January/February 2009 Pathfinder
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January/February 2009 Pathfinder
news and information from temple solel PATHFINDER JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2009 TEVET/SHEVAT/ADAR 5769 CANTOR’S MESSAGE J A N U A RY S Y N A P L E X Mumbai and the Vanishing Kipot The Indo-Jewish Coalition, a joint body of the American Jewish Committee and the Indian community in Atlanta is dedicated to deepening bonds between Jews and Indians in Israel, India and the United States. With 40,000 Israelis visiting India Cantor Kathy Robbins each year, the fabric, food, music and Hindu mysticism of India is brought back to Israel, and celebrated in a festival called Boombamela. But in addition to the cultural, educational and spiritual values that bind Indians and Jews is the shared experience of Islamic terrorism, as demonstrated by the recent events in Mumbai. India and Israel both gained independence from the British Empire within a year of the other. Although privately, Indian political leaders and openly, the Hindu community expressed support for Israel, India resisted formal diplomatic ties with Israel until 1992, following the Arab-Israeli peace talks in Madrid, the collapse of the USSR, and military escalation with Pakistan. With mutual concerns about Islamic fundamentalism in the Middle East and the Indian sub-continent, Israel and India have since developed close defense and security ties, with Israel becoming, alternately with Russia, India’s largest arms supplier. Ironically, reports Newsweek International, “Israel’s training of Indian forces in its defense specialty, counterterrorism, seems to have been limited.” Still, Israeli counter-terror experts criticized the Indian special forces’ response to the attacks in Mumbai, among whose victims were six Jews and Israelis. Whether to show solidarity, or due to arms relationship, the controversy seems to have disappeared. Efraim Inbar, director of Israel’s Begin-Sadat Center for Strategic Studies remarked that the Indian forces’ less aggressive approach than their Israeli counterparts could explain the lack of response by Indian officials to Israel’s offer of counter-terror expertise. Regardless, the cooperative effort between India and Israel in the response to terrorism is apt to be enhanced. In 2007, New Delhi hosted the world’s first Jewish-Hindu interfaith leadership summit. Participants included Hindu organizations in India, Jewish organizations in Israel and the American Jewish Committee. The chief Rabbi of Israel, Yona Metzger and Swami Dayanand Saraswati stated, “The Jewish and Hindu communities are committed to the ancient traditions of continued on page 7 Shabbat Synaplex™ January 9, 2009 with Julie Silver The evening at a glance: 5:30–7:00 . . . . . Wine & Cheese in the Beit Cafe 5:30–5:50 . . . . . Tot-Shabbat with Rabbi Brown & Cantor Robbins 6:00–7:00 . . . . . Pizza Dinner (Reservations Required) 6:00–7:00 . . . . . Congregational Dinner (Reservations Required) 7:00 – 8:00 . . . . . Erev Shabbat Service 7:00–9:00 . . . . . Babysitting with movie & Lego’s (Reservations Required) 7:00–9:00 . . . . . Kidz Klub(Reservations Required) 7:00–9:30 . . . . . Beit Cafe open 8:00–9:00. . . . . . Julie Silver Concert Julie Silver is one of the most celebrated and beloved performers in the world of contemporary Jewish music today. She tours throughout the world, and has been engaging audiences with her lyrical guitar playing, her dynamic stage presence, and her megawatt smile for nearly twenty years. Her Jewish songs have become so tightly woven into the fabric of American Judaism that they have become “standards” in worship, camp, and academic settings. Reservation form on page 5 GUIDE SERVICE SCHEDULE Temple Directory Rabbi Frank, Senior Rabbi [email protected] Ester Famiglietti, Receptionist [email protected] Rabbi Brown, Associate Rabbi [email protected] Caron Feder, Event Coordinator [email protected] Cantor Robbins [email protected] Jeanette Kurnow, School Registrar [email protected] Robin Rubin, Executive Director [email protected] Ellen Fox, School Director [email protected] Cathy Goldberg, ECC Director [email protected] Susan Jones, Controller [email protected] Judith Bender, B’nai Mitzvah Coordinator [email protected] Shanon Wolper Birkett, ECC Admin. Assistant [email protected] Katherine Blumberg, Librarian [email protected] Judith Bricker, Director of Adult Programming [email protected] Ellen Moss, ECC Assistant Director [email protected] Craig Parks, Director of Youth Programming [email protected] 4:36pm ...... Candle Lighting 7:30pm ...... Erev Shabbat Family Service with Birthday Blessings SATURDAY, JANUARY 3 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bar Mitzvah of Ari Cohen, son of Brett and Rachelle Cohen Torah Portion: Vayigash, Genesis 44:18–47:27, Haftarah: Ezekiel 37:15–28 FRIDAY, JANUARY 9 4:41pm ...... Candle Lighting 7:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Synaplex Service SATURDAY, JANUARY 10 Jessica Pollak, Hebrew School Coordinator [email protected] 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bat Mitzvah of Abby Novack, daughter of Jeff and Sandra Novack Torah Portion: Va-y’chi, Genesis 47:28–50:26, Haftarah: I Kings 2:1–12 Denise Ross Temple Solel Giftshop [email protected] FRIDAY, JANUARY 16 Enid Stechel, ECC Office Manager [email protected] SATURDAY, JANUARY 17 Joan Tedlow, Librarian [email protected] Beth Cates, Graphic Design/DTP [email protected] Holly Hungerford Cocking, Clergy Secretary [email protected] Temple Solel of North San Diego County, Inc. 3575 Manchester Avenue, Cardiff by the Sea, California 92007 Office Phone ................................................ (760) 436-0654 Office Fax .................................................... (760) 436-2748 Early Childhood Center ............................ (760) 944-1285 General E-mail .................................. [email protected] Temple Solel is a Reform congregation dedicated to promoting Jewish community and continuity through study, prayer and acts of justice and loving kindness. NEWSLETTER Temple Solel Pathfinder Published bi-monthly. Please submit all ads by the 5th of prior month. We welcome story ideas and Bar/Bat Mitzvah photos from Temple members. For information, contact Robin Rubin at (760) 436-0654. www.templesolel.net 2 FRIDAY, JANUARY 2 4:47pm ...... Candle Lighting 7:30pm ...... Freilich Friday Shabbat Service 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bar Mitzvah of Nigel Gross, son of Albert and Cosette Gross Torah Portion: Sh’mot, Exodus 1:1–6:1, Haftarah: Isaiah 27:6–28:13: 29:22–23 FRIDAY, JANUARY 23 4:54pm ...... Candle Lighting 6:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Service SATURDAY, JANUARY 24 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bat Mitzvah of Annie Goodstein, daughter of Glenn and Laura Goodstein Torah Portion: Va-eira, Exodus 6:2–9:35, Haftarah: Ezekiel 28:25–29:21 FRIDAY, JANUARY 30 5:01pm ...... Candle Lighting 7:30pm ...... Erev Shabbat Service with Adult Choir SATURDAY, JANUARY 31 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with B’nai Mitzvah of Greg Berg, son of Steven and Amy Berg & Casey Rubenfeld, daughter of Gloria Rubenfeld Torah Portion: Bo, Exodus 10:1–13:16, Haftarah: Jeremiah 46:13–28 Thank you to Joan Zak for underwriting the December 19, 2008 Freilich Friday. Thank you to Dr. Rob Weisgrau and Dr. Roberta Gottlieb and Dr. Steven and Karen Feitelberg and their families for underwriting the January 16, 2009 Freilich Friday. SERVICE SCHEDULE CONDOLENCES October 17–december 12 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 6 5:07pm ...... Candle Lighting 6:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Synaplex Service Our heartfelt condolences on the recent deaths of: SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 7 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bat Mitzvah of Jacqueline Weiner, daughter of Jeffrey and Debby Weiner Torah Portion: B’shalach, Exodus 13:17–17:16, Haftarah: Judges 4:4–5:31 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 13 5:14pm ...... Candle Lighting 6:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Service SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 14 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with Bat Mitzvah of Jacqueline Thomas, daughter of Oran and Deborah Thomas Torah Portion: Yitro, Exodus 18:1–20:23, Haftarah: Isaiah 6:1–7:6; 9:5–6 Francis Krasner, grandmother of Steven Oberman Dennis