- Nazarene Compassionate Ministries
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- Nazarene Compassionate Ministries
A PUBLICATION OF N A Z A R E N E C O M P A S S I O N A T E M I N I S T R I E S A CHFUORRCH CHILDREN Keeping Children First: How Nepal’s Child-Focused Development Is Changing Entire Families Youth in Action: How Young People Are Living Compassion as a Lifestyle East Africa Famine Persists: The Church Takes Action …for those who embrace compassion as a lifestyle SPONSOR YOUR CHILD TODAY! THROUGH Child Sponsorship, KNOW SOMEONE EDUCATE, FEED, AND CARE FOR row. g o t s e u in t n o c d e the ne number e h t E S A E R C IN n a T O G E T H E R we c 0 to 0 ,0 0 1 m o r f n e r d il OF sponsored ch 20,000 in 2012. CONTENTS Share Christ’s love. Back to School How Child Sponsorship Is Helping a Community in Zimbabwe Educate Their Children 4 A Kingdom For Children Biblical Reflections on a Child-Focused Church 6 A CHURCH FOR CHILDREN Keeping Children First How Nepal’s Child-Focused Development Is Changing Entire Families 8 A Transforming Love How God Is Using Mango Tree Center to Care for a Boy With Cerebral Palsy in Tonga 12 East Africa Famine Persists The Church Takes Action 16 Restored Through Love How a Church Is Expressing God’s Heart for Children in One of Colombia’s Most Dangerous Neighborhoods 14 Little by Little How a Kenyan Couple’s Service Has Changed Thousands of Kids’ Lives 18 A Shared Dream A Kenyan Community and MNU Students Partner to Build a School 21 Here to Stay How a Small Congregation Is Turning Neighbors Into Friends 22 Beating the Odds in Beirut How a Young Woman Is Finding Healing Through the Support of Her Church 24 Growing in Grace A Thai Story of Child Sponsorship 26 Youth in Action How Young People Are Living Compassion as a Lifestyle 28 PHOTO COURTESY OF MARTY HOSKINS Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations are from the New Revised Standard Version (NRSV) of the Bible, copyright 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the U.S.A. Used by permission. All rights reserved. LEARN MORE & SPONSOR YOUR CHILD TODAY THROUGH NAZARENE COMPASSIONATE MINISTRIES AT NCM.ORG/CS. By printing this magazine on recycled paper, NCM helped save:* *Information provided by Spicers Paper 21 trees 9554 gallons of water 7 million BTUs 580 pounds of solid waste 1984 pounds of greenhouse gas emissions l o o h c S o Back t by Simbarashe Kanenungo, NCM Africa The Ruwa Child Development Center offers nutrition, recreation, counseling, Christian discipleship, and educational assistance to the community’s children. PHOTOS COURTESY OF NCM AFRICA How Child Sponsorship Is Helping a Community in Zimbabwe Educate Their Children When the community’s children get better education, the cycle of poverty begins to break, and hope spreads as people see Christ’s compassion lived out in the church. 4 NCM MAGAZINE W hen large-scale commercial farming collapsed beginning in 2000 due to land rights issues, the economy of Ruwa, a small town located 22 kilometers (14 miles) southeast of the capital city of Harare, Zimbabwe, completely collapsed. Farm workers lost their jobs and homes. Poverty increased, and many people resorted to drinking local brew to drown their sorrows. In addition to the problem of unemployment, many people were also living with HIV and AIDS, and many children had been orphaned because of it. A Local Congregation Steps In to Serve The Church of the Nazarene came to Ruwa in 2004 under the leadership of Rev. Freddy Kanenungo, former district superintendent of the Zimbabwe East district. In 2008, the local church identified the children who were most in need and most vulnerable in the community, and they started a child development center (CDC). The center served the kids using the gifts and resources they had gathered locally. Leaders and volunteers collected food like maize and beans from community members and began feeding a nutritious meal to about 50 children every Saturday. They shared Bible stories with the kids and organized sports for them. People from outside the community also donated to the program because they could see the good work taking place. As time went on, though, the leaders and volunteers at the Ruwa CDC felt overwhelmed by the many needs that they could not meet. The majority of participants at the center were children who had been orphaned, having lost one or both parents. Most were no longer going to school because they did not have money for school fees. Take, for example, three siblings at the Ruwa CDC. Precious*, 13, Walter*, 10, and Clemence*, 9, live with their mother, who is unemployed. Their father is dead. Their mother collects firewood to sell and uses the money to put at least one meal a day on the table for her family. However, when the children were expelled from school for not paying their school fees, they had no hope of going back because their mother did not have the funds needed for their education. That hopelessness started to change in December 2010 when the Ruwa CDC had the opportunity to partner with Nazarene Child Sponsorship. Through sponsorship, the CDC was able to accomplish their first priority—to get the community’s children back in school. Precious, Walter, and Clemence were among the first of 20 children (18 primary school and two secondary school students) who went back to school with the help of support sent by child sponsors. HELP WANTED “The morale at the center is very high,” a volunteer at Ruwa CDC said. “Since the funding from NCM started coming in, we are able to do more for the children in our community.” Breaking the Cycle of Poverty The center is now able to address more of the children’s needs. They provide a nutritious meal for the kids Monday through Saturday, which has improved the children’s overall health and ability to learn. They take time to counsel children with emotional needs and teach them about HIV prevention while also ministering to them through Bible studies. They even purchase school uniforms for the children who have tattered ones. With this simple makeover, the children are proud to go to school, and the education they receive there means opportunities for a better future. Volunteers at the Ruwa CDC also advocate for children in the community. The majority of children do not have birth certificates, which they need for the public school examinations that allow them to progress in school. The center has already talked with community leaders about how to collaborate to tackle this issue. Volunteers from the center also conduct health awareness campaigns and seminars in the community. They engage local health care centers to help conduct HIV testing and give counseling to children and their guardians. In a town trying to rebuild a crumbling economy, the Ruwa CDC is bringing hope to children and families who had lost hope. When the community’s children get better education, the cycle of poverty begins to break, and hope spreads as people see Christ’s compassion lived out in the church. In fact, many are coming to faith in Christ because of it. Ruwa Church of the Nazarene is growing as people see transformation in the community. n Precious, 13 years old Walter, 10 years old MOZAMBIQUE Kariba HARARE ZIMBABWE Masvingo BOTSWANA Beitbridge SOUTH AFRICA Computer Programming Coordinator to lead its development team in developing and maintaining NCM’s web applications,, systems,, and websites. Now accepting applications. ‘ To apply for this position, please email your resume to [email protected]. Clemence, 9 years old * Name has been changed. ZAMBIA NCM needs a Write “Computer ProgramMing Coordinator” in the subject line.. We can’t pay much, but the eternal benefits package is unbeatable. ZIMBABWE Total Population: 13 million Life Expectancy: 46 People Living With HIV: 1.2 million Orphaned Children: 1.4 million Under-5 Mortality Rate: 1 in 11 live births Children Under 5 Who Are Underweight: 16% Primary School Enrollment: 90% Secondary School Enrollment: 38% Statistics taken from unicef.org/sowc2011. SPRING 2012 13 Biblical Reflections on a Child-Focused Church by Nell Becker Sweeden, NCM Field Program Coordinator Children hold families and communities together. Their welfare is a good indicator of the community’s health and vitality. A t that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” He called a child, whom he put among them and said, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.” (Matthew 18:1-5) Then little children were being brought to him in order that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples spoke sternly to those who brought them; but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs.” And he laid his hands on them and went on his way. (Matthew 19:13-15) How often do we forget about children or leave them on the sidelines of our busy lives? We run from one place to another and try to meet endless deadlines and feed insatiable agendas. Countless responsibilities, people, and desires