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Jersey Belle - Christian Family Publications
May 2016 Memorial Day: The True Meaning COMPLIMENTARY Digital Temptation JAIME SULLIVAN Jersey Belle 2 Nashville Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com Our Mission Publisher: Robert Stringfellow [email protected] Editor: Raymonda Jaggers Contributing Writers: Amy Cathey Kingsley East Beth Fine Joshua Johnian Scott Lehman Scott Maulsby Amy Moseley Kenneth Oosting, Ph D Camille Platt Regina Prude Stephen Rowland, M.A. Sarah Siegand Chris Stephens Laurie Stroud Peter Wilson, Ph D Cover Photo: Courtesy Beau Gustafson Production and Art Direction: Wendy Satterwhite Website Development, Digital Marketing & SEO Services: www.BowenDigital.com Social Media: Kylie Odrabina Printer: Franklin Web Printing Sales & Marketing: Robert Stringfellow Nashville Christian Family is published monthly by Clarion Concepts, P.O. Box 463, Spring Hill, TN 37174. The phone number is 615-815-8765. E-mail [email protected]. Reproduction of any part of Nashville Christian Family without permission of the Publisher is prohibited. Distribution of this paper does not constitute and endorsement of information, products or services. Views expressed in Nashville Christian Family do not necessarily represent those of the Publisher. Every effort has been made by Nashville Christian Family staff to insure accuracy of the publication contents. However, we do not guarantee the accuracy of all information nor the absence of errors and omissions; hence, no responsibility can be or is assumed. All Rights Reserved. Copyright 2016 by The Christian Family Publication, Inc. Unless otherwise noted, scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version, copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Use by permission of International Bible Society. Circulation and Distribution: Nashville Christian Family is free and available at targeted, high traffic locations throughout Williamson County. 10,000 copies are printed each month. Copies are available by subscription, $25 for one year (12 issues). To subscribe, e-mail ncfpublication@ gmail.com Nashville Christian Family ® exists to provide Christians and the community at large with ways to strengthen and grow as a part of the Middle Tennessee Christian Family. This local monthly publication is designed to promote positive living by sharing with readers of all ages relevant and timely news and information related to health, faith, parenting, youth, finances, Christian entertainment, missions, church leaders, and much more. From the Publisher We honor our Mothers on May 8 and the Bible contains several references to Godly Mothers who were favored and blessed by the Lord. Here are a few: Sarah - Wife of Abraham, Rebekah - Wife of Isaac, Jochebed - Mother of Moses, Hannah - Mother of Samuel the Prophet, Bathsheba - Wife of David, Elizabeth - Mother of John the Baptist, Mary - Mother of Jesus. If you are unfamiliar with their stories, find them in the Bible and read about their lives. Honor your Mother not only on her special day, but year round. M = Mothers are special as you should know, from infants we are nurtured, and she watches us grow. O = Our hearts of love do overflow, teaching us morals, and in God’s family, isn’t that so? T = Telling us stories of when times were rough, but we didn't mind, it made us more tough. H = Her kind words and soft voice to tell us what was bad and good, but never distraught. E = Excellent baker and very good cook. Our good Mom stuck by us, by hook or by crook. R = A real companion. You don’t know what you have til she's gone from this land. — Charmain A Mother's Love There are times when only a mother's love Can understand our tears, Can soothe our disappoints And calm all of our fears. There are times when only a mother's love Can share the joy we feel When something we've dreamed about Quite suddenly is real. There are times when only a mother's faith Can help us on life's way And inspire in us the confidence We need from day to day. For a mother's heart and a mother's faith And a mother's steadfast love Were fashioned by the angels And sent from God above. — Author Unknown Thank you to all of our readers who have or are serving in the role of Mom! – Nashville Christian Family is a part of The Christian Family Publication, Inc. celebrating 16 years of Good News! Visit www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com May 2016 3 CAPSTONE TREATMENT CENTER WELCOMES HALL RATCLIFFE Capstone Treatment Center welcomes Hall Ratcliffe to its team of treatment partners as Referral Relations Manager. With over 25 years of experience in recovery and addiction treatment, Hall has a true passion for helping families get through one of the most difficult times of their lives. Hall Ratcliffe Referral Relations Manager 601.594.3979 [email protected] CAPSTONETREATMENTCENTER.COM 11604-3_Capstone_Annc_BCF_9.5x5.5.indd 1 4 Nashville Christian Family 4/21/16 2:16 PM www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com May 2016 Contents Volume 7, Number 7 Photo: Beau Gustafson DEPARTMENTS ON THE COVER 12 Jaime Sullivan is best known for her attempts to fit into the south on the hit reality show Jersey Belle. She shares how God pursued her despite her unbelief and how friendships with southern women truly taught her how to love. See page 12. 9 6 Parent With Purpose Parents Must “Take Charge” 6 Encouraging Word God Is Always There When We Need Him 8 Healthy Living Dealing With Postpartum Depression 10 Body & Soul We Are Who We Are - Made By God 6 & 14 10 Faith@Work God Will Answer Your Sincere Plea FEATURES 7 3 From the Publisher Long Time Middle TN Business Honors Our Fallen Heroes What Is a Counselor? 14 Family Matters What Are Your Children Looking At? 15 Kids Korner From a Kid’s Perspective 15 Mission Makers A Hometown Hero Is Honored 16 Teachable Moment It’s Not All About Winning NEXT ISSUE Nashville Christian Family Celebrates 6 Years WILLIAMSON EDITION 7 17 In His Grip We All Need a Mentor 19 Business Today A Local Company That Truly “Gives Back” 21 God’s Plan For Salvation and Eternal Life 22 Calendar 22 About Our Advertisers 16 And MUCH MORE! May 2016 5 P ar e nt with P u r pos e Kids Online Safety: Parents Should Be In The Drivers Seat One night, while attending a conference to become more educated about online dangers for kids and families in 2014, I had a startling dream. In the dream, my then 7-year-old boy was driving a giant SUV while I desperately tried to coach him from the back seat. I was flustered, scared, and very aware that our lives were at risk! He couldn’t even reach the brake pedal, and we were speeding toward an intersection. Suddenly, CRASH! We were broadsided by another car, and in an instant, angry people were on the scene yelling at me in some foreign language. I could see my son was not moving, but instead of checking on his safety, I tried to appease the foreigners with excuses, fully blaming my son for the wreck. Then one man’s voice broke through in English: “You’re going to jail!!” I woke up with my