Oberman, father of Steven Oberman Gerald Bemel, father of Marla Eliot Sophia Friedberg, grandmother of Ron Cowan Annie Kaye, mother of Barbara Jucha, grandmother of Myron Jucha Marcella Schulman, sister of Shirley Wurtzell Norma Hoffman, mother of Charlie Hoffman Leona Chudacoff, great aunt of Jeffrey Novack Peter Carlo Delmonte, father of Peter Delmonte Pauline Leverant, mother of Rebecca Collopy Pearl Kravitz Fine, aunt of Michele Tamayo Diana Ruderman, mother of Steve Ruderman FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20 5:20pm ...... Candle Lighting 6:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Service SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 21 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with B’nai Mitzvah of Ethan Cohen, son of Jackie Cohen and Jordan Cohen & Rachel Greenstein, daughter of Jim and Carrie Greenstein Torah Portion: Mishpatim, Exodus 21:1–24:18, Haftarah: II Kings 12:5–12:16 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 27 5:25pm ...... Candle Lighting 6:00pm ...... Erev Shabbat Service SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 28 10:00am .... Shabbat Service with B’not Mitzvah of Lindsay Kroner, daughter of Richard and Deborah Kroner & Brooke Levin, daughter of Marc Levin Torah Portion: T’rumah, Exodus 25:1–27:19, Haftarah: I Kings 5:26–6:13 WELCOME! We welcome the following new families to Temple Solel… Lillian Anixt Sharon Doyle Randy and Dr. Caron Gruber and their children, Lina and Dylan Dr. Emanuel Rosen and Laurie Laveen and their children, Jared, Daniella and Tobey Jennifer Tanner Dr. Maureen Yellen Are you one of 449? Temple Solel’s scrip program…raises money and doesn’t cost anyone anything. 449 of our households have not renewed their eScripVons or Pavilions Club cards. eScrip is a proven and powerful fundraising program that allows participating merchants to contribute a percentage of your grocery loyalty cards, credit card, and debit/ATM card purchases to Temple Solel. • please log on to www.escrip.com and renew your Vons and Pavilions Club cards • renewals need to be done every November • next time you are in Albertsons or Ralphs, please fill out their scrip program application and continue supporting Temple Solel • Stater Brothers and Jimbos paper scrip available for purchase in the Temple Solel main office • Macy’s is also an escrip participant – sign up! RENEW NOW to help us reach our fundraising goals. For more information, please contact Ester or Susan at the Temple office. 3 B ’ N A I M I T Z VOT Mazel Tov to our B’nai Mitzvah Students! Ari Cohen Greg Berg January 3, 2009 Son of Rachelle & Brett Cohen January 31, 2009 Son of Amy & Steven Berg Attends: Pacific Ridge School Highlight: Being able to hold the Torah in the future and having the weight of my actions shift from my parents to me. Tzedakah Project: Cinematographer and editor of a PSA on drug prevention; conducted a Teen Korps leadership program to feed homeless Veterans. and sister’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah, and continuing with my family’s long tradition. Tzedakah Project: Collecting cell phones for the Call To Protect Program, and helping in the Interfaith Shelter. Abby Novack Casey Rubenfeld January 10, 2009 Daughter of Sandra & Jeff Novack January 31, 2009 Daughter of Gloria Rubenfeld Attends: Diegueño Middle School Highlight: Celebrating with family Attends: Oak Crest Middle School Highlight: Sharing this special and friends moment with my family and friends. Tzedakah Project: Preparing and Tzedakah Project: Collecting food for serving food for families with ill children at the Ronald McDonald House. Nigel Gross January 17, 2009 Son of Cosette & Albert Gross Attends: Oak Crest Middle School Highlight: Sharing this day with my Helen Woodward, babysitting at Temple Solel and volunteering at the La Costa Heights Elementary School October Festival. Jacqueline Weiner February 7, 2009 Daughter of Debby & Jeffrey Weiner Attends: Valley Middle School Highlight: Being with my friends and family. family and friends, and discussing my Torah portion with my dad. Tzedakah Project: Volunteering at the Quail Gardens Annual Plant Sale and the San Dieguito Heritage Museum. Tzedakah Project: Food sorting at the North County Food Bank, rolling coins for Special Delivery of JFS, Carlsbad Community theatre and Casa de Amparo. Annie Goodstein Jacqueline Thomas January 24, 2009 Daughter of Laura & Glenn Goodstein February 14, 2009 Daughter of Deborah & Oran Thomas Attends: Oak Crest Middle School Highlight: Having my friends and family support me through the process of getting ready for my Bat Mitzvah. Tzedakah Project: Serving and preparing dinner for families staying at the Ronald McDonald house. 4 Attends: Earl Warren Middle School Highlight: Following both my bother Attends: Diegueño Middle School Highlight: Having my grandparents, my aunt and uncle from Florida and my brother there to share this special day! Tzedakah Project: Babysat kindergartners at the Temple and volunteered with Power in Pairs tutoring other kids with their homework. B ’ N A I M I T Z VOT Mazel Tov to our B’nai Mitzvah Students! Ethan River Cohen Lindsay Kroner February 21, 2009 Son of Jackie & Jordan Cohen February 28, 2009 Daughter of Deborah & Richard Kroner Attends: Carmel Valley Middle School Highlight: Celebrating with my friends and family. Tzedakah Project: Volunteered at UCSD Free Clinic Project, which provides healthcare for the underserved communities of San Diego. Attends: Carmel Valley Middle School Highlight: Sharing this special day with my family and friends. Tzedakah Project: I took photos of flowers and had them made into cards. I sold the cards and donated all of the proceeds to Susan G. Komen for breast cancer research. Rachel Greenstein Brooke Levin February 21, 2009 Daughter of Carrie & Jim Greenstein Attends: Earl Warren Middle School Highlight: Having my entire family share this joyous occasion with me. Tzedakah Project: Overnight host for Temple Solel's homeless shelter and assembled Thanksgiving baskets for homebound seniors. February 28, 2009 Daughter of Marc Levin Attends: Carmel Valley School Highlight: Being able to learn another language that is thousands of years old. Tzedakah Project: Raising money for Sayeret Egoz Israeli One Soldiers. Mark your calendars! The next Committee Night is January 20, 2009 J A N U A RY 9 , 2 0 0 9 • S H A B B AT S Y N A P L E X ™ RSVP and prepayment for dinner required by Monday, Jan. 5. Make checks payable to Temple Solel. Mail form and your check to: Temple Solel, 3575 Manchester Avenue, Cardiff by the Sea, CA 92007. Pizza Dinner Adult Children 12 and under x $10 = x$5 = $ ___________ $ ___________ Congregational Dinner Adult Children 12 and under x $20 = x $8 = $ ___________ $ ___________ TOTAL ENCLOSED $ ___________ Name: ____________________________________________________ E-mail Address: __________________________________________ Babysitting / Kidz Klub: Please include names and ages ____________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Funding for Synaplex™ at Temple Solel has been provided in part by the Galinson Family Foundation. 5 A D U LT E D U C AT I O N For additional information on Adult Education or Synaplex programs contact Judy Bricker [email protected] or (760) 436-0654. Breakfast with the Rabbi Upcoming Adult Education events – Sunday, January 18, 2009 • 8:45-10:30am – Sunday, February 22, 2009 • 8:45-10:30am Adult Education presents Breakfast with the Rabbi with Rabbi David Frank. Topic to be determined. Light breakfast provided, reservations requested. From Haven to Home: 350 Years of Jewish Life in America Sunday, February 8, 2009 • 12:00 – 1:30pm at Temple Solel; 2:15 – 3:30pm at New Americans Museum Bring your dairy lunch and join Rabbi Jeff Brown at Temple Solel as he traces the American Jewish journey from persecution to participation. Then travel to the New Americans Museum Annex at Liberty Station to see a unique exhibition created by the American Jewish Historical Society that chronicles the American Jewish experience in this country. Dor L’Dor: Senior Speaker series Temple Solel will host our senior (55+) speaker series on the last Thursday of the month. $3 per person (light lunch), reservations required. For additional information please visit our website www.templesolel.net or contact Lori Barnett at (760) 845-8810. - Thursday, January 22, 2009 • 11:00 am – 1:00 pm Join us as we welcome Lester Tenney, author of “My Hitch from Hell: The Bataan Death March.” - Thursday, February 