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I S S U E S I X T Y-T W O 0 2 /12 W W W.O U T M AG .C O.UK £FREE INSIDE LGBT HISTORY MONTH FORT LAUDERDALE KEN LIVINGSTONE LA JOHNJOSEPH Azari & III YO U R D I S C O N E E D S T H E M PLUS... READERS’ AWARDS... COULD YOU ADOPT?... 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Opinions expressed in Out In The City are not neccessarily those of the publishers. © Square Peg Media Ltd 2000 - 2009. Square Peg Media Ltd t/a Out In The City magazine will not take any responsibility for any loss/claim resulting from a transaction with one of our advertisers/ Media Partners. Whenever a city hosts the summer Olympics, it also hosts a collection of ‘houses’ for each participating nation – allowing the athletes, their friends, families and their nation’s dignitaries, somewhere to meet and socialise. When London hosts the Olympics this summer, there are plans for the first Olympic Pride House – an area for LGBT athletes, their friends, supporters and members of the public. Pride House is scheduled to be sited on Clapham Common and will stay open for 26 days – covering the Olympics and Para-Olympics. The space will have big screens on which to show Olympic events, and will also host some live performances and concerts. The event application has been approved in principle, and as long as the organisers comply with local council’s requests, should go ahead. However, a couple of local councillors have registered objections to the event, as have the ‘Friends of Clapham Common’ group. “The Pride House event, taking place in the same month as Gay Pride, is highly likely to become a magnet for undesirable elements of that community,” was one of a list of objections that they registered. Undesirable elements? Charming language indeed! The event application has been approved in principle, but if you want to add your voice in support of the event – an historic development in terms of LGBT sport in the UK – you can email your comment to [email protected]. At the time of going to press, there is also a petition collecting signatures, which can be signed at the 2 Brewers, Kaz Bar and Halfway 2 Heaven. Read about Pride House, and other developments in LGBT sport in the UK, in our feature on LGBT History Month on pages 43-45. Elsewhere in this issue, we also speak to gay couples who have adopted or fostered children, ahead of the UK’s first LGBT Adoption and Fostering Week. Again, this is a landmark event that shows how attitudes within society are changing for the better. Check out our article on these amazing families on pages 56-50. The next issue of Out In The City hits the streets on 28 February. In the meantime, receive updates by liking our new Out In The City Facebook page or follow us on Twitter. [email protected] @OutInTheCityMag CONTENTS 04 LETTERS Send your correspondence to editorial@outmag. co.uk 06 MY LONDON Performer La JohnJoseph gives us his capital highlights 08 SHOPPING Voguing remembered, Valentine’s sweets and the Pet Shop Boys 12 AZARI AND III Canada’s hot new disco export hits British shores 14 READERS AWARDS We announce the winners of our first annual readers awards 16 KEN LIVINGSTONE We have an exclusive chat with PHOTO © CHRIS JEPSON Neil Geraghty, Nick Levine, Steven Sparling, Soren Stauffer-Kruse, Richard Tonks, Michael Turnbull, Josh Winning 32 Labour’s mayoral candidate 19 DIARY February’s cultural highlights and arts listings 20 MUSIC New albums from Lana Del Ray and Band of Skulls 22 FILM The Descendants, Carnage and The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel reviewed 26 THEATRE Execution of Justice reviewed and theatre news 28 FOOD The Angel and Crown reviewed 16 31 OUT THERE Scene highlights for February, plus coverage of The Cambria and the revamped Edge on Soho Square 43 OUTREACH Details of February’s LGBT History Month events and Student Pride in Brighton 48 OUTNEWS The new Stonewall Workplace Equality Index 54 FAMILY Could you adopt or foster? We chat to gay couples who have created a family through adoption and fostering 62 PROPERTY New items for the home and the end of the Stamp Duty holiday 70 TRAVEL Fort Lauderdale and Exclusively Pride 79 BODY AND SOUL Agony uncle, PH Therapies and Body Talk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 3 READERS’ LETTERS: FEBRUARY 2012 FEEDBACK S E N D YO U R P R A I S E , R A N TS O R C O M M E N TS TO E D I TO R I A L@ O U T M A G . C O . U K - A LL L E T T E R S P R I N T E D W I N A P R I Z E … SEEING RED Re: Gay and ginger, [OITC – January 2012] I’m happy for you. But bottom of the gay barrel is East Asian (or oriental, as you Brits still say). Don’t believe me? Just look around in ‘personals’ profiles. wanting ‘special rights’. All we want is to be treated the same as everyone else – to grow up in a world that doesn’t vilify or demonise us. Some people are gay, get over it! Chris, Seven Sisters Ah134, via www.outmag.co.uk website SEEING RED #2 RE: Gay and ginger, [OITC – January 2012]. Runt of the litter? Umm, try being a gay person of colour in London or anywhere for that matter. Just sayin’. GAY, via www.outmag.co.uk website IN THE RED I was very interested to read Gary Nunn’s piece about being gay and ginger [OITC – January 2012]. I am also ginger, and although no one has told me to my face that they don’t fancy me because I am a redhead, I have sometimes been shocked by comments that I have read on the internet, or the odd comments that I have overheard. I still remember meeting one guy who, despite having seen photos of me online, seemed taken aback by my appearance. “Wow, you really are very ginger, aren’t you?”… he semi-joked (whilst also appearing to be semi-aghast!). I could tell immediately that he found it a bit of a turn-off and the date went rapidly downhill from there. Thankfully, I am now with a wonderful man who never tires of telling me how much he loves my red hair and pale skin. I also love my red hair, but it does bother me that some guys seem to have a hang-up about it. Martin, Hammersmith ‘Like’ our new Facebook page: Out In The City WRITE TO US AND WIN A PRIZE... 4 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Follow us on Twitter: @OutInTheCityMag TRAGIC TALE Thank you for your lengthy feature on Roger and Dominic Crouch [OITC – January 2012]. I was shocked and saddened to read their story. What a truly tragic waste of life. My heart goes out to his family, especially Roger’s surviving wife and daughter. I do hope they have the strength and support to pull together. Suicide can rip apart the lives of loved ones left behind. Their story illustrates how homophobia can have devastating consequences. It angers me when some people harp on about LGBT people DADDY DEAREST I was pleased to read your piece with Richard Hutchings [January 2012] – the gay man who had a child with a couple of lesbian friends. I have been very seriously thinking about embarking on the same path. I can’t afford surrogacy, but am interested in being a father. The arrangement that he has reached is exactly the sort of thing that interests me, so I was glad to read about it. I’d like to be a dad but don’t think I have the finances or lifestyle to be a full-time parent, but reading his story inspired me. Most importantly, from what he says, his child sounds lucky to have three devoted parents – and that’s surely the most important thing. Darnell, Crouch End Anyone who had a letter printed this month won a copy of new DVD We Were Here Anyone who has a letter published in the March issue of Out In The City will win a copy of the Pet Shop Boys’ new CD compilation, Format – a collection of B-sides and bonus tracks spanning 1996-2009. It’s released 6 February on Parlophone. The writer of March’s Star Letter will win a copy of Format and acclaimed new gay movie August. Set in LA, it follows the plight of Jonathan, who is dating Raul, but finds himself tempted to stray when an ex-boyfriend Troy returns to the US after several years abroad. It’s released on 13 February by Peccadillo Pictures. Send letters to [email protected], and please include your name and address if you want to be in with a chance of winning a prize. LISTED LONDONER MY LONDON PERFORMER LA JOHNJOSEPH GIVES U S H I S C A P I TA L H I G H L I G H TS … Portrait by CHRIS JEPSON Where do you come from originally? Liverpool, la; like Cilla herself! Where do you currently live and when did you move there? I live in London Fields, just off Broadway market. Before that, I lived all over London – all over the world in fact, but I always end up back here. I’m an ersatz Londoner, really: a Londoner by default rather than intent. What’s the best thing about living in London? The museums are free: amazing; inspiring. It’s a privilege to live in a city with such a huge amount of accessible art. …and the worst? Financial inequality. I imagine this is how it must have felt to live in Ancient Rome: ostentatiously rich people living side by side with people who can barely make ends meet. Worse: people sleeping rough just a stone’s throw away from hotel rooms that cost £2,500 a night. This satanic cabal of a government has done nothing to help that. What are your favourite restaurants? Where do you escape the city? I am a creature of the city: I like to be alone with everyone. When I do slip away I go to see my family in Lancashire, we take trips to all the stately homes up there. Or Cornwall: most magical place in England. Summertime, it’s beautiful. What’s the most you’ve paid for a cab, and to where? I never take cabs. I walk everywhere as it helps me think. I also hardly ever take the tube. I like the bus. It’s the perfect place to discover new strains of lunacy, and develop your homicidal impulses. If you were mayor for a day, what would you do to improve London? Enforced attendance for all members of the Greater London Authority to contemporary dance classes; and turn Buckingham Palace into a bath house. Name a place or location of sentimental value to you… The cheese counter at Fortnum & Mason. Favourite London song… Amyl Nitrate’s version of ‘Rule Britannia’ from Derek Jarman’s film, Jubilee. Daquise in South Kensington is a dusty old treat; it looks as though it hasn’t been renovated since 1976, but the food is great: Polish, very hearty. Also, Made in Italy on Old Compton Street has great pizza. What’s London’s most beautiful building? Where do you go drinking? Are you single, partnered or dating? I like cocktail parties, and I like to patrol the guest list. I’m usually involved in a feud with someone, so I like to know in advance whom I’m going to have to put up with on any given occasion. My friend (and musical director) Jordan Hunt throws marvellous clothingoptional soirées at his penthouse on the Thames. Favourite tourist haunt? Isaac Newton’s grave, of course! Favourite green space? Regent’s Park. The foliage there has a real air of restraint, which I appreciate, probably because I don’t have any of my own. 6 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK St Etheldreda’s Church, near Holborn; it’s one of the oldest Catholic churches in the country: centuries’ worth of spirituality vibrating in there. I am in love with the world! And also, my boyfriend. Invite us to a party… My top tip here is to find out what A Man To Pet is doing on any given night and go there. She is hilarious and so charismatic and sexy. We had a wild weekend performing last year in Zagreb! I’ve never been able to look a Waldorf salad in the face since! La JohnJoseph stars in Boy In A Dress at the Oval House theatre from 14 February until 3 March (8pm and 2.30pm Saturday matinees). www.ovalhouse.com www.boyfriendrobotique.blogspot.com SHOPPING: FEBRUARY 2012 SHOPPING P E T S H O P P R O D U CT, S W E E T VA L E N T I N E S , S E X Y V O G U E S C E N E A N D L E AT H E R H E A R TS . FACE OFF Following news that Precious director Lee Daniels is working on a drama series about the underground ball scene, which gave rise to voguing, comes this new book from Soul Jazz: Voguing and the House Ballroom Scene of New York City 1989-92 (Soul Jazz Books). The photographs by Chantal Regnault perfectly capture this underground scene at its peak. It features dancers such as Willi Ninja, Jose and Luis Xtravaganza – as well as the legendary ‘mothers’ of the gay and transgender world – Avis Pendavis, Peppa LaBeija, Carmen Xtravaganza, Dorian Corey, Paris Dupree and more. With an introductory essay about the scene by Tim Lawrence, the book is available now priced £17.99 from www.souljazzrecords.co.uk and there is also an accompanying CD out now. PHOTOGRAPH © CHANTAL REGNAULT. COURTESY OF SOUL JAZZ BOOKS NEW FORMAT A double album of rare Pet Shop Boys material? Yes please! Neil Tennant and Chris Lowe release their new B-sides collection as a double CD entitled Format this month. The collection boasts a whopping 38 tracks, pulling together B-sides from 19962009. Highlights include Pet Shop Boys and Elton John tackling ‘In Private’, ‘We’re All Criminals Now’, ‘The Truck Driver and His Mate’ and ‘Friendly Fire’ (from their musical Closer To Heaven). It’s out 6 February on Parlophone. SWEET STUFF With Valentine’s coming up, you need little excuse to invest in something sugary for your beloved. As a change to chocolates, we like the Sweets in the City range of products, such as these sweet shakes from £4.50. Available from Harvey Nichols, Scribbler and online at www.sweetsinthecity. co.uk 8 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK ALL HEART A small, simple gift to the man you love this Valentine’s Day: this Love Heart Key Ring from Byron and Brown, made in red, super-soft, Italian Nappa leather. It comes boxed and tissuewrapped and costs £10 from www.byronandbrown.co.uk BAROMETER: FEBRUARY 2012 THE WORD D E E P D E S I R E S , C E N S O R E D ST R I P P I N G A N D C A L M I N G A P P S F O R I P H O N E O R I PA D ON FIRE PERFUME GENIUS ...otherwise known as Mike Hadreas. Album Put Your Back N 2 It is out this month, preceded by tender single ‘Hoods’. Check out the video on Youtube. APP OF THE MONTH MYHIV.ORG.UK A year after launching, this groundbreaking website has over 3,000 users and has been heralded as the UK’s largest online support for people with HIV. KEEP CALM AND CARRY ON Hit gay film: Weekend DEEP DESIRES, BROKEN DREAMS Deep Desires & Broken Dreams is the name of gay film festival taking place in Hammersmith this month. Riverside Studios will be playing host to this ‘celebration of classic and contemporary gay cinema’ from 16-22 February. The festival will include the UK premiere of eCupid (Sunday 19 Feb) and Judas Kiss (Wednesday 22 February), acclaimed recent releases Weekend (17 Feb), We Were Here (19 Feb) and The British Guide To Showing Off (18 Feb), plus classics such as Suddenly Last Summer, screening on the afternoon of Sunday 19 February. Tickets cost £8.50 for single film screenings or £12.50 for two films Full details and booking information at www.riverside.co.uk The old ‘Keep Calm and Carry On’ poster, originally created by the British Ministry of Information during World War II, has become something of a contemporary phenomenon. Now you can adapt and create your own variations with this fun App that offers a range of different images and wording variations. It’s only 69 of your hard-earned pence from iTunes. 10 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK The sort of banal but funny nonsense only found on the internet: random pictures of Ross Kemp. Folded. http://kempfolds. blogspot.com/ THIS MONTH’S RISE AND FA L L OLYMPIC BEDSPREADS FAMED AMATEUR STRIP UNDER THREAT BJs White Swan, one of London’s most famous gay bars, may be facing a battle with Tower Hamlets council to allow it to continue running it’s long-running Wednesday Amateur Strip Night. The local authority has recently embarked on a consultation process to enforce new legislation to close venues that offer lap-dancing, pole-dancing or striptease. Barry Kirk, joint-owner of the White Swan, told the BBC, “We’ve survived a lot over the years; but Wednesday is our only busy weeknight. If they kill off our Wednesday nights, we’ll be threatened with closure.” A council spokeswoman said, “No decision has been made in relation to which premises would be deemed to be sex establishments. The council is part way through the analysis and evaluation of the sex establishment consultation that took place in autumn. There were a record number of responses to the consultation and it was clear that residents felt strongly about the matter. A consultation meeting was held with [local LGBT organisation] Rainbow Hamlets and these views, along with all of the others collected as part of the consultation process, will be considered.” ROSS KEMP FOLDS QUOTE OF THE MONTH ‘My mum said she would disown me if I did Celebrity Big Brother!’ Boy George explains why you’re not likely to catch him participating in reality TV any time soon… Olympic merchandise goes into overdrive… resulting in possibly the nastiest bedspreads we’ve come across in many a month... SIMON COWELL’S DJ TALENT SHOW The X Factor supremo has hinted at plans for a show to discover the world’s next great DJ. Sounds like a very bad way of discovering DJ talent. LIONEL RITCHIE We admire Mr Ritchie and were interested to read about his new duets album… until we read that it includes a duet with… um, Pixie Lott. ON ICE C O V E R S TA R S : A Z A R I & I I I THE I’S HAVE IT… A H E A D O F T H E R E L E A S E O F T H E I R N E W S I N G L E A N D A N I N T I M AT E LO N D O N S H O W, M I C H A E L T U R N B U LL TA L K S TO H O U S E M U S I C LO V E R S A Z A R I & I I I … Toronto may not seem the most obvious place for the emergence of an intergalactic, polysexual, funky house, all-singing, all-voguing quartet, but that’s exactly what’s happened with the formation of Azari and III. Dinamo Azari and Alixander III had been DJ’ing for years until one Boxing Day they found themselves spinning against each other in a fierce clubland competition. The pair united, picked up Fritz Helder and the bizarrely named Starving Yet Full along the way, and – in the shape of their eponymous debut – created one of the darkest, sexiest, electro-pop albums since Fischerspooner’s Odyssey. The new single, ‘Reckless (With Your Love)’, will not only having you sprinting for the dancefloor, but it also carries a political message on the dangers of HIV. With rumours of Madonna asking them to tour with her and fans including Johnny Depp, Tinie Tempah and The XX, Azari and III are without doubt ones to watch in 2012. Michael Turnbull talks to Alixander III and Starving Yet Full to find out the real story on how they met, when is the right moment to wear a furry codpiece, and their definition of a ‘Man Hooker’. Do you go out much when you’re in London? Alixander: Not so much; we’re normally working. My hotel room was the best place I went. Did we have a party in our hotel room? Ha ha... sadly, no. You have great stage names, is there some mythology behind how you all came together? A: That’s the question we hate most; so whatever is out there is probably not true. We sometimes lie about where we all met. Starving: Oh, we totally met on the Drop Zone ride in Wonderland Theme Park. We were all holding hands, wished each other good luck and then met at the bottom. Was there an artist you bonded over? A: Not really, we just met through the Holy Ghost team who brought us together. And within 49 hours of meeting him we had written the music for both ‘Man Hooker’ and ‘Hungry For The Power’. We liked the image of a ‘Man Hooker’ being one guy in the darkness, looking for love and sex, and being lost at night and sleeping all day. Is the guy gay? A: Not really. I guess gay culture came 12 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK ‘above ground’ in my teenage years. But everyone is gay. What does it mean? OK, well, it means you’re a homo; maybe it means you’re flamboyant; who knows what it means any more? It’s a very blurred line. There are more people thinking, ‘You know what? I could fuck that guy. I’d never really thought of it before, I’ve always thought of myself as a straight guy but hey, why not?’ The social attitude no longer makes people fear that if they go and fuck a guy they will be ostracised by their jock buddies. Is Toronto very gay-friendly? S: Canada is known for being open and proud; it is famous for having one of the biggest Gay Prides in the world. A: You might have a harder time in rural Canada, but we wouldn’t know! Entering Toronto is like entering the safe zone. It’s like Babylon, you can get away with anything. What music did you grow up on? A: Whatever came on the radio really, from Jerry Lee Lewis to Eddy Grant. That was until I was old enough to form my own opinions. Then it was like the original 80s British indie shoegazing stuff. I would enter local radio show competitions to win tickets. I saw Happy Mondays on the Pills and Thrills tour. I saw My Bloody Valentine on their first tour. S: The radio was never really on in my house. But I do remember there being a one-hour special TV show on a Saturday and they played a bunch of different stuff from Stevie Wonder to George Michael to Celine Dion. So now when you’re on stage you’re channelling Naomi in George Michael’s ‘Freedom’ video? S: Exactly! Voguing seems to be big again. Is it happening to Toronto too? S: Not really. I remember about four or five years ago I first caught on to voguing and then, before I knew it, everyone was going home and learning to dance. At the time it was to R’n’B, then dance, then house. But now everyone vogues to anything! Hell, I’ll vogue to rhythm dancehall! A: Why be limited? I used to listen to techno all night. I was like “Fuck house music!” Voguing has modified. It’s a little less harsh... not as confrontational. S: At the time when the houses mattered, you had Old School; you had Old Way, which was pretty much the Madonna ‘Vogue’. Then that gave way to New Wave, where everything is more about who can spin better, who can dip harder, who can do a better hand performance – it’s huge. How was coming out for you? S: I’ve never been that ‘in the closet’ kid. Even from the clothes I wore as a kid and the way I carried myself, people would say to my parents, ‘Oh I think your son is going to be gay when he grows up.’ A: Starving Yet Full is beyond gay, straight, human! He’s definitely his own creature. Are you seeing anyone? S: Not at the moment, I just want to focus on what we’ve got going on here. But I’ve got a date on Friday, actually. I got a random text yesterday from a guy I gave my number to. So we’ll see... Alixander, are you gay? A: Majority straight. I don’t have time. I’ve had a girlfriend for the last ten years. Back then I would say I was straighter. What’s your audience like? S: Being at the front, I can see that normally, the first rows are our gay fans with a bunch of girls, then right at the back are the super-straight boys. Do you prefer playing your own gigs to festivals or club nights? A: We like to play shows. Festivals are great – whether it’s five in the afternoon or five in the morning, you just go out on stage and there’s a crowd of people. We’d rather play a beautiful hall with a nice balcony so people feel like they are seeing an actual show. Even though our music is considered dance music because of the beat, when we perform it live you don’t need to be in a club. It’s almost better in an environment where you can hear and see the performance not just lasers. What’s your wardrobe inspired by? A: We’re all a little different. I’m stuck in this Mod look. I’m a slim Italian. I like crispy shit. S: He likes to be comfortable. Normally, I wear a chiffon shirt or something flowy. I like to move around a lot with my hands. It depends on the mood I’m in. There was a fur cod-piece for Lovebox. A: Maybe we’ll all be in suits one day, but Fritz is definitely the more S&M-y one out of us. And Cedric [aka Starving Yet Full] is like a bag of Skittles. Everything is bright colours... ‘Reckless (With Your Love)’ out on 12 February and the band’s self-titled debut album on 19 February. Catch them performing a full show at Heaven on 2 February. http://azariandiii.com/ ALIXANDER III STARVING YET FULL FRITZ HELDER DINAMO AZARI READERS’ AWARDS OUT IN THE CITY READERS’ AWARDS The votes have been counted and the winners revealed. Last month we announced the nominees – as suggested by you – for our first annual readers’ awards. We ran online voting for a month over Christmas and January and can now announce who came out on top! HOUSING PROVIDER OF THE YEAR WVINNER – NEWLON RUNNER-UP – BARRATT weren’t surprised to find that Apple came out top in this category – closely followed by your favourite dating website. www.apple.com/uk/ NEWLON Congratulations to Newlon, developer of eyecatching London properties such as Hale Village in Tottenham Hale. www.newlon.org.uk CHARITY OF THE YEAR WINNER – TERRENCE HIGGINS TRUST RUNNER-UP – STONEWALL HOLIDAY DESTINATION OF THE YEAR WINNER – ISRAEL RUNNER-UP – SWITZERLAND Given the growing popularity of Tel Aviv Pride, and the country’s reputation as an LGBT-friendly hot spot, Israel romped to victory in this category. www.thinkisrael.com The UK’s largest charity dedicated to fighting the spread of HIV and AIDS, and supporting those affected by the disease, the Terrence Higgins Trust just pipped equal rights charity Stonewall to top position. www.tht.org.uk/ TEL AVIV CAMPAIGNER OF THE YEAR RECRUITER OF THE YEAR WINNER – BARRIE & TONY DREWITT-BARLOW RUNNER-UP – BEN COHEN WINNER – ERNST & YOUNG RUNNER-UP – SELFRIDGES Not only did Ernst & Young top the latest Stonewall Workplace Equality Index, but the organisation also came out top in our poll – followed by the famed department store Selfridges. www.ey.com/uk For their work in highlighting issues around gay parenthood, gay Essex dads Barrie and Tony clearly struck a chord with our readers... as did lovely former rugby player Ben Cohen and his Stand Up Foundation! www.britishsurrogacycentre.co.uk GAYDAR GAY ICON OF THE YEAR DATING SITE OF THE YEAR WINNER – GAYDAR RUNNER-UP – GRINDR LADY GAGA Gaydar and Grindr fought it out for this honour, but in the end, Gaydar emerged as still being the most popular gay dating site with our readers. www.gaydar.co.uk WINNER – LADY GAGA RUNNER-UP – WILL YOUNG Having released a single called ‘Born This Way’, and announced the launch of her own Born This Way Foundation to help combat intolerance and to empower young people, we weren’t shocked to find Lady Gaga heralded as the year’s top gay icon. http://ladygaga.co.uk/ GAY FAMILY INITIATIVE OF THE YEAR BAR OF THE YEAR WINNER – BSC RUNNER-UP – PRIDE ANGEL WINNER – KU BAR RUNNER-UP – G-A-Y BAR British Surrogacy Centre, which exists to help UK residents create families through surrogacy abroad, won this award, followed by the Pride Angel sperm and egg donation organisation. www.britishsurrogacycentre.co.uk BSC FESTIVAL OF THE YEAR PRIDE LONDON KU BAR WINNER – PRIDE LONDON RUNNER-UP – BRIGHTON PRIDE CLUB OF THE YEAR WINNER – XXL RUNNER-UP – POPSTARZ Congratulations to the team at Pride London on scooping this honour – and to departing Pride London chair Paul Birrell. Here’s looking forward to World Pride in London this summer! BRAND OF THE YEAR WINNER – APPLE RUNNER-UP – GAYDAR Our readers do love well-executed design products – APPLE not to mention their iPhones and iPods – so we 14 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Many congratulations to guv’nor Gary Henshaw and his teams at the Ku bars. With a constant rotation of top nights and drinks promotions – not to mention the gorgeous bar staff – Ku was crowned your winner this year – just ahead of the G-A-Y Bar. www.ku-bar.co.uk XXL Beyoncé Again, huge congratulations to Mark Ames and his team at XXL for scooping the ‘Club of the Year’ accolade from our winners – the night has a large and loyal following, and has been consistently judged one of the best men’s nights on the scene. They were followed by Popstarz – another longrunning institution with its own hardcore following. www.xxl-london.com feature CARRY ON KEN Ken Livingstone is a high-profile politician with both the experience and credentials to run the greatest capital city in the world. After all, he’s run it before – spending eight years as mayor from 2000-2008. Still ambitious, it makes him a real threat to the incumbent Tory, Boris Johnson, when they clash again at the polls later this year. Out in the City quizzed him on his past record and new vision for the city… Not as brave as the people who came out! In my new autobiography: You Can’t Say That, I mention what the papers said about it: I was ‘encouraging perverts’, blah blah. I got so much flak in 1981. In The Telegraph, Boris [Johnson] wrote: ‘Why don’t we just allow a man to marry his dog?’. I think the fact that the world didn’t go mad when we introduced the CP register is what gave the Labour government the courage to make them legal. this idea that you can’t discuss it in school. Homophobic bullying in schools is bad; it needs to be openly talked about. What are your campaign targets this time? Three main issues: the cost of transport, policing numbers and crime, and the shortage of housing and cost of rents. How will you tackle travel fares? We can cut the fares by 7%, an average £1,000 per person saved over a mayoral term. They will spend this in the community and help sustain jobs. All projects Boris inherited from me that weren’t contractually committed, he Why did you take a stand on LGBT rights? I grew up in a time when it was illegal to be gay. Dirk Bogarde, a big matinee idol, did a massive breakthrough film [Victim] where he played a closet gay barrister. The film caused uproar; ended his mass appeal; he only did niche films after that. It seemed shocking to the audience that here were real people with real feelings. I came of age politically when homosexuality was made legal in 1967; but, legal or not, it was unacceptable: ministers resigned if they were found out. Twenty year later, MPs still stepped down if they were outed. Chris Smith came out in the ‘87 or ‘88 and it was still ten years after that before it stopped being an issue. London’s a tolerant city for gay people. Is that one of your major accomplishments? We have a big LGBT community because London has a tolerant attitude. There are so many here because gays and lesbians are basically refugees from intolerant parts of the country. In some countries, they still put people to death and outside of a few Western nations, there’s a long way to go. The LGBT community have come a long way towards equality, but what changes still need to be made? Simple things, like reinstating the reception for Pride at City Hall. I can’t believe Boris ended that! It was only a couple of glasses of vino each; it seems really petty and spiteful. Also, the mayoral office should re-commit to Stonewall’s Workplace Equality Index, which he also stopped. We still live with the legacy of [Conservative 80’s legislation] Section 28: 16 www.outmag.co.uk “When we were bidding for Olympics, the media thought it was a Blair/Livingstone wet dream and didn’t pay much attention.” cancelled; so when I get elected, we’ll restart work on the trams: Camden/ Islington; Oxford Street, and Croydon/ Crystal Palace and the DLR to Barking. the concept of a London Living Wage, about £8.30 an hour: the minimum wage is about £2 less than you need. If the rent is taking more than a third of the wage, all you do is work to pay your rent. In New York City, you still have rent controls. Before Thatcher got in, there were rent tribunals. Thatcher stopped councils building homes and used the money to set up housing benefit, which allowed the government to top up the difference between what the tenant could afford and what the landlord wanted: a licence for developers and landlords to make money. But agencies rip off tenants too. Can you change that? We will set up a London-wide agency and allow good landlords to use it; 3% is more acceptable. Thatcher and Blair both made the same catastrophic error of judgement that one day everyone would own their own home. In France and Germany half own, half rent. It can be a big mistake to tie yourself down to a mortgage as it leaves you less flexible for the job market. What other ideas do you have for London? I nicked one from the mayor of Austin, Texas: I think there should be a yearly music expo outside the normal tourist season. There could be music in every venue from village halls to the 02. It would generate jobs and money for the city. You started the Olympics bid for 2012. How do you feel about how it’s going? We want more police; more street patrols. Boris froze every vacancy in the police; if someone retired from the murder squad or was just on a neighbourhood beat patrol: that post wasn’t filled. In the four-year budget, he allowed for a reduction of 1,800 in police numbers after the Olympics. We will cancel any planned cuts. When we were bidding, almost everyone in the media thought it was a Blair/Livingstone wet dream and didn’t pay much attention. But that allowed me to structure it with the IC so it could not be interfered with after we won. It couldn’t be changed without all five stakeholders agreeing, even with a changed government who might want to cancel things. This would have caused last-minute delays. It is rolling as we planned: on time, under budget. We didn’t predict the entire Armed Forces of Great Britain patrolling the city during the games, though! Half of all Londoners earn under £26k, and a two-bed, private rented flat will take two thirds of their income. I have set out An LGBT fundraising evening for Ken Livingstone’s mayoral campaign will take place at The Grand Connaught Rooms on Monday 12 March 2012. It will include a three-course meal with wine, raffle, auction and entertainment. Tickets are £250 per person or £2,500 per table of 10. Info: www. kenlivingstoneformayor.co.uk or call 07964 062766. Will you up police numbers, given the increase in stabbings and homophobic attacks in the capital? London rents are expensive and buying your own home almost impossible for many people. What can be done? interview: SARAH GARRETT PHOTO: BOOM You have always been known as a rebel in the Labour party. Didn’t you set up a civil partnership register before it was legal? That was brave of you. 18 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK C U LT U R E C A L E N D E R : F E B R U A R Y 2 0 1 2 DIARY DATES F E B R U A R Y ’ S C U LT U R A L H I G H L I G H TS I N A N D A R O U N D LO N D O N LGBT History Month kicks off with another special edition of the quarterly Queer Question Time. Names from the world of sport will be debating ‘Tackling homophobia and transphobia in the world of sport’ at The Banqueting Hall Glaziers Hall, 9 Montague Close, SE1 9DD. Advance booking is advised. Contact Helen Laker at Southwark Council on 0207 525 0848 or Helen.Laker@ southwark.gov.uk – and feel free to submit questions via askqqt@ gmail.com 01-02 FEB: This month’s cover stars, the fabulous Azari & III, play a couple of intimate London gigs. Catch them this evening when they host a DJ session at the WYLD Bar at the W Hotel, off Leicester Square, followed by a fuller gig at Heaven on 2 February. www.azariandiii.com 04 FEB: One of our favourite acts, cult Swedish rockers The Sounds return to these shores with an intimate London gig at Kings College. Tickets cost £14.75 via Live Nation. 1-29 FEB: The BFI on London’s Southbank will be celebrating the unique vision of one of American cinema’s most highly-respected auteurs throughout the month of February. David Lynch: A Reputation Precedes is a month-long festival screening almost everything that the inconic film maker and artist has ever committed to celluloid. Expect several screenings each for such classics as Blue 08 FEB-04 MAR: 1-10 FEB: TOM WILKINSON- GREEN RAY (1999) One of our favourite drag performers, the wonderful Miss Hope Springs (creation of performer Ty Jeffries) returns to London with a string of dates at the Leicester Square Theatre Lounge. Expect the “down-on-her-luck ex-Vegas showgirl turned nightclub chanteuse” to attack the piano with an array of witty and poignant material from her repertoire, along with anecdotes about her “Ritz to the pits” life story. Catch Hope on 1-4 and 8-10 February at 9.30pm, or the Sunday matinee at 4pm on 5 February. Tickets cost £10 or £8 concessions. Openly-gay American singer Ezra Axelrod launches his debut album, Songs from the American Motel, with a month-long West End residency at Leicester Square Theatre. Catch him performing Wednesdays to Saturdays at 7pm (and Sundays at 5pm). Tickets £15. Catch more details and snippets of the album at www. ezraaxelrod.com PRIVATE COLLECTION © THE LUCIAN FREUD ARCHIVE O1 FEB: www.leicestersquaretheatre.com/ 09-12 FEB: Now one of the London art scene’s most arresting annual events, the Kinetica Art Fair returns to London this month. It will be taking place at Ambika P3 (35 Marylebone Road, NW1 5LS). As always, Kinetica specialises in artworks that utilise light, movement and/or electronics, and always features impressive and astounding work from artists from around the world. Alongside the exhibition, expect a programme of special events, performances and tours. Tickets available via Ticketweb. www.kinetica-artfair.com Velvet, The Elephant Man, Lost Highway, Inland Empire and Wild at Heart, among others. www.bfi.org.uk 02, 09, 16, 23 FEB: Besides hosting the Monday evening bingo session at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern, culture vulture Timberlina is also involved with events at the National Portrait Gallery. He will be presiding over some of the gallery’s Late Shift evening sessions this month, which take place on Thursday evenings. Expect him to make his DJ debut in the main hall on Thursday 2 February (6-8.45pm), while artists Sadie Lee hosts a ‘Queer Perspectives Gallery Tour’. This will be followed by another tour of gay interest on Thursday 9 February at 7.30pm, entitled ‘Defining Sexuality & Gender in Portraiture for LGBT Communities’. Timberlina is joined by Boogaloo Stu for another walking tour at 7.30pm on Thursday 16 February, exploring some of Stu’s particular portraits of interest and influence, while on 23 February it is the turn of Bourgeois & Maurice and a ‘Parental Guidance’ tour, exploring pictorial signifiers of childhood in their favourite portraits. All talks are free to join. www.npg.org.uk 09 FEB-27 MAY: The National Portrait Gallery hosts Lucian Freud: Portraits – the first, major posthumous Tyne Dalyof the late exhibition painter’s work. The show will feature over 100 works drawn from museums and private collections around the world. www.npg.org.uk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 19 MUSIC: REVIEWS EMELI SANDÉ OUR VERSION OF EVENTS (VIRGIN) BAND OF SKULLS SWEET SOUR (ELECTRIC BLUES RECORDINGS) Given the fact that guitar bands currently seem about as welcome in the higher echelons of the singles chart as gonorrhea at a swingers’ party, it would be unwise to expect Band Of Skulls’ brilliant new track, ‘Bruises’, to necessarily trouble Jessie J or Rihanna’s dominance of the top ten. However, here’s hoping that it helps drive both fans and the curious alike to check out their second album, Sweet Sour, which effortlessly positions them as possibly the UK’s most exciting new rock act. OK, so they’re not exactly new: the Southampton trio – comprising singers Russell (guitars) and Emma (bass) and drummer Matt – first pricked up ears on the rock circuit with 2009’s intriguing Baby Darling Doll Face Honey. Sweet Sour follows very much in the same vein, but finds the band boosted in confidence and 20 songwriting skills. In a nutshell, think grungey, bluesy rock of the Led Zeppelin variety, with a dash of the White Stripes and a pinch of folky melancholia (usually when Emma steps to the fore). Simple, repetitive riffs are the hallmark of their best numbers, such as opener ‘Sweet Sour’, the aforementioned ‘Bruises’ and previous single ‘The Devil Takes Care Of His Own’. Following in the same vein is ‘You’re Not Pretty But You Got It Goin On’ – another strutting, 70s rock homage that should come clad in its own pair of tight, leather trousers. Alternating between these grooves are the slower numbers, the most noteworthy being ‘Hometowns’, which finds them casting a cynical, wary eye over provincial mundanity: ‘No idea, why you’re here or on your own, it’s just kids having more kids for fear of being alone’. That it bears more than a passing resemblance to The Jam’s ‘English Rose’ is no bad thing, either. A sterling second offering from a band who appear to growing in stature but at their own majestic pace. DH Out: 20 February WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Simon Cowell has declared Emeli Sandé his “favourite songwriter of the minute”, even tapping her talents for the last Susan Boyle album. It’s easy to see why the savvy mogul’s so smitten. The Scottish lass makes music that’s melodic, modish and mainstreamfriendly: much less quirky than her bleach-blonde Mohican haircut might suggest. The epic trip-hop sound of her recent singles, ‘Heaven’ and ‘Daddy’, is also a bit misleading because Our Version Of Events is a more subdued affair. The album’s default setting is the classicyet-contemporary romantic soul ballad – think Leona Lewis, whom Sandé’s written for, or Alicia Keys, whom she’s actually written with. Tellingly, the record ends with Sandé’s solo take on ‘Read All About It’, the Professor Green rap smash whose chorus she crooned. Sandé does show some range across the album’s 14 tracks. But her sturdy songwriting and fabulous vocal performances don’t make up for the record’s lack of uptempo moments. For that reason, Our Version Of Events is a rare beast indeed – an impressive, and very listenable debut album that’s also just a tad disappointing. NL Out: 13 February LANA DEL REY BORN TO DIE (POLYDOR) Who transformed plain old Lizzy Grant into retro femme fatale Lana Del Rey? Why did she make such a mess of her recent Saturday Night Live appearance? Has she really gone the whole Leslie Ash pout on her lips? Blah blah blah… What’s not up for discussion is the quality of her music. ‘Video Games’ was 2011’s most mesmerising single and this album often comes close – very close – to matching its cinematic splendour. It’s NL Out: 30 January TYSON DIE ON THE DANCEFLOOR (BACKYARD) Former Out In The City cover stars Unklejam briefly threatened to scatter some of their particular brand of electro glitz and glitter over the charts back in 2007. Sadly, they never caught on and have been on an extended hiatus since the release of their eponymous debut album. One third of the group, falsettovoiced singer Tyson, is back gaining plaudits with his dancefloor-friendly brand of electro stompers. It’s been a long time since we received a press release that proudly labelled its product ‘hi-nrg’, but since Horse Meat Disco dragged late 70’s clone culture back into the spotlight, hi-NRG was surely not far behind. There is much to admire here – from the blatant Sylvester/Bobby O homage, that is ‘Die On The Dancefloor’ to the ‘Voyage Voyage’ stirrings of opener ‘Before I Love Again’. Others invoke classics such as Alphaville’s ‘Big In Japan’ (‘On The Radio’). The only problem is that there’s little here that can truly stand shoulder-to-shoulder beside those aforementioned influences. Sylvester was a sublime creation, but to follow in his footsteps, someone really needs to have their own ‘You Make Me Feel (Mighty Real)’ up their sleeve to back up the warbling and wailing... DH Out: 20 February REVIEWS: NICK LEVINE AND DAVID HUDSON ALBUMS OUT IN FEBRUARY - ALBUMS got guitar twangs straight off a Morricone soundtrack. The strings glisten and there are some elegant nods to hip-hop. If this is ear candy, it’s the aural equivalent of the darkest chocolate. She spends much of Born To Die singing about bad boys. She’s lustful on ‘National Anthem’, obsessive on ‘Dark Paradise’, and she indulges in the outright macabre on ‘Summertime Sadness’. “Got my bad baby by my heavenly side,” she sings ominously. “Oh if I go, I’ll die happy tonight.” Yet, as seductive as Lana Del Rey is, by the end of the record she remains an enigma… so expect the speculation to continue. For now, just enjoy the music. FILM: REVIEWS THE DESCENDANTS G E O R G E C LO O N E Y I S T I P P E D F O R A N O S C A R I N T H I S W E LL- R E C E I V E D , I N T E LL I G E N T D R A M A This Month’s DVDs... TYRANNOSAUR Set in Leeds, this modern-day kitchen-sink drama is the debut directorial feature from British actor Paddy Considine. It charts the evolving friendship between unemployed drinker Joseph (Peter Mullan) and charity shop worker Hannah (Olivia Colman) – a prisoner in a violently abusive marriage to James (Eddie Marsan). It’s bleak, but it remains an assured debut. Out: 6 February DOOGIE HOWSER, M.D. Hey may now be a big, openly gay star on Broadway, but Neil Patrick Harris began his showbiz career in the fondly-remembered and muchloved Doogie Howser, M.D – the lighthearted tale of a 16-year-old boy genius who passed his medical exams while still a teen. The first series, which originally aired in the late 80s, is released on DVD for the first time in the UK this month – featuring all 26 episodes. Matt King (George Clooney) is a workaholic property lawyer in Hawaii. His life is thrown into disarray when his wife suffers a boating accident and falls into a deep coma. He is suddenly made to confront the fact that, for the past few years, he’s been merely a parttime husband and part-time father to daughters Alexandra and Scottie. Doctors inform him that his wife will not regain consciousness and will be removed from her life support machine. He has just days to tell friends and family to say their goodbyes. It’s at this point that his elder daughter reveals that her mum had been having an affair with another man. Matt is devastated. His comatose, dying wife is no state to provide him with any answers, so – with his daughters in tow – he sets out to find his wife’s lover. He feels the need to inform him of her imminent death and to seek answers to his own questions. At the same time, Matt’s extended family are putting pressure on him to sell a chunk of Hawaiian land that has belonged in the family for generations – and which can potentially earn them a fortune. Money, family, inheritance, betrayal, love and death… The Descendants, from director and screenwriter Alexander Payne (Sideways), may sound heavy going. As if to counteract this, the theatrical trailer plays up the film’s more comic moments but does the film a disservice by doing so. Payne has again served up a near-perfectly balanced, intelligent tale that, although executed with a lightness of touch, offers stirring pathos and thoughtful drama. Clooney’s character finds himself in a predicament that none of us would ever wish to find ourselves – and it’s one that just seems to get worse. Clooney’s a fine actor but even he struggles to fully convey the maelstrom of emotions that his character experiences, but then again, it’s hard to think of any other actor that could have carried this any better. Although his performance in 2008’s Michael Clayton was more solid, he’s surely favourite to finally scoop his ‘Best Actor’ Academy Award. The film also features a star-making turn from Shailene Woodley (who plays elder daughter Alex). The Descendants will make you laugh, and – unless you have had an emotional bypass – will make you cry. It’s already picked up the Golden Globe for ‘Best Motion Picture’, and is sure to sweep up many more prizes in the months to come. DH Out: 27 January 22 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Out: 20 February AUGUST When Troy moves back to LA after many years of living in Spain, he meets up with former boyfriend Jonathan, who’s now dating Raul – a South American immigrant who quickly picks up on the renewed sexual tension between the former lovers. Set against a sweltering L.A summer, August is an arty, languid but involving gay drama – which scooped last year’s Iris Prize feature film award. Out: 13 February THE STRANGER IN US Atmospheric and serious gay indie filmmaking from the US, courtesy of first-time director Scott Boswell. Anthony moves to San Francisco to move in with boyfriend Stephen, but when the relationship quickly turns volatile and violent, he finds himself alone in a strange city – leading him to hook up with street hustler Gavin. Confusing in its non-chronological narrative, but an effective debut. Out: 27 February REVIEWS: DAVID HUDSON THE DESCENDANTS WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 23 FILM: REVIEWS MARTHA MARCY MAY MARLENE CARNAGE Screaming, crying, vomiting… Roman Polanski’s latest cinematic offering definitely lives up to its determined title. Starring, not one, but three Oscar winners, Carnage is the Polish director’s first film since he was released from house arrest in Switzerland in 2010, and it finds him on typically tidy form. When their children get into a playground altercation, two sets of parents meet in order to discuss how the situation should be handled. Convening in the plush apartment of the Longstreet’s (Jodie Foster and John C O’Reilly), the Cowans (Kate Winslet and Christoph Waltz) at first accept the blame for their son’s unacceptable behaviour. But, as the day wears on and the two couples start to rub each other up the wrong way, all pretences of civility begins to crumble, until they’re all squabbling like the children they’ve met to discuss. Based on the Tony Award-winning play Le Dieu du Carnage by Yasmine Reza, Carnage’s stage origins are evident in the film’s sole location – the Longstreet’s fancy New York apartment. With so much star wattage on display, though, any concerns that the single-location conceit might result in a static, patience-testing film are quickly eradicated. Much of the thrill in Carnage comes with watching so many A-listers working the smartly-written material that positively crackles with subtext. Reilly in particular impresses, holding his own against more celebrated dramatic actors. Meanwhile, Winslet makes for a surprisingly convincing drunk, and gets some of the best lines. A claustrophobic, ticking time-bomb of a dramatic comedy, Carnage excels in depicting four individuals with their own unique neuroses. Shutting them in an apartment together, Polanski cranks up the heat and revels in watching them sweat out their prejudices and imperfections – the resultant carnage is nothing short of riveting. JW Lucy (Sarah Paulson) hasn’t seen her sister, Martha (Elizabeth Olsen) in two years – during which time her younger sibling has cut all contact. Unknown to Lucy, Martha has been drawn into joining a small, ruralbased cult. When she flees the clutches of her fellow cult members, it’s Lucy to whom she turns. Lucy takes her in, pleased