Joined In Education Sponsors Three-Days of Anti
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Joined In Education Sponsors Three-Days of Anti
Vol. 34, No. 8 Elul-Tishrei 5772/3 September 2012 An Affiliate of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Joined In Education Sponsors Three-Days Meet Our New Shlicha, of Anti-Bullying Programs Roni Amitai Lee Hirsch, Director of the film “Bully,” to Keynote Event What do an eight-year-old girl, a 17-year-old boy and a 68-yearold grandmother have in common? They all can be bullies and they all can be bullied. Unlike the caricatures of 50 years ago, bullies don’t conform to any particular size or gender, nor do they limit their prowess to the playground. Buses, shopping malls, parties, and the internet all qualify. And although most people don’t need a formal definition, Allan L. Beane, Ph.D., and author of the “A Mini-guide for Parents,” defines bullying as “when a per- son or group of people hurts, nationally recogembarrasses, or frightens nized speakers and another person on purpose workshops targeted over and over again.” to different age According to the groups, as well as American Society for the additional separate Prevention of Cruelty to programs for teachChildren (ASPCC), each ers, parents, and school day, nearly 160,000 administrators. students skip school for fear Mariashi Groner, of physical and verbal abuse director of CJDS from their peers. “Many hopes that “parents Lee Hirsch more attend school in a and educators will chronic state of anxiety and learn to identify the differences depression,” the website says, and between true bullying versus “it’s reported that six out of 10 developmentally typical childAmerican youth witness bullying hood interactions and how to at least once a day. address each case.” Elka Bernstein, director of CJP JIE, a non-profit collaborative is excited to be co-hosting this effort of Charlotte Jewish Day program, “Bullying has become School, the Jewish Preschool on an issue at younger and younger Sardis and Charlotte Jewish ages; we hope that by shining a Preschool, creates synergy light on this problem, we can set between three institutions, their new standards for children in their professionals and their volunteers interactions with others.” and demonstrates that organizaLee Hirsch, director of the crit- tions with a common goal can ically acclaimed “Bully,” will work cooperatively to bring speak at Knight Theater Tuesday, greater opportunities to the comJanuary 15, using dozens of clips munity. from the movie to take the audiFor more information, contact ence on his journey. On JIE at www.joinedineducation.org Wednesday, January 16, a day- or call Gale Osborne at 704-366long symposium, “Stand up to 4558.Y Bullying” will feature several Also Inside: The High Holy Days Five local rabbis present their view of our Days of Awe. See pages 31-35 About fifty years ago, a small neighborhood of Jerusalem to cre12-year old boy and his family, ate and guide a leadership group of people with special who had only just made needs. The group’s aliya to Israel from the aim was to improve Soviet Union were accessibility in their taken to live in Kiryat suburb both physically Gat. Twenty years later, and socially. Together a young girl from with a steering comAustralia, who had only mittee and volunteers come for a few weeks to within the epilepsy volunteer in Kibbutz community, I also Hazerim, decided to worked in the Israel make aliya. Epilepsy Association That is the story of in charge of advocacy my parents who met in Roni Amitai and promoting the Israel as students and National Awareness only 10 days after meeting, decided to marry. And so, my Week. At the local high school, I story begins – Roni Amitai, your moderated workshops designed to new Israel emissary, the daughter prepare students to cope with their forthcoming army service and of Janet and Zvika. Hello! My name is Roni personal dilemmas. My real passion is working Amitai, and I am the new shlicha, or community emissary, for with people to help empower Charlotte. I was born and grew up them. I believe that now is the in Mevasseret Zion, a community time to begin to develop the spirijust outside of Jerusalem over- tual assets of the Jewish people looking the main road to Tel Aviv. and the State of Israel by finding I have two older brothers – Gilad the connection between the two and Matan – both of whom served through community work. Only in elite units of the IDF and who by understanding our mutual story are now creating their own fami- can we preserve Jewish culture in lies. My father has an insurance its various shades. I am looking forward to getting brokerage company and my mother owns a Re/Max real-estate fran- to know each and every one of chise. However, if you ask them you and working together to crewho they are and not what they ate a special connection. I know do, my mother would answer that that the Charlotte Jewish commushe has a degree in archaeology nity is a strong and prosperous and is a social activist and my community, which contributes to father would say that he is a poet itself as well as to its surroundings and a professional wine-lover. and believes that the connection to They have always been active in the State of Israel is the essential their town striving to make a con- and central source for the contintribution to their community as ued existence of both. The shaliach program is funded well as being active members of the synagogue for Progressive by the Jewish Federation of Judaism where I was called to the Greater Charlotte and is a program of the Jewish Agency for Torah. It was only natural that I too Israel (JAFI). The shlicha serves would look to make a personal as an emissary from Israel, reprecontribution and so I volunteered senting her country and educating for Magen David Adom for three our community on Israel and years while in high school, after Zionism. If you are interested in which I was recruited to the army asking Roni to join you for a proas a non-commissioned officer in gram in your community, please the Casualty Unit. My job was to contact the Jewish Federation at be a liaison between the army and 704-944-6757 or email shaliinjured soldiers and bereaved [email protected]. Y families. As a natural continuation of my army service, my choice for academic studies was Community Social Work and I am now proud to be a graduate of The Hebrew University of Jerusalem. My practical training brought me together with the disabled in the Gilo 5007 Providence Road, Suite #112 Charlotte, NC 28226 Change Service Requested PRSRT STD U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT # 1208 CHARLOTTE, NC The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 2 JEWISH FEDERATION NEWS Jewish Federation Announces New Impact Fund For 2013 The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte has recently undergone a strategic planning process, and one of the meaningful outcomes of the plan is a review of our current allocations model. Community members and agency leaders have participated in recent focus groups and discussions as part of this allocations review, and several worthy and innovative recommendations have been suggested. While the majority of any proposed changes will not occur until 2014 or later, Federation is excited about one opportunity in particular that will be implemented for 2013. As part of the allocations review process, one of our mospressing goals is to minimize any disruption to our existing beneficiary agencies while capitalizing on the unique opportunities presented to us at this time in the review process. Thanks to a strong 2012 Annual Campaign, Impact Fund applications and information are available in the Federation office. SHABBAT AND HOLIDAY CANDLE LIGHTING FOR SEPTEMBER 2012 Friday, September 7, 7:23 PM Friday, September 14, 7:13 PM Erev Rosh HaShanah, September 17, 8:04 PM 2nd Erev Rosh HaShanah, September 18, after 8:04 PM Friday, September 21, 7:03 PM Erev Yom Kippur, September 25, 6:57 PM Friday, September 28, 6:53 PM Erev Sukkot, September 30, 6:50 PM The Charlotte Jewish News 5007 Providence Road, Suite 112 Charlotte, NC 28226 Young Adult Division we are excited to announce the creation of an Impact Fund for 2013. The Impact Fund will provide currently funded agencies and other organizations the opportunity to request funding to help support new or expanded programs or initiatives that meet critical community and Federation priorities. More information on the Impact Fund – including grant criteria and RFP’s – will be available in September, with deliberations and grant announcements occurring in November. 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Published monthly except July An affliate of: CONTENTS Federation News......................................pp. 2-7 Schools....................................................pp. 8-10 Women’s Page.............................................p. 10 Jewish Family Services ..............................p. 11 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library.....................p. 13 Mazel Tov.....................................................p. 14 Community News................................pp. 16-19 Dining Out ..........................................pp. 20, 21 Youth............................................................p. 22 Synagogues/Cong. .........................pp. 23, 26-30 Jewish Community Center................pp. 24, 25 High Holy Days ...................................pp. 31-35 I would like to make a contribution to demonstrate my support of The Charlotte Jewish News. 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If you find an error in your listing, please contact our office at 704-944-6761. Agency Boards and Staffs Achieve 100% Giving The mission of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte is to raise and distribute funds to support and enrich the lives of Jews locally, nationally, in Israel and worldwide. Through education, planning and community building, the Federation’s mission ensures that Jewish values, goals, traditions and connections are preserved for current and future generations. The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte appreciates the support from the boards of directors of the following beneficiary agencies/institutions that have achieved 100% giving to the 2012 Annual Campaign: Beth Shalom of Lake Norman Charlotte Jewish Day School Charlotte Jewish Film Festival Committee Charlotte Jewish News Charlotte Jewish Preschool Congregation Ohr HaTorah Consolidated High School of Jewish Studies Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community Foundation of Shalom Park Friendship Circle Hebrew Cemetery Association Jewish Family Services Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Jewish Preschool on Sardis Lake Norman Jewish Congregation Lake Norman Jewish Council Levine Jewish Community Center Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center Shalom Park Freedom School Committee Temple Beth El Tikvah Charlotte In addition, the 2012 Annual Campaign recognizes and appreciates the support of the following agencies/institutions that have achieved 100% staff participation in the campaign: B’nai B’rith Youth Organization Charlotte Jewish Day School Charlotte Jewish News Consolidated High School of Jewish Studies* Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community Foundation of Shalom Park Hebrew Cemetery Association Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Jewish Preschool on Sardis* Levine Jewish Community Center* Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center Temple Beth El Tikvah Charlotte *full time staff The Charlotte Jewish News -September 2012 - Page 7 MAKE A WISH. ROSH HASHANAH IS THE WORLD’S BIRTHDAY What do you wish for? Less poverty and hunger? More jobs? A greater sense of community between people? Whatever your wish, the Jewish Federation is working to make it real. We care for people in need here at home, in Israel and around the world, and we nurture and sustain the Jewish community. That’s something to celebrate. Help us make this the best year ever. DONATE. VOLUNTEER. MAKE A DIFFERENCE. TOGETHER T OGETHER WE DO D EXTRAORDINARY EX TRAORDINAR O Y THINGS THINGS 704.944.6757 ww www.jewishcharlotte.org w.j. ewishcharlotte.org www.facebook.com/jewishcharlotte www.facebook.c com/jewishcharlotte The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 8 Schools David Epstein Speaks at Grandparents’ Day 2012 at Charlotte Jewish Day School “Our sages teach us that the purest form of philanthropy is when the donor gives anonymously and the recipient is also anonymous. “However, there is a corollary to this teaching — our sages also teach us that we should be a model for others and that we should lead by example. “And so, on that basis, hoping that you will follow our example, and the example of the previous recipients of this award [Jerry and Barbara Levin and Bill and Patty Gorelick], we are extremely thrilled and appreciative to receive the Barbara and Jerry Levin Visionary Award. “ … I hope you don’t mind the infomercial I am about to give. … I was mentored many years ago to understand that whenever there is a Jewish gathering, whatever the reason, there should be some fund-raising. It seems to be part of our DNA. “Well, Aleen and I are here to tell you that thanks to … Mariashi Groner, our outstanding and totally committed faculty, our !00,%0)#+).' &MP9MSLE&?KGJGCQ 02%0!2% for Rosh Hashanah while having a great time! 0)#+ a variety of luscious apples for your holiday table at a family friendly orchard. %.*/9 the many great features at Carrigan Farms! Sunday, September 9 10:00 am Carrigan Farms, Mooresville, NC $10 per person (children under 2 are free) Includes hayride, tour, cider tasting and half a peck of apples to take home! Register online at www.jewishcharlotte.org (RSVP Required by Sept 6) Questions??? Contact Tair Giudice, Director of Outreach & Engagement 704.944.6759 or [email protected] Development Team, our PTO organization, our support staff, and our Officers and members of the Board of Trustees, the Charlotte Jewish Day School is, for its size, the best day school in our entire country. “Our children are getting a fabulous secular education, which more than matches up with any private or public school in Charlotte. Our children compete well with their peers in the private and public school systems and our children always come out at or near the top, when they are tested against their peers. “Mariashi and her staff are innovative, progressive, and forward thinking. For example, this year, as part of our ever-changing curriculum, they have installed the most advanced global studies program available, which has opened our children to the world in which we live. “Our children are taught to be curious and to think outside of the box. Best of all, our children are being given the basis of a moral compass that will serve them for a lifetime. “Our children are happy, they are eager to come to school every day, and they are excited with what each school day brings to them. “Our children are also getting a very strong background in Judaica. Now, that does not mean that all of our graduates will be rabbis. Nor is that the school’s purpose. But, our graduates will leave our school with a knowledge of Judaism that will give them comfort regardless of the environment they’re in. “I recently attended a Bat Mitzvah of one of our recent graduates in which the rabbi paid tribute to her Hebrew education. Paraphrasing the rabbi, he said: ‘You have not been trained only to be a Bat Mitzvah; you have been taught what it means to be a young Jewish woman who will comfortably take her place in the Jewish community.’ This is what our Day School is all about and I could not think of a bigger compliment to our school. “And I can assure you that each of our students is educated from their first day in school until their graduation to take their place as members of the Jewish community when their time comes. “Now, for some bad news. I recently spent some time on a website that concentrates on Day School education. Unfortunately, I must report to you that I do not think there is a Day School in the United States or Canada that does not operate at a deficit. It just is not possible to give the quality education which our children receive and keep the tuition affordable without running at a deficit. “And, I cannot emphasize how important it is to the Day School and our families that our tuition is kept affordable. This is something Aleen and David Epstein that Mariashi and the Board struggle with on a daily basis. “ … it is important that our tuition be kept affordable because many of our families have more than one student in the Day School; our families have mortgages, they have auto payments, and they have many other obligations, not to mention the difficult economy they are experiencing. “ … it is also important that our tuition be kept affordable because our school competes with the private school sector. For some of our families, where they send their children to school is strictly an economic decision. “Fortunately, here in Charlotte, we get significant support from our Federation, for which our school is deeply appreciative. Our annual campaign is also a very essential source in closing the gap in our annual deficit. Our school is always having one sort of fundraiser or another and our PTO and others are always looking for new fundraising ideas. However, none of these sources is enough. “And this is where all of us come in; it is critical that we, the grandparents of our students, support the Day School to the greatest extent possible. Without the support of our grandparents, our Day School cannot exist. “I realize that many of our grandparents gathered here today are already helping your children with the tuition payments. Isn’t that a ‘no brainer’? What better use can any of us make of our funds than to insure that our grandchildren are able to receive a Day School education? “And I urge you not to forget the Day School once your grandchildren graduate. Please continue to keep the Charlotte Jewish Day School in your charitable thoughts. “It is true that many of you support Jewish institutions in your own home cities and I agree that this is your first obligation. But, we are all here today to celebrate the accomplishments of these wonderful children at this very special school right here. This is only the beginning of your grandchildren’s Jewish life. “Statistically, study after study has established that our grandchildren who have received a Day School education are more likely to be leaders in high school, on college campuses, and in their communities. I am sure that their intermarriage rates (Continued on page 9) The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 9 Judaism Comes Alive at The Jewish Preschool on Sardis What better way to learn about the Jewish Holidays than to experience them first hand. At the Jewish Preschool on Sardis, Judaism and the holidays are celebrated in so many ways. Take a peek into our world through these photos: Larry Horowitz, CLU, ChFC L2 Financial 5950 Fairview Road, Suite 608 Charlotte, NC 28210 (704) 556-9982, Fax (704) 369-2918 www.L2financial.com www.L2financial.com Rabbi Groner shows the JPS students a shofar and demonstrates all the sounds it will make on Rosh Hashana. Helping in the CREATION, PRESERVATION & DISTRIBUTION of your Estate Evan Samantha Barrett makes her own round raisin challah for Rosh Hashana. Larry Horowitz is an Investment Advisor Representative of, and offers securities, and investment advisory services through Woodbury Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA, SIPC and Registered Investment Advisor. L2 Financial and Woodbury Financial Services, Inc., are not affiliated entities. The 4s class looks on as the Bee Man shows them how honey is made. Max Hoody is assisted by CJDS student Jacob Carbuto in making a Sukkah cookie during a special Sukkot trip to the Charlotte Jewish Day School. Daniel Ben-Yohanan, Corey Margulis, Julianna Bamert enjoys and Amitai Lapidot-Boaz enjoy lunch in her chance to shake a real lulav and etrog in the their classroom Sukkah. JPS Sukkah. Molly Kosofsky waves her flag while dancing with her Torah on Simchat Torah Fun Day. )5((&2168/7$7,21 0HGLFDUH6XSSOHPHQW $QG/RQJ7HUP&DUH Rabbi Groner shows the JPS students a real Torah and allows each child to give it a kiss. x David Epstein’s Speech at CJDS x (Continued from page 8) are lower and I am sure that they are more likely to give their children a Day School education and repeat the cycle. “What we are saying is this — it does not matter whether you live in Atlanta or Florida or up north or anywhere else outside of Charlotte — when you support the Charlotte Jewish Day School you are providing for the future of Judaism; you are giving our Charlotte children a start but where the children of Charlotte end up living it is not possible to predict. The point is that the Charlotte Jewish Day School is not only about Charlotte — it is about the future health, strength, and vibrancy of our people. “Our Day School has many opportunities which you may support. And within the next few weeks, we hope to be able to announce a matching program which will allow us to leverage some gifts by an additional 50%. “Don’t hesitate to contact me or Gale Osborne, our Development Director. We are here to answer any questions you have. “Let us end with a quick confession. We have two grandchildren here in Charlotte. They both went to the Jewish Preschool on Sardis but their parents made educational choices for them which did not include the Day School. “However, that has not stopped Aleen and me from taking ownership of the school. We see the Charlotte Jewish Day School as our best opportunity to preserve our Jewish future. “Please join us in this effort.”Y Find Out x x x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he Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 10 The CJP’s Olympic Team By Elka Bernstein, CJP Director CJP’s Olympic Team … mmm … aren’t the Olympics over? Though you are reading this article in the September edition of the CJN, this article has been written during the 2012 Olympics. As I welcomed our full day families back on July 29 at Meet the Teacher, I thought about CJP in relation to the Olympic Rings. The five rings represent the five continents. They are interlaced to show the universality of Olympism and the meeting of the athletes of the world during the Olympic Games. At CJP the five rings represent parent, students, staff, and CJP’s partners coming together to create an environment that allows each child to achieve personal excellence. The blue ring represents our CJP parents. Our parents formulate the foundation for who their children are and will become. They work hand-in-hand with the CJP staff to ensure a strong marriage between home and school. The parents are our precious volunteers that staff our board, Parent Teacher Organization and are extra hands in our classrooms for special school events. The black ring represents our amazing staff. The CJP has a passion for children, preschool education and Judaism. Our CJP staff has a combined total of over 350 years experience at the Charlotte Jewish Preschool. Our teachers work hard to develop each child socially, emotionally, physically, and academically, so they can reach their potential. The red ring represents our children. They are why we are here. The beauty of each child’s heart, spirit, and soul come pouring out as they sing in circle time, jump on the playground, or work hard at the many educational centers provided in the classrooms. We get to witness as friendships bloom and mensches are created. Though we are here to teach these beautiful children, we, in fact, are taught by them each and every day. The yellow ring represents the Strength of the Charlotte Jewish Preschool’s Partnership. CJP is a unique preschool that developed from the partnership of three Jewish Agencies; Temple Beth El, Temple Israel, and The Levine Jewish Community Center. These three Jewish Agencies work alongside CJP to ensure a quality Jewish and secular education. The rabbis and LJCC staff are with our children weekly providing various programming like Shabbat, music, or gym class, or an impromptu meeting with the children. The green and final ring represents the Spirit of the Charlotte Jewish Preschool. The spirit of our preschool is a combination of interlocking rings. Without this “marriage” of parents, staff, students and partners, CJP would be a much different place. This marriage has been long lasting with our 25th anniversary quickly approaching. With the High Holy days quickly approaching, CJP would like to wish everyone L’shanah Tovah Tikatev V’taihatem, may you be inscribed and sealed for a good year. Learn. Grow. Connect. with our staff and families at the Charlotte Jewish Preschool. For further information on how to enroll your child into our wonderful world of learning, please contact Alyson Kalik at 704-944-6776 or [email protected]. Y Women’s News Hadassah News Directory – Help Wanted The Charlotte Jewish Community Directory is published by Hadassah - and we need help. If you have been looking for a project - here it is. We need help selling ads, getting people to put their names and addresses in the Directory, and organizing a new section of the Directory to celebrate our loved ones. We have a team ready for more members everyone is welcome. Please contact Tess Berger (704-708-4857), Judy Kaufmann (704-847-1022) or Heidi Rotberg (704-365-3859) for more info and to volunteer. 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Buy a 2012 Hadassah Directory If you missed picking up the new 2012 Charlotte Jewish Community Directory, we still have a few available at the gift shops at Temple Beth El or Temple Israel, and at the Levine JCC Front Desk. Remember, every directory Patron gets her directory first mailed or delivered. To be a Patron for 2013 and to update your free listings, complete your blue sheet that will be mailed in September or go to the Charlotte Hadassah website, www.charlottehadassah.org. Any questions, call Tess Berger (704-708-4857) or Judy Kaufmann (704-847-1022). Y Like us on Facebook: Charlotte Jewish News The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 11 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES Welcome Back to School Programs at Jewish Family Services The hot summer days are still here, but for many families, school is back in session or getting ready to start. Now is the perfect time to work on getting your family back into routines to prepare for a successful school year. To help prepare young bodies and minds for the demands of school, adequate sleep, proper nutrition and structured routines are necessary. The same holds true for parents. This fall, Jewish Family Services is pleased to offer programming for parents, children, families, and seniors. Find out more about all of our programs and services at www.jfscharlotte.org. Adequate Sleep Lack of adequate sleep contributes to more difficulty functioning and keeping up with the multiple demands of school, work, home and extracurricular activities. Read this month’s Counselor Corner (www.jfscharlotte.org) by JFS Child and Adolescent Therapist Libby Rains to find out more. Proper Nutrition Long school days often mean children come home “starving.” It’s too early for dinner but you don’t want them to fill up on junk food. Start the new school year off right by rethinking your meaning of afternoon snacks. Rather than potato chips, think fresh carrots and nuts; replace sweet snacks with fresh fruit. When shopping for back-to-school snacks for your family, please consider purchasing a little extra to donate to the JFS food pantry. Many of our clients receive free or reduced lunch at school but are not able to afford snacks at home. Due to space limitations, we cannot accept fresh fruit and vegetables, but other healthy snacks are greatly appreciated. Get Moving Physical activity is as important as adequate sleep and proper nutrition for people of all ages. Professionals may disagree on exactly how much exercise is enough, but they all agree that keeping moving creates and maintains healthier bodies. Start your back-to-school exercise routine by signing up for the JFS Friends Run on November 11. Gather your friends, your family, your neighbors or your dog, set your goals, and start moving. Run in the challenging chip-timed 5k or in the less-competitive one-mile walk/ run. You will be helping yourself as well as the clients of JFS. Visit www.FriendsRun.com. FALL PROGRAMMING: JFS PARENTING PLACE CHILD AND ADOLESCENT PROGRAMMING Love and Logic® Parenting Classes Begin in October Are you raising the captain of the debate team? Wondering if your kids will EVER listen to you? Feel exhausted at the end of the day? Join JFS and Love and Logic® Facilitator Wendy Petricoff to learn easy-to-use parenting techniques to help put the fun back into parenting. You will learn practical tips and skills to avoiding arguments with your children, discover ways to share control, and arm yourself with all the Love & Logic® tools you need to be an effective parent. Social Skills Groups for Boys Boys ages 9-12 will work on building and maintaining friendships by participating in this fall’s Social Skills Group, beginning Thursday, September 20. Social Skills groups are ideal for children who struggle with social and emotional regulation, experience problems making and keeping friends, have difficulty cooperating with peers and adults, or present underlying development delays or lagging skills. Utilizing interactive play, children will be assisted with developing skills that help with overall social and emotional regulation abilities skills. Friendly PEERsuasion Group for Girls JFS is pleased to offer a new curriculum specifically for tween and teen girls beginning October 10. JFS clinical therapists will use the Friendly PEERsuasion curriculum to build participants’ knowledge and skills for resisting contact us at 704-364-6594. Donations are currently being accepted online at www.jfscharlotte.org.Y Josh Rubin’s Plumbing, LLC LICENSED - BONDED - INSURED COMMERCIAL & RESIDENTIAL negative peer pressure by empowering them to identify what they are being pressured to do and the consequences. Participants then determine healthy alternatives and invite peers to join them in acting on their smarter choice. All groups and classes are open to the public, including new participants. Fees apply to some programs. Please call JFS to register. Layouts for slabs - Rough-in and Finish Water Heater Repairs and Replacement Kitchen/Bath Remodeling Toilets, Tubs, Faucets, Sink, and Disposal Repairs/Replacement ~ 10 YEARS EXPERIENCE ~ NC State Lic. #29197 MEG D. GOLDSTEIN ǦǦ OTHER JFS EVENTS IN SEPTEMBER Caregiver Support Group Tuesday, September 11, 6 PM, JFS Have You Answered the Call? Thank you to the families who have already made their donations and pledges to this year’s Family to Family campaign. JFS volunteers will continue to make calls throughout the campaign to ask for your support and answer any questions you may have. Your tax-deductible gift to the 2012 Family to Family annual campaign gives you and your family the opportunity to join JFS in ensuring stability, dignity and compassion to all members of our community for generations to come. If you have questions about JFS or the annual campaign, please SC State Lic. #M110508 704-517-4918 ǡ ǡ Ǧ ǡ ǡ ǡ ʹͲͳǡʹͲͲ ǡʹͺʹͳͲ ǣͲͶǤͷʹ͵ǤʹʹͲʹȈǣͲͶǤͷͷʹǤ͵͵ʹ ̷ ǤȈǤ Ǥ Counselor’s Corner By JFS Child & Adolescent therapy Libby Rains Just 15 More Minutes?! To help prepare young bodies and minds for the demands of school, adequate sleep and structured routines are necessary. The same holds true for parents. Often I find that children are not obtaining an adequate amount of sleep which contributes to more difficulty functioning and keeping up with the multiple demands of school, home, and extracurricular activities. The National Sleep Foundation recommends the following sleep tips: * Establish consistent sleep and wake schedules, even on weekends * Create a regular, relaxing bedtime routine such as soaking in a hot bath or listening to soothing music – begin an hour or more before the time you expect to fall asleep * Create a sleep-conducive environment that is dark, quiet, comfortable, and cool * Sleep on a comfortable mattress and pillows * Keep “sleep stealers” out of the bedroom – avoid watching TV, using a computer, or reading in bed * Finish eating at least 2-3 hours before your regular bedtime * Exercise regularly during the day or at least a few hours before bedtime * Avoid caffeine and alcohol products close to bedtime and give up smoking Y Group rates as low as $99 Mix & mingle in our W xyz lounge For group reservations or more information contact [email protected] or 704.247.2305 Aloft Charlotte Ballantyne 13139 Ballantyne Corporate Place Charlotte, NC 28277 aloftcharlotteballantyne.com | 704.247.2222 facebook.com/aloftballantyne Located in the heart of Ballantyne and only a 15 minute drive from Shalom Park The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 12 Don’t let the sun go down on you. It’s a new day! Bring us your old coins and make a change. Cash it in. Perry’s will buy your gold, silver and coins at prices guaranteed to brighten your day. Our team of more than a dozen appraisers and two coin specialists have years of experience in buying and appraising gold, silver, coins, unwanted jewelry and forgotten treasures. And they pay top dollar, too. How’s that for a ray of sunshine? 