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AlsoInside 2 4 9 - Apostolic Church of God
E d i f i c at i o n • I n s p i r at i o n • B o o k s • C o m m u n i t y & O u t r e a c h • He a lt h & W e l l n e s s • M i n i s t r y • Y o u t h a p u b l i c a t i o n o f t h e A p o s t o l i c C h u r c h o f g o d MARCH 2012 Finish what you started in me, God. Your love is eternal— don’t quit on me now. Psalm 138:8 The Message 2 4 9 AlsoInside Cultivate Yourself in Christ | Wear What Fits | Servanthood Spring Recruitment aroundACOG Sisterhood Connection Makes a Heart Connection P astor Carolyn Jenkins of Fresh Anointing Center (Evanston) preached about the heart of a worshiper at the 4 O’clock service Sunday, February 19. A frequent guest speaker for ACOG women’s events, Pastor Jenkins inspired the women and men who gathered in Kenwood Sanctuary that evening to seek the Lord with their whole hearts. Photos by Leonard McGee Pastor Dr. Byron T. Brazier Founding Editor Therese McGee Managing Editor Jennifer LuVert Editors Darlene Dennard, Reginald Griffin Samira Robinson, Sharon Prince Church Office Assistant Doris Williams Photography Donnie Hampton Tyrone Mason Leonard E. McGee Editorial Assistant Sharon Prince Distribution Eric Owens Mary Robinson March Contributors Stephanie Blackwell Granada Cartwright Jacquelin McCord-Harris Laura Penson Sharon Prince Samira Robinson Design/Layout comingUP LaShaunn Tappler LT ComDesign, LLC acog-chicago.org. Men’s Fish Fry. Please join the Brotherhood for a night of fellowship and food on Friday, March 23, at 6:30 p.m. This is your chance to enjoy a night of fried fish and other culinary delights as we watch the thought-provoking movie Courageous. Tickets are $10 and can be purchased online at Love Again: A Seminar for Singles. A dynamic four-week series, “Love Again” will inspire singles to explore the origin of love, as found in Genesis, and 2 | The Cross&Crown the character of God in love. Learn your responsibility as a Christian to move toward healing and wholeness in love, as reflected through God’s love for His people. Held Tuesday evenings beginning March 6, from 6 to 9 p.m., in the Kenwood Sanctuary, the session will be taught by Patrick D. Shaffer, a writer, national blogger, “sacred activist,” and author of Love Again: A Spiritual Memoir, on which the seminar is based. The session is only $10 (plus the cost of the book). Register online at www.acog-chicago.org. The Cross & Crown is published monthly by the Apostolic Church of God, 6320 South Dorchester Avenue, Chicago, Illinois 60637 © 2012. All submissions are welcome and will be reviewed for publication. The deadline for advertisements is the first Sunday of each month prior to the month in which the ad will appear. Submissions should be left in the newsletter folder in the administrative office. ISSN: 1543-9712 Volume 10 Issue 3 Correction: The February issue of The Cross & Crown reported incorrect volume and issue numbers. They should have been Volume 10 Issue 2 versus Volume 9 Issue 12 as reported. aroundACOG ministryNEWS Daytimers Computer Graduates T we can be certain of: God is always present and He never fails. Thus, we live a risen life. Whatever the situation, good or bad, our faith will rise to meet the test, just as Job’s eventually did in the midst of his suffering. Oh that my words were now written! oh that they were printed in a book! That they were graven with an iron pen and lead in the rock for ever! For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth: And though after my skin worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God: Whom I shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me. (Job 19:23–27) Job had a tragic story. His condition and his circumstances were more than what most people could bear. He lost his children, he lost his wealth, he lost his health—all at once. He suffered persecution, loneliness, rejection, indifference, and alienation. In constant pain, he was under both physical and mental distress. His situation was so bad, his wife told him to curse God and die (Job 2:9); and his friends just sat and looked at him for three days before accusing him of doing something to bring such calamity upon his life. Job was at his worst, but somehow a burst of faith came forth from within his soul. Job rose to the occasion. From his dissertation of weakness, dismay, and distress came a testimony of God’s presence and grace in his life. Where he may have thought his situation was permanent, God provided a permanent solution. continued on page 15 …they are simply trials common to humankind that ultimately can make us better and stronger when we Photo by Victor Powell respond in faith. pastor’sCOLUMN Remembering a Faithful Servant T he Cross & Crown has some of the most dedicated, enthusiastic volunteers in the church, and one of those volunteers was the late Edward Watkins. Many of his pictures graced the pages of the photo gallery. He loved taking pictures (especially those involving the pastor and the Brotherhood) and served faithfully in the ministry until illness sidelined him in 2009. Last December, Edward lost his battle with cancer but gained so much more when He entered the presence of the Lord. Photo by Leonard McGee L by Dr. Byron T. Brazier ife is a conglomeration of mountaintop and valley moments. Yet, as believers, we can live victoriously in our mountaintop and valley experiences because Jesus is the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). Life will take you through, but the grace of God will bring you out. A difficult time may look like this: we lose a loved one, we struggle on our jobs, we have challenges in our most important relationships, we can barely make ends meet, or we have trouble raising our children. When it’s bad, we sometimes wonder what we did to deserve such trouble. The answer is often nothing—they are simply trials common to humankind that ultimately can make us better and stronger when we respond in faith. To be sure, there are times when our struggles are the result of our mistakes, whether we made up our mind to do something we know we shouldn’t have or we were pressured into doing the wrong thing. No matter the source of our struggles, there are two things o be certain, Bible class is the most important aspect of Daytimers. It takes place every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. However, the ministry offers opportunities for adults (primarily seniors) to develop and grow in others areas of their lives. There was a Tuesday afternoon Spanish class taught by Beverly Curry, and more recently, a computer class that matriculated its first class in