Read Victoria`s inspirational story on page 15
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Read Victoria`s inspirational story on page 15
Summer 2013 No. 73 Read Victoria’s inspirational story on page 15 Inside this issue Group News including Jeans for Genes Day | Fundraising | Members’ Letters | Our PGD Journey | Advocacy Unique’s Chair of Trustees Meet Sophie Dear Families, After 11 years of having a Unique boy and hardly meeting anyone with even a similar chromosome disorder “in the flesh”, we have had the most fantastic few months making up for lost time. I went to Chicago in June to meet American Trisomy 9 families. Then last Saturday we met up with ten British families also with chromosome 9 disorders (not exact matches – we are still too rare for that!). The first event in the US was a really carefully planned, parent-run weekend in a hotel, with seminars and organised social activities. The UK one was a spontaneous Facebook chromosome 9 page event: a bunch of us said “Why don’t we get together?” We picked a children’s farm with a cafe in the middle of the UK and a date, and just pitched up on the day to share sandwiches in the sun. Both events were enormous fun and have given me much food for thought about my own child after seeing other families with their kids. More importantly I feel that I have made new friends for life. In March I attended Unique’s first regional family day in East Anglia. After a morning training session for local contacts Unique laid on a big lunch and children’s party in the afternoon. I had a wonderful time there too because, although our kids all have different chromosome disorders, we share so much experience in common. Talking to each other about bringing up our children, education, health issues, in an atmosphere in which no one feels they need to explain or apologise for their children is wonderfully relaxing. After such a great day, I am really excited that Unique has now got the funding to hold similar regional events in different parts of the UK (West Midlands and the North East to start). And if you can’t make those gatherings, wherever you are in the world, I can’t recommend enough a quick message on the Unique Facebook cafe or an email to your fellow local members or Unique members with similar chromosome disorders (ask Beverly for an updated list) and just meet up! It is so worth it. Sophie A message from Beverly, Unique’s CEO Dear Friends Most of you will know about Unique’s frontline work from your experiences on joining the group – our email and telephone helplines, our magazine and welcome pack, our social networking sites and our family matching service (thanks to our comprehensive database). But there is so much more work going on in the background. For instance, just in the last month I have participated in an invitation-only satellite workshop at the conference of the European Society of Human Genetics in Paris where some very eminent geneticists and I discussed “How to Reach European Consensus on Reporting Unsolicited Findings and Unknown Variation” in DNA sequencing. Later in the month Sarah and I manned an awareness raising stand at the European Cytogeneticists Association annual conference in Dublin where we had a tremendous response from geneticists from across Europe and beyond who learned about our work and about all the disorder-specific guides we produce, including all the translations we publish. I have also been working hard, with some very influential doctors and other health professionals, to give the patients’ perspective in developing the new UK plan for rare diseases, which should be ready by the end of the year. I represented Unique at the excellent Genetic Alliance UK annual conference where we heard about advances in genetics and genomics – from the RAPID project (on non-invasive 2 prenatal testing) to updates on preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) – as well as the proposed new all-England congenital anomalies registry. I even gave a 90 minute presentation across the internet on the challenges of rare chromosome disorders and the work of Unique to a group of prospective scientists and geneticists at Geisinger Hospital in Pennsylvania! This is just a snapshot of our activities to raise the profile of rare chromosome disorder and the challenges they bring, as well as the work of Unique. We are trying really hard to raise awareness on your behalf. On a separate note, I am sad to have to tell you that paediatrician Dr Jenny Hague will be leaving her part-time Unique Information Officer post at the end of August but I am delighted not only that she will be volunteering for us in the future but most importantly she will be training to be a Clinical Geneticist! Jenny is our first professional « graduate « and what a wonderful insight into the challenges we as families face she will take with her in her new role. We are currently recruiting Jenny’s replacement and hopefully will have more news in our next magazine. Watch this space! Kindest regards Beverly Front cover: Victoria Fearnley Atwell; aged 19 years; page 15 www.rarechromo.org GROUP NEWS Two Unique Family Conferences in 2014! Following the success of our family conference weekend last year, we are planning not one but two similar events for next year! The aim is to bring together as many Unique families as possible (including their children) with geneticists, psychologists, behavioural specialists and other therapists. The conferences will further our collective knowledge and understanding but the most important things is for families to meet and get to know others living with rare chromosome disorders. The first event will be held in a hotel in Blackpool over the weekend of 16th–18th May 2014, aimed primarily at our member families in the North of England, North Wales and Scotland. The second will be for families in the ‘South’ (including South Wales, the Midlands and East Anglia) in October 2014 (date and venue TBD). We will provide a crèche at each event, run by experienced staff supported by CRB-checked volunteers. A variety of speakers will give presentations and workshops on relevant topics and geneticists will run 1:1 clinics with parents, answering questions specific to their child’s diagnosis. Cytogeneticists and molecular geneticists will be asked to give an interactive hands-on demonstrations of analysing chromosomes and DNA, helping parents to understand genetic tests. There will also be a children’s entertainer and disco for all. We’ll be sending out information soon so keep an eye out for it! We hope to see you at one of the events. These events are being made possible by generous funding from the Jeans for Genes Day appeal. Wear Jeans, Change Lives We are so delighted to announce that we will receive a grant from Jeans for Genes Day this year, enabling us to hold two ‘Regional Reach Out’ events in the North and South of England over the coming year. These events will be invaluable in helping those families who are unable to travel great distances to still benefit from the opportunity to meet other families and share experiences and management techniques. Jeans for Genes Day is a fantastically simple concept and without their help, charities like ours would struggle to provide events and projects that offer direct support to families affected by genetic conditions across the UK. They hope that by raising as much money as possible on their fundraising day, they will be able to increase the number of grants they provide to disorder-specific charities like ours. Let’s help them reach their £2 million goal! Thousands of adults and children across the UK pay £2 /£1 to wear their jeans to work or school on Jeans for Genes Day. This year, Jeans for Genes Day 2013 will be held on Friday 20 September. Please join in the fun this year and invite your friends, family, and colleagues to join us. You don’t have to just stop at wearing your jeans – you could make cakes decorated in denim icing, dress in fancy dress, offer denim manicures, go for triple denim… the list goes on! With your support, we can help Jeans for Genes Day change the world for children with genetic disorders. Sign up to take part at www.JeansforGenesDay.org/register. www.rarechromo.org New Unique Practical Guides for Parents We have some new editions to the Unique guides family! Practical guides for our parents include: • Holidays, short breaks, travel insurance • Grants and funding • Outdoor bikes, leisure and sensory toys • Sleep • Communication They can all be found in the information section of our website. Alternatively if you would like one emailed to you, please email [email protected]. If you live in the UK and have no way to print the guides yourself, then please send an A5 sized SAE with a large letter stamp on it and a note to tell us which one you want, to: Unique, PO Box 2189, Caterham, Surrey, CR3 5GN The leaflets are geared mainly towards UK families but there will be sections that will be relevant to all. Survey of Unique Families’ Experiences of Diagnosis and Genetic Counselling in the UK between April 2003 and 2013 In 2003, we asked all our families in the UK about their experiences of diagnosis and genetic counselling. We were able to feed back to geneticists, paediatricians and other professionals the incredibly valuable information we were given by families. We are now repeating the survey with those of you whose children, or yourselves, have been diagnosed with a rare chromosome disorder in the UK between April 2003 and the present date to capture your experiences and to see how and if things have changed in the intervening years. We will circulate the collective results as widely as we possibly can. This is a wonderful opportunity for us to let professionals in the UK know what they are doing well and to suggest ways in which the services they provide might be improved. As I write this at the beginning of July over 500 of you have completed the survey so far, which is brilliant. However, we would really like to at least reach the nearly 600 returned surveys we had last time around. It is very important to be able to report the experiences of a large number of families. The families that have reported so far are highlighting important areas for improvement as well as showing trends over time. We would be very grateful if you would please fill in this survey by 18th AUGUST 2013. Please go to www.surveymonkey.com/s/uniquesurvey to access the survey. It should take about 15 to 30 minutes to complete. You do not have to give your name and contact details if you do not want to but, if you do, you will be entered into a prize draw for one of five £20 Amazon vouchers. The information you give will be analysed by Professor Ala Szczepura and Dr Deborah Biggerstaff of the Division of Health Sciences, Warwick Medical School, University of Warwick who helped us to analyse the results of the survey in 2003. Please feel free to give any information or feedback at the end of the survey. All information you give us will remain anonymous and no information will be used which could identify you personally. If you have any questions or would like to talk about the survey, please contact Beverly on 01883 330766 or email her on [email protected]. Thank you very much for your help. 3 GROUP NEWS ‘World first’ family guide to DNA Sequencing We are very pleased to announce that we have places in this year’s Great Birmingham Run in October. If you would like to run, or know someone who might be interested in running, to raise funds for Unique, please contact Craig on [email protected] now! The Bupa Great Birmingham Run, now in its second year, is the biggest half marathon in the Midlands. The course takes in some of the city’s most iconic sights including the Bullring, the Cadbury’s factory in Bourneville and Edgbaston cricket ground. Live music from ‘band on the run’ keep you motivated every step of the way and hundreds of supporters turn out to cheer finishers across the line on Broad Street in the heart of the city centre. Join thousands of others, both serious runners and those running for fun and show your support for Unique. Two more Unique local events coming up Following the success of our first social event for local families held in East Anglia earlier this year, we are now planning two similar events. They will take place in the West Midlands in October this year and in the North East in March next year. The events are free of charge and will take place on Saturdays in accessible, family-friendly locations. Each event will begin with a short update and training session for our local contacts in the area, after which local families and their children will join us for lunch and a social event, including a children’s entertainer, disco, balloon modelling and face painting. We’re hoping the Unique’s mascot, Gene will put in an appearance too! It’s a great opportunity to meet and get to know others in your area as well as your Unique local contacts and some of the Unique team. We want everyone, especially the children, to relax and have some fun. Places will be limited and we’ll be sending out some more information soon so make sure you act fast when you get it and we hope to see you there! These are the latest events in a series across the country so don’t worry if you’re not in the West Midlands or North East, we hope there will be an event near you soon! Unique Pin Badges and Trolley Coin Key Rings We have been bowled over by the enthusiastic response to our new Unique pin badges and trolley coin key rings. The badge looks great and will prompt questions about Unique wherever you go! The trolley coin key rings are a really practical idea. You’ll never be stuck again for a coin at the supermarket or in the changing room at your sports club or swimming pool. To find out how to order yours, please look at pages 30 and 31. 4 The first family guide to DNA sequencing, the latest and most detailed possible test for genetic disorders, has just been published by Unique. Spelling out in plain, jargon-free language what this up-andcoming test can offer families with a child with an undiagnosed genetic disorder, DNA Sequencing puts parents and professionals in charge of the facts. The guide breaks new ground in explaining simply and clearly how sequencing examines an individual’s genetic code letter by letter, allowing many more families to be given a reason for their child’s disorder. It sets out the key benefits of sequencing such as many more and better diagnoses; diagnoses where there are no diagnostic clues; future health mapping; and better informed management, treatment, education and support for the child. Children most likely to benefit from the new technology are those with serious undiagnosed disorders likely to be caused by a genetic change so tiny as to be missed by today’s routine technologies such as karyotyping (examining the chromosomes under a microscope) or array CGH, which detects smaller changes such as microdeletions and microduplications. Formerly called next generation sequencing, the new technology is already on offer to thousands of children taking part in research projects, and now looks likely to be rolled out in the clinic. DNA sequencing technology is available to 12,000 children enrolled in the Deciphering Developmental Disorders (DDD) project. Dr Caroline Wright, director of DDD, said the guide ‘covers all the key points’. She reviewed the guide together with Cambridge clinical geneticist Dr Helen Firth. Unique families who trialled the guide commented: ‘Both informative and extremely helpful.’ Sequencing the first person’s DNA took 13 years and cost £2 billion. Using DNA technology, you can sequence a person’s DNA today in a few days for a few thousand pounds, and the costs are still falling. Predicting that many families now and in the future will soon be offered the new genetic test, Unique identified a need for an information guide that explains the new technology in an accurate yet family-friendly way. DNA Sequencing is available to families and professionals to download as an illustrated 8-page booklet from the Unique website. To view and download the guide, paste www.rarechromo.org/information/ Other/DNA%20 sequencing%20FTNW.pdf into your browser. DNA Sequencing is free of charge. For more information, please contact Dr Sarah Wynn who compiled the guide, on [email protected] or 0203 211 1098. From 15th July to 1st September 2013, please contact Dr Beverly Searle on [email protected] or 01883 330766. The publication of this guide was made possible through the generous support of The Worshipful Company of Grocers. STOP PRESS: The DDD team will be doing a series of bike rides all around the UK on 29th September to raise funds and awareness for Unique and SWAN UK – more info on our website and Facebook pages very soon. Their Virgin Money Giving page is at http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/ team/DDD. Please spread the word and support them! www.rarechromo.org FUNDRAISING As a small charity, we are able to make sure that funds raised make a real difference to our services for those affected by rare chromosome disorders. Here are some of the ways people have been fundraising for Unique recently: April saw the London Marathon and we were very fortunate to have 8 runners in this year’s event. For Hannah Beecham it was the culmination of the 500 mile running challenge she’s been completing over the past six months, including marathons in Amsterdam, Paris, Brighton and of course London. Well done on completing the challenge Hannah! The other runners who all did such a brilliant job of fundraising and representing Unique were Leighton Byrom, Jordan O’Keeffe, Richard Leahy, Tim Fletcher, Richard Weymes, Alex Moore and Angela Molloy. Well done and thanks to you all. us. Daniel completed the run in 4 hours 25 minutes and said he was “proud to do it for such a great charity”. Also in April, Ryan Barkle whose cousin Eddie has a rare chromosome disorder ran the ‘Shakespeare Marathon’ in Stratford-UponAvon. Lots of other people have been running to raise funds for Unique. They include: Richard Grover ran the 33 mile Marlborough Downs Challenge, Michelle Smith did the Aberdeen 10k, Gary Scott the Great Manchester Run and Lucie Emerson, Catriona Durrell and Alison Marrs the London 10,000. Over in Ireland, Sarah Wiley and Graham Hutchings (in red) during the Manchester-London ride. Richard Leahy with Bev (right), Edna (centre) and Edna’s daughter, Linda, after the marathon. The week before the London Marathon saw Daniel Watson run the Brighton Marathon for Li Yen Ng took part in the Flora Women’s minimarathon in Dublin. Daniel on Brighton Seafront after his run. We’ve also had several people climbing into the saddle to complete cycling challenges for Unique. Andy Creed, Mike Parker, Andrew Maslin and Aaron Donnell (the ‘Unique South Downers’) rode the South Downs Way and Graham Hutchings whose son Alex has a rare chromosome disorder cycled from the velodrome in Manchester to the Olympic Park in London overnight. A brilliant effort from all of them! www.rarechromo.org At the slightly more extreme end of the scale, a number of people have been getting muddy and wet doing obstacle courses. Dave Smith, uncle of a Unique member, got some friends together to do the Tough Mudder event which involves ice baths, crawling through mud and even electrocution! (Don’t try this at home folks!). The team completed the course in 2.5 hours, although were ‘a little worse for wear’ afterwards apparently. Students on the Early Years course at K College in Tonbridge, Kent once again supported Unique with a cake and craft fair. Our COO Craig went to meet the students and tell them all about Unique and our work. One of our Unique mums Hazel Hare, whose son Frazer has a rare chromosome disorder, is a lecturer at the College and very kindly organised the fundraiser. A big thank you to Hazel and everyone else involved. Also getting her feet wet was Emma Lofthouse who swam the 1 mile Great North Swim. The Tough Mudders before the event… …AND AFTER! 