DAR News - Mississippi State Society DAR
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DAR News - Mississippi State Society DAR
NATIONAL THEME 2010-2013: Preserve the Past, Enhance the Present, Invest in the Future STATE THEME 2010-2013: The time is NOW! Mississippi State Society STATE SCRIPTURE: Ecclesiastes 3:1: To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven. DAR News STATE HYMN: God of our Fathers STATE REGENT’S PROJECT: Cookin’ up an office space Volume 25, Number 6 www.mississippidar.org www.mississippidar.org/ourpage State Board of Management State Regent Janet Looney Whittington Post Office Box 159 Bentonia, MS 39040-0159 Phone (662) 755-2308 [email protected] Regent’s Remarks First Vice Regent Pamela Graham White 108 Camp Garaywa Road Clinton, MS 39056-5410 Second Vice Regent/ Newsletter Editor Charla Mitchell Jordan 112 Bella Vista Drive Brandon, MS 39042-8250 Chaplain Anna Majure Royston 108 Newport Circle Clinton, MS 39056-5430 Recording Secretary Harriet Holton Phalen 615 South 19th Avenue Hattiesburg, MS 39401-7453 Corresponding Secretary Annis Guess Dickerson 31926 Attala Highway 19 West, MS 39192-8359 Organizing Secretary Rebecca Raney Lamb 407 Lincoln Avenue Greenwood, MS 38930-2319 Treasurer Martina Palmertree Mayfield 36 County Road 3 Vaiden, MS 39176-5331 Registrar Billie Foutch Breedlove 101 Allen Street Batesville, MS 38606-2302 Historian Amelia Katherine Langford Post Office Box 105 Lena, MS 39094-0105 Librarian Wendy Davis Cartwright Post Office Box 52 Yazoo City, MS 39194-0052 Curator Mary Francis Willard 81 Roxie Road Roxie, MS 39661-9601 Rosalie Governing Board Chairman Cindy Segraves Phillips 372 Sundial Road Madison, MS 39110-8772 Parliamentarian Mary Sue Douglas 416 Oak Bend Brandon, MS 39047-7292 Dear Mississippi Daughters, The last three years have passed so quickly. In only a month, I will pass the beautiful Mississippi State Regent’s pin, with its golden wheel, opals, and sapphires, to Billie Breedlove. It is a joy to hand the reins to such a competent, organized, and thoughtful leader. The next three years are going to be great. We’re going to work hard and have fun while we do it. But before we change places, I would like to thank each of you for the support the Whittington Administration’s projects have received. I do think we have accomplished a few good things during this term. We sent a bus to KDS in Alabama to learn about and support our DAR School Committee. Mississippi has been on the platform all three years at KDS Dedication Day, and we have been present at each Awards Day, as well. On the subject of buses, in a few weeks we will roll TWO full buses to Continental Congress. I hope these ladies will return home full of enthusiasm to share with their chapters! Mississippi Daughters have accomplished so much in the day-to-day work of the DAR program. Our Master Questionnaire results have been excellent, and under Susan Cassagne’s leadership, they have been 100% on-line for the last two years. Our Chapter Achievement reports show that our chapters are hard at work in their communities, and Berkeley Ostrander’s leadership has made the reporting process painless. If I had the space, I could list the accomplishments of each and every awesome State Chairman. I am so proud to be a Mississippi Daughter. At Rosalie, under the capable leadership of Cindy Phillips, some great things have happened. Polly Grimes finished her valuable digitization of Rosalie’s contents project. This is a gift that will “keep on giving” for years to come. June 2013 The Resident Manager’s apartment in the Dependency has increased security and safety with the addition of the north wall in the historic kitchen. We have “Cooked Up an Office Space” and now have a much more efficient, productive, and attractive office space. These improvements could not have been made without the generous giving and loving support of the Mississippi chapters and Daughters. I also remind you that we got the anklebreaker big gravel out of the parking lot at Rosalie. This is a little thing, but it shows the type of attention to detail that the Rosalie Governing Board has displayed for this administration. We have finished