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9960 Business Park Dr. Ste. 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 www.aasacramento.org SEPTEMBER 2012 TRADITION NINE "A.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve." A.A. is full of delightful paradoxes. Tradition Nine is, in my opinion, one of the biggest and best. It states that we “ought never be organized.” Yet it’s perfectly fine to create service boards and committees. Right there it seems like we’re allowing a specific form of organization, even while eschewing the idea of any organization! If you’re new to A.A. or have limited exposure to the inner workings of the fellowship, this nonorganization idea is likely puzzling to you. I know it was (and still is) to me. Here’s what I think it means: You’re not the boss of me! You’re not the boss of us! We’re not the boss of us, either! In other words, no one’s in charge of anyone else. CONTINUED TO PAGE 9 CENTRAL OFFICE WILL BE CLOSED For Labor Day September 1st - 3rd, 2012 What’s inside? Master Calendar Speaker Meetings Group News Special Events Birthdays CommUNITY Corner *The Way We Were Puzzle Minutes Treasurer’s Report Group Contributions CCFAA 2-3 4 4-5 5 6-8 9 10-13 15 16-20 21 22-23 STEP NINE: “Made direct amends to such people wherever possible except when to do so would injure them or others.” I want to begin with the story of our Akron, Ohio cofounder, Dr. Bob Smith, who knew he could not stay sober until he made his amends. He accomplished this in ONE DAY. In the Big Book, on page 156, we read about Dr. Bob’s 9th Step: “One morning he took the bull by the horns and set out to tell those he feared what his trouble had been. He found himself surprisingly well received, and learned that many knew of his drinking. Stepping into his car, he made the rounds of people he had hurt. He trembled as he went about, for this might mean ruin, particularly to a person in his line of business.” Dr. Bob’s story continues, “At midnight, he came home exhausted, but very happy. He has not had a drink since.” Dr. Bob confirmed that making an amends set him free, not only free from alcohol and all its baleful consequences, but also free from the bondage of selfwill run riot and living with the wreckage of one’s past. If we don’t deal with our past, it You can reach us by email at: [email protected] CONTINUED TO PAGE 8 Page 1 By The Way Deadline Dates for Submissions for the By The Way and monthly flyers Month Flyers By The Way September 2012 Monday 9/10 Wednesday 8/15 October 2012 Wednesday 10/10 Saturday 9/15 November 2012 Saturday 11/10 Monday 10/15 December 2012 Monday 12/10 Thursday 11/15 January 2013 Thursday 1/10 Tuesday 1/15 SEPTEMBER 2012 TELESERVICE DESK Volunteers answer the hotline from 9AM to 1PM or 1PM to 5PM Monday through Friday at Central Office. We are looking for volunteers who can substitute in the absence of the regular volunteers. This is a great way to be of service and to help the alcoholic who still suffers. Volunteers need a minimum of six months of sobriety to answer the hotline. OFFICE OPERATIONS COMMITTEE All submissions need to be in by 5:00PM. Email ALL submissions to: [email protected] Tuesday, September 11th at 6:00PM at Central Office 9960 Business Park Dr. Suite 110, Sac., CA 95827 By The Way is published monthly by the Central California Fellowship (CCF), 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA 95827. Current subscription rate is $12.00 per year. Opinions, letters, and stories printed in By The Way are not to be attributed to Alcoholics Anonymous, the Central California Fellowship or any group within Alcoholics Anonymous unless otherwise stated or attributed. All reprinted articles are included with the permission of their respective publisher. H&I MONTHLY MEETING 3rd Thursday, at 6PM Coco’s Restaurant, 1830 Arden Way, Sacramento We have an ongoing need for volunteers. Contact the Area 42 Chairman, Mike H., at 9164851136 or email at [email protected] for more information. PI/CPC COMMITTEE Meets on the 2nd Monday of the month at 7:00 PM Citrus Heights Police Department Building 6315 Fountain Square Drive, Citrus Heights (Off Greenback 2.1 miles east of I80) GROUP DELEGATES Please let us know who you are so we can send your group a FREE copy of the By The Way and the flyer mailing each month. We want to be sure we have uptodate info about your meeting location, day, time, and format. CALIFORNIA NORTHERN INTERIOR AREA 7 CCFAA is here to be of service to you and your group. Please feel free to visit your Central Office located at: 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110 in Sacramento! Next Area Committee Meeting September 15th at 10:00AM 1040 Soule St., West Sacramento SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES @ CCFAA! We need volunteers to help with the assembly of the flyer mailing on TUESDAY, September 11th at 9:30 a.m. and the By The Way mailing on FRIDAY, September 28th at 9:30 a.m. 2012 CENTRAL OFFICE CLOSURES 2012 Central Office Volunteer Days Central Office would like to have volunteers arrive at 9:30AM on the dates below. Free coffee and donuts are available in exchange for a couple of hours of your time to assist in the monthly mailings. Month Flyers By The Way September 2012 Tuesday 9/11 Friday 9/28 October 2012 Thursday 10/11 Wednesday 10/31 November 2012 Tuesday 11/13 Friday 11/30 December 2012 Tuesday 12/11 Friday 12/28 January 2013 Friday 1/11 Thursday 1/31 Please call (916) 4541771 if you plan to attend. CCFAA **CENTRAL OFFICE IS ALWAYS CLOSED HOLIDAY WEEKENDS** HOLIDAY DATE Labor Day September 3 Veteran’s Day Floating Holiday Christmas Day Thursday November 23 rd Friday December 24 th Monday th Tuesday st Monday December 25 New Year’s Eve Monday nd November 22 Day After Thanksgiving December 31 Monday th November 12 Thanksgiving Day DAY rd Page 2 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 A.A. Teleservice Needs YOU!! “I can’t explain why I didn’t hang up. I just sat there on the floor, with the receiver to my ear. The next thing I heard was “Good afternoon. Alcoholics Anonymous. May we help you?” Alcoholics Anonymous Teleservice, also known as the A.A. hotline, services alcoholics who are in need of help. We help them to locate meetings in their area or provide them with someone to talk to in times of crisis. “Came to Believe” PG 23 This is a great way to be of service to your fellow alcoholics. All you need is the use of a phone and a current meeting schedule. From the comfort of your own home on a landline telephone or even while you’re out and about with the use of a cell phone you can be of service. We would love to have you join our team. If you have at least six (6) months of sobriety and would like to be of service please contact Central Office at 916-454-1771 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Saturday, September 15, 2012 16th Annual National AA Archives Workshop Pacific Regional Forum “Passing It On” September14-16,2012 October 4 - 7, 2012 inALASKA! No Registration Fee. Meeting starts at 3:00pm New Delegates arrive at 2:00pm 2625 Alta Arden Expressway, Sac., CA 95825 Cocoa Beach, Florida You can register online at www.aa.org; go to “For Groups & Members,” click “Regional Forums” tab. Workshops, Speakers, Panels, & Presentations! Northern California Council of Alcoholics Anonymous Registration fee is $35, go to: www.aanationalarchivesworkshop.com Discount hotel rate until 9/2/12, call 1800-206-2747; use Group Code: NAW 65TH ANNUAL FALL CONFERENCE Westmark Hotel & Conference Center In Sacramento, October 57, 2012 NCCAA Fall 2012 Planning Committee Woodlake Inn, 500 Leisure Lane, Sacramento, 95815. Preregistration is $10. See www.nccaa.org for more details. Held at Group Three: 9940 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110 Sacramento, CA 95827 Will be held the 1st Sunday of the month at 12:00pm: 49th Annual International Women’s Conference September 2nd at Noon Reno, NV 54TH ICYPAA! February 14 - 17th, 2013. Preregister until Jan.20th, 2012. www.internationalwomensconference.org The Silver Legacy Hotel is offering discounted rooms at $109 per night, use IWC Booking Code: IWC213 CCFAA Thursday Sunday, Sept. 13 – 16, 2012. The Millennium Hotel St. Louis 200 South 4th St., St. Louis, MO 63102. Visit: www.icypaahost.org. Preregistration: $30. Teleservice Activity Report July 2012 Teleservice July YTD 62 454 Meetings/Info 350 2296 Total Calls 2750 12 Step 412 Teledesk Activity Report July 2012 International Conference of Young People in Alcoholics Anonymous Phone: 9074567722 813 Noble St., Fairbanks, AK 99701 $89.00 plus tax, Group Code: PARE091312 (group rate deadline is 8/13/12) Teledesk July YTD 15 103 Meetings/Info 424 2998 Total Calls 439 3101 12 Step Page 3 By The Way WEEKLY SPEAKER MEETINGS CAMERON PARK GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Saturday, 8:00PM to 9:30PM. WHERE: Light of the Hills Church, 3100 Rodeo Dr., Cameron Park. Main Speakers are: 9/1 Kay K., Carmichael, 9/8 Jeremiah K., Cameron Park, 9/15 John D., Folsom, 9/22 Tom L., Elk Grove, 9/29 Edie C., Sacramento. Last Saturday is Birthday Night. Come join us for great fellowship every Saturday night. FOLSOM WAY OF LIFE GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Thursday, 7:00PM. WHERE: Journey Church, 450 Blue Ravine Road, Folsom. FOURTH DIMENSION GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Thursday, 8:00pm. WHERE: Church of Christ, 1799 Cirby Way, Roseville. More details at www.fourthdimensiongroup.org. ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Saturday, 8 9:30PM. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St., Roseville 95678. SUNRISE SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Every Sunday from 11:00AM 12:00PM. WHERE: Sunset NoAl Alano Club, 5809 Gibbons Drive, Carmichael. We have local speakers who inspire and inform. All are welcome. MONTHLY SPEAKER MEETINGS AUBURN FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: Every third Saturday at 7:30PM. WHERE: 244 Palm Ave., Auburn, CA 95603. DAVIS HOPE GROUP ~ WHEN: First Saturday of each month at 7:00PM. WHERE: St. Martin’s Church,640 Hawthorne at Sycamore, Davis. ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: 3rd Saturday of every month. Potluck at 7:00 PM and Speaker at 8:00 PM WHERE: Native Sons Hall 9151 Grove St., Elk Grove (corner of Kent and Grove Streets). GALT FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: 1st Saturday of every month. Dinner: 6:00 p.m. Speaker Meeting: 7:00 p.m. Group supplies main course. Join us! Bring a side dish or just yourself and some friends. WHERE: Located at 169 4th St., Galt. Call 2097451525 for more info. Sept 1: Chicken Dinner, Speaker Larry N. Stockton; Oct 6: Ham, Beans, & Cornbread, Speaker Laurianne R. – Pleasanton; **Nov 3: 41st Anniversary Dinner, Speaker & Dance! Roast Beef Dinner served at 5:30pm, Speaker is Johnny H., from Long Beach at 7:00pm. Basket will be passed to cover the cost of dinner. Dance from 9:0011:00pm. Located at the Littleton Civic Center, 123 Civic Dr., Galt, 95632. GROUP ONE ~ WHEN: Third Sunday of the month, the noon meeting is a speaker meeting. WHERE: 2804 T St., Sacramento. GROUP THREE ~ WHEN: Third Saturday of the month at 8:00pm. WHERE: 9940 Business Park Drive, Ste. 110, Sacramento (Located in the same parking lot as Central Office). HIFLYERS ~ WHEN: Last Sunday of the month at 7:00pm. WHERE: 3077 Alhambra Drive, Suite E, Cameron Park HOPE & SERENITY SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: First Saturday of the month at 8:00PM. WHERE: UC Davis Cancer Center, 4501 X Street, Sacramento. Parking $3.00 (UCD required). We are always interested in groups wanting to host a meeting, call 9168021463 if interested. MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS ~ WHEN: Last Saturday of the month at 7:00pm to 8:15pm. WHERE: 2903 30th Street (near Franklin Blvd. and 4th Ave). NEW HOPE GROUP ~ WHEN: Last Saturday of every month 7PM. WHERE: St. Francis Episcopal Church 11430 Fair Oaks Blvd. NORTH HALL GROUP ~ WHEN: Third Saturday of the month at 8:00 pm. WHERE: 3501 2nd Ave., Sacramento. Speakers for September 15th are Glenn M. (40 min.) and Regina K. (20 min.) from Sacramento. NORTH SACRAMENTO GROUP ~ WHEN: First Saturday of the month, 7:00 pm WHERE: 2330 Fairfield St., Sacramento. CCFAA SEPTEMBER 2012 ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT ~ WHEN: Last Friday of the month at 10:00pm. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St, Roseville. Young A.A. Speaker Meeting. SACRAMENTO MONTHLY SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Second Saturday of every month at 8:00 pm WHERE: Centennial Methodist Church, 5401 Freeport Blvd., Sacramento. Please join us for dinner with the speaker & committee at Marie Callender’s on Freeport at 6:00pm, contact Ed L. at 9162014792 for information. Speakers Sept 8: Ted R., San Francisco (This is our 32nd Anniversary Meeting) Oct 13: Leslie, Modesto – Nov 10: Fernando S., Concord – Dec 8: Mike S., Martinez. SACYPAA ~ WHEN: Fourth Saturday of the month, 8:00 pm. WHERE: St Marks United Methodist Church 2391 St. Marks Way, Sacramento. Please go to sacypaa.org for more info. TRADITIONAL GROUP SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Fourth Sunday of the month at 12:00 noon. WHERE: 2625 Alta Arden Way, Sacramento. WOODLAND GROUP AA/ALANON SPEAKER & POTLUCK ~ WHEN: Second Saturday of the month, potluck at 6:00pm, speakers at 7:00pm: 20 Minute AlAnon Speaker & 45 Minute AA Speaker. WHERE: 241 California St., Woodland, 95695. WOODLAND TRADITIONAL GROUP ~ WHEN: Last Friday of the month at 7:30pm. WHERE: 418B Main St. in Woodland (Alley entrance). September speaker is Peter John L. from Woodland Traditional. GROUP NEWS UPDATES & CHANGES 12 AND 12 BOOK STUDY GROUP~ Discontinued Until Further Notice~ The Tuesday 8:00pm book study in Roseville that met at 658 Commerce Dr., #F (Olive Branch Church) is discontinued until a new meeting place is established. AUBURN FELLOWSHIP~ New Time~ The Friday 10:00pm open, candlelight meeting has changed to 9:30pm. They meet at 244 Palm Ave., Auburn. FLYING BLIND BIG BOOK STUDY~ Discontinued Meeting~ The Thursday, 7:30pm meeting that met at 646 North Market Blvd. is no longer meeting. It has been discontinued. GROUP ONE~ Discontinued Meeting~ The Saturday 6:00am meeting at 2804 T St. is no longer meeting. They have been discontinued. MEN SEEKING SERENITY~ Discontinued Meeting~ The Wednesday 6:00pm Men’s meeting that met at 571 C St. in Galt is no longer meeting. It has been discontinued. NATOMAS GROUP~ New Time~ The Wednesday night book study has moved to 7:00pm. They still meet at 924 San Juan Rd. (Peace Lutheran Church) for an open, one hour meeting. NEVER ON TUESDAY~ Discontinued Meeting~ They met on Mon, Wed, Thurs, & Friday at 6:30am at 1430 J St., Sacramento. They are no longer meeting, the group is discontinued. NEW GROUPS & MEETINGS BY THE BOOK~ New Meeting~ Meets Fridays at 6:30am for a closed, one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible, book study. Located at 1430 J St., Sacramento 95814 (In trailer behind St. Paul’s Episcopal Church). ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP~ New Meetings~ Meets Mon. – Thurs. at 6:30am for an open, one hour, mediation meeting with handicap access. Located at 9151 Grove St., Elk Grove, 95624. GOOD FOR NOTHING~ New Meeting~ Meets on Tuesdays at 7:00pm for an open, men’s, nonsmoking, one hour meeting with handicap access. Located at 5645 Rocklin Rd., Loomis, Sierra Christian Church. Page 4 By The Way GOOD ORDERLY DIRECTION~ New Meeting~ Meets on Mondays at 6:30pm for an open, one hour, nonsmoking meeting with handicap access. Located at 800 Plumas St., Yuba City, 95991. GROUP THREE~ New Meeting~ Meets the 3rd Sunday of the month at noon for an “AA World Service & 12 Concepts Workshop” meeting. Located at 9940 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110, Sacramento. MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS ~ New Meeting~ New young people’s, open, one hour meeting is held Saturday nights at 5:30pm. Located at 2903 30th Street, Sacramento (near Franklin & 4th Ave.). PROGRAM OF ACTION ~ New Meeting~ Meets on Sundays at 5:00pm for an open, one hour meeting with handicap access. Located at the Shasta Hotel, 1017 10th St., Sacramento, 95814. RULE 62 MIDTOWN ~ New Meeting~ Meets on Tuesdays at 6:00pm for an open, one hour meeting with handicap access. Located at the Eastern Star Hall, 2719 K. Street, Sacramento. WOODLAND GROUP AA/ALANON SPEAKER & POTLUCK ~ New Speaker Meeting~ WHEN: Second Saturday of the month, potluck at 6:00pm, speakers at 7:00pm: 20 Minute AlAnon Speaker & 45 Minute AA Speaker. Located at 241 California St., Woodland, 95695. GROUP ANNOUNCEMENTS FAIR OAKS MONDAY NIGHT GROUP~ Needs Support! We meet from 8:009:30pm on Monday nights for an open meeting. Located at 5901 San Juan Ave. in Citrus Heights (Advent Lutheran Church). FRIDAY WAY OUT GROUP~ Needs Support! We meet at 2620 Capitol Ave., Trinity Cathedral, upstairs from the alley side of the building. We meet Fridays at 6:30pm for an open, one hour meeting. Come and join us! ROUND TABLE GROUP~ Come Support Us! Meets Monday nights at 8:00pm for an open, one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible meeting. They meet at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church at 7850 Watt Ave. in Antelope. SERENITY IN THE BOOK~ Needs Support! Meets on Thursdays at 8:00pm for an open book study. New format! Everybody reads & most share, beautiful meeting. Come join us, we need your support. Located at 5809 Gibbons Dr., Carmichael, 95608. WOMEN FOR WOMEN~ Needs Your Help! Hey Ladies, we need your support! We meet on Wednesday mornings at 8:00am for a one hour, open, nonsmoking, women’s meeting with handicap access. We are located at 11430 Fair Oaks Blvd. in Fair Oaks (St. Francis Episcopal Church). Children are welcome. Group Update forms can be found at www.aasacramento.org. SEPTEMBER 2012 AA UNITY GROUP – 20th Anniversary Speaker Meeting – WHEN: Thurs., Sept., 20th from 7:00 – 8:30pm. WHERE: 7300 Wyndham Dr., (2nd Floor, Conf. Rm. 5) Sacramento, 95823. Speaker is Fernando S. from Concord, CA. Serving sobriety, fellowship, and refreshments. BY THE GRACE – Annual Women’s Breakfast & Speaker Meeting – WHEN: Sat., Sept. 15th, 7:30am hosted breakfast & 8:00am speaker. Speaker is Anne Marie P. from Loomis. WHERE: 2101 Zinfandel Dr., Rancho Cordova, 95670 (United Methodist Church). Bring a friend! SEPTEMBER 2012 OCTOBER 2012 TH CCFAA DISTRICT 27 & CNIA 07 – Bridging the Gap Workshop and Volunteer Training – WHEN: Sat., Sept. 29th. Hot dogs & hamburgers at 11:30am, workshop and training from 12:00 – 4:00pm. WHERE: 7607 Garden Gate Dr., Citrus Heights, 95621 (Ascension Lutheran Church). EAST YOLO FELLOWSHIP – 7th Tradition Workshop – WHEN: Sept. 8th from 12:00–2:00pm. WHERE: 1040 Soule St., West Sacramento. Panel workshop speakers are: Lela M. CNIA Delegate, Jan P. – past delegate, and Kelley M. Food & sodas will be provided, but feel free to bring a dish if you wish. FOLSOM BIG BOOK GROUP – 15th Annual Traditions Potluck & Speaker Meeting – WHEN: Sept. 15th, potluck at 6:00pm, speaker at 7:30pm. WHERE: 410 Wool Street, Folsom (Trinity Episcopal Church – Trinity Hall). Guest Speaker is Jim A. from San Jose. OAK TREE FELLOWSHIP – 3rd Annual Anniversary Picnic – WHEN: Sat., Sept. 22nd, 4:00pm start time, 6:00pm speaker. WHERE: Parkside Community Church, 5700 South Land Park Dr., Sacramento. Speaker is Jimmie S. Join us for fun, fellowship, and great food. SACRAMENTO MONTHLY SPEAKER MEETING – 32nd Anniversary – WHEN: September 8th, at 8:00pm. WHERE: Centennial Methodist Church, 5401 Freeport Blvd., Sacramento. SHARING & CARING “Bring a Book BBQ Event” WHEN: Sept. 23rd from 12:00 4:00pm, speaker meeting at 1:30pm. WHERE: Rusch Park, 7801 Auburn Blvd., Citrus Heights, 95610. This event supports our local schools in the Sacramento area; our goal is to house our AA Big Book in 82 school libraries. Your donation of a new big book will allow you a BBQ plate with includes a hamburger and donated side dishes. Bring a dish if you wish. ST. LOUIS, MISSOURI – 54TH ICYPAA – WHEN: Thurs. – Sun., Sept. 13 – 16, 2012. WHERE: The Millennium Hotel St. Louis, 200 South 4th Street, St. Louis, MO 63102. Online conference registration and hotel registration can be found at icypaahost.org. Prereg. is $30. WEST SLOPE UNITY CAMP OUT – WHEN: September 21 – 23, 2012. WHERE: Sly Park, Jenkinson Lake, Group Area 5. Check in at 4:00pm on Friday night, check out at 11:30am on Sunday. Registration is $30 by August 25th, kids under 12 are free; Saturday BBQ TriTip dinner is $5. For more information call Sherry at 5304096835. WOODLAND TRADITIONAL GROUP – Annual Fall Festival – WHEN: September 15, potluck at 6:00pm, speaker to follow. WHERE: 1250 E. Gum Ave., Woodland, 95776 (Yolo County Fair Grounds, Home Art Building). AA Speaker is Kenny B. from Sacramento, AlAnon Speaker is Kevin T., from Woodland. Raffle, Food, and Fun! If there are any changes to your meeting location, mailing address, format, or if your meeting is discontinued, please contact Central Office ASAP and update your information. Don’t send a newcomer to an empty room! Thank you! 6 ANNUAL CENTRAL FOOTHILL WOMEN’S CONFERENCE – WHEN: October 6th from 8:30am – 4:00pm. WHERE: 12134 Airport Rd., Sutter Creek, American Legion Hall. “KISS: Keep It Simple Sister” Speaker is Margaret R. from Roseville. Continental Breakfast and Lunch included, $15 preregistration until Sept. 15th, $18 at the door. FREEDOM GROUP – Anniversary BBQ Potluck and Bocce Ball Tournament – WHERE: East Portal Park, East Sacramento WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13th, 11:30am – 3:30pm. Group is providing hot dogs and burgers, please bring a side dish or dessert. ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP Spaghetti Feed WHEN: October 4th, 4:00pm dinner, 5:30pm white elephant sale, 8:00pm speaker. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St., Roseville. $5.00 for single plate, $8 for a couple. Special speaker coming from Auburn. NCCAA 65TH ANNUAL FALL CONFERENCE – Sacramento – WHEN: October 57, 2012. WHERE: Woodlake Inn, 500 Leisure Lane, Sacramento, 95815. Preregistration is $10. See www.nccaa.org for more details. Page 5 By The Way Happy Birthday! SEPTEMBER 2012 GREENHAVEN GROUP AA UNITY Al 27 yrs Rae 19 yrs J. J. 32 yrs Maria M. 28 yrs Brenda 4 yrs Randy 3 yrs Glenn P. 22 yrs David A. 21 yrs Alvin 2 yrs Carl 1 yr Bruce 15 yrs Robert A. 15 yrs Valencia 1 yr Gene J. 14 yrs Donald F. 7 yrs CATHEDRAL GROUP Kristy P. 6 yrs Randy E. 6 yrs Ron D. 24 yrs John W. 5 yrs Lori 4 yrs COURAGE TO CHANGE Abby S. 3 yrs Malwin J. 2 yrs Don M. 39 yrs Faye M. 31 yrs Mel J. 2 yrs Pamela B. 2 yrs Mary L. 26 yrs Julie V. 1 yr Matt O. 1 yr Brian O. 3 yrs DAILY ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT GROUP ONE Randy R. 22 yrs Greg P. 13 yrs Theodore H. 7 yrs Robert G. 7 yrs Doug J. 6 yrs Dustin B. 5 yrs Teri D. 5 yrs Brian G. 4 yrs Kristina P. 3 yrs David 1 yr Silvia T. 2 yrs Ken P. 2 yrs DAVIS FRIDAY NOON GROUP Shannon B. 1 yr Rudy L. 1 yr Peter John L. 35 yrs Rudy L. 29 yrs George R 1 yr Jon F. 15 yrs Bill B. 6 yrs GROUP THREE Adair 3 yrs Maureen T. 3 yrs Robert J. 30 yrs Ted E. 28 yrs Scott L. 1 yr Frank V. 27 yrs Craig G. 25 yrs Mike C. 23 yrs Donna S. 23 yrs EAST YOLO FWP Jan V. 37 yrs George L. 34 yrs Maria S. 22 yrs Mitchel O. 21 yrs Mike Mc. 30 yrs Phil R. 21 yrs Alexis C. 20 yrs Terri T. 20 yrs Linda S. 16 yrs Evelyn B. 16 yrs Rae W. 19 yrs Joseph G. 19 yrs Chris J. 15 yrs Windy 12 yrs Charlie D. 17 yrs Dave H. 15 yrs Alex Z. 11 yrs Rebecca O. 10 yrs Jason W. 12 yrs Thomas L. 11 yrs Joe N. 11 yrs Lisa S. 11 yrs Steve H. 10 yrs Jim R. 10 yrs Don F. 8 yrs Callyn J. 8 yrs Happy Birthday to you all, and thank you for your participation in the Birthday Club! Chris M. 9 yrs Rebecca E. 9 yrs Scott A. 8 yrs Alisha J. 6 yrs John H. 6 yrs Larry R. 6 yrs Steven H. 5 yrs Ann F. 4 yrs Kelly L. 7 yrs Tiffany J. 7 yrs Richard M. 4 yrs Luiz D. 1 yr Jeff B. 6 yrs Kelly O. 6 yrs Tracy D. 1 yr FAIR OAKS BEGINNERS Danielle D. 5 yrs Alex B. 5 yrs ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP Tim B. 5 yrs Laura F. 5 yrs June R. 5 yrs Rick B. 26 yrs James M. 22 yrs GIBBONS NOON Dave T. 5 yrs Dennis A. 4 yrs Jason P. 18 yrs Phil Litts 16 yrs Doris S. 26 yrs Bill O. 16 yrs Sadie T. 4 yrs Teana S. 4 yrs Tania W. 8 yrs Jed 8 yrs Doug R. 16 yrs Aaron H. 7 yrs Bob B. 3 yrs Sandy E. 3 yrs Kelly J. 7 yrs April F. 6 yrs Brian K. 5 yrs Mike J. 2 yrs Jacelyn B. 3 yrs Wayne H. 3 yrs Sharon S. 4 yrs Mike F. 3 yrs Ryan L. 2 yrs Ronnie B. 2 yrs Greg K. 3 yrs John S. 3 yrs Ryan M. 3 yrs Sheri C. 3 yrs Scott 2 yrs Amy A. 1 yr Jose T. 3 yrs Andy C. 2 yrs John B. 3 yrs Mel A. 1 yr Danielle W. 1 yr Pam T. 1 yr Lance B. 2 yrs Jeannie 2 yrs Rick W. 1 yr Jeremy A. 1 yr Ricky 1 yr Marie 1 yr Ken P. 2 yrs Ron P. 2 yrs CCFAA Nancy 4 yrs Page 6 By The Way Happy Birthday! SEPTEMBER 2012 GROUP THREE (CONT’D) OAK TREE FELLOWSHIP (CONT’D) ROSEVILLE 5TH STREET FWP (CONT’D) Lydia R. 2 yrs Shirley P. 2 yrs Mark S. 7 yrs Jerri M. 7 yrs Alex S. 6 yrs Forest 6 yrs Joe S. 1 yr Karl H. 1 yr Al D. 7 yrs Randy 6 yrs Steve R. 5 yrs Sandra T.P. 5 yrs Mark L. 1 yr Danielle T. 1 yr Yvonne W. 6 yrs Dave T. 5 yrs Shawn F. 5 yrs Bobby Joe 5 yrs Catherine S. 4 yrs Chad S. 3 yrs Brian W. 5 yrs Ernest B. 5 yrs James 3 yrs Rhonda 3 yrs Tyler B. 5 yrs Harry O. 4 yrs Kathy J. 3 yrs Dan F. 3 yrs Heidi M. 4 yrs Tim W. 4 yrs H.O.W. GROUP Bruce K. (2) 5 yrs NATOMAS GROUP Kathy W. 25 yrs Robin H. 16 yrs Chris S. 2 yrs Lydia T. 2 yrs Yvonne F. 4 yrs Aaron S. 3 yrs Mary Ellen R. 15 yrs Lilly N. 13 yrs John B. 2 yrs Andrew G. 1 yr Paul L. 3 yrs Timothy R. 3 yrs Tracie B. 9 yrs David H. 8 yrs Kathy J. 1 yr Gary C. 3 yrs Steve E. 3 yrs Rich D. 7 yrs Elisa C. 6 yrs ORANGEVALE OPEN Rodney 2 yrs Robert L. 2 yrs Pia 6 yrs Gail 5 yrs Louise M. 36 yrs Gary W. 36 yrs Sandra C. 2 yrs Jim V. 2 yrs Frank L. 5 yrs Eddie J. 4 yrs Karen J. 12 yrs Jack E. 7 yrs Nicola B. 2 yrs Alana L. 2 yrs Kelly N. 3 yrs Judi M. 3 yrs Richard D. 2 yrs Sheri S. 2 yrs Keith S. 2 yrs Peter R. 3 yrs Ron H. 2 yrs RANCHO MURIETA FELLOWSHIP Heather S. 2 yrs Mike C. 1 yr Roberta C. 2 yrs Jane W. 1 yr Rusty 6 yrs Brittany I. 1 yr Bob G. 1 yr Alexandria D. 1 yr Sam M. 1 yr Bob B. 3 yrs REBELLION DOGS NORTH HALL Diane Y. 38 yrs Teda E. 28 yrs Dwight C. 18 yrs Bridgette Mc. 6 yrs Ashley K. 1 yr Tim K. 1 yr Annabelle L. 22 yrs Renee T. 14 yrs Lonnie F. 5 yrs Brent N. 5 yrs Zack R. 1 yr Bobby T. 14 yrs Arthur B. 13 yrs Andrew C. 2 yrs ROSEVILLE EAST SIDE GROUP Johnnie W. 5 yrs Brent N. 5 yrs RIO LINDA FELLOWSHIP Dawn H. 4 yrs Jeff P. 4 yrs Tim L. 3 yrs James S. 22 yrs Carolyn H. 21 yrs ROSEVILLE FWP MONDAY NIGHT GP Rob C. 2 yrs Lori C. 2 yrs Stan B. 9 yrs Dan G. 4 yrs Ellen L. 10 yrs Cat G. 2 yrs Vanessa C. 2 yrs Tricia B. 3 yrs Lupe S. 2 yrs ROUND TABLE GROUP Bobby R. 2 yrs Curtis H. 2 yrs Tom M. 2 yrs Tom H. 2 yrs Michele S. 5 yrs Jonathan T. 1 yr Michael O. 1 yrs Mark S. 2 yrs Colleen D. 2 yrs SERENITY BOOK & STEP STUDY Blythe 1 yr Corey L. 1 yr Audrey G. 1 yr Sandra L. 1 yr Audrey 31 yrs Robert J. 30 yrs Kevin D. 1 yr Joy S. 1 yr Chris J. 1 yr Wally B. 9 yrs Rina R. 2 yrs TH Able S. 2 yrs Jim B. 2 yrs ROSEVILLE 5 STREET FWP SHARING AND CARING NUMBER ONE OFFENDERS Louise M. 36 yrs Dave S. 23 yrs Mo R. 40 yrs Gary W. 36 yrs Kathy W. 25 yrs Josie B. 25 yrs Jeanette P. 21 yrs Marlena B. 18 yrs Kathy T. 34 yrs Cathi C. 30 yrs David H. 8 yrs Rich D. 7 yrs Justin D. 17 yrs Sue L. 17 yrs Gary W. 28 yrs Doris S. 26 yrs Ron A. 6 yrs Gerald G. 16 yrs Gino 15 yrs Chris 19 yrs Garrett V. 19 yrs OAK TREE FELLOWSHIP Mike C. 14 yrs Michael G. 9 yrs Doug R. 16 yrs Jason L. 12 yrs JJ 32 yrs Kathy B. 32 yrs Kathy S. 9 yrs Kristi R. 9 yrs Dorinne 10 yrs Katie P. 9 yrs Mary A. 32 yrs James S. 22 yrs Dave W. 7 yrs David S. 7 yrs Logan 9 yrs Sandra B. 7 yrs Jackson G. 20 yrs Robert A. 15 yrs Dusty R. 6 yrs Ken A. 6 yrs Heinz S. 7 yrs Strefani A. 6 yrs Lori R. 13 yrs John S. 11 yrs Mary Jo E. 6 yrs Heather W. 6 yrs Dawn 6 yrs Julie M. 6 yrs Cheryl M. 11 yrs Dave T. 10 yrs Alan L. 6 yrs Garrett L. 6 yrs Brian K. 5 yrs Carl W. 4 yrs Don F. 8 yrs Kelly J. 8 yrs Daniel O. 6 yrs Shyra 6 yrs Faith 4 yrs Stephanie 4 yrs Doona V. 1 yr CCFAA Page 7 Happy Birthday! By The Way SHARING AND CARING (CONT’D) Brandon G. 3 yrs Shelley M. 2 yrs Michael M. 1 yr Kaathey J. 1 yr SUNDAY REFLECTIONS Jan V. 37 yrs Michael M. 1 yr TRADITIONAL Jeanie H. 39 yrs Jan V. 37 yrs Isabelle N. 33 yrs Ted E. 28 yrs Craig C. 27 yrs Bruce D. 25 yrs Herb S. 22 yrs Tony H. 20 yrs L.R. H. 17 yrs Chris V. 16 yrs Vera G. 12 yrs Jeanette M. 10 yrs Lena S. 8 yrs Jay S. 7 yrs Tiffany J. 7 yrs Sandra B. 7 yrs Laura I. 5 yrs Elmer S. 5 yrs Evangelina 5 yrs Bob H. 4 yrs Chris K. 3 yrs Valerie P. 3 yrs Andrew C. 2 yrs William E. 2 yrs Madhu R. 2 yrs Leigh R. 2 yrs Ty T. 2 yrs Don F. 2 yrs Shoshana R. 2 yrs William L. 1 yr Adrienne R. 1 yr Stephanie W. 1 yr Kristin B. 1 yr WINTERS KITCHEN TABLE GROUP Edie 33 yrs Jack 1 yr WOODLAND TRADITIONAL Peter John L. 35 yrs John T. 31 yrs Vanus B. 29 yrs Tom D. 27 yrs Mike C. 26 yrs Kathleen M. 6 yrs Nicole Z. 5 yrs Amy A. 5 yrs Chris B. 5 yrs Kenny H. 5 yrs Wayne HK. 5 yrs Becky M. 4 yrs Ruthie F. 4 yrs Priscilla M. 4 yrs Jim B. 3 yrs Shirley R. 2 yrs Susan P. 2 yrs SEPTEMBER 2012 STEP NINE: CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1 will keep calling us back. Amends means to “right a wrong” and to “change our behavior.” During Step 4, I confronted liabilities, such as resentment, fear, defects of character, which caused me, and others, much harm. Some of my defects were “jealousy, envy, laziness, false pride, dishonesty, selfishness, criticism, greed.” In the process of taking this searching and fearless moral inventory, I was able to make an amends list which would be further addressed in Steps 8 and 9. In discussions with my sponsor, she would begin with a simple request, “Let us welcome God into our midst and ask God to direct our thoughts today.” It was an assurance God was the One Ultimate Authority guiding us during our talks together. I was able to inventory my resentment, fear, false pride, and get rigorously honest with another person a person whom I trusted and in whom I could confine my innermost thoughts, doubts and fears. Our 7th Step Prayer taught me about humility, a deeper understanding of its essence, a desire to seek and do God’s will, and overcome whatever fear or false pride would stand in the way of my usefulness to my Creator and my fellows. I would need the Good Orderly Direction of this Prayer before making my 9th Step amends. On page 83 in our Big Book, our 9th Step reads: “The spiritual life is not a theory; we have to live it.” Living this way of life meant I needed to cooperate with a Power greater than myself to overcome fear, right a wrong, amend behavior, move forward and not live in the past with the tormenting ghosts of yesteryear. My sponsor told me, ‘Do not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by trusting in God we learn courage.” My direct amends from early sobriety was with my immediate family, children, coworkers, loved ones close to me. With God’s help, I became accountable, responsible, and willing to admit my wrongs, to give/receive forgiveness, and change my behavior. I learned to build a trust which I had destroyed during my drinking years. QUIZ ON STEP 9: In our Twelve & Twelve, written years after the Big Book, by our cofounder, Bill Wilson, there are some questions to be addressed. Answers: pages 8387. 1. What are the several classes into which our amends are divided? 