Four transitional deacons to be ordained April 11 A
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Four transitional deacons to be ordained April 11 A
l o c a l n e w s Four transitional deacons to be ordained April 11 C o n s e c r a t e d L i f e A Sister of Mercy Tells Her Story E a s t e r 2 0 1 5 The resurrection of Jesus the core of our faith f r o m O t h e b i s h o p Messengers of the Good News n the occasion of the 10th anniversary of North Carolina Catholics, I join all in our Diocese in expressing thanks to my beloved predecessor, Bishop Gossman, and his advisors for their vision in recognizing the key role the magazine would play in highlighting the vibrancy of faith within our Diocese and in the lives of God’s people throughout this local church. I am also most thankful to all who have been and remain a part of the monthly publication of our Diocesan magazine, especially our editor, Richard Reece. In a particular way, the magazine captures so many inspiring stories of how men and women of all ages and backgrounds embrace, live, celebrate and share their faith in the midst of the daily challenges and blessings of life. In this manner, the magazine has become a real tool of the “new evangelization”, a term that does not refer to new truths and revelations. Rather, the new evangelization points to the new and creative ways we as Church bring the Truth of the Gospel and our core beliefs to others. Especially during the Sacred Season of Easter, we should renew our commitment to proclaiming the joy of the Risen Lord to those around us. Modern forms of communication, such as social media, also provide an outlet of interaction that can serve as fertile ground for evangelization and bringing others closer to Jesus Christ through our personal witness. Saint John Paul II and his successors have stressed the need to use every tool and resource available to us as messengers of the Good News. It is my hope that you regularly visit our Diocesan website (DioceseofRaleigh.org) and Facebook page and that you view our YouTube channel and listen to our frequent podcasts. We hear words of gratitude from those of you who watch the weekly production of Raleigh to Rome, a video newsbrief of local and global Catholic events, as well as those who take advantage of the internet Livestream of Diocesan celebrations, including Mass at the Catholic Center. Maybe you even follow my daily Gospel reflection on Twitter (not just as a Lenten penance!). While it is essential that we utilize both traditional and social media, there is no more powerful witness in communicating, teaching and proclaiming our faith than the witness and example we offer each and every day as we strive to unite ourselves ever more closely to Christ. Thus, the key component each month in our Diocesan magazine is the story of such living witnesses. In response to reading the stories of these North Carolina Catholics, it is appropriate for us to ask: “How can I be a messenger of the Lord and His Gospel?” Such messengers are those who reflect a spirit of joy and a heart grateful for the blessings that are ours each day and who do not despair in the midst of crosses but rather find comfort in the grace God offers. Our society needs to see those who, even when challenged by others, live their faith at school, work and in the community and who are known for their great reverence and love for the Holy Eucharist. The communities in which we live are better because of those who offer their gifts and talents in sharing and teaching the faith to others in the parish community; who imitate the compassion of Christ, especially in outreach to those who need us the most; and who love and forgive one another in imitation of Jesus. More than ever our world needs such messengers of the Good News. Although we human beings will not be perfect and will not always even be successful in embracing all these qualities, the mere fact that we are striving each day to do so will be a powerful sign and witness to all those we meet. With God’s grace during this sacred season of Easter, may we not only be people who know how to use technology to communicate the Good News of the Risen Christ, but may we, in fact, live the message! – Bishop Michael F. Burbidge is the fifth Bishop of the Diocese of Raleigh NC Catholics 2 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Liturgical Calendar: Holy Thursday April 2 | Passion of the Lord April 3 | Holy Sa t a b l e o f c o n t e n t s inside this issue Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge PUBLISHER Billy Atwell From the Bishop DIRECTOR OF COMMUNICATIONS 2 Messengers of the Good News April 2015 • Vol. 12 : Issue 3 Richard Reece EDITOR IN CHIEF Consecrated Life Anjanette Wiley ADVERTISING MANAGER 9 A Sister of Mercy Tells Her Story Bishop Michael F. Burbidge Father Carlos Arce William Cardona Ryan Flood Father Marcos Leon Sofia Moyano-Kleckner Kate Turgeon Watson Anjanette Wiley Catholic Charities 10 A Chocolate Affair and Free Tax Preparation and Filing CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Lettie Banda One Faith, One People TRANSLATOR 11 S tations of the Cross prayed on Cathedral site Patrick M. O’Brien PRESIDENT/CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Elizabeth Solsburg Saint of the Month DIRECTOR OF CUSTOM PUBLISHING/ EDITORIAL DIRECTOR 12 Develop a ‘drip’ mentality Patrick Dally ART DIRECTOR The first issue of NC Catholics Magazine, April 2005. NC CathlolicsTM (USPS 715-940) is a membership publication of the Catholic Diocese of Raleigh, 7200 Stonehenge Drive, Raleigh, NC 27613. 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For reprint information or other questions regarding use of copyright material, contact NC Catholics, Catholic Diocese of Raleigh. 18 AAMEN Corner 12 Changes coming to AAMEN Corner – Father Marcos Leon From the Editor 13 T en Years of NCC – Richard Reece Pope Watch Give the gift of NCCatholics: Order a subscription today [email protected] 30 What Pope Francis has been saying and doing recently Word on Fire The resurrection of Jesus the core of our faith e l h i s pano 30 Why Having a Heart of Gold is Not What Christianity is About C at ól i co Obispo Burbidge Caridades Católicas el hispano Católico 20 Mensajeros de las Buenas Noticias 21 Un Chocolate Affair/Preparación y Presentación de Impuestos Gratis 22 Diez Años de Católicos en Carolina del Norte La naturaleza de nuestra fe 24 ¡Gracias Papa Francisco! Ministerio Hispano 25 ConciertoOración por las Familias con la Hermana Glenda aturday April 4 | Easter Sunday April 5 | Divine Mercy Sunday April 12 | St. Martin I, pope and martyr April 13 | Third Sunday of Easter April 19 | St. Anselm, bishop and doctor of the Church April 21 l ocal new s Four transitional deacons to be ordained April 11 On Saturday, April 11, at 10 a.m. at Saint Catherine of Siena Parish in Wake Forest, Bishop Michael F. Burbidge will ordain four seminarians as transitional deacons, the penultimate step to priestly ordination. This will be the largest deacon class since Bishop Burbidge arrived in Raleigh in 2006. Here are the men who will be ordained: Timothy Ahn – Timothy Ahn, 23, is one of two children born to Min Song and Shin Jong Ahn, Mr. Ahn earned a B.A. degree in Biblical Studies from Biola University in California and a Master of Theological Studies from Duke Divinity School before studying at the Pontifical North America College in Rome. Mr. Ahn says his inspiration for the Priesthood took shape through the cumulative example of the many excellent priests serving in the Diocese of Raleigh, and through the personal influence of Monsignor John Williams, his pastor at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Raleigh. “His (Monsignor Williams’) personal holiness and his love for his parishioners have served as a compelling witness for me as to the beauty of the priestly vocation,” Mr. Ahn said. Asked what he would say to a young man who thinks he may have a vocation, Mr. Ahn said, “A priestly vocation is simply an outworking of the baptismal vocation that all Christians have received. It is the primary duty of every young man to grow in holiness, whether they are discerning a vocation to the priesthood or not. Thus it is imperative always to participate in the life of the Church devotedly and intensely – to attend Mass often, to make frequent confession, to pray with regularity – and if this is done, God will make it clear to a young man what he must do.” Philip Johnson – Philip Johnson, a member of Sacred Heart Parish in Dunn, attended Westchester Academy in High Point, NC and graduated from the United States Naval Academy. With a strong interest in history, Mr. Johnson credits his desire for priesthood to the inspiration of Fr. Thomas Frederick Price, the first native-born North Carolinian to be ordained a Catholic priest. “He traveled throughout the state in the late 19th Century in order to spread the Catholic Faith, and ministered to many of my ancestors, so I have a special devotion to ‘The Tar Heel Apostle,’” he said. Like Fr. Price, he is also devoted to Saint Bernadette of Lourdes. As one who has been diagnosed with terminal brain NC Catholics 4 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org cancer, Mr. Johnson noted that “Saint Bernadette gave us an excellent example of perseverance in the face of sickness and suffering.” A favorite Scripture passage of Mr. Johnson’s is Luke 5:4-5: “[Jesus] said to Simon: Launch out into the deep, and let down your nets for a catch. And Simon answering said to Him: Master, we have labored all the night, and have taken nothing: but at thy word I will let down the net.” “Our Lord often asks us to do things with which we are uncomfortable, and pursuing a vocation to the priesthood is no different,” Mr. Johnson said. “This passage is especially touching because it confirms that God is in control of everything and will not let us down as long as we remain faithful and trust in Him.” John Kane – John Kane’s home parish is Saint Joseph in Raleigh. He attended Saint Thomas More Academy and Belmont Abbey College before entering Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia. He cited a college friend as a particular influence in his decision to pursue Priesthood, and advised any young man who thinks he might have a vocation to continue to pray about it. Among his favorite saints are Saint Paul, for his missionary zeal, and Saint Ignatius Loyola, the founder and first Superior General of the Society of Jesus (Jesuits). His Spiritual Exercises have become the basis for an entire system of spirituality. In an interview at the March for Life in Washington DC three years ago, he spoke of attending many of the Marches growing up, and said, “I’m very pro-life, and it’s important to witness.” Michael Schuetz – Like John Kane, Michael Schuetz is a member of Saint Joseph Parish in Raleigh who attended high school at Saint Thomas More Academy. Like Timothy Ahn, he has done his seminary studies at the Pontifical North America College in Rome, as well as Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary. In addition to his parents, he also cites the encouragement of Monsignor John Williams as an important influence in discerning his vocation. Mr. Schuetz calls John 1:1 his favorite Scripture passage: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” “It is a constant reminder for me that God always is and always will be present in my life guiding me along as I discern His call in my life,” he said. He has a special devotion to Saint Thomas Aquinas. “One of the things that attracted me the most about Saint Thomas Aquinas” he said, “was his desire to increase his knowledge, especially in regards to his faith, and share it with others. So when I was being confirmed in 2006 I chose him as my patron saint because I thought he would help me in my studies.” Ss. George and St. Adalbert, bishop, and martyrs April 23 | St. Fidelis of Sigm Death of Msgr. Matthew D. Hendrick Sister Alice Walsh, SP Reverend Monsignor Matthew D. Hendrick, 63 years old, died on Friday, February 27, 2015 in Pinehurst, NC. He was born in Chicago, Illinois on July 26, 1951 to the late Phillip and Mary Hendrick. He is survived by his siblings, Michael S. Hendrick, Mary H. Duddy, Margeret H. Cole, Katheryn Hendrick, Mark G. Hendrick, Elizabeth H.Law, Martha H. Armstrong and John P. Hendrick and their families. He was preceded in death by his oldest brother, Philip S. Hendrick, Jr. Monsignor Hendrick was an alumnus of Belmont Abbey College and after discerning a vocation to the Priesthood, he entered seminary at Saint Meinrad Seminary in Saint Meinrad, Indiana and then the Pontifical College Josephinum in Columbus, OH for priestly formation. He was ordained to the Priesthood for the Diocese of Raleigh on December 6, 1985 by the Most Reverend F. Joseph Gossman at Saint Patrick Parish, Fayetteville. In the Diocese of Raleigh, Monsignor Hendrick served as Parochial Vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Durham; Parochial Vicar at Saint Patrick Parish, Fayetteville; Pastor of Saint Mark Parish, Wilmington; and Pastor of Saint Therese Parish, Wrightsville Beach. On April 11, 2006, Monsignor Hendrick was named a Prelate of Honor to His Holiness, with the title of Reverend Monsignor. He retired from active priestly ministry on May 17, 2010 and had residence at Saint Joseph of the Pines in Southern Pines. The