2016 Bridal Showcase - Dodge County Pionier
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2016 Bridal Showcase - Dodge County Pionier
BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:37 PM Page 1 2016 Bridal Showcase A S U P P L E M E N T TO T H E D O D G E C O U N T Y P I O N I E R & C A M P B E L L S P O RT N E W S "NFM J T IB O D PN t BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 2 PA G E 2 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Kory & Emily Bestul Emily and Kory Bestul were united in marriage on September 5, 2015, with a reception at the Holiday Inn in Fond du Lac. Members of their wedding party included, front from left, Lexi Goebel; back row, Zach Kaiser, Kristin Bestul, Ashley Bestul, Kyle Bestul, Groom Kory Bestul, Bride Emily Bestul, Robert Kowalewski, Joe Schultz, Katie Schultz, Matt Halbach, Kyla Loehr, and Holly Blatz. -photo submitted Ben & Kayla Dickenson Kayla Day and Benjamin Dickenson exchanged vows at Zion Lutheran Church in Horicon on June 20, 2015. -photo submitted Quality Qualit y Wedding Wedding & Party Rentals R Weedding White Teents • Arches • Fountains Taables/Chairs • Stage • Margarita Machines Lighting • Linens • Dance Floor • Much More! Celleebbrraattiioonnss Ce TENT & PARTY RENTA TALS www.eqrents.com 630 Grand Av venue, Hartford 262-673-3800 262-6 73-3800 2001 Decorah Road, West Bend 262-338-9860 262-338 -9860 DELIV RY & INSTA ALLATTI N AV VA AILABLE • FRE N-SITE CONSULTTA ATTION HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT WEDDING VENDORS Weddings are a careful balance of many elements that culminate on one special day. Making all of the components of a wedding come together seemlessly requires a well organized bride and groom and the cooperation of professional wedding vendors who understand their unique roles. Vendors, including florists, transportation companies, musicians, and dressmakers are essential to a successful wedding. Competent wedding vendors will remove much of the worry and work from a couple's shoulders. But not every couple ends up with top-notch wedding vendors. Research, planning and verifying references are some ways to ensure your vendors make your wedding day that much more enjoyable. * Seek recommendations from trusted friends and family members. Talk to friends and family members whose insight you value about which wedding vendors they used. If you attend a wedding or another party and find the flowers or the music particularly well done, ask for the name of the florist or band. Word-of-mouth advertisement is a great way to find quality wedding vendors who will help make your dream wedding a reality. * Consult with a wedding planner. If budget allows, work with a wedding planner. He or she will have an extensive list of wedding vendors you can contact. A wedding planner wants the job to get done right and efficiently, and many wedding planners have already vetted and verified certain vendors as quality workers. * Always ask for references and don't ignore them. Busy wedding vendors should provide you with a list of names of satisfied customers. Talk with couples who used the vendors' services in the past and ask the questions that are most important to your decision-making process. Unbiased feedback also may be available through online review sites, but direct contact with references may make you feel more comfortable. If a vendor fails to provide references, this should raise suspicions about the person's reliability. * Deposits should be a fraction of the total price. Avoid wedding vendors who insist on hefty deposits. A deposit is a good-faith agreement to hold the date of the wedding, and it should be a small percentage of the overall cost of the services. * Do not pay balances too far in advance. Many wedding vendors require the balance be paid on the day of the wedding or shortly before. Good vendors realize couples will not want to pay the tally until they have received the products or services they signed up for. A photographer may ask for the final payment when albums are 1# / ,1+0.4 0#.'+% ##" ')) .'" ) delivered. The exception may be a caterer or reception site that needs the funds to order food and beverages a few weeks in advance. Paying off a vendor too early means you run the risk of that vendor having your money and then not coming through on the wedding day. It's difficult to track down a person for a refund, plus you're left with finding a replacement at the last minute. * Contracts are your friends. Every agreement should be in writing. You have a better chance of fighting for a refund or restitution in court when you have a contract in writing. * Consider wedding insurance. Even the best-laid plans can go awry on a wedding day. Anything from freak weather events to illness to vendor absences can wreak havoc. The Better Business Bureau advises purchasing wedding insurance to protect yourself when weddings are especially costly. Such insurance may cover vendors who fail to show up, cancellations, inclement weather, military deployment, medical emergencies, and travel delays. With wedding insurance, you won't lose money if plans change. A basic insurance policy that covers loss of photos, videos, attire, presents, rings, and deposits usually costs between $155 and $550, depending on the amount of coverage you want. ,1+0.4 0#.'+% ##" A Reception to Remember 0 / 0&# -#.$#!0 3 4 0, !,*-)#0# 4,1. 3#""'+% " 4 +" !#)# . 0# 4,1. +#3 )'$# 0,%#0&#. 3'0& 4,1. $.'#+"/ +" $ *')4 . ! '""!( , (#!*- '" %!&+) "'( *' !(,! +""!* " %#$- )*-$! # )) ! 0#. +43&#.# - .(/ & ))/ ,10",,./ #+1 -.,2'"#/ 3'"# 2 .'#04 ,$ !&,'!#/ Sue’s Country Catering ')) BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 3 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE | PA G E 3 Mitchell & Chelsea Feucht Luke & Brittany Hemp Mayville Golf Club Chelsea Wienckowski and Mitchell Feucht of Theresa were joined in marriage on September 26, 2015. Joining them on their special day, from the left, were Marshall Feucht, Kelly Feucht, Shannon Jacklin, Marcus Feucht, Dale Lindert, Mallory Lindert, bride-Chelsea Feucht, groom-Mitchell Feucht, Cody Klemp, Missy Feucht, Mindy Feucht, Matthew Feucht, Doug Feucht and Kileen Wienckowski. -photo submitted Brittany Ries and Luke Hemp were united in marriage on August 15, 2015 at Trinity United Methodist Church in Lomira. Accompanying them in their bridal party, in no particular order, were Jennifer Michaels, Alex Blaskowski, Casey Schultz, Andy Ries, Sarah Nackers, Jake Sutton, Adam Sutton, Tim Thorn, Bridget Thorn, Cooper Thorn, Skylar Thorn, Lillee Thorn and Krista Schraufnagel. -photo submitted 325 S. German St., Mayville, WI • Affordable • On-site catering • Accomodations for up to 300 people • Available year ‘round • Full-service bar • Air-conditioned • Dance floor • Bartenders & clean-up included in rental Please give Bob a call at 920-387-2999 or e-mail at [email protected] www.mayvillegolfcourse.com BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 4 PA G E 4 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Randy & Cassi Hurst Tony & Kimberly Ketter Loehr's Meat Bridal '12_Layout 1 2/5/15 12:54 PM Page 1 Kimberly Ketter and Tony Luell were united in marriage on May 30, 2015. Their reception was held at the Radisson Hotel in Appleton. Members of the wedding party included, front from left, Groom Tony Luell, Bride Kimberly (Ketter) Luell; middle row, Sara Heisler, Melissa Ketter Bridges, Carissa Donath, Amy Flaherty, Becky Blatz, Amy Luell, Erin Lorenz, Ryan Huck, Renee Luell; back row, Brett Arnold, Derek Stahl, Steven Bridges, Ryan Luell, Neil Vazquez, Nick Solum and Jesse Stumph. -photo submitted Marty’s & Son Sausage Haus and Rubicon Katering 109 H w Rubicon For For your sspecial pecial event event consultation, consultation, please l call c ll ahead ffor or an aappointment. ppointment. Buffet-Style Buffet-Style Catering Cattering or Car ry-Ouut Carry-Out Family Owned & Operated Fo r O v e r 30 Years! Cassi Drury and Randy Hurst were married on September 12, 2015 at Brighton Acres in Oshkosh. Joining them on their special day were, from the left, Nathan Schellpfeffer, Travis Surita, Tyler Wild, Steele Schwartzmiller, Chase Schwartzmiller, Ryan Hurst, Randy Hurst, Cassi Hurst, Jenna Odom, Haili Drury, Lindsay Kalupa, Megan Moseley, Carly Schroeder, and Matt Gogert. -photo submitted Hardwood Smoked Hams Cheese & Sausage Trays Heat & Serve: Roast Pork, Beef, Turkey - Summertime Suum mm m meeerrrtttiiim m mee m Menu Men eennnuu Available Ava vvaaaiiilllaaabbllee for park picnics, weddings, family reunions, and graduations! 