the february 2016 csi bulletin
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the february 2016 csi bulletin
Congregation Sons of Israel CONTINUING THE VISION — BUILDING OUR FUTURE FEBRUARY 2016 22 Shevat - 20 Adar I 5776 FEBRUARY DATES TO REMEMBER (times on page 17): Feb. 1 Five Things You Always Wanted to Know….The Spanish Inquisition Feb. 6 Babysitting Night (see flyer on page 18) Feb. 7 World Wide Wrap (see inside front cover) Feb. 14-21 NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Feb. 15 OFFICE CLOSED. PRESIDENTS’ DAY. Feb. 15-19 NO NURSERY SCHOOL Feb. 28 Cookie Club AIPAC Policy Conference 2016 March 20-22 SOCIAL ACTION WINTER COAT DRIVE (hats and mittens, too!) BRING YOUR CLEAN, GENTLY USED WARM COATS to CSI during the month of February. Coats in any size for men, women, and children are needed. Hang them on the specially marked coat rack in the lobby (bins for the hats and mittens below). They will be donated to IFCA (Interfaith Community Action) in Ossining. Casual jackets and ski parkas are preferred, but any warm coats are acceptable. Let’s help assure that everyone in our community is bundled up and warm during these cold days. DON’T MISS CSI’S 16th ANNUAL WRAP! JOIN OTHER MEN’S CLUBS FOR THIS WORLDWIDE EVENT! SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 7. MORE INFO ON INSIDE COVER! CSI’s ORGANIC MARKET IS OPEN SUNDAYS, FEBRUARY 7 & 28, 10:30 am - 1:30 pm LOCAL PRODUCE! FRESHLY GROWN! MARCH 5, 2016 Full details on page 16 Have you heard about our Outreach Committee yet? See page 4 for details! Men’s Club World Wide Wrap From The Rabbi Kol Nidre 5776 Outreach Committee Cantorial Notes Recent Contributions Youth Community News From the President Mazal Tov and Condolences page 2 page 3 page 4 page 4 page 5 page 6 page 7 page 9 page 10 CSI Babysitters Birthdays and Anniversaries Synagogue in Pune, India Sisterhood News AIPAC Conference 2016 Vegas Night at CSI CSI Calendar Men’s Club News Caring Community page 11 page 12 page 13 page 14 page 15 page 16 page 17 page 19 page 20 CSI’s Zoe Scheier Wins Award Social Action Committee Donations Form Five Things...With Rabbi Kane Social Committee PJ Library Fine Arts Enrichment Class Advertisements page 22 page 23 page 25 page 25 page 26 page 26 page 27 page 28 Page 2 Congregation Sons of Israel Congregation Sons of Israel 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Phone: (914) 762-2700 Fax: (914) 941-3465 www.csibriarcliff.org [email protected] OUR MISSION STATEMENT (adopted 1999, revised 2007): Congregation Sons of Israel is an egalitarian, Conservative synagogue dedicated to imparting Jewish values and traditions from generation to generation in a welcoming participatory environment. We are a caring community committed to lifelong Jewish learning, the observance of mitzvot, meaningful prayer and charitable deeds. We promote spiritual, cultural and social connections within our community, to the State of Israel, and to Jews worldwide. Rabbi Steven C. Kane [email protected] Cantor Jeffrey Shiovitz [email protected] February 2016 $3 and 45 minutes of your time… On Sunday, February 7th, CSI will participate in the 15th annual "World Wide Wrap." Co-chaired by Jason Eidlitz and Elliott Barish, it is a day when men, women and teenagers are encouraged (but not required) to wrap tefillin in support of Jews around the world. We are seeking donations to support CSI’s USY group, as well as for the purchase of tefillin to be delivered to Conservative/Masorti congregations in Latin America. So please, come on the 7th, wrap tefillin (if you don't have a set, we do) and donate a minimum of $3 (cash or checks made out to CSI) for this worthwhile cause. “Wrapping” (we will teach you how to wrap) begins at 9:00 AM, followed by a short service. Breakfast is included! RSVP to: Elliott Barish [email protected] or Jason Eidlitz jshoe- [email protected] Thanks, and we are looking forward to hearing from you! Jason & Elliott Educational Director: Roni Shapiro Ben-David [email protected] Synagogue Director: Ellen Green Johnson [email protected] School Admin./Office Mgr.: Doreen Gioio [email protected] OFFICERS: Jack Zinn, President [email protected] Elliot Barish, VP Steven Bender, VP Aaron Gershowitz, VP Roberta Kay, VP Bob Margolies, Treasurer [email protected] Eric Nadler, VP, Secretary Andrew Kagan, Past President Bulletin Editor: Jolie Levy [email protected] All submissions for the CSI March 2016 Bulletin must be received by Wed., Feb. 10. They may be emailed to Jolie Levy at [email protected]. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 3 FROM THE RABBI Steven C. Kane 324 Days of Kaddish According to Jewish tradition, although mourning for a parent lasts for 12 months, the recitation of mourner's kaddish is only for 11 of those 12 months (other mourning practices, such as not attending public celebrations, concerts, etc. continue though the 12th month). Many reasons are given for this "break" between reciting kaddish during the year and the first yahrzeit, but the most cogent it seems to me is the one that recognizes that there needs to be a few weeks preceding the first yahrzeit when kaddish is not being recited in order to give greater meaning to the first anniversary of the person's passing. The process of reciting kaddish has been truly remarkable. It has been filled with contradictions. It has been both liberating and oppressive, uplifting and depressing, spiritual and tedious all at once. Perhaps that's because of the mind set of the mourner, which is to live a year which seems almost outside of our usual concepts of time and space. It has been remarkably educational, taking me to synagogues and minyanim, some of which I probably never would have set foot in. During the past 11 months, I have attended services (in Israel and America) at over 25 different places, many of which were not even synagogues. I have attended minyanim at the break of dawn and as late as 10:30pm at night. I have a "minyan finder " app (amazing isn't it!) that brought me to office buildings, factories, book stores, baseball stadiums and