Table of Contents - Connecticut Funeral Directors Association
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Table of Contents - Connecticut Funeral Directors Association
ssociate A the CFDA Publication of the Connecticut Funeral Directors Association, Inc. Est. 1889 July/August 2016 Volume 49 • No.4 Table of Contents Volume 49 • No. 3 Page 3 See You in September . . . by CFDA Executive Director John F. Cascio Page 4 Lifting and Moving the Dead Helpful Tips for Preventing Injury Page 6 Change is Here: Prepare for the Future by Howard K. Hill, cfsp, cpc, cco 2016 CFDA President Page 8 CFDA Update The Power of Mentors NFDA 2016 Elections In Memoriam Page 10 NFDA Update Labor Department’s New Overtime Regulations Take Effect December 1 New House Legislation Would Extend Funeral Fule to Cemeteries, Crematories and Third-Party Retailers Page 12 Reminder: Priority Mail Express for Shipping Cremated Remains Don’t Miss One of These this Summer! Sunset at Saybrook. Page 14 How Long to Retain Funeral Home Documents Page 16 CFD-PAC • Our Voice in Hartford and Washington Page 22 Tips of the Day TJB Financial Services Benefits to CFDA Members, Part 3 by Timothy Bourdon, President TJB Financial Services, Inc. 2016 CFDA Calendar CFDA Scholarship Tournament Monday, September 26, 2016 Wethersfield Country Club October 23-26NFDA Annual Convention, Philadelphia, PA December 1 CFDA Annual Meeting, Radisson Hotel, Cromwell Our website: www.ctfda.org Our email address: [email protected] the Associate CFDA Mission Statement To advance the profession of funeral service in Connecticut through Public Awareness, Education, Advocacy and High Ethical Standards. Publication of the Connecticut Funeral Directors Association, Inc. 364 Silas Deane Highway, Wethersfield, CT 06109 phone (860) 721-0234 John F. Cascio, editor, executive director fax (860) 257-3617 Noelle Frechette, administrative assistant website: www.ctfda.org Beverly Matthews, graphic design, production, photography email: [email protected] member services, [email protected] 2016 CFDA Officers President Howard K. Hill, cfsp, cpc, cco Howard K. Hill Funeral Services Hartford, CT (860) 247-8793 New Haven, CT (203) 624-4477 [email protected] Vice President Robert L. Muccino, cpc Funk Funeral Home Bristol, CT (860) 583-4107 [email protected] Treasurer Matthew R. Adzima Adzima Funeral Home, Inc. Stratford, CT (203) 375-2200 [email protected] Secretary Edward J. Sheehy, Jr., cfsp, cpc Riverview Funeral Home Shelton, CT (203) 924-6800 [email protected] Past President Stephen M. King, cfsp Mystic Funeral Home Mystic, CT (860) 536-2888 [email protected] Policy Board Representative Pasquale S. Folino, cfsp Thomas L. Neilan & Sons, New London, CT (860) 443-1871 East Lyme Funeral Home, Niantic, CT (860) 739-6112 [email protected] Executive Committee Rebecca C. Lautenslager Shaughnessey-Banks Funeral Home Fairfield, CT (203) 225-1031 [email protected] John “Jay” C. Carmon, Jr. cpc Carmon Funeral Homes Windsor, CT (860) 688-2200 [email protected] David W. MacDonald Wallingford Funeral Home Wallingford, CT (203) 269-7777 [email protected] Jacqueline L. Teske Pietras Family Funeral Homes Rockville, CT (860) 875-0703 [email protected] Legal Counsel John P. McHugh, Esq. Cranmore, Fitzgerald & Meaney 2 Media and Public Relations Laura Soll Public Relations, LLC by John F. Cascio, CFDA Executive Director Those of you who are “of a certain age” are probably humming that song from 1966 by The Happenings. The rest of you can “Google” it and enjoy. However, summer is a good time to review the first half of our year. CFDA has been very active in recent months and now that we have awarded our annual scholarships, celebrated the longevity of our membership, appreciated the work and results of our Lobbyist Mike Dugan, CFDA Legislative Co-Chairs Randy Molloy and Nicole Paquette, the CFDA Legislative Committee and Attorney John McHugh for their efforts with the increase in the Irrevocable Cap and testimony before hearings on the Indigent Burial Expenses, I think we deserve a little down time. For more information on the CFDA Legislative Update go to our website and read the article in the Legislative Section of the Resource Guide or see it on page 12 of the May/June issue of The Associate. Albert M. DeLucia (Alternate) Porto Funeral Home West Haven, CT (203) 934-5000 East Haven, CT (203) 467-3000 [email protected] CFDA Support Team Call CFDA Office for contact information Lobbyist Michael Dugan Capitol Consulting, LLC “See You in September” . . . Trust Advisors Victor Chigas, Chris Chigas or V.J. Chigas Access Financial Group/ITS State Board of Examiners for Embalmers & Funeral Directors: Darrell L. McClam, Embalmer, Chairperson Gerald Bosak, Jr., Embalmer Frank W. Carmon, IV, Embalmer Agnes M. Pier (Public Member) Ed Sheehy, Pasquale Folino and I have just returned from a busy and informative NFDA Leadership Conference in Las Vegas. And now we must look forward to the last days of summer when the priorities are walking on the beach, grilling burgers July/August 2016 and hot dogs, spending time with our families and dreading the fact that before we know it . . . well, you