PQ8 - Worth Abbey Parish
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PQ8 - Worth Abbey Parish
WORTH ABBEY PARISH QUARTERLY No.8 EDUCATION SPECIAL SPRING 2006 PQ8 “These are my principles. If you don't like them, I have others.” GROUCHO MARX. INSIDE: THE BOOK THAT TAKES ON THE PICK AND MIX SPIRITUAL SUPERMARKET PLUS EDUCATION, EDUCATION, EDUCATION and WHY CATHOLICS CAN’T SING. 2 CONTENTS Up front with Dom James Cutts……………………………….…… page 3 Education, education, education - Worth’s house groups ......……… pages 4/5 The Houses of Westminster by Fr Stuart Wilson…….….. .…..……..pages 6/7 Catholic schools should be more inclusive - Bishop..….…………….page 8 Do We Still Believe in...Catholic schools?.......……………..……….page 9 Four Women of Vision by Dom Charles Hallinan…………………...page 10 Benedict’s Rule Works in School by Jonathan Dolman……..………pages 11/12 Funny, fire and brimstone and short - what you want from sermons...pages 13/14 Life-changing learning - a retreat at Worth………………….…..……pages 15/16 Bid to open Sussex monastic site……………….…………………... page 17 Parish People………………………………..………………………. Pages 18/19 Life of a Salesman - Abbot Christopher interview………… …….. ...pages 20-22 Finding Sanctuary - A review of the Abbot’s new book......………... page 23/24 The Bible in 50 words……………………………………….….……page 25 Why can’t Catholics sing - interview with Michael Oakley….………pages 26/27 Donkeys don’t give up by Angus MacDonald…...…………………..page 29 Justice and Peace group by George Fitzsimons……………………...pages 31/32 A Pilgrimage to Peru by Christina Fitzsimons...…………………….pages 33/34 Prayer School by Dom Peter Williams..…………………………….. page 36 Deacon Blue is educated in the Holy Land…………………………..page 39 Times of Sunday Mass in the Abbey Church, Worth 5.30 pm Saturday Vigil Mass 9.30 am (Concelebrated) West Hoathly: 11.30 am at St. Dunstan’s Chapel * Holydays of Obligation: Vigil Mass at 7.30 pm 8.00 am & 5.30 pm (Concelebrated) *From February 5th to May 26th Mass in West Hoathly will be said in St Margaret’s Parish Church at 11.45 am . “PQ” THE WORTH ABBEY PARISH QUARTERLY MAGAZINE IS PUBLISHED BY DOM JAMES CUTTS OSB Tel: 01342 710313 - Fax: 01342 710311 - E-mail: [email protected]. The Editor is Sarah Whitebloom E-mail:[email protected]. The Circulation & Advertising Manager is Jill Carter See page 22 for details of Advertising & Distribution. The Views expressed in the magazine are not necessarily those of the publisher. 3 Listen, child of God, to the Guidance of your teacher. Attend to the message you hear and make sure it pierces to your heart, so that you may accept with willing freedom and fulfil by the way you live the directions that come from your loving Father. From the prologue to the Rule of St Benedict. UPFRONT DOM JAMES CUTTS T here is the tale of the boy who was asked what he learnt in his last lesson at school. He replied he learnt all about anger because his teacher was in a rage. Similarly, he could have leant about weakness, about resentment or about holiness and love. Education is not primarily about history and geography. It is more importantly about life, about how to respond to oneself and to others and to the world around. To learn to love is the greatest education we can receive. In order to do that we need to be well informed, and to ensure our future well being, we need the necessary skills to survive and usefully create in our world All our present Parish initiatives arise out of our Parish Development Plan and are all contributing to our education. Thus our House Groups have already taken off and in fifteen groups we have more than one hundred parishioners involved. The vision is that this will grow year by year. They have been formed to help us understand our relationship with God and its significance in our lives. Our African parish twinning is proceeding. Three separate visits to Uganda are planned for the coming year to find our twin Parish and then to inaugurate the twinned relationship. What an educative experience this is going to be for us all. Our Parish Events Groups is helping us to relate with each other, and organised in March a very successful Barn Dance attended by a hundred of us. Meanwhile, our Justice and Peace Group is taking initiatives following on from the J& P Fair last term to help us be aware of the problems outside our own community. RCIA is helping other people understand the Catholic Christian faith. In all these, and in many other ways, our efforts are aimed towards educating ourselves to be true Christians in our world. 4 EDUCATION, EDUCATION, EDUCATION You can tell much about a civilisation from its system of education - its standards, its beliefs, its priorities. But let’s not depress ourselves. Education is not just about schooling and PQ8 seeks to look at all aspects of the life-long process of learning - especially faith formation. We start with Worth Abbey parish’s ambitious education campaign, which this week saw the commencement of 15 House Groups, aimed at deepening faith and creating small Christian communities - which don’t just talk but take positive action. But who are these House Group people? And is it for you? PQ has tracked some down. Adrian Sparks. My wife Tory and I live in Haywards Heath and have a long standing friendship with Worth Abbey. We joined the parish when our son James reached First Communion age. In the Winter, James and our younger son Dominic play rugby at the Haywards Heath club. Tory and I support the U11's and U8's wherever possible. In the summer, we love to spend our time by the sea and out in the fresh air. I work in London as a telecommunications sales manager while Tory is a special needs teaching assistant locally. I took on the role as House Group Host because I feel there is a lot to discover about my faith and I think Worth has great people to do that with. Chris Dobson. What shall I say of myself? I am parish deacon, ordained in 2003 after three years training. The permanent diaconate was reintroduced by Vatican II as a ministry of service to the church. Many of us (are mar- ried. We are ordained and can officiate at weddings, baptisms and funerals as well as assisting at Mass and preaching. I’m married to Jo and we have three children, Theo a physio, Emily a student at Nottingham Trent and Louise a very special child who died when she was 7. I also work as an accountant and as part time airport chaplain at Gatwick Airport. Rosemary Sanders. I work full time and love my job. This, and my family commitments, do not leave me much time or energy for many outside activities but I enjoy playing my cello in a local orchestra and tennis when time permits. I have two children; one of whom lives in France and is expecting a baby in June. I also have an elderly mother whom I visit when I can. For many years I have worshipped at Worth Abbey and love the directness and simplicity of the liturgy, it has a buzzing and lively parish life. I am excited by the House Groups. 5 Charles and Julia Wilson. Charles and I have been married for nearly 32 years, just a few days less than we've been Christians. We are not new to House Groups, and have been members and/or leaders of several, each with a slightly different emphasis, but all being made unique by the members who make up the group. Charles is a solicitor who runs his own business, while I am a teacher. We have lived in Balcombe for nearly 22 years. We have 4 children, 2 are married, and one more is engaged. We are used to having lots of people in and out of our home, and I love cooking. We are starting our group with six members, but we are hoping for more to join us soon. Geraldine Constable. I have been fortunate enough to retire early from full time employment and so have more available time for family, friends and of course involvement in parish life. House Groups are something which I feel offers great potential for my own faith journey and a very positive and enjoyable way to contribute to the growth and connectedness of the whole Parish community. Jill Carter. I live in the Ashdown Forest, work from home, enjoy gardening with toddler grandchildren as assistants, and - probably because I’m too scatty - have trouble finding time to go out in the evenings. Mine is a new and different kind of House Group too, a way of sharing from your own home: all you need to join in a friendly discussion with other like-minded parishioners is an internet-connected PC. Like the other groups, the Worth Chat Room, will meet on one evening a week - but, uniquely, on-line. We'll consider the following Sunday's Gospel and what it means to our everyday lives. It will give us an opportunity to learn from each other and get to know each other better. It is open to all parishioners (from all denominations), regardless of where they live. A former Worth parishioner now living in France has signed up! You can join the meeting wherever you are. It is particularly useful for people who cannot commit to a regular meeting, or who live some distance away. To find out more, or to get a link and password, contact me on [email protected] or 01825 712162. Amanda Alexander. I traded in the sunshine and warmth of Southern California for the cosy comforts of the South Downs and am now happily installed as a teacher at Worth School, where I also live. When not indulgently reading Jane Austen novels, you will find me rambling in the forest or out on my bike. I am really excited about the House Groups. Want to know more about house groups? Contact: [email protected] 6 The Houses of Westminster The Archdiocese of Westminster recently completed a three year programme of faith renewal. At the centre of this were 2,000 house groups. Writing for PQ, Fr Stuart Wilson, who led the At Your Word Lord programme, shares the experience. A T Your Word Lord (AYWL) inspecialists who get trained at the expense volved more 170 parishes and the of the ordinary catholic. My hope is that diverse ethnic communities in our Director of Evangelisation will recogDiocese of Westminster. Over 20,000 peonise the need to have parish based prople took part in 2,000 small Christian comgrammes. The signs look good. He recogmunities (SCC) or house groups. We nises that centres are good for the highly trained 800-plus new leaders to run committed but that it will be in the these SCCs. parish and deanery where the real The programme brought new hope breakthrough can take place. I to many lay people in parishes and understand he is beginning a proa new sense of working together. gramme of visiting the 23 DeanerOne of the real