synagogues of all sizes, shapes and traditions. I have recited kaddish in Reform, Conservative, Orthodox, UltraOrthodox, Sephardi, Ashkenazi, and Chasidic settings. In many of these places, I was called on to lead the service, as a mourner takes precedence over most others in leading a weekday service. This was particularly meaningful and gratifying in Israel, where I would often appear at a minyan for the first time and immediately get asked if I wanted to serve as the shaliach tzibbur (leader). I am especially grateful to the members of our community who have been so diligent at making certain that there would be a minyan for me at CSI as often as possible. For some, that meant coming to meetings 15-20 minutes earlier than the starting time. For others it meant an ongoing commitment to attend our weekday morning service, getting up extra early and truly inconveniencing themselves. In particular, I want to thank the many people who came to our house Shabbat afternoons. Knowing that I would want to recite kaddish as often as possible, I had always wondered what I would do Shabbat afternoons when we don't have a regular service at shul and I cannot travel elsewhere to find one. We started at the beginning of the year combining forces with Chabad and holding a service with a few members of their community. Ultimately, though, it was both easier and more comfortable to get eight more people (aside from me and Judy) to come to our house, where of course both men and women counted. That service was only made possible through the diligence and commitment of one young woman, Sarah Teitelbaum, who lead the service and read Torah each week. I will be forever grateful to her for what she did in making that service not only possible, but also beautiful. On January 29th, I will have completed the recitation of mourner's kaddish for my mother, Gladys Kane, Zahava Chana bat Sheima v'Feiga Shprintza. Since the Jewish year is only 354 days (in a non-leap year), that meant kaddish was said every day since my mother's funeral for 324 days straight, a total of well over 1000 times (while there are only three services a day, mourner’s kaddish is recited in the morning services anywhere from 2-4 times). I am grateful that our tradition provided me with such a meaningful way to mourn her death. May her memory be for a blessing. L'hitraot, Page 4 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 KOL NIDRE 5776 Every contribution helps us meet our annual operating budget. Thank you to all those who made donations! Steven & Bonnie Bromberg David Perelman & Faye Dittelman Mr. & Mrs. Samuel Ginsberg* Jerome & Myra Gordon* Mr. & Mrs. Neal Haber Mr. & Mrs. Craig Jampol Mr. & Mrs. Barry Kirschner Mr. & Mrs. David Levitt Dr. Kevin & Mrs. Sonia Mathisson John & Helene Miller *denotes a donation of $500 or more. Mark & Elise Mottel* Mr. & Mrs. Allen Saperstein Mr. & Mrs. Jordan Schiffman Mr. & Mrs. Adam Semler* Mr. & Mrs. Edward Sperling Mr. & Mrs. Aaron Stern* Mr. & Mrs. Fred Weinstein Ms. Debra Young Jack Zinn & Darlene Fairman* Kol Nidre donations are tax-deductible. The CSI Outreach Committee We have had two informative and spirited parlor meetings, and there will be more this month. Come and share your ideas and thoughts about your Jewish life and how CSI can meet your needs. Please let us know if you are interested in attending one of our meetings: Sunday, February 7th at 9:00 a.m. Thursday, February 25th at 7:30 p.m. We are also encouraging members to host a parlor meeting at their home and invite fellow congregants, as well. Please let us know what date works best for you by sending an RSVP to the CSI Outreach Committee at [email protected] or by calling 914.302.9880. The sessions will accommodate up to 10 people and will be on a first-to-sign-up basis. Looking forward to meeting with you! Additional parlor meeting dates will be added in March. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 5 CANTORIAL NOTES Hazzan Jeffrey Shiovitz BRINGING PRAYER BACK INTO OUR LIVES An article in The New York Times, written by the religion editor of that paper, described the renewed interest here in America. The article stated “From burgeoning numbers of retreat houses and spiritual centers of various faiths, the message is the same: ‘a prayer revival is the most powerful, least documented development within American life today.’” Thankfully, the author of this article is not writing about prayer in the schools or about fundamentalism. Rather, his focus is on well-educated, middleclass Americans who are turning inward in quest of a deeper faith and a more meaningful destiny. What these people are seeking is spiritual direction. Among them are well-educated, sophisticated Jews who are striving “to get in touch with the spirit as it speaks to us now.” To acquire an inwardness, a sensitivity to the spiritual, a sharing atmosphere of religious experience, the Jew have always turned to tefilah (prayer). Prayer, even for the most learned and pious, is not an automatic response. It involves an attitude, an atmosphere, a sound, an emotion, a need. It can fall away and evaporate under too much analysis and explanation. Music has always been and still is the most important factor of transmitting the feeling of the prayers. Next HaMishpacha Luncheon: Tuesday, March 8, 12:30pm PLEASE STAY INSIDE AND BE WARM IN JANUARY AND FEBRUARY. WATCH HERE FOR INFORMATION ON OUR MARCH LUNCHEON! For more information, please call Cantor Jeffrey Shiovitz at 762-2700. GREET OLD FRIENDS, MEET NEW ONES! Music inspires the liturgical community to the highest spiritual and emotional experience. “Shira Begimatria Tefila,” the numerical value of the Hebrew letters which constitute “shira” (song) is the same as the numerical value of the word “tefila” (prayer) = 515, thus prayer is song/song is prayer. The Psalmist says: “Shiro lo, zamru lo, sichu bechol nefleotav” (Sing to God, Chant to God, Meditate about all the wonders). This wonder or awe defies all descriptions; the mystery surpasses the limits of expression. The only language that seems to be compatible with