September 2015
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September 2015
southernNEIGHBOR September 2015 Volume 14, Issue 9 Chapel Hill Carrboro Durham Pittsboro Hillsborough Small business recovers due to Durham’s loyalty p. 3 Durham-Orange Light Rail draws critics p. 6 FULLSTEAM BREWERY The Parade of Homes is a FREE, self-guided tour of new homes. You may start at any home and see as many homes as you like. This fall, tour the best new homes from the area’s foremost builders — including CERTIFIED GREEN HOMES. Pick up a TOUR MAGAZINE for a guide to all the homes at area Harris Teeters in late September. OCTOBER 3–4; 9–11; 16–18 • NOON5 PM p. 11 SPONSORS For more information: 919.493.8899 • www.hbadoc.com 151 E. Rosemary St. Chapel Hill, NC 27514 Postal Patron PRST STD US POSTAGE PAID DURHAM, NC PERMIT NO. 302 About us Southern Neighbor is published monthly and distributes 20,000 copies to more than 50 neighborhoods. Email: [email protected] Telephone: (919) 962-4214 Website: www.southernneighbor.com Address: 151 E. Rosemary St., Chapel Hill, N.C. 27514 Publisher: DTH Media Corp. Founder: Bonnie Schaefer 5 News Brief Our stories Animals rescued from Chatham hoarder find new homes. Archives of back issues are available at www.southernneighbor.com. To place an advertisement, contact us at [email protected] or call (919) 962-4214. Our staff Stephanie Lamm Editor-in-Chief [email protected] [email protected] Keely McKenzie Visual Editor Danny Nett Copy Editor 6 8 Light Rail contested Some residents aren’t sold on the Durham-Orange Light Rail Advertising content Writers Kerry Lengyel Stephanie Lamm Kelly Archer September Calendar 10 KEYNOTES 11 Fullsteam Brewery This brewery and tavern welcomes children and pets before 9 p.m. to 13 Neighbor Neighbor 搀愀瘀椀搀猀栀愀渀欀猀⸀挀漀洀 Photographer Kelly Archer Designer Langston Taylor Corrections There were no corrections for the August issue of Southern Neighbor. 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Southern Neighbor writer Kerry Lengyel sat down with Valerie Jackson, one of the owners of Hairizon, to discuss the store’s concept and future plans to serve the Durham community. Where did the idea for Hairizon come from? It originated with my daughter Joi and a college roommate, Charia; they both were chemically straightening their hair to take the natural coilness out of it, but in order to maintain that, it costs (a lot) because you need to get your hair done with a schedule of every four to six weeks. Joi and Charia were at UNC-Charlotte campus, and they decided not to keep spending money on getting their hair done, so they wanted to transition into a natural state of their hair. So once Joi was in that natural transitioning process, she was calling me regularly for money to find products that would be good for her hair and help to encourage a healthy environment for her natural hair. All this time she’s transitioning, trying to find great products — a lot of trial and error to find good products — and finally she came to me and said, “Mom, I have an idea. Once I graduate I want to open a store where women can come and find great products for their hair and not have to pay an arm and a leg for shipping.” We’ll do the initial legwork to research the products, and then we can stand behind them and tell them these things work and here they are and available to you. It’s our passion now. What is a DIY beauty bar? The beautify bar is the anchor of Hairizon. What we actually do on the beauty bar is we customize products for the customer. So say if you come in and Photo courtesy of Valerie Jackson In addition to natural health and beauty supplies, Hairizon’s storefront at Northgate Mall offers retail space to over 100 small and local businesses. say you have dry, dull hair, we can customize the shampoo or conditioner or hair oil that can help to eliminate those things. We have a beautify bar menu where we break down specific oils and vitamins that are good for the hair and how they work. We have organic shampoo, conditioner and oils that we just add those ingredients to. On top of that, you can add any essential fragrance, like lavender or jasmine, so that you get the total package — so you get something that smells great, and you get something that’s good for your hair, and its minus all of the fillers and commercial preservatives that a lot of the products you see in the larger retail stores have. We like to have you come into Hairizons and have someone be able to talk to you about your hair. It’s not like when you go to some of the big stores where Continued on Page 4 Chapel Hill Porch Decks and Sunrooms ing nc Annou New!! Pollen and Winter Curtains New Clear Vinyl Pollen and Winter Curtains 16mil. 