contributors From Our Publisher Welcome From Our Elected Representatives Welcome to Hawai’i Island Royalty Civil Unions in Hawai’i Island Romance My Hawai’i Adventure Calendar of Events 2012 Business Directory Kaua’i O’ahu 76 82 88 102 110 Moloka’i Lana’i Maui Big Island Hawai’i Index to Advertisers www.AquaGayTravel.com BOUTIQUE beach amenities, stylish rooms, excellent value RESORT lifestyle services without the luxury price tag LITE best bet for your budget Book online at www.AquaGayTravel.com or call 1.866.406.2782 facebook.com/aquahotels @aquahotels flickr.com/photos/aquaresorts From left to right: Jason Posey, Contributor Michael McFall, Publisher Matthew Majors, Administravite Assistant FROM OUR PUBLISHER STAFF AND CONTRIBUTORS PUBLISHER CONTRIBUTORS Michael McFall MC Publishing, Inc. P.O. Box 45243 Phoenix, AZ 85064 Jason E. Posey Gary Bradley Michael Waddell PHOTOGRAPHY STAFF Michael McFall President and CEO Matthew Majors Administrative Assistant David J. Mendez Design & Production Michael McFall Publisher Hawaii Tourism Authority Hawaii Visitors & Convention Bureau Michael McFall Jason E. Posey Matthew Majors Kelli Bullock Photography Tim Lara Wade Holmes Kevin Rebelo Darren Keala ALOHA! It is with great pihoihoi and ha’aheo (excitement and pride) that I welcome you to the introductory 2012 Hawai’i Pride Guide Edition. The Pride Guide family started seven years ago with its first publication in Arizona. The Pride Guides are the only guides of this type in the country. The Pride Guide concept has been so welcomed that I am especially proud to provide this total LGBT resource… the most comprehensive travel, relocation and wedding listings to the Aloha State, also known as the Rainbow and Pineapple State. We are very proud to be the first LGBT publication to promote Hawaii as a travel & wedding desitation on the mainland and endorsed by Hawai’i Governor Neil Abercrombie. As of January 1st, 2012 Civil Unions became legal for Gay & Lesbian couples which is estimated to bring in over 54 million dollars in to the state’s economy in the next four years. The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender visitors will find a safe and welcoming environment. While experiencing a warm sunny climate year-round, you will enjoy world-class cultural attractions and festivals, recreational adventure, breathtaking scenery, incredible dining, and unique shopping opportunities. This guide will help plan your vacation, honeymoon or wedding. We are a publication that values being part of the community and are proud to show off Hawaii and its LGBT community as never before. Just as important, we are an asset to local businesses and municipalities as they attract LGBT visitors and new residents to this beautiful area of our country. Advertisers in the Hawaii Pride Guide and our sister websites www.GoGayHawaii.com , are from many segments of Hawai’i’s diverse community and welcome LGBT people into their businesses and organizations. Hawaii Pride Guide and www.GoGayHawaii.com are not responsible for claims made by advertisers or for typographical errors and reserve the right to reject any advertisement submitted. The Hawaii Pride Guide is distributed statewide and some strategically selected national and international distribution. Copies of the Hawaii Pride Guide may be ordered by mail. Send a $6.95 US check or money order to cover postage and handling to: Hawaii Pride Guide, PO Box 45243, Phoenix, AZ 85064, USA Hawaii Pride Guide, The Pride Guides, and www.GoGayHawaii.com © copyright 2006-2012, MC Publishing Inc. All Rights Reserved. Reproduction in part or in whole of this publication and the www.GoGayHawaii.com web site are strictly forbidden. Cover Photo: Kelli Bullock Photography, See our ad on page 71 Thank you to our models. Cover:Mark Pralle, William Blotsky. P. 17: Merima Halilovic,Lee Kehaulani Harper, Moana Caroline Aluli Meyer, Marjery Shadiya Doescher, Mahina Taglief, P. 18: Shade Vaughn, Jacquelyn Baumgartner, Liane Fu, Dani Ulmann. P. 19: Scott MacGowan, Scott Larimer, Gary Bradley, Paul Perry, Bailey the Beagle, Javier Garrido, Ryan Alcantera (RIO). FOR ADVERTISING INFORMATION, CALL TOLL FREE: 888-830-3022, OR EMAIL [email protected]. Many thanks to you all! Mahalo nui ia ‘oukou! Michael McFall, Publisher W W W . G O G AY H A W A I I . C O M 4 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 welcom e our publish er 5 6 W E L C O M E F R O M O U R G O V E R N O R 7 W E L C OME F ROM M AYOR OF K AUA’ I ALOHA A ND W EL COME to the readers of the Hawai‘i Pride Guide A L OH A ! Mahalo for your interest in Hawai’i, the Aloha State! visiting our beautiful islands. The Hawai’i Pride Guide is a great resource for information on the spectacular sights, sounds and experiences Hawai’i has to offer, especially for the LGBT community. I am sure that you will learn a lot from this unique publication. The Hawai‘i Pride Guide provides the LGBT community with important information about the Aloha State. In the pages ahead, you will find out about the many products and services offered specifically for the LGBT community. Mahalo for choosing to visit the 50th State, and while you are here, I invite you to come to Kaua’i, the Garden Isle. The island’s relaxed atmosphere and gentle, fragrant tradewinds will surely carry you away to the paradise you’ve often dreamed of. You will also discover that the people of Hawai‘i truly believe in cultural diversity and that we recognize Gay and Lesbian tourism as an important industry that will support the revitalization of our economy. On February 23, 2011, I signed Act 1, which makes civil unions legal in Hawai‘i. Couples will be allowed to start entering into a civil union on January 1, 2012. The Hawai‘i Pride Guide serves as a valuable resource for LGBT business owners and visitor industry service providers to promote this milestone legislation and move towards equality, as well as support LGBT couples and their families to create personal memories that last a lifetime. On behalf of the people of the County of Kaua‘i, I extend my best wishes to you for an enjoyable stay and hope you will take home fond memories that will last a lifetime! Aloha pumehana, Bernard P. Carvalho, Jr., Mayor, County of Kaua‘i I hope Hawai‘i Pride Guide readers enjoy your stay in our islands. Mahalo (thank you) for choosing Hawai‘i as your vacation, wedding and/or honeymoon destination. Best wishes with future endeavors and a lifetime of happiness. With warmest regards, Neil Abercrombie, Governor, State of Hawaii 6 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 welcom e from ou r elect ed represen t at ives 7 8 WELCOME FROM MAYOR OF HONOLULU WELCOME FROM MAYOR OF MAUI I T GI V E S ME GRE AT PL E A SURE to offer my warmest Aloha to the ALOHA! Congratulations to the staff and management of The Hawai’i Pride readers of The Hawaii Pride Guide. Guide for all your hard work in establishing this publication for visitors. Congratulations to the staff and management of The Hawaii Pride Guide for launching this publication. Your mission to provide resource guides to LGBT residents and visitors is commendable. Maui County consists of the islands of Maui, Molokai and Lanai and Kahoolawe. Each island is an extraordinary place with its own type of beauty. 9 I invite you to explore and experience our various activities, from snorkeling off the coast of Molokini to hiking into the dormant crater of Haleakala. Enjoy fine dining, or familiarize yourself with one of our local eateries. Take advantage of our cultural events, shopping and other recreational opportunities that cause people to say Maui No Ka Oi (Maui is the best). After all the excitement, relax and enjoy the warm waters, the amazing beaches and the miraculous sunsets. To our first-time visitors, I hope you will take the opportunity to enjoy the many activities, entertainment, shopping, and recreational opportunities that make our city a popular destination choice. Honolulu offers fine dining, world class accommodations, shopping, cultural events, and so much more — all in and around a dynamic and growing city famous for its warm weather, pristine beaches, and beautiful sunsets. Whether you are on vacation, looking towards an upcoming civil union, or here on business, I hope your visit is pleasant and that you will return soon. On behalf of the people of Maui County, e komo mai (welcome), best wishes and we hope you make our islands an unforgettable experience. On behalf of the people of the City and County of Honolulu, I extend best wishes for a memorable stay, and a happy and prosperous new year. Alan M. Arakawa, Mayor, County of Maui Peter B. Carlisle, Mayor, City of Honolulu 8 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 welcom e from ou r elect ed represen t at ives 9 10 WELCOME FROM MAYOR OF HAWAI’I TM Let us be your guide! No matter where your travels lead you in the Southwest or Pacific,the Pride Guide Famiy is there for you. ON BEH A L F OF T HE PEOPL E of the County of Hawai’i, I am pleased to welcome you to our beautiful island. GLBT visitors to the Island of Hawai’i will find a thriving gay community, a warm, friendly and diverse local population and an interesting and eclectic offering of recreational activities for day and night. When you’re here, you’ll soon discover that the Island of Hawai’i (the Big Island) is like no other in regards to the expansiveness and sheer natural beauty. Our visitor accommodations range from quaint Bed and Breakfast type lodgings to award winning, world-class, 5-Star luxury resort properties and everything in between. Hawai’i’s host culture has a long tradition of acceptance, aloha and pride for the GLBT community, as we recognize the invaluable contributions that GLBT residents and visitors bring to our diverse, multi-ethnic community. We welcome you to come and experience for yourself the beauty, warmth and authenticity of the Island of Hawai’i and our people. Aloha, Billy Kenoi, Mayor, County of Hawai’i 10 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 TO REACH THE LGBT COMMUNITY IN THE SOUTHWEST & PACIFIC STATES, CONTACT US AT 888.830.3022 OR WWW.THEPRIDEGUIDES.COM TM HAWAII W W W. G O G AY H AW A I I . C O M TM ARIZONA W W W. G O G AYA R I Z O N A . C O M TM CALIFORNIA W W W. G O G AY C A L I F O R N I A . C O M TM NEW MEXICO EL PASO W W W. G O G AY N E W M E X I C O . C O M 17 WELCOME TO HAWAI’I. WELCOME TO PARADISE. Welcome to the Hawaiian Islands! The Aloha State, and also known at the Rainbow State. This state welcomes you with open arms to the LGBT traveler with allowing Legal Civil Unions for same-sex couples and LGBT non-discrimination policy in accommodations, at the workplace and in housing. When you arrive in Hawaii the fresh, fl oral air energizes you. The warm, tranquil waters refresh you. WELCOME TO HAWAI’I H AWA II V IS ITO RS A N D CONVENTION BUREAU (HVCB) / LINDA CH IN G he breathtaking, natural beauty renews you. Look around. There’s no place on earth like Hawai’i. Whether you’re a new visitor or returning, the six unique islands off er distinct experiences that will entice any traveler. We warmly invite you to explore the Hawaiian Islands and discover your ideal travel experience. T welcom e to hawai i No matter which island you visit, each has its own character, flavor and personality of its own. While the rich history, culture and hospitality irrevocably connect the Islands, the geography itself defi nes the unique feeling of each one. Let the Aloha spirit and friendliness capture your imagination and your heart as you enjoy the Hawaiian Islands. 17 T H E B A S I C S O F H A W A I ’ I FLYING INTO THE HAWAI’I ISLANDS WEAR SUNSCREEN Honolulu International Airport is Hawai’i’s major airport, serving as the entry point for most of the Islands’ visitors. There are some direct flights to Kaua’i, Maui and the Hawai’i’s Big Island, however, all major domestic carriers and 16 international carriers serve O’hau. The Honolulu International Airport is also Hawai’i’s hub for interisland fights. With the cool breeze coming off the ocean you are not feeling the heat as much, but you are in the tropics and closer to the eqator. So the sun is stronger here and sunburn will develop faster than you thought possible, so be sure to use sunscreen. HAWAI’I TIME ZONE Hawai’i Standard Time is 2 to 3 hours behind Pacific Standard Time, 5 to 6 hours behind Eastern Standard Time depending on the time of year since Hawai’i does not observe daylight savings time. PROTECTING THE ENVIRONMENT The USDA enforces strict rules regarding the importation and exportation of uninspected plants and animals. Before landing in Hawai’i you will be asked to declare any such items. When departing, luggage must pass a pre-flight check at the airport to ensure that no plant insects There are two seasons, Winter (November through April), when temperatures range in the low-70’s to mid-80’s, and summer when the high can run into the low-90’s. Th is can change from 10 to 20 degrees when traveling in the high elevation of the mountains. 18 THE LANGUAGE OF HAWAI’I Hawai’i’s two official languages are Hawaiian and English. The melodious Hawaiian language is a Polynesian dialect. There are only 13 letters in the Hawaiian alphabet A,E,H,I,K,L,M,N,O,P,U,W and the ‘okina(‘). The ‘okina is a global stop like the sound between the ohs in oh-oh and is considered a consonant. The glottal stop (‘) or ‘okina, and macron (-), or kahak-o, are often used to help clarify pronunciation. A few common words to know: Aloha: a greeting with love, hello, good-bye Mahalo: thank you Lei: a flower garland given for an occasion ‘Ohana: family Ha’aheo: pride CLIMATE H AWA II TOU RISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / KIRK LEE AEDER or diseases are hitching a ride back with you. You’re welcome to take inspected fresh flowers and fruits home. H AWA I I VI SITO RS A N D C O N VEN T I O N B UR E AU ( HVC B ) / LI NDA C HI NG ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 welcom e to h awai i 19 21 A BRIEF HISTORY OF HAWAII’S MONARCHY Among the states of the American Union, Hawai’i is truly unique - not only for her isolated location, wondrous climate, and idyllic scenery, but for her culture and history. Two of the fifty states of the Unites States were formerly sovereign nations: Texas and Hawai’i. Of these, Hawai’i had by far the longest tradition of independent existence. t is also the only one of the fifty states to have existed formerly as an independent monarchy. Hawaiian history prior to the twentieth century was defined in large part by the actions of her ali’i (chiefs and kings), and the legacy of the Hawaiian monarchy remains very much alive today. For the many centuries following the establishment of major Polynesian settlements in about 1200 CE, the Hawaiian Islands were a shifting patchwork of minor states, ruled by local chiefs and minor kings. Unification would not come about until the reign of Kamehameha I, who came to power on the Big Island of Hawai’i in the 1780s. After a series of battles, in which Kamehameha made use of Western advisers I ISLAND HAWA II TOURI S M AUTHO RIT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO H N SO N ROYALTY and weapons, by 1795 he succeeded in unifying all of the islands from O’ahu to the Big Island. The western most major islands, Kaua’i and Ni’ihau, were eventually added as vassal states in 1810, through diplomacy rather than war, completing the establishment of the united Kingdom of Hawai’i. Brilliant, cunning, ruthless, but also a visionary, Kamehameha came to be known as “the Great,” not only for his superb military skill but for his cleverness in business, diplomacy, and governance. His policies not only unified the islands but, by securing trade and recognition from multiple nations, helped to ensure their independence from the Great Powers. His legacy also remained in his establishment, early KAMEHAMEHA I TOP: HAWAII TOURISM JAPAN. BOTTOM: HAWAII TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOH N S ON islan d royalty 21 REPRODUCTION BY J. J. WILLIAMS FROM ORIGINAL BY JOHN HAYTER. BERNICE P. BISHOP MUSEUM. UNITED STATES PUBLIC DOMAIN. in his reign, of the Mamalahoe Kanawai or “Law of the Splintered Paddle.” The law is named after an incident early in his reign, in 1782. While leading a raid, the young warrior