march 2015 - Congregation Sons of Israel
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march 2015 - Congregation Sons of Israel
Congregation Sons of Israel CONTINUING THE VISION — BUILDING OUR FUTURE MARCH 2015 10 Adar—11 Nisan 5775 MARCH DATES TO REMEMBER: Mar. 4 Mar. 4, 4:30-6:00 Mar. 4, 7:00 Mar. 8, 9:00-11:00 Mar. 8, 11:00-1:00 Mar. 10, 12:30 Mar. 10, 7:30 Mar. 13, 6:00 Mar. 14 Mar. 15, 9:00-1:30 Mar. 17 Mar. 20, 7:00 Mar. 21, 10:30 Mar. 21, 11:00 Mar. 22, 9:00-11:00 Mar. 26, 7:30 Mar. 27 Mar. 29-Apr. 12 Apr. 1, 11:00 NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL. EREV PURIM. PJ Library Purim Program Megillah Reading & Rollerblading Alef Siddur Cover Workshop Purim Carnival HaMishpacha Luncheon. Rabbi Kane shares an AIPAC Recap. Sisterhood Bunco Night (see page 18) NS Shabbat dinner and Tot Shabbat USY Shul-In BLOOD DRIVE NS pictures. See page 8 for times. Gimel Shabbat, Shabbat Rocks/Family Night Family Shabbat Tot Shabbat Family Passover Workshop Texas Hold ‘Em and March Madness NO NS. Parent/Teacher Conferences. NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL. SPRING VACATION. Nursery School Seder [note date change] More info on page 12! page 2 page 3 page 4 page 5 page 6 page 7 page 8 page 9 page 9 Adult volunteers are needed to sell tickets and food. Please let Roni know if you are available to help. More info on page 18! PROJECT EZRA PASSOVER FOOD DRIVE Join CSI in providing Kosher for Passover food for Jews on the Lower East Side. & USY & Kadima Events From The Rabbi Kol Nidre Pledges (cont’d) Cantorial Notes Nursery & R.S. News Religious School News Nursery School Picture Times Mazal Tov and Condolences Babysitters sunday, march 8 11:00-1:00 Recent Donations Texas Hold ‘Em Form Purim Happenings Men’s Club Yom Hashoah This Month’s B’Nai Mitzvah Blood Drive Information Calendar Breakfast Run Information From our Rabbinic Fellow See page 26 for more details! page 10 page 12 page 14 page 15 page 16 page 17 page 19 page 20 page 24 Miss Chocolate Order Form page 25 Social Action Committee page 26 Project Ezra Passover Drive page 26 Birthdays and Anniversaries page 28 Sisterhood News page 29 Passover Guide page 30 Sale of Hametz Form page 32 Advertisements page 33 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS! Page 2 Congregation Sons of Israel Congregation Sons of Israel 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Phone: (914) 762-2700 Fax: (914) 941-3465 www.csibriarcliff.org [email protected] OUR MISSION STATEMENT (adopted 1999, revised 2007): Congregation Sons of Israel is an egalitarian, Conservative synagogue dedicated to imparting Jewish values and traditions from generation to generation in a welcoming participatory environment. We are a caring community committed to lifelong Jewish learning, the observance of mitzvot, meaningful prayer and charitable deeds. We promote spiritual, cultural and social connections within our community, to the State of Israel, and to Jews worldwide. Rabbi Steven C. Kane [email protected] Cantor Jeffrey Shiovitz [email protected] Educational Director: Roni Shapiro Ben-David [email protected] Synagogue Director: Ellen Green Johnson [email protected] School Admin./Office Mgr.: Doreen Gioio [email protected] OFFICERS: Jack Zinn, President [email protected] Steven Bender, VP Aaron Gershowitz, VP Lisa Goodkin, VP Roberta Kay, VP Bob Margolies, Treasurer [email protected] Eric Nadler, VP, Secretary Andrew Kagan, Past President Bulletin Editor: Jolie Levy [email protected] Bulletin Printer: THE DEADLINE FOR ENTRIES IN THE APRIL BULLETIN IS TUESDAY, MARCH 10. March 2015 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 3 FROM THE RABBI Steven C. Kane Most of us were born after World War ll, and so we have no direct memory of what the world was like in the middle of the 20th century. Yet, it is likely that our parents or even grandparents fought in the "war to end all wars", and they have passed some of those memories down to us. One of those memories was that in the wake of the Shoah, perhaps the greatest human tragedy in Jewish history, it appeared that real anti-Semitism was finished, that the threat to Jewish lives was no longer significant. It was one thing to have quotas in colleges (so we created Brandies University), or to keep us out of certain country clubs (we just built our own, bigger and better) or not allow us into certain professions (we became doctors and lawyers, not bankers), but it seemed that the world now realized that if someone could seek to murder an entire people once, it could do it again, and armed with that knowledge it would never happen again. During the last quarter of the 20th century it seemed to many of us that this idea continued to advance. Quotas in colleges disappeared and most Ivy League school flourished with Jewish populations that approached 30% or more. Almost all professions were now open to us, and while there were still more than a few country clubs that had no Jews, that was not such a big deal. The great Jewish populations that remained at risk after the second World War war ended were rapidly finding their way to freedom. There were still 3 million or so Jews in the former Soviet Union, but towards the end of the 1970's emigration increased from a trickle to more than 50,000 a year. In the 1980's the first airlift of Ethiopian Jews occurred, and Israel became the first country in the world to welcome thousands of Africans "back home". Finally, in 1993 the Oslo Peace Accords were signed, and Israel began to normalize relations with some of its former enemies, including Egypt and Jordan. It felt like we were finally on the way to being able to simply live our lives as Jews in whatever country we lived in; we were as safe as any other citizen. We would no longer be targeted for violence simply because we were Jews. HaMishpacha With Rabbi Kane Tuesday, March 10, 12:30 p.m. (LUNCH WILL BE SERVED) JOIN RABBI KANE FOR A RECAP OF THE 2015 AIPAC CONFERENCE As the saying goes, "that was then, this is now". While we feel (relatively) safe in the United States, over the past few months we have seen terrorists target the idea of a free press, and then Jews. We have witnessed radical Islamists who first target society in general, and then attack specific Jewish targets like synagogues, most recently in Copenhagen, and a kosher grocery in Paris. If you want to see how people really feel about Jews in Europe, watch the You Tube video, "10 Hours of Walking as a Jew in Paris". As always, we turn to our tradition at times like these. Shortly, we will celebrate the holiday of Purim. The evil Haman represents those who would try to wipe us out from the face of the earth. He says to King Ahasueras, "There is a certain people, scattered and dispersed among the other peoples of your realm, whose laws are different from those of any other peoples...it is not in Your Majesty's interest to tolerate them" (Esther 3:8). How is it that we triumphed in the end? Victory began when Queen Esther, whose religion/nationality was hidden, revealed to the king that she was a Jew. In other words, when she embraced her Judaism, redemption came! That is a great lesson for all of us. The only way we can defeat the Hamans of the world, whether they lived 2500 years ago or flourish today (many from that very country Haman came from, Persia, today called Iran) is to embrace our Judaism, to celebrate our traditions and make Judaism an important part of our lives. Each week as Shabbat ends, we quote the words of the Book of Esther (8:16) , "The Jews enjoyed light and gladness, happiness and honor" adding our own words, "so it should be for us". We fight those who hate us by immersing ourselves in our tradition, celebrating and rejoicing in it. So it should be for us. Lhitraot, HaMishpacha means “the family.” This is a group for couples and singles over 65. Each month, a different musical, cultural, social or educational program will be presented. For more information, please call Cantor Jeffrey Shiovitz at 923-0175. GREET OLD FRIENDS/MEET NEW ONES! Page 4 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 KOL NIDRE 5775 [It’s never too late to make a contribution!] Every contribution helps us to meet our annual operating budget. Thank you to those whose donations were already received. We will publish more names as they come in. Recent contributions: Marc & Beth Roth Sharon Orenstein Dear Parents: We are pleased to announce the opening of registration for the 2015-2016 school year. Every day at our nursery school is special with loving teachers and incredible children! We are very proud of our program. A detailed description of what we do here at CSI can be found in our parent handbook. You may also call the office or e-mail us to arrange a time for an individual visit to meet with me, discuss our program and spend some time in the classrooms. In addition to all that we offer our students, the CSI Nursery School has an active parent’s association, which is a great way for parents to connect with one another. If you have a child not yet ready for Nursery School, we have a “CSI Playgroup” program for under 2’s. Contact the office for more information. As if that wasn’t enough, CSI has a fantastic Summer Camp, which includes a special “almost 2's” program. Contact Aimee Axelrod, Camp Director or check the CSI website. Of course, all Nursery School