ECHO_Newsletter 55_V1 - Evelina Children`s Heart Organisation
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ECHO_Newsletter 55_V1 - Evelina Children`s Heart Organisation
ECHO Newsletter Issue 65 Newsletter Summer 2012 Inside this edition: Meet our new members of staff | Safe and Sustainable decision announced – how it will affect your family | Dr Owen Miller becomes ECHO Patron! ECHO FAMILY DAY On Saturday 16th June we held our fourth ECHO Family Day at the Grange City Hotel in London, overlooking the Tower of London. Perrett and many volunteers from the Evelina who looked after the six to ten year olds and took them on an exciting trip to London zoo for most of the day! The event was attended by over sixty families. Members enjoyed informative presentations, a delicious lunch followed by afternoon workshops and a wonderful three course evening meal. Jon Brunskill, the Youth Leader for Little Hearts Matter, gave a huge amount of assistance, not only in planning and organising activities and an outing for the ETC gang, but also in running the day. He, along with Olivia Hutchinson and Rich Wilson, plus some volunteers from the Evelina, gave the teens a wonderful day to remember! To read more about the day from Rachel Ward, an ETC member, turn to page 23. The children were kept busy and entertained all day and evening! It was a fantastic event and gave members the opportunity to learn, share experiences with other families and socialise in a lovely setting. The highlight of the day for many was Hannah Phillips's amazing one-woman show Hannah's Heart Beat. Turn to page 22 to read Hannah's story, so far! We would like to thank Dr Owen Miller and Monica McCaffrey for their interesting and informative presentations. Also we would like to thank the four workshop facilitators: Suzie Hutchinson, Michelle Miles, Louise Derbyshire and Monica who very kindly gave a presentation and a workshop! Finally, thank you to Amanda Pipe and her team Creche on Location for keeping the under-fives happy. Clare ills with odie M J r e b em ler ECHO mDr Owen Mil Jessica Cattermole Whelda l kids Turn to pages 22 and 23 to read the latest ETC news! with Nathan Obama Main photo: Valentina See pages 6-9 ECHO (Evelina Children's Heart Organisation Ltd) is a registered charity, no. 1146494. Registered as a company limited by guarantee in England and Wales, no. 7867592. All correspondence PO Box 597, Chatham, ME4 9DS. Registered Address 145 – 157 St John Street, London, EC1V 4PW CONTENTS ECHO NEWS ECHO NEWS Page 2-5 ECHO News NEW ECHO STAFF!! AREA CONTACTS Page 6-9 Valentina's story Page 10 Milestones Page 11-13 Hospital news Page 14-21 Fundraising Page 22-23 ETC news Page 24 ECHO Contact details Coffee morning in Brighton New Area Contact Nicki Morgan is holding a coffee morning at her home in Brighton on Tuesday 16th October. For more details please email Becky at [email protected] NEW SUSSEX AREA CONTACT Sadly I need to pass on my 'Area Contact for Sussex' role, but I have found a wonderful member Nicki Morgan to take over. Nicki came to my last coffee morning, heard me talking about needing to pass on the role, and kindly offered to take over! Hi, I'm Nicki and I live in Brighton with my husband Mark and our two children, Joe and Finley. Finley was born in June 2011, and had open heart surgery when he was 4 months old to repair a large VSD, PDA and Aortic co-arctation, just a week after being diagnosed. He is now doing really well and smiling again! I look forward to welcoming new ECHO members in the Sussex Area and invite existing and new members to the next coffee morning on Tuesday 16th October in Brighton. Christmas Party The ECHO Christmas party will be on Sunday 9th December, please keep the date free, and more information will be sent to you in November. Coffee morning in Lewisham Area Contact for London, Eleanor Beardsley, will be holding a coffee morning at her home in Lewisham on Wednesday 12 September 10am - midday. Please contact her on [email protected] for more details. Get together in Gillingham Monday 20th August, 10.30am - 12.30pm. All members invited to FUN DRUM an indoor children’s play area. Please contact Emma Orpin on or at [email protected] for more details. Fundraising Bag Pack in Chatham Emma Orpin is holding a Fundraising Bag Pack at Asda Superstore Chatham, Friday 24th August, 11am– 4pm. Email [email protected] if you would like to help! Nicki For details about Nicki's coffee morning please contact Becky. I would like to thank Rosie Wheldal for sharing the role of Area Contact for Sussex with me for so many years and for her help in supporting so many members. WE ARE LOOKING FOR A NEW AREA CONTACTS FOR KENT AND NORFOLK Fran Wintour has been Area Contact for Kent for many years. We are looking to replace her with preferably two Area Contacts, to share the role, as it is such a large area with so many members! We would like to say a huge thank you to Fran for all the support she has offered to members in Kent over the last few years. Molly Crisp has also been Area Contact for a few years so we would like to thank her for her help in supporting members in Norfolk. If you live in Norfolk and would like to take over from Molly, then please contact Becky for more details. If you would like to become Area Contact for Kent or Norfolk, please contact Becky for more details. The role is very rewarding and does not require too much of your time. It involves welcoming new members by email or phone (details of new members will be passed on to you by Emma) and it is good to hold a coffee morning twice a year so that local members get the opportunity to meet each other. Jessica Cattermole Dates for your Diary Please make sure we have an up-to-date email address for you to ensure you get all our email updates and invitations. Send to Emma Orpin on [email protected] INTRODUCING EMMA INTRODUCING BECKY Hi, everyone – I’m Emma Orpin and I am the Administrative Assistant for the ECHO team. My nephew was diagnosed with TGA at his 22 week anomaly scan and my sister and r e h and Emma Jodie her husband had to go through the very r siste difficult and challenging situation of facing a life saving operation on their small son. They were extremely grateful for the support that ECHO provided them during that time, and since, and this role felt like the perfect way to give something back to ECHO and use my skills to help other families in similar circumstances. I am delighted and honoured to be the new ECHO Membership Services Manager. Our family have been Becky members of ECHO for over 8 years since one of our twin daughters was diagnosed with TAPVD. Until 2004, we had no idea how people cope when their child faces life-saving surgery. It was the very most frightening time and we were given tremendous support at Guys and at the Ronald McDonald House where we stayed. I didn’t look back much initially but when I dared to do so, I knew that the people we met along the way would always remain dear to me. My role is to provide high quality administrative support to Jo, Becky and the other members of the ECHO team. I hope that the work that I do can make a difference to other families when they need it. For me, being at an ECHO event means being with people who know this often tough experience and so immediately you’re on a similar wavelength and amongst friends. In my work I will continue to offer these opportunities to everyone at ECHO and so feel free to contact me with your ideas and hopes for ECHO events. My entire working career has been in the NHS working for local organisations in Kent, and I continue to work for the NHS on a part time basis as well as working for ECHO. I am married with three children and a step son so I have plenty to keep me occupied. In what free time I have, I enjoy reading, the cinema and walking but I am also part of a mums Street Dancing group! My usual working hours will be 9 - 3 Monday to Wednesday and you can reach me on 07715208077 or [email protected]. Emma’s family My work before children was in financial services, for a regional development agency and as a lobbyist in Brussels. Amongst other things, I have been a school governor, helper at my church and twins club newsletter editor since becoming a mum. Currently I’m also a Brownie leader and always enjoy any opportunity to be with my family out and about in the beautiful Hertfordshire countryside. My usual working hours will be 9 ‘til 3 Monday to Wednesday and Fridays and you can reach me on 07730 146 154 or becky@echoe in h p e nd Jos a evelina.org.uk a c s e Franc GOODBYE FROM JESSICA I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to all the lovely ECHO members that I have worked with over the last eight years. I have thoroughly enjoyed meeting so many of you, offering support to you and putting you in contact with other members. Having the opportunity to meet so many of you at the Summer and Christmas ECHO events is always very rewarding and it has been great to see so many of you getting so much out of being part of ECHO. I will miss working with Jo and the ECHO team, and for all of you, but you will be sure to still see me and my family at ECHO events, my children will make sure that we still attend them all! Love to you all. Jessica x Jessica and fam ily New contact details for ECHO! To contact Becky: [email protected] or call 07730 146154 To contact Emma: [email protected] or call 07715 208077 Becky works 9am-3pm Monday to Wednesday and Friday Emma works 9am-3pm Monday to Wednesday The new PO Box address for all donations/fundraising/membership forms: ECHO, PO Box 597, Chatham ME4 9DS Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 03 ECHO NEWS ECHO NEWS GRACE MALPASS RAYS OF SUNSHINE lbert Royal A Hall Rays of Sunshine contacted ECHO in May to offer some of our ECHO family members’ a limited number of tickets for their Royal Albert Hall concert this year. What a lovely opportunity! I don’t know ollict which one Elliott C of us was most excited about the Rays of Sunshine tickets when they arrived just before half term. My 8 year old daughter Francesca and I were thrilled to receive our tickets and the excitement only grew stronger in the run up to the big day. On arrival, Francesca was delighted to be given her light-up wand and flag and then to choose her raffle bears. Even before all the performances began, Francesca and I loved the wow of the Royal Albert Hall experience. It is a little tricky to say ‘what was our favourite moment?’ at the June 7th Rays of Sunshine concert. Was it the moment that Leona Lewis was showered with glittery pink confetti-like paper or was it when Spelbound made one of their amazing dance performances? Or could it have been when the hosts Miss FM’s Melvin Odom and Rochelle Wiseman from The Saturdays invited some children on to the stage? Liz Quinnell told us “Thank you so much to ECHO for the tickets to the rays of sunshine concert. Thomas had an amazing time. He loved all the acts & JLS are his favourite group & they were even better than he had imagined. Leigh went with him & also really enjoyed it although I think he felt rather old!!!! Thanks again.” “It was a great evening and one we’re extremely proud of! “ said Katie Clark, Wish Manager at Rays of Sunshine, a charity and friend of ECHO which grants wishes for seriously ill children and teenagers in the UK aged 3 – 18. Sophie Bartlett was also lucky to receive tickets and took her Dad along “Thanks so much for the concert tickets. I loved it (and I think Dad liked it too!). My faves were Conor Maynard, JLS and Pixie Lott. Thanks again, x” Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 I wanted to write as I feel strongly that some parents of children with heart conditions and adult congenital patients may need some hope and inspiration. The journey up to town for Claire Collict and her son Elliott started from Polegate midafternoon. After their train and several notably exciting trips in the train station lifts, they had arrived at the Royal Albert Hall, got their wand, raffle ticket bear and were making friends with Jason and his Mum. Claire explained to ECHO “Jason has been suffering from cancer and has a brain tumour plus other complications. Jason was absolutely adorable and Elliott and him really hit it off and had the same type of daft humour!” For Claire, the artists were brilliant, “Elliott loved Pixie Lott, he now loves Stooshe and is always singing their song, Black heart, and of course JLS” Although by the end of their performance both Jason and Elliott were very tired and had to sit on their Mum’s laps. Elliott and his Mum want to say a huge thank you to all the organisers, the artists and especially Rays of Sunshine for giving the children such a lovely time, it was truly appreciated. I was always told that I would never be able to have children due to my heart condition. I was told that I would find it almost impossible to fall pregnant and should I ever fall pregnant that the baby would at not survive due ie rl a h dC Jon an to the very low Grace, rlie's baptism a oxygen levels Ch that my body runs on. Because of this, I would not be able to support fetal growth. So my husband and I were shocked when in January 2010, I discovered I was pregnant. Sadly, this pregnancy did not last and we carried on with our lives thinking it was just a freak thing to happen. We started the adoption process and were looking forward to having a family in some way. Imagine our surprise when I discovered I was pregnant again! Once again, we found out too late to offer maximum support to the baby (ie changing my medications, and taking things easy) and we lost this pregancy early on too. However, I am now delighted to tell you that last year I fell pregnant again and we now have a beautiful, happy healthy 4 month old son called Charlie. I am writing to you as even though it was a rocky road to have our boy, I wanted to inspire others not to give up. There is still little understood about the long-term lives of people with congenital heart conditions. Indeed I believe I am amongst one of the 1st generations to survive my particular condition into adulthood. When I fell pregnant with Charlie, I gave up work, adjusted my medications to "safe" ones and went on oxygen 24 hours a day. All of these Grace things had as a to ddler no hard evidence that it would help my baby to survive, in fact, my cardiac obstetrician said that having oxygen wont make any difference at all. I don't know if it helped or not (it only increased my O2 levels by a few %), but I was willing to try anything and now I have my baby. The