chief caught his foot on a rock, and two frightened fishermen hit him over the head with a canoe paddle, splintering the paddle and leaving the future king unconscious. Twelve years later, with Kamehameha enthroned as supreme ruler, the fishermen were captured and brought before him for punishment. Rather than have them executed, as was expected, the king expressed remorse for having attacked innocent people, and established this new law - “Let every elderly person, woman and child lie by the roadside in safety.” This became the first written law of the Kingdom, maintained in the Hawaiian constitution even after statehood, establishing the rights of noncombatants, and has been cited as an influence on humanitarian laws of war ever since. It was also Kamehameha I who in 1816 commissioned the official flag of Hawai’i, which remains in use to this day. The flag was designed by, or with the advice of, British naval officers, and resembles the contemporary flag of the British navy and of the British East India Company. This is why the Hawaiian flag incorporates the Union Jack in the canton (upper corner, where the stars are in the American “Stars & Stripes”) a source of confusion for some. Hawai’i was never part of the British Empire. Kamehameha the Great continues to be revered to this day. His most famous statue - one of four - stands in front of the Ali’iolani Hale, seat of the Hawai’i Supreme Court, and facing ‘Iolani Palace. Every June 11 in Hawai’i is Kamehameha Day, when his statues are draped with huge wreaths of flower lei. KAMEHAMEHA II–KAMEHAMEHA III Following his death in 1819, Kamehameha’s son Liholiho would assume the throne as Kamehameha II, while his favorite wife, Ka’ahumanu, would serve as de facto regent with the office of kuhina nui (a title roughly equivalent to Prime Minister, in fact co-regent) for both Kamehameha II and the next king, Kauikeaouli, known as Kamehameha III, until her death in 1832. It was under Queen Ka’ahumanu’s guidance, after the death of Kamehameha I, that the ancient kapu (taboo) religious and legal system was abolished and Protestant Christianity established in the Kingdom. KALAKAUA KAMEHAMEHA II 22 The rule of Kamehameha’s dynasty ended with the death of Kamehameha V in 1872. The next King of Hawai’i was elected. David C. Lunalilo, a grandnephew of Kamehameha I, received the unanimous support of the legislature but ruled for only a year before dying without issue. A new election was then called, which proved far more contentious, pitting the widow of King Kamehameha IV, Queen Emma, against David Kalakaua, a descendant of chiefs allied to Kamehameha I, and who had lost to Lunalilo in the previous election. Kalakaua eventually won the contest, becoming King Kalakaua, and often reha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 CHORIS, LOUIS, 1795-1828 :DANSE DES FEMMES DANS LES ILES SANDWICH. DESS. ET LITH. PAR CHORIS. LITH. DE LANGLUME. [PARIS, 1822]. PUBL-0072-16. UNITED STATES PUBLIC DOMAIN. ferred to as Hawai’i’s “Merrie Monarch.” An avid traveler, inventor, and musician, Kalakaua was also a firm believer in the sovereign powers of the monarchy, and made full use of his authority to appoint and dismiss his Cabinet until his powers were curtailed by the “Bayonet Constitution” of 1887, so called because he was forced to sign it at gunpoint. This constitution, imposed largely by Western business interests, both stripped the king of much of his authority and effectively stripped voting rights from a large part of the population, particularly native Hawaiians as well as Asians. It was Kalakaua who revived the traditional Hawaiian dance, the hula, which had previously been banned under Protestant influence. He popularized the ukele and wrote “Hawai’i Ponoi,” which is the state song today. He also built ‘Iolani Palace, the only extant royal residence on what is now American soil, and which was at the time a showcase of the most modern household inventions, including the electric light bulb, an innovation which had yet to be installed at the White House in Washington, D.C. Following his death in 1891, Kalakaua was succeeded by his sister, Lili’u Kamaka’eha, who assumed the throne as Queen Lili’uokalani. Like her brother, Lili’uokalani was an accomplished musician. She composed hundreds of songs, most famously Aloha Oe, “Farewell to Thee,” as well as translating the Hawaiian hawaii: islan d ro yalt y creation chant, Kumulipo, and writing a history and memoir, Hawai’i’s Story by Hawai’i’s Queen. Her short reign was to be marked by tragedy, for she was the last of the sovereign rulers of Hawai’i. She was deposed by Western business interests in 1893, after attempting to replace the “Bayonet Constitution” with one that would have restored some of the monarch’s powers - and voting rights to a majority of the population. After a failed restoration attempt, Lili’uokalani was imprisoned within her own palace before finally being forced to accept her removal from power. The era of Hawaiian monarchy, and of Hawai’i’s status as an independent nation, had come to an end. ‘Iolani Palace continued to be used as the seat of government for the new U.S. Territory, and later State, of Hawai’i until 1968. The Palace had suffered badly, both from remodeling undertaken after the fall of the monarchy and from neglect. Following extensive renovations, the Palace was opened to the public in 1978. Renovation work continues to this day, spearheaded by the Friends of ‘Iolani Palace, an organization dedicated to restore and preserve this unique piece of history as it was in the glory days under Kalakaua and Lili’uokalani. Th anks to their ongoing efforts, both natives and visitors to Hawai’i have the opportunity to appreciate the unique royal history of the islands. 23 S A Y I N G “ I D O ” I N T H E A L O H A 25 S T A T E The Hawaiian Islands have long been a popular wedding destination, a peaceful, beautiful locale for a couple’s special day. But, as with elsewhere, the struggle for equality for LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) couples has been an arduous one. I CIVIL UNIONS IN HAWAI’I ndeed, Hawaiian courts had initially ruled in favor of same-sex marriage as early as 1996, before their decision was overturned by constitutional amendment - and helping to set the stage for the struggle for marriage equality which has been waged nationwide ever since. But, as of January 1, 2012, civil unions granting couples legal rights similar to marriage are the law in Hawai’i, affording LGBT couples a degree of legal recognition they had not enjoyed previously and making Hawai’i once again one of the more progressive states in the Union. Furthermore, because there is no residency requirement to obtain a civil union in the state of Hawai’i, couples from across the United States and around the world can now come to the Rainbow State to receive a civil union. But what is it about Hawai’i that makes it such a popular wedding destination? Why should LGBT couples come here for their wedding or commitment ceremony? And what do they need to know? The Hawai’ i Pride Guide asked questions like these of various people in the Hawaiian wedding and hospitality industry, both gay and straight, and this is what we found: KEVI N R EB EL O H AWA I I W ED D I N G . C O M TOP: PHOTO BY KELLI BULLOCK PHOTOGRAPHY. BOTTOM: PHOTO BY CIVIL UNIONS MAUI.COM civil u n ions in hawaii 25 sees the sun setting all year long, whereas from other parts of the island the sun may set behind one of our neighboring islands. This beach is also located on the dry part of the island so less chance of rain on your wedding day.” time to get the venue/location that you really want. There are many great sites on Maui. Having the opportunity to choose from as many as possible is best.” But, as Darren Keala, of Civil Unions Maui and Ku ‘O Lani Floral+Design, says: “Luckily we live in Paradise and every location on this Island creates spectacular memories and beautiful moments. From sunset backdrops to stunning waterfalls, it’s practically impossible to pick a favorite.” K E V IN R E BELO HAWAIIWEDDING.COM 1. CHOOSE YOUR LOCATION There’s a ton of potential wedding locations to choose from. Hawai’i consists of six inhabited islands, each one practically overflowing with beautiful spots to hold a ceremony or a reception. You’ll want to think about such factors as cost, travel time, and what sort of activities you and your wedding party (if any) prefer. When asked what she thought was most important for an LGBT couple to consider when planning their wedding on O’ahu, Dianna K. Shitanishi, Director of Special Events for Hawai’i Weddings and Events, had this to say: “When determining their location, they may want to consider what activities their guests may be interested in while visiting the islands. For example, those that like to be in the heart of the city, want shopping, etc., may want a venue within 45 minutes of Waikiki. For those guests who want a quiet environment and enjoy outdoor activities, they may consider the North Shore.” 26 When asked for her personal favorite spots on Oahu, she states: “There are several with their own unique charm. Lanikuhonua ‘Where Heaven Meets the Earth,’ Kathy Ireland Oasis Oceanfront and Beachfront Estate, and Kuoloa Ranch.” Kevin Rebelo, of Hawaiiwedding.com, Inc., had this to say about the best place for a wedding on Maui: “We consider Poolenalena Beach on the South Shore of Maui to be the most beautiful and romantic spot for holding a ceremony. It is a secluded beach that is convenient to get to yet is tucked away from the hotels and resorts. It consists of a long stretch of golden/white beach at the end of which are 2 beautiful coves formed by black lava rocks. There are palm trees at each end of the beach. This is also a location that offers the best vantage points for sunset. From this location one ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 As a general rule, if you are looking to have a more urban experience for your wedding or reception, particularly some nightlife, Honolulu, on the island of O’ahu, may be your best choice. If you’re looking for a more quiet, romantic experience, pretty much anywhere on the islands, including O’ahu, Maui, Kaua’i, Moloka’i, Lana’i, or the Big Island - is perfect. There’s a bit more in terms of shopping, restaurants, and bars on the Big Island, on Maui, and on Kaua’i. Moloka’i and Lana’i are sparsely populated and definitely more quiet and secluded. Hawaii’s biggest draw is romance and outdoor adventure, so check out what the different islands have to offer and choose the one that best suits your needs. KAWAIAHAO CHURCH 2. PLAN AHEAD Plan - and make reservations - as early as possible. This is generally good advice for wedding planning anywhere, but with Hawai’i being the popular marriage destination that it is, that particular resort, beach, or event you were hoping to book may be taken if you don’t plan far enough ahead. According to Darren Keala: “I personally suggest 18 months if that is possible. More and more people are booking venues earlier and sometimes a year is not enough HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N civil u n ions in hawaii 27 Kevin Rebelo states: “Typically couples plan 4 to 6 months in advance. Though we are always available for last-minute weddings.” Speaking for O’ahu, Dianna Shitanishi says: “(It) depends on the venue they are considering and how flexible they are with their wedding date. Weekends and “prime” dates such as February 14th, 12/12/12, etc. go very fast. For destination weddings we suggest weekdays as there is more flexibility with venue availability as well as vendors. On average, our couples book about 1 year out, but we have some that have booked less than a month out.” 3. LET THE PROFESSIONALS HELP Don’t feel that you have to handle all the details yourselves - unless you really want to. There are wedding planners, some of them specializing in LGBT ceremonies, who can handle most of the work for you - just pick a package and work with them to get things the way you want. Similarly, a number of the resorts on the islands, will handle the wedding day planning for you, and are happy to help book and plan same-sex ceremonies. According to Darren Keala, when it comes to working with a couple to plan their wedding, “For me personally, to know the couple makes a big difference in what is created and suggested. If I know more details about the couple like what they are going to wear, what they are going to say at the ceremony or where they met... makes a big difference and the coordinator can suggest locations, details to the day that are heartfelt for the couple.” Of course, doing your research and choosing the right wedding planner and vendors is crucial. Kevin Rebelo warns: 28 “Select a wedding coordination company that is dependable, been in business for a long time and has a good reputation. Many new startup companies pop up, take clients deposits and then are not available months down the road when the wedding is to take place. Find out if that company uses LGBT/ or LGBT friendly vendors even for their straight clients. Most wedding companies on Maui continue to use vendors who are extremely homophobic for their weddings. There is a large faction of the Maui Wedding Association who are not happy about Civil Unions being legal in Hawaii.” go smoothly. All the details of your cake should be clearly listed in your final order confirmation. Please review them to make sure you get exactly what you want.” 4. MAKE YOUR WEDDING UNIQUE Even if you are using a wedding planner, this is you and your partner’s big day. Details matter, and if you’re going to go through the trouble to plan your ceremony in Hawai’i, you may as well make it special. Include elements to make the Hawaiian experience distinctive - which can be anything from the obvious - holding your ceremony on the beach - to other special touches, such as having traditional Hawaiian elements in your ceremony, or choosing native flowers for lei and bouquets and native foods and SA MP LE WE DDI NG C A K E BY C A K E WO R K S S E E OUR A D O N P. 64 Of course, whether you’re using a wedding planner to handle all the details or not, it’s good to know what vendors will be providing the various items needed for your ceremony, such as floral arrangements and food and wedding cake for the reception. Cheryl Logsdon of Maui Wedding Cakes had this to say on choosing a wedding cake vendor: “First you should check with your venue to see who you can work with. Many hotels and resorts have restrictions about bringing in outside food items. Many restaurants also have rules in place, and relationships with certain preferred vendors. Maui Wedding Cakes is the exclusive vendor for many of Maui’s top wedding restaurants. You should check the website to see the quality of the work displayed (and make sure all the pictures shown are their own work), and also to make sure they are licensed. Once you have chosen your vendor, keep asking for clarification on what will be provided and be sure to provide as much info as possible for delivery and storage of cake to ha wa i i prideguide 2012 civil u n ions in hawaii 29 locally. Lei’s are mostly traditional in style and offered as female lei being the Fragrant White Tuberose lei and for the male lei being the Maile Lei with either a tuberose lei wrapped or a white orchid lei wrapped. The white orchid is non fragrant as an alternative to the fragrant tuberose.” Cheryl Logsdon had this to say about the selection Maui Wedding Cakes has to offer: P HOTO BY CIVIL UNIONS M AUI.COM H AWA II’S BIG ISLAND VISITOR BUREAU (BIVB) flavors for your wedding cake and reception meal. Darren Keala had this suggestion for flowers: “I am pretty sure that the Cymbidium Orchid or Phaleanopsis Orchid is the most sought after as both are grown “We feature an entire page of MauiThemed wedding cakes on our site that feature Tikis, Palm Trees and Dolphins among other items. Many of our other categories also have a very Hawaiian feel to them. Most of our cakes feature stunning local flowers such as Cymbidium Orchids and Plumerias. We also offer some more elaborate cakes like our Aloha Shirt Cakes, the 3D Honu Turtle cake, and one of my favorite original designs featuring Vintage Hawaiian Prints on it. Our seashell wedding cakes are very popular, and everyone has fun eating the hand made edible white or dark chocolate shells we place on them. For sand we always use Maui Raw Sugar. For flavors we always recommend our Signature Logsdon Lilikoi. It is light, refreshing, and very tropical tasting. It is a perfect balance to our white cake with vanilla whipped cream custard, which is a light and fluffy vanilla mousse. Another popular choice is the Fresh Strawberry filling. We always use local Kula grown berries when possible, for that perfect Strawberry Shortcake feel. With our chocolate cake I love our Tahitian Vanilla filling, made from real Tahitian Vanilla Beans. The Vanilla Macadamia Nut mouse is also excellent with chocolate cake, and the Chocolate Mac Nut Mousse is great with marble cake body. The more traditional chocolate cake with chocolate mousse and a layer of raspberry is also very popular. Of course we also offer coconut and pineapple fillings either separately or together for a Pina Colada flavor.” Also there’s the catering for your wedding feast. Some wedding planners and resorts have an exclusive caterer, or, you may get to choose your own. Chef Raja, proprietor of Tikitorch Productions, who has appeared on the hit TV show “Extreme Chef,” works his culinary magic for both small, intimate dinners and big events - a wonderful option, whether for your wedding or for an intimate dinner on your honeymoon: “‘Tikitorch Productions’ now offers intimate sunset dinners at condos, houses and other private locations which borders beaches, or not. A fantastic 3-5 course feast under the blue sky amidst waving palm trees and bordered by one of Maui’s world famous sunsets!!! I also offer personal chef services and catering for all occasions at your vacation residence, estate, or condo.” 