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NEWS LINK Project of Community Link, Inc. GAY, LESBIAN, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY SERVICE ORGANIZATION March 16, 2012 Issue VII, Volume XVII, Number 199 FREE monthly GLBT publication * Since 1995 * www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Expression Not Suppression (ENS) ENS is a free, annual conference in Fresno hosted by GSA Network and Community Link. ENS is open to middle and high school students, teachers, and GSA advisors, as well as the larger community. The ENS conference is a chance for LGBTQ and straight ally youth to network and enjoy free workshops on activism and topics related to queer life and safe schools. Workshops are divided into two tracks: Fresno Black Pride Pageant Black Pride is a slogan used in the US to convey feelings of self respect and pride among the African American community. Black pride is a national movement that is closely linked to the American Civil Rights Movement, the Harlem Renaissance, and the Congress of Racial Equality during the 1960s and 1970s. Piggybacking on the name of the black pride movement, many black gay pride movements and events are also popping up in many of the same cities: in New York City and Baltimore, DC and Miami, Atlanta, Orlando, and LA. Black gay pride movements have the same goal as the original black pride movements, to promote feelings of self respect and pride within the black gay pride community. And the Winner is... This is the winning Fresno Rainbow Pride Logo. The voting was close with only a 8 vote difference. Congrats to Binx. who designed the winning logo! For more Pride News see page 4. Youth and Adult. If you are an adult ally and want to learn more about how to support Central Valley LGBTQ youth, this is the place for you. Join us at Big Red Church of Fresno for this free one day youth conference with workshops, a key note speaker, resource fair, with free breakfast, lunch, dinner and youth dance. Saturday, March 24th, 9am - 9pm at First Congregational Church, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd, Fresno. Registration: www.gsanetwork.org/ens More recently, black pride movements have sprung up across the country, in a revitalized attempt at racial equality. From east coast metropolises like New York, Baltimore, Washington, D.C, Miami, to the southern states of Atlanta (ATL) and the Carolinas, all the way to Los Angeles (LA) the black pride movement is seeing increased interest again. And now in Fresno! Presenting a Black Beauty Pageant with titles for Mr./Men, Ms./Women and Miss/ Drag/Transgender on Saturday, April 14th. Your emcee: Regina Styles. Special guest: Miss Gay Black San Diego 2001, Jasmine Masters. $20 contestant fee. Tickets $15 pre-sale (call Chantal 559-430-9452), $20 at the door. Doors open at 6pm, dinner at 6pm, pageant at 7:30pm at the Circle, 2777 N Maroa Ave, Fresno, CA. www.CommunityLinkFresno.com A Response to Mike Rhodes By Dan Waterhouse I'd like to thank Mike Rhodes for his letter responding to a recent column. After the column ran, Mike finally publicly revealed what his (and others) alternative to what the City is doing about the homeless is. It's filled with all sorts of ideas (some good), and the shame is that likely none of it will ever be implemented due to lack of feasibility, money or public opposition. Mike admits councilmember Oliver Baines withdrew his support due to the ACLU of Northern California's threats to sue the City over recent encampment cleanups. Without Baines' support I believe it's doubtful a legal encampment proposal will ever get as far as a vote of the City Council. The “progressive advocates” plan calls for three phases. The first phase would establish encampments at existing sites, with some infrastructure. These campsites would be self-governing and not overseen by any social service agency or government entity. They would be provided with drinking water, portable toilets and trash pickup, paid for by the city, the county, community groups, churches and/or individuals. These campsites would be located throughout the city and would house no more than 100 residents each. The idea is that homeless people live throughout the community, and the intention is to equitably distribute the encampments throughout the city as much as possible. Possible campsites include vacant lots, churches, parks and unused government property. The residents of historic Huntington Boulevard will be interested to know that one of the “unused government” buildings advocates would like to see used as a campsite and/or a large 24/7 homeless shelter is the University Medical Center complex at Cedar and Kings Canyon Road, adjacent to the easterly end of the neighborhood and south of Roosevelt High School. The second phase would relocate NewsLink PICK “NEWS LINK” UP AT: 2 FRESNO Brass Unicorn; Center for NonViolence; College Community Congregational Church; Echo Street Cafe; The Express; First Congregational Church; Fresno Video Exchange; Freso LGBT Center / Gay Central Valley office; Gazebo Gardens; Holy Family Episcopal Church; KAOS Headquarters; Living Room @ West Care; The North Tower Circle; Rasputin Music; The Red Lantern; Revue Coffee House; Tacos Marquitos; Unitarian Universalist Church; Wesley United Methodist Church; Women’s Resource Center @ CSUFresno; Wildcat Enterprises; Yoshi Now! BAKERSFIELD AIDS Project; MCC of the Harvest; Casablanca; The Mint; Wildcat; Gay & Lesbian Center of the encampments in hopefully a few months. The new camps would be located on church or private property. In the third and final phase, “homeless advocates would identify location(s) suitable for the development of permanent self-sustaining communities that are being designed by architect Arthur Dyson and the nonprofit organization Eco-Village. At a location agreeable to the residents and the jurisdictions, an Eco-Village will be planned for phased development. Residents who will work on the site will establish a temporary camp onsite. Through sweat equity and volunteer labor, the shared facilities (e.g., bathrooms, kitchen, community space) and individual dwellings will be built and occupied by the residents. The work will be guided by tradespersons and trained professionals. “Alternatively, the city or county may designate an existing unused public facility that it desires to convert for use as shelter. As with the Eco-Village, a temporary camp will be located onsite and homeless individuals will work on the adaptation of the facility for shelter. In turn, they will gain skills and earn equity in the final product. “Additional suggestions include a true 24/7 emergency shelter for up to 30 days, following acquiring federal funding for emergency shelter and services, and the development of transitional housing for up to two years. We also support permanent housing using existing and foreclosed homes in Fresno and the new affordable housing being developed as part of Housing First.” If Mike found some of my comments harsh, I wonder what he made of George Hosteller's commentary recently on a Fresno Bee blog. I quote: “a coordinated effort is afoot to de-legitimize every attempt by City Hall and legions of virtuous community citizens to help the homeless. The end-game of this effort can only be to destabilize local government.” I have to question the motives of those who seem to be using the homeless as pawns in some “the 99% versus the 1%” game, and who refer to those working with the homeless on a daily basis as “poverty pimps.” I too believe the homeless should be treated with dignity and respect. A plan that stands a snowball's chance in a warm place of ever being implemented is as cruel to the homeless as what advocates claim the City of Fresno has done. Bakersfield. GOSHEN Wild Willy’s VISALIA Visalia Pride Lions Club meetings and PFLAG meetings. MODESTO Brave Bull; College Avenue Congreg. Church; Haven Women’s Center; Queen Bean; Stanislaus County Assistance Project; Tiki Lounge; Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Stanislaus County. STOCKTON Club Paradise; Delta College Pride Center; Peace & Justice Center; San Joaquin AIDS Foundation; San Joaquin County Public Health Services; San Joaquin Pride Center; University of Pacific Pride Center; Valley Ministries MCC. If you’d like to help us with distribution in Hanford, Visalia, Merced / Atwater / Turlock, or Oakhurst - email NEWSLNK!aol.com FRESNO GLBT+ EVENT CALENDAR MARCH 16 Friday 5p “It's A Queer Thang” Radio Show - KFCF 88.1 FM www.communitylinkfresno.com and www.kfcf.org 16 Friday 5:30p Creative workshop & Potluck @ Fresno LGBT Center 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A, (559) 325-4429, fresnolgbtcenter.org 16 Friday 6p Men's Mixer @ Bella Pasta, 7033 N. Cedar Ave www.sunapsis.org/lgbt/mixer 16 Friday 6:30p Mariposa Azul - Meeting @ call Gaby for location (559) 266-5650 (Spanish), mariposa-azul-fresno.com 16 Friday 9p The Lair - Fetish Night @ the North Tower Circle 2777 N Maroa, northtowercircle.com 16 Friday 10p Meatball Magic @ the Red Lantern 4618 E Belmont, www.redlantern.info 17 Saturday 1p myLGBTplus - Movie Day: “Camp” @ Fresno LGBT Center, 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A (559) 325-4429, mylgbtplus.com 17 Saturday 5:30p St. Patrick's Day Dinner & Party @ the Red Lantern 4618 E Belmont, www.redlantern.info 17 Saturday 9p St. Patty's Fiesta Club Papi Style @ the Express 708 N Blackstone Ave, thefresnoexpress.com 17 Saturday St. Patrick's Day Party @ The Phoenix 4538 E Belmont Ave, www.fresnophoenix.com 17 Saturday Imperial Dove Court - St. Patrick's Day Show @ the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa, www.idcfresno.org 17 Saturday St. Patrick's Day Party @ Club Legends 3075 N Maroa Ave, www.fresnoclublegends.com 17 Saturday The Group In Fresno - Members & Guests' St. Patrick's Day Party, www.tgifresno.org 18 Sunday 10a Community Link - Board Meeting @ private residence Jeff (559) 486-3464, communitylinkfresno.com 18 Sunday 6p Wesley Celebration GLBTQ service @ Wesley United Methodist Church, John Wesley Hall, 1343 E. Barstow Ave, wesleyfresno.org 19 Monday 6:30p Yosemite Knights - Meeting & Dinner @ Carrows 4280 N Blackstone Ave, www.kofmfresno.com 20 Tuesday 6p We C.A.R.E. - English Support Group @ Community Regional Medical Center Sequoia Room E or W, 2823 Fresno St. First-time attendees please call (559) 577-7109, wecarefresno.org 21 Wed. 6:30p Golden State Bears - Dinner Night www.goldenstatebears.org 22 Thursday 10p The Xotica Show - 8th Year Anniversary @ the Express 708 N Blackstone Ave, xotica.net 24 Saturday 10a-2p LGBT Health Fair @ Fresno LGBT Center's parking lot 1055 N Van Ness Ave, www.fresnolgbtcenter.org 24 Saturday 9p 9th Year Anniverary Party @ the Express 708 N Blackstone Ave, thefresnoexpress.com 24 Saturday Esme's VarieTEASE @ the North Tower Circle 2777 N Maroa, northtowercircle.com 25 Sunday 9a-9p Expression Not Suppression 2012 Youth Conference @ First Congregational Church, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd www.gsanetwork.org/ens/ 25 Sunday 11a Golden State Bears - Brunch www.goldenstatebears.org 25 Sunday 2p Community Link's Gray Alliance - Games & Snacks @ First Congregational Church, Fireside Rm, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd Jerry (559) 261-9080, communitylinkfresno.com 25 Sunday 9p Mariposa Azul - Divas Night @ Los Amigos, 1752 W. Shaw Ave, mariposa-azul-fresno.com 25 Sunday A Night of a Rising Star featuring the Centerfolds @ Club Legends, 3075 N Maroa Ave, fresnoclublegends.com 26 Monday 2p We C.A.R.E. - Grupo Educativo En Espanol @ Specialty Health Clinic, 290 N Wyate Ln, (559) 459-5101, wecarefresno.org 28 Wed. 9a Project: MALE - HIV Think Tank @ 1584 N Van Ness Ave, (559) 287-7666 29 Thursday 7p The Group In Fresno - Munch www.tgifresno.org 30 Friday 9p Imperial Dove Court - Last Friday ICP Show @ the Red Lantern, 4618 E. Belmont, www.idcfresno.org 31 Saturday 7p Imperial Dove Court - The ICP Ball @ IDC Club House 4030 E Belmont Ave, idcfresno.org 31 Saturday 9p Femz N Studz - Drag King Contest @ the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa Ave, www.femznstudz.com APRIL 1 Sunday 6p Wesley Celebration GLBTQ service @ Wesley United Methodist Church, John Wesley Hall, 1343 E. Barstow Ave, wesleyfresno.org 2 Monday 7p Imperial Dove Court - Meeting @ the IDC Club House 4030 E. Belmont, www.idcfresno.org 3 Tuesday 6p We C.A.R.E. - English Support Group @ Community Regional Medical Center Sequoia Room E or W, 2823 Fresno St. First-time attendees please call (559) 577-7109, wecarefresno.org 5 Thursday 6:30p Community Link's Queer Volley Ball begins @ Quigley Park, Dakota & Teilman, communitylinkfresno.com 5 Thursday 7-8p Women's Coming Out Social & Support Group @ Fresno LGBT Community Center, 1055 N. Van Ness Ave, suite A, fresnolgbtcenter.org 5 Thursday 7p Another Voice Bible Study - LGBTQII Bible Discussion @ First Congregational Church, Fireside Room, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd, bigredchurch.org 6 Friday 6p Men's Mixer @ TBA www.sunapsis.org/lgbt/mixer continued on page 3 Advertising Rates Once (One Month) For Each Ad Business card.......................$15. 1/8 page Ad..........................$30. 1/4 page Ad..........................$60. 1/2 page Ad........................$120. Full page Ad.......................$240. 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Box 4959, Fresno, Ca. 93744 News Link's E-Mail Address: [email protected] Community Link's E-Mail Address:[email protected] By phone: (559) 486-3464 continued from page 2 6 Friday 6:30p Mariposa Azul - Meeting @ call Gaby for location (559) 266-5650 (Spanish), mariposa-azul-fresno.com 6 Friday 7p Trans-e-motion - Social Meeting @ Ming's, 1414 N Van Ness Ave, (559) 646-5806, trans-e-motion.org 7 Saturday 12-4p Board Game Day @ Fresno LGBT Community Center 1055 N. Van Ness Ave, suite A, fresnolgbtcenter.org 7 Saturday 5p Trans-e-motion - Support Meeting @ call for location (559) 646-5806, trans-e-motion.org 7 Saturday 8p Golden State Bears - Rodeo Round Up & Beer Bust @ The Phoenix, 4538 E Belmont, goldenstatebears.org 8 Sunday 1p Golden State Bears - Meeting www.goldenstatebears.org 8 Sunday 2p PFLAG - Meeting @ Wesley United Methodist Church 1343 E. Barstow Ave, www.pflag.org, (559) 434-6540 8 Sunday 6:30p Imperial Dove Court - 2nd Sunday ICP Show @ the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa Ave., northtowercircle.com 11 Wed. 9a Project: MALE - HIV Think Tank @ 1584 N Van Ness Ave, (559) 287-7666 11 Wed. 6p Community Link's Gray Alliance - Dinner Night Jerry (559) 261-9080, communitylinkfresno.com 11 Wed. 6p Stonewall Democrats - Dinner & Meeting @ Carrows 4280 N. Blackstone Ave, www.fresnostonewall.com 11 Wed. Titanic Night @ The Phoenix 4538 E. Belmont Ave, fresnophoenix.com 12 Thursday 6p We C.A.R.E. - Member Meeting @ Community Regional Med. Center Pacifica Rm, 2823 Fresno St, wecarefresno.org 12 Thursday 7-9p Coming Out Support & Social Group @ Fresno LGBT Community Center, 1055 N. Van Ness Ave, suite A, fresnolgbtcenter.org 13 Friday 6:30p Golden State Bears - Game & Movie Night www.goldenstatebears.org 13 Friday Fresno LGBTQ Social Group www.gayfresno.com/social/ 14 Saturday 6p Mr., Miss and Ms. Black Pride contest @ the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa Ave, Chantal 559-430-9452 15 Sunday 2p Community Link's Fresno Rainbow Bowling League Season End Lunch & Award Party @ private residence, Rich (559) 824-1417, www.communitylinkfresno.com 15 Sunday 6p Wesley Celebration GLBTQ service @ Wesley United Methodist Church, John Wesley Hall, 1343 E. Barstow Ave, wesleyfresno.org 16 Monday 6:30p Yosemite Knights - Meeting & Dinner @ Carrows 4280 N Blackstone Ave, www.kofmfresno.com 17 Tuesday 6p We C.A.R.E. - English Support Group @ Community Regional Medical Center Sequoia Room E or W, 2823 Fresno St. First-time attendees please call (559) 577-7109, wecarefresno.org 18 Wed. 6:30p Golden State Bears - Dinner Night www.goldenstatebears.org 19 Thursday 6p Strings & Things @ Fresno LGBT Center 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A, (559) 325-4429, fresnolgbtcenter.org 19 Thursday 7p Another Voice Bible Study - LGBTQII Bible Discussion @ First Congregational Church, Fireside Room, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd, bigredchurch.org 20 Friday 5p “It's A Queer Thang” Radio Show - KFCF 88.1 FM www.communitylinkfresno.com and www.kfcf.org 20 Friday 5:30p Creative workshop & Potluck @ Fresno LGBT Center 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A, (559) 325-4429, fresnolgbtcenter.org 20 Friday 6p Men's Mixer @ TBA www.sunapsis.org/lgbt/mixer 20 Friday 6:30p Mariposa Azul - Meeting @ call for location Gaby (559) 266-5650 (Spanish), mariposa-azul-fresno.com 20 Friday 8p The Group In Fresno - Beverage Bust @ The Phoenix 4538 E Belmont Ave, www.tgifresno.org 20 Friday 9p The Lair - Fetish Night @ the North Tower Circle 2777 N Maroa, northtowercircle.com 20 Friday 10p Meatball Magic @ the Red Lantern 4618 E Belmont, www.redlantern.info 21 Saturday 7p Fresno Rainbow Pride 2012 Fundraiser: “It's On For Pride” @ the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa, fresnorainbowpride.com 25 Wed. 9a Project: MALE - HIV Think Tank @ 1584 N Van Ness Ave, (559) 287-7666 26 Thursday 2p We C.A.R.E. - Grupo Educativo En Espanol @ Specialty Health Clinic, 290 N Wyate Ln, (559) 459-5101, wecarefresno.org 26 Thursday 7p The Group In Fresno - Munch www.tgifresno.org 27 Friday 9p Imperial Dove Court - Last Friday ICP Show @ the Red Lantern, 4618 E. Belmont, www.idcfresno.org 28 Saturday 7p Golden State Bears - Burlesque Bearded Beauties III @ The Phoenix, 4538 E Belmont, goldenstatebears.org 28 Saturday Esme's VarieTEASE @ the North Tower Circle 2777 N Maroa, northtowercircle.com 28 Saturday Carmen Carrera @ the Express 708 N Blackstone Ave, thefresnoexpress.com 29 Sunday 11a Golden State Bears - Brunch www.goldenstatebears.org 29 Sunday 2p Community Link's Gray Alliance - Games & Snacks @ First Congregational Church, Fireside Rm, 2131 N Van Ness Blvd Jerry (559) 261-9080, communitylinkfresno.com 29 Sunday 9p Mariposa Azul - Divas Night @ Los Amigos, 1752 W. Shaw Ave, mariposa-azul-fresno.com 29 Sunday A Night of a Rising Star featuring the Centerfolds @ Club Legends, 3075 N Maroa Ave, fresnoclublegends.com 3 www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Fresno Rainbow Pride News Got any Thoughts? Fresno Rainbow Pride is roughly 3 months away. Plans are being laid out, but there is still time to bring your ideas to the table. Meetings are Wednesdays on 03/21, then weekly from April 4th -May30th at 6:30pm at JJ Duke’s restaurant in Cedar Lanes. It Takes a Bundle It takes a load of dough to put on the Pride Celebration. Give or take a few thousand dollars, the event costs between $40 and $50 thousand dollars. Here is the short list of some of our cost: City permits, insurance, security, fencing, staging, port-a-potties, canopies, generators, trash, street clean up, barricades, safety and traffic plans, and police services for crowd control at the Parade. These are some of the big costs, but there are numerous other budgetary items that add to the cost of putting on the Fresno Rainbow Pride Celebration. The Truth is... NewsLink Community Link has been a very responsible care taker of the Pride event. We have no paid staff, no property rent fees, and a sense that we will not bankrupt the community or our organization. National surveys and reports are clear that charitable giving is down across the board. Mainstream organi- 4 zations like American Red Cross and hospitals have seen a 23% reduction in donations. GLBT organizations and charities have seen even steeper cuts in charitable giving. The economy may or may not be in recovery, but the Central Valley economy remains depressed. Last year we did not break even on the Pride Parade & Festival due to two factors. 