5 Rat Race Dirty Weekend Candice Webb, whose niece Bailey has a rare chromosome disorder and her fiance Chris, wanted to give something back to Unique after we helped her family understand Bailey’s diagnosis. They decided to sign up for a 20 mile assault course with 200 obstacles called the ‘Rat Race Dirty Weekend’ which took place in May at Burghley House. Having successfully negotiated it, Candice takes up the story: ‘It was tough and some of the obstacles were hectic but it was a lot of fun too! There were a lot of water/lake crossings which were freezing! The course also had hay bales piled up to the height of a house, high climbing frames, a LOT of cargo nets to crawl under and even cars to climb through! After about the 13–14 mile mark, my knee started hurting on impact (probably compensating for my weak ankle from so many netball sprains!), so we walked/jogged/walked and then speed walked the rest (yes we did the ‘full mucker’ – all 20miles). The final 2 obstacles right before the finish line were really high – we had to run and jump up skateboarding ramps – luckily I had Chris and another guy to help pull me up. So we were bruised, battered, soaked, freezing, muddy, chaffed, sore… but it was all good fun! And we finished in around 5 hours 37 minutes so all in all not bad. We did this on behalf of my niece Bailey Kinsella and the many other children and parents out there who need support from such a worthwhile charity. Genetics is such a minefield, and no genes are the same which makes it very difficult to put together specific diagnoses as every case may have differing side effects/disorders. Bailey’s story was in a recent Unique magazine. Unique has put my sister in touch with other families with similar chromosome deletions as Bailey has, and at least they can share their experiences and support other families in the same boat. More importantly, they no longer feel ALONE (something everyone fears).’ Chris and Candice raised over £1,000 for Unique (over £1,200 including Gift Aid) which is fantastic. All donations, however small, make a real difference to our work. Thanks so much guys, you are both stars! Young members of the Wiltshire School of Gymnastics in Melksham raised over £1,000 with their sponsored bounce in June! Member Kylie Bewley whose son Dowie has a rare chromosome disorder, nominated Unique as the beneficiary charity and the team made a fantastic effort to bounce as much as they could! Thanks guys! Also in June, some of the Unique team took part in the Around the World in a Day event at the Hilton on Park Lane in London. Unique mum Samantha Hill works at the Hilton and nominated Unique. Hotel staff led by Amir Butt clocked up the kilometres using the hotel’s gym equipment and some even ran around Hyde Park. Sam’s mum Louise Eldridge also took part and has fundraised separately for us by doing an abseil for Unique in Folkestone, Kent. Keith Mcandrew, Robert and Rosie Chapman and Kat Scobie organised a social evening in East Lothian, Scotland, with guest speakers, an auction and raffle, raising over £1500. Thank you all for your efforts, which are hugely appreciated. Coventry & Warwickshire First, a business forum, made us the beneficiary of an auction and raffle at their recent awards dinner and raised over £2,500. We were nominated by Dave Willetts, a well known actor and musician who is a friend of one of our member families. Thank you for supporting us! Member Catherine Bell organised a coffee morning and music evening at her local church, St Peter’s in Ruddington, Nottingham, raising £1,000 for Unique. Catherine was interviewed on BBC Radio Nottingham too, which was great awarenessraising and at least one new Unique member Kim Mclellan and her sister Claire Cielecki took part in ‘The Major Series’ at Bramham House near Leeds in March, completing the 10k course (search online to see what the Major Series is all about but suffice to say it’s muddy!). Kim says: “it was good fun, very hard though! We decided to do it originally just for fun but decided why not get sponsors for doing something like that. We signed up for the 10k event then soon regretted it! Haha!” She said she chose Unique because “We felt Unique was the best charity by far as this was closest to our hearts due to my daughter having a rare chromosome disorder. They helped so much when we were first diagnosed and continue to do so. We wanted to help a great charity in any way we could. Setting up the online fundraising page was easier than I expected, took 5 minutes and I could also get the app for my phone so that kept me updated with donations.” A huge thanks to Kim and Claire for doing this. Sounds like lots of fun… Craig accepting the cheque from two K College students. 6 www.rarechromo.org Team Loony Dook X-Ray Runners In the Spring 2013 issue of the magazine we told you about Neil Reid and his “Loony Dook” team. Neil later sent us this photo to show you all! Thanks a million chaps! On the 19th May, a team of runners from Safeline X-ray took part in the Wimpole 10K to raise money for two worthy charities – The Stroke Association and Unique. We also showed our support by holding a cake stall on-site with all sales from the cakes will be going towards The Stroke Association and Unique, these are really worthy causes and we were happy that everyone got involved. The charities sit close to the hearts of Reg Osborne and Dale Godfrey. Here Dale explains why... Dale‘s Story “We were given the diagnosis that our grandson, Lewis, had a chromosome disorder from birth. We were told it was “Deletion 8q 24.11q 24.22” and even the geneticist who made the diagnosis couldn’t clearly explain what the implications of this would be. Upon contacting Unique, we found out that Lewis’s chromosome deletion was in fact unique as there was no other exact known case recorded worldwide. However, we were informed that similar cases on record would give us an indication of what problems we could expect. As Lewis grows, any problems, either mental or physical, are reported to Unique to help build a file on his deletions. The aim is to help others born with the same, or similar. family has found us because of it! Well done Catherine and thank you for your hard work! You can read more about Catherine, her daughter Georgia and her fundraising event on page 12. A team at Barclays Bank in Glasgow made us the beneficiary of their monthly fundraising with Barclays matching the amount they raised which was great. Thanks to Chris Fuller for nominating us. In May, Ulrika Eklund and Michael Corless celebrated their wedding with a party and as part of their celebrations decided to ask for donations to Unique. Congratulations Ulrika and Michael, we wish you every happiness. On 2nd June, Leigh Porteus, whose sister Karen Procek is a Unique member, was www.rarechromo.org married to Adam. They also very kindly decided to make Unique a part of their day. Many congratulations Leigh and Adam and thank you for supporting Unique. WH Collier Ltd, a brickmaking company in Marks Tey, Essex, recently celebrated their 150th anniversary, donating the proceeds of sales of commemorative tape measures to Unique. Thank you to Jackie Longman for organising and congratulations to the company on such a milestone! Maxine Godfrey ran a 10k with her daughter, Unique member Leanne Preuss, raising over £200 and her husband Dale nominated Unique to be the 2nd June 2013 was a wonderful day in our family, it saw my sister get married to the love of her life and was a truly family occasion for us all. Rather than spend money on favours for guests Leigh and Adam decided to donate to charity and chose two close to their hearts. I was completely overwhelmed when I saw they had chosen to support Unique and having been involved with a lot of the planning for the wedding this came as a complete surprise that left me speechless and in tears with pride! Seeing so many people wearing their Unique badges and asking about the charity was fantastic and I’m so grateful to them that they helped raise so much money and awareness of Unique Karen Procek charity of the year at the company he works for. Dale said that they are delighted to be able to help in their own small way. Colin Taylor donated the proceeds of a games night he organised for the Members of St Andrews Methodist Church, Mirfield in May. Thanks yet again Colin! James Stevens nominated Unique to benefit from the proceeds of a dress-down day at his workplace, Arval UK Ltd, raising over £200. Thanks also to Skills Motor Coaches in Nottingham for their recent donation. Member Lincoln Ramus works there and suggested us as a recipient. Thanks Lincoln! We were also very touched to receive donations from Janice Brown, as part of the celebration of the life of her daughter Sophia who very sadly passed away earlier this year. Thank you, Jan, for asking people to make donations to Unique. We are extremely grateful. If you’re doing some fundraising, or maybe just thinking about it, thinking about nominating us for help from your employer or just want to make a donation, please drop Craig Mitchell (our Chief Operating Officer) an email at [email protected]. Craig will be able to advise on how to go about fundraising or donating and can help with information about Unique. If you’re fundraising, we’ll even provide one of our special Unique T-shirts, great for raising awareness! 7 Medically verified information guides for families Available for these rare chromosome disorders English • Proximal 1p deletions • 1p36 deletions • 1q21.1 microdeletions Updated • 1q21.1 microduplications • 1q4 deletions • 1q duplications • Supernumerary chromosome 1 • 2p15p16.1 microdeletions Updated • 2p deletions • 2q24.3 microdeletions • 2q23.1 microdeletions New • q32 deletions • 2q33.1 deletions & other deletions between 2q31 and 2q33 • 2q37 deletions Updated • 2q37 deletions in adolescents & adults • Ring 2 • Duplications of 2p • 2q duplications • 3p25 deletions Update in progress • 3q29 deletions & microdeletions • 3q29 duplications & microduplications • 3q duplications • 4p;8p Translocations • 4p duplications • 4q deletions between 4q11 & 4q22 • 4q deletions between 4q21 & 4q22 • 4q deletions between 4q21 & 4q31 • 4q deletions from 4q31 & beyond • 4q duplications • 5q14.3 microdeletions • 5q22 deletions • 6p deletions • 6q deletions between 6q11 & 6q16 • 6q deletions from 6q13 & 6q14 • 6q deletions between 6q15 & 6q23 8 • 6q deletions between 6q23 & 6q24 • 6q deletions from 6q25 • 6q deletions from 6q26 & 6q27 • Duplications of 6p • Duplications of 6q • 7q duplications • 7q11.23 duplications Updated • Proximal interstitial 7q deletions • 7q21q32 deletions • 7q32q34 deletions • 7q36 deletions • • • • • • • • 8p23 deletions 8p23 duplications 8p duplications Inverted duplication and deletion of 8p 8q duplications Supernumerary chromosome 8 Trisomy 8 mosaicism Updated Trisomy 8 mosaicism in adolescents & adults • 9p deletions (Alfi syndrome) • 9p24 deletions • Kleefstra syndrome (9q34.3 deletions) • 9q34 duplications New • Duplications of 9p • Ring 9 • Trisomy 9 mosaicism • Tetrasomy 9p • • • • • 10p deletions 10p duplications 10q22q24 deletions 10q25/6 deletions Duplications of 10q • 11;22 translocation • Emanuel syndrome • 11q terminal deletions (Jacobsen syndrome) • Duplications of 12p • Pallister-Killian syndrome and mosaic tetrasomy 12p • 12q deletions • 12q14 microdeletions • 13q deletions including RB1 • 13q deletions various • 13q distal interstitial deletions • 13q deletions including the end of 13q • Ring 13 • 14q deletions between 14q22 & 14q32 • 14q deletions from 14q31 & 14q32.1 • 14q deletions from 14q32.2 & 14q32.3 • 14q deletions proximal to 14q22 • Duplications of distal 14q • Uniparental disomy 14 • Ring 14 • Trisomy 14 mosaicism • 15q deletions • 15q11.2 microdeletions • 15q13.3 microdeletion syndrome Updated • 15q24 microdeletions Updated • Duplications of 15q • Isodicentric 15 • Ring 15 • 16p11.2 microdeletions • 16p11.2 microduplications • Other proximal deletions of 16p • 16p13 deletions • 16p13.11 microdeletions • 16p13.11 microduplications • 16q deletions • Duplications of 16p • Duplications of proximal 16q • Trisomy 16 mosaicism • 17p13.1 and 17p13.2 deletions New • 17p13.3 deletions New • 17p duplications • 17q12 deletions • 17q12 microduplications New • Koolen de Vries syndrome (17q21.31 microdeletions) Updated • • • • 18p deletions 18q proximal deletions 18q distal deletions Ring 18 • 20p deletions • Duplications of 20p • Ring 20 • 21q deletions • Ring 21 • 22q11.2 deletions • 22q11.2 distal deletion syndrome New • 22q11.2 microduplications • 22q13 deletions • Duplications of 22q12 & q13 • Ring 22 • Xp11.2 duplications • Duplications of Xq28 • 45X/46XY including Y chromosome rearrangements • 47,XYY Update in progress • 48,XYYY • 48,XXYY • 48,XXXY • 49,XXXXY • Pentasomy X • Triple X • Tetrasomy X • Triploidy • Diploidy triploidy • Balanced reciprocal translocations • FISH tests • Microarrays • DNA sequencing New • Robertsonian translocations • Small supernumerary marker chromosomes In preparation • • • • 15q26 deletions 17p13.3 microduplications 17q21.31 microduplications 19p13.2 deletions From our extensive library, Unique can also provide families with copies of original papers published in the medical literature. Please contact Sarah ([email protected]). Arabic • Array CGH Danish • Triple X • Array CGH www.rarechromo.org Dutch • 1p36 deletion syndrome In preparation • 2q37 deletions In preparation • 3p25 deletions In preparation • 3q29 microdeletions New • 4q duplications In preparation • 7q11.23 duplications In preparation • 9p deletions New • Trisomy 9 Mosaicism In preparation • 11q deletion disorder (Jacobsen syndrome) • 18q deletions In preparation • 22q13 deletions New • Tetrasomy X French • 1p36 deletion • 1q4 deletions In preparation • 2q32 deletions and microdeletions • 2q37 deletions • 3p 25 deletions In preparation • 3qter deletions In preparation • Duplications of 4p In preparation • Deletions including 5q22 • Duplications of 6p In preparation • 7q11.23 duplications In preparation • Inv dup del 8p • 8p duplications In preparation • Trisomy 8 mosaicism • 9p deletions www.rarechromo.org • Trisomy 9 mosaicism • 10q25q26 deletions • 11q deletion disorder (Jacobsen syndrome) • Pallister Killian syndrome • 13q deletions New • Ring 14 • UPD14 In preparation • Ring 15 • Idic 15 • Duplications of 15q In preparation • Duplications of 17p • 17q21.31 microdeletions • Ring 18 • 22q13 deletion • Ring 22 • Tetrasomy X • Pentasomy X In preparation • 49,XXXXY • 48,XXXY • 48,XXYY • Array CGH German • 1q21 duplications In preparation • 1q4 deletions In preparation • 3p deletions • 4q deletions between 4q21 and 4q22 New • 6q deletions from q15 to q23 • 7q36 deletions • Trisomy 8 mosaicism • Duplications of 9p • Trisomy 9 mosaicism • 11q deletion disorder Jacobsen syndrome • 13q deletions various • Idic 15 • Ring 18 • Duplications of 20p • • • • • • Ring 22 Pentasomy X XYY Array CGH In preparation Robertsonian translocations Small supernumerary marker chromosomes Greek • Array CGH • Balanced Translocations Italian • Inv dup del 8p In preparation • Idic 15 • 18p deletions New • Proximal 18q deletions New • Distal 18q deletions New • Ring 18 New • Array CGH Polish • 1q21.1 microdeletions New • 1p36 deletion New • 16p11.2 microdeletions In preparation • Idic(15) In preparation • XXXY In preparation • ArrayCGH In preparation • Balanced translocations New Portuguese • ArrayCGH In preparation Romanian • Array CGH • Balanced Translocations In preparation Spanish • 1p36 deletion • 1q21.1 microdeletions • 2q37 deletions In preparation • 3p25 deletions New • 5q deletions In preparation • 7q11.23 microduplications • Duplications of 7q • 8p23.1 deletions In preparation • Trisomy 8 mosaicism In preparation • Trisomy 9 mosaicism • Duplications of 9p • Kleefstra syndrome In preparation • 11q deletion disorder Jacobsen syndrome • Idic 15 In preparation • 16p11.2 microdeletions • 16q deletions In preparation • 17q12 microdeletion New • 17q21.13 microdeletions • Proximal 18q deletions New • Distal 18q deletions New • 22q13 deletion • Triple X • 48,XXXY • 49, XXXXY • Array CGH • Balanced Translocations Unique guides are translated on request by a native speaker who is familiar with the particular disorder. The translation is then reviewed by a native speaker geneticist or doctor. Unique’s sister organisations in France [Valentin APAC] and Germany [Leona] have been assiduous in preparing translations. June 2013 9 For those families members who wonder if I should or shouldn’t get my child into therapeutic riding, from a sceptic myself I say do it. Therapeutic Riding works in mystery ways. We have seen it with our own eyes. 1q21.1 microdeletion Derek Dennis; aged 6 years Amy Dennis on his placement test and I worried he wouldn’t make it through the rigorous curriculum. Fortunately he’s an eager learner and has seemed to blossom these last few months. His report card just came and he actually had “Outstanding” in several academic areas! I can’t wait to find out what this coming year holds for Derek! Duplications in 1p31.1, 7p22.3 & 8p23.1 with Deletions in 1q21.1, 8q11.23 deletion & 2q34 and mutations in RAI1 and MYO15 genes Ashley; aged 15 years As Derek Dennis (1q21.1 microdeletion) eagerly awaits his sixth birthday, I’ve been reflecting on the progress he has made this year. When he first started receiving early intervention, the therapists told me he would catch up by the time he was five. Back then, no one knew he was Unique. It’s pretty amazing, but those therapists were right! Physically he has gotten much stronger and sturdier this year and is able to keep up with his peers. The accomplishment he was most proud of was learning to ride his bicycle. Derek attended a regular education Kindergarten this year. He did not do well at all 10 Rose and Adam Ledingham E: [email protected] Amazing journey that all started by Therapeutic Riding. 