Sept - Jewish Federation of Tulsa
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Sept - Jewish Federation of Tulsa
2021 E. 71st STREET TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74136 Vol. 77 No. 7 www.JEWISHTULSA.org Founded in 1930 by Tulsa Section, National Council of Jewish Women PUBLISHED BY THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF TULSA 8 Elul 5766 Sept. 1, 2006 L’ Shanah Tovah 5 7 6 7 5 7 6 7 A Sweet New Year 2 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 Campus-Crisis Response on July 28 BY DAVID BERNSTEIN On page 5 of this issue of the Tulsa Jewish Review, there is a report on the Friday afternoon, July 28, tragic shooting at the Seattle Jewish Federation, which ended with one death and three seriously injured. It highlights the story of Dayna Klein, a pregnant federation professional who was seriously wounded and whose life was being threatened as she became the hero of the day (Be sure to read the article in full). Here in Tulsa that afternoon we immediately went to our pre-planned emergency procedures since we did not know whether the shooting was committed by a member of a terrorist organization or a lone individual acting on his own. That afternoon we secured the Federation, JCC, and the Miller Museum. We then also contacted the Retirement and Health Care Center, as well as other off-campus Jewish institutions to fulfill our responsibility to share information in any crisis situation. All our professional staff, support staff, and camp counselors reported to work on their next work day and should be thanked by all for their loyalty and commitment. We have since reviewed our Emergency Procedure Guide with all staff and have continued police presence on the Zarrow Campus and its buildings, especially since we were then in the last weeks of Camp Shalom, and now Heritage Academy has begun its school year. We have also shared daily information via e-mails and conference calls with other federations and the JCCA, including assistance from the SCN (Secure Community Network), which is part of the Jewish community’s response to heightened security concerns in the United States. SCN maintains close working relationships with federal, state, and local law enforcement agencies, intelligence, counter-terrorism units, and others who provide advice on security and safety matters. Please call David Bernstein at 495-1100, if you have any questions or suggestions regarding security-related issues. Keep in Touch! Help make it easier to get timely information to you by providing the Jewish Federation of Tulsa with your e-mail address. E-mail Debbie Foo at [email protected] Support Our Jewish Community Agencies Community Blood Drive IN COOPERATION WITH THE TULSA AREA RED CROSS Sunday, September 17 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. at Temple Israel Sponsored by Temple Israel Brotherhood GIVE THE “GIFT OF LIFE” T H E H E B R E W M A R AT H O N IS COMING! JOIN US FOR A “RACE TO LEARN!” The Tulsa Jewish community, led by the Jewish Federation of Tulsa, Congregation B’nai Emunah, and Temple Israel, will once again be sponsoring a “Hebrew Marathon” this year. The Hebrew Marathon, an internationally renowned program prepared by Rabbi Noah Golinkin, was developed in order to provide adult learners with the tools necessary to become Hebrew readers in just a few hours. The Hebrew Marathon has become a frequent event in the Tulsa Jewish community, and has been an inspirational success for many people. The Hebrew Marathon will take place on Sunday, September 17, from 12:30-6:00 p.m. at Congregation B’nai Emunah. Registration for the program is $20 for affiliated members (Congregation B’nai Emunah, Temple Israel, Congregation Beth Torah, Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center) and $75 for unaffiliated, which includes the cost of all program materials, textbooks, administration, refreshments, as well as a special recognition award upon completion of the program. The program will be led by Helen Winoker, education director of Congregation B’nai Emunah, a gentle, patient, and exceptionally skilled teacher. Receipt of your payment for $20 or $75 will fully enroll you in the Hebrew Marathon. Please send your payment no later than September 11, to: The Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center, Hebrew Marathon Attention: Mindy Prescott 2021 East 71 Street, Tulsa, OK 74136 Questions? Call 495-1100 Social Service Partnership The Jewish community of Tulsa is in partnership with Family and Children’s Services of Tulsa to offer a full range of social, counseling, and emergency services. In case of need, please contact David Bernstein, Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman, Rabbi Charles P. Sherman, or Rabbi Yehuda Weg for information about this program. Every inquiry will be held in the strictest confidence. Generous financial help is available for this service. This program is funded by the Jewish Federation of Tulsa TULSA JEWISH REVIEW The Newspaper of the Tulsa Jewish Community THE TULSA JEWISH REVIEW (ISSN # 1521-5482) is published monthly by the Jewish Federation of Tulsa, 2021 E. 71st St.,Tulsa, OK 74136. Periodicals Postage Paid at Tulsa, OK POSTMASTER: Send address changes to: The Jewish Federation of Tulsa, 2021 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136. David Bernstein, interim executive director Lauren Zeligson, chair Ed Ulrich, editor; design and production Debbie Mann, advertising representative PHONE: (918) 495-1100 FAX: (918) 495-1220 TO REGISTER Call Alan Goldsmith at 491-7353, or Mindy at 495-1111 ...in the Review Hebrew Marathon Is Coming .........................................................p.2 What’s Nu?....................................................................................p.3 UJC launches Israel Emergency Campaign ....................................p.3 Touching: Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman.........................................p.3 Institute of Adult Jewish Studies: Fall 2006 Semester ..................p.4 CSJCC Pool Modernization Project 2006-2007 ...............................p.4 Hero of Seattle Shooting Remembers Incident ..............................p.5 Getting Personal: Rabbi Yehuda B. Weg ........................................p.5 Shaliach Report: Itai Lavi ..............................................................p.6 Heritage Academy News ...............................................................p.7 For What Shall We Pray: Rabbi Charles P. Sherman ......................p.7 What’s Happening at the JCC....................................................pp.8,9 Jewish GIs Mark High Holidays during Four Wars........................p.10 God Is in the Details: Your children are watching!.......................p.12 TU President Discusses Jewish-Related Activities on Campus .....p.13 Community Calendar ............................................................pp.14,15 ON THE COVER Heritage Academy students (l-r): Eric Haake, Rachel Brodsky, and Taylor King are shown getting ready for the High Holy Days by posing in front of “Jacob Blessing the Sons of Joseph,” one of the three large stained glass windows in the Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art lobby. Eric is holding a 19th century ram’s horn shofar from North Africa, dedicated by Mr. and Mrs. Jay Newman in honor of the 1966 B’nai Emunah Confirmation Class; Rachel, a shofar from the museum’s permanent collection; and Taylor a honeypot from the private collection of Goldie Cash. photo by Jeff Darby www.JEWISHTULSA.org E-Mail: [email protected] AUTHORIZED MEDIUM FOR THE COMMUNITY'S JEWISH AGENCIES AMERICAN JEWISH COMMITTEE Rita Moskowitz, chair BBYO F-R AZA CHAPTER # 276 Brad Dunitz, president JEWISH FEDERATION OF TULSA CHARLES SCHUSTERMAN JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER David Bernstein, interim executive director Jon Stolper, president BBYO N.B.S. BBG CHAPTER # 243 Erika Silberg, president NATIONAL COUNCIL of JEWISH WOMEN Denise Landgarten, president B'NAI B'RITH, TULSA LODGE #798 Aaron Maissell, president SHERWIN MILLER MUSEUM OF JEWISH ART Louis Davidson, president B'NAI EMUNAH MEN'S CLUB Dean Mandlebaum, president TULSA HEBREW SCHOOL David Charney, president B'NAI EMUNAH SISTERHOOD Carol Mandlebaum, president TEMPLE ISRAEL BROTHERHOOD Itzik Levin, president CHABAD Rabbi Yehuda B. Weg Yohanan Zomer, M.D., president TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Charles P. Sherman Estelle Avery, president CONGREGATION B'NAI EMUNAH Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman David Charney, president HERITAGE ACADEMY Sandi Tilkin, director Richard Borg, president DEADLINES FOR TEMPLE ISRAEL SISTERHOOD Peg Kishner, president TULSA JEWISH RETIREMENT AND HEALTH CARE CENTER James M. Jakubovitz, executive director Andrew Wolov, president TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SUBMISSIONS A D V E R T I S I N G : F I R S T D AY O F T H E M O N T H P R I O R T O P U B L I C AT I O N A R T I C L E S : E I G H T H D AY O F T H E M O N T H P R I O R T O P U B L I C AT I O N READ THE T U L S A J E W I S H R E V I E W O N -L I N E AT WWW.JEWISHTULSA.ORG SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW What’s Nu? More than 500 English-speaking immigrants arrived in Israel on August 16, barely four days after the cease fire in hostilities with the terrorist group, Hezbullah. Prime Minister Ehud Olmert was among dignitaries welcoming the 520 immigrants from North America and Britain when they landed at Ben-Gurion Airport. “There can be no stronger show of trust in the state of Israel than your decision to come to live here,” Olmert said. “We are not an easy county to live in; you don't know it yet, you'll find out soon, but there is no other home but this one.” The immigrants arrived under the aegis of Nefesh B'Nefesh and the Jewish Agency for Israel. Many younger members of the group are expected to be drafted for military service soon. Jews in Norway have been advised to keep a low profile for their own safety. The Mosaic Religious Community, which represents Jewish interests in Norway, advised the country’s approximately 2,000 Jews against speaking Hebrew on the streets of Oslo or wearing Jewish emblems. News reports say the suggestions have infuriated some Jews. “We can’t conceal that we’re Jews,” Mona Levin, daughter of acclaimed pianist Robert Levin, told the Oslo-based paper Aftenposten. “That’s letting ourselves down.” Mosaic’s recommendations come after a Jewish man wearing a kippah was assaulted in Oslo. In recent years, attacks on Jews in Europe have surged when tensions have been high in the Middle East. A New York Holocaust memorial added a marker honoring Albanians who saved Jews. The Holocaust Memorial Park in Sheepshead Bay, Brooklyn — which includes granite markers honoring Holocaust victims and righteous gentiles such as Raoul Wallenberg, residents of the French village of Chambon-sur-Lignon, and the citizens of Denmark — added a section honoring citizens of Albania in April. Most of Albania’s 2,000 Jews, along with escapees from other nations, survived the Holocaust. Travel journalist Jack Goldfarb, who has visited Albania often, noticed several years ago that the country was not mentioned in the memorial and worked to gather material to convince New York City bureaucrats to add the Balkan nation. “In the New York area, where the largest Albanian-American community resides alongside the largest Jewish community in the U.S.A., it’s imperative that Albania’s defiance of the nazis and heroic rescue of all of its Jews be forever remembered,” Goldfarb said. Germany will initiate a point system to reduce the number of Jews it accepts from the