523 E. MAIN ST., CAMPBELLSPORT • 533-4513 M-W-Th. 8-5 • Fri. 8-6, Sat. 8-3 • Closed Tue & Sun www.loehrsmeat.com Rustic Co Country wit ithh a spl splash of of elegance CATERING 7 DAYS A WEEK CHOOSE FROM OUR EXTENSIVE MENU for Parties, Banquets, Weddings & Anniversaries or any aannnyy occasion! occ cccccaasi asiioonn!! as CALL AND ASK ABOUT OUR PIG ROAST BUFFET, ON-SITE GRILLING FOOD FOR PICK-UP OR DELIVERY Country Homestyle cooking at an “Affordable” Price… Call or visit our website today! 262-673-4591 rubiconkatering.net Please call call Shannon Barn Rental Ve Venue Private Ce Ceremony & Reception Ve Venue N5900 State Route 67 Iron Ridge, WI 53035 for yo your personal tour at (920) 382-6286 Located: 57 minutes fr from Milwaukee, 70 minutes from Madison, 58 minutes from Oshkosh www.ridgeviewranchwi.com [email protected] BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 5 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE | PA G E 5 Dan & Emily Livengood Beau Beauful, ful, Well-groomed, Well-groomed, Expansive Grounds Grounds at RCGA Expansive Emily Hagedorn and Dan Livengood were married on April 17, 2015 in St. Louis, Missouri. Joining them in the wedding party, in no particular order, were Julie Storck, Amy Hagedorn, Rachael Ulrich, Sid Rupani, Eric Christian and Herb Markwort. -photo submitted WE HELP FILL IN THE DETAILS Wedding Receptions • Bridal Showers • Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties • Gift Openings 920.583.4550 • [email protected] • 871 Main Street, Brownsville • Like us on Facebook 2013, 2014 & 2015 People’s Choice Award Winner BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 6 PA G E 6 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Eric & Amy Koepsell GETTING A MARRIAGE LICENSE IN DODGE COUNTY Application cannot be started until a wedding date has been scheduled, even if the ceremony is taking place at the courthouse. The County Clerk’s Office suggests application for a marriage license be made two - three weeks prior to the ceremony. Where To Apply: Wisconsin residents must apply before the County Clerk of the county in which one or both have resided at least 30 days prior to the date of application. Marriage may be performed in any county in Wisconsin. If both applicants are out-of-state residents, the license must be issued in the county where the ceremony will be performed. Amy Sankey and Eric Koepsell exchanged vows on September 19, 2015 at Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church. Their bridal party, in no particular order, included Ryan Piorkowski, Annie Johnson, Matthew Gumney, Jade Heise, Michael Sankey, Crystal Leary, Travis Waas, Annie Sankey, Brent Thauer, Mandie Sankey, Monte Mattson, Mary Beth Mattson, Scott Neitzel and Kurt Warzynski. -photo submitted Zackery & Dana Schmude Waiting Period: Application must be made at least 6 days before a license is issued. Ceremony may take place on date license is issued or any time within 30 days thereafter. In some instances, a waiver may be granted for the waiting period, due to unusual circumstances. If granted, the cost of the waiver is $10.00. If you are getting married on a Saturday, you must apply prior to the Friday of the week before. Physical Examination and/or Blood Tests: Not required. Dana Hartwig and Zackery Schmude were united in marriage at St. Stephen’s Church in Horicon on June 27, 2015. Joining the couple in the bridal party, from the left, were Derek Kolaga, Tyler Schmude, Brittany Geise, Scott Hartwig, Dana Schmude, Zackery Schmude, Brittany Dargatz, Andrea Metke, Caitlyn Hartwig snd Stefanie Schmude. Daniel Kaiser and Jurista Rosenthal are in the front. -photo submitted Requirements: Certified birth certificates are required. A certified birth certificate must bear the official embossed seal, and a signature of the state registrar, register of deeds, or city health officer. The seal of a notary public does not suffice for a certified copy of a vital record. If you were born in Wisconsin, you may obtain a State Certified birth certificate from the Register of Deeds in the county in which you were born, or the State of Wisconsin – Vital Records. For individuals born in Dodge County, please contact the Register of Deeds at (920) 386-3720. The souvenir birth document given by a hospital is not a legal document and is unacceptable. Be prepared to provide accurate and complete names of parents. Persons under the age of 16 may not marry. Persons age 16 and age 17 are required to provide both parent’s or legal guardian’s notarized written consent to marry. The consent forms are available in the County Clerk’s office and must be signed by both parents or guardians in front of the County Clerk. For more information, contact the County Clerk. Proof Of Identity: Unexpired Driver's License or State ID with your correct name is the best form of proof of Identity. Proof Of Residence: A current driver’s license with a current address is the best proof. If this is not available, proof of residency such as a checkbook, utility bill, income tax record, payroll record, military papers, student record, medical and/or dental bills must be provided. Each applicant must provide a document that contains his/her correct name and address. Divorced Persons: It is not lawful for any person, who is or has been a party to an action for divorce in any court in this state, or elsewhere, to marry again until 6 months after judgment of divorce is granted. A signed Judgment of Divorce from the last previous marriage must be presented to the County Clerk. Death Certificates: A certified copy of a death certificate must be presented to the County Clerk if your last previous marriage was terminated by death. Location, Date of Marriage and Officiant: Applicants should be prepared to provide the date of the marriage, and the correct spelling of the officiant’s name, as well as his/her business address, phone number and e-mail address. The applicants should also know the name of the county and municipality (city, village or town) where the ceremony will take place. Social Security Numbers: Applicants must provide their social security numbers if one has been assigned to them. We do not need to see your social security card. Translator: If one of the parties to the marriage does not understand or speak English, they must bring a translator with them. Any documents not in English must be translated. License Fee: The license fee is $70.00. If a waiver to the waiting period is granted, there will be an additional $10.00 fee. These fees are payable, in CASH ONLY, on the day you come to apply for the license. (We do not accept checks or credit cards) No refunds given. Hours: Marriage license applications are taken in the County Clerk’s office, located on the first floor of the Administration Building, Monday through Friday from 8:00am – 12:00pm, 12:30pm – 4:00pm. Both applicants must come to the office to apply. Appointments are not required. Courthouse Wedding: If you would like to get married at the Dodge County Justice Facility, please contact Court Commissioner, Steve Seim, at 920386-3543 or Clerk of Courts at 920-386-3570 to schedule the ceremony prior to applying for the license. The fee to get married at the Dodge County Justice Facility is $25.00. How to Obtain a Certified Copy of your Marriage License: After you are married, you may contact the Register of Deeds in the County you were married in to obtain a certified copy of your marriage license. If you were married in Dodge County, you may contact the Register of Deeds at (920) 3863720 or click here for their web page. For further information or questions contact: Karen J. Gibson, Dodge County Clerk 127 E. Oak Street Juneau, WI 53039 920-386-3600 [email protected] FROM http://www.co.dodge.wi.us/ BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 7 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE HOW TO THROW A SUCCESSFUL OUTDOOR WEDDING Outdoor weddings are romantic when done right, and a growing number of couples are exchanging vows amid an expansive garden or with the splendor of the pounding surf providing a picturesque backdrop. If Mother Nature cooperates, outdoor weddings can go smoothly. But even if the weather does not cooperate, there still are ways couples can enjoy a memorable ceremony. Preparation and planning help keep outdoor weddings moving along. Weather can be unpredictable and unforgiving, so it is always best to account for various scenarios. The following are some tips to consider. * Be mindful of hot weather. Many outdoor weddings occur when temperatures are at their warmest. As anyone who has had to sit outdoors in the blazing sun for an extended period of time can attest, it can grow quite uncomfortable, especially when everyone is dressed to the nines. Advise guests in advance that the wedding will be taking place outdoors