4 years ago we enrolled Ash in to OG Therapeutic Riding for a few reasons 1: was to get her out in the community, 2: was to get her socializing with other peers her age, 3: to help with her developmentally, physically, socially and 4: was we knew that Ash loved animals and this was perfect program for her. Not knowing how Ash would respond we didn’t have much hope, but within the first 6-week session we seen improvements of social skills, talking to volunteers, smiling and recalling her day events. This was a break through as before Ash wouldn’t look at any one nor speak to them if they weren’t family or relatively close to her. The second 6-weeks session my husband made a comment that Ash should assist with the care of the horses instead of riding and just leaving the work to the volunteers, the instructor and assistant instructor said, “sure come on back…” After short 12 weeks Ash was going back in the barn assist with the horses, learning about care, feeding, bathing and tack up/tack down and cleaning of tack. Once they were comfortable with Ash they got Ash to do more with the horse, by working and caring for her best friend LIBBY and building her skills from there By the end of the first session of OG, Ash made leaps and bounds and great strides in every goal that we set for! During the Summer months Ash was invited out to counting building her skills and confidence around horse. One of the owners of the horse in the OG program said to Ash and the Administrators that as long as Ash loves her pony she is able to ride her anytime that We’d LOVE your letters for the next edition of the Magazine! Come on everyone – please do get writing about your children for the magazine! We love to receive letters and photos from any families within the group. If you would like to include a piece in the next edition of the magazine, please send your article to Beverly by 30th September 2013. If at all possible, please send your article by email ([email protected] or [email protected]), preferably as a Word document attachment; this is by far the easiest way for us and saves us a lot of work typing up your letter. However, if this is not possible, please send your article by post (PO Box 2189, Caterham, Surrey CR3 5GN, England). Please make sure you make it clear that the article is to be published in the magazine by writing “For the Magazine” across the top of the article. Please send photos by email, preferably as a jpg file attachment. Otherwise, you can send photos by post but please make sure that you write your own name and address and your child’s name on the back of the photo and state whether you want the photos returned to you. Once I have received your article I will send you a magazine permission form to complete, sign and return to me; I can’t include your article or photos without receiving this form. Many thanks! Beverly Searle Unique CEO www.rarechromo.org European workshop on Pallister-Killian Syndrome Families affected by Pallister-Killian Syndrome, including all those who attended Unique’s PKS families’ and professionals’ study weekend back in 2010, might like to know about a workshop being held in Bologna, Italy 6th–8th September 2013. Please direct all enquiries to: she wants! Because she has seen the work and dedication that Ash has done and put forth to the pony! Because of the dedication of the volunteers, instructors, parents and that one special friend Libby, Ashley is now attending regular riding program and competing in Hunter/Jumper Competitions at bronze ring level. And, during OG session Ashley gives back to the program that helped her, Ash will clean, tack up and tack down all horses including her Libby, Ash will assist in OG classes by leading Libby or side walking, picking up horse poop whatever is needed to be done. And again in the Summer months Ash will volunteer to care for the horses. Now that Ash is graduating from junior high school and starting a new journey into high school, we are faced with new challenges www.rarechromo.org with her educational placement, but the up side is that because of her Best Friend Libby and everyone who assisted or help us. Ash has been accepted in to Green Certificate Program being offered by Alberta Government and Rural Development for the Equine Technician I program in partnership with Olds College Equine Technician Diploma . Ash has already got a head start on the program and by the end of high school Grade 12 – Ash will receive a Certificate of Achievement (this is for special needs students in high school who completed 12-grades of high school) and her certificate as Equine Technician! We couldn’t been happier for our end results for Ash, because she has proven to all that she is capable with the right support and direction from all whom love her and have her Samantha Carletti, President of PKS Kids Italia Onlus Pallister-Killian Syndrome Italian Association E: [email protected] www.pksitalia.org best interest in heart! If I didn’t push, Ash wouldn’t be doing what she is today! Duplication 1p36.1p36.2 Tylor Tucker; aged 11 years Leah Tucker Today we work on social skills, stranger danger, and how to care for ones self. We struggle now with a delayed hypothalamic response which causes him to feel hungry all the time. Add to that, what appears to be early onset puberty and we have an eating machine. On good days he is the loving, affectionate, compassionate, funny little baby boy we have all grown to know and love. On bad days we struggle with defiance and stubbornness like no other. Health-wise his heart is strong and we don't foresee needing another surgery for quite some time. Tylor is 11 now. 11 YEARS… it still blows my mind as I recall the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the loooonnnng nights and rough days. To look at him now you would hardly believe the struggles we have endured to get to this point. My graying hair and crows feet would suggest otherwise though. He is now playing baseball on a Challenger team for special needs. He plays soccer in the fall for TOPSoccer and basketball in the winter. This Summer he will be part of his second year at a summer art academy and about a month ago he completed his testing to acquire his yellow belt in karate. He is growing so much and what was a little boy 3 years ago, that I would carry in 11 from my car to place in bed in the evenings, is now almost bigger than me. He continues to find passion in video games but also enjoys helping me in the kitchen when I am cooking and in the garden when I am planting or harvesting. I often watch him from a distance wondering where the time has gone, knowing how quickly it will continue to go. I can truly say, I would not have been as sane through this all without the support and friendships I have found through Unique and other groups like it. He is stronger and has the services he needs because of the discussions with other families and reading and listening to their experiences. I will forever be grateful for all that my Unique family has provided over the last 11 years. Duplication 1q42.1qter with Deletion 18q23qter Julian Dennis McDonald; aged 2 years Sylvia and Andrew McDonald, Box 132, Lamont, Alberta, T0B 2R0, Canada E: [email protected] On March 9, 2011 Julian McDonald was born into this world. Unlike our 4 year old Sandy, Julian’s birth was completely opposite. Jules was breech so we had to deliver via C-section. He was 5lb 5oz, quite a small little guy. Problems started the first night in hospital, when the night nurses noticed his 12 breathing would go up and down. By morning we were up in the NICU where they were testing him for infections, checking out his heart, lungs, stomach and head. All scans had come back normal. The nurse practitioner noticed “dysmorphic features” and wanted a geneticist to take a look at him as well. On the fifth day in NICU the Geneticist, Dr Leonard, took a gander at our beautiful baby boy and said she saw nothing of concern, however if blood needed to be taken, then chromosome testing was recommended. I was shocked about all the tests they were conducting, but thankful for their concerns. Julian was on the lower percentile at first and hasn’t been on the curve since. He had a failure to thrive gaining only 2lbs in the first couple months. Every week we visited our pediatrician checking his weight. Then the call came from the pediatrician, he said “His chromosomes came back and he has an unbalanced translocation of 2 chromosomes”. Of course I asked “What does that mean?” “We don’t know” he answered. There are a few things you don’t want to hear from your doctor and that is definitely one of them. I called my best friend Rob (who by luck) has a Major in Genetics. He explained how little of the Human Genome is actually mapped out and his particular translocation may be new. Julian has had a few things seen in other children like Hypotonia, Hypospadias, feeding issues and unusual thumbs. He has seen Pediatric Cardiologists, GI doctors, Nutritionists, had enzyme testing and an MRI. We have found out his metabolism works twice as fast and with the Hypotonia he uses more energy to do things, therefore his weight gain is slow. At 2 years old he is in a walker, and we are still feeding him however he is getting stronger everyday and is now holding his own bottle. He wouldn’t be nearly as far along in development if not for his brother Sandy. He is very protective of him but pushes him to learn new things every day. Julian is the pride of our ENTIRE family, I post everything on Facebook for all to enjoy and see. I am very public about his “disability”. We were able to share our story on our local TV news about Rare Chromosomal Imbalances. From this several new members joined our Unique Canada Facebook Group. I have definitely found my direction in life. I hope to educate more people about our “Rare” Jules. 3q27.1 Microdeletion Georgia Bell: aged 2.5 years Mum Catherine Bell tells us about Georgia and about her fundraising efforts on our behalf! Our Background Georgia was born 27.10.2010 – whilst I was pregnant, at my 20 week scan it was detected my baby was small and this could be down to a chromosome disorder. I decided to continue with the pregnancy and refused an amnio test. Georgia was born at full term by planned C-section weighing 2.01kg, and she was just perfect. After 14 weeks of struggling to feed her sufficient amount of milk, and listening to Georgia's noisy breathing and endless visits to the doctors, we decided that we needed to get another opinion, so took her the local A&E department. From that moment, I knew we had done the right thing to get help. During our 6½ week stay at the Queens Medical Centre, Georgia underwent a NG tube fitting, lumbar puncture to test for meningitis, general anaesthetic to be able to take a look at her airways, a general anaesthetic to remove some skin folds from her voice box, a stint in Intensive Care and High Dependency, and visits from various paediatricians and genetics. When the geneticist came to visit us, he suspected Georgia had a condition called Russell Silver Syndrome, and having now read about the characteristics of this condition, I could see why this was being suggested. After giving consent for blood samples to be taken and investigated, we waited 4 months for the results which ruled that Georgia did not have this condition. So further blood tests were taken, and 4 months on we received the diagnosis of 3q27.1 microdeletion. We left the genetics office with very brief details and a leaflet for Unique. Georgia is now 2 years 7 months old. Her medical problems are that she still has feeding issues and had a gastrostomy fitted last June, she also underwent a Nissen Fundoplication at the same time to treat her acute reflux, which I’m pleased to say has worked. She has been walking for 8 months, she is still a little unsteady on her feet, she also has hypertonia and hypermobility, so she gets tired really easily, but has now been discharged from physiotherapy. She has a small head and small teeth, and is generally small in stature, currently only wearing 12–18 months clothes sizes. Georgia has a learning delay assessed by Portage of being 6 months (was 9 months delay at first Behaviour Advice website www.behaviouradvice.org is a new free website to help parents and families with their children’s behaviour problems. This website has been set up by professionals working with children with social, emotional and behavioural difficulties and disabilities. www.rarechromo.org Contact a Family’s Father’s Guide Are you the father of a disabled child? Check out CaF’s new guide. Having a disabled child affects all members of a family. No matter if you're a new parent or an experienced one – everyone can react in different ways to the news that their child has a disability or medical condition. assessment), she now attends pre-school 2 days a week and continues to make great progress. Charity Events How it came about I attend a local toddler group every Monday held at the local church. Georgia has attended even before she was born as I used to go with my son, Elliott. In that time, the group has been extremely supportive to me, my husband, James, Elliott, Georgia and family. One Monday the leader of the group Mal Lowe asked if there were any charities that we would like to nominate to receive a gift from the church. I nominated Unique. 