February. The happy graduates learned the basics about using a computer, from turning it on to using a mouse to opening and closing documents. Dr. Brazier even stopped by to congratulate the graduates on their accomplishment. In a rare moment, Edward is captured on the lens meeting our future president when he visited ACOG on Father’s Day in 2008. March 2012 | 3 aroundACOG Someone You Should Know: Elder Walter Shaw: A Pillar of Faith by Laura Penson W hen you think of one of the church fathers, who comes to mind other than the late Bishop Arthur M. Brazier? There are several men, but how about Elder Walter Shaw. He has been a member and an employee of the Apostolic Church of God for forty-one years. Elder Shaw (then just Walter Shaw) was introduced to Bishop Brazier (then Elder Brazier) in 1971 through a former member and church custodian, Elder Vanuel Little (now Bishop Little). Elder Little was leaving to pastor a church in Oklahoma, and he recommended Elder Shaw to take his place as the church custodian. Elder Brazier accepted his recommendation. Elder Little baptized his friend in Jesus’ name, and he was filled with the Holy Ghost. Then Elder Brazier hired the new saint to help keep the church clean. When Elder Shaw first started working for the church, the staff was small. Besides himself, there was the late Deacon Gerald Nuckolls Sr. and Elder Walter Miles, who now lives in Texas. Sister Janice Dortch, who still works for the church, joined them a few years later in the early 1980s. Elder Shaw started out working part time. While working for the church, he kept his job at Hillman’s store, where he worked in the warehouse. He stayed there until 1982 and began working for the church full time in 1983. “I love working for the church,” says Elder Shaw. He especially loves talking to people and allowing God to use him to win souls for Christ. He became “Elder Shaw” in the mid-1970s, and he became an ordained minister in 2007, shortly before Bishop Brazier retired as pastor. Today, he is semi-retired. He performs small duties around the church, but he is not able to perform fulltime duties because of vision problems. Since his semi-retirement, he has mostly been relaxing at home but still serving God in the church. A native of Water Valley, Mississippi, Elder Shaw came to Chicago on a Greyhound bus with his mother when he was a little boy. He attended Betsy Coleman Elementary School, and he held his first job as a dishwasher for Esquire Restaurant on 63rd and Ingleside when he was a teenager. He has been married to his loving wife for sixty years, and they have four children. Although he has no formal seminary or theological training, he learned everything through Bishop Brazier by attending Bible class and by reading and studying the Word of God. He said the one thing he loved about Bishop Brazier is that he was a man of integrity and he was a visionary. “If he wanted something done, he knew how to do it and get the job done right,” says Elder Shaw, who turns eighty-one next month. “He was an excellent teacher and a man of order.” And Elder Shaw strives to be the same. newMEMBERS Rejoice! The following people were baptized in Jesus’ name and received the Holy Spirit in January 2012 Terry Alexander Kennedy Bordeaux Myra Bowens Gloria Brewer William Brewer Krystal Byrd Donita Campbell Margaret Castillo Karen Christmas-Gray Daniel Coleman Justice Coleman Jharon Cosby Jasmine Crowder Kamari Crudup Denise Davis Vanessa Durham Colin Evans Debbra Flowers Gregory Ford Anthony Franklin Tyler Genovesi Jocelyn Grays Destiny Green Latoia Green Ronald Green 4 | The Cross&Crown Ronald Gresham Michael Hatcher Lamon Hendrix Belinda Henry Cottrell Hopson Bridget Kane Mekele Kelly Gina Lackland Rachel Lackland Johnny Lee Dujuan Lucas Annie Maddox Tonya Mahomes Jerrel Malcom Aaliyah Miller James Millsap Jr. Raymond Montgomery Dalina Moreira Christian Morris Jeana Myrick Darnell Payne Tondalaya Perkins-Millsap Tiffany Petties Kimberly Randall Audrey Reed Robert Richards Eric Ross Kiara Rouse Tricia Sanders John Sculfield Marcus Smith Brittany Stoudemire April Thomas Tracey Thompson Angela Walker James Wallace Kia Washington Tia West Aaron Whigham Cameron Wiggins Cordell Wiggins Jahque Williams Jasmine Williams Trishawnna Williams Vivian Williams Danny Wilson Carmela Woods Malik Wrightsell Ronez Young babyBLESSINGS The following babies were blessed in March: Charlie Allen IV Ethan Bridges MaKiya Carter NiKayla Collins Amiyah Long Rhonda-Rene Parker Legacy Perry Elijah Ross David Thomas McKenzie Thompson Victoria Williams lifeAPPLICATION forWOMEN Growing Up in God Together: Sisterhood Connection & R.U.T.H. 2 S isterhood Connection kicks off its annual R.U.T.H. (Reaching Up to Him) series this month. The second installment of a spring series that seeks to help women strengthen their relationships with God, self, and other women, this year’s class is taken from the story of Hannah and Peninnah (see 1 Samuel 2). The four-week series begins Saturday, March 10, at 8:30 a.m., in the Banquet Hall. Following is a synopsis of each session: God, You Have My Attention! Women will explore the historical framework of Hannah, Peninnah, and Elknah and how it relates to us today. In addition, we will show how we cannot stop others from unjustly criticizing us, but we can choose how to react—to seek God and connect with His promise for us. When we place our attention on Him by renewing our minds, we are able to deal with the “Peninnahs” and move toward our promise. Keeping it Real. When you get to a place of being connected with God, He will show you who you really are. Are you Hannah or Penninah, or a little bit of both? The moment you become your authentic self, you provide God with the opportunity to heal, deliver, and set you on the path He has designed for you. Changing an Impossible Situation. Hannah took her prayer life and faith to another level when she earnestly prayed to God for a son. It was that transparency, deeper level of worship, and radical prayer that took her to another level. This week, learn what it takes to receive your spiritual breakthrough and to live an exceeding abundant life. Only You are Anointed to Be You, So Do “You”! Hannah was the only woman anointed to be Samuel’s mother. Likewise, God has strategically ordained your path to make you who He has designed you to be. God has a purpose for your life that only you can fulfill. Celebrate the “you” God called you to be: fabulous, fierce, and faithful! Registration is $5 per session. Register online at www.acog-chicago.org. forNEWMEMBERS Cultivate Yourself in Christ by Evangelist Samira E. Robinson Whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. (Galatians 6:7b) S ee yourself growing into all that God wants you to be in Christ Jesus! Growing involves both accessing the expanse of God for our true and full potential and weeding out the things that hinder our growth. Growth has to be cultivated. In the process, the good things are pruned and more good growth is experienced. As a result, we bloom and blossom in Christ. The life of Christ in us is cultivated through our way of living—the choices we make and how we live. Our spirituality must be intentional. It shows that we receive the grace God has given us. Cultivating the garden of our soul keeps it healthy and producing more of what we want and less of what we don’t want. It builds our godly character and strength and increases the things of God such as peace, prosperity, and power. It keeps the fruit of the Spirit ripe. Cultivation occurs through the practice of our faith in God, reading and understanding the Bible, prayer, praise and thanksgiving, attending church, walking in love, surrendering to His will, and serving Him. As a result, good is multiplied, our witness is intensified, and God is glorified. Our goal is to reach maturity in Christ Jesus, to walk closely in our relationship with Him. Cultivate yourself and let God produce a harvest in your life! inTHEWord Growing in God by Jacquelin McCord-Harris D o you remember as a child when you used to measure yourself against your mother or father? You would put you hand over your head from time to time and say, “I’m almost up to your shoulder.” You went back some time later and found out you were up to their chins or even taller. You began to feel “grown”; you could see the growth. Similarly as Christians, we start out as “babies in the Lord” upon our conversion. As we spend time reading the Bible, attending Bible Study, or taking classes, we learn more about God and His grace and mercy. We learn of God’s love and the sacrifice of His only Son, Jesus, for our sins. After time, we share our testimony with others; we volunteer our gifts and talents to further God’s Kingdom. We can see the growth in our walk with the Lord. As we ponder the magnitude and majesty of God’s greatness, we realize how small we are in the grand scheme of the creation of the heavens and the earth. Yet the Scriptures say that before the beginning of the world, God not only had us in mind, but He also knew the plans He had for us (Jeremiah 29:11) and predestinated us to be His chosen ones. “The LORD will work out his plans for my life—for your faithful love, O LORD, endures forever. Don’t abandon me, for you made me” (Psalm 138:8, NLT). March 2012 | 5 6 | The Cross&Crown featureSTORY by Granada Cartwright W e stand in our mother’s highheeled shoes. We play in our father’s long neckties. Some try their best to take that walk in heels too high for short legs to maneuver past the maze around the furniture that has suddenly appeared and created more of an obstacle than a pre-set course. Still, others skilllessly make a knot in the pristine silk fabric that normally dangles from a father’s neck like a flag flapping in the wind flaunting his arrival but trips him up as he wobbles along the way. It happens in the world of makebelieve, where we pretend to be grown-up, practicing our swagger but simultaneously tripping over our own feet. Some of us are like that in our spiritual walk. We can stand but not quite assured. We are wobbling along in shoes that don’t quite fit, that we haven’t quite grown into, and we tread unsteadily through the terrain of our Christian lives until we allow God to take us by the hand and lead us as we grow into what He has called us to. While we have examples before us of men and women who have faithfully walked with God, God wants us to learn to walk with Him. In His great love for us, He reveals His ways and shows us that we, too, can know Him and grow in our relationship with Him. It is reserved neither for the super saint, nor for Brother You-Can’t-Tell-It or Sister Let-Me-Tell-It. He has made provision for all that love Him to know Him—and amazingly know Him in an increasingly personal way. That knowing involves a decision to make Him the chief priority of our existence. It requires setting aside some things to pursue some others. It demands a recalibration of our lives and a corresponding death to dalliances of the heart that have drawn us away from our God. When our priorities call out from ringtones and chirps to more and more busyness, can we make the courageous choice to examine what draws us closer to the Lord and what seeks to pull us away? Will we continue to let our attentions be assaulted by things that titillate our senses yet lull us into a sensory stupor that undermines Christ’s presence in our lives? Are there things that scream for a yes when the Holy Spirit is whispering no? Can we be reminded there are things we have to say no to? We have to draw a line in the sand and say, “no further.” We can’t stand firmly, dressed confidently, if we’re selecting from the world’s closet. Things won’t fit. God has specific pieces that He wants us to wear, and as we grow up in Him, we are able to wear them effectively. Without the proper attire, how else will we be able to stand against the wiles of the devil? How else will we take authority over principalities and powers? How else will God’s rule and reign be manifested in the earth if His people are still playing pretend, dancing in someone else’s shoes instead of having our feet snugly in the ones He has called us to wear (Ephesians 6:11–15)? It’s difficult to stand, say no and mean it, and grow in righteousness when our hearts are divided. When we allow earthly things to occupy our hearts and minds instead of the things that Christ calls us to, we are once again playing in shoes that will trip us up. The apostle Paul calls us to set our affection on things above (Colossians 3:2). We are admonished to get in on what Christ is doing and pursue that. How do we get to that? We do it by committing to growing in our personal growth in Jesus Christ. How do we grow in that relationship? We do so by: • Studying God’s Word—God wants us to have an unrestrained desire for His Word (1 Peter 1:2–3) • Increasing in the knowledge of God’s Word—God’s Word is informing your daily walk in increasing measure (Colossians 1:10) • Having a deepening faith—Your faith looks more and more to Jesus Christ (Ephesians 4:13) • Demonstrating love—Your manner of life becomes more loving (Ephesians 4:15) • Cultivating Christ-like character—Commit to have Christ formed in you (2 Peter 1:5–8) All that we are to become is hidden with Christ in God (Colossians 