hopes for me is that ies of Westminster. Cardinal Cormac has now apA real challenge for our propointed a new priest Director of gramme was getting the support of Evangelisation, Fr Michael O’Boy. the priests. Any renewal needs this His immediate brief is to service and it is not always easy. Priests and develop the SCCs and to put in Cardinal Cormac are under pressure and under replace a programme of Adult Faith sourced and that leads to nervous“The natural Formation for every parish and ness. Part of the new way is workgroups where community. I have long believed ing in collaboration, but few of us faith formation that one of the results would be that priests have had that kind of trainwill develop”. ultimately every parish would have ing. We need a new way of worka group of Catechists responsible ing which can be threatening. We for faith formation. need to help the priests see that collaboraEvery one to whom I speak seems to action is a way of allowing them to exercise knowledge that the Church “let down” a real leadership. whole generation of Catholics. So often I The Cardinal expects the SCCs to be hear people say: “If only I knew my faith the natural groups where faith formalike my grandparents.” tion will develop. As I said above, he has That is a real task for us to achieve for the invested in them by appointing a Director next generation. One of today’s dangers is who will work with his Team to strengthen 7 them. I believe they will be receiving occasional six week programmes, that will be effective across the Diocese, but we have produced for the SCCs a 3 year cycle of books called “PrayerTime”. These take the Sunday Gospel and offer a reflection with points to ponder and actions to follow. These books will be the bed rock of the SCCs for the immediate future. SCCs will, hopefully, begin to provide the human resource for the developing Parish Pastoral Groups that will develop in the House Diocese. SCCs will not flourish if the parish is not willing to put some structure into practice. They need to have parish co-ordinator (s) and also need to be seen as part of the parish dynamic. Individual SCCs work well with their lay leadership – it is the leaders that require a certain amount of pastoring. We have seen sometimes that leaders take the SCC away from its structure and sometimes small groups are seen as independent of parish structure. We have insisted from the beginning that the SCC grows out of the Sunday Eucharistic community and returns there each Sunday. The SCC does not exist primarily for itself but in order that its members might be more committed to the life of the parish. The SCC does not become a talking shop, if the leaders use their leadership skills well. The heart of the meeting is the Gospel (Scripture). Every leader needs to bring people back to that over and over again. We adopted a rule of “no second strikes” which means that no one is allowed to Bingo speak again until everyone who wants to has spoken. We also encourage a report back (very brief) by the leader. This helps the SCC leadership be aware of how their group is growing and it also gives the parish team valuable feedback. SCCs can never become talking shops if they keep to the structure which lies at the heart of them. At each meeting each SCC is asked to do three things during the evening: They should spend some time SEEI’m not sure our new ING what the house group leader situation is that has had the right the Gospel is training. opening up for them. This involves each member bringing personal experience to the meeting. Then they should bring this joint experience under the JUDGMENT of the Word of God – what is scripture telling them. Finally, in the light of this, they must determine to ACT and report back on the action next time. Although the action might be trivial in many people’s eyes, this last part is vital as it puts words into action. SCCs are a vital tool in the renewal process of every parish. We believe that what has begun in Westminster will begin to change our parishes in many ways. Good luck Worth Abbey Parish. Fr Wilson kindly sent this contribution from his sabbatical. 8 Include non-Catholics Bishop Kieran tells schools B ishop Kieran Conry has urged Catholic schools to be more inclusive by admitting pupils of different faiths and other denominations. In an interview for PQ, conducted by year four of St Peter’s Catholic primary school in East Grinstead, the bishop declared: “Where we can do it, we should, especially with the Muslim community, which knows it will get an education founded on a belief in God at a Catholic school.” Bishop Kieran recognised, however, that some schools in the diocese are already greatly oversubscribed and are faced with turning away Catholic applicants, which would make greater integration difficult. But, he said, schools were “moving to policies of greater inclusion”. And he revealed that, elsewhere in the UK, there are already systems for reserving places for non-Catholics and non-Christians. Speaking after the annual Good Shepherd liturgy, which saw some 1,400 children from the diocese’s schools gather at Worth, he said Catholic schools have an important role to play in today’s society. “They teach children in a way that is good for them,” said the Bishop. “There is real vision in Catholic schools…It is all grounded in our faith.” He rejected suggestions that schools led to declining church attendances. “It was going to happen anyway,” he said. But Bishop Kieran told the class of eight and nineyear-olds: “Catholic schools give an experience you won’t forget and broaden horizons about faith.” The main problem in Catholic education, he said, is not a lack of pupils but the shortage of Catholic teachers. In answer to one of a barrage of questions, Bishop Kieran said being Bishop is “hard work”, as is any work done well, but one of his favourite tasks is visiting schools. “I don’t have to do very much and everyone is nice to me,” he said. Bishop Kieran revealed that when he was told about being bishop, he thought it must have been a mistake. And he told the children, the first thing he would do, if he were elected Pope, would be to “resign”. However, he said he would first “try to make it easier for people to be Catholics”. The children discovered that his favourite sport is rugby; his favourite subject was English but his worst was Maths. He also liked RE although he admitted “sometimes it can be boring”. But the Bishop said his favourite Bible story is that of the road to Emmaus. Bishop Kieran said he had also considered becoming a doctor, but first thought about becoming a priest when he was 11. “I knew a priest who was very good and decided I wanted to be like him. He treated us children as individuals.” Meanwhile, his favourite meal was definitely “red meat” although he also enjoys Chinese and Italian food. Bishop Kieran disappointed the children, though, by saying he is not keen on Harry Potter, preferring The Lord of the Rings and, in adult books, Graham Greene and the detective writer Ed McBain. SW 9 DO WE STILL BELIEVE IN...CATHOLIC Q Publication day for the school league tables dawned and the ‘phone was ringing off the hook at the Catholic primary. It was top of the county. Urgent callers were anxious to get their children in. “Is your child a baptised Catholic?” asked the secretary. “That can be done,” snapped the woman. Amazing numbers of pre-school children are seen at Mass in the run up to school applications, as parents try to secure a good schooling for their children. And who can blame them? Faith schools frequently dominate the upper reaches of the league tables and are seen to offer a better education. Choice is politician’s mantra, but what is the choice for parents, excluded from the best schools in their area because they are not believers? This debate is leading to serious questions about “faith” schools – and whether they should be part of the state system. It is argued that they are divisive, since they exclude children from other communities. The situation is exacerbated, it is claimed, by middle- class parents acquiring “faith” to win the coveted places. Backing up arguments for an end to faith schooling is a constituency, within the Church, which argues that Catholics do not need Catholic schools any more. They maintain that the days are gone when the faithful was a beleaguered minority that needed to keep traditions going. And look, they say, at the diocesan money which goes into schools. Traditionalists, however, maintain the schools are not sufficiently Catholic and are not properly preparing the young. There is even a Catholic home schooling group, formed of such parents. Others eschew their local Catholic schools because they are not top of the SCHOOLS? league tables (not all faith schools are) or for a whole variety of other reasons. So is it important for the Church still to have its own schools and for Catholics to use them? SW If Catholic, Muslim or Jewish schools produce sectarian bigots then let them perish. If Catholic, Jewish or Muslim Schools, however, produce pupils who are immersed in their own religious cultures and can look outside themselves to find dignity in others, then let us not only keep them, but cherish them and make their future secure. It could happen that they become what one fears most. With a superior mentality, insecure and fearful of anything different, such a school could conceivably be created. Staff would have to be uniformly of this prejudiced ilk and local authorities would have to connive. It does not seem possible such schools could survive long in the UK. The opposite of such schools are faith based schools, where learning about God is a priority. In a Christian school. this would involve learning about doctrine, principles and scripture in a rigorous way, but at the same time defending a young persons’ right to religious freedom. In such a school, spirituality, relationships and a care for the less fortunate is fostered. From such a solid faith base, an appropriate respect for those of other faiths and a readiness to engage in reasoned debate and joint action would ensue. Far from being divisive these Faith schools would be the very catalyst of tolerant acceptance of the other. In my view, all faith schools come out positively, but some more so than others. In the event of a collapse, Parish structures would have to expand to take a much more prominent role in the Catholic education of parishioners’ children. Dom James Cutts. A 10 FOUR WOMEN OF VISION Dom