Funeral Mass for Monsignor Hendrick was celebrated on Friday, March 6, 2015 at Saint Thomas More Catholic Church, with the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge, Principal Celebrant and the Reverend Thomas S. Tully, Homilist. Interment followed at Chapel Hill Memorial Cemetery on Legion Road in Chapel Hill. Sister of Providence Alice Walsh died Tuesday, February 24, 2015 in Mother Theodore Hall, St. Mary-ofthe-Woods, IN. She was born on April 1, 1933 in Everett, MA to Thomas Francis and Julia Jordan Walsh and was baptized Alice Mildred. Sister Alice entered the Congregation of the Sisters of Providence in 1952 and received the name Sister Julia Therese. She professed Final Vows on January 23, 1960. In her 62 years as a Sister of Providence, she ministered in schools in Illinois, Indiana, Massachusetts, Washington DC, Florida and North Carolina, where she served a year (1957-58) at Saint Patrick School in Fayetteville and four years (1965-69) at Blessed Sacrament in Burlington, three of them as principal. Retiring from teaching in 2004, she remained in Florida where her last teaching assignment was, as a volunteer in schools and parishes. She came to the motherhouse in 2011 where she continued to minister in a variety of ways, to both her sisters and the children who came for tutoring at Educational Family Services in West Terre Haute. Beginning in 2015, she dedicated herself totally to the ministry of prayer. On Sunday, January 18, Holy Infant Church in Durham held its annual “Santo Nino” Mass to celebrate an ancient tradition of Filipino Catholics, and also to benefit Pregnancy Support Services (PSS), a Christian nonprofit agency. The event, the seventeenth of its kind at Holy Infant, began with a musical procession featuring Filipino participants in colorful native dress. Worshippers offered gifts of blankets, diapers, layettes, baby bottles and other such items, which PSS will use to help those facing the challenges of unplanned pregnancies. maringen, priest and martyr April 24 | Feast of St. Mark, evangelist April 25 | Fourth Sunday of Easter April 26 | Ss. Louis Grignion de Montfort and Peter Chanel, martyr, and priests April 28 l o c a l n e w s Bishop Celebrates Ash Wednesday Mass On Ash Wednesday, February 18, 2015, hundreds of Masses were celebrated throughout the Diocese of Raleigh as Catholics began the 2015 Lenten season. Catholic Schools Week starts at Saint Raphael School with inspiration from Isaiah Austin “How many of you have a dream? How many of you dream of being a great athlete or a doctor or going to college?” Those questions were posed to the students of Saint Raphael Catholic School by former college basketball star Isaiah Austin, who told them his story to kick off Catholic Schools Week at Saint Raphael. 50 young men depart for DC, Saint Charles Seminary pilgrimage On Friday, February 20, 2015, 50 young men departed from Raleigh for a three-day pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C. and Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary in Wynnewood, Pennsylvania. Fr. Bill John Acosta-Escobar, Director of the Diocesan Office of Vocations, and Fr. Romen Acero, Assistant Principal of Spiritual Life at Cardinal Gibbons High School, led the group, which included some who are discerning a vocation to the priesthood. Deacons, wives assemble for 2015 convocation The annual Diocesan Deacon Convocation was held Saturday, February 21, 2015, at the Fallon Center of Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church in Raleigh. Permanent deacons of the Diocese and their wives began the meeting with Morning Prayer, led by Fr. James F. Garneau, V.F., Director of the Diocesan Diaconate Program, followed by a discussion with the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge and Mass, celebrated by the Bishop. NC Catholics March2015 2014| |www.DioceseofRaleigh.org www.DioceseofRaleigh.org| |www.NCCatholics.org www.NCCatholics.org 6 April Death of Father Theodore Hesburgh, CSC Holy Cross Father Theodore M. Hesburgh, who led the University of Notre Dame through a period of dramatic growth during his 35 years as president and held sway with political and civil rights leaders, died Feb. 26 at the age of 97. 40 Days of Prayer Witness to Human Life On March 19, 2014, Bishop Michael F. Burbidge joined pro-life advocates in praying the Rosary at Planned Parenthood, 1765 Dobbins Drive, Chapel Hill, NC. The prayer began the first Thursday of Lent, kicking off the 40 Days for Life Campaign in the Triangle area. Rite of Election and Call to Continuing Conversion Celebrated in Diocese On Sunday, February 22, Bishop Michael F. Burbidge celebrated the Rite of Election and Call to Continuing Conversion at Saint Thomas More Parish in Chapel Hill. Our Lady of the Rosary, Louisburg, breaks ground for a new church Our Lady of Lourdes Parish celebrates 60 years On Sunday, March 8, the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge offered Mass at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Raleigh to celebrate the parish’s 60th anniversary and to dedicate the Saint Bernadette Center. The new Center is 19,000 square feet and features a gymnasium, music classes and adult faith study classrooms. St. Catherine of Siena, virgin and doctor of the Church April 29 | St. Pius V, pope April 30 On Saturday, March 7, 2015, Bishop Burbidge celebrated the rite of blessing and groundbreaking for a new church for Our Lady of the Rosary parish in Louisburg. For details and more photos of these and other news stories, go to our Diocesan website, www.dioceseofraleigh.org. Find inspiration and information from your Diocese on YouTube www.YouTube.com/DioceseofRaleigh Evangelizing on the Air Fr. Leo Patalinghug on Food, Faith and Family Judi Paparozzi, host of “Carolina Catholic” on Wilmington Catholic Radio (WBPL), speaks about the important evangelistic role of traditional radio in a world increasingly consumed with digital technology. The host of “Savoring Our Faith” on EWTN discusses the importance food plays in salvation history, and how food can help us share our Catholic Faith. Black and African Families in Today’s Culture Host Billy Atwell sits down with Fr. Marcos Leon-Angulo, Vicar for African Ancestry, to discuss Black and African families in today’s culture. 2015 Bishop’s Annual Appeal The Gospel mandate, and an unwavering emphasis of Pope Francis, is that our love for God must be reflected in our love for one another, especially the weak and vulnerable. In response to that call, our Diocese remains fully committed to increasing our outreach to feed, clothe, educate and pray with those in most need of assistance. Plus news, insights and words from our Bishop: La Voz Catolica | A Catholic Life | Raleigh to Rome | Bishop Burbidge Homilies & Messages Search Diocese of Raleigh in iTunes to find: Bishop Burbidge NC Catholics Raleigh to Rome 8 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org A Catholic Life La Voz Catolica C o n s e c r a t e d L i f e Sr. Anne Heath talks to young sutdents at Saint Michael the Archangle School in Cary. A Sister of Mercy Tells Her Story As the Year of Consecrated Life continues, NCC will be telling the stories of some of the consecrated religious men and women in our Diocese. This month Sr. Anne Heath, RSM, tells how she came to be Sister and how her vocation has brought joy into her life. I grew up in a fairly religious family with value placed on service to others and family prayer. We often prayed the Rosary, attended daily Mass when possible and I attended Catholic school beginning with Kindergarten. I have a cousin who is a priest and was a role model for me. I met the Sisters of Mercy at age six when I attended day camp. I fell in love with them because they were so human, friendly and kind. By high school, when I got serious in thinking of entering religious life, I knew exactly where I would go. My father died when I was young and my mother raised my older brother and me to be independent and strong in our convictions. My brother and I left home on the same day leaving our mother alone for the first time since she married! He went to serve in the Army in Vietnam and I to enter the Sisters of Mercy. I taught elementary school in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and Richmond, Virginia and after I received a master’s in Pastoral Studies from Fairfield University, Connecticut, I came to Apex, North Carolina to serve as a director of religious education in August 1986. I worked with the Friars of the Atonement, and we shared our charisms and worked well together. After 14 years at St. Andrew’s in Apex, I left to obtain a master’s in social work at The Catholic University of America in Washington, DC. In 2002 I returned to Cary and began to work with Catholic Charities in the Cary Office. I love ministering in the Diocese of Raleigh and have been here more than half my religious life. Being a religious for 48 years has been a very rewarding experience and I feel blessed to share a faith journey with so many wonderful people. My pastoral experience at St. Andrew’s was rich with areas of sharing faith and being with people in both good times and sad times. The people of the Diocese of Raleigh and St. Andrew’s are an extension of my community because these are the people who love and nurture me and worship with me. Now, as a therapist with Catholic Charities, I am able to continue that journey with adults and children who seek guidance and help in everyday life. At one point in my life here, I was a foster parent with Catholic Charities and cared for newborns awaiting adoption. I must say that experience gave me a new perspective on family life that I never would have imagined. I continued that experience later after Catholic Charities no longer had that need and I cared for 79 babies over 16 years. I feel blessed to have been able to provide love and care to God’s smallest creations. I learned a great deal during those years and gained a newfound respect for parents. I believe my joy comes from being with others, whether I was teaching them in elementary school, guiding them in faith formation or now serving as a therapist. I feel God’s love through each person I meet, and I feel honored to have worked with and known them. That is my joy and that alone keeps me going. I see the face of God in each person. God called and I listened! I count each day as a blessing. My mother joyfully sent me off to the Sisters of Mercy and I am so grateful for her support and encouragement. I hope that I am living the life that God called me to live with joy. Sisters of Mercy of the Americas Foundress: Catherine McAuley Year and place founded: 1861, Dublin, Ireland When did the order come to the Diocese of Raleigh: 1983 - 1984 Charism: Union and charity and service to the poor Feast Days: December 12 (Foundation day); September 24 (Feast of Our Lady of Mercy) and November 11 (Catherine’s anniversary of death) For additional information: www.sistersofmercy.org C a t h o l i c C h a r i t i e s T A Chocolate Affair he Catholic Charities Fayetteville Office hosted “A Chocolate Affair… to Remember” fundraiser on Thursday, January 29th. Guests were invited to the beautiful Skyview on Hay to enjoy live music, food, and a live and silent auction. This annual event raises money to support the Family Support Services program. This program provides services that help families obtain financial self-sufficiency and maintain proper health and safety. Fayetteville Regional Director Wanda Collazo describes these services as “teaching a man to fish rather than simply giving a man a fish.” This year the event raised $9,100 and Ms. Collazo is hopeful that “the event will continue to grow and raise more money in the future.” Various members of the community attended the event in support of the efforts of Catholic Charities. Gary Skinner, Executive Director, and Lisa Perkins, Piedmont Regional Director, attended as representatives of Catholic Charities. Fr. Steve Shott, Pastor of Saint Ann’s Catholic Church, and Fr. Jack Kelly, Saint Isidore’s Catholic Church, showed the support of the local Catholic community. Additionally, local community professionals, members of Free Tax Preparation and Filing After a cold winter, longer days and warmer weather are much anticipated parts of spring. However, spring, and more specifically April, has one feature most of us dread: filing taxes. Catholic Charities is there to help with what George Quigley, the Fayetteville Volunteer Income Tax Assistance (VITA) Site Coordinator, explains as “a very difficult process to understand which may confuse clients.” Adding to the potential confusion this year is the fact that this is the first year when the Affordable Care Act is fully implemented. This means families now need to answer questions about their minimum health coverage and determine if they need to NC Catholics other community agencies, and 15 members of the Interact Club from Cross Creek Early College who volunteer in the Fayetteville office also attended. The evening saw over 140 individuals in attendance. Ms. Collazo expressed that she was “very appreciative of everyone who supported the event.” The money raised at this event will help Catholic Charities staff continue to serve the community. pay the shared responsibility penalty. To help with this complicated process, Catholic Charities offers free tax preparation