former Soviet Union. The most important criteria are education and job experience, with the goal of reducing pressure on existing Jewish communities to integrate the newcomers. In the 16 years since German unification, the Jewish population of Germany has more than quadrupled, reaching a current official total of 120,000. According to the new system, which reportedly received the approval of the Central Council of Jews in Germany, any Jew applying for citizenship must have at least 50 of 105 possible points, according to the news magazine Der Spiegel. Exceptions will be made for survivors of nazi persecution. A California philanthropist has donated $25 million to the Technion-Israel Institute of Technology in Haifa. The gift from Lorry Lokey, founder and chairman of Business Wire, will be used to create a new combined life sciences and engineering center. The money came through the New Yorkbased American Technion Society, which has raised more than $1.2 billion since its inception in 1940. “I feel that Israel has in the Technion an asset as valuable as MIT and Cal Tech combined,” Lokey said. Technion Professor Aaron Ciechanover, who won the Nobel Prize in Chemistry in 2004, will head the center. U.S. museums still may contain many nazi-plundered artworks, a new report found. “The U.S. has traditionally been a leader in Holocaust restitution,” Gideon Taylor, executive vice president of the Claims Conference, said at a news conference recently in New York, yet only 12 percent of artworks in U.S. museums possibly stolen from Holocaust victims have been fully researched and the results publicized, according to the survey by the Claims Conference and the World Jewish Restitution Organization. The 140,000 artworks in question were created before 1946 and UNITED JEWISH COMMUNITIES/ FEDERATIONS LAUNCH NEW ISRAEL EMERGENCY CAMPAIGN purchased after 1932, and changed ownership between those dates. Several major U.S. museums, including the J. Paul Getty Museum in Los Angeles and the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, did not respond to the survey. Results of the survey and an analysis are available online at www.claimscon.org. HELP..... GIVE..... HOPE Hewlett-Packard has agreed to purchase an Israeli software maker for about $4.5 billion. The July purchase, which sent Mercury Interactive Corp. shares soaring, is Hewlett-Packard’s biggest acquisition since 2002. Ezra Fleischer, a poet and scholar who shed new light on the history of Jewish prayer, died July 25 in Jerusalem. Fleischer, who taught at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem, showed that modern Jewish prayer developed after the destruction of the Second Temple in 70 A.D. He helped to study the Cairo Genizah, a medieval set of documents found in the late 1800s. Born in 1928 in what is now Romania, he was imprisoned for his Zionist activities after World War II, where he wrote a poem, “Massa Gog,” that won the Israel Prize in 1959. He immigrated to Israel in 1960. Yad Vashem has uploaded about 11,650 archival lists to its Web site. The Shoah Related Lists Database, indexed from about one million pages of documentation, includes records compiled by the Soviet army and later stored in the Soviet Union. The database also includes deportation lists, lists prepared by Jews during the Holocaust, registers compiled by survivors at liberation, and records prepared by various municipalities under nazi rule, according to the Israeli Holocaust museum. German Nobel Prize winner Gunther Grass has admitted he had been a member of the Waffen SS at the end of World War II. Grass told the Frankfurter Allgemeine Zeitung newspaper he never actually saw military action, but ended up behind the Russian front on reconnaissance patrols, witnessing what he described as gruesome scenes, and surviving by pure chance. The new autobiography by Grass, who wrote the novel “The Tin Drum,” is due out this all. A former New Jersey rabbi allegedly spent more than $100,000 of temple funds for personal use. Peter Light, 47, had been a rabbi at Marlboro Jewish Center in Marlboro, N.J., for roughly two years before resigning June 30, according to the Asbury Park Press. During that time, he allegedly used synagogue funds to relocate his mistress to the area and buy her things such as a $5,000 ring. Light told synagogue board members he was using the money to help Hurricane Katrina refugees. A police investigation is ongoing. CONTINUED ON PAGE 14 3 The United Jewish Communities Board of Trustees has approved a new Israel Emergency Campaign to raise a minimum of $300 million to help Israel recover from the recent crisis. In the wake of the ceasefire, UJC is now transitioning the campaign towards its next phase beyond addressing critical needs: helping two million Israelis in the north recover and rebuild. The initial response of the Israel Crisis Fund focused on helping the most vulnerable in Israel’s north deal with the daily onslaught of missile attacks. To date, the impact has been deep: Israel has suffered 156 dead and 4,500 wounded from 4,000 rocket strikes; thousands of homes, buildings, and institutions have been damaged; 90,000 businesses have suffered economic losses. Initial estimates put the economic price tag at $2 billion in the north alone, alongside the estimated $1.5 billion in military costs to date. Just as we did in 1948, 1967, and 1973, the North American Jewish community will stand shoulder to shoulder with our brothers and sisters in Israel. “While we can’t all be with them along the border, we can support them with our voices, with our hearts, and with our resources,“ said Robert Goldberg of Cleveland, UJC’s chair of the Board of Trustees. The campaign, which communities will aim to complete within a few short months, will be built on the foundation of the Israel Crisis Fund, and has raised in pledges more than $191 million to date. Over $41 million (no overhead is being taken out) has been collected thus far and forwarded to our overseas partners, the Jewish Agency for Israel and the American Joint Distribution Committee. “Whether generating annual campaigns or rallying behind Israel in times of need, the Jewish community continues to be a light unto the nations, fulfilling our most sacred mitzvoth of tzedakah and tikkun olam,” said Joel Alperson of Omaha, national campaign chair. Jon Stolper, president of the Jewish Federation of Tulsa, has announced the appointment of John Clayman as chairman of the Tulsa Israel Emergency Campaign Committee. If you have not made a gift to this important campaign, please mail your check to: Jewish Federation of Tulsa, 2021 E. 71st Street, 74136, marked “Israel Emergency.” For more information, call Brina at 495-1100. Shown is some of the damage to neighborhoods in Haifa. Photo by Nancy Kaufman, Boston TOUCHING potter and then a stonemason. This RABBI MARC BOONE FITZERMAN God is blacksmith, glazier, embroiderer, CONGREGATION B NAI EMUNAH and then smith. In every instance, we BY he most beautiful High Holidays melody I know is part of the service for Yom Kippur. As it happens, it is not “Kol Nidre.” The daunting part about “Kol Nidre” is that it is difficult to know the intent of its author. The version in our prayer implies Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman books that we are asking for forgiveness in advance for vows that we may utter in haste sometime soon. A second version looks backward to vows violated already. Both versions present different sets of problems, but the difficulties stand as a barrier to understanding. No such difficulties apply to “Ki Hinay,” a liturgical poem chanted after “Kol Nidre.” From childhood forward, I have loved its language and the easy cadences of the melodies that have attached to it. Here is the God I feel closest to, who holds us in hand with the skill of a craftsman. The poet describes the God of Israel first as a T are the raw material, receiving the imprint of God’s energy and skill, thinned and thickened according to the will of the Maker. The poet is uneasy, but ultimately confident. The craftsman can do precisely as he wishes, but the result is usually an object of beauty. That thread of reassurance is always what moves me, but it is also the notion of a God who touches, who makes contact with us and the created world. Our relationship with Him can be intimate, almost physical, in ways that confound simple, rational understanding. What does it mean to the poet of “Ki Hinay” that an invisible, immaterial, awesome God somehow draws close to us in unexpected ways? I do not know the life of this poet, but I can feel the power and joy of his experience. The poet seems to know the sustaining power of touch, of being held by another in supportive ways. For the year ahead, I ask you to consider just this. We are talkative people, living in a world of words, but sometimes we need to put words aside, and enfold each other in more elemental ways: a reassuring glance, an extended hand, a caress that reflects God’s own love for those whom He created. For most of us, that would be blessing enough, to know God better through a caring touch. It is the fundamental promise of “Ki Hinay” that we are most like God when we move toward intimacy, when we draw each other toward warmth and closeness. May the year ahead bring blessings to each of us, with peace for Israel in its own land, and security and joy for all people everywhere. 4 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 FALL 2006 CSJCC Pool Modernization Project 2006-2007 INSTITUTE OF ADULT JEWISH STUDIES Ten Consecutive Mondays – October 16 – December 18 BY LAUREN ZELIGSON, STACEY ROBINOWITZ, AND JEFFREY WEINSTEIN Thanks to successful “Campus Campaign for Excellence” programs of the past few years, our Jewish community of Tulsa now has a beautiful and multifaceted complex. However, the pool – the first thing you see when you drive onto the Zarrow Campus – is a facility stuck in the 1970s. Plans are now underway to modernize the pool at the CSJCC to complement the new campus additions and bring the pool area into the 21st century. Over the years, the CSJCC pool has always been a vital part of the Tulsa Jewish community. It had anchored Camp Shalom even before the JCC building was built, and it was a place where you would find many parents spending time with their children and socializing with their friends, as well as seniors relaxing or doing laps. However, in recent years, other than Camp Shalom usage, the pool appears less than full on most summer days. The question we ask is, “Why is the pool underutilized and how can we make it the busy, vibrant place the community wants it to be?” Currently, many families are joining other facilities that offer amenities that our pool does not offer, further accelerating the decline in pool attendance. We are part of a committee of twelve which has envisioned a modernized pool area for our community. The existing area will be rebuilt to include a snack bar offering items such as pizza, yogurts, and smoothies; new dressing rooms with showers and lockers; additional shaded areas; new fencing and landscaping; a children’s play area; and enhancements/updates to the pool itself. The area would also include ADA access and be barrier free. Our objectives are simple: increased use of the pool area, increased membership to the CSJCC facility, and increased benefit for the entire Jewish community. We envision a pool area that will be a place where young families spend a lengthy amount of time, where adults can exercise and socialize with their peers, and where members of the retirement community can enjoy interaction with younger generations. If we create a more appealing pool facility that competes with other pools in