YEDIOT YESHURUN
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YEDIOT YESHURUN
YEDIOT September 2016 | YESHURUN Vol. XXXIV No. I | אלול תשע"ו THINKING ALOUD ROSH HASHANA On Rosh Hashana, the Day of Judgment, all individuals and nations “stand in judgment before the Creator of worlds.” Naturally, we are usually more preoccupied with our individual judgments, even if the global judgments are equally, if not more, influential. We see all around us the rise of evil, and the unwillingness to confront it; we see the suffering of millions, and the indifference of billions; we hear of threats to the good and decent as the wicked and brazen intimidate and silence. We wonder about reward and punishment, and confront the challenging and comforting words of the Mishna (Avot 1:7) “Do not despair because of [seeming lack of] retribution.” The simple explanation is that there is a Judge and judgment, and G-d’s justice may be more deliberate than ours would be, but it will come. So do not despair. It will come. But there is another explanation as well. There is no more visceral sensation that pervades our being this time of year than the ultimate question that hovers around us: “who will live and who will die.” It’s the question that cannot be avoided. Each year, for all the blessings in our lives, death takes its toll and makes our world a little darker and a lot 1 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ emptier. Death – even the specter of reflection of renewal. The Gemara says death – brings with it a sense of vulner- (Masechet Shabbat 106a) that if one ability and helplessness. Rav Soloveit- from a social group dies, everyone in the chik wrote (in his “Halachic Man”) that group should worry. And not just worry, death and holiness are contradictions. as Rambam (Laws of Mourning 13:12) In the confrontation between man and elaborates: whoever doesn’t mourn nature, man always loses. Life itself is properly, as our Sages commanded, transient and fragile. And in a world at is “cruel,” i.e., is living in denial. What war, in a world where Jews feel increas- should one do? He should be scared, ingly exposed because the evildoers are anxious, examine his deeds, and repent. shameless and emboldened and almost It is interesting that the proper all others are feckless appeasers, it is response to loss – like to the Day of that world in perpetual conflict that led Judgment–is repentance, which forces the English philosopher Thomas Hobbes us to refocus, to reconnect with the Eterto look at man’s life as “solitary, poor, nal One and His reality, to triumph over nasty, brutish, and short.” the lure of the frivolous and remember Rosh Hashana teaches us the that, indeed, our time here is limited. exact opposite. We are confronted with And that is life-affirming, not depressing. the obligations of repentance, which is a That is the great message of the Mishna: “do not lose faith in the coming retribution.” It is not only that we believe BULLETIN CONTENTS in reward and punishment, and that the wicked will soon receive their just retribution. It also means “do not despair Milestones............................3 because of the existence of evil,” of Lost & Found........................5 suffering, of problems. Do not despair. Month of Elul........................6 Do not think that life is over. Do not Yartzeits..............................11 even think that the world is filled with evil. None of that is true. Calendar.............................13 Rav Kook wrote on the verse we Shul Services.....................14 recite every morning (Tehillim 30:6) that “G-d’s anger endures for a moment” but Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו to live according to His will is life itself. All the problems in the world, in our lives, are just “a moment,” and that underscores that the abundance of good that is “a life according to His will.” Rav Kook: “the goodness and kindness in life are the permanent and dominant foundation of existence. It is evil that is temporary and ephemeral.” Evil is the exception, something extraordinary, and comes only to deepen and expand our appreciation of the good. That we don’t always see it like that is the problem with which we have to wrestle. A person who sees the world as filled with death, pain, suffering