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RSVP only to www.whoscoming.com/SCWN Question? Call Terri Petry 843-369-1556 Coordinated by South Carolina Woman Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 7 Publisher’s Note From the Publisher Terri Petry Terri Petry, Publisher and her Mom, Dee Lewis enjoying tubing on beautiful Lake Martin, AL Is anyone else tired of all the fighting and negative antics of the primary election campaigns? It does not matter if it’s on TV or online or in the paper, it seems at every corner we are being subjected to the bickering and mud-slinging of these candidates. I personally would find ‘taking the high road approach’ refreshing. These candidates must not have been taught the Golden Rule – “To do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. To all the Moms, “Happy Mother’s Day”! I was blessed with a wonderful Mom. She supported her family by working and working her way up for 34 years at the same company. (Unheard of today). She instilled in me an almost insane work ethic (if that’s possible to have an insane work ethic). Thankfully, I love my job, so although I work a lot I love what I am doing. Today my Mother is retired in Delaware. She and her sister, my Aunt Fuzzy, are known on a first-name basis at all the local thrift and consignment shops. I chuckle when I think about all the fun times the two of them are having together in retirement. Happy Mother’s Day Moms! Terri Petry South Carolina Woman Magazine is a monthly publication, distributed throughout Horry, Georgetown, and Marion Counties. All editorial submissions become the property of Cardinal Publishing, LLC. and cannot be returned. The contents of all submissions are for information and entertainment purposes only. This publication accepts no responsibility for the consequences of any actions taken from written or implied information within the contents of this publication. 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Add garlic and cook for 3 more minutes. 2. Remove from stove, transfer in mixing bowl and add mayonnaise, Dijon mustard, lemon juice, cayenne pepper, salt & pepper. Carefully fold in crab meat to preserve lump shape and add panko to firm up consistency. 3. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium heat. When oil is hot carefully place Eric Masson crab cakes, in batches, in pan and fry until browned, about 4 to 5 minutes. Carefully flip cakes and fry on other side until golden brown, about 4 minutes. 4. In medium sauce pan, boil cream and Dijon mustard for 3-4 minutes and set aside. 5. Serve crab cakes with sauce Dijonnaise and garnish with chives or parsley. Recipe from Chef Eric Masson Chef/Owner of The Brentwood Restaurant & Wine Bistro “Low Country French Cuisine” www.TheBrentwoodRestaurant.com Southern Style Weddings without the Plantation Price Chef/Owner, The Brentwood Restaurant & Wine Bistro Little River, SC Crab Cake Dijonnaise "One of the Top Ten Most Romantic Restaurants on the Grand Strand" ~MyrtleBeachRestaurantNews.com~ For 4 people Ingredients: Crab Cake 1 pound lump crab meat, picked free of shells 1/2 medium onion, peeled & finely chopped 1 stock celery, washed & finely chopped 1 tablespoon of finely chopped garlic 1 cup panko or breadcrumbs 2 tablespoon whole grain Dijon mustard 1 cup mayonnaise 1/2 lemon, juiced 2 tablespoon olive oil 1 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper 1 dash cayenne pepper 1 tablespoon of finely chopped chives or parsley Rooms for small or large events Indoor and outdoor site available Ceremony site Full banquet menu Can accommodate up to 200 guests 4269 Luck Ave, Little River, SC 29566 849-249-2601 TheBrentwoodRestaurant.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 9 Osteoporosis in Woman- The Fracture Disease By Dr. Javaid Wani, MD, MSc, PhD, FACP Osteoporosis means “porous bone”. In this condition the bones are extremely light and the structure is so weak and fragile that the bones are at a greater risk of fracture. We are born with relatively flexible bones. Over the younger years, these bones are enriched with minerals and proteins, and they solidify by adulthood (age 25 to 30, called “Peak Bone Mass”). The human skeleton contains 206 bones and it creates a framework around which the body stands. In addition, bone marrow produces various kinds of blood cells. Bones are not supposed to be as solid as rock, as they have to impart some flexibility. It may also be noted that bones are living entities and the bone cells are in constant “make” and “break” mode as most other tissues (called remodeling). The net bone mass is the balance of these two processes (formation and destruction) just as your net balance at the year-end is the difference between what you made and what you spent. As we age, the bones lose the solid matrix (calcium, other minerals and proteins) and they lose strength. This process is true for all men and woman of all races. However, this loss is particularly high in females after they hit menopause as they lose the protective effects of the female hormones from ovaries. However, white postmenopausal females have the highest loss due to many genetic factors. In addition to above factors (white, 10 postmenopausal, female), there are other conditions which increase bone loss: active smoking, excessive alcohol use, steroid use, sedentary life style, family history of osteoporosis, early menopause (female hormone deficiency), early shutting down of ovaries, advanced age, poor nutrition, poor calcium or vitamin D intake, chronic diseases, low body weight, etc. A previous fracture can increase the chances of more fractures. Many diseases like hyperthyroidism, hyperparathyroidism, chronic kidney disease, and type I diabetes cause osteoporosis. Many medications like steroids, excessive thyroid hormone, and methotrexate also cause osteoporosis. Age-related bone loss is called Primary Osteoporosis whereas the loss from other conditions which accelerate bone loss is called Secondary M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Osteoporosis. In the U.S., about 30 million postmenopausal women have osteopenia or osteoporosis. This is primarily a disease of postmenopausal woman but is more common in white female population. Data from 1988 to 1994 showed that among white females older than 50 years, 41% had osteopenia and 17% had osteoporosis whereas these numbers were 28% and 8% of African-American women, respectively, in the same age group. The numbers for Mexican-American females were in between the two groups (37% & 12%). When females lose estrogen, which protects against www.scwomanmagazine.com bone loss, the bone turn over increases. We measure the density of bones by a test called a DEXA scan, or simply bone density scan (not the same as a bone scan, which is used to find a disease in the bone, such as cancer). This density is compared with a young adult woman to assess any expected loss or severe bone loss. This comparison gives a score called “T score”. Minor age-related loss (T score >1.0) is acceptable and needs caution. If the loss is moderate (T score -1.0 to -2.5), it is called osteopenia, and if the loss is severe (T score -2.5 or lower), it is called osteoporosis, meaning severe bone loss. These conditions cause bones to break with low intensity trauma and causes broken bones. There are certain formulae we use to calculate the 10-year risk of major fractures. This helps us to dictate the aggressiveness with which a particular bone loss has to be treated. It is because of this concern, we recommend measuring bone health and treating if any osteopenia or osteoporosis is detected. Unless there is any reason not to take calcium, all postmenopausal females should be on calcium with vitamin D twice a day with meals. In addition, take medications as prescribed by your doctor. Most of these medications help you decrease the bone loss, which in turn helps you build more bone. There are various kinds of treatments: pills by mouth, spray into the nostrils, infusions every 3 months or year, injections every six months, or daily injections. These medications have side effects and the risk of using these medications should be balanced with their benefits. The progress of bone health is reassessed every 2 years or so by repeating a DEXA scan. We recommend all woman age 65 and above to have a DEXA scan done. Woman with risk factors (see above) should have a DEXA scan at much younger age. Osteoporosis does not have any symptoms. That pain in joints and the back is not osteoporosis. Patients usually suffer after a fracture, particularly of hip or spine. Unfortunately, half of the women with hip fractures never had proper care for their bone health. Bone health is as important as many other serious diseases of the body. Osteoporosis also occurs in men and will be covered separately. Please check the Osteoporosis Foundation website for additional information or visit our website (www.strandendocrinology.com) for useful links. Please contact me if you have any questions. Javaid Wani, MD, MSc, PhD, FACP Dr. Javaid Wani, MD, MSc, PhD, FACP EndocrinologistsStrand Endocrinology & Osteoporosis Center (South Strand Medical Center)5046 Hwy 17 Bypass S., Suite# 104, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 Tel: 843-293-9955 FAX: 843-293-9977 www.strandendocrinology.com For information on membership, birthday parties, special events, field studies, or CMSC-TO-GO, visit cmsckids.org or call 843.946.9469 JOIN US ON AN EDUCATIONAL EXCURSION! There is Always something new to discover! www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 11 Zika Virus: How It Affects Children By Dr. Tracy Nelson Magnolia OB/GYN I have seen microcephaly only one time in my career. It was in 1990 and the baby was born to a 19 year old mother. I had to tell this young mother that her baby’s head was much smaller than a normal baby’s head and this prevented the baby’s brain from developing normally. Her baby would likely face life-long difficulties including seizures, intellectual disability, trouble walking or standing, difficulty with speaking, and hearing/vision problems. It was devastating. Now 20 years later, we are preparing for a potential epidemic of microcephaly. The cause of transmission is the mosquito born Zika virus, which has rocked Latin America and is threatening pregnant women and babies of the United States. Most people infected with the virus don’t have any symptoms. If there are any symptoms, women will have two or more of the following symptoms: mild and acute onset of fever, a red, bumpy rash starting on the face and spreading to the body, inflamed eyes or joint/muscle pain. Symptoms usually last from several days to 1 week. Severe disease requiring hospitalization is uncommon and fatalities are rare. Pregnant women can be infected with Zika virus in any trimester. There is no evidence exists to suggest that pregnant women are more likely to contract the Zika virus infection than non-pregnant women, or experience more severe disease due to the pregnancy. Diagnosis is difficult. There is no commercially available test for Zika infection. In other words, if someone suspects they have been infected with the Zika virus, they can’t go to their doctor and get tested like they can for the flu or strep throat. Currently, the only way to test suspected persons is to send a blood sample to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) in Atlanta. The CDC recommends that only certain groups of people need to be tested. This includes symptomatic pregnant women who have recently traveled to areas that have had outbreaks of Zika virus infections. Affected areas include Mexico, South and Central America, and Puerto Rico. Pregnant women who need to be tested are referred to a DHEC lab, have their blood drawn and then that sample is sent to the CDC. Results are usually available within 2 weeks. All pregnant women, who have traveled to affected areas, should 12 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine have serial ultrasound exams. It’s recommended to obtain the first ultrasound 3-4 weeks after exposure or symptoms. The ultrasounds should evaluate the baby’s head size and the presence or absence of intra-cranial calcifications. Follow-up ultrasounds should be performed every 3-4 weeks. At this time, there is no vaccine or specific treatment for this infection. Symptomatic women are supported with rest, fluids and Tylenol. Because there is no specific treatment, the focus is on prevention. Individuals should avoid mosquito bites by covering exposed skin, staying in air-conditioned areas, using screens when outdoors and applying the insect repellent DEET. Pregnant and breastfeeding women and children older than two months older months can use DEET. Pregnant women should delay or avoid travel to areas where Zika outbreaks are ongoing when possible. Unfortunately, it appears that Zika virus can be transmitted sexually. Therefore, men who have traveled to areas of Zika virus outbreaks and have pregnant partners are advised to either abstain from sexual activity or always use condoms for the duration of the pregnancy. Men who have traveled to affected areas and are worried about potential transmission non-pregnant partners, need to consider several factors. Most infections don’t have symptoms and when illness does occur, symptoms are usually mild, so many infected men aren’t even aware they have been infected. After acute infection, the Zika virus persists in semen, but how long it persists is currently unknown. The current recommendations, for men who have traveled to areas of Zika virus outbreaks, are abstinence and/or consistent condom use. At this time, testing of exposed asymptomatic men for the purpose of assessing risk for sexual transmission is not recommended. The appearance and spread of the Zika virus just reminds us, the world is getting smaller and smaller and we need to constantly prepare for the new challenges that we will face. Dr. Tracy Nelson is a graduate of the Yale University School of Medicine and co-founder of Magnolia OB/GYN. She does research in the field of obstetrics and gynecology and is recognized as an expert on women’s health issues. Her special interests include menopause, low-risk obstetrics, and preventative health. Magnolia OB/GYN is a preferred provider for most insurance companies. The practice provides comprehensive obstetrical/gynecological care, including weight management, infertility treatment, bioidentical hormone replacement, and robotic surgery. To schedule an appointment, please call (843) 449- 5848. www.scwomanmagazine.com Weight Loss Defies Aging Wouldn’t it be nice to feel and look younger? By Star Sade Obesity ages us to a great degree only if we have one of its side effects: disordered lipid levels, diabetes, sleep apnea (disordered breathing during sleep), arthritis, and the two most common, altered self-image and high blood pressure. Each of these side effects produces an aging effect that can be much greater than the benefit of weight loss if you don’t have any of these side effects. Thus, obesity itself is not a great ager unless it comes with the side effects (unfortunately over 80 percent of people with a Body Mass Index of over 35 have at least one significant side effect). But if you suffer the side effects, losing the extra weight is a great way to give your Real Age (physiologic age) Makeover a boost. Let’s look at what the benefits would be: • Reducing blood pressure: up to twenty-five years younger • Reducing the risk of arthritis: up to six years younger • Reducing lipids to a normal level: up to six years younger • Reducing the risk of diabetes: half a year younger for each year • Reducing the risk of sleep apnea: three to nine years younger • Increasing physical activity: three to nine years younger • Avoiding negative body image: up to thirty-two years younger I have had the amazing opportunity to see all ages lose weight and increase there overall health. Weight Loss the healthy way DOES NOT exclude anyone. In fact, I have seen many older adults lose weight consistently just as much as the younger adults. All it takes is a willingness to change some things around in your www.scwomanmagazine.com diet... and the weight, no matter what your age will begin to drop off. Call Metabolic Medical Center 84-357-2851 Begin Your Age Defying Journey. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 13 A Woman You Want To Meet Michele Michael By Gale Mulcahy So, you have this certain piece of furniture (it was Nana’s perhaps), it’s older, seen better days, it just doesn’t match your décor anymore but you absolutely love it, so what are you going to do with it? You ‘upcycle’ it, of course! What is upcycle you ask? Well you’re in luck, Michele Michael is an upcycle artist! Her mom was an awesome cook and her dad loved to garden, so she figures being creative is in her blood. Her inspiration comes from nature, flowers and the beach, the colors she uses, the designs she incorporates into each piece making it a one- of-a-kind treasure. She loves to hear the story about the piece and then she starts to create. Born in Queens, raised in Long Island, she was living her life, selling Commercial Real Estate, when hurricane Sandy hit, she lost everything and had to rebuild. Nearly all of the furniture lost in the storm had been painted, distressed, embellished and customized. How could she replace these oneof-a-kind upcycled pieces? Having to create new furniture through upcycling, mosaics and chalky paint she rediscovered her passion! Urged on by her boyfriend, friends and family she took the leap and started Coastal Bohemian in Myrtle Beach. Michele says “I have to be near the coast and I’m a hippy – it’s the perfect name for me.” 14 Michele has two convenient locations where you can view her work, purchase a one-of-a-kind piece or create your own in one of her classes. Studio/Retail location: 4811 Hwy 17 Bypass S, Suite 4 Myrtle Beach Sells brushes, waxes, Chalk Country Paint – a heavy clay base, no primer necessary, can be used on any surface, glass, metal, fabric, wood or Formica. Classes offered: Chalk Country Paint classes, Vision Board Parties, Bridal/Bachelorette Parties, Birthday/Sweet 16 Parties, Graduation, She relocated here in 2014 with her boyfriend, Jason. Their love of the beach and outdoor living had them looking all along the coast for just the right place, checking out Maryland, Virginia, North Carolina and finally here, where they purchased their condo – online, sight unseen! They required a similar landscape to Long Island, close proximity to the beach, with plenty of fishing and crabbing. Although Michele is a licensed realtor here, her passion is in ‘art’. She says she was always too ‘New York busy’ to fulfill her real dream of creating. “I’m in the flow when I’m creating, whether it’s cooking, gardening or upcycling”! She loves to work with custom pieces, using mix-media art and vintage graphics (images). M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Business Retreats, Empowerment Stones Classes, Beginner Upcycling Classes and more….. Showroom/Retail location: Everything Under the Sun Flea Market in North Myrtle Beach at 811 Highway 17 North. Contact Michele @ 631-245-2674 or [email protected] You can find Coastal Bohemian on: YouTube, Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, Blogger, Google+, to view videos and before and after photos of some of her creations. Her Mission Statement: We’re in the business of helping you explore your creative side, we hope it makes your soul sing. www.scwomanmagazine.com Family Safety Hurricanes Nearly every geographic region has its own respective weather related vulnerabilities to prepare for. Our primary weather concern lies with hurricanes. We are fortunate to have gone quite some time without experiencing a storm of disastrous consequence. This “grace” period must not result in a false sense of security. Every household should address its own special needs in developing a severe weather plan. If you have a plan, it is important to review it each year prior to the arrival of hurricane season. Life changes such as the arrival of a new baby, taking in an aging family member or renovations to the home are but a few matters that necessitate special preparations in the event of a major storm. Should you find yourself among those who have yet to establish a severe weather plan, there is an abundance of resources, easily obtained to guide you through the process.The following steps will help get you started. • Weather alert radio • Review insurance policies (keep documents in zip lock bags) • Learn your evacuation routes (consult local media hurricane guides) • Have a plan for pets (most evacuation shelters won’t accommodate them) • Learn the location of your nearest shelter (also available in local media hurricane guides) • Ensure a minimum of one gallon of drinking water, per person, per day for a minimum of three days • Have a flashlight for each family member (old enough to use it) with extra batteries • If you have children, make sure to have activities that require no electricity such as coloring books • Consider special needs for anyone in the household such as oxygen and prescription medications • Ensure an adequate supply of non-prescription remedies such as pain relievers • Prior to an evacuation, be sure your vehicle has properly inflated tires (including the spare) and is full of fuel • Clear gutters, yard debris and excessive tree limbs as well as loose items such as grills and lawn decorations • Withdraw adequate cash in anticipation of ATM’s being down • Back up important computer documents, store documents and discs in safe, dry, elevated locations. • If you anticipate boarding windows and doors, measure and maintain adequate plywood in advance. • Stock a minimum of three days of non-perishable / canned food per person • Keep a well stocked first aid kit • Stock up on baby items such as formula and diapers • Unplug non-essential small appliances Your local sources of news and weather frequently publish annual hurricane guides. Here are some internet resources available for www.scwomanmagazine.com additional information: • American Red Cross – www.redcross.org • National Hurricane Center – www.nhc.noaa.gov • National Weather Service – www.weather.gov/nwr • Horry County Emergency Management - http://www.horrycounty.org/depts/humanserv/epd/index.asp • South Carolina Emergency Management – www.scemd.org • Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) – www.fema.gov The following is a glossary of terms related to hurricanes and severe weather: Watch – Conditions are possible in the prescribed area, typically within a 36 hour period Warning – Conditions are expected in the prescribed area, typically within 24 hours Storm Surge – An elevation in sea level when a severe storm approaches. Tropical Storm – An organized system of strong thunderstorms with well defined circulation and maximum sustained winds of 39 to 73 MPH. Category 1 Hurricane – Minimal damage, sustained winds of 7495 MPH Category 2 Hurricane – Moderate damage, sustained winds of 96110 MPH Category 3 Hurricane – Extensive damage, sustained winds of 111-130 MPH Category 4 Hurricane – Extreme damage, sustained winds of 131155 MPH Category 5 Hurricane – Catastrophic damage, sustained winds greater than 155 MPH NEW BOARD CERTIFICATION DEMONSTRATING HIS COMMITMENT to the treatment of venous disease, Dr. Karl Hubach is the only physician in our area Board Certified in American Board of Venous and Lymphatic Medicine Diplomate and one of only 248 in the country. • Specializing in treatment of Varicose & Spider Veins. • Most services are covered by insurance. • All evaluations and treatments are done by Dr. Hubach in the comfort of the office. • Also offering skin care treatment for rosacea, acne, age spots, spider veins, sun damage, and fine wrinkles. Karl Hubach MD, FACPh, RVT, RPhS American Board of Venous and Lymphatic Medicine Diplomate 4545 Hwy. 17 Bypass Suite A • Murrells Inlet, SC 843-652-5344 (LEGG) FAX: 843-652-0067 www.inletveinspecialists.