Standing on the Shoulders of Giants
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Standing on the Shoulders of Giants
news I BY HARRIET L AURIE Standing on the Shoulders of Giants T heHorseCourse project began four years ago, taking two horses into the local prison on the south coast of Dorset in the United Kingdom and working with violent young offenders to improve their life chances. However, I started work on the content many years before that. As a Parelli student I was struck by the opportunity that Parelli presents for self-development. Coming at it as a complete layman, I was curious to see whether I could leverage this potential to help 26 | Savvy Times February 2015 people who don’t respond to speech-based therapies or education. When I heard the statistic that over 70% of young offenders return to prison within a year of release, that seemed a good place to start. An inspired senior manager at HMP Portland saw the potential of my ideas and we set to work on a pilot, which proved far more successful than either of us had expected: our latest results show a 70% drop in negative behavior inside prison, and a decrease of 27% points on reoffending. Over the ensuing years, a handful of Parelli Professionals joined me, and the project spread to other prisons. We now also work with schools, social services, mental health services, drug & alcohol organizations, etc. With success has come the demand to replicate – training others to provide the same program. So I have had to think hard about the ‘active ingredients,’ including pondering what it is in the Parelli Program that lends itself to fast and effective human interventions. As Pat Parelli says, horses are born followers. Crucially for our program, they will only follow proven leaders, and the Seven Games give us a context in which to prove ourselves worthy of that position. Horses desire the very qualities in their leaders that will serve us well to develop in ourselves if we want to live successfully in human society. The un-wordy, practical way we coach helps people try out and feel the solution, rather than talking themselves into confusion! (See adjacent chart) Our ReStart program takes seven hours of 1:1 work, though we often work 2:1 for 14 hours so that people get more dwell time. A pass at Level 1 is the horsemanship goal, but the bigger goal is teaching Level 4 techniques so that participants are practicing life skills such as focus, calmness, and assertiveness, rather than learning motor skills without real communication. We use a few charts to aid learning and reflection, but there is no written work or psychoanalysis. We don’t talk about the past – we simply build skills within a horsemanship context and make sure participants understand that they can take these into real life. We usually run courses intensively across five consecutive days so that new skills become habits, rather than weekly sessions, which might demand a more cognitive approach to change. This lines up with the Parelli approach of repeating patterns seven times to set a positive habit. The THC Star overleaf reflects the areas we work on through specific games, patterns, and challenges with our Parelli-trained horses. Our evaluations indicate that positive outcomes are achieved in the process, such as increases in hope and confidence, reduced disruptive behavior (including crime), greater engagement in education, training and work, and (not surprisingly) better relationships. Working within Parelli demands more of us than simply getting our horses to comply – we are Horses become calm, connected, and responsive with leaders who are: Calm vs. Anxious Assertive vs. Aggressive Effective vs. Ineffectual Empathetic & Connected vs. Disconnected or self-obsessed Gentle vs. Rough Focused vs. Distracted or dithering Clear Communicators vs. Nagging or confusing Playful vs. Dull or lacking confidence Responsible vs. Blamimg Trusting vs. Micromanaging Planners vs. Lacking in purpose encouraged to work on the relationship, strive for our horses to become calm, connected, responsive, and even exuberant. Parelli leaves us nowhere to hide, no room for equivocation – at Liberty, all that’s left is the truth. In the context of TheHorseCourse, this translates into practicing Level 1 tasks at a Level www.parelli.com | 27 news 4 standard. Rather than teaching “horsemanship” per se, we are using horsemanship as a context in which to learn and practice pro-social skills, whilst holding a huge (horse-shaped) mirror to the gaps. It is not good enough to safely lead the horse; can you lead your horse at Liberty in Zone 3 with perfect connection? I believe that the success we are having as an organization stems from an obsessive attention to this detail – working with high-level horses who give big rewards for good leadership, but who are not push- challenges that our horses can’t figure out until the participant manages to communicate really clearly. In their natural state, horses constantly ask questions, and how they react tells us what answers they are getting. This “mirroring” effect is one of the cornerstones of equine-assisted practices worldwide. However, if horses are handled carelessly for a period of time, they become dull, and their feedback becomes less and less sensitive, immediate, and honest – they will shut down to survive, ignore pressure because it has become commonplace, button compliant, or drilled to perform patterns. It feels pretty good to get a horse to touch a barrel with his nose, but almost magical to place a hind foot on an invisible marker from 12 feet away. Conversely, “push-button” horses rob the participant of a genuine achievement; we have to constantly change it up to keep our horses asking questions. What was once tricky is now too easy. One of the challenges of facilitating the THC program is coming up with new and disregard focus because it cannot be relied upon. Their brilliant natural qualities are diminished through exposure to our ‘white noise.’ Parelli provides a solution. As we go up through the Levels, we become quieter, smoother, more focused. We emit less ‘white noise’ – and so our horses are able to maintain their natural sensitivity, feel confident to express their opinions, and offer instant feedback on our leadership/herd-member qualities. It is critical to maintain our horses’ sensitivity if they are to be 28 | Savvy Times February 2015 relied upon in sessions. I am often asked whether the horses get sour with this work. My answer is that they won’t if you are doing it right. Working alongside your cherished levels horse makes you extremely demanding and particular as a THC facilitator; you don’t want to see your horse tolerate bad handling, and so you teach Level 1 tasks at a Level 4 standard. This is perfect – the participants are practicing excellent focus, excellent feel, excellent timing, excellent leadership – and as Pat says, only perfect practice makes perfect. horsemanship – offering the same leadership, the same strategies, the same feel, balance, and timing to our students as we do to our horses. In this way we help students become ‘ready to learn’ - or in Parelli language, ‘calm, connected, and responsive.’ Then we are extremely progressive and extremely particular (without being critical) in order to build skills as rapidly as possible. The better the horseman, the better they will facilitate TheHorseCourse – which is why we only train Parelli Professionals or Level 4 students. We also find that it is really important that the horses get to be real horses – with lots of time out as a herd in big enough spaces to properly relax, play, and chill with their friends. Before we can work on participants’ skills, we often have to deal with difficult behavior. THC is facilitated by horsemen – our model does not require a psychologist or educator to be present (although they frequently attend to observe and take part in reflection and handover). We work directly from our Through the concepts behind Horsenality, Parelli provides a set of strategies to get the best from ourselves, our horses, and – in my line of work – our participants. Linda created the system of quadrants to help us recognize which horse has ‘turned up’ today, and to choose an appropriate strategy to engage the horse or to reduce problem behaviors. At THC, we have taken this further, using an “Observation Chart” for humans, which shows the four quadrants in a traffic light system. For each area www.parelli.com | 29 news (Right-Brain Introvert, Left-Brain Extrovert, etc.), there are red, amber, and green areas. In our work, we aim to build a full set of green behaviors, so that our participants are confident and able to flex their style from bonding, to active and focused, to playful and experimental, to analyzing and planning. Where amber or red behaviors show up, we quickly employ the appropriate strategy to reduce them. Over the length of the course, we aim to help the participants learn how to recognize the first signs that they are going amber and which strategies will help them manage themselves back to green. Just as we would work on approach and retreat with the horses, we do the same with participants, moving them physically backwards from thresholds, reading their body language rather than asking how they feel. We flex our style according to what shows up, in every minute of every session – helping our participants stay calm, connected, and responsive as learners. Strategies we might use with a tense, reactive horse work equally quickly with an overactive child – “let me help you,” changes of direction, pattern interrupts, and so on. Again, as Parellitrained horsemen, we are very well-placed to observe body language and choose an appropriate strategy. Without this foundation, my job of training facilitators would take years rather than weeks. We get resounding feedback from a wide variety of people and their associated workers about the benefits of our way of working with Parelli-trained horses; with the help of academics and evaluators, we are likely one of the most evidence-based equineassisted programs in the world. Independent senior academics have analyzed quantitative and qualitative evidence that TheHorseCourse programs are effective; in prisons we saw a 27% point reduction in reoffending (in a small but statistically significant sample). With support from the Charities Evaluation Service, we will soon be publishing recent evidence around working with young people referred to Children’s Services. Our aim is to build a robust evidence base and to carefully replicate the program. With the help of the Parelli community, we hope this can be a worldwide endeavor. Pat Parelli set about creating a training program for people because he saw horses having a tough time. 30 years on, he and Linda have put together an astonishing body of work and created a following that 30 | Savvy Times February 2015 includes some of the most impressive horsemen in the world. Parelli offers a clear and comprehensive approach that lends itself perfectly to equine-assisted practice. The longer I do this work, the more I appreciate the value of standing on the shoulders of giants. I’ve never seen myself as a follower of doctrine; I was raised to question everything, look outside the box, experiment and think critically – but when I find a box with so many pearls within, I keep coming back to it. I still question and feel free to debate, but I am at the same time grateful. Standing on the shoulders of these giants is indeed a perfect place from which to envision the particular quest I am drawn to – how horses can help humans. As with all innovation, the biggest thing that slows us down is funding. The equine-assisted field as a whole is poorly evidenced. We have made it a priority to collect outcome data as we go along and to publish results. We are at a point now where we have proven that this program is extremely promising and ready for “roll-out.” This is where you can help. We are currently fundraising £100,000 to continue the work and the replication. Along with helping 100 individuals turn their lives around, this will produce a really strong ‘study group’, big enough to prove to government funders that what we are doing really works. We will be able to give our newly qualified facilitators hands-on experience and a head start in setting up projects to help people in their own areas. This in turn will enable more Parelli Professionals or high-level students to train and, we hope, establish Parelli as the leading foundation for equine-assisted interventions. ST PLEASE HELP US WITH THIS AMBITIOUS PROJECT! Please donate at www.thehorsecourse.org TheHorseCourse is a UK charity, established in 2010 to provide horse-powered interventions, which reduce ‘social exclusion.’ Currently there are 10 trained THC Facilitators, all Parelli Professionals or high-level students, and 17 more are partway through the training process. See our website for more detail or to donate.
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