5. HIRE A PHOTOGRAPHER Finally, don’t forget about your wedding photos - and don’t expect your father-inlaw’s camera or your best friend’s smart phone to take the sort of pictures you’d want to frame. There are several quality photographers in Hawai’i who are very happy to work with LGBT couples, and can preserve your big day the way it should be remembered - such as Kelli Bullock Photography and Jeannemarie Photography. Of course, whether it’s photographers, caterers, florists, or general wedding planners, check which vendors operate on which islands - some will travel to any island, some only work on one or two. Hawaiians are very excited about the new civil union law and what it means for their state. Darren Keala says, “I don’t believe we can begin to describe the impact this will have on Hawai’i. We are one of the most romantic places in the world with the greatest weather, sandy beaches, waterfalls, rainbows and sunsets. Who would want to get united anywhere else?” Civil unions are available to anyone in Hawai’i - again, there is no need to establish residency. That said, remember that, as of this writing, the Federal government does not recognize same-sex marriages or civil unions nor does it require other states to do so - though we are hopeful that may be changing soon. Check the laws in your home state to see what rights and responsibilities a civil union contracted in another state might give you. Categories to look for in the Pride Guide Business Directory for planning your special event: Accommodations Bartender Services Catering Ceremony Performers DJ/Entertainment Florist Legal Services Attire Jewelers Invitations Photographers Ceremony & Celebration Sites HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N 30 ha wa i i prideguide 2012 civil u n ions in hawaii 31 Love & Pride In Paradise GIVEAWAY An LGBT Wedding and Honeymoon Essay Presented by www.Sheraton-Maui.com www.GoGayHawaii.com Destination Wedding & Honeymoon )NCLUDINGTHE2EMEMBER-AUI7EDDING0ACKAGEAND a 7 night stay at the Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa To enter the essay giveaway and rules please go to www.GoGayHawaii.com Destination Wedding & Honeymoon at the Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa Terms & Conditions: s &IRSTNIGHTSOFSTAYWILLBEINA2UNOF/CEANROOM s ,ASTNIGHTSOFSTAYWILLBEINTHERESORTS2OMANCE3UITE s 4HE3HERATON-AUI2ESORT3PAHOLDSONEWEDDINGPERDAY)FTHEPREFERREDDATEISALREADY selected another date will be asked of. s %FFECTIVEAPERNIGHT(AWAII3TATE4AXMUSTBEPAIDONCOMPLIMENTARYROOMNIGHTS $EADLINETOENTERIS-ARCHST7INNER!NNOUNCEDAT 0HOENIX0RIDE&ESTIVAL!PRILSTIN0HOENIX!RIZONA Value of package $14,000 32 ha wa i i prideguide 2012 outserve h awaii 33 35 ISLAND ROMANCE - HONEYMOON IN HAWAII Whether or not you tie the knot with that special someone in Hawai’i or elsewhere, there can be no doubt; the Aloha State is the place to go for your honeymoon - whether the two of you made your vows that morning or thirty years ago, nowhere on Earth breathes romance quite like these beautiful islands. ISLAND ROMANCE TOP: BOB AND BEN KINCAID A complete - indeed, even a cursory listing of everything a couple can do together in the Hawaiian Islands would require a book unto itself. Instead, we’d like to highlight a few of the things we at the Pride Guide found particularly appealing, especially to LGBT couples. One important factor to consider, when planning your honeymoon, is just how alone the two of you want to be together. Your choices range from the bustling urban atmosphere of downtown Honolulu to the very, very quiet beaches of northern Lana’i. If you want to include some nightlife and good oldfashioned bar time in your Hawai’i honeymoon, then Honolulu is a good choice. There are still plenty of calm, beautiful places within a short drive from the city on the island of O’ahu, when you’re not enjoying a beer or mai tai with the LGBT “family” at a spot like Tapas Restaurant & Lanei Bar or Hula’s Bar & Lei Stand. On the other hand, if you’re looking for a more quiet experience together, perhaps in the company of other LGBT couples, then islan d rom ance – h on eym oon in h awaii 35 H AWAI I TOU RI SM AUT HO RIT Y ( HTA) / L H P DUSK AT HOTEL LANAI. Maui , Kaua’i, or the Big Island may be right for you. Moloka’i and Lana’i, on the other hand, are defi nitely more “off the beaten path,” depending on exactly where you go - and your willingness to hike or 4-wheel your way over some rough terrain - the two of you could fi nd yourselves enjoying a beautiful secluded beach, with no one else in sight. One thing to look at is accommodations. There are a huge number of hotels, resorts, and bed & breakfasts to choose from in Hawai’i. Are you looking for a large, luxury resort, or the more intimate atmosphere of a bed and breakfast? Something mainstream, or a resort catering to the LGBT community? Also, think about how you want to spend your time. If you plan on being out and about for most of your honeymoon or vacation, then a small, simple room may be adequate. If you plan on spending some quiet time with each other, or perhaps having friends over for dinner or drinks, then a suite at a resort or bed & breakfast may be more appropriate. Several of the major hotel/resort chains not only off er luxurious and 36 varied accommodations, but are gayfriendly and are listed and supporters of this Hawai’ i Pride Guide. At many of these establishments you can easily end up spending most of your time never leaving the resort itself, as they come with their own beaches, pools, spas, salons, restaurants, and bars. Alternatively, some of the smaller resorts and bed & breakfasts have fewer amenities but offer a more friendly, quiet atmosphere. On Maui, you can check in to the Pineapple Inn, a charming bed & breakfast with both gay and straight guests. The world-famous Maui Sunseeker LGBT Resort, also on Maui, caters primarily to the LGBT community and off ers a variety of suites, where you can either relax in peace in your room or go down to the pool, or to the deck overlooking the beach, mingle and make new friends with the staff and fellow guests, mostly other gay and lesbian couples. Both of these are in Kihei, on the southern and western side of the island. On the island of Kaua’i, there is the luxurious Mahina Kai Ocean Villa Bed & Breakfast, another establishment catering to the LGBT community. On the Big Island, there’s Hilo Bay ha wa i i prideguide 2012 Hale Bed & Breakfast, and Absolute Paradise B&B, both on the east side of the island. Hilo Bay Hale draws both gay and straight guests, while Absolute Paradise is clothing optional and caters to a primarily gay clientele. While you can easily keep yourselves occupied just enjoying the beautiful weather, the gorgeous beaches, the ocean water, and the shopping and dining, it might be fun to spend some of your honeymoon having an adventure or two together. There are a number of options available for hiking, canoeing, snorkeling, surfi ng, helicopter tours, and other ways get your adrenaline pumping in the great outdoors. On Maui, you should check out Hawaiian Paddle Sports, who will take the two of you out on a private canoe, kayak, and/ or snorkeling tour where you may get to see tropical fi sh, adorable green sea turtles (“honu” in Hawaiian), dolphins, and majestic humpback whales. Seeing these amazing creatures up close, in the clear Hawaiian waters, as the sun rises over the great mountain Haleakala, is an experience neither of you will forget. For your landward exploration, check out No Ka Oi Adventures. Wade, your guide, knows the secrets of Maui like no one else, and can take you to charming taro farming villages, bamboo forests, lava tunnels, and splendid pools of mountain water hidden in the forests of the island and fed by picturesque waterfalls. What could be more romantic than a dip in the cool, fresh waters, surrounded by green tropical forest, as a waterfall cascades beside you? To round out your day of adventure, why not take a sunset cruise? Several companies on the various islands off er boat tours and excursions, such as the Ali’i Nui in Maui. The Ali’i Nui’s sunset cruise is just one of the trips they offer on their magnificent catamaran; others include snorkeling and whale watching excursions, as well as private weddings. We could go on and on - there are so many romantic options for couples on Hawai’i, gay or straight, to choose from. Take a look through this Hawai’ i Pride Guide, get some ideas, and start making plans. Paradise awaits. islan d rom ance – h on eym oon in h awaii HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY WADE HOLMES, TOUR GUIDE OF NO KA OI ADVENTURES 37 M Y H A W A I ’ I A D V E N T U R E 39 2 0 1 2 I made my first trip out to Hawai’i in November 2011. The islands had always been a sort of faraway fantasy-land to me since childhood; a tropical paradise in the midst of the ocean, featuring hula dancers and other festive natives, where the wealthy went often to vacation and the average person might get to go once. Being decidedly non-wealthy from birth, then, I looked forward to my excursion with considerable excitement. MY HAWAI’I ADVENTURE b y j a s o n e . p o s e y M y partner and I set out for Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport on what was an unusually chilly - actually, downright cold - November morning for Phoenix. This meant dressing warm, with jeans and jackets, knowing, or rather hoping, we’d be wanting to change into something lighter once we arrived at our destination. The flight itself - on the largest airplane I personally have yet been on - took nearly six hours, enough time to read all the remotely interesting articles in the travel magazine before me and the first several chapters of the book I brought. We m y h awai’i advent u re 2012 were flying into Honolulu, on the island of Oahu, from there to take a connecting flight to the island of Maui. We would be splitting our time between those two islands, and had originally intended to be in Oahu first, before we discovered that the massive APEC (Asia-Pacific Economic Cooperation) conference in Honolulu would be disrupting our plans and lead us to spend the majority of our time on Maui. Had we known, we could have taken a direct flight to Maui instead. We landed at Honolulu airport and headed for our connecting flight. The air- 39 SHERATON MAUI RESORT AND SPA port, like many buildings in Hawai’i, had many areas open to the air, which I realized early on when a dove came trotting by my seat at the terminal. The weather did not disappoint. It was a sunny, balmy day, warm but not hot. I was starting to like the islands already. The flight to Maui, after the long trek across half the Pacific Ocean, was mercifully brief. We took the ground transport out to our rental car lot, where I had a bit of a scare - when we got there, they had nothing but SUVs available. I’m a compact car driver, myself, partly for the gas mileage and partly because I’m not much good at parking. I was about to settle for the smallest SUV model they had when a Hyundai Sonata pulled up - the very same car I drive back home. Relieved, I took the familiar, and pleasantly modest-sized, vehicle. You will need to rent a car if you plan on going very far on Maui, and most of the parking spaces are definitely compact; mopeds are popular, as well, but not suitable for the freeways between population centers. Of course, if you really have plenty of time and energy, you could bike around the island as well. We got directions to our resort, and headed out. Our route took us south, through the great valley (really an isthmus) between the West Maui Mountains, on 40 MAUI SUNSEEKER RESORT the one side, and massive Haleakala on the other, down Highway 311, known as Mokulele Highway. We drove through what looked like endless fields of gigantic crabgrass, with old warehouses and massive towers visible in the distance. These were Maui’s great sugarcane fields, a source both of sugar and of a significant part of the island’s electricity supply, generated by the burning of the harvested cane. From the highway and the sugarcane fields we made our way to Kihei, along the southwesterly coast of Maui. Our destination was Maui Sunseeker, the only resort in Maui catering specifically to the LGBT community. With a rainbow flag waving above it - still recognizable despite the plethora of quite non-LGBT rainbow signs and images all over Hawai’i, the ‘Rainbow State,’ Sunseeker wasn’t hard to find. The staff greeted us warmly and showed us to our room; in our case, the rear penthouse, a fabulous 1800 square foot, three bedroom, two bath suite taking up most of the second floor of the two-story building at the far side of the establishment. The view from our windows, and the balcony which spanned the back of the building and was entirely ours for our stay, was of the pool deck, with green grass, flowering shrubs, and coconut palms, with the beach and the ocean beyond. The manager, ha wa i i prideguide 2012 Michael Wadell, apologized that he was unable to get us into the front penthouse, which looks out directly over the beach across South Kihei road; but with a pool and palms before us and a suite almost twice as large as our apartments, my partner and I weren’t complaining. The rest of that evening we spent quietly, recovering from an early morning, a long flight, and jet lag. We relaxed the next morning, enjoying the beautiful weather and a breakfast of the most fresh and delicious pineapple and papaya we’d ever eaten. Later that morning we picked up some lunch, and I had my first ‘Maui Reuben,’ which is a reuben sandwich with spicy Korean kim chee as one of the toppings. It’s actually the Hawaiian version of kim chee, created by Korean immigrants on the island, which is not quite as spicy-hot as the traditional version. It was delicious! After lunch we drove up along the western coast, skirting the West Maui Mountains, to the resort area of Lahaina. Lahaina had been Hawaii’s capital for a time under the native monarchy, and is now a major shopping and dining destination. The primary shopping area is along Front Street, which, true to it’s name, is right in front of the ocean along the island’s far western shore. We spent a few hours strolling about, purchased some m y h awaii adven ture 2012 very nice Hawaiian shirts and a necklace for my partner, and headed up the road to the main resort area. Our destination was the Maui Sheraton, where we were meeting with Bianca Rodas, the resort’s Public Relations