medics that look after us heart patients are absolutely wonderful and extremely skilled and knowlegable, but some things are about more than medicine. We all know as heart patients that hope and faith, and the love and support of our family are key to surviving congenital heart problems. They are also key to living a happy and fulfilled life. Never give up hope, and don't always take no for an answer! I just have to look into my baby's eyes to know that miracles can happen, even in the most unlikely places. Kind Regards, Grace Bevan (was Malpass) Congratulations Grace and thank you for sharing this wonderful news with us! “THINK HEART” CAMPAIGN Each year, between 5,000 and 6,000 babies are born with a heart condition in this country. Whilst some of those (up to 35%) would have been diagnosed during pregnancy, the majority won’t be until after birth. For some of these babies, the fact that there is something seriously wrong with them will be obvious quite quickly and, hopefully, staff in the maternity unit will recognise the symptoms and the baby will be speedily referred to an expert Cardiology unit for assessment and treatment. For others, they will remain reasonably well just after birth and present with no obvious symptoms or signs before being discharged from the maternity unit with their unsuspecting parents. Francesca and I sat and danced alongside Karen Stuart and her son James. We agree with Karen that it was “a fantastic evening, albeit a really late one!” The music, the performances were all stunning and I think Francesca’s favourite has to be Spelbound. I thought Pixie Lott was terrific and Leona Lewis gave the most wonderful performance too. Thank you Rays of Sunshine for a most lovely memorable musical experience. Becky Kelway ell s Quinn Thoma 04 ECHO member Grace Malpass was born with Tricuspid Atresia. Grace featured in a previous ECHO newsletter when, in 2009 she got married and her and her husband asked guests to donate to ECHO in lieu of wedding gifts and donated £800. In March she wrote me this lovely letter: Stuart James The baby might not show any really obvious signs at first, but may be slightly sleepy and slow to feed with very slow weight gain (or even some weight loss). Their hands and feet might feel slightly cold to the touch and they may look a grey, dusky colour. These signs may be particularly difficult to pick up for first-time parents, who don’t have other “healthy” children to compare their baby with, and sadly, all too often, GP’s, community midwives, health visitors and even doctors in Emergency departments also fail to pick up on the fact that a baby has a heart condition which, if left undiagnosed and treated, could ultimately (and quite quickly) become fatal. We frequently hear from parents whose new baby hasn’t been quite right, but they’ve been fobbed off with a diagnosis of a cold, chest infection or even just being tired, and it’s not at all unusual for parents to be accused of being overly anxious about something which is “nothing” only to find their baby being retrieved and blue-lighted into the Evelina days or even hours later, critically ill and fighting for life. During Children’s Heart Week in May this year, Children’s Heart Federation (CHF) launched their “Think HEART” campaign to raise awareness of the signs and symptoms of congenital heart disease, particularly in newborn babies . The campaign aims to make GP’s, clinicians, health visitors, midwives and nurses in the local community more aware of what to look out for in a newborn infant and also to empower parents with the knowledge to enable them to be able to press for the investigations and treatment that their child may need urgently. Think HEART: • Heart rate - too fast or slow? (normally 100 to 160 beats per minute) • Energy & Eating sleepy, quiet, too tired to eat, falling asleep during feeds? • Arterial Saturation - a blue, dusky or grey colour (normal oxygen saturations 95-100%)? • Respiration - breathing too fast or slow? (normally 40-60 breaths per minute) • Temperature - cold to touch - particularly hands and feet ECHO fully supports this campaign and is doing all we can to promote the message, so if you would like to do your bit and get involved, leaflets and posters are available directly from CHF, which you can distribute to your local GP surgery, Children’s Centre, Schools, local hospital and anywhere else you can think of where the health professionals there might come into contact with a baby with a potential cardiac condition. Please contact Danny Beales at CHF on [email protected] for more information and to order an awareness pack. For more information about the campaign in general and the work CHF do, please visit their website: www.chfed.org.uk. Jo Wilson Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 05 ECHO VALENTINA’S STORY ECHO VALENTINA’S STORY Valentina’s story Every time the baby kicked, every day that passed, I was more and more aware that this was my daughter inside me, a little person. At 24 weeks pregnant, the thought of having to terminate the pregnancy was too horrific to contemplate. I began to try and switch off my feelings, not wanting to talk to my baby, afraid of connecting with her any more than I already had, as it would only make things harder if the amnio tests came back showing there was something wrong. Matt’s birthday came and went, we just were consumed with worry and every day I watched my phone like a hawk, praying for it to ring with news, but also dreading the call at the same time. I fell pregnant with Valentina quickly, we had only been trying for about 6 weeks and Matt and I stared with shock and surprise at the 3 positive pregnancy tests one Saturday morning in early October 2011. I had no indication that I was pregnant, apart from slightly sore breasts, physically I felt the same, I suffered no morning sickness at all throughout the pregnancy, but for some reason I just knew that something was different. We were both thrilled to have a baby on the way, and the first 20 weeks of my pregnancy passed in a blissful haze, I was feeling great, really enjoying being pregnant, it was the perfect pregnancy. On 19 January we went along to Eastbourne DGH for my 20 week scan, our only worry was making sure we did not find out what the sex of the baby was, we wanted it to be a surprise. The fact that this was a scan to check for anomalies hadn’t really registered, we just assumed everything would be ok. Our sonographer Bob started the scan and pretty quickly we sensed that something was not right. Bob was scanning the baby’s head and told us that he thought there was excessive fluid on the brain, our hearts sank. My stomach just became a knot and I was trying really hard to keep control and not just burst into tears. Then Bob scanned the heart and spent a long time over this particular area. My world just crumbled when he said that he was pretty certain there was an anomaly with the heart, and he went off to try and find a specialist who could confirm his findings. Unfortunately the doctor we needed to see was off that day, and we were advised that Miss Sinah could see us on the Friday at the Conquest in Hastings. We were taken to a side room where a lovely lady called Sabine spoke to us about what was happening, she did her best to try and reassure and comfort us, however I was hysterical at this point. I could not believe how things had changed in the space of 30 minutes, and was struggling to comprehend what we had been told. Matt was being strong, telling me we must wait until we had seen the specialist at the Conquest, that we needed to fully understand what the problems were. We went back to Matt’s parents straight from the hospital and I was inconsolable, just crying and hugging my tummy. The evening passed in a daze as we told my parents and Matt’s sister 06 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 the news. The next day we tried in vain to get a private appointment with a specialist, and were told that the earliest we could see someone was Friday. We therefore had to just wait. It was the longest 24 hours I had ever waited. We saw Miss Sinah at the Conquest on the Friday and she confirmed that there was definitely a problem with the baby’s heart, and we needed to be referred to the Evelina Children’s Hospital ASAP. She said that there was a small amount of excess fluid on the brain - but she maintained throughout the pregnancy that this was not an issue. She told us the heart was the main area of concern, and an appointment was made for the Monday up at the Evelina. Matt and I set off for London from Eastbourne on Monday, with his parents who had come along to support us. My Mum also travelled to London and we arrived en mass for the first of many echocardiograms. The scan seemed to take forever, and the wait that we had to endure while the doctors studied the images seemed to take forever. Finally we all were taken into a small room where we all squeezed together on the sofa and 2 chairs, and Dr Sharland confirmed that our baby had a large Ventricular Septum Defect (VSD) and a Coarctation of the Aorta. She said that we were very lucky that the sonographer in Eastbourne had picked up on the anomalies, and more importantly, she said that they were treatable. At this point I felt a small amount of relief, but when Dr Sharland went on to explain that our baby would need open heart surgery within 48hrs of birth, followed by weeks in hospital, my world just fell apart. To make matters worse, we were also advised that it would be wise for me to have an amniocentesis to check that the heart problems were not linked to any other syndromes such as Downs, and an appointment was made for me that afternoon. and diseases that we didn’t even know our little girl had, I was just trying to prepare myself for the worst. I kept thinking over and over in my head, why us?…was it my age (37), was it my lifestyle, working long hours, commuting to the city….was I to blame? The doctors had told us that it was just a case of Mother Nature getting it wrong, but I still felt responsible. As Matt walked me down the corridor to have the amnio test, I said to him that I wanted to find out what sex the baby was - I don’t know why but I just needed to know if it was a boy or a girl, I just couldn’t go on thinking of it as “it” when we knew it had these problems. Matt said whatever I wanted to do was ok with him, and we were told that we were having a girl. When we walked back into the room and told our parents that the baby was a little girl, everyone cried. At that point I just had this overwhelming urge to protect my little girl, and I just knew she would be a fighter, she would have to be. We left via the main entrance to St Thomas’s, all of us huddled together, upset and trying to digest the news. We were just outside the front of the hospital when Matt’s Mum collapsed clutching her head, crying out in pain. It was almost farcical how difficult it was to find a doctor at that point, a passer by suggested we called 999! Matt went into work mode, being a Policeman meant that he had undertaken first aid training, and he got his Mum into the recovery position while his Dad found someone who could help. Matt’s poor Mum ended up staying in St Thomas’s for nearly a week as the stress of the days events had triggered a cardiac surge – a massive rush of blood to the head which had made her collapse. Poor Matt was torn between worrying about me and the baby, and worrying about his Mum who he had to leave in London. Having travelled up together as a family, we had to go home alone leaving his Mum in St Thomas’s – miles away from home. Thankfully she made a full recovery. We were told it could take up to 3 weeks for the amnio test results to come back, and I have to say these were some of the darkest days of my life. I was signed off work and spent my days trying not to think about the test results, but in reality it was all I could think about. Matt banned me from using the internet as I was upsetting myself looking at various syndromes We got the call we were waiting for on the way back from Brighton, we were in the waiting room at Lewes Station when Sabine called to say that the amnio came back negative, our baby was fine apart from the heart problems. It was rush hour and in the middle of the waiting room Matt and I sank to our knees and cried our eyes out on the sofa. It was the best news ever. We knew that we still had a tough journey ahead but this was such a positive moment and from that day onwards, we were determined to try and enjoy the pregnancy as much as possible. We began talking about names for the baby, and I had read in a magazine about an actress who had called her little girl Valentina. I thought it was beautiful. When I googled it, I discovered that it was Italian, and it meant strong and healthy. That seemed like a good omen. Then I had a scan on Valentines Day, and it was the first scan for weeks that we walked out of having been told no more bad news, our little girl was in fact doing well, growing nicely, and Miss Sinah was happy with her progress. This made the name all the more appropriate. I was scanned regularly both at the Conquest in Hastings and the Evelina, and each trip to London became a family outing, with Matt’s parents and my Mum or my Dad coming up to support us. Both hospitals got used to 5 of us turning up for the scans, they were very accommodating. We just had to be quiet! At around 32 weeks I was told that I should have an MRI of the baby so that they could see what was happening with the fluid on the brain. This had always been an area of slight confusion as Miss Sinah always maintained that this was not an issue, yes there was fluid there, but it had not changed during the pregnancy and it was only just over the “normal” level. The MRI was undertaken at St Thomas’s, and was a very uncomfortable procedure, lying on your back for a long period of time when heavily pregnant is not easy. There was another 2 week wait for results, and I was on the train home from work when I got a call telling me that there was a large amount of fluid on our little girl’s brain, but at this stage they couldn’t really say what this would mean. We would need to wait and see how she developed. I was devastated; I felt like the scan had been worthless as we were no further forward, if it was a case of wait and see, why go through all this pain and worry now, so far into my pregnancy. It just seemed unnecessary. Matt continued to be wonderfully positive, saying that until we actually knew what we were