ITS TEEN TIME!
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ITS TEEN TIME!
1 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Newspaper Community כאן צוה ה’ את הברכה July 25, 2008 | Tammuz 22 , 5768 weekly vOL. i | NO 36 תשס”ח | בס”ד, פרשת מםות | כב' תמוז A TRIBUTE TO Reb Shneur Zalman Yissocer Getzel Halevi pAGE 2 A SHADCHAN FOR YOUR CAREER? PAGE 15 ITS TEEN TIME! Ohr Chaya Mushka: What an exciting summer! Page 15 THis Weeks Hero REB ZALMAN YEHUDA DEITSCH THE REBBES STORY The Hillel Foundation Meets the Rebbe Page 13 ALL YOUR FAVORITE COLUMNS FOR YOUR sHABBOS RELAXATION DON'T MISS IT! SUBSCRIBE CHP5768@GMAIL,COM Beis Din of Crown Heights 390A Kingston Avenue, Brooklyn, NY Tel- 718~604~8000 Fax: 718~771~6000 Rabbi A. Osdoba: ❖ Monday to Thursday 10:30AM - 11:30AM at 390A Kingston Ave. ☎Tel. 718-604-8000 ext.37 or 718-604-0770 Sunday-Thursday 9:30 PM-11:00PM ~Friday 2:30PM-4:30 PM ☎Tel. (718) - 771-8737 Rabbi Y. Heller is available daily 10:30 to 11:30am ~ 2:00pm to 3:00pm at 788 Eastern Parkway # 210 718~604~8827 ❖ & after 8:00pm 718~756~4632 Rabbi Y. 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But being that the original responsibility was on the owner and Member of the Bais Din of Crown the insurance entered as a guarantor Heights for the owner, therefore, if it is verified that the insurance is not obligated to Question cover the damage, a person would then prohibited to continue in court in order A person entered to obligate the person to pay. another person’s home, and as a Because: result of dirt on the staircase, the From the perspective of the dayan in person slipped. Is Bais Din, the owner is not obligated one permitted to sue the owner in court to pay when a person got hurt on his in order to collect from the owner’s property. It is stated in Shulchan Aruch, insurance-- the owner can argue that Choshen Mishpat chapt. 412, that in a this is damaging to him? location where there are things that can cause a person to slip, a person needs Answer to be aware and protect himself. In a home, where there are young children, In Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat it happens quite often that items are chapter 26, it cites the strict prohibileft on the floor, which can cause one tion against going to court. The only to stumble or slip, and one should have exception would be when one does noticed them while walking up the not adhere to the Bais Din, his plaintiff staircase. And there is no reason to would then receive a special consent obligate the owner for the damages. from the Bais Din to summon the defendant to court. When one summons the owner and not the insurance, it is a prohibition of Surely,, one is not allowed to cause going to court. damages to another person’s money by summoning him to court, as it is cited Regarding the issue that this claim in Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat may cause an increase in the insurance chapt. 388. Regarding this aspect, even premium, it would be appropriate that when one had refused to come to the the plaintiff should cover the costs of Bais Din, there is no granted permission the insurance increase, because one to cause pain to the person by going to is forbidden to cause any damage to court and subpoenaing the defendant the owner through court. And since, in person or financially. in any case, the insurance reimburses the plaintiff more than what the Torah But in the situation when the claim is requires, therefore the plaintiff should, against the insurance and in order to on a monthly basis, reimburse the sum collect from the insurance, he needs to of the increase that the owner had to pay file a complaint against the owner--this as a result of this claim, until the owner is not forbidden. Since it is known that changes to another insurance policy. one cannot claim insurance in a Bais Din, and the only option to obligate It would be noteworthy to mention that the insurance to pay is by filing a claim the owner should assist the plaintiff to in court. collect his reimbursement from the insurance and surely not hinder or In such a case, it is cited in the posstop the plaintiff from receiving his kim that this is not included in the damages. prohibition of going to court, and as it is stated in detail in the Tshuvos of Clarification the Bais Yitzchok Choshen Mishpat CommunityNewspaper 392 Kingston Avenue Brooklyn, NY 11225 Published & edited weekly by the Vaad Hakohol of Crown Heights. Moshe Rubashkin, Rosh Hakohol Dr. Tzvi (Harvey) Lang, Chairman Rabbi Plotkin, Secretary Layout: SimplyUnique ([email protected]) All material in this paper has been copyrighted. It is the exclusive property of this newspaper, unless otherwise attributed., and cannot be reproduced without the consent of the publisher. Composition responsibility: This newspaper will not be liable for errors appearing in advertising, beyond the cost of the space occupied by the error. Advertiser assumes responsibility for errors in telephone orders. All advertisement designed and prepared by the CHCommunity Newspaper are the property of the newspaper and cannot be reproduced without the consent of the publisher In last week’s column, we discussed that when one rented or leased a car, and he received a ticket – who would be responsible for the payment? It seemed from some of our readers, that the final conclusion lacked some clarity. The answer is the obligation falls on the one who rented\leased the car, as it is cited in Shulchan Aruch Choshen Mishpat, chapter 128--in such a case, we obligate the one who was negligent in paying the money. Zaida Getzel By: Moshe Rubashkin This coming Sunday, Chof Daled Tammuz, Yidden will recite the Hallel Prokim as part of the Tehillim of Chitas. The words of Praise express the deep appreciation we have for the Almighty and the wondrous miracles He wrought for us. Once these precious words of Dovid HaMelech are offered we feel ennobled, a notch higher than before. This coming Sunday Chof Daled Tammuz is the 25th Yartzeit of Reb Shneur Zalman Yissocer Getzel Halevi ben Reb Sholem, a”h. The extended Rubashkin family and friends will offer their added heartfelt gratitude c/o the Hallel verses of the Tehillim of the day. The grace and the privilege of having had a Zaide Getzel is something to continually thank Hashem for. Zeide was a marvelous model, a life example of a true chosid, a True Pnimi. It’s also interesting to note that the Hayom Yom of Chof Daled Tammuz describes the character of a Pinimi. Zeide Getzel was an original. He was a colorful fellow. He had his own inimitable style and signature. They reflected his deep concern for what was right and respectful. He possessed a sharp wit along with an endless treasury of stories with which to elucidate every concept and circumstance. In his earlier years Zeide would express freely his thoughts and his observations, but in his later years he was more reticent. At his 80th birthday surrounded by his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, gathered to celebrate with l’Chaim, he relented. In appreciation of the occasion and in response to our proddings, Zeida shared a few stories. We never forgot them. Their lessons penetrated and enriched us. The wisdom gleaned, served us in countless ways. A country yokel inherited a silver spoon. What use did he have for a singular, silver spoon---none he decided. So he went to the trading store and received a few coupons in lieu of the silver spoon. Up and down the aisles he went, but couldn’t find anything that caught his fancy until he found a lacquered, colorful, wooden spoon. Gleefully he gave the agent the coupons, and it was only a while after when he left that he realized that he had traded a silver spoon for a wooden spoon. Zeida paused for emphasis when he finished his folk tale. He didn’t offer more. He left the thinking to us. he could be on par to the man with the four horses. Now behind him rode a man with two horses. He too urged his horses in thinking with a bit of prodding his horses could catch up to the man with the three horses. Unknown to him was that the man with the three horses was really competing with the man with the four horses. And so it continued to the man with the one horse who tried to catch up with the man with the two horses who in reality was competing with the man with the four horses. No wonder the horse dropped shortly. Zeide again let the lesson sink in. He left the thinking to us. All grandchildren love their grandparents. They mirror and respond to the unconditional love and warmth. They know they are the heroes and heroines in the eyes of their grandparents. What grandparent doesn’t light up when seeing their grandchildren? Their dreams, their yearnings their hopes are invested in their grandchildren. We felt all this and more when visiting our grandparents. Who could forget the twinkle in the eye, the animated facial expression, the profuse blessings. They fuel us ‘til today. As an adult grandchild, BH, a grandmother myself, I continuously cherish the blessing of having known my grandparents. What I realize now that I haven’t considered previously is how unique and amazing our grandparents were in their own generation. Fooled by their exceptional modesty, we didn’t realize then that we were provided with an encounter of truth that can never be duplicated. “Emes is in the Siddur,” a wise woman remarked to my mother when noticing her bewilderment at the action of those who should have known better. “Emes is in the Siddur,” became a slogan we would quote often to remind ourselves that whereas human beings can fail, Another favorite was the Tale of the Four Horses. Along a lone highway traveled a man with four horses. Behind him rode a man with three horses. The man the man with three horses urged his horses on, convinced with just a bit more effort Continued on Page 6 July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 3 The Rebbe's Sicha Parshas Matos-Masei 5750 The Three Weeks and their meaning Published by Sichos In English The three weeks between the 17th of Tammuz and Tishah B’Av are referred to as the Three Weeks of Retribution and Bein HaMetzorim, “between the straits,” names whose connotation is not openly positive. This presents a conceptual difficulty. The number three is generally connected with positive themes, e.g., the three Patriarchs, the three pilgrimage festivals. Similarly, our Sages associated the giving of the Torah with the number three, praising G-d for giving, “a threefold light to a threefold people... in the third month.” Furthermore, the number three has the implications of permanence as expressed in the verse, “the threefold cord will not be snapped speedily.” Similarly, in halachic terms, the number three is connected with a chazakah, a presumption that can be assumed to continue. Accordingly, it is difficult to understand: Why is the concept of retribution and destruction, the direct opposite of holiness and permanence, associated with the number three? Generally, the concept is explained as follows: The awesome descent of the Three Weeks is intended to allow for an ascent. When a person wants to reach a level which is much higher than his present rung, it is necessary for him to undergo a descent first. Similarly, for the Jews to reach the peaks of the Messianic redemption, a redemption which will not be followed by a descent, it is necessary that they first undergo the descent of exile. In this context, the Three Weeks are associated, not with exile, but rather with the Third Beis HaMikdash that will be built after this exile. This explanation, however, is insufficient for the Three Weeks connect the aspect of descent (and not the subsequent ascent) with three. When a descent is intended for the sake of an ascent, the descent itself is not desired. Indeed, it will ultimately be nullified and all that will remain is the ascent. If so, why is three which is, as above, usually connected with permanence, associated with a dimension that has no self-contained purpose and which ultimately will be nullified? The question can be reinforced: Generally, the number three expresses an ascent which follows a descent. For example, in the narrative of creation, the first day, is referred to in the Torah as yom echad, “one day,” i.e., a day of oneness, to quote the Medrash, “the day that G-d was at one with His world.” It was followed by the second day, “the day on which strife was created,” as reflected in the separation of the higher waters from the lower waters. Accordingly, the expression, “And G-d saw that it was good,” is not mentioned in connection with the second day since division, even in a constant process of ascent, “always when necessary for the world, cannot ascending higher in holiness,” “proceeding from strength to strength.” If be called “good.” so, what is the reason for a descent? To This was followed by the third day, proceed to a higher and more elevated which compensated for the division rung that could not otherwise be of the second day, creating peace and reached. To give an example from every unifying the two opposites. For this day life, when faced with obstructions reason, the expression, “And G-d saw and difficulties, a person summons up that it was good,” is repeated twice, inner strength that brings out greater revealing a compound goodness which achievements that would otherwise qualitatively exceeds the goodness of be impossible. the other days. In this process of descent for the sake of This is reflected by the attribute of ascent, there are two levels: a) a descent Tiferes (“beauty,” which was expressed which is limited within the context of on the third day of creation) which unithe natural order, b) a descent which fies Chesed (“kindness,” expressed on cannot be fathomed by the rules of the first day of creation) with Gevurah nature. (“might,” expressed on the second day of creation). This reveals a unity In the first case -- which reflects the which surpasses that of the first day. progression from two (descent) to On the first day, the unity existed on a three (ascent) -- just as the descent is level above division. Thus, there is the limited, so, too, the ascent has certain possibility that division will ultimately limits. In contrast, when the descent is arise. In contrast, the unity of the third unlimited, as in the Three Weeks, the day is established within the context ascent which follows is also unlimited of division, bringing about a true state in nature. of unity. The first type of descent was implanted The same concept is reflected in Torah by G-d in the natural order of the where we find the concept of “a con- world. In contrast, the second descent troversy for the sake of heaven,” the is brought about by man, through his controversy between Hillel and Sham- sins. Thus, in the first instance, there mai. This division has its source in the is a direct connection between the division which came into being on the descent and the ascent which will second day of creation and, in turn, follow. In contrast, when a person sins, serves as the source for subsequent on a revealed level, there is no apparent differences of opinion within Torah. connection between the sin and the ascent through teshuvah which will A “controversy for the sake of Heaven,” ultimately follow. In particular, when is obviously not a simple matter of strife the descent that is brought about by sin or conflict. Nevertheless, it -- even is connected with three -- and thus, has the controversy between Hillel and the power of permanence -- the ascent Shammai -- brought about a descent. becomes even higher. Ultimately, however, it serves a positive function.