some special projects, as well. After the President General made a special appeal for help, Mississippi Daughters supported the Lay Light restoration project in our worldfamous DAR Library by donating over $15,000 to this vital preservation effort. When we are at Congress this summer, the donors’ display will be unveiled, and Mississippi will be “on the wall” with the rest of the country. We have continued a 100-year tradition of support for each USS Mississippi by creating and donating a perfect tray for the new submarine and its crew. This gift will put the Mississippi DAR into the view of world leaders for the next 35 years or so. Your State Board of Management deserves a huge thank you. They have given generously of their energy, their time, and their finances to make this administration a success. Each officer has been an outstanding leader and DAR. Finally, I would like to thank the chapters that have permitted me to visit with them. Every chapter visit has been a joy. I have learned more than I have taught through these visits, and I am honored and humbled to have been your State Regent. Thank you for this amazing experience. In DAR service, Janet Looney Whittington State Regent REPORT OF THE ROSALIE GOVERNING BOARD CHAIRMAN www.RosalieMansion.com Dearest Daughters, As I write this final report for the DAR News as Chairman of the Rosalie Governing Board during the Whittington Administration, my heart is full of gratitude for all the love and support you have shown me and our “Lovely Lady” during the past three years. My deepest appreciation is expressed to our outstanding State Regent Janet Looney Whittington for her trust in me to serve in this position. The Rosalie Governing Board also expresses its sincere appreciation to Mrs. Whittington for her complex and multifaceted state regent’s project, “Cooking Up an Office Space.” Its completion has added to the security of the resident manager and has given Rosalie a kitchen/office space that will be lovely and useful for years to come. It has been a busy but rewarding three years. The dedication of the members of the Rosalie Governing Board has made the work lighter and the difficult decisions easier. They have cheerfully fulfilled their duties and enabled Rosalie to continue as the beautiful property that she is and will continue to be. Thank you all! S pri ng P i lgr im age was ver y successful this year. Individual tourists and bus tours continue to come, as do the guests from the American Queen boat. The Board joins me in expressing our appreciation to every Daughter who came to receive this spring. Your support is invaluable. Thank you each and every one! The Powder Room under the stairs of the Dependency is nearly finished. Much appreciation is expressed to Third Arrow Chapter for its donation which made this project possible. It has a new look that everyone will enjoy and appreciate. The winter flowers have been removed and the summer ones are being planted. I love to watch the gardens change from season to season. The camellias gave us their lovely blossoms in the winter, the azaleas bloomed profusely this spring, and the Skyflower vine is starting to climb the latticework in the breezeway. Its beautiful blue flowers will again grace the back garden later in the summer. Our staff at Rosalie has been outstanding in its care and concern for Rosalie and the people who come to visit her. They have been devoted to see that all runs perfectly. I cannot thank them enough for their dedication and constancy. My best wishes are extended to the incoming Chairman and Governing Board. I wish for them a smooth and successful three years. Serving Rosalie is a special and unique experience. The happy memories will last a lifetime. I will close this final report by ex pr es s ing to th e Mis s is s ippi Daughters my deepest appreciation for their love and constant support of me, the Rosalie Board and staff, and our “Lovely Lady.” You are the best! As I have told you before, you have always made my heart sing! Yours in service to Rosalie and DAR, Cindy Segraves Phillips Chairman, Rosalie Governing Board JAMES GILLIAM CHAPTER Mississippi State Society National Society Daughters of