Manager. The Maui Sheraton is a beautiful, and enormous, structure, featuring labrynthine halls, gorgeously lush lawns and flowers, white walls, and stunning views of the Pacific, the beach, and of the nearby island of Moloka’i to the west. There’s also a huge pool, designed as a lagoon encircling the Cliff Dive Bar’s outdoor dining area, which I badly wanted to go swimming in. Bianca gave us a tour of the facility and then treated us to a fabulous pupu platter and drinks, while we watched the evening torch-lighting and cliff-diving (hence the name of the bar) ceremony at Black Rock. We ended our second evening in Maui with a late dinner and a moonlit drive back down the cliffside highway to Kihei and our room at Sunseeker. We had an early morning ahead of us. We got up, and got packed and ready; we were taking a trip with Wade Holmes of No Ka Oi Adventures, a trip back up through the sugarcane fields and then up along the lush northeastern coast of the island. Wade is very friendly, a true outdoorsman and a great source of knowledge 41 about the islands. He picked us up at our resort and, along with another gay couple visiting from Connecticut, we made our way. As we travelled through the fields on our way to the forests, we were treated to an amazing sight. Hawai’i prides itself as the ‘Rainbow State,’ but I had always assumed this was just a name. There, stretching across the sky and seeming to settle right into the endless green waves of the sugarcane, was the most brilliant, gigantic, glorious rainbow I had ever seen in my life. It looked as if we could have driven right into it. Moving on, we headed up to the northern coast, where thick trees and verdant slopes soon replaced the drier, more windswept vistas of southern and western Maui. We were on the famed Road to Hana, Hana being an old town on the far eastern coast of the island. We weren’t going to travel quite that far. Instead, we made many stops, visiting a tiny taro farming village by the sea, hiking the bamboo forest, clambering through the dark recesses of an underground lava tube, and wading in pools of cool mountain water. It rained, which did nothing to dampen our spirits (or the pleasant temperature), but did make for especially vigorous waterfalls and strong currents in the pools they fed. After several hours of adventure we headed back west, stopping in the charming town of Paia, once a center of the sugar industry and now a center of fine shops and restaurants, for lunch, courtesy of Wade and No Ka Oi Adventures. The next day we drove up Highway 30 to the town of Wailuku for lunch, then headed back down to Sunseeker and prepared for our evening adventure. Michael at Maui Sunseeker had arranged a sunset cruise for us and several other guests at the resort on the Ali’i Nui, a luxurious catamaran. ‘Ali’i Nui’ means ‘Highest Royalty,’ and you do receive the royal treatment on the cruise, with delectable fresh food, wine, and Mai Tais all part of the package. 42 But the most amazing thing was sailing on the waters, as we watched the setting sun set the cliffs of Maui and the ocean waves afire in brilliant hues of yellow, orange, red, and violet. It was a trip well worth taking. Bring a jacket, though - the ocean wind gets chilly in the evening. We got up for another early start the next morning as we headed out again for another adventure, this time south, down to Makena, where we were meeting Tim Lara from Hawaiian Paddle Sports, for a morning of canoeing and snorkeling. When driving to different places on Maui, don’t forget the distances, and add time for travel through more densely populated (and tourist-filled) areas - we underestimated our travel time and arrived late. Once we met up with Tim at the beach, we got started with a quick canoeing lesson and got going. Hawaiian Paddle Sports specializes in small group tours, allowing a more personalized and intimate experience than the large group dives. Tim, owner and head guide, emphasizes that customer experience as well as the ecofriendly responsibility both island dwellers and visitors share. He’s a great source of information on the Hawaiian islands and their language and natural wonders. The three of us were riding in a four-man outrigger canoe, or ‘Wa’a.’ We got the paddling routine down and headed out under a warm morning sun, over waters so clear you could see the colors of the fish near the bottom, even in the deeper areas. But while the fish were beautiful, the big excitement was the turtles - enormous green sea turtles, or ‘Honu,’ dwell in large numbers in these waters, feasting on seagrasses. They are completely inoffensive, unafraid, and absolutely amazing creatures. There’s no touching allowed, but when one of these animals swims so close you can see their eyes looking at you and hear them breathe as they surface for air, you won’t forget the experience. We stopped at a secluded beach, where Tim pulled out a fresh coconut, chopped ha wa i i prideguide 2012 it open with a machete, and provided me with my first taste of raw coconut juice and pulp - juice, delicious; the pulp has a surprisingly nutty flavor. Well, surprising for someone who’d never had coconut in any other form but cooked, sugary slivers. Then we went out for snorkeling. My partner managed well and got to swim with some turtles, whereas I managed to see some turtles but spent most of my time trying to breathe. A good snorkeler I’m not, apparently. Nonetheless, it was a blast. That evening, we headed back up to north Maui for a house party, not on the beach but in the beautiful green woodlands inland. The event, a potluck dinner, was hosted at the gorgeous home of musician and realtor Deborah Vial and her partner Caron. Without much of an LGBT club scene, house parties are popular on Maui, and this one was a delight. The next day was our last full day in Maui. We decided to take it easy, driving south back to Makena, where we had our canoe and snorkel adventure, and paid a visit to Little Beach, which is the island’s famous gay and nude beach. Neither exclusively gay nor exclusively nude, the beach is beautiful and attracts a fascinating array m y h awaii adven ture 2012 of people (and body types). Both the sand and the water were wonderful, the people friendly. Later we headed back up to Kihei for lunch, and a little shopping, and then went out to the quiet beach across from Sunseeker to watch another glorious sunset - just the two of us this time. The next morning we rose bright and early to drive back to the airport and catch 43 the plane back to Honolulu. I was very sad to say goodbye to Maui, but also excited to see Oahu (the island where Honolulu is located). We would only have a day and a half, so our sightseeing would be much more limited than with Maui. After the quick flight - on inter-island flights in Hawai’i they barely manage to get in one beverage service - we landed, found a cab, and made our way to the 44 Sheraton Waikiki where we were staying. Our room was very different from the suite we had at Maui Sunseeker. On the 23rd floor, it was a single bedroom with one bath and a small balcony. Cute and cozy, we had a wonderful view of Waikiki Beach, the historic Royal Hawaiian Hotel below us, and the skyline of Honolulu. Directly below us was one of the Sheraton’s two beautiful swimming pools. We had a ha wa i i prideguide 2012 lot to cover in a short time, so we got our things together and headed out. The grounds of the Sheraton themselves were beautiful. An entire shopping center is located on the first floor of the resort, along with the two pools - one a lagoon-style pool with water slide, meant (mostly) for children, the other a much more calm wading pool which seemed to merge into the Pacific Ocean beyond, and was reserved for adults. There was the coffee shop, restaurants, a koi pool, a group of friendly macaws (you could have your picture taken with them, for a fee of course - one of the birds would let you hold him like a baby). And, of course, the beach. Outside the resort, we explored downtown Honolulu. A bustling city, very different from the quiet of Maui, there was no shortage of high-end shopping and restaurants interspersed among green parks and innumerable hotels and resorts. We enjoyed Mai Tais at Tapas, a gay bar with a wonderful balcony view (open air, of course). The next day, our last in the islands, after a photo shoot on the beach, we spent some quiet time at the pool, then took a cab to visit ‘Iolani Palace, former seat of power of the Hawaiian monarchy. A beautiful place, wonderfully restored by the ‘Friends of ‘Iolani Palace’ to nearly the same appearance it had during the days of King Kalakaua and of Queen Lili’uokalani, and open to the public since 1978. After the palace, we headed back to the resort to pick up our luggage and head to the airport. After eight days, our Hawai’i adventure was coming to an end. The fantasy islands I had known of since I was a child were now a reality. But with their beautiful scenery, fascinating culture, and wonderful climate, the Hawai’i had lived up to the hype. As our plane took off, and I could watch the islands disappear like jewels in the great sea, it was like having to wake from a peaceful dream. m y h awaii adven ture 2012 A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO : AliI Nui Luxury Sailing Excursions 808-875-0333 www.MauiDiveShop.com See us on page 92 Hawaiian Paddle Sports 808-660-4228 www.HawaiianPaddleSports.com See us on page 92 Maui Sunseeker LGBT Resort 808-879-1261 www.MauiSunSeeker.com See us on page 92 No Ka Oi Adventures 808-256-2803 www.NoKaOiAdventures.com See us on page 92 Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa 866-716-8109 www.Sheraton-Maui.com See us on page 92 Sheraton Waikiki www.Sheraton-Waikiki.com 808-922-4422 See us on page 62 Kelli Bullock Photography www.KelliBullockPhotography.com 808-387-5224 See us on page 70 45 1 47 CALENDAR OF EVENTS FEBRUARY – APRIL 2012 WORLD WHALE DAY (MAUI) F E B R U A RY Free, all-day celebration that honors the humpback whales that come to Maui each winter. 10TH ANNUAL HILO CHINESE NEW YEAR FESTIVAL (BIG ISLAND) Celebrate the year of the Dragon. Performances, displays, cooking & cultural demonstrations show the Chinese influence in Hawaii QUISINE OF HEARTS (BIG ISLAND) Enjoy sumptuous food by Big Island chefs along with deserts, wine, handcrafted ales and Kona coffee. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / JO HN DE ME LLO CALENDAR OF HONOLULU FESTIVAL (O’AHU) MA R C H EVENTS Hawaii’s premier cultural event, promoting understanding, economic cooperation and ethnic harmony between the people of Hawaii and the Pacific Rim Region. GREAT MAUI WHALE COUNT (MAUI) A citizen’s count of humpback whales that can be seen from Maui’s shores. Led by the Pacific Whale foundation H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N 10TH ANNUAL KAUAI WORLD CHALLENGE (KAUA’I) A PR IL Hundreds of paddlers perform a 34 mile canoe relay race along the East and Southern coast of Kaua’i TASTE OF WAIALUA (O’AHU) A gathering of local art, food, agricultural products, music and community groups. MAUI STAGE RACE (MAUI) This is a 2 day 3 event cycling stage race. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / RO N DA HLQ UI ST TO P : H AWA II TOU R IS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / JOE SOLEM . BOTTOM : H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOH N S ON . calendar of even t s 47 uly july 48 CA L ENDA R OF E V EN T S M AY – AUGUS T, 2 0 12 49 CALENDAR OF E VENTS SEP TEMBER 2 012 – JANUARY 2 013 S E P T. HONOLULU RAINBOW FILM FESTIVAL (O’AHU) 23rd Annual Gay & Lesbian Film Festival HAWAII PRIDE FEST (O’AHU) Annual Statewide Pride Celebration Polynesian arts & crafts, solo and group dance competitions, food booths, workshops, and much more MAUI PRIDE (MAUI) 85TH ANNUAL LEI DAY CELEBRATION (O’AHU) OC T OB E R MAY 11TH ANNUAL KAUAI POLYNESIAN FESTIVAL (KAUA’I) Investiture Ceremony for the 2012 Lei Queen Court, Lei Contest and exhibits open to the public KAU COFFEE FESTIVAL (BIG ISLAND) Extend your summer in Hawaii IRONMAN WORLD CHAMPIONSHIP (THE BIG ISLAND) The world’s most challenging triathlon. Celebrating the bean in the beautiful Kau district NOV. JU NE H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNSON HONOLULU PRIDE PARADE & CELEBRATION (O’AHU ) Annual Celebration WHALE WATCHING SEASON BEGINS D ECE MB E R H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N 4TH OF JULY JU LY Celebrating Independence Day throughout the islands. RELAY FOR LIFE OF KONA (BIG ISLAND) Watch 28 of the big-wave riders from around the world H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / K I R K LE E A E DE R Communities across the globe fight against cancer at the 2012 Relay for Life of Kona JAN UA RY 2013 NFL PROBOWL 2013 (O’AHU) WAIKIKI ARTFEST (O’AHU) Featuring 80 of Hawaii’s finest artists. AUGUS T QUIKSILVER IN MEMORY OF EDDIE AIKAU (O’AHU) 41ST ANNUAL QUEEN LILI’UOKALANI OUTRIGGER CANOE RACES (BIG ISLAND) NFL’s Finest will gather in Hawaii to show their talents. FOR DATES AND UPDATES: PLEASE VISIT GOGAYHAWAII.COM The world’s largest outrigger canoe race in the beautiful waters of Kailua-Kona. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / K I R K LE E A E DE R H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNSO N 48 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 calendar of even t s 49 2 0 1 2 H A W A I I B U S I N E S S D I R E C T O R Y Kaua’i O’ahu Moloka’i Maui Lana’i 2012 BUSINESS DIRECTORY 52 Kaua’i Lihue, East Side, North Shore, South Shore, West Side 58 O’ahu Honolulu, Pearl Harbor, Waikiki 76 Moloka’i Central Molokai, East End, West End 82 Lana’i South Lana’i, Central Lana’i, North Lana’i 88 Maui West Maui, Central Maui, South Maui, Upcountry, East Maui 102 The Big Island, Hawai’i Hilo, Kailua-Kona, Waimea TOP: HAWAII TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNSON MIDDLE: HAWAII TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / JOHN DEMELLO. BOTTOM IMAGE: HAWAII TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNSON The Big Island, Hawai’i 51 53 LIHUE, E AST SIDE, NORTH SHORE, SOUTH SHORE, WEST SIDE Kaua’i is the fourth largest of the inhabited Hawaiian islands, as well as being the oldest and the northern-most. A lush island of jagged cliffs, cascading waterfalls, and emerald tropical forests, some parts of the island’s interior can only be reached by air. It is also the only Hawaiian island with navigable rivers. KAUA’I THE GARDEN ISLE Kaua’i is divided into fi ve regions Lihue, East Side, North Shore, South Shore, and West Side. LIHUE Lihue, in the southeast of the island, is center of government and commerce, site of both Lihue Airport and Nawiliwili Harbor, the major air and sea hubs of Kaua’i. Lihue also boasts excellent beaches, scenic waterfalls, and a great deal of local history. Among the sites to see are Wailua Falls, north of Lihue proper, which some may recognize from the opening credits of “Fantasy Island;” Kilohana Estate, a huge Tudor-style mansion that was once the heart of a vast sugar plantation and is now the site of one-of-a-kind shops; the Grove Farm Homestead Museum, where one may learn about the history of the Hawaiian sugar industry while touring the gardens; the Kauai Museum, featuring both local artwork and history; and the Huleia Nation Wildlife Refuge, where sits Alekoko Menehune Fishpond, an artificial pond built by native Hawaiians to trap fish nearly 1,000 years ago though local legend claims it was built by the mysterious Menehune, a mischievous little people of the forest. THE EAST SIDE The East Side of Kaua’i (north of Lihue) is sometimes known as the Coconut Coast, because of the groves of coconut palms which grace her beachside resorts. It is the most populous region of Kaua’i. The town of Kapa’a, north of the Wailua H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N TO P : H AWA II TOU R IS M JAPAN (HTJ). BOTTOM : HAWAII TOURIS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOH N S ON Kau a’i 53 Beach, the third of Kauai’s gay beaches and a spectacularly beautiful spot in itself. Further along you’ll come to the high-end resort town of Princeville, and then Hanalei Town, where you’ll find art galleries, shopping and dining, as well as the historic Waioli Mission House. This is also the place