[165] The debate between a To rephrase the matter: The process thinking process that favors leniency of ascent that is brought about by (since its source is the attribute of descent is a natural phenomenon. Chesed) and a thinking process which Since the descent into the realm of tends to severity (since its source is the division brings about a higher sense attribute of Gevurah) leads to a clari- of oneness, the division is not genuine. fication of Torah law. A third opinion On the contrary, even on the level of emerges which reconciles and unifies division, it is felt how it is temporary both conflicting perspectives. in nature, with no purpose in and of itself, and that it exists only to bring Thus, both in the world at large and in out the higher level of unity. When is Torah, the concept of descent and divithere genuine division? When there is sion is associated with the number two an approach that possesses the aspect and three is associated with the ascent of permanence associated with three and unification that follows. Similarly, and yet appears to be totally negative in regard to the Batei HaMikdashos: in thrust with no connection with the The first (associated with the Patriarch ascent that will follow. When unity is Avraham, and the attribute of Chesed) established in that context, then it is and the second (associated with the true and complete. Patriarch, Yitzchok, and the attribute of Gevurah) Batei Mikdashos were In this context, we can understand the destroyed, while the third Beis HaMikThree Weeks. This period, brought dash (associated with the Patriarch about by our sins, reflects the lowYa’akov and the attribute of Tiferes) est possible descent, a descent that will be an eternal structure. Thus the would not be possible within the original question is reinforced: Why order of nature, and reflects the aspect are these weeks which are connected of permanence associated with the with mourning, destruction, and exile number three. Thus, we see that this associated with the number three? exile continues without end, to quote our Sages: This question can be resolved by developing a different understanding of the In the first generations, their sin was concept “a descent for the purpose of revealed and the end [of the period an ascent.” To explain: A Jew should be of retribution] was also revealed. In the later generations, their sin was not revealed and the end [of the period of retribution] was also not revealed. Even after our Sages declared, “All the appointed times for Moshiach’s coming have passed,” the exile continues. Furthermore, on the surface, there is no way in which it is apparent how such an exile will lead to the redemption. Nevertheless, this itself is an indication that it will lead to an ascent which is totally beyond our comprehension, that it will surpass even the peaks of holiness that were attained previously, establishing an entirely new framework of reference. Furthermore, since this is the purpose of the descent of the Three Weeks -although it is not consciously felt -- we must appreciate that the Three Weeks themselves have a positive dimension. The Three Weeks are associated with the revelation of the three powers of intellect. In that context, the word rendered as “retribution” can be reinterpreted in a positive context. The Zohar associates Pharaoh “with the revelation of all the sublime lights.” Similarly, these Three Weeks can be the source for a revelation of light that transcends all limits, the light that will be revealed in the Third Beis HaMikdash. The concept of an immeasurable ascent which comes because of the descent into exile is also alluded to in each of the parsha of Matos. The name Matos refers to a branch which has become strong and hard because it was cut off from the tree. There is a parallel to this in our service of G-d. The Jewish soul as it descends into a body, particularly as it exists in exile, is, on an apparent level, cut off from its source. This brings about a hardening and strengthening process. On the surface, the hardening is negative in nature, intensifying the challenges which a Jew faces. Through confronting these challenges, however, a Jew attains added strength and power in his service of G-d which enables him to endure the challenges of exile without being affected. Thus, the extended exile which is felt acutely in these Three Weeks should not bring a Jew to despair, but rather to an appreciation of the heights to which the exile will bring us. This realization should, in turn, bring about a strengthening of Torah and mitzvos which will lead to the Messianic redemption. This should be expressed in “spreading the wellsprings outward,” extending the influence of Torah to places which by nature have no connection to it. In particular, this should be expressed in making siyumim, conclusions of the study of Talmudic tractates or Torah works. These siyumim should be made in every place possible. May this lead to a siyum of the exile. 4 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Our Heroes Horav Hachossid Reb Zalman Yehuda Deitsch 1946-29th of Tamuz 2006 The Rebbe advised Reb Zalman to take over his father’s business, and blessed By: Rabbi Michoel Seligson him, “It should be with “Yeser s’ais Horav Hachossid Reb Zalman Yehuda v’yeser oz”, a great increase in every Deitsch was born in 5707 (late 1946) sense. on the 11th of Cheshvan to Horav This was the second time that the Rebbe Hachossid Reb Sholom Yeshaya and Mrs. Mirel Deitsch in Lemberg, at a time that they were running from Russia to Poland, together with other Anash. From infancy on until he was five-years-old, his family wandered through refugee camps in Germany and France. In 1952, after living in France for a short while, the Deitsch’s immigrated to the United States and settled in Connecticut. There was no yeshiva in Connecticut, and the Rebbe suggested that they send their son to the Lubavitch Yeshiva in Brooklyn. After he completed his studies in Brooklyn, Zalman traveled to Yeshiva Tomchei Tmimim in Montreal, where he became attached to the distinguished Chassidim and absorbed the chassidishe warmth which remained with him his entire life. He returned to Brooklyn to continue his studies at 770 and excelled. In 1959, the Rebbe had instituted the custom of choosing elite students, kanim, seven students in Nigla and seven in Chassidus to give over pilpulim on shabbosim throughout the year. Zalman was chosen to be one of the seven kanim in Chassidus. At that time, the Rebbe instructed Zalman to involve himself in avodas hatefila, to daven slowly and carefully and to meditate on his prayers, as was customary by chassidim in earlier generations. Reb Zalman fulfilled this directive. Though he often traveled on business, he was particular to daven with a special concentration. Going into Business In Adar 1969, Reb Zalman became engaged to Miss Cyrel Edelman, the daughter of Horav Hachossid Reb Dovid Edelman, the shliach in Springfield, Mass. since the Previous Rebbe’s time in the 1940’s. Reb Zalman’s father, Reb Sholom Yeshaya Deitsch, went over to the Rebbe at the Farbrengen with a bottle of mashkeh and thanked the Rebbe for the shidduch, saying that it was in the Rebbe’s merit. The Rebbe replied, “For a shidduch you need to pay”. Two months later, on the 5th of Iyar, Reb Sholom Yeshaya was suddenly nifter. In later years, Mrs. Mirel Deitsch entered into Yechidus with the Rebbe, and asked what the Rebbe had referred to with his comment “For a shidduch, one needs to pay”? The Rebbe told her, I intended that he should strengthen himself with Emuna and bitochon. This comment became Reb Zalman’s motto in life. L’chaim in Reb Sholom Deitsch’s Suka Eventually, he designated a room in his home for the study of Rambam, as well as for a Rambam shiur that he gave. When the shiur reached the laws of Kiddush Hachodesh, dealing with difficult concepts in astronomy; Reb Zalman arranged for Reb Yosef Losch, an expert in this field, to deliver the shiur. Reb Zalman was never satisfied until he understood the concepts fully a nd i n a l l t hei r complexity. His Bitul gave such a blessing to the Deitsch family. The first time had been when the Rebbe set forth the decree that no one younger than forty years of age should make more than four l’chaim’s. Reb Sholom Yeshaya entered into Yechidus with the Rebbe, He said that he was considering stopping his custom of making a kiddush on Shmini Atzeres in his Suka, since people would not be able to drink without limitation. The Rebbe said, with a dismissive downward motion of his hand, “It should be Yeser s’ais v’yeser oz.” Reb Zalman would dedicate the time before and after business for Torah and avoda. He would awaken early, study chassidus and daven slowly, and then proceed to his office. In the evenings, when he returned home, he continued with his shiurim. Well versed in the Rebbe’s Sichos Reb Zalman had a unique bitul to t he R ebbe. The Rebbe’s directive to Reb Zalman to go into business was utilized as a means to assist the Rebbe’s mosdos. There are many Yidden who are successful in business and contribute to Tzedoko. For Reb Zalman, business and Tzedoko were not two separate entities. Every dollar of profit, was an additional dollar for the benefit of the Rebbe’s mosdos and to strengthen the Rebbe’s activities For example, at the Farbrengen which commemorated his 70th birthday, the Rebbe asked that seventy-one new mosdos should be established. Reb Zalman immediately arranged for a shliach to go to Amherst, Mass., and paid his salary for many years. Reb Zalman approached one of his father-in-law’s mekurovim, and suggested that he join the “950 club”. This club consisted of philanthropists who had contributed to Machne Israel. Everyone who participated in this project merited to have a personal Yechidus with the Rebbe. The individual who Reb Zalman convinced to become a member said, “If I am already giving $950,000, let it be a million dollars.” Reb Zalman told him, “No, if you give a million dollars, you will feel great self-esteem, figuring ‘I gave a million dollars to the Rebbe’. It is preferable that you give only $950,000.” In his Yechidus, this person told the Rebbe that he was acquainted with Reb Zalman Deitsch. The Rebbe said, “It is good that Reb Zalman knows you and that you know him.” Reb Zalman was well versed in the Rebbe’s Sichos. W hen the Rebbe Farbrenged or spoke a sicha, Reb Zalman would immediately buy the audio tape and listen to it many times. After the Rebbe’s stroke on the 27th of Adar I in 1992, Reb Zalman resolved to listen intently to all the Sichos in their entirety. From then until his ptira in 2006, he successfully studied all 100 volumes of Likutei Sichos and Sichos Shechuna Kodesh which contain the Rebbe’s talks When the Rebbe spoke about strengthfrom 1950 until 1992. ening the shechuna, and encouraged Shiurim for the Public in his Home Crown Heights residents to remain in the neighborhood, Reb Zalman When the Rebbe initiated the study of purchased buildings in the shechuna. Rambam, there was no doubt that Reb He saw this as the Rebbe’s business and Zalman would participate in a steady invested beyond his financial ability. Rambam shiur, which he attended at Tiferes Zkainim Levi Yitzchok. After the sudden and tragic ptira of his sister, Mrs. Alte Shula Schwartz, in the late 1970’s, Reb Zalman and his brothers, Reb Yosef Yitzchok and may he live and be well Reb Avrohom Moshe, founded Machon Alte, the girls school in Tzfas. The Rebbe’s campaigns Reb Zalman once returned from Mivtza lulov. Rather than saying that he had persuaded a certain number of Yidden to make the blessing on the Esrog; he was excited that the children at a school he visited, “American kids”, left the game they were in the middle of to fulfill Mitzvas lulov. He never spoke about himself, or expressed pride in his accomplishments and that he that he had convinced numerous people to fulfill mitzvos. He was excited that an American child had left a game to do a mitzva. Mivtza Mezuza He was committed to every Mivtza that the Rebbe initiated. At the outset of Mivtza Mezuza, Reb Zalman opened his house to serve as a center of activities and supported the mivtza enormously. He and his wife would often go out on Mivtza Mezuza together. To this day, Mivtza Mezuza operates out of his home. Printing the Tanya The Rebbe initiated the campaign to print Tanyas. Reb Zalman rented a truck, installed a printer, and paid a yungerman to travel to different cities in various states and print hundreds of Tanyas. He told Rabbi Hodokov that he wanted to cover the cost of publishing Tanyas everywhere. The Rebbe responded that his intention was well received, but the Rebbe wanted that every location should fund the publishing of Tanyas on their own. When Reb Zalman traveled to Africa, he asked the Rebbe if he should print the Tanya in Nigeria. The Rebbe’s response was that if there was one Yid there, a Tanya should be printed. At that time, there was a group of Yidden living there and the Tanya was printed. Tiferes Zkainim The Rebbe founded Tiferes Zkainim, which organized daily shiurim for seniors and retirees. Reb Zalman became involved and traveled from one location to another, giving shiurim. In general, Reb Zalman assisted many of the Rebbe’s mosdos, either financially or in other ways. Home of Activities Reb Zalman’s home was always open to communal activists. After the Rebbe would introduce a new campaign, Reb Zalman would invite askanim to meet in his home to develop and work on the new campaign. In a letter, the Rebbe referred to Reb Zalman as, “one who is involved in communal affairs”. A repre- July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 5 sentative of a certain mosad approached the Rebbe at the Farbrengen with a bottle of mashkeh and announced that a Melave Malka would take place in Reb Zalman’s house. The Rebbe called over Reb Zalman to give him mashkeh as well. Reb Zalman was known as an exceptional Baal Chesed, and helped many people who were in need. He agreed to be the guarantor for hundreds of loans issued by a Gemach. Many times he needed to repay the loans himself and did not ask the borrowers to be reimbursed. study of the Maamor he visited his brother Reb Yosef Yitzchok, who was very ill and was nifter a week after Reb Zalman’s passing. Reb Zalman recited the Maamor for his brother. He felt unsatisfied and repeated the Maamor again on the last Friday evening before his own ptira. During the shiva, family members heard details of Reb Zalman’s chesed activities that they were unaware of. One of Anash recalled that when he moved to Crown Heights and found a house, he did not have money for the down payment. He had no close Reb Zalman trained all his children to friends in the shechuna and was very exert themselves in the study of Torah. concerned. In the street he happened to Reb Zalman was taken to the hospital on Shabbos and was nifter on the evening of the 29th of Tamuz. Chinuch of his children He trained his children from an early age to share his hashkafos concerning the Rebbe, his teachings and his mosdos. His sons would each contribute to the Rebbe, half of the money that they received as Bar Mitzva gifts. When the Rebbe edited a new Maamor, he encouraged his children to study it by heart. On Friday evenings, each of them would recite a chapter of the Maamor. He would then explain the chapter to his guests at the table, who were not fluent in Yiddish. Reb Zalman’s priorities were clear. Although he had a successful business, he did not raise his children to enter the business with him. He was concerned that they should all receive a chassidishe education and fulfill the Rebbe’s desire for his chassidim to go on shlichus. After his children were married, they went on shlichus. Reb Zalman would speak with his children after Shabbos and they would share their shabbos experiences and the successes in their respective Chabad Houses. He would encourage them not to be satisfied with their accomplishments and would advise them to broaden their activities. When he would visit, he would bring Chassidishe warmth with him and would Farbreng with mekoruvim telling chassidishe stories. An Exceptional Baal Chesed On the Simchas Torah Farbrengen in 5740 (late 1979), the Rebbe spoke about contributing a large sum of money for Tzedoko. Anyone who would make a mental resolution, during this sicha and the nigun that followed to contribute would be blessed financially many fold. Reb Zalman did so, and immediately after Yom Tov brought the money to the Rebbe’s secretariat. He merited to be included in this blessing. meet Reb Zalman, who asked him why he appeared so worried. Reb Zalman heard his story, asked him to come to his house and gave him the required amount. Reb Zalman fulfilled the saying of the Mishna, “You house should be broadly open”, in the fullest sense. A Yid known to be a great host had a house that was open to all and would house and feed the needy. He would walk through the house posing as a guest, to see if anyone needed anything. One of the guests once asked him, “Do you know how long I will be able to stay here? When will the host tell me to leave?” He answered, “Don’t worry, I am also here for a long time and no one told me to leave.” This characterized Reb