heart racing. I tried to clear my head, realizing it was only a dream, and then quickly got up to retrieve my prayer journal from my suitcase. I knew God was trying to show me something. Why wasn’t I driving in the dream? Why did I make excuses? After several pages of writing to process the details, I came away with a convicting conclusion: I was not in the driver’s seat of our home’s online safety. In fact, I blamed whatever safety issues we had come across so far on my children “not knowing any better.” I recognized this dream as a warning and came home ready to make whatever changes were necessary. Since that day two years ago, I have grown more and more passionate about keeping kids safe online. Heartbreaking stories are in the news every day, but God’s hope in me gives me strength to do what I can to make a difference. I truly believe this is one of the greatest parenting challenges we have ever faced. As a Christian mom, I see the challenge of technology use in our homes through the eyes of 1 Corinthians 10:23, “All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful.” Just because “everyone” has the latest and greatest, does not mean it’s a healthy choice for us right now. My husband and I have determined not to allow our children’s desires to be the driving force behind our family’s technology use. They are on the journey with us, but we are behind the wheel. They do not have the maturity to know all of the dangers yet, but we do. We are making the decisions about where they can and can’t go online, who their travel companions will be, and how fast we will travel this road. Their safety is our responsibility. Ultimately, we are the ones who will be held accountable for teaching and training them to be safe and have boundaries online. — Sarah Siegand is an author, speaker, and co-founder of Parents Who Fight, a campaign to help educate parents about keeping kids safe online. She and her husband Jesse have been married for 18 years, and love raising their tween boys in Nashville, TN. E ncou r ag i ng W or d When God Breaks Through Have you ever uttered this prayer, in a moment of extreme desperation: God, please come down here where I am and fix this! It is a prayer to be prayed in those times when you face a threatening situation. One of life’s real challenges. Then, like Moses, you just need God to walk by so that you can feel His presence and His power. Isaiah understood the intensity of this need. It was, no doubt, in his thoughts when he wrote: “Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down… come down to make your name known to your enemies and cause the nations to quake before you!” And, there are times when God does just that. Although we don’t deserve it, He manifests His power in our midst. My family experienced that recently. My great granddaughter, Naomi, was born prematurely and spent the first three months of her life in the neonatal intensive care unit. Her weight began at two pounds and then she lost a few ounces. Now, she is at home and weighs a healthy nine pounds plus. To me, this is an example of how God often rolls up His sleeves and breaks 6 Nashville Christian Family into our complacency. It is so easy for us to become like sleep walkers. We pray the same prayers, whether we feel like it or not. We go to bed tired, get up with no energy, and pace through our days with little enthusiasm. In fact, we actually stay tired—mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. Our faith is in remote control. Nothing stirs us or excites us about what God is doing or can do in our lives. Then, it is as if God chooses to give us a stirring demonstration. Yes, I might even say that He just breaks in and “shows out!” Even in those times when we have not asked Him for anything or believed Him to do the impossible. It is then that God breaks into our complacency and reminds us that we can pray for miracles. We can lay our hands on the weak, the sick, or the troubled. And deliverance comes. We can take hold of God and command His very presence in our midst. It took a little preemie baby to remind me to assure you that God will visit you. He is still breaking through Regina M. Prude is an inspirational speaker and author. Send e-mail comments to [email protected]. Read her blog posts at www.reginaprude.com. www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com F eatu r e MEMORIAL DAY: The True Meaning Every Memorial Day we pause to remember our veterans that have served this great nation to defend our freedom. Some of us simply stop to think about our fallen war heroes, some watch a TV program honoring our veterans, some say a prayer for the fallen and some even take time to visit war memorials around the country. Not always do people immediately think about visiting and honoring the sacred ground where veterans have been laid to rest. In Middle Tennessee, one cemetery in particular knows the true meaning of Memorial Day and has honored that sacred ground for many years on this particular day. Williamson Memorial Gardens is located in Franklin, Tenn. just south of Nashville. For many years the Stephens family and staff of Williamson Memorial Gardens along with local VFW Post 4839 and the Franklin Elks Lodge #72 have placed flags on every veteran’s grave in the cemetery. More than fifty proud hands attend this event each year. Cemetery co-owner Pam Stephens says, “This is the least we can do to let all the families of fallen veterans know that they will never be forgotten.” ty-two acre property, many hands make for light work. “We have several thousand memorials on the ground here, but today we’re honoring those who made the greatest sacrifice,” says Chris Stephens of Williamson Memorial Gardens. The flags stay up for ten days after Memorial Day to serve as a reminder to everyone that freedom doesn’t come free. A great price has been paid to protect our freedom and it is this day that we recognize and honor those great heroes. — Chris Stephens As part of a Memorial Day tradition, volunteers place flags next to military markers at Williamson Memorial Gardens. Every volunteer will take as many flags as they can carry and place them beside every military marker. With thousands of graves throughout the twen- “Treasure every single moment in life Williamson Memorial Funeral Home and Cremation Services 3009 Columbia Pike Franklin, TN 37064 (615) 794-2289 www.williamsonmemorial.com Plan ahead: www.preplanning.info/williamsonmemorial Spring Hill Memorial Park, Funeral Home and Cremation Services 5239 Main St. Spring Hill, TN 37174 (931) 486-0059 www.springhill-memorial.com Plan ahead: www.preplanning.info/springhillmemorial “Both are family owned and operated” We are here to serve your family and honor the treasured memories of your loved one.” May 2016 7 H ealthy L ivi ng The conception of my child was a miracle! I had a wonderful pregnancy and delivery. I was in love with my new baby and felt God’s presence so strongly. At 2 weeks postpartum, things changed. My baby began crying—a lot. I could do nothing to comfort him. I would sit up all night attempting to