Advice From the Last Person His Friends Expected
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Advice From the Last Person His Friends Expected
True Colors (/news/true-colors/) Log in Create Account iOS app (http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/the-huffington-post/id306621789?mt=8) September 26, 2014 Android app (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.huffingtonpost.android&hl=en) More (/big-news/#) (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/healthy-living) Edition: U.S. Newsletters Follow Log In Huffington Post Search FRONT PAGE WOMEN TASTE GOOD NEWS (HTTP://WWW.HUFFINGTONPOST.COM) (HTTP://WWW.HUFFINGTONPOST.COM/WOMEN/) (HTTP://WWW.HUFFINGTONPOST.COM/TASTE/) (HTTP://WWW.HUFFINGTONPOST.COM Healthy Living (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/healthy-living/) • Health And Fitness (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/health-fitness/) NEWS/) • GPS for the Soul (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/gps-for-the-soul/) • Health News (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/health-news/) • Sleep (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/@sleep123/) • Healthy Living Videos (http://videos.huffingtonpost.com/healthy-living/) • Moments Not Milestones (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/moments-not-milestones/) • Lifestyle (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/less-stress-more-living/) • Third Metric (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/third-metric/) • Thrive (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/third-metric-events/) (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/24/depression (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/25/ab symptoms_n_5868190.html) workoutsspotreduction_n_5863764.html) (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/24/id betmoneythatafter1_n_5872306.html) (http://www.huffingtonpos workoutclothes_n_5838 Evidence Depression Isn't Just 'All In Why Your Ab Workouts Aren't Working This Is What Sex Ed Should Sound The Crazy Evolution O Your Head' (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/25/ab Like Clothes, From Pettico (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/24/depression workoutsspot (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/24/idLululemon symptoms_n_5868190.html) reduction_n_5863764.html) betmoneythatafter (http://www.huffingto 1_n_5872306.html) workoutclothes_n_58 HOT ON THE BLOG Featuring fresh takes and realtime analysis from HuffPost's signature lineup of contributors Xanana Gusmao Harvey Weinstein (? 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(http://www.huffingtonpost.com/gisele utm_hp_ref=Healthy+Living) bundchen/womenandthe environment_b_5889660.html? utm_hp_ref=Healthy+Living) Laurie David (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/laurie david/girlscouts nestle_b_5879300.html? utm_hp_ref=Healthy+Living) Nancy Brown (/nancybrown/) Become a fan (/users/login/) (http://twitter.com/nancyatheart) (/users/becomeFan.php?of=hp_blogger_Nancy Brown) CEO, American Heart Association FROM OUR PARTNERS Advice From the Last Person His Friends Expected to Have Heart Disease: 'Listen to Your Body' Posted: 09/22/2014 10:32 am EDT Updated: 09/22/2014 10:59 am EDT (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245642/23132/0/0/8861326) (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245652/23132/0/0/8861326) Things You Never Knew The Only 8 Moves You About Beets Need To Be Fit (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245642/23132/0/0/8861326) (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245652/23132/0/0/8861326) Log In(javscript:void(0)) 36 (http://images.huffingtonpost.com/201409-18-Brianandfamily.jpg)Early Friday 14 morning, in the quiet of his home office, Brian Curin will power up his laptop, click Tweet open a special folder and launch a file (https://twitter.com/intent/tweet? 