push and pull for our time, thoughts, and energy. Too often, when children are brought into the middle of this mess, they are treated as an inconvenience or overlooked altogether. Jesus’ words in Matthew 18 and 19 should radically change the way we relate to children. Jesus was not too busy to be “disrupted” by children. In fact, he took time to pray for and lay his hands of blessing on them. He revealed the kingdom of heaven as an upsidedown kingdom where the first are last and the last, first, and where little children are the greatest. And he told his disciples to become like children if they wanted to enter the kingdom of heaven. If children are so central to Jesus’ vision of God’s kingdom, then we need to welcome them into our lives and make them central in our church. We must care and provide for them while listening to and empowering them. Our Nazarene brothers and sisters in Bangladesh, India, Nepal, and Sri Lanka are leading the way in this. Children Today Our world is rapidly changing, and children are a big part of that change. Consider this: • The world has 7 billion people, and almost one-third of them are under the age of 15. • An additional 2.7 million people will be born this week. Many of these children not only go unseen and unheard, but they are also victims of abuse and exploitation. They are the world’s most vulnerable and have the least ability to defend themselves against harm. And yet, Jesus says that we are to become humble like these children and to welcome him by welcoming them. Child-Focused Community Development Nazarene Compassionate Ministries’ child-focused community development programs in South Asia place children at the center of all the church’s work in order to build loving, healthy, and strong families and congregations. That means programs addressing issues such as hunger, poverty, illiteracy, and HIV and AIDS begin with children. Through this method, all key players in the community have the opportunity to work together to make children’s lives better and, in doing so, improve their own lives and their entire communities as well. The Child Is the Center Children hold families and communities together. Their welfare is a good indicator of the community’s health and vitality. In South Asia, the church ministers to children by nurturing each area of their development in a loving and Christlike way while taking into account the context of their family, extended community, and society. This holistic child development model implemented through child development centers (CDCs) supports each child’s growth to reach her or his God-given spiritual, physical, mental, emotional, and social potential. Healthy Families Raise Healthy Children Parents need a means to provide for their children. That’s why South Asia’s child-focused community development programs often offer small groups for mothers whose children participate in CDCs. The small groups provide social support, parenting education, support for family relationship-building, health and nutrition training, medical check-ups, and skills development in saving money and developing small incomegenerating projects. Transforming Communities Each community’s challenges affect its families and children, from poverty to hunger to violence to disease. NCM staff members work with leaders and parents to develop programs that support the community in overcoming these challenges. NCM Child-Focused Community Activities • Education programs for children • Seminars and lectures on good parenting principles • Skills training for parents • Home Bible studies • Family camps • Community outreach service programs • Coordinating dialogue with local government officials, community organizations, and church leaders about what it means to have a child-friendly church and village Becoming Child-Minded We believe that greater things are yet to be done through children in the name of Jesus, because Jesus, who came as a child, continues to radically transform and bring salvation to our world today. To join in this work, we have to stop and listen. We have to be willing to learn and to be open to how God is breaking into our world through children. n SPRING 2012 7 Keeping ChildreN ks as a street vendor Balampaki Magar wor the help of NCM, Rajan h l wit d Nepa rte NCM sta s of ines Through a small bus ic needs. Photo courtesy ool fees and other bas for his children’s sch selling food to provide Through How Nepal’s Child-Focused Development Is Changing Entire Families child-focused R ajan Balampaki Magar lives in Manohara, an informal settlement outside Kathmandu, Nepal. He and his wife, Gita, are trying to provide a better life for their children. Their son, Suresh,* and daughter, Diya,* study at a private school that offers a better education and more opportunities for the future than the public schools, but it’s not cheap. Rajan and Gita work hard to pay the school fees by selling pani puri (a popular porridge eaten with soup) from a mobile food cart. Their business has done well enough that Rajan was able to buy another cart that he rents to another food vendor for additional income. community development efforts, NCM in Nepal is addressing the needs of the whole family arene , send their kids to a Naz Rajan and his wife, Gita that provides supportive ter child development cen dren and parents. Photo programs for both chil courtesy of NCM Nepal and allowing parents the dignity of providing for their children themselves— both for today and tomorrow. 8 NCM MAGAZINE First with a new area, staff talk When NCM is invited to ut their desires for the future abo s ber community mem t their needs. their strengths to mee and how they can use l Nepa NCM of Photo courtesy TY HOSKINS Photo courtesy of MAR dents receive food, elopment centers, stu ipleship. At nazarene child dev disc an isti chr oring, and health check-ups, tut HOSKINS TY Photo courtesy of MAR TY HOSKINS Photo courtesy of MAR Not long ago, however, the family’s situation was pretty bleak. Rajan and Gita had been working long hours for low pay in a carpet factory. Suresh and Diya often had to miss school since their parents could not afford the cost of school supplies or other education-related fees. The family lived in one of the small rooms the factory provided workers, but living in that environment led to frequent colds and other respiratory problems. When the factory closed unexpectedly, the family suddenly went from having little to having nothing. Rajan and Gita were jobless, and the four of them were homeless. The family was desperate, but they were not without hope. Rajan turned for help to the child development center (CDC) where his children were enrolled and where he was part of a self-help group, an organized group where community members save and loan out money together. On the guarantee of the group, Rajan received a loan from NCM Nepal—enough to buy a food cart and start a small business. Soon, he and Gita were making enough money to provide for their basic needs and send the children to a better school. Now, Rajan and his family are active in the local Nazarene congregation where they are even able to tithe. by NCM Nepal Staff and Beth Clayton Luthye, NCM Education “Many young guys go to Malaysia, UAE [United Arab Emirates], Dubai, or other foreign countries to earn money,” Rajan said, “but I can earn money equal to what they earn from my own country. … God helps people in any situation.” Building Up Parents NCM Nepal ministers from the philosophy that community transformation happens best by addressing the needs of the whole family. That is why NCM’s 10 CDCs reach out not just to the more than 1,100 children they serve, but to their parents as well. Life is not easy for the majority of families living in Nepal. Most of the children in the CDCs come from families NEPAL CHINA NEPAL KATHMANDU INDIA Total Population: 29 million Life Expectancy: 67 Urban Population: 18% Under-5 Mortality Rate: 1 in 21 live births Children Under 5 Who Are Underweight: 45% Primary School Enrollment: 84% Adult Literacy Rate: 58% Statistics taken from unicef.org/sowc2011. SPRING 2012 9 Church-Based Child Development L ocal church congregations are integral to NCM’s child-focused community development in Nepal. Far beyond simply providing a building where children gather, they are involved in every aspect of NCM child development centers (CDCs) as well as ministry to families and communities. Local congregations determine the location of CDCs based on their knowledge of the community and of the children most in need. Teachers in each CDC are active members of their church congregations, and NCM offers training on holistic community ministry to local church leaders. “Local church is not separate from the community,” said Padam Subba, NCM child development coordinator for Nepal. “Rather, it should be a strong agent of implementing God’s holistic plan for changing the community.” Rev. Ganga Mukhiya has seen the way lives are transformed when