to come for ukulele concerts, held at the Hanalei Community Center. Beyond Hanalei are the breathtaking, 3,000-foot cliffs of the aforementioned Napali Coast. There is no automobile access to these cliffs; you’ll either have to rough it with a long and arduous hike, or take an air or boat tour. SOUTH SHORE H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNS ON River, offers shopping and dining, as well as water skiing and kayaking. Between Kapa’a and Lihue, just south of Wailua, is Lydgate State Park, where you’ll fi nd one of Kauai’s gay-friendly beaches. Another is Donkey Beach, north of Kapa’a, known as both a gay and a nudist beach. And not far from Donkey Beach is Anahola Beach, where you can fi nd Mahina Kai Ocean Villa, a gorgeous, Japanese-style establishment catering to the LGBT community. You can also take a boat ride up Wailua River, where you might visit such magical places as Opaeka’a Falls, the famed Nounou Mountain (the Sleeping Giant), or the amazing Fern Grotto, a popular (if out of the way) wedding destination once reserved for Hawaiian royalty. H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNS ON H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNS ON 54 NORTH SHORE The North Shore area is a region of extraordinary beauty, perhaps best known for the towering cliffs of Napali Coast. Heading west from along the north coast of the island, you’ll reach Kilauea, where the famous Kilauea Lighthouse stands aloft overlooking the sea. Not far from here is also where you’ll find Kauapea ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 South Shore, to the south and west of Lihue, is known for beautiful Poipu Beach Park. In addition to natural beauty and relatively calm waters, Poipu is frequented by a wide variety of marine life, including humpback whales, green sea turtles, and endangered Hawaiian monk seals. Nearby are shops, restaurants, resorts, and golf courses. Old Koloa town, nearby, features picturesque buildings from the sugar plantation days. Learn about the role of the sugar industry in Hawaii’s development on the ‘Ka Ala Hele Waiwai Ho’olina o Koloa’, or Koloa Heritage Trail, a self-guided tour featuring 14 historic sites. Art Night. Farther west along the coast is Waimea Town, which is near where the famed explorer, Captain James Cook, first landed on the Hawaiian islands. A statue of Cook, modeled on an original from Whitby, England, stands in the center of town. Also of interest is the West Kaua’i Technology & Visitor Center, where you can learn much about the island’s history. Inland, north of Waimea, is the gorgeous Waimea Canyon, known as the ‘Grand Canyon of the Pacific.’ Though not as large or as ancient as Arizona’s Grand Canyon, Waimea Canyon presents 14 miles of extraordinary vistas unlike anything else in Hawai’i. Beyond the canyon lies beautiful Kokee State Park, a realm of lofty cliffs adorned with the emerald splendors of native forests. Visitors, especially those who plan on going on a long hike through this verdant area, should check out the Kokee Natural History Museum. Kokee Park opens out into the majestic sea cliffs of Napali Coast, in Kauai’s North Shore. With so much to see and do, Kaua’i, Hawaii’s “Garden Isle,” is truly a treat for the sophisticated traveler. WEST SIDE The West Side of Kaua’i includes attractions of both historical interest and immense natural beauty. Hanapepe Town, west of Koloa, is known as a center of the art scene in Kaua’i and has more art galleries than any other community on the island. The plantation-era architecture has been little changed over the last century, giving this small town a quiet charm - Hanapepe was the inspiration for the hometown of the main characters in the Disney animated film, Lilo & Stitch. Check out the ‘Hanapepe Swinging Bridge’ as well as the galleries, shops, and restaurants, especially during Friday evening’s HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N Kau a’i 55 Aqua Hotels and Resorts 866-406-2782 www.AquaGayTravel.com Hotels as diverse as our guests. Hotels on 5 islands, each with their own personality. See our ad on page 3 Aston Hotels and Resorts 866-774-2924 www.AstonHotels.com Choose from perfectly situated hotel rooms, spacious family-friendly accommodations and luxurious condominium suites. TAG Approved See our ad on page 63 Kauai Calls 160 Ohana Street Kapaa, HI 96746 808-822-2400 www.kauaicalls.com True Aloha Spirit! Beautiful Kauai Island where dreams are made, the very definition of a tropical paradise. CATERING Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Serving all Islands 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com Chef Raja from the Food Network’s “Extreme Chef” services all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs STATE wide. COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Kauai (PFLAG) P.O. Box 1832 Lihue, HI 96766 808-634-0127 www.PFLAG.org The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor 866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. K AUA’I ACCOMMODATIONS PHOTOGRAPHY Jeannemarie Photography Jeannemarie 808-228-6973 www.jeannemariephoto.com RESTAURANTS Duane’s Ono Char-Burger 4-4350 Kuhio Highway Anahola, HI 96754 808-822-9181 Capturing all the moments of your day Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on page 98 Kelli Bullock Photography …Kelli with an Eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. ha wa i i pridegu ide Kilauea Bakery 2484 Keneke St. Kilauea, HI 96754 808-828-2020 100% Gay - Locations, photography, flowers, catering. We do it all with perfection and aloha! Monico’s Taqueria 4-356 Kuhio Highway Kapaa, HI 96746 808-822-4300 www.mexicanrestaurantkapaa.com Polynesia Café 5-5190 Kuhio Highway Hanalei, HI 96714 808-826-1999 Support, Education, Advocacy, and Local community information 56 Gay Kauai Weddings Kate Sample 808-635-1584 www.gaykauaiweddings.com Koloa Fish Market 5482 Koloa Rd. Koloa, HI 96756 808-742-6199 Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com 2012 WEDDING PLANNERS Hong Kong Café 4-36 Kuhio Highway #1 Kapaa, HI 96746 808-822-3288 Kilauea Fish Market 4270 Kilauea Rd. #F Kilauea, HI 96754 808-828-6244 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on page 71 Red Hot Mama’s 5-6607 Kuhio Highway Hanalei, HI 96714 808-826-7266 Kau a’i In Heaven Commitments Stacy Mallory 808-639-3202 www.inheavencommitments.com We lovingly offer weddings, civil unions, and commitment ceremony services in beautiful natural settings on Kauai and Oahu. See our ad on page 57 White Orchid Wedding Serving all Islands 800-240-9336 www.whiteorchidwedding.com Let us “WOW” you beyond your wildest expectations! Pick any Hawaiian Island and we will be there! See our ad on page 101 57 H O N O L U L U , P E A R L H A R B O R , 59 W A I K I K I Also known as “the gathering place,” O’ahu is the third largest in size among its fellow islands in the Hawaiian chain, but it is first in population. Over 950,000 people share O’ahu’s 600 square miles of mountains and beaches — and most populous of the islands in the State of Hawai’i. Almost half inhabit the bustling city of Honolulu and nearby resort town of Waikiki. O’AHU THE GATHERING PLACE O’ahu is also the most visited of all the Hawaiian islands, at approximately 4.5 to 4.7 million visitors annually. O’ahu is primarily defined by the state capital of Honolulu, Pearl Harbor, and the famous beach known as Waikiki. These areas absorb tourists by thousands daily. Oahu boasts a fantastic climate, inexpensive accommodations, a large variety of shopping options, and world renown beaches - it’s fair to say the island lures in visitors from around the world. Though this may be the one fault of the island, as many are discouraged by the large crowds of Oahu and thus dismiss the island, instead visiting one of the other, less visited, islands in the chain. After all, chances are if you are staying on Oahu you too will book a room in Waikiki or Honolulu yourself. Nearly all of the island’s resorts are crammed into this small area. Honolulu is the state’s capital and major financial center. It is also home to the main campus of the University of Hawaii. Honolulu wasn’t always the main seat. Until 1845 the capital of the Hawaiian Kingdom was located on the island of Maui. King Kamehameha III ordered the move and the Iolani Palace was built later. But Oahu is much more than Honolulu or Waikiki - it may well be the most beautiful of all the major islands. The Hawaii Pride Guide will help guide you to experience the beauty that is Oahu. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N I MAG E S : H AWA II TOU RISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNSON O’ahu 59 O’ahu, is made up of two separate but overlapping volcanoes, known as a volcanic doublet. Its asymmetrical butterfly shape is formed by two mountain ranges: the Waianae Range in the west and the Ko’olau Range in the east. Slicing through the center is the flat Leilehua Plateau. Recent, geologically speaking, volcanic eruptions in the southeastern portion of the island which formed the Diamond Head, Koko Head and Punchbowl craters can be blamed for Oahu’s uneven shape. The eastern coast of O’ahu is hemmed in by a gorgeous mountain range and boasts three of the islands best beaches. Surprisingly, you’ll find no major accommodations here, jut a few vacation homes along the quaint towns that dot the coast. The eastern region offers many visitors an escape from the busting Waikiki scene while still offering the proximity to the shopping and activities of the nearby city just a half hour drive away. The jaw-dropping Ka’a’awa Valley is also located on this side of the island. It is easily recognizable as the backdrop for the hit television series “Lost.” The island has played host to a slew of films and television shows as the current CBS hit show “Hawaii 50”. The famous north shore of O’ahu is a surfer’s paradise, especially in the winter months when the surf is up. The monster waves and laid-back atmosphere have professional surfers flocking to Banzai Pipeline and Waimea Bay to ride some of the most killer waves in the Pacific. About an hours drive from Honolulu, this region has a surprisingly unpopulated feel to it. Many miles of beaches stretch along this portion of O’ahu, making it a popular haven for those looking to relax in the sun. The western, northwestern, and central regions are where most of the island’s residents live. For the most part, there isn’t much here for the typical island visitors— just a few scattered beaches. Central O’ahu does however have one H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA ) / TO R JO H N SO N H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N of the island’s largest attractions Pearl Harbor and the U.S.S. Arizona Memorial. More than one million people a year pay their respects to the many military personnel who lost their lives during the Japanese attack. Many of these men and women and veterans of many wars are laid to rest in Punchbowl National Cemetery at Pu’owaina Crater (Punchbowl). Beyond the sky scrapers and decidedly urban nature of the southern tip of the island is an O’ahu of great natural beauty and old-time charm. For the traveler looking to experience a modern paradise, O’ahu has it all - the excitement and culture of a large metropolitan city, the unspoiled beauty of tropical coastlines and verdant mountains plus everything in between. There are many gay beaches in Hawaii, and one of the most scenic and wellknown in the world, Queen’s Surf Beach H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA ) / TO R JO H N SO N H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA ) / TO R JO H N SO N 60 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 O’ahu in the heart of Waikiki. The beach here draws a mostly gay & lesbian crowd, although certainly not exclusively gay. Queen’s Beach is across Kalakaua Avenue from the Honolulu Zoo and a few block from Hula’s Bar. There are over seven gay & lesbian bars in Honolulu where you can enjoy a drink, with the open windows to enjoy the fresh ocean air. Make sure you check out the “Out in Waikiki Map” in this Pride Guide to map out evening. And make sure you ask your bartender about the catamaran trips as some bars offer over the weekend gay catamaran tours. Join other world travelers on the bustling streets of cosmopolitan Honolulu. Where every you go, allow time to savor the unique character of each part of the Island, to visit the shops, dine in the local hotspots, enjoy the gay nightlife and take in the stunning vistas. 61 ACCOMMODATIONS Aqua Hotels and Resorts 866-406-2782 www.AquaGayTravel.com Hotels as diverse as our guests. Hotels on 5 islands, each with their own personality. See our full page ad on p. 3 Choose from perfectly situated hotel rooms, spacious familyfriendly accommodations and luxurious condominium suites. TAG Approved See our ad on p. 63 Experience breathtaking beauty and genuine hospitality. Choose Aston and select from 25 properties including perfectly placed hotels with deluxe amenities and spacious condominium resorts with full kitchens. Hilton Waikiki Beach Terra Montero 2500 Kuhio Ave. Waikiki Beach, HI 96815 808-922-0811 www.hiltonwaikikibeach.com Located in the heart of all you want to do when in Waikiki. See our full page ad on back cover Hotel Renew 129 Paokalani Ave. Honolulu, HI 96815 808-687-7700 www.hotelrenew.com Oahu’s First Designer Boutique Hotel - Located just steps from Waikiki Beach and World-Class shopping and dining. See our p. 63 O’AHU Let Hawaii’s warm spirit welcome you. Aston Hotels and Resorts 866-774-2924 www.AstonHotels.com Oahu Maui Kauai 866.774.2924 Sheraton Waikiki Hotel 2255 Kalakaua Ave. Honolulu, HI 96815 808-922-4422 www.sheraton-waikiki.com Big Island AstonHotels.com Oahu’s Only True Designer Boutique Hotel A modern monument to traditional Hawaiian Hospitality. Perfect for couples in search of romance, the ultimate Hawaiian wedding or weary travelers seeking a rejuvenating escape. See our ad on p. 1 ACCOUNTING FOR UPDATED INFORMATION, PLEASE VISIT WWW.GOGAYHAWAII.COM Bookkeepervirtual.com Harrison White 425 Ena Rd., Ste. 508C Honolulu, HI 96815 808-206-2060 www.bookkeepervirtual.com 129 Paoakalani Avenue Waikiki Beach, HI 96815 Affordable bookkeeping and tax services 62 ha wa i i pridegu ide (808) 687-7700 2012 O’ahu Located just steps from the beach and world-class dining and shopping, Hotel Renew is an oasis of tranquility in the heart of vibrant Waikiki. Rates start at just $159. For more info, please visit www.hotelrenew.com. 63 Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Serving all Islands 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com Chef Raja from the Food Network’s “ Extreme Chef” services all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs on all islands. CHURCHES & SYNAGOGUES Church of the Crossroads Pastor Kyle Lovett 1212 University Ave Honolulu, HI 96826 808-949-2220 www.churchofthecrossroadshawaii.org Licensed Marriage & Civil union performer First Unitarian Universalist Church Rev. Dr. Jonipher Kwong 2500 Pali Highway Honolulu, HI 96817 808-595-4047 www.unitariansofhi.org We are an Open and Welcoming Congregation Temple Emanu-El Rabbi Petter Schaktman 2550 Pali Highway Honolulu, HI 96817 808-595-7521 www.TempleEmanuelHawaii.com Licensed Civil Union performer BAKERY Cake Works 2820 S. King Street Honolulu, HI 96826 808-946-4333 808-946-4335 www.cakeworkshi.com If you can dream it we can create it! See our ad on p. 64 64 COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY BARTENDING AND BEVERAGE PLANNING The Wine Stop 1809 S. King Honolulu, HI 96826 808-946-3707 www.thewinestophawaii.com Equality Hawaii P.O. Box 11144 Honolulu, HI 96828 808-497-0650 www.equalityhawaii.org Wine, specialty beers and spirits, gift baskets, sommelier, bartender services, delivery available. See our ad on p. 73 Dedicated to securing equality for all lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. See our ad on p. 66 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 O’ahu Gregory House Programs 200 N. Vineyard Blvd., Ste. A310 Honolulu, HI 96817 808-592-9022 www.gregoryhouse.org Development of programs to meet the housing needs of persons living with HIV/AIDS throughout Hawaii. Ku Aloha Ola Mau 1130 N. Nimitz Hwy., Ste.C-302 Honolulu, HI 96817 808-538-0704 www.dashhawaii.org O’AHU CATERING Committed to enhancing the quality of life in Hawaii through excellence in service and responsive action toward the individual and community’s needs surrounding chemical dependency. Kulia Na Mamo 1149 Bethel St. Ste. 300 Honolulu, HI 96813 808-791-2020 www.kulianamamo.org Strives to improve the quality of life of transgender people living in the Hawaiian Islands. Life Foundation 677 Ala Moana Blvd., Ste. 226 Honolulu, HI 96813 808-521-2437 www.lifefoundation.org Fighting AIDS in Hawaii & the Pacific Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Oahu (PFLAG) 92-954 Makakilo Dr., #71 Makakilo, HI 96707 808-672-9050 www.pflagoahu.org Support, Education, Advocacy, and Local community information The Imperial Court of Hawaii 1320 Middle St. Honolulu, HI 96819 744-264-8185 www.theimperialcourtofhawaii.org 65 The Lesbian & Gay Business of Hawaii P.O. Box 8733 Honolulu, HI 96830 808-216-6965 We are a proud and effective business organization. See our ad on p. 67 The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor 866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org COMMUNITY RESOURCES ENTERTAINMENT & EVENTS The Honolulu Gay & Lesbian Cultural Foundation 1670 Makaloa St. #204, PMB #370 Honolulu, HI 96814 808-675-8428 www.hglcf.org Proud producers of the Honolulu Rainbow Film Festival. West O’ahu Hope for A Cure Foundation P.O. Box 2117 Ewa Beach, HI 96706 808-685-6702 www.westoahuhopeforacure.org To help prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS, STD’s through Education in the communities of Hawaii Honolulu Men’s Chorus P.O. Box 235793 Honolulu, HI, 96823 808-351-3169 [email protected] O’AHU The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. Honolulu Pride P.O. Box 8882 Honolulu, HI 96830 808-840-7637 www.honolulupff.org The Honolulu Pride Festival Foundation 5-!! $( ---3-!!3&$ ---3&&"3&$4-!! $#%!!