The Great Shofar Blowout Makes the Guiness Book of World Records!!
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The Great Shofar Blowout Makes the Guiness Book of World Records!!
NOVEMBER 2014, CHESHVAN/KISLEV 5775 The Great Shofar Blowout Makes the Guiness Book of World Records!! A Guiness World Record was set as 1,043 people from around the country participated in The Great Shofar Blowout on Sept. 23 in Whippany. Thank you so much to Cantor Caplan and over 50 CAI congregants who helped to achieve this record!! See page 5 for more pictures from The Great Shofar Blowout. INSIDE Schedule of Services.........................2 Marisa’s Message...........................12 Tributes and Donations.................20 A Message From The Rabbi............3 Guess Who’s Coming....................13 Yahrzeits..........................................22 Notes from the Cantor.....................4 CAI Social Worker..........................15 Personals .........................................23 Message From President.................6 CAI Walks For Israel......................16 Bar/Bat Mitzvahs...........................28 Development Director ....................7 Social Action...................................17 Caldwell USY..................................31 What’s In The Werks........................8 Senior Adult Lounge.....................18 Kadima............................................32 Adult Education.............................10 Caldwell Hadassah........................19 Chalutzim........................................33 PUBLISHED MONTHLY FROM SEPTEMBER-JUNE BY CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX; AFFILIATED WITH UNITED SYNAGOGUE OF CONSERVATIVE JUDAISM 20 ACADEMY ROAD, CALDWELL, NEW JERSEY 07006; 973.226.3600; WWW.AGUDATH.ORG CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX SCHEDULE OF SERVICES SERVICES Daily minyan as per usual Satuday am: Torah Study and Children’s am services as per usual Friday, October 31 Early Service............................................................5:45 pm Shabbat dinner.........................................................6:45 pm Scholar-in-Residence Rabbi David Ebstein [Jerusalem]..........................7:30 pm Late Service..............................................................8:30 pm Saturday, November 1...........................................9:00 am Scholar-in-Residence - Rabbi David Ebstein [Jerusalem]...............................................................11:15 am Lunch N Learn with Rabbi David Ebstein .............................................................................12:45pm Bat Mitzvah – Emily Hack.....................................pm Minchah/Talmud Study/Maariv.........................5:25 pm Friday, November 7 Early Service............................................................4:30 pm Bat Mitzvah - Andie Steinberg..............................pm Late Service..............................................................8:00 pm Saturday, November 8........................................... 9:00 am Honoring Father Anthony Randazo.....................11:15 am Minchah/Talmud Study/Maariv.........................4:20 pm Friday, November 14 Early Service............................................................4:20 pm Shabbat in PJs..........................................................5:30 pm Late Service..............................................................8:00 pm Saturday, November 15.........................................9:00 am Learners minyan.....................................................10:30 am Dr. Deborah Miller – The History of the Jews in Colorado...............................................................11:15 am Minchah/Talmud Study/Maariv.........................4:10 pm Friday, November 21 Early Service............................................................4:15 pm Guess Who’s Coming to Shabbat Dinner? (off-site at homes)....................................................7:00 pm Late Service..............................................................8:00 pm Saturday, November 22 .......................................9:00am Bar Mitzvah – Matthew Savloff............................pm Minchah/Talmud Study/Maariv.........................4:05 pm Sunday, November 23 Bat Mitzvah - Emma Burke...................................10:30 am Friday, November 28 Early service.............................................................4:10 pm Late service...............................................................8:00 pm PAGE 2 SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Saturday, November 29.........................................9:00 am Minchah/Talmud study/maariv..........................4:00 pm CANDLE LIGHTING Friday, October 31..............................................5:36 pm Shabbat ends Saturday, November 1..............6:46 pm Friday, November 7............................................4:28 pm Shabbat ends Saturday, November 8..............5:38 pm Friday, November 14..........................................4:21 pm Shabbat ends Saturday, November 15............5:31 pm Friday, November 21..........................................4:16 pm Shabbat ends Saturday, November 22.............5:26 pm Friday, November 28..........................................4:12 pm Shabbat ends Saturday, November 29 ............5:22 pm DAILY SERVICES Mornings Monday & Thursday........................6:45 am Tuesday, Wednesday & Friday........7:00 am Sunday Talmud Study...........................8:15 am Sunday Shacharit.....................................9:00 am Evenings Sunday - Thursday...........................7:30 pm Friday....................(see schedule) & 8:00 pm Saturday...............(see schedule) SATURDAY Torah Study Group......................9:00 am Torah Reading Chug...................10:15 - 11:00 am (twice a month, ages 9-12) Teen Service/Schmooze.............10:45 am The following are at....................11:00 am • Torah for Tots (ages 0-4) • Mini-Minyan (grades K-2) • Mini-Congo (grades 3-4) • Jr Congo (grades 5-6) • Kadima (grades 7-8) • Shabbat Meditation 9:30 am, first Saturday of every month. A MESSAGE FROM RABBI ALAN SILVERSTEIN WWW.AGUDATH.ORG Guess Who’s Coming to Synagogue On Shabbat? Rabbi Silverstein People ask: “Rabbi, I am not religious. Why should I [or my family] go to the synagogue on Shabbat?” Yet Jewish communal prayer offers something for all of us, whether or not we perceive ourselves as “religious.” HAND JEWS - ASSOCIATIONAL (NETWORKING) JEWS Many people come to synagogue on Shabbat primarily to find God. Others come to find people with whom to feel part of a community. On Shabbat we encounter and befriend men and women, children of all ages, single folks and large households. In communal prayer, at Kiddush, and at Shabbat activities, we “schmooze and kibbutz,” commiserate with people’s anguish and share in their joys. We come to care about one another, to enjoy each other’s company. I strongly recommend coming to synagogue on Shabbat for newcomers to CAI – individually or as a household – you and your children or grandchildren gradually will connect with other folks in the process. HEAD JEWS? – PEOPLE MOVED BY LEARNING Jewish Learning is an integral part of the Shabbat experience. Sermons, guest speakers, discussion of issues, review of books, sharing thoughts at Kiddush and at Shabbat meals offer opportunities to stretch our minds, our spiritual selves, and our Jewish identities. At age 90, Rabbi Louis Finkelstein famous comment applies: “Exercise is the key to longevity, but not merely physical exercise, also exercise of the mind through Torah Study.” NOVEMBER 2014 If you are moved by ideas, books, values, concepts come to the synagogue on Shabbat. NOW WHAT ABOUT HEART JEWS? – THOSE IN SPIRITUAL QUEST Prayer is to the soul what food is to the body. It is possible to have a life without prayer, just as it is possible to have life without music, love, or laughter. But it is a life missing entire dimensions of experience. The act of prayer can have an impact on us, if we “keep in the game.” A prayerful mood can move us toward the affective/spiritual side of our brain, toward interior spiritual work. Ideally at occasional points, our souls soar. We temporarily become immersed or “in a zone” as might a skilled basketball player in his/her shooting, or a ballerina in her dance steps. Paraphrasing Rabbi Roly Matalon: “Don’t think in terms of instant gratification. By the time the holidays are over, maybe you’ve had a minute or 5 minutes of something absolutely real and deep… - But that moment of connection is worth the hours invested because if it’s a real deep connection, there’s nothing like it. It’s huge.” Coming to synagogue on Shabbat meets a wide range of social, learning and spiritual needs. It does so for all ages. Whether to Friday night early or late services, to Shabbat morning or afternoon services. Whether to Shabbat in PJs or Sweats, to Shabbat Family services or Shabbat programs for Halutzim, Kadimah or USY or NOAM. Whether it is the Learners service or Shabbat Meditation. Whether it is Shabbat torah Study or Talmud Study. Whether it is Kiddush or Lunch N Learn with Guest Speakers --- please come and partake. With friendship, Rabbi Alan Silverstein Rabbi Finkelstein also observed, “When I pray, I speak to God, and that is so important! When I study Torah, God talks to me – that is a foretaste of heaven!” PAGE 3 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX NOTES FROM CANTOR JOEL CAPLAN Don’t Miss “Annelies” – Anne Frank’s Diary in Music Last March, I told you about the cantata “Annelies” (based on The Diary of Anne Frank), which was being performed in Morristown. I had said: “Many of you know Murray and Randi Spiegel, of our congregation. Among many other things, they lead dancing for us on Simchat Torah, they’re operators of the website SedersForYou (their license plate reads “PESACH”), and Murray is the co-author of the fascinating 300 Ways to Ask The Four Questions. They write: “The two of us sing in the Harmonium Choral Society, which is performing an amazing work about the Holocaust: a new cantata set to the words of Anne Frank’s diary... The piece is beautiful, personal, and movingly meaningful. There are times during rehearsals when we singers have tears in our eyes from the musical setting of Anne Frank’s