1, we were down by over $4,000 on fundraising and business sponsorships. 2. It rained and our decision to open the gates for free cost us another $5,000 from the admissions we normally raise. So the truth is we are hurting, and there are few costs we can reduce or eliminate, In the end Fresno Rainbow Pride serves the community financially. The business in the Tower and our locally owned Gay business see a huge increase in sales. But even more important is the psychological effects the parade and festival have on our community. We live in a difficult area to be our selves and to feel or be safe. It builds pride and recharges all of our batteries. So we need bodies, ideas, and cash...will you help? Grand Marshals selected Fresno Rainbow Pride has selected this year’s grand marshals for the parade. They are : - DJ Binx - Justin Kamimoto - Chantal/Victor - Veronica Salmeron & the Fresno County LGBTQ Task force - Jugde Gottlieb, Brian Bishop, and the SHARE Video committee Please Support our Funraising Efforts We have two “fun”-raising events planned and on the books! The first is ‘It’s On For Pride” Drag show hosted by Horchata Fresca at the North Tower Circle on Saturday, April 21st. Doors at 7pm Show at 9pm. $5 donation per person. Our other one is Dine for Pride at Tacos Marquitos all day on Friday May 25th, Javier, the wonderful owner is donating 20% of his sales for the day. They serve breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Take the “Pride Challenge”: Do all three! IDC Talent Show The IDC took over the TALENT SHOW that was once CCA’s. The SHOW, traditionally held at Roger Rocca's Music Hall and Diner Theater, was moved the North Tower Circle. The event was FREE to the public. Some decadent chocolate desserts were provided. Very special thanks to Virgil Wigley who provided the venue and to James for opening up the bar on his day off. Video of the first public performance of the re-born Fresno Gay Mens Chorus can be found at http://www.rachelbowman.com/Activ ities.html. See pictures of the Talent Show on page 15 Burlesque Bearded Beauties III The “III” above can refer to either “#3” or “ay, ay, ay!” - and you'll be saying that a lot during the Golden State Bears' third occasional Camp Drag Show. This edition is subtitled “Truck-driving, flannel-wearing, Harley-riding, cigar-chomping, finger-licking, never-shaving!” and the performers expect to make fun of our “drag queen sisters” and “lesbian brothers”! If you've seen the previous two BBB shows, you know you've never seen drag this bad - on purpose! Saturday, April 28th at The Phoenix, 4538 E. Belmont Ave, Fresno. Dinner starts at 7pm, “sideshow” at 9pm. Tickets are $10 and include Dinner (pasta, meatballs, salad, bread), Show and Beer Bust (which means Happy Hour prices till closing!) Pre-purchase tickets at The Phoenix or at goldenstatebears.org (a limited number of show-only tickets may be sold at the door)! Before the drag show, the club is holding two more fundraising events: first is a Sunday Brunch on March 25th at 11am at a private residence (tickets are $15 pre-sale *only*, ask your friendly Golden State Bear member to invite you!). Then we'll have our monthly beer bust, this one on Saturday, April 7th, 8pm - midnight at The Phoenix, themed “Rodeo Round Up”. Come out Old-West style and taste our Hot Dogs with Chili and Blazin' Saddles Beans! 108 players. 25 females. 60 substitutes. $10,000 left in tips to Cheryl, our drink server (OK, I made that number up!). Countless friends, families and supporters. These are stats from just this season of Community Link's Fresno Rainbow Bowling League. But like all good things, this record-breaking season is nearly over - March 29th will see the last games until Summer League starts in May. Who's going to play for championship that day? Because the season is divided in two halves, the title will go to the winners of the match between the first half's champion (Fabulous AZN) and the second half's... which is too close to call with just 2 weeks left! Five teams still have a good chance at that, and two more - an outside shot. And if Fabulous AZN wins this part of the season, too, they'll be undisputed champions and on March 29th we'll have individual championships. Standings after 23 weeks of play (as of March 10th): 1. The Dam 9's (Paul, Harold, Rich, Angel) 29 pts 2. The Contenders (Ray, Joey, Vern, Rob) 28.5 pts 3. Fabulous AZN (Les, Sunny, Mike, Tommy) 27 pts 4. Star Strikers (John, David, Jose, Johnny) 27 pts 5. Juicy Fruits (Diane, Lewis, Kevin, Scott) 23 pts www.CommunityLinkFresno.com by Kirk, NewsLink NewsLink More Seasoned With Each Season 6. Strike Force (Terry, Jerry, Pablo, Jeff) 21.5 pts 7. Sugarbush & The Boys (Danny, Barry, Brad, Judy) 21 pts 8. Weiners (Maria, Manuel, Grisel, Viri) 15 pts 9. The Flamers (Richard, Carlos, Eduardo, Ramiro) 13 pts 10. Circle Jerks (Joe M, Steven, Alex, Chao) 10 pts 11. The Clock Suckers (Andrew, Kirk P., Bill, Ellery) 10 pts 12. Dangerous Dames (Mary, Lori, Michele, Lisa) 9 pts Best individual scores to date: High Game Scratch - Male: 247 Terry, 246 Ray & Danny; Female: 235 Angel, 173 Diane, 168 Mary & Judy. High Game with Handicap - M: 305 Rob, 282 Terry, 271 Brian; F: 251 Angel, 234 Michele & Diane. High Series Scratch - M: 664 Larry, 639 Sunny, 612 Danny; F: 614 Angel, 474 Diane, 422 Judy. High Series with Handicap - M: 814 Rob, 706 Terry, 694 Danny & Larry; F: 665 Angel, 657 Diane, 621 Judy. Average Game - M: 191 Larry, 190 Sunny, 176 Danny; F: 177 Angel, 125 Judy, 123 Diane. We can be found on lanes 29 - 40 every Thursday (practice 7:15pm, games start at 7:30pm and end around 9:30pm-10pm) at Cedar Lanes, 3131 N. Cedar Ave in Fresno. Our Season End Award Party will take place on Sunday, April 15th at 2pm at a private residence. The cost is only $5 (includes lunch!) but you have to be invited by a league member. Remember to sign up your team or yourself for Summer League, starting May 10th and ending September 6th! Info: President Rich Howard (559) 824-1417, communitylinkfresno.com 5 www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Gay Christmas Movie LGBT Health Fair Gay Central Valley will be hosting their first LGBT Health Fair on Saturday, March 24th from 10AM 2PM. The Fresno County Dept. of Public Health will be attending and providing free HIV testing on site. The Health Fair will take place in the parking lot of the office complex which houses the Fresno LGBT Community Center, operated by Gay Central Valley. The address is 1055 N Van Ness Avenue in the Tower District. The Community Center is located in Suite A. There will also be entertainment and a raffle. The LGBT Health Fair is free to all! Contact The Fresno LGBT Community Center: (559) 325-4429 or www.fresnolgbtcenter.org, Femz N Studz Drag King Contest Doors open at 9pm! Festivities begin at 10pm! $5 cover charge, give-aways, crowning of the three kings, more bartenders! Drink specials for the next Drag King show are $4 for Three Olives Vodka and $3.50 for Coronas. Saturday, March 31st at the North Tower Circle, 2777 N Maroa Ave. www.femznstudz.com Scrooge & Marley is a modern-day variation on Charles Dickens' classic story of the holidays, A Christmas Carol. Recounted from a gay sensibility, with heart, comedy and music, the magic of Dickens' timeless tale of a man's redemption at the holidaysthanks to the help of three ghostly spirits-comes alive from a fresh perspective that will appeal to audiences of every persuasion. Scrooge & Marley, an independent film, will be shot in Chicago May 2012. The film is based on an original script by Ellen Stoneking, Richard Knight, Jr. and the late Tim Imse. It will be directed by Knight and Peter Neville. Several actors are already tentatively signed to the project, including: Megan Cavanagh (A League of Their Own, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, Exes and Ohs); Rusty Schwimmer (North Country, Perfect Storm, The Surrogate, Drop Dead Diva, Bones, Louie); Ronnie Kroell (Bravo's Make Me a Super Model, Eating Out-Drama Camp and Into the Lion's Den); and Becca Kaufman, a renowned Chicagoarea vocalist. Auditions for additional roles will be held in March. Casting will be coordinated by Heather Schmucker. For details email [email protected] Executive producers of the film are Tracy Baim (Hannah Free) and David Strzepek (Foodgasm), who are joined by several co-producers (Knight, Neville, Stoneking, Kroell and Etta Worthington) and experienced crew. Line producer is Thavary Krouch. Those interested in joining the crew should email: [email protected]. The film is being financed by investors, and is also launching an Indie GoGo campaign this week, under the name Scrooge & Marley film. They hope to raise $15,000 by April 4, to add to the investor funding. The idea for a gay-themed holiday film began to germinate in Knight's mind after seeing out writer-director Thomas Bezucha's 2006 movie The Family Stone. "This was the first movie that I could recall that not only featured gay characters as central to the holiday family traditions celebrated in the film, but also seamlessly integrated them. When it was over I wanted to see an entire movie viewed from our perspective. But there was none to be found." Years later, when Knight and friend screenwriter Ellen Stoneking (founding member of the Annoyance Theatre) and another friend, Tim Imse, formed a writing trio, he suggested the idea to Stoneking, who was looking for a new subject matter. Further, Dickens' A Christmas Carol seemed a perfect template for the project and Stoneking, following an outline that followed the tale, as seen from a queer vantage point, was off and running. Stoneking and Knight, who were given tangential aid by Imse, quickly discerned that a straight-ahead, heartfelt approach rather than a camp or salacious style was essential to their recasting of the story. Knight's original, haunting holiday ballad "Christmas Eve Is Coming Soon," which will be the musical theme of the picture, was instrumental in helping set the mood for the work. As Stoneking finished the initial drafts, however, the trio was struck by tragedy: Imse had been diagnosed with a terminal disease from which he succumbed soon after the screenplay was completed. Months later, Stoneking and Knight returned to polish Scrooge & Marley after resolving that the finished film would be dedicated to their fallen creative comrade. "I think movie fans of all types will love Scrooge & Marley-especially those with a soft spot for good oldfashioned Christmas movies like myself," Knight said. But the completed film will also be the realization of a long-held dream. "At last, there will be a holiday movie that gay people can call their own-something that we can return to year after year." “Bully” seeks rating change The campaign to get the “Bully” rating knocked down is picking up momentum. On Wednesday, the Weinstein Co. announced that it had garnered more than 150,000 signatures petitioning the Motion Picture Assn. to downgrade the movie from an R to a PG-13. Lee Hirsch's documentary examines a group of five families who have been affected by the bullying crisis, sometimes in catastrophic ways. The movie contains profane language, prompting the MPAA to deny an appeal last week for a PG-13. The campaign, which is being hosted by the online-petition site Change.org, aims to move the MPAA to change its mind. As part of the campaign, Katy Butler, a bullied Michigan high school student who has been instrumental in the anti-bully movement, went so far as to say in a statement that “by refusing to change the film's rating to PG-13, the MPAA is acting like a bully, too.” NewsLink COME PARTY AT OUR NEW EVENTS AT THE RED ! BARE CHESTED BEARS PARTY AT 9 PM SECOND THURSDAY EACH MONTH $1,.75 DRAFT IF SHIRTLESS ___________________________ 6 "ELECTRO FIX" DJ TOP HEAVY PLAYING DUBSTEP AND OTHER GREAT MUSIC SECOND AND FOURTH FRIDAY EACH MONTH AT 9:00 PM FANTASTIC LIGHT SHOW $5.00 COVER CHARGE ___________________________ MEATBALL MAGIC THIRD FRIDAY OF EACH MONTH VARIETY OF DJ'S PLAYING THE LATEST MUSIC High school student stars a petition after “Bully” gets an “R” rating Katy Butler, a bullied high school student from Michigan, delivered more than 200,000 petition signatures to the Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA) today, urging the MPAA to lower its “R” rating on the upcoming film “Bully” to “PG-13.” Butler, who experienced severe bullying in school, says that the MPAA's “R” rating of “Bully” prevents middle school and high school students around the country from seeing a movie that could potentially save their lives. “Today, we delivered more than 200,000 signatures to the MPAA, sending a loud and clear message that 'Bully' is a film that should be seen by kids across the country,” said Butler. “This film is too important and potentially life-saving to give it an 'R' rating that will prevent kids from watching it.” At the petition delivery, where Butler delivered five boxes of signatures to the MPAA, Butler noted that the MPAA ruled by just one vote that “Bully” should receive an “R” rating. That's one vote against 200,000 voices asking to be heard by the MPAA,” said Butler. “The stories told in 'Bully,' and the experiences that bullied students face each day in schools across America, deserve to be shared with the world. It's time for the MPAA to do the right thing.” Butler says she was inspired to start the campaign after a bullying incident in her own life, where bullies slammed a locker on her hand and broke one of her fingers. Her campaign on Change.org continues to grow, with more than 220,000 signatures and counting, and the campaign is slated to be featured on The Ellen Show later this afternoon. “Katy's campaign has touched a nerve with students, parents, and thousands of other Americans who are concerned about the epidemic of bullying,” said Mark Anthony Dingbaum, Campaign Manager for Change.org. “With nothing more than her personal story and a laptop, Katy Butler has galvanized a national movement of people who want to make sure that 'Bully' is seen by as many people as possible.” For a bullied kid, school can be torment by Joe Solmonese, Human Rights Campaign President Daily taunts and physical abuse turn into feelings of hopelessness when teachers won't help. School bullying has already made too many young lives painful and frightening. It's going to take a huge effort to put a stop to it - from schools, parents, politicians, and cultural icons. That's why I am extremely disappointed that the Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA) has decided to give a new documentary about bullying an "R" rating, making it nearly impossible for most schools to screen the film or for kids and teens to see it on their own. Our partners and allies have already delivered over 200,000 signa- tures asking the MPAA to amend their decision - and now it's up to us to keep the pressure on by flooding their inboxes. Help us keep the momentum up with another 100,000 letters TODAY. Tell the MPAA: Amend your ruling and give Bully a PG-13 rating so that we can start putting an end to bullying. Ratings are there to help parents and families make the best decisions about what their children should see, but in this case, the "R" rating does the opposite - keeping a huge part of the target audience away from the film. What's more, Bully was only given an "R" rating due to profanity, and the MPAA has made exceptions for swearing in the past. In fact, the MPAA gave a 2005 documentary about the military a PG13 rating even though it had 36 more instances of the f-word than Bully simply because they thought it was important for young people to see the film. I know that you and I agree: bullying is far more harmful to kids than a little coarse language, and over 200,000 of our friends and allies have already spoken out asking the MPAA to change the ruling. Will you send a letter now to keep the pressure on? Tell the MPAA: Kids need to see this film. Reverse the decision to give Bully an "R" rating. This documentary has the potential to change - or even save - lives. But we'll never know its full impact if kids and teens are kept away. With your help, we can make sure the MPAA does the right thing here. Thanks for standing up for our kids. www.CommunityLinkFresno.com and they must be allowed to see the movie as it was intended to help raise awareness, increase empathy and change minds.” NewsLink Of course, it's highly unlikely that an online or social-media campaign will stir the group to reverse course. But the push has generated free publicity for the film-many of the kids who signed the petition are now aware of a movie they never heard of before last week-which is arguably as important to the Weinstein Co. as getting theater owners to allow 16-year-olds to see it without their parents. Weinstein Co., which is releasing the film commercially at the end of March, is planning a large rollout of the film at schools around the country throughout the month, in the hope of creating dialogue among kids, parents and teachers. Hirsch told a group of high school students at one such event last week that he was bullied when he was younger. “When you're dealing with this stuff people try to minimize your pain,” he said. “I felt like I didn't have a voice.” At