Spring 2016 - Evangelical Child and Family Agency
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Spring 2016 - Evangelical Child and Family Agency
SPRING 2016 Again (Alleluia)! A s the Winter 2016 issue went to print, we found out that there was a West Allis zoning problem at the spacious Hwy 100 location we were so excited to lease. After many constructive conversations with aldermen, the planning, development, and zoning committees, and Mayor Dan Devine, it became evident that God allowed this door to remain closed. In another part of the city at 91st & Oklahoma, our current landlords Mark and Greg from Almost Anything 2 (AA2) were willing to continue renting at the same amount and extend our lease until July 2017, so that we remain their tenants. It’s good news for the neighborhood, the donors, and the ministry because all proceeds will continue to support the moms, dads, children, babies, and preborn served by the Pregnancy Support Services Program. In the interim, major sales at the original Almost Anything on 76th & Beloit have pleased the many shoppers until closure on April 23rd with the final clean up taking place until April 30th. All remaining clothing and household items were shared with other ministries. We could not have closed the store without our two long term staff, Karen Thoen and Laurie Kornowski, their faithful team of 23 volunteers, and the clean-up moving crew: Jerry, Bob, Clarence, Jeff, Joe, and Rog. Thank you to everyone who has volunteered, shopped, dropped off items, and prayed for us these past 30 plus years and to Anita Wonder and Dianne Marek for beginning this venture with one rummage followed by another and another. Their heartfelt dedication remains in the DNA of this vital portion of ECFA’s ministry. Please visit us at our 91st & Oklahoma location with plenty of parking and easy back door access for donating your saleable almost anything items. 30th Annual Bike & Hike (Almost) I n Wisconsin, it HAS been an interesting Spring with uncertainty of what would fall from the sky and how many inches, followed by a few glorious summery days. Consequently, the registration numbers have been slightly erratic. We are hoping you WILL join us this year on May 14, 2016, between 9:00 a.m-1:00 p.m., in Waukesha. Why not be one of the 300 participants: individuals, couples, as a family, team, church group, or even workplace staff for some LIFE changing limbering along the scenic paved Glacial Drumlin Trail? Each dollar donated will be matched up to $10,000 by a generous anonymous couple. All funds raised support moms, dads, children, babies, and the preborn with life-valuing options through our Pregnancy Support Services Program. This year’s 30th Annual Bike & Hike t-shirt design winner is Becca Bogdanovich. Our 2nd place contributor is Bob Wickland. Our finalists made it a difficult choice. (Both designs are featured on Page Two). Becca works full-time as a Graphic Designer at MorganMyers, a communications firm in Waukesha that works with agricultural and animal health. Becca has always enjoyed working with animals, so her position is a perfect fit to combine her love for design and the world of farming and animal care. While in high school, Becca created the Bike & Hike t-shirt design of 2010. Each Bike & Hike participant and volunteer will receive a commemorative purple t-shirt, Cousins Subs lunch, music, future Brewers Buddy game tickets, drawings and more. An ECFA young author will also be available to sign her books at the event (See article: Delightful Doodler, Page Two). Help make our 30th an extra special event through your participation and enter the $100 drawing for all new participants. Register today online at: ecfawisc.org or by calling Sue at 262-789-1881. 2nd Place By Bob Wickland UA L B I KE & 30th H IL IT YV AB ALU E OT H E RS LV E S UR SE IN M 2016 YO ECFA ER U ECFA I KE ECFA H A NN H May 14 H RAT This young author and her family have a long history with ECFA. Her father David, had been assigned as an attorney and Guardian ad Litem (GAL) for a number of ECFA court cases when he was single. After marrying Ellen, they had hoped to start a family right away. When they experienced a difficult time, they contacted ECFA to inquire about adoption. After a few years, the perfect situation took place so that Hannah could become part of their forever family. Hannah has incorporated a number of her own life experiences and names of some young relatives in this first book. The Doodles second printing is just in time for Hannah’s first book signing. She and her mom will be at this year’s Bike and Hike to share this first of a series for only $4.50. 