The Remarkable Story of Rodney Lavard
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The Remarkable Story of Rodney Lavard
From Scratch The Remarkable Story of Rodney Lavard By Tim Cotroneo Golf became 19-year-old Rodney Lavard’s ticket to college and a new life. Rodney Lavard thought he’d heard it all before. The 19-year old clubhouse attendant at the only golf course in the Turks and Caicos Islands was used to hearing resort talk from vacationers. But what Lavard heard on this day was different. This felt almost cruel. Natives of Providenciales, the most inhabited of the Turks and Caicos Islands, know they shouldn’t take too seriously what a vacationer says while staying for even the shortest period of time near Grace Bay Beach. This stunning 12-mile stretch of white sand and turquoise water can make one a little giddy. Caught up in the sheer beauty of one’s surroundings, an island newcomer tends to say things one normally wouldn’t promise. Vacationers get caught up in the sheer beauty of Providenciales’ Grace Bay Beach. When a golfer from the states said he was going to send Lavard a scholarship application, Rodney flinched. Then Lavard did what he’d always done in the past. He smiled and nodded. The vacationer had no way of knowing how this extreme form of resort talk would hit Lavard like a thunderbolt. The singular thought of going to college was at the very heart of Lavard’s hopes, dreams, and aspirations to get ahead. What if …. But what if the vacationer was telling the truth? What if this resort talk could change Lavard’s life forever? Lavard would soon learn that this lingering exchange was more than just talk. Mere weeks after the scholarship conversation occurred, Lavard was summoned to the Provo Golf Club office. Lavard’s boss handed him a Federal Express package with his Rodney’s name on it. Lavard wasn’t used to receiving mail, let along a Fedex. On the day his life would reach a tipping point, Lavard opened a package with the potential to unleash his dreams. “Inside the envelope was a golf scholarship application for Southern University in Baton Rouge, LA. The first thing I did was look for a map. I had never been to the United States and had no idea where Louisiana was,” Lavard said. Lavard looked up Louisiana on a map after receiving a scholarship from Southern U. The whole idea of a scholarship and going to college came at Lavard like a rush. Lavard wasn’t like every other college kid. If Lavard were to pursue college, there was some unraveling he needed to do. The whole history of Lavard’s tumultuous life would need to get sorted out. Would college even be possible, or was he kidding himself? Humble Beginnings - A Family Torn Apart Rodney Kenny Lavard was born in Haiti’s capital city of Port au Prince in 1976. With an average annual income of around $1000 per year, Haiti’s 9.5 million people toil in an economy that is annually ranked one of the poorest in the world. The financial status of the Lavard family leaned toward the low end of this scale. At the age of four, Rodney’s family was literally fractured in half. In search of work, Rodney’s father moved his wife and four boys with him to Providenciales. Shortly thereafter, Rodney’s parents got divorced. After living for a brief period back in Haiti with his Mom and brothers, Rodney’s grandfather sent him, and his older brother Bobby, back to Providenciales. Rodney would never see his mother again. The Lavards spent the next several years scratching out an existence in Providenciales. For Rodney and Bobby, this time went by like a blur. Rodney’s already tough childhood then took a wicked turn. “We woke up one morning to learn my Dad had left. He moved to Miami in search of construction work. I was 10 years old and Bobby was 12. My Dad’s girlfriend was in charge of taking care of us,” Lavard said. This arrangement lasted for six months. The girlfriend changed her mind about taking care of the boys and she bolted too. Rodney and Bobby were now left to fend for themselves. Two Thoughts Never Left Rodney’s father left two thought-provoking legacies ingrained in his boys’ minds. The most important was “you have to go to school.” The other was to recognize the value of hard work. So the two boys survived in Providenciales while leading what could be considered a dual life. By day, they attended school. After school, they worked construction. The Lavard boys earned $3 per hour in jobs that ranged from mixing concrete, to plastering walls, and laying tiles. This work generated enough cash to pay for what Rodney refers to as a “four by four” shack in the Blue Hills neighborhood of Providenciales. Minus electricity and plumbing, this shack was sturdy enough to withstand Hurricane Kate’s 110-mph winds in the mid 80s. Eventually, a school problem reared its head when a teacher questioned why Rodney’s father never showed for parent conference meetings. One of Rodney’s classmates blurted out, “That’s because Rodney’s father abandoned him two years ago.” The Lavard boys’ situation was forwarded to the Turks and Caicos government, but the island didn’t have foster care at the time. This problem was temporarily averted when Roy Chadband, one of Rodney’s teachers, offered the boys room and board in his apartment. Not much changed for Rodney and Bobby, other than their new address. They continued attending school each day and working construction in the evening. This routine continued until Rodney graduated from Clement Howell High School at the age of 16 in 1992. A Life Changing Choice In 1993, Lavard began applying for jobs throughout Providenciales. Rodney eventually narrowed his job choices to two. In addition to the clubhouse job at the brand