the screening, held for Fairfax High School students in Los Angeles, one student stood up and called out students in the room who had been bullying her, yielding a moment as eye-opening and uncomfortable as any scene in the film. The campaign has also had its more surreal moments. One of the unlikely people the Weinstein Co. has enlisted in its latest publicity campaign is the Rev. Jesse Jackson. While not generally thought of as an authority on the subject of bullying (or ratings), Jackson nonetheless said in a statement that the movie “depicts the nightmare that some kids face every day in schools across America." He added, "Children are afraid to go to school and therefore their educational productivity decreases. It creates violent reactions in our children 7 NewsLink www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Nonmonosexuality deserves recognition within LGBTQ 8 by Kirstie Haruta The LGBTQ+ community may fly a rainbow flag, but if you don't exactly fit into the L or G, things start to feel uncomfortably black and white. Without a niche to call their own, people with beyond gay, lesbian and straight identities-also known as nonmonosexual-find themselves under attack from both the gay/lesbian and straight ends of the spectrum. Assumptions that must constantly be dispelled include “You just haven't made up your mind yet,” “You're just afraid to come out as gay,” “You're greedy,” and “You're promiscuous and can't be trusted.” That's a lot to deal with, especially for people still coming to terms with their identities in a vastly heterosexual world. This stigma was my main worry when, my first year out of high school, I found myself smitten with a girl I met at my favorite cafe. Being attracted to a woman after years of being attracted to men wasn't a big deal to me. What made it a big deal were the doubts and accusations I was sure to face if I decided to be open about how I felt. To this day, I choose not to use a label, but there are a few ways one may identify in the realm of nonmonsexuality. Some labels, like bisexuality-meaning being attracted to people of both the same and opposite genderare more familiar to the general public. But labels like queer, an umbrella term to describe anyone who falls outside gender normative sexuality, and pansexual, which means being attracted to people regardless of gender, are misunderstood by most. People of nonmonosexual identities are often pressured to pick a side, but are then resented if they do. If they try to find a place in the gay community, they are not always accepted because they are seen as not queer enough. If they settle down with an opposite-sex partner, they are then seen as taking the easy way out. I sometimes feel like I'm not allowed to call myself queer. When I did finally tell my friends about the girl from the cafe, one of my gay friends tried to justify my feelings by pointing out that the girl who had captured my interest had an androgynous look. While he didn't mean to offend me, this was a perfect example of unconscious biphobia, characterized by a need to categorize people as either-or. It isn't easy trying to force oneself into one of two boxes when each box is small and restrictive. The gay and lesbian community may look upon nonmonosexuals disdainfully because they more readily have access to straight privilege, which means it's easier to make your way in the world if you can present yourself as straight. It is often less about privilege and more about convenience when nonmonsexuals gravitate toward the straight end of the spectrum. In the company of most of my friends, who are straight women, it's easier to join in a conversation about an attractive male actor, and keep my opinions of his female co-star to myself. It's easier for everyone if I avoid making the conversation awkward by voicing unshared opinions. What the nonmonsexual community needs is its own niche. Bisexual support groups exist, but you'll have to do some digging to find them. In my experience, if you can find a bi-specific group, they're usually small and offer limited discussion. A more prominent, easily accessible space must be made available for bisexual, pansexual and queer identified people. General LGBTQ+ groups may provide an open space by welcoming anyone, but they often emphasize the relationship between gays, lesbians and straight allies. A separate space is needed because there are many issues that specifically affect nonmonosexual identified people. While all queer identities face misunderstanding, one of the biggest issues for bisexuals is just being seen. According to a report by the San Francisco Human Rights Commission on bisexual invisibility, “(bisexual identity) erasure has serious consequences on bisexuals' health, economic well-being and funding for bi organizations and programs.” Studies cited in the report have shown that bisexual identified people have a greater likelihood of suffering from depression and other anxiety disorders, and may be receiving incomplete health information from their health care providers. Everyone deserves to be wellinformed and comfortable with their identity and currently, there are not enough resources to make this so for the nonmonosexual community. My identity discomfort comes, not from within myself, but from the inescapable assumptions of society. Discard those negative connotations of bisexual, pansexual and queer people. Help to create spaces that are accepting and understanding, rather than backhandedly insulting. These identities are just as legitimate as gay, lesbian and straight identities, and should be treated as such. Dozens of kids in baggy pink tshirts emblazoned with the word "acceptance" bob up and down to Lady Gaga's "Born This Way" in a flash-mob style video, but a civic group from British Columbia called Burnaby Parents' Voice isn't buying the message. According to the Burnaby News Leader, they are challenging the "legality and the educational purpose of posting students' images on the Internet, as well as the appropriateness of Lady Gaga as a learning resource in public schools." Parents' Voice was in the news last spring for its opposition to a school policy that was enacted to protect gay, lesbian, and transgendered students from bullying. The video was produced for Canada's Pink Shirt Day, an annual event conceived in 2007 in response to a bullying incident in a rural Nova Scotia high school. When some students harassed a ninth grade boy and called him a "homosexual" for wearing a pink polo shirt, two seniors distributed 50 pink t-shirts for their classmates to wear the following day. The idea spread over the Internet and, in 2009, the province of British Columbia even named the last Wednesday in February Anti-Bullying Day. Reportedly, parents in the Burnaby school system, which operates 49 schools in the metro Vancouver area, were well informed of the project and only about four families opted out. The kids involved, who are in grades three to seven, did not watch Lady Gaga's video of her hit song that opens with a surreal sequence of her giving birth and features provocative bikini-clad dancers. Local music and dance teacher Barbara Ishii pointed out that using a popular song made it more engaging for students, and that they were "thrilled" to see their video, which was posted on YouTube on Feb. 27. The project's co-creator, an elementary school vice principal Darren Mitzel, explains that some of the schools invited to be a part of the video dropped out because they didn't like the song. "We…really made it clear these were the words, this is the song, so people could really make a solid choice on whether…they wanted to partake or not." A school in New York City who had seen last year's project on YouTube asked to participate. "Will this project reduce bullying? Not likely," said Parent's Voice member Gordon World in a press release. "They claim this sends a 'positive social message' of acceptance of self and others. Not for overweight kids, anorexic kids, or those who don't dance well. Not those who resist their school's promotion of Lady Gaga's 'sex sells' worldview." Lady Gaga, who was at Harvard on Wednesday to launch her Born this Way Foundation, is a galvanizing figure. Speaking about her organization, she said, "The goal is to challenge meanness and cruelty by inspiring young people to create a support sys- tem in their respective communities." The superstar has won numerous top music awards and was named one of Time Magazine's 100 Most Influential People In the World in 2010. "Born this Way" has become an anthem of gay pride. While her ardent fans, the self-proclaimed "Little Monsters," see her as a pop goddess of self-empowerment and diversity, some religious groups have decried her use of Christian imagery as sacrilegious. Others complain about the overt sexuality in some of her songs and videos. The Globe and Mail points out that in the school kids' video, no one is dancing in an inappropriate way; quite the contrary, the G-rated performance is infectiously unstudied and fresh faced. The fact is, the lyrics to the song "Born this Way" trumpet the message: "Whether life's disabili- ties/Left you outcast, bullied or teased/Rejoice and love yourself today/'Cause baby, you were born this way" and have already been embraced by millions of young people around the world. Parent's Choice has asked Minister of Education George Abbott to ban Burnaby schools' Pink Shirt Day project and remove it from the Internet. As of March 1, the video is still up and school board chair Larry Hayes said in interview with Vancouver's straight.com, "I think sometimes parents are the ones that are hiding in their caves, and the kids are the ones out there in the schools, where there are lots of colors, lots of languages, and lots of orientations, and for the most part, [the kids] get along with everybody." www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Lady Gaga Video Made by Kids Protested: AntiBullying Message Questioned ∏ ∏ The Fresno Youth Alliance A Group for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, & Allied Students,Teens,Youth & Young adults A Safe and Sane Substance Free Place to Belong Come be a part of OUR RAINBOW We meet every Friday Night from 7 pm to 8:30 pm @ The Big Red Church, 2131 N. Van Ness Blvd For more information call Youth Representative & Peer Facilitator Rachel Banana Wilson @ 4737723 or Adult Facilitator Jeffery Robinson @ 486346. Visit us @ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com or Join us on Facebook: Fresno-GLBTQ-Youth Alliance Or if you just need someone to talk to right now, are having a hard time, or are in crisis call the Trevor Lifeline @1-866-488-7386 NewsLink In the Fireside Room next to the Sequioa Headstart 9 ∏ ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com . Idina Menzel: Barefoot at the Symphony Live (CD and DVD) I admit I only became aware of Idina Menzel because she plays on GLEE. She has a great voice. This is for people who love live albums or Broadway music. She sings standards like Funny Girl, Don't Rain on my Parade and Heaven Help my Heart. She isn't hard on the eyes either. I Love Pre-Spring By Angela Brooks I love this time of the year. It always seems like when spring approaches there is a flurry of album releases. It has been great to have so many new things to listen too. My favorite right now is FUN. The album is called Some Nights. These guys are considered indie pop. I hear traces of Freddie Mercury in the lead singer's voice. It's a journey of Broadway, show tune and pop rhythms all blended into this great album. This group is from New York. This band's song “When We were Young” with Janelle Monae is getting air play on the radio. These artists are also worth a listen: Estelle: All of Me ∏ NewsLink London based singer Estelle releases her second full length cd. You may remember her break through single” American Boy” with Kanye West a few years ago. All of me is a blend of hip/hop and soul. Rick Ross, Janelle Monae and Chris Brown make appearances on the album. One thing unique about this album is between songs there are little vignettes of people talking about topics like love, relationships and life. My favorite song is” Wonderful Life”. The piano playing in the song reminds me of Carole King. 10 Bruce Springsteen: Wrecking Ball The Boss is back with another album, the first album since the passing of Clarence Clemons the band’s legendary saxophonist. The album leads off with the track he sang at the 2012 Grammy's, “We Take Care of our Own”. Bruce Springsteen always seems to capture what is happening in America through songs. It is easy to see with song titles like “Easy Money”,” Death to my Hometown”,” Land of Hope” and “Dreams” that he is being politic in his lyrics. Listening to the Boss always makes me feel a little patriotic. videos and over a dozen new songs. The album has already spawned five hit music videos that collectively have been downloaded over 1 million times. The title track, “The Gayest of All Time” is expected to be this year's pride anthem. I am still anticipating the release of Madonna's new album, Rascall Flatts and Carrie Underwood have new albums being released in April and May. No Doubt is supposed to release an album this year AND U2. Send me an email at [email protected] for comments, criticism or suggestions. Rye Rye For all you ladies heading to Dinah Shore you will likely see this young lady bouncing from party to party. This Baltimore native will be promoting her new single “Boom, Boom” at Dinah. She signed with M.I.A who has help blend Rye Rye's hip hop vocals into electric dance music. Johnny McGovern: The Gayest of All Time Jonny McGovern's highly anticipated full length solo CD "The Gayest of All Time", has just been released and he is hitting the road with a fresh look and sound to perform his new GLBT comedy songs and classic favorites. It features five new music Logo Network bails on gaycentric TV programming The LGBT community can say farewell to gay-focused programming at Logo following its announcement to expand their television lineup to what the network calls “mainstream culture.” Logo explains the change comes in wake of the gay and lesbian community leading “fully integrated lives” that don't depend on leading first with their sexual orientation - rather, shows like “Modern Family” showcase gay and lesbian people far more accurately than other TV programming that leads with gay-focused themes. “Culturally, we're past the tipping point. For gays and lesbians, it's part of who they are, but they don't lead with it, because many are leading fully integrated, mainstream lives,” said Lisa Sherman, Executive Vice President of Logo. “Our goal at Logo has always been to honestly reflect our viewers' lives. We're now reinforcing our commitment to them with programming that truly mirrors how many of them are living and want to be entertained today.” Logo says the shift in programming - which will abandon most of its gayonly TV lineup - follows a study that more closely identifies the way the LGBT community lives today. Findings suggest that 53 percent of gay people live openly but without a priority to showcase their sexual orientation. Only 30 percent of those surveyed say they preferred living and socializing in an exclusively LGBT community. “The gay community continues to evolve in size, influence and identity,” said Starcom Mediavest's Esther Franklin, EVP, head of SMG Americas Experience Strategy. ”Beyond Demographics (TM) allows us to understand the needs of this critical community as they emerge and to paint a clearer, more specific picture of what's meaningful and relevant in their lives.” The updated lineup at Logo will feature shows akin to “America's Next Top Model”, “Laguna Beach”, and “Storage Hunters” after producers of those shows have signed on to produce programming absent of gayfocused plots. Logo says it will not abandon some of its prime gay TV including “RuPaul's Drag U” - one of the network's top-performing shows. “Through the Door of Life: A Jewish Journey between Genders” by Joy Ladin; published by University of Wisconsin Press, March 2012, 270 pages. Professor Jay Ladin made headlines around the world when, after years of teaching literature at Yeshiva University, he returned to the Orthodox Jewish campus as a womanJoy Ladin. In Through the Door of Life, Joy Ladin takes readers inside her transition as she changed genders and, in the process, created a new self. With unsparing honesty and surprising humor, Ladin wrestles with both the practical problems of gender transition and the larger moral, spiritual, and philosophical questions that arise. Ladin recounts her struggle to reconcile the pain of her experience living as the “wrong” gender with the pain of her children in losing the father they love. We eavesdrop on her lifelong conversations with the God whom she sees both as the source of her agony and as her hope for transcending it. We look over her shoulder as she learns to walk and talk as a woman after forty-plus years of walking and talking as a man. We stare with her into the mirror as she asks herself how the new self she is creating will ever become real. Ladin's poignant memoir takes us from the death of living as the man she knew she wasn't, to the shattering of family and career that accompanied her transition, to the new self, relationships, and love she finds when she opens the door of life. “Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue” by Nicholas M Teich; published by Columbia University Press, March 2012, 160 pages. Written by a social worker, popular educator, and member of the transgender community, this well-rounded “Here Come the Brides!: Reflections on Lesbian Love and Marriage” edited by Audrey Bilger and Michele Kort ; published by Seal Press, March 2012, 448 pages. Marriage today isn't what it used to be: for better, not for worse. As samesex weddings are becoming more common, the classic love-story happy ending is taking on a decidedly new twist, everyone has a fresh role to play, and supporters and opponents of gay marriage alike are finding themselves in the midst of a revolution that's redefining marriage-both as a personal choice and as an institutionas we know it. In Here Come the Brides!, editors Audrey Bilger and Michele Kort gather together the voices of women taking part in-and shaping-this major historical shift. Representing a diversity of points of view in terms of race, class, ethnicity, and gender identification, this collection of essays, stories, and visual images takes a multidimensional look at how opening