1st Place By Becca Bogdanovich 3 0T L ast year, eight year old Hannah Coon, shared that she “was kind of bored. I was trying to save up (money) for an I-pod so I thought of an idea. I could write a book!” Her motivation, determination, and imagination launched forward into her first book entitled: The Doodles. Hannah’s book, which was written over many months, shares an exciting adventure about the Doodles family who reside in Cooksburg, “a ginormous kingdom.” Hannah shared there were times in the process when, “I was wondering, will I ever finish it?” She explained that she kept thinking about it as soon as she awoke each day and knew how it would end. She writes her story in a fresh style, not fully edited and even designed the castle illustration on the front cover. 30th Annual Bike & Hike T-Shirt Design Finalists ECFA A Delightful Doodler OV E Phil. 2:3b Please support our GENEROUS & FAITHFUL 30TH ANNUAL BIKE & HIKE SPONSORS Thank you Hannah for sharing your creative way to tackle boredom with us! True to Life is published four times a year by Evangelical Child and Family Agency and can be viewed online at www.ecfawisc.org Please direct your comments to Linda Oberbrunner: (262) 789-1881. E-mail at: [email protected] 2 A Place to Sleep H Written by: Alycia Johnson, PSS Birth Parent Social Worker ave you ever wondered where your baby will sleep? Our clients do. In the city of Milwaukee, infant mortality rates are higher than 77 other countries globally1. It is worse than some third world countries. One of the reasons for this infant mortality rate is unsafe sleeping conditions for babies. Many times at ECFA, we receive calls from pregnant women who do not know where they will have their baby sleep or how to practice safe sleeping. A couple of months ago, a young woman called crying because she could not afford to buy anything for her baby to sleep on when it was born. Our client is one of many in Milwaukee with this problem. Thanks to a number of community partners, my co-worker, Amy, and I met a wonderful young woman named Meena Nutbeam. As a high school student, she founded an organization called Stork & Company of Wisconsin. This was based on a new mom’s program in Finland called the Baby Box Program that helped combat infant mortality. She believed it would help combat Milwaukee’s infant mortality rate, too. In Finland, the government provides mothers with a large cardboard designed box that is filled with baby supplies and a mattress. Finland now boasts as having one of the lowest infant mortality rates in the world. We immediately knew that partnering with Stork & Company was a win for our clients. These boxes are much more cost effective than cribs and pack n’ plays. They will also be great for our homeless clients because they are more portable and do not have to be reassembled every night. Thanks to a grant that Meena received, the Pregnancy Support Services program is able to do a pilot program with five baby boxes at no cost! Recently, I met with the client who did not know where her little girl was going to sleep and told her she would be receiving one baby box for free. Her tears of gratitude were evidence that Stork & Company is allowing us to provide a special service that is needed by some of our clients and their new babies. Information Courtesy of the following resources: 1 Pitrof Marge, “Milwaukee Retains One of the Nation’s Highest Infant Mortality Rates,” http://wuwm.com/post/milwaukee-retains-one-nations-highest-infant-mortality-rates#stream/0 (February 21, 2014). Nutbeam Meena, “About Us” http://storkandcompany.org/about/ Lee Helena, “Why Finnish babies sleep in cardboard boxes,” http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-22751415 (June 4, 2013) ***At the March ECFA Board Meeting in Wheaton, Linda, our Wisconsin Director, brought along one of the boxes to explain the program and show the members. One Board member was so affected by this concept that he quietly mentioned afterwards his desire to purchase 20 to be shared with Wisconsin and Illinois clients in need. This offer is now in process with Meena to implement this USA pilot program in an additional state. 3 The Final Journey For The Pfaltzgraff Finds L ast summer ’15, Wanda Pruzak donated her huge collection of prized Pfaltzgraff dishes and accessories as she downsized to a smaller place. Her collection of 240 pieces was so unique and extensive, truly a collector’s dream. Initially, our Silent Auction Committee divided the collection into four separate groupings for bids at the Fall Banquet. Since the minimum was not met on any of the groupings, all were carefully repackaged for a return trip to the agency. After a few days, an ad was placed on Craig’s List which reaped a number of responses, some local and two out-of-state. One woman in particular stood out among the rest: Linda A. from a rural city in Ohio. She shared her history with the 1976 Village pattern that had