filing services to families and individuals whose annual income is under $52,000. Last year 204 individuals were assisted with preparing their taxes. The average income for these families was $17,924. Clients are assisted by Catholic Charities staff and volunteers from February through April at either the Catholic Charities office in Fayetteville or at Centro para Familias Hispanas in Raleigh. Families schedule appointments with staff on an individual basis at both locations which are official VITA sites. The ability to schedule appointments is unique to Catholic Charities; in other agencies, families are required to wait in line until they are served. There are typically 8 – 10 volunteers at each service site who assist families. Training for volunteers begins in December and they are certified using online modules which ensure that they are able to properly assist clients. George Quigley explains the important role volunteers 10 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org George Quigley working diligently as a VITA volunteer. play: “Without dedicated volunteers who can establish a rapport with people you are not going to be successful, and that is what our volunteers have done. We get testimony to that by how many return customers we see.” Clients typically work with a staff member for about an hour to complete the appropriate forms, which is when they develop such strong relationships with the individuals. If you would like more information about tax assistance or becoming a volunteer, please contact George Quigley at 910.424.2020 in Fayetteville or David Juarez at 919.873.0094 in Raleigh. O n e Fai t h, O ne Peopl e Stations of the Cross prayed on Cathedral site On Friday, March 13, Bishop Burbidge joined more than 200 of the faithful gathered on the site of the future Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral to pray the Stations of the Cross. At each station a different ministry/cultural identity from the Diocese joined the procession, which ended in the veneration of the Cross. HolyNameCathedralNC.org @HolynameNC HolyNameCathedralRaleigh Sai nt of t he Mont h A AM E N Co rner Changes coming to AAMEN Corner Develop a ‘drip’ mentality Saint Isidore of Seville Feast day: April 4 Saint Isidore of Seville (560-636) is the Doctor of Education. He is known as the schoolmaster of the Middle Ages. He actually composed an entire encyclopedia (the first to have been composed in the medieval period) that was used as a textbook for 900 years and as a history of the world. He was the archbishop of Seville for more than 30 years, and is honored by Spain as a preserver of the Catholic faith. Saint Isidore required seminaries to be built in every diocese, wrote rules for religious orders and founded schools that taught every branch of learning. However, none of these accomplishments was necessarily foreseeable when Isidore was young. His older brother, Leander, had charge of Isidore’s education, and Isidore could never please him. Isidore eventually ran away, and it was during this self-imposed exile that Saint Isidore’s life changed forever. He was sitting near a rock one day when he noticed water dripping onto it. The drops carried no force and did not seem to affect the stone at all. However, upon closer examination, Isidore realized that the drops had, in fact worn holes into the rock over time. He resolved right then and there to keep working at his studies, with the confidence that his many small efforts would someday pay off in learning. It obviously did, as Isidore eventually became known as the greatest teacher in Spain. Along the path to holiness, we too can experience challenges and obstacles. When we suffer a setback spiritually, the temptation to quit and fall into despair can be very strong. Then there is the desire to do something great – something big. When being famous or well-known seemingly carries such value, it can be hard to perform the small, seemingly anonymous acts of holiness upon which the essential virtue of humility is constructed. To combat such dominant cultural forces, we would do well to develop a “drip” mentality – patiently showing up, persevering and doing the “work,” trusting that the Holy Spirit will ceaselessly “drip” onto our hearts of stone and transform them, slowly, quietly and without notice, into hearts of holiness. T here is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens. (Ecclesiastes 3:1) May God be praised, now and forever! The true meaning of catholicity is reflected more and more in the diverse but unified community we serve within the Diocese of Raleigh. For a long time this column has expressed our spiritual and cultural diversity as well as recounted our activities. As we are celebrating the joy of the Resurrection and look towards Pentecost, we also are joyful as a community to be expressing our new Pentecost. Beginning with the next issue of NC Catholics, our portion of the magazine will undergo a bit of a change; a welcome change from the perspective of the Office of African Ancestry Ministry and Evangelization (AAMEN). As those of you who support AAMEN know, the office serves different cultural groups: the African American community, the African communities (especially our Swahili, Igbo and French-speaking communities) and our Native American community. Our monthly article has not always had the space to reflect the rich diversity that our office supports. At times we have tried to incorporate everything in one article; but the cohesion and clarity suffered in being so condensed. But, with God’s help, that is going to improve. In the near future, we will have room to give a brief highlight for each of the groups we serve. In essence, our communities will step out of the shadows and you will be able to see their vibrancy. We continually praise God for the generosity of so many of you through the Bishop’s Annual Appeal and the Black and Indian Missions collection. Your generosity continues to assist us in our ways of evangelization and spreading the Gospel to those like you who love also to stay connected with the whole of our Diocese through this magazine. May the blessings from the Risen Christ continue to be with you and your loved ones! – Father Marcos Leon, Vicar for African Ancestry Catholics Fro m The IRA Charitable Rollover This gift option might not be law in 2015, but that should not stop parishioners from considering creative ways to use their IRAs to establish charitable gifts. Bequest of an IRA: A parishioner can take lifetime withdrawals and designate all or part of his/her remaining IRA assets to his or her parish or favorite Diocesan ministry. The best assets for parishioners to give to their children are the assets that step-up in basis at death, for example stocks and can be sold with little or no tax due. By giving an IRA to charity, a parishioner can avoid taxing heirs and her estate will benefit from an estate tax charitable deduction (if has a taxable estate). Gift of Income to Children: A parishioner can take lifetime withdrawals and transfer any unused IRA funds to create a term of years Charitable Remainder Unitrust (CRUT). Studies have shown that when and IRA is bequeathed to a child that entire IRA is liquidated in 90 days. The trust will pay the children income for up to 20 years. The children will receive income based on the CRUT rules (not the IRA withdrawal requirements) and have the potential to pay lower taxes on their payments. Under the four-tier accounting rules, once tier one ordinary income is paid from the trust, the trust may make payments from tier two taxed at capital gain rates. For a free copy of the Catholic Estate and Personal Planning Workbook please contact Ryan Flood, Director of Special Gifts for the Diocese of Raleigh, at 919.821.9774 or [email protected] 2nd Annual Pig Pickin’, Bake Sale & Open House at Catholic Parish Outreach 3:30 – 7:30 p.m., Saturday, April 18 2013 N. Raleigh Blvd., Raleigh, NC CPO food pantry invites you to come out to our 2nd annual Pig Pickin’ and Open House. We will have chopped pork, potato salad, hushpuppies, brownies, and sweet tea on sale for $10 a plate. There will be a bake sale, music, and free face painting. All the proceeds will go toward providing food for our clients. Let’s “pig out” to feed more families in Raleigh. CPO is grateful to the Knights of Columbus of the Sacred Heart Cathedral Council for helping sponsor this event and for cooking the meal. Check out our website www.cporaleigh.org for more information. the Ed ito r Ten Years of NCC D o you remember where you were ten years ago? For me, that’s an easy question to answer. In April 2005, brand new to Raleigh, I was waiting anxiously to see how readers would receive the first edition of NC Catholics, our new diocesan magazine. The communications committee for the diocese had decided to call the magazine NC Catholics, with an “s,” not only to distinguish it from the NC Catholic newspaper, which had closed in February, but also to demonstrate the intended emphasis of the new publication on the people of our diocese and their stories of faith. It’s hard to believe that we have now published 100 issues of NCC. Yet we have barely begun to tell all those stories. Their importance cannot be underestimated. As I wrote in that first issue: “We are our stories. Our stories define us, as people, as friends or parents or spouses. Even as Catholics – our Catholic story begins with Scripture, and continues with all the events and people connected to our individual and collective journeys of faith. Our stories are the way we make sense of our lives.” A lot of the stories we’ve told over the years stay in my mind: two teachers from Saint Mary in Wilmington who teach the blind and disabled to surf; a young couple in Apex who help other couples to refresh their marriages and their prayer lives; a woman who recalled the fear and confusion of growing up in Nazi Germany; a group of Catholic Army wives in Fayetteville who support each other while their husbands are deployed; a Catholic Worker couple who made their home in rural Chatham County an oasis of hospitality for those in need. For this month’s cover story, we found the three people who appeared on our first cover ten years ago, and our writer, Kate Turgeon Watson, asked this question: “Where do you see yourselves ten years from now?” I’d like to hope that your Diocesan magazine will still be telling inspiring stories of people and their faith in 2025. In our first issue, Bishop F. Joseph Gossman quoted his predecessor’s words on the launch of the weekly newspaper, The North Carolina Catholic, to the 7000 Catholics in the diocese in 1946: “May God’s blessing be upon this work for the unification of the diocese, the instruction and information of the faithful, for the honor and glory of God and the salvation of souls.” May it ever be so. Thanks for your letters and emails and kind suggestions. You can reach me at 7200 Stonehenge Drive, Raleigh, NC 27613 or [email protected]. Follow the Diocese of Raleigh on NC Catholics 14 March 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org S alina Kohut doesn’t feel any different. Sure; a decade ago she was a globe-trotting newlywed and graduate student active with Young Adult Ministry. Today she’s a married mother of two. There’s less time for some of the activities she used to do. But, she laughs, she’s almost aged out of the young adult category. And she’s found new ways to stay involved. “So much time has passed, but I don’t feel any different than I was,” Mrs. Kohut, 37, said. “I look back and I’m like ‘Whoa. Did ten years pass?’” It’s the same for NC Catholics magazine. Things don’t feel any different. Ten years after its premiere issue was published in April 2005, the magazine still focuses on its original mission: to tell the stories of Catholics in our Diocese. Yes; there have been changes. Columnists rotated, the paper the magazine printed on changed and sections were repurposed. But, 10 years later, things still feel the same. To commemorate 10 years of NC Catholics, the magazine revisited three folks who were on the inaugural cover. Ten years ago they were the first of many Catholics in the Diocese of Raleigh to share their faith stories with NC Catholics. Teresa Aldahondo Ten years ago Teresa Aldahondo was an employee of the Diocese; she did consulting for the Office of Hispanic Ministry. Today she’s still a mainstay at the Catholic Center, despite her retirement. “I guess what I have been doin’ is volunteering,” she laughed, her hands busy folding a small package of tissues. Ms. Aldahondo, 70, works for the Lay Ecclesial Ministers’ Association (LEMA) and the Tribunal. She teaches the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults program (RCIA) and also volunteers in the office at her parish, Saint Michael in Cary. During the last decade she has welcomed four grandchildren. (She had one granddaughter when NC Catholics met her in 2005.) Like many in her generation, she also cared for a dying parent. She and her husband, Carlos Soto, have watched their three sons move and their lives change, as well. Her faith, she said, is a constant in her life. “My faith has grown,” she said. “You know … sometimes you go through, let’s say, the death of your father. On the other hand, you have the joy of when a grandchild gets born. Then you say goodbye to a child who is going to be in Singapore and he likes