Girl Power Campaign Hopes to Free More Girls Like Natacha
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Girl Power Campaign Hopes to Free More Girls Like Natacha
Spring 2016 “I feel like I’m alive again!” Girl Power Campaign Hopes to Free More Girls Like Natacha Port-au-Prince — E very bit of 10-year-old Natacha’s body shook with fear as she pleaded not to be sent out into the darkened streets of her Port-au-Prince neighborhood. It was nearly 11 p.m. and the family Natacha worked for insisted that she take the garbage to the neighborhood dump. The family’s oldest son - as he did countless times before - violently and repeatedly kicked Natacha until finally, grudgingly, she slipped out into the night, garbage in tow. “Helping girls like Natacha return to their families is what Beyond Borders’ Girl Power campaign is all about.” — Freda Catheus Natacha suffered this and even more unspeakable abuse, said Beyond Borders’ Freda Catheus, at the hands of a family whose care she had been entrusted to – but who instead treated her as their slave. “Helping girls like Natacha return to their families is what Beyond Borders’ Girl Power campaign is all about,” Freda said. With the help of Beyond Borders, Natacha’s mom brought her home – but not before Natacha spent six years in domestic servitude. You can help bring an end to this kind of abuse and free more girls like Natacha by forming a team and joining Beyond Borders’ Girl Power campaign. “We need to raise $150,000 this spring to help end the violence and exploitation girls face and free and empower them to reach their full potential,” said David Diggs, Beyond Borders’ executive director. “We need teams of caring people to come together and help us reach our goal.” Nationwide one in six Haitian girls between the ages of five and 17 live apart from their parents and are trapped in slavery like Natacha, enduring exploitation, social isolation, neglect and abuse. “Their days are defined by endless work and humiliation punctuated by bouts of physical, verbal and sometime sexual abuse,” David said, as he described the experience of so many girls like Natacha. “Any perceived failure is severely punished,” David said. “When Natacha failed to clean the toilet to the satisfaction of her caretakers, they beat her and forced the toilet brush into her mouth.” But very few rural parents have any idea of the grave risk that they’re taking when they send their children away. Continued on page 2 Natacha’s mom brought her home – but not before Natacha (pictured above) spent six years trapped in domestic servitude. You can help free more girls like Natacha by forming a team and joining Beyond Borders’ Girl Power campaign. More than 500 women and men graduated from Beyond Borders’ child rights training last fall. The training helped Natacha’s mom bring her home. This spring, 500 more adults will graduate thanks to the support of generous donors. 1 Power to Girls New Community and School-Based Violence Prevention Toolkit Ready for Launch Jacmel — T 2 hree years in the making and packed with almost 500 pages of newly created tools and resources, Power to Girls – Beyond Borders’ community and school-based violence prevention kit – is nearly ready for launch. “Power to Girls is about ensuring that girls have every opportunity that boys have: the chance to go to a good school and to live in a community that loves, cherishes, protects and values them – the chance to realize their dreams,” said David Diggs, Beyond Borders’ executive director. Beyond Borders is working to raise the funds needed to launch Power to Girls in eight communities in southeastern Haiti this spring. Meanwhile, interest in Power to Girls goes beyond Haiti, with an organization in Tanzania already committed to employing an English-language version. “With Power to Girls, Haiti will be giving the world a tool to decrease girls’ risk of violence and increase their freedom,” said Sara Siebert, who provides technical support to Rethinking Power– Beyond Borders’ program to prevent Girl Power Campaign, Continued from page 1 Instead, rural parents like Natacha’s send children to urban families as a way to cope with rural poverty and in the oftenvain hope that their children will fare better in the city. In fact, when Natacha first learned she’d be moving from her rural village on the island of Lagonav to live with a family in Port-au-Prince, she could barely contain her excitement. For the first time ever, she thought, she would violence against women and girls. Power to Girls, or Kore Tifi in Creole, promotes the voices of girls and their rights through a combination of girlcentered programming rooted in a community change approach. Inside Power to Girls teachers and community leaders will find a complete, three-year methodology to change gender-power imbalances in classrooms and communities. The toolkit integrates a school