Irish Wedding Traditions…Favorite Apps and more…
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Irish Wedding Traditions…Favorite Apps and more…
A publication inspired by the Association of Bridal Consultants May/June 2011 Volume 1 Issue 2 the publication for wedding planners, professionals, and designers Fabulous Tented Weddings…Economic Outlook… Savvy Ceremony Insight…Irish Wedding Traditions…Favorite Apps and more… Happily Ever Afters Begin in Paradise At Sandals everything you could possibly imagine has been thought of, including all the luxury of a five-star resort. The difference is that our luxury is included and so is the fun. After all the pressure of your wedding, now’s the time to let loose and have the time of your life. Experience more unlimited land and water sports- including scuba diving and golf- than any other resorts on the planet. Experience more restaurants- with up to 12 restaurant choices per resort. Enjoy unlimited premium brand drinks at up to 8 bars including Beringer ® Wines. Relax in the most unique honeymoon suites in the Caribbean. Making Sandals the perfect choice Set Up A Marketing Plan Today Contact Kim Sardo, Sr. Director/Business Development 978-281-1119 or [email protected] for a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon. ® The Luxury Included ® Honeymoon JAMAICA • ANTIGUA • SAINT LUCIA • BAHAMAS T H E L U X U R Y I N C L U D E D ® D I F F E R E N C E M A K E S A L L T H E D I F F E R E N C E I N T H E W O R L D. Business of Brides Nov. 6-8, 2011: Be Charmed by Grace and Dazzled by Diann in Baltimore……………………………………………………………………………………………… 13 Mark your calendars for the most impressive ABC national conference yet! Learn about keynote speakers, special sessions, breakouts, the venue, side trips, and registration. Table of Contents 9 © elegant occasions Features Tented Weddings: Canvas Creations from “Easel” to Aisle……………………… 9 Rental industry experts and ABC members share their tips on turning tented weddings into masterpieces. Departments Real Wedding—Indiana… ………………………………………………………………………………… 15 Experience the wedding that earned planner Monica Richard and her team the ISES local awards for “Best Wedding Over $200,000” and “Best ISES Team Effort.” Real Wedding—Kansas……………………………………………………………………………………… 17 Eight ABC members teamed up to create a warm and cozy winter wedding for a Kansas couple. 15 © Paul Versluis Photography Wedding Economy Requires a Watchful Eye… ………………………………………… 27 The state of the economy for the wedding industry has mirrored that of the United States’ economy over the past several years. But there is room for hope. Find out more and get tips for business survival. © heather miles photography Copyright and Usage Licenses: Staying on the Right Side of the Law……… 23 Who owns copyright? What photos of your events and products can you legally use to promote your business? Find out in this basic primer on copyright. 17 ABC Member Best Practices…………………………………………………………………………… 31 What are the hottest apps for planners and vendors? Find out what ABC members use in their businesses. Columns ABC Member Insight: Sandra M. Monahan, MBC™, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant®……………………………………………………………………… 25 How to work with the venue, find officiants, and ensure ceremony success for your bride and groom. Master Bridal Consultant Profile: Brigid Horne-Nestor, MBC™… ………… 29 © john ryan photography International: Níl Aon Leigheas Ar An Ngrá Ach Pósahd The Only Cure for Love Is Marriage……………………………………………………………… 21 The Irish culture is rife with rituals and traditions. Discover everything from the significance of the placement of the child of Prague the night before the wedding to the reason the celebration extends to the wee hours. 21 In Every Issue ABC President’s Letter… ……………………………………………………………………………………… 7 Editor/Publisher’s Letter… ………………………………………………………………………………… 7 Association of Bridal Consultants Meetings & News……………………………… 18 Advertiser’s Index… …………………………………………………………………………………………… 34 Association of Bridal Consultants Code of Ethics Our ABC members agree to: • represent each client fairly and honestly, providing all agreed-to services in a timely and cost-efficient manner. • establish reasonable and proper fees for services and provide written estimates to each client. • use honest, factual advertising. • deal with employees and clients fairly, in an unbiased manner. • disclose to clients any payments received from suppliers. • operate an establishment that is a credit to the community. Wedding Planner Magazine 5 Creative Director Nancy Flottmeyer, PBC™ Art Designer Nancy Flottmeyer, PBC™ Contributing Writers Elise Enloe, MBC™ Beth Erickson Tara Fay Howard Kier Sandra Monahan, MBC™ Bonnie Pickett Proofreader Bonnie Pickett Sales Director Dena Davey Photography Domenic Burello Elegant Occasions Essenza Studio Heather Miles Photography John Ryan Photography Leppert Photography Matthew J. Wagner Fine Photography Magical Moments Photography Mueller Photography olivejuicestudios.com Olivier Kpognon Photography Ovationimages.com Paul Versluis Photography Photography by Leanna Rachael Waring of Living Photography Wedding Planning Magazine, a publication inspired by the Association of Bridal Consultants, is published bi-monthly by Wedding Planner Magazine LLC, 400 Main Street, La Crosse, Wisconsin 54601. Phone: 608.796.2257. Fax: 608.796.2253. E-mail: [email protected]. Visit: www.weddingplannermag.com. Copyright 2011 Wedding Planner Magazine LLC. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced without written permission from the publishers. Wedding Planner Magazine does not necessarily endorse the claims or contents of advertising or editorial material. Printed in the U.S.A. For advertising information: 727.430.7251 or e-mail [email protected]. by the A publication inspired Consultants Association of Bridal Volume 1 Issue 2 May/June 2011 Cover: © olivejuicestudios.com. the publication for wedding planners, designers professionals, and … s…Economic Outlook more… Fabulous Tented Wedding s…Favorite Apps and …Irish Wedding Tradition Savvy Ceremony Insight Wedding Planner Magazine ISSN 21603286 is published bi-monthly by Wedding Planner Magazine LLC, 400 Main Street, La Crosse, Wisconsin 54601. Circulation is 4,000. Advertising is accepted; corporate ABC members receive a discount on rates. Annual subscriptions are $24. Periodical postage paid at La Crosse, WI and pending additional entry at Eau Claire, WI. Postmaster send changes to Wedding Planner Magazine, 400 Main Street, La Crosse, WI 54601. There is some positive news on the economic front, as highlighted in The Knot’s 2010 wedding industry survey and The Wedding Report, Inc. Brides continue to spend and it looks as though the trend is upward, between $20,000-$26,000 plus. In The Knot survey, While these expanding wedding budgets are a positive for our industry, it also means the time to act is now. Stay on top of trends. Read books and blogs. Go to ABC meetings, events, and conferences. Learn from the experts and continue to grow. But above all, be sincere and be yourself. You have skills that no one else can offer. David M. Wood, President Association of Bridal Consultants Publisher’s/Editor’s Letter “I love the ‘new’ Wedding Planner Magazine!” That is the consistent feedback we are hearing on the premier issue. We are awed by your kudos and excitement. You inspire us to continue striving for excellence and building a publication of value for wedding industry professionals. Wedding Planner Magazine depends on your readership and your ideas. When we meet to plan each issue, we review article suggestions from members, business and industry trends, and ideas and news from the Association of Bridal Consultants. For this issue, we also considered the approaching season, which is why we turned our focus to tented weddings. Inside these pages, you’ll see stunning visuals of creative tented weddings that transport guests to another world. ABC experts like David Yargus and Deborah Beggs from Classic Party Rental, Pam Peplinski from Karl’s Event Services, and Kim Horn, MBC™, Arizona state coordinator, will share the latest tented wedding trends as well as tenting terms and preparation tips for your vendor meeting. Plus, you’ll find Real Weddings and a profile of Master Bridal Consultant Brigid HorneNestor of Cincinnati. You’ll also learn about the state of the economy for wedding industry professionals, photography copyright issues, customs and culture of Irish weddings, and more. g Editor Beth Erickson Olivier Kpognon Photography Publishers Nancy Flottmeyer, PBC™ David Wood less than one-third of the brides said the economy was impacting their wedding spending, an improvement versus 2009. The average amount spent per guest remained the same. You can learn more about the state of the economy in this issue. Nancy Flottmeyer, PBC™ Publisher/Creative Director [email protected] muellerphotography.net Volume I Issue 2 May/June 2011 At press time in mid-April, we were still receiving news from Japan on their earthquake, tsunami, and nuclear hardship. The Association of Bridal Consultants (ABC) has more than 100 members in the island nation, and we are keeping the lines open with our ABC country manager, Yoshi Kohara, to learn how we can best help. Please stay tuned for more communication from ABC on this. Our members stand ready to assist our fellow wedding planners in Japan, and to help any weddings wishing to still take place, but in alternate locations. We have postponed our planned feature on Japanese wedding customs until a future issue. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with the people living in Japan at this difficult time. muellerphotography.net President’s Letter With your enthusiasm, ideas, and interest, Wedding Planner Magazine continues to grow. You can now find us on the web at www.weddingplannermag.com. As always, tell us what you think. Beth Erickson Editor [email protected] Wedding Planner Magazine 7 www.weddingplannermag.com follow us @wedplanmag Ask your state and country coordinators for the username and password to download the current issue. 8 Wedding Planner Magazine f e at u r e Tented Weddings: Canvas Creations from “Easel” to Aisle by Beth Erickson PHOTOgraphy OLIVEJUICESTUDIOS.COM Just as an artist’s canvas is stretched on its frame and primed for paint, so, too, is the canvas of a tent—awaiting only resolute brushstrokes and blushes of color to transform it from blank to beautiful. with the right linens, props, furniture, flooring, and more. “Each bride has her own needs, vision, and budget that make each event distinctly different,” says Peplinski. “Unlike using an existing banquet facility, a tent can be considered a bride’s blank canvas,” says Pam Peplinski, director of marketing for Karl’s Event Services, based in Oak Creek, Wis. Banquet facilities carry the limitation of pre-existing décor. With a tent, brides have the option to choose not only the style of tent, but the type and color of flooring, lighting, sidewall, ceiling liner, dance floor, and tables and chairs. They can even choose the location—whether in the park, at their childhood home, or at a lakeside retreat. “The beautiful part of a tent is that you are bringing the outside in whether it’s an open-air tent or a structure,” says David Yargus, outside sales for the Chicago branch of Classic Party Rentals. To fulfill that vision, look to current trends. According to Kim Horn, MBC™, ABC’s Arizona state coordinator, these include heavy swagging, ceiling liners, and draping to section off areas of the tent for different functions like cocktails versus ceremony—or simply to provide better flow. But do consider the significance of the event and time of day when planning. “You may not want the lounge furniture, lit-up bar, or LED tables for your daytime ceremony, yet it would be incredible for your dancing or after-hours party,” she says. Upgraded lighting, crystal chandeliers, custom color carpeting, and even Venetian glass chandeliers like those offered through Classic Party Rentals, help transport guests from simple tent to extravagant event. “Glass walls, glass doors, and clear fabric can be used to highlight special views of a lake or the sunset. Custom structures with rounded ends or curved beams can also be used to provide a unique and special feel,” says Peplinski. “Everything that goes into their event will be handpicked, making everything that much more special and unique.” Anticipate the best, prepare for the worst While an outdoor, tented wedding gives creative license, it’s not for everyone. Make sure your couples consider potential challenges up front—from budget and location to weather. Yargus agrees. “We can build a pretty impressive venue space out of nothing. The sky’s the limit in terms of options for building a tent that you’d never realize is a tent.” Making a bride’s vision reality Whether your bride wants a simple, traditional wedding or an elegant, themed affair, it can be done. Anything from the look and feel of a backyard wedding to a Roaring ’20s or casino-night feel can be created The cost of a tented wedding doesn’t just lie in the cost of the tent, it’s in the costs people don’t always consider like permits, HVAC/heating, flooring, lighting, furniture, generator, and diesel fuel. “If people think they’ll save money by putting a tent up in their backyard versus going to an existing hotel, they won’t. They’ll probably pay 30 percent more per person,” says Yargus. Location is also a deciding factor, determining the style of tent that will work best and whether or not it can be staked into the ground or Wedding Planner Magazine 9 © olivejuicestudios.com © Matthew J. Wagner Fine Photography © olivejuicestudios.com © leppert photography/ Wedding by I-do weddings and events f e at u r e needs to be weighted with concrete blocks, says Peplinski. “We can build a perfectly level tent on a hillside, it just gets built on stilts,” adds Yargus. Also consider ground conditions, surface conditions if the client wants flooring, how level the ground is, and whether you need covered walkways as you inventory event needs. Mother Nature plays a role, too. About the only thing that can put the kibosh on a tented event is a lightning storm. “Weather is always the main concern when planning any outdoor event, but if planned properly, in the end, it can be no more a disadvantage than you would experience at a banquet facility,” says Peplinski. Make sure your vendor has experience working in inclement weather. “The weather forecast, the time of year, the city/state, and the area you choose have many deciding factors on which type and style of tent to rent,” says Horn. For a summer wedding in Arizona, a clear-top tent is not advisable as it magnifies heat. Those planning winter weddings in the Midwest should check the snow load on their tents. And don’t forget temperature control. Make sure your vendor has equipment to cool or heat a tent. An early June wedding in the Midwest will likely not need air conditioning—unless there’s a heat wave. Likewise, a beautiful September day might turn frigid as the sun goes down. “Prepare for the worst,” says Yargus. “Make it as sound a structure as possible. It’s better to put a little extra money out up front than two days before when you’d pay emergency fees.” A little pre-planning goes a long way In the end, the only “hitch” in a tented wedding should be the couple saying, “I do.” Pre-planning and proper communication with all parties is the best way to assure this. Check with the municipality or village about permits needed and the time frame to acquire them. “Ask them to define exactly what you’ll need. This really is the true starting point before you even propose putting up a tent,” says Yargus. 10 Wedding Planner Magazine Site inspections are another way to avoid potential problems. “Each site carries its own set of challenges, including ground level, overhead obstructions, staking capabilities, truck access, and even installation and dismantle times due to the venue being open to the public,” says Peplinski. “The tent vendor cannot move trees or buildings or make a space larger, but they can work within the given space, adjusting tent sizes and layouts while still meeting the bride’s expectations.” There are many factors that affect the duration of set up and take down for a tent—if stakes can be used, if the inventory needs to be hand carried, weather conditions, multi-level scaffolding/flooring, custom staircases, custom structures, interior decorations, and the couple’s wishes. By pre-planning, your tent vendor should not run into any unexpected issues during installation. “A wedding set-up can take one day or up to a few weeks due to these combined factors,” says Peplinski. Work with an industry expert to ensure success Given the planning, preparation, and expense involved in tented weddings, it pays to work with an expert. “Look for experience,” says Yargus. Membership in professional organizations is also a plus. “Ask for and check references. Check to see if the organization is an ABC member. Check to see if they are a member of the Industrial Fabrics Association International,” suggests Horn. Other memberships include the American Rental Association, International Special Events Society, Meeting Planners International, and National Association of Catering Executives. But association memberships are only one piece of the puzzle. Look for a vendor who has quality equipment, can show you a gallery of event photos, offers personalized service, and can execute your vision. “Professionalism, experience, knowledge, and quality of inventory are key when choosing a vendor for any event, but especially for a wedding. Price cannot and should not always be the deciding factor,” says Peplinski.