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Spirit Guides

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Everyone has guides, whether they know it or not, and those who
consciously communicate with their guides have an enormous
wealth of resources to tap into.
Those of us that DO - see/sense Spirit Guides differently. I believe
that we all come from one Whole, a life-force that encompasses
everything in existence. How it came to exist or what it's complete
purpose is I don't pretend to fully understand. What I do know is
that IT IS THERE/HERE and it does work in, with and around us to
create our realities and to protect and learn about ourselves.
I also believe that within this life-force exists different dimensions
of reality, different vibrational dimensions which we can reach
through raising our vibrations through meditation, hypnosis, ritual,
and other energy raising actions such as drumming, chanting,
dancing... etc.
It is my belief there is no limit to how many dimensions there are,
and that the more enlightened we become the easier it is to access
and move through these dimensions.
Spirit guides, among many other beings, reside in such dimensions
and come to us from this world of spirit to help us in our evolution.
Spirit guides generally don't have a physical form; therefore they
tend to reside on higher vibrational planes (dimensions) because
they are not hindered by the physical lower-vibration body. They
work from these planes (the world of spirit) and move into our
reality (3rd dimension) occasionally to offer guidance, assistance
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and insight. We can reach them through the above mentioned
methods such as meditation, hypnosis and by "tapping in" to our
life-force and raising our vibrations that way.
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Spirit Guides will stay with us even if we choose to ignore them,
and they will continue to love and honor us throughout our life.
These guides are here to help us with our Lesson or Lessons, and it
is often true that their own Lessons may run in tandem with ours.
They can be teachers or protectors as well as helping to direct our
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One of the most popular misconceptions is that the spirits serve us,
personally, rather than the Whole. This is not quite so. The spirits
do serve us, and we serve them as well, in partnership. The
partnership is mutual; there is no seniority (or ascendancy), nor is
there an aspect of subjugation or obligation. While it is true that
there are many people who understand that Earth society is based
on Free Will, it is also true that very few people have applied this
concept to the spirit world. Spirits operate within the parameters of
Free Will, and they, too, have the right to claim fair treatment, love,
and respect; rights that humans in our society have come to expect
or learned to take for granted.
Spirit guides can be many things and have usually lived in a
physical body, on a physical plane like Earth, and have usually had
some connection to us from a past life of ours. They can be souls of
people who we knew in past lives and to whom we have a karmic
link. They could also be ancestors of our present life or perhaps
souls who have decided to stay in the spiritual realms for a while
and not reincarnate to the physical plane and therefore volunteered
with our approval to be a guide for us. We chose each other because
we knew they would help us "get the job done", and because we
knew we could trust them as fully and completely as they willingly
trust in us.
They are essentially, like us, energy-vibration which manifests in
whatever form they choose...or which is acceptable to us. However,
they do retain an identity because they are also souls, and have
usually led lives in the physical plane also, just like we are doing
now. They have their own personalities, their own goals, their own
perspective and their own styles of communication.
Spirit guides will usually approach us in a form that is most
comfortable and acceptable to us. For most people this is probably
in the human form, though some of us might choose to see an
animal, a crystal, colors, shapes or stars etc.
I believe we have as many as are assigned to us. I believe we have
one guide (Master Guide) who joins with us at birth, and stays by
our side right through our lives until we pass on. This isn't to say
that this guide is our only guide.
I also accept that at different times in our lives, depending on the
situation and lesson(s) we have to learn, we have new guides join us
to provide guidance and insight into the situation. We can either
choose to ignore this or use it.
If there is a change in life direction or emphasis, the master guide
will step back and these other guides will come forward. These
guides can come in unexpected forms, such as a stranger coming
out of nowhere and giving us a helping hand. These guides can stay
with us for a long period of time, or a very brief period... depending
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on what the lesson(s) is, and whether or not we're learning it.
There is always a guide of ours nearby... whether it's our spirit
guide, animal guide or angel, someone will always hear what we
say/think. So in effect we can talk to them any time we choose.
Just don't always expect an answer straight away.
There are many ways of meeting your guides. Most children know
their guides from birth, and can easily open up the channels to
talking to them (remember those imaginary play friends? Were they
really imaginary?), but as we grow older we get negative messages
from our parents and other adults around us, "time to stop playing
with imaginary friends Darling" "Don't be silly" "No they don't
really exist." "That's nice dear, but shouldn't you be playing with
some REAL friends?" and messages like this, so children learn to
break their connection to their guides and forget about these
wonderful beings.
I believe that these unseen, imaginary friends are the child's guides frequently the master guide amongst them assuming an identity
with which the child can communicate as he or she develops.
For those people that work to connect with their guides or naturally
do so - often hear their guides speak, others get distant visual
images, and yet others just get a sense of what their guide is trying
to communicate, the important thing is to begin to develop trust that
will allow us to be aware of the communications that we are being
given.
Each person's experience will be different. Saying that, some people
do have difficulty connecting with their Spirit Guides and have
trouble visualizing them possibly because they are a sentient person
and have trouble "seeing" things that are not in the 3rd dimension.
However, they can usually "sense".
They may get flashing images, but `sense` more. So, don't be
disappointed if you can't see, or sense, or hear perfectly in
meditation or through some of the above methods. Not everyone is
that gifted.
We must trust that whatever messages we get, however we get
them, are right... and what we need to know just at that point in time
and learn to trust ourselves. My personal advice is to go with the
technique that is the simplest and most comfortable, easy and
relaxing for you.
Guides may also approach us in dreams or daydreams, imparting
messages and giving guidance from there, where we are in a more
open state and less critical in receiving these messages.
A guide can arrive as a feeling, a smell, a light, a sound, or even just
a `knowing` that it is present.
Spirit Guides are not the same as Angels. They are of the same
"energy", being that of a higher vibrational force, but I don't agree
they function in the same manner. Yes, we do have an angel who
also stays with us throughout our lives too, but this is not our spirit
guide. Angels rarely incarnate on the physical plane, preferring to
do their work from the angelic realms (higher energy realms).
Spirit guides, though they can take on any form they choose,
usually take a "gender". i.e. they appear as male or female; this is
based mainly on the person/being they are presenting to us. Angels
on the other hand are without gender. They may appear to us as
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more masculine or feminine if they appear to us, but they are in
essence genderless, androgynous... it's their energy, which supplies
them their more masculine or feminine attributes.
Angels function on a higher vibration than spirit guides, and in a
higher dimension than spirit guides.
An encounter with an angel in it's full glory could very well scare
someone more than assist or sustain them.
Angels are such beautiful beings with such love that their energy
itself can bring too much truth to the person and as humans we are
capricious creatures. They are the essence of purity. Too much truth
can be scary or even terrifying, that is why angels will usually take
on a form of lower stature when we encounter them, someone on
our level so we can interact with them without the head-on, possibly
overwhelming experience of an angel. They are excellent conveyors
of universal love, they are not always equipped to deal with earthy
problems.
Spirit guides on the other hand have a lower energy and aren't
nearly as intimidating in their full form.
To put it simply - Angels are of the stars and guides are of the earth.
Animal totems, animal guides or Power Animals can be a little of
both. Spirit guides can and do take the form of animals and may
always appear to us as an animal but I also believe that animal
totems in the strict sense are different. They are the essence of the
animal with it's message which appears in our life through various
means such as divination, dreams, physical appearance of the
animal etc when we need to receive this message, similar to spirit
guides who come in and out of our life. By `sharing` with one
particular totem we gain access to its qualities.
In the past animal totems functioned as spirit guides for those in
native cultures, and they often appear in meditations and past life
regressions as guides for those who have had past lives in native
cultures.
However, anyone from any culture can benefit from accessing his
or her totem animal. According to some Native American beliefs,
we have two animal spirits who walk with us, one on our left and
one on our right. These animals appear to us in dreams and visions
to guide and protect us along the path of life.
We also have a guide within us, which envelops and surrounds our
very being. It is through these guides we derive our personal
strengths, and it is with this animal's Medicine that we can shape
our path in life.
I personally believe that we have several animal totems we learn
about as we progress through life... these animals and their essence
protect different aspects of ourselves and guide us in that area.
In contrast, the spirit guides tend to look after our whole wellbeing.
It is true that some people view guides not as spiritual entities with
consciousness outside of ourselves, but as part of ourselves. These
people view and feel that guides are our 'higher self' personified that
hasn't yet been 'owned' or integrated into our personalities. In the
world of 'Spirit', this could well be part of the picture, part of our
Divinity or WHOLE but the picture is 'huge' and it hasn't been
completed yet.
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In conclusion, it is largely due to ego that people have not really
been able or willing to perceive or interact with their Spirit Guides,
as the ego is a barrier against recognizing the Whole, and to
understanding one's own place within the Whole. Ego, in this
context, is the belief-system which says that Humanity is the most
important aspect of Life, and that I, as the individual, am greater
than the Whole. Many people are sadly not even consciously aware
of their own egoistic outlook; yet they reflect this philosophy in
their isolation, sadness, scepticism and general imbalance through
life.
We have several different types of guides depending on the culture
you come from.
Metaphysically speaking there are 4 basic categories or types of
guides:
The Relative Guide.
This is usually a person who knew you in this lifetime. They are the
relative who helps you through day to day situations. They are the
soul who greets you at the door when your time comes from
'transition' from life to death.
The Spirit Guide.
This is usually a person you knew in a past life.
Or it might be a Power Animal. Someone who is on the same
spiritual level as yourself. This soul helps you with your higher
purpose or mission in this embodiment. The karmic issues, the
spiritual lessons, the gifts and talents you brought from the past into
this life and so on. Their main purpose is to help you evolve your
soul during this incarnation and to learn and grow.
The Angels.
Everyone has a Guardian Angel watching over them, protecting
them and providing a connection to the higher Divine Force. Angels
are rarely incarnated beings. They are 'of the stars' and are the
messengers of the Divine.
The Master Teacher.
Our Master Guide joins with us at birth, and stays by our side right
through our lives until we pass on. This Guide gives us direction or
emphasis. At different times in our lives, depending on the situation
and lesson(s) we have to learn, we have new guides join us to
provide guidance and insight into the situation. If there is a change
in life direction or emphasis, the Master Guide will step back and
these other guides will come forward. These guides can come in
unexpected forms. You will also have with you, at the appropriate
time, a Master Teacher. This soul is someone who is on a higher
spiritual plane than yourself. They help you with the responsibility
of 'development', the dissemination, the higher more advanced
spiritual evolutionary issues that a person will need to be aware of.
It is refreshing to know that many people are learning now to take
responsibility for themselves, and in their process of self-learning
and self-healing, they will come to understand their partnership
with their Spirit Guides or Higher Self . Through this connection
and as they come to this understanding, the love energies and Light
around these people will multiply with absolute perfection, as is the
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I have been asked on many occasion "WHERE the information I
receive for my readings comes from?". I believe that one answer
can be found in this information regarding the Akashic Records. I
also believe that we ALL have the ability to access this and do so
many times in our dreaming state. These records are a 'bridge' to the
all knowing that we all have access to.
Edgar Cayce was a very famous medium and many books have
been written about him. For a more in-depth description of the
Akashic Records I suggest you look into buying some books that
about Edgar Cayce that chronicle his life and his readings.
The Akashic Records is a theosophical concept referring to the
archiving of all world events and personal experiences- of all
thoughts and deeds that have ever taken place on the earth. These
events are transcribed in the form of complex images composed of
pictures, sounds, and other sensory stimuli. These images are
indelibly impressed upon the "matter" of the astral plane (called
Akashic) and may be read only when the reader is in a special
'altered state of mind', one is able to tap the Akashic records and
receive direct information about past ages. Certain theosophical
descriptions of Atlantis, for example, are supposedly received via
this technique. Also, some psychics who do past life readings claim
to receive their information from the Akashic records.
It is said that it is possible to tap the Akashic records during dreams.
Sometimes the information so obtained is remembered consciously
upon waking. More often, nocturnal perusals of the Akashic records
are not remembered, although the fruits of such "dream research"
may be retrieved in moments of intuition in daily life. The
information received in precognitive dreams (clairvoyant dreams
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relating to an event or a state not yet experienced) is often said to be
ultimately derived from the Akashic records.
Access the Akashic
Records Exercise
By Dr. Bruce Goldberg
1. Use any of the previous self-hypnosis or other exercises to
relax and apply white light protection. Lie down or sit in an
easy chair, and when you are relaxed turn your attention
inward and center it on the area of the third eye. See it glow
with a golden white radiance and feel it pulsate with energy.
As you do this, your realization of the sounds, colors, and
temperature in the room around you should gradually fade,
and as they do so the subtle psychic stirring will become
more noticeable.
2. At first, this may be only an impression of inner light or of
brilliantly illuminated geometrical figures, or of stars
shooting by in ordered procession, or some other visual
appearance which will probably be meaningless. Or your first
impression may be of sound, as I have previously described.
3. Focus your mind, not on the Akashic records themselves, but
on a specific historical event for your initial trails. For
example, I suggest you study first the discovery of radium by
Marie Curie or the signing of the Declaration of
Independence in 1776.
4. Your next step is to go to that historical event and ask
yourself: "What happed that afternoon?" If you have properly
prepared yourself, you will find yourself drifting into a
scenario-like dream.
In the earlier stages or your development you will not get
clearly defined contacts that you can recognize as such, so
don't expect them. Accept the dream-like sequence that
passes before your consciousness as you sit in reverie.
Remember what you observe and write it down as soon as
possible thereafter.
5. During these practice sessions your should "feel" this
connection between your waking consciousness and the
Akasha. When this has been accomplished and you can recall
and incident from the past as simply as you can look up an
account in the encyclopedia, you are then ready to move on
to next step.
6. The next step is to repeat the previous steps, omitting the
preparation phase consisting of reading about the historical
event.
7. Next, check your data with specialty books written about that
event in detail, not merely an encyclopedia summary.
8. After successful completion of this step, move on to your
own future. Begin with a short range, say one week to a
month. Log all of your observations into a journal and
occasionally verify the accuracy of your prophecies.
9. With a proven track record, you are now ready to venture
much further ahead in time in your current life. Try five
years, ten years, fifty years, and so on.
10. You may move several hundred years into the future and
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explore future lives. [ My book Past Lives--Future Lives
(1988) and Soul Healing (1996) describe nearly twenty such
cases as far forward as the thirty-eighth century!]
11. Lastly, tap into the general Akasha and allow your
consciousness to tune into future world events, inventions,
lifestyle changes, and so on.
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So many different names and acronyms for the same thing can get
confusing. That is one of the reasons people get
out-of-body-experiences (or OBE's) confused with Astral Projection
travel. The difference is: an OBE is directed by the sub-conscious
mind, the soul if you will, for purposes of spiritual evolution. An
Astral Projection travel is directed by the conscious mind, for many
different reasons, some spiritual, some for fun and some for escape.
So when people talk about wanting to have an OBE, tell them they
do it every night when they sleep. Then tell them how to
accomplish APT.
The first thing to note about astral projection travel is the "intent"
must be set before the attempt is made. You program the purpose of
your journey, and where you want to go before you jump in the car
and head out of the driveway. An AP is just like taking a Sunday
drive. Even if the intent is just relax and get a way for a while, that
in itself is an intent. Making this specification is necessary and will
help the conscious mind direct the soul body. Deciding where you
want to go is also important. It's almost like filing a flight pattern
with the tower at an airport. You need to layout a general map for
which direction to head out into the ethers, to help you accomplish
the goal.
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A Step-by-Step Process
This following is a very basic method to try. [ For an in-depth study
and practice of astral travel, I suggest buying the book "Astral
Dynamics" by Robert Bruce. This book is by far the best I have
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encountered on astral projection travel.]
Once you have decided where you want to head out and why, you
can use the following suggested steps for learning how to get there.
There are a great many books and other resources on the subject of
Astral Projection, so if this method doesn't work for you, don't give
up. Just broaden your research and look for alternatives.
There are few items and arrangements to be made before you begin
your journey. You want to find a place where you are not going to
be disturbed for about 1 hour. Typically doing this outside is not a
good idea because of the distractions. But if you can find a special
place where you know for sure you won't be disturbed by man,
animal or machine, then certainly give it a try.
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You want to find a piece of calm relaxing music. Repetitive New
Age meditation music is the best. You're going to use this to help
drown out outside noises. The repetitive nature of the music will
help you focus on the visualization process and not on the change in
tempo and mood variations that most instrumental music contains.
They're fabulous for listening enjoyment, but you don't want to be
tapping your foot while you're trying to leave your body. It isn't
recommended that you attempt this in bed, before sleep or just lying
down. You might be too tempted to fall asleep. If you have a
comfortable chair, like a Lazy-Boy or something similar, that might
be ideal.
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Prepare your space as you would for any spiritual development
effort. Grab a blanket if you think you might get cold. Light a
candle, say a prayer for protection, ask your guides for assistance
and so on. This ritual is part of "setting the intent" for your travel.
During your prayer, call in your guides and teachers, the location
and why you want to go on this journey. Clearly define the "flight
plan" to program both your conscious mind and your soul mind.
Relax in a comfortable position. Try to keep everything at your
finger tips so you can fully relax. Start your music and close your
eyes. Take in 3 deep cleansing breaths. Fill your lungs to their
fullest capacity and exhale completely. Imagine the white protective
light from the Divine filling your body. Know that you are
protected, safe and secure from all harm, seen and unseen.
As you pull in the Divine light through your nose, imagine a large
ball of purple energy collecting in and around your solar plexus. As
the light grows within your physical body, imagine your silver cord
emerging from the glow. Imagine the cord moving through your
body and forming into a replica of you next to the ceiling. Try to
form this image as your soul body, the essence of the spiritual you.
Once you have that image, turn the visual body over so your soul is
looking down at your physical body.
Now the hard part. When the two bodies are facing each other, one
on the floor, the other on the ceiling, try to transfer your conscious
mind into the spiritual image. You can imagine what your conscious
mind will experience as it travels up the silver cord into the spiritual
you. You imagine what the ceiling would feel like against the back
of your spiritual body. What ever it takes to actually put you there.
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Once you've made a connection, look down at your physical body.
Record in your conscious mind what you see. As much of the detail
as you can.
When you're ready, move the spiritual body through the ceiling, the
roof and out into the ethers. Look back and see your silver cord
floating in the breeze, completely intact. Continue through space on
the journey you outlined for yourself when setting the intent for this
travel experience. When you're ready to return simply think to
yourself, "It's time to go back." Then instantaneously, you'll be
back.
The hardest part is transferring the conscious mind up into the
spiritual body. It's going to take time and probably several attempts
before you actually make the transfer. Each time you attempt the
journey, make note of how your physical body feels and reacts. I
don't want to give you any ideas on what you might experience
while doing this. I don't want you to have any influence or mental
suggestion that might hinder or cloud your attempts. It's better that
you try and practice, making notes of your own unique feelings.
For your first couple of journey's you might want to define some
easy goals to validate your experience. For instance, in my first
travel I planned on visiting a friend who lived on the other side of
the country. While there I made note of as many details as possible.
What she was doing, wearing, what was around her and so on. After
the trip, I phoned her and asked her to validate some things for me.
I told her what she was wearing, what she was doing and so on. She
was cooking dinner and looking for something, I knew in the
spiritual essence she was looking for a special knife. When I
wondered where the knife was and how could I tell her, in an
instant I saw the knife and it's hidden location. When I called her, I
asked her to look in that place and see if the knife was there. It was
and I had my validation.
This process of validating your travel is meant for one purpose. To
build your confidence. To show you that you really did take a
journey to where you planned to go. As your confidence builds, so
does the ease of the projection. As you grow in experience, you can
grow in your intent. So if you want to see the dark side of the moon,
then go take a look at it. And have some pleasant and wonderful
journeys.
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When we make a wish we are usually asking for a change in our
lives. If you are not ready and open to change, don't waste your
energy on wishing!! We control nothing but our ability to accept or
decline the 'wishes' we are granted every day. I cannot stress
enough how important it is to focus and visualize the joyful feelings
you will have when your receive your wishes and NOT on the how
it should manifest. Spirit and the Universe is about continuous flow,
balancing of energy. It is only our egos that want to HOLD on to
everything, control, own and resist change. Spirit gives us the
power to dream and wish. Ego controls whether or not we think we
can attain these things. We all can't win the lottery or marry 'model
perfect' people. We all can't have million dollar jobs and be heads
of state or famous...BUT we can all find our life's purpose and work
with the Divine Order and believe we can have love, happiness,
abundance, good health and freedom and make some positive
contribution to life...the saying is very true...be careful what you
wish for because you "will" get it, but it may not be the way you
expect it to happen...we are all co-creators with the Divine...make
sure you are ready and willing to let the Divine do it's part too!
I hesitated to put this on my site because so many people believe
that 'candle magic' can be about control. Unfortunately some do
practice it for that purpose, but I believe that those people will have
to pay for that at some future time. If you read anything about true
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magic then you will know and understand that it is against all
natural law to use it to do harm or to manipulate people or
circumstances. True magic is used to bring about positive change
for the good of ALL and not just the practitioner. Real candle magic
is practiced in harmony with nature and the universe and the belief
is that to practice in this manner magnifies our own personal energy
and creative powers because we align ourselves with the Universal
energy. For a better understanding of this, search out information on
Wicca and Pagan Traditions and see my favorite links page.
One of the simplest of magical arts which comes under the heading
of natural 'magic' is candle burning. Candle magic is simple because
it employs little ritual and few ceremonial tools. The tools of candle
magic can be purchased at any store or shop and its rituals can be
practiced in any sitting room or bedroom.
Most of us have performed our first act of candle magic at a very
early age. We make a wish and blow out the candles. Magic! This
childhood tradition is based on the three magical principals of
visualization, concentration and will power. Broken down, the child
visualizes the end result (make a wish), has to concentrate (blow out
the candles), and hope that it will come true (will power). Candles
invoke divineness, create a sense of ceremony and are an elegant
and comforting addition to any environment. Yet candles really
have a special ability to make wishes come true, because they help
clarify your heart's desire and allow you to focus your intent. Next
time you want to make something positive happen in your life, let a
candle light the way and assist you.
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The size and shape of the candles you use is unimportant, although
larger bulkier ones are not recommended. Most people prefer to use
candles of smaller uniform size if possible. Small tapers and votives
are perfect. Candles you use for any type of 'magical' use should
unused. Under no circumstances use a candle which has already
been previously used. The reason new candles are used is vibrations
and energies picked up by second-hand materials or equipment may
disturb your candle magic and negate the effectiveness.
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You may prefer to make your own candles if you are feeling crafty.
There are many books on Wiccan traditions that have recipes for
candles that incorporate herbs and crystals as well as oils.
Once you have purchased or made your ritual candle it should be
prepared before burning with oil. The purpose of dressing the
candle with oil is to establish a psychic link between the candle and
yourself. By physically touching the candle during the dressing
process, you are charging it with your own personal energies and
also concentrating the desire and intent of your magical act into the
wax. The candle becomes an extension of your mental power and
Spiritual energy.
When you dress a candle for magical use, imagine that it is a
psychic magnet with a North and a South pole. Rub the oil into the
candle beginning at the top or North end and work downwards to
the half-way point. Always brush in the same direction downwards.
This process is then repeated by beginning at the bottom or south
end and working up to the middle.
The best type of oils to use for dressing candles are natural ones
which can be obtained quite easily. Some metaphysical suppliers
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will provide candle magic oils with exotic names. If you do not
want to use these, you can select suitable oils or perfumes from you
own sources. A good simple oil is 'virgin olive oil'. The oil soluble
perfumes sold by craft stores for candle making are also
recommended.
Basic Candle Magic
Preparations
To start you should cleanse your space using a smudge stick if you
have it or use the 'white light' technique, relax , have a positive state
of mind.
Make sure your space is quiet unless you want to use soft music. It's
good not to eat or engage in sexual activity before any 'magic' ritual
as these activities drain your energies. A "cleansing" bath or shower
is also recommended before starting your candle magic session.
Inscribing Candles
Inscribing candles is a way of enhancing the intent of your candle.
Using symbols and words, carve them into the sides of the candle
before it is dressed. For example when attracting love, inscribe the
word LOVE on your pink candle. Then dress the candle from top to
bottom, to attract the love. Rune symbols also work for inscribing
candles. Use your own words symbols that are meaningful to you. It
is the intent while engaging in the process that is important.
1) You can use any kind of candle that appeals to you. White is
always the best choice, but you may want to choose ones whose
colors correspond to specific energies. Red, for example,
corresponds to passion. Yellow improves communications and blue
creates harmony and understanding. Green brings growth and good
health. ( You can also write down the objective of your ritual on a
virgin piece of paper, such as " I will manifest my dream job"..." I
will attract my perfect partner". You can use color paper which
matches the candle. Write your petition on the paper using a
magical alphabet, such as Theban, enochian, malachain, runes, etc.
When you have completed writing down your petition, carefully
fold up the paper in a deliberately slow fashion. Place the end of the
folded paper in the candle flame and set light to it. As you do this
concentrate once more on what you want from life. )
2) Before using it, "dress" the candle by rubbing it with olive oil or
some other magical blend of pure oils. This imparts your special
energies to it and forges a psychic link. (see above)
3) Create an 'altar' or special place where you can burn your candle
and leave it undisturbed afterwards. You can add flowers, incense
or other symbolic items if you wish.
4) Time your candle-burning to correspond to the cycles of the
moon. You can find them out by looking on the weather page of
your newspaper or on the internet. To bring something into your
life, do your rituals when the moon is waxing (or growing). To rid
yourself of something, do it when the moon is waning.
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5) Meditate briefly before lighting the candle to help still the mind
and bring your desire into focus. When you light the flame, state
your intention out loud, in simple, clear terms. Imagine that you
already have what it is you want in your life, not how you will get
it. Watch the flame steadily, but don't stare intently. Focus on being
receptive and open to what it is you want. Visualize the
circumstances under which you might be offered a new job,
different circumstances that could all bring the same end result,
imagine your employer telling you that your salary has been
increased or conjure up a vision of your perfect love partner and
what would emotionally satisfy you. Visualize yourself with a
partner that is communicating with you in a loving respectful
manner. Visualize yourself happy and attracted to that partner, not
focusing on the HOPE that they are attracted to you. These
visualizations are all about YOU, no one else.
(NOTE: DO NOT focus on trying to specifically alter someone
else's behavior...that goes against free will and choice and natural
order and can be very harmful. If you are sending healing, ask
permission from their Higher Self. Do not EVER force anything on
another, even if your intent is good. Focus on visualizing yourself
acting as if you have already attained what it is you seek. Do not try
and manipulate the details of "how" it should manifest...leave that
up to the Universe! )
6) Let the candle burn as long as you want, but never leave it
unattended. Be sure put it out at the end of your session.
Repeat the ritual as often as you like, but don't get obsessive.
Always remember too, the power is not in the candle, but in you!.
The candle is only a tool! Candle burning is a way to help you stay
open to the possibilities of life. It may seem that your particular
wish didn't come true, but who knows? ( Sometimes our wishes
come to us in ways that are not as we specifically asked for. This is
why you need to be open to all the possibilities life throws at you. )
The candles you use can be colored in accordance with the
following magical uses: ( color meanings can vary slightly from
source to source, each book you read will have its own slight
variances on this. )
● White: A balance of all colors; Spiritual enlightenment,
cleansing, clairvoyance, healing, truth seeking; Rituals
involving lunar energy' May be substituted for any color
candle.
● Yellow: Activity, Creativity, unity; brings power of
concentration and imagination to a ritual; use in rituals where
you wish to gain another's confidence or persuade someone,
or in rituals that require solar energy.
● Gold: Fosters understanding and attracts the powers of
cosmic influences; beneficial in rituals intended to bring
about fast luck or money, or in rituals needing solar energy.
● Pink: Promotes romance, friendship; standard color for rituals
to draw affections; a color of femininity, honor, service,
brings friendly, lively conversation to the dinner table.
● Red: Health, passion, love, fertility, strength, courage, will
power; increases magnetism in rituals; draws Aries and
Scorpio energy.
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Silver: Removes negativity and encourages stability; helps
develop psychic abilities; attracts the influence of the Mother
Goddess.
Purple: Power, success, idealism, psychic manifestations;
ideals for rituals to secure ambitions, independence, financial
rewards, or to make contact with the spiritual other world;
increases Neptune energy.
Magenta: Combination of red and violet that oscillates on a
high frequency; energizes rituals where immediate action and
high levels of power or spiritual healing are required.
Brown: Earthly, balanced color; for rituals of material
increase; eliminates indecisiveness; improves powers of
concentration, study, telepathy; increases financial success;
locates objects that have been lost.
Indigo: Color of inertia; stops situations or people; use in
rituals that require a deep meditational state; or in rituals that
demand Saturn energy.
Royal Blue: Promotes laughter and joviality; color or loyalty;
use to attract Jupiter energy, or whenever an influence needs
to be increased.
Light Blue: Spiritual color; helpful in devotional or
inspirational meditations; brings peace and tranquility to the
home; radiates Aquarius energy; employ where a situation
must be synthesized.
Blue: Primary spiritual color; for rituals to obtain wisdom,
harmony, inner light, or peace; confers truth and guidance.
Emerald Green: Important component in Venusian rituals;
attracts love, social delights, and fertility.
Dark Green: Color of ambition, greed, and jealousy;
counteracts these influences in a ritual.
Green: Promotes prosperity, fertility, success; stimulates
rituals for good luck, money, harmony, and rejuvenation.
Grey: Neutral color useful when pondering complex issues
during meditation; in magic, this color often sparks
confusion; it also negates or neutralizes a negative influence.
Black: Opens up the deeper levels of the unconscious; use in
rituals to induce a deep meditative state, or to banish evil or
negativity as in uncrossing rituals; attracts Saturn energy.
If you wanted to use candle magic for healing, you would select a
red candle to burn. To pass an exam, burn a yellow candle, to gain
esoteric knowledge burn a blue candle or for material gain, burn a
purple one. It is obvious these colors relate to the signs of the
zodiac and the planetary forces.
If you are conducting a 'magical ritual' which involves two people
(e.g. an absent healing for a person some distance away) then the
second person can be symbolically represented during the ritual by
another candle. All you need to do is find out the subject's birth date
and burn the appropriate candle for that zodiacal sign. These are as
follows:
● ARIES_____________red
● TAURUS___________green
● GEMINI ___________yellow
● CANCER__________ silver
● LEO______________orange
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LIBRA_____________pink
SCORPIO__________red
SAGITTARIUS______purple
CAPRICORN_______black
AQUARIUS________all colors
PISCES___________mauve
A final thought
A man was caught in his house in a flood. He began praying to God
to rescue him. He had a vision in his head of God's hand reaching
down from heaven and lifting him to safety. The water started to
rise in his house. He heard a neighbor honking his horn outside in a
pick-up truck. The neighbor was yelling at the man to come on and
he would give him a ride to safety. The man yelled back. It's Ok, I
am waiting for God to save me. The neighbor drove off. The man
continued to pray and hold his vision as the waters began rising in
his house. He had to climb up to his roof on the house. He
continued to pray for God to rescue him. He believed with all his
heart that God would reach out that hand and lift him away. As he
was sitting on his roof praying, a boat came by with some people
heading for safe ground. They yelled at the man to grab a rope they
would throw him and they would take him with them. He yelled
back that it was ok, he was waiting for God to save him. They
shook their heads and moved on. The man continued to pray,
believing with all his heart that he would be saved by God. The
flood waters continued to rise and were near the top of the roof
now. A helicopter flew up and a voice came over a loudspeaker
telling the man they would lower a ladder and take him off the roof.
The man waved the helicopter away, yelling that he was waiting for
God to save him. The helicopter took off. The man continued to
pray and hold fast to his vision of God's hand reaching down to
him, but the waters were now coming over the roof and caught him
up and swept him away. He drowned.
The man was in heaven at the foot of God. He asked God, WHY
did you not save me?. I believed in you with all my heart. WHY did
you let me drown?.
God replied:
I sent you a pick-up truck, you refused that.
I sent you a boat, you refused that.
I sent you a helicopter, you refused that.
In MY NAME, what else could I possibly do for you!!!???
NEED I SAY MORE????....:-))
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Chakras
Here is a description of each chakra, their function, the color that
represents it and some ways to open and balance each one.
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The Base Chakra is the energy centre that controls our energy
levels, our connection to the earth and our ambitions.
The base chakra is positioned at the base of the spine, near the top
of the legs. On a physical level this chakra governs the back, legs,
hips, feet, spine and the circulation of the blood. When functioning
negatively, this chakra causes aches, strains and loss of mobility to
these organs.
There is an old saying that we use when we are in trouble. That
saying is, that we must get to the root of the problem so that we can
heal the situation. This is true in the physical, mental and spiritual.
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The base chakra is the root of our manifestation, our existence.
When we learn about our base or root chakra we come to
understand that this centre is the base to past, in this life and our
past - lives. . . It is our connection to the earth and to the physical. . .
The physical being what you can see, feel and hear - True reality.
How we function on this level depends on how this centre is
working. If we are tired, run down and lack ambition and drive, it is
because this centre is not working or absorbing enough positive
energy to help us sustain the high levels needed to think, feel, work
and play.
We need to reconnect to this centre and work with it on a daily
basis. To do this, we have to invoke inner healing that comes from
ourselves. This chakra needs to be flooded with positive energy and
positive love.
I know that we would all like to fly in the heavens, free from all
worries, sickness and stress, but I believe that we can do this on our
earthly existence. Our base chakra is the centre that can help us
achieve health, grounded-ness and vitality.
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This chakra can also unlock our past - lives to help bring old talents
and wisdom into this lifetime. This chakra can also remove any
past- life negative patterns and pain that might be hindering our
present life. In many old cultures they believe in the wheel of life.
We believe that we go through cycles of birth, death and re-birth.
Throughout one lifetime we experience these cycles many times.
Each time we go through a death there is a chance to re-create our
birth in a more healing and positive way.
The base is our root, our connection to the earth, who we are as
humans and how we live our lives in each birth and death cycle.
When we heal this chakra and have it pulsating with positive
healing energy we are able to heal our past, and we learn to function
in a vibrant and alive way for the present and the future.
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Love comes from the heart centre and flows through the body and
out through the aura. How others perceive us or react to us is
because of the energy that we emanate from our auras.
Love is an energy that is able to heal any sickness, emotional
stress and fear that we have locked inside.
On a physical level, this chakra can be the cause of back ache, leg
aches, overweight, underweight, anemia and so on. These problems
arise as emotional baggage that we store in our back, spine and legs.
. . When we have no energy and lack ambition and drive, it is
because we have no connectedness to ourselves and our Mother
earth. By learning to become connected to the physical we can
eliminate many back, leg and circulation problems. These areas
become affected because we store in and hold onto our emotional
baggage. With inner healing we can open ourselves up to any
problems we have in this area.
With creative visualization we become open and exposed to the
higher levels of consciousness that these chakras respond to
positively.
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With the use of colors, we can expose ourselves to vitality, energy
and healing that is activated when we wear certain colors and use
them in our lives.
Red represents life, fire, growth and the burning away of
negativity and weakness. . . Red is the earth, the soil, the stones and
trees. Red makes you wake up and feel alive. The color red heals,
regenerates and inspires enthusiasm and a will to live.
Dancing, music, and drumming also opens up and brings in
positive healing energy into our base chakra. We all have an eternal
beat, that when we tap into, helps us to become open and alive once
more. We sometimes become unbalanced due to the fact that we
have lost our personal beat. Through song, dance and physical
movement we can become aligned once more.
The stone people are the oldest spirit clans alive on earth. These
people are the earth and as such, hold the key to our evolution. They
hold our secrets and our past - lives. Through the use of the stone
people we are able to work with each chakra to unlock and heal any
blockages that we are holding within our being. When we place
them on our energy centers they activate and connect you back to
the earth. Clear quartz is a good crystal that is good for healing with
the base chakra. Clear quartz brings clarity and understanding. It
will help you to unlock any past burdens, fears and baggage that
you are holding onto. This crystal will also unlock wisdom and
knowledge that you have also stored away.
Through the use of animal awareness and their spiritual wisdom
we can also heal our energy centers through spiritual contact with
these animals. . . If you need to learn about groundedness and
stability, you would call on the turtle and her ways. Any four legged
animal would help you to reconnect in some special way.
The Sacral Chakra
The Sacral Chakra is the energy centre that controls your passions,
your sexual needs, the abundance that you allow into your life for
fulfillment of your desires. It also controls the bodies' organs like
your lower sexual organs, your bladder, bowel and lower intestine.
This centre is where you fund your creativity on the physical level.
When functioning positively, it creates a sense of well-being that
is your ability to feel good about yourself. When this Chakra is
aligned and balanced, your emotions are stable and you are able to
express your true feelings to others without fear or exaggeration.
When you learn about your personal expression you become more
self confident, in yourself and your dealings with others.
When functioning properly - you become open, expressive,
creative and spontaneous.
When negative and not functioning positively, you may have a low
self esteem and may think that you are ugly and that you have
nothing worth giving to others. You could have a low sex drive and
find it hard to communicate and respond to your own, and the
opposite sex. These kinds of people deny themselves pleasure and
can become martyrs. They may also give of themselves and their
bodies without any real emotion. This sets up patterns of self
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sacrifice.
The Sacral is also about ourselves as men and woman. For a woman
it is all about our femininity. For men their masculinity. This energy
centre has caused a lot of conflict and emotional pain for many
people within this age of awareness. This is because it has been
flooded with too much sexual responsibility. This centre is all about
passion, freedom and personal expression that can sometimes be
mistaken purely for sexuality.
We have a right to express ourselves and our feelings, but we have
to learn that sometimes passion is related to artistic and creative
pursuits rather than sex, and relationships with others. We have
focused all of our desires and passions onto others, and we have
neglected to allow the energy to flow within ourselves. Even though
this chakra is all about the physical love that we experience with
others, it is much more. We have over focused on this area and shut
down the other attributes that this energy centre has to offer.
A lot of stomach disorders happen because this chakra is
dysfunctional. . . This is because there are issues with others and
how we relate and express emotions outside of ourselves. Sexual
abuse also causes this chakra to become unbalanced. People who
suffer sexual related diseases are caused through the chakra
becoming exposed and vulnerable to negativity.
When we flood this chakra with healing energy, we experience well
- being, which is when we love and appreciate ourselves and our
body.
When we focus on this chakra and heal ourselves, we may find
ourselves questioning our feelings towards our friends and lovers.
The veil has lifted and we may find that once we have become
healed, that these people in our lives are not giving to us enough.
By recognizing and working with unconditional love and healing
we can recreate our friendships and relationships to way that our
emotions and needs are met. We can heal our past and make way
for our future.
When working positively, we are able to experience more positive
and fulfilling friendships and relationships. We are more open,
understanding and compassionate.
We learn to open our creative side and we become filled with a
desire to learn about art, music, dance and spirituality. We are more
open to nature and all her wisdom and beauty.
Our creative talents open, and we begin to explore new horizons.
The color orange is a powerful color that invokes passion,
creativity and vibrancy. The more colorful and bright the orange the
more avant-garde you feel. The more earthly and brown looking the
orange the more connected to the earth and mother nature. Orange
is a mixture of powerful red and willful yellow. Power and will
ignite together to create an explosion of strength self esteem and
vitality.
When you use this color with your sacral chakra, you are able to
invoke this energy into your body. This will create an effect of joy,
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self expression, freedom and fun.
Music, song and dance that has a stimulating and passionate rhythm
will also help to unlock your . . inner passions and your true
personality.
Painting, writing and drawing will also help you to learn how to
express your inner feelings by allowing you to release any
inhibitions that you may have hidden inside of you. By expressing
this way, you are able to view your true feelings without any
interference or conditioning from others.
This chakra is also an earth connecting chakra like the base.
Working on this chakra will also help you to remain focused and
grounded. However, it will also help you with your ability to
interact with all beings that reside upon the earth. . . This chakra is
good for healing relationship issues, healing minor stomach and
digestive orders and help your reproductive organs to function
properly.
The clear and rose quartz as well as blue lace agate, citrine and
mutilated quartz all promote healing and balancing to this chakra.
They help you to open up to your self expression. The rose provides
gentle loving energy. The blue lace inspires creativity and the
citrine provides passion and energy. The rutilated inspires you to
look beyond your present and the clear helps you to gain focus and
clarity.
The Solar (Plexus) Chakra
The Solar controls our will, our personal power. It also controls our
upper intestines and upper back and spine. . . The say our true
wisdom comes from the healthy workings of this chakra. It brings
us our strength, our courage and our will to succeed, achieve and
survive.
The Solar chakra, when functioning negatively can cause a person
to be very fearful. They suffer from a low self esteem. They have
very little self worth. They may allow others to push them around
and control them. They can become very indecisive, fearing to
make any decisions or commitments to anyone or anything.
Because the Solar governs the stomach, many ulcers and stomach
di-orders are caused by stress that is caused by excessive worry
over the future. When this chakra is not functioning properly, we
become very fearful. We carry many burdens and worries for the
future and this can cause back problems as well. The old saying
'whose burdens are you carrying on your back' have a very
symbolic meaning to this centre. You can become a slave to others
needs and wants, which is common when you are within a
relationship and have children. They may not do it deliberately, but
others can take away your own power because theirs needs seem
more important than yours at the time.
This sets the pattern up for a person. They allow their energy to
flow towards others instead of empowering themselves. We can
give out a little of our power, but we get into to a routine where we
become relied upon. We all like to be needed by others. It makes us
feel good to have others that rely upon us, but we can get into the
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habit of giving all our power away and this is what causes us to
become weakened.
Some people go the opposite way with the power that comes from
this centre. They like to control others to an extent that they become
overbearing, controlling and manipulative. This is when they have
recognized that their power may be stronger than others. They pray
on people whose centers are not functioning positively and these
people have become Co-dependent. . . This makes the person with
too much power enjoy a sense of power and control over these
types of people. Many people who are overbearing choose people in
their lives that they can control because it hides their own lack of
self worth.
Many drug problems come from this centre, when not functioning
positively. Also some overweight and underweight problems
manifest because people cover themselves in protection to hide
away their low self esteem. We are a race of people of different
shapes and sizes, not all of us are built to be tall, slim and beautiful,
but some people become so obsessed with their looks and their
bodies because of their own lack of self worth. It is good to have
pride in yourself and wear things and do things positively to your
body, however we must do it for ourselves and not because of what
others think of us. We have to learn to recognize what are our needs
and wants, and not what others expect out of us.
When functioning positively, we have a sense of our own self
worth. We meet our own needs and then we give to others without
giving our own personal power away. We do not compromise on
our own values because others do not believe in our ways. We are
neither controlling, manipulative, hard or weak. We find an equal
balance in ourselves that makes us feel secure. We make the right
choices and decisions in a balanced and fair fashion. We associate
with people who accept us for who we are. We are confident and
are able to express ourselves with honesty and integrity. We fight
for our rights and we also have a sense of what is wrong and what is
right in life. We speak the truth and we share our wisdom with
others without over shadowing another's view or life style. We are
neither racial or judgmental.
Many famous people who fight for the rights of others and try to
make positive changes in our world use their Solar chakra in a
positive and empowering way. We have all met people who, have in
them, strength and a strong vibrant personality that makes us want
to make changes in ourselves and our world. We are all capable of
being like this too.
Through inner healing, we are able to open up the repressed
emotions and feelings that we have buried inside. We are all
spiritual warriors. Inside us all is a strong, wise and loving
individual that is capable of dealing with and healing any negative
situation we are facing.
If we need strength and courage to face the day, we do not look at
others, instead we look into ourselves for this courage and wisdom.
We must learn to accept responsibility for our own actions and in
the way we deal with our lives.
We have to face up to the weaknesses that we have allowed into our
lives. If someone has done wrong to us or hurts us emotionally then
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it was because we gave out an energy that said 'hear I am hurt me' I
know this sounds harsh but if you look deep into this you will see
the truth behind it.
We create our own actions and then others react to our actions
Everybody in the world today has given away their personal power.
This is why the world is in such a mess.
It is time to take back our personal power and our own inner
wisdom.
This chakra is also an earth base chakra. Working on this chakra
will help us to stay focused, strong and grounded to our beliefs,
goals and dreams. This chakra gives us the courage and will to face
each day.
We must open this chakra to meditation. With the Solar, we must
learn to go within and focus on our own needs and wants.
Meditation slows the mind down and helps us to gain focus and
clarity on our inner workings. This chakra responds to soft gentle
music, sounds and movement, like walking and swimming. The
solar responds to water because water has a cleansing and clearing
effect. Also a healthy diet, with only little amounts of meat, but a
lot of fruits, vegetables and pasta help keep this area cleansed.
A good crystal to work with is the clear quartz crystal, fluorite,
agate and chysophase. These crystals help to bring clarity, and
purification, order and balancing to this chakra. They help to release
any blockages and give you the wisdom behind why they had
occurred. By wearing yellow or having this color in our
environment, helps you to show the world that you are at peace with
yourself. This color shows others that you are an individual who is
strong in character, but gentle in spirit. The Lion represents
leadership, control and self esteem. By focusing on this animal as
your guide and protector you can invoke his spirit into your own.
The Heart Chakra
The heart chakra is situated in and around the heart area of our
physical body. The heart pumps the flow of blood that is needed to
keep us alive. Without the heart we can not function on the physical
plain. This one organ controls many other parts on the body. The
blood rushes through our veins and feeds our body with nutrients to
sustain our well-being. This area is what we call the main centre or
control panel for our body.
This area also governs the lungs. We need our lungs to breathe in
the life force energy of oxygen. Without air our physical bodies
would die.
On a physical level we have problems with our heart, blood,
circulation and the vessels that carry the blood, also our lungs and
how we breathe. We have ribs that protect these areas, these also
become weakened when this centre is not functioning properly.
On a mental level, the heart chakra functions on an emotional basis,
our feelings and how we express them towards ourselves and to
others. How we think gets turned into how we behave with our
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feelings on this level. When someone has acted badly towards us,
the mind processes these actions and then sends these waves of
information to our heart centre, who then in turns, sends them out as
feelings of anger, fear or betrayal. When someone tells us that we
are beautiful, our mind does the same. It sends these messages to
the mind and the brain sends them to our heart centre and we
experience feelings of love, joy and happiness, in return we
emanate this energy out into our aura toward others. When we smile
and radiate love outwards the whole world smiles back at us. It is
the same when we are in a negative mood. The same energy comes
outwards and lashes onto those around us. We have to learn just
how powerful our feelings are, not only to ourselves, but to
everyone we encounter.
On a spiritual level this also causes an effect. When one person is
negative and sends that negativity out, others who have vulnerable
heart centers, and lets be honest I think we all suffer from a
vulnerable heart centre, connects to this energy, and it feeds their
soul and creates a global network of negativity. That is why the
world is filled up with so much negativity, so much hatred and
racism and also a lack of love and respect for our Mother Earth.
How we think is how we become. It is our manifestation, our
existence. How we feel is also apart of this story, for how we feel is
how we react. Reactions are what caused good and bad changes in
our lives today.
There are two types of love that are created from this centre. The
first is the love that we have for our children, our friends, outside
family and our lovers. This love comes from a sense on wanting and
needing these people in our lives. . . We love and cherish our
children because they are apart of us, we created them and we want
what is best for them. We want to cherish them and protect them
from all evil. This is natural. However sometimes this energy
becomes so conditional that we put too many expectations onto
them. We smother them and over protect them. The love we feel for
our children should have some conditions, but it should also be
unconditional as well.