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 15 Spring and Summer: Seasons of Injury By Richard Owens PT, MS, OCS, Cert. SMT, CWcHP For many people spring and summer mean one thing—time to get off of the couch and enjoy the sunshine. Many of us like to spend that time actively, whether hitting the beach for a game of volleyball, lacing up the running shoes for a jog, or cleats for a game of softball. We love to humble ourselves on one of our many golf courses, or challenge a friend in a tennis match for bragging rights. Whether it’s running a marathon, or just getting out for a walk, this inherent calling to get outdoors also results in a predictable upswing in sports injuries, often caused by doing too much, too soon. Stress fractures, shin splints, patellar and Achilles tendonitis, ITB syndrome, 16 and rotator cuff tendonitis all seem to meteorically rise during the warmer months. These are common overuse injuries that tend to “pop-up” as we attempt to feed our recreational hunger. Sprains and strains of the ligaments and tendons of the ankle and knee, wrist and elbow are also very common sports injuries as we attempt to relive our youth and leave it all out on the field. Over-the-counter or a medically prescribed anti-inflammatory may help some conditions while some, more involved, conditions may occasionally need an injection such as cortisone to effectively resolve. As with any treatment there is a risk of adverse reactions and even rupture in some tendons. Other conditions may respond to braces or straps to decrease tendon load and allow the body to heal on its own. Physical therapy may be ordered by your physician to assist the healing process for your return to the court or streets. While strengthening and stretching appropriately have their benefit and M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine can play a part in the healing process, the often quoted mantra of “no pain, no gain” does not always help with these conditions and can actually worsen the condition if you play through the pain. Stress fractures need rest, typically 6 weeks to recover, possibly wearing a boot for protection. If not it could turn into a more serious issue that requires surgery. Tennis elbow is another common summer injury. Patients feel pain on the outside of the elbow, in the muscles that extend the wrist. The counterpart to this is commonly referred to as Golfer’s elbow and affects the muscles that flex the wrist and is felt along the inside of the elbow. These can plague those who participate in any of the racket sports, golf and/or weight lifting. Both conditions are the result of overuse and cumulative micro-trauma from repetitive wrist extension and flexion with more forceful activities. Shoulders suffer in the summer, too. People are out throwing balls, both true www.scwomanmagazine.com athletes and middle-aged dads playing with their kids. Rotator cuff tendonitis and tears are common in the warmer months. Tendonitis usually responds well to anti-inflammatories and/or cortisone injections and physical therapy, while tears are usually treated by surgical repair. Regardless of the injury, the best treatment is prevention. You can reduce the frequency of injuries by maintaining some degree of health and gradually building yourself up to 100 percent over time. For example pitchers, both young and old, should watch their pitch counts and let their arms rest sufficiently between outings. Fatigue leaves you more susceptible to lazy mechanics and increased risk of injury whereas hydration and good nutrition is key for performance and proper recovery from activities. Runners should give their tissues enough time to recover and closely monitor their shoes for wear. Some experts recommend replacing shoes two to four times per year (depending on factors like mileage and surface), and complimenting their regimen with running on soft surfaces and/or cross-training with non-impact activities, like the elliptical machine, biking and swimming. To some degree, injuries are an unavoidable byproduct of an active lifestyle, but the advantages of being healthy and active far outweigh the risk and incidence of injury. The pull of outside sports in the spring and summer sun will always draw a crowd, as it has for generations before us and is likely to continue generations beyond. We will continue to test our metal with those around us even at the expense of nursing a sore shoulder or knee for a few weeks thereafter. Professional Rehabilitations Services will be there to assist your recovery and get you back in the game. Our therapist will assist you with injury prevention and efficient recovery so you can get back out there and enjoy your summer! At Professional Rehabilitation Services, we treat a wide variety of musculoskeletal conditions using the latest in evidence based therapies provided by highly credentialed physical therapists. In addition to being licensed physical therapists, our providers have additional specialty certifications and training in orthopedics, manual therapy, sports, strength and conditioning, vestibular treatment, and dry needling. We are pleased to announce Professional Rehabilitation Service now offers providers certified in Active Release Techniques for the lower extremity in Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, Myrtle Beach and Little River offices. For further information on this or other related topics you can contact Richard A. Owens, PT, MS, OCS, Cert.SMT, Cert DN, CWcHP (Surfside/Murrells Inlet) (843) 831-0163, Brian P. Kinmartin PT, DPT, MTC, STC, OCS, Cert. DN, CWcHP (Pawleys Island/Murrells Inlet) (843) 2350200, Richard DeFalco, DPT, OCS, Cert SMT, Cert DN, CSCS, CWcHP (Myrtle Beach/Little River) (843) 839-1300, Jill Phelan DPT, Cert. DN (Conway and Little River) (843) 733- 3031. You can also visit our website at www.prsrehabservices.com where you can learn more about the company and even download a referral form for your physician to fill out. You can also call and schedule a free 15 minute consultation at any of our 6 offices! Professional Rehabilitation Services, Inc. Serving the community since 2004 The Outpatient Physical Therapy Specialists Call for a FREE 15 minute consultation NEW LITTLE RIVER LOCATION NOW OPEN We specialize in treating, Sports-related injuries, Orthopedic injuries, Neurological problems, Balance problems, Back & neck pain, Joint-related disorders, Repetitive strain injuries, Post-surgical recovery, Golf injuries Are You Suffering from Pain or an Injury? Don’t let pain or injury compromise your competitive edge.We offer a full range of physical therapy and rehabilitation services to get you back on track. 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Don’t let past experience and tradition limit your vision. Try one or more of these attractive, fun and functional ways to include containers in your landscape, large or small. Add vertical interest to any garden or garden space. Select a large attractive container filled with tall plants like papyrus and canna. Or elevate a small pot on steppers or an overturned pot for added height. Create height with smaller pots and plants by strategically stacking and planting them into a creative planting. Try setting any of these planters right in the garden to create a dramatic focal point. Create a privacy screen or mask a bad view. Use an arbor or other support for hanging baskets and then place a few containers below for an attractive screen.Or create a garden of containers to provide seasonal interest using a variety of plants. Use trees, shrubs, and ornamental grasses for height. Save money by purchasing smaller plants. Elevate these on overturned pots for added height and impact. Mask the mechanics by wrapping the pots in burlap. Then add a few colorful self-watering pots in the foreground for added color and beauty. Fill these with annuals or perennials for additional seasonal interest. Bring the garden right to your back door for ease of harvest and added entertainment. A self-watering patio planter, windowbox, or rail planter reduces maintenance and makes harvesting herbs as easy as reaching out the window or backdoor. Plus, guests will have fun harvesting their own fresh mint for mojitos or greens for 18 their salads. Define outdoor living spaces within your landscape. Use containers as walls and dividers to separate entertaining and play areas from quiet reflective spaces. And consider using pots with built in casters or set them on moveable saucers to make moving these pots easier. This way you can expand and shrink individual spaces as needed simply by moving the pots. Create your own vacation paradise. Use planters filled with cannas, bananas, palms and New Zealand flax for a more tropical flare. Add some wicker furniture to complete the scene. Or fill vertical gardens, an old child’s wagon, metal colander or wooden and concrete planters with cacti and succulents. Add some old branches and large stones. You’ll feel as though you’ve hiked into the desert. All you need is a bit of space and M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine creativity to find fun new ways to put containers to work for you in the garden this season. Nationally known gardening expert, TV/radio host, author & columnist Melinda Myers has more than 30 years of horticulture experience and has written over 20 gardening books, including Can’t Miss Small Space Gardening. She hosts the nationally syndicated Melinda’s Garden Moment segments which air on over 115 TV and radio stations throughout the U.S. She is a columnist and contributing editor for Birds & Blooms magazine and writes the twice monthly “Gardeners’ Questions” newspaper column. Melinda also has a column in Gardening How-to magazine. She has a master’s degree in horticulture, is a certified arborist and was a horticulture instructor with tenure. Her web site is www.melindamyers.com. www.scwomanmagazine.com Body Mass Index and Waist Circumference as Indicator of Your Health By Dr. Kevin M Sattele Two-thirds of the people in this country are either overweight or obese and many health issues are related to our weight. Obesity is now the number one cause of liver disease in this country and soon to be the number one cause of liver transplantation. Overweight and obese people are also at risk for diabetes, high blood pressure, reflux, heart disease, joint disease, breathing problems, stroke and multiple cancers including breast, colon and prostate cancers. Not only is this costly to each of us on a physical level but it is also very costly financially. The American Diabetes Association estimates the total costs of diagnosed diabetes in the U.S. has risen to $245 billion in 2012. About 90% of the diabetes in this country is type 2 diabetes which is typically related to weight and body fat. Most of this could be eliminated with proper diet and exercise. This all starts with knowing if you are at risk based on your body mass index (BMI) and waist circumference. These are two measures that can be used as screening tools to estimate your weight status in relation to your potential for disease risk. BMI is calculated from your height and weight (weight in kilograms divided by height in meters2) and is a good estimate of body fat in most people. The higher your BMI, the higher the risk for certain diseases related to obesity. Normal BMI is considered to be less than 25. Between 25 and 30 is overweight, 30 and above is obese and 40 and above is morbidly obese. The healthiest BMI based on medical studies is 22 and this is our goal for most of the patients we see at our offices. Although BMI does tell us a great deal about our risk, it doesn’t tell us much about muscle mass or fat distribution. Measuring waist circumwww.scwomanmagazine.com ference is a simple means of assessing levels of visceral fat which is potentially more harmful. More visceral fat typically means more risk for the harmful diseases mentioned above. Waist measurements associated with obesity are 40 inches in men and 35 inches in women. The healthiest waist circumference is 34 inches in men and 28 inches in women. Your true risk for diseases related to obesity can best be described by measuring both BMI and waist circumference. Once you know this, you can get to work on getting the weight off to be healthy again. With our weight loss programs we can easily help you get the weight off quickly and safely all while eating real food. Even 10 to 20 pounds of weight loss can get rid of diabetes, high blood pressure, reflux, sleep apnea and joint/back pain. We have seen just about every possible scenario when it comes to dieting. We have all the tools and materials needed to get you the results you need to reach your weight loss goals regardless of whether you need to lose 20 pounds or 200. If you or someone you know needs to lose weight and can benefit from one of our weight loss programs, simply give our office a call at 843-491-4811 and schedule to come in for a free, no-obligation consultation to discuss our Rapid Weight Loss & HCG Weight Loss programs. We have helped thousands of people just like you lose weight and regain their shape and improve their health. Rapid Weight Loss & Esthetics Centers www.RapidWeightLossCenters.com Florence ~ Hartsville ~ Murrells Inlet ~ North Myrtle Beach See our ad on page 5 Twice As Nice Consignment Time for a Change? Bring us your unwanted furniture and go home with something New for You!! Ask about our Senior Special of the Day!! Fantastic selection of Furniture • Clothing Jewelry • Mirrors • Pictures • Home Decor 6417 Dick Pond Road Over the Draw Bridge! 843.236.2362 • www.twiceasnicemyrtlebeach.net Established 1993 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 19 When you read this article, May will be here. Do you know what that means? Mother’s Day and graduations. I have both big days on the same weekend this year. My middle child graduates from college the day before Mother’s Day. I need to buy some waterproof mascara before I fly to Nashville, because I’ll probably be a mess. So many emotions; so many answered prayers, so much gratitude. As I anticipate these days, I reminisce about the lessons I have learned through the years – in the good times, hard fought battles and victories won at nearly the last moment. Principles which I cling to even now with great certainty because they have served me well. As a mother of three, I don’t have to tell those of y’all who have more than one child...one of them usually has a situation which tugs at your heartstrings. Am I right? As I was writing this article, two of my nearly grown kids had asked for my prayers, so I went to our weekly healing service at church. It is held in a place so dearly loved and familiar to me - a beautiful, historic stucco chapel. If its walls could talk, they would recite the volume of heavenly requests I’d spoken during my early marriage when I was trying to be a mom...with no success. If the kneelers could speak, they would tell of the tears which flowed so freely, year after year, as I bent down to plead one more time for the privilege of hearing that word attached to mine: Mom. But as I reminisced about all of this, I realized that even back then I understood just how important my attitude and reactions were during those hard times in life. Just then God reinforced that memory as if to say, “Keep doing that”. Here’s what happened. I sat in the pew pondering those prayer requests from my children. From the depths of my soul, I asked God for a word from Him. Some kind of providential message that the Calvary was coming (no pun intended). The service flowed on, but no words for me. Until the end. Then I heard the Lord say so clearly what He had shown powerfully in my life time and time again. “When you don’t understand what I am doing, you trust who I am”. That assurance settled peacefully in my soul as my mind scrolled down the memories. Each specific instance of His past faithfulness. Of the many occasions where He had proven the power of His character while I waited for the evidence of His work. Of situations which showed only in hindsight how He had been working all along during my times of waiting. Examples where I hadn’t seen any action only because He was busy lining up all the players and positioning them in just the right way before He moved. During my daughter’s nearly fatal childhood illness and then later in my own cancer battle, I understood that dwelling on anything but the goodness and faithfulness of God would bring me down. If I let my thoughts linger on the facts of the situation, I could easily be overwhelmed. If I made a cozy nest of my spiraling feelings, I would be stuck in that fear or worry far longer than I wanted. But when I resisted focusing on my present hard circumstances and instead let my mind replay all the past times when God had changed situations or overcome obstacles for me, my heart was lifted. If I concentrated on the things I knew about God rather than the things I didn’t know about my future, I had hope. A hope proven true in every instance of my life. Which is why my conviction that God is always good and ever faithful trumps any variable that might come along for me. Because I waited so long to be called Momma, I am a fierce one. I cherish and fight for my children with every fiber of my being. But my love and care for them doesn’t hold a candle to the extravagant, unsurpassed love of our heavenly Father. His love is unconditional, unchanging and all-knowing. He not only has the very best plans for each of them, He has the knowledge of every future day in their lives, every decision they will make, every unexpected occurrence. So His wisdom far exceeds mine, and I’m thrilled with that! But even more, I choose to rest in that fact, even when my human mother’s heart is brimming with uncertainty. I have faith that He understands it all. And that is enough. My prayer for every mother who reads this article is that each of you know this peace of placing your children, whatever their age, in the very capable, loving, faithful hands of God. His love is fiercer than even a mother’s love. And that is the very best message we can ever receive. Join Linda at her website: www.lindagrabeman.com or by email: [email protected] 20 www.scwomanmagazine.com No Prissy Shoes Fiercer Than a Mother’s Love By Linda Grabeman May 2016 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Purchasing Home Insurance Knowledge By Marie A Young