and evil is not only mistaken, and not only loses his desire for and enjoyment in life, and not only fills the world with hatred and despair. But such a person also is not paying close enough attention – to see the blessings of life, prosperity, of children and grandchildren, of food, clothing and shelter, of all the opportunities we have to do good for others. Winston Churchill said, quite insightfully, that the pessimist sees the challenges in every opportunity, whereas the optimist sees the opportunities in every challenge. If the Day of Judgment fills us with awe and trepidation – as it should – it is only because we wish to choose life, not because the alternative is mysterious and terrifying but primarily because of the opportunities that we are afforded in this world. Rav Saadia Gaon taught us that the shofar is sounded on Rosh Hashana not only to inspire our repentance, induce our trembling on the day of judgment, or even to remind us of the coming redemption and the resurrection of the dead – but rather, in its most basic purpose, as an act of coronation: to accept upon ourselves His kingship and the world of good He has favored us with. If, on occasion, “at night we lie down in tears” (Tehillim 30:6) – tears shed because of the misery and fear and sorrow we witness, sadness because of personal loss – still “by morning there is joy and song,” the joy of rejuvenation, and the sound of redemption. That is the eternal faith of the Jew. So, never despair and always be optimistic. May we all merit hearing the sounds of song and salvation in the tents of the righteous, and be inscribed and sealed for a year of life and goodness, of good health and prosperity, of peace and redemption, for us and all Israel. Rabbi Steven Pruzansky וכל מי שעוסקים בצורכי צבור באמונה BNAI YESHURUN CHESED COMMITTEE The Bnai Yeshurun Chesed Committee is updating and expanding its list of volunteers. If you can give of your time, please check the appropriate lines and mail this card to the shul. You need not respond if you have volunteered in the past. Thank you and yasher koach to all who participate. If you have questions please call: Betty Kay: 201-833-2356 or Ofra Parmett: 201-837-1809 1) MEALS (shiva, illness, etc.) ____Prepare ____Serve ____Coordinate 2) TRANSPORTATION ____ Driving for errands, appointments, etc. 3) HOSPITALITY ____ Shabbos (Yom Tov) meals ____ Shabbos (Yom Tov) sleepover ____ Coordinate hospitality 4) ASSISTANCE IN THE HOME /SHARONA NAGLER BIKUR CHOLIM PROJECT ____ Visiting ____ Helping with childcare 5) ____ WHEELCHAIR ASSISTANCE FOR SHUL 6) ____ SHMIRAS HALASHON PROJECT – WOMEN ____ MISHMERET TEFILA PROJECT – MEN NAME :________________________________________ PHONE :______________ EMAIL:_____________________________ (continued on page 5 2 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו Milestones Aviva & Jonathan Laib and on the birth of a daughter BIRTH Florence & Joseph Appleman on the birth of a great grandson, a son to Sarah & Jay Guttmann Deborah & Fred Nagler, on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Shira & Dan Marshall Rhonda & Jeff Avner on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Deena & Ari Bardash Karen & Rabbi Steve Pruzansky, on the birth of a grandson, a son to Tamar & Rabbi Ari Ginsberg Michele & Jody Bardash on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Deena & Ari Bardash Carol & Mike Roth on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Willy and Shulamit Roth Sari & Ira Cooper on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Chani & Nachum Cooper Shirley & Steve Rudolph on the birth of grandson, a son to Rachel & Ephraim Rudolph Aviva & Jonathan Edelstein on the birth of a daughter Dena & Abie Feigenbaum on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Aliza & Michael Harary Minette Salzman on the birth of a great grandson, a son to Niela and Lior Hirsch Phyllis & David Savetsky on the birth of a grandson, a son to Estee & Yosef Savetsky Felice & Howard Fisher on the birth of a grandson, a son to Shana & Paul Kalman Sari & Yaakov Sheinfeld on the birth of a daughter Fran Flug & Reuben Koolyk on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Ayelet and Jeremy Koolyk Blanche & Larry Silver on the birth of a grandson, a son to Ariella Silver & Zach