The transformation of William The cycle of abuse ends Bruckner`s
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The transformation of William The cycle of abuse ends Bruckner`s
reACH Vol 1, ISSUE 1 2014 The transformation of William Bruckner’s and ACH— 25 years of doing good while having fun The cycle of abuse ends When 5-year-old William arrived at ACH’s Behavioral Care program one late winter day, he had never spoken an understandable word. The Ben Bruckner Jr. Charity Classic and its estimated 3,600 golfers from within the trucking industry have raised more than $750,000 to benefit ACH. Calling ACH was an important decision for Vicki, because her own childhood had not prepared her to parent. (page 10) (page 6) (page 8) reACH reACH C O N T E N T S 2 4 Vol 1, ISSUE 1 2014 Timed to coincide with National Child Abuse Prevention Month, the 4th Annual Lend A Hand Luncheon on April 3 welcomed more than 200 guests to what has become an annual status report on child abuse and neglect in Tarrant County. 5 Being creative about being creative 6 The transformation of William 8 16 Choosing to give 18 Our Community Our Kids 12 On any given night in Tarrant County, as many as 16 young people, ages 10 to 17, are sleeping in the ACH Emergency Youth Shelter because they have no other place to turn. Bruckner’s and ACH celebrate 25 years of doing good while having fun 10 The cycle of abuse ends healthy recipe to try with your kids: 18 AVegan Flourless Zucchini Brownies 13 2013 Annual Report 21 2014 Donor List Our mission: Protecting children and preserving families since 1915. BOARD OF DIRECTORS Frank Anderson Karen Barlow Julie Davidson Joe Greenslade Liz Hatley Jack Huff Barry King Brenda King Jack Larson Meto Miteff FOUNDATION BOARD MEMBERS Lynn Newman Peter Philpott Esequiel “Zeke” Sanchez III Robert Simpson Dub Stocker Malcolm Street Carolyn Williams Larry Autrey Frank Anderson Earl Hoover Mark Johnson Fred Moore Susan Rose Robert Simpson reACH From our CEO E ach April for the past four years, ACH has hosted the Lend A Hand Luncheon during National Child Abuse Prevention Month to raise awareness about the issue of child abuse and neglect in Tarrant County. Our theme this year is “Kids Are Counting on You!” and it was clear from the attendance at this year’s April 3 event that we are blessed with a community that stands behind us. That so many people like you have joined with us to protect children means that we will continue to make significant progress. As you read through the personal stories included in this issue of reACH, I hope you too will be encouraged. Every one of the stories you will read in this issue of reACH speaks directly to the strength of the human spirit, how people can heal, and how the generational cycles can be broken—if only children and families can get the help they need. As you can imagine, some of the names of our clients have been changed because of privacy issues. And some photos may only resemble the child or teen, for the same reason. But one story—that of Vicki W. and her son, Mario, who sought help in our Youth and Family Counseling program—is real in every way. 3 CEO Wayne Carson with Lou Ann Blaylock, Lend A Hand 2014 Chairperson Kids are counting on you! our community to provide support— through advocacy, through financial generosity, and through volunteerism. Thank you for sharing your blessings in so many ways! Our kids are counting on you. ACH exists because people like you will stand with the most vulnerable in Assessment, Intervention & Referral Services (AIRS) When You Have a Crisis, the Phone is Always Answered For information, call 817.335.HOPE (4673) Family crises can happen any time of day or night. That’s why we offer 24-hour, 7-day-a-week crisis call response with centralized assessment by a trained counselor, an intake department for all 18 ACH programs, and referrals to services in the community. ACH is here when you need help. 4 reACH Timed to coincide with National Child Abuse Prevention Month, the 4th Annual Lend A Hand Luncheon on April 3 welcomed more than 200 guests to what has become an annual status report on child abuse and neglect in Tarrant County. The luncheon kicked off a month-long awareness campaign with the theme, “Kids Are Counting on You!” Lynn Newman, ACH Development Committee Chair with Vivian Ferguson, Co-Chair of Hoot ‘n Holler 2014. A nyone driving past the ACH Summit Campus during the month of April may have seen the series of signs intended to draw attention to the stark statistics about child abuse and neglect in Tarrant County. •5,689 kids were abused in Tarrant County in 2013. •Tarrant County suffers the third highest number of confirmed abuse cases in the state of Texas, behind only Harris (Houston) and Bexar (San Antonio) counties. These statistics and their impact on our community were emphasized by Lend A Hand Luncheon keynote speaker Gabe Salazar, who also told his own story of conquering homelessness as a youth by holding fast to hope. “Fighting child abuse and neglect is not just about intervening when it has taken place,” said ACH CEO Dr. Wayne Carson, “it is also about being able to support at-risk families and children to reduce the chances it will happen in the first place. Raising awareness is important, because most people don’t realize what happens right here in our community. When people know, they want to help.” ACH extends its gratitude to Event Chair Lou Ann Blaylock for her commitment of time, talent, and treasure to make the 2014 Lend