All Sufficient Insurance You Need Home Insurance Homeowners need to purchase insurance to protect their homes and personal property. Tenants need insurance to protect their furniture and other personal property. Everyone needs protection against liability for accidents that injure other people or damage their property. Decide How Much Coverage You Need The better your coverage, the less you will have to pay out of your own pocket if disaster strikes. It is important to note that the amount of coverage you buy for your house, contents, and personal property will affect your cost. Compare Deductibles The deductible is the amount you have to pay out-of-pocket on each claim and applies only to coverage on your house and personal property. Make sure when choosing a policy that you are comfortable paying the deductible if you make a claim. Higher deductibles may be available at a reduced price. Replacement Cost or Actual Cash Value Insure your home and belongings for replacement cost. Replacement cost is the amount it would take to replace or rebuild your home or repair damages with materials of similar kind and quality, without deducting for depreciation. It is important to insure your home for at least 80% of its replacement value. Shop Around Before You Buy You are not required to purchase insurance from the company your lender recommends. There are a number of unbiased sources available to find out what different insurers charge for identical products and services. Ask Your Agent About Discounts Some companies offer lower prices for such things as insuring your home and car with the same company, installing deadbolt locks or alarm systems, or replacing the roof. Basic Coverages Available Whether you own or rent, there are different packages of home insurance offered to protect your home and belongings. Each package protects against a specified number of events that cause damage to property, such as fire, windstorm, and theft. In addition, each package policy usually contains four additional types of coverage: additional living expenses, medical payments, personal liability, and property damage. Read Your Policy Carefully You should be aware that a home insurance policy is a legal contract. It is written so that your rights and responsibilities, as well as those of the insurance company, are clearly stated. When you purchase home insurance, you will receive a policy. You should read that policy and make certain you understand its contents. Keep your policy in a safe place and know the name of your insurer. Review Your Home Insurance Needs Every Year Check with your insurance agent at least once a year to make sure your policy provides adequate coverage. The addition of a room, new insulation, or remodeling add value to your home and, therefore, may increase replacement cost. For more information call All Sufficient Insurance 5023 Dick Pond Rd Ste 2, Myrtle Beach Phone 843-445-7888 • Fax 888-503-2558. Protecting Your Family at a Price You Can Afford Home | Auto | Business | Workers Comp | Flood | Wind Boat | Motorcycles | Campers | ATV | Mopeds All Sufficient Insurance www.scwomanmagazine.com 843-445-7888 5023 Dick Pond Road Ste. 2 Hablamos Español Myrtle Beach • SC South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 21 May Is National Asthma and Allergy Awareness Month By Mark Schecker, M.D. Coastal Carolina Allergy and Asthma Associates The month of May is National Asthma and Allergy Awareness Month. Asthma now affects almost 25 million Americans and the prevalence of Asthma continues to rise worldwide although the exact reason for this remains unclear. Asthma is one of the most common chronic conditions in children and a top cause of school and work absences for children and adults. It leads to significant numbers of hospitalizations, pharmacy costs and even deaths. With proper care and attention much of this is completely avoidable. Asthma is a disease characterized by chronic inflammation of the bronchial tubes of the lungs through which air moves in and out. These airways become swollen and the muscles in their walls tighten when exposed to certain triggers resulting in typical symptoms such as wheezing coughing, chest tightness and shortness of breath. Having a family history of allergies or asthma makes it more likely that an individual will develop this condition. Most individuals with asthma have allergies and this is especially true for children. Characteristic allergenic triggers of asthma include dust mites, mold, pet dander and pollens. Non-allergenic asthma triggers are cigarette smoke, weather changes, cold air and pollution. When asthma is suspected it is a good idea to see an allergist who specializes in the diagnosis of allergy and asthma. An allergist can diagnose asthma by taking a thorough medical history in conjunction with testing that can identify underlying triggers that will help you avoid them. Breathing tests can also be performed to help to evaluate lung function and determine the level of asthma severity. Asthma in children should be suspected if coughing is constant or made worse by viral infections, cold air or interrupts sleep. In addition, a younger child may complain of chest pain or become easily fatigued, avoid sports or social activities or just quit playing. Infants may have problems feeding. Treatment for asthma must be individualized since asthma may differ in terms of severity, triggers and prognosis. Although there is no cure for asthma, with effective treat22 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine ment and management asthma can be controlled. This involves the development of a personalized asthma control plan with the allergist’s assistance. These written instructions guide each child or adult to make specific changes including avoidance of triggers, the proper use of the best and safest medications; when to call their doctor; or even when to go to the hospital. This powerful tool takes all the guesswork out of how an individual can manage their disease – empowering them to be in charge of their own condition. Asthmatics that follow an Asthma Control Plan, in general, tend to have better control overall resulting in less frequent and less severe exacerbations. It is also important to know that those with asthma are at risk of developing complications from respiratory infections like influenza and pneumonia, making it imperative that they are vaccinated on a regular basis. With successful treatment all children and adults with asthma should lead normal productive lives with few if any limitations. Dr. Schecker, a Board Certified Allergist, is the founder of Coastal Carolina Allergy & Asthma Associates. He is a Certified Take Shape For Life Health Coach, a COPE Certified Health Coach, the co-founder of the Myrtle Beach Marathon and the founder of Camp Airwaves (a camp for children with asthma). Dr. Schecker has been recognized as the “Allergist of the Year” by the Myrtle Beach Herald (2005-2014). www.scwomanmagazine.com May is Better Hearing Month! By Jennifer Reed and Kayla Bracey Better Hearing and Speech Month (BHSM) was founded in 1927, by the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA). The aim of BHSM is to raise awareness about hearing and speech problems, encouraging people to analyze their own hearing and speech, and to take action if they think there might be a problem. Treatment can then be given to improve the quality of life in people with communication problems. On May 21, 1986, President Ronald Reagan issued a formal proclamation designating May as the official month to “heighten public awareness” about hearing loss and speech disorders. His proclamation is as follows: NOW, THEREFORE, I, RONALD REAGAN, President of the United States of America, do hereby proclaim the month of May as Better Hearing and Speech Month, and I call upon the people of the United States to observe this month with appropriate ceremonies and activities. (Proclamation 5486, May 21, 1986). Ronald Reagan is one among many famous people with hearing loss. Another is Helen Keller. In fact, Helen Keller once said that of all her sensory deprivations, she most missed her ability to hear. She noted that while blindness kept her separate from things, hearing loss separated her from people, and human connections. Did you know? About 34 million Americans have hearing loss – that is 11% of the population. Further, the number of Americans with hearing loss has doubled over the past 30 years as younger people experience hear- www.scwomanmagazine.com ing loss due to noise exposure, and, as Baby Boomers age. Recent studies show that neglecting hearing loss can accelerate its progression; while correcting hearing loss with hearing aids can keep hearing impairment from getting worse. It’s time to have your hearing checked! Over the years, Better Hearing Month has successfully convinced many people to have their hearing tested! Hearing aids help over 90% of hearing losses, and, firsttime hearing aid wearers report satisfaction ratings exceeding 90%. Hearing aids can help you: • Understand speech in both quiet & noisy situations • Fully enjoy phones, TVs, computers & stereos • Hear sounds in the world around you • Remain safe & independent • Feel less stress & fatigue due to straining to hear Call today for your free hearing evaluation! Hearing by Design 843-272-1486 802A 13th Ave South, North Myrtle Beach. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 23 Non-Surgical Hemorrhoid Removal Andrew Pearson, M.D. Gastroenterologist Strand GI Endoscopy Center No one likes to talk about hemorrhoids and even fewer seek help to treat this painful condition. Indeed, from the sparse information on hemorrhoids in magazines and newspapers, one might think that hemorrhoids are rare. Actually, hemorrhoids may be one of the most prevalent ailments in the United States. In fact, more than half of the US population develops hemorrhoids by the age of 50! It has been suggested that diets, rich in processed food and lacking in fiber, contributes to hemorrhoids. The style of modern toilet, unfortunately, encourage straining. Other factors that contribute to hemorrhoids include aging, heredity, bouts of diarrhea, and the use of laxatives. For women, pregnancy is often a factor as the fetus puts pressure on the hemorrhoidal veins. External hemorrhoids Rectal pain occurs mainly with external hemorrhoids. Blood may pool under the skin, forming a hard, painful lump. This is called a thrombosed, or clotted, hemorrhoid. You might also notice streaks of blood on the toilet paper after straining to pass a stool. Internal hemorrhoids The most common symptom of internal hemorrhoids is rectal bleeding. You may find bright red streaks of blood on the toilet paper or bright red blood in the toilet bowl after having a normal bowel movement. Blood also may be visible on the surface of the stool. 24 Other symptoms of internal hemorrhoids may include: • Itching. This is a frequent complaint, because internal hemorrhoids often seep mucus, which can irritate the anal skin and cause itching. •Skin irritation. Large hemorrhoids that bulge from the anus may secrete mucus, causing mild irritation. • Discomfort. You may still feel the urge to pass stool right after having a bowel movement. This uncomfortable feeling is caused by the bulging of the hemorrhoid in the end portion of the large intestine (anal canal). In general, the larger the hemorrhoid, the greater the discomfort. • Pain. Most internal hemorrhoids are not painful. But large hemorrhoids that bulge from the anus may become painful if they swell and are squeezed by the muscles that control the anus. Treatment Options Over the years, a number of treatments have been devised and used to treat hemorrhoids. Most of the time, treatment for hemorrhoids involves steps that you can take on your own, such as lifestyle modifications but sometimes medications or surgical procedures are necessary. For persistent bleeding or painful hemorrhoids, your doctor may recommend another minimally invasive procedure. These treatments can be done in your doctor’s office or other outpatient setting. Rubber band ligation or CRH O’Regan System™. Rubber band ligation is the non-surgical removal of internal hemorrhoids. It is the most effective minimally invasive procedure for reducing hemorrhoids symptoms and their removal. This approach is performed to eliminate existing painful hemorrhoids, associated with persistent M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine bleeding that usually contain blood clots. Rubber band ligation is a procedure in which the internal hemorrhoid is tied off at its base with rubber bands, cutting off the blood flow to the hemorrhoid. Treatment is limited to 1 to 2 hemorrhoids at a time. Additional areas may be treated at 2-week intervals. No prep, anesthesia or hospital stay is required and most patients can return to normal activity the same day. How Well It Works Rubber band ligation works for about 7 to 9 out of 10 people who have it. People who have this treatment are less likely to need another treatment compared to people who have coagulation treatments. About 1 out of 10 people may need to have their hemorrhoids surgically removed. But surgery is more expensive, requires longer recovery times, and has a greater risk of complications. Not all doctors have the experience or the equipment needed to do rubber band ligation. This may help you decide which procedure to choose. This procedure treats all grades of internal hemorrhoids without surgery and with minimal pain. You may also visit our facility, Strand GI Endoscopy website, for additional information, www.strandgastro.com. Click on the News Link tab. Scroll down to CRH Medical Corporation | O’Regan System. If you have been diagnosed with internal hemorrhoids and would like to discuss this procedure, please contact one of our physicians: Dr. Gary Vukov, Dr. Timothy Cornnell, Dr. Andrew Pearson, Dr. Kathleen Raynor Cardiology/Gastroenterology, 945 82nd Parkway, Ste 3, Myrtle Beach, SC 29572 843-449-3381. www.scwomanmagazine.com simplify 101 How to Organize Your Spices in Four Simple Steps By Aby Garvey, organizing and productivity expert at simplify 101 Taking on a spice organization project is a quick way to add a dash of organizational bliss to your kitchen. Toss in a new spice storage system, add some labels, and suddenly making dinner is a pinch easier and a dash tastier than before! Here’s how to organize your spice cabinet in four simple steps. Step 1: Sort Select a sorting scheme for your spices, such as alphabetical, sweet and savory, regular use and specialty use, or individual spices versus spice blends. Sort your spices in a way that will make them easier to access while cooking or baking. Once you’ve selected your sorting scheme, pull all of your spices out of your spice cabinet or drawer, and start sorting. Step 2: Edit If you discover you have four jars of basil or caraway seed from the early ‘90s, now is the time to edit. Pitch expired spices, consolidate halffull bottles, and donate unopened and unneeded spices to your local food pantry. Step 3: Store Next, evaluate your spice storage system. Does it allow you to easily see and access your spices? If not, consider upgrading with a new spice organizer. Start by considering the primary storage www.scwomanmagazine.com location for your spices (cabinet, drawer, or counter) and then seek out a spice organizer that will keep your spices in sight and in-reach. For example, if your primary storage location is a cupboard, consider using a lazy Susan or a door-mounted spice rack. If you store your spices in a kitchen drawer, look for a drawer organizer designed for spices. Finally, if you keep your spices on the kitchen counter, a spice rack or lazy Susan is a terrific option for you. Step 4: Label If your storage arrangement doesn’t make it easy to distinguish your basil from your bay leaves, add labels. If you’re using a lazy Susan, you could add labels to the side of the turntable. Or, if you store your spices in a drawer, it could make sense to label the tops of your spice bottles. Add labels if it will make it easier to find your spices or put them back in the right spot after cooking. All that’s left to do now is stand back and admire your freshly organized spices—and, of course, enjoy them in your For more organizing tips, go to www.simplify101.com. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 25 But My Last Dentist Said... By Jeffrey W. Horowitz, DMD, FAGD Have you ever become concerned with a difference in opinion from two dentists? If so, rest assured you are not alone. In fact, if the same patient walked in to three different dental offices for a comprehensive exam, they would likely receive three assessments that varied to some degree. While large cavities, infections and gum disease would probably be noted Let's do this together! YOU CAN DO IT! • Lose Weight and Keep it Off (proven results for 15 years) • Gain Energy (regain youthful energy) • Reduce Health Care Costs (lower chance of diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease) WE OFFER • Support and Guidance (you’re never in this alone) • Affordable Programs (something for all budgets) • Physician’s Speciality Care (weight loss is all we do) Metabolic Medical Center Look Great. Feel Great. www.mmcdiet.com 4017 Hwy. 17 Bypass • Murrells Inlet, Myrtle Beach 843.357.2851 26 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine by all, there would perhaps be some discrepancy with regard to smaller cavities, earlier stages of gum disease and recommended treatment. What I hope to accomplish with this article is to explain the factors that influence a dentist’s diagnosis and treatment (It’s not what you think), why differences of opinion occur, and the importance of trust within the doctor/patient relationship. So what are the factors that influence the diagnosis? The first consideration has to be the dentist’s education. Not just what year and what dental school, but what did that dentist do for continuing education after school. For example, prior to the 1980s dentists were not exposed to light-cured composite (tooth colored filling) materials. They didn’t exist yet. They also did not have the benefit of research and medicines for early, conservative, non-surgical gum therapy. Does this make an older dentist a bad choice? Absolutely not! It just means that you should know that your dentist makes an effort to keep up with current research and techniques through continuing education. Let’s assume you have made a visit to the dentist for your regular check-up, and while the dentist is poking around with his explorer he or she finds a tiny sticky spot on the chewing surface of your molar. A dentist who is not well educated in the more modern bonding techniques might decide to “keep an eye on it for a while.” Why? Silver fillings need bulk to be strong enough to support biting. Dentists have always hated removing healthy enamel and in this case, an amalgam (silver filling) dentist would have been forced to remove healthy tooth structure in order to create a strong filling. Since composite bonds to the tooth, it does not need to be as thick for strength. In this same situation, a dentist well versed in composite bonding would probably recommend restoring the tooth, removing only diseased enamel while protecting the tooth from additional damage. My point is not to argue about materials, but to mention that where most patients would perceive the first dentist as honest and conservative and the second as greedy and aggressive, the fact is that both dentists had the patient’s best interest at heart. In fact, one could argue that the second dentist was indeed more conservative. With the vast array of continuing education opportunities, many general dentists have been able to hone their skills and knowledge in some specialized areas of dentistry. From the study of Orthodontics (tooth movement) to www.scwomanmagazine.com occlusion (biting and chewing), TMJ disorders, Aesthetics, Endodontics (root canals) and Periodontics (gum care), dentists have had the ability to develop their own opinions and practice philosophies based on their education. With this additional knowledge comes the ability to offer more answers for more complex problems, and sometimes new answers to old problems. So it is possible, and even likely that the same dentist may change his opinion on a given issue from year to year. Technology also plays a large role in diagnostic abilities and treatment recommendations. Dentists cannot diagnose what they can’t see. Without high quality x-rays, dentists are not able to diagnose early cavities between the teeth. This explains why sometimes a visit to a new dentist reveals new cavities, particularly if the previous dentist had not taken x-rays recently. New digital radiography allows dentists to adjust the quality of the x-ray images to have a better chance of detecting problems. Likewise, laser cavity detectors have helped dentists increase their early cavity detection rate from around 70 percent accuracy to over 90 percent. These technologies can be both a blessing and a curse for a dentist seeing a new patient; A blessing because we have the ability to detect and treat tooth decay in its earliest stages while conserving healthy tooth structure, but yet a curse, as any discrepancy from what their last dentist told them can lead to mistrust or skepticism. Many new choices in treatment have been provided with advances dental technology. Single appointment ceramic inlays and onlays have given us a long lasting proven alternative to silver and composite filling material. It is more expensive at first but the difference is made up in the longevity of the restoration. Is it right for every tooth? Probably not, but it is a good choice for many. A choice means that the patient is actively involved in the decision making process. In order to make a choice, the patient must ask questions and receive answers. Answers lead to knowledge, and knowledge leads to the power of being able to make an informed decision. We are very fortunate to be living in an era of medical and dental renaissance. With change, differences of opinion are bound to arise. The key is that you as the patient feel comfortable that all of the options are given to you. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, and don’t be afraid to ask your dentist what he or she would want done if they had the same problem. While every dentist may not agree on every issue, the overwhelming majority want what is best for your dental and over-all health. Dr Horowitz is a 1991 graduate of The www.scwomanmagazine.com Medical University of South Carolina, College of Dental Medicine and completed a General practice residency at the Mountainside Hospital In Montclair, N.J. He is a Fellow of the Academy of General Dentistry as well as a member of the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, the American Orthodontic Society, The American Dental Association, The Dental Organization for Conscious Sedation, and The American Academy of Dental Sleep Medicine. He is the founder of, and practices at the Carolina Center for Advanced Dentistry at 1515 9th Ave., Conway, S.C. He can be contacted at (843) 248-3843 or via the practice website. www.carolinacosmeticdental.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 27 miraDry anesthesia is administered to the underarms prior to the procedure to maintain comfort. Your office visit appointment will generally last about an hour. Two procedures spaced three months apart are required to maximize the results and duration. What happens after the procedure? There is minimal to no downtime following the procedure. Your doctor will likely recommend a mild over-thecounter pain medication and use of ice packs for a few days. You should be able to return to normal activities or work right after the procedure, and you can typically resume exercise within several days. Some localized soreness or swelling is normal, and typically clears within a few weeks. Some patients have short-term altered sensation in the skin of their underarms or upper arms, which gradually disappears. Benefits of the miraDry procedure: CHANGING LIVES…FOR GOOD! Submitted by DermaVogue Underarm sweat...for some, it’s a nuisance. For others, a huge bother. For all, there is a solution. Would you rather not think about underarm sweat? Are you tired of antiperspirants? Have you ever an embarrassing “sweat moment” at the worst possible time? If so, DermaVogue has a lasting solution. The miraDry procedure is quick and non-invasive. The miraDry System delivers precisely controlled energy to the region where the underarm sweat glands reside, and eliminates the sweat glands non-invasively. Because the sweat glands do not come back or regenerate after treatment, the results are lasting. And, results are fast – you can expect to see sweat reduction immediately after treatment, with minimal to no downtime. Dramatic sweat reduction without the use of harsh chemicals, toxins or surgery The miraDry procedure uses the only non-invasive technology that is FDA cleared and clinically proven to dramatically reduce sweat and provide lasting results. Now there is a lasting solution to sweat control that doesn’t use harsh chemicals, toxins or surgery. What is the procedure like? The procedure involves no surgical incisions or cuts. The clinician customizes treatment for each underarm area with multiple placements of the miraDry handpiece. Local 28 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine • Immediate and dramatic reduction of underarm sweat • Long lasting results • Non-invasive, in-office procedure with little to no downtime • No need for ongoing treatments • Reduces the need for antiperspirants How long will the results last? The results are lasting because the sweat glands do not come back or regenerate after they have been eliminated. The miraDry procedure uses a safe, non-invasive technology that is FDA cleared to eliminate sweat glands in the underarm. Don’t I need my underarm sweat glands? Your body contains over 4 million sweat glands, with only about 2% located in the underarms. Eliminating this 2% will not affect the body’s ability to cool itself. How is the miraDry procedure different from other treatment options? Other treatment options are designed to temporarily disable the sweat glands, or involve surgery which contains inherent risks. Only the miraDry procedure provides a lasting solution with a non-invasive treatment. Is the miraDry procedure right for me? If embarrassing underarm sweat outbreaks, stained clothing or frequent antiperspirant application interfere with your daily life, then you may be a good candidate for the miraDry procedure. Don’t suffer with embarrassing sweat marks on your clothes any more! Call DermaVogue in Garden City 843-357-2444 or visit us online at [email protected]. www.scwomanmagazine.com Homespun Craft Mall…..Row by Row Experience Exclusive Fabric Plates™ by Zebra Patterns will be available in many Row by Row quilt shops. Each one is unique! Collect a bunch to create fun projects, sewing studio wall art or even a fun backing for your quilt. We are so excited to be a participant in the 2016 Row by Row Experience. The 2016 quilt theme is ‘Home Sweet Home’. If you love to quilt and haven’t heard about Row by Row Experience you need to keep reading….. Row by Row Experience™ began in 2011 with 20 quilt shops across New York State. In 2012 the event grew to include 62 participating shops. Pennsylvania came on board in 2013 for a total of 138 shops throughout the two states. In 2014 over 1250 quilt shops participated in 34 states and Ontario. 2655 shops across the US and Canada made 2015 the biggest year so far! 2016 will be even better! Although the quilt shops are organized by area, quilters have no borders. Travel, shop, collect patterns and add rows to your quilt from anywhere! It’s like a shop hop, but it’s not... no fees, no cards to stamp, and all summer to play! Simply visit any of the participating shops from June 21st – September 6th and receive a free pattern for a row in your quilt. Combine your rows in any way to create a unique quilt that represents the fun you had traveling throughout the summer. Travel with friends, discover new quilt shops and have fun collecting rows! Create a quilt using at least 8 different 2016 rows from 8 different 2016 participating Row by Row shops and be the first to bring it into a participating shop to win a stack of 25 fat quarters (6-1/4 yards of fabric). Use that shop’s row in your quilt and win a bonus prize! www.scwomanmagazine.com Each area has its own Facebook page, ours is SC Row by Row. Like the page from the areas you visit to see pictures of the rows, shop displays, winning quilts and fabric plate projects. Here at Homespun Craft Mall we have a huge selection of fabrics for you to choose from, so stop by our store or call for more details, if you love to quilt you won’t want to miss this…… Homespun Craft Mall 114-A Hwy 17 North in Surfside Beach 843-238-3622 homespuncrafters.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 29 By Anjana Duff, Travel Consultant May is a fabulous month! The weather is getting warmer, school is drawing to a close, and we are all getting excited about our summer vacations! This is the time of year we shift into vacation-prep mode. So, it is a good time to bring back my top tips for traveling abroad. Preparation is always the key to success, so taking care of these things before you leave will ensure that your trip is memorable and enjoyable. FIND A DATE: No, not that kind of date! Find the expiration date of your passport and make sure it is more than six months AFTER your travel dates. You MUST have a valid passport to fly internationally. If you are traveling to Italy in July, and your passport is due to expire in November, it is NOT valid RENEW it now! There is still time. Generally, it takes approximately six weeks to receive your new passport. However, if it is necessary, for an extra fee, you can have it in your hands con30 siderably sooner - even within 24 hours. *Make a copies of your valid passport. Take one with you, and leave one at home with a family member. Scan the copy and email it to yourself or save it on a flash drive. In case of loss or theft, having the copy will make it easier for you to be reissued a new passport. ANTICIPATE EMERGENCIES: Purchase travel insurance or make sure your own insurance will cover you in case of trip cancellation or interruption, illness abroad, cancelled/delayed flights, lost luggage or other unexpected adversities during your travel. Travel insurance is optional, but always highly recommended. DON’T GET DECLINED! Notify your bank and credit card company of your travel plans and dates to avoid having your account blocked because they suspect fraudulent activity. Let them know ahead of time and save yourself the hassle of having to contact them and wait to have the account reactivated and a new card issued. In addition, always take more than one bank card when you travel. In case of loss, theft, or being declined you will have an alternate form of payment until the other is restored. WHEN IN ROME, DON’T ROAM! Check with your mobile carrier on your data plan and international rates to avoid excessive cell phone roaming M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine charges.Or simply disable the data till you are somewhere with free wifi. Before you leave the US, download free apps such as Viber and WhatsApp for talking and texting. Use FaceTime on your Iphone or Skype and Facebook calling for free video calling. MONEY MAKES THE WORLD GO ‘ROUND - if you have enough! Maximize the exchange rate by withdrawing cash from ATMs or exchanging money at a bank. Yes, you will pay a fee, but it will still be a better rate than the exchange centers at airports or around town. To minimize service fees, use your debit or credit card for large purchases and pay cash for smaller ones. TAKE CHARGE! Take a universal voltage adaptor. In fact, take two. Different countries have different size plugs and voltage than we do in the US, so you will need an adaptor to charge your electronics. If everyone wants to charge their phones, cameras, kindles, laptops, etc., you will need more than one! BONUS TIP: HAPPY FEET! Make sure yours are. In addition to all your fun and fancy shoes, please pack TWO pairs of good, comfortable walking shoes. No matter how much walking you think you will be doing, you will do more. Trust me. And no matter how comfortable your shoes are in the morning, after walking all day, they won’t feel so great in the evening. Trading off different pairs of shoes will keep your shoes from rubbing the same spot on your feet - and keep blisters at bay. I know of what I speak. FINALLY, assume you will return. The “General MacArthur approach” is key to travel happiness. You can’t see it all in one trip - don’t even try. Enjoy what you’re seeing and doing. Forget about what you can’t get to this time. This way you’ll have something to start dreaming about on the flight home...for the next trip! Bon voyage and safe travels! Anjana Duff is the owner of Travel Connection, a boutique travel agency specializing in tropical escapes and European adventures. She creates customized luxury vacation packages for individuals and small groups. www.travelconnectionad.com [email protected] (843) 455-4478 www.scwomanmagazine.com Heart Attack Warning Signs Some heart attacks are sudden and intense — the “movie heart attack,” where no one doubts what’s happening. But most heart attacks start slowly, with mild pain or discomfort. Often people affected aren’t sure what’s wrong and wait too long before getting help. Here are signs that can mean a heart attack is happening: • Chest discomfort. Most heart attacks involve discomfort in the center of the chest that lasts more than a few minutes, or that goes away and comes back. It can feel like uncomfortable pressure, squeezing, fullness or pain. • Discomfort in other areas of the upper body. Symptoms can include pain or discomfort in one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw or stomach. • Shortness of breath with or without chest discomfort. • Other signs may include breaking out in a cold sweat, nausea or lightheadedness As with men, women’s most common heart attack symptom is chest pain or discomfort. But women are somewhat more likely than men to experience some of the other common symptoms, particularly shortness of breath, nausea/vomiting, and back or jaw pain. Learn the signs, but remember this: Even if you’re not sure it’s a heart attack, have it checked out (tell a doctor about your symptoms). Minutes matter! Fast action can save lives — maybe your own. Don’t wait more than five minutes to call 9-1-1. Calling 9-1-1 is almost always the fastest way to get lifesaving treatment. Emergency medical services (EMS) staff can begin treatment when they arrive — up to an hour sooner than if someone gets to the hospital by car. EMS staff are also trained to revive someone whose heart has stopped. Patients with chest pain who arrive by ambulance usually receive faster treatment at the hospital, too. It is best to call EMS for rapid transport to the emergency room. If you can’t access the emergency medical services (EMS), have someone drive you to the hospital right away. If you’re the one having symptoms, don’t drive yourself, unless you have absolutely no other option. For more information, contact the American Heart Association at americanheart.org. Take Home a New Member of The Family... A lot of our rescued animals come to us as strays without any history. Some may have been abused or neglected while others may have simply lost their home due to circumstances. They all need loving, nurturing homes to help them adjust. If you can provide a loving home for one of our dogs or cats, please fill out an adoption application to qualify. All animals are spayed/neutered, microchipped, current on vaccinations, de-wormed, (dogs heartworm tested, current on heartworm) and (cats FIV tested) flea prevention and receive full physical examination at intake from a board certified veterinarian. 1288 Limestone Street, Murrells Inlet, SC 29576 www.scwomanmagazine.com Shelter: 843-652-0196 Adoption Center: 843-652-0196 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 31 May is Skin Cancer Prevention Month HOW TO SKIN CANCER ™ USE THIS INFORMATION TO CHECK YOUR SKIN REGULARLY 1 5 in Americans will develop skin cancer in their lifetime. ANYONE CAN GET SKIN CANCER, REGARDLESS OF SKIN COLOR THE ABCDEs OF MELANOMA SKIN CANCER SELF-EXAMINATION What to Look for: How to Check Your Spots: Melanoma is the deadliest form of skin cancer. However, when detected early, melanoma can be effectively treated. You can identify the warning signs of melanoma by looking for the following: Checking your skin means taking note of all the spots on your body, from moles to freckles to age spots. Skin cancer can develop anywhere on the skin and is one of the few cancers you can usually see on your skin. Ask someone for help when checking your skin, especially in hard to see places. B C D E ASYMMET RY A One half is unlike the other half. 1 Examine body front and back in mirror, then right and left sides, arms raised. 2 Examine back of neck and scalp with a hand mirror. Part hair for a closer look at your scalp. 3 Bend elbows, look carefully at forearms, back of upper arms, and palms. 4 Check back and buttocks with a hand mirror. 5 Finally, look at backs of legs and feet, spaces between toes, and soles. BORDER Irregular, scalloped or poorly defined border. COLOR Varied from one area to another; shades of tan and brown, black; sometimes white, red or blue. DIAMETER 6mm EVOLVING While melanomas are usually greater than 6mm (the size of a pencil eraser) when diagnosed, they can be smaller. A mole or skin lesion that looks different from the rest or is changing in size, shape or color. If you find any spots on your skin that are different from others or are changing, itching, or bleeding, make an appointment to see a board-certified dermatologist. Example: To learn more about skin cancer and find a FREE skin cancer screening, visit SpotSkinCancer.org WHEN CAUGHT EARLY, SKIN CANCER IS HIGHLY TREATABLE 32 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Five Ways Meditation Can Improve Your Love Life DOG DAY AFTERNOON Meditation and intimacy are words rarely spoken in the same sentence. But in his new book, Dancing with Fire: A Mindful Way to Loving Relationships, Dr. John Amodeo explains how the practice of mindfulness can make us more available to love and be loved. Below are 5 ways in which practicing mindfulness can help improve your intimate relationships. 1. Meditation and mindfulness practice allows our daily stress and worry to dissolve. A more relaxed body and mind can put us in the mood for love. 2. The calm and stillness of meditation allows us to rest in an exquisitely contactable place. As our mind’s turbulence subsides, we rest more in our quiet depths and connect more deeply and tenderly with our partner. 3. By cultivating equanimity, meditation allows us to peer more deeply into our true feelings and longings. We’re then better positioned to notice and share feelings that spontaneously arise by simply being together, which deepens intimacy. 4. Mindfulness allows us to be with our experience just as it is, which is an important way to selfregulate our nervous system and decrease the need for outside stimuli to make us feel whole. As these outside cravings subside, we become more available to love and be loved. 5. By becoming mindfully aware and accepting of all of our feelings, we learn to embrace our desires rather than ignore or bypass them. As we courageously reveal our longings, whether verbally or non-verbally, we may relish a more ecstatic connection. John Amodeo, Ph.D., author of Dancing with Fire: A Mindful Way to Loving Relationships www.johnamodeo.