it so much he wants to stay out there forever.” For Ms. Aldahondo, who was born in Puerto Rico and moved to New York City as a girl, prayer is essential. “It’s always about prayer,” she said, adding that she starts her day with prayer and seeks out reflections and devotions as guides. She reads “The Word Among Us” in Spanish and “Give Us This Day” in English. But, for her, there’s one prayer that will always be said in Spanish, and it’s Hail Holy Queen. Her mother taught her NC Catholics 16 March 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org that prayer and they repeated it so often during her childhood in Spanish that she said she can’t memorize it in English. “It stuck,” she laughed. Ms. Aldahondo stays active by walking at the mall. She also is part of a Cary group called Seniors in Motion. “Oh, I have fun,” she said. “We dance … it’s like low-impact aerobics but really you dance to the music of the ‘50s and ‘60s. It’s not only the exercise, but some of those people have been there like 16 years. So, it’s bonding.” For her and her friends who go to Saint Michael’s parish and the class, it’s a time for them to discuss what’s happening at church. But, she says, she has friends there from all faiths and it’s a good opportunity to meet and get to know one another. When asked where she may be 10 years from now, she laughed again. “I hope to be alive,” she said. I have a 17-year-old granddaughter and I certainly would love to see her out of college and maybe happily married if that’s what she wants … so, let’s hope. I still want to be doing everything I am doing now, but maybe scale back. So, healthy and well and still enjoying my faith.” Milton Jenkins Milton Jenkins, 79, usually begins his faith story the same way. “Well, first, I am a convert,” he said while sitting on a bench in front of Cathedral School in Raleigh. He grew up Baptist, but didn’t go to church very often as a child. One place he could often be found, however, was at the playground of a Catholic church in Greenville, North Carolina. “Saint Gabriel was the only church in the area that had a playground,” he said. “And I never went to church there but we always used the playground … every day of the week. They had seesaws and swings and stuff like that.” As a young adult, he swapped the playground for yard work. And it was in his front yard that he met a seminarian who was visiting every house in the neighborhood. Mr. Jenkins remembers that the seminarian invited him to take a correspondence course on the Catholic faith. He accepted and studied for a year. “I got the nerves to walk up into the church at Mass on one Sunday morning … I enjoyed the services. And I haven’t stopped going since,” he said. Mr. Jenkins, who was about 20 at the time, was baptized inside that same church about a year later. It was a small parish, he said, and he was happy to get involved with groups such as the Legion of Mary, the Knights of Columbus and the African By Kate Turgeon Watson Ancestry Ministry and Evangelization (AAMEN.) Over the years he sponsored more folks for confirmation than he can count. Today Mr. Jenkins, a retired electronics repair technician, is still involved with his church. He and his wife, Rachel, still live in Greenville. And he’s spending a lot of his time on prayer, reflection and penance. “There is so much to read and remember. Even now,” he said. “I am learning … I read Scripture and it really enlightens me.” He also spends time learning from the series “Welcome to the Catholic Church,” a CD-ROM he uses on his computer. Mr. Jenkins seeks out quiet because he says he can think best in that environment. Ask him what he thinks his next ten years may hold and he just may give a slight chuckle and then become very serious. “When I was 16 I never expected to retire from work. I didn’t expect to be here that long. My mother was 65 when she passed away,” Mr. Jenkins said. “I tell ya, I’m trying to correct my life now because I don’t know how much longer I will be around … see, people go through life and they don’t put any emphasis on expecting to die. And the Lord says we should be prepared.” Salina Kohut Salina Kohut, 37, was born and raised Catholic. When she shared her story 10 years ago she was newly married to her husband, Matthew, whom she first met at the Newman Center while they were undergraduate students at UNC-Chapel Hill. She was active with her parish, Saint Michael’s, and busy with Young Adult Ministry retreats and Spirits & Wisdom. Early in their marriage the couple traveled quite a bit because of Matthew’s job with Lenovo. They visited Rome, Florence, Nice, Milan, Tornio, London, Prague, Sydney and cities in Iceland and Puerto Rico. They were part of a general audience with Pope Benedict at the Vatican. “We didn’t understand anything he was saying,” she laughed. “But it was very cool to see him.” The couple also saw Il Duomo di Firenze, or Florence Cathedral, as well as the Last Supper mural by Leonardo da Vinci. She had a faith-filled moment in Milan when she had one extra ticket to see the mural and thought it may go to waste because there were no individuals nearby who needed a ticket, only couples and groups. But then, she said, at the last minute a man from South America showed up at the sold-out exhibit and said he had been praying in his hotel room and felt he should come to the exhibit even without a ticket. “He was so shocked and surprised that we would just give him a ticket,” she said. “That was neat … interesting to see how we were there at that moment and we didn’t know how that ticket was going to be used and it was that man who said, ‘I was just praying I would be able to do this.’ There we were from part way across the world and he’s from the other side. And we all shared this moment.” Today the traveling has slowed down a bit. And Ms. Kohut can often be found in a new home in Cary with Matthew and their two children -Sydney, 2, and Zachary, 8 months. Inside their home are two cockatiels (Mr. Katie and Annabelle), and more than 20 species of birds fly through the backyard seeking the family’s birdfeeders. Mrs. Kohut holds a Master’s Degree in Fisheries and Wild Life Science and enjoys working with wildlife rehabilitation groups. Still a parishioner at Saint Michael’s, she isn’t involved with young adult ministry but can be found organizing the annual Holiday Craft Fair to benefit the Jesse Tree (which gives Christmas gifts to children in need), Saint Mike’s Bikes (which refurbishes bicycles) and the Gabriel Project (which assists pregnant women in crisis). In her life, she says prayer is central. “People say all the time, ‘Let go and let God,’” she said. “There have been ups and downs. I think my faith has changed somewhat … deeper in some ways. I pray more often now that I have children.” Best Read? We asked the editor, Rich Reece, “Which cover story garnered the most comments and attention?” “There have been a few,” he said, “but ‘We Never Stopped Trusting’ (October 2011) interested many readers. It was about a couple expecting triplets. They were advised to sacrifice one of the babies in the womb for the safety of the others. They didn’t take the advice and had three beautiful girls. I think the story had a lot of drama, a strong example of faith and, of course, a positive outcome.” Holy Thursday During the Mass of the Lord’s Supper, we remember Jesus’ last meal with his disciples in a powerful way, re-enacting even the washing of feet. Did you ever notice that Holy Thursday’s celebration of the Lord’s Supper does not really end? There’s no conclusion to it. Without a blessing and dismissal, we process the Blessed Sacrament to a chapel of repose and stay there in prayer and adoration, just as the apostles were asked to do in the Garden of Gethsemane. The doors of the tabernacle in the church stand open, so everyone can see that it is empty. The sanctuary lamp is extinguished. Good Friday The resurrection of Jesus THE CORE OF OUR FAITH T he resurrection of Jesus from the dead is the bedrock fact of our faith. It is the heart of the Good News about Jesus. The Easter triduum, which marks the end of Lent, begins at the evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper and spans three days – Good Friday, Holy Saturday and Easter Sunday. Although it spans three days, it is one event. The triduum is not really three liturgies, it is one long liturgy, with some rest breaks. One celebrates the three days not just by attending Holy Thursday’s celebration of the Lord’s Supper, or by attending Good Friday’s liturgy (which is not a Mass), or by simply going to the Easter Vigil liturgy. No, one celebrates the triduum by attending all three of those services. It’s all one liturgy! Everything in the Old Testament flows toward these three days, and everything in the New Testament flows from them. They are the core matrix of all that is Christian. The Christian Bible comes from them – the Church, the sacraments, the Mass and the priesthood. Let’s take a closer look at the Easter triduum liturgy: On Good Friday, there is no Mass anywhere in the universal Church. We can participate in a variety of services by which we remember Jesus’ suffering and death on the cross. Churches offer the Stations of the Cross, the Liturgy of Good Friday and sometimes a Tenebrae service. During the Good Friday liturgy, we listen to a dramatic reading of the Passion, venerate the cross with a touch or kiss and receive Communion from reserved consecrated hosts. Again, we depart in silence. If the parish has a Tenebrae “darkness” service, it is held at night. The seven last words of Jesus are spoken, with a candle extinguished at each one. It is a powerful and moving experience of the need for the light. Easter Vigil The most beautiful Mass of the entire year occurs on Holy Saturday night, at the Easter Vigil. The Mass begins after dark with the blessing of new fire, the lighting of the paschal candle and a candlelit procession into the darkened church. The Exultet, a history of salvation, is chanted and we listen to readings from the Old and New Testaments that reflect that history. There may be as many as nine readings, followed by the first singing of the Gloria since the beginning of Lent. The Easter Vigil includes the baptism, confirmation and first Communion of catechumens who have been preparing for this day for months. We welcome them into our community and celebrate their presence among us. Although the Easter Vigil can be quite By Sister Janet Schaeffler, OP, and Father Charles Irvin long, it is truly worth spending the time – it is a rich experience of the resurrection of the Lord. And for the first time since Ash Wednesday, we sing Alleluia! Light has triumphed over darkness, God has brought life out of death and we are enabled to overcome evil with good. God is victorious over all that would tear us away from him. The Paschal Mystery These three great days are grounded in the paschal mystery. Our word “paschal” comes from the Jewish word Pesach, the “passing over,” or Passover. God is faithful to his covenant and, as Christians, we believe he has fulfilled his promises. Christ, the mystical lamb, joined us into himself and brings us with him in his triumph over death into eternal life. He now takes us back to our Father in heaven. Finally, having over these three days entered into Christ’s Passover, we are sent forth to bring its power into our world. Water (baptism) and blood (the Eucharist) flowed from Christ’s pierced side when he was sacrificed on the altar of the cross. His life flows out into us now in his Church’s sacraments. God “passes over” our sins because we are justified in Christ’s merciful and sacrificial “Passover.” Truly, we are saved by the blood of the Lamb of God. For our Jewish brothers and sisters, the Passover is a celebration of freedom. In the Passover, God freed them from slavery, their bondage under Pharaoh, and brought them out of the desert to Mount Sinai. Through Moses, he gave them, in the Ten Commandments, the freedom to do good – no longer held in the bondage of evil. He thereupon led them into the Promised Land. God is always faithful to his covenant. Christians believe he has fulfilled his promises in Christ’s coming – joining us all into Christ, overcoming death – and bringing us through him, with him and in him into eternal life. The triduum is the core of the matrix of everything that is Christian. Every celebration of the Mass is a recapitulation of all that Christ accomplished in the paschal mystery, which is why we refer to it as the holy sacrifice of the Mass. PALM WEAVING What do you do with the fronds you bring home from Palm Sunday Mass? Place them on a dresser or tuck them behind a crucifix, perhaps? This year, why not try something different, something more creative? Here’s a simple cross pattern that is fun for the whole family. 1 Take a palm frond about one inch wide and 13 inches long. Hold it horizontally. 2 Bend the right end straight up from the center to form a right angle. 3 Fold this same top strip, from the center, back and down, up and over again, to form a square at the back. It will still be a right angle at this point. 4 Bring the left strip forward and fold over the center toward the right. Fold away from you and thread through the square at the back, all the way. 5 Bend the top strip forward and thread the end through the center square to make a shaft of desired length. 