2. What does good judgment tell us? 3. We cannot buy our peace of mind with Late Submissions from August what? DAILY ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT 4. If we have prepared ourselves well in Kevin Mc. 32 yrs Happy M. 6 yrs Carissa D. 2 yrs Phyllis M. 5 yrs Arielle 5 yrs advance for Step 9, different reactions will not deflect us from what? Deanna M. 1 yr Rena G. 1 yr ROSEVILLE FWP MONDAY NIGHT GP 5. “Let’s not talk prudence while practicing evasion.” What does this mean? Jerry G. 1 yr Dan K. 1 yr Andy L. 18 yrs CCFAA CONTINUED TO PAGE 20 Page 8 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 COMMUNITY CORNER We are looking for your personal stories on Steps, Traditions, Concepts, & Recovery. We would like to publish articles from our members here in the Central California Fellowship. To submit an article, please send it to [email protected] or 9960 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 TRADITION NINE: CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1 How can A.A. function outside of a formal structure? As a practical matter, it’s the only way we can function. You see, A.A. is a group of alcoholics. Each one of us wants to control and direct the show. We are convinced our way is the ONLY way. A.A.s don’t like to be told what to do (or not to do). As the 12x12 states, alcoholics “can’t be dictated to, individually or collectively.” Thus we need a way to deal with the rampant selfwill inherent within the A.A. group. The same character defects that plague us in our disease will (and often do) manifest at group level. Recovery requires us to do the exact opposite of what our minds and bodies are hardwired to do. We treat our disease by working the Steps and being willing to grow upon spiritual lines. The A.A. group, too, must work within spiritual principles. The group’s spiritual fitness is gauged by the same measures as yours or mine. Individually and collectively we must avoid the “dangers of great wealth, prestige and entrenched power.” No one member, or group of members, has the power or authority to make decisions. We have no board of directors, no divisions, no subsidiaries, no departments or work units. We have no hierarchy. In fact, such organizational structures are anathema to our spirit of service. Time and again I’ve heard people – with all good intentions – try to bring in “management” and “problem solving” tools from the outside. “Oh yes, we had an issue just like this at work and we did X.” But A.A. does not function like any organization you have encountered in the outside world. It’s true we are not organized. Yet we are hardly “disorganized.” There’s an inherent cohesion to our lack of organization. It’s like we’re held together by a centrifugal force of each other and our Higher Power. The force of Good Orderly CCFAA Direction (aka GOD) enables us to work together to keep the doors open so we can continue to share the message and help other alcoholics. Anytime A.A.s start issuing orders and pronouncements bordering on “must” or “can’t” (no absolutes allowed in A.A.!!), the natural order of things (GOD) responds and the situation rights itself naturally, in spite of the controlling behavior or demands of any member or subgroup. If we find the same “clique” of trusted servants filling the same positions over and over again and making all the business decisions for the fellowship, we’re not practicing Tradition Nine. It’s time to let others take a turn. The tradition of rotation is our safety valve in this regard. Like everything else in A.A., this idea is simple. But it’s not easy. However, there’s a huge reward for abiding by Tradition Nine. As long as the tradition of nonorganization is in effect, it’s virtually impossible for the group to make the wrong decision. We may look to precedent to guide us in handling an issue. We may consult our own fellowship’s group guidelines (note they are never called rules). We may check to see what Central office or New York might offer on the subject. In the end, however, we are free to make whatever decision our group wants to make even if “the majority experience in A.A. does seem to suggest” a different outcome. This sounds to me a lot like “turning it over” to GOD via the group conscience. Once again, the Traditions do for us (collectively) what we cannot do for ourselves. That is to keep the A.A. fellowship united and growing along spiritual lines so that we can continue to fulfill our primary purpose. Genius. Simply genius! ~Miranda R. Page 9 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 We haven’t forgotten… “The Third Legacy” article we started in August that was reprinted from The Good News from 1978, will be continued in the October Edition of the By The Way. An Archival Treasure On Thursday, July 26th, I answered the office phone as I was placing a note with a phone number on the bottom of my monitor. There was a strong clear voice of a woman on the other end. She (Yvonne S.) said she had called earlier to inquire if the Fellowship would be interested in a Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous signed by Bill W. and Dr. Bob. My heart got caught in my throat—The note that I had just placed on my monitor was a message to try this number to see if I could reach a lady who had called 10 days earlier regarding a signed Big Book! It was nothing short of a miracle that she called again because the number I had retrieved in hopes of calling her, should we not receive the materials by mail, was incorrect. She briefly explained that her Father became a sober member of AA in 1942 when she was 18 years old and she had his Big Book and some of his writings. Her Father had his book signed by Bill W. and Dr. Bob on March 21, 1948 (the date is recorded with the signatures). Yvonne proudly stated that she was now 88 and was going through her things to down-size for a move and would we like to have the Big Book. She said she called back because she didn’t think that the person who answered her first call understood what she was offering. How right she was. I assured her that I would be happy to come and pick up the materials at a time convenient for her. We agreed that I and another AA would come to her home in Roseville at noon on Saturday, July 28th. I could hardly contain my curiosity and delight. I arrived at her home promptly at noon with a lovely potted Shining Star Hydrangea and a sponsee in tow. All that transpired would require more space for the telling than is available in this month’s issue of the BTW. Briefly: Her Father, Eldon B., started his journey to recovery in April 1942 when a sober member of AA visited their home (in Huntington Park) in response to a request for help written by her Mother. Mrs. Eldon B. had been following the columnist, Ted LeBerthon, in the L. A. Daily News. Mr. LeBerthon had devoted space in his column to report on the activities and success of the alcoholic association in the Los Angeles area. Mrs. B. had been reading that column and decided to write for help for her suffering husband. Yvonne said that within a few days of her Mother sending off that letter (see the facsimile on the next page), an AA 12 Stepper came to their home. Eldon B. was in bed and in a very bad way. After introducing himself, the AA gentleman went into her Father’s room and spoke with him. Her Dad got out of bed, got dressed and was taken to an AA meeting. This pattern of being picked up for meetings continued for many days. Eldon B., never drank again and passed away in 1968 at the age of 76 with 26 years of sobriety. One of the most touching of his writings is his early journal entry on surrender and embracing the program of recovery. In this writing he records his experience with DT’s. These archival treasures will be on display at Central Office when the appropriate display cases are obtained. Stay tune for more of this incredible story of despair, hope and recovery. Rae W. Office Manager CCFAA Page 10 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 April 5, 1942 Dear Sir, I have been reading of the Alcoholics organization and wonder if you could call at our home some time very soon to see my poor wretched husband. I don’t know how he would receive you but don’t think he wants to drink so much, all the trouble it causes him. I had my Methodist Minister talk to him once and he seemed better for a while, so I think he could be reached some way. He had an early religious training but has wandered very far away. He is 50 now, I am 44, don’t know how or why I’ve lived with him for 22 years. Our children, a boy and girl are 18 and 15 and he seems to love them until liquor gets him. He has a good job, not so much pay but steady if he quits drinking, has been warned lots of times to stop, so that’s the dilemma we are in. Once a month at least he drinks every night for about a week until he comes home staggering and dirty as a pig. He yells in his sleep and curses so loud that he can be heard a long way. He took the so called cure once but helped him for only three months. He is good underneath, loving and sweet when he doesn’t drink. After he has spent all his money he is quite sober for about a month, sometimes he drinks a lot every pay day which is twice a month. He works after noon shift from 3:30 to 12, so he would have to be reached before 1:30 or 2. I wish you could have seen him before, now his money is all gone and unless he borrows more or gets credit for it, he might not be so drunk for a little while. He was the drunkest Easter night that I’ve seen him in a long time, fell in the mud outside, he had to work until 10 P.M. but didn’t get home until almost 1 A.M. He is drinking wine right now. I hope so much that you can contact him. I feel as this is my last ray of hope, I’ve tried everything. I feel like I haven’t had enough faith in God, but he has to want to be helped too. We owe a lot on our place and hate to lose it. I have never worked and it would be hard for me to get adjusted, I dislike taking the children from school. If he could be cured of drink, all would be so much better, as I think that he would be so much happier. He really looks quite miserable when he gets drunk. At first is very cocky, thinks he can handle it, but he can’t at all. Yours, Very Truly Mrs. Eldon B. CCFAA Page 11 By The Way A poem written by Eldon B. Bill Wilson’s mind conceived a plan, From which he carved a fine program, For you and me. A psycology (psychology) of life to live, A philosophy we can use and give, A life crammed full of happiness, A life we can’t afford to miss. We have the right to choose our God, Or choose the road that’s still untrod, If we desire. We can now take time to stop and think, And figure out what caused our drink, If cause we had. Perhaps a phobia or fear, And we found that a glass of beer, Would quell this feeling for a while, And