the area, including those in some of our own backyards, we will attract more members and create an atmosphere consistent with the mission of the CSJCC - bringing families together. With the approval of the Jewish Federation of Tulsa and the CSJCC Committee, we have embarked on a fundraising effort to accomplish the above outlined goals. The success of our initial requests for funding from our friends, families, and the many visionary Jewish leaders in Tulsa has encouraged us to give all community members an opportunity to be part of this venture. Naming opportunities are still available for this project. If you are interested in contributing to this project, please contact Jeffrey Weinstein at 586-8169. This enhancement will benefit the entire Tulsa Jewish community. Help us attain this goal. A Healthy and Happy New Year Fred and Martha Strauss and Family GOOD YOM TOV The B’nai B’rith Tulsa Lodge HAPPY NEW YEAR Harvey & Sandy Blumenthal and Family NEW YEAR GREETINGS Rosalee, Marcia and Greta Minsky Classes will be held at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center Watch your mail for more information or call 495-1100, Cosponsored by the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center, Temple Israel, and Congregation B’nai Emunah Course Offerings *Indicates new class HOUR 1: 7:15-8:05 p.m. CLASS INSTRUCTOR(S) *Ezra Rabbis Marc Boone Fitzerman & Charles P. Sherman Dr. Cathy Kass Dr. Hank Knight & M. Shiela Mudd and Nehemiah: Rebuilders or Extremists *Women in the Bible: Lessons for Today *Public Responsibility and Religious Authenticity Hebrew Blessings & Prayers for Non-Hebrew Readers: Part 1 *“Write” from the Heart Jackie Lasky Richard Roby Hebrew Beginning Hebrew: Part I Intermediate Hebrew: Part I Alin Torianyk Helen Winoker HOUR 2: 8:20-9:10 p.m. INSTRUCTOR(S) CLASS Introduction to Judaism: Part I Rabbis Charles P. Sherman & Marc Boone Fitzerman Rabbi Yehuda Weg *You *The be the Judge – Talmud Return to Zion and Formation of Medinat Israel *The First Kings of the Jewish People *American Jewish History: Part I *Jewish Literature *Israeli Dance: A Jewish Perspective Itai Lavi Miki Zohar Nancy Sherman Dr. David Goldstein Aya Rikin Hebrew Intermediate Hebrew: Part II Helen Winoker SUNSHINE SESSIONS TUESDAYS AT ZARROW MANOR BEGINNING IN SEPTEMBER WHERE: WHEN: REGISTRATION: COST: Zarrow Manor – Rainbow Room – 1st Floor Tuesdays, 11 a.m. - noon Call Mindy Prescott at 495-1100 NONE Instructor: Dr. Cathy Kass – Temple Israel “Insights From Our Matriarchs” Tuesday, Sept. 4, Tuesday, Sept. 11, Tuesday, Sept. 18, Tuesday, Sept. 25 On Shabbat, we pray that our young girls “will grow up to be like Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel; and Leah.” What can we learn from our Matriarchs? Join us for this bright “sunshine” course as we explore these important women in the Torah and the relevant lessons for today. MONTH October 2006 INSTRUCTOR Itai Lavi The Institute of Adult Jewish Studies Is Funded by the Jewish Federation of Tulsa L’Shana Tovah Best Wishes Martyl Adelman Faye & Marvin Robinowitz Scott & Stacey Robinowitz Happy N e w Ye a r John and Leah Clayman Stephen, Jacob & David L shanah Tovah Curtis and Joan Green and Family Ava and Jake Richard & Elise Robinowitz Sarah, Lauren & Jackson Happy Holidays Tracey, Scott, Paige & Zach Rudd wishes all our friends a happy, healthy New Year SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW PREGNANT HERO IN SPOTLIGHT AFTER ACTIONS DURING SEATTLE SHOOTING BY TALIA S. COUTIN NEW YORK, (JTA) — It was only a phone call, but it changed everything. Dayna Klein’s act of defiance halted the shooting spree at the Jewish Federation in Seattle on July 28 and made her a heroine. Now Klein, six months pregnant, is sharing her story, urging all employers to take workplace security seriously, speaking up for gun control, and speaking out in the media against the kind of prejudice that may have led to the catastrophe. Even with her left arm in a brace, her Israeli husband, Erez, at her side in an interview with JTA, she reports that she is able to slide her wedding band on and off can squeeze toothpaste onto the toothbrush. She still needs to see nerve specialists, and her arm, which she flung out to protect her stomach to catch the whizzing bullet, may never fully function again. “There’s no road map on what to do when you get shot as a pregnant person,” she said half-jokingly. Throughout the interview, she retains her composure, but her eyes glisten when she talks about Pam Waechter, her colleague who was killed in the attack. Klein, a native of Long Island, N.Y., grew up in a secular Jewish household. When faced with the choice of attending Hebrew school or playing soccer, she chose the latter, and became a Bat Mitzvah only two months ago, as a 37-year-old. The speech that “I gave as part of my Bat Mitzvah was about all the wonderful things I learned really as a kid playing soccer, about the commitment and being on a team,” reflected Klein, a brown-haired woman who smiles easily, even under the strain of the tragedy. Klein delved into the communal and religious aspects of Judaism when she moved to Seattle with her now-husband, whose family lives in HOLIDAY GREETINGS TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY Jaclyn and Eugene Loftis and Family Happy New Year from Estelle and Norman Fabes Haifa, two and a half years ago after leaving Bakersfield, Calif., she said. In January 2004, on her father’s yahrzeit, a colleague at the federation convinced Klein to attend the adult b’nai mitzvah class at Kol Ha Neshamah, a progressive Reform synagogue in Seattle — which became the first synagogue she and her husband ever joined. “The opportunity to have worked at the federation really has expanded my scope and interest in being a part of Jewish community life,” she said. At the federation, where she worked as the director of major gifts, Klein initiated projects to send impoverished youths in Israel to summer camp — and for Russian children to travel to Israel to explore their religious heritage. As a side project, she worked closely with the Reform and Conservative movements in Europe “to help them become less marginalized,” she said, including raising money to send an Italian student aspiring to enter the rabbinate to the Leo Baeck College in London. On the day of the shooting, Klein was in her office sending thank you notes to donors and making calls, wishing people a peaceful Shabbat. She then heard noises that sounded like bubble wrap popping, she said, and then screams. Then she was shot in the arm. The gunman then warned that anyone caught seeking help from the outside would be killed immediately. But Klein, 17 weeks pregnant and wounded, crawled to her desk, picked up the phone and dialed 911. SEE PREGNANT HERO OF SEATTLE SHOOTING, PAGE 12 HAPPY NEW YEAR From the Levinson Family L’Shanah Tovah Isabel Sanditen Leo & Linda Werner Jesse & Ethan Judy Sanditen & Jacob Janie & Arnold Kolman Austin Corley Jacob Kolman Mike Sanditen Happy New Year Sheldon & Molly Berger Michael and Sarah Best Wishes for a year of health and happiness from Adeline Wohlgemuth Getting Personal BY RABBI YEHUDA B. WEG CHABAD It was a wonderful party… after all, they were celebrating a loving and successful marriage of 60 years. Finally, someone spoke up and asked, “So, what is the secret of your success? How have you maintained such a wonderful relationship all these years and avoided the strife that can put such stress on a marriage?” A hush settled over the assembled to hear the ‘groom’ respond. “Early on we decided that we would each stick to our respective roles. I would decide all the ‘big’ questions, and my beloved would decide on all the ‘little’ issues…. My wife decided where we would live, what jobs we would take, where the kids would go to school, and the like. Ya’ know, all the little stuff.” Rabbi Yehuda B. Weg “So if those are the ‘little’ questions, what, pray tell, are the ‘big’ ones?” asked the neighbor. “Oh, all the major issues…. I decide if the U.S. should invade Iraq, if we should accept a U.N. ceasefire, how to stimulate the world economy…. Ya’ know, all the ‘big’ stuff.” o be quite frank, I have tried it already, and considering its limited success, I wonder if perhaps we should reconsider. I refer to the popular habit of individual prognosticators opining on how to settle all the world’s big problems. I think we should refocus on a scale at which we can actually be most effective. I may not be able to dictate the foreign policy of another country, but I can dictate what kind of a person I am going to be. I may not be able to impose environmental policy for Planet Earth, but I can ensure a loving environment in my home. I may not be able to determine whether Country A should go to war with Country B, but I can determine whether to “go to war” with my neighbors and friends. I have many decisions to make. And to boot, I can implement them, too. Don’t misunderstand me. I do not believe in, nor am I advocating isolationism. I am just reminding myself about how Judaism says we should go about making a difference. There is much in the broader world that each of us needs to be concerned about, and even much that we can do about it. But let’s not lose perspective. The way to make it work is by improving ourselves, and as a result we will in fact have an effect on the world. The entire ‘big’ world is made up of individuals. What I do at home has an effect not only on myself, but also on those around me, and eventually beyond. What you do ‘here’ has a ripple effect ‘there.’ Let’s get specific. It’s called a mitzvah. Choose one. There is a considerable list of them, but may I suggest Tefillin or Shabbat candles. If you prefer, choose a different one. These are things you can do, and no one can stop you. It’s your decision to make, and a good one at that. A mitzvah is its own reward, and inherently valuable. And that is reason enough to do a mitzvah, especially on the cusp of a New Year. However, being aware of the broader effects of a mitzvah can only motivate us further. So, what can you do for a personal upgrade? A mitzvah. And what is it that you can do for world peace? Get personal. Etel and our children join me in wishing you, and yours, and Klal Yisrael — a Shana Tova! T Happy New Year Happy Holidays Tillie and Robert Spear Lawrence & Jennifer Schreier Leah Friedman and Family GOOD YOM TOV We Wish The Entire Jewish Community a Healthy and Happy New Year Belsky & Waits Family 5 Happy New Year Leona Glazer & Family Morris Glazer & Family HOLIDAY BLESSINGS Charlotte Schuman and Family HAPPY NEW YEAR Happy New Year Flora, Elaine, and Edie Solow D ean and C arol Mandl ebaum HOLIDAY GREETINGS Happy New Year to all our Friends Joy & Julius Nancy & Andy Wolov Mark & Julia Bankoff and Family 6 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 Shaliach Report BY ITAI LAVI COMMUNITY SHALIACH JEWISH FEDERATION OF TULSA ear friends, Camp Shalom is over, and school has begin. The Center is quiet and empty, and the rooms are prepared for Heritage Academy to begin. Camp was so great. I wish you could all have come and visit. So much energy, happiness, activities… more than 400 participants; great counselors, great camp staff [Martha and Allen]. Miki, my wife, worked with the CITs all summer, leading a young leadership seminar all summer, supporting them, helping them solving problems, and with their jobs. I know that everyone involved was satisfied with that project. D My opinion: We won the war! ‘We’ meaning Israel, the Jewish state! We, because we showed ourselves and the world that we have morals! I want to take this opportunity to thank our Israeli counselors, Tali and Ongy! They were with us