Kornhauser Shelly & Henry Frisch on the birth of a great grandson, a son to Penina & Nachi Weinstein Elisheva & Gedalya Sinensky on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Rachel & Avraham Sinensky Gina Frommer on the birth of great grandson, a son to Aryella & Judah Frommer Anita & David Fuld on birth of grandson, a son to Tikvah & Dovid Azman Beverly & Andy Geller on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Aviva & Jonathan Laib Ann & Nathan Gottlieb, on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Dalia & Evan Silver Sandy & David Gross on the birth of a grandson, a son to Amy & Michael Tarlowe Karen & Mottie Guttmann on the birth of a grandson, a son to Sarah & Jay Guttmann Shira & Binny Hahn on the birth of a daughter 3 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ Cheryl & Elliot Small on the birth of granddaughter, a daughter to Rachel & Daniel Small Rori & Sandy Srulowitz on the birth of a grandson, a son to Stephanie and Moti Srulowitz Ruthie & Eliezer Stavsky on the birth of a grandson, a son to Yonina & Yonatan Stavsky Lani & Shimmy Tennenbaum on the birth of two grandchildren, a daughter to David & Tammy Tennenbaum, and a son to Daniel & Miriam Tennenbaum Yael & Moshe Trinz on the birth of a daughter Miryam & Israel Wahrman on the birth of a granddaughter, a daughter to Susie & Michael Ratner Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו Milestones continued from page Ilse Blumenthal on the engagement of her granddaughter Jodi Blumenthal, to Yossi Kashnow BAR/BAT MITZVAH Tzivia Bieler on the Bat Mitzvah of her granddaughter, Estair Rachel Kwalbrun, in Israel Karen Aaron Braverman on the Bar Mitzvah of her grandson, Zachary Amos Lorna & Norman Blumenthal on the engagement of their daughter Jodi, to Yossi Kashnow Amy & Yoav Citron on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Ortal, and the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Lior Beatrice & Joel Dickstein on the engagement of their son Jacob, to Malka Schwartz Pam & Pinny Dollman on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Emma Karen & David Federbush on the engagement of their son Matthew, to Helene Glickman Phyllis & Joe Eisenman on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Barak Noam Eisenman Anita & David Fuld on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Binyamin Fuld Rivi & Avi Katz on the engagement of their son Shua, to Bracha Brauser Sue & David Kelsen on the engagement of their son Jonathan, to Hannah Zweig Chayah & Yoel Fuld on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Binyamin Linda & Leib Koyfman on the engagement of their daughter Shifra, to Alex Rabinovitch Brenda Hanauer on the Bar Mitzvah of her grandson, Ian Hanauer Ofra & Steven Parmett on the engagement of their daughter Rachel, to Aharon Miller Susan & Fred Koss on the Bat Mitzvah of their granddaughter, Ruti Frohlich Roby & Perry Langert on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Jake Dube Marsha & Mel Ness on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Noah Sacher MARRIAGE Lisa & Asher Brukner on the marriage of their daughter Rikki, to Josh Lavine Shani & Yitz Norman on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Ashi Sherry & Bernard Perlowitz on the Bar Mitzvah of their son and grandson, Binyamin Fuld Karen & Rabbi Steven Pruzansky on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Ari Katz, in Israel Debbi & Mark Silverman on the Bat Mitzvah of their granddaughter, Rachel Safran Meryl & Eddie Arbisfeld on the engagement of their son Jonathan, to Jamie Stern 4 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ Roza & Norman Chideckel on the marriage of their daughter Rachel, to Joey Liberman Miriam & Bruce Friedman on the marriage of their daughter Erica, to Joshua Shapiro Estelle & Lenny Glass on the marriage of their grandson Gideon, to Ayala Schneidman Aliza & Natan Safran on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Rachel ENGAGEMENT Rochel & Yossi Stechler on the engagement of their daughter Ahuva Greenbaum, to Moshe Stream Rebekah & Lee Langer on the marriage of their grandson Dov Levine, to Sherri Luxenberg Esther & Aaron Lehmann on the marriage of their granddaughter Tara Levine, to Max Gordon Shira & Seth Levine on the marriage of their