up the traditional order of “man and wife” to include the possibility of “wife and wife” is altering our social landscape. From wedding pictures and images of protest signs to comical anecdotes and sober philosophical analyses, Here Come the Brides! is an exploration of how the legalization of same-sex marriages has irrevocably changed the way lesbians think about their unions and their lives-and a celebration of the dream of lesbian happily-ever-afters. “William Alexander Percy: The Curious Life of a Mississippi Planter and Sexual Freethinker” by Benjamin E. Wise; published by The University of North Carolina Press, March 2012, 368 pages. In this evocative biography, Benjamin E. Wise presents the singular life of William Alexander Percy (1885-1942), a queer plantation owner, poet, and memoirist from Mississippi. Though Percy is best known as a conservative apologist of the southern racial order, in this telling Wise creates a complex and surprising portrait of a cultural relativist, sexual liberationist, and white supremacist. We follow Percy as he travels from Mississippi around the globe and, always, back again to the Delta. Wise's exploration brings depth and new meaning to Percy's already compelling life story--his prominent family's troubled history, his elite education and subsequent soldiering in World War I, his civic leadership during the Mississippi River flood of 1927, his mentoring of writers Walker Percy and Shelby Foote, and the writing and publication of his classic autobiography, Lanterns on the Levee. This biography sets Percy's life and search for meaning in the context of his history in the Deep South and his experiences in the gay male world of the early twentieth century. In Wise's hands, these seemingly disparate worlds become one. “In Exile: The History and Lore Surrounding New Orleans Gay Culture and Its Oldest Gay Bar” by Frank Perez and Jeffrey Palmquist; published by LL-Publications, February 2012, 246 pages. In Exile: The History and Lore Surrounding New Orleans Gay Culture and Its Oldest Gay Bar is the first comprehensive treatment of the history of gay New Orleans. Drawn primarily on the recollections of dozens of gay men and women, Frank Perez and Jeffrey Palmquist weave a fascinating narrative of how gay New Orleans evolved throughout the twentieth century. In addition to showing the incredible and previously unrecognized contributions gay people have made to New Orleans culture, In Exile also illuminates the darkness in which ordinary gay people lived secret double-lives for decades and chronicles the social forces which ultimately enabled gay New Orleanians to live openly and honestly. Written with graceful insight and thoughtful per- “Flagrant Conduct: The Story of Lawrence v. Texas” by Dale Carpenter; published by W. W. Norton & Company, March 2012, 368 pages. No one could have predicted that the night of September 17, 1998, would be anything but routine in Houston, Texas. Even the call to police that a black man was "going crazy with a gun" was hardly unusual in this urban setting. Nobody could have imagined that the arrest of two men for a minor criminal offense would reverberate in American constitutional law, exposing a deep malignity in our judicial system and challenging the traditional conception of what makes a family. Indeed, when Harris County sheriff's deputies entered the second-floor apartment, there was no gun. Instead, they reported that they had walked in on John Lawrence and Tyron Garner having sex in Lawrence's bedroom. So begins Dale Carpenter's "gripping and brilliantly researched" Flagrant Conduct, a work nine years in the making that transforms our understanding of what we thought we knew about Lawrence v. Texas, the landmark Supreme Court decision of 2003 that invalidated America's sodomy laws. Drawing on dozens of interviews, Carpenter has taken on the "gargantuan" task of extracting the truth about the case, analyzing the claims of virtually every person involved. Carpenter first introduces us to the interracial defendants themselves, who were hardly prepared "for the strike of lightning" that would upend their lives, and then to the Harris County arresting officers, including a sheriff's deputy who claimed he had "looked eye to eye" in the faces of the men as they allegedly fornicated. Carpenter skillfully navigates Houston's complex gay world of the late 1990s, where a group of activists and court officers, some of them closeted themselves, refused to bury what initially seemed to be a minor arrest. The author charts not only the careful legal strategy that Lambda Legal attorneys adopted to make the case compatible to a conservative Supreme Court but also the miscalculations of the Houston prosecutors who assumed that the nation's extant sodomy laws would be upheld. Masterfully reenacting the arguments that riveted spectators and Justices alike in 2003, Flagrant Conduct then reaches a point where legal history becomes literature, animating a Supreme Court decision as few writers have done. In situating Lawrence v. Texas within the larger framework of America's four-century persecution of gay men and lesbians, Flagrant Conduct compellingly demonstrates that gay history is an integral part of our national civil rights story. www.CommunityLinkFresno.com ception, In Exile is not only a captivating history book, it is also a beautiful meditation on the intersection of place and identity. NewsLink Following are some of the many new, interesting GLBT-themed books. They are not reviews they’re book descriptions provided by the publishers. resource combines an accessible portrait of transgenderism with a rich history of transgender life and its unique experiences of discrimination. Chapters introduce transgenderism and its psychological, physical, and social processes. They describe the coming out process and its effect on family and friends, the relationship between sexual orientation, and gender and the differences between transsexualism and lesser-known types of transgenderism. The volume covers the characteristics of Gender Identity Disorder/Gender Dysphoria and the development of the transgender movement. Each chapter explains how transgender individuals handle their gender identity, how others view it within the context of non-transgender society, and how the transitioning of genders is made possible. Featuring men who become women, women who become men, and those who live in between and beyond traditional classifications, this book is written for students, professionals, friends, and family members. Nicholas M. Teich is a licensed social worker pursuing a Ph.D. in social policy at Brandeis University. A member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health, he trains and educates groups about gender issues and is the founder and president of Camp Aranu'tiq, the firstever summer camp for transgender children. 11 www.CommunityLinkFresno.com NewsLink 12 Leprechaun Luck For Your Health by Ron Blake “The harder I work the luckier I get.” That's an incredibly appropriate expression for the month of March with all the leprechaun luck that falls on our verdant aspirations. Where do you leave your wellness dreams? Luck or hard work? That four leaf clover got you to the finish line of that marathon last fall. You wore it around your neck as you jostled 26.2 miles through nearly every major street in Chicago. Without that luck, you would have had to rely upon other guiding forces. Those forces that guide are identified as the 16 weeks of training, the early morning romps through the park, the dietary changes, and the foregoing of some festive frolicking. What really had you breathing success on the 27th mile? That lucky number 15 emblazoned upon your jersey was all you needed to help your team win the softball tournament this year. Your father had the same number when he was the big man on campus yesteryear as his team won their conference championships. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Just like your old man you never missed a practice, you worked extra hours on your batting technique, and you always gave that 110% when on the field. You so sure about the 15? Your rabbit's foot has been missing from your key chain since that car door incident many months ago. You have blossomed from welterweight to too much weight subsequent to this talisman's unfortunate fate. That lucky charm has been your little buddy that had kept you healthy and happy. However, your mother died at the end of last year and you have been eating to forget. Bad luck or just a bad idea to replace your mom with second and third helpings each time at the plate? That amulet you picked up at that Indian reservation nine years ago has been protecting you from unhealthiness. You haven't been to the doctor for the longest time, but strangely there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with you since your magical acquisition. Your convivial ways make you the life of the party but your blood pressure, triglyceride count, and cholesterol level make you potentially murder on the dance floor. What a blissful state it is when you have your amulet…and ignorance! Last Saint Paddy's Day was full of mirth and mayhem. You were dressed in your dashes of green and wore your Guinness beer proudly as your cup clanged fast and furiously with all those gathered for the bacchanalia. You sang Danny Boy atop a table as a sea of emerald reflected back in your glossy eyes. Your bar tab carried the weight of a dozen lads and lasses and a leprechaun or two. However, your greatest memory is the one you can't recall. You flipped your car three times and landed in a ditch...alive. The only hard work you had from this episode was staying out of jail. You are alive because of luck. Dumb luck! Luck never hurt any of us. Just don't depend upon it. On your way through life, grab a lottery ticket or carry that picture of grandmother in your pocket. Just make certain you've got those shirt sleeves rolled up and you're ready for some hard work. Here's to a happy and healthy St. Patrick's Day to you all! This health and fitness article is brought to you by that guy with the wind of a bagpipe. That guy with dreams of Dublin is Ron Blake and you can glimpse his pot o' gold at myblakefitness.com. (ITVS), POV and the National Minority Consortia (Pacific Islanders in Communications (PIC), National Black Programming Consortium (NPBC), Center for Asian American Media (CAAM), Latino Public Broadcasting (LPB) and Native American Public Telecommunications (NAPT)). The public will have the opportunity to choose the winner of the "People's Choice" award by voting on PBS.org and YouTube. Of Interest to the GLBT + Community Man in the Mirror." Directed by Joel Schumacher, this short film tells the story of a popular, athletic high school student with a girlfriend...and a boyfriend. "This Gay and Age," a film which examines the gay stereotypes that bombard LGBT youth and the way these stereotypes impact the way we think about sexuality. REVISITING HIDDEN HISTORIES PBS Online Film Festival Features Gay Films Running Feb. 27-March 30, 2012. the PBS Online Film Festival will bring together 20 short films over five weeks produced by a number of public broadcasting organizations including Independent Television Service American art is rich with lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) themes and renowned works by LGBT artists, yet sexuality has largely been edited out of art history. IN THE LIFE uncovers diverse expressions of LGBT identity and gender difference in American art, and the forces that have censored them. This episode my be viewed online at www.itlmedia.org * Mondays 10pm: Unzipped, 18+ GLBT night @ Aldo's, 617 W. Belmont Ave, facebook.com/gilbert.navarro777, (559) 473-9362 * Tuesdays 6:30pm: Clogging Classes @ The Dance Studio of Fresno, 7491 N. Palm Bluff Ave., cagroundpounders.com, Barry (559) 259-9904 * Tuesdays 7-8pm: LGBT Alcoholics Anonymous meeting @ Fresno LGBT Center, 1055 Van Ness Ave, suite A, [email protected] * Wednesdays 6:30pm: United Student Pride @ CSUFresno, meets in USU 311, listserv.csufresno.edu/archives/usp.html * Wednesdays 6:30pm: Fresno Rainbow Pride 2012 meeting @ J.J. Duke’s Cafe inside Cedar Lanes, 3131 N Cedar Ave, call (559) 486-3464, www.fresnorainbowpride.com * Wednesdays & Thursdays 8:30am-11am, 1pm-3:30pm: Confidential HIV testing; Wednesdays 8:30am-11am: Anonymous HIV testing @ Fresno Co. Dept. of Community Health, 1221 Fulton Mall,1st floor specialty clinic, (559) 445-3434 * Thursdays 6pm (starting 4/5): Queer VolleyBall @ Quigley Park, W Dakota & N Teilman, Juan (559) 486-3464, www.communitylinkfresno.com * Thursdays 7:15pm (until 3/29): Community Link's Rainbow Bowling League @ Cedar Lanes, 3131 N Cedar Ave., Rich (559) 824-1417, www.communitylinkfresno.com * Thursdays 9:30pm: Gay-friendly karaoke @ Cedar Lanes’ Cocktail Lounge, 3131 N. Cedar Ave., Pablo (559) 790-0221, Vern (559) 907-8081 * Fridays 7p - 8:30p: LGBTQI Youth Alliance @ Big Red Church, 2131 N. Van Ness Ave, www.communitylinkfresno.com * Sundays 7:30pm: Fresbians coffee meet up at Revue Cafe, 620 E Olive Ave, facebook.com/fresbians * TBA: Diversity - Fresno City College GLBT group, http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fresno-City-College-Diversity-Club/184646471583389 * GayCentralValley office / Fresno LGBT Community Center open Wed Sat 12-5pm @1055 N. Van Ness Ave, suite A, (559) 325-4429, fresnolgbtcenter.org * 1st Sundays 7:30pm, 2nd 3rd 4th Mondays 7pm: Fresno Gay Men's Chorus - Signups & Practice @ Fresno LGBT Center, 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A, (559) 325-4429, fresnolgbtcenter.org * Sundays 6pm LGBT Crystal Meth Anonymous meeting @ Fresno LGBT Center, 1055 N Van Ness Ave #A, (559) 325-4429, www.fresnolgbtcenter.org www.CommunityLinkFresno.com The latest biography comic offering from Bluewater Productions, "Female Force: Cher" has sold out in one day after its release from their distributors. This extends its record to 12-biography comic book titles sold out in the past six months. Stores that ordered the comic book might have it in stock. According to Bluewater, a second printing is forthcoming. The $3.99 32-page comic book biography is written by New York Times Best Selling author, Marc Shapiro and drawn by Zach Basset with a cover by DC Comics artist Joe Phillips. "There was a lot of buzz regarding this particular title outside the traditional comic book buying demographic," said Darren G. Davis, president of Bluewater. "We really hope people try to pre-order the titles in advance to make sure they get a copy." The book is described as; Cher is a WEEKLY GLBT & FRIENDLY EVENTS IN FRESNO ∏ Corrections? E-mail: [email protected] NewsLink "Female Force: Cher" platinum selling singer, an award winning actress and a performer for the ages. She's one smart cookie who knows a lot and has done it all. Get the skinny on Cher's rise to the status of legend in the upcoming Bluewater comic book "Female Force: Cher”. The "Female Force" comic series offers a broad examination of strong and influential women who are shaping modern history and culture. In past issues, the monthly series has featured, Madonna, Britney Spears, JK Rowling, Ellen DeGeneres, Selena Gomez and others. Upcoming celebrity biographies are Selena Gomez, Suzanne Collins (writer of the Hunger Games), John Lennon, The Cast of Glee #2, The Cast of Doctor Who & The Cast of Saturday Night Live. You can order the second printing from a comic book store or Amazon. To find a comic book store near you go to www.Comicshoplocator.com. To order it on Amazon click here http://amzn.to/rpK3EI The comic books will also be available online at sites like Amazon and Barnes & Noble. “Female Force: Cher” is also available digitally on the NOOK and Kindle. The comic book has been featured on the Today Show, ABC World News Tonight, CNN, The Wendy Williams Show & People Magazine by covering the biographies of such celebrities and political leaders as Lady Gaga, Angelina Jolie, Sarah Palin and Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg, Bluewater is bringing new readers to the comic's world. 