May - Congregation Shir Ha
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May - Congregation Shir Ha
the Ma’alot May 2016 ● NISAN~IYAR 5776 MUSSAR: Judaism’s udaism’s Tools to be Our Best MODERATION Meringue “The luxuries we indulge in eventually come to seem to be necessities, as if we could not live without them.” Rabbi Israel Salanter Join Us for These Events & Much More! SHABBAT SERVICE With guest, Dr. Rachel Korazim Friday, May 13th 7:30 pm “Six Million Prosecutors” Annual Congregational Meeting Israel Celebration at SHM! Sunday, May 1st, 10 am Sunday, May 15th from 9:30 to 11:30 am Hot Challah Club Friday, May 6th, 6:30 pm Chai Society: Lunch & Speaker, Norm Witkin Living Room Learning Wednesday, May 18th,11:30 am Thursday, May 12th, 10 am A LIFETIME OF BELONGING Executive Committee Beth Carroll Co-president Rachel Harman-Friedman Co-president the Ma’alot Rabbi Richard M. Steinberg THE RONA PERLEY MEMORIAL SENIOR RABBINIC CHAIR Sharon Blindell Past President Rabbi Leah Lewis RABBI AND DIRECTOR OF LIFELONG LEARNING THE JAFFE FAMILY RABBINIC CHAIR Richard Sternberg Treasurer Cantor Arië Manela Shikler Heath Liner Secretary Charlotte Radziminsky 1st Vice-President Carole Frankel 2nd Vice-President Rod Stern 3rd Vice-President/Legal Board Members Marty Hart Sharlene Konowitch Jamie Evans David Susson Mickey Gubman Lisa Monette Shannon Coleman Bob Yonowitz Eileen Lenson Karen Brutman Jerry Silver Ellen Olshansky Linda Greene Ellen Winters Miller Debra Goldman Rob Fleishman Raschel Greenberg Teri Bassman Brotherhood David Teincuff, Co-President Brandon Mitchell, Co-president NaSHiM (SHM Women) Katherine Liner, Co-Chair Jamie Evans, Co-Chair 2 MAY 2016 THE HOLLANDER FAMILY CANTORIAL CHAIR Beth Shikler, M.S. Heather Rosenthal, M.A., Ed. THE LOEB FAMILY EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR CHAIR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL PRINCIPAL THE ALPERT-WALDMAN FAMILY EDUCATION CHAIR Stacy Bleiweis, M.B.A. MEMBERSHIP DIRECTOR Alon Rozen ISRAEL ENGAGEMENT COORDINATOR Lindsey Morlan, M.A. Kat Key Entzminger ASSISTANT TO RABBI LEWIS & EDUCATION DEPARTMENT Lynne Koffler BOOKKEEPER Lynda Cline OFFICE MANAGER/ASSISTANT TO RABBI STEINBERG AND CANTOR SHIKLER COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR/GRAPHIC DESIGN Lindsey Eskow Rabbi Bernie King, z”l YOUTH DIRECTOR FOUNDING RABBI SHABBAT SERVICES ~ MAY 2016 Friday, May 6th • 7 pm: Family Shabbat Service with Youth Friday Night Live! and 5th & 6th Grade particpation Friday, May 13th • 6 pm: Eat, Pray, L’Chaim dinner at Corner Bakery • 7:30 pm: Shabbat Service with Adult Choir and guest, Dr. Rachel Korazim “6 Million Prosecutors” Friday, May 20th • 6:30 pm: Tot Shabbat Service • 7:30 pm: Shabbat Service with Temple Musicians and Chasin Scholarship Recipients Friday, May 27th • 7:30 pm: Shabbat Service (Please note, there is no Friday Night Live! in May, please join us at the Cantor’s Concert on June 4th!) MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING FROM OUR SENIOR RABBI THE CHOICES OF TIME The Shehechiyanu prayer in our Jewish tradition is said at all joyous occasions and is translated as this, “Blessed are You, Lord our God, Ruler of the Universe, who has given us life, who sustains us and who has brought us to this very moment.” Judaism has always valued time as sacred and meaningful. The question is then: While Judaism might value time, do Jews and Jewish families? Do we value time? And there is only one way to answer that question and that is by looking at how we spend our time. who have to work and have no choice in that matter, we do have a choice in how we feel about the matter. We can re-frame anything so that our time is spent in appreciation, in love, and in furtherance of a goal. As the great American cartoonist, Bill Keane, wrote, “Yesterday’s the past, tomorrow’s the future, but today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present.” And that is the essence of the end of the Shecheyanu—“who has brought us to this very moment.” We can frame every moment as a gift. Last month I wrote about “not blinking” because time goes by too quickly. This month I would like to suggest that each of us gets a choice on how we understand each moment of our day. Assuming adults get between six and eight hours of sleep a day, that leaves sixteen to eighteen hours of awake moments in which we are in charge. The circumstances of our lives can be overwhelming at times. Things happen over which we have no control. But in those moments, or even shortly thereafter, we can choose how to feel about them. In psychotherapy, there is a relatively new modality called Narrative Therapy. Its basic premise is that we can write or rewrite any narrative we want about all the experiences of our lives. If someone has suffered trauma and they tell themselves the same narrative about the reasons for it, or even how to feel about it, they will be stuck in a negative spiral. But imagine taking the same traumatic event (same fact pattern) and re-writing how one feels about it. There is always more than one way to look at anything. And so it is with each moment of our days. We can write the story of how we want to live our lives. Life can be harsh. It can even be cruel. But we don’t have to choose to be harsh or cruel. Such events can make us compassionate or soft…it really is a choice. It is called being an adult. Children are more reactive—adults don’t have to be, if we don’t want to be. Now there are the “have to’s.” Most of us “have to” work to earn a living to support our families or are at home raising our families. So there may be no choice in where we spend our time during those hours of work, but we can choose how to feel about those hours. On the one hand I feel lucky, I wake up every morning excited to go to Temple (even on Saturday and Sunday mornings). I love my work, so choosing to feel happy here is easy for me. I know this is not the case for all people. Sometimes work can be a grind. Someone’s boss can be terrible. Work can be belittling. The list can be long for the reasons we don’t like work. Yet, the flip side of that coin is when one says to himself, “Well, I might not be enjoying this exact moment, but such work is paving the way for me to enjoy my time when I get home, when I go on vacation, when I send my kid to college…” The list is endless about how one understands their time. It is a matter of framing it. For those A LIFETIME OF BELONGING The 15th