26, 2009 • 11:00 am – 1:00 pm Join us as we welcome Jeff Liber, CFP, Financial Advisor, Trust Specialist & Senior Vice President Investments; Wachovia Securities, LLC as he discusses “Investments that work in today’s market.” Torah Trek Saturday, March 14, 2009 Rabbi, writer of “A Wild Faith: Jewish Ways into the Wilderness Wilderness ways into Judaism”, and guide — trained in philosophy, Talmud and meditation — Mike Comins brings his diverse experience and unique perspective to Temple Solel. Torah Trek is an integration of t’filla and Torah study with a moderate hike in Julian. Time and fees to be determined. Experience Passover like our Forefathers and Foremothers as they left Egypt Passover in the Desert April 10-12, 2009 Back by popular demand! Mark and Vicki Remas along with the Adult Education Committee are organizing a second Passover experience in Borrego Springs. Join your Temple Solel Family for Shabbat dinner, hiking, and Passover dinners in the desert. We will be camping at Palm Canyon. Costs will cover the minimal camp site charge, Friday and Saturday night dinners. We encourage both families and anyone interested in clear nights under the stars, campfires, and the experience of a lifetime to join us. Space is limited. Contact Vicki Remas @ (760) 434-4233 to reserve a space. Additional information will be sent soon. Lectures & sermons now available on website Previously these were only available to read, but now you can download and listen to the audio version as well. Simply go to www.templesolel.net and use the pull down menu tab marked “Resources” and click on “Lectures & Sermons.” Scroll through the lecture titles and right click with your mouse on your selection to save it to your hard drive. This can take a few minutes depending on the file size. Please feel free to contact Beth Cates at [email protected] for any questions. From Haven to Home: 350 Years of Jewish Life in America December 5, 2008 – March1, 2009 The New Americans Museum is presenting the exhibit “From Haven to Home: 350 Years of Jewish Life in America.” This exhibit was created by the American Jewish Historical Society in 2004. This free exhibit, appropriate for upper-grade elementary students and beyond, will be in San Diego at the New Americans Museum Annex, located at 2863 Historic Decatur Road, San Diego, 92106 For more information: (619) 255-8908 or www.loc.gov/exhibits/haventohome/ 6 S I S T E R H O O D & B ROT H E R H O O D Sisterhood Invites You To… LEARnING ABOUT OURSELVES FROM THE INSIDE OUT An Evening about Nutrition, Weight Loss, and Homeopathic Medicine January 7, 2009 • 7:00 – 8:30pm, $5 Please join us as we welcome two experts in their respective fields of nutrition and Homeopathic Medicine. Deana Sicari and Gabrielle Traub are incredible women who have made a difference in so many lives with their exceptional work. We will provide healthy snacks while our facilitators discuss the topics of nutrition, weight loss, supplementation, dietary endocrinology, exercise, stress, emotional health, anxiety and colds and flu. Time for questions will follow each presentation. Looking forward to us sharing this wonderful evening together. Temple Solel Brotherhood Sunday Breakfast Speaker Series Pre-Inauguration Special Report Dr. Sanford Lakoff Professor Emeritus of Political Science University of California, San Diego “Morning After in America: Change and Hope Meet Hard Reality” Sunday, January 11, 2009 • 8:45–10:15 am Social Hall Open to all in the Temple community The deadline to place card orders for the Sisterhood Mah Jongg Tournament is January 31, 2009. An order form is on page 18. Mumbai and the Vanishing Kipot, continued Judaism and Hindu dharma respectively, and have both, in their own ways, gone through the painful experiences of persecution, oppression and destruction.” Metzger added, “For thousands of years we have marched on parallel causes and have now built bridges of cooperation between the two religions. Jews have lived in India for over 2000 years and have never been discriminated against. This is something unparalleled in human history.” But due to aliyah, India’s permanent community of Jews has dwindled from about 40,000 in 1940 to approximately 5,000. These Jews, living in the Mumbai region, are thought to have roots in the Bene Israel community, descending from seven Jewish families, shipwrecked on India’s Konkan coast, fleeing persecution in the Galilee during the second century B.C.E. Two other sects, the Cochini, in the southern state of Kerala, derive from Majorca, Spain and the 200 Baghdadis, also living in Mumbai, are from West Asia. All three groups, adopting Indian language, dress and cuisine, played a role in the development of business, international trade and construction in various coastal cities in India. The most prominent influence has been that of the Bene Israel Jews, who hold positions in government and in Bollywood. Prior to the terrorist attack in Mumbai, a Jew could feel safe wearing a kipah on the streets of Mumbai, said a Jewish, Indian old-timer to a reporter. Another Indian Jew said, “We always felt we were Indians first, and Jews second.” But following the siege at Nariman House, that has changed. A Jewish educator remarked that Indian Jews need to reassess the security of their institutions. Ruth Krishna, a Mumbai Jew and former hospital administrator told a BBC News reporter, “There is a feeling that community members could be under threat.” Although none of the Jews killed in the attack were Indian citizens, Jonathan Solomon, a Mumbai lawyer and president of the Indian-Jewish Federation told Jeremy Kahn, reporter for the International Herald Tribune, “This is the first time a Jew has been targeted in India because he is a Jew…the tradition of the last thousand years has been breached.” In fact, said Ezekial Isaac Malekar, a leader of the Jewish community in New Delhi, “This is one of the few countries where Jews never faced discrimination and persecution.” Indian Jews are now considering seeking formal recognition as a minority group which would require the Indian government to protect Jews from persecution. Prior to the massacre, the Baghdadi and Bene Israel Jews were divided. Because most Mumbai Jews are much less observant than the ultra-Orthodox Lubavitchers, the Bene Israel had limited interaction with Rabbi Holtzberg and Chabad House, whose focus was to serve Orthodox visitors from abroad and Israeli travelers. Now, however, there is a feeling that the Jewish community will come closer together. Ken y’hi ratzon. — Cantor Kathy Robbins 7 SOCIAL ACTION Another Successful Thanksgiving Food Drive The focus for this year’s annual Thanksgiving Day Basket Drive held in conjunction with JFS and their Hand Up Youth Food Pantry was once again homebound seniors. With deep concern that our local elderly grandmas and grandpas might go hungry during these difficult economic times in the minds and hearts of many Temple Solel members, the drive was an overwhelming success! We donated over 75 baskets to the pantry with complete Thanksgiving dinners, supplemented with turkeys provided by JFS. Many of these baskets were ornate, others were simple; some were packaged in reusable, environmentally correct cloth bags, others were in practical laundry baskets or wicker containers. The mood was infectious as the baskets were gathered during Sunday Religious school sessions. Many families, who were unaware of the drive, returned to Temple Solel with donations purchased from neighborhood stores. In addition to the edible donations, the pre-schoolers hand traced turkeys, and drew lovely pictures which were included in each basket and helped brighten the holidays for our seniors. There were many creative additions to the baskets this year including magazines, blankets, slippers, and holiday towels and decorations. Other great contributors included our Havurot Community, which created the most beautiful and ornate baskets. We surpassed our goals and our previous record for donated baskets. JFS has thanked us as the “premier donator to this program.” Once again, the families of Temple Solel have brightened the lives of those less fortunate. Special thanks to Risé Edney and Ed Beimel for organizing this event. “Yes we A Mitzvah for all Ages “Yes we CAN” Now, more than ever, low-income working families and fixed-income senior citizens need our help. The San Diego Food Banks rely on contributions from our local community to fight hunger in San Diego County, and to provide a safety net to people who are struggling to put food on the table. How “can” we help? Bring a “canned” item every time you come to Temple Solel, including Shabbat. Donation containers will be available at all times by the front gate, outside the sanctuary and the coffee shop. Every donation helps us make sure no one goes to bed hungry. Hineynu Needs Our Help! Hineynu is looking for additional volunteers for our newest project, “Hineynu Callers.” This is a perfect opportunity for those who have limited volunteer time available. As a weekly caller, you can become a phone friend and reassure an ill or shut-in congregant that they are still part of our caring community. Please join us at the Hineynu Callers training session with Rabbi Brown on Thursday evening, January 8, 2009 at 7:00pm in the Coffee House. If you know of anyone who would appreciate getting a weekly phone call, please let us know. If you have any questions, or would like to RSVP for this training session, please email Ina Rubenstein at [email protected] or Karin Bensusen at [email protected]. Social Action chair Elyse Matson and Risé Edney are appreciative of all the food basket donations. 