June 2016 - Temple Beth Sholom
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June 2016 - Temple Beth Sholom
AND STILL GROWING 65 STRONG Temple Beth Sholom 401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights, NY • www.tbsroslyn.org • 516-621-2288 June 2016 • Iyar/Sivan 5776 June 3, 2016 Confirmation and Graduation of our 10th and 12 th graders Top Row: Sharon Solomon, Rabbi Sean Jensen, Rabbi Alan Lucas, Rabbi Paul Kerbel, Cantor Ofer Barnoy Middle Row: Ryan Bichoupan, Isabella Soffer, Sydney Sirota, Gabby Soffer, Ian Warshawsky, Bottom Row: Sydney Kotin, Hannah Kreisberg, Hannah Dornbush, Amanda Gordon, Danielle Orville Not Pictured: Alexa Kamberg, Josh Fried, Lia Behiri, Maya Behiri FROM THE RABBI’S DESK by Rabbi Alan B. Lucas S Shavuot “Our children…our guarantors…” havuot is z’man matan torateynu– the holiday that celebrates the giving of the torah. There is a beautiful story in Midrash Rabbah that before God was willing to give us the torah – God wanted to be sure we would treasure it, respect it and value it for the priceless gift that it is: “Rabbi Meir said: When the Jews stood before Sinai to receive the Torah, God said to them: “I swear, I will not give you the Torah unless you provide worthy guarantors who will assure that you will observe its laws.” The Jews responded, “Master of the world, our forefathers, our ancestors will be our guarantors!” “Your ancestors are not sufficient guarantors!” answered God. (In other words they were pretty good at observing torah, but not good enough!) “Master of the world,” the Jews exclaimed, “our prophets will guarantee our observance of the Torah.” “No, still not good enough,” said the Lord. “Bring proper guarantors and only then will I give you the Torah.” shape and love our children. We are so proud of each and every one of our teachers, and educators, who day in and day out, with love, nurture the next generation of Jews. It is with no small sadness that after 10 wonderful years, Helayne Cohen, the Director of our Early Childhood Center is retiring to spend more time with her own family – and while we are very happy for her and for her family, we reluctantly part with her and we will miss her because of the love and care she brought to our littlest members – our children in our ECC each and every day. They say that no one is irreplaceable and while that may be true, some of us, like Helayne are very, very, very difficult to replace. What a model of love and warmth, maturity and wisdom she "Every time we see was for our children (and us). How many nervous parents that “light bulb” go did she lovingly calm as they parted with their children for off in a students brain, the first time in bringing them to our Nursery program, how each time the gleam many little hands did she hold, each and every day as she them when they were nervous, comforted them of understanding can encouraged when they were sad and calmed them when they were anxbe seen in their eyes, ious. She will be missed - and there is no way we can adequately thank her for all that she has done for our children. with every nod of Temple Beth Sholom is a remarkable place – but it is a reunderstanding and markable place because of people like Helayne and so many with every smile of others – who come here every day committed to the highest appreciation – we standards of professionalism and to the task of teaching toparticipate in the rah at every conceivable level. torah’s renewal. " On Shavuot we once again stand at the foot of Sinai – we __ Rabbi Alan B. Lucas As a last resort, the Jews declared, “our children will serve as our guarantors!” Finally God was satisfied: “They truly are worthy guarantors,” God replied and, “because of them I will give you the Torah.” (Midrash Rabba, Song of Songs 1:4) What I like about this midrash, is that the rabbis were suggesting that the torah is about our future and not about our past. We were given the torah not as reward for past performance but as an investment to help us achieve great things in the future. And since our children are our guarantors, we have an obligation to teach them and to teach them diligently as the torah says. We at Temple Beth Sholom take this task very seriously. Our commitment to Jewish education for our children (of all ages) is unparalleled. We invest in our Religious School, our Machon Hebrew High School, our Early Childhood Center, our TBS Summer Camp; we support our Solomon Schechter Day School, Camps Ramah, USY and the Jewish Theological Seminary – because of our deep commitment to Jewish education and to making sure that torah lives into the next generation and beyond. We have beautiful classrooms and outstanding facilities but we put our biggest investment in the people who teach and once again receive the torah. Here we are thousands and thousands of years after God decided to hand over this most precious of gifts – and so far we have been true to our promise: to raise a Jewish future by raising Jewish children. The giving of the torah was not a one-time event, not something that happened once a long time ago. No, each and every day it is given anew. Every time we see that “light bulb” go off in a students brain, each time the gleam of understanding can be seen in their eyes, with every nod of understanding and with every smile of appreciation – we participate in the torah’s renewal. It is a gift and we are privileged to be its teachers. We have done much good work here, and for that yashar koach to each and every one of our wonderful teachers – but our work is not yet done as a new class prepares to enter; another generation of children eager to receive the torah. And we must be ready to welcome them with the same love and support that has greeted generations of children that have preceded them; they deserve no less. So to Helayne – thank you for a job beyond well done – and to all of the rest of our teachers and educators: have a nice summer rest and we will see you in the fall as we go back to work creating the next generation of Jews – the torah demands no less. Rabbi Alan B. Lucas Temple Beth Sholom 2 CANTOR'S NOTES by Cantor Ofer Barnoy D ish music and I equally respect his stupendous ability to id you know that write and deliver sermons that are ever-present, current rabbis and cantors and interesting. They are truly beautiful works of art and have been traditionI hope that one day he will have the opportunity to write ally known to have a hard a “best of” book of his sermons so the rest of the Jewish time working together?? While both clergy roles should world will have access to what we are privileged to hear intersect in a way to allow both rabbis and cantors to work week in and week out. Rabbi Lucas is celebrating 22 years in partnership towards the common good of their congreat TBS and for 16 of those it has been an absolute pleagation and community, it has often been their enormous sure to be his partner in serving this congregation. He and egos that got in the way. Rabbis would commonly like I are equally committed to attend every lifecycle to tell their cantors how to perform their duties event and every important moment in your and cantors would often feel shortchanged lives. We have visited you together by your by rabbis who considered themselves " At good times bedside at hospitals, rehabs and nurstheir boss instead of a partner. It made and at bad times alike we ing homes, blessed and named your for much strife and there were no are there for you, together babies together at circumcisions and winners. Not the rabbis, cantors or in partnership. And that’s the baby-namings, blessed your children their congregations. way it should be. Human we are. the priestly benediction at their I, on the other hand, have had the Egos we have. And yet, we never let with Bar/Bat Mitzvahs and graduations extreme good luck to work alongthem get in our way of serving you, and have officiated at your family side a number of very nice rabbis our congregants. We serve you weddings and funerals alike. At good who were truly interested in a partwith love, respect, understanding times and at bad times alike we are nership. I have benefitted greatly and partnership and for that I there for you, together in partnership. from their friendly attitudes and I beam truly blessed." And that’s the way it should be. Human lieve that our congregations have benwe are. Egos we have. And yet, we never __ Cantor Ofer Barnoy efitted too. From my first congregation let them get in our way of serving you, our as a part time cantor in Yorktown Heights, congregants. We serve you with love, respect, NY, working alongside Rabbi Stanley Urbus was understanding and partnership and for that I am a pleasure. He was a true gentleman with a quiet truly blessed. Thank you, Rabbi Alan B. Lucas, for being a power, a throwback to a gone-by era of gentleness who wonderful rabbi and a real mensch to work with. May we embraced me at the young age of 16 and mentored me merit many more blissful years to serve this great congreabout congregational life and how to deal with all sorts of gation together. people in all sorts of situations. A few years later I served With much respect and love, as a full timer alongside Rabbi David Chanofsky, another wonderful human being, a true mentch. This is the conCantor Ofer S. Barnoy gregation where I met and married Marsha as she grew up there so needless to say he had a special regard for me FEATURED ARTICLES and we had a great working relationship. I went on to work with Rabbi Joshua Skoff at The Park Synagogue in CleveFrom the Rabbi's Desk page ................. 2 land, Rabbi Myron Fenster at Shelter Rock Jewish Center From the Desk of Cantor Barnoy page ................. 3 and a number of assistant and associate rabbis. Thankfully From the Desk of Rabbi Kerbel page ................. 4 I got along with all of them but they were relatively short From the President's Desk page ................. 5 stints of 5 years or less. B'nai Mitzvah page ................. 7 It is more difficult to maintain a beneficial working relaFrom the Executive Director page ................. 8 tionship over a much longer period of time so I am exEarly Childhood Center page ............... 