families are welcome to join as CSI members at any time. Those who are members enjoy a tuition discount, which you will see outlined in the registration packet. While the CSI Nursery School is an active part of Congregation Sons of Israel, children of all faiths are welcome and comfortable with us. And finally, if you are looking for either an early drop off or afternoon enrichment please contact Kid’s Karousel ([email protected]) which meets at CSI. All registration forms and the parent handbooks are available on our website (csibriarcliff.org). We are happy to share that our fee schedule is all inclusive. Tuition fees include the cost of snacks for the year and the Nursery School Shabbat dinner. You will not be asked to pay for anything additional. Sincerely, Roni Shapiro Ben-David Educational Director March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 5 CANTORIAL NOTES Hazzan Jeffrey Shiovitz I feel a little apologetic about writing in a serious vein for Purim, but as dear as the silly side of Purim is to me, I think there are deep lessons to be learned in the midst of the frivolity. The Purim story is about telling the truth. To begin with, the story itself is clearly a fable with no foundation. The Bible challenges us with an outrageous story that defies possibility. How do we read this tale? Where is our demand for probability, or morality, or God’s presence to reassure us somehow that these bizarre events have some ring of truth? The story turns on moments of truth and falsehood. Vashti is vanquished because she won’t let the king’s reality overshadow her own. Esther is admitted to the harem because she doesn’t tell the truth about her Jewish heritage. Mordecai sets up the deception. Haman can’t stand it that Mordecai stands (literally - he won’t bow) for the truth of his heritage. It’s as though Haman loses the truth of his own power and status just to confront Mordecai’s truth. Esther grows so comfortable with her status in the palace that she does not want to jeopardize herself by telling the king what really is about to happen at the hand of Haman. The king can’t tell real from unreal. Even when Haman is ultimately unmasked and vanquished because Esther finally tells the truth, unlikely events test our imagination. When the king first learns of Haman’s guilt, he leaves to go for a walk, as if to turn his back on the truth he has just learned. It is true that the king cannot contravene a previous decree, and so the king won’t call off the plan to kill the Jews? Is he being more true to his monarchy by insisting that Persia’s citizens slaughter each other? Truth is basic to all relationships. Could you love someone you could not trust? Is there any hurt so deep as the betrayal of a lie? Friendships are made and lost on the reliabilty of words between people. Jewish tradition at every turn tries to make us aware of the powerful impact of the words we speak. And we are challenged to make sure that the deeds we do and the words we speak are of one expression. One of the ways to read the Purim story is to see that God never is mentioned and seems to be ab- sent in the narrative. Maybe we can understand that where people are not truthful, God is not present. In the midst of our silliness on Purim, make a little space for being horrified by the absence of truth in this story. Feel it viscerally. In Psalm 145, words familiar in our liturgy as Ashrei, we say in verse 18, “God is near to all who call, to all who call upon God in Truth.” We must listen closely and carefully to each other, and rely on our own truthfulness to summon God’s presence into our lives. Oh, I just can’t resist a little Purim wisdom: “Percussive maintenance” is the art of beating on an electronic device to get it to work. Good advice is something a person gives when he is too old to set a bad example. Why are gas station bathrooms locked? Are they afraid someone will clean them? Don’t sweat the petty things, and don’t pet the sweaty things! WANT TO JOIN THE CSI CHOIR? If you sing tenor or bass and would like to sing with the CSI Choir, please call either Judy Boehr (762-1984) or Cantor Shiovitz (923-0175). Page 6 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 7 RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS Roni Shapiro, Educational Director Be happy! Adar is here, and that means Purim is coming! In all of our programs, we will be reading the story of how Queen Esther saved the Jewish people against the evil Haman. Besides lots of fun, we will focus on two underlining themes of Purim: being proud of who you are, and standing up for what you believe. Megillah reading and fun programs: On March 4, children aged up to 2nd grade come in costume from 4:30-6:00 for our PJ Library Purim extravaganza. We will parade in costume, play Purim games, eat hamentaschen, do arts & crafts, hear some Megillah, eat a light dinner and, of course, make lots of noise to block out Haman’s name. *Alef class (3rd graders), there are no Religious school classes that day. For our 3rd graders through adults, at 7:00 we will start our Megillah reading with groggers, noise makers, and a rollerblading party. If you have your own skates bring them, otherwise Roller America will provide them. Come in costume and get special goodies! Wear a costume that is rollerblading friendly! *There is no Religious school that day so that all may do their homework and then come join the fun! Bar/t Mitzvah Credit Alert! Come in costume, Dalet & Heh, to the 7:00 Megillah Reading and get double credit. Nursery school Seudah: on Thursday morning, March 5, our Nursery school will be in costume (including our teachers) and come together for a silly breakfast, Purim Shpiel and Purim songs. Purim Carnival: Sunday, March 8. Save the date. This is a fun event for all ages. Bring your friends. Tickets will be sold that morning. Rides, carnival games, prizes, food and fun. 11:00-1:00 all are welcome! Religious school will come for regular classes 9:0011:00 and then go to the carnival. Don’t forget to see Tyler Cohen or Melissa Stern about our Kids Kloset children’s clothing collection that morning. Kadima & USY: Come help set up the carnival Saturday night, March 7, and work the carnival on March 8. Baking: Who makes Hamentaschen? In this synagogue, if you are between the ages of 2 and 18, you will be baking Hamentaschen! Mishloach Manot: goody bags – yes all ages make Mishloach Manot (Purim goody bags) and are supposed to give them to someone to wish them a Happy Purim. Regretfully, they usually get eaten before they make it home. Sorry, probably won’t be healthy. Food to the needy: It is traditional on Purim to feed the hungry. Even when we are rejoicing and feasting on yummy food, we help others. See Elan Roth’s list of needs for our Midnight Run- Breakfast Run scheduled for March 15 (page 18) and our Project Ezra Passover Food Drive (page 24) needs. Guess what? Passover is coming! Our kindergarten, first, second and Lev classes will be coming together with their families on March 22 to learn about Passover (page 30). Don’t miss the fun! JUNIOR CONGREGATION KADIMA SERVICE A special learning service for Alef, Bet and Gimel A special learning service for 6th and 7th graders Saturday, March 7, 14 11:00-12:00 YES! SERVICE CREDIT IS GIVEN! Saturday, March 21 10:30-12:00 (Upstairs) YES! SERVICE CREDIT IS GIVEN! (put your service card in front of the box) (put your service card behind the tab that says “Shabbat Morning Attendance behind here”) Service is led by Tami Drucker Future Junior Congregation Dates: Apr. 18, 25; May 2, 16 Service is led by Sheera Zuckerman Future Kadima Service Date: Apr. 18 PLEASE REMEMBER that both Junior Congregation and Kadima Services take place on Shabbat. Children, as well as anyone else coming inside the building on Shabbat, should be dressed appropriately. Shabbat is a “special” and holy time, and children should wear “special” clothing. No sweatpants, jeans, sports uniforms, etc. Page 8 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 Have a friend or neighbor interested in synagogue life? Ask them to contact one of the following: Roberta Bar-Levav, Membership Chair, at [email protected] or Ellen Johnson, Synagogue Director, at [email protected]. We welcome inter-faith families! Interfaith parents are full participants in all life cycle events, programs, and classes and are welcome to serve on CSI's committees. Every Child Deserves A Jewish Education! Please Support our Lev Program! Donations are needed to pay for our Lev program for the 2014-2015 school year. Lev means “heart.” CSI believes that all children, regardless of their developmental, emotional or cognitive challenges, should receive a Jewish education. These special children are mainstreamed into our classes, or, if necessary, are placed in a self-contained special Lev class. Many people in the past few years have given generously to support our Lev program. Without their support, we could not have given children with varying emotional, behavioral and learning needs the opportunity to join our Religious School program. We help children who range from developmentally delayed to autistic. Thanks to your generous donations, they, too, can have a Jewish education. Please make donations to the Mitzner Family Tuition Assistance Fund indicating they are to be used for the Lev Program. The Gift Shop