the wonder of being is the language of music. Music is reaching beyond the verbal. Music is the soul of language. The words without a musical quality are like a body or mind without a soul. Music is the foundation and essence of the Jewish service. During the winter months, when some members leave town for warmer climates, there are times when the minyan is missing its quorum, especially on weekday mornings. It is a disappointing and frustrating experience for those who do come in order to have a full service. Let us strive to combat this inertia within us and warm ourselves spiritually through communal prayer at daily services. You will be doing yourself a favor and will also be performing a mitzvah that helps others. Bringing prayer back into our lives will strengthen and fortify our congregation and make it truly a synagogue. SYNAGOG_E….WHAT’S MISSING? “U” The minyan needs you! * * * * Enjoying the HaMishpacha luncheons and looking for a way to say thanks? Donations may be made to the Caring Community. The form is on page 25. Page 6 Congregation Sons of Israel CONTRIBUTIONS February 2016 (received through January 10, 2016) BUILDING IMPROVEMENTS FUND In memory of Adolph Jacobson In memory of Sidney Brandt CANTOR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Nathan Altman In memory of Paulette Brandt In memory of Bessie Skidelsky CARING COMMUNITY Thanking the CSI community for its support and caring after the death of my brother, Mel In memory of Annette Duke In memory of Bessie Skidelsky In memory of Paulette Brandt In honor of Fred Schulman In memory of Anna Markowitz In memory of Sam Dressler Speedy Recovery to Belle Feldman Thank you Thank you for the Shabbat dinner EDUCATIONAL DIRECTOR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Bessie Skidelsky ETZ CHAIM - TREE OF LIFE FUND In memory of Bessie Skidelsky In memory of Irving Greenberg In memory of Samuel Cohen In memory of our father, Maxwell Frank IRA KESTENBAUM BEAUTIFICATION FUND Mazal Tov to Cheryl Kestenbaum on the birth of her granddaughter, Sela Kestenbaum In memory of Bessie Skidelsky Mazal Tov to Steve & Ellen Weiser on the birth of their grandson, Zachary Mazal Tov on the marriage of Cheryl Kestenbaum's son In memory of Joan Magsitza Mazal Tov to John & Bonnie LeVar on the birth of their granddaughter, Charlotte In memory of Michael Cohen In memory of Paulette Brandt In honor of Richard & Charlotte Watt Mazal Tov to Cheryl Kestenbaum on the birth of her granddaughter, Sela Kestenbaum Bella & Bernie Jacobson Susan & Arthur Lerner Dennis Altman & Regina Rosenbaum-Altman Arthur & Susan Lerner Sharon Richter Arthur Krakowski and family Alan & Judy Duke Debbie & Elliott Barish Jewel & David Weiss Bette & Gary Slutsky Jill & Joel Greenstein Jolie Levy Marilyn & Bob Margolies Clare & Paul Rosen Rachel & Manda Schulman Annleah Berger Marci Dressler & Louis Sherman Sylvia & Susan Eisenstein Miriam & Hyman Mendelowitz Sharon Richter Sharon Richter Connie McGilvray Eric & Lisa Nadler Roberta & Rick Kay Ira & Ellen Eisenstein The Goldheim Family Arleen Neustein Eleanor Frey and family Debbie & Elliott Barish Ruth & Mel Speier Cheryl Kestenbaum Ruth & Mel Speier Cheryl Kestenbaum Ruth & Mel Speier Cheryl Kestenbaum Cheryl Kestenbaum Cheryl Kestenbaum Cheryl Kestenbaum Cheryl Kestenbaum Ilene & Jeff Calderon Ruth & Mel Speier (Continued on page 8) February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 7 YOUTH COMMUNITY NEWS Roni Shapiro, Educational Director We are so proud of all of our CSI teens that participate in all of our Teen Community programs! Berkower, Jenna Birnbaum, Daniel Casper, Daniel Cohn, Sarina Hentel, Isaac Holzberg, Nathan Holzberg, Walter Katz, David Katz, Katie Landau, Harrison Levitt, Caleb Lewis, Marissa Mathisson, Rachel Morris, Ryan Palefsky, Michael Parker-Blue, Maxwell Ramer, Brooke Scharf, Jamie Scheier, Zoe Silverstein, Jack Sternberg, David Thrope, Brendan Thrope, Rebecca Wexler, Jake Thank you to those that have paid $180 for our Teen Community programs, which allow us to offer: High School, USY & Social Action Programs. If you would still like to support our teen programs, please send in your check made out to CSI Teen Community Program. year, your support helps CSI provide programs that I believe ensure the future of Judaism. Your teenager is the next generation of Jewish leaders. Will they support Israel? Will they fight against anti-Semitism? Will they make social justice a priority in their adult lives? In college, will they seek out Jewish involvement? What’s coming up for your teen? Transgender & Jewish Jewish Mobsters Jewish Yoga & Meditation Purim Carnival USY Shul-In USY Movie Night Babysitting Night Ask to join our USY Facebook group. Contact Lindsay Yellen for USY information. [email protected] Regardless of whether or not your teenager comes each week, once a month or once in a NEXT JUNIOR CONGREGATION NEXT KADIMA SERVICE A special learning service for Alef, Bet and Gimel A special learning service for 6th and 7th graders Saturday, February 6 Saturday, February 27 10:30-12:00 (Upstairs) YES! SERVICE CREDIT IS GIVEN! 11:00-12:00 YES! SERVICE CREDIT IS GIVEN! (put your service card in front of the box) (put your service card behind the tab that says “Shabbat Morning Attendance behind here”) Service is led by Tamar Drucker Service is led by Sheera Zuckerman Future Junior Congregation Dates: Feb. 27; Mar. 5, 12; Apr. 2, 16; May 7, 14 Future Kadima Service Dates: Mar. 12; Apr. 9, May 14 PLEASE REMEMBER that both Junior Congregation and Kadima Services take place on Shabbat. Children, as well as anyone else coming inside the building on Shabbat, should be dressed appropriately. Shabbat is a “special” and holy time, and children should wear “special” clothing. No sweatpants, jeans, sports uniforms, etc. Thank you for acknowledging Shabbat as a “special” day. Page 8 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 (Continued from page 6) IRA KESTENBAUM BEAUTIFICATION FUND (CONT’D) In memory of Gerald Mach Ilene & Jeff Calderon In honor of Hal Kestenbaum & Lindsay Godt’s engagement