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Sponsored by Elliott Realty To Benefit the Humane Society of North Myrtle Beach Saturday, May 7th - 3-7pm At the House of Blues, Barefoot Landing Live Music, Pet Costume Contest, Raffle Prizes, Silent Auction BLOOMINGAIL’S Consignment Boutique Ladies & Men’s Clothing • Furniture • Jewelry • Decor 9990 Beach Drive, Calabash, NC 26467 910-575-4949 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 33 This Spring, Let’s Go Meatless a Little More! Healthy Spinach Lasagna Rolls Serves: 9 lasagna rolls 9 lasagna noodles, cooked 1 (10 ounce) package frozen chopped spinach, thawed and completely drained 1 (15 ounce) container fat free ricotta cheese 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese 1 egg 1/2 teaspoon minced garlic 1/2 teaspoon dried Italian seasonings salt and fresh pepper 32 oz tomato sauce (I used spaghetti sauce) 9 Tablespoons part skim mozzarella cheese, shredded Preheat oven to 350°. Make sure you drain the spinach well. Combine spinach, ricotta, Parmesan cheese, egg, garlic, Italian seasonings, chicken, and salt and pepper in a medium bowl. Pour about 1 cup sauce on the bottom of a 9 x 13 baking dish. Place a piece of wax paper on the counter and lay out lasagna noodles. Make sure noodles are dry by patting them with a paper towel. Take 1/3 cup of ricotta mixture and spread evenly over a noodle. Roll carefully and place seam side down onto the baking dish. Repeat with remaining noodles. Ladle sauce over the noodles in the baking dish and top each one with 1 Tablespoon of mozzarella cheese. Cover baking dish tightly with aluminum foil and bake for 40 minutes, or until cheese melts. Makes 9 rolls. To serve, ladle a little sauce on the plate and top with lasagna roll. Quinoa Enchilada Casserole Yield 6 servings 1 cup quinoa 1 (10-ounce) can Old El Paso™ mild enchilada sauce 1 (4.5-ounce) can Old El Paso™ chopped green chiles, drained 1/2 cup corn kernels, frozen, canned or roasted 1/2 cup canned black beans, drained and rinsed 2 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro leaves 1/2 teaspoon cumin 1/2 teaspoon chili powder Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste 3/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese, divided 3/4 cup shredded mozzarella cheese, divided 1 avocado, halved, seeded, peeled and diced 1 Roma tomato, diced 34 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine In a large saucepan of 2 cups water, cook quinoa according to package instructions; set aside. Preheat oven to 375 degrees F. Lightly oil an 8x8 or 2 quart baking dish or coat with nonstick spray. In a large bowl, combine quinoa, enchilada sauce, green chiles, corn, black beans, cilantro, cumin and chili powder; season with salt and pepper, to taste. Stir in 1/2 cup cheddar cheese and 1/2 cup mozzarella cheese. Spread quinoa mixture into the prepared baking dish. Top with remaining cheeses. Place into oven and bake until bubbly and cheeses have melted, about 15 minutes. Serve immediately, garnished with avocado and tomato, if desired. One Pot Zucchini Mushroom Pasta Yield 6 servings 1 pound spaghetti 1 pound cremini mushrooms, thinly sliced 2 zucchini, thinly sliced and quartered 2/3 cup peas 2 cloves garlic, thinly sliced 2 sprigs thyme Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste 1/3 cup grated Parmesan 1/4 cup heavy cream In a large stockpot or Dutch oven over medium high heat, combine spaghetti, mushrooms, zucchini, peas, garlic, thyme and 4 1/2 cups water; season with salt and pepper, to taste. Bring to a boil; reduce heat and simmer, uncovered, until pasta is cooked through and liquid has reduced, about 8-10 minutes. Stir in Parmesan and heavy cream. Serve immediately. Baked Parmesan Zucchini Yield 4 servings 4 zucchini, quartered lengthwise 1/2 cup grated Parmesan 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme 1/2 teaspoon dried oregano 1/2 teaspoon dried basil 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste 2 tablespoons olive oil 2 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley leaves Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Coat a cooling rack with nonstick spray and place on a baking sheet; set aside. In a small bowl, combine Parmesan, thyme, oregano, basil, garlic powder, salt and pepper, to taste. Place zucchini onto prepared baking sheet. Drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle with Parmesan mixture. Place into oven and bake until tender, about 15 minutes. Then broil for 2-3 minutes, or until crisp and golden brown. Serve immediately, garnished with parsley, if desired. www.scwomanmagazine.com Does ANYONE know how to operate this machine? This Wilcox & Gibbs Commercial Serger was generously donated to us, however we have no idea how to use it! We are asking anyone to call or stop by that may have some knowledge on how to use this machine...... Homespun Crafter Mall 114-A Hwy 17 North in Surfside Beach 843-238-3622 Hashbrowns, Spinach and Tomato Pie Serves 4 2 cups Ore-Ida Shredded Hash Brown Potatoes, thawed 1 cup part-skim shredded mozzarella cheese, divided 2 tablespoons olive oil 3 cups packed fresh spinach 2 garlic cloves, minced 1 cup grape tomatoes 4 eggs 1/4 cup milk (I use skim) pinch of nutmeg salt and fresh ground pepper, to taste Preheat oven to 375. Spray a 9-inch pie plate with cooking spray; press down the Shredded Hash Brown Potatoes into the pie plate. Bake for 8 minutes; remove from oven top with ?-cup shredded mozzarella and set aside. Heat olive oil in a skillet. Add spinach and tomatoes; cook for 3 minutes, or until spinach is wilted, stirring frequently. Add garlic and continue to cook for 1 minute.Remove from heat and spread over potatoes. In a mixing bowl, whisk together eggs, milk, nutmeg, salt and pepper; whisk until thoroughly combined. Pour over spinach and tomatoes. Sprinkle the remaining shredded mozzarella over the pie. Bake for 30 to 35 minutes, or until top is golden brown. Let cool for 10 minutes before cutting. www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 35 HOW TO WITH HALLEY April Showers bring May Flower Wreaths By Halley May Castleberry Here’s what you’ll need: Wire wreath (found at any craft store) 1 roll of 21” x 10 yds. deco mesh fabric (any craft store) Pipe cleaners 3 bouquets of fake flowers (Dollar Tree) Water pitcher (dollar tree) Gardening gloves Hot glue gun 1. Tie your pipe cleaners around the outside of your wreath, keeping them in the center of each section. To tie them, I wrap the pipe cleaners around the wire, twist it twice, then wrap each side around the wire again to make sure it feels secure. 2. Using the same method, add the pipe cleaners to the inside wire, in between the pipe cleaners on the outside. 3. Next, tie your deco mesh on. Bunch the mesh together, then, tie it on with a pipe cleaner. 4. Leave a 12 inch poof, then tie it to the pipe cleaner beside it. Complete this process until the outside is covered. 5. Once the outside is done, simply add another poof to connect to the inside. Continue the same process for the inside of the wreath. 6. Simply wrap your excess fabric around the wreath in the areas where the pipe cleaners show. 7. Then, hot glue your accessories on! I tied my gloves onto the water pitcher with some wire ribbon. You can stick the flowers into an area of the wrapped deco mesh. Feel free to connect with me on Facebook, HalleyMurrowCastleberry (no spaces), Instagram, HalleyMay, or visit HalleyMay.com to let me know how yours turn out! I would love to hear from you. You can also find more crafting fun and DIY ideas at HalleyMay.com Happy May from Halley May! After those April showers, it’s time to add some gorgeous flowers to our front doors! If you’ve never made a deco mesh wreath, I think you will be pleasantly surprised at how easy it actually is! I enjoy making these for different holidays and almost always get compliments on them. You may have seen these wreaths for sale at various places, sometimes for as much as $100, and usually never cheaper than $40. We are going to make our own for about $20. 36 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Halley May Castleberry Host and Producer of “The Business Connection” on HTC Channel 4, Spokesperson for Car City, and Host and Producer of “How to with Halley.” She can be reached at [email protected]. Connect with her on social media at HalleyMay.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Cook Up a Mother’s Day to Remember Mother’s Day is a time for wining, dining and celebrating moms everywhere. Make this Mother’s Day one to remember by hosting a special brunch get-together for the special ladies in your life. Although quality time together is the true purpose of the day, you can add some special touches to help create a one-ofa-kind brunch to share old memories while you make new ones. Plan your tablescape. Colorful, fragrant flowers and luxurious linens make your everyday table shine. Use plates in complementing shades and sparkling glassware for an elegant touch. If you have room, add personal touches to the centerpiece, such as mementoes from shared trips or small picture frames with pictures of the two of you through the years. Prepare a sophisticated menu. Give a nod to the importance of the day with dishes that are a step above standard brunch fare. A richly flavored entree such as this Spring Vegetable and Chevre Tart looks elegant but is surprisingly easy to make. For a cohesive spread, remember to give the basics a boost, too, such as a homemade flavored whipped butter. Offer a gift with meaning. To truly elevate the occasion, serve (or gift) your mom with a deliciously meaningful wine, such as Cambria Benchbreak Chardonnay or Pinot Noir from the famed Santa Maria bench in Santa Barbara County. Cambria is a familyowned winery that believes in honoring women across the United States and globally. Each year, the winery gives $100,000 to women making a difference in their communities through their Seeds of Empowerment program. For more recipes and ideas to enhance your celebrations, visit cambriawines.com. www.scwomanmagazine.com Spring Vegetable and Chevre Tart Recipe courtesy of Courtney O’Dell of Sweet C’s Designs 1 package (2 sheets) puff pastry 1 cup chevre, divided 1 large beefsteak tomato, thinly sliced 8 ounces thin green beans 2 beets, thinly sliced 4 mini zucchinis, thinly sliced 1 egg white, beaten until slightly foamy Heat oven to 350 F. On well-greased baking sheet, arrange one puff pastry sheet. Crumble chevre across pastry. Lay tomato slices then green beans, zucchini and beets over chevre, leaving a 1-inch border around all edges. Crumble second half of chevre on top. Lightly wet edges of pastry. Slice four 1-inch strips of second sheet of pastry and lay over edges of bottom sheet. (Optional: create basket-weave pattern with remaining pastry dough). Brush pastry with egg white and bake until pastry is deep golden brown, about 35 minutes. Serve immediately. Pinot Noir Rosemary Butter Recipe courtesy of Erin Kennedy of My Thirty Spot Blog 1 cup salted homemade whipped butter (recipe below) 3/4 cup Cambria Benchbreak Pinot Noir 1 tablespoon fresh rosemary Fill shallow saucepan with wine and simmer until consistency becomes syrupy (reducing to about 1/8 cup). Let syrup cool completely. Add syrup and rosemary to whipped butter and mix. Serve chilled. Homemade Whipped Butter 1/2 quart heavy cream 1/2 teaspoon salt (up to 3/4 teaspoon, to taste) In food processor, mix butter until cream turns to consistency of cottage cheese and starts to separate from buttermilk, about 3-5 minutes of constant mixing. Strain butter from buttermilk. Use wooden spoon to knead butter in water (just like dough) to remove all remaining buttermilk. Drain and repeat until water is clear. Remaining whipped butter is ready to serve or for adding flavoring ingredients. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 37 Transform your favorite pictures onto usable tiles! Looking For A Great Summer Dance Program At The Beach? Submitted by Sandra Hucks, Coastal Dance Centre Home Décor Framed Art • Coasters Trivets....the possibilities are endless... Have you ever thought about selling your arts & crafts creations, collectibles or just recycling? Well you're in luck, just in time for our busy season we have a couple of vendor spaces available for rent! Come on in and we'll show you what's available! HOMESPUN Browse through our mall of unique crafters! Mon-Fri 9-6 Sat.10-5 Sun. 1-5 11 4 - A H w y 1 7 N . Surfside Beach 238-3622 homespuncrafters.com 38 Summer Intensive Showcase Rehearsal 2015 A s the days become longer so comes the anticipation of summer and of school being out, so begins the planning of summer activities, summer vacations and lazy summer afternoons spent with family and friends. Whether you are looking for a fun and energetic summer camp or workshop for your beginning ballerina / danseur or a challenging dance intensive for the more serious dancer in your family, Coastal Dance Centre offers a variety of summer dance offerings. From classical ballet classes, workshops and intensives to princess ballerina camps for the youngest dancers - here are just a few options you may wish to consider when looking for the perfect summer activities. The Princess Ballerina and Dance Camps for Young Dancers For the youngest dancers in your family, Coastal Dance Centre will offer weekly themed sessions (Zootopia, Dancing with Dory & Nemo, Barbie & Friends, American Girl Doll, Cinderella, Rapunzel, Minnie & Friends and My Little Pony), from June 13 through August 5, at both their Market Common and Murrells Inlet studio locations, for children, ages 3 to 8 years. Coastal Dance Centre’s summer camps encourage students to explore movement, creativity and musicality while building essential dance skills and a lifelong appreciation for the arts. Camp activities are ideal for both boys and girls. Students will also present a short in-studio performance for family and friends on their last day of camp. Weekly Classes and Youth Intensive Coastal Dance Centre offers weekly classes for all ages and levels in Ballet, Jazz, Acro, Tap, Musical Theater Dance and more. Teen and Tween dancers who are looking increase their level of technique, artistic expression and appreciation in ballet but who may not be ready for the pre-professional dance track can consider signing up for Coastal Dance Centre’s two-week Youth Ballet Intensive. Students will receive exceptional instruction from the outstanding faculty of Coastal Dance Centre. Summer Intensives If your child is serious about ballet, you may want to consider Coastal Dance Centre’s 2016 Summer Ballet Intensive for Elementary, Intermediate and Advanced levels, which will run from July 11th through August 6th, at the Market Common studio location. Classes will be taught by the Coastal Dance Centre’s resident faculty led by the artistic team of Liza and Karen Mata along with guest master teachers Miriam Mesa-Pelly from the National Ballet School of Cuba and Natasha Zeiger M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com CDC Summer Camp 2015 Peter Pan from Rock School, Pennsylvania, Anson Zwingelberg from Juilliard School and CDC/CYBT alumnus and Eivar Martinez from Ballet Juvenil de Venezuela. Designed as an intensive summer study, the summer faculty will team up to work with serious ballet students to improve their technique and performing skills. Courses will be offered in Ballet www.scwomanmagazine.com Technique, Pointe, Variation, Character, Repertoire, plus supplemental classes in Contemporary Dance and Stretch / Conditioning. Students registering for the full four weeks at the Intermediate / Advanced levels and the full three-week Elementary levels will have the opportunity to be included in the performance at the end of the intensive course. Coastal Dance Centre encourages students who live locally to attend an audition class and view the facility. Audition classes are available by appointment each Saturday at the Market Common studio at a cost of $30. Studying at Coastal Dance Centre is more than just an activity. It is a dance experience unlike any other you will find in the Grand Strand area. Regardless of where you are in training, we will take you to new levels of excellence! Sign up Now! Coastal Dance Centre has two studio locations: at The Market Common, 3070 Deville Street, Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 and at 3554 Old Kings Highway, Murrells Inlet, SC 29576. For more information regarding dates and fees: Come stop by at any of the two studio locations or you can write to [email protected] or call (843) 732 – 2003. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 39 Style-Wise SPRING AND SUMMER 2016 WEDDING STYLE GUIDE with Jada Bynum L ove is in the air as weddings come in abundance during the spring and summer seasons. With fair weather and fresh off-the-runway trends, members of the wedding party and wedding guests have every opportunity to celebrate “I Do’s” in style. If you find yourself going to the chapel for a loved one’s nuptials, know what to wear for every type of affair from formal to casual with this guide. Casual Weddings Attending a low-key wedding for a laidback bride and groom? Whether the venue is a backyard barbeque or beautiful beach affair, if the dress code is casual, consider one of these three looks: 1) A jumpsuit is an easy and complete, casual chic outfit all in one piece. Be unconventionally comfortable while looking flawlessly pulled together and effortlessly fabulous in this trendy revival of a modern classic. 2) Matching twopiece skirt and shirt combinations are making a comeback. For the ultra-trendy guest, try this look with a crop top and highwaisted bottom that Left and Right: ShoeDazzle (tastefully) skims your Center: Soieblu on Nordstrom Rack midriff. For a more Images from Polyvore refined look, channel Chanel with a box-cut blouse that hangs over the coordinating skirt. 3) Maxi dresses are a summer staple. The latest look for this cool classic is slits to show off your favorite sandals and your summer tan. Make sure the slit hits at an appropriate point not revealing too much. TIP: For a seaside ceremony, it’s especially important to wear wedges or flats if you don’t want to sink in the sand. 40 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Semi-Formal Weddings Most weddings today fall in the semi-formal attire category calling for cute cocktail dresses. Update your go-to wedding outfit with one of these current takes on a traditional look: 1) Floral patterns are springing up everywhere! The fashion world is going wild for flower-inspired prints, patterns, and embellishments. 2) Architectural Left: BCBGMAXAZRIA Center: Sans Souci interest and geoRight: Little Black Dress metric cuts creImages from Polyvore ate points of interest in the construction of classic pieces. These design features will certainly turn heads and give you a unique, high-end appeal, convincing enough to be couture. 3) Off the shoulder dresses are on the scene this spring. This cut draws attention up toward your face and is perfectly complemented by a statement necklace, dramatic drop earrings, or a sensational side-swept hairdo. Formal Weddings Black-tie attire requires guests to break out their best as an occasion calling for upscale elegance and floorlength fashion. For many, this means a special shopping trip or a rent-afrock arrangement is in order. As you are seeking your red carpet worthy ensemble, keep these seasonal inspirations in mind: Left: A.B.S. by Allen Schwartz from Blue Fly Center: Bailey 44 Right: Elizabeth and James from ShopBop Images from Polyvore www.scwomanmagazine.com May is National Stroke Awareness FOOD ALLERGIES React with Respect Signs & Symptoms of a possible STROKE in Women • Sudden numbness/weakness of the face, arm, leg, (especially on one side of the body) • Sudden confusion or trouble speaking • Sudden blurred vision in one or both eyes • Sudden trouble walking, dizziness, loss of balance and coordination • Sudden severe headaches If you experience these symptoms or a combination of these symptoms, you should see your physician immediately. Strokes come on suddenly and most often stroke victims have no warning. Sometimes patients have mini-strokes (experience one of these symptoms and it passes within a short period of time, so they ignore it.) prior to a massive stroke. The patient is not the one to make the determination, See your doctor! 1) Slip dresses are back in fashion. We can all recall the straight, silky sheath gowns that graced countless celebrities at award shows throughout the late 90’s and early 2000’s. Lucky for us, this look has “slipped” back on the scene with full sophistication and allure. 2) Beautifully detailed backs leave a memorable impression coming and going. On a solid color, classic cut gown, this surprise feature is eye-catching, but demure. 3) Move over mermaid silhouette, and all hail the A-line! The most flattering cut for any body type is one of the most popular looks for formal gowns. Sure to define your waist and conceal or fill in your hips, this 40’s and 50’s reminiscent shape will do wonders for yours. Jada Bynum is a Wall Fellow at Coastal Carolina University, a Christian, and a lover of Disney, dogs, and the arts. Connect with her at [email protected] www.scwomanmagazine.com Food allergies can cause severe, even fatal reactions. Teens are at the highest risk for fatal reactions. If someone tells you they have a food allergy, you should react with respect. What Can You Do to Help? Never tease or harass someone who has allergies. Be supportive and respect others’ needs. Get help right away in case of emergency. • REACT WITH RESPECT • FOOD ALLERGY Learn more at foodallergy.org AWARENESS WEEK M AY 8 – M AY 1 4 , 2 0 1 6 ©2016, Food Allergy Research & Education (FARE) Visit our showroom at 11730 Hwy 17 Bypass Murrells Inlet, SC 29576 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 41 Sleep - It Does a Body Good by Kristi Falk April showers bring May flowers. May is a beautiful time here on the Grand Strand. The sun is shining, flowers are blooming and the birds are chirping. It’s one of my favorite months of the year. May also brings us to a booming wedding season. Brides-to-be always want to be fit and look their best on their wedding day. One of the best ways to improve your health, your appearance and your sanity is by getting a good night’s sleep. It is very fitting that May just happens to be “Better Sleep Month”. According to the Division of Sleep Medicine at Harvard Medical School, in the short term, a lack of adequate sleep can affect judgment, mood, ability to learn and retain information, and may increase the risk of serious accidents and injury. In the long term, chronic sleep deprivation may lead to a host of health problems including obesity, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and even early mortality.” We know that everyone is busy these days and always burning the candle at both ends. But making time for sleep is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves besides drinking water. I have not always been a sound sleeper. I would find myself lying awake in bed at night trying to fall asleep while a million thoughts were running through my head. I would wake up feeling tired and having a 42 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine hard time concentrating on work until later in the day. Now, I sleep through the night like a rock. So what did I do? I started taking magnesium. It is estimated that as much as 80% of the population is deficient in magnesium. There are over 300 bodily functions that require magnesium. 