The love we feel for our partners is a love as they say has captured
our hearts. Each of us are separate planets. separate universes, when
we meet another, these planets collide and one becomes two. Our
ways and their ways are different and this causes dramas and pain.
We expect too much from the other and they do the same to us as
well. We have to learn to love and accept each other in our own
separate ways We have to learn how to find a middle road when we
are involved with another person emotionally. You cannot make
this type of love unconditional, but through compassion,
understanding and acceptance you can make it more fulfilling and
whole. .
This centre governs and supports our feelings both negative and
positive on the conditional love area. A lot of spiritual people have
a hard time when they decide to become healers and spiritualist on
the unconditional level. You can not mix unconditional love with
conditional love. It is like mixing oil and water. We live in a society
that has rules and regulations, as well as moral obligations.
Conditional love was created from this society. We have based
these ideals on the ways we were taught. It is very hard to make
sudden changes from conditional too unconditional. Because we are
evolving rather quickly spiritually, we think that this area will move
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into the spirit at the same pace. This is wrong. We have to slowly
and gently move. Our feelings are so sensitive that kid gloves are
needed and when we try and push too hard, we fail and that failure
leads us to walk away from the spirit. There is nothing that you can
do, or any pills or healing that will help rush you. You have to find
a middle road with these two loves. Allow them to take you to your
own personal level of awareness. Give it time and they will emerge
together to create a very powerful and uplifting experience, that will
carry you on the wings of healing. Unconditional love is all about
acceptance, joy, happiness, spiritual fulfillment, healing and
wisdom. With unconditional love you do not control or take away
from others, instead you give out positive, uplifting and healing
love, to yourselves and to others. This love, when functioning
properly will heal yourself, your family, friends and even the world.
It will take away any pain, sickness or emotional trauma that you
have had in your past and in your present. You future will come
alive.
When functioning on the negative this chakra makes it hard for us
to feel any real emotions. You feel your lovers, children, family and
friends will not offer any richness or reward in your life. When this
centre is fragile it becomes vulnerable to pain, fear, sickness and a
lack of life. We suffer from envy, jealousy, hatred and closed
heartedness. We become dramatic and all turn into drama queens
demanding attention but refusing to give out in return. . . The world
owes me, but I owe the world nothing in return.
When functioning in the positive, this centre offers us real love, real
friendships and true joy for those that are apart of us. We become
spontaneous with our emotions. Our hearts are full and we want to
share that love with anyone who wishes to feel it's presence. We are
kind, supportive, caring and understanding of others and their ways.
We accept others and love them for who they really are. We lean to
love and appreciate our Mother Earth and all of her creatures. Just
as the ribs protect our hearts, on a spiritual level we want to place a
protection around our world. Just as the lungs give us air to live we
also long to provide a service that will allow others to breathe in the
beauty and wonders of true love. We embrace the brotherhood and
sisterhood of mankind, by accepting all beings and loving them the
way they deserve to be loved and honored. Love brings peace to the
world and all the conflict that is going on in this time of awareness.
Love brings harmony that stops all the conflicts that are raging at
this time. . . Love brings about healing on all levels and in all areas
of our life. The heart centre functions both in the physical and the
spiritual levels. . . It belongs both on Mother Earth and in the
havens. This centre loves and appreciates music, dance yoga, self
expression and drumming. The drum is like a heart beat and this
centre responds to the vibrations that come from the drum. It helps
to realign your internal rhythm, making you strong and connected to
your own self and to the earth we live upon.
This centre also loves trees and anything that gives off a green
energy. . . Trees hold the wisdom and healing knowledge of our
wonderful earth. Our roots and our connections all come from the
knowledge and healing that these beings have to offer. The color
green also allows you to have an earthly existence. This color
creates your identify and also heals you with its connections to the
earth. Green is a powerful healing energy that helps you to release
and heal in a way that you gain spiritual understanding. . .
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The color Pink is also used to help you heal this centre when you
need a gentle caring and nurturing energy. The stone people have
also provided a very loving and powerful crystal called Rose
Quartz. The rose quartz promotes a gentle healing energy for those
who have a lot of emotional trauma and need a more softer and
gentler approach to their pain. All these tools are provided from the
earth and from our creator. When we use them all combined
together we create total healing, for ourselves and for the world.
The Throat Chakra
The throat chakra is situated in the neck area of the body. On a
physical level this chakra governs the throat, thyroid, mouth, teeth,
tongue, and jaw.
The problems that we have on this level are, sore throats, over and
under active thyroids that can lead to a lack of energy, vitality,
overweight and underweight problems.
This chakra governs what we place into our body with food and
other substances. We use the throat to eat and drink. . . If we place
unhealthy things into this centre, it can cause the rest of our body to
become out of balance. . . On other levels like the emotional and
spiritual this can cause confusement and blockages to our creativity
and our emotions. Because this centre also governs our creativity,
sometimes having a bad diet and abusing it with drugs and alcohol
can cause problems in this area. However, when we place healthy
substances into this area, we can create healing, which can enhance
our verbal creativity. We come alive and vibrant in what we say and
how we act.
On an emotional level this chakra governs the aspects of
communication, willpower, truthfulness and creativity. . . If we
cannot express ourselves through our voice to others, we can
become reclusive, shy and retreating in nature. On the other side we
can become loud and overly verbal that can cause us to become
aggressive, overbearing and deceitful. All these problems can cloud
our self expression. . . This can make us hide our true selves away
from others.
This energy centre is very sensitive and can become unbalanced at
an early age. As babies, the only way we could communicate our
needs to our parents was through crying and screaming. We did not
know how to communicate in any other way. If we were chastised
and ignored, our needs were not met and this caused our throat
chakra to start closing down. The cycle of conditioning had begun. .
. Our true self expression was starting to become denied.
As young children, we were loud and vocal, running around
screaming and yelling and enjoying life without the restrictions that
adults have. However, our parents and elders found us too loud and
made us become quiet and this too caused our self expression to
close down even more. . . Throughout our childhood we have had to
suppress our true expression. Which shut down sections of our true
creativity.
As adults, we have been suppressed by all the conditions that were
placed on us while we were growing up. We have become so
conditioned not to express our true selves, that we no longer know
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who is the real person we truly are. . .
We have to learn how to re-open our spontaneous reactions, and
verbal expressions to find our true creativity. To find the true you.
The positive attributes of this chakra on the emotional level are
when we speak the truth, know the truth and act upon that truth. . .
In a way, what we say can sometimes determine to the outside
world what they think of us. Through our verbal actions we express
our true being. Our personality shines outwards for the world to see
through spoken communication.
The throat chakra also governs our voice. Through our voice we can
speak either truth or lies. When we speak in truth, we live in truth.
When we speak in lies, we live in lies. . .
When we act and communicate in a suppressed and negative state,
our living environment lacks luster and creativity. When we are
open and creative, our living environment becomes open and
creative as well. . . On a spiritual level this chakra governs freedom
and expression. This is a type of freedom where we are fully opened
and can communicate with all beings and spirits. On a spiritual
level the throat chakra governs the doorway to peace on earth.
How? By communicating with all beings we learn the truth, and
when we learn the truth, we live the truth.
The color that responds to this chakra is turquoise or pale blue.
When we look up at the sky, we see a beautiful blue color. The
color blue vibrates an energy through the body that embraces the
ideals of openness and the unlimited freedom that is available to all
us. Blue embodies a sense of self expression. Blue is the color of
wisdom, healing and freedom.
We have been granted the gift of sound that comes from our vocal
cords and up through the throat. This sound turns into words and
singing. Through using the voice in song, we can create a vibration
that travels through our whole body. This sound and rhythm enters
into our soul and clears away negative energy blockages that
accumulate when we are sick or under emotional stress. Through
song, we are able to heal the body in a creative and inspiring way.
Through the use of words that are creative and uplifting like poetry
and story telling we are able to inspire ourselves and others.
When the throat chakra is functioning in a positive manner, we are
able to communicate words and verbal rhythms that send out loving
and positive vibrations to the world. These vibrations and energies
enter other beings and inspires them to feel positive and uplifted.
Not only does song and poetry heal us, it can also heal the whole
planet. It is important to recognize this energy centre as a major
emotional and spiritual healing tool. We open our mouths to breathe
in life giving air, we open our mouths to release out stale negative
air. On a spiritual level we use a method of breathing for releasing
any negative or emotional trauma, Breathe in life, breathe out death,
breathe in love, breathe out hate. This chakra is vital for healing
work that uses the release method.
When we express ourselves in an honest, loving and creative way,
we create a positive and uplifting enjoyment of our lives that enrich
our whole being. We have a reason for living. That reason is to gain
the most out of our lives. Through inner healing with creative
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visualization we can learn to open this centre up to our true
potential. With singing, and storytelling and poetry we can learn
about our creativity.
A good stone being that we can use on this chakra is agate,
especially blue lace agate. You can also use the amethyst quartz to
provide you with inspiration. Any crystal that has a blue in its body
will enhance your self expression. The agate family provide you
with the power to cleanse and clear out any blockages. The quartz
provides clarity and understanding.
As John Farnham sang Were not going to live in silence, were not
going to live in fear. Your the voice try and understand it. Make a
noise and make it clear.
The Third Eye Chakra
The Brow or third eye chakra is situated in the middle of the
forehead. On a physical level this chakra governs the pituitary
glands, the skull, eyes, the brain and the nervous system. . . It also
governs our senses, like sight, smell, taste and touch. The pituitary
glands, nervous system and the brain . . govern the energy waves,
that send messages to the rest of the body. . . The skull protects the
brain from outside interference and the eyes give us the ability to
see on the physical.
If this chakra is unbalanced, our physical state of existence can
become confused. This can send our body into a state of disarray.
Sickness is sometimes caused by the way we think. If the energy
waves from our brain and pituitary does not flow in a positive and
balanced direction we can suffer all sorts of mysterious aliments. . .
We can also suffer a lot of headaches, sinus and nasal problems and
dis-ease within the brain and the skull because we are not living in
the physical sense, instead we are in the head always thinking and
worrying about the future instead of living in the now.
We can also suffer from different types of mental dis-orders that are
caused through our nervous system. This is because the cord and
energy that runs inside within the nervous system are blocked. This
causes a build up of energy in certain areas. We become weak and
lose co-ordination in our body because the body is not receiving the
right messages. Our senses of smell and taste can also become
un-balanced. Also our emotions can cause our sense of touching
and communication through affection with others to become off as
well. We can also suffer eye problems because we are refusing to
see the truth to some situation, or we fear seeing something in case
it causes changes in our lives.
When functioning positively, we have good co-ordination and
reflexes. We feel at peace within ourselves and we function
positively on the emotional and physical level. . . We suffer very
little from sickness and stress because our organs that this chakra
governs are healthy and flowing with a balanced amount of energy.
They call this chakra the control panel for the entire mind, body and
spirit. Here everything is processed before any actions or reactions
take place.
On an emotional level, this chakra governs discernment,
knowledge, intuition and wisdom. . . When functioning positively,
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we are able to look at life from a balanced point of view. We are
open to learning, which provides stimulus that makes our life more
fulfilling. . . They say the brain governs our emotions. I do not
entirely believe this scientific point of view, however, when the
brain waves are dis-orientated it can cause us to suffer mental
illnesses like depression, stress and worry.
When functioning positively, we are clear in our thoughts and
focused within or actions and we are able to be educated. We enjoy
learning, and we take that knowledge and apply it to our everyday
lives through action, ambition and energy. We are also able to deal
with any emotional issues or dramas that may arise within our lives.
Because our senses are functioning positively, we are able to use
our senses to foretell any possible dramas and problems that we
may face in the future. Our intuition is high and balanced and we
are able to tell fact from fiction. This area also governs our dream
state, our subconscious and our imagination. When these areas are
functioning positively we sleep deeply and peacefully and we are
open to dreams that educate us and send messages that foretell of
future events. With our imagination we are able to focus on positive
awake dreams that set up our future in the way that brings us
happiness, healing and rewards. With our subconscious, we are able
to program our minds to function in the way we want it too. We
have full control of our bodies and our emotions. When functioning
negatively, We are always in our heads. We constantly worry and
suffer fears and phobias for the future. We can become critical and
analytical always judging others. We suffer a lack of control over
our lives and we can become stupid, refusing to listen and learn. . .
We only focus on negative situations and in our imagination we
create dramas. Our dream state can become filled with night mares.
We can become too intellectual insisting on learning through books
instead of experiencing the wisdom gained from life itself. We live
only for the future instead of living life from the present. We allow
ourselves to suffer from events in our past that hinders our growth
for the present.
On the spiritual level this chakra governs our sixth sense of
awareness. The third eye opens you up to other worlds, other beings
and other senses like clairvoyance, which is the ability to see into
the future. Clairaudience that is the ability to be able to hear spirit
voices and other vibrational frequencies that cannot be heard by the
normal ear. When functioning negatively, we tend to criticize any
spiritual beliefs. We do not believe in the magic of life that is
present in our universe. We can become critical, skeptical and harsh
in the way we look at the world.
When functioning positively, we trust in life and the universal
process that governs our existence here on this plane. We are open
to the realms and planes of consciousness that reside along side our
world. We communicate to beings, we have an understanding of the
soul. We are able to leave our bodies and venture into the past and
the future to set up positive events and healing. We sense people
and their thoughts and feelings through psychic waves of energies
that flow through all living beings. We are open, spontaneous and
alive with life force energy. We think thoughts, we dream dreams
and we set up programs that we know can create healing and
well-being within our lives. We see beyond illusion.
The color that is associated with this energy centre is violet to
purple. These colors vibrate an energy that opens up our intuition
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and imagination. These colors stimulate the brain to function in a
balanced way that helps with education and learning.
There are many crystals that enhance this chakras energy. Lapis
opens you up to the stars and beyond. Azurite and malachite
enhance your psychic abilities. . . Amethyst quartz brings clarity,
wisdom and enhances all your skills that are needed on all levels.
Meditation and gentle subliminal music help to keep this centre
focused and balanced in times of stress and worry. Exercise like
walking and swimming can also help a person to get out of their
head and into their body. The saying 'stop thinking and start feeling
'is a good affirmation to do each day to help solve problems, fears
and doubts. All is well with this chakra when you sleep well, think
positively and have good dreams and goals for the future. You love
to learn and you are open to different ideals about metaphysics. You
can sense danger and have gut feelings and thoughts on future
events.
The Third eye embraces wisdom that goes beyond illusion to
awaken clarity that brings enlightenment.
The Crown Chakra
The Crown chakra is situated at the top of the head. This chakra
governs part of the spinal cord, the stem of the brain, pain centre of
the brain and part of the nerves. When people become sick and
suffer a lot of pain that they cannot handle, it is because the energy
flow is blocked to this chakra. . . A lot of people are able to control
their pain fresh hold levels through focusing on this chakra and
flowing energy through, to stop any pain that is inflicting them. A
lot of ancient warriors in Japan were able to be beaten and not feel
the pain. Different cultural people who use to walk on hot coals,
beat themselves and stitch sharp objects into their bodies, could
come away from these ceremonies without any physical burns,
wounds and pain, through the focusing and belief in this centre, and
it's role in understanding divine belief. . .
This centre through special focusing and breathing can control all
pain. This is because it governs the organs and nerve centers that
control our pain.
When not functioning properly on a physical level this chakra
causes a loss of control over a person's ability to live and interact
with the world. Some people suffer from dis-eases that cause them
to lose movement. Some of the problems that come from this
chakra are blindness, deafness, paraplegics. Loss of limbs and any
disease that attacks the nervous system, brain stem and spinal cord.
There is a loss of energy flow and more so belief, which causes this
chakra to become unbalanced.
This chakra is the chakra that can create miracles. If you believe
and have hope, working with this chakra can bring about true
healing on any level.
When functioning positively on the physical level. You will feel
alive and filled with spiritual energy. Your health is radiant and
your are strong in mind, body and spirit.
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The Crown is at the very top of the body. . . As the base chakra
connects us to Mother Earth, the crown chakra connects us to the
heavens, to the stars and beyond. The sky and all the power and
wisdom that belongs to our higher mind. This chakra is truly an
amazing and life force energy channel for healing and spiritual
awakening.
This chakra governs the connection that we have to the Divine. This
chakra embodies belief, unconditional love and beauty.
When we believe, we are open to learning. When we learn we open
ourselves to life's experiences that challenge us to grow and evolve
into better people.
When we open ourselves to unconditional love, we allow ourselves
to love and accept all beings. We are free from judgment and we are
non racial to others and their beliefs. We embrace the concept that
we are apart of every living thing that exists. If you believe in God,
the Creator or Great spirit, you believe that these beings are apart of
you. . . With unconditional love you are ready to accept other
cultures and their beliefs. You embrace the concept of brother hood
and sisterhood.
Beauty is within. We are all beautiful. When we truly open our
hearts and our eyes we see the beauty in all life. We are able to look
at others who suffer from defects and scars with love and
compassion instead of embarrassment and pity. We are able to
focus on the beauty rather then the scaring. In fact a lot of us do not
recognize afflictions on people unless pointed out to us.
On a spiritual level, the Crown chakra is our connection to healing
and life force energy. This centre is connected to your higher mind.
Your higher mind is the part of you that knows all the answers.
You are able to communicate to the trees, the animals and to mother
earth herself. When you open this chakra up, you can channel
through spirits from different planes, aliens and many more beings
that communicate on this level.
This chakra can also send healing energy down through to the
others' chakras. Telepathy is a form of communicating messages to
other people. If you find that you can sense a friend or family
member trying to make contact with you, it is because your crown
chakra is opened and you are using this centre to send out and
receive messages.
The Crown chakra is like a transmitter to the whole universe. If you
send out thoughts and ideals, dreams and goals through this chakra
you will be heard and a lot of the times your prayers are answered.
However you must learn to use this chakra to do this. I found
through doing Reiki I was able to send out healing and also set up
positive outcomes to events in my life through using this chakra as
a transmitter. It worked. Now I use it all the time to help myself, my
friends and my family and most importantly Mother earth.
There are two major colours that you can use with this chakra. One
is purple and the other is white. White represents all the colors
combined together. So all the energies that exist with all the colors
flow and vibrate a powerful healing frequency through this chakra.
White is divine, pure, honest and new.
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Through inner healing and deep meditation we are able to unlock
our true potential.
The clear quartz crystal is one of the most powerful crystals on
earth. It promotes clarity and transmits energy that opens us up to
all the wisdom of the universe. This crystal is very powerful when
you focused it on the crown chakra.
See also Crown Chakra Meditation.
The Thymus Chakra
We believe that there is a chakra that exists in between the heart
chakra and the throat chakra. This chakra is a very powerful energy
channel that links you to the earth and to the heavens. Uniting with
this chakra brings about great awareness to your emotional and
spiritual planes.
We believe that when this chakra is recognized within the person
and is functioning properly, you will become open to the truth of
your existence. It is like accessing the sacred records. This chakra
seems to bring belief and spiritual wisdom down from the heavens
and connects us to the earthly plane. The higher mind meets the
inner child. Learning to feel this chakra and bringing it back to
awareness is said to bring about healing and wisdom on all levels.
We believe that our bodies have been spiritually tampered with to
stop us from properly evolving. That is why until know we have
forgotten this chakra. . . By bringing this chakra back into
awareness we may actually be able to bring back total healing.
This chakra governs the thymus itself. This takes the pressure off
the heart chakra and evens out the energy. This creates an even
balance for each of the chakras. By knocking gently on this centre
each day we are able to access energy that will make us fell well
and energized.
When we meditate and bring our awareness to this centre we are
able to activate our three bodies. The mind, the body and the soul.
This unites us into one perfect being able to understand and
function fully.
We use the colors blue and green to encourage healing and growth
with this chakra. Working with mediation and inner healing we are
able to open this centre and learn more.
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AKA: Clove pepper, pimento, Jamaican pepper
RX: cooking, oil for toothache, infusion for digestive aid
Allspice is used as a digestive aid, anesthetic, and pain reliever and
has been used to treat flatulence and diabetes.
Warnings: Allspice oil should never be swallowed as it can cause
nausea, vomiting, and even convulsions. The oil can also be
irritating when applied externally to people with sensitive skin or
those with eczema.
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ALOE
AKA: Socrotrine, cape, curaiao, Barbados, Zanzibar aloe
RX: cut mature (lower) leaves for burns, scalds, sunburns, or
cosmetic benefits
Aloe is one of the most widely used herbs for burns, scalds,
sunburns, scrapes and an infection fighter. It can also be used to
smooth and beautify skin.
Warnings: Aloe latex is a very powerful laxative and may cause
severe cramps and diarrhea. It should never be ingested by pregnant
women as it may cause miscarriage.
ANISE
AKA: aniseed, sweet cumin
RX: infusion of seeds, tinctures
It has been used as a cough remedy, digestive aid and contains
chemicals similar to estrogen, which may help with menopausal
discomforts, and has been known to treat some cases of prostrate
cancer.
Warnings: if your doctor has advised you not to use birth control
pills then you should seek the advice of a physician before using
this herb.
BASIL
AKA: sweet basil, St. josephwort
RX: tincture or infusion for acne and general infection fighting
It has been used to treat intestinal parasites, acne and stimulates the
immune system
Warnings: Test have shown that basil may contain a chemical that
has cured liver tumors in mice, although the cancer risks remain
unclear and not even the most conservative herb critics advise
caution when using it.
BAY
AKA: sweet bay, green bay, laurel, Grecian or roman laural
RX: fresh leaves for wounds, infusion , tincture
bay is not only used as a bug repellant, but has been known to
soothe sore joints, treat infections and when added to a bath may
help with relaxation.
Warnings: external uses of bay should be avoided if you have
sensitive skin as it may cause a rash
CARAWAY
AKA: carum
RX: seeds in food, oil, infusion of seeds, tincture
Two chemicals in caraway seeds have been known to soothe the
digestive tract and to help expel gas. It may also be used for relief
of menstrual cramps due to the fact that caraway might relax the
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Warnings: none
CATNIP
AKA: catnip, catswort, catmint, field balm
RX: infusion of flowers and leaves (for you not your cat )
When used in teas, it is considered a cold and cough remedy
because it relieves chest congestion and lessens phlegm.
Warnings: some people may experience upset stomach but catnip is
considered non toxic
CHAMOMILE
AKA: chamomile, anthemis, matricaria, ground apple
RX: infusion or tincture of flowers, herbal bath
This herb is a highly used cure all and every household should
seriously consider having it around. It has been used externally to
treat wounds and inflammations, and internally for indigestion and
ulcers. Chamomile is also used to relieve menstrual cramps, arthritis
and is an effective sedative.
Warnings: People who have previously suffered anaphylactic
reactions from ragweed should think twice about using this herb as
well as its close relative yarrow. Large amounts have caused some
nausea and vomiting.
CHICORY
AKA: endive, chicory
RX: excellent salad addition, infusion, tincture
Chicory is most commonly used to reduce the bitter taste of caffeine
in coffee. It aids in cleansing the urinary tract, digestion, a mild
laxative and is also taken for rheumatic conditions and gout/
Warnings: none
CINNAMON
AKA: Ceylon cinnamon, Saigon cinnamon, cassia
RX: infusion of powdered herb, sprinkle on cuts and scrapes for
treatment
Cinnamon is used for infection prevention, pain relief, a digestive
aid and may help calm the uterus
Warnings: when put on the skin may cause redness and burning
CLOVE
AKA: caryophyllus, clavos
RX: oil , infusion
It has been used for toothaches, oral hygiene, a digestive aid and an
infection fighter. It is also used to treat hernia, ringworm and
athletes foot.
Warnings: Children under the age of 2 should never be given clove
for medicinal purposes. The oil may cause upset stomach when
taken internally and rash when used externally.
CORIANDER
AKA: cilantro, Chinese parsley
RX: infusion of sees
Used for indigestion, flatulence , and diarrhea and externally for
muscle and joint pains.
Warnings: if coriander cause minor discomforts such as upset
stomach use less or stop using it.
CRANBERRY
AKA: n/a
RX: juice
Used for urinary tract infections, incontinence, high vitamin C
content
Warnings: none
DANDELION
AKA: wild endive, lions tooth, piss-in-bed
RX: #1 recommended salad addition, leaf infusion, root decoction,
tincture, add to a bath for prevention of yeast infection
Used for PMS, weight loss, high blood pressure, congestive heart
failure, cancer prevention, yeast infection, digestive aid
Warnings: may cause skin rash in sensitive cases. If dandelions
causes stomach problems use less or stop using it.
DILL
AKA: n/a
RX: chew seeds for fresh breath, infusion or tincture, add to bath
In addition to its preservative action, Dill is an infection fighter and
soothing digestive aid. Used for stomach problems, flatulence,
urinary tract infections
Warnings: may cause rash in sensitive people
ECHINACEA
AKA: coneflower, purple coneflower
RX: tincture of the roots
The #1 best kept secret of the west. This is our #1 recommended
herb due to its high immune system boost. Echinacea kills wide
variety of disease causing viruses mad bacteria , it fights infection
and strengthens tissue. It may prevent infection by seriously
boosting ones immune system. It is known to help the body in the
fighting of colds and flu. It is a treatment for yeast infections and
actually can reduce the future onset of. It helps preserve white
blood cells, is a confirmed healer as it prevents germs from
penetrating tissues and may have anti-arthritic properties. It is
simply the most productive herb of them all.
Warnings: often causes ones tongue to tingle this is not harmful
EUCALYPTUS
AKA: gum tree, blue gum, Australian fever tree
RX: boil leaves as an inhalant, oil on cuts and scrapes, infusion
from leaves, add leaves to bath
Eucalyptol is the chemical that gives eucalyptus its healing
properties. It loosens phlegm, kills influenza and may help
bronchitis. An effective treatment for minor cuts and scrapes and it
even repels cockroaches.
Warnings: do not ingest eucalyptus oil, it is highly poisonous!!.
Fatalities have been reported from ingestion of as little as a
teaspoon. KEEP AWAY FROM CHILDREN!
FENNEL
AKA: finocchio, carosella, Florence fennel
RX: chew seeds for a digestive aid, infusion, tincture
Fennel relaxes the smooth muscle lining of the digestive tract and
also helps expel gas. Used in Germany for infant colic.
Traditionally used to stimulate the uterus into menstruation. This
herb may also help fight prostate cancer.
Warnings: Since fennel has an estrogenic effect do not use if you
are using birth control pills, have a history of abnormal clotting , or
estrogen dependant breast tumors. Do NOT ingest fennel oil, seeds
are fine but the oil may cause nausea, vomiting or possible seizures.
FEVERFEW
AKA: febrifuge plant, wild quinine, bachelor's button
RX: chew leaves for migraine control, remade pills and tablets also
work well for headaches, infusion, tincture
Got a headache maybe a chronic migraine? Feverfew may well be
your answer. Seventy percent of patients in scientific studies show a
significant improvement in their migraine headaches even when
standard medical treatment showed no results. Also traditionally
used for gynecological purposes. This herb may reduce high blood
pressure and is a great digestive aid after meals.
Warnings: may cause sores inside mouth, do not take if you have a
clotting disorder. Remember that feverfew does not cure migraines,
it suppresses them.
GARLIC
AKA: stinking rose, heal-all, poor man's treacle
RX: use cloves in cooking, crush and encapsulate or use pre made
tablets, infusion, tincture
Garlic is the worlds second oldest medicine, and is the traditional
"wonder drug". Many people don't realize that an onion has almost
as much medicinal value as garlic does. Battle wounds in WWI
were treated with garlic juice. Recommended for colds, coughs, flu,
fever, bronchitis, ringworm, intestinal worms, elevated cholesterol,
and general internal organ problems. No standard medication can
match Garlic on the cardiovascular scale. Garlic DEFINITELY
reduces blood pressure, cholesterol and reduces internal clots which
can lead to heart attacks and strokes. Garlic reduces blood sugar and
therefore helps diabetes sufferers. It may help eliminate lead and
heavy metals in the blood steam , has helped leprosy patients, fights
cancer, helps aids patients
Warnings: Allergy sufferers may develop a rash from touching or
eating the herb. If this is the case, discontinue use. If you have a
clotting disorder consult a physician before using.
GINGER
AKA: Asian, African, American ginger
RX: cooking, capsules for motion sickness, tea, infusion, or ginger
ale for digestive aid
This herb helps with motion and morning sickness. It is very good
digestive aid, may ease menstrual cramps, help arthritis, is
traditionally used in the orient for colds and flu and is excellent for
reducing cholesterol, lowering blood pressure and preventing
internal blood clots.
Warnings: Large doses might cause miscarriage although their are
no scientific reports backing this up.
GINKGO
AKA: maiden hair tree
RX: leaves brewed as tea, infusion
The earth's oldest tree, it's given that this herb helps the elderly the
most. Ginkgo increases blood flow to the brain which can help
prevent strokes and heart attacks, improve memory, help impotence
and chronic dizziness. It is also known to help with macular
degeneration (blindness), circulation, asthma, tinnitus and deafness.
A fine example of the need to preserve the earth's natural resources.
Warnings: Do not use if you have a clotting disorder, do not take in
very large amounts as diarrhea, vomiting and irritability can occur.
GINSENG
AKA: root of immortality, man root, life root, seng seng
RX: it is very important to use mature roots (over 6 years old) Use
root powder capsules or tablets
This herb helps the bodies resistance, boosts the immune system,
lowers cholesterol, lowers blood sugars, reduces heart attacks,
protects the liver, helps the appetite and helps cancer patients with
radiation therapy.
HOREHOUND
AKA: marrubium, hoarhound, white horehound
RX: flowers and leaves in infusion or tincture for cough remedy
A popular herbal cough remedy and expectorant for almost 2000
years, horehound is good for minor respiratory problems such as
cough , colds and bronchitis
Warnings: those with heart disease should not take this herb
HYSSOP
AKA: n/a
RX: flowers and leaves as a compress for cold sores and genital
herpes, infusion, tincture
Hyssop inhibits the growth of herpes simplex virus. Scientists agree
it is a "reasonably effective" treatment for cough and irritation of
colds and flu.
Warnings: do not use if pregnant !!! always positively identify
herbs you use. H. Officinalis is the correct herb
JUNIPER
AKA: geneva, genvrier
RX: infusion of berries
The source of gin, this herb also increases urine production ( a
diuretic) - making it a treatment for PMS, high blood pressure and
congestive heart failure. Recommended for arthritis.
Warnings: Long term use can cause kidney damage. If you have a
kidney infection or kidney problems you should not use this herb.
One third of hay fever sufferers develop allergy symptoms from
exposure to Juniper.
KELP
AKA: fucus, seawrack, cutweed, bladderwrack, wakame, hijiki,
kombue, arame
RX: take tablets (herb is unpleasant), infusion
A natural source of iodine, now known as a radiation protector,
protection form heavy metals, reducer of heart disease and an
infection fighter.
Warnings: none
LAVENDER
AKA: English lavender
RX: flowers in bath, general aromatherapy
The all time fragrant herb, lavender makes a great bath addition.
The Greeks and Romans bathed in lavender scented water and it
was from the Latin word, Lavo (to wash) that the herb took its
name. While not technically a medicinal herb, the calming
properties of its aroma are well founded.
Warnings: none
MARIJUANA
AKA: weed, cannibus, pot , dope etc.
RX: smoked dried, added to salads fresh
The much debated and scolded Cannabis, marijuana has shown
positive effects on cancer, aids and glaucoma. So effective on aids
patients from its ability to increase a persons appetite as well as
relieving nausea allowing patients to regain weight. Marijuana
reportedly helps glaucoma patients by reducing ocular pressure
which can cause damage to the eye. It is the most effective
treatment for chronic nausea. It is not physically addictive.
Warnings: Coughing, asthma, upper respiratory problems, difficulty
with short term memory loss, racing heart, agitation, confusion,
paranoia, possible psychological dependence.
MARJORAM
AKA: knotted marjoram
RX: sprinkle dried powdered herb on cold sores or genital herpes,
infusion or tincture for its stomach soothing potential
An excellent digestive aid and herpes fighter, this is one of the most
confused herbs on the planet. The oregano on your spice rack may
be marjoram! All marjoram spices are called oregano but only a few
of the fifty kinds are ever called marjoram.
Warnings: none
MINT
AKA: numerous kinds of mint
RX: peppermint oil for wounds, burns etc., infusion of any dried
mint for decongestant, tincture
The after dinner mint soothes the stomach. Peppermint produces
menthol. Menthol is a key anesthetic (eg. BEN GAY), the vapors
are an incredible decongestant, is germicidal and helps morning
sickness a great deal. Those wishing to alleviate morning sickness
should use only diluted tea concentrations for reasons shown below.
Peppermint is a hybrid of spearmint and is the more potent due to
the high menthol factor. Spearmint contains Carvone in comparison
to menthol. While not nearly as effective, spearmint is much safer.
Warnings: on rare occasions the fragrance of mint oil has caused
gagging in children. Pure menthol, ingested , is poisonous. A
teaspoon can be fatal. Do not ingest peppermint oil or menthol.
MISTLETOE
AKA: lignum crucis, herbe de la croix, viscum
RX: leaves in diluted infusion, tincture for high blood pressure
Mistletoe, the kissing plant, has the ability to slow the pulse, lower
blood pressure and stimulate gastrointestinal and uterine
contractions
Warnings: should be administered only by a qualified
herbal/medicinal doctor. TWO BERRIES CAN KILL A CHILD.
Keep away from children. This herb is highly toxic. Pregnant
women should not use it. This herb is known (unfortunately) for its
abortion inducing properties. The amount needed to induce abortion
is enough to kill you!
MYRRHA
AKA: balsamodendron
RX: steep powdered herb for mouthwash, infusion, tincture
Myrrha makes an excellent mouthwash, toothpaste and fights
bacteria
Warnings: large amounts may have violent laxative action.
NETTLE
AKA: stinging nettle, common nettle, greater nettle
RX: process plant matter in juicer, infusion, tincture
An effective cure for gout, nettle is also good fiord the symptoms of
hay fever, scurvy, PMS, and helps heart patients.
Warnings: USE GLOVES when dealing with this plant or you will
regret it. nature protects its own. Large doses of nettle tea may
cause stomach irritation.
OREGANO (see marjoram)
PARSLEY
AKA: rock selinon
RX: a few sprigs for fresh breath, infusion of leaves and seeds,
tincture
The seeds and the leaves of this plant contain the oil that is known
to curb high blood pressure, help with fever, freshen breath, help
with allergies and help heart patients.
Warnings: do not use to promote weight loss
PEPPER, RED
AKA: hot peppers, most of the pepper family including bell pepper
RX: cooking, infusion
It is a good digestive aid, can relieve infectious diarrhea ( can bring
on noninfectious diarrhea if too many hot peppers are ingested),
helps chronic pain when used externally, is the best shingles
reliever, helps headaches, and tastes great!
Warnings: can burn the eyes, mouth and skin
ROSEMARY:
AKA: rosemarine, incensier
RX: cooking, tea, infusion, tincture
In ancient times people wrapped their meat with rosemary to
prevent spoilage. Rosemary is a natural preservative. Rosemary can
prevent food poisoning, is a digestive aid, is a good decongestant
and can kill bacteria. If you enjoy using rosemary in your cooking,
use more!
Warnings: do not ingest rosemary oil, in large amounts, poisoning
can occur
SAFFRON
AKA: Spanish saffron
RX: 12 to 15 stigmas per cup of boiling water
Since it takes 75,000 flowers to make one pound of saffron, this
herb is very expensive. Heart attack patients may actually save
money using this as it is much cheaper than some clot dissolving
drugs injected to treat heart attack. It can help to control some risk
factors for heart disease. It also reduces cholesterol, de-clogs the
arteries and lowers blood pressure.
Warnings: unless you are pregnant , just the high cost
SAGE
AKA: all types of sage
RX: crushed leaves for cuts and wounds, infusion of dried leaves,
tincture
Sage is the premiere anti-perspirant, cutting perspiration by up to 50
percent. it is a great fighter against infection, a good preservative, a
digestive aid, can reduce blood sugar and helps a sore throat. And
its flavor in meats and sausage is unrivaled!
Warnings: rare cases of inflammation of the lips and lining of the
mouth. Sage oil should not be ingested.
SAVORY
AKA: white time, bean herb
RX: infusion of leaves for childhood colds
A great culinary herb, savory has great soothing properties for
children, it is a great expectorant and digestive aid and is subtle
enough for use with children.
Warnings: none
SKULLCAP
AKA: Quaker bonnet, mad dog weed, hoodwort, helmet flower
RX: use leaf infusion for tranquilizing effects
European medical experts now except skullcap's potential
usefulness as a tranquilizer and sedative, and it is used in many
commercial sleep preparations that are widely available in Europe.
Warnings: large doses may result in confusion, giddiness, twitching,
and possible convulsions
TARRAGON
AKA: dragon herb, estragon, French or Russian tarragon
RX: chew fresh leaves for a toothache, apply fresh leaves to cuts
and wounds, infusion of leaves, tincture
A wonderful treatment for toothaches, tarragon is a great anesthetic
and prevents infections
Warnings: those with history of cancer should not use this herb
TEA
AKA: green tea, black tea
RX: typical leaf infusion
From the orient, to the UK, tea is widely used for its calming
effects. Tea includes stimulants that help colds, congestion, asthma,
diarrhea, tooth decay and help prevents tissue damage form
radiation therapy. Tea only grows in India, Sri Lanka and Indonesia
and is imported around the world. Green tea is simply dried leaf,
black tea is dried and then fermented.
Warnings: caffeine addiction, problems associated with caffeine
THYME
AKA: mother of thyme, common, wild, creeping, wooly
RX: fresh leaves for cuts and wounds, tincture for antiseptic,
infusion of leaves for the stomach.
As well as a culinary delight, thyme fights several disease causing
bacteria and viruses. It is a good digestive aid, helps menstrual
cramps and is a great cold remedy. Germany uses it today to treat
whoop, whooping cough and emphysema.
Warnings: do not ingest thyme oil, it can lead to headache, nausea,
vomiting, weakness, thyroid impairment and heart and respiratory
depression
VALERIAN
AKA: phu, heal-all, garden valerian
RX: infusion of root for sedative properties, tincture
The quite smelly and pungent valerian is a powerful sedative that
was even listed as a tranquilizer in the National Formulary in 1950.
A great replacement for users of valium, valerian can also reduce
high blood pressure.
Warnings: large doses may cause headache, giddiness, blurred
vision, restlessness, nausea and morning grogginess
VERVAIN
AKA: Indian hyssop, blue vervain, verbena, enchanters herb
RX: infusion, tincture
Take two vervain and call me in the morning is how it should be
said. Vervain is a great substitute for aspirin as it has similar effects.
Vervain outside of being a very mild laxative is mainly used for
mild pain relief.
Warnings: anyone with a history of heart problems should not use
this herb
WITCH HAZEL
AKA: hammamelis, snapping hazelnut, winterbloom
RX: astringent decoction of leaves and twigs, astringent gargle
A primary astringent in the herbal world, Witch hazel has
antiseptic, anesthetic, astringent and anti-inflammatory properties.
The clear, pungent extract is a standard for cuts, bruises,
hemorrhoids and sore muscles. It is one of this nation's most widely
used healing herbs. It is much better to find fresh herb then rely on
commercial products containing it.
Warnings: may be used externally on anyone but dilute for children
YARROW
AKA: bloodwort, nose bleed, thousand weed, milfoil, soldiers
woundwort
RX: use fresh leaves and flowers for cuts and scrapes, infusion for
calming and menstrual easing effects, tincture
An excellent wound treatment, yarrow has many healing properties,
is a good digestive aid, helps menstrual cramps and is a good
sedative
Warnings: large doses may turn urine brown, this is not harmful.
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Blue Roses- Specially crafted to honor the Goddess in all her
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Carnations - A sweet floral scent traditionally used for healing.
Cherry - Sacred to Venus, this blend will attract and stimulate love.
Cinnamon - Use to gain wealth and success.
Coconut - Burn for protection and purification.
Copal - Sacred to the Mayan and Aztecs, this blend is suitable for
honoring the Gods.
Frangipani- Burn to brighten your home with friendship and love.
Frankincense - Draw upon the energy of the sun to create sacred
space, consecrate objects, and stimulate positive vibrations.
Honeysuckle - Burn for good health, luck, and psychic power.
Jasmine - For luck in general, especially in matters relating to love.
Lotus - For inner peace and outer harmony, to aid in meditation and
open the mind's eye.
Musk - Burn for courage and vitality, or to heighten sensual
passion.
Myrrh - An ancient incense for protection, healing, purification and
spirituality.
Passionflower - For peace of mind, this sweet scent will soothe
troubles and aid in sleep.
Patchouli Patchouli - An earthy scent used in money and attraction
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Pine - Burn for strength, and to reverse negative energies.
Rose - For love magick, and to return calm energies to the home.
Sandalwood - A delicious all purpose scent used to heal and protect,
also for purification.
Spice - A fiery scent to be charged for any magick.
Spirit - Raise your personal vibration, attract spirit guides and honor
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Strawberry - For love, luck and friendship.
Tangerine - A solar aroma used to attract prosperity.
Temple - A devotional incense for the altar during ritual.
Vanilla - Stimulate amorous appetites and enhance memory.
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Divination - Azurite, Flint, Hematite, Jet, Moonstone, Amethyst,
Sodallite Obsidian.
Dreams - Amethyst, Charoite, Sugilite, Fluorite.
Friendship - Pink Tourmaline, Chrysoprase, Turquoise.
Grounding - Hematite, Kunzite, Obsidian, Jet, Salt, Black
Tourmaline.
Healing - Agate, Amber, Aventurine, Calcite, Coral, Clear Quartz,
Garnet, Jade, Malachite.
Longevity - Agate, Fossils, Jade, Petrified Wood.
Love- Alexandrite, Amber, Chrysocolla, Emerald, Lepidolite, Pearl,
Moonstone, Rose Quartz.
Magickal Power - Bloodstone, Malachite, Ruby, Fluorite.
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Malachite, Green Tourmaline.
Peace - Aquamarine, Lepidolite, Rhodonite, Blue Tourmaline.
Physical Energy - Beryl, Selenite, Sunstone, Tiger's Eye, Red
Zircon, Citrine.
Protection - Agate, Calcite, Apache Tear, Lapis, Mica, Obsidian,
Topaz, Clear quartz, black tourmaline, hemitite
Psychic Ability - Amethyst, Sodalite, Chaurolite, Lapis, Holey
Stones.
Sexual Energy - Carnelian, Sunstone, Citrine, Jasper.
Spirituality - Lepidolite, Amethyst, Sugilite, Lapis, Moonstone.
Wisdom - Sugilite, Chrysocolla, Sodalite.
Enchantment - Flourite, Amethyst, Sugilite.
Goddess - Moonstone, Chrysocolla.
God - Citrine, Malachite, Sunstone.
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metaphysical properties. I always recommend people get some
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PROPERTIES
Abalone: Usually found off the coasts of S. America, Japan, and
China. Used by athletes to help build and protect muscle tissue.
Also benefits the heart and helps in digestion. Nicknamed the sea
ears, the Abalone''s flattened, oval shape with iridescent interior
was used by the Native Northwest American Indians as a natural
vessel for cleansing, offerings and prayers.
Agate: Composed of microscopic crystals of Quartz laid down in
colorful bands or ribbons. The appearance of the stone is waxy and
soft. Almost always translucent and occasionally transparent.
Agates are grounding stones. They help obtain a better
physical/emotional balance. They work to raise consciousness.
Builds self-confidence. blue Lace: Helps to focus on the inner
source of love within you that transforms and heals all wounds.
Contains the qualities of flight, air, movement, and grace. Highly
inspirational when working with the inner self. Works well with not
only the Throat Chakra, but the Heart, Third Eye and Crown
Chakra. Strengthens hereditary skeletal structure, outward
manifested growths, Arthritis. Chalcedony Qtz: Red, orange,
yellow, browns: Solid, Grounding. For stomach, colon, liver,
spleen, kidneys. Centering, taking heart. Bloodsugar, anorexia/food
issues, lymphnodes, Balances emotions. Insight, Restores nerve
feeling and healing after injury/burns. Gaze into for meditation.
Left/Right brain balance. Pineal, pituitary; coordination. Patience,
peace. Cools. Moss: Connects one to Nature. Translucent,
transparent agate containing inclusions of minerals that look like
moss or foliage. Improves ego and self-esteem, emotional balance
and strengthens positive personality traits. Allows one to see all the
beauty one's eyes touch. Botswana: Gray and waxy in appearance.
Strongly recommended for firefighters, people who smoke, and for
anyone who comes in regular contact with excessive amounts of
heat or smoke. Helpful for anyone who wants to quit smoking.
Beneficial to the circulatory system, the skin, and the brain. A
pleasant side effect may be giddiness. Soothes depression. Fire:
Most often found in North America. Comes in shades of orange,
brown, blue, or green. Strong connection to the energies of the
earth. Excellent stone to use before meditating. Induces a feeling of
relaxation. Helps alleviate problems relating to the stomach and
endocrine system. Helps you examine and deal with problems in a
calm and safe manner. Helps take the edge off difficult experiences.
Recommended for dentists, optometrists, and those in the healing
profession.
Albite: White or translucent stone with a bluish tinge. Found in
North America, England, France, Japan, and Kenya. Moonstones
are a cut and polished form of Albite. Helps relieve depression and
can be used as a booster for the immune and respiratory systems.
Soothing for mental stress. Strengthens the spleen and thymus.
Alexandrite: (A chrysoberyl.) Clear violet-green, lt. blue or
orange-yellow iridescence. Extremely rare. Alexandrite changes
color with source of light. That is incandescent light vs sunlight vs
flourescent light. Opens Heart, Solar Plexus, and especially Crown
Centers. For healing, centering, self-esteem. Rare and Powerful.
Opens to higher self, disattachment, psychicness, spiritual love, joy,
and luck. Excellent tissue regeneration; especially Central Nervous
System.
Amazonite: Solid Lt. Blue/turquoise. Prosperity. Gentle Friendly,
calming, soothing; Opens throat, heart, and solar plexus centers for
self-expression, artistic creativity, healing. Throat, thyroid, nerve
and Brain paths. Reduces self-damaging behavior, increases straight
posture of self-respect, confidence, grace, self-assuredness with
communication. Great over a door to bring in new business. Green
stone instrumental in distilling the raw information used for
personal expression. It is a pale green form of Microcline, a potash
feldspar, and is found in Brazil, U.S.S.R., and U.S. The best crystals
are found near Pike's Peak. Soothes the brain and nervous system.
Helps filter information and combines it with natural intuition.
Enhances masculine qualities. Good for anyone involved in the arts.
Amber: Clear yellow or orange ancient petrified resin (possibly pine
tree). Electromagnetic. Past Life Work, Weight Gain. Opens solar
plexus chakra for mental clarity, moods balance, confidence.
Stomach anxiety, spine, Central Nervous System, brain, memory
loss, cell regeneration. Aligns mental and emotional bodies via
orange and yellow. Excellent detoxification and protection from
radiation, especially x-rays, sun, computers, airport, planes and
others' energies. Sacred use (incense/worn) by Asian and American
Indians, and worldwide. Useful on the brain, lungs, thyroid, spleen,
endocrine system, inner ear, and neurological tissue. Draws disease
out of afflicted areas and neutralizes negative energy. It is a
grounding healer. Can add stability to your life. Helpful in clearing
up depression and bringing about a positive mental state. Also
useful as a memory aid. Amber should be cleansed after being used
for healing to dispense the negative energy it has absorbed.