new Provo Golf Club, Rodney also applied at an insurance company. Provo Golf Club is the Turks and Caicos Islands only course. “The man at the insurance company said I would never succeed in golf. He said that golf is a white man’s sport. I never cared for someone telling me I couldn’t do something, so I chose the golf job,” Lavard recalled. When Provo (short for Providenciales) Golf Club opened in 1992, the course became a real source of curiosity on the island. Most of the island natives had barely heard of golf. Even most of the ex-pat audience, who had found refuge along Grace Bay Beach, seemed to find the sport foreign. The course’s lush Bermuda grass is what really captivated the attention of most everyone on Providenciales. Golf Hits the Island A short geography lesson reveals that the Turks and Caicos Islands consist of 40 islands and cays, of which only eight are inhabited. The island terrain is mostly limestone and the arid Caribbean climate produces about 25 inches of rainfall annually. The dry climate means that green grass is in short supply in Providenciales. The new golf club and its beautifully manicured lawn became an instant hit for weddings and family events. The second curiosity regarding Provo Golf Club was the sport of golf itself. Shortly after the course opening, golf balls began vanishing from the grounds and the Pro Shop shelves. Peter Boyce, Provo’s first Golf Professional remembers, “I started seeing golf balls showing up on the end of key chains all around town.” Provo Golf Club became a second home to Lavard. Rodney Lavard’s golf career was almost very short-lived. At about the same time Lavard began working at Provo Golf Club, he also secured another job at Grace Bay’s newest resort, Club Med. Lavard’s evening work at Club Med was proving to be both a blessing and a curse for a young man with an eye for the ladies. Lavard’s disc jockey position at Club Med’s nightclub was the ultimate door opener for meeting female guests. But the late nights on Club Med’s dance floor weren’t very compatible for someone who needed to start work at the golf course by 5 am each morning. Boyce, Lavard’s boss at Provo Golf Club, told Rodney that if he didn’t start showing up on time, he would be fired. Lavard found a simple solution to this problem. “After dancing all night at Club Med, I would drive across the street to Provo Golf Club and park my car. I would position myself next to where Peter Boyce always parked his vehicle in the morning. When Peter arrived for work, he would tap on my car window until I woke up,” Lavard said. Lavard would go on to lead Turks and Caicos in international golf competition. Lavard eventually said goodbye to the extra-curricular activities at Club Med and began dedicating himself to working at the golf course. “Rodney was a natural for greeting guests when they arrived at the course. His charm and easy-going personality made him the perfect person for welcoming newcomers and getting them set up prior to a round of golf. Rodney became one of our key people at Provo,” Boyce said. Rough to Fairway The now 6-foot-four-inch Lavard took to the game of golf in a big way. “I gave Rodney some lessons and Tommy Coleman, one of our members, helped Rodney with his short game. After work, Rodney would play golf until dark. Rodney became very good, very fast,” Boyce said. A photo of Rodney with Dot Lyles on campus at Southern U. One day, Craig Owen, a vacationer from Louisiana, arrived at Provo looking for someone to join him in a round of golf. Lavard said he would be happy to accompany Owen. “Craig asked if I was interested in playing a match, for money. I don’t know how to say this politely, but I handed him his ass,” Lavard said. Owen suggested that with Lavard’s talent, he should consider playing college golf. Rodney replied that he’d love to, but money was a problem. Owen countered that there was scholarship money out there, and he had a friend who was a college golf coach. This conversation led to the eventual FedEx package and what to do about filling out the paperwork. Most college kids have parents to assist with the volumes of paperwork that stand in the way of the financial aid process. Lavard didn’t have any parents and there was the complicated matter of his legal residency. Lavard’s college budget wouldn’t allow for fancy golf clothes. Hugh G. O’Neill, an attorney who belonged to Provo Golf Club, took it upon himself to assist Rodney with the paperwork necessary to clear his citizenship and make his application as proper as can be. O’Neill’s assistance included a polite tug on the elbow of John Kelly, Providenciales’ governor and an avid golfer himself. About the same time, Lavard received a phone call from the Southern University golf coach. “When are you coming up so I can watch you play?” Coach Clifton Johnson inquired. “When are you going to send me at air ticket?” the always straightforward Lavard replied. Lavard flew up to Baton Rouge to play golf for Coach Johnson. “My knees were absolutely shaking when I stepped up to the first tee. Luckily, it was so hot that day, my mind started to focus on the heat, rather than being nervous. I ended up playing pretty well,” Lavard said. Lavard graduates Cum Laude from Southern University The news of Rodney Lavard receiving a scholarship and going to college at Southern University soon became the talk of Providenciales. The good news was Lavard was mere days from going to school. But what had yet to be addressed was how Rodney would live while attending school. An Island Shines on a Native Son Dave Douglas, like Boyce, a native of Sarnia, Ontario, took over the reigns as Director of Golf at Provo Golf Club when Boyce