and to dress accordingly. Arrange to have shaded areas for guests who may struggle with the heat. Keep chilled bottled water nearby so guests can stay cool and refreshed. Ask the officiant to keep the ceremony brief so that guests are not melting away in their seats. * Keep wind in mind. A stiff breeze can upset tents and wreak havoc on hairstyles. Be sure everything outdoors is properly secured and weighted down. Avoid light fabrics on a wedding gown that will get swept away by wind. A short, blusher veil may be more appropriate than a sweeping train. Couples should advise their hairstylists that they will be getting married outdoors, and looks should be well secured by bobby pins and gel to keep hair in place. Stick to real dishes for food service, as plastic or lightweight materials may get blown away. * Check for power sources. Choose a wedding location with easily accessible power outlets. Guests will certainly want to hear the vows, and that may require the use of microphones and a sound system. Having power available also makes it easier for bands and musicians to set up their equipment for an outdoor reception. If the wedding will be stretching into the evening hours, electricity will be needed to power supplemental lighting that illuminates the festivities. * Ensure accessibility. Outdoor terrain can prove tricky, especially for older guests or those with mobility issues. When scouting locations, select a wheelchair-accessible spot that can be easily traversed. Understand that turf can become water-logged and challenging to walk over should it rain the day of the wedding or prior. Plastic or fabric runners may make things easier. Also, choose a location that isn't too far off the beaten path. It should be close enough to a parking lot and not require guests to have to take an extended hike through nature. * Face away from the sun. Glares can make it difficult for guests to see the ceremony. Be sure to arrange seats so that guests do not have to look into the sun. This is best achieved by having the sun behind everyone for the ceremony. It also ensures that you won't end up with washed-out photos or pictures of everyone squinting. * Ensure food is properly chilled or heated. Dining outdoors means keeping food safety in mind. Food that is supposed to be kept cool should remain on ice or be refrigerated until served. Hot foods should remain hot. Food in chafing dishes or served buffet-style also should be protected from insects. Improper handling of food can result in foodborne illnesses. No one wants to remember a wedding for intestinal discomfort. * Use fresh flowers in potted plants. Cut flowers tend to wilt prematurely in hot weather. Rather than waste money and beautiful flowers, choose potted plants that will thrive if well-tended. Guests can then take the plants home and continue to cherish the wedding long after it is over. * Budget for a tent. It is always better to have a contingency plan. Even if you have your heart set on an outdoor wedding, have a backup plan in place if the weather is uncooperative. A tent with surrounding sidewalls may be sufficient. Otherwise, determine if there is an indoor location that can be kept on standby. * Mix up the candles. Intersperse citronella candles with the decorative ones to help keep bugs at bay. You can also consider placing small bottles of insect repellent on the tables. Guests will appreciate the gesture when biting flies or mosquitoes want to join in the fun. Make sure Mother Nature doesn't rain on your outdoor wedding. Plan for all the possibilities so that an outdoor ceremony or reception goes as smoothly as possible. | PA G E 7 Zachary & Emily Stoulil Emily Eidem and Zachary Stoulil exchanged vows on August 22, 2015 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Horicon. Their wedding party, in no particular order, included Laura Eidem, Kelsey Neitzel, Kelsey Morgans, Allison Frank, Kayla Elding, Caitlin Landt, Becca Maas, Derick Stoulil, Justin Stoulil, Alex Ehn, Sonny Radenic, Kyle Woiwood, Steve Eidem and Mike Eidem. -photo submitted Henry & Ashley Kuechenberg Special Occasion Coming Up? Call us at the Dodge County Pionier for Invitations • Favors • Programs • Personalized Gifts Stemware • Napkins • ank You Cards 126 Bridge St., Mayville, WI 53050 (920) 387-2211 www.dodgecountypionier.com Ashley Muche and Henry Kuechenberg were married at St. John’s Lutheran Church in Mayville on October 31, 2015. Joining them on their wedding day, from the left, were Molly Davies, Kim Kollmann, Whitney Muche, Jennifer Muche, Tiffany Carey, Ayshah Duel, Myah Tetting, Kim Kuechenberg, Amy Heesen, Ashley Kuechenberg, Henry Kuechenberg, Jonathan Kuechenberg, Mark Marion, Justin Lueck, Gerry Ford, Wayne Gudex, Daniel Geiger, Josh Muche, Eric Woolhether and Craig Heesen .-photo submitted BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 8 PA G E 8 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Daniel & Courtney Putz Nick & Amanda Wiedmeyer Courtney Krapfl and Daniel Putz were united in marriage on January 3, 2015 at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church. Joining the couple in the wedding party, from left to right, were Joel Putz, Jamie Montgomery, Steve White, Laura Henson, Jared Putz, Heather Durant, Daniel Putz, Courtney Putz, Eric Bublitz, Sheila Herman, Luke Pudlo, Rylee Krapfl, Nathan Putz and Tracy Harris. -photo submitted Amanda Straub and Nick Wiedmeyer were united in marriage on February 7, 2015 at Tabor United Methodist Church in Eden. Their wedding party included, from the left, Tony LeCloux, Kyle Borland, Kaitlyn O'Brien, Wesley Bengel, Leah Heberer, Peter Schultz, Michelle Grahl, Jamie Straub, Amanda Wiedmeyer, Nick Wiedmeyer, Holly Hatch, Kyle Straub, Kayla WagnerKinyon, Jared Soyk, Brittany Dittloff, Nate Rauch, Katie Albrecht and Jason Grahl. -photo submitted E IN N IRREOSTNAURRAINDT G & MOTEL 131 S. Main St., Iron Ridge, WI (920) 387-3348 Come in and see our New Remodeled Elegant Banquet Hall complete with Chandeliers and Modern Touch WE OFFER A STRESS FREE WEDDING FOR THE BRIDE & GROOM • Buff ffeets, Family Style or Plated Dinners • Linen Tablecloths & Napkins • Cordless Microphone • Movie Screen & Projector • Centerpieces & Mirrors • Bar adjoins the banquet hall • Outdoor deck adjoins the room • Motel w/indoor pool & hot tub (adjacent parking lot) Any questions please call and ask for Julie or Jessie www.ironridgeinn.com Visit us on facebook and our website BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 9 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE | PA G E 9 DESTINATION BACHELORETTE PARTY IN MUSIC CITY USA by Gayle Rydstrom For the past several years, destination weddings have become quite common. The sites picked by the couples are done so for a variety of reasons. When it was time to plan the bachelorette party for the soon-to-be Shannon Streblow, destination was the decision. But where? “There are quite a few of us who have attended the same bachelorette parties throughout the years,” said Shannon. “We’ve done comedy clubs, the bars in Milwaukee, the Dells, shopping; pretty much anything anyone can name, we’ve done it.” One of the bridesmaids had an idea and she approached the maid of honor with it. She was all for it. Would Shannon agree? “They suggested Nashville,” she said. “I was all for it, but I didn’t think too many people would want to go out of state, especially that far, for a bachelorette party. I was wrong about that.” Invitations were sent out in March. Shannon was expecting four, maybe five, and no more than six of her friends would agree to make the trip. She was wrong because 15 of her friends decided the trip was too good to pass up. “I was completely surprised by that,” said Shannon. “But we all wanted to do something different and that was definitely something different.” The original plan had been to stay in a house while in Nashville. That had to be scrapped because there were too many people for a house to hold. But Shannon didn’t care that they had to get hotel rooms instead. “We stayed at the Holiday Inn Downtown with four girls to a room,” she said. “Several of them only knew me and no one else in the group so I had been a bit worried about that. But there was no need because everyone got along great and had a great time.” One friend living in Florida traveled by herself, but the other 15 rented a van large enough to hold everyone and left on a Thursday night in June 2015. Although the group stopped a few times for snacks and to stretch their legs, they traveled through the night and checked into the hotel Friday morning. “Some of us napped during the trip, but one girl did all of the driving,” said Shannon. “We had group things