Connection - The Family Care Network
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Connection - The Family Care Network
THE Family Care Connection Winter 2008 Fam ‘87 ‘07 NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID SAN LUIS OBISPO, CA PERMIT NO.361 Family Care Connection Winter 2008 . i N ly C et are c work, In Family Care Network, Inc. 3765 South Higuera Street, Suite 100 San Luis Obispo, CA 93401 THE Sponsor a Child for Christmas Thank You! Coming Attractions Santa Maria Office Open House—February 28th, 2008 The Family Care Network is once again expanding to meet needs in Santa Barbara County. In light of our ever-growing staff and client needs, the agency has found a new larger location to serve as our Santa Maria office. On Feb 28th from 11:30am-2:30pm, the agency will be a hosting an Open House event with a Chamber of Commerce ribbon cutting ceremony taking place at 12:30pm. The public is invited to join the agency as we give tours of the new facility and share all the exciting activities happening with our Santa Barbara County services. National Day of Hope—April 2nd, 2008 In honor of April being National Child Abuse Awareness Month, ChildHelp USA has established the National Day of Hope, falling on April 2nd this year, as a day all are asked to keep victims of child abuse and neglect in our thoughts and prayers. For more information on this special day, please visit www.childhelp.usa.org. Miracle Miles for Kids A Thought or Two Jim Roberts, CEO 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids 10K Walk/Run—May 10th, 2008 It’s time to lace up to help foster and high-needs children and families in our community. The agency’s 5th annual Miracle Miles for Kids is just around the corner! Please join us on May 10th at Morro Rock for one of the most exciting 10K runs and post-race parties on the Central Coast! For more race information, to learn how to register for the run or to pledge your support, refer to page 8 inside or visit our website at www.fcni.org. ‘87 Family Care Network, Inc. ‘07 i N ly C et are c work, In . FCNI SERVICES Therapeutic Foster Care Services • Community-Linked Services Family Support Services • Transitional Housing Services School-Based Mental Health & Delinquency Prevention Services Fam The Family Care Connection is a quarterly publication of The Family Care Network, Inc. It is designed as a communications tool to give a snapshot of the programs and services we provide, and to distribute useful information to those who work with children and families. Help out Family Care Network’s printing and posting cost by receiving the newsletter via email. Please email us at [email protected] and let us know your email address. Thank you. A Thought or Two Our Mission: The Power of Hope “To enhance the wellbeing of children and families in partnership with our community.” by CEO, Jim Roberts Do you ever have the dreadful feeling that life as we know it is precariously teetering on the pinnacle of utter collapse? Am I the only one who has turned on the nightly news only to regret it? I mean...talk of recession, or was that depression; wars, barbarism and genocide; famine and mass starvation; nations unraveling; incompetent, corrupt, mean-spirited politicians; escalating oil prices; unthinkable terrorism; nuclear proliferation; mega-trillion dollar national debt; stock market meltdowns; violence in our own backyard, lying and corporate corruption... you know the headlines. I hear a lot of folks speak of their concerns and fears; people who genuinely worry about their future, and their children’s and grandchildren’s futures. And, for good reason. genuine, card-carrying (credit that is) Baby-Boomer, I have been very privileged to live under the shadow of a generation which lived through and survived the Great Depression and World War II. Oh, how I cherished and now miss those sparse moments of listening to these seasoned veterans of life as they shared with me their stories. Some were painful, some humorous, some heart wrenching, some miraculous; but all were filled with that magical ingredient—HOPE. It was hope for a better day. It was hope for a loved one to return from war. It was hope for a meal or a job or peace. It was hope that fueled the motivational fires and ran the engines of resiliency. The movies Seabiscuit and Cinderella Man truly capture the essence of this phenomena; real life stories about down and out underdogs rising to the top. A broken racehorse and a broken boxer transformed the hearts of millions of Americans by giving them HOPE! So, what does it take to break the shell and release the transforming power of hope? When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed, powerless and depressed. But when you get involved or take action, you experience the sense of hope and accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to make things better. It’s like endorphins in runners. I like what Gandhi said, “You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no results.” I am convinced that all of the great achievements in this world have been accomplished by tired, at times discouraged, people who refused to quit the game, but instead kept on working. Features 01 Letter from CEO The Power of Hope 03 Inside Family Care Network Community Partners & New Hires 04 Caring for Clients National Mentor Month & Redefining Family 06 Event Recap Sponsor a Child for Christmas 07 Community Connection Polar Express Night & McCarthy Car Give-A-Way 09 Events Miracle Miles for Kids 2008 Contact Information Administrative Headquarters 3765 S. Higuera Street, Suite 100 San Luis Obispo, California 93401 805.781.3535 Website www.fcni.org Toll Free 1.866.781.3535 Santa Maria Office 1660B S. Broadway, Suite 101 Santa Maria, California 93454 805.349.9600 Email [email protected] Jobs [email protected] The truth is, humankind has always teetered on the pinnacle of collapse. The history of civilization is replete with catastrophe, violence, barbarism, wickedness, corruption, and, seemingly, unbearable, unbelievable, heart wrenching situations and obstacles. Yet, here we are. The resiliency of the human spirit is not only astonishing, it is heartening. Time and time again, man’s existence has been down for the count, only to rise again to take up the fight, like the phoenix rising from the ashes. Anyone can give up; it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when all seems lost, to jump into the fray against insurmountable odds, that’s true strength. I believe every one of us has been designed with grit, guts and gusto, enough to be an overcomer. But that’s not good enough. There is an element, an ingredient which is necessary to catalyze one’s resiliency and lift us above adversity—HOPE! I don’t know who said it, but I believe it, “Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air, but only for one second without hope.” As a Not one of us knows what tomorrow will bring. But I do know what we can bring to tomorrow—HOPE! At the risk of being viewed as “political”, I would like to borrow the theme of one of our presidential hopefuls, “Yes We Can.” Politics aside, this is a message of hope. You and I need to learn to be ambassadors of hope, and not purveyors of doom and gloom, especially if our community experiences some rough waters and rocky terrain The Family Care Connection 01 A Thought or Two Our Mission: The Power of Hope “To enhance the wellbeing of children and families in partnership with our community.” by CEO, Jim Roberts Do you ever have the dreadful feeling that life as we know it is precariously teetering on the pinnacle of utter collapse? Am I the only one who has turned on the nightly news only to regret it? I mean...talk of recession, or was that depression; wars, barbarism and genocide; famine and mass starvation; nations unraveling; incompetent, corrupt, mean-spirited politicians; escalating oil prices; unthinkable terrorism; nuclear proliferation; mega-trillion dollar national debt; stock market meltdowns; violence in our own backyard, lying and corporate corruption... you know the headlines. I hear a lot of folks speak of their concerns and fears; people