6 Fold left strip backward and thread through the back square. This makes the left crossbar and should be in proportion to the shaft. 7 Fold the right strip back to form the right crossbar and thread through the back square to secure. Cut a “V” into the base of the shaft for a dovetail effect, if desired. The finished cross should measure approximately 2 inches wide by 3 inches high. – Patricia Majher Q&A TOP 3 QUESTIONS ABOUT THE RESURRECTION What is the significance of eating? In the shore-side meeting in Galilee, Jesus eats fish with his disciples. Jesus also eats with the disciples after he appears on the road to Emmaus, and at least one other time. When the Word became flesh, people couldn’t believe he was God. Now that he is risen, it is tremendously important that people remember that he is human. His eating food is a way of affirming the Incarnation. The resurrection doesn’t mean that Jesus finally went back to being God again. He never ceased being God. And he never ceases being human. Eating is a simple action – very ordinary. We who are witnesses to the risen Lord have to look for his presence in the ordinariness of our own lives. Why does the risen Lord still bear the marks of the wounds? Life is a continuum. Resurrected life is not something completely separated from this life, For Christ, the wounds caused by the nails and the spear became emblems of victory. Our sufferings will continue to have meaning, too, for all eternity. Why don’t we encounter the risen Lord more often? In one of the Gospels, the women come to the tomb and find an angel sitting there who asks them, “Why do you seek the living among the dead?” The same question might be addressed to us. Perhaps we don’t look for the risen Lord in the right places. We think that the less human we become, the more like God we become. That the more “celestial” we try to be, the closer to God we will get. We do more looking than doing. Perhaps we don’t look with faith. God is in the small moments, the ordinary moments and actions of everyday life – if we but just look with faith and recognize. O bi spo Bur bi dge Mensajeros de las Buenas Noticias C on motivo del décimo aniversario de North Carolina Catholics, me uno a todos en nuestra Diócesis para expresar agradecimiento a mi querido predecesor, el Obispo Gossman y a sus asesores por su visión al reconocer el papel clave que juega la revista al poner de relieve la vitalidad de la fe dentro de nuestra diócesis y en las vidas del pueblo de Dios, a través de esta Iglesia local. También estoy agradecido con todos los que fueron y siguen siendo parte de esta publicación mensual de nuestra revista Diocesana, especialmente nuestro editor, Richard Reece. De manera especial, la revista captura tantas historias inspiradoras de cómo hombres y mujeres de todas las edades y experiencias abrazan, viven, celebran y comparten su fe en medio de los retos diarios y bendiciones en la vida. De esta manera, la revista se ha convertido en una verdadera herramienta de la “nueva evangelización”, un término que no hace referencia a nuevas verdades y revelaciones. Más bien, la nueva evangelización apunta a las formas nuevas y creativas que la Iglesia presenta a los demás, la Verdad del Evangelio y nuestras convicciones. Especialmente durante el Tiempo Sagrado de Pascua, debemos renovar nuestro compromiso al proclamar la alegría del Señor Resucitado a aquellos que nos rodean. Las formas modernas de comunicación, tales como los medios de comunicación social, también proporcionan una salida de interacción que puede servir como tierra fértil para la evangelización y llevar a otros acercarse a Cristo Jesús mediante nuestro testimonio personal. San Juan Pablo II y sus sucesores han expresado la necesidad de usar cada herramienta y recurso disponible como un mensajero de las Buenas Noticias. NC Catholics 20 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Es mi esperanza que usted visite con frecuencia nuestro sitio web Diocesano (DioceseofRaleigh.org), página de Facebook y vean nuestro YouTube y escuchen los frecuentes frecuentes podcasts. Escuchamos palabras de agradecimiento de los que semanalmente ven la producción de Raleigh to Rome, un video que muestra un noticiero breve de eventos católicos y globales, así como de aquellos que aprovechan el internet para ver el video en vivo de las celebraciones Diocesanas, incluyendo la Misa en el Centro Católico. Quizás ven mis reflexiones diarias del Evangelio en Twitter (¡no solo como penitencia de Cuaresma!). Aunque es imprescindible utilizar tanto los medios tradicionales como las redes sociales, no hay testimonio más poderoso que comunicar, enseñar y proclamar nuestra fe con el testimonio y ejemplo que ofrecemos cada día a medida que luchamos para unirnos más que nunca a Cristo. El componente clave cada mes en nuestra revista Diocesana es la historia de esos testimonios vivos. En respuesta al leer las historias de éstos Católicos de Carolina del Norte, es apropiado que nos preguntemos: “¿Cómo puedo ser un mensajero del Señor y Su Evangelio?” Los mensajeros son aquellos que reflejan un espíritu de alegría y un corazón agradecido por las bendiciones que son nuestras cada día y que no se angustian en medio de las cruces, sino que encuentran consuelo en la gracia de Dios. Nuestra sociedad necesita ver a aquéllos, que aún cuando son retados por otros, viven su fe en la escuela, en el trabajo y en la comunidad, y son conocidos por la gran reverencia y el gran amor a la Santa Eucaristía. Las comunidades en que vivimos se encuentran mejor debido a quienes ofrecen sus dones y talentos para compartir y enseñar la fe a los demás en la comunidad parroquial; a quienes son imitadores de la compasión de Cristo, especialmente al ofrecer ayuda a quienes más necesitan de nosotros; y aquellos que se aman y se perdonan unos a otros imitando a Jesús. Más que nunca, nuestro mundo necesita de estos mensajeros de las Buenas Noticias. Aunque nosotros, como seres humanos, no siempre somos perfectos y no siempre somos exitosos al abrazar todas las cualidades, pero el simple hecho de luchar cada día para hacerlo será un signo poderoso y testimonio para todos aquellos que nos encontremos en el camino. Con la gracia de Dios durante este tiempo sagrado de Pascua, que no seamos solo personas que saben cómo usar la tecnología para comunicar las Buenas Noticias de Cristo Resucitado, sino que, de hecho, ¡vivamos el mensaje! Car i d ades C at ól i cas Un Chocolate Affair L a Oficina de Caridades Católicas en Fayetteville, organizó “A Chocolate Affair… to Remeber”, para recaudar fondos, el Jueves 29 de enero. Los asistentes fueron invitados bajo una hermosa tarde en un campo de heno con música en vivo, comida y una subasta silenciosa. Este evento anual recaudó fondos para fortalecer el programa de Servicio de Apoyo Familiar. Este programa proporciona servicios que ayudan a las familias obtener una auto-suficiencia financiera y mantener una buena y segura salud. La Directora Regional de Fayetteville, Wanda Collazo, describe dichos servicios como “enseñar al hombre a ser un pescador en vez de darle el pescado”. Este año el evento recaudó $9.100 dólares, y la Sra. Collazo tiene la esperanza que “el evento continuará creciendo y recaudará más fondos en el futuro”. Varios miembros de la comunidad asistieron al evento para apoyar los esfuerzos de Caridades Católicas. Gary Skinner, Director Ejecutivo, y Lisa Perkins, Directora Regional en Piedmont, asistieron para representar a Caridades Católicas. El P. Steve Shott, Párroco de la Parroquia St. Ann y el P. Jack Kelly, de la Parroquia de St. Isidore, mostraron el apoyo de la comunidad local católica. Además, profesionales de la comunidad local, miembros de otras comunidades y 15 miembros del Interact Club de la Universidad Cross Creek Early que ayudaron en la oficina de Fayetteville, también asistieron. Más de 140 personas se dieron cita esa tarde. La Sra. Collazo expresó: “estoy muy agradecida con todas las personas que apoyaron este evento”. Los fondos recaudados ayudarán al personal de Caridades Católicas para seguir ofreciendo servicios a la comunidad. Preparación y Presentación de Impuestos Gratis Un invierno frio, días largos y un clima cálido son señales que nos avisan, que la primavera viene; sin embargo y siendo más específicos, el mes de Abril es preocupante para la mayoría de los individuos por las declaraciones de impuestos. Caridades Católicas está allí para ayudarles; por ello George Quigley, el Coordinador de VITA en Fayetteville, lo explica como “un proceso muy difícil de entender que puede confundir a los clientes”. La confusión potencial este año se lo atribuye al hecho de que este es el primer año que se implementa completamente el Affordable Care Act. Esto significa que a las familias ahora tienen que responder las preguntas sobre su cobertura médica mínima y determinar si tiene que pagar la penalidad de responsabilidad compartida. Para ayudar con este complicado proceso, Caridades Católicas ofrece servicios de preparación de impuestos a las familias y personas cuyo ingreso anual de $52.000 o menos. El año pasado, 204 individuos fueron asistidos con la preparación de impuestos y el promedio de ingreso de estas familias era de $17.924. Los clientes son asistidos por el personal de Caridades Católicas y voluntarios desde Febrero hasta Abril, ya sea en la Oficina de Cari- dades Católicas en Fayetteville o en el Centro para Familias Hispanas en Raleigh. Las familias necesitan hacer citas con el personal de manera individual en cualquiera de los locales VITA (Asistencia Voluntaria sobre los impuestos de ingresos). La capacidad de programar citas es única de Caridades Católicas, ya que en otras agencias las familias tienen que esperar en línea para ser atendidos. Típicamente hay 8 a 10 voluntarios en cada lugar de servicio que asisten a las familias. El entrenamiento para los voluntarios comienza en Diciembre y son certificados para usar módulos en línea que asegura que están capacitados para ayudar a los clientes adecuadamente. George Quigley explica la importancia del rol que juegan los voluntarios, “Sin voluntarios dedicados, que establecen una relación con la gente, no hay éxito, y eso, es lo que nuestros voluntarios han hecho. Recibimos testimonio de ello al ver cuanta gente regresa”. Normalmente, los clientes trabajan una hora con los miembros del personal para completar las formas apropiadas, y es donde desarrollan una fuerte relación con las personas. Si desea más información sobre los servicios para asistencia en impuestos o para ayudar como voluntario(a), por favor contacte a George Quigley al 910.424.2020 en Fayetteville o David Juárez al 919.873.0094 en Raleigh. e l hi spano C at ól i co original al narrar historias de los católicos en nuestra Diócesis. Claro que con algunos cambios; los columnistas han rotado, el papel imprenta de la revista y las secciones se han replanteado. Pero después de diez años, las cosas sé siguen sintiendo igual. Para conmemorar los 10 años de NC Catholics, la revista volvió a visitar tres personas que estuvieron en primera plana en la inauguración. Hace diez años fueron los primeros de muchos católicos en la Diócesis de Raleigh en compartir sus historias de fe con NC Catholics. Diez Años de Católicos en Carolina del Norte La revista continúa evangelizando con historias de fe de la gente S alina Kohut no se siente diferente. De seguro, hace una década era una estudiante trotamundos recién graduada y activa en el Ministerio de jóvenes adultos. Hoy es una madre casada con dos hijos y tiene menos tiempo para algunas actividades que solía hacer. Pero, se ríe, pronto superará la edad de joven adulto; sin embargo, encontró nuevas maneras de mantenerse involucrada. “Ha pasado tanto tiempo, pero no me siento diferente que antes”, dijo la Sra. Kohut de 37 años. “Veo el pasado y me pregunto: ‘Whoa, “¿Pasaron diez años?’” Lo mismo sucede con la revista NC Catholics; no se siente diferente. Diez años después de la publicación de la primera edición en abril del 2005, se sigue centrando en su misión NC Catholics 22 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Teresa Aldahondo Hace diez años Teresa Aldahondo fue empleada de la Diócesis; ella era consultora para la Oficina del Ministerio Hispano. Hoy día, a pesar de su retiro, sigue siendo un apoyo en el Centro Católico. “Creo que es voluntariado lo que he estado haciendo”, se ríe, y sus manos ocupadas doblando un pequeño paquete de toallitas. La Sra. Aldahondo, de 70 años, trabaja para la Asociaciones Laicales y Movimientos Eclesiales (LEMA – por sus siglas en inglés) y el Tribunal. Enseña Rito de Iniciación Cristiana para Adultos (RICA) y también ayuda en la oficina en su parroquia St. Michael en Cary. En la última década se convirtió en abuela de cuatro nietos. (Tenía una nieta cuando NC Catholics la entrevistó en el 2005.) Igual que tantos de su generación, también atendió a uno de sus padres cuando éste se encontraba en agonía. Ella y su esposo, Carlos Soto, vieron mudarse a sus tres hijos, y sus vidas cambiaron. Su fe, compartió ella, es constante en su vida. “Mi fe ha crecido”, dijo ella. “Sabes…a veces pasas por, vamos a decir, la muerte de tu padre; pero por otro lado estás alegre por el nacimiento de tu nieto. Después la despedida de un hijo que viaja a Singapur y le gusta tanto que decide permanecer allá”. Para la Sra. Aldahondo, que nació en Puerto Rico y se mudó a la Ciudad