MonthlyBulletin - Congregation Beth Israel
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MonthlyBulletin - Congregation Beth Israel
Our New Director of Youth Education Come welcome Rabbi Sarah Rubin. See page 3. Coming Next Month! The Innocent A new play written by Cantor Siskin with a cast of talented congregants. See page 5. MonthlyBulletin Our High Holy Days. See page 12-13. Congregation Beth Israel West Hartford, CT August 2012 Number 12 Membership Drive 2012 At Beth Israel, we pray, we learn, we repair, and we connect. At every age, throughout our lives. All by the teachings of the Torah. d wililll eennriricchhaannd rs e b w m rs e e m b w m e e New m N troodduucceeyyoouurr in e s a tr le in P e . s s a u le theenn us. P gth ng treen sstr ebbaacckkppaaggee. . e S l! e e e ra S Is l! e th e to BBeth Isra dss to nd ien fr frie Contact Us Congregation Beth Israel 701 Farmington Avenue West Hartford, CT 06119 860-233-8215 [email protected] www.cbict.org CLERGY Rabbi Michael Pincus, Senior Rabbi [email protected], x228 Rabbi Dena Shaffer, Assistant Rabbi [email protected], x226 Cantor Pamela Siskin, Cantor; Director, Lifelong Learning [email protected], x234 Rabbi Harold S. Silver, D.D., Rabbi Emeritus [email protected], x231 Rabbi Stephen Fuchs, D. Min., D.D., Rabbi Emeritus, [email protected] BOARD OF TRUSTEES Executive Board PRESIDENT: Jeffrey Winnick, [email protected] FIRST VICE PRESIDENT: Clare Feldman VICE PRESIDENTS: Jeff Kagan, Eric Lessne, Gail Mangs SECRETARY: Scott Lewis TREASURER: Chet Zaslow ASSISTANT TREASURERS: David Miller, Ruth Van Winkle TEMPLE STAFF Sarah Beck, Office Administrator [email protected], x223 Leah Bratton, Director, Noah’s Ark [email protected], 860-232-5038 Aliha Fine, Accounting Manager [email protected], x227 Cheryl Goldberg, Rabbinical Administrator [email protected], x224 Sharon Lessne, Noah’s Ark [email protected], x239 Toni Robinson, Temple Administrator [email protected], x225 Rabbi Sarah Rubin, Director of Youth Education, [email protected], x232 Danielle Stordy, Learning Center Assistant [email protected], x230 Natasha Ulyanovsky, Musical Director [email protected] Jane Zande, Associate Director of Lifelong Learning, [email protected], x230 Religious School Office [email protected], x233 2 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 MonthlyBulletin BREAKING NEWS! WELCOME, RABBI SARAH RUBIN! cbictwh @cbict Congregation Beth Israel Monthly Bulletin is published ten times per year, monthly except for combined issues in January/February and June/July, at Congregation Beth Israel, 701 Farmington Ave., West Hartford, CT 06119. Subscription is $36 per year, free to members of Congregation Beth Israel. The material in this Bulletin may not be reproduced without permission. On occasion, dates, times, and details of Services and events published in this Bulletin may change. Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter, Chai Lights, for the latest information. Contact [email protected]. Visit our website, www.cbict.org, for additional content and information. WE MOURN THE LOSS OF MEMBERS OF OUR COMMUNITY Harry Caplan, father of Sheri Caplan and her husband Kenneth Merkatz; grandfather of Clarisa and Samuel WELCOME NEW MEMBERS! We look forward to welcoming you and getting to know you! Sue Fulleton of Bloomfield Cecile Frost of West Hartford Geanie Smith of West Hartford Robert Chandler, husband of Christine; father of Todd Chandler and Lauren Chandler; son of Miriam Chandler; brother of Carol Chandler and Judith Chandler; stepfather of Todd Tanger and his wife, Barbara, and Amy Fine and her husband, Jonathan; and stepgrandfather of Annabelle, Joseph, Talia, Samuel, William, and Evelyn Frimi Fine, mother of David Fine and his wife Aliha, and Norman Fine and his wife Cheryl Elliott Frauenglass Adam Glass, grandson of Bobby and Rafael Mori Charles Grossman Arthur Guimond, father of Kathy Pasternack and her husband Kevin; grandfather of Jessica Alexander Haas, father of Leslie Silverman and her husband Samuel Leon Izikson, husband of Alla; father of Jessica, Rebecca, and Eugene; brother of Roma and Joseph Sofia Katz Andrew Kohn, son of Judith Pinney SAVE THE DATE - Rabbi Hoffman to join us in November On November 2-4, Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman will be our Scholar-inResidence as CBI kicks off its 170th anniversary year! Rabbi Hoffman is the Reform Movement’s eminent teacher of prayer, ritual, spirituality, theology and synagogue leadership. For almost forty years, this thoughtful teacher has inspired and challenged our rabbis and congregations across North America. Please, mark your calendars to join us for this amazing opportunity. Dr. Norman Levin, brother of TJ Levin Gerald McNamara, husband of Ronnie; father of Annie Pearl Namerow, mother of Robert Namerow and his wife Barbara Alexander Oganjanov, husband of Ella Oganjanov Myuda Romanova James Siegel, husband of Phyllis; father of Robert and his wife Cindy, Jerome and his CEMETERY GRAVES The cost of a grave in our Beth Israel Cemeteries is currently $1500 each. The cost will be $1700 each beginning September 1. This includes $400 for perpetual care. For more information, contact Scott Lewis, [email protected]. wife Susan, and Mark and his wife Jane; grandfather of seven Lawrence (Larry) Sobel, husband of Maureen; father of Wendy Dougan and her husband Kyle Dougan, and Darren Sobel and his wife Cheryl MacDonald; grandfather of Amanda and Rachel Dougan and Emily MacDonald; stepfather of Derick Rivero; brother of Patti Parson Francisco Zeledon RELIGIOUS SCHOOL REGISTRATION You can enroll your child in our religious school by sending in our online form. Visit www.cbict.org. We are proud to announce and welcome Rabbi Sarah Rubin as our new Director of Youth Education. In this newly formed full-time position, Rabbi Rubin will commit her passion for Judaism to implement innovative educational experiences for CBI member families and their children. Rabbi Rubin was previously Rabbi and Religious School Director at Congregation Ahavas Achim in Keene, New Hampshire. She has also been an adjunct professor at Keene State College, teaching courses in Jewish culture and history. She received her Bachelor’s degree from Ohio State University, her Master of Arts degree from Indiana University, and her Rabbinic Ordination and Master of Arts in Hebrew Letters from the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College. She has decided to dedicate her Rabbinate to education and learning. “We look forward to having Rabbi Rubin join our Congregation,” said Rabbi Michael Pincus. “We are confident that she will actively engage with our teachers, student teachers, parents, and students and build on our history of success in our Religious School.” We want to extend our sincere gratitude to the members of the search committee for their tireless efforts throughout this year to find our new director: JoAnn Eicher, Bonnie Schneider, Jeff Smith, Ellen Stokoe and co-chairs Lauren Benthien and Rob Berman. Our search committee unanimously endorsed her for this position not only for her experience, but also for her warmth, confidence, and passion for education. We also thank Cantor Pamela Siskin for her years of hard work and dedication to our Religious School, making it an award-winning and innovative program. Rabbi Rubin will begin at Beth Israel on August 1. Her office will be Cantor Siskin’s previous office space in the Religious School wing. More details about meeting her as the school year begins will be posted to our website, www.cbict.org. CHAI PAKS In the fall, we will be sending Chai Paks to our young adults who have graduated high school. The Paks are CBI care packages filled with both Jewish and secular goodies that young adults love! Thanks to Brenda Kestenbaum for organizing this project. They are free to 2012 graduates. If you have a young adult away from home, please send contact information to Jane Zande, [email protected], 860-233-8215 x230. Have you seen our new, welcoming signs throughout the building and lobby? Thanks, Sarah Beck! CALLING ALL SINGERS—5th through 12th grade We are looking for young singers to participate in a fabulous choral concert to be given as a joint venture with our neighbor, Saint John’s Episcopal Church. Our choirs and St. John’s choirs, both adult and children, will be performing pieces from Godspell by Stephen Schwartz and The Chichester Psalms by Leonard Bernstein. The concert will take place on Sunday, May 5, 4:30pm. Rehearsals will be from noon to 1pm on Sunday afternoons beginning in September. Light refreshments will be served at 11:45am. There will be further opportunities to sing throughout the year. Auditions will be held on Sunday, September 9 from noon to 1pm. If you are interested, please contact Cantor Pamela Siskin, 860-233-8215 x234, [email protected]. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 3 Sometimes It Takes An Outsider To Help You Realize How Good You Have It Rabbi Michael Pincus T here is an old story told about a Rabbi who goes to visit an elderly congregant at her home. He enters her bedroom, walks up to her bed, and notices that piled high on her night stand is a collection of the worst anti-semitic magazines and books he has ever seen.The Rabbi is flabbergasted. He stammers, how could she, a dedicated and committed Jew, be reading all this virulent material. The congregant explains, “Rabbi, when I read your bulletin articles, or anything from the Jewish press, it is all about how terrible we are. How we aren’t doing enough. How we are a dying people. With all the pains I have, I can’t take it any more. When I read this stuff, I read about how powerful the Jews are, how important they are, and how they are growing!” I am reminded of this story as I write this month’s bulletin article during Parashat Balak. This section of the Torah is most famous for a prophet named Balaam and his sidekick talking donkey, who offer praise of Israel. In part he says, “How fair are your tents, O Jacob,/Your dwellings, O Israel!” (Numbers 24:5) We still say these words today when we enter the sanctuary and begin our prayers. Many rabbinic commentators point out that Balaam, who was a non-Israelite Prophet, praises Israel while the prophets of Israel most of the time condemn Israel. Sometimes it takes an outsider to help you realize how good you have it. Recently, a person I was studying with for conversion shared his amazement that most of the Jews he knows don’t seem to really appreciate this amazing tradition. He was confused why those who were born Jewish didn’t seem to be engaged in this way of life that was so appealing to him. I think he asks a great question. There is much that Judaism can teach us about the way we should live our lives. Here are a few thoughts: • As Jews, we have always emphasized the supremacy of learning. It is from this ideal that Judaism continues to strive towards a deeper understanding of the world. For what? The Talmud relates that once Rabbi Tarfon, Rabbi Yose, and Rabbi Akiba debated the question,“Which is more important, study or practice, learning or doing?” Rabbi Akiba argued in favor of learning. Rabbi Tarfon argued in favor of doing. Eventually they concluded that study is indeed more important if it leads to action. To be a good Jew is to be a person committed to repair of our broken world. Almost 3,000 years ago, the prophet Isaiah proclaimed in the name of God, “seek justice; aid the oppressed; uphold the right of the orphan; defend the widow.” • Rabbi Matthew Durbin points out that the Yiddish word menschlichkeit might be the essence of Jewish commitment. It stands for human decency, kindness, compassion, understanding, gentleness, and proper self-evaluations. A menschlichkeit brings a sense of responsibility to every undertaking. He treats everyone fairly and justly. It means living close to family and extending one’s sense of obligation beyond the family to the community. The Talmudic sage Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai once asked a number of his students, “What is the right path? What does Judaism want from us?” He received a variety of answers. Finally he chose the word of a disciple who said that the right path is a “lev-tov, a loving heart.” He was asked why. “Because,” said the rabbi, “it included all of the other suggestions.” Let us resolve to open our hearts to the beauties of our tradition; to the wellsprings of learning, to the benefits of prayer, to the fulfillment of the commandments, and above all else, to the need to cultivate a lev-tov, a loving heart,which will bring us closer both to God and our fellow human beings. • 4 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 Please Note Shabbat Services Please see our schedule of August Shabbat Services on page 17. We will hold our August Friday services outdoors in our Silver Courtyard. If the weather does not cooperate, we may hold our “Service in the Round” in Feldman Hall. Please give us your feedback about our summer services, [email protected]. On Friday, August 31, 6:30pm, at our Kabbalat Shabbat Service, we will welcome back our children who attended Jewish summer camp. Please come and hear their exciting stories and adventures! Bring your own picnic and we’ll have dinner together. YOUNG FAMILIES AND FRIENDS The August meeting date was not set by press time. Please check Chai Lights, our email newsletter, or contact Lisa Book, [email protected], for more information. Lisa Book and Seth Kaufman are the new co-chairs of our Young Families and Friends group. They are taking over from Gayle Wintjen. Thank you, Gayle! If you want to know more about our Young Families Group, contact Lisa Book, [email protected]. Thank you! Sue Pacific and Paul Bobruff sponsored our Oneg Shabbat on Friday, June 1 and our bima food basket on the weekend of June 1, in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Joshua. Rikki and James Altman sponsored our bima decorations on the weekend of June 9 in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Spencer. Susan and Joel Harinstein sponsored our bima decorations on the weekend of June 30 in honor of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Sarah. CBI COMMUNITY SPIRITUAL THEATER presents THE INNOCENT A Play for Selichot Written by Cantor Pamela Siskin Directed by Dan Steier Archibald MacLeish, in his Pulitzer prize-winning play J.B., based on The Book of Job, writes: If we are innocent then God is unthinkable. This play explores the many reasons why we find the High Holy Days particularly compelling, renewing, disturbing, and challenging. In this play, characters, both modern and biblical, come together in an effort to find answers to questions they have long been asking. Come to our presentation and then discuss the thoughts it might evoke in you. SCHEDULE Saturday, September 8 7pm The Innocent 8pm Musical Interlude. With Natasha Ulyanovsky on piano and Peter Dzialo on cello 8:15–9pm Refreshments, Discussion, and Comments CAST: Karen Beyard Nathan Dworkin Liz Freedman Adlyn Loewenthal Ted Loewenthal June Mandelkern Renee Powell Jeff Smith Dan Steier Lisa Steier Chet Zaslow Parashot (Torah portion) Joe Dix Va’et’chanan (I pleaded) Deuteronomy 3:23-7:11 August 4 Moses pleads with God to be allowed entrance into the Promised Land. God refuses, but tells Moses that he will be allowed to look at the land. Moses is to prepare Joshua to lead the Israelites into the land. Moses reminds the people to keep God’s commandments and not to add or take away from them. Moses warns the people not to be corrupt or make idols or do what is bad in the eyes of the Lord or they will be scattered. But if they repent, God, being merciful, will listen and not destroy them. Moses repeats the Ten Commandments which were first recorded at Exodus 20. There is a difference in the wording regarding the Sabbath. In Exodus it says to remember the Sabbath. Here, it says to observe the Sabbath. Verses 4 through 9 of Chapter 6 contain the Shema and the first paragraph of the V’ahavta which is said every evening and morning. Moses says to follow God’s commandments and tell our children that we do so because God freed us from Egypt to give us the land and to follow all the laws “for our good every day.” (6:24) The portion ends with the promise that God will put the numerous nations in the land in front of the Israelites to be destroyed and that the Israelites are not to intermarry with them. Moses tells the Israelites (and us) that we are a people holy to God. God chose us to become a treasured people (see Exodus 19:5) to Him out of all the peoples on the face of the earth. (Deut 7:6). We are treasured not because of our numbers, but because God loves us and remembers His oath to the patriarchs. (Deut 7:8). Healing thoughts and community Paula Schenck H ealing is best done in company with prayer, music, and moments of silence to allow God’s guiding hand in. Walking into our sanctuary on Shabbat eve, I heal a little. It is about merging the beauty of the place, the comforts of familiar Jewish liturgy with the energy of the congregation. The serene expressions on some and the troubled faces of others speak of a shared desire to leave the secular behind and welcome Shabbat. Together we pray, together we heal. Perhaps healing is found best when we recognize the honesty so natural in young children. We detect it in a glimmer of awe, or a dash of sparkle in young eyes, peppered with spontaneous smiles. Maybe it is the child within each of us that connects time past with present. As a young child, bedtime moments shared with Dad mended the trials of the day and included a soft singing of “Sh’ma Yisrael, Adonai Eloheinu, Adonai Echad”. I sing still, with our community, feeling those precious moments of years past simultaneously with the now that heals the ravages of the week’s toil. God is one and we are one with God. Wisdom about the human experience we all share is embedded in our Jewish tradition. Whether the need for physical and emotional healing is apparent and immediate, or part of our ongoing growth and experience of life, being with our community, our Congregation Beth Israel family is an opportunity for renewal, spiritual comfort, and growth. And we heal, together. • Paula Schenck graciously allowed us to reprint this D’var Torah which she delivered at the Brotherhood/Sisterhood Shabbat on June 8. She is Past President of the Sisterhood. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 5 President’s Report F Legacy for Our Future Jeffrey Winnick or the past several months, I have been meaning to read The Way We Were, which Rabbi Stephen Fuchs in his introductory message described as “Marjorie Rafal’s delightful commentary on life at Congregation Beth Israel.” As noted by Rabbi Fuchs, the essays which comprise the book ran for many years “as an eagerly anticipated feature in the Temple Bulletin.” Marjorie, of blessed memory, was Beth Israel’s historian and archivist, but her work lives on and we all are grateful for it. For any congregant who has not read the essays in the Bulletin or the book, I recommend it for some good summer reading (or re-reading). [The book is available in the Learning Center.] Whenever anyone asks me if I could live my life over again and have a different profession, my first off the cuff answer always is: I would have loved to have been a major league baseball player (preferably one with a long illustrious career like that of Derek Jeter’s). But knowing that is strictly an off the cuff answer (and obviously not a serious one), my more serious answer is that I would have liked to teach American history at the college level with my particular interest being the first fifty or so years of our nation. And when I am not working at my so-called “day job” of law practice and my other full-time job, President of Congregation Beth Israel, I try to read as many books about American history as I can. History, we are told from a very young age, teaches us where we came from and who we are today. It is also supposed to teach us what we did right in the past so that we can grow from our good decisions, and what we did wrong so that we can avoid the mistakes of the past, which no matter how much we study history we seem to repeat time after time. As President of the Congregation, I thought it would be a good idea that I have a better knowledge of the very institution I have been elected to lead. What I found of particular interest in Marjorie’s book were the essays about the early days of Beth Israel. Many of the issues that the officers, the Board, the clergy, and congregants struggled with were essentially the same issues that we struggle with today, namely, finances (revenues and expenditures), liturgical issues, and staffing the Congregation. The main difference is that, based on what I read from the minutes of early Board meetings, today we go about our discussions and resolve our issues and differences in a much more civil way. I found the quotes from the minutes of certain meetings held in 1871 and in 1872 both interesting and somewhat amusing. They state: “J. Goodhart was punished because of noisy behavior for $2.50. (I wonder what the definition of noisy is?)…Wolf Katzenstein was fined one dollar because of noisy behavior (apparently not as noisy as Mr. Goodhart)…Abraham Stern was fined one dollar because of noisy behavior, but since he wouldn’t calm down, he was fined again two dollars (obviously he didn’t get the message the first time)…Henry Selling was fined 50 cents (most likely just a minor annoyance and not a serious infraction)…H. Bachrach wanted to appeal to the congregation for the second time because of the fine imposed on him by the Trustees. It followed so much quarrel that the meeting had to be closed (I would have loved to have been there to see that happen). J.L. Knock was fined $1.50 because of indecent behavior (wow, wonder what that could have been?) While the behavior and the punishments for that behavior described in these excerpts from the meetings held over 140 years ago may, on the one hand, seem childish to us, they also tell us that those who established Congregation Beth Israel were passionate about our Congregation and for that passion we, today, are all the better for it. • Sisterhood members stand before the open ark with Rabbi Pincus. He blessed and formally installed Sisterhood officers at a Sisterhood/ Brotherhood Shabbat service. 6 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 Each of our three sons was married by a rabbi although none at Beth Israel. One of my sons is active in his Reform congregation in Atlanta and sends his children to a Reform Jewish day school. Another is married to a non-Jew and while he himself remains firmly Jewish, he is dealing with the question of how to raise interfaith children. The wife of our third son chose to become a Jew just before her daughter was born to make clear, even to the Israeli religious establishment, that her daughter is Jewish. We expect our granddaughter to become a Bat Mitzvah. There is no doubt that each of our sons is Jewish. Their religious training at Beth Israel prepared them well for a future of choice in a country open to choice. We have friends whose children, thanks to a rigorously traditional Jewish childhood, have turned to Orthodoxy. Some of them have moved to Israel and some of their grandchildren wear payes (locks of hair that some Orthodox boys and men refrain from cutting or shaving) and live in one of the settlements. Who knows what far right-wing views they hold about Israel, Judaism, and their place in the world? Is our friends’ situation preferable to ours? What has Beth Israel contributed to the way we view ourselves as Jews, as parents, and as grandparents? We are happy about the transition from the austerity of Classical Reform to the warmth of its more modern form. We are confident that Beth Israel prepared our sons to be Jewish men in 21st-century America. We see our Jewish heritage partly in our grandchildren and partly in the community of Beth Israel. We will support our grandchildren in their aspirations for their futures and our legacy will support Beth Israel in its aspirations as it moves toward its bicentenary, now just thirty years away. • For more information about Legacy for Our Future, contact Bennett Pearl, Chair, 860-233-8215 x260. WHAT DO WE DO AT BETH ISRAEL? WHAT DO WE DO AT BETH ISRAEL? WE PRAY. I n June 1959 my bride Muriel and I were married at Temple Beth Israel. The wedding was co-officiated by Rabbi Abraham J. Feldman and Rabbi Meyer Finkelstein, my uncle. Their cooperation was uneasy, for Rabbi Feldman was in the Classical Reform mode while Rabbi Meyer, as we called him, was Conservative. Classical Reform, in Rabbi Feldman's understanding, was a religion suitable for Jewish Americans. (I speculate that having grown up in an immigrant family he was intent upon becoming a full fledged American—neither any Yiddish nor too much Hebrew prayer fit into his self-image). Accordingly, the service was mainly in English and men were bareheaded, including my grandfather, who was asked to remove his summer straw hat. Rabbi Mayer graciously acceded to his host’s preferences although he, fluent in French, Italian, and Yiddish, quite aside from English and Hebrew, would have preferred more of the latter. By the time that Rabbi Feldman retired in 1969, Beth Israel, together with the rest of Reform Judaism, was moving toward a more traditional service. It was no longer thought "old country" to pray and sing in Hebrew. Each man could cover his head or not as he thought best. A woman's voice was welcome whether speaking or singing on the bima. It was as Jewish to fight for social justice as to pray on the High Holy Days. In the late 1980s, Muriel and I were among the many congregants whose view of social justice included a strong effort to encourage the USSR to permit Jews to emigrate; we tried to extend a warm welcome here when those efforts succeeded. From 1990 to 1992 I was honored to serve as President of the Congregation. Karl Fleischmann WE LEARN. We have compelling adult learning programs, and an award-winning Religious School. But sometimes it’s nice to just find a quiet place and read. WHAT DO WE DO AT BETH ISRAEL? Throughout the year, we reach out to our congregants who are alone or in personal transition. We write notes, make phone calls, deliver meals, present a gift, or do other simple acts that bestow the welcome gift of community. We also do social justice work outside of Beth Israel with organizations such as Foodshare, Covenant to Care for Children, and the Loaves and Fishes Soup Kitchen. This past year, WHTY teens went to the Village for Families and Children and helped repair bicycles. WE REPAIR. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 7 Social Justice Notes Susan Levine M any of us get so busy in the day-to-day running of our 1. School Supplies. Did you know that many families in Hartlives. Believe me, as a mother of three small boys I get ford have to decide between school supplies and food? Help it! Kids need help with their homework. We spend them make their choices a little easier. Take a moment and leave time traveling to more and more of their sporting events. Jobs any school supply item—a notebook, a box of pencils, a new or become more and more demanding. Elderly parents need more used backpack, whatever you can spare in the donation hamper of our support and assistance. So, how do we find time for our in the front lobby. If you like, you can also leave school supplies Jewish obligation to repair the world? For tikkun olam? Maybe in any of our clothing donation bins in the rear of the lobby. the answer is, that like all big and seemingly overwhelming Every month Ed Siegel and I deliver your clothing dotasks, to take small steps. nations to United Methodist Church down the street. As Gandhi so aptly said, “be the change you wish to see Your donations go directly to needy families in our in the world.” Start taking even the smallest of neighborhood and are distributed daily. 2. Food donations. The food donations you leave steps. As a physician, I am constantly reminded in the front lobby trunk or on the tzedakah table how fragile life is. This, coupled with the loss of loved ones over the years, has made me realize the go to the Foodshare Mobile Truck, which stops in need to live my life in the here and now. I try to front of our Temple each week. Your donations help at least one hundred families in our immedido what is important to me and try to share my priorities with my kids. Sure, sometimes (often) ate community. The food of the month is adverthey are more interested in their Xbox; and so, tised each week on the table. Any non-perishable items, however, will be accepted.Thank You! I worry: will they grow up to be the caring and 3.Diapers. We continue to deliver your docompassionate people I want them to be? Who “Be the change you want to nations through Covenant for Care. Just leave knows? But I can hope that by sharing my own see in the world” diapers or baby or toddler items in the crib in the priorities with them, something has to wear off. Mahatma Gandhi So many of you do such wonderful and caring back lobby. If the crib is empty it is because we things in our community everyday. We are so have delivered the latest donation. We check the blessed at Congregation Beth Israel, to have you in our midst, crib often and empty it as soon as it starts to fill up. If there social workers, teachers, rabbis, artists, doctors, nurses, lawyers, are items in the crib that are more appropriate for our other volunteers. The list of who you are and what you do is seem- donation recipients, we’ll sort it out. Summer is a time when ingly endless. I am constantly amazed when I meet someone the diaper donations tend to dwindle. However, there is a who’s been a member for a while and I learn what drives them tremendous and ongoing need. This program is an amazing to do what they do. Please tell me your stories, introduce way to get priority baby supplies directly to the most needy yourselves, and come and join our Social Justice Committee. of families in our community. We work directly with a social There is absolutely nothing required of membership—just an worker at DCF and these supplies go to the case worker’s most needy families. opportunity to network with some really special people. Here’s an idea and something I’m trying at home. Each Lastly, thank you to all those involved in our final and comShabbat, make a family plan to share what you’ve done in the plete transition to serving only fair trade coffee at Congregation week to help someone else. I think you might be surprised Beth Israel. It’s a small step; but, as I said in the beginning, it about what you hear. I’ll keep you posted and let you know is these small steps, one at a time, that lead to making a bighow our own family experiment goes. ger dent on tikkun olam. If you are wondering what fair trade In the meantime, we need your help with a couple of priority means visit www.fairtradefederation.org, or take a look at the social justice initiatives throughout the remainder of the summer. large poster on display at Torah study or in the lobby. • Social Justice Co-chairs: Susan Levine, [email protected] and Andy Packer, [email protected] Thank you so much, Roberta Tansman and Jane Zande, for helping to get our June 13 Global Health program organized and advertised. It was a wonderful and interactive evening. In addition to hearing from Dr. Adam Silverman about his work with Project Medishare in Haiti, and Dr. Susan Levine’s work with International Medical Corps in Libya, we also heard from our own Dr. Mark Gerber and Dr. Todd Mailly about their fascinating and ongoing efforts. Mark has started a global health company that is utilizing information technology in rural Papua New Guinea. Todd has an ongoing commitment thru Partners in Health to help educate future Haitian surgeons. From the surrounding community we were also joined by Dr. Kevin Dieckhaus. He’s a Uconn physician with ongoing ties to Uganda and working on developing a global heath training track for our UConn medical residency. Lena Stein was also there to share with us some of her breathtaking photos from humanitarian missions to Haitian orphanages and throughout the Far East. 8 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 S.A.G.E. Schedule Dr. Robert A. Kramer Fund / Beth Israel Seniors Group S.A.G.E.: Seniors for Arts, Growth, and Education AUGUST PROGRAMS S.A.G.E. will hold two programs this month. Have a cool and restful August! AUGUST 14 11:15am Discussion with Lenore Blank 1pm Program: Forum with Rabbi Michael Pincus AUGUST 28 11:15am Discussion with Deena Sisitsky 1pm Program: Serenades for Summer featuring Wojciech Bonarowski. This fine young Polish singer was awarded a prize in the prestigious Kosciuszko Foundation Competition in 2012. He has only been in this country for a year. He will sing arias from La Traviata, Don Giovanni, and well loved songs from Kiss Me Kate, Man of La Mancha, and Street Scenes. Be sure to book early to avoid disappointment! Natasha Ulyanovsky will accompany him on piano. Schedule 10:15am: Exercise 11:15am to 12:15pm: Discussion Group—Provocative and interesting conversation on a new topic each week. 12:15pm: Light Lunch and Dessert CBI members $5; Guests $7 Reservations required for lunch! Call Libby and Julian Adler, co-chairs, 860-236-4452 by Sunday. 1pm: Guest speaker/program VOLUNTEER AND MAKE A DIFFERENCE CBI Book Group The Hartford Jewish Coalition for Literacy (HJCL) is recruiting volunteers to read one-half hour per week for the upcoming school year with kindergarten through third-grade students in Bloomfield, East Hartford, Hartford, Manchester, New Britain and West Hartford. Call 860-236-7323 (READ) or email [email protected] to learn more about our program. We will discuss Exile by Richard North Patterson, a thriller with its focus on Israel. We will discuss it on Wednesday, September 5, 7:15pm. Join us! contact Jane Zande, [email protected], 860-233-8215 x230. In the Library Rena Epstein H ere are three new books that deserve a spot on your summer reading list. All feature strong Jewish women, each with a special talent that helps shape her destiny. In The Midwife of Venice by Roberta Rich, we are introduced to Hannah Levi, a highly skilled midwife working in the Jewish ghetto of 16th century Venice. Tragedy strikes when her beloved husband Isaac is captured and enslaved. How can she get the money to secure his release? A Christian count offers her a large sum to help his wife, dying in childbirth; however the law forbids Jews to treat Christians. The offense is punishable by death, and would endanger every Jew in Venice. But how can she