8 THANK YOU ALL for your continued support. O P P O RT U N I T I E S TO C O N N E C T Havdalah Nights Social Group Formed! Got issues? Get involved! Next Event: February 14, 2009 Last summer, when several in our Havurah were voicing opinions on Temple topics (What—Jews kvetching ??), someone suggested we try to find a positive way to solve problems instead of just complain. The result was that the members of Havurah Yehudit took the lead in developing a first program (see article at left, “Havdalah Nights — Social Group Formed”) as well as setting up a second event (Feb 14) and trying to get others involved. Many thanks to Phyllis and Sigmund Penn, Marcia Kern and Marty Stern, Jane and Stan Schatt, Simone and Jay Mager, Ellen and Norm Cypers, Sheree Sobel, Bette Ross, and Gail and Marc Covitt for working together to start this process. Our hope is that others will try to become more involved in Temple activities. Whether you are new to the Temple, or have been members for a very long time, many of us seek to be more connected to our community. And if there is something that needs action, then consider taking an active part in the solution. When our Havurah decided to plan an event and restart the social group, Temple staff was very helpful in making this happen. The process and the outcome seemed to work well for everyone. Clearly there are financially challenging times ahead, not only locally but throughout the country and around the world. But if you can contribute your time and energy, that is also valuable in building and sustaining programs. To paraphrase President Kennedy’s 1961 inauguration speech, ASK NOT WHAT YOUR TEMPLE CAN DO FOR YOU --- ASK WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR TEMPLE. Call the Temple office and ask to help! — Marc Covitt The name “Havdalah Nights” is the new name for the “Empty Nesters.” If you are 45-75, Temple Solel single or couple and interested in connecting with other Temple members, join us for a fun evening at our next event, a catered dinner at Temple Solel on February 14 at 7:00 p.m. November 1st marked the first successful “Havdalah Nights.” Approximately 65 people attended the event at Temple Solel which was planned and led by Havurah Yedudit*. The evening was a wine and cheese social, including Havdalah led by Ellen Fox followed by a series of “moderated speed meetings.” Everyone got to meet, share, listen and connect with many new people, and the feedback was overwhelmingly positive. While some attendees were already in Havurot, others wanted to form new ones. As a result of the November event, there are new Havurot being organized. It is clear that people are looking for ways to connect with the Temple community and we are happy to help. We are also looking for others who would like to assist with future events. If you are part of a Havurah, consider having your Havurah take on the planning for an event. Some possible trips and other activities are under consideration. Please plan to come to a delicious dinner at Temple Solel on February 14 and meet old and new friends. Socializing and connecting with others as part of fun events is why this group was formed. A flyer with detailed information will be in the mail early January. Reservations and payment for the February 14 event are due by February 8. HINEYNU Hineynu Attends Southern California Caring Community Networking Meeting On November 9, 2008, Jayne Marx and Connie Robin, members of our Hineynu Steering Committee participated in a networking meeting of Southern Reform Congregation Caring Communities. The meeting included representatives of seven synagogues, as well as Rabbi Linda Bertenthal, Senior Associate Director of the Pacific Southwest Council of the URJ. The purpose of the meeting was to share information and discuss how each congregation was proceeding in its development of their Caring Communities. Topics included Health and Wellness, Death and Dying, Disability Inclusion, Addiction and Recovery and the current Economic Downturn. Each congregation shared how it currently supports its members as well as what goals they have for the future. Participants were encouraged to attend the upcoming Pacific Southwest Regional Biennial February 6-8, 2009 being held in Costa Mesa. Many Caring Community sessions will be offered. We are happy to say that Temple Solel is highly respected and admired for our progress in developing our Hineynu Commuity. 9 A L P E R T M E N D E L S O N L I B R A RY LIBRARIANS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Katherine Blumberg & Joan Tedlow SUNDAY LIBRARIANS. . . . . . . . Eva-Lynn Diesenhaus & Ruth Levor CHAIR . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Ruth Levor Book Clubs Join us for stimulating discussions of the very latest and best in Jewish literature. EVENING BOOK CLUB: WEDNESDAYS AT 7:30PM Jan. 14: When a Crocodile Eats the Sun, Peter Godwin Feb. 18: People of the Book, Geraldine Brooks USED BOOK SALE Please donate your gently-used books, DVDs, CDs, etc to our huge Annual Used Book Sale, held at the temple’s Purim Carnival. Clean out your shelves and bring in your discards to help make this year’s sale the best ever! DAYTIME BOOK CLUB: WEDNESDAYS AT 1:00PM Jan. 28: Exile, Richard North Patterson Feb. 25: Away, Amy Bloom new titles (Adult Collection) Thanks to the generosity of our donors, we are able to add many titles featured at the 2008 JEWISH BOOK FAIR. A partial list of new titles: Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon and the Journey of a Generation, SHEILA WELLER; Why Faith Matters, DAVID J. WOLPE; Friendly Fire: A Duet, A.B. YEHOSHUA; Spiritual Radical: Abraham Joshua Heschel in America, 1940-1972, EDWARD K. KAPLAN; Jacob’s Legacy: A Genetic View of Jewish History, DAVID B. GOLDSTEIN; A Boy Named Shel: The Life and Times of Shel Silverstein, LISA ROGAK; The Day My Mother Changed Her Name: And Other Stories, WILLIAM D. KAUFMAN; Jewish Choices, Jewish Voices: Body, ELLIOT N. DORFF; Elie Wiesel: A Religious Biography, FREDERICK L. DOWNING; Songs for the Butcher’s Daughter: a Novel, PETER MANSEAU; Hannah Senesh: Her Life and Diary, the First Complete Edition; Jewish Dharma: A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen, BRENDA SHOSHANNA; Moses’ Women, SHERA ARANOFF TUCHMAN; Bubbe Meises: Jewish Myths, Jewish Realities, by Rabbi Ronald H. Isaacs; Ary Stillman: From Impressionism to Abstract Expressionism, BY MICHAEL BETANCOURT; 20 Minute Kabbalah: The Daily Personal Spiritual Practice That Brings You to God, Your Soul-knowing, and Your Heart’s Desires, WAYNE DOSICK; The Gravedigger’s Daughter, JOYCE CAROL OATES; Leaves from the Garden of Eden: One Hundred Classic Jewish Tales, HOWARD SCHWARTZ; We Plan, God Laughs: Ten Steps to Finding Your Divine Path When Life is Not Turning Out Like You Wanted, SHERRE HIRSCH; The Diplomat’s Wife, PAM JENOFF; Capturing the Moon; Classic and Modern Jewish Tales, EDWARD FEINSTEIN; Dictionary of Jewish Terms: A Guide to the Language of Judaism, RONALD L. EISENBERG; Small Miracles of the Holocaust: Extraordinary Coincidences of Faith, Hope, and Survival, YITTA HALBERSTAM. BIRTHDAY BOOK CLUB HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO: Charlotte Isadora Kennard, age 1 – from Grandma Sheryl Nissen Marlie Love Lavine, age 3 – from Lorna & Mark Lavine 10 A donation to our Aaron Price Children’s Collection is a wonderful way to honor