words.” Cantor Caplan With some support from the Cantor’s Fund, over 30 members of our congregation – teens and adults -- went to hear this work last spring. I was very, very moved. It’s not only that the music is performed exquisitely by Harmonium and their conductor, Dr. Anne Matlack. It’s not only that the voice of the young lady singing the role of Anne was so sweet, so pure... It’s not only that Anne Frank’s words cut into us so, even all these decades later. But this is a multimedia event, and the visual components – slides, photographs, added quotes and poetry – bathe us in Anne’s despair and hopes in a way I’ve never experienced before. Harmonium is performing this work once again, Saturday, November 8, at Oheb Shalom Congregation in South Orange. Don’t miss it! This performance is not in our building; we are fortunate to live in an area where there are many worthwhile events remembering the Holocaust at this time of Kristallnacht. For instance, for well over twenty years, Dr. Harriet Sepinwall (of our congregation) has spearheaded a week of Holocaust Remembrance and Kristallnacht Remembrance events at the College of St. Elizabeth in Morristown. Information on “Annelise” is below. Talk to me, Randi and Murray about this! -- Cantor Caplan Annelies SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 8, 2014 8:00 pm Annelies is the first authorized musical setting of The Diary of Anne Frank. This unique and moving concert-length work will be performed by the Harmonium Choral Society, with violin, cello, clarinet, and piano, and enhanced by multi-media. Free admission if reservations are made in advance by October 31st, 2014. Register online at www.ohebshalom.org or by phone (973) 762-7067. Tickets at the door will be $10/person. by James Whitbourn A major new cantata about Anne Frank performed by The Annelies concert is generously underwritten by The Jonah Solkoff Eskin Memorial Fund at Oheb Shalom. Oheb Shalom Congregation 170 Scotland Road, South Orange www.ohebshalom.org -- Cantor Joel Caplan, 973-226-3600, ext. 116, [email protected] PAGE 4 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 The Great Shofar Blowout PAGE 5 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX FROM THE PRESIDENT Turn, Turn, Turn The autumn’s turn toward winter reminds us of our recent days of awe-filled turning, the falling leaves of our fleeting house of Sukkot, the sharp seasonal illuminations in our people’s text -and its Source -- which is to light our way. The cycle of seasons is another Ted Eisenberg clock, that not only recalls how time collects around the patterns of the natural world, but makes us mindful of the changes inherent to our lives, and in particular the recurrence of beginnings and endings which exceed our own trajectory of being. Our tradition is rich with cycles of ritual holiness that mark the day, the week, the moon’s monthly journey and the sun’s revolution. From ancient times, we have set our hopes upon a cosmic revolution -- the triumph of the good -- from Eden, through history, returning to a heavenly Eden, with the coming of the messiah and the reconciliation of all wrongs. At its outset, Christianity focused all of its attention on this return, and the resultant ending of history’s journey. The belief in the arrival of this messianic moment became its litmus test for salvation in this world as well as in the next. There are also cycles of human activity which we discover in history. There are theories of history that regard these recurrences as certainties, which dominate our lives as predictably as the sun’s pull. As Jews, we track the periods of our oppression in the societies in which we live; we try to understand the conditions which repeatedly have led to our persecution and theorize about what we could have done – what we can do now – to hold at bay forces, which seem, like the storm that overtook Jonah on his journey to Tarshish, to come from nowhere, to claim us. In olden times, we viewed these recurrent persecutions as divine punishment for sin – for being a stiff-necked people. Many within our Orthodox communities (and beyond) still hold to this parable of divine retribution for sin. Those of us, who have incorporated more secular wisdom into our Judaism, have abandoned that closed set of sin and punishment, not only as a fiction, but as a fatal attack on G-d, and on a concept of the good around which we could model our lives. Yet we are left with the question that haunts the Jewish consciousness -- why us, again? Indeed, when one is the recipient of so much hatred, recurring in so many societies, over so long a period, it is inevitable that some victims will become convinced of the merit of this animosity, if only to empower themselves . For if we have done something wrong, we can correct it, and end this animus. Such turning in can become self-hatred and the desire to flee our identity. In Europe, only 70 years after the Holocaust, while some of Hitler’s victims still remain, with a living memory of hell, Jewhatred is again in fashion. There are leaders in the Islamic world who speak of our extermination as a universal good -as if our collective history, being, contributions to civilization PAGE 6 are utterly without merit and unworthy of any consideration, as if the messianic judgment were at hand, and we were, as a people, in our entirety, found wanting and condemned to damnation. Some pin their attacks to Israel’s actions and claim no illfeeling toward Jews. But can one attack the heart and soul of a people, and not attack the body? Moreover, the level and scope of vitriol reserved exclusively for Israel, in a world in which mass murder and other national/ethnic obscenities are rampant, belies the sincerity of such claims. Indeed, in some cases, the pretense of the distinction between Israel and Jew has been abandoned, and the bloody cry of Kill the Jews is shouted unreservedly. One part of me, perhaps the larger part, wants to hide, or to rub my eyes and wake in a different time. I have abandoned all the answers of my life as unworthy of the task of explanation. While I write this article, I look outside my window at a tree. Whatever my mental gymnastics, whatever my affirmations or denials, my turnings away or my returns – the tree remains. You may say that I can cut down this tree, and at some point it will wither on its own. I must agree; yet the tree is only a metaphor; what I am looking at is so much larger, and abstract, and does not possess a genetic code for its own demise. Bereft of answers, inclined to flee to an imagined time, I am left with the need to act against this colossus. You may say that it is a mistake to make this thing so large – for it is only an abstraction and that I must shrink it in my mind before I can excise it. I agree, but it looms thus in my dreams, and when I awake it remains. The upshot of this angst, is that I am working with the Rabbi to arrange a mission to Europe next year – a solidarity mission to communities which feel the threat of this ancient antagonism daily. This mission will look to the history of Jews within these communities, as well as the current relationship of these communities to the larger body politic, in the aftermath of the recent Israeli defensive against Hamas in Gaza. For example, to return to the scene of the Dreyfus affair in France, to consider the role of Emile Zola and his accusing finger against the French establishment in remedying that outrage. And now? This trip is a work in progress, and we hope that we are able formulate a journey both back in time and forward towards ways in which we can help our brethren – who seem islands within this sea of renewed hostility. This effort may seem a pittance in view of the scope of the challenge, and surely, there are many others things we can do -- individually, in our associations and at CAI. I encourage you to do all of them. This is only one idea -- to re-experience European origins, reestablish ties and find new ways to assist our beleaguered European landsmen. Perhaps those, who journey to experience this together, will gain a greater understanding, will be strengthened in their purpose, will feel empowered by the community that will emerge among fellow travelers. At least that is my hope. WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 D E V E LO P M E N T D I R E C TO R CAI ANNUAL FUND – STRIVING TOWARDS OUR GOAL WHILE WATCHING OUR MENORAH GROW As I write this article, we are just beginning our outreach to the congregation about the new CAI Annual Fund. By the time you read this message, we will hopefully be moving towards our $500,000 goal. It is an exciting time for CAI, as we remain focused on this campaign dedicated to just ONE ASK, ONE PLEDGE, ONE GIFT FROM YOU. To track visually our progress, we have created the CAI Annual Fund Lego Menorah, which will mark our advancement towards reaching our $500,000 goal for the 2014-15 fiscal year. Pamela Goldstein When you are at CAI – whether for Shabbat Services, Religious School, Adult Education programs, or some other activity – please be certain to check out our Lego Menorah in the synagogue lobby. Every gift we receive will translate into more Lego bricks on our structure. May our Lego Menorah reach full height soon and ultimately go well beyond! Lego building has a proud history at CAI. Most recently, families came together to build Lego structures in advance of Passover 2013. We are excited that the Annual Fund Lego Menorah is adding another chapter to the story of learning through Legos at CAI. This menorah will grow thanks to the many volunteers who are helping make this inaugural year of the CAI Annual Fund a success. Particular kudos is extended to Rob Scheckman, our Annual Fund Chair, who is stewarding this very important effort. If you have any questions about the CAI Annual Fund or would like to discuss your commitment privately, please feel free to reach me in the synagogue office at 973-226-3600, ext. 113 or via email at [email protected]. HOW CAN I MAKE A LEGACY GIFT AND JOIN THE CAI LEGACY CIRCLE? The CAI Legacy Circle recognizes those thoughtful congregants who have decided to provide for the future of CAI by including our synagogue in their estate plans. We are hoping that – over the course of the coming years – our Legacy Circle will grow to include many, many synagogue members. If you would like