Fall 2009 Edition
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Fall 2009 Edition
Response2 Violence Fall 2009 Board of Directors Vacancy, Big Stone Darlene Pasche, Stevens Sarah Moore, Douglas Allen Wittrock, At Large Marion Kershner, At Large Terry Tilton, Wilkin Robbie Stier, Grant Jeff Stadum, Otter Tail Vacancy, Pope Lynette Johnson, Traverse Thad Olson, At Large Tamara Dahlen, At Large Chuck Hanson, At Large Jeanne Jacobs, Executive Director Managers Shelter Manager Diane Kittelson 7th Judicial District Programs Tina Gray-Siebers, Manager (Fergus Falls, Perham, Alexandria) 8th Judicial District Programs Sheila Korby, Manager (Glenwood, Morris, Elbow Lake, Wheaton, Ortonville, Breckenridge) WHEN IN DOUBT, CALL A SCOUT! When an Eagle Scout accepts a project, you can be sure he will get the job done! That was our experience with Matt Donoho, Troop 32, Fergus Falls. Matt walked into our empty storage shed with an idea of what we needed to store the many donations of clothing, toiletries, and other necessities women need when they arrive, and leave, our shelter. We approached several people with our need for shelving and found the cost to be prohibitive. Then we learned of Matt. As soon as we met him, Matt began brainstorming how he could make something useful, easily accessible, sturdy and spacious. He designed the shelving units, procured estimates from local lumber yards, and even did fundraising for the materials with money left over to purchase storage bins. The result was beyond our imagination. We invited Matt back for a photo shoot after we had the shelves full- it only took a week or soand he was just as amazed at how quickly they had filled up. Matt has opened the door for other Eagle Scout projects with us and we definately lookk forward to the continued partnership. Thank you, Matt...we can’t express enough how much we appreciate you! Shelter staff Fund Development JoAnn Boorman Parenting Time Centers Emilyn Haugen, Manager (Fergus Falls, Perham) Jenna Wolf, Manager (Morris, Ortonville, Glenwood) Inside This Issue... Directors Report...............2 October Events..................3 Calendar of Events...........4 Parenting Time Center.....5 Outreach Offices...............6 Thank You!.........................7 Eagle Scout Matt Donoho visits to see how the shelves he built for the new shelter are holding up. DIRECTOR’S CORNER A DREAM COME TRUE! In November, 2008, the Board of Directors for Someplace Safe purchased a new shelter in the City of Fergus Falls. The original shelter along with administrative and outreach offices were sold to Lake Region Hospital. In December, 2008, the board hired Orb Management and Studio e Architects of AlexanJeanne Jacobs, Executive Director dria to work with Someplace Safe on remodeling plans. Changes to the new shelter were needed to allow for handicap accessibility and more bedrooms, so families no longer had to share bedroom space with one another. The shelter is licensed to house ten people. On June 29, 2009, the health inspector gave the approval to move in, and ten women and children moved in that day! The undertaking of a building project is monumental to say the least. Juggling building committee meetings, construction deadlines, inspections, and fundraising, while managing a shelter full of women and children, consumed the first half of the year. Getting settled in and developing new procedures for operation has made the summer fly by. Heartfelt thanks and appreciation go out to many who helped make this 10-year dream come true through donations of money, time, construction, and maintenance. A special thank you to our Board of Directors for their vision, dedication, and many hours of volunteer labor. With the agency focus on shelter remodel, Someplace Safe outreach advocates are to be commended for increasing their fundraising income over previous years. Donations are up in some areas and holding steady in others. The Department of Public Safety, Office of Justice Programs, which provides a majority of funding for Someplace Safe was able to keep our funding stable for next year. For this we are grateful. Grant funding took a downturn this year, and as a result some organizational restructuring was needed. We combined two full time manager positions in the 7th Judicial District into one full time position. The other full time position has been delegated