Amethyst: Translucent, purple/lavendar Qtz. Psychicness, imagery,
mind quieting. Wear when sleeping or when awake to reduce anger,
impatience, and nightmares. Brow + Crown Chakra. Headaches,
eyes, scalp/hair, pituitary, pineal, bloodsugar balance. Especially
helps sobriety; alcohol/food/sex/other addictions. Famous ancient
detoxicifier (especially helped with poisons, alcohol). Dream recall.
Stone of spirituality, contentment, meditation. Provides common
sense, flexibility in decisions. Quartz stone found in Brazil, Canada,
Sri Lanka, and parts of East Africa. Color varies from a deep violet
to a pale lavender, almost to the point of being clear. Amethyst has
a direct link to the mind. It bolsters the production of the hormones,
and strengthens the cleansing organs, the circulatory system and
blood, the immune system, and body metabolism. It soothes the
nervous system and aids in the transmission of neural signals. Helps
you feel less scattered and more in control of your faculties.
Memory skills and motivation improve. Goals are clearer, more
realistic, and easier to achieve. However, you must use this stone
cautiously with subjects who have paranoid or schizoid tendencies.
Can benefit people with insomnia or troubled sleep. Ideal for those
who meditate. Promotes selflessness. Useful in dispelling rage,
anger, fear, and anxiety, and is a good stone for clarifying and
remembering dreams. Helps relieve physical and emotional pain.
Strongly recommended that when using Amethyst in conjunction
with other stones or crystals, Rose Quartz is used. Amethysts are
recommended for dancers and optometrists.
Angelite: Medium blue to white crystals. Fairly new discovery in
Peru during the Harmonic Conversion. Excellent balancer,
polarizing and aligning the physical body with the ethereal network.
Used to call your Angels for guidance and support. Psychic
connection to oneness with universe, angelic realm, spiritual
guidance. Astral travel, heightened sensory awareness. Seeing paths
to surmount challenges. Aligns physical and etheric fields for
healing self & others. Regenerates and rejuvenates ill or depleted
areas. Provides a protective energy field around the area where it is
placed.
Apache Tears: Small, dark, smoky-translucent Obsidian pebbles.
Eases and releases pain, loss, sadness, anger, to help heal and go on
with life. For looking within, protection, vision quest/purpose.
gently grounds and unblocks lower body and endocrine
glands/chakras. Helps healing. Represents tears of grief shed by
Native American women after their loved ones' deaths due to
invading troops.
Apatite: Transparent dk. blue, yellow, clear...Weight loss. Helps to
deepen meditation. Blue and purple are used especially to heal and
stimulate throat Chakra and kidney point for selfexpression, teaching, healing mouth, throat, thyroid, high blood
pressure, stuttering. Reducing hunger. High Calcium content
strengthens bones, muscles, mineral assimilation. Use yellow on
Solar Plexus and Brow Chakra. A mineral still in its embryonic
stage as a healer. Comes in many forms and colors. Easily confused
with half a dozen other minerals. Found in transparent, translucent,
and opaque forms. Varies in color from white to brown to green to
yellow and even violet. Crystal form is hexagonal and glassy in
appearance. Found all over North America as well as in Mexico,
Norway, USSR and Sri Lanka. Most commonly confused with
Fluorite and Aquamarine. Benefits muscle tissue and general motor
skills. Promotes calcium absorption. Eases hypertension and
restores clear thought.
Apophyllite:Clear, white, light green striated crystals. Helps one
connect tot spirit and act in truth. Very powerful for deep, peaceful
stillness and alpha state/meditation/dream recall. Clairvoyance, out
of body travel. Green is most powerful: Heals and brings joyous
openness to the heart Chakra as it opens the brow and crown
chakras. Clears mental fuzziness and channels for with higher-self +
angelic realm contact. Helps see truth for growth. Mirror
Apophylite has the additional reflective qualities of being able to
recieve back what intentions are sent into the "mirror' of this stone.
It has been used for centuries in India in the "art of gazing". One
Mirror Apophylite is usually passed down from generation to
generation. It is often called upon to reflect doings from the past to
its user, in order to see both the good and the bad aspects of a
families' past. Allowing the gazer to be aware of and work on
improving the defieciencies from within. It provides a clear and
absolute connection between the physical bodies and the astral
bodies of its user. Mirror Apophylite is an extremely powerful
crystal and will also enrich the users' intuitive capacities by
stimulating the Third Eye Chakra.
Aqua Aura: Clear quartz with metallic light blue tint from electrical
infusion of gold (amplifies quartz conductivity). Increases ability to
send energy & alter consciousness for meditation, telepathy,
healing. Opens/clears throat.
Aquamarine: A beryl. Clear light blue, blue-green. Tranquilizing,
uplifting, openess, innocence, lightheartedness, creativity,
communication, self-awareness, confidence, purpose. Throat (&
spleen) Chakra, Heart, immune system, thymus, lymphnodes,
Especially for mouth, ears. Affects etheric and mental levels.
Releases anxiety, fear, restlessness, peaceful stillness. Breathing
allergies, water travel, journeys, seeing through people, protection.
Found in the US, Mexico, USSR, Brazil, and India. Has a soothing
influence. The stone also occurs in a golden yellow color. Helps
stabilize and harmonize unsettled surroundings. Filters out
unnecessary information to the brain. Calms the nerves. Clarifies
perception and strengthens the body's cleansing organs such as the
liver, spleen, thyroid, and kidneys. Helps the eyes, jaw, neck,
stomach, teeth, and throat. Was given to sailors as protection
against drowning and for courage in battle. Helps reduce fears. Has
an affinity with sensitive and mystical people. Increases creativity
and sharpens intuition. Excellent stone for meditation. Helps one
attune to nature. Quiets the mind and reduces stress. Helps bring
about a tolerance toward others. Recommended as a purifier of the
throat and helps sore throats. Clears blocked communication and
aids the user in verbal expression. It is a good stone for teachers,
counselors, chiropractors, genetic engineers, lecturers, and massage,
reiki and crystal therapy practitioners.
Aragonite: Translucent purple-pink-brown hexagonal, or white
needle crystals. Deep, peaceful meditation; uplifts emotions.
Centering, overview, patience under stress, helps us navigate
business/managerial/personal challenges with a clear head and
steady hand. Giving and receiving easily. Balances yin-yang. Eyes,
brain, Central Nervous System, heart, opens spiritual/brow chakra
for day-to-day living with an open heart and mind.
Aventurine: Translucent dark/lt. green quartz. Heals emotional
pain/fear/imbalance by dissolving blocks in the heart Chakra.
Historically also draws out heat of fevers, inflammation, nervous
system, stress. In your bath water, a soft, soothing stone for general
healing. Universal love, truth, prosperity.
Azurite: Solid deep blue, blue-purple. A blue copper-based stone
found in association with Malachite, which is its cousin. Less
common than Malachite but found in abundance in Arizona.
Activates brow and throat Chakra more assertive communication
and alert, quite, deep access to subconscious and other
times/places/lives. Psychicness, creativity, decisiveness, deeper
insight, seeing truth, reduces depression, anger, abnormal cell
growth. High copper content stimulates thyroid, sinus, skin
cleansing, spleen, nervous system, mental and etheric bodies.
Referred to as the jewel of wisdom. It is said to increase psychic
abilities. Esoteric gem literature states that Azurite can restructure
molecules, revitalize the brain, rebuild gray matter, and aid in
developing embryonic babies in the womb. The deep blue stone
helps you release the past and gracefully anticipate and accept the
future simultaneously. Cultivates the ability to reach into the
subconscious and examines states of mind. This cleanses the mind
and makes one more capable of insight and pure thought. Helps one
recognize the resources within themselves. Benefits the spleen,
thyroid, bones, and skin. An integral part of many crystal and
gemstone-healing layouts. Also enhances meditation.
BERYL Family: Strong, hard. (Some look "Greasy"). Clear: Brow
& Throat Chakra Heliodor/Golden Brown: Stimulates the mind,
nervous system, spine, bones, Solar Plexus and 3rd eye Chakra with
warm sun energy for mental clarity, confidence, will power,
visualizing, protection. Helps stomach, intestines, works with
mental body for exhaustion, depression, ulcers, nausea, eating
disorders. Cleans emotional and physical toxins from liver, skin,
including fear and resentment. Pink: Excellent for heart Chakra
growth, transition, stabilizing. This stone is found in the US, India,
and USSR. Comes in shades of yellow, gold, white, blue, or green.
Helps teach one to cease doing the unnecessary. Assists its
possessor in learning how to filter out distractions and unnecessary
stimulation. Good for relieving stress, calming the mind. Beneficial
for elimination organs such as the kidneys, liver, and intestines.
Helps strengthen the circulatory and pulmonary systems, making
them more resistant to toxins and pollutants. Helpful to the eyes,
throat and easing a stressed mental state. Uses as a sedative. Beryl
reawakens the love of married people.
Bloodstone:
("Heliotrope") Solid dark green, red flecks. Electromagnetic (high
iron). Ancient Egypt, Atlantis used to calm, ground, revitalize.
Classic for wealth, menstrual cramps, anemia, bloodclots,
hemorrhoids, birthing/reproductivity, imbalance. Cleansing heart
and blood circulation, marrow, thymus, lungs; Heart. Found in the
USSR and India. A deep green with flecks of red, often resembling
drops of blood. Benefits the circulatory system. Helps purify toxic
blood and detoxify the kidneys, liver, and spleen. Increases courage,
helps in avoiding dangerous situations by soothing the mind.
Benefits the bones, heart, and reproductive organs. Helps raise
consciousness. If Bloodstone is used for a specific healing layout, it
should be used by someone who has experience with the stone.
Boji Stones:
Iron-magnetite concretion. Solid round, grey-brown discs with high
iron. Grounding, electromagnetic. Balances body's energy field.
Many have found they reduce pain by holding 1 in each hand.
Recharges electrically in sun. (Store boji's apart -magneticness
neutralizes each other. Also wearing/holding with tiger's eye or
other stone containing asbestos may bring on ill feeling.) Rough
"male" and smooth "female" stones both have + and - charge.
Brass:
Flattens and grounds energy. (poor conductor); not generally used
for healing. can dull/block energy. May be used as shield, reducing
sensitivity and awareness. A common alloy made by combing
Copper and Zinc. Recommended by healers as helpful to people
who have unusually high levels of metal in their bloodstream, since
it is a blood cleanser and detoxifier. Also used for hair loss.
Calcite:
Milky yellow, peach, green, white or clear crystals. Soft. Lime
Green: Tranquility; soothes spiritual heart; helps us learn from
lessons in each situation and new options. Clarifies visions,
imagery, astral travel and recall. Helps us replace fears, old ways
with healthier ones. Cleans toxins and fumes from body. Needs
cleansing if sticky. Yellow: Spine, bones. Detoxification of kidneys,
pancreas, spleen. Decalcifying joints. Clear/Optical: Clearer vision
& communication, wellness, general cleansing. Blue: Eases pain
(especially back). Orange: Uplifting, joy, happiness, humor.
Abundant crystal that comes in shades of white, gray, black, green,
yellow, blue, brown, or red. Beneficial for the cleansing organs,
bones, joints, and for sharpening mental clarity. Helps boost
memory. Helps one draw more insight from books or personal
experience by making important information easier to remember.
Green Calcite helps you adjust to the transition from a stagnant or
negative situation to a challenging, more fulfilling, and positive
one. Athletes use Calcite because they feel it can aid the bones and
joints that are stressed or injured during practice or competition.
Gold or yellow calcite is used by people who meditate because the
color is linked to the sun and light. Recommended for astral
projection. Calcite is strongly recommended for those involved in
the healing professions.
Carnelian:
Chalcedony (jasper) qtz. Translucent. confidence, boldness,
initiative, dramatic abilities, assertiveness, outgoingness. Precision,
analysis, appetite, awareness of feelings. Orange and yellow
Chakra. Warms and cleanses blood, kidneys, stimulates appetite,
emotions, passion, sexuality, physical energy, celebration,
reproductive system, menstrual cramps, arthritis, kidneys, gall
bladder, pancreas. Historically also used to pull excess fever out
through the feet. Comes in a variety of colors ranging from red to
orange and, in some cases, even to dark brown. Helps you feel
anchored and comfortable with your surroundings. Provides a
connection to the past or to historical events. Strongly influences
the reproductive organs. Purifies the blood and liver, and it is
excellent for lower back trouble. Can improve motivation. Helps
one achieve greater success in career or personal matters. Helps
ground people who meditate.
Cat's Eye:
See Chrysoberyl.
Celestite:
White, clear, or cool lt. blue cluster crystals. Gentle. Soothes
nerves, stress. Quiets mind. Serenity, harmony, easiness, stillness
for receiving, connection to spirit, overview, creativity. Helps
Throat Chakra. Honesty, openness, stress, worry, hearing, thyroid,
potassium/manganese deficiency, Central Nervous System,
tiredness, fades in sunlight.
Cerussite:
Clear/misty white to brown. Helps us be centered, confident,
capable and versatile amidst life's challenges. Grounding to
here/now and higher self. Graciousness, good
listening/communication skills. Translate higher concepts to
everyday language. Psychicness, clarity. Shows what we can/can't
change. Letting go (stress, addictions..) Insomnia, Central Nervous
System, coordination, general healing. Both grounds root chakra
and opens crown (& Throat) Chakra. Plant growth , protection
against bugs.
Chalcedony:
A type of Quartz that heads a family which includes Agate,
Carnelian, Jasper, Tiger's Eye, and Onyx. Found in the US, Sri
Lanka, USSR, Mexico and Brazil. Gray is most common color but
stone are found in shades of white, black, blue, and brown. Helps
ease self-doubts, makes one more reflective. Eases bad dreams and
problems related to the eye, gall bladder, bones, spleen, blood, and
circulatory organs. Cleansing in nature and will promote healing of
open sores. It needn't be cleaned afterward since it has such strong
cleansing qualities of its own. Fosters teh maternal instinct and is
said to aid lactation.
Charoite:
Purple, solid. Newly coming into greater use. Works with Indigo &
violet Chakra to transmute/lift us out of emotions, fear. Seeing old
patterns with new possibilities. Opens heart, inspiration, service,
seeing clearly (mentally, physically, psychically), faster healing.
Some find useful also for entity release work and alcohol/liver
detoxification.
Chrysoberyl:
Translucent Gold or Green Cat's Eye (often confused with qtz.
Tiger's Eye, but rarer). Usually clear, green or green/brown,
nongreasy. For acquiring more prosperity. Confidence, self-pride,
healing. Amplifies other gems Some are irradiated to turn greentrust your feeling with each stone.
Chrysocolla/Gem Silica:
Solid Lt. blue/blue-green. Gentle, soothing, friendly. Excellent for
Heart Chakra; flushes and heals heart blocks (loss, hurt, guilt,
fear...) for allowingness, flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart,
patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing daily. On Throat,
expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity, thyroid. Also,
heart bloodsugar, and emotional balance. High conductivity from
copper draws out pain, heat (fevers, inflammations, arthritis...),
Excellent therapeutic assistance for healing loss, incest, other
traumas. Cleanses auric field. Dreams and Earth healing.
A stone found in shades of blue or green. Mined in Mexico, Zaire,
Chile, USSR and US. Resembles Turquoise and its properties are
similar to it. Benefits arthritis and other bone diseases as well as the
organs of the digestive tract, and ulcers become less problematic.
Relieves hypertension and stressful conditions due to fear or gilt.
Helps one feel more comfortable speaking the truth. Help develop
personal confidence. Historically used by musicians, perhaps
because of its reputation for having healing properties for throat and
lungs.
Chrysoprase:
Bright translucent green chalcedony. Uplifts heart Chakra. Greater
flexibility, wisdom, generosity, self-confidence. Heals depression,
excess self-focus, emotions/sexual imbalance. Placed on heart,
neck, or on brown for meditation.
A quartz stone found in the USSR, Brazil, Australia, and US. A
bright green crystal similar in color to green apples. Helps one
achieve greater personal insight, feel more clam, become less
egotistical, and more open to new surroundings and situations.
Stimulates creativity and draws out unknown talents. Enhances
fertility for both sexes. Helps guard against sexually transmitted
diseases. Also helps gout, mental illness, and eye problems.
Citrine:
Clear yellow qtz. (Yellow from Iron.) For Solar Plexus Chakra.
Mental and emotional clarity. Problem-solving, memory, will
power, optimism, confidence, self-discipline, digestion. Reduces
anxiety, fear, depression, stomach tension, food disorders, allergies.
Detoxification: Spleen, kidneys, liver, urinary system, intestines.
Electromagnetic. Citrine is one of two crystals which never have to
be cleansed of negative energy.
An energizing and highly beneficial crystal. Its color is usually a
pale golden yellow, but can be found in darker shades as well,
although some literature considers the darkest crystals to be Smoky
Quartz. The Celtic people of Scotland call the dark Citrine crystals
Morion and Cairngorm.They are invigorating and positive. Can
surround and fill anyone with its brilliant color, energizing every
aspect of life. Increases motivation and promotes physical activity,
which in turn improves digestion and helps the cleansing organs.
May also work as a detoxifier for the blood. Persons involved with
education or business will especially benefit. Can guide you to
harness and utilize your creative energy. Helps us analyze events
and steer them in a positive direction. Develops inner calm and
security, and makes us less sensitive and more open to constructive
criticism. Can dispel negative feelings and help us to accept the
flow of events.
Cobalt-Calcite:
(Calcite, pink from Cobalt) Brings love, patience, gentleness,
compassion. Soothes intensity of feelings. Mental and emotional
balance.
Copper:
Excellent energy conductor! Sends and amplifies thoughts, healing,
and gem electrical energy into wearer's energy field. Next to skin:
Detoxes and soothes arthritis, rheumatism, other inflammation
problems. 3rd chakra: stomach, intestines. Warms, releases
resentment, anger. Built up in joints as arthritis. Exhaustion
recovery, circulation, balances warm sun energy and cool lunar
energy. Energize with sun.
A plentiful metal ore that ranges in color from a soft red-brown to a
deep brick red. Assists in the fight against inflammatory diseases
such as arthritis and rheumatism, particularly when used in
conjunction with other stones. Helps stabilize the metabolism and
heightens the immune system. The blood also benefits from Copper.
Beneficial for the lungs, improving the exchange of oxygen and
filtering out pollutants. Soft tissue and mucous membranes retain
more moisture and become less susceptible to irritation. An
excellent aid for increasing your ability to express and accept true
feelings. Balance personal reserve and confidence.
Coral:
Calcium and calcite. Coral brings diplomacy and concurrence,
quiets emotions, brings peace to innerself. Facilitates intuition,
imagination, visualization, expedite, accelerate the transfer of
knowledge. Strengthens both circulatory and bone structure in the
body. Stimulates tissue regeneration and nourish blood cells. Helps
with disorders of the spinal, alimentary canals, nervous system and
thalamus.
Red and orange: stimulates Root and Spleen Chakra for energy and
warmth, fertility. Energizes emotions. Muscles, blood, heart,
reproductive system; thyroid, metabolism; meridians; spine, bone
and tissue regeneration. (Avoid if high blood pressure, fever,
anxious.)
Pink: Heart Chakra, increases sensitivity, caring, compassion.
White: Soothes; heals meridians, stress, smell ability, nerves.
Black: Creativity, repels lower energies.
Blue: activates and energizes the Throat Chakra. Also used to
illuminate the Third Eye Chakra, enhancing psychic awareness and
capabilities of the user. Facilitates the improvement/permanence in
pursuit of commerce, improves communication abilities, treatment
of throat ailments and cleansing of mucoid system. Different colors
of Coral can be used alone, in combination, or all together.
Sympathetic to both the skeletal structure and the circulatory
system. Good stone for ailments of the bones and blood such as
arthritis and anemia. Also benefits the cleansing organs and thymus.
Helps battle mental illnesses. Has a true link with the past and can
pass knowledge along.
Corundum:
Second hardest mineral. Insight to the unknown. Intuitive
awareness, stimulates ambition, confidence. Subdues and calms
emotions, harsh and irritable attitudes, releases anger. Soothes and
smooths the skin, eye disorders, brings peace to the body.
Creedite:
A white stone found in the US and Mexico. Beneficial to the body's
cleansing system. Useful for blood detoxification. Helps one
discover how best to express themselves and intuitively understand
other people. Will also benefit the nervous system by aiding in the
transmission of nerve impulses.
Cuprite:
Deep wine red. (High copper content) Opens flow of Root and
Spleen Chakras, Kundalini energy, will power. Also, with Heart
Chakra. Strengthens thymus, heart, blood, and oxygen, metabolism,
stamina and healing. Historically also heals relationship with father,
the yang side of us, masculinity (for men) and confidence/security
issues. Access past life.
A red to brown mineral found in the US, Australia, Mexico, and
USSR. Beneficial for metabolical imbalances. Helps the heart and
blood, muscle tissue, and skeletal system. Helpful for people having
difficulty dealing with father or authority figures. Considered
helpful in investigating past-life experiences.
Danburite:
Clear crystal. Powerfully radiates bright, pure, white light, filling
our body, mind, and spirit (and relationships) with loving light.
Excellent to cleanse, purify, or debrief. Fills Crown Chakra with joy
and illumination. Brings truth, honesty, a smile to the heart and
open receptivity to mind and spirit. Strengthens mind, nervous
system, life force, awareness. Excellent healing tool.
Desert Rose:
A gypsum. Lt. brown. Gently grounding; clarifies thinking and
mental vision, perception. Quiets worry, brings out practicality.
(Related to Selenite.) Quiets the mind. Used to access past/future
lives, assists in bring material persuits related to business. Provides
flexibility to one's nature, strengthens decisions, align the spinal
column and removes energy blockage. Stabilizes epileptic
disorders.
Diamond:
(Carbon) When considering the use of a Diamond for healing
purposes, one must ignore its monetary value and concentrate upon
the stone's unique relationship with energy. It is frequently
combined with other gems or crystals. If used with an Aquamarine,
a Diamond will increase the cleansing properties and mental
soothing that Aquamarine helps to produce. It worn or carried
alone, it will amplify the energy of the wearer. Unfortunately, this
includes any negative energy the wearer might possess as well.
Some literature contends that the blue light within the color
spectrum of a Diamond is beneficial for glaucoma. Diamonds are
beneficial to the brain and testicles. Some recommend it for
diseases of the bladder but only in desperate cases. In all cases, the
stone needs to touch the skin in order to increase its effectiveness.
Emeralds and Amethyst Quartz are especially amplified by
Diamonds.
Powerfully absorbs and amplifies thoughts/attitudes of user, other
gems, and wearer's strengths and weaknesses: Prosperity,
generosity/ vs. miserly; love vs. distrust; overview, spirituality vs.
lust, immediate gratification. Used with loving, clear intent; clears
blocks, opens Crown Chakra: spiritual love, peace. Clarity, trust,
confidence. Cleanse thoroughly (It can hold our other's previous
attitudes, emotions...) Ancients also used for detoxing.
Diopside/Enstatite:
Clear, deep green. Deep healing and expansion of Heart center,
love, commitment, trust humbleness, heart, lungs. A brown, green,
or white stone found in Japan, Germany, Ireland, and the US.
Diopside is found in similar colors and is mined in the USSR and
India in addition to the countries already mentioned. These stones
are mentioned together because they have identical properties.
Clear, deep green. Deep healing and expansion of Heart center,
love, commitment, trust humbleness, heart, lungs. Both benefit the
circulatory system and cleansing organs. Mental clarity results from
healing layouts that include Enstatite and/or Diopside. Diopside is
recommended for public speakers, students, and surgeons.
Dioptase:
Tiny deep blue-green silicate crystals. Its powerful green reaches
deep into the Heart Chakra to release and heal sadness, heartache,
abuse, neglect...Converts loss (recent/childhood) into self-love.
Empowers heart with new depth, strength, healthiness, courage,
ability to love deeply, unconditionally. Connects emotional heart
with spiritual heart to receive abundance. Promotes genuineness,
sincerity, emotional balance, selfworth, deep well-being. Central Nervous System, lungs, heart,
blood pressure, stress. Can send healing deep into the earth.
Dolomite:
Pink/pastel/milky to clear. Clear varieties, especially pink are used
to softly open and heal Heart Chakra. Soothes hurt, loneliness,
anxiety. Facilitates giving and receiving, generosity, spontaneity,
creativity, energy uplift. Calcium content strengthens bones, teeth,
muscles, woman's reproductive system; helps PMS.
Eiate Stone:
(chrysocolla and malachite) (incl. turquoise). Excels in healing
emotional and physical aspects of heart/lungs and Throat Chakra.
Flushes out/heals hurt, fear, stress, loss. Antidepressant. Sinuses,
mouth; Bone and tissue regeneration. On Solar Plexus: Aligns the
subtle bodies, harmonizes heart, mind, and body. Wholeness, peace
of heart, selfexpression, creativity. Balances yin/yang. Draws out pain,
inflammation, fever.
Elestial:
Special form of clear/smokey qtz. Changes confusion/illusions to
clarity, seeing truth, overview. Psychicness, openness to higher
self/God/spirituality. Stimulates crown chakra/pineal to rise above
situations, emotions. May initially intensify lower thoughts (ego,
denial, self-judging...) to release these blocks to open heart/mind.
Healing brain cells from drug/alcohol use. "All-seeing Stone"
brings infusion of light. Use as a bridge stone to enhance energy
flow between chakras.
Emerald:
Beryl. Strengthens Heart Chakra for abundance, growth, peace,
harmony, patience, love, fidelity, honesty. Lifts depression,
insomnia. Knowingness of the heart, peaceful dreams. Breathing,
heart, lymphnodes, blood, thymus, pancreas (blood sugar
rebalance), labor/delivery, eyesight, and etheric field. Excellent
general healer. Ancient blood detoxifier and anti-poison.
Androgynous. Provides inspiration and helps those in need of
balance, healing, and infinite patience. It is found in shades of green
varying from very light to very deep. Helps the wearer gain
physical, emotional, and mental equilibrium. The pale, clear, green
Emeralds are valuable in meditative work as well as healing. It
works best when combined with a Diamond or worn alone. It gives
wisdom from the mental plane, so that the possessor is motivated to
give love and wisdom to others. Helps strengthen the backbone and
alleviates problems associated with sugar diabetes. Do not wear an
Emerald constantly. It should only be worn when the wearer feels
the need to have it near. Man-made specimens are helpful, though
not as beneficial as natural Emeralds. They do not contain all the
elements present in natural stones. Emeralds are of special value to
athletes, chiropractors, lecturers, marriage counselors, masseurs,
optometrists, people who work in radioactive areas, and those who
work in close quarters. It improves psychic abilities, raises
consciousness, and helps the individual attain balance. Also
enhances the immune system. There were used to strengthen
memory, to aid in eloquence, and to reveal the truth or falsity of a
lover's oaths.
Epidote:
Deep green, striated. Strengthens over all health, heart, well-being,
energy. Courage, stamina. Helps take good care of one's self (food,
rest, etc.)
Flint:
A gray, white, black, red, or brown stone found in all countries
around the world. Beneficial to the entire body. All tissue, internal
or external, will be helped, but especially the cardiopulmonary and
cleansing systems. Helps one feel more whole and healthy. Gives a
strong boost to your mental state and is extremely helpful for
persons who have been afflicted by degenerative diseases.
Fluorite:
All rainbow colors. Important balancer, healer. Opens heart
(especially green), Throat Brow, Crown Chakra for clarity,
overview, seeing additional truths/realities. Spleen bones, teeth,
lungs, detoxification, anxiety, insomnia. Clear and Purple:
Objectivity; clears the way for new things, uplifting, aura cleanse,
3rd eye, eyesight, sinuses; repels colds. Enhances other gems.
Green: Stills mind and heart, harmonizes and recharges all Chakra.
Blue: Throat, nose, ears, soothing; Karmic impasses resolved,
atonement relieved. Yellow: Focus, cooperation, group alignment.
Yttrium: Lavender, well-being, serenity, peace, connection with
universe/God/eternal life force. Clusters: lowers work/life stress
(helpful on your desk) Double Pyramid: Aligns spirit with physical
plane, inner with outer awareness, and 2 sides/brain; Crown Chakra,
illuminating karmic lessons.
Usually translucent and come in shades of white, brown, blue,
yellow, purple, red, or colorless. Benefits the teeth and bones.
People with arthritis, rheumatism, or spinal injuries have reported
some relief from their conditions when they employ Fluorite in their
healing regimen. Helps to rekindle sexual appetite and heighten
intuitive powers. It is suggested using Fluorite in conjunction with
Calcite and Pyrite. Assists in fighting mental disorder and gaining
spiritual awakening. Helps one become more aware of the higher
levels of reality and can anchor and free one from overstimulation
on the psychic plane. Green Fluorite is a valuable helper in
grounding excess energies.
Fuchsite:
Fuchsite is a CHROME-mica, Muscovite is a white mica.
Lightheartedness, friendliness, compassion, recovery, immunity.
Speeds deeper healing.
Garnet:
Ranges in color from deep emerald green through yellow, brown,
and red. Common to the US, but found all over the world.
Stimulates creativity, passion, and the circulatory system. The
brighter the better. Red: Root and Spleen Chakra. Warms, energizes
emotionally and physically (arthritis, frostbite, paralysis), grounds.
Used by ancient cultures. Exhaustion, low Blood Pressure, detoxing
and strengthening blood, muscles, kidneys, gallstones. Stimulates
life force and sexuality, hormone balance, antibodies, fertility,
persistence, stamina, passion, confidence (and stubbornness). Yang
(avoid if excess anger, impatience, high blood pressure, heat,
inflammation, etc.) Root Chakra. Orange: Warmth, energy. When
Garnet is used in conjunction with the pituitary gland, can help
provide past-life information. Should be placed on the center of the
forehead. If carried around in the pocket and then placed on the
forehead of another person, closer ties will form with that
individual. Green Garnets are healing stones. Red represent love
and help the aspirant to strive for improvement in moral conduct.
Square-cut Garnets help bring about business opportunities and
filter out concerns that are not one's own. Rectangular shapes aid in
the matter of intellect or the earth. Garnets teach patience and
constancy and are not to be used lightly. They develop love and
compassion. They sharpen self-perception and extend that openness
to others. Help calm anger, particularly anger directed towards the
self.
Gem Silica:
Gem quality Chrysocolla. Highly Evolved. See Silica.
Geodes:
Geodes are spherical stones containing cavities lined with
crystalline structure growing towards the center. It usually contains
quartz, amethyst, citrine, or clacite. Facilitates astral travel and
assistance in the pursuits of mathematics. Allow one to both
recognize and analyze the decision-making process. Allows
freedom to shape one's future, connection to the higher planes,
stimulates communication skills. Used in the treatment of hands,
lungs and nervous disorders.
Gold:
Gold: Excellent all-purpose, high level gem amplifier and electrical
conductor, especially on Solar plexus and Heart Chakra.
Strengthens meridians, nerve system, digestion. Positively charged
with warming sun energy. Often worn by teachers/healers,
especially after much self-healing (addictions, childhood...) Attracts
prosperity, stores, amplifies thoughts/emotions/energy (Greed too).
Yang. Pink = Gold + copper. Lovingness, warmth, spirituality.
Amplifies gem effects. White: Combines sun and moon's energy,
thus higher conductor and amplifier. A regenerator, helping one
renew oneself. Works on the physical, mental, and spiritual planes.
It benefits the nervous system and improves the ability of the nerves
to transmit information in the most efficient manner. Helps
digestion and helps the body in the proper assimilation of food.
Benefits the circulatory system and blood. Helps control hormonal
and chemical imbalances. Can be of great importance to individuals
with degenerative diseases, such as heart disease or arthritis. Helps
the brain work more efficiently. It works well with all crystals and
gemstones. Can be used in conjunction with Copper and Silver,
which aid in boosting its abilities in specific instances. Gold
settings: Gold is ruled by the Sun a masculine planet, and therefore
imparts a more assertive energy to crystals & minerals that are
mounted in it.
Goldstone:
Medium brown with tiny coppery glitter. Goldstone is a man-made
stone, just a type of glass with glittery metallic material in it. It is a
valid classification, as it has many properties of NATURAL
glasses, such as obsidian which are modified by its being man-made
and having been doped with additives. Originally created when
alchemists were working towards creating gold. Gently uplifting,
mildly helpful to Solar plexus Chakra to reduce stomach tension,
protect center of body.
Granite:
Granite has been honored by many cultures, particularly the
Aboriginal and Mayan cultures, as a sacred and powerful stone.
Allowing for increased protection and abundance. Composed
primarily of quartz and feldspar, it also may contain Orthoclase,
which is a form of feldspar which can form in plate-like layers,
short prismatic crystals and tabular inclusions. This stone works
well on skepticism. Allows for diplomacy, discretion,
cooperativeness and negativity. Granite is a wonderful relationship
balancer. Granite also has been used to strengthen the hair and
ailments associated with face and head. Common rock found
world-wide. Widely accepted as a building material but also has
healing properties. Comes in shades of pink, green, gray, yellow,
and white. Benefits the bones and muscle and soft tissue. Use in
conjunction with Flint to stimulate the regeneration of the body's
tissue.
Hawk's Eye/Falcon's Eye:
Natural Green, gray or blue Tiger's eye-like quartz. Helps gain
perspective to see/face situations fully. Seeing the overview clearly
and unflinchingly, as from a Hawk's eyes. Stomach and brow
chakras. Blue: Deepens meditation. helps us see the truth (self,
others, situations) in order to grow. It can help gently attune the
third eye and will enhance psychic abilities.
Hematite:
An iron oxide, steel gray to iron black in color. Silver-gray metallic
is an iron ore which is iron oxide usually FeO2. One of the most
grounding of all stones (Root Chakra.) Condenses scatteredness,
fuzziness into mental clarity, concentration, memory, practicality,
helps study, bookkeeping, detail work, sound sleep. Confidence,
will power, boldness. Egyptians used also to calm hysteria and
anxiety. Yang. Helps us adjust to being physical. Spleen, blood,
cleanse. Can deflect. Regroups after jet lag, stress, birth, anesthesia.
Sometimes has deep red spots on the surface. Found in the US,
Brazil, and Canada. The iron in this mineral has a strong effect on
the blood. Used in supporting the kidney's blood-cleansing function.
A protective stone and helps bolster low self-esteem. Helps in tissue
regeneration. Also used for astral protection. If worn, Hematite
should be placed at the base of the spine.
Herkimer Diamond:
Found only in Herkimer, New York. A special clear quartz. Cleanse
often. Shifts brain powerfully into alpha/deep stillness, opening the
Brow and Crown Chakra for a strong, clear channel, psychic
readings, meditation. May take one too "high"/spacey to wear. The
"Dream stone" - in meditation or pillow, it wonderfully enhances
visualization, astral travel into the light and dream recall. Amplifies
and stores thoughts, energy; use as bridge to stimulate energy flow
up through the Chakras. These clear crystals closely resemble
Diamonds but are really Quartz. Help to increase the energy and
healing qualities of other stones. Very useful in helping to lessen
the pressures of day-to-day life and the stress and tension-related
diseases that can result. They help you recognize the signs of stress
before it can do physical damage. Helps you choose a direction to
follow that will offer the path of least resistance. They contain a
store of ecological memory that can be utilized by a person who can
tune into the energy. Can also guide you in remembering your own
past-life experiences.
Hiddenite:
A spodumene, like kunzite. Green. Best known for drawing
prosperity. Clears heart to receive. Eases love or dollar loss.
Calming.
Howlite:
Gently absorbs and uplifts stress, tension, anxiety, emotional
intensity, etc. Quietly loving, calming. Works with the heart center,
bringing greater gentleness, patience, tact. Helps bones, teeth, and
other calcium aspects of body.
Iolite:
(Cordierite) Clear bluish-lavender. Opens a light pathway from
Throat Chakra up through Crown. Truth, simplicity, imagery,
peace. Living at higher awareness level. Alcohol/addiction
detoxification, sobriety. A newer stone recently more available.
Ivory:
Because of the fact that Ivory is generally considered to be the bone
of mammals, and most Ivory comes from elephants, walruses, and
whales and poachers have killed so many that certain species are on
the brink of extinction, use Ivory ONLY if you are very drawn to it.
It can be found mostly in white or cream, although some shades of
pink and yellow do exist. It is especially well suited for ailments of
the bones, joints, and teeth. Also benefits the skin and the
circulatory system. Helps you become more introspective and
analytical. It may make you more in tune with animals and nature,
but you have to have this desire in order to open a path for this
expression. When considering Ivory for yourself, you must always
consider why it is important to possess it. If its spiritual value is
great enough, you can proceed with the purchase and simply wrestle
with the ecological ramifications (it would perhaps help to make a
spiritual offering to the animal who died.) But if Ivory is only
perceived as jewelry that has nice side effects or as an object of
great monetary values, then it would seem wisest to forget it.
Jade:
Solid to translucent. There are two varieties of Jade, Jadeite and
Nephrite. Nephrite is quite similar to Jadeite in its healing abilities,
but its colors are creamier and less translucent than Jadeite;
Nephrite is the more commonly found variety. Jade may come in a
variety of colors, green, blue, black, violet, white, yellow and a
reddish and brownish variety. Each with its own slightly different
use. Green: Health, wealth, longevity stone. Ancient Chinese used
also for courage, wisdom, justice, mercy, emotional balance,
stamina, love, fidelity, humility, generosity, peace, harmony. Lungs,
heart, thymus, immune, kidney and blood detoxification, nervous
system. Androgynous. A gentle, steady energy.
While all Jade has some healing influence, each color relates more
specifically to certain ailments or organs. Properties common to all
colors of Jade include its ability to mellow one's existence. Helps
one rid themselves of negative thoughts and energy. Strengthens the
body's filtration and cleansing systems and assists in teh removal of
toxins. Very beneficial to the heart in both physical and spiritual
senses. It is a very protective stone and will keep its wearer out of
harm's way.
Blue Jade: A peaceful and passive energy source. Helps people who
meditate to relax and gain an inner serenity. A quiet teacher of
patience and slow, steady progress. It is a wonderful stone to give to
people who feel restricted or overcome by situations beyond their
control.
Brown Jade: A stone that connects us tot he earth. A good stone to
use to help settle matters of the home or to adjust to a new
environment.
Green Jade: Most common. Very calming to the nervous system.
The color green is representative of life or growth. Helps one
channel passions in a constructive way, making expressions of love
easier.
Lavender Jade: In touch with the emotions. Beneficial to people
who have been hurt by love or need to discover the gentleness
within themselves. Can help one learn restraint and subtlety in
matters of emotional importance.
Red Jade: A passionate and active stone. Caution is advised here: it
can have such a stimulating influence that the wearer becomes
agitated and feels the need to express anger. It can help you extract
those feelings and come to terms with them. Use Red Jade to blow
off steam, to release tension.
White or Cream Jade: Helps one direct their energy to its most
advantageous outlet. Helps filter out distraction and allows you to
envision the best result of a given situation. Also suggested for the
eyes.
Yellow and Orange Jade: Both are similar enough to be considered
together. Both impart the gift of joy and happiness. They teach the
interconnectedness of all beings. Help organs that process food and
waste in our bodies.
Jasper:
Chalcedony qtz. Multicolored, solid. Yellow, orange, brown, green.
Yellow for stomach, intestines, liver, spleen areas. earthy
grounding. Green: Respiratory/Heart Chakra. General tissue
regeneration; mineral assimilation; general healing. Darker colors:
more grounding. Suggested to be used for elixirs because it will not
over-stimulate any part of the body. Considered more effective if it
is used for long periods of time because it works slowly. It is a
methodical and meticulous worker. Each color of Jasper has
additional specific qualities when used alone. Jasper works well in
conjunction with Opals. Recommended for executives as an aid to
quick thinking. Also helps them endure stress.
Brown Jasper: Helps one find stability and balance. Benefits
ailments that result from environmental pollution. Boosts the
immune system and assist in extracting pollutants and toxins from
the body. Keep in mind that this process takes some time since
Jaspers work slowly. Helps one become more ecologically aware.
Well suited for use by people who wish to relive past events
through regression or analysis.
Green Jasper: Especially suited to tempering aspects of your life
that have taken on too great an importance. Works as a gentle daily
reminder that the whole is only the result of all the parts. Works
best on ailments of the upper torso, digestive tract, and the
cleansing organs.
Red Jasper: Much like Bloodstone in its link to the circulatory
system. Beneficial in battling diseases of the blood and detoxifying
blood-rich organs like the liver. It helps bring problems to light
before they are a threat.
Yellow Jasper: Beneficial to the endocrine glands and the cleansing
organs. Makes one feel stronger and in better physical condition.
Jet:
A fossilized organic matter used as a healing stone. A form of
petrified wood similar to coal, though much harder. Has absorbing
qualities. Helps draw out negative energy. Especially useful for
people who have unreasonable fears that limit their lives. Helps
control mood swings and fights deep depression. Recommended for
stimulating psychic experience and guiding one in the quest for
spiritual enlightenment. If worn, it should be set in silver.
Kundalini Quartz:
Kundalini Quartz comes from the Congo in Africa. It is a quartz
crystal with a smoky quartz phantom with hematite inclusions.
Kundalini can be defined as the potential energy stored in the nerve
center at the base of the spine. It is also said to be an individual''s
experience of the universal creative energy. These Black Phantom
Quartz are called Kundalini Quartz because of their ability to raise
one''s energy level from the base chakra (1st) through the crown
chakra (7th) and above. The hematite grounds, the smoky quartz
balances and moves primal energies in the body, and the quartz
transmits and amplifies energy. Raising the Ku
Kunzite:
Spodumene with lithium. Pink, clear. Powerful, high level stone.
Strengthens healers, teachers. Opens the emotional heart and
spiritual heart. Unconditional lovingness, compassion. Healing
abuse/loss/addictions. helps emotional balance, confidence,
connection to higher self, oneness. Reduces depression, mood
swings, stress, radiation. Also Brow and Crown Chakra. Deepens
altered state: psychic readings, healing...being centered emotionally
and spiritually. Used extensively by the medical profession for
psychiatric disorders. Good for the circulatory system and the lungs.
A soothing stone that can help you adjust to the pressures of
modern life.
Kyanite:
Light blue, splintery. Placed on brow, this opens 3rd eye and
blue/throat Chakra. Enhances psychic images, foresight,
consciousness, meditation, communication. On 3rd eye; answers
questions, especially in imagery. Brings out our natural ability to
manifest things into reality via thoughts, visualization. Tranquility.
Labradorite (Spectrolite) :
Subtle green/blue/yellow/etc. metallic iridescent. Brings forth each
person's strengths to share with the world. Originality. Easier, more
restful sleep. Helps us relate to others. Opens energy flow to Solar
plexus and Brow Chakra and whatever other centers are most in
need. Still evolving along with us. Fragile, avoid salt cleansing.
Lapis Lazuli:
Solid, med. to dk. blue. In meditation, opens Brow Chakra: higher
guidance, intuition, connection to higher self, overview, decisions
for good of all. Organizes, quiets mind. Opens Throat/Thyroid
Chakra: Self-expression, writing, creativity, dream insight, allows
total awareness...Anxiety, restlessness, insomnia, autism, shyness,
nervous system, depression, serenity, self-acceptance; MS, speech,
hearing, pituitary, DNA, lymph, inflammation, pain (especially
head), protection stone. Shelters the wearer like a shield. .
Extraordinarily deep blue stone often flecked with Pyrite. Can also
be mottled with white Calcite. Most is currently mined in the USSR
and Afghanistan. Beneficial to the respiratory system, especially the
throat and lungs, the cleansing organs, and the nervous system. A
good stone for blood purification and for boosting the immune
system. A powerful thought-amplifier and is helpful in aligning all
the elements of the body and mind. Can increase psychic abilities
and will open the third eye. Can guide you in teh direction of
mental and spiritual purity. It should be worn as close to the throat
as possible or at least above the diaphragm so that the energy of the
wearer is drawn upward.
Larimar:
A gentle, soft, sky-blue Caribbean healer. Brings tranquility of
water/sea and air to heart and mind. Soothes and uplifts hurt, fear,
depression, pain of life, changes with love. Selfexpression, patience, acceptingness, simplicity, creativity, artwork.
With red spots: helps gentle people be assertive. Cools, draws out
inflammation, fevers, sunburn heat. Especially helps the creativity
and Throat Chakra. (shoulder, thyroid, nose). Pleasantly uplifts the
heart and eases stress.
Lepidolite:
Lepidolite is a lithium-mica. It is high in lithium and was originally
mined for the mineral. Solid lavender to soft pink, dull, sparkly.
Calms and relaxes. Gently eases intensity of feelings, stress, mood
swings, depression, manic-depression, self-criticism, anxiety,
addictions, worrying. Brings hope, relief, gentleness, self-love,
patience, self-forgiveness, unworried sleep, mental/emotional
balance, well-being. For master gland and immune system, skin,
DNA. Balances Brow Chakra with new spiritual love. Fragile; salt
water cleanse may cause it to break apart.
Lodestone:
(Magnetite, Iron.) Metallic black, natural magnet. Related to (and
works like) hematite for grounding, clear thinking, focus (detail
work, decisions, etc.). Electromagnetically pulls toxic blocks and
pain from energy meridians, pancreas, and lower glands.
Malachite:
Steady pulsing electromagnetic energy. (High copper content)
Malachite and azurite are the same chemical, practically, Copper
Carbonate. The only difference is the ordering of the elements in
the molecule. On brow: Stimulates physical and psychic vision,
concentration. For heart and solar plexus centers: Stomach, liver,
kidney stones, lungs, immune system, radiation, MS, circulation.
Powerful healer with azurite or chrysocolla for healing: Releases
and draws out pain, inflammation, depression, anger; heals blocks.
Protects well by powerfully cleaning the auric field, rapidly
absorbing undesirable energies, including: computer, TV, and other
radiation, etc. Place in the 4 corners of a room to cleanse carpet
toxins/gases. Clean very frequently -- daily if possible! . Often
variegated and is one of the basic ores of Copper. Should be used
with extreme care because it can amplify negative qualities. Caution
must always be used when wearing it as jewelry. However,
Malachite also magnifies the positive, and so it is useful if your
mood is definitely on the upswing. It should not be used in healing
without careful consideration of who is doing the healing. It is
useful for relaxation and neurological disorders as well as tissue
regeneration. It is said to awaken healing qualities and useful in
fighting mental illnesses. Said to stimulate the optic nerve, help the
pancreas, spleen, parathyroid, and help dyslexia. People living near
nuclear power plants should keep pieces of Malachite in their
homes, since Malachite may expel plutonium. A warning:
Malachite in raw form has dust particles that are highly toxic and
their ingestion should be avoided.
Malachite/Azurite:
A natural blending of two beneficial stones. Malachite and azurite
are the same chemical, practically, Copper Carbonate. The only
difference is the ordering of the elements in the molecule. A
blue-green stone that is helpful to anyone. Malachite has the ability
to draw out positive or negative energy, and Azurite is soothing and
calming to the spirit. Together they have the ability to neutralize
energy and produce a sense of calm. Sleep will improve and you
will be better able to interpret your dreams.
Marascite:
Silver-gray metallic is an iron ore which is iron oxide (like
Hematite) . Marcasite is iron sulfide. One of the most grounding of
all stones (Root Chakra.) Condenses scatteredness, fuzziness into
mental clarity, concentration, memory, practicality, helps study,
bookkeeping, detail work, sound sleep. Confidence, will power,
boldness. Egyptians used also to calm hysteria and anxiety. Yang.