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We combine those so you have a great foundation, and then you can build on that with a fragrance or essential oils like lemongrass or rose oils, anything you’d like to see, and we actually make it right there at the bar for you. We like to say we’re bartenders. You can get Shea butter with vitamin E, peppermint and eucalyptus in it — we’ll mix it up right there, label it, list the ingredients and then you can take that home. How do you fit into the Durham community? The thing about downtown Durham is in the past five years, we have seen downtown Durham grow and change and evolve into a destination — not just you’re going to DPAC, or you’re going to the ballgame. Downtown Durham now has its own draw in that we have several different venues that are active and bringing in great talent. There are events going on; there are different festivals, music — there are all types of things that draw people to the destination of downtown Durham, and we’ve really gotten to watch that grow and change and we wanted to stay a part of that because it is an awesome thing. The basis of Hairizon is the beauty bar, but we have 28 different “partners,” we call them, (who) have allowed their products to be showcased in our stores. We have a student who makes soy candles, housewife who recycles jewelry — all kinds of great things. for women and minorities’ businesses — there are fewer and fewer able to maintain their businesses in downtown Durham, and that’s a shame. What are your future plans for the store? How has the community supported Hairizon through its bout of bad luck? We have had some community support and we have greatly appreciated it. The downtown Durham Initiative, as well as the Greater Durham Area Chamber of Commerce have been on the lookout for us as far as available properties that could possibly be the future home to Hairizons, but again, because it is such a vibrant and growing area, it’s a challenge for a small business to meet some of the requirements that some of the building owners are placing on their locations. Because it is so hot, and the bubble for real estate has not burst as far as downtown Durham is concerned, the building owners can ask for and get really above normal money for leasing of the properties. It’s heartbreaking, but it’s true and particularly Right now our goal is to expand our bar — to be able to bring in more exotic butters, to bring in more beneficial oils. We’re in the process of researching some essential oils that come out of South America with anti-inflammatory agents. We’re looking at trying to continue with courses and events in the store where we invite the public in, and we have seminars on hair care, heart disease and voter registration. We want to continue to be a location where you can find out about different events going on in Durham. There are a lot of positive things going on in Durham, and we have felt like an ambassador many times — when travelers from out of town were in the area on the weekends, we were one of the few retail locations where someone can walk in and ask where they should go. We would like to continue with events in the store, possibly sponsors from the events in larger venues in Durham, but what we’d like to do is grow and be more visible in the community as a location for great things going on. In your GoFundMe page, you mentioned you’re looking to open a pop-up market in the meantime. Have you made any progress on those plans? We are in negotiations with a building owner downtown to see if it would be possible to do a pop-up market. That would be something where we’d be temporarily located in the downtown Durham area where customers could come see what we have to offer and make purchases for a limited time. Currently, we’re located at the Northgate Mall, Suite 852, on the outside exterior perimeter of the mall at entrance four. We will be there for the next three months, and during that time period we hope to be continuing to reach out to the building locations in the downtown area. Hopefully we can get somewhere in two- to three-mile perimeter of where we were previously. Is there anything you’d like to add about the Durham community? I would just like to stress the importance of Durham, citizens of Durham and citizens of the Southeast to support local businesses. 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SAFE Haven for Cats, a cat rescue in North Raleigh, is caring for 34 of the cats found neglected on the property. The SPCA of Wake County agreed to take in some of the animals, though they typically are not able to take in large numbers from hoarding busts. Many of the animals have untreated medical conditions or suffered from abuse and neglect. Some of the cats need dental work which can cost up to $600 per cat. Two of the cats had litters the night before SAFE Haven agreed to shelter them. The kittens require bottle feeding every five hours. SAFE Haven is struggling to pay for the extensive care these animals need. They are asking for community support through donations and volunteers. Islip, the first cat from the Chatham County rescue, is eligible for adoption. Most of the cats will be ready for permanent homes in early September. 