soothe my hysterical infant. I’m not sure if it was pride or my desire to not ‘bother’ people, but I began isolating myself. For 11 months, I was on edge, felt trapped and existed in ‘survival mode’. I slept very little which led to a dependence on sleeping pills. Neglecting myself and my home, my marriage suffered. These are the words that Rebecca uses to describe her experience with postpartum depression, but they are echoed by approximately 20% of new moms. As many as 80% of new moms experience “Baby Blues” which can include crying, irritability, sudden shifts in mood, and feelings of edginess and anxiety. Onset of postpartum symptoms is typically around 2-6 weeks postpartum, but symptoms can begin up to 1 year after giving birth. These symptoms include: frequent crying, excessive worry, agitation, anxiety, unexplained physical complaints, sleep and appetite changes, feelings of loneliness, sadness, helplessness, inadequacy, guilt and shame, poor concentration, distorted negative thinking, suicidal thoughts, scary thoughts or mental images about baby, and feelings of loss of identity. Anyone can experience postpartum depression, but some risk factors that increase the possibility include: a history of depression, anxiety, or postpartum depression, high risk pregnancy or complications at birth, lack of social support, high-needs baby, recent losses, relationship difficulties, and environmental stressors The good news about postpartum depression is that it is treatable! By focusing on concrete and simple strategies, individuals can improve quickly and effectively. Hope Clinic for Women has been offering postpartum counseling since 2009. We offer these services to all women experiencing postpartum depression as well as support and counseling for their partners. After counseling for three months at Hope Clinic, Rebecca described her situation in this way: …I can honestly say that I am in a wonderful place. The pieces of my life, which once felt shattered, have now been put back together. What could have easily destroyed me, God has used as a blessing in my life. I am eternally grateful for the compassionate care of the staff at Hope Clinic. They met me in a state of darkness and walked with me out of it. If you or someone you know is dealing with the challenges of postpartum depression, please contact Hope Clinic for Women for counseling and resources. We are here to help, and healing is waiting for you! — Amy Moseley is the Clinical Director at Hope Clinic for Women. Amy is trained in treating Trauma and Traumatic Grief as well as Postpartum Depression. #1 Neighborhood Hyundai Dealer* 1st Year of Maintenance on us! 201 Comtide Ct., Franklin TN (I-65, Exit 69) 1.877.886.8448 | www.hyundaiofcoolsprings.com *Based on 2014 HMA USA South Central Region Reports 8 Nashville Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com F eatu r e Counselors – A Special Group of People Anyone following the agenda in the current session of the Tennessee legislature knows that the counseling profession has been in the news. As a profession, counseling is relatively new and may not be fully understood by the public. Often, people struggle to understand the differences between psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, psychiatric nurse practitioners and counselors. While we can not deal with all the intricacies in this article, focusing on who counselors are and what they do may be helpful. First, counselors believe that people are unique individuals of significant value and have the potential to function at healthy levels. Counselors recognize that for various reasons, people confront problems and issues that interfere with their ability to function at these healthy levels. The counseling process and the therapeutic relationship that is part of that process are aimed at restoring people to these healthy levels. Second, counselors tend to be caring people who have received sufficient training to effectively assist others to function successfully in life. Not all counselors operate from the same therapeutic model, but all are trained to assist people with the issues presented in counseling sessions. Counselors also believe that people can change and are trained to create a safe environment that encourages such change. For change to happen, people need to feel safe exploring the areas in their lives that require changes. They will also need encouragement and support to make these changes. Counselors not only understand that change is possible, but that it is also difficult. Finally, counselors see the counseling process as a dynamic interpersonal process and are willing to become involved in this process, while maintaining healthy boundaries. There are always risks when one embarks on the therapeutic journey. Counselors are aware that they too experience some risks, but they are dedicated to the process, nonetheless. There are several principles that are important to all counselors: 1) Counselors believe that those with whom they work have the right to determine the direction of their lives. Counselors may challenge people to evaluate various alternatives before deciding on major aspects of their lives, but they honor and respect the individual’s right to self-determination. 2) Counselors work for the good of the people with whom they work. One often hears the phrase, “Do no harm.” For counselors it is more than avoiding harm, it is doing what is good and healthy for the individual. 3) Counselors appreciate diversity and treat all individuals fairly and equitably. While maintaining their own values and beliefs, counselors do not impose these values and beliefs on others. 4) Counselors honor commitments and keep promises. Counselors hold the information clients share with them as sacred and confidential. Those who see counselors should feel safe to share their thoughts, feelings and behaviors, knowing that what they say will not be shared with others. As a counselor educator, it has been a privilege to train many counselors over the years. I believe counselors are a special group of people. If you are confronted with problems in your life, feel you are not functioning at a level you know you are capable of functioning, or simply want to talk to someone to enhance your life, a trained professional counselor is available to assist. As is true in seeking any service, use wisdom in who you employ as a counselor. Ask about training, licensure, philosophy and practice policies, but reach out. It can change how you view yourself, others and God. — Dr. Peter Wilson Established in 1983, we equip women, men and families to make healthy choices with unplanned pregnancies, prevention, pregnancy loss and postpartum depression. We are a faith-based safe and confidential place for anyone seeking medical care, professional counseling, education, mentorship and practical support regardless of age, race or religion. 