Century Jewish Italian commentator, Sforno, wrote this about time, “It is no coincidence that the commandment to sanctify time was given at the moment of freedom from Egypt. Slaves have no clear Rabbi Richard Steinberg The Rona Perley Memorial Senior Rabbinic Chair notion of time since it is not theirs to dispose of. Only free people, who have at least limited control over their time, can fill it with significant matters—and sanctify it. Thus, the concept of freedom and the sanctification of time are bound up with each other.” How we understand each moment of our lives is a choice. In that case, let’s choose to sanctify it with meaning. EAT, PRAY, L’CHAIM Nobody Goes to Services Alone at SHM! Friday, May 13th 6:00 pm dinner at Corner Bakery 7:30 pm Shabbat Service Make new friends, eat dinner together, attend services! This is a new friendship group designed for members who do not want to go to services alone. This is no longer an issue—there will always be someone to join you. At SHM, no one has to come to services alone. Contact Stacy at 949-857-2226 for more information. MAY 2016 3 FROM OUR CANTOR sweet soul and a great sense of humor with a Yogi Berra kind of twist to it. He always spoke directly, honestly, and with sophisticated simplicity. Tommy had the old values; polite, respectful, and proper. He had a unique walk, leading with his toes and I could recognize him from far away. I ran into him in Laguna many times on foot or on his bicycle cruising the streets. Cantor Arie Shikler The Hollander Family Cantorial Chair I moved to North Laguna Beach at the beginning of 1994 and lived in a cottage on Aster Street. It is located just two blocks from the Coast Highway up the hill from Las Brisas restaurant. Shortly after moving there I discovered a cliff above a local surfing point called Rockpile. Whenever I could I would hike down there and sit up high on a piece of the cliff that was shaped like a tractor seat and watch the surfers. When Tommy was in the water he had a distinct style as well. Having a chronic bad back he would paddle out sitting on his knees. He used a long board and had a place for it inside his studio hanging horizontally under the ceiling. We would talk after he came out of the water to the beach about life, music and the world. One time we were in a middle of a deep discussion when a guy who knew Tom climbed up to join us uninvited. He proceeded to dominate the conversation in a hyper kind of way until Tom said, ”you might be one of the greatest minds of our time, but your time is up!” The guy left right away. I’ll never forget that. That is as my wife says, a “Tommyism”. Tom was funny and witty. When I gave him a chart for the song “Yedid Nefesh” he quipped “Yo dead no fish”. He loved the ocean and all of nature and was very knowledgeable about it. Rockpile, like its name suggests is a dangerous place to surf if you don’t know the layout of the rocks under the surface of the water. The locals knew how to navigate the treacherous trail avoiding them with incredible skill. When the waves were not in abundance, a surfer would have to be in the right place at the right time to catch one. After a while I noticed that one surfer, a suntanned blond guy in his late 30’s or early 40’s was always finding the waves as if the ocean told him where the next one was. One day he came up the cliff and we started talking. I told him what I do and he told me he is a bass player. A friendship started right there at Rockpile with Tom (Tommy) Rizzo who lived down the street from me off an alley behind what was then The Cottage Restaurant. Tommy joined our Friday Night Live band from the start and was also a regular at my concerts for the last sixteen years. He lived in a tiny studio apartment with a green parakeet bird (Nuwee), his instruments, and recording equipment, bicycle, books and cd’s all neatly organized. He could survive on the absolute minimum and was positive and happy. Fixing and tinkering with items others didn’t want, Tom made them work again. He had a 4 MAY 2016 Tom Rizzo with the Friday Night Live! band at our service on March 25th. Tom is the second from the left on bass guitar. Years ago he kept a kayak in Boat Canyon in Laguna and since he didn’t live in that neighborhood, had it hidden with other boats that were stored there. He took me for a ride to north Laguna in the kayak. He had it outfitted to have a sail but that day we just used oars. On the way Tommy would stand in the open kayak with amazing balance and look at the water around us. “Look! A garibaldi fish on the right side” he pointed out. We rowed all the way to a cave in the north part and back. I was so sore that day but I had so much fun with him. Tom was a loyal friend, generous with his time and always ready to help. When my great nephew came to spend the summer with us a few years ago, Tom taught him how to surf. He gave him a spare wet-suit to use in the cold Pacific waters. He also took under his wing a group of young Hispanics from Santa Ana who wanted to learn how to surf. He talked about them like a proud father. For a while, until we moved from Aster Street, I would pick him up on the way to the temple for Friday Night Live rehearsal. He insisted on loading the huge amplifier for his bass into my car by himself. Tom was always well prepared for the music and very reliable. We’d be driving Laguna Canyon and Tommy would tell me stories of growing up in Laguna. He loved to describe that as a youngster he saw Jimmy Hendrix and Timothy Leary walking down by Canyon Acres and talking. He told how he and his friends would speed on skateboards from the Top of the World hill down to the Coast Highway without helmets, long hair flying in the wind. He would talk about Hawaii, his favorite place to go, and his love for Hawaiian music. The last Friday Night Live we played together was March 25th. At the meal we had before services Tom told us his dad will turn 96 soon. I told him he has good genes. Little did I know that two days later Tom would die while riding his bicycle in Trabuco Canyon. He had a heart attack and was found still straddling his bike. We were all in a shock. He had no known medical issues, just a recent hip replacement. As the days went by, the reality settled in that the sweet man with the golden heart is gone. There’s an anonymous saying “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.” Tom was one of those friends. His father Tony worked for MacDonald