de New York cuando era niña, la oración es esencial. “Se trata de la oración”, compartió ella, añadiendo que ella comienza su día con la oración, busca reflexiones y devociones para guiarse. Ella lee “La Palabra Entre Nosotros” en español y “Give Us This Day” en Inglés. Pero para ella, hay una oración que siempre la hace en español, Dios te Salve. En su crecimiento, su madre le enseñó esa oración y lo repetían en español tantas veces que no logró memorizar la oración en inglés. “Se me quedó grabada la oración en español”, comparte riéndose”. La Sra. Aldahondo camina en el centro comercial para mantenerse activa. Forma parte del grupo llamado Seniors in Motion en Cary. “Oh, me divierto mucho”, comenta ella. “Bailamos…es como los ejercicios aeróbicos de bajo impacto, pero en realidad bailas al ritmo de la música de los 50’s y 60’s. No es sólo el ejercicio, algunas personas han estado asistiendo por 16 años; así que es el vínculo”. Para ella y sus amigas pertenecientes a la parroquia Saint Michael y asistentes de la clase, es un tiempo para discutir los acontecimientos de la Iglesia. Cuenta ella que tiene amigos de diferentes creencias y es una oportunidad para compartir y conocerse. By Kate Turgeon Watson Cuando le preguntamos dónde estaría después de diez años, nuevamente se ríe. “Espero estar viva”, dijo ella. “Tengo una nieta de 17 años y me gustaría verla graduarse de la Universidad y poder verla felizmente casada, si es su deseo… así que esperemos. Quiero seguir haciendo lo que hago ahora; pero tal vez reduciendo el tiempo. Y mantenerme saludable, bien y continuar disfrutando mi fe”. Milton Jenkins Milton Jenkins, de 79 años, comienza su historia de fe de la misma manera. “Bueno, primero, soy un convertido”, dijo él sentado en una banca enfrente de la Escuela Catedral en Raleigh. Creció siendo Bautista, pero de niño no asistía a la Iglesia con frecuencia. El lugar donde se encontraba con frecuencia era en el patio de la Iglesia Católica en Greenville, Carolina del Norte. “San Gabriel fue la única Iglesia en el área que contaba con un parque”, comentó él. “Nunca fui a la Iglesia, sólo al parque… cada semana. El parque contaba con balancines, columpios y juegos por el estilo”. Cuando era joven adulto, cambió el parque por trabajo en el jardín. Fue en el jardín que conoció a un seminarista que estaba visitando las casas en el barrio. El Sr. Jenkins recuerda que el seminarista lo invitó a tomar un curso sobre la fe Católica, el cual aceptó y estudió por un año. “Tuve la valentía de entrar a Misa un Domingo en la mañana…disfruté el servicio. “Desde entonces no he dejado de asistir”, compartió. Un año después de asistir, el Sr. Jenkins, quien tenía como 20 años en el aquel entonces, fue bautizado en la misma Iglesia. Era una parroquia pequeña, dijo, y estaba feliz de participar en grupos tales como la Legión de María, los Caballeros de Colón, el Ministerio de la Herencia Africana y Evangelización (AAMEN-por sus siglas en inglés). Al paso de los años, fue apadrinando a muchas personas en la Confirmación. Hoy, el Sr. Jenkins, un jubilado técnico de reparación electrónico, sigue involucrado en su Iglesia. Él y su esposa, Rachel, siguen viviendo en Greenville. Él pasa mucho tiempo haciendo oraciones, reflexiones y penitencia. “Hay tanto que leer y recordar. Aun ahora”, dice él, “estoy aprendiendo… leo la Escritura y verdaderamente me ilumina”. También dedica tiempo para aprender de las series. El Sr. Jenkins busca el silencio porque dice que de esa manera se concentra mejor. Preguntándole qué le deviene en los próximos 10 años se comenzó a reír, pero después se puso serio. “Cuando tenía 16 nunca pensé en retirarme del trabajo. No esperaba estar tanto tiempo acá. Mi madre tenía 65 años cuando falleció”, compartió el Sr. Jenkins. “Les digo, estoy tratando de corregir mi vida ahora porque no sé cuánto tiempo más estaré aquí… vea, la gente vive sin poner énfasis en que un día llegará la muerte, el Señor dice que debemos estar preparados”. Salina Kohut Salina Kohut, de 37 años, nació y creció siendo Católica. Cuando ella compartió su historia hace 10 años estaba recién casada con su esposo, Matthew, a quien conoció en el Centro Newman cuando eran estudiantes en UNC-Chapel Hill. Era activa en su parroquia, Saint Michael, y se mantenía ocupada en el Ministerio de Jóvenes Adultos y Spirits & Wisdom. En los primeros años de casados la pareja viajó mucho debido al trabajo de Matthew con Lenovo. Visitaron Roma, Florencia, Niza, Milán, Tornio, Londres, Praga, Sydney y ciudades en Islandia y Puerto Rico. Participaron en una asamblea general con el Papa Benedicto XVI en el Vaticano. “No entendimos nada de lo que decía”, se reía ella. “Pero fue muy agradable verlo”. La pareja también fue a Il Duomo di Firenze, o Catedral de Florencia, así como al mural de la última cena de Leonardo da Vinci. Experimentó un momento lleno de fe en Milán, cuando se encontró con un boleto extra para ver el mural, pensaba no encontrar a un individuo interesado de un boleto, sólo había parejas y grupos. Pero luego, dijo ella, en el último minuto, se presentó un hombre de Sur América, en la exposición donde los boletos se habían agotado, comentando que había estado orando en su habitación de hotel y sintió la necesidad de ir a la exposición de todos modos. “Él se sorprendió cuando le entregamos el boleto”, dijo ella. “Fue bonito… interesante ver como estábamos en el momento sin saber a quién regalárselo y fue al hombre que dijo: ‘estaba orando que se me permitiera hacerlo’. Ahí estábamos de una parte de un mundo y él del otro extremo del mundo. Todos compartimos este momento”. Hoy los viajes han disminuido. La Sra. Kohut se encuentra en su nuevo hogar en Cary junto a Matthew y sus dos hijos – Sydney, 2 años y Zack, 8 meses. Dentro de su casa hay dos cacatúas (Katie y Annabelle), y más de 20 especies de aves volando por el patio buscando comida. Sra. Kohut tiene una Maestría en Gestión de Pesca y Ciencia de Vida Salvaje, y disfruta trabajar con grupos de rehabilitación de la vida silvestre. Siendo feligrés de Saint Michael, no se involucra con el ministerio de jóvenes adultos, sino organizando la Feria Anual de vocaciones artesanales, que beneficia Jesse Tree (entregando tarjetas de Navidad a los niños necesitados), Bicicletas de San Miguel (reparando las bicicletas) y Proyecto Gabriel (para asistir mujeres a embarazadas en crisis). Para su vida la oración es central. “La gente dice todo el tiempo, ‘déjalo ir y deja que Dios’”, dice ella. “Hay altas y bajas y mi fe ha cambiado algo…profundamente en cierta manera. Ahora que tengo hijos rezo más seguido. La historia más popular Le preguntamos al editor Rich Reece, “¿Qué historia obtuvo más comentarios y atención? “Ha habido algunas”, dijo él, “pero la historia, ‘Nunca dejamos de confiar’ (Edición de Octubre 2011) fue de gran interés para muchos lectores. Se trata de una pareja embarazada de trillizos. Se les pide que sacrifiquen a uno de los tres bebés por la seguridad de los otros dos. No hicieron caso y la madre dio a luz tres hermosas bebés. La historia narró mucho drama, un gran ejemplo de fe y, por supuesto, con un final positivo. Sant o del m es Desarrollando una mentalidad de constancia como el “goteo” San Isidoro de Sevilla Feast day: 04 de abril San Isidoro de Sevilla (560-636) es el Doctor en Educación. Se le conoce como el maestro de la Edad Media. El compuso toda una enciclopedia (la primera que fue compuesta en la época medieval) que fue utilizada como libro de texto por 900 años y como una historia del mundo. Él fue arzobispo de Sevilla durante más de 30 años, y es honrado por España como un preservador de la fe católica. San Isidoro requirió que se construyeran seminarios en cada diócesis, escribió reglas para las órdenes religiosas y fundó escuelas que enseñaban todas las ramas del aprendizaje. Sin embargo, ninguno de estos logros fue necesariamente previsible cuando Isidoro era joven. Su hermano mayor, Leandro, estaba a cargo de la educación de Isidoro, e Isidoro nunca le pudo complacer. Isidoro finalmente se escapó, y fue durante este exilio voluntario que la vida de San Isidoro cambió para siempre. Un día, él estaba sentado cerca de una roca, cuando se dio cuenta de que había un goteo de agua sobre ella. Las gotas no realizaron ninguna fuerza y no parecían afectar a la piedra en absoluto. Sin embargo, con un examen más detenido, Isidoro se dio cuenta de que con el tiempo las gotas habían desgastado la roca haciendo agujeros en ella. Resolvió en ese mismo momento seguir trabajando en sus estudios, con la confianza de que sus muchos pequeños esfuerzos serían algún día sus frutos en el aprendizaje. Obviamente lo logró e Isidoro llegó a ser conocido como el más grande maestro en España. A lo largo del camino de la santidad, también podemos experimentar retos y obstáculos. Cuando sufrimos un revés espiritualmente, la tentación de dejar de fumar y caer en la desesperación puede ser muy fuerte. Luego está el deseo de hacer algo grande, algo muy grande. El ser famoso o conocido pareciese tener mucho valor, y puede aún dificultar la realización de pequeños actos de santidad, aparentemente anónimos, sobre los cuáles se construye la virtud esencial de la humildad. Para combatir estas fuerzas culturales dominantes, haríamos bien en desarrollar una mentalidad de “goteo” - pacientemente perseverar y hacer el “trabajo”, confiando en que el Espíritu Santo no va a cesar el “goteo” en nuestros corazones de piedra y transformarlos, lentamente, en silencio y sin previo aviso, en corazones de santidad. NC Catholics 24 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org la naturaleza de nuestra fe ¡Gracias Papa Francisco! L o viejo siempre se resiste a lo nuevo, el mal al bien, las tinieblas a la luz. Coexisten en una permanente tensión dialéctica. Jesús lo vivió constantemente y su servidor, el Papa Francisco, lo experimenta desde muchos frentes. Bajo apariencias de una “falsa fidelidad a la Iglesia” lo atacan de variadas maneras con la hipocresía cínica de quienes no se abren a la acción del Espíritu cuya naturaleza es la inesperada irrupción porque “sopla donde quiere, escuchas su voz, pero no sabes de dónde viene ni a dónde va” (Jn 3,8). Están cerrados a todo cambio y no viven el cristianismo como un permanente camino de conversión. Añoran un modelo de Iglesia medieval centrada en el poder, los privilegios, la prepotencia y la corrupción. Insisten en seguir disfrutando de los beneficios de una institución que no refleja los valores de Jesús, sino que se ha dejado pervertir por la superficialidad, la apariencia y lo mediático. Se resisten a la vida del evangelio que consiste en su novedad radical y alegría transformantes. El Papa Francisco es un pastor que realiza el mandato que Jesús pidió a Pedro: “Confirma a tus hermanos” (Lc 22,31). Él nos ofrece la oportunidad de volver a la fuente vivificante del Espíritu para liberarnos de la “mundanización” de nuestra fe. Éste el camino que hemos de seguir para ser fieles a la Buena Nueva de Jesús en la sociedad actual. Necesitamos recuperar y reactivar el potencial liberador del Reino de Dios que es la fuente de donde brota la verdadera vida. Es imperativo que nos dejemos guiar por el Papa Francisco y replantear nuestras prioridades desde las “periferias existenciales” de la vida. Solamente desde esta perspectiva podremos sintonizar y dar respuestas a “los signos de los tiempos” que nos desafía el Concilio Vaticano II. Es urgente que como Iglesia retomemos la centralidad absoluta del Reino y ajustemos todo a su soberanía, para ser coherentes con nuestra misión. La Iglesia debe ser siempre fiel al servicio del proyecto de Jesús. La sociedad actual lo demanda y todos lo necesitamos: ¿Aceptamos el reto? – Padre Carlos N. Arce, Vicario para los Hispanos M i n i s t e r i o H i s p a n o Concierto-Oración por las Familias con la Hermana Glenda En nuestro camino de preparación hacia el VIII Encuentro Mundial de Familias a realizarse del 22 al 27 de septiembre, en la ciudad de Philadelphia, continuamos profundizando las catequesis: “El Amor es nuestra Misión, la Familia plenamente viva” a través del recurso pastoral que hemos elaborado como apoyo a la implementación de los 10 temas en los hogares y parroquias. Por ello, el Ministerio Hispano de la Diócesis de Raleigh, les hace la cordial invitación para que nos acompañen en el mes de Abril, junto con la Hermana Glenda, al conciertooración por las familias. Tema: “Familia, semilla de servicio” Fecha: Abril 18 de 2015 Lugar: Parroquia St. Thomas More 940 Carmichael Street Chapel Hill NC 27514 Hora: 7:00 p.m. a 11:00 p.m. Costo: $10.00 dólares por persona, mayores de 12 años. No contaremos con el cuidado de niños. Cupo limitado Contactos: Diácono Luis Royo Tel. 9199421040 William Cardona Celular: 9198104213 Si deseas descargar el material de trabajo correspondiente a esta actividad o las anteriores catequesis desarrolladas desde el mes de noviembre, puede hacerlo a través de las siguientes páginas: www.catolicosraleigh.org www.iglesiasdomesticas.com http://www.sepi.us/wmof.aspx dioceseofraleigh.org/worldmeeting Ven y participa junto con nosotros del gran Encuentro Mundial de Familias, a través de esta actividad de abril, o de la siguiente, a efectuarse el 9 de mayo, en la Parroquia Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe, en Newton Grove. Para mayor información comunicarse con: William Cardona-Arias Coordinator of Hispanic Family Life, Catechesis and Adult Formation Oficina: 9198219764 Celular: 9198104213 dioceseofraleigh.org Email: [email protected] facebook.com/ministeriohispanodioceseofraleigh www.iglesiasdomesticas.com Twitter:@williamyandrea 15 20 D ec . 