10 tremely elated that for the past 16 years it has been my Religious School News page ............... 11 E JUN 6 good fortune to work alongside our wonderful Rabbi Alan From MBS page ............... 12 B. Lucas. I vividly remember our first meeting to prepare 201 Men's Club Corner page ............... 14 for our first High Holidays together, reviewing every part Sisterhood Scoop page ............... 15 of the service to make sure that we were “on the same Torah Fund page ............... 16 page” and it is absolutely amazing to me that we have now Calendar page................ 18 lead 15 High Holiday seasons together without once disDonations pages ........21-24 agreeing on any part or aspect of it. I know that he deeply Temple Family page ............... 31 respects my knowledge of the liturgy and love for JewTemple Beth Sholom 3 FROM THE DESK OF RABBI KERBEL by Rabbi Paul David Kerbel Top Ten Words I t is June and I have started doing research on my high holy day sermon. In the process, I came across the following list of “Top Ten Words” in our Jewish tradition. The list and commentary were written by a rabbi in California, Rabbi Wayne Dosick. I will share with you his ten words with a synopsis of his definition and then share with you a few words he may have missed; I ask you to think about what words you would have added or excluded? "Our Jewish heritage gives us wise words, words of goodness and greatness. Rabbi Dosick suggests, 'we speak these words for when we embody and live these top ten words, our humanity is enhanced, our existence is enriched and are lives are ennobled.'" lovingkindness and mercy. Chein is dignity and graciousness. It is what we want from God and what our fellow human beings want from each and every one of us. 3. Rachmones – “compassion” from the word meaning “womb.” We ask God to deal with us not only with justice but with an over__ Rabbi Paul David Kerbel whelming sense of mercy and compassion. We need Rabbi Dosick writes: “with apologies to the late-night to develop a stronger sense of compassion, caring and comic, David Letterman for making serious what he alsharing. We need to speak kind, loving words, we need to ways makes funny, here is the “Top Ten List of Words Jews have rochmones and give rochmones. Should Always Say.” These are words that will wrap us in 2. Naches – pleasure/satisfaction/pride. Most often used our Jewish tradition and open our hearts and spirits to by saying, “my children give me so much nachas.” We Jewish values.” should not only enjoy the naches are children and grand10. Sechel – “wisdom” Sechel is more than book learning children give us but also share in the joys of our extended or acquired wisdom; Sechel involves the ability to perceive family and friends and always try ‘to be there, in the moand discern; to understand and have insight. Sechel means ment.’ having common sense and street smarts. Many people 1. And the number one word that Jews should say: would argue that having sechel is as valuable or more valuMensch. A mensch is a person of either gender who is deable than an accumulation of diplomas. cent, kind and honest; a good person who is fully human 9. Fabrent – “burning” In its usage, fabrent means pasand humane. It is the greatest and most worthy charactersionate, deeply Involved, committed. We speak of a “faristic we can aspire to. brenta yid”, a Jew that is passionate Torah study and Jewish I can think of a few words that I think are missing from observance. this list: I would have included: Kedusha, “holiness”, Tes8. Emes – “truth” Our honor, our good name and our repuhuvah “repentance”, Mitzvoth, commandment/good deed tation all depend on our words being believable and beand Derech Eretz, “the appropriate way to act and treat lieved. Being a Jew means to speak the truth always. people.” Nevertheless the ten words Rabbi Dosick chose are ten words that affect everything we do that is impor7. Kavod – “honor”. In Jewish tradition, it is imperative tant and everything that we can do to shape the world and that we honor: our parents, our spouse, our children, ourmake it a better place. Our Jewish heritage gives us wise selves. Show honor to those who deserve it but we should words, words of goodness and greatness. Rabbi Dosick not seek honor for ourselves. suggests, “we speak these words for when we embody and 6. Zeiskeit – “sweetness.” While this term is often used live these top ten words, our humanity is enhanced, our to refer to the innocence of childhood and children, it is a existence is enriched and are lives are ennobled.” term that reminds us that we all have the ability to recapAs we enjoy the blessings of summer, as we take a walk, ture the sweetness that has been implanted within us. enjoy the beach or hike or climb mountains, may we keep 5. Tzedakah – usually mistranslated as “charity” but, literthese words in mind and emerge from the summer enerally, “justice and righteousness.” We do not just give out of gized, enriched and - a little more holy. the goodness of our hearts but because “it is our obligation; it is the right thing to do.” Rabbi Paul D.Kerbel 4. Chein – literally, “grace.” In the prayer Sim Shalom, we ask God for peace, goodness and blessing, chein – grace, Temple Beth Sholom 4 FROM THE PRESIDENT’S DESK by Pearl Halegua דוגמה אישית Community Setting Examples B y the time you read mind and spirit.” this article we will Thank you to All of you who feed our minds and spirits all have celebrated our year round. 65th Anniversary Gala. Thank Speaking of spirits, I want to say thank you to Dr. Jay Merker, you to Lisa Levine, Karen Spitalnik, Donna Bartolomeo I give a lot of Yasher Koachs to our spiritual leaders but and the committee for all their work on this event. let’s not forget our “spirits leader”; we can always count Approximately 300, congregants and friends of Rabbi Lucas on Dr. Merker for being prepared with the and TBS filled our ballroom. In addition to right “spirit” for our Kiddush l’chaim. His honoring our Senior Rabbi, we honored the learning opportunities that live on in "Just as students move contribution is warming in many ways. our halls and hopefully, will continue to on to their next phase, Time moves on and so do people. take place for years to come. Learning so do we move on. Life Morty Schaja will be stepping down from takes place on many levels. Not only do we is good when we can the Executive Board but we will not let teach our children and adults to pray and him get away entirely. He promises to move on to something read Hebrew but we also teach art and continue serving as a financial advisor new; growth is an music, we learn about our diversity, and and a trustee. Tammy Fisher will also be camaraderie, we watch movies, we eat indication that we are stepping down but Tammy will continue popcorn, we plant flowers, we celebrate alive and well." on the Board of Trustees and working on life together, we mourn together, we Social Action projects. Thank you Morty __ console and we even sample wine and TBS President, Pearl Halegua and Tammy for your continued support scotch…. Torah teaches us: we need each and dedication. other. The Executive Board extends a welcome to Madeline Who is Temple Beth Sholom? I say who because TBS is not Yousefzadeh and Carrie Gordon. Madeline will be our just a building, TBS is you and me. TBS is a community of Vice President of Religious Affairs; Carrie will be our individuals that stands in solidarity on many important Vice President of Education. We look forward to working issues. As mentioned, the theme of our gala was not together. On behalf of our congregation I would like to just celebrating 65 years of existence, which is an thank those trustees who are retiring from the board for accomplishment in and of itself, but we also recognized 65 volunteering their time and expertise to our temple; and years of education. extend a welcome to our new board members. Malka Me-Zahav, for those who don’t know, was our As a teacher, June was a month full of reflection. As I would Hebrew School Director for 25 years. When I think of sit and reflect on the progress report for each child, I would Malka, I hear her saying, “Shalom Yeladim”, as the kids recall who was this student in September; what goals did entered the building. Malka was so much of what we I set for this child; did we reach them; where did we fall stand for wrapped up in one beautiful morah (teacher). short; where did he or she grow? What recommendations, She represented Israel, she represented Jewish traditional observations should I share with his or her next teacher? values, thoughtfulness, and learning and like a true Sabra, As I sit here writing this article, I find that I am asking the just that perfect mix of enough tough and sweet to get same questions of myself. I will give you my progress report the job done. I wanted to share this at the gala but Malka at the installation ceremony. couldn’t make it, so I am sharing it here. Yasher Koach Malka for the personal example you set as an educator. Just as students move on to their next phase, so do we move on. Life is good when we can move on to something This June we will be saying goodbye to Helayne Cohen, our new; growth is an indication that we are alive and well. Early Childhood Center Director. She will be leaving us to spend more time with her growing family and we are happy Yasher Koach Congregation Temple Beth Sholom of for her. We are also happy that she has offered to mentor Roslyn Heights, NY for being an exemplary community, whomever takes her position. We all agree Helayne’s shoes may you continue leading by example for another 65 will not be an easy pair to fill. years… doogmah eesheet. John Steinbeck once stated, “I have come to believe that Pearl Halegua a great teacher is a great artist…Teaching might even be the greatest of the arts since the medium is the human Temple Beth Sholom 5 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM AND STILL GROWING 65 STRONG TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM HAS A LONG, RICH HISTORY OF SERVING THE JEWISH COMMUNITY OF ROSLYN. Since 1951, we have provided a wide tent, a nurturing spiritual home in which Jews are welcome in good times and in times of need. We are known for inspirational worship, celebration of life cycle events, creative Jewish education, exceptional clergy and leadership. We offer three outstanding religious schools, as well as cutting edge adult education programs, and unequaled family learning programs. TBS is a proud, generous, caring Jewish community. Members are frequently moved to demonstrate their support of our goals, both as volunteers and with financial donations. We appreciate their gifts of time and money: they are all gifts from the heart. For more information, please call Donna Bartolomeo, Executive Director at 516-621-2288 or Louis Naviasky, Vice President of Finance and Fundraising, [email protected] Our “WISH LIST.” This year TBS has identified a “Wish List” to guide all of those who are inspired to donate financially! 