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GoTriangle will address substantive comments in its final Environmental Impact Report. GoTriangle projects the Research Triangle’s population will grow by 80 percent between 2010 and 2040, creating high traffic intensity along the Durham-Orange County corridor. “We can’t keep expanding the roads. This line would increase travel in places where roads can’t be widened,” said Patrick McDonough, the manager of planning and transit-oriented development for GoTriangle. Combined, Triangle Transit Authority, Durham Area Transit Authority, Chapel Hill Transit and Duke Transit carry 71,300 passengers on average weekdays. According to the Draft Environmental Impact Statement released Aug. 21, the buses systems servicing Durham and Chapel Hill are near maximum capacity. “Durham and Chapel Hill punch above their weight in transit use,” McDonough said. “Bus use here is much different from in Raleigh or Cary.” GoTriangle expects 23,000 daily riders on the light rail by 2035. Eight new park-and-ride stations, with space to 5,000 vehicles, will be added around the light rail stations. The vast majority passengers will walk, bike or bus to the 17 stations. Before the project is completed, GoTriangle will expand bus service to connect current routes to the rail system. Using a projection of 2040 travel intensity, the light rail links the five areas that may see over 100 trips per acre. The rail does not cross into the Research Triangle Park or Raleigh-Durham International Airport. Orange County resident Bonnie Hauser is one of many people who suggested the route should to RTP and RDU. “In the 1990s when they started GoTriangle wants feedback Email info@ourtransitfuture. com or attend one of two public hearings before Oct. 12. planning this, the current route was probably very important, but now people need to get to Chatham Park, Mebane, RTP,” Hauser said. “Why would we want to serve just one university corridor when most people need to go to a broader area?” McDonough said people have suggested the line go through these locations, but they are not high-traffic areas. In total, the rail will cost up to $1.6 billion. The project will compete with other transportation projects around the country to secure a piece of the federal transportation budget. Federal funding will cover about half of the project’s initial costs, with the other half coming from state and local governments. In 2012, voters agreed to a local sales tax of .05 percent to help pay for the light rail. However, Hauser said GoTriangle’s Heart Body Mind Medicine Todd Washburn, CFP ® Fee-only Financial Planning Holistic Care for Chronic Illness retirement/investment advising • business planning charitable giving • spending/lifestyle management holistic planning Microchip Clinic 919 945-0300 • www.michaelsharpmd.com proposal has fallen short of the original project that residents approved in 2012. What was first pitched as a 34-minute ride from Chapel Hill to Durham turned into a more than 40-minute ride after several route changes. The Durham-Orange Light Rail was initially going to connect to a Wake County rail system built in tandem. Wake County recently backed out of the project, as officials chose to improve and expand their bus and diesel rapid rail systems instead. Hauser and Cabanes think Durham and Orange Counties should follow suit. “Bus Rapid Transit is taking all the advantages of the Light Rail except instead of using steel rails they are using asphalt,” Cabanes said. “That’s important becuase instead of requiring a 50-foot wide path, bus lanes are just 12 feet wide. You can fit four bus lanes in one light rail track. If you look at the 23,000 boardings they are projecting in 2035, that’ll be 622 passengers per hour on the light rail. But if we use the bus system, the same space can accommodate almost 900 passengers per hour.” Erik Landfried, transit service planning supervisor for GoTriangle, pointed out there is limited space for buses. “When people say, ‘Why can’t we just Paws4Ever & Cole Park Vet are Teaming Up To Protect Your Dog! 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COLE PARK VETERINARY HOSPITAL 55 Woodbridge Drive • Chapel Hill 919.929.3352 • coleparkvet.com 6 | September 2015 SALON 76 Hillsboro Street Located just North of the circle in downtown Pittsboro 919.542.5110 do this with BRT,’ it’s because you can’t throw that many more buses at this problem because we can’t get them in or out,” Landfried said. A typical transit bus can carry 110 people with one operator, while a light rail can carry 540 people with one operator. This translates into a lower cost per passenger operating cost. Other residents have concerns about the environmental consequences. Under the National Environmental Policy Act, certain agencies must file an EIS if a project could have significant impact on the environment. The initial Meadowmont Lane route was redrawn to avoid park land in the corridor. The preferred route will now run through Woodmont near Cabanes’ residence. Cabanes said he is worried about the impact the rail might have on his property value. Natalie Murdock, public involvement manager for GoTriangle, BUSINESS/DEVELOPMENT Proposed map of Durham-Orange Light Rail Alternative station Planned station Road Patterson Place (two alternatives) 15-501 Duke Eye Care Due to environmental hazards, there are three routes proposed for the New Hope Creek crossing. The routes along 15-501 offer fewer environmental consequences, but they may interfere with businesses. LaSalle St. Trent / Flowers Drive Ninth St. Buchanan Blvd. Gateway UNC Hospitals Durham Station South Square Mason Farm Road Martin Luther King, Jr. Drive (two alternatives) Meadowmont Lane Dillard St. Hamilton Road Alston Ave. / NCCU Leigh Village Friday Center Drive (three alternatives) Woodmont Source: GoTriangle said she has spoken to real estate agents who are excited about the light rail. “You’re going to have faster travel times, which will attract people from the universities to developing areas outside the city centers,” Murdock said. However, not everyone sees this as a benefit. There are three proposed routes from Hamilton Road to Leigh Village through Friday Center Drive. The Meadowmont route is no longer a viable option due to land use conflicts. The most likely route through this section is the Woodmont Lane route (light blue), which runs along Highway 54. “The route through Downing Creek is now allowing for a new development of $700,000 townhouses, which nobody in Downing right now could afford,” Hauser said. “All these communities were unsuspecting of the impacts it would have on them.” McDonough said he hopes the public Engineering difficulties that limited station space caused the Alston Avenue stop to move a quarter mile west of the planned location. The new station is farther from low-income neighborhoods. 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Main St., Carrboro, N.C. The Doug Largent Trio, consisting of Doug Largent on organ, Brad Maiani on guitar and Donovan Cheatham on drums, plays vintage soul organ jazz. Come out to Carrboro to enjoy this free event. www.DougLargent.com (919) 967-9398 3 Thursday Pre-School Story Time 10:30 a.m. to 11 a.m. Flyleaf Books 752 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Chapel Hill, N.C. Every Thursday, Flyleaf Books offers storytime followed by an art activity. Every week Johanna Albrecht, The Stock Exchange The Triangle’s Premier Consignment Boutique sometimes assisted by a special guest, reads a book to the children. www.flyleafbooks.com (919) 942-7373 4 Friday Golf Clinic with Karl Kimball Starts at 6 p.m. Hillandale Golf Course 1600 Hillandale Road, Durham, N.C. Karl Kimball, director of golf at Hillandale Golf Course, will talk about how to improve your golfing skills. During the event, donations will be accepted, and proceeds will go to the Folds of Honor Foundation and Patriot Golf Day, which honors military service members. www.hillandalegolf.com (919) 286-4211 5 Saturday Cookbook Signing: Frances Bailey’s Bookkeeping Mayes www.caribsplash.org/jerkfest (352) 870-3448 12 p.m. to 2 p.m. A Southern Season University Mall, 201 S. Estes Drive, Chapel Hill, N.C. The author of three celebrated books about her life in Italy will be signing copies of “The Tuscan Sun Cookbook” on Saturday. She will also talk about her idea of family and how her life has been shaped through her experiences in Italy. www.southernseason.com (877) 929-7133 12 Saturday North Carolina Jerk Fest 9 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. CCB Plaza E. Chapel Hill and Corcoran St., Durham, NC Come out for this family event featuring reggae music, a wing-eating contest, a domino tournament and much more. Donations are appreciated and go toward the CaribSplash Youth Development and the Children’s Cultural Center of Excellence Fund. 13 Sunday Ultimate Toss and Tailgate 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. Durham Central Park, Inc. 501 Foster St., Durham, N.C. Food trucks, music and Sunday football will be available alongside a charity cornhole tournament. There will also be games, raffles and prizes. This event will raise money for the Ronald McDonald House of Durham. www.tinyurl.com/tossntailgate (919) 596-1242 13 Sunday Schoolhouse of Wonder’s Family Field Day 12:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. West Point on the Eno 5101 N. Roxboro Road, Durham, N.C. 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Order a coffee and enjoy the sounds of singer-songwriter Meade Skelton. The keyboardist will be returning to Open Eye, and you won’t want to miss his unique sound. www.openeyecafe.com (919) 968-9410 24 Thursday “Starting at the Finish Line: The Coach Buehler Story” Film Screening 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Durham County Main Library 300 N. Roxboro St., Durham, N.C. Coach Al Buehler is famous for impacting the lives of athletes such as Jackie Joyner-Kersee and Mike Krzyzewski. This film tells the story of his 60-year-long career and his efforts toward improving women’s athletics and international sport and race relations. www.durhamcountylibrary.org (919) 560-0100 26 Saturday Pedal for Peds 8 a.m. to 12 p.m. UNC’s Wellness Center 350 Stonecroft Lane, Cary, N.C. There will be a stationary bike marathon to raise money to benefit the Division of Pediatric Hematology Oncology. This annual event is in its sixth year, and this year will feature a silent auction and a road bike ride through the American Tobacco Trail. www.pedalforpeds.kintera.org 26 Saturday Octoberfest Street Party 4 p.m. to 11 p.m. Bull City Burger and Brewery 107 E. Parrish St. Suite 105, Durham, N.C. For the fifth year