dealing with, he was not going to let the thought of “what ifs” get us down. There were days when his positivity used to irritate me, I could not understand how he could be so positive. It is only now that I realise he had to be positive, it was the only way to keep us both going, anything else and I would have sunk into the depths of despair. He really was my rock during those dark days. We were told that the baby would need to be delivered at St Thomas’s at 38 weeks, and we attended an antenatal day at St Thomas’s which was run by ECHO, which went over what we could expect on the day of our baby’s birth. It was here that we met other families all expecting babies who had cardiac problems. It was a humbling day, and as we left that room we realised that our baby’s’ problems were actually rather straight forward compared to what some of the other parents were facing. We had never heard of conditions such as Tetralogy of Fallot, or Hypo plastic Left Heart. We went home that night feeling very drained. We were now part of a world we had never really knew existed. Why would we know about these things? Looking around that room, at the mix of people, all of different ages, different races, I realised that no one is spared from Mother Nature. There were so many sad stories in that room, but also there was so much hope, and so many brave parents who were all facing very tough times ahead. It felt strangely comforting to know that we were not alone. place within 48 hours of Valentina’s birth, but due to the damage to her head from the delivery, the surgeons were not prepared to operate on her until her head had healed sufficiently. This was a massive blow to us, and it was awful to see the state poor Valentina was in. She was in tremendous discomfort from the delivery and was on round the clock pain relief. It was several days before I could even pick her up, and all I wanted to do was to hold my baby. This was so difficult for me, I was unable to try breastfeeding or enjoy skin-to-skin contact. Hugs with her were precious and very few and far between in those first few days. Valentina finally had her operation on June 1st, when she was 9 days old. We arrived on the ward at 6am so that we could bathe her and get some much-needed cuddles before taking her down to theatre. She had a slight temperature that morning but thankfully it was not high enough to stop the surgery. We got the call at 8.30, and I carried her down wrapped in her pink blanket. Matt and I placed her on the operating table and were there to give her a kiss before watching her go to sleep. Walking away and leaving her was the hardest thing we have ever had to do. We had made a pact not to cry in the theatre room and I was struggling to keep my part of the deal. We both made it out of the room and by the time we reached the lift we were both in pieces. The next 5 hours dragged and dragged. We walked along the Thames and on the way back we got the call from Mr Salir, Valentina’s surgeon. The operation had gone well, they had repaired the Coarctation and patched up the hole in her heart. We could go to PICU in an hour once she was out of recovery. Seeing Valentina in PICU was scary. We had been shown pictures beforehand so we had an idea what to expect, but it was still a sight I will never forget. She was surrounded by 6 or 7 doctors and there were lines and drains coming out all over her. As we would come to learn, this is normal for PICU when a baby comes out of surgery, but at the time it was very scary. My waters broke the morning I was due to call the hospital to find out if they had a bed for Valentina in neo-natal; luckily they were ready for us. We arrived at St Thomas’s about 4pm and Valentina arrived at 8.51am on Monday 23 May weighing 3.53kg, after 2 epidurals and a spinal block for me, and 2 failed ventouse attempts for Valentina. Unfortunately Valentina had turned around and was back to back - she managed to get herself well and truly stuck. The ventouse cap ripped off a chunk of poor Valentina’s skin on her forehead and her scalp, and when they tried it again, more of the same happened. In the end she had to be delivered by a specialist using Kielland Forceps, and after all the trauma in theatre she was rushed away to Neo Natal where she was placed on a Prostin drip. This kept the ductus arteriosus blood vessel in her heart open, until such time that she had her surgery. Originally the surgery was planned to take Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 07 ECHO VALENTINA’S STORY ECHO VALENTINA’S STORY Valentina had 3 days in PICU, her chest drain came out on day 2 but she did not come off the ventilator until day 3 as she had been a little slow at breathing for herself and the alarm on the ventilator kept going off, not very reassuring for anxious Mum and Dad at her bedside! By the end of day 3 she looked like a different baby, the only tubes remaining were her nasal gastric (NG) tube, and a line in her arm and groin. Picking her up was much easier now, I remember the first cuddle I had when she was still on the ventilator and I was just petrified I would pull one of the drains or that one of the lines would catch on something, it felt so awkward. Her surgeon checked on her and was pleased with her recovery, fingers crossed she would be back on the ward the next day. Thankfully Valentina came out of PICU and back up to Savannah on Saturday 4th June, she looked so much better now the bloating from the ventilator had subsided. That night she gave us a scare, going blue and dropping lots of happy Grandparents once they had all had a cuddle. During this time Valentina was also seen and tested by the genetics department, as there were concerns that her heart problems could be genetic; thankfully her tests came back showing she was a normal female. We also saw a neurologist who suggested an MRI scan could be beneficial in order to establish exactly what was happening with the fluid on her brain. The MRI attempt had to be aborted, as Valentina would not lie still enough for the scan to be effective. This is something that will need to be done when she is older, at around 2 years old, so that the neurologists can get a good understanding of what is going on in her brain. In the meantime we have to wait and see how her development progresses. The early signs were good, but we were told it was too soon to know what impact the surgery and the fluid on the brain would have on our darling girl. We were discharged from Evelina on my birthday, 13 June, to the Eastbourne District General Hospital (DGH). I was scared to leave the cocoon of the Evelina with Valentina, uncertain of what the DGH would be like compared to the top class care Valentina had received at the Evelina. We had been lucky enough to stay at the wonderful, amazing Ronald MacDonald house for the entire length of our stay at Evelina; I can honestly say I do not know what we would have done or how we would have coped without our room there. The nurses who met us at Eastbourne could not have been more welcoming, they very kindly gave Valentina her own room which we very quickly made our own. I slept every night at the hospital, doing the feeds round the clock, with the nurses very kindly doing the 3am feed each night so that I could get some sleep. Matt also did a fair share of night shifts during the 3 weeks that Valentina was in Eastbourne, he was so hands on and really wanted to bond with Valentina, which was amazing. her sats to 80. She was given oxygen and morphine as the nurses suspected she was in pain following the operation, and they managed to find her a baby airbed to make her extra comfortable. It definitely helped, and to this day we say she is like the Princess and the Pea, she definitely likes a comfortable bed!!! In total Valentina spent 10 days on Savannah Ward following her release from PICU. The main issues for us were feeding and weight gain. She was too small and weak to breastfeed, although thankfully I was successfully expressing milk which was mainly being fed via the NG tube. She just tired so easily when we tried to bottle-feed her, and we could not take her home until a better feeding routine had been established. Over the 10 days in Savannah the grandparents were finally able to cuddle their granddaughter, she had been in such a state following her birth that Mum and Dad hardly had any cuddles, never mind the rest of the family. Needless to say there were 08 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 We had to be shown how to feed Valentina using the NG tube as her weight gain was painfully slow, and the bottle feeds were still slow progress. After 3 weeks in Eastbourne we were finally able to take Valentina home, she still had the NG tube in but under the watchful eye of the dietician and the Speech and Language Therapist, we were allowed to take her home as long as she kept improving with her feeding. Finally walking into our house, over 5 weeks after her birth, was a massive milestone for us. Over the next few months, Valentina continued to put on weight and her initial cardiac review back at Evelina was good. We also saw the Neurologist in September and he advised us that she was displaying all the right signs for a baby of her age. We had grown used to our baby’s foibles, the way she used to sleep mid feed was the norm for us, so was the length of time it used to take to feed her – up to an hour for 3oz of milk. She had always been like this so we never thought much of it. Little did we know that around where the patch had been placed over the hole in her heart, her little heart had started to grow excess muscle and scar tissue, which was now blocking her aortic valve. We attended a routine check up in October, making the family trek up to Evelina, all of us breezing in thinking everything was going to be ok again, only to be left devastated by the news that she would need another big operation, sooner rather than later, to remove the excess tissue. That night, I went in to check on Valentina and looking at her sleeping, so peacefully and unaware of what was coming, just broke my heart. I sank to my knees by her cot and sobbed my heart out. I just could not face the prospect of her undergoing another operation, and I could hardly bear to think about all the stress and heartache that went along with it. I practically kept Valentina under house arrest for the few weeks leading up to her operation, not wanting to risk her picking up any bugs that might delay proceedings. We arrived back at the Evelina on 14 November, Valentina’s required an Echo before her surgery, the plan was to do get this done without sedation, however true to form our little monkey would not lie still, and her cardiologist Aaron Bell advised us that we would have to return the next day for the Echo to be done under sedation. We stayed the night in Gassiot house, very kindly provided for us by ECHO, and Valentina’s Echo was carried out without any problems the next morning, confirming the original diagnosis in October. We met with Mr Salir, Valentina’s surgeon, and signed the necessary consent forms, and were advised Valentina was first on the operating schedule for Wednesday; hopefully she would go down to theatre at around 8am, which we were pleased about as we just wanted it to be over and done with so we could focus on her recovery. I stayed with Valentina on the ward that night, hardly getting a wink of sleep in between the night feeds which she still needed. We met her anaesthetist at 7.30am and ran through what was going to happen, bathed her in the antiseptic wash and dressed her in her theatre gown. The walk down to theatre is just the longest walk, and I hate every step. Matt and I showered her with kisses all the way to theatre, and I held her while she was given gas and air to make her sleepy. Typically her cannula had not worked and she fought off the gas and air, holding her breath and trying to wriggle out of the mask, being the stubborn little fighter she is. I was proud of her efforts! Walking away from her again, leaving her in that room, took super human effort. I could barely hold it together. Matt propped me up as always, telling me she was going to be fine, this was what she needed to be healthy, and we had to be strong for her. Of course he was right. We got the call from Mr Salir at 12.15 to say the surgery had gone well and we could come to PICU in an hour to see her. On arrival in PICU, we saw a group of doctor’s frantically working on Valentina, and I felt a moment of pure panic. We later learned that they were trying to regulate Valentina’s heart rate as it was beating too fast, and her blood pressure was very low. Valentina was dressed in a white “cool suit” to reduce her temperate and slow down her heart rate, she had to have a blood transfusion as she had lost a lot of blood out of her chest drain. This all seemed really bad to us, but thankfully Aaron Bell was close by and re-assured us that this was all normal and we should not worry, she was going to be ok. We arrived back in PICU the next day, 17th November, and learned that her blood test results showed a big improvement compared to the day before, the ventilator had been turned down so that Valentina was doing most of the breathing herself, and she was now on a dopamine drip to assist with her low blood pressure. Her chest drain was taken out and she barely flinched when it was done, it was incredible. We were so proud of her. Over the next 24 hours her blood pressure came back to normal and her heart started to function more effectively, which was great progress. She needed another blood transfusion as her little body was working so hard to mend itself and it just couldn’t make enough new red blood cells. Throughout this time Valentina showed what a tough little fighter she is, getting so cross with the doctors when they moved her to try and x-ray her chest that her blood pressure shot up, and she needed morphine to calm her down. That’s our girl! Valentina came off the ventilator on 18th November, and having been on rations of milk, she desperately wanted more milk which she was not allowed to have. We had not weaned her at this point, so she had a very rapid introduction to solids that day. She either ate the apple puree or went hungry….no surprises which option she went for. It wasn’t quite the introduction to food that I had planned, but there you go! She had a bit if a temperature which had been yo-yoing up and down over the last 24 hours, and her blood infection markers were up which was not a good sign. Since she had been weaned