know what comes next . . . September! I do hope you will take advantage of your opportunity to vote for the NFDA officers during August. It is a first and an opportunity to have your say in the NFDA election. We will continue our work with the Departments of Public Health, Consumer Protection and Social Services. In the fall we will most likely have fundraisers for both the Democratic and Republican caucuses and you will certainly be asked for a PAC contribution. Representatives from both parties have supported our legislative efforts and this is the best way to continue this important connection. So, please peruse this issue of The Associate. Then if it’s sunny out find some sunscreen, a beach umbrella or a shade tree. If it rains – go see that blockbuster movie you and your kids (or just you)have been wanting to see. In spite of that back-toschool commercial, Summer is The Most Wonderful Time of the Year! Beachcombing, Tennis, Camping, Grilling, Sitting by the Pool, Reading, Writing. It’s your time and your choice. And, of course, you can spend some time getting ready for the Annual Scholarship Golf Tournament on Monday, September 26th at the Wethersfield Country Club. It makes the end of summer a bit more palitable. Get your foursome together!! — John Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 3 Lifting and Moving the Dead Helpful Tips for Preventing Injury Caring for the dead necessitates lifting or helping move them. Compared to objects lifted or moved in traditional or industrial settings, the body is generally heavier, more delicate and awkward to handle. Also, the center of gravity can change during the handling activity. This can suddenly put a funeral director in an awkward posture or position and require them to make more forceful exertions. Back injuries can have a long-lasting effect on your funeral home. A back injury to a key employee could require a change in your operation. WHAT CONTRIBUTES TO BACK INJURIES? Lifting or moving the dead requires the interaction of the funeral director, the individual being moved, the equipment used, and the work environment. There are a great variety of activities involved, including: • Manual lifting • Laterally transferring between two horizontal surfaces • Repositioning furniture in a home to remove the body • Manipulating extremities • Dressing and casketing • And who can forget those dreaded stairs! 4 Repeated bending, twisting, reaching or holding prolonged fixed positions can contribute to injuries of the neck, shoulder and back. Bending the back forward when lifting places great loads on the muscles, discs, and ligaments of the lower back. One of the most damaging activities is to bend, reach out and lift, and then twist while raising the trunk. The ligaments of the back do not support twisting movements very well, especially when the back is bent forward. As pressures on the discs in the lower back increase, the center or nucleus of the disc is forced backwards. If the disc bulges or ruptures, this can damage the surrounding nerves. the correct height (i.e., between the waist and shoulders) •Make sure brakes hold properly and apply them firmly on gurneys • Use upright, neutral working postures and proper body mechanics • Bend your legs, not your back. Use your legs to do the work • Do not twist when turning. Pick up your feed and pivot your whole body in the direction of the move FOOTWARE The appropriate footwear can also provide good traction to help prevent slips or falls and cushioning when standing or walking for long periods on hard surfaces. GURNEYS Make sure your transport gurneys are easy to steer as well as easy to adjust (e.g., can easily raise or lower). Also, controls that allow upright, neutral working posture (e.g., easy to reach without bending or reaching). PREP ROOM TIPS 1.Try to have storage shelves located between waist and shoulder height in your office or prep room 2.Have sufficient and accessible storage for hoists and other assist equipment and devices TRAINING Effective training is an important part of trying to reduce or prevent injuries at your funeral home as the tips mentioned above. Keep in mind that training is not effective at reducing injuries unless it: • Includes education and hands-on practice • Allows feedback •Requires that employees demonstrate the skills learned in a competency evaluation • Is systematically reinforced by retraining Finally, remember that for training to be successful at reducing employee injuries, your funeral home should strive to provide support and workers must practice the skills on a daily basis during work activities. GENERAL TIPS TO PREVENT INJURY • Know your own limits and do not exceed them • Assess before lifting or moving a body • Eliminate or reduce manual lifting whenever possible •Use assist devices or equipment when available or appropriate • Get co-workers to help as much as possible by giving them clear, simple instructions with adequate time for response • Mentally plan and prepare (e.g., consider obstructions; clear out paths) • Use (or modify) surfaces to keep work tasks, equipment and supplies close and at The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 