13 ∏ Fresno Youth Alliance’s Winter Formal Pics by Juan Bustamante IDC Talent Show Pics by Rachel Bowman ∏ Rainbow Parkette spring planting Pics by Juan Bustamante The Gray Alliance is a group that knows it may get a little harder as we go along. But we also know that We Get Better With Age! If you are a graying Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or Transgender, the Gray Alliance is your group to be. Come join us in fun and companionship. Help us plan activities that we older folks would enjoy. Let’s show the community that there’s still some life in these old bitties. The Gray Alliance doesn’t just live life, WE CELEBRATE IT! Jerry Hendrix (559) 261-9080 between 5pm-8pm Next month we will be announcing our new group leaders ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com ∏ Thursday, March 22nd at Bakersfield College Forum East (midcampus near the cafeteria, make sure you buy a parking pass or you will be ticketed), 1801 Panorama Drive. meetup.com/Bakersfield-LGBTQ/ BAKERSFIELD St. Pat's Queer Bowling In Bakersfield, the end of the rainbow is not a pot o'gold; IT'S A BOWLING ALLEY! Bring your four leaf clover, and share a pitcher o' green beer. Use green balls! (BOWLING balls! Get your mind out o' the gutter!) We don't have designated teams, so we'll just see who shows up and make sure everyone has a lane. Everyone is welcome to play; you can also just watch for fun. We show up at 6pm, which gives everyone thirty minutes to get shoes, food, drinks, etc, and we start bowling at 6:30pm! You don't have to be an ace bowler; we usually have more fun with people who don't bowl well or often. This is for fun! On the other hand, if you ARE a good bowler, everyone will wanna be on your team! Families welcome. If we have enough kids, we'll pull up some bumpers for them. Adults may be consuming alcohol; FYI. We also invite non-bowlers to come and cheer on your team. We need all the support we can get. Nosh on some nachos, or chili fries, and hollah when bowlers get strikes. Watching is free! Cost: if we have ten or more actual bowlers - $13.00 for two hours of unlimited games, shoes included, per person; if we do not have at least ten bowlers - $4.60 shoe rental per person + $4.45 per game for adults. When you RSVP, if you plan to bowl, please say so. It helps to know if we are going to get the better deal. If you're not bowling, just indicate that you're our fans! We've reserved four lanes, and Whitney will wear an LGBTQ logo shirt so newbies can find us. If you've never come out for an event, we invite you to try this one; it's always a racuous good time. Saturday, March 17th, 6 - 8:30pm at AMF Southwest Lanes, 3610 Wible Rd. www.facebook.com/events/362535 977102020/ MCC Bakersfield Congregational Meeting ∏ NewsLink Once a year, MCC Bakersfield holds a congregational meeting to discuss with members and friends our 16 plans for the future. There are some big changes coming to our little church, so please plan to attend. The meeting will start promptly after the 7pm Sunday service on March 18th, and will be relatively short. There will be refreshments. There is no charge to attend. More info at (661) 873-8891. Sunday, March 18th at 8pm at MCC of the Harvest, 3816 River Blvd. “Out In The Silence” Out In The Silence, an inspiring documentary about courageous local residents confronting homophobia and the limitations of religion, tradition and the status quo in their conservative small town in the hills of western Pennsylvania will be screened at Bakersfield College. The film, produced in association with the Sundance Institute and Penn State Public Broadcasting, premiered at the 2010 Human Rights Watch International Film Festival in New York and has won praise from critics and film festivals around the world, as well as an Emmy Award for Achievement in Documentary. But Wilson and his partner in life and filmmaking, Dean Hamer, are most interested in using it as part of a campaign to help raise LGBT visibility and promote dialogue and civic engagement, particularly in small towns and rural communities. The screening will be followed by a Q&A session with filmmaker Joe Wilson aimed at engaging the audience in conversation about inclusion, fairness, and equality LGBT people in Bakersfield, across California, and around the country. The event's co-sponsors, Bakersfield College Gay Straight Association and Bakersfield LGBTQ are hoping that the Bakersfield screening will provide a springboard for local residents, students, educators, clergy, civic leaders, elected officials, and community organizations to begin working together more intentionally for inclusion, fairness and equality for all who want to call the area home. This event is presented free of charge by Bakersfield College GSA and Bakersfield LGBTQ. ASL Interpretation provided. See a trailer at www.outinthesilence.com. Doors open at 6:30pm; film starts at 7pm. A LGBTQ Women OUT for Pizza We love pizza! We hear nothing but good stuff about Tony's, so we're taking the gals to give it a try! Please join us! If Stormie RSVPs, we'll be celebrating her birthday, too! Tony's has pizza, sandwiches, sald bar and chicken, with prices ranging from $9-25 for pizza. Visit www.tonyspizzabakersfield.com. This event is open to all those who self-identify as female. Friday, March 23rd, 6-8pm at Tony's Pizza, 3615 Mt. Vernon Ave. www.facebook.com/events/200879 923352957/ MCC Bunco Night We have always loved Bunco! Come join Scotty and the rest of us as we roll'em, roll'em, roll'em! Kids welcome; this is an easy game to play even if they don't know how to count! We may or may not have fantastic prizes, but then again, that's not the point of getting together, now is it? We'll update the location as it gets closer. We hope the repairs to the church will be completed by then. $10 per person to play; the donation goes to the church's "we're still here" fund. Saturday, March 24th, 7-9:30pm. www.facebook.com/events/109530 325834177/ FLICS: “Beginners” Film Lovers International Cinema Society (FLICS) present "Beginners”, a comedy/drama about how deeply funny and transformative life can be, even at its most serious moments. This film imaginatively explores the hilarity, confusion and surprises of love through the evolving consciousness of Oliver (Ewan McGregor). Oliver meets the irreverent and unpredictable Anna after a long history of failed romantic relationships. This new love floods Oliver with memories of his father Hal (Christopher Plummer), who, following the death of his wife of 45 years, came out of the closet at age 75 to live a full, energized and wonderfully tumultuous gay life-which included a younger boyfriend. The upheavals of Hal's new honesty, by turns funny and moving, brought father and son closer than they'd ever been able to be. Now Oliver endeavors to love Anna with all the bravery, humor and hope that his father taught him. At once deeply personal and universal, Beginners was inspired by writer/director Mike Mills' own father and is meant in turn to inspire everyone weighing their chances and choices in life and love. Directed by Mike Mills, USA, 2011, 105 min, rated R. Tickets: $5 at the door. Friday, March 30th at 7pm at the Fox Theater, 2001 H St. www.flics.org At the Casablanca Sunday shows: Recuerden amigos todos los domingos con Pepe y sus Munecas en Casablanca con dos show espectaculares y especiales de cerveza domestica a solo $2 de 6 a 8 pm puertas abren ala 6 pm su amigo Pepe los espera y si alguien quiere celebrar su cumpleanos con nosotros Casablanca les regala su pastel globos y una bebida especial para la cumpleanera(os) y gracias por todosu apollo. Show 8:30 y 11pm. Miss Casablanca 2011 Alyssa Nicole Whitney will be stepping down from her reign on March 30th at the 2nd Annual Miss Casablanca Pageant. A special guest performer will be the newly crowned Miss Gay California UsofA Jada Whitney. Head judge: Ani Nhervoxa from Ventura. Your hostesses: Candy Moore & Menage. Mark your calendars for a fierce night of drag! Only one winner will take it all, are you for the challenge? Doors open at 9pm. At the Casablanca Nightclub, 1825 N Street. 21+ only. Stations of the Cross 2012 A Prayer for Persons Living with HIV/AIDS. No matter who we are, we are all on a Journey. We are inviting all persons of faith, all persons who believe in a higher power, to join us during this season of Lent as we experience the Stations of the Cross. We'll focus on the lives of persons living with HIV/AIDS because of our own firsthand knowledge of AIDS in our families. We each believe our faith communities have much to learn in ministering to our population, and in stepping outside of the brick and mortar of "Church", toward the flesh and blood of Church. We believe that only through unconditional LOVE can we truly experience Christ. This is the second year we host this event outside of a Church, at a HOME for persons living with AIDS. But we felt compelled to invite you on this Journey inside the gates of Ricky's Retreat, where hospice and transitional , people of all ages, ethnicities, socio- MCC Celebration Dinner Best Of Broadway We love Basque Food, and Pyrenees serves it up deliciously and for a good price! Set up includes the usual Basque fare: beans, salad, salsa, soup, tongue, fries. You can order an entree off the menu. Please RSVP to Shelby so we have a count for a table request. [email protected] As always, dutch treat. Please plan to pick up your own tab. Friday, April 13th, 6 - 8pm at Pyrenees Cafe & Saloon, 601 Sumner St. www.facebook.com/groups/41351 4510064/ With the suspension of mainstage shows at the Spotlight Theater (read above), the Rainbow Voices were searching for a new venue for their Best Of Broadway concert, originally scheduled for April 22nd. We had no information regarding the new venue or date, so please check their Facebook for updates: www.facebook.com/groups/229689940374857/ Paint The Town Red An evening of art and wine to benefit Bakersfield's AIDS Project. Tickets $40 in advance, $50 at the door. Saturday, April 28th, 5:30pm - 8pm at Metro Galleries, 1604 19th St. To purchase tickets, contact Jonathan Allen (402) 980-9118 or use PayPal on our website: www.bakersfieldaidsproject.org The Center's News By the Board of Directors of the Gay & Lesbian Center of Bakersfield There has been an announcement that the Spotlight Theater has locked its doors as it undergoes reorganization. Our best wishes go out to our friends at the Spotlight as they face this challenging situation. The Gay & Lesbian Center of Bakersfield office, located within the lobby of the Spotlight is, for the short term, not accessible. Although we were not made aware of this pending closure, since the new year the Center board has been in search of larger office and meeting space. Our planned programming for 2012 has been delayed as adequate meeting space was not available to us at the Spotlight location. We are currently negotiating for downtown-area space that is better suited for the offerings and needs of the Gay & Lesbian Center of Bakersfield. We plan to have an announcement of our new location in the very near future. We hope you will share in our enthusiasm as your Center continues its growth as it provides a safe, supportive space and services to gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) LODI Lodi Rainbow Project by Oscar Orozco Orejel & David Nielsen, Chair & Co Chair of Lodi Rainbow Project The Lodi Rainbow Project is a LGBTQ group that was formed for a lot of different reasons. We wanted to be visible in the Lodi community to let Lodi know that we are out and contributing to the community in a positive way. We also wanted a meeting spot for anybody that wants to feel comfortable and happy with who they are so they can be free to be themselves without judgment. We also wanted to create resource lists so if anyone is in need or has questions we can direct them to the right answers. Our next meeting on Sunday, March 18th at the Lodi Library from 1pm-4pm. It is a lot of fun and many of your questions can be answered by some successful, personable Lodi GLBTQ people. You are free to ask us anything... and we want all of you to understand that you are not alone in this adventure and we are sure you will all turn out pretty amazing at the end the day! After that, we are meeting with the Lodi Unified School District on March 27th to discuss putting an Antibullying safe zone (probably a study hall or empty classroom) with a Sensitivity Rep in every school. Anytime you are picked on or need space, the district is working on providing it. Furthermore, the board is working on restoring or establishing a GSA in every school in the Lodi Unified School District. So it is an exciting time for GLBTQ, their families, and supportive friends. The Rainbow project is planning an April 1st potluck picnic at Legion Park from 12 to 5pm. Bring chips, soda, or whatever you feel like. We supply the hamburgers, hot dogs, and buns. We are scheduling one social event each month (like the picnic) and one community support event a month (like alley clean up or visiting the elderly in the nursing homes). The Mayor of Lodi welcomes all of us in the community and will be issuing a proclamation of welcome to our project from the city of Lodi once we get out there and show the rest of the community how creative and beneficial we all can be. We are chartering buses to transport anyone who wants to go to the 42nd annual SF Pride parade on June 24th. We load in front of the Lodi Public Library and the cost is $20 per person. Call 209-898-4555 to get your seats reserved because they are going fast. (16+ all responsible ages.) www.lodiproject.com Talk: Choppin' It Up, Bobcat Lair. Thursday, April 7th - 1-2pm Proud Voices: Out in the Workplace, COB 262; 7pm Couples' Feud Game Show, California Room. Friday, April 8th - 4-6pm Guest Speaker: Kirk Snyder, author of “Using Your Identity for Career Success”, COB 116; 5-7pm “La Mission” film screening, Bobcat Lair; 9pm Pride Prom dance, Dining Commons. Saturday, April 9th - 2-6pm Pride Picnic and BBQ, Cat Quad; 7pm 5th Annual Drag Show featuring drag queen and kings, Lakireddy Auditorium. All events at UC Merced, 5200 Lake Rd. facebook.com/UCMPrideWeek Mr., Miss and Ms. Gay Merced County Pageant MERCED Clap If You Believe In Derby Rollin' Roulettes Derby Girls vs Tahoe Derby Dames and Roulettes Brat Pack vs SFV Jr. Roller Derby! Tickets $10 presale, $15 at door, $5 students, vets, seniors & kids 3 - 12 with ID, kids 3 and under - free admission. Portion of proceeds go to United Way. Show your support for Rollin' Roulettes Derby Girls by wearing rainbow colors! Saturday, March 17th, doors open 5pm, Brat Pack bout 6pm, RRDG bout 8pm at Roller Land, 1445 W. 18t St. [email protected] UC Merced Pride Week This year's theme is “Beyond The Binary”. The events are hosted by UC Merced's Intercultural Programs, Lambda Alliance, Career Services, HEROS, Violence Prevention Program, Housing and Residence Life, Student Activities and Events, Women's Programs and Leadership Programs in OSL, Bobcat Radio. Monday, April 4th - 4-7pm Can't Touch This: Self Defense Class, California Room; 7:30-9:30pm “Transamerica” film screening, California Room. Tuesday, April 5th - 10am-12pm Safe Zone Training I, OSL Conference Room; 12pm-1pm The DISH: “Beyond the Binary” Discussion, OSL Conference Room; 7:30-9:30pm “Fish Out of Water” film screening, Bobcat Lair. Wednesday, April 6th - 12-2pm Safe Zone Training II, OSL Conference Room; 5:30-7:30pm LifeGuard Workshop with The Trevor Project, California Room; 8pm Real www.CommunityLinkFresno.com teens and adults, in addition to being a bridge to the larger Bakersfield community. Watch for updates at www.facebook.com/gbakersfield ∏ The Owl Empire of Stanislaus County, Inc. & The Pigskins, Sidelines & Touchdowns Owl Court of the 38th Reign based in Modesto, California presents “Polynesian Nights”, the 1st Annual Mr., Ms. & Miss Gay Merced County Pageant! Doors open @ 5:00pm, open buffet @ 5:30pm, pageant starts @ 6pm. Tickets: $15 Adult, $10 w/Student ID, $5 for 13 - 17 years old, free for 12 years old and under. Contestants For Pageant: $20 (includes entrance to function). No-host refreshment bar. Open entertainment (current and past 3M's have entertainment priority). Applications can be downloaded in the Files section of www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Mode sto_Imperial Saturday, April 14th, 2012 at Merced Woman's Clubhouse, 707 West 22nd St. MODESTO Casino Royale & Bingo The Owl Empire of Stanislaus County, Inc. and the Pigskins, Sidelines & Touchdowns Owl Court of the 38th Reign based in Modesto, California, presents Empress April's Casino Royale & St. Patrick's Dinner Buffet. One Complimentary Bag of Chips with $8.00 Admission. Extra Bag of Chips is $5.00. All-you-can-eat St. Patrick's Buffet which includes perfectly-seasoned Corned Beef, Cabbage and Horseradish Sauce! Doors open @ 4:00pm, Casino games starts @ 5:00pm & 8:00pm, Buffet served @ 6:00pm. continued on page 18 Tuesday - Friday: 7:00 to 11:30 a.m. 1:30 to 6:00 p.m. Lunch: 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. NewsLink economic status, believers, nonbelievers and so forth, gather as one. Friday, April 6th, 12pm at Ricky's Retreat, 910 Grace St. www.bakersfieldaidsproject.org 17 ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com ∏ Open entertainment show 7:00pm until 9:30pm. Saturday, March 17th at the Brave Bull, 701 S. 9th St, Also, come to our monthly bingo! Every 4th Tuesday of the month until October. Game time starts at 7pm. Cards are $5 each or $20 for 6 cards. Lots of awesome prizes you can win, and usually all you can eat food with the purchase of bingo cards! Tuesdays, March 27th and April 24th at the Brave Bull, 701 S. 9th St. www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Mo desto_Imperial PFLAG Mix & Mingle For PFLAG Modesto's Spring Social on March 20th, PFLAG Modesto is thrilled to have members Analisa and Adam organizing something we've never done before: the Double Quick Mix and Mingle. Like speed dating, the Double Quick Mix and Mingle will offer the chance to meet many people and learn a little bit about each of them. According to Analisa and Adam, this social “aims to promote a more tightknit community with members who are able to turn to each other outside of meetings for friendship and support.” The event, which is appropriate for children ages 5 and up, is part appetizer potluck and part speed friendshipmaking. Appetizers and informal socializing will begin at 5pm with the game beginning at around 6pm. If your last name begins with letters A through L, please bring a savory appetizer; M through S - a sweet treat; T through Z - non-alcoholic beverage to share. During the game portion, attendees will sit across from each other and one side will move to face the next participant after two minute intervals. Participants will ask as many short questions as possible during the two minutes, taking turns asking and answering, and recording answers on paper until it's time to move to the next person. The goal of Double Quick Mix and Mingle is to learn more about each other. Many times at social events there are either so many people in the room, or we stay clustered with people we already know. We're hoping this will give everyone an opportunity to meet people we've never met before, and develop new friendships, and have some fun together. Tuesday, March 20th, 5 - 8pm at Emanuel Lutheran Church, 324 College Ave. www.pflagmodesto.org Mountain/Valley Association of UCC Churches Annual Meeting College Avenue Congregational Church is hosting the annual meeting of the Mountain Valley Association on Sunday, April 1st, at 3 pm. Come and meet our UCC brothers and sisters from Lodi, Stockton, Angels Camp, and Murphys. At the gathering, our CACC Gay Men's Group will prepare a fabulous meal, served by our intergenerational team. And choirs from all of our churches will join together to inspire us during a short and lively worship service. At CACC, 1341 College Ave. www.cacc-ucc.org Longing to Belong A Daylong Meditation Retreat _for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Queer, Transgender People and their Friends. We all long to belong. At different times in our lives, we each have thought, “You do not fit in. You are not worthy.“ Many communities, including Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Queer and Transgender people are familiar with these messages. Social and cultural norms greatly impact all of us. For those of us who are overlooked or misrepresented for any reason, these messages often result in isolation and discrimination. The Buddha declared that regardless, freedom is available to each of us without exception. His message was and remains simple. “Everyone can be free.