1. New air conditioning unit (large) $75,000 2.Handicapped accessible entrance on Roslyn Road $30,000 3. Lower Level Multi-Purpose Room $25,000 4. Renovate Religious School bathrooms (2) $25,000 each 5. New air conditioning unit (small) $25,000 6. Boardroom furniture $20,000 7. Carpet in Boardroom $8,000 8.Special-needs teacher (3) $8,000 each for 1 school year 9. Youth Director $7,500 for 1 school year 10. New Talasim (50) $2,000 sponsored 11. Laptops (4) $1,000 each 12. Friday Night Live! Band $750 (per night) 13. Printer (2) $450 each 14. Paint Early Childhood Center $15,000 sponsored 15. Early Childhood classroom furniture $10,000 per class 16. Game room equipment- bubble hockey, pool table, ping pong tables (Day Camp) $3500 17. Portable hockey borders for a rink (Day Camp) $5500 18. Arts & crafts tent (Day Camp) $6000 19. Sports equipment (Day Camp) $2000 20. Shinshin program $5000 Thank you in advance for your generosity! Temple Beth Sholom 6 B'NAI MITZVAH harry meirowitz Son of Natalie & Lewis June 4 adam aldad Son of Nina & Lior June 4 Alexandra levine Daughter of Barbara & David June 18 L’DOR V’DOR-From Generation to Generation Create a lasting a legacy of your family’s connection to Temple Beth Sholom with the purchase of an engraved brick for the Courtyard in our new Early Childhood and Lifelong Learning Center. You can even choose between two sized bricks: Size 4x8: Cost: $180 per brick or 3 for $500 (Each brick can include 3 lines of text with up to 14 characters) Size 12x12: Cost: $540 per brick (Each brick can include 8 lines of text with up to 16 characters) Characters include letters, numbers, symbols, and spaces. For more information, contact Rebecca Altman at [email protected] or Rachel Schor at [email protected] We will be dedicating newly purchased bricks for the courtyard in June in our Early Childhood & Lifelong Learning Center Temple Beth Sholom 7 FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR By Donna Bartolomeo, Y esterday we had the 65th anniversary Gala honoring TBS and Rabbi Alan Lucas. The event was a huge success. As I looked around the room I thought about my first days at TBS and how I was welcomed by this community and have since been so lucky to work with such an amazing group of volunteers. Morty Schaja, currently the Financial Secretary, is finishing his term on the Executive Board. Morty has always been there as a support and source of information. Tammy Fisher, currently Vice President of Education, is also finishing her term on the Executive Board. Tammy thank you for all you have done and will continue to do for me and TBS. Each June we have to say goodbye to the four year olds and our graduates from Machon Beth Sholom. Sad and exciting all at the same time. This year there will also be another bittersweet farewell. Helayne Cohen who started the same time as I did 10 years ago will be leaving her position as Early Childhood Director and retiring. Helayne, you will be missed and I will miss enjoying each new year with you, your students and staff. I am thrilled you will be able to spend the time with your grandchildren. Enjoy because as our children did, your grandchildren will grow up way too quickly. Along with Helayne I will miss her husband Jerry. Jerry always shared ideas, thoughts, helped set up programs and every once and while told a few jokes. Anyone who knows Jerry, knows how much he admires and loves Helayne. Last night I saw many of the members who are living in the city full or part time, living in Florida for the winter or are just so busy with work and family that we have not had time to connect. Catching up was great and I am looking forward to hearing more when the summer is over and we get ready for the holidays. I am fortunate to work with the finest professional staff, Rabbi Lucas, Rabbi Kerbel, Cantor Barnoy, Helayne Cohen, Sharon, Solomon, Rabbi Jensen and Holly Firestone, We learn together, we laugh together, we sometimes cry together and we share experiences, concerns and anything else that comes our way. To the Executive Board and Board of Trustees: I would like to thank you for your support throughout the year. As we sat at the Gala I realized how blessed I am when I looked to my left and saw my office staff Barbara Cooper and Dawn Ruggiero. They were already talking about putting the montage and journal up on the website and out on Constant Contact. They both make my life a lot easier, never say no, always have a smile on their faces and are there for all of our members' needs. Kathy Rogers, our bookkeeper, has been an asset to our staff. Then there was Bob Spampinato, our Facilities Director who along with our staff keep the synagogue clean, heated, air conditioned and somehow are able to get the most of every area of this building. To both of my staffs THANK YOU!!!!! Donna Bartolomeo Join Temple Beth Sholom's European Jewish Heritage Journey Led by Rabbi Paul and Melissa Kerbel Warsaw, Krakow-Auschwitz/Birkenau, Prague, Terezin Berlin and Potsdam Guided by Jules Gutin, Former International Director of United Synagogue Youth (USY), founder of USY Israel/Poland Seminar and Tour Educator for youth and adult missions to Poland June 4 -16, 2017 For more information, please contact Rabbi Paul Kerbel at [email protected] or Sara at ITC Tours, LLC. at 800-247-7235 Temple Beth Sholom 8 An evening of Jewish Learning Tikkun Leyl Shavuot: Our Living Torah Saturday, June 11, 2016 7:15 PM Family Program with Rabbi Cara Weinstein Rosenthal and Sharon Solomon Adult Study with Rabbi Paul Kerbel: The Torah Revolution-14 Ideas That Changed the World 8:15 PM Mincha and Shavuot Evening Service 9:00 PM Havdalah and Festival Kiddush 9:15-10:10 PM 1. 2. 3. 4. Breakout Sessions Teen Study with Mike Hirsch Study Session in Farsi with Pnina Sarraf Study Session with Gila Hadani Ward Study Session with Norman Fried 10:10-10:30 PM Cheesecake Buffet and Ice Cream Bar 10:30-11:30 PM "Late Night Study" with Rabbi Alan Lucas Temple Beth Sholom 9 BARNET & ANNETTE OSTROW EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER by Helayne Cohen, Early Childhood Center Director I can still remember the feelings I had on my very first day here at TBS. I knew that I would face some challenges and savor accomplishments, trying to keep up with what was going to be an enormous job. What I learned immediately was that I would have many hand holders along the way easing the responsibility I chose to undertake. The hand holders were my invaluable assistant, Shahrzad Salih, the dedicated, compassionate teachers, the parents of the school, Rabbi Lucas, Cantor Barnoy, Donna Bartolomeo and her office staff, Sharon Solomon, our religious school principal, Pearl Halegua, our current synagogue president, our very supportive Board of Education, currently led by Tammy Fisher, Carrie Gordon and Phyllis Fried and Bob Spampinato and his maintenance staff. Most recently, thank you to Rabbi Kerbel. And, I would be remiss, if I didn't extend an enormous sense of gratitude to my husband and children. I am certain that if I did not have the many hand holders through the years of my position as a director, it would have been incredibly difficult to establish a "second home" for the hundreds of children who have been a part of the TBS preschool. The teachers in this school, including my incredible assistant, Shahrzad Salih, are also the ones who held the smallest of hands. They were the ones who wiped away tears and encouraged our children. They fostered the bonds of friendship and honored the emotions of each child in their charge. They gave hugs to the child who needed one and smiled at each one with pride for their daily accomplishments. They taught and modeled from the heart. I have always had the difficulty of not being able to control time. God has granted us the gift of life that is marked by the concept of time. My own children were growing up so quickly - I wished to slow down time just a bit so I could take in the many unique and wonderful qualities they developed through their life experiences and, so too, do I feel that way in regard to what I learned over the many years here at TBS. But we know that time stands still for no one. So, into each day, I put, and imparted to our children here, equal parts of faith, patience, courage, hope, tolerance, kindness, rest, lots of fun, play, and a heaping spoon full of good humor. All of these qualities served me well as director of the Early Childhood Center. throughout my tenure here and will remain with me long after I leave. I have been blessed to be in the position to make a difference in young children's lives and hopefully in their parent's lives as well. It was always my goal to teach the next generation to be kind, have faith, be patient, dream big, value other people's traditions, make play a part of every day and to smile! I am always going to hold dear the memories that were made here and for the time I spent with the wonderful children of the ECC. They will always serve as my footprints as I begin my next chaptr. L'Hitraot. Congratulations to the following children who will be moving up and moving on. Yasher Koach! Jake Adragna, Jack Alberti, Jonah Ambalu, Selena Chirls, Noah Costello, Tallulah Costello, Eliana David, Abigail Dritz, Farrah Eisbruck, Aron Fishman, Emma Friedmann, Kiran Grewal, Emmersen