who genuinely worry about their future, and their children’s and grandchildren’s futures. And, for good reason. genuine, card-carrying (credit that is) Baby-Boomer, I have been very privileged to live under the shadow of a generation which lived through and survived the Great Depression and World War II. Oh, how I cherished and now miss those sparse moments of listening to these seasoned veterans of life as they shared with me their stories. Some were painful, some humorous, some heart wrenching, some miraculous; but all were filled with that magical ingredient—HOPE. It was hope for a better day. It was hope for a loved one to return from war. It was hope for a meal or a job or peace. It was hope that fueled the motivational fires and ran the engines of resiliency. The movies Seabiscuit and Cinderella Man truly capture the essence of this phenomena; real life stories about down and out underdogs rising to the top. A broken racehorse and a broken boxer transformed the hearts of millions of Americans by giving them HOPE! So, what does it take to break the shell and release the transforming power of hope? When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed, powerless and depressed. But when you get involved or take action, you experience the sense of hope and accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to make things better. It’s like endorphins in runners. I like what Gandhi said, “You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no results.” I am convinced that all of the great achievements in this world have been accomplished by tired, at times discouraged, people who refused to quit the game, but instead kept on working. Features 01 Letter from CEO The Power of Hope 03 Inside Family Care Network Community Partners & New Hires 04 Caring for Clients National Mentor Month & Redefining Family 06 Event Recap Sponsor a Child for Christmas 07 Community Connection Polar Express Night & McCarthy Car Give-A-Way 09 Events Miracle Miles for Kids 2008 Contact Information Administrative Headquarters 3765 S. Higuera Street, Suite 100 San Luis Obispo, California 93401 805.781.3535 Website www.fcni.org Toll Free 1.866.781.3535 Santa Maria Office 1660B S. Broadway, Suite 101 Santa Maria, California 93454 805.349.9600 Email [email protected] Jobs [email protected] The truth is, humankind has always teetered on the pinnacle of collapse. The history of civilization is replete with catastrophe, violence, barbarism, wickedness, corruption, and, seemingly, unbearable, unbelievable, heart wrenching situations and obstacles. Yet, here we are. The resiliency of the human spirit is not only astonishing, it is heartening. Time and time again, man’s existence has been down for the count, only to rise again to take up the fight, like the phoenix rising from the ashes. Anyone can give up; it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when all seems lost, to jump into the fray against insurmountable odds, that’s true strength. I believe every one of us has been designed with grit, guts and gusto, enough to be an overcomer. But that’s not good enough. There is an element, an ingredient which is necessary to catalyze one’s resiliency and lift us above adversity—HOPE! I don’t know who said it, but I believe it, “Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air, but only for one second without hope.” As a Not one of us knows what tomorrow will bring. But I do know what we can bring to tomorrow—HOPE! At the risk of being viewed as “political”, I would like to borrow the theme of one of our presidential hopefuls, “Yes We Can.” Politics aside, this is a message of hope. You and I need to learn to be ambassadors of hope, and not purveyors of doom and gloom, especially if our community experiences some rough waters and rocky terrain The Family Care Connection 01 Inside Family Care Network A Thought or Two the near future. But let us not forget, we already have amongst us many whose lives have been battered by brutal circumstances. Every day Family Care Network staff toil in the trenches with children, youth and families whose lives have been ravaged by tides of destruction. Hopeless victims left in the wake of child abuse, poverty, mental illness, homelessness, substance abuse and health catastrophes. “Yes we can” and do make a difference in these lives by instilling hope, by igniting in them its power and the spirit of resiliency. Yes they can overcome adversity, yes they can conquer depression and despair, yes they can become healthy and functional, yes they can have a better future and abundant life, yes they can... and hope is their door! Board of Directors The Family Care Network is governed by a Board of Directors who meet monthly to focus on broad policy, vision and general oversight. Our esteemed Board is made up of the following volunteers and our CEO. In life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action. Crisis, challenges, difficulty and adversity will remain a part of the human condition, be it international, national, statewide, local or personal. It is up to each of us to help others see past the gloom and mire, and to instill hope. The mere act of reaching out, offering to help and making a personal connection can bring hope. Let’s fight the good fight so we can stand at the end of the day victorious through the power of HOPE! Carol & Jim Allen Co-Chairs Dan Rowe Vice-Chair Terri Giacomantonio Secretary of the Board Richard Foster Treasurer Mike Sparrow Community Representative Thank you to our Community Partners Program Participants! It is the Family Care Network’s mission “to enhance the wellbeing of children and families in partnership with our community.” The agency’s Community Partners Program works to establish long term relationships with local businesses and organizations who commit to provide in-kind gifts and services to our agency through a mutually agreed upon “Memorandum of Understanding.” The gift of these partners’ involvement with our agency directly helps us to fulfill our mission. We thank the following Central Coast businesses and organizations for serving alongside of us as we work to help those in need in our community. Your continued support, commitment and compassion is greatly appreciated and needed. Sandra Purdy Former Employee Victor Silva-Palacios State Hospital Representative Lisa Figg Foster Parent Liaison Jim Roberts CEO/Executive Director Chuck & Rhonda Pickle Santa Barbara Committee Rotating Members Access Foundation • Central Coast Autohaus • Continental Motor Works • Exploration Station Food Bank Coalition • Idler’s Appliance • Jiffy Lube • Lyons Auto Repair • Mark’s Plumbing McCarthy Wholesale • Mike’s Shoes • New Life Painting/DreamMaker Bath and Kitchen • New Tyes Old Mission School Thrift Shop • Pickle Auto Repair • RDE Mortgage Company • Salvation Army VTC Enterprises • Wayne’s Tire Community Wish List The following is a list of needed items and open volunteer opportunities that we are asking be filled by community members interested in supporting the Family Care Network’s mission “To enhance the wellbeing of children and families” in need. New or Gently Used Items Needed: A Call to Action to Protect Vulnerable Foster Children & Youth! The Governor’s 2008/2009 proposed budget is calling for a slash of 5% in funding for agencies like the Family Care Network, in addition to across the board cuts to vital children and families services. As a friend of our agency, you understand the importance of properly funding our foster care programs in order to ensure essential and quality services to foster and high-needs children, and to prevent more expensive institutional care. Please join the Family Care Network in speaking out against these cuts by writing, emailing or calling your State Representatives and voicing your opposition to the Governor’s proposed cuts. The following are the contact information for our local Senator, Assmblymember and the Governor. Thank you for your partnership on this vitally important matter. Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger State Capitol Building Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-445-2841 02 Senator Abel Maldonado State Capitol, Room 4082 Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-651-4015 [email protected] The Family Care Connection Assemblymember Sam Blakeslee State Capitol, Room 4117 Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-319-2033 [email protected] – Twin and full-size beds and bedding – Bath towels – Apartment-size television sets – Small sofas, chairs, end tables and lamps – Silverware and cutlery – Small dinette sets – Guitar Volunteers Needed: – Volunteers and participants for the 5th annual Miracle Miles for Kids being held on May 10th, 2008 – Mentors and tutors for children and youth of all ages If you would like more information on any of the items or volunteers opportunities listed here, or if you would like to know of other ways you can partner with the agency, please contact Ken Miles at (805) 781-3535. Thank you, Central Coast Community! The Family Care Network’s Newest Hires (December-January) Amanda Biezad Family Support Specialist Jessica Garner In-Home Support Counselor Jalani Giove In-Home Support Counselor Sara Kalton In-Home Support Counselor Rena Smith Social Worker Benjamin Wallman In-Home Support Counselor Nicole Williams In-Home Support Counselor Megan Yoder Volunteer Coordinator The Family Care Connection 03 Inside Family Care Network A Thought or Two the near future. But let us not forget, we already have amongst us many whose lives have been battered by brutal circumstances. Every day Family Care Network staff toil in the trenches with children, youth and families whose lives have been ravaged by tides of destruction. Hopeless victims left in the wake of child abuse, poverty, mental illness, homelessness, substance abuse and health catastrophes. “Yes we can” and do make a difference in these lives by instilling hope, by igniting in them its power and the spirit of resiliency. Yes they can overcome adversity, yes they can conquer depression and despair, yes they can become healthy and functional, yes they can have a better future and abundant life, yes they can... and hope is their door! Board of Directors The Family Care Network is governed by a Board of Directors who meet monthly to focus on broad policy, vision and general oversight. Our esteemed Board is made up of the following volunteers and our CEO. In life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action. Crisis, challenges, difficulty and adversity will remain a part of the human condition, be it international, national, statewide, local or personal. It is up to each of us to help others see past the gloom and mire, and to instill hope. The mere act of reaching out, offering to help and making a personal connection can bring hope. Let’s fight the good fight so we can stand at the end of the day victorious through the power of HOPE! Carol & Jim Allen Co-Chairs Dan Rowe Vice-Chair Terri Giacomantonio Secretary of the Board Richard Foster Treasurer Mike Sparrow Community Representative Thank you to our Community Partners Program Participants! It is the Family Care Network’s mission “to enhance the wellbeing of children and families in partnership with our community.” The agency’s Community Partners Program works to establish long term relationships with local businesses and organizations who commit to provide in-kind gifts and services to our agency through a mutually agreed upon “Memorandum of Understanding.” The gift of these partners’ involvement with our agency directly helps us to fulfill our mission. We thank the following Central Coast businesses and organizations for serving alongside of us as we work to help those in need in our community. Your continued support, commitment and compassion is greatly appreciated and needed. Sandra Purdy Former Employee Victor Silva-Palacios State Hospital Representative Lisa Figg Foster Parent Liaison Jim Roberts CEO/Executive Director Chuck & Rhonda Pickle Santa Barbara Committee Rotating Members Access Foundation • Central Coast Autohaus • Continental Motor Works • Exploration Station Food Bank Coalition • Idler’s Appliance • Jiffy Lube • Lyons Auto Repair • Mark’s Plumbing McCarthy Wholesale • Mike’s Shoes • New Life Painting/DreamMaker Bath and Kitchen • New Tyes Old Mission School Thrift Shop • Pickle Auto Repair • RDE Mortgage Company • Salvation Army VTC Enterprises • Wayne’s Tire Community Wish List The following is a list of needed items and open volunteer opportunities that we are asking be filled by community members interested in supporting the Family Care Network’s mission “To enhance the wellbeing of children and families” in need. New or Gently Used Items Needed: A Call to Action to Protect Vulnerable Foster Children & Youth! The Governor’s 2008/2009 proposed budget is calling for a slash of 5% in funding for agencies like the Family Care Network, in addition to across the board cuts to vital children and families services. As a friend of our agency, you understand the importance of properly funding our foster care programs in order to ensure essential and quality services to foster and high-needs children, and to prevent more expensive institutional care. Please join the Family Care Network in speaking out against these cuts by writing, emailing or calling your State Representatives and voicing your opposition to the Governor’s proposed cuts. The following are the contact information for our local Senator, Assmblymember and the Governor. Thank you for your partnership on this vitally important matter. Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger State Capitol Building Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-445-2841 02 Senator Abel Maldonado State Capitol, Room 4082 Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-651-4015 [email protected] The Family Care Connection Assemblymember Sam Blakeslee State Capitol, Room 4117 Sacramento, CA 95814 Ph: 916-319-2033 [email protected] – Twin and full-size beds and bedding – Bath towels – Apartment-size television sets – Small sofas, chairs, end tables and lamps – Silverware and cutlery – Small dinette sets – Guitar Volunteers Needed: – Volunteers and participants for the 5th annual Miracle Miles for Kids being held on May 10th, 2008 – Mentors and tutors for children and youth of all ages If you would like more information on any of the items or volunteers opportunities listed here, or if you would like to know of other ways you can partner with the agency, please contact Ken Miles at (805) 781-3535. Thank you, Central Coast Community! The Family Care Network’s Newest Hires (December-January) Amanda Biezad Family Support Specialist Jessica Garner In-Home Support Counselor Jalani Giove In-Home Support Counselor Sara Kalton In-Home Support Counselor Rena Smith Social Worker Benjamin Wallman In-Home Support Counselor Nicole Williams In-Home Support Counselor Megan Yoder Volunteer Coordinator The Family Care Connection 03 Caring for Clients Caring for Clients Celebrating National Mentor Month In honor of January being National Mentor Month, the Family Care Network would like to spotlight our amazing Mentor Program. Since the Mentor Program’s first match in 2001, the program has touched the lives of approximately 88 children. Currently, the agency has 14 mentors matched with children and youth as well as 9 active tutors. To our children, a mentor becomes many things: a friend, a role model, a support system, a playmate, etcetera. Here is what some of our children have said about their mentors: “She taught me about trust and has helped me through a lot of problems.” “She is my family away from family.” “She helps me understand differences and to not overreact, not to sweat the small stuff and look at the big picture.” “He has helped me with my feelings and stuff, and I can talk to him about whatever I want. He taught me how to talk to others and to find others when I need help. He taught me how to trust. He is the best person I could ever have in my life right now.” “I learned that dreams come true.” Below is a beautiful story written by one of our current mentors, Sarah. Her story not only displays how mentoring fulfills every word of the Family Care Network’s mission, but