moved back to Canada. Douglas recalls the members of the golf club uniting to help Rodney get settled financially before his freshman year in college. After college, Lavard set his career sights on New York City “We organized a fund-raising event called the Flamingo Ball. The ball was held at the Ocean Club resort here in Providenciales. People purchased tickets for a night that would include dinner, followed by music and dancing at the golf course. Rodney danced with everyone that night. I believe we raised $2,000 for Rodney’s college fund,” Douglas said. As fate would have it, once Lavard arrived in Baton Rouge, his life hurdles were far from over. There was a snag with his scholarship and tuition. Suddenly it looked like school would not be a reality. “I called the only people I knew living in the United States,” Lavard said. Those people were his United States sponsors, Framingham, MA, residents Irv and Dot Lyles. The Lyles began vacationing in Turks and Caicos in the late 80s and had befriended Lavard. The Lyles resort talk was more than just talk. “The Lyles told me if I ever needed anything, to call them,” Lavard said. The Lyles wrote a check for $5000 to keep Lavard afloat until his scholarship paperwork was rectified. Lavard and the Lyles never looked back. The always even-keeled Lavard chokes back emotion when discussing the Lyles. “I consider those two people to be my parents. I love Irv and Dot,” Lavard said. During the summer prior to Lavard’s sophomore year, he lived with the Lyles and worked at the Sandy Burr Country Club outside of Framingham. One morning, while he was driving to work, Lavard’s car was hit head-on by a drunk driver speeding down the wrong side of the highway. Lavard remembers staggering from the car while covered in blood. The last thing Lavard recalls is knocking on the door of the nearest neighbor before passing out. Lavard would need 188 stitches to close his wounds before recovering fully. Rodney Lavard would become captain of the Southern University golf team his junior and senior years. Lavard would also graduate Cum Laude with a Bachelor in Computer Science in May of 2001. Following the unlikeliest of paths that began in Haiti, Lavard had moved onward to Turks and Caicos and then upward to Baton Rouge. The now 24-year old Lavard was just getting warmed up. Make it Anywhere With his college success behind him, Lavard’s career aspirations turned big, as in New York City big. Lavard interviewed and was offered employment at Ziff Brothers Investments, a midtown Manhattan private investment firm. Lavard went to work in August of 2001 as a computer programmer. One month after beginning work at Ziff Brothers, Lavard remembers hearing a co-worker make the strangest comment. “Someone said they heard that a plane was witnessed flying over Lexington Avenue in downtown New York. I went over to my 45th floor office window and looked out to see the second plane fly into the Twin Towers,” Lavard said. Rodney finds love in the Big Apple and proposes at Provo. From that point, Lavard remembers walking. He marched down 45 flights of stairs. He continued walking into the city streets of New York. “Normally, with all the people, you have to look straight ahead when you walk on a Manhattan sidewalk. On this day, everyone was looking straight up. It was like people were searching for another plane to fall from the sky,” Lavard said. True to the legacy he learned from his father, Lavard came back to work the next day. He’s been working every day since. Lavard is currently employed at Cerberus Capital Management as a Software Engineer/Project Manager. Lavard’s personal life has also flourished since he made the Big Apple his home. About eight years ago, Lavard met Cassandre Jean, a woman whose grandparents’ roots also trace back to Haiti. Rodney and Cassandre have been together ever since. A Provo Proposal In 2007, Lavard brought Cassandre and her Mother back with him to Providenciales. Cassandre was under the impression that Rodney just wanted company while playing in the Turks and Caicos Amateur Championship. Lavard has competed as one of the island’s top players dating back to 1996. On this particular occasion, Lavard had more than golf on his mind. Rodney and Cassandre return to Grace Bay Beach to get married. “Rodney wasn’t acting like himself for the first several days that we were in Provo. I thought it was because he was so focused on golf,” Cassandre said. On the day before the Caribbean Amateur competition, Rodney revealed why he seemed so preoccupied. Lavard asked Cassandre to marry him at Provo Golf Club, the place where so much good had occurred in his life. Rodney and Cassandre were married in October of 2009. Their Grace Bay Beach marriage was on the boardwalk of the Gansevoort Hotel. In attendance were people from Rodney’s past and present life. These attendees were there to share in the wedded bliss of a man who managed to wring every ounce of good from what life had to offer. Resort Talk – It Can Happen As the song says, regrets, Rodney’s had a few. But then, regrets or hard feelings were never something Lavard had much time for. When asked what he has learned from his incredible journey, Lavard replied, “I don’t dwell too much on the past. I believe that whatever situation I’m put in, I can come out ahead. I have a lot to look forward to in my life.” Whatever Rodney says, there is one thing you can be sure of. It’s the truth. Lavard was never one for resort talk. But then again, no one knows better than Rodney that some resort talk can change one’s life forever. Tim Cotroneo is a freelance writer from Lino Lakes, MN, with a passion for travel and a future Caribbean zip code.