1810 Hayes Street, Nashville TN 37203 | HopeClinicForWomen.org | 615.321.0005 May 2016 HCFW_2016AD_OneThirdSquare.indd 1 12/22/15 8:37 AM 9 B ody an d S ou l F aith @ W or k God’s Plan For Service Loving Who You Are We tend to be our strongest critics. We blame ourselves when something does not turn out as we intended. Maybe we made the same mistake again or we made a mistake for which we feel there is no excuse. We might not share these criticisms with others but we are very aware of the weaknesses we see in ourselves. We might even make a resolution that we will never make that mistake again. Sometimes this fault-finding can cause us to be discouraged and even defensive leading to resistance to making changes in ourselves. The person we have become is the result of many good and bad choices we have made over the years. Hopefully, we have made mostly good selections among the alternative paths we can follow. It is important here to remind ourselves that some choices we make in life are extremely important while others might be just frustrating and temporary. Don’t let your life be controlled by minor choices that you now regret or a criticism you have received. The most important choice we should make in life is the acceptance of the message in John 3:16, Acts 2:38 and John 14:6. This important decision, and associating with others who share that commitment, will help us to make good choices. Listen to what God is telling you. Some decisions are deeply affected by emotion or tradition. While we should listen to our emotions and honor traditions, all decisions also need to have rational thought present to accompany our emotions. Rational thought involves considering the available alternatives and choosing the best one(s) for us at that time based on facts rather than just emotion. Prayer will help guide us to the decision God thinks is best for us. In actuality, you are a wonderful person. Think about your potential, your goals. Think about a compliment or a thank you received recently. Make a list of five things that you have done for others in the past month and a list of five things you have done for yourself. What gifts has God given to you? How have you used those gifts in the past month? Pray about how you can use these gifts to become the person God’s wants you to become. We all need to achieve a good balance in our love of self in which we don’t think we are better than everyone we meet nor think we are the worst person we know. The extreme of I am the best is unhealthy yet the other extreme of hating who we are is also unhealthy. God forgives our sins in the past if we will repent. A strong positive balance in how we regard ourselves should be our goal. When we have a healthy love of self, we are more capable of serving God and our fellow man. God tells us to love Him and to love one another (see the writings of the Apostle John). When we reach this point, we can love who we are as we love the world around us. Read Mark 11:24, Luke 18:1, 1 John 13:22 and other Scriptures for guidance. Love the person you are. God loves you regardless of your past and God loves what you can do in your exciting future. — Kenneth W. Oosting, PhD FIND THE STUDY QUESTIONS RELATING TO THIS ARTICLE AT christianfamilynashville.com 10 Nashville Christian Family My mother's death hit me pretty hard. She was a good Christian mother who had always looked out for my welfare growing up. One day, a few months after her passing, I was walking around Woodland Park for some exercise. Memories of my mother flooded my mind, so I prayed to my Heavenly Father as I was walking: "Lord, if it is possible, I sure would appreciate it if you told my mother once again how much I love her, and look forward to seeing her once again." Finishing my 2 mile walk, I sat in my truck there in the parking lot feeling a little foolish since, out of all the scripture verses that enjoin praying to our Heavenly Father, I couldn't remember a single one about God passing along a message to a departed loved one. A tear rolled down my cheek which I quickly brushed away, feeling self-conscious and wondering if anyone had noticed me. Suddenly I heard some words -- not with my ears, but from deep within me. The words were "Turn on the radio." I had no intentions of listening to the radio at that moment, so it startled me. I knew it was God whispering to my soul, so I turned the radio on. The radio had been left on 99.7 -- an all talk radio show was in progress. The host, Phil Valentine, usually was discussing political subjects, but at this particular time, he was discussing relatives who had gone on to heaven before us. He was describing how he personally hoped he was living a Christian life that his departed relatives would be proud of, and how that verse in Hebrews (11:1) speaks about a "great cloud of witnesses" who have gone on before us. He believed that God occasionally draws back the veil of heaven and allows loved ones to view certain parts of our lives here on earth that they would be proud of, or brings glory to God. I sat there in that truck in stunned silence. What were the odds of that happening, especially since Phil's show was almost 100% politics every time I had heard it in the past? I felt that God was comforting my soul, whispering to me that my "message" had been passed on to my mother. Then the tears really started streaming down. I don't think it is too late to tell your departed loved one that you loved them. God is real; He listens. 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GREATER ADVENTURES. May 2016 11 Photo: Beau Gustafson J A I M E S U L L I VA N Sullivan describes her faith journey as one in which God pursued her despite her unbelief. "He kept coming for me. He sent soldier after soldier," she remembers. "I felt completely forsaken and abandoned... and as cheesy as it sounds, I heard this voice in my head that said, ‘all you have to do is see me.’ " Anger & Doubt Raised Jewish in New Jersey, Sullivan remembers her early years as ones filled with angst. She had been bullied as a kid, so as she grew older, she mirrored what she knew. Her father was diagnosed with lung cancer during her junior high years and died when she was 17. “Hurt people hurt,” she remembers. “I was just one of those girls so full of anger. I was just awful to people. I didn’t have any spiritual guidance. I didn’t have any faith. I didn’t have anything bigger than me. There was no accountability in my life. When you are raised with the absence of accountability and faith through something bigger than you, you don’t care who you hurt.” Sullivan says her aggressive personality continued throughout her teens and 20s, although she met plenty of people who asked if she had ever considered Christianity. Her first college roommate insisted God loved her and was not going to give up on her. Sullivan wrote it off as whimsical nonsense. Her next roommate also came from a Christian home, and it was her father who confronted Sullivan while visiting them at Towson University in Baltimore. “What if I told you I could introduce you to something that would slowly but surely tear down the walls and soften your heart and alleviate all this angst?” he asked. Hoping he would recommend a pill or a therapist, Sullivan was annoyed when he said, “It’s