3 months or so later, Mal calls me to tell me Unique had been chosen but it was not going to be as easy as I thought – I was now responsible to put on not 1, but 2 events in just under 3 weeks… Plans I called upon the local community to help, by donating cakes and chocolate for the coffee morning. I posted advertisements in my village and surrounding area, I posted it on FB – my own page, Unique FB page, Unique East Midlands Page, and a local page for local parents. I even went on the local BBC radio station to talk about Georgia, Unique and the charity events! I contacted all the local businesses to raise some great raffle prizes, I got 35 prizes in all! sale – we raised a total of £508! Then in the evening The Salvation Army Band came to do a concert called ‘Music For a Summers Evening’ at 7pm. We sold tickets for £5. We again sold raffle tickets in the evening. We raised £472! We also raised donations for a food bank to thank the Salvation Army for coming to do this for us. I was also pleased that another ‘Unique’ family made it to the event, and it was great to see our 2 unique children together. So in total, we raised £980, not bad for a (19) days work! I was thrilled with the money raised and overwhelmed with the support we got. Thank you so much Catherine. We were thrilled too and so pleased that other families in your area found us because of the interview you did on your local radio station! Duplication 4pter with Deletion 8p23.1pter Ethan Rolle; aged 12 years Our new Father’s guide www.cafamily.org.uk/media/659939/ fathers_march_2013_final_web.pdf includes tips for dads from other dads, and personal stories from fathers, as well as updated sources of support and useful resources. Explore more about family life in our carers, family and friends section and check out the Fathers pages www.cafamily.org.uk/advice-and-support/ carers-family-and-friends/fathers/. Parents in the UK can call our freephone helpline on 0808 808 3555 and ask for a free copy or if you’d like to order in bulk then please call Natalie Adams on 020 7608 8755. Mandy comments: Ethan blessed us with his presence into this world three days after Christmas 12 years ago. I still remember carrying him from the delivery room to the nursery and it was love at first sight. Almost from the beginning I noticed that he was not developing normally, but we didn’t have any idea how special he would become. At 12 years old he has seen an awful lot in his short life. Not all of it has been good, but he is a bit of a trooper and keeps on going. His intellectual and physical development has been quite slow. He has some vision problems because of the strabismus and wears glasses. He does not have depth perception and his eye-hand coordination is not very good and sometimes he is quite clumsy. We don’t know if it is related to his vision or just his normal awkwardness. Running is difficult and doing a lot of other things that children enjoy doing. When he was 7 years old, it became apparent that he was too much for my daughter to handle. She has a lot of her own issues and was not able to cope with Ethan. He suffered greatly from the lack of ability on her part to take care of him. There was a lot of emotional damage Mandy Patrick, 7 Ruth Circle, Hampton, VA 23666, USA E: [email protected] [email protected] Here Ethan’s grandmother Mandy and his amazing foster Mom Elona write about Ethan The day arrived On Saturday 8th June, we held a coffee morning from 10.30am–12.30pm. We sold tea, coffee, juice and cake. We had a cake stall, a chocolate tombola, raffle, Unique information and wristbands for www.rarechromo.org 13 to him which he is still carries. Ethan was given a very special angel. Elona is her name and she has become his foster mother. She has been in his life since he was 4 years old and completely took him in when he was almost 8 years old. It has been a wonderful transition for him. She has worked with developmentally delayed children most of her life. She has a normal 21 year old son who has “adopted “ Ethan as his brother. Elona has worked tirelessly with Ethan and thinks of him as her son now. She is dedicated to giving him the best possible life he can have. The cornea in both his eyes is damaged and will require surgery; this is thought by his cornea specialist to be possibly due to the Amantadine he has taken but they will know more after doing a biopsy during corneal surgery in July. His vision was already bad, but it is horrible now. We hope it will be successful. Since his bad experience with the medication, he has regressed. The doctors are trying to find some medication that will help with his extreme lack of focus. Ethan cannot tolerate the usual medications for hyperactivity. In his short life he has been on almost every drug out there. Recently a spinal tap was done in the hopes of finding out some specific drug that might be beneficial. He has word recognition and was doing very well with dressing himself and learning to be a little independent. Most of that is gone now. Elona comments: Ethan remains at the age of about 5 years old. Ethan has a great since of humor and makes everyone in his life have a brighter day. With everything that he has been through he never forgets to pray daily for others. As Ethan’s mom I was blessed when Ethan came into my life. I can’t imagine him not being my son. Ethan is such a loving child and he has endured so much and that’s 14 why I tell him often that I admire him for being a forgiving child. When they are sticking him with needles and sitting for hours waiting to see doctors, he still has a smile on his face. I have never regretted the day I said Ethan could live with me and my son. I am thankful to his grandmother for the opportunity she gave me to become Ethan’s mother. Her never ending support through the difficult times has been a blessing. she wasn’t figuring out how to suck and that she was never waking up to eat! With all her fussing and screaming every waking hour, our visits to the pediatrician were too frequent. I was not liking being a new mom. Her pediatrician wrongly suggested that her feeding difficulties be caused by acid reflux. Since Emma had normal height and weight, he suggested to continue doing whatever I was doing to care for her. So for the entire first year, Emma and I stayed home, spending every waking hour trying to force a drop or two of formula into her mouth without her choking on it. I couldn’t understand why I was still not able to do anything else than attend to her basic needs. In hindsight, her poor sucking was surely the first sign of motor difficulties. Finally, the day came when an ophthalmologist hinted that there may be more to it than just a difficult temperament. She had facial features, motor delays, and cardiac malformations suggesting genetic abnormalities. This marked the beginning of multiple medical visits and testings after which we were given her diagnosis. No one could explain what would happen to her. Information through Unique surely helped us to cope better with the news, as the unknown was surely very stressful. Her second year of life was filled with medical appointments and therapies. Contact a Family’s latest Benefits Guides published Duplications in 6p25.1p24.3 & 6p22.3p22.2 with Deletions in 6p25.3p25.2, 6p24.1 & 6p22.3 Emma; aged 3 years Nathalie Chokron E: [email protected] This week is my daughter Emma’s third birthday. On this occasion, I can’t help but reminisce on all the happy and sad events since her birth, when all of our lives changed a lifetime ago. Emma was born induced at 41 weeks after an uneventful pregnancy. After a long labor, she was born unconscious with the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck and immediately showed tremendous difficulties to feed. Breastfeeding was impossible. It was difficult to take the decision to stop with all the nurses saying that “if you try hard enough, you will be able to breastfeed” or “if the baby is really hungry, she will eat”. The reality was that Contact a Family has published the latest in its range of benefits guides for families with disabled children to coincide with the launch of personal independence payments (PIP) – www.cafamily.org.uk/media/389326/ personal_independence_june_2013_final_low_res.pdf. PIP will replace disability living allowance (DLA) for those aged 16 plus from 10th June. Initially PIP will only apply to those making a brand new claim. Then, from October 2013 DLA claimants whose existing award ends, or who report a change of circumstances, or who turn 16 will be re-assessed under the PIP system. At first glance the new PIP may seem very similar to DLA. Like DLA it is not means tested and has two components – a mobility component and a daily living component which considers the need for care and assistance. However, PIP uses entirely new rules to decide whether you qualify for the benefit. There will also be a new way of assessing claims, normally involving a face-to-face meeting with a health professional. Srabani Sen, Chief Executive of Contact a Family said: “Contact a Family has a team of expert benefit advisers who are able to offer detailed, one to one advice to parent carers who want to find out more about this and the many other planned benefit and welfare changes. We can also offer parents of disabled children a comprehensive benefits ‘check up’, to help those who might be missing out on vital income. We want to reduce any worry and confusion about benefit changes and increase the chances of families with disabled children getting what they are entitled to. If you are a parent of a disabled child and are worried about benefit and welfare issues or to get a copy of Personal independence payment and other benefits at 16, please ring the freephone helpline on 0808 808 3555 Monday, email us on [email protected] or visit our website. Don't be caught out by benefit changes.” www.rarechromo.org Even though not the typical life of a toddler, we came to like our weekly visits with our therapists. Emma soon proved that she was going to progress beyond expectations. She walked at 2.5 years, talks well for her age, is very smart, has a great memory, and is very sociable. She needs hearing aids for a mild-moderate hearing losses and wears eyeglasses. Her motor skills remain delayed for her age although she seems to acquire every one of them in her own time. Her poor balance makes her fearful of physical activity, her speech is a little unclear and she still takes long to eat. She loves books and music so much that every day with her sounds like a musical. She is our ultimate remedy for forgetting all of our worries about her future and happiness. I know that this is every parent’s worries, so we will need to be patient and strong to deal with any circumstance in the best of our abilities. However hard the learning process has been so far, it has come with even bigger rewards. I have learnt so much about myself through this experience, becoming a better person from it. No matter what happens now, I am sure that happier memories are still to come. Deletion 8p23.1pter Victoria Fearnley Atwell; aged 19 years Anna Fearnley, PO Box 272, Red Hill 4059, Queensland, Australia E: [email protected] Imagine a parent and a baby in a pediatrician’s office in the 1990’s. The child is 15 months old, lying on the floor on her www.rarechromo.org side unable to lift her head but is playing intently with nesting cups. The pediatrician is mumbling about a chromosome deletion and severe intellectual and physical impairment. He passes some case reports to the mother and says, ”Go home and read these and phone if you have any questions.” Skip forward eighteen years. The child has grown into a confident (but shy), young woman whose hobbies are rock climbing and composing music. Two years ago she graduated from high school (in Australia) and is now studying Bachelor of Nursing at University 500km from home. She has just received back her latest assignment and she texts her mother “High distinction ☺”. This is Victoria’s story. She has a terminal deletion of 8p23.1. The initial prognosis was severe (never walk, never talk) but it did not foretell her future. What wasn’t factored in was the child’s incredible determination to overcome low muscle tone and joint laxity, coupled with the power of early intervention with speech therapy, physiotherapy and occupational therapy. Everyone has a talent. Victoria’s talent is persistence. She just keeps on trying, despite repeated failures. She walked and signed at two years of age, changed from sign to spoken speech between three and four, and rode an unmodified bicycle at thirteen. She has recently climbed the summit of Mount Kinabalu, the highest mountain in South-East Asia. Does Victoria have effects from the deletion? Yes – she still has low muscle tone, and although one of her favourite hobbies is rock climbing she would be the first to admit that she is very bad at it. But that doesn’t stop her from enjoying the sport and the companionship of her fellow climbers. Disabilinet www.disabilinet.com is a new social media site just for people living with, or affected by disability. disabilinet is a unique community to share and engage with people with a disability using Blogs, pictures, videos, events and groups for free. Mobile versions of the site are also available for iPhone, iPad and android. Victoria also has speech dyspraxia where she occasionally jumbles sounds within a word. “Dylexsia” is her favourite example and results in uncontrollable giggling at her inability to get the sounds in the correct sequence. Sometimes she selects a word that is close in sound but not meaning. An example of a close but not exact match was when Victoria phoned telephone directory assistance wanting the phone number of The Australian Electoral Commission so she could enroll to vote. The telephonist could not find any listing for The Australian Electrical Commission! The other major difficulty is cognitive planning. The coupling of speech dyspraxia and slow cognitive planning makes some forms of academic assessments very difficult, such as exams requiring oral presentations or short written answers. Her forte is assignment writing where she has time to plan a response and where persistence at collating information is an important attribute. Hence the high distinction she attained in her nursing assignment. I feel that my journey with Victoria through the unknowns of a rare chromosome deletion is almost at an end. She is almost ready to take flight into fully independent adulthood. With the benefit of hindsight and experience may I be so bold as to offer ideas to other parents of a child with a rare chromosome disorder who are just beginning their journey. My advice is very simple: Follow Victoria’s example. • Never ever give up. No matter what is said and who says it. Prognoses are, at best, educated wellintentioned guesses. They are often based on worstcase-scenarios published as case reports in medical journals. Remember that no one can know the unknown, the future. • The unknown can be very frightening, not just for parents, but also for medical specialists. Be wary of someone who seems to have all the answers. Embrace the professional who has the courage to say, “I don’t know.” • Visit specialists with an expectation of receiving valuable information. Prior to your appointment write them a letter introducing your child and their condition. List questions or areas that you are concerned about. Ask the specialist to research these areas in relation to your child’s rare chromosome disorder before the appointment. In other words, set them homework! The specialist’s time is valuable and so is yours. These simple steps of preparation will ensure the consultation is profoundly productive. • Keep “hope” safe – it is the most precious of all commodities. Providing hope to parents frightens a lot of people with medical training as they are concerned that parents may build false expectations. What they don’t realize is that this emotion is the most vital and powerful tool for parents facing the challenges of 24–7 care. It provides the energy to parents for the thousands of 15 hours devoted to therapy programs. To lose hope, I believe, is to lose everything. • Follow your heart of hearts as to what is the best choice for your child, be it intervention, medication or education. There are often so many choices; it may be helpful to visualize them as a smorgasbord. Lift the lids and taste the dishes but only go back for second helpings to the ones that you liked. Never feel indebted or grateful for an inferior service or program. • Everyone has a talent. Never allow it to be wasted. Victoria’s talent is persistence and academically this translates into collation of research material. Therefore she selects, where possible, University subjects that have this form of assessment. She has learnt to always search for opportunities where she can reap reward for her particular talent, persistence. • Instead of learning difficulties, think learning differences. Traditional education provides the key to unlock the box of learning for most, but not all, children. If your child has a learning difference search for a different key. Victoria had a marked delay in spoken speech and only had sounds for Mum, Dad, her sister and milk. It was thought that she would only communicate by sign. While we were driving to and from therapy sessions I used to sing nursery rhymes to her as she loved listening to music. One day I stopped singing the last word of a particular rhyme, and to my total astonishment, a voice from the back seat of the car sang the missing word! Once Victoria could sing the word, she could say the word. Together we had stumbled across the key to unlock the box containing Victoria’s voice. Victoria’s greatest passion has remained 16 singing and she was selected to sing in the Australian Girls Choir at age 8. Her high school music teacher noted that when Victoria sang in class it was as if she had entered another world. Her teacher was enthralled to hear how music and singing had provided the pathway for Victoria to find her voice. • No journey in life is ever a straight line – there are always hills, valleys and roundabouts. Straight lines only ever occur in our dreams. The final word belongs to Victoria. She explains her philosophy to attaining her goals this way, “I may not drive straight to the beach. I may be different from everyone else and take the scenic route via the mountains. My way will be longer but I will still reach the coast. And I may even see things along the way that no one else has ever seen!” Trisomy 8 Mosaicism Shaun Ramsay; aged 18 months Anne Ramsay E: [email protected] Shaun was born on 9th November 2011 at 34 +6 weeks gestation. He was delivered early by Caesarean section due to a reduction in movement and a loss of amniotic fluid. My pregnancy had been monitored very closely as I have epilepsy and also because I had previously had 3 miscarriages. At my 24 Disabled Muslims’ Network Hello to all the members of Unique – a great charity that I have recently come across. My name is Zenab and I am 25 years old. I was born 3 months early and due to this I had a lot of health problems as a child. I have sight loss and hearing loss, I also suffered from epilepsy and a list of other health problems. At the age of 16 after 2 years of constant back pain I was diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis – it’s a form of arthritis that affects my spine and all of my other joints. Arthritis is a disease that most people think only affect older people but hundreds of babies, children and young people are diagnosed with a forum of arthritis. I decided to start the Disabled Muslims’ Network after looking online for organisations that support disabled Muslims and their families and I found that there were no organisations for Muslims with disabilities and their families. To find out more about the Disabled Muslims’ Network please go to www.facebook.com\ disabledmuslimsnetwork. Email is [email protected]. week scan we were advised that Shaun’s right kidney was smaller and was dilated. We had been told that he would need to get his kidneys scanned when he was born. Other than that we had no idea of the journey that lay ahead of us. On the 9th of November at 9.33am our beautiful boy was born weighing 5lbs 7oz and luckily my husband