6525 Morrison Blvd. Charlotte, NC 28211 Store Hours: Mon-Sat 10-6, Thurs 10-7 ZZZSHUU\VMHZHOU\FRP :RZZKDWDÀQG Jewelry enlarged to show detail. Items displayed are one-of-a-kind and subject to prior sale. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 13 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center Do You Know What All of These Mean? Do You Want To? Do something special for yourself this year … register for a Melton class today. We offer classes in the mornings and evenings, weekdays and weekends. Scholarships are available. Contact Talli Dippold for more information, tdippold@ shalomcharlotte.org or 704-944- Leshana tova tekatev v’techatem… Ge-mar Hatimah Tovah What is the purpose of blowing the shofar and how does it relate to the essence of the holiday? Brothers B Br roroth others thers What is the practice and significance of Tashlikh? What is the symbolism of a circle as it relates to the high holidays? 6780. The Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and the Florence Melton Mini-School of Charlotte wish the entire community a Happy and Healthy New Year. Y Offering You a BIG Variety The Levine-Sklut Judaic Library has many wonderful features to explore. Did you know that the Library offers a huge variety of collections? The library, conveniently located in the center of Shalom Park, offers: * Adult books: Fiction, non-fiction, biographies, magazines and so much more * An enhanced children’s library which has recently added over 1,000 titles * Young Adult books * Parenting Library sponsored by Jewish Family Services * Hebrew novels and Hebrew children’s books * Movies and games for all ages * Israel collection of books, maps, and stamps * Holocaust collection and resources * On-going used book sale. Used Books for sale from 50 cents-$2. In addition to a wide-ranging collection of materials, the library is also proud to offer you and your family: * Top-notch programming including: The Florence Melton Adult Mini-School; Movie Series; Book Club; Rhythm, Rhyme, and Storytime with Miss Debby; Mensch ‘N Me; Torah Lego * Resource Room which includes laminating and die-cut machines * Computer access/free WiFi * A nice quiet place to relax and enjoy free coffee * Incentivized reading program for children/students Louis is the first one to complete the summer reading program. Congratulations! To advertise in The Charlotte Jewish News, contact one of our sales representatives: Jodi Valenstein, 704-609-0950 Scott Moskowitz, 704-906-2474 Be a Smart Cookie: Keep Reading Congratulations to all the children who read twelve books or more during the summer. The Levine-Sklut Judaic Library held a summer reading challenge called “I Scream for Books” was a big success. To date, over 70 children read twelve or more books and won an ice cream cone. (See below for picture of the first child to complete the program!) There has been so much positive feedback that the library has decided to create a reading program for Fall 2012. The new program will be called “Be a Smart Cookie” and children can earn cookies for participating. Visit the library soon to get your own game board. Y Casino theme party service that brings a Vegas style to your event &RUSRUDWH(YHQWV+ROLGD\3DUWLHV)XQGUDLVHUV %DU%DW0LW]YDKV%LUWKGD\3DUWLHV Contact Alan Gottheim at 704.363.3706 Services provided by Temple Beth El Brotherhood, a non-profit organization benefiting Temple Beth El programming and community. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 14 WORK WITH A LEADER IN CHARLOTTE REAL ESTATE EXECUTIVE REALTY 704-926-2544 office 704-975-8500 cell www.LepowRealtors.com Congratulations to the Marx Wealth Management Group on being named as one of NABCAP’s “Top Wealth Management Groups” in the Charlotte Business Journal. Throughout the financial crisis of 2008, one subject was really driven home for Gene Marx and Catherine Hunter Kloppenborg of Marx Wealth Management during their many client meetings: the importance of preserving assets. Since then, the team and their colleague Senior Client Service Associate Shelly Butgereit have made this issue a top priority while guiding clients through an extremely challenging investment environment. The team a part of UBS Financial Services Inc., is credited with offering exemplary client education and customer service. “The key to pleasing customers is communicating often and anticipating their needs,” stated Marx. He continued, “We strive to be the Shelly Butgereit, Catherine Hunte Kloppenborn, quarterback of our and Gene Marx. client’s financial team of CPA’s, estate-planning attorney, 10, 20, 30 years from now.”Y portfolio managers and other Marx Wealth Management, a strategic advisers. To do this suc- subsidiary of UBS Financial cessfully requires us to have a Services Inc., is located at 6337 thorough understanding of where Morrison Boulevard, Charlotte, our clients and their families are NC 28211, 800-776-4848. ©UBS today, and where they aspire to be 2012. All rights reserved. Bob Stickler to Lead Orchestra During Search Process Rich Osborne Will Lead Search Committee NEW PATIENTS ARE ALWAYS WELCOME Call today and join your friends who already experience dental Drs. 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Stickler, a Directors. “I am cercurrent Charlotte tain that Bob will lead Symphony board us through this interim member, is recently period in great form Bob Stickler retired from Bank of and am delighted to America having welcome him to this served as Communications position.” Executive supporting Ken Lewis, Stickler replaces outgoing former Bank of America Executive Director Jonathan President. Martin, who has been with the In his tasks on behalf of the organization since 2008. Martin Charlotte Symphony, Stickler has has accepted the position of CEO worked insightfully and effective- at the Dallas Symphony ly. Stickler was President of the Orchestra. Oratorio Singers of Charlotte The board today also Board of Directors from 2008 announces that Richard Osborne through 2010 and has served on has agreed to lead the search comvarious committees within the mittee that will develop and organization. implement the formal search “Anything he undertakes is process for the Symphony’s new executive director. Osborne comes to this position with a wealth of experience, including previous service as both Chairperson of the board and former Interim Executive Director. Founded in 1932, the Charlotte Symphony aspires to serve the whole community through classical music that educates, entertains and enriches. The orchestra’s recently launched New American Orchestra Campaign will provide the financial stability for the Symphony to build a renewed and sustainable funding model. A nontraditional venture, the New American Orchestra Campaign seeks to address the immediate nature of the need through community-wide operating support. Through education, innovation and relentless passion, the Charlotte Symphony has served the community for 80 years and is a vital organization that fervently believes in the artistic enrichment of the human spirit. Y Comedian Kevin Pollak to Appear in Charlotte Providing PERSONAL FINANCIAL PLANNING For more than 70 years Jennifer Sperry, CFP® FINANCIAL ADVISOR 5950 Fairview Rd. Suite 200 Charlotte, NC 28210 704-553-7220 x127 [email protected] Waddell & Reed, Inc. Recognizing Success in an Industry Driven by Performance Charlotte Symphony Names Interim Executive Director GIVING CHARLOTTE SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT FOR OVER 25 YEARS. care at its finest. Mazel Tov & Congratulations Member SIPC Kevin Pollak at The Comedy Zone located at the NC Music Factory Sept 27-29 900 NC Music Factory Blvd Buy tickets on line www.CLTcomedyzone.com Call the box office 980-321-4702 Showtimes: Thurs 8:00pm Fri 8:00pm & 10:15pm Sat 7:00pm & 9:30pm Ticket prices $20.00 & $25.00 Kevin Pollak may be best known for his role in “A Few Good Men,” but Jewish audiences everywhere more likely recognize him from Barry Levinson’s “Avalon,” a semi-biographical film about Levinson’s family in Baltimore. But it is his role as a stand-up comedian that will be on display September 27-29 at the Comedy Zone in the NC Music Factory in Charlotte. He’s been honing his stand-up with a weekly webcast at www.kevinpollakchatshow.com every Sunday afternoon, as well as continuing his career in films as an actor, writer, and producer. Y Kevin Pollak The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 15 TenYears celebrating The Carolina Center for Jewish Studies is celebrating its tenth anniversary by offering a new undergraduate degree in Jewish Studies and a new certificate in Jewish Studies for graduate students, and launching the University’s new Capstone Course in Jewish Studies, an upper-level research seminar for advanced undergraduates in the field. The Center is also offering an expanded events program to provide exciting opportunities to the community that has supported us throughout these ten years. In addition to the usual schedule of community and academic lectures and the Uhlman Family continuing education seminar, we are also hosting a variety of special events to celebrate our anniversary. We hope you will join us. Visit ccjs.unc.edu to learn more about our programs and our events, and to discover how you can help shape the Center’s next ten years. PARTIAL LIST OF EVENTS FOR 2012 – 2013: Southern Jews in the Crucible of Civil Rights / Sept. 12 / Stuart Rockoff Staged Reading and Panel Discussion: BOGED: An Enemy of the People / Sept. 29 / Boaz Gaon Demons and Evil Angels in Early Judaism / Nov. 5 / Carol Newsom Excavations in the Ancient Village and Synagogue of Huqoq / Jan. 28 / Jodi Magness Film Screening with Live Music: Breaking Home Ties / March 4 / Sharon Pucker Rivo Stage Production: Yosl Rakover Speaks to G-d / April 14 / David Mandelbaum The Dead Sea Scrolls and the Beginnings of Biblical Interpretation / April 22 / James Kugel JONATHAN HESS DIRECTOR PETTIGREW HALL, SUITE 100 CAMPUS BOX 3152 CHAPEL HILL, NC 27599-3152 P: E: W: 919-962-1509 [email protected] CCJS.UNC.EDU The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 16 Community News Classes Ease the Way to Citizenship for Refugees By Karen Brodsky Since February of this year, Carolina Refugee Resettlement Agency (CRRA) has been offering citizenship classes for refugees, asylees, immigrants, and internationals who are already lawful permanent residents (green card holders) and in the U.S. for a specified amount of time. Those who were born in the U.S. may not be familiar with the process and take their citizenship for granted. Not so the 37 students of 14 different nationalities, coming from North America, Europe, Asia, Africa, and South America, who have taken CRRA’s citizenship preparation classes taught by Dottie Shattuck. With funding from Homeland Security’s U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) new Citizenship Public Education and Awareness Initiative, CRRA offers these classes and reaches out to immigrants to raise awareness about the rights, responsibilities, and importance of U.S. citizenship, as well as the educational resources available to lawful permanent residents and immigrant- Overstock, Must Liquidate Absolute Bargain PILLOWTOPS Brand New Mattress Sets Starting at King $275 Queen $175 Full $165 Mention this ad and receive $50 credit on any mattress set over $300 Carolina Bedding 704-618-4479 High Holidays 5773 serving organizations. Shattuck has a master’s degree in Administrative Leadership and Adult Education from the University of Wisconsin and has been an English Language Instructor at CRRA since 2005, where she has also tutored for citizenship preparation. Additionally, Shattuck has taught Adult English as a Second Language and Citizenship Preparation classes at Central Piedmont Community College in Charlotte and at the Hmong Community United Methodist Church in Milwaukee, WI. Shattuck has seen the fee for the citizenship application rise from $95 to $595. In 2008, she also witnessed USCIS revise the citizenship test. The CRRA classes are currently in their third session. They run for seven weeks, twice a week, and use a 12 chapter text book. Classes include the qualifications to be a citizen and the application process, U.S. geography, U.S. history, U.S. civics, and the USCIS interview. The path to becoming a citizen begins with filling out an application for which CRRA offers assistance. Applicants must be fingerprinted and have an oral interview. The interviewer can ask as many or as few questions as he/she sees fit from the ten page application. Very important to the interviewers is that the applicants possess good moral character. The test consists of an interview; 10 questions from the list of 100 about U.S. history and civics, of which the applicant must answer six correctly; and reading and writing based upon the 100 havurat tikvah It’s like being with all your favorite relatives! Come explore, learn, and join in our welcoming community. Shanah Tovah! We provide a full schedule of High Holiday services: Rosh Hashanah Day 1 * 10:00 am, Monday, September 17, 2012 Tashlich – Rosh Hashanah 3:30 pm, Monday, September 17, 2012 Location to be announced in service program and online one day prior to service Rosh Hashanah Day 2 ** 10:00 am, Tuesday, September 18, 2012 Kol Nidre * 6:45 pm, Tuesday, September 25, 2012 Yom Kippur * 10:00 am, Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:30 pm (appx.) Yizkor / Healing Services 5:30 pm Mincha Service 6:30 pm Neilah / Concluding Service 7:56 pm Break the Fast immediately after Neilah * Fellowship Hall ** Aitken Classroom havurahofhope A warm, supportive and nurturing Reconstructionist congregation located in historic Dilworth with Shabbat services and a full spectrum of Holiday observances, as well as religious educational options for both adults and children. Avondale Presbyterian Church 2821 Park Road . Charlotte, NC For information, call 980.225.5330, email [email protected] or visit www.havurattikvah.org questions. Applicants have three chances to read a sentence correctly when answering one of the questions. Applicants can pass any part of the test and have one chance to repeat a part they failed. If they do not pass, they must apply Students in Dottie Shattuck’s citizenship class learn to USCIS again and to identify locations on the U.S. map. pay the fee anew. The fee for the citiShattuck relates that her stuzenship application is $680.00 ($85 for fingerprinting and $595 dents have “tremendous enthusifor the actual