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It is now possible for us through diet and nutrition, not to change our genetics, but to alter the way the genes express themselves! By using family history, fingerprint analysis, and various non-invasive anatomical measurements as well as your blood type, your personalized plan of over 30 pages will be printed and given to you at the end of your one hour visit. The process is fun and will put you on a path to optimize your health and even shed some extra pounds! Call for details today! Naturopathic Solutions, Inc. 516-935-1334 • 641C Old Country Road, Plainview • w w w . d r s t i l l s . c o m 2 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. Dominates NY Plastic Surgery There are many reasons when people think of Cosmetic Plastic Surgery, that Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. comes to mind. Dr. Greenberg is well known for his expertise in the field of cosmetic plastic surgery and is frequently interviewed for his knowledge on the latest cosmetic surgery techniques. He has appeared on CBS, Fox News, NBC and News 12 Long Island and has been featured in many magazines such as Harper's Bazaar, Cosmopolitan, More, and Elle, as well as in The New York Times and Newsday. Dr. Greenberg hosts the only New York Cosmetic Surgery Radio Show, NIP/TUCK, every Saturday evening at 10 PM on 98.5 FM (KJOY). Dr. Greenberg is often a featured speaker for womens groups, spas, health and skin care institutes. It is not a coincidence that he was voted Best Plastic Surgeon (Long Island Press) for the past five years. His book (A Little Nip, A Little Tuck) serves as a guide to cosmetic surgery and his anti-aging skin care product line (Cosmetic Surgeon in a JarTM) is the latest and most effective way to fight the signs of aging. Dr. Greenberg’s talent is unique and he is admired not just for his use of the latest and most advanced procedures, but for his true appreciation for addressing the overall health of his patients. Dr. Greenberg is more than a leader in his field, he is truly committed to working with his patients on the importance of overall health, diet, exercise and maintaining a positive state of mind. “Regardless of whether you are a television celebrity or a soccer mom, the attention that you receive and the perfection you can expect is incomparable,” said Dr. Greenberg. There are several new and amazing technologies recently introduced into the offices of Dr. Stephen T. Greenberg that are sure to deliver excellent results to anyone looking to enhance their appearance. Dr. Greenberg is uniquely positioned to offer the latest, revolutionary technology that reduces fat and eliminates inches from your body without surgery. ZeronaTM is applied externally, and using laser technology, the fat just seems to melt away. In addition to the exciting ZeronaTM technology, the recent introduction of the Portrait 3D Imaging system, for those patients considering breast augmentation, is breakthrough technology that enables women to see what they will look like after breast augmentation surgery. This allows Dr. Greenberg’s talent is unique and he is admired not just for his use of the latest and most advanced procedures, but for his true appreciation for addressing the overall health of his patients. women to actually see the expected result in advance of any surgical procedure. According to Dr. Greenberg, the most effective way in helping patients see the best results is customizing a “package” to meet each individual’s needs. Several packages have been developed to meet the needs of most people. • Ultimate Breasts includes breast augmentation and/or breast lift. • About Face is the appropriate combination of facelift, eyelid lift, rhinoplasty, chin reshaping and more. • The Mommy Make Over package provides the right combination of tummy tuck, liposuction, breast lift or implants to transform you from a “new mom” to a “hot mom.” • The Liquid Facelift requires just 20 minutes to erase wrinkles with injectables, such as Restylane®, Botox®Cosmetic and Juvéderm®. As Dr. Greenberg continues to help people look younger and feel better, he has recently developed and launched a line of Anti-Aging Skin Care products, Cosmetic Surgeon in a JarTM. His product line can supplement treatments in the office, or can be used as at home regimen to help reduce the signs of aging. These products are specifically designed to reverse sun damage, enhance elasticity and dramatically improve your appearance. Cosmetic Surgeon in A JarTM products are available at his offices in both Woodbury and Manhattan and on-line at www.CosmeticSurgeonInAJar.com. Take advantage of the latest technology in Dr. Greenberg’s office for both surgical and non-surgical procedures and unveil a beautiful new body. Whichever procedure, or combination of procedures that you choose, you can enhance your appearance and feel confident that you have selected one of the experts in the field, one who will deliver the results that you seek. There is no better time than now to consider that cosmetic surgery procedure that can make you look younger, feel better and regain that self confidence! Dr. Greenberg offers complimentary consultations at both his Woodbury and Park Avenue offices. To schedule an appointment, you can call 516-364-4200 or email [email protected]. For more information please visit his website at www.GreenbergCosmeticSurgery.com. Read Dr. Greenberg’s fascinating and informative book, “A Little Nip, A Little Tuck.” www.ALittleNipALittleTuck.com. Experience his ultimate anti-aging skin care line, Cosmetic Surgeon in a Jar.TM www.CosmeticSurgeonInAJ ar.com. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 3 Good Advice advice columns from LONG ISLAND WOMAN advertisers Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C. Many of my patients come seeking help with the changes that can occur after childbirth; a woman’s breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. more on page 5 What Can Digital Dentistry Do For You? by Dr. Daniel Aldieri What does CEREC (CEramic REConstruction) mean for you? CEREC uses a state-of-the-art digital 3D camera to create an optical impression of your tooth. more on page 7 Consider This When Choosing Your Cosmetic Dentist by Angela M. Ferrari, D.D.S. Two of the easiest ways to rejuvenate your smile are Zoom AP, 45 minute in-office tooth whitening, and Invisalign. more on page 7 Obtaining Beautiful, Natural Results with Permanent Makeup by Sarit Narkis Eyebrows are the most important feature on your face and are unique to you. They have the power to make a face look sexy, polished, intriguing and even wild. more on page 13 Solutions for Breast Restoration After Cancer Treatment by Stephen U. Harris M.D., FACS Reconstruction of a breast that has been removed due to cancer or that has been deformed by treatment of cancer is one of the most rewarding surgical procedures available today. more on page 15 Traumatic Brain and Spine Injury by Donald S. Krieff, D.O., F.A.C.O.S. Symptoms of a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) can be mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the extent of the damage to the brain. Generally, there are six abnormal states of ... more on page 18 Resolving Stress to Heal Your Body and Your Life by Dr. Michael Berlin Not only does stress destroy our health; it also eventually destroys our relationships, life enjoyment, productivity, and ability to earn a living. The good news is that stress can be... more on page 19 If You Chose the Wrong Spouse, Choose the Right Divorce Attorney by Douglas Kepanis, Esq. In the past couple of months, more people have come into my office for my flat fee approach which eliminates the uncertainty and frustration that hourly billing leads to.... more on page 19 The Use of Personal Care Agreements by Marc Alhonte, Esq. Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes by Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., LAC Volume 10 • Number 3 July/August 2010 I recently developed a healthy successful way of losing weight with acupuncture which can actually change your metabolism. more on page 22 Before You Retain a Divorce Attorney, Take an Important First Step by Simi Shasha, Esq. As a practicing Matrimonial Attorney and Mediator in New York for over five years, it became more and more apparent that a crucial “educational” component was missing for my clients. more on page 22 Sensible Shoes Can be Stylish by Dr. Lauren Schwartz Be stylish, savvy, and sensible all at the same time. Healthy feet are happy feet and they have to last us a lifetime. more on page 22 28 fyi 6 Considering Divorce? by Ann Block, Esq. After litigating hundreds of divorces, I have discovered that choosing the best approach for a particular couple is a crucial first step. more on page 25 Considering Plastic Surgery? Consider Cosmetic Acupuncture First! by Joseph D’Antona, L.Ac. Cosmetic Acupuncture, a non-surgical treatment which involves the insertion of very thin disposable needles into the acupuncture points on the face & body, is extremely effective in reducing the signs... more on page 25 Today’s Anxious Teenagers by John Lebrun, LMSW Teenagers haven't changed, we have. Our demands have. It’s easy to lose sight of the fact that at one point we are all rebellious adolescents that challanged authority. more on page 25 Book Corner 10 Long Island Author’s Review Summer Books Health 14 Women’s Health Update Feature 20 Raquel Welch Meet The Health Professional 24 Fitness 28 Beach Body Workout Happenings 33 Reader Survey 35 Support Groups 37 Breast Reduction Using The Lollipop Scar Technique by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C. The weight of large breasts can cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large breasts get in the way of physical activities, such as running.. more on page 25 Diet: The First Pillar of Vibrant Health by Richard Linchitz, M.D. Our bodies have not had the time to adjust to this change in our food supply. This is why so many of us have hidden grain and dairy allergies. more on page 26 PO Box 176, Malverne, NY 11565 • 516-505-0555 [email protected] • www.liwomanonline.com CALENDAR DIRECTOR/COPY EDITOR/PROOFREADER: Michelle Levine REGIONAL AD SALES MANAGER: Ellen Lefkowitz AD DESIGN: Susan Rizzo ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT: Rebecca Nadboy DISTRIBUTION VERIFICATION: Abby Levinstien PUBLISHER/MANAGING EDITOR: A. Nadboy SUBSCRIPTIONS: One year (12 issues) – $30 visit: www.liwomanonline.com/subscriptions.html ©Copyright 2010 by LONG ISLAND WOMAN.All rights reserved. No portion of LONG ISLAND WOMAN may be reproduced without permission. LONG ISLAND WOMAN is published monthly by MARAJ, INC. Want Voluptuous Lips? Seek Expert Advice A “Personal Care Agreement” can be an effective method of fairly benefiting loved ones and preserving eligibility for Medicaid benefits. more on page 22 by James C. Marotta, M.D. Lip augmentation can give you the fuller, voluptuous lips you want in a way that looks entirely natural. So if you want bigger, more beautiful lips, here is some good advice… more on page 29 Enter Our Reader Survey Want to share your Good Advice with LONG ISLAND WOMAN’S readers? on page 35 call our advertising dept. at 516-505-05555 x2 or email [email protected] 4 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN Contents NEXT ISSUE: September exclusive interview with Lucie Arnez AD RESERVATION BY Thursday, August 5 FOR ADVERTISING INFORMATION call 516-505-0555 x1 or email [email protected] To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] A Woman Knows… SURGERY OF THE BREAST •Breast Augmentation •Breast Uplift •Breast Reduction (Lollipop Scar) SKIN CARE •Microdermabrasion •Chemical Peels •Restylane/Juvederm •Botox/Dysport Cosmetic Surgery performed by a female surgeon committed to the quality care of women COSMETIC SURGERY •Face/Neck Lift •Eyelid Surgery •Liposuction •Tummy Tuck •Repair of Torn Earlobes SPRING SPECIALS for COSMETIC SURGERY PROCEDURES •Breast Augmentation •Liposuction Call for Details CHARLOTTE ANN RHEE, M.D. Board Certified Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeon Is Pleased to Announce the Opening of her New Location 257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington Station 631.424.6707 complimentary consultation www.liplasticsurgery.com Good d Advice Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, MD, F.A.C.S., P.C. ing breast reduction. Both groups of women want to have breasts that are proportional to their Many of my patients come to me seeking help with the changes that can occur after childbirth. Following childbirth, a woman’s breast can body size with the most natural result possible. In certain situations, a breast lift is also needgrow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. A ed to tighten lax skin. The laxity can be the result of pregnancy or weight loss. When a breast lift is needed, I utilize the lollipop scar technique. A breast lift procedure is very similar to a woman’s breast can actually lose volume and shrink, resulting in the breast reduction. The only difference is that with a breast reduction, breast tissue is removed. breast appearing “deflated”. Additionally, a large number of women come to me seeking help with Combined Breast/Tummy Tuck and Liposuction Procedures. the post partum changes of their abdomen. During pregnancy the skin Many of my patients who have breast surgery also have other procedures performed at the and abdominal wall muscles are stretched. Following childbirth, the abdomen can protrude same time. This allows for one surgery and one recovery. The most common combined proand the skin can be loose or sag. In some cases, the abdominal muscles can cedures performed by Dr. Rhee are breast surgery, whether it is a breast Many of my patients reduction or augmentation, combined with tummy tuck, also known as be so weakened that the individual may look like she is still pregnant. Despite daily workouts including sit ups and crunches, a tummy tuck may be needed abdominoplasty. For those patients who desire breast augmentation togethwho have breast to restore these muscles. er with a tummy tuck, I am able to place the breast implants through the surgery also have other tummy tuck incision, leaving the breasts without any scars. Breast Reduction Liposuction is also commonly performed at the same time. Despite diet and Women with very large pendulous breasts may experience varied medical procedures performed at exercise, certain areas of the body are prone to carry excess fat. For these problems including back and neck pain. Also, the weight of large breasts can the same time. This areas, liposuction can help. The most common areas for liposuction are the cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large allows for one surgery love handles (upper hip area) and thighs. breasts get in the way of physical activities such as running, making exercise Patients who have combined procedures do surprisingly well. In addition to and weight loss very difficult if not impossible. Breast reduction (reduction and one recovery having the benefit of just one recovery process, there can also be a significant mammaplasty), is a surgical procedure which makes breasts smaller. savings in price. There are many different breast reduction techniques. The more traditional method (inverted TTo learn more, please call our Huntington office to schedule a complimentary consultation scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical, long horizontal scar (along the breast crease). “I utilize the with Dr. Rhee at (631) 424-6707. Located at 257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington Station. Lejour technique, which leaves the breast with a single vertical incision (lollipop scar) and, in my www.liplasticsurgery.com. opinion, with a rounder more natural appearing breast and a better cosmetic result.” Breast reductions are performed as an outpatient procedure and are covered by insurance. Dr. Charlotte Rhee is a board certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon specializing in breast surgery. She is an assistant professor of plastic surgery at Montefiore Medical Breast Augmentation Center/Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Women who come to me seeking breast enlargement have very similar goals to those seekadvertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 5 fyi by Debbi Honorof Meet This Long Island Woman LAURA REGO Owner of the Cuttin'’ Club Scottish Games Saturday, August 28 from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Since 1977, Old Westbury Gardens has hosted the Long Island Scottish games, presented by the Clan MacDuff. The games, which include Caber Toss, Putting the Stone and Tossing the Sheaf, are believed to be based on competitions dating back hundreds of years involving feats of strength performed by warriors to impress their leaders. The actual games are just a small part of the myriad number of programs, demonstrations, and events that will be available throughout the day, which include traditional Celtic dance performances, kids’ activities, including races, tug-of-war, children’s Caber Toss, pony rides, petting zoo, face painting, balloon sculpturing, magicians and other entertainment, parades and pipe band performances, antique British autos on display, folk and rock concerts, dog agility demonstrations, and dozens of vendors selling Scottish foods and gifts. Adult admission: $15; Seniors (over 62): $10; Children 7-17, and Old Westbury Gardens Members: $5; Ages 6 and under: Free. For more information, call 516-333-0048 or visit oldwestburygardens.org Women and their Cars Love doctors have spent countless hours calculating the length of the honeymoon stage, which is somewhere between 24 hours and seven years. But what’s the average honeymoon period with your car? LeaseTrader.com, which helps people trade their car lease to someone else, created a survey to find the answer this question. It turns out that the average honeymoon period for men is four months and women 14 months. 