Helps us adjust to being physical. Spleen, blood, cleanse. Can
deflect. Regroups after jet lag, stress, birth, anesthesia.
Marble:
Another common and plentiful stone generally found in the US,
Italy, and Greece. Comes in shades of white, brown, yellow, red,
green, gray, and black. A cleansing stone that is beneficial for the
blood, skin, and cleansing systems. This mineral is used to provide
both clarity and states of "suspension in both meditation and tantric
activities. Provides for strength of self control and mastery of
thought. It enhances the powers of serenity. Marble can provide the
"good common sense" in matters of the home, heart and one's
constitution. Allows for total recall of dreams as well as, provides
protection, stability and structure both in the physical and emotional
mind. Used very often in the fields of Naturopathy and Homeopathy
for its balancing qualities. Ruin Marble provides the additional
power of connecting with intellectual states of mind and
knowledge.
Meteorite:
Usually solid, dull, mottled, brownish to black. Noniron varieties
amplify thoughts/telepathic sending/receiving, greater awareness,
some connection to extraterrestrial life. Odd/unusual energy, best
used by those drawn to them. Some believe that since Meteorites
are in tune with the energies of the cosmos and therefore more
capable of raising our energies to a universal level. Others believe
that that since they have no connection to Earth, Meteorites can in
no way influence our lives. Perhaps a reasonable way to approach
this stone is to try and tune into its energy on an intuitive level and
decide whether or not it would play a good role in your life. (This is
a good rule for all stones or gems of the Earth as well).
Microline:
See Amazonite.
Mochi Balls:
Mochi Balls are made of Iron and Sandstone. Named after a Native
American tribe who live in the Moqui Desert, they would use these
balls for sport, similar to Marbles. Sacred among the Shamanic
members of ancient tribes, they were also used in rituals to contact
extra-terrestrials, for visioning and for journeys. Needing no special
care, the act as a protector when placed in ones environment. They
synthesis male/female duality, liberate one's nature and help to
recognize and understand the self. They realign the energy centers,
relieve energy blockage, stimulate Qi energy, ground, center and
protect. They have been used to treat physical instabilities in the
veins, muscles, arteries, bone loss, RNA/DNA balancing, immune
system and cellular renewal.
Moldavite:
Greenish to brown-green. Variety of Tektite, but twice as rare! (fell
to earth). Dull outside, deep clear green inside. Powerfully expands
psychicness, channeling. On Heart Chakra. Eases longing to leave
earth. On pillow, brow, crown: Telepathic access to spiritual laws,
info from higher regions/places to help us and Earth to be healthier
and more spiritual. An intense meteorite helping people incarnating
from elsewhere be more comfortable here on earth (reducing
asthma, toxin sensitivity, emotional intensity, epilepsy...)(May
make some too spacey; be sure to ground self after use and before
driving). Fragile - Don't salt cleanse! More rare, expensive and
powerful than a plain "tektite."
Moonstone:
Feldspar (contains aluminum). Translucent with white, pink,
yellow, soft sheen. Honors the Goddess in all women, Dieting,
Gardening, Psychic Awareness, Meditation. Soothes stress, anxiety,
women's hormones/menstrual imbalance, lymph. Enhances intuitive
sensitivity via feelings and less overwhelmed by personal feelings.
Greater flexibility and flow with life. Connects 2nd and 6th Chakra
and Pineal for emotional balance, gracefulness. Helps all be more
comfortable with our gentler feminine/yin receiving side. Especially
for water signs. Used for protection against the perils of travel.
Translucent, milky gemstones usually pale blue or green that are cut
from Albite. Found in India and Australia. Known to be of ancient
spiritual significance in their connection to the moon and the
intuitive aspect of one's nature. Help cool, soothe, and calm
over-reactions to emotional and personal situations. Makes one
conscious of the fact that all things are part of a cycle of constant
change. They open us up to the feminine and are associated with
sensitivity, intuition, and clairvoyance. Beneficial for those
involved in agriculture. Moonstone's effect upon the menstrual
cycle is powerful. At the time of the full moon or menstruation,
women should be aware of their sensitive emotional nature and
remove these stones. May help all parts of the lower torso, which
include digestive, cleansing and reproductive organs. It is
recommended for farmers, artists, dancers and young men.
Morganite/Pink Beryl:
Related to Emerald and Aquamarine. Clear/soft pink to violet,
translucent to clear. Inspires spiritual lovingness, compassion,
equality, upliftment, empathy, patience. Spiritual Heart Chakra.
Also heart, lungs, breathing, throat, oxygenation. One of the highest
frequency stones available.
Mother of Pearl :
Beads/decor made of glossy pearly inside of pearl oyster shell. (Isn't
a stone) Carries the gentle, peaceful healing energy of the sea.
Relaxes, soothes emotions, sensitivity, stress.
Muscovite :
Also known as Mica- this crystal appears in sheet-like layers,
scales, masses and tabular crystal. It is the reflection stone. It allows
one to reflect on their past and present situations and gives one the
opportunity to both acknowledge and eliminate any traits one
wishes to detach from. Mica provides for clarity in visions and
self-reflection. It can be used during fasting times to help reduce
hunger, provide energy, relieve dehydration, bring sparkle to the
eyes, sheen to the hair, as well as, help in situations of insomnia and
excessive sleep as with mononucleosis. Often found as inclusion to
granite.
Obsidian:
Solid/translucent black to smoky. (Incl. "Navaho/Apache Tears")
Objectivity, dis-attachment, grounding. Reduces fantasy/escapism.
Absorbs and dissolves anger, criticism, fear, thus protective.
Unusual black stone: Absorbs dark and converts to white light.
Friendly. Can't be misused. Root Chakra. Brings higher Chakra
light into lower ones; cleanses, uplifts. Changes fear into flexibility
with change.
Snowflake: Promotes self-esteem and confidence. Clairaudience
and owning our lower aspects for growth; Healthy balance.
Obsidian balls: help to see truths by initially amplifying beliefs,
patterns, fears, blocking our growth.
Green: Heals broken crystals and charges them. Balances Heart
Chakra. Assists in energy healing during Reiki.
Blue: Stimulates Throat Chakra, communication, helps in astral
travel, Tarot reading. Helps keep away negativity and is an
extremely protective stone when traveling. Helps with directional
knowledge, as well, particularly for sensitive people.
Rainbow: brings light and love to one's life. Allows for the spiritual
side in one's nature to be recognized. Known as the "stone of
pleasure", it can bring enjoyment and gratification to one's life. It is
also used for "gazing" especially in matters of love, relationship and
the development of one's etheric and physical bodies.
Onyx:
Balances and grounds. Reduces sex drive. Promotes fidelity.
Absorbs and flattens emotional intensity. Androgynous. Excellent
for centering/aligning total person with higher powers. Banish grief,
enhance self control, wise decision-making, encourages
happiness/good fortune. Can be used to provide a "peek" into the
future, helps one to follow the path alone, promotes personal
strength, understand the reality of the moment, become the master
of one's own future. Helps with disorders of soft tissue, bone
marrow and the feet. Black: Root Chakra. Grounding. Green: Heart
Chakra. Yellow: 3rd Seriousness, logic. Blue: 5th Chakra. Found in
Italy, US, and in Mexico. The shapes or patterns that Onyx holds
inside it have led some to suggest that Onyx has a picture in it that
tells a story or carries a lesson. An Onyx will retain memory of the
physical occurrences surrounding a person. A strong stone to use in
psychometry because it tells the story of the wearer. A
strength-giving stone. A good stone for athletes or people under
extreme mental and emotional stress. It brings balance to mind or
body as well as strength of mind. Good stone for those who are
flighty by nature. A strengthening stone that can help you approach
a lesson or task with greater selfconfidence. Said to be good for the teeth and bones. It is highly
recommended that Onyx be used in conjunction with Pearl and
Diamond.
Opal:
A silicate. Contains water, correlating with our emotions. Clarifies
by amplifying and mirroring feelings, buried emotions, desires
(including love and passion). Less inhibition, more spontaneity.
Crown and Brow Chakra. Visualization, imagination, dreams,
healing. Easily absorbs, stores emotions and thoughts. Fragile.
Fades/cracks in sun, heat, salt, acidic foods. Moisten frequently
with water or oil. Some cancel/negate other gems. (backfires if not
used for good of all) May change color with high energy/intensity
people.
White: Balances Left and Right. Brain. Opals are extremely
sensitive and must be treated with great care. Rarely used in crystal
layouts except by someone who wishes to intensify his or her
emotional state. They easily diversify and scatter energy. Some
literature states frankly that many who wear this stone have a fickle
nature. Anytime the wearer feels uncomfortable with an Opal, the
stone should be removed.
"Black"/Dk blue: One of the most potent. Although Opal was
regarded as a stone of misfortune, black Opal is considered an
exceptionally lucky stone. It is said that if you dream of Opals, you
will receive great possessions.
Fire Opals: May stimulate passion, temper, energy. Opals,
particularly Fire Opals, are good for business, though they can
adversely affect the solar plexus.
Pearl:
Usually pale white or cream-colored, though darker blue, gray, and
even black variations exist. In tune with women, especially
pregnant women. Absorbing by nature and because of this must be
used with caution. If you feel excessively negative while wearing a
Pearl, it will hold that energy until it is worn again. Remember,
Pearl is the result of layer upon layer of substance produced to
combat irritation. It is very nurturing. If used properly, lessen stress
and its resulting maladies: hypertension, headaches, and exhaustion.
May help to prevent heart attacks and strokes. Also an assist in
digestion and may reduce the chance of developing ulcers. If using
Pearls in conjunction with other gemstones, consider Diamonds to
amplify and purify, or Emeralds to bring negative energy out and
disperse it. Recommended for occupations as varied as artists,
chiropractors, and farmers. White: Symbol of pure heart and mind;
innocence, faith. Of the sea, it has watery and lunar elements, thus
balancing emotions, especially for water signs. Absorbs thoughts,
emotions. For Solar plexus Chakra (digestion, stomach, immunity)
and emotional stress. Low integrity or anger rebounds to user (like
Opal). Cleanse frequently. Fire signs less compatible unless drawn
to Pearl. May cool and soothe. Gold and Black: Also for prosperity.
Pink: Works especially with the Heart Chakra. Pearls best without
other gems. Divers wear for shark protection.
Peridot:
Health, Wealth, Protection. Clear bright green/green-yellow. Clears
Heart Chakra, pathway, strengthening breath of life, prosperity,
growth, openness. Used by Egyptians, Aztecs, Incas to gently
cleanse and heal the physical heart. (lungs, lymph, breast) Yellow
gems also for Solar Plexus Chakra (stomach, liver, adrenal...) Helps
understand relationships, other realities Alleviates depression,
anger, fear, jealousy, anxiety. A visionary stone. Helps connect us
to our destinies and to an understanding of the purpose of existence.
Can help us visualize not only the ultimate peak of physical but of
spiritual continuation as well. However, if you are confused or
fearful, Peridot should be used in a limited way. It releases toxins
and brings them to the surface, thus neutralizing them. Helps with
mental cleansing by highlighting problems. The stomach and other
digestive tract organs may benefit from Peridot. Stimulates tissue
regeneration.
Petalite:
Petalite is highly spiritual. It has been called the ""stone of the
Angels "" and will help one connect with one's guides. It is also said
to dissolve negativity and black magic spells. Petalite has been used
on vision quests for strength, protection, and peace. It will balance
one's yin/yang qualities as well as one's mind, body, and spirit. It
also enhances one's ability to feel energy in stones.
Petrified Wood:
Sympathetic to the maladies of the skin, muscle tissue, and
circulatory system. Usually comes in shades of brown but can also
have stripes of black or gray in it. Found worldwide. Athletes are
well-advised to carry Petrified Wood with them and use it in
healing layouts. Benefits people with arterial sclerosis, arthritis,
rheumatism, senility, and blood clots. Can help us to investigate
past-life experiences. Makes the user more aware of nature.
Phenacite:
(Phenakite) Milky white to clear crystal. A powerfully loving,
healing, spiritual stone. Clearer stones intensely opens 3rd eye,
Crown and Transpersonal Chakra as a white light channel.
Clairvoyance/spiritual communication, meditation, astral travel,
journeys. Helps one to map out a pathway within the dimensions.
Energizes meridians and healing of other stones. It is a powerful
stone for clearing and activating the chakras, in particular, the Third
Eye and Crown chakras. It helps one to go further in meditation,
and gives a deep awareness of one's inner structures, the chakras in
particular. Phenacite in general can be used to amplify the energies
of other stones used for healing, and to balance energy within one.
It can also alleviate despair and fear of change, and lead one to live
in love. Russian phenacite in particular raises group and
environmental energies. Some pieces also contain Seraphinite,
which is an excellent stone for healing and bringing positive change
to one's life. It may also help one to contact Angels.
Platinum:
A silvery gray metal found in North America, Brazil, and Germany.
An expensive and rare metal, used by medical science as a
replacement for bone, since it is in harmony with the body and will
not react chemically with it. Generally considered beneficial for
people who experience excess in their lives. Slows things down and
allows you to take greater control. Helps keep hormonal and
chemical levels balanced, aids in the transmission of nerve
impulses, and may make the heart and circulatory system more
efficient.
Prehnite:
Dreaming and Remembering. Brings new friends. Utilized for
meditation. Enhances the ability to make contact with unseen
entities. Multiplies/increases energy and strengthens ones protective
fields. Considered the stone for dreaming/remembering. Increases
ability for prophesy. Allows inner knowing. Powerful stone, not to
be taken lightly. Increases accuracy with predictions.
Pyrite/Fool's Gold:
(with iron) One of the most grounding stones in use today.
Conducting, Energizing, Increases Wealth. Used for focus,
practicality, logic, memory, clearing fuzzy thinking/scatteredness
etc. like Hematite. Helps Yellow Chakra: Stomach, intestines,
ulcers; sulfur and mineral assimilation, circulation, body acidity
imbalances, depression, illusions/lack of clarity about
situations/people. Great for grounding spiciness after
meditation/psychic readings. Represents Sun's golden energy. A
mineralized crystal that forms in clusters of metallic-like cubes.
Color varies from a bright gold or brass to shades of copper or
green. Found in most of North America as well as in Chile and
Peru. "Fool's Gold". Beneficial to the respiratory and circulatory
systems. Connected to the transfer of oxygen from the lungs to the
bloodstream. Helps the skin protect itself from the elements, and
also aids the digestive tract, lessening irritation by ingested toxins.
The most important gift of Pyrite, though, is its ability to aid mental
capacity. Helps to balance creative and intuitive impulses with
scientific and practical ones. communication skills can also improve
with the help of Pyrite, which eases anxiety and frustration.
Strongly suggested for people who tackle large conceptual ideas in
business, the arts, or education. Effective in attracting money to its
owner. The stimulation of the mind can be enhanced by using Pyrite
in conjunction with Fluorite and Calcite.
Quartz: "Rock Crystal"
Encompasses a large family of stones and crystals, all of which are
made up primarily of silicon dioxide, one of the most common and
most important substances in the world. Crystals of pure Quartz,
generally six-sided, can be found in all shades and colors. Quartz
crystals grow singularly or in groups and take on different shapes
according to the temperature at the time of their formation. Quartz
crystals can also contain other minerals "frozen" within, as in
Rutilated Quartz.
Quartz can be formed of microscopic crystals and take on entirely
different appearances and qualities. Other members of the Quartz
family include Chalcedony, Agate, Jasper, Carnelian, Onyx, and
Sardonyx. These are treated separately because their healing
qualities are very different from crystal Quartz.
Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to
cleanse, store info/energy in, program or amplify energy and
healing with. Can both draw and send energy. Powerful clear ones
open Brow, Crown, and Transpersonal Chakra for meditation,
sending/receiving guidance. Stimulates natural crystals in body
tissues and fluids to resonate at new healing frequency. See also
many other stone forms of quartz. (Amethyst, Tiger's Eye...)
Yin or Androgynous. Works with all chakras and master gland.
Works with ALL Chakras and master gland for balancing, cleansing
and healing. Used to amplify both body energy and thought. Natural
tendency for Quartz is for harmony and is considered the "stone of
power". Quartz can be used to facilitate both speaking and receiving
information from the spiritual world, masters, teachers and healers.
Stimulates positive thought and healing.
Clear Quartz: is thought to amplify both body energy and thoughts.
It can assist in the creation of power, clarity of thinking, meditation,
cleansing, clearing the aura, spiritual development and healing.
Clear Quartz is considered the "stone of power". A dedicated
healer. Pure white light passes through it easily, leaving all the
colors of the spectrum unaltered and giving substance to the
argument that Clear Quartz crystals can help balance all the
elements needed to make us whole and fulfilled. Amplify whatever
influences are present in an individual or location. Acts as a purifier
and tunes into the frequency of each individual. Will unblock
specific areas or organs blocked from transmitting or receiving the
flow of energy throughout the body. Helpful in guiding our search
for the meaning and importance of existence. Aids in meditation.
Can be used in conjunction with any other stone or gem for specific
physical problems. It will amplify the effects of individual stones
and attune the treatment to the energy of an individual person.
Blue (Or gray/lavender):A fairly rare stone, is found the US and
Brazil. Varies in color from pale blue to lavender or gray.
Beneficial effects for the upper torso and related organs. Helps
purify the bloodstream and heighten the body's immunity to disease.
Helps you discover or increase your understanding of your spiritual
nature. Has a calming effect upon the mind and stimulates hope. A
good healing stone for linking heart with Throat and Brow Chakra
to expand self expression and creativity, plus refining
communication skill to new levels. Eases throat tension. Immune
system, thyroid, iodine and B Vitamin use. Some say shining light
through Blue Quartz can help reduce need for glasses. Still
evolving. Yin.
Window Crystals and Other Esoteric Variations: Even though each
crystal has the basic sixsided crystal shape and may be terminated, there is an additional
flat plane, usually diamond-shaped, that give a view of the inner
chamber of the crystal. It teaches the importance of looking within
ourselves, even if the view into our own soul is clouded and
imperfect.
Dendritic Quartz is another variation that, much like Moss Agate,
has pictures on its surface. These shapes often resemble plants or
animals. Elestial crystals are crystals that generally have fewer side
planes and blunt ends. These crystals are young and usually much
smaller than most other Quartz crystals.
Phantom crystals are crystals that at one point finished their growth
cycle, then began growing again later. When looking inside these
crystals, you can see a striation that indicates where the original tip
was. For someone drawn to this type of stone, a need for growth is
indicated.
Single and Double-Terminated Clear Quartz: Single-terminated
Clear Quartz crystals are sixsided with a flat bottom and point at the top. These crystals teach us
to focus energy on a concentrated point. Especially useful for
people who have a specific area or organ in the body that needs lots
of attention. For mental states, it will help you to focus on the best
path to travel in breaking old habits or establishing new ones.
Double-terminated Clear Quartz crystals are a special occurrence in
nature. Most terminated crystals grow out of rock, often in clusters
with other crystals. Double-terminated Clear Quartz crystals grow
in clay or other soft materials. It has a point on both ends. They can
draw energy as well as direct it. The center of the crystal works like
a neutralizing chamber. One of the points draws negative energy
inside, where it is transformed and purified. The energy then passes
out of the crystal through both points. It shows us that most
efficient energy comes from our own center.
Purple Quartz: This stone should not be confused with Amethyst. It
has a dark violet color and may have inclusions or clouding within
it. Beneficial to the cleansing organs. Capable of stimulating
thoughts and helping you learn to contemplate and analyze data.
Rose Quartz:
Translucent to clear Pink. Love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving,
lovingness, self-love, emotional balance. Soft. Gently soothes and
warms heart center. Emotional healing, loss, stress, hurt, fear, low
confidence, resentment, anger. Slowly eases childhood
traumas/neglect/lack of love, low self-esteem. Cleanse and recharge
often. Especially if fades. Aligns mental, emotional, and astral
bodies. Deeply in tune with emotional states. Found in the US,
Brazil, and Japan. Its value as a nurturing friend cannot be
overstated. A soothing influence. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and
uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love
ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular
value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance.
Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change.
Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. Advantageous
for the heart and circulatory systems. Also helps the cleansing
organs. The reproductive organs may become healthier. Said to help
increase fertility. Recommended for artists, acupuncturists,
lecturers, and those suffering from low self-esteem.
Rutilated/Rutile Quartz:
Clear Quartz with metallic, golden rutile, copper, or blue/gray
titanium fibers that powerfully electrically conduct and amplify
energy/thoughts/programming for healing. Intensifies/deepens
altered states. Opens Crown/Brown Chakra for meditation,
clairvoyance, telepathy, insight. Some make one too spacey or
scattered to wear. (Induces Alpha) Stimulates immunity, strength,
blue corona, imagery, dreams. Golden fibers may increase radiation
protection and health rejuvenation. Each stone's energy/qualities are
unique. Androgynous. Helpful with Lung disorders. Contains Rutile
in needle-like mineral inclusions. One can find Rutilated versions of
most of the types of Quartz discussed thus far. It heightens
whatever energetic influence the regular Quartz posses and helps
direct that boosted energy to problematic areas.
Smoky Quartz:
Helps to overcome Depression, Nightmares, Stress. Smoky, root
beer, or chocolate-colored clear crystals. The clearest, most intense
ones powerfully open the Crown Chakra drawing light down the
Root Chakra, inducing Alpha/deep meditation for channeling/higher
guidance, deep relaxation, lovingness. Ancient use also to stimulate
meridians, kundalini, and correct fertility/PMS/reproductive
imbalance. Stores info well. Alleviates fear, anxiety, depression,
emotional Dense, dull, solid/semisolid black/brown, less attractive.
Very grounding, opposite of other smokies. May feel dense, heavy,
nonconductive Many were irradiated to turn them this flat, dark
color with white edge of base. If so, they're not useful for
conducting light/healing, thus less useful for wearing or healing.
This medium-to-dark brown crystal found in the US, Brazil, and
Scotland. A word of warning is in order regarding choosing Smoky
Quartz crystals. Its dark color is caused by impurities, usually
carbon, iron, or titanium. But the color of some Smoky Quartz is
caused by the effects of minute amounts of decaying radium, within
the crystal itself. Because of the presence of this natural lowgrade radiation, Smoky Quartz is good for people with
radiation-related illness or those in chemotherapy. It is best to avoid
the heavily irradiated crystals. Most gemstone and crystal stores do
not sell them, and most gem experts advise against using them in
layouts. Natural Smoky Quartz crystals, like other brown stones, are
closely in tune with the anchoring energy of the earth. Often sued
for ailments of the lower torso. The reproductive organs, muscle
tissue, heart, and nervous system all profit. Heightens your
understanding of nature and concern for the environment.
Rhodochrosite:
Solid to clear pink. Gentle, yet probably the most vibrant loving
stone to heal the Heart Chakra, especially for giving/receiving love.
"Stone of Love and Balance". Also for loneliness, loss, heartache,
fear, insecurities, inner-child issues, abuse, incest...Helps selfforgiveness, deservingness and trust issues, spiritual-and self-love,
desire to live, purpose. Best worn 24 hrs. a day. Electromagnetic.
Stronger than Rose Qtz. Solar plexus, stomach (anxiety), food
addictions, anorexia, asthma, eyesight (especially emotional
not-seeing, to avoid pain). thymus. Open the hand healing Chakras.
Specialized uses to detox/heal blood, liver, cancer. Works in the
bathtub to de-stress the body. A fairly recent discovery in the
mineral kingdom. Comes in shades of orange and pink. Has stripes
of various width in shades of white. Most comes from the US or
USSR. A very beneficial stone for those with asthma or other
respiratory illnesses. Helps you filter out the irritants that trigger
respiratory difficulty. Also purifies the circulatory system and the
cleansing organs, especially the kidneys. Helps you alleviate
irrational fears and paranoia. Will enhance the dream state.
Suggested to be used in conjunction with Malachite or Copper.
Rhodonite:
Pink, black inclusions. Helps with confusion, Focus, Peace and
Love. "Stone of Love". Works with Heart Chakra; helps us express
confidence and lovingness on physical plane in day-today ways. Calms and feeds the soul through the heart; love and
service. Soothes nightmares. Stress, heartache, loss, etc. Ancient
use also: Speech/hearing problems/growth, fear, illness
(emphysema, asthma...) Strengthens mantras, chanting,
affirmations, singing, toning. Use for trauma, confusion, and
confidence. Very beneficial upon the growth of bones and the
hearing system.
Rubellite/Red Tourmaline:
see "Red Tourmaline"
Ruby:
Red Corundum. Contains chromium (blood sugar balance). Wealth,
Joy, Love, Sexual Energy and Power. Warms, energizes after
exhaustion. Strengthens physical and emotional heart (4th chakra),
love, courage, confidence, vitality, stamina, strength, leadership,
success over challenges. Intensifies all emotions (passion, jealousy,
impatience, love...) Attempted use for pressure/control (for love)
backfires onto user. Used for reproductive/root Chakra; infections,
cholesterol, clots, blood detox (alcohol, caffeine), sexual blocks.
Stimulates circulation, menses, pituitary healing the earth. This
gemstone must be carefully scrutinized before choosing it for
healing purposes. Classic stone is usually a deep, brilliant red, but
can be found shades of pink or lavender. Found in the US, India,
and Sri Lanka. A powerful stone whose stimulating energy can
bring startling things to light. An amplifier of energy-both positive
and negative. Can bring anger or negativity to the surface quickly.
Should be used with a knowledge of how to gain from the
experience. Otherwise you are likely to be overcome by the passion
it stirs up. Can also amplify positive energy. Helps us in all matters
of love, including love of ourselves. Benefits the heart and
circulatory system, and can assist in the filtration and detoxification
of the body. Also suggested for the eyes. Stimulates motivation and
visualization.
Rutile:
See Quartz - Rutilated.
Sapphire:
Corundum. Blue, green, pink, purple, clear. Related to Ruby. Blue:
Communication, insight, intuition, clairaudience, inspiration,
spiritual prayer/devotion, peacefulness. Pituitary and Thyroid.
Detoxing skin, body. Antidepressant. Cools, contracts, soothes, thus
reducing inflammation, fevers, nosebleeds. Hearing problems, TB,
burns, etc. Nervous system (& Epilepsy) and meridians. Strongest if
next to skin. Especially Throat Chakra. Also: wisdom, will,
centering, cheerfulness, luck. Reduces radiation effects, anxiety,
procrastination. Some effects subtle. Black: more grounding.
Protection. May strengthen by posing challenges to overcome.
Found in the US, Australia, and India. Lessens tension and aligns
the mental, physical, and spiritual planes. Can be an important stone
for people with spiritual confusion or depression, those involved in
situations out of their control, and anyone with concentration
problems. Black Sapphires are the most protective of all Sapphire
colors.
Star Sapphire: Similar to the Blue Sapphire, differs in that it has an
aqueous inclusion in its makeup that creates a refracted five-pointed
star on the stone's surface. This star is a focus point in the gem.
Recommended for people who wish to awaken or heighten their
psychic abilities. Works as a relaxing agent during times of extreme
physical exertion. Healers of the spirit and and body are often
drawn to this stone.
Sard:
A porous brick-red stone. Found in the US and India. Not generally
considered to be a strong healer, though it does possess limited
properties similar to Carnelians. Suggested for open wounds and
conditions of the blood. Can be beneficial to the cleansing organs
and in strengthening to the mind.
Sardonyx:
A layered combination of Sard and Onyx. Can include shades of
red, brown, black or white. Found in Brazil and India. Best known
for its effect upon the bones and lungs. Recommends its use for
depression and in matters of love. Take care to consider the color
combination of the stone. Red stimulates, brown is grounding, black
is absorbing, and white is purifying. The colors do not cancel each
other out. They do, however, buffer each other and maintain a
median balance that allows you to affect change. Recommended for
explorers, those engaged in combat, and executives.
Selenite:
A Gypsum. White/clear striated crystals. Has been used to work
against cancer and is known to stabilize epileptic disorders. Mental
focus, growth, luck, immunity, kundalini. Centuries-old
record-keepers of events/information. Smoothes emotions. Holding
crystal, visualize it bringing white light/energy (higher
ideas/consciousness) from transpersonal point above head down
through body, out through feet into earth/physical plane. Place on
3rd eye for stored info. May help physical and emotional letting go.
Repro; spine and nerve system, emotional and athletic flexibility.
Sends healing to the earth. Expands sensitivity, field of awareness.
Desert Rose: rose-like flower buds. Known to help new moms
increase breast milk.
Silica: "Gem Silica"
The highest, purest form of gem quality Chrysocolla. One of the
highest evolved blue-green stones. (Also see: Chrysocolla.)
Silver:
Excellent for mental, emotional, and physical releasing and
cleansing. Works on mind/emotions to see overview, emotional
balance, patience. Like the moon's energy, it has gentle, cool,
smoothing effect. Thus it reduces inflammation, fever, nervous
system stress. Best with the gentler, cooler-colored gems. Works
with pituitary and upper energy centers. Generally Yin. Wear the
metal that you feel attracted to. Works best as a communicator.
Should be worn only when it feels right. Benefits the circulation
and detoxifies the blood. Helps the body recognize imbalances or
high levels of hormone and chemicals more readily, enabling them
to be naturally corrected. Helps the lungs and throat and reduces
irritation by pollutants and other impurities in the air. Improves the
transmission of nerve impulses. Aids those with degenerative brain
disease, poor memory, irrational fears, and emotional imbalance.
Also aids in verbal and representational communication. Helps
balance the functions of both sides of the brain. Can be worn as a
belt buckle to improve fertility. Can help resolve sexual problems
that result from dysfunction or impotence. Mental activity is
clarified. An increase in your ability to approach intellectual
problems. Also known to lessen anxiety over problem-solving.
Suggested use in conjunction with Agate, Jet, Moonstone, and
Turquoise. Silver Settings: Silver is ruled by the Moon a feminine
planet, and therefore imparts a softened less assertive emotional
energy to crystals & minerals that are mounted in it.
Smithsonite:
Light blue, pink, or lavender fuzzy bubbles. Harmonizes and aligns
Heart, Throat, and Brow Chakra for smoother communications,
leadership, perceptiveness and depth in relationships, and expansion
into new areas. Meditation clarity, and receptiveness. Insight via
dreams, dream recall. Versatile; Historically works well in many
areas, especially Throat Chakra, nose, lymph, immunity; tissue
elasticity. Chakra corresponds with stone color. Suggested for
security and a balanced life. Also helps you deal with difficult
relationships.
Sodalite:
Healing, Meditation, Wisdom. General communication and writing
stone. Logic, ideas, truth. Balances body energy levels via thyroid,
pituitary, lymph, and other glands. Helps Throat Chakra, insomnia,
neck, mouth, hearing, blood sugar, etc. Cooling and drawing for
infections, burns, sinus inflammations, high blood pressure, etc.
Still evolving. This blue stone found in North America as well as in
Brazil and France. Can strongly affect changes in your attitude
about yourself. Helps you be more objective and less critical about
ways of dealing with existence. Suggested for balancing the
metabolism. Beneficial for the cleansing organs and can boost the
immune system. Effective in combating the effects of natural and
artificial radiation and is recommended for those who work around
X-ray equipment or are involved with radioactive material.
Spectrolite:
See: Labradorite
Spinel:
Blue, green. Calms alleviates stress, depression. mental
rejuvenation. Most commonly used to aid in de-tox (together with
fasting, enemas, and alcohol/chemical detox of blood and organs,
including skin). Red: Also for strength, kundalini. . Found in the
US, USSR, Sri Lanka, Italy, and Germany. Encourages moderation
of all excesses and aids in the detoxification of both the blood and
the mind. Helps lessen anxieties. Benefits the skin. Said to be an aid
in fasting.
Star Ruby:
known as the "star of purity", "star fire" or "ruby crystal" is said to
promote dreaming and tends to stimulate connection between the
self and your spirit guides. Used as a rod-like conductor, it provides
the pathway from the user to the electrical and magnetic forces. It
assists in purifying, and correcting disoriented energy which leads
to atrophy. It helps to align the auric and physical bodies as one. It
is an excellent stone for releasing blocks which keep you from a
spiritual path.
Staurolite: "Fairy Cross"
Brown/grey, crosslike extrusions. Represents four elements and
joining of spirit with earth/matter. Spirituality, compassion,
allowingness, dis-attachment; Focus centered on the Here and Now.
This beautiful and rare stone crystallizes in the form of flat and
short prismatic crystals with cruciform crossing. This mineral is a
talisman of good luck! Historically, this stone is said to be formed
from the tears of fairies when they were brought the news of the
death of Christ. This stone is said to provide a connection between
the physical, astral and extra-terrestrial planes. It can provide an
overpowering "release" in stressful situations and provides support,
initiation and incentive in dealing with detrimental habits.
Stichtite:
Stichtite is usually found as a deposit on another mineral, for
instance, serpentine. It is rarely found in veins from which half inch
or inch thick pieces of the pure mineral can be taken. Stichtite is
formed when continental plates collide. It brings one higher
awareness of one's emotions. In the home, it creates a tranquil
environment, and can be useful in adapting children's behavior so
that it is more acceptable. It also encourages one to be true to one's
word, to keep an open mind, and to treat all ( including oneself )
with gentleness. Stichtite eases the passage of Kundalini energy
through the Heart chakra.
Stilbite:
Pale pink/gray/white. Pink is especially helpful with loving,
creative energy, acceptingness, allowingness, letting go,
manifesting May vivify/heighten physical senses, esp. taste.
Detoxifies. Gentle self-expression.
Sugilite: "Lavulite/Royal Azele"
Solid, violet pink to purple. Psychism. Gets you in touch with your
Spiritual Guides. Important healer's stone used to gently draw out
pain (headaches too), inflammation, stress, dis-ease, toxins,
emotional blocks. Protects; Absorbs and dissolves anger, hurt,
unwanted energies. Is placed on Brow to alleviate
depression/despair, stress. Brings spirit/light into physical body and
heart for healing. Balances adrenal, pineal, pituitary, Lt/Rt brain.
Peace of mind, well being, spiritual love. Androgynous.
Sulphur:
Protection, Willpower, Healing Energy. Solid/clear yellow.
Rejuvenating, especially if one does a great deal of thinking/mental
wk and little physical exercise. Mental clarity, focus, analysis,
understanding, willpower, discipline, confidence. Used in Egypt
and modern hot springs/baths for arthritis, pain, rheumatism,
swelling, lymph, cysts, hemorrhoids. Traditionally very healing for
wounds, cleansing and healing skin, sinus, pancreas, liver, syphilis,
appendix, indigestion, insomnia, depression; Strengthens endocrine
glands. Found in garlic, mustard, chives, onions, horseradish, etc.
Repels garden bugs.
Sunstone:
Honors the God, energizes and empowers one's self. Aventurine
feldspar with gold-orange metallic sheen. Warms the heart and
lifts/rejuvenates the spirit. Protection, life force, grounding.
Tanzanite:
Rare, Clear, blue-purple-violate Zoisite crystal. (Use clear ones for
healing meditation.) Placed on brow, it powerfully opens brow plus
Crown centers for clairaudience, visions, spiritual connectedness,
protection, manifesting. Helps expand our physical and mental
seeing, hearing, hair, skin. It was first discovered in Tanzania,
which is how it got its name. This stone stimulates both the Throat
chakra and the Third Eye chakra, and bring together all aspects of
communication and psychic power. Tanzanite is a ""stone of
magic"" that facilitates spiritual awareness and stimulates insight. It
is also said to relieve depression. Tanzanite is known to both dispel
and transmute negativity.
Tiger's Eye:
Chalcedony Quartz Cat's Eye. Yellow-gold. Money, Protection,
Courage, Luck Confidence, Willpower, Clear Thinking (and thus
speaking), personal power in life. Yellow/Solar Plexus Chakra.
Works on Mental plane: amplifies thinking and manifesting what
you think about (careful)! will. Helps separate thoughts from
feelings, so centered, less emotional. Digestion, stomach, anxiety,
ulcers, bones. Rub with essential oil on Front. bottom for blood
detox. Use with malachite or pearl for mental/emotional balance,
understanding. Helps change anxiety, fear and obsessiveness into
practicality, logic. Yang. Has the grounding energy of the earth, but
is embellished with a glowing warmth. A stone for people who need
more confidence to accomplish their goals. Draws helpful people
and material things to the wearer. Centers energy and mental focus.
Red: Strengthens your body force. Green or Blue: See Hawk's Eye.
Topaz:
The stone of "true love and success in all endeavors". It can be used
to manifest health and correct disorders within the body. They
promote understanding, compassion, kindness and empathy. They
open and heal the hearts of those who have closed them while also
protecting the open-hearted from too much pain. Instrumental in
visualizations for healing and attracting in meditation and
projection. Helps one to creatively change personal world, enhance
awareness, expansiveness and manifestation.
Most common Topaz has a radiant yellow color, but can also be
found in shades of green, blue, and brown. Mined in the US,
Mexico, Brazil, and Sri Lanka. Sends out positive energy to all who
need it. For those in crisis or in need of motivation. Recharges and
increases the user's energy level. Benefits those who are problem
solvers, such as those involved with the arts or science. An
excellent stone for relaxation and comfort. Calms the nervous
system and lessens tension. Also benefits the blood. Sheds light on
the path to your goals. Those in tune with Topaz's positive energy
will feel limitless and philanthropic. They will experience an
increase in their personal abilities.
Golden or pink/"Champagne" Crystal. Golden: The most powerful,
electromagnetic of yellow/solar plexus gems. A strong, steady, high
level gem for mental clarity, focus, perceptivity, high level
concepts, confidence, personal power, stamina. Helps mood swings,
insomnia, worries, fears, depression, exhaustion, nervous system
stress, stomach anxiety. Also works somewhat with the Crown
Chakra. Liver/pancreas detoxification, blood sugar balance, tissue
and backbone strengthener (physically and emotionally). Radiates
warmth, sun/light energy, protection. Excellent for water signs,
teachers, excess work stress, manifesting, higher-self connection.
Brings emotions and thinking into balance.
Pink and Champagne: Works also especially with the heart for love,
spiritual compassion.
Blue: Alignment with our higher self, creative expression, writing,
focus on your path. An empathetic stone. Gives out its warm glow
quite readily.
Tourmaline:
A powerful, electromagnetic, striated gem. Strengthens body and
spirit (and meridians), transmutes lower frequency thought/energy
to a higher frequency of light and brings light/spirit into the
physical. Radiates light protection for wearer. Clears higher
frequency, effectiveness. Especially for nervous system;
blood/lymph toxins.
Black:
Does not absorb negative energy. It repels it. It is suggested to carry
this stone when you feel surrounded by negativity. A valuable stone
for crises and for periods of extreme stress. Helps you defend
against debilitating diseases. Strongly suggested for persons with
weakened immune systems. Sometimes found embedded in
Clear Quartz (see Tourmalinated Quartz)
Cat's Eye Tourmaline: Little information exists. It is suggested that
it is a lesser healer because of its inclusions. Further suggested that
derived benefits take place over a long period of time. Use this
stone only if you are very drawn to it.
Clear Tourmaline: Has many of the qualities of the other
Tourmalines but in a more low-key manner. Beneficial for the
immune system and for detoxification of the entire body. Suggested
it is for the eyes and for nervous disorders such as epilepsy.
Brown Tourmaline: (Dravite) is said to bring a realization of the
""God-within"". It protects one from the effects of bad karma, and
is very gentle for use in grounding. Dravite balances the chakras,
cleanses the aura, and brings a warm sense of Earth and peace to the
Higher Self. It also is used to treat intestinal tract disorders.
Opalized Tourmaline: Almost the reverse of Cat's Eye Tourmaline.
The inclusion, resulting from water, heightens the effects of the
stone. The additional refraction of light helps intensify the healing
energy, accelerating its benefits. It is rare. A valuable addition to
one's collection of healing stones. Force field, Protection Stone.
Powerfully deflects/shields against unwanted or dark energies,
especially for sensitive people. Grounds spiritual/light energy into
Root Chakra, for centeredness amid chaos. Neutralizes fears,
resentment, neurosis, obsessions, intestinal or spine energy blocks,
toxins, constipation. Place at feet, knees, or base of spine for
groundedness during/after healing. Radiation protection.
Blue Tourmaline (Indocolite): Same basic qualities as Green, Red,
or Watermelon Tourmaline. Especially benefits the upper torso, the
pulmonary system, and the immune system. Some believe it has a
religious nature and that its purpose is to teach spiritual oneness.
Green Tourmaline: A healing stone that some gem healers consider
the strongest of all green stones. Helps achieve balance in all areas.
Extremely beneficial for the nervous system, brain, and
immunological system. Stimulates creativity and communication.
Helps you recognize and avoid negative energies before they
become damaging. Recommended for people who wish to better
understand their own spirituality. Business, Success. Taking heart,
will to live, life-force, prosperity, compassion. Energizes Central
Nervous System (for neuralgia, migraine, burns, etc.) Opens/heals
physical and emotional Heart Chakra. Lungs, asthma. Cleanses
meridians and blocks, stimulates new growth, rejuvenates heart,
lymph, immune system. Thymus and entire body health. Yang.
Pink:Emotional and spiritual love, healing loss, emotional pain,
fear, self-gentleness (especially with severe illness like cancer,
emphysema). Best in combination with counseling. Most powerful
together with Kunzite or Rhodocrosite. Self-love, compassion,
release of old hurt. Trust. See Rubellite.
Red (Rubellite): Strengthens, grounds/rejuvenates, warms. Unites
heart and body for love, courage, passion, energy, stamina,
steadiness. High Lithium content (thus pink/red color) brings
emotional balance, lovingness, devotion in a down-to-earth way.
Balances body's electrochemistry. Heart and Root Chakra. Helps
detach from personal pain. Releases reproductive, blocks;
stimulates fertility. Used to strengthen and detox blood and immune
system and to ease radiation effects. Yang.
Watermelon: (Red/pink and green) Draws Love. Brings together
compassion, passion, depth of heart with life-force and
groundedness (red). Emotional and spiritual love (light pink)
expressed in the physical heart (Green) Excels for immune system
and life-threatening illnesses. Balances metabolism, endocrine
system; harmonizing. Empowers other tourmalines. Yin/yang
balance.
Tourmalinated Quartz: It provides an energy or " solving
atmosphere". Used to actualize an innate strength in the body. It
helps eliminating "crystalized " patterns in the body which have
been destructive in a physical and mental manner in one's life. It
also helps in adjusting imbalances throughout the body.
Turquoise:
Lt blue/blue-green. A good general healer for all illnesses and
excellent conductor (high copper). Speech enhancer, Friendship,
Communication, Healing. This gentle, cool, soothing stone is a
Native American classic. It opens the Throat Chakra, for open
communication, creativity, serenity, spiritual bonding, upliftment;
Opens the Heart Chakra for giving/receiving. Symbolizes our
source (spirit/sky) and spiritual love for healing, help. On brow:
Psychic connection to great spirit. Strengthens and aligns all
meridians, chakras, and energy fields. Like amethyst, it protects and
detoxes from alcohol, poison, pollution, x-ray/sun radiation.
Ancient absorber of "negativity"; protection from "evil eye." Brings
wisdom. Helps anorexia, headache, fear, etc. Throat, lungs, asthma,
infections, teeth, TMJ, hearing, high blood pressure, creativity
block, depression. Dull, paler, weaker. Works well with
Chrysocolla, best with Silver. Used for healing on every continent!
Androgynous, balances yin/yang. Fades in sunlight, sweat, oil,
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the energies of the person and transmits them back into the world.
Can also help you get more in tune with others. A popular stone
with creative problem solvers. Meant for those who wish to
communicate. Beneficial for the entire body. Has special
applications for the respiratory and immune systems. If you are
sick, Turquoise helps to put you at peace. Recommended for
healers, those involved in negotiations, optometrists, veterinarians,
and those who must rely on communications skills to get complex
ideas across.
Ulexite: "TV Stone"
White/Translucent. Insight into self and others; seeing solutions to
difficulties. Somewhat 3rd eye opening. Some find it helpful for
amplifying dreams, imagination, imagery, fantasy states for
creativity (not recommended if addictive or escapism tendency).
May fall apart if soaked in water.
Variscite:
Solid cool, pale green. eases depression, fear, worry, anxiety,
impatience, stress of a hectic/pressured day by bringing calm and
stillness to even the most busy/talkative mind, thus a good
meditation stone. Works on astral and etheric level for healing via
the nervous system (Central Nervous System) and at DNA level.
Centers the Solar Plexus and Heart Chakra; also slightly helpful for
intuition center. Skin and blood vessel elasticity, impotence/male
reproductive healing.
Unakite:
We often think of the emotions as originating and residing in the
heart, and Unakite can soothe Heart Chakra issue, but another place
where they live, often imprisoned, is in the solar plexus. As young
children, discouraged away from the full expression of our
emotions, we learn that shallow breathing helps us not to feel as
much. The repression of feeling can become automatic, and life,
while perhaps less painful, also has less joy. Unakite can be very
helpful in the steady release of feelings long held in. An opaque
coral and olive-green stone (two colors associated with the solar
plexus), it consists of three minerals: feldspar, epidote, and quartz.
When one is supported by deepened self-esteem and self-awareness,
it is easier to allow old feelings to arise so that they may be
released. Unakite lends another element to self-awareness. In
working with this stone people have noticed that they were able to
go deeper than the physical symptoms of an illness and
understanding the mental and emotional sources for it. It is also
believed to help release conditions which have been inhibiting
personal growth.
Worry/Stress Stones:
This is not one particular kind of stone, but usually any crystal that
is sliced into a thin piece and often have a groove carved into the
stone for the thumb. Worry stones are great to use in a stressful
situation. You simply rub the flat stone with thumb and forefinger.
It is said that the stone will absorb the stress from your body the
more you gently rub the stone. Stones that are easily cut, such as
agate, onyx, and quartz, make great Worry stones.
Wulfenite:
Translucent yellow to red, mostly orange crystal. Invigorates and
harmonizes emotions, passion, appetite. Warms and grounds. Helps
us get in touch with feelings. Used for healing and warming
reproductive (especially women's). Spleen and yellow chakras, and
digestion/nutrition assimilation. Cleanses and uplifts emotions,
muddiness, stuckness or imbalance in spleen
Zircon:
All colors. Clear, colorless, natural form: Works with the Crown
Chakra and transpersonal point (and pituitary and pineal) for
Universal Truth, intuition, durability, steadiness, integrity and
connection with "All That Is." Eases depression, insomnia. Also
historical poison detoxifier. Man-made (cubic Zirconia or "CZ") is
not nearly as strong/effective as natural. "Pink Ice" is pink CZ.
Zoisite:
Green with red streaks of ruby. For trust in the universe, releasing
fears. Strengthens heart, energy/adrenals and reproductive Chakra.
General health.
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Karmic Lessons
By Jeri Noble
In spiritual circles, it's pretty well accepted that our most important
lessons come through our relationships with others. This most
specifically applies to romantic and familial relationships, but a
business partnership or your connection with your best friend
certainly qualifies as well.
Some relationships will impose very "heavy" karmic lessons.
Examples of these are:
Illness
Addiction
Criminality
Death
Betrayal
None of us can make it through life without experiencing one or
more of these lessons through a relationship. Some of us may
experience more of these than others, or may live through an
intensely concentrated time period of having a lot of this. Inevitably
though, if we look for spiritual guidance to deal with the matter, we
will come back to the point that we had something important to
learn from the experience.