application). There asm. Of course, they are scared are fee waivers available for low and nervous. The possibility of income applicants. Health disabil- voting in the next election is very ity waivers, though difficult to exciting to them.” She also tells of two women in secure, are available to accommodate certain conditions, including one of her classes who struck up cognitive disabilities that make a unique friendship. One, a learning difficult. The condition Meskhetian Turk (from the former must be certified by a physician. (Continued on page 17) JELF Awards Record $675,000 in Interest-Free Student Loans for the 20122013 Academic Year The Jewish Educational Loan Fund (JELF) has awarded more than $675,000 in interest-free loans to Jewish students throughout Georgia, Florida, South Carolina, North Carolina, and Virginia for the 2012-2013 school year. A record number of applicants came to JELF seeking to fill the gap between the resources they assembled through grants, loans and scholarships and the real cost of their education. JELF responded to the rising need by loaning more than ever before in a single year. JELF loaned over $53,000 to students in the Charlotte area. While JELF currently administers over $3.6 million in outstanding loans, it has maintained its impressive 99% repayment rate. As students repay their loans, JELF uses those payments to make new loans, creating a circle of tzedakah. JELF loans are needbased and can be used for fulltime undergraduate and graduate degrees as well as vocational pro- grams. As one loan recipient recently expressed to JELF, “I just wanted to say thank you to JELF for another generous loan for my next school year. I will use the support to its fullest capacity in my path to my career and life.” For additional information, contact JELF Executive Director Lara Dorfman at 770-396-3080 or visit www.jelf.org. Applications for a JELF interest-free loan for the spring 2013 semester will be available September 2–30. Applications for the 2013-2014 academic year will be available on JELF’s website at www.jelf.org in March 2013.Y The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 17 A Magical Camp Katan Experience By Stephanie Freedman, Early Childhood Program Supervisor Camp Katan, the preschool summer camp at the Levine JCC, finished its very successful sixweek session on Friday, July 27, but there is no reason for the fun and excitement to end now – be on the lookout for fun programs all year long. Our theme this year was “Let the Magic Begin” and boy was it magical. Each week 177 children were nurtured in a way that they were able to grow, make new friends, and create memories that will last a lifetime. Our campers learned to swim through group swim lessons, soaked their counselors on the splashground, attended a magic show complete with white doves, pretended to be animals with our Drama Specialist, laughed and listened to Ms. Debby’s stories in the Levine-Sklut library, made science come alive with Ms. Marcie, celebrated Shabbat with Ms. Patty and the list goes on and on. Each day gave me nachas to witness the sheer joy, excitement, and nurturing that the staff shared with their campers. Many of our staff spends the rest of the year in CMS schools or local preschools, which makes them the perfect fit for Camp Katan. My own child (camper) came home each day from Camp Katan excited to tell me about his day - what fun it was to experience it through his eyes after I had spent months planning. I will miss seeing the smiling faces of our campers each day and even though the magic of Camp Katan has come to a close, I am looking forward to seeing you all throughout the year in our preschool programs at the LJCC. For those of you who have younger siblings, be sure to register for our JTots Playschool Program. For more information, do not hesitate to contact me directly at [email protected] or 704-944-6891.Y Levine JCC Cares about … Here at the Levine JCC, we believe we have a responsibility to the world around us. Because of that spirit of giving, we want to provide our members with programming that involves social action. Under the banner of “Levine JCC Cares,” we will bring our community together to perform Tikkun Olam (repairing the world) and Gemilut Hasadim (acts of loving kindness). Through Levine JCC Cares we will provide opportunities for families, seniors, young adults, and teens to serve the Greater Charlotte community and beyond in ways that connect us with others and are motivated by the pressing issues of the day. Current Opportunities: For the past several months, JCC Cares volunteers have been volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte, whose mission is to provide the families of children being treated in area medical facilities with a safe, affordable, and caring “home away from home.” Come help out at the following upcoming events: Cookie Crew: September 12, 10 AM-12:30 PM. Come in and help the House smell like home. Prepare home-baked treats for families to enjoy. Sign up limited to four people. Meal Preparation: October 7 4:30-7:30 PM. Meal preparation teams plan a menu, purchase sup- plies, and prepare a home-cooked meal at the House for the families staying there. Each person who volunteers will be asked to donate towards the purchase of groceries. Sign up limited to seven people. Future Opportunities: We are seeking LJCC members to take on volunteer leadership roles within our program. Specifically, we would like volunteers to chair or head some of the programs that we would like to pursue. At this time, these include the following: * Ronald McDonald House * Bright Blessings * Military Care Packages at Jewish Holidays * JFS Hanukkah drive * Christmas Eve/Day event(s) If you are interested in volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House, taking on a leadership role and/or have questions or would like additional information, please contact Julie Rizzo, Director of Development and Social Action, at [email protected] or 704-944-6730. Y Refugees (Continued from page 16) Soviet Union), and the other, from Ecuador, became practice buddies. “They encouraged each other after they met in class. They were delightful.” One became a citizen in April; and the other in May. The Ecuadoran woman returned to class to act as a mock examiner for the next class cycle. Citizens are sworn-in with about 100 people from dozens of countries. They sing the national anthem and recite the pledge of allegiance. They view a video address from the President and they pledge their loyalty and allegiance to the U.S. and its constitution. CRRA hopes to serve as many of the 15,000+ legal permanent residents in Mecklenburg County who are eligible to become naturalized citizens. For more information about the citizenship classes, contact Dottie Shattuck at [email protected] rg. If you know green card holders, please let them know about CRRA’s citizenship classes and application services. August has been a very busy month for arrivals. At press- time, CRRA was set to resettle 55 refugee clients from August 1 through August 16 alone, a number approaching the largest previous influx of 62 in a month. CRRA needs cash donations to serve all of these clients and continues to need furniture and housewares for the many apartments the agency must prepare. Call 704-535-8803 to donate or volunteer. Y Julie Rizzo Fun at Camp Katan includes swimming and other special activities. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 18 Community News Still Exhibiting Photos from the Legendary “Photo League,” Sonia Handelman Meyer Resides in Charlotte By Amy Krakovitz You would never guess that Sonia Handelman Meyer is in her early 90s. Her energy and clarity defy the stereotypes. She has defied stereotypes her whole life, in fact. During World War II she worked, in Puerto Rico, for the US Army Signal Corps. While there she met a photographer who told her about The Photo League, a New York city organization that held classes, workshops, lectures, and exhibits in the field of photography. But not just any kind of photography. The influ- ence of Sid Grossman, one of The Photo League’s founders, led Meyer and her colleagues to documentary photography. Just prior to World War II, during the Great Depression, Grossman felt a need to record the suffering evident in New York City. Even after the war, when Meyer joined The Photo League, Grossman’s inspiration caused her to “dedicate herself to social documentary, taking photographs of local neighborhoods and their citizens with a keen and sympathetic eye for the human condition,” says $620,000 928 Jefferson Drive Built in 2007, this home was designed for casual living and entertainment with great attention to detail. Custom millwork throughout, 10 ft. ceilings down, 9 ft. ceilings up and 5 in. heart of pine floors. Gourmet kitchen with SS appliances, granite counter tops, and a center island all open to the family room. All 4 bedrooms have private baths. Rec room is upstairs. Don’t miss this opportunity! Heather Mackey Realtor/Broker Dickens Mitchener and Associates 704-661-0635 cell [email protected] Offering Residential Real Estate Service Since 1991 704.342.1000 DICKENSMITCHENER.COM Lili Corbus, a Charlotte art historian who wrote about Meyer for a book, “Into the Light,” the catalog for a 2007 exhibit of The Photo League at Hodges Taylor Gallery in Charlotte. The Photo League was more than just a place for photographers to gather. “I took eye-heart-soul opening workshops with Grossman,” says Meyer. And not just workshops, but lectures, classes, and exhibits. Over the course of 15 years, The Photo League and its team of photographers became a force to be reckoned with. “Many of Meyer’s photographs and street scenes of immigrants, minorities, and children, whether in Harlem, the Village, or Brooklyn, accent the humanity and dignity of those facing economic adversity,” says Corbus. “Subjects without means endure, persevere, and survive, despite the odds. Poor children play and laugh; they find spaces of joy. Her children exist on their own terms …. They are not merely ‘cute,’ as they eke out their lives in the midst of towering tenements and poverty.” Meyer herself describes one assignment in “Into the Light.” “… I volunteered to take stills at Sydenham Hospital in Harlem for a fund raising film.” The photos were also used in promotional materials for the hospital, an institution that treated 60% of its patients without charge. Meyer also photographed the crowd at an anti-lynching rally in Madison Square, as well as scenes in Spanish Harlem, the Hebrew “I switched, you can too!” To an independent insurance agency with more choices, expert advice, better service and where the focus is on you! Immigrant Aid Society, a Jehovah’s Witness convention at Yankee Stadium, and the first publicity stills for Pete Seeger’s band, The Weavers. Such was the mission of the photographers of The Photo League. The Photo League itself met its unfortunate end at the hands of the federal government, the House Un-American Activities Committee. The league was put on a list of subversive groups. “There was absolutely nothing subversive going on,” Meyer insists. “During the 1930s, some of the members took pictures of Communist rallies and sympathized with their cause. At the time, they were one of the few groups that helped people find food, shelter, and protection. “But there was never any proselytizing or influencing the rest of us. All anyone ever insisted on was meaningful photography. “[But] it got to be too much. People were being blacklisted. There were photographers who couldn’t get passports to work overseas. Little by little, [The Photo League] dissolved. “It’s tragic, because there’s never been another organization like it.” After the demise of The Photo League, Sonia started a family and continued her photography, though not professionally. That unique time in her life was over, or at least she thought so. Fast forward to 1978, when an exhibit, “This Was The Photo League,” was opened at the International Center of Photography. Three of Meyer’s photos were included. After that, there was no serious attention paid to Meyer’s photos until she moved here in 2002. By a happy coincidence, Charlotte is home to a historian of The Photo League, the aforementioned Lili Corbus. Once Corbus and Meyer found one another, Meyer’s photographs were once again brought out “into the light.” Corbus assigned a student of hers, Amanda Connolly, to assist Meyer in archiving Meyer’s work. Her son, Joe Meyer, was a devoted publicist for her work. In 2007, Hodges Taylor Gallery featured Meyer’s work in an Photo taken outside Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society. Reprinted courtesy of Hodges Taylor Gallery and Sonia Handelman Meyer exhibit titled “Into the Light.” Some of Meyer’s work can still be viewed at the gallery at 401 N. Tryon St., from 1-7 PM, and at their new location, 118 E. Kingston Ave. Call 704-334-3799 for more information. A recent exhibit of The Photo League, including three of Meyer’s photographs, was seen at the Jewish Museum in New York City. This exhibit, “The Radical Camera: New York’s Photo League, 1936-1951,” is traveling this year to Columbus, OH, San Francisco, and West Palm Beach, FL. “After so many years of being in the shadows, you can imagine my pleasure … to have my photographs out of the boxes and onto the walls where they can be seen, thought about, and enjoyed,” says Meyer. The impact of the exhibit was amazing, she says. In NY, the exhibition received rave reviews. “And my daughter and grandchildren were struck dumb when they entered the museum in Columbus. They had no idea that the work I had done had been so important.” “We’re so fortunate to have this treasure living among us in Charlotte,” says Meyer’s friend, Sheila Kasten. For now Meyer is content to relax in her retirement years. She has traveled to the exhibits in New York and Columbus and is still debating whether to attend the one in San Francisco. But for the rest of us, her photos can be seen on occasion by appointment at Hodges Taylor Gallery’s two locations (704-334-3799), in the several catalogues published in conjunction with her major exhibits, and on her website, www.soniahandelmanmeyer.com. Y Sonia reviews her photographs for the Sydenham Hospital fundraiser in the mid-1940s. Mike Littauer Principal 7 0 4 -9 7 0 -3 8 5 8 Photo copyright Sonia Handelman Meyer [email protected] 1115 East Morehead Street Suite 208 Charlotte, NC 28204 www.charlotteinsurancesolutions.com Auto - Home - Business - Life Sonia today in her apartment with one of her more iconic photographs. Photo courtesy The Charlotte Jewish News. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 19 Got an Hour to Spare? built relationships. I have By Sandra Goldman, heard the rabbis read the director, Hebrew names of the deceased aloud Cemetery and listened to the mourners Austere days in the saying Kaddish. Until now I Jewish calendar are only had to repeat with the appropriate times to congregants: “Y’hay sh’may go to the cemetery. As rabo ….