•• © Matthew J. Wagner Fine Photography © Matthew J. Wagner Fine Photography © elegant occasions f e at u r e Tented Wedding Terminology Be Prepared! What to Know for Your Vendor Meeting Rope and Pole Tents (above left)—Ropes and stakes secure the tent to the ground; the poles push it into shape. Staked to the ground, these have tall center poles that support the fabric top and create a dramatic swooping effect. Frame Tents (above right)—Comprised of an aluminum pipe structure covered by a vinyl roof or canopy, frame tents don’t require a center pole, offering an unobstructed interior. Anchored with stakes or weights, they can be installed on a variety of surfaces including grass, asphalt, concrete, or pre-existing floors. Clearspan Structures— Aluminum and steel frames are constructed with modular components leading to thousands of possible structure sizes. No center pole provides an unobstructed interior. Accommodates lighting and rigging plans, HVAC, different sidewalls, multi-level flooring, doors, etc. Anchored with stakes or weights for installation on multiple surfaces. Don’t wait until the last minute; plan ahead. Request a meeting with your rental vendor and be armed with the information below. •Guest count • Budget • Client’s vision • Tent location • Access to wedding site •Number of bars • Tent purpose (ceremony, cocktails, • Catering style (buffet, plated, or stations) dinner/dance, after-hours party, • Music (band or DJ) inclement weather only) • Location of power source or need • Style and size of dance floor and for generator whether attendees are heavy dancers/ light dancers/ballroom dancers Source: Pam Peplinski, sales and marketing director, Karl’s Event Services Source: Kim Horn, MBC™, ABC Arizona state coordinator, and Deborah Beggs, special event coordinator, Classic Party Rentals Wedding Planner Magazine 11 Work Smarter, not Harder, with the RIGHT Software! The Software for Wedding and Event Planners Vendors Timelines Checklists Budgets Payments Contracts Guest Lists Photos/Graphics Wedding Party ...All the Details!!! 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Ormonde—the first from Rhode Island to launch and run a national wedding magazine from scratch—continues to grow her business, bringing her vision to more readers via newsstands, the Internet, and with her book, Being in Love Never Goes Out of Style. B U S I N E S S O F B R I D E S no v. 6 - 8 , 2 0 1 1 Be Charmed by Grace and •How to Think Like a Wedding Editor, The Knot • What Makes a Good Contract or How to Stay Out of Trouble! Renee Grannis, MBC™ •Teddy’s Top 12 Survival Tips for Business, Teddy Lenderman, MBC™ • ALL NEW Spousal/Partner Session: If You Can’t Beat ‘em, Join ‘em, Bill Waterman and Tammy Waterman, ABC™ • Become the Webmaster of Your Domain, Heather Canada, ABC™ and Elisa Delgardio, ABC™ •Tired and Ready to Quit? Rediscover Why You Fell in Love with Your Business, Tonya Shadoan, MBC™ and Mary Dann • Pairing Wine with Food the Italian Way, Annette Tuxen • Planning Weddings to Charm and Dazzle, Gloria Boyden, MBC™, and Lovelynn Jensen, ABC™ •Dancing in the Rain, Robyn Martin, ABC™ • All About the Dress, Sally Lorenxen Conant, MWV™ •Sharing my BFF (Business Friendly Forms), Judy Alden, MBC™ • The Future of Destination Weddings, JoAnn Gregoli, MBC™ • Bridal Show Bootcamp, Elise Enloe, MBC™ • Are THEIR Clients being Dazzled with YOUR Work? Mark Kingsdorf, MBC™ Diann Valentine is an internationally acclaimed wedding, event, and interior designer. On the cusp of hosting and co-executive producing a new show “I Do Over” on WeTV, Valentine balances her interests as businesswoman, television personality, designer, visionary, and lover of love. 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ABC businesses: Cloth Connection, detail+design, IndyVisual. Photographer: Heather Miles Photography. Other businesses: Cort Furniture, A Classic Party Rental, Classic Cakes, Hoaglin Fine Catering, Indy Portable Restrooms, Elite Management (valet), Chicago Catz (music), KB Design (branding), Renaissance Hotels, Donna Karan (suit), BCBG (dress). Awards: This event won ISES local awards including: “Best Wedding Over $200,000” and “Best ISES Team Effort.” The couple: Jennifer and Bob had been dating eight years. She had health issues and was learning to walk again. When she took her first step at Cleveland Clinic, Bob was standing at the other end of the room with the ring and said, “I’m already at the end of the aisle.” Inspiration: Jennifer requested that her guesthouse’s veranda extend infinitely into the backyard and serve as the setting for the cocktail hour. Her childhood home’s warmth and chic sense of style was used to create a cozy, comfortable environment. Most unique design element: Monet’s iconic painting, “Water Lilies,” served as the inspiration and the décor’s focal point—the dance floor. Color palette: The soft pastels, ink, moss, and blush all with the backdrop of neutral tones in vanilla, taupe, camel, caramel, and crème created a wonderful palette for the designer to use texture, light, and scent to make the canvas come to life. Approximate budget: $2,500 per guest. Guest count: Approximately 180. Biggest challenge: Planning a tented wedding of this magnitude in 12 weeks. Thankfully, it was from February to June and not June to September. Transforming the tents: There were two tents. One was for cocktail hour and the ceremony. Intimate clusters of seating in varying furniture styles created warm vignettes throughout. The reception was in a clearspan tent that captivated guests as they entered its French doors. Six modern, crystal chandeliers sparkled in the chiffon-lined ceiling as pin spotting accented each of the unique dining experiences. No two tables were alike; each setting had different shaped tables and styles of chairs. The tent had a hardwood floor and the entire space was centered on the dance floor reproduction of Monet’s “Water Lilies.” On teamwork: The night of the event, we had 60 staff members on site. Over 200 people worked throughout the week. That team was a family. Hindsight: Jennifer chose Rachel Ashwell china. We had people visiting every Target store around the Midwest to buy it. Rachel noticed and called to find out why. When she discovered it was for a wedding, she shipped it to us directly and sent extra place settings. In the future, I’d go straight to the source. 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The groom’s five nieces and nephew served as flower girls and ring bearer. Elle wanted to create a warm and welcoming environment in which their guests would be very comfortable. The Feb. 5 wedding took place on a cold and overcast day. Upon arrival, guests were directed to a warm beverage station featuring specialty hot chocolate and hot apple cider. Most unique design element: The ceremony and reception were held at the same venue. To alleviate flipping the room, guests were seated at their assigned dinner table during the ceremony. Following the ceremony, guests moved to a contemporary lounge setting for cocktails while the tables were readied for dinner. Color palette: The bride chose rich colors of purple, dark green, navy, and peacock blue. An assortment of high and low centerpieces was displayed in mercury glass containers. Elle incorporated peacock feathers throughout the wedding in centerpieces, programs, her garter, and the guest book. She loves ivy and wanted a very natural and ethereal feel to the décor. Approximate budget: $65,000 Guest count: 130 Biggest challenge: The most challenging aspect was planning the wedding in 12 weeks. On teamwork: Everything went very well. The clients were very pleased. The communication between the vendors was fabulous and resulted in a very smoothly run day. Hindsight: Kansas City had a blizzard the week of the wedding, and it was difficult to keep the floor near the entrance dry and clean. In the future, I will be sure to have ample rugs placed inside the doors to absorb the ice, water, and salt and avoid bringing the elements indoors. Wedding Planner Magazine 17 Association of Bridal Consultants Meetings & News Network with other wedding professionals and earn points for education and professional development at ABC seminars and conference. Non-members are also welcome. Expanding Horizons ABC Annual Conference Attend and earn two points for education and profesBusiness of Brides (page 13 and back cover) sional development. For more information, or to register, Be Charmed, Be Dazzled visit www.BridalAssn.com. Nov. 6-8, 2011 Baltimore, Md. Sunday, May 1 www.businessofbrides.com Let Your Business Blossom Hyatt Regency Sacramento, Calif. MAY www.BridalAssn.com/TakeASeminarA.aspx Florida: Monthly Meetings Throughout the state Sunday, May 1 407.977.9338, [email protected], Building and Remodeling Bridal Business www.abc-florida.com Renaissance Rutherford, N.J. Tennessee: Monthly Local Networking Meetings www.abcehbrbnyc.eventbrite.com East Tennessee, Middle Tennessee 865.207.5232, [email protected], Sunday, June 5 www.abc-tennessee.com Building and Remodeling Bridal Business Astor Crowne Plaza Arizona: Monthly Meeting New Orleans Monday, May 2, 5:45 - 8:30 p.m. www.abcehbrbneworleans.eventbrite.com Location to be determined 480.921.7891, [email protected] State and Regional Events Sunday June 12 Let Your Business Blossom Doral Golf Resort Miami www.abcehlbbmiami.eventbrite.com Michigan: Networking Education Meeting Tuesday, May 3, 6 - 9 p.m. Zingerman’s Events on Fourth, Ann Arbor 734.709.6656, [email protected], www.abcmi.org Sunday, July 10 California: LNG Meeting Let Your Business Blossom Hilton Garden Inn Cleveland www.abcehlbbcleveland.eventbrite.com New Horizons Attend and earn two points for education and professional development. For more information, or to register, visit www.BridalAssn.com. Tuesday, May 10 The Railway Club Vancouver, B.C., Canada Wednesday, June 29 Chicago Friday, July 1 Jackson, Miss. Tuesday, Sept. 6 Williamsburg, Va. Thursday, Sept. 8 Charleston, S.C. FAMinars Destination Weddings FAMinar Rehearsal to Reception Thursday - Sunday, May 12 - 15 