to be reunited with her sister, but it soon becomes apparent to both Lucy and her husband, Ted (Hugh Dancy), that Martha has been scarred by her time away. Lucy – who begins to behave in an increasingly erratic manner – cannot bring herself to confess to her sister where she has been or what she has been doing, and it’s only through flashbacks that we begins to realise how she has been grossly abused and manipulated by the cult leader, Patrick (John Hawkes) and his followers. Martha Marcy May Marlene has earned itself critical plaudits and award nominations at a range of film festivals – primarily for writer and director Sean Durkin and female lead, Elizabeth Olsen – the younger sibling of the famed Olsen twins. This is her first major film role, and it’s as far removed as the anodyne, mainstream fluff that the sisters are better known for producing as it’s possible to be. It’s a moody, accomplished and atmospheric piece of American indie filmmaking. It makes for an impressive debut from Mr Durkin, but it’s far from perfect. Although his depiction of the small, farm-based cult over which Patrick presides comes across as authentic, we are offered no back story to explain what drew Martha towards it, or why her life should have taken such a different path to her sister’s. In this sense, the characters lack depth, sometimes appearing as little more than pawns in a stylish docu-drama. An ambiguous ending is also likely to frustrate many. DH Out: 3 February Out: 3 February A stellar cast of much-loved British actors star in this golden-oldie adventure. Judi Dench, Billy Nighy, Tom Wilkinson, Maggie Smith and Celia Imrie are amongst the seven British retirees who find themselves tempted by glossy brochures advertising a new, luxury hotel and retirement home to uproot and relocate to India. Each have their own reason for relocating, but all are tempted by the dream of living out their remaining years in balmy, exotic comfort… except, that is, for Smith’s racist former housekeeper, Muriel, who is purely seeking a cheap and speedy hip-replacement operation. When they arrive to find a dilapidated hotel run by budding entrepreneur Sonny (Dev Patel), it falls far short of their expectations. How they individually embrace the challenge of their new living conditions, and explore their own motivations for emigrating, makes up the rest of this bittersweet drama. There is much to enjoy in this latest offering from director John Madden’s (Mrs Brown, Shakespeare In Love), and it’s refreshing to find a mainstream cinematic offering that explores some of the issues around ageing – whether it be loneliness, debt, or society’s attitude toward the elderly. All concerned turn in decent performances, particularly Dench, who is struggling to accept the penniless state in which her deceased husband has left her; or Wilkinson, a gay, retired barrister who is returning to India to track down a former lover. On the downside, the plot, on occasion, seems laboured, and tries too hard to alternate the humour and pathos. It suffers from some particularly choppy editing, and the script hurls in some very well-worn Indian clichés. One never doubts that the film’s heart is in the right place, but it somewhat clumsily stomps through its storyline. The end result is all rather One Foot In The Grave meets Slumdog Millionaire. Thankfully, there are enough laugh-outloud moments to make the whole shebang worthwhile, with an ending that satisfyingly pulls together the loose ends. DH Out: 24 February 24 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK REVIEWS: JOSH WINNING AND DAVID HUDSON THE BEST EXOTIC MARIGOLD HOTEL T H E AT R E : R E V I E W S A N D P R E V I E W S THEATRICAL TRIAL Book your tickets ST E V E N S PA R L I N G R E V I E W S E X E C U T I O N O F J U ST I C E … SEX WITH A STRANGER 26 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK James Turner; projections by Sepehr Malek; lighting by Richard Williamson; sound by George Dennis), is simple but effective, and the traverse setting with the audience on two sides of the action creates a real courtroom feel. While Law & Order makes court cases seem interesting on television, a court trial is often less dramatic on stage – especially one where you already know the outcome. With virtually no suspense, Execution of Justice feels long, even though it isn’t. Perhaps picking up the pace of delivery would help to move things along; but most of the fault lies with the playwright and the concept to re-enact a trial. The most theatrical and, therefore, most interesting moments are when multiple stories cascade over each other, creating a more layered, dramatic texture. The audience has to work harder to follow the separate strands, which make it more engaging. Then the play returns to a single narrative and we settle back down to more pedestrian storytelling. This is no fault of the hard-working cast of 20 (massive for a fringe theatre production), who play 42 different characters. At times, it really does feel like you have a cross-section of San Franciscans contained in a railway arch. Often, it’s the characters that make the briefest appearance who make the most lasting impact. Execution of Justice is frequently performed in North America, where Milk and Moscone’s assassinations have a much greater resonance than in this country. It’s a well-performed, educational night out at the theatre. If only it had a little more dramatic bang. Running till 4 February – www.southwarkplayhouse.co.uk Many of you are big fans of the Russell Tovey, the openly-gay actor who earned himself many admirers after his starring roles in BBC3’s Being Human and Him & Her. Tovey teams up this month with actress Jaime Winstone for a new theatre production Sex With A Stranger by award-winning writer and comedian Stefan Golaszewski. It tells of a man who finds himself tempted to cheat on his girlfriend while out at a club for a mate’s birthday. It opens at The Trafalgar Studios, from 1-25 February. Trafalgar Studios: 14 Whitehall, London, SW1A 2DY. Tickets cost £25 (or just £12 on 1-2 February). © HUGO GLENDINNING “Say Harv, can I see you for a minute?” said Dan White, sticking his head around the door of San Francisco’s City Hall. Moments later, Harvey Milk, the first openlygay elected official in America, was dead, shot five times at close range. White, the clean-cut, heterosexual former colleague-turned-killer of both Milk and San Francisco Mayor George Moscone, was indicted for murder and the outcome of his trial shocked America. Execution of Justice, now running at The Southwark Playhouse, tells the story using excerpts from Dan White’s trial transcript, interviews, news reportage, and stories from the average San Franciscan on the street. Playwright Emily Mann has woven these narrative threads together into a 100-minute play that acts as a tribute to both Milk and Moscone and highlights how the justice system can sometimes be anything but just. There was never any doubt that Dan White committed the crime; the question lay in his motivation and mental state. His trial resulted in the famous ‘Twinkie defence’ (Twinkie being a well-known US sweet biscuit), where White’s lawyers produced various ‘experts’ who opined that White’s diet of sugar-laden snacks and CocaCola were contributing factors to his depression and clouded mental judgement. The jury bought this argument and convicted White of two counts of voluntary manslaughter. He was sentenced to seven years and eight months for the murder of two men. The play reveals that truth is often stranger than fiction. But is it more interesting? This is where Execution of Justice may disappoint. The piece is well cast and well directed by Joss Bennathan. The design (set/costumes by WATER, WATER, EVERYWHERE… Based on the best-selling book by gay Irish author Jamie O’Neill, a revival of At Swim With Two Boys comes to the Riverside Studios in Hammersmith this month. The production, by Earthfall dance company, made its debut in 2005, and is now returning to mark the tenth anniversary of the publication of O’Neill’s book, which reflects on the developing love between two boys against the turmoil of the political revolution during the 1916 Easter Risings. Featuring two male dancers and two musicians, the story unfolds against a cascading wall of water that slowly fills the stage. Runs: 7-25 February at Riverside Studios, with tickets £15/£12. www.atswimtwoboys.com LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD All Star Productions open their 2012 season with Love & War – a new revue casting an eye over Goodall’s entire catalogue. This intimate four-hander uses Goodall’s evocative music to weave a story about two couples. The men are called off to war and all are changed when the war is over. Performers are Zoe Demetriou, Michael Stacey, Terrie-May McNulty and – our very own theatre critic – Steven Sparling! Runs: 21 Feb - 10 March at Ye Olde Rose and Crown Theatre, 53 Hoe Street, Walthamstow, E17 4SA. www. allstarproductions.co.uk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 27 FOOD: REVIEW CROWN HEIGHTS D AV I D H U D S O N R E V I E W S T H E A N G E L A N D C R O W N 5 8 ST M A R T I N ’ S L A N E , W C 2 N 4 E A 0 2 0 7 7 4 8 5 2 4 4 . W W W.T H E A N G E L A N D C R O W N . C O M Since launching their first gastropub back in the mid00s, brothers Tom and Ed Martin have built themselves quite an empire. They now operate half a dozen of the capital’s finest gastropubs, including The Gun in Docklands and the Prince Arthur in London Fields. Having first set down roots in the East End, they have, more recently, added Kensington locations to their portfolio, with the Cadogan Arms in King’s Road and The Botanist in Sloane Square. However, if they’ve so far passed under your radar it may be because they’ve not – until now – ventured into the West End. That all changed just before Christmas, when they took over and relaunched the Angel and Crown on St Martin’s Lane. This historical establishment has been in operation since 1727. Given its location, it has always proved to be a popular hostelry, although it has undoubtedly been overshadowed by the larger and more visually impressive The Salisbury, which stands directly opposite on the other side of St Martin’s Lane. Tom and Ed, and their ETM Group, have completely revamped the place, but have, thankfully, not set about trying to re-invent the wheel. Utilising the template successfully honed in their other venues, they’ve set out to reaffirm the Angel and Crown’s British credentials, playing up its historic pedigree. The small groundfloor bar offers wood panelling, silver tankards, brass foot-rails and red leather bar stools, with a range of real ales to complement the lagers and spirits, and an all-day bar menu that includes such dishes as pheasant sandwich with parsnip crisps and Clonakilty black pudding Scotch eggs. For the full dining experience, reserve a table in 28 the first-floor dining-room. Again, the atmosphere is traditional without being too chintzy. There’s a real fireplace on one side of the room, a stuffed pheasant above the bar, wooden tables and chairs, and windows overlooking St Martin’s Lane. The menu is an imaginative selection of British classics. We began our (£8.50). The black pudding was delicious – perfectly complemented by the lightly poached egg in its own egg coddler (a small ramekin). The cod pie was also served in its own pie dish, topped by a puff pastry lid. Our waiter had warned me that it was a subtle dish, and “not as fishy as you might imagine”. He wasn’t wrong. Once I’d removed the meal with a complimentary amuse bouche – small cups of white onion and Madeira sherry soup topped with a truffle froth and served with truffle croutons and a strip of streaky bacon. They looked like small cups of cappuccino and offered a salty and earthy combination of flavours. For starters, we opted for Black pudding, coddled egg and tarragon (£6.50) and the arresting-sounding cod cheek, cod tongue and fennel pie pastry lid and allowed the scalding hot fish sauce to cool to an edible temperature, I found it strangely lacking in flavour. On the plus side, both portions were generous. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Our main courses were also plentiful: braised rabbit with grain mustard, faggots, bacon and peas (£14) and grilled salmon, brown shrimp, dill butter sauce and greens (£14.50). On this occasion, both hit the spot. The rabbit was perfectly cooked, being both moist, tender and packed with flavour – served with cabbage, peas and chunky lardons of streaky bacon and the faggot parcels of pork. The salmon was also top notch, drizzled with dill butter and scattered with small brown shrimps. We shared a side dish of chunky, hand-cut chips (£3.50), although you don’t really need a side dish, given the size of the portions. Finally, we forced ourselves to check out the desserts (£5 each), and the portions were again generous. I opted for chocolate mousse, cornflakes and crème fraiche sorbet – the chocolate-covered cornflakes being served as a small cake for an instant hit of childhood nostalgia. More childhood memories were summoned up by the likes of Angel Delight butterscotch crème brûlée, or crown cobbler with apple, blackberry and Bird’s custard; but my companion – an Italian – went instead for Cashel Blue cheese with truffled honey and raisin toast – which offered a rich and luxurious end to his meal. We’re not sure why there were bread plates but no offer of bread (plates vanished when the starters were removed), but we’ll put that down to teething problems. Besides that, service was friendly and competent. Some may find the room a little cramped; others may enjoy the intimacy. Either way, the menu is well thought-out and good quality. Custom was busy on the evening of our visit, and the maitre d’ confirmed that business had been brisk since the launch, with both pre- and post-theatre menus (5-6.30pm and 10-11pm) ensuring a rapid turnover of seats. Given its location and the care with which the Martin brothers have tackled their first West End venue, it’s difficult to see how it could fail. O U T I N T H E C I T Y: A C C E S S A LL A R E A S F E B R U A RY 2 0 1 2 A A SCENE HIGHLIGHTS OUR PICK OF THE BEST EVENTS IN TOWN... DJ Uto Karem FEBRUARY 2012 ACCESS ALL AREAS OUR GUIDE TO EVENTS IN AND AROUND TOWN AT YOUR SERVICE Room Service has established itself as one of the scene’s best midweek parties. Presided over by DJ and scene host Jodie Harsh, it runs every Thursday from 10pm-3am at Miabella (formerly Diu), 12-13 Greek Street, Soho, W1 4DJ. Last year, the team hosted DJ sets from Jake Shears, Smokin’ Jo and Ariel, whilst the gorgeous Francois Sagat popped in to do some guest hosting. Resident DJs include Kris Di Angelis, Severino, Steve Pitron and Matt Bogard. They have also teamed up with the nearby Circa bar to bring you the Late Check-In Pass. Go to Circa, buy a drink, and you’ll be given a pass to allow you entry to Room Service for £5 between 1am and 2am. Without it, entry is £5 before 11pm and £10 afterwards. Check: www.clubroomservice.com TAINTED TRADE Trade is back. The legendary club now just returns for 3-4 big parties each year, which makes them ‘must-go’ events. Following last autumn’s 21st birthday, the next big bash will be taking place just before Valentine’s Day, and is accordingly themed ‘Trade – A Tainted Love Affair’! The whole shebang will take place on Saturday 11 February at Electric Brixton – the venue formerly known as The Fridge. Expect the main dancefloor to be transformed by the Trade production team; special guest behind the decks will be Italy’s DJ Uto Karem. He’ll be joined in the main room by Trade’s resident talent, including Pagano, Nick Tcherniak, Pete Wardman and Rosco. Meanwhile, taking care of the Lite Lounge will be Fat Tony, Guy Williams and Italian stallion Anto. Doors open from 11pm till 7am; event will be followed by an official afterparty at Ultimate – a joint production from Trade and Beyond (6am till super late). Earlybird tickets: £10; advance £15. A joint ticket with Ultimate costs £25. Check: www.clubtickets.com for ticket details – or go to www.tradeuk.net BURGER QUEENS Following its success in 2011, Burger Queen returns for 2012! Devised and hosted by performance artist Scottee (pictured), this tongue-in-cheek beauty contest has a serious message – that people of all sizes are attractive and that some people are perfectly happy with being overweight! The event will run every Thursday throughout March at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern, beginning 1 March and culminating in a grand final 29 March. Scottee will also be testing out various celebrity fitness DVD’s and endorsed diets; guest performances from Myra Dubois, Timberlina, Russella and Tenor Ladies, among others.Check the Facebook page at ‘Burger Queen 2012’. To take part email [email protected] or go to burger-queen.info LIPSINKING FOR THEIR LIVES The fabulous Lipsinkers will be returning to their spiritual home, Bistrotheque in Bethnal Green, with weekend performances this month on 3, 4, 17, 18, 24 and 25 February. This troupe of drag performers, which includes Ryan Styles, Richardette, Lisa Lee, John Sizzle and Blanche Du Bois, have resurrected the drag art form of lip-synching and taken it to its most surrealist end point. Show’s start at 8.30pm, with admission £12 or £10 for anyone who dines in the upstairs restaurant beforehand. Bistrotheque is one of Bethnal Green’s hippest hangouts, boasting a high-end restaurant and a ground floor bar/ performance space. Bistrotheque, 23-27 Wadeson Street, London, E2 9DR, and for more details or bookings go to www.bistrotheque.com WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 31 A O U T I N T H E C I T Y: A C C E S S A LL A R E A S FEBRUARY 2012 Johnny Woo We do love it when a club promoter puts in a huge amount of effort to a night, and this was certainly true for the most recent outing of Deviate – presided over by DJ and host Pagano. Pulling a crowd in the middle of January when many clubbers are still in their post-New Year hibernation is never easy, but that was only part of the reason that Pagano pulled out all the stops to create one of the best Deviate’s yet. The night took place in the smaller confines of Factory, which remains one of our favourite Vauxhall venues. It suited the club perfectly, with Pagano himself spinning the deep house on the main floor alongside Nic Fisher and Marco Gee, and Tasty Tim and Massimo Paramour offering a lighter alternative in the second room. Besides the irresistible tunes, the night also offered an abundance of visual treats, with projections and videos from Prickimage, and a variety of club freaks shaking their money-makers on the podiums, including a delicious, hooded muscle bear and the always outrageous Jonny Woo. Was that really an abominable snowman we saw stomping through the club at some stage!? Deviate will be back at Factory on Saturday 10 March – for more details, keep checking the website at www.deviateuk.com 32 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK DJ Pagano PHOTOS © CHRIS JEPSON, WWW.CHRISJEPSON.COM DEVIATE A O U T I N T H E C I T Y: A C C E S S A LL A R E A S FEBRUARY 2012 THE EDGE PHOTOS © CHRIS JEPSON, WWW.CHRISJEPSON.COM We were a little bit shocked to learn that The Edge celebrates its 20th anniversary this year. How time flies! For its 20th anniversary, the bar has a host of celebrations planned. These kicked off with a very special ‘Thank You’ party on Thursday 26 January for all its regulars. The purpose of the party was three-fold – to give something back to its supporters, to celebrate recently being granted a later 3/4am licence, but also to unveil the venue’s latest refurbishment – with the two upper floors having been totally revamped. The event was hosted by the bar’s own Felicia Van Cartier, with music from hunky DJ Zach Burns and DJ Alabaster. Free canapés were passed around, with free Champagne for everyone on arrival. And the verdict on the new look? Gorgeous! The second floor is definitely one of the most glamorous locations for a cocktail in Soho, while the top floor offers a more clubby vibe, with a bespoke, underlit, multi-coloured dancefloor. The bar has plenty more parties planned for the next few months, with the first being the big 20th birthday celebrations taking place over three days over Valentine’s weekend in midFebruary, followed by more parties for the Olympics and Queen’s Jubilee later in the year. The Edge, 11 Soho Square, W1. www.edgesoho.co.uk 34 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 35 A O U T I N T H E C I T Y: A C C E S S A LL A R E A S FEBRUARY 2012 DIRTY THIRTIES RICHARD TONKS MISSES HIS MIDWEEK MALIBU AND COKE... I’m 32, yet I still get asked for identification for the odd bottle of wine in Waitrose by the 16year-old who has to get her line manager’s permission to sell it to me. Where that lies in your average gay boy’s psyche is a great place to be: no longer ravaged by debt and harassed by the hostile landlords of my twenties, yet still young enough to carry off haircuts that disguise my grey patches… and no Botox bill to add to my monthly outgoings… yet! Nevertheless, there is a side-effect of the so-called ‘dirty decade’ that has made me pause and consider my future. It’s been fairly easy for me to make friends up to this point. I had large and diverse social circles while growing up, and in university, but as I moved to university number two in London, I maintained only a couple close friendships from those formative years. At my second university, I quickly established an international group of friends, but they, in turn, left me in London as they returned to sunnier climes, higher standards of living, and, in some cases, personal staff. Over the last few years, I’ve led a rather cavalier existence, partying through the coolest neighbourhoods. I have found friends from work, from dancefloors and from internet liaisons that morphed into hilarious friendships: friendships that enrich my life wonderfully, make me laugh, make me cry and mostly keep my nasty habit of hyper-analysis at a mildly irritating rather than trauma-inducing level. But while friendship groups are not exactly shrinking, we’re finding it harder to stay in touch. Sure, we’ve all connected through various social media and smartphone apps, but there are people I used to see on a weekly basis in my twenties that I now only ever hear reported about in the third person, online. I would spend entire weekends with friends and get swept out with the trash somewhere on South Lambeth or Hackney Road on a Sunday lunchtime. The same friends now have been reduced to one sentence a week of communication, or might get tagged in a photo with a baby or their property renovations. Feeling a little bit lonely is not the same as being comfortable in your own company, but my go-to network with whom I could grab a silly midweek Malibu is disappearing. My friends are increasingly pairing off with people with whom they work, and are making, or ordering, babies from the States or China at an alarming rate. Am I the only one left who would rather go out on a 36 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK “FEELING A LITTLE BIT LO N E LY I S N OT T H E S A M E A S B E I N G C O M F O R TA B L E I N YO U R O W N C O M PA N Y.” Saturday to a club that hosts an ‘Adult Baby Night’ out of sheer curiosity rather than stay in and make one? It seems that, despite all my enabling technology designed to ‘connect’ me to other people, we don’t invest in ‘new friends’ because we feel we just don’t have the time to maintain the old ones. After an enjoying brief, Bohemian existence: unemployed and homeless, I was asked if I’d like to join the hunt for that elusive ‘character property’ recently by a kind gay pal of mine and an ex-flatmate of his whom I barely know, but about whom I have heard many good things. Just as I was wondering where my realtime face-to-face social network had gone, an opportunity to discover an entirely new one has landed in a bedroom just the other side of the bathroom from mine. And he likes to go out too. Even on a school night. Aspirations for my own bolt-hole suddenly didn’t seem as much fun. Staying in and ‘growing up’ is not going to define this chapter of my life. We all have increasing work, financial and personal commitments. It’s time to give new friends a chance and take a chance at trying new ‘offline’ activities with new groups of people. And that isn’t a euphemism for being a slut by the way... GETTING ON THE GUEST LIST The Trade collective returns with a hot Valentine’s Day party – ‘A Tainted Love Affair’ – on Saturday 11 February at the newlyrefurbished Electric Brixton super-club, (formerly The Fridge) 1 Town Hall Parade, Brixton. Expect risqué stage performances and state-of-the-art production values from promoter Lawrence Malice and his crew. Doors 11pm till 7am; £15 in advance from wwwclubtickets.com, more on the door. www.tradeuk.net Amateur strip night at The White Swan may be forced to close if local authority Tower Hamlets adopts new strip club regulations. Show your support by joining the crew for a midweek outing. Make this Wed a boozy one; amateur strippers to suit everyone’s taste with £100 going to the winning exhibitionist. It’s one of the friendliest and longestrunning East End boozers on the circuit. Doors from 9pm till 3am every Wednesday for the strip-a-thon and entry’s free all night. Go on, check it out; it’s a great giggle... The White Swan is at 556 Commercial Road, Limehouse, E14. www.bjswhiteswan. co.uk O U T I N T H E C I T Y: A C C E S S A LL A R E A S F E B R U A RY 2 0 1 2 A Mzz Kimberley Mr Mistress UPSTAIRS AT THE CAMBRIA PHOTOS © CHRIS JEPSON, WWW.CHRISJEPSON.COM Upstairs at The Cambria offers something unique. It runs each Sunday afternoon in the stylish surroundings of the upstairs dining room at the Cambria pub, near Brixton, hosted by the lovely Mzz Kimberley and Pip. Venue owners Aimi and Steve serve up a delicious, filling Sunday lunch at 3pm, which is then followed by live cabaret at 5pm. Mzz Kimberley sings a few songs before introducing the guest act. On the day of our visit it was the turn of the genderbending Mr Mistress, who showcased several numbers of barrier-breaking drag artistry. “The Cambria is a hidden gem that has become so popular because it’s a place where you can relax, have great food with a fantastic atmosphere,” Mzz Kimberley told us afterwards. “It’s a chance for the gay community to see friends they haven’t see in ages and to see different acts each week – some of which they wouldn’t normally see on the gay scene.” This month, look out for opera diva Tamar Stein (5 Feb), Lady Imelda (9 Feb), the Fabulous Russella (19 Feb) and Belgium dragster Le Diva (26 Feb). The Cambria, 40 Kemerton Road, Camberwell, SE5 9AR. Bookings on 0207 737 3676. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 37 A O U T I N T H E C I T Y: S C E N E G U I D E FEBRUARY 2012 GOING OUT SCENE GUIDE AND PARTY SUGGESTIONS... VENUES: CENTRAL LONDON Square tube. Friendly, famous, traditional gay pub – look out for the purple and pink exterior! 79 CXR, 79 Charing Cross Road, WC2. 020 7734 0769. Leicester Square tube. Mon-Sat 1pm-3am, Sun 1pm-10.30pm. Cover charge after 11pm. Large, cruisy, bar – always busy after 10.30pm with those who don’t want to head home too early. CANDY BAR, 4 Carlisle Street, W1. 020 7494 4041. Tottenham Court Road tube. Mon-Thu 511.30pm. Fri & Sat 5pm2am. Sun 5-11pm. Longrunning and famed lesbian bar. ADMIRAL DUNCAN, 54 Old Compton Street, W1. 020 7437 5300. Leicester CIRCA, 62 Frith Street, Soho, W1D 3JN. Tottenham Court Road tube. Soho gay bar, offering pop and r’n’b tunes, drag Emeli Sandé EVENTS AT G-A-Y! The fabulous Emeli Sandé, who’s is about to release her stunning debut album, Our Version of Events, performs her first headline show at G-A-Y on Saturday 11 February. Emeli has been making waves amongst tastemakers over recent months, and has already scooped this year’s BRIT’s Critics Choice Award. Before this, host Jeremy Joseph will be hosting the G-A-Y Top 100 Dance Floor Fillers on Saturday 4 February, which the G-A-Y masses have been feverishly voting for over recent weeks – with Jeremy promising donating £1 to the Elton John AIDS Foundation (EJAF) for everyone who casts a vote! It’s all helping the club to reach its whopping fundraising target – to raise £150,000 for EJAF by the time Jeremy completes his run in this year’s London Marathon! G-A-Y takes place at Heaven, 9 The Arches, off Villiers Street, London WC2N 6NG. More details at www.g-a-y.co.uk 38 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK hosts and cute bar staff. Open 4pm till 1am daily. www.circasoho.com COMPTONS, 52 Old Compton Street, W1. 020 7479 7961. Leicester Square tube. Noon-11pm. A Soho institution. Large, traditional gay boozer on two floors, attracting a butch, manly crowd. www. comptons-of-soho.co.uk THE DUKE OF WELLINGTON, 77 Wardour Street, W1. 020 7439 1274. Piccadilly Circus tube. Mon-Thu noon-11pm, Fri & Sat noon-midnight, ‘til 10.30pm on Sun. Traditional fun gay pub over two floors, attracting a cross-section from across the scene. MAKE A DATE WITH KU! A new development for the Ku Bar on Frith Street (the smaller Ku Bar in Soho) is the introduction of Speed Date Mondays! Aimed at those who have perhaps grown tired of only exchanging messages with guys online and never actually meeting up, Speed Date Mondays offer a way to meet and chat with a whole range of guys in one evening. Even better, unlike other speed dating events, there are no fees to participate! You will be given 5-10 minutes with each participant in which to chat or flirt, and it will all take place by candlelight in the basement bar of the venue. It all kicks off at 8pm, and takes place every Monday evening. Check it out at Ku Bar, 25 Frith Street, W1. In other Ku Bar news, the Lisle Street premises will be celebrating their fifth anniversary with a special Valentine’s Party on 14 February – marking the occasion when Ku Bar took over the larger establishment following 12 years on Charing Cross Road. Expect celebrations on all three floors until late in the night. Ku Bar, 30 Lisle Street, WC2H. www.ku-bar.com THE EDGE, 11 Soho Square, W1. 020 7439 1313. Tottenham Court Road tube. Noon-1am, Sun 2pm-11.30pm. Stylish, hip gay bar spread over four intimate floors, with regular nights from top DJs, regular piano bar and tasty food. G-A-Y BAR, 30 Old Compton Street, W1. 020 7494 2756. Leicester Square tube. 12pm-12am. Huge, poptastic gay bar, with a multitude of video screens, pop tunes and drinks promotions. www.g-a-y.co.uk ESCAPE, 10a Brewer Street, W1. 020 7734 2626. Piccadilly Circus tube. 5pm-3am. Cover charge after 11pm. Every night’s a party at this latenight video dance bar. G-A-Y LATE, 5 Goslett Yard, off Charing Cross Road, WC2. Tottenham Court Road tube. 11pm-3am. Late-night sister venue to GA-Y Bar – more video screens, camp pop fun and cheap drinks.Gets very busy most nights of the week. FREEDOM, 66 Wardour Street, W1. 020 7734 0071. Piccadilly Circus tube. Opulent style bar, with late-night club promotions for a mixed, metrosexual, trendy crowd. www.freedombarsoho.com FRIENDLY SOCIETY, 79 Wardour Street, WC1. Piccadilly Circus tube. Trendy and unique, intimate basement bar with quirky décor and fun atmosphere – attracts a mixed crowd. THE GREEN CARNATION, 4-5 Greek Street, Soho, W1. 020-7434 3323. Stylish, three-floored late night gay venue, with bar, dancefloor and nightly promotions. Attracts a very mixed crowd. www.æ… greencarnationsoho.co.uk HALFWAY TO HEAVEN, 7 Duncannon Street, WC2. 020 7321 2791. Charing Cross tube. Mon-Thu noon11pm, Fri & Sat 12pm- 12am. Old-style gay pub spread over two floors. HEAVEN, The Arches, Villiers Street, WC2. Charing Cross Road tube. Huge, world-famous gay club, which is now home to G-A-Y, along with mixed/ studenty Monday nighter Popcorn. Check www.g-ay.co.uk for details THE KINGS ARMS, 23 Poland Street, W1. 020 7734 5907. Oxford Circus tube. Mon-Thur 12pm– 11pm, Fri-Sat 12pm-12am, Sun 12pm-11.30pm. London’s bar for bears and blokes. Traditional atmosphere plus pool table. Sunday night karaoke very popular. KU BAR, 30 Lisle Street, Leicester Square, WC2. 020 7437 4303. Leicester Square tube. Large, awardwinning, upmarket gay bar spread over three floors, open till 3am daily; always busy throughout the week. www.ku-bar.co.uk KU BAR SOHO, 25 Frith Street, W1. Leicester Square tube. New, smaller sister venue to Lisle Street Ku Bar, with entrances on Old Compton Street and Frith Street - open till 11pm daily. The first floor houses a Gay Tourist Office from noon-6pm each day (www. gaytouristoffice.co.uk). www.ku-bar.co.uk LO-PROFILE, The Basement, 84-85 Wardour Street, W1. Swanky, sophisticated, 400capacity late-night basement bar and club space – from the people that bring you gaydar.co. uk. Open 11pm-3am Thursdays, and 10pm-4am on Fridays and Saturdays. www.loprofile.com MADAME JO JO’S, 8-10 Brewer Street, W1. Longrunning, late night gig venue, nightclub and cabaret bar - open to very mixed crowd. Home to popular Wednesday O U T I N T H E C I T Y: S C E N E G U I D E F E B R U A RY 2 0 1 2 nighter Trannyshack. www. madamejojos.com. MOLLY MOGG’S, 2 Old Compton Street, W1. 020 7434 4294. Tottenham Court Road tube. Small, intimate little gay pub, with regular drag shows attracting a mixed crowd of theatre folk and tourists. NEW BLOOMSBURY SET, 76 Marchmont Street, WC1. 020 7383 3084. New, intimate basement bar/lounge, beneath Snappy Snaps on Marchmont Street between Russell Square and King’s Cross tubes. Open 4-11pm Mon-Sat (210.30pm Sunday). www. newbloomsburyset.co.uk. PROFILE, 84-84 Wardour Street, W1. 020 734 3444. Piccadilly Circus tube. Upstairs bar above LoProfile, owned and run by the team behind Gaydar. Stylish gay bar/diner, open for food and drink from early morning through till 11pm – when the action moves downstairs. www. profilesoho.com THE QUEBEC, 12 Old Quebec Street, WC1. 0207629 6159. Marble Arch tube. Long-running and huge pub, on two floors, attracting an older crowd. Open till 3am at weekends. Off the beaten Soho track but worth checking out. www.thequebec.co.uk THE QUEEN’S HEAD, 25 Tryon Street, SW3. 0207589 0262. Sloane Square tube. Popular, very longrunning, cosy gay pub – a Chelsea institution. RETRO BAR, 2 George Court, WC2. 020 7321 2811. Charing Cross tube. Mon-Fri noon-11. Sat 5pm11pm, Sun 5pm-11pm. A traditional boozer for the gay scene’s indie, alternative and studenttypes – Tuesday’s pop quiz is an institution. RUPERT STREET, 50 Rupert Street, W1. 020 7292 7141. Piccadilly Circus tube. 12-11pm, Sun 10.30pm. Large, designerstyle bar, popular with professional gay boyz and post-work drinkers. SHADOW LOUNGE, 5 Brewer Street, W1. 0207287 7988. Piccadilly tube. Exclusive, gorgeous, late-night bar and club for A-list gays and celebspotters. Open from late each evening. www.theshadowlounge. com THE STAR AT NIGHT, 22 Great Chapel Street, W1. Tottenham Court Road tube. Relaxed, mixed gay/ lesbian bar – in traditional, bistro-type surroundings. Great food menu and cocktails. Open 6-11.30pm Tue-Sat. www. thestaratnight.com SWEATBOX, 1-2 Ramillies Street, Soho, W1. 0203214 6014. Exclusively gay gym (ground floor) and sauna (basement levels), with occasional late-night parties. Friendly and fun. Open Sun-Thurs noon2am, and till 7am Friday and Saturday. www. sweatboxsoho.com. VAULT 139, 139 Whitfield Street, W1. 020-7388 5500. Central, daytime and evening intimate cruise club, for a men-only crowd. Open 1pm-1am seven days a week. www. vault139.com VILLAGE, 81 Wardour Street, W1. 020 7434 2124. Piccadilly Circus tube. 121am, Sun 11.30pm. Late night door charge. Soho’s original gay café bar, spread over four floors, and now with basement dancefloor and discos. Popular with a youngish crowd of boys and girls. THE YARD, 57 Rupert Street, W1. 020 7437 2652. Piccadilly Circus tube. Mon-Thur 4pm-11pm, Fri & Sat 1pm-11pm, Sun 1pm-10.30pm. Busy gay bar with hugely popular courtyard area, outdoor balcony and cosy loft bar. SAUNAS CHARIOTS WATERLOO, 101 Lower Marsh, Waterloo, SE1. 020 7401 8484. Waterloo tube. Well-presented, popular sauna, open 24/7. www. gaysauna.co.uk PLEASUREDROME, 124 Cornwall Road, Waterloo, SE1. Waterloo tube. Big venue with lots of different areas – open 24 hours, 365 days of year. www. pleasuredrome.com SAUNABAR PORTSEA, 2 Portsea Place, Marble Arch, W2. 020 7402 3385. Marble Arch tube. Small and friendly gay sauna with masseurs. www. gaysaunabar.com SAUNABAR COVENT GARDEN, 29 Endell Street, Covent Garden, WC2. 020 7836 2236. Covent Garden tube. Basement sauna with pool, sauna and rest rooms. Check website for discount entry. www.thesaunabar.co.uk SWEATBOX SOHO, Ramillies House, 1-2 Ramillies Street, Soho, W1. 020 3214 6014. Oxford Circus tube. Gay-owned and run gym and large basement sauna area. www.sweatboxsoho.com NORTH LONDON THE BLACK CAP, 171 Camden High Street, NW1. 020 7485 0538. Camden Town tube. Shufflewick Bar: Mon-Thu Noon-1am, Fri-Sat 12noon-2am, Sun Noon-10.30pm. Club: MonThu 10pm-2am, Fri-Sat 10pm-3am, Sun 10pm1am. Long-running, famed gay pub – probably the most famous cabaret pub in London. www. theblackcap.com CENTRAL STATION, 37 Wharfdale Road, N1. Tel: A TAVERN TALENT We may still be in the depths of winter but you can be sure of a very warm welcome at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern, which offers another month jam-packed with comedy, entertainment, music and club nights. Dates for your diary this month include the Comedy Cabinet on Wednesday 8 February, featuring Ben Fogg, The ElectroFuture BeardClub and Viv Groskop, among others. Tickets for the 8.30pm show cost £5 on the door, or pick up 2-for-1 via the RVT website in advance. This is followed on 15 February by the return of Dr Sketchy, who presents cabaret Alp Heydar and rather ‘adult’ life-drawing classes: all audience members are provided with pencils and paper and encouraged to join in by sketching the lovely burlesque dancers. Tickets cost £10 in advance or £15 on the door. Comic Alp Heydar returns on Wednesday 22 February and Thursday 23 February with his new show, ‘Alp Heydar’s New Vagina’. Expect a peformance that mixes live performance with ambitious video work – together creating a breathless, schizophrenic, one-man pantomime. Tickets for the 8.30pm show cost £7. One of the scene’s finest up’n’coming drag comics, Myra Dubois, returns to the stage Myra Dubois on Wednesday 29 February with a new show entitled Sing Out Louise! A tribute to musical theatre, we’re told to expect “a low-brow evening of cheap laughs and naff show-tunes!” Joining Myra on the night will be the folk from Radio Jiblets, who’ll be reviewing Myra’s performance live and in front of her – and providing audience members with a post-show podcast that they can take home. Tickets are £7.50 in advance or £9.50 on the door. Thursdays in February see the return of Ophelia Bitz with her continuining Artwank! session (2 and 9 February). This adult show will feature screenings of “Antique Porn”, accompanied by anarchic cabaret and contemporary burlesque. Expect extreme bawdiness for a straight and gay audience! Tickets cost £8 and the show kicks off at 8.30pm sharp (doors at 7pm). Ophelia will be followed on Thursday 16 February by another date with Alp Heydar, who will be presenting his show ‘Erotic Adventures in Atlantis’ – a new performance piece exploring what happened when, having survived a plane crash, “Alp and his Jihadist boyfriend Mohammed fight for survival on a mysterious island!” As usual with Mr Heydar, expect socio-political themes to be thoroughly explored through wanton eroticism, original songs and onstage video visuals. The rest of the week at the RVT offers bingo with Timberlina each Monday and the fabulous Bar Wotever on Tuesdays (equally embracing boys, girls, TS, TV and ‘wotevers’). The long-running and hugely popular Duckie and S.L.A.G.S/Chill-out rule the roost on Saturdays and Sundays respectively, while Fridays offer a rotating line-up of monthly club nights. These include Rooster (3 Feb), Club Wotever (with its Female Masculinity Appreciation Society on 10 February), Anthem – Old Skool Reunion on 17 February (with special guests Wayne G and Porl Young) and Push The Button (24 February). Advance tickets for most performance nights can be bought at www. ticketweb.co.uk The Royal Vauxhall Tavern, 372 Kennington Lane, Vauxhall, SE11 5HY. Check www.rvt.org.uk or Facebook Group: /thervt 020 7278 3294. Kings Cross tube. Big, lateopening gay bar on three floors, with ground floor cabaret and infamously cruisy cruise nights in basement. Upstairs B&B accommodation. www. centralstation.co.uk CLUB KALI, The Dome, 1 Dartmouth Park Hill, Tufnell Park, N19. World’s biggest lesbian and gay Southern Asian music night, running every third Friday of the month. Always busy and rather WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 39 A O U T I N T H E C I T Y: S C E N E G U I D E FEBRUARY 2012 South Lambeth Road, SW8. 020 7735 9972. 10pm-late. Door charge and strict dress code. One of London’s most famous dress-code and cruise clubs - busy with a menonly crowd. Open FridaySunday and occasional Thursdays (SM Gays every third Thursday of the month - www.smgays. org). www.thehoist.co.uk JACKIE’S JUKEBOX, Rivoli Ballroom, 350 Brockley Road, SE4. First Saturday of the month, 7pm-midnight (£7). Gay ballroom and Latin dancing night, attracting up to 300 dancers a month to the glam 1950sstyle Rivoli Ballroom. Crofton Park BR. www. therivoli.co.uk unique. www.clubkali.com EGG, 200 York Way, King’s Cross, N7. 020 7609 8364. King’s Cross tube. Bespoke club space on three floors, hosting occasional gay club nights and after-hours sessions. www.egglondon.net KW4, 77 Hampstead High Street, NW3. 020-7435 5747. Large, cosy, traditional old gay pub, with regular entertainment, beer garden and food. One of London’s longest-running gay establishments. www. kw4.co.uk THE LOAD OF HAY, 207 Pinner Road, Watford, 01923-441113. Watford’s only gay pub, with big beer garden and regular entertainment. www. loadofhay.co.uk THE OAK BAR, 79 Green Lanes, N16. 020-7354 2791. Manor House tube. Friendly, diverse gay bar with late-night club promotions (open ‘til 3am at weekends). Very popular with lesbians and male friends. www.oakbar.com SUPER STUFF The folk at the fabulous Dalston Superstore has been in touch to tell us all about their club bookings for the month of February. Highlights include the following: legendary women’s night Twat Boutique returns on Thursday 2 February between 9pm and 3am. Admission is free. Bi-monthly rave session Breed featuring Rex The Dog waves its glo-sticks on Friday 3 February (again, free admission), with John Sizzle and A Man To Pet taking care of the performance element. Saturday 4 February sees the return of B(EAST), bringing together beastly beats from the East End with hot bears and electronic beats from Berlin courtesy of DJs Borja and KevinFunkt (pictured). Doors are open from 9pm till 4am, with entry free before 11pm and £5 after. Monthly party monster Back To Back stomps back into town on Friday 10 February (£5 after midnight), with special house hero guest Spencer Parker joining James Cooper and Alex Who?. This is followed on Saturday 11 February by Sink The Pink’s ‘Happy Shopper’ night. Prince Nelly, Attack Attack Attack and James Philips spin the sounds. Admission is £5 after 11pm. For a change of pace, check out pop trivia quiz Let’s Get Quizzical on Thursday 16 February, hosted by Holestar and Prince Nelly. Doors are open from 9pm till 3am, with admission being free. Or, for a chilled out end to your weekend, enjoy a free taste of Tutti Frutti each Sunday, offering soul, disco and authentic house courtesy of DJ Squeaky (Downlow Radio). You’ll find Dalston Superstore at 117 Kingsland High Street, London E8 2PB. 40 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK SOUTH LONDON AREA, 67-68 Albert Embankment, SE1. Gorgeously-designed, hard dance club and cabaret rooms, with eclectic roster of different gay nights and one-off promotions, including Friday nighter Onyx and new Sunday nighter Booster, amongst others. www.areaclub.info BARCODE VAUXHALL, Arch 69, Albert Embankment, SE11. 0207 734 3342. Vauxhall tube. Open 7 days a week. MonThu 4pm-1am, Fri-Sun 4pm-4am. Very popular club bar, with dancefloor and mezzanine chill-out space - gets busy at weekends. CLUB COLOSSEUM, 1 Nine Elms Lane, Vauxhall, SW8. Huge, late-night venue for after-hours crowd – hosting various monthly promotions such as Bootylicious (www. bootylicious-club.co.uk). THE EAGLE, 349 Kennington Lane, SE11. 020 7793 0903. Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat 9pmlate, Tue 9pm-2am, Sun 9pm-late. Vauxhall tube. Large, club-bar with nightly promotions. Tonker (Fridays) and Horse Meat Disco (Sundays) are particularly popular. www. eaglelondon.com FACTORY, 65 Goding Street, SE11. Stylish, railway arch Vauxhall venue, hosting occasional dance and cruise nights, such as Rude Boyz and the infamous Hard On (www.hardonclub.co.uk). FIRE, South Lambeth Road, Vauxhall, SW8. Vauxhall tube. Infamous, late-night gay venue beneath the Vauxhall railway arches, host to the likes of Orange, Later and Juicy. Open around the clock at weekends. www. fireclub.co.uk or www. myspace.com/firelondon or www.clubtickets.com KAZBAR, 50 Clapham High Street, SW4. 020 7622 0070. Clapham North tube. Mon-Thu 4pm-midnight, Fri 4pm1am, Sat noon-1am, Sun noon-midnight. Clapham video bar, popular throughout the week, with DJs at weekends. LITTLE APPLE, 98 Kennington Lane, SE11. 020 7735 2039. Kennnigton tube. Open 7 days a week. Small, traditional gay boozer for local gay boys and girls open till 1.30am Fri-Sat. PARIS GYM, 73 Goding Street, Vauxhall, SE11. 020 7735 8989. Vauxhall tube. Huge, well-equipped men-only gym with large, devoted following. Regular classes. Tourists welcome. Check website for entry details and membership. www.parisgym.com THE GEORGE & DRAGON, 2 BlackheathHill, Greenwich, SE10. 020 8691 3764. Deptford Bridge DLR. MonThu 4pm-1am, Fri & Sat 4pm-4am, Sun 4pm-2am. Late-night pub with nightly entertainment and cabaret. www.gandd.org.uk PULSE, 1-4 Invicta Plaza (corner of Blackfriars Road and Southwark Street), SE1. Southwark tube. State-of-the-art, 5,000-capacity megaclub, hosting occasional gay parties/one-off events. www.pulse-club.info THE HOIST, Arch 47c, ROYAL VAUXHALL O U T I N T H E C I T Y: S C E N E G U I D E F E B R U A RY 2 0 1 2 BEYOND CLUBBING For serious lovers of all-night partying, Vauxhall’s most essential weekend date has to be Beyond. The club enjoyed a hugely debauched Christmas season, but the team have kicked off the New Year as they mean to continue – with more of the same! Beyond is where clubbers head when other venues have closed. You’ll find it every Sunday morning from 6am till 1pm at Area on the Albert Embankment. Ten years down the line, the team have honed their formula to perfection. Now with Steven Sharp (of the Sharp Steven Sharp Boys) leading the promotional team, the enhanced line-up of resident DJs now includes Steve Pitron, Paul Heron, the Sharp Boys and Alan K in the main room, with Fat Tony, The Oli, Jamie Head and Jonny M in the Terrace. Paul Christian, HiFi Sean, D’Johnny and Guy Williams take care of the Chapel – presenting a very alternative form of Sunday worship! Elektra Paris and Shaun Capewell present the super-sexy dance shows, while the team throw every production trick in the book to create a visually spectacular and trippy experience. Pick up up £10 advance tickets from www.orangenation.co.uk and watch out for forthcoming exclusive offers in collaboration with sister venue Fire. www.orangenation.co.uk TAVERN, 372 Kennington Lane, SE11. 020 7840 0596. Vauxhall tube. Opening times vary. Huge, traditional and historic gay pub, with long history of hosting cabaret. Packed to rafters on Saturday (Duckie) and Sunday (S.L.A.G.S/Chill-Out). Check www.rvt.org.uk or the facebook group RV Taverners for information. THE STAG, 15 Bressenden Place, SW1. 020 7828 7287. Victoria tube. Mon & Tue midday-midnight, Wed-Fri midday-2am, Sat 5pm-2am, Sun 4pmmidnight. Dark and atmospheric gay bar in Victoria, occasional cabaret,DJs at weekends, upstairs theatre space. www.abovethestag.com 286, 286 Lewisham High Street, SE14. 020-8690 7648. Large, late-opening gay venue, with regular entertainment, DJs and cabaret. Open till 2am Sun-Thur and 4am Fri-Sat. www.two8six.co.uk THE TRAFALGAR ARMS, 148 Tooting High Street, SW17. 020-8767 6059. A spacious, lively, attitudefree, gay-friendy pub. Excellent food served all day. Weekly DJs on Friday and Saturday nights. . THE TWO BREWERS, 114 Clapham High Street, SW4. 020 7819 9539. Clapham Common tube. Mon-Thu 5pm-2am, Fri & Sat 5pm-4am. South London’s most famed gay cabaret venue. Large bar and separate dancefloor room. www.the2brewers. com UNION, 66 Albert Embankment, SE1. 0207793 9262. Cruisy dance club which hosts regular promotions. Plays areas and hot go-go’s. www. clubunion.co.uk and www.ma1.co.uk XXL, Arcadia, 51-53 Southwark Street, SE1. London Bridge tube. Huge world-famous club for bears, big men and admirers, on Sat and Wed. Pulls in 1,000+ customers each Saturday with uplifting dance anthems and occasional guest DJs. www.xxllondon.com SAUNAS CHARIOTS STREATHAM, 292 Streatham High Road, SW16. 020 8696 0929. Streatham station. Large sauna, with weekly theme nights (bears, men of colour, etc). www. gaysauna.co.uk CHARIOTS VAUXHALL, 63-64 Albert Embankment, Vauxhall, SE1. 020 7247 5333. Vauxhall tube. Large, modern sauna in converted railway arch. www.gaysauna.co.uk THE LOCKER ROOM, 8 Cleaver Street, Kennington, SE11. 020 7735 6064. Kennington tube. Long-running, intimate gay-owned and run sauna. www.thelockerroom.co.uk STEAMWORKS, 309 New Cross Road, New Cross, SE14. 020 8694 0606. New Cross/New Cross Gate station. Small, longrunning establishment. www.steamworkslondon. co.uk EAST LONDON THE ANGEL, 21 Church Street, E15. Tel: 020 8555 1148. Stratford BR and tube. Big gay pub, always popular at weekends, with regular cabaret, DJs and disco nights. THE BACKSTREET, Wentworth Mews, off Burdett Road, E3. 0208980 8557. Over 25 years old – small but legendary East End dress code leather club, open ThurSun. Very strict rubber and leather dresscode, ensuring a wide and loyal following. www. thebackstreet.com BISTROTHEQUE, 23-27 Wadeson St, E2. Tel: 020 8983 7900. Bethnal Green tube. Very mixed, gay/straight crowd of trendy metrosexuals. Great bar, restaurant, plus separate cabaret room. www.bistrotheque.com DALSTON SUPERSTORE, 117 Kingsland High Street, E8. 