almost three months, worked very hard, had and created lots of fun for the kids at camp, made some great friends, and were very appreciated by us all. On Tali and Ongy’s behalf, I want to thank the Jewish community of Tulsa, the JFT staff, and camp staff, for caring, supporting, helping, and all the love and warmth they received; most of all during the days of war in Israel, when we were all concerned and worried about our home. A Healthy & Happy New Year Lillian & Irv Eisen Barry & Barbara Eisen Eric & Craig Nancy Eisen L Shana Tovah Betsy & Joel Zeligson Last and most, Tali, Ongy, and I want to thank the hosts for their great hospitality, care, support, and being home away from home, including the Snitz, Torianyk, Lasky, Lowen, Shohat, Kaiser, Mandlebaum, Schusterman-Dow, Singer, Eglash, Stafford, Finer, and Sotkin families! Thank you all so much [and we will count on you for next year…] War in Israel Today, as I am writing this, first of all, the good news: the northern border of Israel is quiet, no rockets, no artillery fire, no combat, no casualties. Now the bad news. A short summary: Thirty-four days of fighting in Lebanon and northern Israel [not counting Gaza], 156 people killed in Israel (117 soldiers and 39 civilians). More than 1,000 Lebanese killed. Over 4,000 rockets landing in the north of Israel, a half-million people leaving their houses in Israel, a halfmillion refuges in Lebanon. at least $2 billion in damage to Israel, and much more in Lebanon. Many people are asking, talking [too much and too many ‘experts’], trying to decide who won this war. This, to me, is like two children discussing whose daddy is stronger, or who won a kids’ fight! War is bad. People are asking in Israel and here: Did Israel achieve what it wanted to? Some of it? Sure. All of it? Not so sure. Sure enough, at war, there are rarely any winners. Everyone loses in a war; that’s my opinion. I hope and pray for the return of the prisoners. I hope that Happy New Year to Family and Friends Marjorie Lubin HOLIDAY GREETINGS Scott & Lauren Zeligson Miles Jill Zeligson Holiday GREETINGS Barry and Karen Davis and Family the Lebanese army will control the northern border with no “help” from Hezbollah. I hope and pray for peace between Israel and Lebanon, because I really see no reason for conflict between these states. I’m afraid that now we will hear a lot of people in Israel criticizing the Israeli government and its decisions, because that’s the kind of democracy we are. Personally, I’m not very happy with it, but I expect it every day now. My opinion: We won the war! “We” meaning Israel, the Jewish state! We, because we showed ourselves and the world that we have morals! We do not hide behind civilians to kill civilians! We regret killing civilians! We could have wiped out and erased villages and towns in south Lebanon, but we did not, because we are human beings! Our soldiers are ready to risk their lives, to get killed, only to rescue their wounded comrades in battle, and some of them got killed in action trying to do it! Our enemy is willing to get killed while killing women, children, Jewish people, Arabs, anyone who lives in Israel! So yes — this is winning for me! I would like to recommend an interview available on the Internet with an Arab psychiatrist. This interview contains strong and hard words by a Muslim scholar. I can add that personally I disagree with some of her statements. Still I find it interesting to read and argue with. But if you wish to read it, contact me. L’shanah Tovah to all our friends Phyllis & David Fist & Oscar Rebecca & Jim Bednar Noah & Jonah Eileen, Don Himelfarb Evan and Debi Himelfarb Allison, Alan & Jonah Satyr Henry Zarrow Tom & Judy Kishner Julie & Adam Cohen Will & Theo Jay & Dana Wohlgemuth Jack, Charlie & Henry Hillary Kishner Jude & Jeanna Kishner Cynthia, Brandon & Jacob Wishing all our friends a Happy Holiday Nancy & Harvey Cohen Bryan, Jordan, and Kenny L ’ S h a n a T o v a Our best wishes to all for a happy and healthy New Year Stuart & Carol Zarrow Lisa Zarrow Mark & Sarah Zarrow Ted Zarrow & Carrie Bertrand Coming Soon to Tulsa Professor Moshe Maoz, from Jerusalem University, will be in Tulsa on Monday, Sept. 12. Prof. Maoz is an expert of Islam, Middle East, Syria, and Iran, and will talk about “The Shi’a Party in the Muslim World — Myth and Reality,” current events, and the situation in the Middle East. We will send a mailing to the community with specific details. On Sept. 11 – 20, we are hosting “The East Wind Duo”- two brilliant musicians, members of the Israeli Philharmonic Orchestra. They will perform in OKC, Tulsa, and more. “Word Explosion” You will find information on the In August I attended a Christian CSJCC and JFT Web sites. event at the Mabee Center, which Wish you all a Shana Tovah — was the final event of a week called peace and happiness. f r o m Todd, Kelley Oskar, and Otto Singer Word Explosion. There were about 5,000 people who came to listen to Dr. John Hagee. I will not go through all the details, but a few. The support for Israel was enormous by Hagee and other speakers. They sang Hatikvah and had Israeli dancing and music. On July 17-18, they had a congress in Washington D.C. [Christians United for Israel] with more than 2,000 participants, and visited with every senator and congressman to ask him or her to support Israel. They are planning “A night to support Israel” in every city in the U.S.A., including Tulsa, of course. I met personally with Dr. Hagee at the end of the event and thanked him for all his support. Yes, not all Israelis or American Jews are happy with this support and question its motives, but officially, there is a lot of respect and gratitude from Israel for Dr. Hagee and his actions. Wishing All a Happy and Healthy New Year Jon, Linda, Kasey & Jay Kantor L’Shanah Tovah Phyllis & Stephen Zeligson Jack & Maxine Zarrow Wendy & Robert Adler Nikki, Jason & Katie Kip & Gail Richards Rebecca Eric Brad & Lauren Zeligson Brittany, Emma & Jack Andrew & Jennifer Zeligson Kevin & Brett Kathy Zarrow Scott & Hilary Zarrow Alison Rachel Happy New Year Mrs. Leonard Seigel and Family SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW HERITAGE ACADEMY NEWS Welcome to New School Year! The Heritage PTO sponsored a successful Back-to-School pool party on Sunday, August 6, to kick off the 200607 school year. The staff, parents, and students had an opportunity to get to know each other and share a delicious barbecue chicken supper at the CSJCC pool area. This traditional celebration allowed new teachers to become more familiar with our Heritage families. Prospective families were also in attendance. Teachers also attended a team-building session at the Southern Hills Marriott Hotel. A qualified counselor/teambuilding expert led the staff through a series of activities, which helped to build k’hela, or community, in which its members gained trust and built relationships. Teachers will be modeling many of these techniques with their students as we begin the school year. Students will be encouraged to consider their classrooms a community in which everyone gains trust, feels secure and is willing to take risks. Building classroom communities will foster a solid school community, which flows from the Heritage vision of tikkun olam, repairing and caring for the world. The afternoon session concentrated on familiarizing new teachers and staff members with Jewish holidays and celebrations conducted by Cantor Kari Siegel-Eglash. Everyone felt the presentation was very informative and set the tone for exemplary Hebrew/Judaica Wishing You a Good, Sweet Year from The Fell Family experiences which we will be taught to our students. They will have many opportunities to demonstrate their knowledge through Tefillah, Kabbalat Shabbat, Havdalah services, and a host of other meaningful celebrations throughout the year. Classroom teachers will support what students are learning in their Hebrew/Judaica studies. As the teachers reported on August 9, they worked diligently to prepare their classrooms and plan lessons for the opening of school. Time was also spent during teacher work week touring the Sherwin Miller Museum to have them become familiar with the opportunities for instruction. They also received CPR training by Pat Snitz. A Back to School night for parents took place on Thursday, August 22, with delicious refreshments by Alin Torianyk. Parents had the opportunity to hear from their child’s teacher about curriculum and expectations for the school year. Sandi Tilkin, Heritage director, says there is a sense of excitement among the staff whose positive energy will contribute to an exciting year for all of our students. You are invited to attend weekly Shabbat services, which are held on Friday afternoon at 3 p.m. Other programs and celebrations will be announced throughout the year. Monthly school newsletters can be mailed to you upon request. Call us at 494-0953 for more information Holiday Greetings Janet & Mort Cohen The Kaye Family Harley & Melissa Cohen Carson La Shana To v a Mindy, Harris, Rachel, Alex, and Ari Prescott Wishing all a happy and healthy new year Jean and Will Sanditen Jolene Sanditen-Stephens and Jim Stephens Brad and Leslie Harold Sanditen Happy New Year Phyllis Zeligson Debbie and Danny Zeligson Kate Karen Zeligson 7 For What Shall We Pray? BY RABBI CHARLES P. SHERMAN, D.D. TEMPLE ISRAEL abbi Arnold Turetsky observed: “A man I know and admired died this summer – suddenly, but not unexpectedly. He had an episode of this illness 13 years ago, recovered, suffered another nearly fatal attack five years ago, and wondrously recovered. He was dressing for work one morning in July when he collapsed and did not recover. “Talking with his family I learned something that should not have surprised me. The last 13 years of his life were the happiest, especially the last five years – which were savored day by day, with never a complaint. Appreciation, gratefulness – the steady awareness of a precious gift renewed. The delicious taste of a day of life lived fully... Life as a plus.” Many of us have been fearful for our lives or for that of someone we love – not just concerned, but terrified. The moment, hours, days of concentrated fear, the encounter with mortality – too soon. “Reprieve,” Rabbi Turetsky observes, “comes with a residue. Better, but not fully well. Improved, but not truly recovered. Treated, but not actually cured. The bittersweet residue reminds that life will not be the same. Therefore, it has never been so precious – each day, another week. The blessing of a new year brings deep, deep gratitude. Wasted life becomes a sin. Don’t waste a drop. No room, therefore, for anger, selfishness, greed, stinginess, impatience, nastiness, spite, jealousy, regret. That is called perspective. ‘Oh God – just to be alive.’ Must we suffer loss, a handicap to find this perspective?” In 1931 the French composer Maurice Ravel wrote two piano concertos. The first was conventional, the second was written for one hand. An important pianist had suffered a calamity – the loss of his right hand. In an act of genius and affection, Ravel composed the “Piano Concerto for the Left Hand and Orchestra.” Ravel’s work was not an artistic compromise or an emotional impulse. R Holiday Greetings Malcolm & Paula Milsten and Family Rabbi Charles P. Sherman The composition became a standard of style and disciplined beauty, a response of excitement and awe – the power of a person to rescue beauty from tragedy, to rise above, to transform weakness into strength. Is there a greater art in the human experience? This month we pray for a new year. Seriously and humbly we ask for good things – life continuing with all the blessings we have now, plus those we have not yet received. (Might as well ask.) Yet we know from previous years and from other people’s experience that we shall be lucky to keep what favors we have and be able to enjoy them. The losses around us in the last year have made more of an impression than the gains. Good things bring uplift for a few hours; bad things have a way of remaining inside. So let our prayer be for perspective, the maturity and wisdom to turn weakness into strength. That is within our power. If loss and handicap help, mortality is always around as a reminder. Do not waste your life. The past has passed. Life is a plus when you look and live forward. For all of us and those we love, may the new year bring continuing life and the blessings of a grateful spirit. We yearn for shnat chayim v’shalom – a year of life and peace. Kayn y’hi ratzon – with God’s help, may we make it so. Best Wishes Susan Fenster and Family 8 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 JCRS Scholarships Increase t o J e w i s h Yo u t h i n 2 0 0 6 With the first half of 2006 over, the Jewish Children’s Regional Service has already experienced a 55 percent increase in the number of youth it typically funds in an entire year: rising from 450 to over 700. The 150-year-old regional agency, based in Greater New Orleans, serves lower-income Jewish families in seven states of the mid-south including: Alabama, Arkansas, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Tennessee, and Texas, four of which border the Gulf Coast and battered by Hurricanes Katrina and Rita last year. The JCRS also continues to provide special subsidies for the care, treatment, and education of the most dependent and handicapped Jewish youth in seven states of the South. This program for families who can document financial need is the only one of its kind offered by a Jewish agency in the United States. Currently, fifty such youth have received 2006 subsidies in what is called the “special needs” program. By July 1, 2006, the JCRS had already approved funding for 138 such Jewish undergraduate college students and had provided “gift cards” for 27 Jewish youth whose families had shown need. Many, but not all, gift card recipients are also hurricane victims. While the camp scholarship awards for 2006 are now complete, the JCRS will continue to accept applications for all other programs and will continue to fund qualified youth until the budgets are exhausted. The best way to contact the JCRS to become a client or a needed supporter, is to e-mail the agency with a specific request to jcrs_south@ yahoo.com, call 1-800-729-5277, or write JCRS, Post Office Box 7368, Metairie, LA, 70010-7368. 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WILLIAM TABBERNEE For outstanding contributions to interfaith understanding Sponsors Jewish Federation of Tulsa Islamic Society of Tulsa Oklahoma Conference for Community and Justice Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry R.S.V.P. by September 1st 582-3147 or [email protected] $15 per person Checks payable to TMM Mail to: 221 S. Nogales Tulsa, OK 74127 SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW W h a t ' s Ha p p e n i n g a t t h e SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2006 YOUR CSJCC CALENDAR OF EVENTS AND PROGRAMS SUNDAY, SEPT. 17 CHECK OUR ONLINE CALENDAR FOR UPDATED INFORMATION. WWW.CSJCC.ORG 9 10 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 Of machzors and munitions: Jewish GIs mark High Holidays during four wars BY JANE ULMAN ENCINO, Calif., (JTA) — “Who shall live and who shall die. Who shall reach the end of his days and who shall not.” Ralph Goodman recited those words in a hillside tent in southeastern Belgium. Warren Zundell’s shul was a patch of no man’s land somewhere in North Korea. For Robert Cirkus, it was a jungle clearing in the bug-infested Central Highlands of Vietnam. And for Lee Mish, it was Saddam Hussein’s former palace. The four men have never met, but they share an uncommon bond. They represent four generations of Jewish servicemen for whom the High Holidays — and their signature “Unetanah Tokef” prayer — took on new meaning. For all Jews, the words of the emotionally charged “Unetanah Tokef” — the liturgical poem that is recited on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur which describes the consequences and challenges of the day of Judgment — are a powerful reminder of mortality. All the more so for Jews serving their country in wartime — such as Goodman, Zundell, Cirkus, and Mish — where every day is Judgment Day and where prayer, righteousness, and repentance can’t always avert a decree of death. Here are the stories of these American servicemen who observed the High Holidays not in conventional synagogues, but on far-flung battlefields. The worship services they participated in were often improvised and incomplete. But the jarring juxtaposition of war and prayer, faith and fear, continues to resonate with these men. nothing except a few prayer books. But Goodman’s commanding officer, Harry Goslee, was more accommodating. He ordered a large blackout hospital tent set up on a hillside, with chairs and a portable electric generator. For all Jews, the words of the “Unetanah Tokef” — the liturgical poem recited on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur that describes the consequences and challenges of the day of Judgment — are a powerful reminder of mortality. All the more so for Jews serving their country in wartime, where every day is Judgment Day and where prayer, righteousness, and repentance can’t always avert a decree of death. On Yom Kippur, Sept. 27, 1944, about 25 soldiers and airmen congregated in that tent. Two Orthodox laymen acted as cantor and rabbi. Goodman sat by the tent flap opening, his gun on his lap. He was juggling several different prayer books, trying to find the correct pages for “Unetanah Tokef.” He finally located the prayer and recited the words. But what he really was saying that day was, “Please, God, bring my buddies A Tent on the Side of a Hill Fays, Belgium, September 1944 “Colonel, the Jewish community wants to observe Yom Kippur. What can you do to help us?” Ralph Goodman, attached to the 1st U.S. Army’s Headquarters Commandant in Belgium, was unable to celebrate Rosh Hashanah because his unit was traveling. But Yom Kippur was fast approaching, and the 24-year-old enlistee from Pittsfield, Mass., was determined that the Jewish servicemen, now encamped at a temporary base near Verviers, Belgium, be given a place to pray. He had already approached the 1st Army’s chief chaplain, who offered Good Yo m To v from H e r i t a g e A c a d e m y Happy New Year Sylvia and Irv Braverman and me home.” Suddenly he felt a tap on his shoulder. He looked up to see a chaplain he didn’t recognize, a freshfaced, sandy-haired man about 30, who asked permission to address the troops. “How lovely are your tents, Oh Jacob,” he began, intoning the words to a prayer Jews say each morning. He talked about five minutes, thanking the men for allowing him to speak and commending them for assembling a service. Goodman thinks about that service often, proud that he and his buddies were able to make it happen. He wishes he could share another Yom Kippur with them. But 62 years later, he still regrets that he never asked the name of that fresh-faced Christian chaplain who reached out to a group of Jews on the holiest day of their year. “God bless that man,” he said. An All-Jewish Convoy North Korea, October 1951 Warren Zundell, an orthopedic surgeon with the 11th Evacuation Hospital in Wonju, South Korea, wasn’t eager to attend Rosh Hashanah services. It meant traveling 40 miles on an unpaved, mountainous road to 10th Army Corps headquarters, over the border into North Korea. Zundell, 27, had a baby daughter back in Fall River, Mass., whom he had never seen, and he didn’t want to risk encountering snipers or land mines. But Zundell was the unit’s only Jewish officer, and the Catholic chaplain on his base was insistent that Zundell escort the convoy. “There are about 30 Jewish boys around here who want to go,” said the priest, who planned to remain in Wonju at the hospital. On Rosh Hashanah eve, Sept. 30, 1951, in the priest’s jeep with a white cross painted on the hood, Zundell led the way. A few truckloads of Jewish soldiers, all heavily armed, followed. Perhaps the only all-Jewish convoy ever to travel into North Korea, they arrived safely several hours later at the camp, a war-scarred patch of ground that sported some tents and housed perhaps a few hundred soldiers. The next morning, a rabbi conducted services in a large tent, with about 300 soldiers, many who had traveled there from other units, sitting on the ground or on boxes. There was BEST WISHES FOR THE NEW YEAR Irene and Stan Burnstein & Family Teri Burnstein Dan Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kim and Rob Coretz Adam, Mindy, Tyler, Ryan, and Amy Coretz Dillon Bandit HOLIDAY GREETINGS BEST WISHES from the Joe Degen Family Gay & Will Clarkson L’ S h a n a Tova h SEE JEWISH GIS OBSERVE HIGH HOLYDAYS AT WAR, PAGE 11 Best Wishes for a Happy New Year Maynard & Judy Ungerman and Family Happy New Year Mary Sanditen Schwartz Lynn Schusterman S t eve & C a t h e r i n e Sanditen a n d Fa m i l y Hal and Ruth Schuster man Meitar Debbie Sanditen S t a c y S c h u s t e r m a n a n d S t e ve n D ow A b i ga i l , R a c h e l , H a n n a h Holiday Greetings Jay S c h u s t e r m a n a n d M a r y L e e Lauren and Haley Fenster/Sanditen Cultural Center Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art ... art, history, heritage, education SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW JEWISH GIS OBSERVE HIGH HOLYDAYS DURING FOUR WARS no ark, no Torah and no prayer books, except for the rabbi’s. “I just sat there and listened,” Zundell recalled. “I didn’t think about where I was.” After services, he traveled back to Wonju with the same soldiers. Even less enthusiastic about observing Yom Kippur, Zundell was again induced to return to the prayer site. On Yom Kippur day, the convoy again traveled above the 38th parallel, the dividing line between North and South Korea. The scene was identical to what Zundell remembered from Rosh Hashanah, except, instead of 300 soldiers in the tent, there were now 150. “Where are the other boys?” Zundell asked the servicemen sitting near him. “Heavy casualties during the week,” one of them replied. Zundell doesn’t remember his exact reaction; he remembers the service was pretty sad. Afterward, they loaded up the trucks and headed home. Since then, every Rosh Hashanah, the Coral Gables, Fla., resident sits in temple and remembers Korea. “It never leaves my mind,” he said. “I think about those boys who didn’t make it back for Yom Kippur.” tuna fish, bread, wine, and kosher rations. “We sat, we chit-chatted, and we went our separate ways,” he said. “But we knew we were all Jews.” Until 10 years ago, Cirkus was too traumatized to discuss his Vietnam experience at all. Even now, he can’t talk about all of it. But he’s able to look back on that Rosh Hashanah in the Central Highlands, where, for a short time, five Jews who didn’t know each other sat around together with a rabbi praying. “I don’t want to say it like it’s jerky, but you felt like you were being watched by God,” he said. ... every Rosh Hashanah, [Zundell] sits in temple and remembers Korea. “It never leaves my mind. I think about those boys who didn’t make it back for Yom Kippur.” A Jungle Clearing Central Highlands, Vietnam, September 1966 While stationed in Vietnam with the 25th infantry, Robert Cirkus often didn’t know what day it was. But somehow the 21-year-old draftee