Gross, Kaitlyn Joseph, Aiden Kohan, Joshua Kohen, Conner Lai, Parker Relles, Colton Rockfeld, Cory Rosenberg, Eliezer Rosenthal, Libby Sarne, Lauren Seitelman, Hannah Sonstein, Jayden Vartanov, Jonah Vartanov, Adele Yousefzadeh and Zachary Zinger. Wishing the Temple Beth Sholom community a wonderful summer. Helayne Cohen June Highlights Friday, June 10 Mon-Fri, June 14-24 Last Day of School Stay & Play (Optional) For inquiries about our school, call us at (516) 621-1171. I look back on the years here as a true gift. TBS gave me the opportunity to help parents raise children with the highest respect for their own child's educational and spiritual journey. Honoring each child served as a common thread Temple Beth Sholom 10 RELIGIOUS SCHOOL by Sharon Solomon, Religious School Director I t’s hard to believe that the end of the school year is upon us. Looking back at all the wonderful programs that our students participated in throughout the year, we truly had a celebration of Torah education. The religious school has already begun planning great programs for the new year. Please be sure to send in your registration forms for 2016-17 promptly. In May, the New York Metropolitan Region of the United Synagogue (METNY) honored several of our Zayin (7th grade) students at their annual Keter Torah Award ceremony held at Shelter Rock Jewish Center. We are very proud of the following students who are acknowledged for demonstrating outstanding achievement in Judaic Studies as well as exemplary attitude in derech eretz. They are: Maxwell Bergman, Alexandra Levine, Jessica Kessler, Joshua Kessler, Aaron Kohen, Joshua Liswood, Harry Meirowitz, Jasmine Samadi and Ethan Wachsman. I am very excited to take part this month in a special five day professional development program in Atlanta run by the Center for Israel Education (CIE). The CIE produces and disseminates material about modern Israel geared to grades two through six. I will be accompanied by two educators, Gerri Blum and Roya Mizrahi and we are eager to bring exciting materials back to TBS. Kitah Hay pack for the homeless layne Cohen for assisting our school in programs and family education throughout the year. A special thank you to Joseph Soffer, Norman Fried, Gerri Blum, Victoria Eller, Fran Shalot and Elise Kitaeff (who trains our students to read Torah at the Mishpacha Family Service) for facilitating extraordinary Shabbat Family study programs. Thank you to our Temple President Pearl Halegua, Executive Vice President Rebecca Altman and Executive Director Donna Bartolomeo for all their support and encouragement. Also, many thanks to our school board: Vice President Tammy Fisher, Chairperson Carrie Gordon and Vice-Chairperson Phyllis Goldenberg for their endless hours of effort and guidance on behalf of our school. To our PTA Presidents, Lisa Berger and Debbie Dubowsky, and to all the parents who gave many hours of their time helping to enhance our school programs, todah rabbah. The PTA is now seeking new board members for the upcoming school year. Take a moment to consider your strengths and talents for such a significant cause. Your participation is most needed and welcome! In addition, I will be going to Israel over the summer through the Makom/Jewish Education Project. The Makom philosophy was born out of a recognition that “loving Kitah Daled sends good wishes Israel” is not sustainable without Saving the best for last - our teachto the Israel Defense Forces knowledge, and that “knowing ers - todah rabbah for all that you about” Israel is insufficient without personal connection. I do for our children. You make all the difference in enhanclook forward to obtaining innovative and age appropriate ing our program. Kol Hakavod to our staff: Judith Aharocurriculum materials to embellish our TBS learning on this ni, Mina Afrahim, Rachel Amsellem, Shmuel Baumvoll, trip as well. This program is geared for middle school grade Nathan Baruch, Gerri Blum, Leah Cohen, Victoria Eller, students. Elisheva Gazal, Julie Gittlin, Rivka Goldson, Hanna Harel, Elise Kitaeff, Fran Kohn, Daniela Lerner, Rachel Lunzer, It is my pleasure this year to present the Barbanel award Ziva Meraz, Judy Merrick, Roya Mizrahi, Chaim Moskowto Dr. Nathan Baruch who is an incredible, dedicated Toitz, Steve Moskowitz, Marie Rosenthal, Fran Shalot, Hava rah educator. Dr. Baruch has created a customized Vav sixth Shilon, Ilana Shoshani, Gershie Vann, Shulamit Zar. grade Parshat HaShuvah (Torah portions of the week) textbook/workbook. His dedication to Torah study is remarkAnd to my assistant, Darlene, who helps make my job look able and we are honored to have Dr. Baruch on our staff. easy and is truly my right hand, I extend my sincere gratiMany thanks to the Barbanel family for their generous antude. nual gift in memory of Hilda Barbanel. Many of our teachWishing everyone a healthy, wonderful, fun-filled and eners have merited from this contribution which is truly apergizing summer! We look forward to seeing you all in the preciated, year after year. Fall! I wish to express my deep appreciation to my educational Sharon Solomon team: Rabbi Lucas, Rabbi Kerbel, Cantor Barnoy, and He- Temple Beth Sholom 11 FROM MBS by Rabbi Sean Jensen and Rabbi Paul David Kerbel Co-MBS Directors Machon: The Completion of a Great Year! A s the school year winds down for Machon Beth Sholom, we can reflect on a year of outstanding programs and interactive learning. Thanks to Rabbi Sean Jensen, Rabbi Alan Lucas, Danielle Orville and myself, our students are better prepared to understand the complexities of the Arab-Israeli conflict, have studied about anti-semitism and prejudice, learned about leadership from Mike Hirsch and shared many discussions on how to apply Judaism to their individual lives. Sign up now for Machon for the Fall Semester which begins September 12, 2016 at 6:15 p.m. by writing to Danielle Orville at [email protected]. Mitzvah Day We express our thanks to the Jewish Education Project of UJA Federation of New York, Anita and Bill Baron, our President, Pearl Halegua and Executive Vice President, ReMachon Israel Program becca Altman for their constant care and concern about Machon. TBS’s Education leadership, V.P. Tammy Fisher and Board of Education chairs Carrie Gordon and Phyllis Fried were always there to help and offer advice. Rabbi Paul D. Kerbel Machon Leadership Seminar Machon Israel Program VP Programming by Steven Goldenberg 5 775-5776. The theme for the year has been “65 Years—And Still Going Strong,” with the TBS anniversary culminating in the Gala on May 22. What a turnout, at which time we honored Rabbi Alan Lucas, in this, his own milestone year. And thank you to all who contributed to the electronic journal. And of course, Yasher Koach to the entire Gala Committee, cochaired by Lisa Levine and Karen Spitalnick. Even though the Gala is now behind us, there will be more time for reflection and moving forward. Please stroll through the synagogue to see the magnificent displays put together by our beloved museum curator, Bat-Sheva Slavin. And we will plan on a Sunday breakfast this autumn to reminisce about where we have been, and to where we are going, coordinated by Judy Goldberg and Debby Brosowsky. June will be yet another busy month. The annual Israel Day Parade in NYC on Sunday, June 5 is an opportunity for the entire Jewish community (and others) to show support. Besides the Sisterhood Spring Dinner and Installation on June 2, and the Men’s Club BBQ and Texas Hold’em Tournament on June 9, three consecutive Friday evenings are planned. MBS graduation and confirmation takes place on June 3. Installation of TBS officers will be held on June 10—we welcome Madeline Yousefzadeh and Carrie Gordon to the Executive Board, and a number of Trustees to the BOT that evening. And please join us on June 17 at 6:30 PM for a Shabbat BBQ & TBS Reunion, with dinner catered by Ben’s, followed by Friday Night Live Kabbalat Services at 8 PM; see flier for more details. I would like to take this opportunity to express my appreciation to all of you who have supported me in this, my first year as VP Programming. I see firsthand how blessed we are to have so many who work so passionately to make TBS “more than just a synagogue.” Wishing you and yours a terrific summer! Steven Goldenberg Temple Beth Sholom 12 BethRock New Board 2016-2017 Robin Feldman, USY Advisor B ethRock USY has had an incredible year. Our membership increased almost 50%, we had our first annual chapter overnight, and we had more events than ever before! From our social action events (hosting the Ruach divisional event where we donated clothing and toiletries and in the fall making sandwiches for a local shelter), to our social events (murder mystery, Krav Maga and Food Israeli Good!), we have something for everyone to enjoy! Next year we hope to incorporate even more events including a Havdalah/Pajama/Movie Night, Shabbat programming, ice skating, bowling, volunteering at local shel- ters and of course keeping some of our favorites which always include food (whether eating, cooking or both)! We also have four BethRock members serving on the divisional board (out of six positions!) and have two members serving on regional board (including President!). BethRock has officially put themselves on the map in our division! We hope everyone has an amazing summer and we look forward to welcoming our members back from camp, vacation and summer programs and welcoming new members too! If you have any questions about what USY has to offer, please feel free to email me at [email protected]. Top Row: Dov Ginzburg (9th grade rep), Sophie Roth (10th grade rep), Michael Horwitz (Rel/Ed VP) Bottom Row: Gavi Feldman (Israel Affairs VP), Ariel Wajnrajch (President) Zoe Tashlik (9th grade rep), Talia Schor (SATO VP), Hannah Roth (Mem/Kad VP), Sara Blau (Communications VP) J Looking Ahead...After Kiddush Study oin Rabbi Paul Kerbel for a new program: "After Kiddush Study" on select Shabbatot following services and the Kiddush. The next study sessions will take place at approximately 12:50 on Saturday, June 25, Topic: Study the Torah portions of Bamidbar - The Book of Numbers, Saturday, August 6, Topic: Tisha B'Av and the Nine Days, Saturday, September 10, Topic: The Torah Readings of Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur. Feel free to bring your lunch and dessert from kiddush to our class! Temple Beth Sholom 13 MEN’S CLUB CORNER by Michael Mand, President T his being my last article as Men’s Club president, allow me a little personal reflection and evaluation: As June approaches – I’m writing this in early May – it occurs to me that I’m almost a year older since I began my second, non-contiguous term as Men’s Club president. I’m also a year wiser with respect to good leadership and human nature. First let me speak about our events, however. Some members like Comedy Night; some like the Latke Party; some like the Wine and Scotch Tastings. But my favorite Men’s Club event is the night we invite a local brewer to speak to us about beer. Perhaps that is why the only times we’ve sponsored this event is when I was president. (There has to be some executive leeway for the chief executive.) This year a brewer from The Oyster Bay Brewery came to discuss some the beers and ales they brew up there on The Sound. I’d like to report that the evening was a huge success. (I don’t really know, actually, because I’m writing this before the event has actually occurred.) Here are some beer facts for you: There are two types of beers – lagers and ales. 1. Ales are made with top-fermenting yeasts which produce esters that can affect the flavor. 