bring us cheer, And we could smile. And as time went by we came to know, That beer alone would work to slow. So a couple shots we’d take right quick, And found that this would do the trick. And when we’d wake up feeling bum, We’d take a husky shot of rum. And then sometimes we’d over do, And start us on another stew. It first got Bad, and then got worse, And then began to be a curse. To us and those that were entailed, Before we went to making jail. Then jails and sanitarium, CCFAA SEPTEMBER 2012 And two bit flops down in the slums. And broke and hungry too sometimes, Our mind would toy with petty crimes, That may pay off. Pay off they did, Like hens we raised. We ate their brood and ate their eggs. And when they ceased to cost their lot, We placed them in a boiling pot. We paid society - and how, We shed our blood and beat our brow. We did the Counties dirty work, A job we couldn’t shake or shurk. When the bailiff let us out the mill, We headed right straight down the hill, Out in the rain. And we stopped first at Toney’s Place, To drown our sorrows and disgrace, And ease our pain. The pain in which that I refer, Was only mental and a blur, To me today. But the pain that followed this, Is surely one I hope you miss. It’s the maximum of torture without ease, It is not a bad headache or something you can shake It’s the real McCoy. They call it the D.T.s When you have drank and drank and drank for days, And never eat a bite, Page 12 By The Way Your brain and nerves and innerds, Get in an awful plight. You get to seeing frightful things, They claim that isn’t (aren’t) there. But other people’s versions, Is more than you can share. SEPTEMBER 2012 Look, see that bump beneath the rug, That could be anythingA serpent with its beady eyes, A bear that’s full of fight, A mad dog with a frothy mouth, Or a leper thin and white. Now about these little brown men, They march without a cease. They’re not afraid of God or man, Or a thousand big police. They must have come from pigmey parents, Bread and born and reared in Hell, They keep marching, ever marching, Never have a resting spell. They’re paying no attention it seems - to anything, The just simply take the attitude of Death where is thy sting. Look again, his head comes through, His eyes are emerald green. Get a club and smash that head, Before I have to scream. I think I’ll join their army, And trail them back to Hell. Ah - there’s my name right on the line, Now I think we will rest a spell. The rats were playing ball last night, The game was six to four. Then here come a bunch of wild cats, And jumped right through the door. Of all the bloody yowling hell, That took place in this room, I thought my day was over, And I’d surely met my doom. And now my friends I’m on the mend, And who drops in - a former friend, Of days of your. He tells me that he had some tips, That I almost cashed in all my chips, On this last binge. I guess that’s right, but what’s the odds, I’ve lost all my friends, and all my jobs. I’ve lost my health, and all respect, I guess I’m through, It’s time I checked. See, the rats are in the smoking tray, Eating up the butts. God if this keeps (up) much longer, I will go completely nuts. Will you admit to God and man, That you’ve done everything you can, To quit the booze? I’ve been watching this turmoil go on, For days and days and nights. Of reptile beast and varmint, And they’re always in a fight. CCFAA Page 13 By The Way Here is a facsimile of the autographed page of the first edition, eighth printing of Alcoholics Anonymous (The Big Book) and inside Title Pages. Note the comment regarding the change in size of the book because of war regulations for paper usage. INSIDE FRONT COVER SEPTEMBER 2012 (ENLARGED) With each successive printing of the First Edition, the Title Page was updated to reflect the increase in the numbers of alcoholics achieving recovery. From the April 1939 printing to the February 1948 eighth printing the number of those reported to have recovered increases from more than 100 men and women to more than 14,000 men and women. TITLE PAGES OF BOOK As Bill Sees It WORDSMITHY impunity Freedom from problems, pain, or punishment; immunity; exemption (From The Little Big Book Dictionary) Faithful Fivers Middle of the Road p.241 “In some sections of A.A., anonymity is carried to the point of real absurdity. Members are on such a poor basis of communication that they don’t even know each other’s last names or where each lives. It’s like the cell of an underground. “In other section, we see exactly the reverse. It is difficult to restrain A.A.’s from shouting too much before the whole public, by going on spectacular ‘lecture tours’ to play the big shot. “However, I know that from these extremes we slowly pull ourselves onto a middle ground. Most lecturegiving members do not last too long, and the superanonymous people are apt to come out of hiding respecting their A.A. friends, business associates, and the like. I think the longtime trend is toward the middle of the road which is probably where we should be.” FAITHFUL FIVERS ARE GRATEFUL GIVERS 78 Members as of August! Register to pledge your support! Thank you ALL! Please complete and return with your first contribution to: CCFAA Central Office, Faithful Fivers Register with Central Office as a Faithful Fiver member 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 so you’ll receive a charitable contribution receipt at the OR email to: [email protected] end of the year. You can donate in any of the following ways: Name: ______________________________________ a) Mail a check every month to: CCFAA Faithful Fivers, 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA Address: ______________________________________ 95827, OR City/State/Zip: ______________________________________ b) Bring a check or cash into the office every month, OR Phone: ______________________________________ c) Try the Preferred Method! Use your online banking bill pay to set up a recurring payment: � May we acknowledge you as a new member of the Faithful Fivers Payee: CCFAA Faithful Fivers in our next issue of By The Way? Mark the box for yes we use first Central Office address, as above names and last initials only. Account number: Your Name CCFAA Page 14 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 3. Self-seeking will slip ____. 5. We will intuitively know how to handle __________ which used to baffle us. 7. Our whole ________ and outlook upon life will change. 8. nor wish to shut the ____ on it. 10. We are going to know a new _______ 11. They are being _________ among us12. is doing for us what we could not do for _________. 16. we will be ______ before we are half way through. 17. We will ________ realize that god 18. ________ and we will know peace. 22. If we are painstaking about this phase of our ___________, 23. We will not ______ the past 9th Step Cross Word Puzzle 1. and self-pity will _________. 2. They will always ___________ if we work for them. 4. We will __________ the word 6. Fear of people and of economic __________ will leave us. 9. and gain interest in our _______. 13. We will lose ________ in selfish things 14. and a new _________. 15. _________ quickly, _________ slowly. 19. Are these __________ promises? we think not. 20. ...we will see how our experience can _______ others. 21. That _______ of uselessness NEWS FROM VOLUNTEER CENTRAL August Word Search Answers L I E Z Z J J J M Q L S Y R E V O C E R T C O Z Y U E L A E L J W C A Y G E S B K H G G V O M P D U Z Y S M R A H P J W B I R E Y M F C E T G A D Y U R I X R I X G M E O T U W Q G N G R G N Y I C X J S Z V X E U Y I I I K A R O B O X K Z E F X B H G L I C K L W L N C X N X G D K CCFAA D Y J S F G E K Q N L P U A D I L J J K P K O Z Z Q E G Y B R I H R X F C Z M G F P Z C T W M R E O J N N Q J M K K V H K F C A U X K O F C X R R G D T Z Q Z T R S C O F A T E P W I E N M Z Z H Z P H V E U R M T S L T C K E H F C O F R P Y Z J Y E I S W D I R D E S F C M F O D N S I N A I U Y E O W A D P W L S J R J P Y D X O R N P W L S C D V O D H D X Q P S D N Q A P L I A V L Z D D R C H L A W H A L O E A B G F E E Z B N I W L H O M L M V R I Y W V S Q R S S D B V J Q D S P J S C O P M E F D J U T J L J F P P K L L E I Y Y S E R V I C E E P E T T O A M P J A P Q M Z U N I T Y A P C A E Z H S O U Q P Z Z K E M K H P A G S D V K Q T C C I N C I P A A F C C G M C Y U S V S S E N E V I G R O F M R L Z Z W D X O WHERE GRATITUDE IS AN ACTION WORD! We at Central Office are very grateful for those who show up on a regular basis and those who just drop by and ask if there is any way that they can be of service. We could not provide the services to the groups in such an efficient manner without the help of our reliable and willing volunteers. In service during the month of August: TeleDesk Volunteers & Subs: Linda M. Donna B. Joyce H. Dennis O. Cindy F. Cathy N. Cindy Jo M. Dlorah B. Lynn S. Kathy K. Linda W. Terri D. Sales Desk & Phones: Ron H. Karen Y. Carmen B. Cindy F. Cathy N. BTW & Flyer Mailing: Jim W. Mike K. Pete G. Carol L. Craig L. Sherry KW Pamela L. Victoria L. Bulk Mailing: Marvin S. Bill E. Thank you all very much! Page 15 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—August 18, 2012 (Page 1) I. Opening A. Call to Order at 3:03 pm D. CCFAA Preamble read by Howard G. Birthdays—57 years B. Open with Serenity Prayer E. 7th Tradition—$58.30 C. 12 Traditions Read by Richard F. Delegate Checkin/Group Announcements II. Preliminary Business: A. Delegate Checkin: Total Delegates = 44 Group Name Delegate 11th Step Meditation Meeting 5th TraditionBig Book Study Group 12 and 12 Touchstone Group AA Unity Group As Bill Sees It Auburn Fellowship Auburn Women’s Step Study Grp Been There Done That Group By The Grace Capital City Men’s Group Citrus Heights Group Cordova Friday Night Group Cordova Serenity Seekers Daily Attitude AdjustmentFair Oaks Davis Attitude Adjustment Group Davis Hope Group Davis Young People Destiny Group Downtown Young People's Dry Dock Group East Yolo Fellowship Elk Grove Fellowship Elk Grove Group Fair Oaks Monday Night Fair Oaks Village Group Fit for Life Women’s Folsom Big Book Folsom Friday Night Folsom Thursday Nite 12 & 12 Folsom Saturday Morning Group Folsom Way of Life Fourth Dimension Big Book Study Freedom Group Friday Fellowship of Double AA Friday Night Family Group of AA Friday Night Fellowship Galt Fellowship Gibbons Noon Girl's Night Out (GNO) Greenhaven Group Group One Group Three Head Across Women's Group Holy Smokeless H.O.W. Into ActionCitrus Heights Loomis BYO 12 & 12 Group Men Seeking Serenity Midtown Solutions Monday Night Newcomers Monday Night Big