Jeff & Cindy Kabat In honor of the birth of Sela Aviva Kestenbaum Jeff & Cindy Kabat In honor of Max Kabat & Maisie Crow's engagement Jeff & Cindy Kabat JEFFREY DITTELMAN/ROBINOV CAMP RAMAH SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Bessie Skidelsky Faye Dittelman & David Perelman In memory of Nellie Hanover Ron & Lynn Hanover In memory of Paulette Brandt Faye Dittelman & David Perelman Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family Joel & Iris Kazin Mazal Tov on the marriage of Norma & Steve Katz’ son, Eric, to Jill Siegel Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family In memory of Paul Raskin Sharon Dittelman Speedy Recovery to Belle Feldman Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family Speedy Recovery to Michael Sweedler Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family Speedy Recovery to Helen Chuckrow Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family In honor of Sean Kowlessar David Perelman, DMS Travel Group In memory of Stewart Winner Rabbi Steven C. Kane and family KIDDUSH FUND Good luck to Charlotte & Richard Watt in your new home Bette & Gary Slutsky In memory of Perla Semel Arthur Krakowski and family In memory of Deborah Wadsworth Nan & Allen Banks In memory of Nellie Hanover Ron & Lynn Hanover In memory of Herbert Rude Helene & Adam Rude MEMORIAL GARDEN FUND In memory of Arthur Baer The Baer Family NURSERY SCHOOL FUND In memory of Stewart Winner Andi & Jon Bronson PRAYER BOOK FUND In loving memory of David Rottenberg Murray Rottenberg In loving memory of Joan Rottenberg Murray Rottenberg In memory of Deborah Wadsworth Nan & Allen Banks In memory of Dr. David M. Barish The Barish Family RABBI'S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Paulette Brandt Emily & Arnold Lewis Thank you to Rabbi Kane Arthur & Susan Lerner In memory of Herb Rude Geraldine Rude In memory of Bessie Skidelsky Sharon Richter Thank you for "Jews in the News" Penina Aviram In memory of Julius Eisenstein Sylvia & Susan Eisenstein A token of appreciation Holly Cohen In honor of Jay and Arlene Neveloff Stephen Kingsley RACHEL GREENSTEIN CHILDREN'S RESOURCE LIBRARY FUND In memory of Rachel Greenstein Harvey Grosberg Jill & Joel Greenstein In memory of our daughter, Rachel Susan Greenstein Jill & Joel Greenstein In memory of Paulette Brandt Marilyn & Bob Margolies Jill & Joel Greenstein In memory of Stewart Winner The Benjamin Family RHODA & MEL MILLER TUITION ASSISTANCE FUND In memory of Milton Waxenberg Gayle & Jay Waxenberg (Continued on page 19) February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 9 FROM THE PRESIDENT Jack H. Zinn Congregation Sons of Israel is part of Judaism’s Conservative (Masorti in Israel) movement, affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (USCJ). Conservative Judaism is typically viewed as in the middle of the spectrum of observance, between Orthodox and Reform. There are many other streams of Judaism, but those represent the three main ones. Each of the streams of Judaism brings something unique to the table, and having multiple streams allows for a wide spectrum of beliefs and practices, and a home for all of us. Conservative Judaism occupies the middle. It blends just the right mix of flexibility, optimism, and modernity to make Judaism meaningful today and will continue to make it meaningful in the years to come. With a motto, “Tradition and Change,” Conservative Judaism is, almost by definition, a dynamic stream of Judaism. Conservative Judaism strives to balance, in belief and practice, our history, traditions, customs, and laws with that of modern culture. That makes Conservative Judaism a constantly evolving and dynamic form of Judaism. Conservative Judaism’s adaptability is what keeps it centered and strong and vibrant, as each generation adds to the richness of it without sacrificing our values. While aspiring to uphold Halacha (Jewish law), Conservative Judaism does not mandate a belief system or a level of observance. While Orthodox Judaism views the every word of the Torah as the revealed word of God, Conservative Judaism takes a more nuanced approach. While there are differing points of view under the Conservative umbrella, the typical Conservative viewpoint is that the Torah was written over time and by several authors, and that those authors were divinely inspired. That gives us, as Conservative Jews, the ability of our rabbis to be inspired by new interpretations and new revelations, and to analyze our laws through literary and historical lenses and apply it to our modern situations. Sometimes Conservative Judaism is hard. It lacks the absolute, black-and-white certainty of Orthodoxy, yet it still recognizes the need and authority of ritual and Halachah (Jewish law). That sometimes makes for messy situations. Sometimes compromises are found, and sometimes it takes much more time that we’d like to come to an acceptable conclusion. Sometimes our Rabbinic Assembly will issue conflicting opinions, leaving each congregation and its rabbi to decide for itself. Each community can adapt in its own ways, giving our movement a wide range of practices. This can be confusing, but it also means that we are able to welcome people from all walks of life. It gives us the richness of all that has come before us, but stays dynamic enough to always be relevant. Conservative Judaism offers a big enough tent for any level of observance and still provides meaning and a place for us to share our commonness, celebrate our holidays, mourn our losses, and enjoy our friendships. For me, it’s my foundation and my home. Please share with me your experiences or thoughts. 