from Passaic, N.J., knew the High Holidays were coming. And he knew he wanted to attend services. A rabbi was dispatched to the forward base camp in the Central Highlands where Cirkus was working as a weapons repairman. Around noon on Rosh Hashanah, Sept. 15, 1966, Cirkus, three infantrymen and a medic, all strangers to one another, gathered together in a cleared-out jungle area. The rabbi set up a small ark on a bench in the back of his open Jeep. Inside was a traveling Torah. Cirkus and the others sat on the ground in the hot sun, the air muggy and buginfested. He wore a tallit over his uniform, holding his submachine gun and his prayer book on his lap. Cirkus, who now lives in Clifton, N.J., remembers that the service was truncated and that he and the others were not really at ease. They were praying, but they were also alert to every sound, especially gunshots off in the jungle. He knows he wasn’t thinking about life and death. Or about Judgment Day. He didn’t want to think about what was really going on. Afterward, the rabbi handed out cans of Saddam’s Palace Tikrit, Iraq, Sept. 2004 September 2004 was a tense time in Tikrit, Iraq, where special agent Lee Mish was stationed. Roads were impassable, bridges were blown up, and food and water were rationed. Plus, with flights grounded, the rabbi assigned to Tikrit couldn’t leave Baghdad. Despite these obstacles, Rosh Hashanah eve services were held on September 15. And Mish, 27, a Conservative Jew from Sharon, Mass., who enlisted in the army nine years ago, walked to Saddam Hussein’s former palace, now under control of the U.S. military. There, in a large room with marble floors and ceilings and a gold chandelier, a room once used by Saddam’s servants, Mish encountered three other Jews. They included a captain who served as the Jewish lay leader, a sergeant and a civilian contractor. Wearing kippot, the uniformed men sat around a card table on folding chairs, their guns by their sides. For about 20 minutes, they read from prayer books sent by Hebrew school students in Wisconsin. Mish doesn’t remember the specifics, but he recalls saying CONTINUED FROM PAGE 10 prayers for all the soldiers and being aware of Rosh Hashanah’s message of mortality. “When you’re in a situation where your friend are dying, where people all around you are dying, any time you pray, it hits home more,” he said. Afterward they shared a bottle of wine and ate some “normal food,” including bagels with jelly. They also read Rosh Hashanah cards that the students had decorated with honey pots and apples and inscribed with messages such as “Be safe” and “Hope you come back soon.” Inside the holiday cards, the students had placed prepaid phone cards. Despite its informality, that service resonated with Mish, now stationed in Wurzburg, Germany. Rosh Hashanah had always been important to him, a way of confirming his Jewishness. But being in Iraq had given him more time to reflect on death and destruction, and he was feeling more religious while stationed there. Also, he had recently learned from his Iraqi translator, who was born and raised in Mosul, Iraq, that during Saddam’s reign, the Jews in that area were barred from observing holidays in public and were forced to celebrate secretly in their homes. 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In Judaism, God is in the details, and one of the most important details is everyday courtesy. The rabbis teach that respectfulness and courtesy are redeeming virtues even when the Jewish people do not fulfill the other precepts of the Torah. They call these practices derech eretz, and say: “A Torah scholar who does not have derech eretz is worse than a dead animal.” Whoa, Nelly. In our competitive, overscheduled world, we so often get in the habit of looking for shortcuts and finding creative justifications for breaking rules and putting our own needs ahead of those of the community — that it’s easy to forget that our children are watching. You need look no further than the carpool drop-off lane at your child’s school to know exactly what I’m talking about. All of us do things we don’t want our children to emulate, more often than we realize and often in undramatic, everyday ways. The High Holidays are a good time to switch gears and to find ways to practice derech eretz, beginning with the details of daily living. Our sages have plenty of suggestions for how to do this. The rules are as sensitive, countercultural, and ethically sharp today as they were 2,000 years ago. Here are some of my personal favorites. * To protect a rabbi from possible embarrassment, you shouldn’t ask a question if you suspect he may not know the answer. * Invite guests to Shabbat dinner by Wednesday so they won’t think the invitation is an afterthought. * When dancing on certain holidays, some of the daughters of the rich would exchange dresses with the daughters of the poor in order that the latter would not be embarrassed. * Laws of lashon hara prohibit gossip, even in its most subtle, peripheral form, called avak lashon hara, the dust of gossip. For example, the rabbis warn us never to praise anyone too highly because too much praise can invite the other person to compare the image you're presenting to his own. To these venerable laws I would like to add three suggestions of my own that will give parents nowadays frequent opportunities to teach by example. 1. A parent must lay down his or her phone when greeting his child after school. The laws of derech eretz state that when in public, you should try to greet others as soon as you spot them so they won’t think you’re ignoring them or trying to avoid them. Your child deserves as much consideration. 2. It is forbidden to cut ahead in the carpool line. Why? Because it is a theft of time. The Babylonian Talmud explores the problem of two boats simultaneously approaching a bottleneck in a river. If it is impossible for both to pass together, they should compromise in the following way: one boat goes first, and the captain of this boat compensates the second boat for the time that it lost waiting. What is your compensation for waiting your turn in the carpool lane? The knowledge that you are teaching your child patience and courtesy. 3. A mother or father shall not fib on a child’s behalf, not even to maintain the purity of the college transcript. I hear stunning examples of parents who commit unethical acts in the name of helping their children — the father who signed his daughter’s name to an e-mail he wrote to her English teacher contesting a grade; the mother who rewrote her son’s college application essay without his knowledge; the parents who research and even write their children’s papers for them. The rabbis say that one should not break a promise to a child, because doing so will teach the child to lie. If you tweak the rules for your children, you are breaking the agreement you made with them when they were young. Back then, you taught them to tell the truth. When they see your hypocrisy, they will lose respect for you, imitate your behavior, or both. The commandment to honor one’s parents helps elevate the laws of derech eretz to prominence in our High Holiday inventory. We can ask, “Do I deserve the reverence of my child? Am I the kind of parent my child can learn from and be proud of?” Whatever motivates you — your entry ticket to the gates of heaven, how your children will treat your grandchildren, or your child’s next letter of recommendation — this is the time to think about not only crimes but misdemeanors and, if we are right by the rabbis, even dust. Wendy Mogel is a clinical psychologist. She is the author of “The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teaching to Raise Self-reliant Children.” PREGNANT HERO OF SEATTLE SHOOTING CONTINUED FROM PAGE 5 “Somewhere in my mind, I had the information I needed and because I was able to stay calm, everything rushed to the surface and I was able to do what I needed to do,” she recalled. The gunman caught her, infuriated. He cursed at her, pointed a gun at her head, took her hostage, and launched into an anti-Semitic diatribe. He then demanded to speak with CNN. She thrust the phone at him with the 911 operators still on the line. He took it and talked with the operators. He relented. He put the gun down, and walked out. “One very unhappy person sadly took his aggression out and manifested his racism by hurting me and my friends and my community, and I do not blame Israel nor would I ever blame Israel,” she said. “Israel is such a scapegoat to so many people who are just racists.” The alleged shooter, Naveed Haq, pleaded not guilty on August 15, and is being held on nine counts, including aggravated homicide and malicious harassment. The Kings County prosecuting attorney, Norm Maleng, has 30 days to decide whether Haq will face the death penalty. Klein, who has a master’s degree in social work, credits her confidence and aplomb to her training in crisis intervention and the skills she learned as a director of the American Red Cross. “It’s what saved my life, it saved my baby’s life, and I hope I saved a lot of other people’s lives in the process — and it’s just because I had little bit more knowledge than the next guy and was able to use it when I needed to,” she said. As the SWAT team escorted her out the building, she saw her close friend and the federation’s campaign director, Waechter, sprawled on the stairs. Waechter died in the shooting, which injured four other women, in addition to Klein. “The most important thing to me is to maintain the integrity of Pam’s legacy. Pam truly does have a legacy on Seattle’s Jewish community,” Klein said of her friend and colleague. Klein is transforming the tragedy into a lesson plan while trying to heal from the physical and psychological wounds, offering to visit any Jewish organization to encourage that security precautions be taken and emergency planning provided. “Balancing being a heroine and recovering from what could potentially be a lifelong disability, you know, to me. I’m going to take these really horrible lemons and make a hell of a glass of lemonade, and hopefully just be able to save more people.’’ A fund has been established to assist victims and families of the July 28 shooting at the Seattle Jewish federation. Donors can visit www.jewishinseattle.org to make a contribution. The fund is being administered through the Jewish Community Federation of San Francisco. Some of the funds may also be used to assist in renovation and security costs for the federation's offices. B’nai B’rith Lodge Donates Kiosk to the CSJCC B'NAI B'RITH LODGE #798 PRESIDENT AARON MAISSELL AND MARVIN MENCHER stand in front of the kiosk that the Lodge recently donated to the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Holiday Greetings Sincere Best Wishes For Peace, Prosperity and Good Health in This New Year MR. AND MRS. HERBERT J. MILLER AND FAMILY MR. AND MRS. BRUCE MAGOON AND FAMILY MR. AND MRS. JOEL JANKOWSKY AND FAMILY WASHINGTON, D.C. MRS. SUE MCCOY AND FAMILY SAN JOSE, CA THE CHOZEN FAMILIES The Adelson Family Ellen and Steve Carol and David Joe, Annie & Peter Marta and Bob Carlin, Daniel & Leah Susannah and Jim Caroline, Elizabeth & Eve Julie and Tom Emily, Andrew, Sam & Jack Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Heyman and Family SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW 13 University of Tulsa President Discusses Jewish-Related Activities on TU Campus The following is a excerpt of a message delivered on Brotherhood Shabbat, June 9, at Temple Israel BY DR. STEADMAN UPHAM, PRESIDENT, UNIVERSITY OF TULSA The Chronicle of Higher Education ran a story heralding “a golden age of Jewishness on campuses.” That was the assessment of Chaim Seidler-Feller, executive director of the Hillel chapter at UCLA. He made the statement in Washington at Hillel’s first university summit, which drew participants from several Jewish organizations. (TU’s Dean Robert Butkin and Professor Joli Jensen attended the Hillel summit as Charles and Lynn Schusterman Scholars). While recognizing that some Middle East studies programs have an anti-Israel bias, and that antiSemitic incidents do still happen on America’s campuses, Seidler-Feller, nevertheless, found encouragement in the rise of Jewish studies programs, the professional advancement of Jewish academics, and student interest across the nation. This is good news, and not entirely surprising. Why is it not surprising? Because the traditions of scholarship, mutual responsibility, and philanthropy that run so deep within the Jewish community are natural allies of education. The traditional liberal-arts education is rooted in discovery, guided by conscience, enlightened by tradition, and fulfilled in service. I believe that these values form the basis for a fertile partnership between higher education and the Jewish community. Here in Tulsa, that partnership has been a tremendous boon for TU. We have benefitted greatly through the years from the active involvement and support of Jewish students, faculty members, administrators, and benefactors. Nurturing and developing the connections between TU and the Jewish community is an ongoing priority for the university. We continue to mark the growth of this relationship with auspicious milestones, and the past year is no exception. In March of this year, TU opened Hillel House. Our students now have a dedicated space on campus at 6th and Gary, with dining and meeting rooms, an administrative office, and a vegetarian kitchen. Our students have been using the house since last fall, in fact. Their activities have included regular Shabbat dinners, a Hanukkah party, and a Passover Seder. In a somewhat less traditional vein, our students also held a TV HOLIDAY GREETINGS ROSALIE AND PETER CHILDS marathon featuring the popular series, “Curb Your Enthusiasm!” TU’s Hillel House was furnished with gifts from the Tulsa community, and I would like to take this opportunity to thank those of you who so generously supported this project. Your gifts are enriching the college years and spiritual lives of our Jewish students. I particularly want to say Yasher ko-ach! to Professors Estelle Levetin Avery and Martin Belsky for their service to TU Jewish life, and for their leadership in the Hillel House and other projects. Our students benefit both from their efforts and from their example. Thank you also to Professor Joli Jensen, who, as advisor to Hillel, has her hands increasingly full. We look forward to another lively year as our students return this fall. Beyond the activities at Hillel House, TU Hillel teamed with our United Campus Ministries and the Muslim Student Association to sponsor the recent “Stand Up for Peace” charity benefit. In other positive news, we are developing connections with Hillel at the University of Oklahoma. Professor Jensen and others are working with OU Hillel Director Jeremy Cassius to plan joint programs and events. It will be interesting to watch this collaboration grow, and we look forward to seeing what our advisors and students devise. As far as we can determine, this fall will mark the very first time in TU’s 99-year history that modern Hebrew will be offered on campus. Ofira Shoham will teach the course; she is the wife of Ovadia Shoham, who is TU’s Floyd M. Stevenson Distinguished Presidential Chair in Petroleum Engineering. This auspicious step coincides with the creation of our Certificate Program in Judaic Studies, which our curriculum committee approved this spring. This is an 18-hour program that gives students the opportunity to tailor their studies with courses in literature and the arts, history, philosophy, and religion. Course offerings include topics such as the Jewish experience in literature and film, contemporary Jewish thought, Shoah studies, and Jewish-Christian relations. Jay Geller, TU assistant professor of history, directs the certificate program and has been instrumental in its development and implementation. Professor Geller also serves on the board of the Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art, along with Jacob Howland, our McFarlin Endowed Professor of Philosophy. The museum is and will continue to be an essential resource for our faculty and students, particularly as our Judaic studies program solidifies and gains momentum. This coming academic year, TU’s College of Law will have a very strong focus on Jewish law. Thanks to a generous gift from the Lubell family, TU will welcome Dr. Menachem Dr. Steadman Upham Lorberbaum, a visiting professor of philosophy from Tel Aviv University. Professor Lorberbaum will be teaching a course on Jewish law. The College of Law will also be hosting the Lillie Goldstein Collection of rare Jewish law texts in the spring of 2007. Dean Butkin is organizing public lectures with Professor Lorberbaum that focus on the Goldstein Collection and how these texts reveal Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform traditions of the law. When we look at the growth of Judaic scholarship and Jewish student life at TU, we can be pleased that the Chronicle’s optimistic report bears out in our community. There are many steps ahead. Our recent progress in supporting Jewish student life and in advancing Judaic studies has already begun deepening dialogue on campus. TU is committed to incorporating the richness of the Jewish heritage into an educational experience that broadens the horizons of every TU student. I am equally pleased to be able to thank you for the strong support that you have shown the University of Tulsa. That support comes in many forms, not only financial, but also in the hospitality that you show our students by welcoming them into your congregation and into your homes. Your help is greatly valued and appreciated, and will continue to play a central role in making the University of Tulsa a favored destination for students seeking a dynamic college experience. SINCERE WISHES FOR A HEALTHY & HAPPY NEW YEAR Holiday Greetings MARIAN L. RICH & FAMILY Gete Weisman and Family B F O R L Shana Tovah Zoe Weinstein Josh and Lillian Price Robert and Nancy Cohen & Family Mia Weinstein New Year Greetings LYNN, BRETT ELLIOT, and Evan WEINSTEIN Happy New Year Sylvia Oberstein and Family Best Wishes for the New Year Karen Roubal Zachary Jakob Rose & Sheldon Miller Kenny and Kym Watt Debbie and Robert deLeeuw Chicago Jeanne Jacobs and Family Holiday Greetings Rose Schlanger Andrea Schlanger Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Selzer Lori Selzer Scott and Melissa Selzer Sydney & Hayley Barbara and Dave Sylvan L’SHANAH TOVAH I S H E S E W Y E A R Mr. and Mrs. Wynn Wozobski Lizzie and Emily Bryan and Patty Watt New Year Greetings W N Frieda Schuman Daniel and Vida Schuman Nina Marc and Camille Schuman Ben and Isabelle Joel and Rebecca Aronoff Best Wishes Elizabeth Jeffery E S T T H E A Happy, Healthy New Year Irene and Irving Fenster and Family GOOD YOM TOV Larry and Elisha Selzer Erika & Lindsey R.J Marshall & Frieda Grossbard Marilyn & Jack Metzger Asher, Maya, Lia & Noa Metzger Paul & Lauren Grossbard Evelyn & Roger Medvin Sara & Seth Medvin 14 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 What’s Nu? CONTINUED FROM PAGE 3 A new young-Jewish leadership program is being launched with a reconstruction campaign in Israel's north. The first initiative of the Center for Leadership Initiatives, funded by Tulsa, Okla.-based philanthropist (and former Jewish Federation of Tulsa president) Lynn Schusterman, will be a $1.5 million project that “will bring 500 young Jewish adults from around the world to northern Israel,” a release said. “Participants will help repair damage inflicted during the recent conflict.” The home of Norway's wartime leader, a nazi collaborator, has been turned into a Holocaust museum. The villa of Vikdun Quisling, who was executed in 1945 after leading a puppet government that supported the nazis, now houses the Center for Studies of the Holocaust and Religious Minorities, inaugurated in August by Norway's Queen Sonja and Princess MetteMarit. The center will focus on the Holocaust and feature displays on the persecution of minorities in Africa, Armenia, Cambodia, the Balkans, and Rwanda. The renovated villa was given to the Jewish community by the Norwegian government five years ago. Some 800 Jews, about half the country's pre-war population, were killed in the Holocaust. An Israeli woman wounded in a Hezbollah rocket attack was saved by her breast implants, according to a hospital spokesman. “This is an extraordinary case, but it's a fact that the silicone implants prevented her from a more serious and deeper wound,” Jacky Govrin of the Nahariya hospital, which treated the woman, told Israel Army Radio. Doctors found shrapnel, only inches from the 24-year-old woman's heart, embedded in the implants. The son of a man killed at Auschwitz has taken legal action against Poland’s Auschwitz Museum to obtain his father's suitcase, the Sunday Times of London reported. Michel Levi-Leleu spotted his father's suitcase at an exhibition in Paris on the Holocaust that contained items borrowed from Poland's state-run Auschwitz Museum. His father's name and prisoner number are on the suitcase, and the Auschwitz Museum agrees that they were his, according to the Times. Levi-Leleu had last seen the suitcase in 1943 when he was three and his father was deported. The museum is seeking to keep the suitcase in an effort to preserve the memory of the Holocaust. The Times said the case is the first in which a relative has demanded something back from the Auschwitz Museum, and officials there worry that the case could set a precedent. A man who was on the ship Exodus turned 100 in Israel. Leon Hershlikowicz celebrated his centenary in Tel Aviv on August 14. Hershlikowicz survived two world wars, the Holocaust, and a stint as a prisoner in Russia before moving to Israel. The Exodus, made famous in Leon Uris' novel, was turned away from British Mandate Palestine in 1947, but the passengers eventually immigrated to Israel. A grant will help preserve items related to the heyday of Yiddish theater in the United States. The Eli and Edythe L. Broad Foundation made the $186,000 gift to help restore items such as programs, photographs and props, The New York Times reported. The items recently were given to the YIVO Institute for Jewish Research in New York, which had been looking for donations to restore them so they can be displayed. (JTA) “Tulsa Jewish Community Directory” 2007 Issue in Preparation B’nai B’rith Lodge # 798 has mailed its Directory Change Form to the Tulsa Jewish community for the 2007 issue of the “Tulsa Jewish Community Directory.” The 2007 issue will have space for e-mail addresses. Therefore, if you want this information included in the next issue, go to www.burkhartsop.com/brith.htm, and to help avoid errors, list the information yourself. Please mail back the Directory Change Form with changes and/or corrections (addresses, names, etc.) by Sept.15, 2006. Call Marvin Mencher with questions at 494-8661. COMMUNITY CALENDAR READ THE T U L S A J E W I S H R E V I E W O N -L I N E AT WWW.JEWISHTULSA.ORG Temple Israel ShalomFest 2006 Set for Sunday, September 10 Family-oriented Festival of Jewish Culture Now in its thirteenth year, ShalomFest continues its family-friendly hospitality beginning at noon until 7 p.m., Sunday, September 10, at Temple Israel. This unique and free event offers special