was by my side in theatre (my husband worked away and just managed to get home). We held Shaun for a minute then he had a bluish tinge around his nose/mouth so he was taken away into SCBU. At this point we hadn’t been told yet of his health but we were so happy that he had safely and noisily made his way into the world. While I was in recovery a paediatrician from SCBU came to explain about Shaun. She told us that he had a cleft palate, small jaw, was tongue tied and had hypospadias. We were told that he was doing well; they had put in a ng tube and he was under a light as he had jaundice. We finally got to hold our boy the next day and when he was 3 days old we got to dress and change him. Shaun spent 3 days in the incubator then he was transferred into a small cot. Shaun was 1 week old when he was taken for a scan of his kidneys this confirmed that he had bilateral hydronephrosis and hydroureter. They also scanned his head and confirmed he had agenesis of the corpus callosum. It was at this point that the doctors discussed genetic screening with us so we signed a form for his bloods to be tested. Shaun was doing really well and was now on alternate bottle feeds, we were getting used to the soft silicon bottle and he was getting stronger. At 12 days old Shaun was transferred to Yorkhill Hospital in Glasgow as the doctors in SCBU were having trouble getting a catheter in to do a test to check his bladder. www.rarechromo.org When he was transferred I got to spend my first night with my baby as parents were allowed to stay. I was terrified but also so excited. Shaun had a suprapubic catheter put in as due to his hypospadias the doctors were unable to place a catheter. He was managing so well with his feeds and when he was 19 days old he pulled out his NG tube. The nurses decided to give him a chance and if he had done well that day he wouldn’t need the tube replaced and since then he has never had a NG tube! On Thursday 1st December Shaun was discharged from hospital but was re-admitted that night. He was being fed and after he stopped breathing, my mum performed CPR on him and he was admitted for observation. The doctors explained to us that Shaun had reflux so was put on medication. Shaun was discharged on the 3rd of December finally we were able to be a family. We had 2 weeks at home before he had to go back into Yorkhill hospital to have a GA for a scope to go in the catheter to check that there were no blockages and that his bladder was ok. The scope confirmed that his ureter was narrow but other than that there was no other reason for them being unable to place the catheter. were told to prepare for the worst and we had him baptised in intensive care. He spent his first Christmas in hospital but to everyone’s pleasant surprise a few days later he was fit and well enough to get home. We were told that he had bronchitis and would always have a weaker chest. When Shaun was 2 months old it was confirmed that he had Trisomy 8 mosaicism. We were shocked, upset and unsure of the future but one thing stayed the same our little boy had fought so hard to stay with us that now we had to be strong for him. On 22nd of December Shaun was discharged and we started getting ready for his first Christmas. The first year of Shaun’s life was the best and hardest year of our lives. He had numerous admissions to hospital due to bronchiolitis and croup. Shaun’s development is delayed and from the age of 5 months we started physio sessions, he first smiled aged 8 months and he hasn’t stopped smiling since! He had his cleft palate repaired in September 2011 and it was so hard he had to spend the night in HDU and all the emotions from his first Christmas came rushing back. His cleft palate operation was a success and he doesn’t need to be seen by the cleft clinic until he is 3. Shaun had his full eye examination the day before his first birthday and we were so happy that everything was OK with his eyesight and he got discharged from his first clinic! On Christmas Eve we went through the scariest and hardest night of our life. Shaun had stopped breathing and my husband performed CPR. This time it was worse than a few weeks previous and he was admitted to intensive care, we Soon enough we were celebrating Shaun’s 1st birthday. My son is such a popular little boy and was totally spoiled.It was an emotional day as we looked back at his first year and celebrated how far he had www.rarechromo.org come. Shortly after his 1st birthday he was able to sit unaided and just before Christmas 2012 he started commando crawling. Christmas 2012 was extra special and it was such a nice feeling waking up on Christmas Day at home and spending the day with our family rather than being in the hospital. When he was just over a year old he started crawling on all fours. In February 2012 his physio brought him a standing frame to help strengthen his legs. Shaun failed his 3rd hearing test and will be retested around his 2nd birthday. Recently he had an operation to repair his hypospadias and in a few months we will find out if it’s successful. Shaun is now 18 months old and he has started cruising furniture. He has no speech yet but the sounds he makes can get very loud and he is very good at being able to let everyone know when he is unhappy, happy or excited. He is such a charming little boy and along our journey he has made many friends. Recently I was asked what is the biggest achievement of my life and without hesitation I told them that my biggest achievement is Shaun after 3 miscarriages and almost losing him he has fought so hard. He gives me a strength I didn’t know I had and every day he does something that makes me smile. Our lives might have totally changed and we didn’t imagine we would be spending so much time in hospitals, at appointments or with therapists but as long as I have my boy and he is happy then I wouldn’t change it for the world. Ring 9 (with del 9p24.2 and del 9q34.3) Ellie; aged 4 months Michelle Lee, New Zealand Ellie was born @35 weeks after many complications, scans and CTGs. From early in the pregnancy I knew something wasn’t right, and low PAPP A showed up in the early scan showing that baby would be small and premature. It wasn’t until Ellie was born that we noticed she wasn't quite normal. Her eyes were kind of Down syndrome looking and she had a few other abnormalities, so the doctors proceeded to do a chromosome test, which came back to show that Ellie had 9p24.2 deletion and 9q34.3 deletion. Ellie was in the Neo Natal Unit and progressed in leaps and bounds only being on CPAP for a short time and under the phototherapy lights for a short time. She then began to have little breast feeds over the weeks until she was having 3 whole breastfeeds through the day as well as NG tube feeds. By this stage she was 3 weeks old and we were starting to plan going home until a Friday night when I was feeding her and she choked and went blue, then grey, floppy and lethargic. At this point I had to stop breastfeeding her and let her recover over the weekend, and then started to breastfeed again on Monday. She was doing well still went blue on the odd occasion but it was manageable and we decided this was how she fed. After 5 weeks in the Neo Natal unit Need Special Childcare? SNAP Childcare is a specialist recruitment agency placing high calibre special needs nannies, enablers, buddies and carers with babies and children with additional needs. See their website at www.snapchildcare.co.uk. They have launched new resources pages with a huge selection of topics – www.snapchildcare.co.uk/resources. 17 Ellie had reached term and we were going home, whilst she was still partly tube fed we were all confident that Ellie would be fully breastfed soon. After 2 weeks at home Ellie started having sleep apnoea, so back to the hospital we went for monitoring and an overnight oxymetry run. The outcome was good we were cleared to go home. More apnoeas happened but I didn’t feel we needed to rush back to hospital. By 10 weeks Ellie was fully breastfed and still had the odd blue moment, but when she would start feeding I would have to pull her off so she would breathe and then catch her breath enough to carry on, I thought this was normal as it happened right from the start and we thought it was due to lack of coordination. At 11 weeks the nurse came over home to do another overnight oxymetry run to follow-up and recheck her oxygen levels. By this stage her saturation levels were dropping down to around 30%, this caused alarm bells to ring and they had us back in hospital 3 days later to do another overnight oxymetry. Still she wasn’t saturating well and her oxygen levels went down as low as 20%. So the next morning she was put on oxygen and monitored. This showed that Ellie was doing a lot better and seemed to be getting enough oxygen and it also helped with feeding and sleeping through the day. Tests 18 were done to check for reflux but didn't show much so I really pushed for the doctors to send us to Starship Children’s Hospital where they have everything on hand to do all tests required to get the answers we needed.The doctors listened and flew us straight up to Starship from New Plymouth, where we are now and have had the best team of nurses doctors and specialists looking after Ellie and getting the answers we required. Ellie has had EEG which showed seizure activity, X-rays which showed pneumonia on her lungs, Barium swallow test (video fluoroscopy) which showed the reason for the Pneumonia as she is aspirating fluids into her lungs. So then a rigid and flexible bronchoscopy was performed to get a good look into her throat and lungs and nose. At this time they suctioned a lot of mucous from her lungs and she has had no apnoeas since. This showed that her left nasal passage is sealed and her throat has a few abnormalities which are contributing to the aspiration. So now we have the solid answers we came for and we are currently waiting for a gastrostomy button for feeds, so we get the NG tube out of her airways to help them recover for the next stage of minor surgeries. It has been a long 14 weeks since Ellie was born and very Safety in the car In a previous magazine we mentioned Christine Davis, who makes items specific to those with special needs; you might remember she makes button covers and belts and bibs. Well now she has come up with an amazingly useful idea, so we thought she deserves another mention. She is making seat belt covers. She can embroider anything you want onto the outside and then on the inside is a little pocket, so you can enclose details about your child or adult, or yourself even if you have a medical condition. So if (God forbid) you were involved in an accident and you were unable to talk, the emergency services would read the information on your seat belt cover and know instantly your medical history. Christine also makes them to go on wheelchairs/buggies. Please visit Christine’s page on facebook for more information: www.facebook.com/christined265. Or you can email her at [email protected]. emotional and disruptive on the whole family but it has bought us all closer together and stronger as a family. I would love to be in contact with other families that have experienced similar problems and would love to know if and where there may be a family with a child with the same deletion. Ellie was still in hospital in late June. If you want to send a message to Michelle, please send it to Beverly at [email protected] and I’ll pass it on. 12q24.33 Microdeletion, Xp11.23 Microduplication Rebecca Williams; aged 4 years Andrée Williams E: [email protected] When Rebecca was born, we were over the moon, she was so perfect. She was the result of our 2nd cycle of IVF (ICSI), after having tried for a baby for years. At the beginning, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. But when Rebecca started nursery at 6 months, it was obvious she hadn’t reach milestones that younger babies could do. We went to see the health visitor, just to be told that every child was different and developed at a different pace. Well, that’s just stating the obvious, but it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t intervene and help her! After several other visits to the health visitor, Rebecca was referred to a consultant paediatrician. She was diagnosed with ‘global developmental delay’ and the doctor ordered all sorts of tests. Rebecca was also referred to a community paediatrician who made sure she had access to all the therapists and services she needed: physio, SALT, Portage and the local special nursery. I was in shock: the doctors agreed that there was something wrong with my www.rarechromo.org Small Talk A new book giving simple ways to boost your child’s speech, language and communication development from birth, by Speech And Language Therapist, Nicola Lathey and Tracey Blake. Published Thursday 20th June 2013 by Pan Macmillan. ISBN 9780230766433 RRP GBP £12.99. Small Talk is a new speech development book for use from pregnancy right up to four-years-old. Many of you will know Nicola from our conferences and study days – she has run various sessions on communication for Unique families. perfect baby daughter, but they couldn’t find the cause, and so couldn’t treat it. At the beginning, I had a strange mix of feelings going on inside me. I was in shock, angry, grieving, but still happy. Happy because I had a beautiful girl who was happy herself. I was so eager to fix her, but when Rebecca was around 2.5 years old she was diagnosed with her chromosome disorder, and of course, that can’t be fixed. By then I had started to change my mind set; from wanting to fix her to wanting her to reach her full potential, whatever that is. So we put in a lot of hard work with therapies and Portage, pushed for a one to one support at nursery, agreed to every referral and even pushed for more, and attended all appointments. Rebecca is 4 now. She has learning difficulties and is very stubborn. She will only cooperate if it benefits her directly. So she’ll give a picture of a banana to get a banana (food is a good incentive!). But placing a ball on the picture of a ball, just so the speech therapist can tick a box – can match picture/object – what’s the point? She is learning to walk independently (yeah!), says one word, is attempting to say a few more and uses some Makaton signs. She loves pictures, books and making a lot of noise. She loves when we sing to her while signing. Her health can be a worry at times, but is not too bad really. She has febrile seizures which can be quite scary, she’s had chest infections one after the other, reflux/aspiration, but luckily meds keep most of her health issues under control. Rebecca also has sensory issues. She loves movement (and so loves rocking herself, trampolines, swings, rides…) but is also sensitive to being touched. So the daily routine of washing, dressing, brushing hair, etc (coupled with her rocking at the same time!) is hard work and exhausting. But when she is not made to wash or dress, she is so happy and content. She is still my little girl who is so perfect. Rebecca will start school in September in a special school. We’ve already met her new teacher and we are so excited. It’s the start of a new chapter in her life. I can’t wait to see how it unfolds. Deletion 15q21.2q22.3 Amanda: aged 14 years Sallie McGrath E: [email protected] Amanda has a genetic deletion (monosomy) on chromosome 15 (q21.2-q22.3). When she was first diagnosed in 1999 there was very little information on her chromosomal deletion. We were given one article starting with “There have been only four reports of deletions in the more distal 15q2 region, 2–4 all involving severely handicapped infants.” Looking www.rarechromo.org at the chart two had passed away by their 3rd birthday. Discouraging news for new parents. Amanda not only survived her third birthday, she thrived. Although her development was delayed she continued to grow and remain healthy. She started walking at 51⁄2. When tested at age 10 her development was on par with a typical 2-year old, causing her to be classified as “severely delayed.” Still she was progressing and, most importantly, she was healthy and happy. However, we have been alone this entire time. We have never met anyone with a similar chromosomal deletion. There are no support groups when you are one of six known cases of a disorder. There are no marathons for financial support. No special T-shirts or car magnets. No one to talk to. Amanda’s life has been a series of unknowns. Will she walk? Will she talk? Will she need surgery for this or that? Without a network of other families we’ve just had to wait and see, always hoping for the best. I worry because the ages of the survivors in the paper we were given were 15 months, 14 years and 18 years old. The article came out in 1990. The oldest would now be forty. I hope they are all well, with happy and fulfilling lives. But there is no way of knowing. Recently I’ve noticed what seems to be a slight deterioration in Amanda’s overall health. It is nothing serious, but enough to concern me. For instance, last fall she had several clonic/tonic seizures (grand mal). I wish I had someone who had been through this before me. Someone who could say, “It’s okay – it’s just part of the 19 syndrome sometimes.” But I don’t. Amanda has always had some breathing issues. Having been through multiple surgeries we know that she takes a while to come out of it after sedation or general anesthesia. We expect it and don’t worry about her coming back to the room on oxygen – her pulse oxygen level in the low 80s. However, last year after hip surgery she unexpectedly crashed. Doctors and nurses rushed into the room with a big machine. It turns out she had actelectasis – her right lung had collapsed. They moved her to pulmonary ICU. She got breathing treatments. Every few hours she had to go through percussive therapy. She was released after