daughter Tara, to Max Gordon Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו Milestones continued from page 7 Sheryl & Aaron Liberman on the marriage of their son Joey, to Rachel Chideckel David Dubin, on the loss of his beloved father, Rabbi Gershon Dubin Jackie Leifert on the marriage of her daughter, Dina to Michael Basin Linda Hiltzik, on the loss of her beloved mother, Mrs. Natalie Kaufman Robin & Joshua Rochlin on the marriage of their son Michael, to Nicole Barel Robin Levin, on the loss of her beloved mother, Mrs. Rae Schoor Esther & Sidney Scharf on the marriage of their daughter Rochi, to Jason Ainspan Yocheved Lindenbaum, on loss of her beloved mother, Mrs. Rita Grunberger Dvora & Roy Spiewak on the marriage of their son Marty, to Adina Schwartz Felicia Schipper and the CBY Community, on the loss of her beloved husband and our member, Tzvi Schipper France & Nicolas Weill on the marriage of their daughter Myriam, to Aaron Javitt Joseph Stechler, on the loss of his beloved mother, Mrs. Helen Stechler HONORS Daniel Gibber on being honored by Yeshiva Bais Mordechai of Teaneck Dr. Alan Katz upon his graduation from the Technion Medical School in Israel Ruth Stern, on the loss of her beloved mother, Mrs. Judith Perl Suzanne Tepler on the loss of her beloved mother, Mrs. Chana Levine Tankell Gila & Dovid Weinstein on being honored by Yeshivat Sha’alvim Mona Weinberger and the CBY Community, on the loss of her beloved mother and our member, Francis Freed CONDOLENCES Daniel Weingarten on the loss of his beloved mother, Mrs. Toby Weingarten Joseph Appleman on the loss of his beloved sister, Mrs. Toby Weingarten Ephraim Zayat, on the loss of his beloved father, Dr. David Zayat Andrew Berkowitz on the loss of his beloved father, Steven Berkowitz LOST AND FOUND To report a lost item or to claim one, call Marvin Oppenheim at (201) 837-4172. Items will be discarded after three Regolim. LOST Sunglasses, prescription, lost in the social hall. FOUND Machzor, Artscroll, Succos, White cover, Name MICHAL TIKVA Watch, men’s, Waltham, in shul lobby on May 15 Plate for under wine cup Numerous tallis clips. If you ever lost yours, let us know. Watch, left on the bimah in the sfard minyan / bais medrash Bracelet, Michal Negrin. (Probably was lost a long time ago) Tallis Clips, mogen Dovid design FOR SALE: Men’s watches, Givenchy and Guess. $, Best Offer Watch, ladies, Seiko Watch, Pierre Cardin, with times for two zones Bracelet, ladies Please make certain to have your name in any book brought to shul. MEN put some form of identification inside your T'fillin bag. 5 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו h of Elu t n o M nd Custom l s5 77 7 a s w a L THE MONTH OF ELUL solemn days of the Jewish calendar. (September 4 – October 2) Followed by the High Holiday of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, the month of Elul is the period of preparation for repentance. It is customary to sound the shofar every day during this month and to recite Psalm 27 (“The Lord is my Light”) at the conclusion of shacharit and ma’ariv. Although it is true that during the entire year a Jew should walk in the way of G-d, he must make an extra effort to refine himself during the month of Elul. During the last week of Elul (beginning September 21) selichot, prayers for forgiveness and mercy are recited daily. The forty days from Rosh Chodesh Elul through Yom Kippur are days of grace during which we justify our lives and render ourselves acceptable to G-d. Certainly, G-d accepts the repentance of all who turn to Him in purity and sincerity throughout the year. But these forty days are more propitious for repentance as they are days of mercy, supplications and renewal. Thus, we begin blowing the shofar every weekday after davening. And from Saturday night preceding Rosh Hashana (or from the Saturday night of the preceding week if Rosh Hashana falls on a Monday or Tuesday), we rise earlier than usual to recite Selichot. The term selicha literally means forgiveness and describes the penitential prayers which are recited during the 6 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ On early Sunday morning, September 25 Selichot will be at 12:45 A.M. (at halachik Midnight). On all the other days through Erev Yom Kippur (except Shabbat), Selichot