0 (http://www.zergnet.com/i/261306/23132/0/0/8861326) 11 (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245638/23132/0/0/8861326) 2 called "My Life." Then he will watch the lang=en&text=Advice+From+the+Last+Person+His+Friends+Expected+to+Have+Heart+Disease%3A+%27Listen+to+Your+Body%27+http%3A%2F%2Fhuff.to%2F1rhGZYq) 15 Words & Phrases Here's Why You Should images and hear the words that his wife Women Need to Stop Email Never Wash Raw Comment Saying Chicken and three daughters thankfully have never (http://www.linkedin.com/cws/share?url=http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nancybrown/thelastpersonhisfrien_b_5845690.html) (http://www.zergnet.com/i/261306/23132/0/0/8861326) (http://www.zergnet.com/i/245638/23132/0/0/8861326) seen or heard. Share (https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.huffingtonpost.com%2Fnancybrown%2Fthelastpersonhisfrien_b_5845690.html) In the roughly eight-minute video, Brian -wearing a hospital gown and sitting in a hospital bed -- says his goodbyes to each of them. He shares his thoughts and hopes for their futures without him. Emotions start to overwhelm him several times, but he somehow remains composed. MOST POPULAR 1. Donations Pour In For Devoted Dog Who Suffered 3rd-Degree Burns Saving Family From Fire Brian recorded it early on Sept. 26, 2012, hours before a quadruple bypass operation. The only person he told about the video was his younger sister; someone had to know, just in case. Brian is fully recovered now. He's resumed both his career as president of Flip Flop Shops (North America's authentic retail chain exclusively dedicated to flip flops and casual footwear) and a wildly active lifestyle that made his heart condition such a stunner to all who knew him. Last Sept. 26, the first anniversary of his operation, Brian watched "My Life" for the first time to remind himself of how precious every moment in life is. Then, as a show of his renewed vitality, he went out and did -- for the first time -- the Grouse Grind, a 1.8-mile hike up a 2,800-foot mountain near Vancouver. This Sept. 26, Brian will do it all again -- a solemn, solo viewing of the video, then the energetic burst up Grouse Mountain. Only this time, he's bringing a group of family and friends along for the hike. Since becoming a heart disease survivor, Brian and his company have become involved with my organization, the American Heart Association. He's become a wonderful volunteer and a powerful example of the saying, "If heart disease can happen to him, then it can happen to anyone." I'm proud to turn this space over to him to share his incredible story. 9 hours ago huffingtonpost.com AOL Forex Alena Hall Alena Hall chuckey 2. Curious Manatee Kept An Eye On Stranded Pup Until Help Arrived, Just To Be Nice 2 days ago huffingtonpost.com AOL Forex Alena Hall Alena Hall animal rescues 3. Watch This Dad Tell His Ecstatic Sons He Won The Lottery In Crazy, Climactic Way --(http://images.huffingtonpost.com/2014-09-18Brianmediashot.jpg)If you'd asked me in the summer of 2012 what a heart patient looked like, I would have said someone old and overweight who smoked. Not in a million years would it have crossed my mind that a 38-year-old guy like me would've fit that category. I weighed about 155 pounds, ate healthy and have been active all my life, generally in the water, on a board or on wheels. I swam competitively through college, raced motor cross and have done every imaginable watersport. Yes, I had a bit of a family history of heart disease a day ago huffingtonpost.com HuffingtonPost.com (AOL) Ryan Grenoble Ryan Grenoble dad wins lottery 4. Dog Branded With Profanity Gets Cosmetic Surgery 6 days ago huffingtonpost.com AOL Forex Andrew Hart Andrew Hart dog kentucky branded 5. Why People Are Putting Butter In Their Coffee (http://www.heart.org/HEARTORG/Conditions/More/MyHeartandStrokeNews/FamilyHistory-and-Heart-Disease-Stroke_UCM_442849_Article.jsp) with my mom, her sister and their mother. But they all had different eating habits than me, weren't active and smoked at some point in their lives. Plus, all were in their 60s when their problems began. I had just started a new workout program when I started feeling something funny. I went to the doctor and all tests came back with flying colors. Just to be safe, the doctor sent me for a stress test (http://www.heart.org/idc/groups/heartpublic/@wcm/@hcm/documents/downloadable/ucm_300453.pdf). I was shut down after only three minutes. An angiogram (http://watchlearnlive.heart.org/CVML_Player.php?moduleSelect=angiog) was scheduled for the next morning. I showed up wearing flip flops, a T-shirt and a cap, with a demeanor that matched my casual attire. When the nurse asked if it was my first angiogram, I smiled and said, "Yes. Is it yours?" The mood remained jovial as the procedure got going. Then, every face went white. My cardiologist soon explained, "You're 100 percent blocked in one artery, 90 percent in three others." I needed a quadruple bypass. Had my heart muscle not been so healthy -- had I been overweight, a smoker or both -- I probably would've already been dead. 4 days ago huffingtonpost.com Trending HuffingtonPost.com (AOL) The Huffington Post Kate Bratskeir Kate Bratskeir diets 6. Why One Mom Is