3:3). Today, we might not see the total manifestation of what is to be, but as we submit to the work that God wants to do in us, it will come to past. How we walk it out is a reflection of the work that is being done in us and while not complete, it has begun. Be assured that what He has begun, He is able to complete and that includes what He’s begun in you and in me. Our walk is indicative of the things that shape us. Even if it feels like you can’t do it, you can when you remember it’s as you go rather than when you arrive. We don’t arrive in God until we are at home with Him. Here we walk it out daily, one foot in front of the other. We go from wobbling to walking, from tripping over our own feet to dancing in the presence of the Lord. If you learn to walk by imitating those that hang out, whether on the block or at the club, your walk will bear the evidence of those you pattern yourself after. If your pace is marked by fits and starts rather than a steady march toward faithfulness, you will be categorized as the one who starts but doesn’t finish. But if you demonstrate a tenacity that comes from a feverish desire to please God, then a maturing faith will be produced in you and that, my friend, you can stand assured of. When we allow earthly things to occupy our hearts and minds instead of the things that Christ calls us to, we are once again playing in shoes that will trip us up. Instant Message Ah Ha Everyone can remember a time when, struggling with a problem, the proverbial light bulb turns on. The solution is so clear we wondered why we didn’t see it all along. We call it an “ah ha” moment. In our spiritual lives, we know that God is our provider in all things, our rock when we need an arm to lean on and our comforter when we need a shoulder to cry on. Surprisingly, we take for granted the path He has paved for our lives. We make plans without seeking His will. We question His wisdom, and we ignore the gifts He has blessed us with. Imagine living a life where we not only seek God’s plans for our lives, but we also accept His will. The results will be a life of spiritual growth and that “ah ha” moment when you know God has a purpose for your life. — Sharon Prince March 2012 | 7 photoGALLERY 2 1 5 3 4 6 7 8 9 Going Red for Heart Health. The banquet hall was a sea of red Saturday, February 18, when hundreds of women donned their red dresses, red slacks, red blouses, and red shoes at “Empowered, InStyle & Inspired,” a fashion show designed to raise heart health awareness. Sponsored by the American Heart Association and Aon Hewitt, the event was hosted by the Health & Wellness Ministry and Mind, Body & Soul of the Sisterhood Connection. The main event, of course, was the fashion show featuring fashion by Barbara Bates modeled by professional models, ACOG members, and Miss Illinois USA 2012, Ashley Hooks. The women also received invaluable information from cardiologist Jeannine Turner, M.D.; exercise tips from Sloan Luckie, author of Body Under Construction; and inspiration from gospel singer Kim Stratton. Photos by Leonard McGee. 1) Author and exercise guru Sloan Luckie gets a hand from his daughter, who shows the crowd how to properly warm up. 2) The Banquet Hall was filled with beautiful women adorned in red in recognition of heart health. 3) ACOG member Monica Young (right) wraps herself in a Barbara Bates original as she’s flanked by the designer. 4) (l to r) From coordinating, to appearing on the program, Assistant Pastor Ivory Nuckolls, Evangelist Granada Cartwright, Dr. Jeannine Turner, and Dr. Erica Marsh all had a hand in making the event successful. 5) Exercise expert Sloan Luckie demonstrates a safe and easy routine. 6) A breast cancer survivor, designer Barbara Bates not only shares her designs, but she also shares her story. 7) The runway was filled with beautiful models representing various sizes and age groups. 8) Valerie Stoudemire, wife of Aon Hewitt executive Tyronne Stoudemire, was one of several ACOG members on the runway. 9) Many of the designs had touches of red in honor of heart health month. 10) Phyllis Hill, a Mind, Body & Soul team leader, elicited lots of cheers when she made her way onto the runway. 8 | The Cross&Crown 11) Henrietta Leak doesn’t need a runway to rock her inner fashionista—she does it every Sunday. 12) Tyronne Stoudemire, one of the event coordinators, goes over last-minute details with M.C. Evangelist Ivory Nuckolls. 13) Miss Illinois Ashley Hooks spends time with Kennedy Stoudemire (l) and Maxine Aguliera. 14–18) The Barbara Bates collection on display was a nice mix of fashions safe for anyone to wear and high fashion for women who like to stand out from the crowd. 19) The church not only provided a space for the event, but it also donated $5,000 to the American Heart Association. 20) The youngest person in the room wins a Barbara Bates original design for the most important woman in his life—Mom. 21) Evangelist Granada Cartwright, staff liaison for the Health & Wellness Ministry, makes final announcements. 22) The fashion show is a hit with the women of ACOG. 23) Tyronne Stoudemire is flanked by a couple of doctors, ACOG member Erica Marsha, M.D., and her colleague from Northwestern Memorial Hospital Jeannine Turner, M.D. photoGALLERY 12 13 10 11 16 14 17 15 19 18 22 20 21 23 March 2012 | 9 parentingPAGE Don't Miss It! March Youth Calendar The ACOG Parenting Ministry: Advanced Technology by Stephanie Blackwell Tweens PIVOT — 2nd, 3rd, 4th Tuesdays and Thursdays, 6 p.m. Teen Guys Lions of Judah — 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 5th Fridays, 7 p.m. Teen Girls G.R.A.C.E. — 1st Saturdays, 8:30 a.m. B.R.I.D.G.E.S. — 1st, 3rd, 5th Fridays, 6:45 p.m. Also.. Young Brothers for Christ — 2nd, 3rd & 4th Saturdays, 9 a.m. Young Sisters for Christ — 2nd, 4th Saturdays, 9 a.m. Homework Lab (all ages) — Monday – Friday, 3 p.m. Tutoring, Monday – Thursday, 6 p.m. For a complete listing of Destiny1212 Youth Ministry activities, visit www.acog-chicago.org Tools for Training From helping children deal with cyberbullying to identifying control systems for monitoring their online activities, this guide steers parents through the often intimidating digital landscape where young children can be plugged in 24/7. In addition to informing about the latest trends in technology—social-networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace, gaming systems, mp3 players, and cell phones—this handbook empowers parents to embrace the new innovations and help children get the most out of technology in a safe, well-informed manner. Suggestions for setting boundaries by age group, a cyber dictionary, sample family Internet-safety