to learn more about your options for including CAI in your estate plans and joining The CAI Legacy Circle, please contact Legacy Team Chair Esther Kartus at [email protected] or Director of Development Pamela Goldstein at [email protected] or in the synagogue office at 973-226-3600, ext. 113. As you think about your desire to make a difference for the future of CAI and thereby join The CAI Legacy Circle, consider some of the ways in which you can help build CAI’s Endowment: • A bequest in your will or trust would allow you to specify that a percentage of your estate, the remainder of your estate, a particular property or a stated amount be directed to support the programs and services of CAI. • A retirement plan (401(k) or IRA) designation would enable you to name CAI as an after-death beneficiary of your retirement plan. You may find this to be the most tax-wise option since taxes on retirement plan distributions to your heirs can be extremely high, but a retirement plan distribution to CAI will incur no taxes. • A charitable gift annuity (CGA) would provide a meaningful after-life gift for CAI, while providing you or another beneficiary with an income during lifetime. A CGA is created in exchange for cash or marketable securities and is a simple contractual agreement between you and CAI. • A charitable remainder trust would enable you to make a gift that produces income for you or for loved ones and could significantly reduce estate taxes. Upon the end of the trust term, the remainder of the trust would become your legacy gift to CAI. • A new or existing life insurance policy , which you no longer need, may be a viable legacy option for you. Upon the death of the insured, the proceeds will go to support CAI’s programs and services. Please note that these descriptions are informational only, and do not constitute legal or tax advice. Please consult with a financial or estate planning professional to understand the implications of a gift to your particular circumstances and goals. PAGE 7 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX W H AT ’ S I N T H E W E R K S Torah Pillar EVERY AGE & EVERY STAGE JEWISH LEARNING The delicious pleasures of a book E very day, at about 3:15 p.m. Marisa Bergman or I walk through the Religious School wing unlocking doors, adjusting the thermostat, turning on lights. One day, I was surprised to find a quiet group of sixth-graders sitting in a classroom; I heard no words — they were all communicating by texting on their cell-phones. Usually children’s voices can be heard long before I open a door, but not this time — a real sign of the times. We all know that communication today is different from what it was and what it will be. I miss the loud chatter that I used to shush — it’s funny that what was once annoying has now become a “want.” Has texting replaced speaking? This quiet room reminded me of a library, and had the children been reading I would have been gleeful — a group of sixth-graders reading books together: Wow! The quiet of the library has always filled me with a sense of wonder. It opens my mind to what I am reading and allows me to become part of the story unfolding in my hands and head. Holding a book for me is like the verse from Psalm 128:2 “If you eat the fruit of your hands, you are happy.” Reading a book is like consuming a piece of fruit that I have grown, nourished by the connection to the story, the ownership of the tale. I become part of the narrative. I truly hope that the feel of a good book is never replaced by the ubiquitous electronics of our time. There is something holy in the smell and texture of the pages of a volume. Obviously we all know about the Jewish love affair with books — we have more than earned our title “The people of the book.” That relationship with the written word has long been celebrated in November, Jewish Book Month. To mark the occasion, the education cabinet will host the Jewish book fair Wednesday-Sunday, Nov. 12-16. The fair will offer for purchase an array of Jewish works and a special selection of books for preschoolers. Thank you to book fair chair Bonnie Rosenfeld, Lori FuchsMeyers, Joan Bronspiegel Dickman, the Special dates Sunday, Nov. 2: Israel Walkathon, 9 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 6: ECC closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention and staff development (including Extended Day) Friday, Nov. 7: ECC closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention and staff development (not including Extended Day) Sunday, Nov. 9: Religious School closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention Friday, Nov. 14: Shabbat in PJs Wednesday, Nov. 26: ECC threes & fours — early dismissal for Thanksgiving, noon; ECC Extended Day, 4 p.m. Thursday-Sunday Nov. 26-30: Religious School and ECC closed for Thanksgiving PAGE 8 OF Jewish Book Fair Wednesday-Thursday, Nov. 12-13 9 a.m.-1 p.m., 4-8 p.m. Friday, Nov. 14 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 16 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Early Childhood Center board, Education Cabinet, and all the volunteers for making the book fair a celebration of “every age and stage.” Texting might be challenging our communication skills, but in my opinion nothing will replace holding a book in hand and the inspiration it brings. B’Shalom, Susan Werk Educational Director Navigating Social Media With Your Kids Wednesday, Nov. 12, 7:45 p.m. Howard Weinrib, head of technology at Montclair Public Schools/Glenfield Middle School, and an expert on guiding parents on responsible social media usage, will discuss: • The dangers of irresponsible social media use • Monitoring a child's social media behaviors without being a nag • Speaking to children about proper social media usage in a way they can appreciate You are encouraged to bring your laptops and other portable devices to this interactive program. Howard will guide participants through the settings and controls of the most popular social media sites. WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 Torah Pillar: Every Age and Every Stage of Jewish Learning Programs for all Agudath Israel day school and religious school students and adults Early Childhood Center Teens (Ninth-Twelfth Grade) Sunday, Nov. 2: Israel Walkathon, 9 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 6: ECC closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention and staff development (including Extended Day) Friday, Nov. 7: ECC closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention and staff development (not including Extended Day) Wednesday, Nov. 12: Extended Day Family Dinner, 5:30 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 13: ECC threes and fours, early dismissal (excluding Extended Day), parent-teacher conferences, 12:30 p.m. Friday, Nov. 14: Shabbat in Pajamas, 5:30 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 16: Al Galgalim, 10 a.m. Wednesday, Nov. 26: ECC threes and fours, early dismissal for Thanksgiving, noon Wednesday, Nov. 26: ECC Extended Day, early dismissal for Thanksgiving, 4 p.m. Thursday-Sunday, Nov. 27-30: RS & ECC closed, Thanksgiving Wednesdays are Teen Nights at Agudath Israel: Pizza & Shmooze, TAC, Current Issues, Israel, Art, etc. Sunday, Nov. 2: Israel Walkathon, 9 a.m. Wednesday, Nov. 5: Teen Programs, 6 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 9: RS closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention Wednesday, Nov. 12: Teen Programs, 6 p.m. Wednesday, Nov. 19: Teen Programs, 6 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 25: Trip to Community Food Bank, 4 p.m. (off premises) Wednesday-Sunday, Nov. 26-30: Religious School closed for Thanksgiving Wednesday, Nov. 26: USY/Kadima – Roller Skating, 6 p.m. Adults Saturday, Nov. 1: Shabbat Mediation and guest speaker Rabbi David Ebstein Primary (Kindergarten-Second Grade) Saturday, Nov. 1: Israel Café, 8:30 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 2: Chaverim/Israel Walkathon program, 9 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 6, 13 & 20: Melton, 9:30 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 2: K-6 play rehearsal Thursday, Nov. 6, 20 : “Age Is Just a Number” Sunday, Nov. 9: RS closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention with congregational nurse Karen Frank Friday, Nov. 14: Shabbat in Sweats, 5:30 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 8, an Expression of Gratitude Sunday, Nov. 16: K-6 play rehearsal to Father Anthony Randazzo, 11:15 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 23: Kindergarten Buddies, 1st Grade Fans, Wednesday, Nov. 12 : Navigating Social Media, 7:45 p.m. 2nd Grade Stars, 9:30 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 13: Melton, 9:30 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 23: K-6 play rehearsal Saturday, Nov. 15, Learners’ minyan, 10:30 a.m. Wednesday-Sunday, Nov. 26-30: RS & ECC closed, Thanksgiving Sunday, Nov. 16: Author Ruchama King Feuerman, In the Courtyard of the Kabbalist, 10 a.m. Elementary School (Third-Fifth Grade) Monday, Nov. 17: Trip to Helena RubinSaturday, Nov. 1: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. stein Exhibit, Jewish Museum, 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 1: 3rd & 4th grade Havdalah program, 6 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 18: Guest speaker Prof Sunday, Nov. 2: Israel Walkathon, 9 a.m. Kugel, “What Hath Modern Biblical Sunday, Nov. 2: K-6 play rehearsal Scholarship Wrought? Biblical InterSunday, Nov. 9: RS closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention pretation in Ancient and Modern Saturday, Nov. 15: Chalutzim Circus Workshop, 6:30 p.m. Times, 7:45 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 15: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. Wednesday, Nov. 19: Erlichman Movie Saturday, Nov. 22: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. Series: Disobedience: The Sousa Saturday, Nov. 22: Family Shabbat Service 11 a.m. Mendes Story Sunday, Nov. 9: RS closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention Thursday, Nov. 20: Melton, 9:30 a.m. Wednesday-Sunday, Nov. 26-30: RS & ECC closed, Thanksgiving Thursday, Nov. 20: Rosh Hodesh Women’s Group at the home Middle School (Sixth-Eighth Grade) of Sheri Horowitz-Jay, 7:45 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 23: Melton Foundation, 9:30 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 1: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 2: Israel Walkathon, 9 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 9: RS closed for NJ Teachers’ Convention Turkey Collection for Annual Wednesday, Nov. 12: Kadima Israel Trivia, 7 p.m. Community Foodbank trip Saturday, Nov. 15: Kadima Brunch, 10:30 a.m. Bring frozen turkeys, kosher or nonkosher, douSaturday, Nov. 15: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. ble wrapped, by 3:30 p.m. on Tuesday, Nov. Sunday, Nov. 16: Spark, 10:30 a.m. (off premises) Saturday, Nov. 22: Torah Chug, 10:15 a.m. 25. Remember: The synagogue will not Sunday, Nov. 23: Spark, 10:30 a.m. (off premises) store the turkeys in the freezer; they will Wednesday-Sunday, Nov. 26-30: RS & ECC closed, Thanksgiving be delivered that day. Other food donaWednesday, Nov. 26: USY/Kadima roller-skating, 6 p.m. tions are also welcome. PAGE 9 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Age Is Just a Number Come and learn with our synagogue nurse Karen Frank how to make this time of life your most vital yet. A D U LT E D U C AT I O N Instructor: Karen Frank, RN, Congregational Nurse Times: Thursdays, 7:00 – 8:30 pm Dates: November 6, November 20, December 4, December 18 Location: Toby Shapiro Adult Conference Center Navigating Social Media With Your Kids Wednesday, November 12, 7:45 pm Learn how to be a conscientious parent as your kids get introduced to social media. Howard Weinrib, Head of Technology at Montclair Public Schools/Glenfield Middle School, and an expert on guiding parents on responsible social media usage, will discuss: • Some recent stories regarding the dangers of irresponsible social media use • How to monitor your child’s social media behaviors without being a nag • How to speak to your child about proper social media usage in a way kids can appreciate We encourage you to bring your laptops and other portable devices for this interactive program. Howard will guide us through the settings and controls of the most popular social media sites so you can activate them in real time. What Hath Modern Biblical Scholarship Wrought? Biblical Interpretation in Ancient and Modern Times Co-sponsored by Haddasah and the CAI Programming Cabinet Instructor: Professor James Kugel - November 18, 7:45 pm Professor James Kugel of Harvard and Bar Ilan Universities will be lecturing at Congregation Agudath Israel. Professor Kugel is one of the foremost authorities on how the Bible was interpreted in Second Temple times. He is the author of many books, including How to Read the Bible, In Potiphar’s House, and Walking Through Jubilees (perhaps the foremost analysis of the Second Temple book of Jubilees.) He is one of the co-editors, with Professors Louis Feldman and Lawrence Schiffman, of the highly acclaimed, recent compendium of Second Temple literature, Outside the Bible. Professor Kugel, an Orthodox Jew, manages to walk the tightrope between tradition and open minded scholarship with remarkable adeptness. Come here him speak. It may change your view of what the Bible really means. Helena Rubinstein Exhibit, Jewish Museum, 1109 5th Ave, New York, NY 10128 Monday, November 17, 11:00 am; Cost: $17 per person, Group Size: Max. 20 people Meeting location: Main lobby of the Jewish Museum at 1109 5th Avenue, NYC Helena Rubinstein: Beauty Is Power is the first museum exhibition to focus on the cosmetics entrepreneur Helena Rubinstein (1872 – 1965). Rubinstein – as businesswoman and arts patron – helped break down the status quo of taste by blurring the boundaries between commerce, art, fashion, beauty, and design. Her innovative business and style challenged conservative taste and helped usher in a modern notion of beauty, democratized and accessible to all. Beauty Is Power will reunite much of Rubinstein’s famed collection, including modern artworks by Pablo Picasso, Henri Matisse, Elie Nadelman, and Joan Miró, among others, as well as her iconic collection of African art, miniature period rooms, jewelry, and fashion. Please RSVP to Lori Fuchs-Meyers at [email protected] and send payment into the CAI main office by November 2. Make checks payable to CAI. Reservations will only be held if accompanied by payment. PAGE 10 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 A D U LT E D U C AT I O N TAKE A LOOK AT THE NOVEMBER Adult Education Programs! Michael and Barbara Erlichman Film Series November 19, 2014 Movie: DISOBEDIENCE - THE SOUSA MENDES STORY Time: 7:30 pm coffee - 7:45 pm movie start time Place: CAI Lounge June 1940 - a refugee crisis of historic proportions. Paris is occupied. Millions of refugees fleeing the advancing Nazi troops rush to Bordeaux in the South of France. A veritable sea of humanity comes seeking passage to England, Spain, Portugal, and, by these routes, to America. This film represents the amazing story of one man’s courage, fortitude, and sense of justice. Should he disobey orders he receives from his superiors in order to save at least 30,000 people, whereby his signature and a visa would enable many to reach freedo?. Thus, Mendes’ story is not to be missed or forgotten. This remarkable true story has been described by historians as,”the largest rescue action by a single individual during the Holocaust.” Wednesday, November 12 - Sunday, November 16 Jewish Book Fair Author Talk in Conjunction with CAI book fair Sunday, November 16, 10:00 am Ruchama King Feuerman, author of In the Courtyard of the Kabbalist, CAI’s Lunch & Learn book group selection Named one of the Best Novels in 2013 in The Wall Street Journal. An eczema-riddled Lower East Side haberdasher, Isaac Markowitz, moves to Israel to repair his broken heart and becomes much to his own surprise, the assistant to a famous old rabbi who daily dispenses wisdom (and soup) to the troubled souls who wash up in his courtyard. It is there that he meets the flame-haired Tamar, a newly religious young American hipster on a mission to live a spiritual life with a spiritual man. Into both of their lives comes Mustafa, a devout Muslim, deformed at birth, a janitor who works on the Temple Mount, holy to both Muslims and Jews. When Mustafa finds an ancient shard of pottery that may date back to the first temple, he brings it to Isaac in friendship. That gesture sets in motion a series of events that lands Isaac in the company of Israel’s worst criminal riff raff, puts Mustafa in mortal danger, and leaves Tamar struggling to save them both. As these characters—immigrants and natives, Muslim and Jewish, prophets and lost souls—move through their world, they are never sure if they will fall prey to the cruel tricks of luck or be sheltered by a higher power. Rosh Hodesh Women’s Group Kislev/Tevet Thursday, November 20, 7:45 pm Host: Sheri Horowitz-Jay Join in the beautiful custom of Jewish women ushering in the Hebrew month with prayer and study. No prior knowledge of Hebrew or Torah needed, just the desire to learn and share with your fellow congregants. PAGE 11 M A R I S A’ S M E S S A G E CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Marisa Bergman Religious School Principal “Who is rich? Those who rejoice in their own portion” -Pirke Avot 4:1. I always feel a sense of being “rich” during this season. As this time of year approaches, I find that the mood around me is excited, cheerful, helpful, and giving. I get a sense from people that they are more focused on giving of their time to their friends, families and those in need rather than to their cell phones, televisions (except for football), and work. We take time during the Thanksgiving season to be with our family and express thanks for all we have. The deep feeling of community surrounds us as well. During this time of year we have so many wonderful family experiences in the Religious School that truly help to ignite the feeling of this season. We start off the month as an entire community at the Israel Walk-A-Thon on November 2! We always look forward to the week-long book fair from November 12-16. Chalutzim is having its first Havdalah Circus workshop on November 15 at 7 pm For more information contact Shari Bricker at [email protected]. The 6th graders will be doing an art workshop to make their own Yad on November 16th. We hope all of you will join us on Saturday, November 22nd for a Shabbat game morning! Our wonderful fourth graders will be having their annual Family Museum on Sunday, November 23. We conclude this month of joy and happiness with doing a mitzvah! We will be making a trip to the Community Food Bank on November 25, which is open to all 6th-12th graders and their parents from 4-7 pm I hope everyone takes a minute to breathe in the beautiful fall air and be grateful for those riches in our lives! Did you utilize our free transportation for the High Holidays? Did you find it helpful? These questions and more coming soon to your email inbox! We want to know your thoughts… PAGE 12 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 Friday, November 21, 2014 On March 7, 2014 CAI launched “Guess Who’s Coming to Shabbas?,” a nationwide community-building program. CAI members invited other CAI members into their homes resulting in over 100 families sharing Shabbat dinner together. A wonderful evening was had by all! Our goal is to get to know one another beyond synagogue walls and sharing Shabbat is a wonderful way to build and deepen our CAI relationships. It’s time for our next “Guess Who’s Coming to Shabbas?” dinner on Friday, November 21, 2014. • If you were a guest last time, pay it forward and consider hosting this time. • If you hosted last time, host again! • If you weren’t able to participate last time, host this time or talk to friends and encourage them to host and invite you as their guest! If you host, you can invite your CAI friends or invite members of the CAI community who perhaps you don’t know so well, but want to get to know better. Better yet - mix your new friends with your old friends and make new connections! The nature of the program is that hosts will identify their own guests, but if you would like some suggestions please let us know. If you are interested in hosting contact Debbie Lurie at [email protected] or Debbie Rosen at [email protected] and let us know who you are having as guests. If you have any questions about the program please