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Emotional
Manipulation
Understanding Manipulators &
Helping Their Victims
The different types of Emotional Manipulators
How Emotional Manipulators test for vulnerabilities to locate their next victim
The manipulative devices of Emotional Manipulators
Help victims understand what Emotional Manipulators really want
Techniques to help victims STOP their emotional manipulation
Toms River, NJ - May 26
Edison, NJ - May 27
Parsippany, NJ - May 28
Paramus, NJ - May 29
Harrisburg, PA - June 23
Wilkes-Barre, PA - June 24
Bensalem, PA - June 25
Philadelphia, PA - June 26
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Emotional
Manipulation
Understanding Manipulators &
Helping Their Victims
Behind the Mask of Manipulation
Emotional manipulation penetrates almost every disorder and complicates many lives and relationships. People who use emotional manipulation
hide beneath the mask of love, concern, dedication, and friendship, while using guilt, button-pushing, subtle anger, and many types of covert ploys
to keep their victims in place, getting their victims to do whatever they want. The words of Emotional Manipulators have multiple meanings hiding
their true and scheming motives. They carefully maneuver between that fine balance of skimpily giving to others, but getting so much more. They
are masters of getting others to believe they are doing everything for them while hiding their “what’s in it for me” motives. They carefully craft
every sentence with their own selfish needs hidden between each word.
This seminar is a thorough investigation into the various types of emotional manipulation commonly associated with disorders such as antisocial
personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and borderline personality disorder. Although many people are excellent emotional
manipulators, they are not personality disordered. However, research finds that emotional manipulation is also utilized by abusers and their victims;
sex offenders; and even bosses who emotionally manipulate their employees! Additionally, this dynamic is often found in the home when children
and adult-children emotionally manipulate their parents, or parents emotionally manipulate their children. This program focuses on helping mental
healthcare professionals recognize these individuals and begin intervention with their victims to minimize their destructive behavior. Participants
will learn what drives Emotional Manipulators; the vulnerable thoughts of their victims; and how Emotional Manipulators continually manipulate
their victims. Most importantly, professionals will discover how to help victims develop coping techniques to lessen the impact of emotional
manipulation. At the end of the day, attendees will leave with a deeper understanding of Emotional Manipulators, their victims, and methods to
assist these individuals in disengaging from unhealthy communication.
Course Director
James A. Fogarty, EdD, is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Certified School Psychologist, national lecturer, and author. Throughout
the last 30 years he has specialized in grief and trauma with children, adolescents, and teens. His specialization is inter-related with other
clinical issues including family counseling, behavioral management, crisis management, relationship counseling, and treating severe
conduct disorders and personality disorders. His work with relationship counseling and personality disorders led him to work with
survivors of Emotional Manipulators. He is the author of the books The Magical Thoughts of Grieving Children and Overindulged
Children: A Parent’s Guide to Mentoring, and is currently writing the book Emotional Manipulation with an associated workbook.
Visit Dr. Fogarty’s website at www.drjimfogarty.com to see his books and place an order.
This seminar was EXCELLENT! I learned more
today than in any seminar I’ve attended over the
past year. Dr. Fogarty was knowledgeable, engaging
and funny. I would highly recommend him!