pledges, and listings of additional resources are also included. (Product Description) 10 | The Cross&Crown W e all see clearly how far technology has come in the last twenty years, from Instant Messaging to Smart Phones. While many of these programs and devices have made our lives simpler, they also have exposed our children to an endless stream of inappropriate content. While many parents assume that their young children only log on to Nickelodeon or Disney Web sites, children as young as nine-years-old have been known to access dating Web sites and chat lines leaving them in precarious situations. As parents, we may have investigated some safety nets to protect our children, but we must be wise to the many loopholes. While sites like Facebook and MySpace have mechanisms for blocking pornography, Twitter is much more open. While you may have blocked triple X content on the family computer, have you checked your child’s text messages? In addition to frequent opportunities of adult conversation and sexting, many children are bullied through their very own cell phones, unbeknownst to their parents. YouTube boasts hundreds of thousands of videos portraying young people violently attacking one another. Recommendations for keeping your kids safer: In addition to setting advanced safety settings on your family’s computer, monitor frequently the history of viewed sites. Be aware of what your child is looking at. Be aware of what their “friends” on sites like Twitter and Facebook are putting up, although they may seem cute and harmless, consider if you would allow the conversation or actions depicted in those pictures to take place in front of you. In the event that they are exposed to violence or sex, you need to be keen that the flesh is wicked, once exposed a child may seek it out again. For more tips, check out FBI.gov – A Parent’s Guide to Internet Safety Patient Parenting No one ever said being a parent was easy, and if you think about it, it is much harder in these days with our children wanting more of what TV and their peers say they should have. Cell phones, iPads, $180 gym shoes and so much more. While most parents make the statement “I want my child to have better than I did”, I believe when we say this, we lose sight of some of the struggles that helped build our character and work ethic. Of course, if we suffered extreme poverty or abuse from a loved one, this desire is very important. In the case of worrying if your child may be mad at you because he or she has chores to do as a contribution to the family or that you can’t give him or her every latest fashion that comes out, we as parents miss the mark. While being patient to allow a child to mature and to earn responsibilities can be difficult, it is imperative in this day and age. So much is being thrown at our children from TV and the Internet that it is tough to know when to pull our kids back and allow them to experience life for real. When your child desires a new toy, pair of shoes, or video game, do you consider if they deserve it? How has their attitude been? Do they follow house rules? What about their grades? If all those things are up to par, have you taught them the value of working to get something they desire? continued on page 15 lifeAPPLICATION RealEstateNotes Ask the Expert Q Health Process Check I n corporate meetings, process check is a reminder to bring attendees back to the topic. As we continue our journey to “Live Your Best Life,” the Health and Wellness Committee is encouraging everyone to conduct a health process check to include: • Exercising at least 30 minutes five days a week • Eating more fruits and vegetables • Drinking plenty of fluids (to avoid dehydration during the cold/flu season) • Maintaining your health regime—scheduling doctor’s appointments and follow-up visits At last month’s Go Red for Women’s event, we learned how to take better care of our hearts by choosing salad dressings we can see through. We also learned that stretching exercises jump-starts our metabolism to burn calories. Keep these points in mind as you continue to live your best life. March marks the beginning of spring. Since the weather has been unseasonably warm, take advantage of it and start walking. You will be one month ahead since most people start walking in late March or early April. Praise God for those who walk all year. March has been designated as: • National Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month. Visit www.preventcancer.org/colorectal to learn about risk factors, prevention and early detection, symptoms, treatment, and resources. • National Nutrition Month - “Get Your Plate in Shape” is the theme for March 2012 for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics (formerly The American Diabetics Association). The campaign focuses attention on the importance of making informed food choices and developing sound eating and physical activity habits. Visit www.eatright.org/nnm to learn more about choosing the right food groups. To help us get back in step, 360 Degrees of Health will be brought to you in April. Watch for more information to come. Credit score benefits decrease as score rises T he maximum FICO credit score is 850, but only 18 percent of FICO’s 200 million consumers were rated 800 or higher in 2011. People with a score of 780 may search for ways to get a higher number. It’s the new status symbol. If you have a credit score between 620 and 690, there are big benefits in doing all you can to increase it, such as paying bills on time and reducing debt to keep your ratio of debt-to-credit limit at 30 percent or less. Anything under 30 percent is a very good debt-to-limit ratio. With each 10 points your FICO score increases between 620 and 690, you get better loan and mortgage interest rates, and lower car insurance premiums. When your credit score reaches 750 to 760, there are fewer benefits to making it any higher, because you are assumed to be a good credit risk. The national median credit score is 711. We really do need a larger home, but while our mortgage is current, the balance is more than we could sell for. Will the government’s foreclosure pact offer us any help? A Maybe. What you will be looking for is a principal reduction. To qualify for one, however, borrowers have to be behind on their payments or at “imminent risk” of default, which you might be. Most principle reductions are expected to go to borrowers whose loans are owned by one of the five big banks, which are Ally Financial, GMAC Mortgage, Bank of America, JP Morgan Chase, and Wells Fargo (but the government hopes to make a similar deal with nine other banks). Some borrowers whose loans