the American Revolution Invites all Daughters to a reception honoring BILLIE FOUTCH BREEDLOVE STATE REGENT-ELECT Friday, July 26, 2013 5:00 - 6:30 p.m. Panola Country Club 225 Country Club Road Batesville, Mississippi BRING SCHOOL SUPPLIES TO SUMMER DISTRICT WORKSHOPS For KDS DAR School WE NEED YOU TO SERVE AS HOSTESS AT ROSALIE 2013 Fall Pilgrimage in Natchez is September 27 to October 14. We need Daughters to serve as hostesses at Rosalie every day during Pilgrimage. Costumes are available for $15 per day. Come, bring a friend, and have fun! Contact: Hostess Chairman Jennifer Nettles 601-956-7461, [email protected] Hostess Co-Chairman Priscilla Harper 662-746-5749, [email protected] Elmer’s school glue Glue sticks #2 pencils Colored pencils Crayola Crayons (24 pack) USB flash drives (2 or 4 GB) Construction paper Sharpie markers (black and colored) Washable markers Scissors (children’s and full size) Pencil sharpeners Pocket folders with prongs Subject dividers (Please do not purchase spiral notebooks to give to KDS. Very few teachers allow students to use them, and a large supply of them is on hand at this time. ) 2013 MSSDAR SUMMER DISTRICT WORKSHOPS Registration: 8:00 a.m. Business Meeting: 9:00 a.m. TIMES ARE THE SAME FOR ALL MEETINGS Registration: $20 (includes “working” lunch) Mail forms to District Directors (addresses below) NAME:______________________________________________________________________CHAPTER:___________________________________________________ CURRENT OFFICES CHAPTER/STATE: ________________________________________________________________________________________________ DISTRICT (check one) _____Coastal Plains _____Delta _____Heartland _____Hills AMOUNT ENCLOSED: $20.00 - Make check payable to “State Treasurer, MSSDAR” Cut here and mail form with check (copy form as needed) HILLS DISTRICT: FRIDAY, JULY 26, 2013 Director: Martha Lawrence, 662-289-1688 Location of Meeting/Hotel: Hilton Garden Inn, 975 Highway12 East, Starkville, MS 39739, 662-615-9664. Cost of Hotel: DAR rate of $99.00 is available until July 12, 2013. Directions to meeting/ hotel: From Jackson, take Highway 25 North. Merge onto US 82 E/MS 25 N toward Columbus/West Point/MSU. Go past the first Highway 12 East exit. Take 2nd Hwy 12 and Davis Wade Stadium exit. Hotel is on the right. From Highway 82 East or West, take exit for Highway 12 and Davis Wade Stadium. Hotel is on the right. Mail registration form and check payable to “State Treasurer, MSSDAR” to: Martha Lawrence, P. O. Box 827, Kosciusko, MS 39090, by July 12. Dinner on Thursday night: Out-of-town Daughters arriving on Thursday, July 25, are invited to dinner at 6:30 p.m. at the home of Hellen Polk. Donations for the dinner will benefit Rosalie. RSVP by July 12, 2013 to [email protected] or 662-324-7211. Hostess Chapters: Bernard Romans, Dancing Rabbit, Hic-A-Sha-Ba-Ha, Nanih Waiya, Old Choctaw County, Samuel Hammond, Shuk-ho-ta Tom-a-ha. DELTA DISTRICT: SATURDAY, JULY 27, 2013 Director: Susie Thomas, 662-721-0975 calls and text messages (no voice mail) 662-754-3583 (answering machine) Location of Meeting: Batesville First United Methodist Church, 119 Panola Avenue, Batesville, MS 38606 Hotel: Holiday Inn, 210 Power Drive, Batesville, MS 38606, 662-563-1234. Cost of Hotel: DAR rate: $115 + tax. Directions to hotel: Hotel is at the intersection of I-55 and Hwy 6. From I-55 take exit 243B to merge onto MS-6 W/US-278 W toward Batesville. Turn left at first traffic light onto Power Drive. Hotel is on left. Directions to meeting: From I-55, take exit 243B to merge onto MS 6 W/US 278 W toward Batesville. Go 2 miles. Turn right onto Eureka St/MS 35. Continue for 0.4 miles. MS 35 becomes Public Sq. Stay straight to go onto Panola Ave/Martin Luther King Dr. 119 Panola Avenue is on the left. Mail registration form and check payable to “State Treasurer, MSSDAR” to: Susie M. Thomas, P.O. Box 859, Shaw, MS 38773, by July 12. Hostess Chapters: Chief Mussacunna, Felix LaBauve, Grenada, James Gilliam, and Rosannah Waters. COASTAL PLAINS DISTRICT: FRIDAY, AUGUST 2, 2013 Director: Lynn Deegen, 228-297-5708 Location of Meeting: C. L. Neil Building, Jones County Junior College, 900 S. Court