Zalman. His home was open to guests who felt as if the house was theirs. He opened his home on Shabbos, Yom Tov, and weekdays. A yeshiva bochur who needed a hot meal or a warm environment or a Yid who had come from far for a chassidishe Farbrengen, were steady members of his household. One of Reb Zalman’s close friends described him. “Reb Zalman’s personality was a blend of two worlds. He was a chossid and a businessman. A chossid with all the threads of his Nshama, with a warmth of true Chassidishkeit, and the fervor of a chossid from the past. Sometimes people would wonder how America of our time produced such a beautiful fruit. Knowing Reb Zalman, it was obvious that his entire business was not part of him. His involvement in it, was because “azoy darf zein”, this is how it needs to be. His genuine being was in tefila, learning, and the life of chassidus that he loved. Menachem Mendel, the Rebbe’s shliach in East Valley, Arizona; his son, Horav Nechemia Moshe, the Rebbe’s shliach in Midtown, Toronto; his son, Horav Levi Yitzchok, the Rebbe’s shliach in Tysons Corner, Virginia; his son, Horav Yechezkel; his sons, the Tmimim, Yisroel and Noson; his daughter, Mrs. Toby Bernstein, the wife of Horav Menachem Mendel Halevi, the Rebbe’s shliach in Richmond Hill, Toronto; his daughter, Mrs. Altie Wolvovsky, the wife of Horav Menachem Mendel, the Rebbe’s shliach in S. Rosa, California; his daughter, Mrs. Hindy Mintz, the wife of Horav Avrohom, the Rebbe’s shliach in South Denver, Colorado; his daughter, Mrs. Rivka Schechter, the wife of Horav Avrohom of Crown Heights; his daughter, Miss Rochel Deitsch. Yehi Zichro Boruch! May Horav Hachossid Hatomim Reb Zalman Yehuda, a legendary Chossid who was committed to the Rebbe and his mosdos, and saw himself and his financial assets only as the channel and the means to fulfill the Rebbe’s directives, who was always available for more initiatives from the Rebbe, and who successfully inspired and saw his children on shlichus, and who shared Torah and Chassidus with many Yidden that he was mekarev to Yiddishkeit; serve as the inspiration to be sincerely devoted and committed to the study of the Rebbe’s teachings and to his mosdos, and to participate whole heartedly in the Rebbe’s campaigns, and to be concerned with the well being of a fellow Jew, where ever he may be. We should speedily witness “The ones who dwell in the dust will awaken and rejoice” with Horav Hachossid Reb Zalman Yehuda among them. He had a good eye. He did not reserve Chassidus for himself, but shared it with others. He would Farbreng with mekurovim and individuals. Without any commotion, he slowly brought people into his world, the world of Chassidus, and many found their way there at his table. Reb Zalman’s personality taught a unique lesson Reb Zalman was always busy. He had a task in life that needed to be fulfilled and was a “baal esek” who was Reb Zalman was an ardent reader of busy every moment with his mission, Chabad weeklies which were published and did not forget why he was created, here and in Israel, and sponsored and what his life’s goal was.” them. He left a generation of Yeshorim. May A month before his ptira, by divine they live and be well, his wife, Mrs. providence, he studied the Maamor Cyrel Deitsch of Crown Heights, who Boreh Niv Sfosoyim 5748, in which stood at his side and assisted him in all the Rebbe discusses the cure from the chesed activities; his son, Horav Hashem, that heals the person so that Sholom Yeshaya, the Rebbe’s shliach in no remnants of the past illness remain. Ambler, Pennsylvania; his son, Horav Immediately after he concluded the SUBSCRIBE Get the Newspaper in your inbox chp5768@ gmail.com 6 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Shiduchim A Needle in a Haystack By Sarah Junik In the past I have talked primarily about what needs to be done up until the couple reaches the door for that first shidduch date. Starting with this article, I would like to touch on the Shidduch dating itself. One last point to mention: I was asked recently what do you do if you present a name to your daughter (in this case it was a daughter but it is equally applicable to a son) and your daughter tells you she is not interested with this name. You have invested time in a preliminary or total inquiry into this person, so you may feel rightfully resentful of such an answer. First of all take a calming breath, you are trying to solve this logically and tranquilly. Give your child the reasons for which you think this is a good possibility and ask her for her reason for refusing. If it is a valid concern then ask her not to close the subject until you can confirm or disprove her concern. Then make more phone calls and find out if there is any truth to the matter or not. It could be that her concern is only a vague rumor she heard from her friends or other non critical objection. In that case, as you obviously feel that this is a good suggestion and the research you have made has confirmed this, explain to your daughter or son why their concern is not a reason to refuse this shidduch. Furthermore in your role as parent explain how one should not refuse a shidduch for frivolous or non essential reasons. Refusing on such basis could cause one to postpone meeting their zivug and even to loose it. If, after all this your child is still adamant about refusing the shidduch, then you have to let them be and not pressure them further. We have to accept that if our child has an instinctive dislike of the suggestion, it might not be for her and therefore that is a valid reason for refusing the shidduch. about shidduch dating, is the need to make a differentiation between the worldly kind of “dating” and the Jewish kind of “Shidduch dating”. In the world the word dating is used with multiple meanings. It can mean going out to have fun. It can mean to have a long term partnership, and all degrees in between. There is no one definition of the word. The definition depends on the people who are “dating”. However, in the frum Jewish world there is only one kind of “dating” and that is Shidduch dating. Shidduch dating does not share the same definitions as worldly dating. It does not mean to go out and have fun and definitely it does not mean to be in a long-term relationship. The one definition that describes shidduch dating best is: “ A stepping stone to marriage.” This is the reason why we should not use the word “dating” to describe a Shidduch. “Dating” is an end to itself in the world; for us, Shidduch dating is only a means to an end. It was pointed out to me that people use the word dating in our circles, and we should refrain from this as we do not want to use a word that indicates relationships we do not condone. But Zeide Getzel Continued from Page 2 truth can still be found. Reflecting on the personal integrity with which Zeida Getzel charted his life’s compass we can add, “Emes is in the Siddur,” and in Zeida Getzel’s mind and heart, which steered him on a meaningful contributing course, that still serves as a study of what makes a Chosid today. Zeida Getzel was neither a Maskil nor an Ovaid. Yet he was the quintessential Chasid on the Merit of his Actions. Action has its own language. Action has its own elegance. Zeide Getzel’s action bespoke of the beauty of a humble spirit, the grace of a humility that was not recognized by its own beholder. His very core mesiras nefesh from which his mission-driven principles, his strong deep character traits, his overflowing love and fierce loyalty emanated. Some who didn’t know him well, some who couldn’t understand his operational values might have considered him harsh at times. Like Pinchas (Zeida’s Yartzeit usually occurs close to Parshas Pinchas), Zeide was a Kanoei-a Zealot. He was zealous in his adherence to every detail of a mitzvah. Like Pinchas, he rose to every challenge and galvanized himself to appropriate action—no matter the price. I heard of a case of a wonderful shidduch which was redt and the girl refused it. The parents and close friends of the family tried to convince her otherwise but she steadfastly refused it. She had no logical reason, she just said it was not for her. So the boy married someone else, after all he was quite a "catch". Unfortunately not long after the couple was divorced for a very solid reason. Naturally the family asked the first girl how she had known that a marriage would not have been a good thing? She answered that she hadn't know any such thing, she had just felt that this shidduch was not for her and Zeidy Getzel was a very devoted Choshe should not go into it. ssid, a Real Soldier. His derech in life Do not discount intuition, our "Bina was, “Vos men meg muz men nisht,” and Yeserah". Not our own or our childrens'. “vos men Tornit iz Avada Avade Darf If logically it makes no sense, but Menn Nisht.” ourselves or our children believe this is not for us, then it isn't. Zeide Getzel personified mesiras nefesh because he internalized the teachings The first thing I would like to mention talking to a number of people young and not so young, it seems it is quite normal to use the term “shidduch dating” in Lubavitch instead of the term “dating”. The first steps we all must make are the ones we discussed in past articles: getting the name of the girl or boy and doing the necessary research on them. By the time a shidduch date is set up, as far as the parents are concerned, there could be a L’Chaim. Which means that they are sure this is could be the shidduch for their child. What the couple has to discover is if they can interact with one another and if they talk on the same wavelength. Do they bore each other to death or spark new thoughts and ideas from one another. reason our kids Shidduch date: to see if there is a common ground to build a marriage on. This is the message we should be relaying to our kids: "I have made my homework, the choice is now yours to decide if this boy or girl is someone you can make a bond, a kesher with or not." The importance of the shidduch date shouldn’t be taken lightly. Do not tell your son or daughter, “Have fun.” Even if it is only a means to try to calm their nerves before the first shidduch date. Instead of saying have fun, you should give them a brocha that they may have Syata D’Shemaya on the shidduch date, and that they be able to recognize if it is a good match for them, or at least an On paper the boy and girl might fit like option that can be further explored. a glove--they both like music, outings, Shidduch dating is not “fun” for any reading. And the both come from the of the people involved. We all know same background, it sounds perfect! that the decisions we make, both posiBut when they go out on a date, the tive or negative, will have long range boy finds out that he likes Chazunos consequences. We have discussed this and she likes Piamenta; his outings with our children in many ways and are going upstate and hers are flying many times, so why make such an inane off to Spain; his reading is a sicha and comment as "have fun" at this time? hers is Good Housekeeping. So on that very first or second date, the data on We will continue with this subject next paper isn’t looking so good. That is the week. and ways of Chasidus. They were his life force. The blood that flowed through his veins. He made no fanfare of himself because he didn’t believe anything he did was wondrous. He certainly was not the main character of his own story. All he saw himself as and hoped to be was a proper loyal soldier in the Rebbe’s army. An elder chosid standing alone amongst a sea of young bochurim with eyes shut listening intensely throughout a long farbrengen testify to Zeida Getzel’s perspective. Allow me to share a story that will shed much light to our confused circle of Chasidim today: The time—Motzei Purim, Post World War II. The place--a suburb of Paris where Russian Chabad refugees congregated at a Chassidisha Farbrengen. Full of spirit, enhanced by a number of L’Chaims, one member of the group announced that “Getzel had send Shaloch Manos to Reb B.G.” Reb B.G. was shaliach of the Rebba Rayatz. Somehow he fell in the disfavor and critical review by many of the Chasidim. All eyes turned to Zeida Getzel. All began laughing in a mocking fashion. They tried to get Zeida Getzel to react or respond. Zeida did neither. No matter the jeering, the loud, boisterous laughing, Zaide remained silent. Seeing that he couldn’t be brought into the conversation, they changed the subject, and the farbrengen continued. The brotherhood was not disturbed at the very end, Zeida Getzel had his say. “Do you want to know why I sent Shaloch Manos to Reb B.G? I will explain. Firstly, Reb B.G. is my friend and was my chavrusa. We both grew up in Nevel. Secondly, Reb B.G. was personally chosen by the Rebbe to carry out some of his most challenging operations. Just for that, he deserves my personal shaloch manos. Thirdly, you all have issues with Reb B.G. because you believe he is sitting on your rightful chair (He has the job that should have been yours), but I know he is not sitting on my chair. L’Chaim.” Each of us have our own defining moments. A moment of such clarity and commitment that nothing else matters but putting truth into actions. The personal sacrifices of the chassidim of yesteryear as well as the chassidim of today allow us to outwit and outlive our oppressors. Zeide Getzel was a very devoted father, grandfather, great grandfather and friend. He was and is an inspiration to all those who knew him. The life and legacy left by R Getzel, a simple chossid, continues to encourage and empower us today. Need to make a movie of any kind? Emes productions commercials, promotionals documentaries. 347-436-6290 check out our blog! www.emesproductions.blogspot.com July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 7 From Shedlitz to Safety A Young Jew’s Story of Survival By Rabbi Shimon Goldman them both to appear before Pharaoh. Originally, Moshe had feared that his Exerpted from the book with the author’s older brother would harbor feelings of permission jealousy or resentment, but Hashem Continued from previous issue calmed him, saying: “Aharon will see you and feel genuine happiness in his The Rashag heart (Ex. 4:14).” Every week, after the Friday night meal, the Rashag — Reb Shmaryahu Gurary, the son-in-law of the Rebbe Rayatz — spent the night in our study hall, learning and looking through various books on Chassidus. The Rashag had been of indispensable help during our difficult years in Shanghai and Vilna, and now we had the opportunity to meet him personally. He sometimes spoke with the boys still sitting in the study hall, and it was a delight to engage in conversation with this great personage. Extraordinarily proficient in all areas of Chabad Chassidus, the Rashag would review a Chassidic discourse every Shabbos. On Shabbos afternoon after Mincha, the Rashag headed a Shalosh Seudos meal in the smaller shul. The Rashag sat a table laden with challas, herring, and assorted drinks. Certain donors sponsored the Shalosh Seudos, while others purchased the actual food and brought it to the Rashag. Prominent Chassidim participated in these weekly gatherings, as did many younger students who enjoyed hearing the Rashag review Chassidus in his lucid, explanatory fashion. Normally, Chassidim place careful emphasis on reviewing Chassidus in the precise format and order as originally expounded by the Rebbeim. Not so the Rashag. Having received explicit permission from the Rebbeim — some say the Rebbe Rashab, while others claim it was the Rebbe Rayatz — the Rashag deviated from this custom, explaining Chassidic thoughts in his own words and in different sequence. Reb Avraham Blesofsky, a Stoliner Chassid who lived nearby, was a regular participant at the Shalosh Seudos. Reb Nochum Wolosow also came every week. Having just emigrated from Russia, Reb Nochum was very much set in his Russian ways, and still preferred to call American dollars “rubles.” With the Rebbe Again After our arrival in New York, the yeshiva hosted a special welcoming affair in our honor. The yeshiva’s administrator — the Rashag — organized the details, and a respectable crowd crammed the huge hall of the yeshiva building on Bedford and Dean. Distinguished speakers addressed the gathering. Gershon Chanowitz, the representative of our group, recalled the time when Hashem paired Moshe with his brother Aharon, commanding The yechidus did not last long. As