Puerto Vallarta, Mexico www.abcdestmexico.eventbrite.com Destination Weddings FAMinar Rehearsal to Reception Rx Sunday - Tuesday, July 17 - 19 Puerto Rico 18 Wedding Planner Magazine Tuesday, May 10, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. Fairmont, Newport Beach Kelly Feeney, [email protected] Illinois: Monthly Meeting Tuesday, May 10 847.289.1945, [email protected], www.illinoisabc.com Michigan: Networking Education Meeting “Proper Etiquette for Table Settings” Wednesday, May 11, 7 - 9 p.m. Christopher & Co., Commerce Township 248.591.0161, [email protected], www.abcmi.org Indiana: Indiana Tea—Heavenly Sweets Sunday, May 15 Historic R.L. Wilson House, Nobelsville 317.253.6199, [email protected], www.heavenlysweetscakes.com California: Sacramento Area LNG Meeting Garden Party Theme and Discussion with Wedding Officiants Monday, May 16, 6 p.m. Brookshire Gardens, El Dorado 916.452.4373, [email protected] California: LNG Meeting Social Media and SEO with Kelly Aguilar of The Chic Geek Tuesday, May 17, 9:30 a.m. Steele Canyon Golf Club, Jamul 619.208.7981, [email protected], www.SanDiegoABC.com Colorado: Monthly Meeting Tuesday, May 17, 6:30 - 9:30 p.m. Fact Caravan North to Estes Park Della Terra, Estes Park Char Hein, 303.988.3049, [email protected] Oklahoma: Business Meeting & Education Sunday, May 22, 2 p.m. Location to be determined 580.641.3500, [email protected] California: Inland Empire LNG Meeting “Five Things You Wish You Knew Before You Made Your Website...and How to Fix Them Now,” with Alan Berg of The Knot Tuesday, May 24, 6 - 9 p.m. Riverside Marriott, Riverside 800.495.5530, [email protected], www.abcinlandempire.com Mexico City: Event Creativity Wednesday, May 25 Location to be determined (55)5203.40.57, www.consultoresnupciales.com JUNE North Carolina: Statewide Meeting Sunday, June 5, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. Hilton Asheville Biltmore Park www.ncweddingpros.com/events.asp, http://june2011statemtg.eventbrite.com/ Pennsylvania/Delaware: We Are Not the Enemy Tuesday, June 7 Drexelbrook, Drexill Hill, Pa. Lynda Barness, 215.262.8188, [email protected] Colorado: Monthly Meeting Monday, June 8, 6:30 - 9:30 p.m. Olinger Crown Hill Arboretum, Wheat Ridge Char Hein, 303.988.3049, [email protected] California: All-member Educational Meeting Tuesday, June 14, 6 - 9 p.m. Dove Canyon Country Club, Dove Canyon Kelly Feeney, [email protected] Illinois: Monthly Meeting Tuesday, June 14 847.289.1945, [email protected], www.illinoisabc.com Wisconsin: 6th Annual Creative Summit Tuesday, June 14, 6 - 9 p.m. Cargill Room, La Crosse 608-796-2257, [email protected] California: Monthly Meeting Tuesday, June 21 Location to be determined 619.208.7981, [email protected], www.SanDiegoABC.com New York: Net-learning Meeting ABC NY-Westchester/Lower Hudson Valley/Bronx LNG Monday, June 27, 6 - 9 p.m. Location to be determined 845.304.4886, [email protected], http://abcnylngjune2011lowerhudsonvalley.eventbrite.com Wednesday, June 29 Location to be determined (55)5203.40.57, www.consultoresnupciales.com Achievements A launch party for the Philadelphia chapter of Wish Upon A Wedding was held on Jan. 31. Mark Kingsdorf, MBC™, The Queen of Hearts Wedding Consultants, Philadelphia, was named president. Desireé Moore Dent, president and lead planner of Dejanae Events, Calumet City, Ill., has created a wedding planner for the bride-on-a-budget—The WEDology Notebook: For The Budget-Chic Bride. The planner, designed in notebook format for slipping into a purse or tote, is available for $23.99 at www.WEDologyNotebook.com. Elisa Delgardio, CSEP, ABC™, A Flair for Affairs in Orlando, Fla., received a nomination for Social Event Planner of the Year in the BizBash Florida Readers’ Choice Awards. This award will be presented at BizBash Florida Expo & Awards to an industry leader who consistently meets the needs of social clients through organizing, managing, and executing events. Gina Vittorio, owner of One Fine Day Events, has partnered with a team of designers to offer custom invitations. One Fine Day Events will also offer exclusive invitations, wedding accessories, and favors, all of which will be available in its online boutique for purchase this spring at www.onefinedaychicago.com. In the Media... Gail Johnson, ABC™, Wedding Soiree, Tucker, Ga., was featured in the fall 2010 issue of Martha Stewart Weddings in the “Ask Martha” section. Gail Johnson, ABC™, and Hester Parks, ABC™, of Wedding Soiree, Tucker, Ga., held a book launch for their publication Atlanta Weddings for the Modern, Stylish, Chic Bride. The book is available for $25 at amazon.com. Johnson and Parks were also featured in the December 2010/January 2011 issue of Uptown Magazine in “The H List,” the February 2011 issue of 944 Magazine—The Wedding Issue, and the spring 2011 issue of Southern Seasons Magazine in “Wedding Whimsy.” Sandra M. Monahan, MBC™, Weddings Without Worries, Wexford, Pa., Pennsylvania state coordinator and a certified wedding and life-cycle celebrant and officiant, was published on Feb. 23 in Spirituality and Health Newsletter, a publication of Spirituality & Health magazine. The article, “Celebrating Caregivers,” was about a Seeds of Caregiving ceremony. We Want to Hear From You! Wedding Planner Magazine wants to hear from you. If you are an ABC member and have recently marked a significant achievement, been featured in the media, have an ABC item for our calendar, or other information to share, please contact us at Wedding Planner Magazine, 400 Main Street, La Crosse, WI 54601, 608.796.2257 or e-mail [email protected]. Guidelines for Member Use of ABC Membership Database The ABC membership database originated for the use of the Association of Bridal Consultants (ABC) staff. As it has grown, it has become a large benefit to the general membership, and many members maintain their membership as a result. Because it is a membership benefit, members are prohibited from sharing the database, or any information in it, with any non-member. All members are permitted to use the member database to locate other members, primarily within their own state. It is not to be used for advertising, public relations, or social reasons. State and Country Coordinators may use the database to contact all members within their state for state meetings, newsletters, and training initiatives. Corporate members pay a higher membership cost than the general membership. This higher cost allows them to utilize the full membership database for advertising. The recommended frequency of use is one e-mail per quarter. If additional e-mails are sent, they must include an option to opt-out. The “Miss Dorothy” Scholarship This scholarship is for Novice members only. It allows them to attend the Business of Brides annual conference. This year’s conference is in Baltimore. To apply: 1. Download and complete the application form found on the ABC website: www.BridalAssn.com. 2. Must be a Novice member at time of application. 3. Submit a summary of your business plan. 4. Write an essay of 1,000 words or less that includes: Why you want to attend conference, what you expect to receive from attending conference, how you will apply what you learn to your future success, and what, if any, local participation in ABC you have had. Deadline is July 31, 2011 The winner will be notified on Sept. 1, 2011 and will be announced at the Business of Brides conference. The award must be used for the 2011 conference. ABC local and corporate newsletters are available for public relations, advertising, general notices, or social reasons. As there may be a cost involved to place an ad or notice in any newsletter, cross-state and multi-state notices should be coordinated with the appropriate State and Country Coordinators to make that determination. Association of Bridal Consultants Education and Advancement Programs If any non-corporate member desires use of the database for marketing or public relations, please contact member services at [email protected] to upgrade your membership to Corporate. Educational Programs Weddings as a Business . ..........................................................$149 Renee Grannis, MBC™ All meetings and training initiatives should be posted to the Association’s website. Questions? Contact Renée Grannis at [email protected]. 