been a blessing to her family. Her stories were compelling and rich with emotion so the decision was made for her to become the new owner and home for the collection at an agreeable price. However, the logistics of transporting these would be a definite challenge. An attempt to test the feasibility of interstate shipping was tried with four large totes packed and shipped by Greyhound Bus for a hefty price. It was determined this mode of transportation would not be used again. This story continued for the next five months until a midpoint meeting took place just before Easter at an Applebee’s in Portage, Indiana. There, the remaining 18 heavy boxes of items that included fragile stemware, plates, cups, bowls, serving pieces, a clock, flatware, cutting board, and more were exchanged from one SUV to another while the friendly restaurant staff observed. Meeting Linda, her husband Fred, along with Sharon Fuller from the ECFA Advisory Council who accompanied me on this journey was such an indescribable adventure. Linda and Fred shared how God had miraculously brought them a beautiful baby daughter through adoption 20 years before. This helped heal the lingering heartache of losing one of her triplet sons years before. There were so many connections shared by this couple that only God could have orchestrated. Their only disappointment was that there isn’t an ECFA in their vicinity. The delightful visit ended in the parking lot with the four of us holding hands in prayer with and for each other praising God for His unique way of connecting us forever through the sacrificial timely gift of Wanda. “Volunteers are not paid – not because they are worthless, but because they are priceless!” Author Unknown I n April as the earth seems to change colors every day in anticipation of the new season of life, the nationwide honoring of volunteers attests to all those that bring life to non-profits. It is a reality that ECFA would have a difficult time functioning without the assistance of 168 volunteers. Some assist weekly and others once a year. Each person saves the agency both time and money so that ultimately the client benefits. Many Making History! At Almost Anything, we are bidding farewell to a few of our volunteers as the rescheduling and restructuring process at AA2 begins. Some of these volunteers have served us for years and others for almost a year. Each have given their best for all the right reasons to the ministry. Join us as we honor them today with a Volunteer Tribute: Valuable Volunteer: Years of Service Kurt Christiansen .......................................................... 11 Rosalie Daniels ............................................................. 13 It is always a joy to have an annual Volunteer Brunch to honor some of our volunteers. This year 60 individuals called to RSVP. Pastor Bill Johnson and Pete and Ora Dillenberg of Beloit Road Baptist Church always provide the warmest welcome as they generously share and prepare their lovely hall and kitchen for our two volunteer events each year. The Kaale Family was hired to make their delicious entrees and fresh fruit presentation. Many of the guests made or brought special treats to share and Karen and Tyrone Thoen provided the tasty ham. ECFA’s friend, Judy, articulately shared a full circle testimony of her family’s 20+ year connection to ECFA that everyone appreciated hearing. Lively music and songs from Dorrine and Mary got the guests involved and a volunteer quotes card keepsake, devotion from Alycia, and prize giveaway rounded out this special morning. Photographer, Dennis Drinkwine was able to capture many smiles and moments. Bonnie Fisher ............................................................... 26 Bill Greguska ................................................................. 1 Lois Jansen ..................................................................... 5 Sandy Kaebisch.............................................................. 3 Joe Kerzich.................................................................... 15 Dottie Kunz ................................................................... 11 Jamie McGhee ............................................................... 6 Gerry Reidy................................................................... 13 Cathy Romeis ................................................................ 15 Jill Szalacinsk................................................................. 3 Tom Weislow ................................................................. 