Street, Ellisville, MS 39437. Hotel #1: Hampton Inn, 1509 Jefferson St., Laurel, MS 39440, 601-399-0659. $119.00 + tax. There are 20 rooms on hold for the DAR. They have “breakfast on the house” and “breakfast to go.” Hotel #2: Comfort Suites, 1820 Jefferson St., Laurel, MS 39440, 601-649-2620. $109.00 + tax. Directions to meeting from hotel: I-59 west towards Hattiesburg. Take Exit 90. Take Hwy 11 to South Front Street. You should see the campus. Go over the railroad tracks, take the first right (which is Bush Street), go straight at the 4-way stop. The cafeteria is the building on the right. Directions to meeting from I-59: Take Hwy 11 to South Front Street. You should see the campus. Go over the railroad tracks, take the first right (which is Bush Street), go straight at the 4-way stop. The cafeteria is the building on the right. Mail registration form and check payable to “State Treasurer, MSSDAR” to: Lynn Deegen, 528 Mockingbird Drive, Long Beach, MS 39560, by July 19. Hostess chapters: Chickasawhay, Nahoula, Norvell Robertson, Shadrack Rogers, Tallahala, Twentieth Star, Unobee. HEARTLAND DISTRICT: SATURDAY, AUGUST 3, 2013 Director: Martha Denny, 601-209-0610 Location of Meeting: Ridgecrest Baptist Church, 7469 Old Canton Road, Madison, MS 39110. Hotel: Hilton Garden Inn, 320 New Mannsdale Road, Madison, MS. 39110, 601-420-0442. Cost of Hotel: DAR Rate $104.00 + tax available until July 19, 2013. Directions to hotel: From I-55, take Madison Exit 108 (Main St/MS-463). From the south, turn left over interstate. From the north, turn right when you exit. Go 0.5 miles to New Mannsdale Road. Hotel is on the right just past Bonefish Grill. Directions to meeting from hotel: From the hotel, turn left onto Main Street/MS-463. Cross I-55 and continue east on Main Street. Stay to left on Madison Parkway when the road forks. Continue on Madison Parkway. At traffic light at Old Canton Road, turn right. Go 1.8 miles. Ridgecrest Baptist Church is on the right. Directions to meeting: From I-55, take Madison Exit 108 (Main St/MS-463. From the north, turn left over interstate. From the south, turn right when you exit. Go east on Main Street. Stay to left on Madison Parkway when the road forks. Continue on Madison Parkway. At traffic light at Old Canton Road, turn right. Go 1.8 miles. Ridgecrest Baptist Church is on the right. Mail registration form and check payable to “State Treasurer, MSSDAR” to: Martha Denny, P. O. Box 13805, Jackson, MS 39236-3805, by July 19. Hostess Chapters: Annandale, Doak’s Treaty, Fort Rosalie, James Foster, Magnolia State, Ralph Humphreys, and Rebecca Cravat. MANSION MARKET will be open for business at the Summer District Workshops. Remember, bring your items for sale and don’t forget to shop! DATES TO REMEMBER Questions? Contact Vicki Wilson, Mansion Market Chairman. 601-405-5647 cell or 601-856-7515 [email protected] 122nd Continental Congress June 26 - June 30, 2013 KDS BUS TRIP October 7-9, 2013 We are happy to announce that plans are being made for a bus trip October 7-9, 2013 to Kate Duncan Smith DAR School in Grant, Alabama, for the annual Dedication Day program and activities. It is exciting to meet the children who attend and love KDS and Daughters who so lovingly support the institution. Mark your calendar and plan to participate. You will receive further information during the summer district workshops. Anna Royston DAR School State Chairman 601-924-9346, [email protected] Fall Pilgrimage Rosalie Open Every Day September 27 – October 14, 2013 District Meetings July 26, 2013 – Hills July 27, 2013 – Delta August 2, 2013 – Coastal Plains August 3, 2013 – Heartland KDS Bus Trip October 7-9, 2013 Rosalie Day Activities October 29-30, 2013 Deadline for December 2013 MSSDAR News Submissions November 15, 2013 MSSDAR State Conference February 12-15, 2014 PASSING THE GAVEL State Regent Janet Whittington passed the gavel to State Regent-Elect Billie Breedlove at the last meeting of the Whittington Administration State Board of Management. WELCOME NEW MEMBERS We are happy to announce that 76 Daughters joined the Mississippi State Society from January 1, 2013 through May 31, 2013. Fifty-seven new Daughters were added to our