five days in intensive care. She came home with canisters of oxygen and a huge, purring oxygen converter. Later that year, while sedated for a bone density scan, she became cyanotic three times in eleven minutes. I was in the room since no one had expected complications. Watching the doctor and nurses rush to clear her airway and provide oxygen three times was not fun. Finally, last week after a relatively short time under anesthesia (less than 2 hours) for a CT scan and MRI she returned looking cyanotic. Her nail beds and lips were bluish. The area around her eyes looked bluish gray. Her breathing was obstructed (like intermittent snoring) even though she was on oxygen. There is something extremely frightening about listening to your child struggle to breathe. Breathing is so simple and fundamental. It’s autonomic; it’s not supposed to be a struggle. I wish I knew there were others who had had these symptoms as well. I wish I knew if they are typical for her condition or if they may indicate something worse on the horizon. I've always considered Amanda one of the 20 lucky ones because she survived infancy. I assumed that if she made it past that critical period she would be more or less fine. Now, I’m starting to wonder what to expect. I wonder how those other survivors are doing. What are their lives like? Do they have the same symptoms? Have they had the same surgeries? I’ve been on a quest to find other survivors for the past 3 months. I was thrilled to find two with close chromosomal deletions. One is a boy with a nearly identical deletion. Happily, he is also 13 – and luckily has far milder symptoms. He is walking, mainstreamed in school and very healthy. Encouraged, I realized that where there was one there might be another. I researched every rare chromosome group I could find on the internet. I believe that I have located four more individuals with a similar deletion. That brings the number of documented instances of this particular chromosomal deletion to eleven! I have no idea how old these children are or what they have been through. I’ve been able to get some contact information so I’ve reached out to them. Hopefully they will respond. The H.A.R.D. Way Donna and Neville Staples have been Unique members for over nine years and joined us when their first baby Rebecca was just five months old. Rebecca had a very rare chromosome disorder, was a very poorly baby, needed intense nursing care and sadly passed away when she was just nine months old. As you can imagine, this tragedy placed a huge strain on the couple. Donna and Neville have documented their story in a memoir called The H.A.R.D. Way which takes readers on a journey of their experience. They launched the book in May this year in their hometown of Port Elizabeth in South Africa and have had an overwhelming positive response. The book is intended to be inspirational and shows how the couple have triumphed over tragedy, embraced the lessons they have learnt along the way and how they have grown in strength and character. Today they are blessed with two beautiful healthy girls Angelica 7 and Holly 4. If you would like to take a look at their Facebook page: The H.A.R.D. Way by Neville and Donna Staples you will be able to see the photographs from the launch, book review, newspaper article, etc. If you ‘like’ their page you will be kept up to date with their story. The book is available on amazon.com, amazon.co.uk and amazon.co.eu internationally as a paperback www.amazon.com/The-HARD-Way-Neville-Staples/dp/ 0620557001/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid= 1369054606&sr=1-1 and as an ebook http://amzn.com/B00CFEO0P0. In South Africa it can be found on kalahari.com, exclusivebooks.co.za as an ebook and can be ordered as a paperback in most Exclusive Books countrywide. I hope I hear from the other families. I hope we can share stories and provide support for one another. I am so grateful that we are not alone anymore. Maybe we can get T-shirts or have a marathon some day. Idic 15 Mathias: DOB 07/06/2006 Roxanna Ayllon, Pasaje Valle de la Luna 1451, Valdivia, Chile E: [email protected] Mathias’ arrival on June 7th 2006 took a lot of expectation since he had intrauterine growth restriction (IUGR) and did not have enough weight or strength to dilate the cervix. He handled very well the three Stress Tests we had but we did not progress in the natural delivery we wished to have. After two weeks of close monitoring in the hospital, the Doctors decided to perform a C-section at 38.5 weeks in Cusco, Peru. Our family situation has been complex while singleparenting Mathias and his brother since birth. Due to an unfulfilled promise of reuniting with their biological father we moved to Chile and we have been living here since Mathias was 17 months. We cannot leave the country due to legal issues supporting their father’s periodical visits. Mathias does not have extended family or a social support system here. Mathias seemed like a regular newborn except for being very hypotonic and gaining weight very slowly especially during his first weeks. He reached his www.rarechromo.org making steady progress and I am building from his possibilities and abilities. developmental milestones on time but due to his hypotonia he usually fell to the floor when walking, running or changing directions. His speech was delayed but not much, at 24 months he had a rather small vocabulary but could be easily understood by most people apart from me (I only spoke English to him and the psychologist suspected that his delay was due to that; he currently is bilingual). His fine motor skills have been much more affected compared to his gross motor ones. Poor fine motor skills have caused a big delay on tracing shapes, lines and eventually letters and numbers. Due to the above he is doing Kindergarden for the second time this 2013 (he turned 7 yo on June 7th 2013). I was also told by the psychopedagogy specialist that his poor fine motor skills greatly affected his cognitive development and learning processes. It is very difficult for him to establish logical cause and effect scenarios. He is very creative and proposes imaginary solutions to otherwise concrete problemsolving issues. Mathias and his 4 yo typical (he has not been tested yet) brother attend a typical school but with very few students per class (4–5 children) which allows a very personalized learning experience, it has been very good so far this year 2013. We have moved a lot within Chile looking for better quality of life for the boys and that fact has provided Mathias a much faster adaptation process when facing new challenges (which was extremely hard for him in the past). www.rarechromo.org Both boys attend Kung-Fu lessons and enjoy riding their bikes (on ramps!), running, hiking, they love animals and nature (as I do) but Mathias is especially sensitive, sociable and supportive… he is wonderful! Mathias movements are not firm but I am sure he will eventually manage his own body. It breaks my heart when he is in his “own world” moving as he is able to instead of following a Kung Fu class, or when he proposes his own imaginary solutions to a simple problem or when he is invasive to others personal space when he greets… But… I know he is His partial duplication (15q) and mosaicism was just recently diagnosed (February 2013) so that also made me to closely push him as a typical boy that (I believe) has helped him achievement of milestones. We are extremely grateful for the support received through UNIQUE, we do not feel alone anymore, we feel we have a big family that also helps us to be better prepared to face any challenge that comes across. Thank you so much. Idic 15 Teagan Appleby: aged 3 years Emma Appleby, 122 Rowland Drive, Herne Bay, Kent CT6 7SD, England E: [email protected] I was told at 16 I would never be able to have children. 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From the day I found out, I dreaded the worst. I had accepted I was never going to have children and was petrified every day that I was going to lose my baby. I had an OK pregnancy. My bump was big, but I was told it was water. I developed gestational diabetes at 33 weeks and was told to cut sugar out of my diet. Full term came but no baby. I was eventually induced at 41 +5 weeks. Teagan arrived by emergency C-section as she got stuck. She weighed a very healthy 9lb 10oz. Turns out it wasn’t water after all! She was absolutely fine and we were sent home within the next couple of days. Due to Teagan being a big baby and being delivered by Caesarean, she had to have a hip scan to check everything was OK. This was due to be done at 8 weeks, but I was in the process of moving and the appointment was changed to when Teagan was 12 weeks. The inevitable happened and she was diagnosed with DDH (development dysplasia of the hip). This news hit me hard and she ended up having to have a series of operations to fix her hip joint. As I was struggling to deal with this news, I noticed Teagan wasn’t developing at the same rate as some other children. She wasn’t smiling or focusing. She wouldn’t flinch if something came close to her face. I was concerned about her eyesight so I took her to the health visitor. They examined her quite closely and were also concerned. She was immediately referred to a paediatrician. At the first appointment, I couldn’t have been more shocked. They assessed Teagan for an hour and diagnosed her with 21 me for getting this far. I have just finished Level 1 animal care at Bicton College of agricultural I have been there for 3 years. I am still playing badminton with Queens Badminton Club and really enjoying it. All my friends are very encouraging towards me too. I have just completed a sponsored ‘No computers or gadgets for 24 hours’; this was my idea, all my friends and family have helped to raise money for all of us. I think I have raised £88 for Unique. I would love to say I have raised a lot of money. I went to my first summer festival/prom with my college for the first time with just my friends and no adult around I was scared at first but really enjoyed it. Cerebral Palsy. I was devastated. She was then referred to a local pre-school team for further treatment. She underwent a brain scan and it came back clear so her diagnosis was then under question. Next we had genetic testing done. This is when we were informed Teagan has Tetrasomy for the short arm and the proximal region of the long arm of chromosome 15. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. My whole world collapsed around me. My beautiful perfect little angel had just been diagnosed with a horrible life changing condition. I was told she would never walk and never talk. I can’t remember much about what happened over those next few months. I know she had appointments left right and centre. It’s all a blur. Since that diagnosis, she has proved doctors wrong. She recently started walking. She’s very unsteady, but every day is better. She doesn’t talk, she has no communication. She doesn’t sign, she doesn’t even know her own name. But she is the happiest, most 22 affectionate little girl I have ever known and I wouldn’t change her for the world. Deletion 20q13.1q13.3 Dee Weiner: aged 19 years Thank you so much Dee for fundraising for us and huge congratulations on gaining an apprenticeship. That’s wonderful! Deletion Xpterp22.31 & Duplication 5p15.31pter Winnie Denyer: DOB 21/10/2008 Gemma Denyer, 15 Chetwode Place, Aldershot, Hampshire, GU12 4BS, England E: [email protected] It has been nearly a year since I last wrote an article on our lovely Winnie and what a year it has been. Winnie will be five in a few months and is growing in confidence and self determination every day. She has come on so much since I last wrote but has also underlined a few more issues. She is now speaking and linking 3–4 words together. In February she started to urinate in the toilet in the day which was a fantastic achievement. Winnie still has to wear nappies throughout the day as she is still on so many laxatives as she has Koolen De Vries Syndrome Deletion 17q21.31 Get Together Left to right: Sophie, Josh (back), Kynen (front), Leanne (back), Emily (front), Matt (middle), Isabel, Elliot , Alanna, Katie and Amy. Hello my name is Dee. I have been a volunteer at Groomed to Pawfection for nearly a year now, and it is at a great surprise that I have been offered an apprenticeship alongside Haddon College, but I will be working for 30 hours a week. I am doing a special Level 2 animal care/dog grooming course as well. My mum and all my friends and family are very, very proud of The first weekend in May there was a deletion 17q21.31 get together BBQ in Northampton hosted by a lovely couple Sara and Alan and yes the sun had its hat on hip hip hip hurray. It was such a lovely day and great to meet everyone. Even though we know each other via the online group it’s always great to meet face to face. The kids/young people had a great day as you can see from the picture above and it was amazing to see how very similar they actually are. Our daughter Leanne at the back with the white cardigan on is now 18 and would not normally really enjoy a bbq/party so it was lovely when she seemed so relaxed and actually said she had had a lovely time and would love to do it again and never once did the sign for home. Looking forward to the next get together already. Mandy Hazelgrave www.rarechromo.org chronic constipation and cannot control her bowels, which leads to many dirty nappies. She has had a number of blood tests to see what’s happening but everything so far has come back fine. Her consultant says she has a GI which is a bowel that is normal but for some reason results in her bowels not working how it should. No one seems to know the answers – all they say is it is down to her chromosome disorder and it’s trial and error with different laxatives to see what works best. We are not sure what age she will be – it could be 2 years or could be into adulthood but no one knows which is hard to come to terms with. It can be very draining and negative changing so many nappies at Winnie's age when you think by now she should be completely independent and in girly pants. I never imagined my daughter would be going to big school in nappies and would need help changing her. It gets me down lots but just think it’s nothing compared to some! Since I last wrote Winnie has gone from speaking in single words to joining 3–4 words together but this has highlighted more problems. She has speech assessments and it is now said she has a speech disorder which presents Winnie with a speech and language impairment. So as well as speech that has become delayed, her brain is also sending her wrong signals for her language. She has great difficulty with her attention and listening skills and sensory processing problems have now been identified. Winnie will need courses of therapy through her school life and in a school that deals with this condition. We are really hoping Winnie will be able to start a phonology group but this will depend on her listening skills – fingers crossed. Winnie does have a developmental delay in most areas. I cannot fault her physical development; at present she is an active child. She does have a lot of problem at times with her fine motor skills, holding pencils, eating with knife and fork, taking clothes on and off. After months of practice Winnie can now take off her socks! She does have sensory problems too – tip toe walks, rolling of the eyes, chewing and mouthing objects, not knowing how much food to put in mouth at times and eating non food items. We have seen the neurologist at St Georges London a few times now about Phelan-McDermid Syndrome UK Family Day On Saturday 18th May the Phelan-McDermid Syndrome UK Family Day took place in North London. Phelan-McDermid Syndrome is a rare chromosome deletion that affects 75 people in the UK and Ireland and less than 900 people worldwide. The most common symptoms are very limited or absent speech and language skills, low tone and mobility. All those affected by it need 24 hour care. This year the founder, Dr Katy Phelan who is the geneticist that discovered this rare deletion attended the Family Day, along with the president of the foundation Sue Lomas and attendance sky rocketed! We had over 200 people attending the day from 9 different countries to meet Dr Phelan and also other families with children who have this rare genetic chromosome abnormality. It was the 2nd largest gathering of this small community in the WORLD! Dr. Katy Phelan expressed how important it is that families accept the diagnosis of their children and feel supported by the International community that exists. Nobody should feel alone in dealing with this chromosome deletion. The president, Sue Lomas gave a very moving talk in the mums’ session about how she came to this group not wanting to be a part of it and yet now she is running the organisation made up almost entirely of volunteer parents worldwide and very happy to be part of it! Jeans for Genes sponsored the day that was held at a local children's centre. Local businesses, many friendly volunteers and Camden Early Years Staff gave up their Saturday to support the event and provide donations. It was a fantastic event and a wonderful opportunity for families to get together who are affected by the chromosome deletion. Sharing stories, things that work for our kids, seeing the other kids affected makes a huge difference in our lives and feeling that support from a shared community. As well, the siblings of these kids got to hang out together and share time with other kids who know exactly the pressures of family life with a sibling with special needs. It's so important to be able to do this together and to have so many international members represented made it feel like a worldly day! Alison Turner and Kelly Jones-Whale UK Regional Reps E: [email protected] PS We also have a Phelan McDermid Family Day on Saturday 19th October, at Church House Day Nursery in Kidderminster, DY11 6RH from 11am until 4pm. There will be activities and homemade cakes. For further details, please contact Kelly on [email protected]. www.rarechromo.org 23 Winnie shaking that started at 4 months and that is still going strong after tests and lots of observation. They say she has shuddering attacks and motor sterotypies which are harmful to Winnie and are related to her nervous system and it’s just her body reacting in a different way to us. Sometimes this can zone Winnie out and affect her balance and concentration. She still has poor sleep. We have tried medication but nothing seems to work. We are now going up to St Thomas in London to the sleep clinic to see what can be done to help Winnie and us. Winnie’s sleep issues are disruptive sleep all through night, restlessnes, night terrors, falling out of bed and sensory overload. She still sees an orthoptist every 8 weeks to have tests done on her eyes for her intermittent divergent squint. They monitor her to make sure her eye doesn’t get any Tomcat “Disabled children don’t need our sympathy, but they do need our help. You could do much with your invention.” These words from Paternoster Special School’s Head Teacher inspired Bob Griffin to launch Tomcat and the invention that gave his severely disabled son Thomas the ability to ride a tricycle and be safe outdoors. Carer Control™ and “Custom Building for every child” were innovations that made Tomcat SNI the gold standard for Britain, whilst Carer Control™ set the industry standard for all Special Needs trike design to follow. 