September 2011 issue
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September 2011 issue
INSIDE World premiere of Award-winning composer Christopher Theofanidis’ Heart of a Soldier Elliniko Horio – Greek Village Camp at Saint Nicholas Ranch and Retreat Center page 4 page 5 W E S T E R N G R E E K A M E R I C A N N E W S M O N T H LY VOL. XXXVII, NO. 9 • H E L L E N I C J O U R N A L . O R G S e p t e m b er 2 0 1 1 Mr. and Mrs. Fanis Economidis Dr. and Mrs. Kenneth Frangadakis Mr. and Mrs. John Gumas Maria Koumantaros Thank you for Philip and Nancy Economopoulos your Dr. Nick and Nancy Vidalakis Family Mr. and Mrs. Ted Laliotis Mr. and Mrs. Steve Padis Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Saris The Elios Society The George and Judy Marcus Family Foundation The Andrew and Kathleen Varlow Charitable Fund Constance Vrionis Mr. and Mrs. Gary Vrionis Frosene P. Maniatis Foundation generous support! 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Phillips Over the past three-plus decades, the HJ has Editor been the voice keeping the Hellenic spirit alive through informing and uniting our Greek American community. With the addition of the online edition of the HJ at hellenicjournal.org as well as its presence on Facebook and Twitter, our reach and voice continue to expand. From Greece to New York, Chicago, Salt Lake City to Seattle, Phoenix, Los Angeles and San Francisco, among others, the HJ welcomes a family that is now global. In this current economic climate, your pledges and continuing support are greatly appreciated and vital as they provide the HJ with the opportunity to continue to grow and thrive in this fastpaced media world. Being a non-profit organization, the HJ is similar to other quality organizations such as arts organizations and Public Broadcasting Stations, depending heavily on financial pledges from the community at large. 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For more HJ news and to subscribe visit hellenicjournal.org and follow us on Facebook Secretary of State Hillary Clinton meets with Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew . . . . . . . . . . 5 End of Life - The value of Grieving. . . . . . . . . . . 7 The HJ 2011 Family of Donors page 3 The significance of the olive tree to Greece . . 12 Orthodox News. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 Community . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 End of Life. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 News from Greece . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton visits the Ecumenical Patriarchate page 5 Calendar. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Greek Festivals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Southern California Notes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Northwest and Pacific Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Business Directory. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 On the cover: Choir Federation President Kathy Meck page 6 Socrates, Aristotle, Homer, Plato and Aesop. 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This year’s special Opera in the Park concert will honor the memory of those who perished on 9/11 and the place to be this fall... a day of philanthropy, fine food, fine wine, fashion & inspiration SAT., OCTOBER 15, 2011 SHERATON SAN DIEGO HOTEL & MARINA Presented by: The Ladies Philoptochos Society Anthousa Chapter Proceeds will benefit: • The Salvation Army Door of Hope & Central Kitchen • The Children’s Foundation of America • Philoptochos Ministries SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! Help philoptochos touch the lives of the hungry, homeless mothers with babies, and children in need. Win a magnificent piece of art made of sterling silver and 18K gold, with semi-precious gems by internationally famous designer KONSTANTINO. $2,135 retail value! envoguebyanthousa.org and civic dignitaries offering celebrate the service and heroism remarks on this national day of of the Bay Area’s first responders remembrance. This event is free and including firefighters, paramedics open to the public; no tickets are and police, among others. The required. concert follows the September 10 world premiere of Heart of a Soldier, “This year’s Opera in the Park on Sunday, September 11 coincides a new opera commissioned by San Francisco Opera in commemoration with the tenth anniversary of the infamous 9/11 attacks,” said of the tenth anniversary of the Gockley. “The evening before, on September 11, 2001 World Trade Saturday, Sept. 10, the Company Center attacks. will give the world premiere of San Francisco Opera Music Heart of a Soldier, an opera we Director Nicola Luisotti will commissioned conduct the San based on a Francisco Opera true story of a Orchestra, courageous man Chorus and who, on that acclaimed fateful day of soloists from the 9/11, displayed Company’s Fall extraordinary 2011 Season heroism, in a concert Christopher Theofanidis photo by alexandra Gardner/ leadership and featuring newmusicbox.org self-sacrifice Wolfgang in order to save the lives of more Amadeus Mozart’s masterpiece, than 2,700 individuals. We invite the Requiem in D minor, and the Bay Area to join us on this day inspirational works by American of community remembrance and composers Harold Arlen, Samuel celebration.” Barber, Leonard Bernstein, Aaron San Francisco Interfaith Council Copland and John Williams, as Executive Director Michael Pappas well as music by Christopher commented, “Immediately after Theofanidis, the award-winning the tragic events of September composer of Heart of a Soldier. 