2. Lagers are made with bottom-fermenting yeasts which add very little flavor to the brew. Final thoughts: I had high hopes of taking the baton from my predecessor, Steve Goldenberg, and building on his accomplishments. I asked my board members for ideas and I got some; some good ones. One of the best, I thought, was by past president, David Levine, who recommended that Men’s Club sponsor a class in minyan leadership and davening, and gabbai rishon instruction. I approached Cantor Barnoy who agreed to help out. Perhaps we can do this in the future. Earlier this year the Religious Affairs Committee, on which I sit, asked if Men’s Club would take responsibility for organizing the ushers who serve on the High Holidays. Past president, Gil Lipper, has been leading this sub-committee the past few years, but he has expressed his wishes not to continue. The position remains unfilled as the days approach more rapidly than you’d like to imagine. I placed an ad in last month’s bulletin asking anyone who is interested in ushering on Shabbat and the High Holidays to contact me. As for me, I will be stepping down from the executive board of the Men’s Club of Temple Beth Sholom once my year is over. I wish our Men's Club all the best next year. Michael Mand 3. Bottom-fermenting yeasts can be reused. 4. There are some exceptions to “yeast rule”. Now you know. On May 22, Temple Beth Sholom celebrated its 65th anniversary with a salute to Rabbi Lucas. The entertainment was provided by The Little Wilson Band featuring my friend, Allen Santoriello. I only mention that because I was the one who recommended this band as a change of pace from the same old-same old. I’m confident that the band didn’t disappoint. Men’s Club was honored to sponsor the kippot for the event. We are proud to have been a part of the gala; we are proud to be a part of TBS. As always, Men’s Club ends the year with a barbecue and Texas Hold’em tournament on Thursday, June 9. All are invited to join us to watch Yoram Solomon defend his title. I usually do not participate in the card game as I am trying to break with my tradition at losing at poker. I figure there are two ways. One is to win. The other is not to play. I’ve chosen the latter as having the more predictable result. Oh, I almost forgot – Sisterhood will be sponsoring the beer for the barbecue. Thank you, thank you. !! HERE SEE YOU T If you would like to volunteer to be an Usher for Shabbat or the High Holidays please contact: Michael Mand at [email protected] Temple Beth Sholom 14 SISTERHOOD SCOOP by Cindy Feldman, President It’s June! It’s Time to Party & to Reflect! O n June 2nd Sisterhood will be holding its annual Spring Dinner to honor Wende Jager-Hyman and Deborah Brosowsky as our BQLI Women of Achievement along with our Torah Fund Honoree, Daniela Klein. Your Executive Board has planned an exotic night at Shiraz of Great Neck. It promises to be a wonderful evening filled with friends and perhaps a surprise or two! We hope you will be joining us. Almost immediately after our evening celebration, the party continues at our end of year Shacharit Service led by Sisterhood and Zahava Rosenfeld on June 6th at 9:15 AM in the Main Sanctuary, followed by a beautiful luncheon for all. Don’t want the party to end? Join your “sisters” at the BQLI Gala two days later on June 8th. We will meet up with Grace Schessler and all our friends from surrounding Sisterhoods to celebrate our Women of Achievement, share stories about our experiences this year, and learn from each other one last time before our summer break. Roya Mizrahi and Fran Shalot: Remember writing the Educational Brochure? It was time-consuming, but you created a slate of classes with an array of learning opportunities that “wowed” our membership. The last Lunch & Learn was a huge success with Bat-Sheva Slavin featuring an Israeli film, Orchestra of Exiles, which fascinated all who attended. Cindy Katz & Amy Magid: Where would we be without your innovative and dedicated efforts to run all our fundraisers this year (& every year)?!! Challah subscriptions; honey jar sales; the Judaica Shop; raffles; Cards & Games Day; vendors at our events, including the Pampered Chef and tablecloths from Israel; and our plant sale! But my favorite, the Purim Shalach Manot gift baskets, got even better when you included young families in helping you to pack bags for some of our homebound members. You bridged our younger and older members in a meaningful and powerful way. Yasher Koach! Debbie Agulnick: You inspired me when you coordinated families, including Dads and grandparents, to bake their own Hamentaschen, with close to 100 participants! The smiles on everyone’s faces brought tears to my eyes- you are a true leader, and I have much to learn from you! It will be challenging to moderate eating and keep our girlish figures, Brad Reedy: The Journey of the Heroic Parent but it’s worth the risk! We will see (left to right: Roya Mizrahi, Sharon Solomon; the women who inspired us all year Brad Reedy (guest parent educator and author); Cindy Feldman; & Phyllis Pellman). Wende Jager-Hyman & Debby Brolong at these back to back celebrations, taking a fond look back on sowsky: Wende, thanks for bringing what we accomplished together this year. Sisterhood into the 21st century with PayPal links to all our events. We are grateful for your skills at leading our biMahvash Zarabi: How did you convince G & I Bakery to domonthly book clubs and current events discussion groups nate all the ingredients for the Great Big Challah Bake? Of and always making each one of our members feel heard and course it was your endearing smile that did the trick! Thank that they matter. Debby, thank you for keeping us focused you for coordinating all our meals for our Sisterhood meeton the task at hand; you also understand the ladies we serve ings and for knowing where to find the nicest pashminas to in a way that helped us to make sure our programs were add to our wardrobes- every time we wear them we think relevant and served our community. of our Fall dinner and you! Helene Lurie: How did you coordinate so many UJA Fourth Week projects? Paper goods, hot beverage gift baskets, and personal hygiene products filled the shelves at local pantries! The site visits you arranged helped us to understand poverty on Long Island on a deeply personal level. Your sisters are more determined to continue the fight against poverty on Long Island as a result of your efforts. Mimi Weitz: Thank you for cultivating such a wonderful relationship with Mark Krieger of Beautiful Memories Gemach of New Hyde Park. It is with your kindness and dedication that we were able to come together as a community to collect over 400 dresses and suits to distribute to battered women living in shelters so they can return to the work force. We wish you and Ken well in your new home in Arizona and will miss you! Natalie Postelnek: Your charm and kindness landed us an evening many will never forget with famed kosher chef, Susie Fishbein. Now we know Susie, like you know Susieand Oh, what a Gal! Sherrie Goldstein: How do you unravel our books? You are patient, dedicated, and persistent to “figure out” our finances and investments. But you are so much more than our Treasurer. You are a true “sister.” Thank you for making that hospital run to Molly Chernofsky with me- I will never forget our car rides. Lisa Schlesinger: You are our matriarch. You have dedicated more than 20 years to Torah Fund and we are so grateful to you. Thank you for teaching me the etiquette of leadershipyou are quite a role model. You do it with grace, dignity, and love. We wish you well as you pass the baton to Janet Eder. All those who attended Brad Reedy’s Program: Thank you for coming out to hear about something so personal. Your sensitivity, support, and open-mindedness are comfortingthat’s why I love this job so much. SAVE THE DATE: September 8th, Welcome Back Sisterhood Fall Meeting! I look forward to another year of learning together with you and from you! All the best, Cindy Feldman Temple Beth Sholom 15 TORAH FUND by Lisa G. Schlesinger We wish to acknowledge all those who contributed to our Torah Find Campaign for 5776 Patrons Pearl Halegua, Beatrice Karten, Dedee Lovell, Lisa Schlesinger Associate Patrons Molly Chernofsky z"l, Marilyn Greensher, Daniela Klein, Sandy Seltzer, Phyllis Wertenteil Guardians Anita Baron, Leatrice Baron, Helen Bloom, Carolyn Canova, Bonnie Cooper, Bonnie Epstein, Cindy Feldman, Judith Goldberg, Phyllis Fried Goldenberg, Arlene Katz, Judith Lee Klein, Roya Mizrahi, Eleanor Roberts, Marilyn Rubenstein, Fran Shalot, Robin Simonson, Sisterhood Temple Beth Sholom, Susan Zelman Benefactors Marjorie