14 N o v. 20 S. Olson AR R IA G E – theology 101 YE AR FO R M Doug Culp is the CAO and secretary for pastoral life for the Diocese of Lexington, Ky. He holds an MA in theology from Catholic Theological Union in Chicago. Definitions At its most basic, a mixed marriage is any marriage between a Catholic and a nonCatholic. In practice, however, a mixed marriage generally refers to a marriage between a Catholic and a baptized nonCatholic (a member of a church or ecclesial community not in full communion with the Catholic Church). In contrast, an inter-religious marriage is a marriage between a Catholic and a member of a non-Christian religion, such as Islam, Hinduism or Buddhism. The Code of Canon Law calls this a marriage with a disparity of cult, or a marriage between a Catholic and a non-baptized person. ©DollarPhotoClub/wlablack The ends of marriage MIXED AND INTER-RELIGIOUS MARRIAGES T he Extraordinary Synod of Bishops on the Family, held in October 2014, and the upcoming Ordinary Synod on the Family in October 2015 have made reflection on the vocation and mission of the family, both in the Church and in the modern world, very timely. Over the next year, therefore, Theology 101 will explore the Church’s teaching on many of the themes being considered by the two synods. NC Catholics 26 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org In order to understand the Church’s teaching on mixed and inter-religious marriage, it is necessary to first understand the meaning or purpose of marriage. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches the end of marriage is twofold: “the good of the spouses themselves and the transmission of life.” Further, since married couples have the mission to transmit human life, they also have the mission to educate their children. The Church’s teaching As one might guess, the Catholic Church discourages mixed marriages because of the difficulties that may arise in the relationship due to the couple not sharing the same religious beliefs. Christian disunity in the heart of the home over differences about faith and, especially, over the education of children can introduce significant tension into and put tremendous strain on the marriage. Perhaps even worse for the life of faith, the couple might be tempted to religious indifference as a way of avoiding such tension. At the same time, the catechism states that a difference of religious confession between the spouses does not represent “an insurpermission of Church authority in order mountable obstacle” to the marriage. For for the marriage to be valid. For the Cathoexample, the couple can successfully navigate lic entering into an inter-religious marthe dangerous waters of a mixed marriage riage, a dispensation is required because by focusing on what they share in common the act of marrying a non-believer actually about belief in Christ and by their willingrepresents an impediment to the validity of ness to respectfully learn from each other the marriage. how each seeks to live in fidelity to Christ. Of course, the difficulties and temptations Current concerns inherent in mixed marriages can be further aggravated in inter-religious marriages beThe topic of mixed and inter-religious cause notions of faith, marriage and worldmarriages was covered in the preparatory view can be significantly different. Consedocument, the midterm report and the quently, the Church calls for even greater final report for the Extraordinary Synod of pastoral care in the case of an inter-religious Bishops on the Family. While the bishops marriage in the hope that the pitfalls can be noted that such marriages can encouravoided and that the Catholic spouse can ful- age greater ecumenism and inter-religious fill his or her specific task as delineated in the dialogue, they were primarily concerned catechism: through about the pastoral sincere married love, challenges that often CATECHISM QUIZ the humble and accompany these patient practice of unions. The formaThe vocation and mission of the the family virtues, tion of children in family in both the Church and the and perseverance the Catholic faith, modern world is at the center of the in prayer to prepare in particular, stood Synod of Bishops. Test your own the non-believing front and center as knowledge of the Church’s teachspouse to accept the an issue. ing on the family by answering the “grace of conversion.” More specifically, following: the Vatican News The Christian family is both a Ecclesiastical reported the conspecific revelation and realization permission? versation on mixed of ecclesial communion and should and inter-religious therefore be called a(n) marriages primarThe Code of Canily arose within the on Law (1059) asserts, A. alternative church context of a debate “Even if only one B. domestic church on the Church in party is Catholic, the C. apostolic church the Middle East and marriage of CathoD. privileged church in North Africa. For lics is governed not only by divine law example, the bishops but also by canon were concerned law …” This is imabout the state of portant because the Christian spouses code goes on to state in Canon 1066, “Before and their children involved in inter-religious a marriage is celebrated, it must be evident marriages with Muslims in Muslim countries that nothing stands in the way of its valid where Christians do not enjoy equal rights and licit celebration.” with Muslim citizens. The fact is that marriage is a sacrament, The bishops also were concerned with and therefore a liturgical act which should cases in which civilly divorced Catholics, be celebrated in the public liturgy of the unable to obtain a declaration of nullity, leave Church. Further, marriage introduces the the Church for another Christian confession couple into an ecclesial order, creating in order to remarry in that church. Irrespecrights and duties in the Church between tive of the specific issue, the bishops clearly the spouses and toward their children. It is were calling for constructive responses to a state of life in the Church requiring the these challenges so that they could be transconsent of the spouses and their lifelong formed into opportunities “to walk towards commitment. Consequently, marriage should the fullness of marriage and the family in the reflect ecclesiastical form. light of the Gospel.” For the Catholic entering into a mixed – All quotes from Catechism of the Catholic Church 16341637, 2363, & 2367 unless otherwise noted. marriage, this means he or she needs the AT A GLANCE: Catholics in the United States In October 2007, the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) at Georgetown University published the results of “Marriage in the Catholic Church: A Survey of U.S. Catholics.” CARA had been commissioned to conduct the study by the Committee on Marriage and Family Life of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Here is some of what CARA discovered about mixed and interreligious marriages among U.S. Catholic respondents: Is your spouse Catholic? Answer: (B) domestic church (CCC 2204) 72% Catholic 21% Protestant or other 7% No religion .1% Jewish Spouse considering becoming Catholic? 94% No 6% Yes t h i n g s t o d o Upcoming events at Avila Retreat Center 711 Mason Road, Durham. 27712. To register or for more information, call 919.477.1285. Life, Loss, & Healing Workshop, May 1-3, Friday, 8:30 a.m. – Sunday, 11 a.m. We have all lost someone or something. In addition to the death of loved ones, we may lose health, relationships, pets, jobs, homes and even our childhood. This ecumenical workshop is an opportunity to explore the losses in our lives in a safe, confidential and accepting setting. This is not a weekend for quiet reflection, but rather an opportunity to experience the intensity of our feelings and learn safe ways to express them. For more information about this retreat and/or to sign up, contact Mike Yow 336.392.8017 or [email protected] Mothers and Daughters: Friends for Life, May 8-9, Friday, 7 p.m. - Saturday 4 p.m. Theme: The Circle of Life: Celebrating Mothers and Daughters. A time for mothers and their adult daughters to be with each other reflecting on their lives together and apart. Outdoor activities: mother/ daughter dyad walks, campfire songs; craft making (memoir journaling, photo scrap book, art work …); Scripture reflections; letter writing. Donation: $160 per mother/ daughter pair (includes breakfast and lunch Saturday). Presenter: Gladys Whitehouse, mother of nine (one with special needs), spiritual director, retired pastoral leader at St. Francis of Assisi parish. Ignatian Retreat for Men, May 15-17, Friday 5 p.m. – Sunday, noon. St. Luke’s and St. Raphael’s Knights of Columbus Councils, in collaboration with St. Raphael’s Office of Life Long Faith Formation, are sponsoring this silent retreat weekend for Catholic men. Men of the Diocese are invited. Theme: “Heart Centered Spiritual Exercises.” Presenter: Father James Kubicki, S.J., National Director of the Apostleship of Prayer (http:// apostleshipofprayer.org) will direct the retreat, drawing on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola. This will be a weekend of prayer, listening and contemplation. Mass is scheduled on Sunday. There will be (optional) time for familiar devotions, personal prayer and reflection, and meetings with Father. Cost: $175 cost for the three-day retreat includes an overnight private room for two nights, dinners, breakfasts and lunches. Contact Jim Haag at 919.841.5817 (JJMTHAAG@ Bellsouth.net). Or make reservation by sending a $60 deposit to K of C Council #12455 – note Men’s Retreat to: Ignatian Men’s Retreat, C/O Jim Haag, 500 Emerywood Dr., Raleigh, NC 27515. NC Catholics 28 April 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org things to do: Holy Family Perpetual Adoration Chapel at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, 2718 Overbrook Drive, Raleigh, NC 27608. The Adoration Chapel is open to everyone, and all are welcome to visit and pray anytime and for as long as you want. Go to our website: www. ourladyoflourdescc.org for more details and to sign up for a Holy Hour. Mission Trip to Albemarle Deanery, Monday, April 6, 7 a.m. to Wednesday, April 8, 10 p.m. The youth from Cardinal Gibbons High School will be offering a mission trip to Albemarle Deanery. For more information please contact Sr. Laura Downing I.H.M. at [email protected] Doorways Introduction to Christian Prayer, Tuesday, April 7 - 3:30 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. OR 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., at Saint Thomas More Catholic Church, 940 Carmichael Street, Chapel Hill, NC 27514. This Level I course begins on the date above and runs for 6 sessions. Participants will explore the basics of Christian prayer, particularly the Our Father, and be introduced to some major Catholic spiritual traditions in the life of the Church. Integral to each session is prayer, course content, faith sharing, and large/ small group discussion so that participants can apply the teachings to their life and ministry. Required text is We Pray: Living in God’s Presence by Oscar Lukefahr (Liguori Publications, 2007) and United States Catholic Catechism for Adults (United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, 2006). Presenter: Deacon Bob Troy. Cost: $20. Be sure to select your preferred time as this course is being offered at two different times. Contact Jim Hynes, 919.942.6237 or [email protected] or click on the link on the event calendar on the diocesan website. Ordination to the Transitional Diaconate, Saturday, April 11, 10 a.m. – 12 p.m., Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Wake Forest, NC 27587. Reception to follow. Catholic Social Teaching, Thursday, April 16, 9:15 a.m. to 11:15 a.m. at The Catholic Center, 7200 Stonehenge Drive, Raleigh, NC 27613. This Level II Course begins on the date above and runs for four weeks. The goal of the course is to provide the kind of background on Catholic Social Teaching suggested by the bishops as fundamental for living the Christian life. The course relies heavily on documents prepared by the bishops and on the Catechism of the Catholic Church. The course will cover the seven key themes of Catholic Social Teaching outlined by the bishops: the life and dignity of the human person; the call to family, community, and participation; rights and responsibilities; option for the poor and vulnerable; the dignity of work and the rights of workers; solidarity; and care for God’s creation. Also included is a process for defining and effecting change related to significant social justice issues at the diocesan and parish levels. The course will reiterate the centrality of social justice teachings for all Christians, and its consistent independence from any political ideology of the left or the right. Required texts are Sharing Catholic Social Teaching: Challenges and Directions, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops; USCCB website pages to be announced before and during the course, and handouts given during the course. Presenter: Melissa DuCharme. Cost: $20. Please click on this date on the Event