“ it is mentioned in the This year will be different code of Jewish law, it is proper to visit the Hebrew Cemetery and difficult for me. I will resting place of the director, Sandra have to say the entire Kaddish myself. Less than righteous during the Goldman three months ago I buried High Holiday season my father z”l and so I have joined and to pray in their merit. Here in Charlotte we remember the club nobody wants ever to our loved ones with the Hebrew join. I’ve lost a parent. I still Cemetery’s Annual Memorial mourn his death and the pain is Service on the Sunday between still raw. It doesn’t matter that he Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur. was a very special man who Under big tents, approximately touched the lives of many. He is 250 people gather and attend the gone and his loss leaves a great service which is led by the cler- void. However, I realize that I gies of Temple Israel, Temple Beth El, and Ohr HaTorah. This received a rare opportunity, a gift year the service will take place on of sorts. My dad’s passing and his funeral have taught me more than September 23 at 10:30 AM. Over the past three years, I I ever could have imagined and have organized this event, greeted will help me to improve my proattendees, hugged, and spoken to fessional abilities. At my father’s funeral, the many who have grown close to my heart and with whom I have rabbi spoke of ruach, which could be translated as wind, soul, or spirit. Ruach enables us to fulfill our own visions and gives an opportunity to realize and acknowledge the multitude of chances we have. When we connect with ruach, we can grow. I now truly understand what it means to grieve for a loved one. I have learned that a daughter grieves differently than a wife, and I realize how important community and support really are after a loss. Having received this gift of sorts enables me to be more sensitive to the needs of a grieving person, to channel emotions into the right direction and to do what needs to be done when a person passes away. So, what do we see when we attend a memorial service? Why do we attend? We recognize familiar faces. We see sorrow and remembrance. We see tears and Offering classes from 4K - B’nei Mitzvah Classes begin September 9 Book Release Event at Mint Museum on October 2 Learn more. memoir have been published in Real Simple magazine and the online journal Drafthorse. There will be book release event at the Mint Museum on Randolph Road on October 2, 7-9 PM. Y mired in conflict. They finally find their way back as the possibility of permanent loss becomes very real. Before Brenda’s death, the two sisters allow their relationship to shine like the marvelous thing it is. “Throughout the years I was working on this memoir, I struggled with the question: Do I have the right to tell this story?” says Goldman. “Many, many times I decided to pull the plug. But having a voice is important to me. Telling this story — one that has preoccupied me for years — is important to me. “My hope is that with this book I will speak to anyone who has ever had a sister.” Brian Metsner, Brenda’s son, is looking forward to the book. “It’s a unique opportunity to bring my mother ‘back to life.’ ...It will be fascinating to see my mother immortalized in Aunt Judy’s words.” Judy Goldman is the author of two novels, Early Leaving and The Slow Way Back, and two books of poetry. Segments of this affiliated with any temple and you don’t even have to be a member of the Hebrew Cemetery. Maybe just bring your very own ruach. Imagine what a powerful statement you can make by giving just one hour out of your busy schedule. Imagine how many families can feel comforted by your presence knowing that you care about them, that you care about your Jewish community. Please contact me if you have any questions regarding the memorial service or if you want to become a member of the Hebrew Cemetery. I am also happy to guide you through the pre-planning process of purchasing plots. I can be reached via email at [email protected] or on my cell at 704-576-1859. Y Featuring curriculum from the Institute of Southern Jewish Life Judy Goldman Explores Sisterhood and Family in Her Heartbreaking and Uplifting Memoir, Losing My Sister The relationship between sisters is often the longest in a woman’s life. It can also be the most complex. Award-winning author and poet Judy Goldman explores the relationship she shared with her older sister, Brenda—from the joys of childhood to the sorrow of losing parents to the trauma of adult-sibling conflict to the agony of a sister’s cancer—in her heartbreaking and uplifting memoir, Losing My Sister. Growing up in a Jewish family in Rock Hill, South Carolina, Judy and Brenda do everything together. “BrendaandJudy. We’re one long word,” Goldman writes. They play piano duets, share bracelets, share everything. When the neighborhood bully throws a rock at young Judy, it’s Brenda who takes off after him, giving him a beating so hard that a neighbor has to pull her off of him. Though their personalities are very different—Judy is the sweet one; Brenda, the strong one — they remain inseparable into adulthood. As the two grow older, Judy and Brenda struggle to break free of their prescribed roles in the family, Judy becoming stronger and more assertive and Brenda more vulnerable. At their last parent’s funeral, they finally overcome their differences and come back together. A decade later, they both discover lumps in their breasts. Judy’s tumor is benign, Brenda’s malignant. They confront their diagnoses together with love and understanding. But when Brenda’s cancer recurs, the sisters become we might even hear some laughter. We gather together because we all had a common experience – we lost someone we loved. The memorial service itself is more informal than a funeral, no remains are present, and people can mix, mingle, and exchange recollections of the deceased. Once a year we have the opportunity as a community to come together at the cemetery. By attending the Annual Memorial Service on September 23, you can, in keeping with our tagline, honor the deceased, celebrate their lives and embrace life’s lessons. It is not necessary to have lost someone in order to come out on a late summer Sunday morning to the cemetery on Statesville Avenue. You don’t need to be 2879 Hwy 160 West #4677 Fort Mill, SC 29708 Email: [email protected] 803-417-7565 www.TempleKolAmiSC.org You are invited to our ADMISSIONS OPEN HOUSE TK and Kindergarten Thursday, October 4, 2012 7 p.m. TK and K through Grade 12 Thursday, October 18, 2012 9:30 a.m. RSVP to the Admissions Office: 704.846.7207 …where teaching is valued and learning is celebrated 9502 Providence Road Charlotte, North Carolina 28277 www.charlottelatin.org Financial assistance is available. Please inquire about the Malone Scholarship for gifted students in 7th - 12th grades. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 20 DINING OUT, CATERING & HOSPITALITY $2 OFF ~ NEWLY OPENED ~ Any Purchase of $10 or more with this ad JERUSALEM CAFÉ Only 1 coupon per transaction. Expires 12-31-12 Mike Sadri Arboretum Shopping Center 704-541-5099 fax: 704-541-5989 Middle Eastern Restaurant $3.00 OFF $15 or more Lunch Purchase With this coupon. 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Expires 12-31-2012 Alcoholic drinks not included Please visit our fine Arboretum Shopping Center 8200-400 Providence Rd. advertisers and tell them 704-541-6668 or 704-541-6666 Fax: 704-541-6661 Dine-In, Take-Out and Catering Available L‘SHANA HANA TOVA OVA HOURS: Monday-Thursday 11AM-11PM Friday-Saturday 11AM-12AM Sunday 11AM-10PM you saw their ad in The Charlotte Jewish News A SouthPark Tradition of Excellence Featuring 124 beautifully decorated guest rooms and suites Complimentary amenities include: Hot breakfast, internet access, transportation to Shalom Park Pamper your guests during this special moment in time at the closest hotel to Shalom Park Contact [email protected] to learn about our special group rates or booking the Great Room* for your Friday night dinner or other gathering. *Mention this ad and receive 10% off the Great Room rental. “A SouthPark Tradition tour at our virtual Take “A SouthPark Tradition www.hamptonsouthpark.com Excellence” ofofExcellence” or like us on Facebook Hampton Inn & Suites SouthPark at Phillips Place, Charlotte, NC 28210 704-319-5700 The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 22 Youth Visions Register Now for Hebrew High! Hebrew High is the place for Charlotte teens to be on Wednesday nights. Register now and don’t miss all the new classes and old favorites. Use the registration forms here or visit our website at www.hebrewhigh.org. New at Hebrew High! Get Charlotte-Mecklenburg School System Credits with some Hebrew High clases. Starting second session, students will be able to earn public high school credits at Hebrew High. These will be graded classes that will earn students credits towards CMS graduation requirements. Stay tuned for more information on eligibility and costs. Y CONSOLIDATED HIGH SCHOOL OF JEWISH STUDIES OF CHARLOTTE Payment Option #1 - $450.00 STUDENT REGISTRATION FORM 2012-2013 Please return to our office or mail box at the JCC ² NOT Temple Beth El or Temple Israel! Payment in Full by Check² k Check made out to Temple Beth El or Temple Israel mus u t accom mpany this form. Please puut Hebrew High in the memo. $50.00 is non-refuundable. 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Students may not select classes unless s all registration paperwork is turned in to Hebrew High Please MAIL to our office or drop off at our office at the JCC C²Do not send forms to the temples! 5007 Provide d nce Road, Suite 108, Charlotte, NC 28226 / 704 -944-6782 / 704-9444 6897² ²ffax www.hebrewhigh.org / become our friend on facebook - www.facebook.com/CH C S Charlotte Meet Some of Our Hebrew High Teachers Rabbi Klirs is Religion’s rabbinical school in wife Ariella, of Nashville, TN; known for her abilCincinnati where she was Carni of Washington, DC and ity to form strong ordained in 1984. Rabbi Klirs Talya, who is moving to Charlotte personal connecwas the first woman rabbi to along with her daughter, Callie tions to religious lead a congregation in Canada (Rabbi Klirs’ granddaughter). school students, and served congregations and Rabbi Klirs will be teaching the and for mentoring Jewish educational Temple Israel Core and developing organizations in Texas, Class. teachers. She is California, Virginia also known for tak- Rabbi Tracy Klirs and Maryland. She Nancy Nagler Good ing a family orientrecently served as the was born in Hollywood ed perspective on religious educa- Director of the Religious and grew up acting and tion. Rabbi Tracy Klirs received a School of Temple Israel singing. A UCLA gradbachelor’s degree in Yiddish liter- of Great Neck, New York. uate and trained in ature from the University of Rabbi Klirs and her husstage at the Royal Chicago and attended the Hebrew band, Elisha, have three Academy of Dramatic Union College-Jewish Institute of children: Lior and his Nancy Nagler Good Art, London, she has performed professionally on stage, TV and film. Since moving to Charlotte in 2000, she has continued to perform with her band, We’re Not Jane, and the Temple Israel Band who lead the popular Rock HaShabbat and Rock HaShanah services. She also leads music programs at the Charlotte Jewish Day School. She is excited to introduce her blend of pop music style and Jewish culture to the students of Hebrew High. She is married to Mark Good and mother of teen sons, Joshua and Noah. Ms. Good will be teaching a new music class, Hava Nashira. Donna de Groot has a Masters Degree in Community Health Nursing from USC Columbia. She has lived for 11 years in Israel, and for many years Nursing was her profession and teaching Hebrew was something that she did as a hobby. In 2003, her “hobby” became her full time profession. In 2010 she completed a Graduate (Continued on page 29) The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 23 SYNAGOGUES & CONGREGATIONS Walking with God TI Social Action Program, October 3, 7:30 PM New Adult Education Course at Temple Israel “Souls of our Neighbors” Rabbi Ezring will be facilitating a fall adult education course. Walking with God features commissioned essays from scholars and thinkers reflecting the breadth of Conservative Judaism’s best insights. For more information, please contact Denise Johnson, Clergy Assistant at 704-362-2796 .Y Following the Sukkah Dinner at Temple Israel, we will watch and discuss an important video on affordable housing. Who are the people in our community who need more affordable housing? Contact Linda Levy for more information at levyollie@ aol.com. TI Welcomes Dale Mullennix, Executive Director of Urban Ministry Center During Shabbat Services he will speak about homelessness in Charlotte on Saturday, October 6. Room In the Inn and Operation Sandwich are both programs from the Urban Ministry Center in which Temple Israel participates. Y Alternative Services Are you looking for something different this Shabbat? Temple Israel invites you to attend our Alternative services. September 28 - Rock HaShabbat Service, 5:30 PM. Rock out with the TI Shabbat Band. Followed by Traditional Shabbat Services at 8 PM. October 6 - Java & Jeans, 10AM. Come get some coffee and talk Torah with Rabbi Raucher. October 20 - Kavanah Service, 10 AM - Rabbi Raucher gives you some Shabbat soul. Dale Mullenix, Director of Urban Ministry Center Temple Israel Book Club Children’s Services October 12 and 26 - Torah Tots, 5:45 PM. Join us for music, singing, dancing and prayer for your preschooler and the kid in you. Y Visit us on the web: www.CharlotteJewishNews.org Wednesday, September 12, 7:30 PM at Temple Israel TO THE END OF THE LAND BY DAVID GROSSMAN During this time of renewed commitments to Judaism and Israel, the Temple Israel September 12 book club discussion of David Grossman’s To the ONE IN NINE MEMBERS OF OUR COMMUNITY WILL COME TO JFS FOR HELP THIS YEAR Every year, one in nine members of our community will come to Jewish Family Services for help. 0DQ\IRUWKHYHU\¿UVWWLPH Please help make it their last. 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Described as a “penetrating, sprawling novel that stretches over nearly 35 years of Israeli history, To the End of the Land is a courageous and powerful antiwar novel that enables us to see Israel’s predicament not as ‘the situation’ but as many situations, one for every person.” Readers will follow the journey of Ora, a middle-aged Israeli mother, as she seeks to avoid any bad news of her son Ofer who has just re-enlisted in the army. “Her story encompasses both the complex fullness of one life and the broader history of Israel’s modern conflicts.” Copies of To the End of the Land are available at the public library, the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and for sale at local bookstores and on-line for less than $15. Temple Israel book club meetings are open to the entire community. “Drop-ins” are welcome, even those who haven’t read the book. 