also how powerful a mentor relationship is—not just to the mentee but also to the mentor. As one of our mentees said, “I have learned that it is nice to have friends, because they can teach you things and you can teach them too.” She Sang For Me: A Reflection by Sarah, Current Mentor Amy* sang with me on Thursday night. This is a very big deal. See, when I first met this little girl in March, I knew she liked to sing because she told me so. But just because she liked to sing didn’t mean she was going to sing, especially in front of me—a complete stranger! But here we are, ten months later, and she sang her little heart out, all night long, just for me. When I picked her up from her apartment at 5:30pm that night, we didn’t have a game plan. I was hoping we could do something outside, so I suggested we visit a Shell Beach playground. It was a little chilly out that night, but we soon forgot this when we realized it was just us, the twinkling stars and the sound of waves crashing below. We raced around the playground and climbed on everything in the park. We finally settled in on top of an orca whale statue named “Oreo.” We were both in pretty silly moods since we had the whole park to ourselves, so we started humming and singing about the dolphin and seal statues nearby. We took turns making up lyrics and belting them out. That’s when I knew I had struck gold. And here I thought I was officially “in” all of these months. No. What happened this night meant I was totally in—she trusted and loved me! We are a pair! That’s how I think of Amy and me, and that’s how I know she regards me. When I signed up to be a mentor last year, my biggest concern was that two hours per week was “too big” of a commitment. Fortunately, I got past it pretty quickly. I now can’t imagine what my life would be like without seeing Amy every week for two hours. Mentoring has blessed me in so many ways. The feeling of unstructured, spontaneous play with an eight year old is magnificent. Modeling healthy habits and behaviors are soaked up by my mentee. It’s through pure demonstration that Amy embraces new ways of thinking and behaving. She’s eager to learn, improve, create and share. And when I suggest we go to the beach, she replies, “Yeah, and maybe we can lie on our backs in the sand and look up at the stars.” We don’t just talk about it, we do it. When I dropped Amy off after our starry night singing session, she went inside and closed the door. She then came back outside and said, “Hey?” I walked back towards her and she gave me a nice, long hug. Words couldn’t have described what she was feeling that night, but her hug sure did. Every time I drive away from an afternoon with Amy, I remind myself that if I didn’t pick her up and play with her, she would have to sit inside her apartment instead. This reminder is what sparks me to do the work I do…I mean, the play! *Names of clients and photos are fictitious to protect their identity. 04 The Family Care Connection Redefining Family Before Connor entered foster care, he called a motel room his home. Connor was only 12 at the time and his mom, struggling with a substance abuse problem and having unmet mental health needs, was unable to hold down a job. With no money, the family was evicted from their apartment and began living in one motel room after another, sometimes having to sleep in their car for nights at a time. As a result, Connor began struggling to keep up with his schoolwork and eventually his mom stopped driving him to school at all. Connor was first placed in the Family Care Network’s Emergency Shelter Care Program when Child Protective Services determined that it was no longer safe for him to remain in his mother’s care. Connor’s first few days with his Shelter family were some of the most difficult of his short life. He was frightened of being with people he didn’t know and uncertain of what was happening with his mom. Having lived within chaotic circumstances for so long, Connor was afraid of new people and struggled to feel comfortable spending time with his new foster family. Connor’s new foster parents, Dave and Grace, recognized that Connor needed them to be patient and provide him with a lot of stability. Dave and Grace offered Connor unconditional care, giving him space when he felt overwhelmed and provided him with stable routines, such as nightly family dinners, to help him adjust. Since being placed with Dave and Grace, Connor has made great strides, but he’s also had to face some hard truths. While he caught up in school and excelled in his 7th grade year, he also had to face the reality that his mother will never be his guardian again, her having lost custody of him. Connor’s foster parents petitioned for legal guardianship of Connor and in this process Connor had to learn that it’s okay for him to love his foster parents, while still loving his biological mom. Family is a concept that Connor’s had to redefine at only 13 years old. But in spite of these hard lessons, Connor feels blessed to be with Dave and Grace, knowing that no matter how the family was formed, it’s his family nonetheless. Connor’s life with Dave and Grace soon became comfortable, Connor growing to care deeply for his foster parents. Instead of moving him to another long term foster home, Dave and Grace asked if Connor could stay with them long-term and Connor happily agreed. Over the next year, Connor received a lot of extra help from Family Care Network staff and his foster family, including working with a Family Care Network volunteer tutor to get caught up in school and being connected with a youth soccer program. The strongest impact on Connor, however, has come from his foster parents. Before living with Dave and Grace, Connor was very afraid of new people and unknown circumstances. But Dave and Grace have been excellent role models for Connor, providing him with such stability that he is no longer afraid of everything around him. He feels safe and protected for the first time in a long time. The Family Care Connection 05 Caring for Clients Caring for Clients Celebrating National Mentor Month In honor of January being National Mentor Month, the Family Care Network would like to spotlight our amazing Mentor Program. Since the Mentor Program’s first match in 2001, the program has touched the lives of approximately 88 children. Currently, the agency has 14 mentors matched with children and youth as well as 9 active tutors. To our children, a mentor becomes many things: a friend, a role model, a support system, a playmate, etcetera. Here is what some of our children have said about their mentors: “She taught me about trust and has helped me through a lot of problems.” “She is my family away from family.” “She helps me understand differences and to not overreact, not to sweat the small stuff and look at the big picture.” “He has helped me with my feelings and stuff, and I can talk to him about whatever I want. He taught me how to talk to others and to find others when I need help. He taught me how to trust. He is the best person I could ever have in my life right now.” “I learned that dreams come true.” Below is a beautiful story written by one of our current mentors, Sarah. Her story not only displays how mentoring fulfills every word of the Family Care Network’s mission, but also how powerful a mentor relationship is—not just to the mentee but also to the mentor. As one of our mentees said, “I have learned that it is nice to have friends, because they can teach you things and you can teach them too.” She Sang For Me: A Reflection by Sarah, Current Mentor Amy* sang with me on Thursday night. This is a very big deal. See, when I first met this little girl in March, I knew she liked to sing because she told me so. But just because she liked to sing didn’t mean she was going to sing, especially in front of me—a complete stranger! But here we are, ten months later, and she sang her little heart out, all night long, just for me. When I picked her up from her apartment at 5:30pm that night, we didn’t have a game plan. I was hoping we could do something outside, so I suggested we visit a Shell Beach playground. It