will be recited each morning before the regular tefillah. Indeed, part of the Selichot experience is to awaken to God’s service earlier than usual to dramatize the urgency of our plight and the seriousness of our repentance. EREV ROSH HASHANA (October 2) The recitation of Selichot begins earlier than usual because of the abundance of penitential prayers that are recited. Hatarat Nedarim (Annulment of Vows): it is customary to conduct hatarat nedarim on the eve of Rosh Hashana in order to annul any vows that were inadvertently left unfulfilled in the past year. Naturally, this excludes vows made to charity. Hatarat Nedarim is performed before a Beit Din (court) composed of three Jews, usually after shacharit on Erev Rosh Hashana. If not done then, it can be performed at any time. Mikvah: There is an ancient tradition that on Erev Rosh Hashana men immerse Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו themselves in the mikvah. It is a symbolic act of purification with which we greet the New Year. The immersion effect is not a physical cleanliness- one should bathe before entering the mikvah- but a spiritual act of rebirth and renewal. For hours of the mikvah please call 201-837-8220. Remember to make an Eruv Tavshilim. ROSH HASHANA (October 2 – October 4) Candle Lighting: On the first night of Rosh Hashana, the blessings “Lehadlik ner shel Yom Tov” and “Shehechiyanu” are recited when the candles are lit. Candle lighting is 6:15 PM on the second night of Rosh Hashana, candles are lit after nightfall (after 7:15 pm). The two days of Rosh Hashana were deemed by the Sages to be one long day (Yom Arichta). Accordingly, to justify the recitation of Shehechiyanu on the second night, the Sages suggested that one should wear a new garment or prepare a new fruit that grows seasonally (and that one has not consumed during the past year) of the Yom Tov meal, and to have this in mind when reciting the Shehechiyanu. One who lacks either a new garment of a new fruit should still recite the Shehechiyanu. Simana Milta: On Rosh Hashana, we are taught that the essence of the day – judgment – should be expressed as often as possible as a constant reminder of the season’s theme. Thus, during the Yom Tov meal we eat several fruits or foods which call to mind this idea, and reflect our deepest yearnings for a healthy, sweet year. Many dip the challah in honey, eat an apple dipped in honey, or eat other foods- and accompany these acts with a short tefillah beseeching G-d for a good judgment. Kitel: The white garment of the kitel symbolizes purity, as we stand before G-d in prayer. 7 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ Many men follow the custom of wearing the kitel even on Rosh Hashana, and men and women generally wear white garments to shul. Shofar: The basic mitzva of the day is to listen to the sound of the shofar, the ram’s horn, which recalls the binding of Yitzchak and his act of self- sacrifice (and which, according to some opinions actually occurred on Rosh Hashana). The shofar also serves as a call to teshuva, awakening us from life’s distractions. The Rabbinic obligation of Teki’at Shofar is to hear 30 sounds. But the general custom is to hear 100 sounds. Anyone who cannot come to shul to hear the blowing of the shofar should contact the Rabbi, who will arrange for a private performance. There will be a second sounding of the shofar in the Main Shul at 6:05 PM on the first day, and at 6:05 PM on the second day of Rosh Hashanah for those who were unable to come to Shacharit. Tashlich: On the first day of Rosh Hashana after Mincha, Tashlich will be recited (in our case) along the banks on the Hackensack River. Tashlich recalls the binding of Yitzchak and Avraham’s trek through rivers to arrive at Mount Moriah. It evokes, too the proclamation of the prophet Micha, “And you shall cast their iniquities into depths of the sea.” The custom some have of throwing bread into the water is both frivolous and wasteful. Rather, penitential prayers are recited, the merit of our ancestors is invoked, and the humbling spirit of true repentance should be pervasive. One should avoid transforming the recitation of Tashlich into a social outing. FAST OF GEDALIA (Wednesday, October 5) The fast of Gedalia commemorates the final disaster which