Mariam Mott, Psychologist
Oceanside, CA
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Course Hours
Dates & Locations
7:30 AM - Registration (Coffee/hot tea provided)
8:00 AM - 3:30 PM - Seminar
(One-hour break for lunch on your own. )
Toms River - May 26, 2015
TR Hotel
290 Hwy 37 E, Toms River, NJ 08753 732-244-4000
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Edison - May 27, 2015
Edison Hotel
1173 King George Post Rd, Edison, NJ 08837 732-661-1000
What You Will Learn
Parsippany - May 28, 2015
Holiday Inn Parsippany
707 Rte 46 E, Parsippany, NJ 07054 973-263-2000
u Discuss a working definition of emotional manipulation and the
relationship to emotional intelligence
u Identify the 10 types of emotional manipulators using
clinical examples
u Identify the covert manipulative tools of emotional manipulators
using clinical examples
u Recognize the magical thoughts of emotional manipulators and
utilize a model to lessen the impact of emotional manipulation
u Explain emotional manipulators’ effective use of shame, blame,
and doubt with their victims
u Apply techniques based on cognitive therapy, psychodrama, and
grief counseling to support and to help a victim cope with their
emotional manipulator
u Review the magical thoughts of their victims
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Paramus - May 29, 2015
Holiday Inn Saddle Brook Hotel
129 Pehle Ave, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663 201-845-7800
Harrisburg - June 23, 2015
Red Lion Harrisburg East
4751 Lindle Rd, Harrisburg, PA 17111 717-939-7841
Wilkes-Barre - June 24, 2015
Quality Inn & Suites
880 Kidder St, Wilkes-Barre, PA 18702 570-824-8901
Bensalem - June 25, 2015
Best Western Plus Philadelphia Bensalem
3499 Street Rd, Bensalem, PA 19020 215-638-1500
Philadelphia - June 26, 2015
DoubleTree by Hilton Philadelphia Int’l Airport
4509 Island Ave, Philadelphia, PA 19153 215-365-4150
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Course Content
DEFINITION OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION
u A working definition of emotional manipulation
u A composite of many definitions
u Examples of Emotional Manipulators
10 TYPES OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATORS
u The Constant Victim
u The One-Upmanship Expert
u Powerful Dependents
u The Triangulators
u The Blasters
u The Projectors
u The Misinterpreters
u The Flirts
u The Iron Fist
u The Multiple Offender
TOOLS OF THE EMOTIONAL MANIPULATOR:
WITH DEFINITIONS & EXAMPLES!
u Guilt is their specialty
u Pretending to be victimized by the victim
u Changing the meaning of words
u Powerful dependencies
u Entitlement
u Covert badgering
u Hiding behind the mask
u Irritability
u Experts in triangulation
u Pretending to be ill or suicidal
u Using provocative behavior
u The deceptions of constantly being misunderstood
u How they attack their victim’s self-esteem
u Isolate, destroy and enjoy the effect!
u Manipulative disappointment
u How they pretend: “No one understands like you do”
u The smoke screen they utilize
u How they pretend: “I’m your number one fan”
u How they use enticements for desired behavior
MAGICAL THOUGHTS OF EMOTIONAL
MANIPULATORS
u If I am pompous, I avoid shame
u If I am a victim, I have power
u If I triangulate, I get revenge
u If I promise love, I get sex
u If I blame you, you will give me what I want
u If I break you, I own you
u If I indulge, I am the preferred parent
u If I threaten or pressure, I motivate
10 WAYS EMOTIONAL MANIPULATORS TEST FOR
VULNERABILITIES TO FIND THEIR VICTIMS
u The pen test
u Grooming—”Getting to know you, getting to know all
about you”
u Testing for dependencies
u The shotgun blast
u Sympathetic attitude to learn their victim’s history
u Categorizing people
u Test for desperateness—cat and mouse when first getting
to know their victim
u Deluge the new victim with every type of attention
u Extreme interest
u Impressing their victim—the test of shallowness
QUALITIES & MAGICAL THOUGHTS OF
THEIR VICTIMS
u Co-dependent
u Looking for love—desperately
u Perceive bad qualities of manipulators as strength
u Caring and loving
u Want to please/feel overly responsible
u Unfulfilled needs
u Abuse and/or neglected in childhood
u Vulnerable
u Passionate
u Immune to falling out of love
TECHNIQUES TO STOP VICTIMS FROM BEING
VICTIMS
u Changing their perception of the Emotional Manipulator
u Adjust the perception of a victim into a survivor
u Re-structuring the survivor’s cognitive distortions
u Creating healthy barriers between the Emotional
Manipulator and the survivor
u Teaching survivors to recognize their own vulnerabilities
u Instruct survivors to more easily recognize Emotional
Manipulators
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