the church is involved in holistic ministry. He started pastoring New Community Church of the Nazarene in Nepal four years ago. They were a fledgling congregation at the time, but they started looking for ways to serve the community anyway. He said they began “praying for the local church to do something that directly benefits the poor community people.” Then, an existing CDC started enrolling children from the area— mostly children from poor families working in the garment industry. Soon the congregation was operating as an official branch of the CDC and included 50 children from 30 different families coming together five days a week. The CDC ministry also gave Mukhiya an opportunity to reach out to the children’s parents by visiting their homes. Before the CDC program started in 2007, the church was discouraged because they were not growing. Now, the church building is not big enough for everyone who shows up to worship. “Most of the believers are the parents of the CDC kids,” Mukhiya said. “Many of the kids also have made decisions for Christ.” who live well below the poverty line. Many parents of children in the rural CDCs are subsistence farmers, but their fields do not produce enough for the entire year. These farmers look for whatever day labor jobs they can find. The families who live in and around Kathmandu face high costs of living and low-paying jobs. In these contexts, families cannot afford to send their children to school or buy paper, books, and pencils. If children do not go to school, many wind up working in public transportation or as day laborers. Others work in hotels or as housekeepers in other people’s homes where they are often exploited. “Being a poor Nepalese child is synonymous to being a child deprived of good education, nutrition, and various opportunities,” said Padam Subba, NCM child development coordinator for Nepal. “These children cannot develop their potentials and skills until they get a good opportunity.” Nepal’s CDCs, however, give poor children a chance at education, which means a chance at a better future. The centers enroll the most vulnerable children in the community and then work with parents to ensure they have the opportunity to provide for their children’s educational needs on their own. Not only does NCM in Nepal start self-help groups like the one in which Rajan participates, it also helps families participate in other income-generating activities, such as family gardens. Through partnership with Canadian Foodgrains Bank, NCM has helped farmers diversify their crops by adding vegetables to them. This transformation increases each family’s nutrition through a balanced diet. The gardens have been so productive that the farmers have also increased their income through the sale of excess crops—income that is then invested in their children’s futures through education. Through child-focused community development efforts, NCM in Nepal is addressing the needs of the whole family and allowing parents the dignity of providing for their children themselves—both for today and tomorrow. “The CDCs have been a tool for transforming people in Christ,” Subba said. “It is only by the help of our almighty God.” n * Name has been changed. Learn more about child-focused community development in “A Kingdom for Children” on page 6. 10 NCM MAGAZINE INTERE SPONS STED IN OR A CHIL ING D? Visit nc m.org/c s. ngregation L ws his co istry allo URTESY OF NCM NEPA in m te na O CO ssio ays compa r community. PHOT w e th es se thei a Mukhiya to reach out to Rev. Gang Children in Na and preven zarene child develo tative heal th care. PH pment centers in Nepa OTOS COURTE l SY OF NCM NE receive basic medical PAL check-ups The Daily Deal: What Happens at a CDC At CDCs in Nepal, children come five afternoons a week. The CDCs’ programs help address the physical, emotional, relational, intellectual, and spiritual aspects of each child’s life. Here are some of the ways they are engaging children using this holistic approach to child development: NCM in Nepa l children as helps families establ ish garden well as som s that prov e income. ide nutritio us food for • Volunteers tutor children in their school subjects. • Contests, such as quizzes, debates, and poetry or essay contests, make learning fun and teach children confidence. • Children receive a health check-up every three months and are given de-worming pills regularly. • Mothers learn to prepare nutritious, balanced meals for their kids. • Children participate in community rallies to raise awareness about social issues such as human trafficking or the dangers of drug abuse. • Groups act out Bible stories and talk about the Bible’s messages for their lives. • Children participate in Sunday school and worship services. • Children find love and support at the center every day. 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He wears a ho sc y around them. em local primar th a g at in s in as tra cl d n tio ildren an y, and his friends • discipling ch school each da rs; e clean uniform to he Th ot s. le m to clas to discip e to welcome hi m na s hi t ou ll the spirica rents to nurture • equipping pa n. of their childre tual formation to A Nazarene Commitment hildren Holistic Ministry to C SPRING 2012 13 Photos courtesy of Red de Amor Restored Through Love How a Church Is Expressing God’s Heart for Children by Luis Meza, Missionary to Colombia B arrio Belencito Corazón is a tough neighborhood. It is in an area known as Commune Thirteen, the most violent section of Medellín, Colombia’s second largest city, which is also known for its drug-related gang warfare. In the middle of that neighborhood lives a 10-year-old girl named Paula* (pictured in top right photo). She survives there with her mother and two sisters, ages 6 and 4, at the territorial boundary of two rival gangs where she hears gunshots regularly. Yet, it is in this neighborhood that Paula has learned what real love looks like. The Love of a Father Four years ago, Paula’s mother discovered a child development center called Proyecto Red de Amor COLOMBIA CARIBBEAN SEA PANAMA VENEZUELA NORTH PACIFIC OCEAN Medellín BOGOTA COLOMBIA ECUADOR BRAZIL PERU 14 NCM MAGAZINE Total Population: 46 million Life Expectancy: 73 Urban Population: 75% Under-5 Mortality Rate: 1 in 53 live births Children Under 5 Who Are Underweight: 7% Primary School Enrollment: 90% Secondary School Enrollment: 71% Statistics taken from unicef.org/sowc2011. (Network of Love Project) in Barrio Belencito Corazón, a ministry of nearby Santa Monica Church of the Nazarene. At that point, she was desperate for help. Months earlier, Paula’s father had abandoned the family, leaving them without any financial support. During that time, the local government took Paula and her younger sisters to a temporary children’s home. The intention of the move was to keep them safe and provided for, but during the four months they lived in the home, they suffered physical and emotional abuse. Paula even got sick with a stress-related illness that temporarily paralyzed part of her body. Because of the illness, she and her sisters were allowed to return home, but they faced the same economic hardship there that they had left months earlier. Paula’s mother reached out to Proyecto Red de Amor for help. Paula began attending the center, and the church in Santa Monica ministered to Paula’s mother. Today, Paula cherishes the project, not only because she gets a hot lunch, but also because she has experienced love and acceptance from the staff and—most importantly—from God. She has learned that even though her biological father is not around, she has a Father in heaven who loves and protects her. The change in Paula over the last four years is remarkable. Now, she can smile with ease and is doing well in in One of Colombia’s Most Dangerous Neighborhoods school. The young girl comes to the center every day and eats lunch and receives help with her homework. Throughout the year, she also participates in field trips and special celebrations for holidays such as Christmas and Mother’s Day. Through the direction of project coordinator Edna Caicedo, Paula and the rest of the students at the center receive spiritual nurturing through learning to pray and read the Bible and having activities such as vacation Bible school. Growing in Love, Not Hate Proyecto Red de Amor has been a ministry of the Santa Monica Church of the Nazarene since 2006. Rev. Angela Caicedo and the congregation have been sensitive to the voice of the God of love and compassion, and they have responded to the need to care for the children of Barrio Belencito Corazón. They provide volunteer staff, food, monetary resources, and creative energy to help run the child development center. Families who live in Barrio Belencito Corazón are economically disadvantaged. In most cases, single mothers are trying to care for families on their own with extremely limited resources. They do not have a way to meet the most basic needs for