Glad She Chose To 'Redshirt' Her Son 3 hours ago huffingtonpost.com HuffingtonPost.com (AOL) Rahel Gebreyes Rahel Gebreyes parenting 7. If Everyone Was This Honest During Sex, No One Would Be Having Sex My body needed about a week to recover from the angiogram. While the care I received was terrific, the waiting was hell. I was afraid to blink the first two days. When I asked my surgeon whether he considered my procedure routine, he said, "Yours isn't, Brian." "We don't get a lot of young, healthy guys with three beautiful girls and a family they need to be around for," he said. "We're going to take as much time as we need." 23 hours ago huffingtonpost.com HuffingtonPost.com (AOL) Brittany Wong Brittany Wong awkward sex 8. These Pets Are Often Overlooked For Being 'Less Adoptable,' But Really Just Need Some TLC The night before, I cuddled with my three little girls and my wife. After they left, the nurses wanted me to sleep. I pretended to be out so that I could record my video in peace. That was probably the most sobering moment - being in the hospital room, telling my family things you should say every day but knowing it might be the last thing they ever hear from me. (http://images.huffingtonpost.com/2014-09-18Briansscar.png)I came away with a healed heart and a tattered body. I've since told people I was attacked by a shark... and they totally believe it. My big scare hit a lot of people hard, right between the eyes. Really Just Need Some TLC 3 days ago huffingtonpost.com HuffingtonPost.com (AOL) Kimberly Yam Kimberly Yam animal adoption 9. Dashcam Catches Kids Dancing Like Dorks, And It's Glorious "Dude, you're the last person we expected this to happen to," a buddy said. "You took the bullet for us." Another buddy began riding his bike to work. Another went for a stress test. One of my brothers-in-law said, "I just bought a gym membership and I'm using it because of you." Others emailed to say they went for physicals, sometimes getting prescribed medicines and making lifestyle changes (http://www.heart.org/HEARTORG/GettingHealthy/Getting-Heart-Healthy-OneSimple-Step-at-a-Time_UCM_447728_Article.jsp). FOLLOW HUFFPOST Email Address The Morning Email My No. 1 message is listen to your body. You only have one heart, and it's what keeps you going. So take care of it. Get a physical every year. If something doesn't feel right, get it checked out. (I had a stress test last month and my cardiologist told me that based on my stellar results, he is very confident that I will not need any type of reversal procedures for heart disease in the future!) As hard as I've played, I've also attacked my professional life pretty hard. That means taking on a lot of stress (http://www.heart.org/HEARTORG/GettingHealthy/StressManagement/HowDoesStressAffectYou/FAQsAbout-Stress_UCM_307982_Article.jsp). Research is still being done to connect the two, but it only makes sense to cut back on stress when you can. I tell people not to go a full day without laughing. I'm also a big believer in simplicity. Take work breaks. Leave your cell phone on your desk and go feel the sun on your face for five minutes. It's unfortunate that I had to go through this, but I also kind of feel like it's the best thing that's ever happened to me -- next to my wife and kids, of course. This experience has been a game-changer. Little things don't bother me. I have a whole different outlook on life, and it's a good one. (http://images.huffingtonpost.com/2014-09-18-Brianwithpaddle.jpg) Healthy Living Get top stories and blog posts emailed to me each day.. I hope sharing my story can impact more lives. It's hard to argue with someone like me. Want to look like a shark bit you? You don't. It sucks. Sign me up! 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Reply · Like · Follow Post · September 22 at 4:40pm Linda Loomis · Top Commenter · Virginia Commonwealth University couldn't agree more. genetics is 90% of it. Reply · Like · September 23 at 4:29am Facebook social plugin Huffington Post Search Advertise (Http://Advertising.Aol.Com/Brands/Huffington-Post) Log In (/Users/Login/) RSS (/Syndication) Make HuffPost Your Home Page (/Makehome/) Careers (/Jobs/) User Agreement (/Terms.Html) FAQ (/Faq/) Privacy (Http://Privacy.Aol.Com/) Comment Policy (/Comment/Policy/) About Us (/P/Huffington-Post.Html) About Our Ads (Http://Adinfo.Aol.Com/About-Our-Ads/) Copyright ©2014 TheHuffingtonPost.com, Inc. Contact Us (/Contact/) "The Huffington Post" is a registered trademark of TheHuffingtonPost.com, Inc. All rights reserved. Part of AOL Lifestyle
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