5 A Message from the President Howard K. Hill, cfsp, cpc, cco Change is Here: Prepare for the Future Now more than ever we must take the time to educate ourselves as Funeral Home Directors and stay ahead of market trends to ensure that we remain competitive. The reality of conducting business differently is here and in order to stay relevant in this business, we must relate to our families. Using standard marketing plans and approaches of even four years ago are no longer a viable option due to the rise in cremations, changes in irrevocable trusts and other major changes in how we do business. Thus, we need to invest individually in our businesses and the communities we serve. A friend and advocate is someone you know and trust. Our families are at a time in their lives where they need to trust and believe that we will do everything in our power to provide quality care and services. In order to trust our organization, families, individuals and our community need to have a relationship with us. Ask yourself if your organization is connected to the community? In what ways are we differentiating ourselves? What is our value to the community beyond funeral services? and finally, how are we educating families about the need to pre-plan? We need to motivate families to plan ahead and do all we can to create a messaging campaign that speaks directly to their need. It is also vital to educate individuals and families about their options and to adapt our methodology to the needs of the marketplace. Here are just a few suggestions to optimize your marketing dollars: 1) Share your success stories 2) Know legislation regulating your industry 3) Use online marketing tools to capture a wider market 4) Provide services to the community that are needed 5) Conduct ongoing assessment of the needs of your target market and facilitate direct marketing to that area. The time to adjust is now as we look to not only sustain are place in the market but innovate how we respond to change. Keep in mind that our family’s needs are what matters most as we look for ways to make a tangible difference. As a subject matter expert, we must be savvy and set the standard for excellence. — Howard K. Hill 6 The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 7 Update... CFDA The Power of Mentors Everybody needs a mentor — students, doctors, farmers, lawyers, mothers, fathers, presidents, actors, musicians . . . even funeral directors. But when you ask most people if they’re willing to be a mentor or find a mentor, most often the response is that they have no idea how to do it or what is involved. So here’s a brief “Mentor 101” for those interested in being mentored or who want to mentor a just-starting-out professional. Mentoring is a professional activity, a trusted relationship and a meaningful commitment. The origins of mentoring can be traced back to ancient Greece as a technique to impart to young men important social, spiritual and personal values. In the Deep South, young ladies were sent to “finishing schools,” but in fact, they were sent to be mentored in the social graces. Mentoring as we know it today is loosely modeled on the historical veteran craftsman/ apprentice relationship, where young people learned a trade by shadowing the master artisan. In the mid-’70s, corporate America redefined mentoring as a career development strategy. Mentoring relationships range from loose, informal kinship where a mentee learns by observation and example, to structured, formal agreements between expert and novices where NFDA 2016 Elections For the first time in the history of NFDA, members will elect their national officers this year! Get ready to cast your vote online for NFDA Officers August 1-31, 2016! • Check out the candidates at www.nfda.org/ elections. • Verify unique email addresses for yourself and each licensed funeral director at your firm by visiting “My Profile” on nfda.org. • Need to make an update to your email address? Call member services at 800 228-6332. Watch for emails for more details about the election in the next few weeks! 8 each develops professionally through the twoway transfer of experience and prospective. Whether the relationship is formal or informal, the goal of mentoring is to provide career advice as well as professional and personal enrichment. For this reason, we define a mentoring relationship as helping and supporting people to “manage their own learning so they can maximize their professional development, improve their performance and become the professional and the person they want to be.” Few organizations—mortuary colleges to corporate funeral home owners and independent firms—dedicate the time and resources required to offer formal mentoring programs to their students/employees. While popular books on leadership typically include a chapter on mentoring, you cannot learn to be a mentor or mentee by reading a book or following cookie-cutter leadership advice. One size does not fit all. Why? Because every mentee has different strengths, and every mentor has different skills and experiences. Set Clear Goals An essential first step in a successful mentoring relationship is for both the mentor and mentee to identify, define and honestly articulate their common and individual goals and motives. In Memoriam Walter J. Binkowski July 2, 2016 Father of Robert Binkowski State Inspector Joseph “Poppy” Corona July 4, 2016 Father of Joe Corona Prospect Memorial Funeral Home The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 9 NFDAUpdate... Labor Department’s New Overtime Regulations Take Effect December 1 Last year, the US Department of Labor solicited comments regarding its proposed changes in overtime rules that would substantially increase the number of workers who would be eligible to receive overtime pay. These are the basic provisions of the final regulations that go into effect on December 1, 2016. 