God.” Never one to shy away from a little colorful humor, Sullivan is known for speaking her mind and pushing the boundaries of "proper" southern behavior. Her #cawfeetawk videos for women are posted daily on Facebook. The Turning Point The question of faith became a nagging constant in Sullivan’s life. It was an abusive relationship that finally brought her to her knees. “At the very end of [the relationship] I felt completely forsaken and abandoned. I was just so angry and so sad and so lost in my life. I remember sitting on the bathroom floor and literally being like, who am I? How did this happen to me? How did I get here? Why did I allow this? I hate Sullivan’s children Olivia (8) and Max (7) with their uncle, the Rev. Robert Sullivan of St. Francis Xavier Parish in Birmingham, Ala. “He is my confidant. He is my moral compass,” Sullivan says. “I don’t think it’s an accident that he is in my life.” Jaime Primak Sullivan Jaime Primak Sullivan first stepped into the spotlight when the BRAVO hit reality show Jersey Belle chronicled her hilarious attempt to fit in to Southern culture as an outspoken New Jersey native living in Birmingham. A mother of three, she floundered with the formalities of etiquette and monogramming, bonded with her “Belles,” and traveled for her work as a celebrity publicist. Although the show is no longer on the air, Sullivan continues to live in Birmingham and work as a writer, producer, publicist and entrepreneur. “I was like, ugh, here we go again,” she remembers. “You guys have got to be kidding me. I can’t get away from it.” 12 12 Nashville Nashville Christian Christian Family Family www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com Photo: Arden Photography my life. I hate who I have become. I hate what I have allowed. I have nobody.” Then Sullivan heard that gentle voice in her head: All you have to do is see me. She pulled herself up off the floor and looked in the mirror. She was the skinniest she had ever been. She had been crying for hours. But in that moment, she saw God clearly. “It was, ‘I have not forsaken you. I am right here. All you have to do is see me.’ ” “That was the day I started turning my life around,” she says. Sullivan began studying the Catholic faith and was baptized but says practical change in her attitude and relationships didn’t happen right away. It took time to soften her instinct to fight when hurt by someone else’s words. “When you are a certain way for so long, old habits die hard,” she says. “I had to retrain myself—God has a calling for you. There is a bigger purpose for you now. You can learn how to love and teach others how to love. Start with yourself.” Sharing the Love By 2005, Sullivan’s career in public relations and marketing had her working out of L.A. and traveling as needed. The first time she met Michael Sullivan, the Alabama lobbyist who would become her husband, she was in Birmingham for a meeting. Now 10 years since she moved to Birmingham and two years since she starred in Jersey Belle, Sullivan says it was developing friendships with southern women that truly taught her to how to love. Her best friends, whom she still calls her Belles, have helped her let her guard down. “They have taught me that you don’t have to be so guarded. It’s OK to leave yourself a little vulnerable, because the love that you get back from women when you approach friendship in that way is so powerful,” she says. “I was such an angry, dark person for so long. I met these women, and they loved me for who I was in such a way that it never made me feel like I had to compete with them or doubt them. Who knew I would find that life changing love and friendship in southern women? I never would have dreamed of that.” Today Sullivan starts each day with a cup of coffee to record #cawfeetawk, her popular daily digital series for women available on YouTube and her Facebook page. As a writer, she has sold a film script to Universal Studios and is publishing a book this summer on her adjustment to life in the South. She Sullivan with her husband Michael and their children who she says have grown her prayer life. “I pray with them, I pray for them, I pray about them. I teach them how to pray specifically for others.” handles public relations and event planning for local businesses, national brands, and celebrities such as Doug E Fresh and former Miss USA Shanna Moakler. Sullivan has also launched a line of jewelry that represents nostalgia for her home state of New Jersey, love for her new home in Alabama and an affinity for the Christian faith. Courtesy of Simon and Schuster Photo: Stephanie Davis Sullivan partnered with New Jersey jewelry designer Drew Shapiro to create her State of Style line of necklaces and apparel. The Alabama pendant comes in SEC colors as well as clear and black. “They are kind of like me—rooted in tradition, but they just have an edge,” she says. While penning stories for The Southern In her soon to be released book, The Southern Education of a Jersey Girl, Sullivan shares what Education of a Jersey it’s like to make friends as an adult, becoming a Girl, available August mother for the first time and falling in love with 2, Sullivan says she the South. realized that despite her pain, God orchestrated her past in a way that led her to the family, friends and career she enjoys today. “It’s about how all roads lead to this life,” she explains. “I never could have seen it years ago, but every experience that I have had in this life led me to Birmingham.” - Camille Platt May May 2016 2016 13 13 F am i ly M at te r s phone meant I was attached to the wall by a cord and my parents could hear every word I said. Fast forward 20 years and our children have access to pornography and the opposite sex in their pocket by simply touching a button. If you are a parent or a grandparent you might be asking yourself, ‘How can I protect my children from this temptation?’ Because of the easy road to pornography many of the devices and computers we have come with built in controls and restrictions. These tools can provide peace of mind and help fill in the gaps. Let’s face it. We can’t always be staring over their shoulder but we can use technology to limit and monitor activity. The average ago of exposure to pornography is 8. The top demographic in the porn industry is 12-17 year olds, and no, not just boys, girls as well. If that fact doesn’t give you a jolt, how about this one - the 28th most downloaded App in the Apple App Store is a photo ‘vault’ that is disguised as a calculator. Guess what type of photos it contains. It’s hard to imagine that your son or daughter might be charged with a felony before they leave high school and end up destroying their chances at success later in life. This nightmare is a reality for parents around the country as well meaning children in dating relationships let their guard down to share pictures with their boyfriend or girlfriend that eventually end up all over school and the community. When the authorities are brought in, the trail of devastation is long. As a parent of 5 children (21, 20, 3, 3, 2) I