their children’s development, such as clean water and education. The community’s challenges have grown as families have left Colombia’s interior to escape the violence there. In the end, they do not escape violence at all. In this neighborhood, there are almost daily confrontations between gangs competing for territory. Children are most vulnerable in this environment because their mothers are forced to leave them at home alone, sometimes under the care of older siblings, while they go out searching for resources to provide for their children. The challenge is great. Paula is just one of thousands of children living in this condition in Medellín’s Commune Thirteen. But the local congregation in Santa Monica believes that, as the church, they are in the right place, because Jesus says, “Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs” (Matthew 19:14). This is why the local church has chosen to commit their time and finances to minister in an area that experiences so much turmoil. It is through this project that Christians can help children to develop in healthy ways, growing in love instead of hate, bitterness, and revenge. We firmly believe that God’s love can heal children’s lives, restore their hearts, and, above all, transform their futures. We must surround them with a network of love and express to them, in word and deed, God’s special love them. n Today, Paula cherishes the project, not only because she gets a hot lunch, but also because she has experienced love and acceptance from the staff and—most importantly— from God. * Name has been changed. SPRING 2012 15 East Africa Famine Persists, THE Church Takes Action by East Africa Disaster Response Team A s East Africa’s largest drought in 60 years continues to keep 13 million people under threat of famine, the Church of the Nazarene is focusing on meeting people’s immediate needs while preparing to walk with them down the long road to healing and restoration. Local and global church partnerships have led to the following programs across the region: • Food Distribution: targeting the immediate nutritional needs of people who have remained in drought-stricken areas rather than moving to refugee camps • Food Security: implementing agricultural development projects that provide seeds to farmers as well as training in sustainable agriculture methods • Gender-Based Violence Prevention and Trauma Counseling: providing violence prevention training in communities where the church is distributing food and partnering with Africa Nazarene University to train people within the Dadaab refugee camp in both trauma counseling for children and gender-based violence prevention st Africa eding center in Ea Each Nazarene fe vulnercommunity’s most prioritizes the d nursren, expectant an able people—child y or sick, le who are elderl ing mothers, peop . 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They cu 0 y 0 t ,0 i 2 n g u n i comm , includ amilies f 0 0 5 e o m t wo n. regnant p 0 0 2 r ove Local Church Feeds Child-Led Family During Drought When her parents died in 2007 due to AIDS-related causes, 21-yearold Kamene decided she would do everything she could to keep her family together. Now 25, she and the family’s seven other children work hard together to make it day by day. But this child-led family knows they are not alone. The local Nazarene church in Kiatine, Kenya, has walked alongside them, even building them a two-room house. The children now plant maize and beans on their small piece of land and drink milk from their one goat. During these days of drought, however, surviving on the land has become difficult. Without enough food, many of the family’s children have experienced stomach ulcers and illnesses. When the church heard about this, they enrolled the family in their sixmonth food distribution program through Nazarene Compassionate Ministries. Since November 2011, Kamene’s family has been receiving 20 kilograms of maize, six kilograms of beans, and three liters of oil each month. Through the support of a loving church, this child-led family has been given a chance at life. Photos courtesy of NCM Kenya People line up outside L odwar Church Nazarene wh of the ere women w it h children u 5 are given nder priority so they can lea to care for v e early their famil ies. Each rec kilograms of ei ves 20 maize, six k ilograms of and three lit b eans, ers of oil. g distances to receive Many people travel lon d work together their food allotment an Mutua (right) and to get their food home. g Mutua’s donkey Kithunu (left) are sharin for the journey. If you w i respond sh to give to h e at ncm.o to the famine, lp the church yo rg/africa hunger u can do so on In the US: line or by ch M to “Genera ake your checks p eck. ayable l Treasure r” “ ACM1519 ” in the m and include emo line. Global Tre asury Serv Church of ices th P.O. Box 8 e Nazarene 43116 Kansas C ity, MO 64 184-3116 In Canada :M “Church o ake checks payab f the Naza le to re include “A CM1519” ne Canada” and in the mem Church of o line. th 20 Regan e Nazarene Canad Road, Unit a Brampton 9 , Ontario L 7A 1C3. SPRING 2012 17 Little by Little How a Kenyan Couple’s Service Has Changed Thousands of Kids’ Lives W hen Rev. Peter and Grace Okinyo started living in Kibera—one of Kenya’s largest informal settlements located in its capital, Nairobi—they had no idea how God would lead them. As parents, they not only worked hard to provide for their children in the midst of the neighborhood’s challenges, but they also found ways to help their neighbors live better lives. In 1991, the Okinyos started a community school that is still creating opportunities for the more than 400 students living in an area that offers few prospects to its young people. People settle in Kibera mostly as a last resort. Families seeking economic opportunity leave rural areas and head to Nairobi, but when they find no work or only low-wage jobs, they do not have enough money to rent a room with access to electricity, sanitation, or clean water. The places in Kibera are more affordable, but shelters in this densely populated settlement often lack these basic services as well as proximity to quality, affordable schools. Kibera has also become home to many political and economic refugees—people from inside and outside Kenya who need to escape trauma, war, persecution, or extreme poverty. Yet the reality is, people still experience trauma, violence, and unhealthy living conditions when they relocate to Kibera. In the midst of these difficulties, however, Kibera’s residents make up a vibrant community influenced by people from diverse cultures with unique gifts. Together, many people are figuring out how to make it through day-to-day life with love and dignity. Steps of Faith 22 NCM MAGAZINE said. “And the church wanted to reach the community with the gospel.” Mrs. Okinyo had studied teaching in college, and education was her passion. She told some parents she was interested in starting a nursery school. She would charge a low fee—just enough to buy a few materials like chalk and a chalkboard. Rev. Peter and Grace Okinyo PHOTO COURTESY OF NCM Over the first year, the number of children grew, and the next year, as the first class of children graduated into the next class, she took on a new group of nurseryaged children. Each year, the Okinyos added a grade level until the school, Kibera Nazarene Primary School, reached eighth grade. As it expanded, they modified the small church building and rented extra rooms to accommodate the increasing student population. In an overcrowded space like Kibera, expansion happens only through creative design. Pathways, often only wide enough for foot traffic, snake through the community’s dense blueprint of temporary shelters, shops, stalls, and schools. Most buildings in Kibera, including the church and school, are constructed with walls made of rough-hewn timbers and mbati (tin) sheets for the roof, while others are made of mud and sticks. In spite of overcrowding, the Okinyos found ways to make their location work. The school has always charged a modest fee to cover expenses such as lunch, supplies, and books, but it has welcomed students without means to pay as well. Sometimes that has meant teachers have gone without salaries. Rev. and Mrs. Okinyo worked hard to live and minister in Kibera. Mrs. Okinyo would rise early each morning to walk to one of Nairobi’s open markets. She would then buy vegetables to bring back and sell at a stand in her neighborhood—a small means of income for the family. Rev. Okinyo pastored the Woodley Church of the Nazarene and kept his eyes and heart open to the community’s needs. Over time the family developed friendships in the community, and these relationships eventually led them to start a school. “During those [early] days, learning was so expensive in government schools,” Rev. Okinyo said, “so we just decided to volunteer.” “We wanted to reduce the number of street children on the road,” Rev. Okinyo