300! So a deficiency can cause problems in every part of your body. Some of the symptoms of deficiency are: ”In short, magnesium deficiency is linked to thyroid problems, Seizures Behavioral Problems Depression Asthma Chronic Fatigue Insomnia Anxiety or Poor Reactions to Stressors Muscle Spasms and Cramps Vertigo Trouble Swallowing Heart Arrhythmia Hyperglycemia Arterial Calcification Nausea and Vomiting Stomach Cramping Morning Sickness Hair Loss Cold Hands & Feet PMS High Blood Pressure metabolism problems, heart problems, muscle problems, gastro-intestinal problems, and more.” (Foodrenegade.com) What is the reason for the high numbers of deficiency? There are many factors. One is damaged and depleted soil. Synthetic fertilizers don’t actually add nutrients to the soil, it takes them out. That is why recent studies have shown that the vegetables of today have a much lower nutrient content than those of 50 years ago. That is one of the reasons why it is important to choose organically grown produce. Another reason is poor diet. With more people choosing processed, pre-packaged and fast foods over home cooked whole foods, it is no wonder that our bodies are not getting the necessary nutrients. Even if you are eating healthy foods, if your gut doesn’t have the good bacteria present, then your body is unable to absorb those nutrients. Over-the-counter and prescription medications can damage the gut and the over-use of antibiotics kills all of the bacteria in the body, including the beneficial type. One more reason is the over-abundance of calcium in our foods. Calcium is added to everything. Dairy products, non-dairy milks, and everything has added calcium as a “bonus” to the consumer. In reality, all of this added calcium skews the delicate balance in the body and you are less likely to absorb the magnesium needed. Calcium and magnesium work very well together, but only if there is balance. So, with that being said, it is best to have your levels checked. Have your doctor test your calcium and magnesium levels. If you are in fact deficient, then consider a supplement and diet change until the levels normalize. What we eat really is that important. Going back to the initial reason for this article - sleep and looking your best. A good night’s sleep not only gives our body a chance to repair and rejuvenate, but it can also give us a more youthful and refreshed appearance. A study commissioned by Estee Lauder shows that not only does sleep deprivation make you age faster, it also lowers your ability to repair from sun exposure. Of course, we all know about the red eyes, dark circles and under eye bags. Before I started taking the magnesium, I could have packed for a week with the bags I had under my eyes. ;) So relax and get some rest! Your big day is almost here. Kristi Jacques Falk, Founder and Executive Director, The Wellness Council for South Carolina contact me at wellnesscouncilcsc.org. www.scwomanmagazine.com You Can Be One Reason Mom Feels Loved From the big milestones to the everyday moments, chances are, you knew Mom would be there for you. So on her special day, you want to find exactly the right way to let her know how much she continues to inspire and encourage you. A Beautiful Breakfast To help, you can now start Mother’s Day morning with a wonderful gift from Wolferman’s specialty foods brand. The Mother’s Day Tote is filled with their famous English muffins, decadent pastries and Earl Grey tea, along with clover honey sticks to complete the luxurious breakfast gift. Afterward, the tote can be reused and act as a brilliant reminder of your thoughtfulness. For additional information, visit www.Wolfermans.com. Clever Cookies You can also sweeten her day with decadent gifts from Cheryl’s. The gourmet cookie brand’s Long Stemmed Cookie Flowers is a delicious bouquet of 12 longstemmed, buttercream-frosted cutout cookies and handdecorated crunchy sugar cookies. Delivered in a real florist box, this unique and memorable gift can really show you care. Available at www.Cheryls.com. A Blooming Good Idea The Mom’s Tea Party arrangement from 1-800Flowers.com serves up plenty as a two-in-one gift with a lovely selection of pastel roses, carnations and white daisies, beautifully hand designed inside a reusable floral teapot. For more details, visit www.1800flowers.com. For this Mother’s Day, send her a breakfast to remember, something to satisfy her sweet tooth and a truly original arrangement that she’ll treasure. That can help her know she’s loved, not just on Mother’s Day but every day. Learn More For more gift ideas to celebrate Mom this Mother’s Day, visit www.1800Flowers.com and www.Wolfermans.com. (NAPS) www.scwomanmagazine.com No Dental Insurance? No Problem !!! The Advanced Dental Plan No Annual Limits! No Exclusions! Offered exclusively at... Enroll this month for May Give-Aways Dr. Jeffrey Horowitz Dr. Cara Coleman Call for information (843) 248-3843 1515 9th Ave., Conway www.carolinacosmeticdental.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 43 We are all different, but we tend to have one thing in common. Almost all of us have a habit that we wish we could shake. Habits begin because there is a benefit associated to them. Habits tend to have an emotional component to them, for example, to help release stress. Habits may be continual (someone who smokes a couple packs a day), or periodic (someone who smokes only when they drink alcohol). Changing a habit takes hard work, but it is possible with support and commitment. Some habits are tougher than others, and some people can shake habits faster than others. Just be aware that it may take longer or you might have to work harder than someone else, but you can do it! Top habits that we want to change: • Cigarette smoking • Drinking alcohol or drug abuse • Gambling • Procrastination • Working too much • Overeating/unhealthy eating habits • Shopping/exorbitant spending • Web surfing/online activities • Nail biting • Texting and driving 44 • Gossiping There are many other bad habits or behaviors that we want to change, but those tend to be the most common. Steps to take to change: 1. Realize that you have the habit and that the costs out weigh the benefits. Know what the consequences are if you don’t stop those habitual behaviors. 2. Keep a journal to recognize your habit patterns. Do you shop when you are stressed out or just bored? What are the triggers to your behavior? 3. Surround yourself with a support system. Some habitual behaviors may need professional support or group support to help shake them. Other habits can be broken with support from friends or family. Sometimes an accountability buddy works really well. Make sure that you get the type of support that works best for you. 4. Be prepared for relapses. You are almost guaranteed some type of relapse. Just have a plan in place prior to the relapse so you can nip it in the bud. 5. Check the negative self-talk and self-doubt at the door. Make sure you are setting yourself up for success. Realize that you deserve this positive change in your life. You need to know that you can do this! 6. Some undesired behaviors may need a positive behavior to replace it. Figure out if you can replace a “bad” habit with a “good” habit. For instance, M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine instead of biting your nails, go get manicures. Instead of working too much, schedule in some gym time. Figure out the best new activity for you. 7. Monitor your progress in your journal. Not all of us can change a habit “cold turkey”. Look at how you are improving and take joy in knowing you can do it. 8. Reward yourself. Remember that you are really achieving a big goal for yourself and you should be proud! According to Charles Duhigg, in his book, The Power of Habit, in order to change a behavior, you have to look at the Cue (trigger), Routine and Reward. For instance in his example, if you smoke cigarettes because you need stimulation, you can change your routine to include more caffeine in the afternoon and you will still get the desired outcome. The craving for stimulation is satisfied in a healthier way. Creating Good Habits As we know, not all habits are “bad”. Many of us work very hard to establish good habits. Sometimes we need a routine to help us stay on track and implement good behaviors until they become habits. Top Habits we want to keep/adopt: • Eating healthy • Exercising regularly • Getting up on time (no snooze button!) • Reading more books www.scwomanmagazine.com • Flossing regularly • Going to sleep early • Saving money • Using your time wisely • Productive morning routine • Being more mindful Implementing good habits are just as important as losing habits that no longer serve us. Steps to adopt desired habits: 1. Set yourself up for success. Look for ways to help yourself triumph. If you eat out with your friends a couple of times a week, and really want to start eating healthier, change the plan. Go to the movies or bowling. Go to restaurants where you know you can get a healthy meal. 2. Use baby steps—Instead of trying to adopt a habit “full on”, take small steps and celebrate along the way. Don’t try to force yourself to take on something all at once. Instead of changing your whole diet at once, make healthy changes gradually. Focus on one meal at a time, or cut out unhealthy snacks and go from there. 3. Keep a journal to watch your progress and see where you might be able to make bigger changes. Watching your success— whether it means less weight or more sleep, will inspire you to keep going. Chart your mood and energy levels. Record how you are feeling. Journaling will help you stay accountable. 4. Make sure that you have positive reinforcement. Reward yourself along the way. Be proud of what you have accomplished! Kim teaches Life Coaching Workshops to help people get started creating their vision and then helps them bring their visions to life. Her next workshop Spring Clean Your Life is going to be held at Inlet Yoga Studio in Murrells Inlet on June 4th at 2:30pm—contact Kim at 202-294-1080 or email her at [email protected] to reserve your spot! You can download her free eBook, Design the Life You Were Meant to Have by visiting http://www.fowlercoaching.com. Kim Fowler, founder of Fowler Life Coaching (www.fowlercoaching.com), specializes in life coaching for those who are ready to make a big change in their lives. She has her training and certification from the Fowler Wainwright International Institute of Professional Coaching and the International Association of Coaches. She holds her Master ‘s of Business Administration from George Mason University, and lives in Surfside Beach with her husband, Rich, their four cats and Sam the brave parakeet. Tropical escapes; Worldly adventures; Enriching experiences; Stress-free planning Anjana Duff 843-455-4478 [email protected] www.travelconnectionad.com www.scwomanmagazine.com $50 for a Mosquito Treatment (originally $65, a $15 savings) South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 45 The Truth About Abandonment (Desertion) In Divorce By Regina B. Ward Attorney and Counselor at Law Law Firm of Regina B. Ward, LLC In my experience, I have found that desertion or abandonment is probably the most commonly misunderstood ground for divorce. I cannot emphasize the number of times that clients have come to my office expressing that they want a divorce on the ground that their spouse has abandoned or deserted them. When I inquire further about what they mean, it always seems to be the same three answers, which are “my spouse has been emotionally or mentally abusing me,” “my spouse has not had sex with me for a year or longer,” or “my spouse moved out and said s/he wants a divorce.” However, none of these answers constitutes abandonment or desertion in the State of South Carolina. I believe that the easiest way to describe the divorce ground of desertion is when your spouse tells you that s/he is going to the store for a loaf of bread and then s/he never returns to the marriage, and he/she is gone for at least one year. Technically, this means that in order for you to qualify for a divorce on the ground of desertion, your spouse must have left the marriage without providing any notice or explanation and remain gone for a period of at least one year. Therefore, if your spouse tells you “I’ve had it – I’m out of here” then you have NOT been abandoned because your spouse informed you that he/she was leaving the marriage. Frankly, it is easier and more efficient to obtain a divorce on the no-fault ground of one-year continuous separation than it is on the ground of desertion for one year. In order to obtain a divorce based on desertion one must prove 1) cessation from cohabitation for one year; 2) intent of the absent party not to resume cohabitation; 3) absence of consent; and 4) absence of justification for the cessation. The first element frequently presents immediate complication because the question arises as to when the time clock starts for calculating the one year? For example, the spouse may have left with the intent to return but after a month or so decided not to return. Moreover, the second element of intent is a question of fact that may be difficult to prove, especially if the spouse did not take all of his/ her belongings from the marital home. The third element of absence of consent is easier to prove in that the deserted spouse would simply testify that there was no agreement to separate. Finally, the fourth ele46 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine ment of absence of justification is where the deserted spouse must show that there was no justification for the abandoning spouse to leave him/her such as emotional abuse, lack of support, intolerable living conditions, or the presence of unwanted in-laws. In order to obtain a divorce based on one-year separation, one simply needs to prove only the following: 1) that they lived separate and apart without cohabitation and 2) for a period of one year. Basically this only requires that one witness appear and testify that you have lived separate and apart for one year and you have not resumed cohabitation during that time. Abandonment or desertion requires significantly more proof, including “intent,” “absence of consent,” and “no justification” for the abandonment. Since desertion involves more proof, it is therefore more costly and risky to pursue. The State of South Carolina requires a fault-based ground in order to file for a divorce unless the couple has lived continuously separate and apart for one or more years. In addition to desertion, the other fault-based grounds include: 1) adultery; 2) physical cruelty; and 3) habitual drunkenness or drug use. A spouse’s misconduct gives rise to the fault basis and may also have significant impact on other issues, such as custody, division of assets, and spousal support. South Carolina does not recognize emotional or mental abuse as a ground for divorce and does not recognize “irreconcilable differences” as a ground; although, those differences may add to the reasons for getting a divorce. If your spouse is misbehaving, then you should seek a consultation with a lawyer as soon as practical as you could risk condoning your spouse’s actions and consequently lose your right to pursue a divorce on fault grounds. You will also need to know how to prove the misconduct, which requires the expertise of an attorney. Finally, if you are in a difficult or unhappy marriage, but you really do not have a fault basis upon which to pursue a divorce, you most assuredly need to see an attorney as soon as possible in order to learn the options available to you that could require legal strategy and planning between you and your attorney. Ward Law Firm Law Firm of Regina B. Ward, LLC 1017 Fourth Avenue, Conway, South Carolina 29526 Office: 843-488-WARD (9273) E-mail: [email protected] Web Site: www.AttorneyReginaWard.com www.scwomanmagazine.com 3 Ways to Find Financial Happiness This Year Whether a Millennial keen to put down roots and buy a house in the near future, a Gen Xer intent on nourishing credit health to keep life goals on track or a Boomer who wants to ensure their finances are in order before retirement, good credit health matters. A majority of Americans feel it directly correlates with their overall happiness, too. Three-out-of-five people say that a higher credit score plays an important role in their happiness, according to the Chase Slate 2016 Credit Outlook. Yet 30 percent of Americans have not checked their credit score in the last year and, of those, one-in-five elected to stay in the dark out of fear their score might be low. Farnoosh Torabi, personal finance expert and Chase Slate financial education partner, suggests taking action now to let go of the fear factor and find financial happiness with these tips: Don’t fear the future. Plan for it. Did you dip into savings last year, or maybe not manage to save much at all? Instead of worrying about depleted savings, put your energy toward refueling that account immediately. A good rule of thumb is to have six to nine months of savings to cover necessary expenses in the event of an emergency, like a job loss or disability. Beyond savings, take time to make sure you’ve got all of the proper protections in place, from health to life insurance and homeowners to auto insurance. Get up-close and personal with your credit standing. Financial unknowns can be scary at first, but you’ve got to understand where you stand now to be able to figure out where you can go next. Turns out top-notch credit can be your golden ticket to securing an affordable mortgage or qualifying for the best interest rates. So take a deep breath and check your credit score (for free, if you can). The Chase Slate Credit Dashboard empowers customers to get to know their credit standing with access to a free monthly FICO score and the specific positive and negative factors behind it. Raise your hand… and your voice. If you’re feeling uninspired by a “9 to 5” job, find ways to act like an entrepreneur within your role. Taking on new responsibilities or proactively inventing new systems can make you stand out both within your company and your industry, which may bring financial rewards. Don’t be afraid to ask for the pay raise you deserve – just do your homework first. Take time to understand your company’s financial position, research your market value and prepare a case study of your achievements and value. For more tips to improve credit health and find financial happiness, visit Chase.com/news. (Family Features) Photo courtesy of Getty Images (couple packing) www.scwomanmagazine.com Pioneer and National Leader in Laser Pain Relief CuraLase has a 90% success rate in relieving pain. We resolve the pain by targeting the source, not the symptoms. Fibromyalgia • Back Pain • Knee Pain • Hip Pain Sciatica • Cervical (Neck) Pain Migraine Headaches • Neuropathy Other Painful Conditions My back pain was so bad that I just couldn’t take it anymore, and I knew too many people who were worse after back surgery. I was treated at CuraLase, and now my pain is gone! —Chris Thursday, May 5, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach Thursday, May 19, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach Call 843.294.5273 to RSVP for Seminar 5046 Hwy 17 Bypass South, Suite 200 Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 47 A hot topic among rheumatologists lately is whether when you treat rheumatoid arthritis (RA) matters as much as how you treat it. Some believe strongly in early arthritis treatment, prescribing an aggressive regimen of RA drugs during what is called “the window of opportunity.” Doing so, they maintain, just may stop the disease in its tracks. “I am a strong believer in the window of opportunity, which probably spans two years after symptom onset,” says Salahuddin Kazi, MD, associate professor of internal medicine and chief of rheumatology at the Dallas VA Medical Center. “If RA goes untreated for two years, the majority of people with RA will develop joint erosion, indicating disease progression.” “The debate over whether a window of opportunity exists is semantics to some extent,” says Arthur Kavanaugh, MD, 48 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine rheumatologist and director of the Center for Innovative Therapy at the University of California, San Diego. “Some people don’t like the term because people with active disease can – and should – always be treated, even beyond the twoyear mark.” Treating RA as early as possible is not a new concept. In 1989, a study published in The Lancet emphasized the importance of starting a regimen of antirheumatic drugs early. The drugs commonly used then were hydroxychloroquine (Plaquenil) and sulfasalazine (Azulfidine); methotrexate wasn’t yet an option, and biologics were not yet developed. The main difference between discussions of early arthritis treatment 15 to 20 years ago and today are the drugs available for aggressive treatment, says Dr. Kavanaugh. Early, aggressive treatment is particularly important for those who will develop a more serious disease. Figuring out who those patients are is quite a challenge, but guiding principles exist. “I think it’s pretty clear right now that if a patient has antibodies to rheumatoid factor (RF) or cyclic citrullinated proteins (anti-CCP) at any time during the