was disturbed by these tidbits of information on a variety of levels. When I was growing up there was no such thing as mobile devices. Even talking to a member of the opposite sex on the $35 OFF DEEP CLEAN One per customer, 2 hour minimum Offer valid one time per household. Expires 5/31/16 MOLLY MAID OF S. DAVIDSON, WILLIAMSON AND MAURY COUNTIES 615-794-0200 14 Nashville Christian Family Nothing technology offers will ever replace a parent. The best tool we have is communication and observation. And nothing beats truly knowing what is on the hearts of our children. But when those tools fail us or are not readily available we can use the same technology that tempts to protect. Simply limiting tfhe amount of time a computer will operate can be enough of a deterrent. If that’s not enough, there are options to completely restrict a mobile phone and limit it to it’s main purpose only. Yes, you can make them simply a phone. When I talk to parents that are dealing with pornography and the temptation of sexting I usually see two different philosophies. One style is to give the child all the access in the beginning and then take features away and limit activity as a punishment for poor behavior. The opposite style is to limit any and all access until trust is built and freedoms are added based on preferred behavior and maturity. 1 Corinthians 10:13 promises God will always give us a way out of any given temptation. While technology can be the perpetrator, it can also be the way out if you are properly trained and educated on it’s capabilities. — Scott Maulsby, [email protected] WE GOT THIS. PAWS AND ALL. Molly Maid is man’s best friend’s friend. From your carpe t s to your couch, wood to tile, we’ ll make you wonde r if you even have a pet. Visit us at MollyMaid.com to learn more. ©2015 Molly Maid, Inc. Each franchise independently owned and operated. Molly Maid is a member of the Service Brands International family. www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com K i ds K or n e r Forced Summer Reading Is For The Birds (from kids’ viewpoint) Hooray, it’s summer. Time to kick off my shoes, wiggle my toes in the grass, go swimming, play outside, stay up late, read comic books, and...glare at a stack of books someone picked out for the dreaded summer reading program. After a school year of having to read two or three books per month, I’ve been told to digest two or three books per week? Whoever invented the summer reading program idea maybe thought it a good way to keep kids out of trouble. What grown-ups don’t understand is most kids never dream about getting into trouble. We’re too smart for that. We’ve figured out that doing what’s right brings privilege, but doing what’s wrong brings punishment. Who wants to take that bumpy road? Perhaps long ago, nice librarians and teachers decided to start a summer reading program. They weren’t sadists who hated kids but simply book-buffs who loved to read and hoped kids would also. But, when some tyrant decided to make the summer reading program mandatory, my enthusiasm for summer reading evaporated. nights when the library stayed open for adults to check out books. While my mom looked for the latest best-seller, I went to see if a special bottom shelf in the children’s department sported a new orange biography. Those books had 200 pages divided into short chapters which reported the adventures of great Americans like John Smith, Pocahontas, George Washington, Ben Franklin, Abigail Adams, Aaron Burr, Alexander Hamilton, Thomas Jefferson, Dolly Madison, Daniel Boone, Abe Lincoln, Ulysses Grant, Louisa May Alcott and others. It surprises me how I still remember their stories. Perhaps that’s because I got to choose the books for my own summer reading program. So, why hasn’t anyone ask me to make a list lately? I would have written down only books I’ve wondered about or that sounded interesting like the new mystery series called The Picaresque of Ímagine Purple. If so, I’d be as happy as I was when reading those orange biographies from the bottom shelf. — Beth Fine, Author of popular mysteries for middle schoolers including the new series, The Picaresque of Ímagine Purple, www.imaginepurple.com That’s strange because I used to love to read. I looked forward to Monday M i s s ion M ake r s To Serve Jesus Christ by Caring for His Children Hometown Hero Nashville, TN, March 29: Annah Slayton is a volunteer with a nonprofit named Special Kids. Special Kids is a Christian ministry that aims to provide help and hope to disabled and medically fragile children in Murfreesboro and eighteen surrounding counties. Led by a heart of service, Annah and her coworkers represent an organization of people that helps children attain a better future than most people deem possible. Special Kids’ operates under the slogan: “Changing lives through Jesus Christ.” Every week, Annah gets to be a part of physical and mental change in children’s abilities and lives. She believes, “All children deserve the same opportunities, regardless of disability.” Annah finds joy and purpose as she serves the families that come in and out of Special Kids’ doors. She is inspired most by the testimonials of families that are bettered by the service of Special Kids. Through the openness and encouragement of her coworkers, Annah learned that God loves imperfect people. Annah says she is able to see miracles at Special Kids as children grow and conquer goals. Special Kids aims to be a “safe haven” for families and its employees. For nearly three years now, Special Kids has been that place for Annah to return to and serve at because it is an uplifting environment that makes the world better. Annah explains that the common denominator for Special Kids employees is their faith. The Special Kids mission is clear: “To serve Jesus Christ by caring for His children.” Special Kids is comprised of therapists and professionals whose primary goal is service. The staff here sees everyone, from coworkers and volunteers, to parents and kids, as children of God. Annah is encouraged by this community of servants to work with them as she helps better the lives of disabled children. For Annah, service is about much more than herself. She says that in serving, she receives far more than she could give each of the children that she works with. Service is important for Annah because it is an outlet for her to give back to the community with a nonprofit that encourages children, families, and its workers to learn and grow. Nashville’s Volunteer of the Month is a program of Doing Good, a 501c3, non-profit organization which educates and inspires more people to volunteer by celebrating the real stories of real people who volunteer. For additional information about Annah, Doing Good, or other volunteers, visit the website www.DoingGood.tv or @DoingGoodTV on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, or YouTube. — Kingsley East May 2016 15 SAFE FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY! 94FMtheFish.net POSITIVE MUSIC THAT KEEPS YOU FEELING GOOD EVERY TIME YOU LISTEN! Tune in now and hear a