there will be music and activities along the street with beer, brats and burgers. Featuring musical guests Bill West, The Lids and Daddy’s Alright. Proceeds will go toward supporting Habitat of Humanity Durham. www.bullcityburgerandbrewery.com (919) 680-2333 30 Wednesday Kidz Voices 10:30 a.m. to 11:15 p.m. Kidzu Children’s Museum 201 S. Estes Drive, Chapel Hill, N.C. Children will sing, dance and make their own instruments at this music education camp. Children will construct instruments out of recycled materials that they can take home with them. Registration is $5 for the first kid and $3 for each additional kid. ONGOING EVENTS Fridays on the Front Porch June 5- October 23 Fridays from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. The Carolina Inn 211 Pittsboro St., Chapel Hill Join the fun every Friday on our Front Porch at 5 p.m. for live music, beer, wine and a variety of spirits. New this season are a variety of food trucks available to entertain your palate. 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Virginia has been in practice for over 27 years, providing a unique, holistic approach to massage therapy. She tailors each appointment to the client’s individual needs. Her services include, individual appointments in her peaceful, Carrboro office, on-site chair massage for the office and events and gentle in-home massage for the elderly and medically frail. Virginia also provides training in comforting touch to family members and caregivers of those with medical challenges. V LORRAINE LEWIS, LMBT (NC#213) Certified Trager®Practitioner; Certified HeartMath®Coach/Mentor 919.967.2215 www.yourpeacefulconnection.com Whether you prefer hands-on bodywork or strictly verbal interaction to release and manage unnecessary stress and tension, Lorraine is happy to custom design a session for you or for your loved ones. Clients describe the results of her sessions as helping them to come home to themselves — feeling a sense of peace, ease, lightness and well-being. If stress INTRINSIC TOUCH MASSAGE THERAPY Virginia Lee Sprague, LMBT#3732 http://intrinsictouchmassage.com/ 919-619-0323 103 W. Weaver St., 2nd Floor, Carrboro TNew Client Discounts! Fifteen dollars OFF your first massage. Whether you are new to the area or have been here for There’s more than one way to donate to the ReStore… Volunteer! Donate your t ime a nd become a member of the H a bit at for Hu m a n it y ReStore family. Meet new people, share your expertise and skills, learn new things, and receive recognition for your service. To learn more about lending a helping hand, attend a Welcome Session. visit our website for more information and to register. www.restoredurhamorange.org Check out our FaQs on volunteering! Call 919.403.8668 ext. 103 Donate/Shop/Volunteer Mon – Sat, 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Need help with larger items? 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FIXALL SERVICES Raye Jordan 919.990.1072 [email protected] www.fixallservices.com Fixall Services has been serving the Triangle area for over 20 years, providing electrical, plumbing and HVAC services as well as painting, power washing, wood and structural repairs, roofing, landscape maintenance and brick and concrete work. Licensed contractor/Insured, Chamber of Commerce member. Major credit cards accepted. LANDSCAPING TOMMY WARD LANDSCAPING 919.942.0390- call anytime Lawn cleanup — leaves, gutters, etc., plus lawn aerating and reseeding. Lawn Holt’s Interiors • Personal attention • We sell at 40-60% off retail! Come visit our showroom displaying new furniture, cabinets, flooring and countertops Mon-Fri 9:30 - 5:00 • Sat 9:30 - 3:00 1089 East Street • Pittsboro 919-542-2042 and bush hog mowing. Trees topped and cut, shrubs pruned. Mulch for sale — oak, pine and pine straw. Gravel driveway repair and grading plus tractor service. 40 years of experience. BRIAN D. ROGERS TREE AND LANDSCAPING 919.542.9892 or 919.742.9892 Specializing in bringing neglected yards back to their former beauty. We can help you with proper pruning of trees and ornamental shrubs. We offer tree and shrub planting and design, several choices of mulch, leaf removal, roofs and rain gutters cleaned of leaves, plus jungle taming and tree removal. We are your go to company for presenting your home for market, or just simply preserving tranquility for one’s self. ART & LEISURE WINE AND DESIGN CHAPEL HILL-DURHAM 200 North Greensboro St., A-8 Carr Mill Mall Carrboro 919.455.0749 www.wineanddesign.com/location/chapelhill-nc/home Wine and Design Chapel Hill offers you the opportunity to have an exciting night out with friends, family members or coworkers. Our paint parties are led by local artists who feature a different painting every night. It’s the perfect place to let loose and uncork your creative side with good friends and great wine. No experience required. Our ArtBuzz Kids programs allow little ones to join the fun, too. The studio is relocating to The Glen Lennox Shopping Center on Hwy 54 in June 2015. CHATHAM ANIMAL RESCUE AND EDUCATION 40TH BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION (919) 542-5757 www.chathamanimalrescue.org Chatham