In 2009, Rev. and Mrs. Okinyo left Kibera to move back to their rural home in Bondo Nduswe in Siaya district of Nyanza province, a day’s bus ride from Nairobi. Today, the school continues its Christian mission under the leadership of Eunice Okinyo, Rev. and Mrs. Okinyo’s daughter. Through partnerships with local nonprofit organizations and the church, the school continues to meet the needs of its students. Many have even gone on to college, and they bring their gifts back to the community. “Even after [the students] finish their classes, they come back to the school,” Rev. Okinyo said. “They recognize that without that school, they would not have made it.” Changing Directions A teacher passes out donated backpacks to children at Bondo Nduswe Nazarene Children’s Center. Photo courtesy of Jeb Flynn “We were going to rest in Siaya,” Rev. Okinyo said. “We were tired of the stresses of the town, and we were growing old.” by Kelly Becker Tirrill, NCM Education But Rev. Okinyo says God had something different in mind. When he got to Siaya, he was appointed Nazarene district superintendent of the Lake Victoria district, and Mrs. Okinyo realized she would not be content if she were not helping children. “We wanted “[My wife] told me that she didn’t feel happy without kids,” Rev. Okinyo said. “The kids began to come one by one, and today, we can talk about [a group of] 140 kids.” Partnership Builds a New School These 140 children have become the core group of the Okinyo’s new school—Bondo Nduswe Nazarene Children’s Center—which has developed in partnership with Nazarenes inside and outside Kenya. Situated in a dry, rural area, many parents of the school’s children are subsistence farmers and cattle herders with little income for school fees. Forty students are children who have been orphaned. They are living with relatives or community members and have no ability to pay for their education on their own. to reduce the number of street children on the road, and the church wanted to reach the community with the gospel.” -Rev. Peter Okinyo SPRING 2012 19 “The work is for the blessing of God, not for the purpose of making wealth. People are coming out to join hands.” -Rev. Peter Okinyo Before the Nazarene school, they just stayed home, but now they have an opportunity to learn. they have planted beans and maize on a plot of land MNU helped them purchase. The school has become a communal effort. In addition to the Okinyos, two of the young Nazarene congregation’s 12 church members volunteer at the school. The Okinyos and their team have an ambitious vision for what the school can become. They want to bring electricity, water, and teachers’ offices to the school. “We are training more from our local church and creating awareness,” Rev. Okinyo said. “The work is for the blessing of God, not for the purpose of making wealth. People are coming out to join hands.” “We are not just resting,” Rev. Okinyo said. “We are preparing some bricks because we have a vision to build more classes.” MidAmerica Nazarene University (MNU) has also joined hands with the local church in its endeavor. In May 2011, a team of students traveled to Kenya to help construct the school’s first building using funds the university community raised (see “A Shared Dream,” page 21). The local community now uses the building for classes during the week and church services on Sundays. The Nazarene school offers its students a midday meal. To create a consistent source of nutrition for students, Kibera lacks basic amenities such as running water and sanitation services. Winding pathways like this one connect the densely populated 2.5 sq. kilometer (one sq. mile) informal settlement. Photo courtesy of Jeb Flynn SUDAN UGANDA Each day, students line up for lunch, which the school provides for them. Photo courtesy of Jeb Flynn KENYA ETHIOPIA KENYA Lake Victoria NAIROBI Mombasa TANZANIA SOMALIA INDIAN OCEAN Total Population: 40 million Life Expectancy: 55 People Living With HIV: 1.5 million Orphaned Children: 2.6 million Under-5 Mortality Rate: 1 in 12 live births Children Under 5 Who Are Underweight: 20% Primary School Enrollment: 74% Secondary School Enrollment: 49% Statistics taken from unicef.org/sowc2011. 20 NCM MAGAZINE The Okinyos’ method of community transformation in the name of Christ comes through in Bondo Nduswe as much as it did in Kibera. “We don’t go very fast, but slowly,” Rev. Okinyo said. “Little by little.” Through this “little by little,” God has built something beautiful that looks a lot like the kingdom of God—both in Kibera and in Bondo Nduswe—through Rev. Peter and Grace Okinyo’s faithfulness. n Though most are still without desks, children at the Nazarene school in Bondo Nduswe now have a classroom in which to learn. Photo courtesy of Japheth Okinyo A Shared Dream A Kenyan Community and MNU Students Partner to Build a School I by Jeb Flynn n the bristling afternoon heat, storm clouds rolled in across the horizon. We had been working tirelessly with our brothers and sisters to build a church and school in Bondo Nduswe, a small village in western Kenya’s Siaya district. The roof was now on. Bwana asifiwe (praise the Lord) because it looked like rain. In just three weeks, 16 of us from the United States had worked alongside 20 community members to construct the first building for Bondo Nduswe Nazarene Children’s Center—a project years in the making. In the summer of 2009, I traveled to Bondo Nduswe on a Youth in Mission team (a Nazarene short-term missions program for university students). We were assigned to facilitate youth and children-worker training for community members at a small church while also conducting a vacation Bible school for the community’s children. When 50 kids showed up, we understood why this work was so essential. We later learned that most of these children had been orphaned, and our hearts broke for them. Rev. Peter and Grace Okinyo were our hosts in Bondo. Before moving there, they had ministered for over 20 years in Kibera—one of Africa’s largest and most impoverished informal settlements—located in Nairobi. In Kibera, the Okinyos pioneered a primary school that continues to serve over 400 students (see “Little by Little,” page 18). When they moved, they saw that children in Bondo Nduswe had the same basic needs as those in Kibera—love, family, food, shelter, and education. They wanted to provide education for these little ones to help reduce the number of people moving to Nairobi in search of employment and a better life only to find themselves in greater poverty in places like Kibera. The Okinyos shared with our team their heart for the community’s children. We dreamed together about their idea for constructing a building to serve as a school and also a place of worship for the local congregation. We talked about how people in the local church would be the backbone, and Mrs. Okinyo with her years of experience would run the school. This team would work with the Africa East field leadership to make sure the project fit within the mission of the global church. The school would be called Bondo Nduswe Nazarene Children’s Center. Local volunteers and MidAmerica Nazarene University students labored together to build the school’s first classroom in May 2011. PhotoS courtesy of Jeb Flynn Student Support for the School When I returned to MidAmerica Nazarene University (MNU) in Olathe, Kansas, USA, I worked with university leadership to organize fundraising efforts for the school in Bondo. We started “Two Dollar Tuesdays” where we asked each student to give two dollars every Tuesday in chapel toward the project in Kenya. Meanwhile, Rev. and Mrs. Okinyo were not waiting for money to minister to children. They borrowed a building from another church and found four volunteer teachers to educate the 120 students who were coming to the school at that time. By April, MNU students had raised US $29,000 and also received a donation of US $6,000 from nearby College Church of the Nazarene in Olathe, for a total of US $35,000. In May 2011, a team of MNU students traveled to Bondo Nduswe to work side by side with community members in building the Bondo Nduswe Nazarene Children’s Center. Once the roof was on after some hard work, we celebrated the accomplishment and the joy of our time spent together. Then, two by two, brothers and sisters from Kenya and students from MNU walked the school’s property line, stooped in the red dirt, and planted trees. These trees symbolize our hope in the Creator of the universe who is working to renew and restore in Bondo Nduswe. n Then, two by two, brothers and sisters from Kenya and students from MNU walked the school’s property line, stooped in the red dirt, and planted trees. Check out a video on the story of the Okinyos, their work in Kibera and Bondo Nduswe, and their partnership with MNU at ncm.org/nduswe. SPRING 2012 21 age them to keep their babies and to foster longterm, supportive relationships with the parents. The initial plan