we left the Rebbe, I felt a strange sense of emptiness as all my earlier longing dissipated. Suddenly I identified with the Baal Shem Tov’s explanation on the words, “I thirst to see You in the Sanctuary (Psalms 63:3).” It is easy to long for spirituality in a spiritual wasteland, commented the Baal Shem Tov. Hence, the Psalmist expresses his heartfelt desire to maintain this intense longing even whilst in the “Sanctuary” — when one is close to the spiritual source. I, too, hoped I could maintain my feelings for the Rebbe with the same level of intensity I felt in Shanghai and Japan. “Imagine if Aharon heard this remark,” exclaimed Gershon. “Had Aharon known that G d truly desired his happiness, Aharon would have greeted Moshe with cymbals and trumpets, dancing and singing to fulfill G d’s wish. The same is true today. Meeting Holocaust survivors, tmimim who lived through the horrors of war, should arouse within us an increased measure of joy and an intense feeling of elation.” That summer, the yeshiva administration decided to send us off to summer camp. Hoping the pleasant mountain a i r a nd b e aut i ful scenery could assuage some of our painful memories, the administration reserved places for us in a camp run by Torah V’Daas. On our way to camp, a fellow introduced himself to us as Rabbi Linchner — the son-in-law of Reb Shraga Feivish Touched by the immense outpourMendelovitz, the renowned founder ing of love and emotion, we left the and administrator of Yeshivas Torah dinner with mixed feelings. Though V’Daas. Delighted to meet us persontruly appreciative of all the welcoming ally, Rabbi Linchner treated us to lunch crowds, we still longed to meet with the in the “American House,” a kosher Rebbe Rayatz again, to see the holy face restaurant in the area. After the meal, that sustained us throughout all these Rabbi Linchner spent a few hours years. Meeting the Rebbe had filled our talking to us about our war experiences minds even in Shanghai and Japan and and the ongoing acclimatization to now, living so close to the Rebbe, we American life. We conversed for a readied ourselves with excited anticipawhile, thanked him for the meal, and tion, waiting for our scheduled turn to continued on to camp. have a private audience (yechidus) with the Rebbe. As we entered the camp gates, we At long last, we were informed to be were shocked to see a football game in ready for yechidus on a certain evening. progress. Yeshiva bochurim ran around The day passed in a blur; the hours flew the field, their tzitzis flapping in the by in frenzied preparation. We spent wind as they chased the ball. Suddenly hours in deep introspection, preparing I envisioned my father standing before ourselves spiritually for our meeting me. I was a little boy again, playing ball with the Rebbe Rayatz. That evening, in the dirt streets of Shedlitz, and father at the appointed time, we all gathered had found out about my games. “A ball?” in 770. What followed was so intense, he said scornfully. “A yeshiva student so moving, that it still remains difficult plays with a ball? It’s not for you; leave for me to describe it all on paper. I the ball for the gentiles…” will, therefore, give only the barest details about our much-anticipated Yet here, in a religious camp in America, yechidus. mature yeshiva bochurim spent hours playing football and other sports! We all entered the Rebbe’s room Apparently, as I quickly learned, Ameritogether, accompanied by our mashpia, can students lived with a different set Reb Shmuel Levitin. My emotions of standards. totally overwhelmed my faculties; I could not remember a single thing Brownsville the Rebbe said to us. All I could do was look, and look again, at the saintly The dormitory building on Bedford Rebbe, at the holy countenance that and Dean was a decent walk from 770, infused us with strength during all forcing us to walk back constantly for these difficult years. meals and, at night, when we went to sleep. Often we stayed up late, talking about our day and various events. By the time we finished talking many of us were hungry again, but the kitchen was already securely locked. Jerry Simon, a student from New Jersey, always came to our rescue. Somehow, Jerry found a way to get into the kitchen and bring out some food for his starving friends. Jerry showed special kindness to us — the so-called “hungry refugees” — and made sure to arrange food from the kitchen whenever we asked. (Indeed, he later became a caterer. Subsequently, he became my mechutan. My son Shmuel married his daughter Tziril.) Yehoshua Bronstein, one of my friends from Shanghai, had a cousin Hirshel who lived on Crown Street, a few blocks away from 770. Forever on the lookout for his newly arrived cousin, Hirshel did all he could to help Yehoshua, inviting him often to his house and fairly demanding that other students also come along. These visits meant a great deal to us. Deprived of any semblance of family life during the war years, it was particularly comforting to walk into a home with two parents and healthy, happy children. Hirshel and his wife literally opened their house for us. We readily accepted all their invitations, enjoying every moment we spent in the company of a wholesome family. Besides, we craved the taste of homemade food again. A few weeks after we arrived, Hirshel suggested that we rent a room in a private home. Having seen the dormitory facilities for himself, Hirshel decided that his cousin deserved more comfortable surroundings. “The dormitory really isn’t bad at all,” Hirshel rushed on to explain. “I just feel that you and your friends might feel more at ease with rooms in a private home, instead of sharing a building with everyone else. Also, you boys are older than most other students. You need a bit more privacy. The Joint will help defray the cost of your rent.” Yehoshua discussed the idea with me and I found myself in total agreement with his cousin. We asked Hirshel to try and find us a suitable room. After a few days, Hirshel came back with information that a room was available in the home of Reb Shmarya Faktor. An acclaimed sofer, Reb Shmarya was renting out a spare room in his Brooklyn Avenue home, and we decided to accept the offer. We gathered our meager belongings, left the dormitory, and took up residence in Reb Shmarya’s home. (Reb Shmarya merited to write Moshiach’s Sefer Torah — a project initiated by the Rebbe Rayatz in 1942 and completed by the Rebbe almost thirty years later.) 8 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Parshas Hashavua Vedibarta Bam ~ Matos By Rabbi Moshe Bogomilsky "איש כי ידר נדר לא יחל דברו...'לה ככל היצא מפיו "יעשה “If a man takes a vow to G d...he shall not desecrate his word; according to whatever comes from his mouth shall he do.” (30:3) According to halachah, one who takes a vow or swears an oath can consult a Torah authority and annul it. The Torah is, however, teaching that though halachically this is possible, an “ish” — “a prominent person” — once he has taken the vow or made the promise, should heed the lesson of Tzidkiyahu and not seek ways out of it, but do “whatever comes from his mouth.” (בית יעקב ר' יעקב הכהן ז"ל טראב – מסלתון ) בשם ספר בן אברהם,)ראב"ד ביירות QUESTION: The law not to desecrate ..."איש כי ידר נדר לה' או השבע שבעה one’s word and to do “according to "לא יחל דברו ככל היצא מפיו יעשה whatever comes from his mouth” applies both to men and women. Why “If a man takes a vow to G d or swears an oath...he shall not desecrate his word; the phrasing “ish” — “man”? according to whatever comes from his A NSWER: The Midrash Rabbah mouth shall he do.” (30:3) (Lamentations 2:14) relates: Rabbi Elazar said: Let not the chapter on QUESTION: Since it already says, vows be lightly esteemed in your eyes, “lo yacheil devaro” — “he shall not because on account of that chapter were desecrate his word” — isn’t the concluthe members of the Great Sanhedrin sion of the pasuk “kechal hayotzei mipiv of Tzidkiyahu slain. When Yechanyah ya’aseh” — “according to whatever was exiled, King Nevuchadnetzar comes from his mouth shall he do” a appointed Tzidkiyahu over five kings; redundancy? and he used to enter and leave [the ANSWER: The pasuk is talking about King’s presence] without permission. both vows and oaths. When a person One day he entered his presence and makes a vow, though he may not desfound him tearing the flesh of a hare ecrate it, he can consult a Torah scholar and eating it while it was yet alive. The and have it annulled. According to King said to him, “Swear to me that halachah the same applies also to one you will not disclose this about me,” who swears an oath; however, the Tur and he swore. Shulchan Aruch, Yorah Dei’ah 230 Subsequently, the five kings were sitting records an opinion in the name of Rav and sneering at Nevuchadnetzar in the Hai that an oath cannot be annulled. presence of Tzidkiyahu, and they said The Torah may be alluding to this opinto him, “The kingship does not become ion. Hence, regarding a vow the pasuk Nevuchadnetzar, but it becomes you says, “lo yacheil devaro” — “he shall since you are of the seed of David.” not desecrate his word” — although He too sneered at Nevuchadnetzar and others can annul it for him. However, said, “I once saw him tear the flesh of a an oath, cannot be annulled by anyone and “according to whatever comes out [live] hare and eat it.” of his mouth he shall do.” They immediately sent and told the King, “That Jew who enters and leaves * * * your presence without permission has The Gemara (Ketuvot 77b) relates that informed us, ‘I saw Nevuchadnetzar when Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi was tear the flesh of a [live] hare and eat about to die, the Angel of Death lifted it.’ ” him up and showed him his place in The latter forthwith came and took up Gan Eden. Rabbi Yehoshua jumped his residence in Daphne of Antioch. The over the wall and exclaimed, “I swear I members of the Great Sanhedrin went will not go back.” Hashem ruled that “if out to meet him. When he saw that they he ever had an oath annulled he must were all men of imposing appearance, return, but if not, he need not return.” he ordered seats of honor for them. He What difference did it make if he had said to them, “Expound the Torah to never sought to be released from a me.” They immediately began to read oath? it chapter by chapter and translate it. When they reached the chapter, “When Though the halachah is not according to a man takes a vow” he said to them, “If Rav Hai, if someone does assume such a person desires to retract a vow, can a stringency and makes a oath, he may he do so or not?” not seek relief from a scholar. Therefore, Hashem said, “If Rabbi Yehoshua has They replied, “He must go to a sage who always conducted himself according absolves him of his vow.” to this opinion, then ‘whatever comes He said to them, “It seems to me that from his mouth he shall do,’ and thus you must have absolved Tzidkiyahu his oath cannot be annulled and he can of the oath which he swore to me.” remain in Gan Eden.” He immediately ordered them [to be ) הרב אברהם ז"ל ענטבי- (יושב אוהלים removed from their seats of honor] and "נקם נקמת בני ישראל מאת המדינים placed them on the ground” (see also "אחר תאסף על עמיך Nedarim 65a). “Take vengeance for the Children of Israel against the Midianites; after- among yourselves.” Rashi explains wards you will be gathered unto your that the term “anashim” means “tzaddikim” — “righteous men.” A difficulty people.” (31:2) in selecting soldiers for the war was that QUESTION: What is the connection everyone sincerely considered himself between the war with Midian and the not qualified and humbly thought he passing of Moshe? did not meet the standard of “tzadA NSWER: The Gemara (Sanhe- dik” — “righteous.” So when righteous drin 39a) relates that a heretic once men had to be selected, people had to asked Rabbi Avuah, “Your G d is a inform Moshe of the righteousness of Kohen, and when He buried Moshe their neighbors and their worthiness He became defiled. In what did He for Moshe’s purpose. immerse to regain His purity?” Rabbi Though informing against another Jew Avuah replied, “He immersed in fire, is forbidden, it is permissible when the as it is written, ‘For behold, G d will other possesses qualities unknown to come with fire’ ” (Isaiah 66:15). “Does the community from which it can benimmersion in fire help?” he asked. Rabbi efit. Also, if there is a need for tzedakah, Avuah replied, “Immersion in fire is one may reveal an individual who has the primary method of purification; the means and is presently unknown. immersion in water is the secondary )(שמעתי מזקני הרב צבי הכהן ז"ל קאפלאן one, as it says, ‘And everything that was not used over the fire you shall pass ולא..."ויקצף משה על פקודי החיל through the water’ ” (31:23). ...'ונקרב את קרבן ה...נפקד ממנו איש Hence, from the laws of koshering Kashering dishes for Pesach utensils, which were conveyed in conjunction with the war against Midian, it is derived that when Hashem buried Moshe, He immersed in fire. Thus, Hashem said to Moshe, “Take vengeance against the Midianites. In the course of the war the Jewish people will capture their utensils and need to know how to make them kosher, and they will then be told the advantage of fire over water for purification. Afterwards you will be gathered unto your people; I will personally bury you, and the heretics will not be able to ask how I will regain My purity.” "'לכפר על נפשותינו לפני ה “Moshe was angry with the commanders of the army...‘And not a man of us is missing...So we have brought an offering to G d...To atone for our souls before G d.’ ” (31:14, 49, 50) QUESTION: The Gemara (Shabbat 64a) says that Moshe was angry with the commanders of the war for leaving the women alive and suspected that they had committed a sin similar to the earlier one with the women of Midian. Therefore, they responded, “Not a man of us is missing,” meaning “None of us has been lead astray by the Midianite women.” “If so,” Moshe asked, “why are you making this offering to Hashem?” They responded, “Though the fighters have not actually sinned, they wish to atone for any evil thoughts that may have entered their minds.” What encouraged them to bring an offering for evil thoughts? ANSWER: Following Moshe’s rebuke of the Jewish people for permitting the women to live and instructions to the (בית יעקב ר' יעקב הכהן ז"ל טראב – מסלתוןcommanders of the army, Elazar taught ) ראב"ד ביירות בשם תנופה חייםthe people the statute of koshering utensils. All the utensils which were ""וימסרו מאלפי ישראל אלף למטה taken from the Midianites could be “So there were delivered from the made usable either by passing through thousands of the Children of Israel, a fire or immersion in boiling water. thousand from each tribe.” (31:5) To the Jews this was incomprehensible. QUESTION: The term “vayimaseru” Why wasn’t it sufficient to simply clean — “there were delivered” — seems to the utensils to thoroughly remove any indicate that it was not voluntary. Why non-kosher substance adhering to was it necessary to use force? them? Elazar explained that not only is a utensil not usable when something ANSWER: The word “vayimaseru” non-kosher is on the surface, but even ( )וימסרוcomes from the root word when there is an absorption of non“masar” ()מסר, which means “inform.” kosher taste in its walls. To inform on a person and reveal his secrets is forbidden, and informers are From this the soldiers derived a new dealt with very severely (see Shulchan lesson in the relation¬ship between Aruch, Choshen Mishpat 388). An man and Hashem: If a utensil is unfit to exception to this rule was in this be used by Jews and requires purging if instance for the following reason. it has absorbed a non-kosher taste, how much more must a person perfect himIn preparation for this war Moshe told self in his rela¬tionship with Hashem the people, “Heichaltzu mei’itechem and repent for “non-kosher thoughts.” anashim latzava” — “Arm men from )(חדושי הרי"ם July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 9 Vedibarta Bam ~ Pirkei Avos "אלא הוו כעבדים המשמשין את הרב "שלא על מנת לקבל פרס “But rather be like servants who serve their master without the intent of receiving a reward.” (1:3) QUESTION: How can this be reconciled with the Gemara (Rosh Hashanah 4a) that the one who says “This coin is to charity so that my son shall live” or “so that I shall merit the World to Come” is a tzaddik gamur — a completely