Douglas. When Tom was growing up, the family moved from California to London, England. His father recalls that Tom, who was twelve at the time, always liked high places and when in Paris climbed all the way up the Eiffel Tower and even found a way to climb the arch of the Champs Elyses. Well, now Tom has reached the highest place in heaven. May his goodness, love of nature, people, and music accompany him on his way. As long as we live Tom will live in our hearts and memory. And he was, is, and will be a blessing. MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot presents 2016 Cantor ’s Concert Father & Son Still Rockin’ Saturday, June 4th, 2016 at 7:00 pm Cantor Arie Shikler and Gidon Shikler Gold Patron $360 Includes 1 Reserved Parking Space, 2 Reserved Seats & Patron Listing Patron $180 with special guest, Duvid Swirsky of the Moshav Band & Distant Cousins Includes 2 Reserved Seats & Patron Listing General Admission $18 ($20 at the door) RSVP before May 30, 2016 online at www.shmtemple.org or call the Temple at 949-857-2226 A LIFETIME OF BELONGING MAY 2016 5 FROM OUR CO-PRESIDENTS ANNUAL CONGREGATION MEETING BY BETH CARROLL The Annual Congregation Meeting took place on May 1, 2016. This article summarizes the information that is being presented to those present from the Congregation. Given that we write our articles ahead of the month, the outcome of the meeting is to be determined as of right now. We’ll briefly summarize the results of the meeting in the June Ma’alot. Budget 2016-2017 will be an unusual year for the Temple due to the impact of the Building Program. There are a number of expense items that are uncertain, such as maintenance, power, landscaping, that will be limited due to the building. There are also expected to be offsetting impacts to such items as facilities rental income, which is severely limited since we will be out of our building for much of the year. In our tradition, we are always very conservative in the budgeting process, this year is no exception. Our underlying assumptions: We have planned for zero growth in membership and 91% retention rate; we will see a slight drop in headcount in religious school; and we use a 3% inflationary assumption on most line items. Our fiscal year runs from July 1, 2016 – June 30, 2017 – “2017” refers to this period. Income • Member contribution will be held flat for 2017. Member family counts will remain about the same with modest additions and 91% retention rate, based on historical experience. The budget for 2017 has decreased $27,000 from the prior year. • Religious school tuition will be held flat for 2017. Given an expected impact to the school program of building activities, a decrease in revenue of $45,000 from the prior year is budgeted. • Fund raisers other than the Gala have been reduced as a result of the building activities, including Community Seder, Chanukah and 6 MAY 2016 Sukkot related programs. This reduced the budget from the previous year by $12,000. Expenses • Non-contract employees, including administrative and maintenance staff are budgeted for a slight increase over prior year - $3,000. Beth Carroll & Rachel Harman-Friedman Temple Co-Presidents • The school salaries will be reduced slightly due to reduced teacher days, resulting in a savings of $6,000 in 2017. • All other salaries are budgeted according to contractual obligations and will increase about $91,000. This includes moving the Principal to full time for the year to assist with the school logistics that are very complicated due to the building activities. • Fewer school activities over this building year, and this being an off year for the family retreat, results in a reduction in budget of $21,000 from 2016 to 2017. • Fundraising expenses will be reduced as many activities are deferred (see Income above), saving us $10,000. • Facilities expenses will also be reduced due to the building activities and we anticipate a savings of $17,000. In addition, Building Maintenance budget – a place holder we put in the budget each year for emergency maintenance, is being reduced by $30,000. Net Budget Summary 2016-2017 budget carries a $187,000 deficit which will be funded out of the Temple Reserve Fund should this deficit materialize. For clarity, the Reserve Fund is listed on our financial statements as Building Fund – which is confusing since we also have a Capital Campaign Fund that is totally separate for the new facility and renovation of our current facility – it currently has $3,400,000 in the bank. The Temple’s reserve is adequately funded to manage this deficit. The 2017 budget compares with the deficit of $84,000 budgeted for 2016 (projecting around a $70,000 actual deficit for 2016). We are very conservative, but with this building year, there may be unexpected savings or expenses that we will keep our eyes on closely. We will continue to ask for the Congregation’s support of our operating fund at High Holy Days as well as continued investment in our future through the Capital Campaign. Building Program Update The final item on the agenda for the 2016 Congregation Meeting is the Building Program update. 2016 has been an exciting year for this program and there is tons of good news to share. We have been including an update in the monthly Ma’alot, so only the latest highlights are listed here. • The Conditional Use Permit (CUP) was filed with the modifications for the current plans and all was approved by the City of Irvine. (Special thanks to Ed Horvitz for seeing this through the process with the city and coordinating with the various consultants, architects and engineering groups to make this happen!) • The domusgroup, our architects, have achieved Continued on page 12 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING 2016-2017 Slate of Nominees Executive Committee Name Role Term Exp. Caroll, Beth Co-President 2018 Harman-Friedman, Rachel Co-President 2018 Blindell, Sharon Past President 2018 Sternberg, Richard Treasurer 2018 Liner, Heath Secretary 2018 Radziminsky, Charlotte 1st VP 2018 Frankel, Carole 2nd VP 2018 Stern, Rod 3rd VP–Legal 2018 Board of Trustees Position 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 Name Hart, Marty Monette, Lisa Yonowitz, Bob Lenson, Eileen Brutman, Karen Silver, Jerry Greene, Linda Winters Miller, Ellen Goldman, Debra Fleishman, Rob Greenberg, Raschel Bassman, Teri Mitchell, Stephanie Teincuff, David Evans, Jamie Susson, David Gubman, Mickey Van de