do not hesitate to reach out. Visit this link to read about the program in the United Synagogue’s CJ magazine: www.cjvoices.org/article/guess-whos-coming-to-shabbas/ PAGE 13 C O N G R E G AT I O N A L N U R S E CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Karen Frank Shabbat Meditation or Yoga Shabbat Meditation or Shal-Om Yoga – Begin Shabbat in stillness. Shabbat is the time for quieting, stepping back from the hectic workday world, and entering a time of peacefulness and communion with nature and spirit. Begin your Shabbat with meditation on four Saturday mornings this year. You will feel a sense of peace, tranquility, and awareness that will enhance your Shabbat experience. Instructor: Karen Frank, RN, Congregational Nurse Time: Saturdays, 9:30 am Dates: November 1, December 6, January 10, February 7, March 7, April 11, May 2, June 6 Location: Toby Shapiro Adult Conference Center Israel Café Celebrates Israel Walkathon’s 13th Birthday Come celebrate the Israel Walkathon’s “Bar Mitzvah” birthday at the Israel Café on Saturday night, November 1, 2014, at 8:00 pm, with food and wine, Israeli music, sing-along, and Israeli dancing. Admission is $13 per person; $18 per family. The next day, register for the Israel Walkathon on Sunday, November 2, 2014, at 10:00 am. Scholar-In-Residence Rabbi David Epstein will serve as Walkathon Grand Marshall. The Israel Committee welcomes new members. For more information contact Lee Gladstein, (973) 227-3235 [email protected], or Harvey Hershkowitz (973) 334-1872 [email protected]. PAGE 14 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG CAI SOCIAL WORKER On a Different Path Recently on Facebook I came across an article that was in the Washington Post, titled, “About the mom who is not bragging about her Missy Jacobs kid.” This article caught my attention. The woman writes about the kvelling that parents do when talking about their children’s accomplishments. When children are little, parents often kvell about things such as athletic achievements, acting and dance performances, reading from the Torah, etc…Things we all can relate to because when the kids are little almost everything they do warrants a kvell. The author writes that as the kids get older the kvelling gets trickier. This is especially true for the parents of children who may take a less traditional path. The author states, “What happens to kvelling if your kid is on his or her own very different path?” For many families this path may lead them into a world where they feel very alone and isolated from their friends and or their community. Their child may not be on the traditional path for a variety of reasons. NOVEMBER 2014 Mental health struggles, alcoholism and drug addiction, learning disabilities, financial distress’- these are just some of the issues families in our community face, which may lead them down a different path. The article spoke to me because in my time here at Agudath I have met several families who have an adult child who has taken this different path. I have heard about their struggles to find the help and resources they need to help their adult child. Often times the best source of information is from other people who are experiencing a similar situation. And that is exactly what the author of the article I reference above decided to do. She started her own support group at her synagogue in Washington D.C. She calls the group, Parents of Young Adults Who Struggle. The group even has its own Facebook page. What I love is that within this support group there is still kvelling albeit a different kind of kvelling. If this article speaks to you in the way it did to me I would love to know. My office hours are Mondays/Wednesday s9:30 am - 2:30 pm and I’m always available by email at [email protected] or 973-226-3600 x143. Warmly, Missy Jacobs, LCSW NEW!!!! Sibling Support Group Siblings of children with special needs have many feelings, which they may struggle to understand and express. Our group will provide these siblings with the opportunity to address their feelings in a fun and supportive environment. They will have the opportunity to meet other children in similar situations. The group will meet at the JCC MetroWest for five Sunday afternoons during the year. For more information please contact Rebecca Wanatick at 973-929-3129. This group is for children 9-12 years old who have a sibling with a disability. Sunday, November 23 Special Needs Resource Fair and Nourishing the Soul Symposium 12:30-4:00 pm, JCC MetroWest, West Orange • Browse Community Resources and Programs • Connect with Professionals and Parents • Workshops to Nourish Your Soul Childcare and youth programming available with RSVP. For more information, please contact: Rebecca Wanatick, Community Inclusion Coordinator, MetroWest ABLE, (973) 929-3129, [email protected] PAGE 15 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX ISRAEL COMMITTEE This year, due to the war in Israel, the proceeds of the Walk for Israel will focus on the communities in the south that have been hit the hardest. Come Celebrate Our “Bar Mitzvah” Year SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 2th, 2014 - REGISTRATION 10:00 am WALK 10:30 am - 12:00 pm “KIDDUSH” FOLLOWING WALK STARTS AND ENDS AT CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL KIDS’ WALK (short distance) - 11:00 am - Kids’ supervised activities - available only for parents who participate in the Walk - 10:30 am – 12:00 pm, by reservation only, contact [email protected]. Reservation deadline Monday, October 27, 2014. Name___________________Address________________________Phone____________________ E-mail_________________________________________________________________ ALL CHECKS PAYABLE TO: CAI–ISRAEL FUND. REGISRATION FEES: $18. All donations tax-deductible. I will not participate, but here is my donation: $________________ SPONSOR’S NAME Sponsorship is per person, not per mile 1) ADDRESS, CITY, STATE, & ZIP PHONE AMOUNT 2) 3) 4) 5) 6) 7) 8) 9) 10) A registration fee of $18 includes the Walk T-shirt. For more than 10 names, please copy this table. TOTAL $___________ WALKERS SHOULD BRING THIS SHEET WITH ALL MONEY COLLECTED TO THE WALK. WAIVER: In consideration of CAI permitting me to participate in the Walk, on behalf of myself, my parents, my heirs, executors, administrators and assigns, I/ we hereby waive and release any and all rights and claims for damage which I/ we may incur against the CAI, as well as any other person connected with the event, their heirs, executors, administrators, successors and assigns for any and all injuries which I may suffer while taking part in the event or as a result thereof. DATE:_______PARENT’S SIGNATURE:_____________________________ or PARTICIPANT’S SIGNATURE:________________________ (if under 18 years of age) (if over 18 years of age) FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: Lee Gladstein, (973) 227-3235, [email protected] or Harvey Hershkowitz, (973) 334-1872, [email protected] (rev 7/31/2014) PAGE 16 SOCIAL ACTION COMMITTEE WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 Social Action Alert Thanksgiving Turkey Donation Drive Please share your Thanksgiving with the less fortunate. Bring a frozen turkey to CAI on Sunday morning, November 23, between the hours of 10:00 am - 12:00 pm for collection by the Social Action Committee. This is the only time that volunteers will be at the synagogue, and we are not equipped to receive and store the turkeys if you do not come during this window. CARING COMMITTEE The turkeys will be delivered to the Montclair Food Pantry, which distributes food to those in need throughout the community. Many local supermarkets offer free turkeys based on the amount of your own food purchase. Do not miss this opportunity to show your thanks by feeding the hungry. Many thanks and best wishes for a happy Thanksgiving Day, from the Social Action Committee. TORAH FUND The CAI Caring Committee is a volunteer group that provides assistance to congregants in need. Some of the services that we offer are: transportation to and from medical appointments and the synagogue, running errands and helping with chores, providing meals, visiting the sick or home bound and mobilizing family and friends during a crisis. Carol Berman, [email protected], and Beth Sackman, [email protected], are the co-chairs of this committee, and they are always looking for volunteers. Now is your opportunity to become a member of the CAI Caring Committee and make a difference! [email protected]. Torah Fund, through its annual campaign supports the Jewish education of future professional and lay leaders for the Conservative movement at The Jewish Theological Seminary, The Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies, and The Schechter Institute. Many women proudly wear the Torah Fund pins, which indicate their donation to this worthy cause. Torah Fund also sells cards for many life-cycle occasions and distributes a calendar diary with secular and Jewish dates on the same page. For further information about Torah Fund, please contact Sisterhood President Shari Bricker, [email protected], or Torah Fund Chair, Sharon Hammerman, [email protected]. PAGE 17 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX S E N I O R A D U LT L O U N G E November 2014 SENIOR ADULT LOUNGE Arielle Kay Please join us at the Adult Senior Lounge for exercise, social, cultural, and educational experiences with a wonderfully welcoming group of individuals. The group usually meets twice a week; Mondays and Thursdays from 11:45 am – 2:00 pm for exercise led by Tami Rager and Melissa Schaffer, followed by lunch and programing. We also take trips, which are sometimes scheduled on different days of the week. Our main goal is to keep you healthy, happy and actively involved. We try to include a variety of programs to expose our members to a multitude of experiences throughout the year. Note that our Congregational Nurse, Karen Frank will set aside time to meet with you individually each month at noon, on scheduled days. If you should need her services for yourself or a loved one, please speak to Arielle or Karen. You can leave a message at the synagogue at 226-3600 ext. 119 for Arielle, or ext. 141 for Karen. Our November programs include: Monday, November 3rd Trip to JCC Metrowest Rose Rosen Concert “A Broadway Review” 1:00 pm - $6 member/$12 guest