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The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 26 Temple Israel Wishes You a Happy and Healthy New Year Both clergy and staff look forward to welcoming you at our High Holy Days services. High Holy Day Schedule: September 8 - Selichot Service, 8:30 PM September 16 - Erev Rosh Hashanah, 6:15 PM September 17 - Rosh Hashanah Day 1, 8:30 AM September 18 - Rosh Hashanah Day 2, 8:30 AM September 25 - Kol Nidre, 6:45 PM September 26 - Yom Kippur, 10 AM Please visit www.templeisrael- 40 Years in Business ~ 1.4 Million Customers ~ As seen advertised on TV Rob Figa - Business Consultant Charlotte, NC w 980-207-0430 24-hour info: 512-703-6148 email: [email protected] www.legalshield.com/hub/adgen nc.org for more service and time information. New Special Needs High Holy Day Service Temple Israel will be introducing a new Rosh Hashanah service for those in our community with special needs led by Cantor Elias Roochvarg. This Ma’ariv Service will take place on Monday evening, September 17 at 6:15 PM at Temple Israel. Spiritual, lively and inspiring Everyone deserves legal protection. With LegalShield, everyone can access it. From real estate to divorce advice, identity theft, traffic issues, wills, family law, contracts, etc. One flat monthly fee. Offering high-quality, cost-effective legal service. this service is both accessible and interactive. We strive to provide and environment that is safe, respectful and comfortable while raising awareness to the presence and needs of people with autistic spectrum disorders and other developmental disabilities in our community. Temple Israel is considers itself a spiritual home for all individuals providing services that engage, empower and inspire. Complimentary College Student High Holy Day Seats Temple Israel welcomes college students for the High Holidays and year round. To reserve your free seats, contact Reuven Green, 704-944-6816 or [email protected]. TI Offers Free High Holy Day Tickets to our Hometown Heroes In honor of your service to the community, Temple Israel would like to welcome all active duty firefighters, EMT, military, and police personnel and their families Save the Date! Temple Israel Religious School First Day of School September 9 to attend our High Holy Day Services. Please contact Temple Israel at 704-362-2796 to reserve your complimentary tickets. Tickets will be available at the will call window during the day of the High Holy Day Service you choose to attend. TI Food Drive for Jewish Family Service Pantry Wednesday, September 26, Yom Kippur Please bring your bag of nonperishable food to service. Give the food you would have eaten. Birkat HaMazon -Sustain the whole world with kindness and compassion. TI-Y Youth Group members will be helping the Temple conduct the annual food drive for JFS. Sukkah Dinners Beginning in October Temple Israel invites you attend our Sukkah Dinners. Visit www.templeisraelnc.org for a complete schedule to make a reservation online.Y Community Wide Back to Shul Picnic Friday, September 7 at 6:15 PM Join us as we welcome Rabbi Tracy Klirs, our new TI Religious School Education Director! Bring your own dairy dinner, blankets, lawn chairs, friends and family but the drinks are on us. After dinner we will have Shabbat services under the stars and dessert. Y TI-Youth News TI-Y Open House September 9 from 11:30 AM-2 PM This month we are kicking off with our first ever TI-Y Open House. Join us on the lawn between the Temple and Religious School building. We will have lots of fun activities for the kids and lots of information on our new programs and opportunities to meet new friends and for parents to meet our TI-Y staff! For more information contact Reuven Green at 704-944-6816.Y The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 27 Temple Beth El High Holy Days Schedule of Services Days are scrolls: write on them only what you want remembered. — Bachya ibn Pakuda, 11th century For service, tickets and parking information, see www.bethel.com. Selichot, Saturday, September 8: Selichot with clergy and choirs from Temple Beth El and Temple Israel. At Temple Israel. Program: 8:30 PM; Dessert Reception: 9:30 PM; Selichot Service: 10 PM. Erev Rosh Hashanah: Sunday, September 16, 7:30 PM Rosh Hashanah: Monday, September 17 8:30 AM; All congregants and guests welcome to attend this service. Kindergarteners through 3rd graders are required to attend Junior Congregation. 3rd graders and older - Worship with family. Rosh Hashanah: Monday, September 17, 11:30 AM; All congregants and guests welcome to attend this service. Families with children in 3rd grade or younger must attend early service. Kol Nidre: Tuesday, September 25 7:30 PM. Yom Kippur: Wednesday, September 26 8:30 AM; All congregants and guests welcome to attend this service. Kindergarteners through 3rd graders are required to attend Junior Congregation. 3rd graders and older - Worship with family. Yom Kippur: Wednesday, September 26, 11:30 AM; All congregants and guests welcome to attend this service. Families with children in 3rd grade or younger must attend early service. Babysitting (reservations required) available for children under five yrs old at all services. Entire Congregation: Yom Kippur Yizkor, Healing and Neilah Service: 3:30 PM. Light Break Fast: 6:30 PM. All those attending worship are expected to adhere to sanctuary decorum. Tot services for children five years old and younger. Older siblings are welcome. Rosh Hashanah: Monday, September 17 at 3:30 PM in the Blumenthal Sanctuary. Yom Kippur: Wednesday, September 26 at 2 PM in the Blumenthal Sanctuary. Y Temple Beth El Clergy Book Club (Open to All) Sunday, October 14 at 4 PM, Location TBA Jewish books in the news and new Jewish books – this book club has something interesting for everyone, plus rabbis and cantors to lead discussions. For October, please read The Aleppo Codex by Matti Friedman, a true-life detective story unveiling the journey of a sacred text. Questions? Contact Rabbi Jonathan Freirich at [email protected] or 704366-1948. Y Temple Solel Prepares for First High Holiday Services Temple Solel a reform congregation in the Tri-County area is currently offering High Holiday Services. These lay led reform services will be held at Heritage Conference Center in Ft. Mill. Temple Solel is proud to announce that they will have a Torah and new Machzors, “On the Wings of Awe,” a fully transliterated prayer book. • Erev Rosh Hashana, Sunday, September 16 at 7 PM. • Rosh Hashana Services, Monday, September 17 at 10 AM • Shabbat Shuva, Friday, September 21 at 7 PM • Kol Nidre, Tuesday, September 25 at 7 PM • Yom Kippur services will begin at 10 AM with Yizkor to follow with closing services. For more information including directions, please visit templesolelsc.org. Admission for nonmembers will be $50 per person for all the services you may wish to attend. Admission is included for members. Y Sukkot and Simchat Torah Celebrations at Temple Beth El Sukkot Sunday, September 30, in and around our Beth El Sukkah 4 PM – Temple Tots Sukkot Celebration 5 PM – “Pizza in the Hut” for the whole congregation 6 PM – Sukkot Services followed by Ice Cream Sundaes Join us to welcome the Festival of Sukkot on Sunday, September 30, with an afternoon of celebration for everyone. Tots and their families will start early and then join all in a pizza dinner in the Sukkah: our annual “Pizza in the Hut.” All participants will help finish decorating our Sukkah in time for services, where we will celebrate our autumn harvest and commemorate our time spent wandering in the desert dwelling in temporary shelters. Sukkot reminds us of harvests and opportunities to greet each other with food, prayer and song. Beth El welcomes all of our families into the Sukkah to celebrate the annual harvest of our Sacred Gifts and our sacred commitments, which make us a wonderfully vibrant community. We will recognize and celebrate every Beth El member’s contributions: enthusiastic participation, devotion of time, and financial support. Simchat Torah Sunday, October 7, on the “Streets” of Shalom Park (TBE Religious School Parking Lot) 6 PM – Tailgating and Torah Dancing We will conclude our season of repentance and harvest with Simchat Torah. On Simchat Torah at Beth El we symbolize the never-ending cycle of Jewish learning by unrolling the entire Torah scroll and reading from the end and then the beginning. Come dance with the Torah in a party that will overflow our synagogue into our “streets” as well as include a traditional tailgating cookout – burgers, dogs and ample fixin’s. Please join our Beth El family for the celebration of our full range of holidays as we contemplate and celebrate our Jewish festive season. For more information, check out www.beth-el.com, or call 704-366-1948. Y Now w Ope Open! en! 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Whether your background in Jewish prayer and practices is extensive or limited, attending services at Chabad of Ballantyne where the warmth and authenticity of the traditional are blended with the comfort and practicality of the contemporary - will leave you feeling enriched, connected, uplifted, and inspired. Rosh Hashanah is a time when we once again accept God’s kingship, and when the entire creation, the universe with all its creatures, is judged. Yom Kippur is the time when the Almighty forgives us for all our wrongdoing. The High Holidays is not only a time of remembrance of a certain occasion in history, but also a recurrence of the original event. It is a time of reawakening of the special relationship between God and the Jewish people, and between God and the world. Everyone is welcome free of charge. All services will be held at the South Charlotte Banquet Center, 9009 Bryant Farms Road. Rosh Hashana Monday, September 17, Morning Service at 10 AM, Shofar Blowing at noon followed by a Kiddush lunch. Tuesday, September 18, Morning Service at 10 AM, Shofar Blowing at Noon followed by a Kiddush lunch. Yom Kippur Tuesday, September 25, Kol Nidrei at 7 PM. Wednesday, September 26, Morning Services at 10 AM, Neilah at 6:45 PM. Our Fantastic Children’s Program At the Ballantyne Jewish Center, we are committed to mak- ing the High Holidays a meaningful and enjoyable experience for the entire family. Therefore, we are very excited that Morah Brocha Weiss will be leading a fantastic, exciting and interactive children’s program during services for all ages. Parents can enjoy services while their children have a blast. Program highlights include games, songs, activities, food crafts, stories, refreshments, and prizes. Kids love this program and learn a lot in the process. The children are divided into age appropriate groups to ensure that everyone will enjoy. For more information please contact Rabbi Yisroel and Leah Levin, 704-246-8881, info@ JewishBallantyne.com, or visit our website www.JewishBallantyne.com. Saw It, Drill It, Carve It, Sand It, and Take It Home Join us for a fantastic Shofar Factory. Make your very own Shofar and bring in the Jewish New Year in style. This is a great activity for ages four and up to experience an icon of Rosh Hashana in a new way. A delicious dinner is included while we will wait for the shine on our shofars to dry. $10 per child; free for our Hebrew School students. Drop off is available for ages five and up, younger than age five should be accompanied by an adult. Wednesday, September 5, 5–6:30 PM. At the Ballantyne Jewish Center 8632 Bryant Farms Rd. To RSVP or for more information please contact Rabbi Yisroel and Leah Levin, 704-246-8881, [email protected], or visit our website www.JewishBallantyne.com.Y Temple Kol Tikvah of Lake Norman Purchases Building New Home on Delburg Street Made Possible by Calvary Presbyterian Church Lake Norman –After more than 10 years, the Jewish community in Lake Norman has a place to call home. Through the hard work of community leaders and the graciousness of the trustee and founding family of Calvary Presbyterian Church, Bobby and Pearl Overcash, Temple Kol Tikvah will call the former church at 605 Delburg Street home. “This is a huge milestone, not just for the Jewish community, but for the entire Lake Norman community. People in Davidson and the surrounding areas have always welcomed us with open arms. Having a permanent home now gives us the place from which we can also contribute to the larger community in a more meaningful and consistent way,” commented the temple’s co-president, Slade Goldstein. “We always dreamed of having our own place to worship, but dreams don’t just happen. We are truly grateful and humbled by the amount of support and guidance we have received from our members and Davidson community leaders,” noted co-president, Len Sadek. Plans for the up-fit are still being finalized but are expected to begin around September 1 and end no later than February 1, 2013. Services, events and religious school will all be held offsite until the building is ready. All temple activities and their locations will be posted on the website, www.templekoltikvah.org. For more information contact: Slade Goldstein, 704-701-4454, [email protected] or Len Sadek, 704-307-1268, Len57@ windstream.net. Y Slade Goldstein, Pearl Overcash, Bobby Overcash. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 29 The Start of a New Year for Temple Kol Ami Installs New Board of Havurat Tikvah Directors As cooler September days mark the transition from summer to fall, Havurat Tikvah can be found putting finishing touches on our preparations to welcome the High Holy Days and the new year. This month brings us many observances and celebrations. We start with Rosh Hashana services on Monday, September 17. Services begin at 10 AM and end with a festive potluck luncheon (kosher, dairy/parve, and peanutfree). And we’ll end the day with an afternoon Tashlich service. Tuesday, September 18 will find us gathering once again at 10 AM to celebrate day two of Rosh Hashana and enjoying another holiday pot-luck lunch with friends and new acquaintances. We’ll mark the start of Yom Kippur with Kol Nidre on Tuesday, September 25. We begin our services promptly at 6:45; please plan to arrive early and be seated by 6:30. The following day, Wednesday, September 26, we’ll meet for a full complement of Yom Kippur services starting at 10 AM. Yizkor and healing services will be held around mid-day and we’ll end the day with Neila and a kosher, dairy/parve break-the-fast potluck. Looking ahead, Monday, October 7 at 7 PM will be our Simchat Torah celebration, where we will honor the Torah, dance, and look forward to another year of readings. Except for Tashlich, our High Holiday and Simchat Torah celebrations and services will be held in the Fellowship Hall or the Aitken Classroom on the campus of Avondale Presbyterian Church (2821 Park Road, in the Dilworth section of Charlotte). Our Taschlich location will be announced at services and on our website (see below). If you are looking for a place to observe the holidays, we invite you to join us for our member-led services (please see contact information below). We suggest that you call ahead so that we can insure ample seating for all. First time attendees and college students are always welcome to participate at no cost. As we welcome the New Year, planning for many of our other activities is also underway. Our teen group, Mitzvahs in Action, is looking forward to a busy year filled with community service and other projects. We also look forward to continuing our tradition of monthly Shabbat services and a busy schedule of social action activities. We look forward to continuing our partnerships with Project Linus, the Dilworth Soup Kitchen, and Room in the Inn. For more information on volunteer opportunities, please visit our Facebook page: www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=771341 94660. Havurat Tikvah is an affiliate of the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation, providing a comfortable, family atmosphere where all Jews can feel welcome. If you are interested, we invite you to visit, get to know us, and to become part of our congregation of nearly 60 households. For more information about the High Holy Days or any of our other activities, check out our website, www.havurattikvah.org, or contact our new member chair, Brian Feinglass, either by email ([email protected]) or by phone (980-225-5330). You can also find Havurat Tikvah and Havurat Tikvah Teens on Facebook. Y Temple Kol Ami in Fort Mill, SC, recently installed a new Board of Directors. The Temple Kol Ami Board will be lead by President Adena ShermanAdams. Adena has been on the board as the first Treasurer and most recent position as Vice President. She will be joined by other continuing board members Syd Fogel (Vice President), Helaine Yancey (Secretary), Jonathan Shaw (Past President), and Michele Silva (Religious School Director). New members joining the Board are Gail Danberg (Treasurer) and Karen Shelton (Director). We are looking forward to the continuation of our wonderful growth for Temple Kol Ami as we enter into our third year. Please join us for Friday night services and meet our board and our members. Temple Kol Ami holds services the first and third Friday night of the month at 7 PM. Our services Why do I have more questions than answers... are held at Unity Presbyterian, 303 Tom Hall Street, Fort Mill, SC, in the Historic Sanctuary. Contact us at yorksynagogue@ gmail.com or 803-701-0149 with any questions. Y Temple Kol Ami installs its new board of directors. Teachers (Continues from page 22) Certificate in Jewish Education at the Baltimore Hebrew Institute of Towson University. At Hebrew High, she will spearhead an exciting course – Hebrew for High School Credit; which offers our students a change to take Hebrew and receive high school credit through CMS. Donna also teaches Hebrew and Judaica at the Charlotte Jewish Day School. She lives in Charlotte with her husband David. They have two daughters Hadas and Donna deGroot Tali. Y