We may be either on the giving or receiving end of these
experiences, and there will be a lesson offered both ways.
Obviously, the more potent lessons seem to occur when these
activities are visited "upon us" by the person we're in relationship
with.
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The lesson cannot be considered to be fully learnt however, until we
can see how we helped to arrange matters. In other words, what did
we do to set it up? This isn't a matter of blame, but of reality. It is
axiomatic in metaphysics that it takes two to tango. Even if all that
we did was to allow a nasty situation to occur, then that indeed, is
what we did. Usually though, there's more to it than that.
Here are a couple of
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Young girl is walking down the street, is pulled into an alleyway
and raped. This is a relationship between strangers, right? Probably
not. If we were to do a past-life regression on her, we would very
likely find that she has attracted this particular person into her life
to help her to "snap out of" a dangerous "innocence" which kept her
in denial. Even more likely is the idea that these two have
exchanged such karmic "favors" for eons, with one or the other
delivering the "cosmic 2x4" to wake each other up from some sort
of spacey delusional state.
Middle-aged mother is periodically used as a punching bag by her
teen-aged daughter. This is a long term relationship, and the mother
has supposedly had a hand in molding the character of said
daughter, right? Maybe not in the way that it appears. Mother could
be unconsciously "egging on" her daughter through a
passive-aggressive approach, telepathically "asking" for punishment
in order to feel "right" in her martyred guilt. Daughter obliges
mother based on a long-term agreement between the two of them to
deny the higher and deeper love that exists and that neither is ready
to acknowledge.
Both examples are about love. Maybe this isn't the sort of love that
you or I would like to admit is healthy or life-affirming, but love it
is. Each person in the relationship is giving the other what he/she
wants or needs. Until we can look beyond the pain in a relationship
and get past the ego needs which are actually holding us back, these
patterns will continue to be repeated. Actually, we will continue to
sow the seeds that create the negative karma we so much abhore.
This is an aspect of metaphysics that seems to set a lot of people
back. In relationships we are so accustomed to a Newtonian sort of
cause and effect condition, i.e., "You hit me first!" that the concept
of our giving the other guy the bat and pointing to our own head, is
a bit hard to swallow. We aren't dealing with Newtonian physics
though, this is metaphysics where we don't accept that we are
powerless or a victim of anything. We know that everything that
happens to us, is drawn to us through the power of our own thought,
consciously or unconsciously.
When we try to assert our victim-hood, we are trying to keep
ourselves down. We may be tired or confused and this is perfectly
understandable. It is important to remember though that we'll feel
better when we let ourselves feel better. We don't have to hold onto
the pain to prove that it exists, we needn't continue to manifest
evidence of the "wrongness" of the person we've related to. We can
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take responsibility for our part of the lesson and move on, knowing
that it was always for love, and that we'll all do anything for it. This
is what makes us human and this is where we share with the Divine.
SEEING.
"People only see what they are prepared to see."
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Using The Law Of
Vibration To Manifest Your
Vision
by Asoka Selvarajah, Ph.D
Science and Metaphysics agree. The essence of all things is
vibration. Science reveals that everything in the manifest universe is
ultimately composed of packets of energy; quantized units vibrating
at specific frequencies. Esoteric wisdom reveals that in the
beginning, all things were created through sound (i.e. vibration);
whether it be the "OM" of Eastern mysticism or the "Word"/Logos
of Western spirituality.
Our thoughts, feelings and actions also have their own particular
rates of vibration. These vibrations will set up resonance with
whatever possesses identical frequency. In other words, your
thoughts are inseparably connected to the rest of the universe.
This is why it is so essential to be a close observer of yourself. As
you think, feel and act, so you create the primary vibration of your
being. This fundamental vibration then creates resonance with
identical vibration frequencies in the universe. The result is an
attraction of circumstances, people, challenges and opportunities in
exact vibrational resonance with your own dominant vibration
frequency.
This principle lies at the heart of visualization techniques,
affirmations and the whole personal development movement. When
you visualize and repeat affirmations, you are helping to tune your
very being to a specific vibrational frequency on the inner planes.
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Once that task is achieved, your mind comes into vibrational
resonance with the object of your desires. Being now of the same
frequency, this object (or goal) is inevitably attracted into your life.
However, for such methods to work, it does imply that you have
changed your core vibration. This is very often the problem AND
explanation as to why such techniques seem to fail for so many
people. Over the course of many years, your inner conditioning is
created from the habitual thoughts, feelings and actions that you
engage in. This forms your self-image and creates the level of
self-esteem you feel. It shapes the way you conceptualize the world
you live in, as well as the way you respond to it. It is how you
interpret your life experiences.
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If a person simply mouths affirmations or writes goals out, without
having touched the deep bedrock of their long-term conditioning,
such activities will not have much effect. This is because the
dominant vibration has not changed. You cannot go against what
yourself-image, and your predominant conditioning, say you are.
Thought is where it all begins. As your conscious mind dwells
habitually on thoughts of a certain quality, these become firmly
imbedded within the subconscious mind. They become the
dominant vibration. This dominant vibration sets up a resonance
with other similar vibrations and draws them into your life. This is
easier to understand if you consider that from the metaphysical
view, the whole universe IS MIND.
Hence, to draw what you wish into your life, you should begin with
the mind, and make it your primary focus. Most people do things
the other way around, and come up with practical techniques to
generate their desires, and then go out and try them. However, when
these methods are not in tune with your dominant vibration, then
you will have great difficulty making the desired results come to
pass. You will also feel most uncomfortable if they do. You have
trained your mind in a certain way, you have set the thermostat at a
certain level, and now you are trying to exceed the limits you have
set upon yourself by sheer force.
The trap most people fall into is that they condition their future with
expectations from their past. It's like driving with your eyes fixed
on the rear view mirror the whole time. You cannot see where you
are going because you are too busy looking back on past history.
Is it any wonder that, for most people, the future DOES closely
resemble the past?!
The problem is that, by focusing continually on what you have
become as a result of past conditioning, you guarantee that you
draw this same dominant vibration into the future. This is also why
your desired future can seem so far away from you. It is vibrating at
an alien frequency and hence, in a real sense, it IS very far away.
Instead, you have to first change the dominant vibration within.
Once your dominant vibration is in harmony with what you seek,
the latter must literally be "attracted" to you without excessive
striving! It will seem easy in comparison to what came before. In a
very real sense, you have to become what you seek on the inside
before you can ever have it in physical reality.
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There are several ways to gradually change the dominant vibration
of your inner being, and begin to resonantly attract what you seek.
One important thing to do is to have a clear vision of your life as
you want it to be; completely independent of the circumstances of
your present or past. Lack of absolute clarity about their desired
future could well be the number one reason why people fail in life.
You are creating something new from the universal intelligence,
and drawing it into your reality. You do NOT have to base this
upon the past, your perceived weaknesses, or anything else that
derives from your limited self-image.
A good way to gain clarity is to write down in detail the attainment
of what you seek. What would it look like? How would you feel if
you achieved it? What difference would it make to your life? It may
take you days, or even weeks, to create this vision, but it is time
well spent.
By creating a vision of your desired state and putting energy into it
regularly, you use mind power to shape the very stuff of creation.
You create this imagined "reality" in your mind to the point where
your subconscious actually believes it to be physical reality and
goes about making it so. It will attract the circumstances, the
people, and the opportunities you need to bring about the vision you
have created.
If you are doubtful about this, consider for a moment that you are
doing this anyway. The only difference is that you may be unaware
you are doing it. If so, your overall vibration is incoherent, and
hence your results fluctuate wildly. By becoming conscious, you
take conscious control of the creative process and can learn to
manifest at will.
Another way to change your vibration rate is to act "as if". If you
had already attained what you seek, how would you think and act?
Well, start thinking and acting that way right now. Again, this helps
to impress the dominant vibration you choose upon your
subconscious mind. Again, you have been doing this all your life
anyway. Simply take conscious deliberate control of the process
from now on. For instance, Cary Grant is known to have said:
"I acted like Cary Grant for so long, I became him."
Taking time to meditate regularly on the truth that all is vibration,
seeing this reality in all its myriad guises, will also help reinforce it
upon your mind - both conscious and subconscious. You will begin
to believe it, and what you believe is what you act upon.
The reason most people achieve very little in comparison to what
they are capable of is because they have no vision for the future
whatsoever. Focused, single-minded concentration upon a vision
you seek to create is what will actually cause it to happen. You have
to read your description every day (preferably twice or more), and
then vividly imagine it. Begin to live that reality now in your mind's
eye, and you make its future manifestation all the more rapid. Do
not even worry about how it will happen. Just do your part and let
the universe, through the law of vibration, do the rest.
Dr. Asoka Selvarajah is an active author/researcher on personal
development and esoteric spirituality. Asoka's work helps people
achieve their full potential, deepen their understanding of mystical
truth, and find joy in their true soul's purpose.
Fact - we do create our own reality primarily, individually, then in
mass. Most do see that as true. We were given that by the creator of
All That IS, or God if you prefer. The ultimate and unlimited power
of creativity in this world. It is called Free Will.
Fact - thought is EVERYTHING. Thought is the process we utilize
to create reality. Speech is the creative "force" that manifests that
reality into Being. You ARE what you think you are. For as you
believe so shall it BE.
Fact- There has been a change in consciousness, the awakening has
indeed arrived, the human experience will never be the same again.
We are at the threshold of forever, as one has said the next level.
And It, IS, SO. Whether you believe that or not, doesn't matter. It
will not change now. There will be a new heaven and a new earth
wherein there should be time no longer. A world without sickness,
disease or the aggressive nature man developed in the "beginning"
of time.
Yes we DO indeed create our own reality. So how far can you take
that? I say, as far as you want! It IS your choice for ultimately it's
YOU who creates your tomorrows.
Look around you! What are the masses creating in these days? Can
you afford to allow this to be your world? But you are NOT of this
world nor AM I. Yes, we are in the world but we are not OF this
world. You
ARE different and you know that. Truly you are a "new creation".
Behold! All things become new, old things are passed away. You
see things that are not, as though they WERE. Peace is what you
see. Not the peace this world speaks of but peace of mind. For that
IS your inheritance.
Therefore say I, be not conformed to this world but be ye translated,
"transformed" by the renewing of your MIND to know what that
good and acceptable perfect will of God IS.
YES, I say, there has been a change of consciousness, The mind is
renewed daily. Even on this physical plain. So how could you ever
go back to those limiting thoughts?
The only thing I would like to add from a personal standpoint, is
that you can not and should not try to use your "mind power" to
interfere with the free will of another person. I'm not implying that
this article says to do this, but some individuals get the idea that this
is possible and then become disappointed when it doesn't happen,
therefore, thinking the process doesn't work. This technique should
be used for yourself and nothing more. Use it to improve your
life...if you do that, everything else will follow. You will attract the
vibration you send out Like attracts like. Self work is most
important during this time. Figure out who you are and what you
want. What you believe to be reality will be your reality. This is
true in our physical 3-D world and in the other realms. It is always
your choice What you want is what you will receive. Be aware of
your thoughts, hopes and dreams....Make your reality what you
want it to be!!!
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It's when you allow the mind to rest and go quiet. When our bodies
are worked really hard, we get aches and pains. We need to rest the
body so it can recuperate from the stress and physical strain we
have put onto it. If we don't our bodies can become ill which can
lead to neck and back strain. When this happens we are forced to
take it easy. We have a good night's sleep and in the morning we
feel rested and relaxed.
With our minds we are always thinking, even in sleep the mind is
working because most of us dream while we are asleep. As you can
see the mind never rests. However, with meditation we can slow the
mind down and relax it to such a level that it gets the chance to have
a good rest. After practice you will be able to stop the thoughts
altogether for a short time.
In times of stress and serious illness we are constantly worried, and
that puts pressure on our mind and our bodies that is no good. These
two factors can lead to even more illness and more stress. Just
imagine if we rest our mind through meditation we are allowing
whatever problem's that are present in our body to heal themselves
without the added stress of constantly worrying about them.
If you really think about it, it does make a lot of sense. Meditation
is so easy that even young children can practice meditation. This
would be beneficial to children who are going through problems at
school. We are going to explore the power behind inner healing
through meditation. For a few minutes, sit quietly and try and shut
down all your thoughts.
How did you go? Where you able to silence your thoughts. Did any
of you feel uncomfortable? Did you stop the thoughts from coming
into your mind? . . No? Never mind. Was it a battle to try and
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concentrate on thinking of nothing? We have to learn how to slow
the mind and her thinking down. When we can do this, we are able
to instill within ourselves a sense of peace and harmony. We are
also able to open our chakras and energy centers up properly, so
that they function appropriately.
When we learn to gain control of our mind, and her negative
thoughts we are able to access our inner child and our higher mind
completely. When we learn to do this, we can bring about total
awareness and inner healing. For a minute, sit still and try and stop
yourself from thinking, but this time I want you to listen to some
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How did you go this time? Was it easy to stop the flow of your
mind's thoughts? You would have noticed that this time you may
have been more calmer and relaxed because you where given
something that was on a frequency level that helped you to slow the
mind down. You will also notice that with gentle soothing music
you were able to totally relax.
The mind is able to be slowed when we have something to focus on
that helps us to distract itself. . . When we learn to slow our minds
down and think of nothing without any help, we are able to bring
ourselves into a state of total awareness. In this state 100% healing
can take place. We are able to totally bring into us, our inner child
and higher mind. With the use of soft or rhythmic music we are able
to place our focus on something that does not need our intense
concentration. Music has this ability to slow our thought process
down.
When we stop thinking, we start to truly listen to what is going on
within ourselves. We are able to hear our higher mind and our inner
child. We learn how to listen to our body and what she has to say. If
something is off balance or not right, we are able to talk to our
bodies and find out exactly what is the problem. Through
meditation, we learn how to make true contact with ourselves. We
learn to train our mind to function the way she was meant to.
Instead of the mind controlling us, we control our mind. The soul
becomes in charge once more. All our extra sensors become open
and we are able to access all our hidden knowledge and gifts that
are blocked from us because the mind is stopping them coming
through. Meditation provides all of these powerful healing tools.
. . Let's try again. Sit quietly and try and shut down your . . . .
thoughts . . . . .Did you find that this time it was easier or harder?
Did some of you feel uncomfortable as if you were fighting with
someone or something?
You probably were. There are many people around today that
believe that our frequencies and channels have been shut down by
beings who do not want us to evolve the way we should be. This
may or may not be true and I am not sure if i believe this, however,
it is worth us thinking about since it could make some sense of all
the crazy and horribly things that go on in this world today.
Some believe that these beings feed off us. They use our fear,
worry, pain and sorrow as food to make them powerful. We all
know how powerful hatred and anger are on a physical level. There
is a lot of forceful energy that comes from these feelings. That
forceful energy can make a spirit being very powerful. Since most
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of the worlds' people experience pain, fear, anger, hatred and stress
then these beings must be having a feeding frenzy.
Well, we must all learn to say enough! We must learn not to hook
into the negativity that is in our world. We must learn how to
become open, loving and compassionate beings once more. They
say that this energy creates new worlds and universes. It also helps
our world as well.
Stop being food and start being creators.
When you see a drama going on in your life. Think to yourself that
you refuse to be food for a negative being. Start meditating and
learn to bring back your awareness to yourself. Allow your inner
frequencies to become open and alive. Allow love, joy and
happiness to flow through you. Allow yourself to connect to mother
earth and feel where you belong. Allow yourself to unite with the
heavens and connect to your true destiny and purpose.
Let us all learn how to get into the habit of meditating and learning
to slow our minds down and open ourselves up to our inner
awareness. We will learn how to tap into our bodies and to our
higher mind and inner child. Here all our questions and solutions to
our problems can be discovered and solved. Let us take back our
power and use that power for good and not drama. Today let us
learn how to truly meditate.
How do I meditate?
Meditation is so easy that it only takes up a small part of your day,
so it can be done first thing in the morning and last thing at night.
You could be on a bus, in a park, or even at the office in your lunch
hour. It does not matter where you are, if you have a spare 5
minutes you can meditate.
Now we will look at doing a simple meditation first thing in the
morning.
When you wake up in the morning, take a few minutes to wake
yourself up. Do this by giving yourself a good shake, then find
somewhere, where you can sit without being disturbed. It can be on
the floor with a couple of pillows or even sitting up in bed, out in
the morning sun, in fact anywhere where you feel comfortable. You
can have some soft music on, or if you prefer just have silence.
When you are comfortable, I want you to focus on your body,
starting with your feet, and focusing on your breathing, I want you
to notice your breathing, slowing the breath, bring your awareness
to your feet and traveling up your whole body from your knees to
your hips, from your hips to your stomach, from your stomach to
your heart.
Now notice your heartbeats, breathing with the rhythm of the
heartbeat, try to stay focused, but if you find that your mind
wanders do not be alarmed, WITH TIME AND PRACTICE YOU
WILL BE ABLE TO STOP THIS.
Breathing with the heartbeat will help you to understand the rhythm
of your body and this is the start of learning to listen to your natural
body language. When you have mastered this art you will be able to
read the warning signals in your body when something goes wrong.
When you are ready bring your focus back to the body. Focusing on
your shoulders, breathing slowly, bring your awareness to your
neck, and then still breathing slowly bring your awareness to your
head.
When you have reached the head slowly bring your whole
awareness to all of your body. Now take time to listen to your
whole body, listen to the sounds coming from your body and
breathe with those sounds.
After you have done this bring yourself back to reality, slowly
allow your mind to start its thinking process and your breathing to
go back too normal.
Now just sit for a few minutes and feel how calm and relaxed you
are, when you are ready get up and start your day. You will notice
by doing this morning meditation that your whole day will feel
more peaceful and there will be less stress around you because you
will have given your mind a rest. You can also use meditation to
help you with any problems you may have in your life.
Before you enter into your meditative state, focus on the problem
and then ask your higher mind to help come up with answers. Go
into your meditation and after you have finished, see if you receive
any advice or hidden insight that could help you. It may be that you
will see the problems in a different perceptive. If you are after some
emotional healing within yourself you can also focus on the issues
that are causing you pain, grief or worry before you go into your
meditative state. Ask that your inner child help you heal these
situations. After the mediation, you may well find that you see your
pain, fear and worries in a different light also.
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When I do my readings I always do a smudge first. I use white sage
as well as some other herbs such as cedar or blend of 'protection'
herbs. I have used this practice for many years now and believe
strongly in the cleansing effect it has on me and my 'area'.
Here are instructions on how to smudge and some history behind it.
Smudging is the common name given to the sacred smoke bowl
blessing.
A powerful cleansing technique from the Native North American
Tradition. Smudging calls on the spirits of sacred plants to drive
away negative energies and restore balance. It is the art of cleansing
yourself and your environment using simple ritual and ceremony.
For thousands of years smudging has been a part of Native
American tradition but now its power of cleansing is available to
everyone.
THE POWER OF SMUDGING
How can smudging be so powerful? The answer lies in the
subatomic world of subtle or spiritual energy. Homes and bodies are
not just made of purely physical matter; they also vibrate with quiet,
invisible energy.
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Cleansing a space or our bodies with techniques such as smudging
clears away all the emotional and psychic 'garbage' that may have
gathered over the years or even hundreds of years. it's like spiritual
spring cleaning.
The effects of smudging can be surprisingly swift and dramatic. The
rituals I will post in following lessons can help you banish stress,
attract love, sooth you, or give you energy.
They can bring your family closer together and let you adjust to the
healing seasonal rhythms of the year. Above all they can turn any
space, however humble, into a soothing sanctuary - a place of
renewal and happiness. In the following lessons, I will attempt to
combine smudging with techniques from other ancient traditions to
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The History Of Smudging
Smudging may seem a very modern practice. We read about city
highfliers using it to sell their apartments or improve their business
luck. But smudging has been used for thousands of years. When
you light a smudge stick you are connecting with a spiritual
tradition that originates from the depths of time.
A Tradition From The Mists Of Time
It is impossible to say for certain when smudging began. Perhaps
early civilizations came to realize, through sheer trial and error, that
the smoke generated by setting alight particular herbs had beneficial
effects for humanity. Certainly many cultures have an old tradition
of driving animals through smoke to kill off pests and diseases.
Nowadays modern science has proven that certain herbs do indeed
have cleansing powers, acting as strong pesticides.
Aside from this beneficial and practical aspect of burning herbs,
humans have become aware that smoke ascends to the heavens - to
the world of spirits - almost as if it were acting as a spiritual
messenger.
The idea of purification through smoke is certainly not the sole
preserve of the Native North Americans.
Most rituals have some element of cleansing, and incense or herbal
smoke mixtures are burned around the world - from China, India,
and Southeast Asia, to Europe and the Western world.
The Native American Way
Originally, mixtures of sacred herbs and resins were burned in a
special bowl. Smoke was then wafted around the person or place
needing purification and cleansing. However, smudge sticks
(bundles of dried herbs tied together with colored thread or a strip
of hide) offer an easier way of smudging that is just as effective.
The herbs most often used in smudge sticks are sage and sweet
grass. Sage drives out negative thoughts, energies, spirits, and all
influences. Sweet grass is used to attract positive energy after all the
negative energies have been banished by sage.
Native Americans see smudging as a way of shifting between
various levels of reality _ connecting us here in the material,
physical world to the subtle realm of spirits.
How to Smudge
Get a shell, abalone is what I always use. Any small, flat, heat-proof
container will do.
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Light the sage and let it flame for a minute or so. Extinguish the
flame so the sage is smoldering and smoking.
Take the smudge container and using circular clockwise
movements, encircle yourself with the smoke, asking that all
negative energies be cleansed away.
You can do this for the whole room and even the whole house. Start
at the most northerly room and working again, clockwise, through
your home, let the smoke from the sage permeate throughout. Try
and finish off the smudging process by ending up at an open door
towards the most northwesterly part of your home. You should have
come full circle around your home.
A note of interest. Whenever I have done this, it has never set off
any of my smoke alarms, which I have found very strange indeed.
Now it MAY set off yours, so be prepared to disconnect it during
your smudging and be SURE to re-engage it upon completion of
your smudging.
I say a little prayer over and over as I do my smudging, asking the
'powers that be' (Spirit of the sage) to remove all negativity and
unwanted energies.
IT WORKS!!!!...when first doing this on a regular basis, you may
find yourself feeling agitated or uneasy and not sure why. It is
because you are 'clearing' with the help of the smudging. This
would indicate that there is a lot of 'negative' energies in your
environment. I do not have a set amount of times to smudge. I
personally smudge myself and my room once a day, because of
what i do, and my home once a week. You will find your own feel
for how often for yourself.
Sage is the most potent herb for smudging but you can also use
cedar and sweet grass. I have a mixture of this that I also burn
sporadically for extra strength in removal of unwanted energies.
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Our Soul Relationships)
As we come into life through the natural birth process, our initial
orientation toward life is normally from a human perspective.
Our early relationships are usually with our human family our
parents, our siblings, and as we emerge into our childhood years,
we tend to develop friendships based on human personality
characteristics.
As we pass through adolescence, along our path toward adulthood,
we are strongly influenced by human cultural values as we deal
with the age-old question, "What do I want to do when I grow up?"
However, as we proceed along life's journey, many of us gradually
begin to get in touch with a deeper essence within ourselves. As we
connect more and more deeply with this "soul essence," we begin to
change our perspective of life.
Rather than basing our life goals simply upon human values, we
begin to reorient our life, to bring it into alignment with our soul's
plan and purpose. Those of us who go through a "walk-in"
experience may find this reorientation process greatly accelerated.
"Soul Attractions"
One of the aspects of our life that is commonly affected most by
this change in perspective is our relationship to others. Rather than
basing our relationships primarily on biological family connections
or human personality attractions, we tend to be drawn to those with
whom we have significant soul connections from past lifetimes, or
from mutual experiences within other realms.
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Oftentimes, we find that these "soul attractions" seem to be in
conflict with our human life situation. For example, if we are
married and we unexpectedly meet someone of the opposite sex
with whom we sense a deep soul connection, and with whom we
experience deep feeling of love, it quite likely will bring up human
emotional issues, such as jealousy and insecurity, in our relationship
with our spouse.
Or perhaps we may meet someone of the same sex with whom we
may have shared deep connections in past lifetimes, and find
ourselves confused by the depth of our love for such a person.
Since we don't always incarnate lifetime after lifetime in a body of
the same sex, our soul connections tend to blur the lines of sexual
orientation and sexual feelings.
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Before we incarnate, either through the natural birth process or as a
"walk-in," we develop a life plan that will enable us to have human
experiences which will assist our soul's evolution. Within the
context of this plan, we make agreements with other souls who will
play important roles in our forthcoming life experience.
After incarnation, our respective souls choreograph life events such
that we will come into contact with each other at the appropriate
time.
Finding a "soul agreement"
There are at least three primary reasons as to why we might choose
to establish such a "soul agreement" with another soul.
We may have been together in a past lifetime, and may have acted
toward each other in a manner that was inappropriate.
Consequently, there may be unbalanced residual emotional energies
which need to be worked out and brought into balance in the
context of human life experience. Such soul agreements are often
referred to as "karmic" soul agreements.
Normally, our soul purpose cannot be accomplished solely by
ourselves. Rather, it usually requires a "team." So we typically
establish soul agreements with others of our team, who, when we
later meet up with them in human life, will work together with us in
the accomplishment of our mutual soul mission.
When two souls who have deep soul connections with each other
meet in human life, it creates an energetic "resonance" which helps
to awaken a particular facet within each other's soul essence. So, we
may establish a soul agreement with someone in order to awaken,
and bring into human expression a particular facet of our soul which
up to that point in time may have been dormant.
Sometime this awakening process can take place virtually in an
instant, by exchanging "light codes" through the eyes, or sometimes
it may require more time, through exchanges of the heart.
How do we know whether or not we have a soul agreement with a
particular person? There are several clues.
First, there is often an unexplainable feeling of familiarity when we
look into each other's eyes. If the soul connection is especially deep,
and if it involves a particularly significant soul agreement, there is
usually a "freeze-frame" memory of the first moment we met that
person.
In other words, as we later reflect back upon the first time we met a
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particular person, we may retain a clear "picture" in our mind of all
of the circumstances of that moment where we physically were in
respect to the other person, who else was present, and various other
details of that first meeting.
Lastly, if someone keeps reappearing in our life, for no explainable
reason, it is quite possible that we have a soul agreement with them.
Living Life with an Open Heart
In order to move into the fullness of our soul's purpose, it is
essential that we honor our soul agreements, at least the ones that
are of the greatest significance. This implies that we must live life
with an open heart, and that we be alert to the possible significance
of each new person who comes into our life.
It also is important that, when we first meet someone, we look
beyond the physical and personality aspects of the person, and tune
into the essence of their soul. To do this, we must be willing to look
deeply into each other's eyes, and allow the natural energies to flow.
Finally, it is important that we create enough space within our
existing relationships so that new people can come into our life in a
meaningful way. When we first meet someone with whom we feel a
significant connection, we are seldom able to perceive the full
significance of that person in relationship to our life during our
initial encounter. It often requires sharing time together, mutually
exploring respective feelings and perceptions, before the deeper
purpose reveals itself.
The concept of soul agreements, and their importance to our life, is
relatively new territory for our human experience. We have much
yet to learn especially in regard to integrating soul relationships into
the context of our human lives.
As is the case in exploring any new territory, there are no "rights"
or "wrongs," there is only learning through experience. But isn't that
what life is all about?
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Spells and Spell Casting
Here are some very simple spells that can be done very
easily....most of them are easy love spells but they are some other
odds and ends as well...scroll through to see if you can find one that
appeals to your needs...do they work?...I am not sure. I have not
personally tried them, but if they do?...let me know so I can start
charging tons of money for them!!
Kidding aside. I don't personally believe in using spells to make
somebody love you, or MAKE anything happen, but I also do not
discredit the power in them. I don't condone or advice that people
go out of their way to pay money for a spell. If you have the power
to believe that something will happen when you have a spell for
it...then I believe you can find that faith without paying your hard
earned money for it!! This is why I created this FREE spell page.
Be very wary of sites on the internet that offer to cast spells for you
etc! I personally believe the power is not so much in the spell itself,
but in the focus and intent of the energy you put into it. It is also my
personal opinion that if you are going to use a spell, you perform it
yourself. If you are serious about practicing spell magic then learn
more about the Wicca. A very good book on this is called "Wicca:
A guide for the Solitary Practitioner" by Scott Cunningham.
My first concern is always getting people to empower and educate
themselves rather than rely on an outside source for answers and
results.
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The spells I have listed here are for "use at your own discretion."
Please remember: NEVER use spells to intend harm or loss of
free will to another human being. I cannot stress enough how
WRONG this is, not only to the person you intend it towards, but to
yourself!!!
Lover Spell
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One bottle of red wine/Tablespoon of rosemary herb/Two cinnamon
sticks/One vanilla pod/photo.
This spell is to be used to spice up an already existing happy and
loving relationship.
It should be worked at the waxing to full Moon.
For those who are unable to drink alcohol, substitute it with Grape
Juice.
Gather the Vanilla Pod, cinnamon, and rosemary herb together. Tip
some of the wine into a glass, this is to allow room in the bottle for
the herbs. Hold up the picture of you and your partner, think back to
when the photo was taken. Relive and visualize the happy feelings
you felt at that time, and realize how your love for each other has
matured and like the red wine.
Place the herbs into the bottle and repeat the followings words.
Entwined as one we shall be,
Pure love for ever,
Just you and me.
From this chalice we drink this wine,
Imbued with passion,
Till the end of time.
When your partner comes home drink the wine together. Don't
forget to use your best glasses.
Epona
Future Lover Dream Spell
Have you ever had a dream about a lover that seemed very real, but
when you awoke you realized you were still single? Dreaming
about lovers is enjoyable, and can help you manifest your future
mate. You can encourage this kind of dream by using herbs. Place a
bay leaf under your pillow, and as you relax into sleep tell yourself
that you will dream of your future lover. Add a pinch of mugwort to
divine specific details about his or her appearance. When you wake
up, write down as many details as you can remember, and place the
list under your pillow for the next night. Keep adding to it until
your lover appears.
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by: Chandra Beal
Uniting Lovers Spell
This spell helps unite lovers for marriage or for lifetime
commitment. To start, you'll need two candles. Ideally, use bride
and groom candles from a wedding supply store, but simple red
candles will also do. If you use the plain red candles, designate one
as the female and the other as the male. Draw symbols or faces or
names on each one to represent that person. To begin, place the
figures about a foot apart, facing each other. Light them both and sit
quietly, meditating on your intention. Slowly move the candles
toward each other a couple of inches at a time. The figures will
finally come face-to-face and may be allowed to melt into each
other. Love and marriage will soon follow!
by: Chandra Beal
Deepen Communication Spell
Sometimes lovers experience a decrease in communication, which
can intensify conflicts. To increase communication between you
and your romantic partner, create a quiet place where you both feel
comfortable. Line the place with pillows and blankets, and decorate
it with ribbons, rose petals, or sensual items. Both of you should
prepare separately by taking a bath, meditating, or listening to some
soothing music. Then, make yourselves comfortable in the space,
and place a pink or white candle between you. Turn the lights out,
and gaze into each others' eyes over the candle. After a few
minutes, begin to talk about what you value in each other, and what
conflicts need resolution. When finished, snuff out the candle and
save it for the next time you need this spell.
by: Diana Rajchel
Growing Love Spell
To make a love grow, start by mixing crushed rose petals with
water. Heat this in a pot without boiling every day, stirring
clockwise and imagining love coming to you. Once the water has
mostly evaporated-usually about four days-a clay will form.
Fashion this clay into heart shapes, and allow it to dry. Plant these
rose hearts under rose bushes and say:
As this rose blooms,
So will love come to me.
As this rose grows,
So will love grow for me.
Carry a rose heart with you always, and remember to tend to your
garden and your heart.
by: Nancy Bennett
Spell to Stop Arguments
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To stop a pointless argument, take a picture of the one you are
fighting with and place a clear piece of tape over his or her mouth.
Draw a heart upon it. Kiss it, and place it where you can see it as
you clearly say:
You may best me with your words,
But you are bested by my kiss.
No more will I hear angry words;
From these lips, love will persist!
Blow a kiss to it now and then as you walk by. Then place it in your
dresser or another quiet place, and reinstate the spell when needed.
This also works on yourself.
by: Nancy Bennett
Attraction Bath Spell
This spell is designed to draw a variety of people to you, so you can
more easily find a suitable mate. To start, light a red candle and
soak in a bathtub with red rose petals. If you are a woman, add
cinnamon or vanilla to the water; a man, jasmine or patchouli. Dress
yourself in red clothing and stand before a mirror. Light red candles
in front of the mirror, and say:
I call on the gifts of Aphrodite,
I call on the gifts of PanMake me attractive and lovely,
Make me a more beautiful woman
[or man].
So mote it be.
Gaze at yourself in the mirror, and picture an aura around your body
that causes people to turn their heads and look at you.
by: Diana Rajchel
Attract-a-Mate Spell
There are many spells to help attract love. This one is especially
easy to perform. To start, you'll need a bottle of your favorite scent
and a pink candle. Carve a heart in the candle using a pin or
toothpick. Light the candle in a window where it will receive
moonlight from a Full Moon. Place the scent bottle in front of the
candle, and say: "Grant to me the love I lack; through this scent, my
mate attract!" Let the candle burn out naturally, then carry the scent
with you at all times. You may dab a little on when you are out
socializing. Increase the power of the magic by repeating the
invocation every time you put on the scent.
by: Chandra Beal
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Attracting Love Spell
To attract love, write down on a piece of paper all the qualities you
seek in a mate. Place the list in a red glass jar along with some bird
seed, the hair of a dog, and a rose quartz stone. If you are seeking a
man, add lavender; if you are seeking a woman, add vetivert.
Sprinkle rosemary in last while saying:
Mate of mine I've yet to know,
Seek me now and let love grow.
Seal the jar, and keep it near your bed. Recharge the spell on each
Full Moon until you find your love.
by: Edain McCoy
Path of Love Spell
Sometimes the perfect mate is out there waiting for you, but he or
she needs a little help in finding you. This spell helps create a path,
like a magical map, for your lover to locate you. Gather the petals
from five red roses. About a block from your house, drop a handful
of petals. Leave three more handfuls at regular intervals on the way
back home. Drop a fifth handful at your door. As you walk, say:
"This is a path of love. My true love will find me." Repeat this
mantra over and over, either in your head or aloud, as you create
your path of flowers. Your love should have no trouble finding you
now.
by: Chandra Beal
All-Purpose Protection Spell
For a dose of all-purpose protection, mix sage and fenugreek (or
fennel) with a pinch of allspice, and cover with enough boiling
water to fill a mug. Stand over the pot and visualize it glowing first
with bright green, then with potent blue protective energy. When
the potion is thoroughly imbued both with the herbs and your
positive thoughts, pour. As you sip the aromatic brew, think of its
protective energies seeping into your body, and into your aura.
Gradually, your personal emanation becomes brighter and denser.
With each taste of your tea, visualize yourself increasingly
surrounded by a psychic raincoat that is impermeable to negativity.
by: Kala Trobe
Litha Curse-Breaking Spell
This spell will break a curse leveled at you. Place some salt or ashes
in a small glass jar until it is about half-full. In another bowl mix
the following: two parts myrrh gum, one part orris root powder,
three parts cloves, and one piece of broken glass or mirror. Set the
mixture out in the midday Sun to absorb the cleansing power of its
peak rays. Place the Sun-soaked mixture in the glass of ashes or
salt, and dose with lime juice. Fill the rest of the jar with salt and
dispose of it away from your home.
by: Edain McCoy
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Safe-Travel Spell
Keep yourself and loved ones safe while you travel by casting a
Safe-Travel Spell. To start, take a white feather, some white
embroidery floss, and a silver charm shaped like a wheel. Use the
floss to fasten the wheel charm to the quill end of the feather. Tie
off the floss with a loop so that you can hang or wear the feather.
As you work, say: "Hermes, wing-footed messenger of fair
Olympus, see us safely to our destination." Hang the feather in your
vehicle, or wear it whenever you travel in an airplane or in someone
else's vehicle.
by: Elizabeth Barrette
Child's Protection Bracelet
A special kind of bracelet was used to protect children in ancient
Egypt. It utilized the number seven, which the Egyptians considered
to be a magic number. To make your own bracelet, string seven
agate and seven gold-colored beads on a thin cord in an alternating
pattern. While doing this, concentrate on your purpose and visualize
the bracelet protecting your child. Knot each end to keep the beads
in place. You may put knots between the beads if you wish. Leave
enough cord on each end for tying the bracelet around the child's
wrist. If it's too large, wrap it around the wrist more than once
before tying.
by: Kirin Lee
To Become Invisible
While there are many stories that involve magical cloaks and staves
that render the hero invisible, in truth, the closest that many will
ever come to true invisibility is when they journey into the astral.
There is, however, a rite that has been used to endow the virtue of
near invisibility. It enables one to walk into a room unobtrusively,
unnoticed by all within. To begin, light a candle anointed with
mystic veil oil. As it burns, anoint yourself with the oil as well, and
go to the place where you wish to preserve your anonymity. You
may find that even good friends will not notice as you quietly stride
past. This rite can be combined with a specific purpose-for instance,
those who wish to cross a border surreptitiously, or those who wish
to gain insight by being unobtrusive. The possibilities are endless,
and the results impressive.
by: Gwyndion O'Hara
A Charm for Beauty
Prepare a portable charm for yourself consisting of one avocado pit
(for the self), two dried cucumber peels (for others who will see the
shine of your inner beauty), a picture of a swan, and some ginseng
(check the tea section of your grocery store). Tie all of these in a
piece of cloth that you find very attractive. Hold the charm in your
hands with your eyes closed, visualizing the most exquisite concept
of loveliness you can and say, "As the ugly duckling became a
swan, soon my doubts will all be gone. Poise and grace to guide my
way, bringing confidence all the day." This charm may be carried or
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left near the mirror you use most frequently.
A Knot Magic Spell for Finding Lost Objects
This powerful spell originated in Greece, and is used to locate lost
objects. All you need is a handkerchief made of natural fabric, some
soil, and your powers of concentration. To begin, picture the lost
item in your mind. As you visualize the lost object, tie the
handkerchief into a knot. Then take the knotted handkerchief out to
your garden (apartment dwellers may use a potted plant) and press
the knot into the soil while speaking these words: "Back to the
earth, back to the ground. I won't untie you until you are found."
Leave the handkerchief undisturbed until you find the lost item.
When it is found, give thanks and untie the knot. Launder the
handkerchief; put it away in a safe place to use again as needed.
by: Jim Weaver
Raining Fortune Spell
For a shower of good fortune, buy a small child's plastic boat, either
red or gold in color. Place it in water attached to a string, and draw
a circle around it with your hand, saying:
Oh goddess Benten turn the tide,
Let fortune find me and reside.
Circle me with your great power,
Good fortune on me shower.
Drizzle a bit of clear water or gold sparkles on the boat. Take it
home and place it on your altar and continue to "shower" it every
now and then. Benten is the Japanese goddess of the seas and luck,
called upon by both sailors and gamblers.
by: Nancy Bennett
Spell to Draw Something Good To Yourself
To draw something good to yourself, first concentrate on what you
want. Use all your senses to see yourself with the desired thing. Ask
yourself how it smells, feels, tastes, and so on. When you have a
complete image of the desired thing, chant:
According to the highest good of all concerned and with the free
concession of all, I draw to me [name of thing you desire] or
something better, and so it must be. I give thanks. Blessed be.
Release your image, knowing that it or something better is on its
way.
by: Therese Francis
Amulet to Protect from Harm
To make a protection amulet, use a piece of jewelry that was given
to you or owned by a loved one. Hold it in your palm and
concentrate on it until it tingles in your hand. As the tiny vibrations
grow bigger, see blue-white light emerging from the ether. At the
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center of the glow, visualize the Egyptian Eye of Horus. Chant:
"Danger at bay, love here to stay," until you know that your amulet
will warn you with a tingle whenever you need to be alert.
by: Kala Trobe
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Changing sleep patterns: restlessness, hot feet, waking up two or
three times a night. Feeling tired after you wake up and sleepy off
and on during the day. There is something called the Triad Sleep
Pattern that occurs for many: you sleep for about 2-3 hours, wake
up, go back to sleep for another couple of hours, wake again, and go
back to sleep again. For others, the sleep requirements have
changed. You can get by on less sleep.
Lately I have been experiencing huge waves of energy running into
my body from the crown. It feels good, but it keeps me awake for a
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Advice: Get used to it. Make peace with it and don't worry about
getting enough sleep (which often causes more insomnia). You will
be able to make it through the day if you hold thoughts of getting
just what you need. You can also request your Higher Power to give
you a break now and then and give you a good, deep night's sleep.
If you can't go back to sleep right away, use the waking moments to
meditate, read poetry, write in your journal or look at the moon.
Your body will adjust to the new pattern.
Activity at the crown of the head: Tingling, itching, prickly,
crawling sensations along the scalp and/or down the spine. A sense
of energy vibrating on top of the head, as if energy is erupting from
the head in a shower. Also the sensation of energy pouring in
through the crown, described as "sprinkles". This may also be
experienced as pressure on the crown, as if someone is pushing
his/her finger into the center of your head. As I mentioned in #1, I
have been experiencing huge downloads of energy through the
crown. In the past, I have felt more generalized pressure, as if my
head is in a gentle vise. One man related that his hair stood on end
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Advice: This is nothing to be alarmed about. What you are
experiencing is an opening of the crown chakra. The sensations
mean that you are opening up to receive divine energy.
Sudden waves of emotion: Crying at the drop of a hat. Feeling
suddenly angry or sad with little provocation. Or inexplicably
depressed. Then very happy. Emotional roller coaster. There is
often a pressure or sense of emotions congested in the heart chakra
(the middle of the chest). This is not to be confused with the heart,
which is located to the left of the heart chakra.
Advice: Accept your feelings as they come up and let them go. Go
directly to your heart chakra and feel the emotion. Expand it
outward to your all your fields and breathe deeply from the belly all
the way up to your upper chest. Just feel the feeling and let it
evaporate on its own. Don't direct the emotions at anyone. You are
cleaning out your past. If you want some help with this, say out
loud that you intend to release all these old issues and ask your
Higher Power to help you. You can also ask Grace Elohim to help
you release with ease and gentleness. Be grateful that your body is
releasing these emotions and not holding onto them inside where
they can do harm. One source suggests that depression is linked to
letting go of relationships to people, work, etc. that no longer match
us and our frequencies. When we feel guilty about letting go of
these relationships, depression helps us medicate that pain.
Old "stuff" seems to be coming up, as described above, and the
people with whom you need to work it out (or their clones) appear
in your life. Completion issues. Or perhaps you need to work
through issues of self-worth, abundance, creativity, addictions, etc.
The resources or people you need to help you move through these
issues start to appear.
Advice: Same as #3. Additionally, don't get too involved in
analyzing these issues. Examining them too much will simply cycle
you back through them over and over again at deeper and deeper
levels. Get professional help if you need to and walk through it. Do
not try to avoid them or disassociate yourself from them. Embrace
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whatever comes up and thank it for helping you move ahead. Thank
your Higher Power for giving you the opportunity to release these
issues. Remember, you don't want these issues to stay stuck in your
body.
Changes in weight: The weight gain in the US population is
phenomenal. Other people may be losing weight.
We often gain weight because many fears we have suppressed are
now coming up to the surface to be healed. We react by building up
a defense. We also attempt to ground ourselves or provide bulk
against increasing frequencies in our bodies.
Advice: Don't freak out, but just accept it as a symptom of where
you are right now. You will release/gain the weight when all your
fears have been integrated. Release your anxiety about this. Then
you might find it easier to lose/gain the weight eventually. Exercise.
Before eating, try this: Sit at the table with an attractive place
setting. Light a candle. Enjoy how the food looks. Place your
dominant hand over your heart and bless the food. Tell your body
that you are going to use the food to richly nourish it, but that you
are not going to use the food to fulfill your emotional hungers. Then
pass your hand from left to right over the food and bless it. You
may notice that the food feels warm to your hand even if the food is
cold-- I like to think that the food is good for me when it feels warm
and nourishing to my hand. I have also noticed that when I practice
blessing the food, I don't eat as much. It is important not to let
yourself off the hook when you forget to bless the food before you
eat. If I've forgotten and I've nearly finished eating, I bless the food
anyway. That way I don't slip out of the habit. Another thing you
can do is to stay present while eating -- don't watch TV or read.
Heartily enjoy what blessings are before you.
Changes in eating habits: Strange cravings and odd food choices.
Some find they are not as hungry as they used to be. Or hungrier.
Advice: Don't deny what your body tells you it needs. If you are not
sure, you might try muscle-testing before you chose a food to see if
it's what your body wants. Also try blessing the food as described in
#5.
Food intolerances, allergies you never had before: As you grow
more spiritual, you are more sensitive to everything around you.
Your body will tell you what it can no longer tolerate, as if it, too, is
sloughing off what doesn't serve it anymore. You might be
cleansing yourself of toxins. Some people find they often have a
white residue in their mouth, much like that of runners at the end of
a race.
Advice: An acupuncturist told me that this film can be removed by
sloshing 2 tablespoons of cold-pressed olive oil in your mouth for
10-15 minutes (don't swallow, whatever you do), then spitting it out
into the toilet -- not the sink, for you just removed toxins from your
body and don't want them in the sink. Brush your teeth and do the
same. Then clean your brush. (Sorry this is yucky, but it works.)
Amplification of the senses: Increased sensitivity.
a. Sight: Sore eyes, blurry vision, shimmering objects, seeing
glittery particles, auras around people, plants, animals, and objects.
Some report seeing formerly opaque objects as transparent. When
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you close your eyes, you no longer see darkness, but a redness. You
may also see geometric shapes or brilliant colors and pictures when
eyes are closed. Colors appear more vivid -- the sky might look teal
or the grass an amazing green. Often I see grids running across the
ground. As you become more sensitive, you may see shapes or
outlines in the air, especially when the room is almost dark. Once
while I was looking at the ceiling light, its form began to disappear
and almost recede into the ceiling. When your eyes are open or
closed, you may see white or gold shapes in your peripheral vision
(these are your guides). Lately my eyes have felt excessively dry
upon awakening; I have had difficulty opening them now and then.
Also I have experienced sore eyes. (A sight for sore eyes -- does
this have new meaning?) Now (November 2000) I am seeing
shadows and white auras all the time and everywhere -- the kind of
vision you have if you focus on something, then relax your eyes and
let them soften and blur out.
Advice: Your vision is changing in many ways -- you are
experiencing new ways of seeing. Be patient. Whatever you do, do
not be afraid. Hazy vision may be relieved by yawning. Drink lots
of water for dryness.
b. Hearing: Increased or decreased hearing. I once thought I would
have to pull off the road because of the painfully amplified sound of
my tires on the freeway. Other symptoms are hearing white noise in
the head, beeps, tones, music or electronic patterns. Some hear
water rushing, bees buzzing, whooshing, roaring or ringing. Others
have what is called audio dyslexia-- you can't always make out
what people are saying, as if you can no longer translate your own
language. Some hear strange voices in their dreams, as if someone
is hovering near them. You can either ask the presence(s) to leave
or ask Archangel Michael to take care of the situation. Again, there
is nothing to fear.