RSVP to Arielle Monday, November 6th Yiddish Bingo Monday, November 10th Sol Moglin will speak to the group in observance of Veteran’s Day Thursday, November 13th Hirshhorn Lecture – Sheryl Urman “Impressionism” Monday, November 17th Debbie Shapiro will lead a current events discussion Thursday, November 20th Rishon, Yuval, from the Federation will be speaking to the group about her life growing up in Israel Monday, November 24th Susan Werk will lead a discussion NO MEETING ON THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 27TH IN OBSERVANCE OF THANKSGIVING! PAGE 18 C A L D W E L L H A DA S S A H WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 JOIN CALDWELL HADASSAH AS WE PRESENT THE LOOSE CANONS DECEMBER 6, 7:00 pm AT CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL How do you describe the indescribable? Zany, humorous, eclectic and always entertaining. Our name, The Loose Canons, says it all! Our repertoire includes funny, satirical, semi-political, do-wop, original parodies and socially (ir)responsible songs. An evening of pure musical fun!! Including Congregation Agudath Israel’s Ben Asher, Ben Alter and Randi and Murray Spiegel DELICIOUS DESSERTS FOLLOWING PERFORMANCE $36/PERSON COUVERT SUPPORT HADASSAH AND CONSIDER DONATING AN ADDITIONAL AMOUNT Our emergency and trauma teams are second to none, but we need to allow their surgeons to work in the new operating rooms that have been built in the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Hospital Tower. We need to complete these state of the art facilities. They are located underground, in an area protected from conventional, biological, and chemical weapons. We need your help today. RSVP BY NOVEMBER 21, 2014 to Edna Alberts 9 McNeile Drive, Parsippany, NJ 07054 CHECKS PAYABLE TO HADASSAH For more information, please contact Gail Black at [email protected] Saturday, November 8, 11:15 am An Expression of Gratitude to Father Anthony Randazzo for 16 years of friendship and spiritual partnership. Sponsored by the CAI Inter-Religious Activities Committee PAGE 19 T R I B U T E S A N D D O N AT I O N S CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Through September 29. We gratefully acknowledge all who generously support Congregation Agudath Israel’s many programs by remembering and honoring friends and loved ones. Donations can be made on our website, www.agudath.org, or by sending a check to the synagogue office. Please call or email Allison Robinson, Member Services Assistant, at 973 226 3600 x110 or [email protected], if you have any questions. In memory of Maxine Levitt’s father, Marcus In memory of David Schiefelbein’s mother, Memorial Plaques Strauss Zella Schiefelbein IN MEMORY OF: • Marianne and Larry Shulman • Mandi and Brett Perlmutter In memory of Marty Masser • Their uncle, Leslie Novick, from the • Susan and Richard Blender In honor of the marriage of Jeffrey Feinstein Pollack family and Alexandra Juster • His father, Morris Abraham Goldberg, In honor of the birth of Deena Hollander’s first • Lana and Bob Schachtel from Charles Goldberg great grandson • Esther and Harry Kartus The George & Molly Kaplan Caring Fund The Barry Rozman Technology Fund In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and In honor of the birth of Leslie Eihner’s Gabrielle and Danielle Wolberger’s mother, grandson • Esther and Harry Kartus Jill Shulman Wolberger • Marjorie Rozman In honor of the marriage of Larry Weiss’ son, Ben, to Krystalia In memory of Rebecca and Ted • Betty Gochman Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Marjorie Rozman In honor of the birth of Marsha and Burt In honor of the marriage of Jeffrey Feinstein Henry’s grandson, Ronen • Betty Gochman and Alexandra Juster • Marjie Rozman and Family Packets of Tribute Cards In honor of Nanette Rosenberg’s beautiful • Stephen and Andrea Granet celebration The Cantor’s Discretionary Fund • Aliza Rozman and Tom Nigra In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and In honor of Dollsey Rappaport’s 90th Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl birthday • Margie, Aliza, Avi, Tom, and Dani Rozman • Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman The CAI - Susan Werk’s Special Fund In honor of Ross’ Bar Mitzvah • Jodi and Larry Fundler In honor of helping the Lustbader boys refresh In honor of Ross Mehl’s Bar Mitzvah mezuzahs at the house • Arlene and Mel Berkowitz • Melissa and Jared Lustbader The CAI Trubute Fund In memory of Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Marcy and Marshall Pollack • Renee Weinstein • Elaine and Arnie Litt In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl • Harvey and Jeanette Hershkowitz In honor of Jonathan, Ross, and Corey Mehl blowing Shofar for the New Year • Sam Prince and Family The David Taubenfeld Ramah Scholarship Fund In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl • Marvin and Anne Elmowitz The ECC Educational Enhancement Fund In memory of Irene Berger’s mother, Sylvia Fine • Marc and Jamie Falkin • Phyllis and Barry Bochner • Kathy and David Simon • Art and Bev Cohen In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle Wolberger’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • Anthony and Maria Rossi • Marianne and Larry Shulman • Marian Rothenberg • Phyllis and Barry Bochner • Esther, Harry, and Shai Kartus In memory of Rosa Joseph’s mother, Anna Horowitz • Elaine and Arnie Litt • Current Lifestyle Marketing and Weber Shandwick • Michael and Susan Goldman PAGE 20 The Generation to Generation Fund In memory of Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Carol and Manny Morman In memory of Rosa Joseph’s mother, Anne Horowitz • Sue and Jack Rosenkranz In memory of Arlene Swern’s father, Solomon Borodkin • Esther and Steve Kamenetsky In memory of Mark Berkley’s father • Naomi and Gerry Eisenberger In memory of Jonathan Kessler’s father, Melvyn Kessler • Randi and Oron Brokman In memory of Allan Gitlow’s father and Jessica Jacobs’ grandfather, Abraham Gitlow • Randi and Oron Brokman In memory of Maxine Levitt’s father, Marcus Strauss • Randi and Oron Brokman In memory of Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Arlene and Mel Berkowitz In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl • Howard and Nancy Levine • Arlene and Mel Berkowitz In memory of Irene Berger’s mother, Sylvia Fine • Arlene and Mel Berkowitz In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle Wolberger’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • Arlene and Mel Berkowitz • Marc Rudoltz and Lisa Hochman • Karen and Ted Eisenberg The Gerald Edelman Memorial Education Fund In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • The Nydick Family In honor of Stuart Rabner on his new endeavor • Esta Edelman The Israel Committee In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • The Irwin Family The Jeremy Savitz Music Education Fund In honor of Jeffrey Feinstein’s marriage • Sandy and Michael Podell WWW.AGUDATH.ORG In memory of Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Art, Felice, Jonathan, and Amanda Nichols In memory of Joyce Schnaufer’s mother, Emily Schnaufer • Art, Felice, Jonathan, and Amanda Nichols In memory of Art Nichols’ father, Arthur • Felice and Art Nichols The Jerry Sepinwall Jewish Environmental Fund In memory of Art Nichols’ brother, Richard • Felice and Art Nichols The Kiddush Co-Sponsors In honor of the Aufruf of Adam Davidson and Lindsey Raskin • Alan and Selena Davidson In honor of Ross’ Bar Mitzvah • Jodi and Lawrence Fundler In honor of the Gerbergs • Nat and Bea Taubenfeld In honor of their daughter Noa’s naming • Dorie and Seth Eisenstein The Kiddush Contributors In memory of Ira’s mother, Marion Cohen • Ira and Greta Cohen In memory of Helen Cytryn • Arthur Cytryn and Renee Kaufman In memory of Herb’s father, Arnold Wolf • Herb and Maxine Wolf In memory of Bernard’s mother, Jean Reiter • Bernard and Thelma Reiter In memory of Magda Greene • Bernard Greene In honor of their granddaughter Noa’s naming • Eric and Steffanie Edelstein In honor of manager and pitcher Alan Gerberg • The CAI Softball Team In honor of Alan and Diane Gerberg • Stuart and Debbie Rabner In honor of Natalie Debotton’s 85th birthday • Sandy, Debbie, Linda, and Leonard, the children of Natalie Debotton In honor of Zachary’s Bar Mitzvah • The Haase Family In honor of Kelly Lustig’s 75th birthday on Rosh Hashanah • Jerry, Jodi, and Steven Lustig and their families The Kiddush Fund In memory of Leon Kanter • Randy Kanter and his sister, Pamela In memory of her mother, Tillie Kamy • Roberta Diamond In memory of Ruth Jonas • Erica and Daniel Lotto In honor of the birth of Marsha and Burt Henry’s grandson, Ronen Jack Altabet • Kelly and Jerry Lustig NOVEMBER 2014 In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl • Phyllis and Barry Bochner In honor of Dana Ben-Avi’s new apartment • Kelly and Jerry Lustig In honor of the marriage of Hinda Eisen and Bob Labovitz • Kelly and Jerry Lustig In honor of the marriage of Simona Caplan and Abbaleh Savitt • Kelly and Jerry Lustig The Martha and Sol Rogoff Children’s Activity Fund In memory of David Schiefelbein’s mother, Zella Schiefelbein • Karen and Ken Rosen The Norman and Julia Ripps Scholarship Fund for Summer Youth Programs In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle Wolberger’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • Amiee Idan The Perl Family Israel Experience Fund In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother, Massie Mehl • Irene Blumberg and Family In honor of David Lipsey’s wedding • Sandy and Michael Podell The Prayer Book Fund In memory of Dena Lee Fliegel Bocian • Arthur Bocian The Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund In memory of Moshe Wolberger’s wife and Danielle and Gabrielle Wolberger’s mother, Jill Shulman Wolberger • Elayne and Marvin Kohl TRIBUTE CARDS $10 Minimum Donation Custom-printed tribute cards can be sent out from our office. Donations can be in any denomination that exceeds our $10 minimum. We also offer the option of purchasing a packet of 5 cards for $40, which you can send out yourself. Allison Robinson, Member Services Assistant in our office, can assist you with your options. Please contact her at: [email protected]; 973-226-3600 Ext. 110; 973-226-7480 (Fax) In honor of Ross Mehl’s Bar Mitzvah • Jeffrey Greif In honor