righteous person? ANSWER: The Gemara (Bava Batra 9b) says that for giving tzedakah to the poor one receives six blessings, and for also saying comforting and encouraging words to the poor, one receives an additional eleven blessings, for more important than the actual giving of tzedakah is the way it is given. The poor and destitute that have to beg for alms are heartbroken and shattered. Instead of making them feel that they are on the receiving end and you are on the giving end, you should convey a sense of gratitude to the poor for giving you the opportunity to do a mitzvah. the surface one may see faults in the person, one should, judge every person “lekaf zechut” — “favorably” — and their Torah observance, and opponents thus it will be easy for one to find a of the Sadducees) — have a tradition “Rav” and a “chaveir.” to deny themselves pleasures in this world, and in the World to Come they ""עשה לך רב “Make yourself a teacher.” (1:6) have nothing [to expect].” Antigonus really meant that all rewards are in the World to Come and that in this world one prepares himself for it. Man’s service of Hashem should not be for the sake of receiving a reward, but merely out of love for Him in the same way as a child does things for his parents purely out of love. Nevertheless, in addition to loving Hashem, one should also fear Him and stand in awe when considering His greatness, might, and (ב:)אבות דרבי נתן ה holiness. QUESTION: It should have said “asei avurcha Rav” — “provide a teacher for yourself”? ANSWER: A Chassid of Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of Chabad Chassidut, once said that, “through conceit he overcame the urge to transgress.” Whenever his yeitzer hara — evil inclination — would approach him, he would exclaim, “Do you know who I am? I am a prominent person, a Chassid of a very great Rebbe; how can you " "ואל תרבה שיחה עם האשהexpect me to do this?” “And do not indulge excessively in Yehoshua ben Perachyah is advising conversation with the woman” (1:5) every Jew: “Make yourself a Rav — QUESTION: Why is the Mishnah so declare yourself as a distinguished adamant about even speaking to one’s person, one for whom improper conduct is not befitting. You will thus own wife? spare yourself the pitfalls of your evil ANSWER: Instead of “Al tarbeh sichah inclination.” im ha’ishah” — the woman — it could have said just “im ishah” — with a , ואל תתחבר לרשע,"הרחק משכן רע woman? The Mishnah is teaching that "ואל תתיאש מן הפורעניות when it is necessary for one to en¬gage “Distance yourself from a bad neighbor; in conversation with a woman and, do not connect yourself with a rasha; for that matter, even his own wife, his do not abandon belief in Divine retributhoughts should not be centered on tion.” (1:7) “ha’ishah” — the feminine features QUESTION: 1) The first two stateof the woman — but rather he should ments seem to be repeti¬tious? 2) What con¬sider her as another person with is the connection between all three whom he needs to communicate. statements? Thus, the Gemara could be explained to mean that if while giving charity to a poor man one says “I am giving this because of the benefit in store for me. Through the fulfillment of this mitzvah, my son shall live” (it is possible even that he does not have a son, but is just saying so to make the poor man feel more comfortable), or “I shall merit the World to Come” — such a person ,"יהושע בן פרחיה ונתאי הארבלי קבלו מהם is a tzaddik gamur — a complete tzad- וקנה לך, עשה לך רב:יהושע בן פרחיה אומר " והוי דן את כל האדם לכף זכות,חבר dik — because he makes the recipient “Yehoshua ben Perachyah and Nittai feel like a giver. Ha’arbeili received [the oral tradition] 'אל תהיו,אומר..."אנטיגנוס איש סוכו from them. Yehoshua ben Perachyah כעבדים המשמשין את הרב על מנת says: ‘Provide yourself with a teacher; " '...לקבל פרס acquire for yourself a friend; and judge “Antigonus of Socho...He used to say, every person favorably.’” (1:6) ‘Do not be like servants who serve their master for the sake of receiving a QUESTION: What is the connection between these three things? reward....’ ” (1:3) A NSWER: King Shlomo says, ‘A nearby neighbor is better than a distant brother’ (Proverbs 27:10). Thus, Nittai Ha’arbeili’s statement can be interpreted as follows: “Harcheik mishachein — distancing yourself from your immediate neighbor — ra — is bad. However, though it is important to be friendly and close with neighbors, a person must beware not to attach himself, G d forbid, to a neighbor who is wicked.” Unfortunately, when one is experiencing Divine retribution, in a moment of despair, he may stoop to seek help from the wicked or consider following their ways. In view of this possibil¬ity, Nittai Ha’arbeili cautions us not to become despondent and give up hope in difficult times. He is saying, “Be assured that everything Hashem does is for our benefit and eventually the person will see the good in a tangible way.” QUESTION: What does the counselor do that the judge should not do? ANSWER: A Beit Din can be either an established tribunal before whom all the litigants bring their issues without having any input as to the identity of the judges or a group of three judges chosen in the following manner: each litigant chooses one judge, and then the two judges together with the litigants select a third (see Aruch HaShulchan, Choshen Mishpat 13:1). The latter system is known as “zabla” ( )זבל"אwhich is an abbreviation for “zeh boreir lo echad” (“ — )זה בורר לו אחדthis one [litigant] chooses one [judge] for himself.” A lawyer will work feverishly to have his client vindicated or win, even if he personally knows that his client is guilty. The Mishnah is warning the judge, “Even if you were selected by the litigant, you are prohibited from favoring him if you see that he is wrong. You must rule fairly, and you are not required to assure a win for the litigant who selected you. You may search for halachic merits on his behalf, but under no circumstances may you waive your impartiality and twist the halachah.” )(מדרש שמואל ""חכמים הזהרו בדבריכם “Sages, be careful with your words.” (1:11) QUESTION: The difference between a wise person and a foolish person is obvious in their speaking. As long as the fool is quiet, he can be mistaken for a smart person (see Proverbs 17:28). Since the Mishnah is addressing “chachamim” — “wise people” — obviously they are careful with what they say, and otherwise they are not chachamim but fools? ANSWER: It is the duty of a rabbi or teacher to guide his congregants or students in the right path. To meet this end, such a person gives many lectures on various Torah matters, and especially issues in which he sees a need for improvement. The worst thing possible is for a rabbi or teacher to be a hypocrite. The listener loses respect for him and does not accept anything that he says, even when it happens to be correct and sincere. QUESTION: What effect did a mis- ANSWER: Yehoshua ben Perachyah understanding of this statement have felt that every individual must have on Jewish history? someone to whom he looks up to as his Rav. W henever a person must ANSWER: Antigonus had two dismake a decision, whether halachic or ciples, Tzadok and Boethus, who personal, he should turn to his “Rav” misinterpreted his teaching and persince he is objective and will be able Avtalyon’s message is “Chachamim — petuated this error by teaching it to to give him his unbiased opinion. The you people who are looked up to as the their disciples, and their disciples to wise, i.e. rabbis, teachers, etc., — hiza“Rav” will also take an interest in him their disciples, etc. “Why,” they said and guide him from time to time in haru — you yourselves be very careful “did our rabbis see fit to say a thing like his efforts to elevate himself in his and observant — bedivreichem — with this? Is it possible, then, that a workman relationship with Hashem as well as in your own words. By practicing what upon completing his day’s work will )(מלי דאבות his inter-personal relationships. While you preach, your words will definitely not receive his wages in the evening? the “Rav” is someone whom he can only ""אל תעש עצמך כעורכי הדינים enter into the minds and hearts of the If our rabbis are convinced that there approach occasionally, it is also very “Do not act as a counselor [when sitting listeners.” is a future world and that the dead will important that one have a “chaveir” — a as a judge].” (1:8) be resurrected, they would not have friend — someone with whom to have said that.” From these two disciples, The longest running English Shiur in an ongoing relationship. Heights--26 years and still going PIRKEI AVOS SHIUR Crown Tzadok and Boethus, two sects arose, strong! the Sadducees (the Tzedokim) and the Yehoshua ben Perachyah realized that For Women and Girls Boethusians. 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I am always encouraged and heartened by the positive response I receive when I address young women about the insidious penetration of secular culture into all areas of our lives - behavior, speech, and mode of thought. But last week when I met with thirty young kollel wives in Crown Heights on the same subject, the response bordered on the miraculous. It was as if Hashem opened the hearts of all those attending and made them willing keillim for His mission – “vatem tihyu li mamleches Kohanim” For at the end of the session those beautiful new wives committed to form a vanguard (shura rishona) which will meet biweekly, in Weight Watchers-like supportive fashion, to give each other encouragement, sharing achievements and difficulties with the aim of achieving a viable positive impact on our beloved community. Tzinius is a touchy topic among some, so rather than discussing the halachos, I tried to step back and re-examine the fundamentals of a Jewish look. In the not too distant past, men and women took their fashion cues from the aristocratic class, trying to emulate the upper echelon. But today, people attempt to dress downward emulating lumberjacks and janitorial staff by sporting a disheveled look, shirts hanging out, unkempt hair styles, etc. The Rebbe points out that the term for why the righteous women merited to be the catalysts of the redemption was because of the “ Lo shinu’ aspect of their existence. They did not substitute their Yiddishe look (name nor language) for an Egyptian look even though that look may very well have conformed to the Halachic laws of modesty. Nowadays, some women wear snoods outdoors, others dress casually on Shabbos, still others sit in an inappropriate fashion. They all cite comfort to explain their behavior. When did comfort replace the will of Hashem? The aristocratic lady who rode side saddle on a horse did not enjoy as much comfort as the man who rode the horse normally. But even Goyishe women understood that propriety trumped comfort. choices in every aspect of their lives, believing that to be the road to raising independent adults. But doesn’t this kind of training undermine the idea of Kabbolas Ol, the basis of all of Yiddishkeit? Isn’t it the parents’ job to train their children for a life of Avodas Hashem? With the purpose of lo nivreiti ela leshamesh es Koni? When the Rebbe founded “Tzivos Hashem”, some questioned the militaristic nature of the organization. The Rebbe replied as follows: “The most important aspect, in my opinion, in this day and age, is the lack of Kabolas Ol, not only of Ol Malchus Shomayiim but also of general non-submission to authority including the authority of parents at home, teachers in school and the authority of law and order in One wife at the meeting recalled a real the street. life test she faced recently. After a full year of teaching her pupils not to wear “American children have been brought T-shirts emblazoned with logos and up on the spirit of independence and trademarks (“walking billboards”) freedom and on the glorification of in public, she found herself debating personal prowess and smartness. It has whether she should walk the two blocks cultivated a sense of cockishness and from her ride to her home wearing the self-assurance to the extent that one Gan Israel T-shirt she had to wear in who is bent on mischief or anti-social camp as a madricha. Changing for a activity feels they can outsmart a cop two block walk wasn’t easy for her, but on the beat and even a judge on the “What if I were to meet one of my pupils bench. on the way home, that same pupil that “I came to the conclusion that that there I spent an entire year dissuading from was no other way to effect a basic change wearing T-shirts with the ‘GAP’ & ‘Old than through a system of discipline and Navy’ logos”, she wondered. So she obedience to rules which he/she can get changed and she triumphed ( Score:1 accustomed to.” for her - 0 for the Yetzer Hara.). Another example of the mainstream Raising children was also a topic. culture affecting our behavior in the Many mothers have absorbed the latest workplace is the new, seemingly demopsychological fad of offering children cratic policy of addressing each other The Importance of Tznius During the Summer Likkutei Sichos Vol. 13 page 83 Free Translation The hora’a (practical instruction) from this is that a person should not say that in a major and fundamental aspect of tznius - such as the fact that “each tribe dwelled on their own and they were not mixed” - they will be careful. However, in the small and lighter details it is not important to be so exacting. For he should know that even this detail is fundamental, and it has the ability to transform every negative thing from one extreme to another. However, there is still room for the yeitzer hora’s persuasion: “When does this apply? Concerning one’s permanent conduct. However, when we are talking about temporary conduct, it is not obligatory to be so exacting in tznius – to treat the lighter details like the serious ones.” in this matter and the conduct is in a way of “how goodly are your tents Yaakov, your camps Yisrael,” then “Hashem you G-d will overturn for you (the curse into blessing)...” And as Rashi comments on the earlier verse: “It was in his heart (to curse them)... and when Hashem changed over his mouth, he blessed them etc.” Until the promise of the complete goodly mishkan - that Hashem will return His security (mashkon) - the Beis Hamikdosh. Since a security connotes that even during the time of the churban it still exists - and when the atonement is complete, it will descend and be revealed, eternally. Footnote 34: Now is the opportunity to stress a timely matter: those who are “lenient” in certain aspects of tznius in the summer, especially when they are in a temporary dwelling outside of the city. And there are those who say echta ve’ashuv - I will sin and then return Also to this (rationale) comes the (repent) – when I return to the city. hora’a: “He (Bilam) saw the openings of their tents--that they were not aligned This applies to the conduct of men as facing one another.” Even when they well, and especially to women, since were in tents, “the tents of Yaakov”, even each one of them is called Akeres in a temporary dwelling, this level of Habayis. We could speak at length, but tznius and carefulness applies. now is not the time. On the other hand, when we are careful by first name, no matter if the person is of the opposite gender, is older, or is a rabbi or rebbetzin. Most of the women readily acknowledged this problem. One even recounted how she felt uncomfortable when she first encountered such a work environment. However, she sadly admitted that she very quickly got accustomed to this disrespectful behavior. Another issue raised was the excessive socializing among young couples, and the consensus was that familiarity in certain circumstances is simply not the Jewish way. I quoted extensively from Rabbi Glukowsky’s inspiring, timely address to their husbands – the Kollel YungeLeight (highlights were published in issue # …of this publication), and they were all anxious to get audio copies of the entire talk. Go to the Yagdil Torah Website to listen to the shiur: http:// www.yagdiltorah.com/recordings/ recordings.htm. After several hours of enthusiastically sharing their experiences with me and one another, I am gratified to report that the women agreed that reclaiming our authentic Yiddishe heritage is definitely the order of the day, and that the creation of a shura rishona will surely have a positive upward spiraling influence on the entire