Are you a Wondering Jew? Adult learning for the Wondering Jew. Can a 4,000 year old text speak to a 21st century world? Find your answers with other Wondering Jews at the Florence Melton Adult Mini-School. Melton invites you to discover a world-class curriculum created by scholars at Hebrew University of Jerusalem. Outstanding faculty help students gain a profound understanding of what it means to be Jewish, as we expore the texts of our tradition, ancient and contemporary. Our interactive, pluralistic classroom is designed for adults at all levels of knowledge and background. Begin your journey soon! For more information please contact Talli Dippold at [email protected] or 704-944-6780 Scholarships and Payment Plans are available The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 30 It Takes a Village Starting an organization is no easy task. Even more difficult is a non-profit without any money. Now, make that a Temple and it gets even more complicated. For Temple Kol Ami it took the help of many to help our congregation to grow. As a Jewish congregation we had needs for particular ritual items. Without money it is difficult to get what is needed. Our members stepped forward to give us what we needed. Some with donations of money, other with items and a few with their hands. Gail Danberg hold the Torah Mantel quilted by Helaine Yancey. One such member whose hands have sparked beauty is Helaine Yancey, an accomplished quilt artist also known as the “Quilt Maven.” Seeing the needs of Temple Kol Ami Helaine got to work. The first item that she made was a Bima cover. The cover was designed not only to be a place that we could rest our Torah but, also as a symbol of the who we are. Kol Ami meaning “All My Ages 1-PreK Full day & Half day sion of hers for People” is repremany years. She has sented by the figmade them for ures holding each fundraisers and has other’s hands. The been commissioned cover was a collabto make them for oration of not only special occasions, design, but designsuch as weddings ers. It was quilted and baby births. It by Helaine and has been a wonderembellished with ful gift to have such Swarovsky crystals The Bima cover. talent in our congreby Eleanor Wirth, gation. We feel honrenowned bead artist and Temple member. As ored to have her work adorn our Helaine continued to attend serv- walls and our congregation. Please ices in our borrowed space she join us for Friday night services realized our need for an eternal and see the all of the wonderful light. Having a light installed was work that Helaine has created. not an option so, she began work Temple Kol Ami has services the on another quilt to give us a sym- first and third Friday night of the bolic light. The quilt with its bril- month at 7 PM. Our services are liant flame sits visible for all to see held at Unity Presbyterian, 303 at the head of all of our services. Tom Hall Street, Fort Mill, SC in The designs did not stop there. the Historic Sanctuary. Contact us Items to embellish and welcome at [email protected] all to our services continued. A with any questions.Y wonderful wall hanging designed with a person holding a Torah and the word Shalom greets everyone as they walk through the door. For candle lighting a colorful quilt was made with the Shabbat blessing printed in the center. As High Holidays approached it was realized that we did not have a proper Torah Mantel. Again, Helaine got to work. She designed a Mantel that signified the beauty and brilliance of our new congregation. Helaine has also made art quilt hangings that were sold to help raise money for the congregation. The Shalom quilt. Making art quilts has been a pas- High Holiday Services at Ohr HaTorah Focuses on the Spirituality of High Holidays High Holiday service at Ohr HaTorah is a journey of the soul to the inner dimension of the Jewish experience. The two days of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur encapsulate the entire year and they present an exceptional opportunity to bond with God and with each other in a meaningful and spiritual manner. For people who are searching to delve into the deeper meaning of the High Holidays and seek to touch the Divine will find the Ohr HaTorah experience truly rewarding. The High Holiday service is in a sense a learning activity as Rabbi Yossi Groner provides short and succinct commentaries on the liturgy and expounds on the mystical significance of many of the rituals observed on Rosh Hashanah. The mood at the synagogue reflects the spirituality of the Holy Days and it helps shape the total experience. A major component of the High Holiday experience is the melodious and emotion filled voice of Rabbi Binyomin Weiss who leads the services with passion and feeling. Ohr HaTorah is a welcoming synagogue which helps congregants form friendships and excels with its joyous and uplifting service. One of the unique advantages at Ohr HaTorah is that it allows for worshippers to engage in their prayers at their own pace and to genuinely connect to God in a meaningful and deep manner. It is a moving scene when the moment of sounding the Shofar. The bima is surrounded with children of all ages. The Torahs are held firmly and the crowd of worshippers is focused and concentrating on the power of the moment. It is at this time that worshippers sense the significance of the day for at this moment they feel as if they surge upwards towards the heavens and enter the inner domain of God. The Shofar service envelops young and old as their voices penetrate the heavens and together with the delicate sound of the Shofar they are face to face with God. Yom Kippur at Ohr HaTorah one can sense the sacredness of (Continued on page 31) Special p eci al a friendships f ri e nd shi p s made m ad e daily! d ai ly! LEARN GROW CONNECT Now w enr enrolling rolling for f Fall! Located L o cated on o n Shalom Sh a lo m P Park a rk 5007 5 007 P Providence rovidence Road, Road, C Charlotte harlotte N NC C2 28226 8226 INFO INFFO CJPKIDSORGswww.cjpkids.org CJPKIDSORGswww.c .cjpkids.org 704-944-6777 704-944-677 77 CJP is a partnership of Temple B Beth eth El, Ell, Temple Teemple mplee Israel Israel and an the Levine Levine Jewish Jewish w Community Communitty Center Center The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 31 Using Feminine Energy to Transform Ourselves By Rabbi Chanoch Oppenheim, Charlotte Torah Center A careful study of Rosh Hashana reveals that this holiday is closely associated with women. For example, the first Torah reading says that God remembered Sarah, and the Haftora states that He remembered Hannah. The Talmud further explains that Sarah’s, Rachel’s, and Hannah’s prayers to have children were answered on Rosh Hashana. Another example is the Torah reading on the second day that concludes with the birth of Rebecca (Genesis 22:23), an event that was significant enough to include with the portion about the sacrifice of Isaac. A third example is that the shofar’s sound and the number of sounds blown derive from the mother of Sisrah (Judges 5:28-30). And finally, according to some opinions, the wailing sound of the shofar symbolizes Sarah’s cries as she learned that her son, Isaac, was almost slaughtered by Avraham. The connection between Rosh Hashana and women is further revealed by the fact that it occurs on the first day of Tishrei, a Rosh Chodesh (first day of a month), which is a day for women. The Talmud explains that because men participated in worshiping the golden calf, Rosh Chodesh was given to the women to reward them for refusing to offer their jewelry to the golden calf. Many centuries later the holiday was again a reward for women who gladly donated their jewelry to help construct the Tabernacle, the portable sanctuary used after the Exodus from Egypt until Solomon built the Temple in Jerusalem. Rosh Hashana occurs on a Rosh Chodesh, a day long ago earned by women who today observe each first day of the month with various celebratory customs. Another association between Rosh Hashana and women relates to an idea expressed in the central prayer, Aleinu – the coronation of God as king over the entire world. According to kabbalistic and other sources, women have bina yetera, a heightened sense of insight that men do not possess. On this day, we invoke the merit of righteous women who are especially attuned to God’s sovereignty and His oneness. The merit of their unique relationship with God carries everyone through the Day of Judgment. The connection between God and both men and women is foundational in Jewish mysticism, which recognizes masculine energy as inspiration and feminine energy as what brings things to fruition. For example, rain is the masculine energy and earth is the feminine energy that produces a flower, something greater than both energies combined. With respect to human beings, a man “rains” the gift of a seed to a woman, and she transforms it into a child. The man’s contribution is brief, like a moment of inspiration, but the woman’s is long and discomforting. She is the one who brings to fruition what is transcendent, a child, who is greater than the contributions of both father and mother. Each human being is more than the sum of a sperm and egg and is instead the product of a superhuman synergy that occurs within a woman. The Day of Judgment is a time to go through a long and discomforting transformation. We are asking God to look to our future potential for our lives next year and not let the past hinder us. True teshuva (repentance) is making sure we will not repeat the mistakes of the past, and therefore we ask God to grant us the chance to correct ourselves. We are asking, judge me not for what I did, but for what I can become. We can give birth to ourselves this year, and it is up to us to use the masculine energy of inspiration taken from these Holy Days and bring change to fruition, the use of our feminine energy. We should each transform ourself and give birth to a healthy new self even through the arduous, discomforting journey. The product will be greater than the inspiration and gestation; we have the ability to become new people—better Jews than we could have imagined. Y High Holiday Services at Ohr HaTorah (Continued from page 30) the day as worshippers are mostly dressed in white and it is quite palpable as the service begins. Yom Kippur is when the entire synagogue is keenly aware of seriousness and reverence that fills the air. On Yom Kippur we are compared to angles as we come clean pure before God. The melodious songs that we sing at Ohr HaTorah emanate from the heart and touch the soul. At the conclusion of Yom Kippur we experience a total transformation from solemnity to joy and happiness, the congregation breaks in to a joyous song and we blow the Shofar with confidence that God indeed has sealed our fate with the blessings for a sweet, happy, healthy and prosperous year. Rosh Hashana begins on the evening of September 16. The service schedule at Congregation Ohr HaTorah is as follows: Evening services at 7 PM and morning services at 9 AM. Yom Kippur begins on September 24 and ends September 25 at nightfall. Kol Nidrei service begins at 6:45 and morning service is at 9. Neilah service begins at 5:30 PM. Tickets are not required to attend services. For more information please call our office at 704-3663984 or visit our website www.ohrhatorahnc.org. Y L’Shanah Tovah Best Wishes Wishes for Best foraa Happy & & Healthy Healthy New Happy NewYear. Year. 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It is a time for introspection, and a time for renewal. On Rosh Hashana, we turn to God our king with our requests for a good and blessed year. But most of all Rosh Hashana is a welcome gift given to us by God at beginning of every year. In our contemporary times living life feels like we are constantly running on a treadmill, as we are overwhelmed with day to day tasks that we cannot stop to look in which direction we are running. Rosh Hashana forces us to stop, look and hit our reset button. According to Jewish teachings, God created the year as a complete cycle. This means, that on the anniversary of a certain event, all the elements that existed at the time of the original event are in place at this time and we have a chance to re-experience it once again at least on a spiritual level. This is why birthdays are very important as it marks the date when we first entered into the world and became a living human being. Each year on our birthday there is a renewed energy that flows from the core of our soul and re-energizes us for the new year in our life. Similarly, on Rosh Hashana which marks the creation of the first humans, Adam and Eve, it is a collective birthday for all of humanity and the entire world. On this day God puts in place the course of all the things that will happen during the coming year. That is why the days of Rosh Hashana are vital and significant to us as on these days God decides our fate and that of the entire 9EB@BHE94@<?LGBLBHEF Wishing You and Your Family The Very Best This Holiday Season 725 Providence Road Charlotte, NC 28207 | 704.333.6694 www.swimmerinsurance.com world for the rest of the year and seals it on Yom Kippur. Now one might wonder how do we hit the reset button, how do we reboot our system to make it go in the right direction? The answer is that it’s not much different then rebooting our personal computers. First we need to clean out all the undesirable malware or viruses that have infected our system. We install firewalls to protect the integrity of our software. Only then can we restart the system with confidence. We humans have our own set of software and hardware. Our software is our thoughts, speech, and actions. Our hardware is our natural characteristics and dispositions which we are born with. During the year we might become spiritually infected with a corrupt file in our personal software, or perhaps we have an ongoing issue with some of our dispositions (hardware). On Rosh Hashana, we have the ability to rid ourselves from those pesky thoughts and corrupt files that have infiltrated our psyche and yes, we can even work on our hardware and restart the New Year in a fresh and clean way. This ability to self correct and reboot is unique to Rosh Hashana, for each year on Rosh Hashana we are recreated anew with new energy and new blessings from God. There are several preconditions to make this restart work. 1) Is to shut down our ego and submit to God. 2) To cleanse our hearts from hatred or any negative thoughts. 3) To put in place protections against negative thoughts (our own installed firewalls). 