turn her back on a woman in need? The two other women are Holocaust survivors. Sidonia’s Thread, by Hanna Marcus, is a memoir about her mother who succeeds in America as a talented seamstress, but remains emotionally damaged by her time in Auschwitz and Dachau. No wonder it is difficult for mother and daughter to connect. But the patient, promising act of sewing ultimately does offer a way to mend their relationship. With The Lost Wife by Alyson Richman, we return to historical fiction and meet Lenka, an artistically inclined Jewish woman, who spends most of World War II in Terezin, a Nazi work camp. Her young husband heads for America; they wrongly assume each other has died. While the story of their reunion is compelling, what also grabs readers is learning about Terezin, the “model camp” showcased by Nazis in their propaganda film, The Fuhrer Gives the Jews a Town. Between 1941 and 1945, 140,000 Jews were sent there, including artists, musicians, and former army officers. But these more prominent citizens were not safeguarded as Hitler claimed. Eventually, over 120,000 died in extermination camps or from disease. However, while they lived, many of the artists made it their secret mission to “draw” the truth that remained hidden from the world. There are many more titles to choose from. Stop in the library for more ideas! • Rena is a volunteer at the Ellen Jeanne Goldfarb Community Learning Center and a teacher in Noah’s Ark. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 9 Mazel TovYasher Koach MAZEL TOV TO THE ROSENWORCELS! Brian Rosenworcel and his wife Megan Poe, MD, and daughter Jolene, welcomed the birth of twin boys Marshal Jacob and Nico Sky. They were born on June 7 and June 8 respectively. Grandparents are CBI members Willa and Elliott Rosenworcel and Peggy and Rich Poe of Columbia, Missouri. Mazel tov! Jessica Rosenworcel was nominated by President Obama to be a commissioner of the Federal Communications Commission, and was confirmed by the United States Senate. Her husband Mark Bailen and children Caroline and Emmett, as well as parents Willa and Elliott Rosenworcel and in-laws Dr. David and Helene Bailen of Newton, Massachusetts, are delighted, as are all of the CBI Community! You can read more at http://www.fcc.gov/ leadership/jessica-rosenworcel Both Brian and Jessica became B’nai Mitzvah and were confirmed at Beth Israel! Rabbi Dena Shaffer has become an aunt! Welcome Lucas James Stelzner (Hebrew: Lior ya’akov Ben shimon hayim haLevi v’Rivka). His parents are Rebecca and Jeremy Stelzner of Silver Spring, Maryland. Inna Zhitomirsky and Igor Shamshtein welcomed a baby boy, Joel, on June 7. He joins his brothers Aaron and Eitan. OUR SUMMER CAMP KIDS! We have had a record number of our children attend a summer camp sponsored by the Union for Reform Judaism. We are going to honor them at our Kabbalat Shabbat service on Friday, August 31, 6:30pm. Come and hear all of their wonderful stories and experiences! Eisner Camp Brynnen Bernstein Joshua Chachques Anna Fagin Shayna Fiedler Ashley Gelber Emma Gelber MEMBERS IN THE NEWS These are some recent “goings on” among our congregants and friends. Send them your best wishes - email [email protected], and we will forward your note. Keep up to date with this kind of info by reading our Chai Lights email newsletter every week. If you have something to share, let us know! -- [email protected], 860-233-8215. Email us ([email protected]) and we will send you the links to these articles. MAZEL TOV! Sara Chase and Elliot Stieglitz were married on June 24. Sara is the daughter of Sandy and Arnold Chase. Michelle Honor has graduated from Cornell University. She will be going to Israel on Birthright Israel. Michelle is the daughter of Barbara and Michael Honor. Rachel Cohen, the daughter of Cindy and Adam Cohen, is engaged to Nathan Cohen. Rachel is the granddaughter of Ina Fine of Enfield and CBI members Libbian and Jerry Cohen. Julie Eicher has graduated from the University of Cincinnati, College Conservatory of Music and will be joining Nashville Ballet II. Julie is the daughter of JoAnn and Douglas Eicher. Captain Benjamin Feldman, U.S. Army, and Alison Cobb were married on June 30. Ben is the son of Clare and Barry Feldman. Charlotte Berman was honored at a gala at the Governor’s Mansion for her ten years of service as a volunteer broadcaster for CRIS Radio, CT’s talking newstand for the blind and printhandicapped. Spencer Glantz and Rachel Holtzberg were married on July 1 at Beth Israel. They are the third generation of the Glantz Family to be married at CBI! Isaiah Meyer Laura Stordy Jake Zweifler Jason Miller and Rochelle Furman were married on June 10. Jason is the son of Lauri and David Miller. Crane Lake Isabella Epstein Rachel Smith, the daughter of Jane Zande and Jeff Smith, is engaged to Matthew Kerns. At our June Simcha Shabbat, Myra and Joe Panitch celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. Their family joined them in the celebration. “It was a lovely celebration, the service, the surroundings, the Beth Israel congregation is indeed a family.”— Joe Panitch Left to right, Myra, their daughter Nancy Flaggman, Joe , their daughter Carol Lipson, and their son Barry Panitch. We also celebrated a number of other anniversaries and birthdays, including the 63rd anniversary of Benjamin and Dorothy Goldfarb, and the 99th birthday of Fran Novar! 10 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 We are proud of our Beth Israel Community! SIMCHA SHABBAT Happy Birthday Ina Freifeld Benjamin S. Goldfarb-90th birthday Barbara P. Kurtz Shirley Laschever Evelyn Sandel Claudia Teitelbaum In honor of the 60th anniversary of Joe & Myra Panitch By Carol Lipson, Nancy Flaggman, & Barry Panitch Happy Anniversary Dolly & Ben Goldfarb, 63 years William & Janice Glotzer Andrea & Stanley Labinger, 50 years Rafael & Roberta Mori Frank & Joan Spector Radiy & Anna Virkerman Triple Chai Supporter Happy Anniversary Hermia S. & Arnold W. Aronson, 54 years Robert & Beth Brody Lois & Mervyn Strauss Patron Happy Anniversary Rona & Barry Gelber MAZEL TOV TO THE NEW WHTY BOARD! PresidentDavid Dobrynin Programming Vice PresidentSara Lebow Social Action Vice PresidentRebecca Schwartz Religious and Cultural Vice PresidentTeddy Monyak Membership Vice PresidentFranklin Edrich Communications Vice PresidentMikaela Costello Paul Matasovski was featured in a Hartford Courant article about Jewish Family Services. Class Act - a great article about Ben Spar, valedictorian of Farmington High School, was in the Hartford Courant. Ruth Lee Silver has been a tutor at the Hillcrest Avenue Neighborhood Outreach Center for two years. Her photo was featured in an article in West Hartford Life, “The Changing Face of West Hartford.” A sweet love story of Stan & Andrea Labinger was published in the Hartford Courant. Thank you to April Haskell and Jerry Passman and their team for organizing our Golf and Tennis Tournament. This year, it raised nearly $50,000! Thank you to all who participated! Jacque Metheny and Bob Kirschbaum participated in a group exhibition that was a survey of Connecticut sculptors. It ran May through June at A-Space Gallery in West Haven. President Jeffrey Winnick, Abby Schneider, Eric Schneider MAZEL TOV TO THE SCHNEIDERS! Eric Schneider was named Volunteer of the Year at our Annual Meeting in June. “Whether Eric is planning Purim carnivals, entertaining with balloon animals and juggling, supporting Brotherhood programs, or leading our Mitzvah Jugglers out into the community and entertain needful children, Eric is devoted to his volunteer work at Beth Israel,” said President Jeffrey Winnick. Read more about our Eric and our Annual Meeting on our website. www.cbict.org/blog/eric-schneidernamed-volunteer-of-the-year/ Abby Schneider was honored with an award for Uniquely Effective Madrichim (teen aides) by the Jewish Federation of Greater Hartford’s Commission on Jewish Education and Leadership (CJEL). Scott Myers and Cantor Pamela Siskin have also been recognized with an innovative Family Education Program Award for their program “The 9th Scroll”. Wow! Our Religious School students donated $1000 in tzedakah. This is the second year in a row that our students have raised this much money! Two checks were presented, one for $500 to Hebrew Health Care, and one for $500 to Jewish Family Services. The money was raised by the children, with the help of their families, throughout the school year. In this photo, representatives from the Religious School hold ceremonial checks that were given at a Service on Sunday, May 20. In the photo are Elizabeth Bartek of Hebrew Health Care, Rob Berman, co-chair of our Religious School Committee, Michelle Souza of Jewish Family Services, and Lauren Benthien, co-chair of our Religious School Committee. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 11 HIGH HOLY DAYS SERVICES BEGIN IN SEPTEMBER This schedule is as of July 2012. Watch the September Bulletin or our website, www.cbict.org, for updates. SELICHOT Saturday. September 8 7pm An original play written by Cantor Pamela Siskin. Actors are CBI congregants. Includes a musical interlude with Natasha Ulyanovsky on piano and Peter Dzialo on cello. See page 5. EREV ROSH HASHANAH Sunday, September 16 5:30pm Family Service 7:30pm Adult Service followed by Board-sponsored Oneg Yom Tov (light refreshments) ROSH HASHANAH Monday, September 17 8:45am Young Children’s Service 10am Traditional Service in Sanctuary 10:15am Contemporary Service in Haas Hall 5pm Community Tashlich Co-sponsored by Congregation Beth Israel, Beth David Synagogue, and the Mandell JCC Join us for light snacks (honey cake, juice, apples and honey), songs and stories in Beth David’s chapel, conducted by clergy from both congregations and facilitated by JCC staff, and concluding with the sounding of the shofar. At 5:30pm, the group will walk together to Trout Brook for tashlich, a ceremony in which we symbolically cast away our sins. SHABBAT SHUVAH Friday, September 21 6pm Young Families and Friends 7:30pm Shabbat Shuvah Evening Service Saturday, September 22 11am Shabbat Shuvah Morning Service CEMETERY VISITS Sunday, September 23 10am Cemetery in Hartford 11am Cemetery in Avon KOL NIDRE Tuesday, September 25 5:30pm Family Service 7:30pm Adult Service YOM KIPPUR Wednesday, September 26 8:45am Young Children’s Service 10am Traditional Service in Sanctuary 10:15am Contemporary Service in Haas Hall 1pm Congregants Hour 2pm Afternoon Service 4pm Yizkor Service 4pm Service for and by teenagers 5pm Neilah Service followed by Break the Fast EREV SUKKOT Sunday, September 30 5:30pm Erev Sukkot Service in the CBI Sukkah and bring your own picnic dinner SUKKOT Monday, October 1 11am Festival Service for the first day of Sukkot followed by a Kiddush CONSECRATION OF RELIGIOUS SCHOOL STUDENTS Sunday, October 7 SHEMINI ATZERET Monday, October 8 11am Festival and Yizkor Service SIMCHAT TORAH Tuesday, October 9 YIZKOR: A TIME THAT TOUCHES OUR HEARTS AND KINDLES OUR MEMORIES As the High Holy Days approach, we remember those we have loved, those who have had an impact on our lives, and those whose influences have made us the people we are today. The daylong ritual of repentance on Yom Kippur is bolstered by the memories and the goodness of those people. Yizkor closes a gate—and opens another. The gate of the years we shared is closed. The gate which leads to tomorrow is opened. Therefore, use this opportunity to list the names of the loved ones whom you wish to memorialize in The Book of Remembrance. This special service booklet will be used during Yizkor Services on Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Passover, and Shavuot. The cost is $360 per name if you would like to memorialize your loved one(s) permanently. You may also list names for one year only at $18 per name. You may pay by check (payable to Congregation Beth Israel) or credit card. Send in your information to Sarah Beck, Yizkor Book, 701 Farmington Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06119. The deadline is Friday, September 7. Contact Sarah at [email protected], 860-233-8215 x223. HIGH HOLY DAY SERVICES FOR YOUNG CHILDREN Rosh Hashanah, Monday, September 17, 8:45 AM Yom Kippur, Wednesday, September 26, 8:45 AM Introduce your preschool children to the High Holy Days through prayers, songs, and stories! These services are free and open to the public, so tell your friends! Babysitting is available at all of our Adult Services. PLEASE make advance reservations. Contact Sarah Beck, [email protected], 860-233-8215 x223 at least one week prior to the service. WHAT DO WE DO AT BETH ISRAEL? Tickets will be sent out by Monday, August 27 to all congregants in good financial standing. Contact Sarah Beck, [email protected], 860-233-8215 x223 for more information. High Holy Days: “The Next Generation” Hey CBI Teens! Don’t miss out on this awesome opportunity to experience the High Holy Days your way! On Yom Kippur afternoon (4-5pm), CBI will hold its first-ever Teen Service led for you and by you. Camp-style worship with guitar will be with Rabbi Shaffer and our songleader DJ Fortine in a relaxed setting. Learn some hip tunes and have a great discussion about what this fasting and praying stuff is all about. Then join your parents and our whole community as we say goodbye to another holiday season with our beautiful Neilah/Havdalah service in the sanctuary. If you are interested in helping design and lead this service, contact Rabbi Shaffer, [email protected]. While the young at heart are welcome, this service is targeted at CBI’s post-Bar Mitzvah youth (ages 13-18). WE CONNECT. Elaine Lowengard and Carol Dunn, who remember when we moved to this building 75 years ago, were among the honorees at a service celebrating the milestone. Photo by Lena Stein. 12 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 HIGH HOLY DAY NOTES If you know of people who are unaffiliated, and would like to join us for our High Holy Day Services, please have them contact Rabbi Michael Pincus, 860-233-8215 x228, [email protected], or Rabbi Dena Shaffer, 860-233-8215 x226, [email protected]. If CBI members wish to purchase tickets for their friends and relatives, please contact Sarah Beck, 860-2338215 x223, [email protected]. We also have a closed-circuit TV in our Chapel that provides live coverage of our High Holy Days services in the sanctuary. This is an option for anyone who wishes to drop in without reservations. The Temple Brotherhood invites adult members to help with ushering at our High Holy Days Services. We need your help. Ushers are needed at Erev Rosh Hashanah Services on Sunday, September 16, Rosh Hashanah Services on Monday, September 17, Kol Nidre Services on Tuesday, September 25, and Yom Kippur Services on Wednesday, September 26. Please contact co-chairmen Dr. Burt Schweitzer, 860-232-0441, Joe Dix, [email protected], 860-462-7857, or David Ward, 860-233-0452. All CBI members have the honor of being called to the bima to read a portion of the High Holy Days Services. Both English and Hebrew readings are available. Please contact Scott Myers, [email protected]. August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 13 Thoughtful Donations GENERAL CHARITABLE In honor of the 50th wedding anniversary CANTOR SISKIN DISCRETIONARY DR. ROBERT A. KRAMER S.A.G.E. of Judy & Jerry Elbaum In memory of Harold Goldfarb In memory of Betty Singer By Richard Elbaum By Ruth Rutt By Phyllis & Robert Cherlin In memory of my mother, In honor of Paula Schenk By Libby & Julian Adler Brucha Gershman By Sarah Reisman By friends of Helene Baker, By Yevsey Gershman Thoughtful donation Betty’s daughter In honor of Ben Ellovich’s By Dr. & Mrs. Randy Berk By Louis Belmont Bar Mitzvah In memory of Judith Perkas Stroug By Henrietta Caudale By Leigh & Greg Farber In memory of Moissel Karchov By Joanne Gideons In memory of By Vera Karchov By Helen Kostal Emil Zheleznyak In memory of Philip Rosin By Judith Sironds By Tamara Zheleznyak By Nathalie Rosin By John & Louise Kealy In memory of Philip David Rosin In appreciation of Musicale By Rosalind Hoffman By Gwen & Chet Zaslow Mitzvah performers By R. Millard Bowen By Leslie & Paul Korus By Bette Glickman By S&C Investor Relations, By Judi & Gary Weiner In memory of Betty Singer c/o Jessica Baker In memory of Peter Kamenskiy By the Singer family By Irma Schoen By Valentin & Nellya Kamenskiy CARING By Mr. & Mrs. Richard Levy In memory of Irene Weiner In appreciation By Debra Rosen In memory of Carmen Piccone By Nathan Geetter By Helene Baker By Scott & Susan Piccone CEMETERY BEAUTIFICATION By Ruth Jacobson In memory of Yefim Plopskiy In loving memory of In memory of my beloved mother, By Raisa Plopskaya Moysey Slepchenko Eva Goffman In memory of Grigoriy Mensheh By the Slepchenko Family By Phyllis Reiter By Faina & Gennadiy Mensheh DR. NATHAN LEWIS DUBIN In memory of my beloved sister, In memory of my mother, RABBINIC CHAIR Sylvia Levy Sarra Rogovaya In memory of Philip Rosin In memory of my beloved mother, In memory of my father, In memory of Alan Friedman Adelle Stolpert Moisey Rogovoy In memory of Rosalie Smith By Nathan Geetter By Yelizaveta Lurye In memory of Howard Siegel Wishing Julian Adler good health In memory of Joel Lachs In memory of Joseph Korzenik By Estelle Apatow By Wendy Ennis In memory of Vida Gellin In memory of Philip Rosin In honor of Peter, by grateful In memory of By