Adler, Rebecca Altman, Sheila Barth, Susan Ben-Moshe, Lori Beyer, Janet Eder, Beth Eichenholtz, Eve Eichenholtz , Ellen Fingerman, Eva Gerber, Jeanne Goldman, Thelma Goldstein, Louise Hersh, Frances Ilivicky, Marilyn Jacques, Brianne Karten, Jesse Karten, Cindy Katz, Melissa Kerbel, Rikki Kessler, Nadine Kesten, Rita Kroll, Helaine Kurtzman, Rosalyn Landsman, Susan Lipper, Edy Lucas, Judi Marcus, Pauline Mattana, Men’s Club Temple Beth Sholom, Robin Merker, Esther Meth, Linda Moskowitz, Sara Most, Sharon Pikus, Shirlee Roberts, Myrna Robbins, Rose Schecter, Shari Schnitzer, Miriam Furman Silverman, Selda Steckler, Ellen Weinberg, Mimi Weitz, Dorine Wulwick, Madeline Yousefzadeh, Mavashi Zarabi, Roberta Zeldis Torah Fund Commemorate an occasion or send condolences & help educate Rabbis, Cantors and Educators at Conservative-movement seminaries. Contact Lisa Schlesinger at 621-6629 or at [email protected] for certificates ($18 each) and cards. Rebecca & Michael Altman Sophia & Ross Auerbach Anita & Bill Baron Susan & Lewis Bartell Ellen & Bruce Belsky Sanford Berger Caryn & Michael Beyer Harriet & Harvey Beyer Lauren & Phillip Beyer Lori & Stephen Beyer Suzan & Joe Bruck Carolyn & John Canova Sherri & Drew Caplin Ester & Allan Causanschi Arlyne & Warren z'l Choset Debbie & Jay Dubowsky Beth & Marc Eichenholtz Arlene & Daniel Fisher Carol & Ira Fishman Eva & Sanford Gerber Judith Goldberg Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg Cindy & Adam Gross Josh Halegua Pearl & Nathan Halegua Susan & Jon Held Marilyn & Patrick Jacques Amy & Robert Kane Arlene & Seymour Katz Cynthia & Ronnie Katz Lisa & Richard Levine Rita & David Levy Marcia & Mark Lilling Amy & Alan Littman Amy & Marc Magid Jill & Louis Naviasky Batsheva & Ronald Ostrow Sharon & Rubin Pikus Harriet Rosen Maris & Andy Rosenberg Dara & Brian Rubenstein Marilyn & Barry Rubenstein Rebecca & Morty Schaja Rose & Alan Schecter Lisa & Jim Schlesinger Rachel & Michael Schor Sandra & Steve Seltzer Robin & Barry Simonson Sarah & Avi Stein Doris Tolins Ellen & Paul Walk Shoshanna Wingate Dorine & Robert Wulwick Laurie & Arthur Zagelbaum Susan & Alan Zelman Temple Beth Sholom 16 We hope you will join us for a Shabbat Dinner BBQ Reunion as we continue our 65th Anniversary celebration, honoring our synagogue and Rabbi Lucas. This is a special Shabbat reunion for our members, new and old, and all those who have had a connection to our TBS Family over the years - including your friends and family who join us on the High Holidays, your children and grandchildren, and anyone you know looking to share a fabulous, memorable, festive Shabbat with us! Temple Beth Sholom 17 Temple Beth Sholom 18 Shavuot 1 S 26 19 12 5 6 Shavuot 2 27 20 13 Sisterhood Shacharit Service Defensive Driving JTS M June 2016 Executive Board Board of Trustees 7 28 21 14 Rosh Chodesh Sivan Executive Board Sisterhood Rosh Chodesh Congregtional Meeting T Current Events/ Discussion Group W 29 22 15 8 1 9 2 30 23 16 Men's Club Poker Night & BBQ JTS Sisterhood Spring Dinner T 3 17 24 Friday Night Live! BBQ Friday Night Live! Services Installation & Services 10 ATID Friday Night Lights Dinner Graduation/Confirmation ATID Services F S 4 18 25 Auf Ruf Bryan Denberg & Julie Rotter Bat Mitzvah Alexandra Levine Erev Shavuot Auf Ruf Lewis Rotstein & Lizette Frank 11 Bar Mitzvah Adam Aldad Bar Mitzvah Harry Meirowitz Iyar/Sivan 5776 סיון תשע״ו/א״ר תשע״ו In the beginning by Judy Goldberg A CREDO FOR TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM In 1967, after lengthy discussions, the Board of Trustees adopted a document called the Beth Sholom Credo. It reaffirmed the principles and practices on which our synagogue was founded in 1951. The Credo was approved by the membership at a meeting on March 22, 1967. As we celebrate Beth Sholom’s 65th Anniversary, it would be interesting to have your reactions to the Credo and its viability today. Your comments would be most welcome. "Temple Beth Sholom is dedicated to the practice of traditional Judaism. As a Conservative Congregation, we regard the tradition, not as something static, but rather as continuously developing from its earliest sources to the present. We believe that we enrich our tradition by accepting new interpretations and discoveries as the searching mind of man strives to move closer to God. By this process, our tradition avoids the pitfalls of ignorance and superstition, and renews its vitality, thereby enabling it to meet the deepest needs and highest aspirations of every age. We affirm our allegiance to the United States of America while cherishing Eretz Yisroel as the cradle of our religious heritage and the center of the renaissance of Jewish peoplehood. Temple Beth Sholom implements its beliefs by the following means: A religious school which draws upon the teachings of the past to instruct our children in the religious and ethical concepts of traditional Judaism and to help them participate happily, intelligently and creatively in modern Jewish life; Traditional worship services which are receptive to innovation and development; A complete religious, educational and social program which offers spiritual and intellectual fulfillment to the members of the Congregation. In our personal practice of traditional Judaism as a way of life, we believe in the use of ritual prayer in a manner that contributes to individual spiritual growth. We also believe that it is incumbent upon the Temple as an organization, and each member of the congregation individually, to become involved in movements which champion the cause of human dignity and social justice. Temple Beth Sholom is affiliated with the United Synagogue of America, which is the lay organization of Conservative Synagogues; supports the Jewish Theological Seminary of America, which is the academic headquarters of the Conservative Movement; and recognizes the Rabbinical Assembly of America as our sole organized rabbinical authority." Temple Beth Sholom 19 Membership Has Its Rewards By Irving S. Chernofsky, Chairman Cemetery Committee W hen you think of a membership benefit, you will rarely, if ever, think about the cemetery. But one of the lesser known benefits of membership at Temple Beth Sholom is exactly that. Temple Beth Sholom, as a service to its members, makes available plots at New Montefiore Cemetery, in an area reserved for Temple Beth Sholom. These plots are available at very reasonable prices. We recently surveyed Beth Moses Cemetery, Wellwood Cemetery and New Montefiore Cemetery. All of these cemeteries are located in Pinelawn, NY, less than a 30 minute drive from the Temple. We determined that the Temple is providing a significant discount, to its members, on the prices for plots in the Temple area. This discount is approximately 33% to 50% lower than the prices that the cemeteries currently sell plots for. The Temple can provide members with either single or double plots, or family plots of four or more graves. The family plots have a single family monument that has the family name, and individual footstones for each interment. Each single plot can have an individual headstone, and each double plot can have either two single headstones or a double headstone, at the family’s option. If you have any interest in purchasing plots in the Temple Beth Sholom area of New Montefiore Cemetery, please contact the Temple office. In addition, Temple Beth Sholom in conjunction with New Montefiore Cemetery, now allows grave plantings. When an interment is made on our cemetery grounds and the family wishes to arrange for a planting, they will be allowed to plant Mature Yews (consisting of 3 shrubs 18”- 24” wide) purchased from the cemetery. Families that wish to have grave plantings will be required to purchase “Perpetual Care” from the cemetery. These shrubs do wonders in improving the look of the gravesite. Grave plantings will also be allowed at the Temple Beth Sholom area of Beth Moses Cemetery. All families that have already had an interment at either cemetery and desire grave plantings should contact the cemetery to make the appropriate arrangements. The Jewish way of life includes many Jewish life cycle events. During a typical Shabbat service at Temple Beth Sholom you can witness any of several of our Jewish life cycle events. You can witness the naming of a baby girl and her welcoming into the Jewish community; you can witness a bar or bat mitzvah, where our Jewish adolescents are transformed, right before our eyes, into Jewish adults; or you can witness an aufruf, where two of our Jewish adults prepare for life as a married couple. Just as there is a Jewish way of life, there is also a Jewish way of death. Two basic considerations come into play when death strikes and the laws of death and mourning become applicable. One consideration involves the principle of kevod hamet, treatment of the deceased with reverence and respect. The other involves the principle of kevod hechai, concern for the welfare of the living. In respect for members of our congregation who have suffered a loss, Temple Beth Sholom allows the family to hold funeral services at the Temple. Yes, membership has its rewards, and although we hope you will never need these membership benefits, it’s nice to know that they are available to you if you do need them. For more information, please contact Irving Chernofsky at 516-626-9025 or [email protected] or Temple Executive Director - Donna Bartolomeo at 516-621-2288 or [email protected]. Why not sponsor a Sunday minyan breakfast? Your contribution will celebrate a simcha or honor the memory of a loved one. In addition, a particularly meaningful way to commemorate a milestone in your life is to sponsor a Kiddush on Saturday morning, thereby sharing your simcha with the Temple family. Please call: David Oestreich at 621-3046 or the Temple office at 621-2288 for details or to reserve a date. We are grateful to the following members who have sponsored Sunday Minyan breakfasts. Ken Weitz and Family in memory of his parents Elio and Sara Levy in memory of Arieh Lieb Rosmarin David H. Oestreich in memory of brother, Dr. Herbert Oestreich Jess Drabkin in memory of father, Solomon Drabkin Mimi Weitz in memory