Book Study Monday Night Bonfire Meeting Natomas Group New Brown Baggers New Hope Group North Auburn Group North Hall Group CCFAA Absent Absent Absent Leon Bill B Absent Absent Absent Absent Ben B Al E Ken D Absent Absent Bob D Joe A Absent Scott J Gigi R Jennifer E Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Marla S Absent Absent Jim Y Jim Y Mary F Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Allison J Absent Absent Ginnie B Absent Bill L Absent Absent Absent Tammy Absent Absent Annie A Absent Paul S Absent Maria R Absent Jeffery N Rik P Evan C B. Quorum met Yes Last Attended 6/16/2012 4/21/2012 1/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 5/19/2012 06/18/11 4/21/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 7/21/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 12/17/2011 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 7/21/2012 7/21/2012 03/19/11 08/20/11 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 1/21/12 5/19/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 08/20/11 3/17/2012 5/19/2012 03/19/11 1/21/12 8/18/2012 4/21/2012 10/15/11 8/18/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 7/21/2012 2/18/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 2/18/2012 4/21/2012 8/18/2012 10/15/11 8/18/2012 4/21/2012 8/18/2012 10/15/11 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 Group Name Delegate North Highlands Fireside Group North Sacramento Group #1 Offenders Oak Park Fellowship Oak Tree Fellowship Old Town Group Orangevale 11 th Step Meditation Orangevale Open Group Primary Purpose Phone Meeting Program of Action Rancho Murrieta Fwp Rebellion Dogs Recovery at the Ranch Rigorous Action Rio Linda Fellowship River City Round Up Conference Rocklin Fellowship Rocklin Racetrack Group Roseville Eastside Group Roseville Fifth Street Fellowship Roseville Tuesday Night Group Roseville Twelve & Twelve Study Sacramento Spring Fling Committee SACYPAA Saturday Morning Men’s Book Study Second Chance Group Serenity Book And Study Group Sharing And Caring Group Simply AA Sisters in Sobriety Sixty Minute Solution Snowline Group Southport Serenity South Sacramento Florin Group Spiritually Speaking Sunday Morning Serenity SunriseSunset Thank God It’s Simple The Acid Test The Third Tradition Group Thursday Night Men’s Group Too Young Group Traditional Group Traditions & Concepts Study Group Tuesday Cordova KISS Group We Can Friday Night We Care Group We Surrender Men’s Group Welcome Group What a Way to start a Weekend Women’s Grp White Flag Men's Group Wild Women Willing Women Women of Extravagant Promises Woodland Traditional Group Woodland Big Book Group Woodland Group Larry J Absent Delores T Absent Terry H Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Cindy F Virgil N Absent Absent Tod A Evan Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Richard Sean S Absent Absent Dlorah B Absent Karen Y Absent Howard H Absent Mary H Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Tom D Absent John Q Bill P Dawne S Absent Absent Absent David E Kathy K Richard K Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Last Attended 8/18/2012 6/16/2012 8/18/2012 5/19/2012 8/18/2012 4/21/2012 1/21/12 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 12/17/2011 1/21/12 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 2/18/2012 12/17/2011 7/21/2012 11/19/11 7/21/2012 1/21/12 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 2/18/2012 06/18/11 8/18/2012 6/16/2012 8/18/2012 05/21/11 8/18/2012 2/18/2012 8/18/2012 05/21/11 6/16/2012 07/16/11 4/21/2012 1/21/12 06/18/11 4/21/2012 8/18/2012 4/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 12/17/11 4/21/2012 7/21/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 8/18/2012 05/21/11 06/18/11 5/19/2012 06/18/11 04/16/11 6/16/2012 Page 16 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—August 18, 2012 (Page 2) C. D. Attending Elected Positions CCFAA Chair Assistant Chair Treasurer Recording Secretary TeleService Chair By Laws & Procedures Chair PI/CPC Chair H&I Liaison Stan J Betty K Tom W Tamera K Evan C Terry S Bill B Roger New Delegates Gigi R. Downtown Young People’s Doug B. Good Orderly Direction Present Present Absent Present Present Absent Present Present Special Needs Chair NCCAA Liaison Birthdays/Faithful Fivers Chair OOC Chair OOC Member OOC Member OOC Member Picnic Chair Troy T. Dry Dock Group (Alt.) Joseph W Rick S Kim B Casey K Howard Jeff N Al Y John Q Present Present Present Absent Present Present Present Present Susan K. By the Book E. Visitors Mark District 24 Liaison III. Approval of Minutes Motion to approve July minutes was passed. IV. Trusted Servant Reports A. Chairperson’s Report – Stan J August 18, 2012 Welfare of Central California Fellowship: CCFAA Picnic: The last CCFAA Picnic Planning Committee meeting was held on 08/17/12. See everyone at the picnic tomorrow, 08/19/12 (Sunday, 9am4pm in Elk Grove Park). This picnic is really the welfare of CCFAA. We would not be able to provide a third of the services we currently provide if it wasn’t for this picnic. John Q and the team he has assembled are doing a great job making sure everything was thought of and all bases covered. The results of this event will really determine what the rest of this year will look like as far as budget concerns. If you are on the fence about coming, jump on down to the picnic side of life and shake your bootie on the dance floor, or be a chili judge by purchasing an all you can eat chili bull, or get your shop on in the White Elephant arena. Personally, I enjoyed pouring chili on my hotdog and created my own chili dog last year. Enjoy a day at the park with friends, family, food, and fun. Finally, embrace our speakers when they share their experience, strength, and hope at 10am and 2pm. This year’s speakers are: Howard H @ 10am and Rick B @ 2pm. Park name & location: Elk Grove Regional Park 9950 Elk Grove Florin Rd., Elk Grove, CA, 95624 Search the internet for directions to this address. I brought 10 copies of a map for those without internet access. Please see me after the meeting if you would like a hardcopy. Volunteers needed at Central Office at 9:30am on 08/31/12 and 09/28/12 to help assemble the By The Way and on 09/11/12 to help with flyers. Enjoy donuts, coffee, and good times for all volunteers. Please call ahead if volunteering so they can accommodate all volunteers. Deadline for flyers for September is September 10th and for October is October 10th. Deadline for submissions to October’s By The Way is September 15th. (See the By The Way for additional volunteer information and deadline details.) Central Office closed: August 18th 20th, (Saturday before and Monday after CCFAA Picnic) September 3rd, (Monday for Labor Day) Together in Service, we are the welfare of Central California Fellowship of AA. Stan J., CCF Chairperson, www.aasacramento.org B. Assistant Chair/CNIA Liaison – Betty K. By the Book – Trailer behind Saint Paul’s Episcopal Church, 1430 J street Sacramento, CA 95814 – Closed 1 hour Study, Friday 6:30AM, Delegate: Susan K – Approved Good Orderly Direction – 800 Plumas Street, Yuba City CA 95991 – Open 1 hour Meeting, Monday, 6:30 PM, Delegate: Doug B – Approved CNIA Report – Stan attended CNIA meeting provided information to them about CCFAA picnic, and picked up some of their flyers. Gold Country roundup Sept 28th – 30th , CNIA MiniPRAASA –Jackson CA. October 19 21, 2012 C. Office Operations Committee – Casey K. Absent Howard gave report OOC Meeting 8/14/2012 Present: Rae W, Tom W, Stan J, Howard H, Casey K and Jeff N Meeting called to order at 6:03pm. Open with the Serenity Prayer, Roll Call, and Determination of a Quorum 1. Office Manager’s Report – Rae W (Please see Rae’s report.) CCFAA Page 17 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—August 18, 2012 (Page 3) 2. 3. 4. Bylaws and Procedures Chair Report Terry – Paul will report. Treasurer’s Report Tom – Stan will report on the status of the treasury. Old Business Status of Website: Rae will have more information after the Annual Intergroup/Central Office/AAWS/AAGV Seminar. 5. New Business – No new business. Adjournment at 7:00pm with the Serenity Prayer. D. Office Manager’s Report – Rae W. August 14, 2012 1. The NCCOM Workshop was held here in Sacramento at Central Office on Friday, August 3rd. The CNIA 07 Area Delegate, Lela M., was invited to share with the group on her Conference experience and topics that Central Office could have input on. The discussions were lively and very informative. 2. The Northern California Woman to Woman Conference made a contribution of $1479. Thanks to all. 3. Second Quarter payroll & sales tax returns and payments were completed by the July 31st due date. 4. Response to the requests for more Office volunteers was awesome. Thanks for getting the word out to your groups. 5. Rick S our NCCAA Liaison and his volunteer committee manned the Central Office Literature table at the July NCCAA Conference in Auburn. The committee sold $420 in AAWS/GV literature. Great Job. Thanks to all. 6. The Office has created a postcard and brochure to help the Special Needs Committee with volunteer and informational needs. The brochure will be presented to the Delegates for review and approval. 7. The 27th Annual Intergroup/Central Office/AAWS/AAGV Seminar will take place in Washington, DC September 2629. The Seminar is a valuable tool for Office Managers to exchange “best practices” and share experience, strength and hope. This venue provides managers an opportunity to have facetoface communications with GSO and Grapevine Staff as well as the General Service Board. 8. Check the September BTW for details of archival treasures that have been donated to the Central California Fellowship. 