Calendar on the diocesan website to register. Contact: Melissa DuCharme, 919.821.9751 or melissa. [email protected]. Single-Single Again is a group of single, divorced or widowed Catholic adults, brought together through common interest as we pray, work and play together. The group was formed to offer help and support in facing the challenges of being single and “single again” in the Catholic Church. We meet for Mass at Cardinal Gibbons High School chapel once monthly on Sundays at 5:30 pm. If you are interested to become a part of our community, please plan to attend mass with us. Our next Mass is April 19. Visit our website at http://www.singlesingleagain. com/ for more information about SSA ministry and to sign up for our Yahoo group that sends out notices of our activities. Priesthood Discernment Group, April 18, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. Adult Catholic men between the ages of 17-48 discerning a possible call to Priesthood are invited to the Priesthood Discernment Group, which meets once a month, usually on a Saturday. If you are just beginning to contemplate a vocation or are more serious about a call to priesthood, please consider attending this group. The Priesthood Discernment Group provides a fraternal environment in which to discuss your discernment of a possible call to Priesthood with other men who are also examining the call. The group discusses issues central to the call and does so within the context of prayer, presentations, and discussion. The morning begins with Mass at 9:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, located at 211 Irwin Drive in Newton Grove. Morning Prayer, a discussion/ presentation about discernment/ Priesthood, Daytime Prayer, and lunch follow. Next meeting May 30. For more information contact the Vocations Office, 919.832.6279. Quo Vadis Meeting, April 19, 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. in the 620 House at St. Joseph Parish, 2817 Poole Road, Raleigh from 6:30pm – 8:30pm., beginning with Evening Prayer. High school aged boys are invited to attend. Quo Vadis provides a fraternal environment and an opportunity to gather for fellowship, prayer and a discussion on discernment and vocations. Dinner is provided. Next meeting May 31. Please contact the Office of Vocations for more information at 919.821.9731. Fifth Annual Catholic Charities Celebrate God’s Gifts Gala, April 25, 6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. at the Raleigh Marriott City Center. For event sponsorship or ticket information, visit www. CatholicCharitiesRaleigh. org or contact Katey Fithian, 919.821.8142 or Kathryn. [email protected]. Memorial for St. Joseph the Worker, Friday, May 1, 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Bishop Burbidge encourages all of our parishes throughout the Diocese of Raleigh to provide an opportunity to ask the heavenly intercession of Saint Joseph the Worker on May 1, 2015 for those who are unemployed and those underemployed. This memorial is an opportunity to seek the assistance of Saint Joseph as Protector of the universal Church, that he may intercede for the unemployed and underemployed, who often feel utterly alone, abandoned, and many times guilty about their situation. Our prayers are a sign of our own concern and a hope for God’s providence in a most challenging situation. On this special day, parishes throughout our Diocese, as well as the regional offices of Catholic Charities, will be joining together in this prayer for the unemployed, the underemployed and all those who assist them. Resources will be made available. Contact Melissa DuCharme, melissa. [email protected] or 919.821.9751 for more information. Adult Couples, are you looking for a great ministry? The Diocese of Raleigh is looking for Adult Coordinators who want to help with the Search retreat for high school students. The couples need to be at least 25 years of age and be interested in becoming part of the Adult Volunteer Team for future Search retreats. The requirements for this program are: •A ttended Search in the past as a teen or as an adult (prefer). •B oth members have to be in good standing with the Catholic Church. •H ave a passion to serve the youth of our Diocese in this retreat. •B e willing to receive the Safe Environment training required by the Diocese. Each couple will be mentored by experienced couples through the full training process. If you are interested, write a short description telling us about yourself, your gifts and why you feel called to the retreat program. Please send this to Katherine Angulo at [email protected]. Grant applications available – Grant applications are available for a project to be used to support and uphold the sacredness of human life of all persons from conception to natural death. Funds are derived from a grant provided by the Diocese of Raleigh generated by funds from the Bishop’s Annual Appeal. The total amount available for 2015 is $10,000.00. The Respect Life Grant was established in the year 2000 to meet the demand for funding for Respect Life initiatives. Grants are awarded in amounts from $500.00 to $2,000.00. Applications must be submitted by April 30, and funds will be awarded in June. For more information, or to download the application form, please visit http://dioceseofraleigh.org/offices/stewardship-and-advancement/grants. Follow the Diocese of Raleigh on pope watch Focusing on families, Ukraine and 20 new cardinals Pope Francis greets Pope emeritus Benedict XVI during a Mass to create 20 new cardinals on Feb. 14. Reuters On families Reuters What POPE FRANCIS has been saying and doing recently Reuters Speaking to more than 9,000 people gathered in St. Peter’s Square, Pope Francis focused on the family. He talked about the importance of brothers and sisters, and how a special bond is formed within the family unit. In the family, Pope Francis said, siblings learn “the human coexistence that one must live out in society.” In the same way that family members help each other, he said, Christians care for the weak and the poor “because the words and example of the Lord tell us that we are brothers and sisters.” Pope Francis puts the biretta on newly elevated Cardinal Francis Xavier Kriengsak Kovitvanit during a Mass to create 20 new cardinals at a ceremony in St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican. On Ukraine With the new cardinals Pope Francis urged Ukrainian Catholic bishops to be united and work together to be a clear moral voice for peace in their war-torn country. He urged Latin- and Eastern-rite bishops not to become politicized, but instead said, “there are socialcultural situations and human tragedies that are waiting for your direct and positive contribution.” He went on to say: “In these circumstances, what is important is to listen carefully to the voices that come from the places where the people who are entrusted to your pastoral care live.” During his homily at Mass with the 20 new cardinals, Pope Francis urged them to reach out to those who may be on the margins of the Church and the periphery of society. Going out in search of the lost, he said, “does not mean underestimating the dangers of letting wolves into the fold,” but it does mean “rolling up our sleeves and not standing by and watching passively the suffering of the world.” “The way of the Church is not to condemn anyone for eternity,” he said, but “to pour out the balm of God’s mercy on all those who ask for it with a sincere heart.” “DO YOU REALIZE HOW MUCH YOU ARE WORTH IN THE EYES OF GOD?” – Message to youth on Feb. 17 for local celebrations of World Youth Day. NC Catholics 30 March 2015 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org W o r d o n F i r e Why Having a Heart of Gold is Not What Christianity is About by Fr. Robert Barron Many atheists and agnostics today insistently argue that it is altogether possible for non-believers in God to be morally upright. They resent the implication that the denial of God will lead inevitably to complete ethical relativism or nihilism. And they are quick to point out examples of non-religious people who are models of kindness, compassion, justice, etc. In point of fact, a recent article has proposed that non-believers are actually, on average, more morally praiseworthy than religious people. In this context, I recall Christopher Hitchens remark that, all things considered, he would be more frightened of a group of people coming from a religious meeting than a group coming from a rock concert or home from a night on the town. God knows (pun intended) that during the last twenty years we’ve seen plenty of evidence from around the world of the godly behaving very badly indeed. Though I could quarrel with a number of elements within this construal of things, I would actually gladly concede the major point that it is altogether possible for atheists and agnostics to be morally good. The classical Greek and Roman formulators of the theory of the virtues were certainly not believers in the Biblical God, and many of their neo-pagan successors today do indeed exhibit fine moral qualities. What I should like to do, however, is to use this controversy as a springboard to make a larger point, namely that Christianity is not primarily about ethics, about “being a nice person” or, to use Flannery O’Connor’s wry formula, “having a heart of gold.” The moment Christians grant that Christianity’s ultimate purpose is to make us ethically better people, they cannot convincingly defend against the insinuation that, if some other system makes human beings just as good or better, Christianity has lost its raison d’etre. Much of the confusion on this score can be traced to the influence of Immanuel Kant, especially his seminal text Religion Within the Limits of Reason Alone. Like so many of his Enlightenment era confreres, Kant was impatient with the claims of the revealed religions. He saw them as unverifiable and finally irrational assertions that could be defended, not through reason, but only through violence. Do you see how much of the “New Atheism” of the post-September 11th era is conditioned by a similar suspicion? Accordingly, he argued that, at its best, religion is not about dogma or doctrine or liturgy but about ethics. In the measure that the Scriptures, prayer, and belief make one morally good, they are admissible, but in the measure that they lead to moral corruption, they should be dispensed with. As religious people mature, Kant felt, they would naturally let those relatively extrinsic practices and convictions fall to the side and would embrace the ethical core of their belief systems. Kant’s army of disciples today include such figures as John Shelby Spong, John Dominic Crossan, James Carroll, Bart Ehrman, and the late Marcus Borg, all of whom think that Christianity ought to be de-supernaturalized and re-presented as essentially a program of inclusion and social justice. The problem with this Kantianism both old and new is that it runs dramatically counter to the witness of the first Christians, who were concerned, above all, not with an ethical program but with the explosive emergence of a new world. The letters of St. Paul, which are the earliest Christian texts we have, are particularly instructive on this score. One can find “ethics” in the writings of Paul, but one would be hard pressed indeed to say that the principal theme of Romans, Galatians, Philippians, or first and second Corinthians is the laying out of a moral vision. The central motif of all of those letters is in fact Jesus Christ risen from the dead. For Paul, the resurrection of Jesus is the sign that the world as we know it – a world marked by death and the fear of death – is evanescing and that a new order of things is emerging. This is why he tells the Corinthians “the time is running out” and “the world in its present form is passing away;” this is why he tells the Philippians that everything he once held to be of central importance he now considers as so much rubbish; this is why he tells the Romans that they are not justified by their own moral achievements but through the grace of Jesus Christ; and this is why he tells the Galatians that neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything; what counts is the “new creation.” The new creation is shorthand for the overturning of the old world and the emergence of a new order through the resurrection of Jesus, the “first fruits of those who have fallen asleep.” The inaugural speech of Jesus, as reported in the Gospel of Mark, commences with the announcement of the kingdom of God and then the exhortation to “repent and believe the good news.” We tend automatically to interpret repentance as a summons to moral conversion, but the Greek word that Mark employs is metanoiete, which means literally, “go beyond the mind you have.” On Mark’s telling, Jesus is urging his listeners to change their way of thinking so as to see the new world that is coming into existence. It is indeed the case that Buddhists, Hindus, Christians, Muslims, Jews, atheists, and agnostics can all be “good people.” In terms of what we privilege today, they can all be tolerant, inclusive, and just. But only Christians witness to an earthquake that has shaken the foundations of the world and turned every expectation upside down. April 2015 7200 Stonehenge Drive Raleigh, NC 27613 Online: www.DioceseofRaleigh.org www.NCCatholics.org