Animal Rescue and Education (CARE) celebrates its 40th birthday this year! Join us at the Pittsboro Roadhouse Sunday, October 4 from 4 to 8 pm for the North Carolina debut of the 2015 Internet Cat Video Festival, produced and curated by the Walker Arts Center. Pasta buffet, cupcake contest, raffle items, and door prizes. Purchase tickets online at www.chathamanimalrescue.org. RESALE CIRCLE CITY BOOKS & MUSIC 121 Hillsboro St., Pittsboro 919.548.5954 Weekdays 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. , Saturday 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. and Sunday 12 p.m. to 5 p.m. Circle City offers a wide selection of rare, used and unusual books, vinyl and CDs. The store can also offer book owners a way to sell their most valuable books though its online branch to achieve the highest return possible, even as the market for used books contracts. Entire libraries or small collections, direct sale or consignment. SETTING THE BAR REVIEW Monthly review by Kelly Archer Fullsteam Brewery Location: 726 Rigsbee Avenue, Durham Price: $ Age range: All welcome until 9 p.m., 21 and up after Atmosphere With a laid-back atmosphere and a large variety on tap, Fullsteam Brewery is one of the defining points in the constellation of cool eats and drinks in the garden district of downtown Durham. If you’re still skeptical about Durham’s ability to provide for a relaxed afternoon or evening out, don’t be — Motorco, Cocoa Cinnamon, and Fullsteam are scattered around the park and farmers’ market, providing the perfect balance of quiet and hip scenes for gathering. Fullsteam’s tagline is “plow-to-pint beer from the beautiful South,” which, while not that unique of a concept in the area, is an accurate description of a warm yet proudly independent brewery with a mission to define Southern beer. I strongly recommend taking advantage of the refurbished warehouse vibe for a late summer or early fall evening. The doors are thrown open to a huge dining hall-like arrangement of long tables, and the outdoor picnic tables are either encircled by twinkly lights, or they overlook the streets for prime people-watching. None of this, however, is exceptionally conducive to colder weather — but the location is versatile. While the crowd is overwhelmingly hip post-grads, a pool table and arcade games make it possible for children to tag along, and the outdoor area provides for an assortment of canine companions. There are post-work patrons hunched over their work-related materials with a cold pint, and there are tables claimed entirely by mob-sized young gatherings. I’ve even seen a man — with an infant strapped to his chest — enjoying a cold brew with friends. It’s casual afternoon drinking at its best. But be warned: You are at risk to be swarmed by group runners in neon attire, sweating profusely, at any moment. It’s not the place to go for an intimate drink. Chill Factor Fullsteam is both limited and freed by its degree of “chill.” It attracts food trucks, which are almost always parked directly out front for a convenient dinner or snack. A stage (largely ignored unless supporting a band) makes for great easy listening live music. The large industrial space is also ideal for spirited trivia nights and yoga classes. All this contributes to a great community feel despite the fact you’re surrounded, overwhelmingly, by strangers. If you like to cozy up to a physical bar, you’re a little out of luck; the bar itself is usually suffocated by people ordering beers, growlers or flights. It’s a little dark and muggy compared to the other bars in the area. If you’re looking to avoid children and dogs while drinking, you’re also out of luck. Fullsteam allows children until 9 p.m. because they say it shows drinking in a responsible and positive light. Children are welcome at the establishment as long as they are well-behaved and I found it didn’t distract from my experience. If anything, it contributes to the community hangout dynamic. One may make the easy misconception that because it is a local brewery, the ratio of hipsters to casual drinkers might be skewed. I can assure you this is not the case, and there is a comfortable balance between knowledgeable and casual drinkers, both young and old. Menu If you’ve never had Fullsteam beer before, I highly recommend getting a flight, which will run you $12 and meant to be shared. The beers are locally brewed, served all over North Carolina. I’m an adventurous drinker and will try anything, which made for an exciting tasting experience. Never Photo by Kelly Archer At Fullsteam, the whole family is welcome. Children are allowed until 9 p.m. assume your tastes in beer until you try everything. Because it is a brewery and tavern, you have the rare ability to sample a variety of beer types while having experts at your disposal to explain beer types and the brewing process, so take advantage of this. I started my flight with the Basil Summer Farmhouse ale, a crisp beer that is a must in summer months. The smoked Hogwash is the best way to get a taste of N.C. with its combination of bacon and chocolate notes — but certainly don’t order a pint of this unless you’re confident