was a little chilly out that night, but we soon forgot this when we realized it was just us, the twinkling stars and the sound of waves crashing below. We raced around the playground and climbed on everything in the park. We finally settled in on top of an orca whale statue named “Oreo.” We were both in pretty silly moods since we had the whole park to ourselves, so we started humming and singing about the dolphin and seal statues nearby. We took turns making up lyrics and belting them out. That’s when I knew I had struck gold. And here I thought I was officially “in” all of these months. No. What happened this night meant I was totally in—she trusted and loved me! We are a pair! That’s how I think of Amy and me, and that’s how I know she regards me. When I signed up to be a mentor last year, my biggest concern was that two hours per week was “too big” of a commitment. Fortunately, I got past it pretty quickly. I now can’t imagine what my life would be like without seeing Amy every week for two hours. Mentoring has blessed me in so many ways. The feeling of unstructured, spontaneous play with an eight year old is magnificent. Modeling healthy habits and behaviors are soaked up by my mentee. It’s through pure demonstration that Amy embraces new ways of thinking and behaving. She’s eager to learn, improve, create and share. And when I suggest we go to the beach, she replies, “Yeah, and maybe we can lie on our backs in the sand and look up at the stars.” We don’t just talk about it, we do it. When I dropped Amy off after our starry night singing session, she went inside and closed the door. She then came back outside and said, “Hey?” I walked back towards her and she gave me a nice, long hug. Words couldn’t have described what she was feeling that night, but her hug sure did. Every time I drive away from an afternoon with Amy, I remind myself that if I didn’t pick her up and play with her, she would have to sit inside her apartment instead. This reminder is what sparks me to do the work I do…I mean, the play! *Names of clients and photos are fictitious to protect their identity. 04 The Family Care Connection Redefining Family Before Connor entered foster care, he called a motel room his home. Connor was only 12 at the time and his mom, struggling with a substance abuse problem and having unmet mental health needs, was unable to hold down a job. With no money, the family was evicted from their apartment and began living in one motel room after another, sometimes having to sleep in their car for nights at a time. As a result, Connor began struggling to keep up with his schoolwork and eventually his mom stopped driving him to school at all. Connor was first placed in the Family Care Network’s Emergency Shelter Care Program when Child Protective Services determined that it was no longer safe for him to remain in his mother’s care. Connor’s first few days with his Shelter family were some of the most difficult of his short life. He was frightened of being with people he didn’t know and uncertain of what was happening with his mom. Having lived within chaotic circumstances for so long, Connor was afraid of new people and struggled to feel comfortable spending time with his new foster family. Connor’s new foster parents, Dave and Grace, recognized that Connor needed them to be patient and provide him with a lot of stability. Dave and Grace offered Connor unconditional care, giving him space when he felt overwhelmed and provided him with stable routines, such as nightly family dinners, to help him adjust. Since being placed with Dave and Grace, Connor has made great strides, but he’s also had to face some hard truths. While he caught up in school and excelled in his 7th grade year, he also had to face the reality that his mother will never be his guardian again, her having lost custody of him. Connor’s foster parents petitioned for legal guardianship of Connor and in this process Connor had to learn that it’s okay for him to love his foster parents, while still loving his biological mom. Family is a concept that Connor’s had to redefine at only 13 years old. But in spite of these hard lessons, Connor feels blessed to be with Dave and Grace, knowing that no matter how the family was formed, it’s his family nonetheless. Connor’s life with Dave and Grace soon became comfortable, Connor growing to care deeply for his foster parents. Instead of moving him to another long term foster home, Dave and Grace asked if Connor could stay with them long-term and Connor happily agreed. Over the next year, Connor received a lot of extra help from Family Care Network staff and his foster family, including working with a Family Care Network volunteer tutor to get caught up in school and being connected with a youth soccer program. The strongest impact on Connor, however, has come from his foster parents. Before living with Dave and Grace, Connor was very afraid of new people and unknown circumstances. But Dave and Grace have been excellent role models for Connor, providing him with such stability that he is no longer afraid of everything around him. He feels safe and protected for the first time in a long time. The Family Care Connection 05 Event Recap Community Connection The Family Care Network and the Central Coast Community Make Christmas Wishes Come True! Every year, hundreds of local children, youth and families served by the Family Care Network experience the real spirit of Christmas through the agency’s unique Christmas Open House celebration. This year, the Family Care Network hosted two Christmas Open House celebrations: one took place on December 13th for San Luis Obispo County clients and the other was held on December 7th for Santa Barbara County clients. At each event, the agency partnered with the Central Coast community to provide gifts for over 400 children and families, in addition to food, activities and entertainment. We owe a big THANK YOU to our Community… The Family Care Network’s Christmas Open House events could not have been held without the support and participation of our generous Central Coast community. At this year’s Christmas Open House events: •20 dedicated volunteers wrapped Christmas presents; •15 volunteers provided sugar cookies for decorating; •23 local businesses and vendors donated raffle items and/or food; •70 volunteers contributed just under 200 hours at the Christmas Open House event in San Luis Obispo; and • Over 400 gifts were generously donated by community members Gifts were donated through the agency’s Sponsor a Child for Christmas fundraising campaign. This annual effort brings the community together to bless the over 400 children and families served by the agency with Christmas presents. The truly remark- 06 The Family Care Connection able aspect of these gifts is that each one donated by a caring community member was especially selected for its recipient. Children, youth and families wrote out their gift requests on Wish List cards, which were then distributed to the community beginning in October. It is these wishes that the community worked to fulfill. In receiving exactly what they wished for, the community demonstrates to those served by the agency that their community truly cares for them. This year’s Christmas events had something for every age and interest. At the San Luis Obispo Open House, guests were able to meet with Santa and Mrs. Claus, listen to a live performance by the Uncommon Carolers, have personalized creations done up by a balloon artist, watch a special performance by the Claddagh School of Irish Dance and complete fun holiday crafts such as making Christmas cards, creating jewelry, and decorating picture frames and sugar cookies. At the Santa Maria Open House, guests enjoyed a puppet show performed by New Life Church, a visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, a raffle and a lot of fun craft activities. Both events were magical and memorable for all who attended. To all of the churches, businesses, community members and families who helped to make the Christmas wishes come true for over 400 children, youth and families, thank you! You have truly impacted the lives