Advice: Surrender to it. Let it come through. Listen. Your ears are
adjusting to new frequencies. This summer I felt the presence of
two souls, who were confused or lost. They hovered around me and
called my name. At first, I was frightened, then I realized who they
were (my own dear departed ones, both of whom died suddenly by
strokes). Believe it or not, in each case, all I had to do was tell them
that I loved them and would help them change their circumstances
and find a beautiful place to go. Then I guided them to the bright
light, reassuring them that I would stay with them until they reached
the light. (When they finally see the light, they can't wait to get
there!.)
c. Enhanced senses of smell, touch, and/or taste. I notice I can now
smell and taste chemical additives in some foods in a rather
unpleasant manner. Other food may taste absolutely wonderful. For
some people, these enhancements are both delightful and
distracting. You might even smell the fragrance of flowers now and
then. Many of the mystics did. Enjoy it.
Skin eruptions: Rashes, bumps, acne, hives, warts, and shingles.
Anger produces outbreaks around the mouth and chin. I had a
dermatitis on my extremities for several months that accompanied
healing an episode from my past. When I had worked through most
of the issue, the condition was released.
Advice: You may be sloughing off toxins and bringing emotions to
the surface. When there is an issue to be released and you are trying
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to repress it, your skin will express the issue for you until you
process the emotions. Work through your "stuff". Try essential oils
of geranium, rose, lemon or bergamot on the shingles lesions.
Episodes of intense energy which make you want to leap out of bed
and into action. One person said her body seems to vibrate wildly.
Followed by periods of lethargy and fatigue. The fatigue usually
follows great shifts. This is a time of integration, so give into it.
Advice: Roll with the nature of the energy. Don't fight it. Don't
make it the "wrong" way to feel. Be gentle with yourself. Take naps
if you are tired. Write your novel if you are too energized to sleep.
Take advantage of the type of energy.
Changes in prayer or meditation: Not feeling the same sensations as
before. Not having the same experience of being in contact with
Spirit. Difficulty in focusing. When I close my eyes to meditate, I
have noticed a strange, spacey sensation that makes me feel lighter,
less dense, and swirling with energy.
Advice: You may be in more instant and constant communion with
Spirit now and the sensation may therefore be altered. You will
adapt to this new feeling. You are actually thinking acting in
partnership with Spirit most of the time now. You may find your
meditation periods shorter.
Power surges: All of a sudden you are heated from head to toe. It is
a momentary sensation, but uncomfortable. In contrast, some people
have felt inexplicably cold. I have experienced both. Even men
have reported "heating up". More recently I experience waves or
currents of energy rolling through me. Sometimes the energy seems
so intense when it first comes into my body that I feel a little
nauseated. But if I think of the energy as divine and let go of fear, I
feel wonderful and enjoy the sensation. If you are an energy worker,
you may have noticed that the heat running through your hands has
increased tremendously. This is good. Two of my friends note that
often there is an energy that spins around their midriff and at other
times around their head.53. Getting taller
Advice: If you are uncomfortable, ask your Higher Power, that if it
be for your best and highest good, to turn down/up the temperature
a bit.
A range of physical manifestations: Intense energy in the hands
and/or feet; headaches, backaches, neck pains, flu-like symptoms
(this is called vibrational flu), digestive problems, muscular spasms
or cramps, racing heartbeat, chest pains and infections, increased
mucous, changes in sexual desire, numbness or pain in the limbs,
and involuntary vocalizations or bodily movements. Some of us
have even had old conditions from childhood reappear briefly for
healing.
Advice: Remember what I said about seeking medical help if you
need it! If you have determined that this is not a medical condition,
relax in the realization that it is only temporary.
Looking younger: Yippee! As you clear emotional issues and
release limiting beliefs and heavy baggage from the past, you are
actually lighter. Your frequency is higher. You love yourself and
life more. You begin to resemble the perfect you that you really are.
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Some of my friends report that their hair is growing darker (as
opposed to gray) or blonder. I notice my face changes from moment
to moment.
Vivid dreams: Sometimes the dreams are so real that you wake up
confused. You may even have lucid dreams in which you are in
control. Many dreams may be mystical or carry messages for you.
And in some dreams, you just know that you are not "dreaming" -that what is happening is somehow real.
Advice: You will remember what is important for you to remember.
Don't force anything. Above all, stay out of fear.
Events that completely alter your life: death, divorce, change in job
status, loss of home, illness, and/or other catastrophes -- sometimes
several at once! Forces that cause you to slow down, simplify,
change, re-examine who you are and what your life means to you.
Forces that you cannot ignore. Forces that cause you release your
attachments. Forces that awaken your sense of love and compassion
for all.
A desire to break free from restrictive patterns, life-draining jobs,
consumptive lifestyles, and toxic people or situations: You feel a
compelling need to "find yourself" and your life purpose -- now!
You want to be creative and free to be who you really are. You
might find yourself drawn to the arts and nature. You want to
unclutter yourself from things and people that no longer serve you.
Advice: Do it! Don't be afraid. Your soul is calling to you to do this.
Emotional and mental confusion: A feeling that you need to get
your life straightened out--it feels like a mess. But at the same time
you feel chaotic and unable to focus. See #45.
Advice: Put your ear to your heart and your own discernment will
follow.
Introspection, solitude and loss of interest in more extraverted
activities: This stage has come as a surprise to many extraverts who
formerly saw themselves as outgoing and involved. They say, "I
don't know why, but I don't like to go out as much as before."
Creativity bursts: Receiving images, ideas, music, and other
creative inspirations at an often overwhelming rate.
Advice: At least record these inspirations, for Spirit is speaking to
you about how you might fulfill your purpose and contribute to the
healing of the planet. Recently, I have scheduled days on my
calendar just for my creative work. Making a space for something
to happen increases the creative flow. Put creativity first in your
life!
A perception that time is accelerating: It seems that way because
you have had so many changes introduced into your life at an
unprecedented rate. The number of changes seems to be growing.
Sometimes time is collapsing, so you feel like there are big time
gaps in your day. Our perception of time-space is being altered.
Advice: Breaking your day up into appointments and time segments
increases the sense of acceleration .You can slow time down by
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relaxing into the present moment and paying attention to what's at
hand, not anticipating what's ahead. Slow down and tell yourself
that you have plenty of time. Ask your Higher Power to help you.
Keep your focus on the present. Try to flow from one activity to the
next. Stay tuned to your inner guidance. You can also warp time by
asking for it. Next time you feel rushed, say, "Time warp, please. I
need some more time to -----." Then relax.
A sense of impendingness: There is a feeling that something is
about to happen. This can create anxiety.
Advice: There is nothing to worry about. Things are definitely
happening, but anxiety only creates more problems for you. All
your thoughts -- positive or negative-- are prayers. There is nothing
to fear.
Impatience: You know better, but sometimes you can't help it. You
want to get on with what seems to be coming your way. Uncertainty
is not comfortable.
Advice: Learn to live with the uncertainty, knowing that nothing
comes to you until you are ready. Impatience is really a lack of
trust, especially trust in your Higher Power. When you focus on the
present, you will experience miracles -- yes, even in traffic.
A deep yearning for meaning, purpose, spiritual connection, and
revelation: Perhaps an interest in the spiritual for the first time in
your life. "Constant craving", as k.d. lang says. The material world
cannot fulfill this longing.
Advice: Follow your heart and the way will open up for you.
A feeling that you are somehow different: A disquieting sense that
everything in your life feels new and altered, that you have left your
old self behind. You have. You are much greater than you can
possibly imagine. There is more to come.
"Teachers" appear everywhere with perfect timing to help you on
your spiritual journey: people, books, movies, events, Mother
Nature, etc. Teachers may appear to be negative or positive when
you are trapped in polarity thinking, but, from a transcendent
perspective, they are always perfect. Just what you need to learn
from and move on. By the way, we never get more than we are
ready to master. Each challenge presents us with an opportunity to
show our mastery in passing through it.
You find a spiritual track that makes sense to you and "speaks to
you" at the most profound levels. Suddenly you are gaining a
perspective that you would never have considered before. You
hunger to know more. You read, share with others, ask questions,
and go inside to discover more about who you are and why you are
here
You are moving through learning and personal issues at a rapid
pace: You sense that you are "getting it" quite readily.
Advice: Keep remembering that things will come to you when they
are ready to be healed. Not sooner. Deal with whatever comes up
with courage and you will move through the issues rapidly.
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Invisible presences: Here is the woo-woo stuff. Some people report
feeling surrounded by beings at night or having the sensation of
being touched or talked to. Often they will wake with a start. Some
also feel their body or bed vibrate. The vibrations are caused by
energetic changes after emotional clearing has taken place.
Advice: This is a sensitive topic, but you may feel better blessing
your bed and space around it before you sleep. I rest assured that I
am surrounded only by the most magnificent spiritual entities and
am always safe in God's care. Sometimes, however, the fear gets to
me, and I call in Archangel Michael and/or Archangel Uriel. I don't
beat myself up for being afraid sometimes. I forgive myself for not
always sovereign at 3:00 a.m.
Portents, visions, "illusions", numbers, and symbols: Seeing things
that have spiritual importance for you. Noticing how numbers
appear synchronistically in your awareness. Everything has a
message if you take the time to look. I enjoy the experience of
"getting the messages." What fun!
Increased integrity: You realize that it is time for you to seek and
speak your truth. It suddenly seems important for you to become
more authentic, more yourself. You may have to say "no" to people
whom you have tried to please in the past. You may find it
intolerable to stay in a marriage or job or place that doesn't support
who you are. You may also find there is nowhere to hide, no secrets
to keep anymore. Honesty becomes important in all your
relationships.
Advice: Listen to your heart. If your guidance tells you not to do
something, speak up and take action. Say "no". Likewise, you must
also say "yes" to that which compels you. You must risk displeasing
others without guilt in order to attain spiritual sovereignty.
Harmony with seasons and cycles: You are becoming more tuned to
the seasons, the phases of the moon and natural cycles. More
awareness of your place in the natural world. A stronger connection
to the earth.
Electrical and mechanical malfunctions: When you are around, light
bulbs flicker, the computer locks up, or the radio goes haywire.
Advice: Call on your angels, guides, or Grace Elohim to fix it or put
up a field of protection of light around the machine. Surround your
car with blue light. Laugh.
Increased synchronicity and many small miracles: Look for more of
these.
Advice: Synchronistic events tell you if you are heading in the right
direction or making the correct choices. Honor these clues and you
cannot go astray. Spirit uses synchronicity to communicate to you.
That's when you begin to experience daily miracles. See #30.
Increased intuitive abilities and altered states of consciousness:
Thinking of someone and immediately hearing from them. More
synchronicities. Having sudden insights about patterns or events
from the past. Clairvoyance, out-of-body experiences, and other
psychic phenomena. Intensified sensitivity and knowing.
Awareness of one's essence and that of others. Channeling angelic
and Christ-consciousness energies.
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Communication with Spirit: Contact with angels, spirit guides, and
other divine entities. Channeling. More and more people seem to be
given this opportunity. Feeling inspiration and downloading
information that takes form as writing, painting, ideas,
communications, dance, etc.
A sense of Oneness with all: A direct experience of this Wholeness.
Transcendent awareness. Being flooded with compassion and love
for all life. Compassionate detachment or unconditional love for all
is what lifts us up to higher levels of consciousness and joy.
Moments of joy and bliss:. A deep abiding sense of peace and
knowing that you are never alone.
Integration: You become emotionally, psychologically, physically,
and spiritually stronger and clearer. You feel as if you are in
alignment with your Higher Self.
Living your purpose: You know you are finally doing what you
came to earth for. New skills and gifts are emerging, especially
healing ones. Your life/work experiences are now converging and
starting to make sense. You are finally going to use them all.
Advice: Listen to your heart. Your passion leads you to where you
must go. Go within and ask your Higher Power, "What is it you
would have me do?" Watch for synchronicities. Listen.
Feeling closer to animals, rocks, and plants: To some people,
animals now seem to be more "human" in their behavior. Wild
animals are less afraid. Plants respond to your love and attention
more than ever. Some may even have messages for you. Stones and
rocks emit energies that you can feel. Many seem to have healing or
clearing properties.
Seeing beings of other dimensions: The veil between dimensions is
thinner, so it is not surprising.
Advice: Just stay in your sovereignty. You are more powerful than
you can ever imagine, so do not entertain fear. Ask your guides for
help if you slip into fear.
Lately, I have been experiencing the presence of dear ones who
have transitioned and, due to the nature of their deaths, were
confused as to where they were. I helped them realize they had
passed away and assisted them in going towards the Light. It is very
simple to do -- just tell them you will stay with them until they find
it. Once they see the Light and start moving towards it, they can't
wait to get there. Because I use a pendulum to talk to them, I can
tell when they reach the Light -- the pendulum comes to a dead
stop.
Seeing a person's true form or seeing loved ones with a different
face -- past life or parallel life.
Physically manifesting thoughts and desires more quickly and
efficiently.
Advice: Monitor your thoughts. All thoughts are prayers. Be careful
what you ask for.
Left -brain fogginess: Your psychic abilities, your intuitive
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knowing, your feeling and compassion, your ability to experience
your body, your visioning, your expressiveness all emanate from
the right brain. In order for this side of the brain to develop more
fully, the left brain must shut down a little bit. Normally the
left-hemisphere's capacity for order, organization, structure, linear
sequencing, analysis, evaluation, precision, focus, problem-solving,
and mathematics dominate our often less-valued right brain. What
results are memory lapses, placing words in the wrong sequence,
inability or no desire to read for very long, inability to focus;
forgetting what you are just about to say; impatience with linear
forms of communication (audio or written formats); a feeling of
spaciness, being scattered; losing interest in research or complex
information; feeling bombarded with words and talk and
information; and a reluctance to write. Sometimes you feel dull and
have no interest in analysis, lively intellectual discussion, or
investigation.
On the other hand, you might find yourself drawn to the sensate:
videos, magazines with photos, beautiful artwork, movies, music,
sculpting, painting, being with people, dancing, gardening, walking,
and other kinesthetic forms of expression. You may search for
spiritual content, even science fiction.
Advice: You may discover that if you allow your heart and your
right brain to lead you, the left will then be activated appropriately
to support you. And someday we will be well-balanced, using both
hemispheres with mastery.
Dizziness: This occurs when you are ungrounded. Perhaps you have
just cleared a big emotional issue and your body is adjusting to your
"lighter" state.
Advice: Ground yourself by eating protein. Sometimes "comfort
food" feels right. Don't make any food right or wrong for you. Use
your guidance to know what you need at any given moment. Take
your shoes off and put your feet in the grass for a couple of minutes.
Falling, having accidents, breaking bones: Your body is not
grounded or perhaps your life is out of balance. Or your body may
be telling you to slow down, examine certain aspects of your life, or
heal certain issues. There is always a message. When I recently
broke my ankle, I understand that my ankle was taking on what I
myself refused to deal with. And that was all of the above.
Advice: Stay grounded by taking your shoes off and putting your
feet in the grass; even better, lie down on the grass without a
blanket under you. Feel the earth beneath you. Get out in nature.
Slow down and pay attention. Be mindful about what you are doing.
Feel your feelings when they come up. Stay in the present.
Surround yourself with blue light when you are feeling shaky.
Heart palpitations: A racing heart usually accompanies a heart
opening. It only lasts for a few moments and means that the heart is
re-balancing itself after an emotional release. I had one episode that
terrified me: I woke up in the middle of the night, my heart
pounding. I thought it was going to come right out of my chest. It
only happened once and was, I understand, a huge heart-chakra
opening. But I did check it out. There is nothing wrong with my
heart.
Advice: Remember what I said about getting medical attention
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when needed. Consult your doctor about any conditions you are not
comfortable with.
Faster hair and nail growth: More protein is being used in the body.
Too bad we can't tell the body where to grow the hair and where not
to grow it. (Or can we? Hmmm.)
A desire to find your soulmate or twin flame: More than ever
before, the idea that we can have a relationship that matches who
we are seems more desirable.
Advice: The truth is, we have to be the kind of person we want to
attract. We have to love ourselves and where we are right now
before we can attract a more "perfect" mate. The work begins at
home. Here is how I think it works: Hold the desire for this person
in your heart, but without attachment. Expect that someday you will
meet someone who is more suited to you, but let go of any
expectations as to who this will be and how it will happen. Focus
instead on cleaning up your own life and being the kind of person
you want to be. Be happy now. Enjoy your life. Then you may
see.....
Memories surface: Body memories, suppressed memories, images
of past lives and/or parallel lives. We are healing and integrating all
our "selves", so expect to have some of these experiences.
Advice: Keep in mind that it is best to recall what only what comes
to mind, leave the rest alone, don't analyze everything to death
(because you will be stuck in the tape loop of infinite issues to
process), and feel your feelings as they come up. Ask for help from
your guides.
Other chakra openings:
a. Third-eye or brow chakra: Muscles or nerves in the forehead
twitch, as if the third eye is trying to open up. Tingling feelings.
Feeling energy shoot out from the third eye like a ray.
b. Thymus chakra: I get a sharp pain in my thymus, about an inch or
so below the V of my collarbone. It is related to the heart's opening
and to the processing of new energies coming into the body.
Thumping my finger lightly on the spot often helps.
c. Hand chakras: Increased vibrations, heat, energy surges in the
center of the palms.
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Every time we focus on something we are calling it towards us.
With our thoughts and beliefs, we invite people, situations and
material things into our life. Often we can use our energy in
resistance. Many invoke this law without being aware of doing it.
Your conscious mind can discriminate between a negative and a
positive instruction but your unconscious mind cannot tell the
difference. The following words invokes this law: don't, can't, wont
or not. You become what you resist.
Whatever you resist persists in your life and uses up your energy in
struggle. Never resist failure or poverty. Instead attract success and
wealth. Always embrace the positive rather than resist the negative.
Releasing control frees energy.
One positive way of transforming negative thoughts is to write them
down and then burn the piece of paper.
Then write down what you do want so as to attract that into your
life instead. If you are in conflict you stay stuck.
If someone is blaming another for what is happening in his own life,
he is a victim who is resisting taking responsibility for what he has
created. Anything that you are resisting has a message for you. If
you have recurring patterns of failure constantly picture yourself
succeeding. Quit resisting. Decide what you do want in life and start
to send out magnetic, excited, Enthusiastic energies to draw the
positive to you. What you resist persists in your life and drains you
of energy. Embrace what you do want and feel alive.
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You have drawn towards you everything and everyone who is in
your life. You send out into the ether the story of your patterns,
emotional energy, mindsets, and denials, likes and dislikes. People
who do not resonate on our frequency simple are not attracted to us.
The vibration you emit is made up of your conscious and
unconscious energy, some magnetic, some repellent and some
neutral. Like attracts like Qualities such as love, kindness, delight or
generosity transmit a high frequency and magnetize people with
similar energy. The universe provides mirrors for us to look into.
Our underlying beliefs attract people and situations to us. If you
think negative thoughts you attract negative people and situations to
you. Whenever something is not materializing, as you would like it,
examine your underlying feelings and change them. The inner
attracts the outer. If something in your outer world is not what you
want it to be, look inside and shift how you feel about Yourself.
You will automatically attract different people and experiences to
you. Remind yourself of your good qualities. Send out positive light
and wait for a miracle to be drawn towards you. You are a magnet:
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THE LAW OF REQUEST
Under spiritual law, if you want help, you must ask for it. It is better
to help another only when they ask you for help.
If you feel you want to help someone else without their permission
then you need to look at the part within yourself that feels the need
to rescue them. A being of Light never interferes with your life. But
they will save you from an accident or death if it is not your karma.
They will also see you make mistakes so you can learn and grow.
There are times when you may wish to ask for help. This is done
calmly and with strength. As soon as you are ready to ask for help
you are ready to receive it.
You are ready to accept the wisdom that goes with it. Then the
higher powers will align themselves to help you.
The person who is steadfastly walking the spiritual path goes within
to look for answers. As soon as you are ready to know something
the teacher will appear to provide it. When you are ready to
formulate the question, you are ready to receive the answer. When
you need help first quiet and centre yourself. Meditate on what you
really want and find clarity about it.
Then request help to your spiritual helpers. The answer lies in the
question. The more clarity you have in your question, the fuller the
help you will receive. They will always help you. The universe is
waiting to help you. All you have to do is ask.
AS WITHIN SO WITHOUT
Earth is a place of learning where our lessons are presented to us by
making our outside world an exact reflection of our inner world. If
you feel secure, loved, safe and happy inside you will have secure,
safe and happy people in your life. If you feel angry, self-critical or
feel rejected deep inside, you will have people who get angry at
you, or put you down or who abandon you. The universe rearranges
itself to reflect your reality. Literally as within so without.
Your body is a mirror of your deep, often unconscious, inner
feelings. The left side of our body reflects our attitude to women
and the past. The right side reflects our attitude to men and the
future. The words we choose to use also reflect the condition of our
bodies. So if you have a 'pain in the neck', who is being a 'pain in
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get a 'pain in the neck'. The kind of car we own is a deep inner
reflection of who we are. Like wise, our home and our pets reflect
our inner qualities. The higher beings who watch over us cause the
material objects in our life to alter according to our inner state. So if
we want to change something in our lives then we need to alter our
beliefs and attitudes in order for our outer world to change. The
universe rearranges itself to bring you what you believe.
AS ABOVE SO BELOW
This is the first Law of the Universe. On Earth as it is in heaven.
The Universe loves you and holds a vision of your future as an
enlightened person no matter what mistakes you are making on
Earth. God does not judge you, only encourages. You have free will
to make your own choices in life. God will not force you to do his
will. he Universe waits without judgment as we experience and
learn. When we are ready it opens new doors. God wants us to be
happy, fulfilled, prosperous and healthy.
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People are always asking me how to get more in touch with their
own intuition. I always recommend going out and buying a good
deck of tarot cards and learning to do tarot readings for yourself .
There are many fantastic decks of tarot cards with books that teach
you the meanings of each card and how to do a reading. You can do
tarot cards readings that are predictive or for self-discovery. They
can assist you in getting very deep into your own psyche and can
help to connect you with your blockages, path in life, strengths, in
other words your inner self.
When I first started doing tarot readings for others, I used the Rider
Waite deck . This is a very good beginner deck for anyone to
become familiar with the universal symbols that are in most tarot
card art. I then went from that deck on to 4 other tarot card decks
before I finally settled with the Robin Wood deck . I felt most
connected with it. I never formally learned the textbook meanings
of the tarot cards, but rather used the images on the cards to speak
to me. I did try at first to memorize and get all the meanings correct,
but I found it interrupted the flow of intuition rather then enhance a
reading. Any time you have to put logical thought into the flow of
your intuition it clouds the true answers. I feel the key to doing any
readings, whether using the tarot cards or any other tools or no
tools, is to trust the initial images, feelings, words that come to you
without trying to put logical sense and meaning to it. I don't
dissuade anyone from learning the formal 'textbook' meanings, just
don't get too hung up on the process, but rather the final result,
which is trusting the answers you glean from them. I no longer use
the tarot cards for my readings unless someone specifically asks for
a tarot card reading or I am in a situation where I can be distracted.
They really are just a tool and nobody really needs them to connect
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With a little practice, most people are surprised at how fast they
develop their intuitive gifts. I am not saying that everybody can go
out and buy a deck of tarot cards and start doing tarot readings for
someone else. It is absolutely possible for anyone though to develop
their ability for self-awareness using the tarot cards.
I always suggest to people if you are going to use the tarot cards as
a tool, please learn how to shield and protect yourself before
starting a session. When you open yourself up to being more
intuitive, you open yourself to all the energies around you. Some of
these energies are not always beneficial and can harm you. I don't
want to scare anybody off or instill fear, but I do believe that any
tools you use are not just 'for fun'. If you do not approach it with
some sense of seriousness, there is potential for problems. I do not
believe this is just with the tarot cards and tarot reading, but
anytime you approach the metaphysical world. I personally use a
simple method of visualization as well as smudging (link to
smudging page) and prayer before I do my readings. It is an
individual preference as to how you prepare for a reading.
Aeclectic gives examples of hundreds of tarot card decks I suggest
browsing this site and seeing which tarot decks 'feel' good to you.
Every deck is different according to the artist's interpretation. Most
decks do tend to keep the same basic symbolism assigned to each
card, but there are some decks that have added symbols, changed
number sequences, added cards, etc. You will find that some tarot
card decks will feel 'dark' to you and others will feel 'light' and
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Learn the Tarot has free lessons in reading the cards as well as
recommendations on books to read. You can also purchase cards
directly from them.
There is a video by Morgan Kiilehua that has rave reviews called "
Rider -Waite: Learning to Read the Tarot Intuitively. This may be a
helpful tool in assisting you begin your journey into the world of
tarot cards and tarot card reading!
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People continually ask me..."I get these feelings, are they real??"
As I do my life's work and LIVE my life, the subject of 'spiritual
awakening' as well as intuition is being discussed and seriously
thought about more so now then ever. World events and global
'unrest' is leading many people to search deeper for the true
meaning to life. Many of us are probing on a deeper level-through
reading, meditation, prayer, and connecting with others of like
mind, etc.-in order to decipher just what all this means for us on a
personal level as well as in the world as a whole. All life on this
planet is changing and we are becoming more spiritual, more aware
and more in tune with our souls and the destiny we came to fulfill in
this incarnation. This is a very significant step in the process of our
evolution and, indeed, we are looking at big and hopefully
wonderful changes to come.
What does this mean for us as humans? First, it means that we need
to acknowledge some basic truths that have up until the past 20
years or so, been distorted....due to religious doctrine, psychological
conditioning and fears and society's conditioning for centuries -the
fact that we are not just five-sensory beings, but, rather,
multi-sensory beings. "Reality" does not consist of merely what we
can perceive on the physical plane. There is so much that exists in
other dimensions that is beyond the perception and confines of the
five physical senses. And it is important not to limit our
understanding of "reality" by what we experience on the physical
plane! and it is important too to have an understanding of how our
'sixth sense' operates.
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Let me give you an example of something so common that we all
possess, but rarely give acknowledgment to. I don't think there's one
person alive who hasn't had a hunch about something; and for those
who have honored their hunches, they've fared much better than if
they'd not paid attention to and gone with their gut feelings. There
may be no tangible evidence to draw from on the physical plane,
but your deeper Knowing guided you and protected you. It is on this
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I cannot tell you how many times I've had clients tell me that they
regretted whenever they've not listened to their intuition and
followed it. I myself have not listened to my OWN intuitions and
have come to regret it later. I always encourage the ones who do
listen to and honor their intuition. It is so natural. I really believe we
need to take some examples from children. (hang out with a child
who has been encouraged to believe in their dreams, imaginary
friends, faeries, and magic!!!!...and you will get a good idea of how
we NEED to be as adults. )
Using your intuition can save you from an unpleasant or useless
endeavor.or some disastrous decisions or behavior... It can even
save your life or the life of someone you love! Your OWN intuition
is never wrong and anytime you have not listened to that initial 'gut
instinct', I am sure it was proven to be correct later.
Not only do we use our intuition for issues of decision making or
gaining clarity on topics of concern; we also use it to communicate
with others-or what is commonly referred to as telepathy. This is a
little bit more difficult, because so many people still have a
tendency to not trust their experiences when it comes to a two-way
telepathic exchange.
This is especially true with relationship issues.clients are so worried
when they've not received a telephone call or some form of
'physical world' contact from a significant person. People are so
dependent on their partner or friend contacting them either by
telephone or e-mail, etc., in order to be assured that the person is
even thinking about them. Some clients are nearly panic-stricken
and desperate.if they don't receive that coveted telephone call or
email or letter. This is human nature and this is our ego's and our
fears at work.
This is when I throw in that big question to them: "Have you been
aware of that person in your 'space'?"-more often than not, the
answer being yes. Sadly, though, too many people still question the
validity of their experiences and don't trust them. They think they're
mere fancy, or imagination. "No," I assure them. "It is not just your
imagination; it is absolutely real!" Normally when you have a
'spiritual connection' with another, there is constant
'communication' on some level. IF it is fantasy and wishful thinking
you will know it by the 'obsessive' quality about it.
Let me give you an example: Haven't you had the experience where
someone will cross your mind and then you hear from that person?
This is very typical of a telepathic exchange between two people.
Another example is where you may start saying something and
someone else finishes your sentence.or you both say the same thing
at the same time, etc...during these times your mind is not
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naturally and easily.
People will ask me how I know it's not just 'wishful thinking' that
we experience someone else's thoughts or presence in our
space-especially when it comes to relationship matters. Most of the
time the experience will happen when you're not even focused on or
thinking about the other person. But it has got a 'special' quality
about it.and, if you remain open and just 'listen' to what comes to
you, make a note of it and compare notes with that person at a later
time. Chances are you will be right on target with what you
experienced! The real trick is to stop THINKING with your logic
mind and let it all FLOW.
The other day I was aware of a friend while cleaning my house. The
telephone rang a second later and, sure enough, it was she. But this
doesn't just happen with people who are close to me; it also happens
with clients, family and the love in my life as well. I'll be aware of
them and I hear from them either that same day or the following
day. This is very real and it works for everyone-not just people who
are psychic! and I am sure you have ALL had that experience.
It is really important to have faith in our own intuition and also the
messages that come to us through our dreams-especially if you want
to be in contact with someone you care about. We tend to take all
this modern technology for granted-the telephone, fax, e-mail and
so on; but there will be times when these physical devices aren't
always available to us.and we'll have to make us of, and trust in that
cosmic telephone or radar we all possess. Furthermore, it's free and
a lot more reliable and private than using the telephone or Internet!
I hope this will serve as a small source of encouragement for all
who read these lines. We ALL have the ability to get in touch with
this Divine gift we have. It only takes a sincere desire and effort to
learn more about ourselves...what is fear?, what is out logic?, what
is 'conditioning'? and learn to distinguish. I believe too that you
wake up everyday to the worlds 'best psychic'...WHEN you learn to
TRUST YOURSELF...:-)
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book titles on this subject.
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"See things as you would have them instead of as they are." ....
Robert Collier.
"Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for
every dream precedes the goal." .....Pamela Vaull Starr.
Visualizing is using your imagination to create a new reality. It
means mentally giving form to ideas with our inner senses. Most
people use their inner eye for this process, they translate their ideas
into mental pictures and that's why imagining is often called
visualization. But you can also use inner hearing, -smell, -taste,
-feeling or a combination of the inner senses to envision your new
reality.
Creative visualization is something else than day-dreaming.
Day-dreaming is a mental flight from reality; you know that the
pictures your mind show you are no reality, and you have no
intention to give your fantasy the energy needed to make it come
true. In creative visualization however we make consciously use of
our ability to imagine a new reality, and we make it come true by
the power of will, focus, passion, desire, belief and repetition. In a
visualization you are the main character of the movie (and good
actors don't just play their part, but completely become the
character they play) while in day-dreaming you are a spectator.
The technique is simple: relax, close your eyes and make a mental
image of your desired new reality.
Some people can make very clear inner pictures, and many cannot.
That's okay, simply use your mind power to form your imagination.
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Start with envisioning a basic idea, let's say a wished vacation at the
seashore. If your mind does not spontaneously come up with an
image, ask yourself questions in relationship to your visualization.
Like: what is the weather like? how does the sea look? can I hear
the waves or sea-gulls? are there any dolphins? how is my hotel
like? what do I do there? what is the temperature of the water? who
do I meet there? etc. If you do this concentrated you will notice that
bit by bit an overall impression is formed, consisting of elements
you see, hear, smell, taste and maybe feel (like the heat of the sun
on your skin). Make your visualization as real as you can, BE your
imagination. If your mind comes up with something you don't like,
change it right away into something you do appreciate. This is your
new reality in motion. Practice visualization on a regular basis daily
or more often. When you become more experienced you'll notice
that it is also possible to visualize with your eyes open during daily
occupations. Now this is very handy, because while doing
something you can envision that you do it in a splendid way, what
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Over the last years these insights are implemented in top sports:
while running the athlete imagines that he runs very hard and
effortless and he sees himself winning the first prize. You could for
instance consider visualization when giving a speech or during
another public performance, applying for a job (see yourself getting
it and being offered a good salary), or when making a deal.
Another possibility of visualization is asking your subconscious to
give you information by showing it to you. If you are having a
head-ache for instance, you could try to find out this way why you
have it. And next visualize a big beautiful rose or a blue globe that
absorbs your head-ache and dissolves with it into the Universe.
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Visualization techniques are often used in meditation. Here they are
mainly used to harmonize and raise your energy, clear and protect
your aura, make contact with spiritual guides and explore inner
realms. Visualization is very important in most magical practices. A
basic rule in visualization is this: imagine the reality you wish to
achieve as vividly as possible and from the inner knowing that it
will appear into your physical reality.
So:If you are ill: visualize yourself in perfect health and feeling
good and happy If you weigh too much: see the new slim and
beautiful you, and feel how attractive you are If you want another
house: visualize the house of your dreams in the wished
surroundings If you want better relationships: form a picture of it
and feel your happiness in the new situation. ( Do NOT try and
control another persons life. If you are desiring a relationship with
someone in particular, visualize interaction between the 2 of you in
a positive and constructive manner, but do not try to force them to
love you.)
Don't set a time table for the Universe and enjoy your steps in
bringing an inward world out.
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Auras can be seen physically, or sensed psychically, or both. To
practice seeing auras - have the subject stand in front of a white
background and look to the side of their body - either side is fine.
Daylight is often the best light as the sun's rays are full spectrum.
If you watch the person for a minute, you will see their
electromagnetic energies as sort of wavy lines of energies. This
looks a lot like the energy you see when you are watching an
airplane taking off in a movie. Please do not strain you eyes. Relax.
You might want to let your eyes go a little out of focus while you
are looking for an aura. You may only see the aura for a few
seconds, then it will disappear.
After you see that energy, you may also see or sense a color
frequency, maybe two or three colors, in the aura. After several
minutes you should be able to see some sort of energy field around
the person, even if you cannot determine the color. Remember that
auras change all the time according to the person's mood and
environment.
As with all psychic tools, learning to read auras seems easy for
some people while others need lost of practice. The color of your
aura is determined by your emotions, physical surroundings,
spiritual work you are doing, items in the room, such as crystals
which can magnify or change the colors of any aura. Anything that
can affect an electromagnetic field can affect a change in one's aura.
As everything that is in our reality is created from electromagnetic
energy, everything has an aura - plants, animals, etc.
When you are working as a healer, you are bringing balance to the
person's electromagnetic field. You should observe the person
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as if the EM energies had suddenly stopped. This will tell you
where there is a problem or imbalance in their physical body.
Discuss the problem with the person first. All physical illness
comes from the emotional body which created the problem in the
first place.
You must find the psychological cause of the problem first, to
determine if the person actually wants to be healed on an emotional
and soul level. If they are they are not ready, the healing and
balancing can only last for a sort time and will revert back, or
manifest in another area of the body. All healing must be done on
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You can use your hands in a slow sweeping motion over the part of
the aura where the energy (chi) does not appear to flow properly. As
you move your hands across the person's aura - you should both
experience some sort of change in the energy flow. You do not
touch the person--just the auric field of that person. This healing
technique is know as Therapeutic Touch.
If you would like to see your own aura, find a mirror that is in a
well lit room. Relax. Look at your head or head and shoulder area.
Focus on one side of your head. Soon you should be able to see the
electromagnetic energies as a field of light - around your head.
Do you want to feel the electromagnetic energies coming from your
body? Try holding the palms of your hand facing each other - about
two inches apart. Wait a few second. You will feel something. If
you hands are nervous and cold, that will hamper the energies. Once
you begin to feel the sensation of electromagnetic energies between
your palms, move them slowly to and fro. You will feel the
movement of your aura. Look between your hands to see the
electromagnetic energies, your aura. Try moving your palms further
and further apart slowly. See how far you can go before you no
longer feel the 'pull'. Remember to check periodically by moving
your hands slightly and slowly. Now try pointing your fingers
towards each other and feel those energies. Again move your
fingertips to and from. You can repeat this with another person.
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"And when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half of
himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship
and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a
moment."
Plato 2,500 years ago...
The term 'soulmates' has become very well know and well used in
our vocabularies today. I would like to share with you my personal
definitions and thoughts of this word.
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"A soul mate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as
though the communication and communing that take place between
us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine
grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that
many have said there is nothing more precious in life." (Thomas
Moore).
All the clichés about love at first sight arise from the real
experience of this [this link takes you to a further explanation of
soul contracts] recognizing someone we love from a past life. The
intense and immediate sense of intimacy in such a connection is
powerful, and throughout the years it has become obvious through
my spiritual reading work that everyone wants to have a magical
soul mate experience. The usual questions cover a range of course,
from, "Will I ever find my soul mate?" to "Is he/she my soul mate?"
to, "I thought he/she was my soul mate, what happened?"
It is a very powerful experience when you look into the eyes of
someone you've just met and feel you've known this person forever.
Chances are that you have known this person and have spent
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numerous lifetimes together.and now, in this incarnation, you're
reconnecting again. This person may end up being your lover,
spouse, or at least a dear friend or NOT. These are what are referred
to as soulmates; and there seems to be more and more recognition
and acknowledgement of these special 'connections' happening in
our daily lives these past few years.
This is the general terminology used to describe soul
mate....spouse/lover, relative or dear friend.This sense of immediate
connection arises from unconscious or soul memories of previous
loving experiences. A "soul mate," then, is someone with whom we
have shared many loving past life experiences. If we look at all the
people we've loved long and well in this lifetime alone, it becomes
clear that we are not limited to just one "soul mate" for all eternity,
or even for each lifetime.
However, I like to make the distinction between terms, as I like to
refer to soulmates as a spouse or lover and all other very close
relations as being 'kindred spirits'-those with whom we've spent
many lifetimes together and who share a close bond, but have no
physical intimacy with. A 'twin flame' is someone who is so exactly
like you.it's as if you came from the same cosmic mold and can
actually be very overwhelming and UNCOMFORTABLE! This is a
most powerful bond and one that is much more rare and hard to
explain. Suffice it to say, I don't personally believe that too many
people actually get to experience their 'twin flame' in the physical
world.
We are all spiritual beings-regardless of our 'status' on this
plane-and we all belong to what is called 'soul groups'. Soul groups
are a group or cluster of souls who repeatedly incarnate
together.and help one another.on this earthy plan. There are many,
many reasons for this but it all boils down to soul development and
growth and 'contracts' that we have agreed to prior to incarnation.
It is also true that some people we have negative feelings towards
are here to help us grow too.and we've most likely had past life
experiences with them as well. If you've encountered someone
whom you disliked immediately, you probably had a negative
experience with this person in a past life.and, ideally, the situation
is being or will be rectified and the 'karma' burned or balanced. I
learned more from some of my most 'challenging' relationships than
from many other pleasant ones, and it is said too, somewhere that
our greatest enemies are also our greatest teachers. Remember, we
all came here to learn, heal and grow as we move toward
Enlightenment and Unconditional Love.and some may have had
more lifetimes than others, but I do not believe in 'spiritual
snobbery'...just because someone may seem or act 'less than
'Spiritual' gives us no right to judge them as good or bad, less or
more of a person, only DIFFERENT and EXACTLY where they
need to be for their OWN growth and learning.
In terms of relationship issues, some people think that something is
'wrong', because relationships never seem to work out.or they may
not have one at all. What is usually the case if you are not finding
and STAYING with 'the one' so to speak, is that one is being
'reserved' for that special soul connection that you are destined to be
in. So it may happen that one experiences a period of time without
being in a relationship or may find a series of short lived
connections. Unfortunately, one can rarely predict when their
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special soul connection may occur. It may happen early in life.or
much later or possibly not at all. I always feel that ANY
relationship should be viewed as 'the one' at the time. We are
ALWAYS with the 'significant' other' in our lives for a REASON. It
may not be for a lifetime or even for a long time. If we can start to
look at all our relationships and especially our intimate ones as
'lessons' whether they are easy or HARD, it can become easier to
see a pattern and learn to figure out WHY and WHAT we need to
learn. I feel personally, we are with exactly who we need to be with
( or not, for that matter, if we are in a period of aloneness).
Now, however, I'm seeing and even experiencing myself, clear
evidence of more and more soul connecting taking place as we have
now entered the so called 'Aquarian Age'. This is due to the fact that
we are becoming more 'spiritually realized' beings on a conscious
level; and being in a loving, soul centered relationship if far more
important and relevant. What an wonderful times we are living
in!...whether you are with your soul mate, looking for that person or
not even sure what it is. The BEST way to attract good and loving
relationships is to work on yourself and be all that you can be for
YOU. I firmly believe also, that we attract 'similar' energies to
ourselves to mirror and grow by. If we are not balanced and secure
within ourselves, chances are we will attract people of similar
states. Often times too, we may meet a soul mate and although all
the right 'ingredients' are there, fear, guilt, and human emotion can
tear them away from us. There are as many reasons for a
relationship NOT to work as for it to work. Even if you do meet a
potential 'soul mate' there is never any guarantee that it will be easy
or lasting.
People often ask, how do I recognize or know that I have found my
soul mate? Oh a physical level, I personally find the eyes, hands
and the sound of one's voice to be the most telling indicator of a
soul mate or kindred spirit. The eyes are so familiar.and seem to
'see' into our very soul...know us without knowing us. There is also
something very familiar and 'haunting' about the sound of the
voice.and the look, feel and movement of the hands. It is a feeling
of being with an old friend...like you just saw each other 'yesterday'.
The feeling of IMMEDIATE 'comfort' or even 'discomfort' upon
looking into the persons eyes, speaking with them. It is really hard
to put the 'feeling' into words...but I can guarantee you just KNOW
it when you experience it.
On a deeper level, a soul mate or kindred spirit is someone you
readily feel a profound sense of trust, comfort, and ease. You can
often communicate without words.where one seems to know what
the other is thinking or about to say. There is a deep knowing.and
certainty between you.that there is, indeed, a special bond.and that
love will continue to grow and evolve.
If you feel you've connected with a soul mate or kindred
spirit.believe in it and trust in Spirit to speak divine Truth to you
through your own heart and intuition. You have got a direct link
with the divine Source; and divine Wisdom, Truth and Love will be
revealed through your heart more than by any other means. For 'it is
only through the heart that one sees rightly; what is essential is
invisible to the eye.' Nobody can tell you any better or clearer than
what your own intuition can rely in a matter of a 'split second' and
as you learn to follow that feeling, it will guide you to your
soulmates, kindred spirits and ultimately maybe even your 'twin
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flame'.
Also understand this. We are creators. As creators, we are not so
much here to discover or "find" our fates as we are here to
CREATE our destinies. We have free will. We are inventing new
possibilities with every decision we make, every idea we imagine,
every desire we allow to flow through us. Rather than trying to
recreate a type of relationship we've read about or seen in the
movies, we might aim to create new levels of intimacy, deeper
layers of passion, stronger bonds of Love based on our OWN needs
in THIS lifetime. For those who want to love deeply, passionately
and well, I recommend we spend less time "looking for" our
soulmates, and more time CREATING them. These spiritual bonds
must begin somewhere and somehow. Although we DO create them
in EVERY LIFETIME, why not here and now?
I recommend these books for further reading and understanding:
Soulmates and Twin Flames: The Spiritual Dimensions of Love and
Relationships By Elizabeth Clare Prophet
Only Love is Real by Brian Weiss, MD.
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How will you know you have met your soul mate? Here are some of
the indications given by others who have had the experience...
Chances are you've met through a set of unusual circumstances that
were totally unplanned and unexpected.
● There is a powerful, instantaneous feeling that you have
known the other before.
● You felt an immediate and deep connection for one another.
● There is an electrifying feeling between the two of you that
words cannot describe.
● The relationship is immediate, as though no time had been
lost since you were last together.
● It feels as though you had never really lived before the
reunion occurred.
● You feel a deep sense of sacredness and unity with God that
you've have never known before.
● It brings on feelings you never thought possible.
● The two of you are inseparable.
● When you look into each other's eyes, time and space have no
meaning.
● There are no barriers between the two of you. The
relationship is a totally open one.
● Your conversations seem to go on forever.
● The two of you have a strong urge to serve humanity in a
deep and meaningful way.
● You give to the other and never think of receiving in return.
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There is a special sacredness to your relationship that
transcends anything you've ever experienced before.
You still have karma with your twin from previous lives, but
the two of you resolve it all with total forgiveness and
unconditional love.
Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense
of self.
There is a strong sense of unlimited ness eternity to your
feelings.
Your feelings for each other are very spiritual.
There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is
freedom without the need for ownership or control.
The two of you know without doubt that you have been
brought together for a reason.
You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to
be other than who you are.
In spite of your sameness, there is no doubt you feel a sense
of completion through the other.
Trust, patience and acceptance of each other's weaknesses
happen automatically.
There is a great sense of purpose and meaning to the
relationship.
Your sexuality with one another is a sacred act that celebrates
the unconditional love you have for one another.
The two of you become more and more one, without losing
your individual identities.
When you look into the other's eyes, you see yourself.
You experience a sense of completeness that is without
comparison.
The degree of intimacy and friendship the two of you develop
is without parallel.
You recognize that the two of you are God mates.
There is no doubt that some of the symptoms described above are
common to ALL soul mate relationships. What really sets the depth
of the union apart from all the rest is the profound degree of
completeness experienced and the overwhelming sense of
spirituality unique to these partnerships. Two other powerful
symptoms of spiritually mature souls is their powerful connection
to God and their desire to serve humanity in some meaningful way.
There is also a very sacred sense of intimacy and feeling of divinely
inspired wholeness that one finds within a deep soul mate
relationship. It is not by accident nor is it without purpose. Rather,
it is a magnificent and loving part of our Creator's plan for us. There
is no doubt that the intensity behind the soul mate union is more
than enough to jump start the journey that will lead us back to our
Source, which will happen someday.
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perception of life with your perfect soul mate? Joy, bliss,
happiness--a life with no conflict and no major issues to work
through? Ward and June or Ozzy and Harriet with passion?...in
other words....bliss and easy street???
In my opinion, that just isn't the way it works. In a soul mate
relationship, you are best friends--you have passion--you have
joy--you are totally comfortable with each other and enjoy being
together. Even with all this, you will still have issues that challenge
you and that "rock the boat." Sometimes they can even tear you
apart and break the relationship.
I also believe that you can find several "soul mates" in your
lifetime. Wayne Dyer said that your soul mate can be the person
who you can't stand but are in your life to teach you a powerful
lesson.
Carolyn Myss says in "Spiritual Madness" that we are here to heal
the parts of ourselves that don't know God yet. I believe that Soul
mates help us to heal those parts if we are willing to do the work
and look at ourselves openly and honestly. Soul mates can trigger
certain reactions in you that point the direction to what needs to be
healed.
I personally believe too that the hardest lesson we need to learn
aside from patience...is forgiveness. I can be very hard to forgive
anyone of whom you feel has ruined your life, hurt you either
physically, emotionally or mentally or who has done you some kind
of wrong. Sometimes THAT is the whole reason and lesson behind
the relationship. Unfortunately it is NOT always about 'true love'
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and 'happily ever after' and those types of relationships we tend to
view as horrid and NOT of a 'soul mate' nature. Only deep soul
searching and much hindsight can tell you for sure.
So what happens after you find your soul mate?
Remember the Zen proverb that poses the question of--What
happens before enlightenment? Chop wood, carry water. What
happens after enlightenment? Chop wood, carry water. I feel this is
a good analogy of what happens in relationships. You still must
face your personal challenges regardless, but.... if you're conscious
and awake, you can realize that you have a powerful ally in your
'soul mate' to walk beside you on your path to enlightenment.