was to meet with moms and dads weekly to talk about godly parenting and to provide material resources such as diapers. “God had much more in mind,” said Jo Ann Baker, the GSM center director. During the first year of focused outreach, approximately 50 young mothers came to GSM. Of those, four said they were considering abortion. “They chose life instead!” Baker said. “We now see those moms and their beautiful babies running around the center each Wednesday.” Brittany is one of the young mothers who visit the compassionate ministry center. She first came following a stay in a homeless shelter. At the time, Brittany had a 2-year-old and was ready to deliver her second child. She was extremely withdrawn, rarely smiled, and didn’t make eye contact. by Terry Wasser, Good Samaritan Ministries Good Samaritan Ministries recently provided 25 bikes to children who participate in their afterschool tutoring program. Photos courtesy of Terry Wasser How a Small Congregation Is Turning Neighbors Into Friends “But a Samaritan while travelling came near him; and when he saw him, he was moved with pity. He went to him and bandaged his wounds.” Luke 10:33-34 22 NCM MAGAZINE H ow can a small congregation of 125 people show the love of Christ in a tangible way to people in their community? That was the heart of a discussion in a board meeting at Collinsville, Illinois, First Church of the Nazarene one night in 1998. We looked to God to lead us, and as the idea grew into reality, we named the effort Good Samaritan Ministries of the Metro East. Our goal was to emulate the good Samaritan who met his brother’s needs. What has happened since then has been truly amazing. Growing Together in Washington Park God led Good Samaritan Ministries (GSM) to establish a presence in Washington Park, Illinois, USA. Through God’s genius and imagination, God led our church to begin to walk together with people from completely different backgrounds. Washington Park has a high violent crime rate, and community members don’t often trust people coming into their community from the outside like tourists trying to fix their problems. We slowly earned the trust of residents there by being real and showing them we were not in search of a good feeling, but we were there to stay and longed to share life with them. GSM started with simple, practical ideas: assisting senior adults with cleaning and other tasks, providing lowincome families with limited financial assistance, and offering box fans during the hot summer months to those in homes without air conditioning. We wanted to come alongside people similar to the way modeled by Jesus, who met the needs of the 5,000 first by feeding them. The ministry purchased a small house in 2003 and turned it into a compassionate ministry center. After outgrowing that space, GSM built a larger 6,000-squarefoot (557-square-meter) center on the same street. Reaching Out to Young Mothers In 2007, GSM began intentionally reaching out to young mothers and fathers with a special emphasis on those contemplating abortion. The goal was to encour- “She appeared to be barely surviving,” Baker said. Start (a preschool program for children of low-income families), and she is taking good care of her younger children. Through this Brittany is becoming the woman God has intended her to be. God has always been in the transformation business, and God’s work in Brittany’s life is obvious as she grows in faith. is changing the GSM, originally just a subcommittee of our church, has flourished beyond what anyone could have imagined more than a decade ago. Little is much when God is in it. Through this ministry, God is changing the lives of people like Brittany, but beyond that, God is transforming the lives of those who serve through GSM and the Church of the Nazarene in Collinsville. In fact, the congregation changed its name several years ago. It is now Good Samaritan Church of the Nazarene. beyond that, God is The way we see it, everyone can be a Good Samaritan. Collinsville. ministry, God lives of people like Brittany, but transforming the lives of those who serve through GSM and the Church of the Nazarene in Learn more about Good Samaritan Ministries at gsmmetro.org. As Baker started to befriend her, though, Brittany began to open up. After six months, she expressed interest in pursuing a G.E.D. (general education diploma). Baker took Brittany to a school specializing in G.E.D. tutoring, but they determined she wasn’t ready for that. At 19 years old, Brittany tested at a first-grade reading level. Brittany began to share some of the difficulties of her life with Baker. As a 10-year-old, she was often left alone to care for her younger sister, and they frequently moved from house to house. As a result, Brittany missed school frequently. She dropped out at 16 when she found out she was pregnant. God has been faithful to provide for Brittany, though. A GSM volunteer with experience in adult literacy has been tutoring Brittany for the past year. GSM also started an after-school tutoring program to keep other children from falling through the educational cracks. A Life Transformed Now Brittany is a lively and likeable 20-year-old with an easy laugh. She is the mother of three and is working on developing a healthy, lasting relationship with her children’s father. Brittany and her kids live in a fourbedroom apartment, a place she can call home for the first time. Her oldest daughter is enrolled in Head Good Samaritan Ministries hosted a vacation Bible school in Washington Park, a first for many of the children there. United States CANADA UNITED STATES Los Angeles PACIFIC OCEAN MEXICO New York WASHINGTON, D.C. ATLANTIC OCEAN Total Population: 315 million Life Expectancy: 79 Orphaned Children: 2.1 million Under-5 Mortality Rate: 1 in 125 live births Children Under 5 Who Are Underweight: 2% Primary School Enrollment: 92% Secondary School Enrollment: 88% Statistics taken from unicef.org/sowc2011. SPRING 2012 23 BEATING ODDS THE IN BEIRUT How a Young Woman Is Finding Healing Through the Support of Her Church M argueritta, a 21-year-old English major at the University of Lebanon, is beating the odds that were against her from childhood. Together with her mother and two brothers, she lives in the same tiny onebedroom apartment she has lived in since childhood. The apartment is near the simple store where her father sold soda pop and other food goods to the neighborhood. Margueritta was nine years old when her father, Edward, found faith in Christ and started taking his family to the local Nazarene church. Edward’s new love for God moved him to write Christian songs, and he taught them to Margueritta. She loved those songs, and with her father watching, Margueritta often sang them boldly and beautifully on Sunday mornings in front of the entire congregation. Just a few weeks before Margueritta’s 13th birthday, Edward asked her to stop by the shop to see him on her way to school. She was in a hurry that day, though, so Margueritta decided to drop in after school. Unfortunately, she never got that chance. That afternoon, Edward collapsed into a coma, and he was gone three days later. “The idea of losing my father killed me,” Margueritta said. “It left me broken and depressed.” This tragic event had a dramatic impact on Margueritta’s family, too. Her mother was unsuccessful at making the family store profitable, and she moved her two sons to an orphanage where they slept, studied, and received food and care. But life for Margueritta and her family has changed over the past eight years. Her brothers, who will graduate from high school this year, are back living with their mother and are faithful participants in the church’s youth group. The church has helped Margueritta’s mother start a few income-generating projects, and today, she supports herself by making clothing alterations from her home. “The church played a big role in my healing,” Margueritta said. “The Lord gave me the Nazarene family to be beside me. No one helped me like the church did— emotionally, financially, and spiritually.” Margueritta aspires to start a master’s degree program in either education or counseling and would like to one day earn a doctoral degree. Last summer, she took part in an NCM seminar in Lay Counseling Training held in Beirut, which will help her serve people no matter which path she follows. 