of CSI, Matanah, is open during Sunday Religious School hours. Come take a look at the wonderful gifts available, some of which are imported from Israel. For assistance outside of Matanah hours, please send an email to [email protected]. PICTURE DAY AT CSI NURSERY SCHOOL On Monday and Tuesday, March 16 and 17, the photographer will be at CSI to take our annual nursery school pictures. The schedule is as follows: March 16: 2’s Toni & Beverley 4’s Aimee & Maris March 17: 3’s Faith & Sue 3’s Michelle & Tami 4’s Lori & Elizabeth As always, we will be offering sibling portraits. Sign up in the office. If you have any questions, please contact the office at 762-2700 or email [email protected]. March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 9 Mazal Tov to: Marc and Beth Roth on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Elan. Daniel Silvershein and Judy Schwab on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Jack. Robert and Marissa Greenfeld on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Justin. Richard and Cindy Katz on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, David, in Israel. Condolences to: Libby Spitzer on the loss of her father, Marvin Leonard Heller. Scott Yules on the loss of his father, Morton “Roy” Yules. Lisa Zimmerman on the loss of her brother, Eric Vandercar. We mourn the loss of CSI member Miriam Shignon, wife of Todd Greenberg. Get Well Wishes to: David Metzger, Ann Studen KATYA DIDONATO SARAH DOLGIN DANIEL BIRNBAUM KATIE KATZ LILY WOOLF MARISSA LEWIS WALTER HOLZBERG ZOE SCHEIER 8TH GRADE 8TH GRADE 11TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 10TH GRADE 11TH GRADE 11TH GRADE 11TH GRADE Briarcliff Briarcliff Briarcliff Chappaqua Chappaqua Croton Ossining Ossining If you would like to contact one of these capable babysitters or would like your name added to our list, please contact the CSI Office at 762-2700 or email us at [email protected]. Page 10 Congregation Sons of Israel CONTRIBUTIONS (received through February 10, 2015) CANTOR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Norman Friedman In memory of Lewis Cohen In honor of Sarah Shiovitz In memory of Clara Schoenfeld Amy & Philip Horowitz and family Judy Rosof Stacey & Richard Charney Henry & Barbara Schoenfeld CARING COMMUNITY In memory of Lewis Cohen Thank you to the Caring Community In memory of Estelle Balog In memory of Julius Eisenstein Ellen & Jack Freeman Nechama Ross Gilbert Balog Sylvia & Susan Eisenstein EDUCATIONAL DIRECTOR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Chana Ben-David In memory of Herb Rude In memory of Marvin Leonard Heller Ira & Ellen Eisenstein Ellen & Jack Freeman Deborah & Richard Yoken Deborah & Richard Yoken Sonia & Paul Kleinman ETZ CHAIM - TREE OF LIFE FUND In memory of Warren Kahn In memory of Barbara Marger In memory of Samuel Cohen In memory of Marilyn Eisenstein In memory of Maxwell Frank Esther Schwartz Arleen Neustein Arleen Neustein Ira & Ellen Eisenstein Michael & Eleanor Frey IRA KESTENBAUM BEAUTIFICATION FUND Mazal Tov on the birth of Rachel Catherine Schoenfeld, granddaughter of Barbara & Henry Schoenfeld Ruth & Mel Speier JEFFREY DITTELMAN/ROBINOV CAMP RAMAH SCHOLARSHIP FUND Best wishes to Eleanor Frey for a speedy recovery Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family Best wishes to Diane Myers for a speedy recovery Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family Best wishes to Annleah Berger for a speedy recovery Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family Best wishes to Donna Hannan for a speedy recovery Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family In memory of Lewis Cohen Faye Dittelman & David Perelman In memory of Herb Rude Faye Dittelman & David Perelman In memory of Stephen Dittelman Faye Dittelman & David Perelman Mazal Tov on the engagement of Sid & Joan Schneider’s daughter, Beth Faye Dittelman & David Perelman Mazal Tov on the birth of Grayson Shae, son of Amy & John Brown-Vignola Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family Mazal Tov on the birth of Julia Devon, daughter of Meredith & Craig Sofer Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family In memory of Harry Fields Ron Hanover In memory of Miriam Shigon Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family In memory of Marvin Leonard Heller Rabbi Steven C. Kane & family KIDDUSH FUND In memory of Clara Schoenfeld In memory of Marion Grosberg In memory of Lilliam Yohalem In memory of Mildred Alpert In memory of Cyril Goodman Henry & Barbara Schoenfeld Jill & Joel Greenstein Nan and Allen Banks Marilyn & Bob Margolies Alan & Debra Goodman March 2015 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel KIDDUSH FUND (cont’d) In memory of Rochelle Kaufman In memory of Harry Fields Debra & Alan Goodman Ron Hanover MITZNER FAMILY SPECIAL EDUCATIONAL NEEDS FUND In honor of Abe & Ben Fein Myrna Fein PRAYER BOOK FUND In memory of Lilliam Yohalem Nan and Allen Banks RABBI'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Ray Watt In memory of David Barish In memory of Norman Friedman In memory of Clara Schoenfeld Richard Watt Debbie & Elliott Barish Amy & Philip Horowtiz and family Henry & Barbara Schoenfeld RACHEL GREENSTEIN CHILDREN'S RESOURCE LIBRARY FUND Speedy recovery to Eleanor Frey Jill & Joel Greenstein In memory of Marion Grosberg Jill & Joel Greenstein RHODA & MEL MILLER TUITION ASSISTANCE FUND In memory of Faye Stahl In memory of Warren Kahn In memory of Lewis Cohen Jane & Richard Taffet Jane & Richard Taffet Friends of Judy Rosof CSI gratefully acknowledges all donations. We strive to list donations completely and accurately. If we have missed any, simply let us know and we will make a special acknowledgment immediately! Your understanding of any inadvertent, human error is very much appreciated! Page 11 Page 12 by k Bac ! d n ma Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 De r la Join the CSI Men’s Club for u p o P & Thursday, March 26, 7:30 p.m. Dinner & Tournament NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY! $18 for 2014-15 Men’s Club Members $54 for Non-Men’s Club CSI Members (includes 2014-15 Men’s Club membership) BRING A FRIEND (Guests are $36) ———————————————————————————————————— Please count me (us) in on March 26! My check, payable to CSI, is enclosed. Name(s): CSI Men’s Club Member? Member? Amount _______________________________________ _____ _____ _____ _______________________________________ _____ _____ _____ _______________________________________ _____ _____ _____ Total enclosed: _____ Mail to: Jolie Levy, CSI, 1666 Pleasantville Road, Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 13 Adults to work with students on Tuesday, Wednesday or Sunday: These volunteers help in classrooms or work one-on-one with our children. You do not have to be fluent in Hebrew, but a basic knowledge of reading Hebrew is necessary. Drop-in volunteers are welcome too. Teenagers interested in a paying job or community service working with children in our Lev program on Sundays from 9-11 AM: These volunteers help in classrooms or work one-on-one with our special needs children. Working with these special needs students is a wonderful mitzvah and looks great on your college application. Work opportunities for our teens are also available on Wednesdays, and community service is available on Tuesdays. Please contact Roni Shapiro. PLEASE JOIN THE CSI WOMEN’S BOOK CLUB! MEETING DATES: MAR. 1 APR. 19 The meetings are all at 7:00 PM at Roni Shapiro’s home: 26 Pocantico Road, Ossining Books include: Jerusalem Maiden by Talia Carner (Jan. 25), The Nazi Officer’s Wife by Edith Hahn Beer, The Midwife of Venice by Roberta Rich, The Other Half of My Soul by Bahia Abrams, The Fruit of Her Hands: The Story of Shira of Ashkenaz by Michele Cameron, The Girl in the Green Sweater by Krytyna Chiger, and Women’s Minyan by Naomi Ragen. OUR MEETINGS ARE FUN AND ENLIGHTENING! MAKE NEW FRIENDS! Nursery School Parents: 2’s, 3's & 4's Parent/Teacher conferences are scheduled for Friday, March 27, 2015. There will be no school that day. Babysitting will be available for children while parents are in for their conferences. The sign-up sheets are posted outside the nursery school rooms. If you are working or not able to come in to sign up, please call your child’s teachers at the nursery school and leave a message for her to call you back. Alternate times for conferences can be arranged with your child’s teachers for a time that is convenient for you. If you have any questions or concerns about this matter, please contact me at the nursery school. Roni Shapiro Thank you to the following people for helping to make our Gimel Family program such a great success: Zachary Mortman – Levi Strauss Josh Mathison- Hank Greenberg Beverley Sarkozi- Golda Meir David Kolbrenner – Moe Berg Marc Roth- Albert Einstein Orit Daly- Jonas Salk Adam Zagoria Moffet – Louis Brandeis Toni Band- Lillian Wald Jamie Cotel- Henrietta Szold Sonia Mathisson- Gertrude Belle Elion And a special thanks to the RS PTA for sponsoring breakfast! Page 14 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 Purim happenings PJ Library Purim program Wednesday, March 4 4:30-6:00pm ********************************* Megillah Reading and Rollerblading party (Feel free to bring your own skates if you have any; if not, we will provide them for