1. Salary threshold changed to $913/week ($47,476 per year). This threshold doubles the current salary threshold level of $23,660. While this level is slightly lower than the threshold in the proposed rule of $50,440, it still covers many employees who are currently classified as exempt. 2. Automatic salary threshold increases every three years (not annually) to maintain level at 40th percentile in lowest-wage census region. The DOL reduced the frequency of the automatic increases in response to concerns raised by many commenters, including the ICCFA. Instead of annual increases as originally proposed, the threshold will be adjusted every three years to maintain the level at the 40th percentile of full-time salaried workers in the lowest-wage census region. 3. Duties test is unchanged. The decision by DOL not to change the “duties test” is an important concession to the concerns of small businesses. No changes have been made in the “duties test” as the result of comments by many organizations. 4. Effective date is December 1, 2016. In another concession, the DOL extended the usual 60-day deadline for compliance to December 1, 2016. However, CFDA members should review their current workforce immediately to determine which employees are affected, whether to reclassify those employees from exempt to non-exempt. For more information on this topic go to our website at www.ctfda.org. The article by NFDA Legal Counsel, T. Scott Gilligan. is on the Home Page under “What’s New.” New House Legislation Would Extend Funeral Rule to Cemeteries, Crematories and Third-Party Retailers In May, Rep. Bobby Rush (D-IL) introduced the Bereaved Consumer’s Bill of Rights Act of 2016 into the House. This bill, H.R. 5212, is similar to legislation that Rush proposed in 2009-10 and that was reported favorably out of the Energy and Commerce Committee but was not called up for a floor vote. The current bill is virtually identical to the previous legislation. Specifically, H.R. 5212 requires the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to establish rules requiring written price disclosures by all sell- 10 ers of funeral goods or funeral services. Additional requirements for cemeteries include record-keeping of burials, sales of interment rights and related matters. The bill also extends the jurisdiction of the FTC to include nonprofit cemeteries, except those owned by religious organizations. However, this exemption does not apply if the religious cemetery is managed by or affiliated with a for-profit provider of funeral goods or services. The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 11 Reminder: Priority Mail Express for Shipping Cremated Remains Whether you’re shipping cremated remains domestically or internationally, the United States Postal Service (USPS) reminds you that you may only use Priority Mail Express. The specific policy from the USPS is outlined below. 451.22 cremated remains The following applies when mailing cremated remains (ashes): a. Domestic: permitted for cremated human or animal remains only when sent via priority mail express service. The identity of the contents should be marked “cremated remains” (label 139 preferred) on the address side of the mailpiece. The item must be packaged as required in 451.3b and packaging instruction 10b. b.International: when permitted by country, cremated remains may only be sent via priority mail express international service. Cremated remains and the class of service must be available to the destination country. The contents must be indicated on the applicable customs declaration form. Label 139, cremated remains, may optionally be applied to the address side of the mailpiece. The item must be packaged as required in 451.3b and packaging instruction 10b. 451.3 packaging and marking The following conditions apply: a.Powders and cremated remains. Dry materials that could cause damage, discomfort, destruction, or soiling upon escape (leakage) must be packed in siftproof containers or other containers that are sealed in durable siftproof outer containers. CFDA Scholarship Golf Tournament Monday, September 26th Wethersfield Country Club Download the Registration Form at www.ctfda.org 12 The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 13 How Long to Retain Funeral Home Documents Treat Yourself as You Treat Your Families You offer your families your in-depth knowledge and