of Ross’ Bar Mitzvah • Jodi and Larry Fundler The Reiser Children’s Choir Fund In memory of Froman Mehl’s brother and Jonathan Mehl’s uncle, Massie Mehl • Renee and Joel Reiser The Toby Shapiro Library Fund In memory of Rebecca and Ted Zimmerman’s son, Neil Zimmerman • Roy Shapiro, and Gayle and Larry Wieseneck PAGE 21 YA H R Z E I T D O N AT I O N S CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • PAGE 22 As of September 29, 2014 Sadie Adler from Arthur Adler Gertrude Bergman from Marilyn Perelman Jeanne K. Feinman from Sally Garson Dena Lee Fliegel Bocian from Arthur Bocian Gerald L. Billig from Joan Billig Ida Bornstein from Ira and Rosanne Bornstein Zahava Burack from Deborah and Stuart Rabner Carl Caplan from Cantor Joel Caplan Iylene Caplan from Cantor Joel Caplan Rose Marie Caplan from Cantor Joel Caplan Victor Chalfin from Marjorie and Norman Feinstein Morris Cohen from Robin Goldman Leonard Cohn from Cantor Joel Caplan Murray Davidson from Beth and Stuart Sackman Reba Fisher from Hy Fisher Edward Franklin from Helga Franklin Frances Franklin from Helga Franklin Saul Franklin from Helga Franklin Bernard Fritz from Rosanne and Ira Bornstein Beth G. Geddes from Leonard Rudin Alexander Glickman from Marvin Glickman Clara Goldberg from Terry and Hyman Izraeli Leah Golden from Bert Golden Charlotte Gottesman from Sandra Glassman Magda Greene from Bernard Greene Philip Gurian from David Gurian Laura Hecht from Eugene and Beverly Hecht Brana Hoffman from Malvin Wasserman Lillian Hoffman from Marcia and David Danoff Alvin Holland from Gail Black Mickey Holland from Gail Black Susan Holland from Gail Black Minnie Horowitz from Jamie and Gerald Horowitz Joseph Mendel Izraeli from Hyman and Terry Izraeli Emanuel Kaplan from Marc, Ellen, and Wendi Kaplan Molly Kaplan from Barbara K. Sebiri Abraham Kaufer from Helga Franklin Burnett Kaufer from Helga Franklin Gussie Kaufer from Helga Franklin Leonard Kaufer from Helga Franklin Anna Kessler from Elaine Bornstein Phyllis Koock from Nina and Arnold Wasserman Linda Krasner from Randy Krasner • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Murray Krell from Bert Golden Rachel Krell from Bert Golden Rosalyn Lenhoff from Etta Froman Mehl Fanny Levine from Sandra Glassman Sidney Levitt from Sylvia Bloom Audrey Lourie from Gwen Lourie Chattman Shirley Mankin from Arthur Mankin Ethel Maxson from Roslyn Goldstein Jack Maxson from Roslyn Goldstein Samuel Mushel from Ethel Mushel Louis Nathanson from Marsha Messer Bea Ordower from Helga Franklin George Rabner from Stuart and Deborah Rabner Ann Remland from Keith Remland Florence Robbins from Helga Franklin Dr. Elliot Rosenberg from Jeffrey Rosenberg Paul Rosenman from Arnold and Nina Wasserman Harry Rosman from Richard and Susan Blender Renata Rowicka from Jeffrey Rosenberg Joseph Rubin from Lila Rubin Louis Rubinstein from Mitchell Rubinstein Jonathan Eric Rudin from Leonard Rudin Francis Sachs from Jamie and Gerald Horowitz Evelyn Saffer from Lisa Baranker Milton Sage from Cindy Braverman Mona Sherman from Al Sherman Rebecca Shulman from Ethel Mushel Benjamin Sideman from Cantor Joel Caplan Irene T. Sideman from Cantor Joel Caplan Ruth Stein from Jill Stein Pauline Sternbach from Helaine Mund Dave Stiglitz from Sheila Nathanson Sophie Stiglitz from Sheila Nathanson David Taubenfeld from Nat and Bea Taubenfeld Sabina Taubenfeld from Nat and Bea Taubenfeld Sabina Taubenfeld from Isaac Taubenfeld Joseph Udine from Edgar Udine Rae Weinberger from Donald Weinberger William Weiner from Bea and Nat Taubenfeld Minnie Westrich from Helga Franklin Frances Willsky from Helga Franlin Beverly Yanoff from Stefi Kirschner Philip David Zimmerman from Theodore Zimmerman Fanny Zolot from May Schwitzer Jacob Zolot from May Schwitzer WWW.AGUDATH.ORG PERSONALS Through September 29, 2014 • • • • • • • NOVEMBER 2014 MAZEL TOV TO: Marcy and Marshall Pollack on the birth of their granddaughter, Emma Rose Lawrence and Melissa Elbaum on the birth of their son, Isaac Theodore Steven and Judy Elbaum on the birth of their grandson, Isaac Theodore Deena Hollander on the birth of her first great grandson Claire Akselrad on the birth of her granddaughter, Mirele Adlai Bea Zierler Aviva Zierler and her husband, David Zierler, on the birth of their daughter, Mirele Adlai Bea Zierler Rebecca, Benjamin, and Gila Akselrad, on the birth of their niece, Mirele Adlai Bea Zierler SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILIES OF: • Jill Shulman Wolberger, wife of Moshe Wolberger and mother of Danielle and Gabrielle Wolberger • Alan Fitter • Anna Horowitz, mother of Rosa Joseph • Massie Mehl, brother of Froman Mehl and uncle of Jonathan Mehl • Sylvia Fine, mother of Irene Berger • Zella Schiefelbein, mother of David Schiefelbein • Solomon Borodkin, father of Arlene Swern Have good news to share? Please let us know! Contact [email protected] Is Your Contribution Missing? Sometimes, tributes come in after deadline. Sometimes, there is a clerical error. Please let us know if you are looking for a listing, which is absent. We will make sure it appears the following month. And we apologize for any oversights. PAGE 23 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Join Us! College of Saint elizabeth Kristallnacht Commemoration 24th Annual Week of Holocaust Remembrance November 10-14, 2014 College of Saint Elizabeth HOLOCAUST EDUCATION RESOURCE CENTER All Programs are free and open to the public. Commemorating Kristallnacht Monday, November 10, 7:30-9:15 p.m. • Dolan Performance Hall, Annunciation Center Survivor Testimonies: Remembering Kristallnacht and Beyond… Gerda Bikales Policy analyst, writer, lobbyist, and executive for non-profit organizations. She is the author of memoir Through the Valley of the Shadow of Death: A Holocaust Childhood. Norbert Bikales Professor at Rutgers University, and a United States diplomat.He is a board member of the World Federation of Jewish Child Survivors of the Holocaust and of the Holocaust Council of Greater MetroWest. Dessert reception at conclusion of program – sponsored by Yolanda (CSE, '68) and Raymond Kunz. Co-Sponsored by Interfaith Dialogue After The Holocaust: Why? How? Impact? Thursday, Nov. 13, 7:30 to 9-9:15 p.m. • Dolan Performance Hall, Annunciation Center Featuring the following esteemed presenters Pastor Murdoch Macpherson of the Faith Lutheran Church in New Providence, NJ Rev. Jeff Markay of the Chatham United Methodist Church Father Anthony Randazzo of Notre Dame Roman Catholic Church in North Caldwell, NJ Rabbi Alan Silverstein Congregation Agudath Israel Notre Dame Roman Catholic Church In-Class Faculty Sessions: November 11-15. For schedule, visit www.cse.edu/kristallnacht Hear survivor testimony, learn from scholars, view films, and sit in on student and faculty presentations. Everyone is invited to join us! For more information, contact: College of Saint Elizabeth Holocaust Education Resource Center [email protected] • 973-290-4387 www.cse.edu/holocaustcenter • www.cse.edu/directions Morristown, N.J. Learn today, lead tomorrow. PAGE 24 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 Smart Planning for You and Your Aging Parents: What You Need to Know Now! Join us for a conversation that will provide an overview of the facts we should know and the discussions we should have with our parents and aging loved ones. Learn about the comprehensive services and supports available that address a multitude of needs for older adults, their families and their caregivers. Wednesday, November 12 7:30 PM at CAI Harvey R. Zeller, Esq. Estate Planning Attorney Zeller & Strulowitz, LLP Roseland, NJ will discuss: • Trusts in Estate Planning • Charitable Giving Laurie A. Hauptman, Esq. Elder Care Attorney Hauptman and Hauptman, PC Livingston, NJ will discuss: • Medicaid Planning • Veterans Benefits • Long Term Care Planning (Health Care Proxy, Living Wills) Susan Schechter, LCSW Director of Older Adult Services Jewish Family Services of MetroWest Florham Park, NJ will discuss: • Aging in Place vs. Senior Living Facilities • Geriatric Consultations and Assessments • Care Consultation Program Please RSVP By Friday, November 7th to Missy Jacobs, LCSW at 973-226-3600 x143 or [email protected] PAGE 25 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Torah Fund Women Ensuring Conservative/Masorti Jewish Education A campaign to ensure our legacy to future generations of Conservative Jews by providing: Rabbis Cantors Educators and Administrators for Day Schools and Synagogue Schools Synagogue Administrators Social Workers Scholars Professional and Lay Leaders Researchers You are Torah Fund— at any level: Keter Kavod: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $5,000 Scholarship Patron: . . . . . . . $2,500 Patron: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,200 Associate Patron: . . . . . . . . . . . . $ 600 Guardian: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ 300 Benefactor: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ 180 Your Torah Fund contribution strengthens and perpetuates Conservative/Masorti Judaism throughout the world. Mishpahah—משפחה Family Not for nothing does the Torah begin with stories about families. The family in Judaism holds a central place, from the first family of Adam and Chava to our own families today. Indeed, our ‘Amidah prayer invokes our relationship to those first Jewish families, praising the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, and Leah as a reminder that our connection as a community roots back to the fact that we are all—the entire Jewish People—one big family. Receive the 5774 pin as our gift to you in recognition of your generous support. Pin design by Eytan Brandes PAGE 26 In choosing mishpahah as the theme for the 5774 Torah Fund pin, we are acknowledging both the sanctity that comes with being one big family and the complexity of our families and relationships. There is no one kind of Jewish family in the world today. Our families are diverse, and this pin is something to be worn proudly by women in all stages and kinds of family life: married, partnered, single, divorced, widowed, LGBT, straight, mothers, aunts, sisters, daughters. And as we support the programs of The Jewish Theological Seminary, the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies, and the Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies, we