Merghel, Laura Term Exp. 2017 2017 2017 2017 2017 2017 2018 2018 2018 2018 2018 2018 2019 2019 2019 2019 2019 2019 A LIFETIME OF BELONGING Annual Congregational Meeting Sunday, May 1st, 10:00 am This is your chance to hear from our Board of Trustees regarding the state of the Temple and vote for measures that are up for consideration for 2016 (please review the slate of nominees on this page). If you are not able to attend the meeting, please submit your proxy (one per family) online at shmtemple.org or call the office at 949-857-2226. Chai Society: Lunch & Speaker series NORM WITKIN Wednesday, May 18th at 11:30 am SHM member and author Norm Witkin will talk with the group about writing his book, The Stadium Murder, a thriller and murder mystery using traditional means of analysis, enhanced, surprisingly by Sukoku puzzle-solving techniques. Norm is retired from his career in computer systems development and programming applications. All of those bits and bytes led to his love of numbers and the challenge of Sudoku. Lunch is $5 per person, please register right away as we need to know how many to plan for. RSVP online at www.shmtemple.org or call 949-857-2226. Living Room Learning location to be announced Thursday, May 12th at 10:00 am This program, designed for women, will cover timely issues, concerns, and topics in a safe, intimate, and warm environment. No fee, however registration is requested so that we may know how many to expect. RSVP online at www.shmtemple.org or call the temple office at 949-857-2226. MAY 2016 7 Construction Update MAKING DREAMS COME TRUE C O N G R E G AT I O N S H I R H A - M A’ A LO T BUILDING CAMPAIGN SAVE THE DATE! Ground-breaking Ceremony at SHM Friday, Sept. 30th, 2016 • Received CUP (Conditional Use Permit) from the City of Irvine – huge accomplishment enabling us to move forward with our project • Issued a Request for Proposal to 8 construction companies; received proposals from 5, and interviewed the top 3 candidates • Chose Oltmans Construction Co. We feel it is imperative to get the construction manager on board as soon as possible. They will participate early on by studying the design, looking for pitfalls and converting the drawings into lists of required materials. Items with long lead times will be ordered as early as possible. • Our architects are domusstudios. Please look at their website to see other projects they have designed (dommusstudio.com). Mormon Center at 23 Lake Rd, Irvine What will happen during Construction for services? • Friday night Shabbat Services will be held at the Mormon Center on Lake Street between Barranca and Alton in Irvine—they have graciously agreed to allow us to share their space, for the year that we must be out of the building, as a goodwill offering of their hearts. • Festivals & holidays: Some shared services will be with Temple Bat Yahm, others to be held at the the Mormon Center • Sukkot will be celebrated in individual communities. • Purim at Boomers!!! • Torah Study will be at the Mormon Center • Bar/Bat Mitzvah services will be at Mormon Center, however, some families are renting other venues for their Bar/Bat Mitzvah services (just for Saturday morning—all Friday nights are at the Mormon Center). When will construction begin? • Ground-breaking Ceremony is September 30th, 2016. • Although, of course, High Holy Days will be at our Temple, the building will close the day after Yom Kippur and construction will begin the following week. • Construction fences will be brought in the day after Yom Kippur. 8 MAY 2016 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING Where will the staff and Religious School be? • The temple staff will be housed in a portable trailer on the temple grounds. • Sunday school will be at a local Irvine Unified School District School (contract still being negotiated). • Tuesday night Hebrew and High School will be at the Conference Center above the Irvine Lanes alley on Michelson. When will we be allowed back into the building? • The renovation of our existing building and the construction of the new building will take place simultaneously. The renovation will be much shorter in duration. The hope is that at some point during the year we will be able move the school into the newly renovated building. Whether or not this will be allowed will be determined by the City of Irvine. • The plan is to hold our High Holy Days services in our new sanctuary, September 20th, 2017 A LIFETIME OF BELONGING Conference Center above Irvine Bowl 3415 Michelson, Irvine How much money have we raised? How much will the building cost? • We have pledged/raised over $9 million dollars towards our budget of $10 mil. • We are still in the process of reaching our goal—but the building is being designed in such a way that if we don’t raise the needed amount, the plans are designed to be built in phases, if needed. MAY 2016 9 Adult Learning Welcome New Member Lisa Rose Condolences to… Hope Snyder on the death of her brother, Josh Rubell Lynne Snyder on the death of her father, Irving Lerner Robert Allen on the death of his mother, Estelle Allen John Tharp on the death of his brother, Paul McCullough Arie Shikler on the death of his friend and band mate, Tom Rizzo Adult B’nai Mitzvah Taught by Rabbi Steinberg Sundays at 10:30 am Meets: May 1st, 15th, 22nd Torah Study with Rabbi Steinberg and Rabbi Lewis Saturdays at 8:30 am Meets: 5/7, 5/14, 5/21, 5/28 Each week our Torah portion invites us to search our souls for meaning, memories, mitzvah, and lessons on how to be a mentsch. We read the Torah over and over again each year as we gain more insight into its depth. Study with the Rabbis the weekly Torah portion and you will have inspiration for the week to come. C O N G R E G AT I O N S H I R H A - M A’A L O T New Monthly Program at SHM! Everyone is invited to join us at: Peter Cohen on the death of his father, Sy Cohen Krav Maga Class Sheila Hornback and Andrea Martin on the death of their uncle, Selim Bati Every 3rd Wednesday of the month beginning, Louise Beckerman on the death of her brother, Lester Kaplan May 18th at 6:30 pm Join us at the temple for an evening of Israeli Self Defense instruction with a Krav Maga of OC instructor. No experience is necessary and all ability levels are welcome! Wear workout clothing. Mouthguard and/or cup recommended. No fee for the event, however RSVP to the Temple office at 949-857-2226 or online at www.shmtemple.org is appreciated 10 MAY 2016 