roll by application, 12 transferred in from another state, and seven were reinstated. We wish each Daughter many rewarding and happy years in DAR circles of friendship, service, and commitment. Billie F. Breedlove, MSSDAR Registrar Annandale: Leslie Coleman Jan Fulton** Jane Jones Cynthia Prestage Anna Robinson Ashmead: Carmine Bell** Bernard Romans: Rebecca Maurer Biloxi: Carol Walters* Rosina Lepre* Chakchiuma: Carolyn Strueber Chickasaw Nation: Sharon Peacock** Chief Mussacunna: Debra Gatlin** Sandra Stafford* Betty Weeks** Cherokee Rose: Sharron Malpass Chief Red Jacket: Elizabeth Cosper Chief Tishomingo: Rosa Spencer* David Holmes: Margaret Pickett David Reese: Nancy King Allyson Notestone Candace Stanley Declaration of Independence: Barbara Walker* Duchess De Chaumont: Emily Bosarge Felix La Bauve: Patricia Corrigan Anne Harrington Frances Thompson Fort Rosalie: Abigail Lipinski Grenada: Janette Kirkham** Harmon Runnels: Judy Clyburn Hic-A-Sha-Ba-Ha: Amy Davis** Ish-Te-Ho-To-Pah: Linda Womack** Jackson Military Road: Melissa Harvey Shauna Harvey James Foster: Allie Shepard James Gilliam: Bettie Barnes** Hillary Brown Roxanne Brown Charlotte Graves Maegan Love Gladys McAdoo** April Tomlin Amanda Wolfe Judith Robinson: Jane Ard Nancy Koehler** Elouise Lee Tammy Strickland Lynn Williams Loosa Schoona: Malinda Bryant Mary Stuart: Sherry Davis Beulah Kay Vicky King Kay Nelson** Malinda Prewitt Donna Riles Sarah Sheperd Nahoula: Amanda Bradshaw Sarah Caves Nanih Waiya: Laura Brown Doris Dodd Brenda Hunt Margaret Taylor Old Choctaw County: Janice Hale Allie Perkins Ole Brook: Sonya Thames Rebecca Cravat: Dorothy Gamblin* Melissa Johnson Shuk-Ho-Ta Tom-A-Ha: Melissa Price Jessica Smith Third Arrow: Angela Shields Thomas Rodney: Anita Gipson Twentieth Star: Allison Gore Victoria Gore Walter Leake: Sarah Allbritton* Emily Hunt Emily Massingale Susan McIlwain *Reinstatement **Transfer in from another state MISSISSIPPI DAUGHTERS AT 122nd CONTINENTAL CONGRESS A record number of Mississippi Daughters attended Continental Congress for the first time this year. Many came on one of the two Mississippi buses. They attended the Memorial Service and installation of newly-elected Vice President General Janet Looney Whittington, State Regent Billie Foutch Breedlove, and State First Vice Regent Cindy Clayton McNamara on Sunday, June 30, before heading home. MISSISSIPPI BREAKFAST Mississippi Daughters in antebellum costumes welcomed guests to the “Rosalie” Mississippi Breakfast on June 26, 2013. We were pleased to welcome Selah Cowan, National Third Place Winner, 7th Grade, American History Essay Contest, at Educational Awards Night on June 27. Ms. Cowan was sponsored by Natchez Chapter, Natchez, Mississippi. She is pictured with State American History Chairman Hellen Polk (left) and with her family (right). CAMEO SOCIETY LUNCHEON The annual Cameo Society luncheon was held at The Grand Old Post Office located on the historic square in downtown Canton, Mississippi. Speaker Ann Tindall gave a program on her family’s unique relationship to the original owners of Rosalie Mansion, our State Headquarters in Natchez. Some of the mother-daughter pairs are pictured. CAMEO SOCIETY LUNCHEON PHOTOS COMMEMORATIVE EVENTS REMEMBERING VETERANS AT OLD BRANDON CEMETERY On Memorial Day members of CHIEF RED JACKET CHAPTER, Brandon, dressed in period costume and placed flowers on graves of veterans in Old Brandon Cemetery. They were remembering the beginnings of Memorial Day in Friendship Cemetery in Columbus, Mississippi, where women laid flowers on the graves of both Confederate and Union soldiers after the end of the Civil War. They also gave a costumed skit on the beginnings of Memorial Day at the Memorial Day ceremony held at the Rankin County Justice Center. Pictured, seated: Cindy Mangum. Standing (l to r): Penny Reinhardt, Susan Newton, Lindsey Murphy, Chapter Regent Maxine Nolen, Pat Dampier, and Charla Jordan. DAR AWARDS GOOD CITIZEN, GOOD CITIZENSHIP, AND ROTC MAGNOLIA STATE CHAPTER presented DAR Good Citizen, DAR Good Citizenship, and ROTC awards to students of Ridgeland, Mississippi schools at their May meeting at the Old Capitol Museum in Jackson. Back