proclaim that we as women in all walks of life are proudly shaping the future of the big, 3,000-year-old Jewish family. For information, please contact Sharon Hammerman at [email protected] or Cindy Schechter at [email protected]. WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 TO R A H F U N D TORAH FUND SPEAKER, SARAH BROKMAN, PROVIDES NEW ROSH HASHANA MESSAGE Sisterhood members of all ages, family, and friends had the opportunity to study and learn about the universal message of the Rosh Hashana liturgy on Sunday evening, September 14, 2014, as taught by one of our own superstars, Sarah Lipsey Brokman. Sarah who grew up at CAI married Yuval Brokman whom she met in the CAI lobby. Sarah told the story that she was such a fidgety five year old that Susan Werk made her the “honorary” assistant principal. Today Sarah is the real Assistant Principal at Park Avenue Synagogue in NYC. Sarah used her skills as an expert in Experiential Learning to lead a study session on both the U-NETANEH TOKEF prayer and GOD’s QUALITIES: A PIYYUT. She helped everyone gathered at the home of Esther Kartus to focus on the meaning of these two prayers as they relate to the world in which we live. For some of the people there, this may have been the first opportunity to really examine these two prayers and see how Rosh Hashana is a holiday that not only emphasizes the individual but looks at how we are a part of the larger community. Indeed as we learned in the piyyut, “We believe that God is good to all.” Sarah is a graduate of the Davidson Graduate School of Education at the Jewish Theological Seminary, which receives support from sisterhood members through its Torah Fund program. More than 30 people at CAI have already become Torah Fund benefactors this year. Please contact Sharon Hammerman, Torah Fund chair at [email protected] for more information about Torah Fund or JTS. Calendar diaries published by Women’s League for Conservative Judaism are available for $8.50. The calendar diaries have both the secular and the Jewish dates on each page for 2014-2015 as well as the dates of Jewish holidays through September 2016. In addition, there is a listing of Conservative synagogues throughout the United States and Israel and also prayers for candle lighting, grace after meals and Traveler’s prayers. If you are interested in purchasing a calendar diary please contact Sharon Hammerman at [email protected] or Allison Robinson at CAI’s main office, [email protected]. PAGE 27 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX B’NAI MITZVAH EMILY HACK Daughter of Leslie Hack November 1 – PM ANDIE STEINBERG Daughter of Amy and Ira Steinberg November 7 - PM Andie is a 7th grader at West Essex Middle School. She has two older brothers, Taylor and Cooper, who attend West Essex High School. Andie loves soccer and has For her Mitzvah project, Emily, with her cousin who had the same mitzvah played goalie and defense for the WESC and North Caldwell Strikers since first project, participated in the MS Walk. grade. She loves to attend games and The walk took place in April 2014 and root on her teams….the Devils, Red Bulls they raised over $2,000 for the cause. and J-E-T-S Jets Jets Jets!!! Being the lone A cause that has affected a family girl in the family she had no choice but member close to her. to LOVE sports. Andie’s other passions are cooking and baking. She envies Emily enjoys gymnastics and ice the kids on the Food Network’s Rachel skating. For the past 8 years, she has been spending her summers at the NJ vs. Guy: Kids Cook-Off and hopes to someday attend culinary school. Andie is “Y” camps and one day would like to a dedicated friend, loyal and independent be a counselor there. and she always does the right thing. Andie loves spending her summers at Camp I am very proud of all the hard work Danbee in the Berkshires. We are so that Emily has done to become a Bat Mitzvah. I look forward to celebrating excited to share Andie’s Bat Mitzvah with her special day with family and friends! all of her friends and family! The date of November 7th is very special as this is the same week both of her brothers were Bar Mitzvah’d. We can’t wait to celebrate this special day! We love you Andie! Emily is a 7th grader at HBW Middle School in Verona. DO YOU NEED HELP WITH YOUR MITZVAH PROJECT? If you are working on a project and would like to publicize it to gain support from the congregation, send a 50-75 word description of your project and what sort of support you would like to [email protected] PAGE 28 MATTHEW SAVLOFF Son of Ian and Gail Savloff November 22 - PM Matthew is a 7th grade student at Grover Cleveland Middle School in Caldwell. He loves to learn and experience new things, and is in the gifted academic program. In his spare time, Matthew likes to listen to music and take the perfect picture to post on Instagram. He also enjoys video games and theme parks; he is a thrill-seeker and there isn’t a roller coaster that he won’t try! He enjoys playing most sports, especially baseball. For his mitzvah project, he is collecting donations for an organization called Pitch In For Baseball so that under privileged kids can also enjoy the sport. WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 B’NAI MITZVAH NOTICE TO PARENTS OF UPCOMING B’NAI MITZVAH Please submit write ups (no more than 150 words) and photos electronically to [email protected]. EMMA BURKE Daughter of Amy and Vincent Burke November 23 – AM Emma is an outstanding 6th grader at Golda Och Academy. She is an excellent student and is always concerned about others. Emma is devoted to her family and friends and of course, her dog, Honey. CHECK IN AND CHECK US OUT ON FACEBOOK! WERB TORAH CLUB HONOR SOCIETY news, updates and events....LIVE! It’s not surprising that Emma was given the “Mensch of the Year” award at her GOA Lower School graduation. Chesed is an integral part of Emma’s daily life. She unhesitatingly gives her time each week to visit elderly relatives, and her gentle manner and fun spirit bring joy to everyone. In honor of her Bat Mitzvah, Emma has decided to form “Kilometers for Kindness” (K4K). Volunteering and raising money through running (another of Emma’s passions), her team will be dedicated to promoting kindness towards others and recognizing the power of small gestures. K4K’s first races will raise money for children in Guatemala and the Friendship Circle, where Emma will be volunteering. Emma’s entire family is so proud of her and can’t wait to share in this joyous milestone! PAGE 29 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Whole Wheat Challah Stuffing with Dried Cranberries and Sage You can use any leftover bread for this recipe, but I like the health bonus of using whole wheat challah and it adds a nice nutty flavor that compliments the chestnuts in this dish. Don’t save this recipe for Thanksgiving, it is really fabulous any time. Servings: 10 sides Ingredients: 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 large onion, chopped 4 stalks celery, chopped 2 (3.5-ounce) bags Gefen roasted chestnuts, halved 2 cups dried cranberries 4 tablespoons chopped fresh sage or 3 teaspoons dried 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley or 1 teaspoon dried 8 cups (1-inch) cubed whole wheat challah 2 cups chicken stock 1 teaspoon Kosher salt 1 teaspoon Freshly ground black pepper Directions Preheat oven to 400 F. Lightly grease a 2.75-quart baking dish and set aside. Heat olive oil in a large dutch oven over medium high heat. Sauté onion and celery for 8 to 10 minutes. Add chestnuts, cranberries, sage and parsley and cook 2 minutes more. Stir in challah, chicken stock, salt and pepper and remove from heat. Transfer stuffing to greased baking dish and cover with foil. Bake 30 minutes. Remove foil and bake 10 minutes more or until lightly browned. From the Joy of Kosher Cookbook PAGE 30 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 CALDWELL USY Caldwell USY Upcoming Events Chapter Events (Wed. events are 7:45-9:00 pm) Regional Events November Wed. 12th – Zumba 21st-23rd – Regional Fall Kinnus, Paramus Fall 2014 Calendar Wed. 26th – Ice Skating, Mennen Arena, Morris Plains 2014-2015 Caldwell USY Board Nadav Aronoff VP Jake Religiou Adam Scheckman Parliamentarian Wolf Parliamentarian December Wed. 10th – Total Blackout Night 12th-13th – Regional Freshman Shabbaton, Marlboro Sun. 14th – Regional Membership Program Sun Dec 14th Agudath Mitzvah Day Sat. 20th – Chanukah Horror Night 19th-26th Atlanta – USY International Convention, Shira Arzt VP Jason Kay Director Annie Cannon VP Membership Contact Us Text @agudathusy to 201-468-6299 facebook.com/groups/caldwellusy @CaldwellUSY @CaldwellUSY [email protected] http://jeremyvest.com/Site/images/instagram-logo.gifhttp://jeremyvest.com/Site/images/instagram-logo.gif PAGE 31 CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL OF WEST ESSEX Kadima Fall 2014 Youth Programming for 6th, 7th, and 8th Graders KADIMA Regional Events, Caldwell Events October Kadima Intro and Icebreakers st Wed, Oct 1 7:30 PM-8:00PM Social Hall (Directly following Religious School Teen Orientation) Regional Opening Event th Oct 19 B'nai Mitzvah Brunch th Sun, Oct 19 10:00 AM – 11:30 AM Adult Lounge Kadima Kick Off-Minute to Win It nd Wed, Oct 22 7:45 PM – 8:45 PM Social Hall Kadima Brunch th Sat, Oct 25 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM Adult Lounge November Kadima Israel Trivia Night th Wed, Nov 12 7:00 PM – 7:45 PM Social Hall Kadima Brunch th Sat, Nov 15 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM Classroom Kadima USY Roller skating th Wed, Nov 26 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM December Kadima Saturday Night Live th Dec 6 East Windsor Kadima Mitzvah Madness th Wed, Dec 17 7:00 PM – 7:45 PM Social Hall Agudath Mitzvah Day th Sun Dec 14 11AM-2PM Social Hall Kadima Hanukkah Brunch th Sat, Dec 20 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM Adult Lounge January Regional Kadima Shabbaton Jan 16-17 th Regional 8 Grade Lock in Jan 17-18 PAGE 32 Contact Information Adviser: Anna Richlin E-mail: [email protected] Phone: 862-432-9590 WWW.AGUDATH.ORG NOVEMBER 2014 CHALUTZIM Saturday, November 15 7:00 - 9:30 pm COME FOR HAVDALAH STAY FOR THE CIRCUS Attention 3rd, 4th and 5th Graders… Come learn circus tricks from the professionals! 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