struck the remnant of Jews in the land of Israel after the destruction of the first temple (3338 PC, 421 BCE). Nevuchadnetzar, the Babylonian Emperor destroyed the Temple but allowed a small number of Jews to remain in Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו the land of Israel. Gedalia ben Achikam was appointed Jewish Governor of the land. When he was assassinated as a result of Jewish infighting, the remaining Jewish population in Israel was exiled and the tragedy of the first Temple era was complete. The fast begins at 5:45 AM and ends at 7:12 PM. SHABBAT SHUVA (October 8) After Mincha, the Rabbi will deliver his Shabbat Shuva drasha for the entire community. Men and women are cordially invited to attend. The Rabbi will speak on a topic related to the theme of teshuva. Kippur commences. The meal should be completed prior to the lighting of the Yom Kippur candles (6:00 PM). Candle Lighting: The Shabbat/ Yom Tov candles should be lit prior to the recitation of the blessings Lehadlik ner shel Shabbat V’shel Yom Hakippurim and Shehechiyanu. Blessing of the Children: Just before leaving for Kol Nidrei services, the children should be given the traditional parental blessing of Friday nights with an additional blessing that invokes G-d’s mercy, love and guidance for the year to come. Dress in the Synagogue: As on Rosh Hashana, everyone should be dressed in modest white clothing. Men should wear their kitels and talitot even at the Kol Nidre services. SPECIAL YOM KIPPUR PROHIBITIONS 1. Eating and drinking- those who are sick or frail should consult the Rabbi. 2. Washing- in either hot or cold water. One may wash only until the knuckles upon arising on Yom Kippur morning or after taking care of one’s bodily needs. EREV YOM KIPPUR 3. Anointment- any ointment, hair tonic, perfume, etc. (Tuesday, October 11) YOM KIPPUR (Wednesday, October 12) Kaparot (Atonement): There is an old tradition to take money or a chicken and recite the kaparot while waving the money or chicken over the head of each family member: “This exchange for me; this is my ransom; this is my atonement. This money (chicken) shall go to charity, and I shall attain a long and good life, the peace.” The money or chicken should then be designated to charity. Kaparot plates will be available in the shul throughout Erev Yom Kippur until Kol Nidre. Mikvah: There is a custom to immerse oneself in the mikvah on Erev Yom Kippur, even if one has already done so on Erev Rosh Hashana. Se’udat Mafseket: There is a Torah obligation to eat a festive meal before the fast of Yom 8 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ 4. Wearing shoes- if they are wholly or partially made of leather (including athletic shoes). This applies to the entire Yom Kippur, not just when in the Synagogue. 5. Marital relations. AFTER YOM KIPPUR: On the night following Yom Kippur, as we stream from our synagogue in a joyous and exalted spirit, hopefully cleansed and purified of all sin, we hurry to perform additional mitzvot. Before breaking the fast, we recite the blessing of the new moon (kiddush levanah) and, after our meal, begin hammering the posts of our succah into the ground. We try to heed the Psalmist as he bids us to go “from strength to strength.” Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו SUCCOT (October 16 – October 25) Remember to make an Eruv Tavshilin. Succot: The festival of Succot (lit.: “booths”) commemorates the year of Jewish wandering in the wilderness before our ancestors were brought to Israel. For forty years after the exodus from Egypt they lived in succot, trusting in G-d’s providence. It is for this reason that we are commanded to spend a week in succot, temporary tabernacles. All meals during the Succot holiday are eaten in the succah, except when it is raining. Whenever eating in the succah one recites, after the blessing for the food, the blessing of Leisheiv basuccah (to dwell in the succah). On the first night of Succot, the Shehecheyanu blessing is recited prior to the Leisheiv basuccah blessing. All members and worshippers are invited to visit and use the beautifully decorated CBY succah. The succah will be open daily during Succot for those who wish to eat their meals in observance of the mitzvah, and who lack their own succah. During yom