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Many of us are finding that perfect "soul mate" and many are
searching for one. I suggest that you look at all the people in your
life that you love or have any kind of a 'connection' with--the ones
who challenge you, the ones who love you. Say of prayer of
gratitude for these "teachers." When someone close to you "presses
your buttons," look at what you can learn from the situation. What
parts of yourself need to be healed? What feelings come up for
you?..yes they may very well still be a 'soul mate' albeit one you
may not have dreamed as the 'perfect' one.
Marriane Williamson has said that every thing we do is either an act
of love or a cry for help. That's what a soul mate does for you--they
are there to love you AND to help you when you cry for help. They
also have the ability to "press your buttons" and this is for your
highest good...soooo..if you think that it is all 'wine and roses', you
need to do some more research and reading on what the REAL
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LOVE WITHOUT CONDITION by Sandy Stevenson
I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to
relate to the world. I honor your choices to learn in the way you feel
is right for you.
I know it is important that you are the person you want to be and
not someone that I or others think you 'should' be. I realize that I
cannot know what is best for you, although perhaps sometimes I
think I do. I have not been where you have been, viewing life from
the angle you have. I do not know what you have chosen to learn,
how you have chosen to learn it, with whom or in what time period.
I have not walked life looking through your eyes, so how can I
know what you need.
I allow you to be in the world without a thought or word of
judgment from me about the deeds you undertake. I see no error in
the things you say and do. In this place where I am, I see that there
are many ways to perceive and experience the different facets of our
world. I allow without reservation the choices you make in each
moment. I make no judgment of this, for if I would deny your right
to your evolution, then I would deny that right for myself and all
others.
To those who would choose a way I cannot walk, whilst I may not
choose to add my power and my energy to this way, I will never
deny you the gift of love that God has bestowed within me, for all
creation. As I Love you, so I shall be Loved. As I sow, so shall I
reap.
I allow you the universal right of free will to walk your own path,
creating steps or to sit awhile if that is what is right for you. I will
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make no judgment that these steps are large or small, nor light or
heavy or that they lead up or down, for this is just my viewpoint. I
may see you do nothing and judge it to be unworthy and yet it may
be that you bring great healing as you stand blessed by the Light of
God. I cannot always see the higher picture of Divine Order.
For it is the inalienable right of all life to choose their own
evolution and with great Love I acknowledge your right to
determine your future. In humility I bow to the Realization that the
way I see as best for me does not have to mean it is also right for
you. I know that you are led as I am, following the inner excitement
to know your own path.
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I know that the many races, religions, customs, nationalities and
beliefs within our world, bring us great richness and allow us the
benefit and teachings of such diverseness. I know we each learn in
our own unique way in order to bring that Love and Wisdom back
to the whole. I know that if there were only one way to do
something, there would need only be one person.
I will not only Love you if you behave in a way I think you should
or believe in those things I believe in. I understand you are truly my
brother and my sister, though you may have been born in a different
place and believe in another God than I.
The Love I feel is for all of God's world. I know that every living
thing is a part of God and I feel a Love deep within for every
person, animal, tree and flower, every bird, river and ocean and for
all the creatures in all the world.
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in the perfection of divine truth, becoming happier in the joy of
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Surviving the Breakup of
A Relationship
The breakup of an important love relationship is the most traumatic
of human experiences and we have all suffered through at least one
I am sure.
In many ways we can more easily cope with the death of a loved
one. Although we don't understand death, at least we understand its
finality.
With the breakup of a relationship, days and weeks of lingering and
haunting "ifs" often follow. The pain can penetrate every fiber of
our being.
In the days following the breakup we think of little else than the one
we loved and trusted, the one we had so much invested in.
Everywhere we go we are reminded of them--a face in a crowd, the
flash of a familiar shirt, a distant voice, a song.
In an effort to get away from things we may take a trip, only to find
that in some way it reminds us of a special place we visited with our
loved one. We struggle daily to force them from our thoughts only
to find we are spending all of our time doing so.
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Self-Doubts
And then there are the haunting doubts. If the breakup came after a
long and painful decision on your part, you may constantly "replay"
conversations and constantly re-evaluate the "evidence." Possibly
your decision was too hasty?; possibly the culprit was your pride?;
possibly a really honest and open discussion would have cleared
things up?...and on and on and on you question your decision.
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There are thousands of
"ifs," "possibly's" and
"maybes."
If the other person made the decision to break off the relationship,
in addition to your pain, you are left with a feeling of helplessness.
Possibly they misunderstood something?; maybe they would
change their mind if you could only explain?; possibly they heard
something that was untrue?.
And if you, by chance, did something in a weak moment to cause
the breakup, you may then be left with the extra pain and burden of
remorse and guilt piled on top of the pain of separation.
And then there are your well-meaning friends with their misguided
efforts at trying to cheer you up by saying you are better off without
them.
Dealing With The Hurt
While struggling with the pains of separation you might envy those
"swinging singles" who seem to have an "easy come, easy go"
attitude about relationships. It may come as some consolation to
know that you are fortunate in having the ability to feel both the
love (and pain) of separation.
Psychologists say that despite our vulnerability, and despite the pain
we may regularly suffer when we lose love, we are much better off
than the people who are unable to develop deep and meaningful
relationships.
Without the ability to truly know love they are forced to remain
"outsiders" and "observers" to life's most important human
experience.
Even so, the pain of separation hurts, and it hurts very badly.
Witness the endless parade of heartbreak songs that have been
published, review the writings of poets and novelists over the
centuries or look at the popularity of psychic advice lines. Your
experience has been shared by millions who have preceded you, and
your hurt will be experienced by millions more who will follow.
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If you only knew it, there are thousands all around you right now
who are feeling the pain of separation and the emptiness of lost
love.
Some in anger say, "I will never allow it to happen again." That's
just another way of saying, "I will never love again."
Sure, for a while it may be necessary to withdraw while healing
takes place. But shutting yourself off from the possibility of love
over a long period of time stagnates your life, and it may even
eventually send you into a slow, spiraling descent of general
withdrawal and despair.
It is said that women take the breakup of a relationship harder than
men. Kelly's [name changed] experience is not uncommon.
"I thought everything was fine. We had made plans... talked about
marriage, where we would live, what kind of a house we would
have; everything.
And suddenly his feelings started to cool. He just lost interest.... He
didn't really tell me why other than he just came to the conclusion
that it won't work between us. He was really sorry, he said and
[then]...he made it totally clear that it was over.
Maybe I should have forced him to explain; find out why. But in
my anger and hurt...I figured if he could treat me like that, I really
didn't want anything to do with him anyway--now or ever.
[In the days that passed] I really thought he would call; tell me that
there had been a misunderstanding....
After a week it really hit me. He meant it; he wasn't going to call; it
was really over!
I went into a depression you wouldn't believe. I cried day and night.
I took three days off work--"flu" I called it.
I decided to take a trip. But soon as I got there, I wanted to come
back. I thought maybe he would try to call, and I wouldn't be there.
He didn't call.
Then I started worrying that maybe something was wrong with him;
maybe he had some disease or something, so in a weak moment I
called him and when he answered, he sounded cheerful. I couldn't
say anything, so I just hung up.
Finally...I took down all his pictures and I packed up everything he
had given me--clothes, the little stuffed toys on the bed that I loved
so much, everything--and I packed it all in a big suitcase and put it
in the garage. ...and then I cried all night.
I took long walks; just wandered around aimlessly. After three days
when my "flu" was over, I went back to work.
Everybody said I looked awful and that I should take a few more
days off. But I couldn't stand being by myself any more.
I started doing my work like some sort of robot.... I figured if I
could just survive a couple weeks, maybe until the end of April, the
hurt would start to go away.
It got to be my goal just to get through each day...then the end of
the week...and then the end of the month. I even started "crossing
off" the days out on a calendar, until the end of the month, just like
prisoners are supposed to do.
I jogged for an hour every night so I would be so tired I could go to
sleep."
Kelly said later said that it took her over six months just to be able
to go through a day without feeling the pangs of hurt and bitterness.
Although each of our experiences is different, each shares the
common element of self-doubt, pain, disappointment and despair.
Are there ways to speed the healing; ease the pain?
Ways Of Coping With The
Loss
There is no one best way to cope with the breakup of a relationship.
Each of us is different.
Some people find that it helps to lose themselves in the company of
friends. Some don't want to be around people. Some people find it
helps to get away to an entirely different set of conditions. But this
didn't work for Kelly.
Some immediately try to look for a new love interest. Most who try
this find that until they get over a previous love, a successful new
relationship is impossible.
Nevertheless, there are some important guidelines for coping.
First, don't try to immediately repress the hurt. You may only
succeed in pushing it beneath the surface where it will eventually
make itself manifest in some undesirable, hard-to-uncover form--a
general mistrust of affection, a lowered self-concept, general
hostility, or whatever.
If you feel like crying; cry. If you feel like ripping up a pillow; rip it
up. If it feels good to tear the person's pictures in a thousand pieces
and then set fire to them; do that too. As long as you know that
afterward you can live with whatever you do, fine.
So the first step is to accept your hurt as normal and expected.
Confront it openly and honestly, but in small, manageable doses.
It's perfectly all right to feel totally miserable. You are not "weak."
You don't have to apologize or explain to anyone. In short, accept
your hurt as normal and expected, and allow yourself the
opportunity to openly work through it.
If you feel that the fault or failure in the relationship was yours,
don't be afraid to accept the responsibility. So you made a mistake;
acknowledge your failure and resolve that it's one mistake you
won't make again. Contrary to everything you may be feeling, it's
not the end of the world.
Try to overcome the emotional dependency represented by the
relationship. If possible, plan a full schedule of things that will give
you a personal sense of accomplishment and adequacy. Try to avoid
wallowing in sentimentality, pining over love songs, reading old
love letters, or reminiscing old times.
The Value Of Distractions
Distractions can help you deal with your feelings in tolerable stages.
A distraction may be the company of friends, a long trip (if you
have that luxury), or the launching of major and maybe
physically-demanding, spare-time project (if you can force yourself
into one).
Keep yourself occupied. Physical activities--jogging, swimming,
tennis--are good therapy. And, as in the case of Kelly, they will
probably also help you sleep. As many people know, just "making it
through the night" is often the most difficult part of each passing
day.
You don't need photos or gifts around you that will constantly
remind you of the person. Pack them all up and put them away--far
away. In a year, or maybe two or three years, you might go through
them and keep the things you want and throw out the rest. In five
years you might like to put a few of the photos in your album along
with some other pictures of important people and things in your life.
"And This Too Shall Pass"
Remember, as time passes you will have an entirely different
perspective on things. But for right now avoid the reminders. If it's
obvious that the relationship is (or should be) over, take the "cold
turkey" approach. Don't constantly "replay" or reexamine
conversations or arguments you may have had.
Yes, you will want to evaluate the relationship--to honestly admit
its good points and its bad points, its rewards and its problems. But
unless you know that a major error was made, something that can
and should be fixed, walk away from the relationship and leave it
behind. Make a clean and complete break. Wounds will heal faster
if you don't risk constantly reopening them.
Although you may believe at this point that you will never love
again, try to remember that there is not just one, "right person" in
the world for any of us. In time you can love again. And next time
you will be a wiser person, a person who has benefited by
experience and is now more capable of a successful relationship.
One final word. I said earlier that in surviving the breakup of a
relationship we need to work through feelings of "emotional
dependency." Most of the pain we experience after breaking off a
relationship is centered in that dependency.
In working through the end of a relationship, most people find, or
are forced to find, a new inner strength and adequacy. Although
people are important to our lives and happiness, no one person
should be allowed to be absolutely essential to that happiness.
If you feel that you "can't live without someone," know that such
dependency betrays your own innate worth and sense of adequacy.
By divesting responsibility for our own welfare, we make ourselves
vulnerable and we can be easily manipulated.
Above all, we must assume responsibility for ourselves. A truly
solid relationship can only result from the blending of two truly
solid people.
When a relationship ends very painfully, you may have to face your
need to assert and build your own adequacy as a separate, adequate
human being. Five years from now you may realize that the pain
you went through only marked the beginning of a new sense of
strength and personal adequacy. There is always a reason for
everything and although we can't seem to see it at the time, as we
go forward and analyze our past experience, a glimmer of
recognition as to WHY will slowly form if you heart is open to the
lesson.
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"Please, stay with me tonight, please!" "I'm sorry, but I don't love
you anymore, I can't." Sound familiar? So what's next?
You're sweating, shaking, and feeling as if the world will soon
come to an end. Everything you believed in- love, respect, loyaltyhas all vanished at lightning speed. You told yourself that if you
treated her/him right, she/he'd be with you forever.
Wrong! Nothing really lasts forever. This is a lesson we all learn the
hard way. She/he'll hurt you, and you'll probably hurt someone else.
It's a vicious cycle, one that must be learned, in order to survive the
crazy game of "love".
Let's face it, we have all been through the dreaded breakup. If you
haven't, believe me, at some point in your life, you will. So here is
an eight-stage timeline you may experience that can help you
recuperate after a breakup.
Eight-Stage Timeline
Stage 1 - Time heals everything: It's normal to have low
self-esteem when someone you love leaves you. But remember,
you're still the same person that she/he once fell in love with. The
only difference is that you are no longer together. Believe me, you'll
find someone else in time. As for your broken heart, the old saying
time heals everything cannot be more true.
Stage 2 - You are vulnerable: Anyone can take advantage of you
when you are feeling vulnerable. You must therefore be extra
careful not to look to quick fixes, such as dating old flings.
Stage 3 - Feelings of denial: At this stage, you will probably call
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your ex many times to question whether the relationship is truly
over, or whether there is still a chance that your relationship can be
salvaged.
Stage 4 - Feelings of bitterness: Remember, the relationship is over,
so don't express feelings of sadness and bitterness to your ex. If you
do, you'll be letting her/him know that you are unable to handle her
decision, which makes you look immature. Instead, channel those
feelings into positive energy by improving the skills at the activities
you love and doing things to bring back a sense of balance and joy
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Stage 5 - Take time off: A lot of people try to rebuild their new
broken fragile ego by dating again too soon after a breakup. Stop!
You'll only end up damaging yourself even more, as well as the
person you are dating. If you date someone just to fill a gap, that's
the way you'll end up treating that person. Stay away from people
who'll prey on your fragile emotional state, and take advantage of
your vulnerability. This will only give you a false sense of trust.
Take time off and get involved in things you never had the time to
do before.
Stage 6 - Socialize: Meet a lot of new people. Use this time to
improve relations with old friends, network, and make new friends.
A well-balanced life will lessen the impact of a breakup, because
you will still have the other aspects of your life intact, and
improved.
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Stage 7 - Fall in love: Eventually, as time passes, you will fall in
love again. Make sure to let yourself fall in love, and take the time
to really let your partner in your life. There is nothing better than a
new flame to make you forget an old one (once you have had the
time to heal, of course).
Stage 8 - Don't set yourself up: Don't get carried away with this
new found flame, remember nothing lasts forever and even this new
relationship may not weather the test of time. Don't make this
person the sole focus of your life, because if it doesn't workout,
you'll find yourself right back at Stage 1.
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Each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us.
And it is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people,
relationships and God.
When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always
as they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look
beyond the masks people wear if you want to know their heart. And
remove your own masks to let people know yours.
When someone steals from you, it teaches you that nothing is
forever. Always appreciate what you have, for you never know
when you might lose it. And never ever take your friends and
family for granted because today is the only guarantee you have.
When someone inflicts an injury upon you, it teaches you that the
human state is a fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as
best you can; it's the only thing you are sure to have forever.
When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are
alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, don't
judge them by how they look or act; instead base your opinion on
the contents of their heart.
When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving
someone does not always mean that person will love you back. But
don't turn your back on love because when you find the right
person, the joy that one person brings will make up for all the past
hurts put together -- times ten!!!!
When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that
everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most
virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense.
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Forgiving those who have hurt us is the most difficult and
courageous thing
anyone can do.
When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting
temptation is man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your
resistance against all temptation. By doing so you, will be rewarded
with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary
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When someone cheats on you, it teaches you that greed is the root
of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how
lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about our success, but never
let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in
malevolent activities.
When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect.
Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not
ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no
control.
What about lessons to be learned from Man's good deeds?
When someone loves us, it teaches us that love, kindness, charity,
honesty, humility, forgiveness and acceptance can counteract all the
evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one less evil deed.
Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and
evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the
power is too often abused.
When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or
coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love
or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have
resulted in more loving or hurting? More comfort or pain? More joy
or sadness?
Each one of us has power over the balance of love in the world. Use
it wisely. Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in
the right direction.
Roy Nwaisser
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Every one of us has our own set of problems, fears, insecurities, or
issues. This is a normal part of being human. Unfortunately we
sometimes encounter people in our life that need a little more than
just a shoulder to lean on or an ear to hear them. They need to be
seeking out professional help and therapy.
It scares and saddens me when I do a reading for a client and I hear
things like..."Well I love him. He/she has only cheated on me once,
twice (3-4-5 times, whatever) and he says he is sorry and I know he
wants to change." or "Well he/she gets a little angry at me and
yells and blames me for the relationship problems and I do need to
try harder." or "He/she says that they love me, but they don't call
me or want to see me for weeks on end...what does that mean?" or
"I will do anything to get him/her back!"
My point is there are times when I feel a person really needs to sit
down and evaluate what is going on in the relationship. You need to
stop making excuses for the other person or your own bizarre
behaviors. You yourself may suffer from a personality disorder.
You need to see your partner as they really are, not as you hope
they will evolve to. Personality disorders are a real problem that all
your love and understanding is not going to fix. The partner that
suffers from a personality disorder can truly cause a lot of pain to
the person loving them as well as to themselves. It can cause the
person loving the personality disorder partner to become engulfed
in denial, depression, anxiety and a myriad of other negative states
of being. It is a complicated emotionally devastating cycle once it
begins, sometimes leaving the once healthy partner with borderline
personality disorders of their own!
Ask yourself some of these questions:
● "Am I the one doing all the work?"
● "Are my needs being met? I.e.: trust, security, independence,
personal growth."
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"Am I constantly putting my life on hold waiting for my
partner to get their life together?"
"Am I putting a financial drain on myself because of my
partner?"
"Am I isolating myself from others because they tell me my
partner is not worth waiting for?"
"Am I sad and lethargic all the time and constantly focused
on what my partner is doing or not doing?"
If you can say yes to even one of these questions, I feel there is a
need to put the relationship on hold and do some soul-searching
within yourself. You may not necessarily love a person with a
personality disorder, but you certainly don't love yourself enough!
There is nothing wrong with being loving and giving as long as it is
to someone that can reflect that back to us. That is the nature of true
love.
I do feel people need to educate themselves on the signs and
symptoms of personality disorders and how to cope with the partner
that suffers it and how to keep themselves from becoming caught up
and trapped by the situation. Knowledge can equal freedom and
personal growth if you USE that knowledge to empower yourself.
The other side of this coin is to be careful when reading about the
different personality disorders that exist. In every personality
disorder, there are signs and symptoms that can apply to all of us. It
can be easy to jump to quick conclusions about the person in
question and see their problems as bigger than what they are. I feel
the way to gauge the depth of disorder is again, your own feelings.
If you find yourself feeling uneasy, sad, abandoned by your partner,
abused in any way, please take the time to follow some of these
links to read more on personality disorders
Mental Help Net : This site lists 10 personality disorders, their
symptoms and how to seek more information and help. This site
also has information on alcohol addiction, depression, anxiety
disorders, and much more.
Joy to You and Me : This site is maintained by Robert Burney, the
author of "Co-dependence: Dance of the Wounded Soul". This is
one of the staple books in my list I recommend everyone read. This
man is incredible and profound in his knowledge and ability to
cover the whole topic of co-dependence. I feel co-dependence is
one of the bi-products of personality disorders.
Suicidal.com : I know this sounds like a drastic site and most of you
would never consider such a drastic action, but I feel it doesn't hurt
to understand what people who do become this hopeless experience.
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Over the last few years, as I've grown spiritually, I've discovered
that letting others hurt me, and excusing them, hurt them as well.
My intentions were to make them feel better about themselves. I
was trying to reflect the Divinity within me by loving
unconditionally. When my friends would snap at me, I'd tell myself
they didn't mean it, that they were simply unhappy. Returning anger
and hatred with love and compassion, I let my friends treat me like
dirt because I knew they were wounded. I wanted them to heal, and
thought my loving them unconditionally would initiate the healing.
It never did. It just encouraged them to remain wounded and lashing
out at me.
In co-dependency terms, this is called "enabling." Some time back,
when I was told that it wasn't my role to be their whipping boy, I
countered with "But, we're supposed to turn the other cheek. Give
the shirt off our backs. Love unconditionally. Be nonjudgmental."
As time went on, I finally realized that I wasn't helping them by
letting them hurt me. I was enabling them to remain the same, and
continue treating me with disrespect because they knew they could.
I wasn't creating any urgency for them to heal. And sooner or later,
they were going to get a cosmic two-by-four up side the head to
force them to begin the healing process. The longer they continued
their behavior, the worse their eventual crisis would be. I was
actually contributing to their wounded ness by not setting any
limits. I needed to value myself enough to stop them devaluing me.
As I began to cherish my well being, and counter their humiliations,
my life began to improve overall.
I know I'm not alone in the struggle between loving others
unconditionally and loving myself. Many of the people I meet, and
my clients, struggle with this, too. How can we balance our
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spirituality with insisting someone treat us with honor? With God as
a loving Presence, God/dess accepts all that we do without
judgment. As we try to emulate that aspect of God/dess, we forget
that God/dess doesn't protect us from the consequences of our
actions.
If we step on a rake, we get to experience the rake hitting us in the
face. We learn from that to be careful around rakes. God/dess
doesn't stop the rake from hitting us, but if we ask for help in
healing our bruised face, God/dess is there to heal us. That is why
there is cause and effect. For every action there is an equal and
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The core of this is, God/dess doesn't enable. The Universe is
constantly growing and expanding. Unless we do the same, we get
prodded along. Cosmic two-by-fours whack us. When you allow
people to put you down, humiliate you, belittle you, then you are
contributing to making their inevitable consequences harder for
them. Universal laws will eventually pull them up short, and the
more they've run roughshod over peoples' lives, the harder their
lesson is going to be.
By setting boundaries, you are growing in love. Love of self, and
loving the other person enough to put a stop to their breaking
Universal Laws of compassion. Love them enough to allow them to
experience the consequences of their actions. That's the only way
any of us learn. In that way, you are emulating high spiritual
qualities and reflecting the unconditionally loving Divine Presence
within you. Love yourself FIRST and love of all others will come
naturally and smoothly.
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Give your presence, laugh, dance and sing together.
Listen from a heart space, encourage, understand.
Allow them to love themselves, ask their opinions.
Learn from them, say YES as often as possible.
Say NO when necessary, honor their No's.
Apologize, touch gently, build lots of blanket forts.
Open up, fly kites together.
Lighten up, believe in the possibilities.
Read books out loud, create a circle of quiet.
Teach feelings, share your dreams, walk in the rain.
Celebrate mistakes, admit yours.
Frame their artwork, stay up late together.
Eliminate comparison, delight in silliness.
Handle with Care, protect them, cherish their innocence.
Giggle, speak kindly, go swimming, splash.
Let them help, let them cry, don't hide your tears.
Brag about them, answer their questions.
Let them go when it is time.
Let them come back.
Show compassion, bend to speak to the wee ones
Smile, even when your tired, surprise them.
Don't judge their friends out loud,
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Give them room to make decisions, even the little ones.
Love all that they do.
Honor their Differences,
Respect them.
Remember ...they have not been on this earth all that long.
Remember ... They learn what they see and hear.
Remember their love is...UNCONDITIONAL.
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We cannot change the way we were
Or the things already done
The paths we walked
The way we talked
Or decisions that we made
As time goes by we have the choice
To let some memories fade
No need to carry our mistakes
Or try to make amends
We have the gift within us
To be rid of our dead weight
We have the chance with each new day
When we awake with daylight
To leave those ways and start afresh
To make our inner selves feel worthy
For if we don't
We take the chance of living in the past
But if we commit to make a change
We'll leave this all behind
The better things will come to us
And our days will all be finer
So when you wake
Make no mistake
For when you make this choice
Life will improve one thousand fold
And you will find all your joy
Your dreams and hopes will come to life
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And your happiness you will find
For when you go to sleep each night
Your heart will feel so much
You'll open up your own minds eye
And you'll hold your loved ones dearer
So change the now the future
And the light will soon be clearer
Written by Brad McNamara ©
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Your Higher Self
The Higher Self is that part of you that connects you directly to the
spiritual realms. It is eternal, infinitely wise and transcends our
everyday consciousness. It is in touch with the Divine because it is
part of it. Attaining knowledge of the Higher Self and its depths of
inner wisdom, is the goal of the spiritual question in all its many
forms.
Each of us is connected with the 'Divine' however we believe that
power to be. The Higher Self within us far transcends the
understanding of our conscious minds. This is the power that all the
great geniuses and teachers throughout history have accessed. It is
also the place of magic and miracle in our lives. Here are the steps
to contact it:
1. Belief & Expectation
The first step is to BELIEVE that you have a Higher Self to
establish communication with! Then EXPECT every day that this
communication will improve as you focus diligently on inner
growth and understanding. Without these two essential
prerequisites, it is hard to achieve anything at all in life, even on the
physical level. For inner growth, these two qualities are necessary.
So set a GOAL to achieve contact with the Higher Self, review that
goal daily, and maintain your purpose with determination until
success is yours.
2. Transform Your View of the World
We are brought up with a primarily materialistic world view that
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neglects the role of Spirit. To establish close contact with spiritual
realms, we need to have our entire being - conscious and
subconscious - congruent with our goal. In any major activity/goal
you have to establish the rules of the game and the way it is played.
Contacting your Higher Self is the same. So you need to start
seeking out writings and teachers that expand your understanding of
the universe and how it works in relation to your actions and
thoughts.
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3. Solitude
Make regular time for yourself where you can be totally alone. A
quiet place is preferable. Just sit quietly with no expectations. Do
NOTHING. This may feel very uncomfortable and strange in the
beginning. Persist and practice! You need to give time and space for
the inner voice to make itself heard. It will likely do so during that
quiet time or else during the events of the day for instance: A
synchronistic event will occur or someone will tell you exactly what
you need to hear or you will get a sudden flash of intense insight.
All great geniuses of history have found times of regular solitude
and silence for themselves and most self-help/motivational
speakers/books will tell you this is so very important.
4. Meditation
In meditation, you work to discipline your mind and silence the
internal chatter that constantly fill it. You create a pure vessel for
the Higher Self to fill. Following your breath is an excellent
meditation discipline, as is concentrating upon a candle flame. Or
visualize a golden ball of light in your Solar Plexus that fills your
whole body with energy and healing. There are many practices that
you can study and use. Please read more under my articles about
meditation and auras.
5. Journal
Record your feelings, emotions, dreams and insights every day in a
journal. This will help you to come into closer contact with your
inner intuitive depths. You can ask the Higher Self questions here,
and then later on record whatever insights/answers you receive. If
you do this regularly with belief and expectation, you WILL receive
the answers you need.
6. Inner Dialogue
Conduct a regular inner dialogue with your Higher Self. For the
next month try this: decide to keep in contact throughout the day
with your Higher self. Say to your Higher Self, "I know you are
there and I want to get to know you and pay attention to you. Please
begin to speak to me and guide my life" Don't worry if this dialogue
is entirely one-way to begin with. Remember that you have been
out of touch for most of your life. It takes a while to clear the cob
webs! Persist with this inner dialogue as if talking to a friend chatting, asking questions, sharing your hopes - and begin to listen
for answers. They will come.
7. Life Lessons
Look upon life as a Mystery School. Believe that the whole of your
life - events, situations and people - has been structured
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right now. Approach life as if the whole of creation is conspiring to
do you good! Whenever something happens in your life, for better
or worse, ask yourself what the lesson is for you. Even unpleasant
people/situations have been deliberately placed there as a challenge
to help you grow. As you begin to view life as a drama in which
you play the starring role, the role of the Higher Self will become
increasingly evident in your life. Record your findings in your
journal.
8. Dreams
Expect your Higher Self to speak to you in dreams. Before going to
sleep, do some stretching and bending to relax your body
completely. Take some crystals that enhance dreaming to bed with
you. Ask your Higher Self a question and expect an answer. When
you wake up, recall whatever you can of your dream and write it
down in your journal. If you are not used to remembering dreams,
this will take time and persistence. However with patience, you will
begin to recall your dreams AND receive answers from your Higher
Self.
9. Mindfulness
Focus upon living more and more in the present, on the NOW.
When you are eating, be aware that you are eating. When you walk,
know that you are walking. The only real moment is now - the past
is gone forever and the future has yet to be. Therefore, work to clear
your mind of concerns, illusions and extrapolations. Clear the
mental clutter from the mind and create space for the Higher Self to
fill. [this is one I still personally have trouble with...always thinking
about something else rather than the task at hand.]
10. Patience!
Yep, that lovely, wonderful, special word! Remember, you may
have been spending your entire life out of touch with Source. So
doesn't it make logical sense that it may take time to learn how to
re-establish contact. Anything worth doing takes time and practice
and work! Be vigilant and practice these steps every day and you
will receive the answers you need. Remember: Your Higher Self
WANTS to be in contact. In fact, to even speak of it as someone
apart from you is contradictory. The Higher Self IS you! The real
you. So get in touch with YOU!
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How much does fear control YOUR life?
Fear can be a very debilitating treacherous emotion. There is a
healthy level of fear that we all need for basic survival but some
people literally let fear rule their lives. This can take a person to the
'depths of hell' so to speak and keep you chained to a life that is full
of guilt and regrets.
Last week I had a conversation with a friend. They worked for a
secure company and depended on a regular salary on a bi-weekly
basis. The client commented on how "lucky" I was to own and
operate my own business and be doing what I loved and wished he
could do the same.
I replied, "Why don't you do it?" The reply was, "I have kids and a
family and we live from paycheck to paycheck. I couldn't possibly
break-away not knowing where our next meal was coming from!
It's too scary!"
I explained to him how easy it was to start his own business while
still holding down his present job. Then, when the business was
bringing in more income than his job, he could quit. You would
think this would have calmed his fear. Unfortunately, he replied,
"But where do I find the time? What if it doesn't work? I simply
don't have any extra money to lose!"
Immediately I determined that FEAR haunted this person's life. He
had been stuck in the 9-5 existence for so long and depended on
such a normal routine for so long that he was absorbed in it. Unless
he wanted to at least TRY, our conversation was worthless to
continue.
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The easiest way to combat fear is by NOT using excuses. Instead,
you need to look for POSITIVE approaches to accomplish your
goal. If you want to start a business, attend a meeting at the Better
Business Bureau. Read some national magazines like "Income
Opportunities" or "Spare Time." Start reading the business section
of your newspaper. Gather some ideas and do a little reading before
actually jumping into a business. Surely you can find some spare
time to read. Purchase some self-help, motivation programs.
Anthony Robbins is a leader in the world of personal coaching and
motivation. GET ONE of his programs or attend one of his
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Also, begin associating yourself with people who are in their own
business already. (An alcoholic never stopped drinking by hanging
around his or her drinking buddies. They made a change by
associating with people who DON'T drink.) Afraid to go out and
make new friends? Attend a local business-related seminar in your
community. Start watching television shows that are related to
business. You'll eventually find people to associate with who know
others and you'll be the part of a new crowd -- the motivating ones!
FEAR is always your enemy. Look at it this way: If you never try,
FEAR wins by 100%. However, if you do try, FEAR only has a
chance of winning by 50%. If you needed a place to live and only
had $10 to your name would you allow FEAR to win and make you
homeless? No, most of us would find a job or borrow the money to
have a roof over our heads! FEAR is the root of failure, depression
and lifelong problems. Are you going to let FEAR ruin your life?
FEAR also will cause you to lose out on many other things in life.
If you FEAR the boss at work is going to fire you -- it will naturally
be on your mind day in and day out. It will eventually wear you
down and you will begin making mistakes on the job. You will also
get depressed and build up resentments that may have never been
there in the first place. This holds true in all areas of your life. If
you are afraid of your spouse or partner leaving you chances are
you will make it happen with your constant insecurities and low
self-esteem.
Facing FEAR head on is the best way to combat it. If you think the
boss is going to fire you -- go up and ask him. It takes guts, but isn't
it better than putting yourself through many months of agonizing
torture? Are you full of so much FEAR to even ask him because
you think it will trigger him to say "yes" when he might not have
been considering it at all? Believe me -- asking a boss "if" they are
thinking about firing you will put you in no different position than
you are now. In fact -- it will have the opposite effect. The boss will
more than likely respect you for your candidness and ability to face
FEAR head-on.
Is FEAR holding you back from a lot of things? Are you afraid to
confront people and tell them how you really feel? Do you smile in
their face and talk about them behind their back? What's so hard
about being truthful but using tact? Doesn't it get rid of FEAR and
solve many problems?
Complaining is also an act that emotionally drains you and goes
hand-in-hand with FEAR. In fact, FEAR is normally the root of any
complaint. People don't want to admit their FEAR so they will
complain to release some tension. This is a crazy merry-go-round!
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Instead of complaining, try to find ways to solve the problem.
Finding excuses or reasons WHY you can't do something is always
so much easier than finding reasons why you CAN.
A aunt of mine used to drive me crazy complaining about my uncle
slurping his food. She never told him about it because she had a
FEAR he would be embarrassed. But when I told her I was going to
tell him for her if she didn't confront the issue head-on, it scared her
into talking to him. She was kind but stern about her complaint. She
didn't instigate an argument but honestly told him it was bothering
her. He immediately made a change and they lived happily ever
after! (silly example and of course they had other problems but you
get the picture.)
How long are you going to let FEAR control your life?
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To laugh is to risk appearing a fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out for another is to risk vulnerability.
To expose your feelings is to risk rejection.
To place your dreams before the crowd is to risk ridicule.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing.
The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he cannot learn, feel,
change, grow or love.
Chained by his certitudes, he is a slave.
He has forfeited his freedom.
Only the person who takes risks is free.
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Yourself?
by Kim Nerburn
Most of us have some corner where we cannot forgive ourselves.
Sometimes it is obvious: the mother who leaves her child
unattended for a moment and the child wanders into the street and
suffers a terrible death; the son who refuses to speak to his parents
for years and realizes his errors only after they are gone. But
sometimes it is more subtle, and well hidden with explanations and
rationalizations: The abortion was necessary because we had neither
the financial nor the emotional resources to bring another child into
the world. The divorce was the only way to free two hearts from a
destructive downward spiral. The harsh words we said to our
children were for their own good. The time we spent at our job
rather than with our family was necessary to provide them with the
quality of life they deserved.
Perhaps our decisions were right, or necessary, or inevitable.
Perhaps they were capricious and unwarranted. But we made them,
and they are now and forever part of our lives. Still, our hearts ache
for the choices made or denied, and we bury that ache beneath a
blanket of guilt or high-minded justifications.
We need to find the hidden corners of our lives where we have not
forgiven ourselves -- for who we are, for who we are not. And it is
not always easy. Sometimes we have to dig through tragic
emotional wreckage. Sometimes we have to rip open scars we think
have long been healed. Sometimes we have to tear down beautifully
crafted psychological edifices. But to live with a pure heart and
open spirit, we must have the courage to face these challenges.
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Human beings are strange and miraculous creations. From our first
moment on earth we are hurtling toward uniqueness and
individuation. We revel in that uniqueness and find our identity in
that individuation. But this sense of our own uniqueness and
singularity comes at a price. For, with every door of understanding
that is opened by the circumstances or choices of our lives, a wealth
of others are closed. The child surrounded by joy does not learn the
same world as the child surrounded with sadness. The child filled
with fear does not discover the same world as the child filled with
curiosity. I didn't know the same world as a child whose father went
out every day to officiate at weddings, or the same world as the
child with no father present at all. Every nuance of character and
circumstance shuts out possibility even as it reveals the world in
growing clarity and fullness. We become who we are at the expense
of who we are not.
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Emotionally healthy people accept this individuation with a sense of
humility. They know that we are children of chance, and that we
must develop our lives and give thanks for the miracle of life as it
has been handed to us. They celebrate their uniqueness -- with all its
possibilities and limitations -- build upon it, and use it as a way to
contribute to the rich tapestry of humanity.
Emotionally unhealthy people, on the other hand, do not so readily
give thanks for the shape life takes. They turn against themselves,
refusing to embrace who they are, and go through life with the
sense that their world is not enough. They are not rich enough, they
are not smart enough, they are not pretty enough; they haven't
gotten the right chances, the breaks have all gone someone else's
way. Quick to see any deficiency in their own situation, they are
slow to celebrate the gifts life has given them. The miracle of their
uniqueness becomes instead the prison of their limitations. They
define themselves by what they are not.
Most of us, however, lie somewhere in between. We're reasonably
happy with our lives, but look with longing at the road not taken.
We retain a lifelong ambivalence about who we are, and never fully
grasp the potential that our unique life experiences offer us. We see
the smallness of our lives, not the greatness of our gifts, and feel
deficient in relation to those we hold as models of success and
accomplishment.
We must learn to resist this. Until we can embrace our lives
wholeheartedly, aware of our limitations and committed to making
the most of our unique circumstances and gifts, we have not fully
accepted ourselves for the people we are, or fully forgiven ourselves
for the people we are not.
I will never be Nelson Mandela, or Gandhi, or even the gentle,
soft-spoken man down the street (mainly because I am a
woman..*smiles*). I will never be as hardworking as my father. I
will never be a mountain climber or a buddha or someone who
bikes across the United States. I will never be a saint.
But I will always be a good listener, a faithful friend, a person
whose word can be trusted. I will always stand by the weak and
protect the innocent. But I will also be a person filled with righteous
indignation at the injustices in the universe, a person prone to deep
solitudes and possessed of a dark cast of spirit and perhaps overly
aware that tragedy can strike in the middle of the night.
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In short, I will be a person like everybody else -- a unique and
fallible human being, possessed of conflicting and sometimes
contradictory characteristics, whose life is full of moments of
brightness and moments of dark impenetrable shadow; a person at
once more than I had hoped but less than I had dreamed.
I must learn to accept this person and to embrace her. I must learn
to look at the unique constellation of skills and attributes I have, the
strange character twists and quirks I've developed, the quality of my
own passions and the subtlety of my own deceptions. I must learn to
acknowledge my fears, respect my own dreams, and measure them
only against the simple standard of how they help make this a better
world for the people around me and the generations that come after
me.
If I am able to do this, I will not try to be what I am not, but I will
try to make the most of what I am. And, in doing this, I will forgive
myself for all the possibilities that didn't take flower in me, and will
honor them whenever I see them present in others.
This is the first and most necessary step upon the path of
forgiveness. If I am not accepting of myself, all that is good in
others will either be a mirror of my own deficiencies, or a cause of
envy, or a way of life against which I must protect myself with
cynicism or contempt.
Life cannot be lived this way. It is too short, too precious, too
important. There are children out there who need my help; there is a
son that relies on me for love. There are people I meet on the street
and in chance encounters whose lives can be either better or worse
for the moment's contact we share.
I must measure myself in these moments, not in some abstract
valuation of my own spiritual accomplishments or against the
accomplishments of others. I am who I am, and I must honor the
vision of life I have been given. If that vision shuts out other people,
I must work to change it. If it allows me to give and to open myself
to others, I must foster it.
We are thrown together with a group of strangers who share our
passage through time, and, together, we leave as a generation and
become, both literally and figuratively, the soil on which future
generations walk.
It is our responsibility, both singly and together, to prepare this
earth for those who follow. The moments we confront in our lives
will never be confronted by anyone else. The encounters we have
are unique in this universe. All that we can do is meet the moments
we have been granted with a humble and caring heart, and share the
gifts we have been given with those whose lives brush against ours.
In this way -- in this active claiming of our own fallible self, and
shaping it for a life of service -- we open our hearts to the
possibility of forgiveness. Rather than railing against our
deficiencies, or constructing justifications for them, we see them as
part of our unique life and circumstances, and look for the moment
when the unique person we are is needed, and offer ourselves in
service, humbly, and like a prayer.
It is no crime to be less than our dreams, or to stumble and fall on
life's path. The crime is in refusing to get up and move toward the
light, or in being unwilling to embrace those around us who have
fallen in their own way.
We will never be as good or worthy as we wish to be. We will be
human -- too human -- and we will fall short of our hopes for
ourselves over and over again. If we can forgive ourselves for our
failures -- not seven times, but seventy times seven -- we can
forgive others for their failures. We know that we are all humans,
struggling by the lights we have toward our vision of good.
As I sit here now, I think of the life that might have been, and the
man I longed to be. I see the hollow reed of pure spiritual
consciousness, the instrument of God's peace, that I dreamed of
being when I was a child. And I know that it was good.
But then I think of my family, with each of us struggling to find
form, struggling to dream, struggling to make sense of the world
around us, but always finding in our common love a solid rock on
which to build our lives, and it, too, is good. That I have been given
such a gift is humbling beyond words. A life of solitary spiritual
rigor would have been different, but it would have been no more
worthy.
I could not have dreamed this life, could not have invented it from
the whole cloth of my imagination. It is a miracle in its uniqueness,
a treasure of unexpected grace. Though I am not what I thought I
should be, I am more than I might ever have hoped. As I survey the
landscape of my life, I am overcome with a sense of wonder.
Somewhere, another person, much like me, may be living a life of
pure spiritual consciousness, unencumbered with fragmentary
personal emotions, able to enter the lives and hearts of those he
meets because his own heart is empty of concern with self. But I am
not that person. I walk the streets, full of loves and fears and angers
and dreams, tethered to family and worldly cares. Yet I know, in my
heart, that whenever there is a call in the night, I will rise from my
sleep and offer such nourishment and consolation as I am able. It is
the least I can do as thanks for the miraculous gift of life that has
been given to me.
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Picture the artichoke, whose tender heart is surrounded by the
protection the universe gives it in the form of hard, prickly leaves.
Picture your heart, the place where that same universe, call it
Eternity, or God, same thing, speaks to us. Picture your heart
surrounded by the layers of hard, prickly protection that we have all
created for ourselves to protect our heart from the universe. We
have done so, at times consciously but often as not without being
aware we are doing so, to shield ourselves from hurt. Most of that
layering has come simply out of fear. That fear has been both fear
that we can recognize and fear of which we are mostly unaware. It
is the fear from childhood experiences playing itself out in our adult
lives. The fear is often called "reality."
The fear comes because we have superimposed our ego upon the
universe. I use the term "ego" to define that layer of consciousness
that exists between our hearts and our connection to that universe. It
is our left-brain version of the universe: logical, rational, "real."
Call ego "control" if that makes it easier.
By ego, I do not mean the high blown version of ourselves we
project out into the world, sometimes referred to as being
egotistical. That version of ego is really a projection of fear
disguised as bravado and confidence. Those who are egotistical are
not operating out of their hearts. The egotistical person does not
trust his or her heart. The egotistical person needs to be in control;
trusting in the heart is the opposite of being in control.
No that is not what I mean by ego and yet it is related to my version
of ego. Ego is that which separates our hearts from Eternity, from
the universe, from God. It is our inner voice, what I have referred to
as "the watcher," the constant noise inside our heads that, out of
fear, keeps us from simply being, from trusting enough to let go of
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that fear, to turn off that voice, to stop watching ourselves.
"It is this watcher, this censor, which creates the sense that we need
to control things, for we feel that if we were just to 'be,' to co-exist
with the universe, we could not trust ourselves; things would not
come out the way we want them to." (The Tao of Love, p.49.)
Ego is the veil through which we see the universe. It is the voice of
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At times, many times, our ego is clearly necessary so that we are
able to become fully functioning, intelligent creatures, able to deal
with the "real" world. But the very same qualities that the ego
provides to us also inhibit us and make us fear. Those qualities tell
us that we are separate from the universe, from God, and the act of
being separate creates the fear of loss. And the fear of loss tells us
that we must attempt to control the universe and all things and
people in it lest we lose. The ego tells us that if we do not control
things, we must live in fear of losing them. The ego separates us
from trusting in the universe. It creates a duality between our hearts
and everything else.
In the process of so protecting ourselves, we have prevented
ourselves from connecting to the universe. It is our failure to see
ourselves as part of the entirety of everything that creates the fear in
the first place. So the sum of our actions, both conscious as well as
unconscious, has been to create the very fear we fear. We are in
truth the very thing we fear. Would we be able to find ourselves
connected to our own Eternity, we would understand that there is
nothing to fear for all things that are so connected find their own
places of harmony and balance. But it is the duality we have
created, the separation of ourselves from our Eternity that creates
the fear.
And so, in order that we may connect with ourselves, our Eternity,
God, and feel safe and whole, we must lose our ego. We must cease
seeing the "real" world only through the lens of this ego and begin
to see it with our hearts. Reality is not a single concept, something
that is uniform throughout human experience. Each of us can create
our own version of reality and, if what we create is true for us, then
it is real.
By getting rid of ego and beginning to see reality through our hearts
and not our heads, we can open ourselves up to realms of possibility
that we never before could have imagined. We can become, in a
very real sense, unlimited and boundless. We can find new powers,
new creativity, new opportunities for growth, for love, for harmony,
peace and joy in our lives that before our ego death we could not
begin to conceive.
But we must first recognize that we are operating out of ego before
we can allow it to die.
Recognizing that we are operating out of ego seems a simple
matter. All we need do is to examine our conduct, acknowledge that
we are acting out of fear, and then stop for a moment to realize that
our hearts are playing little part in our behavior. Simple, isn't it?
Sure it is. But the same simplicity simultaneously makes it all the
more difficult to recognize our ego and how it operates to make our
lives complex.
We have never been taught that what is simple is what is right. The
universe operates simply. Balance and harmony in the natural
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world, in the animal world, in any world in which ego, call it the
mind, is not operating, is simple. It seems the goal of spiritual
beliefs to return us to our connection to that universe, to our
Eternity so that we, too, can live simply, in balance and harmony
with all that is. If indeed this is the goal, the purpose of that goal,
the purpose of letting go of ego, is to also let go of the constant fear
in which we all live.
But few of us have had much teaching, from parents, from
"society," that told us that what is simple is what rings true inside
our hearts. No one ever told us that we could live trusting our
hearts. No one ever told us that we could be God or that we are how
God operates. Everything we have ever seen, heard, learned, was
about seeing ourselves as separated from the rest of the world. If we
are separated from anything then, by definition, we must live in fear
of that because it is not part of us; it is out there, somewhere. If
something that is important to us is out there, then we can lose it
and if we can lose it, we must constantly be in fear that we can lose
it and as a consequence, attempt to control it so that we do not.
Loss. Control. Ego. The triumvirate.
All that we have learned has told us to ignore our hearts and follow
our minds. We have been taught that lesson because it is consistent
with fear. It is consistent with fear because it presumes that our
minds can figure anything out. Equate the mind with control and
you can see that fear is the frame of reference in which the mind
operates. And fear is the same as ego because fear comes from the
separation between our hearts and the rest of Eternity and that is the
same definition as ego.
In truth of course, learning to let go of ego, learning to let it die, is a
hard lesson to learn. But despite its difficulty, it appears to be the
only lesson if it is your goal to achieve peace. Or enlightenment. Or
joy. Or love. It is not the only lesson if it is your goal to accumulate
furs, large cars and outer world goods. It is not the only lesson if
your goal is to preserve a relationship. In short, it is not the only
goal if your goal is anything outside of yourself. It is the only lesson
if your goal is to reach that place where you can truly say: "I don't
want to be better than you; I want to be better than me."
