Compassion Fatigue: Worn Out, Warn Down and Wanting to Renew
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Compassion Fatigue: Worn Out, Warn Down and Wanting to Renew
Cordelia Anderson, MA www.cordeliaanderson.com Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] "I rise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.“ e.b.White Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] ‘80’s Impact on sexuality/health of RCC/DV workers Erotica or pornography “Burnout” “Self-Care” as part of prevention & prevention work as part of self-care Educators, Prosecutors, Therapists, Clinicians Advocates, Analyst Investigators of CSI Kenwood Therapy Center Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Exposure to Trauma has an impact on the most highly skilled professionals “Trauma stewardship” is ethical issue (Laura van Dernoot Lipsky) Occupational hazard of the work ◦ “toxic stress” Organizational & Individual Strategies both matter Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] No magic pill; No ONE thing There are symptoms: Pay attention Figure out your current level of stress: ◦ to what “degree” - normal to ‘feel it’ – ◦ “NORMALIZE the difficulty of the topic & situation” ◦ Stress (helpful/good stress or at least not harmful) ◦ Over stressed (Pay attention) ◦ Burnout ◦ Dis-ease (Crispy, Crossed Over) (TOXIC) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] As a catalyst to do what you can about any toxic conditions Define the extent of the problem, restoration or transformation & practicing prevention Important to start with yourself Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Did You Know?? "They say that falling coconuts kill 145 people in the tropics every year... They also say that stress-related heart attacks on the mainland kill 450,000 people each year. I think I can deal with the coconuts...“ (K-Man news) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] “If your compassion does not include yourself it is incomplete” Jack Cornfield Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] If one in ten people complain of discomfort from the work, you need to start a program. What is your ratio? How many have 1 in 10? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Death by overwork (Japanese) Inability to just say “NO!!” Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] • Concept of “Trauma Stewardship” &Resource • Look for more resources on traumastewardship .com [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Issue: What is an individual vs situation/systemic problem? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Most “stress” from organization/political/systemic issues Toxic exposure Overload from multiple sources Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] The exhaustion of physical and psychological resources caused by excessive striving for unrealistically high expectations (Update on Human Behavior, Vol 7, No. 4, 1987) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Burnout is a grief response Grief that you aren’t as effective as you want to be Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Preoccupation with work-related problems or job security * a depressed immune system * stomach problems * lack of appetite * insomnia * high blood pressure * Irritability * sadness • Anxiety * chemical excuse/abuse Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] * * * * * * Overtime Negativism Cynicism *** Pessimism Hopeless is hip If "seasoned", then cynical Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Oklahoma (25 years ago) Workers and Search dogs Find success Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Burnout & Secondary Trauma = Compassion fatigue (Figley) ◦ Empathy is key to induction ◦ Response is to shut down emotionally Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Intrusive symptoms Avoidance symptoms Arousal symptoms (Figley, 1995) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Use to need adaptive reaction that’s now a maladaptive response Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Release of powerful chemicals Only intended to be used for extreme emergencies Not intended to experience repeat life threats PTSD = constant/chronic release of brains emergency warning system Learned response to warning signs & associations Reflex happens from sensory stimuli in absence of real threat Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] The closer the threat, the more fear Freeze response is to orient yourself and take in information/situation With heart rate, blood pressure, etc elevated can’t consciously “play dead” – calm it down; With real or perceived entrapment, tonic immobility is an actual PLUNGING of heart rate, blood pressure… 38-41% of SA Victims experience this; with children it is higher Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Muscles paralyzed Opiates released: don’t feel the pain at the moment Can develop a hyper-reactive nervous reaction; and it takes longer to get back to the baseline once the nervous system is reset for an environment of chronic threat ◦ Brain becomes hypersensitive & hyper-reactive to trauma cues Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] When traumatized there is an effect on memory – can be clear fragments but not necessarily in a coherent, linear narrative Stress interferes with memory (VIDEO) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Toxic stress is hardwired into our communities and culture and into the cellular level of our bodies Impact on how our bodies work, how we experience life, how our brains filter information, in and out depending on if we BELIEVE we are in a threatening situation We all experience life in a different way, not just a CHOICE about how we behave Dr. David McCollum Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] “Is what is coming at me really coming from me?” Lo Lo Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Public health definition of prevention: ◦ A constant redefinition of UNACCEPTABLE ◦ What we do collectively to assure the conditions that people can be healthy Solutions must be multi-factorial (MDH Commissioner Ed Ehlinger) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] 1995-1997 data collection, 17K, 1st published in ’98; 2013 MN ACES Data “What creates health and life success?” Develop a common language about the problem, risks, protections and compassion ACES, neurobiology, stress and resilience Plan together in a new way Adversity add up & creates enduring effects ACES are common, UNACCEPTABLE, the earlier exposure the more the harms, yet they do NOT define us Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] ACES tend to cluster, to pass on to next generation by the biological reaction to stress This is where we can help to educate, mobilize intervention and prevention THEME: holding ourselves accountable; this is not about “others” with ACES this is about all of us; professionals PLUS clients/students, not only “the clients” Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] SCHOOLS: Need to recognize TRAUMA TRIGGERS: ◦ Reality some folks can’t be rational in the highly emotional state so why do we attempt discipline at that moment asking “Why are you making this choice? You should be making a better choice” …when the behavior is a normal response to trauma Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] We all hold ACES and hand them to our own children You can reduce this in your children People with ACES: ◦ Want to help others ◦ Want to give back ◦ In doing so help heal themselves when they are of service to their community ◦ INNOVATION through the EMPOWERMENT MODEL with those directly affected ◦ Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Clients/Students you work with You/Other Staff Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Do you prioritize time/energy/relationships? ◦(partner, friends) What is the affect/effect on intimacy? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Are you suspicious of everyone? Do your children wish they had a “normal parent” that didn’t always see/expect the worst? Are you increasingly “protective?” Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative or aversive stimulus after repeated exposure to it. - To make less sensitive - NUMB Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Does classic therapeutic response make sense for this? ◦ Rank most disturbing fears, responses ◦ Techniques to relax ◦ Exposure to the stimuli? OR ◦ Positive stimuli, supports, protective factors – reconnecting with HeART! Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Impact of Technology Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] T Mychael Rambo’s Aunt Point to yourself Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Be Intentional Ecological/ Strategic Personal &Institutional Not a Technique but a way of life “CHANGE OF HEART” Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Pay attention to your strengths Organizationally & personally Reflect upon areas where work is needed Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Exploited Child Unit Study of Impact; Proactive weekly group meetings Opportunities for private sessions Hiring assessment based on learnings Debrief at departures (Occupational Hazard) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] www.shiftwellness.org; Research shows the impact Innocent justice Foundation with OJJDP, ICAC’s and MH expert in CSA Images developed “Supporting Heroes in MH Foundational Training (SHIFT) ICAC BCA MN – Own Program Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] 28 federal LE who investigate Internet CP High % of STSD (secondary traumatic stress disorder) & Cynicism STSD & burnout scores related to: ◦ Increased protectiveness of family ◦ Turnover intentions ◦ Reliance on co-workers (not outside of work) ◦ General distrust Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Those with: ◦ Supportive relationships scored lower on both STSD and Burnout ◦ High professional efficacy – feel work makes a difference Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Cultivation of Organizational Support: ◦ Training prior to entry & supplemented ◦ Attention to cohesive collegial unit (COMMUNITY MATTERS) ◦ Enhanced support network ◦ Recruitment willingness and screening (wrong reasons for willingness) ◦ Past trauma, addressed ◦ Escape other duties What fits? What doesn’t? What else? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Is the environment one in which the health, self-care of those who work in it is LIKELY? ◦ Why or why not? ◦ Who is responsible? ◦ What can you do? Are systems in place to help individuals/groups bounce back after harm? Are processes restorative/transformative? Is it Solution focused? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] To Counter Professional Negativity and Fatigue ask: ◦What are your successes? ◦What do you have to celebrate? (Do you mostly talk about your challenges?) Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Review of workplace practices and policies Do they include proactive measures at employee / volunteer health & well-being & organizational support for the reality of trauma? Are there reactive supports (debriefings, counseling support) Assessment upfront, proactive check-in’s, exit interviews Check for signs of health: moral, tone of ‘humor’ collaboration/support/creative thinking, physical wellness, mental health Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] “Make their day” Be present Choose your attitude Play > Have Fun Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Detaching Feeling Effective On The Job Past Childhood Experiences With Bonding Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] Genuiness and Authenticity Inner Locus of Control Tolerance for Ambiguity Humor Nonjudgmental Stance Potency Enthusiasm Androgyny Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] Effective Communication Skills Empowering Problem Solving Skills Conflict Resolution Skills Accountability Skills for Connecting Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] “If you don’t develop the skill of enjoying what you have, than you won’t be happy with more.” Real Moments Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] Name It Make a plan to change Make the change Build a team Evaluate Celebrate Success Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] SIGN: Loose our ability to be present so we do not know the harm to self or others NOTE: How do we not add to the trauma we see? Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Focus and Identify what you can do to feel better at the really hard times; Impact can be TRANSFORMED by layering in new positive experiences; Mindfulness, Meditation & the neurobiology of trauma ◦ - studies show increased activation of frontal and pre-fontal cortical areas Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Laughter is an instant vacation. Laughter: Reduces the level of stress hormones Perks up the immune system Relaxes muscles Clears the respiratory tract Increases circulation Eases perceived pain Feel good endorphins flow Laughter both stimulates and soothes Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] Stress hormones cortisol and epinephrine lower when we laugh and rise when we’re anxious contributing to heart attacks. Dr. Berk Saranne Rothberg, diagnosed with advanced breast cancer, at 35, single mom. Founded the Comedy Cures Foundation to bring the humor strategies that worked for her to others. Choosing to laugh puts you in control. Sensibillities, Inc. 2005 [email protected] “Laughter seems to help people think more broadly and associate more freely; it is the ha ha ha to aha effect” All mental stimulation boosts brain functioning. Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] We burn out because we’ve allowed our hearts to become so filled with loss that we have not room left to care. Grieving is a way of self-care, the antidote to professionalism. Health professionals don’t cry. Unfortunately. Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Human being is more a verb than a noun. Each of us is unfinished, a work in progress. All hope is based on progress Bobby Brown Story Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Survival may depend on seeking and finding meaning. Personal meaning can change the experience of work , of relationships and even of life. Story: Roberto Assagioli Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] The difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones is how you use them ~ Source Unknown ~ Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Life is not what it is suppose to be, it is what it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference. Virginia Satir Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected] Cordelia Anderson [email protected] www.cordeliaanderson.com; Sensibillities, Inc. [email protected]