A Hand Luncheon a tremendous success. “I am always deeply touched by the way our community joins together to help when they see a need,” said Mrs. Blaylock. “They make my work rewarding in ways I cannot even express.” Through her efforts and our generous community, more than $50,000 was raised to support child abuse awareness and prevention efforts in Tarrant County. reACH 5 Being Creative about Thank you to these friends for your generous support of Lend A Hand 2014! GUARDIAN SPONSOR Julie and Glenn Davidson Jean and John Roach & Lou Ann Blaylock The Walsh Foundation HERO SPONSOR Karen Haun Barlow Hahnfeld Hoffer Stanford, Architects Planners Interiors LINBECK Group, LLC Meto Miteff Dr. Steven and Melisa Schultz CHAMPION SPONSOR Tasa and Frank Anderson Lynn and Cam Newman Valerie and Dub Stocker Malcolm and Mary Lou Street Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Fort Worth ADVOCATE SPONSOR Accel Imaging Systems Margaret Augustat & Lynn O’Day Mr. and Mrs. Steven Baird Cook Children’s Health Care System Covenant Kids Inc. CSG Companies Randall and Elizabeth Hatley MHMR of Tarrant County Perrone Pharmacy Anna Melissa and Peter Philpott Being Creative By Juan Faura, ACH Chief Marketing Officer Creative activities and playful engagement are time-tested techniques used by counselors here at ACH and by parents everywhere to develop and nurture a trusting relationship with children. For me, creative activities always bring to mind craft projects using crayons, paste, little round-nosed scissors, and piles of manila paper. But sometimes you have none of those things, and it becomes essential to be creative about being creative. I was waiting with my six-year-old niece to be picked up from a recital when my wife—our chauffeur—called to say she was going to be about 45 minutes late. Pretty soon, the crowd of other families dispersed, leaving my niece and me to wait, along with a boy of about five and what I took to be his mother. It turned out she was not his mother, but his nanny—and like us, their ride was running late. We made small talk, but soon the youngsters began to fidget. Without batting an eye the young nanny said, “Maybe we can get them occupied with a crafts project.” It was a great idea, but here we stood outside of a locked elementary school with no other building in sight and with no access to anything other than our cell phones. I was curious and thought to myself, “How exactly is she planning to keep these two kiddos occupied with a crafts project when we have nothing with which to be ‘crafty?’” I soon learned from this ingenious young woman that we were going to make leaf animals. I quickly looked around and noticed that leaves were the only thing we had access to, but we had access to a lot of them. So off she went with the kids, gathering as many different leaves as possible with a variety of colors and textures. From her handbag, the young woman removed the folded recital flyer and proceeded to flatten it on the steps of the school. Soon she and the youngsters were making animal shapes with leaves, using the flyer as canvas and hand lotion from her purse as adhesive. All too soon our rides arrived, and we each went our own way. While the afternoon had all the makings of a disaster, it became a glorious success because someone was creative. My niece is older now, but we still take great pleasure in recalling that day. 6 reACH The Transformation of WILLIAM When 5-year-old William arrived at ACH’s Behavioral Care program one late winter day, he had never spoken an understandable word. Severely neglected, William had been in foster care for a few months as Child Protective Services went through the process of legally ending his birth mother’s parental rights and looking for an adoptive family. One result of the neglect was his lack of speech. When upset, William also displayed violent behavior with the other children in his foster home—something his foster family was not equipped to safely manage. reACH T he ACH staff had to work especially hard to find ways to help William communicate, because he just couldn’t verbally express himself. He whined and cried a lot, had difficulty understanding instructions, and was defiant. There was also some indication that he might have some measure of autism—William kept his toys very organized and coordinated all his colors. Based on their experience with him, the counselors assessed William’s development at about that of a toddler 18-24 months old. make little William feel safe, secure, and valued. Nevertheless, William did find the words to ask about his mother— like any child, William desperately wanted someone to call “Mom.” Slowly but surely, William began to come out of his shell and to show progress in his emotional, mental, and physical development. He often wanted to be with the Behavioral Care Youth Care Specialists, who by late spring affectionately described William as a “social butterfly.” He was becoming quite talkative, was able to follow directions, and was no longer exhibiting defiant or violent behavior. When the children and Youth Care Specialists took a summer trip to Padre Island, William was able to participate in daily ocean activities like playing on a boogie board. There were many other trips to local water parks that summer, and he was excited each time. As autumn approached, William’s Youth Care Specialists could see that his behaviors and interactions were significantly improved. In addition, he had become eager for a permanent adoptive family. The ACH staff worked hard to understand and build relationships with William, doing the things parents do like craft activities, playing outside, tucking him into bed at night, reading stories, and teaching him to shower himself. Most important, they sought to provide much-needed structure and Fortunately, ACH had identified such a family. They came to visit William several times, and then took him for some family outings. Later, they welcomed him for a weekend. It was not long before everyone knew William had found his family. 