Charles Hallinan A mong the many dedicated women Madeleine Sophie Barat (feast-day 25 school-teachers, who have contribMay) is the other great French founuted hugely to Christian education and the dress. Said to have been “a women of wisfounding and running of schools, some dom and insight to a remarkable degree, remarkable women, motivated strongly by joined with endearing modesty and attracthe desire to enrich the spiritual lives of tiveness”, she was well educated by her young people, come quickly to mind. brother, Louis, a priest, 10 years her senior. Angela Merici (feast-day 27th January), Again, from small beginnings, as with all lived in Renaissance Italy. She was aware great ventures, and helped by Fr Joseph of the need for sound Christian instruction Varin, S.J., she quickly became the Supein a society experiencing familyrior of a small convent school in Amiens breakdown and moral corruption. Along (1801), remaining all her life the director of with like-minded companions, she taught the Society of the Sacred Heart, spreading children in their homes. From this throughout Europe and America. small beginning developed the She wrote: “Too much work is a first women’s teaching Order, the danger for an imperfect soul, but Ursulines, developing and adaptfor one who loves Our Lord it is ing to needs ever since. an abundant harvest.” Meanwhile, two famous teaching She shares her feast-day with the Orders arose in France following first native-born Australian canonthe suppression of Christian ized (1995) saint, schools during the French RevoluMary McKillop. She was yet another inspiring foundress of a tion – a sign of the vitality of the teaching Order, the Sisters of St Church in France in the 19th cenJoseph of the Sacred Heart tury. Julie Billiart, (feast-day 8th (Josephites), which has houses in Julie Billiart April) was a woman of rudimenAustralia, New Zealand and Peru. tary education - but of vision, faith, love of Fr Julian Tenison Woods encouraged Mary the poor and with innate wisdom – she to meet the urgent need of Catholics for taught children the catechism from her education in those pioneering days in midsick-bed until her miraculous recovery 19th century Australia. from years of paralysis. For 12 years She and her Sisters, living spartanly, thereafter, until her death in 1816, she was founded schools (especially for the poor), constantly on the road, and with the help of orphanages, hostels, refuges, winning apher friend and fellow religious Sister, Franproval from all quarters except often from coise Blin de Bourdon, faced many formisome bishops. A woman of great faith, dable obstacles (once, all her convents rock-like courage and determination, Mary were closed down). Her Sisters of Notre manifested great humility, patience and Dame had, by the end of the century, courage in her relations with ecclesiastical spread throughout the world. She said: “If authorities. “Do not resist God,” she we ever cease to help the poor, we shall no would say, “for your souls are very dear to longer be fulfilling the work entrusted to Him.” us.” 11 Benedict’s Rule works at school Jonathan Dolman C hoosing vey in 2004 revealed the most highly valthe right ued quality of Worth School was its caring, school for respectful school community, where boys one’s children are treated as individuals. The Rule establishes a vision: of a stable is one of the community based on Christian values. The most imporethos aims to promote the holistic approach tant decisions in its development of the students in a carparents will ing community. The goal of Benedictine ever make. It living is finding God. The vehicle by determines the Mr Dolman and family which we achieve this goal is the stable kind of people community. The three core values of Benethey become, the lives they will lead. dictine living, which build this community, How do we define a successful school? Its are worship, humility and service. reputation, facilities and academic achieveBenedict’s Rule is a practical handbook of ments of course measure, to some extent Christian community living. It seeks to the quality of a school’s education, but balance the needs of the individual only a school which develops A school based on and of the community. St Benedict the personal, spiritual and moral Benedictine values realised that we flourish as humans awareness of the students can nourishes the gifts of when we are members of a commuregard itself as fully effective. the nity not isolated individuals. The A school with a distinctive ethos individual and puts assembly of individuals strengthens not only better prepares students them at the service of the bond and the common goal. This to cope with the complexities of all. might be easier to put into practice life beyond school, but provides in a boarding school. them with a framework for sucThe former Benedictine Abbot of Amplecessful community living – a bedrock for forth, the late Cardinal Basil Hume, hightheir future relationships with others. This lighted some of the characteristics of sucarticle focuses largely upon the ethos of cessful community living: “It is the small Worth School. The school, like the monascourtesies that matter: small marks of contery, bases its ethos within the Rule of St. sideration, thinking of each other, being Benedict. Benedict wanted to establish a sensitive to others. . . tactful in handling way of living that responded to the probthem, kind in rebuking them, gentle.” lems of his society, which he felt was not A Benedictine school will have room for based on Gospel values. His response was the less able, the gifted and the eccentric, to set up a counter-culture, to keep the light valuing the variety of talents present in the of Christianity alive. community. The Head teacher must reconIn a recent interview Pope Benedict XVI, cile the demands of each individual with maintained that in doing so: “St. Benethose of the community: A school based on dict….did something bizarre, something Benedictine values nourishes the gifts of that later turned out to be the ‘ark’ on the individual and puts them at the service which the west survived.” Benedictine of all. education is trying to do the same. And it is highly regarded by parents. A school sur- 12 One of the best ways to come together as a community is through worship. In today’s secular world, it is unfashionable to underline the significance of religious belief and to attend formal church services. But schools which neglect the significance of a spiritual education and opportunities to incorporate worship do so at their peril. Dr. Giles Mercer, Headmaster of Prior Park College, Bath warns: “Children need opportunities to withdraw from . . . activity and restlessness, so that their inmost selves and souls can be nourished, so that they can encounter God….If we do not build such opportunities somehow into our normal school routines, then we do our pupils a lasting and a very great disservice.” There are a range of ways to incorporate worship at school. Cardinal Hume wrote that to teach young people how to pray is “the most direct and positive way to help [them] discover their inner selves and begin a life long process of growth”. The second core value of Benedictine living is humility. This is often associated with passivity, meekness and low selfesteem. St Benedict however, suggests that humility is “about seeing oneself as God sees us”. For this reason humility is one of the core values in Benedictine education. It is not about false modesty but is concerned with recognising our strengths and weaknesses, being able to take credit but also to accept blame. Without diminishing our identity, we should reach out to others with care and respect and our community will benefit. It is a very difficult ethos to establish in schools. The desire to win, to get on top at all costs, is more generally acceptable today. Achievement is often seen to be the aim in life. At Worth, one of the ways in which we attempt to affirm humility is through reverence and respect. Service is the third core value. St Benedict recognised that, for a community to function well, mutual service is essential. Our aim at Worth is for students and staff to care for others, both within the school and the community at large. Serving one another binds the members of the community together. We encourage the students to develop a sense of social responsibility. By reminding ourselves of others’ needs, we focus less on our own personal targets and ambitions. Whilst serving the wider community, we must not of course, neglect our own immediate communities such as the family and our colleagues. The Benedictine ethos stresses that serving a community is a lifelong commitment to active public service and civic responsibility. By clearly defining our ethos and implementing it as a routine part of school life, students at Worth are reminded of their two primary objectives– firstly a well-rooted spiritual dimension and secondly a clear sense of identity and purpose educationally. What is necessary in adopting and delivering the Benedictine ethos, is not a monastic community ‘on tap’ but a belief and trust in God and a spiritual outlook in which the whole school seeks to value the individual and foster a community life of learning, worship, friendship and service. If this can be achieved, we provide children with a prayerful and moral foundation, which will enable them to begin a life-long spiritual journey. SEASONAL CUISINE: Luncheons, dinner parties and other formal occasions Telephone Beryl 01342 712559 mob 07752 587823 13 Funny, fire and brimstone - and short Worth parishioners on what makes a good sermon should have the Bible in one hand and a newspaper in the other.” Louise declared: “Introduce with a little ome thought four, others seven, one anecdote that relaxes the congregation and said ten (but 20, if you’re talking to gets people interested. Length is an issue.” protestants). Time weighed heavily on the This point was taken up by Phillipa: “Not minds of those who took part in Worth too long. A definite point, summarised at Abbey’s Palm Sunday survey to discover the end. A little humour.” what makes a good sermon. Meanwhile, another Mass-goer said: “It In one of PQ’s hallmark unrepresentative should be focused, clear and to the point surveys, a team of investigators asked and no more than seven minutes.” churchgoers what they thought made a Some, though, are keen for a longer sergood homily. Possibly because the survey mon, in the right