2015-16 Board of Trustees Jack Zinn, President Trustees 3 Years: Elliott Barish, V.P. Marc Auslander Steven Bender, V.P. Orit Daly Aaron Gershowitz, V.P. Joshua Diamond Roberta Kay, V.P. Aaron Ovedia Robert Margolies, Mark Rosenberg Treasurer Eric Wrubel Eric Nadler, V.P., Secretary Andrew Kagan, Immediate Past President Trustees 2 Years: Michael Casper Robin Ginsberg Dan Levine Barbara Palefsky Neil Schluger Fred Schulman Trustees 1 Year: Anthony Anisman Doron Bar-Levav Ira Eisenstein Lois Gimpel Shaukat Lawrence Smoler Mark Wancier Page 10 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 Celebrate Jewish Westchester! Join us for the Westchester Jewish Council’s 40th Anniversary Gala Featuring entertainment by comedian Elon Gold This event regularly attracts over 400 members of our Westchester Jewish community in a joyous evening of Jewish camaraderie. Mingle, Eat, Laugh, Celebrate, Enjoy! Click here to register to attend and place a journal ad For more information call 914-328-7001 or email [email protected]. Condolences to: Merrill Bronson on the loss of her father, Stewart Winner David Stiffman on the loss of his mother, May Stiffman Get Well Wishes to: Helen Chuckrow, Belle Feldman, Ann Studen, Michael Sweedler February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 11 Matanah, the Gift Shop of CSI, is open Sundays 9:30-12:30 whenever Religious School is running. Come take a look at the wonderful gifts available, some of which are imported from Israel. For assistance outside of Matanah hours, please email us at [email protected]. Name Grade Phone # Hometown MARISSA LEWIS SANDY REISMAN JENNA BERKOWER SOPHIE JELINEK ARI BEN-DAVID RUSSELL KLEINER ZOE SCHEIER WALTER HOLZBERG DAVID STERNBERG HARRISON LANDAU KATYA DIDONATO SARINA COHN KATIE KATZ 12TH GRADE 12TH GRADE 8TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 12TH GRADE 12TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 9TH GRADE 10TH GRADE 10TH GRADE 886-5871 874-6362 606-2407 364-3344 954-1265 309-1151 703-1183 373-4186 941-1973 334-8344 787-0465 523-2952 406-3913 Croton Ossining Chappaqua Briarcliff Ossining Briarcliff Manor Ossining Ossining Briarcliff Briarcliff Briarcliff Cortlandt Manor Chappaqua If you would like to contact one of these capable babysitters or would like your name added to our list, please contact Doreen in the CSI Office at 762-2700 or email her at [email protected]. Page 12 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES February 2016 The following children are celebrating birthdays during the month of February MAZAL TOV to our members and will be called to the bimah to receive who are celebrating a blessing on March 11 at 7:00pm at our anniversaries during the next Family Night/Shabbat Rocks service. Only the names of those present month of February: will be called. Please take your name card out of the “birthday box” in the DATE YEARS front lobby and present it to a Ritual 1 Barry & Gretta Seidel 30 Committee usher. Charlotte Baer Mia Benjamin Jack Fogel Abbey Hertz Henry Kessler Alex Lanoff Alyssa Mathisson Ian Matias Brooke Ramer Spencer Ramer Meia Rappaport Tristan Rutman William Cedar Shulman Dylan Siegel Jacob Silvershein Maddie Venezia 4 6 12 17 18 19 21 29 Asher & Susan Banks Steven & Linda Kavee Henry & Barbara Schoenfeld Michael & Bryna Sweedler Peter & Susan Diamond Mark & Elyse Kovler Richard & Jane Taffet Andy & Julie Peskoe Russell & Danielle Primack 48 29 40 53 37 33 32 29 20 February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 13 THE SYNAGOGUE IN PUNE, INDIA by Bob Margolies On January 9, Jill and Joel Greenstein, Harvey Grosberg, Clare and Paul Rosen, Marilyn and I, and six other family and friends returned from a two-week trip to India. The highlight was the wedding of Jill and Joel's daughter, Rebecca, to Siddharth Kulkarni in Pune, India's ninth largest city, about 100 miles from Mumbai (Bombay). The wedding featured all the traditional Hindu rituals and prayers including mehndi, decorative henna on the hands of the bride and visiting women. For the formal wedding ceremony, the women wore sarees and the men kurtas. Following the wedding, we toured Delhi, Agra (Taj Mahal), Jaipur and Jodhpur. library and a convalescent home. Sassoon was conscious of his role as a leader of the Jewish community. He helped to arouse a sense of Jewish identity When we travel, we try to include "something Jewish" amongst the Bene Israeli and Cochin Jewish communiin our activities. This is easy in Israel or Europe, but ties. In Mumbai, the Sassoon Docks (built by his son) sometimes a challenge. Pune has one Synagogue and the David Sassoon Library are named after him. dating back to 1864. While some of us lunched on The Synagogue caters to the Jewish Community of dal, biryani, kofta, pizza and garlic naan, Sid and his Pune, approximately 200, and, during the summer aunt scouted out the Ohel David Synagogue and negotiated access for our group over the protests of the months and rainy season in Mumbai, it used to have large numbers of Jews coming from Mumbai to spend armed guard providing most of their summer months in Pune because of the protection from a sandbetter climate. There is a mikvah in the Synagogue bagged bunker. The that is not now operational. Prayers are conducted Synagogue is guarded, on Saturdays with a Hazzan from Mumbai conducting as are most Jewish reliservices. gious places since the attack on the Chabad House in Mumbai in 2008. The Ohel David Synagogue (popularly known as Lal Deval in Marathi or Red Temple) was built by Baghdadi Jewish businessman and philanthropist, David Sassoon. Sassoon died in 1864, and his tomb is within the compound of the synagogue. Although Sassoon did not speak English, he became a naturalized British citizen in 1853. He kept the dress and manners of the Baghdadi Jews, but allowed his sons to adopt English manners. His son, Abdullah, changed his name to Albert, moved to England, became a Baronet and married into the Rothschild family. All the Sassoon's of Europe are said to be descendants of David Sassoon. In addition to the synagogue, he built a school, a Mechanics' Institute, a Mazal Tov to Rebecca and Siddharth and the Greenstein family! Page 14 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 SISTERHOOD NEWS By Marion Jablansky, Secretary Snow didn’t stop CSI women from coming out for movie night on January 12. We were highly entertained by the movie Hunting Elephants, a 2013 Israeli crime drama, and enjoyed the popcorn, chocolate and wine as well. Thanks to