And so not only is letting the ego die a hard process, it is also a
scary process. Hard and scary. Who wants that aggravation?! But
losing the ego is also a wonderful process. Painful but wonderful.
Losing ego can bring us closer to our hearts. It can enable us to feel
more than we have ever felt. It can enable us to see ourselves in a
totally different way and in doing so, find new dimensions to
ourselves.
The death of ego may give us the sense that we are living closer to
our souls. If the inner voice, the ego, is shut off and we are, as a
result, able to hear our hearts speaking to us, that is at the very least
a beginning. As long as that inner voice, that ego is loud enough to
block the more subtle whispers of our heart, we cannot even begin
to act upon our heart because we cannot even hear it.
Shedding ego is a fearful experience until we begin to feel all these
benefits. We were taught not to feel but to think. Now we must
learn to feel and not think. There is a great deal of unlearning that
must take place and it is, quite frankly, a painful process.
But it seems to me that the very height of the mountains and
conquering them is what our lives are all about. Along the way, we
can find love, and joy, and happiness, not simply in some perhaps
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mythical hereafter but now, today. The rewards are present rewards.
To put it another way, if I am permitted to mix a metaphor and
return to the original idea of the artichoke, if, in the process of
shedding our egos we can dip it into enough melted butter, it is well
worth it all of the effort it takes to get to the heart.
The death of ego is a spiritual idea; one, however, that takes the
form of real world experiences. God, as I have said, is us and we are
God's operatives. These experiences that God gives us are important
not so much for what they are but more for what they teach. And
one version of what they teach is that they are there to allow us to
shed our ego and connect with God. And one reason we need to
connect with God is to allow us to let go of fear. And one reason we
need to let go of fear is that it is fear that separates us from each
other and in so doing, keeps us from finding love.
© 1994 Ivan Hoffman
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Only when you have looked into your past can you ever truly walk
away freely from it and consciously be in the present.
Only when you know that you are here in the present can you begin
to read the directions that lead to the future.
Only when the past and present merge harmoniously and become
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Only when you understand "why?" can you begin to truly forgive.
Only when you truly face and see and feel your buried fears will
they dissipate.
Only when you acknowledge your own feelings can you begin to
understand the feelings of others.
Only when you surrender yourself to your emotions can you ever
learn true self-control.
Only when you accept that you have your own faults can you accept
the faults of others without criticism or judgment.
Only when you look at your own faults can you begin to strive for
perfection.
Only when you see both sides will you see and reach balance .
Only when you are truly without criticism or judgment of the faults
of others can you begin to forgive them.
Only when you have tasted and realized your own fears can you
truly comfort others.
Only when you acknowledge yourself as an individual can you
respect that everyone is individual but we are still the same.
Only when you truly know yourself can you truly begin to know
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Only when you accept that you are not always right, will you ever
begin to listen and not merely dismiss.
Only when you want to listen shall you truly begin to want to
question.
Only when you look within and ask yourself for the answers can
you truly begin to see the path ahead.
Only when you truly know yourself can you know what you want.
Only when you know what you want can you know what you can
accept.
Only when you are honest with yourself can you begin to trust
yourself.
Only when you trust yourself will you truly begin to believe in
yourself.
Only when you believe in yourself will you start to build your sense
of self-worth.
Only when you can bear to be alone with yourself for life can you
begin to be your true self with others.
Only when you truly trust your own judgment, can you patiently
listen to others then confidently dismiss their judgments.
Only when you have self-worth can you begin to truly believe in
others.
Only when you trust yourself can you be truly honest with others.
Only when you are truly honest with others can you completely
trust them.
Only when you trust yourself can you truly trust others.
Only when you trust others can you truly let them come close to
you.
Only when you learn to take true responsibility for yourself can you
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Only when you know the answer can you truly understand why the
question was asked.
Only when you begin to simultaneously listen to your mind and
your body, can you begin to integrate your true spirit.
Only when you integrate your spirit can you begin to hear it's true
calling.
Only when your mind body and spirit truly merge can you be totally
free.
Truly.....only when you begin to see, will the meaning of your life
become your own true reality.
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Ok there is a short version to this and a long version...the short
version is I want to recommend the latest book I have been deeply
affected by. The book is called "The Dark Side of the Light
Chasers: Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance and
Dreams by Debbie Ford. It has literally opened my eyes and life in
a HUGE way and I believe it could do the same for many people!
Buy it, read it, see if it helps you as much as it has me....oh and for
any of you reading this that are my clients or friends and have read
it already?...WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME ABOUT IT???!!!
For those of you that are braver and up for some possible boredom
at your computer, read on...
I want to share some recent personal realizations that may help
people to view relationships they are experiencing in their lives in
a new light. This has nothing to do with getting readings or
psychics or soul mates or any of that...read on only if you are
interested in seeing more of my humanness...and possibly gaining
something from my experiences good and bad...you see, although I
may be a 'gifted psychic' I am not special. I have not been granted
some kind of immunity from daily problems...I am not better than
or less than, I just am. You show me any 'gifted' person on a path
to awareness who says any different and I will show you just one
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to find answers...and realizing just how HUMAN I am every day...
I understand the concept that all the people we surround ourselves
with are 'mirrors' to reflect back aspects of ourselves...both positive
and negative. I am sure many of you reading this have heard of this
and think you understand. I believed this and even thought I had
some deeper understanding of it as well. I always believed in the
concept that we are all 'connected', all one on some deeper level of
being. I have also always believed that I should not judge people
because I have been judged all my life by others and it really
damaged me for a lot of years. I even thought I had a strong belief
and understanding in the concept that I should not judge myself.
But here is the real kicker. I have compartmentalized all those
concepts and beliefs never being able to fully make them all fit and
come together in the same place within myself. I have understood
how the positive and good people mirror me, but what about the
ones that still cause me negative emotions even AFTER all the
work and understanding I feel I have put into myself? There was
something 'missing'. It has only been in the past month or so that
the whole picture finally became so clear...
I have been questioning the fact that over the past two years or so I
have distanced myself from a lot of people that I used to consider
friends on one level or another. I found that instead of these
friendships adding to my life, I started to feel drained and more
'alone' in the world then ever. I have also questioned the men I
have continually attracted in my love relationships. I came to a
very startling conclusion! All had some of the same core 'flaws'
that eventually would cause me some kind of pain and leave me
feeling let down, confused, empty, alone. I found I could use the
same descriptive words to sum up most of these people in my life.
Some have been easy to let go, others very difficult. Being who I
am, the first feelings I would have were of guilt and
self-recrimination. How Spiritual a person am I if I can't find the
value in everyone that enters my life??
If I believe that there is a reason for everyone being in my life and
a lesson to it, then what is the lesson from people that continually
show me negative behavior and leave me hurt and energetically
drained...feeling less than whole? IF I was not to take it personally,
then why does it still FEEL personal in spite of my logic and
knowledge? Why does one set of words, circumstances, or
opinions hurt, while others I can just shrug off? Why does it bother
me when someone says I have a temper, but doesn't bother me if
someone calls me a liar? Why do I miss some people when they
are gone a day and others not at all? What is it about words,
opinions, certain people that can cause such strong reactions in me
and not all people? In some people, I could see clearly and easily
their purpose in my life...others I was totally blind. If I was blind,
then automatically I assumed it must be ME that needs to try
harder, work harder, change myself to be better because I keep
'attracting' these people. Well I was right...sort of...
Trying to understand myself as well as others has been life-long
and sometimes a very painful process, but it all finally fell in to
place more completely this past week. Another one of those
'defining moments' as Dr. Phil calls them. You see, I have always
found it easy to see the good in everyone, but what about those
'flaws'?...and if these flaws are their problem, why does it cause
ME pain?...why do I take it so personal when it is not
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personal?...why did I feel a need to help these people 'fix'
themselves?...why did I feel like I had to work all the harder to
keep them in my life?...why did I feel that by being a friend to
them, or by loving them, that I would feel better about myself?...it
has to be somehow related to some aspect of ME...so many
questions...so many elusive answers...until now.
Synchronicity and the Universal flow is another very extraordinary
thing and NEVER ceases to amaze me when I can see it all come
together...I like to say "God and the Powers that Be work in some
very mysterious ways!!" ...I recently ordered some books and was
'mistakenly' sent one that was not what I had wanted. Mistake my
@&&!! It is called "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers:
Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance and Dreams by
Debbie Ford, as mentioned above. For me, it has been one of those
'life-altering', mind-blowing', 'why didn't someone write this years
ago' book!!!...The concept of mirroring is not new, but the way this
author explains it is!
Along about the same time as I received this book last week, I had
two people completely shatter my faith in my own discernment in
choosing the 'right' people in my life as friends. I thought to
myself..."here I go again!" These people showed me sides of
themselves that left me disgusted and angry and hurt, asking all the
same 'why' questions all over...but this time I got some real
answers! One showed me his greedy, self-serving, judgmental self,
the other showed me her insecure, obsessive, spiteful self. Now
those may sound like harsh words and reflect the fact that I am
being very critical and judgmental of them...well surprise!!!... I
WAS!...and therein lay all of my answers and realization! These
were only two people in a long line of many MIRRORS that have
been trying to teach me a lesson about myself that I just now
FINALLY get!!! Forty years is a long time to spend on one
lesson... one single lesson that has continuously caused me so
much pain. I believe that it may cause the same pain for ALL of
us...and I hope that by writing about this I may help even just one
other person 'get it'!!!
Debbie Ford's book explains how people reflect back to us ALL
aspects of ourselves. When we admire someone and value them we
are actually admiring and validating the qualities and traits in them
that we love and accept within ourselves and want to exhibit to the
world. Those are all the wonderful people in our life that make it
all easy and worthwhile...ok I got that, but what about the others?
What about the people that upset, anger or sicken us by behaving
in ways that we deem 'bad' or 'wrong'? These behaviors are
actually the traits we have denied and buried deep within
ourselves!! What a concept!! What a surprise!!...NOT!! I have had
a logical grasp of this for years, but no true understanding. I
labeled these friends that hurt me as greedy, judgmental, insecure,
spiteful, whatever...well shock of shocks...as I practiced the
concept in the book of 'owning' the fact that some part of ME has
been all those things in the past. I came up with MANY instances
and memories where I had been greedy, judgmental insecure,
spiteful...and a whole lot of other less than nice things besides!!!
Rather than accept and have love and compassion for those parts of
me, I have shunned and closed it off all these years as 'that is not
me anymore!'...
I have deliberately denied myself and fooled myself into thinking
that those parts of me are dead, separate and don't belong to the me
now...that was the 'BAD me'. Sure I paid lip service to the idea that
I had forgiven myself and that I was a better person, worked years
to REMOVE these things in me...but did I really feel it? Well it's
pretty obvious to me now...absolutely not! Then I came to the next
realization. I still have the capacity to be all those things!!...OH
NO...BAD ANNA...bad human!!! ...but now I realize...are you
ready for this??...it's OK for me to be the whole
HUMAN!....WOW!...In the past, it has been ok for everyone else
to be human and even for me to be mostly human, but not ALL of
ME. By continuously and habitually denying these aspects of
myself that I disliked the most, I can see where I will draw people
to me that are all the things I deem 'bad' because I need to learn to
love ALL of myself....light bulb moment folks!!
The only way we can see our physical bodies is to look in the
mirror...so it makes logical sense that the only way we can see our
emotional and Spiritual selves is to look into the mirrors of our
relationships around us...the missing link for me all these years is
the mirroring concept that I need to EMBRACE rather then deny
and separate the 'shadow side', the ugly parts!!! I need to be
consciously aware and make peace with those aspects of myself
every day! I realize now that it is those aspects of myself are what
make me appreciate and LOVE the good things about me. How
would I have ever learned to be giving if I had not been greedy in
the past??...How would I ever have learned to be compassionate if
I had not been selfish?...on and on and on...every good
characteristic has it's equal and opposite negative aspect and the
very nature of being born human makes me and everyone else in
this world capable of ALL things and this is how we are all
connected!! I was trying to grasp it all from a Spiritual perspective
and separating the humanness...I GET IT!!..HELLO!!! wake up
and smell the coffee Anna! Girl it is Jamaican Blue Mountain!...no
more instant decaf!!!
I reflected on each character trait these most recent people showed
me. Well of course I realized that they were all aspects and
behaviors that I have been in the past and labeled myself as "BAD
PERSON" for being. The light now illuminated my darkness! For
the rest of last week all I did was take any time I could find and sit
and started reflecting on each and every person from my
past...working my way back...that I felt had hurt me or that I had
judged as less than good people. Debbie Ford's book gives you
exercises to do, so I started doing them!
I started a list. With each name and person from my past that I felt
had hurt me in some way or that I had judged as wrong, I listed all
the traits that I liked and disliked. Each aspect that I disliked about
them I took upon myself. I am selfish. I am insecure. I am shallow.
I am fearful. I am weak. I am whatever...the list can be endless!!
You see I know I am NOT actually these things anymore, but I
never ACCEPTED, no EMBRACED and LOVED the fact that I
still have every capability of being them, that they are still very
much a part of ME and always will be!!
I was all those things in my past and hated those things about
myself. Rather than tell myself it was ok to be those things, that
they are a part of the total me, I chose to bury it and say NEVER
again. I will punish myself and beat myself up and deny myself if I
ever feel greedy, selfish, angry, or anything I or anyone else ever
deems BAD or WRONG...and Lord help anyone with those
qualities that enter my life and show them to me! But I see now
how EVERY person that has caused me some kind of pain or
uneasiness or hardship was a mirror to make me have compassion
and love for those aspects of ME... I now realize how I was
unconsciously but continuously attracting these same types of
people to show me this...OUCH !!
The book explains how you can pay attention to what people judge
about others or what they say about you and you can clearly see
how they are really talking about themselves! Or if it strikes a
nerve with in you, what it is you need to embrace and accept? It
also makes you see clearly that when you are judging someone,
you can always reflect it back to an aspect you have denied about
yourself. I had the understanding that when people are judging
others, it is WRONG, and even when judging myself, I felt
wrong...but never with any clarity as to EXACTLY why. Now I
can see with each conversation, with each thought that goes
through my head what it is that feels wrong and what it triggers in
me, about MYSELF.
Well needless to say, I am on a whole new path here and eager to
learn all about the whole me again. I can do this with each new
person that enters my life as well as shed the ones that I no longer
need. In her book, Debbie Ford calls this 'unplugging'. I can now
continue to unplug myself from all the people that have been trying
to show me in a hurtful way. I don't need them anymore. I have
true understanding now of why I have let so many people go and
now I can continue to do so with awareness and peace. I can see
those dark, negative aspects of me again, FULLY and
CONSCIOUSLY accept them, embrace them, make true peace
with them within myself. What an incredibly freeing feeling!!!
More guilt out the door!! and boy oh boy do I have a lot of
list-making to go through here. This will keep me busy for the few
months, maybe years, who knows!!...oh and ask me if I think this
will instantly fix my life and make it
perfect???...ummm...HIGHLY unlikely, but I can't wait to see
where it takes me next!!
Ok, I will try and sum up my advice and make some kind of point
with these newest ramblings of mine [and anybody that has spent
any time on this site or that knows me personally, knows I have a
hard time making anything 'short and to the point'!!]...but here goes
my best shot...
First?...please and yes I am begging...go buy the book and read it!!!
Next sit down and evaluate all the people that surround you. Ask
yourself what it is that causes you pain and that you dislike about
them because I can guarantee they are showing you all the things
that you need to love about yourself again. Not hide these things,
not remove them from yourself , but LOVE THEM. There is a
simple TRUTH that makes the most sense and feels the most right
to me personally and always has...and that truth is?... You can
never find the love you need OUTSIDE of yourself. I have had
understanding on this for many years now, both on a conscious
level as well as a Spiritual level, but never so much as of today.
The whole world really IS inside of us and our outside world and
the people in it are only a reflection of that!! I have read tons of
books on creative visualization, positive thinking, power of living
in the now...I had all the tools I even practiced them and had them
working with some semblance of success...but my past would
always seem to keep repeating itself...sound familiar?...maybe you
have been there too.
I bet you will come to see that your real true friends and long term
relationships are with the people that see you for yourself. The
WHOLE YOU! They can see the not so pretty human parts of you,
the dark shadow parts that you can be and don't hold it against you
as you hold it against yourself. They are the ones that are not afraid
to admit to you they are flawed too and have 'shadow' selves. They
are not so busy judging you, themselves and others that they can't
ever be real, whole and completely human. If you have people
around you that say they are 'better than that'...whatever or
whomever 'that' may be, chances are???...they are not!!!!...There
are harmful mirrors and there are loving mirrors. You can make
conscious CHOICES about which to keep.
Here is the most perfect recent example of this for me...and upon
further contemplation made me laugh where I would have cried
buckets before. This simple [but very profound] incident allowed
me to finally see the light in judgments and mirroring. If this man
had not been so out in left field and blatant about his issues, I
might still be in the dark and thinking I had actually done
something seriously wrong in our supposed friendship.
The same man that blew my mind earlier in the week with his
greediness, ego and verbal tirade about how much I was not
honoring him and his grandiose and valuable gifts to me...yadda
yadda yadda, then proceeded to lecture me and judge me on my
choice of honoring someone else's gift...how could I value her
when she was someone that in his opinion was EVIL because she
is in love and doing some very stupid things?...well FINE, ok, so
she has her problems!!..I honestly thought we all did...but let's see
now...does that make her worse than him?...the same man that has
a wife and kids and goes off to meet a woman he met online and
his wife never knows the difference?...a man that makes no
apologies for taking as much money as he possibly can from
anyone that seeks him out for advice because that is his JOB and
his RIGHT?...a man that verbally bashes his wife, his fellow
co-workers, other friends and his favorite word for describing
someone is 'stupid motherf---?....well according to him? HELL
NO!!...he is not 'wrong' doing those things...but this other girl I
honored and stood up for is EVIL for wanting to be with a married
man that tells her he loves her?...talk about confused??..talk about
OPENING my eyes? The crazy mixed up thing about it was I
never' judged' him as wrong or bad or anything until I was
personally the target of all his judgments of others......yes, WAKE
UP CALL ANNA!!...now are there people like that in your life? if
you can say yes?...here is some advice that I am going to be the
first to continue to follow...
Unplug these kinds of people and experiences by accepting your
perceived, hidden, denied aspects. If you find yourself in abusive,
empty, draining, one sided relationships or friendships ask yourself
"what is it about myself that I detest and want to continue to
deny...that makes me attract people and circumstances to
perpetuate it"? In this particular man I just related above, I detested
his anger, his sense of self-righteousness, his ego. I realized that I
have a temper and it still comes out more than I care to admit...I
can be self-righteous and say I would never do something, but do I
really know that for sure?...I have an ego that can rear it's ugly
head more than I care to admit. Do you see my pattern? I do, I
do!!! My reoccurring theme is 'more than I want to ADMIT and
ACCEPT and EMBRACE'!!! I am thankful that he showed me
these aspects of myself in spite of how horrid it all seemed in the
moment.
By understanding and accepting this concept of wholeness and
consciously working on it, I believe we will find a simple freedom
from anyone that annoys us, hurts us, frustrates us, causes us any
kind of dis-ease. We can and must reclaim all aspects of ourselves
and become whole again. This wholeness will allow us to draw in
more people with similar 'reflections' of this wholeness. By the
same token we will reflect more beauty and wholeness and
unconditional love to those around us. As I now continue to work
to accept more of the dark shadow aspects of myself, I can see how
this is opening the doors to drawing more beautiful loving people
and experiences to myself. Separateness really is an illusion. The
only thing that makes us feel separate and alone is the idea that we
are disconnected from others by our own judgments of them as
well as ourselves. We really are no better no worse than anyone
else...just unique and so very special...flaws and all!!!
I believe in Universal laws...they are very simple and never
change...'like attracts like' is one of them...so we had better learn to
LIKE ALL aspects OF OURSELVES! In these times of world
unrest and uncertainty, now more than ever, we need to find
peace!!...I don't pretend to have all the answers and know
everything...obviously by this latest writing, I have shown you that
I am probably a lot more clueless than some of you reading are at
this moment in time...OH WELL...I am after all only human!!...but
I do KNOW one thing to be fact and truth...peace and love truly do
have to start within ourselves.
...and that is my real point for whatever it is worth...
Thank you to the 'reflections of love' in my life...God for mirroring
the ALL that IS within me, around me and for the chance to be
human...Daniel for being my daily mirror to my childhood as well
as the mirror to the limitless possibilities for the future of all
children when we learn to understand and accept ourselves
unconditionally as parents...Eddie, for being the mirror reflection
of my love and ability to give love and be real, 'warts and all' and
seeing it long before I ever did...Bill for mirroring my
unconditional loyalty, brutal honesty to the Nth degree, and
strength of character...Lars & Ulrika for mirroring my true Spirit
and connections that are timeless, know no boundaries or
conditions and make me continue to believe in the idea of soul
mates...Cyndi for being my mirror to true lifelong female
'childhood forever-friendship'. Jennifer for being a mirror of my
gifts and one of the most down to earth 'psychics' I have ever
met...Sylvia, Shirley, Nicky, Lydia, Sheila, Kevin, Jim, Laurie...all
of whom let me come and go and be crazy human and never judge
me or look down on me. There are many, many more mirrors in
my life that I value and cherish that could take up another page and
I will continue to value and love you and I never can say thank you
enough for just BEING.
I want to also thank all the mirrors that are gone from my life....the
transient connections, that with pain and experience, brought me to
this new day of understanding.
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My real name of course is not Pharrah, but Anna. I chose to use
Pharrah13 because of my deep 'past life' connections I feel towards
Egypt. The '13' because unlike most people, I believe 13 to be a
lucky number. I also tend to 'go against the grain' and not follow the
masses nor do I believe in fear being the driving force behind life
and the choices I make.
I am a Scorpio for all those that have an interest in astrology....I can
see some of you running for the hills and others going
"COOL"...and from what I have read on Scorpios both reactions are
probably equally apt!
I am a single mom with a beautiful 12 year old son and a new
addition in the form of an adorable puppy! I have my share of
problems as a mother and as a person just like everyone else, but I
do feel I have my life fairly balanced all things considered.
I have had the 'gift' for as far back as I can recall really. I did not
understand it of course as a child. I thought it was perfectly normal
to see dead people and angels and fairies and all sorts of 'cool
things'. I can't say that I had any mentors in my family that I am
aware of...i.e.: I am NOT a 3rd or 4th generation psychic, empathic,
clairvoyant, whatever. I don't recall any of my family displaying
my... ummmm...ODDNESS...while growing up. In fact quite the
opposite. I felt very alien and out of place from about the age of 6
and into my mid 20's. I lived in an area where people were NOT
very open to anything that was not taught in the bible. I learned at
the age of 8 or so that it was best to keep my 'talents' for blabbing
about somebody's deepest thoughts and what they were going to do
next to myself. That was when I was told by my pastor that I might
be 'possessed by the devil'...I guess the only 'prophesying' he
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wanted to hear about was from Ezekiel and the rest of those great
men...I think you can get the picture.
I started to seek out alternative Spiritual knowledge at about the age
of 16 with a lot of hesitancy and LOTS of fear, but I was beginning
to feel deep within myself that maybe what I could do was NOT
'devils work' and something to be afraid of. I felt if I could just
understand it all, maybe I would not have so much guilt and fear
about possibly 'burning in hell'!!...and that seeking of knowledge
has not stopped since. My book shelves are literally exploding with
all sorts of "NEW AGE" books on every subject
imaginable...and?..."look ma, no more guilt!!"..
As the years went by, I held many great jobs, some not so great,
attended University, and even thought I wanted to be a pharmacist
when I finally grew up, which took until my LATE
20's!!!...Throughout that time, my first love remained helping
people and doing 'readings' for them. I did my first real reading
when I was 21 with a deck of tarot cards and a book that I bought.
From that day forward I did readings for anybody that would even
give me half a chance. I don't know why I felt the need to use cards
to 'read'. When I was just 'psychic', people thought I was a freak
(among many less printable names). It was sort of acceptable to use
some form of tool to do a reading, but if you sat there and stared at
someone and told them all about their life, they got REAL
uncomfortable! Not to mention the fact that I was STILL wrestling
with all the dogma that dogged me from my early years!
I finally gave up my last "job" almost 7 years ago to finally pursue
my dream of owning my own business and combining it with what I
love to do....readings!! I opened up my own metaphysical shop
called Mystical Journeys where I sold all types of crystals, books,
tools for Spiritual seekers as well as attended to daily readings for
clients. I went on to have my own column in a local newspaper,
radio once a week, ran workshops for government departments as
well as the private sector on how to bring 'Spirit into the workplace',
attended psychic fairs, and had my own weekly cable TV show
much like Miss Cleo...( Thank the Lord, I was long before her, or I
would NEVER have had the opportunity to get on a TV in the
demographics I served....they were a 'hard sell' as it was!! ) Unlike
her, I had to be real and be GOOD because my viewing audience
was local and only about 300,000 and they all knew where my store
was!!
I did this for almost 5 years and finally felt that I had had enough of
that for awhile. It became too overwhelming and draining for me.
For the life of me, I don't know how people like Sylvia Brown do it
and I give them all the credit in the world. I actually took a year's
hiatus after selling my shop and did not do one single reading, I was
so burnt out!!!!... and now here I am!
I still have many of my clients from those years and continue to
meet new and wonderful people every day. I LOVE what I do and
there is not a day goes by that I don't thank God and the Powers that
Be for allowing me to try and help others in some small way.
My life has been far from perfect and I have no shame in admitting
this. I have had my fair share of career, money, relationship,
parenting problems like anyone else. My blessing is the opportunity
and desire to use the knowledge I gained from my experiences and
try to help others in some way. I would not change too many things
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in my life right now...well hmmm...except for the relationship
department!!!....I still don't think I have found my soul mate of soul
mates but then again maybe I have?...( You see? I CAN relate to
your stories and life )..
Well that is a LITTLE bit abut me...I tried real hard to keep it brief
and not too boring. I hope I succeeded!....
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Wayne Dyer: I love this man! He is a pioneer in the field of Spiritual
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about his books and audio tapes and purchase his materials here.
Don Miguel Ruiz: This is my all time favorite teacher/author. I have
studied the toltec traditions for many years now. Their path is the one
that feels most right for me personally. I recommend to all my clients
that they read his books. Please do take a few minutes to check out
his website.
Anthony Robbins: Another true inspirational teacher. This man and
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inspired me with his program to follow my dreams. His programs are
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chance to let him motivate and inspire you. I personally recommend
his program "Get the Edge".
Christiane Northrup, MD:This site is filled with a wealth of
information on women's health. Dr. Northrup combines her years of
practice as a medical doctor with the concept of how the Spirit plays
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Yoga Postures: I have been practicing yoga now for many years and I
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Spiritual Awakening
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Visualization
Your Aura
Links
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feel it is the perfect exercise not only for the body, but the mind and
Spirit as well. This site has a comprehensive coverage of different
yoga postures with images for correct body positions. Great place for
the beginner to start.
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Deck:
Mother Peace
A Brief Introduction to the Tarot
The oldest Tarot cards to survive to the present were produced in the Fifteenth Century in
Europe. The card designs fascinate artists, art historians and investigators into the occult, as
the power of the images lies in intricate symbols woven together in specific patterns. Tarot
cards resemble regular playing cards with certain additions. Tarot decks include four court
cards instead of the Jack-Queen-King in regular decks. In addition, the Tarot incorporates the
Trumps, or Major Arcana.
The major arcana incorporate twenty two cards, numbered from zero to 21. The images include
symbolic or allegorical information distilled from larger bodies of knowledge and hidden
within the pictures. The symbols are related to the deepest spiritual and emotional meanings we
can imagine - meanings which are shared, sometimes even across cultures.
The attributes of the four suits vary from source to source. Some assign the elements - fire,
earth, air and water - to them; some say they represent the virtues - justice, fortitude, faith and
charity; still others assign geographical directions or locations to the suits. Certainly the
division into four is one which occurs in all cultures and which Carl Jung saw as significant in
the individuation process.
The Tarot used as an oracle allows one to ask a question, deal the cards in a certain way, and
extract an answer from the images and symbols. Part of this ability comes from familiarity with
the symbols. Another element of a successful reading lies in the ability to intuitively select the
proper meaning for the particular question from among the many possibilities.
Many designs have developed over the years. Yet the cards retain the basic meanings. Different
reading styles are designed to answer different questions. Often the answer to a yes/no question
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is elusive, while questions about how to approach a problem are more revealing. Even if you
are not at all interested in the oracle itself, you may find the artistic design of the cards worth
investigation. Try a couple of readings to see what you think. You may be surprised at the
relevance of a seemingly arbitrary card selection.
Illustrations are from the following decks:
- Sacred Rose Tarot Deck
- Rider-Waite Tarot Deck, known also as the Rider Tarot and the Waite Tarot (Copyright 1971
by U.S. Games systems, Inc.)
- Morgan-Greer Tarot deck (Copyright 1979 by U.S. Games systems, Inc.)
- Aquarian Tarot deck (Copyright 1970 by U.S. Games systems, Inc.)
- Ukiyoe Tarot deck (Copyright 1982 by U.S. Games systems, Inc.)
- IJJ Swiss Tarot deck (Copyright 1974 by U.S. Games systems, Inc.)
Reproduced by permission of U.S. Games Systems, Inc., Stamford, CT 06902 USA.
Further reproduction prohibited.
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text by Stephanie Clement
SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE
Sometimes we are troubled and need to contact a source of higher
wisdom. At other times we are really doing fine and need a sign that
we are going in the right direction. This reading is good for either
situation.
1. Basis of Your Concern
This card looks deeply into your situation to find an area of concern at this time.
THE MAGICIAN
You are at a peak of potential, with all your skills aligned with your
desires. As you charge ahead, maintain a compassionate connection
with the individuals around you.
Obstacles dissolve as you allow your creativity to flow. By skillful
blending of factors you serve both the timeless and the changing spirit
in whatever you do.
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2. Motivation
This card looks at your conscious and less conscious desires.
THE CHARIOT
The underlying sense of self-satisfaction may emerge in dreams of
heroic deeds. Never forget your human nature, as your subconscious
will remind you of your limits. Your dream hero may be
bullet-proof, but you have vulnerabilities. Your subconscious is
bound to try to protect them in surprising ways.
3. Underlying Problem
This card considers something from the past that affects your ability to make further progress.
DEATH
You thought the last big change would polish you off, but you are still
here, like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Begin new projects.
4. Spiritual Signpost
This card provides understanding in an area that has been unclear before now.
THE HIEROPHANT
Material ambition accompanies an urge to attain spiritual
enlightenment. Accept your human nature as a valuable asset in the
development of higher mind. The act of criticizing others does not
make us better; in fact, it shows weakness. Look for the value of
higher law in your daily life.
5. Action
This card looks at the kind of action you must take to move forward.
THE MOON
Action is required. Utilize all your powers to overcome fear. Look
deep within you for the truth, as outer appearances deceive.
6. How to Proceed
This card shows the best action to take at this time. The degree of consistency between this and the
previous card can tell you the level of difficulty to expect.
THE SUN
You act fearlessly, knowing that no one can hurt you. Align your
material, social and spiritual goals and move forward confidently.
Enjoy life to the fullest.
7. Spiritual Guidance
This card offers suggestions about what mind set or what internal process to focus on.
TEMPERANCE
Maintain a dialogue where you consider both sides of every
question. In this way you are true to your spiritual awareness and
you acknowledge your logical reasoning mind.
8. Attainment
This card shows an area of future success and looks at the potential outcome of the current situation.
STRENGTH
Your dreams are vivid and pleasant. Better still, they reflect your
waking world.
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Asking the Norns
The Runes as Oracle
The Runes are stones inscribed with the letters of an ancient alphabet which
developed in Scandinavia. They belong to the family of Germanic
languages, but are also related to Latin and Greek. Examples have been
found in all the regions once inhabited by Goths, from the Black Sea to the
Baltic.
The runes have been found inscribed on grave stones and other monuments.
The inscriptions themselves indicated that the runes were thought to offer
magical protection. An example: "In exile shall he die by means of magic
art who destroys this monument."
In 1984 Ralph Blum wrote the Book of Runes and sold ceramic tokens with
the runes inscribed on them. The user "casts" a reading according to the
type of reading desired, and then reads the selections relating to those runes.
It is important to note that the runes must be related to each other and not
taken separately, much as in the I-Ching the lines compose a hexagram and
are not merely separate lines.
The use of runes to cast spells is not the same. In that case spells written in
the runic alphabet are delivered to the object of the spell, there to do their
work. Casting the runes as an oracle involves no such spell.
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Ask the Norns
In Norse mythology the Norns were three female deities
who spun thread and wove fabric to determine the fates of
humans and gods alike. Often one of them negated the gifts
of the other two or turned them into a curse. This reading
provides yes-no answers to simple questions. Be sure your
question is simple. Then choose the reading and evaluate
the three runes to determine the answer. If you get WYRD
as one of your runes, it is not yet time to judge the question
or there are too many variables to receive a clear answer.
1. First Rune
Position one addresses the past, relative to your question. It shows what has led to
your present state of mind.
Lagu / lakeLAGU points out your intuitive or psychic connections to
the world around you. The flowing energies around you are more
evident where this rune falls. Allow your attention to focus on inner
feelings and psychic awareness can develop. LAGU also indicates
females are involved in the question. When in doubt, seek the female
connection socially, the intuitive connection on the inner plane.
2. Second Rune
This rune is for the present. In addition, rune 2 can represent your present STATE
OF MIND,
BLANK / karmic runeFate, destiny, kismet, karma. These are all
descriptive of the nature of this rune when it appears. It is as though a
veil is drawn over the answer so you cannot perceive it at this time.
While it is difficult to trust in fate, it is impossible to change it. Things
will be decided for you, so an accepting frame of mind will be your best
resource.
3. Third Rune
Rune three looks into the future. It says something about the RESULT.
Daeg / dayDAEG brings things into the light of day so you can see them
clearly. What may have been unclear before is now obvious. Along with
these changes comes the associated change in attitude. Be prepared to
change your mind at least a little. Use your intuition to suggest HOW to
incorporate change into your thinking, but know that clarity is found
here.
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Jade
A Brief Introduction to the I-Ching
The I-Ching is a Chinese system of divination which has survived for over
five thousand years. It is thought that the original teaching came from one
individual - Fu His. While it is Chinese in its essence, I contains ideas
which are clearly not Chinese, thereby indicating that the writers who have
contributed to the texts were acquainted with other cultures. Thus its value
is not limited to oriental life styles, but may be applied around the world.
The basic approach to an I-Ching reading is to throw yarrow sticks, or more
often coins. With the coins, heads or tails and the number of each determine
the value of the toss. Six tosses generate the six lines of the hexagram. Each
possible combination has a text connected to it. In addition, each line has a
particular meaning. Sometimes the translation from Chinese to English
doesn't make sense at first. If you put yourself in place of a Chinese person
in a less modern society, you begin to experience the value of the oracle. It
allows you to relate to your environment, to people, and even to yourself in
new and interesting ways. Generally the I-Ching relates to a current
situation, telling you one way to evaluate all that is happening to you. You
naturally have the choice to accept its interpretation.
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Hexagram 43
Breakthrough.
upper trigram
lower trigram
The Image: Lake Risen to Heaven.
The Judgment: Make it known to the king. Danger. Notify one's own city. Doesn't
help to resort to arms. Undertake something.
Development of the situation:
Hexagram 58
The Joyous.
upper trigram
lower trigram
The Image: Lakes Rest on Each Other.
The Judgment: Success. Perseverance favorable. Superior man joins with friends
for discussion and practice.
By Name
First Name:
By assigning a number to the letters in your name, numerology can
provide insight into your personality. (Click here to read more about
Numerology.)
marilyn
Middle
Name:
Last Name:
luongo
If you have more than 3 parts in your birth name, enter the extra names in the middle
box.
Report Type:
Name Compatibility
Deck:
Green Rain
The birth date can provide numerological interpretation
for the progression of your life.
By Birth date
Enter your birth date:
Month:
Day:
Year:
Example: July 18, 1941 = 07 18 1941
Report Type:
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Deck:
Chess
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Numerology can be used to analyze any word or number. One can
By Word or Number use city name, pet's name, phone number, licence plate, social
security number, etc.
Deck:
Gothic
A Brief Introduction to Numerology
In the world of numerology, the ancient study of numbers, all numbers have
a reality of their own. To the numerologist, all of the hustle and bustle of
this modern world can be reduced to the numbers that stand behind the
appearances. Each number has a life and meaning of its own and, in the last
analysis, this life is our life. Using only the date of our birth and our given
name (as recorded on our birth certificate), we can find those numbers that
represent our particular life force. When these life numbers are seen in the
context of the continual interchange and play of numbers in the world
around us, certain trends and opportunities become clear. At any time
during our life we are promarily working with one or several specific
numbers and what they symbolize.
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Numerology Oracle
Enter the name for the second person:
First Name:
paul
Middle Name:
Last Name:
micheal
joudel
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Numerology Oracle
Numerology Compatibility Report For
MARILYN LUONGO and PAUL MICHEAL JOUDEL
MARILYN LUONGO
number
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
count
1
0--
3++
1
2
2
2
0--
2
PAUL MICHEAL JOUDEL
number
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
count
3
0--
6++
2
2
1-
1-
1-
1-
This combination accents and strengthens the influence of the lack of 2's in both
names.
A lack of "2's" indicates that there is a tendency to be uncooperative and unable to mix
and share with others. A need to learn to co-exist and respond to the reality of other
people. Lacks the ability to respond to the needs of others.
This combination accents and strengthens the influence of the abundance of 3's in
both names.
An overabundance of "3's" indicates too much of the social good thing. The party 'till you
drop syndrome. Overdoing it in the honesty department... a tendency to boast, to rely on
friends for support. You need self-direction and goals.
This combination accents and strengthens the influence of the lack of 8's in both
names.
A lack of "8's" often indicates a refusal to recognize the importance of the mundane and
worldly. A denial of the effect or existence of influence, power, money, politics -ignoring
them. You don't want to play that game.
Numerology Oracle
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Today
Tomorrow
Type in your birth date and year (MONTH / DAY / YEAR)
Month
10
18
Day
Year
Example: July 18, 1941 = 07 18 1941
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1954
include astrological keys (optional)
1. Select the report type
2. Enter birth Month, Day, & Year
3. With a question in mind, press "Ask the Oracle"
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What's Happening Now!
by Michael Erlewine
This report is about what is happening to you right now in the astrological skies -- your current
transit forecast. Astrologers use the term "transits" to mean the positions of the major planets
that are overhead (in the sky) right now and their relationship to our birth chart (your birth date
and year) and how they affect you. Transits are very important indicators of the current situation
in which we find ourselves. They can provide insight into what we are now going through.
And these are not all one-day events. They can cover a wide span of days, weeks, months, and
sometimes years, depending on which planet is involved. In general, transits of the Moon last a
matter of hours, those of the Sun perhaps a day or two, Mercury and Venus events take a few
days, Mars and Jupiter take from several days to a week or two to complete, while those of
Saturn take from two weeks to a month to play themselves out. The outer planets Uranus,
Neptune, and Pluto take months and even years to move change. With this in mind, let's examine
your transits for today's date and the time surrounding this date. We hope you enjoy it.
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Moon Transit
The Moon's transits (passing overhead) are fleeting and last only an hour or two, presenting to us
the ever-changing Kaleidoscope of day-to-day life. They often reflect on our surroundings and
support mechanism -- how we are nourished.
Moon in Sextile with Venus (Natal)
You may be able to enjoy and value your own life situation today or feel especially kind towards
a friend or loved one. Someone may compliment you on your tastes or belongings.
Moon in Trine with Mars (Natal)
You could find that you are appreciated or valued for your feelings or your ability to act and get
things done. Someone understands how you feel and is sympathetic today.
Moon in Sextile with Jupiter (Natal)
A great time to be with others and to work together. You may be sought after as just the person
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for a particular job. Your management and directional abilities are in high focus.
Moon in Sextile with Uranus (Natal)
Everything conspires to value and bring out your more unique and unusual qualities. You may
find that someone close to you understands and is supportive of your eccentricities. You could
come up with new solutions or inventions.
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Sun Transit
A day or part of a day is what transiting Sun events are all about. They affect and relate to us
personally, like how we feel about ourselves and see our world.
Sun in SAGITTARIUS
You may well be reminded of your various responsibilities today. A good time to get down to
the nitty-gritty and take care of some business you have postponed. Obligations may come to
your attention. A meeting with someone older or in authority.
Sun in Conjunction with Venus (Natal)
Be careful that you don't go on a spending spree, for you may appreciate the beauty and value of
everything you encounter today. You could feel loving and warm to those around you, and you
are appreciative of your own life and self, in general.
Sun in Trine with Jupiter (Natal)
A very lucky day for making plans or decisions and finding your way through just about any
problem you may discover. You feel successful and able to cope. Good advice from a guide or
older person may be forthcoming. A good day.
Sun in Trine with Uranus (Natal)
Take a little trip, or get outside today. You may want to break that routine and try something
new or different right now. You may discover insights into day-to-day problems that will be of
great value later.
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Mercury Transit
Mercury events take anywhere from a day to several days to pass and are keyed to the mind and
our thought processess -- the way we think. They are, in a word, Mercurial.
Mercury in Conjunction with Venus (Natal)
Its easy to see what you value and care about. Your sense of appreciation is sharpened and in
high focus. A good day to select those new house furnishings or to appraise your holdings.
Mercury in Sextile with Mars (Natal)
Your mind is quick and sharp, and your words are the only weapon you will need today. You
have insight into your emotions and drive, and you can talk about your feelings with great
insight and fluidity.
Mercury in Trine with Jupiter (Natal)
A clear-minded insight into your own plans and methods is available to you. A very good time
to communicate your goals and put them into words. A good time for decisions.
Mercury in Trine with Uranus (Natal)
Quick answers, great wit, and a surplus of insights and solutions are at the ready. A good time to
write and communicate with real originality. Inventions and breakthroughs are possible.
Mercury in Square with Pluto (Natal)
You may be having some dark and secret thoughts. Sensitive areas of your mind may intrude
and appear obsessive. You may be suspicious of someone.
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Venus Transit
Venus events take several days or so to pass and color the way we appreciate ourselves and our
life -- how we value things. Venus has to do with loving and appraising things, whether an
object of art or a relationship.
Venus in Square with Sun (Natal)
You may find some of your values at odds with your own best interests. You may not appreciate
tradition or someone older or in authority.
Venus in Sextile with Mercury (Natal)
Perhaps a time to think and study, for you have a real appreciation for ideas and thoughts. You
may find yourself enjoying a long conversation, writing a letter, or making a special phone call.
Venus in Conjunction with Mars (Natal)
You may find yourself looking for a little romance today or at least enjoying some emotional
release. You can appreciate feelings and movement. You may want to just get out and walk or
exercise.
Venus in Opposition with Uranus (Natal)
Someone unexpected may confront you or you may not like their independence or eccentricity.
You may not appreciate their very different perspective or attitude.
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Saturn Transit
The transits of Saturn in the sky above us right now color the entire landscape of our life during
this current time. Saturn always indicates the kind of time we are having and what we are going
through. Saturn presents the limits and often the obstacles that confront us at this time -- what
we have no choice but to go through.
Saturn in Square with Mercury (Natal)
A lot of mental energy churning around, but it may be hard to put it to work. Circumstances may
prove difficult regarding communication, writing, ideas, and the like. Things can get tight, and
you may find it hard to think or study during this time.
Saturn in Square with Saturn (Natal)
This could be a somewhat difficult time, when circumstances may block you or bring you to a
standstill. It is easy now to work at cross-purposes to your own interests. A good time to step
back and re-evaluate your aims and goals. This may take some time.
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Jupiter Transit
If Saturn presents the general situation through which we are passing, Jupiter in the sky above
provides some insight into how to handle our current life situation -- whatever it happens to be.
Jupiter is the key to our success -- how we will get through this time, our path -- the way through
or on.
Jupiter in Conjunction with Mercury (Natal)
You find that you can really use your mind to make clear choices and think things through.
Career decisions are straightforward and easy to make. You make your way through ideas,
concepts, and your ability to communicate and express them to others.
Jupiter in Conjunction with Saturn (Natal)
A time to buckle down and consolidate your career. Your organizational abilities and sense of
responsibility will be what guides you and proves successful. Your career could assume a much
more determined and solid form. A firm foundation.
Jupiter in Conjunction with Neptune (Natal)
You will prosper by pursuing your ideals and most deep-seated dreams of how life could be.
Don't be afraid to project that image, make those dreams real. Ideas of group cooperation and
communion (mass images) could further your career.
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Mars Transit
Transiting Mars in the sky above will give us an idea as to the kind of drive and energy we have
available to us at this time. It indicates the way we feel about our life (our feelings) and the way
we feel about life often is the key to how we respond and handle situations. Mars is our energy
and our energy type determines the aura or atmosphere we draw around ourselves.
Mars in Opposition with Mercury (Natal)
You may have words and possible hurt feelings with someone during this time. Emotional needs
conflict with the way you think and communicate. Some form of gut-level opposition to your
ideas.
Mars in Opposition with Saturn (Natal)
The status quo may meet with some opposition. Someone's emotional state may block your own
interests. Belligerence and opposition can be anticipated.
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Uranus Transit
Addressing Uranus means we are turning to the more metaphysical realms of your horosocope.
The planet Uranus tells us something about how you will get beyond whatever current situation
you are in, perhaps finding a bit of fresh air. It can also point to ways to innovate, new solutions
to old problems -- taking the current situation and transforming it, the way through or out.
Uranus in Trine with Saturn (Natal)
A time for new accomplishments, during which insights and breakthroughs in organization and
determination are in order. A revolution within the established order, when new ideas and ways
to do and use things become clear. Facilitation.
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Neptune Transit
The planet Neptune in the current sky above us points to how we let go, relax, and find that
common thread -- communion. It is connected to our imagination and our dreams too. Neptune
can inspire us to to share in a common vision with others. "The dewdrop slips into the shining
sea."
Neptune in Square with Mercury (Natal)
A long dreamy time when you find it easy to lose yourself in one flight of fancy or another,
often at the expense of rational thinking and good judgment. Normally clear ideas are fuzzy
now, and it is hard to be logical or consistent.
Neptune in Square with Saturn (Natal)
There could be a tendency to view your accomplishments as having almost no substance during
this time. A false set of ideals may mislead you and cause you to neglect your responsibilities
and get lost in what will amount to a bunch of nothing.
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Pluto Transit
Pluto in the sky always triggers personal events of extreme vulnerability -- situations that touch
our innermost self. Pluto is hot stuff. Pluto transits take years to work through and we are
transformed by them.
Pluto in Sextile with Sun (Natal)
You could receive some help in the form of a real drive towards realizing your inner self and
your life ambitions. You are able to cut through a lot that is unessential and get on with the real
work. Also, a special relationship with an authority figure or teacher.
Pluto in Sextile with Neptune (Natal)
A time to really examine and analyze your dreams and ideals. It can be easy now to separate the
wheat from the chaff and get rid of much of the "pie in the sky" stuff you have bought along the
way. The results are solid goals that support you.
Pluto in Trine with Pluto (Natal)
Continual discovery, persistent search, and continual change and transformation keep you on the
move and growing. You are able to penetrate and get to the very heart of things; thus research
and the like would be good.
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