community. Kollel wives, please join us in this groundbreaking effort to strengthen our families and our community. Our next meeting is scheduled for July 30. Please call Mrs. C. Nemni @ (718) 809-0379 for details. July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 11 Gimmel Tammuz Conclusion The very next day, Thursday — Rosh Chodesh Tammuz — three officers entered the Rebbe’s cell. Prison protocol called for utmost respect on the part of the prisoners; when addressed by a guard or officer, inmates must stand at attention. The Rebbe refused to arise, and said so, in Yiddish. arrive in Kostroma on Shabbos. Lulov was adamant about his decision. If the Rebbe chose not to travel on Friday, then he won’t be able to leave the prison at all — and Lulov and his cohorts will have him retried. Once again, Mrs. Peshkova used her considerable influence in Moscow. At an emergency meeting with the Prime Minister, she made her case. In her One of the officers, a Jew, retorted, “ If presence, Rykov called Monshinsky, you don’t stand, we will hit you!” The the head of the G.P.U., and told him to Rebbe replied softly, “Nu?” The guards allow the Rebbe to travel on Sunday. hit the Rebbe, and left his cell. Once again, Lulov had lost — but he A short while later, Lulov entered the refused to give up completely. One last cell with some prison officials. “Rebbe!” time, he tried to convince the Rebbe. Lulov said sarcastically, “Why aren’t “If you leave tomorrow, on Friday,” you standing? These men are here to Lulov told him, “You will be released give you good news!” immediately after your arrival there.” Once again, the Rebbe refused and The Rebbe replied, “I don’t care if I have was struck once again. This procedure to remain in prison for an extremely was repeated a third time, with the long time because of this; I refuse to Rebbe still declining to stand for the travel on Shabbos.” jail guards. The Rebbe spent that Shabbos in jail. Finally, they ordered the Rebbe to On Sunday, Gimmel Tammuz, at two follow them to the office, where he was o’clock in the afternoon, he was told shown his verdict. that he could go home for a few hours, There were three sentences on the offi- but he must catch the eight o’clock train cial document, the first two crossed out. to Kostroma. The first one, was the death sentence: The Rebbe made his way home. One “Death by a firing squad”. Next to it, the could only imagine the happiness and word, Nyet — No. The second sentence, relief of his family, when they saw him also with a line running through it, enter the door! After a joyous reunion was: “Ten years in Slovaki”, followed with his family, the Rebbe went into by another “Nyet”. his room to daven Mincha. The third sentence, left unedited, read, Word of his arrival had spread like “Three years in Kostroma.” This, then wildfire, and people streamed from was to be the Rebbe’s punishment: a all parts of the city to catch a glimpse relatively mild exile, not too far from of their Rebbe. Chassidim stood by civilization. the door of his study, and listened to Inwardly, the Rebbe rejoiced and the Rebbe daven, enraptured by his thanked Hashem with his whole heart. emotional and heartfelt Tefillos. He had escaped immediate death by The few hours that were allotted went bullet; then the terrible exile in Slovaki by very fast, the hour turned seven and — a double miracle! the Rebbe was preparing to leave. He Lulov’s harsh voice broke through the was allowed to take along one family Rebbe’s thoughts: “Your situation in member and one Chossid. The Rebbe Kostroma will be deplorable. A lot of chose his second daughter the Rebhard work, and much pain is awaiting betzin Chaya Mushka and the Chossid you. However, if you retract your state- Reb Eliyahu Chaim Althaus. Many ment concerning the Leningrad Jewish Chassidim went to the train station to communal conference, I will arrange buy tickets, but none were for sale. The your immediate freedom.” G.P.U. forbade it. The train will travel almost empty, as long as the Rebbe For over an hour, Lulov tried to conwon’t be with his Chassidim. vince, cajole and threaten the Rebbe, to make him change his mind. But the By The Train Station Rebbe remained firm. “I don’t regret The Rebbe arrived under heavy guard what I did, and I won’t change my of the secret police and the regular civil opposing opinion,” he replied stoically. police. Standing on the station plat“Threaten me, if you will, with Siberia; form, the Rebbe turned to the crowd I won’t take back anything I said.” and unintimidated by the “authorities” Both Lulov and the head of the local the Rebbe addressed the crowd G.P.U. were infuriated and humiliated. “We raise our lips in prayer to Hashem: How they longed to punish the Rebbe! ‘Yehi Hashem Elokaynu Imanu Kaasher But their hands were tied; the National Haya Im Avosaynu Al Yaazvaynu V’al chief director of the G.P.U., MonshinYitshainu’ — Hashem should be with sky, had already decided; he, not them us as he was with our fathers, He should would decide the Rebbe’s fate. not forsake us or abandon us. The Rebbe had bested them, and they “Not only is this a prayer to Hashem not knew it. But they would have their sweet to forsake us but it is also a promise and revenge; the Rebbe would have to leave blessing that Hashem will not forsake jail the following day, on Friday, and us, even when we are in exile. You will be watched and we will be informed of all your activities, public “Let the nations of the world know and and private. Finally, you are to present realize. We did not go into exile on our yourself here every Tuesday. own will, nor will we return [to Eretz Yisroel] by virtue of our own capabili- The rescue committee continued their ties. Hashem our father and King sent efforts on behalf of the Frierdiker us in exile and He will redeem us by Rebbe, notwithstanding the advice that sending us Moshiach. However only they were given to wait for a while, as our bodies were sent into exile and it would be perceived as open defiance subjected to foreign rule. Our souls towards the G.P.U.. Messing the head of were not. the Leningrad G.P.U. claimed it would give cause to anti-Semitism, showing “We are obligated to publicly proclaim that only a Jewish leader is freed while before all, that on any matter affecting other clergy are not. Even if Moscow the Jewish religion, Torah, Mitzvos and orders the Rebbe’s freedom he would even its customs, no one can impose immediately rearrest the Rebbe. his beliefs on us nor coerce us to act contrary to our beliefs. Mrs. Peshkova continued her intensive endeavors on behalf of the Rebbe and “We resolutely state with the steadfastwas finally successful. ness of the Jewish nation: ‘Touch not my anointed nor attempt to do evil unto According to the terms of his exile, the my prophets.’ Frierdiker Rebbe had to check in at the local offices of the K.G.B. every Tues“It is well known that the law [of the day. On the following Tuesday which country] allows us to learn [and teach] was Yud Beis Tammuz, the Rebbe’s 47th Torah and perform Mitzvos. It is only birthday, the Rebbe accompanied by because of the efforts of false informers Reb Eliyahu Chaim Althaus returned with totally untrue accusation that to the office. Being that it was a local religious Jews are imprisoned and holiday, the station was quite empty sent to labor camps. The actions of and quiet. those ignorant and evil doers shall be To the Rebbe’s surprise, he was warmly completely nullified. greeted by the local commander him“This is our plea to Hashem: Do not self. The K.G.B. chief informed him, abandon us, rather give us the strength he had just received word to release the that we do not falter in face of this Rebbe from his exile. However, since physical suffering. The more they it was a legal holiday, the paperwork afflict us, should bolster our fortitude would have to be done on the following of strengthening Judaism. day, on Yud Gimmel Tammuz. “Remember, their punishments are in When the Rebbe entered his home, he the physical realm of the world, which was greeted by his daughter, Rebbetzin is temporary. While Torah, Mitzvos Chaya Mushka and the Chassid, Rav and Israel are eternal. Michoel Dvorkin, who spontaneously “Shalom — May Hashem bring peace began singing: “Nyet, Nyet...” signifyupon you. We shall merit the blessing, ing that there was nothing besides ‘Hashem shall be with us as He was Hashem. with our ancestors to neither forsake The Rebbe then said the Maamar, nor abandon us.’ And there shall be light “Hashem is with me among my helpers, unto all Jewish people in their abodes in and I will see [the downfall of] my ene the spiritual and material senses.” mies.” The following day after receiving Thus spoke the Frierdiker Rebbe in the official papers of his release the front of the dreaded officers on his way Rebbe said the Maamar “Blessed is the to exile the very same words he said one who bestows beneficences upon the by the Purim farbrengen that caused culpable, for he has bestowed goodness his arrest. on me.” Kostrama The traveling was non stop, for almost twenty four hours. Late Monday night the train arrived in Kostrama. In defiance of their commands that he immediately report to the local authorities the Rebbe went to his lodgings in the house of the local Shochet. Tuesday morning the fifth of Tammuz, the Rebbe went to the local checka — secret police. The administrator received him in an extremely sullen and antagonistic manner. He declared, you are an exile prisoner receiving your punishment for your criminal activities against the good of the country. Not only can you not leave the city without special authorization, you must inform us even if you are just changing your place of residence. The Frierdiker Rebbe had noticed a subtle change in the local commander’s demeanor; once he received the order to free the Rebbe, he had become cordial. The Rebbe boarded the train to Leningrad, hoping that in the big city, too, the K.G.B. and the Yevsektzia will stop their harassment. Perhaps in Leningrad, they may even admit that his outreach activities were legal! Leaving Russia The Frierdiker Rebbe arrived home on Friday, the 16th of Tammuz. The mood of the Yevsektzia had indeed changed — but for the worse. The Jewish Communists were bitterly disappointed that their carefully wrought scheme had failed, and their archenemy was once again free to continue his work. Continued on Page: 16: 12 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Shleimus Haaretz The Exchange of Prisoners Shabbos Parshas Bamidbar, 1979 Published and copyright © by Sichos In English The Rebbe spoke against the recent exchange of prisoners: over 70 Arabs, including over 30 convicted terrorists, for one Israeli soldier. Though a Jewish life has infinite worth — “surely more than that of seventy Arabs,” — the Rebbe said “the exchange should not have been made.” They could have obtained the same soldier for Bank were only a token gesture that did not solve the problem) and a firm show of Israeli military strength be made. He explained that this was the opinion of Israeli’s military experts who according to Torah are the authorities who must decide policy at this time. He related that there are those who maintained that diplomatic considerations should also be taken into consideration, but brought proof to discount their opinion. He cited the example of the Yom Kippur War where all the military leaders had wanted to call up the reserves and prepare for war. These defensive steps were vetoed by the political leaders of the time who feared antagonizing the U.S. Those political actions brought about the early Arab success and many casualties among the Israeli forces. showed that women who walked four or more hours per week had 41% fewer hip fractures than those who walked diabetes. In a study published in the less than an hour a week. 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The Participating in moderate-intensity combination of reduced calories and physical activity is an important part daily exercise is the ticket to weight loss. of a healthy lifestyle for people of And controlling obesity is critical, as it all ages and wide range of abilities. is a major risk factor for many diseases. Adults should get at least 30 minutes Lowering your body mass is a sure way of moderate-intensity physical activto reduce risk of dying early and to live ity (such as brisk walking) on five a healthier life. or more days per week, according to recommendations from the Centers Exercise Reduces feelings of depresfor Disease Control and Prevention sion and anxiety. Promotes psy(CDC) and the American College of chological well-being and reduces Sports Medicine feelings of stress. Although there can be some risks Improved self-esteem is one of the top associated with physical activity, most benefits of regular physical activity. can be avoided by taking reasonable While exercising, your body releases precautions. chemicals called endorphins that can improve your mood and the way you Persons with known cardiovascular feel about yourself. The feeling that fol- disease or persons who have already lows a run or workout is often described experienced a major cardiovascular as “euphoric” and is accompanied by event, such as a heart attack, stroke, or an energizing outlook. Exercise can heart surgery, should have a physical help you cope with stress and ward off evaluation by their physician before engaging in even a moderate physical depression and anxiety. activity program. But other than in Exercise Helps build and maintain those cases, most adults do not need to healthy bones, muscles, and joints consult their physicians before engaging Back pain can be managed or prevented in moderate-intensity physical activity. with a fitness program that includes muscle strengthening and flexibility. Having good posture and a strong abdomen is the body’s best defense against back pain. Weight-bearing exercise (such as walking, jogging, stair climbing, dancing, or lifting weights) strengthens bone formation and helps prevent the osteoporosis or bone loss. Combine a diet rich in calcium and vitamin D with regular weight-bearing exercise for maximum results. According to The Journal of the American Medical Association, data from the Nurses’ Health Study If, however, they are planning to engage in vigorous-intensity physical activity, experts recommend that men over age 40 and women over age 50 should also consult a physician first. many fewer Arabs. Furthermore, the terrorists said they would continue their activities, making the exchange wrong, even if no better arrangement could have been made. He stated that the exchange was made for one reason only — because the Israeli government has so thoroughly lost its pride that it is willing to do anything to try to win the favor of the Americans and the Arabs. The Rebbe reiterated his demands that rather than give up the territories they should be settled (noting that the few new settlements opened on the West The RAMBAM Lifestyle By Yaakov Bam, Nutrition and Wellness Consultant Exercise. Exercise. Exercise. The Rambam: “Whoever is idle and does not exercise, even if he eats good foods and takes care to follow rules of medicine, will be full of pain for all his days his strength will fade away...” Do you need motivation to exercise?! Do You Want to feel better, have more energy and even live longer?! 