7 When William’s adoption became final, he had one request of the judge. Apparently feeling like a new person, William wanted to change his first name as well as his last name. Today, William lives on a small family farm and has someone to call “Mom” and “Dad.” He has other children to play with, as well as a few chickens and goats, too. Staff recently heard from William that he received his very own pony for his birthday because he’s now “big enough” to care for it himself. Behavioral Care: A Safe Place to Learn and Grow The Behavioral Care program offers children, ages 4-12, a safe and highly structured environment, when moderate to severe emotional and behavior problems prevent them from living with their families or in a less structured environment. The program teaches adaptive behaviors in a safe residential setting aimed at reducing stress, supports successful child development, and promotes family reunification where possible. For more information, please call 817.335.HOPE (4673). 8 reACH Bruckner’s and ACH CELEBRATE 25 YEARS S ince 1989, 144 golfers have gathered on the first Monday of May at the Ridglea Country Club to enjoy a day of competition while they raise funds to support ACH’s residential programs. Over the last 25 years, the Ben Bruckner Jr. Charity Classic and its estimated 3,600 competitors from within the trucking industry have raised more than $750,000 to benefit ACH. Notably, three players— Darrell Walker, Walter Cooke, and Butch Mask—have played in every one of those tournaments. When Ben Bruckner Sr. opened the doors of Bruckner’s Garage in Amarillo back in 1932 amidst the Dustbowl and Great Depression, he did so embracing the characteristics Trucking Industry Facts Did you know? •Annually, the trucking industry hauls nearly 70 percent of all U.S. freight tonnage. •More than 80% of U.S. communities depend solely on trucking for delivery of their goods and commodities. •1 of every 15 people in the U.S. works in the trucking industry. •The trucking industry contributes nearly $650 billion to the U.S. economy, representing almost 85% of the nation’s freight bill. Source: American Trucking Association. of doing good while having fun of determination, ingenuity, and a commitment to serving his customers and his community. In the 1940’s the automotive garage became the first Mack Truck dealership in the Southwest, and today, Bruckner’s is recognized as a leading dealership in the Southwestern United States with 11 locations, including Fort Worth. The Bruckner team brings those characteristics to its relationship with ACH—a commitment to community, ingenuity that has attracted a full complement of golfers year after year, and the determination to support ACH over the long term and improve the lives of countless young people. Through their support of the Ben Bruckner Jr. Charity Classic, the golfers have played a direct role in the treatment and prevention of child abuse and family separation. Their support has been designated to providing summer educational and outdoors activities for the children and youth in ACH residential programs. Literally thousands of children have benefitted from the generosity and community spirit of these trucking industry golfers. ACH Child and Family Services is proud to include Bruckner’s in its family. We extend our deep gratitude to the Fort Worth staff of Bruckner’s, the many sponsors of this event, and this year’s 144 golfers for their hard work and hard play. reACH 9 Tournament Winners (from left to right) Brandon Troxell, Jeremy Barber, Robert Mask, Butch Mask Thank You! Thank you for joining and strengthening our ACH family. PL AT I N U M S P O N S O R Dragon Products C O RP O RAT E S P O N S O RS Donaldson é Eaton RoadRunner SAF Holland é Volvo/Mack Parts Division LU N C H Bridgeport Tank Trucks é Jost é Meritor Inc. DINNER ADP é Fruitland Vacuum Pumps Mack Truck Sales é Michelin é Traxell Trailer Mfg Volvo Financial Services é Volvo Truck Sales D RI V I N G RA N G E S P O N S O RS Corporate Billing é Fontaine Trailer Company PU T T I N G G REE N S P O N S O R GE Capital D O O R P RI Z E S PO N S O RS DFW Movers & Erectors é Summit/Nationwide G O L F C A RT S P O N S O R JPMorgan Chase First team to tee-off (from left to right) Dennis Pearson, Craig Muntzel, Brian Wade, Jamall Scott. G O L F S H I RT S P O N S O R Unifirst RE F RES H M EN T S P O N S O R CAB Logistics é Roll Offs of America Samantha Springs 10 reACH The Cycle of ABUSE ENDS When Vicki W. contacted ACH’s Youth and Family Counseling program, it was at the suggestion of her son’s school counselor. Mario had been acting out at school and the incidences of aggression were increasing. Both Vicki and the school felt that Mario needed some counseling, and she needed different parenting skills to help her family function well. C alling ACH was an important decision for Vicki, because her own childhood had not prepared her to parent. Vicki experienced abuse from early childhood into her