Beth Levine for suggesting this enjoyable movie. well as check the CSI website for future Sisterhood programs. Mah jong is still going strong. If you have ever wanted to learn how to play, now is your chance! The next game will be Monday, February 22 at 7:30 PM at CSI. President: Robin Ginsberg Treasurer/Financial Secretary: Sharon Richter Recording Secretary: Beth Levine Corresponding Secretary/ Bulletin: Marion Jablansky Membership: Annleah Berger Mah Jongg Chair: Cheryl Katz Gift Shop: Robin Ginsberg/Sharon Orenstein Jill Greenstein/Marion Jablansky The Women’s Writing Workshop is a hit! Each month, women get together to write their stories and share them, if they choose, with the others in the group. The next meeting will be 7 PM at CSI on Tuesday, February 2. Purim is March 24 this year. Please watch your mail for information about our annual Mishloach Manot fundraiser. The gift shop will be open on Sundays from 9:30 AM until 12:30 PM as long as Religious School is in session. If you need anything when the gift shop is not open, please email us at [email protected] and someone will get back to you as soon as possible to set up a meeting time. The gift shop needs you! If you have a few spare hours on Sunday mornings and would like to become part of the gift shop committee, please send an email to [email protected] and let us know, or stop by on Sunday morning. The gift shop is a fundraiser for Sisterhood and the CSI community, and additional people are needed to keep it going. No retail knowledge is necessary, just the desire to have fun and make a difference. Sunday availability is a must, but don’t worry, not every Sunday! There is a lot going on at CSI Sisterhood. Please make sure you are current on your Sisterhood dues to be able to participate in events and continue to receive the weekly emails Have you seen the Congregation Sons of Israel Sisterhood Facebook page? Please “like” us! The CSI bulletin and the CSI website are great sources of information. Continue to read future bulletins, as Also, we are always looking for new ideas, so if you have any suggestions or wish to lead or help with an activity, please let us know. Our officers/chairpersons are always open to new ideas. www.WLCJ.org = the website for Women’s League for Conservative Judaism, the organization to which your Sisterhood belongs. Log in and check it out today! Gift tip: The Gift Shop carries beautiful candles and candlesticks for hostess gifts as well as for your own Shabbat table. Remember to join Sisterhood! We started our new fiscal year on July 1. Sisterhood Membership 2015-2016 Please send your $36.00 check for dues payable to: CSI Sisterhood and return it with this form to: CSI Sisterhood 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Name_____________________________________________ Phone____________________________________________ Address___________________________________________ Email_____________________________________________ For questions concerning membership or to sign up for a Sisterhood committee, please call Annleah Berger, 762-5312, or email [email protected]. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 15 VE N S A N! A C O ATI Y OU OW EGISTR H K AS 0 ON R $10 Page 16 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 February 2016 Sun Congregation Sons of Israel Page 17 FEBRUARY 2016 - Shevat/Adar I 5776 will be open Sundays, February 7 and 28, from 9:30am12:30pm Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat 1 22 Shevat 2 23 Shevat 3-24 Shevat 4 25 Shevat 5 26 Shevat 6 27 Shevat 7:15am-Minyan 9:15am-Tuesdays 7:15am-Minyan 6:00pm-Kabbalat Mishpatim Shabbat 7:30pm-Five Things… for Tots 9:10am-Services The Spanish Inquisi- 11:15am-Jews in 11:00am-Jr. Cong. tion the News 6:00pm7:30pm-Sisterhood 7:00pm-Caring Babysitting Night Executive Board Community 7:30pm-Education 8:45pm-Talmud Committee will re- 7:30pm-Men’s sume Club Mon., 7:30pm-Women’s 4/1/16 Writing Workshop CL: 4:59 8 29 Shevat 9 30 Shevat 10 1 Adar I 11 2 Adar I 12 3 Adar I 13 4 Adar I 7:15am-Minyan 9:15am-Tuesdays 7:15am-Minyan 6:00pm-Kabbalat Terumah for Tots Shabbat 10:30am9:10am-Services 11:15am-Jews in HaMishpacha the News Discussion Group 7 28 Shevat 9:15am-Minyan 9:00am-World Wide Wrap 9:00am-Group B 10:00am-Trope for the Troops 10:30am-Organic Market CL: 5:07 11:00am-HS 14 5 Adar I 15 6 Adar I 16 7 Adar I 17 8 Adar I 18 9 Adar I 19 10 Adar I 20 11 Adar I NO RELIGIOUS OFFICE CLOSED NO 7:15am-Minyan 6:00pm-Kabbalat Tetzaveh NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL RELIGIOUS Shabbat 9:15am-Minyan 9:10am-Services SCHOOL SCHOOL 9:15am-Minyan 11:15am-Jews in the News 12:30pm-Yiddish Club 7:30pm-Executive CL: 5:16 Committee NO NURSERY SCHOOL 21 12 Adar I 22 13 Adar I 23 14 Adar I 24-15 Adar I 25 16 Adar I 26 17 Adar I 27 18 Adar I Ki Tisa NO RELIGIOUS 7:15am-Minyan 7:15am-Minyan 6:00pm-Kabbalat 9:15am-Tuesdays SCHOOL Shabbat 9:10am-Services 11:00am-Women’s for Tots 10:30am9:15am-Minyan Torah Study HaMishpacha 10:30am-Kadima 11:15am-Jews in Discussion 7:30pm-Sisterhood the News 11:00am-Jr. Cong. Group Mah Jongg 5:30pm-Mincha 7:30pm-Board of 8:45pm-Talmud service at Rabbi Trustees’ Meeting Kane’s home 7:30pm-2d GenerCL: 5:24 ation Survivors 28 19 Adar I 29 20 Adar I Next HaMishpacha 9:00am-Group B 7:15am-Minyan CSI’s ORGANIC Luncheon: March 8 COLOR KEY: 9:15am-Minyan 8:45pm-Talmud MARKET IS NURSERY SCHOOL 10:30am-Organic OPEN SUNDAYS CL = candle Market RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 10:30 am - 1:30 pm lighting time. 11:00am-Cookie YOUTH on Religious School SHABBAT ends Club IMPORTANT NOTE ONE HOUR AFTER days (Feb. 7 & 28) 11:00am-HS candle lighting time. Page 18 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 19 (Continued from page 8) SAMANTHA SILVERMAN YOUTH ACTIVITIES FUND In memory of Richard Ziskin Marilyn & Bob Margolies In memory of Bernard Kaufman Roslynne Reichgott & family STUDY IN ISRAEL SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Bessie Skidelsky Joel & Iris Kazin ZUCKERMAN/CHARLOTTE HERING MEMORIAL FUND FOR RAMAH DAY CAMP In honor of Richard Zuckerman