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For additional information, contact the publisher at 608.796.2257 or [email protected]. look… Savvy Cere 20 omic Out e… Weddings…Econ rite Apps and mor Fabulous Tented Traditions…Favo Irish Wedding mony Insight… Wedding Planner Magazine Ad sales close for the July/August issue is May 15, 2011. Ad sales close for the September/October issue is July 15, 2011 I nt e r national Níl Aon Leigheas Ar An Ngrá Ach Pósadh— The Only Cure For Love Is Marriage By Tara Fay photography John Ryan Photography Lots of Irish traditions center on Celtic mythology, and marriage is no different. A traditional Irish wedding follows many rituals, like the placing of the child of Prague outside the bride’s house the night before the wedding, which is said to help when praying for good weather. In fact, there are so many superstitions surrounding the statue that it is said to perform better if it’s missing the head. The Irish are very good at laughing at themselves, and when explaining this to someone they may finish with the line “only in Ireland.” “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” Brides often follow this old superstition. For our something blue, we often use a miraculous medal, which brides frequently stitch inside of their dress. The miraculous medal is a medal created by Saint Catherine Labouré following a vision of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Many brides borrow the medal to wear in the belief that wearing it will bring them special graces through the intercession of Mary. It’s also believed they borrow luck from the family member who loaned it. Poetic license—and the license to marry where you please Irish history is rich with poets and writers; therefore, for the ceremony booklet, lots of brides and grooms will select an Irish saying or piece of poetry for the back. W.B. Yeats poetry is one of the more popular choices. Nowadays, in addition to choosing the words for the back of your ceremony booklet, you can choose the location. Since November 2007, when Ireland introduced a new law, ceremonies can legally take place in a building other than a church or registry office. This has meant a large increase in the number of non-church weddings. life span than in other countries. The day starts with a traditional service, followed by a drinks reception (cocktail time), and then guests will be seated. Normally, after the bride and groom are announced into the room, grace is said. At the end of the main course, the wedding cake is cut. The traditional cake for a wedding is fruitcake. Tradition says if an unmarried female guest sleeps with some wedding cake under her pillow, she will be married within the year. Then, after dessert, tea, and coffee are served with the wedding cake, toast drinks are served, and the speeches start. Once the speeches are However, no matter where a bride and groom finished, dancing starts and doesn’t finish until marry, music is significant, with many opting 2 or 3 a.m. Dancing is a part of our heritage and to include traditional Irish/Celtic music with frequently part of the entertainment. Some instruments, such as an Irish harp to Uilleann couples opt for a mini Riverdance or others pipes (softer sound to bagpipes), or a small traditional group of musicians. People also like have a céili, which essentially gets all guests involved in the dancing. Most traditional Irish to include prayers or songs in Irish (Gaelic). dances involve set pieces where the guests For church services, both Catholics and non-Catholics use a lot of candles to symbolize position themselves around a circle or in long lines facing each other, and, sometimes, the rebirth and new beginnings. Use of greenery band includes a caller who lets them know each symbolizes the green of the countryside. step as it happens. Afterward, guests usually Irish weddings—an excuse to celebrate retire to another area and start a sing-song of traditional Irish songs—often lasting into early to the wee hours morning, with the bride and groom frequently Finally, as with most Irish parties, an Irish leading the songs in celebration. •• wedding party tends to have a slightly longer Wedding Planner Magazine 21 f e at u r e Copyright and Usage Licenses: Staying on the Right Side of the Law By Howard Kier PHOTOGRAPHY Magical Moments Photography It happens all the time. You are involved in planning a perfect wedding. The clients love the results. A few days later, you look at the photographer’s website and see the stunning photos. Whether you planned the event, provided the floral, linens, or another special part of the day, wouldn’t some of those photos be a great addition to your portfolio? What are your legal rights for their use? Confused by copyrights and usage licenses? Many photographers are, too. Believe it or not, when a photographer takes a photo of someone, the photographer has specific ownership rights, known as “copyright,” and so does the subject of the photo. The law inspires innovation The United States’ Founding Fathers realized that to foster the exchange of ideas, we need a free press and, also, a way for creators to take ownership of their work. If artists and creators are not able to profit from their ideas and inventions, then innovation will cease. Today, we call these ownership rights “patents, copyrights, and intellectual property (IP) laws.” As soon as a photographer, musician, or writer creates a work, his or her copyright or ownership is automatically established. While most of this feature focuses on copyright from the photographer’s perspective, the same holds true for authors and their books, musicians and music, or directors/producers and movies. to earn a living. Most photographers are happy to work out some arrangement for image usage; just ask. Avoid copyright infringement—always get permission When you ask to use a photograph, the photographer is granting you a usage license. That license can be strict or liberal—for a single use, many copies, a limited amount of time, perpetuity, a specific purpose, or general use. A typical usage license will spell out the details of what the photographer will and won’t allow. If you decide to take your image files to a local store, they may ask to see the usage license before you are allowed to make a copy. Unless you are a celebrity, there is little reason for you to purchase the copyright. A usage license specifying what you want to do is usually sufficient and less costly. Be sure to remember, when you license an image for your website, you may not be able to use that image for print media. When you are granted a usage license, the permitted usages are specific. If you want to use the image for something other than you originally intended, get an additional license. Creative commons vs. usage license for the Internet One of the most common myths about copyright is, “If it is on the Internet, I can use it without permission.” That is absolutely false. There are some items on the Internet where the creators have granted “creative commons,” meaning everyone can use it. However, in the absence of a Copyright control varies by photographer Copyright lets the owners determine and control if, how, and when their creative commons license or other stated usage license, don’t assume work will be reproduced. Some photographers, like Anne Geddes, strictly you are free to use the image without permission. At best, you’ll alienate some photographers, and at worst, you could lose a copyright infringecontrol how their photographs will be used. Anyone who copies one of ment suit and be forced to pay thousands of dollars plus legal fees. her images without her permission could face a fine of up to $250,000. At the bare minimum, to use a photo on your website, either take the At the other end of the spectrum are photographers who don’t care photo yourself or get a usage license from the photographer. Most phoabout their copyrights. tographers are willing to provide wedding planners complimentary files As photographers, we earn part of our living from the resale of images. for use on websites and in printed material. With a bit of understandTherefore, we are angry when another photographer steals our images ing, you can prevent not only yourself from running afoul of copyright to advertise his or her services. And we’re upset when our images are infringement but also keep your clients from running into trouble. used commercially, and we don’t receive compensation. We’re also unhappy when we see our images used on wedding favors without our Watch the July/August issue of Wedding Planner Magazine for a follow-up permission. Photographers are not unreasonable. We’re simply trying article on model releases. Wedding Planner Magazine 23 24 Wedding Planner Magazine A B C m e m b e r insight “Goin’ to the Chapel” And Yes, They’re Getting Married! WRITTEN By Sandra M. Monahan, MBC™, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant® The marriage ceremony is the main event of the wedding day. It sets the tone for the festivities, which is why location is important— whether in a chapel, church, synagogue, tent, park, hotel ballroom, intimate restaurant, or other venue significant to the couple. However, there are general guidelines that should, and in many instances, must be followed. Armed with a little information, savvy wedding professionals will be on top of the process with some basic knowledge and be able to respect venue requirements while fulfilling their bride and groom’s wishes. Pre-planning is a necessity for religious weddings Ceremonies in religious churches or synagogues may have very specific pre-marital and weddingday requirements for the bride and groom, bridal party, and family. It’s imperative the couple contact their church of choice well in advance of the wedding date. Some religions require at least six months of pre-marital instructions before clergy will consider the request. their family, and planner. Etiquette should always be followed by whoever is contacting the church or clergy for planning purposes. Non-denominational ceremonies and unique locations Couples who choose to be married outside of a specific religion or church may choose a non-denominational ceremony in a unique location. An even more active planning