row (l to r): Martha Denny, Regent; Bree Berryman, 8th Grade, Olde Towne Middle School; Juliette Richert, 9th Grade, Ridgeland High School, Robert Dashiell Martin, 12th Grade, Ridgeland High School, Air Force ROTC Bronze Medal; Justin Necaise, 10th Grade, Ridgeland High School. Front row (l to r): Helen Marcellus, 7th Grade, Olde Towne Middle School; Michelle Nguyen, 11th Grade, Ridgeland High School; Kristian Johnson-Thompson, 5th Grade, Highland Elementary; Mrs. Bea Berry, Awards Chairman. Not pictured: Olivia Travis, 12th Grade, Ridgeland High School, recipient of the DAR Good Citizen Award and Scholarship; and Tia Webber, 6th Grade, Olde Towne Middle School. AMERICAN HISTORY ESSAY CONTEST 6TH GRADE STATE WINNER Caleb Owens, Presbyterian Day School student sponsored by MADAME HODNETT CHAPTER, Cleveland, was the 6th grade state winner in the DAR American History Essay Contest. Caleb is son of Eric R. and Laura Owens and grandson of Harriet Pearson from Cleveland, Mississippi. He is pictured with Mississippi Senator Roger Wicker at the National Defense Luncheon held during the 107th MSSDAR State Conference. AMERICAN HISTORY ESSAY CONTEST THIRD PLACE NATIONAL WINNER Congratulations to Selah Cowan, Third Place National winner in the American History Essay Contest. Ms. Cowan is a seventh-grade student at Wilkinson County Christian Academy in Woodville, Mississippi. Her impressive essay about Anna Smith Strong, a member of the Culper Spy Ring during the American Revolutionary War, is copied below. Ms. Cowan was sponsored by NATCHEZ CHAPTER, Natchez, Mississippi. (Photo courtesy of THE NATCHEZ DEMOCRAT, Jay Sowers, photographer.) Forgotten Patriots Who Supported the American Struggle for Independence If you have ever heard of the Culper Spy Ring, as in the American Revolution, you have probably heard about Anna Smith Strong, a very important woman. In the American Revolution, Anna “Nancy” Strong played an important role to lead the colonies to victory against the British, also known as the Redcoats. In the American Revolution, the British invaded New York Harbor and imprisoned many people, including Strong’s husband, Judge Selah Strong. Anna was loyal in helping, so she could free her husband and the colonies. Anna Smith Strong was one of the few women in the Culper Spy Ring, named her last known child after General George Washington, and developed her own spy code, for which she is mainly known. When you think about spies, what gender do you imagine? I think most people would think of strong, brave, respectful men. It is often the same when people visualize a soldier; some people even think that only men should serve. But in the Culper Spy Ring, there were two courageous women, Anna Strong and Agent 355. To most people it is shocking to learn that there were two females as spies. As a young girl I think it is extraordinary that these respectful, brave women followed the general’s commands. It is known that Strong admired and respected the general, George Washington. I have read many things which lead me to believe that Anna Strong must have truly respected and admired George Washington. One reason I am sure she respected him was simply because he was the general, but I think the main thing that leads me to believe that she respected Washington is the fact that she gave her last known son his name. After her husband was no longer imprisoned, that had a son together and named him George Washington Strong. I consider that very respectful and admirable of her. If I was her son, I would definitely be proud of the impact that Anna had on the war and also for the distinguished name I was given. Another interesting fact about Anna Strong is the fact that she developed her own spy code. Although the already used invisible ink that could only been seen by placement over heat or by using a chemical such as sodium carbonate, Anna developed another code using her laundry on her clothes line. As one part of the code, she hung her black petticoat on her clothes line; it meant that the British army, a British soldier, or a British spy was nearby. Then she would hang different colored handkerchiefs in a specific way to identify their location. It