4) To have a positive and sweet attitude towards life. 5) To resolve to actualize this kindness by helping people in need. The greatest happiness we could experience is by making others happy. May this new year of 5773 be a fresh start for all of us with God’s abundant blessings of health, wealth and happiness. May we seize this unique gift from God and redirect our lives in a Jewish and spiritual way by filling it with Torah study, mitzvoth, and kindness towards others. Y “The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science.” —Albert Einstein, What I Believe The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 33 At-One-Ment: High Holy Days, 5773 By Rabbi Dr. Barbara Thiede, Temple Or Olam Once a year on the tenth day of the seventh month, the Kohein Gadol, the High Priest, cleansed the sanctuary. His work completed, he went before the people and announced, simply and surely: Mikol khatoteykhem lifnei Adonai titharu, “Before Adonai you shall be cleansed from all your sins” (Leviticus: 16:30). Torah tells us: God responded by granting the community complete forgiveness. But Torah makes no mention of any process of teshuva to be observed between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur. The text doesn’t actually connect the two holidays. Neither does Torah depict God decreeing who shall live and who shall die in the year to come – not on either day. Torah texts on the High Holy Days are spare. Most of our observance has emerged from rabbinic texts and folkway additions. Still, many of us assume that our rites follow a prescribed tradition with a trajectory of almost 2,000 years. But Judaism is neither static nor one-dimensional. For Ashkenazi Jews, Unetaneh Tokef, the prayer in which we describe a day of judgment that evokes fear even in the angels, is pivotal. Unetaneh Tokef was a late addition to Ashkenazi liturgy and probably became widespread only following the 10th century. Many Jews consider it a centerpiece of their devotion, unless they belong to the many Sephardic communities that do not don’t recite the prayer. Our liturgy, our practice, and our understanding of the purpose of Jewish festivals change over time and are affected by geography. The phrase aseret y’mei t’shuva (ten days of repentance) probably entered our vocabulary when the Arbah Turim was published in the 13th century. Verses on Zichronot and Shofarot may have been acceptable liturgical elements by the writing of Mishnah, but the rabbis argue about whether to add verses about Malchut. Ashkenazim of some European lands disputed with their rabbis on Sabbath Shuva. The Jews of Poland, according to Seva Ratzon, did no such thing: “It is an encouragement to the will to [do] evil.” In Hungary, so their descendants write, Chassidic rabbis of the 17th and 18th centuries walked to the House of Prayer for Kol Nidre in such trepidation that even their earlocks trembled with fear. But words like “awe,” “fear,” or “judgment” are completely absent from a 1663 stele describing how Jews in Kaifeng observed Yom Kippur. Instead, the stele describes Yom Kippur as a day when “desires are forgotten, attainments are put aside, and all apply themselves to preserving the heart and nourishment of the mind, so that through direction there may be a restoration of goodness.” There are many more such examples. Jews have differing practices where our High Holy Days are concerned – even different perspectives on their purpose. These differences transcend time, location, and gender. Why regard them as anything more than curiosities? Because they demonstrate two critical issues we must contend with in our own time. Do today’s Jews believe that God is a stern judge who decides each year who shall live and who shall die? Has God pointed the finger of death at the child dying of hunger in the Sudan, and rewarded the child whose home is in Ballantyne with life? How are we to contend with this theological perspective after the Holocaust? What would happen if we observed the kind of Yom Kippur the Kaifeng Jews enjoyed, a day in which “man remains at rest [so that] his heavenly nature will reach perfection”? Moreover, recognizing the rich diversity we are heirs to reminds us to be conscious – and to appreciate – the extraordinary diversity we represent today. Jews have made and remade their traditions for centuries. They have responded to their times and to their ancient texts with new readings and with abiding reverence. A story: One year on Kol Nidre, Rabbi Meir of Apt arrived at the synagogue to find his congregation in tears: “Jews,” he said, “this is not what I desired; I wish you to turn to God in joy!” And he began to chant the hymn “Majesty and faithfulness are God’s who lives forever” with such enthusiasm and pleasure that they all stopped crying and took one another by the hand and danced for an hour in a great circle. Then they began Kol Nidre. May we turn to God with open hearts this New Year, in the pursuit of goodness and kindness. May we live out our joy – in who we are, who we have been, and who we are yet to be.Y Our Best Wishes For A Happy And Healthy New Year Sandra & Leon Levine A HAPPY AND HEALTHY NEW YEAR This new year we are proud to represent exclusive custom jewelry designed by Israeli artists. Come view this exciting new collection To All Our Friends from Etti & Uri Krause Quality Products & Friendly Service at Affordable Prices 704-556-0710 LADIES SHOES, CLOTHING & ACCESSORIES phillips place . fairview rd. charlotte, n.c. The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 34 Teshuva, Tefillah, and Tzedaka Happy New Year from Bill & Patty Gorelick By Rabbi Murray Ezring, Temple Israel L’Shana Tova U’Mitukah! May we all experience a good, sweet and successful 5773. In a very short time we will gather in our synagogues in greater numbers than at any other time of year. Some of us will be present for the hope of a truly moving spiritual and religious experience. Others will gather to be part of an unequaled social experience. Still others will attend services just because they always have. One of the most familiar lines of liturgy, from the Mahzor, is found in the Jewish mythical setting presented in the Unataneh Tokef. The prayer paints a picture of God’s courtroom. It presents the possible punishments. Then as a final transition to the positive, we are told: “But Teshuva, Tefilla, Happy New Year Bob & Anne Yudell Barbara & Jerry Levin Linda & Mark Goldsmith Rabbi Binyamin & Ilana Levin Brian Goldsmith - Certified Pedorthist L’Shanah Tovah and Tzedaka can transform the harshness of our decree.” This phrase defines Teshuva as a process for us. Teshuva can be translated in different ways including Repentance or Return. We have all been taught that this return is a return to God, Torah, and Jewish tradition. I believe that this is true, but limited. The Return sought on the Yamim Nora’im is even greater. It is clear that the focus of this prayer is for us to live a better life than we have been. The great sage Rava in Tractate Shabbat 31a, teaches that there are five questions we will be asked when we finally appear before God for judgment. The first: “Did you conduct your business honestly?” I was shocked when I first read this. I expected something like “Do you believe in God?” or “Did you do your best to follow halachah?” Instead, we will be asked how we treated others in business. The concepts of tefilla and tzedaka remind us that teshuva refers to rebuilding relationships. In shul, we begin to rebuild our relationship with God. We also begin to rebuild our relationships with parents, spouses, and children who are sitting with us. As Rabbi Dr. Louis Finklestein said, “When we pray, we speak to God. When we study, God speaks to us.” It is very important for each of us to take time to study Jewish text. The combination of prayer and study is our way of socializing with God. The more time we spend surrounded by God’s words and presence, the better our understanding of and our relationship with God. Too often we forget that the second defining term of Teshuva is Tzedaka. The root tzedek does not mean charity, but righteousness. The most righteous behavior we can exhibit to our family and friends is to give them our time and presence. In today’s America, too many of us give our time to our careers and other pursuits that take us away from our families. Frequently, we rely on activities provided by others to care for our children. Just as our relationship with God is defined by the time and effort we put into that holy relationship, so too the sacred relationship between parents and children, husbands and wives, grandparents and grandchildren is defined by the time we spend together. I believe that is why our Rabbis taught us to spend the month before Rosh Hashana seeking out those we might have wronged and apologize for what we have done. At the same time we are taught that if someone apologizes to us, we need to forgive them as a sign to God that we are worthy of Divine forgiveness. In February’s AARP, Bronnie Ware wrote of five regrets of dying. Among them were “I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings. I wish I had stayed in touch with friends.” (To which I would add: I wish I had spent more time with my family.) Imagine how much better our lives would be if we were all able to express to those most important to us how we really feel about them. Rabbi Allen Maller wrote a poem in which he reminds us: “God gives opportunities but not forever. God takes opportunities away after a while. So don’t hesitate or delay ….” Make the time to spend with your loved ones and with God to ensure a meaningful future. Share your feelings with those you want and need most in your life beginning with family and friends to prepare for a renewal of your relationship with God. This year, as we gather to celebrate the New Year in the Jewish calendar, may we all experience a successful Teshuva a return; a rebuilding of our relationships with our families as well as our relationship with our Parent and Creator in heaven. L’Shana Tova Tikateivu Y Rosh Hashanah Gratitude from Lake Norman By Rabbi Michael Shields, Temple Kol Tikvah Rabbi Kerry M. Olitzky once wrote: “Berakhot, blessings, help us to see the world through thankful eyes …. Today, at the beginning of the year, find something to be grateful for. Then say a prayer of thanks.” More than ten years ago, a minyan (or two) of Jews and their families decided to form a Jewish group at the Lake. We will forever be in the debt of Rabbi Ezring and Temple Israel for their support over these past years. They extended Jewish love and learning, as well as professional support to the burgeoning Jewish community. Now, Temple Kol Tikvah of Lake Norman consists of more than 160 families and our school facilitates educational programming for nearly 130 children. It is also important at this time of new beginnings to thank the Shalom Park Community. Shalom Park is a unique and vibrant center of Jewish life that has made the Greater Charlotte Jewish community strong in numbers but also in spirit and participation. The success of the Charlotte Jewish community has led to more Jews and their families wanting to move to the region. The wisdom, support, and generosity of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte and the agencies housed at Shalom Park have helped facilitate the rapid development of the Jewish community at the Lake. At the beginning of this year, it is easy to find something to be grateful for and the members of Temple Kol Tikvah and the wider Lake Norman Jewish Community say a prayer of thanks to God and to the Shalom Park community for the blessings we have received. We see our Greater Charlotte Jewish world through thankful eyes. The path that we have traveled has had some twists and turns but now we find ourselves as a single congregation serving the Lake Norman region. Jewish families in all of their forms from Davidson, Cornelius, Huntersville, Mooresville, Concord, University, and Denver are more connected to the Jewish community than ever before. Temple Kol Tikvah is a vibrant community focused synagogue and Jewish connection point for Jews and their families on the north side of the city. As the New Year is set to begin, Temple Kol Tikvah wanted to share three of our core values: 1) “Kol Yisrael Aravim Zeh B’zeh” – Mutual Responsibility We like to say that we will “Make great mistakes together.” While we do not seek out mistakes, this mantra reflects our deep sense of responsibility to each other as we take up this community building endeavor. We face challenges together boldly, knowing that our fellow members will be there to celebrate successes but also to correct and learn from missteps. By relying on each other and our collective wisdom we marshal our resources to good communal ends. 2) Every Tradition Was Once a New Idea We welcome tradition and the adaptation of beautiful customs and ideas from other places, but we also believe strongly that new ideas can come from anyone – young, “young at heart,” and everyone in between. Every individual has the potential to help us be radically innovative when the need arises. We need “all hands on deck,” and welcome new voices to join our chorus and sit with us at our shared table. “We are not your grandmother’s congregation,” but we love grandma and all that she can teach us. 3) Im tirzu ein zo agadah – “If you will it, it is no longer a dream.” With all the pieces (people) we have, and all the ones we will add in the months and years to come, we can be dreamers. We can envision the community we want and make that dream a reality. This is a sacred responsibility and an empowering and meaningful way to engage in Judaism. There is great excitement that comes with being part of a young community. Every individual is a piece of our communal puzzle. This is an exciting time to be Jewish in the Charlotte region. In addition to the established and vibrant bastion of Shalom Park, the Greater Charlotte Jewish community can also claim the dynamic and spirited northern community based in Davidson as a vibrant center for Jewish communal and religious engagement. As we prepare to hearken to the call of the shofar, I know we will be trumpeting out a message of gratitude to the Greater Charlotte Jewish community. Temple Kol Tikvah of Lake Norman (Voice of Hope) wishes all a Shanah Tovah. Y The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2012 - Page 35 Hasheveinu Adonai Eleyha Venashuva Return As, Adonai, and Let Us Return Hadesh Yameinu Kekedem - Renew Our Days as of Old By Rabbi Judith Schindler, Temple Beth El I was blessed this summer to spend a month in Israel. In my final week, my back went out. Never have I had this experience. Massage therapy, chiropractors, nothing seemed to get me back comfortably on my feet and back to where I was. I was a person who thought I could do it all - lift anything, travel anywhere, set my sights on most any goal. Yet simply walking without pain or driving my car were the small tasks for which I longed. I had to go back to the basics: icing, stretching, getting up slowly, and lifting nothing. All I wanted was to be renewed like in the days of old – even being taken back three weeks in time to when my back functioned well would have been good enough for me. Nothing in life is beyond breaking - our bodies, our hearts, and our relationships. Just like back pain, healing what has been hurt requires going back to the basics. This most holy season of our faith offers us opportunities for renewal and return - to God, to our ideals, and to people we value in our lives. Yet because the path of return is long, our tradition gives us ample time to make the journey. On Tisha B’Av, in the middle of the sweltering summer, we begin our return. As we near our conclusion of the book of Lamentations, wailing over the destruction of Jerusalem and the Temple we cry out to God, “Hasheveinu Adonai aleichah v’nashuva – Return us, Adonai, and let us return.” “Renew our days as before,” we beg, wishing to return to the Jerusalem that was. During the time leading up to the month of Elul, we reflect on the relationships we yearn to be restored – not only with God, but with those people whose presence once lifted us but with whom our connection is now lacking. The seven weeks from Tisha B’Av to Rosh Hashana are a time of consolation - what was lost can indeed be restored. During Elul, the wake up call begins. Each morning in the synagogue the shofar is sounded. It is not enough to long for our relationships of old, we need to work to restore them. Just like healing my back pain required going back to the basics, healing our relationships requires the same. We simply need to take tiny steps – calling or meeting those we care about, listening, being present, making and keeping the smallest of commitments. We can strengthen our relationship with God in the same way – by trying to hear God’s voice in our Torah, in prayer, in the wisdom of others and in the world. We can renew our relationship with God by keeping even the smallest commitments that we feel God would want us to make – whether in offering gratitude for what we have or caring with love and respect for God’s creations. The doorways to renewing our days as of old are many and increasing as we near our High Holy Days. We have Selichot – the late night service that marks our ascension to the Days of Awe and the start of our daily penitential prayers. We have Rosh Hashana that starts the Ten Days of Repentance. 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