the birthday of a special child. Send Joan or Katherine a check for $20, made payable to Temple Solel: attention Library. We’ll choose an age-appropriate book; send the birthday child a personal letter, noting your gift; place a beautiful bookplate in the selection and list the boy or girl’s name in the Pathfinder. What could be easier? Temple Solel School Retreat November 7– 9, 2008 Camp Alonim Calling all 9th-12th graders! Do you know about Olim, the Temple Solel teen only youth group? If not, Olim is a dynamic teen youth group which holds awesome events once a month. We are led by a group of 10 amazing and dedicated teens who help to make sure that you have a great time when you’re here. We usually get around 50 teens to every event so drop by and join in the fun! If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at [email protected]. — Your Olim President, Jordan “Emu” Emont 11 PRESCHOOL HAPPENINGS by Cathy Goldberg, ECC Director Each day I am blessed with the opportunity to visit Temple Solel’s Early Childhood classrooms. I receive such joy seeing all the creativity that is flowing like honey from the children. I hear their laughter, I can see the hands-on learning that is taking place in the classrooms, and I know that we are creating skills and memories that will stay with them for a lifetime. During the months of November and December I enjoyed tasting all of the delicious foods which were prepared by the children and their teachers. More importantly, I had the privilege of watching their love for Judaism grow as we prepared for Chanukah. I wish to thank all of our ECC teachers for helping the children to learn Hebrew and English songs, make adorable props, and create fun costumes for our spectacular Chanukah program. It was truly an amazing show and enjoyed by all. The children and parents have had the opportunity to participate in three different mitzvah projects. Generously, they have provided Thanksgiving meals to home bound seniors, provided gifts for needy families, and supplied toiletry items for the interfaith shelter. In Jewish early childhood centers, we want our children to feel safe, to develop positive self-images, to love learning, and grow to be happy and productive adults. One of the ways we share Judaism with young children is by creating a preschool curriculum based on the Jewish calendar. Our year began with Rosh Hashanah, marched through Simchat Torah, lit up at Chanukah, and will blossom into Tu B’Shavat. The Holiday of Tu B’Shevat, the New Year of the trees, is right around the corner. Tu B’Shevat dates back to the Talmud. The Rabbis considered the new year of trees as beginning when the new fruit begins to form. On the 15th day of the Hebrew month of Shevat, this year on February 9th, children all over Israel will be planting trees. Planting a tree in Israel is a wonderful way to honor someone or pay tribute to someone’s memory. It is a tradition at the ECC on Tu B’Shevat to taste new fruits, especially fruits native to Israel, such as almonds, figs, carob, and dates. Tu B’Shevat is a reminder to us that it is our responsibility to care for the earth. Children will love finding ways to recycle and save energy at home. Help your child to observe Tu B’Shevat at home by planting seeds. Nothing grows faster, or is more rewarding to a child with a limited ability to delay gratification, than birdseed on top of a sponge in a pan of water. You can also plant parsley now and use it at your Passover Seder, how fun to eat food that you have grown yourself. Encourage your child to join you in the garden or on a nature walk. It is a wonderful way to slow down our fast paced lives and see your young child’s eyes light up with wonder and awe at the beauty of the nature that surrounds them. Upcoming Preschool events: January 9 Synaplex Tot Shabbat January 2 Rockin’ Havdalah with Craig, 4:00-6:00pm in the Social Hall February 4 Snow Day in the Garden of Giving February 9 Tu B’Shevat All School Celebration Happy New Year from the preschool parent committee! We wanted to let our preschool community know how busy the committee has been this fall from parties to shopping to performances! We held our first PJ & Pizza Party in October and had about 25 families attend. The kids had a blast making fruit loop necklaces in their PJ’s and eating pizza. Thank you to parents Anne Solomon, Cami Greenberg, Susan Brooks, Kori Clark, and Julie Glazer for helping with the event. The preschool had THREE mitzvah projects this fall. Thank you to Jennifer Stackle, Stacy Simon, and Stacy Renert for organizing the Thanksgiving Basket Drive. Our efforts provided seven full Thanksgiving meals to homebound seniors. We also donated holiday gifts to the Jewish Family Services “Embrace a Family” project. Thank you to all the families who generously donated so these families could have a joyous holiday. Our final mitzvah project was to help provide toiletries for the Interfaith Shelter which Temple Solel hosted over the winter break. The annual Holiday Boutique Fundraiser was held on December 3, 2008. There was everything you could want from jewelry, purses, to jeans and more! All of the proceeds from this event go directly to the preschool to fund some fantastic activities and programs. Thank you to Kelley Berman for all her hard work organizing the event, and a big thanks also continued on next page 12 SCHOOL NEWS Talking About God Dear Parents: Last week, a parent called me and asked how we teach about God in the Religious School. She inquired because she and her daughter (who is in the school) do not believe in God. I asked her to explain to me her conception and then we each shared ideas about what God is or isn’t. We came to the conclusion that, before deciding whether or not we believe in God, we need to define our ideas about God. She realized that, if she and her daughter defined God differently, they may believe in God after all (or maybe not!!) We realized that maybe it is all about the words we use to describe God that are key to the discussion. The teachers and I spend a lot of time discussing God with our students. Most of that time (on the teacher’s part) is spent listening. That is because there are very few absolute facts that we can teach our children about God. Our job is to open the dialogue. Our job is to listen and to give the children ideas about God that have been presented by Jewish scholars. Children want to talk about God. Their sense of wonder and awe is great. Their feelings about the world and how it works are deep. They need a safe place to share their thoughts and feelings about God. That safe place is what we try to provide here at the Temple Solel School. We do not pretend to have all the answers, but we do feel comfortable to engage with the students as we all struggle together with our ideas about God. We do know what questions to ask to begin the dialogue. And that is our goal — to encourage dialogue. Everyone struggles with the idea of God, even if they say they do not believe in God. No one really knows what God is. Jewish scholars throughout the ages have had many different ways of thinking and writing about God. About the only things that all Jews (who do believe in God) agree upon are that God is One, God is not a person, and that God is invisible — everything else is up for grabs. Our ideas about God change as we grow and mature. There are some beliefs about God which we present to the students — not as answers or absolute truths, but as suggestions for the students to think about. We do not tell the students that they have to believe in these ideas about God. We say that these are some beliefs they may want to think about as they proceed through their lives. These beliefs include: – God is reflected in the beauty of nature and humanity. – God is an unseen yet omnipresent Force in the world. – God is Creator of the universe. – People are co-partners with God in the creation of a better world. – God grants people free will. We are responsible for our actions. – Some people believe that God does not cause everything that happens in the world. Some things are the result of sheer accident and others are caused by people exercising their freedom in a harmful way. – God is not a physical thing or being. God is intangible. God has no form. – God is a Power that makes things possible (such as the growth of a flower, the healing of a bruise). – God does not punish people. People suffer as a result of their actions or the actions of others, but natural laws operate without making moral