tov, following evening and morning services, all worshippers will be able to make kiddush in the shul’s succah. Lulav and Etrog: The mitzva of etrog and lulav is performed during the first seven days of Succot (except Shabbat). The four species are taken as follows: Grasp the lulav in your right hand (with spine facing towards you and the etrog in your left hand). Left-handed people should take the lulav in their left hand and the etrog in their right hand. The three hadasim should be on the right of the lulav and the two aravot on the left. (Some lefthanders also configure the lulav differently.) Recite the Al netilat lulav and 9 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ (the first time this mitzva is performed) the Shehechiyanu blessings. Shake the four species in these six directions: east, south, west, north, up, down. SYMBOLIC THEMES Etrog: It is shaped like our heart that yearns for the better things (we hope) rather than for selfish goals; it is both tasty and fragrant (a good taste is enjoyed only by the person eating; a good fragrance is enjoyed by all), like the Jew who is learned in the Torah for himself and also does kind acts for others, as well. Lulav: It is shaped like our spine that sways as we pray and bends its gratitude. It bears tasty fruit but has no fragrance, like the Jew who is learned (for himself) but does not concern himself with others. Hadas: It is oval shaped, as our eyes. It is important to direct our vision away from harmful distractions and concentrate on the sources of inspiration for the good. It is fragrant but fruitless and thus tasteless, like the Jew who is kind and charitable but unlearned in Torah. Arava: It is an elongated oval, like our mouth. May we control it from evil talk and use it to sing our gratitude to G-d. It is neither fragrant nor tasty, like a Jew who has neither knowledge nor good deeds to his credit. HOLIDAY PRAYERS: The whole Hallel is recited throughout Succot. We likewise include the Yaaleh Veyavo prayer in the Shemoneh Esrei. We read an appropriate Torah selection and recite musaf throughout the festival. During chol hamoed, we omit the Tachanun and Lamnatzeiach prayers. Yediot Yeshurun אלול תשע״ו CHOL HAMOED (October 19–23) Following the first two days of Succot, five days of chol hamoed (mid festival days) are observed. During chol hamoed, work (except which prevents a loss or pertains to a festival need) is prohibited. HOSHANA RABA (Sunday, October 23) On Hoshana Raba eve we observe the timehonored custom of Tikun Leil Hoshana Raba, special Torah study, after ma’ariv. The name Hoshana Raba is derived from the fact that on this day, instead of circling around the bima once while reciting the prayers of Hoshana, seven processions are made. We make the processions with etrog and lulav in our hands. SHEMINI ATZERET (Monday October 24) Remember to make an Eruv Tavshilin. Our meals are eaten in the succah as on the other days of Succot (despite what you may have heard!), but the blessing Leisheiv basuccah is omitted. However, the Shehechiyanu blessing is recited at kiddush on the night of Shemini Atzeret. Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ SIMCHAT TORAH (Tuesday, October 25) On this day, the last portion of the Torah (The final two chapters of the book of Devarim) is read. Since we must never “finish” the Torah reading, the first portion of Genesis is also read, immediately starting the Torah reading for the coming year. This is a happy occasion. All of the Sifrei Torah are taken from the Ark and are carried around the shul seven times (hakafot). There is much singing and dancing. The hakafot take place both at night and during the day, and the atmosphere in shul is one of true simcha shel mitzva. The yom tov meals are eaten in the home once again. Once again, there will be a full range of Hakafot, as well as shiurim for women- this, to truly augment and enhance the celebration of Torah. A schedule of events for Simcha Torah will be sent shortly under separate cover. ISRU CHAG (Wednesday, October 26) Those who daven Nusach Sefard have hakafot on the night of Shemini Atzeret in the main shul, and even non-sefardim are invited to participate. On Shemini Atzeret, Yizkor prayers are recited. A special prayer is offered in shul for rain (Geshem) on that