of your community’s children and families, and we couldn’t have done it without you. A Magical Night on the Polar Express On December 15th, for the fourth consecutive year, the Family Care Network and the Jacobs’ family hosted a Night at the Polar Express. Once again, children and families served by the agency were invited to take a magical trip to the North Pole via a live reading of The Polar Express book. Held at the Sylvester Winery in Paso Robles, the winery’s was again transformed into a winter wonderland, the winery generously lending their antique train car to set the perfect stage for the evening’s events. And, as in year’s past, the unique event afforded guests the opportunity to suspend disbelief for one evening and truly experience the wonder of Christmas. This year’s event began with all 36 kids in attendance being loaded into the winery’s beautifully decorated antique train car by the train’s conductor, a role filled by the Family Care Network’s own Jim Roberts. Once the young ones settled in, storyteller extraordinaire, Meg Roberts (Jim’s wife), read The Polar Express book to the captivated audience. While the kids listened to the magical story being read, parents and Family Care Network counselors gently rocked the train back and forth, helping to bring the story of traveling to the North Pole to life. When the story was over, the sound of sleigh bells announced the arrival of Santa and Mrs. Claus, and guests were treated to hot chocolate and cookies donated by the Jacob’s family. Guests of the event were also given gift bags filled with copies of The Polar Express book and gift cards to Target, all generously donated by Steve and Debbie Patrick. Photo by Debbi K. Swanson Patrick A Night at the Polar Express has been called one of the most magical evenings hosted by the Family Care Network, an event which enables the imagination of the kids in attendance to run wild. But the night isn’t only special to the children who participate, it is also memorable for every parent, Family Care Network staff person and community member who attends. As Jac Jacobs, the creator and host of A Night at the Polar Express recently said, “the look of pure joy and rapture on the faces of the kids [guarantees] that there [isn’t] a dry eye in the house!” The Family Care Network extends a heartfelt thank you to all of you who helped to make A Night at the Polar Express possible—the Jacobs family, the Patrick family, Sylvester Winery, Cal Poly’s Vine to Wine Club and all of the staff and community members who worked behind the scenes to bring the North Pole to life for the foster and high-needs children served by our agency. For one very special night, you made it possible for children to experience all the magic and wonder of Christmas. McCarthy Wholesale’s Car Give-a-Way On November 28th, McCarthy Wholesale in San Luis Obispo held their annual Car Give-a-Way event, donating a muchneeded van to a Family Care Network family served through the Wraparound program. The family was chosen as the Car Give-aWay recipients because they have made great efforts to become a stronger family since entering the Wraparound program several months ago. The Family Care Network was blessed when McCarthy Wholesale offered to honor this family’s continuing success in Wraparound with a new van, helping to further encourage them while meeting some of their needs. For this struggling family, with their youngest child being six months and their oldest being 16, a van will enable them to not only enjoy activities together, but it will also help them succeed in completing requirements set forth by the Department of Social Services (DSS) in their treatment plan. DSS has made it a family requirement that they attend all doctor’s appointments, therapy sessions and other important family activities together. With their new 7-passenger van, the family can complete this requirement, in addition to spending quality time together going to the movies and attending all of the kids’ various sporting events. On the day the family received their van, staff and other community members were on hand to watch the heartwarming event. One staff reflected that the family’s faces literally lit up when the van was presented to them, especially since it was filled with Christmas presents for the entire family! What a memorable sight to see the family drive off, secure in the knowledge that their community had greatly improved their chances for a better future. We here at the Family Care Network extend a gracious thank you to Mike McCarthy and his company, McCarthy Wholesale, for once again facilitating a family’s dream come true. Your generosity and commitment to families in need is admirable and, hopefully, contagious! The Family Care Connection 07 Event Recap Community Connection The Family Care Network and the Central Coast Community Make Christmas Wishes Come True! Every year, hundreds of local children, youth and families served by the Family Care Network experience the real spirit of Christmas through the agency’s unique Christmas Open House celebration. This year, the Family Care Network hosted two Christmas Open House celebrations: one took place on December 13th for San Luis Obispo County clients and the other was held on December 7th for Santa Barbara County clients. At each event, the agency partnered with the Central Coast community to provide gifts for over 400 children and families, in addition to food, activities and entertainment. We owe a big THANK YOU to our Community… The Family Care Network’s Christmas Open House events could not have been held without the support and participation of our generous Central Coast community. At this year’s Christmas Open House events: •20 dedicated volunteers wrapped Christmas presents; •15 volunteers provided sugar cookies for decorating; •23 local businesses and vendors donated raffle items and/or food; •70 volunteers contributed just under 200 hours at the Christmas Open House event in San Luis Obispo; and • Over 400 gifts were generously donated by community members Gifts were donated through the agency’s Sponsor a Child for Christmas fundraising campaign. This annual effort brings the community together to bless the over 400 children and families served by the agency with Christmas presents. The truly remark- 06 The Family Care Connection able aspect of these gifts is that each one donated by a caring community member was especially selected for its recipient. Children, youth and families wrote out their gift requests on Wish List cards, which were then distributed to the community beginning in October. It is these wishes that the community worked to fulfill. In receiving exactly what they wished for, the community demonstrates to those served by the agency that their community truly cares for them. This year’s Christmas events had something for every age and interest. At the San Luis Obispo Open House, guests were able to meet with Santa and Mrs. Claus, listen to a live performance by the Uncommon Carolers, have personalized creations done up by a balloon artist, watch a special performance by the Claddagh School of Irish Dance and complete fun holiday crafts such as making Christmas cards, creating jewelry, and decorating picture frames and sugar cookies. At the Santa Maria Open House, guests enjoyed a puppet show performed by New Life Church, a visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, a raffle and a lot of fun craft activities. Both events were magical and memorable for all who attended. To all of the churches, businesses, community members and families who helped to make the Christmas wishes come true for over 400 children, youth and families, thank you! You have truly impacted the lives of your community’s children and families, and we couldn’t have done it without you. A Magical Night on the Polar Express On December 15th, for the fourth consecutive year, the Family Care Network and the Jacobs’ family hosted a Night at the Polar Express. Once again, children and families served by the agency were invited to take a magical trip to the North Pole via a live reading of The Polar Express book. Held at the