11, 2001, former Mayor Willie During the Mozart Requiem, Brown turned to the San Francisco musical movements will be Interfaith Council to bring people interspersed with meditational of our City’s diverse faiths together texts read by members of the broad for prayer and solidarity. Now, religious community that comprise the San Francisco Interfaith Council. ten years later, the Interfaith Council is grateful to Mayor Lee San Francisco Opera General and San Francisco Opera for this Director David Gockley will serve uniquely San Franciscan occasion as master of ceremonies and will to remember those who died in the be joined on stage by a roster of attacks, to honor the first responders distinguished political, interfaith and to reflect upon lessons learned over the last decade, not the least of which is the need for civil discourse. It is our collective hope that this civic observance will inspire all who will gather to sow the seeds of peace in our City and the world.” On Saturday, Sept. 10, San Francisco Opera will unveil the world premiere of Heart of a Soldier, a new opera by composer Christopher Theofanidis with a libretto by Donna Di Novelli. Commissioned by San Francisco Opera, Heart of a Soldier is based on the critically acclaimed non-fiction book of the same name by Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist James B. Stewart and the life stories of Susan Rescorla, Rick Rescorla and Daniel J. Hill. A story of war, love, friendship and heroism, Heart of a Soldier reflects on the extraordinary true story of Rick Rescorla, a man trained to be a consummate soldier who gave up his own life saving thousands in the attacks on September 11, 2001. The cast features baritone Thomas Hampson, tenor William Burden and soprano Melody Moore. Francesca Zambello will direct this world premiere production and San Francisco Opera Principal Guest Conductor Patrick Summers will lead the San Francisco Opera Orchestra and Chorus. Six additional performances will be presented through September 30 at the War Memorial Opera House. For more information about Opera in the Park 2011, visit sfopera.com. frolic with the Gods Labor Day Weekend Monterey Bay Greek Festival September 4, 45&&56- -2011 2010 September 3, Custom Plaza CustomHouse House Plaza Monterey State Park- Fisherman’s – Fisherman’s Warf – Monterey, Monterey StateHistoric Historic Park Wharf - Monterey - CACA Greek Cuisine Music- –Dancing Dancing Greek Cuisine– -Live Live Greek Greek Music Taverna Night Free Admission Saturday & Sunday Free Admission 11 AM – 7 PM Saturday & Sunday 11 AM - 7 PM Sunday 7 - 10 PM Monday 11 AM – 4 PM 11 AM - 4 PM Monday www.montereybaygreekfestival.com St. John the Baptist Greek Orthodox Church 326 Park Street, Salinas - CA 93901 (831) 424-4434 September 2011 Hellenic Journal 5 orthodox news Secretary of State Clinton meets with Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew, calls for immediate opening of Halki Seminary San Francisco Greek Village Immersion Camp gains popularity stanbul - U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton met with Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew on July 16 at the Phanar during her visit to Istanbul. Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew warmly received Secretary Clinton who initiated a serious hourlong discussion on various issues, including the reopening of the Orthodox Theological School of Halki. “Forty years of ‘silence’ are enough for the School” Clinton reportedly told media. She reiterated the commitment of the United States on the issue of religious freedom and expressed her ver 50 campers were immersed in the Greek language and culture during the second annual “Elliniko Horio” – Greek Village Camp – held June 18 – 25, 2011 at Saint Nicholas Ranch and Retreat Center in Dunlap, California. Children ages 7 – 14 participated in daily activities that were led by trained professional instructors who offered a creative and stimulating learning environment which emphasized the use of the Greek language during all facets of instruction. I PHOTO BY N. MANGINAS support to the concerns of the Ecumenical Patriarchate. Secretary of State Clinton also referred to other activities and initiatives of the Ecumenical Patriarch, referencing His AllHoliness as the “Green Patriarch” – an epithet bestowed on him for his tireless leadership and pioneering work in raising environmental awareness and underlining spiritual values in addressing the ecological crisis. Clinton highlighted the interreligious dialogue initiated by the Ecumenical Patriarch in 1994 at the Bosphorus Meeting and the Declaration signed, as well as the continuation of the dialogue in 2001 in Brussels immediately after the terrorist attack of September 11. Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew referred to recent positive steps by the Erdogan government to remove barriers that had historically accumulated, limiting the action of the Ecumenical Patriarchate. He thanked the U.S. for its “continuous and undiminished ‘interest in the issues of the Orthodox Church.” Finally, the Secretary conveyed the gratitude of President Barack Obama for the supportive letter by His All-Holiness to the President regarding the administration’s initiatives pertaining to climate change. Hillary Clinton was accompanied by Philip Gordon, Assistant Secretary of State for the Bureau of European and Eurasian Affairs; Francis Ricciardone, United States Ambassador to Turkey; Elizabeth Sherwood-Randall, Special Assistant to the President and Senior Director for Europe, National Security Council; Suzan Johnson Cook, Ambassador at Large for International Religious Freedom and Scott Kilner, United States Consul General. The Secretary CLINTON continued on page 14 O “The Greek Village Immersion Camp has quickly become a signature program in the Metropolis of San Francisco. Children have expressed great interest in this camp, and are eager to learn about their faith and culture in this setting,” stated His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos. “This is a unique educational opportunity that blends creativity with academic instruction to encourage a positive learning environment, and we look forward to its GREEK VILLAGE CAMP continued on page 14 His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos with the campers and staff at the Elliniko Horio – Greek Village Camp at Saint Nicholas Ranch and Retreat Center in Dunlap, CA. PHOTO BY Kristen Bruskas 6 Hellenic Journal September 2011 community West Coast Church Musicians Gather for Educational Weekend The Metropolis of San Francisco Church Music Federation met at the Annunciation Cathedral in San Francisco, CA for its “Summer Church Music Forum by the Bay” in June. This year’s gathering created a more interactive and educational format for the conference instead of focusing on learning a large choral arrangement of the Divine Liturgy. His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos challenged the Federation earlier this year to embrace a broader focus and vision for this important ministry, and encouraged a stronger educational component. The weekend began with a Business Meeting of delegates from parishes throughout the Metropolis. Among the items discussed at the meeting were: the His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos addresses members establishment of a Youth of the Metropolis Church Music Music Director position for Federation at a dinner at the the Metropolis, upcoming Metropolis House. Free adMission WiTh This ad -a $500 vaLue hJ regional Church Music Institutes being held in the fall of 2011, and the recently launched Federation website: http://sanfran.churchmusic. goarch.org. The Federation also re-elected their current slate of officers for a two-year term beginning in August 2011: Kathy Meck – President, Liz Levy – Vice President, Daralyne Baddour – Treasurer, and Athena Anastos – Secretary. Following the meeting, His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos welcomed the delegates to the Metropolis House for dinner and fellowship. Saturday was a full day of presentations and workshops including: “Orthodox Cultural Literacy – It’s not just for breakfast anymore” led by Father Aris Metrakos (Holy Trinity, San Francisco), and “The Role of Fine Arts in Orthodox Church Worship and The Development of Byzantine Music Across the Centuries” presented by Dr. Theodore Bogdanos. A special session presenting new music was led by Dr. Tikey Zes assisted by various Dennis Constantine, Program Director at KFOG 104.5/97.7 radio in San Francisco, recently relocated to the Bay Area from Portland where he served as choir president at Holy Trinity Cathedral for many years. He is pictured here with Loula Anaston (Holy Cross – Belmont). Members of the Metropolis Church Music Federation with His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos at the Annunciation Cathedral in San Francisco, CA. PHOTOS BY KRISTEN BRUSKAS choir directors from throughout the Metropolis. Following lunch, Laura Kakis Serper, choir director from the Ascension Cathedral in Oakland, CA gave a presentation on getting children involved in church music. She brought along several members of her professional youth choir, Kairos, who were preparing for an overseas tour, to demonstrate various techniques for working with young children and their developing voices. The final presentation for the day was offered by Raganr Bohlin, the director of the San Francisco Symphony Chorus. Using music by Bach, Rachmaninoff, Bogdanos and Zes, Mr. Bohlin brought forth a richer and more resonant sound, emphasized musical phrasing and dynamics, as well as proper vocal production, breath support, and attentiveness as singers. The feedback from the participants was very positive and the Federation Board is committed to expanding this year’s format to offer an even wider array of workshops that would address choir directors, singers, chanters, and youth choir members. Plans are underway for next year’s conference to be held in June 2012. (Left) His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos with Dr. Theodore Bogdanos. (Right) Dr. Tikey Zes conducting members of the Federation in singing various hymns while at the Metropolis House for dinner during the conference weekend. Wedding Bells in Glyfada Greek Food •Wine TasTinG •Live Music sponsorship by Wells Fargo. www.ccgreekfest.com 925-676-6967 • 1955 kirker pass rd. concord, across from the pavilion september 16, 17, 18 The Roumeliotis-Costouros wedding took place on July 7, 2011 at St. Constantine and Helen Church in Glyfada, a suburb of Athens. Officiating at the wedding ceremony were His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos of San Francisco and Fr. Stephen Kyriacou, Dean of the Annunciation Cathedral of San Francisco. Following the wedding ceremony, a luscious Gala and Dinner/Reception were held at the exclusive venue of Island Resort in Varkiza, also a suburb of Athens in the Greek Riviera area. The wedding party and many of the guests stayed at the Astir Palace hotel in Vouliagmeni, also part of the Greek Riviera. The bride, Stephanie Roumeliotis, daughter of Dimitri and Valerie Roumeliotis, is a political consultant based in San Francisco. The groom, Dr. John Costouros, son of Dr. George and Joanna Costouros, is an orthopedic surgeon with Kaiser and Stanford University. Koumpari were two well known members of the San Francisco Greek American communities Paul Sogotis and Peter Poulos. Photo from left to right: Dimitri Roumeliotis, Valerie Roumeliotis, Stephanie Roumeliotis-Costouros, Dr. John Costouros, Joanna Costouros, and Dr. George Costouros. PHOTOS BY TED LALIOTIS September 2011 Hellenic Journal 7 end of life Grappling with Grief Grief is not only survivable but, if handled through a healthy process, it can produce increased personal strength, new insight, or a greater level of understanding. T he year was 1980 and following several months of battling with pancreatic cancer, my husband Jim’s life peacefully ended in a hospital bed at San Francisco State University. This was not anticipated in our lives together as we were only married a few short years. We had a lively 20-month old daughter and a bright future ahead of us. When I left the hospital that day two symbolic events struck me that have stayed with me for the past 31 years – life and grief. Life because my husband died in the middle of the afternoon on a Friday and I was forced to face the traffic on the San Francisco Bay Bridge by being thrust back into the hustle and bustle going on around me. Grief because when I arrived at my mother-in-law’s home I was deeply struck and shocked by her image when she opened the front door. She was dressed in a black dress busy vacuuming her living room in anticipation of arriving family and friends to offer their condolences – a tradition/ritual that I would eventually learn to value and appreciate. At 26-years of age, my experience with death and grief were limited. With Jim’s passing, however, I was about to enter the journey of loss and grief – a life experience that touches us all sooner or later. “Grief is something that most of us will face at some point in life,” says Monterey Peninsula Community Hospital’s Pulse magazine. “It can result from many types of loss – death of a loved one, loss of a dream, the agony of no or too little employment, a debilitating injury, ending of a significant relationship, or diagnosis of a chronic or terminal illness. And it can feel worse during the holiday season or other significant occasion.” “Failure to successfully grieve the loss of a loved one Counselingg S er v ices 0 By Frosene Phillips can significantly deprive the survivor(s) in several ways be it blatant or subtle,” said Dr. Peter Tsantilis, Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is based in San Francisco. “A person could endure long-standing suffering, depression, psychosomatic illness, lack of energy, guilt, apathy for life, resignation, anxiety, and a sense of disinterest in relatedness with others.” Importance of the Grief Process “Grief counseling offers clients a safe place to share all of those deeply complicated and intense feelings of loss, anger, confusion, irritability and sadness that come with grief and loss,” said Jackie Reckas-Retelas, Marriage, Family Therapist based in Pleasanton, CA. “A good counselor knows how to be supportive and nonjudgmental as they help the client negotiate the many feelings GRAPPLING WITH GRIEF continued on page 8 Proudly Serving the Greek Community Since 1903 Duggan Serra Family Full Traditional Greek Orthodox Funeral Services Jackie Reckas-Retelas, Marriage, Family Therapist MFC33679 The Program for Counseling In Schools, Executive Director Serving Schools in Alameda and Contra Costa Counties since 1989 Parents • Groups • Community Family Success • Individuals Children Private Practice Office in Pleasanton California Trainee and Intern positions for graduate students in the field of Marriage and Family Counseling available in primary and middle school levels, K thru 8th grade 1811 Santa Rita Road, Suite 226, Pleasanton, CA 94566 Email: [email protected] • 925-426-9182 Greek Orthodox Memorial Park “…with dignity and respect for those we love.” Mausoleum or ground burial services provided. 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The client is not alone, the burden is gently shared.” “To chronically hold back grieving and/or other deep emotions like anger, fear, etc., requires/demands that the physical body work strenuously to succeed at this task. The result uggan’s Funeral Service may manifest in chronic tension, migraines, doubts, inability to concentrate, lack of energy, experiencing little or no pleasure for being alive,” said Tsantilis. “The way a grief counselor can help those in need is that, like a healthy, good wise friend, is authentic, compassionate, experienced and has the capacity and deep interest to offer their help. As the two interact, the grieving person learns to know that they are in good hands and the story gradually or dramatically unfolds.” Children and Grief “Many adults believe that children don’t grieve, that its best not to talk to them about their feelings, and that time alone will heal grief. But children will have many of the same intense feelings as adults. 