support in finding out what best suits their individual needs. by T. Scott Gilligan, NFDA General Council I. 14 At TJB Financial Services, Inc., we also believe that our clients’ needs come first. Our Goal: To help you feel comfortable seeking help with your financial goals, and to assist you in a knowledgeable, courteous, and professional manner. Funeral Service Documents a. Copies of Death Certificates— 6 years b. Price Lists— 6 years after date of last distribution to customer c. Statement of Funeral Goods and Service Selected—6 years from date of arrangements conference d. Pre-need Contracts — 6 years II. OSHA Documents a. Formaldehyde Monitoring Records —30 years b. Employee OSHA Training Records —3 years c. Employee Medical Records —30 years (after last date of employment) III. Personnel Records a. Wage and Hour Logs— 3 years b. Personnel Decision (Hire/Fire) —2 years c. Payroll Records— 6 years IV. Accounting Documents a. Bank Statements and Deposit Slips — 6 years b. Checks—6 years c. Expense Reports —4 years (after date tax return is filed) d. Monthly Trial Balances—3 years e. Vouchers for Payment to Vendors, Employees, etc.—3 years f. Subsidiary Ledger Including Payables and Receivables—6 years g. Audit Reports and Financial Statements—Permanent h. General Ledgers and Journals — Permanent i. Tax Returns—Permanent V. Insurance Documents a. Accident Report—6 years b. Fire Inspection Report—6 years c.Group Disability Records—6 years d. Safety Report—6 years e. Claims (after settlement)—3 years f. Expired Policies—3 years TJB Financial Services, Inc. and the CFDA VI. Corporate Records a. Bylaws, Charter and Minute Books —Permanent b. Capital Stock and Bond Records —Permanent c. Checks Regarding Taxes, Property and Fulfillment of Major Contracts— Permanent d.Contracts and Agreements— Permanent e. Copyright and Trademark Registrations—Permanent f. Deeds and Easements—Permanent g. Labor Contracts—Permanent h. Patents—Permanent i. Retirement and Pension Records— Permanent j. Tax Returns, supporting documents —Permanent k. Expired Mortgages, Notes, Leases— 6 years VII.Correspondence a. License, Traffic and Purchase—1 year b. General—3 years c. Legal and Tax—6 years VII.Other Records a. Shipping and Receiving—1 year b. Purchasing and Sales—7 years The Associate We are proud to be the Preferred Provider of Financial Services to the Connecticut Funeral Directors Association and its Members. “Specializing in working with funeral homes and the families they serve.” Tim Bourdon and Bob Havens were awarded the Five Star Professional Wealth ManagersSM Award for 2015. They are both multi-year recipients. Based on 10 objective eligibility and evaluation criteria including: as an active credentialed financial professional, favorable regulatory and complaint history, fulfillment of firm’s internal review, accepts new clients, meets client retention rates, client assets administered, number of client households, education and professional designations.The award is not indicative of the wealth managers’ future performance. For more information please visit www.fivestarprofessional.com. Approximately 20% of the award candidates in Connecticut were named 2015 Five Star Wealth Managers. Main Office: 9 School Street, Suite 6, P.O. Box 1020, East Granby, CT 06026 www.TJBFinc.com • (860) 844-0300 • Toll Free: 1-877-573-2226 Branch Offices: 18 Main Street, Ellington, CT 06029 110 Washington Avenue, North Haven, CT 06473 • (203) 936-7125 Securities and advisory services offered through Commonwealth Financial Network, member FINRA/SiPC, a Registered Investment Adviser. Fixed insurance products and services offered through TJB Financial Services, Inc. are separate and unrelated to Commonwealth. July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 15 UUUUUUU 2016 CFD-PAC O V H ur oice in artford and Washington It Only Works If Everyone Participates John C. Carmon Richard P. Holmes Morton L. Weinstein Gold Club, Contributions of $500 to $750 Tim M. Cook Robert R. Fournier, Jr. Jeffrey S. Klarman David T. Warren Matthew R. Adzima John C. Carmon, Jr. Howard M. Holmes Carl J. Miller, III Cyril F. Mullins, II Christopher E. Ryan, Sr. Silver Club, Contributions of $250 to $499 Gerald S. Baxter, Sr. JoAnn Brennan Ronald & Leena Charron Christopher J. Duhaime John P. Klarman David W. MacDonald Richard J. Miller William R. Molloy Holly Mullins-Hart Michele M. Parente George F. Sullivan, III Thomas F. Tierney Glenn Blumenstein John F. Cascio Robert C. Havens (S) Lissa Lovetere-Stone Robert L. Muccino Bronze Club, Contributions of $50 to $249 Timothy J. Bourdon (S) B. Patrick Callahan Albert M. DeLucia Clement L. DeLucia Joseph R. Introvigne, Sr. Kevin M. Lesko Teresa C. McCall James A. Mengacci Edward J. Sheehy, Jr. Total as of August 2016 - $9,550.00 The CFD-PAC helps us keep members of the General Assembly who support our state interests in office. Virtually every other professional group in the country is trying to do the same thing, and their interests may be very different than ours. Associations and corporations are prohibited by law from making state campaign contributions. All CFDA contributions to