Sylvester Winery in Paso Robles, the winery’s was again transformed into a winter wonderland, the winery generously lending their antique train car to set the perfect stage for the evening’s events. And, as in year’s past, the unique event afforded guests the opportunity to suspend disbelief for one evening and truly experience the wonder of Christmas. This year’s event began with all 36 kids in attendance being loaded into the winery’s beautifully decorated antique train car by the train’s conductor, a role filled by the Family Care Network’s own Jim Roberts. Once the young ones settled in, storyteller extraordinaire, Meg Roberts (Jim’s wife), read The Polar Express book to the captivated audience. While the kids listened to the magical story being read, parents and Family Care Network counselors gently rocked the train back and forth, helping to bring the story of traveling to the North Pole to life. When the story was over, the sound of sleigh bells announced the arrival of Santa and Mrs. Claus, and guests were treated to hot chocolate and cookies donated by the Jacob’s family. Guests of the event were also given gift bags filled with copies of The Polar Express book and gift cards to Target, all generously donated by Steve and Debbie Patrick. Photo by Debbi K. Swanson Patrick A Night at the Polar Express has been called one of the most magical evenings hosted by the Family Care Network, an event which enables the imagination of the kids in attendance to run wild. But the night isn’t only special to the children who participate, it is also memorable for every parent, Family Care Network staff person and community member who attends. As Jac Jacobs, the creator and host of A Night at the Polar Express recently said, “the look of pure joy and rapture on the faces of the kids [guarantees] that there [isn’t] a dry eye in the house!” The Family Care Network extends a heartfelt thank you to all of you who helped to make A Night at the Polar Express possible—the Jacobs family, the Patrick family, Sylvester Winery, Cal Poly’s Vine to Wine Club and all of the staff and community members who worked behind the scenes to bring the North Pole to life for the foster and high-needs children served by our agency. For one very special night, you made it possible for children to experience all the magic and wonder of Christmas. McCarthy Wholesale’s Car Give-a-Way On November 28th, McCarthy Wholesale in San Luis Obispo held their annual Car Give-a-Way event, donating a muchneeded van to a Family Care Network family served through the Wraparound program. The family was chosen as the Car Give-aWay recipients because they have made great efforts to become a stronger family since entering the Wraparound program several months ago. The Family Care Network was blessed when McCarthy Wholesale offered to honor this family’s continuing success in Wraparound with a new van, helping to further encourage them while meeting some of their needs. For this struggling family, with their youngest child being six months and their oldest being 16, a van will enable them to not only enjoy activities together, but it will also help them succeed in completing requirements set forth by the Department of Social Services (DSS) in their treatment plan. DSS has made it a family requirement that they attend all doctor’s appointments, therapy sessions and other important family activities together. With their new 7-passenger van, the family can complete this requirement, in addition to spending quality time together going to the movies and attending all of the kids’ various sporting events. On the day the family received their van, staff and other community members were on hand to watch the heartwarming event. One staff reflected that the family’s faces literally lit up when the van was presented to them, especially since it was filled with Christmas presents for the entire family! What a memorable sight to see the family drive off, secure in the knowledge that their community had greatly improved their chances for a better future. We here at the Family Care Network extend a gracious thank you to Mike McCarthy and his company, McCarthy Wholesale, for once again facilitating a family’s dream come true. Your generosity and commitment to families in need is admirable and, hopefully, contagious! The Family Care Connection 07 Events Events 2008 Award Categories The 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids As the chill in the winter air begins to give way to the sweet smell of spring here on the Central Coast, it’s time again to lace up for Miracle Miles for Kids! The Family Care Network’s 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids 10K Walk/Run will take place on May 10th, 2008 this year and will once again afford the community a fun and easy way to support foster and high-needs children and families living here on the Central Coast. The 10K (6.2 miles) race course runs along the water’s edge from Morro Rock to the Cayucos Pier, one of the most beautiful stretches of beach in California. When participants cross the finish line they will be treated to a post-race party with live music, lunch, a vendor fair, children’s activities and an award ceremony. In addition, every walker/runner will receive a goody bag and a Miracle Miles 2008 commemorative t-shirt! This annual event has something for every type of participant— whether you’re a parent looking for something fun the whole family can enjoy or a serious athlete looking to beat your best personal time! In 2007, Miracle Miles attracted 1,200 participants who enjoyed one of the most exiting running events on the Central Coast. It is the agency’s goal to attract at least 2,020 participants to this year’s event—one runner to represent each child, youth or family served by the Family Care Network in 2006/2007. Miracle Miles for Kids is the largest fundraising event hosted by the Family Care Network, and all of the funds earned through registration and pledges go directly to support the over 2,000 foster and high-needs children and families served annually. Without the community’s partnership on this most special event, the agency could not continue to serve the most vulnerable populations in our community. Come join us on the beach on May 10th and show foster and high-needs children and families in our community that you care! For more information, including directions, accommodations, how to raise money, pre-race day updates and to register for the race, please visit our website at www.fcni.org. Athlon Health & Fitness Partnership The Family Care Network is once again teaming up with Athlon Health & Fitness in San Luis Obispo and Paso Robles to help participants get fit for Miracle Miles for Kids! Athlon Health & Fitness invites community members to get healthy, reach their New Year’s resolutions and help the Family Care Network as they participate in the Athlon Challenge! Participation in the challenge includes: • 3 ½ month All-Access Membership to Athlon Health & Fitness • Weekly personal trainer sessions • Goal-setting meetings • Nutritional guidelines • 3 total body assessments to measure progress • Participation in the Athlon Challenge Final Celebration Ceremony • Registration in Miracle Miles for Kids Walk/Run Proceeds earned through the Athlon challenge will be donated to the Family Care Network. The race begins at 8:30am, with the post-race celebration running from 9:00am to 10:30am. All are welcome to attend one or both portions of this exciting fundraising event. The Athlon Challenge begins on Monday, January 28th and continues for 14-weeks ending on Saturday, May 3rd. Space is limited, so register TODAY! How you can Participate in Miracle Miles for Kids: For more information on the Athlon Challenge, please contact Ashley Fittz at (805) 788-0805 ext. 240 or email him at [email protected]. 1. Register for the race online at www.fcni.org. If you have any registration questions, please call the Family Care Network at 781-3535. 2. Get pledges! Start by asking family members, co-workers, your boss, neighbors, etc. to support you as you walk/run to benefit foster and high needs children, youth and families in our community. Remind them of why you’re participating in this event and of the important role they play in supporting those in need on the Central Coast. 