020 7254 2273. Highbury & Islington tube. New, two-floor mixed gaystraight venue - café by day and fashionable performance space and club promotions at night. Open from breakfast until 2am every day. EAST BLOC, 217 City Road, EC1V 1JN. Old Street tube. Small, trendsetting, 250capacity basement club near to Hoxton and Shoreditch, hosting a variety of different promotions each month. http://eastbloc.co.uk GAY LICK, Club Lick, 58 Hoe Street, E17. Walthamstow tube. Twicemonthly gay promotion at a cruisy club space. Every first and third Friday from 9pm-4am. Entry £4 before midnight and £7 after. www.gaylicke17.co.uk THE JOINERS ARMS, 116 Hackney Road, E2. Tel: 020 7739 9854. Debauched decadence – old-skool boozer popular with post-club crowd at weekends. Gets busy later in the evenings. KINGS HEAD, 11 Church Street, E15. Tel: 020 8534 0197 Stratford BR and tube. Intimate and welcoming East End gay pub – regular cabaret. Open till late throughout the week. THE OLD SHIP, 17 Barnes Street, E14. Tel: 020 7790 4082. Limehouse DLR. Small, local, traditional gay pub, with regular cabaret - five minutes’ walk from BJ’s White Swan (see below). VOGUE FABRICS, 66 Stoke Newington Road, N16. New, underground and arty hangout for the Dalston set. Mixed crowd but regular gay events. BJ’S WHITE SWAN, 556 Commercial Road, E1. Tel: 020 7780 9870. Limehouse DLR. A large, legendary, long-running gay pub and club, open throughout the week. Wednesday’s Amateur Strip is an institution. www.bjswhiteswan.com SAUNAS CHARIOTS LIMEHOUSE, 574 Commercial Road, E14. 020 7791 2808. Limehouse rail station. Multi-level, wellestablished sauna. Themed parties such as ‘Big and chunky’ each Monday evening, amongst others. www.gaysauna. co.uk CHARIOTS SHOREDITCH, 1 Fairchild Street, Shoreditch, EC2. 020 7247 5333. Liverpool Street station. Biggest gay sauna in UK, with a maze of rest rooms. Very popular (particularly at weekends). www. A gaysauna.co.uk E15 CLUB, 6 Leytonstone Road, Stratford, E15. 020 8555 5455. Stratford tube. Deceptively large sauna behind a discreet facade. www.londonnoise. com/e15 WEST LONDON THE HOPE & ANCHOR, 20 Macbeth Street, Hammersmith, W6. (020 8748 1873). Gay pub for Hammersmith and Chiswick. Traditional boozer with nightly entertainment – open noon-11pm throughout week, with popular karaoke at weekends. THE RICHMOND ARMS, 20 The Square, off Princes Street, Richmond. 020-8940 2118. Longrunning, traditional gay pub, with regular cabaret and entertainment. One of gay London’s better locals. TED’S PLACE, 305a North End Road, West Brompton, W14. 0207 385 9359. Earls Court or West Brompton tube. Mon-Fri from 7pm-late, closed Sat & Sun. Small, West London cruise club. Dark and sleazy. www. tedsplaceuk.co.uk WEST 5, Popes Lane, South Ealing, W5. 0208579 3266. Large, popular gay pub with Piano Room and cabaret bar, open till late at weekends with entertainment and DJs. Attracts a big local crowd - particularly at weekends. www.west5ealing.com WINDSOR CASTLE, 152 Bath Road, Hounslow, TW3. 020 8577 6590. Hounslow West tube. Large, local gay pub with regular cabaret and entertainment throughout the week. www.thewinz. co.uk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 41 LGBT HISTORY MONTH HISTORIC TIMES LGBT History Month takes place throughout February. This year’s emphasis is on sport, to coincide with the Olympics and several exciting developments in the gay sporting world… The annual LGBT History Month returns to the UK each February, and this year’s festivities boast more events than ever before. The theme for both 2011 and 2012 is ‘sport’, to coincide with the UK hosting the Olympics in 2012, and to highlight the fact that the world of sport – which offers role models to so many young people – can still be a difficult place in which to be an out LGBT person. Correspondingly, many of this year’s events are concerned with a sports theme, while others look at wider aspects of LGBT history and equality. On the following pages, we are highlighting just a few of the events taking place in London as part of LGBT History Month. We also highlight some of the exciting things happening in UK Gay Sports arena in 2012… QUEER QUESTION TIME LGBT History Month is launched with a special edition of Queer Question Time, which will take place at The Banqueting Hall, Glaziers Hall, 9 Montague Close, London, SE1, on Wednesday 1 February. The event will be opened by Suran Dickson (CEO Diversity Role Models) and Sue Sanders (co-chair LGBT History Month), with a performance from the Pink Singers at 7pm, followed by a panel discussion at 7.30pm on the subject of “Tackling homophobia and transphobia in the world of sport.” The panel will include five local, national, and international LGBT icons and commentators, including Bob Ballard (Radio and TV sports broadcaster), Claire Harvey (GB Sitting Volleyball Women’s Team & Head of Corporate Responsibility, FSA), Dave Merchant (founder of Marlin Swimming Group) and Peter Tatchell (human rights campaigner). Submit questions by emailing [email protected] Admission is free, but advance booking is advised as places are limited. To book your place contact Helen Laker on 020 7525 0848 or [email protected] CROYDON LIBRARY LGBT HISTORY MONTH EXHIBITION 1-29 February at Croydon Library, Croydon Clocktower, Katherine Street, CR9. Croydon Library hosts an exhibition to tie in with LGBT History Month, highlighting local LGBT organisations and photographs contributed by the local Bridge LGBTQ youth group. GALOP’S GREAT AUSTERITY-BUSTING PUB QUIZ FUNDRAISER Thursday 2 February at St. Anne’s Church Hall, 55 Dean Street, Soho, W1D. Help raise funds for London’s leading LGBT anti-violence charity, Galop. The quiz runs from 8-10pm. Grab some friends and form your own team of up to five people, or you can join another team on the night. Tickets are £10 in advance at www.galop.org.uk, or £12 on the door on the night – but space is limited to 50 people so advance booking is recommended. BOY IN A DRESS THE VINYL CLOSET Friday 3 February, from 7.30-10pm, at Brockway Room, Conway Hall, 25 Red Lion Square, WC1R. Hosted by the Gay & Lesbian Humanist Association, ‘The Vinyl Closet’ is an evening of music and chat with Ted Brown and Brett Lock (pictured above). The duo aim to shine a light into the musical closet of the both the pre-gay liberation era, investigating how queer gender and sexuality was represented on records, and the post-Stonewall period. More details at www.vinylcloset.org Running from 14 February until 3 March at the Ovalhouse, 52-54 Kennington Oval, London SE15 5SW. La JohnJoseph presents this autobiographical – and raucously political – reflection on his life. Describing himself as “a third-gendered, fallen Catholic, ex-fashion model from the wrong side of the tracks”, follow him from the council estates of Bootle to the strip clubs of San Francisco. The show is just part of the Ovalhouse’s spring season of LGBT performance work – for more details check www.ovalhouse.com LGBT EAST END TOUR Saturday 4 February, 2-3.30pm. Meet at the Bishopsgate entrance of Liverpool Street Station, EC2. Cost: £5. From Christopher Marlowe to Jeanette Winterson, this guided tour takes in the personalities of LGBT interest, set against the social landscapes of Spitalfields and Whitechapel. For more details, contact [email protected] THE QUEENS OF ELTHAM PALACE Sunday 5 February at 2pm and Sunday 26 February at 3.30pm, at Eltham Palace,Tyne CourtDaly Yard Eltham, London, SE9. From Edward II’s relationship with Piers Gaveston to the architects John Seely and Paul Paget, there is a rich LGBT history at Eltham Palace. Enjoy a tour of this stunning site, and learn about some of the LGBT influences in WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 43 LGBT HISTORY MONTH HISTORICAL GUIDED TOUR OF LGBT SOHO Sunday 5, 12, 19 and 26 February from 2-43pm. Meet outside the Admiral Duncan pub, 56 Old Compton Street, Soho, W1. Cost: £5. Experience the vibrancy of Soho whilst walking a heritage trail of diverse LGBT history. Hear about the characters that have lived challenging and inspiring lives, making unique contributions to science, the arts, culture, the community, politics and LGBT rights. www.kairosinsoho.org.uk/tours.asp Monday 6 February from 6.30-8.30pm at University College London, Roberts G08 Sir David Davies LT, Torrington Place, WC1E 7JE. A panel discussion exploring whether body image anxiety is a particular problem for gay men, and if so why, and in what ways does it become manifest? The panel will be chaired by Professor Michael King, Head of UCL Mental Health Sciences, and panelists will include Jonathan Kemp, Johan Andersson, Matthew Todd and Mark Simpson. Registration is required. Visit: www.ucl.ac.uk/hr/ equalities/training/body.php www.ucl.ac.uk/diversity_month2012 THE WALLACE COLLECTION LGBT HISTORY MONTH LECTURE Tuesday 7 February from 1-2pm, at the Wallace Collection, Hertford House, Manchester Square, London, W1. Director of the Wallace Collection (pictured above), Christoph Vogtherr, gives a talk about Philippe Duc d’Orléans, younger brother of Louis XIV – regarded as one of the most flamboyant figures at the court of the Sun King, and looks at the wider depiction of love at the French court in the arts. www.wallacecollection.org 44 Wednesday 7 February from 58.30pm at the Wilkins Old Refectory, University College London (UCL), Gower Street, WC1. Are you interested in volunteering with an LGBT volunteering organisation? If so, get along to this LGBT Volunteering Fair, organised by the LGBT Consortium, to find out more. Check the events section of www.lgbtconsortium.org.uk SPEAKING OUT: VOICES CELEBRATING LGBT HISTORY MONTH 2012 Wednesday 15 February at Woolfson & Tay Bookshop, 12 Bermondsey Square, London SE1. A free event featuring Bookernominated author Paul Bailey and author Will Davis, among others. Booking is advised. See www. woolfsonandtay.com “IT TAKES TWO...” AN EVENING WITH STELLA DUFFY AND PAUL BURSTON Tuesday 21 February from 7.15-9pm at Watford Central Library, Hempstead Road, Watford WD17 3EU. A special event for LGBT History Month featuring authors Stella Duffy and Paul Burston (pictured below), who will be discussing their work and their lives. Entry £5. www.hertsdirect.org/libraries WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK UK GAY SPORTS 2012 In many ways 2011 was a watershed for gay sports in the UK. More high-profile athletes came out, and many of the major UK gay sports organisations petitioned to host the Euro Games in 2015 and Gay Games happening in 2018. There was never a more appropriate time for representatives from British gay sports to be invited to Downing Street for the launch of the new government charter on homophobia and transphobia in sport. Scores of gay athletes gathered in what was the most significant acknowledgement of their efforts to take place in this country. Prime Minister David Cameron not only acknowledged the struggle that gay sports people had faced to date, but actively encouraged the gay, lesbian and trans communities to participate and get involved in sports ahead of the London Olympics in 2012. Here, some of the organisations that were present at this event last June explain some of the exciting things happening in the UK gay sports community both in 2012 and in the future. Appropriately, the first gay sporting event happening in 2012 is LGBT History Month, giving us all the opportunity to learn more about the growth in British gay sports. LGBT History Month is running right through the month of February and there are many exciting things happening around the country to celebrate the history of gay sports in the UK. You can also learn more about Gay Sports history at the LGBT History Month website where you can articles and features relating to British Gay Sports. Check out the timeline of the history of British Gay Sports (1982-2012) amongst other features put together by Gay Games Ambassador and World Champion Powerlifter, Chris Morgan. UK GAY SPORTS 2012 TEXT COMPILED BY CHRIS MORGAN BEEFCAKE: GAY MEN AND THE BODY BEAUTIFUL LGBT VOLUNTEERING FAIR 2012 PHOTO © ADRIAN LOURIE the Art Deco movement of the 1930’s. Normal ticket prices apply to entry, and booking is essential. Call 0208 294 2548 or check out www. facebook.com/elthampalace LGBT HISTORY MONTH homophobia message on their kit in a televised match. In 2012, this could well be replicated by a Super League team. Watch this space! In 2007, Pride Sports Directors and LGBT Youth North West, launched what we believe to be the world’s first annual LGBT Youth Games. 2012’s Youth games will be bigger and better than in previous years, running over five days. It will complement Pride Games activities and the Bingham Cup, which are being held in Manchester around the same time. Another highlight for 2012 will be working with Pride House at the London 2012 Olympics in helping to shape a relevant and exciting sports programme for this once in a lifetime event. www.pridesports.org Rugby players compete for the Bingham Cup HERE ARE SOME OF THE EXCITING THINGS HAPPENING IN UK GAY SPORTS IN 2012: PRIDE SPORTS – THE YEAR AHEAD This year will see Pride Sports working even more closely with its strategic partners as it continues to tackle homophobia in sports. It does this through working with national governing bodies and by reaching a UK-wide audience through its alliances with the UK LGBT Sports Network and LGBT History Month. This important work underpins Pride Sports’ increasing impact on equity in mainstream sports. In 2011, the Sheffield Eagles rugby league club became the first club winners of the Pride Sports Cup: a trophy awarded to the sports club that has made the biggest improvement towards tackling homophobia in sports. They won after team members wore an anti- PHOTO © © DAVID HUDSON GOVERNMENT SPORTS CHARTER Despite some progress, for some people, sport is not as welcoming as it should be. Prejudice against people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender still exists. The Government wants to provide a welcoming environment for all, and ensure people at every level can enjoy sport without experiencing prejudice. Sending out a clear message that homophobia/transphobia is not acceptable is good for fans and for players. It supports those playing sport to be themselves, which can have a positive impact on their and the team’s performance. That’s why on 14 March 2011 the Government, together with major sporting bodies, launched a Sports Charter calling for anyone and everyone with an interest or involvement in sport to unite in a common cause to tackle homophobia and transphobia Pride House Ambassadors in sport. The Charter has a growing list of supporters such as the Football Association, the Lawn Tennis Association, the England and Wales Cricket Board, the Rugby Football League, the Rugby Football Union and the 2012 London Olympics organisers, and well-known sports names such as Billie Jean King and Ben Cohen. This is good news, but people need to spread the word by signing up and inviting friends, family and team mates to sign up. To support the campaign and sign up to the Charter for Action ‘like’ the ‘I love sport, but I hate homophobia and transphobia’ Facebook page at www. facebook.com/lgbtsportcharter PRIDE HOUSE LONDON 2012 - FROM OUR HOUSE TO YOUR HOUSE Next summer, all eyes will be on Pride House London – which will be open from 26 July to 12 August 2012. Located in Clapham Common, a stunning open-air location, Pride House will become the capital of the global LGBT community, hosting some of the most exciting celebrations in London this year. People from around the world will descend upon south London for what is billed as a must-see event and the place to ‘move in’ this summer. Pride House London will be the ultimate summer celebration experience for all fun-seeking and open-minded Londoners and international visitors – gay and straight. It will be the first Pride House to join the line-up of Summer Olympic Houses representing a significant milestone for the LGBT community and for London as an inclusive host city. As one of the most exciting places to ‘move in’ this summer, Pride House will be one of the largest and most distinctive cultural festivals with 250,000 people expected over 17 days. Pride House will offer a jam-packed entertainment programme, including live music concerts, sports tournaments, televised broadcasts of Olympic events, pop-up restaurants and much more to be announced in the coming months. Pride House Ambassadors include Stephen Fry, director and producer David Furnish, author, journalist and newspaper editor Dan Savage, psychologist, author and former NBA basketball player John Amaechi OBE, member of the Great Britain women’s sitting volleyball training squad Claire Harvey, chairman of the Stand Up Foundation, Ben Cohen MBE, journalist, broadcaster and campaigner Peter Tatchell, founder and Chief Executive of Diversity Role Models Suran Dickson, and Olympic short-track speed skater Blake Skjellerup. Among its many objectives, Pride House aims to promote diversity and inclusion on a global scale, create awareness about homophobia in sport, encourage healthy and active lifestyles and bring communities together in the spirit of celebration. For more information on how to ‘move in’ visit www. pridehouselondon.co.uk, or ‘Pride House London’ on Facebook and Twitter. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 45 COMMUNITY STONEWALL EQUALITY WALK PHOTO © REALBRIGHTON.COM Register now to take part in this year’s Brighton Equality Walk – raising funds for LGB charity Stonewall… SCHOOLS OUT! National Student Pride 2012 comes to Brighton on 24-26 February… Now in its fourth year, and with a move to a new venue, National Student Pride promises to be bigger and better than ever before. This year finds the festival taking over the famous Brighton Dome. You can expect a three-day mix of partying and political debate, which will take place over 24-26 February 2012. Approximately 1,200 students are expected in Brighton for the weekend (from universities and colleges from St Andrews and Dundee in Scotland to the South Coast). “After X Factor winner Joe McElderry headlined in 2011, we are so excited for 2012,” said Danica Histed, Chair of National Student Pride. “The move to the Brighton Dome enables the event to get much bigger and better, including allowing the under-18’s in to the daytime event for the first time.” Sponsorship from external organisations has been essential in ensuring that that event is able to continue and expand, and organisers say that although seeking this has been challenging in the current economic climate, Ernst & Young – who have just been announced as 2012 Employer of the Year in Stonewall’s Workplace Equality Index – have again stepped in with their support. Liz Bingham, Ernst & Young’s Managing Partner for People, UK & Ireland commented, “We’re very proud to support National Student Pride for another year. At Ernst & Young we are passionate about enabling people to come together in an environment where they feel included and respected. National Student Pride enables LGBT students to do just that.” National Student Pride kicks off on Friday 24 February with an official pre-pride party at Revenge nightclub, with the main event taking place at Brighton Dome from 1pm on Saturday 25 Feb. In addition to the Question Time-style debate (which this year will include former gay basketball player John Amaechi) there will be stalls and a job fair. There will also be a bar and live music, plus celebrity appearances from such faces as the cast of hit C4 TV series My Transsexual Summer. The evening festivities commence with the Brighton Tour, great drink deals and games around Brighton’s Gay Village; climaxing with the massive club night at Brighton Dome Corn Exchange. Students can continue in to the early hours at the official after-party at Brighton’s Revenge nightclub from 2am, before finishing it all up with the ‘hungover’ Sunday lunch. For more information and to buy tickets, visit www.studentpride.co.uk 46 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK On Bank Holiday Sunday 6 May, hundreds of lesbian, gay and bisexual people and their friends and families will descend on Brighton for the ninth annual Stonewall Brighton Equality Walk. The 10K Walk, which winds through the heart of the seaside city, is a firmly-established date in the LGB calendar and many Harry Derbridge walkers make a day of the event – with pre-walk picnics and a post-walk celebration. The Stonewall Brighton Equality Walk is once again kindly supported by American Express with media partner Square Peg Media – publisher of Out In The City and g3 magazines. Celebrity hosts this year include Jane Hazlegrove, named entertainer of the year in the 2011 Stonewall awards for her role in BBC1’s Casualty and fellow awardnominee Harry Derbidge, star of ITV’s The Only Way Is Essex. The route for the 10K walk is designed by BLAGSS – the Brighton Lesbian and Gay Sports Society – for the fifth Jane Hazlegrove year. At the end of the Walk there will be a post-walk party, and all participants receive an exclusive T-shirt, a medal to say they have completed the challenge and a glass of bubbly or soft drink. And there will be prizes for the top fundraiser and the most successful fundraising team. The Walk raises funds for Stonewall’s Education for All programme which tackles homophobic bullying in Britain’s schools and makes schools inclusive for children from all families. YouGov polling for Stonewall showed that 90% of secondary school teachers say pupils in their schools are bullied, harassed or called names for being – or perceived to be – lesbian, gay or bisexual. Yet nine in ten teachers have also not received any specific training on how to tackle homophobic bullying. In the past year, Stonewall has published the first Education Equality Index which showcased how well local authorities are tackling homophobia and homophobic bullying in their schools, with Cambridgeshire County Council securing the top position. Stonewall’s Education for All programme provides tailored support and guidance to primary and secondary schools in challenging homophobic bullying and celebrating difference. It costs just £10 to register for the Brighton Equality Walk, and under-12s can walk for free. For more information visit www.equalitywalk.org.uk or call the Equality Walk team on 020 7593 1875. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 47 NEWS IN THE NEWS... Gay stories from the UK and further afield... PRIDE CHAIR STEPS DOWN OBSCENE? NOT GUILTY! Pride London has announced that its chair, Paul Birrell, has decided to step down from his position after serving 18 years on the Pride board. On announcing his decision, Paul said: “Leaving Pride London after 18 years was a difficult decision but with plans firmly in place for WorldPride 2012, now felt like the best time to step down, and I’m confident I’m leaving the charity in good hands. I wish Pride London every success in the future and cannot wait to enjoy WorldPride later this year.” Vice Chair Dr Patrick Williams, who has been with Pride London for over five years, has been appointed to act as Chair to steer the charity through to WorldPride 2012 on 7 July. A male escort has been found not guilty of distributing obscene DVDs by a jury at Southwark Crown Court in London. Michael Peacock, aged 53, has been working as an escort in London for several years, and also sold hardcore porn DVDs depicting extreme sexual activities such as fisting. An undercover policeman visited him in January 2009 and purchased several DVDs. Police subsequently raided his home and arrested him, charging him with six counts under the Obscene Publications Act. The case – described by some civil rights campaigners as “the most significant obscenity trial of the decade” – took place over five days at the beginning of January. The jury were asked to decide whether the ALAN TURING STAMPED The work of celebrated codebreaker and mathematician Alan Turing is to be marked with a commemorative stamp by the Royal Mail this month. Turing contributed a huge amount of work during World War II to breaking secret Nazi codes, and is heralded as one of the fathers of modern computing. However, after the war, in 1952, he was arrested and prosecuted for being homosexual, and forced to undergo ‘chemical castration’. He committed suicide in 1954. Since that time, his reputation and the importance of his work has steadily grown. The computer pioneer’s legacy will feature as part of a series of ten stamps entitled ‘Britons of Distinction’. SCHOOLS OUT CONFERENCE This year’s Schools Out Conference will take place on Saturday 4 February at the Drill Hall in central London. The theme for this year’s event is ‘Educating out prejudice through the LGBT lens’. This annual event attracts dozens of teachers, students, policymakers and activists to explore and debate how LGBT issues are handled within schools. 48 Michael Peacock, flanked by supporters, outside Southwark Crown Court material was likely to “deprave and corrupt any person likely to read, see or hear it.” Nigel Richardson, a lawyer with Peacock’s defence solicitors Hodge Jones and Allen LLP, argued that the films were only likely to be seen by “gay men specifically asking for this type POPE SPEAKS OUT AGAINST GAY MARRIAGE Pope Benedict XVI has again spoken out against the notion of gay marriage. In a New Year address to the Vatican diplomatic corps drawn from 180 countries around the world, he listed gay marriage as one of several threats to the traditional family that “undermined the future of humanity itself ”. In the speech, which was delivered in the Vatican on Monday 9 January, he stressed that the education of children needed proper “settings” and that “pride of place goes to the family, based on the marriage of a man and a woman”. He added, “This is not a simple social convention, but rather the fundamental cell of every society. Consequently, policies which undermine the family threaten human dignity and the future of humanity itself.” The Vatican and Catholic officials around the world have protested against moves to legalise gay marriage in Europe and other developed parts of the world. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK of material”. None of the acts featured in the films were illegal. The jury found Peacock not guilty on all charges. It’s believed that the verdict may result in a review of the guidelines on obscenity by the Crown Prosecution Service. “The Merchant of Venice, centering on how the world treats gays as well as Jews, has a love triangle between an older man, younger man and a woman. And the complexity in his comedies with cross-dressing and disguises is immense. Shakespeare obviously enjoyed sex with men as well as women.” Sir Ian McKellen has no doubt about the sexuality of William Shakespeare, in an interview with the Daily Mail. AND FINALLY... WORLD NEWS TIMBERLAKE TO PLAY ELTON JOHN? L-R: Max Zachs and Broken Rainbow’s Helpline Manager, Charlie Parker BROKEN RAINBOW LAUNCH TRANS HELP LGBT domestic violence charity Broken Rainbow UK will be marking Valentine’s Day with the launch of its new phone helpline for trans people across the UK. Hosted by Bar Wotever, the free weekly showcase for queer art and culture in London, the launch event will take place on Tuesday 14 February at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern from 6pm until midnight. The evening will feature celebrities, DJs, star performers and a diverse range of trans organisations who support the project. Trans people can now call the helpline (0300 999 5428) and speak to a trans helpline worker on Tuesdays 1-5pm and all helpline staff are having transawareness training. One of those supporting the helpline’s launch is Max Zachs, one of the stars of Channel 4’s My Transsexual Summer, who said of the initiative: “I know that as queer people we are already working hard to reclaim the streets. If you need to, now is the time to call and make your home safe as well.” The helpline is for all those experiencing domestic violence from their partner, ex or family. For more details, check the website at www.brokenrainbow.org. DERBY MEN GUILTY OF GAY HATE CRIME In a landmark case, three defendants accused of stirring up hatred on the grounds of sexual orientation have been found guilty by a jury in Derby. The three men – Ihjaz Ali, 42, Kabir Ahmed, 28 and Razwan Javed, 27 – were found guilty of a gay hate crime after handing out leaflets calling for homosexual people to be given the death sentence. The men distributed a leaflet titled ‘Death Penalty?’ – which carried an image of a mannequin hanging from a noose and quoted Muslim texts – at a local mosque and through letterboxes. It is the first prosecution of its kind since new laws came into force in 2010. Two other men were cleared of the same charge. Sentencing of the guilty men was adjourned until 10 February. The charges carry a maximum sentence of seven years in prison and an unlimited fine. The accused have defended themselves by claiming that they were not homophobic and were merely following their religious beliefs. During the trial, Kabir Ahmed had told the Derby Crown Court that he saw it as his “duty as a Muslim to spread what God says about homosexuality. The references on the leaflets are historical facts and quote from the Koran.” However, following the judgement, Sue Hemming, head of the CPS Special Crime and Counter Terrorism Division, said: “Everyone has a right to be protected by the law and we regard homophobic crimes, along with all hate crimes, as particularly serious because they undermine people’s right to feel safe. While people are entitled to hold extreme opinions which others may find unpleasant and obnoxious, they are not entitled to distribute those opinions in a threatening manner intending to stir up hatred against gay people.” JAMAICA Portia Simpson-Miller has again become Prime Minister of Jamaica. In an encouraging sign for LGBT rights within the country, the politician has recently spoken out in favour of gay rights, saying that she planned to review the criminalisation of homosexuality in the country and would not forbid gays from serving in her cabinet – as her predecessor, Bruce Golding, did. SimpsonMiller, of the People’s National Party, was previously Prime Minister in 2006 and 2007. Jamaica has an extremely poor record concerning LGBT rights, and attacks against LGBT individuals have been widely reported. Simpson-Miller was elected PM at the end of 2011 and sworn in at the beginning of January. ECUADOR The South American country of Ecuador had significantly improved its reputation on gay rights with the appointment of an openly gay health minister. Ecuadorian president, Rafael Correa, announced the appointment of Carina Vance Mafla. As one of her first proclamations, Vance Mafla announced that the health ministry will be working closely with lesbian rights group Fundacion Causana , and other civil rights groups, to shut down the remaining religious clinics which promise to ‘cure’ lesbians in the country. Singer and actor Justin Timberlake is apparently being lined up to take on the role of Elton John in a big-screen biopic of the rock superstar’s life. The film, which currently doesn’t have a title, will be co-produced by Elton himself. The 64year-old told the LA Times earlier this month that the picture would be a “surreal look at my life, and not just a factual look at my life; more in the manner of a Moulin Rouge”. He expressed a desire for Timberlake to take the role, and sources close to the former N’Sync singer say that he is considering the idea “very seriously”. ALAN CUMMING TIES THE KNOT (AGAIN) To celebrate the fifth anniversary of their UK civil partnership, actor Alan Cumming and partner Grant Shaffer have enjoyed their second marriage ceremony in New York. The couple took advantage of the fact that in 2010 New York became the sixth US state to allow same-sex marriage ceremonies. Cumming announced the news and posted pictures on his Twitter site. BEAN’S GENDER SWITCH Actor Sean Bean, who is famed for a string of tough guy roles, will play the part of a trans character in an episode of the BBC’s legal drama Accused. Ben Stephenson, Controller of Drama Commissioning at the BBC, said the character would appear in the third episode of the second series, to be filmed later this year. Speaking of the role, Bean said: “I’ve wanted to work on a Jimmy McGovern drama for a while and I think this cracking script really delivers a powerful, emotional drama for the audience.” WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 49 CAREER STONEWALL TOP 100 The annual Stonewall Workplace Equality Index has just been announced. It’s Stonewall’s annual list of the top 100 gay-friendly employers – those judged to be the very best for LGB employees based on their recruitment and antidiscrimination policies, good practice, networks and events. Laura Doughty (right), Stonewall’s Deputy Chief Executive, tells us about the importance of Stonewall’s Top 100 Workplace Equality Index and Diversity Champions Programme. Q What is the Diversity Champions Programme? The Diversity Champions Programme is Britain’s good practice employers’ forum on sexual orientation. It helps businesses and public services develop inclusive workplace cultures, ensuring that all staff can perform to their full potential. Q HOW HAS IT GROWN SO SUCCESSFUL? The first Index, published in 2005, attracted just over 130 entries – with six of the Top 100 requesting anonymity. Nearly 370 employers submitted entries to the 2012 Index and competition to secure a place was fiercer than ever. The staff satisfaction survey, introduced two years ago, gives gay staff the opportunity to give anonymous feedback. This ensures that the Index is also based on the actual experiences of LGB staff and, with over 7,500 staff participating, is one of the largest annual surveys of LGB staff in Europe. Q WHY IS DCP IMPORTANT? The Diversity Champions programme plays a key role in ensuring that lesbian, gay and bisexual staff can reach their full potential. Members of the programme are the first to hear about new developments 50 1. 2. 3. 4. WHAT IS THE STONEWALL TOP 100? Stonewall’s Top 100 Employers award recognises the pioneering efforts of leading businesses to create workplaces where lesbian, gay and bisexual staff can reach their full potential. Based on the results of the 2012 Workplace Equality Index – the comprehensive benchmarking exercise on sexual orientation issues in the workplace – the list is now an invaluable tool for talented LGB jobseekers looking for potential employers. Free to enter and open to all employers, the Index is so highly regarded that its principles have been adopted and adapted by diversity organisations overseas keen to develop diversity policies in their countries. Q THE STONEWALL WORKPLACE EQUALITY INDEX 2012 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 11. 13. 14. 15. 16. and research and work closely with Stonewall to make their workplaces inclusive and operationally effective. Every member of Stonewall’s Diversity Champions Programme understands that equality makes good business sense as people perform better when they can be themselves. Q WHAT CRITERIA GAIN COMPETING FIRMS A TOP 100 PLACE IN THE INDEX? Any employer who secures a spot in the Top 100 has performed well, particularly in a year where the Index has been revised. Every three years, the Index is reviewed to ensure it remains current and drives sexual orientation equality in the workplace forward. As the Index evaluates eight areas of policy and practice, employers who successfully secure a Top 100 place will have spent time developing their work across areas such as employee policy, employee engagement, staff training and development, monitoring, supplier policy, LGB community engagement and the ‘pink plateau’. The 2012 Index is the first time Stonewall has set additional award criteria for global employers. These recognise world-wide support for LGB equality, covering topics such as global non-discrimination policy, world-wide partner benefits and relocation support. 16. 18. 19. 20. 21. 21. 23. 23. 25. 26. 27. 27. 27. 30. 30. 30. 33. 33. 33. 33. 37. 37. 39. 39. 41. 41. 41. 41. 45. ERNST & YOUNG HOME OFFICE BARCLAYS SUSSEX PARTNERSHIP NHS FOUNDATION TRUST METROPOLITAN HOUSING PARTNERSHIP GOLDMAN SACHS ACCENTURE IBM GENTOO SIMMONS & SIMMONS THE CO-OPERATIVE UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE NOTTINGHAMSHIRE HEALTHCARE NHS TRUST HAMPSHIRE CONSTABULARY BRIGHTON & HOVE CITY COUNCIL ENVIRONMENT AGENCY FOR ENGLAND AND WALES LONDON BOROUGH OF TOWER HAMLETS LLOYDS BANKING GROUP BAKER & MCKENZIE LLP NATIONAL ASSEMBLY FOR WALES EAST SUSSEX COUNTY COUNCIL UNIVERSITY OF SALFORD LEICESTERSHIRE COUNTY COUNCIL SOUTH WALES POLICE BRITISH TRANSPORT POLICE DERBY CITY COUNCIL DEPARTMENT FOR WORK AND PENSIONS ITV PLC SOUTHEND-ON-SEA BOROUGH COUNCIL LONDON BOROUGH OF ISLINGTON MERSEYSIDE POLICE NORTH WALES POLICE GENESIS HOUSING ASSOCIATION IRWIN MITCHELL LLP NACRO TRANSPORT FOR LONDON CITIZENS ADVICE LEEDS CITY COUNCIL BIRMINGHAM CITY COUNCIL ST MUNGO’S BRISTOL CITY COUNCIL CORE ASSETS GROUP NATIONAL AUDIT OFFICE PINSENT MASONS LLP CROWN PROSECUTION SERVICE FOR ENGLAND AND WALES WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 51 CAREER 45. 45. 45. 49. 49. 49. 49. 53. 53. 53. 56. 56. 56. 56. 60. 60. 62. 62. 62. 65. 65. 67. 67. 67. 67. 71. 71. 73. 73. 75. 75. 77. 77. 77. 80. 80. 82. 83. 83. 83. 83. 87. 87. 87. 90. 90. 92. 92. 94. 94. 94. 94. 98. 98. 100. 52 MORGAN STANLEY ROYAL BANK OF SCOTLAND GROUP VICTIM SUPPORT CARDIFF UNIVERSITY KENT POLICE SUFFOLK CONSTABULARY WEST MERCIA CONSTABULARY DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH NEWHAM COLLEGE OF FURTHER EDUCATION RUGBY FOOTBALL LEAGUE CARDIFF COUNCIL LIVERPOOL JOHN MOORES UNIVERSITY OFFICE FOR NATIONAL STATISTICS ROYAL AIR FORCE HERTFORDSHIRE COUNTY COUNCIL TYNE & WEAR FIRE AND RESCUE SERVICE AMERICAN EXPRESS HOGAN LOVELLS THE SECURITY SERVICE (MI5) BARTS AND THE LONDON NHS TRUST AND TOWER HAMLETS COMMUNITY HEALTH SERVICES SOUTH ESSEX HOMES CLYDESDALE BANK SKILLSET SECTOR SKILLS COUNCIL WARWICKSHIRE COUNTY COUNCIL YOUR HOMES NEWCASTLE CROWN OFFICE AND PROCURATOR FISCAL SERVICE KENT COMMUNITY HEALTH NHS TRUST EVERSHEDS LLP HERTFORDSHIRE PARTNERSHIP NHS FOUNDATION TRUST ARTS COUNCIL ENGLAND DYFED POWYS POLICE MANCHESTER CITY COUNCIL ROYAL NAVY UNIVERSITY OF THE WEST OF ENGLAND HERBERT SMITH LLP LONDON BOROUGH OF HACKNEY GWENT POLICE BERNESLAI HOMES J.P. MORGAN SHEFFIELD CITY COUNCIL UNIVERSITY COLLEGE LONDON DEPARTMENT OF ENERGY AND CLIMATE CHANGE DEVON & CORNWALL POLICE LIVERPOOL COMMUNITY HEALTH NHS TRUST PLUS DANE GROUP THE SCOTTISH GOVERNMENT LONDON BOROUGH OF WALTHAM FOREST NATIONAL OFFENDER MANAGEMENT SERVICE BARNARDO’S LONDON AMBULANCE SERVICE NHS TRUST SCOTTISH PRISON SERVICE WEST SUSSEX COUNTY COUNCIL AVIVA PROCTER & GAMBLE PRICEWATERHOUSECOOPERS WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK NUMBER ONE EMPLOYER Ernst & Young have gained first place in this year’s Stonewall top 100. The firm is leading the way in diversity at work for the LGBT community. A company spokesperson explained their delight in topping the list. “We are thrilled to have been named Stonewall’s 2012 Employer of the Year. This is a great achievement for the firm and for our people. Ernst & Young is at the forefront of developing the idea of Inclusive Leadership. We see this as an important area for focus, especially when trying to bring about transformational change within an organisation. Over the past year, our Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Network (EYGLES) has supported this in many ways, for example, the network held a joint event with the EY Women’s Network on Inclusive Leadership, with Beth Brooke (our Global Diversity and Inclusiveness leader). They have used Inclusive Leadership as a theme for an event targeted at our leadership pipeline and are also planning an event in early 2012 around Inclusive Leadership in the Armed Forces. At a practical level, EYGLES members have been instrumental in coaching our teams in what homophobic bullying might look like and how to respond if it occurs. EYGLES has existed for over 15 years and now boasts 200 members, with branches in some of our regional offices. EYGLES continues to align its activities with our business, holding events addressing sexual orientation as a workplace issue for clients. We are proud to maintain a focus on attracting talented new LGBT people into the firm, and in 2011, we became the headline sponsor of National Student Pride, the only national LGBT Pride event for students. We are pleased to be continuing that relationship into 2012. We also continue to support the Diversity Careers Show. Our regular Global People Survey (GPS) is a key indicator of how our people are feeling over a wide spectrum of different areas. We are able to analyse the results by a number of different strands and our 2011 GPS showed that 92% of the firm’s LGBT employees agree that the firm has created an inclusive environment where people with diverse backgrounds and experiences can succeed. We see this as a powerful endorsement of our ongoing commitment to diversity and inclusiveness.” Tower Hamlets Council remains the most gay-friendly employer across local authorities in London, coming in at number 16 on the Workplace Equality Index – a result that Mayor Lutfur Rahman, Tower Hamlets Council, is delighted about. “It’s great news that Tower Hamlets has been acknowledged, for the seventh year running, as being one of the best working environments for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in the country. “I am determined to lead the borough in its fight against all forms of discrimination and to work towards a more harmonious environment, free from prejudice. This result is an indication of our work to achieve One Tower Hamlets.” http://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/ https://my.towerhamlets.gov.uk Genesis Housing Association were placed at number 33 in this year’s Stonewall Workplace Equality Index. Genesis’ Kulbir Shergill commented on its placing and why the organisation place such a premium on embracing diversity. “Most housing associations, like Genesis, have their roots in providing housing to those most disadvantaged and excluded, so using diversity as a business tool helps us to live up to our values of equality and fairness but also to deliver services that are cost-effective. Because housing associations deliver public services; they have to show that they are fair and accessible and meet legislative requirements. “We have to deliver services and make sure that the people delivering those services understand who our customers are and what their housing needs are. We still need to recruit, and we know that having a diverse workforce and being an employer of choice means that we are more likely to retain and attract the very best talent.” For more information about Genesis Housing Association, check the website at www.genesisha.org.uk PARENTING BE A HERO... BECOME A DONOR! Toyin Jegede, Donor Recruitment and Campaign Officer for the London Sperm Bank, explains why they want to hear from anyone interested in donating their sperm to help others achieve parenthood… In the UK, there is a huge demand for donor sperm, and this has led to some patients having to go on long waiting lists. The London Sperm Bank has grown to become one of the largest sperm banks in the UK and, thanks to our donors, we have successfully helped to create 1,661 families through our parent clinic The London Women’s Clinic. To our patients, donors are heroes because, without their help, their beautiful family unit would not exist. Sperm donation is a vital part of a long journey that some women must take in order to have a family. At the London Sperm Bank we are pleased to have a growing number of gay and bisexual donors, especially as we are big supporters of alternative families and continue to help a growing number of same-sex and single women at The London Women’s Clinic. Besides their desire to do something selfless and to help with the national shortage of sperm donors, gay and bisexual men tell us that they have chosen to come forward for a range of different reasons. Here are just a few: 54 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 1. To pass on genes: Although not wishing to procreate themselves, genetic preservation seems like a satisfactory alternative for some men. 2. As a safer alternative to co-parenting. Because we are a licensed sperm bank, we are governed and regulated by the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority. This means that such issues as the legal parenthood of a child are safeguarded by the law. 3. To help the LGBT community: gay and bisexual donors can relate to lesbian couples in relation to their inability to create a family based on the absence of the opposite sex. Furthermore, recent changes in the UK law have made it possible for same-sex couples to be named on the birth certificate of donor- conceived children, increasing the number of same-sex couples coming forward and wanting to start a family through a licensed fertility clinic. There are many more reasons for becoming a donor, with each reason unique to the individual. It makes the recruitment process all the more fun for us! The initial process is fairly simple; fill out an enquiry form on our website www.londonspermbank.com or call us on 020 7935 4305 to register an interest. The basic requirements for sperm donation are as follows: n Aged 18-45 n Healthy and free from infection n Free from hereditary disease n Donor must agree to make up to 25 donations over a period of 3-6 months The initial screening tests to join the programme will be completed within the first two visits to the clinic; they consist of a semen analysis and a blood and urine test. All loss of earnings and travel costs incurred by visits to and from the clinic are reimbursed. Once you have completed the donor programme you can also find out from us specific information about the outcome of your donations: the number of live births you have had as well as the sex and year of birth of any offspring created as a result of your donations. Pass on your genes and make this year the year you choose to be someone’s hero. Make this year count. PICTURE POSED BY MODELS © DREAMSTIME.COM PARENTING COULD YOU ADOPT OR FOSTER? The UK’s first LGBT Adoption and Fostering week takes place this month. If you’ve ever thought about offering a home to a child, it’s the perfect opportunity to find out more from people who’ve already been through the process… The UK’s first LGBT Adoption and Fostering Week will place from 20-26 February 2012. Raising awareness about adoption and fostering is the LGBT adoption support charity New Family Social. They are inviting gay men and women to events to coincide with the week. While adoption rates are at their lowest in ten years, New Family Social (NFS) says authorities have come to value gay parents, whom they say often have the right mix of skills and experience to raise children who have been in care. In a survey of social workers, carried out in co-ordination with Cambridge University, NFS found that 72% saw the “amount of energy and enthusiasm” LGBT adopters bring to the process as a significant strength. In addition, 76% saw “openness to difference, and supporting a child with a sense of difference” as 56 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK equally important. During the week beginning 20 February, events will be held in Birmingham, Brighton, Bristol, Cornwall, Edinburgh, Ipswich, Leeds, Liverpool, London, Milton Keynes, Nottingham, Reading, South Shields, Swansea and Thameside to provide potential parents with information and resources. Andy Leary-May, Director of New Family Social, said: “More and more LGBT people are choosing adoption and fostering as a way to form a family, and we want prospective parents to see how rewarding it can be, and how much advice and support is on offer from our huge community of families around the UK”. The free events include talks from local LGBT adoptive and foster parents about their experiences and information on how to start the process. Ahead of LGBT Adoption and Fostering Week, David Hudson talked to three gay men who have adopted or fostered. DAVID AND IAIN David and Iain are aged 38 and 48. They have been together for 17 years and live in West Sussex. They adopted two brothers four years ago. The boys are now aged 9 and 11. Iain works in retail operations and communications and his partner David is a retail manager. They had a civil partnership in 2007. When did you first discuss the idea of having children, and how quickly did you settle on the idea of adoption? Iain: We kind of talked about it for years, on and off, and we talked about the possibility of having a child with some female friends – both gay and straight PARENTING L-R: DAVID AND IAIN female friends – but for one reason or another that never happened. I think what swayed us was when we learned that the law was going to change in January 2006 with regards to gay people adopting, which allowed both of us to be regarded as the child’s parents. My niece is adopted and I’m adopted as well, so it’s always something that’s been in the family, so it wasn’t a really foreign concept to us. How did you find the process and how long did it take? We were dealing with Haringey, because we were living in London then. The approval process was swift. Our first meeting was in the January, and we went on the training in the May then had our home viists and all the other processes and were approved by early October. The bit that took longer was the matching, and although it was four years ago, in regards to the way social workers look at LGBT couples, it’s changed vastly in four years. We were the first male gay couple in Haringey to be approved. We never saw any outright homophobia, but there were some decisions probably made in ignorance, and I think we had to wait a bit longer because they weren’t used to matching up children with LGBT couples at that time. Now, it’s become 58 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK easier. And from my experience, it’s easier to have younger children, too. When we were adopting, they wouldn’t have really considered us for young children, or they told us that it was unlikely. It was more 4, 5 and 6-year olds, but people we know about now are adopting babies and 2 and 3-year-olds. Also, they’ve relaxed the regulations about children from different backgrounds. We were told at the time that we were adopting that we would not be considered for any children of eastern European descent, or any children that weren’t from the UK, but now that attitude has changed, and they are placing abandoned eastern European children with UK couples, and are more flexible about ethnic background. How did it feel when your children were finally placed with you? It was amazing; an incredible experience. It’s a really tough experience, as well. I think when we actually drove away with them in the car, it felt