to fund development. The kindness and generosity of our local communities is what sustains us. The partnerships and assistance we receive from law enforcement, court services, prosecutors, and other service providers steady us in a time of instability. Empathy, understanding, support, and encouragement on a difficult day, or any day, keeps us motivated and energized. THANK YOU…each and every one! -Jeanne Jacobs- 2 SHELTER FUND CONTRIBUTORS The following donors are contributors to our Shelter Fund for the construction of our new shelter. We are very appreciative of their support! Terry & Cheryl Tilton * 5th Grade Million Penny Project * K L N Enterprises, Inc. * Marion & Morrie Kershner * Bethel Lutheran * Augustana Lutheran * Deb Zachman * Stacy McAllister * VJ Block * Joann Berg * Eleanor Bjornlie * Lori Kristiansen * Matthew Martin * Jollen Thacker * Mary Lee * Audrey Ness *Gertrude Obowa * Julie Gillespie * Warren Hershner * Teresa Otto * Hedemarken Lutheran * Florence Mobraten * Catheryn Sproull * Clarence Jacobson * Anna Fjestad * Albert Hexum *Diane Stenerson * Our Saviour’s Ten Mile * Nidaros Women *Aastad WELCA * Messiah Lutheran Church * North Immanuel *Diane MacGregor *Bonnie Bring * Carol Koepcke * Diane Erickson * Karen Homan * Colette Haugrud * Patricia Dahl *Zion Amor * Tingvold Lutheran * Eagle Lake * Good Shepherd *Leaf Mountain * OS-TML-WELCA * Keith & Kathy Jacobson * L’il Bob’s Electric * Dan Johnson Construction * Studio e Architects * Orb Management * Allen Wittrock *Dell Trust * Barrel O’Fun * Park Region Telephone * Lake Region Healthcare Corp. * Matt Donoho * Mike Donoho * Adam Jacobs * Steve Jacobs * Al Vickstrom * Don Eggen * Jerry Hess * Chuck Hanson * Thad Olsen * Linda Svigen * Jennifer Story * Mardag Foundation * Tom Stringer Memorial Fund * Fergus Falls Rotary * Beverly Norlin * Lori Bogen * Ellen Osthus *Dr. James Swenson * Lois Anderson * Mike Evavold * Mark Petersen * Michael Martin * Alex Schwarzhoff * Dawn Ott *Beth Santwire Monke * Renae Rasmusson * Kristi Angus *Gene Arndt * Susan Martin *Jon Kaliher *Lake Area Docks *Federated Church * Leah Hauser * Daniel Leeman *Jona Stout * Lorraine Simons * Hope Evangelical Youth * Van Valkenburg *Carol Taylor * Tessa Sagerhorn * Jon Olson * Janelle Sukke * Pamela Johnson * Sherilyn Wallace * Marie Johnson * Marion Drager * Janet Brooberg * Richard Roen * Deb Carpenter * Julie Clouse * Krista Simengaard * Raymond Wagar * Ann Jacobson * Hope Evangelical * Penny Rogelstad * Grove Lake Lutheran * Women of Zion * Good Shepherd * First Lutheran *Trinity Lutheran * Rhoda Wellbrock * David Schneeberger *Wendy Jo Johnson * Arno Steyn * Zion Lutheran * Alfreda Eide * Sara Anderson * Roselyn Holte * Victoria Martin * Audrey Peterson * Hazel Jensen * Pam Mjelde * Margaret Erickson * Nancy Bucholz * Deb Grant * Diane Johnson * Irene Jones * Helen Berg * Paula Peterson * Marv Abrahamson * Unitarian Church * OUR VISION: SOMEPLACE SAFE FOR EVERYONE It’s A Girl Thing HALLOWEEN in Morris Are you and your friends looking for a different and exciting way to spend your Halloween this year? Then join us for the Hollywood Halloween costume party and benefit for Someplace Safe of Stevens County on Saturday, October 31 from 9p.m. to 1 a.m. at the Old #1-Southside in Morris. The evening will be packed with excitement and entertainment, including a DJ, door prizes throughout the night, a silent auction, snacks, and a costume ‘awards ceremony’ complete with cash prizes and a balloon drop at midnight. Come dressed to impress in your most stylish or creative costumes! There will be plenty to do, from dancing the night away to facing the paparazzi, as well as the opportunity to immortalize yourself with your very own Hollywood Star! Tickets will be available at the door for $5 per person. There are also a limited number of VIP tickets available NOW for $20. VIP tickets get you access to a private pre-party and transportation to and from the event, as well as entrance into the VIP section, complete with all of the perks for the full celebrity experience. Hollywood Halloween is an age 18+ event, so please come prepared to show your ID. (You must be recognizable). All proceeds from Hollywood Halloween will be used to help victims and survivors of crime in Stevens County. Volunteers are needed if you are interested in lending a hand or some creativity for a great cause. If you would like more information or are interested in purchasing VIP tickets, please contact Becki at 320.589.3208 or [email protected] as soon as possible! 