circumstances. followed what is traditionally the longest “If the content is good, it can go on forMass of the year, very few asked for longer ever!” declared Beryl. priestly contributions. Jacqueline said: “I hate brevity. I love a Tony was clear: “They should good long meaty sermon.” It should take Julie Ann said: “I don’t like it tell them what they’re going to say, say it and then tell them what no more than 10 too short. I like it to start off with they’ve said. It should be four minutes, or 20 – a bit of a sense of humour and minutes max.” then progress, explaining.” if you are “Short and to the point,” said This call for humour and stories talking to another parishioner. “And giving was another main theme of the protestants. survey. me a message I can take home.” This desire for education and “A bit of humour to get your some plan for action was wideattention and then draw on the spread. But, as another parishioner said: readings,” said Rosie. “Not too intellectual.” Mary wanted: “Something that leaves you “We want clear guidance on what we having to think about it, that has humanity should and shouldn’t be doing,” said one and relates to our lives. Humour too, which pair, who favour a spot of fire and brimgoes with the humanity bit.” stone. “We don’t like messages that are But Dom Charles pointed out the possible open to interpretation.” pitfalls of this approach: “You must have a “It should be a clear message, giving you story. But they may remember the story something to think about,” said David and and not the point you’ve made.” Kathryn. Erica said: “It should be riveting, interestMany said they welcomed homilies which ing and relevant. Not highbrow.” were based on the readings of the day but Helen declared: “It should capture your related clearly to “current day issues”. attention. Some people have the gift of Dom Patrick said: “It should link the GosContd over pel with everyday life. A Jesuit said you Reporting team: Peter Fitzsimons, Dan and Aloysius Atkinson and Jill Carter, S 14 illustrating it with something funny.” But, as far as some parishioners were concerned, the question was not ‘what’ was being said but ‘who’ was saying it. “It should be someone who can relate to the people he’s talking to.” said Jenny. Elizabeth maintained: “A bad sermon is obviously read out and a good one is spoken from the heart.” While Sr Joan asked for nothing more than “sincerity”. One parishioner, who prefers not to be named, said “Christopher” in answer to what makes a good homily. But Dom Luke spoke for many clergy when he joked that he preferred “someone else to be giving it [the homily]”. A visiting Anglican Bishop, meanwhile, had a three point plan: “You must have a good biblical theme, a really good story and something on what to do.” Abbot Christopher concurred, maintaining that it was important to have “one clear point and you must have a story”. And, said a priest, it should take no more than 10 minutes, or 20 – if you are talking to protestants. SW THE BIBLE ACCORDING TO SCHOOLWORK: Moses led the Jews to the Red Sea where they made unleavened bread, which is bread without any ingredients. The Egyptians were all drowned in the dessert. Afterwards Moses went up Mount Cyanide to get the ten amendments. The First Commandment was when Eve told Adam to eat the apple. The seventh commandment is thou shalt not admit adultery. The greatest miracle is when Joshua told his son to stand still and he obeyed him. When Mary heard she was the mother of Jesus, she sang the Magna Carter. The Epistles were the wives of the Apostles. Christians have one spouse. This is called monotony. Veterans week Paul and Helle Yeates F or many years Worth Lay Community ran a holiday week for old people from Age Concern centres in the Bromley area. Since the Lay Community became independent of Worth, this week has become a parish undertaking, and many parishioners and friends have given time or support. The “Veterans Week” provides a holiday for up to 12 guests in St Bruno’s. Many have difficulty with mobility and often live alone. For some it is the first holiday they have had for years. We aim to have one helper to each guest and the Red Cross generously provides wheelchairs another aids. We have the use of two minibuses and this enables daily outings to local places of interest. We have also enjoyed great hospitality at the homes of parishioners and each evening there is entertainment. It is a busy week for the helpers. Some are residential for the week, others join the team from time to time to assist with outings or to cook a meal. All the food is prepared in St Bruno’s, including cooked breakfasts and cakes for tea. Our guests have always been delightful, appreciative of everything we do. They all love the peace and space at Worth. Each year a monk acts as our chaplain, closing every day with a reflection and night prayer. This has proved to be a very important aspect of the week for our guests, who never know quite what to expect from a holiday at an Abbey. The holiday is scheduled to take place in early July this year and the success of the week depends on the continued interest and support of the parish. 15 LIFE-CHANGING LEARNING - AT WORTH I t did not have the appearance of a lifewho was to give an hour’s talk each mornchanging event. The men and women ing. It was not the beginning of the day, had not come there to climb a mountain, though. For many, it had started four hours run a marathon or…meditate under a glass earlier with two prayers in the Abbey pyramid. It was raining, it was Wedneschurch. The daily timetable then allowed day, it was March and most of them were for breakfast, followed by the Abbot’s talk, sitting on upright chairs in an institutional time for prayer and reading, Midday lounge. On the face of it, the only potenPrayer, lunch, time with a prayer guide tially life-changing element was whether with more time free for walks followed by they had managed to secure a space on one Mass, Vespers, dinner and Compline. But of the rather more comfortable-looking none of the offices or indeed any of the sofas. There were no gimmicks, gadgets or sessions was compulsory. And one particiextravagant promises on offer. In fact, the pant confided that he intended to “pace 21 - many of whom were taking this as part himself”. He did not wish to experience of their precious annual holiday allocation religious burn-out, he explained. – were actually waiting to be told the imEnter Abbot Christopher. His mission is portance of obedience and humility from a to put to them how their lives can be man who lives a 1,500 yearchanged for the better old lifestyle. Perhaps not evespiritually - and materiIt’s six am. ryone’s idea of a holiday. ally – by reference to St Call this a holiday? And yet, within just a few Benedict’s 1,500 year days, it was apparent that this old Rule. Today his subhad, indeed, been a truly life ject is the deeply unfashchanging encounter. ionable one of humility. They had come from all “Humility sounds unover the country to Worth pleasant,” he declared. Abbey to a retreat organised But what it does not No. by The Open Cloister in the mean is “insincere grovwake of BBC2’s “The Monelling” in the tradition of astery”. For most, it was Uriah Heap. Society their second time at Worth sees humility as “passive and they were to spend the week, living behaviour by timid people”, he said. But and praying alongside each other and the humility is distinct from “humiliation”. monastic community. Many had seen the Drawing from his new book, the Abbot programme and had been affected by the said that humility comes from the same spiritual journeys of the five men who fearoot as humanity and to be “humbled” actured. But this was no place for a “TV tually means to be down to earth. groupie” or for a rest, and by the end of the “Humanity is the piece of earth,” he said week the demands of the monastic life “which knows it is alive”. were telling. Abbot Christopher further pointed out that But to return to Wednesday, the second humility has been proved to have tangible, morning of their retreat, the group had material benefits. A survey of companies, gathered to listen to Abbot Christopher, which sought to explain how good firms 16 became great ones, found that personal were to be challenged to take the lessons of humility on the part of the chief executive the retreat out into the world. It was eviwas a key factor – alongside a strong will. dent that the last 48 hours had had a very Great, bombastic corporate beasts were, profound impact on the group. PQ eavesactually, not good for business. dropped on three individuals. “Being humble actually makes you rich,” “I have learned to appreciate the benefit of he said. “It is a paradox, but setting aside silence and reflection,” said one man, who the ego makes it possible to communicate really enjoyed the rigours of the monastic better with others.” routine. “And I can really see the benefit of Being humble also brings with it great joy, starting the day with prayer. I feel so much Abbot Christopher explained, in a constant better for it.” reminder of God’s goodness and mercy. “But I will need some help, out there on By contrast, today’s desire for the my own,” he continued. “Perhaps I’ll think “spiritual”, he maintained, is often linked about a spiritual director?” to “self-assertion”. A young woman, meanwhile, “I can really see It was not an easy lesson. What said: “I’m not sure how much I the benefit of sort of holiday was this shaping up will carry on with the prayer. I starting the day think I need to pray as and when, to be? with prayer. I but I have learnt to listen and be It was clearly a very diverse feel so much bet- more still. I’ll be back.” group. The members came from ter for it.” no particular background – reliA second man also found benefit gious or otherwise. Some were in the routine: “I hope to take that Catholics, some were not. Some went to away with me…We are all conditioned to church, some did not. There was a wide see structure as being tied down but it can age range too, from a twenty-something be a blue print for a better life. It’s all musician through working people to some about discipline and we all hate that.” older individuals and couples. There were These were common thoughts among the health professionals, journalists, financial entire group. Another man said he planned specialists and a variety of others. to make a card listing the times of the difSome were extroverts, keen to talk. Othferent monastic