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To find out more details about the RAMBAM Lifestyle, please see preceding and upcoming articles of the Health Interest series. To register for a free Health Lifestyle seminar, please contact Yaakov Bam. July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 13 Rebbe Story The Hillel Foundation Meets the Rebbe “When one tells a story about his Rebbe he connects to the deeds of the Rebbe” is not like nirvana. In devekut you have (Sichos 1941 pg. 68) no existence in yourself, but you are a Why didn’t Chabad establish its head- were successful in having him leave part of G-d that is permeating all your quarters in Israel? What is a Rebbe? and come to the United States. But, I being with His divinity. It is not in a What is the Chabad method to medita- believe, that even had there been a choice hidden form, but it is functioning in tion and reflection? The above mentioned between the two million Jews in the U.S. your body just as your heart, leg, etc. questions are from a first time released or the hundred thousand in Israel, where are functioning. Yechidus with the Rebbe and the Direc- they had already established yeshivas and It must permeate not only your actions tors of the Hillel Foundation. This Yiddishkeit (Judaism), he would have but your understanding and intelfascinating Yechidus took place during chosen the harder field to work with and ligence. Performing a mitzvah is the then summer of August 1959. I would not the most convenient. There was more action itself—like putting the tefillin like to thank all the Editors from The challenge here in Brooklyn. (phylacteries) on your head—you can Avner Institute for all of their efforts Q: Lubavitch is systematic, and the put it on your head and at the same time in helping to publish this Yechidus. neo-Orthodox in Israel do not have think about business or politics. That is Special thanks to Rabbi Groner, one some of the frustrations of the Jews in called machshovot zerot—your thoughts of the Rebbe’s Secretaries, for allowing galut (exile). are in another world. You can think this Yechidus to be released for the first R: It has no connection with being about the perush hamilim (meaning time from his Archive. To read more Orthodox or systematic. It deals with of the words) itself but it touches your beautiful encounters of the Rebbe visit choosing a spot where you have no help understanding only and goes no deeper. www.inspiringageneration.com. or choosing a spot where you can rest If you say the blessing with hitlahavut twelve or fifteen hours a day. It doesn’t Rebbe: If I remember correctly, when (enthusiasm), then it not only touches depend upon the ideal but whether the we met last time it was discussed that your understanding but your feelings human being is seeking an easy way out everyone must always be going mechayil also. If this hitlahavut goes deeper or seeking to accomplish something, al chayil (from strength to strength). As and much more, then it can bring him and in a certain period of time. My a year has elapsed in between, probably to a stage of ecstasy till he forgets the father-in-law always sought something every one of us is more efficient. I would environment around him. That is, it that was difficult to perform, that no one like to hear besoros tovos (good news) permeates all your faculties. wanted to do voluntarily, and began by about your achievements. doing something revolutionary. A mitzvah can be performed limited Question: “Chayil” also means a soldier and no more, but if you perform it to a of war. Is there any connection to going In 1940, Orthodoxy in the U.S. was going maximum, then it brings you to ecstasy from “strength to strength?” down. In Israel, it was going up, and in and even the movement of your head and R: Yes, a solder is forced to go to war; he Europe it was at the same level more or involuntary movements are also under must go higher even against his will. less. When my father-in-law first heard the impact of this mitzvah. Thus the Q: Why didn’t the Lubavitcher move- that the Hasidim were trying to bring saying of the Ba’al Shem Tov (founder ment choose to go to Israel instead of him to the U.S., his first thought was that of Hasidism) that every day before his the U.S.? this is a place where his energies can best prayer he was afraid that he may not R: The Lubavitcher movement came be applied. Neo-Orthodoxy is trying to come out of this activity alive. to the U.S. in 1940, when the British fight assimilation while it is still only a Mandate was in full power. If you have seed, as it is much easier to annihilate Q: Shabbatai Zvi and his followers used a certain amount of energy and it is something when it is beginning than mystical Kabbalah to break away from your intention to use it to a maximum after it is fully grown. halacha (Jewish law), as they considof efficiency, you must apply it where it ered Kabbalah the true procedure for Q: A re you not concer ned w it h can be used to maximum efficiency. themselves. Perhaps this way may be the assimilation? Q: Do you mean that there are more reason the [18th century scholar] Vilna R: That is our prime interest. Twenty Gaon objected to Hasidic teachings? Jewish people here that will be helped years ago there were three reasons for by your ideals? R: As for comparing the movement of assimilation: 1) escape . . . 3) rescue. R: There is more possibility to help more Shabbatai Zvi to the Hassidic moveNow assimilation is looked down upon people in Brooklyn than in Tel Aviv. ment—every movement that is started by all three groups. Q: Is that why you chose Brooklyn, and by someone of the Jewish people has Q: Please state your attitude about not some other city like Chicago? some common point because it was devekut (Divine ecstasy). R: The real reason is because my fatherstarted by a Jew. Shabbatai Zvi also was R: Do you have a specific question in in-law wanted a place where he could a scholar not only in Kabbalah but in mind? influence a great number of students. And halacha, but after a few years he deviated Q: No. I wanted to hear the Lubavitcher this can be done more easily in Brooklyn from the right derech (path). It became interpretation. than in Baltimore or Chicago. something that not was only deviant just R: Every human being, by his connection Q: If the British Mandate had not been in the opposite of Judaism. with G-d Almighty, has no limitation Israel, would he have chosen Israel? Hasidism and Kabbalah are called in the to his possibilities, because he has in R: I don’t believe so; you do not have Zohar penimiut (inward). That includes his store not only his own energy but the possibilities there that you have in that there must be something hitzoniut an open channel to receive additional the United States. (outward). Kabbalah is not something energy from above. To have this channel Q: Did the entire Lubavitcher movement that you can dissect and throw away one open is called “devekut.” You can be a come to the U.S. at one time, or did they thing, because if you accept one part if it very long distance from the powerhouse come as individuals? is a necessity that you accept the other and you can become closer and closer to R: Lubavitcher congregations were part. When someone comes to a concluentering the powerhouse itself. And you established in the U.S. over fifty years sion against halacha, he is deviating. If can become a part of the Being we call ago. They invited my father in-law (the you are logical, you must come to the G-d Almighty. That is the maximum of Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe) as a politiconclusion that Kabbalah and Hasidism devekut. It does not mean that the soul cal rescue from Poland, which was under must exist; because without them there parts from the guf (body), because the German occupation. The Hasidim in is something missing. The same thing--if body is also a creation. It becomes not the U.S. intervened through the State you accept Kabbalah and negate halacha, only closer and closer, but it becomes Department. They explained to the State you are negating something that is a part; forlorn in Divinity. And yet, soon after Department the advantages of having his and you are negating the basis on which that, he can eat his seudat Shabbat leadership here in the U.S., and through you are standing. (Sabbath meal) and go to his business the American Embassy in Berlin they after Havdalah (close of Shabbat) – it The Vilna Gaon did not negate Kabbalah, because he had his own group and he learned Kabbalah. In his opinion, it was something not to be learned with a large group, but to be taught to only a select group, as the others are not able to grasp Kabbalah and must be satisfied with halacha. But there must be a select group above them that learns Kabbalah. Shabbatai Zvi negated halacha. In the time of Shabbatai Zvi there was a group of Catholic priests that translated Kabbalistic manuscripts and studied Kabbalah. But this is not considered Jewish Kabbalah, as the Catholics did not put on tefillin. It is just like someone in Sorbonne, Brooklyn College, or some other university who can learn Kabbalah without putting on tefillin. For true Kabbalah cannot be separated from halacha. The terminology of these two kinds of Kabbalah is penimiut and hitzoniut (true and false Kabbalah): the body and the neshama (soul). Q: How do you start with your students? Should I begin to talk to them about hitlahavut or just do the mitzvoth? R: Now is such an era that you must choose with every individual his own approach. If you can take him with hitlahavut or devekut, do it that way. But the main thing is the actual mitzvah and you can choose your own approach. If you estimate your congregation or audience that it can be approached more effectively by explaining hitlahavut, then choose this way. The mistake is if he begins with one thing and then goes no further. If he begins with ma’asah (actual mitzvah), then he has the most essential part of it, and if the audience goes to sleep you have achieved the essential. But if you begin with devekut or hitlahavut and then they go to sleep, they will not know about the most important part—ma’asah bepoel (actual doing). Q: I came across a great amount of children who expressed bitterness against their parents. Can you suggest an approach to turn this bitterness into love? R: Although there is no general remedy that will apply to each individual, nevertheless there is one common point. In growing up he must encounter difficulties and obstacles in his way—the world is changing, his body is changing, and this presents obstacles to him. He needs someone for a scapegoat, ashma. The only person who has been with him all his life is his parent, and if he has no strength of character to say to himself that he must overcome these obstacles—even if it is connected with the biggest event in his life—then he must find someone to put the finger on. His road is not easy to go on. He must choose his father and mother to blame, because he knows his teacher only one or two years and he experienced these difficulties before that. If he can put his finger on his mother or father, he has a perfect excuse. Explain to your audience the real reason they choose their parents for their accusations, but do not stress this point Continued on Page 14 14 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Tammuz Yahrzeiten This week we continue with the Yahrzeiten of people who lived in our shechuna. We are also including the Yahrzeiten of Shluchim. In mentioning them we nifter in 1995. come to “v’Hachai yiten el Libo”. We learn lessons from their lives that we can incorporate into our own. This column includes the Yahrzeiten from the 23rd of Women Tamuz through the 27th of Tamuz. The respective resting places of the individuals 18th of Tamuz noted in this column are near the holy Ohel, unless otherwise specified. Mrs. Yocheved Miriam Karasik 23rd of Tamuz Harav Hachosid V’Hatomim Chaim Tzvi Konikov The wife of Horav Hachossid Reb Horav Hachossid Reb Shmaya Yaakov Boruch, who served as a mashKrinsky He learned in the city of Lubavitch, giach in Yeshiva Tomchei Tmimim in Russia in Tomchi Temimim and merThe son of Horav Hachossid Hatomim Lubavitch, she was widowed at a young ited to be a Ben-Bayis in the home of the Reb Zev, he was a shochet for more than age and on her own, raised her children Rebbe Rashab where he became very fifty years and sacrificed himself to raise according to the teachings of Torah close with his son and successor, the his children according to Torah and and Chassidus. She collected Tzedoko Rebbe Rayatz. In Yeshiva Reb Chaim Mitzvos. He was nifter in 1963. to distribute privately to mosdos and Tzvi was considered to be an Illuy – a families, and left grandchildren and Horav Hachossid Hato- genius – and he received the title of great grandchildren in the Zarchi, mim Reb Boruch Sho- “Yoreid L’umkai shel Halacha”. After Gansburg and Majesky families, who his marriage to Rebbetzin Brina, he lom Schwei are shluchim worldwide. She was nifter became the Rav of 3 shuls in Smolensk. The son of Horav Hachoin 1962. In 1930 after having yechidus with ssid Reb Mordechai Elithe Frierdicke Rebbe in Riga, he and 24th of Tamuz yohu was born in Finland. As a young his family moved to America where Mrs. Esther Malka Levinson orphan from his father, his mother he became the Rav of the Tzemach Bunya sent her children with a chossid Tzedek shul in Williamsburg. Harav The daughter of Horav Hachossid to study at the Lubavitcher Yeshiva in Chaim Tzvi then founded the “Chevra Reb Menachem and the wife of Horav Samarkand where Reb Boruch Bholom Machazikei Hatorah” and the Mesibos Hachossid Hatomim Reb Hillel, she excelled in his studies. He was a modest Shabbos groups and was among the was a modest and G-d fearing woman, and private person as well as a great founders of the Bais Rivkah school with a strong emuna and bitochon. She scholar who was well-versed in sforim Network. He also introduced the idea suffered ill health from childhood, sacand knew many by heart. For parnossa, of Wednesday hour to the Frierdicke rificed herself to bring up her children he worked as a typesetter in the Rebbe who launched it. At one time the in a righteous manner, and worked Balshan/Ezra printing shop, where Rayatz told him: “He wants a chelek with enormous energy to help others they printed the sforim of Kehot in everything he does.” He was from in need. She merited having children and many other sforim on Torah the first to put Torah and Neginah serving as the Rebbe’s Shluchim. She subjects. Reb Boruch Sholom on wire, record and tape for the was nifter in 2005. would catch mistakes or purpose of promoting Chassidus errors in the manuscripts to “Hamon Am”. There are Rebbe Story of many Rabbonim and numerous Igros Kodesh printed Continued from Page 13 authors of sforim, and as correspondence to him from he would protect them too hard. Tomorrow or the day after the Rebeim. Chaim Tzvi was from major embarrasstomorrow they will be less bitter. Do an emese, dugma-chaya of a ment. This caused him not expect them to stand up on the first pioneer of yiddishkeit to his day and say “ashamnu (I have sinned).” to become the most children and to all who knew him, sought after typesetter Zichrono L’vrocho. Q: How is it that I saw that the leadership by authors who insisted of Lubavitch was transmitted through a on waiting so he could be the 25th of Tamuz daughter not through a son? typesetter of their Sefer to help them Reb Yisochor Dov Silber R: You probably mean after the son of the with their Chibur. The Rebbe, once Alter Rebbe (“Old Rabbi”--Shneur Zalreferring to Reb Boruch Sholom, said, The son of Reb Moshe, he sacrificed man of Liadi, first Lubavitcher Rebbe). “I could not find the key to him.” He himself to guide his family in the ways He had two sons but they begged the was nifter in the midst of his life after of Torah and Mitzvos. He was nifter son-in-law to take over the leadership. in 1999. a painful illness in 1974. Q: Is it ideals and not heredity that Horav Hachossid Hato- 26th of Tamuz decides the leadership? R: Only ideals. Only someone who has mim Reb Av rohom Horav Hachossid Menachem Majerczyk the aptitude in a certain direction. If you Hatomim Reb Chaim have a father who all of his life has conThe son of Hatomim Reb Dovid Nota Wichnin secrated himself toward certain ideals Tzvi Elozor, he studied The son of Hor av so that it permeates his very existence, it Nigla and Chassidus in Hachossid Reb Nach- must also permeate his wife and children. an especially engrossed manner. He m a n Do v, he w a s If he is permeated by a certain idea, the had a kvius with a friend for many mekushar to the Rebbe and committed first subjects to be impressed by it will years in the early hours of the morning to fulfilling his shlichus to spread Torah be his son or his daughter. If the subject and merited to complete the study of and Chassidus with love and affection. is Torah or Kabbalah, the son is more the Zohar. He always had a comment He was a distinguished educator, who adaptable than the daughter. [Aside or a humorous word to be msameach in his entire life involved himself in to the only woman present: “You will another Yid. He was nifter in the midst educating boys and girls. He served excuse me for saying this, as it is not my of his life in 2003. as the spiritual dean at Yeshiva Achei idea.”] The reason for the leadership is 24th of Tamuz Tmimim in Amton, and served for not because he was his son, but because eighteen years as the Rosh Yeshiva he has a maximum of piety, education, Horav Hachossid Hatomim Reb in Tiferes Bochurim in Morristown and hitlahavut; he received it from his Schneur Zalman Getzel Halevi and as the Rav at the Tzemach Tzedek father and his environment and thus has Rubashkin Shul in Monsey. He worked with a a bigger chance. The Tzemach Tzedek The son of Horav Hachossid Reb special fervor in fulfilling the Rebbe’s (third Lubavitcher Rebbe) was an orphan Sholom Halevi, he sacrificed himself directives and Mivtzoim, and attracted from the third year of his life, and the to instill in his family a love of and people from many different circles. Alter Rebbe took care of his education hiskashrus to the Rebbeim and chas- He was born in 1939, on the 26th of personally. Thus, he had more chances sidim. He was nifter in 1983. Menachem Av in Bobruisk and was to receive this education than even the 25th of Tamuz Mrs. Zishe Gordon The daughter of Horav Hachossid Reb Nissan and the wife of Horav Hachossid Hatomim Reb Yochanon Gordon, the Gabai in 770, she was involved in hosting guests, and her house was always open to chassidim. She was nifter in 1957. 