1 IN 4 WOMEN ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 3 It’s here! The 5th Annual “It’s a Girl Thing” is Monday, November 9, 2009, from 5:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at St. Mary’s School gym in Breckenridge. All proceeds benefit Someplace Safe. Doors open at 5:30 p.m. for early bidders, a light supper will be served at 6:00 p.m., games and drawings to be held throughout the evening. All bidding will end by 8:00 p.m. This evening will prominently feature handbags on the silent auction, as often women have only what is in their handbags when they flee their home to find safety from domestic violence. The designer handbags this year are wonderful. Included again this year are many autographed items and so much more. Come on out, enjoy a festive evening in your community, be part of domestic violence awareness, and support Someplace Safe. Tickets are $20 and will go fast, so please get yours early, as they may not be available at the door. We are still in need of volunteers and table hostesses. Call Someplace Safe for your tickets, more information, presentations, training, or domestic violence services at 218.643.3109. Holiday Extravaganza The 8th Annual Christmas Extravaganza, a holiday craft and gift show, will be held on Saturday, November 7, from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Starbuck School in Starbuck. This event is held in conjunction with the Starbuck Open House. There will be Santa’s Workshop for children as well as a Hall of Light. Decorated Christmas trees will light the halls of the Extravaganza and will be given to families who have survided domestic violence. Door prizes include: 50 lb. grill pack, valued at $150 from Minnewaska Meats; 1 night stay at the Holiday Inn, Alexandria; and two 4-pack tickets for Andes Tower Hills. Candlelight Vigil Please join us at the 22nd Annual Candlelight Vigil and March in Fergus Falls as we remember victims of domestic violence. The event begins at 6:30 p.m. on Thursday, October 1, 2009. We meet at Pamida parking lot and march to the Otter Tail County Courthouse. At 7:00 p.m. the vigil will be held. The program includes music, a speaker, and a ceremony remembering women and children who lost their lives due to domestic violence. The Clothesline Project will be displayed and the National Organization for Women (NOW) will provide refreshments. Earlier in the day, there is a Walk-A-Mile march where men have the opportunity to show their support for victims of domestic violence. This begins at noon where the group meets at Pamida parking lot and walks to Otter Tail County Courthouse. Lunch is provided for participants. Please call 218.739.2853 for more information about these events. Calendar of Events BIG STONE COUNTY September 11: Chili Feed 11:00 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. First English Lutheran Church, Ortonville OTTER TAIL COUNTY September 29: Walk a Mile Noon, Perham October 1: Walk a Mile Noon at Pamida, Fergus Falls October 1: Candlelight Vigil and March 5:00 p.m. at Otter Tail County Courthouse Fergus Falls POPE COUNTY October 5: Power Walk 5:45 p.m. at Pope Cty Health & Human Services November 7: 8th Annual Christmas Extravaganza Holiday Craft & Gift Show DOUGLAS COUNTY October 13: Taking Steps Against Domestic Violence Walk 5:00 p.m. at Douglas County Courthouse October 14: Domestic Violence Awareness Luncheon 11:45 a.m. - 1: 00 p.m. at Arrowwood Resort, Alexandria STEVENS COUNTY September 24: Take Back the Night 7:00 p.m. UM-Morris at the Black Box Theater October 31: Hollywood Halloween Costume Party 9:00 p.m. - 1:00 a.m. at Old#1- Southside, Morris WILKIN COUNTY November 9: It’s a Girl Thing 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. at St. Mary’s School, Breckenridge GRANT COUNTY October 7: Walk for Hope 6:00 p.m. at Grant County Courthouse, Elbow Lake For more information about these events or Someplace Safe call us at 218.739.3486 or visit our website: www.someplacesafe.info Chocolate Roses Fundraiser OCTOBER IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH 4 Dawn’s Custom Floral and Gift, Alexandria, have chosen to acknowledge Domest Violence Awareness Month in October by donating $1.oo