you.) Wednesday, March 4 7:00pm - 9:00pm Dalet and Heh get double Bar/Bat Mitzvah credit if they come in costume ******************************************** PURIM CARNIVAL- FOR ALL AGES Sunday, March 8 11:00am – 1:00pm Food, fun, new games for everyone, air castle, dunk tank, etc., more games, rides & prizes for young children. Don’t miss the fun!!!! March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 15 CSI MEN’S CLUB YOM HASHOAH -- LIGHT A YELLOW CANDLE April 15, 2015 REMEMBER THOSE WHO PERISHED TEACH OUR CHILDREN NOW MORE THAN EVER! It has been over sixty years since Nazi concentration camps were liberated, and the Holocaust that claimed six million Jewish lives came to an end. To ensure that the six million did not die in vain and that the Holocaust never happens again, CSI Men’s Club will once again join Jews and others throughout North America by participating in the Yom HaShoah Yellow Candle Program. As the years pass, the memories of those who fell victim to the ultimate hate crime must not diminish. That is why we are encouraging your family and every family at CSI to light just one Yellow Candle on the night of Yom Hashoah Wednesday April 15, 2015. When each family lights a Yellow Candle, it increases the awareness of the Holocaust and perpetuates our commitment to our people. The memory is important because the number of Holocaust survivors is diminishing with each passing day. As we lose this precious link, those who deny the Holocaust ever happened gain strength. Sadly, 20% of all high school students lack any knowledge of the Holocaust. Yom HaShoah candles are a highly visible symbol for keeping the flame alive. Their color recalls the badges Jews were forced to wear in Nazi-occupied Europe, but their flame inspires hope that we can yet make our world a tolerant place to live. As was done last year, the Men’s Club will make every effort to deliver a Yellow Yom Hashoah Candle to every family so that they can light the light that will continue the memory of those who perished. If for some reason you do not wish to receive a candle, please let the office know. We can use your support for this important program. If you can, please help us by sending a donation to the CSI Yom HaShoah Candle Program and we will recognize the memory in a future Bulletin. Thank you in advance for your support. ____$18 ____$36 ____$72 $_____Other In Memory of: _____________________________________________________ Name: _____________________________________________________ Address: _____________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________ Email: _____________________________________________________ Page 16 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 MARCH B’NAI MITZVAH [March 7] My name is Elan Roth. I live in Croton-onHudson with my parents, Beth and Marc, and my two brothers, Sam and Jacob. My sister, Shayna, is in college. Hi, my name is Jack Silvershein. I live with my mom, dad, sister, and dog in the town of Pleasantville. I am excited to share that my Bar Mitzvah is coming up on March fourth I am in the 7 grade at Pierre Van Cortlandt Middle School teenth, two thousand fifteen! I currently am in seventh in Croton. When I’m not at school, you could probably find grade at Briarcliff Middle School, where I have enjoyed me with my friends playing football, basketball or lacrosse, learning and making new friends. At school, I participate in or just hanging out having fun. This fall I played football for soccer and track on the Middle School teams. I enjoy them because they’re fun and I get to meet kids from all over Croton and I am now playing basketball for Croton Modified, TCBL, CYO and CSI, and I am looking forward to play- Westchester. I also play the trombone for the Middle School Band and will soon be going to NYSSMA in the ing lacrosse this spring. This year I was elected as my spring. school’s Vice President. In my studies toward becoming a Bar Mitzvah, I have learned how important it is to perform mitzvot. As a result, I participated in a CSI Midnight Run last fall. My job was to bring donated goods consisting of clothing and other items that were needed in the winter. My dad and I joined other members of the synagogue preparing dinners and traveled to New York City in the middle of the night. We packed small meals and many boxes of clothes and visited four locations. I was so inspired by this experience that I decided to organize a breakfast run this spring for my bar mitzvah project. On March 15th, you are all invited to join me at CSI at 6:00 AM to prepare bagels, eggs and fruit that we will bring to the city to serve an 8:00 AM breakfast. You can find my flyers posted around CSI. For my bar mitzvah project, I volunteered to cook dinner at Ronald McDonald house. It’s an organization that allows parents/families to stay close with their hospitalized children. It has been a life-changing experience for me to be able to help these people in some small way. Providing some comfort for them by taking the burden of cooking away from their busy lives was a rewarding way to learn the Jewish concept of gemilut hasadim, that we should be caring and kind to others. Outside of school, I like to hangout with my friends and my cousins. I also play soccer for Briarcliff in the Westchester Youth Soccer League. My practices and games take me all over Westchester and New York City, which sometimes conflicts with other activities,. Through this I have learned At home I am the youngest child. I am also the 5th young- to balance and prioritize my commitments, including Heest of 14 cousins. Even though some of my cousins live as brew school. All in all, I have enjoyed Hebrew school; I far as Philadelphia, we see each other often, especially dur- think I got the chance to learn about Judaism in a nice environment with great classmates. Plus I really like the food ing vacations and most Jewish holidays. We are all very (thanks to Roni and all the volunteers)! close and many of them are learning Torah for my Bar Mitzvah and will all take part in sharing my special day. I I would like to thank Roni Shapiro, Cantor Shiovitz, Rabbi look forward to spending my Bar Mitzvah day with all of Kane, all of my Hebrew School teachers, my family, and friends for helping me reach this milestone. I look forward them and all of my friends. During my studies I have come to realize that in 50 years I to my Bar Mitzvah! won’t remember doing any particular homework assign* * * * ment or all of 7th grade for that matter. On the other hand, Hi, my name is Justin Greenfeld. I will be called to read my I will remember everything I did to prepare for becoming a Torah portion, Vayikra, on March 21st and become a Bar Bar Mitzvah. Reciting the aliyot, which I have learned have Mitzvah. I live with my mom, dad, sister, and dog in Chapgreat meaning, will stay with me forever. paqua, where I attend Seven Bridges Middle School. At I would like to thank everyone who helped me prepare for school, my favorite subject is social studies, and I recently this wonderful day. I’d like to thank Roni Shapiro-Ben David took part in Cross Country, where I fought through the and all of my Hebrew school teachers for their kind words challenges in races and did well. Outside of school, I ran in of encouragement and dedication to helping me study for the Croton on Hudson Harry Chapin 10k, which raises monthis important event. Thank you Cantor Shiovitz and Rabbi ey for hunger, and I finished within 50 minutes and among Kane for your encouragement, support and patience with the top of the kids. I also play tennis three or more times a me for the past year in Bar Mitzvah lessons and for teach- week at an intense and challenging program. I have learned ing me how to wrap t'fillin to helping me realize the signifi- so much from my coaches and they taught me how to discicance of this special day. I also want to thank my sister pline myself and to reach and exceed my physical and menShayna for helping me with my D’var Torah, and helping tal limits. For my mitzvah project, I volunteer at Backyard me find deeper meaning in my torah portion, and much Sports. This program gives special needs children a unique (Continued on page 21) more. * * * * March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 17 Page 18 Congregation Sons of Israel Join CSI Sisterhood for March 2015 Tuesday, March 10 7:30 p.m. PRIZES! CANDY! WINE & DESSERT! $18 pp. Watch for more details! CSI Men’s Club and the Worldwide Wrap Sunday, February 1 Cantor Shiovitz and Rabbi Kane are joined by: Aaron Rotter, Rachel Matthison, Isaac Hentel & Caleb Levitt March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel COLOR KEY: NURSERY SCHOOL RELIGIOUS SCHOOL YOUTH IMPORTANT NOTE March 2015 / Adar-Nisan 5775 Sun 1 Page 19 Mon 10 Adar 2 Tue 11 Adar 3 Wed 12 Adar 4 13 Adar Thu 5 SHABBAT ends one hour after candle lighting time. Fri 14 Adar 6 Sat 15 Adar 7 16 Adar Ki Tisa AIPAC NS Sign Language RS Hamentaschen Making 7:30pm-Sisterhood Mah Jong 11:15am-Jews In The News 12:30pm-Yiddish Club NS Hamentaschen Making 4:30pm-PJ Library Purim 9 18 Adar 7:15am-Minyan 11:00am-Women’s Torah Study 7:30pm-5 Things about 5 People...Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson 8:45pm-Talmud 10 19 Adar NS Sign Language 11:15am-Jews In The News 12:30pmHaMishpacha Luncheon 7:30pm-Sisterhood Bunco Night 11 20 Adar NS Johnny Appleseed Day 8:00pm-De-Mystifying the Mystical with Rabbi Adam 15 24 Adar 6:30am-Breakfast Run 9:00am-1:30pm-Blood Drive 9:00am-Group B Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class 9:15am-Minyan Dalet Trip to Lower East Side 16 25 Adar NS Pictures 7:15am-Minyan 7:30pm-Sisterhood Mah Jongg 8:45pm-Talmud 17 26 Adar 18 27 Adar NS pictures NS Music 11:15am-Jews In The News 12:30pm-Yiddish Club 4:15pm-Heh Passover Supermarket Challenge 7:00pm-Caring Community 7:30pm-Executive Committee 19 28 Adar 20 29 Adar NS Challah Making 6:15pm-Gimel Family Dinner & 7:15am-Minyan Service 7:00pm-Gimel Shabbat/Shabbat Rocks/Family Night 22 2 Nisan 9:15am-Minyan 9:00am-Family Passover Workshop 9:00am-Group B Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class 11:00am-High School 23 3 Nisan 7:15am-Minyan 11:00am-Women’s Torah Study 8:45pm-Talmud 24 4 Nisan NS Sign Language NS Lockdown Drill 11:15am-Jews In The News 7:30pm-Board of Trustees 8 Nisan 26 6 Nisan 27 7 Nisan 28 Tsav NO NURSERY 7:15am-Minyan SCHOOL 10:30am9:10am-Service Parent/Teacher HaMishpacha Conf. Discussion Group 6:30pm-Kabbalat Shabbat AIPAC RS Hamentaschen Making 9:15am-Minyan 10:00am-Learn to Chant the Haftarah 11:00am-High School 7:00pm-Roni’s Book Club 8 17 Adar 8:00am-RS Staff Meeting 9:00am-Alef Siddur Cover Workshop 9:00am-Group B Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class 9:15am-Minyan 10:00am-Learn to Chant the Haftarah AIPAC NS Dr. Seuss’ birthday 7:15am-Minyan 9:30am-Dinosaurs Rock 7:30pm-Sisterhood Executive Board 7:30pm-Men’s Club 7:00pm-Megillah Reading & Rollerblading NS Purim Seudah 7:15am-Minyan 6:00pm-Kabbalat Shabbat PURIM NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL BAR MITZVAH of ELAN ROTH CL: 5:32 12 21 Adar 7:15am-Minyan 10:30amHaMishpacha Discussion Group 13 22 Adar NS Challah Making 6:00pm-NS Shabbat Dinner 6:30pm-Kabbalat Shabbat 7:00pm-Tot Shabbat 11:00am-Purim Carnival 11:00am-High School 11:00am-Cookies for Kid’s Club 29 9:15am-Minyan 9:10am-Service 11:00am-Jr. Cong. 14 23 Adar Vayakhel 9:10am-Service 11:00am-Jr. Cong. 8:00pm-USY Shul-In BAR MITZVAH of JACK SILVERSHEIN CL: 6:40 25 5 Nisan NS Waffle Day 8:00pm-De-Mystifying the Mystical with Rabbi Adam 21 1 Nisan Vayikra 9:10am-Service 10:30am-Kadima 10:30am-Family Service 11:00am-Tot Shabbat BAR MITZVAH of JUSTIN GREENFELD CL: 6:47 9 Nisan 30 10 Nisan 31 11 Nisan 11:15am-Jews In NS Nature of Things The News 7:15am-Minyan 11:00am-Women’s Torah Study NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL THROUGH APRIL 12. SPRING VACATION. There is no Nursery School April 3-10. The first Seder is Friday, April 3! is usually open Sundays during Religious Schools. Page 20 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel (Continued from page 16) opportunity to develop skills and learn a sport. Each week the volunteers and players meet and you are assigned a player to help coach. I play basketball with a great kid and whenever I see him smile, I smile too, knowing that I am making a difference in his life. This is such a rewarding experience to meet with him and help him do something that I love. Seven years of Hebrew School has not been my favorite thing to do, but in the end it all paid off for my bar mitzvah and future Jewish life. I would like to thank Cantor Shiovitz, for tutoring and prepping me for my bar mitzvah, Roni Shapiro, Rabbi Kane, and all of my Hebrew School teachers. Also, thank you to my family for supporting me all the way. I couldn’t have reached this milestone without all of you. * * * Page 21 for arranging our trip to Israel. I would like to thank my mom for driving me everywhere, whether it be for my project, or to Hebrew School, and for supporting me all the way. And of course, Katie, for just being Katie and for cheering me on and leading the way. I am looking forward to my trip to Israel with my parents and sister, aunt and cousin and grandparents and in becoming a Bar Mitzvah! * Hi! My name is David Katz, and on March 26, 2015, I will be called to the Torah in Israel to read my Torah portion, Tzav, and to become a Bar Mitzvah. My parents are Rich and Cindy Katz, and my sister’s name is Katie, and we live in Chappaqua. I attend Seven Bridges Middle School, and I am in the seventh grade. In school, I am involved in band. I play the alto saxophone, and I have been playing it for four years now. As an extracurricular course, I play in the Seven Bridges Stage Band (or jazz band) and wind ensemble. Alongside of that, I am part of the school shows, this year’s show was Grease. Outside of school, I take lessons for guitar. I have been playing for the past three years, and I enjoy it because I can sing along, unlike saxophone. In addition to that, I swim on the Rivertown Rays. This is my fourth year on the team, and I have made many friends in the process. Also, I go to Camp Eagle Hill during the summer, with my sister. When I am not practicing my Torah portion, playing guitar or saxophone or swimming, I volunteer at the Mount Kisco Child Care Center, in a classroom with three to four year olds. I have been going there since December, and I enjoy playing with the kids. In fact, I have made some young friends there! I hope to continue to volunteer there past my Bar Mitzvah date, and maybe into next year. There are so many people I need to thank for helping me reach this date! And I mean so many. First and foremost, I would like to thank Roni and all the Hebrew school teachers that I had: Morah Zuckerman, Morah Browne, Morah Band, Morah Hartman, Morah Maris, Morah Kavy and Morah Slutsky for making me have a great Jewish education. Of course, I would like to thank Cantor Shiovitz for my lessons every week, and preparing me for my Bar Mitzvah. I would also like to thank Rabbi Kane for helping in my Jewish education throughout the years. In addition, I would like to show my gratitude to my friends from Hebrew School and school, for supporting me throughout this whole experience. Last and certainly not least, I have to thank my family for supporting me throughout the journey. This especially includes my dad for practicing with me many a times before the service and NEWS FROM THE NURSERY SCHOOL P.T.A. Winter fun abounds in the nursery school! The snow isn't keeping the kids from enjoying sledding, snowman-making, ice skating and more. Indoor activities included Bubblemania Jr., which enthralled everyone at the end of February, and plenty of creativity as the kids created their own personal masterpieces as part of the Display My Art fundraiser. Page 22 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 From The Desk of Rabbi Steven C. Kane: Rabbi Daniel Goldfarb lives and teaches in Jerusalem. I have asked him to periodically give us a "Report from Jerusalem," giving us some of the flavor of Israel. Here is the first of those reports: Grocery Shopping: It’s Different from Whole Foods My father, a Bostonian all his 94 years, used to go to Shuk Machaneh Yeduda, Jerusalem’s outdoor market, whenever he’d visit us. He enjoyed the movement, the sounds and the activity, but best of all, to look at the fresh fruits and vegetables. He loved the onions the size of softballs, the radishes as big as grapefruits. For him the return of the Jewish people to its land found poignant expression in the variety and quality found in the produce department. A visit to the market in Israel is particularly interesting this year. We are in shnat shmita – the special year when the land is supposed to rest and lie fallow, as the Torah commands in Exodus 23 and Leviticus 25. The latter source explains this clearly – “When you come into the land I give you… Six years you may sow your field and prune your vineyard, but in the seventh year the land shall have a sabbath of complete rest. You shall not sow nor prune, reap nor gather; it shall be a year of complete rest for the land.” The verses make clear, and this is very important - the mitsva of shmita applies only to Jewish-owned land in the land of Israel. A Jewish landowner elsewhere may continue to raise crops, and the Jewish consumer there need pay attention only if the local grocer has fruits/vegetables from Israel, which is not so rare these days. I was told in England recently that 50% of the peppers sold there are from Israel. But here in Israel, shnat shmita is very real. In the late 19th century the first chalutzim (pioneers) reopened an area of Jewish Law that had been dormant for 2000 years. Barely able to eke out a living from the barren land, they asked the rabbis how they were to manage in the seventh year. Food was scarce in any event, and of course this was long before modern methods of preserving and storing. Given the stark situation, Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Spektor of Kovno said the Jews could “sell the land to a non-Jew” for the shmita period, and thus continue to work it. The heter mechira, as it is called, is stilled used today, and the Supersol on Agron Street, across the street from the Conservative Yeshiva in United Synagogue’s Fuchsberg Center, has a certificate framed on the wall confirming that the fruits and vegetables sold there were raised on “sold land.” The “more” religious look down on the “sold land” solution and rely on other alternatives. A recent shop at a green grocer with a substantial “religious” clientele in my neighborhood was an eye-opener. Every species