role becomes essential for this type of ceremony. The consultant may find it challenging finding a venue and non-denominational officiant, celebrant, or minister to conduct the service. Venues for ceremonies today are vast and can take place in just about any location, providing the officiant will travel to and conduct the rite of passage in the chosen venue. Quality planning for a non-denominational ceremony at an unusual location requires more attention to detail due to logistics and venue capabilities. Whatever the location, it’s the goal of the planner to make this part of the day one of the most memorable and meaningful. Planners should make suggesThe planner or consultant may take on a tions to the bride and groom to start the supportive role by securing contact names process. What about a ceremony on the and locations of the requested church for his merry-go-round in an amusement park? or her clients, especially those from out of Great atmosphere and fun for the guests, but state searching for a church where they can most important is its underlying meaning to be married. Quite often, the priest, minister, the couple. Tented ceremonies at historical rabbi, etc. will approve and plan only with sites, museums of the creative arts, lobbies of the engaged couple. The traditions of many religions can be complicated and specific dogma professional buildings, greenhouses, wineries, barns, private homes, and just about any place should be handled with respect by the couple, Sandra M. Monahan, MBC™, is founder and president of Weddings Without Worries, Wexford, Penn., the Pennsylvania ABC state coordinator, and senior member of the Association of Bridal Consultants. A Life-Cycle Celebrant ® and the Pennsylvania Alumni Chapter facilitator with Celebrant Foundation & Institute, she was published in Spirituality and Health Newsletter in February 2011. As an etiquette consultant with Etiquette Survival, her work has been acknowledged by author Sue Fox in Wedding Etiquette for Dummies (2010). Experience in floral design combined with sales and marketing opportunities in newspaper advertising and human services have provided the essential skills for a successful wedding industry career. She is also a member in the National Association of Professional Women. She has officiated well over 250 marriage ceremonies—and quit counting. © OvationImag es.com © Dom enic Bu you can think of are being used as ceremony sites for today’s bride and groom. Keep a list of officiants and celebrants in your area Many officiants and celebrants can be found on wedding-related websites. Planners need working knowledge of non-denominational ministers in their surrounding area. Just like any other wedding professional, officiants fill their schedules for weeks, sometimes a year, in advance. Finding an officiant is a unique opportunity for planners The specific style of ceremony varies greatly— from traditional scripts with basic structure, to those officiated by Life-Cycle Celebrants™ who offer personalized custom-written ceremonies. The consultant’s interview process with the couple, and keen insight into their personality, are the keys to finding the officiant who will best suit the clients’ needs. Just like any of the other vendors used for the wedding day, the officiant, celebrant, or minister should have a comfortable relationship with the bride and groom. Who better to steer a couple toward an officiant than their planner or consultant? As you guide your bride and groom on the journey of their wedding day, and to the ceremony location of their choice, strive to make it a unique and creative experience. Even if they aren’t going to the chapel, it’s still their marriage ceremony of love and an important rite of passage in their lives. •• Photography by Leanna rello Wedding Planner Magazine 25 The “Miss Dorothy” Heart Award Deadline is August 15, 2011 Has another association member helped you and your business? Show your appreciation by nominating that member for the Miss Dorothy Heart award. The Miss Dorothy Penner Heart Award for Passion and Excellence to the Wedding Industry is the only award presented by the Association of Bridal Consultants. It honors a member who has demonstrated a “passion for the wedding industry.” Members are nominated by their peers and are judged by the Miss Dorothy committee. Requirements for nominating: • Person must be nominated by a fellow member. • Person must be a current ABC Consultant or Vendor member. • Person must have been a member for at least five years. • Download and fill out the application form on the Association of Bridal Consultants website, www.BridalAssn.com. This award is unique to the Association of Bridal Consultants and its members. The winner will be announced at the Business of Brides Conference in Baltimore. 26 Wedding Planner Magazine Image by 808 Studios Photography www.ShootingfortheSoul.com where flowers last...like memories We are the floral preservation artists that make flowers LAST…like memories. Become an Easy Ship Partner (ESP) today! 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If the economy worsens, expect couples to pull back.” John Rudy, director of sales and marketing, Classic Party Rentals, is optimistic. “The worst of the sinking sales seems to be behind us. Though the economy is not robust, entertain“2011 certainly looks better than 2009 and 2010,” says Shane McMurray, CEO and founder ing is back on the rise and business is up from two years ago. Cuts in labor and studies in of The Wedding Report, Inc. “If the economy efficiencies are helping companies be more holds up, we should see improvement; howproductive and profitable,” he says. ever, if gas prices continue to increase, expect higher costs, which will cause couples to begin Re-invention and innovation are to think about cost-cutting measures.” keys to survival Trend swings upward, but watch out The upturn is shaky, however, with multiple influences on the economy ever present and for variables unpredictable. Thus, it is vital that those in the The recession’s effect on the wedding business was adverse. McMurray reports that the average wedding industry remain alert. Rebecca Grinnals, president of Engaging Concepts, a consulamount spent on a wedding went from almost tant to the wedding industry, advises knowledge $29,000 in 2007 to just under $20,000 in 2009, and ingenuity. “In today’s incredibly competitive and the average number of guests went from 166 to 129. The demand for professional services and in many cases, totally over-saturated marketplace, there is not a business out there decreased, while many consumers resorted to that does not need to continue to re-invent and do-it-yourself and reconsidered how they were innovate in order to be in this game.” spending and how many people they were inviting to the wedding. That trend swung upward in 2010, according to The Knot’s 2010 Real Wedding Knowledge will be a vital tool, so it is essential Survey results. “Less than a third (31 percent) of to be as informed as possible. “Diversify and educate yourself,” says McMurray. One way to do brides said the economy affected their wedding that is to explore opportunities in the industry. budget—a decrease from 34 percent in 2009.” Elise Enloe, MBC™, director of education for the Association of Bridal Consultants (ABC), says, Continued improvement could depend on “Many wedding professionals have used the the economy. “In 2011 spending should see recent economic situation to update or upgrade only moderate increases, if any, as consumer confidence improves and the number of guests their educational and professional credentials.” The ABC is a resource for foundational programincrease,” McMurray states in the “2011 ming, networking, business skill development, Wedding Market Insight Report” from The and wedding trend ideas from industry leaders. Wedding Report. “If the economy continues to stabilize, couples will feel more comfortable about spending, and we should see the average Keeping track of what’s happening in your market as far as consumer spending, trends, amount spent on a wedding come in between Average wedding budget Wedding Budget Trends $30,000 $20,000 $10,000 2007 2009 Wedding Market Insight Report © The Wedding Report 2011 and competitive threats is important as well, says McMurray. “Look at how much consumers are spending, not how much your competitors are charging.” People are looking at their events more critically and spending their money in areas that are most important to them and have the biggest impact on the event, Rudy says. “Smart vendors are investing heavily in training to differentiate themselves with service and creativity.” He suggests more Internet-based marketing and increased use of face-to-face meetings to establish relationships. Take advantage of technology and media Wise use of available media can help you stay in the game. “Brides are savvier than ever and have shifted their priorities,” Grinnals says, explaining that their access to information and inspiration is vast. “They can pull together a ‘vendor dream team’ in a few quick clicks— something that a few short years ago was one of a wedding planner’s biggest assets.” The Knot survey emphasizes the importance of technology. “From using social media to communicate wedding details (a 78 percent increase since 2008) and creating/sending save-the-dates or invitations online (a 40 percent increase since 2008) to using an online RSVP service (a 31 percent increase since 2008), or setting up personal wedding websites (a 23 percent increase since 2008), brides are increasingly using online wedding tools to prepare for the big day.” Think outside of the box Changing social trends are also influential. “Learn more about the space outside of your box,” advises McMurray. “It’s the changing generation; they want different things.” Couples are choosing less traditional and formal affairs. They want casual and unique weddings. He predicts that couples will look for more a la carte, day-of, month-of services instead of full service. “It’s less expensive and helps give them the direction they need. Consumers are smart; they are demanding more for their money.” Today, it is important to focus on the couple’s individuality, to help them spend their budget so that it will result in a unique, fun wedding that reflects them personally, Grinnals suggests. “What wedding planners can provide that resonates powerfully with today’s consumer is the luxury of time to enjoy the wedding planning process and help minimize stress.” •• Wedding Planner Magazine 27 m ast e r b r idal cons u ltant ™ Master Profile Brigid Horne-Nestor, MBC™ i-do Weddings & Events, Inc., Cincinnati Employees: 2 full-time, 10 part-time seasonal Revenue breakdown: 40% planning, 10% coordination, 10% rentals, 35% i-do Boutique, 3% bridal show, 2% speaking/teaching Contact: 513.762.5550 and 513.871.6400, [email protected] www.i-do-weddings.com, www.i-do-boutique.com, www.i-do-store.com Twitter and Facebook photography credits: Portrait by Rachael Waring of Living Photography, wedding images by Essenza Studio. FAMILY: Husband, Terry Nestor; son Conor, 11; daughter Cara, 9. EDUCATION: Bachelor of Arts in political science, Catholic University of America, Washington, D.C. PAST CAREER: Financial services/bond underwriter and Irish dancing instructor. ABC INVOLVEMENT: Speaker, 2004 ABC conference, Atlanta; 2004 Special Event, Miami; 2006 ABC conference, Colorado Springs; PBC™ 1999-2008; ABC™ 2008-2011. WHY ABC: The ABC is one of the big influencers in the wedding industry! It is the only professional association I participate in because it’s most relevant for my business goals. As a “momprenuer,” it’s important to eliminate commitments that don’t produce measurable value. Some of my most profitable business practices are ideas from fellow ABC members. ON BECOMING A MBC™: I felt a responsibility for setting a good example. If I truly believed in the mission of the ABC and wanted to advance the profession, it was time to walk the walk and not just talk the talk. THE BUSINESS: Wedding planning, consulting, coordination, and speaking/education. I also own i-do Boutique, a complimentary vendor-supported wedding/event resource library, through which we host an alternative “bridal show” three times annually, Unbridled @ Uncorked. GETTING STARTED: While planning my own wedding, I discovered I loved it and started coordinating weddings on the side. I followed my bliss full-time in 1999 when I started my company. My big break came when a reporter featured my business on a local news segment called “Smart Woman,” airing after Oprah. I booked 10 weddings from that interview! MENTOR: While many people inspired me, including Ohio’s state coordinator, Joyce Smith MBC™, it was Merry Beth Turpin, a consultant from Seattle who helped most. In 2001, Merry Beth was the featured planner in an issue of Dialogue. I was so inspired! We met at the ABC conference in Los Angeles that year and spent several hours talking. We exchanged information on marketing, teaching seminars, fees, and more. Meeting her was the single biggest contributor to the growth and early success of my business. GOALS: To eliminate ineffective business practices, delegate more, automate as much as possible, and personally, work less hours as a result. My dream is to work side-by-side with my daughter one day. INSPIRATION: I’m inspired by interior design, and the creative industries we work with daily like photographers, cinematographers, florists, and cake designers. MARKETING STRATEGY: I try to get as much free PR as possible by submitting ideas to my media contacts. When I pay for advertising, I always negotiate a better rate. I also ask prospective clients how they found me so I can use that information to make better advertising investments. Finally, I reevaluate my advertising every year. This is one area where being on “autopilot” can really hurt your bottom line. IDEAL CLIENT: A bride, groom, or parent who does not micromanage and trusts me to do the job I am being paid well to do. STAYING FRESH: I vacation with my family, attend annual conference, and always make time for the spa. My favorite indulgence is massage; it makes me a nicer person. I refresh my company by regularly making changes to my websites and marketing materials. I also try to incorporate at least one new business idea that scares me each year. My business grows more when I step outside my comfort zone. WORDS OF WISDOM: Diversify and increase your passive revenue streams so you can work in the business you love while avoiding burn out. Charge value-based fees. So many planners charge too little, and this hurts our industry. ON HER BOOKSHELF: The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell. IN HER FREE TIME: I work at the most important job I have—being a mom and a wife. GIVING BACK: I am a member of Wish Upon a Wedding and the Pink Initiative. •• Wedding Planner Magazine 29 The Finest in Museum-Quality Gown Preservation Bridal Gown Storage Available Nationwide! legacy P rotect your gown so it may be worn by future generations. Recognized as one of the nation’s finest preservationists, Margaret’s Cleaners offers true Museum-Quality preservation & restoration. Our heirloom service includes a written international guarantee honored at over 500 locations worldwide. In addition, we now offer gown storage service for your gown’s protection either before the wedding or following preservation. Our storage facility is secure & climate-controlled to protect your gown from damage caused by heat, humidity & insects. Through our Clean By Mail™ service we provide a pre-paid courier kit so you can send your gown to us with confidence. Your preserved gown will be shipped back to you protected with a study shipping box, along with complete care instructions. Southern California brides may wish to consider our pre-wedding services, including alterations, cleaning, pressing, site delivery, & on-site pressing. For more information, please watch the video on our website. Margaret’s is proud to be the preferred service provider to many bridal salons & couture designers. Preserve the Gown – Ensure the Memories (866) 454-2375 www.margarets.com SAN DIEGO • LA JOLLA • DEL MAR • NEWPORT BEACH • BEvERLy HILLS The Nation’s First 5 Star Certified Couture Cleaner ™ www.arti stgroup.n et The ABC Professional Development Program (PDP) offers some of the most comprehensive training in the industry—and it is still the fastest way to earn or advance your credentials under the new ABC points system. The PDP is available in both printed version and on CD. P elopment Program Professional Dev Your guide to becoming a ltant™ Bridal Consu Professional © Association ltants of Bridal Consu The Professional Development Program is now available with a new introductory section covering the major components of the planning process. The six graded courses are: Introduction to Planning, Etiquette, Sales and Marketing, Wedding Day, Related Services, and Planning and Consulting. Ants BridAl consult AssociAtion ofof wedding excellence the standard INVESTMENT: Individual courses at $119 each for a total of $595. Best value is the full program at $475. HOW TO ORDER: Go to www.BridalAssn.com, and click on the ABC Members header. Then log-in and use the drop-down menu for “educational materials” so we can promptly send the program. Call the ABC main office at 860.355.7000, and we’ll be happy to help you. g What We Love and Why “Teux Deux is a must-have to-do list. I love Square for taking credit card payments and use it with my iPad and iPhone. We just wrote a book and had a book signing and used it there. It was easy to use and is indispensable. Voice Memo is an easy way to dictate reminder notes, etc.” - Gail Johnson, ABC™, Wedding Soiree, Tucker, Ga., www.weddingsoiree.com A B C m e m b e r b e st p r actic e s Invaluable Apps “Evernote is an app I couldn’t live without! Long live the day of Post-it notes and pocket journals, this app holds it all—from inspiration I see when I’m out and about to favorite finds on the web. I record them all in this handy app that stores photos, records memos, and creates to-dos as well.” - Gina Vittorio, One Fine Day Events, Chicago, www.onefinedaychicago.com “My favorite app, hands down, is Sunrise Sunset. I can tell the photographer, the videographer, and the bride what time sunset is on her wedding day so we can move forward with the timeline early in the planning process. I love this app!” - Robyn Martin, ABC™, The Wedding Belle, Edmond, Okla., www.weddingbelleweddings.com “RingCentral is