were packaged into securities may qualify. The settlement calls for principal reductions on both first and second mortgages but doesn’t cover loans owned or backed by government-backed Fannie Mae or Freddie Mac. Borrowers will get letters from their mortgage companies to advise them if they qualify for help. But government officials are encouraging borrowers to contact their mortgage company to see if they qualify. There is also a national clearinghouse site with more information: nationalmortgagesettlement.com. Refinance program. If you decide to refinance your present home, the refinance program applies only to loans owned by the referenced banks. Borrowers have to be current on their loan payments and owe more than their home is worth. The interest rate can be reduced to as low as 5.25 percent. In your case, the resulting loan payment could be low enough that you could rent out your present home and go on to buy a larger one. continued on page 15 March 2012 | 11 Books & Music mediaMATTERS The T.D. Jakes Relationship Bible (King James Version) More than it is about religion, the Bible is a book about relationships, asserts Bishop T.D. Jakes, who has recently published a Bible centered around the topic. It features devotionals, articles, a concordance, a reading schedule, background information on the Bible itself, and more. $39.99 The Discipleship Study Bible (New Revised Standard Version) This unique Bible includes the Apocrypha (ancient books), a chronology of the events and literature of Ancient Israel and early Christianity, a concise concordance, and color maps. $40.00 Christ for Real by Charles W. Price When we first give our lives to Christ, we are exhilarated. The weight of our sin has fallen away, and we feel a peace we’ve never known. But when we begin to consider what it really means to live for God, we become overwhelmed by our shortcomings. In this book, Bible teacher and pastor Charles Price unpacks how we move from living for Jesus to living with Jesus. $9.89 InREVIEW Depending on Jesus (Gospel Light) Intended for individual or small-group study, this 12-session Bible study examines the faithfulness of Jesus Christ. Learn how to trust Him more deeply. It’s an ideal study for the entire family. $12.99 God’s Power in Your Life by R.A. Torrey The Word of God has the power to convict, to cleanse, to give wisdom, to build character, to bring about peace—all the things we need to grow in our faith. In this book, R.A. Torrey shows us how to apply the powerful principles of God’s Word to every area of our lives. $10.99 Rolling Pennies in the Dark by Douglas MacKinnon Your past does not have to dictate your future. Douglas MacKinnon knows firsthand—and he tells his story in this personal memoir of tragedy and triumph. Once a child living in abject squalor, he would grow up to become a White House writer. $24.00 The Best of Israel & New Breed Do you love songs like “Friend of God,” “Again I Say Rejoice,” “Hosanna/ Be Lifted Higher,” “Take the Limits Off,” “Not Forgotten,” and “Who is Like the Lord?” Then you’re going to love this CD, which compiles the best of Israel & New Breed from 2002 to 2012. $11.99 All titles are available in Saving Grace Book Center, 773.256.4113. Prices are subject to change. Freedom from Fear by Neil T. Anderson Fear is perhaps the biggest culprit to spiritual growth. It’s a “thief ” that “erodes our faith, plunders our hope, steals our freedom, and takes away our joy of living the abundant life in Christ,” writes Neil T. Anderson. Fear is a mental stronghold that leads to so many other problems in our lives if we don’t confront it. That’s what Anderson (The Bondage Breaker) sets out to help believers do in this in-depth look at fear and anxiety—two powerful strongholds that keep many believers in bondage. We overcome fear and anxiety, Anderson asserts, by turning to something (and Someone) much more powerful, and that’s the Word of God. When we bury God’s truth in our hearts, or constantly turn to the Word to combat our fears until it moves from our heads (what we intellectually know) to our hearts (what we believe without a doubt and walk out). This is a book you will find yourself referencing repeatedly—so keep it near your bedside. $13.99. 12 | The Cross&Crown What Are You Reading? Reported by Cynthia Brawner B Tony McCormick rother Tony McCormick is excited about reading The Spirit-filled Journey devotional. “It [the devotional] is important in keeping in the Lord,” he shared. He feels it is a blessing to him and others; he shared his devotional with his next-door neighbor, who was rewarded with a blessing. “It’s a pay-it-forward book,” he exclaimed. The devotional, if you haven’t gotten your copy yet, is what’s aiding people through their daily and nightly routines. It’s bringing a refreshing thought to God’s Word, and it’s helping many people stay in sync with God with powerful Scriptures and solid spiritual insight. Brother McCormick sees the devotional as reinforcement in his walk with the Lord that produces “wow” moments. With a wide smile, he stated, “The devotional helps me. It gives me something else to read. It helps me to have a word to mediate on” and put in your heart. aroundACOG Alternatives (CommunityCalendar) TUESDAY March 6 Love Again Seminar for Singles, 7 p.m. SATURDAY March 10 R.U.T.H. 2 Series Begins, 9 a.m. SATURDAY March 17 FRIDAY March 23 SATURDAY March 24 Men of Power Series Singles Breakfast Men’s Fish Fry & Begins, 9 a.m. with the Pastor Movie Night, 6:30 p.m. 8 a.m. comingUP Recruitment Drive. Are you ready to share your gifts and talents with the body of Christ? Now is your opportunity. The Servanthood Connection Ministry will hold its first quarter recruitment drive this month. Ministries throughout the church need general administrative assistance. The Servanthood Connection Ministry is seeking members with writing skills or graphic design experience. Please stop by the kiosk after first or second service to learn about these and other volunteer opportunities and to complete a recruitment card. For information, call 773.256.6815 or e-mail [email protected]. The orange volunteer recruitment cards are available at the kiosk and online at www.acog-chicago.org (under Church Announcements on the home page). They may be placed in the box at the kiosk or returned to the main office at any time. Men of Power 2012 Series. R.U. E3? That’s the question the Men of Power will explore in its three-part series beginning Saturday, March 17, from 9 to 11:30 a.m. in room 203. In this reflective series, we will biblically define and critically analyze each aspect of this year’s theme beginning with “Enlightened.” The