refreshing blend of music that’s Safe for the Whole Family… positive music from Third Day, Casting Crowns, MercyMe, tobyMac, Jeremy Camp, Brandon Heath, Matthew West, Natalie Grant, Tenth Avenue North and more. It’s your favorite Christian music from 94 FM THE FISH! START YOUR DAY WITH YOUR FAMILY FRIENDLY MORNING SHOW 16 Nashville Christian Family Join the Family Friendly Morning Show with Doug and Jaci weekdays 5-9 am. You know Jaci from her 16 #1 radio hits and 4 million albums sold. She joins Doug to start your mornings on an absolutely positive and uplifting note. 94FMtheFish.net www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com In His Grip Wisdom From My Mentor Harvey Penick is one of golf ’s legendary teachers and is known for shaping some of golf ’s great talents like Ben Crenshaw and Tom Kite into hall of fame golfers. But Crenshaw and Kite would be the first to say Penick’s influence extended way beyond the golf course and into life. He was a mentor in every way. If you’ve heard my life’s story you’ve heard me mention Jack Countryman. Other than my father, Jack has been my life’s biggest influence. He has certainly been my biggest spiritual influence and it all began with my coming to faith in Christ through a little book titled, “In His Grip” and published by J. Countryman Division of Thomas Nelson (1997). Early in my faith, I had a chance to play several rounds of golf with Jack. As we finalized the arrangements by phone, he said, “Scott, I really look forward to spending time with you, hearing your story and getting to know you.” There is no way I could have anticipated the longterm impact those three days would have on my life or the influence Jack would eventually have over these past 19 years. It’s been a journey of receiving great wisdom and insight by a great mentor. Soon after that initial encounter with Jack, I shared with him the idea I had regarding what has become In His Grip Golf Ministry. Jack patiently listened, made mental notes and I then asked for his opinion. I got three words: “Crawl, walk, run.” Jack shared that it takes a minimum of two to three years to gain traction, and told me I must first crawl and learn best practices. I’ve learned those three words extended way beyond ministry. All of life is a process. You learn to trim the things that aren't working, enhance the things that are working and then seek to make those things even better. I also learned it’s a cycle. Just because you get to the running stage doesn’t mean it’s smooth sailing. God will trim your sails to take you in new directions, to grow you and to keep you dependent on Him. After all, our lives are to be lived for His glory and His purposes regardless of our vocational direction in life. Jack helped teach me that lesson too. I have valued Jack’s investment in my life so much that I’ve tried to replicate what he’s shown me about being a mentor by being a mentor to several young men over the years. There is no greater joy than helping someone’s faith take root. What about you? Do you have a spiritual mentor in your life? if not, find someone farther down the Scott Lehman with his mentor of nearly 20 years, Jack Countryman road of faith than you and ask if they’ll meet you for coffee and talk through it. Then, find someone you could possibly mentor and reach out to that person. Jesus told us to make disciples and walking the road of life with someone is really how it’s done. And believe me, those relationships are a lot more meaningful than being inducted into any hall of fame. — Scott Lehman is President of In His Grip Golf Ministry and author of the popular book, “More than a Game.” May 2016 17 OUR THERAPY STARTS AT 8 WEEKS OLD. 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They’ll help your son identify, address, and heal the root cause behind his struggles so he can begin to restore relationships and build his future. Healing H ealing the Past. Embracing the Present. Redeeming the Future. 866.729.4479 www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com B u s i n e s s T oday Special Olympics of Williamson County Golf Tournament 2015 For some people, the “Volunteer State” is just another name for Tennessee. For Mary Catherine Strobel, it was the perfect description of home. This amazing woman survived incredible hardships; helped family, friends and strangers; and established a tradition of giving and helping people around her. Knowing her story, we consider it a huge honor that Second Harvest Food Bank of Middle Tennessee nominated Lee Company for the 2016 Mary Catherine Strobel Volunteer Awards. Thank you! We were humbled to be one of three finalists in the corporate volunteerism category. Congratulations to all the nominees, finalists and winners. The awards ceremony on April 21 was an amazing event. The inspirational stories we heard made it clear that everyone there was a winner. And it was wonderful to see how volunteers of all ages and backgrounds roll up their sleeves and devote their talents and time to serve others, even people they may never meet. The Lee Company team considers this recognition a great honor for us, and a tribute to you. Our nomination salutes the heartfelt efforts of all our employees and customers. Thank you for supporting our Vans4Cans campaign year after year, and helping us feed the hungry. “We realized that our home services’ house calls are a great opportunity to assist Second Harvest in collecting food from homeowners who want to help feed the hungry.” said Dan Kalman, Vice-President of Home Services at Lee Company. We’re offering our customers the convenience of participating in a food drive, without having to leave their home.” We are privileged to have an amazing team of employees with a heart for service. Many times throughout the year you will find Lee Company members lending a helping hand to individuals and organizations in our community. Just a few weeks ago a group of plumbers participated in a Builders Blitz with Habitat for Humanity. “We love serving our community, so every year we look forward to the Home Builders Blitz,” says Zac Coppock, Plumbing Field Supervisor. “It’s wonderful to be part of the teamwork and dedication that goes into building a home that will be a great blessing to a deserving family in need!” On April 16, another group handed out medals to runners completing a 1K as part of the Moosic City Dairy Dash; all funds raised were donated to High Hopes Development Center. High Hopes provides services and educational opportunities to children whose developmental needs can’t be met in a traditional school setting. In a few weeks we will be hosting a Special Olympics of Williamson County Golf Tournament to help raise funds for the athletes served by this wonderful organization. There are so many opportunities to serve! What are your talents? How can you put them to the service of others? We encourage you to take Mary Catherine Strobel’s heritage to heart. Find a volunteer program you love, and get involved in the community! — Amy Cathey, Community and Corporate Relations Representative, Lee Company May 2016 