day as well. There is little or no rain in Israel during the summer; the winter brings the rainy season. Our ancient agricultural background and the needs of contemporary Israel make the Geshem prayer both traditional and timely. Beginning with musaf on Shemini Atzeret, we include “Mashiv 10 haru’ach umorid hageshem (You cause the wind to blow and the rain to fall)” in the beginning of the shemoneh esrei. The day following Pesach, Shavuot and Succot is known as Isru Chag (bind the festival). It is observed as a semi-festive day. In the time of the Beit Hamikdash, Isru Chag was the day when the pilgrims (olei regel) left Jerusalem to return home. According to a talmudic statement, one who observes Isru Chag as a festive day with eating and drinking is considered as if he offered sacrifice upon the altar. This year Isru Chag falls on Shabbat Bereshit, and we have privilege of immediately beginning the new annual cycle of Torah reading. 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Chinuch & P. HaShavua after Sefard Bava Metzia after 8:30 minyan Plag Mincha Mincha Manny Freed z”l Parent Child Learning Daf: Bava Kama 93 א אלול ראש חודש 5 First Shacharit: 6:15 AM Earliest Tefillin Latest Shma Mincha Gdola Mincha 11 Earliest Tefillin Latest Shma Mincha Gdola Mincha Daf: 103 ח אלול 9:42 AM 1:24 PM 6:55 PM ט"ו אלול Earliest Tefillin 5:46 AM Latest Shma 9:44 AM Daf: 110 25 Selichot: 6:00 AM Latest Shma Mincha Gdola Mincha Daf: 117 1:21 PM 6:40 PM כ"ב אלול Earliest Tefillin 7 ד אלול 8 7:15 PM ה אלול Candles: 7:05 PM Mincha: 6:45 & 7:15 PM Daf: 94 9 Daf: 97 Daf: 98 12 ט אלול Daf: 104 13 Daf: 99 י אלול ט"ז אלול Daf: 111 26 5:54 AM 9:47 AM 1:18 PM 6:30 PM Daf: 105 19 20 Selichot/ Shacharit: 5:45, 6:00, 6:35, 6:55, 7:40, 8:30 AM Daf: 118 Cong. Bnai Yeshurun, Teaneck, NJ ו אלול Plag: 5:54 PM Candles: 6:54 PM Mincha: 6:45 & 7:05 PM Daf: 100 14 י"א אלול Daf: 106 י"ז אלול 27 21 י"ח אלול Daf: 113 כ"ד אלול Selichot/ Shacharit: 28 5:55, 6:10, 6:35, 7:05, 7:40, 8:30 AM Daf: 119 Board Meeting: 8:00 PM Tzurva M'Rabbanan Shiur: 8:15 PM Daf: 112 כ"ג אלול Shabbos 3 Daf: 101 15 י"ב אלול 16 כ"ה אלול Selichot/ Shacharit: Daf: Bava Metzia 2 Plag: Candles: Mincha: Daf: 107 Daf: 108 22 י"ט אלול 29 Daf: 115 כ"ו אלול Selichot/ Shacharit: 5:45, 6:00, 6:35, 6:55, 7:40, 8:30 AM Daf: 3 Maariv (Sun-TH): Following Plag Mincha (9/1 only) 8:00 PM (beginning 9/4) 9:00 PM 10:01 PM Yediot Yeshurun כ אלול Candles: Mincha: Daf: 114 10:45 PM 5:44 PM 6:42 PM 6:50 PM 23 Plag: 5:55, 6:10, 6:35, 7:05, 7:40, 8:30 AM Weekday Mincha: see Sunday Additional early Mincha: 1:45 & 4:30 PM on Sundays 1:45 PM Mon - Thurs י"ג אלול ראה 9:00 AM (T) Jacob Dahan Bar Mitzvah Daf: 95 10 30 כ"ז אלול Selichot/ Shacharit: 5:55, 6:10, 6:35, 7:05, 7:40, 8:30 AM Plag: Candles: Mincha: 5:25 PM 6:18 PM 6:30 PM Daf Yomi Shiurim: Sunday: 7:00 AM Weekdays: 5:30 AM Shabbos: 7:30 AM & 1 hr before 3rd Mincha Mincha: 1:45 5:30 7:05 PM Maariv: 8:09 PM ז אלול שופטים 8:40 AM Mordy Dubin Ufruf Daf: 102 17 Daf: 109 24 5:35 PM 6:30 PM 6:40 PM ל אב ראש חודש Mincha only: 5:15 PM Early Mincha: 1:45 & 4:30 Weekday Shacharit: Sun: 6:25, 7, 7:30, 8, 8:50, 9:15 AM M,TH: 6:05, 6:20, 7, 7:20, 8, 8:50 AM T,W,F: 6:15, 6:30, 7, 7:30, 8, 8:50 AM 13 ג אלול 5:55 PM 5:39 AM 18 Mincha Gdola Mincha 6 כ"ט אב Plag: 6:04 PM Shacharit: 6:20, 7:00 7:30, 8:00, 8:50, 9:15 AM 5:31 AM 9:40 AM 1:27 PM 7:05 PM ב אלול Legal Holiday Friday 2 Mincha only: 5:15 PM Shiur 1/2 hour before 3rd mincha 4 כ"ח אב אלול תשע"ו- אב 9:00 AM Jacob Dickstein Ufruf Mincha: 1:45 5:30 6:50 PM Maariv: 7:57 PM כי תצא 8:40 AM Jason Levine Ufruf Mincha: 1:45 5:30 6:40 PM Maariv: 7:45 PM כי תבוא י"ד אלול כ"א אלול Mincha: 1:45 5:30 6:25 PM Maariv: 7:33 PM Selichot: 12:45 AM Shabbos Shacharit: 7:00 MAIN Daf: 116 8:30 Nusach Sefard 8:40 OLD MAIN 9:00 MAIN 9:00 Moroccan 9:00 Young Members 9:00 Teen Minyan youth groups at 9:20 AM Mishna Yomit: Sunday: 8:30 AM Mon - Fri: 7:45 AM Shabbos: 8:15 AM אלול תשע״ו Yediot Yeshurun Yediot Yeshurun is the official publication of Congregation Bnai Yeshurun 641 West Englewood Avenue Teaneck, NJ 07666 Contact Information: Phone (201) 836-8916 Fax (201) 836-1888 Email [email protected] Web www.bnaiyeshurun.org Rabbis Rabbi Steven Pruzansky Study (201) 836-1824 Email [email protected] Asst. 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