#)&%1()!%*4 "$#%!8# -!!3&$ 6A;A7=<@5@B@? %%)*%(1&5&+%(4!()!%* %%8# -!!3&$ 6A;A7=<@5B=>@ #)&%**$#%!&(%%!/&+% $&(!%&($*!&%0 (&($)&-!!!%#+2 %+%+&+%*!&%6 &#() !'(&($7 (+&#&()*-&("!%6+)!%))!.()7 -!!+)!%))##!%6+)!%))*-&("!%*!%)7 #& +!-!!+)!%))!(*&(/ (&+'&%)&(&$ $ /*(! *##!% -!!(,# %!*!*!, &$&&+($(*&(!) 66 6 ha wa i i pr pridegu idegu ide 2012 O’ahu 5(,#+! 67 OAHU COMMUNITY RESOURCES SOCIAL Aloha Bears [email protected] www.thealohabears.com In the middle of the Pacific Ocean, on a beautiful chain of Islands that we call the State of Hawaii, there is a family of bears, The Aloha Bears. See our ad on p. 69 ManOH Males Au Natural of Hawaii www.manoh.com Males Au Natural of Hawaii is a diverse group of men on Oahy and the neighboring islands. We’re from all sorts of backgrounds, professions, ages and ethnic groups, with one thing in common…we like to play naked! See our ad on p. 68 68 PHOTOGRAPHY Jeannemarie Photography Jeannemarie 808-228-6973 www.jeannemariephoto.com Capturing all the moments of your day Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on p. 98 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 Oah u 69 Kelli Bullock Photography …Kelli with an eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on p. 71 Come, wrap your hand around a cold mojito and feast on our spicy braised oxtail stew or our succulent cuban roast pork. Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. RESTAURANTS Auntie Pasto’s 1099 S. Beretania St. Honolulu, HI 96814 808-523-8855 www.auntipastos.com Chai’s Island Bistro 1 Aloha Tower Dr. Honolulu, HI 96813 808-585-0011 www.chaisislandbistro.com Cinnamons Restaurant 315 Uluniu St. Kailua, HI 96734 808-261-8724 www.cinnamonsrestaurant.com Hula’s Café 2nd Floor of the Waikiki Grand 134 Kapahulu Ave. Honolulu, HI 96815 808-291-1010 www.hulas.com 10%off WITHTHISAD Mon–Thu Fri. & Sat. Sunday H O U RS : 11 am – 10 pm 11 am – 11 pm 11 am – 8:30 pm 1121 BETHEL STREET 545-CUBA s o u l d e c u b a .c o m Mac 24-7 Hilton Waikiki Beach 2500 Kuhio Ave. Honolulu, HI 96815 808-921-5564 www.hiltonwaikikibeach.com Contemporary and upscale with a comfortably, casual atmosphere serving breakfast, lunch and dinner. Sam Choy’s Breakfast, Lunch and Crab 580 N. Nimitz Highway Honolulu, HI 96817 808-545-7979 www.samchoy.com Home to Hawaiian Heritage Cuisine Soul De Cuba Café 1121 Bethel St. Honolulu, HI 96813 808-545-2822 www.souldecuba.com Cuban cuisine and more. See our ad on p. 70 70 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 O’ahu 71 Fun entertainment, great food and drinks, warm friendly service filled with Aloha. Call for hours! Uncle Bo’s 559 Kapahulu Ave. Honolulu, HI 96816 808-735-8310 WEDDING CEREMONY SITES The Rainbow Civil Union Church P.O. Box 75432 Honolulu, HI 96836 808-722-0484 www.therainbowcivilunionchurch.org We specialize in private ocean wedding ceremonies on your choice of distinctive catamarans off Waikiki Beach. (Mamala Bay) WEDDING PLANNERS Hawaii Weddings & Events 587 Pakala St. Honolulu, HI 96825 808-782-4514 www.hawaiiweddingsandevents.com Amazing, Fun and stress-free Celebrations In Heaven Commitments Stacy Mallory Serving Oahu & Kauai 808-639-3202 www.inheavencommitments.com WEDDING-CIVIL UNION PERFORMERS Alan R. Spector, LCSW Serving the Oahu Island 808-729-7737 www.equalityhawaii.org/spector.html Licensed Civil Union performer Rabbi Petter Schaktman Temple Emanu-El 2550 Pali Highway Honolulu, HI 96817 808-595-7521 www.shaloha.com Temple Emanu-El is a synagogue community and a center of Jewish life in Hawaii Rev. Dr. Jonipher Kwong First Unitarian Universalist Church of Honolulu 2500 Pali Highway Honolulu, HI 96817 808-728-7717 www.unitariansofhi.org Licensed Civil Union performer The Rainbow Civil Union Church P.O. Box 75432 Honolulu, HI 96836 808-722-0484 www.therainbowcivilunionchuch.org F anyone fighting cancer, For or who loves someone who is, o Dr. Robin Dilley’s story is one therapy session you can’t miss. We specialize in private ocean wedding ceremonies on your choice of distinctive catamarans off Waikiki Beach. (Mamala Bay) When breast cancer strikes a gifted psychologist, she never imagines it will become her strongest teacher. 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See our ad on p. 101 72 O’AHU Tapa’s Restaurant and Lanai Bar 1402 Seaside Ave. 2nd floor Honolulu, HI 96815 808-921-2288 www.tapaswaikiki.com Order your copy today at www.PsychotherapyUnlimited.com ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 O’ahu 73 74 KA LAK 14 AU AA VEN ALA WAI CANAL UE AD KALAKAUA DON HO LANE 1 Bacchus Waikiki 408 Lewers Street 808-926-4167 2 Fusions Nightclub 2260 Kuhio Avenue #3 808-924-2422 AT AV EN UE AV EN UE RR M ON SA I AV E. LAN KA PA H HONOLULU ZOO 6 QUEEN’S SURF BEACH RESTURANTS 5 Lo Jax 2256 Kuhio Avenue 808-922-1422 9 Auntie Pasto’s 1099 S. Beretania Street 808-523-8855 6 Rum Fire 2255 Kalakaua Avenue (Inside Sheraton Waikiki) 808-922-4422 3 Hula’s Bar & Lei Stand 134 Kapahula Avenue. #2 808-923-0669 7 Tapas Restaurant & Lanai Bar 402 Seaside Avenue. 2nd Flr., 808-921-2288 4 In Between 2155 Lau’ula Street 808-926-7060 8 Wang Chung’s 2410 Koa Avenue 808-921-9176 10 KEO’s Thai Cuisine 2028 Kuhio Avenue 808-951-9355 11 La Cucaracha 2446 Koa Avenue 808-924-3366 12 Mac 24/7 Bar + Restaurant (Inside Hilton Waikiki Beach Hotel) 2500 Kuhio Aveenue 808-921-5564 13 Tapas Restaurant & Lanai Bar 402 Seaside Ave. 2nd Flr., Honolulu, HI 96815 808-921-2288 14 Uncle Bo’s 559 Kapahulu Avenue 808-735-8310 HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N HAWAII TOURISM JAPAN (HTJ ) 74 E 3 AVENUE PAO AP BARS & NIGHTCLUBS KUHIO AVENU UL U E. I AV LAN UKA KALAKAUA AVENUE AINAKEA WAY PAOAKALANI AVE. KAIULANI AVE. 8 11 ROYAL HAWAIIAN SHOPPING CENTER KALIA ROAD LAC E KING’S VILLAGE O’AHU RO INTERNATIONAL MARKETPLACE KEA LOH I UL AL A M OA NA BO NE HOBRON LA LIA ALK BEACHW KA EVARD 12 KUHIO AVENUE LILIO EV AR D 4 RD. NA BOUL ST. 2 AVE. LAUULA TOGA SARA ALA MOA KUHIO AVENUE 5 KAIULANI AUA A VENUE AL A ST . KALAK ENA ROAD W AI BO UL E VA RD . A ST 1 SEASIDE AVENUE 10 WALINA ST. 13 7 NIU ST. KAP NOHONANAI ST. ALA WAI BOULEVARD ARD LEV BOU ROYAL HAWAIINA AVENUE NI IOLA LEWERS ST. 9 A 75 OUT IN WAIKIKI ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 O’ahu 75 77 CENTRAL MOLOK A’I, EAST END, WEST END Moloka’i is Hawaii’s 2nd smallest inhabited island. Quiet and rural, with a high percentage of the population of native Hawaiian ancestry, parts of Moloka’i offers an opportunity to see Hawai’i much as it was in the days before Western contact. Moloka’i is said to be the birthplace of hula, the distinctive Hawaiian dance. The island is divided into three sectors Central, East End, and West End. MOLOKA’I THE OLD STYLE ISLE CENTRAL MOLOKAI Central Moloka’i is the most heavily populated area. Moloka’i Airport is located in the town of Ho’olehua, which also features a macadamia nut farm. South of Ho’olehua is Kaunakakai, the island’s largest town, where you can enjoy the local shops and historic attractions or go boating or fishing from Kaunakakai Harbor. The town is also home to Kapuaiwa Coconut Grove, planted under King Kamehameha Vin the 1860s and one of the last royal coconut groves still standing in Hawai’i. Along the south short, near Kaunakakai, are Molokai’s ancient fi sh ponds, engineered by the Hawaiians to provide fish for the ali’l (chiefs or nobles), many of them built 700800 years ago. To the north is Kalaupapa Peninsula, site of Kalaupapa National Historical Park. The park is inaccessible by car, being reached only on foot or by mule-ride along 1,700-foot cliffs. In the 1800s the revered Catholic priest, Father Damien, tended to victims of Hansen’s Disease in this isolated but beautiful community, before succumbing to the affliction himself. H AWA I I TOU R I SM JA PA N ( HTJ ) TO P : H AWA II TOU R IS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / RON DAHLQUIST. BOTTOM : H AWAII TOU RIS M JAPAN Moloka’i 77 EAST END The East End of Moloka’i is dominated by tropical forests and by Kamakou, the island’s largest mountain at 4,970 feet. Off shore is the longest continuous fringing reef in the Hawaiian islands, at 28 miles. Along Kamehameha V Highway you’ll find Kumimi Beach, also known as 20 Mile Beach or Murphy’s Beach, Halaway Bay, and Halawa Beach Park. Inland is the beautiful Halawa Valley. You’ll need to arrange a guided tour to hike Halawa Valley, as much of the trail crosses private property. Near the summit of Kamakou is the Kamakou Preserve, with over 2,700 acres and hosting over 250 rare Hawaiian plants as well as endangered birds. HAWA I I TOUR I S M JA PA N ( HTJ) WEST END Molokai’s West End is the site of Papohaku Beach, one of the largest white sand beaches in the islands, and one of the quietest in terms of foot traffic. Every third week in May the beach hosts the the Molaka’i Ka Hula Piko Festival, the largest cultural celebration in Moloka’i, dedicated to the hula. The only town in West End is the plantation village of Maunaloa, featuring rental condos and unique shopping. Another famous nearby beach, Kapukahehu Beach, also known as Dixie Maru Beach, is also a great spot to relax and enjoy a beautiful sunset. H AWA II TOURISM JAPAN (HTJ) HAWA I I TOUR I S M AUTHO R ITY ( HTA ) / P ETE R GA R ZK E H AWA II TOURISM JAPAN (HTJ) 78 H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / RO N DA HLQ UI ST ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 Moloka’i 79 Aqua Hotels and Resorts 866-406-2782 www.AquaGayTravel.com Hotels as diverse as our guests. Hotels on 5 islands, each with their own personality. See our ad on p. 3 BAKERY Kanemitsu Bakery 79 Ala Malama St. Kaunakakai, HI 96748 808-553-5855 Let us be your guide! CATERING Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Serving all Islands 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com Chef Raja from the Food Network’s “Extreme Chef” services all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs STATE wide. PHOTOGRAPHY Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on p. 98 Kelli Bullock Photography…Kelli with an eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on p. 71 MOLOK A’I ACCOMMODATION Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. COFFEE HOUSE RESTAURANT Coffees of Hawaii 1630 Farrington Ave. Kualapuu, HI 96757 877-322-3276 www.coffeesofhawaii.com COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY TM The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor 866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org No matter where your travels lead you in the Southwest or Pacific,the Pride Guide Famiy is there for you. TO REACH THE LGBT COMMUNITY IN THE SOUTHWEST & PACIFIC STATES, ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 CONTACT US AT 888.830.3022 OR WWW.THEPRIDEGUIDES.COM 80 The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. Moloka’i Hula Shores 1300 Kamehameha V Hwy. Kaunakakai, HI 96748 808-553-5347 Paddler’s Inn 10 Mohala Street Kaunakakai, HI 96748 808-553-5256 WEDDING PLANNERS White Orchid Wedding Serving all Islands 800-240-9336 www.whiteorchidwedding.com Let us “WOW” you beyond your wildest expectations! Pick any Hawaiian Island and we will be there! See our ad on p. 101 81 83 SOUTH L ANA’I, CENTRAL L ANA’I, NORTH L ANA’I Lana’i, Hawaii’s “most enticing isle,” is a wonderful place to get away from it all. The smallest of the inhabited Hawaiian islands, Lana’i lies close to Maui. It has a drier climate than most of the islands, receiving about 37 inches of rainfall per year. LANA’I ISLAND OF RARE DELIGHTS It was only settled in the 1500s, and still has only a small regular population, and just 30 miles of paved road. There are three regions in Lana’i - South, Central, and North. SOUTH LANA’I South Lana’i is the site of famous Hulapoe Bay and Manele Bay - there is ferry service to and from Maui at Manele Bay. One of the island’s two major resorts is here, together with the world class Challenge at Manele golf course. Between Hulapoe Bay and Manele Bay is the iconic Pu’u Pehe or ‘Sweetheart Rock,’ so named because of the legend of tragic love between the warrior Makakehua and the maiden Pehe. It’s a great place for beautiful and romantic views, and a chance to see the spinner dolphins which frequent this area. At the southern tip of Lana’i is Kaunolu Village, the largest surviving ruin of a prehistoric Hawaiian village, where King Kamehameha I, unifier of the Hawaiian islands, maintained his fishing retreat. The village features the remains of Halulu Heiau (a temple), petroglyphs, and Kehekili’s Leap, a 60-foot jump into the waters where warriors would demonstrate their bravery. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N TO P IMAG E : H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / RON DAHLQU IST. BOTTOM IM AG E : H AWAII TOU RIS M JAPAN (HTJ ). Lana’i 83 NORTH LANA’I North Lana’i is served by dirt roads, but the bumpy ride will be worth it to see some of the sights. Be certain to get clear directions before heading out - the roads are unmarked. About 30 miles north of Lana’i City is Kaiolohia, ‘Shipwreck Beach.’ The rocky, shallow channel here has wrecked a number of ships over the years, including an oil tanker from the 1940’s whose hull still sits atop the coral reef, in plain view from the beach. Northwest of Lana’i City are the 590 acres of Kanepu’u Preserve, home to 48 species of native plants, such as the lama and alea trees, which once covered much of the Hawaiian islands. Farther to the northwest is Keahiakawelo, known as the ‘Garden of the Gods,’ a rocky, barren landscape. Still farther west is the remote Polihua Beach, the most isolated beach on the island. HAWA I I TOUR I S M JA PA N ( HTJ) H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / RON DAHLQU IST CENTRAL LANA’I Central Lana’i is an area of highland plains dotted by Cook pines and by Lanaihale, the island’s highest peak. 10-12 degrees cooler than the coastal areas, it is often advisable to bring a sweater or jacket when travelling here. Lana’i City sits at the very heart of the island and is the site of unique local shopping, dining, and art galleries centered around Dole Park, as well as the historic Hotel Lana’i, and the island’s other major resort featuring the Experience at Koele golf course. Lana’i Airport is also located near the city, with service to the other Hawaiian islands. North of Lana’i City is the start of Munro Trail, named after George Munro, the New Zealand naturalist who introduced the Cook pine to the island. The trail stretches 12.8 miles and off ers stunning views of Maunalei gulch as well as (on a clear day) the islands of Maui, Moloka’i, Kaho’olawe, and even the Big Island and Oahu. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y/ PI ERC E M MY E RS P HOTOGR A P HY 84 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 Lana’i 85 Aqua Hotels and Resorts 866-406-2782 www.AquaGayTravel.com Hotels as diverse as our guests. Hotels on 5 islands, each with their own personality. See our ad on p. 3 CATERING Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Serving all Islands 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com Chef Raja from the Food Network’s “Extreme Chef” services all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs STATE wide. COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor/866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. GALLERY Let us be your guide! Mike Carroll Gallery 443 7th Street Lanai City, HI 96763 808-565-7122 www.mikecarrollgallery.com MASSAGE TM Spa at the Lodge at Koele 1 Keomoku Hwy Lanai City, HI 96763 808-565-4000 www.fourseasons.com/koele matterwhere whereyour yourtravels travelslead leadyou youininthe theSouthwest Southwestoror NoNomatter Pacifi c,the Pride Guide Famiy is there for you. Pacific,the Pride Guide Famiy is there for you. TO REACH THETHE LGBT COMMUNITY IN THE SOUTHWEST & PACIFIC STATES, TO REACH LGBT COMMUNITY IN THE SOUTHWEST & PACIFIC STATES, ha wa i i pridegu prideguide ide 2 20 01 12 2 CONTACT US US AT 888.830.3022 OR OR WWW.THEPRIDEGUIDES.COM CONTACT AT 888.830.3022 WWW.THEPRIDEGUIDES.COM 86 PHOTOGRAPHY Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on p. 98 Kelli Bullock Photography…Kelli with an eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on p. 71 Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. RESTAURANT L ANA’I ACCOMMODATION Café 565 408 8th Street Lanai City, HI 96763 808-565-6587 Lanai City Grille at Hotel Lanai 828 Lanai Ave. Lanai City, HI 96763 808-565-7211 www.hotellanai.com/grille WEDDING PLANNER White Orchid Wedding Serving all Islands 800-240-9336 www.whiteorchidwedding.com Let us “WOW” you beyond your wildest expectations! Pick any Hawaiian Island and we will be there! See our ad on p. 101 Lana’i 87 89 WEST MAUI, CENTRAL MAUI, SOUTH MAUI, UPCOUNTRY, EAST MAUI The second largest of the Hawaiian islands, Maui, the ‘Magic Isle,’ has a relatively small population, making it a quiet and peaceful place to live or to visit. Maui consists of two mountain ranges, massive Haleakala, a dormant shield volcano, in the east, and the West Maui Mountains - actually the remains of an older, extinct volcano - to the west, connected by an isthmus which forms the low-lying central plain. MAUI THE MAGIC ISLE The island is divided into five major regions - West, Central, South, Upcountry, and East Maui. WEST MAUI ® West Maui comprises Maui’s northwest corner, and features the major resort towns of Lahaina and Kapalua and the famed Ka’anapali Beach and Honalua Bay. Drier than other parts of Maui to the east, West Maui was once a gathering place for Hawaiian royalty, and Lahaina for a time served as the capital of the Kingdom of Hawai’i. It was also a major center of the whaling industry during the 19th century. Now, Lahaina is known most as a tourist destination, her famed Front Street a busy thoroughfare of shops and restaurants, terminating in the Banyan Tree Square at the south end, site of an enormous banyan tree as well as the reconstructed ruins of Lahaina Fort. Ka’anapali Beach, north of Lahaina and Front Street, features Pu’u Keka’a, ‘Black Rock,’ where a torch lighting and cliff diving ceremony is held nightly at the Sheraton Maui to commemorate a feat by the great H AWA I I VI SITO RS A N D C O N VEN T I O N B UR E AU ( HVC B ) / LI NDA C HI NG TO P : H AWA II TOU R IS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / RON DAHLQUIST. BOTTOM : H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / K IRK LE E AE D E R m aui 89 Maui King Kahekili. Ka’anapali is also the site of ocean side golf courses and Whalers Village, a major open air shopping destination. Nearby Kapalua is also noted for beautiful beaches, resorts, and golf courses; Honalua Bay is a popular surfing and snorkeling location, and during the winter months features enormous waves that test the mettle of the hardiest pro surfers. CENTRAL MAUI Central Maui is the major population center of the island. The county seat, Wailuku, is here, as is the largest popula- tion center, Kahului, immediately east of Wailuku. Kahului is the site of Kahului Airport, where the great majority of travelers will arrive on the island. To the west of Wailuku is scenic Iao Valley, once a retreat for the chiefs of Maui, where is located the iconic Iao Needle. Iao Valley was the scene of the great Battle of Kepaniwai between the forces of the Maui kingdom at Hawaiian King Kamehameha I, the ruler who united the Hawaiian islands into the Kingdom of Hawai’i. Wailuku features many historic buildings as well as locally owned shops and restaurants, while Kahului features retails stores and the Maui Arts & Cultural Center. SOUTH MAUI H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOHNS ON South Maui is the region along the island’s southwestern coast, including the towns of Kihei, Wailea, and Makena. Like West Maui, it is more dry than other parts of the island, featuring sandy, pleasant beaches, and is also a major resort area, with shopping, restaurants, and golf courses. Beaches here tend to be less crowded than those in Lahaina and Ka`anapali. Particularly well known is Makena Beach State Park, better known as ‘Big Beach,’ 2/3 of a mile of warm golden sand. Just north of Big Beach, across an outcrop of black volcanic rock, is ‘Little Beach,’ famous as both a nude beach and a gay beach. Little Beach features a wide assortment of people (young and old, gay and straight, nude and not quite) and on Sundays often hosts drum circles and fire dancing. Both beaches features warm sand and water, beautiful views of nearby Kaho’olawe Island and Molikini Crater, and are great for surfing, swimming, and snorkeling. Besides Little Beach, Kihei to the north hosts Maui Sunseeker Resort, the only resort on Maui catering specifically to the LGBT community, and much of the island’s bar scene in the area known locally as the ‘Triangle.’ Th is includes Ambrosia Martini Lounge, which hosts a gay night every Sunday evening, in case you feel like adding some nightlife to your Maui adventure. H AWA I I TOU R I SM JA PA N ( HTJ ) UPCOUNTRY MAUI Upcountry Maui, located along the western slopes of Haleakala Volcano, is a lush, green land of rolling hills and valleys. Farms, ranches, and wineries are to be found here, as is the summit of Haleakala itself, rising 10,023 feet above sea level. In the northern area, near the shore, is the town of Paia and the famed Ho’okipa Beach, windsurfing capital of the world. Paia itself is well known for her shops and eateries, particularly the fresh seafood. Farther up the slopes of Haleakala is the Kula region, a rich farming area where much of Maui’s delicious fresh produce comes from. Check out O’o Farm, the Ali’i Kula Lavender Farm, the Shim Coff ee and Protea Farm, and the Kula Botanical Gardens in this area. The town of Makawao, is known for her vibrant art scene as well as for the paniolo Hawaiian cowboys - who have been a part of Maui’s social fabric since the 1800’s. Take in the Hui No’eau Visual Arts Center while you’re here. EAST MAUI East Maui is a lush region, site of the famed, winding ‘Road to Hana’ along the northeastern coast, as well as the small town of Hana itself. Hana is the site of Pi’ilanihale Heiau, believed to be the largest heiau (ancient Hawaiian temple) in the Hawaiian islands, situated within Kanahu Gardens. There are also a number of gorgeous beaches. South of Hana are the beautiful Pools of Oheo, in Oheo Gulch in the Kiaphulu area of Haleakala National Park. Waterfalls and tropical forests cover East Maui, making the area an amazing getaway for hikers and sightseers. Waterfall-fed pools, at Oheo and throughout the area, offer the adventurous a chance to take a brisk swim in the flowing waters. The waterfalls themselves, such as the 400foot Waimoku Falls. There are two seasons in Maui; winter, from November through April, when temperatures typically range from the low-70s to the low-80s, and summer, when highs can reach the low-90s. Those are temperatures near the coasts and lowlands; higher up the mountains, temperatures drop, and near the summit of massive Haleakala are generally in the 40s or lower - so it may suit you to bring a sweater or jacket, depending on where you go and the time of year. H AWA II TOURISM AUTHORITY (HTA) / RON DAHLQU IST 90 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 m aui 91 ACCOMMODATIONS Aqua Hotels and Resorts 866-406-2782 www.AquaGayTravel.com Hotels as diverse as our guests. Hotels on 5 islands, each with their own personality. See our ad on p. 3 Aston Hotels and Resorts 866-774-2924 www.AstonHotels.com Choose from perfectly situated hotel rooms, spacious family-friendly accommodations and luxurious condominium suites. TAG Approved See our ad on p. 63 Dolphin's Point Maui Jackie & Larry 2274 S. Kihei Rd. Kihei/Wailea, HI 96753 808-283-2614 www.dreambeachmaui.com Private gated estate on white sand beach. See our ad on p. 92 Maui Sunseeker LGBT Resort Michael Waddell 551 S. Kihei Rd. Kihei, HI 96753 808-879-1261/800-532-6284 www.mauisunseeker.com Located on Maui's sunny South shore along Kihei's white sand beach, caters to the discerning gay and lesbian clientele, but welcomes all.E komo mai (Welcome) See our ad on p. 93 92 Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa 2600 Kaanapali Pkwy Lahaina, HI 96761 866-716-8109 www.sheraton-maui.com The premier location for a dream Hawaiian Wedding, Honeymoon or vacation. See our ad on p. 94 ACTIVITIES Alii Nui Sailing Charters 1455 S. Kihei Road Kihei, HI 96753 808-875-0333/800-542-3483 www.mauidiveshop.com Snorkeling excursions, sunset sails, weddings and whale watching. Hawaiian Paddle Sports 808-660-4228 www.hawaiianpaddlesports.com ”Your Private Alternative for Ocean Activities on Maui" See our ad on p. 94 No Ka Oi Adventures Wade Holmes 26 Luanaiki Place Kihei, HI 96753 808-256-2803 www.nokaoiadventures.com Nature-based Excursions for the Alternative Traveler See our ad on p. 95 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 m au i 93 Paradise is Better when Shared Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa is where people in love gather. Share memorable experiences with your partner in a place filled with pampering comforts, world-class dining and endless activities. Join us on beautiful Kā‘anapali Beach for the vacation of your dreams. Book at sheraton-maui.com or call 866 716 8109 ©2012 Starwood Hotels & Resorts Worldwide, Inc. All rights reserved. Sheraton and its logo are the trademarks of Starwood Hotels & Resorts Worldwide, Inc., or its afmliates. SMAU-23820_4-375x3-625_v3_F.indd 1 12/19/11 11:20 AM BARS & NIGHTCLUBS Sunseeker Activities 551 S. Kihei Rd. Kihei, HI 96753 808-879-1261 www.sunseekeractivities.com Ambrosia Martini Lounge 1913-H S. Kihei Rd. Kihei, HI 96753 808-891-1011 www.ambrosiamaui.com If there is one reason for Maui’s enduring popularity it is it’s diversity — the island’s uncanny ability to dazzle and soothe almost at the same time. Check out our website for a diversity of activities to enjoy this amazing island! See our ad on p. 95 CAKES Maui Wedding Cakes 100 Luluka Place Kihei, HI 96753 808-874-5932 www.mauiweddingcakes.com FOR UPDATED INFORMATION, PLEASE VISIT WWW.GOGAYHAWAII.COM 94 MAUI Proud to support the Maui LGBT Community. From simple wedding cakes for two, to elaborate towering confections, this award winning team can fulfill your wedding cake Fantasy. ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 m au i 95 COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY Both Sides Now Inc. P.O. Box 2007 Kihei, HI 96753 www.mauigayinfo.com We are an organization, dedicated to the education and celebration of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex and queer people of Maui. MASSAGE Maui Massage for Men 808-280-7175 www.mauimassageformen.com Start your Maui adventure with a Relaxing, Healing, Restorative massage. Maui Massage for Men strictly non-sexual. See our ad on p. 96 PHOTOGRAPHY Working to stop AIDS in Maui County by offering prevention, care and housing services. See our ad on p. 96 Maui Business Association 971-221-5292 www.facebook.com/mauibizassoc LGBT & Straight Allies networking organization. Maui Pride www.mauipride.org Extend your summer in Hawaii! Maui Pride Oct 5-7th, 2012 See our ad on p. 96 The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor/866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. CATERING Chef Raja from the Food Network's "Extreme Chef". Serving all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs on all islands. 96 Enjoy a Relaxing, Restorative, Healing, Massage for Men. Strictly non-sexual. FLORIST Ku 'O Lani Floral + Design Darren Keala 808-269-9900 www.kuolanifloral.com Call 808.280.7175 or visit www.MauiMassageForMen.com ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 LMT/MAT-8798 Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions 441 Pualani St. Wailuku, HI 96793 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com Jeannemarie Photography Jeannemarie 808-228-6973 www.jeannemariephoto.com Capturing all the moments of your day Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on p. 98 Kelli Bullock Photography …Kelli with an eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on p. 71 MAUI Maui AIDS Foundation 1935 Main St., Ste 101 P.O. Box 858 Wailuku, HI 96793 808-242-4900 www.mauiaids.org Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. Welcome to my passion in life, From your dreams to your special Maui Wedding Day. m au i 97 REAL ESTATE SERVICES Caron Barrett & Deborah Vial Coldwell Banker Island Properties 3750 Wailea Alanui, Ste. B-35 Wailea, HI 96753 808-575-2824 www.mauidreammachine.com Let us help you find your dream home in Maui! See our ad on p. 99 Denis Fuster Aloha Coast Realty 160 Keonekai Rd. #24-101 Kihei, HI 96753 808-640-5381 www.alohacoastmaui.com Condos, homes, oceanfront properties in Kihei. Sylvia Burton, Realtor-Broker Coldwell Banker Island Properties 3750 Wailea Alanui, Ste. B-35 Wailea, HI 96753 808-446-0256 www.alohasylvia.com Call on me to help you find your property in paradise!! Betty's Beach Café 505 Front St., Ste. 120 Lahaina, HI 96761 808-662-0300 www.bettysbeachcafe.com Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner $2 Happy Hour Margaritas every day. $13.95 live Maine Lobster every Wednesday. See our ad on p. 99 Café O’Lei Kihei 2439 S. Kihei Road #201A Kihei, HI 96753 808-891-1368 Café at La Plage 2395 S. Kihei Rd. Kihei, HI 96753 808-875-7668 A European-inspired café Bistro Casanova 33 Lono Ave. Kahului, HI 96732 808-873-3650 www.casanovamaui.com Casanova Italian Restaurant & Deli 1188 Makawao Avenue Makawao, HI 96768 808-572-0220 www.casanovamaui.com Buzz's Wharf 960 Front Street Lahaina, HI 96761 808-244-5426 www.buzzswharf.com Lulu's Lahina Surf Club & Grill 1221 Honoapiilani Hwy. Lahaina, HI 96761 808-661-0808 www.luluslahaina.com 98 MAUI RESTAURANTS ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 m au i 99 Pupu Lounge Seafood & Grill 1945 S. Kihei Rd Ste c-d Kihei, HI 96753 808-875-4111 Stella's Blues Café 1279 S. Kihei Road Kihei, HI 96753 808-874-3779 www.stellablues.com Three's Bar & Grill 1945 S. Kihei Road Kihei, HI 96753 808-879-3133 www.threesbarandgrill.com VIDEO/PHOTOGRAPHY Sterling Silver Productions Eileen McKee 279 Alaume St. Kihei, HI 96753 808-298-1886 www.sterlingsilverproductions.com A Lesbian owned & operated Production Company powered by the Sun. WEDDING PLANNERS Maui's Premiere & Exclusive Gay Civil Union Consultants See our ad on p. 101 Gay Hawaii Wedding 2703 Puuhoolai St. Kihei, HI 96753 808-891-1208 www.gayhawaiiwedding.com Gay Maui weddings...a blissful beginning…a lifetime of memories… Hawaii Civil Unions See our ad on p. 100 100 Coordinating same sex ceremonies since 1989 - simply the best