violence prevention curriculum into existing classroom objectives, creates and supports local girls’ groups and includes a set of community organizing tools designed to create deep and lasting change. “The key is equipping girls and school and community leaders with the knowledge and skills they need to influence attitudes and behaviors related to girls’ safety and voice,” Sara said. Kore Tifi Above right, Beyond Borders’ groundbreaking community and school-based violence prevention kit is ready for launch. Right, posters like this encourage readers to think about ways they can empower and support girls and women. get the chance to go to school. What child wouldn’t be excited? But this seeming opportunity – as presented by Natacha’s father – masked a danger that Natacha and tens of thousands of children face every year. “What parents do not generally know is that once their children live apart from them, they have a one in two chance of becoming enslaved, where they endure violence and neglect. Enslaved girls are especially vulnerable, with roughly 60 percent reporting that they endured sexual violence,” David said. Natacha finally gained her freedom after her mother joined a child rights training program organized by Beyond Borders in her rural village of Tikoma. “I love my mother so much,” said Natacha, who is now 16, back at home and enrolled in the fifth grade at Heart of Jesus School. “When my mom joined the Child Rights Training and learned what danger I could be in, she searched and searched and finally found me and brought me back home,” Natacha said. “And now I feel like I’m alive again!” You and your friends and family can help free more girls when you form a Girl Power team today and help us meet our goal by May 31. Visit www.GirlPowerHaiti.org to get started. In Their Own Words Women Who Mentor Haitian Girls Share Their Reality W hen we first started to create the Power to Girls community and school-based toolkit, we interviewed 14 women who mentor girls from a variety of backgrounds including girls who are in school and live at home and girls who live in domestic servitude, or restavèk. The interviews helped to guide the themes in Power to Girls and helped to ensure that the toolkit is grounded in the realities of Haitian girls. The following are a few select quotes from these interviews with mentors. We have changed their names How do girls experience violence and abuse in their families and communities? “[Even some girls who live at home] go days without eating, with no money, unable to go to school, unable to finish the school year and growing older every day. Girls suffer more than boys because when they don’t have money they may sell themselves to men just to get the money they need.” — Beatrice, a YWCA mentor to girls in Port-au-Prince “A huge problem is girls living in restavèk don’t go to school, they don’t have time to even comb their hair, they work all the time, they sleep in the dining room, everyone in the house sends them on 50 different errands to buy little things, everything is a luxury for them. They rape her and no one says anything to defend her. I heard one story of a 14-year-old restavèk girl who became pregnant and they threw her out of the house. ‘They should just kill her,’ someone said. All girls are extremely vulnerable to rape.” — Stéphanie, a mentor to girls living in restavèk in a Port-au-Prince suburb “Girls suffer verbal, physical and sexual violence right in their own neighborhoods. I heard one story in which a mother sent her daughter to the market to buy something and along the way a man molested and raped her. Girls suffer more violence than boys.”— Roseline, a YWCA mentor to girls in Port-au-Prince to protect their anonymity. Their words present the often-harsh realities girls in Haiti face, but they also show how women are developing solutions to empower girls and create a new reality rooted in gender equality. How can parents and community members support and encourage girls? “Recognize and understand their concerns and share your guidance without judgment. For example, I can say, ‘What you’re doing is good, but here’s something else that goes with what you’re doing. If you do this too, here are the benefits you’ll gain.’ Other guidance you can give is to say, ‘Don’t judge people based on external factors. Respect the worth and value of everyone.’” — Marie, a mother of three young girls who mentors a network of young girls “Help her see that she is a person, show her that she is a valuable member of society.” — Stéphanie, a mentor to girls living in restavèk “A mother can ask her daughter what kind of career she wants to pursue. She can help her see that if she wants to have a chance to realize her dreams, she needs to protect herself.” — Esther, a mentor to girls in a suburb of Port-au-Prince “In my family, on Sundays we sit with our girls and we share guidance and advice, we encourage them to stay positive in their approach to life and to never think they have to have a man to provide for them.” — Beatrice, a YWCA mentor to girls in Port-au-Prince “This is the first time they’ve had a girls club in the neighborhood, and in our girls group they affirm each other’s value and worth. Parents tell us that they wish every girl in the neighborhood could be in the club.” — Johanne, a mentor to girls in Jacmel “If a girl asks to take part in an activity or club, let her do it. If she sees someone [learning a skill or trade] that interests her, when you answer her, do so in a way that she knows you support her.” — Madeleine, a mentor to girls in a Port-au-Prince suburb 3 Proving Our Work George Washington University To Study Rethinking Power — BB Program to Prevent Violence Against Women and Girls Washington, D.C. — T he stakes could not be higher for girls in Haiti. Seven in 10 will experience sexual, physical or emotional abuse by age 18, and HIV rates of girls are twice that of boys. “We have a profound responsibility to ensure that our programming is effective at both reducing the rate of violence against women and girls and balancing power between women and men,” said Sara Siebert, who provides technical support to Beyond Borders’ Rethinking Power program. This spring Sara and the Rethinking Power team will partner with the Global Women’s Institute (GWI) at George Washington University to begin an extensive study on the impact of Rethinking Power’s work. “This research opportunity is really exciting because it gives us a chance not only to improve our work, but to contribute to the global movement what we know about how to effectively prevent violence against women and girls,” Sara said. An internationally recognized leader in research to advance gender equality and prevent violence against women and girls, the GWI will study the effectiveness of the SASA! methodology used by Rethinking Power and the new Power to Girls toolkit. The research will take place over the next three years in the eight southeastern Haiti communities where Rethinking Power works. A 2015 study in the British medical journal The Lancet found a 52% drop in intimate partner violence community-wide CONNECT WITH US! in villages in Uganda that use the SASA! Methodology. Raising Voices, a Ugandan-based NGO working to prevent violence against women and girls, created and launched SASA!, a Kiswahili word that means ‘now.’ Now GWI researchers will study Rethinking Power’s work to see if SASA! can produce similar results in Haiti and to see what additional impact comes from adding the Power to Girls toolkit to the mix. “By replicating the results of previous studies we hope to show that Haitian communities have the power to create lasting change that will prevent violence against women and girls and balance power between women and men,” Sara said. Rethinking Power Technical Support Team Rethinking Power Goes Global Beyond Borders’ work to end violence against women and girls and promote gender equality in Haiti has benefited enormously from the global movement to end violence and inequality against women. And our Rethinking Power team is contribuing what they are learning in Haiti to the global movement too. As an example, the core of our work is rooted in methods developed and perfected in Uganda. Rethinking Power adapted those methods and then added Power to Girls, the community and school-based toolkit that focuses on the reality of girls. Now people in Tanzania are seeking to replicate Power to Girls in their work. Australia, Honduras, Italy, Mongolia, the United States, Myanmar, and Belize are all countries where the Rethinking Power team has shared knowledge, tools and strategies for success from our work in Haiti. Every nation and every person has a role to play in the movement to end violence against women and girls and advance gender equality. So today ask yourself, ‘What can I do to help advance the rights and equality of women and girls in our world?’ Beyond Borders Haiti BEYOND BORDERS helps people build movements to liberate themselves from oppression and isolation. In Haiti and the United States, we are bringing people together for just and lasting change. We support movements in Haiti to: End child slavery Guarantee universal access to education End violence against women and girls Replace systems that oppress the poor with systems that support dignified work and sustainable livelihoods This is the second time Rethinking Power and the GWI have collaborated. In 2015 the GWI and the George Washington University School of Nursing partnered with Rethinking Power to launch the first-ever course on violence against women and girls for students at the Haitian National School of Medicine. The course is now required for all thirdyear medical students. 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