24 NCM MAGAZINE After years of family and economic struggles, Margueritta (RIGHT) is now earning an English degree at university. Photos courtesy of Philip Rodebush N azarene Compassionate Ministries has supported Margueritta in her college education through a scholarship from the Leadership Education and Advancement Program (LEAP). Through LEAP, the church seeks to support education beyond primary and secondary child sponsorship. The goal is to develop church and community leaders—people who will impact their communities, just like Margueritta seeks to do. Margueritta has worked throughout her studies, but the LEAP scholarship has helped cover what her income could not. Margueritta and other volunteers play games with children from the Nazarene school and church in Beirut, Lebanon. Many children at the school are sponsored through NCM. Margueritta’s transformation is apparent to the many who have invested in her life. And there is more transformation to come in her future. “I know that God is almighty and nothing is impossible for him,” she says. “He opens doors that no one can close, and closes doors that no one can open.” n My Testimony of Grace With Tears by Rod Green, NCM Middle East LEAP: Leadership Education and Advancement Program This year, Margueritta is finishing her Bachelor of Arts degree in English with a minor in French. She applied to this program three years ago, along with 100 other students. Only 13 students were accepted, and Margueritta ranked third among them all. Washed “With my brothers away and my father dead, my mother was totally broken and miserable. She cried all the time,” Margueritta said. “I couldn’t bear seeing her this way, and I was helpless to do anything about it.” by Margueritta Mdawar, Lebanon The local Nazarene congregation in Beirut ministers to the community especially through outreach to children. W hen my father died unexpectedly, I asked the Lord, “Why did you let this happen to me, your daughter?” I was very hurt, and I made a conscious decision to stop talking to Jesus and start living the way I wanted. I was neither the salt nor the light of Jesus on this earth. I started living a double life—wearing one mask at church and a different one at school. I thought I was punishing Jesus, but in fact, I was punishing myself. Blinded by anger and sorrow, I was not able to see the blessings the Lord had given me. He was beside me all the time, giving me success in my studies and favor with my teachers. I had a thirst that couldn’t be quenched. One night, I lifted Learn m about L ore ncm.or EAP at g/leap. my eyes to the heavens and shouted with all the power I had left, “Lord, I am too tired for this. I am too weak. I cannot carry on. I need your help!” That night, I surrendered. I understood that my deepest need is Jesus. I realized that people will leave us, eventually, but not God. God has been, is, and will always be faithful. God gives peace and love and quenches the thirst of a dehydrated soul. As I prayed and cried, God used my tears to cleanse me from my bitterness. The Lord listened to me. God promised that he will always be with me. God told me that he will be my father. And I believed God. I am so glad the Lord chose me to glorify his name through the gifts he gave me. Glory to God’s name. SPRING 2012 25 growing in Grace A Thai Story of Child Sponsorship Children at Maetang Tribal Children’s Home come from surrounding rural areas to live close to town so they can go to school. Students at the children’s home develop lasting friendships. PhotoS courtesy of NCM Asia-Pacific by Nasae Jasai M y name is Nasae, and I grew up in the Pai area of the Mae Hon Song province in Thailand, where my parents were pastors. When I was 14 years old, my parents sent me to start fourth grade at the Pabong Huay Hang School and live at the Maetang Tribal Children’s Home. In Pai, I would not have had the opportunity to get a good education, but in Maetang, there are many good schools. Because my parents could not afford to pay for all of my education, room, and board, a sponsor paid for me to stay at Maetang Tribal Children’s Home while my parents helped pay for my school. I still remember my first teacher’s name: Mrs. Soontawn. At first, I didn’t have any friends, and I felt homesick, crying for my mom and dad. But after a few weeks, I began to make some friends. In fact, three other girls who lived at the children’s home with me became my closest friends. We had so much in com- 26 NCM MAGAZINE mon and even lived in the same room. We shared everything with each other. If one of us had a special treat, we would all crowd on that person’s bed at night to eat it together, and we would always pray together before we went to sleep. When I was 16 and in grade six, I started serving God as part of an evangelistic team at the children’s home. Every Friday evening, we would practice songs and dances, and on Saturdays, we would perform them at the village churches in the surrounding mountain areas. Sometimes teams from Korea would train and lead us in these outreach efforts. We were blessed to learn so much during those days, and many of our brothers and sisters in the villages made decisions to receive Christ as their Savior and were baptized. By the time I was 19 years old, I was in my final year of high school. I had also met a young man, Michai Jabo, who was one of the evangelistic team leaders, and we decided to get married. For the next two years, we continued to serve God together on the evangelistic team while working as supervisors of children at the children’s home. After those two years of service, Southeast Asia Nazarene Bible College opened extension classes at the children’s home. We served in this new Bible college for seven years. First, we were responsible to supervise and care for the Bible students. During this time, I also took classes and finished my degree in four years, after which I started teaching classes about Christian living for the younger students at the children’s home. Michai studied at the Bible college, too, and he also taught some of the Bible classes. For three years, he pastored a church, and I taught the women there. Now we live in Chiang Rai, a rural town that does not have many churches yet. We have joined a small house church started by Ajaarn (a respectful term meaning “leader”) Phil and Ruthie Webb (Southeast Asia Nazarene Compassionate Ministries coordinators). We don’t have a church building, but each time we gather with the congregation’s 10 to 15 people, we enjoy worshipping God so much. There is such warmth, and we receive many blessings as we gather together. Michai now works most weekdays with Ajaarn Phil making bamboo bikes as part of a small business designed to create employment and opportunity for Thailand’s hilltribe families. But he also dedicates several days per month to leading the church in other villages in northern Thailand (Hat Yao, Lawbuhr, Maw Phi, and others). He also coordinates extension classes in Chiang Rai for Southeast Asia Nazarene Bible College as there is a need for trained pastors for the congregations the church is planting there. We now have four children—all girls—whom I care for. Three of our daughters are in school, and one is at home with me. We are so thankful for God’s daily care and provision. Sometimes, we have financial need in our family, but God has never abandoned us. At times, God even provides for us through our neighbors. Our problems don’t weaken us but, instead, make us strong in God. From the time we were children—studying and growing in relationship with God—to now, we have been committed to always serving God faithfully. n If you would like to learn more about the bamboo bike project, visit bamboobikemaker.com. Maetang Tribal Children’s Home M aetang Tribal Children’s Home is open to children of rural, mountainous villages in northern Thailand who live too far from schools to get an education. Many people in this region have migrated into northern Thailand from China, Laos, Burma, and Tibet. They live in severe poverty, and child trafficking has become a huge problem. The NCM Child Sponsorship program and local resources subsidize the children’s home so that parents can afford to have their children educated and cared for there. Mission: Sharing the saving love of God with the tribal children in Thailand VIsion: That all children will know Jesus as their Lord and Savior and become agents of transformation in their communities Goals: To help children discover their leadership potential and use it for Christ and to equip children with good education, skills, and other competencies so that they can support themselves and help their families Nasae Jasai is proud of her daughters. PhotoS courtesy of Phil Webb Nasae Jasai and her family have connected with Phil and Ruthie Webb’s children through their small house church. Michai, Nasae’s husband, builds bikes from bamboo as a part of a socially responsible business. It is God’s plan that we introduce children to the life of salvation and growth in grace. ... We recognize that children are not a means to an end, but full participants in the Body of Christ. Children are disciples in training, not disciples in waiting. Church of the Nazarene, Manual SPRING 2012 27 t u o Y iNI h C T N O A Birds of Hope Take Flight “I want to do something. I want to help,” 12-yearold Emily prayed to God as she stood among her peers in a youth camp worship service in the summer of 2010. The crowd of young people had just watched a video about people in Ndola, Zambia, who did not have access to clean water and