for every Purple Chocolate Rose that is sold in the month of October to Someplace Safe. They sell for $1.95 each. Any business that wants to order in quantity, in advance, will still be counted in the donation. Dawn said, “I hope we can make a good contribution to Someplace Safe the first week in November from all of our Purple Chocolate Roses sale!” To order in advance, contact Dawn at 800.617.0854 or www.dawnsflorals.com. Craig Haby Creates Mural for Kids Where there was once a plan whtie wall, there are now rolling green hills, engaging blue skies, and a castle with proud waving flags. As part of his senior year art project, Craig Haiby volunteered his time to paint a remarkable mural for the Fergus Falls Parenting Time Center. Craig came to Parenting Time Center with a superb attitude, a quick smile, and a genuine gift for art. The mural was completed over the course of five months, so the families of Parenting Time Center have had the pleasure off seeing this work of art go from a sketch on the wall to a colorful painting that allows your imagination to wander. Kids enjoy spending time where the mural is located and play prince and princess. Families have commented that the mural is “so beautiful”, “extremely well done”, and as one child stated, “Wow, I love it!” The staff of the Parenting Time Center were impressed with Craig’s talent and grateful that he was willing to donate his time to paint the beautiful mural. Craig Haiby plans to continue his gift for art through higher education. Anyone interested in seeing the mural is welcome to call the Parenting Time Center at 218.739.3132 to schedule a time to do so. We are not open to walk-ins due to the confidential nature of our work. Quality Time by Parenting Time Center “He heads up to his bedroom and comes running back with a quarter and four dimes and says mama how much time will this buy me? Is it enough to take me fishing? Or throw a football in the street? If I’m a little short then, how much more does daddy need to spend some time with me? These lyrics are from a song by Jamie Johnson called “The Dollar.” This song is a great example of the importance of spending quality time with your child. The child in this song is not asking for the newest toy, but simply more time with his father. Here are activities that can be used to strengthen the parent-child relationship as well as teach skills and values that will benefit children long into the future • Bath time: Collect items around the house and see if they sink or float. Talk about why each item sinks/floats. • Bedtime: Read a bedtime story to your child. If your child is able to read, you can take turns reading. • In the Car: Play 20 questions, find letters of the alphabet on passing street signs, sing favorite songs, or discuss your child’s day. work on counting and one-to-one correspondence. • Eat supper at the table as a family! This is a great time to talk and communicate about your day. • At the Store: Have your child help find the items on your shopping list, have them count the number of cans as you put them in your car, show them the food label and ask them what it says or what a certain letter is. These ideas are just some of the ways in which you can improve your time with your child. Even if you think a game might be silly, chances are your child will love it! Please make sure to find as much time as you can to spend with each of your children separately to show them how important they are and how much they are loved! #1 PREDICTOR OF CHILD ABUSE IS DOMESTIC ABUSE • Meal Time: Have your child help make supper. Let your child set the table- this is a great way to 5 OUTREACH OFFICE UPDATES Otter Tail County The Otter Tail County Outreach and Intervention office has moved and is officially settled in. The new location is 106 S. Union, Fergus Falls. The phone number has not changed: 218.739.2853. The outreach office in Parkers Prairie is for sale. The community can rest assured that the same advocacy services are available in Parkers Prairie. The community has been very generous in offering alternative places for advocates to meet with victims. In addtion to advocacy, Someplace Safe will still offer presentations to the schools, businesses and community. Anyone who is interested in scheduling presentations or is in need of services, please call us toll free at 800.974.3359. We appreciate