“ That means you too. LGBQT people and friends are invited to come together for this daylong retreat to develop belonging. Spiritual community has the power to deeply transform our lives. Our day will include sitting and walking meditation. We will investigate what keeps us isolated from others and what builds connection and well-being. There will also be time for journaling and sharing in small groups. This day of practice will further develop tools to increase mindfulness and loving kindness in our lives. By combining our efforts in spiritual community, our effort will bring greater freedom. We'll start with ourselves but we'll do it together. Joan Doyle founded the East Bay LGBT Vipassana group that has grown into East Bay Meditation Center (EBMC)'s Alphabet Sangha for LGBTQI and same-gender loving practitioners. In addition to co-teaching the Wednesday group at EBMC, she is active with the family programs at both EBMC and Spirit Rock, where she teaches meditation classes for young people. Joan has been meditating and practicing Dharma for over a decade, has sat many retreats and has completed Spirit Rock's Dedicated Practitioner Program and is in the Community Dharma Leaders Training Program at Spirit Rock. John Mifsud is in the Community Dharma Leaders Training Program at Spirit Rock. Larry Yang is his mentor teacher. John is a leader of EBMC's Deep Refuge Group for Alphabet Brothers of Color. He also studied with Rodney Smith at Seattle Insight Meditation, coordinated the Seattle Multicultural Sangha and Seattle Dharma Buddies. His current practicum includes teaching at the San Francisco Gay Buddhist Sangha, the SF Gay Buddhist Fellowship, San Francisco Insight and EBMC. This day is freely offered to all. Donations are gladly accepted to support the teachers. Please bring a vegetarian potluck dish to share for lunch, if you would like. Dress in loose and comfortable clothing. For the sake of those who may have sensitivities or allergies, please do not wear scented or perfumed products. If you have a meditation cushion, please bring it. A very limited number of mats and cushions will be available. Chairs will be available. All levels of practitioners are welcome. Saturday, April 14th, 10am - 4pm at College Avenue Congregational Church, 1341 College Ave. For additional information, contact Lori Wong at 209-343-2748 insightmeditationmodesto.wordpress.com REEDLEY Blossom Run Artemis Recovery Club presents its annual Blossom Run. The club's primary purpose is to promote and support a clean & sober lifestyle within the motorcycling community. The club sponsors a clean & sober motorcycle run (campout) every year. All people, straight or gay, male or female are welcome to attend the event, with or without a motorcycle. It is family oriented and there are usually a dozen or so kids running around all weekend. This year the run is the weekend of April 20th-22nd. It features People Games, Kids Games, Trophies, Raffle, Poker Run, Bike Games, Friday night soup pot, Saturday dinner, lots of fun for the whole family. Run is located at Haula Huvila Campground in Reedley. There is NO alcohol, drugs, weapons or attitudes tolerated. Please do NOT bring your favorite pets. Pre-registration: $25 single, $35 couple, kids 13-17 years $20, kids under 13 - no charge; at the gate: $30 / $40 / $20 / $0 respectively. Or visit for the day: $20 day fee includes dinner and run pin. Registration available at www.artemisrecoveryclub.com. Questions? Call Nancy (559) 8978972. SAN JOAQUIN COUNTY ISJDE Coronation Imperial San Joaquin Delta Empire along with HMIM Emperor XXXVIII Brenda Harris and HMIM Empress XXXVIII Teena Evans present “A Night of Mystical Escapades in the Enchanted Forest” coronation weekend. Friday, March 23rd - Out of Town Show @ host hotel's main meeting room; door 7pm, music in by 7:30pm, show at 8pm, preference given to reigning monarchs, current Imperial Crown Princes / Princesses, then others as time permits; $15 admission. Friday, March 23rd - “In The Doghouse” After Party @ Paradise Nightclub, 10114 Lower Sacramento Rd., Stockton; please join Emperor Brenda and Empress Teena for more fun, let's do it doggie style! Saturday, March 24th - Hospitality @ host hotel's breakfast bar on first floor; 11am - 2pm. Saturday, March 24th - Coronation @ Hutchins Street Square, Kirst Hall, 125 S. Hutchins St., Lodi; doors open at 5pm, coronation begins at 5:59pm; no nudity, bare bottoms or breasts; fire, live animals and confetti are strictly prohibites; $40 admission. Sunday, March 25th - Victory Brunch @ host hotel's breakfast bar on first floor; 11am - 1am; $15 per person. Sunday. March 25th - Victory Show @ TBA. The host hotel is Holiday Inn Express, 1337 E. Kettleman Ln., Lodi. Questions? Call Ball Coordinator, Daniel Corona at (209) 608-2414. Psychotherapy Adult, Adolescent, Couples Now serving Fresno & Visalia Areas Melissa A. Cuneo, L.C.S.W. #LCS13570 ∏ NewsLink (559) 901-5461 18 1416 W Center St Visalia, CA 93291 21 It sure feels like Spring is already here and we are hard at work for the 18th Annual AIDS Walk. Among the various fundraisers we are working on before the Walk, Big Monkey Group is designing an ad campaign this year to be shown at four local movie theaters: Stockton Holiday 8, Stockton City Centre Stadium, Manteca 16 and Movies 14 in Tracy. They will begin airing in mid-April, so keep your eyes open. Check out our 3rd Annual Spring Flea Market in the Woodbridge Visitors Center parking lot! Over 100 vendors will be "spring cleaning" and selling their wares. You will find an enormous variety of collectibles: arts, crafts, comic books, jewelry, and more. You'll also see a huge selection of clothing, shoes, furniture, and tools. You name it, we will probably have it. We will also have music, food, wine tasting, and free chair massages from Carrington College California. Join us for a one-of-a-kind shopping experience and help raise money for AIDS Walk San Joaquin. Get some cash for your treasures and reserve your space for only $20. For more information, call Larry from the Woodbridge Visitors Center at (209) 365-8139 or email [email protected] to receive a vendor application. Saturday, April 14th, 8am - 2pm at Woodbridge Winery, 5950 E Woodbridge Rd., Acampo. www.awsj.org At Paradise Nightclub Saturday, March 17th - 9pm St. Patrick's Day party with live DJ, green beer, $5 Irish Car Bombs, $4 Jameson. $5 cover. Saturday, April 21st - White Party & Battle of the DJs. DJ O vs DJ Orris.$5 “You call it” 6pm-9pm. Giveaways and door prizes. $5 Long Islands and $1 shots. $10 cover. At Paradise Night Club, 10114 Lower Sacramento Rd. Delta Pride Events Delta Pride is always doing amazing LGBT events at Delta College! Below are some upcoming events we have planned for this semester. Marriage Equality Event - March 27th at Delta College Quad! Delta Pride will be in full force in the quad to help promote and bring awareness to marriage equality. We will be hosting fake marriages to show that anyone can get married and be happy. It's to help promote our cause and once again prove we do deserve the same rights as straight people in regards to marriage. Come join us, get “married”, and be a part of something monumental! Movie Night - “The Big Gay Musical”! Paul and Eddie have just begun previews for the new OffBroadway musical “Adam and Steve Just the Way God Made 'Em.” Their lives strangely mirror the characters they are playing. Paul is looking for the perfect man and Eddie is dealing with how his sexuality and faith can mix. After yet another disastrous dating experience, Paul has an epiphany. He is done dating and just wants to be a slut like the sexy chorus boys that share his dressing room. Eddie has to tell his parents that he's gay and is starring in a show that calls the bible the “Breeder's Informational Book of Living Examples”. Eddie comes out to his family and Paul goes on Manhunt. Eddie's parents are destroyed by the news and Paul can't even have a good one-night stand. But after musical numbers with scantly clad tap dancing angels, a retelling of Genesis, teleevangelists, a camp that attempts to turn gay kids straight, and a bunch of showtunes, everyone realizes that life gets better once they accept who they really are. And they are just the way God made 'em. Invite your friends! Tuesday, March 27th, 6 - 9pm in the West Forum. At San Joaquin Delta College, 5151 Pacific Ave. sjdeltapride.wordpress.com and www.facebook.com/events/33106162 3597528/ VISALIA Rachael Sage House Concert Self-taught musician, poet and producer Rachael Sage radiates what MOJO Magazine calls “warm, intelligent…NY indie charm”. An innovative, improvisational keyboardist, she performs over 150 dates a year with her band The Sequins throughout North America, Europe and Asia. In 2009, Sage made her debut at the world's largest arts festival, Edinburgh Fringe, where she performed a weeklong run of her show “Sequins & Shpiel” to rave reviews. A subsequent sold-out revival of the show at New York's Joe's Pub was recommended as a “Top Pick” by both the New York Daily News and Time Out. Sage, who has shared stages with Sarah McLachlan, Judy Collins, Marc Cohn, The Animals and Ani DiFranco, was named one of the Top 100 Independent Artists Of The Past 15 Years by Performing Songwriter magazine. A Grand Prize-Winner in the John Lennon Songwriting Contest (Rock) as well as 2-time winner of both the OUTMusic and Independent Music Awards, Sage has earned a loyal following for her infectious melodies, poetic lyrics, and often-out- rageous, colorful stage banter. Tickets $10 at door. Doors open at 5:30pm, show starts at 6pm. Sunday, April 1st, 5:30pm at a private residence. www.facebook.com/events/247722 511972655/ YOSEMITE Springtime in Yosemite You are invited to join the Golden Gate Guards for an exciting weekend of fun in the Sierras at Springtime in Yosemite, May 18th - 20th! The weather and waterfalls are generally spectacular at this time of the year. This is a great run for beginners to experienced motorcycle riders. Beat the Memorial Day and summer Yosemite crowds! One low price includes: lodging Friday & Saturday nights on the Merced River at the Yosemite View Lodge in El Portal. We receive discount rates for very nice rooms (most have balcony with an enchanting close-up view of the rapidly-flowing Merced River); cocktails and dinner on Friday and Saturday nights; continental breakfast on Saturday & Sunday mornings; two heated pools and two Jacuzzis (sorry, swim suit required); souvenir run pin; 11th annual Yosemite UNO Tournament and Award. Cost of this weekend get-away is: Double Occupancy $230.00 per person, Triple Occupancy $180.00 per person, Quadruple Occupancy $155.00 per person. A few rooms are sometimes available at a lower price. Call the number on the flyer for availability. Depending on interest, there will be an optional Sunday brunch at the historic Ahwahnee Hotel in Yosemite (at your own expense, approximately $55 including tip). Completed applications and full payment must be received by May 4, 2012. This event is limited to 40 people so it usually sells out early. Be sure to send in your application soon to reserve your place. Sorry, no refunds after May 11, 2012. Visit our website www.ggguards.com for the registration form. The Golden Gate Guards is a leather-Levi's, non-profit 501(c)(3) organization, open to both men and women, that serves the San Francisco Bay Area. www.CommunityLinkFresno.com By Daniel Corona STOCKTON NewsLink AIDS Walk San Joaquin Fundraising 19 ∏ ∏ ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Inferno Dance Party at Lush 3/17 in Long Beach Lesbian Events March to April 2012 By Angela and Pamela Brooks Solidarity Ink Presents: "FEMPRESSIONS II" 3/17 in Los Angeles Saturday 7pm - 11pm at Solidarity Ink, 1749 N. Main St., Los Angeles, CA 90031 Free Event! All Ages!! Fempressions is an all-woman print show featuring the works of community artists who keep the tradition of manual printmaking alive. Art pieces will feature printing methods such as Silk screening, Lino-cut, Woodblock, etchings, monoprints & more techniques. Please come by and support this event and these artists. 100% of the profit for sold artwork goes directly to the artist! Solidarity Ink does not make any commission on the artwork being sold at our gallery shows. If interested in participating please contact us at [email protected] http://feministmagazine.org/eventcalendar-march-2012/ Jeannette Winterson: Author Event 3/17 in Corte Madera Saturday 7pm at Book Passage, 51 Tamal Vista Blvd., Corte Madera, CA, 94925 Jeanette Winterson's revelatory novels have established her as a major figure in world literature. Now comes a just-as-bold memoir, "Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?" It is a book about a life's work to find happiness. It is a book about a painful past. Witty, acute, fierce, and celebratory, it is a book about a search for belonging. Winterson is the acclaimed author of several novels including "Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit" and "Sexing the Cherry." http://bookpassage.com/event/jeanette-wintersonwhy-be-happy-when-you-could-benormal or http://www.dykealicious.com/ Same location for your vitamin & food supplement needs since 1955 237-8479 Saturday 6pm-10pm You don't have to be Irish to get lucky!!!!DJ Asha is back in the house Saturday March, 17th - St. Patty's Day!! St. Patty's Day Drink Specials - Green beer available upon request! Located at Lush 49 S Pine Ave Long Beach, CA 90802 $10 Cover Inferno events are exclusively for women. For more information please visit us at www.infernodances.com or follow us on Twitter and Facebook. Ani DiFranco 3/20-3/29 Various CA locations 3/20 in San Diego 7pm at House of Blues 3/21 in Santa Barbara 8pm at Lobero Theater 3/24 in Los Angeles 8pm at the Orpheum Theater 3/27 in San Francisco 8pm at The Fillmore 3/29 in Napa 8pm at Uptown Theater Napa To purchase tickets and for more information on each venue, go to http://www.ticketmaster.com/AniD i F r a n c o tickets/artist/761120?tm_link=tm_edp _multiact_act1-name Corday Solo 3/22 in Long Beach Thursday 8pm-11pm at Bliss 525, 525 East Broadway, Long Beach, CA 90802 Cost is FREE! Get out and support this new lesbian-friendly venue in Long Beach and enjoy the ever entertaining Lesbian singer, songwriter, Jennifer Corday. More info and events at www.longbeachlesbians.com Rrazz Room in San Francisco presents Lynda Carter March 22nd- March 25th in San Francisco Thursday - Saturday at 8pm, Sunday 7pm at 222 Mason St, SF, 94102 Best known for winning our hearts as Wonder Woman, Lynda Carter is an accomplished singer who has performed to rave reviews before sell-out crowds around the world. In addition to her long acting career, Lynda has the distinction of producing and starring in five highly rated network television specials, several of which were Emmy-nominated. She has appeared onstage with many of the world's most popular singers, including Ray Charles, Tom Jones, Kenny Rogers, Bob Hope, George Benson, and Ben Vereen. Tickets range from $45-$65 http://www.therrazzroom.com/12ap/l ynda_c.html derland adventure with skiing, dancing, dinning, and relaxing at Squaw Valley's Olympic Village in North Lake Tahoe Various events and activities are scheduled throughout the weekend, so go to http://www.girlsthatroam.com/wsw2012/events.php for full details on that as well as accommodations. Outfest presents FUSION: The Los Angeles LGBT People of Color Film Festival 3/22-24 in Los Angeles You're all incredible women with incredible gifts. That's why we've created the Sweet San Francisco Weekend to honor your contributions on vacation and at home and have an amazing four-day weekend, March 22-25, 2012. An LGBT hotbed (mecca is so overused), San Francisco prides itself on its pride. Of course, its landscape is as gorgeous as its lesbian community. From Golden Gate Park to the Golden Gate, you'll marvel at San Francisco's unmatched beauty and living history. Explore this wondrous city with the women of Sweet during our fun and friendship-filled weekend. Out of towners, we don't care where you sleep (or even if you sleep), but we've arranged a nice rate for you at our home base, the Galleria Park Hotel. For full listing of events and pricing, go to http://discoversweet.com/ 3 day event, various times and venues including Egyptian Theatre in Hollywood at 6712 Hollywood Blvd and the Renberg Theater at The Village at Ed Gould Plaza Some highlights of the festival include: “Jotalogues: Talking Taboo In The Beast Of Time”, a satirical and queer allegory, which explores the contradictions and pains of coming to a political consciousness as "Other" in a world where environmental and ethnic diversity are quickly becoming passé. Adelina Anthony is back in Los Angeles with a new show for one night only with D'Lo, and Dir. Mark Valdez. “Stud Fest” JJ, a hot black British stud and her best friend Seb, a cute white twink run in, around, and through the urban London LGBT scene. JJ falls for a mysterious sexy woman and Seb is left to his own devices with online hook ups and an overly affectionate drug dealer. The grit of the city and the betrayal of sexy lovers send Seb and JJ in different directions and unlikely places where they learn how to love the love that is hiding right before their eyes. The 1976 classic movie “Car Wash” and a ton of short films. The festival ends with the movie “The Living End”. For more info or to purchase tickets, go to www.outfest.org Women's Ski Weekend 3/22-3/25 in North Lake Tahoe, Squaw Valley Thursday through Sunday, check in begins at noon on Thursday. Girls That Roam is excited to host its first ever Women's Ski Weekend. Just for the girls, Women's Ski Weekend is a three day winter won- Sweet San Francisco Weekend 3/22-3/25 in San Francisco Woman On A Roll (WOAR) Dance Party 3/24 in Long Beach Saturday 7-8pm Singles Mingle, 8pm-Midnight Dance Party at Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery at 1 Pine Ave (near Ocean) in the private banquet room. Get ready to celebrate! Party includes special discount admission for Lesbo Bingo ticket holders, Claudette Sexy DJ spinning your favorite tunes and keeping you dancing -Food and drinks available for purchase all night. Free billiards. Lots of women in our own private party room. Singles and couples easily identified. Price is $10 with Lesbo Bingo ticket purchase and $15 without ticket purchase. For info on how to purchase, go to http://womenonaroll.com. The Red Dress Party 3/24 in Palm Springs Saturday 7pm-10pm at The Loretta Young Estate: 1075 Manzanita, Tower Health & Diet Foods 1130 N. Fulton at Olive In the Tower District Tom DeBey, Realtor NewsLink Lic# 01474948 20 Selling or Buying a home? Call Tom... ~Specializing in the Tower District ~ Free Home Search: Towertom.com Hours: Mon-Fri 9-5:30 Sat 9-5 Sun 11-4 Closed Major Hoildays 559 312-5637 [email protected] Wednesday 6pm-7pm at 840 Wine Bar & Cocktail Lounge, 840 Brewster Ave, Redwood City, CA National Center for Lesbian Rights is so excited for our 35th Anniversary Celebration-waiting to see you until May 5th was simply not an option! Join us for the pre-Celebration fun in Redwood City. No RSVP necessary. Bring your friends and just come on down. Art Exhibit: In Wonderland: The Surrealist Adventures of Women Artists in Mexico and the United States 3/29 in Claremont Thursday 5pm at Claremont College, Southern California Edmunds Building Pomona College 185 E. 6th Street Claremont, 91711 (909) 621-8283 Curator will discuss the artists of the major exhibition at the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, "In Wonderland: The Surrealist Adventures of Women Artists in Mexico and the United States." She will discuss how North America represented a place free from European traditions for women Surrealists from the United States and Mexico, and émigrés fleeing war-torn Europe. While their male counterparts usually cast women as objects for their delectation and imagination, female Surrealists delved into their own subconscious and dreams. The knowledge they derived from such exploration empowered them to create extraordinary visual images, both personal and universal. Reception to follow at the Pomona College Museum of Art (330 N. College Ave., Claremont). The largest girl party music festival in the world is about to begin. Countdown to Dinah has started! Don't miss this epic five-day worldrenown weekend: the legendary wild Pool Parties, the sexiest go-go dancers, the best DJs, the top-notch entertainment, the hottest girls in the world, plus the non-stop action and … the celebrity sighting! This event is so hot and there are so many events, we recommend you go right now to http://thedinah.com/ to find out more and/or purchase tickets. The Riviera has already sold out, but there are other official hotels, including the Hilton, available. Info on the website. Highlights of the weekend include music artists from Chaka Khan, CeCe Peniston, Wynter Gordon, Porcelain Black, comedy from Fortune Feemster, a Q&A with Meredith Baxter hosted by Suzanne Westerhoefer, plus lesbian reality TV stars from The Real L Word and America's Next Top Supermodel. International Ms. Leather 3/29-4/1 in San Francisco The World's Largest Event for Leather Women...and EVERYONE Who Loves Them. Saying it is a leather event simply does not do justice to the extraordinary extravaganza of head-to-head competitions surrounded by steamy live stage shows, hospitality receptions, educational classes, play spaces, vendor market and 700+ leather folk cruisin' and schmoozin'! 