judgments. – God provides resources of strength and faith for the victims of misfortune and resources of compassion for those around them, so that together they can go on living and building a life, in spite of what life brings them. Our hope, as teachers at the Temple School, is that the students feel safe to struggle with their beliefs about God when they are in our classrooms. We want to provide many different ways to think about God so that students will have a collection of ideas upon which to draw as they grow older. We do not have the answers, but we enjoy talking about the many ways to think about God with our students!! — Ellen Fox Preschool Parent Committee, continued goes out to the parents who helped on the day of the event and to all who patronized the event and supported our vendors. We would like to thank Becky Baird and the Hanukkah committee for their hard work organizing the children’s Hanukkah Performance. And thanks also to Tahlia Essman for donating her photographic talents and Daniel Baird for graphics and multimedia. The teachers and children worked very hard to put on a fabulous show, we hope you enjoyed watching them on stage! You can see that we have had a very busy year so far and there is much more fun to come! We need parent volunteers to make our events and projects successful. All are welcome to attend the parent committee meetings which are held the first Monday and Tuesday of each month in the coffee house right after drop off. We welcome your ideas and have volunteer opportunities for everyone. For more information contact Elaine Waldman at [email protected]. 13 circle of honor The Circle of Honor wishes to thank all of our congregants who have so generously and willingly taken it upon themselves to go above and beyond the standard Temple dues requirements by joining the Circle of Honor. We are pleased to acknowledge them here. BENEFITS Pillars … $15,000 • Temple Membership • 25 Tributes or Memorials per year into the General Fund • Recognition at High Holy Days • Membership in Men’s Club and/or Sisterhood • No fees for Religous School, Bar/Bat Mitzvah and Confirmation • 4 extra High Holy Day tickets for out-of-town family members • 2 tickets to Temple Solel’s annual major fundraiser CIRCLE OF HONOR Benefactors Patrons Benefactors … $9,600 • Temple Membership • 25 Tributes or Memorials per year into the General Fund • Recognition at High Holy Days • Membership in Men’s Club and/or Sisterhood • No fees for Religous School, Bar/Bat Mitzvah and Confirmation • 4 extra High Holy Day tickets for out-of-town family members • 2 tickets to Temple Solel’s annual major fundraiser Sponsors Patrons … $4,800 • Temple Membership • 20 Tributes or Memorials per year into the General Fund • Recognition at High Holy Days • Membership in Men’s Club and/or Sisterhood • 4 extra High Holy Day tickets for out-of-town family members • 2 tickets to Temple Solel annual major fundraiser Sponsors … $3,950 • Temple Membership • 15 Tributes or Memorials per year into the General Fund • Recognition at High Holy Days • 4 extra High Holy Day tickets for out-of-town family members • 2 tickets to Temple Solel’s annual major fundraiser Friends … $3,100 • Temple Membership • 10 Tributes/Memorials per year into the General Fund • Recognition at High Holy Days 14 Friends LEGACY CIRCLE Attention Jewish Music Lovers Klezmer and Yiddish “When I was born into this world, I found many carob trees planted by my father and grandfather. Just as they planted trees for me, I am planting trees for my children and grandchildren so they will be able to eat the fruit of these trees.” O ne of the many ways that members of our congregation have chosen to express their deep commitment to our community is by naming Temple Solel in their will, in their trust, in another planned charitable gift, or by making an endowment donation. This is a way to make a lasting contribution that continues your Jewish legacy in perpetuity. We wish to thank those generous donors and to acknowledge them as members of the Legacy Circle. If you have named Temple Solel in your will or trust, or if you have made another form of legacy gift to Temple Solel, we would like to acknowledge your generosity. Any amount of giving is greatly appreciated. Please call Robin Rubin at (760) 436-0654, and we will be glad to add your name to the membership list for the Legacy Circle. On Friday, January 16 at 7:30pm, Temple Solel’s Freilich Friday Kabbalat Shabbat Service will include a special program of Klezmer and Yiddish music featuring Cantor Kathy Robbins, Yochanan Sebastian Winston on flute and saxophone, Tom Laurence on keybopard and piano, Mark Shapiro on guitar, Duncan Moore on drums, Dave Curtis on bass, and Allen Phillips on percussion and keyboard. A Choral Shabbat Cantor Robbins, accompanist Tom Laurence and the Temple Solel Adult Choir will be heralding in a season of Jewish music with an eclectic repertoire of Choral Settings of the Erev Shabbat liturgy. Included in this Shabbat will be the premier of Judy Campbell’s Mizmor Shir. Would you like to be notified? If you would like to be notified of a death in the congregation of a member or a member’s loved one, please email your email address to Robin Rubin at [email protected]. We will be happy to add your name to an email notification list. If you have any questions, feel free to contact Robin or Hineynu Chair, Karin Bensusen at [email protected]. Moving? Don’t forget to send your new contact information, including new address, phone number and email address to: [email protected] 15 CONTRIBUTIONS THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS & SUPPORT You are invited to make a donation to Temple Solel as a means of sharing your joys and sorrows with your fellow congregants and at the same time help Temple Solel meet its funding needs. Our Clergy Our Programs Our Youth • Rabbi Frank’s Discretionary Fund • Rabbi Brown’s Discretionary Fund • Cantorial Music Fund • • • • • • Campership Fund • Early Childhood Center • Etanu (outreach to post high school children of members) • Rabbi Bohm Israel Scholarship Fund (assistance to teens traveling to Israel) • Rabbi Ted Riter College Scholarship Fund (college participation in Jewish programming) • Religious and Hebrew School • Sondra Ottenstein Memorial Fund (Religious School scholarships) • Youth Fund Our Temple • • • • Building Tributes General Temple Fund Prayerbook Fund Tree of Life Leaves ($250 small; $300 large) • Yahrzeit Plaques ($450 member; $650 non-member) OUR CLERGY Rabbi Frank’s Discretionary Fund Rabbi Brown’s Discretionary Fund Cantorial Music Fund 16 • • • • • Aaron Price Children’s Library Adult Education Alliger/Baron Memorial Speaker’s Fund Alpert Mendelson Library Chavurat Chesed (meals of condolence for mourners) Hineynu (assistance to Temple members in need) Israel Action Fund Social Action Fund Synaplex Tzedakah Fund (assistance to people in need) OUR PROGRAMS Aaron Price Children’s Library Hineynu Alliger/Baron Memorial Speaker’s Fund Social Action Fund Alpert Mendelson Library Chavurat Chesed Tzedakah Fund OUR TEMPLE General Temple Fund OUR YOUTH Early Childhood Center Religious And Hebrew School Rabbi Bohm Israel Scholarship Fund New Youth Van *Funds granted through the Jewish Community Foundation of San Diego. 