of her parents Gil Lipper in memory of mother Judith Lipper Jay Dubowsky in honor of Shaun & Evan Dubowsky Cantor Barnoy in memory of Abraham Barnoy Beatrice Karten in memory of Sidney Bloom Ellen & Paul Walk in memory of Nathan Herbstman & Morris Walk Zahava Rosenfeld in honor of Rebecca's birthday Steve Kober in memory of father, William Kober Helene Lurie in memory of father, Hy Kazen TBS Men's Club Cindy Feldman in memory of Julius Kurtz Jess Drabkin in memory of David Garfinkel Steve Monas in memory of Lana Monas Carin Silverman in memory of her father, Leonard Lustig Fran Wiene in memory of Marvin Rappaport Ben Karten Goodwill for Minyan Jess Drabkin in memory of David Garfinkel Temple Beth Sholom 20 DONATIONS (from 4/16/16 through 5/15/16) RABBI’S FUND In honor of Rabbi Lucas, Rabbi Kerbel & the members of the congregation who led the minyan during the shiva for my brother Michael Kaplan Phyllis Rogoff In honor of the 50th anniversary of Arlene & Sy Katz Eunice & Jay Shapiro In memory of Randy Yudenfriend Glaser Sandi, David, Lee & Rachel Nussbaum Rebecca & Morty Schaja Harriet Rosen Selma Taffet Stacey & Mark Silverman In memory of Yosef Beroukhim Mahvash & Mansour Zarabi In honor of Steve Goldenberg, “Man of the Year” Sherrie & Harry Staszewski In honor of the birth of Rabbi Alan & Edy Lucas’s granddaughter, Lane Marlowe Rebecca & Michael Altman Dorine & Robert Wulwick Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg Leatrice Baron Eva & Sanford Gerber Judi & Andy Marcus Risa & Michael Doherty Melody & Harvey Alstodt Marilyn & Barry Rubenstein In memory of the beloved mother of Jay Scheiner Karen & Jerry Karlik General Donation Jill Dee In honor of the Bat Mitzvah of the granddaughter of Anita & Bill Baron, Jolie Arielle Kantor Melody & Harvey Alstodt In honor of the birth of the granddaughter of Nadine & Lewis Kesten, Jenna Molly Kesten Rebecca & Michael Altman Melody & Harvey Alstodt In memory of Sidney Levy, grandfather of Dr. Staci Weiner Cheryl & Leslie Weiner Dr. Michelle Weiner, Sandy Valdes, Mica, Sloane & Gregory Allison, Joshua & Charlie Kleinman In appreciation to Rabbi Lucas for all his support, guidance and care during the illness and passing of my beloved father, Saeed Darouvar Shirin Simkhai In honor of Zahava Rosenfeld for her help in preparing Ellie for her bat mitzvah. Shirin & Avi Simkhai In honor of Edith & Leonard Kliegman’s 65th anniversary Leatrice Baron In honor of Rabbi Lucas Marcia & Mark Lilling In honor of the birth of the granddaughter of Linda & Michael Sahn, Isabelle Sarah Judi & Andy Marcus In honor of the engagement of Pearl and Nathan Halegua’s son Joshua to Carly Soffer Judi & Andy Marcus Eva & Sanford Gerber Risa & Michael Doherty Melody & Harvey Alstodt Marilyn Hoch In honor of Judi & Andy Marcus’s son Brian for his presentation on Yom Hashoah Judi & Andy Marcus In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Marilyn & Barry Rubenstein ALBERT B. COHEN ENDOWMENT FUND In honor of the engagement of Joshua Halegua to Carly Soffer Jill & Louis Naviasky Amy & Marc Magid Lisa & Richard Levine Laurie, Arthur, Marc & Todd Zagelbaum In memory of Leo Zelkin Eunice & Jay Shapiro In memory of Betzalel Wertenteil Eunice & Jay Shapiro In memory of Saeed Darouvar Lisa & Richard Levine In memory of Dr. Manuel Wolf Friedman Lisa & Richard Levine Jill & Louis Naviasky Amy & Marc Magid In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Lisa & Richard Levine Amy & Marc Magid Jill & Louis Naviasky BERNICE COHEN EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER FUND In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman SIDNEY & RUTH KAHAN CHESED FUND In memory of Doris Vine Bella & Barry Freedberg In memory of Saeed Simkhai Pearl & Nathan Halegua In honor of Leonard Kliegman’s 88th birthday Sally & Michael Kliegman Gladys Kliegman In memory of Manuel Wolf Friedman Louise & Robert Hersh Sue & Joe Bruck Temple Beth Sholom 21 DONATIONS (from 4/16/16 through 5/15/16) In honor of the birth of Dorine & Robert Wulwick’s granddaughter, Molly Isabelle Eva & Sanford Gerber & Family In memory of Dr. Manuel Wolf Edith & Leonard Kliegman ARTHUR GOLDBERG SOCIAL ACTION & CULTURAL ARTS PROGRAM FUND In honor of the engagement of Joshua Halegua to Carly Soffer Rebecca & Michael Altman Dorine & Robert Wulwick Arlene & Sy Katz Carol & Ira Fishman & Family In memory of Randy Yudenfriend Glaser Wende & Arnold Hyman Rebecca & Michael Altman Edith & Leonard Kliegman In honor of the birth of the granddaughter of Dorine & Robert Wulwick, Molly Isabelle Rebecca & Michael Altman In honor of Max Bartell’s graduation from college & acceptance into law school Pearl & Nathan Halegua In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Pearl & Nathan Halegua In honor of the birth of Rabbi Alan & Edy Lucas’ granddaughter, Lane Marlowe Judy Goldberg Evelyn & Michael Stein In honor of the baby naming of Nadine & Lew Kesten’s granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten Judy Goldberg In honor of the baby naming of Bonnie Cooper’s great-granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten Judy Goldberg MALKA’S FUND FOR LIFE LONG LEARNING In memory of Saeed Darouvar Rebecca & Michael Altman Jennifer Friedman In memory of Dr. Manuel Wolf Linda Leaf In honor of Zahava Rosenfeld’s becoming a Bat Torah Joan & Leonard Weinberg In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman In honor of the baby naming of Nadine & Lewis Kesten’s granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten Leatrice Baron In honor of the Bat Mitzvah of Ellie Simkhai Rebecca & Michael Altman In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Sammy Feinstein Rebecca & Michael Altman LISA & JIM SCHLESINGER CAMP RAMAH FUND In honor of the 65th wedding anniversary of Lisa & Jim Schlesinger Melody & Harvey Alstodt In honor of Nadine & Lew Kesten’s new granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten René Kelbick MILTON HOROWITZ RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Rebecca & Michael Altman MBS SCHOLARSHIP FUND In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Benjamin Gilbert Denise & Barry Bass MAX GREENFIELD BIBLE FUND In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman ZELMAN COLLEGE TEXTBOOK FUND In memory of Randy Yudenfriend Glaser Susan & Alan Zelman In honor of the Youths of the Year, Matthew Benak & Mollie Bartell Robin & Barry Simonson PAUL SHIPPER MUSIC FUND In honor of Cantor Barnoy for his help and guidance preparing Ethan for his Bar Mitzvah Jackie & Daniel Wachsman In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman GENERAL DONATION Barbara Kaplan In memory of Lana Monas Myrna & Robert Cohen In memory of Saeed Darouvar Stefanie Roth In memory of Louise Hallet Laurie & Stan Stahl In honor of the birth of Nadine & Lew Kesten’s granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten Sharon & Lou Heisler In honor of the engagement of Joshua Halegua & Carly Soffer Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg KIDDUSH FUND In honor of the birth of the granddaughter of Nadine & Lewis Kesten, Jenna Molly Rosalyn & Marty Landsman Wende Jager-Hyman & Arnold Hyman In honor of the Auf Ruf of Jonathan Cohn & Rachel Bass Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg Temple Beth Sholom 22 DONATIONS (from 4/16/16 through 5/15/16) WILLIAM SPIELMAN SOLOMON SCHECHTER SCHOLARSHIP FUND In honor of the birth of the granddaughter of Rabbi Alan & Edy Lucas, Lane Marlowe Harriet Rosen & Stacey & Mark Silverman In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman THE WINGATE USY SCHOLARSHIP FUND In honor of Benjamin Gilbert’s Bar Mitzvah Pearl & Nathan Halegua In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman TED GEFFNER EDUCATION SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman MITZVAH 613 FUND - TORAH PROJECT In memory of Philip H. Lerman Jeffrey G. Lerman YAHRZEIT DONATIONS In memory of Dora Kaplan Phyllis Rogoff In memory of Eskandar Eliahu Farzaneh Rabenou In memory of Eve Kutin Dr. Neil Kutin In memory of Bernard Bass Penny & Jack Roth In memory of Harry Raymon Marcia & Michael Friedman In memory of Hannah Kleinberg Bernice Suna In memory of Augusta, Philip & Lester Sobin Edith Kliegman In memory of Moses Lakin Sheila Barth In memory of Yetta Barth Sheila Barth In memory of Joseph Furman Norton Furman In memory of Melvin Goldwin Elaine & Marvin Friedlander In memory of Zoltan Galambos Irene Galambos In memory of Jean Bloom Sandra Curtis In memory of Frank Bloom Sandra Curtis In memory of Judith Harmon Bernard Harmon In memory of Joel Rubinton The Pollack Family In memory of Pauline Rabinowitz Morton Roberts In memory of Jacob Sussman Roslyn Barash & Family In memory of Ruth Swersky Robert Swersky In memory of David Alter Michael Alter In memory of Gussie Schattner Gerald Schattner In memory of Hortense Goldenberg Phyllis & Steven Goldenberg In memory of Edward Kallif Ted Kallif In memory of Gustav Weiss Helen & Burt Putterman & Family In memory of Joseph Lapatin Ronni Kaplan In memory of Irwin N. Mintz Sara & Michael Shaw In memory of Hannanel Perahia Naomi (Perahia) Kagan In memory of Mollie Leder Phyllis & Alan Wolpert In memory of Beulah Priceman Melody Alstodt In memory of my beloved parents, Melly & Adolf Mayer Sharon & Lou Heisler In memory of Baba Baharestani Fereshteh Baharestani In memory of Esther & Samuel Cohen Janet Eder In memory of Dr. A.W. Miller David E. Miller In memory of Sylvia Miller David E. Miller In memory of Margit Rubnitz Linda Miller In memory of Barney Rubnitz Linda Miller In memory of Harriet Weiss Linda Miller In memory of Morris Rubnitz Linda Miller In memory of Helen Edelstein Melissa & Brad Fischman In memory of Robert Edelstein Melissa & Brad Fischman In memory of Louis Fischman Melissa & Brad Fischman In memory of Sidney Gottlieb Kim & Dennis Floam In memory of Helena Wajsbrot Barbara W. Kandel In memory of Abraham Goodman Phyllis & Robert Lovett In memory of Dorothy Goodman Phyllis & Robert Lovett Temple Beth Sholom 23 DONATIONS In memory of Berdie Lovett Phyllis & Robert Lovett In memory of Frank Lovett Phyllis & Robert Lovett In memory of Helen Welinsky Phyllis & Robert Lovett In memory of