whose economy had shut down when the copper industry there collapsed. That night, Emily didn’t have anything to give in the offering designated for Ndola, but she still resolved to do something to help. When Emily arrived home after camp, she started talking with her best friend, Allyson, about what they could do to raise money to help the people of Ndola. How Young People Are Living Compassion as a Lifestyle Want to learn to live out Christ’s compassion? Take a lesson from someone who is young. Youth often see injustice and suffering with “We started thinking of ways to bring them hope,” Emily said. Many children and families in Ndol a, Zambia, now have access to clean water beca Birds of Hope’s fundraising effort use of s. new eyes and tender hearts—ones that break with the same things that break God’s heart. And they have passion. It makes sense, then, that Jesus reminds us that to enter the kingdom we must become like young people— bad in the world and the heart and humility to change it. Check out these two stories of youth living compassion as a lifestyle. The Church of the Nazarene envisions an intergenerational faith community where children and youth are loved and valued, where they are ministered to and incorporated into the Church family through a wide variety of means and methods, and where they have opportunities to minister to others in ways consistent with their ages, development, abilities, and spiritual gifts. Church of the Nazarene, Manual 28 NCM MAGAZINE Emily had taken a sewing class at a local fabric store and had some leftover fabric, so they decided to put together Emily’s sewing skills with the material they had available and create bird ornaments. They would sell them for US $5 and give the proceeds to Active:Water, an organization helping to bring clean water to Ndola. “We told our moms,” Emily said. “They were excited but weren’t sure we were going to follow through with it. They told us to talk to Brooklyn.” to have the eyes to see both the good and by Kelly Becker Tirrill, NCM Education Their idea? Birds. Yes, birds. Biosand filters remove harmful micro-organism from drinking water. s Brooklyn Lindsey, Emily’s and Allyson’s youth pastor at Highland Park Church of the Nazarene in Lakeland, Florida, USA, took these young women seriously, encouraged them, and provided guidance to their endeavor. She suggested that they start by selling the birds at church. Their first goal was to raise US $500. “We surpassed that goal our first Sunday,” Emily said. But their effort didn’t end there. They continued to make and sell birds wherever they could—at church, holiday bazaars, a local store, and even the USA/ Canada regional Nazarene Youth Conference. What started as a grassroots project of two openhearted young people has turned into Birds of Hope, a nonprofit organization that fundraises for and educates about the need for global clean water. Still guided by Emily, Birds of Hope’s part- Allyson (left) and Emily (right) started sewing and selling bird ornaments in 2010 to raise money for clean water. PhotoS courtesy of Birds of Hope nerships have grown as more people in the church and in the community have supported the efforts, from free Birds of Hope t-shirts to donated fabric— what Emily calls their version of loaves and fishes. Countless church and community members have supported Birds of Hope—and children and adults in Ndola—through hosting Birds of Hope at events and buying the birds. At each turn, Emily and Birds of Hope have had to adjust their fundraising goals, from US $500 to $1000 to $5000 and on. At this point, Birds of Hope has raised around $30,000. “God [has been] definitely working through all of it,” Emily said. “We knew that God wanted us to do something like this, and we just left it in his hands.” In the beginning of 2012, Birds of Hope also started raising money for Nazarene Compassionate Ministries clean water projects. Emily says she has experienced so much support from her Nazarene family that she wants to give back. Emily’s work with Birds of Hope requires dedication that not every youth, or adult for that matter, has. She works weekdays and weekends to sew the birds, along with Allyson, her mother, and other volunteers. And when Emily gets tired or overwhelmed, her mom reminds her to watch that first video she saw about Ndola. In the video, she sees the pictures of the kids God called her to help. She is inspired as she watches one little girl in particular who loves to dance. about Learn more pe at Birds of Ho .org. birdsofhope “It helps me remember that she is the reason I do this, “ Emily said. “So that she can have the opportunity to dance.” n SPRING 2012 29 Share Water for Christmas B Christ’s Love efore Christmas in 2010, 9-year-old Hailey found that she wasn’t very interested in Christmas presents—at least not the typical kind. She had seen NCM Canada’s yearly gift catalog where people can buy things such as a goat, a pig, some seeds, or a well to give to someone in need, and she decided that helping people was what she wanted most for Christmas. Though there were items in the catalog that cost around US $25, Hailey went for something much more expensive—a well in Bangladesh. Child. Mend a Broken With a World. Hailey says her goal was “to save people’s lives and to help them know God.” Hailey lives with a serious illness herself, so she is well acquainted with suffering. But she has a generous spirit, and that spirit is changing the lives of family, friends, and strangers both in her own community and around the world. Hailey, with the help of her mother, wrote a letter to her family and friends and told them she was raising money for a well during Christmas. She asked that her family not buy her presents but, instead, contribute toward the well. Family, church members, other students, and friends responded, and Hailey raised around US $2,000—enough to drill one deep and two shallow tube wells in Bangladesh. One of these wells is in the village of Joshadi, Bangladesh, and has given women like Ramoni and Pushni the chance to draw fresh, clean water close to home. Before the well, after a hard day of work as day laborers in the rice fields, they would walk two to three kilometers (about one to two miles) to get water from a pond—water that could still make them and their families sick. But Nazarene Compassionate Ministries in Bangladesh chose the local church in Joshadi as the place they would use Hailey’s gift. Now, with the well at the pastor’s house, around 300 families have water to cook with and to drink—and it does not make them sick. In this sense, Hailey got her wish: People’s lives are being saved and they are seeing the love of God. 300 million children will go to bed hungry tonight and every night. 400 million children don’t have access to clean, safe drinking water. raise money Nine-year-old Hailey committed to ide clean water through friends and family to prov NCM Canada in Bangladesh. Photos courtesy of 30 NCM MAGAZINE And 1 child dies every 4 seconds from preventable causes. THIS IS BROKENNESS. Help us mend it. Thanks to a new well in their comm unity, Ramoni and Pushni can now draw fresh, clean water close to home. How You Can Help: SPONSOR a child. Visit ncm.org/cs to learn more. VOLUNTEER at a church, compassionate ministry center, or organization that cares for children. PRAY for children worldwide. Visit ncm.org/ wwp to learn more about the World Weekend of Prayer for Children at Risk (June 2-3, 2012). through Hailey helped to fund this well NCM Canada. SUPPORT NCM programs that empower healthy children and families. Visit ncm.org/projects. ADVOCATE for children. Use your voice to stand up for the most vulnerable in your community and around the world. “Each year, I am going to try my hardest to raise money for different projects around the world,” Hailey said. With her tender heart, Hailey is an example of what it means to live compassion from a young age—compassion as a lifestyle. n 13 percent of school-age children around the world have never gone to school. Wells like this one in Jos rate of waterborne illn hadi help to reduce the ess in the community. MENTOR youth. Get involved in the lives of children and youth around you, and let them know that they are precious in God’s eyes. Nazarene Compassionate Ministries Church of the Nazarene 17001 Prairie Star Pkwy Lenexa, KS 66220 (800) 310-6362 Nonprofit Org. U.S. Postage PAID General Board of the Church of the Nazarene Live generously. Give wisely. Want to build a legacy of generosity with your family? The Church of the Nazarene Foundation can help you design a God-honoring estate plan. A charitable gift annuity can benefit you, your children, and families around the world through the work of Nazarene Compassionate Ministries. An endowment, donor-advised fund, or trust may also be the perfect way to share your resources with those in need both for today and tomorrow. 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