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING MAY 2016 ~ MODERATION/xxx Sunday 1 Monday 2 No Religious School 15 Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 3 4 5 6 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 5:30 pm - Yom HaShoah Service 6:30 pm - Temple Musicians 6:30 pm - Hot Challah Club 8:30 am - Torah Study 7 pm - Family Shabbat 10 am - Bar Mitzvah of Service with Youth Michael Wein Friday Night Live! and 5th & 6th Grade 9 10 11 12 13 9:30 am - Mah Jongg 6:45 pm - Adult Choir 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 6:30 pm - Mussar “Graduation” Dinner 5 pm - 7th Grade BMC 7 pm - Women’s Support 5 pm - 8th-10th Grade Group Classes 5:30 pm - Confirmation Rehersal 6:30 pm - 11th & 12th Grade Class 7:30 pm - SHMoFTY Board 7:30 pm - Men’s Spirituality Group 8 am - Religious School 9:30 am - Mah Jongg 9:15 am - Torah Time for 6:45 pm - Adult Choir Tots 10 am - Annual Congregational Meeting 10:30 am - Adult B’nai Mitzvah 8 Tuesday 16 7 14 10 am - Living Room 6:30 pm - Eat, Pray, 8:30 am - Torah Study Learning L’Chaim Dinner at 10 am - Bar Mitzvah of Corner Bakery 6:30 pm - Temple Ethan Cohen Musicians 7:30 pm - Shabbat Service 7 pm - All Youth Groups with Adult Choir and 7 pm - Brotherhood: Year End Event Israel Independence Day special guest, Dr. Rachel Korazim “Above & Beyond” 17 18 19 20 21 8 am - Religious School 9:30 am - Mah Jongg 9:15 am - Torah Time for 6:45 pm - Adult Choir Tots 9:30 am - Israel Celebration 10:30 am - Adult B’nai Mitzvah 4:15 pm - Last Day of Hebrew School 6:30 pm - B’nai Mitzvah Workshop 6:30 pm - Board of Education Meeting 11:30 am - Chai Society: Lunch & Speaker, Athor Norm Witkin “Sudoku” 6:30 pm - Krav Maga Class 6:30 pm - Temple Musicians 6:30 pm - Tot Shabbat 7:30 pm - Shabbat Service with Temple Musicians and Chasin Scholarship Recipients 8:30 am - Torah Study 10 am - Bat Mitzvah of Julia Hoch 22 24 25 26 27 28 7:30 pm - Shabbat Service 8:30 am - Torah Study 10 am - Bar Mitzvah of Braden Goldman 23 7:30 - 9 am - Brotherhood 9:30 am - Mah Jongg Pancake Breakfast 6:45 pm - Adult Choir 8 am - Religious School 9:15 am - Torah Time for Tots 4 pm - Madrichim Pool Party 5 pm - Adult B’nai Mitzvah 29 30 31 Memorial Day Office Closed 5 pm - Confirmation Rehearsal A LIFETIME OF BELONGING MAY 2016 11 Presidents from page 6 50% completion on the detailed design of the new facility and renovation of the existing facility. New renderings are posted in the Temple lobby for everyone to view. The innovative design takes into account our desire to maximize the use of our space, take advantage of our current structure, bring the outdoors and Southern California weather into our design, and welcome our Congregation and visitors with an inviting and warm place to belong. In addition, the facility is purpose built to allow us to generate revenue from renting school space and event space when it is not needed for use by our Congregation. • After a very robust screening process led by the core Building team and Gafcon including a lengthy RFP submission, walkthroughs, interviews and presentations, bidding and a fact based selection process using weighted criteria and responses by 20 candidates, we have selected a general contractor. Oltmans Construction Company, based in Whittier, California have already joined our team and bring their heritage of building excellence to our program. They have extensive worship space experience and the team aligned with our project have an average of 20 years of experience in the industry. • The transition plan is well under way with Beth Shikler leading the team to work on everything from our temporary spaces and moving plans. Thus far, we have confirmed that we will be holding both Friday night and Saturday morning services at the Mormon Church located on Lake Road in Irvine. The church has graciously invited us to use worship space and the social hall for our needs throughout the construction project. • All our B’nai Mitzvah families have been personally contacted and kept in the loop on the impact of the building activities on their plans. The Temple is working with each family to ensure that they are well informed, well taken care of, and have a terrific Bar or Bat Mitzvah experience during this time of building. • Details around Sunday school, meeting spaces, and temporary quarters for our staff are still being finalized. We are also working on 12 MAY 2016 CONGREGATION SHIR HA-MA’ALOT SHABBAT SERVICE With guest, Dr. Rachel Korazim Friday, May 13th 7:30 pm “Six Million Prosecutors” On May 23rd 1960, Prime Minister David Ben Gurion had announced to the Knesset that the Israeli secret service had located and brought to Israel Adolf Eichmann, one of the top Nazi officers responsible for the systematic murder of European Jewry during the Holocaust. In the following months Israel was getting ready for the trial. Our session will look at this period through the lenses of the literary expression; capturing the early phases of a crucial change in the Holocaust narrative in the Israeli society. creative ways to keep everyone connected during this building time and will be leveraging many unique and innovative approaches to gathering during the year. More to come on these important details. • Sharon Blindell and Beth Shikler, along with Ed Horvitz, have tirelessly worked with the myriad of consultants, architects, the city, our Congregants, our clergy and others to continue to maintain our vision and move this program along at a pace that puts us in great shape to break ground right after Yom Kippur 2016. Watch your mail for an invitation to the ground breaking, which will be a wonderful event for our entire Temple. 