had a sign on it. The peppers, eggplant, cucumbers and tomatoes were marked “nochri,” non-Jewish, meaning they are from Arab-owned farms in Israel. The carrots and onions were from abroad (“chul”). Potatoes, garlic, apples and pears were labeled “shishit” (“6th”); they are from “last” year, even if kept in cold storage for months. Bananas were “otsar beit din” (from the rabbinical court store houses), based on an ancient practice where the courts would gather produce still growing in the unworked fields and distribute them to families as needed. Parsley and scullions were “menutak” (detached); they were grown on elevated platforms or in hot houses, or hydroponics (in water), none of which are “from the fields.” Five different mechanisms to meet the legal requirements of shmita. The Arab worker is expert in the fine points of shmita; he deals with it daily. The owner told me he does not carry “sold land” produce because his clients won’t buy it, “though I eat it myself,” he confided. As do we. The shmita year can drive people crazy and prices up, but it reminds us that our “ownership” of things, including land, is ephemeral. Leviticus 25:6-7 says that the land is to be left open in the seventh year. The owner may take what he/she needs, just like everyone else and the animals. Shnat shmita teaches us to respect the land and to let it rest, and to remember to share what we have with others on an equal basis. In a world where wealth continues to accumulate in the hands of the few (75.4% of wealth in the US is owned by 10% of the people) and all of us too easily pollute the delicate land on which and from which we live, these are still relevant and important lessons. Rabbi Daniel Goldfarb, teacher and former Director of the Conservative Yeshiva of the United Synagogue (USCJ) in Jerusalem, made aliya in 1976 and has lived in Jerusalem since. March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 23 CSI PJ Library knows how to have its bagel and eat it too! February's program was designed around Aubrey Davis's book Bagels From Benny. We read the book and learned about giving to others. The kids created cards for people in the hospital as well as Israeli soldiers. Then they made bird feeders out of bagels so that they could recycle food and give to the animals. We then feasted on bagels! March brings us Purim and for Purim we like to party!!!!! The kids get to grind their groggers during PJ Library's Purim Dance Party! And for those who are not into the dance floor there are some crafty activitiessuch as crown making (because who doesn't need a crown?), and mask designing. Additionally we will be sampling different flavors of hamentaschen. Remember now is a great time to snuggle up with a PJ Library Book! Merrie Summer is rapidly approaching and teens are considering (or have already decided on) their upcoming summer plans. UJA-Federation of New York's Israel Experience Center continues to help New York Jewish teens fulfill their dreams of traveling to Israel in an effort to promote and strengthen lifelong commitments to Israel and the global Jewish community by providing both needs-based and merit scholarships. Scholarship details and eligibility requirements can be found here: http://www.ujafedny.org/find-help/apply-forscholarships/israel-scholarships/. A limited number of merit scholarships, of at least $1,000 each, are available for New York-area high school students who will be participating in an accredited Israel summer travel program. Teens entering 10th-12th grades and permanently residing in UJA-Federation’s catchment area (New York City, Nassau or Suffolk Counties, or Westchester County) can be nominated for a merit award by their New York area synagogue or UJA-Federation of NY network agency. The goal of the merit scholarship program is to award teens who display leadership potential and a strong commitment to community with a scholarship toward an Israel experience. Merit award recipients are expected to complete a community service project following their Israel summer experience. Community service projects should be developed with the nominating synagogue. Each synagogue or network agency can nominate up to two candidates for merit award consideration. Please note: each teen may only receive one merit award for Israel travel, so please do not nominate any teens who have received merit awards from UJA-Federation in the past. Scholarship details, eligibility requirements, and the application can be found here. Complete and submit the nomination form, merit award application, and recommendation letter by Thursday, April 2, 2015. Submission Information and Questions: All applicants must be nominated by a UJA-Federation of NY network agency or affiliiated NY synagogue. Westchester synagogues and agencies: Please e-mail the nomination form, completed merit award application, and recommendation letter to the Ellen Thurm at [email protected] by Thursday, April 2, 2015. If you have questions, please contact Ellen Thurm at UJA-Federation of New York (Westchester office) at [email protected]. Questions from teens or their families can be answered by referring them to the website or to their Israel program provider. Many Israel program providers have additional scholarship sources, so please refer teens to them for additional support. Thank you for your part in supporting lifechanging Israel experiences for teens! Page 24 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 FROM OUR RABBINIC FELLOW & YOUTH DIRECTOR Adam Zagoria-Moffet Abracadabra The Book of Creation (Sefer Yetzira) is the oldest work of Jewish mysticism we have. It dates to the time of the Mishna (2nd Century CE) and describes the paths through which humans can begin to approach God. It begins though by laying out a theory - a theory that the entire world and its contents are combinations of the 22 Hebrew letters and the 10 numerals (the numbers 1-10). Through these 32 things, Sefer Yetzira tells us, God created everything. Not unlike contemporary chemistry's understanding of the world as made up of various combinations of essential elements (remember the Periodic Table?), Sefer Yetzira approaches reality similarly -- except the building blocks are not molecular structures, but linguistic ones. Meaning, that if you believe that the world is created through the combination and permutation of letters - then speech is a holy activity. God uses speech to create - after all, the first chapter of Genesis records precisely that God created through speaking (“Let there be..."). Those same tools that God used to create the world - we use every day. We use the letters and numbers to understand ourselves, our world, and each other. Every word we speak and every thought we think is processed through language. This gives us both a remarkable power and a remarkable responsibility. It means that we cannot justifiably ignore the potency of what we say. Even casual conversations take on cosmological significance. Our words are powerful, and in speaking we are playing with the same tools that God used to create the world. Yet this is also a burden - the consequences of our speech are severe. Lashon haRa (evil speech), rechillut (gossip) and motzi shem ra (slander) are serious transgressions in Judaism - each because of the underlying recognition of the power in what we say. In difficult times such as these, it is ever more important to remember the power of what we say. Whether for good or for bad, the speech that we use can create and destroy. We should remember, perhaps now more than ever, that the magical formula so prized by top-hatted men pulling rabbits out of things has its origin in Hebrew: Abracadabra )" אברא כדברא- I shall create what I speak"). March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 25 Page 26 Congregation Sons of Israel SOCIAL ACTION COMMITTEE March 2015 COAT DRIVE Thanks to everyone who has brought in a warm coat, hats, and mittens for the benefit of IFCA (Interfaith Community Action) in Ossining. We have already delivered two carloads of coats that are keeping people in our community warm. The coat drive will continue through March. By Judy Boehr PROJECT EZRA PASSOVER FOOD DRIVE This year, once again, CSI will be providing boxes of Kosher for Passover food to elderly Jews on the Lower East Side. In many cases, this is the only food they have for the holiday, so please help support this important effort. Bring items from the following food list to CSI and place them in the appropriate boxes in the lobby. The drive will continue until Sunday, March 22nd, when we will pack the food for Project Ezra. They will pick up our boxes on Thursday, March 26th. On Sunday, March 29th, Project Ezra will deliver a box of food to each of their clients in Manhattan. This is a wonderful family volunteer opportunity and a great opportunity to see your donations through to their final destination. It is a very gratifying experience. If you would like to complete a box with all of the items on the list, please let Judy Boehr know. (762-1984 or [email protected].) Help is also needed to sort the food on Sunday, March 22nd. It's a fun project that only takes an hour or so, and families and children are welcome! Some items are very hard to find in Northern Westchester, specifically kosher for Passover jam, canned fruits, and canned vegetables. All of the items MUST be marked Kosher for Passover. These things are more readily available in the White Plains area. The Stop and Shop on the Post Road in Mamaroneck is a good source, as are supermarkets in White Plains, Monsey, and Spring Valley. DONATIONS are always appreciated if you are unable to shop. We will do the shopping for you! Please send your donation to Judy or leave a check in the Social Action box in the CSI office. PROJECT EZRA 465 GRAND STREET, 4TH FLOOR NEW YORK, NY 10002 212-982-4124 SHOPPING LIST FOR PASSOVER PLEASE NOTE: Temple Shaaray Tefila is conducting a seder for developmentally disabled adults on March 18th. They are looking for volunteers for this event (to cook, make phone calls for donations, help serve at the event.) If you are interested in supporting this meaningful event, please contact Stacy Topalian at [email protected]. PLEASE REMEMBER THAT ALL FOOD ITEMS MUST BE MARKED KOSHER FOR PASSOVER. THE KOSHER SIGN ALONE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE FOR PASSOVER USE. IN ADDITION, PLEASE TRY TO CHECK THAT ALL ITEMS ARE CURRENT AND MARKED FOR THE CURRENT YEAR. THE FOLLOWING LIST OF PASSOVER FOODS COMPRISES A PASSOVER PACKAGE DELIVERED TO OUR FRAIL ELDERS ON THE LOWER EAST SIDE. PLEASE NOTE THAT ALL ITEMS THAT ARE BOLDED ARE SOMETIMES MISSING FROM THE PACKAGES. WE WOULD APPRECIATE YOUR PAYING EXTRA ATTENTION TO OBTAINING THESE ITEMS. 