sights, sounds, and flavors of Israel and Jewish culture. Have a snack or stay for lunch and dinner. A variety of tasty treats will be available throughout the day, served a la carte. Enjoy Israeli-style falafel and hummus, borekas (Israeli pastry), cabbage rolls, kosher hot dogs, corned beef sandwiches, Hungarian cucumber salad, and much, much more. Throughout the day, there will be a joyous traditional and contemporary music program. It will include Rebecca Ungerman, Jon Glazer, Debbye Zanerhaft, and more. Children’s activities include a Jupiter Jump, face painting, and kids’ crafts. Exhibits and ceremonies with be available for visitors and include Jewish holiday and life-cycle demonstrations, ritual art, Israeli exhibits, and groups tours of Temple Israel. For those wishing to find items for the home or as gifts, there will be plenty of Judaica jewelry from Israel, arts and crafts, and Jewish books, literature, and music on display and for sale during the event. Call Temple Israel at 747-1309, or visit ShalomFest 2006 at www.shalomfest.com “Prairie Landsmen: The Jews of Oklahoma” Photo Exhibit to Open in September To help celebrate the 40th anniversary of the establishment of The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art (originally The Gershon and Rebecca Fenster Gallery of Jewish Art), and to introduce the museum’s special exhibit produced for the state’s Centennial Celebration of statehood, the museum will exhibit the photography of Tulsan David Halpern. Through “Prairie Landsmen: B’NAI EMUNAH EMOONIES TO HOLD ROSH HASHANAH YOM TOV LUNCHEON SEPTEMBER 24 On Sunday, September 24, the second day of Rosh Hashanah, young couples and singles throughout the community are invited to join the B’nai Emunah Emoonies for a delicious luncheon in a relaxed and joyful home atmosphere. The lunch will begin this year at 1 p.m. following services, allowing ample time to participate in Tashlich observance at Swan Lake. Cost for the luncheon is $7.50. The B’nai Emoonies are a group of young couples and singles in the Tulsa Jewish community, who gather for holidays and special occasions. All are invited and welcome to participate in any Emoonie event. Contact Greg Raskin at [email protected] with questions and for location details. To make reservations, contact Suzanne at suzanne@bnaiemu nah.com, or call 583-7121. Of blessed memory... Dr. Allen N. Zeff died July 26, 2006. A U.S. Navy World War II veteran, longtime Tulsa dentist, and member of Congregation B’nai Emunah, Dr. Zeff is survived by his wife of many years, Rita; children, Michelle Zeff, Sharisse O’Carroll, Loring Zeff, Ivette Cohen, Brichet Zeff, Dorrin Zeff, and Brianna Zeff; six grandchildren; brother, Lester Zeff; and sister-inlaw, Estelle Aberson. The Jews of Oklahoma,” Halpern shares insights into Jewish life in small-town Oklahoma. The opening reception is scheduled for Thursday, September 14, beginning at 5:30 p.m. Mr. Halpern will be presenting a gallery talk on this special collaborative project that he and other museum members created with museums across the state. RSVP by calling 492-1818. SAVE THE DATE OCTOBER 28 TULSA JEWISH RETIREMENT AND HEALTH CARE CENTER PRESENTS SATURDAY NIGHT SWING with music by Sounds of Music Orchestra Look for more information in the October TJR! SEPT. 1, 2006 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW 15 COMMUNITY CALENDAR READ THE T U L S A J E W I S H R E V I E W O N -L I N E AT WWW.JEWISHTULSA.ORG David Mosley to Become a Bar Mitzvah Michael Lang to Celebrate His Bar Mitzvah M at Temple Israel on Saturday, Sept. 2, 2006, beginning at 10 a.m. Michael is in the seventh grade at Carver Middle School. He plays first base on the Carver baseball team. In addition, Michael plays ice hockey and is a member of the Spanish Club. Celebrating with Michael will be his grandmothers, Terry Fein and Allene Lang. Other family and special friends will be joining Michael for this joyous occasion. In honor of Michael’s Bar Mitzvah, he is donating to his ongoing project, the Eastern Oklahoma Community Food Bank. Michael Lang The community is invited to join ichael Halden Lang, son of Michael and his family for services Lisa Lang and Chris Lang, and the Kiddush to follow. will become a Bar Mitzvah Cong re ga tions to Hold Selichot Ser vices September 16 Congregation B’nai Emunah to Celebrate Selichot Selichot Services are the traditional prelude to the High Holidays, a vestibule through which the community passes on its way to the satisfactions of repentance and renewal. Coming a week before Rosh Hashanah, Selichot is part of the season of turning, a transition which calls for focus and readiness. Congregation B’nai Emunah invites the whole community to attend Selichot Services on Saturday evening, September 16. Following the brief Mincha service at 6:30 p.m., the evening will continue with a se’udah shelishit (final Shabbat meal) at 6:45 p.m. Following the meal at 8 p.m., the Congregation will present a special dinner theater concert of solo performances comprised of music appropriate to the season. Featured participants will include Cantor Rafi Dworsky, Jon Glazer, and Michele and Jeff Cowen. At 9 p.m., the evening will continue with Selichot, an hour-long service which introduces the motifs of the High Holidays and sets the musical mood of the liturgy. This year, for the third time, the Selichot service will feature the music of Klay Kodesh. The service will conclude with the blowing of the shofar by the large group of volunteer shofar blowers trained at CBE. Reservations for this meal may be made by calling Suzanne at B’nai Emunah, at 583-7121 or at [email protected]. The cost is modest and special arrangements can be made for those of limited means. Childcare arrangements can be made at least two days prior to the event, or at the time of your reservation, and are available for no additional charge. Temple Israel to Conduct Selichot Service The practice of rising late at night to recite penitential prayers on the Saturday before Rosh Hashanah is based on Psalm 119:62. I arise at midnight to praise You for Your just rules. In some communities it was customary for the shamash to make rounds of the Jewish homes, knocking three times on every door and crying: “Israel, O holy folk. Awake, arouse yourselves and rise to the service of the Creator.” The Temple Israel Selichot Service is an introduction to the prayers, themes, and musical motifs of the Yamim Noraim – the holiest days of the Jewish year. A dessert reception will begin at 8 p.m., followed by Havdalah. The Selichot Service in the Convocation Center will begin at 9 p.m. and conclude by 10 p.m. All are welcome to attend this beautiful and moving service. Temple Israel’s Young Kehillah to Meet (and Eat) Young Kehillah, a group for singles, couples, and those with young families, is getting together for a pre-Selichot dinner and shmooze at Kilkenny’s Irish Pub on Cherry Street at 6:30 p.m., on September 16. Immediately following dinner, the group will join others for the dessert reception at Temple Israel, followed by Havdalah and the moving Selichot service. RSVP to Cantor Kari at 299-7873 or [email protected]. Join the Temple Israel Young Kehillah for a fun and spiritual evening. A great way to start the High Holiday season! Welcome Home Service For Jewish Campers to be Held at B’nai Emunah Congregation B’nai Emunah will begin the school year with a special edition of Kids’ Shabbat focused on Jewish summer camping, on Friday, September 15. B’nai Emunah will officially welcome home with services and dinner all campers who have spent time at Ramah Darom, Camp Shalom, and the many other Jewish summer camps and programs to which parents send their youngsters. Financial support for these programs comes from many sources, including Congregation B’nai Emunah, the Jewish Federation of Tulsa, Temple Israel, and the Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation. Members and friends may come for Evening Services at 7 p.m., or participate in a special Shabbat chicken dinner at 6:15 p.m.; cost for adults is $10 per person, and for children and tots priced accordingly. Make dinner reservations by calling 583-7121, or to Suzanne D’Eath at [email protected]. avid Isaac Mosley, son of Brent and Deborah Mosley, will celebrate his Bar Mitzvah on Sept. 9, 2006, at Congregation B’nai Emunah. This date corresponds to 16 Elul 5766. David is a sophomore at Catoosa High School. He is a member of the varsity football and baseball teams. David also enjoys playing the saxophone. He attends Midrasha, the B’nai Israel Studies Program. Joining David for his simcha will be his sister, Lily, and his maternal grandparents, Sonja and David Murphy. He will also be joined by many friends and family from around the country. David will be participating in the B’nai Tzedek program for one of his mitzvah projects and also will be donating 40 copies of Eli Wiesel’s D Temple to Remember “Forgotten Refugees” September 8 When one speaks of Middle Eastern refugees, most people think immediately of the Palestinians. However, it is not well-known that there were more Jews displaced from Arab countries since 1948 than Palestinian refugees. Once vibrant and vital Jewish communities no longer exist. The invisible exiles – one million Jews dispossessed from their homes, their communities and their culture – should not be forgotten. At the Oneg Shabbat following the 8 p.m. Temple Israel Shabbat Service on September 8, a new film, "The Forgotten Refugees," will be shown. This is an important segment of modern Jewish history which we all need to know much more about. Community members and friends are invited to attend. Mazel Tov! BIRTH Kate and Dr. Elon Jeffy, a son, Oliver Solomon, born July 25, 2006. Grandparents are Anita and Ed Ulrich, Shari and Mike Burks, and Elaine and Allan Jeffy. David Mosley “Night” and other Holocaust educational resources to Catoosa High School. The community is invited to join David and his family for services, beginning at 9 a.m., and a dessert Kiddush following services. Wedding Held Phillip and Holly Burger Phillip Burger and Holly Kirby were married on July 22, 2006. Phillip is the son of Shirley and Willie Burger of Tulsa and brother of Rachel Burger of San Diego, Calif. Holly Kirby is originally from Oklahoma City. The wedding ceremony and reception were at the Tulsa Marriott Southern Hills, Judge Merl Whitebook officiating. Cantor Kari SiegelEglash was the soloist, accompanied by Michele and Jeff Cowen. Rabbi Charles P. Sherman offered a blessing during the ceremony. Phillip and Holly honeymooned in the Riviera Maya and now reside in Bentonville, Ark. High Holy Days at Temple Israel Our Services are filled with Inspiration & Beautiful Music Our Doors are Open. You are Invited! We look forward to welcoming all Temple members, guests, newcomers, and those who would like to share in our Reform Jewish worship. Rosh Hashanah: Friday,Sept.22,8 p.m.;Saturday,Sept.23,10 a.m. Yom Kippur: Sunday, Oct. 1, 8 p.m.; Monday, Oct. 2, 10 a.m. Services continue through the afternoon, concluding with Yizkor and Neilah TEMPLE ISRAEL 2004 East 22nd Place, just south of Utica Square 747-1309 A Reform Congregation affiliated with the Union For Reform Judaism 16 TULSA JEWISH REVIEW SEPT. 1, 2006 See the VANELi Fall and Winter Collection of shoes, boots, and evening shoes at BROUSE’S, where we specialize in selection, service, sizes, and quality. Most styles come in sizes B 4 to 11, N 5 to 11, S 6 to 11. BROUSE’S 1718 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114-1400 918-742-3301 Monday-Saturday 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. VISA, MC, AMX, DISC Happy Holydays Jenny R. Brouse and Brian E. Brouse