the support of the Parkers Prairie community and look forward to continuing that partnership. Douglas County We are doing some exciting restructuring within Someplace Safe. My task when I was hired was to get the office and the programs established in Douglas County. I have been able to accomplish that with the help of a very capable staff and a most welcoming community. Recently the board deciided that programs are running so smoothly that a part time manager is sufficient. Tina Gray-Siebers, the new manager, began her career at Someplace Safe as an advocate in Douglas County and in December accepted the position as the Otter Tail County Outreach and Intervention Manager. She is now managing both Otter Tail and Douglas Counties. I have moved into the fundraising department! How fun is that? I love to raise money, I love to plan events and I love meeting new people. My first charge in this new job is to put together a business plan for a Someplace Safe thrift store, so store up your goodies and be prepared to give generously of the furniture, clothing, books, eetc. that you no longer need. if you want to help volunteer or give to the store, let me know. The goal for opening is February 2010 or perhaps even sooner! -JoAnn Boorman- Wilkin County The Wilkin County office has moved! The new location is 115 N. 5th St., Suite C, Breckenridge, MN 56520. The entrance is in the rear of the building across from the Bank of the West. EVERY 15 SECONDS A WOMAN IS ABUSED IN THE U.S. UP TO 50% OF ALL HOMELESS WOMEN AND CHILDREN ARE FLEEING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Stevens County Someplace Safe of Stevens County had the opportunity to work with their local 4th grade Girl Scout Troop througout the summer on a number of projects. The girls were very interested in our services and how they could help women and children in our area. Some of their projects included: helping with our Crazy Days Bake Sale in July; collecting donations around town and using the money to put together backpacks with school supplies for families who needed them; holding a Pizza Hut fundraiser; and building and painting a new brochure holder to display materials in our office. They have been an incredible help to Someplace Safe and the individuals we serve, and we are extremely grateful for all their hard work! Pope County There have been quite a few changes in the office in Pope County. We have recently hired Gloria as our new office support specialist. She comes to us through Experience Works and is going to be in the office 3 days a week. Welcome Gloria, we are excited to have you on our team. Diane Kittelson has accepted the position as Shelter Manager at Someplace Safe Shelter in Fergus Falls. “its kind of bitter sweet, I am really going to miss it here in Pope County and all the fabulous volunteers and community partners, but I am also extremely excited about this new adventure. Most of all, I am really glad that I am staying within the organization and that I can continue to work in the battered women’s movement- just with a new venue” says Diane. Erin and Beth will both increase their hours to continue to provide full time advocacy services as well as community and professional training and education in the schools. They are also very excited. 6 THANK YOU! Pro-Tainer REA Community Trust Rick Ekstrand Family Fund Rock Prairie Women of ELCA Sherwin Williams- Fergus Falls Snap Fitness of Sauk CentreSt Henry’s Church St James Church at Maine St John’s Lutheran Church St Paul’s Lutheran Church St Paul’s Lutheran Church LWML St Paul’s Women’s Fellowship Starbuck Jaycees Stevens County Thrivent Superior Industries Swartz Brothers Associates Tastefully Simple, Inc The Episcopal Church Women The Federated Church Men’s Club Tonseth Lutheran Church Town of Leonardsville Township of Lida Trinity Lutheran Church Trinity Lutheran Church LWML University of Minnesota-Morris United Farmers & Merchants State Bank United Methodist Chruch United Methodist Women United Way Douglas & Poope United Way of Richland-Wilkin Valu Ford & Chrysler VFW #4582 VFW Post 7902 Viking Lutheran Women West Central Screen & Printing West Moe ELCW West Zion Congregation Willie’s Supervalu Women of ELCA LQP Conference Zetetic Study Club Zion Amor WELCA Zion Lutheran Church Sunday School Zion Women ELCA Linda Akenson Cheri Anderson Jacki & Patrick Anderson Sharyn