9. The 2013 Spring Fling Flyer & Registration brochure was distributed in the August flyer mailing on August 13th. …And all is well. Rae W. Discussion: We are looking for a display case that someone can donate to display an Autographed First Edition Big Book. E. Treasurers Report – Tom W. Income: Income for the month is above average, as a result of stronger Group Contributions, and a Special Events Revenue contribution from Northern California Woman to Woman. Overall YTD income is below projections, due to lowerthanprojected AAWS Literature Sales, Group Contributions, Birthday Club, and Faithful Fivers. Continue to promote these activities! We look forward to the Annual Picnic for a big boost as we go into the second half of the year. Gross Income: Gross Income is lower than the prorated budget due to the factors cited above. Expenses: Overall, expenses are favorable to budget. Although insurance looks unfavorable, this is due to the bulk of insurance premiums being paid early in the year, when the annual budget is spread evenly across the twelve months – eventually the budget will “catch up” with the spending and we should be on target. Other expense areas appear to be on track. We can expect additional spending in a couple of areas where there has been little so far: Other Committees (Picnic Committee specifically), and Meetings/Conference Expense. Bottom Line: YTD Net Income (Loss) at $(3,254) is favorable to the ProRated Budget by $1,343. Picnic Revenue will put us in a Net Income position. Group Contributions reported in By the Way: There was an error in how the total for June Group Contributions was reported in the June By the Way. Although amounts reported for individual groups were correct, the total that was reported was inadvertently carried over from the June By the Way. The August By the Way shows the correction for June alongside the July contributions. Please note that in any given month, due to printing and mailing deadlines for By the Way, Group Contributions are reported as of a few days before the end of the month, and may not include contributions received in the last couple of days for the month. Respectfully submitted, Tom W [email protected] F. By Laws & Procedures Chairperson’s Report – Terry S. Absent No report, discussion regarding Bylaw changes will be discussed in old business. G. PI/CPC Monthly Meeting Minutes – Bill B. “Members of CPC Committees inform professionals and future professionals about AA – what we are, where we are, what we can do, and what we cannot do. They attempt to establish better communication between AA’s and professionals, and to find simple, effective ways of cooperating without affiliating.” (AA Cooperation with the Professional Community Workbook) Activities and New Business: �� On budget for the year $557 remaining of $1100 �� We manned a table at Sacramento City Concert in the Park events on July 15th, July 24th, and August 5th �� Scheduled to have a table at a Sacramento City public concert event at Meadowview Park on August 26th CCFAA Page 18 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—August 18, 2012 (Page 4) �� In contact with the Central California Psychiatric Society to do a piece on AA in their newsletter �� Identifying radio stations for placing Public Service Announcement spots – It was asked that info regarding the announce be brought back to the group for approval. – Question regarding attending Rancho Cordova city events/concerts. We have not been asked to attend and we only go when invited �� We will have a table at the CCFAA Picnic – please stop by! PI/CPC Committee meets every second Monday of the month at 7 PM at the Citrus Heights Police Department. AA’s with significant sobriety are invited. Contact Bill at [email protected], or at 4155180533 Respectfully submitted – Bill B H. Picnic Chairperson’s Report – John Q. CCFAA 2012 Picnic Committee Planning Report �� Picnic is going well. Done everything humanly possible to make the event a success. �� 11 cups left from presale �� All work is done and we are good to go �� Larry J pulled the Early Bird ticket # 2053442 win’s $100 John Q2, 2012 Picnic chair (916)2014697 I. Special Needs Chairperson’s Report – Joey W. �� Not a real busy month but had a lot to do. Got a couple of calls and took one meeting out to someone suffering from very chronic illness. Amazing meeting. Have a number of volunteers. �� No meeting this month. �� Looking for new volunteers/ will have booth at picnic. �� If you are having an event let Joe know so a booth can be brought to the event. �� Looking for a signer because there is a need �� A brochure and post card were drafted for special needs would like committee to review for changes/edits �� When taking meetings to those with ankle bracelets only 2 individuals can go. �� Would like to consider taking meetings to those that are taking care of chronically ill not just the chronically ill. Email Address: [email protected] J. Birthday Club/Faithful Fivers – Kim B. �� Birthday contributions were down $30. �� Birthday Club/Faithful Fivers budget is $17500 and we are not going to do that. �� There will be a booth at the picnic and looking forward to it. �� Looking to have booths at the big events that are coming up. V. Reports – Special Committees, Delegates, Liaisons & Invited Guests A. Hospitals & Institutions – Roger M. H & I Area 42 Committee Meeting Meetings held at Coco’s 1830 Arden Way, Sacramento CA – the 3rd Thursday of the month at 6:00pm. Regional 40 Chair: Kim F. Area 42 Chair: Mike H 9164851136 email [email protected] Roger talked about the importance of supporting the 7th Tradition first and made the suggestion that when you see the pink can being passed together with the 7th Tradition basket to hold the can from the basket and hold it until the 7th tradition has been passed. B. Teleservice Chairperson’s Report – Evan C. 2012 Calls Volunteers Open Shifts as of 8/15/2012 TeleService Jul – 12 2012 YTD TeleService Special Needs 12 Step Wed 6am – 9am 34 62 454 13 162 Wed 5pm – 9pm 12 Step Subs 350 2296 68 Sat Mid – 8am Meeting/Info 412 2750 Sat 8am – noon Totals Sat 12p – 4pm Reminder to volunteers..... Any issues regarding your shift please contact your shift coordinator. Should you have trouble contacting them or your issue is not resolved please feel free to contact me. It is very important that if you are going to be unavailable for your shift that you find a sub. Once you find a sub you must then contact your shift coordinator with the name and phone number of the sub who will be taking your place. THANKS SO MUCH :) CCFAA Page 19 By The Way SEPTEMBER 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—August 18, 2012 (Page 5) Special Needs: Need Chinese/Mandarin, Ukrainian, Lao, Mien, Hmong, and Vietnamese 12Step male and female volunteers needed in Downtown Sacramento, West, East, and North Sacramento, Davis and, Lincoln zip codes. 12Step male and female volunteers needed under Any Area Contact: Chair: Evan C. (916) 2131841; [email protected] C. NCCAA Liaison – Rick S. �� Thank you to Karen Y for helping sell literature at the Auburn Conference. �� There are Flyers for Sacramento conference that will be held at the Woodlake Inn, 500 Leisure Lane. October 5th 7th. �� Preregistration is appreciated please get the word out to your groups, only $10. �� Please take flyers to group. �� Next meeting is Sunday, September 2nd at noon at Group 3. VI. Old Business A. Vote: Motion to form a 2014 CCFAA 60th Anniversary Convention Committee. Motion was passed with 32 votes for, 4 against and 4 abstained. �� Stan made a nominated Paul as committee chair for the CCFAA 60 th Anniversary Convention Committee. He nominated John Q who declined and Paul made himself available and Paul was voted in. B. ByLaws and Operating Procedures Committee: Discussion. Vote next month �� Paul presented the items from last month for discussion since Mike and Terry were not available. This is a housekeeping issue and cleanup of language from last accepted change of ByLaws and Operating Procedures. Proposed changes will be available on line for review so that you can discuss at your groups. The vote will be at September meeting. VII. New Business A. OOC member Al missed 3 OOC meetings. Request approval to reelect Al to OOC. No one was interested in the position and Al was reelected in. B. John Q proposed that the ByLaws be changed to allow 3 approved absences. Paul indicated that in order to change By Laws that a formal proposal must be written up and presented to delegate body one month, have discussion the following month and election the month following that. C. Delegate David E is proposing that all groups and meetings be listed in the group contributions table in each edition of the CCFAA 'By the Way' publication. He was hoping to show transparency amongst the groups. There are many groups and it could possibly add several pages to the By the Way. It was also mentioned was this to guilt groups into contribution. Karen Y indicated that at one time all groups were listed. It was to save money that those that are not contributing are not listed. There were several ideas presented on alternate solutions. VIII. Closing Meeting closed at 5:10 pm. STEP NINE: CONTINUED FROM PAGE 8 6. What are the only exceptions we make to this Step? Since there are not pat answers to Step 9, what should we be absolutely sure of? Well, my friends, I leave you with our 9th Step Promises. What more can be said – for they sum up the blessings of what this priceless journey into the Realm of Spirit and Recovery represents for many of us. “If we are painstaking about this phrase of our development, we will be amazed before we are halfway through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and selfpity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Selfseeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook on life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is during for us what we could not do for ourselves.’ Remember, do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life. In grace & gratitude, Kathy K., Sacramento, CA CCFAA Page 20 By The Way TREASURER’S REPORT - JULY 2012 JULY 2012 July-12 SEPTEMBER 2012 Prorate YTD Budget fav / (unfav) Income 4020 · AAWS Literature Sales 4025 · In-House Public ation Sales 4035 - Medallion Sales 4100 · Group Contributions 4110 · Anonymous Contributions 4120 · Birthday Contributions 4125 · Office Services Revenue 4130 - Faithful Fivers 4440 - Interest Income 4460 - Picnic Revenue 4480 - Special Event Revenue Total Income Cost of Goods Sold 5000 - Literature Costs 5010 · Cost of AAWS Literature Sold Literature Costs/Adjustment Total 5010 - AAWS Literature Net Income AAWS Literature 5025 · In-House Public ation 5030 · Paper Stock & Staples 5035 · Printing Equipment 5040 - Copy costs Total 5025 · In-House Publication Net Income In-House Publication Cost of Medallions Net Income Medallion Sales Total Cost Of Goods Sold Gross Income (after cost of goods) YTD 6,320 1,308 2,114 9,257 111 173 458 721 14 8 1,478 21,962 44,983 10,022 13,946 47,293 1,750 1,190 3,211 4,923 63 333 8,709 136,422 46,667 9,917 9,333 51,333 583 2,917 3,208 7,292 73 0 10,000 141,323 80,000 17,000 16,000 88,000 1,000 5,000 5,500 12,500 125 13,000 10,000 248,125 (1,684) 105 4,613 (4,041) 1,167 (1,727) 2 (2,369) (10) 333 (1,291) (4,901) 4,509 0 4,509 1,811 31,656 534 32,190 12,793 31,792 292 32,083 14,583 54,500 500 55,000 25,000 136 (242) (107) (1,791) 512 999 217 1,728 (420) 973 1,141 7,209 14,753 2,571 6,993 1,174 10,739 (717) 6,560 7,386 49,488 86,934 2,333 7,000 1,283 10,617 (700) 5,250 4,083 47,950 93,373 4,000 12,000 2,200 18,200 (1,200) 9,000 7,000 82,200 165,925 (122) (17) (1,310) 3,303 (1,538) (6,439) 525 2,377 2,683 4,600 306 304 3,321 2,275 3,900 (1,046) 346 699 1,488 2,550 788 2,649 17,291 18,054 30,950 763 601 3,918 4,419 7,575 501 482 65 0 0 547 747 594 18 116 1,474 3,617 642 88 88 4,433 6,200 1,100 150 150 7,600 2,959 36 867 3,768 6,460 2,901 7,231 1,428 8,345 20,743 10,849 59,297 48,960 10,792 59,752 83,932 18,500 102,432 455 0 0 58 98 932 992 0 12 58 13,450 90,188 97,981 1,302 (3,254) (4,608) Prepared by [email protected] 100 1,700 100 167,967 (2,042) 7,793 1,354 Expense Equipment Expense Total Equipment Expense Insurance Total Insurance Meetings/Conference Expense Total Meetings/Conference Expense Office Expense Total Office Expense Utilities - 5770 Total 5770 Utilities Other Committees - 6200 5990 - Picnic Committee 6210 - PI/CPC Expense 6220 - Special Needs Committee 6230 - Teleservice Committee Total Other Committees Professional Fees Total Professional Fees Payroll Expenses Salaries and wages Taxes and Benefits Total 5400 · Payroll Expenses Bank Charges Bad Debt Expense - 5686 Credit Card Fees - 5895 Bank Charges - 5690 Total Expense Net Income CCFAA Page 21 By The Way GROUP CONTRIBUTIONS AS OF 8/29/12 to John Q2, Chairman, and all the volunteers on the CCFAA Picnic Committee for making the picnic a smashing success!!! Because of all their hard work, the picnic was a very successful event. ACTIVITY Hot Dogs & Burgers Polish Chili Drinks Popcorn/Sno Cones Bake Sale/Cake Walk Kids Games Face Painting Raffle/Pull Tabs White Elephant Softball Used Book Sale Bingo Craft Table Coffee Mugs & T-Shirts 7th Tradition Central Office Sales AA Grapevine Sales Total CONTRIBUTION $ 1,456.00 $ 1,065.00 $ 302.00 $ 1,155.00 $ 405.00 $ 377.00 $ 279.00 $ 128.00 $ 1,276.00 $ 528.00 $ 800.00 $ 258.00 $ 77.00 $ 308.00 $ 103.00 $ 1,712.00 $ 365.00 $ 339.89 $ 222.25 $ 11,156.14 CONCEPT IX Good service leaders, together with sound and appropriate methods of choosing them, are at All levels indispensable for our future functioning and safety. The primary world service leadership once exercised by the founders of A.A. must necessarily be assumed by the Trustees of the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous. “No matter how carefully we design our service structure of principals and relationships, no matter how well we apportion authority and responsibility, the operating results of our structure can be no better than the personal performance of those who must man it and make it work. Good leadership cannot function well in a poorly designed structure….Weak leadership can hardly function at all, even in the best of structures. […] “A leader in A.A. service is therefore a man (or woman) who can personally put principles, plans and policies into such dedicated and effective action that the rest of us want to back him with his job. (Pamphlet P-8, The Twelve Concepts for World Service Illustrated) CCFAA SEPTEMBER 2012 GROUP NAME AUG 12 YTD 11TH STEP MEDITATION MEETING 0.00 400.00 12 AND 12 BOOK STUDY (ROSEVILLE) 200.00 608.00 2ND CHANCE GROUP 0.00 278.00 5TH TRADITION BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 10.00 AA NEWCASTLE/LOOMIS GROUP 200.50 370.50 AA NOONER 175.00 175.00 AA UNITY GROUP 0.00 475.00 ALL TRIBES GROUP 0.00 30.00 ARDEN MORSE GROUP 0.00 100.00 AS BILL SEES IT MEN'S GROUP 0.00 40.00 ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT GROUP OF DAVIS 96.00 278.50 AUBURN FELLOWSHIP 50.00 350.00 AUBURN WEDNESDAY NIGHT YOUNG PEOPLE 0.00 91.99 AUBURN WOMEN'S STEP STUDY 0.00 25.00 BABES IN RECOVERY 45.85 45.85 BEAN, WILSON D. 0.00 5.00 BIG BOOK BASICS 0.00 111.50 BROWNSVILLE SERENITY GROUP 0.00 104.89 BUILDING D GROUP 0.00 600.00 BY THE GRACE 0.00 50.00 CAME TO BELIEVE GROUP 270.00 540.00 CAMERON PARK WOMEN'S GROUP 25.00 25.00 CAPITOL CITY MEN'S GROUP 0.00 511.49 CARRYING THE MESSAGE GROUP 140.00 140.00 CATHEDRAL GROUP 0.00 960.00 CENTRAL FOOTHILL WOMEN'S CONF. 0.00 180.56 CITRUS HEIGHTS AA @ NOON 0.00 240.00 CITRUS HEIGHTS GROUP 0.00 202.46 CLARKSBURG FELLOWSHIP 0.00 600.00 COME AS YOU ARE GROUP 0.00 850.71 CORDOVA BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 100.00 CORDOVA GOOD MORNING GROUP 50.00 100.00 CORDOVA LUNCH BUNCH 0.00 178.00 CORDOVA SATURDAY NIGHT GROUP 0.00 150.00 CORDOVA SERENITY SEEKERS GROUP 0.00 196.00 COURAGE TO CHANGE GROUP 0.00 472.00 DAILY ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT GROUP 174.00 1,105.15 DAILY DIRECTION AA 0.00 459.12 DAVIS FRIDAY NOON GROUP 0.00 111.00 DAVIS HOPE GROUP 0.00 210.00 DAVIS WEDNESDAY WOMENS STEP STUDY 0.00 31.66 DESTINY GROUP 120.00 120.00 DIXON DRY DOCK GROUP 0.00 50.00 DOBBIN'S WILD BUNCH 0.00 61.38 DRY DIGGIN’S GROUP 0.00 25.56 DRY DOCK GROUP 0.00 50.00 EAST YOLO FELLOWSHIP 0.00 150.00 EDEN VALLEY AT APPLEGATE GROUP 0.00 43.40 ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP 0.00 1,027.87 ELK GROVE GROUP 0.00 309.00 ELK GROVE SOBRIETY SISTERS 0.00 295.20 ESPEE FELLOWSHIP 0.00 145.00 FAIR OAKS BEGINNERS GROUP 0.00 70.00 FELLOWSHIP OF THE SPIRIT BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 40.00 FIT FOR LIFE GROUP 0.00 75.50 FLYING BLIND BIG BOOK STEP STUDY 0.00 300.00 FOLSOM BIG BOOK GROUP 0.00 895.52 FOLSOM FRIDAY NIGHT GROUP 0.00 500.00 FOLSOM NOON NEW LIFE GROUP 0.00 500.00 FOLSOM SATURDAY MORNING 0.00 200.00 FOLSOM TUESDAY NIGHT MEN'S AA 0.00 61.00 FOLSOM WAY OF LIFE GROUP 0.00 1,524.98 FOLSOM WEDNESDAY NIGHT AA GROUP 0.00 360.00 FOLSOM YOUNG PEOPLE'S GROUP 0.00 286.55 Page 22 By The Way GROUP CONTRIBUTIONS AS OF 8/29/12 GROUP NAME FORESTHILL BENT NICKEL GROUP FOUNTAIN OF YOUTH GROUP FRIDAY NITE AA GROUP - CARMICHAEL FRIENDS OF BILL W. (CHRISTIAN VALLEY) GALT FELLOWSHIP GIBBONS NOON GNO GIRLS NIGHT OUT GO TO ANY LENGTH GROUP GOOD ORDERLY DIRECTION GOTTAWANNA GROUP GREENHAVEN GROUP GROUP ONE GROUP THREE HAPPY CAMPERS HAPPY DESTINY GROUP HAPPY JOYOUS & FREE GROUP HIGH FLYERS GROUP ICYPAA IN ALL OUR AFFAIRS GROUP Individuals INTO ACTION GROUP LAGUNA STUDY GROUP LINCOLN HILLS GROUP LINCOLN THURSDAY NIGHT GROUP LIVING SOBER WOMEN'S FRIDAY GROUP LOOMIS WOMEN'S STEP STUDY MEN AT WORK MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS MON NIGHT BIG BOOK STUDY GROUP MONDAY NIGHT CLUB MONDAY PM WOMEN GROUP MONDAY WOMEN'S STEP STUDY MORE WILL BE REVEALED MYSTIC CHIX GROUP NATOMAS GROUP NEW HOPE GROUP NORTH AUBURN GROUP OF AA NORTH HALL GROUP NUMBER ONE OFFENDERS OAK PARK FELLOWSHIP OAK TREE GROUP ORANGEVALE OPEN GROUP ORANGEVALE SIXTY MINUTE OVER 50 GROUP PHOENIX FELLOWSHIP PINE GROVE FELLOWSHIP PLACERVILLE SUNRISE ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT POWERLESS OVER ALCOHOL WOMEN'S GROUP RANCHO MURIETA GROUP RANCHO MURIETA WOMEN'S GROUP REBELLION DOGS GROUP RIO LINDA FELLOWSHIP RIVER PARK RECOVERY ROCKLIN FELLOWSHIP ROCKLIN RACETRACK GROUP ROLOFF TO RECOVERY MEN'S ROSEVILLE EASTSIDE GROUP ROSEVILLE FWP MONDAY NIGHT GROUP ROSEVILLE FIFTH STREET FELLOWSHIP ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GP ROUND TABLE GROUP RULE 62 GROUP S.I.S. SISTERS IN SOBRIETY SACYPAA SATURDAY MORNING REFLECTIONS GP CCFAA AUG 12 0.00 0.00 40.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 40.00 0.00 0.00 125.00 75.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 167.82 0.00 0.00 0.00 377.70 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 30.73 0.00 143.95 0.00 0.00 0.00 119.56 0.00 0.00 5.80 0.00 0.00 50.00 0.00 0.00 48.60 0.00 0.00 0.00 50.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 YTD 185.00 303.22 160.00 100.00 700.00 250.00 4.53 36.10 133.29 279.00 690.60 65.02 1,200.00 180.00 371.75 42.00 166.00 0.00 261.00 125.10 300.00 200.00 93.52 202.44 239.02 269.35 70.00 615.00 113.75 4.72 137.56 247.82 125.00 180.13 436.22 893.92 90.06 1,003.50 250.00 50.00 1,800.00 146.06 200.00 252.16 51.00 40.00 460.00 212.22 731.31 450.00 48.03 300.00 300.00 400.00 135.00 140.00 287.82 200.00 287.18 2,100.00 50.00 400.00 308.69 65.00 563.79 SEPTEMBER 2012 GROUP NAME SERENDIPITY AS BILL SEES IT GROUP SERENITY BOOK & STEP STUDY GP SIERRA PINES GROUP SIERRA STEP SISTERS GROUP SIERRA WEDNESDAY AM GROUP SIMPLY AA SISTERS IN SOBRIETY SIXTY MINUTE SOLUTION GROUP SOBRIETY SPEAKS GROUP SOLUTIONS WEEKEND SOUTHPORT SERENITY SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING GROUP SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING ORANGEVALE STATE OF MIND SOBRIETY STEP SISTERS SUNDAY MORNING SERENITY GROUP SUNDAY NIGHT RECOVERY HOUR SUNDAY REFLECTIONS SUNRISE SPEAKER MEETING SUNRISE SUNSET GROUP THANK GOD ITS SMOKEFREE MENS STAG THE OTHER MEETING THURS MORNING BOOK/STEP STUDY GROUP THURSDAY NIGHT MEN'S GROUP TIME TO START LIVING GROUP TOO YOUNG GROUP TRADITIONAL GROUP TRADITIONS AND CONCEPTS STUDY GRP TRIANGLE GROUP TUESDAY CORDOVA KISS GROUP TUESDAY MIDTOWN GROUP TUESDAY NIGHT CARMICHAEL GROUP TWELVE STEPS TO SOBRIETY VALLEY SPRINGS FWP WAY OUT BIG BOOK STUDY WE CARE GROUP WE SURRENDER MEN'S GROUP WEDNESDAY NIGHT 12X12 BOOK STUDY WEDNESDAY WOMEN'S STEP STUDY GROUP WELCOME GROUP WEST SLOPE FELL0WSHIP WHAT A WAY WEEKEND WOMENS GROUP WILD WOMEN WILLING WOMEN GROUP, THE WINTERS KITCHEN TABLE GROUP WOMEN OF EXTRAVAGANT PROMISES WOMEN ON WEDNESDAYS WOMEN UNDER CONSTRUCTION WOODLAND GROUP WOODLAND TRADITIONAL GROUP WOODLAND WOMEN'S GRP ZINFANDEL & CORDOVA LANE GROUP TOTAL YTD 50.00 310.00 64.03 109.70 149.00 251.61 246.01 308.30 150.00 75.00 165.00 280.00 130.00 25.00 100.40 155.44 600.00 150.00 222.70 100.00 273.95 12.50 60.00 213.95 65.40 100.00 3,350.62 153.68 443.54 160.00 320.79 125.07 110.00 22.50 45.00 120.00 123.62 135.00 0.00 634.91 30.00 195.44 158.00 613.93 277.23 277.96 35.00 31.83 200.00 170.00 67.00 280.00 4,462.51 51,755.33 SPECIAL EVENTS REVENUE ICYPAA SPRING FLING WOMEN TO WOMEN CONFERENCE TOTAL AUG 12 0.00 160.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 113.89 0.00 129.59 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 35.60 155.44 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 100.00 397.79 0.00 0.00 0.00 198.21 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 256.48 0.00 0.00 15.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 80.00 YTD 416.67 6,686.12 1479.00 8581.79 Page 23 NONPROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT NO. 449 SACRAMENTO CA CENTRAL CALIFORNIA FELLOWSHIP 9960 BUSINESS PARK DR., SUITE 110 SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA 95827 *CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED SEPTEMBER 2012 BTW By The Way Subscription Want to join the Birthday Club? 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