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Without the help of caring adults and counseling, we see many kids act out their depression in risk taking behavior, increases in depression levels, self harming behavior, distancing from family and friends, and academic declines.” Greek Pride and Grief “The Greek culture (the Greeks) are, of course, prideful,” said Tsantilis, “and so much of it is for the good: our heritage, or compassion (filotimo!), or courage and self-reliance, our music and ability to celebrate life. Yet, these very qualities can contribute to a measure of shyness/hesitation from seeking help when we lose someone. “The mirilogy that for a long time provided much healing in perhaps every Greek village – the priests who offered support and wisdom are appropriate and helpful resources for potential healing.” However Dr. Tsantilis cautions that some of them try to replace counselors and sometimes may fall short from creating good enough conditions for the healing process to develop. “I personally have had many Greek Americans who sought me out over the years. Aside from the initial caution, they express in their unique ways experiences of loss, and other human emotions (pain/ponos) so hard to bear and sometimes so hard to share.” Are you over it? As a young widow, I was often asked how long it took me to ‘get over’ my husband’s death. To this day, I welcome the opportunity to share these inspirational words of wisdom that crossed my path during my grief work: You never get over it, you just get through it, and after awhile, you carry it instead of it carrying you. September 2011 Hellenic Journal 9 end of life Grief and loss – a healthy approach • No one else can do it for you, and you can’t do it for someone else. • When it comes to another person, you can’t fix, you can only support. • Be patient and gentle with yourself and others. • Be honest. Admit your feelings to yourself. • Be reasonable about your expectations for yourself and others. • Don’t be afraid to get help. • Take care of your physical, emotional and spiritual needs. • Be prepared to forgive yourself and the wellintentioned ‘comforter.’ • Quiet, loving support – for your grief or someone else’s. • Information is a powerful tool. Consider books, counseling and support groups. How Roses Are Connected To Our Existence On Earth By Paul Larson MILLBRAE – I recently was asked by the Maltese Cross Foundation to sponsor a unique event to remember their relatives and loved ones who have passed away. This annual gathering of the Maltese community brings families together in a way that is respectful and also inspiring. I attended this special Sunday afternoon Mass and remembrance ceremony at Saint Dunstan Church in Millbrae. I listened to the hundreds of Maltese names that were read aloud (pronounced the way they would be in Malta), many of which I recognized after serving these families at the CHAPEL OF THE HIGHLANDS. I watched as participants of various ages, young and old, came up the center isle carrying red and white roses (the colors of the Maltese flag) and placed them into a group of vases at the altar. Pictures of lost loved ones were placed nearby on the altar floor. All was preformed in a solemn and respectful manner. Following the Mass I was asked by Louis Vella (President of the Maltese Cross Foundation and Honorary Consul of Malta) to come forward and say a few words. As I stepped from my pew up to the podium I noticed I was viewing the church and those in attendance from a different perspective. I didn’t have anything planned to say and greeted the group with a standard “it is nice to see all of you here”. As I spoke I looked at the sea of faces watching me, and also the roses that had been placed at the altar, and realized that this occasion could be seen from a different perspective too. It was obvious that each one of the roses at the altar represented a life with a direct connection to the faces in front of me. I informed the group not to feel sad but to feel lucky and honored that they had their loved one as part of their life. I said it was wonderful that all those attending were here to honor their lost loved one, but added that their loved one is still part of them and always will be. Everyone in attendance at this event was an inspiration. Their desire to be a part of this remembrance ceremony shows not only that they care, but that the mental bond to their loved one is strong and still exists even after their loved one is physically gone. Roses are a thing of beauty to be appreciated during their brief existence. Remember to appreciate your family and loved ones. Like a rose our existence on this earth is precious. Take the time to celebrate those who shaped our lives and made us who we are…TODAY WHILE THEY ARE STILL WITH US. If you ever wish to discuss cremation, funeral matters or want to make pre-planning arrangements please feel free to call me and my staff at the CHAPEL OF THE HIGHLANDS in Millbrae at (650) 588-5116 and we will be happy to guide you in a fair and helpful manner. You may also visit us on the internet at www. chapelofthehighlands.com. 