speaker is Elder Donnie Collins. Registration is $5 per person and takes place in Fellowship Hall between morning services or online at www.acog-chicago.net. SATURDAY March 31 College Tour MARCH ‘12 CALENDAR Freedom Lifted Two-Day Tour of National Underground Railroad Freedom Center March 30 – 31 Join Freedom Lifted for a weekend of enlightenment. The tour features a tour of the Harriet Beecher Stowe House, documentary film footage and stops at related historical sites, access to a mobile library of resources for all ages, materials to take home, and lively discussion. The cost is $225 for adults, $195 for seniors 65 and older and students 13 and older with valid I.D., $145 for youth ages 6–12. The cost includes ground travel to/from Chicago and Cincinnati via charter bus, lodging at Hampton Inn Hotel and Suites (double occupancy), three meals, and museum entrance fees. There is a $35 late fee (March 23 or later). Register at freedomlifted.com. For more information, call Mia at 773.359.4921 or e-mail mia@ freedomlifted.com. Breakfast with the Pastor. Living the Singles Life Ministry presents “Singles Breakfast with the Pastor.” Pastor Brazier will be available to hear singles express the challenges they face as Christians living in the world. The pastor is ready to dialogue with all singles. So singles, don’t miss this opportunity to become acquainted with your pastor, up close and personal, Saturday, March 24, in the Banquet Hall, from 8 to 11:30 a.m. Tickets are $10 and can be purchased in Fellowship Hall on Sundays, in the bookstore during the week, and online at www.acogchicago.org. Stay Connected with Mind, Body & Soul. Join Mind, Body & Soul’s Staying Connected and read The Shack, a novel that tells the story of Mackenzie Allen Phillip and his encounter with God after the tragic disappearance and apparent murder of his youngest daughter during a family vacation. We will discuss the book Saturday, April 7, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. in Fellowship Hall. Lunch will be served and the cost is free! The Shack is available in the Saving Grace bookstore, located within the church. To register, stop by Fellowship Hall Sundays between morning services or online at acog-chicago.net March 2012 | 13 extendedPHOTOgallery ACROSS 1. Since they ____ knowledge and did not choose (Prov 1:29) 6. heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her ___ (Luke 1:41) 10. A little leaven leaveneth the whole ___ (Gal 5:9) KJV 14. every kind of clean animal, ___ ___ and its mate (1,4) (Gen 7:2) 15. I will make thee ruler ____ many things (Matt 25:23) KJV 16. looked like ___ ___ of glass, clear as crystal (1,3) (Rev 4:6) 17. any liquor of grapes, nor eat ____ grapes (Num 6:30) 18. and your hands ___ out violence on the earth (Ps 58:2) 19. there was a continual ___ given him of the king (Jer 52:34) KJV 20. Wake up, O ___, rise from the dead (Eph 5:14) 22. present ___ ___ of that tithe as the LORD’s (1,5) (Num 18:26) 25. Noah and his ___ , Shem, Ham and Japheth (Gen 7:13) 26. represents the ___ of Media and Persia (Dan 8:20) 27. an ___ nearby that belonged to Publius, the chief (Acts 28:7) 31. saw his star in the ___ and have come to (Matt 2:2) 34. And ____ told Jezebel all that Elijah had done (1 King 19:1) 35. appeareth for a little time, and ____ vanisheth away (James 4:14) KJV 37. A ___ herd of pigs was feeding on the nearby hillside (Mark 5:11-12) 41. The price for his ___ is to be based on the rate (Lev 25:50) 43. many there be which go in ___ (Matt 7:13) KJV 45. I have not ___ in a house from the day (1 Chron 17:5) 46. “You ___ were with Jesus of Galilee,” she said (Matt 26:69) 48. knowing that God had sworn with an ____ to him (Acts 2:30) 49. is to be based on the ___ paid to a hired man (Lev 25:50) 51. behold a ___ set up on the earth (Gen 28:12) KJV 53. they will stay fresh and ___ (Ps 92:14) 56. very dry (Luke 11:24) 58. for he had given them what they ___ (Ps 78:29) 59. I sent you without purse, bag or ___ (Luke 22:35) 63. the poor ____ the gospel preached to them (Matt 11:5) 64. Father, keep through ___ own name those (John 17:11) KJV 66. and wore a ___ of scale armor (1 Sam 17:5) 68. he commandeth ____ the winds and water (Luke 8:25)KJV 69. Your rigging ___ loose: The mast is not (Isa 33:23) 70. he shall ____ them with a rod of iron (Rev 19:15) 71. after three years I ____ up to Jerusalem to see Peter (Gal 1:18) 72. do not reap to the very ___ of your field (Lev 23:22) 73. Adams first home (Gen 2:8) DOWN 33. Then ____, Moses’ father in law, took Zipporah (Exodus 18:2) 36. cold and ____, and summer and winter (Gen 8:22) 38. I see ___ ___ of an almond tree (1,3) (Jer 1:11) 39. They ____ from the Book of the Law of God (Neh 8:8) 40. small is the ___ and narrow the road that leads to life (Matt 7:14) 42. and ____ ____ to be desired to make one wise (1,4)(Gen 3:6) 44. if they continue in faith, love and ___ (1 Tim 2:15) 47. Thou shalt destroy them that speak ___ (Ps 5:6) KJV 50. he was accused by the chief priests ___ __ elders (3,3) (Matt 27:12-13) 52. make every effort to ____ to your faith (2 Pet 1:5) 53. like the slain who lie in the ___ (Ps 88:5) 54. he sent forth a ____, which went forth to and fro (Gen 8:7) 55. there is one ___ to the righteous, and to the wicked (Eccles 9:2) 57. letting your cattle and donkeys ___ free (Isa 32:20) 58. shall ye not eat of them that ____ the cud (Lev 11:4)KJV 60. twenty men in an area of about half an ___ (1 Sam 14:14) 61. Jesus cried out in a ___ voice, “Eloi, Eloi, (Mark 15:34) 62. sold your people for a pittance, gaining nothing from their ___ (Ps 44:12) 65. And he ____ in his right hand seven stars (Rev 1:16) 67. having seven heads and ____ horns (Rev 12:3) Puzzle Solution 1. Second son of Noah (Gen 7:13) 2. the OT book after Joel 3. His ___ swept a third of the stars out of the sky (Rev 12:4) 4. Above all ___ , guard your heart (Prov 4:23) 5. My mouth speaks what is true, for my lips ___ wickedness (Prov 8:7) 6. Two ___ will be grinding grain together (Luke 17:35) 7. three thousand and six hundred to ___ them (2 Chron 2:2) KJV 8. priest of the most high God, who ____ Abraham (Heb 7:1) 9. Everyone who sins ___ the law (I Jn 3:4) 10. He brought out Israel, ___ with silver and gold (Ps 105:37) 11. Eve out of the garden ___ a flaming sword (Gen 3:24) 12. so does the church that ___ at their house (1 Cor 16:19) 13. Do not set foot on the ___ of the wicked (Prov 4:14) 21. That is why the ___ say:”Come to Heshbon`` (Num 21:27) 23. Pilate wrote a ____, and put it on the cross (John 19:19) 24. heads or shave off the edges of their ___ (Lev 21:5) 28. Wilt thou not ___ us what thou meanest by these? (Ezek 37:18) KJV 