Feith Systems & Software Inc. CSI gratefully acknowledges all donations. Your understanding of any inadvertent, human error is very much appreciated. Kindly let us know immediately if an error has been made so we may correct it. MEN’S CLUB NEWS Jason Eidlitz, President February 7th March 6th March TBD March 24th May 5th As you know, over the past five years the Men’s Club has developed and maintained many programs for the CSI community. The upcoming year promises to be no different. To sustain these efforts we really need your support in attendance and membership. World Wide Wrap (see inside front cover) Men’s Club Breakfast (hear about Rabbi Kane’s trip to Cuba) Passover Wine Tasting Texas Hold’em and March Madness Yom HaShoah Candle Distribution Other programs that we have participated in and supported include gifts to each of our B’Nai Mitzvah students, Sunday morning breakfast speakers, and helping with the Challah for Shabbat. Our yellow candle program is a model of what it means to be a community and never forget. Your support in membership and donation will continue the cause which annually costs $1,000. Please send your dues, donate to the Men’s Club, and, most importantly, get involved. SAVE THE DATE: JOIN US FOR OUR NEXT FAMILY SERVICE: MAY 15, 2016 IS BETTE SLUTSKY DAY! Mar. 19, 10:30-11:45 AM Join us as we honor Bette and celebrate with our community. Bette has been teaching at CSI’s Religious School since 1974. Our children will perform Bette’s favorite Hebrew songs! Do you have pictures of Bette Slutsky we can borrow? Please let Roni Know. Expertly lead by Judy Kane and accompanied on keyboard by Brian Gelfand, one of the leading alternative musicians in the Jewish world, this service is geared towards families but is open to people of all ages. It features beautiful musical renditions of our prayers, stories and discussion. Come join us and add a bit of Shabbat joy to your week! Page 20 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 We really do have a CARING COMMUNITY! If you take a little time to SHARE and CARE, you will have the satisfaction of knowing you did something good to help someone else! Remember to call the office, 762-2700, if you know of someone who needs some caring. Our next meeting is Tuesday, February 2 at 7:00 PM. CARING COMMUNITY By Merrie Daitch WANT TO JOIN THE CSI CHOIR? If you sing tenor or bass and would like to sing with the CSI Choir, please call either Judy Boehr (762-1984) or Cantor Shiovitz (762-2700). PAYMENT SCHEDULE REMINDER We appreciate your cooperation and support! Two thirds (2/3) of Membership and Building Fund balances were due on Dec. 1. Any remaining balances in these categories AND Religious School tuition are due in full on Mar. 1. Nursery School tuition is due in full on Mar. 31. Of course, payments may be made in full at any time before these dates. To register your child(ren) in Nursery School and/or Religious School, you may not have an outstanding balance from prior years. If you have not yet made your second installment, please do so now to remain a member in good standing. If you have any questions, please email CSI’s treasurer, Bob Margolies, at [email protected]. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 21 CALLING ALL FAMILIES WITH YOUNG CHILDREN AGES 2 – 6 YEARS OLD! Kids Karousel, Ltd., an afternoon enrichment program for Preschoolers, ages 2-6 years old, is still accepting applications for its fall program. Kids Karousel offers a variety of programs including, but not limited to, Pre-K Scholars, Cooking, Art and Literature, Sports, Zumba, Theater and Lego Mania. We are conveniently located at Congregations Sons of Israel in Briarcliff Manor, NY. We have ample parking and easy access to Route 9A and major highways. Hours: 12:00pm-2:45pm (Monday-Friday) Info: Contact Faith at (914) 923-0160 or [email protected] Location: 1666 Pleasantville Rd., Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Wish you had an extra 30 minutes to an hour in the morning? Need to catch a train? Early Birds Before-class supervision for 2’S, 3’s and 4’s with Faith Kavy School days from 8:00 – 8:55 AM (No drop-off without a reservation) 8:30-8:55am $10.00 8:00-8:55am $15.00 See Faith in person or call: Cell: 469-1102 Home: 923-0160 Page 22 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 CSI’s Zoe Scheier is One of Eight Ossining High School Students Named Intel Competition Semifinalists There was a reason Zoe Scheier was breathless. The Ossining High School senior recently learned that she and seven classmates were named semifinalists in the Intel Science Talent Search, one of the country’s top high-school science competitions. Each semifinalist receives a $1,000 award from the Intel Foundation with an additional $1,000 going to his or her school, resulting in $600,000 in total semifinalist awards. The competition overall awards $1.6 million to provide the opportunities and resources that students need to become the next generation of inventors, entrepreneurs, and STEM professionals. Alumni of the Intel Science Talent Search have gone on to successful careers in science, technology, engineering and math. Zoe Scheier: “Establishing Comorbidity between Autism Spectrum Disorder and Ambient Visual Dysfunctions.” Click here for complete Journal News article. Zoe Sheier is a CSI High School Student High School Mezuzah making with Cantor & Robyn Shiovitz Jenna Berkower Daniel Casper Isaac Hentel David Katz Caleb Levitt Stephanie Markowitz Rachel Mathisson Ryan Morris Brooke Ramer Jamie Scharf Zoe Scheier Caleb Schumacher Jonah Schumacher Jack Silverstein Jake Wexler February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 23 The Christmas dinner at the First Presbyterian Church in SOCIAL ACTION COMMITTEE Ossining was a huge success! I am proud to say that 85 members of our CSI family contributed to and participatBy Judy Boehr ed in this year’s dinner. We had 78 guests at our dinner, all of whom took home another dinner to enjoy. We also delivered 35 meals to people who couldn’t come to the church. Our guests were so appreciative