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San Fernando Street, Suite 900 San Jose, CA 95113 Email: [email protected] Tel: 408 918 5388 Fax: 408 998 2102 www.lawtaxingreece.com September 2011 Hellenic Journal 11 calendar Arts, Events, Lectures & Entertainment September 1-7 Cappella Romana Debut In Greece Visit www.capellaromana.org or email [email protected]. September 4 Armo Greco Music & Comedy Festival featuring Angelo Tsarouchas at the Ford Amphitheatre in Los Angeles, CA. For more info and tickets visit: itsmyseat.com September 15-18 The National Hellenic Society’s Hellenic Classic Weekend includes an insightful symposium, invaluable networking opportunities for young professionals, incredible social and leisure activities and great golf! Contact NHS Executive Director Tim Maniatis for additional information at tim@hellenicsociety. org or visit nationalhellenicsociety.org. September 20 16th Annual Greek Open Golf Tournament benefiting Agia Sophia Academy. Begins at 1:30 with golf, dinner and auction. For tickets and more info visit greekopen.com September 21-23 Kouzina – Chicago’s National Hellenic Museum’s three day epicurean celebration of the culinary arts. Tickets can be purchased at nationalhellenicmuseum.org or by calling 312-655-1234 September 25 Kytherian Society of California’s Panigyri of the Myrtidiotissa Begins at 10 a.m. with Church Services at Cathedral of the Ascension in Oakland, CA. Luncheon at 12:30 p.m. For more info email: [email protected] or phone 925-443-7153. HAPS Sets Greek Letters Day, February 2012 Application deadline approaches President Yannis M. Paulus, M.D., and the Board of Directors of the Hellenic American Professional Society of Northern California, have set early February 2012 to celebrate Greek Letters Day. Applications for the prestigious AXION AWARD will be mailed to members of the society. Nominations must be submitted by midnight, Sept. 30, 2011, to co-chair Patricia Lagiss. To qualify for nomination, the nominee must have an academic background and have reached high goals in his/her profession, as well as have given back to the community at large. The Society’s annual general assembly will be held on Sunday, Nov. 6. The program will include a speaker on Hellenic subject and is open to the general public. After the presentation, members will conduct Society business. Contact President Yannis M. Paulus, 650-391-7364, for details. Greek Festival Season Each month the Hellenic Journal will identify which Greek American community is presenting a festival to its larger community. To list your festival, call 925-939-3900, fax 925-407-2931, or email info@ hellenicjournal.org. September 3 & 4 • 661-945-1212 saintsconstantineandhelen.org September 16, 17 & 18 925-676-6967 • stdemetrios.ca.goarch.org September 17 & 18 209-522-7694 • goannunciation.org Belmont 40th Annual Greek Festival Church of the Holy Cross September 3, 4 & 5 650-591-4447 • goholycross.org/Festival Prophet Elias – Santa Cruz September 16, 17 & 18 831-429-6500 • propheteliassantacruz.org Napa-Solano Greek Community Sts. Constantine & Helen-Vallejo September 17 & 18 707-642-6916 home.pacbell.net/stscandh/ Greek Festival by the Sea Assumption of the Virgin Long Beach • September 3, 4 & 5 562-494-8929 • LBGreekFest.org Monterey Bay Greek Festival St. John the Baptist – Salinas September 3, 4 & 5 831-424-4434 montereybaygreekfestival.com St. George – Bakersfield September 9 & 10 • 661-325-8694 ourparish.us St. Anthony’s Greek Festival Pasadena September 16, 17 & 18 626-449-6943 • saint-anthonys.org A Taste of Greece Annunciation - San Francisco FESTIVALS continued on page 15 45th Annual Greek Festival Annunciation – Modesto Coming Soon... St. Basil Greek Festival Stockton September 9, 10 & 11 209-478-7564 • gosaintbasil.org CALIFORNIA Annunciation Church Sacramento • September 2, 3 & 4 916-443-2033 • annunciationsac.org Sts. Constantine & Helen Annual Greek Festival Cardiff-By-The-Sea September 10 & 11 760-942-0920 • stsconstantinehelen.com Saints Constantine and Helen Lancaster Contra Costa Greek Festival St. Demetrios – Concord Greek Food Festival! October 7,8,9 Free Admission! Friday: 5 p.m.-9 p.m. Saturday: 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Sunday: 12 p.m.-7 p.m. Come Feast And Dance With Us! Featuring: Authentic Greek Food! • Live Greek Music! Dancing! • Entertainment! Expanded Vendors for Great Shopping! Event Located at: Resurrection Greek Orthodox Church 20104 Center Street Castro Valley Visit us at www.GreekFestival.me 12 Hellenic Journal September 2011 southern california notes By Mavis Manus THE OLIVE TREE, symbol of serenity, fertility and peace “If you deconstruct Greece you will in the end see an olive tree, a grape vine, and a boat.” Odysseus Elytis W hile St. Sophia will not be holding its annual Festival this year FAMILY OWNED & PROUDLY CARED FOR GOU AT SINCE ZAG ED MAG RMET T AZIN RA E 1948 OWNER CHRYS CHRYS WELCOMES YOU TO: “ELLHNIKO PANTAPOLEION” C & K IMPORTING CO. L.A.’s OLDEST & ONLY “ELLHNIKO” GREEK STORE! AND “PAPA CRISTO’S” “AWARD-WINNING” GREEK GRILL RECOGNIZED FOR ITS FRIENDLY ATMOSPHERE, DELICIOUS HOMEMADE FOOD WITH “REAL GREEK INGREDIENTS!” FOR DINNER, CATERING OR PARTIES WITH “FOOD LIKE YOUR MOTHER COOKED IT” CALL: (323) 737-2970 2771 W. PICO BLVD. LOS ANGELES, CA 90006 WWW.PAPACRISTOS.COM (owing to renovation work), I am reminded of one of the more popular events in past years – the talk Mark Yordon of C&K Taverna in Los Angeles gave on the importance of the olive tree to Greece – from baptism to death and all the years in between. He related the legend of how