2016-2017 is shaping up to be a banner year for Shir Ha-Ma’alot. My co-president, Rachel Harmen and I are thrilled to see the progress we’ve made thus far and excited to be part of the special things going on here at SHM. The vision Rabbi Steinberg As a teacher at some of Israel’s most distinguished education institutions, Dr. Rachel Korazim will bring her incredible insights on early Zionism, the Holocaust and Israeli poetry. Born in Israel, Dr. Korazim is a graduate of Haifa University with a Ph.D. in Jewish Education and currently teaches at various institutions including The Hebrew University of Jerusalem and the Shalom Hartman Institute. paints of our warm and welcoming Congregation, his leadership in this transformational journey, and creativity in working through the challenges of running Temple programs in the midst of a building program are inspiring. Rachel and I just returned from the Women’s Seder this evening where we were inspired by the spiritually uplifting Seder led by Rabbi Lewis, the music from Julie Silver (thank you Gift Shop for bringing Julie to us for this special event!) and the community of women that is so strong and vibrant here. Think about what we will do in our newly minted facility – more space, better acoustics, a remodeled kitchen…we are going to shine! Rachel and I look forward to spending 2016-2017 with the wonderful Temple staff and clergy, building a brilliant future. MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING CONGREGATION SHIR HA-MA’ALOT YOM HASHOAH SERVICE HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANC REMEMBRANCE E DAY WEDNESDAY, MAY 4TH AT 5:30 PM Join us for an evening of memory and mitzvah for 6 million souls. On Holocaust Remembrance Day, Yom HaShoah, we will join as an inter-generational community to keep the memory alive of those who were killed in the Holocaust, and honor the lives of the survivors of the Shoah. As we remember, we can inspire from one generation to the next; L’Dor V’Dor. Visit the Shir Ha-Ma’alot Booth! Celebrate Israel Sunday, May 22, 2016 At the Merage JCC, 1 Federation Way, Irvine, CA 92603 Presented in partnership Co-sponsored by: CO N G R E G AT I O N SHIR HA-MA’ALOT A LIFETIME OF BELONGING MAY 2016 13 Rabbi Bernie King Mitzvah Projects ~ B’nai Mitzvah Students Michael Wein May 7, 2016 Son of Shayna & Larry Wein I attend: Corona del Mar Middle School I enjoy: Football, basketball, surfing Mitzvah Project: Collected backpacks, school supplies, and writing journals for Orangewood Children’s Home Ethan Cohen May 14, 2016 Son of Bill & Dana Cohen I attend: Pioneer Middle School I enjoy: Spending time with my family and friends, playing basketball, golf and guitar Mitzvah Project: Collected sports equipment for underpriviledged youth in the community Hot Challah Club Friday, May 6th Make the challah: 6:30 pm Service: 7:00 pm Come just a few minutes before services to nourish your body as well as your soul. We invite people of all ages to make a challah and while you are at services, the challah will bake. As you leave for home after the Oneg, you will have a fresh challah to enjoy for the Sabbath. YOUTH GROUPS @ SHM (Register online at shmtemple.org/Events & RSVP or follow the link in your email notice. See you there!) Julia Hoch May 21, 2016 Daughter of Holly & Ben Hoch I attend: Tarbut V’Torah I enjoy: Volleyball, friends and family Mitzvah Project: Raised money for St. Judes through the Blacklight Run team, “Julia’s Jammers” Braden Goldman May 28, 2016 Son of Debra & Jeremy Goldman I attend: Jeffrey Trail Middle School I enjoy: Baseball, basketball, swimming, video games, and camp Mitzvah Project: Raised funds to donate electronics for teens to use while recovering from heart surgery at Children’s Hospital LA All Youth Groups: End of Year Event! SHManimal Kingdom! Saturday, May 14th, 6:00 to 10:00 pm Join your youth group friends in grades 2-12 for an animalthemed celebration of the incredible year we have had this past year! Live animals, face painting, games, delicious food, and so much more! It’s guaranteed to be a fun time for all ages. Come dressed as your favorite animal and be prepared to get wild! 2nd to 7th grades get picked up at 8:30 pm 8th to 12th grades get picked up at 10:00 pm Madrichim Pool Party! Sunday, May 22nd, 4:00 pm Event Photography by Gidon Over 20 years of experience capturing the intimate, spontaneous and joyous moments of your special day Gidon Shikler Join all the Madrichim for a pool party to celebrate an amazing year of religious school and to thank you all for your hard work this year! Keep an eye out for an email with more details and a sign-up link from Lindsey. 407.760.5734 • [email protected] www.gidonphoto.com 14 MAY 2016 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING SCHOOL NEWS K-W-L…Three simple letters that have profound impact on education. Starting with the youngest learners, K-W-L charts are an effective tool for teaching because they are built upon a belief that students come to any learning experience with pre-existing knowledge. That knowledge is the starting point. Before any information is taught, teachers ask: What do you know? Once that information is articulated, teachers ask a second question: About what do you wonder? What, about this topic, regardless of the topic, makes you curious? Finally, upon nearing the completion of a unit of study on that particular topic, teachers ask: What have you learned? K – Know. W – Wonder. L – Learn. It is a powerful tool for teaching because it enables educators to assess the learning process on any given topic. This month, as we bring this Religious School year to a close, we do so knowing that this has been a year filled with new things; a new program, a new schedule, a new principal, many new students and new faculty members. And in the spirit of education, we ought to reflect on the year as students of Jewish education and Jewish engagement. K-W-L. K – Before our new program was created, we knew that to be a Jewish young person in our world today takes effort. We knew that our students and their families lead busy, if not hectic lives and to continue to engage them, our program needed to be compelling. We knew that our Religious School is the largest in Orange County - more than twice the size of the second largest Religious School. That means that our youth community is filled with potential for Jewish excitement and Jewish connection. We knew what the research had taught us. Namely, that providing students and families with meaningful Jewish experiences has a lasting impact on their Jewish identities. W – Before we began, we wondered what it would be like to bring our entire community of children and teens together at the same time. Would we be able to show our students that they are, in fact, an integral part of a vibrant Jewish youth community? We wondered whether we could supplement the texts taught in the classrooms with the texts of experiences that awaken the students’ senses – A LIFETIME OF BELONGING experiences like cooking and drama, art and music, teva (nature and teambuilding exercises) and Hebrew taught through movement. We wondered how we could make Hebrew a point of Jewish pride and connection for our students. L – One school