1 We APPLAUD, ACKNOWLEDGE, & APPRECIATE EACH & EVERYONE!!! You have completed a variety of tasks during your time of service which has not gone unnoticed. Our words cannot begin to thank you for your time, talent, and treasure that you have shared so that the moms, dads, children, babies and preborn that we have served were impacted for LIFE! We are so blessed to have the privilege to honor those that were able to come. It’s not a surprise to discover that the newest data shows Milwaukee, Wisconsin, ranks third nationwide in volunteerism! According to data from the Corporation for National & Community Service, 33.7% of all Milwaukee area residents volunteer, ranking Milwaukee third among the 51 largest metro service areas in the U.S. Thank you to ALL ECFA VOLUNTEERS for your decision to say YES, I WILL VOLUNTEER. You continue to make a difference for LIFE! “…Well done, good and faithful servant(s).” Matthew 25:21b 4 A SUPER (CHILI) BOWL SUNDAY A NEW HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP Written By Amy Miura, PSS Birthparent Social Worker A tlas Preparatory Academy, located in Milwaukee’s Bay View neighborhood, invited ECFA staff to speak to their middle school students about healthy relationships during the month of February. The PSS team of Amy Miura and Alycia Johnson, created an interactive, multimedia presentation to engage middle schoolers in seeking healthy relationships and preventing destructive relationships. According to the World Health Organization*, school-based programs have been effective in reducing bullying and assisting youth in recognizing potentially sexually abusive situations. The PSS team chose to focus on educating middle schoolers about healthy relationships because of current societal trends. According to the November 2014 National Institute of Justice Research in Brief, most teen dating violence programs are implemented in high school, when teens have already experienced unhealthy dating relationships. The National Institute of Justice recommends engaging teens in prevention programs before high school in order to decrease the risk of teen dating violence before it begins. O n Sunday, March 13, 2016, a gathering of friends and foodies met to celebrate the sale of Andersen Plumbing to Roman Electric with a chili cook-off. This creative idea was the inspiration of the previous owner, Jim Andersen. He and his wife, Renee, current owners of ECFA’s partner, Back on the Rack Consignment Shop thought “this fun event could also raise some money and awareness of our favorite pro life, pro baby, pro woman, organization ECFA” so all attendees were asked to contribute, as desired. Their friend, Peter Sandroni, the chef and owner of La Merinda and Engine No. 3 restaurants, was the judge highly qualified to sample the eight chili entries. The results as pictured are: (Right) 2016 Chili Master, Dr. Jeff Niezgoda, (Left) 2nd place winner, Firefighter Joel Hoberg, and (Center) 3rd Jim Andersen. Prizes were awarded including the 1st Place “trophy bowl.” Even though there won’t be another business sale, this group has already planned to make this an annual benefit for ECFA next year. The PSS team challenged these youth to become aware of behaviors that may lead to unhealthy relationships as well as choose to behave in a way that fosters healthy relationships among their peers. Middle school can be a perplexing time as youth discover new friendship dynamics. During the classes, the PSS team explored current topics with the youth, such as social media, societal pressures, cyberbullying, online safety, and appropriate boundaries. Our team enjoyed the opportunity to interact with the students and staff at Atlas Preparatory and hope to be invited again in the near future. *World Health Organization/London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine. Preventing intimate partner and sexual violence against women: taking action and generating evidence. Geneva, World Health Organization, 2010. National Institute of Justice Research in Brief. Teen Dating Violence: How Peers Can Affect Risk & Protective Factors. Washington, DC, U.S. Department of Justice, November 2014. 5 FINISHING THAT FINAL RACE IS EVERYTHING! A ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Our Adoption and PSS Supervisor, Jill Hait, ♥ ♥ is excited to become a full-time mom to her ♥ adoptive sons. Consequently, we will have an ♥ ♥ ♥ opening for a Social Services Supervisor ♥ ♥ in our New Berlin office. ♥ ♥ A MSW is required for this position. ♥ ♥ If interested, please mail to ♥ ♥ 1617 South 124th New Berlin, WI 53151 ♥ ♥ or e-mail resume to [email protected]. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ t 93½ years of age, Gerry Miller completed his “final race” on April 11, 2016. A beautiful memorial service took place at Elmbrook in the chapel where friends and family shared endearing words and the WORD which was what Gerry loved to share throughout his long life. His lovely wife Marianne and three adult children and spouses were blessed by the large number of people in attendance and personal stories shared with them prior to the service. Gerry had been an active annual Bike & Hike participant for over 20 years still riding his bike long distances at age 88 until 2010. In 2007, a handmade quilt was created and sewn by Gloria Small from many previous Bike & Hike event t-shirts. It was presented as a surprise during the annual ECFA fall banquet by Bike & Hike co-chairs Brian and Nancy Farrell. Marianne had hoped it was his final year of riding but he, like the Energizer bunny, kept on going for three more years. Memorials ❧ In loving memory of: Volunteers Jim & Gina Ziller’s father, James Ziller From: Mike & Linda Oberbrunner ❧ In loving memory of: A wonderful friend of many, Gerry Miller From: Mike & Linda Oberbrunner. ❧ In loving memory of: A special lady, Janet Davis From: ECFA Staff Tributes Every June after Bike & Hike, Gerry and Marianne would come to the agency and bring in pages and pages of sponsors he had garnered, often for a designated amount of cents per mile. He would make sure that he collected every penny after the event so that it could be matched $ for $ to maximize his efforts. His diligence to participate annually reaped thousands of dollars to provide services for LIFE to moms, dads, children, babies, and especially the preborn, through the years. ❧ In honor of: The Muza & Iwinski families From: Betty Muza ❧ In honor of: Our new grandson From: Ray & Carol Edwards ❧ In honor of: ECFA’s work & our two grandchildren adopted through ECFA, Jesse & Lauryn From: Mike & Judy Foster His endearing smile was priceless, his endurance limitless, and his prayer life ceaseless. Dear Gerry, now it is your time to rest in the LORD. 6 With A Grateful Heart There is a continual outpouring of blessings received by this ministry on a regular basis. As a result, there are many individuals to be grateful for in each quarterly newsletter. The scriptural premise for our gratefulness comes from Psalm 9:1, “I will give thanks to the Lord with all my heart; I will tell of the wonders.” Our thanks from grateful hearts: ♥ Thank you to all the dedicated volunteers who assembled the past two mailings: products, laundry soap & hygiene items for our Fruits of Your Labor PSS client incentive program from BSA Troop 23 Pack 33. ♥ Winter 2016 Newsletter Gloria Anderson Sally Boya Charlene Duranceau Ruth Engelhardt Linda Lasch Debbie Merkel Renee Puza Nancy, Rachel and Abby Roets Micki Schmitz Deb Smith Leah Valentine Margo Whitcomb Linda Wolf ♥ For the annual rose sale proceeds from Phil Snyder. ♥ For the frequent donations of quality clothing and other items from Illinois Board member, Dr. Alma Labunski. ♥ For the ten framed professional photographs, enjoyed by office staff, and also donated for event prizes and the Silent Auction from Carl Muenzmaier. ♥ For the Easter gifts for all of our PSS clients from Pastor Scott & Gloria Miller and Family Fellowship Church of Racine. ♥ Bike & Hike Invitation Mailing Ron & Jan Baer Jan Brownell Chinavare Family – Carolyn, Abraham, Joel, Miriam and Naomi Beth Johnson Debby LaBelle Jane Runnels Marni Stelter Laura Taylor Amy Wagner Margo Whitcomb ♥ For the annual purchase of an I-PASS for our travels to and fro to Illinois from Jim Valentine. ♥ For the extensive floor tile repair at Almost Anything 2 by Dennis Drinkwine and Brian Schneider ♥ For the monthly assistance at Almost Anything doing various tasks such as outside yard work, moving of boxes & pricing items from the faithful group at Tabernacle Baptist Church led by Pastor Steve and his wife, Linda Carlson. ♥ For the eleven colorful baby onesies with cute heart sayings from Dennis & Diane Hartwig. ♥ For the twelve beautiful handmade Thank-You cards from Jeannette Kaelber. ♥ For the sweet baby outfits, pink jacket, socks, sleeper, bottles, ointment, blankets, wash cloths, burp cloth, knit hats, book, diapers & wipes from Helen Cummins and the Kettle Moraine Presbyterian Church group. ♥ For the assorted Master Lock locks used as prizes for events from Janet Nunziato. ♥ For the baby formula, baby food, baby wipes, paper 7 10 9 3 Mark Your Calendars!!! 26 25 19 18 12 11 5 4 1 April National Volunteer Recognition Month Honoring All of Our Super ECFA Volunteers! 6 7 8 2 May 5, 2016 National Day of Prayer May 8, 2016 Happy Mother’s Day 13 14 May 14, 2016 30th Annual Bike & Hike Waukesha June 19, 2016 Happy Father’s Day 20 21 July 1-31 Christmas in July Campaign 15 22 October 7, 2016 33rd Annual Fall Banquet & Silent Auction *New Location – Country Springs Hotel Comedian Mike Williams 27 28 29 16 23 17 24 30 Return Service Requested Evangelical Child & Family Agency 1617 South 124th Street New Berlin, WI 53151 New Berlin, WI Permit No. 315 PAID Non-Profit Org. 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