17 MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE NEWS Announcing the Ambassador Program The Membership Committee is pleased to announce its new Ambassador Program. The Ambassador Program is designed to assist members and families with integrating into our temple community by pairing them with an Ambassador, or mentor, who can share their experiences and knowledge about Temple Solel. We are a thriving congregation of over 850 families with a very active service, program and event schedule. There are so many opportunities for spiritual, educational and social enrichment that members and families who are relatively new to the synagogue, or even those who have been members for several years, may not know where to start or to whom they should turn when they have questions. The Ambassador Program joins veteran temple members with individuals or families to help them get more from their temple membership. The ambassadors can share experiences at our synagogue with their paired member or family by attending Shabbat services and special events at the temple with them, or perhaps they can enjoy a meal together and just talk about all of the wonderful happenings at our temple. Each Ambassador will be a useful resource to members or families who would like to become better acquainted with their temple community. If you would like to learn more about the Ambassador Program, or to find out about becoming an Ambassador or to request to be paired with an Ambassador, please contact Membership Chair Kelley Berman at (760) 685-2848 or [email protected]. What is a Reform Zionist? ARZA (pronounced AHR-tzah) is a pretty clever name. It’s a Hebrew word meaning “toward the Land (of Israel),” and it’s also an acronym for the “Association of Reform Zionists of America.” ARZA is the national membership organization that connects Reform Jews with Israel. But what does the name mean? What is a Reform Zionist? Is it simply a Zionist who happens to be a Reform Jew but who otherwise is kind of like any other Zionist? Or is there something uniquely Reform about our Zionism? And while we’re at it, what’s a Zionist? A Zionist is a proponent of Zionism, a movement founded in the late 19th century to create a Jewish homeland in the land of Israel, then known as Palestine. But that goal of Zionism was fulfilled in May, 1948, with the declaration of Israel’s independence. Since then, most people understand Zionism as a movement that supports Israel and works to make Israel the best, most ideal Jewish state it can be. Reform Zionism is Zionism infused with the values and principles cherished by Reform Judaism, including religious equality for women and men, a commitment to tikkun olam (literally “world repair,” i.e., social justice), the creation by individuals of meaningful Jewish lives through informed choice, and so on. Some of those characteristics are shared by other forms of Zionism while others are unique to Reform Zionism. But within these fairly vague parameters, Reform Zionist thinkers don’t actually agree completely on the details of Reform Zionism. You can get a sense for the range of views by looking at “An Open Conversation About Reform Zionism” (go to www.reformzionism.net), a project initiated by ARZA in the spring of 2008. The website allows you to add your views about what being a Reform Zionist means. So give it some thought, and join the conversation! Get Involved in 2009 Add “Get more involved with Temple Solel” to your list of New Year’s resolutions. Enrich your life and make a difference in your temple community by becoming more involved at Temple Solel. Whether it’s attending a Freilich Friday Shabbat service, attending a Shabbat Synaplex committee meeting or spearheading a new event, let 2009 be the year you make the most out of your temple experience. Come to our next Committee Night on January, 20 at 7:00p.m. to find out what you can do to make a difference within our synagogue, in the local community or throughout the world. Help the Hineynu committee fulfill the mandate of tikkun olam by preparing a meal for an ill or disabled congregant. Experience Passover in the Desert, April 10 –12, 2009 in Borrego Springs with your Temple Solel family. The possibilities for spiritual, educational and social fulfillment are endless at Temple Solel. For more information about how you can get involved, please contact Membership Chair Kelley Berman at [email protected] or (760) 685-2848. And checkout www.templesolel.net for the most current schedule of services, events and programs at Temple Solel. 18 2009 MAH JONGG CARD ORDER FORM Deadline to place card orders is January 31, 2009 Name _______________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________ City ___________________ State _____ Zip _____________ Phone ______________________________________________ Email _______________________________________________ _____ Standard cards @ $7/each = $ ________ _____ Large print cards @ $8/each = $ ________ Total Enclosed: $__________ $1 from each card ordered will be donated to the Temple Solel Sisterhood. Cards will be mailed directly to your home around Passover. For more information, contact Denise Ross at (760) 436-0654. Make checks payable to Temple Solel. Mail to: 3575 Manchester Avenue, Cardiff by the Sea, CA 92007. GARDEN OF GIVING “Just as you came and found trees planted by others, so you must plant for your children” F rom this central message, a circular pathway of granite tiles and pavers inscribed with the names of our children, families and loved ones permanently reside. The Temple Solel Garden, designed by artist Laurie Gross is an extension of our Sanctuary design of the glass shards bursting forth upon creation. The center of our garden features a circular arc vibrating out to its core edges — signifying “Solel” and our pathway to Torah and holiness. The Garden of Giving presents opportunities at all levels with commemorative tile pavers. We invite you to consider how you and your family can make your mark on Temple Solel’s future. Your gift will ensure that the legacy, which has been gifted to us, will be carried forward to future generations. Just as our ancestors built for us, now it is our turn. The following paver inscriptions were recently ordered for installation in the Garden of Giving: In Honor of Desmond, Tristan & Isabelle de Burgh 2008 In Honor Of Geoffrey David Tamayo’s Bar Mitzvah August 30, 2008 GARDEN OF GIVING Commemorative Pavers and Individual Bricks Name ________________________________________________________ Address _______________________________________________________ City _________________________________ Zip _____________________ Contact phone ___________________________________________________ E-mail ________________________________________________________ ❑ $25,000. . . . Large, crescent-shaped granite paver, encircling the central quote (20 word inscription) ❑ $10,000. . . . Large, scalloped-shaped granite paver, emanating from the central quote (15 word inscription) ❑ $5,000. . . . . Rectangle granite paver, framing the core aperture design (15 word inscription) ❑ $1,000. . . . . Diagonal granite paver, on the pathway to the Garden’s four benches (9 word inscription) ❑ $360 . . . . . . Rectangular pavers outlining the entire garden (9 word inscription) ❑ $180 . . . . . . Square pavers encasing area of reflection (2 word inscription) Signature______________________________________ Date_____________ Please print your inscription clearly ______________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ For more information, please contact Robin Rubin in the Temple office so you and your family can participate in this on-going project. 19 Synaplex Needs Sponsors Temple Solel has been privileged to offer Synaplex to our congregation and community the past three years. But to continue offering excellent Synaplex programs filled with education, guest speakers, musicians and variety, we need your help. Please consider sponsorship of one or more of the programs offered at Synaplex. If you are able to sponsor a program, please write Synaplex Sponsorship on the memo line of your donation check. Thank you in advance for your support! Sponsor Child Care - $75 Sponsor the Oneg at Synaplex - $100 Sponsor Wine & Cheese at Synaplex - $150 Subsidize meals: Help subsidize meals to continue to make them affordable for our families - $250 • Sponsor Music in the Beit Café - $300 • Expand the power of Synaplex by underwriting a guest speaker - $750 • Sponsor One Complete Shabbat Synaplex - $1500 PATHFINDER AD COSTS: PATHFINDER SUBMISSION POLICIES AND INFORMATION: Business Cards (3 5⁄8” x 21⁄4”) 1. No prices printed in ads. $350 annually/paid in full annually 2. Deadline is the 5th of the month prior to each issue. (Next deadline is February 5th for the March/April ‘Pathfinder.’) Quarter Page (3 5⁄8” x 4 3⁄4” OR 7 1⁄2” x 2 1⁄4”) $850 annually/paid in full annually 3. Send your ad electronically in a ‘tif’ or ‘jpeg’ format to [email protected]. Half Page (7 1⁄2” x 4 1⁄2”) 4. For further information, please call Robin Rubin at (760) 436-0654. For ad or content questions contact email: [email protected] $1,700 annually/paid in full semi-annually or annually 20 • • • • *Circulation is 1,200 issues. 