course of disease — from day one to 12 weeks or 12 years – then he has a greater risk for persistent disease that is worse and more destructive,” says Stephen Paget, MD, rheumatologist and physician-in-chief of the Hospital for Special Surgery in New York City. “Those patients need aggressive therapy that’s constantly monitored.” A recent study of adalimumab (Humira) plus methotrexate showed one in two people with early RA – diagnosed less than three years earlier – achieved a clinical remission at two years. More than 60 percent of the patients showed at least a 50-percent improvement in symptoms. The effect with combination therapy was observed as early as two weeks, and these differences were sustained throughout the two-year study. Another study, the Definitive Intervention in New-Onset Rheumatoid Arthritis (DINORA) trial, is reviewing the use of infliximab (Remicade) in people with very early inflammatory RA (those who had it fewer than 14 weeks) to see if it can prevent the development of destructive disease. While it’s ideal to initiate treatment as early as possible, aggressive treatment throughout the course of the disease is essential, say the experts. “If you’re past that two-year mark with no treatment or treatment that wasn’t aggressive enough, all is not lost,” says Dr. Kavanaugh. www.scwomanmagazine.com Spring and Summer Energy Providing TIPS Here you’ll find strategies to help you save energy during the spring and summer when the weather is warm and you are trying to keep your home cool. Some of the tips below are free and can be used on a daily basis to increase your savings; others are simple and inexpensive actions you can take to ensure maximum savings through the spring and summer. For more ways to stay cool while saving energy, check out our website at www.comfortcontrol.com If you haven’t already, conduct an energy assessment to find out where you can save the most. Also check out tips to save energy during the fall and winter. USE YOUR WINDOWS TO GAIN COOL AIR AND KEEP OUT HEAT • If you live in a climate where it cools off at night, turn off your cooling system and open your windows while sleeping. When you wake in the morning, shut the windows and blinds to capture the cool air. Learn more about natural ventilation. • Install window coverings to prevent heat gain through your windows. Find out about window treatments and coverings that can improve energy efficiency. OPERATE YOUR THERMOSTAT EFFICIENTLY • Set your thermostat as high as comfortably possible in the summer. The smaller the difference between the indoor and outdoor temperatures, the lower your overall cooling bill will be. • Keep your house warmer than normal when you are away, and lower the thermostat setting to 78°F (26°C) only when you are at home and need cooling. A programmable thermostat can make it easy to set back your temperature. Find out how to operate your thermostat for maximum energy savings.. • Avoid setting your thermostat at a colder setting than normal when you turn on your air conditioner. It will not cool your home any faster and could result in excessive cooling and unnecessary expense. USE FANS AND VENTILATION STRATEGIES TO COOL YOUR HOME • If you use air conditioning, a ceiling fan will allow you to raise the thermostat setting about 4°F with no reduction in comfort. Learn more about using a ceiling fan to increase cooling efficiency. Find ENERGY STAR ceiling fans. • Turn off ceiling fans when you leave the room. Remember that fans cool people, not rooms, by creating a wind chill effect. www.scwomanmagazine.com • When you shower or take a bath, use the bathroom fan to remove the heat and humidity from your home. Your laundry room might also benefit from spot ventilation. Make sure bathroom and kitchen fans are vented to the outside (not just to the attic). Find ENERGY STAR ventilating fans. KEEP YOUR COOLING SYSTEM RUNNING EFFICIENTLY • Schedule regular maintenance for your cooling equipment. Learn about operating and maintaining your air conditioner, evaporative cooler, or heat pump. • Avoid placing lamps or TV sets near your room air-conditioning thermostat. The thermostat senses heat from these appliances, which can cause the air conditioner to run longer than necessary. Learn additional tips for operating a room air conditioner efficiently. • Vacuum registers regularly to remove any dust buildup. Ensure that furniture and other objects are not blocking the airflow through your registers. DON’T HEAT YOUR HOME WITH APPLIANCES AND LIGHTING • On hot days, avoid using the oven; cook on the stove, use a microwave oven, or grill outside. • Install efficient lighting that runs cooler. Only about 10% to 15% of the electricity that incandescent lights consume results in light—the rest is turned into heat. Learn more about your options for efficient lighting. Find out when to turn off your lights. Purchase ENERGY STAR lighting products. • Take advantage of daylight instead of artificial lighting, but avoid direct sunlight. Learn more about strategies for efficient daylighting. • Wash only full loads of dishes and clothes. Consider air drying both dishes and clothing. Learn more about efficient dishwashing and laundry. • Take short showers instead of baths. Learn more ways to reduce your hot water use. • Minimize activities that generate a lot of heat, such as running a computer, burning open flames, running a dishwasher, and using hot devices such as curling irons or hair dryers. Even stereos and televisions will add some heat to your home. Learn more about avoiding heat buildup in your home. KEEP HOT AIR FROM LEAKING INTO YOUR HOME • Seal cracks and openings to prevent warm air from leaking into your home. Learn more about air sealing new and existing homes. • Add caulk or weatherstripping to seal air leaks around leaky doors and windows. Find how to select and apply the appropriate caulk. Learn how to select and apply weatherstripping. Find out other ways to improve the energy efficiency of your windows. LOWER YOUR WATER HEATING COSTS Water heating can account for 14% to 25% of the energy consumed in your home. • Turn down the temperature of your water heater to the warm setting (120°F). You’ll not only save energy, you’ll avoid scalding your hands. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 49 Jacqueline Whitmore Offers Etiquette Solutions for Summer Weddings With the popular summer wedding months right around the corner, most couples are deep into the planning process. But when it comes to invitation and RSVP etiquette, it’s often times confusing for the happy couple and their guests. What is the proper protocol? Jacqueline Whitmore, an internationally recognized etiquette expert, author and founder of The Protocol School of Palm Beach, offers this advice: • For guests who don’t RSVP and show up anyway: While you should make contact ahead of time with those who don’t respond, don’t make a big fuss of it on your wedding day if someone shows up who didn’t RSVP. Yes, it’s rude on their part, but simply ask a trusted friend or staff member to find them a seat and let them stay. The caterers typically prepare about 10% more food than required so it should not be a big problem. • For guests who show up with their children: A gentle way to deal with this situation is to have the family table off to the side or Strand Endocrinology & Osteoporosis Center Dr. Javaid H. Wani, MD, PhD, FACP Endocrinology, Diabetes & Metabolism Endocrinology Practice with a Focus on Thyroid Disorders & (hypothyroidism, hyperthyroidism, thyroid nodules/cancers), Adrenal Disorders, Osteoporosis and Diabetes. Now accepting new patients. Referrals not needed for most patients South Strand Medical Center 5046 Hwy 17 Bypass South Ste. 104, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 (843) 293-9955 www.StrandEndocrinology.com 50 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine back of the reception area. That way if the children are disruptive, their parents can whisk them off quickly. Better yet, when you send out the wedding invitation, provide the name of reputable babysitter in your area who is willing to accommodate parents who want to attend the wedding. • Your friend’s significant other is now her ex: This can be incredibly awkward but happens more than you might think. Etiquette says that if the invitation is addressed to your friend and a guest, she is free to bring whomever she chooses. However, if you address the invitation to your friend and her significant other by name, technically they’re both on the guest list. If they’re no longer together, you should allow her to bring someone else. You may want to have some spare place cards on hand with the word, “guest,” written on them, just in case this happens. • Your parents want to invite all their friends but you want a small gathering: He who foots the bill has the power. If your parents are paying for the wedding, you certainly should consider whom they’d like to invite. However, it’s still your wedding. Have a private and honest discussion with your parents if you are uncomfortable with their choices. Try to reach a reasonable compromise. • Never include registry information in your invitation: This is outright tacky and a big no-no. People will usually ask you directly, or ask a parent or other family member where you are registered. It’s fine to list this information if you have a wedding website. People who truly want to put thought into a gift will be sure and find out. • Asking for money versus a gift: It’s becoming more common nowadays for couples to request money instead of gifts, particularly if they just moved into a new home, want to go on an exotic honeymoon, or if they have been married before. Guests may either choose to give money or a gift, depending on their financial situation. • The appropriate wedding invitation and RSVP timeline: Savethe-date cards are best sent approximately six months before the wedding. Invitations should be sent approximately five to six weeks before the wedding. The RSVP date should be two to three weeks before the wedding. Thank-you notes should go out as soon as possible, but try not to wait any longer than two months after the wedding. Hand-written thank you notes are still the best way to go even in a digital world. Please let me know if you would be interested in speaking to Jacqueline. She is also happy to contribute an original article. You may also use these tips with proper attribution. http://www.etiquetteexpert.com/ http://jacquelinewhitmore.com/ www.scwomanmagazine.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 51 By Kim Hurley, Owner Cat’s Meow Veterinary Hospital T he wave of the future is to treat the whole person or animal instead of just the disease. Essential Oils are among the most popular natural remedies of today, but have actually been around for thousands of years. The practice of using essential oils dates back to the ancient Egyptians. These oils were often referred to as “nectar of the Gods”. Myrrh was used by the Romans to heal wounds and as an anti-inflammatory.There are over 500 references to essential oils in the Bible. During the outbreak of the Bubonic Plague in the 12th century, cinnamon, ginger and sandalwood 52 were used as antibiotics and saved many lives. People have been using plants as medicine throughout the world for a millennium. Plant remedies or essential oils have antiseptic, anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, and anti-parasitic properties. They are one of the most powerful support tools to help your body heal itself. They can aid us in many ways in our every day lives. Typical uses include supporting the emotional and physical needs of the body, cooking, cleaning, skin care, animal care or simply enhancing the air in a room. Smell is the most sensitive of our five senses, and our cat’s sense of smell is approximately 14 times stronger than our own. Studies show that at least 75% of emotions are prompted by smell. Essential Oils can be explained as the living fluid or “life blood” of a plant. They are found in various parts of plants such as leaves, roots, berries, grasses, flowering tops and petals, M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine zest of fruit, resins and wood. Essential Oils circulate throughout plant tissue bringing nutrients into the plant cells and waste products out. These fluids are the regenerating, oxygenating and immune-strengthening properties of the plant. They are necessary for the plant to live. Essential Oils can do many of the same things in your body as they do in the plant. The oils are composed of microscopic molecules that are able to penetrate into the DNA of every cell in our body. They can promote balance in you or your cat’s body and support the body’s natural healing system. Mother Nature provides everything we need to live healthy lives. Our body has the ability to heal itself naturally and so does your cats. Medicines made from chemicals in a lab are often trying to copy what Mother Nature has already created. Often we just need the right support to enable the body to do what it was engineered to do. Essential Oils are highly therapeutic and can assist our bodies as well as our cats in healing. Not all Essential Oils are the same. Quality is very important when you are using oils therapeutically. The source of the oil is crucial. The terrain and soil of origin matter. For example, if a field is sprayed with toxic chemicals, it affects the chemistry of the plants. For plant extracts to be effective, they must be grown in the right place at the right time and in the right way. To be truly therapeutic and a superior grade, an essential oil needs to be tested and certified as pure, potent, genuine and authentic. I like a company called “doTERRA” which is from a Latin derivative meaning Gift of the Earth. doTERRA produces high quality 100% pure and natural Essential Oils. When using essential oils with cats, high quality is a must. Cats are more sensitive to effects of the oils as they are to many products in the veterinary world. Most people know not to give a cat NSAID drugs such as Tylenol. Veterinarians working with cats use only approved medications because they know a cat’s livers simply does not metabolize items with the same www.scwomanmagazine.com efficiency as a dog or human. Take flea medications, for example. The chemicals in these products are similar to essential oils in regards to quality, effectiveness and risk. Some cheap, over-the-counter flea products can produce horrific side effects such as excessive drooling and neurological systems. The use of better quality flea products will result in a reduction of harmful side effects. The same holds true for essential oils. “You get what you pay for!” Poor quality can result in toxicity. Many veterinarians including, Dr. Karen Becker, Dr. Melissa Shelton, Dr. John J. Hanover, Dr. Susan Albright and Dr. Joan Roark can be found on-line discussing the benefits of using essential oils with our pets. I recommend checking out a book by Mia K. Frezzo, DVM for a guide to using essential oils in dogs and cats. Since all medical professionals and veterinarians using essential oils agree so strongly on quality being paramount, finding the right oils for you and your cat is a must. The doTERRA company has a network of botanical growers and “distillers” (those who use a low-heat distillation process to delicately extract the precious oils) that spans the globe from Italy to Madagascar, India to Corsica. They have created trusted alliances with honest growers and distillers using a program they developed called CoImpact Sourcing. Since many oils are sourced in underdeveloped countries, doTERRA works to improve the quality of life for these communities. The growers and distillers - are provided all the training, resources and tools needed to ensure a long lasting relationship. They receive fair and timely payments that not only support their crops and harvest, but have a positive impact on the whole community. doTerra’s commitment to quality also ensures that they use the latest in cutting-edge technologies and worldrenowned chemists to make sure each oil is the purest it can be. A battery of tests are preformed partnering with chemists, biological and microbiological scientists, botanists and medical professionals to ensure that each oil is deemed worthy of the “CPTG” Certified Pure Therapeutic Grade quality protocol. doTERRA also has an international non-profit organization, the Healing Hands Foundation, that is committed to improving lives and and offering hope to millions around the world. They have been involved in projects including clean water programs in Haiti, medical equipment and resources in Bolivia and building schools in Guatemala. If you are interested in Essential Oils for you and your cat, contact Cats Meow Veterinary Hospital (843) 839-1999. One of our Essential Oil Consultants can teach you what oils you or your cat may need to enhance your lives and be as healthy as possible. There are many ways to use the oils including, topically, aromatically and internally. Dr. Mia K. Frezzo has some interesting ways to use oils with cats that may be “difficult” in her book “SpOil Your Pet”. We will soon be introducing a new addition to Cats Meow Veterinary Hospital. Our Healing Center will offer Therapy Laser treatments, Aromatherapy Massage and Energy Healing. Call for an appointment! www.scwomanmagazine.com Happy Mother’s Day! All Mothers Receive a Free Essential Oil Sample Spay/Neuter • Vaccines • Senior Care Wellness Checkup • De-Claw • Dental • Micro Chipping Digital X-Ray • In-House Diagnostic Blood Work Nutritional Advisor On Staff Therapy Laser, Aromatherapy Massage and Energy Healing Cat’s Meow Veterinary Hospital A Place Just for Cats … at Very Affordable Prices! Luxury Boarding & Specialty Grooming * Flea Control Specialist * Cat Supplies, Toys and Gifts 4720 Hwy 17 Bypass S #B • Myrtle Beach • 843-839-1999 Visit us at www.catsmeowmyrtlebeach.com Magnolia OB/GYN, LLC OF MYRTLE BEACH We believe the patient always comes first! 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Men, women and weddings Females are often portrayed as materialistic or over-the-top when it comes to their big day, but recent findings from an online Harris Poll tell a different story. Surprisingly, the study found that twice the number of men stated they would or did go into debt to pay for their dream wedding. The study also found that both men and women valued financial responsibility. In fact, 91% indicated a preference for entering marriage debt-free as opposed to having a dream wedding. 54 “Marriage is a lifelong commitment built on trust, clear communication and honesty,” said John Heath, Directing Attorney for Lexington Law. “While some may find financial discussions unnecessary, understanding each other intimately in terms of what you both bring to the table – be it wealth or debt – will strengthen your relationship and help to avoid potentially serious friction to your marriage down the road.” Discussing money matters So how does one go into a marriage with a solid financial standing? Those soon-to-be-wed couples who converse openly about their finances are more likely to enjoy their big day with an understanding of their mate’s views on money. The experts at Lexington Law offer these questions every newly engaged couple should ask before the big day: 1. How do you view money? This is a loaded question, but your M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine fiancé’s answer will help you understand their perspective and how it aligns with yours. Here are a few conversation starters on the subject: • How do you budget your money? • Are you meticulous about your bills and expenses, or are you comfortable to just “wing it?” • What’s the most you would ever spend on a home, car, piece of clothing, etc.? 2. How should we budget for a family? Kids are expensive, especially if you haven’t planned for them. Talk to your partner about how many kids you would both like to have. Plan for child living expenses and how they will impact your budget, i.e. clothes, food, activities, medical expenses, schooling, etc. 3. How should we communicate about money? Some couples are content to let one person handle the finances, and others like to split up the bills and share household responsibilities. Regardless of what you decide, it is important to have a plan in place before getting married. 4. What should we do when we disagree about spending? You and your spouse won’t agree on everything. In fact, you may completely disagree on how to spend, save, and generally manage your money. The question is: What should you do when these disagreements arise? Avoiding the subject will put you at greater risk for financial (and marital) trouble. There’s no easy answer for this one, but presenting the topic during your conversation is a good start. 