surreal. But once they’ve moved in, it was exciting and thrilling but strange suddenly becoming a parent. It was amazing and fantastic, but also challenging. It was a new experience for all of us and it probably takes a few months for you all to bond. Did the children settle quickly? It’s difficult to say. I took six months off work. I was working for the Body Shop at the time and it has really good policies, offering six months’ fully-paid adoption leave. My youngest son’s behaviour was particularly challenging to start with, and then, when he calmed down, the older son became more challenging. It probably took nearly two years before it was all relatively normal. The majority of the time now, it’s like they’ve always been our kids, but every now and again their history catches up with them and their behaviour is out of the normal spectrum by quite a long way. That’s only occasionally now, but at the beginning it was a lot of the time. It was challenging. What we always try to remember is that it isn’t their fault. They didn’t ask for the life that they’ve been given, and that’s what we say to them. We say, ‘We’re not blaming you for your history, or for what happened to you, but you do need to take responsibility for your actions and work with us to move forward as a family’. They are loving, kind, considerate boys who, for the majority of the time, are fun to be around and be with and that’s great. What advice would you have for any other gay people thinking of adopting? I would say: think about doing it, because it’s becoming more commonplace and it’s not as scary as it might seem to go through the process. It’s a big step to make the decision to become involved with the process, but once you’re involved with the process, people are supportive and willing you to be successful. You shouldn’t underestimate the type of impact that it’s going to have on your life though. Be realistic about the challenges, but at the end of it, if it’s the right thing for you, it’s really rewarding. I know it’s a cliché, but there are issues that adopted children, whatever age they are adopted, tend to have. I just say be open and honest and realistic about what you want, and be open and honest and realistic with the children as well.” IAN AND PAUL Ian and Paul are 44 and 41. They live on the south coast having met in Brighton 14 years ago. They adopted two brothers, aged 4 and 3, in August 2011. Ian is an actor and Paul runs an electronics business. When did you and Paul first discuss the idea of having children? Ian: It was about five years ago. We talked about it every year for five years and about two years ago I was performing in a pantomime with lots of children in the cast, and I just thought that if we’re going to do it then we might as well get on with it. How quickly did you settle on the idea of adoption? More or less straight away. We just PARENTING thought that it was only the really viable option open to us. Neither of us wanted to go down the road of asking a female friend, and neither of us wanted to consider surrogacy. How did you find the process of being accepted and how long did it all take? We started in February 2009 and the boys arrived in August 2011. It took about a year to be assessed. We went to Barnardo’s in the end because the councils we approached were pretty ineffectual. We approached about eight councils and the time limits they gave us were just dreadful, and because of government cutbacks in budgets, their services were being cut and cut, so training courses and social workers to interview us weren’t so readily available. Barnardo’s, being a charity, and set up to do this almost as a business, were pretty efficient. We hadn’t really considered them, to be honest, because we didn’t really know what they did, but someone else mentioned them to us and they were fantastic. And when did you first get in touch with Barnado’s? It was May 2009. And we were approved in March 2010. And I think for us, because we were fairly able to travel and quite flexible, it happened quite quickly compared to a lot of the couples we talked to. You adopted brothers – how did it feel when they were finally placed with you? It’s a complete whirlwind, really. Nothing can prepare you. You think “yeah, it will all be fine’, and then suddenly, these two little bodies arrive in the house and your whole self goes out of the window and you have to do everything for them. Overnight it was like ‘Oh my word – I don’t exist anymore! ‘These two little bodies now need me,’ sort of thing. There are ups and downs. There are days when I think ‘what the hell have we done?’ and there are other days when they might say something really cute and adorable or funny, and it suddenly feels like the greatest gift on earth. It’s a mixture of emotions every day. Did the boys settle with you quickly or is it still early days? Yeah, well they only arrived in August. They settled pretty quickly. There were a few issues that we had – power struggles over food, toys, bedtime, that kind of thing, but you know, normal kids stuff. Kids are pretty resilient and they’ve accepted the L-R: IAN AND PAUL whole thing pretty quickly, and they’ve also never really questioned why they don’t have a mummy but have two daddies. They tell people on the bus “I’ve got two daddies!” very proudly, and so on. It’s very different nowadays. What’s been the most challenging aspect for you of becoming a parent? Oh, early mornings! Every morning starts at 6.30pm. I used to sleep to 9 or 10, but those days are gone! And the most rewarding? When the boys call you daddy and cuddle up to you. You think ‘Oh my word, this is so peculiar’ – it just melts your heart. Have both your families been supportive? We’re very lucky in that both our families have always been supportive of us, even before we mentioned that we were going to do this. It’s extended their family as well. My mum now has grandchildren whereas before she had written it off, and Paul’s parents are only living five minutes away and we see so much of them now. Are you in a civil partnership? We haven’t as yet, but we plan to when the boys are old enough. Rather than it just being a civil partnership, we thought we’d make it almost like a family wedding, so the boys can feel more part of the process too, so it might make them feel more part of what is going on. What advice would you have for any other gay people thinking of adopting? I would thoroughly recommend it. Think twice and then think twice again, and then bite the bullet and go for it. It is completely exhausting but very rewarding. And don’t be immediately be put off if you don’t have success with local councils? No. I think try and find a support network, be it friends, family, professionals or New Family Social – there are lots of support groups out there. Because it is a minefield and social workers can be ineffective, and you’ll become frustrated at how they can lose paperwork or forget your name. ALLEN AND ADAM Allen and Adam, aged 45 and 40, are civil partners who live in Leicester. Allen is a qualified nursery nurse and Adam is a self-employed hairdresser. They have been foster carers to a teenage boy for the past two and a half years. Why did you choose to apply for fostering over adoption? Allen: Basically, I saw an advert in a local newspaper briefly saying what fostering was all about, and explaining that there are so many children in care who need WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 59 PARENTING L-R: ALLEN AND ADAM the security of a family. That sparked my interest. I phoned up the number in the advert and spoke to someone and they said “come along to an open evening and we can tell you more.” I think the main reason was that when we went to the open evening, they explained that there were so many children in care who needed either short-term or long-term fostering, and we thought well, rather than adopt, which is very permanent, we’d do fostering, which is semipermanent, if you like. We’re helping out a young person and then they move on hopefully to independent living, and then we can help out another person. It’s more of an ongoing process. How did you find the whole process of being accepted as a foster carer? It did take quite a long time, almost a year, to be approved by our council, purely because our social worker felt we needed the time to be sure that we were doing the right thing for ourselves and our lives. The initial process can feel a bit intrusive, because they have to find out about the individuals who are applying to be foster carers, and also the whole family background as well. It’s not just us as individuals because our families have an input into our lives as well, and into the life of the child that we’re caring for. So, it is a bit intrusive. Once we’d got over that fact, and accepted that yes, social services do need to know everything about us, then it was relatively smooth going. So in 2009, after being approved, how soon was it before you had a young person placed with you? Relatively quickly. It must have been a month and a half after being approved. I believe our social worker had someone in 60 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK mind for us already. And then we met with the young person that’s now living with us. He was 14. He’s now 16. He came over. We took him to the park for a few hours and played football. Then he went away again, and then the next time he came he stayed overnight, and he gradually got to know us better. That second time, he was already bringing stuff with him from his previous foster home – he was that keen to move in. And how will this play out in the future? Will he stay with you until he’s 18? Well, he has the option, now that he’s turned 16, to leave care if he chose to do so, but he’s decided that he wants to stay with us until at least 18. So, at the moment we’re in the process of trying to teach him some life skills – cooking, budgeting, etc, so that he has more of an ability to live on his own when he turns 18. But we have said that once he turns 18, he doesn’t have to leave. He’s got a home with us for life. It’s not like we’re going to chuck him out and say ‘Right, that’s it – you’ve got to go out into the big, bad world now.’ But we’ve got an inkling he will leave because he wants his own independence, obviously, but we’ve told him he’s welcome to come back any time. When you embarked on this process, did social services discuss the issue of age with you? Were you expecting a teenager or were you expecting someone younger? Well, because myself and my partner both smoked at the time, we wouldn’t be able to foster a child under the age of five. Although we didn’t smoke in the house, we smoked in the garden, it was still an issue with the council – which we understood – and we didn’t particularly want a child under five at that particular time anyway. But apart from that, we didn’t really have any preference, from five to whatever age really. Boy or girl. We just wanted to make a different to a young person and we didn’t have any criteria to go by. What’s been the most challenging aspect of being a foster carer? I think, behaviour wise, with the young person we have, when he first came to us he did have anger-management issues. At times, that could be quite challenging. We had to remain consistent and quite firm, but without being unkind. At times that could be quite problematic, but it’s died down a lot now. He realises that we care for him, that it’s his home, and there aren’t so many issues around that any more – he’s calmed down a lot. What are the more rewarding aspects? Well, I could go on all day about that! The crux of the matter is that we’ve made quite an impact on his life. We can see the changes in his behaviour, in his general attitude to his life and history. He didn’t have a brilliant start in life but he’s more positive about his future, and he’s going to college once a week and he can look towards bettering himself, if you like. We find that very rewarding, that he’s not so negative about things. And just little things, really. He’ll sort of turn round and say ‘I really enjoyed going out to the pictures today – thank you.’ And just that small thank you is worth it, it makes you think that he’s come a long way, and it’s just rewarding for you. The positive aspects outweigh the negative aspects a hundred-fold. And at some stage he will move on and live independently. Can you imagine fostering another child or children? Oh yes, definitely. We’re already considering that and speaking to our social worker about a second placement. It may happen when Craig is still with us, or it may be that we wait until he’s moved and then have the second placement, but either way, it will definitely be happening again. Some names have been changed www.newfamilysocial.co.uk www.lgbtadoptfosterweek.org.uk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 61 PROPERTY THE RETURN OF STAMP DUTY Looking to get on the property ladder? Be warned – the stamp duty holiday is due to end in late March. We look at how this could affect your purchase price… In the March 2010 Budget, the previous Labour government introduced a twoyear Stamp Duty Land Tax (SDLT) relief for first-time buyers of residential property on transactions of no more than £250,000. This meant that first-time buyers were exempt from paying the 1% SDLT normally levied on residential property transactions of between £125,001 and £250,000. Properties purchased for less than £125,000 are permanently exempt from SDLT. This SDLT relief was introduced on 25 March 2010, but will expire on 24 March 2012. With the expiration date fast approaching, first-time buyers need to act quickly so they can save themselves up to £2,500 in tax. It is easy for buyers new to the property market to forget that purchasing a property can take a long time. There are various stages in the process from finding a property, securing a mortgage, completing the surveys and searches, to finally completing the purchase. And all of this can take time, particularly when unexpected problems crop up. Many firsttime buyers struggling in the current economic climate face the challenge of obtaining a mortgage, affording high property prices and struggling to save up a sufficient deposit, so the SDLT relief has been one of the few aspects of the housing market that has made it easier for newcomers. There is still time for first-time buyers to take advantage of the SDLT relief, but they must ensure that they and the property they want to purchase meet the following government criteria in order to qualify for the ‘first-time buyer’ relief, including: n The property must be residential. Nonresidential or mixed-use properties do not qualify. n The property (if leasehold) must have a lease term of more than 21 years. n The property must be £250,000 or less (if the property is bought for between £250,001 and £500,000, the buyer will have to pay 3% SDLT). n The buyer (including joint buyers) must intend to live in the property and it must be their only or main residence. For example, the property cannot be used as a holiday home or a buy-to-let. Also, a buyer cannot purchase a property for someone else to live in (e.g. a family member) and claim relief. n The buyer or joint buyers must not have previously owned, or acquired an interest in, a residential freehold property, a residential leasehold property, or land, in either the UK or its equivalent anywhere else in the world. (This includes, for example, inherited property, property bought with someone else, interest under a trust, or interest in a houseboat). n The transaction must not be linked with any others for SDLT purposes, unless it is to do with the same property (e.g. a separate lease on a garage). So, if you are in the fortunate position of being able to afford your first home, act now and save yourself money. 62 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK B U Y I N G YO U R F I R ST P R O P E RY … THOSE EXTRA FEES On top of the deposit you raise to arrange your mortgage, there will be additional fees in purchasing your first property. These include some or all of the following: n Mortgage adviser – Should you use a mortgage adviser, they may work for a flat fee (£500-£1,000) or a percentage of the mortgage required. n Arrangement Fee – an administration fee charged by your mortgage lender to arrange your mortgage. This may be waived or is often now added to your mortgage and not necessarily paid upfront. Typically between £300-£1,000. n Legal/Conveyancing fees – You will have to hire a solicitor to handle the legal side of the sale and the exchange of deposit money to the lender’s account. Typically set aside £1,000-£3,000. A good solicitor should be able to help you with information on most of the fees mentioned below. n Survey – Including the lender’s valuation fee (£200-£400), Homebuyer’s Report (£300-£600) and possibly a Building Survey for older properties (up to £1,000). n Land Registry Fee – Typically between £100-£300 for properties between £70,000-£500,00 in value. n Local Authority Search Fees – To check on nearby planning permission, etc. Approximately £50-£70 in London Boroughs. n Stamp Duty – as detailed in our main feature. n Removal fees – The cost of moving house – whether hiring a van or paying a removal company will vary widely, depending on how many possessions you have to transport. n Building and contents insurance – You must always take out buildings insurance, as many lenders will insist you having a policy as a condition of lending to you. Contents policy is also wise. HOMES 01 02 04 03 We Want T H I S M O N T H ’ S H OT PRODUCTS FOR THE HOME 01. Love print 02. Oriental Butterfly Cabinet 03. Love mugs Want to send something a bit more eye-catching than just a Valentine’s card this year? Get the message across loud and clear with this classic Andy Warhol print design – ‘Heart, 1984 (I love you)’. It can be delivered direct, with a gift message if required, from online art print store easyart.com. It costs £9.95 unframed or from £59 framed. 4Living offer a range of Chinese and Japanese items for the home, such as this ‘Butterfly Cabinet’ styled on a traditional Fukian Cabinet. It has been handcrafted in solid elm wood, and sealed with a contemporary pale green lacquer and butterfly motif. Butterflies symbolise ‘love and bliss’ to the Chinese – which could make this a rather thoughtful – if pricey – Valentine’s gift. His’n’his mugs, emblazoned discreetly with the word ‘love’ – these ‘bucket mugs’ have been designed by Keith Brymer Jones. They’re dishwasher and microwave safe, and come in a gift box set of two – which we reckon makes them another perfect Valentine’s gift. Two for tea, and tea for two… RRP From £9.95 www.easyart.com 64 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK RRP £575 www.4living.co.uk RRP £15.99 www.kiwifunk.com HOMES 05 06 07 08 04. Love cushions 05. Maintenon lamp 06. Bau Light 07. Oki Nami chair 08. Whitby ceramics Specialising in “design-led gifts, homeware and vintage finds” is web-based retailer Folly. It offers several items that would be perfect for Valentine’s. Go to the site and check out the prints by Ros Shiers, or these wonderfully soft, 100% lambswool, 40cm x 40cm cushions, by designers Elsy & Vine – available in mustard or blue. This Maintenon lamp from bespoke furniture makers Wesley-Barrell is constructed from black wire with a mercurised glass lamp holder. The Oxfordshirebased firm has 15 showrooms nationwide (including London), and besides handmade sofas and chairs, offers an unusual and striking range of accessories, such as this striking piece of lighting. How about this Normann Copenhagen BAU pendant light? Designed by Vibeke Fonnesberg Schmidt, the piece offers a marriage of geometric shapes in a Mondrian-style, utilising simple hues and plain, natural wood. Oh, and in case you were wondering, BAU means ‘construction’ in German. Heals has just unveiled some of its additions for spring/ summer 2012. One of its key trends is ‘Go West’, with a wide selection of products that draw inspiration for the style and traditions of China and Japan. We love the ‘Oki Nami’ furniture from designer Nazanin Kamali. Typical is this chair – short, stout, sturdy, combining both practicality and simplicity. Another of Heals’ key trends this year is ‘Beside the seaside’, with a range of nautical-themed designs – from cushions and lampshades to rugs and ceramics. We particularly like these Whitby products – with plates and mugs adorned with anchors, seagulls, boats and lighthouses. After all… all the boys love a sailor! RRP £39.95 each www.follyhome.co.uk RRP £125 www.wesley-barrell.co.uk RRP £164 (small) £200 (large) www.bodieandfou.com RRP £250 www.heals.co.uk RRP Plates - £20 (set of four) and mugs - £8.50 each www.heals.co.uk WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 65 PROPERTY DOING THE LAMBETH WALK... Situated close to the gay-friendly district of Vauxhall, the new Arundel Square development from Henley Homes is attracting plenty of gay interest… Lombard Lane HENLEY HOMES Arundel Square Award-winning developers Henley Homes present their latest London project, Arundel Square (Old Paradise Street, Lambeth SE11), a new, gated development of two houses, two duplexes and five apartments set in Lambeth, just a 15-minute walk from London’s Palace of Westminster. Demand has been exceptionally high for these homes, which are due to be completed in the Spring of 2012, with two-thirds of the properties already reserved through appointed agents, Barnard Marcus. The houses and duplexes all offer three bedrooms. On the ground floor, the German bespoke kitchens are complete with an impressive range of built-in Siemens appliances. There are separate living spaces, with doors leading to private gardens. Upstairs, each property comes with two double bedrooms, one of which has an en suite bathroom with a walk-in shower, and a single bedroom that could double as a home office, as well as a fully-tiled bathroom. The houses and duplexes benefit from underfloor heating throughout. Several of the light-filled apartments offer terraces with panoramic views across London’s cityscape, and each comes with two bedrooms, and an open-plan kitchen/living/ dining area. The bathrooms offer smart, 68 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK white sanitary ware, ceramic floor and wall tiles. There is a secure video entry-system to all apartments. All units offer generous ceiling heights. A good location for commuters, Arundel Square is within walking distance of Lambeth North and Vauxhall underground stations, and convenient for a number of local bus and river bus routes. For after-work entertainment, and within a mile’s walk of Arundel Square, is Southbank and The Cut, abuzz with awardwinning restaurants and bars, as well as home to the National Theatre, Royal Festival Hall, Young and Old Vics. Vauxhall is just walking distance away, with its famous gay nightlife and late-night bars. Just over the river are the open spaces of St James Park, while Lambeth Palace Gardens are just a five-minute walk away. Prices for the remaining properties at Arundel Square range from £375,000 for a two-bedroom apartment, to £600,000 for a three-bedroom, semi-detached house. For further information, or to receive a colour brochure, interested parties should contact sole appointed agents Barnard Marcus on 020 7735 0922. www.sequencehomes.co.uk With an impressive track record in creating high-specification new developments across London, Henley Homes are award-winning residential and commercial developers. A new development by Henley Homes is located at 4-7 Lombard Lane, EC4: a collection of nine one- and two-bedroom contemporary apartments, set on a cobbled street in the historic heart of London, just off Fleet Street. In this exclusive area, known as Middle Temple, there are only about 200 private residences so the developers have restored the attractive original building to the highest residential standard. Specification highlights include bespoke kitchens, incorporating an impressive range of stainless steel appliances; and fully-tiled bathrooms with smart, white sanitaryware. Entry to the development will be controlled via a security card system. The development is within walking distance of both Blackfriars and Temple underground stations, as well as the River Thames and some of London’s world-renowned landmarks, including St Paul’s Cathedral. Prices at 4-7 Lombard Lane start from £425,000 for a one-bedroom apartment. For sales enquiries, call Hurford Salvi Carr on 020 7250 1012 (www.lombardlane.com) Other recent Henley schemes have included The Lumiere in Clapham Junction, a development of 60 one- and two-bedroom luxury apartments set in the listed former Granada Cinema. The company has recently acquired the old Lilian Baylis School, a 3.2-acre site in Kennington, which will be developed to offer in excess of 200 apartments, including a high proportion of affordable homes with the original, listed façades restored and retained. Henley Homes is pleased to confirm the appointment of Conran as architects on this exciting project. www.henley-homes.co.uk/ TRAVEL FORT LAUDERDALE Neil Geraghty finds that Fort Lauderdale, in its centenary year, is dusting off the cobwebs and reinventing itself as one of Florida’s most stylish holiday destinations... The South Florida beachfront city of Fort Lauderdale recently turned 100 – and when a city in the States celebrates