27th of Tamuz Mrs. Mirel Deitsch The daughter of Horav Hachossid Reb Menachem Mendel and the wife of Reb Horav Hachossid Hatomim Sholom Yeshaya, she sacrificed herself for the upbringing and education of Jewish daughters and in a pleasant and delightful way and was mkarev many Yidden to Yiddishkeit. She was nifter in 1994. We should speedily witness, “The ones who dwell in the dust will awaken and rejoice,” with all the above-mentioned individuals amongst them. Dear Readers: Anyone who would like to have their relatives mentioned in the yahrzeit column should email the name, father’s name, date of the petira and some details to [email protected]. A picture may be included. sons of the Mittler (Second Lubavitcher) Rebbe. This is the answer for an intellectual. If you are a Hasid you must accept a more spiritual explanation: Rebayus (leadership) is not motivated by something accidental or monetary but by something above us. The son of the Mezritcher Maggid (successor to the Ba’al Shem Tov) was his successor for only five years. After that he was niftar (passed away). It is not dependent upon something physical, but something spiritual and divine. I wish you a kesiva vechasim tova (Happy New Year), and next year I will ask you more forcefully about your achievements. Q: In camus or aichus (quality or quantity)? R: You know that Einstein said that camus always transfers into aichus (mass into energy). There is an interesting quotation in Medrash Rabbah that if there had been one Jew missing of the six hundred thousand at Sinai, G-d would not have given the Torah. Not a Jew like Moshe Rabbeinu (Moses) but even the Jew that had a pesel mika (idol) in his tent—had he been missing, the Torah would not have been given. Nine Moses’ cannot make a minyan (quorum of ten Jewish men) to say a kedusha, even though there would be a tremendous power of quality; but if you have ten in quantity you can say kedusha. Similarly, the Medrash says that in giving the Torah you must have six hundred thousand. That is the best proof that quantity and quality have a transformation from one into the other. July 25, 2008 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 15 CHJCC The CAREER Shadchan It’s Teen Time! Ohr Chaya Mushka: An Exciting New Summer Pro- “Hello, my name is Isaac. Can I speak well-known accounting firm, a respectgram for Girls able financial firm and a major business to the employment department?” company. We have successfully placed It’s Shabbos afternoon in the big, several candidates in those firms. “Speaking.” bustling city of New York. Some are Davening, while others are still enjoy“I am looking for 2 secretaries for our There is a great demand for administraing a tasteful Shabbos meal. Some insurance company. I am very happy tive secretaries, social workers as well housewives may be clearing the remains with the girls you sent me in the past. as positions for high school graduates. of an overflowing table, filled to the brim I am looking to change our image. We are continuously filling those with food and guests, while others may I would like to replace some of the positions. have settled down for a well- deserved staff here with applicants from Crown afternoon rest. The more active of the Heights. Your girls are more profes- Some of our clients only want manual children are running around, perspiring sional and educated. They provide jobs such as painting, handyman, roofin their now-not-so-freshly laundered better customer service and get along ing, carpentry, locksmiths and more. Shabbos outfits, while the subdued We have helped them create flyers with easily with everyone.” types are curled up with a book. their information. I have been happy to “Thank you. I appreciate the feedback. hear that the flyers were instrumental And then there are a couple dozen It’s always good to hear that the employ- in generating business for them. teenage girls. Still in the hot city during ers are satisfied with the employees that the summer, they are meandering their we send them. Now if you tell me what Many people bring in resumes listing way over to 1349 President St. – the you are looking for, the job description, their experience and wonder why Rubashkin residence. Why? What hours and pay, I will try to find the right they are not being hired. We review attracts them to leave the comforts of candidate for you.” the resumes and upgrade them in a the air conditioner and venture out? manner that they sell themselves. For What could girls from 9th through 12th Interestingly enough, I have been those clients who don’t know how to grade possibly be doing every Shabreceiving calls of this nature from create a proper resume, we identify bos afternoon at 7:15 pm, and every several employers lately. Our dedication their strengths, experience, and educaWednesday evening at 8:00 pm? to matching people with the right job or tion and help them create their first changing to a better job is paying off. resume. One client, who had 20 years of Ohr Chaya Mushka, sponsored by the experience in a specific field, had never Crown Heights Community Council, To date, some of our notable successes written a resume before. Working with is a program specifically geared towards have been in helping an architect find him for more than 3 days, we generated teens. Twice a week, the girls gather a job with an upcoming real estate a professional looking resume and together in a lounge to hear inspiring development company. He came back e-mailed it to several employers. One and uplifting speakers, participate to tell us that he was hired and that he of the employers responded that he was in myriads of different activities and was very happy because it was a job in very impressed with the resume and workshops, and schmooze over good his field He wanted a job where he can immediately set up an appointment food. use his expertise and experience and for our client. was happy that he actually found one Mrs. Leah Blecher, program co-ordiBeing a career shadchan, we want to so quickly. nator says, “The long summer days can make sure that the match doesn’t turn get lonesome and boring…. We have More recently, a graphic artist was hired sour. We have therefore been providing created a program in which the girls by two companies that we referred her our clients with access to tips and career look forward to attend!” to. She asked us for advice on which counseling services. company to choose. We counseled Ohr Chaya Mushkah, the brainchild of her and advised her to choose the Stop by at our employment department Rivky Lasker, has managed to attract a company where she now works, based to find your bashert job! large and diverse crowd. Rivky explains on her needs and preferences. She how they bring speakers the girls want came back to thank us and told us Bella Vilenkin to hear. “Whether we have Tzameret that she is extremely happy there - the Employment Counselor Borowitz speaking about seeing the environment is warm, family-like and Crown Heights Jewish Community positive in everything or Shimi Weineasygoing. She feels her boss appreci- Council baum on how to be a Chosid, the girls ates her work. She just enjoys getting 387 Kingston Ave. are excited to hear what they have to up and going to work every day. Brooklyn, NY 11225 say, and they come.” 718-778-8808 ext. 23 We developed a relationship with a [email protected] On average, 45-50 teens will show up for an event. The coordinators, Rivky Lasker and Mrs. Leah Blecher, make sure to plan a fun aspect to the program as well. Aerobics, jewelry making, The Food Stamps program has waived the drum circle, pottery – these are just to $2000 level requirement. Please note that you name a few. Of course, delicious food accompanies every program with sponstill have to be a citizen and income eligible. sors coming from food corporations such as Bunch O’ Bagels and Café K. With every aspect covered, it’s well understood why the attendance rate It is very important that you take the name of the is so high! ATTENTION person you talk to when you call any government agency. It is good practice when you call any company but when you call an agency it could make all the difference to your case. Don't forget take a name!! The secret to the success of Ohr Chaya Mushka is, in fact, quite simple. The coordinators make sure to organize programs that interest the teens. Instead of moping around Shabbos afternoon, there is now a delicious Shalos Seudos, with a worthwhile farbrengen to boot. Wednesday evenings’ feature dance classes, aerobics, and other aesthetic activities all paired up with an incredible out-of-town speaker! In truth, despite Ohr Chaya Mushka being such an enjoyable experience, there is a serious undertone as well. The program coordinators, attendees, and all those involved are doing so as a zchus for a complete Refuah Shleimah for a dear friend of many, ‘Orah Meital Bas Baila.’ The girls that come realize the power of Achdus, and have already taken upon themselves a Hachlata to learn a Halacha from the Kitzur Shulchan Oruch every Shabbos get-together. They are currently up to Hilchos Negel Vasser, and I”YH, will continue thus far. May Ohr Chaya Mushka bring much nachas to the Rebbe, and in the Zchus of the tremendous efforts put out to strengthen our youth, may we celebrate the coming of Moshiach even before the next Ohr Chaya Mushka program! Of course, there are many people involved, behind the scenes. Mrs. Rivka Shur from the community council, ensures that the various technical details are being taken care of and the appealing food buffets are set up by the talented Chani Rubashkin. Last (but certainly not least) what would Gashmius be without Ruchnios? Mrs. Leah Schapiro, a noted Mechaneches and community activist acts as an advisor to the coordinators and helps the coordinators plan the agenda as well. What’s on the agenda? To name a few: Rachel Benchimol from Upper East Side, Manhattan, Rabbi Samuels from Connecticut, Rabbi Weinstein from Brooklyn Heights, and the beloved Rabbi Korn from Manhattan College Campus. Thanks to Moshe Rubashkin’s belief in creating infrastructure for our youth, not to mention Faigy Rubashkin’s warm hospitality, Ohr Chaya Mushka has really taken off, and will I”YH continuously expand. “We have already decided to lengthen our Shabbos program,” explains Mrs. Leah Blecher. “The camaraderie is so incredible with the singing and niggunim that it will now extend to Havdalah and the watching of Living Torah.” Please spread the word. All girl teens from 9th grade through 12th grade are welcome to attend every Wednesday at 8:00 pm and Shabbosim at 7:15pm to 1349 President St. Of course, there is no fee, but growth, gains and loads of fun to be expected. For more information call 917 202 2185. See you there! 16 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~July 25, 2008 Gimmel Tamuz Conclusion exert pressure on the Soviets. Both the Jewish communities of Germany and Latvia issued invitations to the Rebbe Continued from page 11 to become their chief Rabbi, and sent The Yevsektzia let it be known that they representatives to present their offer to would like to take matters into their own the Russians. hands, at the first opportunity — and At first, both communities vied for this time they will act before the govthe privilege of having the Rebbe live ernment could interfere. Their threats amongst them, and they both put made it clear that the Frierdiker Rebbe pressure on the government separately. was no longer safe in Leningrad. Despite their efforts, the Soviet Regime Once again, the Rebbe moved, this time would not relent. There was no way the to Malachovka, a small suburb outside Rebbe was going to leave Russia. of Moscow. He hoped that his leaving Reb Mordechai Dubin was a member would satisfy the Yevsektzia; now they of the Latvian parl iament. Being the can claim victory, for they have successLatvian government’s representative fully banished the Lubavitcher Rebbe he was greeted with great honor, since from Leningrad! Russia was extremely interested in Unfortunately, despite the Rebbe’s negotiating a friendship and commerce hopeful optimism, the tide did not treaty with Latvia. He journeyed to turn. The Yevsektzia continued their Russia three times, vainly attempting to personal attacks and constant vigilance. acquire permission for the Lubavitcher From their writings and actions, it was Rebbe to assume the post as Chief obvious that they would stop at nothing Rabbi in Latvia. Finally he hit upon a to capture the Rebbe again. This time, ruse: he would trick the government the Rebbe’s very life appeared to be in into allowing the Rebbe to leave! danger, and it became obvious that the At his next meeting with the Soviet Rebbe would have to leave Russia. officials, Reb Mord echai took the Making the decision to go was relatively offensive. He angrily lashed out at them, simple; obtaini ng visas and permis- saying the Latvians were sorely insulted sion to move proved to be much more by the actions of the Russian governdifficult. ment. After repeatedly rebuffing their requests to allow the Rebbe to come to The Russian government refused to give Latvia, Reb Mordechai himself heard permission to the Rebbe to emigrate. that the Russians had agreed to respect Once again, the Chassidim turned to the German delegation’s request! How other countries for help, and to try to could he cast his deciding vote in the parliament in favor of normalizing rela- was a redemption for every Jew. tions with the Soviet Union, if Latvia’s Epilogue honor is being slighted? Chassidus explains that the purpose of Not suspecting that Reb Mordechai every concealment is to bring out an was lying, the Russians grudgingly even greater revelation of light and holigave permission to the Rebbe to move ness. What then, was accomplished by to Latvia, with the promise on Reb the Frierdiker Rebbe’s being sentenced Mordechai’s part to vote in favor of to jail and his subsequent liberation, Russia. that was not already brought to light Originally they gave permission only with the Alter Rebbe’s and the Mitteler for the Rebbe to leave, but his family Rebbe’s arrest and imprisonment? and library must remain. They would be Didn’t the previous Rebbeim’s arrests used as hostages to prevent the Rebbe show that Chassidus must continue to from any anti-Soviet activity. be publicized? The negotiations continued and the Russian Government finally relented and allowed the Rebbe, his family then his library and a few Chassidism to emigrate to Latvia. The Rebbe explains: “The liberation of the Alter Rebbe and the Mitteler Rebbe showed that Chassidus may be revealed to all, and in abundance. After Yud Beis Tammuz, however, Chassidus began to actually spread throughout the world, Before leaving Russia, the Frierdiker illuminating every area of the globe.” Rebbe went to Rostov one final time to daven by the Ohel of his father the Rebbe Rashab. Accompanying him was his daughter Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka (who was with him since Kostroma). It is believed that the Rebbe took her along so she could daven by the Ohel before her chasuna. On Thursday, Isru Chag of Succos, the Rebbe and his family left Russia. 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