5. Do you have any debts that I should be aware of? Secrets aren’t the best addition to a marriage, especially when it comes to debt. Be sure you and your soon-to-be put the credit cards on the table before walking down the aisle. Marriage is a life partnership; start by dealing with your debt together. You’ll head into your new life as a married couple with ease when you have an open and honest dialog about your financial situation. For more tips for managing your money, or your credit, visit www.LexingtonLaw.com. (Family Features) Photo courtesy of Getty Images www.scwomanmagazine.com Keeping Your Pet Safe in the Summer Heat Pets Need Sunscreen Just like humans, cats and dogs can get sunburned, especially if he/she has light-colored hair. Animal sunburns can cause the same problems as that of humans: peeling, redness and even cancer. As skin cancer in pets is a serious concern, purchasing petfriendly sun screen can go a long way in protecting the health of your pet when the heat kicks in. Places that are easy to forget, but prone to burning are: inside the nostrils, tip of nose, around your dog’s lips and the inside of ears for dogs with standup ears. Summer Style Giving your dog a lightweight summer haircut helps prevent overheating. Shave down to a one-inch length, but never to the skin, so your pet still has some protection from the sun. Brushing cats more often than usual can prevent problems caused by excessive heat. Pets Need Extra Water…But don’t let them drink just anything Give your dog extra water during the summer, but be sure not to leave the water out for too long. Change the water often to prevent your pet from getting sick from bacteria that can grow in hot water. Also, when dogs are thirsty, they are bound to drink something they shouldn’t. Puddles of what may look like water on the ground can be mistaken for dangerous chemicals, so keep an eye out when your dog is looking for something to sip on. Make a Safe Splash Do not leave pets unsupervised at the beach – not all pets are good swimmers. Introduce your pet to water gradually and make sure they wear flotation devices when on boats. To remove salt from the fur, rinse your pet after swimming. www.scwomanmagazine.com Pets at Outdoor Summer Events Warm temperatures and outdoor fun go hand-in-hand, but when the temperatures hit record highs, refrain from taking your pet to crowded summer events like concerts or fairs. The loud noises and crowds, combined with the heat, can be stressful and dangerous for pets. Exercising in the Heat Pets need exercise even when it is hot, but show extra care to older and overweight pets that are more at risk from high temperatures. If you go for a run on the beach, limit exercise to early morning or evening hours. Extra caution should also be taken with shortnosed dogs, and those with thick coats. Watch for Heatstroke Dogs can develop heatstroke fairly quickly. Signs of this include excessive panting, staring, anxious facial expressions, warm skin, refusal to obey commands by owner, vomiting, collapse and rapid heartbeat. If you suspect that your pet is suffering from this, lower the animal’s body temperature by applying towels soaked in cool water to the hairless areas of the body. Often the pet will respond after just a few minutes of cooling, only to falter again with his temperature soaring back up or falling to well below what is normal. If this happens, take the dog to the vet immediately – don’t try to solve this yourself. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine May 2016 55 Stylish Summer Furniture for Outdoor Living with an Indoor Lifestyle By Ted Cligrow, Carolina Home Exteriors Preparing for Summer is fun and exciting. Getting ready to enjoy the wonderful Grand Strand climate, the warm beach breezes and the amazing company of friends and family. Expert author Colin McDonald share these stylish summer tips for decorating your outdoor space! The warm weather of summertime is rejuvenating and pleasant, and the warm weather brings thoughts of changing lifestyle 56 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine for the season. Working in the yard mowing grass, planting flowers, tending a vegetable garden, outdoor cooking, and playing in the pool suddenly become favorite pastimes. During the warm, summer weather, many times a dip in the pool turns into an afternoon event. A part of summer living is decorating an indoor or outdoor living space with beautiful, relaxing furniture for the summer season. Depending on personal taste, there are furniture choices in metal, wicker and rattan as well as teak and others. Stylish, summertime furniture for the indoor and outdoor living space is available in many unique materials from wrought iron to teakwood. Cast aluminum and wrought iron furniture are both stylish and sturdy choices, and the metal construction can withstand rough wear and extreme weather. Cast aluminum and wrought iron are great for outdoor www.scwomanmagazine.com spaces, and the metal designs range from simple patterns to ornate works of art. These outdoor furniture choices are maintenance free, and for a splash of color, tie pillows to the metal chairs and lounges for added beauty and comfort. Rattan and wicker summer furniture are popular choices for the pool, deck, patio, and sunroom. These all-weather furniture pieces are stylish with exquisite designs, and the rattan, garden-style construction is a great choice for open or closed sunroom areas. These natural furniture choices blend with the outdoor beauty and are sturdy enough to withstand the hot sun and other extreme weather conditions. Change the look of both rattan furniture and also wicker furniture with a variety of colorful pillows that add comfort and a unique style to any setting. The tropical feeling of teakwood furniture offers a relaxed atmosphere, which is wonderful for summertime living. Teak furniture is solid wood with a smooth finish, and many teak owners add a splash of color to the wood pieces using bright pillows and umbrellas. Furnishings for summer style include everything from end tables to sofas. Outdoor and indoor living spaces are changed for the season with white paint, natural fabrics and unique materials to complement the surrounding living space. Design a complete room with chairs, sofas, coffee tables, and lamps, or design an outdoor patio and pool area with a set of table and chairs as well as lounges for relaxing by the pool. Because there are so many summertime furniture choices for designing an indoor or outdoor living space, it is a good idea to determine in advance entertainment and living needs. An enclosed garden room requires different furniture choices than a poolside atmosphere. By taking the time to make the right furniture choices, you will express the summertime season in exquisite style. 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The neurologist suggested she have an MRI which she dreaded because her pain was so excruciating that lying still in an MRI bed listening to the clicking and clanging would probably drive her crazy. Diann said, “Light, sound and smell were intensified, and I could not tolerate any of them. Then following my MRI, the neurologist doubled my meds, which still gave no relief. My son suggested I see a local chiropractor who did cold laser treatments which gave some relief, but it did not last. I slept in a recliner in the living room, tossing and turning all night and finally decided to check out the computer to see what information I could get on this horrible condition.” Trigeminal neuralgia is called the “suicide illness” because most patients are in so much pain that they choose to end their life. Many of them have had brain surgery to relieve the pain, teeth extracted, eye surgery and other treatments with no relief. Fortunately for Diann, she prayed while searching the computer and found the testimonials on the CuraLase website from many who had found successful pain relief for TN. She was skeptical at first, but she felt she truly had no choice because there was nothing else out there to relieve her pain. “All the doctors wanted to do was to up my pain meds, and I knew that would only cause liver or other organ damage in the future. CuraLase was the only website that did not use drugs for this condition. I called the CuraLase office to discuss everything with them and decided to give it a try with total support from my husband Ron.” During her treatment for TN, the clinician found that Diann was also suffering from fibromyalgia, a condition her sister also has. “I must admit that after three weeks I was getting depressed because I was still in the worst pain; but by the fourth week, I was feeling better. I remember going back to the hotel and telling Ron I wanted to go out and do something fun that night, and I hadn’t even thought about fun in months. Frankly, I was having such a pity party that I felt my life was over, and then I thought about Job in the Bible trusting in God, and I knew I had to do so as well.” It’s now been four years since Diann was treated by CuraLase, so I asked her what are the things she can now do that she could not do before her treatments. “I am pain-free,” she replied, “and I love walking in the country, spending time with friends, loving my beautiful grandchildren, and laughing. Before, there was no joy, but now I have my life back.” Friends, if you or someone you love is in pain, at least attend one of the complimentary dinner options that CuraLase offers. How about coming to one of the following? Thursday, May 5, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach Thursday, May 19, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach One more note from Diann. “When I got back from Myrtle Beach, I went to see my doctor who diagnosed me in the first place. She said, ‘Oh my, Diann, you look great! How are the headaches and pain?’ When I told her about CuraLase Laser Therapy, she said ‘Well it is nothing short of a miracle’ because she had never seen anyone get better who had trigeminal neuralgia. She asked me for all the information so she could send other patients to CuraLase, and I was thrilled to hand her a bunch of brochures to help others.” Get back to love and laughter, friends, just like Diann. Isn’t that what LIFE is all about? Diane DeVaughn Stokes, President of Stages Video Productions Host of “Diane At Six” on EASY Radio Host and Producer of TV show “Inside Out” on HTC Channel 4, and author of “Floating On Air” A Broadcasting Love Affair” 58 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com By Patrick Munro Top Ten Money Tips For Women Turn Your Financial Life Around. Why do so many women delegate their financial security to a spouse or significant other and allow divorce or death to plunge them into poverty? Why do so many women spend more than they earn and become mired in debt? A National Center for Women and Retirement Research (NCWRR) study showed a direct correlation between a woman’s personality characteristics and her financial habits. Assertiveness, openness to change, and an optimistic outlook are the qualities that tend to lead to smart money choices. As well as living a healthy lifestyle which includes; daily physical activity, reducing stress, improving coping ability, and, improving proper nutritional habits Here at Northstar Financial, We believe that women who have money and financial dilemmas or concerns, are attributed to, or indeed manifest from their personal life and family limitations, responsibilities or problems. By prioritizing the financial concern, and communicating with your family to develop a plan, many of the dilemmas can and will be overcome within a reasonable time. Many have used their survival skills to create an opportunity to thrive. Money, whether it may be plentiful or lacking, has always been considered an emotionally charged issue. To many, it may represent a social status, courage, confidence or lack of, love and even control, especially in a relationship or marriage. By recognizing the emotional traits that could arise from these attachments, one can learn how to control their finances with proper spending and handling of money. We suggest you take the time to evaluate your current financial status. Understand and examine where and how your money is being spent. Is it planned and prioritized? How much money is being placed at risk to the open market? Will your money have longevity to last, not only to cover monthly expenses, but to last into retirement? Will you be able to keep up with inflation? Do you have tax-smart strategies? Do you have a legacy for your family and grandchildren? Here are 10 important measures we suggest women start employing for their financial future. 1. Don’t rely on someone else, like a husband or boyfriend, for your financial security. Educate yourself about money management and investing. 2. Set goals - THE key to financial success. 3. Don’t use money to make yourself feel good. That type of high is fleeting. Instead, do things that promote self-respect and creativity so you don’t have to seek those feelings through spending money. 4. Spend less than you earn - THE secret to creating wealth. 5. Get an education. People with college degrees make on average significantly more money than those who don’t have degrees. 6. Build an emergency fund. Without one, losing your job or incurring a large unexpected bill could force you to take on heavy credit card debt, and could put you into a financial hole that will be difficult if not impossible to dig your way out of. 7. B e involved in the day-to-day management of your family’s finances, and talk about money with your spouse. 8. Don’t take on your partner’s or spouse’s debt when you marry. Wait until you’re both out of debt before tying the knot, or protect yourself with a pre-nuptial agreement. They’re not only for the rich. 9. Don’t let the fear of losing money, fear of failure, or fear of the unknown stop you from investing. www.scwomanmagazine.com 10. Learn from your money mistakes. Don’t let them hobble you. Your financial security is dependent on your attitudes and beliefs about money and your willingness to take your financial future into your own hands. We can help you overcome financial roadblocks. We are NorthStar Financial. The Right Company that facilitates The Right Plan. Resulting, in becoming The Right Person. Consider setting a new direction in your life and contact Northstar Financial at (843)-448-7305 or go to www.northstarnavigator.com to secure a confident Retirement future tomorrow. You will be thankful you did! Patrick Munro Northstar Financial Advisor South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine M a y 2 0 1 6 59 The Power of Words By Meaghan Grettano Say these words out loud… Love, Gratitude, Beautiful. How does saying these words make you feel? Do they bring a smile to your face? Do 60 they make you think of someone you love? Do they help you visualize your favorite place to be? Now, say these words out loud… Ugly. Stupid. Hate. Surely these invoke strong emotions but of a much more negative kind. You may feel uncomfortable, tense, even stressed, saying them. Now that we’ve gone though that little one minute experiment, let’s talk M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine about words and just how powerful they really can be. Everything is energy. The words that we speak are energy, therefore they have the power to make us feel wonderful or down in the dumps. It’s been recently that this important lesson keeps coming up for me in my life. I’ll tell you a little story. For the past several years I’ve had a rib in my back that pops out of place from time to time. Sounds weird and there is not really an explanation for why this happens. It is not painful. Sometimes it’s just slightly annoying, a little uncomfortable, like a dull throb around that area. Sometimes it can intensify. Chiropractors can get the rib back in place and often times gentle stretching and a lot of yoga helps out, too. For the longest time I never drew a connection to any explanation of when it would pop out of place. It just always seemed random. It was not until recently that I’ve started paying attention. No one could tell me WHY this rib keeps popping out so I figured it’s my body…let me figure out for myself what is causing this. It’s pretty amazing that when we can really get in tune with our bodies how much they can tell us. So I started paying close attention to my physical activity, looking for any strain on my back. Was I sleeping funny? Was I twisting wrong or too much during yoga? Hyperextending? Was I too sedentary? This led me to nothing. Nothing physical I was doing seemed to be causing this rib to pop out of place. Next I started paying attention to my emotional state of mind. When I felt calm, peaceful, in a good flow, my body felt great. I was at ease and there was no discomfort in the popping rib area. But then one day I was at home with my kids. They are only a year and a half apart and while they love each other immensely, they can also be at odds ends quite often as well. The usual sibling rivalry type stuff. I do my best to stay out of their bicker- www.scwomanmagazine.com ing or try to be a peaceful mediator. But every so often (ok, sometimes more often than I’d like!) it really gets to me. One particular day they were arguing over something very petty and silly and it went on and on. I stayed calm until I just wasn’t calm any more. The tension between them you could cut with a knife and it totally got to me as it spread throughout the house. I snapped and started yelling, telling them to stop bickering and go to their rooms. This, of course, fueled the fire and they were crying and yelling louder. I got them into their rooms and finally had a quiet moment to be still. What I noticed RIGHT AWAY was that my rib area, exactly where it pops out, was throbbing like I had been punched in the area. Oh my goodness! I immediately drew a connection. The stress and anxiety of the situation with my kids was physically affecting me. The ugly words exchanged by my kids, me yelling at them, the whole cocktail. It was recipe for stress and disaster. And a body that felt less than fantastic. This was immediate proof for me that our words can have a strong effect on our physical bodies. When we feel love, peace & joy, our bodies can feel good, in a wonderful state of ease and flow. When we are in a stressed or toxic environment, our bodies react negatively. We can experience joint pain, headaches, fatigue, insomnia, or a throbbing pain in the ribs and back like I did. Our words have immense power. This was a great lesson for me on how the words we speak (or the words we expose ourselves to) can play a big part in our physical health. We can show ourselves some love and give our bodies a nice detox by speaking words of love, kindness, and gratitude to ourselves and others. Meaghan Grettano is an Integrative Nutrition Health Coach and essential oil educator, living with her husband and two kids in Wilmington, NC. 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Enjoy! • If your gown is an heirloom, allow time for cleaning and freshening, and any alterations that may need to be made. • Select a pretty handkerchief to tuck into your bouquet for sentimental moments. • Practice wearing your wedding shoes before the big day. • Pack a small emergency bag for your dressing area: iron, needle and thread, hair spray, aspirin, nail polish, safety pins, extra panty hose, etc. • Planning an outdoor wedding? Have a colorful supply of umbrellas on hand to help ward away the rain. • Remind the wedding party to gather quickly after your vows for group photographs. You’ll want to greet waiting guests as soon as possible. • It’s proper to send lodging information to your out-oftown guests. Most facilities will do so for you if provided with your guest list. • Don’t forget to place a pretty guest register at the reception. • Arrange for a close friend or relative to transport gifts that are delivered to the reception. • If you’re planning on candles, be sure to appoint someone to light them. • Leave your honeymoon itinerary with a family member. • Ask your bridesmaids to place their bouquets around the reception area as additional decoration. They’ll be thankful not to hold them during the celebration. • Select a special gift for your parents as a gesture of thanks. Present it to them the morning of the wedding. • Send a romantic telegram to your fiancÈ just before the ceremony. • Enjoy a light snack before leaving for the ceremony. Many brides never taste the food at their reception. • The best time to cut the cake at the reception is immediately after the main course is cleared. Eating the first piece of cake together symbolizes your first meal together. The grain it’s made of stands for fertility and fruitfulness. Proposing a short toast to one another reinforces the mood of the moment, making it a special one. • Be sure to get a good nights sleep before the wedding. You’ll be glad you did! • Be sure to have your gown cleaned after the festivities. Stains that may not be visible now may yellow later. • Gowns are best stored in a cool, dry place. When stored on a hanger, sew straps to the waistline to relieve pressure on the shoulders. Wrap the gown in a sheet or muslin, stuffing the sleeves and bodice with white tissue to prevent wrinkling. Take equal care with the headpiece and veil. 62 M a y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com OPEN MOTHER’S DAY 12 NOON ACCEPTING RESERVATIONS! COME ENJOY THE FEAST! CATERING AVAILABLE www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine M a y 2 0 1 6 63