scheduled for Friday, starting with about five hours on the Pedal Tavern. That was a lot of fun.” The Pedal Tavern has a specified route and stops at bars, restaurants and shops along the way. After some time to get ready, the group made its way to the Wildhorse Saloon for a sit-down, five-course meal. “There were lots of items to choose from, burgers, chicken sandwiches, ribs, you name it,” said Shannon. “Everybody loved the fried pickles.” The group had front row seats to watch the musical performance on stage that night. Saturday arrived, but there was nothing scheduled for the day. The hotel was five minutes from downtown and had a shuttle service to the downtown area, which the group was happy to use. “We had only Friday and Saturday,” said Shannon. “Friday was the group day and Saturday was for the girls to do whatever they wanted. Some spent most of the time by the hotel pool. Others went there after they got back from whatever they wanted to do.” Some of the gals did some shopping, a few Shannon Strehlow’s bachelorette party was held in Nashville, TN. The group spent a Thursday night driving, checked into their hotel rooms, and began the festivities. One of the items scheduled for Friday was a few hours on a pedal tavern, a boat that stops at bars along a specified route. A total of 16 ladies, 15 from Wisconsin and one from Florida, made the trip to Nashville. (submitted) Relaxing at poolside of the Holiday Inn Downtown are some of the 16 members from the Strehlow bachelorette party. The group had traveled from Wisconsin and Florida for the destination party last June. Shannon and Doug were married in August. (submitted) needing a special item. “My wedding was a country theme, held at a renovated barn that has been in my husband’s family for quite some time, and some of the girls didn’t have boots yet,” said Shannon. “Here in Wisconsin, there are a few places that have boots, but in Nashville, we knew there would be a wide variety.” Those who needed boots found what they wanted. With the group driving instead of flying, there was more than enough room in the van for everyone’s purchases when the ladies were ready to head back to Wisconsin on Sunday morning. “It was a great time,” said Shannon. “We had t-shirts made and wore those. We saw several other bachelorette parties while we were there.” Several of those who went to Nashville had watched the show by the same name, and pointed out to each other some of the places they came across that had been in the program. “I didn’t have to do anything other than give my maid of honor the names and contact info of those I wanted to invite,” said Shannon. “She took care of planning. I definitely recommend a destination bachelorette party, especially if you feel as though you’ve done it all already and want something different.” Shannon and Doug were married in August. Their wedding information can be found on another page of this special section. Horicon American Legion Post 157 735 S. Hubbard St., Horicon 920-485-2022 Seating for up to 237 All caterers welcome Friendly and professional services With one day set aside for group activities during the Strehlow bachelorette party last June, the other day allowed the 16 ladies to do as they pleased in Nashville, TN. Some of them shopped and did a bit of sight-seeing. (submitted) The bachelorette party for Shannon Strehlow of Iron Ridge was held at the Wildhorse Saloon in Nashville, TN. The 16 ladies who made the trip from Wisconsin and Florida enjoyed the food and front row seats for the live entertainment last June. (submitted) GREAT FOR: Class Reunions • Anniversaries • Rehearsal Dinners • Baby & Wedding Showers • Birthday Parties • Weddings We are handicap accessible Call Pat or Jackie Bulman at (920) 382-5060 for a personal tour and rental details BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 10 PA G E 1 0 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Bret & Randi Galligan Randi and Bret Galligan were united in marriage on October 24, 2015, at Wind Beneath Our Wings Barn in rural Campbellsport. Their reception was held at The Golf Club at Camelot. Members of the wedding party included Jessica Wolfe, Rebecca Wilder, Lindsey Burzynski, Caitlin Ferry, Bree Galligan, Arielle Bauer, Brittany Krebs, Melissa Henrichs, Bo Galligan, Peter Muroni, Alex Volm, Luke Mueller, Jason Wolfe, Dustin Erdman, Patrick Galligan and Nathan Ward. -photo submitted Book your 2016 or 2017 All Inclusive Wedding at Spectrum in Fond du Lac! 605 Fond du Lac Ave., Fond du Lac, WI (920) 923-5190 www.SpectrumBanquets.com www.SpectrumSkate.com Sean & Kayla Wright Kayla Brandenburg and Sean Wright exchanged vows on September 5, 2015 at the Rolling Meadows Golf Course. 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Members of the wedding party included, front from left, Melissa Romanowski, Nicole Dreier, Jordan Geidel, Travis Gray, Kevin Traska, Tristan Becker, Eric Dreier; back row, Jessica Mansfield, Michelle Brandt, Tyler Gray, Cory Brandt and Jason Geidel. -photo submitted Joe & Katie Schultz Katie Goebel and Joe Schultz were united in marriage on April 11, 2015, at Shepherd of the Hills church in rural Eden. Members of the wedding party included, from left, Deanna Sterman, Meg Joas, Matt Zimdahl (usher), Katie Gellings, Kari Wik, Emily Bestul, Lexi Schultz, Ashley Zimdahl, Bride Katie (Goebel) Schultz, Wes Normington, Groom Joe Schultz, Paige Schultz, Adam Wik, Peter Schultz, Joe Miritz, Dan Buslaff, Scott Felten (usher), and Keith Joas. -photo submitted Melissa Braun and Rowan Sbaiti were married on October 3, 2015 at the Monona Terrace Rooftop Gardens in Madison. 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HH f 30 for: H A PP HO RY 2-6 PUM DAILY, CALL FELIX AT (920) 387-9903 FOR MORE DETAILS BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 12 PA G E 1 2 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E Doug & Shannon Strehlow UNDERGARMENTS CAN MAKE OR BREAK WEDDING LOOKS As guests’ eyes are trained on couples come their wedding days, it is no surprise that both the bride and groom want to look flawless on their big days. Men and women will spend thousands of dollars on clothing, hairstyling, makeup, teeth whitening, fitness classes, and more to ensure they look their best. While couples may be particularly concerned with their wedding day appearance, what they wear under their clothing — particularly for women — can impact how clothes fit and look. Choosing the right bra or supportive undergarments can play a crucial role in how a gown fits and whether or not brides achieve that picture-perfect look. Wearing the wrong undergarments can negatively affect a bride’s appearance and make her extremely uncomfortable. According to a study done by Swiss lingerie company Triumph, a large number of women are choosing their bras incorrectly. The international survey of 10,000 women found that 64 percent of them are wearing the wrong size bras. If women are wearing the wrong undergarments for every- day looks, it stands to reason that their wedding choices may not be spot on, either. Undergarments should be purchased and brought to all fittings as soon as a gown is selected. In fact, it often is a good idea to ask the bridal store employees to suggest a bra or corset that will complement the gown and remain invisible beneath the dress. Some shops will make bras available when trying on gowns. Brides are not obligated to purchase undergarments where they purchase their gowns, but take note of the brand and style and find a similar one elsewhere that fits with your budget if you don’t want to buy at the store. Pay attention to the gown’s fabric and how dense it is. Certain shapewear, including bras, that have a lot of boning in them to shape and support the body can show under bridal dresses without a lot of layers. Always try on the bra with the gown to gauge the finished look. You may opt for simpler and plain lingerie styles so that you will be guaranteed a seamless appearance. Nude-colored bras tend to be less noticeable than white. You always can purchase something with more pizazz to change into for the wedding night. Some dresses with plunging necklines or backless designs may necessitate other options. Sew-in bra cups are another option that can lend invisible support. Women with more ample busts may want to select gowns that will allow for bras with supportive straps to be worn. This way there is no worry about strapless bras or other style lingerie slipping down. In addition to bras, other types of shapewear can enhance certain areas of the body or downplay perceived flaws. Shapewear can smooth and pull in stomachs. Choose boy shorts or thong-style cuts for a seamless finish. Shapers can smooth out bulges on the back, legs and hips, too. There also are special shorts that have some padding in the rear to create a more curvy look. Bras and other shapewear can make a world of difference in how wedding attire looks and feels. Invest in some quality pieces that will highlight wardrobes to their fullest. '% # '% Shannon Haberman and Doug Strehlow were united in marriage at the Ridgeview Ranch in Iron Ridge on August 28, 2015. 