offices so that he could at ers left after the Abbot finished speaking to least be ‘spiritually present’. A woman said spend time in their rooms, in the church or she had had withdrawal symptoms after the to go for a smoke. But it was clear they all last retreat. Many said they would be back. felt energised and keen to move on to the But Abbot Christopher emphasised they next stage, getting together with their indishould not just rely on the Worth commuvidual prayer guides. And they were all nity or to each other or try to carry on looking forward to that night’s silent meal. alone. He urged them to get involved in Sounds great. local communities – in the discipline of PQ decided to return later in the week to one of the world’s classic religions. see how it was going. Friday morning, “It will help you,” he declared. raining, still March, back in St Bruno’s With those words ringing in their ears, the retreat centre, the participants did not know group headed back into the world. it yet, but today’s big idea for the group “I have seen a better way, I have felt betwas going to be the most challenging yet. ter for it and I am not going to let it slip They had taken humility, obedience and away,” insisted one tired member, who silence in their stride, but this morning they spoke for all. SW 17 Sussex Monastic site to open B enedictines were back this month at three of Sussex’s dissolved monasteries, walking where monks have, perhaps, not trodden for nearly five centuries. But the visits revealed dramatically different fates for the former Benedictine-linked houses, which were suppressed in the 1530s on the orders of Henry VIII. Two of the sites were major centres of monasticism – with histories of royal visits and connections. They are, however, today quite different. One is Lewes Priory seeking lottery funding to allow greater public access, the other is a private house and the owners are hoping for an even lower profile. After years of campaigning, the trustees of Lewes Priory, a former Cluniac foundation (a Benedictine off-shoot), are now in the final stages of seeking funding. They want to see the remains of the monastery, which are currently fenced off, open to visitors. Dr John Lawrence, who heads the trustees, and his fellow campaigner, Frances Tufnell, kindly opened up for Fr James to wander among the majestic ruins. There are many buildings and features to see at the site – which once housed as many as 100 monks. Unfortunately, there is nothing left of the magnificent priory church, which was about the size of Canterbury cathedral. But the trustees are hoping to organise tours and make more information available about the monastery – if they succeed in winning the funding. It could not be a more different story at another former Benedictine family monastery. It did not completely fall into ruin – one of the buildings became a home. And it is not open to the public. Nevertheless, the owners have been continually pestered by uninvited visitors. Each weekend in summer, callers arrive. In the circumstances, it was very generous of them to allow a small party from Worth to visit. And PQ is sworn to secrecy in respect of the location – especially for coach parties. Another former monastery, now a private home, visited by Fr James was Langney Priory, near Eastbourne, the home of Miss Fenwick-Owen. An offshoot of Lewes priory, Langney was saved from destruction by its location, explained Miss Fenwick Owen, whose family have lived there for about 60 years. On the flat coastal plain, it was formerly an island, used by the monks for farming and salt mining. As such, it escaped destruction. Miss Fenwick Owen’s family restored the monks’ chapel to a functioning church, where services are held monthly. It has also survived huge development, which has seen the priory gradually encircled by modern housing. Although it is not open to the public, Miss Fenwick Owen showed us the room above the chapel, which was the monks’ dormitory and prior’s room. She also revealed there were stories of a secret tunnel between the priory and Pevensey castle – some two miles away. Lewes trustees must surely succeed in their bid to open up the priory for the public. Public interest in history and archaeology has never been so great. And, with so many of the dissolved houses either completely disappeared, or in private hands, only a few sites such as Lewes can tell the tale of Britain’s lost monastic heritage. SW 18 PARISH PEOPLE “It is impossible to imagine a better evening,” said one very happy Parish Priest, Dom James Cutts, following the St Patrick’s barn dance. More than 100 people turned out for the highly-successful event in March, which was organised by the new social committee. Parishioners enjoyed a splendid meal and refreshments and then danced until they dropped at the social evening, which was held at the Crawley Down Haven Centre. Even the teenagers had a good time - some appear to have danced. And we have the photos to prove it. Many thanks once again to the committee members and all those who made the evening such a great success. Watch out for the summer get together 19 Meanwhile, Palm Sunday at Worth Abbey saw hundreds join the monastic community for Mass, which started on the piazza (in thankfully good but blustery weather) with much palm waving from young and old and traditional readings and song. 20 LIFE OF A SALESMAN Abbot Christopher Jamison M aking a tough sale is a bit of a family industry for the Jamisons. Indeed, they appear to thrive on it. Who else would think that selling the first Mars Bars in Paris or arguing the virtues of Australian medicines to French pharmacists was tremendous fun? But now, Worth’s Abbot Christopher Jamison is taking this family trait to a new level: the ultimate crazy sales pitch. It is not flogging ice cream to the Inuit but selling real religion to a modern world that, he cheerfully admits, despises it. Abbot Christopher’s pitch comes in Finding Sanctuary, his book published this week by Weidenfeld and Nicolson (£10). It is aimed at the non-religious majority, inviting them to become involved in one of the world’s great religions, the embattled minority. The publisher came to the Abbot last year following the success of BBC TWO’s programme The Monastery. There was no doubt about it, he was “hot property” – appearing on Mid-Week with Libby Purves and on Richard & Judy – and several publishers wanted to sign up the Abbot. For his part, Abbot Christopher could see this created an opportunity for him to make his pitch in print; and if it leads to daytime TV and chat shows, so much the better. After all, if you want to reach the secular world, you won’t do it through the pages of The Universe. “We live in a country that has no time for religion,” said the Abbot. “The cultural establishment despises religion….So we have to penetrate the secular community by their own means of communication.” He continued: “It is not intrusive to monastic life. It may be just one week on chat shows, but that week can make an enormous impact. It is actually the least intrusive, and the biggest audience.” Abbot Christopher’s target market is that vast modern constituency that describes itself as “spiritual but not religious”. It is a burgeoning market, as a visit to any book shop shows. But it is one for which he reserves particular dislike, positively seething at the bogus spirituality to be found in the “new age” titles in the Mind, Body, Spirit sections of high street book sellers. The Abbot’s book, with its carefully designed non-religious front cover, will, of course, sit alongside such volumes but he says “it is a Trojan horse”. His best hope for the book is very simple, he says: low key and ambitious. “It is to make significant inroads into the despising of religion, to get people to realise that religion remains the best place on earth to find real spirituality.” The Abbot maintained: “It is all to do with a consistent message. Please come through the door – you will find more on the other side than you ever dreamt possible.” It is a strategy which could come straight from the CEO of a major corporation. And that is perhaps no coincidence. Abbot Christopher’s father was chief executive of a major pharmaceutical corporation. While others were steaming south-east around the globe, he emigrated from Australia to England to take up this key role, bringing with him his wife and four sons (the Abbot being the youngest and still a baby). And the 21 Abbot’s brothers have all followed their father as successful businessmen (it was one of them who sold that first Mars Bar). The Jamison boys were sent to Downside, where the Abbot first came into contact with Benedictine monks. He was very impressed: “They were a highly intelligent group. The Abbot of Downside was a hugely influential figure at the Second Vatican Council.” It was a “place of formation, crucial in responding to God’s call”, Abbot Christopher said. He enjoyed praying there, but it Is it a sequel to never occurred to him Finding Nemo? to join the Community. It was the beginning of the 1970s, he was a wealthy young man and he was destined for Oxford. But first, Abbot Christopher joined the family business for a gap year and his first experience in selling. It was not faith though, it was medication to chemists - and it was in France. “I’ve never had so much to drink in my life as I did then,” he recalls, somewhat blowing the image of the austere churchman. “They even gave me wine with breakfast.” “It was great fun,” he exclaimed. “But I could never take it that seriously.” And the family never really expected him to follow its well-trodden path into business. “I had thoughts of doing voluntary service overseas in Latin America.” It was while Abbot Christopher was at Oxford, studying French and Spanish, that he first came to Worth, drawn by the Peru project. And the 20-year-old, in the middle of his second year at university, very quickly decided that this was where he wanted to be. It was hardly the conventional path of the time. Young people were then being urged to “tune in, turn on and drop out” rather than become a monk and join a monastery. And his decision aroused considerable surprise among his friends. “But they were very interested,” he remembers. Most of them were heading for quite different paths, though. The Abbot discovered recently that many of his contemporaries went into the Foreign Office and merchant banking. The reality of joining the monastery, though, was “terrible”, according to Abbot