teen years. Vicki’s mother had died when she was only seven, leaving her father to raise four young children alone. An alcoholic, her father began physically abusing Vicki, the oldest of four children, along with her younger siblings. At one point, Vicki recalls that she and her two sisters were locked in a dark closet and fed moldy cheese. Being the oldest, Vickie took the brunt of the abuse as she tried to protect her little sisters and brother. This was on Vicki’s mind when she called ACH for help. After a difficult first marriage, Vicki and Mario’s father had divorced. Mario was 10, and Vicki thought it might be better for him to live with his father. She knew these middle years can be a critical period for boys, and that a father’s influence can be important. For the next two years, Mario lived with his dad and Vicki began to find a new life with the man who is now her husband. At 12, Mario returned to live with his mother and her new husband, and it was then that his difficulties began. Initially, Mario was to receive counseling. But when his counselor learned of Vicki’s own abuse, he encouraged her to attend ACH’s Skill Builder Classes, so she could gain the skills she was going to need to help Mario. reACH It all paid off when Mario confided to his counselor that he was angry because he had wanted his mother to remarry his father, not her new husband. This breakthrough allowed both Mario’s counselor and his mother to reassure him that more than just two people can love him—indeed, that his mother, father, and step-father could love him and be a part of his life. And perhaps most important, Vicki will tell you, she learned how to work through things and to do so positively. Today, Vicki and her family are doing well, and she credits what they learned and experienced with ACH for it all. But truly, it was also Vicki’s strong spirit, determination, and courage that have given this family such an optimistic outlook. Should you or your loved ones have difficulties, ACH services are available to you. And thanks to the generosity of the community, these services are available even if financial resources are not. For more information or to seek help, please call 817.335. HOPE (4673) at any time, day or night. Hope and help await your call. 11 Finding Solutions to Family Conflict What can I do? Where can I turn? These are the questions running through the mind of anyone—child, teen, or parent—who faces bullying, family conflict, or anger. Hiding or running away won’t help. Resolution is the answer, and ACH works to help kids (up to age 17) and their parents find solutions to the issues facing so many today. Real-life issues such as: • Conflict at home •Bullying • Anger management • Talk of running away • Reckless or criminal behavior • School attendance • Behavior problems Services are free of charge. They are provided by licensed and experienced youth and family counselors, and include: • One-on-one client meetings with a counselor for one hour per week for up to six months. • Evening and Saturday appointments are available. • Anyone can refer—a doctor’s referral is NOT needed. • No need to worry about family income or insurance. • Bilingual sessions are available. These services are provided at ACH locations in Tarrant, Johnson, Parker, Palo Pinto, and Hill counties. But ACH counselors can also bring these services to your location. 12 reACH RESCUING YOUTH from the street On any given night in Tarrant County, as many as 16 young people, ages 10 to 17, are sleeping in the ACH Emergency Youth Shelter because they have no other place to turn. Frightened but courageous and resilient, many find themselves in a safe and secure environment when it’s needed most. T hey are kids like 15-yearold Anna, who had run away from home and was recovered during a law enforcement raid on a North Texas human trafficking ring. Like one-third of all runaways, Anna was engulfed into the dangerous world of human trafficking within 48 hours of leaving home. She was picked up by the Department of Homeland Security, which then tried to reunite Anna with her mother. Unfortunately, Anna had run away because of the difficult situation at home. Shortly after returning home, Anna left again. Almost immediately, she encountered a member of the ACH Street Outreach team, who began to build a relationship with her and told Anna about the Safe Place program and the Emergency Youth Shelter. Later that same evening—after being approached by yet another human trafficker— Anna decided to seek the safety of a nearby convenience store, with its big yellow and black Safe Place sign out front. A Safe Place counselor from ACH arrived at Anna’s location within 30 Continued on page 20 reACH 13 2013 ANNUAL REPORT 5,689 children were victims of child abuse in Tarrant County in 2013, the third highest number of victims in the state. We’re dedicated to ensuring safety, stability, and a healthy and loving environment for children to grow up in. We advocate for those children that may not have a voice, we provide care and counseling for those who are dealing with life’s unforeseen crises, and we bring hope to those children and families that we serve. 