is also a fact that when an American spy wrote a letter with valuable information about the British, he would bury it. Another spy would dig it up, but he would first check to see if a British spy was around; that’s when Strong’s unique spy code came in handy. Each of these brave acts were leading to freedom. Anna Smith Strong, known to some as Nancy, was one of only two women who served as a spy in the Culper Spy Ring, she respectfully named her son after George Washington, and developed her own spy code using laundry and a clothes line. Strong was born in 1740 and died in 1812. The Daughters of the American Revolution even have a chapter named after Anna Smith Strong. I believe that this is a great memorial to the importance of Strong’s efforts in the Revolutionary War. This Revolution was for our freedom from the British. Interestingly, the colonists who were not trained, had very few soldiers, and almost no experience, fought against the British, an army of thousands of men who were highly trained and had better weapons. This makes me very proud of all the soldiers including those forgotten like Prince Estabrook, Mary Washington, Phyllis Wheatly, Anna Smith Strong, and so many more. Many soldiers had to die in the American Revolution as they still do today in our present day wars; these are lives that should not be forgotten, and the legacy they left behind should be honored and be inspirational to us all. I have a great deal of respect and think highly of American soldiers, the American Revolution era, and the wars fought today for our freedom because, whether celebrated or unsung, each hero fought selflessly for you and me. DAR SERVICE TO VETERANS Members of CHIEF RED JACKET CHAPTER, Brandon, participated in the “Running for Jason” 5K run/walk held in memory of SSgt Jason Rogers, a Marine that was killed in the Helmand Province of Afghanistan on April 7, 2011. Proceeds from the race go to support military members, wounded warriors, and their families in various capacities. The event was organized by prospective chapter member Lindsey Murphy. Pictured (l to r): Wendy Colson, Kathy Pipitone, Lindsey Murphy, and Chapter Regent Cindy Mangum. ANNANDALE CHAPTER—NEW OFFICERS ANNANDALE CHAPTER, Jackson, installed new officers and welcomed new members in May at their year-end covered dish luncheon. Pictured (l to r), seated: Martha Jones; incoming Regent Debbie Cannon; outgoing Regent Marcia Ball; Elsie Johnson; and Rosa Sowers. Standing: Beth Moore, charter member Grace Houston, Nell Tharp, JoLynn Vaughan, Jenenah Smith, Lee Mills, Linda Young, new members Vickie Wilson and Nancy Black, June Hester, and Toni Layer. WOMEN’S ISSUES ESSAY CONTEST First Place, Family Congratulations to Frieda Hardee, Belvidere Chapter, first place winner in the state’s Women’s Issues Essay Contest, Family Category. Her thought-provoking essay is copied below. GRANDPARENTING IN THE 21ST CENTURY When I was rearing my two children, I never lived near my parents. I always knew I was on my own. But those were the days when many mothers still stayed at home, and fathers went off to work. If you had a sick child, one with an appointment with the dentist, a dancing lesson, a scout troop activity, or football practice after school, you did not have to depend on anyone else to take care of it. It was nice to have grandparents to visit, but it was not really necessary to have them around full time for childcare. This is not the case these days, and it shows on these young mothers. When I attended my grandchildren’s school musical recently, I noticed the young moms. Dads were there, too, but it was the moms who caught my attention most. They were obviously proud of their children, but they looked very stressed out, so tired, so rushed. The conversations I heard were full of “I'm too tired,” “We must hurry,” “I hope you don't have too much homework,” or “Where will we drive through to get supper on the way home?” It is not hard to figure out why these women look so stressed, because I have a daughter who is experiencing all these feelings. For these young moms, working is not a choice but a requirement these days. It takes two parents to make it financially. Our