Christopher. He had been the archetypal rich young man - plenty of money, freedom and travel. Suddenly he became a novice, with no money, no freedom and no control. “I found it more terrible than most people would,” he admits. “I was stuck in one place with no ability to do anything and no control.” So why does he insist on Worth’s three current novices doing the same? “It’s essential. It’s the only way to do it.” But after that first terrible year, things looked up for Brother Christopher. He spent three years studying Theology and Philosophy before becoming a monk and another year of pastoral studies before he became a priest. But the Peru game plan never came to fruition because he was assigned to be a teacher at Worth School, where many monks then worked. And Abbot Christopher was to spend the next 25 years work- 22 ing as a teacher – first of French and Spanish, then head of RI (as it was then called), then as housemaster and finally as headmaster for eight years. He admits that he was “very strict” with the boys and did not court popularity. “They wouldn’t invite me home for a drink,” he says, without regret. “But they came to the RI classes (now renamed theology classes) and the department grew.” “The best ages for boys are 12 and 18,” says Abbot Christopher. “They ask questions and want to know the answers. When boys are 15 they are focused on the impression their question is making, they are not interested in the answer.” As Headmaster, Fr Christopher enjoyed leading Worth to adopt a culture of strategic planning, so that the long term wellbeing of the School was not only secured but also secured on the right foundations. For example, he was “deeply depressed” by his experience of the political shaping of education during this time. “The introduction of AS levels was driven by political expediency and had nothing whatever to do with the interests of children,” he remembers. And it was this that led Worth to introduce the International Baccalaureate, as an alternative to the politically vulnerable A levels. Abbot Christopher, as president of the board of governors, remains highly interested in the school and is committed to the benefits of the Benedictine education it offers. “The faith school has a very important role in implementing an educational vision of Christian humanism, not just the economically driven model that now prevails.” He added: “The Benedictine tradition has a very important role in the school: it gives curriculum time for prayer and teaches people how to read the scriptures. We refuse to reduce education just to schooling.” That he is swimming against the tide in this as much as in society’s view of religion does nothing to quash his enthusiasm. “My theoretical expectation is that, in the future, no one in this country will be Christian, which means that, in practice, I can only be encouraged by the work of the Spirit I see in those large numbers who are still drawn to live out the Christian faith.” And alongside his book, there is a website, a PR campaign and several other initiatives to help the overwhelmed secular majority to “find sanctuary”. This is education writ very large indeed. Over the coming weeks, it should be a very hard sales pitch to ignore. And that is the Abbot’s strategy. SW PQ ADVERTISING & DISTRIBUTION 600 copies of PQ are distributed free of charge to Worth Abbey Parishioners and all who attend Mass at the Abbey and West Hoathly. 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Cheques should be made out to Worth Abbey Parish and sent to St Benedicts’s, Worth Abbey, Paddockhurst Road,Turners Hill, CRAWLEY, West Sussex 23 Finding Sanctuary by Abbot Christopher Jamison Review by Dan Atkinson O NCE every ten years or so comes the surprise smash-hit book on a subject or subjects hitherto thought of little interest to the general public. In 1988, the stage was held by astrophysics, the cosmos and kindred matters with A Brief History of Time, by Stephen Hawking. On to 1995, and Will Hutton achieved the remarkable feat of making economics sexy with The State We’re In. With a fair wind and plenty of support from its publisher, Finding Sanctuary could win a place in this gallery. Since the late 1960s, ‘the future’ has been fading out of fashion and ‘spirituality’ (whether crystal healing or trendily-peaceful paganism) has been gaining adherents. If this sort of guff can ‘shift units’, in marketing parlance, why not the Benedictine tradition, particularly when the case is stated as fluently and persuasively as it is here? That said, the association of Finding Sanctuary with The Monastery (of television fame) may dent slightly the ‘surprise’ element should it top the best-seller lists. Not that this is, in any sense, ‘Abbot – the book’ following on from ‘Abbot – the movie’. References to the five televised Worth guests are kept to a minimum; Finding Sanctuary is an outgrowth of the The Monastery, not a re-hash or a cashing-in. And the unlikely blockbuster of which it is most reminiscent is that of neither Hawking nor Hutton, but the book that, in 1973, effectively launched the modern Green movement, Small is Beautiful, by former coal board economist EF Schumacher. Both authors fear life is being pulled out of shape by the headlong pursuit of money and possessions, what Schumacher called ‘the forward stampede’ and Jamison describes as ‘busy-ness’, a disease of overactivity that he traces back to the 1980s, when its promotion became official policy: ‘Far from protecting people, the state now sought to maximise competition in order to ensure that market forces decided everything in the lives of its citizens.’ Both authors advocate what could – had the phrase not become associated with drug-taking and, to use a rather prim expression, ‘free love’ – be described as an alternative lifestyle. For Schumacher, the big changes needed to be made in the workplace and in the nature of labour itself, in order that both become ‘compatible with man’s need for creativity’. For Jamison, the need is for a revolution in the head – and heart. But do not run away with the idea that this is just another book on ‘spirituality’. Not at all. It just looks like one. In appearance, it is far removed from religious books of both the somewhat intimidating type (the late Pope John Paul II’s 1994 production Crossing the Threshold of Hope springs to mind) and the more supposedly-accessible variety, which frequently seem to have titles along the lines of What the Medieval Irish hermits can teach us today. A pleasing object in its own right, Finding Sanctuary could, and doubtless will, nestle happily alongside the many volumes of self-help, find-yourself literature housed in 24 the mind-body-spirit sections of modern booksellers. But this book is a deep-cover agent, which comes not to join the ranks of ‘self-esteem’ publishing but to undermine them. Finding Sanctuary may be, in one sense, a how-to book – it describes ‘seven steps from the monastic tradition’ that will enable people to create their own sanctuary, adding: ‘This sanctuary is built by heart and mind, but it is not less real for that.’ Nor is the job of building it any less arduous. Jamison lays into ‘the lie of the divine self’, the This book is a deepmiscover agent, which use by some comes not to join the in the ranks of ‘self-esteem’ perpublishing but to sonal develundermine them. opment industry of ‘marketable slices’ of true religion, ‘pick and mix’ spirituality and the tendency of some modern spiritual movements to declare that: ‘Truth is personal.’ The abovementioned alternative lifestyle, the personal, virtual sanctuary prescribed by the book, by contrast, has to have a solid religious base. ‘So I want to suggest that finding sanctuary requires that you freely chose to place yourself in the context of the Church or of some other classic religion. You may eventually want to join that Church or religion, but you should certainly ask for its wisdom and guidance if you are to make real spiritual progress.’ This raises questions. Is the notion of sanctuary supposed to lead the nonreligious to the faith, and, if so, is this book likely to persuade its (presumed) target audience, including the so-called ‘alpha males’ who describe themselves as ‘spiritual but not religious’? And will they take to a book that appears ‘spiritual’ but is actually ‘religious’ in such numbers as to propel the Abbot to the ranks of Hawking, Hutton, Schumacher et al? Possibly. A book about the NATO alliance, written by Dr Henry Kissinger and entitled The Troubled Partnership, sold modestly, as may have been expected. Except in one bookshop, where it flew off the shelves. Intrigued, Kissinger investigated and discovered that, in this particular store, it had been put in the section covering advice on personal relationships. One final thought, should the Abbot find himself alongside the abovementioned blockbusting authors. They sold many books, but there is some doubt how many of those copies were ever read. For someone more interested in religion than royalties that really would be a tragedy. 