Anderson Sheila Anderson Denise & Steve Baker Michael Boisvert Peterson Kristine Braaten-Lee Se & Don Clobes Scott & Melanie Dethlefsen Karen & Steven Ellis Stella & Lyle Fox Marian Fronning Rebecca Gercken Ted & Joann Graf Carrie Grussing Nan Haggerty Anne Hansen 3 M Foundation Aastad ELCW AAUW Agralite Electric Trust Account Alexandria Area Arts Associaton American Foods Group Bank of the West Battle Lake Women’s Progressive Club Ben Wade Covenant Women Ben Wade Township Fund BethelLutheran Church Deacon Fund Bethlehem Lutheran Church Breckenridge Women’s Study Club Bremer Bank Business & Professional Women Calvary Lutheran Church Women Carolyn Grant & Robert Krenz CK Home Health Care, Inc. Corner Stone Lodge No. 99 Dad’s Belgian Waffles Deer Creek United Methodist Church Dell Trust Douglas Machine Faith Women ELCA First English Lutheran Church First Evangelical Lutheran Church Forada Fire Department Fron Lutheran Church Glenwood Village Care Center Golden K Kiwanis Club of Alexandria Grace United Methodist Church Greater Twin Cities United Way Handbags 4 Ever Moore, LLC Henry’s Foods, Inc Hoffman Lions Hopkin-Hitchcock Funeral Home, Inc Impact Marketing & Promotions ITW Heartland KLN Enterprises, Inc Knights of Columbus Lake Region Hospital Fund Leaf Mountain Women of ELCA Lowry American Legion Post 253 Lowry Firemen’s Relief Association Marvelle’s Apparel, Inc Messiah Women of the ELCA Minnesota Masonic Charities Minnewaska Lutheran Church Morris Area Women of Today National Network to End DV Fund New Life Community Baptist Church Oleruds, Inc Otter Tail County United Way Otter Tail Power Company Otter Tail Telcom Otto Bremer Foundation Our Lady of Victory Church Pamida Peace WELCA Pope County Daycare Association Presbyterian Church Progress Study Club Chuck Hanson Craig & Lisa Harris Tim Haukebo Lacee Heald W & E Heegaard Scott Heifort Gail Hockert Gordon & Irene Hovendick Hardy & Bonnie Huettl Bonnie Ingenthron Pastor Bob Javis Jamie Johnson Marilyn Johnson Patty Johnson Ann JordanThomas & Jane Junkert Erica Karger-Gatzow Marion & Morrie Kershner Bev Clausen-Kieffer Martha Kohout Patricia & James Lepper Jana & Jeff Lindoo Jennifer Lund Carole Magnuson Viola Miller Avis & Leonard Minners Bonnie Monson Mary & Larry Morris Sandra Olson-Loy Kathi Oxenreider Ruth Pallansch Darlene Pasche David & Joanne Peterson Thomas Pitschka Lowell & Kris Rasmussen Judith & Gene Rose Del & Kim Runck Roger Rustad Carla Scheffert Leo & Gini Schneider Florence Shaw Marlene & Jerome Steiner Marcie & Bill Stone Doris Teberg Dan & Sandra Thimgan Jean & Todd Valnes Nadine & Joe Villella Sue Weber Jacqueline & Gene Wenstrom Vivan Whipple Jeni Wutzke Carl Zachmann Virginia Zachmann Your support of our organization is greatly appreciated! Someplace Safe has been providing services to families and victims of domestic violence and sexual assault for 30 years. These services are available because of the generous community support we receive. Thank you again! We make every effort to spell names correctly, so we apologize in advance for an errors. 7 Non-Profit Org. U.S. POSTAGE PAID Fergus Falls, MN 56537 Permit No. 378 P.O. Box 815 Fergus Falls, MN 56538-0815 Address Service Requested Phone: 218.739.3486 Toll Free: 800.974.3359 Fax: 218.739.9305 Email: [email protected] Our organization is sponsored in part by the Minnesota Department of Public Safety, Office of Justice Programs, Crime Victim Services, the Otto Bremer Foundation, and United Way. I would like to include Someplace Safe in my annual budget for the next 3 years in the amount of: _____ $100-$200/year _____ $200-$300/year _____ $300-$400/year _____ $400-$500/year _____ $500-over/year Please be sure to check which program you want your dollars to support! I would like to donate $_____ for use in the following program(s): □Pope County □Douglas County □Stevens County □Fergus Falls- Walk-in Office □Grant County □Perham □Traverse County □Parkers Prairie □Big Stone County □Wilkin County □Other________________________________ □Shelter Parenting Time Centers: □Fergus Falls □Perham □Ortonville □Morris/Glenwood Name:_________________________________________________ Address:_______________________________________________ ________________________________________________ Thank you for your tax-deductible gift! Please send donations to: Someplace Safe PO Box 815 Fergus Falls, MN 56358-0815