public school system is broken, and private school is a better option, but it costs a lot of money. Children want to be in a lot of different activities necessitating someone to take them to practice. They are growing and need shots, dental care, bigger shoes, pictures made, haircuts, and school supplies. A child gets sick at school or gets hurt and needs a stitch or two, and someone has to attend to it. What job allows a mom the flexibility to leave during work hours for these things? But they are definitely necessary. And that is where grandparents must step up! This year my grandchildren are eight and thirteen. No one is yet old enough to drive, and many days I feel I am too old to deal with a teenager. But each day, I pick them up at school because both parents are at work. It is not good for them to stay at home alone, so they come home with me. I cook like I did when I was raising my own children, even though I am supposed to be retired. I supervise homework, check math problems, help find information for papers that are assigned, and try to listen to the events of each school day. As soon as one parent gets off the job, the children are picked up, and I go back to my quiet, restful life, at least most days. It is said that having grandchildren keeps one young. I'm not sure who started that rumor, but they must not have lived near their grandchildren. However, it DOES keep one involved or, as the kids say, “in the loop.” I know who their friends are, who is playing football, when the next dance is, whose birthday party is this weekend, what movie EVERYONE has already seen, and who has the coolest tennis shoes. I hear which teachers are the greatest and which ones no one likes. And some days, I hear who was hateful or who was very nice. Although I have taught school, taken counseling courses, and reared two children of my own, there are times that I feel totally inept. I watch “The Waltons” to see how Grandpa and Grandma Walton handled things with their grandchildren. It is harder to discipline grandchildren, but it has to be done at times. And nowadays, taking away a teenager's cell phone as a result of his misbehavior is considered torture. But, boy, is it effective! When a parent calls after school and asks “How are my children?” and you know the parent is dead tired from a hard day on the job and still there trying to finish up, it takes courage (and a bit of Hollywood-style acting) to sound upbeat when you have just settled an argument, dried tears, or lost your cool. And at times, you have to remember not to tell everything you know! Being a grandparent is not a choice we are given, but being a GOOD grandparent IS. It is often hard to find the line between helping and enabling, giving advice or being bossy, and sharing wisdom but not being derogatory. It is a difficult balancing act. Establishing trust and giving guidance are not easy at times when there is anger, hurt, and frustration. But it is so important, because many times I have found that the thing kids need most is someone to listen to their feelings and concerns and tell them that these are just normal. I have a friend or two who remind me that I “have my own life.” Yes, I do, and I am choosing to spend some years of it to help two children who mean the world to me change from children into responsible, respectful, informed citizens. Because I am around, they know what veterans are, which of their ancestors fought in the wars, and why we have laws. They know that when the Star Spangled Banner is played, your hand goes over your heart. They respect the flag. They know what Memorial Day and Veterans’ Day mean. They know that freedom is not a birthright but a gift that many have fought and died for. They know that a soldier in camo has a job, it is a very important job, and that it is always a good time to say “Thank you for your service.” And they know that Granny will feed you, listen to you, encourage you, or ground you, depending on what is needed. If you are a grandmother with this role in the life of your grandchild, know that you are a blessing to the child and to the parents. God bless you!
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