its centenary it means one thing: it’s time for a face-lift. In recent years, FL has been doing just that, but in truth, the city was overdue a makeover. From being dubbed the ‘Venice of America’ in the 1930s – thanks to its expansive canal system – Fort Lauderdale’s languid, millionaire lifestyle degenerated in the 1960s to ‘Spring Break’ mayhem. For 30 years, tens of thousands of alcohol-fuelled students descended on the city in an annual, orgiastic pilgrimage that made the lewder episodes of Benidorm seem more like Songs of Praise. Eventually, the city authorities got so fed up with the Spring Breakers’ debauched behaviour that they banned drinking on the beach altogether. Sleazy clubs and cheap hostels disappeared and luxury hotels began popping up... so, once again, Fort Lauderdale has become a relaxing winter break destination for gay travellers from around the world. In recent years, some gay resorts have begun to seem a little frayed around the edges compared to their straight counterparts. However, in the States, there has been a real effort to raise standards, and nowhere is this more evident than in Fort Lauderdale’s Royal Palms Resort. The original guesthouse opened in 1991 and quickly became one of the clothing-optional grandes dames on the gay travel circuit. Twenty years on and The Royal Palms acquired two neighbouring 60s hotels, knocked them together and created a sparkling new resort which opened in April 2011. Spacious rooms have über-cool, minimalist decor brightened with giant, male nude 70 photographs by local gay photographer Mark Dennis. Rooms have 42-inch flat-screen TVs, walk-in rain showers and complimentary use of iPad 2s. Guests have the choice of two swimming pools, one with an outdoor bar. For a real splurge, guests can hire The Royal Palms’ private yacht and sail over to the nearby Bahamas for an idyllic mini-cruise. The resort is located a stone’s throw from the nearest beach, and it’s a mystery why the town’s gay beach hasn’t relocated here as it’s one of the quietest stretches of sand in Fort Lauderdale. As it stands, the main gay beach is a 15-minute walk away at Sebastian Street. Whatever the weather, it’s the busiest stretch of sand in town. You can really appreciate the laid-back friendliness that is a hallmark of Fort Lauderdale’s gay scene. The season kicks off in December; skies clear and gays from the northern states arrive in droves. With 23 miles of pristine, palm-fringed beaches and an idyllic, subtropical winter climate, it’s easy to see the attraction. On a calm day, the swimming is sublime, but Atlantic breakers can pummel the beach – expect plenty of shrieking when the boys get their hair wet. Serious swimmers should make a beeline to the Fort Lauderdale Aquatic Complex to rub shoulders with champion swimmers in one of America’s most famous training pools. Don’t miss the International Swimming Hall of Fame, a fascinating museum tracing the history of swimming. Sightseeing is low-key and easy by water taxi, which chugs past the millionaires’ watery playground of Las Olas Isles. Here, forests of sleek, white yachts bob up and down on sleepy canals, often bigger than the beautiful Spanish-colonialstyle villas that nestle among WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 1 2 3 Pictured: 1. Fort Lauderdale beach 2. Downtown For Lauderdale 3. The gay beach at Sebastian Street 4. Fort Lauderdale beach 5. Las Olas beach 6. Skyline and yachts 7. Skyline at dusk 4 5 7 5 7 6 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 71 TRAVEL TRAVEL NEWS Waterfront house the palm trees. You can spot A-listers shopping in Las Olas Boulevard, a mile-long stretch of beautifully-landscaped boutique heaven. It’s also a fantastic lunch spot, with some stylish restaurants such as YOLO. Grab a seat in the shady, bamboo courtyard and order one of its glamorous salads. Before returning to the beach, don’t miss the Old Fort Lauderdale Village Historic District, which has a cluster of beautifully-restored early 20th Century houses from the days when Fort Lauderdale was a sleepy backwater. At night, 99% of the gay action takes place in Wilton Manors, one of America’s most self-contained gay villages. It’s located quite a distance from the beach so it’s worth taking a cab there early and spending the whole evening bar-hopping. With over 150 gay-owned businesses, you certainly won’t get bored! Start the evening with dinner at Rosie’s Bar & Grill with a ‘Big Girl Burger’ and a huge jug of pink lemonade. From Rosie’s, head over to Georgie’s Alibi and get the party started with one of their famous Long Island Ice Teas. For mellow grunge you can’t beat Sidelines Sports Bar where you can pit your skills at pool with local all-American boys. For international clubbing with top-notch guest performances, join the legion of pumped-up Florida muscle studs at The Manor. Country and Western enthusiasts can don their Stetsons at Scandals and be prepared for some intense line dancing and poker tournaments. From hard sleaze to Martini bars, Wilton Manors has something for everyone and, wherever you end up, you’ll be struck by the friendly, attitude-free warmth of the local gay community. It’s this that makes Fort Lauderdale such a perennial favourite among discerning gay travellers. LINKS ACCOMMODATION n For more information on Fort Lauderdale please visit www.sunny.org n Virgin Atlantic flies daily from London Heathrow to Miami. Return fares in March and April start at £386.13 return including taxes. To book visit www.virgin-atlantic.com or call 0844 209 7310 n Royal Palms Resort, 717 Breaker’s Ave. 001-954-5646444 www.royalpalms.com n The Atlantic Resort & Spa, 601 N Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd. 001-954-567-8020 www.atlantichotelfl.com ELVEY FARM, KENT If you’re saving your pennies and avoiding any long-haul trips this year, why not instead book a staycation at one of England’s most beautiful boutique hotels? Run by partners Simon Peek and Jeff Moody and, unsurprisingly, very gayfriendly, Elvey Farm is a countryside retreat that takes some beating. Built in 1406, this medieval farmstead is set in the heart of Kent countryside, surrounded by green fields on every side. With 11 rooms, all en suite, this bijou former oast house, stable block and farm offers a delightful, secluded stopover and a chance to enjoy south east England. The rooms are beautifully decorated, quiet and private with large, comfortable beds and gorgeous evening meals and breakfasts. If you delight in birdsong through the window and drinkies by an inglenook fireplace, Elvey Farm is for you. They are also offering a special holiday in association the Wildlife Heritage Foundation to photograph the big cats, including photography lessons and all meals. Contact Elvey Farm on www.elveyfarm.co.uk Tel: O1233840442 FOOD n YOLO (You Only Live Once) – www.yolorestaurant.com n Rosie’s Bar & Grill – www. rosiesbarandgrill.com n Galanga Thai Kitchen & Sushi Restaurant – www. galangarestaurant.com n Casablanca Café – www. casablancacafeonline.com n ROK:BRGR – www.rokbrgr. com 72 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Royal Palms Resort VALENTINE’S ESCAPES Valentine’s Day is a busy one for the travel industry. Travel search site KAYAK.co.uk, has monitored the spike in travel enquiries around the February date and has just released information on some of the most popular destinations for those who really want to impress a loved one. Where do UK travellers jet off to for a romantic break? Below are the top five destinations. 1. Rome Good food, wine and architecture! 2. Las Vegas Amazingly, more than 5% of all marriages in the United States take place in Las Vegas! 3. Venice Another of the world’s most romantic cities – but take money – it’s also one of the priciest for tourists! 4 Paris Book Eurostar, or Air France, who are offering return flights from £106 for a weekend trip (departing 10 and returning 12 February). 5. New York Celebrate Valentine’s Day by going ice-skating in Central Park or underneath NYC’s famed Rockerfeller Center before having dinner in one of the city’s famed restaurants. For travel information, check KAYAK.co.uk TELLURIDE GAY SKI WEEK Easily one of the biggest gay ski weeks in the World, the annual Telluride Gay Ski Week returns at the end of February. Running 25 February through until 3 March, it all takes place in the European-style ski resort of Telluride, Colorado, which is nestled in a box canyon surrounded by the majestic 13,000 ft peaks of the San Juan Mountains. Like most gay ski events the world over, the week will offer a heady mix of winter sports, après ski social events and evening parties, along with fundraising events for the Telluride AIDS Benefit (TAB). Official airline sponsor for the event is American Airlines, so you might want to check with them first when sorting out flights - www.aa.com/rainbow www.telluridegayskiweek.com 73 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK TRAVEL EXCLUSIVE AND PROUD Out In The City talks to Gerla Pusey-de Boer, the globe-trotting owner of the recently launched Exclusively Pride travel agency. This new company offers the LGBT community bespoke holiday packages to exotic destinations. Cape Town What prompted you to launch Exclusively Pride? Gerla: Exclusively Pride was born out of the success of our previous venture: Pride of South Africa, which focused on travel to the southern African Gerla Pusey-de Boer region. As India opened up for the gay market, we were excited at the prospect and found a fantastic and trusted partner there. So we engineered a new brand to encompass our expertise in both regions and added other exotic destinations for gay and lesbian audiences. We’re all about being ahead of the game. What we call “exotic destinations” are ones that may not have previously been front-ofmind for gay and lesbian travellers. What’s your own experience in the travel industry? I have worked directly in the industry since 2007, both selling to consumers and trade. The main focus during this time was authentic and responsible travel and because of that, I found that we were developing a core audience of gay travellers. But my wider experience in the hotel, hospitality and food industries, as well as travelling the globe myself (from luxury travel to “off the beaten track” trips) 74 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK Cuba is really what makes Exclusively Pride tick. Many travel businesses are just about booking holidays – we’re about creating something truly special... memorable experiences that are hard to find elsewhere. What dream holiday destinations might you recommend in 2012? There are so many great, exotic places to visit... it really depends on each individual and what they like to get out of a holiday. India is a key destination that everyone is talking about. We’ve been working on India for years now, so we’re ahead of the game on the ground when it comes to gay and lesbian travellers. Our trips are all bespoke, but authentic things that might take your fancy include: holidays such as Tribal Tours, Body and Soul holidays and pure Rest and Relax holidays. India is a fascinating country. Many people head off to Rajasthan first, but Kerala is a wonderful part of the country. It is rich in culture, has wonderful beaches and backwaters, delicious food and the best place to practise Yoga and enjoy Ayurveda treatments. Other emerging destinations that are a must-go are Mozambique and Cuba. What many people don’t realise is that Mozambique is not just a beach destination. It offers great wildlife experiences, is rich in culture and you might want to interact with the local community, either by giving something back, or by learning about their way of life. In Gorongosa you will get an amazing safari experience – unique to this part of the world. We are also working on developing Cuba at the moment and 2012 is the time to go, before the country changes. Because there are many divine reasons to go: the vibe; the art; the music; the people; the scenery; the beaches; and not forgetting... it’s the birthplace of the mojito. And, of course, there is the favourite – South Africa. Cape Town is on a roll, especially on the art front. It is one open art gallery, it’s a real outburst of creativity. It is not surprising that Cape Town has been voted World Design Capital for 2014. One of our favourite trips is combining Cape Town with the Victoria Falls. Start in Cape Town, then move on to the Winelands, take the plane to Victoria Falls and followed it by a Big 5 safari. Some readers may think that parts of Africa are not gay-friendly, and may be wary of travelling there. Are they right? Like anywhere in the world, there are always narrow-minded people that cause a media-stir and taint the gay-friendly reputations of certain destinations. Obviously, the security and safety of our guests is of primary importance. We only work with trusted, vetted partners with gay and lesbian community knowledge on the ground. In most cases, we will have a gay guide there too. Some places are more gay-welcoming than others, but our guides will help you blend in and be mindful of local culture and customs. It’s about respect – it works both ways. If you want to kiss your partner in the streets, certain destinations are not for you as it is disrespectful of local culture, whether straight or gay. But we’ll establish all of this when you plan your trip. For more details about Exclusively Pride, check www.exclusivelypride.net WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 75 PROPERTY 76 WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK WELLBEING TELEVISION TRAVEL LEGAL WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 77 HEALTH / WELLBEING / ADVICE / FITNESS / NUTRITION / GYM make friends. It can feel like trying to talk to people in a noisy room with everyone else wearing headphones. It can be a harsh and judgemental place, but it is also full of other gay men searching for meaning in their lives. Remember that behind all those facades, there are hearts feeling just as tender as yours and it will undoubtedly help to know some of them, so that you do not feel so alone on your journey. GROOMING PA G E 7 8 Help me Out! Soren Stauffer-Kruse offers words of advice and guidance… PHOTO © CHRIS JEPSON.COM HEART IN THE DARK B O DY TA L K PA G E 8 2 Dear Out, I’m feeling completely depressed. I am 25 and I moved to London a year ago because I wanted to live somewhere with a gay scene, but I’ve found it a difficult place to make friends. I have an office job but I hate the work. Although I’ve been applying for other positions, I’ve not been called for any interviews. My life feels like crap. I’m struggling to make ends meet and never have any money to do anything fun. I’m wondering whether I should move home, but there was nothing for me in my home town. Now that I’ve moved away from home, my family rarely contacts me, and I spend my evenings feeling bored and lonely. I didn’t realise it would be so hard to make friends in London. Will Dear Will, When Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz suddenly finds herself in Munchkinland, she realises that although she desperately wants to go home, the only way to go is forward: along the yellow brick road. You can only go forward in life and sometimes, it is very hard to see how. Don’t give up yet. Moving to the big city is difficult and it takes time to get it right. You probably know deep down that going home will not give you the life you want to live. So hang on to your dream and remember that it will take some time to get there. It’s OK to ask for help and I am really glad that you have written to me to do just that. Try to focus on one thing at a time: you need a meaningful activity outside work and you may as well combine this with the possibility of meeting other gay men outside of the scene. London offers everything from gay sci-fi clubs and gay swimming club to gay men’s choirs and running clubs. Signing up is easy and much cheaper than the scene. Soon you will not feel bored and lonely anymore as you build a social network. The scene can be a difficult place to You need some real loving in your life. I have talked to so many gay men over the years who feel isolated and lonely in the big city. Sometimes I feel like starting a ‘lonely hearts’ club! I wish you could hear their stories so that you could see that believing in your dream is the key to achieving it. You could talk to one of the agencies that offer free counselling for gay men and arrange some additional support for yourself (London Friend offers a service like this). It may help you understand how our minds can be the biggest blocks to our happiness, because we find it so difficult to hang on to the belief that what we want in life can become a reality. Maybe you need to do some of these things in order to feel a bit more at home here before you focus on your work life and find more direction in your career. You are only 25 years old! There is plenty of time to pull things together. You just need a plan. Maybe, like Dorothy, you need to find your own Scarecrow, Tin-man and Lion to realise that you have a good brain and a big heart and that your courage can conquer any fear. GET IN TOUCH Soren Stauffer-Kruse is a Chartered Counselling Psychologist and an expert in gay relationship and sexual issues. If you have a problem and are seeking advice, email [email protected] We regret that Soren cannot enter into personal correspondence. WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 75 GROOMING MAINTAINING BALANCE David Hudson meets Paul Hack, London Massage Therapist of the Year and the man behind PH Therapies… The idea of visiting a massage therapist is still regarded as an indulgence by some, despite the fact that they offer a range of benefits for both mind and body. Stripping down and allowing another person to massage you may prompt a shiver of embarrassment or apprehension, thanks to a reputation tainted by unqualified practitioners offering unspecified ‘extras’. Therefore, announcing that one is ‘going for a massage’ can still prompt a raised eyebrow or titter. One of those therapists looking to change all that is Paul Hack, who runs PH Therapies, a professional and superior massage service based in Islington. Paul boasts a fistful of qualifications and membership of a number of recognised professional bodies. He’s also recently been announced as ‘London Massage Therapist of the Year 2011’, earning the coveted accolade after coming top in a poll conducted online at www. londonmassageguide.com A visit to the best massage therapist in London? Oh go on… you’ve twisted my arm! Paul is originally from Australia, where he trained as a dancer, performing in successful musicals such as Chicago, 42nd Street and Fosse, From his dance training, he understands the musculoskeletal system, and of the injuries that the body can sustain. This led to his interest in therapeutic massage. Paul has since gained a sports massage diploma from the London School of Sports Massage and a Reflexology Diploma at the London School of Reflexology to complement his other qualifications. He 80 launched himself as a massage therapist eight years ago and, since 2005, has been at the Urdang Academy – a dance school based at Finsbury Town Hall in Islington. He works at the school as its Artistic Director during the day, but has also held the position of Treatment Manager, offering massage therapy rehabilitation in his private treatment room. Entering the Urdang Academy is a little like walking on to the set of Fame. Paul Hack Lithe young things bounce around the hallways in their dancewear and hooded sweatshirts. Having previously made my appointment at PH Therapies, I signed in and Paul led me to his treatment room. He offered me his standard form to complete, asking about my medical history, and took plenty of time to talk to me about his own background and the service he offers, and also about my own massage history and whether I had any particular problems that I needed addressing. Paul sees a cross-section of clients – from dancers and athletes wanting rigorous sports massage to stressedout city workers who just want to escape to Nirvana for an hour with a relaxing aromatherapy massage. Given that I probably fall more into the latter group, I opted for a relaxing aromatherapy rub down, with Paul giving more rigorous attention to my neck, which is often prone to stiffness. From his large collection of essential oils, we chose three different types for Paul to blend. He suggested neroli, a type or orange oil, while I WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK requested basil and lavender – both of which Paul said possessed calming and relaxing qualities. Paul began, working from my legs up: methodically, firmly and skillfully, never applying too much pressure (“I massage a lot deeper if I’m doing sports massage”) or causing any discomfort. It was incredibly relaxing. I nodded off on a couple of occasions. An hour later I felt seriously woozy… and was dreading having to take myself off into the cold January evening to catch the bus home. “You should sleep very well tonight,” Paul said, and I think I passed out as soon as my head hit the pillow that evening: the best night’s sleep that I’ve had in weeks. Paul’s prices are very competitive: £55 for a onehour standard sports massage, while his aromatherapy treatment is £65 for an initial consultation and then £55 for one-hour follow-ups. Discounts are available if you book up to five sessions in advance. Massage fans will want to check out London’s ‘Massage Therapist of the Year’; but if you’ve yet to experience your first massage, I can’t think of a safer or more knowledgeable pair of hands in which to place yourself. For full prices, check out the PH Therapies website: www.phtherapies.com WWW.OUTMAG.CO.UK 81 fitness My body Aaron Cage did you start QWhen working out? At 17. I was the clichéd weakling, weighing 98lbs… but determined to get bigger. At 6’4’’, I looked like the front end of a giraffe… with arms! Here I am, 27 years later, and I still love going to the gym. Q HOW TO GET A BODY like aaron 1. You won’t get results over night. Building your body takes hard work, dedication and consistency. If you are a gym novice, attending the gym three times a week is a good start. Stick to that routine for a couple of months, then take your workouts to the next level. What’s your typical gym routine? My routine is two days on, one day off, but the body part is split into three: chest/triceps; back/biceps; and legs/shoulders; with abs whenever. I don’t do any cardio (I’m lucky!). Actual exercises vary from day to day. I go with what I feel like on the day. I do not bench press. I find that the taller you are, the better the results are by using dumbbells to train your pecs. Something to do with biomechanics, I guess. Who knows? I just know it works. 2. N O Explode is a pre-training supplement that helps boost muscle efficiency. It’s best taken half an hour before a work out on an empty stomach, but is aimed more at serious body builders rather than at beginners. sort of weights do QWhat you lift now? Heavy. If you want to put muscle on or keep what you’ve got, it’s the only way. I always start a workout with two sets of warm- ups for the body part concerned. The first set is 50% of the workout weight, then 75%. These do not count as my exercise sets, so it’s usually three or four sets after this, then three or four sets for all the following exercises. I’m usually at the heavy end of the dumbbell rack for most exercises, but I don’t like giving out weights. Everyone is at different stages and anyone trying to copy my weights may injure themselves if they aren’t at the required level. I’ve never had an injury in training, nor do I want to induce one in others! won’t get results. The only other supplement is N O Explode. This gives a great ‘pump’ while working out. I know some who take it before they go out clubbing. It certainly gives you a (legal) lift. you take any QDo nutritional Q supplements? Definitely. While nothing replaces good solid food, a protein shake before or after gym ensures that you are going to get protein. It’s usually carbohydrates that are the reason most people don’t get results. They seem to have developed a bad reputation. If you aren’t eating enough carbohydrates to fuel your workouts and your growth, you 82 www.outmag.co.uk Do you have any personal workout advice or tips? I used to work as a personal trainer. Best tip is, in the beginning, aim small. While it’s great to have a picture of the final product you want to be, plan for it by setting smaller goals on the way. My first goal, I’d advise clients, is to get to a gym regularly. Simple enough to say, but it seems newbies will find any excuse not to go. Start off aiming for three days a week, a whole body programme. Once going to the gym is incorporated into your lifestyle, the next goal – consistency – will follow. If you’ve never been to the gym before, expect some negativity from friends. This may come in the form of chuckles, etc. Ignore them. It’s just not what they are used to about you. Change that expectation! With consistency come results and a goal achieved. Time for a new goal and then... repeat until you get to the final product. 3. Carbohydrate is not the enemy! You need a good supply of protein (for muscle growth) and carbohydrate (for energy) in your diet to achieve the best results in the gym.