21 22 23 Your Ad Here 24 25 JANUARY 19 • 23 TEVET Temple Offices & Schools Closed in observance of Martin Luther King, Jr. Birthday JANUARY 26 • 1 SHEVAT 9:00am Bridge w/Harvey JANUARY 18 • 22 TEVET 8:45am Religious School – I 9:00am Breakfast w/ the Rabbi 10:30am Brotherhood Football 10:45am Jr. Choir Rehearsal 11:15am Religious School – II JANUARY 25 • 29 TEVET AJE Limmud 11:15am 8:45am 9:00am J ANUARY 11 • 15 TEVET TUESDAY JANUARY 27 • 2 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan JANUARY 20 • 24 TEVET 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 6:30pm Board Meeting 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan 7:30pm Committee Night JANUARY 13 • 17 TEVET 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan JANUARY 5 • 9 TEVET JANUARY 6 • 10 TEVET 9:00am ECC Parent Committee 9:00am ECC Parent Committee Meeting Meeting 9:00am Bridge w/Harvey 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan MONDAY JANUARY 12 • 16 TEVET Bridge w/Harvey Religious School – I 9:00am Brotherhood Breakfast w/ Guest Speaker: Sandy Lakoff Religious School – II JANUARY 4 • 8 TEVET SUNDAY JANUARY 28 • 3 SHEVAT 1:00pm Daytime Book Club 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. 6:30pm Intro. to Judaism 7:00pm Adult Choir JANUARY 21 • 25 TEVET 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. 6:30pm Intro. to Judaism 7:00pm Adult Choir 7:30pm Evening Book Club JANUARY 14 • 18 TEVET 4:00pm Heb. School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. 6:30pm Intro. to Judaism 7:00pm Choir Committee Mtg 7:30pm Evening Book Club JANUARY 7 • 11 TEVET 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 6:30pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm 7th–12th grade parents program 7:00pm Sisterhood Nutrition WEDNESDAY JANUARY 16 • 20 TEVET 7:30pm Freilich Friday JANUARY 15 • 19 TEVET 4:00pm 7th Grade Religious School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation JANUARY 29 • 4 SHEVAT 4:00pm 7th Grade Religious School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation JANUARY 30 • 5 SHEVAT 7:30pm Erev Shabbat Service w/Adult Choir 6:00pm 7:00pm 11:00am 4:00pm 4:30pm JANUARY 23 • 27 TEVET JANUARY 22 • 26 TEVET Dor L’Dor 7th Grade Religious School Pre-Confirmation JANUARY 17 • 21 TEVET 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Bar Mitzvah of Nigel Gross, son of Albert & Cosette Gross JANUARY 10 • 14 TEVET 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Bat Mitzvah of Abby Novack, daughter of Jeff & Sandra Novack JANUARY 3 • 7 TEVET Interfaith Rotational Shelter 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Bar Mitzvah of Ari Cohen, son of Brett & Rachelle Cohen SATURDAY JANUARY 31 • 6 SHEVAT 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ B’nai Mitzvah of Greg Berg, son of Steven and Amy Berg and Casey Rubenfeld, daughter of Gloria Rubenfeld JANUARY 24 • 28 TEVET 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Erev Shabbat Service Bat Mitzvah of Annie Goodstein, daughter of Community and Glenn and Laura Goodstein Comfort Food ECC Family Havdalah Shabbat Experience 4:00pm w/Craig Parks JANUARY 9 • 13 TEVET 7:00pm Erev Shabbat Synaplex Service w/ Guest Singer and Songwriter: Julie Silver JANUARY 2 • 6 TEVET Interfaith Rotational Shelter Erev Shabbat Family Service w/Birthday Blessings FRIDAY JANUARY 8 • 12 TEVET 4:00pm 7th Grade Religious School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation 7:00pm Hineynu Callers Training w/ Rabbi Brown JANUARY 1 • 5 TEVET Interfaith Rotational Shelter Temple Solel Offices & Schools Closed THURSDAY J A N UA RY 2 0 0 9 • T E V E T / S H E VAT 5 7 6 9 FEBRUARY 5 • 11 SHEVAT 4:00pm 7th Grade Religious School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation FEBRUARY 6 • 12 SHEVAT URJ Regional Biennial 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Synaplex Service FRIDAY FEBRUARY 7 • 13 SHEVAT URJ Regional Biennial 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Bat Mitzvah of Jacqueline Weiner, daughter of Jeffrey and Debby Weiner SATURDAY FEBRUARY 22 • 28 SHEVAT 8:45am Religious School – I 9:00am Study with the Rabbi 10:45am Jr Choir Rehearsal 11:15am Religious School – II FEBRUARY 23 • 29 SHEVAT 9:00am Bridge w/Harvey FEBRUARY 24 • 30 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan FEBRUARY 18 • 24 SHEVAT Hebrew School & HOP Kabbalat Mitzvah 10th Gr. Confirm. Intro. to Judaism Evening Book Club FEBRUARY 25 • 1 ADAR 1:00pm Daytime Book Club 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. 4:00pm 4:30pm 6:30pm 7:30pm 4:00pm FEBRUARY 26 • 2 ADAR 11:00am Dor L’Dor 4:00pm 7th Grade Religious School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation FEBRUARY 27 • 3 ADAR 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Service FEBRUARY 28 • 4 ADAR 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ B’not Mitzvah of Lindsay Kroner, daughter of Richard and Deborah Kroner and Brooke Levin, daughter of Marc Levin and Carrie Greenstein FEBRUARY 19 • 25 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 20 • 26 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 21 • 27 SHEVAT 4:00pm 7th Grade 11am ECC Grandparents 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ Religious School Shabbat B’nai Mitzvah of 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Service Ethan Cohen, son of Jackie and Jordan Cohen and Rachel Greenstein, daughter of Jim FEBRUARY 4 • 10 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. 6:30pm Intro. to Judaism THURSDAY FEBRUARY 15 • 21 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 16 • 22 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 17 • 23 SHEVAT President’s Day – Temple Solel 4:00pm Hebrew School Offices & Schools Closed & HOP 6:30pm Board Meeting 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan FEBRUARY 9 • 15 SHEVAT 9:00am Bridge w/Harvey FEBRUARY 8 • 14 SHEVAT URJ Regional Biennial 8:45am Religious School w/Mishpachah – Session I 10:45am Jr Choir Rehearsal 11:15am Religious School – II FEBRUARY 3 • 9 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 11 • 17 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 12 • 18 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 13 • 19 SHEVAT FEBRUARY 14 • 20 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School 4:30pm Pre-Confirmation 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Service 10:00am Shabbat Service w/ & HOP Bat Mitzvah of 4:00pm Kabbalat Mitzvah Jacqueline Thomas, 4:30pm 10th Gr. Confirm. daughter of 6:30pm Intro. to Judaism Oran and Deborah Thomas 7:00pm Choir Committee 7:00pm Havdalah Nights Meeting Dinner Event FEBRUARY 2 • 8 SHEVAT 9:00am Bridge w/Harvey FEBRUARY 1 • 7 SHEVAT 8:45am Religious School – I 9:00am Mussar Class 10:45am Jr Choir Rehearsal 11:15am Religious School – II 2:00pm Brotherhood Super Bowl Party TUESDAY FEBRUARY 10 • 16 SHEVAT 4:00pm Hebrew School & HOP 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah 7:00pm AJE Ulpan 7:30pm Library Committee Meeting MONDAY SUNDAY F E BR UA RY 2 0 0 9 • S H E VAT / A D A R 5 7 6 9 Community & Comfort food Shabbat Experience EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Sheri Sachs President Debby Buchholz Vice President Jamie Rodin Vice President Dr. Rob Weisgrau Vice President Margaret Bradbury Corporate Secretary Ed Thomas Treasurer Michael Felzer Past President BOARD OF DIRECTORS Dr. Chris Bengs Miriam Lieber Karin Bensusen Elyse Matson Kelley Berman Eric Matson Linda Lederer-Bernstein Linda Shoob-Rosenberg Micha Danzig Tia Shafran Marti Eisenberg Robyn Spiegel Ross Epstein Robert Stein Robyn Goldberg Corinna Vanetsky Stephen Lash Elaine Waldman Come together for a unique community Shabbat experience. Immediately following our 6:00p.m. Erev Shabbat Service on Friday, January 23, gather with your temple community in the Social Hall to enjoy good company and comfort food, including scrumptious macaroni & cheese, hearty tomato soup, salad and of course delicious dessert and beverages. Cost: $12.50 for adults, $6.00 for children 12 years and under This event is provided for our community, by our community, so please select from the following: ❑ I/we _______________________________ will help with set-up from 6:00-7:00 p.m. on Thursday, Jan. 22. ❑ _______________________________ will help with service during dinner. ❑ _______________________________ will help with clean-up from 8:30–9:00p.m. after dinner. ❑ _______________________________ can’t wait to enjoy this unique experience. ❑ _______________________________ are not able to attend, but Ruth Levor would like to make a donation of _______. For more information contact Membership Chair, Kelley Berman, at (760) 685-2848 or [email protected]. 3575 Manchester Ave. Cardiff by the Sea CA 92007 STAFF David M. Frank Senior Rabbi Jeff Brown Associate Rabbi Kathy Robbins Cantor Robin S. Rubin Executive Director Ellen Fox School Director Cathy Goldberg ECC Director Susan Jones Controller Craig Parks Youth Programming Director Judy Bricker Adult Programming Director Non Profit Org. U.S. Postage PAID Encinitas, CA Permit No. 147