6 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN How long have you lived on Long Island? Long Island has been my home for 50 years. I grew up in New Hyde Park, went through the Herricks school system, and I now live in Westbury. I enjoy kayaking, swimming, hiking and the many opportunities available here to embrace nature. I also enjoy the museums, local theaters, and diverse concert venues. Your business is celebrating an important anniversary this year. I started The Cuttin' Club, a full service hair salon in Williston Park, 25 years ago. I purchased it from the previous owner, for whom I had worked for 10 years. What’s your secret to success? Having a strong and dependable staff is important. I also try to stay on top of the many product lines and current styles. We have a friendly environment and very strong ties to the community. One of the great pleasures of longterm business ownership has been to grow along with my clients. I recently completed a major renovation to the salon and am planning a grand reopening in early September. How has the beauty business changed over the years? Hair color has become much more multi-dimensional, and perms have been replaced by flat irons. There are also many more working women now, and this has lead to styles that are easier to maintain. Plus, we’ve had to extend our business hours to accommodate our customers’ busy schedules. What advice do you have for other women entrepreneurs? First, do something you love. Going into business is a full time commitment, and it can be very draining, so be sure you have a strong support system. Be sure to find some balance; all work and no play isn’t healthy. But there is also a great deal of joy and satisfaction when you take the leap! Men knew the honeymoon period was over when the following behaviors occurred: • Parks around other cars • Starts transporting sports equipment • Less frequent car cleaning • High monthly payment starts to bother them • Stops using gas mileage button • No more fights over who drives during long trips For women, the behaviors were completely different: • Lets spouse finally drive car • Starts car-pooling other kids • Started eating in car • Puts makeup on while driving • Leaves clothes in car • Starts smoking in car Tomato Contest Keep nurturing those tomatoes in your garden so they’ll be ready for Hicks Nurseries 13th Annual Tomato Contest on Saturday, September 11. Tomatoes will be accepted from 9 a.m. to 11:45 a.m. that morning and prizes will be awarded at 12 noon in several categories: heaviest, largest circumference, most unusual looking and tiniest red tomatoes. No frozen or previously frozen tomatoes will be accepted and tomatoes must be ripe. Only a tomato grown by the person named on the entry form may be submitted. Only one prize will be awarded per individual or family (household) for each category. Second entries will be allowed and recognized, but will not be eligible for an additional prize. Tomatoes entered into the contest may be picked up after 5 pm. For more information, call 516334-0066 or visit hicksnurseries.com. Joanne Brown To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Smilee Withh Confidence Drs. Kahn, Ferrari and Aldieri Are Your Dental Partners In Healthh & Beauty • Our Office Utilizes The Latest Techniques In Cosmetic Dentistry Take Advantage of: • One-Hour ZOOM!* Advanced Power Tooth Whitening • One-Visit Porcelain Crowns and Fillings (CEREC) We are the official • Invisalign-Bracket-Free, Invisible Braces dentists of the • Saturday and Evening Hours available WBLI Morning Show • We Offer Oral Sedation for Your Comfort with Dana, Randy & Drew Call Us Today to Schedule an Appointment 375 Fulton St., Farmingdale • 516-249-1188 Visit us at kfadental.com and view our smile makeovers and our recommendations Dr. Kahn credit cards accepted • monthly payment options • insurances are accepted toward payment • senior citizen courtesy Dr. Ferrari Dr. Aldieri Good d Advice Good d Advice What Can Digital Dentistry Do For You? Consider This When Choosing Your Cosmetic Dentist Daniel J. Aldieri, DDS Angela M. Ferrari, DDS The exciting technologi- you wait, exact design specifications are cal advances that have sent to an on-site milling machine to create been made in the field of your restoration. About 10 minutes later, dentistry are nothing short your all-ceramic, color matched crown or of amazing. Many people filling is ready for placement and your are now enjoying their visits to the den- tooth is restored to its natural beauty and tist thanks to digital technology which function. This is a true revolutionary techprovides more conservative, less invasive, nology that will positively change your denand more accurate results tal experience forever! than ever before. Imagine Many people are now Old or broken silver fillgoing to the dentist and ings on back teeth often enjoying their visits to having a porcelain crown make teeth appear dark the dentist thanks to and discolored. With (cap) or filling completed digital technology. in just one visit; no need CEREC Technology, these to wear a temporary fillings can be replaced crown or return for a second appoint- with all-ceramic tooth-colored onlays in ment. Using CEREC (CAD) digital tech- one visit which can brighten up anynology is what makes it all possible. one’s smile. What does CEREC (CEramic REConTo schedule a consultation call 516struction) mean for you? CEREC uses a 249-1188. For more information on the state-of-the-art digital 3D camera to create office of Drs. Kahn, Ferrari and Aldieri, an optical impression of your tooth. While visit www.kfadental.com. Many patients arrive in our tooth whitening, and Invisalign. Another office avoiding eye contact way to rejuvenate your smile is by straightand hiding their mouths with ening them. Invisalign is a clear form for their hands. After cosmetic braces that move your teeth into a dental treatment, they leave straighter more youthful position. Both of with confidence, pride in their appearthese treatments are great! ance, and a “radiance” about their beauSometimes the road to a fabulous smile tiful smile. Cosmetic dental treatment has may be short or have some benchmarks. helped many patients feel Most importantly, it great about themselves involves developing a relaCosmetic dental and enabled them to comtreatment has helped tionship with a cosmetic municate with others in dentist that has open lines many patients feel ways they never had of communication. Treatgreat about themselves. before. Having a realistic ment of the gums, tooth expectation is very imporposition, color and shape, tant for a cosmetic dental patient. We may be needed to get a person’s smile offer in-depth face-to-face consultations healthy and to esthetically achieve their during which we review the patient’s diaggoals. 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Call now for a FREE Consultation 631. 393. 6888 • American • American • American • American www.eliankermd.com Eli Anker, MD, PC 754 Montauk Highway · West Islip, New York 11795 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Academy Academy Academy Academy of of of of Sleep Medicine Dental Sleep Medicine Craniofacial Pain Orofacial Pain c h a s e d e n t a l h e a l t h, PLLC 324 South Service Road • Suite 116 Melville, New York 11747 • 631. 393. 6888 w w w. ch a s e d e n t a l h e a l t h . c o m LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 9 Book Corner by Debbi Honorof Summer Beach Reads Long Island Authors Share Their Thoughts ELLEN MEISTER, author of Secret Confessions of the Applewood PTA and The Smart One: If a novel about a guy who talks to dogs sounds too whimsical for your taste, consider this: former David Letterman Show writer Merrill Markoe, the creator of Stupid Pet Tricks, goes beyond clever punchlines in this wise and witty book. Sure it's bitingly funny (or whatever other dog-inspired pun jangles your leash), but Nose Down, Eyes Up is also a slyly perceptive exploration of love, commitment and family. Markoe's first person male narrator, Gil, is a 47-year-old case of arrested development, more dedicated to his four dogs than his long suffering New Age girlfriend, Sara. When he stumbles upon his alpha pooch, Jimmy, instructing the other dogs on the art of manipulating humans, Gil discovers he has the ability to understand exactly what the animals are saying. The conversations lead to a journey of self-discovery for both Gil and Jimmy, punctuated by crackling dialogue, hilarious perceptions of the world through a dog's eye-view, and a series of inevitable missteps by Gil, including a torrid affair with his hypersexual exwife. Nose Down, Eyes Up is a funny book with enough meat for even the most serious reader, but dog lovers especially will devour it. For the beach, the bungalow, the backyard or even the 5:41 out of Penn Station, this one will make you want to sit, stay, read. CAROL HOENIG, author of Without Grace: It’s difficult not to salivate when reading The Hundred-Foot Journey by Richard C. Morais, a novel that evokes the indigenous aromas of a humble Mumbai restaurant to the bouquet of a highly-acclaimed Paris restaurant. The protagonist, Hassan Haji, eventually and unwittingly stirs the ire of Madame Mallory, a famous French chef who fiercely seeks those enviable Michelin stars. Imagine Mallory’s bitter dismay, though, when she discovers that Haji, a young boy who is cooking in his father’s classless Indian bistro across the street from her own refined restaurant, has a talent that surpasses her own. Accurately described as Slumdog Millionaire meets Chocolat, The Hundred-Foot Journey fills the senses with exotic settings and mouth-watering recipes while Haji and his family travel across Europe after a tragedy occurs in his home in Mumbai and end up far from their homeland in a remote village that is under the thumb of one powerful, feisty chef—or at least it was before Mallory meets her culinary match and then some. Humorous and delightful, you’ll not only enjoy this book, you’ll savor it. BRENDA JANOWITZ, author of Scot on the Rocks and Jack With a Twist: The One That I Want by Allison Winn Scotch asks the question: what would you do if you could see the future? Tilly Farmer thinks that she has it all: great family, great friends and a wonderful husband, with whom she’s trying to have a baby. But when a visit to an old friend, now a psychic, leaves Tilly with the ability to see into the future, she begins to see things that she didn’t exactly expect. Perhaps 10 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN her life isn’t so perfect after all? The One That I Want is a story about the choices we make, and the ones we don’t necessarily want to make. It’s about relationships and seeing things for what they really are. Winn Scotch’s latest is funny, heartfelt, and a total page turner … all you could possibly want in a perfect summer read! VIVIAN SWIFT, author of When Wanderers Cease to Roam: I’ll follow Elizabeth Gilbert anywhere. Like millions of readers around the world, I followed her to Italy, India, and Indonesia in the pages of her book Eat, Pray, Love. This time, in Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace With Marriage, I’m following her from, well, skepticism (the book starts in the holding pen of Homeland Security in the Dallas-Fort Worth airport) to eventual and contented reconciliation (in New Jersey. Yes: New Jersey). Both books are, on the surface, travel stories; and Elizabeth Gilbert is the kind of travel writer whose humor, narrative skill, insights, and juicy digressions make the journey worthwhile no matter where she goes. In Committed she travels through a survey of marriage customs and philosophies from around the world with a quirky Brazilian fiancé and her own treasure-trove of doubts, personal insecurities, and emotional candor. Trust me: it’s a trip you’ll want to take. Even though it ends in New Jersey. SARALEE ROSENBERG, author of four novels, including Dear Neighbor, Drop Dead: Just as low fat ice cream can make one pine for the sweet, rich taste of Breyer’s, so too does sampling the “lite” variety of a beloved author. In The Three Weissmans of Westport by Cathleen Schine, readers will recognize the themes and characterizations of Jane Austin’s Sense and Sensibility and wish that they were enjoying the sumptuous original rather than a bland, “inspired by” rendition. 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Contrary to www.longislandlaserservices.com. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 13 Health by Kathy Sena Women’s Health Update EAT HEALTHFULLY – AND SAVE $$ ON GROCERIES Money is tight these days, and it’s tempting to grab cheap fast food instead of buying more nutritious food at the grocery store. But eating well doesn’t have to cost more. Making a few small changes in the way we shop, cook and eat will help us stay healthier and spend less, according to nutrition experts Lynn Janas, Ph.D., and Hope Bilyk, M.S., R.D., from Rosalind Franklin University of Medicine and Science in Chicago. Janas, who holds a Ph.D. in nutrition, suggests envisioning what a healthy meal looks like, not on a food pyramid but on your dinner plate. Half the plate should be filled with vegetables. All that fiber will help fill you up. One quarter should contain protein: lean meat, fish, eggs or beans. One quarter should include whole grains such as bread, pasta or rice. Eating healthfully also begins with improving the nutritional quality of food on your plate, says Bilyk, a registered dietitian. Start small and keep it simple: substitute a slice of whole-grain bread for the usual white bread. Occasionally use brown rice instead of white rice. Instead of a sugary breakfast cereal, eat oatmeal, muesli or some other whole grain. “We can add more nutrition to our meals by making small changes,” Bilyk says. Eating on the run also can be nutritious if you grab a piece of fruit instead of a cookie. Unsalted popcorn, a whole grain, is a good snack choice, as is a handful of nuts instead of chips. Despite the government’s attempt to nudge more Americans to eat five servings of fruits and vegetables per day, we don’t consume enough of them. So keep a bowl of bananas, apples or oranges on the counter, within easy reach. Wash a bunch of grapes and put them in a pretty bowl in the fridge for easy snacking. All vegetables have different nutrients, so we need to eat a variety of them. “Put a rainbow on your plate,” advises Bilyk, who suggests selecting dark-green and dark-orange vegetables. “Color signals potential health benefits.” Eating healthfully also can help stretch your food dollar. Beans and lentils are cheap and can be used as extenders for more expensive protein dishes such as red meat. Look for boneless, skinless chicken breasts on sale and stock your freezer. Whole chickens and chicken thighs are an economical choice, too. Try to eat fish twice a week. Canned salmon or tuna in moderate portions are relatively cheap and quite nutritious. Try meatless meals. Use eggs, but cut out some of the yolks. Use enriched pasta with tomato sauce and small amounts of ground beef. Make homemade pizza, lim- Eating well doesn’t have to cost more. Making a few small changes in the way we shop, cook and eat will help us stay healthier and spend less. 14 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN iting the cheese and processed meats and piling on the veggies. Buy fruits and vegetables in season. Buy cheaper store brands. Shop grocery-store sales and farmers’ markets. Both nutritionists also recommend the “Go, Slow, Whoa” system of thinking before eating. “Go” heavy on the healthy foods that should fill your plate. Take it “slow” on meats, processed foods, pizza and low-fat cheese. Just say “whoa” to regular-fat cheese, ice cream, baked goods, chips, candy and sugar-sweetened drinks. (OK, except for special occasions. No one’s perfect!) Eating more healthfully, starting today, can help reduce your healthcare costs in the long run, too. Janas and Bilyk note that the nation’s four leading killers – heart disease, cancer, cardiovascular disease/stroke and type 2 diabetes – are often nutrition-related and are largely preventable. STRUCTURAL FEATURE IN BREAST TISSUE MAY HELP PREDICT WOMEN’S CANCER RISK Mayo Clinic researchers have found that certain structural features within breast tissue can indicate a woman’s individual breast-cancer risk. The findings appear online in the Journal of Clinical Oncology. The study shows that acini (AS-ih-nye), the small milk-producing elements in breast lobules, can be counted in sample biopsies. The percentage of acini present per lobule at a given age helps indicate cancer risk. “Aside from the predictors of heredity, there is no effective independent predictor of risk of breast cancer,” says Lynn Hartmann, M.D., Mayo Clinic oncologist and senior author of the study. “This risk-estimate model, based on novel tissue in each individual, may provide a reliable strategy.” Researchers studied the tissue structures in 85 patients with breast cancer and examined earlier, non-cancerous breast biopsies from the same women. They compared them to 142 age-controlled samples from Mayo’s Benign Breast Disease Cohort, a repository of benign biopsy tissues. “Women who were more likely to develop breast cancer had larger lobules with more acini,” says Hartmann. What’s the significance of the findings? As women age, especially as they approach menopause, the lobules and acini disappear. This natural process, called involution, is at the core of this risk factor. Hartmann says if the lobules aren’t largely gone by the time a woman is 55, her risk of breast cancer triples. The Mayo Clinic team hopes this new model, combined with other patient information and assessments, will greatly improve a physician’s ability to predict cancer risk for individual patients. WOMEN MORE LIKELY TO HAVE ADVERSE EFFECTS FROM PRESCRIPTION MEDS Most people have taken a prescription medication at one time or To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Stephen U. 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HARRIS PLASTIC SURGERY Specialist in Breast Reconstruction 500 Montauk Hwy, Suite H, West Islip 631-422-9100 www.harrisplasticsurgery.com Member AMERICAN SOCIETY OF PLASTIC SURGEONS Good d Advice Comprehensive Solutions for Breast Restoration after Cancer Treatment by Dr. Stephen U. Harris M.D., FACS Reconstruction of a breast that has been removed due to cancer or the soften contours or to enlarge the breast mound. State and Federal law mandate that reconstructive breast surgery for correction of deformity or risk of cancer, or that has been deformed by treatment of a previous breast cancer (such as lumpectomy and radiation) is one of the most asymmetry after breast cancer surgery be covered by health insurance plans. With the introduction of genetic testing for mutations in the BRCA gene, many women with rewarding surgical procedures available today. New surgical techniques and devices have made it possible to create a breast that can come close strong family history of breast cancer or women who have developed breast cancer at a relatively young age, can be tested to determine if a known genetic mutation may explain the in form and appearance to matching a natural breast. Along with the most common indication, the reconstruction of a breast clinical situation. Since the lifetime risk of developing breast cancer in women with BRCA immediately after mastectomy, surgical techniques are available to correct a deformity related mutations is much higher than the average woman, risk-reducing surgery to remove the breasts prophylactically (to prevent cancer) is often performed. Primary conto breast conservation therapy or postoperative radiation, improve the results New surgical sultation with a board certified plastic surgeon with expertise in breast reconof an unsatisfactory breast reconstruction, salvage a failed breast reconstruction, or create a breast in a delayed fashion months or years after mastectomy. techniques can create a structive techniques is important to allow women to understand the level of Some women choose either immediate or delayed breast reconstruction folbreast that can come cosmetic outcomes achievable in each case. Comprehensive multidisciplinary care (including discussion with a gynecologist regarding management of the lowing mastectomy. Sometimes the result is less than expected, with asymmeclose in form and ovaries) allows women with a BRCA mutation to make informed decisions try, poor breast shape, implant firmness or contracture, implant deformity, poor appearance to a regarding her options. nipple projection, or poor areola definition. Rarely, the chosen reconstructive The right reconstructive choice is based on the individual patients’ anatotechniques fail completely. While the patients’ anatomy often limits the degree natural breast. my, the individual patients’ expectations, and a customized evaluation of the of symmetry, women need to be aware that additional surgery may significantly improve the result, providing a significant boost of self-esteem. Evaluation and treatment to risks and benefits of each procedure. 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Contact Dr. Harris at Harris Plastic Surgery at 631-422-9100. www.harrisplasticsurgery.com. and the surrounding soft tissues. Fat can also be added to a tissue-based reconstruction to advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 15 Health Women’s Health Update another, but according to a report from the Agency of Healthcare Research and Quality (AHRQ) in Rockville, Maryland, not only do women take more medications during their lifetimes, women are more likely to suffer from adverse drug events than men. As a result of this trend, women should be proactive about their medication use, says Rosaly Correa-de-Araujo, M.D., M.Sc., Ph.D., senior advisor for women's health at AHRQ. An adverse drug reaction is a harmful, unintended reaction to a drug administered at a normal dosage. The majority of adverse reactions are caused by side effects from a drug ingredient, drug interactions and drug toxicity. A smaller number are caused by unpredictable effects, which may be immune-related, including allergic reactions. Because women are more likely than men to experience adverse drug reactions, it becomes even more important for women to take an active role in their healthcare. According to the American Academy of Family Physicians (AAFP), here’s a list of things you should know about each medicine you take: • Name (generic name and brand name) • Reason for taking it • How much to take and how often to take it • Possible side effects and what to do if you have them • How long to continue taking it • Special instructions (taking it at bedtime or with meals, etc.) It’s important for women to inform their doctors and pharmacists about all medications or supplements that they are taking, any known allergies and if they are currently pregnant or planning on conceiving in the short-term. In addition, to ensure that a medication is being taken safely and correctly, the AAFP encourages people to have a list of questions for their doctor about their medications: • What does the medicine do? • When and how should I take the medicine? • What side effects could I have? • Will the medicine react to any other medicines, foods or drinks? • Should I avoid any activities while I'm taking the medicine? • What should I do if I forget to take the medicine? • How will I know whether the medicine is working? According to Correa-de-Araujo, women should learn to research their medications. Always read those boring instructional inserts. If you have questions, ask your doctor or pharmacist. Taking an active role in your healthcare can help lower the risk of problems associated with medications and supplements. HEATING, AIR CONDITIONING, CARPETS MAY BE BAD FOR YOUR HEALTH Damp home environments, poorly maintained heating and air-conditioning systems and carpeting may contribute to poor indoor air quali16 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN ty, according to experts who presented their findings at the recent annual meeting of the American College of Allergy, Asthma and Immunology (ACAAI). Americans spend about 90 percent of their time indoors, where they are repeatedly exposed to indoor allergens and airborne particles that can lead to respiratory symptoms. “If there was just one thing I could do to fix buildings, it would be to change the relative humidity,” noted building scientist Doug Garrett, CEM, CDSM, president of Building Performance and Comfort in Leander, Texas. “Moisture leads to conditions that are conducive to dust mites and mold, as well as bacteria, yeast and other living organisms.” A damp building with high humidity may lead to increased levels of dust mites and mold, leading to increased allergic respiratory symptoms, as well as the worsening of asthma. And even if someone is not allergic, molds may produce mycotoxins and volatile organic chemicals (VOCs) that smell bad and may cause respiratory irritation, Garrett noted. Dust mites cause allergic reactions and trigger asthma symptoms. About 10 percent of the population is allergic to dust mites, according to the ACAAI. Mold requires moisture to grow. Indoor environments house many sources of moisture, including condensation and leaky pipes. Although there are many culprits that negatively affect indoor air quality, poorly maintained air-conditioning and carpeting are among the most problematic. “A home’s heating and air-conditioning (HVAC) system, if poorly maintained, can become a major source of microbial allergens,” said Garrett. Carpeting, too, often harbors allergens, including dust mites and molds, said Jeffrey May, M.A., principal scientist of May Indoor Air Investigations LLC, in Tyngsborough, Mass. Organisms and particles that become airborne eventually settle in carpeting. In damp environments, carpeting provides an ideal environment for mold growth. “Many schools shampoo their carpeting right before school starts at the end of summer when it’s humid outside,” said May. “There couldn’t be a worse time.” Once built, maintenance becomes key. May offers the following advice for home owners on making their indoor environments healthier: • Keep the air conditioner clean. Use a filter with an American Society of Heating and Air-Conditioning Engineers (AHRAE) Standard MERV (Minimum Efficiency Reporting Value) of at least 8. • Do not have carpeting in any buildings or homes where humidity can’t be controlled. If you cannot replace carpet, vacuum thoroughly, carefully and methodically so you don’t stir dust into the air. Use a vacuum with a HEPA filter or a cyclonic vacuum. • Prevent mold by dehumidifying the basement. In unfinished basements, humidity should be kept lower than 50 percent. 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Krieff, D.O., F.A.C.O.S. Traumatic brain injury (TBI), traumatic injuries to the brain, also called intracranial injury, or simply head injury, occurs when a sudden trauma causes brain damage. TBI can result from a closed head injury or a penetrating head injury and is one of two subsets of acquired brain injury (ABI). The other subset is non-traumatic brain injury (e.g., stroke, meningitis, anoxia). Parts of the brain that can be damaged include the cerebral hemispheres, cerebellum, and brain stem. The damage from TBI can be focal, confined to one area of the brain, or diffuse, involving more than one area of the brain. Diffuse trauma to the brain is frequently associated with concussion (a shaking of the brain in response to sudden motion of the head), diffuse axonal injury, or coma. TBI can cause a host of physical, cognitive, emotional, and social effects. Symptoms of a TBI can be mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the extent of the damage to the brain. Generally, there are six abnormal states of consciousness that can result from a TBI: stupor, coma, persistent vegetative state, minimally conscious state, locked-in syndrome, and brain death. Outcome can be anything from complete recovery to permanent disability or death. Spinal cord injury causes myelopathy or damage to white matter or myelinated fiber tracts that carry sensation and motor signals to and from the brain. It also damages any gray matter in the central part of the spinal cord, causing segmental losses of interneurons and motor neurons. Spinal cord injury can occur from many causes, including trauma. An estimated 17 million Americans sustain TBI each year. Considered the “signature wound” of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, nearly a third of serious brain injuries lead to permanent disability. TBI can cause a range of short and long-term changes that affect thinking, sensation, language and emotion. 