14 reACH 2013 SUMMARY OF SERVICES ASSESSMENT AND REFERRAL SERVICES for 3,400 families PREVENTION AND TREATMENT SERVICES for 2,723 clients Human Trafficking Outreach 24 3,615 Safe Place 60 22,269 Street Outreach Program 221 3,863 Adoption 51 Behavioral Care 23 Campus Respite 14 Community Resource Coordination Group 76 Emergency Youth Shelter 212 Families Together 19 Foster Care 391 Job Preparation Program (formerly CEP) 125 LIFE Project 18 Little Ones 27 Skill Builder Classes 784 Turning Point 27 Wedgwood Residential Program 30 Youth and Family Counseling 594 Assessment, Intervention & Referral Services VOLUNTEER SUPPORT 3,400 Volunteer Hours 4,466 Projects 141 Volunteers 960 Advocate CareHope 27 OUTREACH AND EDUCATION to 29,747 community members Value of Volunteer Hours $104,504.40 ($23.40 per hour) reACH 15 WHO WE SERVED COUNTY OF ORIGIN AGE 78% Tarrant RACE/ETHNICITY 33% Caucasian 66% 13-18 7% Johnson County 6% Dallas County 9% All others 21% 6-12 9% 0-5 4% 19 & up 33% AfricanAmerican 20% Hispanic or Latino 13% Multi-ethnic 1% Asian 2013 FINANCIAL SUMMARY (UNAUDITED) TOTAL REVENUE: $13,129,103 Community Support $1,314,136 Endowment $3,312,000 10.01% 9.48% $1,244,956 Fees for Services/Other 25.23% 11.93% $1,566,093 Trusts 43.35% $5,691,918 Public Grants/Contracts TOTAL EXPENSES: $13,129,103 5% $656,455 Fund Raising 10% $1,312,910 General & Administrative 85% $11,159,738 Programs 2013 PUBLIC GRANTS AND CONTRACTS •Emergency Food and Shelter Program •Texas Department of Family and Protective Services •MHMR of Tarrant County •U.S. DHHS Administration for Children and Families •Mosaic Family Services, Inc. •U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development •Tarrant County Community Development •United Way of Tarrant County To request a full annual report with a listing of 2013 contributors, please contact Tina Casey at [email protected] or 682.432.1120. 16 reACH Choosing to GIVE Volunteering, by its very definition is a choice, and each person who decides to give of their time and talent does so for their own, very personal reasons. Arlington couple Mo and Rob Dorsey say that, for them, it was a confluence of events—including the passing of both of their fathers within four months of one another—that caused them to feel a need to give back. R ob will also tell you that his reasons included a love of baseball and the “Rangers7,” a 2013 promotional collaboration between the Texas Rangers and Papa John’s. Watching a Rangers game one Saturday, Rob heard the announcer say that Papa John’s would offer a 50 percent discount for fans ordering the day after the Rangers scored seven or more runs during a game. The proverbial lightbulb went on above Rob’s head. Already a Papa John’s lover, Rob called his local store and asked if they would allow him to take advantage of the offer and provide pizzas for a charitable purpose. They agreed. Having heard about ACH Child and Family Services during an informational meeting about foster care and adoption, Rob decided to share his idea with ACH Volunteer Services Specialist Stephanie Canfield. Together, they hatched the plan to provide pizzas for the children in the ACH Behavioral Care program and the teens in the Emergency Youth Shelter. The Rangers were doing well, scoring a lot of points last season, and as Rob and Mo repeatedly delivered pizzas to the kids and saw their joy, they inquired if they might arrange an outing. So together with ACH staff and some friends from their church, the Dorseys arranged a day of baseball and hot dogs at Randol Mill Park in Arlington. Later that summer, the group gathered again for a day of kickball and baseball. reACH Just as volunteering is a choice, it is also contagious. After the first outing at Randol Mill Park, a friend of Rob’s offered to spend individualized time coaching each child in batting technique when they hosted the second outing. And a friend of Mo’s decided to become involved, too. When Mo and her friend Tara spend time together, they often knit while they talk. During one such visit, they 17 When children thrive at ACH, it is in no small part because of the work of volunteers who bring all measure of interests, skills, and abilities to their work—directly and indirectly—with the children and teens. You think that volunteering will probably take you out of your comfort zone a bit. But working with the kids at ACH, you realize they are already out of their comfort zone—they never had a choice. decided it would be fun to share their joy, and began teaching a group of teens at the Emergency Youth Shelter how to knit. By trial and error, Mo and Tara found the teens really liked making bracelets and other small items using the “finger knitting” technique. But the best thing about their knitting time was that the teens relaxed and talked with one another, something that ordinarily was not easy due to the level of trauma they had all experienced in life. When asked about their experiences as ACH volunteers, Rob offered, “You think that volunteering will probably take you out of your comfort zone a bit. But working with the kids at ACH, you realize they are already out of their comfort zone—they never had a choice.” Mo adds, “These kids just want to love and be loved.” If you are interested in volunteering, please contact Stephanie Canfield at 682.432.1131 or at scanfield@ ACHservices.org. 18 reACH For a 99-year-old organization, watershed moments are few and far between. September 1, 2014 will be one of those moments for ACH. Here’s a healthy sweet treat to try with your kids from ACH’s own Michelle Cowden. Vegan Flourless Zucchini Brownies Vegan, gluten-free, grain-free, dairy-free, paleo-friendly, and yummy! T he system of foster care in the state of Texas is huge. It involves thousands of people, including judges, advocates, professionals, public and private