in your appreciation of dark beers. The Carver sweet potato lager also supports the North Carolina authenticity, as does the Fearrington Southern lager with a clever nod to the local farm. The tavern also serves wine, cider, soda and iced coffee. However, there is no liquor served at this establishment. Verdict There aren’t many locations in the area where you can get the full brewery-tavern experience. This makes Fullsteam a somewhat coveted desti- Now offering CLEAR CORRECT Clear Aligner Orthodontic Therapy 110 Banks Drive, Chapel Hill twww.keithtaylordds.com BEFORE nation. It also puts a lot of pressure on the location to make it worth the drive when many of the beers are available on tap at other restaurants. While I think the beer quality and happy-go-lucky crowd manages to make it worth the trip, the industrial space layout is not a unique concept anymore. It seems to limit the gatherings to a casual late afternoon or early evening outing. The weather, timing and general feel of the entire group has to be very intentional as well, making Fullsteam a time- and evening-consuming event. Additionally, you are limited, obviously, to beer. If you only stomach light beers on the occasional weekend, this might not be the spot for you. Not taking advantage of the varieties of beer feels almost insulting to a brewery that takes so much pride in its creations. Overall, Fullsteam offers a wide variety of exotic-sounding, but locally-brewed beers served by a knowledgable staff. Be sure to check out the schedule of events on Fullsteam’s website. The tavern hosts a running club, dog walk, comedy shows, trivia, yoga classes and local bands. 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From those experiences, I started Appointment Friend as a way to provide a much needed service that I know people will appreciate.” Kolimaga is Red Cross certified, knows First Aid, and has been trained in CPR (cardio-pulmonary resuscitation, AED (automated external defibrillator), fire/life safety, and HIPAA privacy and security training for non-clinicians. Coming from a 25-year career in clinical research with organizations like the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, the Department of Veterans Affairs, the National Cancer Institute, and Duke University, Kolimaga founded Appointment Friend in January of 2015 and is excited to be launching this new endeavor. After so many years of helping people through health services research, Kolimaga’s new business is a natural extension of her mission to help others. With Appointment Friend, LLC, Triangle area residents now have a resource for reliable, discreet, on-time transportation to and from medical appointments. 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He cautions residents to always know the people who come into their homes to provide any type of service. “Don’t be shy,” Swanson says, “to ask service providers if they have insurance and if they run background checks, so that if something bad happens though no fault of your own, you as the homeowner will not be held responsible.” You also want to be protected in the worst case that theft occurs in your home. The service provider will offer this protection by having a 3rd party theft bond (the third party being the customer). Ray explains there are a few basic categories that you want to be sure are covered: what happens if damage to the home occurs, if something is stolen, if a key is lost and the house needs to be re-keyed, and what happens if someone working in your home is injured through an accident that you weren’t responsible for. Finally, ask about workers compensation. This is coverage that will pay the workers medical bills in the case where they become injured in the house due to their own negligence or accident. However, if an investigation points to negligence on the part of the homeowner, say for example a detached carpet on a staircase caused a fall, then the homeowner could be ultimately held responsible. Background checks are important as well, Swanson says. While the purpose of bonding insurance is to cover the loss when a theft occurs, the purpose of doing a background check is to minimize a chance of having a person in the home who would take something in the first place. Comprehensive background checks include national and local searches for felony, misdemeanor and sex offender offenses. Maid Right of Durham carries all this insurance and prides themselves on placing only the most qualified professionals in the home. Swanson says it’s important to recognize that while a home may look clean, it may not actually be clean. And this is where Maid Right also differs from other cleaning companies in some distinctive ways. With their exclusive EnviroShield home disinfecting process, 99% of common bacteria and viruses such as H1N1 and E. coli are eliminated. The company uses only Eco-friendly cleaning agents and their HEPA vacuums are especially helpful for homes with pets or family members with allergies. And their color-coded cleaning process also ensures that a cloth used to sanitize a bathroom never touches another surface in your home. With Maid Right you get the same cleaner each time, there are no contracts and the company guarantees the quality of its work. With advanced degrees in science and business, Swanson has managed bio-tech businesses in the U.S. and Japan for 25 years. He understands the importance of a healthy environment for families. 