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Ninety-two percent of brides experienced nerves on the day of the wedding or the evening before, while 66 percent reported that it affected their daily lives prior to their weddings or hampered their performance and enjoyment during the day itself. According to Psych Central, a modern online voice for mental health information, emotional support and advocacy, pre-wedding jitters are common and can be the subconscious telling a person that something needs to be remedied. Wedding nerves do not mean a wedding is doomed; it just means certain issues may need to be worked through. The following are some ways to tame wedding day nerves. • Keep an open dialogue. Speak with your future spouse about the things that may be causing your anxiety. Maybe you have doubts on financial choices or where you will be living after the wedding. Communicating openly and honestly is one of the foundations of a strong relationship. • Slow down and breathe. Wedding plan- ning involves making many decisions, and sometimes couples move at breakneck speeds. Make slowing down a priority. Try to enjoy a quiet dinner with just the two of you. When enjoying peaceful moments, take deep breaths, which can be calming and revitalizing. If need be, consider signing up for a yoga or tai chi class to force you to slow down. • Address performance anxiety. It’s easy to build up the big day in your mind and hope that everything goes according to plan. But it’s impossible to plan for each and every outcome on your wedding day. Focus on everything that can go right, rather than worrying about what might go wrong. Also, realize that your guests are your friends and family members who will be forgiving of any hiccups along the way. You’re bound to recover gracefully from any mishaps. • Work on confidence. Wedding fears may stem from inadequate selfconfidence. Give yourself a pep talk and surround yourself with positive people. Keep the worry-warts at arms’ length for the time being. • Recruit more help. | PA G E 1 3 Weddings are huge undertakings, so it’s no surprise that couples sometimes feel overwhelmed. Ask reliable relatives or friends to double-check all of the last-minute details. This way you don’t feel it is all on your shoulders. Wedding days nerves are to be expected and often have little to do with the decision to get married. Planning such a big event can be nervewracking, but there are ways to combat any anxiety that builds up as the big day draws near. WEDDING VEILS COMPLETE BRIDAL LOOK The perfect dress is on the wish list of many a bride-to-be, but no bridal ensemble is truly complete until the bride chooses her veil. Veils have been worn by brides at their weddings for centuries. Veils can be traced back to the Middle East, where veils helped protect against the weather while also preserving the modesty of the bride. In Ancient Greece and An- cient Rome, veils were used as protection against evil spirits. According to popular wedding website The Knot.com, until Vatican II, all Catholic women were required to have their heads covered in church, including during their wedding ceremonies. Veils were worn for this purpose, but they also symbolized trust in the groom and his love and companionship. Some Christians also see the veil as a visual representation of submission to the Church and to God. Others think of the veil as another beautiful accompaniment to their bridal gown, without attaching any additional meaning to the veil itself. Veils come in various lengths and can complement the style of a wedding gown. They also tend to add glamour to brides’ looks. Here are the types of veils from shortest to longest. • Blusher: Blushers cover the face, though some extend only to mid-cheek on the bride. • Flyaway: Flyaways cover just the back of the head. Shorter veils may work better on petite women. • Shoulder: Shoulder veils are about 20 inches in length and will hit at the bride’s shoulders or just below. • Waist: Waist-length veils cascade down to the middle of the bride’s waist. • Fingertip: These veils extend down 38 to 42 inches, brushing against the bride’s fingertips. • Waltz/Knee: For a dramatic look, many brides may opt for waltzlength veils, which fall to the back of the knees. • Chapel/Floor: Veils www.americinnbeaverdam.com 325 Seippel Boulevard • P.O. Box 718 BEAVER DAM One Mile North of Rechek’s - Behind Heritage Mall - Next to KFC 920-356-9000 • 1-800-634-3444 that extend to the floor may be referred to as “chapel” or “floor-length” veils. Such veils cascade slightly behind the bride. Veils can complete brides’ wedding day looks. Shorter veils may be comfortable to wear throughout the day and evening, but brides may want to consider detachable veils if they are selecting lengthier options. 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Members of the wedding party were Courtney Timblin, maid of honor; Sara Immel, Katie Nichols, Molly Sippel, Yuliana Asriyans, bridesmaids; Myla Nichols, flower girl; Shaun Timblin, best man; Bryan Perl, Adam Shileny, Billy Hafemann, Mike Blomstrom, Groomsmen; Mason Nichols, ring bearer; and Josh Timblin, Caleb Timblin, Randy Kertscher, Rob Kertscher, ushers. -photo submitted OCK IVER ETREAT LLC COTTAGE RENTALS GA AT THERINGS www.rockriverretreatwi.com Horicon Marsh WI 53032 | 435.659.0603 Kaitlyn De Haan and Bobby Hefter exchanged vows on May 23, 2015 at Hunters Point in Brownsville. Their bridal party included, from the left, Whitney Krapfl, Brenda Hefter, Cassandra Meyer, Stormy Marks, Brittany Benish. 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A 2011 study published in Names: A Journal of Onomastics indicates that younger brides are more likely to embrace the tradition of CHANGING YOUR LAST NAME taking their husbands’ names in marriage. According to the study, women who married between the ages of 35 and 39 were 6.4 times more likely to keep their maiden names than those who married between the ages of 20 and 24. Many brides view taking their spouse’s name as the natural transition from being a singleton to being a married woman. Other brides prefer they share the same last name as their future children, making the choice to take their husband’s name a logical decision. Some brides feel having the same last name as their husbands helps them feel more like a family. Changing one’s name also may make it easier to deal with various issues. Finances, travel and even parenting concerns may be easier when women take their husbands’ last names than when they don’t. But some brides still prefer to keep their maiden names or hyphenate those names with their husbands’ surnames. Some may view changing their names as sacrificing their personal identities, while others may want to hold on to a family name they are proud of. Interesting names also can be hard to give up. Brides who find taking their hus- band’s name would be a tongue-twister may prefer to forego this tradition. Very often women who occupy positions of prominence in their professions keep their maiden names, feeling that taking their husbands’ names will affect the cache they have built up thus far. Women uncertain of what to do in such situations can keep their maiden names professionally and still | PA G E 1 5 change their names legally. Changing one’s last name is a personal preference and a decision that couples should discuss together. Discuss the decision well in advance of the wedding so that both parties are aware of each other’s feelings on the subject before tying the knot. HOW TO HANDLE GUESTS WHO DON'T RSVP Wedding invitations are often a great source of information for guests. While wedding websites also provide a great opportunity for couples to get the word out about their weddings and share pertinent details like the date and location of the wedding, many people are still unfamiliar with the concept of a wedding website, and therefore they rely on invitations as their primary source of information about a wedding. One of the most important bits of information couples must include on their wedding invitations is the RSVP date. The RSVP, which stands for "repondez s'il vous plait," is a couple's request for a response to their invitation. The RSVP is typically a specific date by which guests must