2 BOXES MATZO 1 BORSCHT 1 SOUP 1 JAR OR CAN OF GEFILTE FISH 1 JAM OR JELLY 1 DESSERT ITEM (CAKE, COOKIES, MACAROONS, ETC.) 2 CANS OF TUNA, SALMON OR SARDINES 2 CANNED FRUITS 2 CANNED VEGETABLES 1 MATZO FARFEL 1 BOTTLE OF GRAPE JUICE 1 BOTTLE OF VEGETABLE OIL 1 INSTANT COFFEE OR TEA 1 SMALL JAR OF HONEY NUTS OR DRIED FRUIT (OR ANYTHING SPECIAL THAT YOU WANT TO ADD) THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR RESPONDING SO GENEROUSLY. IN MANY CASES, YOUR PACKAGE IS THE ONLY SOURCE OF PASSOVER FOOD FOR EZRA’S ELDERLY. March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel DINOSAURS ROCK is coming to the CSI Nursery School Page 27 C kies for Kid’s Club (C.K.C.) Families of children join the C.K.C. at CSI as we do a mitzvah. Come bake cookies for families that have children who are sick and draw pictures for the children in the hospital. Sunday, March 8, 2015 11:00-12:00pm At Congregation Sons of Israel 1666 Pleasantville Road, Briarcliff Manor (914) 762 – 2700 RSVP to [email protected] WEDNESDAY, MARCH 2, 2015 9:30 AM ALL ARE WELCOME TO JOIN US! FAMILY PASSOVER WORKSHOP Sunday, March 22, 2015 9:00 -11:00 AM Dear Shorashim, Prozdor 1 and Prozdor 2 families, (Kindergarten, 1st & 2nd graders) Sunday, March 22, we have a special Passover Family Program. The religious school PTA will be providing a yummy breakfast, and siblings are invited too! We hope to see you all. Happy Passover, Roni Shapiro Ben-David COME Learn and have fun with your children Cookies & pictures will be brought to the Maria Fareri Children’s Hospital in Valhalla, NY PLEASE BRING 1 SMALL COOKIE DECORATION ITEM (I.E., SPRINKLES) OPEN TO CHILDREN/FAMILIES OF 2 YEAR OLDS – 7 YEAR OLDS – Bring your friends. Looking for volunteers to deliver. Page 28 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES March 2015 The following children are celebrating birthdays during the month of March and will be called to the bimah to receive a blessing on Friday, March 20, during our 7:00 PM Gimel Family Night/ Shabbat Rocks service. Only the names of those present will be called. Please take your name card out of the “birthday box” in the front lobby and present it to a Ritual Committee usher. Antman, Sabrina Ben-Zvi , Stephanie Bronson, Samantha Bronson, Taylor Cohen, Tyler Daly, Reuben Daly, Shoshana Dolch, Jesse Dolch, Daniel Dunn, Holden Jacob Hawson, Brandon Janowitz, Jacob Lewis, Benjamin London, Talia Makaron, Eli Platt, Sophie Rosenbluth, Alex Rosenbluth, Sophie Satran, Daniel Wachtel, Emma Wasserman, Jolie MAZAL TOV to our members who are celebrating anniversaries during the month of March: Date 2 3 5 6 9 10 13 16 18 18 19 21 25 25 26 27 29 31 Alan & Judith Duke Jay & Gayle Waxenberg Mark & Rika Reisman Daniel & Nancy Cohen Tony & Stacy Anisman Ira & Ellen Eisenstein Andrew Rotter & Rhona Golubock Steven Saper & Shelley Glick J. Allen & Andrea Britvan Mark & Romina Wancier B. Michael & Susan Thrope Martin & Anita Amsel Gilbert & Sharon Balog Diego Antman & Irit Bomer Stephen & Sharon Alpert Eric & Jill Goldstein Jack & Ellen Greeman Daniel & Marian Levine Years 47 30 21 21 12 31 16 35 31 15 17 51 43 14 32 16 56 25 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 29 SISTERHOOD NEWS By Marion Jablansky, Secretary Mah Jongg nights are so popular that additional dates and days have been added to the calendar to allow for even more members to come and play. If you have always wanted to learn how to play, now’s the time, as there really is a beginners’ table. The next Mah jongg game will be Tuesday, March 3 at 7:30 at CSI, and then on Monday, March 16 at 7:30 at CSI. The only requirements are Sisterhood membership and the willingness to have fun. If you have any questions, please contact Cheryl Katz at [email protected]. The CSI bulletin and the CSI website are great sources of information. Continue to read future bulletins, as well as check the website for future Sisterhood programs. Also, we are always looking for new ideas, so if you have any suggestions or wish to lead or help with an activity, please let us know. Our officers/chairpersons are always open to new ideas. President: Robin Ginsberg Treasurer/Financial Secretary: Sharon Richter Recording Secretary: Beth Levine Corresponding Secretary/ Bulletin: Marion Jablansky Membership: Annleah Berger Mah Jongg Chair: Cheryl Katz Gift Shop: Annleah Berger/ Robin Ginsberg Jill Greenstein/Marion Jablansky Sharon Orenstein Wednesday, March 11, at 7:30 at CSI is Sisterhood’s first www.WLCJ.org = the website for Women’s Bunco Night. Bunco is a social dice game involving 100% League for Conservative Judaism, the orgaluck and no skill (there are no decisions to be made), nization to which your Sisterhood belongs. scoring and a simple set of rules. The object of the game Log in and check it out today! is to accumulate points and to roll certain combinations. Gift tip: How about a beautiful trivet from Israel to put During the 1920’s and the Prohibition, Bunco, a gambling your hot food on during these cold winter months. The game, was often associated with a speakeasy, so lawgift shop has a lovely assortment to choose from. enforcement groups raiding these parlors came to be known as "Bunco Squads." Bunco as a family game saw a resurgence in popularity in the 1980’s. You should have received information to participate in our Mishloach Manot program. Please complete the form and return it as directed. By participating in Sisterhood’s Mishloach Manot program, you fulfill the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot as well as support Sisterhood in its fund raising efforts. April 11, Sisterhood Shabbat, is fast approaching. All Sisterhood members are invited to participate, and all congregants are invited to attend. If you have not already done so, please email Roberta Bar-Levav at [email protected] with any questions and to let her know how you will participate. The gift shop will be open most Sundays in March. If you need anything for Passover, be it a seder plate, Kiddush cup or hostess gift, the gift shop has it all. There is always something to look forward to for Sisterhood. Besides Mishloach Manot, Sisterhood Shabbat, and Mah jongg, there’s an author’s visit, Rosh Chodesh with Roni, and the new knitting nights. And there are always surprises ahead. As you can see, there is a lot going on at CSI Sisterhood. Please don’t forget to pay your dues. You don’t want to miss out on any of these or future activities. Remember to join Sisterhood! We started our new fiscal year on July 1. Sisterhood Membership 2014-2015 Please send your $36.00 check for dues payable to: CSI Sisterhood and return it with this form to: CSI Sisterhood 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Name_____________________________________________ Phone____________________________________________ Address___________________________________________ Email_____________________________________________ For questions concerning membership or to sign up for a Sisterhood committee, please call Annleah Berger, 762-5312, or email [email protected]. Page 30 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 THE RABBINICAL ASSEMBLY PESACH GUIDE This guide, prepared by the Kashrut Subcommittee and approved by the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards, explains in detail the laws and customs regarding the dietary restrictions of Passover, the rules that remind us each time we eat of Passover’s messages for us. Some of these guidelines are, frankly, quite technical and even complicated; that is the result of the special stringency of the Passover rules in Jewish law and the complex, new ways in which foods are processed in our time. We hope that this guide will enable Jews to understand what they may eat on Passover and how to prepare their kitchens for the holiday in ways that are clear and understandable. We do not intend this Guide to replace our rabbi’s guidance on these matters; on the contrary, any question you have about what is written here or