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The other 18 or 19 days were spent driving, mountain biking, mountain climbing, exploring the Vegas strip – and a whole lot more. The kids were all members of my son’s Boy Scout troop. The primary purpose for the trip was to go to a high-adventure camp in New Mexico called Philmont (hence the backpacking). But we packed a whole lot more into it. Yes – I survived. All the kids came back in one piece. And a good time was had by all. In all honesty – the trip went by fast. But it took a lot of time and work to make it happen. We- the boys and leaders – committed a year in advance in order to enter the lottery at Philmont for a trek the following summer. The boys needed time to raise money. We needed time Niche Gardens NURSERY GROW WILD with NATIVES! 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While you may not have done it before, there are advisers out there like me who help folks figure out their plan and how to get on the path to their goals. They know what the common bumps are and how to plan for them. But they aren’t miracle workers and can’t change everything on a dime. It still takes time to work out a plan and it’ll take you time to make it happen. But just like my trip this summer, planning in advance and being ready for the unexpected can lead to one heck of a good time that just seems to fly by. 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I think the most alarming statistics are the amount of drinking and driving. What can parents do? DAVID SHANKS, LCSW, MBA, PLLC 919-260-7213 [email protected] www.davidshanks.com According to the Centers for Disease Control, although drinking by persons under the age of 21 is illegal, people aged 12 to 20 years drink 11% of all alcohol consumed in the United States. More than 90% of this alcohol is consumed in the form of binge drinks. On average, underage drinkers consume more drinks per drinking occasion than adult drinkers. The 2013 Youth Risk Behavior Survey found that among high school students, during the past 30 days, 35% drank some amount of alcohol, 21% binge drank, 10% drove after drinking alcohol, 22% rode with a driver who had been drinking The first and obvious answer is to pay attention to your teen and do your best to communicate. If you are having trouble talking, maybe that is a place to start. If your attempts to have a conversation aren’t working, that in itself can be a red flag that something is up. A therapist can help troubleshoot the problem and restore some degree of trust and open communication. If you do find out that your teen has been drinking, the first rule is keep your cool. Reacting with anger will most likely get in the way of having a productive conversation. It’s important talk with your teen and try to find out what is going on. Is this early experimentation or is it a regular habit? Are they driving or riding with drivers who are drinking? It can be a real challenge to stay rational if you find out that your child is taking part in seriously dangerous activities. Many parents react by getting angry, shaming the teen, and often blaming themselves or their spouse. This is understandable, however, it risks further alienation, which can lead to more acting out and rebellion. A more skillful reaction is to seek to find ways of helping the teen make better decisions. Teens do need limits and consequences, but limits and consequences are often ineffective or counter productive if the teen does not have a positive connection to the parents. There are many reasons teens drink. Obviously we live in a culture in which they see alcohol consumption as a sign of adulthood. Communication is always important but I think the biggest issue, which can be addressed is the amount of stress teens today feel. Kids who are doing well in school and activities are typically under enormous pressure to perform. And kids who aren’t doing well are under just as much pressure – most of it negative. Many teens have issues with self-confidence and find drinking is a way to loosen up and feel more relaxed in social situations. A preventive strategy for dealing with alcohol abuse is, first, to have a good sense of your teen’s level of stress and how well they are developing coping skills. Life is going to be full of stress. What we all want is for our teens to grow up into adults who can handle what life brings. If you see your teen is not doing well, maybe it’s time to get some help from a skilled therapist. Some signs of distress include outbursts of anger, isolation, unwillingness to talk about what is bothering them, depression, dark moods, video game addictions, binge eating, and social media addictions. While some of these may seem “normal” they are all signs of underlying distress that can lead to run away problems including alcohol and drug abuse. 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