year into this program, we are at the point of asking the next question: What have we learned? The answer is clear – we have learned more than we ever imagined, and the lessons of this pilot year will continue to reveal themselves as we plan the details for the year ahead. In the meantime, here are just a few of the highlights: Rabbi Leah Lewis The Jaffe Family Rabbinic Chair • We learned during our Simchat Torah celebration that our entire Religious School, including our youngest students, when standing in a giant circle around the sanctuary and atrium, can carefully hold the length of the Torah scroll so that the beginning of Genesis and the end of Deuteronomy are near each other. • We learned that the middot (soul traits) of Mussar can, in fact, be taught through the various media of our chuggim. ‘Order’ in cooking, ‘patience’ in art, ‘respect’ in drama, ‘truth’ in music, are just a few of the lessons our students learned through experience. • We learned that our entire Religious School, from our Torah Time for Tots two-year-olds and our high school seniors and everyone in between can sing together, pray together and share personal blessings during tefillah. • At Chanukah time, we learned that some of the best latkes come from our youth, as well as from Trader Joe’s (tune in for the next latke cook-off)! they will continue to choose a Jewish life for themselves and the generations that follow. In an ongoing effort to enhance our program, we will use our learning to make tweaks and adjustments in the coming year. Watch for next year’s Religious School brochure, and for more information about temporary location changes while our building is under construction. And remember that regardless of where we hold Religious School, our SHM community will continue to be a vibrant, caring and engaging home away from home for your students and for you. • We learned that our madrichim (8th through 12th graders) are filled with an immense level of commitment, responsibility and joy. They are role models for our younger students, and they model the value of commitment to their synagogue. The Book of Proverbs teaches, “Educate children in the way they should go, and even when they are old, they will not depart from it” (22:6). Our teachers and staff work diligently to be partners with you, the families, to keep students connected to the traditions, the heritage, the language, the sacred stories and community so that as they grow, MAY 2016 15 CONGREGATION SHIR HA-MA’ALOT SHARE IN SHAVUOT SUNDAY, JUNE 12TH SERVICE AT SHM WITH MEMBERS FROM TEMPLE BAT YAHM 10:45 AM We will join together with Temple Bat Yahm to celebrate Shavuot morning and observe Yizkor. Come and join us and the clergy (from both temples) to share in this community service of friendship, learning, joy, and celebration. “Your People Shall Be My People” Join us for an evening of study, celebration…and, of course, cheesecake! 7:00-9:00pm With special guest, Rabbi Stephen Einstein, in celebration of 40 years teaching Introduction to Judaism in Orange County 16 MAY 2016 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING Brotherhood CELEBRATE ISRAEL’S INDEPENDENCE WITH A SPECIAL MOVIE In 1948, a group of American Jewish pilots answered a call for help. In secret and at great personal risk, they smuggled planes out of the U.S., trained behind the Iron Curtain in Czechoslovakia and flew for Israel in its War of Independence. “Above and Beyond” is their story. Thank You… With immense gratitude to our hard-working 2016 Women’s Seder committee: Emily Ball, co-chair Ellyn Fishman Shira Kfir Jamie Evans, co-chair Wendy Gary Melissa Neuman Lisa Monette, co-chair Lysa Goldstein Lori Schwartz Belinda Averill Dianne Golden Robbie Smith Teri Bassman Paula Greenberger Robin Teincuff Brenda Colgate Marcie Howard Hara Waldman …and special thanks to the SHM Gift Shop, Ellyn Fishman and Robin Teincuff, Gift Shop co-chairs, for so generously sponsoring this day with our guest, Julie Silver. Thursday, May 12th 6:30 pm at SHM Please join us for this powerful and inspirational movie. The film was produced by Nancy Spielberg, sister of Steven Spielberg and special effect by Industrial Light and Magic. Light movie refreshments will be served. RSVP to 949-857-2226 or online at www.shmtemple.org Thanks, as well, to all of the women who added to the seder by providing charoset and eggs and helped to set the beautiful tables. They include all of the above, as well as: Aviva Forster Harriet Malmon Sheila Hornback Andrea Martin Sharlene Konowich Maureen Taub Israel Celebration Sunday, May 15th 10:30–11:30 am Join us as we celebrate the birthday of Israel and come together as one community. We will sing, dance, eat and celebrate Israel with an interactive assembly in the sanctuary followed by a festive, carnival-style celebration!! There is no fee for this event, however reservations are appreciated. RSVP to 949-857-2226 or online at www.shmtemple.org A LIFETIME OF BELONGING MAY 2016 17 Thank You… We would like to say thank you to all of the bakers who made the hamentashen for our PURIM Carnival! Lori Levine Marci Helfman Marla Roth Charlotte Pinsky Steve Secofsky Diana Cantor Susanna Wolfe Robin Saltzer Mindy Zive Ellen Arrow Hope Snyder Serah Lukoff Night Live! Friday, mAY 6TH 7:00 pm Featuring Youth Choir & B’nai Ha-Shirim Band C O N G R E G AT I O N SHIR HA-MA’ALOT 3652 Michelson Drive • Irvine, CA 92612 949-857-2226 • www.shmtemple.org SHM Bakes: Delicious recipes from our Temple Bakers Pecan Tassie FILLING Submitted by Thilde Peterson 1 egg 1/2 cup dark brown sugar, well packed 1/4 cup granulated sugar PASTRY 1 cup all-purpose flour 6 Tbls frozen butter (salted) cut into 1 Tbls pieces 2 Tbls sugar 1 egg yolk 1 Tbls cold water 1/8 Tsp salt 1. Place all ingredients in a food processor. Turn on and off rapidly until a ball of dough forms on the blades. 2. Roll out the dough on a flat lightly floured cold surface. With a round cookie cutter, cut the dough into circles that fit the wells of your miniature muffin tin, like a lining. 18 MAY 2016 1 Tbls melted butter 1 tsp vanilla extract 1 cup chopped pecans 1/8 tsp salt 1. Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees 2. Combine all ingredients in a bowl until well mixed. 3. Spoon mixture into each dough lined well of the mini muffin tin. 4. Bake for 25 minutes or until golden brown. 