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She became a synonym when you wanted to talk about a sex symbol,” stressed Robert Thompson, Professor of Popular Culture at Syracuse University. “She was the standard. She became a generic name for sexual beauty. In fact, I constantly heard references to Raquel Welch, before I ever even heard of the movie.” The sexual energy and pure female strength conveyed makes it no wonder this former Miss La Jolla beauty pageant winner was catapulted into superstardom. Yet, her ascent as a sex symbol – and the conflicting feelings Welch has towards the impact it has had on her life – is one of the main reasons she penned Raquel Welch: Beyond the Cleavage. “I think that my image has been one of physical presence, and I’ve been seen more than I’ve been heard. So there are a lot of things people just don’t know about me,” explains the San Diego native. “It’s not a tell all; it’s not that kind of ‘air your dirty laundry’ type of book. It’s simply my whole experience of being of woman and what that experience is like, and what I would like to pass along to other women.” The woman whose beauty has been a confirmed fact for decades openly acknowledges her own doubts about her physical attributes. At the peak of her career, Playboy dubbed her the “Most Desired Woman of the ‘70s.” Ironically, no one was more surprised than her, by the label of sex symbol. “I never got it. I always thought, ‘Someone is going to find out any minute now. I’m a regular person. As soon as they find out, they won’t like me because I won’t be exciting and spectacular enough for them.’” Much to the surprise of fans and industry insiders, Welch’s daily life in the ‘60s and ‘70s was quite different than one would imagine. The woman who burst onto the Hollywood scene was known as Raquel Welch, but she was an austere contrast to Jo Raquel Tejada, single mother. Until her film debut, Welch was a struggling actress who arrived in Hollywood with no car, $200 in her pocket and no connections. She gave herself a three-year deadline to make it. The rest is film history. Welch went on to win a Golden Globe, and her career has spanned over four decades, 45 feature films, numerous television specials, two books and Broadway musicals. Like many of the 13.7 million single parents in the United States today, Welch struggled to balance the demands of a career and family. Feelings of guilt for spending too much time working, and being kept from her son Damon and daughter Tahnee, were constant. Unlike today’s single parents, circa 1960, there were no after-school programs and no day care services. Even renting an apartment was a challenge, since many buildings specified children were not allowed. Welch made compromises and admits to having regrets. “I think we do make a choice to juggle things in our lives and try to make the best of it and to find a happy balance. It’s like trying to work out the puzzle of a Rubik’s cube,” explains the 1957 La Jolla High School graduate. “I could see what the price was for my children. Then, I felt the guilt and the loss myself, for not being able to be more with them when I was on location. Sixteen-hour days are what an actress works. That is the fact of life. And I didn’t have a husband to hand off my kids to, so it was very difficult. It was an internal struggle. There was a consciousness weighing on me all the time.” Dr. Joan Atwood, President and Clinical Director of New York Marriage and Family Therapists, sees the daily internal conflict single mothers go through, balancing career and family. According to Dr. Atwood, her patients feel overloaded with chores, commitments, taking the children to activities and even doing laundry. The feeling of being spread too thin seems overwhelming, as many women try to do everything, including being both Mom and Dad to their children. I’ve been seen more than I’ve been heard. So there are a lot of things people just don’t know about me. “A single mother is doing the best she can do, and in many cases that is just fine. She needs to focus on being a Mom and not being a Mom and Dad,” insists Atwood. “There are times when she can give the children quality, face-to-face focused attention, ice cream after soccer, good conversation on the ride home from dance and asking questions about their friends and life.” Guilt about not spending enough time with her children is something the actress discusses at length in her memoir. Her long hours on set, divorce from their father and the impact of other relationships and marriages caused tension and a strain in the relationship. “Guilt is there for a reason. It is because you haven’t done something that you are happy about or proud of, and you know that something is not right. And until you come to grips with that, that burden doesn’t lighten,” describes the actress. “So, of course, as I got older, I had to make a reassessment. I wouldn’t be able to change everything or bring back moments that I missed or moments where things didn’t go well between my children and I. But, I could let them know that I recognize certain shortcomings and that I was ready to listen to them and what they had to say.” Welch has resolved her relationship issues with her children, but her relationships Raquel Welch More Than Meets the Eye Good d Advice Good d Advice Sensible Shoes Can be Stylish Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes by Dr. Lauren Schwartz by Dr. Dazhi Chen, PhD, LAC For decades, the myth able as long as they have enough supthat “flat shoes” are the port around the midfoot and ankle. 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She also stressed how important it is for women to not be so hard on themselves, even if they do not find themselves in a relationship. “I don’t think that you need to make an evaluation of yourself as more or less because you are dating or because you are not dating. I think that you need to make yourself happy. And I think that being alone and not in a relationship is a wonderful opportunity to find out more about yourself and how you are when you are accommodating somebody else,” says Welch. “And I wouldn’t rush into dating. I think that sometimes by looking too hard, it is almost like an act of desperation. That is not self-esteem. That is using other people to make yourself feel better. I don’t think it is coming from the right place. I think you need to bring the full you and all of the things you have to offer into any situation.” ❊ Raquel’s Favorites Song “New York State of Mind” performed by Jay Z and Alicia Keys Movie “Recently, it’s The Hurt Locker.” Welch also listed classics such as: Adam’s Rib, To Have and Have Not, Breakfast at Tiffany’s and Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, as a few of her all-time favorites. Favorite Movie She Starred In with men are a different story. Currently divorced from her fourth husband, who was 15 years her junior, M-A-C Cosmetics 2007 Beauty Icon finds herself on the dating scene again. But this time, she is taking a different approach. “We get attracted to all kinds of different men for different reasons. But when you are trying to seek out a partner who is going to be a part of your personal life for any period of time, you want to try to find someone who is going to fit in a little bit with what life you already know is yours,” reflects the founder of the Raquel Welch Wig Collection. “You have to know who you are, and you can’t kid yourself that you can just give over everything that you are about, because it won’t really work. In the end, you’ll feel resentful and you’ll feel angry … and so will he, because he is not going to fit into your world, nor you into his. So, that is the thing, the compatibility which is so incredibly important.” To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Three Musketeers, for which she won the 1974 Golden Globe for best actress. Actor “Right now, who can beat Meryl Streep? Is she just unbelievable?” exclaims the Foster Grant eyewear spokesperson. “I am forever amazed by this woman. She has played such a wide variety of things, in a multitude of styles, she is just wonderful. It’s hard to beat Meryl. But, of the glamour ladies, I always thought Elizabeth Taylor had a wonderful quality.” Book Gospel of God: Romans by R.C. Sproul Way to Relax “Go out in the day with no plan and the sun shining and drive down the hill in a convertible with the top down.” LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 23 MEET THE HEALTH PROFESSIONAL Daniel Aldieri, DDS Eli Anker, M.D., FACS Dr. Michael Berlin Kahn, Ferrari and Aldieri DDS 375 Fulton St., Farmingdale 516-249-1188 www.kfadental.com 754 Montauk Hwy., West Islip 631-422-0909 www.eliankermd.com The Family Wellness Center 641B Old Country Rd., Plainview 516-822-8499 www.networkwellnesscenter.com see ad on page 9 see ad on page 7 Dr. Daniel Aldieri, a graduate of New York University College of Dentistry, combines advanced technology and techniques with focused, personal care of each unique patient. A member of the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, American Dental Association and Academy of General Dentistry, Dr. Aldieri, along with his team, transforms smiles and lives with cosmetic and restorative therapy. Dr. Aldieri is certified in Invisalign – invisible braces, and CEREC – single-visit porcelain restorations, and he provides TMJ and Myofascial therapies as well as dental implants. Additionally, Dr. Aldieri emphasizes pain-free, fasterhealing treatment, utilizing technologies such as Biolase laser dentistry. see ad on page 19 Dr. Eli Anker specializes in vascular surgery. He earned his medical degree at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine and completed his residency at Montefiore Hospital in the Bronx. He did his vascular surgery fellowship at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center Dr. Anker practices the most advanced techniques in his specialty. Most of these procedures are performed in his state-of-the-art office, including laser treatment of varicose and spider veins as well as balloon angioplasty and stenting of blocked arteries causing leg pain and nonhealing ulcers. Noted as an intuitive and gifted healer, Dr. Michael Berlin is trained as a highly skilled holistic Chiropractor, life coach, and health educator. He brings to the community over 15 years of experience working in alternative health with infants to elderly. Dr. Berlin has been a wellness coach for thousands and runs lectures, seminars, and facilitates groups to live happier and healthier lives. He is recognized as a visionary and on the leading edge of his profession. Dr. Berlin; along with Dr.’s Morton and Rothstein practices gentle Network Chiropractic in Plainview, NY and have dedicated their lives to helping people live the miracle that they are. Dr. Barry N. Chase, DDS Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., La.C Joseph D’Antona, LMT, Lac, MS Chase Dental Health, PLLC 324 South Service Road, Ste. 116, Melville 631-393-6888 www.chasedentalhealth.com 444 Community Drive, Manhasset 516-526-5028/646-262-7895 [email protected] Balance Health and Wellness Center 672 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst 57 Main St., Kings Park 631-BALANCE (225-2623) see ad on page 22 see ad on page 9 Dr. Barry Chase is a 1976 graduate of Georgetown University Dental School and has been practicing on Long Island for over 30 years. In addition to general dentistry, Dr Chase treats Cranio-Facial Pain, Temporal Mandibular Joint Dysfunction (TMJ) and Obstructive Sleep Apnea (breathing disorders and snoring). OSA is associated with higher risks for hypertension, coronary heart disease, strokes, short term memory loss and cognitive problems. The dental oral appliance solution is extremely effective for the treatment of OSA. If you would like to see Dr. Chase for a complimentary consultation, please call for an appointment. see ads on page 25 & 31 Dr. Dazhi Chen, a credentialed acupuncturist and research scientist in the North Shore-LIJ Health System, graduated from Liaoning College of Traditional Chinese Medicine in China and received his master’s degree in acupuncture. He then worked as an Assistant Professor in the Acupuncture Department at his college as well as The Beijing College of Acupuncture and Osteopathy, Beijing. Dr. Chen received his Ph.D. from Kyoto Prefectural University of Medicine in Japan. He has trained and practiced traditional Chinese Medicine, specializing in acupuncture for more than 20 years and has helped many people live pain-free and healthier lives. Joseph D’Antona, a Licensed, Board-Certified Acupuncturist, Herbalist and Massage Therapist is the founder of The Balance Health and Wellness Center. He’s been practicing for over 20 years and has appeared on national TV because of his expertise in cosmetic acupuncture — an effective technique to reduce the visible signs of aging. He also specializes in ear stapling for weight loss, hot stone massage therapy, colon hydrotherapy, cellulite reduction, acupuncture for fertility and N.A.E.T. for allergy elimination. Joe and his staff of certified professionals have helped hundreds of people live a healthier, pain-free life. Call today for your complimentary consultation. Angela Ferrari, DDS Stephen T. Greenberg M.D., FACS Stephen U. Harris, M.D., FACS Kahn, Ferrari and Aldieri DDS 375 Fulton St., Farmingdale 516-249-1188 www.kfadental.com New York's Premier Center for Plastic Surgery 195 Froehlich Farm Blvd., Woodbury 516-364-4200 461 Park Ave. South, New York • 212-319-4999 www.greenbergcosmeticsurgery.com Harris Plastic Surgery 500 Montauk Hwy., Ste. H, West Islip 631-422-9100 www.harrisplasticsurgery.com see ad on page 7 see ad on page 15 see ad on page 3 Dr. Angela Ferrari, a Doctoral Graduate of New York University, completed her dental residency in prosthetics at Northport Veterans Administration Hospital. She is a certified provider for Invisalign® clear orthodontics, CEREC® one-visit porcelain restorations, and Biolase® Laser Dentistry. She has also completed advanced training in cosmetic dentistry, including bonding, porcelain veneers, and smile design. Be noticed with a healthy, new smile. Visit a doctor who listens to each patient’s goals and who combines masterful artistry, skilled techniques, and a comfortable environment to achieve the results you want. Choose Dr. Ferrari and the KFA Dental team as your partner in beauty and health. Dr. Greenberg is one of NY’s best-known, board certified, plastic surgeons. Using the latest advances in technology, he performs the most advanced cosmetic surgical procedures in his fully-accredited, state-ofthe- art ambulatory surgical center. Author and radio show host, he also has an anti-aging skin care line to help reduce lines and wrinkles. He is sought after by patients and the media for his expertise in the field. He’s appeared on 20/20, CBS Evening News, and in Newsday, New York Times, Vogue, and many others. Dr. Greenberg offers complimentary consultations in his Woodbury and Park Avenue offices. Dr. Stephen U. Harris, a board certified plastic surgeon, has extensive experience with today’s most advanced cosmetic and reconstructive plastic surgical techniques, specializing in surgery of the breast including augmentation, body contouring including abdominoplasty and liposuction, and body contouring after massive weight loss. Dr. Harris is on staff at Good Samaritan Hospital, Southside Hospital, and Brookhaven Hospital. His impressive medical training includes Boston University Medical Center, Plastic Surgery at Emory University and a fellowship at Massachusetts General Hospital - Harvard Medical School. Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS Dr. Roger B. Katz Donald S. Krieff, D.O., F.A.C.O.S. The New York Center for Facial, Plastic and Laser Surgery 440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck 516-773-4646 www.newyorkfacialplasticsurgery.com The North Shore Cosmetic Medical Center 239 Jericho Tpke., Syosset 516-496-9797 Neurological Surgery, P.C. 500 Montauk Highway – Suite K, West Islip 631-983-8400 www.nspc.com see ad on page 8 see ads on page 18 & 19 see ad on page back cover Dr. Jacono is a Dual Board Certified Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeon, and author of “Face the Facts,” a book about the latest procedures in Facial Plastic Surgery. As an expert in the field, he has been featured on Good Morning America, Inside Edition, CNN, Newsday, USA Today and more. In addition to traditional Face Lift surgery, he specializes in ScarFree(TM) Endoscopic Facelifts, Eyelid Lifts, Browlifts, and Rhinoplasty. He also offers Botox, Juvederm, Restylane, Radiesse and Fraxel for total facial rejuvenation. Roger B. Katz, MD, a fellowship-trained cosmetic facial surgeon specializes in non-invasive facial rejuvenation. His patients benefit from his impressive credentials and 25 years of experience performing cosmetic facial surgery and facial rejuvenation. As a medical director of Long Island’s premier North Shore Cosmetic Medical Center and spa, his state-of-the-art facility offers the most advanced care available in a personal and private setting. He offers a multi-dimensional, multi-modality approach to rejuvenating the face from the inside out, with no down time or surgery. The full-service medical spa offers facials, microdermabrasion, permanent make-up and chemical peels. Donald S. Krieff, D.O., F.A.C.O.S., is a board certified neurosurgeon who treats adult and pediatric patients. He performs both complex cranial and spinal surgery. He has special interests in computer-assisted resection of brain tumors and the management of traumatic injuries to the brain and spine. Prior to joining Neurological Surgery, P.C., Dr. Krieff served as Chief of Neurosurgery at Nassau University Medical Center, Nassau County’s busiest Level 1 trauma center. He has received many honors, and has trained numerous medical students and residents throughout his career. Dr. Krieff sits on the American Osteopathic Board of Surgery. He has more than 10 years experience. The information in Meet The Health Professional is provided by the advertisers, who are responsible for its accuracy, and does not necessarily represent the editorial views of LONG ISLAND WOMAN. 24 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Good d Advice Good d Advice Considering Plastic Surgery? Breast Reduction – The Lollipop Scar Technique Consider Cosmetic Acupuncture FIRST! by Joseph D’Antona, L.Ac. • Clears acne/scars and so much more... Cosmetic Acupuncture, a The general course of treatment varies non-surgical treatment depending upon age and lifestyle. If you’ve which involves the insertion had Botox injections, this is an excellent of very thin disposable neeway to maintain your skin, requiring less dles into the acupuncture Botox injections throughout the year. points on the face & body, is Cosmetic Acupuncture has extremely effective in reducing the signs of aging. 