the capital got its name. The greatest city of its time had a competition between the sea god Poseidon and Athena, the goddess of wisdom. Poseidon stabbed his trident into the Acropolis hill and a fountain of salt water gushed out to provide the city with all the salt it needed. But Athena, in her wisdom, planted an olive tree. The wood provided furniture (Ulysses’ bed was made of olive wood), the branches provided shade, and the leaves - wreaths for champion athletes, the olives a basic food. And countless were the uses of the oil – from anointing at baptism, in cooking, cosmetics, medicine and spiritual protection. And so the city was named after Athena and in her honor a 30-ft ivory and gold statue was erected. To house it they built a shrine – the Parthenon. Under the Ptolemies, Greek engineers in Egypt introduced the principles of hydraulics which increased the acreage devoted to vineyard and olive groves. The noria, a wheel with a diameter up to 40 feet, had hanging buckets that spilled water into irrigation ditches. The cultivation of olives helped the spread of their civilization. At the ancient Pan-Athenaic Games, the reward for winning a contest was a huge amphora filled with the finest extra virgin oil. Solon had decreed that no olive oil could be exported, except for oil won by the champions. This means that athletes were among the wealthiest people in Athens. Some things are universal and never change. Olive oil is actually a misnomer; it should be olive juice as the olive is a fruit which is squeezed, but as it has the consistency of oil and looks and acts like oil, oil is what it’s called. There isn’t too much difference between green and gold oil; color is not necessarily an indication of taste. The first pressing, extra virgin cold pressed, means that no heat has been added to the process. It also must have less than 1% acidity. In ancient times there wasn’t a chemical way of testing but their system seemed to work well – they allowed a thimbleful to trickle down the throat. As it passed the tender part, if it didn’t burn they knew they had the right stuff. Virgin oil is either a second pressing or one that is a little higher in acidity. Only at the third pressing is heat applied and the result is pomace (sometimes called ‘extra light’). This should be kept for frying. In the past, horses or mules pulled the huge litharia, the circular stones which crushed the olives. Nowadays automated metal blades are used, but the old gradings are fiercely guarded. Bottle labels which read ‘pure olive oil’ sound good but by law the bottles need only contain 15% extra virgin and 85% processed oil. Greece is the only country that only exports olive oil – never imports it. A good Italian olive oil may have Greek oil mixed in, but it could also be a blend of Tunisian or Moroccan. Greek olive oil, however, will only be Greek: 100%! Here are some of the claims and beliefs surrounding this wondrous elixir: It raises HDL – the ‘good’ cholesterol, fights the effects of aging: a shot before going out on the town will prevent a possible hangover. It can soothe ulcers; one tablespoon of Extra Virgin oil and the juice of a lemon first thing in the morning will keep you ‘regular.’ Pregnant women should ingest oil for bone density and brain development in babies. Oil is a balm for wounds, earaches, rashes and burns. Before electricity, it provided illumination at night. Athletes rubbed their bodies with it. It was even used as a contraceptive. It can guard against malevolent forces: in Lindos I once found a neighbor crossing my young daughter with oil – a tourist had praised Lisa without spitting and Zambeeca was warding off the evil eye. Hippocrates, Father of Medicine calls olive oil ‘the great therapeutic.’ Black crinkly olives are called throumpes. They have been allowed to ripen on the tree to the point where the bitterness is leached out. Curing methods began when people wanted olives year round and worked out ways to expunge the bitterness, either in a brine or lye solution. In Greece, Kalamata olives make up only 20% of the market. Amfissa or Volos olives are the most commonly consumed. Trees belong to families and in many parts of Greece, even if the property is sold, say, to a developer, the trees may still belong to the original family. Deals can be struck as they are with mineral rights. Some years ago in Rhodes a golf course was being laid out which meant that acres of olive trees had to be cleared. Although the families were paid for the trees, on the day the bulldozers arrived, the family SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA NOTES continued on page 14 September 2011 Hellenic Journal 13 northwest and pacific notes By Theodora Dracopoulos Argue THE LITTLE HOUSE THAT COULD In The Spokane-Review, Stefanie Pettit wrote the most recent feature on a remarkable woman and her home. Past stories have been carried in The New York Times and The Los Angeles Times. The determination of the late Mary Gianetsas to preserve her palatial four-story, 25-room home in the midst of Providence Sacred Heart Hospital’s ongoing expansion since the early 1960s shows how one woman stood her ground and still maintained good relations with a big corporation. She came from Greece in 1924 at the age of 22 as a mailorder bride. She was met at Ellis Island by and the same day married Christopher Alex of Yakima, WA. When Mr. Alex died in 1934, she still was unable to speak English, and