Harriet Deutsch parents, for his new job and William Harmon Leete By Miriam Selman promotion In memory of Dee Fay By Pam Lassman By Lev & Roza Frenkel In memory of Samuel Joseloff Wishing good health to In loving memory of Betty Singer In memory of Brita Peterson Dr. Seymour Saltzman By Oscar & Miryam Birman In memory of Phyllis Pearl Fink By Katharine Lavitt By Stephanie & Phil Growick In memory of Elaine Gladstein By Libby & Julian Adler In memory of Larry Sobel In memory of Arthur Epstein In honor of Sandra Hurwit on her By Charlotte Goldstein Koskoff In memory of Bernard Waldman 85th birthday By Linda & Mike Platt By Phyllis & Sherman Katz In memory of Barbara Wallack By Jason Kane st In honor of the 101 birthday of In memory of David Weinstein By Roberta & Spencer Michels Henry Seltzer In memory of Irving “Dav” Levine By Leshem Family Wishing a speedy recovery to In memory of Lewis Sheketoff In memory of Sheyna Miriam Selman In memory of David Brewer Gorkhovskaya Wishing a speedy recovery to In honor of the birth of a By her daughters, Faina, Meri, & Sybil Goldman granddaughter to Larisa By Doris Toubman Natasha & Phil Ulyanovsky In honor of the conversion of In memory of Nathan Schwartz In honor of the birth of a Sue Fulleton By Jean & Ed Hotez granddaughter to By Judy & David Rosenthal In memory of Lillian Freifeld Marilyn & Michael Ratner In memory of Michael Podolsky In honor of Hugh Greenberg, with By Ina & Marvin Freifeld By Raisa Margolin Birthday wishes to Bea Alderman wishes for his good health and In memory of Peisach Ratner congratulations for being honored Birthday wishes to Ed Kane By Zimel & Nella Livshits by the Detroit Jewish Community By Ruth Solomkin In memory of Gerald McNamara Best wishes to Jane Zande and Center By Bob Rudin Wishing Leonard Greenberg good Jeff Smith on their daughter’s In memory of beloved mother, engagement health and long life Malcu Strulovichi By Libby & Julian Adler By Renee Dubin By Oscar & Miryam Birman FRIENDS OF THE LIBRARY In memory of Beth Lerman Becker Linda & Henry Cohn By Robert & Ellen Lerman 14 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 In honor of the Bat Mitzvah of Emily Burstein By Bette Glickman In honor of the 50th wedding anniversary of Sylvia & Arnold Cantor By Cynthia Saffer In memory of Irving Spector By Frank Spector In memory of Selma Berman By Harriet Scharf In memory of my mother, Bala Zheleznyak By Tamara Zheleznyak GENERATIONS In memory of Albert Lewis In memory of Arthur M. Lewis By Elaine F. Lewis LAWRENCE DAVIDSON FAMILY MEMORIAL TORAH COVER In memory of Lawrence J. Davidson By Adrienne & Diana Davidson LEGACY FOR OUR FUTURE In memory of Sydney Glickman By Bette Glickman In memory of Dr. Norman Levin, brother of TJ Levin By Bennett & Libby Pearl In memory of Isadore Glotzer, father of William B. Glotzer In memory of Marcus I. Franklin, father of Janice F. Glotzer By William & Janice Glotzer In honor of the engagement of Jane Zande & Jeff Smith’s daughter In honor of the engagement of Jerry & Libbian Cohen’s granddaughter, Rachel By Bette Glickman In memory of Murray Grant, husband of Marilyn Grant and brother of Jason Grant By Barbara Mindel LEONARD I. MERIN SCHOLARSHIP In memory of my beloved grandfather, Karl Kaiser In memory of Inge Weineman In memory of Fred Jacobs In memory of Betty Singer In memory of Minna and Berthold Ehrlich In memory of Lillie Ehrlich In memory of Thea Ehrlich In memory of Benno & Bella Weineman In memory of Hans Ehrlich In memory of Gustav Levy By Margot Merin LIBRARY In memory of Jennie Rose Kurtz By Barbara, Norman, & Julie Kurtz In honor of the birthday of Rhoda Chase By Yvonne Goldstein In memory of my father, Morris J. Willens By Joyce Gibbons In memory of Inge Meltzer By Janice & Paul Goldschmidt In memory of Minnie Warshaw Dick By Rona & Barry Gelber In memory of Tillie T. Pearlman By Barbara, Norman, & Julie Kurtz In honor of Morton Fine’s recovery By Irene Starr In memory of Charles Grossman By Gertrude Horowitz In memory of Miriam Smith By Jane Zande & Jeffrey Smith In honor of the engagement of Rachel Smith to Matthew Kerns By Ruth Solomkin In memory of Edith Marcus, my aunt In memory of Israel G. Pessin By Marcia Kagan In memory of Ruth Tansman By Roberta Tansman In memory of Vladimir Dvorkin By Jane Fridkin MUSEUM In memory of my mother, Sarah Seidman By Hermia S. Aronson LOUIS ANTUPIT YOUTH In memory of John Ross, son of Norman Ross By Loretta & Sam Antupit MUSIC In honor of marriage of Sara Chase By June & Burt Schweitzer In memory of Dr. Norman Levin By Evelyn Sandel & Sandy Rosenberg In memory of Lee O. Franklin, mother of Janice F. Glotzer By William & Janice Glotzer In memory of Max Karlin, father of Miriam Karlin-Salvin, grandfather of Jeff Salvin and Bonnie Dluhos By Miriam Karlin Salvin In memory of my husband By Ella Oganjanov NEW AMERICANS In memory of my mother, Roza Mirochnik In memory of my father, Haim Mirochnik By Anna Virkerman In memory of my mother, Maria Molodchik In memory of my father, Bar Virkerman In memory of my brother, Arik Virkerman By Radiy Virkerman In memory of Faina Pecherer In memory of Sarah Feldman By Gusta Budyansky In memory of Khava Sekhter By Faina & Arkadiy Chernomzav In memory of my husband, Leyb Gordin By Lidiya Gordina In memory of my brother, Michail Lifchits In memory of my father. Josef Lifchits By Yakov Lifchits In memory of Anatoly Shvartz By Igor Budyansky & Inna Gurary In memory of Sofia Katz By Vladimir & Raisa Fridkin PRAYER BOOK In honor of the birth of Dr. & Mrs. Jeff Morris’ grandson, Benjamin By Bella & Judd Fink In memory of Dr. Arnold G. Pessin By his sisters, Marcia Kagan, Sandra Gersten, & Rosalyn Montlick NOAH’S ARK SCHOLARSHIP In memory of Larry Sobel By Kathy & Len Lingo RABBI FUCHS/CBI FOODSHARE TRANSPORTATION In memory of Ceil Linoff, mother of Willa By Willa & Elliott Rosenworcel RABBI PINCUS DISCRETIONARY In memory of David Haymond By Kimberly & John Haymond To celebrate the birthday of Aiden Strong, our son By Jolene & Matt Strong In memory of Max Siegel By Ed Siegel With thanks for making Nathan’s Bar Mitzvah a memorable day By Beth & Dave Dworkin In memory of Betty Singer and with appreciation By Neal Singer, Jessica & Lindsey Baker In memory of Arthur Guimond, our father & grandfather By Kathy, Kevin, & Jessica Pasternack To mark the yahrzeit of Gladys Bear By Stuart Bear In memory of Steven Sack By Marge Cohen In memory of Benjamin Reiner By Jeffrey, Michael & Eleanore Reiner In support By Stanley Fink In support By Gerald Sack To mark the yahrzeit of Shirley Spar By Ira Spar To mark the yahrzeit of Vivian Johnson, my mother By Darlene Sternberg With appreciation for your wonderful first year teaching the confirmation class with Rabbi Shaffer By Sue & Scott Piccone To mark the yahrzeit of Maxine Levi By Clare & Barry Feldman To mark the yahrzeit of Dr. Freeman Maltz, my husband By Sandra Maltz To mark the yahrzeit of Faith Fichman By Lynn & Richard Fichman To honor the special birthday of Sandy Hurwit, our mother By her children With thanks for the support & guidance during our difficult time By Nathalie Rosin In loving memory of Rita L. Freedman, my mother By Betsy Sussler With appreciation for spending time with the Bacon Academy students By Angie Parkinson In memory of Stanislov Malakhov, our husband & father By Yelena & Arkady Malakhov In memory of Birdie Lapuk & David Lapuk In memory of Sarah Lapuk & Seymour Lapuk By Marvin Lapuk In memory of William Blinderman, our father By Juliann Harris & family By Marjory & Adam Blinderman In memory of Phoebe Feinstein, mother of Barbara Roth By Rebecca & Martin Gould To mark the yahrzeit of Bertha & Louis Mostow, our parents By Sandra & Eugene Flaxman To mark the yahrzeit of Edward Goldman, my father By Barbara Werner Thank you for the caring tribute at the unveiling ceremony of Zelda & David Katzin, our parents By Jenna & Alan Lash, Sally & Jon Kline To celebrate the birthday of Yvonne Goldstein By Susan, Lea, Piper & John Darley To celebrate the Summa Cum Laude Masters Degree graduation of Sandra Chase By June & Burt Schweitzer In memory of Gerald McNamara To mark the yahrzeit of Julia Haupt By Roberta & Rafael Mori In memory of Frimi Fine By Aliha & David Fine In memory of Sylvia L. Zietz, beloved mother In memory of Leah Zietz & Beatrice Levin, beloved grandmothers By Judy & Ed Siegel and family To celebrate the birth of Joel Shamshtein, our son By Inna Zhitomirsky & Igor Shamshtein Thanks for helping with the Sisterhood/Brotherhood Shabbat Service By Carmen Holzman In memory of George Logemann By Bernice Schaefer With thanks for the warm & meaningful service for Alexander Haas, our father By Leslie Silverman & family RABBI SHAFFER