25 The Bible - In 50 Words Sent in by Pat MacDonald God Made Adam Bit Noah Arked Abraham Split Joseph Ruled Jacob Fooled Bush Talked Moses Balked Pharoah Plagued People Walked Sea Divided Tablets Guided Promise Landed Saul Freaked David Peeked Prophets Warned Jesus Born God Walked Love Talked Anger Crucified Hope Died Love Rose Spirits Flamed 26 WHY CAN’T CATHOLICS SING? C atholics can’t sing. It is a well known fact. Pages, books even, have been written, pointing this out. Charles Moore, the high-profile journalist-convert, once admitted that the attempts at singing and modern churches were very much a price he had to pay for leaving the Anglican church and joining the Catholic. But why do Catholics have this reputation? And is it true: can’t Catholics sing? In an interview with PQ, Michael Oakley, Worth school’s Director of Music, dismissed the suggestion. “Everybody can sing,” he insisted. But this “reputation” has its roots in events more than 40 years ago. Up until that time, there was a strong Catholic musical tradition. But most church goers were only involved in quite a peripheral way. Either the celebrant was singing or the choir – or both. There was plain chant, Latin and sung Masses and the parishioner was often left busily saying her rosary – apparently oblivious to all. This state of affairs was, of course, challenged by the Second Vatican Council, which called for greater participation in all things. The response was swift. Out went the plain chant. Out went the Latin. And in came hymns aimed at fostering greater participation – complete with catchy tunes and memorable choruses. Quiet rosaries in the middle of Mass were not encouraged. In many cases the old choirs lost support and gradually dwindled, leaving the congregation alone to sing in the new style. Many did so with gusto and embraced the opportunity. But it is this move that has lain at the heart of the repeated accusations that Catholics can’t sing. Compared with Anglican churches, which have had their choirs and the tradition of fine music throughout; Catholics, critics claim, threw the baby out… Times are changing again though. In recent years, plain chant has made it into the music charts, choirs and choral works have been gaining in popularity and both have reappeared in churches alongside communal singing. Some churches now even advertise their services with direct reference to the music on offer, so it is possible to pick from Handel, Mozart or Latin on many Sundays in London. Considering the pleasure and solace that music provides, there are few subjects as divisive. Talk about church music and it is doubly so. Everyone has their own ideas, everyone has their own likes – and dislikes. Some recall with fondness “Faith of Our Fathers” and “God Bless Our Pope” and seethe at the likes of “Shine Jesus Shine” and “The Baker Woman”. The reverse is true for others. It is a minefield. And who would wish to make such contentious decisions – possibly incurring the wrath of some, all or none? Step forward Mr Oakley, who has been director of music for the last 14 years. On many Sundays, Worth’s church goers can hear the 50-strong boys’ choir in full voice and a variety of music – including motets, plain chant and hymns of… every type. Mr Oakley declared: “I’m unasham- 27 edly pro beautiful texts, music and liturgy. Although the boys, of all ages, are well It does touch the inner person.” used to “performing”, Mr Oakley insisted And he said: “Those in larger churches that services at Worth are never turned into have a responsibility to promote and maina “performance”. There are never moments tain the best tradition of Catholic music.” when everyone is waiting for the choir to He is very keen to draw out finish before the Mass can proSome recall the “monastic dimension” in ceed. And Mr Oakley stressed with fondness there are always times during the music at the Abbey. “It’s a wonderfully prayerful way of the liturgy, such as the psalm, “Faith of Our communicating.” and hymns at which everyone Fathers” and Mr Oakley maintained: is able – and positively encour“God Bless Our aged - to participate. “There is a line of argument which says, if you’re not ac“We have a responsibility to Pope” and tively doing it [singing] then be of service to the wider comseethe at the you’re not engaged…But there munity,” he said. 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We also provide a full range of Memorial Stones with no V.A.T. cost 29 DONKEYS NEVER GIVE UP - DO YOU? A story by Angus Mac Donald T he farmer had a problem. His problem happy but came to the sad conclusion that was Pablo, the donkey who had been it must be done. And so, early next mornaround the farm forever. He was getting ing, the farmer and his men set out to fill in old and was beginning to find a day’s work the well. too much, although he still tried his best. As the first shovelfuls of earth fell on him The farmer looked after him, fed and wapoor old Pablo was disgusted with his mastered him, but times were hard. The probter and brayed even louder. His spirits sank lem was: what to do about Pablo. Nobody as the earth fell on him. And then, all at would buy him and he cost money. once, an idea came to him which was nothThere was an unused well, which had ing short of brilliant. If, as each shovelful dried up years ago, on the farm which the landed on his back, he shook off the earth farmer planned to fill in and use the space and then stepped up onto it he must be for new sheds. One evening, Pablo had raised up. finished his work and was wanNow, the men shovelling the dering round the yard not lookearth could not see what was Simple rules to happening ing where he was going. As he at the bottom and happiness: free after some time were staggered passed the old well, he missed his footing, slipped and fell. your heart from to see Pablo’s ears then head All of a sudden, he found himappear. Spade by spade he rose hatred and self in a small confined dark until with a bray of triumph he space, with only a little circle worries and live stepped out onto solid ground of darkening sky way up above simply, give all, and trotted off around the yard. him. He brayed loudly again Pablo had saved himself. take less but and again in the hope someAs the day wore on the farmer body would hear. began to see what wise Pablo always have The farmer heard and ran to had shown them all. Pablo had hope in your worked hard all his life for small investigate. He soon realised what had happened. But there return but faced with a real probheart and was nothing to be done in the had realised that the trick NEVER give up. lem dark. He dropped some food was to shake off what fell on down the well, and the farmer went to seek him and take a step up. Each trouble in life, advice from his neighbours. he thought, is just a stepping stone and I A full-scale rescue would be expensive, can get out of the deepest well if I never and cash was short, so his neighbours said give up. The farmer thought long and hard the sensible thing to do was simply to fill and saw that Pablo’s life and his very in the well on top of the donkey. This clever escape had demonstrated some simwould have several advantages. It would ple rules to happiness: free your heart from avoid the cost of rescuing the expendable hatred and worries and live simply, give old donkey and fill in the well. It made all, take less but always have hope in your good business sense. The farmer was not heart and NEVER give up. 30 Fun, friendly French Course for Adults Do you spend time in France and need to get to grips with the language? Perhaps you are thinking of getting a holiday home in France? Maybe your French is simply rusty and in need of some polishing? Fed up of relying on your children to do the ordering in the restaurant? Whether starting from scratch or simply in need or a refresher course, we can offer a rewarding course to suit you. 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George Fitzsimons O n 26 February the parish held its first Justice and Peace Fair, and a host of local and national charities working in this field came to Worth to promote awareness of their activities and seek the involvement and support of parishioners. The event was held after Mass, to ensure that as many people as possible had the opportunity to browse the stands and talk to the volunteers who had come along to represent the charities. The event generated considerable interest, our visitors were pleased and the event will probably be repeated next year. The members of the parish J&P group would like to continue the links we made with the organisations who came to the fair and continue to support them as much as possible, whether financially or by introducing parishioners who can help in other ways. Local initiatives Crawley Open House The Day Centre The Easter Team Gatwick Detainees Welfare Group Jubilee Action (national/ international, but Guildford HQ) Monica Cantwell Trust SVP (national, but works through local groups) National charities CAFOD Fair Trade and Traidcraft We have borne this desire to maintain and strengthen existing links in mind when planning our events for the rest of the year, which we hope will include: Two evening speaker events, one considering issues relating to injustice in developing countries and the situation of refugees from overseas detained by the Home Office. There will be an opportunity to discuss the issues raised informally with each other and with the speakers over a simple meal. Donations will be given to the speakers’ organisations. Two coffee mornings, one focussing on the work of the local Day Centre and seeking volunteers to support it. We are considering other possible activities, for example to engage younger members, but we are keen to concentrate our efforts on a few events done well rather than to try to do too much and dilute our efforts. We will advertise our next events and would encourage you to attend, if at all possible. We intend to make our meetings open to all, sociable and with the opportunity to meet people who are making a real difference in the world. The Justice & Peace Group are: Cynthia Hayne ([email protected]), Liz Bennett ([email protected]), Geraldine Constable ([email protected]), Jill Carter ([email protected]), Chris Dobson ([email protected]) and George Fitzsimons ([email protected]). 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Just call or email for a prompt response to your IT requirements. Email: [email protected] www.spwebconnections.co.uk www.crawleydownvillage.co.uk 33 A PILGRIMAGE TO PERU Christina Fitzsimons reports on the Worth parents’ expedition P eru is a country of paradoxes. Macroeconomic statistics show a relatively rich country with valuable exports of minerals (including gold and silver), oil and gas and a thriving fishing industry. It has ideal conditions for growing exotic fruits. It was too wealthy to be given debt relief in 2000. But, the micro-economic statistics show a different picture. Fifty per cent of the population live in poverty and a further 20 per cent live in extreme poverty. Twenty five per cent of children suffer from malnutrition. How can this be? How could the Sendero Luminoso’s reign of terror in the 1980’s and 1990’s lead to the death of nearly 70,000 people? The full extent of the slaughter was only known recently. Why is there discrimination against the indigenous people when the majority of Peruvians are indigenous or mixed race? These were some of the issues we learnt about in the first few days of our visit. We had lectures from distinguished academics, many from Lima’s prestigious Catholic University. One of the most moving talks was given by Felix Reategui, a quietlyspoken man who served on the country’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission. The Commission took 17,000 testimonies from victims of the Sendero Luminoso and of the indiscriminate military reprisals. Felix interviewed the leader of the