19 T eachable M om e nts It was a warm summer day and hundreds of parents, children and infants were huddled in groups of ten or more waiting for their turn to line up and race. The Field Day of my childhood was always an exciting time of the year when the beautiful downtown of Winchester, Massachusetts took on a festival-like nature with booths of arts and crafts and foods that lined Main Street. Eventually our group name would be called and at that moment I remember desiring only one thing: TO BE FIRST! Of course, there were some races I won, most I lost and a few I never finished, but in every race I always wanted to be first. The Bible has quite a lot to say about being first: “This is what the LORD says: I am the first and the last, and there is no God except me.” “But first, be concerned about his kingdom and what has his approval. Then all these things will be provided for you.” “However, many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.” “I’m coming soon! I will bring my reward with me to pay all people based on what they have done. I am the A and the Z, the first and the last, the beginning and the end.” If God has this much to say about being “first” why then is our culture determined to replace first for fairness? Merriam –Webster defines FIRST as: preceding all others in time, order and importance; or, having the highest or most prominent part among a group of similar voices. First can also be explained as a first occurrence or an item that is of the finest grade; and in the case of my Field Day experiences, winning highest place in a competition. The priority of what we keep first and how we do so is of the utmost importance and Scripture clearly affirms where our heart, mind and soul should primarily be focused. However, I find it curious why even in the body of Christ many Christians shy away from a desire to be first. Doesn’t God wanted His people to be pioneers, champions, leaders in principle, paramount in our faith and outstanding in our godliness? Is to too much to ask Christian’s to consider God doesn’t want us to live secondary to this world or a subsidiary to the culture and subordinate to evil. Do we ever read God desires for us to be the slightest, smallest or trivial? On the contrary if God is first than He has first place plans and purposes for every life that loves, trusts and honors Him as Lord. “Abraham Lincoln used to remark that he could get any number of men who are ‘willing to shed their last drop of blood.’ but he found it difficult to get men to shed their first drop to make a beginning.” Don’t talk about what you will do for Jesus tomorrow, just begin by placing Him first today through loving Him, serving Him and following where He may lead. Dare and desire to be first again! Your home is invaluable. So is our home maintenance. Your home is where our heart is For more than 70 years Lee Company has helped customers keep their homes safe and comfortable with the best home maintenance, repair and improvement services available. The value adds up. Professional home maintenance: • Helps increase your home’s long-term property value • Improves energy efficiency and lowers utility bills • Helps prevent mechanical failures and related repairs Become a Lee Company Planned Service Member for as little as $8.25* per month and enjoy 4 annual visits: • Heating tune-up and safety inspection • A/C tune-up and energy-saving cooling inspection • Plumbing inspection • Electrical safety inspection You’ll also receive up to 20% discount on service calls, parts and labor; a 5% discount on equipment replacements; and you’ll never pay emergency rates! * Price valid for one system. $50/year for each additional HVAC unit. $20 OFF your next service call Your choice: HVAC, plumbing or electrical. 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That's the gist of Goodwill's new Home Donation Pickup Program, which in just a few months has grown to serve communities in more than 16 Middle Tennessee Middle and West Tennessee counties (Davidson, Montgomery, Robertson, Sumner, Wilson, Rutherford, Dickson, Cheatham, Maury, Dekalb, Bedford and Perry, Madison, Henderson, Gibson and Decatur). www.giveit2goodwill.org/pickups Summer Jobs With Williamson County Parks & Recreation Fun jobs, plus free use of amenities WCPR needs summer employees that want to get excellent job experience and have fun at the same time. As added incentive, all summer employees will get free unlimited personal use of WCPR facility amenities, including wellness centers and pools. Summer jobs begin around the end of May and run throughout the summer months. Flexible start dates, as well as flexible hours, are possible for some positions. For more information on the application process, call (615) 591-8509. May 1-8 Discounted Summer Season Pass Sale Special price on-line Williamson County Parks and Recreation is pleased to announce an online summer season pass presale May 1-8, 2016! During the sale receive $10 off the pass price plus free admission to one outdoor pool family night event at a participating location. Passes can be purchased by visiting www.wcparksandrec.com. Summer season pass sales at facility front desks begin May 9. May 18 Franklin Rodeo Learn about the cowboy and rodeo way of life at the Franklin Rodeo Experience. Held May 18, from 6-9 pm, it’s free to the public and includes live music by the Kentucky Linemen, line dancing, and meet ‘n greets with rodeo personalities. A mechanical bucking bull and pony rides are also available (for a fee). Find out more at FranklinRodeo.com. May 8 Mother’s Day May 14 Deer Run’s Amazing Camp Race This fun, action-packed race is something your family, friends, co-workers or small group can enjoy together. Teams of 2 to 6 persons (all ages) compete in 10 timed activities such as relays, shooting archery targets, paintball, climbing tower, BB guns, A bout O u r A dve rti s e r s May 14 Never Grow Up, Inc Job Fair 9:00 AM to 11:00. The Academy of Seaboard Lane - 122 SEABOARD LANE, Franklin, TN Our purpose for the Fair is to find qualified, passionate, kids at heart seeking to make a difference in the lives of the future. 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Swim Lessons • Camp • Sports • Pools • Family Fitness • Fun #POTENTIAL • Learn more at ymcamidtn.org. Our Mission: A worldwide charitable fellowship united by a common loyalty to Jesus Christ for the purpose of helping people grow in spirit, mind and body. May 2016 23 Fa i t h a n d S c i e n c e Can one healthcare team save an entire family? As her four newborn babies were getting stronger in our NICU, Monica’s heart began to fail. Monica worried she wouldn’t live to see her babies grow up. Her husband Fred worried he would lose his entire family any moment. They put their faith in God and entrusted us to give their family a fighting chance. Today they are healthy, happy and—most importantly—together. Nothing shall be impossible. To schedule a consultation, call 615-284-8636 or visit STHealth.com/perinatal. 24 Nashville Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyNashville.com