organizations, and concerned citizens. Nearly 20,000 children per year are involved in foster care statewide, and the program accounts for nearly $400,000,000 in Texas’ annual budget. Unfortunately, the statewide results of this work have been disappointing. Too often, children are placed far away from their home communities, separated from siblings, and moved too many times. Recognizing the need to improve, the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services (TDFPS) launched a landmark effort to bring dramatic, much-needed 1 cup almond butter (or cashew or peanut butter) 1½ cup zucchini (peeled and finely grated) 5 tbsp. maple syrup (or agave or Stevia – if using Stevia start with less because Stevia is sweet) ¹/³ cup cacao or cocoa powder changes. This effort, called “Foster Care Redesign,” has a laser focus on improving results for children. To launch this initiative, TDFPS selected Our Community Our Kids (OCOK), a division of ACH, to conduct the very first urban implementation in the entire state. This project involves the seven counties of Tarrant, Johnson, Parker, Hood, Erath, Palo Pinto, and Somervell, and starting September 1, 2014, every single child in these seven counties needing foster care services will be assigned to OCOK. This system aims to improve outcomes by building a network of committed partners, and by providing strong support, coordination, and accountability to all caregivers. The ¹/³ cup applesauce (or 1 flax egg: 1 tbsp. ground flaxseed meal and 3 tbsp. water. Let sit for 5 minutes before adding) 1 tsp. vanilla extract 1 tsp. cinnamon ½ tsp. nutmeg 1 cup chocolate chips reACH 19 Kids Are Counting on YOU! The job of OCOK is to engage each community to give kids an opportunity to experience a safe and loving childhood. Your help and support are needed as a volunteer at ACH! Whether you tutor, work on craft activities, welcome guests, or have other talents to offer, our kids want your involvement. Three new volunteer opportunities are now available… strength of this approach lies in its ability to advocate for the needs of all 2,400 children in our region who are involved on an annual basis, and to engage local communities in providing a wide range of opportunities for these children. In explaining the idea of the care network, Dr. Gary Buff, President and COO of Our Community Our Kids, explained, “These children belong to our community. The job of OCOK is to engage each community to give kids an opportunity to experience a safe and loving childhood. While good mental health and medical care are critical, other things such as school, sports, arts, cultural events, and community activities are also important; but family connections are the most important of these, in Pre-heat the oven to 350°. Peel and grate zucchini. Put all ingredients in a large mixing bowl and stir until well combined. Pour into an 8x8 glass baking dish. Bake for 30-35 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean. Enjoy! helping children develop the skills and confidence they need to be successful.” Much effort is going into preparing for the first new placements in September. “We are well prepared, and we will always be looking for ways to make the network more complete and to provide innovative ways for children to lead more complete and fulfilling lives,” explained Dr. Buff. In describing how this effort will improve foster care, Dr. Wayne Carson, CEO of ACH Child and Family Services, said, “This project forms one collective voice that can speak for all foster care children in these counties.” Foster Care Fan Club You can provide childcare assistance, help with crafts projects, and provide tutoring while foster parents attend training sessions. Help is needed 1 or 2 times a month. Get on the Welcome Wagon You can help us greet families at the Andrews Family Welcome Center when they arrive for Youth and Family Counseling or Skill Builder Classes. Young Adult Projects College students looking for opportunities to gain real experience and build their resume can help with several projects needing a few committed young adults. Please consider joining the ACH volunteer team! For more information, contact Stephanie Canfield, ACH Volunteer Services Specialist, at [email protected] or 682.432.1131. 20 reACH Continued from page 12 minutes of being notified by the Safe Place hotline and began the process of understanding her situation. That very night, Anna slept safely and soundly at the Emergency Youth Shelter—the only shelter in Tarrant County for homeless, runaway, throwaway, and street youth. While staying in the shelter, Anna received help with her physical and emotional issues, and she was able to continue her schooling. To her counselors, it was clear that Anna was bright and wanted a better life. And they were awed by her courage when Anna stepped forward to help law enforcement identify those who drew her into human trafficking. While the Emergency Youth Shelter provided an immediate refuge, Anna needed a longer-term solution because returning home was not a safe option. Anna’s mom agreed that she should allow social service workers to find another home for her daughter. Due to the ongoing concerns with traffickers, Homeland Security officials recommended Anna be moved to a safe house in a different location, and she agreed. Anna continues to help law enforcement in their efforts to convict the traffickers who took advantage of her, and from time to time, ACH staff members receive updates. She remains secure, is