08 • 1st, 2nd and 3rd fastest male and female overall • 1st, 2nd, and 3rd fastest male and female in the following age categories: 0-9, 10-14, 15-19, 20-29, 30-39, 40-49, 50-59, 60+ • Most money raised by an individual • Most money raised by a team • Fastest Team • Largest Team • Most Creative Centipede • Fastest Centipede The Family Care Connection Registration Fees: $30 pre-registration through May 2nd (Online registration closes at 11:59pm May 2nd) $45 registration from May 3rd to May 7th (Registration closes at 11:59pm May 7th) $45 at walk-up registration on race day, May 10th Fee includes race entry, lunch, t-shirt, goody bag, and a post-race party featuring music, a vendor fair and award ceremony! 10K Walk/Run Benefitting Foster and High--Needs Children and Families May 10, 2008 • Race Begins at 8:30AM Morro Rock to Cayucos Pier The Family Care Connection 09 Events Events 2008 Award Categories The 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids As the chill in the winter air begins to give way to the sweet smell of spring here on the Central Coast, it’s time again to lace up for Miracle Miles for Kids! The Family Care Network’s 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids 10K Walk/Run will take place on May 10th, 2008 this year and will once again afford the community a fun and easy way to support foster and high-needs children and families living here on the Central Coast. The 10K (6.2 miles) race course runs along the water’s edge from Morro Rock to the Cayucos Pier, one of the most beautiful stretches of beach in California. When participants cross the finish line they will be treated to a post-race party with live music, lunch, a vendor fair, children’s activities and an award ceremony. In addition, every walker/runner will receive a goody bag and a Miracle Miles 2008 commemorative t-shirt! This annual event has something for every type of participant— whether you’re a parent looking for something fun the whole family can enjoy or a serious athlete looking to beat your best personal time! In 2007, Miracle Miles attracted 1,200 participants who enjoyed one of the most exiting running events on the Central Coast. It is the agency’s goal to attract at least 2,020 participants to this year’s event—one runner to represent each child, youth or family served by the Family Care Network in 2006/2007. Miracle Miles for Kids is the largest fundraising event hosted by the Family Care Network, and all of the funds earned through registration and pledges go directly to support the over 2,000 foster and high-needs children and families served annually. Without the community’s partnership on this most special event, the agency could not continue to serve the most vulnerable populations in our community. Come join us on the beach on May 10th and show foster and high-needs children and families in our community that you care! For more information, including directions, accommodations, how to raise money, pre-race day updates and to register for the race, please visit our website at www.fcni.org. Athlon Health & Fitness Partnership The Family Care Network is once again teaming up with Athlon Health & Fitness in San Luis Obispo and Paso Robles to help participants get fit for Miracle Miles for Kids! Athlon Health & Fitness invites community members to get healthy, reach their New Year’s resolutions and help the Family Care Network as they participate in the Athlon Challenge! Participation in the challenge includes: • 3 ½ month All-Access Membership to Athlon Health & Fitness • Weekly personal trainer sessions • Goal-setting meetings • Nutritional guidelines • 3 total body assessments to measure progress • Participation in the Athlon Challenge Final Celebration Ceremony • Registration in Miracle Miles for Kids Walk/Run Proceeds earned through the Athlon challenge will be donated to the Family Care Network. The race begins at 8:30am, with the post-race celebration running from 9:00am to 10:30am. All are welcome to attend one or both portions of this exciting fundraising event. The Athlon Challenge begins on Monday, January 28th and continues for 14-weeks ending on Saturday, May 3rd. Space is limited, so register TODAY! How you can Participate in Miracle Miles for Kids: For more information on the Athlon Challenge, please contact Ashley Fittz at (805) 788-0805 ext. 240 or email him at [email protected]. 1. Register for the race online at www.fcni.org. If you have any registration questions, please call the Family Care Network at 781-3535. 2. Get pledges! Start by asking family members, co-workers, your boss, neighbors, etc. to support you as you walk/run to benefit foster and high needs children, youth and families in our community. Remind them of why you’re participating in this event and of the important role they play in supporting those in need on the Central Coast. 08 • 1st, 2nd and 3rd fastest male and female overall • 1st, 2nd, and 3rd fastest male and female in the following age categories: 0-9, 10-14, 15-19, 20-29, 30-39, 40-49, 50-59, 60+ • Most money raised by an individual • Most money raised by a team • Fastest Team • Largest Team • Most Creative Centipede • Fastest Centipede The Family Care Connection Registration Fees: $30 pre-registration through May 2nd (Online registration closes at 11:59pm May 2nd) $45 registration from May 3rd to May 7th (Registration closes at 11:59pm May 7th) $45 at walk-up registration on race day, May 10th Fee includes race entry, lunch, t-shirt, goody bag, and a post-race party featuring music, a vendor fair and award ceremony! 10K Walk/Run Benefitting Foster and High--Needs Children and Families May 10, 2008 • Race Begins at 8:30AM Morro Rock to Cayucos Pier The Family Care Connection 09 THE Family Care Connection Winter 2008 Fam ‘87 ‘07 NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID SAN LUIS OBISPO, CA PERMIT NO.361 Family Care Connection Winter 2008 . i N ly C et are c work, In Family Care Network, Inc. 3765 South Higuera Street, Suite 100 San Luis Obispo, CA 93401 THE Sponsor a Child for Christmas Thank You! Coming Attractions Santa Maria Office Open House—February 28th, 2008 The Family Care Network is once again expanding to meet needs in Santa Barbara County. In light of our ever-growing staff and client needs, the agency has found a new larger location to serve as our Santa Maria office. On Feb 28th from 11:30am-2:30pm, the agency will be a hosting an Open House event with a Chamber of Commerce ribbon cutting ceremony taking place at 12:30pm. The public is invited to join the agency as we give tours of the new facility and share all the exciting activities happening with our Santa Barbara County services. National Day of Hope—April 2nd, 2008 In honor of April being National Child Abuse Awareness Month, ChildHelp USA has established the National Day of Hope, falling on April 2nd this year, as a day all are asked to keep victims of child abuse and neglect in our thoughts and prayers. For more information on this special day, please visit www.childhelp.usa.org. Miracle Miles for Kids A Thought or Two Jim Roberts, CEO 5th Annual Miracle Miles for Kids 10K Walk/Run—May 10th, 2008 It’s time to lace up to help foster and high-needs children and families in our community. The agency’s 5th annual Miracle Miles for Kids is just around the corner! Please join us on May 10th at Morro Rock for one of the most exciting 10K runs and post-race parties on the Central Coast! For more race information, to learn how to register for the run or to pledge your support, refer to page 8 inside or visit our website at www.fcni.org. ‘87 Family Care Network, Inc. ‘07 i N ly C et are c work, In . FCNI SERVICES Therapeutic Foster Care Services • Community-Linked Services Family Support Services • Transitional Housing Services School-Based Mental Health & Delinquency Prevention Services Fam The Family Care Connection is a quarterly publication of The Family Care Network, Inc. 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