and had a wonderful day, but it is we who left with a feeling of pride and satisfaction. Every year I come home and reflect on the day. Each year the experience is a little different with something new to be proud of, and this year was no different. Thank you to the 10 families who participated in the dinner for the first time. It was inspiring to see how easily you joined in the proceedings. I’m glad you had such a great time, and we were so grateful to have had your help. There is a regular guest who has come for many years with his wife. She passed away in May, and he came to be with his usual “family” for Christmas. He cried and shared and expressed his gratitude. When I asked a couple of people to be sure to spend time with him, people stepped right up. But it was one young adult child of a member who spent well over an hour keeping him company, engaging him in conversation, listening, and being a warm friend. Your kindness and sincerity really stood out. Then there were the young grandchildren of a member who were there most of the day. For several hours they made cards, gave out candy canes, and engaged our guests. It was beautiful to see how comfortable you were. And at the end of the day, when it was time to deliver the leftover food to a group home in Ossining, one of our high schoolers confidently drove over by himself and delivered the food. You are always there to help. Thank you to all of you who cooked, shopped, served, (wo)manned the kitchen, and donated money; thanks to Sheera, Debby, and Susan who helped things run so smoothly; and special thanks to the families who came just to clean up! It is all of you who made this such a wonderful day. * * * REMINDER: Please bring your winter jackets, hats, gloves, and scarves to the bins in the synagogue lobby. They will be delivered to our neighbors at IFCA in Ossining. Help us make sure that those in need will be warm this winter. This drive continues until March. Page 24 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 25 Page 26 Congregation Sons of Israel Join Rabbi Kane Monday evenings at 7:30 PM: FIVE THINGS YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW... FIVE PIVOTAL MOMENTS IN JEWISH HISTORY February 2016 Two more classes remain! Had these moments never occurred, the Judaism we know would never have come to be! You need not attend all sessions: 1) Feb. 1, 2016: The Spanish Inquisition: How the expulsion not only challenged Jewish life, it almost destroyed the world's economy. 2) Mar. 7, 2016: The French Revolution and the Granting of Citizenship to Jews in European Countries: The intersection of tradition and modernity that challenged our very existence but also paved the way for who we are today. THIS CLASS IS FREE AND OPEN TO ALL! CSI brought in 2016 with a sweet celebration and birthday party! Whose birthday was it, you might wonder. It is the birthday of the trees!!!! We celebrated Tu B'shevat with a big party! We read Happy Birthday, Trees, decorated cupcakes and planted. It was the perfect way to bring in 2016!!!! Don't forget National Bagel Day is on February 9th. You can celebrate at home by reading Bagels from Benny and noshing on bagels topped with your favorite schmear. You can talk to your children about the mitzvah of helping others. CSI has some incredible projects going on! Happy Reading SOCIAL COMMITTEE Co-chairs: Ellen Weiser & Debra Young - Merrie Upcoming Spring 2016 Events The February 2016 Table Tennis Tournament and Nosh has been postponed. Early April - Jewish Film Festival at the Burns - Despite the fact that we do not yet know which films will be showing as the show information does not come out until sometime in late January, we will need RSVP’s for this by February 29th in order to reserve a block of tickets. We will also have a wine and cheese get-together beforehand. Please RSVP to Debra Young at [email protected] or Ellen Weiser at [email protected]. Spring – Walking Tour of Lower Eastside and, of course, Fressing. Committee Members: Hagit Barzilai, Barbara Block, Elaine Bloom, Suzanne Haber, Bonnie LeVar, Karen Malmet, Barbara Schoenfeld, and Ruth Speier. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 27 Winter Session Enrichment Class Fine Arts Workshop with Robyn Shiovitz Mondays, 4:30-5:30 p.m. For more information & registration forms, email [email protected]. Open to all, so sign up now! 914.762.2700 Page 28 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 CSI Website Photographer PLEASE SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 29 Page 30 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2016 YOUR AD CAN BE HERE! CONTACT JOLIE LEVY: [email protected]. February 2016 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 31 BULLETIN ADVERTISING CSI bulletin advertising procedures: All CSI Bulletin advertisers can place COLOR ads. This will give our sponsors the opportunity to publish eye-catching ads that will pop off the pages. The on-line bulletin posted on CSI’s website now includes advertisements! CSI’s monthly bulletins reach over 600 local homes and businesses and is posted on our public website. If you shop at an advertiser from our bulletin, please remember to tell them that you saw their ad in the CSI bulletin! Are you interested in placing an ad of your own? Do you know of a local business you frequent or a new store in town which you think would benefit from placing an ad with us? Jolie Levy, our Bulletin Editor, will be glad to answer any questions and send you the ad rates. Jolie may be reached at 762-2700 or by emailing [email protected]. Our local businesses need our support. Congregation Sons of Israel 1666 Pleasantville Road Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 www.csibriarcliff.org Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID White Plains, NY Permit No. 10086 Current Resident Or: David E. Weiss, D.D.S. Jewel A. Weiss, D.D.S. General & Cosmetic Dentistry for Adults and Children Come see our new state-of-the-art office! 61 Sunset Drive Briarcliff Manor, NY Hi-tech Dentistry with a Caring Touch! (914) 941-1890