off of the morphine she had been much more awake and fidgety, hence the decision to take her off of the ventilator. By the 19th November, all her long lines had been removed, but due to her temperature she was now on antibiotics. Poor Valentina now had some fluid on her chest, and at this point we started to get quite concerned. She had definitely taken a turn for the worse, she had a developed a nasty chest infection and was really quite poorly. She just lay there, not moving, her eyes were sunken and hollow. She looked worse now than when she did after her operation. We were reassured that she would start to make some improvement once the anti-biotics kicked in. We were worried sick, she looked dreadful. She was so listless and unresponsive, it was a really scary 24 hours for us. Thankfully the antibiotics kicked in and on the Sunday evening, 20th November, we left PICU and took Valentina up to Savannah. That first night back on the ward was one I will always remember. My little girl, who is happy to be cuddled by anyone and everyone, who has a strong independent streak and likes her own time, was suddenly really really clingy. She had this panicked look on her face whenever she woke up and she wanted me there next to her all the time. I had never known her to be like this before, she just looked really scared. I have never felt the bond between us more strongly than I did that night, bless her heart, she just wanted her Mummy. The next day we got our first smile from her since Wednesday, 5 days prior. It was a very welcome sight. Valentina was now on betablockers to help her heart function properly, and we were told she could be on these indefinitely, it all depended how her heart responded following the surgery. Due to the obstruction in her heart, the bottom of her heart had been working extra hard to pump the blood through to the top chamber, and it had become really big and muscly. The betablockers were slowing down her heart, making it fill up more effectively, and this would in time shrink the heart back down to the appropriate size. Now all we had to do was wait and see how quickly it would get back to normal. During our stay at Evelina the doctors had also picked up on what appeared to be a squint in her right eye. In addition to this she had developed stridor breathing, which meant she really sucked in her throat when she took a breath at times, and snored terribly most of the time. In addition to all this, the wounds on her head that were inflicted during her delivery had still not healed, and we were finally referred to a dermatologist, and an ENT specialist for her breathing, and also to the eye clinic. Thankfully we have since been discharged from all 3 clinics, after several trips up to London it has been confirmed that she does not have a squint, her vision is 20/20. ENT are not concerned about the noisy breathing. She has a floppy windpipe, which is quite possibly a result of being intubated, and this is a condition that she should just grow out of. The wounds on her head are also now much better, she was prescribed a powerful steroid cream from the dermatologist, who actually asked for pictures of Valentina at birth to use in teaching cases, as her injuries were so bad. news that the blockage had come back, and I think we will probably feel that way at every check up; maybe it will get easier as time goes by and her heart continues to remain healthy. The changes in Valentina since her last operation are so noticeable. She is a better colour, peachy in fact! She feeds so much faster, taking a bottle in minutes rather than an hour. She is so much more responsive and interactive. We had become so used to how she used to be and accepted this as the norm, it is only when we look back now that we realise how poorly she was. Valentina remains under the care of the neurologist, and as far as her development is concerned, we have to watch and see. She celebrated her first birthday on 23 May, and she is still not sitting up unaided yet. We do not know at this point if this is related to the fluid on the brain, or if she is simply just behind with her development due to the operations and the time she spent recovering. The neurologist wants her to have an MRI scan when she is 2 so that they can determine whether there has been any neurological impact as a result of her surgeries in addition to the matter of the fluid on her brain. She is very floppy which is a possible side affect of the beta-blockers, and she is also a rather skinny little rabbit, with a small appetite, so building her strength up and fattening her up is no easy task. She is to receive some physiotherapy soon in the hope that this will assist her sitting up. She is trying to crawl which is interesting, and she really wants to sit up she just can’t seem to get her balance and stay rigid enough to do so. In the meantime we are enjoying having her as a baby for that bit longer. Our darling Valentina is without doubt the happiest, kindest, most loving and trusting baby you could ever meet. Everyone who meets her falls in love with her. We will never ever be able to express to her how much we love her and how proud we are of her after all she has gone through. She has inspired us to be strong, she has made us laugh, cry, and worry, and we would do anything for her. She is the most important thing in our lives and we cannot wait to watch her grow up into a big strong healthy girl. Lucy Crane We took Valentina home on Thursday 24 November. Once the antibiotics kicked in, the change in Valentina was remarkable; we definitely had our little girl back. The relief we felt was palpable when we got her home and tucked up into her cot that night. It was another difficult phase of her life over with. Now we need to wait and see how the beta-blockers work. Her check ups in December and April were very promising, the heart muscle is getting smaller which is great news. We felt sick with worry at these appointments, terrified that we would get the Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 09 ECHO HOSPITAL NEWS ECHO MILESTONES SAFE AND SUSTAINABLE – THE DECISION IS MADE As most of you will have already seen and heard in the news recently, the Joint Committee of Primary Care Trusts (JCPCT) met in public on the 4th July and made their decision on the future of children's cardiac surgery we have all been waiting for. This means that the number of hospitals which can provide heart surgery for children will be reduced from the current 11 to 7. The units which will retain their surgical status are Evelina Children's Hospital, Great Ormond Street, Southampton, Bristol, Birmingham, Liverpool Alder Hey, and Freeman Hospital in Newcastle. This is your opportunity to share your happy events and children's milestones with us all. Thank you to all of you who sent in such lovely photos and wonderful news. Rachel Riley sent this beautiful photo of her daughter Alexandra and said: "I wanted to share with everyone that my daughter Alexandra Dyer turned one on 13th June. I just wanted to say "Happy first birthday to our superstar. This time last year we never imagined reaching this milestone. She is so brave and a true blessing. You make us smile every day." Alice and Jack Daniel Lucy and Paul Salmon's son Ashton celebrated his third birthday on April 9th. He has also taken his first steps, and grandad, Keith had his camera ready! Well done Ashton! Love Mummy, Daddy, Nickyle & Kyra xxx Neil Loughnane sent this fantastic photo of his sons Thomas and Connor. Thomas (Captain Hook) turned 5 on 13th April and Connor (Peter Pan) celebrated his third birthday on 15th June. Amy Alexandra Ashton This is a photo of ECHO member and volunteer Julie Jackson's son Daniel at his 10th birthday on Sunday 27th May. To celebrate his birthday he had a football party in the sunshine and then party food with his friends. Sounds great fun Daniel! Thomas and Connor Nick and Di de Naeyer's children Jack and Alice went to their prom and Alice wrote: "For our prom we got a coach from our school in Totteridge, to Tower Pier by the Tower of London. We got on the boat there for our prom and during our time on the boat it travelled down the Thames, with Jack pointing out all the attractions as we went past them. It was such an amazing prom everyone enjoyed it so much, I would love to do it again." You both look fantastic! 10 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 Kathy Turner sent this lovely photo of her daughter Amy in her first theatre performance, "The Wizard of Oz". She was a robin! Jessica Cattermole The changes will have to be implemented by 2014, but at this time it is still unclear how soon any of us will notice any difference (including to those hospitals who will eventually be treating more patients). ECHO has been closely involved in the Safe and Sustainable process for many years and has fully supported the drive to reduce the number of units, thereby increasing the size of the remaining hospitals undertaking heart surgery, which we firmly believe will result in an even better standard of care and safety for all heart-children in the country, so we are delighted that this pivotal decision has finally been taken. We hope to be working closely with the management team at the Evelina to influence the work they undertake to expand the cardiac unit there and also with the Specialised Commissioning Group for London and the South East to establish a seamless “Children's Cardiac Network”, which will encompass the Evelina's Outreach Clinics and which will be key in providing care for children with heart conditions close to their home. The morning after the decision, we shared with you by email a statement from Dr Owen Miller, Head of Service/Clinical Lead for Paediatric Cardiology at the Evelina. One of the key messages from Dr Miller was “We look forward to working with our network partners to ensure a smooth transition to new ways of working”. We anticipate that it will take some time to fully understand the practical impact on us all. At ECHO, we recognise that many of you will have questions and in this section of the ECHO newsletter, we will try to answer your questions as much as we can over the coming months. Here are a few we have already been asked: Will appointments at outreach clinics change as a result of this decision? Outreach clinics will form a key part of the service offered to support patients whose care is under the Evelina, and the aim will be to form a “Children’s Cardiac Network” amongst the Dr Owen Miller FRACP, FCSANZ, FRCPCH Outreach Clinics. Dr Miller explained in his statement, “By working closely with local hospitals to strengthen clinical networks, we will also ensure [children and young people] receive the best possible care close to home.” We are delighted to welcome Dr. Owen Miller as Patron of our charity. Dr Miller took over from Professor Shakeel Qureshi as Head of Service and Clinical Lead for Paediatric Cardiology at the Evelina earlier this year. We have always been patients at the Evelina; does that mean we always will be? We live in north London? This will not change. So-called referral patterns may change for new patients in the future but that has yet to be determined. How will the Evelina cope with the increase in patient numbers? The Evelina already has robust plans to expand the Cardiac unit with full backing from the Trust board. We will be consulted throughout to ensure that we have plenty of input and influence so we will continue to push for sufficient, good quality parent/family accommodation as well as all the other services and support which are necessary when one's child in hospital. All the other units in the country which have been designated as surgical centres will have had to make a firm commitment to expansion too. Also, it must be remembered that the changes won't occur for at least 2 years, and there's lots of work to be done in the meantime to ensure a smooth transition and implementation. How will this decision affect patient choice? Patient choice remains a key component of the NHS and the JCPCT decision should not affect this important principle. Families and patients will continue to have a say in deciding which unit treats their child. The hope is that by reducing the number of surgical centres and concentrating skills and expertise, all the hospitals providing children’s cardiac surgery in this country will be world-class. When will the Evelina start taking the patients from the other hospitals? It is possible that patient flow into the Evelina may increase gradually and slowly at first over the coming months as some families choose to have their child treated at the Evelina even if other units continue to offer cardiac surgery during the implementation period. This will increase as surgical services begin to wind down in those units who will ultimately lose their surgical designation. The changes will have to be complete by April 2014. If you have any questions, please send them to [email protected] and we will do our utmost to clarify any areas of concern as part of our regular liaison meetings with the Evelina. Dr Owen Miller attended the University of Newcastle, NSW in Australia and trained in Paediatrics at the Children’s Hospital in Sydney. After completing training in General Paediatrics, he went on to complete specialist training in Paediatric Intensive Care and then Paediatric Cardiology. His postgraduate training was in Sydney, Zurich and London. His first consultant post in 1993 was to the Children’s Hospital, Sydney, followed by further training at Great Ormond Street, returning to Sydney Children’s Hospital as a Consultant in Paediatric and Fetal Cardiology in 2000. In 2005, Dr Miller was appointed to the Evelina as a Consultant in Paediatric and Fetal Cardiology moving to the current Evelina Children’s Hospital when it opened in 2005. Dr Miller’s main clinical interests are advanced cardiac imaging, fetal cardiology and cardio-pulmonary exercise testing. In 2012 he was appointed as Head of Service for Paediatric and Fetal Cardiology. Dr Miller is married with three children and when not at work is passionate about sailing and sailing boats. We are looking forward to working closely with Dr Miller during this time of change and development in the world of Paediatric Cardiology and to continuing the excellent regular meetings which have become a vital component in the liaison and collaboration between the hospital and ECHO. Holly Richardson aged 7, raised a fantastic £1,000 for the Evelina. Her mum YOU Frances Richardson said: "Holly raised the