Sendero Luminoso, a university professor called Abimail Guzman. He is unrepentant and believes that he is on a par with Marx, Lenin and Mao. His aim was to destroy the institutions of Peru, including the Church, and to build a neo-Maoist republic. So, armed with some knowledge, we set off to see some of the country. We flew to Cusco, 11,000 feet up in the Andes. It is a tourist town and, as a result, is insulated to some extent from rural poverty. Even so the life of a subsistence farmer (campesino) is tough and financially unrewarding. The Andes are an inhospitable terrain for farming and a long way from Lima, the most lucrative market. From Cusco we took a spectacular four-hour train journey down into the jungle to see Macchu Picchu. Then, the really important, life-changing part of the journey began. We split into five groups, each staying with people working on the ‘front line’. I stayed with two Irish nuns, Sisters Mary and Gemma, who live in Villa El Salvador, a poor suburb of Lima. It was desert until about 30 years ago. Its first inhabitants were mainly Andean campesinos fleeing the Sendero Luminoso. They squatted on the barren land, built shacks to live in and started a new life in a very challenging environment. But the area has progressed enormously. The main roads are surfaced; there is running water, sanitation and electricity. Regular rubbish collections, introduced a year ago, have reduced the piles of rotting 34 garbage in the streets. Trees are being planted (each needs to be watered) and many homeowners have started to plant little gardens. Most houses are now made of concrete or brick and there are many small businesses. Huge problems remain, including unemployment (and underemployment), malnutrition, family break up and tuberculosis. Sister Mary took us to visit the local TB clinic which treats more than 300 patients a year. It also teaches handicrafts, which gives patients a means of earning a small income while they are recovering and helps patients, who are often rejected by their community, rebuild their self-esteem. The dedi- cation of the staff was remarkable. One vivid memory is of visiting the local soup kitchen which Anna runs from her house. She and her friends cook lunch daily for 120 people. They go out early to buy cheap rice, vegetables and meat from the market and Anna proudly boasts that her meals are the best in the district. Sister Gemma took us to see two districts on the edge of Villa El Salvador that have only recently been built on. Families live in tiny shacks built of wooden panels or reed matting and there is no running water or sanitation. My fellow pilgrims had different experiences. Some went up to Chiclayo in the north of the country some to Sicuani (high up in the Andes). There were two other groups in Lima. Fellow parishioners Nicholas Burridge and Mike Goodridge stayed with American Jesuits in El Agustino, a very deprived suburb of Lima. They were very impressed by the work being done there. Nicholas wrote: “If any one thing stood out it was the people themselves, their smiles, their cheeriness, their love and happiness in the work they were doing together, it was a golden thread that ran through all those we met. We were sad to leave them for they had given us so much.” I felt we met some living saints in Peru. Among these I would include Father Jorge Alvarez, a Peruvian priest who has devoted his life to the poor. Quietly spoken, he radiates holiness. He encouraged us to live in active solidarity with the poor as a sign of our love for God and our commitment to each other. He asked us to be open to the Lord and to each other, denying our own pride and selfishness and recognising our lack of self-sufficiency. You can fine out more about Worth Abbey Outreach Peru (formerly 'Friends of Peru') from Father Alex: [email protected]. A new website is under construction. 35 Ashdown Art at Pheasant Framing Full framing service by Guild-commended framer Ready-made frames Ashdown artists and views on show Trade and commercial enquiries welcome Cookhams Dairy, Sharpthorne. Tel 01342 810177 Welcome to and enjoy the excellent value fine wines of Spain Information about our wines are shown on our web site, www.burridgewine.com Price Lists available on request Burridges of Arlington St Burridge House, Priestley Way, Crawley, Sussex RH10 9NT Tel: 01293 530151 Fax: 01293 530104 Email: [email protected] Office Hours: Monday to Friday, 10 am to 4 pm Shippers of fine wines from Spain 36 PrayerSchool Dom Peter Williams I n the last edition of PQ I tried to give an explanation of what prayer is, and I hope I rooted it in being in touch with a sense of ‘being’ within, which takes us beyond ourselves. In this edition I would like to explore where this sense of being comes from. In our everyday lives I think we generally situate our sense of ‘being’ as being directly related to our everyday needs. The need: to eat, to sleep, to drink, to be successful, to be loved, to have enough money to live the kind of life we think we deserve. When these needs are not met we can often feel ‘down’, tense, or just sad. These feelings have now become the ground of our ‘being’. This ‘ground’ has become (as Jesus says) like sand, if we build our house (our life) on it then the house will inevitably fall – there is just too much movement. The antidote to this is (as Jesus says) to build our lives on rock. The journey of prayer then is to find this rock with ourselves and to make it the centre of our lives. We therefore do not need to look for this rock in a book, or in someone else or in anything outside of us – but in ourselves. When we start to pray we generally start in the sand, but as we become more in touch with ourselves we begin to realise that beyond the ‘demanding me’ that we first encounter, there is a ‘quiet me’ that just is. It resides within me, often ignored. Normally I discount it, because it seems powerless and ineffectual. In prayer, however, when we come into contact with this ‘me’, we befriend it, and we find that it has a rock like quality - it is always there. While we are constantly in flux in our thoughts, it is constant to us by its presence. At the beginning of the journey this rock is the size of a mustard seed, but as we allow it to grow by being present to it in times of stillness and silence, it becomes a living force within us that we become united to. What has, in fact, happened is that we have come to a sense of oneness with our spirit, and it is through this that God becomes present to us. The great discovery of this journey is that God comes to us, and is most present to us through the very essence of who we are. To approach God therefore we do not have to learn a magic formula, we just have to have the humility to be content with, and to live fully from who we are – what a relief. The fruit of this way of being and living is that our outward physical and human form becomes fully energised and inspired by our spiritual nature. When this happens God starts to work and live powerfully through us without us even having to think about it. Spirituality no longer becomes an effort to do the right thing, but becomes a spontaneous response to the gift of life. 37 Mass Offerings A Source of Income for St Joseph’s Monastery in India through Mass offered for people you love These Benedictine monks are close neighbours and great supporters of the Sisters of Grace & Compassion at Makkiyad in the hills of Kerala The monks offer free/assisted places to poor children in their school Please send a list of names/Mass intentions, with a sterling cheque to: Fr Anselm Pallithazath OSB St Joseph’s Benedictine Monastery Makkiyad 670 731 Wayanad Kerala, S. 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We were supposed to have an Israeli Christian guide but in the event our guide was Avi – an experienced Jewish Israeli guide. Abbot Christopher said a pilgrimage to the Holy Land is like discovering a fifth Gospel – and I don’t mean the gospel of Judas. Our eyes were opened to the beauty of the desert, Galilee and Jerusalem. Our hearts were opened to the Word of God. The pilgrimage was planned to start in the desert following the steps of Moses, Abraham – and Jesus. We were then to proceed to Galilee, before making our way to Jerusalem. The ten days of our trip could have been expanded to weeks or even years. Holy Week and Easter this year has been enhanced by our visit to Jerusalem. On our first day in the city we visited the Mount of Olives and prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane. We processed into the city, as Jesus did with his disciples on Palm Sunday. We prayed at the Western (or wailing) wall and visited the Dome of the Rock – sacred to the Muslims. Our re-enactment of Holy Week continued with a visit to the place commemorated as the Upper Room, where the last supper took place as well as the coming of the Holy Spirit. We visited Caiaphas’s House, where Peter denied he knew Jesus and the cock crowed, and thence to the Antonia Fortress or Praetorium, Pilate’s headquarters, where Jesus was condemned to death. It was very poignant to stand on the very Pavement where Jesus stood at that moment. Engraved on the stone floor, a game the soldiers played with prisoners – the game included scourging, dressing the victim as a king and mocking him before gruesomely killing the unfortunate victim. We followed the Via Dolorosa through the winding alleyways of Jerusalem and recalled the first Stations of the Cross. Eventually we arrived at the place St Helen identified as Golgotha, where Jesus was crucified, died and was buried. It was a busy and dark memorial, the Holy Sepulchre basilica. Whilst remembering the sacred mysteries, we were pleased to be taken to a very different place – the Garden Tomb. Here there was a tomb hewn out of the rock – and it was empty….As we celebrated an intimate Eucharist in the garden we knew for certain Christ had truly risen – Alleluia! 40 TRAIDCRAFT FAIR TRADE is a POSITIVE response to POVERTY Cotton on to Fairtrade! Be cool in your Fairly Traded Cotton Extending Fairtrade certification to cotton is good news for small cotton farmers in India, Peru, Senegal and Mali Like his father before him, Khima Ranchhod has farmed cotton all his life but in 2001/02 prices fell to the lowest for 30 years because of subsidies paid to cotton producers in the West. Now he can sell to the UK Fairtrade market he will receive a stable price for his crop. 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