5. Cool on a baking rack and remove from pan. 6. Keep in an airtight lined tin can away from heat, cold. Warm up in oven or microwave. Great with coffee or tea. MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING Tzedakah Donations RABBI STEINBERG’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Lori Schwartz & Bert White, thank you for leading us to Spain and AIPAC Lloyd Sellinger in honor of my Bar Mitzvah Bill & Dana Cohen and Family in honor of Ethan Cohen’s Bar Mitzvah RABBI LEWIS’ DISCRETIONARY FUND David & Tracy Northup, thank you for blessing our love and our home, and for making our housewarming so special Ina Zeleznick, thank you for listening Bill & Dana Cohen and Family in honor of Ethan Cohen’s Bar Mitzvah Lisa & Marc Monette, thank you for making the boys’ Bar Mitzvah weekend so memorable CANTOR SHIKLER’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Bill & Dana Cohen and Family in honor of Ethan Cohen’s Bar Mitzvah Lori Schwartz & Bert White, thank you for leading us to Spain Lloyd Sellinger in honor of my Bar Mitzvah ALEX ZELEZNICK CHILDREN’S FUND Ina Zeleznick, Tzedakah donation CULTURAL ARTS/FNL FUND Bob Wolf in memory of Jeremy Schine’s special uncle, Nathan Schine GENERAL FUND The Franklin Family, wishing a speedy recovery to Sharon Blindell The Franklin Family, wishing a speedy recovery to Cmeron Allen Marina & Rick Slepack in honor of our son, Sammy Barbara & Dave Sylvan in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Lloyd Sellinger Wendy Gary, wishing Jamie Evans all the best Lynne & Steve Koffler in honor of Lloyd Sellinger’s Bar Mitzvah Lynne & Steve Koffler, congratulations to David Teincuff on his conversion JESSICA HERRON SHARING FUND CARING Jann Glasser in honor of Arie, just because Lori Schwartz & Bert White in memory of Josh Rubell Hara Waldman in appreciation to Karen Busch for facilitating our Mussar Group Susan Miller, sponsoring a family for Passover Barbara King, sponsoring a family for Passover A LIFETIME OF BELONGING LIBRARY FUND Debbie Spielman in memory of Ida Rachlow ONEG FUND Barbara King, Tzedakah donation YOUTH GROUP FUND Debbie Spielman in memory of Daniel Spielman Steve Tobenkin in memory of Goldie Pommer YAHRZEIT FUND anet Lawrence & Greg Berkowitz in memory of Nathan Berkowitz Esther Kettler in memory of Oscar Kettler Ted O’Connor in memory of Colonel TJ O’Connor Connie O’Connor in memory of Charlotte Slutsky Joan Weiss in memory of Canissa Sanders Gladys Wilson in memory of Clara Wilson Gladys Wilson in memory of Louis Goldberg Martine Speckler in memory of Georges Bitoun Bruce Gary in memory of Max Gary Darryn Lowenstein in memory of Joyce Miller Jerri Loeb in memory of Louis Silver Jerri Loeb in memory of Sol Loeb Edward Kramer in memory of Allan Kramer Patti Kramer in memory of Stanley Wolfe Richard Plon in memory of Ruth Plon John Tharp in memory of Nancy Tharp Sasha Erlik in memory of Alfred Ehrlich Bob Kaitz in memory of Beatrice Kaitz Bob Kaitz in memory of Lea Kates Karp Roger Friedman in memory of Alan Friedman Bob Sterman in memory of Rose Sterman Andrea Weinstein in memory of Leonard Dubow Sonya Shvartsman in memory of Liza Kuperman Oskar Shvartsman in memory of Aekady Shvartsman Larry Stahl in memory of Gussie Leiner Judy Hubbard in memory of Abe Bass Esther Kalin in memory of Gregorio Leibovich Ina Zeleznick in memory of Marvin Starr Sid Kuperberg in memory of Michael Gilman Sid Kuperberg in memory of Herman Kuperberg Diane Hoffman in memory of Dr. Robert Baker Jeremy Speizer in memory of Stanford Speizer Harriet Raff in memory of Joseph Kapner Ed Horovitz in memory of Roland Horovitz Zinaida Heynman in memory of Yetusiel Tsynkin Jeffrey Brenner and the Brenner Family in memory of Laura Brenner Sponsor a Student Susan Miller in honor of Helaine Goldstein’s special birthday Capital Campaign Darin& Sharon Blindell, thank you to Rabbi Steinberg for an amazing and inspring experience in Spain Carol & Terry Applebury in honor of Andrew & Gabrielle Applebury’s temple membership Carol & Terry Applebury, Happy 27th Birthday Andrew Applebury with love from Mom & Dad and family MAY 2016 19 NON-PROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID NEWPORT BEACH, CA PERMIT NO. 272 C O N G R E G AT I O N SHIR HAMA’ALOT 3652 Michelson Drive • Irvine, CA 92612 (949) 857-2226 ph CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED DATED MATERIAL— Please Deliver Before May 1, 2016 Other Donation Opportunities Tzedakah Contributions Please enclose contribution and mail with this form to the Temple office. (Minimum $10.00 per name or occasion) Memorial Board $360 per name Donation Given by: Acknowledgment sent to: Tree of Life Name___________________________________ Name ________________________________ Address_________________________________ Address ______________________________ City/Zip:________________________________ City/Zip: _____________________________ $180 per name Prayer book Fund $35 per book Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot has many Sanctuary and Facility Giving and Naming Opportunities. Please contact the Temple office for further information. Amount of Donation $______________ Check Credit Card on file Visa/MC ___________________________________ Exp.___________ In Honor of ____________________________________________________________________ A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words… We tell Shir Ha-Ma’alot’s story through words and pictures each year in our Event Catalog, website and monthly newsletter. I collect photos from events throughout the year to use for a variety of printed and online pieces. Quite a few of them are from our Facebook page but many come from you via email. Please feel free to send me any of your favorite SHM photos: [email protected] Lynda Cline, Communications In Memory of __________________________________________________________________ Special Occasion ________________________________________________________________ Other _________________________________________________________________________ Please apply my contribution to the following special fund(s): Alex Zeleznick Children’s Fund Prayer Book Fund Cantor Shikler’s Disc. Fund Rabbi Lewis’ Disc. Fund Cultural Arts/Friday Night Live! Fund Rabbi Steinberg’s Disc. Fund Elana Frenkel Memorial School & Youth Fund Ritual (Jerry Jacobs) Fund Florence Ruth King Chesed Fund Special Events Fund (Aaron & Brock Silverstein) General Fund Todd Evan Ross School Fund Jessica Herron Adopt-a-Family Fund Yahrzeit Fund Library Fund Youth Group Fund Oneg Shabbat Fund