money by doing a sponsored swim at K N Horsted Health Spa in Uckfield. She asked three of her friends to help her and together THA they swam 6280m. She donated the money to the Evelina as she wanted to raise money for children with poorly hearts like her brother Sam. We took Holly up to the Evelina in February so that she could present Dr Owen Miller with the cheque. All of Holly's family and friends are very proud of her for raising such a fantastic amount." Well done Holly! Owen, Sam an d Holly Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 11 ECHO HOSPITAL NEWS ECHO HOSPITAL NEWS ECHO ANTENATAL CLASSES AT ST THOMAS’ SUPPORTING PARENTS THROUGH AN ANTENATAL DIAGNOSIS When I was pregnant with my eldest daughter Melissa in 1994, I couldn’t wait to attend the course of antenatal classes provided by the hospital where she was going to be born. In fact I was SO keen that I even went to another set of classes given by the midwives at my GP practice. It was such an exciting time – the anticipation of entering the world of motherhood, making new friends at the antenatal classes and learning all the tools I would need to get my husband and I through the early days and weeks with our new baby. To this day, I still keep in contact with some of the friends I made and we look back with nostalgia at those heady days of planning, reading “baby manuals”, buying baby clothes and nursery furniture. When I became pregnant for the second time, five years later, I thought I’d be doing it all again (although with the experience I’d already gained, I would was looking forward to sharing my knowledge as an “old hand”!). And then the bombshell dropped… at my 20 week scan it was discovered that my baby had a serious and complex heart condition. The world as we knew it shifted on its axis and everything changed. We were no longer able to look forward with the same excitement to our baby’s birth, and I was definitely not going to go to a series of antenatal classes and sit alongside mums who nothing else to concern them apart from what sex their baby was and what the latest buggy to buy was! Every year, 5000 – 6000 babies are born in the UK with a heart condition. On average, up to 35% of those babies will have been diagnosed after a 20 week anomaly scan, and the remainder will be diagnosed fairly soon after birth, often in emergency circumstances. The fetal cardiology service at Evelina Children’s Hospital is one of the largest in the UK and internationally, specialising in the diagnosis and management of congenital heart disease before birth. This includes structural heart defects, functional abnormalities of the heart and rhythm disturbances. The unit receives referrals from a wide area, seeing patients from 50-60 different obstetric units. Approximately 2000 pregnant women are scanned each year and between 150 – 200 cases of fetal cardiac abnormalities are diagnosed and managed per annum. Six years ago we conceived the idea of holding a special Antenatal Education Day with the aim of providing a sort of one-stop condensed class for parents who were expecting a “heart-baby” and working in collaboration with Fetal Cardiology and the Thames/Tower Team Specialist Midwives, the first “ECHO Antenatal Education Day” was held. ECHO sponsored the day by funding the midwives to facilitate the class and also provided lunch and refreshments throughout the day. I went along to the inaugural class and sat in to observe how it worked. I also did a short talk to the parents at the end of the afternoon session about my experiences with my own heart-baby 12 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 as well as informing them about the support and services ECHO provides. We were all a little unsure of how these classes would be received by parents… would they be well attended; would parents find them useful; would the parents feel more positive about their baby’s impending birth if they went to one of the classes? To this day, I can still remember how positive that first class felt to observe. It was clear that the parents there were really going to benefit from the expert guidance the midwives were able to give - just because they were expecting a baby with a heart problem didn’t mean that they should not be prepared properly for the baby’s birth, to be informed about the benefits of and techniques for breastfeeding, to understand the different stages of labour and birth or how pain relief would be able to help them through it if they so chose. However, without doubt, the most impact came from seeing the parents sit together, getting comfort from knowing that they weren’t going through the worry and fear about their baby’s future alone and that others had exactly the same emotions as them. Not only that, but being able to listen to an experienced parent speak about actually having had a baby with a heart condition (or “one I made earlier” as I jokingly referred to the photos I showed them of my daughter Cissy) quite clearly made a big difference to them all. Manjit Randhawa, Matron and Lead Midwife for the Thames/Tower Team at St Thomas’ was one of the key people responsible for the introduction of the classes and says that the midwifes have always enjoyed facilitating the classes as they really know it makes a difference to the patients’ journey and experience - there is always at least one parent who says, “We thought we were the only ones and felt so alone”. She continues, “The feedback has been always been consistent in that parents-to-be find the day very useful and the most enjoyable parts of the day are without doubt the tour of the neonatal unit and listening and talking to the ECHO representative”. From the positive feedback we had we knew the classes had to become a regular feature and over the past six years the ECHO Antenatal days have become an integral part of the “care pathway” which parents who are expecting a baby with a heart condition can expect, and have become a key part of the support which the hospital and ECHO offers. We are able to work with the Fetal Cardiology department to provide support and friendship from the earliest days after diagnosis for those parents who want it. Sherrida Rollings, Nurse Counsellor in the Fetal Cardiology Dept at the Evelina says “ECHO offers invaluable support and information to parents who have just been told that their unborn baby has a heart problem. This is two-fold, with a comprehensive rota, where specially trained volunteers offer telephone and email support. All newly diagnosed parents can contact someone who knows what they are going through. The specialist antenatal classes sponsored by ECHO have also been a huge success, and are extremely well evaluated. Not only do they provide invaluable emotional support and practical information, but parents are also able to see the birth centre where their baby will be born, and the neonatal unit where the baby will be taken immediately after the delivery. Parents also meet others at a similar stage of pregnancy, and many will keep in contact and meet up again after their babies are born. These classes are open to all who are seen here with an antenatal diagnosis, regardless of where they will eventually deliver the baby.Both of these resources can make a real difference in helping parents come to terms with the often devastating diagnosis of congenital heart disease.” We estimate that up to six hundred parents have attended an ECHO Antenatal Day over the past few years and it is very gratifying to know that they have been of real benefit, not only in preparing parents for their baby’s birth and, possibly, for surgery or intervention very shortly after baby’s arrival but also that many great friendships have begun at the classes, allowing parents to support each other through the inevitable ups and downs to come once their baby arrives. ECHO member Caroline Jeal remembers “My husband and I attended the ECHO Antenatal day a couple of months before our daughter Keira was born with TGA. We arrived there feeling quite nervous and apprehensive but we immediately felt at ease when we got chatting to other parents and realised we weren't alone. The midwives that ran the group were so nice and very informative. This was invaluable to us and we came away feeling much more positive about the challenges ahead. We are still in touch with other parents we met that day and over the past couple of months our children have all turned 3. We meet up regularly and the children now look forward to seeing each other as much as us parents do! It's great to see them running around together, knowing they have something very special in common. It's thanks to ECHO running these antenatal days that we all got to meet each other in the first place. Dr Gurleen Sharland, Consultant Fetal Cardiologist at the Evelina says “As a fetal cardiologist I often have to give bad news to parents about their baby’s heart. They are naturally devastated to hear that their baby has a heart problem and may find it difficult to accept or come to terms with this. Whilst we try and be sensitive and supportive, there is no doubt in my mind that the support and contact of members of ECHO is invaluable to parents at what can be an extremely emotional and distressing time and to be able to give them the opportunity to attend an ECHO Antenatal Day, to reinforce that they are not alone and that other parents are going through a similar situation can provide tremendous encouragement and support. I regard the work of ECHO as a very important component of our prenatal cardiology service and all parents should have the opportunity to access this type of support when a prenatal diagnosis has been made”. Joanna Blewett volunteers to attend the Antenatal days as an ECHO parent rep to share her experiences of having a heart baby – “Although it has been 3 years since my husband and I attended the ECHO Antenatal day we can still remember it as though it were yesterday. We were very anxious and felt like the only expectant parents to be having a heart child. The day was extremely informative, hosted by the Tower midwife team with a heart parent joining at the end to tell you their story. It also gave us the opportunity to meet with other parents in the same situation as ourselves and made us feel less isolated, less "different". This is why I volunteered to take part in the days; to provide a small insight into the life of a heart parent, to share our experience and to show that there is light at the end of the tunnel. As well as helping other parents-to-be I found my first time volunteering at an Antenatal Day really emotional; the last time I'd been in that room I was sitting there with all the fears and anxieties they now felt. However, it also reinstated to me how far our family had come. Giving up a few hours of my time, I knew, had made the world of difference to those soon to be parents and travelling home that afternoon I was pleased to have given something back to the heart community at a time when they need it most.” We are extremely proud of this groundbreaking initiative which has, no doubt, made a huge difference to so many parents at a time in their lives when they may have felt isolated and frightened about the future for them and their unborn baby. We would like to see the day when similar classes are offered to ALL parents who are expecting a heart baby, no matter where they live or where their baby will be born in England and Wales! JO WILSON A LIFE LESS ORDINARY – MAXINE REECE ECHO member, Maxine Reece tragically passed away in April this year. Her sister Gemma has written this lovely piece about Maxine. Trish Kenney and Eric Rosenthal also wanted to share their memories of e c Ree Maxine. Maxine’s Maxine family and friends generously donated the amazing sum of £2303 raised in memory of her, to be divided between ECHO and the Evelina Children’s Heart Fund When Maxine was born in 1981 with complex, inoperable congenital heart disease and doctors told my parents that the outlook for their new baby was not good, they could not have dared to imagine the beautiful, successful and independent woman their daughter was to become. To deny that it was a rocky road for my sister would be to be untruthful. There were very difficult times for us as a family, and many challenges for her to overcome. Learning to live with a life-threatening condition is the biggest challenge of all. Yet Maxine, throughout the course of her 30 years, showed that a sense of humour, stoic determination and most of all, a true love of life can be invaluable tools in negotiating a path through the years. At Guy’s Hospital as a teenager, she was a smiling face on the paediatric ward and was always visiting the babies to cheer her up during long, painful stays. Her love of the little ones developed into a career, when Maxine decided to pursue childcare after leaving school. She worked at children’s clubs and nurseries and was fiercely proud of her commitment to earning a living. It is testament to her work ethic that, on receiving the doctor’s prognosis during her final hospital stay, Maxine’s first words were: ‘Will it affect my ability to work with the children?’ I remember Maxine on other admissions before she moved into the adult service - but Eric was still her consultant and kept us informed of how she was doing - getting a job, learning to drive and getting a flat!! Maxine always loved the little babies on the ward and I was not surprised when she became a child care assistant. From what I understand Maxine lived life to the full. Maxine’s true love was theatre and she was a well-known amateur actress in her hometown, Tring in Hertfordshire. Her performance of Alice in the production of The Vicar of Dibley had the audience in fits of laughter and will always be remembered. In fact, Maxine was such a prolific actress that we counted 28 shows in which she had appeared over the years. She loved the shows, the social side of the theatre, the dressing up and the banter. The Maxine I remember loved fashion, had a beautiful smile and was lovely. My thoughts are very much with the family. Trish Kenney, Paediatric Cardiac Outreach Sister When Maxine passed away in April this year, after becoming ill with unrelated bowel problems and sadly not making it through the three operations she underwent, a huge surge of love and support poured forward from family and friends. Maxine had become such a wellloved face in Tring, that one friend remarked: ‘She was a huge part of our culture.’ As the tributes poured in, one word kept appearing over and over again: ‘inspirational.’ So many people were touched by Maxine’s joie de vivre in the face of adversity, that it seemed her attitude had a lot to teach many of us in more fortunate positions. Maxine was born with a double inlet left ventricle and unfortunately despite palliation with a duct ligation and pulmonary artery band she developed early pulmonary vascular disease that prevented her proceeding to a Fontan operation. And as if the anatomical problem was not enough her condition was complicated by heart block requiring pacing from an early age. She developed a serious infection on her pacemaker lead and required surgery and prolonged medical treatment to cure it. With support from her family and the nursing staff on Rothschild ward she maintained her spirit through this exceptionally difficult time. In turn, I hope that hearing about all the things that Maxine had achieved can be inspiring for you, too. Gemma Reece It was a privilege and a pleasure to look after her for over 20 years and watch her grow from a child, through adolescence into a mature and independent adult. She coped admirably with her condition and was very successful in leading a full and productive life. Her e-mail alias “mightymaxibaby” said it all! Her e-mails were always interesting – even when not challenging medical advice which she frequently did and her visits were also highly anticipated. Back in 1996 when Maxine was an inpatient, I was one of the sisters on Rothschild ward. I was sorry and sad when Eric told me that Maxine had died. I immediately thought back to the time when Maxine spent many weeks on Rothschild and was very unwell. Maxine pulled through after a lot of determination. I remember Maxine’s mother Eileen, father Dave and sister Gemma who all gave constant encouragement to Maxine and were a positive and strong family. As Maxine got better there was lots of fun and laugher as Maxine had an amazing character and humour. The other person I remember was Grandma who used to arrive with yummy home-made cakes. The celebration of her life drew hundreds and was a fitting tribute to her and of course her family. She was one special girl and I will miss her. Eric Rosenthal, Consultant Paediatric & Adult Congenital Cardiologist Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 13 ECHO FUNDRAISING ECHO FUNDRAISING Fundraising Thank you to all our members and their families and friends who have continued to fundraise and donate to ECHO over the past few months. We have received too many contributions for me to be able to mention you all, but here are a few I would like to share with you. Annie Gale's daughter Minnie celebrated her 6th birthday and donated sweetie money to ECHO! On each party bag they put a little sticker to say 'instead of having some extra sweeties in your party bag, we have given a bit of money to a charity called ECHO, from you. This will help children with poorly hearts. Thank you xxx'. Such a wonderful idea, thank you to the Gales for their donation of £40. Thank you to friends and family of Violet May Westover for their kind donations totalling £200. Joan Westover arranged donations to ECHO in memory of her mother in law Violet. they raised £200. James's mum Jane writes: "James has HLHS and is doing amazingly. He loves rugby and hockey at school. He started senior school in September and loves to get to school early so he has more time to play football with the year 11 boys!" Elissa Holloway held a girls night at her friend Caroline's house and raised £320. They charged £10 per person which included fizz and nibbles on arrival and a two course dinner. They sold raffle tickets for prizes donated by local shops and restaurants and family and friends, as well as ECHO teddies and t-shirts. Elissa said: "We organised a couple of silly games with more ECHO teddies, badges and key rings as winners prizes. We also put together a great playlist so there was plenty of dancing later too!" Thank you Elissa for such a great fundraising idea! Thank you to Martin Pavey who raised £640 by holding a charity quiz night on 18th February at his local sports club Crofton Albion. Martin writes: "The evening was very well attended with around 60 people forming 10 teams battling to become the latest quiz champs and take home bottles of wine for the winners. Questions such as 'how many hairs are there on the average human adult body?' and 'Thomas Wedder is attributed with the longest nose at how many inches?' kept the contestants on the edge of their seats…. or was that just them straining to get to the bar at the interval?!" Thank you to Hayes School in Bromley, for raising £101.73 during their Dancefest. James Hook Thank you to the Hook family. In the half term holiday James Hook, aged 12, decided he wanted to hold a cake sale to raise funds for ECHO, which he calls 'his charity'! Along with a friend, and his brother William and sister Heidi-Louise, 14 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 Anwen Morris, friend of member Magali Gauthier, raised £1043 for ECHO. Magali writes: "Thanks to the very generous donations from friends and family, our friend Anwen Morris has managed to raise over £1000 for ECHO by running the Reading half-marathon at the beginning of April. Her determination and hard training paid off as she completed the race in just over 2 hours. She is pictured here with our son Samuel of 5 months who was born at the Evelina in October 2011 and underwent successful open heart surgery to correct his TGA heart condition at only a week old." Thank you Anwen. with a major heart defect and we were sent immediately to the Evelina children’s hospital for the first of what would be many visits, unfortunately Congenital heart disease was confirmed and he was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot, a rare condition which would require corrective surgery when he was born. Kai was born on the 23 March 2010 at the Conquest Hospital by planned caesarean section as the consultants were unsure as to how Kai’s heart would cope with a normal delivery. Kai was transferred to the Evelina soon after where he was given a thorough check and given the all clear to come home but would continue to be monitored with a view to commence corrective surgery once he had gained the required weight. When Kai was 8 months old and after many appointments at the Evelina they decided the time was right for his surgery and on the 10 December 2010 he underwent successful open heart surgery to correct his heart. We all have a tendency to think we are having a tough day or seen a few challenges in our lives but this was the hardest time of our lives and without the Evelina Hospital, the amazing nurses, consultants, surgeons and the support of echo, I cannot begin to imagine where we would be today and this is the start of me trying to say thank you for a service and gift money cannot buy. lovely Admin Assistant's brother in law Martyn Monk took part in the Three Peak Challenge and raised a wonderful £700 for ECHO. Thank you to Martyn and his team: Adam Jamieson, Andrzej Chec, Chris Hoskison, David Peters, Simon Ashley and their driver Piers Cooper Martyn and his team So, all this considered am I really that crazy to raise money for these people?? I don’t think so and I am training to lift a car so don’t argue with me!" David managed a total of 11 lifts in the 60 seconds. Well done David!! Anwen and Samuel Thanks to Joyce Schofield for donating £400 in lieu of gifts for her husband's 70th birthday. Thank you to Bam Grey who celebrated her 40th birthday this year and held a party on 21st April. She asked for donations to ECHO in lieu of gifts. She has donated a fantastic £950! David Thank you to member Simon Baker who raised £3,400 through raffle ticket purchases, competition entries and other donations at the South Coast Slam at The Charmandean in Worthing . Thank you to all the organisers for all their hard work in making it such a successful event. Sharne Kelly held a pamper evening raising a fantastic £1093.30 for ECHO. She said: "The money was raised through ticket sales, donations from therapists and raffle tickets. Defluo plumbing and drainage sponsored the event by providing 2 glasses of wine for every ticket brought." Thank you Sharne. David Stokes raised a fantastic £2337.63. David writes: "Lifting a car for charity with 6 weeks notice. I have finally lost the plot, or have I???? As many of my friends, family and colleagues know my world was blown apart two years ago when Natalie and I received the news that no parents would want to hear. At our 21 week scan, our unborn son was diagnosed Thanks to ECHO member and volunteer, Debbie Houghton's daughter Charlotte and her class Form 7N at Newstead Woods School for Girls, for raising £66.97 through holding a sponsored silence. Charlotte recommended ECHO as one of the charities to receive the money raised. Debbie said: "Everyone in her class did a sponsored silence for the whole day (bet the teachers loved that)!" Thank you also to Debbie's mum for her kind donation of £25. Kai At the top! And last, but by no means least, thank you to Emily Ellis, Sister on Savannah, and her friend Liz, who ran 10K on the 5th May and raised £440 for ECH0. Thank you Emily and Liz!! Jessica Cattermole Bam Grey and her boys Emma Orpin, our Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 15 ECHO FUNDRAISING ECHO FUNDRAISING Fundraising We had twelve runners take part in the London Marathon on 22nd April 2012 using ECHO places and another two runners who ran with their own places. We also had a friend of a member take part in the Brighton Marathon the week before! Here are some of their accounts of the day. Nat Scott Cree, ECHO member and father of Lucy, ran for ECHO with his brother Paul. Nat writes: "It was their first marathon and after the long, cold winter of training, a day Nat and Paul of glorious sunshine welcomed them to Blackheath for the start. Some four hours and fortythree minutes later, they crossed the line in Westminster, worse-for-wear, but in one piece having resisted the temptation to walk on several occasions! It was a truly wonderful experience and a great team of supporters was there to cheer us the last few hundred yards on Birdcage Walk (including Lucy). A big thank you to them! We had many generous sponsors, and to date we have raised a grand total of £3277.74, with donations still trickling in." since my eldest son Sebastian was born with TGA in 2004. Sebastian was very excited about me running and often asked if I thought I'd win! I'm not really a runner Steve Caine so started my training last summer starting at about 4 mile runs and gradually building up in the lead up to the big day. What a fantastic day it was, hats off to the organisers for it all going so smoothly. The spectators were great and the many comments about the 118 tache (dyed red) I'd grown for the run and all the other encouragement really helped and added to the whole atmosphere. I saw my family twice, once at Canary Wharf where I still felt reasonably fresh and then again near Westminster by which point it was getting very painful, in fact the last six miles were painful but I was determined not to stop or walk. I completed the run in 4hrs 14 mins which I was very happy with and even better ECHO Member, Steve Caine writes: "Thanks for giving me a place to run. It was amazing and even more so as I have raised just under £3000 for ECHO." ECHO Member David Paling writes: "I ran this years marathon to raise money for ECHO as it is such a great organisation. We (my wife and I) have been members for several years now 16 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 David with Thomas and Sebastian Meet Our Marathon Runners!! than that I have so far raised over £2,700 with more still owed. Meeting my family at the end was such a good feeling and I even managed a couple of pints after stretching off. I'm so glad I managed to raise the money for ECHO and give something back for all the help they have given to us and others. By the way the moustache came off that night." Nev Niyazi, friend of ECHO member Grant Taylor, and his friend Ben O'shea, both ran for ECHO. Nev writes: "Running the London Marathon was not only a personal ambition of mine but also an opportunity for me to raise money for a worthy cause. Echo is particularly important to me as it helped my very close friends when their son, Charlie, who was diagnosed and treated for severe heart defects. Fortunately, Charlie is now a happy, healthy, amazing 5 year old boy but I know that they all benefitted greatly from the support of this amazing charity. So when the opportunity arose and Grant said that I may be able to run for ECHO I was thrilled. Before I knew it myself and Ben were signed up and the training was under way. Come race day and meeting some of the other echo runners before and during the race really added to the electric atmosphere created by the thousands who lined the streets. However, the only downside to the day was that I missed selection for team GB for this year's Olympics by 2 and a half hours. Never mind better luck next time. :)" Greg Edwards, whose niece Charlotte is treated at the Evelina writes: "The Marathon was a truly amazing experience. I can’t really describe the feeling of being a part of such a prestigious event and being able to raise money for such a worthy cause. There was a point before the marathon where I thought that I would be unable to run. Three days before the event I had bronchitis and my doctor advised me not to run. I thought I would rest up and see how I felt on the day. When I started the race I didn’t feel 100% and so I decided to take it slow and just try to enjoy the experience. I’m really glad I did as I was able to take in the whole atmosphere of the day. It was tough at times and there were occasions that I thought I may have to drop out, but the crowd cheering my name really lifted me during the tough times and I was able to push on. I also had some friends and family with me who I saw every few miles after the halfway point and my wife and daughter were waiting for me at mile 24, my daughter had a banner that said “Run daddy run! I think knowing that they were waiting for me is what got me to the finish in the end. I managed to finish in 4hrs 58mins, which is about an hour outside what I was aiming for, but I am very pleased to have been given the opportunity to take part. I have managed to raise a total of £2078." ECHO member Ian Littlewood ran for ECHO and has raised £5248 and his friend Nick Ralph also ran, and raised £2050. Ian writes: "I decided to run the