working hard to finish high school, and is planning for the future. Teens like Anna come to the Emergency Youth Shelter as a result of referrals from a variety of sources including school counselors, through Safe Place, and the Street Outreach Program. Under the best of circumstances, these young people and their families receive counseling and support and are reunited. When that is not possible, ACH works to find a solution in the best interests of the teen. ACH donors and volunteers make successes like Anna’s possible. Donations support a significant portion of the annual operating cost of the three interrelated ACH programs supporting runaway and homeless youth. If you are interested in volunteering with or supporting the Safe Place Program, the Street Outreach Program, or the Emergency Youth Shelter, please contact Development at 682.432.1054 or [email protected]. Safe Place is a nationwide program administered in Tarrant County by ACH Child and Family Services that offers immediate help and safety to young people in trouble. reACH Thank You to our 2014 21 Donors January 1 - April 30, 2014 Corporations, Organizations and Foundations Accel Imaging Systems America’s Charities AT&T Employee Giving Campaign Bank of America United Way Campaign BBVA Compass Amon G. Carter Foundation CASA - Hope for Children Cook Children’s Health Care System Covenant Kids CSG Companies Davita Dialysis Region I, II & III Social Workers Esperanza’s Mexican Bakery & Cafe First Grandmothers’ Club, Inc. First United Methodist Church Fort Worth Founder Lions Club Edith Winther Grace Charitable Trust, J.P. Morgan Trustee Hahnfeld Hoffer Stanford Architects/ Planners/Interiors HLC, SR. Investments, LTD KPMG’s Community Giving Campaign Hattie Mae Lesley Foundation LINBECK Group, LLC Lockard Development, Inc. Lockheed Martin AERO Club Mental Health Mental Retardation of Tarrant County MillerCoors LLC Network for Good Optimist Club of Fort Worth Youth Fund, Inc. Paris Coffee Shop The Gary Patterson Foundation PepsiCo Foundation Matching Gifts Program Perrone Pharmacy Reata Restaurant The Roach Foundation, Inc. Rockpointe Church Ryder Charitable Foundation S & K Plumbing of Fort Worth, Inc. Vestal B. Sanders Charitable Foundation, Frost Bank Trustee The Smith Law Firm, P.C. Nancy and John Snyder Foundation Sovereign Grace Baptist Church The Malcolm and Mary Lou Street Charitable Trust Target TD Ameritrade Texas Health Resources Textron Matching Gift Program Tom Thumb Good Neighbor Program United Way of Central and Northeastern Connecticut United Way of Tarrant County The Walsh Foundation Wells Fargo Community Support Campaign Nancy Biggs Lou Ann Blaylock William and D’Ann Bonnell Henry and Becky Borbolla Harvey and Susie Boysen Sol and Sandra Brody Stephen and Harriett Brooks Wayne and Vickie Carson William and Jane Carson Greg and Jan Carter Louise Carvey James and Angie Childers Twila Christy Darryl Claiborne David Covert David Cox Ted Crofford Betty Crow Glenn and Julie Davidson Debbie Davis Jackson Davis George and Susan Dowling Maynard and Laura Dyson The Eidson Family Angela Ensign Joseph Frank Allicia Frye Charlie Galupi and Barbara Clark-Galupi Glenn and Marcia Garoon Karen Gibson Individuals Sean and Bridget Allen Frank and Tasa Anderson Mary Kathryn Anderson Anonymous John and Debra Aughinbaugh Margaret Wall Augustat Jim and Gloria Austin Doris Autrey Steven and Len Baird Karen Haun Barlow Kendra Barnard Bill and Sandy Barnes Thomas and Beth Bergeron Patrick and Hillary Bessinger Nelson Beville Every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of this list. If an error has occurred, please accept our sincerest apologies and let us know of our mistake by contacting Tina Casey at [email protected] or 682.432.1120. 22 reACH Paul and Susan Goelzer Lynne Goldstein Joe and Lillian Greenslade Ray and Coy Harris Virginia Harvey Randall and Liz Hatley Chris Hutton Michael and Amy Jarrard Robert and Patricia Jarrard Christina Judge Barbara Kinard Barry and Leah King Jim and Brenda King Elaine Klos Bob and Sandy Lanier Jody Lanier Kristina L. Mackey Michael and Sally McCracken Judy McDonald James McQuillar Elliot McWhorter Tommy and Erin Miller Meto and Virginia Miteff Robert M. Moon Lynn and Cam Newman Carol Nichols Nat and Lynn O’Day Lynn and Melissa Opheim Jerri Beth Palmer Gary and Kelsey Patterson Peter and Anna Melissa Philpott David and Sarah Proctor Brooks Quinlan Michael and Tamara Reese Joseph and Ginny Reeves Jim and Peggy Rhodes Russell and Deidra Rice John and Leada Richards Jean and John Roach Wayne Schildt Lisa Schuessler Steve and Melisa Schultz Bill and Barbara Shelton John and Jennifer Siehling Laurie Smat Dub and Val Stocker Carla Storey William and Loretta Storey Linda Thomas Patricia Ward Brett Wiesner Lyn Willis Terrance and Marsha Wright Dana Zenor Gifts In Kind Honorariums Accel Imaging Systems All in Good Taste All Saints’ Episcopal School Lower School Anonymous Azle Ave Baptist Church CornerStone Staffing Cousin’s Bar-B-Q, Inc. CSG Companies Ferrell Safety Apparel Kevin and Linda Ford Fort Worth Lodge 124 B.P.O. Elks Fort Worth Zoo FWISD Learning Networks Grace Community Church - Preschool Greater Friendship Missionary Baptist Church Brad and Shandelyne Heinemann Just BeeCause Lake Pointe Elementary Lake Pointe Aces Lake Worth High School FCCLA Lockheed Martin Management Association Meeting Professionals International, DFW Chapter Meridian Bank Texas Metro Mailer One, Inc. Moslah Mystic Wheels New Birth Missionary Baptist