political campaigns are derived exclusively from personal CFD PAC contributions. Contributions to the CFD PAC are used to support candidates running for the State Senate and House of Representatives. Together, we send these important messages to the State of Connecticut: • CFDA is sustained by a politically aware and active membership base. • We hold our elected officials accountable for their actions. • We are active participants in the election process. • We appreciate the great volunteers who serve on the Legislative and PAC Committees. • We thank our lobbyist, attorney and staff for all their hard work and efforts. All contributions are voluntary and are not a condition for CFDA membership. The amounts listed are merely guidelines. You may contribute more or less without concern of reprisal. Note: State Election Committee regulations prohibit CFD-PAC from accepting contributions from your funeral firm. Personal Checks only, made payable to CFD-PAC are acceptable. (S) indicates suppliers 16 The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 17 Enjoy the Rest of the Summer! 18 The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 19 20 The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 21 Tips of the Day Presented by Timothy Bourdon, President, TJB Financial Services, Inc. TJB Financial Services Benefits to CFDA Members The topic of our third in a series of helping families navigate through the twelve months following the loss of a loved one deals with the often times incorrect assumption that an attorney “can take care of everything.” You probably have heard this many times yourself when asking someone who has recently lost a loved one, if they need help of any kind. Right off the top, we as a financial services firm, strongly recommend the families we work with consult with an attorney, and get their input on legal matters that only an attorney can provide. For the most part this often includes the probate process, and estate tax planning issues. We encourage families to allow us to work with their attorney, as a part of their professional team, which by the way also usually includes an accountant. Timothy J. Bourdon Specifically, one of the issues we have seen when only an attorney is consulted is the completion and submission of claims forms. The most important step of filing claims is not the process itself, but more importantly how to maximize the benefit to the beneficiary. The attorney may have no problem with the claim filing process, but may not be well versed in the financial impact a claim could have, regarding the financial outcome of the claim itself. For instance, if annuities are involved in the claim process, attorneys are not always familiar with the nuances of various annuities, as there are many, and a necessary part of what we deal with as financial advisors. Some annuities, for instance, may have extensive guaranteed income riders connected to them, and submitting a claim for the value of the annuity when someone passes, may wipe out a guarantee that has been built up inside the annuity that would payout much more than the value of the annuity. This could deprive the beneficiaries of thousands of extra dollars due to them. Robert C. Havens TBJ Financial Services, Inc. “The Preferred Provider of Financial Services for The CFDA and its Members” 22 Another important factor a family should consider is, if they seek the advice of an attorney, what type of an attorney can best help them. We have worked with families who have consulted their attorney, and the advice they were given just was not in their best interest. When we asked what the attorney’s specialty of practice was, we usually discover that it was the attorney they turned to, often the attorney who did the closing on their home. Now, this is not to say a this attorney would not be perfectly fine, but families are usually best served at this time by an estate planning attorney. Unfortunately, we do not always get involved before a family has acted on the advice of a family attorney, and it is too late to reverse much of what has occurred, based on that advice. This is exactly why we prefer meeting with a family first, before this kind of misfortune can occur. Probably the best answer to all the topics we are covering in this series is to have a professional team, with one team member taking the lead and keeping everyone, including the family, on the same page. This is especially important when there are multiple and complex issues to deal with, like real estate, numerous financial accounts, and perhaps some immediate and long term time lines that need to be met. Watch for our fourth article in our series of helping families through the twelve months following the loss of a loved one, when we will deal with the issue of “Passing Assets Down To Future Generations in a Tax Advantaged Method.” TJB Financial Services, Inc. 9 School Street, Suite 6, P.O. Box 1020, East Granby, CT 06026 Securities and advisory services offered through Commonwealth Financial Network, Member FINRA/SIPC, a Registered Investment Advisor. The Associate July/August 2016 Respecting Our Past With A Vision For The Future 23