had three children. With the life insurance, she moved her family to Spokane and purchased a small house, renting out rooms to make money. In 1938 she married Peter Gianetsas, a railroad man, with whom she had a fourth child. They accumulated rental properties, the family of six living in a one-bedroom unit. In 1944, just six years later, the couple had saved $20,000 and purchased their first and only house, known A group of Seattle AHEPAns at their meeting with AHEPA’s new Supreme President Dr. John Grossomanides on his visitation trip to the Northwest (left to right): Constantine (Costas) Mavromatis, Anthony Maroussis, George Maroutsos, Dr. George Stamatoyannopoulos, Dr. Grossomanides, Nikos Antonopoulos, John Soudas, and Elias Natsiopoulos. COURTESY PHOTO as the McAfee Estate. Peter and Mary rented out rooms to teachers and medical personnel. The couple also brought over relatives to educate and housed them as well. The McAfees ironically had tried to sell the property to the hospital, which at that time was not interested. In the 1960s, when the hospital did decide to expand, it offered Mary Gianetsas $200,000 for her property. She said, “No.” A shrewd businesswoman, she knew it would always be valuable land and most importantly wanted to remain in her home. She eventually converted her large yard to a parking lot for visitors to park, for just 25 cents an hour in the beginning. The house became known as Mary’s Place. The hospital continued to encourage Mary to sell, but to no avail. Now the hospital encircles Mary’s Place. Peter died in 1971 and Mary in 1991. Her children—Dorothy Alex and brother George Alex, both of Spokane; Constantine (Gus) Alex of San Pedro, CA; and Xenia Gianetsas of Burien, WA., own the house and plan to keep it in the family. They imagine that somewhere down the road, the hospital will own the property, but will leave that up to the next generation to decide. AHEPA VISITATION One week after AHEPA delegates at their national convention in Miami elected Dr. John Grossomanides, Jr. as 2011-2012 AHEPA Supreme President, he was in the Pacific Northwest making visitations Orthodox Bookstore & Gift Shop ✝ Anastasia Kalivas 800 N. Glendale Avenue Glendale, CA 91206 Phone (818) 551–0544 • Fax (818) 551–9297 www.lifegivingspring.com • Hours: Tues–Sat 9-6 to Washington and Oregon chapters. He met with local AHEPA leaders in Seattle on July 31, spoke at an AHEPA dinner in Tacoma the same night, went on to Portland on August 1, and then on to the Bay Area. In a short interview with him, he stated that he will be returning soon to visit Idaho’s AHEPA chapter in Boise and also that plans are underway to start up a chapter in Honolulu. There had been a chapter in Anchorage in years past, but not presently. An AHEPA member for 27 years and past supreme vice president, Dr. Grossomanides now is the CEO and main spokesman of the entire AHEPA domain, which includes the United States, Canada, Greece, and Cyprus. He is a senior clinical pharmacist at Advanced Pharmacy Concepts, North Kingstown, R.I., and a past president of the Rhode Island Pharmacist Association. Dr. Grossomanides earned both his undergraduate and Doctor of Pharmacy degrees from the University of Rhode Island. Dr. Grossomanides, of Westerly, R.I., is a member in nearby Norwich, CT, of both Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church and the local AHEPA chapter . The supreme president is engaged to AnnaHelene Panagakos, Brooklyn, N.Y., who just was elected Grand Secretary of the Daughters of Penelope. Opa! POSTERS NOW GALLERY ART John and Tock (Constantine) Costacos, of West Seattle, were featured in a August 1 Seattle Times article by reporter Erik Lacitis on the brothers’ very successful business (emanating from designing T-shirts) of producing posters of professional sports figures. Over the period 1986-1996, John and Tock photographed about 1,000 athletes, many in fantasy settings. The brothers sold an estimated 25 to 30 million posters which have now become collector’s items. Salon 94, a New York art gallery, recently presented “For the Kids,” a mini-retrospective exhibit of sports lithographs of 1986 to 1990 from the Costacos collection. According to the Seattle Times article, 37 of the framed posters were sold for between $1,500 and $2,500 each all to one buyer. The original sales price was about $5. Both brothers have been active in the Greek-American community. John, who still lives in West Seattle, served as Parish Council President at the Church of the Assumption, and Toc, now in the Lake Tahoe area, was also involved in the life of the same parish. John and Tock are the sons of Jerry and Eva Costacos of West Seattle. NW PACIFIC NOTES continued on page 15 Demetrios Theodoropoulos, CLTC, LUTCF Registered Representative offering Securities through NYLIFE Securities, LLC • Member FINRA/SIPC a Licensed Insurance Agency To learn more about products & services contact Theodoropoulos Financial & Insurance Services Bay Bridge Office 5980 Horton St., Suite 500, Emeryville, CA 94608 510-205-5433 TF I East Bay Office 6210 Stoneridge Mall Rd., Suite 100, Pleasanton, CA 94588 925-847-4600 office • 925-847-4605 facsimile 510-205-5433 cellular • [email protected] Sister and brother Dorothy and George Alex standing in front of the house known as Mary’s Place and next to the parking lot that was created by their mother Mary Gianetsas. 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