DISCRETIONARY To mark the yahrzeit of Mendel Chatzek, my father By Merton Honeyman With appreciation for your wonderful first year teaching the confirmation class with Rabbi Pincus By Sue & Scott Piccone In honor of your wonderful first year at CBI By Barbara & Mike Honor Sisterhood appreciates your presence By Carmen Holzman In memory of Arthur Guimond, our father & grandfather By Kathy, Kevin & Jessica Pasternack REBECCA K. AND WILLIAM H. ROSENFELD RELIGIOUS SCHOOL In memory of Rebecca Kemler Rosenfeld In memory of Bernice Kemler Wise By Jacqueline Rosenfeld Werner SOCIAL JUSTICE In honor of Jim Friedman By Adam & Cindy Cohen By Janice Glass By Bette Glickman In memory of Sydney Glickman In memory of Sonia Dantzig In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Nathan Dworkin By Bette Glickman In memory of my mother, Lily B. Gabrielson In memory of my grandfather, Max Baran By Carol G. Fine In honor of Jeff Smith on his election as President of the Brotherhood By Jim & Dianne Friedman ROBERT ALAN FALK MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP In honor of Ron Bernstein’s 80th birthday In honor of Mr. & Mrs. Stephen Weisenberg’s 50th wedding anniversary In honor of Jay Clott’s special milestones By Helen & Howard Falk YOUTH In memory of my father, Samuel Aronson By Hon. Arnold W. Aronson August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 15 JOURNEY ONWARD August 2012 Students in the 2011/2012 8th grade Journey Onward Program: Carrie Shaw J ourney Onward is a unique program for 8th and 9th graders whose two–year journey fills in the gap years between their Bar/Bat Mitvah year and their Confirmation year. Students get together on Sundays from 10-11:30am. My goals for Journey Onward are to keep these teenagers together as a cohesive social group, to maintain their connections to the synagogue, to provide a safe environment for them to voice their opinions, to ask their questions, and to raise awareness of their Jewish perspective in daily living. This year we participated in the following projects: • We cooked and served the homeless at the Immaculate Shelter in Hartford. • We picked apples and donated them to Foodshare and the Interval House. • We participated in the temple art project and designed panels for the Sukkah. • We baked apple crisp for the McKinney Shelter. • We volunteered on Martin Luther King’s Day at the Foodshare warehouse. • We learned “Jew-Do” with Rabbi Shaffer. • We donated items and boxed them up to be sent overseas to the soldiers. • We went to Chabad and made matzah for Passover. These are only a few of the exciting things we did this year! Through these projects, my class came together and understood their individual need to make their community a better place to live. They helped those in need and by the end of the year I found my students gaining confidence and strength in themselves, in their community and in one another! Sophia Altimari Noah Badner Justin Benbrook Alex Benthien Sydney Buckner Hayley Eicher Jenna Gershman Jacob Ginden Jake Gothers Sydney Lyons Julia Monyak Zac Margolis av • elul 5772 It is nurturing and sustaining to interact with nature, for Judaism’s roots are in nature. Our Summer Erev Shabbat Services on Friday evenings, held in our beautiful Silver Courtyard, are perfect times to remind us of our connection to the environment and to help us find a path for spiritual growth. As one congregant has said, “Come get your ‘spiritual shot.’ “ Please dress casually. sun mon tues wed 1 thurs 2 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm JewDo 3 4 7 8 9 10 11 Carrie Shaw will continue teaching this class as the students move to 9th grade. Jeff Smith taught the current 9th graders, and they are moving on to Confirmation. The new 8th grade class will be led by Debra Sheridan. PROJECT JOSHUA UPDATE T he sacred work of the Long Term Planning Committee continues. We have held more than a dozen focus groups, received email surveys, made numerous phone calls, and met Congregants one-on-one. And every committee meeting and every focus group began with this prayer. We come together in God’s name, prepared to do our Creator’s will. May God’s presence dwell among us to serve our holy congregation with insight, harmony, and love. May we listen to each other with respect, and respond to each other with wisdom and generosity. May our controversies not rise up from ambition and self-seeking, but rather for the sake of heaven. May our eyes be open to the needs of our congregants in the decisions we make and in the deeds we perform. Through our commitment to the Jewish tradition, may the cause of goodness prosper in the world. May God’s favor be upon us, supporting us in the work we do. Amen So far, more than 150 Congregants have participated. We have heard from representatives concerned about Social Justice, Learning, and Spiritual Expression. Sisterhood, Brotherhood, Board of Trustees, Past Presidents, every committee, every age group from parents of Religious School students to S.A.G.E. members have spoken up. The Long Term Planning Committee has begun analyzing the data. We asked our congregants: What are the two or three most significant changes that you’d like to see in the congregation during the course of the next few year? What obstacles might prevent such changes from occurring? What is one reason why you remain a member of Congregation Beth Israel? We received hundreds of answers. Some were unique. Many supported trends among congregants. And some were total surprises. However, regardless of the group, two truths are universal. Our congregants are passionate about Congregation Beth Israel and they are committed to seeing it survive as a place to make Jewish connections for generations to come. We end each Committee Meeting and every focus group with the following prayer: The Long Term Planning Committee is drafting the plan, but it is not too late to be heard. If you haven’t yet contributed your thoughts, please go to the link on the homepage of our website, www.cbct.org (scroll to the bottom), and fill out the short survey. 6:30pm Shabbat service (outdoors, weather permitting) followed by Bring-Your-Own-And-Let’sShare Picnic (There will not be an 8pm service). 9:30am Torah Study Va’etchanan 10:30am Tot Shabbat An engaging Jewish experience for your infant and preschool children! 11am Shabbat Service 5 6 12 13 5:30pm Minyan 10:15am SAGE 5:30pm Minyan 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 25 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm Minyan NO SAGE 5:30pm Minyan NO SAGE 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm Minyan 26 5pm New Member Open House Barbeque 27 10am Soup kitchen (offsite) 5:30pm Minyan 28 10:15am SAGE 5:30pm Minyan 6:30pm Ritual Committee 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm JewDo 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm JewDo 1pm Foodshare Mobile Truck 7:30pm Shabbat Service (outdoors, weather permitting) 23 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm JewDo 24 29 30 31 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm Minyan 5:30pm JewDo 9:30am Torah Study— Ekev 11am Shabbat Service 7:30pm Simcha Shabbat 9:30am Torah Study Service (outdoors, weather Re’eh permitting) 11am Shabbat Service 5:30pm Minyan Baruch Ata Adonai Eloheinu Melech Ha-Olam Asher Kidshanu B’Mitzvotav V’tzivanu La’asok B’tzar-chi Tzibur Blessed are you Adonai our God, ruler of all time and space who makes us holy through your commandments and commanded us to engage in the needs of the community. sat 5:30pm Minyan Some of our students in the 8th grade Journey Onward prepare cupcakes for residents of the Hebrew Home. Steven Rothman fri 7:30pm Shabbat Service (outdoors, weather permitting) 9:30am Torah Study Shoftim 11am Shabbat Service 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service (outdoors, weather permitting) followed by a Bring-Your-Own-And-Let’sShare Picnic. We will welcome back our children who attended Jewish summer camp. Steven Rothman is heading up the Project joshua long range planning initiative with Clare Feldman. 16 MonthlyBulletin August 2012 August 2012 MonthlyBulletin 17 Congregation Beth Israel 701 Farmington Avenue West Hartford, CT 06119 860-233-8215 FAX: 860-523-0223 [email protected] www.cbict.org Our mission is to serve the lifelong spiritual and educational needs of our congregants, within a welcoming and caring contemporary Reform Jewish community. A Reform Congregation founded in 1843 and affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism since 1877. The Temple Bulletin is published with the kind cooperation of the Solomon and Katie Wohl Foundation. 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