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We have now been granted respite and are in receipt of direct payments where we buy in our care for Winnie. This is helping us as a whole family. Winnie has come on so much and has developed into a loving, funny and friendly personality. She does have problems in lots of areas but nothing seems to stop her shining through. I cannot fault anyone who works with and help Winnie because if it wasn’t for them Winnie wouldn’t be where she is today. We don't know what the future is going to hold for Winnie or what other problems medical or developmental may arise but with our love and Winnie's strong determination she will always be on top. the next two decades, I took my oldest to the geneticists for repeated testing to no avail. My daughter was born when my oldest son was 8 and she was beautiful. She did have some issues that seemed rather ordinary in the scope of things compared to the obvious physical defects her older brother had. As she grew, more things became apparent. When my oldest was fifteen, I gave birth to another son with a different father. I knew instantly that he had special needs. They weren’t obviously the same. But a mother just knows. It didn’t take long before the doctors suggested a geneticist, again to no immediate avail. After some time passed, I grew more certain that my boys had the same thing. However the doctors insisted they did not. Mum Kristen writes: When my youngest was about seven, they decided they had a clinical diagnosis for him and wanted to run the newly discovered test to confirm it. Through my insistence, they did run a panel and not an isolated test. When the phone rang, the genetic counsellor indicated they did not confirm the diagnosis they were expecting. Completely deflated and angry I couldn’t believe that this was happening again. But she wasn’t done. Another gene had come back in the XLMR study with a mutation. And if they hadn’t known of my oldest, they would most certainly have considered it a lab error. While he didn’t have any of the obvious presentations in the literature for this mutation, my oldest son had them all and, “You were right all along.” “You Were Right All Along” The most amazing words I’ve ever heard. You see, it was suggested to me that my oldest son had a genetic syndrome when he was less than five. I’ll never forget the explanation that a syndrome is considered when two or more unrelated medical conditions present in one person. Over It turns out that with 50% odds of passing on this X-linked genetic mutation, I managed 100%. Even my beautiful daughter is afflicted. At the time of our diagnosis with a mutation in PHF8, only 10 other cases were on record in the world. They call it Siderius Syndrome. But, every other mutation on record is a Siderius Syndrome – Duplication of gene PHF8 in Xp11.2 Kristen, Anthony, Amber and Dennis Kenny, PO Box 40, Goodrick, MI 48438, USA E: [email protected] www.rarechromo.org Unique Wristbands in New Zealand One of our New Zealand local contacts, Michelle Pram, can be contacted if you want to buy Unique wristbands locally. She has a supply. Just email her on [email protected] or message her through Facebook and she will be happy to help. deletion of genetic material. Ours is a duplication of genetic material. Having a unique genetic mutation presents challenges in receiving treatment and research. I know that we are not alone and continue to trust my instincts and practice my advocacy. 48XXYY Get Together By Jocelyn Eldridge I had been thinking about trying to organise a UK get together for some time and nearly missed the opportunity as the half term snuck up on me! But with two weeks till the date I had in mind I sent out 30 invitations via email and post. I have now had contact with 13 families from all over the UK. For some it was too far to travel, for others it was too late notice as they were already busy. However 4 families from Hertfordshire, Shropshire, Essex and South London did manage to get together. We all met at my house in Hertfordshire on Friday 31st May at midday, and were extremely lucky with the weather, the sun shone and we were in and out of the garden. I kept it very low key the adults chatted and the children played, with the toy’s and on the trampoline. After we had eaten lunch, we went for a walk over the fields, the boys and their siblings climbed trees, trail blazed new pathways (on the other side of the hedgerow) and male bonded. We returned back to mine for tea and cake, and a play on the bikes, scooters and www.rarechromo.org skateboards. Early evening came and two families went home with happy exhausted children. The following day we were up and out early, off to Legoland Windsor. We had another very busy day and the children behaved beautifully, especially as they were so tired from the sleepover with little sleep! We lasted in the park until about 5pm and all four children were asleep in the cars shortly after we started our return journeys! It was interesting how the XXYY boys gravitated together and almost immediately bonded. It was as though they understood each other completely and didn’t have to explain. The siblings all got on well too. The parents never stopped talking! And it was amazing how similar our boy’s journeys had been, in particular their learning ability and educations. They shared the same interests and it was uncanny how they had the same behaviours and reactions. It was a great opportunity to share our individual information, our understanding of the condition, medications, specialists, education, etc. We all found this meet up to be a really insightful and helpful experience and on top of that Jack now has friends who he can relate to, I have other mum’s who understand and even two dad’s were able to find out more! I have added a few comments I received below. “It was really really nice to see you all today. We had a lovely time. I have been going through a really hard time understanding my son for a long time. But having met you all, I am now aware that I am not the only one, and it was nice to share the similar experiences and to be able to ask advice. Thank you very much. I am really looking forward seeing you all again next time. Keep in touch!” “Well done for starting the ball rolling; a UK get together would be wonderful, we had thought about going to a USA one but it’s not very practical right now.” “We hope it is really successful and would like to keep in touch.” “He had such a great day, so much so that he hasn’t stopped talking about it! I still cannot get over the similarities of the boys and it makes it easier to understand their condition and also to know I can contact people who understand. It was lovely to meet you all I can’t remember the last time I saw him so happy we look forward to the next time.” “Please let me know how the get together goes, and maybe we could attend a future one.” “I am really interested, my son would love to meet other children like him maybe another time. Please keep me up to date with any future meetings.” “We would be very interested for the future, please keep us in mind.” “Thank you all for a fantastic time.” Because this was such a success we thought we would do two things. 1) Set up a round robin email group, where we can share information, ask questions, etc. If you would like to be added to the contacts list for this then please email me on the link below. 2) Arrange another get together on either Wednesday 28th or Thursday 29th August. This can be either at our home in Stevenage, Hertfordshire again or if there is another area that proves closer for more families then we can move it to that area. This will be another great opportunity to meet other families who understand, and for the boys/men to meet others who share their unusual chromosone anomaly and for their siblings to meet up too. If you are interested in attending this then please email me [email protected] with your preference of date. Many thanks 25 Our PGD Journey By Unique Mum, Lucy Beeharry E: [email protected] Since my son’s diagnosis of an unbalanced translocation between chromosomes 4 and 7, and subsequently my own diagnosis of a balanced translocation between the same chromosomes, I’ve chosen to be pretty open about the abnormalities, the symptoms and the treatments. People have said that I’m ‘strong’ and that my actions are inspiring – but really, talking about it to anybody who will listen (and no doubt a few who just pretend to) is my way of holding it together, processing things, working things through and trying to find my own kind of ‘okay’ with it all. I started with Facebook posts but quickly moved on to a blog – which allows for more focus and a more defined audience – but my son is only 2 and a half and I guess at some point it will become his choice as to whether or not I continue to blog about him, his treatment and our experiences as a family. So, it seems only natural that as we make the decision to attempt IVF with pre-implantation diagnosis (PGD) it is something that I want to talk about. But for once, I’m kind of lost for words. Perhaps because I’m scared of it not-working, or because the science of it all is just so awe-inspiring, I’m really struggling to articulate how I feel about this stage of our journey. Following the loss of our daughter 5 months in to pregnancy in early 2012, we tried naturally for a year, knowing that we would face CVS and a possible termination. In that time we had another early miscarriage, almost a year to the date that we learnt that our daughter’s condition was incompatible with life. The other months were the usual cycle of a Trying-To-Conceive (TTC) Addict – grapefruit juice and pineapple cores, bum up on cushions, ovulation sticks, thermometers, charts… peeing on sticks, perpetual disappointment. And the ‘BFP’ we were waiting for wouldn’t have even meant a baby, but a wrenching 9-week wait for tests and possible heart breaking news. Following that miscarriage, which we can only assume was due to another affected pregnancy, we signed the forms to say we would use a ‘robust form of contraception’ for the forthcoming year, and returned them to the genetics team at Guy’s Hospital in London. We are not allowed to try naturally at the same time as waiting for PGD treatment, due to the investment being made by the NHS trying to help us achieve a healthy pregnancy. For anyone reading who does not know of PGD, it refers to the use of assisted reproductive technology, which is usually used for couples experiencing fertility problems. In our case, the experts will obtain my eggs and fertilise them outside my body, and then a few days later remove one cell from any living embryos and test the DNA for our family’s unique chromosome abnormality. If there are any unaffected living embryos left after testing, one is transferred in to my uterus and we all start crossing our fingers that it implants and makes our baby. We have recently had the funding granted for up to 3 attempts on the NHS, via Guys Hospital in London. This is a little bitter-sweet, as to be eligible for the funding they consider us not to have a ‘normal’ living child, as it was explained to us. Such phrasing brings out my protective-mummy horns, and they’ve not even started pumping me with hormones yet! Until this month, different primary care trusts could make local decisions regarding the eligibility of its residents for NHS funding – up to £9,000 a go – which left us 26 waiting for the last three months for Surrey to make a decision. But, as of May 2013, there is now one set of criteria that a couple must meet to be granted the funding, and as we tick the boxes, we have been told we’re good to go. And so, last week my husband and I had our blood tests done and had them sent in priority mail to Guy’s, the site at which there will now be two months’ worth of scientific DNA-based jiggery-pokery making a test unique to our family. The next step will be in to a queue for the actual treatment, which will be at some point in the next 6–8 months. Whilst this kind of science sounds too good to be true (somebody actually asked me this week if I will be using the genetic testing to select a boy or a girl) the success rate is actually quite low. Whilst my age is not too much of a concern in terms of egg quality and whether they are hardy enough to undergo the process – I’m 34 – overall our chance of success is about 20%. There is also the chance that I don’t produce eggs for collection, that some eggs may not fertilise, that all embryos are carrying an unbalanced form of my translocation, or that even unaffected embryos don’t survive the ‘biopsy’ procedure by which a cell is extracted to test the DNA. If you are wondering how I responded to my friend who asked about gender selection, it was a ‘no’. Though part of me is terrified that we may have a girl in the future, and the emotions that may stir in me having lost our daughter 5 months in to pregnancy in early 2012, we couldn’t know even if we wanted to. The test that the scientists are making (as I type!) looks only for abnormalities on chromosomes 4 and 7, no others, no X, no Y. In fact they won’t even be able to tell if a ‘healthy’ embryo is indeed totally normal, or whether it has a balanced translocation like mine. The odds are too low for me to put my life on hold. I have recently taken a new job that starts in August, just months or possibly even weeks before I start fertility treatment. I umm-ed and ahhh-ed for ages deciding whether it’s a really bad time to start a new job, and in many ways it is, but I tried to fast forward to the probable reality that we won’t be successful, we won’t have another child, and at that point I don’t want to look back on things I walked away from because of a 20% chance. On the 1-year anniversary of our daughter’s due date, we had an appointment at the bank to arrange our mortgage. The advisor ran through the standard questions, checking our financial security, and asked, “so, your son is two… will you be having any more children?” My heart skipped a beat, just one, and I looked him in the eye and said, “probably not.” And that’s where we are now. I’m trying to keep my head screwed on. I’m trying not to picture our son playing with a future sibling. I’m giving away the clothes he grows out of and have stopped considering the value of new purchases based on two or more children getting use from them. But last week, my heart raced just getting a blood test – I dread to think how I will be if we are lucky enough to get embryos to implant. Deep down, I’m still longing for my third child. Good luck Lucy. Please do let us know how you get on. www.rarechromo.org Advocacy By Marion Mitchell, Family Support Officer What is Advocacy? An advocate can help you: • To speak up • Know your rights • Listen to you • Help you to make choices Advocacy Partners T: 0845 0175 198 or 020 8330 6644 E: [email protected] www.advocacypartners.org/imca.html Advocacy Partners is leading the development and delivery of independent advocacy services in London and the South East. We enable people with learning disabilities, older people and people with mental health needs or physical impairments to have rights that are respected, voices that are heard and real control over life decisions. We support people to be treated fairly and to participate fully in community life. Advocacy Partners currently provides the IMCA service in; Camden, Croydon, Islington, Kingston upon Thames, Richmond, Lambeth, Lewisham, Merton, Sussex, Kent, Sutton, Surrey, Tower Hamlets and Wandsworth and in other areas with agreement. Action for Advocacy T: 020 7820 7868 E: [email protected] www.actionforadvocacy.org.uk Advocacy is taking action to help people say what they want, secure their rights, represent their interests and obtain services they need. Advocates and advocacy schemes work in partnership with the people they support and take their side. Advocacy promotes social inclusion, equality and social justice. The Advocacy Project T: 020 8962 8695 www.advocacyproject.org.uk Together NATIONAL OFFICE T: 020 7780 7300 E: [email protected] www.together-uk.org/index.asp?id=19 • advocacy services – supporting people with mental health problems to make their views heard • assertive-outreach services – reaching