and most experienced. See our ad on p. 101 MAUI Civil Unions Maui Darren Keala 808-269-9900 www.civilunionsmaui.com Royal Hawaiian Wedding, Inc. P.O. Box 424 Puunene, HI 96784 800-659-1866 www.hawaiigayweddings.com www.royalhawaiianweddings.com White Orchid Wedding P.O. Box 2696 Wailuku, HI 96793 800-240-9336 www.whiteorchidwedding.com Let us "WOW" you beyond your wildest expectations! Pick any Hawaiian Island and we will be there! See our ad on p. 101 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 m au i 101 H I L O , K A I L U A - K O N A , 103 W A I M E A Hawai’i – The Big Island abounds with natural wonder. From active volcanoes spewing molten magma, snowkissed mountain peaks, to lush tropical rainforest and its white, green and black sand beaches. You can find every major ecosystem on the planet all in one place. HAWAI’I THE BIG ISLAND The big Island of Hawai’i is an adventure of nature’s finest work. Hawai’i Island is actually formed from five individual shield volcanoes that erupted in succession. Of the five volcanoes, one is extinct, one is dormant and three are active to varying degrees. Kilauea for example has been erupting continuously since 1983 and is part of Hawai’i Volcanoes National Park. Mauna Kea could be considered the tallest mountain on the planet if you go from the ocean floor. It towers almost 14,000 feet above sea level and is snow capped most of the year. Mauna Loa is considered the widest volcano on the planet. Whether you’re planning a destination gay wedding, a relaxing intimate couple’s retreat, an anniversary celebration, single or group getaway – The Big Island of Hawaii has so much to offer in terms of pristine natural beauty. As the entire state is called Hawaii, many refer to the Island of Hawaii as “The Big Island” to avoid confusing it with the state in general. You’ll find that many of the island’s accommodations, restaurants, bars, social groups, services and venues are gay owned and operated, agreeable and very accommodating to the LGBT community. H AWA I I TOU R I SM AUT HO R IT Y ( HTA ) / TO R JO HNS O N TO P : H AWA II TOU R IS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / KIRK LEE AEDER. BOTTOM : H AWAII TOU RIS M AUTHORITY (HTA) / TOR JOH N S ON big island hawaii 103 HILO KAILUA-KONA Hilo is the county seat of The Big Island and the town overlooks the gorgeous and pristine Hilo Bay. Hilo in the native language means “to twist” and is home to several LGBT and gay friendly businesses as well as Pride Hilo, and a registered independent student organization at the University of Hawai’i, Hilo. Having one of the oldest established tourism areas in the Hawaiian Islands, Hilo boasts a bustling business area with plenty for LGBT travelers and tourists to see and do, including several shopping centers, bars, restaurants and cafes, a number of movie theaters and of course hotels. Be sure to check out the Hilo Farmers Market for fresh, seasonal fruits, flowers, coffee and local arts and crafts. There’s also a tsunami museum, a rainforest zoo and Hilo is home to the Mauna Loa Macadamia Nut Corporation. Hilo Farmers Market is open yearround every Wednesday and Saturday, “from dawn ‘til it’s gone,” this is one of the better open markets in Hawai’i. And food is only part of the fun. Arrive early for the best selection of made-in-Hawai’i crafts, fresh tropical flowers, aloha wear and handmade jewelry. Kailua-Kona established by King Kamehameha I to be his seat of government, the region has undergone a real estate and construction boom fueled by tourism and investment. Gay Kona is a Mecca of sorts, as Kailua-Kona is served by nearby Kona International Airport. Kailua is the start and finish of the annual Ironman World Championship triathlon, the Hawaiian International Billfish Tournament and the annual Kona Coffee Festival. Kona coffee is world renowned for its unique and distinctive rich flavors and the coffee plants thrive in the lush, local climate. Historic Kailua Village is no longer the sleepy fishing village it was for Hawaiian royalty. Leave from here on sport fishing charters or stroll down the main road of Ali’i Drive to find a variety of attractions beyond the shops and restaurants. Kailua Pier, the starting and finishing point of the world-famous Ironman World Championship, is a great place to watch the sunset. 104 WAIMEA The upland town of Waimea in paniolo (Hawaiian cowboy) country. Saddle up and ride through the wide-open spaces. ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 Several area ranches offer the opportunity to ride the range in a guided tour of the pastures with spectacular views of the coastline and peaks. For the less adventurous, there are storytelling tours by horse-drawn wagons. The ranchers and horses of the Big Island look forward to sharing their unique country with you. Pu’uhonua O Honaunau National Historic Park, also known as Hawai’i’s last “place of refuge,” provides a look into early Hawaiian culture. Restored to its early 1700’s appearance, step back into time and explore the many archeological sites including Keone’ele Cove, the royal canoe landing, as well as heiau (sacred place of worship), halau (long house of canoes) and fishponds. Beautiful at sunset, this sacred place gives visitors an important glimpse into Hawaiian culture. Because of its combination of high altitude, clear air and absence of light, Mauna Kea is home to many international observatories. Take a guided tour or learn about Mauna Kea and its observatories at the Onizuka Center for International Astronomy Visitor Information Center. Bring the family and see why stargazing atop Mauna Kea is such an unforgettable experience. A trip to Hawai’i Island would not be complete without a visit to Hawai’i Volcanoes National Park. Dramatic, diverse, vast (more than 333,000 acres) and still growing, the park has been designated a International Biosphere Reserve and a UNESCO World Heritage site. Beyond those very significant international honors, the Island’s volcanoes are revered and deeply respected as the home of the goddess Pele and of rare and threatened plant and animal species. The Kilauea Visitor Center is a good place to start any adventure in the park. A film introduces the park and rangers offer updates on volcano activity as well as maps. Driving the loop of Crater Rim Drive will take you 11 miles around the lip of the Kilauea Caldera. In addition to being a top gay destibig island hawaii nation, The Big Island is also known for its strides with “sustainable tourism”. Home to so many natural splendors and enthralling ecosystems, Hawai’i is focused on sustainable tourism growth. Dedicated to maintaining a vibrant island experience for years to come, as an LGBT tourist you’ll see evidence of this in everything from nature preserves, conservation districts and advanced support for the local economies, ecologies and precious natural resources as you partake of the island experience. There is no place on earth like Hawai’i Island. 105 Aloha Ocean Guesthouse Mark Johnson 14-4791 Kumuloulu Rd. Pahoa, HI 96778 808-965-1208 808-936-8822 www.alohagaytraveler.com Come to Hawaii: Celebrate your Partnership and stay in our deluxe oceanview private guesthouse! Aston Hotels and Resorts 866-774-2924 www.AstonHotels.com Choose from perfectly situated hotel rooms, spacious family-friendly accommodations and luxurious condominium suites. TAG Approved See our ad on p. 63 Hale Lalala and Hale Tapa Vacation Rentals Dwight 12-114 Ala Iki, RR2 #4857 Pahoa, HI 96778 808-965-8500 www.haletapa.com or www.hawaiilalala.com Perfect Homes for Personal or Group Vacation; Commitment Ceremony - Wedding; Artist/Spiritual Retreat; Ashes Ceremony BARS & NIGHTCLUBS COFFEE HOUSES The Mask-querade Bar 75-5660 Kopiko St., Ste. C5 Kailua-Kona, HI 96740 808-329-8558 www.themask-queradebar.com Bay Front Coffee, Kava & Tea Co. 116 Kamahameha Ave. Hilo, HI 96720 808-935-1155 Bear Café 106 Keawe St. Hilo, HI 96720 808-935-0708 www.bigislandgrinds.com CATERING Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Serving all Islands 808-870-3451 www.feastonthebeach.com COMMUNITY RESOURCES ADVOCACY Chef Raja from the Food Network’s “Extreme Chef” services all your Catering, Personal & Private Chef needs STATE wide. Ku Aloha Ola Mau 900 leilani Street Hilo, HI 96720 808-961-6822 www.dashhawaii.org Paradise Gourmet Catering 808-326-1244 www.paradisegourmet.com Committed to enhancing the quality of life in Hawaii through excellence in service and responsive action toward the individual and community’s needs surrounding chemical dependency. The island’s premier catering and event company providing uniquely designed events with superlative service and innovative cuisine. CEREMONY PERFORMERS Ku Aloha Ola Mau 15-1926 Puakala St. P.O. Box 2300 Pahoa, HI 96778 808-982-9555 www.dashhawaii.org Rev. Mark Johnson 808-965-1208 808-936-8822 www.alohagaytraveler.com Hilo Bay Hale Bed & Breakfast 301 Ponahawi St. Hilo, HI 96720 808-640-1113 www.hilobayhale.com Come to paradise and make your partnership official and stay in our deluxe private guesthouse!!! Stay in the heart of historic Hilo town and just minutes from the current lava flow in Puna. Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church 16-303 Ainaloa Blvd. P.O. Box 1292 Pahoa, HI 96778 808-339-0835 www.openarmspuna.com Committed to enhancing the quality of life in Hawaii through excellence in service and responsive action toward the individual and community’s needs surrounding chemical dependency. CHURCHES/SYNOGOGUES Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Hilo (PFLAG) 157 Keawe Street Hilo, HI 96720 808-238-2880 www.pflagbigisland.org The Trevor Project Teen Suicide Hotline 866-4-U-Trevor 866-488-7386 www.thetrevorproject.org The Trevor Project is a national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ youth. EVENT PLANNING Paradise Gourmet Catering 808-326-1244 www.paradisegourmet.com The island’s premier catering and event company providing uniquely designed events with superlative service and innovative cuisine. PHOTOGRAPHY Jeff King Photography Serving all Islands 808-333-3739 www.jeffkingphoto.com Photography services by award winning photographer, Jeff King, specializing in vacation photography, weddings, excursions and more See our ad on p. 98 Kelli Bullock Photography …Kelli with an eye Kelli Bullock Serving all Islands 808-387-5224 www.kellibullockphotography.com Kelli Bullock Photography specializes in destination weddings and unique, personal portraiture in the beautiful islands of Hawaii. See our ad on p. 71 BIG ISL AND ACCOMMODATIONS Support, Education, Advocacy, and local community information 106 ha wa i i pridegu ide 2012 big island hawai’i 107 Enjoy two skilled photographers, artistic enhancements, or request our ordained minister. RESTAURANT Café Pesto 308 Kamahameha Ave. Hilo, HI 96720 808-969-6640 www.cafepesto.com The latest and best of local Hawaiian Regional foods. Café Pesto 61-3665 Hwy #270 Kawaihae, HI 96743 808-882-1071 www.cafepesto.com No matter where your travels lead you in the Southwest or Pacific,the Pride Guide Famiy is there for you. TO REACH THE LGBT COMMUNITY IN THE SOUTHWEST & PACIFIC STATES, ha ha wa wa i ii ip rideguide pridegu ide 20 21 02 12 CONTACT US AT 888.830.3022 OR WWW.THEPRIDEGUIDES.COM 1 108 08 FOR UPDATED INFORMATION, PLEASE VISIT WWW.GOGAYHAWAII.COM Yen’s Café 235 Waianuenue Ave. Ste. 101 Hilo, HI 96720 808-933-2808 Great Selection of Vietnamese & Chinese Food WEDDING PLANNERS Huggo’s Restaurant 75-5828 Kahakai Road Kailua-Kona, HI 96740 808-329-1493 www.huggos.com Weddings, Memorials & Celebrations of Hawaii Dwight Hawai, Pastor, Celebrant RR2 #4857 Pahoa, HI 96778 808-965-8500 www.gayinfohawaii.com Tante’s Island Cuisine 75-5693 Alii Drive Kailua-Kona, HI 96740 808-334-1555 www.tantesrestaurant.com Wedding, Memorial, Retreat, Celebration. Professional assistance resourcing Locations, Accommodations, Flowers, Catering & Performers. Hawaii Registered Pastor, Celebrant. Specializing in the Freshest Seafood, Local Fresh Fish, Steaks and an emphasis on Local Favorite dishes in this casual and airy setting. TM PLEASE SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS The Oasis Café 211 Kilauea Ave. Hilo, HI 96720 808-990-1961 White Orchid Wedding Serving all Islands 800-240-9336 www.whiteorchidwedding.com Let us “WOW” you beyond your wildest expectations! Pick any Hawaiian Island and we will be there! See our ad on p. 101 BIG ISL AND Let us be your guide! Penny Palmer Photography Penny Palmer Serving all Islands 808-205-1409 www.pennypalmerphotography.com Falafel, shwarma, and other sandwiches on home baked pita bread. big island hawai’i 109 110 INDEX TO ADVERTISERS INDEX TO ADVERTISERS A F Alan R. Spector, LCSW Alii Nui Sailing Charters Aloha Bears Aloha Ocean Guesthouse Ambrosia Martini Lounge Aqua Hotels and Resorts Aston Hotels and Resorts Auntie Pasto’s First Unitarian Universalist Church Fusions Nightclub 72 92 68 106 95 56,62,81,87,92 56,62,92,106 70,75 Gay Hawaii Wedding Gay Kauai Weddings Gregory House Programs Hale Lalala and Hale Tapa Vacation Rentals Hawaii Weddings & Events Hawaiian Paddle Sports Hilo Bay Hale Bed & Breakfast Hilton Waikiki Beach Hong Kong Café The Honolulu Gay & Lesbian Cultural Foundation Honolulu Men’s Chorus Honolulu Pride Hotel Renew Huggo’s Restaurant Hula Shores Hula’s Bar and Lei Stand Hula’s Café 74 107 107 98 98 62 97 98 98 98 87 109 64 98 98 70 56,65,81,87,96,106 65 70 100 81 The Imperial Court of Hawaii In Between In Heaven Commitments 110 Jeannemarie Photographer Jeff King Photography 98 92 57 65 74 57,72 56,68,97 56,68,81,87,97,107 K Kanemitsu Bakery Kauai Calls Kelli Bullock Photography…Kelli with an eye KEO’s Thai Cuisine Kilauea Bakery Kilauea Fish Market Koloa Fish Market Ku Aloha Ola Mau Ku‘O Lani Floral + Design Kulia Na Mamo 65 ha wa i i prideguide 67 67 67 62 109 81 74 70 J E Equality Hawaii 106 72 92 106 62 57 I D Denis Fuster Dolphin’s Point Maui Duane’s Ono Char-Burger 100 57 65 H C Café at La Plage Café O’Lei Kihei Café 565 Café Pesto Cake Works Caron Barrett & Deborah Vial Casanova Italian Restaurant & Deli Chai’s Island Bistro Chef RAJA: Tiki Torch Productions Church of the Crossroads Cinnamons Restaurant Civil Unions Maui Coffees of Hawaii 65 74 G B Bacchus Waikiki Bay Front Coffee, Kava & Tea Co. Bear Café Betty’s Beach Café Bistro Casanova Bookkeepervirtual.com Both Sides Now Inc. Buzz’s Wharf 111 2012 index to advertis ers 81 56 56,70,81,87,97,107 75 57 57 57 65,107 97 65 111 112 INDEX TO ADVERTISERS INDEX TO ADVERTISERS L R La Cucaracha Lanai City Grille at Hotel Lanai Lesbian & Gay Business of Hawaii Life Foundation Lo Jax Lulu’s Lahina Surf Club & Grill Rabbi Petter Schaktman The Rainbow Civil Union Church Red Hot Mama’s Rev. Dr. Jonipher Kwong Rev. Mark Johnson Royal Hawaiian Wedding, Inc. Rum Fire 75 87 67 65 74 98 M Mac 24-7 MANOH The Mask-querade Bar Maui AIDS Foundation Maui Business Association Maui Massage for Men Maui Pride Maui Sunseeker LGBT Resort Maui Wedding Cakes Mike Carroll Gallery Monico’s Taqueria Sam Choy’s Breakfast, Lunch and Crab Sheraton Maui Resort & Spa Sheraton Waikiki Hotel Soul De Cuba Café Spa at the lodge at Koele Stella’s Blues Café Sterling Silver Productions Sunseeker Activities Sylvia Burton, Realtor-Broker Tante’s Island Cuisine Tapa’s Restaurant and Lanai Bar Temple Emanu-El Three’s Bar & Grill The Trevor Project 92 The Oasis Café 109 Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church 106 Uncle Bo’s 81 106,107 72,75 W Wang Chung’s Weddings, Memorials & Celebrations of Hawaii West O’ahu Hope for A Cure Foundation White Orchid Wedding The Wine Stop 107 56 65 56,70,81,87,97,109 57 100 ha wa i i prideguide 109 72,74,75 65 100 56,67,81,87,97,107 U P 112 70 92 62 70 87 100 100 94 98 T O Paddler’s Inn Paradise Gourmet Catering Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Hilo (PFLAG) Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Kauai (PFLAG) Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays Oahu (PFLAG) Penny Palmer Photography Polynesia Café Pupu Lounge Seafood & Grill 72 72 57 72 106 100 74 S 70,75 68 106 97 97 97 97 92 95 87 57 N No Ka Oi Adventures 113 74 109 67 57,72,81,87,100,109 64,72 Y Yen’s Café 2012 index to advertis ers 109 113 Some Dreams Do Come True... 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