Church Lynn and Cam Newman Optimist Club of Fort Worth & Fort Worth Retired School Employee Helen Peters Project Linus - Tarrant County Robert Prychodnik QuikTrip Corporation Michael and Beverly Reilly Edwin and Lori Rheuark Ridglea Presbyterian Ryder Sweet Shop Take Up Thy Cross Ministries Robin Tenney Together We Rise TTI, Inc. United Way of Tarrant County Brett Wiesner Elizabeth Wiggins John and Holley Williams YOTM World Foundation Mr. and Mrs. Ben Barlow made a gift in honor of: Dr. Karen Barlow Mr. and Mrs. Robert Carson, Jr. made a gift in honor of: Mr. and Mrs. Randy Jensen Gretchen Denny made a gift in honor of: Dr. Karen Barlow Dr. and Mrs. O. Z. Helmer made a gift in honor of: Lynn O’Day Parker, Mike and Kim Misamore made a gift in honor of: Topher Wallace Amanda Warner made a gift in honor of: Sundie Ellis Marshall and Susan Young made a gift in honor of: Bailey Family Ginsburg Family Steven Baird Goff Family Kingsbery Baldwin Gorski Family Berry Family Griffin Family Margery Berry R.J. Griffin Family Stephen Berry Hayes Family Mr. and Mrs. Bornitz Herd Family Boschini Family Hillard Family Boswell Family Hodges Family Brants Family Hogg Family Bratton Family Hoover Family Brown Family House Family Brunette Family Hubbard Family Burton Family Hudson Family Closuit Family Hyde Family Cole Family Jones Family Corbett Family Keffler Family Coslik Family Craig Kelly Family Cowan Family Todd Kelly Family Leigh Crates W. Whitney Kelly Family Crawford Family Bryan King Crockett Family Kirtley Family Glenn Darden Family Kleberg Family Thomas Darden Family Kleinheinz Family Davidson Family Kobs Family Davis Family Laughlin Family William Davis Family Levy Family Dike Family Lilly Family Dillard Family Lindsey Family Robert Dupree Brook Lively Dyess Family Maddox Family Judy Eagle Michael Mallick Family Edwards Family Stephen Mallick Family Epstein Family Martin Family Ewin Family Eddie Martin Family Fant Family Matthews Family Felton Family J. Kelly McColm Family Fleet Family Mike McColm Family Fortson Family McLaughlin Family Fraser Family Miller Family Gaffin Family Jeffrey Miller Family Garza Family Montesi Family Gentry Family Moore Family Genua Family Morgan Family Gideon Family Moritz Family reACH 23 Memorials Motley Family Pamela Murrin Myers Family Neely Family Newberry Family Michael Nolan Family Stephen Nolan Family Tim Nolan Family William Nolan Family Norman Family The Parker Family The Parten Family The Patton Family The Paukune Family John Roby Penn, III Pergande Family Philpott Family Pigman Family Porter Family Prioleau Family Pruitt Family Puff Family Purvis Family Rainbolt Family Rajan Family Ray Family Reid Family Ryan Family Win Ryan Family Rynd Family Mr. and Mrs. Philip Schutts Searcy Family Self Family Shoppa Family Mr. and Mrs. Don Siratt, Sr. Smith Family B. Blain Smith Dee Smith Family Stephens Family Stepp Family Gift Planning. Stupfel Family Tabor Family Daniel Tatum and Martha Cox White Family Young Family Thomas Family Turner Family Wagner Family Walsh Family Waltrip Family Williamson Family Phillip Williamson Family Mr. and Mrs. Greg Wilson Woodson Family George M. Young Family George M. Young, Jr. Family Goah Summers Barnes, Jr. Shannon Cooper Mr. and Mrs. Don G. Sanford Sheila Stocker Wynelle Beecher Marshall and Melba Wright Anna Melissa Hogsett “Chissa” Gordon Lou Ann Blaylock Helen Little Dr. and Mrs. Brent Hicks Steve and Melisa Schultz Lisa Lynne Lowrey Mr. and Mrs. Rick Smith Jim Newman Marian Smith Jayme Raymond Mr. and Mrs. Michael D. Magallanes It’s Your Legacy. A crisis can strike any family at any time, and ACH remains steadfast in our commitment to be there when it does. ACH was founded by forward-thinking and innovative women with care and concern for this community’s children and families. What began in the first quarter of the 20th century has grown because of the generosity of bold women and men with similar vision and values. There are many ways to support high-quality services that help youth and families overcome life’s challenges: • Your annual gift has immediate impact. An outright gift is put to immediate use supporting any one of our 18 programs delivered 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. • Your legacy gift through your will/bequest puts your values into action. While taking care of loved ones, you may also designate a perpetual source of income to bring innovative solutions to meet complex child welfare issues here in our neighborhoods and communities. Here’s sample language: “I give to All Church Home for Children Foundation, a corporation having its principal office at 3712 Wichita Street, Fort Worth, Texas 76110, ( )% of my residuary estate to be used for the general purposes of supporting ACH Child and Family Services’ mission.” We will be happy to visit with you and your family about your special interests. Please contact Barbara Shelton, CFRE, at 817.886.7115 or [email protected]. Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID 3712 Wichita Street, Fort Worth, Texas 76119 www.ACHservices.org Join us on /ACHchildandfamily Community Partner P the erfect setting for your perfect day. From our stunning architecture to our full array of amenities, Belltower Chapel & Garden has everything needed to make your dream day come true. With three event spaces at your disposal and an incredible staff of wedding professionals, we are prepared to make your big day perfect from start to finish. 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