Roslyn Abel Mona E. Lanzer In memory of George Wolpert Phyllis & Alan Wolpert In memory of Anita Lilling Marcia & Mark Lilling In memory Arthur Beyer Pearl Beyer In memory of Nathan Dubowsky Roni & Steven Glaser In memory of Florence Meyer Amy, Robert, Harrison & Elana Kane In memory of Irving Glasberg Arleen & Douglas Held In memory of Eskandar Eliahu Farzaneh Rabenou In memory of Samuel Mallis Drew Mallis In memory of Arline Mallis Drew Mallis In memory of Gertrude Silver Sheila & Joel Simon In memory of Robert Kurzweil Nancy & Peter Kurzweil In memory of Ruth Kurzweil Nancy & Peter Kurzweil In memory of Newton Miller Nancy & Peter Kurzweil In memory of Joyce & Morris Lipton Leslie Lipton In memory of Anayat Samadi Parvaneh Zareh In memory of Sheldon Sirota Paige & Larry Sirota In memory of pearl Minerof Selma Pollack In memory of Rose Friedman Marilyn Rubenstein In memory of Rabbi A. S. Hyams Phineas J. Hyams In memory of Bernice S. Dresdale Ellen, Leonard & Michelle Ritz In memory of Kalmen Tabak Eva & Sanford Gerber & Family In memory of S. William Levy Rita & David Levy In memory of Moshe Doustan Esther Schlegel In memory of Daniel Cohen Ruth Forley In memory of William Gordon Doris & David Gladstone In memory of Sylvia Schwartz Arlene & Howard Jacobs In memory of Les Schwartz Arlene & Howard Jacobs In memory of Adolph Reitmeister Lyn Greensher In memory of Stephen Postelnek Natalie Postelnek In memory of Julius Friedkin Natalie Postelnek In memory of Reuben Lubarsky Claire Pressman In memory of Dr. Robert I. Kaplan Barbara Kaplan In memory of Philip Greenberg Muriel Segal In memory of Morris Kleinman Sol & Sondra Kleinman In memory of Sylvia Miller Bette Miller Howard In memory of Michael Schaja Georgine Schaja In memory of Albert Barlia Suzanne Chervin Special Funds (Optional) Minimum Donation $18 Albert B. Cohen Endowment Fund The Wingate USY Scholarship Fund Lisa & Jim Schlesinger - Camp Ramah Malka’s Fund for Lifelong Learning The Arthur Goldberg Social Action And Cultural Arts Program MBS Scholarship Fund Milton Horowitz Religious School Fund Bernice Cohen Preschool Fund Paul Shipper Music Fund Rabbi’s Fund Kiddush Fund Rabbi Ario S. & Tess Hyams Judaica Museum Fund Rabbi Joseph P. Sternstein Memorial Fund Ruth and Sidney Kahan Chesed Fund Ted Geffner Educational Scholarship Fund William Spielman Solomon Schechter Scholarship Fund Yahrzeit Fund Zelman College Textbook Fund Other Donations: Harold Kalb Prayerbook Fund Library Fund Max Greenfield Bible Fund Mel Hoffman Torah Maintenance Fund $36 $25 $75 $30 Temple Beth Sholom 24 Serving NEW YORK: Nassau, Suffolk, Manhattan, Queens, Brooklyn, Bronx, Westchester We maintain the very highest standard of care. Our caregivers are all screened and trained beyond state requirements. All of our caregivers are insured and bonded NEW JERSEY: Bergen, ®®Passaic, Essex, Hudson Counties Being home never felt so good... Licensed Home Health Care Agency We offer a full range of services from our expert care team ensuring ongoing client satisfaction A Very Special Gift D o you need a new gift idea for a special birthday or anniversary? Perhaps a brand new baby? We have a most exciting and different way to commemorate your special occasions. Our Rabbi Ario S. & Tess Hyams Judaica Museum's curator BatSheva Slavin has the perfect gift for you to share with TBS. We can purchase or endow a new piece for the museum that will be displayed during our exhibits. For a private consultation, please contact Bat-Sheva at [email protected]. No Minimum Hours! 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JNF helps build tomorrow today, together with the people of Israel. With your support, children now have a safe refuge from harm, deserts bloom and water renewal solutions build continued promise for future generations. Donate Now to Help Build Israel’s Future DONATE NOW JEWISH NATIONAL FUND jnf.org 888.JNF.0088 Visit our website www.tbsroslyn.org Follow us on Facebook www.facebook.com/tbsroslyn Follow us on Twitter @TBSRoslyn Mail Donations: 42 East 69th Street | New York, NY 10021 Temple Beth Sholom 29 Barbara Korn Licensed Salesperson 516.627.4440 ext.344 c.516.661.1685 [email protected] I take great pride in using my expertise, resources, and connections to perfectly unite extraordinary places with the extraordinary buyers who will cherish them as I do. Please call me at 516-661-1685 if I can be of help with any of your real estate needs. Manhasset Office 364 Plandome Road Manhasset, NY 11030 danielgale.com 516.627.4440 danielgale.com If you are interested in buying or selling a home, please contact Eva for a personal and confidential home consultation as well as a free market analysis. Eva Drabkin, Esq. Associate Real Estate Broker 516.484.1800 ext.262 c.516.978.1050 [email protected] Roslyn Office • 516.484.1800 •1400 Old Northern Blvd., Roslyn, NY All Offices Are Individually Owned And Operated. Temple Beth Sholom 30 TEMPLE FAMILY Mazel Tov To: Dorine & Robert Wulwick on the birth of their granddaughter, Molly Isabelle. Proud parents are Brian & Stephanie Ash. Nadine & Lewis Kesten, Sharon & Stuart Cooper on the birth of their granddaughter, Jenna Molly Kesten, daughter of Jessica & Craig Kesten. Proud great-grandparents Bonnie Cooper and Doris & Stanley Shinners. Edith & Leonard Kliegman on their 65th anniversary. Lisa & Jim Schlesinger on their grandson Jacob Weiss's graduation from the School of Management at Binghamton University. Toby and Ami Shebiro on the engagement of their son Robbie to Gabrielle Johnston. Barbara Cooper on the Bat Mitzvah of her daughter, Hannah Samimi and on the graduation from Syracuse University of her son, Bryan Samimi. Thank you: Thank you to Rabbi Lucas for all his support, guidance and care during the illness and passing of my beloved father, Saeed Darouvar. Shirin Simkhai Thank you to Rabbi Kerbel and Cantor Barnoy for their kindness during my beloved father, Saeed Darouvar's shiva. Shirin Simkhai Rabbi Jeni Friedman and family want to thank the congregation for their support and comfort after the passing of her beloved father, Dr. Manuel Wolf Friedman. Our Sincere Condolences To: Rabbi Jeni Friedman (our former Assistant Rabbi), her husband Noah Brosowsky and their children Osias & Morris on the death of Jeni's father, Dr. Manuel Wolf Friedman. Jay Dubowsky on the death of his beloved father, Nathan Dubowsky. Wendy Bochner on the death of her beloved mother, Florence Rogart. Hamakom Yinachem - May God comfort the mourners together with all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. Cemetery Prices Set To Increase Prices for cemetery plots in the Temple Beth Sholom section of New Montefiore Cemetery are scheduled to increase effective July 1st 2016. Prices for family plots (4 or more graves) will be increased to $2,000 per grave. Prices for single or double plots will be increased to $3,000 per grave. We have determined that the Temple is providing a significant discount, to its members, on the prices for plots in the Temple area. This discount is approximately 50% to 25% lower than the prices that the cemetery currently sell plots for in this area of the cemetery. JOIN US AT TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM Our Early Childhood Center provides a warm, safe and caring atmosphere in which children can grow emotionally, socially and intellectually. We provide children with a quality education, and offer an enriched program geared to the developmental growth needs of young children. We prepare your children for their future educational journey. Kindergarten readiness skills are our specialty!! Temple Beth Sholom 401 Roslyn Road Roslyn Heights, NY 11577 (516) 621-2288 www.tbsroslyn.org Rabbi Alan B. Lucas Cantor Ofer Barnoy Associate Rabbi Paul D. Kerbel Executive Director Donna Bartolomeo Religious School Director Sharon Solomon Early Childhood Center Director Helayne Cohen Co-MBS Directors Rabbi Sean Jensen Rabbi Paul D. Kerbel Camp Director Holly Firestone Assistant Camp Director Heath Levine Endowment Director Bernice Cohen Museum Curator Bat-Sheva Slavin President Pearl Halegua Executive Vice President Rebecca Altman President of Sisterhood Cindy Feldman President of Men’s Club Michael Mand Co-Presidents of Religious School PTA Lisa Berger Debbie Dubowsky Learn more about the Early Childhood Center Bulletin Editor Deborah Brosowsky Register now for the 2016-2017 school year Graphic Designer Barbara Cooper Licensed by New York State Office of Children and Family Services. Registered with University of the State of New York Education Department. Teaching staff CPR, MAT, and First Aid certified. Temple Beth Sholom 31 Temple Beth Sholom 401 Roslyn Road Roslyn Heights, N.Y. 11577 Non Profit Org. U.S. POSTAGE PAID Roslyn Hts, N.Y. Permit No. 20 JUNE SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Friday Evening, June 3 Candle Lighting Time Confirmation & Graduation 6:00 PM 8:05 PM 7:30 PM Saturday Morning, June 4 Parashat B’hukkotai Bar Mitzvah of Adam Aldad Bar Mitzvah of Harry Meirowitz 9:00 AM Saturday Evening, June 4 Mincha/Ma’ariv Tuesday Morning, June 7 Rosh Chodesh Sivan Friday Evening, June 10 Candle Lighting Time Services & Installation Saturday Morning, June 11 Parashat B’midbar 8:15 PM 6:30 AM 8:09 PM 7:30 PM 9:00 AM Saturday Evening, June 11 Erev Shavuot Mincha, Ma’ariv and 8:15 PM Tikun Leyl Shavuot (with a lot of good learning & good desserts!) Candle Lighting Time 9:16 PM Sunday, June 12 – First Day Shavuot Morning Service 9:00 AM Mincha Services following kiddush 12:30 PM No Ma’ariv Services Monday, June 13 – Second Day Shavuot Morning Service (Yizkor) 6:30 AM & 9:00 AM Mincha/Ma’ariv 8:45 PM Friday Evening, June 17 Candle Lighting Time Friday Night Live! Services 6:00 PM 8:12 PM 8:00 PM Saturday Morning, June 18 Parashat Naso Bat Mitzvah Alexandra Levine 9:00 AM Saturday Evening, June 18 Mincha/Ma’ariv 8:30 PM Friday Evening, June 24 Candle Lighting Time 6:00 PM 8:13 PM Saturday Morning, June 25 Parashat B’ha∙alot’kha 9:00 AM Saturday Evening, June 25 Mincha/Ma’ariv 8:30 PM DAILY MINYAN SCHEDULE Sunday Mornings 9:00 AM ◊ Monday - Friday Mornings 6:45 AM ◊ Sunday - Thursday Evenings 7:30 PM Temple Beth Sholom 32