what is missing you should address to Rabbi Kane. We have selected portions of the Pesach Guide which we feel are most helpful to you. For the complete guide, please go to http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/public/jewish-law/holidays/pesah/ rabbinical-assembly-pesah-guide-5775_1.pdf. FOODS The Torah prohibits the ownership of hametz (flour, food or drink made from the prohibited species of leavened grain: wheat, oats, barley, rye or spelt) during Pesash. Ideally we burn or remove all hametz from our premises which may be effected by donations to a local food pantry. Prohibited foods: Since the Torah prohibits the eating of hametz during Pesach, and since many common foods contain some hametz, guidance is necessary when shopping and preparing for Pesach. Prohibited foods )hametz) include the following: biscuits; cakes; coffees containing cereal dervatives; crackers; leavened bread; pasta. These are foods that are generally made with wheat, barley, oats, spelt or rye (grains that can become hametz). Any food containing these grains or derivatives of these grains must be certified kosher for Pesach. Flavorings in foodstuffs are often derived from alcohol produced from one of these grains which would render that food hametz. Such products also need Pesach supervision. Kitniyot – Ashkenazi Rabbinical authorities added the following foods to the above list of prohibited foods: beans; corn; millet; peas; rice; soy. These and some other plant foods (e.g., mustard, buckwheat and sesame seeds) are not permitted for eating on Pesach. They need not be sold or disposed of before Pesach. The processed products, whether liquid or solid, from kitniyot are also forbidden by most Ashkenazic rabbinical authorities. These might include but not be limited to ascorbic acid (vitamin C), corn oil, corn sweetener, and soy oil. Most Sephardic authorities permit the use of all the kitniyot foods other than those that might have come in contact with the prohibited grains. Israeli products are often marked “contains kitniyot” and thus Ashkenazi Jews who do not use kitniyot need to be vigilant when purchasing Israeli products for Passover. Our Movement’s Committee on Jewish Law and Standards has permitted the use of peanuts and peanut oil on Pesach provided said items have proper year round kosher certification and do not contain any hametz ingredients. Permitted Foods: An item that is kosher all year round, that is made with no hametz, and is processed on machines used only for that item and nothing else (such as ground coffee) may be used with no special Pesach supervision. As we March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 31 learn more about the processing of foods and the ingredients they contain, relying on the kashrut of a product for Pesach without a Passover hekhsher may be problematic. Wherever possible, processed foods ought to have a Pesach hekhsher from a reliable source. Since that is not always possible, however, our guidelines reflect some alternatives that are acceptable. Any food that you purchase with a Pesach hekhsher must have a label that is integral to the package and it should have the name of a recognizable, living supervising Rabbi or creditable kosher supervision agency if possible. If the label is not integral to the package or if there are questions regarding the labeling, the item should not be used without consulting a Rabbi. NO PESACH HEKHSHER REQUIRED: Products which may be purchased without a Pesach hekhsher before or during Pesah: baking soda; bicarbonate of soda; eggs; fresh fruits and vegetables; fresh or frozen kosher meat (other than chopped meat); Nestea (regular and decaffeinated); pure black, green, or white tea leaves; unflavored tea bags; unflavored regular coffee; olive oil (extra-virgin only); whole or gutted fresh fish; whole or half pecans (not pieces); whole (unground) spices and nuts. NO PESACH HEKHSHER REQUIRED IF PURCHASED BEFORE PESACH: Products which may only be purchased without a Pesach hekhsher before Pesach. If bought during Pesach they require a Pesach hekhsher: all pure fruit juices; filleted fish; frozen fruit (no additives); non-iodized salt; pure white sugar (no additives); quinoa (with nothing mixed in);* white milk; some products sold by Equal Exchange Fair Trade Chocolate. *It has come to our attention that there is a possibility of grains being mixed with quinoa if it is not under Pesach supervision. The best option is to purchase quinoa with a Pesach hekhsher, if it is available. Where that is not available, purchase Bolivian or Peruvian quinoa, marked “gluten free” before Pesach. Please make certain that quinoa is the sole ingredient in the final packaging. Frozen, uncooked vegetables may be processed on shared equipment that uses hametz. It is preferable to purchase those with a Pesach hekhsher label. One may, however, buy bags of frozen non-hekhshered vegetables before Pesach provided that one can either absolutely determine that no shared equipment was used or one is careful to inspect the contents before Pesach and discard any pieces of hametz. Even if one did not inspect the vegetables before Pesach, if one can remove pieces of hametz found in the package on Pesach, the vegetables themselves are permissible. PESACH HEKHSHER ALWAYS REQUIRED: Products which require reliable Pesach hekhsher certification (regular kosher supervision being not sufficient) whether bought before or during Pesach: all baked goods (farfel, matzah, any product containing matzah, matzah flour, matzah meal, Pesach cakes); all frozen processed foods; candy; canned tuna; cheeses; chocolate milk; decaf coffee; decaf tea; dried fruits; herbal tea; ice cream; liquor; Grade AA butter; oils; soda; vinegar; wine; yogurt. Regarding cheeses and non Grade AA butter, an inspection by a rabbi of a local dairy may suffice to resolve potential questions in some cases. BABY FOOD: Baby food with a Pesach hekhsher is sometimes available. Of course, home preparation of baby food, using kosher for Passover utensils and kitchen items is always possible. Pure vegetable prepared baby food that is kasher the year round is acceptable for Pesach. The use of kitniyot for babies is also acceptable with care taken that this baby food does not mix with food from the rest of the family. Separate dishes and utensils are recommended. Most infant formulas are made from soy and the use of kitniyot does not apply to infants. Thus infant formula products, kasher the year round, are acceptable for Pesach. Here, as in baby foods, the Page 32 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 bottles, nipples and formula should be kept away from the general kitchen area and clean up should be done out of the kitchen area (e.g., a bathroom sink). MEDICINES: Prescription medicines are permitted. Non-prescription pills and capsules are permitted; for liquids, check with the rabbi. PET FOOD: The issue of pets on Pesach is a complicated one. There are several options: 1. The pet is given, for the week of Pesach, to a gentile who can feed it whatever food is available. 2. Since no hametz is allowed in our possession on Pesach, one could feed the pet either Kosher for Passover pet food, pet foods with no grain, or food off your own table which is already Kosher for Passover. Incidentally, kitniyot would be permissible. 3. Some authorities allow for the pet to be sold along with the hametz and, since the pet does not belong to the Jewish owner, regular pet food would be fed. Note that the document of sale would have to include the pet as well as hametz. If you have these pet foods in your home be careful to keep them away from the general kitchen area. Washing of pet utensils should be done out of the kitchen area (e.g., a bathroom sink). NON-FOOD ITEMS: Any detergents, cleaners, etc. which are not a food stuff and which are not eaten, may be used for Pesach with no hekhshered supervision. This would include: aluminum products; ammonia; baby oil; bleach; candles; contact paper; charcoal; coffee filters; fabric softener; isopropyl alcohol; laundry and dish detergent; oven cleaner; paper bags; paper plates (with no starch coating); plastic cutlery; plastic wrap; polish; powder and ointment; sanitizers; scouring pads; stain remover; water with no additives; wax paper. AUTHORIZATION FOR THE SALE OF HAMETZ I hereby authorize Rabbi Steven C. Kane to sell the hametz in my possession, including my home, place of business and elsewhere in accordance with the requirements of Halacha (Jewish law). Name: _____________________________________________________________ Address: _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ Signature: _____________________________________________________________ PLEASE COMPLETE AND RETURN THIS FORM TO: OR EMAIL TO: [email protected] Forms must be received no later than the conclusion of the Fast of the First Born Service on Friday, April 3. Rabbi Steven C. Kane CSI 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 [NOTE: It is customary to give Tzedakah at the time of sale.] March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 33 Page 34 Congregation Sons of Israel March 2015 March 2015 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 35 Make Your Move steps in when you're feeling overwhelmed by a move to a more manageable space. 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