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In addition, he performs the full range of facial and body contouring surgery in his AAAASF certified facility in the Hamptons. Dr. Palumbo is an Assistant Professor of Plastic Surgery at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in N.Y. Dr. Arnold Panzer has been in practice since 1983 treating medical and dermatological problems. He attended NYU Medical School; completing his Internal Medicine residency at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, Saint Vincent Hospital, Worcester, Massachusetts. He completed a one year Dermatology residency at Brown University, Roger Williams Hospital, Providence, Rhode Island. He presently practices general and aesthetic dermatology. He has memberships in numerous societies and regularly attends workshops to enhance his skills in diagnosing and treating dermatological, aesthetic and vein problems. His interests include educating his patients about preventive medical care; and controlling the aging processes of the skin. 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She treats depression, substance abuse, adjustment difficulties, infidelity and more. Call today schedule your confidential consultation. Clinical member of the AAMFT. Dr. Lauren Schwartz has been practicing Podiatry for over 14 years. She has 13 years experience working with special needs children. She is also an Attending Physician in the Department of Surgery at North Shore University Hospital in Manhasset, Plainview and at Long Island Jewish. Dr. Lauren Schwartz is Board Certified in Podiatric Surgery and a Fellow of the American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons. She sits on the Executive Board of the Nassau County Podiatry Association, and is on the Board of Directors for the American Association of Hospital and Healthcare Podiatrists. 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To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 27 Fitness by Kelly James-Enger The Beach Body Workout Moves to Get You into Bikini Shape Hey, it’s too gorgeous outside to be stuck in the gym! Head outside for your workout and you can simultaneously work on your tan, enjoy the great weather, and blast your body into bikini-ready shape. We’ve got killer lower and upper body moves from two personal trainers – Stephen Holt of Personal Effects Fitness Training and Fred Foster of the Sergeant’s Program – that will eradicate winter flab and get you in beach-baring form. You may choose to exercise beachside. “Sand is often a good place for your workout,” says Holt. “For example, if you’re running on sand, it slows you down and creates more resistance and works your legs, especially your calves, a whole lot more. You’ll also get more benefit from doing these moves on sand because it’s an uneven surface which works inner and outer thigh muscles.” (See the sidebar for a calorie-incinerating workout that complements these moves.) You’ll find that most of these exercises involve slow, controlled movements. “The key is not only the motions themselves,” says Foster, “but the intensity of the exercise. You want to make sure that you’re doing them correctly.” The payoff? If you consistently do our workout two or three days a week, says Foster, you’ll see definite results in a month or two. If you’re running on sand, it slows you down and creates more resistance and works your legs, especially your calves. MOVES One-legged squats (works leg muscles) Stand up and bend one knee; your foot should be about six inches off of the ground at a 45-degree angle. Slowly lower your body six to eight inches keeping your torso erect; hold for one second and slowly return to your original position. Ten reps on each side make a set; do 2 to 3. Monster walk (targets inner and outer thighs) With your legs about two feet apart, take 14-20 slow, large (about 2 feet apart) steps forward up a sand dune or hill. Keep your butt low by 28 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN bending your knees at least 30 degrees at all times, and return by walking backwards, maintaining the same wide stance, back down the hill. Each 14-20 steps forward and back is one set; complete 2 to 4. Lying hip raises (works glutes, hamstrings) Lying on your back, raise up on your elbows; your head and chest will be off of the ground. Keeping your right leg extended, bend your left leg and place your left foot flat on the ground. Pushing down with your left heel and elbows, lift your butt up, squeezing your glutes and hamstrings, and slowly return to your original position. Do 20 reps before switching to the other leg. Two-position push-up (works pecs, triceps) Assume a push-up position (lying flat, facing down) with both hands about six inches apart at breastbone level. Perform a push-up. When you return to the “up” position, move both hands (one at a time) so that they are slightly wider than shoulder width apart, and perform a push-up from this wide position. Then move back to the original position and repeat. Perform 8 to 15 total reps for one set; do 2. Prone “trap” raise (works trapezius, rhomboids and deltoids) Lie face down with a folded beach towel under your chest. Place your arms overhead at about a 45 degree angle (picture Superman flying). Hold two small dumbbells with your palms facing each other, thumbs pointing upward. Keeping your arms straight, lift the dumbbells off the ground as high as you can without discomfort or straining your neck. (Don’t lift your head or look up.) Take one second to bring the weights up, hold for one second, and lower in one second. Perform 23 sets of 12-20 reps. Supine single arm extension (works triceps) Lying face up, hold a single dumbbell in your right hand and point your right arm straight up. Place two fingers of your left hand just below your right elbow, lightly touching your right triceps to help promote proper form. Keeping the upper arm still, slowly bend your right arm, letting the weight come down to your right shoulder before pressing it back up. Take three seconds to lower and three seconds to raise the weight; perform 2-3 sets of 10-14 reps. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Leading Facial Rejuvenation Specialist uInjectable Treatment Expert Our Services Include Dr. James C. Marotta Dual Board Certified Yale University Trained • Facelift, Mini-Lift • Eyelid & Brow Lifts • Rhinoplasty • Fat Injections • Endoscopic Midface Lift • Photofacials & Permanent Hair Removal • Total FX Fractional CO2 Laser Treatments • Microdermabrasion & Chemical Peels Visit MarottaMD.com for a complete list of treatments Named One of “America’s Top Physicians” 2007, 2008 & 2009 FULL FACIAL REJUVENATION Bring in this ad to receive 15% off any injectable treatment* Botox® • Dysport® • Restylane® • Radiesse® • Juvederm™ • Sculptra® • Liquid Face Lift * Ad must be presented at time of treatment to receive discount. Not redeemable for cash value. Not applicable to gift certificates. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Discount valid on treatments performed before 9/30/10. BEFORE AFTER Marotta Facial Plastic Surgery, P.C. • Main Street • Smithtown • 631-982-2022 Good d Advice Want Voluptuous Lips? Seek Expert Advice by Dr. James C. Marotta Full, voluptuous lips have long been considered sexy. Years before with any prospective doctor. Angelina Jolie, Marilyn Monroe’s puckered lips adorned in bright red lip•Know what is going into your face or lips. I recently surgically removed silicone stick set the standard for the feminine embouchement. Contrast that with from a patient’s lips who told me that she had no idea what she had injected into her other celebrity images of lips gone wrong like Lisa Rinna, who revealed lips, but only that her girlfriend had the same procedure done by a non-physician in a the secret behind her overly plump lips as silicone. The fear of the “trout salon and had “no problem.” In the news, a mid-western woman self- injected silicone pout” or “duck lips” is a concern I must allay in any patient having lip she purchased on the internet into her face and lips causing permanent disfigurement. augmentation. Just as I assure them, I can also assure you - lip augmentation can give Make sure you sign an informed consent document that tells you what the substance you the fuller, voluptuous lips you want in a way that looks entirely natural. So if you being used in your augmentation is and what possible risks or side effects of the procewant bigger, more beautiful lips, here is some good advice on how dure might be. to go about it. •Try something temporary first. If you are considering lip aug“Not everyone with a syringe is mentation, •Seek expert advice. Not everyone with a syringe is qualified to try non-surgical augmentation with a temporary filler qualified to deliver the lips you first. Doing something temporary allows you to first try out your deliver the lips you want. There is definitely some art and science behind any treatment you receive and nowhere is that more true want. There is definitely some art new lips and gauge if your provider can achieve the look you want. than with the lips. An intimate knowledge and preservation of the We now have very safe long-lasting fillers, like Juvederm, which proper lip anatomy is the key to keeping your lips looking natural and science behind any treatment work quite well in lip augmentation. Fillers are the best treatment while growing in size. At a minimum, the person you entrust with you receive and nowhere is that to add definition to certain parts of the lips and they are also someyour lips should be a board certified facial plastic surgeon, general times used in patients who have surgical lip augmentation with fat more true than with the lips.” plastic surgeon, or dermatologist who performs a lot of injectable injections or V-Y advancement. Some patients actually elect to stick and surgical treatments on the lips. As with any procedure, it is a with fillers as their “permanent” solution for voluptuous lips. good idea to see some before and after pictures first. •If you want permanent lip augmentation or change, know that there isn’t one •Dwell on the details. The lips are complex anatomic structures that have different “gold standard” procedure. Fat injections, V-Y lip advancement, lip implantation with components. When I see a patient for lip augmentation, my discussion with them goes dermal-fat-fascia or alloderm are all procedures that can permanently augment the lips. way beyond size. I routinely educate patients about the components of the lip like the The choice of the procedure depends on your anatomy and the experience of your surwhite roll, philtral columns, and vermilion. Through this educational process and discusgeon. Again, it is important in this situation to seek expert advice. sion I can determine whether the patient actually wants to make their lips bigger or For more information call 631-988-2022 or visit www.marottamd.com. COMING NEXT MONTH: Not All Facelifts Are Created Equal: Understanding Different rather just reshaped and more defined. Some patients simply want to reverse some of Types of Lifts the aging process in the lips, not make them bigger. You should talk about these details advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 29 Fitness The Beach Body Workout A new blossom 104 MAIN STREET NORTHPORT, NY 11768 p EMAIL: WINSHOP@ OPTONLINE.NET HOURS: -/.$!9q3!452$!9p 35.$!93p.//. "$ ©$ "! ! # $ $ Sherry’s THE HEALTHY GOURMET …for your convenience, Sherry’s is located in the heart of Long Island at the Gateway to the South Shore, Fire Island & the Hamptons. 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Finally, raise your arms above your head, palms facing in, and make 50 tight circles in one direction and 50 in the other. Boulder curls (works biceps) Select two rocks or boulders that you can grasp in each hand. Standing straight with arms at your sides, slowly bring your arms up halfway to your shoulders (your lower arms will be parallel to the ground) in a half-curl, counting up for four seconds and down for four seconds; do seven reps. Then do seven reps from the halfway point to your shoulders, again using a four-count. Finally, do seven full curls using the four-count up and down. Can-opener (works abs) Lying flat on your back, place your left ankle on your right knee. Slowly lift your right shoulder off of the ground towards your left knee and at the same time, lift your right leg and squeeze your abs as you bring your left knee toward your chest. Try to bring your left knee and right shoulder together. Do 25 reps; repeat on the other side. Laces (works abs, especially obliques) Lie on the ground with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor, arms at your sides. Lift both shoulders off of the floor with your chin up, and with your left hand, reach toward the front of your left foot (where your shoelaces would be); then return to your original position and reach toward your “laces” on your right foot with your right hand. Alternate for 25 reps on each side. ◆ Sand Sprints Ready to try some sand running? This workout will burn tons more calories than a leisurely beach stroll. “High intensity interval training not only burns more calories during the workout than running at a steady pace for the equivalent amount of time or distance,” says Holt, “but the ‘afterburn’ is greater also. It burns more calories in the hours immediately following a workout in what physiologists call the ‘EPOC’ (excess post-exercise oxygen consumption) phase.” Perform a ten-minute warm-up of easy walking progressing to a jog. 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Professional Kripalu instructor leads students through gentle flow of postures and conscious breathing on the South Terrace lawn. $15 per session includes admission to gardens. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org. •Writers Round Table: 11am-noon Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. Freelance writer and author Iyna Caruso facilitates this creative writing workshop for those affected by cancer. Eight-week program. Free. Registration required. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. C L AS S E S July 21 •Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support: 6:308:30pm. 1991 Marcus Ave., Ste. 108, Lake Success. Group meeting hosted by Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute. Refreshments and dessert. Free. Registration required. 516442-3527. [email protected]. July 22 •Brain Tumor Support: 6:30-8:30pm. 353 Veterans Memorial Hwy., Ste. 303, Commack. Group meeting hosted by Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute. Refreshments and dessert. Free. Registration required. 516442-3527. [email protected]. •Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support: 6:30-8:30pm. 100 Merrick Rd., Ste. 128W, Rockville Centre. Group meeting hosted by Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute. Refreshments and dessert. Free. Registration required. 516-442-3527. [email protected]. E NTE RTAI N M E NT July 14 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Coes Neck Park, Baldwin. Tonight’s performance features Piece of the Rock, playing hits of the ‘50s, ‘60s and ‘70s. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 15 July 27 •Reduce Stress and Improve Your Life: 7:309:30pm. Smithtown. Learn how to meditate. Registration required. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. July 28 •Neck and Back Pain Support: 6:30-8:30pm. 1991 Marcus Ave., Ste. 108, Lake Success. Group meeting hosted by Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute. Refreshments and dessert. Free. Registration required. 516-4423527. [email protected]. August 3 •Meditation Group: 7:30-9:30pm. Smithtown. Learn how to adjust to the accelerated energy on the planet while gaining guidance and centering yourself in these turbulent times. Newcomers welcome. $15 per week; discounts available. Registration required. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. August 5 SUMMER HOURS AT EISENHOWER PARK Pack even more summertime fun into your longer days with extended hours at the miniature golf course and outdoor batting cage at Eisenhower Park. Both facilities are open from 10am-9pm. With two 18-hole courses (Mountainside and Overlook), the popular mini-golf destination has something for everyone. Delightful landscaping and challenging holes are par for the course, and everything is wheelchair and stroller accessible. Fees are $7 for adults and $4 for seniors for one 18-hole round. The batting cage features nine stalls with three different speeds for baseball or softball (baseball speeds range from 40-85mph). The self-feeding system means that you don’t have to collect balls and feed the machine. Fees are $3 for 25 pitches. For more information, call 516-572-0407 or 0348. Eisenhower Park is located off Merrick Avenue, north of Hempstead Turnpike, in East Meadow. August 24 •Creative Writing Workshop: 11am. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. Professor Barbara Novack instructs all levels of writers in all genres. Free. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. •Meditation Group: see August 3 August 17 •Brain Tumor Support: See July 22. •Meditation Group: 7:30-9:30pm. Smithtown. Learn how to adjust to the accelerated energy on the planet while gaining guidance and centering yourself in these turbulent times. Newcomers welcome. $15 per week; discounts available. Registration required. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. August 31 August 25 •Neck and Back Pain Support: See July 28. August 26 •Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support: See July 21. •Meditation Group: 7:30-9:30pm. Smithtown. Learn how to adjust to the accelerated energy on the planet while gaining guidance and centering yourself in these turbulent times. Newcomers welcome. $15 per week; discounts available. Registration required. Also, registration has begun for a five-week meditation course beginning Sept. 21. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. August 19 Ongoing August 18 •Creative Writing Workshop: See Aug. 5. •Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support: See July 22. •Bridge Lessons: 7:30-9:30pm Thursdays beginning July 1. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. Free. 516-239-3262. •Cardio Ballroom: 11am Sundays. Sky Athletic Club, 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Centre. Learn to dance like the stars and lose weight. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. •Creative Writing: 11am Aug. 5 & 19. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. Professor Barbara Novack instructs this four-part summer workshop for all writing levels. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. •Koga: 10:30am Fridays. Sky Athletic Club, 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. This fusion of kickboxing and yoga was recently featured on the Dr. Oz Show. All levels are welcome. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. •NY Bellydance: 8:30pm Tuesdays and 10:30am Fridays. Sky Athletic Club, 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. All ages. Beginners welcome. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. •Tai Chi: 10:30am Wednesdays. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. Professionally-instructed class appropriate for all levels. $15 per session includes admission to gardens. 516-3330048. oldwestburygardens.org. •Yoga: 11:15am Thursdays & Saturdays. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Uniondale Avenue Park, Uniondale. Tonight’s performance features the party band Goldilocks. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 16 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Seamans Neck Park, Seaford. Tonight’s performance features Mike O’Brien & Storm Front, a Billy Joel tribute band. Free. 516-2929000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 17 •Long Island Philharmonic: 8pm. Heckscher State Park, East Islip. Program of American Classics. Free. $10 vehicle use fee until 5pm; after 5pm $10 donation requested. Canned and non-perishable food items are also requested for donation to Long Island Cares. 631-224-5420 or 631-581-2100. nysparks.com. July 20 •The Beach Boys: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. Freeport archivist Bill Shelley presents rare ‘60s television clips, promotional films and live concert performances. $13. 800-838-3006. 631-4237611. cinemaartscentre.org. •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Terrace Gardens Park, Inwood. Tonight’s performance features Caribbean sounds and melodies with Tribal Legacy. Free. 516-2929000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 21 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Dutch Broadway Park, Elmont. Tonight’s performance features Caribbean sounds and melodies with Tribal Legacy. Free. 516-2929000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 22 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. East Village Green, Levittown. Tonight’s performance features Bad Medicine with a Bon Jovi tribute. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 23 •The Beach Boys: 8pm. Theatre at Westbury, LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 33 Happenings July/August 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury. $56.50 & $66.50. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Forest Road Elementary School, Valley Stream. Tonight’s performance features the big band sounds of Manhattan Skyline. Free. 516-2929000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 24 •Wine Press Concert Series: 6-8pm (rain or shine). Sparkling Pointe, Rte. 48, Southold. Tonight’s vineyard concert features New York’s Most Dangerous Big Band. Take a lawn chair or blanket and a picnic dinner. Wine for sale by the glass or bottle. $15 in advance; $20 at gate. 631-727-0900. eastendarts.org. July 27 •Chaplin Shorts: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. An evening of Charlie Chaplin’s earliest and funniest shorts. $13. 800-838-3006. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Merrick Road Park, Merrick. Tonight’s performance features Wonderous Stories playing music from The Beatles and The Who. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. Hugh Prestwood & Friends. Take a lawn chair or blanket and a picnic dinner. Wine for sale by the glass or bottle. $15 in advance; $20 at gate. 631-727-0900. eastendarts.org. August 3 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Rock Hall Museum, Lawrence. Tonight’s performance features Vintage Bliss playing the hits of Frank Sinatra, Tony Bennett and Bobby Darin. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 4 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Rath Park, Franklin Square. Tonight’s performance features Lou Moneta & Gayle Scott playing a mix of swing and Sinatra. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 5 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Averill Boulevard Park, Elmont. Tonight’s performance features Randy and the Rainbows playing ‘60s hits. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 6 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Roosevelt Pool, Roosevelt. Tonight’s performance features Carolyn Harding playing rhythm and blues. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Speno Park, East Meadow. Tonight’s performance features Dr. Diamond with Brooklyn Roads Band with a Neil Diamond tribute and “Astronomy Under the Stars” program for telescopic observation of the moon, Saturn, Jupiter and star clusters. Free. 516-2929000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 29 August 10 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Oceanside Park, Oceanside. Tonight’s performance features the Nassau Pops Symphony Orchestra. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Hewlett Point Park, Bay Park. Tonight’s performance features Vintage Elvis. Free. 516292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 30 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Acorn Lane Park, Levittown. Tonight’s performance features the country sound of Darlene Prince & the Bragg Hollow Band. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 28 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Hendrickson Avenue Park, Elmont. Tonight’s performance features Knappertime playing rhythm and blues. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. July 31 •Wine Press Concert Series: 6-8pm (rain or shine). Castello di Borghese Vineyard, Rte. 48, Cutchogue. Tonight’s vineyard concert features August 11 August 12 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Seamans Neck Park, Seaford. Tonight’s performance features Barometer Soup with a Jimmy Buffet tribute. 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East Village Green, Levittown. Tonight’s performance features B-Street Band with a Bruce Springsteen tribute. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 18 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Shell Creek Park, Barnum Island. Tonight’s performance features Bell Bottom Blues with a Clapton tribute. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 19 •Sounds of Summer Concert Series: 8pm. Merrick Road Park, Merrick. Tonight’s performance features Desert Highway with an Eagles tribute. Free. 516-292-9000, ext. 382. toh.li. August 24 •The Beatles: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. Rare concert clips from Shelley Archives. $13. 800-838-3006. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Ongoing •Menopause the Musical: Through Aug. 29. Landmark on Main St., 232 Main St., Pt. Washington. 516-717-3990. menopauselongisland.com. •Senior Summer Wednesdays: Through Aug. 11. 11am-2pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Gather for lunch and entertainment. $20 per program or $110 for the series. Transportation is available at $6 per round trip. 516-8223535, ext. 347. miyjcc.org. E VE NTS July 21 •Minimally Invasive Facial Plastic Surgery and Non-Surgical Treatments: 5-6pm. 440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck. Registration required. 516-773-4646. August 25 •Minimally Invasive Facial Plastic Surgery and Non-Surgical Treatments: 5-6pm. 440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck. Registration required. 516-773-4646. Ongoing •Adult Connections: 7 or 7:30pm (time varies) Thursdays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. $10 dues per month. Additional fees apply occasionally for food (theme dinners, etc.). 516-766-4341, ext. 111. friedbergjcc.org. •Adult Happenings: 7:45-9:15pm Tuesdays. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Meetings feature guest speaker or entertainer. Ages 40 and up. 516-822-3535, ext. 328. miyjcc.org. •Baby Boomers Club: 7:30-9:30pm Wednesdays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. Calling everyone born between 1946 and 1964. $10. 516-634-4170. friedbergjcc.org. •Book Lovers Bonanza: 1:30-5pm Wednesdays. Extended hours until 8pm on the first Wednesday of each month. Merrick Library Wing, 2369 Merrick Ave., Merrick. Books are 50 cents to $1 and proceeds go toward library programming. Fill a tote bag to the brim for $8. 516-379-6434. •Connections: 6:30-7:45pm second and fourth Tuesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. Widow and widowers group for ages 50 and up. $9. 631-462-9800, ext. 139. syjcc.org. •Current Events Discussion Group: 11:30am-12:45pm Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. Facilitated discussion. Bagels, rolls, cream cheese, juice and coffee served. $5. 516-634-4169. friedbergjcc.org. •Farmers Market: 10am-3pm Wednesdays, April-November, subject to availability. Plainview Hospital, lobby, 888 E. Old Country Rd., Plainview. 516-719-3000 or 516-465-2520. northshorelij.com. •Farmers Market: 11:30am-2pm Thursdays. Southside Hospital, cafeteria, 301 E. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-968-3000 or 516-4652520. northshorelij.com. •Friendship Circle: 7:30-10pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Ages 60 and up. $6. 516-822-3535, ext. 335. miyjcc.org. •Give Back Sundays: 8am-noon Sundays. Zwanger-Pesiri Radiology provides uninsured Long Islanders with free radiologic services (MRI, x-ray, ultrasound etc.) once a month at either its Massapequa or Smithtown offices. 631-930-9460. ZPgivebacksundays.org. •Insurance Enrollment Sessions: 5-8pm first and third Thursday of each month. Franklin Hospital, Admitting Dept., 900 Franklin Ave., Valley Stream. Family & Child Health Plus free or low-cost health insurance available for NYS residents. 516-256-6397 or 866-381-1931. healthcareaccess.edu. •Mothers’ Support Group: 9:15-10:15am fourth Fridays. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Free. 516-8223535, ext. 383. miyjcc.org. •Night Sky Observing Sessions: 7pmmidnight Saturdays. Custer Institute and Observatory, 1115 Main Bayview Rd., Southold. Guided tours of the night sky through powerful telescopes. Weather permitting. Suggested donation $5. 631765-2626. CusterObservatory.org. •RADISH (Reserve a Day for Interesting Social Happenings): 11:30am-1:30pm Tuesdays. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Ages 60 and up. $6. 516822-3535, ext. 335. miyjcc.org. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] READER SURVEY HELP WANTED Looking for a Flexible Schedule and Rewarding Opportunity? Advertising Sales If you work well independently and have a home office (with internet and fax), then LONG ISLAND WOMAN has an an excellent advertising sales opportunity for your consideration. Some local travel required – must have car. This is a relationship-building, repeat business selling situation for experienced sales closers. Full time or part time. Email resume to [email protected]. 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GIANNOTTI, M.A., R.HY. 631-724-9733 www.lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com 36 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN Happenings July/August •R.A.P. (Retirees Activity Program): 24:15pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Ages 55 and up. $6. 516822-3535, ext. 335. miyjcc.org. •R.E.A.C.H. (Recreational, Educational, Artistic, Cultural Happenings): 10:30amnoon Tuesdays. Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills. Ages 60 and up. $10. 516-484-1545, ext. 134. sjjcc.org. •SAGE (Senior Adult Group Enthusiasts): 10:30am second Thursdays. Woodbury Jewish Center, 200 South Woods Rd., Woodbury. 516-496-9100. •Singles Chat & Chew: 7:45-8:15pm; refreshments served 8:15-9:30pm Wednesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. Group for all singles facilitated by a certified social worker. $9. 631-462-9800, ext. 139. syjcc.org. •Sociable Singles: 3-5pm first and third Thursdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. Group for active, single seniors ages 60 and up. $4. Registration required. 631-462-9800, ext. 121. syjcc.org. •Sophisticated Singles: 7:30-9:30pm Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. Singles ages 40 and up meet weekly; facilitated by Irwin Pfeffer. $8. 516766-4341, ext. 133. friedbergjcc.org. •Wednesday Club: 10:30am-1:30pm. MidIsland Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. Ages 70 and up. $6. 516-822-3535, ext. 335. miyjcc.org. E XH I BITS July 23 •Artists’ Reception: 6-8pm. Main Street Petite Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington. In connection with the Juried Landscape Exhibit. 631-2718423. huntingtonarts.org. Ongoing •America’s Kitchens: Through Oct. 17. The Long Island Museum, 1200 Rte. 25A, Stony Brook. Explores 200 years of the evolution of the kitchen, from open fire to microwave oven. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org. •Creative Solutions: Through Aug. 9. Art-trium Gallery, 25 Melville Park Rd., Melville. Annual members show featuring work in all media. 631271-8423. huntingtonarts.org. •Currents: Through Sept. 12. Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. Showcasing three contemporary artists. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. •Juried Landscape Exhibit: July 21-Sept. 7. Main Street Petite Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington. 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org. •NCMA’s Sculpture Park: Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. More than 50 works by renowned artists set amidst the 145-acre property. 516484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. •The Heckscher at 90: Then and Now: Through July 18. The Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington. Celebrating its 90th anniversary, the museum presents favorite works from the Permanent Collection and new acquisitions. 631-3513250. heckscher.org. •The Sea Around Us: Through Sept. 12. Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. Seascape art by American and European artists from the mid-19th century to the present. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org. O U T D O O RS July 24 •Kayak for a Cause: Crab Meadow, Huntington to Calf Pasture Beach, Norwalk, Conn. This 10th annual event has participants kayaking 12.4 miles across Long Island Sound to raise money for local charities. kayakforacause.com. August 7 •Butterflies, Dragons and Damsels: Nissequogue River State Park, Kings Park. Explore the fields and forests for native insects. $4. Registration required. 631-581-1072. nysparks.com. Ongoing •Butterfly House: Tuesdays in July and August. Suffolk County Farm, Yaphank. View native butterfly species in a hands-on environment. $2 per person. 631-852-4600. •Community Tours: 10-11:30am July 17, Aug. 7 and 14. Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory, Grace Auditorium, 1 Bungtown Rd., Cold Spring Harbor. Guided walking tour (primarily outdoors, rain or shine; areas of stairs and steep hills). $5. Reservations required. 516-367-8455. cshl.edu. •In-Line Skating: 10:15-11:30am Sundays through Oct. 24. Cedar Creek Park, Seaford. First lesson free. Take in-line skates, helmet, wrist guards and knee and elbow pads. $30 yearly membership for singles; $40 for couples or families. 516-690-7520. lirtsa.org. •NCMA’s Gardens and Walking Trails: Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. The 145-acre property features marked nature trails, formal gardens and horticultural arts. 516484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. •Sandcastle Contest: Thursdays through Aug. 26. Register at the Beachhouse, 9:3010:30am. Hither Hills State Park, Montauk. Prizes awarded for the best sculptors and castles in several categories. 631-668-2554. nysparks.com. •Tennis Tournament: Through Sept. 6. Hempstead Lake State Park, West Hempstead. $12 entry fee for singles; $15 entry fee for doubles. Registration required between June 1-30. 516-766-1029 or 631321-3510. nysparks.com. All listings for HAPPENINGS consideration must be submitted by email ([email protected]) by the first of the month for the following month. No information will be accepted by telephone. Listings are published on a space available basis. Deadline for September Happenings: August 1 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Support Groups Alcohol, Drug and Other Addictions AA/Al Anon Meetings ....631-473-1320/631-476-2723 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Bereavement Animal Bereavement Group....................516-785-6416 Plainview-Old Bethpage Library 999 Old Country Rd., Plainview Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside friedbergjcc.org Recently Bereaved Group ......................866-789-5423 Sunrise of N. Lynbrook, 53 Franklin Ave., N. Lynbrook Bereavement ..............................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Widows and Widowers 50+ .631-462-9800, ext. 139 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Care Center -- Children of Alcoholics Group .......................................................................516-378-2992 Bereavement...............................................516-465-2500 North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System (various locations) northshorelij.edu Families Anonymous.....631-474-9659/631-924-9357 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Bereavement ..............................................631-744-8566 St. Louis de Montfort R.C. Church Widow/Widower .........................516-766-4341,ext. 131 JCC of West Hempstead 711 Dogwood Ave., West Hempstead FEGS Partners in Caring/Friedberg JCC Alcoholics Anonymous 516-292-3040/631-669-1124 nassauny-aa.org; suffolkny-aa.org Bay Shore, 516-435-2863, Freeport, 516-223-9590 Food Addicts Anonymous..................... 631-338-9059 2701 Middle Country Rd., Lake Grove Bereavement ................................516-766-4341,ext. 131 Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside friedbergjcc.org Gamblers Anonymous .877-533-4395/877-442-4248 Bereavement ..............................................631-376-3850 Good Shepherd Hospice Overeaters Anonymous ...........................631-473-1320 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Bereavement ..............................................631-928-2377 Hope House Ministries Sexual Addictions Anonymous S-ANON, SA, COUPLES.....................................................347-531-5977 Maria Regina Church, 3945 Jerusalem Ave., Seaford Bereavement .............................516-822-3535, ext. 328 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Women for Sobriety .................................215-536-8026 womenforsobriety.org Bereavement ...............................516-484-1545,ext. 196 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Alzheimer’s Adult Children of Individuals with Alzheimer’s Groups ...............................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation liaf.org Alzheimer’s Association ............................................631-580-5100/800-272-3900 3281 Veterans Memorial Hwy., Ronkonkoma alz.org/longisland Alzheimer’s Group....................................631-264-0222 Broadlawn Manor, 399 County Line Rd., Amityville Alzheimer’s Patients Groups .............................................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation liaf.org Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group: 631-585-2020, ext. 260 The Community Programs Center of L.I., Ronkonkoma Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group................516-432-0570 Temple Emanu-El of Long Beach 455 Neptune Blvd., Long Beach Friendship Circle ........................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Let’s Do Lunch (Young Onset Alzheimer’s) .......................................................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Shabbat Respite Program.......516-822-3535, ext. 326 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Spouses of Alzheimer’s/Dementia Patients .......................................................................631-264-0222 Broadlawn Manor, 399 County Line Rd., Amityville Arthritis Arthritis Support Groups........................ 631-427-8272 Arthritis Foundation, Long Island Chapter, 501 Walt Whitman Rd., Melville arthritis.org Bereavement .............................631-581-4266, ext. 100 St. Mary’s Church, 20 Harrison Ave., East Islip maryseastislip.org Bereavement Group (suicide).............. 631-687-2960 Brookhaven Hospice Bereavement.............................631-462-9800, ext. 139 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Bereavement................................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Bereavement Groups for Children and Families ........................................................................516-626-1971 North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center Death of a Child Support Group ........ 631-738-0809 St. Sylvester’s Church, Robinson Ave., Medford Grief Share...................................................516-731-6736 Plainedge Baptist Church, 96 Stewart Ave., Bethpage Grief Share Support Group .....................516-561-5160 Bethlehem Assembly of God Church, 12 E. Fairview Ave., Valley Stream H.E.A.L.(Help Ease A Loss) ............................................631-265-4520/631-265-2810 St. Thomas of Canterbury Church Brooksite Dr., Smithtown Holocaust Survivors and Friends ......................................................631-462-9800, ext. 121 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Loss of a Baby............................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Loss of a Child..........................516-822-3535, ext. 328 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Loss of a Sibling .......................516-822-3535, ext. 328 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Recent Widow/Widower..........516-766-4341, ext. 131 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Lean On Me.................................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Live, Love & Laugh Again (breast cancer) .......................................................................631-476-2776 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Look Good, Feel Better............................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center Breast Health Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Widow/Widower .......................516-484-1545, ext. 196 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Metastatic Breast Cancer ..........................516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Widow/Widower (ages 40 and up .......516-395-8303 Parkway Community Church 95 Stewart Ave., Hicksville Mid-Island Skin Cancer ...........................516-352-4227 ccmac.org Widow/Widower (ages 50-60) .........................................................516-766-4341,ext. 131 Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside friedbergjcc.org National Ovarian Cancer Coalition (NOCC) .......................................................................631-672-2027 Long Island Chapter, Huntington Station ovarian.org Widows Group..........................516-822-3535, ext. 331 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd.,Plainview miyjcc.org Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer ............516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Widows and Widowers to Age 45 .....................................................631-462-9800, ext. 139 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer ............516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Breast and Other Cancers American Cancer Society .......................................516-921-6016 or 800-ACS-2345 cancer.org Breast Cancer ..............................................516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work, Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Breast and Ovarian Cancer Group .....................................................631-462-9800, ext. 129 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack www.suffolkyjcc.org Breast Cancer .............................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, Breast Health Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Breast Cancer Family and Friends ........631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center Breast Health Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Cancer Group.............516-256-6025 or 516-256-6478 Franklin Hospital, 900 Franklin Ave., Valley Stream Cancer Patient and Survivor Group .....631-675-9003 Long Island Cancer Help and Wellness Center, Bay Shore breastcancerhelpinc.org Cancer Groups...........................................516-465-2500 North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System (various locations) northshorelij.edu Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer .......................................631-476-2776 or 631-689-1854 Mather Hospital, 75 N. Country Rd., Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Post-Treatment for Breast Cancer...........516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 South Fork Breast Health Coalition......631-726-8606 southforkbreast.com Spanish-Speaking Women with Breast Cancer ........................................................................516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Spouses and Partners of Those with Breast Cancer ........................................................................516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Support for People With Oral and Head and Neck Cancer..............................516-759-5333; 800-377-0928 Syosset & Stony Brook spohnc.org Thyroid Cancer Survivors Hotline.........877-588-7904 Working Women with Breast Cancer ....516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Cancer Survivors........................................631-473-1320 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Young Women with Breast Cancer ........516-877-4314 Adelphi University School of Social Work Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline, 800-877-8077 Family Support............................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Caregiver Support Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition ........................................................................631-547-1518 hbcac.org Adult Children Caregivers........................516-742-2050 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Caregivers Group......................516-496-7550, ext. 217 LONG ISLAND WOMAN • July/August 2010 • 37 Support Groups F.E.G.S., 6900 Jericho Tpke., Syosset fegs.org Divorce Support Group ...........................516-992-2873 Alliance to Restore Integrity in Divorce (ARID) Caregivers Group .....................516-822-3535, ext. 328 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Divorced & Separated .....................516-822-3535 x331 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Caregivers Group.......................................516-742-2050 Temple Emanuel, 455 Neptune Blvd., Long Beach JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Divorced and Separated 12-Step Group .......................................................................718-468-2654 Community Church of East Williston Caregivers Groups ....................................631-585-2020 dayhaven.org Divorced and Separated Group .............................................................516-484-1545 x196 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Caregivers Group ................... 516-484-1545, ext. 196 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Caregivers Group ......................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Caregivers Group ....................631-462-9800, ext. 220 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Caring For Your Spouse ...........................516-742-2050 JCC of West Hempstead 711 Dogwood Ave., West Hempstead JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Let’s Do Dinner (spouses of Young Onset Alzheimer’s patients) ................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Let’s Do Pizza (kids with parents with Young Onset Alzheimer’s) ................................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Sandwich Generation ...............................516-742-2050 Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct.,Oceanside JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Spouses & Siblings.....................................516-742-2050 Temple Chaverim, 1050 Washington Ave., Plainview JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Spouses, Children & Siblings ..................516-742-2050 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Well Spouses or Partners of the Chronically Ill and Disabled .......................................................516-829-8740 St. Charles Rehab Center 201 I.U. Willets Rd., Albertson [email protected] Divorce & Separation Divorce Care ...............................................516-731-6736 Life Center of Bethpage, 110 Stewart Ave., Bethpage Family Violence and Child Abuse ..........516-485-5710 F.E.G.S. fegs.org .......................................................................516-496-7550 F.E.G.S., 6900 Jericho Tpke., Syosset fegs.org Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence 24-hr. hotline..............................................516-542-0404 cadvnc.org Health-Related/Miscellaneous Protection of Children and Young People .............................................................516-678-5800 x573 Diocese of Rockville Centre, 50 N. Park Ave., Rockville Centre Autoimmune ...............................................516-674-7833 Glen Cove Hospital 101 Saint Andrew’s Ln., Glen Cove Rape/Sexual Assault Hotline (Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence) ..516-222-2293 Brain Aneurysm “Circle of Friends”.......516-562-3815 The Brain Aneurysm Center at North Shore University Hospital, 9th Floor, Tower Conference Room, 300 Community Drive, Entrance 3, Manhasset [email protected] Behcet’s Disease ...................................... 631-956-1660 Divorced & Separated Groups ............. 