2 Incredible Contests: International Ms. Leather & International Ms. Bootblack plus Fabulous Shows including the always popular Seduction- an evening of burlesque, strip tease, lap dancing, drag and more, all in the name of charity! Bootblack Salon and Leathercare Lounge, a charity Silent Auction, world-class education and presenters, vendors, unending hospitality receptions and more. More information at http://www.imsl.org/newsite2010/ mainpages/welcome.html Out & About at Dinah Shore Weekend 3/31-4/1 in Palm Springs Meet women from all over the country! Bay area women, Texan women, New Yorkers, Miami, Vegas, Seattle - we've even had women come from Omaha, Nebraska! Kick off spring in the beautiful Palm Springs desert - treat yourself. Get your tickets today! This year Out&About will have three events on Saturday, March 31st. Out&About is hosted by TV personality/internet sensation B.Scott! For more information about tickets and events go to https://www.facebook.com/events/256732867732261/ "OUT @ THE POOL" Pool Party 12pm - 6pm Private Residence Pool Games * DJ * Contests * Giveaways * Live Entertainment * Complimentary Catered Buffet SCANDALOUS VI A Scandalously Sexy Dance Party Created Exclusively for Dinah Shore 10pm - 2am Mango Restaurant OUT&ABOUT “AFTER HOURS" 2am Until Private Residence If you attended our celebrity-laden after hours last year, you already know what to expect! ;) AllGirlz Tripz 3rd Annual Black Lesbian Cruise 4/12-4/16 Miami to Key West and Cozumel Thursday through Monday If a Femme-Fantasy cruise sounds like a dream vacation to you, it's never too early to plan ahead. Join Femmestress of Ceremonies, Comedian Trinity Newman as you cruise the seas from Miami to Cozumel and back. Private and exclusive events include all girls meet and greet, and All White Party, dating games for singles, Rock the Mic talent show, LMAO comedy showcase, and a Bikini Bash beach party in Cozumel like no other. The Bay Area's own hip hop recording artist, Jen-Ro, will be entertaining you. Room prices start at $595.00 and prices include all parties and events. For more information on what is/is not included, visit http://www.femme-fantasy.com/ SISTER SPIT: THE NEXT GENERATION 4/4 in Santa Cruz Wednesday 8:30pm at UC-Santa Cruz, Porter/Kresge Dining Hall Sister Spit hopped into the van and are speeding toward a venue near you! FREE! Starring: ALI LIEBEGOTT, author of the award-winning road poem The Beautifully Worthless and the recently published The IHOP Papers, about the down-on-her-luck lezzie pancake waitress of your dreams! Special Guest EILEEN MYLES, indie poet icon, author of the cult classics Chelsea Girls and Not Me, plus the super cool new poetry collection Sorry, Tree, joining the tour in bunches of towns! MICHELLE TEA, author of the cranked-up coming-of-age novel Rose of No Man's Land, and editor of the hot off the presses youthquake anthology Baby, Remember My Name: New Queer Girl Writing! Plus, tour tales from 90s Sister Spit survivors, performance by local Baby Remember contributors, and special guest hosting from Sex Worker Art Show Tour's Annie Oakley! For our most up-to-date schedule g o to:http://sisterspitnextgen.com/schedule.html APIQWTC's 2012 Lunar New Year Banquet 4/21 in Oakland Saturday, 5:30pm-9:30pm at Legendary Palace Restaurant, 708 Franklin Street, Oakland www.CommunityLinkFresno.com NCLR 35th Anniversary Celebration Buzz Party in the South Bay 3/28 in Redwood City Club Skirts presents The Dinah 3/28-4/1 in Palm Springs ∏ Our Lunar New Year Banquet is here! It's the Year of the Dragon !!! APIQWTC would like to invite you to celebrate the lunar new year at our 25th Anniversary Spring Banquet!!! Come see old friends and make new ones. The food and performances are going to be fabulous!! (510) 663-9188 http://www.apiqwtc.org/banquet.html Butch/Femme Social 5/12 in San Francisco Saturday 4pm-9pm at First Unitarian, 1187 Franklin St, San Francisco Butch/Femme Socials SPRING FLING is ON!!! This event is for singles and couples, with a special “Singles Mingle” from 4-5pm. The First Unitarian church is between Geary and O'Farrell. All butch and femme folks and our friends are welcome. All ages. WHAT ELSE: street metered parking until 6 p.m., parking garages nearby but expensive, BYOB (wine & beer only), water/sodas and snacks provided, suits/ties, cocktail dresses OR whatever makes you feel sexy. Wheelchair accessible (on Geary handicap drop off). Also, greeters needed--good way to meet people and help others meet people: email me if you're interested in being a greeter, must be willing to show up on time at 4 p.m. For more info contact us at [email protected]. DJ Luna is spinning for us! Surprise entertainers! TICKETS: $15.00 available at: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/e vent/223901 LIMITED tickets available at the door! NewsLink Palm Springs The Red Dress Party will be an evening of high fashion and hijinks benefiting the LGBT Community Center of the Desert. Hosted bar, hors d'oeuves, coffee/teas and a special Red Dress dessert. Master of Ceremonies: Michael Holmes of The Judy Show; Party hosts - Les Originales; Celebrity Judges - Jenifer Daniels and Ann Walker. *Red Dress Required*. Be Creative! Tickets for this fundraiser are $85. For more info, www.thecenterps.org or (760) 3217365 21 ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com ∏ Shane Que He: LGBTs and Progressive Politics - Our Initiating Function 3/18 in Los Angeles SOMETHING 4 EVERYONE! Diversionary Theatre: Next Fall 2/16 through 3/25 in San Diego Thursday-Saturdays 8pm, Sundays 2pm & 7pm Diversionary Theatre is proud to bring the Tony-nominated play, Next Fall to San Diego. The production features Matt McGrath, who recently starred in the Old Globe's hit production of The Rocky Horror Show. Luke believes in God. Adam believes in everything else. Next Fall portrays the ups and downs of this unlikely couple's five-year relationship with sharp humor and unflinching honesty. When an accident changes everything, Adam must turn to Luke's family and friends for support... and answers. Through a series of flash-backs, Luke, Adam, and their friends and family grapple with the role that faith plays in their relationship. Luke, a devout Christian, sees his homosexuality as a sin he must repent for and nonbelievers as hell bound. Adam, a gay agnostic remains stubbornly unrepentant and unbelieving and Luke worries his boyfriend will be a future inhabitant of hell. Tickets $31-33. For more info: http://diversionary.org/ HRC Los Angeles Gala Dinner 3/17 in Los Angeles Saturday 5:30pm Reception, 7:30pm Dinner & Awards at the Ritz Carlton/JW Marriott Join co-chairs Sepi Ghafouri and Joel Dessaules for the HRC Los Angeles Gala Dinner to benefit the extraordinary life changing work of the Human Rights Campaign. 2012 program includes MSNBC's Chris Matthews, Kathleen Mathews of the Marriott International, and Chelsea Handler of E's Chelsea Lately. VIP tickets $400, Regular $275. For more information on the event, ticket purchase, or hotel reservations, visit http://www.hrcladinner.com/ Part of ONE National Lesbian and Gay Archive's Spring Culture Series. LGBTs have been at the forefront of left-wing progressive politics in the world as well as the U.S. This talk will focus on the contributions of the LGBT People who influenced events and advanced our civil rights through the avenues of non-major political parties. $5.00 Suggested Donation For more info, http://www.onearchives.org/ Film & Filmmaker: Out In The Silence with Joe Wilson 3/22 6:30pm-9:30pm in Bakersfield at Bakersfield College Out In The Silence is an amazing film chronicling one man's journey to being OUT in a small town. Following the screening, Joe Wilson, the filmmaker, will host a discussion of the issues presented. This event is presented free of charge by Bakersfield College GSA and Bakersfield LGBTQ. ASL Interpretation provided. Film synopsis: An inspiring documentary about courageous local residents confronting homophobia and the limitations of religion, tradition and the status quo in their conservative small town in the hills of western Pennsylvania. The screening will be followed by a Q&A session with filmmaker Joe Wilson aimed at engaging the audience in conversation about inclusion, fairness, and equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people in Bakersfield, across California, and around the country. To see a trailer or for more information about the film, visit http://OutintheSilence.com Forum East is located mid-campus at BC. Make sure you buy a parking pass, you will be ticketed! Doors open 6:30pm, film stars at 7. 2012 Rhino Benefit Extravaganza 3/26 in San Francisco Monday 8pm at Eureka Theatre, 215 Jackson, San Francisco Join Theatre Rhinoceros for this special event Featuring the Very Best in Queer Talent Musical Director, Dave Dobrusky, Host, John Fisher, With Tom Orr and starring Carlos Barrera, Connie J. STANLEY TEIXEIRA ATTORNEY AT LAW ∏ NewsLink 1233 W. SHAW AVENUE, SUITE 100 FRESNO, CALIFORNIA 93711 TELEPHONE (559) 225-2510 FACSIMILE (559) 225-2389 22 Champagne, Dave Dobrusky, Mike Finn, Sarah Fiske and Collage Theatre, Marga Gomez, Casey Ley, Natasha Muse, Matthew Martin, Jim McCunn, Holly Nugent, Tom Orr, Jef Valentine and the Cast of Shopping, the Musical! Raffle and Silent Auction, too! Tickets are $25. Website: http://www.therhino.org/ Laugh Out Loud 4/1 in Los Angeles Sunday 5:30pm - 9:30pm at The Comedy Store, 8433 Sunset Blvd, .Los Angeles, CA Join the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center for a night of LOL LGBT stand-up comedy! On April Fool's Day (no joke!), LGBT and allied comics Jackie Best, Page Hurwitz, David Koechner, Daniel Leary, Cathy Lewis, Shawn Pelovsky, Renee Santos, Jason Stuart (Event Chair) and Bruce Vilanch (Host) will gather at the world-famous Comedy Store in West Hollywood to do benefit performances in support of the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center's youth development and mentoring program, LifeWorks! http://laglc.convio.net/site/Calenda r?view=Detail&id=120141 Sing-A-Long Jesus Christ Superstar 4/6 in San Francisco Friday 7pm at The Victoria Theatre, 2961 16th Street, San Francisco The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and Bad Flower Productions Proudly Present SING ALONG JESUS CHRIST SUPERSTAR! Kick off the Sisters Of Perpetual Indulgence Easter Weekend with this long awaited ONE NIGHT ONLY musical event! Come sing along to your favorite tunes with your favorite Jesus groupies who Don't Know How To Love Him, who think he Must Die, and who want to know just What is That Buzz?! Jesus Christ Superstar, let us show you who your real groupies are! **Proceeds from this event will benefit the San Francisco Trans March** Tickets available at Brown Paper for $15$25.http://www.brownpapertickets.co m/event/233798 EQCA Equality Awards 4/14 in San Francisco Saturday evening at The Fairmont Hotel, 950 Mason Street, San Francisco, CA 94108 EQCA's Equality Awards aren't just about glamour and glitz. It's a time to honor our selfless leaders. Celebrate community achievements. And renew our engagement in the fight for equality. The black ties, sequins and champagne? That's just icing on the cake. Each year EQCA honors the inspirational leaders and outstanding allied organizations whose selfless work helps create a better world for all people. The Equality Awards recognize the achievements of the organization, its sponsors, members, staff and volunteers, as well as the LGBT community. Visit www.eqca.org for ticket pricing and more event information Wrapped for Pleasure: Easy Bondage for Steamy Sex 4/16 in San Francisco Want to bring sizzling, sexy, fun, and easy erotic bondage to your bedroom? Don't want to bother with expensive gear or complicated ropes? Come learn how to use stealthy scarves to combine sex with super easy bondage! Learn fun positions, techniques and how to change positions quickly. Midori will teach you safe non-rope ties for sex in various positions, making the best fitting dildo harness ever, sexual sensation enhancement with good positions, and more. There will be lots practice time so bring some a beach towel or yoga mat, a pillow or two if you like, and wear comfortable clothing. (All the exercises will be fully clothed.) Bring scarves if you like. Otherwise equipment and scarves will be provided. Couples or intimately comfortable friends encouraged. LGBT couples w e l c o m e ! http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jht ml?id=New-Polk-Good-Vibes-Events Palm Springs 2012 Hot Rodeo 5/5-5/6 in Banning Proudly presented by the Greater Palm Springs Chapter of the Golden State Gay Rodeo Association. Events to be held at A.C. Dysart Equestrian Center. Save the date and check out http://www.gsgra.org/ for more information on registration, tickets or sponsorship. Continued on page 25 METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES have “been at the vanguard of civil and human rights movements by addressing important issues such as racism, sexism, homophobia, ageism, and other forms of oppression” since 1968. BAKERSFIELD: MCC of the Harvest, 3815 River Blvd; (661) 8738891, find us on Facebook STOCKTON: Valley Ministries MCC, 4118 Coronado Ave.; (209) 810-9500, www.valleyministries.com UNITED METHODIST CHURCH's Reconciling Ministries Network mobilizes United Methodists of all sexual orientations and gender identities to transform our Church and world into the full expression of Christ's inclusive love. Reconciling congregations in the area include: FRESNO: Wesley UMC of Fresno, 1343 E. Barstow Ave.; (559) 2241947, www.wesleyfresno.org MERCED: UMC of Merced, 899 Yosemite Parkway, (209) 722-5777, www.umcmerced.org OAKHURST: New Community UMC, 49223 Road 426; (559) 6832652, www.newcommunityumc.net STOCKTON: Central UMC of Stockton, 3700 Pacific Ave.; (209) 466-5046, www.cumcstockton.org STOCKTON: St. Mark's UMC of Stockton, 309 E. Clay Ave.; (209) 463-7071, find us on Facebook THE EPISCOPAL DIOCESE OF SAN JOAQUIN (of The Episcopal Church) resolves that it “shall support, engage, and affirm the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender persons, (…) in the life and worship of the Church, as the Diocese works toward justice reconciliation and peace.” The Diocese of San Joaquin consists of: ATWATER: Merced Episcopal, meets at the Atwater Chamber of Commerce, 1181 3rd St.; (559) 9759037,mercedepiscopal.diosanjoaquin.org ATWATER: St. Nicholas Mission, Atwater Community Center, 760 E. Bellevue Rd.; (209) 658-9832, stnicholas.diosanjoaquin.org AVERY: St. Clare of Assisi, Highway 4; (209) 754-5381, stclaireofassisi.diosanjoaquin.org BAKERSFIELD: Grace Episcopal Church, meets at First Congregational Church, 5 Real Rd.; (661) 431-9020, www.graceepiscopalbakersfield.com BAKERSFIELD: St. Brigid's Episcopal Mission, 1900 Baker St.; stbrigid.diosanjoaquin.org FRESNO: Holy Family Episcopal Church, 1135 E Alluvial Ave; (559) 439-5011, www.holyfamilyfresno.org HANFORD: Episcopal Church of the Saviour, 519 N Douty St.; (559) 584-7706, www.saviourweb.com LODI: The Episcopal Church of St John the Baptist, 1055 South Lower Sacramento Road; (209) 369-3381, http://www.stjohnsoflodi.org MADERA: Holy Trinity Episcopal Mission, 420 E. 4th St.; (559) 6834 0 2 3 , w w w. h o l y t r i n i t y e p i s c o palchurch.org MODESTO: St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 1528 Oakdale Rd; (209) 522- 3267, www.stpaulsmodesto.org OAKHURST: St. Raphael's Episcopal Church, meets at Fresno Flats Historical Park, 49777 School Rd; (559) 683-4023, www.SaintRaphaelsEpiscopal.org RIVERBANK: Christ the King Community Episcopal Church, 6443 Estelle Ave.; (209) 869-1075, christtheking.diosanjoaquin.org SAN ANDREAS: St. Matthew's Episcopal Church, 414 Oak St.; (209) 754-3878, www.stmatthew.diosanjoaquin.org SONORA: St. Mary in the Mountains, meets