let the couple tying the knot know whether or not they plan to attend the wedding. There are no rules that govern how far in advance of the wedding couples should ask their guests to RSVP, but some venues might want a final headcount or at least a close estimate of the final countdown three to four weeks before the big day. As a result, it's best to ask guests to RSVP at least three weeks before the wedding and preferably four to five weeks before the festivities commence. If invitations are mailed two to three months prior to the wedding, that gives guests ample time to determine whether they can or cannot join in the celebration. While many guests will respond immediately or in plenty of time for couples to arrange seating and notify their reception venue, nearly every bride and groom has been forced to deal with guests who simply failed to respond to their invitations, a potentially precarious position for couples to find themselves in as their wedding day quickly approaches. When guests fail to respond on time, couples should maintain their composure and not take it as a sign of disrespect or indifference. Guests might not be planning a wedding, but chances are they're busy, too, and their failure to respond is likely just a mistake. Before contacting those who failed to provide a timely response, wait a few extra days so responses that were mailed at the last minute can be counted among those that were received on time. Once the deadline and subsequent extension has passed, couples can begin to contact those guests who have not responded to their invitations. If it's a close friend or family member who hasn't responded, simply call them on the telephone and politely ask if they plan on coming to the wedding. They won't need to mail the RSVP at this point, so just jot down their response and thank them before moving on to the next person. When a person who hasn't responded is less familiar to the bride and groom, such as a parent's distant cousin or professional colleague, then it's perfectly reasonable to ask for help. For example, if a parent's neighbor has yet to reply, ask Mom or Dad to drop by their house or call them on the phone to determine if they plan to attend. The majority of invitees, if not all of them, who fail to respond on time will understand when contacted directly and asked if they plan to attend, so couples need not be nervous or confrontational when making phone calls or writing emails. Keep things short and sweet and let guests know their attendance is appreciated or their absence will be felt if they cannot make it. THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN MULLING A DESTINATION WEDDING According to a study from XO Group Inc., creator of wedding websites TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com, 350,000 destination weddings take place annually. Such figures reflect a growing trend of couples who want to tailor their weddings to their own personalities, even if that means tying the knot in exotic or unusual locales. But as popular as destination weddings have become, couples who have had such weddings can attest that planning a destination wedding is not necessarily easier than planning a more traditional ceremony close to home. Though destination weddings can make for memorable affairs, there are some factors couples must consider when mulling whether or not to have a destination wedding. Guest list The XO Group study found that destination weddings have an average of 86 guests. When sitting down to organize their guest lists, many couples realize they have well over 100 guests on their lists. Such couples may find a destination wedding especially difficult to pull off, as resorts may or may not be able to accommodate such a substantial number of guests. In addition, couples who hope to invite children to their weddings might want to reconsider a destination affair, as those youngsters' parents will have to foot the bill for additional airfare and accommodations and, depending on when the wedding takes place, pull the kids out of school for an extended period of time. Couples with smaller guest lists might find a destination wedding much more manageable than those whose guest lists crack triple digits. Another thing to consider is that the larger the guest list, the more likely many of those guests will not be able to afford to attend or get enough time off from work to make it to a destination wedding. Couples who want to ensure all of their loved ones can be there with them on their big days might be better off avoiding destination weddings. Accessibility Accessibility is a common concern for couples considering destination weddings. Destination weddings typically ask guests to travel far to attend the ceremony and reception, but there are ways to make that travel less of an ordeal. When choosing a location for their destination weddings, couples should consider the cost and convenience of travel. Remote islands are not very accessible, and as a result guests will likely have to pay a pretty penny for their flights and lodging. In addition, the more remote a destination wedding locale is, the less convenient getting there figures to be. Nonstop flights likely won't be a possibility. Before choosing a locale for a destination wedding, research flights, making sure that affordable flights are available within spitting distance of loved ones' homes and that they won't have to suffer through multiple connecting flights when traveling to and from the wedding. Weather Weather is another factor couples must consider before choosing to have a destination wedding. The XO Group study found that 30 percent of American couples who have destination weddings choose to tie the knot outside of the continental United States. That's a distinct disadvantage for couples who likely are not very familiar with weather patterns overseas. Couples who choose outdoor weddings close to home are often familiar enough with local weather patterns to choose a wedding date that likely won't be interrupted by harsh weather. But choosing an overseas or distant locale erases that comfort level, and couples may find themselves worrying about storms or other inclement weather conditions as their wedding days draw nearer. Before choosing a locale for their destination weddings, couples should thoroughly research each potential destination's weather patterns. Brides, grooms and guests alike don't want to do all of that traveling only to end up indoors because it just so happens to be tropical storm season. Competition As destination weddings have grown in popularity, the competition for idyllic locales and top-notch venues has increased. That competition is great for venue owners' bottom lines, but it might not be so great for couples looking to keep their wedding costs down. Costs might be considerably less in the offseason, but that's also when storms and inclement weather tend to take hold, Booking a venue early can help couples mitigate some of the costs of a destination wedding, but the growing popularity of destination weddings might make them out of reach for couples working on tight budgets. BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 16 PA G E 1 6 | 2 0 1 6 B R I D A L S H O W C A S E HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER Long after the final toast has been made or the last couple has left the dance floor, wedding photos will help couples relive the wonderful memories of their ceremonies and receptions. Wedding photographers realize the important role photography plays in a wedding. Photos are how couples document their nuptials, and the right photographer can make all the difference. The following tips can help guarantee a successful wedding shoot and beautiful photos to recall the best moments of the day. * Seek referrals. There are scores of wedding photographers, and some are better than others. Word of mouth from other couples can help. Referrals can offer insight into a photographer's personality and his or her abilities to work with the wedding party and guests throughout the day. * Communication is key. An important component of wedding photography actually starts well before the wedding day. The way a photographer communicates with you about your wishes and desired shots is very important, as this is when to discuss specific shots you want taken during the ceremony, such as whether the bride wants to be seen and pose with the groom prior to tying the knot. In addi- tion, this is a great time for the photographer to get familiar with each venue's rules regarding vendors. * Choose a photographer who is confident and firm. A good photographer will be able to direct photo subjects and get everyone to participate and in