29. we spend our years as a ___ that is told (Ps 90:9) KJV 30. Cain talked with ____ his brother (Gen 4:8) 32. ____ are creatures of little strength (Prov 30:25) 14 | The Cross&Crown Ads inTHEknow The classified advertising in The Cross & Crown is a free service. The deadline for ads is the first Sunday of each month. All ads will be placed in the first available issue (typically the month following the Sunday you submit your ad). At the church’s discretion, The Cross & Crown reserves the right to not print any ad for any reason. Classified advertising in The Cross & Crown does not necessarily imply the endorsement of the church. For Rent ■ Pullman—3-bdrm apt. w/carpet, enclosed porch, ceiling fans. Appliances not included. Tenant pays all utilities. Near Metra and CTA. Call 708.363.1917 or 708.720.1202 ■ Hyde Park—3-bdrm/2-bath apt. w/formal dining room, in-unit W/D. Heat and parking included, $1,950/mo. Call Eve L. Benton, 312.834.4383 ■ 48th and Lake Park—2-bdrm apt. available in Harper Court Co-op. Call S. Hodo, 773.373.3937. ■ 10801 S. Prairie—remodeled 2-bdrm (1st flr/3rd flr) apts w/hdwd flrs. Heat and appliances included. Tenant pays cooking gas and lights. Call Ms. Sailer, 773.573.2699. ■ Southeast side—furnished, 6-rm apt., 773.723.5113. ■ Southeast side—Condo, $900/mo. Call Pat Shaw, 708.268.5758. ■ East Chicago, Ind.—2-bdrm, 1 bath apt. w/ built-in stove. $675/mo.; also:1-bdrm, 1-bath w/ built in stove, W/D, dishwasher $800/mo. Garage rental also available. Call Jo Ann Allsop, 219.378.1787 ■ 8019 S. Kingston—3-bdrm apt. w/dining rm, new kit., and hdwd flrs. Heat included, 773.978.4924. ■ 71st & Lowe—two 2-bdrm apts., one apt. w/ hrdwd flrs, 1 apt. w/carpet, $800/mo. Call Betty 773.272.1137. ■ South Suburbs— 4-bdrm, 2-bath house w/2.5 attached garage, hdwd flrs., appliances included. Call Marsha Brown, 708.359.6709. ■ Chatham—2-bdrm bungalow w/upgraded bath, W/D, hdwd flrs, $1150/mo. Call Barbara Meredith, 312.560.5128. ■ Sauk Village—3-bdrm, 1-bath hse w/full basement, patio, and 3-car garage, $1100/mo. Sect. 8 accepted, 708.921.1133. ■ Seeking to Rent—Looking for 2-bdrm apt. Call Arma Hintson, 773.407.5182. Real Estate ■ Bronzeville—Extra large 3-bdrm/2-bath condo w/eat-in kit., den, deck, parking. Short sale—$90,000; also 3-bdrm/2-bath condo for $220K in Hyde Park, heat & parking including. ■ Call Eve L. Benton, 312.834.4383 or text 97776 to 79564. *Hyde Park—3-bdrm/2-bath, formal dining room. For more info, call above number or text 154310 to 79564. ■ 8128 S. Loomis—3-bdrm, 1-bath brick bungalow w/attic and full finished basement, 708.921.1133. General ■ Abrite Cleaning and Restoration—water damage restoration, mold remediation, stain removal, 24-hr emergency service. In business since 1992. Contact Tom Athey at 847.652.6728 or [email protected] ■ Avon—buy or sell Avon products. Contact Berdena Brawner at 773.805.1434, BBAVON1@ aol.com, or 773.374.1663 (fax). ■ For piano lessons (ages 3 and up), contact Ericka Lyda at 312.914.9805 or PianoFingers [email protected] ■ H & R BLOCK is preparing and E-filing 1040EZ tax returns for free. Call Mike Moore, 773.752.5788 or 312.263.0843. ■ Elijah’s House Urban Teen and Urban Girl Magazine Program begins February 6 thru April 19. Program teaches journalism and magazine publishing to youth ages 14 through 18 years. Online application at afterschoolmatters.org visit at elijahshouse.org contact Ms. Williams at 773-517-5108. Culinary Arts Program for girls 13–17 runs through April 19, 4:30–7:30pm. Contact Ms. Williams, 773.517.5108. ■ Urban Floors & More—get quality work for a reasonable price on hardwood, tile, and stone. Free estimates and second opinions. Call 773.708.4092 or e-mail urbanfloorsandmore@ yahoo.com Rising, continued from page 3 Parenting, continued from page 10 When we think all is lost, the Lord shows up, just as he did for Job. Therefore, like Job, we can (and must) proclaim that no matter what our situation, we have a Redeemer who lives, and one day we will see Him face to face. That’s why our suffering is not in vain. Sure, we can have more than one thing coming against us at once (and many of us have). There are some people who have buried several relatives within one year—in the midst of other trials. Human reasoning says they should have lost their minds, but because of the power of God in their lives, they recall God’s grace, the awesome sacrifice of Jesus Christ and the victory it brings about in every area of their lives. They recall the past situations the Lord delivered them from and how, even in their current grief, He alone is giving them strength to carry on and hope to trust Him for tomorrow’s outcome. They remember that God is sovereign—even in their grief. Nothing can compare to the grace of God in the walk of a child of God. When we know who Jesus is in our lives, we can endure any trial and face whatever lies before us with courage in our hearts and praise on our lips—we can rise to the occasion. When we rise, we can reverse an unjust situation. We can overcome fear and boldly proclaim, “Lord, I’m going to follow you no matter what!” We will rise to the occasion not because of our own inner strength but because of the Spirit of the Lord in us. We will rise to the occasion based on our faith in Him and His promise to be with us always, to never leave us nor forsake us. While this may seem like an old fashioned mindset we must consider that we are raising our children to become adults and go out into the world and we already know they world does not provide for us our every need. This month’s column is based on the sermon “Rise to the Occasion,” preached January 2012. For more information about the four-part Bible study series, Parent Chat, and Parent Prayer, e-mail [email protected]. Real Estate, continued from page 11 Foreclosures. This does not apply to you, but those foreclosed on between 2008 and 2011 are eligible for a cash payment of between $1,500 and $2,000. They will receive a form in the mail. They don’t have to prove they shouldn’t have been foreclosed. March 2012 | 15 Apostolic Church of God 6320 South Dorchester Avenue Chicago, Illinois 60637 www.acog-chicago.org Visit us on the Web: www.acog-chicago.org Find us on Facebook.com/ACOGChicago Follow us on @ACOGChicago Next Issue’s Theme: Resurrection Time ACOG SERVICE TIMES Sundays 9:10 a.m., First Service 11:40 a.m., Second Service 4 p.m., Afternoon Service Tuesdays 10 a.m., Daytimers Bible Class Wednesdays 1 p.m., Prayer 7:30 p.m., Bible Class Fridays 7:30 p.m., Intercessory Prayer Television Broadcasts Sundays, 8 a.m. WCIU/TV, Channel 26 ■ Cable stations may vary
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