631-462-9800 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Self-Esteem in Relationships ..................631-667-4188 Ascension Lutheran Church 33 Bay Shore Rd., Deer Park Divorced and Separated Group ............631-724-9462 Reflections Associates 15 Bellmeade Ave., Suite 3, Smithtown Sexual Abuse Survivors .........516-678-5800, ext. 573 Diocese of Rockville Centre, 50 N. Park Ave., Rockville Centre Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support Group .......................................................................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island www.lmni.org Marriage Alive Support Group ..............631-525-3646 Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic Violence ...........................................631-666-7181; 631-666-8833 sccadv.org Brain Tumor Support Group ..................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island www.lmni.org The Retreat (hotline for Domestic Violence) .......................................................................631-329-2200 Brain Tumor Patients and Their Families ............................................516-679-5075/516-946-0649 North Bellmore Public Library, 1551 Newbridge Rd., N. Bellmore guardianbrain.org Separated/Divorced Counseling Group516-599-1181 Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook Separation/Divorce...........................516-766-4341 x131 Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside friedbergjcc.org Singles................................................631-462-9800 x139 Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack suffolkyjcc.org Victims Information Bureau (VIBS) of Suffolk County ......................................................................631-360-3606 Eating Disorders Crohn’s & Colitis Group...........................516-222-5530 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Singles Group.............................................516-822-3535 Mid Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org ANAD (Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders) Parent Support Group........ 516-887-3371 Grace Lutheran Church & School 400 Hempstead Ave., Malverne [email protected] Singles Group 55+ ....................................516-766-4341 Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside friedbergjcc.org Eating Disorders....................................... 631-724-9462 Reflections Associates 15 Bellmeade Ave., Suite 3, Smithtown Singles Support and Discussion Group .......................................................................516-395-8303 Parkway Community Church, 95 Stewart Ave., Hicksville Eating Disorders.........................................631-473-3877 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Women Separating and Divorcing .......631-525-3646 Eating Disorders-Family Group ..............516-694-1054 HEED, 205 S. Service Rd., Plainview Epilepsy ........................................................631-474-6797 St. Charles Hospital, Port Jefferson Domestic Violence, Rape & Sexual Abuse Eating Disorders Support Group...........631-665-0097 Counseling Center for Eating Disorders Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support Group .......................................................................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island www.lmni.org Brighter Tomorrows ...................................631-395-3116 brightertomorrowsinc.org Child Abuse ...............................................631-439-0480 Child Abuse & Maltreatment Referrals 800-342-3720 Elder Abuse ................................................516-542-0404 Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 250 Fulton Ave., Hempstead Food Addicts Anonymous..................... 631-338-9059 2701 Middle Country Rd., Lake Grove National Eating Disorders Association-Long Island ........................................................................516-794-0415 900 Merchants Concourse, Ste. 403, Westbury neda-li.org NoBody’s Perfect Eating Disorder Program PATRICIA A BONO ANIMAL COMMUNICATOR PSYCHIC LOSE 2 DRESS SIZES WITHOUT DIET,SURGERY or EXERCISE See how Ardyss changes lives and improves health Alopecia............................631-680-0148; 415-472-3780 naaf.org Gain insight into the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspects of your animal friends Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia ............631-548-8237 Diabetes/Heart Club..................516-674-7833 or 7936 Glen Cove Hospital, Pratt Auditorium, 101 St. Andrew’s Ln., Glen Cove Diabetes Group..........................................516-596-4357 Hewlett House, 86 E. Rockaway Rd., Hewlett Epilepsy Foundation of Long Island .....516-739-7733 506 Stewart Ave., Garden City Fibromyalgia ............................................ 631-427-8272 Island Trees Library, 38 Farmedge Rd., Levittown arthritis.org Hearing Impaired and Cochlear Implant Patients ........................................................................718-470-8631 North Shore LIJ Health System Hearing and Speech Permanent Make-Up Center Picture Perfect 24/7 Leslie Iannetta Cosmetic Tattoo Artist, HPC Working with over 50 Long Island Plastic Surgeons and Salons Email: [email protected] Palm, Psychic, Tarot Card Readings, Spiritual Advisor Specializing in Reuniting Soul Mates Call Today for Peace of Mind 516-922-7574 516-766-1150 Business Opportunity An appointment with Ardyss will Change Your Life 631-499-1016 [email protected] 627 Commack Road, Commack, NY [email protected] www.patriciabono.com Call Karen 516-742-7451 Independent Distributor 38 • July/August 2010 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN 40 South Park Ave, Rockville Centre Nassau County DOH Certified To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Support Groups Center, 410 Lakeville Rd., New Hyde Park Self Help For Hard of Hearing People.631-549-3901 Harborfields Public Library, 31 Broadway, Greenlawn South Shore Women’s Heart ................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Hepatitis C Support Group (American Liver Foundation) ................................................631-754-4795 HIV/AIDS......................................................516-496-7550 F.E.G.S., 6900 Jericho Tpke., Syosset fegs.org Irritable Bowel Syndrome ......................516-371-0660 South Nassau Communities Hospital Counseling Center, 2277 Grand Ave., Baldwin Lesbian Group........................................... 631-748-4193 Sayville Congregational Church Lupus ............................................................516-783-3370 Lupus Foundation of LI. 2255 Centre Ave., Bellmore Lymphedema...............................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett 1in9.org Melanoma (Patients & Caregivers)........516-352-4227 [email protected] Multiple Sclerosis ......................................631-864-8337 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Myasthenia Gravis......................................516-567-1978 Massapequa Public Library 40 Harbour Ln., Massapequa Park Myasthenia Gravis......................................631-765-2186 Emma S. Clark Memorial Library, 120 Main St., Setauket National Federation of the Blind............516-868-8718 National Multiple Sclerosis Society, Long Island Chapter .............................631-864-8337/516-740-7227 40 Marcus Dr., Melville Neck and Back Pain Support Group .......................................................................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island www.lmni.org Ostomy Association of Long Island/Nassau.718-3474924 or 516-759-0734 Pain Management Support Group .......631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Parkinson’s Support Group.....................631-265-6621 Smithtown Parkinson Therapy Center, Smithtown Methodist Church 230 E. Main St., Smithtown Parkinson Disease Support Groups .....631-862-3560 Scleroderma................631-667-2655 or 631-968-3314 Southside Hospital TAROT PSYCHIC-MEDIUM READINGS 301 E. Main St., Fifth Floor Tower (5T), Bay Shore scleroderma.org Sleep Apnea ...............631-376-4299 or 631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Sleep Disorders ..........................................631-476-2721 Mather Hospital, 75 N. Country Rd., Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Stroke Survivors & Caregivers ................516-562-4947 North Shore University Hospital Manhasset 300 Community Drive, Entrance 3, Apt. Bldg. #304 National Infertility Network Exchange (NINE) .......................................................................516-794-5772 Region ..........................................................800-765-2810 northeast.resolve.org New Mothers’ Group ...............................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Single Parent Support Group.......516-822-3535 x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org Parenting (Special Needs).............516-484-1545 x200 Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Dr., East Hills sjjcc.org Smoking Cessation Mental Health Parents of Adult Children With a Developmental Disability ......................................................516-822-0028 ACLD (Adults and Children with Learning & Developmental Disabilities, Inc.) Lindner Center, 807 S. Oyster Bay Rd., Bethpage acld.org Counseling...................................................516-364-0794 F.E.G.S. fegs.org Emotions Anonymous.............................631-584-5604 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Mental Illness Family Support ...............516-504-HELP Mental Health Association of Nassau County, 16 Main St., Hempstead Mental Health Association in Suffolk County .......................................................................631-226-3900 199 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst mhasuffolk.org Mood Disorder Group..............................516-546-1370 South Nassau Communities Hospital Outpatient Clinic, Baldwin National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) ...........................................516-694-7327/800-950-6264 NAMI Long Island Regional Council, Old Bethpage nami.org Postpartum Depression ...........................631-422-2255 Postpartum Resource Center of New York postpartumNY.org. Suicide Prevention Hotline.......................800-SUICIDE Parenting & Family Issues Adoption Hotline........................................516-799-7445 JCCA Developmental Disabilities Institute.....631-360-4600 Smithtown (family support services) ddiinfo.org Grandparents Raising Grandchildren...516-569-6600 Peninsula Counseling Center, 124 Franklin Place, Woodmere Homebirth Group.....................................631-834-5586 [email protected] Long Island Infant Developmental Program .......................................................................516-546-2333 early intervention and parent support Imagine the Possibilities… Wake-Up with Make-Up IN PERSON - BY PHONE AVAILABLE FOR PARTIES: PRIVATE • BUSINESS • CORPORATE USUI/KARUNA REIKI MASTER TEACHER & PRACTITIONER PRIVATE & DISTANCE SESSIONS CLASSES OFFERED PATRICIA BONO 516-922-7574 [email protected] www.patriciabono.com PERMANENT COSMETICS by Phoebe Reines Receive $50 Off Parenting Young Children .......................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, West Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Parents of Children Diagnosed with Psychological Disorders .....................................................631-271-2999 Western Suffolk Psychological Services 755 New York Ave., Huntington Parents of Children With Autism .............................................................516-822-3535 x332 Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview miyjcc.org American Cancer Society...................... 800-ACS-2345 516-921-6016 or 631-436-7070 cancer.org Green Seminars.........................................800-342-1303 John T. 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After bursting onto the music scene in late 1983 with her multi-platinum debut, She’s So Unusual, Lauper instantly became a pop culture icon. However, as time went on and she garnered more success, she became isolated from her fans and eventually disconnected. With the release of her latest CD, Shine, Lauper is reconnecting with her audience and winning critical praise along the way. LONG ISLAND WOMAN recently spoke with Lauper, about the rebirth of her career, her change in perspective since becoming a mother and why age doesn’t matter to her anymore. She will appear at Westbury Music Fair on August 31st. Cyndi Lauper’s TR UE LONG ISLAND WOMAN: Now that you’re fifty years-old, do you ever look back at pictures of yourself in the eighties and wonder what you were thinking? Cyndi Lauper: It was a different time back then. Most of my friends kinda looked like that with those clothes and what not. Maybe they didn’t go as crazy with the make-up, but I liked the make-up. I was always told, “You can’t wear your make-up like that, it’s really corny!” I was like, “OK, but I like it.” When did that whole cartoonish image cease? With my fourth album, Hat Full of Stars (1993). From a musical standpoint, I got back to my roots. I needed to evaluate why I got into this business in the first place. I did this to become the best artist I could be as me. I needed to take off all the war paint to find myself. How much of that girl from the eighties is still in you? I still get the shakes when I pass the color department in a drug store (laughs). I always go right to the color! It gets all over the pillowcases. I used to get calls from the hotel front desk, “Could you possibly not use that blue you’re using.” How did becoming a mother effect you as an artist? It opened up my heart and changed my perspective on life. It’s enriched me as a writer and an artist. You have to have a real life in order to write. You can’t live in an ivory tower and expect to feel a connection with humanity. Do you feel as if you’re in the midst of a comeback? I am coming back - I’m coming back to the people. I feel extraordinarily by David J. Criblez CO LO RS LIW Digital Edition Bonus Pages blessed. It’s different than before because I’m directly connected to and affected by the strength of the people. In the beginning, it was about the people but as I got more successful I became cut off from the people. Now I’m coming back to them. What did you think of VH1’s “Behind the Music” program they did on you? I think they did a good job. But, it’s weird to watch. At first, I could hardly watch it. I was like, “Oh my God is that what I looked like? Oh my God, is that what I wore?” But I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s all good. You recently turned fifty. Does age bother you? Sometimes it does when I buy into that stupid belief system that everyone has that you’re supposed to do this by this age, you’re supposed to do that at that age. I don’t look at my work as a career, it’s a vocation, it’s a craft. If the Rolling Stones can do it, why can’t I? We live in a different time. It’s not what we are being bought and sold as. For example, look at what’s out there in the fashion world. Who really looks like those models? Why is it that the majority of women in this country are size 14 and that’s not even in the stores or considered in fashion. It’s ludicrous. The size 14s can still go out and look cool because you wear what looks good on you. How important is fashion to you? I like to look nice and wear fashionable things. I still mix things up and wear things that don’t go together because I like everything with a twist. I’m wearing a lot of suits these days. It took me a while to come into what I like. Are you still looking to act? I’ve been looking at some projects. A recurring part in something that’s funny would be good so I can still do my music. Do you consider yourself a diva? Honey, I was a diva when I was four! Does your seven year-old son enjoy what his mom does for a living? He loves my videos and he plays along on the drums. He’s been playing drums since the age of two. It was not our first choice but his. He does it well and we encourage him. He also plays dress-up a lot. He’ll often put on his policeman outfit and come and arrest my husband and I. He’s got a great imagination. Have you made your masterpiece yet? I don’t know. I’m still going forward. But, I think it’s worth chasing.r Cyndi Lauper interview from Long Island Woman August 2003