line. Brides and grooms likely won't want to handle such tasks on their own, so a confident and firm yet cordial photographer can be an invaluable asset. * Prepare a shoot list. Meet with the photographer before the wedding and provide a list of all the shots you absolutely need to get. This way the photographer can plan for these as well as capture the candid moments throughout the day. * Discuss a backup plan with the photographer. Mishaps happen, even on the most carefully planned wedding day. Discuss what the photographer does to safeguard your digital photo files. Are they backed-up to a cloud or a secured offsite server? Does the photographer bring along a second camera in case the primary one has a malfunction? What happens if he or she is ill on the day of the wedding? How is a replacement chosen? Understanding how the photographer adapts to unforseen situations can make you feel more confident in choosing one photographer instead of another. The camera gear should also have adequate memory to store all of the photos, and a few backup batteries can't hurt, either. * Consider hiring a photographer's assistant or second shooter. The photographer is less likely to miss a shot or fail to capture various perspectives of the wedding if he or she works with a partner. While one photographer is doing close-up portraits, the other may be capturing candid moments from onlookers from another angle. * Know what each package includes. The photographer should clearly spell out which items and services are included as part of the contract. There should be no surprises when it's time to pay the balance of the photographer's fees, so go over each itemized detail to be sure the package in your contract is the one you really want. * Get to know the photographer as a person. It can be difficult to loosen up in front of the lens, particularly if you do not have a good rapport with the photographer. Do not judge the photographer on his or her body of work alone. You will likely grow more comfortable with the photographer if you get to know him or her in the months leading up to your wedding. Evan & Andrea Merkes Andrea Bogenschneider and Evan Merkes headed to the beach in San Juan, Puerto Rico on February 7, 2015 to exchange wedding vows. Their bridal party consisted of, from the left, Stephanie Malesevich, Ashley Merkes, Amanda Wozniak, Krysta Weinberger, Lisa Fleischer, Andrea Merkes, Evan Merkes, Jake Retzlaff, Corey Bogenschneider, Jamie La Brec and Noah Fleischer .-photo submitted Matthew & Kimberly Luehring Wayne & Amanda Hartwig Amanda Wolter and Wayne Hartwig were united in marriage on May 24, Kimberly Reklau and Matthew Luehring were united in marriage in Milwaukee 2015 at Milford Hills Hunt Club in Johnson Creek. Pictured are Wayne and on September 6, 2015. Their wedding party consisted of, from the left, Corey Amanda with their children, Ariana and Bo. Reklau, Noelle Reklau, Becky Recklau, Kimberly Luehring, Matthew Luehring, -photo submitted Mike Mueller, Dani Steiner and Max Strasser. -photo submitted BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 17 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE RESPONSIBILITIES OF BRIDAL PARTY MEMBERS Being asked to join a bridal party is both an honor and a responsibility. When asked to take on such significant and meaningful roles, men and women may recognize the honor but be unsure of what their responsibilities are as couples move forward with their wedding plans. Bridal party roles can vary depending on certain circumstances, but many couples still want their bridesmaids and groomsmen to perform many of the more traditional tasks associated with their roles. The following are some of the tasks bridesmaids and groomsmen can expect to perform in the months leading up to the wedding and during the wedding itself. Maid of Honor The maid of honor serves as the bride-tobe’s right-hand woman as she plans her wedding and gets ready on her big day. Maids of honor typically go gown shopping with the bride and may even choose or offer suggestions about the color and style of the bridesmaids’ dresses. Once a dress style and color has been chosen, the maid of honor will make sure everyone is fitted on time. A maid of honor will also plan the bridal shower, sending invitations and arranging for lodging for out-of-town guests if necessary. Many brides want the details of their bridal showers to be a surprise, and maids of honor should honor those sentiments when possible. A maid of honor also plans the bachelorette party, though many brides do not mind being involved in the planning of such parties. The maid of honor may be asked to help address save-the-date cards and envelopes as well. Come the day of the wedding, the maid of honor will ensure the bride’s day is as stressfree as possible, helping to address any lastminute issues that may arise. Maids of honor may be asked to serve as the legal witness to the wedding and sign the wedding license before the reception. At the reception, the maid of honor will toast the bride. • Best man: The best man is the maid of honor’s counterpart, helping to plan the bachelor party and toasting the groom at the reception. The best man also tends to hold the rings during the wedding ceremony, and during the day of the wedding, he will coordinate the groomsmen to make sure everyone is ready to go on time. The best man may arrange transportation for the groom and groomsmen on the day of the wedding and may also return the groom and groomsmen’s attire the following day if the newlyweds are departing on their honeymoons. | PA G E 1 7 Nick & Amanda Dobbert groomsmen help to plan the bachelorette and bachelor parties and may also be asked their opinions as couples make decisions regarding their weddings. Bridesmaids and groomsmen must be prepared to take pictures once couples have officially tied the knot. They also must help the brides and grooms with any issues that may arise in the hours before couples become husband and wife. Flower girl/Ring bearer Flower girls and ring bearers are often young relatives of the couple, whether they are a young brother or sister or a niece or nephew. 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Joining the two on their special day, from the left, were Brett Muche, Karen Coats, Tony Bettack, Nikki Schwartzmiller, Michael Kinderman, Stacey Kienbaum, Troy Bauer, Melissa Smolinski, Eric Schwartzmiller, Jessica Schwartzmiller, Sara Thuermer, Tyler Weyer, Shantel Stroschein, Steve Moeller, Kasey Schwartzmiller, Nate Williams, Nicole Presto and Andrew Haass. -photo submitted Brock & Therese McHenry Therese Kaiser and Brock McHenry were married on May 9, 2015 at Sacred Heart Church in Horicon. Their wedding party, in no particular order, included Sarah Schmidt-Quist, Breanna Kaiser, Shannon Pierce and Brian Wittenberg. -photo submitted SIMPLIFY AND SAVE ON YOUR WEDDING Planning a wedding is complicated. Once couples choose a date and location for their ceremony, they can then can get down to the nuts and bolts of the big day. When planning a wedding, many couples are governed by a budget. Budgets often get stretched, but even those brides- and grooms-to-be who spend more than they had initially hoped often find themselves not going too far over budget. One of the best ways for couples to stay within spitting distance of their budget or even come in under budget is to take steps to simplify the ceremony and reception. Simplifying a few aspects of the wedding can save couples money without forcing them to make sacrifices that affect the look or feel of occasion. * Turn floral arrangements into multi-purpose accessories. Bridesmaids typically carry beautiful floral bouquets during the wedding ceremony. But such bouquets are quickly put down and forgotten once a couple has officially tied the knot. Couples can save a few dollars by repurposing floral bouquets and other floral arrangements used during the cere- mony. Once the ceremony has ended, repurpose floral bouquets as centerpieces for the reception tables and turn flowers used as aisle markers during the ceremony into small centerpieces on the escort card table or place them alongside the guestbook. This saves you the trouble of choosing various floral arrangements to display throughout the reception venue and also saves you money. * Scale back on the alcohol offerings. Some couples opt for a full-service, top-shelf bar at their wedding. While that's a nice gesture, it's also an expensive one. Couples can save a substantial amount of money by simplifying the alcoholic offerings at their reception. Instead of a full top-shelf bar, offer guests one or two choices of popular liquors such as whiskey, rum and vodka and steer clear