at Sonora Senior Center, 540 Greenley Rd.; (209) 3520353, stmaryinthemountains.diosanjoaquin.org STOCKTON: The Episcopal Church of St. Anne, 1020 W. Lincoln Rd.; (209) 473-2313, stanne.diosanjoaquin.org TULARE: St. John's Episcopal Parish, 1701 Prosperity Ave.; (559) 686-8048, stjohntulare.diosanjoaquin.org TURLOCK: St. Francis Episcopal Church, 4510 Crowell Rd.; (209) 4177782, www.Episcopalstfrancis.org TRACY: St. Mark's Church, meets at First Presbyterian Church, 101 Berverdor Ave.; (209) 982-0827, www.stmarktracy.diosanjoaquin.org VISALIA: Continuing St. Paul's Episcopal Church, meets at Congregation B'nai David, 1039 S. Chinowth St.;(559) 732-6772, www.stpaulvisalia.diosanjoaquin.org Policies concerning the ordination of gays vary from region to region. The congregations below have publicly declared themselves welcoming to and affirming of persons of all gender and sexual identities. STOCKTON: First Christian Church, 1234 William Moss Blvd.; (209) 982-1212, find us on Facebook UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST's General Synod has since 1985 “declared itself to be "open and affirming" and called upon all settings of the church to become similarly poised to welcome LGBT persons as full members of the church.” The congregations who have adopted an “Open and Affirming” covenant include: ANGELS CAMP: Union Congregational UCC, 1141 S. Main St.; (209) 736-4171 BAKERSFIELD: First Congregational UCC, 5 Real Rd; (661) 327-1609, www.fccbakersfielducc.org FRESNO: College Community UCC, 5550 N. Fresno St.; (559) 4352690, www.communityucc.com FRESNO: First Congregational Church UCC, 2131 N. Van Ness Blvd.; (559) 227-8489, www.bigredchurch.org MODESTO: College Avenue UCC, 1341 College Ave; (209) 5227244, www.cacc-ucc.org TULARE: First Congregational UCC, 220 W. Tulare Ave; (559) 6865528, www.ucctulare.org EVANGELICAL LUTHERAN CHURCH IN AMERICA allows for gays & lesbians in committed monogamous relationships to serve as clergy. Most Lutheran congregations are not gay-friendly, but among those we've seen listed as being accepting are: MODESTO: Emanuel Lutheran Church, 324 College Ave; (209) 5234531, www.emanuellutheran.org PORTERVILLE: Trinity Lutheran Church, 764 W. Henderson Ave; (559) 784-4202, www.tlcporterville.org UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST congregations that are participating in the “God is still speaking,” campaign (where all are welcome). These churches have not adopted an “Open and Affirming” covenant though. MURPHYS: First Congregational Church of Christ, 509 N. Algiers Rd.; (209) 728-3141, www.fccmurph.org STOCKTON: First Congregational UCC, 3409 Brookside Rd., (209) 951-8545, www.firstcongregationalstockton.org THE CHRISTIAN CHURCH (DISCIPLES OF CHRIST) is on record in support of civil rights, regardless of sexual orientation. REFORMED JUDAISM institutions “have a long history of support for civil and equal rights for gays and lesbians”, “North American organizations of the Reform Movement have passed resolutions in support of civil marriage for gays and lesbians” and “the relationship of a Jewish, same gender couple is worthy of affirmation through appropriate Jewish ritual” but “we recognize the diversity of opinions within our ranks on this issue.” BAKERSFIELD: Temple Beth El, 2906 Loma Linda Dr.; (661) 3227607, templebethelbakersfield.org FRESNO: Temple Beth Israel, 6622 N. Maroa Ave.; (559) 432-3600, www.tbifresno.org MERCED, Congregation Etz Chaim, meets at United Methodist Church, 899 Yosemite Pkwy; (209) 722-0530, www.jewishmerced.org STOCKTON: Temple Israel, 5105 N. El Dorado St.; (209) 477-9306, ca047.urj.net VISALIA: Congregation B'Nai David, 1039 S. Chinowth St.; (559) 732-3139, www.congregationbnaidavid.com MODESTO CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN embraces “persons of every age, race, sexual orientation (...)”. 2301 Woodland Ave., Modesto, (209) 523-1438, www.modcob.org UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST congregations extend a warm welcome to LGBT people and their families. We're one of the few religions that ordain openly LGBT people. Congregations that have gone through the Welcoming Congregations Program to become more inclusive, include: CLOVIS: The UU Church of Fresno, 2672 E. Alluvial Ave.; (559) 322-6146, www.uufresno.org MODESTO: UU Fellowship of Stanislaus County, 2172 Kiernan Ave.; (209) 545-1837, www.stanuu.org STOCKTON: First UU Church of Stockton, 2737 Pacific Ave.; (209) 466-7743, www.stocktonuu.org UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST congregations that haven't completed the Welcoming Congregations Program: BAKERSFIELD: UU Fellowship of Kern County, 98 Sterling Rd.; (661) 363-5421, www.uufkc.org MERCED: UU of Merced, a branch of UU Fellowship of Stanislaus County, meets at Unity Church, 305 W. 26th St.; (209) 7251541, www.stanuu.org/merceduu/ PORTERVILLE: UU Fellowship of Porterville, 135 E. Harrison Ave.; (559) 782-1724, uufellowship.homestead.com/UUFellowship.html SONORA: UU Fellowship of Tuolumne County, meets at Stage 3 Theatre, 208 S. Green St.; (209) 5338833, website: www.uuftc.org VISALIA: UU Fellowship of Visalia, meets at Friends Meeting House, 17208 Avenue 296; (559) 4774214, www.uuvisalia.org UNITY (formerly Unity Church) states that “it is imperative that our ministries and outreaches be free of discrimination on the basis of race, color, gender, age, creed, religion, national origin, ethnicity, physical disability or sexual orientation. Our sincere desire is to ensure that all Unity organizations are nondiscriminatory and support diversity.” BAKERSFIELD: Unity Center, 2001 Truxton Ave.; (661) 327-8614, www.unityofbakersfield.org FRESNO: Unity Church of Fresno, 315 W. Shields Ave.; (559) 227-1889, www.fresnounity.org MERCED: Unity Merced, 305 W. 26th St.; (209) 723-3427, find us on Facebook MODESTO: Unity of Modesto, 2467 Veneman Ave; (209) 578-5433, www.unitychurchofmodesto.com MODESTO: Prayer Fellowship of the Valley, meets at Congregation Beth Shalom, 1705 Sherwood Ave.; (209) 531-5644, www.prayerfellowshipofthevalley.org SONORA: Unity Spiritual Center in the Mother Lode, 19478 Village Dr.; (209) 928-1385, www.unitymotherlode.org STOCKTON: Unity of Stockton, 48 W. Poplar St.; (209) 466-0311, www.unityofstockton.com ∏ UNITED CENTERS FOR SPIRITUAL LIVING (Science of Mind / Religious Science) BAKERSFIELD: Center for Spiritual Living, 222 Eureka St.; (661) 323-3109, www.bakersfieldcsl.org FRESNO: Center for Spiritual Living, 723 W. Clinton Ave.; (559) 485-2676, www.cslfresno.org FRESNO: Central Valley Center for Spiritual Living, 2350 W. Shaw Ave. #121; (559) 225-1860, www.cvcspiritualliving.org OTHER NEW THOUGHT FRESNO: New Thought Community, 2060 N. Winery Ave. #101; (559) 448-6565, www.newthoughtcommunity.org FRESNO: The Oneness Center, 1752 E. Bullard Ave. #106; (559) 2608589, www.omfresno.com VISALIA: Spiritual Awareness Center, 117 S. Locust St.; (559) 6252441, www.spiritualawarenesscenter.com OTHER MODESTO: Church of the Brethren, 2301 Woodland Ave.; (209) 523-1438, www.modcob.org RIPON: First Congregational Church of Ripon, 100 N. Acacia Ave; (209) 599-3361, www.riponcongregational.org (info from PFLAG Modesto) Corrections: [email protected] NewsLink Here’s a listing of gay-friendly, open and welcoming, accepting churches in the Central Valley (and the mountains). It might just make your spiritual life easier! www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Valley Wide GLBT-friendly religion & spirituality listings 23 ∏ ∏ ∏ ∏ Disclaimer: Although the author of this syndicated column holds a doctorate in clinical psychology, the tongue-in-cheek advice given is for entertainment only and is not a substitute for therapy. Barbie responds to all emails…whether you deserve it or not. Send your questions to Uncle Barbie at: [email protected] Who Decides Who is a Fit Parent? Dear Uncle Barbie, I gave birth to a beautiful boy last year in March. When I was in the hospital with him for a few days after the c-section, the social worker said that I wasn't learning fast enough to take care of him, and I was also recovering from a schizoaffective relapse. I wanted to give him up for adoption from the beginning, but the father wouldn't let me. Now he has our son and I feel really powerless. He raped me in the past, or at least I feel that it was rape. I Hello Sad Mom, Don't be so hard on yourself. As long as you are doing the best you can with what you have, there is no need to get down on yourself for not doing more. How can you do more than what you are able to do? Who is to decide what is the absolute definition of a “good mom?” Just do your very best, and don't worry what others may think. We all have our own capabilities (physical and mental). If your schizoaffective disorder limits your mental capacity, then you will only be frustrated by comparing yourself to others. (If you have a therapist, this would be a good topic for discussion during your next session.) Since you indicated that your child was taken away from you, I am assuming that you must have gone through a court proceeding (including a psychological evaluation to determine parental competency). I have conducted such evaluations for clients who were headed to court to fight a MFC37347 Business Owners... Are you reading this? 1451 W Shaw Ave. Fresno, CA 93711 Ph: (559) 243-1809 Fax: (559) 243-1807 thoughts on loving your little boy. Even if you are not able to be physically involved with your child, you can still hold loving thoughts about him in your mind. I think that would make you a much happier person. Love & Light, Barbie Something for Everyone Continued from page 22 Fun-Raiser and Buzz Party Trans March\ 4/17 in San Francisco Tuesday 5:30pm-8pm at The Buck, 1655 Market St near Gough, San Francisco Performers! Sexy MCs. Hotties! :-) last year, we held our first annual fundraiser at Chris Daly's Buck Tavern to make the trans march accessible to seniors and the disabled. With the money we raised, seniors and the disabled rode a cable car during the trans march. Trans march organizer and queer performance artist StormMiguel Florez and Trans Rocker Shawna Virago performed. The event was a smashing success. This year, we will be joined by Mia Tu Mutch and Karlyn Isaac Lotney as MCs,and have new co-hosts Cecilia C Chung, Veronika Fimbres, Dana Morrigan, and Martin Rawlings-Fein. StormMiguel, Shawna Virago, and Tommi Avicolli Mecca have agreed to perform again! The Trans March Organizing Committee needs your help to make this year a success! Save the date! https://www.facebook.com/events/313 919252000365/ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com Your Intellectual Whore “An effervescently gay advice columnist” child custody battle. As their therapist, I would give testimony as an “expert witness” on the mental state of the clients. I am telling you this because, if you went through a similar hearing, then you need to know that you have a right to an appeal. Talk to a county social worker or a legal aid service to be informed of your rights. They can give you legal advice; I can only give you emotional support and understanding. You mentioned in your letter that you believe you have been raped by your boyfriend. Regardless of what the criminal laws say, I believe that you ALWAYS have a right to refuse sex--even with a spouse. He needs to respect your answer of, “No!” To physically force or emotionally pressure someone into having sexual contact, of any kind, is a violation to your dignity as a human being. (Again, this delicate issue would be best discussed privately with your therapist.) Towards the end of your letter, you expressed concern about the possibility that the child's father and his mother may hate you. There is no need to troubled yourself with such worries. It really doesn't matter what they think of you. What YOU think of yourself is far more important. As far as your question about how to get over the grudge you have for the father of your child, I suggest that you change your thought pattern. Stop thinking so much about him, and focus more on your child. People can only focus on one thought at a time, so make that thought about caring for your baby. You can literally push the resentment out of your mind by replacing it with feelings of love for someone else. You say that you just want your son to be happy. Then let go of the bitterness regarding this whole situation, and keep your ... so it does work! Gina Keller PsyD, LMFT Licensed Marriage Family Therapist Psychotherapy for all ages For advertising information call (559) 486-3464 or email us at [email protected] H E A D QU A R TE R S NOW FEATURING Alternative hair coloring, Cosmetics, W igs Cynthia Stevens - proprietor/stylist 1236 N. Wishon Fresno, CA 93728 559-498-8430 NewsLink ∏ would say no several times and he would tell me that I might as well just give up because he wasn't going to let me fall asleep until he got off. I wrote a letter to his mother, who is helping take care of our child, saying what he did. So now they both probably hate me, and I find it extremely hard to get over the grudge I have with the father, and I don't know what my place should be as a mother. I don't feel like I am a mother because I'm six hours away from my son, and I don't feel confident about taking care of him, anyways. I feel like a horrible mom. I don't know what I want you to tell me, or if anything would make me feel better. I don't want to be a mom. I just want my son to be happy. Signed, Sad Mom 25 Libra ∏ www.CommunityLinkFresno.com HOROSCOPES by Eric Biglione (Sep 23 - Oct 22) Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19) Now is not the time for actions or decisions. Wait until April. Think about the image you are presenting and improve on yourself. You are dealing with more people in your life and it is a new game now. Past projects need to be taken care of. Try to take care of things in a group and hold your tongue. Relationships will improve if you take care to listen. Your rewards will come later. Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21) Taurus (Apr 20 - May 20) Boy aren't you attractive. Hope and wishes can come true for you now. Your romantic entanglements need to be cleared up before you move forward. Good social time with friends and for meeting new people. Gemini (May 21 - June 20) Balancing work and the home life can be tricky now. Keep everything above board and ask questions. You can be a little temperamental here so take time to relax and reflect. Do not take on more then you can handle and do well what you can. Cancer (June 21 - July 22) Pleasant surprises change your mood. Opportunity comes but wait until after Apr. 4 for a decision. Keep up contacts to maintain your optimism. Take care of problems at home. Leo (July 23 - Aug 22) New adventures await. For some it is in your career and others’ fantasies come true. Keep an eye on finances and plan your future for what you really are looking for. Virgo (Aug 23 - Sep 22) Try not to move too fast here better yet think before you act. You have a lot of energy going on. For now keep your personal plans to yourself. Be aware of your spending habits you could go overboard now. Work with others for now. Creative time continues. It's a time to help others using your intuition as a guide to efficiency. Your mate needs your attention now. Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21) Been busy huh. Keep up the good work, this is going to go on for awhile. Creative abilities are accented as is romance. Be methodical in your work. Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19) Tendency is to be complacent here. Try improving your surroundings to stimulate you. Good time to literally clean out your closets. Try to take an interest in others and bring more harmony here. Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18) Try not to be so rigid and roll with life a little more. No hasty decisions though. Wait until April. You can be very affectionate toward others now Pisces (Feb 19 - Mar 20) You can only do so much to help others. You need to take care of yourself. 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Van Ness Ave. Suite A Fresno, CA 93728 559-325-4GAY Wed. - Sat. 12pm - 5pm www.GayCentralValley.org Community Link Where we just don’t tolerate diversity... We celebrate it! P.O. Box 4959, Fresno, CA 93744 (559) 266-LINK [email protected] www.communitylinkfresno.com Imperial Dove Court 2115 Kern St., Suite 370 Fresno, CA 93721 Diversity Club at F.C.C. Meetings: Fridays 2-4pm SO-208 I Camping Women For women who Central Valley Alliance of Atheists and Skeptics WE DON’T BURN HERETICS - love the outdoors… WE WELCOME THEM! call 891-7725 www.cvaas.org http://www.campingwomen.org Fresno Reel Pride The Central Valley Annual GLBT Film Festival 559-268-2780 www.ReelPride.com [email protected] “You’ll just never know what they’ll say next!” You’ll have to tune in to find out! KIDS LIKE US IT'S A QUEER THANG P.O. Box 5561 Fresno CA 93755 Fraternal order raising funds for groups who need help NOW Paris: 559-355-6163 P.O. Box 4642, Fresno, Ca. 93744 559-916-9299 www.idcfresno.org P.O. Box 27382, Fresno, CA 93729-7382 (559) 434-6540 You are Welcome! 2:00 P.M. 2nd Sun Wesley United Methodist Church, 1343 E. Barstow, Fresno STRAIGHT ADVOCATES FOR EQUALITY Outreach Education Support www.safefresno.com ∏ meetings: first Fridays 7pm first Saturdays 5pm Gay parenting group KFCF 88.1FM 3rd Friday of the month at 5-6pm Robin (559) 287-9670 Your Gay Hosts: Jeff & Kirk Professional Men’s Mixer 1st & 3rd Fridays at 6pm [email protected] http://www.facebook.com/gro up.php?gid=107149747915 [email protected] PROJECT: MALE FIGHTING AIDS IN FRESNO COUNTY 1584 N. Van Ness Ave. Fresno,CA 93728 (559) 287-7666 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/project-male Date TBA Join the Listserv at www.trans-e-motion.org @ Women’s Resource Center Community Link’s RAINBOW BOWLING Thursdays 7:15pm @ Cedar Lanes, 3131 N Cedar Rich (559) 824-1417 www.communitylinkfresno.com Every Friday @ 7:00 - 8:30pm @ 2131 N. Van Ness Blvd @ The Big red Church 486-3464 w w w.StrideWithPrideForKids.com (559) 285-2333 www.wecarefresno.org Frinedly Outdoor fun Games are open to all Meet new people! No formalities! Weekly Thurs. Games. Season: March-Oct. Info at 486-3464 19 years of Outrageous Fun United Student Pride @ CSU Fresno Meetings: Wednesdays 12-2pm Queer Volleyball The Fresno GLBTQ Youth Alliance csufresno.edu/StudentOrgs/LGBSA/ (559) 646-5806 QVB 611 E. Belmont Fresno, CA 93701 559-237-3420 NewsLink Social group for bears, cubs & fans GoldenStateBears.org 27 ∏ ∏ ∏ ∏ ∏