out to those who find it hard to use traditional mental health services • community-support services – supporting people with mental health problems in their own homes • residential services – including care-homes giving 24-hour support, high-support residential services, and independent flats with visiting support • day-support services – offering a non-threatening environment where people with mental health problems can make new friends and learn new skills • employment and work-training schemes – getting people back to work through skills-training or personal-development services • forensic services – for people with mental health problems who have been in contact with the criminal-justice system • services for carers – supporting those who care for people with mental health problems • Service-user Involvement Directorate – giving people with experience of using mental health services a say. National Youth Advocacy Service T: 0151 649 8700 99-105 www.nyas.net NYAS is a UK charity providing socio-legal services. It offers information, advice, advocacy and legal representation to children and young people up to the age of 25 through a network of over 150 advocates. NYAS is also a Community Legal Service. PohWER T: 0300 456 2370 E: [email protected] www.pohwer.net POhWER services are independent, free and confidential. There is no upper age limit for POhWER services but a lower age limit may apply for some services. Advocacy Support Centre is open from 9am to 5pm Monday, Tuesday Wednesday and Friday, and from 9am to 7pm on Thursdays. NORTHERN OFFICE T: 0113 244 6992 E: [email protected] Together supports around 3,500 people through 100 different mental health services across the country. We provide our mental health services by working in partnership with many other organisations, including housing associations, health trusts, local authorities, criminal-justice agencies and private- and other voluntary-sector bodies. Our most important partners are the people who use our services. We believe in working with people rather than doing things for or to them. And inspired and informed by our unique values, we run a full range of different types of mental health service, including: www.rarechromo.org 27 Coping with the stress of having a child with a chromosome disorder can be tough at times. You or your child may suffer from anxieties, phobias or depression. Here are some links to a few organisations that offer specific advice on these subjects. Anxiety and Stress By Marion Mitchell, Family Support Officer Anxiety Alliance www.anxietyalliance.org.uk/ 0845 2967877 from 10am–10pm everyday. The Anxiety Alliance is a charity dedicated to helping those suffering from anxiety. Anxiety Care www.anxietycare.org.uk/ Is a registered charity based in East London that specialises in helping people to recover from anxiety disorder and to maintain that recovery. For those that suffer from a dental phobia www.dentalfearcentral.org/ • Anyone (worldwide) with an extreme phobia of dentists • Anyone with specific dental fears • Dental professionals and dental students with an interest in dental anxiety management Bipolar Scotland www.bipolarscotland.org.uk/ 0141 560 2050 or [email protected] Just be well www.justbewell.com/stress-relief-carers.html Hypnotherapy and NLP to Help With Stress Relief for Carers. Mind www.mind.org.uk/ The leading mental health charity in England and Wales working to create a better life for everyone with experience of mental distress. No Panic www.nopanic.org.uk Helpline (freephone) 0800 138 8889 (10am–10pm every day). No Panic specialises in self-help through telephone recovery groups, because most people don’t have a local face to face group or they find getting to such a group a problem in itself. Membership, which costs only £12.00 per year, for UK residents. • Provides a confidential help-line, 0800 138 8889, 10am–10pm, every day, staffed by trained volunteers. • Provides a night-time anxiety crisis telephone line, 0800 138 8889, (answer-phone service only). • Provides telephone recovery groups. • Provides a “Contact” book service for members wishing to make pen-pals. • Provides literature, books, CDs and DVDs to help overcome anxiety disorders. • Provides written recovery programmes for phobias and OCD. Simple, easy to follow step by step guides. • Provides advice and support for people trying to come off tranquillisers. • Provides information to raise public and professional awareness of the problems created by anxiety disorders. • Provides lay-person self-help cognitive behaviour therapy as a basis for recovery. • Provides information and support to families and carers of sufferers. • Provides information in ethnic languages. • Provides information on starting and running a local face to face group. 28 OCD Action www.ocdaction.org.uk/ Helpline: 0845 390 6232/020 7253 2664 Helpline email: [email protected] National charity for people with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and related disorders such as Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Compulsive Skin Picking and Trichotillomania. OCD Action’s vision is of a society where OCD is better understood and diagnosed quickly, where appropriate treatment options are open and accessible, where support and information are readily available and where nobody feels ashamed to ask for help. www.ocdaction.org.uk/home.htm OCD-UK www.ocduk.org/ 0845 120 3778 or [email protected] A charity for sufferers of OCD. It aims to bring the facts about OCD to the UK public, and to support those who suffer from this often debilitating anxiety disorder. OCD-UK is the leading national charity, independently working with and for people with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). www.ocduk.org/ For young people with OCD www.ocdyouth.info/ US based website: www.freedomfromfear.org/ Relaxation for Living www.rfli.co.uk/ 0333 700 4277 or [email protected] RFLI provides practical and simple self-help techniques to help with relaxation, stress, anxiety, mild depression and stress related health problems. Royal College of Psychiatrists www.rspsych.ac.uk 020 7235 2351 or [email protected] A range of useful leaflets and information for families. SANE www.sane.org.uk/resources/contact_us/ 020 7375 1002 or [email protected] Is a national mental health charity which aims to raise awareness of mental illness and campaign to improve services and initiate and fund research into the causes of serious mental illness. The BABCP is the lead organisation for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy in the UK www.babcp.com/ Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) is a talking therapy. It can help people who are experiencing a wide range of mental health difficulties. What people think can affect how they feel and how they behave. This is the basis of CBT. During times of mental distress, people think differently about themselves and what happens to them. Thoughts can become extreme and unhelpful. This can worsen how a person feels. They may then behave in a way that prolongs their distress. CBT practitioners help each person identify and change their extreme thinking and unhelpful behaviour. In doing this, the result is often a major improvement in how a person feels and lives. www.rarechromo.org The Depression Alliance www.depressionalliance.org/ 0845 123 23 20 The Samaritans www.samaritans.org/ 08457 909090 or [email protected] • Samaritans Scotland 0131 556 7058 or [email protected] • Samaritans Wales 08457 909090 (24:7) Welsh Language Line 0300 123 3011 (from 7pm–11pm only, 7 days a week) • Samaritans' Ireland office +353 1 6710071 Wind Down www.winddown.co.uk/ WindDown was formed to offer a unique reference point on coping with stress and winding down. Young Minds www.youngminds.org.uk 0800 018 2138 or [email protected] YoungMinds provides information to parents and professionals. It produces leaflets on various topics, a directory of child guidance, psychiatric and psychological services and a newsletter. Local Facebook Groups We have two new additions to our local facebook groups, since mentioning our others in the last Unique magazine. They are: • Unique Australia www.facebook.com/groups/437965836291165/ • Unique Europe, for all European parents whose first language isn’t English www.facebook.com/groups/466861303384170/ And here is a reminder of the links for the others: UK • Unique South West England www.facebook.com/groups/uniquesouthwest/ • Unique West England www.facebook.com/groups/138962769586396/ • Unique Sussex, Surrey, Kent www.facebook.com/groups/128166273896269/ • Unique London www.facebook.com/#!/groups/172738426159707/ • Unique Home Counties North www.facebook.com/groups/146511252136229/ • Unique Yorkshire www.facebook.com/groups/342603205754536/ • Unique Hampshire, the IOW, East Dorset www.facebook.com/#!/groups/182111895211847/ • Unique West Midlands www.facebook.com/#!/groups/132591080161104 • Unique East Midlands www.facebook.com/#!/groups/uniqueeastmids/ • Unique NE England www.facebook.com/#!/groups/312110428819470/ • Unique NW England www.facebook.com/#!/groups/327624700588959/ • Unique East Anglia www.facebook.com/groups/234256886651071/ www.rarechromo.org • Unique Scotland www.facebook.com/groups/206387086111043/ • Unique Wales www.facebook.com/#!/groups/264506980279196/ • Unique Northern Ireland www.facebook.com/#!/groups/298414950196003/ Europe • Unique Republic of Ireland (ROI) www.facebook.com/groups/147939861982348/ • Unique Europe (new) www.facebook.com/groups/466861303384170/ America • Unique Midwest USA www.facebook.com/groups/uniquemidwestusa/ • Unique NW USA www.facebook.com/#!/groups/uniqueswusa/ • Unique SE USA www.facebook.com/groups/199351953489637/ • Unique NE USA www.facebook.com/groups/298018413575052/ • Unique SW USA www.facebook.com/groups/295204163854904/ Canada • Unique Canada www.facebook.com/groups/215201985226705/ New Zealand • Unique New Zealand www.facebook.com/#!/groups/367279816637889/ South Africa • Unique South Africa www.facebook.com/groups/154101124741299/ 29 Christmas Cards 2013 NEW ! design NEW ! design NEW ! design Angels of Peace Ho Ho Ho Robin in Frost 128mm x 128mm 128mm x 128mm 128mm x 128mm NEW ! design Twin pack consisting of Christmas Baking and Traditional Christmas Pudding and Gifts Sil W icon e Bl rist On ue/ ba e Yel nd siz lo w e A Festive Scene A Warm Welcome Carols around the tree 174mm x 118mm 150mm x 150mm 141mm x 141mm REDUCED Deer in a snow covered landscape REDUCED Natures Way Snowpark 150mm x 150mm 160mm x 160mm Lap Ba el Pi dg n es 5 cards of each design in one pack, 150mm x 150mm r ke s c o g /L yrin y e ll Ke Tro oin C 141mm x 141mm 30 www.rarechromo.org ORDER FORM Description Quantity Cost Postage and Packaging UK Angels of Peace 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: With Best Wishes for Christmas and the New Year 1–6 packs 7–10 packs 11–15 packs Ho Ho Ho 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: Happy Christmas £3.00 £6.00 £10.00 For orders of more than 15 packs, please contact us for a price. Robin in Frost 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: Season’s Greetings OVERSEAS Christmas Baking and Traditional Christmas Pudding 10 cards in each pack – 5 of each design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: Best Wishes for Christmas and the New Year 1–3 packs £5.00 £7.50 4–7 packs £8.50 £15.00 8–10 packs £12.00 £18.00 A Festive Scene 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: With Best Wishes for Christmas and the New Year For orders of more than 10 packs, please contact us for a price. A Warm Welcome 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Please complete and return the order form with your cheque made payable to ‘Unique’ and send to: Europe Carols around the tree 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: With Best Wishes for Christmas and the New Year Rest of World Gemma and Craig Mitchell, Unique, Unit G2, The Stables, Station Road West, Oxted, Surrey RH8 9EE, England T: 07753 566907 E: [email protected] Deer in a snow covered landscape (reduced) 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £2.00 per pack Greeting: With Season’s Greetings and all Good Wishes for the New Year You can also purchase cards through our online shop at: www.christmascards.org.uk/unique Nature’s Way 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £3.80 per pack Greeting: Season's Greetings Snowpark (reduced) 10 cards in each pack all one design @ £2.00 per pack Greeting: With Best Wishes for Christmas and the New Year Silicone Wristband – Blue (no p&p charge for up to 6 @ £2 each purchased WITH Christmas cards) Silicone Wristband – Yellow (no p&p chargefor up to 6 @ £2 each purchased WITH Christmas cards) Lapel Pin Badges (no p&p chargefor up to 6 @ £2 each purchased WITH Christmas cards) Trolley/Locker Coin Keyring (no p&p charge for up to 3 @ £2 each purchased WITH Christmas cards) Sub Total Donation If you are a UK taxpayer, remember to sign the gift aid declaration. (We are only able to claim gift aid on additional donations) Total GIFT AID PLEASE WRITE CLEARLY If you are a UK taxpayer, for every £1 you donate Unique can claim an extra 25p from the taxman if you sign this Gift Aid declaration. Mr/Mrs/Miss/Dr/other Address INDIVIDUAL GIFT AID DECLARATION I wish all donations I make to Unique on or after the date of this declaration to be treated as Gift Aid donations Postcode Telephone (including std code) Signature Mobile Date Email www.rarechromo.org 31 W H O T O C O N TA C T You should contact Craig if: To make life easier for you we have listed below the person best to contact for our different services. If we are not at our desks when you call, please leave a message and we will get back to you as soon as possible. You should contact BEVERLY if: • • • • • • • • You haven’t yet received your initial letter from Beverly with information about your child’s rare chromosome disorder and links to other families (please allow up to 28 days from first contact with Beverly). • You want up to date lists of relevant families on the database who want contact. You want information about a specific rare chromosome disorder. You have any queries about your database entry You have been sent a database entry form and you have any questions about it. (Please return completed forms to Beverly). You have any technical questions about medical or genetic matters relating to your child’s disorder. You would like any information on other matters related to your child or yourself eg if you need an address for other useful organisations. Any queries relating to the Unique website. You would like a piece included in the Unique magazine. Beverly Searle – Chief Executive Officer PO Box 2189, Caterham CR3 5GN, UK T: +44 (0)1883 330766 | E: [email protected] Skype: rarechromo • • • • • • • • Craig Mitchell – Chief Operating Officer T: +44 (0)1883 723285 | E: [email protected] Skype: craig.mitchell19 You should contact MARION if: If you need to find out something and you can’t see it listed here, please contact Beverly. You should contact JENNY in Beverly’s absence: Jenny Hague – Information Officer E: [email protected] • • • You should contact Sarah if: • You would like any of our information guides on specific rare chromosomes disorders. • You would like copies of papers published in the medical literature. • You want to help translate any of our guides or contribute to new guides. Sarah Wynn – Information Officer T: +44 (0)203 211 1098 E: [email protected] You should contact JENNY: • For any queries about Unique’s accounts or finances. • You would like to fundraise for Unique by taking part in or organising you own event, including the London Marathon, Great North Run and others. • You have any queries about how to set up an online fundraising page or collect sponsorship both online and offline. You would like to make a donation to Unique or send in fundraising monies. You can help Unique receive grants or access other funding opportunities. You have ideas or skills to help us develop Unique, including IT skills, website design, creative, marketing, PR, finance or fundraising skills. You can help us to raise awareness of Unique and rare chromosome disorders. You think your employer may be able to help us either financially or through gifts or other benefits in kind. You have any questions, comments or suggestions about the Unique conference or can help with organisation. You would like a copy of our annual report and accounts or have any questions about the management of the charity. You have any comments or suggestions about how Unique is run, the services we offer and how we might look to develop the charity in future. • • • • • • • You haven’t yet received your information pack containing our guide to rare chromosome disorders (please allow 14–21 days from first contact with Beverly). • You would like a copy of our Little Yellow book or Unique Tales. • You would like a back issue of the magazine. You are a professional and need supplies of leaflets/posters. You would like to become a Local Contact for your area or, if you have any questions about becoming a local contact or want to know who your nearest one is. If you are already a Local Contact and you need some more leaflets/posters, etc. You would like any fundraising/publicity items, eg balloons, leaflets, posters, sponsorship forms, etc. If you would like wristbands or ID cards. You would like a Unique pyramid collection box or you have any questions related to the collection boxes. You need practical information, eg information on grants, trikes, special needs equipment, etc. Information about our social networking sites. You cannot get in touch with Beverly and your enquiry is urgent. Marion Mitchell – Family Support Officer T: +44 (0)1293 525504 | E: [email protected] Skype: marionatunique Jenny Knight – Finance Officer T: 07811 908696 | E: [email protected] 32 www.rarechromo.org