of especially expensive brands. The majority of guests likely won't even notice, but couples will notice how much money they save. * Choose a classic cake. Elaborate cakes may be de rigueur, but the cost of an especially elaborate wedding cake can make a cost-conscious couple's collective jaw drop. Instead of a specially designed, laborintensive cake, choose a classic cake that won't break the bank. Classic cakes can add an elegant touch to a wedding without extending a couple's budget. * Trim the guest list. Trimming the guest list is arguably the most effective way to simplify a wedding while simultaneously saving some money. Once you have compiled a list of potential invitees, peruse that list to determine if there are any people who can be trimmed from the list. This is easier for couples paying for their own wedding, as they won't feel pressured to invite any friends or colleagues of their parents whom they don't know personally. But even couples splitting the cost of their weddings with their parents should speak with their parents about trimming the guest list to make the affair a little less expensive. Traditional weddings are anything but simple. But there are ways for couples to make planning their wedding less complicated while saving some money at the same time. HONEYMOON PLANNING MADE EASY Weddings are one-ofa-kind occasions. Weddings also tend to be stressful, even for the most laid-back people. But a honeymoon gives the couple a chance to enjoy uninterrupted moments together and serves as a way to recuperate from the months and sometimes years of wedding planning. Honeymoons are a beloved wedding tradition, and some couples even combine their weddings and honeymoons by opting for a destination wedding. Because the honeymoon should be a way to unwind on a dream vacation, booking the honeymoon and setting an itinerary should not add to the pressure of planning, and the following tips should make planning a honeymoon a snap. * Research your destination. Learn all you can about a destination before booking your honeymoon. Study the weather for the time of year you will be on your honey- moon, and learn about currency exchange, local rules and regulations and other pertinent factors to determine the best places to visit. You do not want to be met with surprises that might compromise your trip upon arriving to your honeymoon destination. * Book well in advance. The sooner you choose your destination, the faster you can begin the process of applying for passports, visas or other necessary documents. Booking early also guarantees you better seats on the flight and the ability to negotiate pricing. * Give yourself a full day between the wedding and embarking on your trip. Scenes of couples being whisked away to the airport right after the reception dwindles down are commonplace. But that doesn't mean you need to leave right after the final dance. Allow some breathing room to pack, deposit wedding gifts, return tuxedoes, and tackle any other post-wedding tasks. Save the romantic "first night" as a couple for the honeymoon and enjoy a well-deserved night's sleep. * Purchase travel insurance. One way to alleviate the stress of planning a wedding is to ensure your honeymoon investment is protected in the event of bad weather or other unforeseen circumstances. Travel insurance is a safety net that can come in handy. Speak with a travel agent or insurance agent about how to secure travel insurance for the honeymoon. * Pack light. Don't burden yourself down with a lot of belongings. Chances are you'll pick up new things and mementos on the trip, and packing light makes traversing airports that much easier. BRIDAL TAB 2016.qxp_Layout 1 2/4/16 3:38 PM Page 19 2016 BRIDAL SHOWCA SE MAYVILLE NATIVE SAYS “YES TO THE DRESS” by Sally Kahlhamer Millions of viewers watch the TV show “Say Yes To The Dress” that airs on the TLC network. Later this spring they will recognize one of the brides featured on the show as 2007 Mayville High School graduate Katie Koch. Katie and her fiance, Will Koenitzer, a 1998 MHS grad, will be married on October 17, 2015, at the Wilderness Resort with the ceremony at Glacier Canyon Lodge in the Wisconsin Dells. The New York film crew came to Wisconsin and covered the day starting with Katie being zipped into her dress before the ceremony. Only one bride from each show has her wedding filmed. When Will proposed to Katie in Mexico, she switched to bridal mode. “I thought how cool it would be to get my dress at Kleinfeld’s in New York City, but I didn’t say anything right away because I knew it would be so expensive”. She did talk about it later with her parents, Gail and Jeff, but didn’t think anything would come of it. That Christmas she and Will received a picture frame from her parents. It had a picture of Kleinfeld’s Bridal store and trip tickets for the four of them to travel to New York City. It takes months to get an appointment at Kleinfeld’s to even try on dresses. Katie had to go online and pick out five dresses she wanted to try on during her oneand-one half hour appointment. She spent about 20 hours trying to find the dresses she liked best. She sent in her picture so the consultant would recognize her when she arrived. The big day finally ar- rived and she had the first appointment of the day at 10 a.m. She and nine other girls walked into the salon and her consultant, Allison, picked her right out and came over to her. Katie was able to try on the five dresses on her wish list. “I almost started crying because I hated all five of them,” said Katie. “Allison asked what I liked about each dress I had tried on and what I didn’t like. She brought back one for me to try on that she had picked out. They don’t let you try on a dress that is over your budget unless they tell you first.” Her mom asked, “How much over the budget?” She tried on the dress and loved it. “My mother started crying before the zipper was even pulled up,” Katie said. “I knew it was the one. There was no question. My mom had not been emotional for any of the other dresses and it was very important to me that she like it.” She tried on several more, but she knew she had found the dress and was able to answer the question that is asked of every bride – “Can you say yes to the dress?” They “jacked” her up with all the bridal accessories so she could get an idea of what she would look like on her wedding day. She bought the dress and six months later received an e-mail asking her if she wanted to be on the show when she came in for her alterations. (The filming for picking the dress was already over when she was in New York.) She called her mom, dad and Will, but kept it a secret until her wedding shower. There were many forms to fill out and questions to answer along with submitting a video of herself and another of her and Will interacting. She also had to send a picture of the people who would be going along when she returned to Kleinfelds for her fitting and skyped with the producers. “I was not very optimistic about being picked,” explained Katie. There are nine bridesmaids, but the film crew allowed only four bridesmaids and her mother to be in New York for the taping of the alteration segment. She picked the first ones she had asked to accompany her. “My friends are all jeans and sweatshirt people, but we dressed like ladies and I even wore heels,” Katie said. “The film crew was super fun. I am the only daughter and my mom and I got very emotional during the filming. There was a lot of crying.” The dress fit really well, except it had to be shortened and a few other alterations done. Vera, who appears in most episodes, was there to check on the proper fitting of Katie’s dress. The theme for their wedding was rustic woodsy and she thinks the film crew liked the idea of filming in Wisconsin Dells. “I never thought I would be at Kleinfeld’s. It was never my dream to be on the show, but when you get engaged, everything changes,” explained Katie. “It was the coolest thing to go to Kleinfeld’s. You only get married once and I wanted to remember wedding dress shopping with my mom.” “Will’s really excited about the show, but he has no idea what I’ve gotten him into. He thinks it’s a girlie thing,” Katie said with a big smile on her face. | PA G E 1 9 William & Katie Koenitzer Katie Koch and William Koenitzer were united in marriage on October 17, 2015 at the Wilderness Glacier Canyon Lodge in Wisconsin Dells. Joining the couple in the wedding party, backrow from left to right: Kaitlyn Koenitzer, Lea Muche, Gary Koch, Courtney Koenitzer, Doug Ray, Katie and Will Koenitzer, Bethany Hurst, Adam Koch, Caroline Kohn, Kelsey Tighe, Cole Koenitzer. 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