marathon to raise money for ECHO after receiving such amazing care for my son, Jude, when he was born with Transposition of the Great Arteries (TGA) in September last year. We knew about his condition in advance so it seemed to me like he would be born, whisked away, fitted with a few tubes and given some drugs which would stabilise him for a few days. Then he would have an operation that would fix him and we would all live happily ever after. As it turned out, things didn't quite go to plan as Jude went downhill very quickly when he was born. He had to have an emergency balloon septostomy, although this didn't quite go to plan either. After the septostomy I went down to see him in NICU but two Doctors were in the middle of doing something to him. The look on their faces told me things weren't going well at all. I said I would come back later and wandered back to see my wife, Deirdre, who was in recovery from her C section. As I left NICU I felt sick. For the next few hours we waited in the recovery room together wondering what was happening. I can't now remember whether I told Deirdre the full extent of what I felt seemed to be happening or if I tried to protect her in the hope everything would be OK. After what seemed like an age we saw a Doctor who explained part of what had happened and that Jude was to be transferred to PICU. We went down to see him just before he went across to PICU. It was the next day before I discovered the full extent of what had happened to Jude. He simply hadn't been getting enough oxygen and each of his organs began to shut down in order. This culminated in his heart stopping for some thirty seconds before his was brought back to life by CPR. "Just like on the telly" as Doctor explained to me later. This also meant that his brain was starved of oxygen for half a minute. He slowly got better over the next few days but then would have little episodes where his blood oxygen levels would drop suddenly. On Jude's sixth day I woke up thinking that today would be the day, even though it wasn't planned to be. As it turned out I was right. It was decided that the best course of action given his circumstances was to operate that day and that it was to be that afternoon. I was quite relieved that it would happen and just wanted to get it over and done with. At about 4 or 5 pm he was taken down to surgery. Deirdre and I then went off to have what we both hoped would be an incredibly slow dinner. We received probably the fastest dinner that Locale have ever served. This left us at a bit of a loose end for a while so we went and had a coffee and a beer in the bar at the Marriot. At about 9pm we wandered slowly back to our room in the Ronald McDonald House within the Evelina. After only around ten minutes we got the call from the nurse at PICU that Jude was back and that everything had gone well. We raced up to see him. He looked a bit puffy and remarkably similar to some of the other post op pictures I have seen in ECHO newsletters. Over the next few days he got stronger and the next step was from him to be taken off his ventilator. This also didn't go well at the first attempt but he got there in the end. We also spoke to a neurologist to discuss the brain scan that Jude had had to see what might have happened when he was starved of oxygen. It turns out that there was very little damage considering what had happened but that bold truth was that they didn't really know what that would mean and we might not know until he is much older. Not exactly the black or white answer that we wanted. There were quite a few other ups and downs along the way but after a month or so we got Jude home. He seems to be developing "normally", although perhaps a little behind which is "normal" for what he went through. Anyway, I digress, I was only going to write a sentence or two about Jude to give a little background... I have to admit, part of the reason I wanted to do the marathon was simply to feel just a little of the pain that he must have gone through. This was quite useful during training as the sleet, snow and hail that felt like daggers in my face during subzero runs across Blackheath made me feel good. It also meant that I was never, ever going to stop or give up, just like Jude didn't. I was also spurred on by the incredibly generous donations from friends and colleagues that were mounting up on justgiving. The day itself was a truly remarkable experience that I would recommend to anyone. To be cheered on by Ian random Littlewood strangers with Jude over and over again really Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 17 ECHO FUNDRAISING ECHO FUNDRAISING operations…..again reminding me that not everyone is so fortunate. That said, by working together like we did, vital funds have been raised, hopefully improving chances for others through research, equipment and expertise." ECHO member Simon Fricke writes: "Choosing to run the London marathon this year for ECHO was an easy decision. My wife Alex and I had never heard of ECHO until our baby daughter Meredith was born in June last year. Meredith was diagnosed with Wolff- The marathon itself was nothing new to me but it's always a challenge. I had my cheer team at various points on the course to help me along the way. My parents have it down to an art now as I see them at the 6, 14 and 21 mile marks. I managed to glimpse Alex's head above the crowd at Tower Bridge but Meredith was unfortunately hidden. Still, the thought of running for Meredith and so many other babies and children really kept me going." Simon Openshaw completed marathon in 4 hrs 40, and raised over £3,000. Simon's son Sam was at the Evelina at Alan out! As you are aware I ran in memory of Harrison Smith, when my knee was causing me such pain I kept telling myself it is nothing like the pain Caroline and Jake have experienced over the last year. This and seeing my family along The Embankment at 24.5miles kept me going. I can honestly say it is the most physically demanding thing I have ever done, but a truly amazing experience! I actually saw Caroline's brother (Harrison's uncle), Alan Border, before we started, we hadn't arranged to meet up so how amazing that we were running for the same person and saw each other for a chat! I have raised over Ian and Nick 18 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 Simon Fricke Simon Openshaw Parkinson-White syndrome when she was two weeks old after having spent four days in intensive care at Kings College Hospital. The Evelina Children's Hospital took on the care of Meredith and we have been provided with great support by all the staff whenever we have to stop by for check ups. We also enjoyed the fantastic Christmas party held at the Den and look forward to this year when Meredith can explore a bit more on her own. Raising the sponsorship money was great fun. Alex and I managed cake sales at both of our offices which went down a storm. Friends and family also gave generously and the final tally will be around £2000. the time of the marathon, so Simon returned to the hospital after the event to see his family. Tragically Sam died on the 18th May. Simon would like to say thank you to everyone who sponsored him and to everyone who has supported them since Sam's death. Our thoughts go out to Simon, Helen and Izzy at this desperately sad time. Thanks also to ECHO member Paul White who also ran using an ECHO place. Jo Codling Jo Codling ran with her own place, in memory of ECHO members Caroline and Jake Smith's son Harrison. Jo writes: "I did it! It took me 4hrs 38mins, I am pleased with my time as I had to run with my knee strapped due to an injury I picked up training. From 10miles my knee was really unhappy, but there was just no way I was going to drop Geoff Manns friend of members Karen Beynon and Mandy Head, ran the Brighton marathon on the 15th April and raised over £800 for ECHO. Geoff writes: "I originally applied for the Brighton Marathon 2012 in May 2011, It’s funny how the months race past and you realize the reality sets in that you are going to have to start some serious training at least 4 months before The Day. Having only run a few 10k races (6.2 miles) to think of over 26 miles was arduous to say the least. Training went quite well by increasing my mileage by an extra one each week. My worst experience was running 15 miles and getting home with pains below both knees, even jumping up road curbs was a struggle….only to be told by my 10 year old daughter. I will have to run another 11 plus miles on the day. An experienced running neighbor of mine told me when I get to 20 miles in the race you're about half way there! Meaning the remaining 6 will be tough…Sobering thought. The day itself was great with amazing support and a really good vibe around the course. To see friends and family around the route gives you a much needed extra energy boost. I must admit the last 6 miles were like running in treacle, with your running shoes scuffing on the road as you lose the power to lift up your legs. The finishing post was a great sight for my tired legs. I finished the race in 3 hours 53 minutes and 18 secs. I hope the money raised is useful in many ways for this deserving Charity". Ian Littlewood with Jude helped a lot. I planned to get around London in 4 hours and I did exactly that, after a "sprint" over the last few hundred metres meant that I crossed the line in 4.00.00. I waited for my friend Nick who was also running for ECHO and then we went for a drink and bite to eat at the Marriot. Somehow, it seemed appropriate." and Nick writes: "Your experience put things into perspective for me, especially in relation to the birth of my baby daughter, Nina. Child birth is not something that we should take for granted, nor should we ever forget how skilled and professional people are in the NHS. Supporting you and Jude was the least I could do. No matter how long or painful. Throughout the marathon I bumped into other runners supporting ECHO, one with a story of on-going £1,100 for ECHO and have memories to last me a lifetime!" Alan also raised over £1,100! Thank you Jo, Alan, Geoff and all of our fantastic runners for choosing to run for ECHO. Geoff Manns OUR MARATHON RUNNERS RAISED OVER £25,000!!!! Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 19 ECHO FUNDRAISING ECHO FUNDRAISING Fundraising ECHO member Anna Campbell and Petts Wood Pavilion Preschool in Kent raised over £1,400 for ECHO “Wheelie Fundraising Event” – over £1,400 raised by little legs! Zoe in the Evelina Go Zoe! On 23rd and 24th May, the Petts Wood Pavilion Preschool in Kent raised over £1,000 for ECHO. Each child was asked to complete 8 laps of the bowling green by form of a “wheel” (bike, scooter or pushing a pram) and they were sponsored by friends and family. 29 of my pregnancy. Being small for dates, I was examined at Kings Hospital and they diagnosed that our little girl had “Tetralogy of Fallot’’. This is a congenital heart defect where complete repair of four areas of the heart is required, one of which is more commonly known as a “hole in the heart”. We were told that she would need open heart surgery within days of being born. Zoe arrived three weeks early in St Thomas Hospital by emergency caesarean weighing a tiny 3lbs 11. All the medical team were on standby but Zoe showed us from the start what we now recognise as her stubbornness and determination. After a great deal of scanning and examining they decided she should get stronger before any further intervention. So she came home three weeks later but was regularly monitored by the cardiologists at the Evelina’s Children’s Hospital. It was a very nervous time for us all. At 10 months they decided that it was the right time for Zoe to have major heart surgery. We kissed our little girl good bye and waited an agonising 5 hours. The operation was successful but we had a terrifying second night when we nearly lost her. Two weeks later we were all back home and trying to lead a normal life. Zoe remembers nothing of course but it took us, as parents, a little bit longer to recover! Zoe has since gone from strength to strength. For a three year old she is still very little but you wouldn’t know the start she has had in life by just looking at her. Her favourite game is running and she can out run her daddy around the house! It is amazing to watch after everything she has been through. Zoe will need further surgery later in life and continues to have annual check- ups but in the meantime I wanted to be able to give something back to say “thank you”. I do not feel I could ever do enough to thank the Evelina Children Hospital and ECHO for saving Zoe’s life and for helping us as parents to cope with it all. Thank you to the Petts Wood Pavilion Preschool for helping to support this charity. We felt so grateful for our little miracle that we like many before us decided to give something back. I started to raise money for ECHO by baking some traditional slovak Christmas biscuits, which was very successful. I however had bigger things in mind and started to organize a big summer event. The children having a well-earned rest! Fun and Games! overwhelmed by the support and encouragement they gave me not to mention their left over drink from their own summer festival. Our event took place on Sunday 8th July at Crockham Hill Village Hall in Edenbridge Kent. We had lots planned for the day, but unfortunately the weather wasn't on our side. The rain was relentless in the morning which scrapped a number of my plans and frightened off the Bouncy castle Company; we had to improvise and fortunately the venue had great indoor space. Ellis and Fearne Whilst still in the planning phase I got to know Michelle Kingston, who also lives in Edenbridge. Michelle has little girl called Fearne. Fearne has Hypoplastic left heart syndrome and she has had norward procedure stage 1&2 and waiting for stage 3. She is doing really well. Michelle and I started to organize our big event which was challenging having never done anything like this before; however we had so much support and encouragement from our friends and family and the event was coming along nicely. Leading up to the event I did a fundraising face painting at our local Rotary Fete raising £130 and Ellis's nursery organized a sponsored Dance and Wriggle which raised amazing £790. I attended a number of Rotary Club meetings; these taught me a great deal about organizing an event and I was My Story…….. Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 After some tough times Ellis has made a full recovery and is now a bubbly and very determined little toddler. Fundraising face painting This event happens annually and this year the prechool kindly agreed to give the proceeds to ECHO, as my daughter Zoe, attends the school. 20 Our Son Ellis was born in January 2011 with Transposition of the great arteries and was treated and cared for at Evelina. Anna (Mummy to Zoe) It was one of the hottest 2 days of the year and despite the increasing red cheeks, all the children took part and completed the event. They got a sticker a lap and then much deserved ice lollies! Zoe’s condition was diagnosed at week ANDREA DEANS FUNDRAISING Still the turn out was very good considering the rain, Murray in the Wimbledon final and the F1 Grand Prix. We sold about 120 adult tickets and people seemed to enjoy themselves. We had stalls selling lovely things, lots of donated clothes, books, plants were also sold. We had lovely cake stall which sold out, face painting and a princess make over; kids could also make paper hearts and forest creatures, garden games and competitions for kids and even welly wanging which was very popular when the sun finally smiled down on us. We had live music playing all day including my husband and neighbors doing their first public guitar jam as well as 3 fantastic local bands; this made a really nice atmosphere. The raffle went really well we sold over 1000 tickets this made all the relentless cold calling on local shops and businesses worth while. Michelle even got Peter Andre to donate a signed book (we secretly hoped he might turn up but it wasn't to be. Ellis more form some businesses. Our online donation is currently at £1,500, so adding everything up we are hoping to reach £5,000. We still have ongoing fundraising activities like Pampered Chef online, where you can shop your quality kitchen products and 15% of every purchase will go to ECHO. If you would like to do some shopping just go to http://www.pamperedchef.biz/jobanks?page =host-search-results&showId=3687321 We also have World War 2 military vehicle driving experiences available, from which all money will go to ECHO. If anyone is interested in having a really good day out exploring over 20 different vehicles, have a ride in them, drive them and have bbq on top, please let us know! I would like to say a huge thank you to all who came but most of all to those who helped to make it happen, I could not do it without them! Andrea x Over all on the day we collected just over £3,000 which hugely exceeded our expectations. Our friends and friends of friends were incredibly supportive. On a day like this you realize just how important loyal and hard working your closest friends are. The fundraising doesn't stop there, we still have money coming in from people who couldn't make it and also have been promised some ECHO member Andrea Deans is hoping to reach her target of £5,000 through her fantastic fundraising events!! Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 21 ECHO ETC NEWS ECHO ETC NEWS HANNAH PHILLIPS patients. It’s a way of showing that you’re never alone! Since having the pacemaker I have been feeling more myself, I waited a long time to have one implanted and so far I don’t regret it. Like any teenager, I have my ups and downs but over all I am happy with the result. For those of you who may not have seen my previous article or who don’t already know me, this is a little bit about me. My name is Hannah Phillips and I turned seventeen on the 23rd May. I finished my GCSE’s last year and was very pleased with my results; I am currently studying Drama, Spanish, French and Sociology at college. I enjoy cooking & I’m a total chocaholic! I love acting and taking the time to meet new people. Travelling and learning new languages is my passion. I’m a huge fan of charity work and will get involved in any way that I can. I’m very girly, and love to have a good time; I’m bubbly and (as you can probably already tell) a huge chatterbox! After being born three months premature, at six months I was diagnosed with the heart disease Ebstien’s anomaly. Since then, like many other heart patients I have had several operations and hospital visits over the years. After surgery in 2008 I suffered from bad arrhythmia problems and after three years of trying to cope with it and trying out different medications, we decided that a pacemaker would be the best way forward; this was fitted October last year. When I was told that I was going to have a pacemaker fitted I felt really unsure about what it would be like and I really hated the fact that this meant more surgery. I thought that it would be nice to find a creative way of preparing myself for surgery; however, I also wanted to be able to help other heart patient’s deal with the same pacemaker process. With the help of the Evelina we came up with the idea of creating a video diary of my pacemaker journey. It shows the weeks leading up to, during and after surgery. The diary entries cover how I was feeling before, during and after, the process as a whole, what I did to keep calm and load more. I found that doing the video really helped me keep calm and remind myself of how it would help me in the long run. I wanted the video to have a greater impact and so I have been working with The Evelina, who are editing the video for me. This will be finished within the next few weeks and be handed out to hospitals, charities, organisations and patients, across the UK (hopefully) and used as a helpful resource for fellow pacemaker 22 Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 Over the past year and a half I have been working closely with one of my mum’s friends and together we have created a one woman show, based around my life. ‘Hannah's Heart Beat’ is a poignant multicharacter solo show based on Hannah's experiences while living with a rare congenital heart defect called Ebstein's anomaly. During the 40 minute show, we journey with Hannah and meet her mother, a proper South London nurse, an American wedding planner, insensitive classmate, a therapist and Hannah's idol Jessie J. Interspersed between these characters Hannah talks and sings about her life experiences, we meet a teenager who has integrity, a zest for living life and a quirky sense of humour. The ultimate aim of the show is to give people like me and not like me a different perspective of life. I want to be able to share my story and what matters to me with the young and old. The show was performed for the first time on the 18th February in front of close friends and family and is still a working progress, however, will never really be ‘complete’ as my life is forever changing. It was also performed on the 25th May at a festival and the 16th June as part of ECHO’s family fun day. The response I got on the 16th June was over whelming. I had so much fun performing at the event, in front of parents and the ECHO teen group. It was an amazing experience and a huge opportunity given to me by ECHO, which I am very grateful for. The feedback and comments were very touching and a real eyeopener for me as I was unsure as to how people would react. Even so, I came away having had a lot of fun but feeling that I’d done some good and given a sense of ‘hope’ to people at the same time. Thank you to ECHO for taking that project on board and helping ‘Hannah’s Heart Beat’ grow that little bit extra. The show was performed on the 14th and 18th July at The Evelina Children’s Hospital in the Medi-Cinema. You can keep up to date with my show by liking our page on Facebook, just search for: Hannah’s Heart Beat. What’s next for me? After college I am taking a gap year, I’m going to work at Disney land California for six months and when that’s over, I will be flying out to a third world country (still undecided as to where)for eight months with project trust, to volunteer in education and health care for children. I hope to gain new skills and experiences but not forgetting to have fun and explore the world whilst as much as I can. Depending on how that goes I will then either go University or into employment, however, that’s a little too far ahead to think about now. Ha-ha. Over the years I have learnt a great deal and feel I’ve really grown as a person. I believe that if you’re determined and work hard you can achieve what you want no illness should bully or stop you from doing what you want and love. There will be times were I feel like giving up or wishing it would all go away, everyone has those moments, of course we do (especially us teens) but overall living with my condition has given me such a different view of life and a zest for living it to the full! Looking back over the years, Ebstein’s Anomaly is something I wouldn’t change about myself. There are three sayings that I like to remember and try my best to go by, they are as follows: • • • Humour is just as important as medication and surgeries “Be young, be foolish, but be happy” “Just be true to who you are” I would love to hear from some of you, if you wanted to get to know me more, ask about the play and further updates regarding that or simply just wanted a chat, I would be more than happy to do so. Here is my E-mail; [email protected] I hope to hear from some of you soon, have a great summer, and enjoy it while you can. ETC MEMBER, RACHEL WARD, HAS WRITTEN THIS GREAT REPORT ABOUT THE FAMILY DAY Saturday 16th June was the ECHO conference and family day. For the ECHO teen club, it was basically a fun Ward day out Rachel but a good way to meet new people, make new friends and to learn more about how to cope with a heart condition in everyday life as a teen. we played a few rounds of hangman, and then we played a weird murder game, a really complicated version of wink murder, but really fun. During the day there was a girl called Hannah, a 17 year old who came in and performed some of her extracts from her show, ‘Hannah’s Heartbeat’ She amazed everyone, including the parents with her confidence and talent, while teaching everyone there a lot. She was a lot easier to relate to because she was our age. It was really useful and boosted a lot of our confidences. Nathan with David Cameron After lunch, we went to Madame Tussaudes!! It was really fun! Especially because hardly any of us had been there before. We went round in small groups and we saw everyone! It was amazing! When we got back, some people went home and some people stayed for dinner. There was also a swimming pool Joe Jac that some people used. The whole day kson a was really fun and really worth going! All Hamilto nd Lewis We were put n! into groups and the people were really nice and made the day more exciting. then started with some ‘ice-breaker’ games. Our Rachel Ward group leader cut up a piece of fruit and then we had to put it back together with toothpicks – harder than it sounds… then A huge thank you goes to Merlin’s Magic Wand Charity who provided all the tickets for the wonderful trip to Madame Tussauds free of charge! Volunteer Olivia Hannah Phillips x Morgan Hawkins, aged 11, took part in The Grand Hotel Mini Mile Race and raised £120 for ECHO! His mum Tracy Hawkins said: "My son Morgan Hawkins participated in The Grand Hotel Mini Mile Race. At two weeks old he had to undergo corrective surgery, he was born with TAPV (Total Anomalous Pulmonary Venous Corrections). He is now a fit and healthy 11 year old. He wanted to do the race and collect sponsorship for ECHO, as you had been a great help to us during his stay at Guy's and he reads all the ECHO newsletters and also thinks you do a fantastic job. He managed to complete the race in 9:28 and we are all very proud of his achievement. We thank you all for all your hard work and the time that you give to so many parents and children when they most need it. " Thank you Tracy and thanks and well done to Morgan, what an amazing achievement!! Morga n Haw kins If you are over 11 and haven’t already joined ETC (ECHO Teen Club) then don’t delay, you might be missing out! Email your name, date of birth, postal address, email address and mobile phone number to Emma at [email protected] or text/call 07715 208077 for more info! Evelina Children’s Heart Organisation Summer 2012 23 KEEP IN CONTACT Does ECHO have your email address? Send it to Jessica on [email protected] AREA CONTACTS AREA NAME TELEPHONE North London/Herts Mandy Webster Diane de Naeyer Kerry Auger Eleanor Beardsley 0208 202 0713 [email protected] 020 8441 3644 [email protected] 01702 526 612 [email protected] 020 8690 6804 [email protected] Vacant [email protected] 01273 277 798 [email protected] 07789 390 594 [email protected] 07792 349 780 [email protected] Vacant [email protected] 07715 208 177 [email protected] Please contact Emma for Cathie's contact details' East London/Essex South London Kent Sussex Suffolk Surrey Norfolk Pre-natal Support Bereavement Support Nicki Morgan Angela May Kathy Turner via Admin Office Cathie Shipton EMAIL THE ECHO COMMITTEE NAME TELEPHONE EMAIL DIRECTORS Juno Hollyhock Chair Richard Parsons Vice Chair Joanne Williams Treasurer Jane Ward Director Trustee Rowan Alston Director Trustee 07742 532 973 07976 839 303 07752 504 021 020 8655 0660 07824 350 188 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] STAFF Jo Wilson Chief Executive Becky Kelway Membership Services Manager Emma Orpin Administration Assistant 07921 775 795 07730 146 154 07715 208 077 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] COMMITTEE MEMBERS Ben Wilkie Dawn Matthews Nick de Naeyer 07944 849 137 07843 770 479 07889 570 784 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] ECHO mobile 07715 208077 Don’t forget to let us (and the hospital) know of any change in your contact details, i.e. address, phone number, e-mail address Edited by Jessica Cattermole | Designed by Stanislaus Design Please email [email protected] ECHO MEMBERSHIP FORM Name of Child Child’s Date of Birth Parent(s) Name(s) Would you like to be put in contact with other families in your local area? Yes No To join ECHO, please complete the form and return to Emma Orpin at: Address ECHO PO Box 597, Chatham ME4 9DS Telephone Membership of ECHO is free, but if you would like to make a donation, however small, it would be gratefully received. Has he/she had surgery? Please give details Postcode Email address Child’s condition In accordance with the 1998 data protection act, we will hold your details for membership communication purposes and to provide you with correspondence, invitations and appeals. If you do not wish to receive these please contact [email protected]. None of these details will ever be passed on to a third party.