a service, but it also has an app. I LOVE it! It allows me to keep my personal cell and still provide professionalism. The app lets me make business calls from my cell phone, but shows as my business phone.” - Terrilynn Cook, T. Michelle Event Design, Charlotte, N.C., www.tmichelleevents.com “Intuition is a hidden gem. It’s created with mothers in mind. Even though I have no children, it’s the best to-do list out there! You can connect to other Intuition users offering tips on home projects, entertaining, and menu ideas through Facebook and Twitter. There’s a location selection that shows you what’s around you in case you’re easily lost or out of your home city. There’s a separate calendar inside the app as well, so you can set alerts and have them show up as push notifications. There are inspirational quotes along the bottom of the page instead of ads. My favorite part is that you aren’t limited to the groups they create. I have groups specifically for the things I have to do for CVE, return phone calls, chores, my wish list of fun things, and errands that aren’t so fun.” - Michelle Porter, PBC™, Clear Vision Events, Charlotte, N.C., www.clearvisionevents.com “I’ve found the site toodledo.com and its apps invaluable. Toodledo allows you multiple levels of organization for every item on your to-do list. The TaskAdder app allows me to add tasks to my Toodledo folders. The app, Done!, allows me to adjust, remove, and alter any task as well as sync the tasks to my online account. Toodledo also allows me to grant my staff access to my to-do list so they can tell at a glance what has been assigned to them. There is no worry that I might forget a task. One quick look lets me know not just what I need to do today but next week and next month as well. It takes less than 10 minutes to become familiar with the system. This app and website are definitely some things I couldn’t live without. It makes my job so much easier and increases the value of the services I provide to my clients.” - Ronni Johnston, PBC™, Perfect Touch Custom Weddings, Wichita, K.S., www.YourPerfectTouch.com “My favorite app on my Droid is ScreenLight. It comes in quite handy, particularly for evening rehearsals, weddings, and receptions. When in a dimly lit room, you need to be able to reference your timeline, ceremony program, etc. Receptions are notoriously in darkened rooms, not meant for reading, so this innocuous little app comes in quite handy! - Victoria Wagner, PBC™, A Splash of Elegance, Reston, Va., www.asplashofelegance.com. “I love the social networking. Also, my navigation app is useful so I don’t get lost trying to find some of these venues!” - Veronica Foster, ABC™, Behind the Scenes, Inc., Greensboro, N.C., www.behindthescenesinc.com “The What Flower? app helps to quickly show a client flowers they may not be familiar with, present them with alternative ideas, in season information, other colors, etc. It can be very handy.” - Kathryn Wrenn, My Posh Event, Raleigh, N.C., www.myposhevent.com “My navigation app is indispensable. I no longer use up precious minutes or tons of paper finding and printing directions to new venues.” - Emily McCollin, Occasions By Emily, Mills River, N.C., www.occasionsbyemily.com Wedding Planner Magazine 31 Advertisement Advertiser’s Index ABC Award The “Miss Dorothy” Heart Award……………… 26 ABC Conferences ABC Business of Brides 2011………… Back Cover ABC Educational Programs Professional Development Program… ……… 30 ABC Scholarship The “Miss Dorothy” Scholarship… …………… 19 Accessories TME Co., Inc………………………………………… 28 Weddingstar… ………………………………………… 4 Associations American Disc Jockey Association… ………… 24 Association of Bridal Consultants… …… 19, 26, 30, Back Cover Insurance Wedding Protector Plan… ……………………… 16 Keepsakes Art Vows………………………………………………… 3 Corked………………………………………………… 16 freezeframe/bloombeads………………………… 26 Keepsake Floral… ………………………………… 12 ketubah.com…………………………………………… 8 Margaret’s Cleaners… …………………………… 30 The Unity Cross… ………………………………… 22 Media The Knot………………………………………………… 6 The Wedding Vendor……………………………… 34 Wedding Planner Magazine… ………………… 20 Resorts Sandals Resorts… ……………………………… 2, 14 Software Elm Software………………………………………… Frogware……………………………………………… Murphys Creativity Software…………………… Webs 4 Weddings… ……………………………… 20 28 12 35 Tourism/Travel Mexico Tourism Board……………………… 32, 33 MoonRings…………………………………………… 13 34 Wedding Planner Magazine WedPro 3.1 The All-In-One Management Solution WedPro’s Cloud allows your Brides to have “around the clock” access to their event information. WedPro 3.1 Improved Market Presence • Built-in Marketing Site with SEO services available • Integrated Google Analytics and Link Tracking • Provide branded BridalSites for each of your Brides Produce Additional Revenue • BridalStore for all Brides to purchase favors • Vendors like Kate Aspen, Carlson Craft, and MissNowMrs • Increase offerings by adding services for clients Save Time and Money • Web Hosting and Email included with WedPro • Automate and schedule emails, social media posts and tasks • Integrated Room Designer, Guest List, and RSVP List Integration • One time entry of information and documents that will be accessible to brides “WedPro saves me time and money while helping to promote my business and do things more efficiently.” Amanda Peterson, PBC Ocean Breeze Weddings and Events Fort Walton Beach, Florida www.webs4weddings.com 888.212.0175 Member Since 2007 Webs 4 Weddings is a division of Webs 4 Inc. Periodical Wedding Planner Magazine 400 Main Street La Crosse, WI 54601 ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED Mark your Calendar November 6-8, 2011 g at the Tremont Grand www.businessofbrides.com ABC Members You’ll Meet In This Issue... Deborah Beggs, Classic Party Rental........ 7, 11 Brancato’s..................................................................17 Heather Canada, ABC™........................................13 Cloth Connection.................................................15 Terrilyn Cook...........................................................31 Creative Videos......................................................17 Mary Dann................................................................13 Elisa Delgardio, CSEP, ABC™........................ 13, 19 Desireé Moore Dent........................................... 19 detail+design...........................................................15 Elegant Ocassions.............................................5, 11 Elise Enloe, MBC™...........................................13, 27 Tara Fay...................................................................... 21 Veronica Foster, ABC™..........................................31 Shay Freeman, MBC™............................................13 Patti Gehring, ABC™...............................................17 Renée Grannis, MBC™.................................... 13, 18 Rebecca Grinnals, Engaging Concepts.......27 Kate Harrison, Green Bride Guide.................13 Kim Horn, MBC™..................................................7, 9 Brigid Horne-Nestor, MBC™........................ 7, 29 Hyatt Regency Crown Center.........................17 IndyVisual..................................................................15 Gail Johnson, ABC™.........................................19, 31 Ronni Johnston, PBC™...........................................31 Karl’s Event Services..........................................7, 9 Howard Kier............................................................23 Magical Moments Photography....................23 Mark Kingsdorf, MBC™.................................. 13, 19 Yoshi Kohara............................................................. 7 Laura’s Couture Collection...............................17 Teddy Lenderman, MBC™...................................13 Robyn Martin, ABC™.............................................31 Emily McCollin.......................................................31 Peter Merry.............................................................13 Sandra M. Monahan, MBC™................. 13, 19, 25 Olive Juice Studios...........................Cover, 9, 10 Hester Parks, ABC™............................................... 19 Pennway Place.........................................................17 Michelle Porter, PBC™...........................................31 Monica Richard, MBC™........................................15 Elisabeth Scott Daley, ABC™.............................13 Tonya Shadoan, MBC™.........................................13 Joyce Smith, MBC™.............................................. 29 Studio Dan Meiners.............................................17 Take the Cake..........................................................17 The Knot, Inc...........................................................13 Shelby Tuck-Horton, MBC™...............................13 Merry Beth Turpin............................................... 29 Paul Versluis Photography............................5, 17 Gina Vittorio......................................................19, 31 Victoria Wagner, PBC™.........................................31 Tammy Waterman, ABC™....................................13 Kathryn Wrenn.......................................................31 David Yargus, Classic Party Rental..............7, 9